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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know Fresh Prince was huge with white audiences, but I wonder if it was watched as widely by black tv viewers. On a continuum of sitcoms starring black families, ranked by percentage of viewers who were white v black, my inclination would be to put The Fresh Prince at the \"higher percentage white\" end, The Cosby Show and Family Matters would fall somewhere near the middle, while all of the Tyler Perry sitcoms are at the opposite end of the spectrum. \n\nI'm wondering if this inclination seems accurate to anyone else, though, particularly black people and those with (even admittedly anecdotal) experience with tv viewing trends of black households."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know Fresh Prince was huge with white audiences, but I wonder if it was watched as widely by black tv viewers. On a continuum of sitcoms starring black families, ranked by percentage of viewers who were white v black, my inclination would be to put The Fresh Prince at the \"higher percentage white\" end, The Cosby Show and Family Matters would fall somewhere near the middle, while all of the Tyler Perry sitcoms are at the opposite end of the spectrum. \n\nI'm wondering if this inclination seems accurate to anyone else, though, particularly black people and those with (even admittedly anecdotal) experience with tv viewing trends of black households."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know Fresh Prince was huge with white audiences, but I wonder if it was watched as widely by black tv viewers. On a continuum of sitcoms starring black families, ranked by percentage of viewers who were white v black, my inclination would be to put The Fresh Prince at the \"higher percentage white\" end, The Cosby Show and Family Matters would fall somewhere near the middle, while all of the Tyler Perry sitcoms are at the opposite end of the spectrum. \n\nI'm wondering if this inclination seems accurate to anyone else, though, particularly black people and those with (even admittedly anecdotal) experience with tv viewing trends of black households."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know Fresh Prince was huge with white audiences, but I wonder if it was watched as widely by black tv viewers. On a continuum of sitcoms starring black families, ranked by percentage of viewers who were white v black, my inclination would be to put The Fresh Prince at the \"higher percentage white\" end, The Cosby Show and Family Matters would fall somewhere near the middle, while all of the Tyler Perry sitcoms are at the opposite end of the spectrum. \n\nI'm wondering if this inclination seems accurate to anyone else, though, particularly black people and those with (even admittedly anecdotal) experience with tv viewing trends of black households."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, thank you for taking your time to look at my question. \n\nI am a single man around 25, my mom is around 65 (I was born when she was in her 40). Since I am her son it was my duty to take care of her. I absolutely love her and do not mind making the effort to look after her. (After all, she has sacrificed so much to raise me and my sister.)\n\nHowever, as my mom getting old she started to talk a lot (like A LOT). And it is really not much of a conversation, more of a monologue. I could literally respond \"yes/ yeah\" and she can still go on for hours about my job, sister marriage, her previous works or how awesome she was (mom was an ex environment scientist/ boss at her department).\n\nThing is day after day, I am starting to get irritated with her constant ramble and I do not know how to deal with them. I understand how much lonely she must feel the last 20 years (my dad kinda went missing when I was born and I had not appreciated her enough until realizing how old she is now). But the non-stop talking is driving me nuts and I felt somewhat scared to come home after work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, thank you for taking your time to look at my question. \n\nI am a single man around 25, my mom is around 65 (I was born when she was in her 40). Since I am her son it was my duty to take care of her. I absolutely love her and do not mind making the effort to look after her. (After all, she has sacrificed so much to raise me and my sister.)\n\nHowever, as my mom getting old she started to talk a lot (like A LOT). And it is really not much of a conversation, more of a monologue. I could literally respond \"yes/ yeah\" and she can still go on for hours about my job, sister marriage, her previous works or how awesome she was (mom was an ex environment scientist/ boss at her department).\n\nThing is day after day, I am starting to get irritated with her constant ramble and I do not know how to deal with them. I understand how much lonely she must feel the last 20 years (my dad kinda went missing when I was born and I had not appreciated her enough until realizing how old she is now). But the non-stop talking is driving me nuts and I felt somewhat scared to come home after work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, thank you for taking your time to look at my question. \n\nI am a single man around 25, my mom is around 65 (I was born when she was in her 40). Since I am her son it was my duty to take care of her. I absolutely love her and do not mind making the effort to look after her. (After all, she has sacrificed so much to raise me and my sister.)\n\nHowever, as my mom getting old she started to talk a lot (like A LOT). And it is really not much of a conversation, more of a monologue. I could literally respond \"yes/ yeah\" and she can still go on for hours about my job, sister marriage, her previous works or how awesome she was (mom was an ex environment scientist/ boss at her department).\n\nThing is day after day, I am starting to get irritated with her constant ramble and I do not know how to deal with them. I understand how much lonely she must feel the last 20 years (my dad kinda went missing when I was born and I had not appreciated her enough until realizing how old she is now). But the non-stop talking is driving me nuts and I felt somewhat scared to come home after work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, thank you for taking your time to look at my question. \n\nI am a single man around 25, my mom is around 65 (I was born when she was in her 40). Since I am her son it was my duty to take care of her. I absolutely love her and do not mind making the effort to look after her. (After all, she has sacrificed so much to raise me and my sister.)\n\nHowever, as my mom getting old she started to talk a lot (like A LOT). And it is really not much of a conversation, more of a monologue. I could literally respond \"yes/ yeah\" and she can still go on for hours about my job, sister marriage, her previous works or how awesome she was (mom was an ex environment scientist/ boss at her department).\n\nThing is day after day, I am starting to get irritated with her constant ramble and I do not know how to deal with them. I understand how much lonely she must feel the last 20 years (my dad kinda went missing when I was born and I had not appreciated her enough until realizing how old she is now). But the non-stop talking is driving me nuts and I felt somewhat scared to come home after work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, thank you for taking your time to look at my question. \n\nI am a single man around 25, my mom is around 65 (I was born when she was in her 40). Since I am her son it was my duty to take care of her. I absolutely love her and do not mind making the effort to look after her. (After all, she has sacrificed so much to raise me and my sister.)\n\nHowever, as my mom getting old she started to talk a lot (like A LOT). And it is really not much of a conversation, more of a monologue. I could literally respond \"yes/ yeah\" and she can still go on for hours about my job, sister marriage, her previous works or how awesome she was (mom was an ex environment scientist/ boss at her department).\n\nThing is day after day, I am starting to get irritated with her constant ramble and I do not know how to deal with them. I understand how much lonely she must feel the last 20 years (my dad kinda went missing when I was born and I had not appreciated her enough until realizing how old she is now). But the non-stop talking is driving me nuts and I felt somewhat scared to come home after work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I do have anxiety, I worry about things, I get stressed often from university. My boyfriend and I had a rocky start in our relationship, but we are good now and I feel like as time has progressed our relationship has become stronger. We have been going out for 6 months officially, 'dated' for 5 months prior to being official.\n\nHe has a group of friends and all have a common interest, I think they're all single and they go out clubbing (most of the time my boyfriend doesn't go because he's not a big fan) and to parties together. When he goes to parties and clubbing I get paranoid that he will talk to girls and the girls will hit on him and all those things. Especially because the girls he meets through his friends all share the same common interest as him (where as I don't - but I try to take an interest in it for him).\n\nI let him go to parties/clubbing of course as I know that freedom in a relationship is important and I don't want to be overbearing or clingy. But I can't help but to get worried and think of the worst. I do trust him now on a whole, but because of the rocky start we had, I can't help but to doubt it. These are irrational worries because he has made it clear that he wants to be with me and I know he cares about me.\n\nShould I talk to him about me worrying about him going clubbing worries me ? Or should I just continue to contain this worry to myself (because I'm worrying about nothing - just the worst that is very unlikely to happen)\n\nI don't want him to think I don't trust him - I do, but I am protective of him, and don't want other girls to hit on him. I also want him to have fun because I love him and don't want to lose him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I do have anxiety, I worry about things, I get stressed often from university. My boyfriend and I had a rocky start in our relationship, but we are good now and I feel like as time has progressed our relationship has become stronger. We have been going out for 6 months officially, 'dated' for 5 months prior to being official.\n\nHe has a group of friends and all have a common interest, I think they're all single and they go out clubbing (most of the time my boyfriend doesn't go because he's not a big fan) and to parties together. When he goes to parties and clubbing I get paranoid that he will talk to girls and the girls will hit on him and all those things. Especially because the girls he meets through his friends all share the same common interest as him (where as I don't - but I try to take an interest in it for him).\n\nI let him go to parties/clubbing of course as I know that freedom in a relationship is important and I don't want to be overbearing or clingy. But I can't help but to get worried and think of the worst. I do trust him now on a whole, but because of the rocky start we had, I can't help but to doubt it. These are irrational worries because he has made it clear that he wants to be with me and I know he cares about me.\n\nShould I talk to him about me worrying about him going clubbing worries me ? Or should I just continue to contain this worry to myself (because I'm worrying about nothing - just the worst that is very unlikely to happen)\n\nI don't want him to think I don't trust him - I do, but I am protective of him, and don't want other girls to hit on him. I also want him to have fun because I love him and don't want to lose him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I do have anxiety, I worry about things, I get stressed often from university. My boyfriend and I had a rocky start in our relationship, but we are good now and I feel like as time has progressed our relationship has become stronger. We have been going out for 6 months officially, 'dated' for 5 months prior to being official.\n\nHe has a group of friends and all have a common interest, I think they're all single and they go out clubbing (most of the time my boyfriend doesn't go because he's not a big fan) and to parties together. When he goes to parties and clubbing I get paranoid that he will talk to girls and the girls will hit on him and all those things. Especially because the girls he meets through his friends all share the same common interest as him (where as I don't - but I try to take an interest in it for him).\n\nI let him go to parties/clubbing of course as I know that freedom in a relationship is important and I don't want to be overbearing or clingy. But I can't help but to get worried and think of the worst. I do trust him now on a whole, but because of the rocky start we had, I can't help but to doubt it. These are irrational worries because he has made it clear that he wants to be with me and I know he cares about me.\n\nShould I talk to him about me worrying about him going clubbing worries me ? Or should I just continue to contain this worry to myself (because I'm worrying about nothing - just the worst that is very unlikely to happen)\n\nI don't want him to think I don't trust him - I do, but I am protective of him, and don't want other girls to hit on him. I also want him to have fun because I love him and don't want to lose him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I do have anxiety, I worry about things, I get stressed often from university. My boyfriend and I had a rocky start in our relationship, but we are good now and I feel like as time has progressed our relationship has become stronger. We have been going out for 6 months officially, 'dated' for 5 months prior to being official.\n\nHe has a group of friends and all have a common interest, I think they're all single and they go out clubbing (most of the time my boyfriend doesn't go because he's not a big fan) and to parties together. When he goes to parties and clubbing I get paranoid that he will talk to girls and the girls will hit on him and all those things. Especially because the girls he meets through his friends all share the same common interest as him (where as I don't - but I try to take an interest in it for him).\n\nI let him go to parties/clubbing of course as I know that freedom in a relationship is important and I don't want to be overbearing or clingy. But I can't help but to get worried and think of the worst. I do trust him now on a whole, but because of the rocky start we had, I can't help but to doubt it. These are irrational worries because he has made it clear that he wants to be with me and I know he cares about me.\n\nShould I talk to him about me worrying about him going clubbing worries me ? Or should I just continue to contain this worry to myself (because I'm worrying about nothing - just the worst that is very unlikely to happen)\n\nI don't want him to think I don't trust him - I do, but I am protective of him, and don't want other girls to hit on him. I also want him to have fun because I love him and don't want to lose him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I do have anxiety, I worry about things, I get stressed often from university. My boyfriend and I had a rocky start in our relationship, but we are good now and I feel like as time has progressed our relationship has become stronger. We have been going out for 6 months officially, 'dated' for 5 months prior to being official.\n\nHe has a group of friends and all have a common interest, I think they're all single and they go out clubbing (most of the time my boyfriend doesn't go because he's not a big fan) and to parties together. When he goes to parties and clubbing I get paranoid that he will talk to girls and the girls will hit on him and all those things. Especially because the girls he meets through his friends all share the same common interest as him (where as I don't - but I try to take an interest in it for him).\n\nI let him go to parties/clubbing of course as I know that freedom in a relationship is important and I don't want to be overbearing or clingy. But I can't help but to get worried and think of the worst. I do trust him now on a whole, but because of the rocky start we had, I can't help but to doubt it. These are irrational worries because he has made it clear that he wants to be with me and I know he cares about me.\n\nShould I talk to him about me worrying about him going clubbing worries me ? Or should I just continue to contain this worry to myself (because I'm worrying about nothing - just the worst that is very unlikely to happen)\n\nI don't want him to think I don't trust him - I do, but I am protective of him, and don't want other girls to hit on him. I also want him to have fun because I love him and don't want to lose him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I do have anxiety, I worry about things, I get stressed often from university. My boyfriend and I had a rocky start in our relationship, but we are good now and I feel like as time has progressed our relationship has become stronger. We have been going out for 6 months officially, 'dated' for 5 months prior to being official.\n\nHe has a group of friends and all have a common interest, I think they're all single and they go out clubbing (most of the time my boyfriend doesn't go because he's not a big fan) and to parties together. When he goes to parties and clubbing I get paranoid that he will talk to girls and the girls will hit on him and all those things. Especially because the girls he meets through his friends all share the same common interest as him (where as I don't - but I try to take an interest in it for him).\n\nI let him go to parties/clubbing of course as I know that freedom in a relationship is important and I don't want to be overbearing or clingy. But I can't help but to get worried and think of the worst. I do trust him now on a whole, but because of the rocky start we had, I can't help but to doubt it. These are irrational worries because he has made it clear that he wants to be with me and I know he cares about me.\n\nShould I talk to him about me worrying about him going clubbing worries me ? Or should I just continue to contain this worry to myself (because I'm worrying about nothing - just the worst that is very unlikely to happen)\n\nI don't want him to think I don't trust him - I do, but I am protective of him, and don't want other girls to hit on him. I also want him to have fun because I love him and don't want to lose him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The story so far:\nI've known this girl for a couple years and have always been attracted to her and enjoyed the times we got to see each other. These were all group settings and I never asked to see each other solo because she was in a committed relationship and her boyfriend was quite jealous of anyone even looking at her. I never told anyone that I had a crush on her and never, to my mind, showed anything more than a want for friendship.\n\nOne week ago she starts texting me late at night about how she knows my feelings and that she might feel the same way and we should totally hang out. Not date, hang out. She apparently had ended her relationship a month ago.\n\nI agreed. Found out the next day that she had been quite inebriated and while she didn't regret what she had said she wanted to make it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I'm fine with because I don't want to be the rebound guy. We have now hung out twice (new years eve and the day before). Both times she has gotten drunk and been very cuddly and happy that I am there. The next day, she is again clear with me about what she wants and phrases it in a way that makes it seem like its more for my benefit. \n\nFriends all say she is leading me on and I shouldn't be wasting my time pursuing a girl that obviously only wants to be with me when she's drunk and is just leading me on. I disagree because she has always been implicitly clear about what can happen and it has never moved beyond a simple kiss at midnight to anything more physical.\n\nI am perfectly happy to wait for her to truly move beyond her previous relationship so she is ready for one with me, which she says she wants. \n\nWhat do you, dear readers (if in fact you are there), think? Also, before I forget, I am 27 and she is 26. I also realize now that I've read what I have written that it sounds like a high school situation, which I can say for certain is not the tone I was going for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The story so far:\nI've known this girl for a couple years and have always been attracted to her and enjoyed the times we got to see each other. These were all group settings and I never asked to see each other solo because she was in a committed relationship and her boyfriend was quite jealous of anyone even looking at her. I never told anyone that I had a crush on her and never, to my mind, showed anything more than a want for friendship.\n\nOne week ago she starts texting me late at night about how she knows my feelings and that she might feel the same way and we should totally hang out. Not date, hang out. She apparently had ended her relationship a month ago.\n\nI agreed. Found out the next day that she had been quite inebriated and while she didn't regret what she had said she wanted to make it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I'm fine with because I don't want to be the rebound guy. We have now hung out twice (new years eve and the day before). Both times she has gotten drunk and been very cuddly and happy that I am there. The next day, she is again clear with me about what she wants and phrases it in a way that makes it seem like its more for my benefit. \n\nFriends all say she is leading me on and I shouldn't be wasting my time pursuing a girl that obviously only wants to be with me when she's drunk and is just leading me on. I disagree because she has always been implicitly clear about what can happen and it has never moved beyond a simple kiss at midnight to anything more physical.\n\nI am perfectly happy to wait for her to truly move beyond her previous relationship so she is ready for one with me, which she says she wants. \n\nWhat do you, dear readers (if in fact you are there), think? Also, before I forget, I am 27 and she is 26. I also realize now that I've read what I have written that it sounds like a high school situation, which I can say for certain is not the tone I was going for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The story so far:\nI've known this girl for a couple years and have always been attracted to her and enjoyed the times we got to see each other. These were all group settings and I never asked to see each other solo because she was in a committed relationship and her boyfriend was quite jealous of anyone even looking at her. I never told anyone that I had a crush on her and never, to my mind, showed anything more than a want for friendship.\n\nOne week ago she starts texting me late at night about how she knows my feelings and that she might feel the same way and we should totally hang out. Not date, hang out. She apparently had ended her relationship a month ago.\n\nI agreed. Found out the next day that she had been quite inebriated and while she didn't regret what she had said she wanted to make it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I'm fine with because I don't want to be the rebound guy. We have now hung out twice (new years eve and the day before). Both times she has gotten drunk and been very cuddly and happy that I am there. The next day, she is again clear with me about what she wants and phrases it in a way that makes it seem like its more for my benefit. \n\nFriends all say she is leading me on and I shouldn't be wasting my time pursuing a girl that obviously only wants to be with me when she's drunk and is just leading me on. I disagree because she has always been implicitly clear about what can happen and it has never moved beyond a simple kiss at midnight to anything more physical.\n\nI am perfectly happy to wait for her to truly move beyond her previous relationship so she is ready for one with me, which she says she wants. \n\nWhat do you, dear readers (if in fact you are there), think? Also, before I forget, I am 27 and she is 26. I also realize now that I've read what I have written that it sounds like a high school situation, which I can say for certain is not the tone I was going for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The story so far:\nI've known this girl for a couple years and have always been attracted to her and enjoyed the times we got to see each other. These were all group settings and I never asked to see each other solo because she was in a committed relationship and her boyfriend was quite jealous of anyone even looking at her. I never told anyone that I had a crush on her and never, to my mind, showed anything more than a want for friendship.\n\nOne week ago she starts texting me late at night about how she knows my feelings and that she might feel the same way and we should totally hang out. Not date, hang out. She apparently had ended her relationship a month ago.\n\nI agreed. Found out the next day that she had been quite inebriated and while she didn't regret what she had said she wanted to make it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I'm fine with because I don't want to be the rebound guy. We have now hung out twice (new years eve and the day before). Both times she has gotten drunk and been very cuddly and happy that I am there. The next day, she is again clear with me about what she wants and phrases it in a way that makes it seem like its more for my benefit. \n\nFriends all say she is leading me on and I shouldn't be wasting my time pursuing a girl that obviously only wants to be with me when she's drunk and is just leading me on. I disagree because she has always been implicitly clear about what can happen and it has never moved beyond a simple kiss at midnight to anything more physical.\n\nI am perfectly happy to wait for her to truly move beyond her previous relationship so she is ready for one with me, which she says she wants. \n\nWhat do you, dear readers (if in fact you are there), think? Also, before I forget, I am 27 and she is 26. I also realize now that I've read what I have written that it sounds like a high school situation, which I can say for certain is not the tone I was going for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The story so far:\nI've known this girl for a couple years and have always been attracted to her and enjoyed the times we got to see each other. These were all group settings and I never asked to see each other solo because she was in a committed relationship and her boyfriend was quite jealous of anyone even looking at her. I never told anyone that I had a crush on her and never, to my mind, showed anything more than a want for friendship.\n\nOne week ago she starts texting me late at night about how she knows my feelings and that she might feel the same way and we should totally hang out. Not date, hang out. She apparently had ended her relationship a month ago.\n\nI agreed. Found out the next day that she had been quite inebriated and while she didn't regret what she had said she wanted to make it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I'm fine with because I don't want to be the rebound guy. We have now hung out twice (new years eve and the day before). Both times she has gotten drunk and been very cuddly and happy that I am there. The next day, she is again clear with me about what she wants and phrases it in a way that makes it seem like its more for my benefit. \n\nFriends all say she is leading me on and I shouldn't be wasting my time pursuing a girl that obviously only wants to be with me when she's drunk and is just leading me on. I disagree because she has always been implicitly clear about what can happen and it has never moved beyond a simple kiss at midnight to anything more physical.\n\nI am perfectly happy to wait for her to truly move beyond her previous relationship so she is ready for one with me, which she says she wants. \n\nWhat do you, dear readers (if in fact you are there), think? Also, before I forget, I am 27 and she is 26. I also realize now that I've read what I have written that it sounds like a high school situation, which I can say for certain is not the tone I was going for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The story so far:\nI've known this girl for a couple years and have always been attracted to her and enjoyed the times we got to see each other. These were all group settings and I never asked to see each other solo because she was in a committed relationship and her boyfriend was quite jealous of anyone even looking at her. I never told anyone that I had a crush on her and never, to my mind, showed anything more than a want for friendship.\n\nOne week ago she starts texting me late at night about how she knows my feelings and that she might feel the same way and we should totally hang out. Not date, hang out. She apparently had ended her relationship a month ago.\n\nI agreed. Found out the next day that she had been quite inebriated and while she didn't regret what she had said she wanted to make it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I'm fine with because I don't want to be the rebound guy. We have now hung out twice (new years eve and the day before). Both times she has gotten drunk and been very cuddly and happy that I am there. The next day, she is again clear with me about what she wants and phrases it in a way that makes it seem like its more for my benefit. \n\nFriends all say she is leading me on and I shouldn't be wasting my time pursuing a girl that obviously only wants to be with me when she's drunk and is just leading me on. I disagree because she has always been implicitly clear about what can happen and it has never moved beyond a simple kiss at midnight to anything more physical.\n\nI am perfectly happy to wait for her to truly move beyond her previous relationship so she is ready for one with me, which she says she wants. \n\nWhat do you, dear readers (if in fact you are there), think? Also, before I forget, I am 27 and she is 26. I also realize now that I've read what I have written that it sounds like a high school situation, which I can say for certain is not the tone I was going for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For mine and her privacy I'm not going to reveal ages or anything. \nSome background information - \n- We're both homosexuals. \n- Relationship has been going for around 2 months now\n- We were best friends before the relationship\n- Our relationship is a secret because she doesn't want to come out\n\nBasically, I want to break up with this girl. My reasons being is that I never actually see her. I work during the weekends and we both had exams a few weeks ago. I only met her twice in the past 3 weeks. Whenever I ask her to hang out she's either busy revising, with her family or hanging out with other friends\nI had an argument with her about her hanging out with an ex and she told me she didn't want to be with them anymore and that she was only friends with him (I got upset because I hadn't seen her in days and she told me she was busy when I caught her in town with him)\n\nYesterday she messaged me asking to meet up with her and I said \"sure, whenever I guess, I'm free all week\" she took my message the wrong way and told me that if i didn't want to meet then it's fine. I told her I didn't mean it like that and asked her to meet me today, she then said she was busy all day today and tomorrow. By this point I just want to end it because it doesn't feel like a relationship anymore.\n\nProm is in 10 days and I'm sitting with her at prom with her friends (not mine) which makes this 10 times harder to do\n\nHow do I break up with her? and how do I do it when we rarely meet up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For mine and her privacy I'm not going to reveal ages or anything. \nSome background information - \n- We're both homosexuals. \n- Relationship has been going for around 2 months now\n- We were best friends before the relationship\n- Our relationship is a secret because she doesn't want to come out\n\nBasically, I want to break up with this girl. My reasons being is that I never actually see her. I work during the weekends and we both had exams a few weeks ago. I only met her twice in the past 3 weeks. Whenever I ask her to hang out she's either busy revising, with her family or hanging out with other friends\nI had an argument with her about her hanging out with an ex and she told me she didn't want to be with them anymore and that she was only friends with him (I got upset because I hadn't seen her in days and she told me she was busy when I caught her in town with him)\n\nYesterday she messaged me asking to meet up with her and I said \"sure, whenever I guess, I'm free all week\" she took my message the wrong way and told me that if i didn't want to meet then it's fine. I told her I didn't mean it like that and asked her to meet me today, she then said she was busy all day today and tomorrow. By this point I just want to end it because it doesn't feel like a relationship anymore.\n\nProm is in 10 days and I'm sitting with her at prom with her friends (not mine) which makes this 10 times harder to do\n\nHow do I break up with her? and how do I do it when we rarely meet up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For mine and her privacy I'm not going to reveal ages or anything. \nSome background information - \n- We're both homosexuals. \n- Relationship has been going for around 2 months now\n- We were best friends before the relationship\n- Our relationship is a secret because she doesn't want to come out\n\nBasically, I want to break up with this girl. My reasons being is that I never actually see her. I work during the weekends and we both had exams a few weeks ago. I only met her twice in the past 3 weeks. Whenever I ask her to hang out she's either busy revising, with her family or hanging out with other friends\nI had an argument with her about her hanging out with an ex and she told me she didn't want to be with them anymore and that she was only friends with him (I got upset because I hadn't seen her in days and she told me she was busy when I caught her in town with him)\n\nYesterday she messaged me asking to meet up with her and I said \"sure, whenever I guess, I'm free all week\" she took my message the wrong way and told me that if i didn't want to meet then it's fine. I told her I didn't mean it like that and asked her to meet me today, she then said she was busy all day today and tomorrow. By this point I just want to end it because it doesn't feel like a relationship anymore.\n\nProm is in 10 days and I'm sitting with her at prom with her friends (not mine) which makes this 10 times harder to do\n\nHow do I break up with her? and how do I do it when we rarely meet up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For mine and her privacy I'm not going to reveal ages or anything. \nSome background information - \n- We're both homosexuals. \n- Relationship has been going for around 2 months now\n- We were best friends before the relationship\n- Our relationship is a secret because she doesn't want to come out\n\nBasically, I want to break up with this girl. My reasons being is that I never actually see her. I work during the weekends and we both had exams a few weeks ago. I only met her twice in the past 3 weeks. Whenever I ask her to hang out she's either busy revising, with her family or hanging out with other friends\nI had an argument with her about her hanging out with an ex and she told me she didn't want to be with them anymore and that she was only friends with him (I got upset because I hadn't seen her in days and she told me she was busy when I caught her in town with him)\n\nYesterday she messaged me asking to meet up with her and I said \"sure, whenever I guess, I'm free all week\" she took my message the wrong way and told me that if i didn't want to meet then it's fine. I told her I didn't mean it like that and asked her to meet me today, she then said she was busy all day today and tomorrow. By this point I just want to end it because it doesn't feel like a relationship anymore.\n\nProm is in 10 days and I'm sitting with her at prom with her friends (not mine) which makes this 10 times harder to do\n\nHow do I break up with her? and how do I do it when we rarely meet up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For mine and her privacy I'm not going to reveal ages or anything. \nSome background information - \n- We're both homosexuals. \n- Relationship has been going for around 2 months now\n- We were best friends before the relationship\n- Our relationship is a secret because she doesn't want to come out\n\nBasically, I want to break up with this girl. My reasons being is that I never actually see her. I work during the weekends and we both had exams a few weeks ago. I only met her twice in the past 3 weeks. Whenever I ask her to hang out she's either busy revising, with her family or hanging out with other friends\nI had an argument with her about her hanging out with an ex and she told me she didn't want to be with them anymore and that she was only friends with him (I got upset because I hadn't seen her in days and she told me she was busy when I caught her in town with him)\n\nYesterday she messaged me asking to meet up with her and I said \"sure, whenever I guess, I'm free all week\" she took my message the wrong way and told me that if i didn't want to meet then it's fine. I told her I didn't mean it like that and asked her to meet me today, she then said she was busy all day today and tomorrow. By this point I just want to end it because it doesn't feel like a relationship anymore.\n\nProm is in 10 days and I'm sitting with her at prom with her friends (not mine) which makes this 10 times harder to do\n\nHow do I break up with her? and how do I do it when we rarely meet up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For mine and her privacy I'm not going to reveal ages or anything. \nSome background information - \n- We're both homosexuals. \n- Relationship has been going for around 2 months now\n- We were best friends before the relationship\n- Our relationship is a secret because she doesn't want to come out\n\nBasically, I want to break up with this girl. My reasons being is that I never actually see her. I work during the weekends and we both had exams a few weeks ago. I only met her twice in the past 3 weeks. Whenever I ask her to hang out she's either busy revising, with her family or hanging out with other friends\nI had an argument with her about her hanging out with an ex and she told me she didn't want to be with them anymore and that she was only friends with him (I got upset because I hadn't seen her in days and she told me she was busy when I caught her in town with him)\n\nYesterday she messaged me asking to meet up with her and I said \"sure, whenever I guess, I'm free all week\" she took my message the wrong way and told me that if i didn't want to meet then it's fine. I told her I didn't mean it like that and asked her to meet me today, she then said she was busy all day today and tomorrow. By this point I just want to end it because it doesn't feel like a relationship anymore.\n\nProm is in 10 days and I'm sitting with her at prom with her friends (not mine) which makes this 10 times harder to do\n\nHow do I break up with her? and how do I do it when we rarely meet up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for a little over a year, and neither of us have said those 3 magic words just yet. Everything is really great between us, though I am starting to get worried that he hasn't said it. We've been through a lot of things that leave me no doubt that he is very serious about me and still cares a lot.\nRecently he's started this thing where he just seemingly out of nowhere will tell me he really 'likes me a lot'. Today we went for coffee and he all of a sudden grabbed my hand, sort of holding it just laying on the table. I asked him 'what?' and he replied with saying 'baby, I just wanted to let you know that I really like you a lot'. I'm like. okk. no really what is it?\n\nHe said he didn't know he's unable to just tell me how much he cares for me. Of course I found that super sweet and a huge pick-me-up, but do you think he's sort of getting ready before he tells me he loves me for the first time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for a little over a year, and neither of us have said those 3 magic words just yet. Everything is really great between us, though I am starting to get worried that he hasn't said it. We've been through a lot of things that leave me no doubt that he is very serious about me and still cares a lot.\nRecently he's started this thing where he just seemingly out of nowhere will tell me he really 'likes me a lot'. Today we went for coffee and he all of a sudden grabbed my hand, sort of holding it just laying on the table. I asked him 'what?' and he replied with saying 'baby, I just wanted to let you know that I really like you a lot'. I'm like. okk. no really what is it?\n\nHe said he didn't know he's unable to just tell me how much he cares for me. Of course I found that super sweet and a huge pick-me-up, but do you think he's sort of getting ready before he tells me he loves me for the first time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for a little over a year, and neither of us have said those 3 magic words just yet. Everything is really great between us, though I am starting to get worried that he hasn't said it. We've been through a lot of things that leave me no doubt that he is very serious about me and still cares a lot.\nRecently he's started this thing where he just seemingly out of nowhere will tell me he really 'likes me a lot'. Today we went for coffee and he all of a sudden grabbed my hand, sort of holding it just laying on the table. I asked him 'what?' and he replied with saying 'baby, I just wanted to let you know that I really like you a lot'. I'm like. okk. no really what is it?\n\nHe said he didn't know he's unable to just tell me how much he cares for me. Of course I found that super sweet and a huge pick-me-up, but do you think he's sort of getting ready before he tells me he loves me for the first time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for a little over a year, and neither of us have said those 3 magic words just yet. Everything is really great between us, though I am starting to get worried that he hasn't said it. We've been through a lot of things that leave me no doubt that he is very serious about me and still cares a lot.\nRecently he's started this thing where he just seemingly out of nowhere will tell me he really 'likes me a lot'. Today we went for coffee and he all of a sudden grabbed my hand, sort of holding it just laying on the table. I asked him 'what?' and he replied with saying 'baby, I just wanted to let you know that I really like you a lot'. I'm like. okk. no really what is it?\n\nHe said he didn't know he's unable to just tell me how much he cares for me. Of course I found that super sweet and a huge pick-me-up, but do you think he's sort of getting ready before he tells me he loves me for the first time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for a little over a year, and neither of us have said those 3 magic words just yet. Everything is really great between us, though I am starting to get worried that he hasn't said it. We've been through a lot of things that leave me no doubt that he is very serious about me and still cares a lot.\nRecently he's started this thing where he just seemingly out of nowhere will tell me he really 'likes me a lot'. Today we went for coffee and he all of a sudden grabbed my hand, sort of holding it just laying on the table. I asked him 'what?' and he replied with saying 'baby, I just wanted to let you know that I really like you a lot'. I'm like. okk. no really what is it?\n\nHe said he didn't know he's unable to just tell me how much he cares for me. Of course I found that super sweet and a huge pick-me-up, but do you think he's sort of getting ready before he tells me he loves me for the first time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to make this as brief as possible. My girlfriend and I met online, and for about 1 year we had a long distance relationship. We decided to move in together after the 1st year, with me moving 2200 miles to be with her. Our relationship was still very new at that point in a lot of ways, and our relationship while living together was very unstable as a result. We argued a lot, didn't understand how to deal with relationship problems, and she was very controlling. She wound up kicking me out several times over the course of my 5 months stay living there.\n\nI wound up coming back after the final time she kicked me out, and I am currently living away from her now in my home town. It has been 5-6 months since then, and we've made a lot of progress in understanding our relationship and understanding each other.\n\nI have a job lined up where she is if I were to move back, and she wants me to move back with her more than anything in this world, and she has wanted this for a long time now. She genuinely misses me, not just the thought of me, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I currently lost my job here where I am living, and it seems like the decision to now move back is that much easier. I'm young, and I feel like giving this a chance may be the right decision because I genuinely love this woman more than anything and I can see spending my life with her. We get along so much better now and we've established boundaries and ways to deal with arguments/differences so much more.\n\nShould I move in with her and give this another shot? I will be put on the lease, we will be signing a written agreement that she will not kick me out under any circumstance for a year (which she fully accepts and wants to do very badly), and everything else seems to be falling into place. \n\nI would appreciate absolutely any advice Reddit, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to make this as brief as possible. My girlfriend and I met online, and for about 1 year we had a long distance relationship. We decided to move in together after the 1st year, with me moving 2200 miles to be with her. Our relationship was still very new at that point in a lot of ways, and our relationship while living together was very unstable as a result. We argued a lot, didn't understand how to deal with relationship problems, and she was very controlling. She wound up kicking me out several times over the course of my 5 months stay living there.\n\nI wound up coming back after the final time she kicked me out, and I am currently living away from her now in my home town. It has been 5-6 months since then, and we've made a lot of progress in understanding our relationship and understanding each other.\n\nI have a job lined up where she is if I were to move back, and she wants me to move back with her more than anything in this world, and she has wanted this for a long time now. She genuinely misses me, not just the thought of me, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I currently lost my job here where I am living, and it seems like the decision to now move back is that much easier. I'm young, and I feel like giving this a chance may be the right decision because I genuinely love this woman more than anything and I can see spending my life with her. We get along so much better now and we've established boundaries and ways to deal with arguments/differences so much more.\n\nShould I move in with her and give this another shot? I will be put on the lease, we will be signing a written agreement that she will not kick me out under any circumstance for a year (which she fully accepts and wants to do very badly), and everything else seems to be falling into place. \n\nI would appreciate absolutely any advice Reddit, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to make this as brief as possible. My girlfriend and I met online, and for about 1 year we had a long distance relationship. We decided to move in together after the 1st year, with me moving 2200 miles to be with her. Our relationship was still very new at that point in a lot of ways, and our relationship while living together was very unstable as a result. We argued a lot, didn't understand how to deal with relationship problems, and she was very controlling. She wound up kicking me out several times over the course of my 5 months stay living there.\n\nI wound up coming back after the final time she kicked me out, and I am currently living away from her now in my home town. It has been 5-6 months since then, and we've made a lot of progress in understanding our relationship and understanding each other.\n\nI have a job lined up where she is if I were to move back, and she wants me to move back with her more than anything in this world, and she has wanted this for a long time now. She genuinely misses me, not just the thought of me, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I currently lost my job here where I am living, and it seems like the decision to now move back is that much easier. I'm young, and I feel like giving this a chance may be the right decision because I genuinely love this woman more than anything and I can see spending my life with her. We get along so much better now and we've established boundaries and ways to deal with arguments/differences so much more.\n\nShould I move in with her and give this another shot? I will be put on the lease, we will be signing a written agreement that she will not kick me out under any circumstance for a year (which she fully accepts and wants to do very badly), and everything else seems to be falling into place. \n\nI would appreciate absolutely any advice Reddit, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to make this as brief as possible. My girlfriend and I met online, and for about 1 year we had a long distance relationship. We decided to move in together after the 1st year, with me moving 2200 miles to be with her. Our relationship was still very new at that point in a lot of ways, and our relationship while living together was very unstable as a result. We argued a lot, didn't understand how to deal with relationship problems, and she was very controlling. She wound up kicking me out several times over the course of my 5 months stay living there.\n\nI wound up coming back after the final time she kicked me out, and I am currently living away from her now in my home town. It has been 5-6 months since then, and we've made a lot of progress in understanding our relationship and understanding each other.\n\nI have a job lined up where she is if I were to move back, and she wants me to move back with her more than anything in this world, and she has wanted this for a long time now. She genuinely misses me, not just the thought of me, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I currently lost my job here where I am living, and it seems like the decision to now move back is that much easier. I'm young, and I feel like giving this a chance may be the right decision because I genuinely love this woman more than anything and I can see spending my life with her. We get along so much better now and we've established boundaries and ways to deal with arguments/differences so much more.\n\nShould I move in with her and give this another shot? I will be put on the lease, we will be signing a written agreement that she will not kick me out under any circumstance for a year (which she fully accepts and wants to do very badly), and everything else seems to be falling into place. \n\nI would appreciate absolutely any advice Reddit, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to make this as brief as possible. My girlfriend and I met online, and for about 1 year we had a long distance relationship. We decided to move in together after the 1st year, with me moving 2200 miles to be with her. Our relationship was still very new at that point in a lot of ways, and our relationship while living together was very unstable as a result. We argued a lot, didn't understand how to deal with relationship problems, and she was very controlling. She wound up kicking me out several times over the course of my 5 months stay living there.\n\nI wound up coming back after the final time she kicked me out, and I am currently living away from her now in my home town. It has been 5-6 months since then, and we've made a lot of progress in understanding our relationship and understanding each other.\n\nI have a job lined up where she is if I were to move back, and she wants me to move back with her more than anything in this world, and she has wanted this for a long time now. She genuinely misses me, not just the thought of me, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I currently lost my job here where I am living, and it seems like the decision to now move back is that much easier. I'm young, and I feel like giving this a chance may be the right decision because I genuinely love this woman more than anything and I can see spending my life with her. We get along so much better now and we've established boundaries and ways to deal with arguments/differences so much more.\n\nShould I move in with her and give this another shot? I will be put on the lease, we will be signing a written agreement that she will not kick me out under any circumstance for a year (which she fully accepts and wants to do very badly), and everything else seems to be falling into place. \n\nI would appreciate absolutely any advice Reddit, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to make this as brief as possible. My girlfriend and I met online, and for about 1 year we had a long distance relationship. We decided to move in together after the 1st year, with me moving 2200 miles to be with her. Our relationship was still very new at that point in a lot of ways, and our relationship while living together was very unstable as a result. We argued a lot, didn't understand how to deal with relationship problems, and she was very controlling. She wound up kicking me out several times over the course of my 5 months stay living there.\n\nI wound up coming back after the final time she kicked me out, and I am currently living away from her now in my home town. It has been 5-6 months since then, and we've made a lot of progress in understanding our relationship and understanding each other.\n\nI have a job lined up where she is if I were to move back, and she wants me to move back with her more than anything in this world, and she has wanted this for a long time now. She genuinely misses me, not just the thought of me, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I currently lost my job here where I am living, and it seems like the decision to now move back is that much easier. I'm young, and I feel like giving this a chance may be the right decision because I genuinely love this woman more than anything and I can see spending my life with her. We get along so much better now and we've established boundaries and ways to deal with arguments/differences so much more.\n\nShould I move in with her and give this another shot? I will be put on the lease, we will be signing a written agreement that she will not kick me out under any circumstance for a year (which she fully accepts and wants to do very badly), and everything else seems to be falling into place. \n\nI would appreciate absolutely any advice Reddit, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a junior and had I been a tad bit more perceptive, I would have opted out of college and started from the bottom of some company and climbed up to mid-management. Now, I ask the question above for two trivial reasons:\n\n1) Miley Cyrus twerks and people defend her by saying that people do worse things in college.\n\n2) A parent who was very \"bad\" in childhood/teenage years is surprised at how well her/his daughter turned out and gets told that she needs to wait 'till her daughter goes to college (implying her daughter has the EXPECTED potential of turning \"bad\" in college).\n\nNow, my school is just outside Top Tier (top 50). I'm in classes with juniors and seniors who major in Social Sciences (and even STEM majors) and I notice that most of them don't know the juice of their academic study - nor do they give a shit about it. Not one person I have spoken to (regardless of GPA) can hold a conversation pertaining to their field. NOT ONE. Zero interest. I mean, the basic concept of their study is long forgotten and only applied when cramming for an exam.\n\nPromiscuity, alcohol, drugs, etc. can be practiced/done anywhere (from the White House to the ghettoes of the southward in Newark). Why tarnish \"college\" as it stands and in-debt yourself for the aforementioned? \n\nI noticed when I studied abroad that Europeans take a different perspective to college. They actually use it to expand their brains. Maybe it's the low drinking age and the leniency on sex. I gradually introduced myself to sex and alcohol and it's become. not the point of my college career. What is up, Americans? Why has college education in America become the place for people to act \"ratchet\" and not a place to develop expertise in a particular field? OR, has it always been like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a junior and had I been a tad bit more perceptive, I would have opted out of college and started from the bottom of some company and climbed up to mid-management. Now, I ask the question above for two trivial reasons:\n\n1) Miley Cyrus twerks and people defend her by saying that people do worse things in college.\n\n2) A parent who was very \"bad\" in childhood/teenage years is surprised at how well her/his daughter turned out and gets told that she needs to wait 'till her daughter goes to college (implying her daughter has the EXPECTED potential of turning \"bad\" in college).\n\nNow, my school is just outside Top Tier (top 50). I'm in classes with juniors and seniors who major in Social Sciences (and even STEM majors) and I notice that most of them don't know the juice of their academic study - nor do they give a shit about it. Not one person I have spoken to (regardless of GPA) can hold a conversation pertaining to their field. NOT ONE. Zero interest. I mean, the basic concept of their study is long forgotten and only applied when cramming for an exam.\n\nPromiscuity, alcohol, drugs, etc. can be practiced/done anywhere (from the White House to the ghettoes of the southward in Newark). Why tarnish \"college\" as it stands and in-debt yourself for the aforementioned? \n\nI noticed when I studied abroad that Europeans take a different perspective to college. They actually use it to expand their brains. Maybe it's the low drinking age and the leniency on sex. I gradually introduced myself to sex and alcohol and it's become. not the point of my college career. What is up, Americans? Why has college education in America become the place for people to act \"ratchet\" and not a place to develop expertise in a particular field? OR, has it always been like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a junior and had I been a tad bit more perceptive, I would have opted out of college and started from the bottom of some company and climbed up to mid-management. Now, I ask the question above for two trivial reasons:\n\n1) Miley Cyrus twerks and people defend her by saying that people do worse things in college.\n\n2) A parent who was very \"bad\" in childhood/teenage years is surprised at how well her/his daughter turned out and gets told that she needs to wait 'till her daughter goes to college (implying her daughter has the EXPECTED potential of turning \"bad\" in college).\n\nNow, my school is just outside Top Tier (top 50). I'm in classes with juniors and seniors who major in Social Sciences (and even STEM majors) and I notice that most of them don't know the juice of their academic study - nor do they give a shit about it. Not one person I have spoken to (regardless of GPA) can hold a conversation pertaining to their field. NOT ONE. Zero interest. I mean, the basic concept of their study is long forgotten and only applied when cramming for an exam.\n\nPromiscuity, alcohol, drugs, etc. can be practiced/done anywhere (from the White House to the ghettoes of the southward in Newark). Why tarnish \"college\" as it stands and in-debt yourself for the aforementioned? \n\nI noticed when I studied abroad that Europeans take a different perspective to college. They actually use it to expand their brains. Maybe it's the low drinking age and the leniency on sex. I gradually introduced myself to sex and alcohol and it's become. not the point of my college career. What is up, Americans? Why has college education in America become the place for people to act \"ratchet\" and not a place to develop expertise in a particular field? OR, has it always been like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a junior and had I been a tad bit more perceptive, I would have opted out of college and started from the bottom of some company and climbed up to mid-management. Now, I ask the question above for two trivial reasons:\n\n1) Miley Cyrus twerks and people defend her by saying that people do worse things in college.\n\n2) A parent who was very \"bad\" in childhood/teenage years is surprised at how well her/his daughter turned out and gets told that she needs to wait 'till her daughter goes to college (implying her daughter has the EXPECTED potential of turning \"bad\" in college).\n\nNow, my school is just outside Top Tier (top 50). I'm in classes with juniors and seniors who major in Social Sciences (and even STEM majors) and I notice that most of them don't know the juice of their academic study - nor do they give a shit about it. Not one person I have spoken to (regardless of GPA) can hold a conversation pertaining to their field. NOT ONE. Zero interest. I mean, the basic concept of their study is long forgotten and only applied when cramming for an exam.\n\nPromiscuity, alcohol, drugs, etc. can be practiced/done anywhere (from the White House to the ghettoes of the southward in Newark). Why tarnish \"college\" as it stands and in-debt yourself for the aforementioned? \n\nI noticed when I studied abroad that Europeans take a different perspective to college. They actually use it to expand their brains. Maybe it's the low drinking age and the leniency on sex. I gradually introduced myself to sex and alcohol and it's become. not the point of my college career. What is up, Americans? Why has college education in America become the place for people to act \"ratchet\" and not a place to develop expertise in a particular field? OR, has it always been like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a junior and had I been a tad bit more perceptive, I would have opted out of college and started from the bottom of some company and climbed up to mid-management. Now, I ask the question above for two trivial reasons:\n\n1) Miley Cyrus twerks and people defend her by saying that people do worse things in college.\n\n2) A parent who was very \"bad\" in childhood/teenage years is surprised at how well her/his daughter turned out and gets told that she needs to wait 'till her daughter goes to college (implying her daughter has the EXPECTED potential of turning \"bad\" in college).\n\nNow, my school is just outside Top Tier (top 50). I'm in classes with juniors and seniors who major in Social Sciences (and even STEM majors) and I notice that most of them don't know the juice of their academic study - nor do they give a shit about it. Not one person I have spoken to (regardless of GPA) can hold a conversation pertaining to their field. NOT ONE. Zero interest. I mean, the basic concept of their study is long forgotten and only applied when cramming for an exam.\n\nPromiscuity, alcohol, drugs, etc. can be practiced/done anywhere (from the White House to the ghettoes of the southward in Newark). Why tarnish \"college\" as it stands and in-debt yourself for the aforementioned? \n\nI noticed when I studied abroad that Europeans take a different perspective to college. They actually use it to expand their brains. Maybe it's the low drinking age and the leniency on sex. I gradually introduced myself to sex and alcohol and it's become. not the point of my college career. What is up, Americans? Why has college education in America become the place for people to act \"ratchet\" and not a place to develop expertise in a particular field? OR, has it always been like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a junior and had I been a tad bit more perceptive, I would have opted out of college and started from the bottom of some company and climbed up to mid-management. Now, I ask the question above for two trivial reasons:\n\n1) Miley Cyrus twerks and people defend her by saying that people do worse things in college.\n\n2) A parent who was very \"bad\" in childhood/teenage years is surprised at how well her/his daughter turned out and gets told that she needs to wait 'till her daughter goes to college (implying her daughter has the EXPECTED potential of turning \"bad\" in college).\n\nNow, my school is just outside Top Tier (top 50). I'm in classes with juniors and seniors who major in Social Sciences (and even STEM majors) and I notice that most of them don't know the juice of their academic study - nor do they give a shit about it. Not one person I have spoken to (regardless of GPA) can hold a conversation pertaining to their field. NOT ONE. Zero interest. I mean, the basic concept of their study is long forgotten and only applied when cramming for an exam.\n\nPromiscuity, alcohol, drugs, etc. can be practiced/done anywhere (from the White House to the ghettoes of the southward in Newark). Why tarnish \"college\" as it stands and in-debt yourself for the aforementioned? \n\nI noticed when I studied abroad that Europeans take a different perspective to college. They actually use it to expand their brains. Maybe it's the low drinking age and the leniency on sex. I gradually introduced myself to sex and alcohol and it's become. not the point of my college career. What is up, Americans? Why has college education in America become the place for people to act \"ratchet\" and not a place to develop expertise in a particular field? OR, has it always been like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ive done two natural births with 2 8lb healthy babies and I was expecting the worst but over all it was just really uncomfortable. I even had bad tearing but didnt realize until they told me. Am I just lucky? Whats with all the drama? I was so worried because your whole life you hear its going to be the climax of pain but its just really crampy and tiring. Anyone else have the same experience? Anyone have a totally different experience with super natural pain that haunts them still? Its such a fascinating subject and yet both times I was pregnant and trying to research what it would feel like there was very little out there of much use. Half the people I encountered described misty-woo-woo enlightenment with metaphorical butterflies and unicorns bursting out of their pussy chacra, the rest made it sound like a battle with a live 10lb kidney stone dragon. Only one woman said to me its like a bad period. What was yours like? Dads- is it worse that we remember? I once read that after birth you get a brain chemical dump that makes pain memories fade so we don't fear having more kids. \n\nEdit 1: oh the spelling! Sorry.\nEdit 2: Clearly I am totally blessed and I had no idea. No offence to mommas whom have had a very different birth experience. I absolutely respect your experience and I am humbled by it! \nEdit 3: For clarity I'm not entirely blessed, I didn't go natural because I was into it I went natural because I have a disease combo that can make anesthetics deadly for me. I was terrified of what they might have to do if I needed a c."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ive done two natural births with 2 8lb healthy babies and I was expecting the worst but over all it was just really uncomfortable. I even had bad tearing but didnt realize until they told me. Am I just lucky? Whats with all the drama? I was so worried because your whole life you hear its going to be the climax of pain but its just really crampy and tiring. Anyone else have the same experience? Anyone have a totally different experience with super natural pain that haunts them still? Its such a fascinating subject and yet both times I was pregnant and trying to research what it would feel like there was very little out there of much use. Half the people I encountered described misty-woo-woo enlightenment with metaphorical butterflies and unicorns bursting out of their pussy chacra, the rest made it sound like a battle with a live 10lb kidney stone dragon. Only one woman said to me its like a bad period. What was yours like? Dads- is it worse that we remember? I once read that after birth you get a brain chemical dump that makes pain memories fade so we don't fear having more kids. \n\nEdit 1: oh the spelling! Sorry.\nEdit 2: Clearly I am totally blessed and I had no idea. No offence to mommas whom have had a very different birth experience. I absolutely respect your experience and I am humbled by it! \nEdit 3: For clarity I'm not entirely blessed, I didn't go natural because I was into it I went natural because I have a disease combo that can make anesthetics deadly for me. I was terrified of what they might have to do if I needed a c."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ive done two natural births with 2 8lb healthy babies and I was expecting the worst but over all it was just really uncomfortable. I even had bad tearing but didnt realize until they told me. Am I just lucky? Whats with all the drama? I was so worried because your whole life you hear its going to be the climax of pain but its just really crampy and tiring. Anyone else have the same experience? Anyone have a totally different experience with super natural pain that haunts them still? Its such a fascinating subject and yet both times I was pregnant and trying to research what it would feel like there was very little out there of much use. Half the people I encountered described misty-woo-woo enlightenment with metaphorical butterflies and unicorns bursting out of their pussy chacra, the rest made it sound like a battle with a live 10lb kidney stone dragon. Only one woman said to me its like a bad period. What was yours like? Dads- is it worse that we remember? I once read that after birth you get a brain chemical dump that makes pain memories fade so we don't fear having more kids. \n\nEdit 1: oh the spelling! Sorry.\nEdit 2: Clearly I am totally blessed and I had no idea. No offence to mommas whom have had a very different birth experience. I absolutely respect your experience and I am humbled by it! \nEdit 3: For clarity I'm not entirely blessed, I didn't go natural because I was into it I went natural because I have a disease combo that can make anesthetics deadly for me. I was terrified of what they might have to do if I needed a c."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ive done two natural births with 2 8lb healthy babies and I was expecting the worst but over all it was just really uncomfortable. I even had bad tearing but didnt realize until they told me. Am I just lucky? Whats with all the drama? I was so worried because your whole life you hear its going to be the climax of pain but its just really crampy and tiring. Anyone else have the same experience? Anyone have a totally different experience with super natural pain that haunts them still? Its such a fascinating subject and yet both times I was pregnant and trying to research what it would feel like there was very little out there of much use. Half the people I encountered described misty-woo-woo enlightenment with metaphorical butterflies and unicorns bursting out of their pussy chacra, the rest made it sound like a battle with a live 10lb kidney stone dragon. Only one woman said to me its like a bad period. What was yours like? Dads- is it worse that we remember? I once read that after birth you get a brain chemical dump that makes pain memories fade so we don't fear having more kids. \n\nEdit 1: oh the spelling! Sorry.\nEdit 2: Clearly I am totally blessed and I had no idea. No offence to mommas whom have had a very different birth experience. I absolutely respect your experience and I am humbled by it! \nEdit 3: For clarity I'm not entirely blessed, I didn't go natural because I was into it I went natural because I have a disease combo that can make anesthetics deadly for me. I was terrified of what they might have to do if I needed a c."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ive done two natural births with 2 8lb healthy babies and I was expecting the worst but over all it was just really uncomfortable. I even had bad tearing but didnt realize until they told me. Am I just lucky? Whats with all the drama? I was so worried because your whole life you hear its going to be the climax of pain but its just really crampy and tiring. Anyone else have the same experience? Anyone have a totally different experience with super natural pain that haunts them still? Its such a fascinating subject and yet both times I was pregnant and trying to research what it would feel like there was very little out there of much use. Half the people I encountered described misty-woo-woo enlightenment with metaphorical butterflies and unicorns bursting out of their pussy chacra, the rest made it sound like a battle with a live 10lb kidney stone dragon. Only one woman said to me its like a bad period. What was yours like? Dads- is it worse that we remember? I once read that after birth you get a brain chemical dump that makes pain memories fade so we don't fear having more kids. \n\nEdit 1: oh the spelling! Sorry.\nEdit 2: Clearly I am totally blessed and I had no idea. No offence to mommas whom have had a very different birth experience. I absolutely respect your experience and I am humbled by it! \nEdit 3: For clarity I'm not entirely blessed, I didn't go natural because I was into it I went natural because I have a disease combo that can make anesthetics deadly for me. I was terrified of what they might have to do if I needed a c."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ive done two natural births with 2 8lb healthy babies and I was expecting the worst but over all it was just really uncomfortable. I even had bad tearing but didnt realize until they told me. Am I just lucky? Whats with all the drama? I was so worried because your whole life you hear its going to be the climax of pain but its just really crampy and tiring. Anyone else have the same experience? Anyone have a totally different experience with super natural pain that haunts them still? Its such a fascinating subject and yet both times I was pregnant and trying to research what it would feel like there was very little out there of much use. Half the people I encountered described misty-woo-woo enlightenment with metaphorical butterflies and unicorns bursting out of their pussy chacra, the rest made it sound like a battle with a live 10lb kidney stone dragon. Only one woman said to me its like a bad period. What was yours like? Dads- is it worse that we remember? I once read that after birth you get a brain chemical dump that makes pain memories fade so we don't fear having more kids. \n\nEdit 1: oh the spelling! Sorry.\nEdit 2: Clearly I am totally blessed and I had no idea. No offence to mommas whom have had a very different birth experience. I absolutely respect your experience and I am humbled by it! \nEdit 3: For clarity I'm not entirely blessed, I didn't go natural because I was into it I went natural because I have a disease combo that can make anesthetics deadly for me. I was terrified of what they might have to do if I needed a c."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend stops texting me earlier than usual at around 10:00 PM. At around 1:00 AM I find a thread on 4chan which was made by a guy seeking advice on how to win over this girl he'd been texting the past three weeks, and included this for his conversation snippet\n\n* Her: Oh ok\n* Him: Yeah so that's how I feel\n* Her: It's good to let it out! Well I don't really know how I feel, it's like midnight and I don't wanna * try to think about what I'm feeling now\n* Him: I don't really know how I should interpret that\n* Her: I'm just really tired right now\n\nNow, first I realized that we're in the same timezone. Second I realized that this sounds exactly like her. Responding \"Oh ok\" or using the word \"wanna\" or not ending her last sentences with periods. I provide the initials of my girlfriend to the OP and he at first doesn't deny nor confirm them, and insists on not communicating with me. Only in the end when he showed this text\n\n* Him: Hey, do you have a boyfriend by chance? I really like you, but I think I might have stumbled across him? Is this why you're being so stand offish?\n* Her: I'll be honest with you. Yes, I do. But I'm thinking of breaking up with him, he's way too possessive and needy. Can we talk about it another time? I'm really tired\n\ndid he claim they were the same. I am now very concerned, as just this last weekend I discussed some issues with her about feeling like some of my needs weren't being met in the relationship. Can I just show these texts to her and ask if they're by her? I really want to. I just really need closure right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend stops texting me earlier than usual at around 10:00 PM. At around 1:00 AM I find a thread on 4chan which was made by a guy seeking advice on how to win over this girl he'd been texting the past three weeks, and included this for his conversation snippet\n\n* Her: Oh ok\n* Him: Yeah so that's how I feel\n* Her: It's good to let it out! Well I don't really know how I feel, it's like midnight and I don't wanna * try to think about what I'm feeling now\n* Him: I don't really know how I should interpret that\n* Her: I'm just really tired right now\n\nNow, first I realized that we're in the same timezone. Second I realized that this sounds exactly like her. Responding \"Oh ok\" or using the word \"wanna\" or not ending her last sentences with periods. I provide the initials of my girlfriend to the OP and he at first doesn't deny nor confirm them, and insists on not communicating with me. Only in the end when he showed this text\n\n* Him: Hey, do you have a boyfriend by chance? I really like you, but I think I might have stumbled across him? Is this why you're being so stand offish?\n* Her: I'll be honest with you. Yes, I do. But I'm thinking of breaking up with him, he's way too possessive and needy. Can we talk about it another time? I'm really tired\n\ndid he claim they were the same. I am now very concerned, as just this last weekend I discussed some issues with her about feeling like some of my needs weren't being met in the relationship. Can I just show these texts to her and ask if they're by her? I really want to. I just really need closure right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend stops texting me earlier than usual at around 10:00 PM. At around 1:00 AM I find a thread on 4chan which was made by a guy seeking advice on how to win over this girl he'd been texting the past three weeks, and included this for his conversation snippet\n\n* Her: Oh ok\n* Him: Yeah so that's how I feel\n* Her: It's good to let it out! Well I don't really know how I feel, it's like midnight and I don't wanna * try to think about what I'm feeling now\n* Him: I don't really know how I should interpret that\n* Her: I'm just really tired right now\n\nNow, first I realized that we're in the same timezone. Second I realized that this sounds exactly like her. Responding \"Oh ok\" or using the word \"wanna\" or not ending her last sentences with periods. I provide the initials of my girlfriend to the OP and he at first doesn't deny nor confirm them, and insists on not communicating with me. Only in the end when he showed this text\n\n* Him: Hey, do you have a boyfriend by chance? I really like you, but I think I might have stumbled across him? Is this why you're being so stand offish?\n* Her: I'll be honest with you. Yes, I do. But I'm thinking of breaking up with him, he's way too possessive and needy. Can we talk about it another time? I'm really tired\n\ndid he claim they were the same. I am now very concerned, as just this last weekend I discussed some issues with her about feeling like some of my needs weren't being met in the relationship. Can I just show these texts to her and ask if they're by her? I really want to. I just really need closure right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend stops texting me earlier than usual at around 10:00 PM. At around 1:00 AM I find a thread on 4chan which was made by a guy seeking advice on how to win over this girl he'd been texting the past three weeks, and included this for his conversation snippet\n\n* Her: Oh ok\n* Him: Yeah so that's how I feel\n* Her: It's good to let it out! Well I don't really know how I feel, it's like midnight and I don't wanna * try to think about what I'm feeling now\n* Him: I don't really know how I should interpret that\n* Her: I'm just really tired right now\n\nNow, first I realized that we're in the same timezone. Second I realized that this sounds exactly like her. Responding \"Oh ok\" or using the word \"wanna\" or not ending her last sentences with periods. I provide the initials of my girlfriend to the OP and he at first doesn't deny nor confirm them, and insists on not communicating with me. Only in the end when he showed this text\n\n* Him: Hey, do you have a boyfriend by chance? I really like you, but I think I might have stumbled across him? Is this why you're being so stand offish?\n* Her: I'll be honest with you. Yes, I do. But I'm thinking of breaking up with him, he's way too possessive and needy. Can we talk about it another time? I'm really tired\n\ndid he claim they were the same. I am now very concerned, as just this last weekend I discussed some issues with her about feeling like some of my needs weren't being met in the relationship. Can I just show these texts to her and ask if they're by her? I really want to. I just really need closure right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend stops texting me earlier than usual at around 10:00 PM. At around 1:00 AM I find a thread on 4chan which was made by a guy seeking advice on how to win over this girl he'd been texting the past three weeks, and included this for his conversation snippet\n\n* Her: Oh ok\n* Him: Yeah so that's how I feel\n* Her: It's good to let it out! Well I don't really know how I feel, it's like midnight and I don't wanna * try to think about what I'm feeling now\n* Him: I don't really know how I should interpret that\n* Her: I'm just really tired right now\n\nNow, first I realized that we're in the same timezone. Second I realized that this sounds exactly like her. Responding \"Oh ok\" or using the word \"wanna\" or not ending her last sentences with periods. I provide the initials of my girlfriend to the OP and he at first doesn't deny nor confirm them, and insists on not communicating with me. Only in the end when he showed this text\n\n* Him: Hey, do you have a boyfriend by chance? I really like you, but I think I might have stumbled across him? Is this why you're being so stand offish?\n* Her: I'll be honest with you. Yes, I do. But I'm thinking of breaking up with him, he's way too possessive and needy. Can we talk about it another time? I'm really tired\n\ndid he claim they were the same. I am now very concerned, as just this last weekend I discussed some issues with her about feeling like some of my needs weren't being met in the relationship. Can I just show these texts to her and ask if they're by her? I really want to. I just really need closure right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend stops texting me earlier than usual at around 10:00 PM. At around 1:00 AM I find a thread on 4chan which was made by a guy seeking advice on how to win over this girl he'd been texting the past three weeks, and included this for his conversation snippet\n\n* Her: Oh ok\n* Him: Yeah so that's how I feel\n* Her: It's good to let it out! Well I don't really know how I feel, it's like midnight and I don't wanna * try to think about what I'm feeling now\n* Him: I don't really know how I should interpret that\n* Her: I'm just really tired right now\n\nNow, first I realized that we're in the same timezone. Second I realized that this sounds exactly like her. Responding \"Oh ok\" or using the word \"wanna\" or not ending her last sentences with periods. I provide the initials of my girlfriend to the OP and he at first doesn't deny nor confirm them, and insists on not communicating with me. Only in the end when he showed this text\n\n* Him: Hey, do you have a boyfriend by chance? I really like you, but I think I might have stumbled across him? Is this why you're being so stand offish?\n* Her: I'll be honest with you. Yes, I do. But I'm thinking of breaking up with him, he's way too possessive and needy. Can we talk about it another time? I'm really tired\n\ndid he claim they were the same. I am now very concerned, as just this last weekend I discussed some issues with her about feeling like some of my needs weren't being met in the relationship. Can I just show these texts to her and ask if they're by her? I really want to. I just really need closure right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I have been separated for over two years now, and it was only a few months ago that he began dating someone new. Since he and I broke up, we do not have even the smallest remnants of a friendship anymore. So naturally, he does not know that his new girlfriend (we'll call her Jen) has sent me messages on Facebook asking for advice.\n\nThe first message asked me if I thought my ex (we'll call him Jake) was ready to live with a girlfriend again. Being as emotionally separated as possible from the question, I told Jen that it was really something she should discuss with \nJake. Jen thanked me for my advice, and a few weeks have gone by without hearing from neither her nor him, so I thought I was in the clear.\nLast night, however, I received a new message:\n\n>Sorry to bug you again but I have one more question. I know you can help me with this.\nIs there something wrong with [Jake] especially in bed?\ni just wonder!\nI'm sorry if i'm crazy enough to ask you this but i am very curious and i'm not trying to getting into your past problems or business. But I just have to know. Please!\nThanks alot for even talking to me. I appreciate it.\n\nObviously, this girlfriend is just blatantly oblivious to how awkward it is to ask someone's ex-girlfriend about their former boyfriend's sexual problems. Besides, the sex life I had with Jake was the only good thing we had; our sexual chemistry was pretty hot (including a threesome with a friend of mine), but it wasn't enough to keep the relationship together.\n\nI've thought about what to say in response, but I'm coming up with nothing. Part of me wants to know what sort of problems she's referring to since he and I never had difficulties, but I'm also afraid to open Pandora's box.\n\nPlease help me figure this drama out!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I have been separated for over two years now, and it was only a few months ago that he began dating someone new. Since he and I broke up, we do not have even the smallest remnants of a friendship anymore. So naturally, he does not know that his new girlfriend (we'll call her Jen) has sent me messages on Facebook asking for advice.\n\nThe first message asked me if I thought my ex (we'll call him Jake) was ready to live with a girlfriend again. Being as emotionally separated as possible from the question, I told Jen that it was really something she should discuss with \nJake. Jen thanked me for my advice, and a few weeks have gone by without hearing from neither her nor him, so I thought I was in the clear.\nLast night, however, I received a new message:\n\n>Sorry to bug you again but I have one more question. I know you can help me with this.\nIs there something wrong with [Jake] especially in bed?\ni just wonder!\nI'm sorry if i'm crazy enough to ask you this but i am very curious and i'm not trying to getting into your past problems or business. But I just have to know. Please!\nThanks alot for even talking to me. I appreciate it.\n\nObviously, this girlfriend is just blatantly oblivious to how awkward it is to ask someone's ex-girlfriend about their former boyfriend's sexual problems. Besides, the sex life I had with Jake was the only good thing we had; our sexual chemistry was pretty hot (including a threesome with a friend of mine), but it wasn't enough to keep the relationship together.\n\nI've thought about what to say in response, but I'm coming up with nothing. Part of me wants to know what sort of problems she's referring to since he and I never had difficulties, but I'm also afraid to open Pandora's box.\n\nPlease help me figure this drama out!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I have been separated for over two years now, and it was only a few months ago that he began dating someone new. Since he and I broke up, we do not have even the smallest remnants of a friendship anymore. So naturally, he does not know that his new girlfriend (we'll call her Jen) has sent me messages on Facebook asking for advice.\n\nThe first message asked me if I thought my ex (we'll call him Jake) was ready to live with a girlfriend again. Being as emotionally separated as possible from the question, I told Jen that it was really something she should discuss with \nJake. Jen thanked me for my advice, and a few weeks have gone by without hearing from neither her nor him, so I thought I was in the clear.\nLast night, however, I received a new message:\n\n>Sorry to bug you again but I have one more question. I know you can help me with this.\nIs there something wrong with [Jake] especially in bed?\ni just wonder!\nI'm sorry if i'm crazy enough to ask you this but i am very curious and i'm not trying to getting into your past problems or business. But I just have to know. Please!\nThanks alot for even talking to me. I appreciate it.\n\nObviously, this girlfriend is just blatantly oblivious to how awkward it is to ask someone's ex-girlfriend about their former boyfriend's sexual problems. Besides, the sex life I had with Jake was the only good thing we had; our sexual chemistry was pretty hot (including a threesome with a friend of mine), but it wasn't enough to keep the relationship together.\n\nI've thought about what to say in response, but I'm coming up with nothing. Part of me wants to know what sort of problems she's referring to since he and I never had difficulties, but I'm also afraid to open Pandora's box.\n\nPlease help me figure this drama out!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I have been separated for over two years now, and it was only a few months ago that he began dating someone new. Since he and I broke up, we do not have even the smallest remnants of a friendship anymore. So naturally, he does not know that his new girlfriend (we'll call her Jen) has sent me messages on Facebook asking for advice.\n\nThe first message asked me if I thought my ex (we'll call him Jake) was ready to live with a girlfriend again. Being as emotionally separated as possible from the question, I told Jen that it was really something she should discuss with \nJake. Jen thanked me for my advice, and a few weeks have gone by without hearing from neither her nor him, so I thought I was in the clear.\nLast night, however, I received a new message:\n\n>Sorry to bug you again but I have one more question. I know you can help me with this.\nIs there something wrong with [Jake] especially in bed?\ni just wonder!\nI'm sorry if i'm crazy enough to ask you this but i am very curious and i'm not trying to getting into your past problems or business. But I just have to know. Please!\nThanks alot for even talking to me. I appreciate it.\n\nObviously, this girlfriend is just blatantly oblivious to how awkward it is to ask someone's ex-girlfriend about their former boyfriend's sexual problems. Besides, the sex life I had with Jake was the only good thing we had; our sexual chemistry was pretty hot (including a threesome with a friend of mine), but it wasn't enough to keep the relationship together.\n\nI've thought about what to say in response, but I'm coming up with nothing. Part of me wants to know what sort of problems she's referring to since he and I never had difficulties, but I'm also afraid to open Pandora's box.\n\nPlease help me figure this drama out!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I have been separated for over two years now, and it was only a few months ago that he began dating someone new. Since he and I broke up, we do not have even the smallest remnants of a friendship anymore. So naturally, he does not know that his new girlfriend (we'll call her Jen) has sent me messages on Facebook asking for advice.\n\nThe first message asked me if I thought my ex (we'll call him Jake) was ready to live with a girlfriend again. Being as emotionally separated as possible from the question, I told Jen that it was really something she should discuss with \nJake. Jen thanked me for my advice, and a few weeks have gone by without hearing from neither her nor him, so I thought I was in the clear.\nLast night, however, I received a new message:\n\n>Sorry to bug you again but I have one more question. I know you can help me with this.\nIs there something wrong with [Jake] especially in bed?\ni just wonder!\nI'm sorry if i'm crazy enough to ask you this but i am very curious and i'm not trying to getting into your past problems or business. But I just have to know. Please!\nThanks alot for even talking to me. I appreciate it.\n\nObviously, this girlfriend is just blatantly oblivious to how awkward it is to ask someone's ex-girlfriend about their former boyfriend's sexual problems. Besides, the sex life I had with Jake was the only good thing we had; our sexual chemistry was pretty hot (including a threesome with a friend of mine), but it wasn't enough to keep the relationship together.\n\nI've thought about what to say in response, but I'm coming up with nothing. Part of me wants to know what sort of problems she's referring to since he and I never had difficulties, but I'm also afraid to open Pandora's box.\n\nPlease help me figure this drama out!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I have been separated for over two years now, and it was only a few months ago that he began dating someone new. Since he and I broke up, we do not have even the smallest remnants of a friendship anymore. So naturally, he does not know that his new girlfriend (we'll call her Jen) has sent me messages on Facebook asking for advice.\n\nThe first message asked me if I thought my ex (we'll call him Jake) was ready to live with a girlfriend again. Being as emotionally separated as possible from the question, I told Jen that it was really something she should discuss with \nJake. Jen thanked me for my advice, and a few weeks have gone by without hearing from neither her nor him, so I thought I was in the clear.\nLast night, however, I received a new message:\n\n>Sorry to bug you again but I have one more question. I know you can help me with this.\nIs there something wrong with [Jake] especially in bed?\ni just wonder!\nI'm sorry if i'm crazy enough to ask you this but i am very curious and i'm not trying to getting into your past problems or business. But I just have to know. Please!\nThanks alot for even talking to me. I appreciate it.\n\nObviously, this girlfriend is just blatantly oblivious to how awkward it is to ask someone's ex-girlfriend about their former boyfriend's sexual problems. Besides, the sex life I had with Jake was the only good thing we had; our sexual chemistry was pretty hot (including a threesome with a friend of mine), but it wasn't enough to keep the relationship together.\n\nI've thought about what to say in response, but I'm coming up with nothing. Part of me wants to know what sort of problems she's referring to since he and I never had difficulties, but I'm also afraid to open Pandora's box.\n\nPlease help me figure this drama out!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so there is this girl I like, I've known her for a few months and she has always been incredibly flirty with me. A few weeks ago some events happened and I decided to go for it, at first it didn't go too well, but after spending some more time together that changed. Long story short last Tuesday she asked if she could stay over my place and we cuddled and made out (which was actually initiated by her). So here is where it gets complicated, that literally happened the next to last night that I was at school. I've been home since last Thursday and neither of us have a car though. The good news is however, that she doesn't live that far away and she happens to live right next to a major city, which I can get to via a train station that is more or less in walking distance. Right now there are some things are tied up and I’m kind of stuck at home until they get resolved (issues with debit card and phone and they won’t be resolved until next week). Like I honestly know that based on what happened it isn’t that serious, but I don’t really want the progress I’ve made to just disappear. What would you recommend I do to keep her interest with the distance?\n\nAlright"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so there is this girl I like, I've known her for a few months and she has always been incredibly flirty with me. A few weeks ago some events happened and I decided to go for it, at first it didn't go too well, but after spending some more time together that changed. Long story short last Tuesday she asked if she could stay over my place and we cuddled and made out (which was actually initiated by her). So here is where it gets complicated, that literally happened the next to last night that I was at school. I've been home since last Thursday and neither of us have a car though. The good news is however, that she doesn't live that far away and she happens to live right next to a major city, which I can get to via a train station that is more or less in walking distance. Right now there are some things are tied up and I’m kind of stuck at home until they get resolved (issues with debit card and phone and they won’t be resolved until next week). Like I honestly know that based on what happened it isn’t that serious, but I don’t really want the progress I’ve made to just disappear. What would you recommend I do to keep her interest with the distance?\n\nAlright"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so there is this girl I like, I've known her for a few months and she has always been incredibly flirty with me. A few weeks ago some events happened and I decided to go for it, at first it didn't go too well, but after spending some more time together that changed. Long story short last Tuesday she asked if she could stay over my place and we cuddled and made out (which was actually initiated by her). So here is where it gets complicated, that literally happened the next to last night that I was at school. I've been home since last Thursday and neither of us have a car though. The good news is however, that she doesn't live that far away and she happens to live right next to a major city, which I can get to via a train station that is more or less in walking distance. Right now there are some things are tied up and I’m kind of stuck at home until they get resolved (issues with debit card and phone and they won’t be resolved until next week). Like I honestly know that based on what happened it isn’t that serious, but I don’t really want the progress I’ve made to just disappear. What would you recommend I do to keep her interest with the distance?\n\nAlright"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so there is this girl I like, I've known her for a few months and she has always been incredibly flirty with me. A few weeks ago some events happened and I decided to go for it, at first it didn't go too well, but after spending some more time together that changed. Long story short last Tuesday she asked if she could stay over my place and we cuddled and made out (which was actually initiated by her). So here is where it gets complicated, that literally happened the next to last night that I was at school. I've been home since last Thursday and neither of us have a car though. The good news is however, that she doesn't live that far away and she happens to live right next to a major city, which I can get to via a train station that is more or less in walking distance. Right now there are some things are tied up and I’m kind of stuck at home until they get resolved (issues with debit card and phone and they won’t be resolved until next week). Like I honestly know that based on what happened it isn’t that serious, but I don’t really want the progress I’ve made to just disappear. What would you recommend I do to keep her interest with the distance?\n\nAlright"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so there is this girl I like, I've known her for a few months and she has always been incredibly flirty with me. A few weeks ago some events happened and I decided to go for it, at first it didn't go too well, but after spending some more time together that changed. Long story short last Tuesday she asked if she could stay over my place and we cuddled and made out (which was actually initiated by her). So here is where it gets complicated, that literally happened the next to last night that I was at school. I've been home since last Thursday and neither of us have a car though. The good news is however, that she doesn't live that far away and she happens to live right next to a major city, which I can get to via a train station that is more or less in walking distance. Right now there are some things are tied up and I’m kind of stuck at home until they get resolved (issues with debit card and phone and they won’t be resolved until next week). Like I honestly know that based on what happened it isn’t that serious, but I don’t really want the progress I’ve made to just disappear. What would you recommend I do to keep her interest with the distance?\n\nAlright"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so there is this girl I like, I've known her for a few months and she has always been incredibly flirty with me. A few weeks ago some events happened and I decided to go for it, at first it didn't go too well, but after spending some more time together that changed. Long story short last Tuesday she asked if she could stay over my place and we cuddled and made out (which was actually initiated by her). So here is where it gets complicated, that literally happened the next to last night that I was at school. I've been home since last Thursday and neither of us have a car though. The good news is however, that she doesn't live that far away and she happens to live right next to a major city, which I can get to via a train station that is more or less in walking distance. Right now there are some things are tied up and I’m kind of stuck at home until they get resolved (issues with debit card and phone and they won’t be resolved until next week). Like I honestly know that based on what happened it isn’t that serious, but I don’t really want the progress I’ve made to just disappear. What would you recommend I do to keep her interest with the distance?\n\nAlright"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend and I had a lot in common, (same age, similar life situation, shared religion) and I would use the words best friend to describe her. \n\nWe both became pregnant at around the same time, and had our babies very close. We both had to move to accommodate our growing families, and better part of a year, we have lived on opposite sides of town, 45+ minutes away in light traffic.\n\nDespite this, I made an effort to know what is going on in her life. After having the baby, she deleted her facebook, doesn't post to instagram anymore (just comments or likes), and only posts to her private blog or twitter. It's been hard to get what's going on, to say the least.\n\nIn the past month I bought a house and have moved to her side of town. I am maybe 10-ish minutes away, and I have made an effort to show that I'm here and ready to be more of a friend- I attended a party she threw; I invited her over to just hang/unpack with our kids one afternoon- she came. \n\nShe mentioned to me that she struggles leaving the house most days and that she finds it hard to make new friends.\n\nIn the past week I offered her a very nice discount to banana republic that I wasn't going to use, but she never returned my tweet, which I found odd. \n\nYesterday, I pulled together a guest list for my birthday party another friend is throwing me. It's a big deal- it's my 30th. We've sent out digital invites well in advance, and we've set the party to be open house style at my new home on a late sunday afternoon bc I have many friends with small children. \n\nShe RSVP'd and said they couldn't come but happy birthday and have a nice time. No reason for why she couldn't come. My jaw hit the floor. I couldn't believe that she just isn't going to attempt to come.\n\nI've tried to get our friendship back to what it was pre-pregnancy, but I feel blocked at every turn. What should I do? Keep on trying? Or let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend and I had a lot in common, (same age, similar life situation, shared religion) and I would use the words best friend to describe her. \n\nWe both became pregnant at around the same time, and had our babies very close. We both had to move to accommodate our growing families, and better part of a year, we have lived on opposite sides of town, 45+ minutes away in light traffic.\n\nDespite this, I made an effort to know what is going on in her life. After having the baby, she deleted her facebook, doesn't post to instagram anymore (just comments or likes), and only posts to her private blog or twitter. It's been hard to get what's going on, to say the least.\n\nIn the past month I bought a house and have moved to her side of town. I am maybe 10-ish minutes away, and I have made an effort to show that I'm here and ready to be more of a friend- I attended a party she threw; I invited her over to just hang/unpack with our kids one afternoon- she came. \n\nShe mentioned to me that she struggles leaving the house most days and that she finds it hard to make new friends.\n\nIn the past week I offered her a very nice discount to banana republic that I wasn't going to use, but she never returned my tweet, which I found odd. \n\nYesterday, I pulled together a guest list for my birthday party another friend is throwing me. It's a big deal- it's my 30th. We've sent out digital invites well in advance, and we've set the party to be open house style at my new home on a late sunday afternoon bc I have many friends with small children. \n\nShe RSVP'd and said they couldn't come but happy birthday and have a nice time. No reason for why she couldn't come. My jaw hit the floor. I couldn't believe that she just isn't going to attempt to come.\n\nI've tried to get our friendship back to what it was pre-pregnancy, but I feel blocked at every turn. What should I do? Keep on trying? Or let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend and I had a lot in common, (same age, similar life situation, shared religion) and I would use the words best friend to describe her. \n\nWe both became pregnant at around the same time, and had our babies very close. We both had to move to accommodate our growing families, and better part of a year, we have lived on opposite sides of town, 45+ minutes away in light traffic.\n\nDespite this, I made an effort to know what is going on in her life. After having the baby, she deleted her facebook, doesn't post to instagram anymore (just comments or likes), and only posts to her private blog or twitter. It's been hard to get what's going on, to say the least.\n\nIn the past month I bought a house and have moved to her side of town. I am maybe 10-ish minutes away, and I have made an effort to show that I'm here and ready to be more of a friend- I attended a party she threw; I invited her over to just hang/unpack with our kids one afternoon- she came. \n\nShe mentioned to me that she struggles leaving the house most days and that she finds it hard to make new friends.\n\nIn the past week I offered her a very nice discount to banana republic that I wasn't going to use, but she never returned my tweet, which I found odd. \n\nYesterday, I pulled together a guest list for my birthday party another friend is throwing me. It's a big deal- it's my 30th. We've sent out digital invites well in advance, and we've set the party to be open house style at my new home on a late sunday afternoon bc I have many friends with small children. \n\nShe RSVP'd and said they couldn't come but happy birthday and have a nice time. No reason for why she couldn't come. My jaw hit the floor. I couldn't believe that she just isn't going to attempt to come.\n\nI've tried to get our friendship back to what it was pre-pregnancy, but I feel blocked at every turn. What should I do? Keep on trying? Or let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend and I had a lot in common, (same age, similar life situation, shared religion) and I would use the words best friend to describe her. \n\nWe both became pregnant at around the same time, and had our babies very close. We both had to move to accommodate our growing families, and better part of a year, we have lived on opposite sides of town, 45+ minutes away in light traffic.\n\nDespite this, I made an effort to know what is going on in her life. After having the baby, she deleted her facebook, doesn't post to instagram anymore (just comments or likes), and only posts to her private blog or twitter. It's been hard to get what's going on, to say the least.\n\nIn the past month I bought a house and have moved to her side of town. I am maybe 10-ish minutes away, and I have made an effort to show that I'm here and ready to be more of a friend- I attended a party she threw; I invited her over to just hang/unpack with our kids one afternoon- she came. \n\nShe mentioned to me that she struggles leaving the house most days and that she finds it hard to make new friends.\n\nIn the past week I offered her a very nice discount to banana republic that I wasn't going to use, but she never returned my tweet, which I found odd. \n\nYesterday, I pulled together a guest list for my birthday party another friend is throwing me. It's a big deal- it's my 30th. We've sent out digital invites well in advance, and we've set the party to be open house style at my new home on a late sunday afternoon bc I have many friends with small children. \n\nShe RSVP'd and said they couldn't come but happy birthday and have a nice time. No reason for why she couldn't come. My jaw hit the floor. I couldn't believe that she just isn't going to attempt to come.\n\nI've tried to get our friendship back to what it was pre-pregnancy, but I feel blocked at every turn. What should I do? Keep on trying? Or let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend and I had a lot in common, (same age, similar life situation, shared religion) and I would use the words best friend to describe her. \n\nWe both became pregnant at around the same time, and had our babies very close. We both had to move to accommodate our growing families, and better part of a year, we have lived on opposite sides of town, 45+ minutes away in light traffic.\n\nDespite this, I made an effort to know what is going on in her life. After having the baby, she deleted her facebook, doesn't post to instagram anymore (just comments or likes), and only posts to her private blog or twitter. It's been hard to get what's going on, to say the least.\n\nIn the past month I bought a house and have moved to her side of town. I am maybe 10-ish minutes away, and I have made an effort to show that I'm here and ready to be more of a friend- I attended a party she threw; I invited her over to just hang/unpack with our kids one afternoon- she came. \n\nShe mentioned to me that she struggles leaving the house most days and that she finds it hard to make new friends.\n\nIn the past week I offered her a very nice discount to banana republic that I wasn't going to use, but she never returned my tweet, which I found odd. \n\nYesterday, I pulled together a guest list for my birthday party another friend is throwing me. It's a big deal- it's my 30th. We've sent out digital invites well in advance, and we've set the party to be open house style at my new home on a late sunday afternoon bc I have many friends with small children. \n\nShe RSVP'd and said they couldn't come but happy birthday and have a nice time. No reason for why she couldn't come. My jaw hit the floor. I couldn't believe that she just isn't going to attempt to come.\n\nI've tried to get our friendship back to what it was pre-pregnancy, but I feel blocked at every turn. What should I do? Keep on trying? Or let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend and I had a lot in common, (same age, similar life situation, shared religion) and I would use the words best friend to describe her. \n\nWe both became pregnant at around the same time, and had our babies very close. We both had to move to accommodate our growing families, and better part of a year, we have lived on opposite sides of town, 45+ minutes away in light traffic.\n\nDespite this, I made an effort to know what is going on in her life. After having the baby, she deleted her facebook, doesn't post to instagram anymore (just comments or likes), and only posts to her private blog or twitter. It's been hard to get what's going on, to say the least.\n\nIn the past month I bought a house and have moved to her side of town. I am maybe 10-ish minutes away, and I have made an effort to show that I'm here and ready to be more of a friend- I attended a party she threw; I invited her over to just hang/unpack with our kids one afternoon- she came. \n\nShe mentioned to me that she struggles leaving the house most days and that she finds it hard to make new friends.\n\nIn the past week I offered her a very nice discount to banana republic that I wasn't going to use, but she never returned my tweet, which I found odd. \n\nYesterday, I pulled together a guest list for my birthday party another friend is throwing me. It's a big deal- it's my 30th. We've sent out digital invites well in advance, and we've set the party to be open house style at my new home on a late sunday afternoon bc I have many friends with small children. \n\nShe RSVP'd and said they couldn't come but happy birthday and have a nice time. No reason for why she couldn't come. My jaw hit the floor. I couldn't believe that she just isn't going to attempt to come.\n\nI've tried to get our friendship back to what it was pre-pregnancy, but I feel blocked at every turn. What should I do? Keep on trying? Or let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically she was with this dude last year for a short amount of time and they kinda hooked up as a one time thing and since then he wanted to hook up with her last week but since he is a prick and she knows it she rejected him, now he's mad at her and now SHE is telling me how even though she knows the dude is an asshole she still likes him because they had great fun during the summer \n\nMEANWHILE I actually fucking love this girl and I'm planning on telling her how I feel but this might not be the best time. \n\nAlso, the girl has low self esteem and that might be why she's falling for the dude who is a fucking asshole to girls he hooks up with and if she hooked up with me that would be a lot better because I truly have feelings for her and we get along incredibly well but I just don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically she was with this dude last year for a short amount of time and they kinda hooked up as a one time thing and since then he wanted to hook up with her last week but since he is a prick and she knows it she rejected him, now he's mad at her and now SHE is telling me how even though she knows the dude is an asshole she still likes him because they had great fun during the summer \n\nMEANWHILE I actually fucking love this girl and I'm planning on telling her how I feel but this might not be the best time. \n\nAlso, the girl has low self esteem and that might be why she's falling for the dude who is a fucking asshole to girls he hooks up with and if she hooked up with me that would be a lot better because I truly have feelings for her and we get along incredibly well but I just don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically she was with this dude last year for a short amount of time and they kinda hooked up as a one time thing and since then he wanted to hook up with her last week but since he is a prick and she knows it she rejected him, now he's mad at her and now SHE is telling me how even though she knows the dude is an asshole she still likes him because they had great fun during the summer \n\nMEANWHILE I actually fucking love this girl and I'm planning on telling her how I feel but this might not be the best time. \n\nAlso, the girl has low self esteem and that might be why she's falling for the dude who is a fucking asshole to girls he hooks up with and if she hooked up with me that would be a lot better because I truly have feelings for her and we get along incredibly well but I just don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically she was with this dude last year for a short amount of time and they kinda hooked up as a one time thing and since then he wanted to hook up with her last week but since he is a prick and she knows it she rejected him, now he's mad at her and now SHE is telling me how even though she knows the dude is an asshole she still likes him because they had great fun during the summer \n\nMEANWHILE I actually fucking love this girl and I'm planning on telling her how I feel but this might not be the best time. \n\nAlso, the girl has low self esteem and that might be why she's falling for the dude who is a fucking asshole to girls he hooks up with and if she hooked up with me that would be a lot better because I truly have feelings for her and we get along incredibly well but I just don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically she was with this dude last year for a short amount of time and they kinda hooked up as a one time thing and since then he wanted to hook up with her last week but since he is a prick and she knows it she rejected him, now he's mad at her and now SHE is telling me how even though she knows the dude is an asshole she still likes him because they had great fun during the summer \n\nMEANWHILE I actually fucking love this girl and I'm planning on telling her how I feel but this might not be the best time. \n\nAlso, the girl has low self esteem and that might be why she's falling for the dude who is a fucking asshole to girls he hooks up with and if she hooked up with me that would be a lot better because I truly have feelings for her and we get along incredibly well but I just don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically she was with this dude last year for a short amount of time and they kinda hooked up as a one time thing and since then he wanted to hook up with her last week but since he is a prick and she knows it she rejected him, now he's mad at her and now SHE is telling me how even though she knows the dude is an asshole she still likes him because they had great fun during the summer \n\nMEANWHILE I actually fucking love this girl and I'm planning on telling her how I feel but this might not be the best time. \n\nAlso, the girl has low self esteem and that might be why she's falling for the dude who is a fucking asshole to girls he hooks up with and if she hooked up with me that would be a lot better because I truly have feelings for her and we get along incredibly well but I just don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really don't want anything to do with my mom's side of the family anymore.\n\nMy mom was (is?) suffering from mental health issues and substance abuse problems last summer, and didn't have many friends. She is divorced and my brother lives a city away. She's currently in jail, and has been since October when it all ended.\n \nI was listed as the emergency contact for her, which meant during a 4-month long hell I was constantly on the phone with therapists, doctors, lawyers and the police. It was really hard to do, on top of two jobs. It really put me in a dark place in my life where I relapsed into debilitating anxiety.\n\nMy mom's family could have stepped up to the place but my grandmother literally skipped town, moved down to my mom's family's house hours away. No one helped me. Their family sucks.\n\nI don't speak to them anymore but just got an invite to their bridal shower. I attended their wedding. Should I ignore it, send them something or what? If I go, it means my mom's whole family will be there and I fucking hate those people for what they did, or lack thereof."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really don't want anything to do with my mom's side of the family anymore.\n\nMy mom was (is?) suffering from mental health issues and substance abuse problems last summer, and didn't have many friends. She is divorced and my brother lives a city away. She's currently in jail, and has been since October when it all ended.\n \nI was listed as the emergency contact for her, which meant during a 4-month long hell I was constantly on the phone with therapists, doctors, lawyers and the police. It was really hard to do, on top of two jobs. It really put me in a dark place in my life where I relapsed into debilitating anxiety.\n\nMy mom's family could have stepped up to the place but my grandmother literally skipped town, moved down to my mom's family's house hours away. No one helped me. Their family sucks.\n\nI don't speak to them anymore but just got an invite to their bridal shower. I attended their wedding. Should I ignore it, send them something or what? If I go, it means my mom's whole family will be there and I fucking hate those people for what they did, or lack thereof."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really don't want anything to do with my mom's side of the family anymore.\n\nMy mom was (is?) suffering from mental health issues and substance abuse problems last summer, and didn't have many friends. She is divorced and my brother lives a city away. She's currently in jail, and has been since October when it all ended.\n \nI was listed as the emergency contact for her, which meant during a 4-month long hell I was constantly on the phone with therapists, doctors, lawyers and the police. It was really hard to do, on top of two jobs. It really put me in a dark place in my life where I relapsed into debilitating anxiety.\n\nMy mom's family could have stepped up to the place but my grandmother literally skipped town, moved down to my mom's family's house hours away. No one helped me. Their family sucks.\n\nI don't speak to them anymore but just got an invite to their bridal shower. I attended their wedding. Should I ignore it, send them something or what? If I go, it means my mom's whole family will be there and I fucking hate those people for what they did, or lack thereof."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really don't want anything to do with my mom's side of the family anymore.\n\nMy mom was (is?) suffering from mental health issues and substance abuse problems last summer, and didn't have many friends. She is divorced and my brother lives a city away. She's currently in jail, and has been since October when it all ended.\n \nI was listed as the emergency contact for her, which meant during a 4-month long hell I was constantly on the phone with therapists, doctors, lawyers and the police. It was really hard to do, on top of two jobs. It really put me in a dark place in my life where I relapsed into debilitating anxiety.\n\nMy mom's family could have stepped up to the place but my grandmother literally skipped town, moved down to my mom's family's house hours away. No one helped me. Their family sucks.\n\nI don't speak to them anymore but just got an invite to their bridal shower. I attended their wedding. Should I ignore it, send them something or what? If I go, it means my mom's whole family will be there and I fucking hate those people for what they did, or lack thereof."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really don't want anything to do with my mom's side of the family anymore.\n\nMy mom was (is?) suffering from mental health issues and substance abuse problems last summer, and didn't have many friends. She is divorced and my brother lives a city away. She's currently in jail, and has been since October when it all ended.\n \nI was listed as the emergency contact for her, which meant during a 4-month long hell I was constantly on the phone with therapists, doctors, lawyers and the police. It was really hard to do, on top of two jobs. It really put me in a dark place in my life where I relapsed into debilitating anxiety.\n\nMy mom's family could have stepped up to the place but my grandmother literally skipped town, moved down to my mom's family's house hours away. No one helped me. Their family sucks.\n\nI don't speak to them anymore but just got an invite to their bridal shower. I attended their wedding. Should I ignore it, send them something or what? If I go, it means my mom's whole family will be there and I fucking hate those people for what they did, or lack thereof."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What happened:\n\nSo me and this girl have really been hitting it off, in two weeks I've slept over at her place 6 times just hanging out and hooking up. On the sixth night we have sex, we really like each other.\n\nThen I go home for 5 days, I come back and shes all \"lovey dovey\", we talk about how now she's my girlfriend, and maybe 2 hours later she makes a joke about how all these weird guys message her on facebook:\n\nI go to look, and I see that this guy messaged her flirting with her and SHE GAVE HIM HER NUMBER. He then texted her, and she claims she never responded, but deleted the text. This is after we had sex, while I was away, and while we were very much into each other.\n\nI spend the next 30 minutes putting my clothes on trying to make sense of if I should be mad, why she would do that, while she essentially says that \"I was bored, it was a mistake, I really like you\".\n\nI ended up not leaving, because I have never felt so strongly about someone after such a short period of time. or ever really, and because I truly know that she really really does like me, and because I could see that If I was bored and technically didn't have a girlfriend, maybe I'd give a girl my number that was hitting on me. \n\nThe BIG PROBLEM:\nNow, even if I brush off what happened and just take it as \"we weren't technically dating,\" how do I go back to seeing her the same way I saw her before? Everything we had was so innocent and fun, and now I feel like it's completely ruined. I don't look at her with love in my eyes now. I look at her and just feel sad.\n\nWhen she picked me up the night of, I would sit in the passenger seat smiling, looking at her, making jokes so that she would smile. When I rode back the next morning I just didn't feel comfortable, I couldn't look at her. I felt ashamed in a way. I don't know what to do. I would really appreciate any advice"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What happened:\n\nSo me and this girl have really been hitting it off, in two weeks I've slept over at her place 6 times just hanging out and hooking up. On the sixth night we have sex, we really like each other.\n\nThen I go home for 5 days, I come back and shes all \"lovey dovey\", we talk about how now she's my girlfriend, and maybe 2 hours later she makes a joke about how all these weird guys message her on facebook:\n\nI go to look, and I see that this guy messaged her flirting with her and SHE GAVE HIM HER NUMBER. He then texted her, and she claims she never responded, but deleted the text. This is after we had sex, while I was away, and while we were very much into each other.\n\nI spend the next 30 minutes putting my clothes on trying to make sense of if I should be mad, why she would do that, while she essentially says that \"I was bored, it was a mistake, I really like you\".\n\nI ended up not leaving, because I have never felt so strongly about someone after such a short period of time. or ever really, and because I truly know that she really really does like me, and because I could see that If I was bored and technically didn't have a girlfriend, maybe I'd give a girl my number that was hitting on me. \n\nThe BIG PROBLEM:\nNow, even if I brush off what happened and just take it as \"we weren't technically dating,\" how do I go back to seeing her the same way I saw her before? Everything we had was so innocent and fun, and now I feel like it's completely ruined. I don't look at her with love in my eyes now. I look at her and just feel sad.\n\nWhen she picked me up the night of, I would sit in the passenger seat smiling, looking at her, making jokes so that she would smile. When I rode back the next morning I just didn't feel comfortable, I couldn't look at her. I felt ashamed in a way. I don't know what to do. I would really appreciate any advice"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What happened:\n\nSo me and this girl have really been hitting it off, in two weeks I've slept over at her place 6 times just hanging out and hooking up. On the sixth night we have sex, we really like each other.\n\nThen I go home for 5 days, I come back and shes all \"lovey dovey\", we talk about how now she's my girlfriend, and maybe 2 hours later she makes a joke about how all these weird guys message her on facebook:\n\nI go to look, and I see that this guy messaged her flirting with her and SHE GAVE HIM HER NUMBER. He then texted her, and she claims she never responded, but deleted the text. This is after we had sex, while I was away, and while we were very much into each other.\n\nI spend the next 30 minutes putting my clothes on trying to make sense of if I should be mad, why she would do that, while she essentially says that \"I was bored, it was a mistake, I really like you\".\n\nI ended up not leaving, because I have never felt so strongly about someone after such a short period of time. or ever really, and because I truly know that she really really does like me, and because I could see that If I was bored and technically didn't have a girlfriend, maybe I'd give a girl my number that was hitting on me. \n\nThe BIG PROBLEM:\nNow, even if I brush off what happened and just take it as \"we weren't technically dating,\" how do I go back to seeing her the same way I saw her before? Everything we had was so innocent and fun, and now I feel like it's completely ruined. I don't look at her with love in my eyes now. I look at her and just feel sad.\n\nWhen she picked me up the night of, I would sit in the passenger seat smiling, looking at her, making jokes so that she would smile. When I rode back the next morning I just didn't feel comfortable, I couldn't look at her. I felt ashamed in a way. I don't know what to do. I would really appreciate any advice"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What happened:\n\nSo me and this girl have really been hitting it off, in two weeks I've slept over at her place 6 times just hanging out and hooking up. On the sixth night we have sex, we really like each other.\n\nThen I go home for 5 days, I come back and shes all \"lovey dovey\", we talk about how now she's my girlfriend, and maybe 2 hours later she makes a joke about how all these weird guys message her on facebook:\n\nI go to look, and I see that this guy messaged her flirting with her and SHE GAVE HIM HER NUMBER. He then texted her, and she claims she never responded, but deleted the text. This is after we had sex, while I was away, and while we were very much into each other.\n\nI spend the next 30 minutes putting my clothes on trying to make sense of if I should be mad, why she would do that, while she essentially says that \"I was bored, it was a mistake, I really like you\".\n\nI ended up not leaving, because I have never felt so strongly about someone after such a short period of time. or ever really, and because I truly know that she really really does like me, and because I could see that If I was bored and technically didn't have a girlfriend, maybe I'd give a girl my number that was hitting on me. \n\nThe BIG PROBLEM:\nNow, even if I brush off what happened and just take it as \"we weren't technically dating,\" how do I go back to seeing her the same way I saw her before? Everything we had was so innocent and fun, and now I feel like it's completely ruined. I don't look at her with love in my eyes now. I look at her and just feel sad.\n\nWhen she picked me up the night of, I would sit in the passenger seat smiling, looking at her, making jokes so that she would smile. When I rode back the next morning I just didn't feel comfortable, I couldn't look at her. I felt ashamed in a way. I don't know what to do. I would really appreciate any advice"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What happened:\n\nSo me and this girl have really been hitting it off, in two weeks I've slept over at her place 6 times just hanging out and hooking up. On the sixth night we have sex, we really like each other.\n\nThen I go home for 5 days, I come back and shes all \"lovey dovey\", we talk about how now she's my girlfriend, and maybe 2 hours later she makes a joke about how all these weird guys message her on facebook:\n\nI go to look, and I see that this guy messaged her flirting with her and SHE GAVE HIM HER NUMBER. He then texted her, and she claims she never responded, but deleted the text. This is after we had sex, while I was away, and while we were very much into each other.\n\nI spend the next 30 minutes putting my clothes on trying to make sense of if I should be mad, why she would do that, while she essentially says that \"I was bored, it was a mistake, I really like you\".\n\nI ended up not leaving, because I have never felt so strongly about someone after such a short period of time. or ever really, and because I truly know that she really really does like me, and because I could see that If I was bored and technically didn't have a girlfriend, maybe I'd give a girl my number that was hitting on me. \n\nThe BIG PROBLEM:\nNow, even if I brush off what happened and just take it as \"we weren't technically dating,\" how do I go back to seeing her the same way I saw her before? Everything we had was so innocent and fun, and now I feel like it's completely ruined. I don't look at her with love in my eyes now. I look at her and just feel sad.\n\nWhen she picked me up the night of, I would sit in the passenger seat smiling, looking at her, making jokes so that she would smile. When I rode back the next morning I just didn't feel comfortable, I couldn't look at her. I felt ashamed in a way. I don't know what to do. I would really appreciate any advice"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What happened:\n\nSo me and this girl have really been hitting it off, in two weeks I've slept over at her place 6 times just hanging out and hooking up. On the sixth night we have sex, we really like each other.\n\nThen I go home for 5 days, I come back and shes all \"lovey dovey\", we talk about how now she's my girlfriend, and maybe 2 hours later she makes a joke about how all these weird guys message her on facebook:\n\nI go to look, and I see that this guy messaged her flirting with her and SHE GAVE HIM HER NUMBER. He then texted her, and she claims she never responded, but deleted the text. This is after we had sex, while I was away, and while we were very much into each other.\n\nI spend the next 30 minutes putting my clothes on trying to make sense of if I should be mad, why she would do that, while she essentially says that \"I was bored, it was a mistake, I really like you\".\n\nI ended up not leaving, because I have never felt so strongly about someone after such a short period of time. or ever really, and because I truly know that she really really does like me, and because I could see that If I was bored and technically didn't have a girlfriend, maybe I'd give a girl my number that was hitting on me. \n\nThe BIG PROBLEM:\nNow, even if I brush off what happened and just take it as \"we weren't technically dating,\" how do I go back to seeing her the same way I saw her before? Everything we had was so innocent and fun, and now I feel like it's completely ruined. I don't look at her with love in my eyes now. I look at her and just feel sad.\n\nWhen she picked me up the night of, I would sit in the passenger seat smiling, looking at her, making jokes so that she would smile. When I rode back the next morning I just didn't feel comfortable, I couldn't look at her. I felt ashamed in a way. I don't know what to do. I would really appreciate any advice"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22/f) met a boy (21/m), and we dated for a few months. We broke up because he wasn't sure how he felt and also our dating and communication styles were different. We decided to be friends (his suggestion), and I was fine with that because I like hanging out with him and he's generally a fun and interesting person. However, he's flaky, and the frustrations I have about our friendship are the same as when we were dating. E.g., sometimes we make plans to hang out, and we have a fine and dandy time; other times, I ask him if he's free and he says yes but then later bails (to go do other things like get drunk). Yes, I should get a clue and know that that means he doesn't want to hang out, but like I said, when we do manage to get together, we have a good time. I can't tell if he's crappy at being a friend/person or crappy to me in particular."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22/f) met a boy (21/m), and we dated for a few months. We broke up because he wasn't sure how he felt and also our dating and communication styles were different. We decided to be friends (his suggestion), and I was fine with that because I like hanging out with him and he's generally a fun and interesting person. However, he's flaky, and the frustrations I have about our friendship are the same as when we were dating. E.g., sometimes we make plans to hang out, and we have a fine and dandy time; other times, I ask him if he's free and he says yes but then later bails (to go do other things like get drunk). Yes, I should get a clue and know that that means he doesn't want to hang out, but like I said, when we do manage to get together, we have a good time. I can't tell if he's crappy at being a friend/person or crappy to me in particular."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22/f) met a boy (21/m), and we dated for a few months. We broke up because he wasn't sure how he felt and also our dating and communication styles were different. We decided to be friends (his suggestion), and I was fine with that because I like hanging out with him and he's generally a fun and interesting person. However, he's flaky, and the frustrations I have about our friendship are the same as when we were dating. E.g., sometimes we make plans to hang out, and we have a fine and dandy time; other times, I ask him if he's free and he says yes but then later bails (to go do other things like get drunk). Yes, I should get a clue and know that that means he doesn't want to hang out, but like I said, when we do manage to get together, we have a good time. I can't tell if he's crappy at being a friend/person or crappy to me in particular."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22/f) met a boy (21/m), and we dated for a few months. We broke up because he wasn't sure how he felt and also our dating and communication styles were different. We decided to be friends (his suggestion), and I was fine with that because I like hanging out with him and he's generally a fun and interesting person. However, he's flaky, and the frustrations I have about our friendship are the same as when we were dating. E.g., sometimes we make plans to hang out, and we have a fine and dandy time; other times, I ask him if he's free and he says yes but then later bails (to go do other things like get drunk). Yes, I should get a clue and know that that means he doesn't want to hang out, but like I said, when we do manage to get together, we have a good time. I can't tell if he's crappy at being a friend/person or crappy to me in particular."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22/f) met a boy (21/m), and we dated for a few months. We broke up because he wasn't sure how he felt and also our dating and communication styles were different. We decided to be friends (his suggestion), and I was fine with that because I like hanging out with him and he's generally a fun and interesting person. However, he's flaky, and the frustrations I have about our friendship are the same as when we were dating. E.g., sometimes we make plans to hang out, and we have a fine and dandy time; other times, I ask him if he's free and he says yes but then later bails (to go do other things like get drunk). Yes, I should get a clue and know that that means he doesn't want to hang out, but like I said, when we do manage to get together, we have a good time. I can't tell if he's crappy at being a friend/person or crappy to me in particular."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22/f) met a boy (21/m), and we dated for a few months. We broke up because he wasn't sure how he felt and also our dating and communication styles were different. We decided to be friends (his suggestion), and I was fine with that because I like hanging out with him and he's generally a fun and interesting person. However, he's flaky, and the frustrations I have about our friendship are the same as when we were dating. E.g., sometimes we make plans to hang out, and we have a fine and dandy time; other times, I ask him if he's free and he says yes but then later bails (to go do other things like get drunk). Yes, I should get a clue and know that that means he doesn't want to hang out, but like I said, when we do manage to get together, we have a good time. I can't tell if he's crappy at being a friend/person or crappy to me in particular."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known my friend for about 4 years, during which time she has been in a long distance relationship. I've always kind of had a crush on her, but because of her long distance partner, I haven't done anything.\n\nRecently she asked whether we could meet for a coffee date. The last time I spoke to her, she made reference to having difficulties with the relationship. Although I like her, I was paranoid about being used as a battering ram for relationship difficulties (one of my friendship groups literally imploded after this) any I checked her facebook page to confirm she was still in a relationship (she was) so I figured all was good. For whatever reason I reloaded that page 30 minutes later, and I saw that she had taken those details down. \n\nAgain, I was thinking fairly cautiously - specifically, they could be on a break or maybe she didn't want information about her relationship up. I went and had a coffee, although unfortunately a mutual colleague of ours was there and in the same location, so we couldn't really ignore him and I didn't get a chance to ask.\n\nI asked my brother about this situation (because her, him and I have a number of intermeshed friendships). He felt that there wasn't enough information to reach a solid conclusion on anything, so he felt that I should not do anything or at the very least approach the situation cautiously, in case things did go south.\n\nUnfortunately, I'm not sure how to do this. I'm recovering from surgery this weekend, so I have a bit more time to think about the situation. I don't want to lose my friend, but at the same time the sequence of events (at least from my perspective) felt like something was up."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known my friend for about 4 years, during which time she has been in a long distance relationship. I've always kind of had a crush on her, but because of her long distance partner, I haven't done anything.\n\nRecently she asked whether we could meet for a coffee date. The last time I spoke to her, she made reference to having difficulties with the relationship. Although I like her, I was paranoid about being used as a battering ram for relationship difficulties (one of my friendship groups literally imploded after this) any I checked her facebook page to confirm she was still in a relationship (she was) so I figured all was good. For whatever reason I reloaded that page 30 minutes later, and I saw that she had taken those details down. \n\nAgain, I was thinking fairly cautiously - specifically, they could be on a break or maybe she didn't want information about her relationship up. I went and had a coffee, although unfortunately a mutual colleague of ours was there and in the same location, so we couldn't really ignore him and I didn't get a chance to ask.\n\nI asked my brother about this situation (because her, him and I have a number of intermeshed friendships). He felt that there wasn't enough information to reach a solid conclusion on anything, so he felt that I should not do anything or at the very least approach the situation cautiously, in case things did go south.\n\nUnfortunately, I'm not sure how to do this. I'm recovering from surgery this weekend, so I have a bit more time to think about the situation. I don't want to lose my friend, but at the same time the sequence of events (at least from my perspective) felt like something was up."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known my friend for about 4 years, during which time she has been in a long distance relationship. I've always kind of had a crush on her, but because of her long distance partner, I haven't done anything.\n\nRecently she asked whether we could meet for a coffee date. The last time I spoke to her, she made reference to having difficulties with the relationship. Although I like her, I was paranoid about being used as a battering ram for relationship difficulties (one of my friendship groups literally imploded after this) any I checked her facebook page to confirm she was still in a relationship (she was) so I figured all was good. For whatever reason I reloaded that page 30 minutes later, and I saw that she had taken those details down. \n\nAgain, I was thinking fairly cautiously - specifically, they could be on a break or maybe she didn't want information about her relationship up. I went and had a coffee, although unfortunately a mutual colleague of ours was there and in the same location, so we couldn't really ignore him and I didn't get a chance to ask.\n\nI asked my brother about this situation (because her, him and I have a number of intermeshed friendships). He felt that there wasn't enough information to reach a solid conclusion on anything, so he felt that I should not do anything or at the very least approach the situation cautiously, in case things did go south.\n\nUnfortunately, I'm not sure how to do this. I'm recovering from surgery this weekend, so I have a bit more time to think about the situation. I don't want to lose my friend, but at the same time the sequence of events (at least from my perspective) felt like something was up."
} |
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