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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known my friend for about 4 years, during which time she has been in a long distance relationship. I've always kind of had a crush on her, but because of her long distance partner, I haven't done anything.\n\nRecently she asked whether we could meet for a coffee date. The last time I spoke to her, she made reference to having difficulties with the relationship. Although I like her, I was paranoid about being used as a battering ram for relationship difficulties (one of my friendship groups literally imploded after this) any I checked her facebook page to confirm she was still in a relationship (she was) so I figured all was good. For whatever reason I reloaded that page 30 minutes later, and I saw that she had taken those details down. \n\nAgain, I was thinking fairly cautiously - specifically, they could be on a break or maybe she didn't want information about her relationship up. I went and had a coffee, although unfortunately a mutual colleague of ours was there and in the same location, so we couldn't really ignore him and I didn't get a chance to ask.\n\nI asked my brother about this situation (because her, him and I have a number of intermeshed friendships). He felt that there wasn't enough information to reach a solid conclusion on anything, so he felt that I should not do anything or at the very least approach the situation cautiously, in case things did go south.\n\nUnfortunately, I'm not sure how to do this. I'm recovering from surgery this weekend, so I have a bit more time to think about the situation. I don't want to lose my friend, but at the same time the sequence of events (at least from my perspective) felt like something was up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known my friend for about 4 years, during which time she has been in a long distance relationship. I've always kind of had a crush on her, but because of her long distance partner, I haven't done anything.\n\nRecently she asked whether we could meet for a coffee date. The last time I spoke to her, she made reference to having difficulties with the relationship. Although I like her, I was paranoid about being used as a battering ram for relationship difficulties (one of my friendship groups literally imploded after this) any I checked her facebook page to confirm she was still in a relationship (she was) so I figured all was good. For whatever reason I reloaded that page 30 minutes later, and I saw that she had taken those details down. \n\nAgain, I was thinking fairly cautiously - specifically, they could be on a break or maybe she didn't want information about her relationship up. I went and had a coffee, although unfortunately a mutual colleague of ours was there and in the same location, so we couldn't really ignore him and I didn't get a chance to ask.\n\nI asked my brother about this situation (because her, him and I have a number of intermeshed friendships). He felt that there wasn't enough information to reach a solid conclusion on anything, so he felt that I should not do anything or at the very least approach the situation cautiously, in case things did go south.\n\nUnfortunately, I'm not sure how to do this. I'm recovering from surgery this weekend, so I have a bit more time to think about the situation. I don't want to lose my friend, but at the same time the sequence of events (at least from my perspective) felt like something was up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known my friend for about 4 years, during which time she has been in a long distance relationship. I've always kind of had a crush on her, but because of her long distance partner, I haven't done anything.\n\nRecently she asked whether we could meet for a coffee date. The last time I spoke to her, she made reference to having difficulties with the relationship. Although I like her, I was paranoid about being used as a battering ram for relationship difficulties (one of my friendship groups literally imploded after this) any I checked her facebook page to confirm she was still in a relationship (she was) so I figured all was good. For whatever reason I reloaded that page 30 minutes later, and I saw that she had taken those details down. \n\nAgain, I was thinking fairly cautiously - specifically, they could be on a break or maybe she didn't want information about her relationship up. I went and had a coffee, although unfortunately a mutual colleague of ours was there and in the same location, so we couldn't really ignore him and I didn't get a chance to ask.\n\nI asked my brother about this situation (because her, him and I have a number of intermeshed friendships). He felt that there wasn't enough information to reach a solid conclusion on anything, so he felt that I should not do anything or at the very least approach the situation cautiously, in case things did go south.\n\nUnfortunately, I'm not sure how to do this. I'm recovering from surgery this weekend, so I have a bit more time to think about the situation. I don't want to lose my friend, but at the same time the sequence of events (at least from my perspective) felt like something was up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships!\n\nI've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. Over that time, we've been taking things at her pace (I'm her first boyfriend, kiss.everything). I'm perfectly fine with that, and it's exciting to reach new stages of our relationship together.\n\nWhen it comes to being intimate, I've always stressed that if I go to far or if she's uncomfortable to let me know immediately and we'll stop.\n\nRecently I was over at her house, just the two of us. Had a nice long make out and cuddling session before I left for work - maybe 3-4 hours in length? During that time we alternated between making out, cuddling, a quick nap, and rolling around on her bed making a tangle of her sheets.\n\nA few times she stopped to go use the washroom. The second and third time she closed and locked her bedroom door behind her when she came back. I took it to mean she was comfortable and trusted me.\n\nI'm always looking for new things to try while making out. I want her to feel good, comfortable and even be pleasured by what we do. I've kissed around her neck, jaw, ears, etc.\n\n Aside from me squeezing&holding her butt under her jeans (but not under her panties - I know that's too far just now), she's not ready for anything more sexual (i.e. breasts, under the pants, etc).\n\nWhat are some other techniques I can use while kissing her to really turn her on/pleasure her? She's still a bit reserved about french kissing - we went from a flat out \"no\" to a \"maybe\" - so I've slowly been introducing tongue: licking her lips and such. She responds to that but doesn't reciprocate, which is fine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships!\n\nI've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. Over that time, we've been taking things at her pace (I'm her first boyfriend, kiss.everything). I'm perfectly fine with that, and it's exciting to reach new stages of our relationship together.\n\nWhen it comes to being intimate, I've always stressed that if I go to far or if she's uncomfortable to let me know immediately and we'll stop.\n\nRecently I was over at her house, just the two of us. Had a nice long make out and cuddling session before I left for work - maybe 3-4 hours in length? During that time we alternated between making out, cuddling, a quick nap, and rolling around on her bed making a tangle of her sheets.\n\nA few times she stopped to go use the washroom. The second and third time she closed and locked her bedroom door behind her when she came back. I took it to mean she was comfortable and trusted me.\n\nI'm always looking for new things to try while making out. I want her to feel good, comfortable and even be pleasured by what we do. I've kissed around her neck, jaw, ears, etc.\n\n Aside from me squeezing&holding her butt under her jeans (but not under her panties - I know that's too far just now), she's not ready for anything more sexual (i.e. breasts, under the pants, etc).\n\nWhat are some other techniques I can use while kissing her to really turn her on/pleasure her? She's still a bit reserved about french kissing - we went from a flat out \"no\" to a \"maybe\" - so I've slowly been introducing tongue: licking her lips and such. She responds to that but doesn't reciprocate, which is fine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships!\n\nI've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. Over that time, we've been taking things at her pace (I'm her first boyfriend, kiss.everything). I'm perfectly fine with that, and it's exciting to reach new stages of our relationship together.\n\nWhen it comes to being intimate, I've always stressed that if I go to far or if she's uncomfortable to let me know immediately and we'll stop.\n\nRecently I was over at her house, just the two of us. Had a nice long make out and cuddling session before I left for work - maybe 3-4 hours in length? During that time we alternated between making out, cuddling, a quick nap, and rolling around on her bed making a tangle of her sheets.\n\nA few times she stopped to go use the washroom. The second and third time she closed and locked her bedroom door behind her when she came back. I took it to mean she was comfortable and trusted me.\n\nI'm always looking for new things to try while making out. I want her to feel good, comfortable and even be pleasured by what we do. I've kissed around her neck, jaw, ears, etc.\n\n Aside from me squeezing&holding her butt under her jeans (but not under her panties - I know that's too far just now), she's not ready for anything more sexual (i.e. breasts, under the pants, etc).\n\nWhat are some other techniques I can use while kissing her to really turn her on/pleasure her? She's still a bit reserved about french kissing - we went from a flat out \"no\" to a \"maybe\" - so I've slowly been introducing tongue: licking her lips and such. She responds to that but doesn't reciprocate, which is fine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships!\n\nI've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. Over that time, we've been taking things at her pace (I'm her first boyfriend, kiss.everything). I'm perfectly fine with that, and it's exciting to reach new stages of our relationship together.\n\nWhen it comes to being intimate, I've always stressed that if I go to far or if she's uncomfortable to let me know immediately and we'll stop.\n\nRecently I was over at her house, just the two of us. Had a nice long make out and cuddling session before I left for work - maybe 3-4 hours in length? During that time we alternated between making out, cuddling, a quick nap, and rolling around on her bed making a tangle of her sheets.\n\nA few times she stopped to go use the washroom. The second and third time she closed and locked her bedroom door behind her when she came back. I took it to mean she was comfortable and trusted me.\n\nI'm always looking for new things to try while making out. I want her to feel good, comfortable and even be pleasured by what we do. I've kissed around her neck, jaw, ears, etc.\n\n Aside from me squeezing&holding her butt under her jeans (but not under her panties - I know that's too far just now), she's not ready for anything more sexual (i.e. breasts, under the pants, etc).\n\nWhat are some other techniques I can use while kissing her to really turn her on/pleasure her? She's still a bit reserved about french kissing - we went from a flat out \"no\" to a \"maybe\" - so I've slowly been introducing tongue: licking her lips and such. She responds to that but doesn't reciprocate, which is fine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships!\n\nI've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. Over that time, we've been taking things at her pace (I'm her first boyfriend, kiss.everything). I'm perfectly fine with that, and it's exciting to reach new stages of our relationship together.\n\nWhen it comes to being intimate, I've always stressed that if I go to far or if she's uncomfortable to let me know immediately and we'll stop.\n\nRecently I was over at her house, just the two of us. Had a nice long make out and cuddling session before I left for work - maybe 3-4 hours in length? During that time we alternated between making out, cuddling, a quick nap, and rolling around on her bed making a tangle of her sheets.\n\nA few times she stopped to go use the washroom. The second and third time she closed and locked her bedroom door behind her when she came back. I took it to mean she was comfortable and trusted me.\n\nI'm always looking for new things to try while making out. I want her to feel good, comfortable and even be pleasured by what we do. I've kissed around her neck, jaw, ears, etc.\n\n Aside from me squeezing&holding her butt under her jeans (but not under her panties - I know that's too far just now), she's not ready for anything more sexual (i.e. breasts, under the pants, etc).\n\nWhat are some other techniques I can use while kissing her to really turn her on/pleasure her? She's still a bit reserved about french kissing - we went from a flat out \"no\" to a \"maybe\" - so I've slowly been introducing tongue: licking her lips and such. She responds to that but doesn't reciprocate, which is fine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships!\n\nI've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. Over that time, we've been taking things at her pace (I'm her first boyfriend, kiss.everything). I'm perfectly fine with that, and it's exciting to reach new stages of our relationship together.\n\nWhen it comes to being intimate, I've always stressed that if I go to far or if she's uncomfortable to let me know immediately and we'll stop.\n\nRecently I was over at her house, just the two of us. Had a nice long make out and cuddling session before I left for work - maybe 3-4 hours in length? During that time we alternated between making out, cuddling, a quick nap, and rolling around on her bed making a tangle of her sheets.\n\nA few times she stopped to go use the washroom. The second and third time she closed and locked her bedroom door behind her when she came back. I took it to mean she was comfortable and trusted me.\n\nI'm always looking for new things to try while making out. I want her to feel good, comfortable and even be pleasured by what we do. I've kissed around her neck, jaw, ears, etc.\n\n Aside from me squeezing&holding her butt under her jeans (but not under her panties - I know that's too far just now), she's not ready for anything more sexual (i.e. breasts, under the pants, etc).\n\nWhat are some other techniques I can use while kissing her to really turn her on/pleasure her? She's still a bit reserved about french kissing - we went from a flat out \"no\" to a \"maybe\" - so I've slowly been introducing tongue: licking her lips and such. She responds to that but doesn't reciprocate, which is fine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit,\nI've known this girl for quite a long time, and we've spoken daily since we ended up meeting online. I'm a pretty nerdy guy, I have a lot of online friends, many of which I consider to be incredibly close (I'd say the number of true friends I have in real life is equalled by those I have online), so having close friends over the net is something I'm used to, male and female.\n\nThis girl is AMAZING. She is stunningly beautiful and her personality is absolutely top notch. She is, by far, one of my best friends in the world. And I think I'm falling for her.\n\nBut it feels incredibly naive of me, and just overall stupid to have these feelings. I live in Scotland, and she lives in America. I know that there are those rare occasions where people that met online can have a relationship and it be successful, but that knowledge doesn't stop me feeling like a prize jackass.\n\nMy question to you guys is, how am I supposed to deal with this? I mean, she is the best person I've ever known. When I talk to her it is the most relaxing and enjoyable conversation I could imagine, every time. She is incredible. Usually I'd think, 'Go for it, she's worth the risk of getting hurt', but this is different. It isn't like she lives down the street from me, she lives thousands of miles away.\n\nHow am I supposed to choose between sticking with what we've got and potentially having a relationship with the greatest person I've ever met?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit,\nI've known this girl for quite a long time, and we've spoken daily since we ended up meeting online. I'm a pretty nerdy guy, I have a lot of online friends, many of which I consider to be incredibly close (I'd say the number of true friends I have in real life is equalled by those I have online), so having close friends over the net is something I'm used to, male and female.\n\nThis girl is AMAZING. She is stunningly beautiful and her personality is absolutely top notch. She is, by far, one of my best friends in the world. And I think I'm falling for her.\n\nBut it feels incredibly naive of me, and just overall stupid to have these feelings. I live in Scotland, and she lives in America. I know that there are those rare occasions where people that met online can have a relationship and it be successful, but that knowledge doesn't stop me feeling like a prize jackass.\n\nMy question to you guys is, how am I supposed to deal with this? I mean, she is the best person I've ever known. When I talk to her it is the most relaxing and enjoyable conversation I could imagine, every time. She is incredible. Usually I'd think, 'Go for it, she's worth the risk of getting hurt', but this is different. It isn't like she lives down the street from me, she lives thousands of miles away.\n\nHow am I supposed to choose between sticking with what we've got and potentially having a relationship with the greatest person I've ever met?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit,\nI've known this girl for quite a long time, and we've spoken daily since we ended up meeting online. I'm a pretty nerdy guy, I have a lot of online friends, many of which I consider to be incredibly close (I'd say the number of true friends I have in real life is equalled by those I have online), so having close friends over the net is something I'm used to, male and female.\n\nThis girl is AMAZING. She is stunningly beautiful and her personality is absolutely top notch. She is, by far, one of my best friends in the world. And I think I'm falling for her.\n\nBut it feels incredibly naive of me, and just overall stupid to have these feelings. I live in Scotland, and she lives in America. I know that there are those rare occasions where people that met online can have a relationship and it be successful, but that knowledge doesn't stop me feeling like a prize jackass.\n\nMy question to you guys is, how am I supposed to deal with this? I mean, she is the best person I've ever known. When I talk to her it is the most relaxing and enjoyable conversation I could imagine, every time. She is incredible. Usually I'd think, 'Go for it, she's worth the risk of getting hurt', but this is different. It isn't like she lives down the street from me, she lives thousands of miles away.\n\nHow am I supposed to choose between sticking with what we've got and potentially having a relationship with the greatest person I've ever met?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit,\nI've known this girl for quite a long time, and we've spoken daily since we ended up meeting online. I'm a pretty nerdy guy, I have a lot of online friends, many of which I consider to be incredibly close (I'd say the number of true friends I have in real life is equalled by those I have online), so having close friends over the net is something I'm used to, male and female.\n\nThis girl is AMAZING. She is stunningly beautiful and her personality is absolutely top notch. She is, by far, one of my best friends in the world. And I think I'm falling for her.\n\nBut it feels incredibly naive of me, and just overall stupid to have these feelings. I live in Scotland, and she lives in America. I know that there are those rare occasions where people that met online can have a relationship and it be successful, but that knowledge doesn't stop me feeling like a prize jackass.\n\nMy question to you guys is, how am I supposed to deal with this? I mean, she is the best person I've ever known. When I talk to her it is the most relaxing and enjoyable conversation I could imagine, every time. She is incredible. Usually I'd think, 'Go for it, she's worth the risk of getting hurt', but this is different. It isn't like she lives down the street from me, she lives thousands of miles away.\n\nHow am I supposed to choose between sticking with what we've got and potentially having a relationship with the greatest person I've ever met?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit,\nI've known this girl for quite a long time, and we've spoken daily since we ended up meeting online. I'm a pretty nerdy guy, I have a lot of online friends, many of which I consider to be incredibly close (I'd say the number of true friends I have in real life is equalled by those I have online), so having close friends over the net is something I'm used to, male and female.\n\nThis girl is AMAZING. She is stunningly beautiful and her personality is absolutely top notch. She is, by far, one of my best friends in the world. And I think I'm falling for her.\n\nBut it feels incredibly naive of me, and just overall stupid to have these feelings. I live in Scotland, and she lives in America. I know that there are those rare occasions where people that met online can have a relationship and it be successful, but that knowledge doesn't stop me feeling like a prize jackass.\n\nMy question to you guys is, how am I supposed to deal with this? I mean, she is the best person I've ever known. When I talk to her it is the most relaxing and enjoyable conversation I could imagine, every time. She is incredible. Usually I'd think, 'Go for it, she's worth the risk of getting hurt', but this is different. It isn't like she lives down the street from me, she lives thousands of miles away.\n\nHow am I supposed to choose between sticking with what we've got and potentially having a relationship with the greatest person I've ever met?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit,\nI've known this girl for quite a long time, and we've spoken daily since we ended up meeting online. I'm a pretty nerdy guy, I have a lot of online friends, many of which I consider to be incredibly close (I'd say the number of true friends I have in real life is equalled by those I have online), so having close friends over the net is something I'm used to, male and female.\n\nThis girl is AMAZING. She is stunningly beautiful and her personality is absolutely top notch. She is, by far, one of my best friends in the world. And I think I'm falling for her.\n\nBut it feels incredibly naive of me, and just overall stupid to have these feelings. I live in Scotland, and she lives in America. I know that there are those rare occasions where people that met online can have a relationship and it be successful, but that knowledge doesn't stop me feeling like a prize jackass.\n\nMy question to you guys is, how am I supposed to deal with this? I mean, she is the best person I've ever known. When I talk to her it is the most relaxing and enjoyable conversation I could imagine, every time. She is incredible. Usually I'd think, 'Go for it, she's worth the risk of getting hurt', but this is different. It isn't like she lives down the street from me, she lives thousands of miles away.\n\nHow am I supposed to choose between sticking with what we've got and potentially having a relationship with the greatest person I've ever met?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Needless to say, I have yet to really tell her how I feel, though I suspect she has picked up on some signs.\n\nWe met last year, almost immediately after arriving at college. I felt connected to her right away-when we were alone, sitting and talking outside of the dorms after a night of drinking. She had a boyfriend at the time, so nothing romantic ever happened, and I'm grateful for that. \n\n(Given that I was 18 years old and raging with testosterone, to say nothing of being intoxicated, I would have readily followed lustful desire-this girl is beautiful; just thinking of her eyes, her smile, her hair gives me butterflies. Of course, I'm not suggesting that I've wised and matured immensely in this time. But, I've had time to reflect.) \n\nWe were allowed to become good friends, and we, along with two other friends (one boy, one girl), would spend a lot of time together.\n\nWhen she joined a sorority, however, we began seeing less and less of each other; during second semester, we hardly saw each other. And although we've hung out more this year-and fairly frequently, lately-seeing her has only made me want to see her more.\n\nI can speak with confidence when I say that we have fun when we're together. We make each other laugh. She has a unique quality to make people happy without having to say anything that would usually prompt happiness.\n\nNow, I have no idea what she thinks. I have never been in a relationship, partly because of fear-something that has stymied me from letting this girl know how I feel. And still, I'm fearful of losing our friendship if she does not feel the same way, and things become awkward after I reveal my feelings. If I were to tell her, I'd like to do it in person, as it is, seemingly, the most sincere option.\n\nAt this point, I would like advice. I find myself thinking of her all to often, it seems, for me to continue to conceal how I feel. But, the last thing I want is to make her feel uncomfortable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Needless to say, I have yet to really tell her how I feel, though I suspect she has picked up on some signs.\n\nWe met last year, almost immediately after arriving at college. I felt connected to her right away-when we were alone, sitting and talking outside of the dorms after a night of drinking. She had a boyfriend at the time, so nothing romantic ever happened, and I'm grateful for that. \n\n(Given that I was 18 years old and raging with testosterone, to say nothing of being intoxicated, I would have readily followed lustful desire-this girl is beautiful; just thinking of her eyes, her smile, her hair gives me butterflies. Of course, I'm not suggesting that I've wised and matured immensely in this time. But, I've had time to reflect.) \n\nWe were allowed to become good friends, and we, along with two other friends (one boy, one girl), would spend a lot of time together.\n\nWhen she joined a sorority, however, we began seeing less and less of each other; during second semester, we hardly saw each other. And although we've hung out more this year-and fairly frequently, lately-seeing her has only made me want to see her more.\n\nI can speak with confidence when I say that we have fun when we're together. We make each other laugh. She has a unique quality to make people happy without having to say anything that would usually prompt happiness.\n\nNow, I have no idea what she thinks. I have never been in a relationship, partly because of fear-something that has stymied me from letting this girl know how I feel. And still, I'm fearful of losing our friendship if she does not feel the same way, and things become awkward after I reveal my feelings. If I were to tell her, I'd like to do it in person, as it is, seemingly, the most sincere option.\n\nAt this point, I would like advice. I find myself thinking of her all to often, it seems, for me to continue to conceal how I feel. But, the last thing I want is to make her feel uncomfortable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Needless to say, I have yet to really tell her how I feel, though I suspect she has picked up on some signs.\n\nWe met last year, almost immediately after arriving at college. I felt connected to her right away-when we were alone, sitting and talking outside of the dorms after a night of drinking. She had a boyfriend at the time, so nothing romantic ever happened, and I'm grateful for that. \n\n(Given that I was 18 years old and raging with testosterone, to say nothing of being intoxicated, I would have readily followed lustful desire-this girl is beautiful; just thinking of her eyes, her smile, her hair gives me butterflies. Of course, I'm not suggesting that I've wised and matured immensely in this time. But, I've had time to reflect.) \n\nWe were allowed to become good friends, and we, along with two other friends (one boy, one girl), would spend a lot of time together.\n\nWhen she joined a sorority, however, we began seeing less and less of each other; during second semester, we hardly saw each other. And although we've hung out more this year-and fairly frequently, lately-seeing her has only made me want to see her more.\n\nI can speak with confidence when I say that we have fun when we're together. We make each other laugh. She has a unique quality to make people happy without having to say anything that would usually prompt happiness.\n\nNow, I have no idea what she thinks. I have never been in a relationship, partly because of fear-something that has stymied me from letting this girl know how I feel. And still, I'm fearful of losing our friendship if she does not feel the same way, and things become awkward after I reveal my feelings. If I were to tell her, I'd like to do it in person, as it is, seemingly, the most sincere option.\n\nAt this point, I would like advice. I find myself thinking of her all to often, it seems, for me to continue to conceal how I feel. But, the last thing I want is to make her feel uncomfortable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Needless to say, I have yet to really tell her how I feel, though I suspect she has picked up on some signs.\n\nWe met last year, almost immediately after arriving at college. I felt connected to her right away-when we were alone, sitting and talking outside of the dorms after a night of drinking. She had a boyfriend at the time, so nothing romantic ever happened, and I'm grateful for that. \n\n(Given that I was 18 years old and raging with testosterone, to say nothing of being intoxicated, I would have readily followed lustful desire-this girl is beautiful; just thinking of her eyes, her smile, her hair gives me butterflies. Of course, I'm not suggesting that I've wised and matured immensely in this time. But, I've had time to reflect.) \n\nWe were allowed to become good friends, and we, along with two other friends (one boy, one girl), would spend a lot of time together.\n\nWhen she joined a sorority, however, we began seeing less and less of each other; during second semester, we hardly saw each other. And although we've hung out more this year-and fairly frequently, lately-seeing her has only made me want to see her more.\n\nI can speak with confidence when I say that we have fun when we're together. We make each other laugh. She has a unique quality to make people happy without having to say anything that would usually prompt happiness.\n\nNow, I have no idea what she thinks. I have never been in a relationship, partly because of fear-something that has stymied me from letting this girl know how I feel. And still, I'm fearful of losing our friendship if she does not feel the same way, and things become awkward after I reveal my feelings. If I were to tell her, I'd like to do it in person, as it is, seemingly, the most sincere option.\n\nAt this point, I would like advice. I find myself thinking of her all to often, it seems, for me to continue to conceal how I feel. But, the last thing I want is to make her feel uncomfortable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Needless to say, I have yet to really tell her how I feel, though I suspect she has picked up on some signs.\n\nWe met last year, almost immediately after arriving at college. I felt connected to her right away-when we were alone, sitting and talking outside of the dorms after a night of drinking. She had a boyfriend at the time, so nothing romantic ever happened, and I'm grateful for that. \n\n(Given that I was 18 years old and raging with testosterone, to say nothing of being intoxicated, I would have readily followed lustful desire-this girl is beautiful; just thinking of her eyes, her smile, her hair gives me butterflies. Of course, I'm not suggesting that I've wised and matured immensely in this time. But, I've had time to reflect.) \n\nWe were allowed to become good friends, and we, along with two other friends (one boy, one girl), would spend a lot of time together.\n\nWhen she joined a sorority, however, we began seeing less and less of each other; during second semester, we hardly saw each other. And although we've hung out more this year-and fairly frequently, lately-seeing her has only made me want to see her more.\n\nI can speak with confidence when I say that we have fun when we're together. We make each other laugh. She has a unique quality to make people happy without having to say anything that would usually prompt happiness.\n\nNow, I have no idea what she thinks. I have never been in a relationship, partly because of fear-something that has stymied me from letting this girl know how I feel. And still, I'm fearful of losing our friendship if she does not feel the same way, and things become awkward after I reveal my feelings. If I were to tell her, I'd like to do it in person, as it is, seemingly, the most sincere option.\n\nAt this point, I would like advice. I find myself thinking of her all to often, it seems, for me to continue to conceal how I feel. But, the last thing I want is to make her feel uncomfortable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Needless to say, I have yet to really tell her how I feel, though I suspect she has picked up on some signs.\n\nWe met last year, almost immediately after arriving at college. I felt connected to her right away-when we were alone, sitting and talking outside of the dorms after a night of drinking. She had a boyfriend at the time, so nothing romantic ever happened, and I'm grateful for that. \n\n(Given that I was 18 years old and raging with testosterone, to say nothing of being intoxicated, I would have readily followed lustful desire-this girl is beautiful; just thinking of her eyes, her smile, her hair gives me butterflies. Of course, I'm not suggesting that I've wised and matured immensely in this time. But, I've had time to reflect.) \n\nWe were allowed to become good friends, and we, along with two other friends (one boy, one girl), would spend a lot of time together.\n\nWhen she joined a sorority, however, we began seeing less and less of each other; during second semester, we hardly saw each other. And although we've hung out more this year-and fairly frequently, lately-seeing her has only made me want to see her more.\n\nI can speak with confidence when I say that we have fun when we're together. We make each other laugh. She has a unique quality to make people happy without having to say anything that would usually prompt happiness.\n\nNow, I have no idea what she thinks. I have never been in a relationship, partly because of fear-something that has stymied me from letting this girl know how I feel. And still, I'm fearful of losing our friendship if she does not feel the same way, and things become awkward after I reveal my feelings. If I were to tell her, I'd like to do it in person, as it is, seemingly, the most sincere option.\n\nAt this point, I would like advice. I find myself thinking of her all to often, it seems, for me to continue to conceal how I feel. But, the last thing I want is to make her feel uncomfortable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The guy I've been seeing has started showing some. anger issues (or just angry outbursts) that scare me at times. I'm not sure if these are red flags or if I'm just overreacting. These are two incidents I distinctly remember:\n\n1. He was on the phone with AT&T customer service about his phone bill because they had been charging a fee that he wasn't aware of. The AT&T lady asked him for his password, and she told him that he had the wrong password. He started saying something to her and mid-sentence, he just screamed \"FUCK\", threw his phone down, slammed his chair onto the ground, and kicked some stuff in his room. He later apologized for acting like that in front of me and said it was because he hated phone customer service.\n\n2. I was over at his house and he was running a few minutes behind for work. His roommate's cat ran into the basement, and he got really pissed off (it wasn't supposed to be down there, apparently). He grabbed the cat from the basement, brought it upstairs, and threw it across the kitchen. Then he cussed at it. The cat wasn't physically harmed, but I personally would never throw a cat.\n\nHe was so angry during both of these incidents that it kind of scared me. He went back to normal fairly quickly though. But I've never seen anyone have these random angry outbursts. Are these red flags or just isolated incidents (and I'm just overreacting)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The guy I've been seeing has started showing some. anger issues (or just angry outbursts) that scare me at times. I'm not sure if these are red flags or if I'm just overreacting. These are two incidents I distinctly remember:\n\n1. He was on the phone with AT&T customer service about his phone bill because they had been charging a fee that he wasn't aware of. The AT&T lady asked him for his password, and she told him that he had the wrong password. He started saying something to her and mid-sentence, he just screamed \"FUCK\", threw his phone down, slammed his chair onto the ground, and kicked some stuff in his room. He later apologized for acting like that in front of me and said it was because he hated phone customer service.\n\n2. I was over at his house and he was running a few minutes behind for work. His roommate's cat ran into the basement, and he got really pissed off (it wasn't supposed to be down there, apparently). He grabbed the cat from the basement, brought it upstairs, and threw it across the kitchen. Then he cussed at it. The cat wasn't physically harmed, but I personally would never throw a cat.\n\nHe was so angry during both of these incidents that it kind of scared me. He went back to normal fairly quickly though. But I've never seen anyone have these random angry outbursts. Are these red flags or just isolated incidents (and I'm just overreacting)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The guy I've been seeing has started showing some. anger issues (or just angry outbursts) that scare me at times. I'm not sure if these are red flags or if I'm just overreacting. These are two incidents I distinctly remember:\n\n1. He was on the phone with AT&T customer service about his phone bill because they had been charging a fee that he wasn't aware of. The AT&T lady asked him for his password, and she told him that he had the wrong password. He started saying something to her and mid-sentence, he just screamed \"FUCK\", threw his phone down, slammed his chair onto the ground, and kicked some stuff in his room. He later apologized for acting like that in front of me and said it was because he hated phone customer service.\n\n2. I was over at his house and he was running a few minutes behind for work. His roommate's cat ran into the basement, and he got really pissed off (it wasn't supposed to be down there, apparently). He grabbed the cat from the basement, brought it upstairs, and threw it across the kitchen. Then he cussed at it. The cat wasn't physically harmed, but I personally would never throw a cat.\n\nHe was so angry during both of these incidents that it kind of scared me. He went back to normal fairly quickly though. But I've never seen anyone have these random angry outbursts. Are these red flags or just isolated incidents (and I'm just overreacting)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The guy I've been seeing has started showing some. anger issues (or just angry outbursts) that scare me at times. I'm not sure if these are red flags or if I'm just overreacting. These are two incidents I distinctly remember:\n\n1. He was on the phone with AT&T customer service about his phone bill because they had been charging a fee that he wasn't aware of. The AT&T lady asked him for his password, and she told him that he had the wrong password. He started saying something to her and mid-sentence, he just screamed \"FUCK\", threw his phone down, slammed his chair onto the ground, and kicked some stuff in his room. He later apologized for acting like that in front of me and said it was because he hated phone customer service.\n\n2. I was over at his house and he was running a few minutes behind for work. His roommate's cat ran into the basement, and he got really pissed off (it wasn't supposed to be down there, apparently). He grabbed the cat from the basement, brought it upstairs, and threw it across the kitchen. Then he cussed at it. The cat wasn't physically harmed, but I personally would never throw a cat.\n\nHe was so angry during both of these incidents that it kind of scared me. He went back to normal fairly quickly though. But I've never seen anyone have these random angry outbursts. Are these red flags or just isolated incidents (and I'm just overreacting)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The guy I've been seeing has started showing some. anger issues (or just angry outbursts) that scare me at times. I'm not sure if these are red flags or if I'm just overreacting. These are two incidents I distinctly remember:\n\n1. He was on the phone with AT&T customer service about his phone bill because they had been charging a fee that he wasn't aware of. The AT&T lady asked him for his password, and she told him that he had the wrong password. He started saying something to her and mid-sentence, he just screamed \"FUCK\", threw his phone down, slammed his chair onto the ground, and kicked some stuff in his room. He later apologized for acting like that in front of me and said it was because he hated phone customer service.\n\n2. I was over at his house and he was running a few minutes behind for work. His roommate's cat ran into the basement, and he got really pissed off (it wasn't supposed to be down there, apparently). He grabbed the cat from the basement, brought it upstairs, and threw it across the kitchen. Then he cussed at it. The cat wasn't physically harmed, but I personally would never throw a cat.\n\nHe was so angry during both of these incidents that it kind of scared me. He went back to normal fairly quickly though. But I've never seen anyone have these random angry outbursts. Are these red flags or just isolated incidents (and I'm just overreacting)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The guy I've been seeing has started showing some. anger issues (or just angry outbursts) that scare me at times. I'm not sure if these are red flags or if I'm just overreacting. These are two incidents I distinctly remember:\n\n1. He was on the phone with AT&T customer service about his phone bill because they had been charging a fee that he wasn't aware of. The AT&T lady asked him for his password, and she told him that he had the wrong password. He started saying something to her and mid-sentence, he just screamed \"FUCK\", threw his phone down, slammed his chair onto the ground, and kicked some stuff in his room. He later apologized for acting like that in front of me and said it was because he hated phone customer service.\n\n2. I was over at his house and he was running a few minutes behind for work. His roommate's cat ran into the basement, and he got really pissed off (it wasn't supposed to be down there, apparently). He grabbed the cat from the basement, brought it upstairs, and threw it across the kitchen. Then he cussed at it. The cat wasn't physically harmed, but I personally would never throw a cat.\n\nHe was so angry during both of these incidents that it kind of scared me. He went back to normal fairly quickly though. But I've never seen anyone have these random angry outbursts. Are these red flags or just isolated incidents (and I'm just overreacting)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and my wife have a good relationship get along great and seem to have good communication. Except she won't stop pestering me about sleeping with another woman.\n\nIt started 2 weeks ago when we were talking about kinks and how to spice it up. She jokingly said it would be hot if I slept with another woman we both laughed and I thought that was the end of that.\n\nThen she kept making comments when we would go out like \"oh I bet you'd like her wouldn't you\" or \"she looks hot right\" which was weird. She finally came out and said she wants me to sleep with another woman.\n\nI'm not comfortable with this and I told her no that I didn't want to and to stop bugging. It's been 2 weeks and she still won't stop every chance she gets she brings it up and it's getting annoying.\n\nWhen I tell her no she says I'm just being a prude and that it will be fun. Am I being a prude to not want to go through with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and my wife have a good relationship get along great and seem to have good communication. Except she won't stop pestering me about sleeping with another woman.\n\nIt started 2 weeks ago when we were talking about kinks and how to spice it up. She jokingly said it would be hot if I slept with another woman we both laughed and I thought that was the end of that.\n\nThen she kept making comments when we would go out like \"oh I bet you'd like her wouldn't you\" or \"she looks hot right\" which was weird. She finally came out and said she wants me to sleep with another woman.\n\nI'm not comfortable with this and I told her no that I didn't want to and to stop bugging. It's been 2 weeks and she still won't stop every chance she gets she brings it up and it's getting annoying.\n\nWhen I tell her no she says I'm just being a prude and that it will be fun. Am I being a prude to not want to go through with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and my wife have a good relationship get along great and seem to have good communication. Except she won't stop pestering me about sleeping with another woman.\n\nIt started 2 weeks ago when we were talking about kinks and how to spice it up. She jokingly said it would be hot if I slept with another woman we both laughed and I thought that was the end of that.\n\nThen she kept making comments when we would go out like \"oh I bet you'd like her wouldn't you\" or \"she looks hot right\" which was weird. She finally came out and said she wants me to sleep with another woman.\n\nI'm not comfortable with this and I told her no that I didn't want to and to stop bugging. It's been 2 weeks and she still won't stop every chance she gets she brings it up and it's getting annoying.\n\nWhen I tell her no she says I'm just being a prude and that it will be fun. Am I being a prude to not want to go through with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and my wife have a good relationship get along great and seem to have good communication. Except she won't stop pestering me about sleeping with another woman.\n\nIt started 2 weeks ago when we were talking about kinks and how to spice it up. She jokingly said it would be hot if I slept with another woman we both laughed and I thought that was the end of that.\n\nThen she kept making comments when we would go out like \"oh I bet you'd like her wouldn't you\" or \"she looks hot right\" which was weird. She finally came out and said she wants me to sleep with another woman.\n\nI'm not comfortable with this and I told her no that I didn't want to and to stop bugging. It's been 2 weeks and she still won't stop every chance she gets she brings it up and it's getting annoying.\n\nWhen I tell her no she says I'm just being a prude and that it will be fun. Am I being a prude to not want to go through with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and my wife have a good relationship get along great and seem to have good communication. Except she won't stop pestering me about sleeping with another woman.\n\nIt started 2 weeks ago when we were talking about kinks and how to spice it up. She jokingly said it would be hot if I slept with another woman we both laughed and I thought that was the end of that.\n\nThen she kept making comments when we would go out like \"oh I bet you'd like her wouldn't you\" or \"she looks hot right\" which was weird. She finally came out and said she wants me to sleep with another woman.\n\nI'm not comfortable with this and I told her no that I didn't want to and to stop bugging. It's been 2 weeks and she still won't stop every chance she gets she brings it up and it's getting annoying.\n\nWhen I tell her no she says I'm just being a prude and that it will be fun. Am I being a prude to not want to go through with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and my wife have a good relationship get along great and seem to have good communication. Except she won't stop pestering me about sleeping with another woman.\n\nIt started 2 weeks ago when we were talking about kinks and how to spice it up. She jokingly said it would be hot if I slept with another woman we both laughed and I thought that was the end of that.\n\nThen she kept making comments when we would go out like \"oh I bet you'd like her wouldn't you\" or \"she looks hot right\" which was weird. She finally came out and said she wants me to sleep with another woman.\n\nI'm not comfortable with this and I told her no that I didn't want to and to stop bugging. It's been 2 weeks and she still won't stop every chance she gets she brings it up and it's getting annoying.\n\nWhen I tell her no she says I'm just being a prude and that it will be fun. Am I being a prude to not want to go through with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yet I don't know where we stand and I'm hoping you guys can give me an idea. \n\nI was recently upset with her because she was getting hit on and was asked if I was her bf, to which she replied no (she told me this later). Nothing came out of it, but I'm more upset at the fact that she could have told him a white lie, but instead it lead him on. \n\nOther times when we're at the club and I come get her, she almost always has a guy talking to her, yet she let's it happen until I come introduce myself, and the guys apologize.\n\nYet if she does this when I'm in the vicinity, what about when I'm not around?\n\n-\nI'm mentioning this because we are basically a couple without the label. \n\n* We essentially live with each other for the past month\n* We're together nearly everyday. She flops on her best friends so we can hang out\n* We take turns paying for eachother\n* We've met each others closest friends and family (grandparents included)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yet I don't know where we stand and I'm hoping you guys can give me an idea. \n\nI was recently upset with her because she was getting hit on and was asked if I was her bf, to which she replied no (she told me this later). Nothing came out of it, but I'm more upset at the fact that she could have told him a white lie, but instead it lead him on. \n\nOther times when we're at the club and I come get her, she almost always has a guy talking to her, yet she let's it happen until I come introduce myself, and the guys apologize.\n\nYet if she does this when I'm in the vicinity, what about when I'm not around?\n\n-\nI'm mentioning this because we are basically a couple without the label. \n\n* We essentially live with each other for the past month\n* We're together nearly everyday. She flops on her best friends so we can hang out\n* We take turns paying for eachother\n* We've met each others closest friends and family (grandparents included)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yet I don't know where we stand and I'm hoping you guys can give me an idea. \n\nI was recently upset with her because she was getting hit on and was asked if I was her bf, to which she replied no (she told me this later). Nothing came out of it, but I'm more upset at the fact that she could have told him a white lie, but instead it lead him on. \n\nOther times when we're at the club and I come get her, she almost always has a guy talking to her, yet she let's it happen until I come introduce myself, and the guys apologize.\n\nYet if she does this when I'm in the vicinity, what about when I'm not around?\n\n-\nI'm mentioning this because we are basically a couple without the label. \n\n* We essentially live with each other for the past month\n* We're together nearly everyday. She flops on her best friends so we can hang out\n* We take turns paying for eachother\n* We've met each others closest friends and family (grandparents included)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yet I don't know where we stand and I'm hoping you guys can give me an idea. \n\nI was recently upset with her because she was getting hit on and was asked if I was her bf, to which she replied no (she told me this later). Nothing came out of it, but I'm more upset at the fact that she could have told him a white lie, but instead it lead him on. \n\nOther times when we're at the club and I come get her, she almost always has a guy talking to her, yet she let's it happen until I come introduce myself, and the guys apologize.\n\nYet if she does this when I'm in the vicinity, what about when I'm not around?\n\n-\nI'm mentioning this because we are basically a couple without the label. \n\n* We essentially live with each other for the past month\n* We're together nearly everyday. She flops on her best friends so we can hang out\n* We take turns paying for eachother\n* We've met each others closest friends and family (grandparents included)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yet I don't know where we stand and I'm hoping you guys can give me an idea. \n\nI was recently upset with her because she was getting hit on and was asked if I was her bf, to which she replied no (she told me this later). Nothing came out of it, but I'm more upset at the fact that she could have told him a white lie, but instead it lead him on. \n\nOther times when we're at the club and I come get her, she almost always has a guy talking to her, yet she let's it happen until I come introduce myself, and the guys apologize.\n\nYet if she does this when I'm in the vicinity, what about when I'm not around?\n\n-\nI'm mentioning this because we are basically a couple without the label. \n\n* We essentially live with each other for the past month\n* We're together nearly everyday. She flops on her best friends so we can hang out\n* We take turns paying for eachother\n* We've met each others closest friends and family (grandparents included)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my partner split six weeks ago. Initially it was just supposed to be a break, for her to sort her shit out, but i hadnt been feeling the love for quite a while. We had been in a polyamorous relationship, and things really started to go down hill when she slept with her girlfriend without protection, without knowing her STD status. \n\nShes been depressive since she was a teenager, and things have gone from bad to worse over the course of the kids lives, to the point I was holding literally everything together at home, while trying to hold together 2 jobs and my uni degree. \n\nAnyway, we're trying to aim for 50-50 care, but shes been pulling guilt trips on me (she screwed everything up, her life is so hard, she cant deal with the kids etc)\nI'm furious at the moment because she forgot to fill the asthma preventer medicine for the younger kid, and hes in hospital now. I feel like if I cant trust her with their basic health needs, should I take them 100%?\n\nAlternatively, I am more than willing to consider the idea that I'm being an inconsiderate, unsympathetic asshole. I'd really like some outside opinions though.\n\nWWYD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my partner split six weeks ago. Initially it was just supposed to be a break, for her to sort her shit out, but i hadnt been feeling the love for quite a while. We had been in a polyamorous relationship, and things really started to go down hill when she slept with her girlfriend without protection, without knowing her STD status. \n\nShes been depressive since she was a teenager, and things have gone from bad to worse over the course of the kids lives, to the point I was holding literally everything together at home, while trying to hold together 2 jobs and my uni degree. \n\nAnyway, we're trying to aim for 50-50 care, but shes been pulling guilt trips on me (she screwed everything up, her life is so hard, she cant deal with the kids etc)\nI'm furious at the moment because she forgot to fill the asthma preventer medicine for the younger kid, and hes in hospital now. I feel like if I cant trust her with their basic health needs, should I take them 100%?\n\nAlternatively, I am more than willing to consider the idea that I'm being an inconsiderate, unsympathetic asshole. I'd really like some outside opinions though.\n\nWWYD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my partner split six weeks ago. Initially it was just supposed to be a break, for her to sort her shit out, but i hadnt been feeling the love for quite a while. We had been in a polyamorous relationship, and things really started to go down hill when she slept with her girlfriend without protection, without knowing her STD status. \n\nShes been depressive since she was a teenager, and things have gone from bad to worse over the course of the kids lives, to the point I was holding literally everything together at home, while trying to hold together 2 jobs and my uni degree. \n\nAnyway, we're trying to aim for 50-50 care, but shes been pulling guilt trips on me (she screwed everything up, her life is so hard, she cant deal with the kids etc)\nI'm furious at the moment because she forgot to fill the asthma preventer medicine for the younger kid, and hes in hospital now. I feel like if I cant trust her with their basic health needs, should I take them 100%?\n\nAlternatively, I am more than willing to consider the idea that I'm being an inconsiderate, unsympathetic asshole. I'd really like some outside opinions though.\n\nWWYD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my partner split six weeks ago. Initially it was just supposed to be a break, for her to sort her shit out, but i hadnt been feeling the love for quite a while. We had been in a polyamorous relationship, and things really started to go down hill when she slept with her girlfriend without protection, without knowing her STD status. \n\nShes been depressive since she was a teenager, and things have gone from bad to worse over the course of the kids lives, to the point I was holding literally everything together at home, while trying to hold together 2 jobs and my uni degree. \n\nAnyway, we're trying to aim for 50-50 care, but shes been pulling guilt trips on me (she screwed everything up, her life is so hard, she cant deal with the kids etc)\nI'm furious at the moment because she forgot to fill the asthma preventer medicine for the younger kid, and hes in hospital now. I feel like if I cant trust her with their basic health needs, should I take them 100%?\n\nAlternatively, I am more than willing to consider the idea that I'm being an inconsiderate, unsympathetic asshole. I'd really like some outside opinions though.\n\nWWYD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my partner split six weeks ago. Initially it was just supposed to be a break, for her to sort her shit out, but i hadnt been feeling the love for quite a while. We had been in a polyamorous relationship, and things really started to go down hill when she slept with her girlfriend without protection, without knowing her STD status. \n\nShes been depressive since she was a teenager, and things have gone from bad to worse over the course of the kids lives, to the point I was holding literally everything together at home, while trying to hold together 2 jobs and my uni degree. \n\nAnyway, we're trying to aim for 50-50 care, but shes been pulling guilt trips on me (she screwed everything up, her life is so hard, she cant deal with the kids etc)\nI'm furious at the moment because she forgot to fill the asthma preventer medicine for the younger kid, and hes in hospital now. I feel like if I cant trust her with their basic health needs, should I take them 100%?\n\nAlternatively, I am more than willing to consider the idea that I'm being an inconsiderate, unsympathetic asshole. I'd really like some outside opinions though.\n\nWWYD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my partner split six weeks ago. Initially it was just supposed to be a break, for her to sort her shit out, but i hadnt been feeling the love for quite a while. We had been in a polyamorous relationship, and things really started to go down hill when she slept with her girlfriend without protection, without knowing her STD status. \n\nShes been depressive since she was a teenager, and things have gone from bad to worse over the course of the kids lives, to the point I was holding literally everything together at home, while trying to hold together 2 jobs and my uni degree. \n\nAnyway, we're trying to aim for 50-50 care, but shes been pulling guilt trips on me (she screwed everything up, her life is so hard, she cant deal with the kids etc)\nI'm furious at the moment because she forgot to fill the asthma preventer medicine for the younger kid, and hes in hospital now. I feel like if I cant trust her with their basic health needs, should I take them 100%?\n\nAlternatively, I am more than willing to consider the idea that I'm being an inconsiderate, unsympathetic asshole. I'd really like some outside opinions though.\n\nWWYD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all- \n I've (19F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for about 3 1/2 years now. He recently had an internship offer about 6 hours away from where we both go to school. Since he left in January we have been doing great, not much fighting and communication is pretty strong between us. We have been visiting each other about every 2-3 weekends also. \n\nWe have discussed how I feel about porn many times and he knows that I don't like him watching it. He has assured me multiple times throughout this transition that he has not been looking at porn in any way. \n\nI'm here to visit and am using his computer. Today I found 60+ links to porn videos, amateur albums etc. I am very upset and am not sure what to do. We have never had problems like this and I don't understand what lying to me was supposed to help.\n\nShould I just forgive him and let him watch/look at these things or should I stand my ground and tell him I don't want him too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all- \n I've (19F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for about 3 1/2 years now. He recently had an internship offer about 6 hours away from where we both go to school. Since he left in January we have been doing great, not much fighting and communication is pretty strong between us. We have been visiting each other about every 2-3 weekends also. \n\nWe have discussed how I feel about porn many times and he knows that I don't like him watching it. He has assured me multiple times throughout this transition that he has not been looking at porn in any way. \n\nI'm here to visit and am using his computer. Today I found 60+ links to porn videos, amateur albums etc. I am very upset and am not sure what to do. We have never had problems like this and I don't understand what lying to me was supposed to help.\n\nShould I just forgive him and let him watch/look at these things or should I stand my ground and tell him I don't want him too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all- \n I've (19F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for about 3 1/2 years now. He recently had an internship offer about 6 hours away from where we both go to school. Since he left in January we have been doing great, not much fighting and communication is pretty strong between us. We have been visiting each other about every 2-3 weekends also. \n\nWe have discussed how I feel about porn many times and he knows that I don't like him watching it. He has assured me multiple times throughout this transition that he has not been looking at porn in any way. \n\nI'm here to visit and am using his computer. Today I found 60+ links to porn videos, amateur albums etc. I am very upset and am not sure what to do. We have never had problems like this and I don't understand what lying to me was supposed to help.\n\nShould I just forgive him and let him watch/look at these things or should I stand my ground and tell him I don't want him too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all- \n I've (19F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for about 3 1/2 years now. He recently had an internship offer about 6 hours away from where we both go to school. Since he left in January we have been doing great, not much fighting and communication is pretty strong between us. We have been visiting each other about every 2-3 weekends also. \n\nWe have discussed how I feel about porn many times and he knows that I don't like him watching it. He has assured me multiple times throughout this transition that he has not been looking at porn in any way. \n\nI'm here to visit and am using his computer. Today I found 60+ links to porn videos, amateur albums etc. I am very upset and am not sure what to do. We have never had problems like this and I don't understand what lying to me was supposed to help.\n\nShould I just forgive him and let him watch/look at these things or should I stand my ground and tell him I don't want him too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all- \n I've (19F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for about 3 1/2 years now. He recently had an internship offer about 6 hours away from where we both go to school. Since he left in January we have been doing great, not much fighting and communication is pretty strong between us. We have been visiting each other about every 2-3 weekends also. \n\nWe have discussed how I feel about porn many times and he knows that I don't like him watching it. He has assured me multiple times throughout this transition that he has not been looking at porn in any way. \n\nI'm here to visit and am using his computer. Today I found 60+ links to porn videos, amateur albums etc. I am very upset and am not sure what to do. We have never had problems like this and I don't understand what lying to me was supposed to help.\n\nShould I just forgive him and let him watch/look at these things or should I stand my ground and tell him I don't want him too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all- \n I've (19F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for about 3 1/2 years now. He recently had an internship offer about 6 hours away from where we both go to school. Since he left in January we have been doing great, not much fighting and communication is pretty strong between us. We have been visiting each other about every 2-3 weekends also. \n\nWe have discussed how I feel about porn many times and he knows that I don't like him watching it. He has assured me multiple times throughout this transition that he has not been looking at porn in any way. \n\nI'm here to visit and am using his computer. Today I found 60+ links to porn videos, amateur albums etc. I am very upset and am not sure what to do. We have never had problems like this and I don't understand what lying to me was supposed to help.\n\nShould I just forgive him and let him watch/look at these things or should I stand my ground and tell him I don't want him too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do I overcome this? It feels like I am about to ruin a commited relationship with the man I love very much. He makes me happy and I know that is mutual. \nBut the thing is even with our level of connection I still can not deal with him showing his weaknesses. And that is what love and intimacy are supposed to imply, right? Being yourself, showing all the sides of your personality and not being rejected as a result. In other words, creating a safe place for each other. \nAnd yet any time something a bit 'too much' happens (as I perceive it), like a too loving stare, too tender tone, too commited promises of wanting to spend the rest of his life with me, too much comfort as to cry in front of me, - my initial instinct is to run away and hide under a blanket. Somewhere in the woods prefferably. \nI know it stems from the childhood, unstable upbringing and all the usual stuff. But how do I deal with this? I truly love this man and I don't want to ruin what we have.\n\nAnd I know, in the title I stated it was about his weaknesses, but with all honesty, the weakness is in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do I overcome this? It feels like I am about to ruin a commited relationship with the man I love very much. He makes me happy and I know that is mutual. \nBut the thing is even with our level of connection I still can not deal with him showing his weaknesses. And that is what love and intimacy are supposed to imply, right? Being yourself, showing all the sides of your personality and not being rejected as a result. In other words, creating a safe place for each other. \nAnd yet any time something a bit 'too much' happens (as I perceive it), like a too loving stare, too tender tone, too commited promises of wanting to spend the rest of his life with me, too much comfort as to cry in front of me, - my initial instinct is to run away and hide under a blanket. Somewhere in the woods prefferably. \nI know it stems from the childhood, unstable upbringing and all the usual stuff. But how do I deal with this? I truly love this man and I don't want to ruin what we have.\n\nAnd I know, in the title I stated it was about his weaknesses, but with all honesty, the weakness is in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do I overcome this? It feels like I am about to ruin a commited relationship with the man I love very much. He makes me happy and I know that is mutual. \nBut the thing is even with our level of connection I still can not deal with him showing his weaknesses. And that is what love and intimacy are supposed to imply, right? Being yourself, showing all the sides of your personality and not being rejected as a result. In other words, creating a safe place for each other. \nAnd yet any time something a bit 'too much' happens (as I perceive it), like a too loving stare, too tender tone, too commited promises of wanting to spend the rest of his life with me, too much comfort as to cry in front of me, - my initial instinct is to run away and hide under a blanket. Somewhere in the woods prefferably. \nI know it stems from the childhood, unstable upbringing and all the usual stuff. But how do I deal with this? I truly love this man and I don't want to ruin what we have.\n\nAnd I know, in the title I stated it was about his weaknesses, but with all honesty, the weakness is in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do I overcome this? It feels like I am about to ruin a commited relationship with the man I love very much. He makes me happy and I know that is mutual. \nBut the thing is even with our level of connection I still can not deal with him showing his weaknesses. And that is what love and intimacy are supposed to imply, right? Being yourself, showing all the sides of your personality and not being rejected as a result. In other words, creating a safe place for each other. \nAnd yet any time something a bit 'too much' happens (as I perceive it), like a too loving stare, too tender tone, too commited promises of wanting to spend the rest of his life with me, too much comfort as to cry in front of me, - my initial instinct is to run away and hide under a blanket. Somewhere in the woods prefferably. \nI know it stems from the childhood, unstable upbringing and all the usual stuff. But how do I deal with this? I truly love this man and I don't want to ruin what we have.\n\nAnd I know, in the title I stated it was about his weaknesses, but with all honesty, the weakness is in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do I overcome this? It feels like I am about to ruin a commited relationship with the man I love very much. He makes me happy and I know that is mutual. \nBut the thing is even with our level of connection I still can not deal with him showing his weaknesses. And that is what love and intimacy are supposed to imply, right? Being yourself, showing all the sides of your personality and not being rejected as a result. In other words, creating a safe place for each other. \nAnd yet any time something a bit 'too much' happens (as I perceive it), like a too loving stare, too tender tone, too commited promises of wanting to spend the rest of his life with me, too much comfort as to cry in front of me, - my initial instinct is to run away and hide under a blanket. Somewhere in the woods prefferably. \nI know it stems from the childhood, unstable upbringing and all the usual stuff. But how do I deal with this? I truly love this man and I don't want to ruin what we have.\n\nAnd I know, in the title I stated it was about his weaknesses, but with all honesty, the weakness is in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do I overcome this? It feels like I am about to ruin a commited relationship with the man I love very much. He makes me happy and I know that is mutual. \nBut the thing is even with our level of connection I still can not deal with him showing his weaknesses. And that is what love and intimacy are supposed to imply, right? Being yourself, showing all the sides of your personality and not being rejected as a result. In other words, creating a safe place for each other. \nAnd yet any time something a bit 'too much' happens (as I perceive it), like a too loving stare, too tender tone, too commited promises of wanting to spend the rest of his life with me, too much comfort as to cry in front of me, - my initial instinct is to run away and hide under a blanket. Somewhere in the woods prefferably. \nI know it stems from the childhood, unstable upbringing and all the usual stuff. But how do I deal with this? I truly love this man and I don't want to ruin what we have.\n\nAnd I know, in the title I stated it was about his weaknesses, but with all honesty, the weakness is in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We decided to have sex after our second date because we both suffer from anxiety. At the time I thought this was the best idea because it would help ease my nerves as well as his. Now that we have been seeing each other for 2 months I feel like our relationship is mostly about sex and perhaps we had sex to early and didn't form a non physical bond. \n\nId like to bring it up to him however Im not sure if this relationship can be saved. Should I suggest we not have sex anymore until things change. I myself am not sure if i have the self control to not engage in activities which worries me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We decided to have sex after our second date because we both suffer from anxiety. At the time I thought this was the best idea because it would help ease my nerves as well as his. Now that we have been seeing each other for 2 months I feel like our relationship is mostly about sex and perhaps we had sex to early and didn't form a non physical bond. \n\nId like to bring it up to him however Im not sure if this relationship can be saved. Should I suggest we not have sex anymore until things change. I myself am not sure if i have the self control to not engage in activities which worries me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We decided to have sex after our second date because we both suffer from anxiety. At the time I thought this was the best idea because it would help ease my nerves as well as his. Now that we have been seeing each other for 2 months I feel like our relationship is mostly about sex and perhaps we had sex to early and didn't form a non physical bond. \n\nId like to bring it up to him however Im not sure if this relationship can be saved. Should I suggest we not have sex anymore until things change. I myself am not sure if i have the self control to not engage in activities which worries me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We decided to have sex after our second date because we both suffer from anxiety. At the time I thought this was the best idea because it would help ease my nerves as well as his. Now that we have been seeing each other for 2 months I feel like our relationship is mostly about sex and perhaps we had sex to early and didn't form a non physical bond. \n\nId like to bring it up to him however Im not sure if this relationship can be saved. Should I suggest we not have sex anymore until things change. I myself am not sure if i have the self control to not engage in activities which worries me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We decided to have sex after our second date because we both suffer from anxiety. At the time I thought this was the best idea because it would help ease my nerves as well as his. Now that we have been seeing each other for 2 months I feel like our relationship is mostly about sex and perhaps we had sex to early and didn't form a non physical bond. \n\nId like to bring it up to him however Im not sure if this relationship can be saved. Should I suggest we not have sex anymore until things change. I myself am not sure if i have the self control to not engage in activities which worries me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We decided to have sex after our second date because we both suffer from anxiety. At the time I thought this was the best idea because it would help ease my nerves as well as his. Now that we have been seeing each other for 2 months I feel like our relationship is mostly about sex and perhaps we had sex to early and didn't form a non physical bond. \n\nId like to bring it up to him however Im not sure if this relationship can be saved. Should I suggest we not have sex anymore until things change. I myself am not sure if i have the self control to not engage in activities which worries me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well today i was given the ultimatum. Either I choose to obey my father and choose a particular university, and break all contact with my girlfriend and do what HE wants me to do as a course or choose to go against this and leave home. I've left home before, with him stealing from me and i moved to France (which is where i met my GF) and i moved into her apartment. We had the time of our lives for the year, and i returned to uk. Shit went down again (he disapproved of the holidays pics/facebook posts about our friends wishing us the best and how we are a great couple) and basically started to explain how my girlfriend is a whore/slut white bitch who is ruining my potential and that if i had just listened to him i wouldnt be currently without a degree. \n\nNow, i have to make probably one of the most important decisions of my life. Do i turn my back on my family, my mother/sister/brother all agree with my father, and go off to do MY choice of a course at MY choice of a university alone with no financial support and live with my girlfriend in the UK (she will be moving in with me) and break all relations with them, or do i accept that i must have my parents approval and break off the relationship.\n\nI am well and truly at a loss for words, i dont know what the fuck to do. HELP. SOS. SHE BE SINKING ME HEARTIES."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well today i was given the ultimatum. Either I choose to obey my father and choose a particular university, and break all contact with my girlfriend and do what HE wants me to do as a course or choose to go against this and leave home. I've left home before, with him stealing from me and i moved to France (which is where i met my GF) and i moved into her apartment. We had the time of our lives for the year, and i returned to uk. Shit went down again (he disapproved of the holidays pics/facebook posts about our friends wishing us the best and how we are a great couple) and basically started to explain how my girlfriend is a whore/slut white bitch who is ruining my potential and that if i had just listened to him i wouldnt be currently without a degree. \n\nNow, i have to make probably one of the most important decisions of my life. Do i turn my back on my family, my mother/sister/brother all agree with my father, and go off to do MY choice of a course at MY choice of a university alone with no financial support and live with my girlfriend in the UK (she will be moving in with me) and break all relations with them, or do i accept that i must have my parents approval and break off the relationship.\n\nI am well and truly at a loss for words, i dont know what the fuck to do. HELP. SOS. SHE BE SINKING ME HEARTIES."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well today i was given the ultimatum. Either I choose to obey my father and choose a particular university, and break all contact with my girlfriend and do what HE wants me to do as a course or choose to go against this and leave home. I've left home before, with him stealing from me and i moved to France (which is where i met my GF) and i moved into her apartment. We had the time of our lives for the year, and i returned to uk. Shit went down again (he disapproved of the holidays pics/facebook posts about our friends wishing us the best and how we are a great couple) and basically started to explain how my girlfriend is a whore/slut white bitch who is ruining my potential and that if i had just listened to him i wouldnt be currently without a degree. \n\nNow, i have to make probably one of the most important decisions of my life. Do i turn my back on my family, my mother/sister/brother all agree with my father, and go off to do MY choice of a course at MY choice of a university alone with no financial support and live with my girlfriend in the UK (she will be moving in with me) and break all relations with them, or do i accept that i must have my parents approval and break off the relationship.\n\nI am well and truly at a loss for words, i dont know what the fuck to do. HELP. SOS. SHE BE SINKING ME HEARTIES."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well today i was given the ultimatum. Either I choose to obey my father and choose a particular university, and break all contact with my girlfriend and do what HE wants me to do as a course or choose to go against this and leave home. I've left home before, with him stealing from me and i moved to France (which is where i met my GF) and i moved into her apartment. We had the time of our lives for the year, and i returned to uk. Shit went down again (he disapproved of the holidays pics/facebook posts about our friends wishing us the best and how we are a great couple) and basically started to explain how my girlfriend is a whore/slut white bitch who is ruining my potential and that if i had just listened to him i wouldnt be currently without a degree. \n\nNow, i have to make probably one of the most important decisions of my life. Do i turn my back on my family, my mother/sister/brother all agree with my father, and go off to do MY choice of a course at MY choice of a university alone with no financial support and live with my girlfriend in the UK (she will be moving in with me) and break all relations with them, or do i accept that i must have my parents approval and break off the relationship.\n\nI am well and truly at a loss for words, i dont know what the fuck to do. HELP. SOS. SHE BE SINKING ME HEARTIES."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well today i was given the ultimatum. Either I choose to obey my father and choose a particular university, and break all contact with my girlfriend and do what HE wants me to do as a course or choose to go against this and leave home. I've left home before, with him stealing from me and i moved to France (which is where i met my GF) and i moved into her apartment. We had the time of our lives for the year, and i returned to uk. Shit went down again (he disapproved of the holidays pics/facebook posts about our friends wishing us the best and how we are a great couple) and basically started to explain how my girlfriend is a whore/slut white bitch who is ruining my potential and that if i had just listened to him i wouldnt be currently without a degree. \n\nNow, i have to make probably one of the most important decisions of my life. Do i turn my back on my family, my mother/sister/brother all agree with my father, and go off to do MY choice of a course at MY choice of a university alone with no financial support and live with my girlfriend in the UK (she will be moving in with me) and break all relations with them, or do i accept that i must have my parents approval and break off the relationship.\n\nI am well and truly at a loss for words, i dont know what the fuck to do. HELP. SOS. SHE BE SINKING ME HEARTIES."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well today i was given the ultimatum. Either I choose to obey my father and choose a particular university, and break all contact with my girlfriend and do what HE wants me to do as a course or choose to go against this and leave home. I've left home before, with him stealing from me and i moved to France (which is where i met my GF) and i moved into her apartment. We had the time of our lives for the year, and i returned to uk. Shit went down again (he disapproved of the holidays pics/facebook posts about our friends wishing us the best and how we are a great couple) and basically started to explain how my girlfriend is a whore/slut white bitch who is ruining my potential and that if i had just listened to him i wouldnt be currently without a degree. \n\nNow, i have to make probably one of the most important decisions of my life. Do i turn my back on my family, my mother/sister/brother all agree with my father, and go off to do MY choice of a course at MY choice of a university alone with no financial support and live with my girlfriend in the UK (she will be moving in with me) and break all relations with them, or do i accept that i must have my parents approval and break off the relationship.\n\nI am well and truly at a loss for words, i dont know what the fuck to do. HELP. SOS. SHE BE SINKING ME HEARTIES."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nSo it's been a wonky couple weeks of unending conversation that comes and goes on all forms of communication tools. Hangouts have been awkward, but he did speak with both of his parents and has an appointment to see a therapist (his uncle is a health professional in our city and gave a few names to call and try out). He has made a concerted effort to apply to jobs and seems more motivated to get his shit together. \n\nWe've mutually decided to break up and initiate no contact while he gets his act together and I can do my thing. We are very much broken up, no strings attached, nothing. We may reconvene in December and see if this is something that we want to pursue again, or if we've moved on then the conversation doesn't even need to happen. The only reason I agreed to this gentle band-aid ripoff is because, well, I love the guy and I really do want it to work. We haven't tried space like this yet to seriously think and work ourselves out (more him than me, and he will readily admit that I did everything short of being his mom to make it work). It's the only solution I can think of where we can possibly ever be happy together, but still take the time to move on with our lives.\n\nOh, and since I got so much heat for the BC thing: I am seeing my dr next week re the new IUD and implant or new brand of pills."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nSo it's been a wonky couple weeks of unending conversation that comes and goes on all forms of communication tools. Hangouts have been awkward, but he did speak with both of his parents and has an appointment to see a therapist (his uncle is a health professional in our city and gave a few names to call and try out). He has made a concerted effort to apply to jobs and seems more motivated to get his shit together. \n\nWe've mutually decided to break up and initiate no contact while he gets his act together and I can do my thing. We are very much broken up, no strings attached, nothing. We may reconvene in December and see if this is something that we want to pursue again, or if we've moved on then the conversation doesn't even need to happen. The only reason I agreed to this gentle band-aid ripoff is because, well, I love the guy and I really do want it to work. We haven't tried space like this yet to seriously think and work ourselves out (more him than me, and he will readily admit that I did everything short of being his mom to make it work). It's the only solution I can think of where we can possibly ever be happy together, but still take the time to move on with our lives.\n\nOh, and since I got so much heat for the BC thing: I am seeing my dr next week re the new IUD and implant or new brand of pills."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nSo it's been a wonky couple weeks of unending conversation that comes and goes on all forms of communication tools. Hangouts have been awkward, but he did speak with both of his parents and has an appointment to see a therapist (his uncle is a health professional in our city and gave a few names to call and try out). He has made a concerted effort to apply to jobs and seems more motivated to get his shit together. \n\nWe've mutually decided to break up and initiate no contact while he gets his act together and I can do my thing. We are very much broken up, no strings attached, nothing. We may reconvene in December and see if this is something that we want to pursue again, or if we've moved on then the conversation doesn't even need to happen. The only reason I agreed to this gentle band-aid ripoff is because, well, I love the guy and I really do want it to work. We haven't tried space like this yet to seriously think and work ourselves out (more him than me, and he will readily admit that I did everything short of being his mom to make it work). It's the only solution I can think of where we can possibly ever be happy together, but still take the time to move on with our lives.\n\nOh, and since I got so much heat for the BC thing: I am seeing my dr next week re the new IUD and implant or new brand of pills."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nSo it's been a wonky couple weeks of unending conversation that comes and goes on all forms of communication tools. Hangouts have been awkward, but he did speak with both of his parents and has an appointment to see a therapist (his uncle is a health professional in our city and gave a few names to call and try out). He has made a concerted effort to apply to jobs and seems more motivated to get his shit together. \n\nWe've mutually decided to break up and initiate no contact while he gets his act together and I can do my thing. We are very much broken up, no strings attached, nothing. We may reconvene in December and see if this is something that we want to pursue again, or if we've moved on then the conversation doesn't even need to happen. The only reason I agreed to this gentle band-aid ripoff is because, well, I love the guy and I really do want it to work. We haven't tried space like this yet to seriously think and work ourselves out (more him than me, and he will readily admit that I did everything short of being his mom to make it work). It's the only solution I can think of where we can possibly ever be happy together, but still take the time to move on with our lives.\n\nOh, and since I got so much heat for the BC thing: I am seeing my dr next week re the new IUD and implant or new brand of pills."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nSo it's been a wonky couple weeks of unending conversation that comes and goes on all forms of communication tools. Hangouts have been awkward, but he did speak with both of his parents and has an appointment to see a therapist (his uncle is a health professional in our city and gave a few names to call and try out). He has made a concerted effort to apply to jobs and seems more motivated to get his shit together. \n\nWe've mutually decided to break up and initiate no contact while he gets his act together and I can do my thing. We are very much broken up, no strings attached, nothing. We may reconvene in December and see if this is something that we want to pursue again, or if we've moved on then the conversation doesn't even need to happen. The only reason I agreed to this gentle band-aid ripoff is because, well, I love the guy and I really do want it to work. We haven't tried space like this yet to seriously think and work ourselves out (more him than me, and he will readily admit that I did everything short of being his mom to make it work). It's the only solution I can think of where we can possibly ever be happy together, but still take the time to move on with our lives.\n\nOh, and since I got so much heat for the BC thing: I am seeing my dr next week re the new IUD and implant or new brand of pills."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nSo it's been a wonky couple weeks of unending conversation that comes and goes on all forms of communication tools. Hangouts have been awkward, but he did speak with both of his parents and has an appointment to see a therapist (his uncle is a health professional in our city and gave a few names to call and try out). He has made a concerted effort to apply to jobs and seems more motivated to get his shit together. \n\nWe've mutually decided to break up and initiate no contact while he gets his act together and I can do my thing. We are very much broken up, no strings attached, nothing. We may reconvene in December and see if this is something that we want to pursue again, or if we've moved on then the conversation doesn't even need to happen. The only reason I agreed to this gentle band-aid ripoff is because, well, I love the guy and I really do want it to work. We haven't tried space like this yet to seriously think and work ourselves out (more him than me, and he will readily admit that I did everything short of being his mom to make it work). It's the only solution I can think of where we can possibly ever be happy together, but still take the time to move on with our lives.\n\nOh, and since I got so much heat for the BC thing: I am seeing my dr next week re the new IUD and implant or new brand of pills."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend \"come up to my level\" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend \"come up to my level\" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend \"come up to my level\" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend \"come up to my level\" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend \"come up to my level\" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend \"come up to my level\" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had my own 1br bachelor pad, kept it real nice and tidy and most of all CLEAN. She came over many times and knew I was a neat freak.\n\nI moved in with my girlfriend and her best friend in a house that her parents recently moved out of. It was mostly empty at the time. \n\nI have lived with them for about a year now and knew that these girls were messy but assumed they would clean up from time to time. I was wrong.\n\nWithout going into detail, they cover every surface with clothes, mail, unfinished beverages, dishes, makeup, hair products, trash, etc.\n\nThey went to a summer camp for about a week not too long ago and I had the entire house made spotless. They ruined it within 2 days.\n\nMy girlfriend is the biggest contributor to the mess. I have talked to her about the problem, and also try to help her by catching her leaving stuff around at the exact moment she does it. (I'll tell her to toss the shirt she just removed in the hamper instead of on the floor, for example.)\n\nShe does not deny that she is messy, but gets upset with me when I \"boss her around\" and point out the things she is doing. \n\nWe are a great couple, and I want to be in this relationship for the long haul. Once we have our own place the mess won't be as bad but this still needs to be addressed.\n\nTo those of you with a messy significant other, what successful methods have you used?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had my own 1br bachelor pad, kept it real nice and tidy and most of all CLEAN. She came over many times and knew I was a neat freak.\n\nI moved in with my girlfriend and her best friend in a house that her parents recently moved out of. It was mostly empty at the time. \n\nI have lived with them for about a year now and knew that these girls were messy but assumed they would clean up from time to time. I was wrong.\n\nWithout going into detail, they cover every surface with clothes, mail, unfinished beverages, dishes, makeup, hair products, trash, etc.\n\nThey went to a summer camp for about a week not too long ago and I had the entire house made spotless. They ruined it within 2 days.\n\nMy girlfriend is the biggest contributor to the mess. I have talked to her about the problem, and also try to help her by catching her leaving stuff around at the exact moment she does it. (I'll tell her to toss the shirt she just removed in the hamper instead of on the floor, for example.)\n\nShe does not deny that she is messy, but gets upset with me when I \"boss her around\" and point out the things she is doing. \n\nWe are a great couple, and I want to be in this relationship for the long haul. Once we have our own place the mess won't be as bad but this still needs to be addressed.\n\nTo those of you with a messy significant other, what successful methods have you used?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had my own 1br bachelor pad, kept it real nice and tidy and most of all CLEAN. She came over many times and knew I was a neat freak.\n\nI moved in with my girlfriend and her best friend in a house that her parents recently moved out of. It was mostly empty at the time. \n\nI have lived with them for about a year now and knew that these girls were messy but assumed they would clean up from time to time. I was wrong.\n\nWithout going into detail, they cover every surface with clothes, mail, unfinished beverages, dishes, makeup, hair products, trash, etc.\n\nThey went to a summer camp for about a week not too long ago and I had the entire house made spotless. They ruined it within 2 days.\n\nMy girlfriend is the biggest contributor to the mess. I have talked to her about the problem, and also try to help her by catching her leaving stuff around at the exact moment she does it. (I'll tell her to toss the shirt she just removed in the hamper instead of on the floor, for example.)\n\nShe does not deny that she is messy, but gets upset with me when I \"boss her around\" and point out the things she is doing. \n\nWe are a great couple, and I want to be in this relationship for the long haul. Once we have our own place the mess won't be as bad but this still needs to be addressed.\n\nTo those of you with a messy significant other, what successful methods have you used?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had my own 1br bachelor pad, kept it real nice and tidy and most of all CLEAN. She came over many times and knew I was a neat freak.\n\nI moved in with my girlfriend and her best friend in a house that her parents recently moved out of. It was mostly empty at the time. \n\nI have lived with them for about a year now and knew that these girls were messy but assumed they would clean up from time to time. I was wrong.\n\nWithout going into detail, they cover every surface with clothes, mail, unfinished beverages, dishes, makeup, hair products, trash, etc.\n\nThey went to a summer camp for about a week not too long ago and I had the entire house made spotless. They ruined it within 2 days.\n\nMy girlfriend is the biggest contributor to the mess. I have talked to her about the problem, and also try to help her by catching her leaving stuff around at the exact moment she does it. (I'll tell her to toss the shirt she just removed in the hamper instead of on the floor, for example.)\n\nShe does not deny that she is messy, but gets upset with me when I \"boss her around\" and point out the things she is doing. \n\nWe are a great couple, and I want to be in this relationship for the long haul. Once we have our own place the mess won't be as bad but this still needs to be addressed.\n\nTo those of you with a messy significant other, what successful methods have you used?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had my own 1br bachelor pad, kept it real nice and tidy and most of all CLEAN. She came over many times and knew I was a neat freak.\n\nI moved in with my girlfriend and her best friend in a house that her parents recently moved out of. It was mostly empty at the time. \n\nI have lived with them for about a year now and knew that these girls were messy but assumed they would clean up from time to time. I was wrong.\n\nWithout going into detail, they cover every surface with clothes, mail, unfinished beverages, dishes, makeup, hair products, trash, etc.\n\nThey went to a summer camp for about a week not too long ago and I had the entire house made spotless. They ruined it within 2 days.\n\nMy girlfriend is the biggest contributor to the mess. I have talked to her about the problem, and also try to help her by catching her leaving stuff around at the exact moment she does it. (I'll tell her to toss the shirt she just removed in the hamper instead of on the floor, for example.)\n\nShe does not deny that she is messy, but gets upset with me when I \"boss her around\" and point out the things she is doing. \n\nWe are a great couple, and I want to be in this relationship for the long haul. Once we have our own place the mess won't be as bad but this still needs to be addressed.\n\nTo those of you with a messy significant other, what successful methods have you used?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had my own 1br bachelor pad, kept it real nice and tidy and most of all CLEAN. She came over many times and knew I was a neat freak.\n\nI moved in with my girlfriend and her best friend in a house that her parents recently moved out of. It was mostly empty at the time. \n\nI have lived with them for about a year now and knew that these girls were messy but assumed they would clean up from time to time. I was wrong.\n\nWithout going into detail, they cover every surface with clothes, mail, unfinished beverages, dishes, makeup, hair products, trash, etc.\n\nThey went to a summer camp for about a week not too long ago and I had the entire house made spotless. They ruined it within 2 days.\n\nMy girlfriend is the biggest contributor to the mess. I have talked to her about the problem, and also try to help her by catching her leaving stuff around at the exact moment she does it. (I'll tell her to toss the shirt she just removed in the hamper instead of on the floor, for example.)\n\nShe does not deny that she is messy, but gets upset with me when I \"boss her around\" and point out the things she is doing. \n\nWe are a great couple, and I want to be in this relationship for the long haul. Once we have our own place the mess won't be as bad but this still needs to be addressed.\n\nTo those of you with a messy significant other, what successful methods have you used?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You know that guy at work that you don't like but you're just polite to him to avoid drama? This is what it is.\n\nPeter and I met earlier this year and have partied a couple of times. Whenever I see him in the gym we always have a short chat about our weekends and plans for the upcoming one. Just a regular dude friendship. \n\nNote: Last time I saw him (two weeks ago) he told me that \"we should party sometime soon, it's been a while.\"\n\nThree weeks ago I went on a date with Pete's friend, Valerie. It went well but there wasn't a second date. No big deal, it happens.\n\nLast night I was texting Valerie about making plans this weekend regarding a large group of friends (hers and mine) and she mentioned that she thought about inviting Pete but \"it would be awkward.\"\n\nNow two things popped in my head: Pete and Val are dating, or Pete isn't actually that fond of me.\n\nIf it's the former, then it would be stupid as hell. I don't see Val like that anymore, so why would it be awkward if they're dating? It's not like Val and I slept with each other; hell, there wasn't even a kiss.\n\nThe latter is another story. I thought about texting Pete something like, \"hey dude are we cool?\", but I figured if he's been cordial and polite this whole time, he isn't looking for a confrontation and would just respond with, \"yeah bro we're cool\".\n\nI tried prying it out of Val through text last night but she just started ignoring me. I asked her if she knew something I didn't and she said, \"hahaha yeah probably\". And that was it.\n\nSo what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You know that guy at work that you don't like but you're just polite to him to avoid drama? This is what it is.\n\nPeter and I met earlier this year and have partied a couple of times. Whenever I see him in the gym we always have a short chat about our weekends and plans for the upcoming one. Just a regular dude friendship. \n\nNote: Last time I saw him (two weeks ago) he told me that \"we should party sometime soon, it's been a while.\"\n\nThree weeks ago I went on a date with Pete's friend, Valerie. It went well but there wasn't a second date. No big deal, it happens.\n\nLast night I was texting Valerie about making plans this weekend regarding a large group of friends (hers and mine) and she mentioned that she thought about inviting Pete but \"it would be awkward.\"\n\nNow two things popped in my head: Pete and Val are dating, or Pete isn't actually that fond of me.\n\nIf it's the former, then it would be stupid as hell. I don't see Val like that anymore, so why would it be awkward if they're dating? It's not like Val and I slept with each other; hell, there wasn't even a kiss.\n\nThe latter is another story. I thought about texting Pete something like, \"hey dude are we cool?\", but I figured if he's been cordial and polite this whole time, he isn't looking for a confrontation and would just respond with, \"yeah bro we're cool\".\n\nI tried prying it out of Val through text last night but she just started ignoring me. I asked her if she knew something I didn't and she said, \"hahaha yeah probably\". And that was it.\n\nSo what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You know that guy at work that you don't like but you're just polite to him to avoid drama? This is what it is.\n\nPeter and I met earlier this year and have partied a couple of times. Whenever I see him in the gym we always have a short chat about our weekends and plans for the upcoming one. Just a regular dude friendship. \n\nNote: Last time I saw him (two weeks ago) he told me that \"we should party sometime soon, it's been a while.\"\n\nThree weeks ago I went on a date with Pete's friend, Valerie. It went well but there wasn't a second date. No big deal, it happens.\n\nLast night I was texting Valerie about making plans this weekend regarding a large group of friends (hers and mine) and she mentioned that she thought about inviting Pete but \"it would be awkward.\"\n\nNow two things popped in my head: Pete and Val are dating, or Pete isn't actually that fond of me.\n\nIf it's the former, then it would be stupid as hell. I don't see Val like that anymore, so why would it be awkward if they're dating? It's not like Val and I slept with each other; hell, there wasn't even a kiss.\n\nThe latter is another story. I thought about texting Pete something like, \"hey dude are we cool?\", but I figured if he's been cordial and polite this whole time, he isn't looking for a confrontation and would just respond with, \"yeah bro we're cool\".\n\nI tried prying it out of Val through text last night but she just started ignoring me. I asked her if she knew something I didn't and she said, \"hahaha yeah probably\". And that was it.\n\nSo what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You know that guy at work that you don't like but you're just polite to him to avoid drama? This is what it is.\n\nPeter and I met earlier this year and have partied a couple of times. Whenever I see him in the gym we always have a short chat about our weekends and plans for the upcoming one. Just a regular dude friendship. \n\nNote: Last time I saw him (two weeks ago) he told me that \"we should party sometime soon, it's been a while.\"\n\nThree weeks ago I went on a date with Pete's friend, Valerie. It went well but there wasn't a second date. No big deal, it happens.\n\nLast night I was texting Valerie about making plans this weekend regarding a large group of friends (hers and mine) and she mentioned that she thought about inviting Pete but \"it would be awkward.\"\n\nNow two things popped in my head: Pete and Val are dating, or Pete isn't actually that fond of me.\n\nIf it's the former, then it would be stupid as hell. I don't see Val like that anymore, so why would it be awkward if they're dating? It's not like Val and I slept with each other; hell, there wasn't even a kiss.\n\nThe latter is another story. I thought about texting Pete something like, \"hey dude are we cool?\", but I figured if he's been cordial and polite this whole time, he isn't looking for a confrontation and would just respond with, \"yeah bro we're cool\".\n\nI tried prying it out of Val through text last night but she just started ignoring me. I asked her if she knew something I didn't and she said, \"hahaha yeah probably\". And that was it.\n\nSo what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You know that guy at work that you don't like but you're just polite to him to avoid drama? This is what it is.\n\nPeter and I met earlier this year and have partied a couple of times. Whenever I see him in the gym we always have a short chat about our weekends and plans for the upcoming one. Just a regular dude friendship. \n\nNote: Last time I saw him (two weeks ago) he told me that \"we should party sometime soon, it's been a while.\"\n\nThree weeks ago I went on a date with Pete's friend, Valerie. It went well but there wasn't a second date. No big deal, it happens.\n\nLast night I was texting Valerie about making plans this weekend regarding a large group of friends (hers and mine) and she mentioned that she thought about inviting Pete but \"it would be awkward.\"\n\nNow two things popped in my head: Pete and Val are dating, or Pete isn't actually that fond of me.\n\nIf it's the former, then it would be stupid as hell. I don't see Val like that anymore, so why would it be awkward if they're dating? It's not like Val and I slept with each other; hell, there wasn't even a kiss.\n\nThe latter is another story. I thought about texting Pete something like, \"hey dude are we cool?\", but I figured if he's been cordial and polite this whole time, he isn't looking for a confrontation and would just respond with, \"yeah bro we're cool\".\n\nI tried prying it out of Val through text last night but she just started ignoring me. I asked her if she knew something I didn't and she said, \"hahaha yeah probably\". And that was it.\n\nSo what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You know that guy at work that you don't like but you're just polite to him to avoid drama? This is what it is.\n\nPeter and I met earlier this year and have partied a couple of times. Whenever I see him in the gym we always have a short chat about our weekends and plans for the upcoming one. Just a regular dude friendship. \n\nNote: Last time I saw him (two weeks ago) he told me that \"we should party sometime soon, it's been a while.\"\n\nThree weeks ago I went on a date with Pete's friend, Valerie. It went well but there wasn't a second date. No big deal, it happens.\n\nLast night I was texting Valerie about making plans this weekend regarding a large group of friends (hers and mine) and she mentioned that she thought about inviting Pete but \"it would be awkward.\"\n\nNow two things popped in my head: Pete and Val are dating, or Pete isn't actually that fond of me.\n\nIf it's the former, then it would be stupid as hell. I don't see Val like that anymore, so why would it be awkward if they're dating? It's not like Val and I slept with each other; hell, there wasn't even a kiss.\n\nThe latter is another story. I thought about texting Pete something like, \"hey dude are we cool?\", but I figured if he's been cordial and polite this whole time, he isn't looking for a confrontation and would just respond with, \"yeah bro we're cool\".\n\nI tried prying it out of Val through text last night but she just started ignoring me. I asked her if she knew something I didn't and she said, \"hahaha yeah probably\". And that was it.\n\nSo what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm very insecure about myself even since my wife told a friend in a casual conversation (while I was there sitting next to her) about the best sex she's ever had, and it wasn't me. She even turned to me and said \"I'm sorry honey\" before proceeding to tell the story. Ever since I've talked to her about it, she says that I'm the best now. But how can I ever be sure?\n\nHe recently friended her on facebook after many years apart and she accepted. When I asked her about it she said she accidentally added him, thinking it was someone she worked with."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm very insecure about myself even since my wife told a friend in a casual conversation (while I was there sitting next to her) about the best sex she's ever had, and it wasn't me. She even turned to me and said \"I'm sorry honey\" before proceeding to tell the story. Ever since I've talked to her about it, she says that I'm the best now. But how can I ever be sure?\n\nHe recently friended her on facebook after many years apart and she accepted. When I asked her about it she said she accidentally added him, thinking it was someone she worked with."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm very insecure about myself even since my wife told a friend in a casual conversation (while I was there sitting next to her) about the best sex she's ever had, and it wasn't me. She even turned to me and said \"I'm sorry honey\" before proceeding to tell the story. Ever since I've talked to her about it, she says that I'm the best now. But how can I ever be sure?\n\nHe recently friended her on facebook after many years apart and she accepted. When I asked her about it she said she accidentally added him, thinking it was someone she worked with."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm very insecure about myself even since my wife told a friend in a casual conversation (while I was there sitting next to her) about the best sex she's ever had, and it wasn't me. She even turned to me and said \"I'm sorry honey\" before proceeding to tell the story. Ever since I've talked to her about it, she says that I'm the best now. But how can I ever be sure?\n\nHe recently friended her on facebook after many years apart and she accepted. When I asked her about it she said she accidentally added him, thinking it was someone she worked with."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm very insecure about myself even since my wife told a friend in a casual conversation (while I was there sitting next to her) about the best sex she's ever had, and it wasn't me. She even turned to me and said \"I'm sorry honey\" before proceeding to tell the story. Ever since I've talked to her about it, she says that I'm the best now. But how can I ever be sure?\n\nHe recently friended her on facebook after many years apart and she accepted. When I asked her about it she said she accidentally added him, thinking it was someone she worked with."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm very insecure about myself even since my wife told a friend in a casual conversation (while I was there sitting next to her) about the best sex she's ever had, and it wasn't me. She even turned to me and said \"I'm sorry honey\" before proceeding to tell the story. Ever since I've talked to her about it, she says that I'm the best now. But how can I ever be sure?\n\nHe recently friended her on facebook after many years apart and she accepted. When I asked her about it she said she accidentally added him, thinking it was someone she worked with."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I'm writing this under a throwaway in case somehow my main account is known someone. But I'm pretty sure if it was, I'd be fucked out of a job anyway.\n\nSo basically, I just got back from a second interview(the first one was a week ago, and they asked for the second one a day after).\n\nAnd truthfully I'm not super sure how I went, as for some reason I was more nervous than the first one. And as I'm just out of college, I don't have much interviewing experience and I think that just lead to more nerves.\n\nAnyway, towards the end of the interview, the guy interviewing me ask if I was applying/interviewing elsewhere. I answered truthfully(said yes, but I've really only heard back so far from one or two other places, and I forgot to mention the fact that I'm actually most interested in the job at their company - which is true).\n\nBut basically, I've never really heard of that question before. Is it a good thing I was asked, was it a bad thing?\n\n My mind coming out of this interview feeling unsure of myself, is making me think I might of got asked to make sure I didn't hedge all my bets into this one job. But looking online says that question is a good one to be asked. Mostly I'm just confused and would like help from people more experienced."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I'm writing this under a throwaway in case somehow my main account is known someone. But I'm pretty sure if it was, I'd be fucked out of a job anyway.\n\nSo basically, I just got back from a second interview(the first one was a week ago, and they asked for the second one a day after).\n\nAnd truthfully I'm not super sure how I went, as for some reason I was more nervous than the first one. And as I'm just out of college, I don't have much interviewing experience and I think that just lead to more nerves.\n\nAnyway, towards the end of the interview, the guy interviewing me ask if I was applying/interviewing elsewhere. I answered truthfully(said yes, but I've really only heard back so far from one or two other places, and I forgot to mention the fact that I'm actually most interested in the job at their company - which is true).\n\nBut basically, I've never really heard of that question before. Is it a good thing I was asked, was it a bad thing?\n\n My mind coming out of this interview feeling unsure of myself, is making me think I might of got asked to make sure I didn't hedge all my bets into this one job. But looking online says that question is a good one to be asked. Mostly I'm just confused and would like help from people more experienced."
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