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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I'm writing this under a throwaway in case somehow my main account is known someone. But I'm pretty sure if it was, I'd be fucked out of a job anyway.\n\nSo basically, I just got back from a second interview(the first one was a week ago, and they asked for the second one a day after).\n\nAnd truthfully I'm not super sure how I went, as for some reason I was more nervous than the first one. And as I'm just out of college, I don't have much interviewing experience and I think that just lead to more nerves.\n\nAnyway, towards the end of the interview, the guy interviewing me ask if I was applying/interviewing elsewhere. I answered truthfully(said yes, but I've really only heard back so far from one or two other places, and I forgot to mention the fact that I'm actually most interested in the job at their company - which is true).\n\nBut basically, I've never really heard of that question before. Is it a good thing I was asked, was it a bad thing?\n\n My mind coming out of this interview feeling unsure of myself, is making me think I might of got asked to make sure I didn't hedge all my bets into this one job. But looking online says that question is a good one to be asked. Mostly I'm just confused and would like help from people more experienced."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I'm writing this under a throwaway in case somehow my main account is known someone. But I'm pretty sure if it was, I'd be fucked out of a job anyway.\n\nSo basically, I just got back from a second interview(the first one was a week ago, and they asked for the second one a day after).\n\nAnd truthfully I'm not super sure how I went, as for some reason I was more nervous than the first one. And as I'm just out of college, I don't have much interviewing experience and I think that just lead to more nerves.\n\nAnyway, towards the end of the interview, the guy interviewing me ask if I was applying/interviewing elsewhere. I answered truthfully(said yes, but I've really only heard back so far from one or two other places, and I forgot to mention the fact that I'm actually most interested in the job at their company - which is true).\n\nBut basically, I've never really heard of that question before. Is it a good thing I was asked, was it a bad thing?\n\n My mind coming out of this interview feeling unsure of myself, is making me think I might of got asked to make sure I didn't hedge all my bets into this one job. But looking online says that question is a good one to be asked. Mostly I'm just confused and would like help from people more experienced."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I'm writing this under a throwaway in case somehow my main account is known someone. But I'm pretty sure if it was, I'd be fucked out of a job anyway.\n\nSo basically, I just got back from a second interview(the first one was a week ago, and they asked for the second one a day after).\n\nAnd truthfully I'm not super sure how I went, as for some reason I was more nervous than the first one. And as I'm just out of college, I don't have much interviewing experience and I think that just lead to more nerves.\n\nAnyway, towards the end of the interview, the guy interviewing me ask if I was applying/interviewing elsewhere. I answered truthfully(said yes, but I've really only heard back so far from one or two other places, and I forgot to mention the fact that I'm actually most interested in the job at their company - which is true).\n\nBut basically, I've never really heard of that question before. Is it a good thing I was asked, was it a bad thing?\n\n My mind coming out of this interview feeling unsure of myself, is making me think I might of got asked to make sure I didn't hedge all my bets into this one job. But looking online says that question is a good one to be asked. Mostly I'm just confused and would like help from people more experienced."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I'm writing this under a throwaway in case somehow my main account is known someone. But I'm pretty sure if it was, I'd be fucked out of a job anyway.\n\nSo basically, I just got back from a second interview(the first one was a week ago, and they asked for the second one a day after).\n\nAnd truthfully I'm not super sure how I went, as for some reason I was more nervous than the first one. And as I'm just out of college, I don't have much interviewing experience and I think that just lead to more nerves.\n\nAnyway, towards the end of the interview, the guy interviewing me ask if I was applying/interviewing elsewhere. I answered truthfully(said yes, but I've really only heard back so far from one or two other places, and I forgot to mention the fact that I'm actually most interested in the job at their company - which is true).\n\nBut basically, I've never really heard of that question before. Is it a good thing I was asked, was it a bad thing?\n\n My mind coming out of this interview feeling unsure of myself, is making me think I might of got asked to make sure I didn't hedge all my bets into this one job. But looking online says that question is a good one to be asked. Mostly I'm just confused and would like help from people more experienced."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Tried to invite her to party friday, she was working that night. I worked all day saturday so I didnt get the chance to talk to her, last night we worked together but I only saw her once in passing, so I didnt get a chance to talk to her. However, she came and found me after her shift ended and talked with me in the dining room, around all of our coworkers and the guests, so I didnt have a chance to say anything, but she did hear that I got my motorcycle back from the shop so she asked if I would take her for another ride. So I can try and set that up this week, and ask then, when we are all alone.\n\nCan I ask for more advice and guidance reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Tried to invite her to party friday, she was working that night. I worked all day saturday so I didnt get the chance to talk to her, last night we worked together but I only saw her once in passing, so I didnt get a chance to talk to her. However, she came and found me after her shift ended and talked with me in the dining room, around all of our coworkers and the guests, so I didnt have a chance to say anything, but she did hear that I got my motorcycle back from the shop so she asked if I would take her for another ride. So I can try and set that up this week, and ask then, when we are all alone.\n\nCan I ask for more advice and guidance reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Tried to invite her to party friday, she was working that night. I worked all day saturday so I didnt get the chance to talk to her, last night we worked together but I only saw her once in passing, so I didnt get a chance to talk to her. However, she came and found me after her shift ended and talked with me in the dining room, around all of our coworkers and the guests, so I didnt have a chance to say anything, but she did hear that I got my motorcycle back from the shop so she asked if I would take her for another ride. So I can try and set that up this week, and ask then, when we are all alone.\n\nCan I ask for more advice and guidance reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Tried to invite her to party friday, she was working that night. I worked all day saturday so I didnt get the chance to talk to her, last night we worked together but I only saw her once in passing, so I didnt get a chance to talk to her. However, she came and found me after her shift ended and talked with me in the dining room, around all of our coworkers and the guests, so I didnt have a chance to say anything, but she did hear that I got my motorcycle back from the shop so she asked if I would take her for another ride. So I can try and set that up this week, and ask then, when we are all alone.\n\nCan I ask for more advice and guidance reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Tried to invite her to party friday, she was working that night. I worked all day saturday so I didnt get the chance to talk to her, last night we worked together but I only saw her once in passing, so I didnt get a chance to talk to her. However, she came and found me after her shift ended and talked with me in the dining room, around all of our coworkers and the guests, so I didnt have a chance to say anything, but she did hear that I got my motorcycle back from the shop so she asked if I would take her for another ride. So I can try and set that up this week, and ask then, when we are all alone.\n\nCan I ask for more advice and guidance reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I grew up in a very controlling family (I still am required to follow a curfew if I visit their town and go see old girlfriends) and have always been scared to break any type of bad news. I met my husband 9 years ago in college and became pregnant at 21. By the fierce pressure of family and thinking I was ready, we got married in a last minute ceremony. This man did everything the opposite of how I dreamed my life would be. We now have two children together and his verbal abuse is out of control. I have been called every name in the book and I have been basically treated like a maid and roommate for about 3 years. \n\nI have tried my best. I have been going to counseling regularly and he REFUSES to join. He came along once and didn't speak a word. He is totally disconnected from me. Emotionally I am a disaster. I asked for a divorce. I just can't be yelled at anymore (especially in front of my children when he is drinking). My parents [m/52] [f/54] do not agree with divorce and have told me that if we fall apart they won't support me. Won't give me a place to stay if I need it. I have no idea how to tell the that I have made this decision. My husband is being amicable and I guess wanted out too so there isn't some big ugly legal battle. \n\nI'm just really terrified of their reaction. My mother told me \"if you and _ don't work out, you will not ever date if I have anything to say about it\". They threatened to totally cut me out of their lives when they heard I was polite to an ex from 10 years ago I bumped into because he wasn't \"good enough\". I saw him out of nowhere at Starbucks.not like I ran off with him! \n\nThis is worse than telling them when I got pregnant. This is a nightmare. Anyone have any advice on how to rip this bandaid off, even if it means losing the relationship with my folks?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I grew up in a very controlling family (I still am required to follow a curfew if I visit their town and go see old girlfriends) and have always been scared to break any type of bad news. I met my husband 9 years ago in college and became pregnant at 21. By the fierce pressure of family and thinking I was ready, we got married in a last minute ceremony. This man did everything the opposite of how I dreamed my life would be. We now have two children together and his verbal abuse is out of control. I have been called every name in the book and I have been basically treated like a maid and roommate for about 3 years. \n\nI have tried my best. I have been going to counseling regularly and he REFUSES to join. He came along once and didn't speak a word. He is totally disconnected from me. Emotionally I am a disaster. I asked for a divorce. I just can't be yelled at anymore (especially in front of my children when he is drinking). My parents [m/52] [f/54] do not agree with divorce and have told me that if we fall apart they won't support me. Won't give me a place to stay if I need it. I have no idea how to tell the that I have made this decision. My husband is being amicable and I guess wanted out too so there isn't some big ugly legal battle. \n\nI'm just really terrified of their reaction. My mother told me \"if you and _ don't work out, you will not ever date if I have anything to say about it\". They threatened to totally cut me out of their lives when they heard I was polite to an ex from 10 years ago I bumped into because he wasn't \"good enough\". I saw him out of nowhere at Starbucks.not like I ran off with him! \n\nThis is worse than telling them when I got pregnant. This is a nightmare. Anyone have any advice on how to rip this bandaid off, even if it means losing the relationship with my folks?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I grew up in a very controlling family (I still am required to follow a curfew if I visit their town and go see old girlfriends) and have always been scared to break any type of bad news. I met my husband 9 years ago in college and became pregnant at 21. By the fierce pressure of family and thinking I was ready, we got married in a last minute ceremony. This man did everything the opposite of how I dreamed my life would be. We now have two children together and his verbal abuse is out of control. I have been called every name in the book and I have been basically treated like a maid and roommate for about 3 years. \n\nI have tried my best. I have been going to counseling regularly and he REFUSES to join. He came along once and didn't speak a word. He is totally disconnected from me. Emotionally I am a disaster. I asked for a divorce. I just can't be yelled at anymore (especially in front of my children when he is drinking). My parents [m/52] [f/54] do not agree with divorce and have told me that if we fall apart they won't support me. Won't give me a place to stay if I need it. I have no idea how to tell the that I have made this decision. My husband is being amicable and I guess wanted out too so there isn't some big ugly legal battle. \n\nI'm just really terrified of their reaction. My mother told me \"if you and _ don't work out, you will not ever date if I have anything to say about it\". They threatened to totally cut me out of their lives when they heard I was polite to an ex from 10 years ago I bumped into because he wasn't \"good enough\". I saw him out of nowhere at Starbucks.not like I ran off with him! \n\nThis is worse than telling them when I got pregnant. This is a nightmare. Anyone have any advice on how to rip this bandaid off, even if it means losing the relationship with my folks?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I grew up in a very controlling family (I still am required to follow a curfew if I visit their town and go see old girlfriends) and have always been scared to break any type of bad news. I met my husband 9 years ago in college and became pregnant at 21. By the fierce pressure of family and thinking I was ready, we got married in a last minute ceremony. This man did everything the opposite of how I dreamed my life would be. We now have two children together and his verbal abuse is out of control. I have been called every name in the book and I have been basically treated like a maid and roommate for about 3 years. \n\nI have tried my best. I have been going to counseling regularly and he REFUSES to join. He came along once and didn't speak a word. He is totally disconnected from me. Emotionally I am a disaster. I asked for a divorce. I just can't be yelled at anymore (especially in front of my children when he is drinking). My parents [m/52] [f/54] do not agree with divorce and have told me that if we fall apart they won't support me. Won't give me a place to stay if I need it. I have no idea how to tell the that I have made this decision. My husband is being amicable and I guess wanted out too so there isn't some big ugly legal battle. \n\nI'm just really terrified of their reaction. My mother told me \"if you and _ don't work out, you will not ever date if I have anything to say about it\". They threatened to totally cut me out of their lives when they heard I was polite to an ex from 10 years ago I bumped into because he wasn't \"good enough\". I saw him out of nowhere at Starbucks.not like I ran off with him! \n\nThis is worse than telling them when I got pregnant. This is a nightmare. Anyone have any advice on how to rip this bandaid off, even if it means losing the relationship with my folks?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I grew up in a very controlling family (I still am required to follow a curfew if I visit their town and go see old girlfriends) and have always been scared to break any type of bad news. I met my husband 9 years ago in college and became pregnant at 21. By the fierce pressure of family and thinking I was ready, we got married in a last minute ceremony. This man did everything the opposite of how I dreamed my life would be. We now have two children together and his verbal abuse is out of control. I have been called every name in the book and I have been basically treated like a maid and roommate for about 3 years. \n\nI have tried my best. I have been going to counseling regularly and he REFUSES to join. He came along once and didn't speak a word. He is totally disconnected from me. Emotionally I am a disaster. I asked for a divorce. I just can't be yelled at anymore (especially in front of my children when he is drinking). My parents [m/52] [f/54] do not agree with divorce and have told me that if we fall apart they won't support me. Won't give me a place to stay if I need it. I have no idea how to tell the that I have made this decision. My husband is being amicable and I guess wanted out too so there isn't some big ugly legal battle. \n\nI'm just really terrified of their reaction. My mother told me \"if you and _ don't work out, you will not ever date if I have anything to say about it\". They threatened to totally cut me out of their lives when they heard I was polite to an ex from 10 years ago I bumped into because he wasn't \"good enough\". I saw him out of nowhere at Starbucks.not like I ran off with him! \n\nThis is worse than telling them when I got pregnant. This is a nightmare. Anyone have any advice on how to rip this bandaid off, even if it means losing the relationship with my folks?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I grew up in a very controlling family (I still am required to follow a curfew if I visit their town and go see old girlfriends) and have always been scared to break any type of bad news. I met my husband 9 years ago in college and became pregnant at 21. By the fierce pressure of family and thinking I was ready, we got married in a last minute ceremony. This man did everything the opposite of how I dreamed my life would be. We now have two children together and his verbal abuse is out of control. I have been called every name in the book and I have been basically treated like a maid and roommate for about 3 years. \n\nI have tried my best. I have been going to counseling regularly and he REFUSES to join. He came along once and didn't speak a word. He is totally disconnected from me. Emotionally I am a disaster. I asked for a divorce. I just can't be yelled at anymore (especially in front of my children when he is drinking). My parents [m/52] [f/54] do not agree with divorce and have told me that if we fall apart they won't support me. Won't give me a place to stay if I need it. I have no idea how to tell the that I have made this decision. My husband is being amicable and I guess wanted out too so there isn't some big ugly legal battle. \n\nI'm just really terrified of their reaction. My mother told me \"if you and _ don't work out, you will not ever date if I have anything to say about it\". They threatened to totally cut me out of their lives when they heard I was polite to an ex from 10 years ago I bumped into because he wasn't \"good enough\". I saw him out of nowhere at Starbucks.not like I ran off with him! \n\nThis is worse than telling them when I got pregnant. This is a nightmare. Anyone have any advice on how to rip this bandaid off, even if it means losing the relationship with my folks?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, *periods*) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. \n\nI wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. \n\nWell everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. \n\nI think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. \n\nA big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know if I love my husband anymore. I feel like I don't. He said some nasty things to me today after we had a stupid fight last night, I feel like maybe they just finally turned me cold. We haven't talked about it because he says he won't do counseling because all the problems are my fault, basically that I'm crazy or irrational and he has no part in that. I don't particularly want to talk about anything with him but I also feel like if we just stop.everything. that our marriage is basically useless and over. \n\nI don't know if I'm just upset now and the love will be back tomorrow or in a week. I have felt that I hated him after fights before and gotten over it pretty quickly. I just have a feeling that this time I'm more tired of it, more repelled by him as a person. I feel like I'm some sort of wife object he doesn't care much about rather than a loved one. \n\nMy life is pretty ok outside our relationship. I don't know how much of my total feelings are because I don't want to start over. I haven't said anything to him. I mean I don't want to hurt his feelings and make it really irreparable if I will regret it. \n\nHow much time do I give it? How do I know what my feelings really are? Would I feel that huge relief if I told him, or would I feel sick like a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know if I love my husband anymore. I feel like I don't. He said some nasty things to me today after we had a stupid fight last night, I feel like maybe they just finally turned me cold. We haven't talked about it because he says he won't do counseling because all the problems are my fault, basically that I'm crazy or irrational and he has no part in that. I don't particularly want to talk about anything with him but I also feel like if we just stop.everything. that our marriage is basically useless and over. \n\nI don't know if I'm just upset now and the love will be back tomorrow or in a week. I have felt that I hated him after fights before and gotten over it pretty quickly. I just have a feeling that this time I'm more tired of it, more repelled by him as a person. I feel like I'm some sort of wife object he doesn't care much about rather than a loved one. \n\nMy life is pretty ok outside our relationship. I don't know how much of my total feelings are because I don't want to start over. I haven't said anything to him. I mean I don't want to hurt his feelings and make it really irreparable if I will regret it. \n\nHow much time do I give it? How do I know what my feelings really are? Would I feel that huge relief if I told him, or would I feel sick like a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know if I love my husband anymore. I feel like I don't. He said some nasty things to me today after we had a stupid fight last night, I feel like maybe they just finally turned me cold. We haven't talked about it because he says he won't do counseling because all the problems are my fault, basically that I'm crazy or irrational and he has no part in that. I don't particularly want to talk about anything with him but I also feel like if we just stop.everything. that our marriage is basically useless and over. \n\nI don't know if I'm just upset now and the love will be back tomorrow or in a week. I have felt that I hated him after fights before and gotten over it pretty quickly. I just have a feeling that this time I'm more tired of it, more repelled by him as a person. I feel like I'm some sort of wife object he doesn't care much about rather than a loved one. \n\nMy life is pretty ok outside our relationship. I don't know how much of my total feelings are because I don't want to start over. I haven't said anything to him. I mean I don't want to hurt his feelings and make it really irreparable if I will regret it. \n\nHow much time do I give it? How do I know what my feelings really are? Would I feel that huge relief if I told him, or would I feel sick like a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know if I love my husband anymore. I feel like I don't. He said some nasty things to me today after we had a stupid fight last night, I feel like maybe they just finally turned me cold. We haven't talked about it because he says he won't do counseling because all the problems are my fault, basically that I'm crazy or irrational and he has no part in that. I don't particularly want to talk about anything with him but I also feel like if we just stop.everything. that our marriage is basically useless and over. \n\nI don't know if I'm just upset now and the love will be back tomorrow or in a week. I have felt that I hated him after fights before and gotten over it pretty quickly. I just have a feeling that this time I'm more tired of it, more repelled by him as a person. I feel like I'm some sort of wife object he doesn't care much about rather than a loved one. \n\nMy life is pretty ok outside our relationship. I don't know how much of my total feelings are because I don't want to start over. I haven't said anything to him. I mean I don't want to hurt his feelings and make it really irreparable if I will regret it. \n\nHow much time do I give it? How do I know what my feelings really are? Would I feel that huge relief if I told him, or would I feel sick like a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know if I love my husband anymore. I feel like I don't. He said some nasty things to me today after we had a stupid fight last night, I feel like maybe they just finally turned me cold. We haven't talked about it because he says he won't do counseling because all the problems are my fault, basically that I'm crazy or irrational and he has no part in that. I don't particularly want to talk about anything with him but I also feel like if we just stop.everything. that our marriage is basically useless and over. \n\nI don't know if I'm just upset now and the love will be back tomorrow or in a week. I have felt that I hated him after fights before and gotten over it pretty quickly. I just have a feeling that this time I'm more tired of it, more repelled by him as a person. I feel like I'm some sort of wife object he doesn't care much about rather than a loved one. \n\nMy life is pretty ok outside our relationship. I don't know how much of my total feelings are because I don't want to start over. I haven't said anything to him. I mean I don't want to hurt his feelings and make it really irreparable if I will regret it. \n\nHow much time do I give it? How do I know what my feelings really are? Would I feel that huge relief if I told him, or would I feel sick like a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know if I love my husband anymore. I feel like I don't. He said some nasty things to me today after we had a stupid fight last night, I feel like maybe they just finally turned me cold. We haven't talked about it because he says he won't do counseling because all the problems are my fault, basically that I'm crazy or irrational and he has no part in that. I don't particularly want to talk about anything with him but I also feel like if we just stop.everything. that our marriage is basically useless and over. \n\nI don't know if I'm just upset now and the love will be back tomorrow or in a week. I have felt that I hated him after fights before and gotten over it pretty quickly. I just have a feeling that this time I'm more tired of it, more repelled by him as a person. I feel like I'm some sort of wife object he doesn't care much about rather than a loved one. \n\nMy life is pretty ok outside our relationship. I don't know how much of my total feelings are because I don't want to start over. I haven't said anything to him. I mean I don't want to hurt his feelings and make it really irreparable if I will regret it. \n\nHow much time do I give it? How do I know what my feelings really are? Would I feel that huge relief if I told him, or would I feel sick like a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 6 months and are living together. I have met his brothers and step dad but not his mother. I am very nervous. I come from and American family and his family moved here from a Latin American country (with the exception of his American step dad). He seems to be suggesting I buy them gifts but I'm broke as broke. Also, I've never met his mother so how do I know what to get? I thought I could just bake something for the whole family to share.? Suggestions please. He is the one and I don't want my first impression to be a bad one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 6 months and are living together. I have met his brothers and step dad but not his mother. I am very nervous. I come from and American family and his family moved here from a Latin American country (with the exception of his American step dad). He seems to be suggesting I buy them gifts but I'm broke as broke. Also, I've never met his mother so how do I know what to get? I thought I could just bake something for the whole family to share.? Suggestions please. He is the one and I don't want my first impression to be a bad one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 6 months and are living together. I have met his brothers and step dad but not his mother. I am very nervous. I come from and American family and his family moved here from a Latin American country (with the exception of his American step dad). He seems to be suggesting I buy them gifts but I'm broke as broke. Also, I've never met his mother so how do I know what to get? I thought I could just bake something for the whole family to share.? Suggestions please. He is the one and I don't want my first impression to be a bad one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, looking for help from the hivemind for a situation I just got myself in. I'll try to be brief while giving all the major details. Please help!\n\nI was recently in a motorcycle accident. I went through a yellow light and someone turned in front of me. I'm very lucky and still walking, but took a trip to the ER in an ambulance to the tune of $60,000. \n\nPolice report came back and put me at fault due to witnesses saying I revved my engine to make it through the light. What they were hearing was me pulling the clutch in to downshift while I was still on the gas. \n\nNow here's where it gets extremely messy. Perfect storm of shit incoming:\n\nA month prior, I moved, and at the same time got a new debit card because my old one wore out and wouldn't swipe. My motorcycle insurance payments weren't going through because of the old card being cancelled, and thusly my policy was cancelled. I did not receive any notices due to not receiving mail from the old apartment until it was too late. \n\nI also reached the age where I needed to sign up for my own health insurance, and I had not done that in time for this year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, looking for help from the hivemind for a situation I just got myself in. I'll try to be brief while giving all the major details. Please help!\n\nI was recently in a motorcycle accident. I went through a yellow light and someone turned in front of me. I'm very lucky and still walking, but took a trip to the ER in an ambulance to the tune of $60,000. \n\nPolice report came back and put me at fault due to witnesses saying I revved my engine to make it through the light. What they were hearing was me pulling the clutch in to downshift while I was still on the gas. \n\nNow here's where it gets extremely messy. Perfect storm of shit incoming:\n\nA month prior, I moved, and at the same time got a new debit card because my old one wore out and wouldn't swipe. My motorcycle insurance payments weren't going through because of the old card being cancelled, and thusly my policy was cancelled. I did not receive any notices due to not receiving mail from the old apartment until it was too late. \n\nI also reached the age where I needed to sign up for my own health insurance, and I had not done that in time for this year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, looking for help from the hivemind for a situation I just got myself in. I'll try to be brief while giving all the major details. Please help!\n\nI was recently in a motorcycle accident. I went through a yellow light and someone turned in front of me. I'm very lucky and still walking, but took a trip to the ER in an ambulance to the tune of $60,000. \n\nPolice report came back and put me at fault due to witnesses saying I revved my engine to make it through the light. What they were hearing was me pulling the clutch in to downshift while I was still on the gas. \n\nNow here's where it gets extremely messy. Perfect storm of shit incoming:\n\nA month prior, I moved, and at the same time got a new debit card because my old one wore out and wouldn't swipe. My motorcycle insurance payments weren't going through because of the old card being cancelled, and thusly my policy was cancelled. I did not receive any notices due to not receiving mail from the old apartment until it was too late. \n\nI also reached the age where I needed to sign up for my own health insurance, and I had not done that in time for this year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, looking for help from the hivemind for a situation I just got myself in. I'll try to be brief while giving all the major details. Please help!\n\nI was recently in a motorcycle accident. I went through a yellow light and someone turned in front of me. I'm very lucky and still walking, but took a trip to the ER in an ambulance to the tune of $60,000. \n\nPolice report came back and put me at fault due to witnesses saying I revved my engine to make it through the light. What they were hearing was me pulling the clutch in to downshift while I was still on the gas. \n\nNow here's where it gets extremely messy. Perfect storm of shit incoming:\n\nA month prior, I moved, and at the same time got a new debit card because my old one wore out and wouldn't swipe. My motorcycle insurance payments weren't going through because of the old card being cancelled, and thusly my policy was cancelled. I did not receive any notices due to not receiving mail from the old apartment until it was too late. \n\nI also reached the age where I needed to sign up for my own health insurance, and I had not done that in time for this year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, looking for help from the hivemind for a situation I just got myself in. I'll try to be brief while giving all the major details. Please help!\n\nI was recently in a motorcycle accident. I went through a yellow light and someone turned in front of me. I'm very lucky and still walking, but took a trip to the ER in an ambulance to the tune of $60,000. \n\nPolice report came back and put me at fault due to witnesses saying I revved my engine to make it through the light. What they were hearing was me pulling the clutch in to downshift while I was still on the gas. \n\nNow here's where it gets extremely messy. Perfect storm of shit incoming:\n\nA month prior, I moved, and at the same time got a new debit card because my old one wore out and wouldn't swipe. My motorcycle insurance payments weren't going through because of the old card being cancelled, and thusly my policy was cancelled. I did not receive any notices due to not receiving mail from the old apartment until it was too late. \n\nI also reached the age where I needed to sign up for my own health insurance, and I had not done that in time for this year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, looking for help from the hivemind for a situation I just got myself in. I'll try to be brief while giving all the major details. Please help!\n\nI was recently in a motorcycle accident. I went through a yellow light and someone turned in front of me. I'm very lucky and still walking, but took a trip to the ER in an ambulance to the tune of $60,000. \n\nPolice report came back and put me at fault due to witnesses saying I revved my engine to make it through the light. What they were hearing was me pulling the clutch in to downshift while I was still on the gas. \n\nNow here's where it gets extremely messy. Perfect storm of shit incoming:\n\nA month prior, I moved, and at the same time got a new debit card because my old one wore out and wouldn't swipe. My motorcycle insurance payments weren't going through because of the old card being cancelled, and thusly my policy was cancelled. I did not receive any notices due to not receiving mail from the old apartment until it was too late. \n\nI also reached the age where I needed to sign up for my own health insurance, and I had not done that in time for this year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best (male) friend, 25, has liked me (F20) for quite a few months and he is starting to make me feel uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.\n\nHe has told me that he thinks I'm perfect and wishes I was his girlfriend. We have always got on well but I don't find him attractive and just want to be friends. I have told him this on numerous occasions but recently he has started to get quite possessive and seems to be taking the rejection very bad.\n\nHe texts me at least 3 times a day and I don't always respond because he would have text conversations for hours if he could. When I don't reply he gets upset and thinks I'm ignoring him. However, he seems to be manipulating me into making me feel sorry for him so I talk to him more and want to spend more time with him. He asks every day for me to go round to his house and if I'm free to meet up and if I say I'm busy he tells me how lonely and depressed he is and how I'm his only friend. He gets really jealous and upset if I show interest in any other guys. I stopped answering his texts to see if he would stop being so clingy and he texted me saying that he is very depressed and I'm making his depression so bad that he wants to kill himself. I don't know what to do because he is one of my good friends but his behavior is making me uncomfortable but if I stop speaking to him I don't want to make his depression worse to the point he wants to die! Any advice much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best (male) friend, 25, has liked me (F20) for quite a few months and he is starting to make me feel uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.\n\nHe has told me that he thinks I'm perfect and wishes I was his girlfriend. We have always got on well but I don't find him attractive and just want to be friends. I have told him this on numerous occasions but recently he has started to get quite possessive and seems to be taking the rejection very bad.\n\nHe texts me at least 3 times a day and I don't always respond because he would have text conversations for hours if he could. When I don't reply he gets upset and thinks I'm ignoring him. However, he seems to be manipulating me into making me feel sorry for him so I talk to him more and want to spend more time with him. He asks every day for me to go round to his house and if I'm free to meet up and if I say I'm busy he tells me how lonely and depressed he is and how I'm his only friend. He gets really jealous and upset if I show interest in any other guys. I stopped answering his texts to see if he would stop being so clingy and he texted me saying that he is very depressed and I'm making his depression so bad that he wants to kill himself. I don't know what to do because he is one of my good friends but his behavior is making me uncomfortable but if I stop speaking to him I don't want to make his depression worse to the point he wants to die! Any advice much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best (male) friend, 25, has liked me (F20) for quite a few months and he is starting to make me feel uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.\n\nHe has told me that he thinks I'm perfect and wishes I was his girlfriend. We have always got on well but I don't find him attractive and just want to be friends. I have told him this on numerous occasions but recently he has started to get quite possessive and seems to be taking the rejection very bad.\n\nHe texts me at least 3 times a day and I don't always respond because he would have text conversations for hours if he could. When I don't reply he gets upset and thinks I'm ignoring him. However, he seems to be manipulating me into making me feel sorry for him so I talk to him more and want to spend more time with him. He asks every day for me to go round to his house and if I'm free to meet up and if I say I'm busy he tells me how lonely and depressed he is and how I'm his only friend. He gets really jealous and upset if I show interest in any other guys. I stopped answering his texts to see if he would stop being so clingy and he texted me saying that he is very depressed and I'm making his depression so bad that he wants to kill himself. I don't know what to do because he is one of my good friends but his behavior is making me uncomfortable but if I stop speaking to him I don't want to make his depression worse to the point he wants to die! Any advice much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best (male) friend, 25, has liked me (F20) for quite a few months and he is starting to make me feel uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.\n\nHe has told me that he thinks I'm perfect and wishes I was his girlfriend. We have always got on well but I don't find him attractive and just want to be friends. I have told him this on numerous occasions but recently he has started to get quite possessive and seems to be taking the rejection very bad.\n\nHe texts me at least 3 times a day and I don't always respond because he would have text conversations for hours if he could. When I don't reply he gets upset and thinks I'm ignoring him. However, he seems to be manipulating me into making me feel sorry for him so I talk to him more and want to spend more time with him. He asks every day for me to go round to his house and if I'm free to meet up and if I say I'm busy he tells me how lonely and depressed he is and how I'm his only friend. He gets really jealous and upset if I show interest in any other guys. I stopped answering his texts to see if he would stop being so clingy and he texted me saying that he is very depressed and I'm making his depression so bad that he wants to kill himself. I don't know what to do because he is one of my good friends but his behavior is making me uncomfortable but if I stop speaking to him I don't want to make his depression worse to the point he wants to die! Any advice much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best (male) friend, 25, has liked me (F20) for quite a few months and he is starting to make me feel uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.\n\nHe has told me that he thinks I'm perfect and wishes I was his girlfriend. We have always got on well but I don't find him attractive and just want to be friends. I have told him this on numerous occasions but recently he has started to get quite possessive and seems to be taking the rejection very bad.\n\nHe texts me at least 3 times a day and I don't always respond because he would have text conversations for hours if he could. When I don't reply he gets upset and thinks I'm ignoring him. However, he seems to be manipulating me into making me feel sorry for him so I talk to him more and want to spend more time with him. He asks every day for me to go round to his house and if I'm free to meet up and if I say I'm busy he tells me how lonely and depressed he is and how I'm his only friend. He gets really jealous and upset if I show interest in any other guys. I stopped answering his texts to see if he would stop being so clingy and he texted me saying that he is very depressed and I'm making his depression so bad that he wants to kill himself. I don't know what to do because he is one of my good friends but his behavior is making me uncomfortable but if I stop speaking to him I don't want to make his depression worse to the point he wants to die! Any advice much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best (male) friend, 25, has liked me (F20) for quite a few months and he is starting to make me feel uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.\n\nHe has told me that he thinks I'm perfect and wishes I was his girlfriend. We have always got on well but I don't find him attractive and just want to be friends. I have told him this on numerous occasions but recently he has started to get quite possessive and seems to be taking the rejection very bad.\n\nHe texts me at least 3 times a day and I don't always respond because he would have text conversations for hours if he could. When I don't reply he gets upset and thinks I'm ignoring him. However, he seems to be manipulating me into making me feel sorry for him so I talk to him more and want to spend more time with him. He asks every day for me to go round to his house and if I'm free to meet up and if I say I'm busy he tells me how lonely and depressed he is and how I'm his only friend. He gets really jealous and upset if I show interest in any other guys. I stopped answering his texts to see if he would stop being so clingy and he texted me saying that he is very depressed and I'm making his depression so bad that he wants to kill himself. I don't know what to do because he is one of my good friends but his behavior is making me uncomfortable but if I stop speaking to him I don't want to make his depression worse to the point he wants to die! Any advice much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with Anne for 6 months and she's the first girl I've ever loved. We started dating this past year at the college we both go to. We have argued a lot over the past 6 months since we started dating. It's gotten to a point where we are both exhausted from the fighting, and even though we both love each other dearly, we are starting to question if we are really good for each other. \n\n2 days ago, I asked Anne if she would break up with me if I shaved my head and looked ugly, and she didn’t really answer the question. This was a shock to me because I thought our relationship was so much stronger than that. I got mad, then she got mad, and we stopped communicating. Later, she texted me that she was sorry and I could shave my head. I replied that I was glad I had her permission (sarcastically, but over text). Then she said she was mad at me, and after I said \"for what?\", she didn't reply. We fight a lot over small stupid things like this, and its really starting to wear down on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with Anne for 6 months and she's the first girl I've ever loved. We started dating this past year at the college we both go to. We have argued a lot over the past 6 months since we started dating. It's gotten to a point where we are both exhausted from the fighting, and even though we both love each other dearly, we are starting to question if we are really good for each other. \n\n2 days ago, I asked Anne if she would break up with me if I shaved my head and looked ugly, and she didn’t really answer the question. This was a shock to me because I thought our relationship was so much stronger than that. I got mad, then she got mad, and we stopped communicating. Later, she texted me that she was sorry and I could shave my head. I replied that I was glad I had her permission (sarcastically, but over text). Then she said she was mad at me, and after I said \"for what?\", she didn't reply. We fight a lot over small stupid things like this, and its really starting to wear down on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with Anne for 6 months and she's the first girl I've ever loved. We started dating this past year at the college we both go to. We have argued a lot over the past 6 months since we started dating. It's gotten to a point where we are both exhausted from the fighting, and even though we both love each other dearly, we are starting to question if we are really good for each other. \n\n2 days ago, I asked Anne if she would break up with me if I shaved my head and looked ugly, and she didn’t really answer the question. This was a shock to me because I thought our relationship was so much stronger than that. I got mad, then she got mad, and we stopped communicating. Later, she texted me that she was sorry and I could shave my head. I replied that I was glad I had her permission (sarcastically, but over text). Then she said she was mad at me, and after I said \"for what?\", she didn't reply. We fight a lot over small stupid things like this, and its really starting to wear down on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with Anne for 6 months and she's the first girl I've ever loved. We started dating this past year at the college we both go to. We have argued a lot over the past 6 months since we started dating. It's gotten to a point where we are both exhausted from the fighting, and even though we both love each other dearly, we are starting to question if we are really good for each other. \n\n2 days ago, I asked Anne if she would break up with me if I shaved my head and looked ugly, and she didn’t really answer the question. This was a shock to me because I thought our relationship was so much stronger than that. I got mad, then she got mad, and we stopped communicating. Later, she texted me that she was sorry and I could shave my head. I replied that I was glad I had her permission (sarcastically, but over text). Then she said she was mad at me, and after I said \"for what?\", she didn't reply. We fight a lot over small stupid things like this, and its really starting to wear down on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with Anne for 6 months and she's the first girl I've ever loved. We started dating this past year at the college we both go to. We have argued a lot over the past 6 months since we started dating. It's gotten to a point where we are both exhausted from the fighting, and even though we both love each other dearly, we are starting to question if we are really good for each other. \n\n2 days ago, I asked Anne if she would break up with me if I shaved my head and looked ugly, and she didn’t really answer the question. This was a shock to me because I thought our relationship was so much stronger than that. I got mad, then she got mad, and we stopped communicating. Later, she texted me that she was sorry and I could shave my head. I replied that I was glad I had her permission (sarcastically, but over text). Then she said she was mad at me, and after I said \"for what?\", she didn't reply. We fight a lot over small stupid things like this, and its really starting to wear down on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with Anne for 6 months and she's the first girl I've ever loved. We started dating this past year at the college we both go to. We have argued a lot over the past 6 months since we started dating. It's gotten to a point where we are both exhausted from the fighting, and even though we both love each other dearly, we are starting to question if we are really good for each other. \n\n2 days ago, I asked Anne if she would break up with me if I shaved my head and looked ugly, and she didn’t really answer the question. This was a shock to me because I thought our relationship was so much stronger than that. I got mad, then she got mad, and we stopped communicating. Later, she texted me that she was sorry and I could shave my head. I replied that I was glad I had her permission (sarcastically, but over text). Then she said she was mad at me, and after I said \"for what?\", she didn't reply. We fight a lot over small stupid things like this, and its really starting to wear down on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: basically, he's living with his mother right now. they got into an argument about the computer last night, and she told him that when he's finished work today, he'd better find a place to live or a homeless shelter because she won't let him stay. \n\nfrankly, i have a lot of things to say about a mother who would throw her own son out on the street, but right now i'm just worried that he'll be homeless, basically. he's got an apartment that he put a down payment on, but he won't be able to move in until august. i'm supposed to be moving in with him then, but at the moment i'm across the country living with my family and i don't know how to help or what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: basically, he's living with his mother right now. they got into an argument about the computer last night, and she told him that when he's finished work today, he'd better find a place to live or a homeless shelter because she won't let him stay. \n\nfrankly, i have a lot of things to say about a mother who would throw her own son out on the street, but right now i'm just worried that he'll be homeless, basically. he's got an apartment that he put a down payment on, but he won't be able to move in until august. i'm supposed to be moving in with him then, but at the moment i'm across the country living with my family and i don't know how to help or what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: basically, he's living with his mother right now. they got into an argument about the computer last night, and she told him that when he's finished work today, he'd better find a place to live or a homeless shelter because she won't let him stay. \n\nfrankly, i have a lot of things to say about a mother who would throw her own son out on the street, but right now i'm just worried that he'll be homeless, basically. he's got an apartment that he put a down payment on, but he won't be able to move in until august. i'm supposed to be moving in with him then, but at the moment i'm across the country living with my family and i don't know how to help or what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: basically, he's living with his mother right now. they got into an argument about the computer last night, and she told him that when he's finished work today, he'd better find a place to live or a homeless shelter because she won't let him stay. \n\nfrankly, i have a lot of things to say about a mother who would throw her own son out on the street, but right now i'm just worried that he'll be homeless, basically. he's got an apartment that he put a down payment on, but he won't be able to move in until august. i'm supposed to be moving in with him then, but at the moment i'm across the country living with my family and i don't know how to help or what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: basically, he's living with his mother right now. they got into an argument about the computer last night, and she told him that when he's finished work today, he'd better find a place to live or a homeless shelter because she won't let him stay. \n\nfrankly, i have a lot of things to say about a mother who would throw her own son out on the street, but right now i'm just worried that he'll be homeless, basically. he's got an apartment that he put a down payment on, but he won't be able to move in until august. i'm supposed to be moving in with him then, but at the moment i'm across the country living with my family and i don't know how to help or what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: basically, he's living with his mother right now. they got into an argument about the computer last night, and she told him that when he's finished work today, he'd better find a place to live or a homeless shelter because she won't let him stay. \n\nfrankly, i have a lot of things to say about a mother who would throw her own son out on the street, but right now i'm just worried that he'll be homeless, basically. he's got an apartment that he put a down payment on, but he won't be able to move in until august. i'm supposed to be moving in with him then, but at the moment i'm across the country living with my family and i don't know how to help or what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong.\n\nI'm not really interested in anyone analyzing profile or anything (though I'll answer questions).\n\nWhat I am interested in is what has worked for other people out here. I could browse various threads about \"how to be great at online dating,\" but I'd really rather hear actual stories of when it worked. If any guys out there did something that they thought helped them, Please let me know. Also, I hear a lot complaints from women about online dating, so I'd also like to hear what it's like from their perspective when it feels fun or positive.\n\nOh yeah, 32m."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong.\n\nI'm not really interested in anyone analyzing profile or anything (though I'll answer questions).\n\nWhat I am interested in is what has worked for other people out here. I could browse various threads about \"how to be great at online dating,\" but I'd really rather hear actual stories of when it worked. If any guys out there did something that they thought helped them, Please let me know. Also, I hear a lot complaints from women about online dating, so I'd also like to hear what it's like from their perspective when it feels fun or positive.\n\nOh yeah, 32m."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong.\n\nI'm not really interested in anyone analyzing profile or anything (though I'll answer questions).\n\nWhat I am interested in is what has worked for other people out here. I could browse various threads about \"how to be great at online dating,\" but I'd really rather hear actual stories of when it worked. If any guys out there did something that they thought helped them, Please let me know. Also, I hear a lot complaints from women about online dating, so I'd also like to hear what it's like from their perspective when it feels fun or positive.\n\nOh yeah, 32m."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong.\n\nI'm not really interested in anyone analyzing profile or anything (though I'll answer questions).\n\nWhat I am interested in is what has worked for other people out here. I could browse various threads about \"how to be great at online dating,\" but I'd really rather hear actual stories of when it worked. If any guys out there did something that they thought helped them, Please let me know. Also, I hear a lot complaints from women about online dating, so I'd also like to hear what it's like from their perspective when it feels fun or positive.\n\nOh yeah, 32m."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong.\n\nI'm not really interested in anyone analyzing profile or anything (though I'll answer questions).\n\nWhat I am interested in is what has worked for other people out here. I could browse various threads about \"how to be great at online dating,\" but I'd really rather hear actual stories of when it worked. If any guys out there did something that they thought helped them, Please let me know. Also, I hear a lot complaints from women about online dating, so I'd also like to hear what it's like from their perspective when it feels fun or positive.\n\nOh yeah, 32m."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong.\n\nI'm not really interested in anyone analyzing profile or anything (though I'll answer questions).\n\nWhat I am interested in is what has worked for other people out here. I could browse various threads about \"how to be great at online dating,\" but I'd really rather hear actual stories of when it worked. If any guys out there did something that they thought helped them, Please let me know. Also, I hear a lot complaints from women about online dating, so I'd also like to hear what it's like from their perspective when it feels fun or positive.\n\nOh yeah, 32m."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit,\n\nBeen with my girl for 7 years. Ups and downs like any relationship, but we get along well. Lately we have been talking lightly about marriage, kids, what we want in the future. Im ready to sell the condo that I've worked hard to pay a lot off and build a house outside the city.\n\nGirlfriend has liv d with me the last two years almost. Before that she was living at home and working, she's a manager of a bar and does well. I have some concerns.\n\nOne is that she hasn't been financially open with me and doesn't have any savings, but we want three kids, I just don't know how realistic it will be. Secondly. I feel like I barely see her. She has her yearly girlfriend only trips to coachella and all over. She's into the gay clubbing scene which crosses me out. She works shitty hours, or sometimes she's hungover. Or she's off doing something that excludes me. (A last minute trip with girlfriends to Las Vegas.)\n\nShe's supportive of me building a house, but she says she would stay in the city and see me on occasion until it's ready. Her grandparents own a lot of property and she is depending on inheriting it. Is there any hope of is meeting in the middle?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit,\n\nBeen with my girl for 7 years. Ups and downs like any relationship, but we get along well. Lately we have been talking lightly about marriage, kids, what we want in the future. Im ready to sell the condo that I've worked hard to pay a lot off and build a house outside the city.\n\nGirlfriend has liv d with me the last two years almost. Before that she was living at home and working, she's a manager of a bar and does well. I have some concerns.\n\nOne is that she hasn't been financially open with me and doesn't have any savings, but we want three kids, I just don't know how realistic it will be. Secondly. I feel like I barely see her. She has her yearly girlfriend only trips to coachella and all over. She's into the gay clubbing scene which crosses me out. She works shitty hours, or sometimes she's hungover. Or she's off doing something that excludes me. (A last minute trip with girlfriends to Las Vegas.)\n\nShe's supportive of me building a house, but she says she would stay in the city and see me on occasion until it's ready. Her grandparents own a lot of property and she is depending on inheriting it. Is there any hope of is meeting in the middle?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit,\n\nBeen with my girl for 7 years. Ups and downs like any relationship, but we get along well. Lately we have been talking lightly about marriage, kids, what we want in the future. Im ready to sell the condo that I've worked hard to pay a lot off and build a house outside the city.\n\nGirlfriend has liv d with me the last two years almost. Before that she was living at home and working, she's a manager of a bar and does well. I have some concerns.\n\nOne is that she hasn't been financially open with me and doesn't have any savings, but we want three kids, I just don't know how realistic it will be. Secondly. I feel like I barely see her. She has her yearly girlfriend only trips to coachella and all over. She's into the gay clubbing scene which crosses me out. She works shitty hours, or sometimes she's hungover. Or she's off doing something that excludes me. (A last minute trip with girlfriends to Las Vegas.)\n\nShe's supportive of me building a house, but she says she would stay in the city and see me on occasion until it's ready. Her grandparents own a lot of property and she is depending on inheriting it. Is there any hope of is meeting in the middle?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit,\n\nBeen with my girl for 7 years. Ups and downs like any relationship, but we get along well. Lately we have been talking lightly about marriage, kids, what we want in the future. Im ready to sell the condo that I've worked hard to pay a lot off and build a house outside the city.\n\nGirlfriend has liv d with me the last two years almost. Before that she was living at home and working, she's a manager of a bar and does well. I have some concerns.\n\nOne is that she hasn't been financially open with me and doesn't have any savings, but we want three kids, I just don't know how realistic it will be. Secondly. I feel like I barely see her. She has her yearly girlfriend only trips to coachella and all over. She's into the gay clubbing scene which crosses me out. She works shitty hours, or sometimes she's hungover. Or she's off doing something that excludes me. (A last minute trip with girlfriends to Las Vegas.)\n\nShe's supportive of me building a house, but she says she would stay in the city and see me on occasion until it's ready. Her grandparents own a lot of property and she is depending on inheriting it. Is there any hope of is meeting in the middle?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit,\n\nBeen with my girl for 7 years. Ups and downs like any relationship, but we get along well. Lately we have been talking lightly about marriage, kids, what we want in the future. Im ready to sell the condo that I've worked hard to pay a lot off and build a house outside the city.\n\nGirlfriend has liv d with me the last two years almost. Before that she was living at home and working, she's a manager of a bar and does well. I have some concerns.\n\nOne is that she hasn't been financially open with me and doesn't have any savings, but we want three kids, I just don't know how realistic it will be. Secondly. I feel like I barely see her. She has her yearly girlfriend only trips to coachella and all over. She's into the gay clubbing scene which crosses me out. She works shitty hours, or sometimes she's hungover. Or she's off doing something that excludes me. (A last minute trip with girlfriends to Las Vegas.)\n\nShe's supportive of me building a house, but she says she would stay in the city and see me on occasion until it's ready. Her grandparents own a lot of property and she is depending on inheriting it. Is there any hope of is meeting in the middle?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit,\n\nBeen with my girl for 7 years. Ups and downs like any relationship, but we get along well. Lately we have been talking lightly about marriage, kids, what we want in the future. Im ready to sell the condo that I've worked hard to pay a lot off and build a house outside the city.\n\nGirlfriend has liv d with me the last two years almost. Before that she was living at home and working, she's a manager of a bar and does well. I have some concerns.\n\nOne is that she hasn't been financially open with me and doesn't have any savings, but we want three kids, I just don't know how realistic it will be. Secondly. I feel like I barely see her. She has her yearly girlfriend only trips to coachella and all over. She's into the gay clubbing scene which crosses me out. She works shitty hours, or sometimes she's hungover. Or she's off doing something that excludes me. (A last minute trip with girlfriends to Las Vegas.)\n\nShe's supportive of me building a house, but she says she would stay in the city and see me on occasion until it's ready. Her grandparents own a lot of property and she is depending on inheriting it. Is there any hope of is meeting in the middle?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the most part of my time on Reddit, and I hope that this is the right place to ask this question. *I'll start by saying sorry for the emotionally written text.*\n\nSo my GF of 7 years just broke up with me (My high school sweetheart) because she wanted be with another guy that she met at her new school, after only being there for 2 weeks. I get that she maybe wants to see what life has to offer, besides only being with me for the rest of her life, but what hurts me the most is that it didn't take her more than 2 weeks to meet this guy and find out that she would rather break up with me, to be with him. A guy she had only known for 2 weeks.\n\nI don't know how to handle this emotionally, I mean does she not care about the time we spent together, after all this time do I really not mean anything more to her. We often spoke about our future, kids, house, everything and I don't think that I can love another person higher than I loved her. Maybe this just seems young love, but I really thought deep down in my heart that I would be with this person forever. It hurts just to write it out in words. \n\nI really don't know how to handle this emotionally, I'm not the best looking guy, not the most fit, not the most fun but I really thought that we had something special and I was the most lucky guy on earth. I'm sorry if this sounds a bit over the top or even cringe worthy, but I can't help for what I'm feeling right now, all I can think about is her. She even said; that of course she still cares about me and our time together did mean something, I'm just having a hard time believing that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the most part of my time on Reddit, and I hope that this is the right place to ask this question. *I'll start by saying sorry for the emotionally written text.*\n\nSo my GF of 7 years just broke up with me (My high school sweetheart) because she wanted be with another guy that she met at her new school, after only being there for 2 weeks. I get that she maybe wants to see what life has to offer, besides only being with me for the rest of her life, but what hurts me the most is that it didn't take her more than 2 weeks to meet this guy and find out that she would rather break up with me, to be with him. A guy she had only known for 2 weeks.\n\nI don't know how to handle this emotionally, I mean does she not care about the time we spent together, after all this time do I really not mean anything more to her. We often spoke about our future, kids, house, everything and I don't think that I can love another person higher than I loved her. Maybe this just seems young love, but I really thought deep down in my heart that I would be with this person forever. It hurts just to write it out in words. \n\nI really don't know how to handle this emotionally, I'm not the best looking guy, not the most fit, not the most fun but I really thought that we had something special and I was the most lucky guy on earth. I'm sorry if this sounds a bit over the top or even cringe worthy, but I can't help for what I'm feeling right now, all I can think about is her. She even said; that of course she still cares about me and our time together did mean something, I'm just having a hard time believing that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the most part of my time on Reddit, and I hope that this is the right place to ask this question. *I'll start by saying sorry for the emotionally written text.*\n\nSo my GF of 7 years just broke up with me (My high school sweetheart) because she wanted be with another guy that she met at her new school, after only being there for 2 weeks. I get that she maybe wants to see what life has to offer, besides only being with me for the rest of her life, but what hurts me the most is that it didn't take her more than 2 weeks to meet this guy and find out that she would rather break up with me, to be with him. A guy she had only known for 2 weeks.\n\nI don't know how to handle this emotionally, I mean does she not care about the time we spent together, after all this time do I really not mean anything more to her. We often spoke about our future, kids, house, everything and I don't think that I can love another person higher than I loved her. Maybe this just seems young love, but I really thought deep down in my heart that I would be with this person forever. It hurts just to write it out in words. \n\nI really don't know how to handle this emotionally, I'm not the best looking guy, not the most fit, not the most fun but I really thought that we had something special and I was the most lucky guy on earth. I'm sorry if this sounds a bit over the top or even cringe worthy, but I can't help for what I'm feeling right now, all I can think about is her. She even said; that of course she still cares about me and our time together did mean something, I'm just having a hard time believing that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the most part of my time on Reddit, and I hope that this is the right place to ask this question. *I'll start by saying sorry for the emotionally written text.*\n\nSo my GF of 7 years just broke up with me (My high school sweetheart) because she wanted be with another guy that she met at her new school, after only being there for 2 weeks. I get that she maybe wants to see what life has to offer, besides only being with me for the rest of her life, but what hurts me the most is that it didn't take her more than 2 weeks to meet this guy and find out that she would rather break up with me, to be with him. A guy she had only known for 2 weeks.\n\nI don't know how to handle this emotionally, I mean does she not care about the time we spent together, after all this time do I really not mean anything more to her. We often spoke about our future, kids, house, everything and I don't think that I can love another person higher than I loved her. Maybe this just seems young love, but I really thought deep down in my heart that I would be with this person forever. It hurts just to write it out in words. \n\nI really don't know how to handle this emotionally, I'm not the best looking guy, not the most fit, not the most fun but I really thought that we had something special and I was the most lucky guy on earth. I'm sorry if this sounds a bit over the top or even cringe worthy, but I can't help for what I'm feeling right now, all I can think about is her. She even said; that of course she still cares about me and our time together did mean something, I'm just having a hard time believing that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the most part of my time on Reddit, and I hope that this is the right place to ask this question. *I'll start by saying sorry for the emotionally written text.*\n\nSo my GF of 7 years just broke up with me (My high school sweetheart) because she wanted be with another guy that she met at her new school, after only being there for 2 weeks. I get that she maybe wants to see what life has to offer, besides only being with me for the rest of her life, but what hurts me the most is that it didn't take her more than 2 weeks to meet this guy and find out that she would rather break up with me, to be with him. A guy she had only known for 2 weeks.\n\nI don't know how to handle this emotionally, I mean does she not care about the time we spent together, after all this time do I really not mean anything more to her. We often spoke about our future, kids, house, everything and I don't think that I can love another person higher than I loved her. Maybe this just seems young love, but I really thought deep down in my heart that I would be with this person forever. It hurts just to write it out in words. \n\nI really don't know how to handle this emotionally, I'm not the best looking guy, not the most fit, not the most fun but I really thought that we had something special and I was the most lucky guy on earth. I'm sorry if this sounds a bit over the top or even cringe worthy, but I can't help for what I'm feeling right now, all I can think about is her. She even said; that of course she still cares about me and our time together did mean something, I'm just having a hard time believing that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the most part of my time on Reddit, and I hope that this is the right place to ask this question. *I'll start by saying sorry for the emotionally written text.*\n\nSo my GF of 7 years just broke up with me (My high school sweetheart) because she wanted be with another guy that she met at her new school, after only being there for 2 weeks. I get that she maybe wants to see what life has to offer, besides only being with me for the rest of her life, but what hurts me the most is that it didn't take her more than 2 weeks to meet this guy and find out that she would rather break up with me, to be with him. A guy she had only known for 2 weeks.\n\nI don't know how to handle this emotionally, I mean does she not care about the time we spent together, after all this time do I really not mean anything more to her. We often spoke about our future, kids, house, everything and I don't think that I can love another person higher than I loved her. Maybe this just seems young love, but I really thought deep down in my heart that I would be with this person forever. It hurts just to write it out in words. \n\nI really don't know how to handle this emotionally, I'm not the best looking guy, not the most fit, not the most fun but I really thought that we had something special and I was the most lucky guy on earth. I'm sorry if this sounds a bit over the top or even cringe worthy, but I can't help for what I'm feeling right now, all I can think about is her. She even said; that of course she still cares about me and our time together did mean something, I'm just having a hard time believing that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, i am a 26 yr old female, i have been single for over a year and have been super comfortable with life being single, i got a puppy, planning a veggie garden and just pretty much got my life sorted again after a devastating heartbreak from my last relationship. Then just over a week ago (on my birthday) blind drunk i hooked up with an old friend i knew when i was 14 or 15. I had a crush on him back then, i thought it was just a teenage thing tho. I had an amazing night, although i don't remember a lot of it he did stay over and spent most of the next day with me (we didn't have sex and still haven't). We were texting throughout the week then Friday night we had a proper date. Everything i am feeling right now is pretty intense towards him and its kinda freaking me out, i want to be texting him all the time and its taking many forces of sheer willpower to stop me from doing it. I need advice from guys on what its like if they are always getting texts from a girl and advice from girls about how to stay cool and aloof, but still let him know you are interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, i am a 26 yr old female, i have been single for over a year and have been super comfortable with life being single, i got a puppy, planning a veggie garden and just pretty much got my life sorted again after a devastating heartbreak from my last relationship. Then just over a week ago (on my birthday) blind drunk i hooked up with an old friend i knew when i was 14 or 15. I had a crush on him back then, i thought it was just a teenage thing tho. I had an amazing night, although i don't remember a lot of it he did stay over and spent most of the next day with me (we didn't have sex and still haven't). We were texting throughout the week then Friday night we had a proper date. Everything i am feeling right now is pretty intense towards him and its kinda freaking me out, i want to be texting him all the time and its taking many forces of sheer willpower to stop me from doing it. I need advice from guys on what its like if they are always getting texts from a girl and advice from girls about how to stay cool and aloof, but still let him know you are interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, i am a 26 yr old female, i have been single for over a year and have been super comfortable with life being single, i got a puppy, planning a veggie garden and just pretty much got my life sorted again after a devastating heartbreak from my last relationship. Then just over a week ago (on my birthday) blind drunk i hooked up with an old friend i knew when i was 14 or 15. I had a crush on him back then, i thought it was just a teenage thing tho. I had an amazing night, although i don't remember a lot of it he did stay over and spent most of the next day with me (we didn't have sex and still haven't). We were texting throughout the week then Friday night we had a proper date. Everything i am feeling right now is pretty intense towards him and its kinda freaking me out, i want to be texting him all the time and its taking many forces of sheer willpower to stop me from doing it. I need advice from guys on what its like if they are always getting texts from a girl and advice from girls about how to stay cool and aloof, but still let him know you are interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, i am a 26 yr old female, i have been single for over a year and have been super comfortable with life being single, i got a puppy, planning a veggie garden and just pretty much got my life sorted again after a devastating heartbreak from my last relationship. Then just over a week ago (on my birthday) blind drunk i hooked up with an old friend i knew when i was 14 or 15. I had a crush on him back then, i thought it was just a teenage thing tho. I had an amazing night, although i don't remember a lot of it he did stay over and spent most of the next day with me (we didn't have sex and still haven't). We were texting throughout the week then Friday night we had a proper date. Everything i am feeling right now is pretty intense towards him and its kinda freaking me out, i want to be texting him all the time and its taking many forces of sheer willpower to stop me from doing it. I need advice from guys on what its like if they are always getting texts from a girl and advice from girls about how to stay cool and aloof, but still let him know you are interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, i am a 26 yr old female, i have been single for over a year and have been super comfortable with life being single, i got a puppy, planning a veggie garden and just pretty much got my life sorted again after a devastating heartbreak from my last relationship. Then just over a week ago (on my birthday) blind drunk i hooked up with an old friend i knew when i was 14 or 15. I had a crush on him back then, i thought it was just a teenage thing tho. I had an amazing night, although i don't remember a lot of it he did stay over and spent most of the next day with me (we didn't have sex and still haven't). We were texting throughout the week then Friday night we had a proper date. Everything i am feeling right now is pretty intense towards him and its kinda freaking me out, i want to be texting him all the time and its taking many forces of sheer willpower to stop me from doing it. I need advice from guys on what its like if they are always getting texts from a girl and advice from girls about how to stay cool and aloof, but still let him know you are interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, i am a 26 yr old female, i have been single for over a year and have been super comfortable with life being single, i got a puppy, planning a veggie garden and just pretty much got my life sorted again after a devastating heartbreak from my last relationship. Then just over a week ago (on my birthday) blind drunk i hooked up with an old friend i knew when i was 14 or 15. I had a crush on him back then, i thought it was just a teenage thing tho. I had an amazing night, although i don't remember a lot of it he did stay over and spent most of the next day with me (we didn't have sex and still haven't). We were texting throughout the week then Friday night we had a proper date. Everything i am feeling right now is pretty intense towards him and its kinda freaking me out, i want to be texting him all the time and its taking many forces of sheer willpower to stop me from doing it. I need advice from guys on what its like if they are always getting texts from a girl and advice from girls about how to stay cool and aloof, but still let him know you are interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I've been dating an amazing girl for about 2 months now. I was going through a pretty rough stage in my life before meeting her. Since she came into my life I've been happier for longer than I can remember. I can honestly say she a significant part of all the positive things going on in my life.\n\nAnyways, we were seeing each other for a while before actually dating and one night while lying in bed she began crying. I asked what was wrong and she replied that there was something she needed to tell me. I was obviously a little nervous but asked her what it was. She proceeded to tell me she had recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was absolutely floored. I didn't know what the fuck to say. \n\nShe had gone for a routine checkup and was told her diagnosis following. Obviously this was hard for her as was telling me about it. \n\nAt this point she has only told me and her two best friends about it as she is too scared to tell her parents (her mom just beat breast cancer so this is something they just thought they finished fighting).\n\nAt this point that talk was the only time it has been brought up. Everything has been wonderful with her and bringing it up would just make something that I'm sure is weighing heavily on her heart that much harder. I only want her to be happy and not bring it up but I can't help but think about it. Everyday I think about it and it simply knocks the breath out of me.\n\nI want to know more about cervical cancer without bringing it up to her. At the same time I would love to hear real people with real life experiences that simply googling \"cervical cancer\" wouldn't provide. \n\nWe're both 22 and until now it was beyond anything I could imagine for anyone my age to get cancer let alone someone I cared so much about. This girl is such a bright place in the world, any positive thoughts would mean so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I've been dating an amazing girl for about 2 months now. I was going through a pretty rough stage in my life before meeting her. Since she came into my life I've been happier for longer than I can remember. I can honestly say she a significant part of all the positive things going on in my life.\n\nAnyways, we were seeing each other for a while before actually dating and one night while lying in bed she began crying. I asked what was wrong and she replied that there was something she needed to tell me. I was obviously a little nervous but asked her what it was. She proceeded to tell me she had recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was absolutely floored. I didn't know what the fuck to say. \n\nShe had gone for a routine checkup and was told her diagnosis following. Obviously this was hard for her as was telling me about it. \n\nAt this point she has only told me and her two best friends about it as she is too scared to tell her parents (her mom just beat breast cancer so this is something they just thought they finished fighting).\n\nAt this point that talk was the only time it has been brought up. Everything has been wonderful with her and bringing it up would just make something that I'm sure is weighing heavily on her heart that much harder. I only want her to be happy and not bring it up but I can't help but think about it. Everyday I think about it and it simply knocks the breath out of me.\n\nI want to know more about cervical cancer without bringing it up to her. At the same time I would love to hear real people with real life experiences that simply googling \"cervical cancer\" wouldn't provide. \n\nWe're both 22 and until now it was beyond anything I could imagine for anyone my age to get cancer let alone someone I cared so much about. This girl is such a bright place in the world, any positive thoughts would mean so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I've been dating an amazing girl for about 2 months now. I was going through a pretty rough stage in my life before meeting her. Since she came into my life I've been happier for longer than I can remember. I can honestly say she a significant part of all the positive things going on in my life.\n\nAnyways, we were seeing each other for a while before actually dating and one night while lying in bed she began crying. I asked what was wrong and she replied that there was something she needed to tell me. I was obviously a little nervous but asked her what it was. She proceeded to tell me she had recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was absolutely floored. I didn't know what the fuck to say. \n\nShe had gone for a routine checkup and was told her diagnosis following. Obviously this was hard for her as was telling me about it. \n\nAt this point she has only told me and her two best friends about it as she is too scared to tell her parents (her mom just beat breast cancer so this is something they just thought they finished fighting).\n\nAt this point that talk was the only time it has been brought up. Everything has been wonderful with her and bringing it up would just make something that I'm sure is weighing heavily on her heart that much harder. I only want her to be happy and not bring it up but I can't help but think about it. Everyday I think about it and it simply knocks the breath out of me.\n\nI want to know more about cervical cancer without bringing it up to her. At the same time I would love to hear real people with real life experiences that simply googling \"cervical cancer\" wouldn't provide. \n\nWe're both 22 and until now it was beyond anything I could imagine for anyone my age to get cancer let alone someone I cared so much about. This girl is such a bright place in the world, any positive thoughts would mean so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I've been dating an amazing girl for about 2 months now. I was going through a pretty rough stage in my life before meeting her. Since she came into my life I've been happier for longer than I can remember. I can honestly say she a significant part of all the positive things going on in my life.\n\nAnyways, we were seeing each other for a while before actually dating and one night while lying in bed she began crying. I asked what was wrong and she replied that there was something she needed to tell me. I was obviously a little nervous but asked her what it was. She proceeded to tell me she had recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was absolutely floored. I didn't know what the fuck to say. \n\nShe had gone for a routine checkup and was told her diagnosis following. Obviously this was hard for her as was telling me about it. \n\nAt this point she has only told me and her two best friends about it as she is too scared to tell her parents (her mom just beat breast cancer so this is something they just thought they finished fighting).\n\nAt this point that talk was the only time it has been brought up. Everything has been wonderful with her and bringing it up would just make something that I'm sure is weighing heavily on her heart that much harder. I only want her to be happy and not bring it up but I can't help but think about it. Everyday I think about it and it simply knocks the breath out of me.\n\nI want to know more about cervical cancer without bringing it up to her. At the same time I would love to hear real people with real life experiences that simply googling \"cervical cancer\" wouldn't provide. \n\nWe're both 22 and until now it was beyond anything I could imagine for anyone my age to get cancer let alone someone I cared so much about. This girl is such a bright place in the world, any positive thoughts would mean so much."
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