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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I've been dating an amazing girl for about 2 months now. I was going through a pretty rough stage in my life before meeting her. Since she came into my life I've been happier for longer than I can remember. I can honestly say she a significant part of all the positive things going on in my life.\n\nAnyways, we were seeing each other for a while before actually dating and one night while lying in bed she began crying. I asked what was wrong and she replied that there was something she needed to tell me. I was obviously a little nervous but asked her what it was. She proceeded to tell me she had recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was absolutely floored. I didn't know what the fuck to say. \n\nShe had gone for a routine checkup and was told her diagnosis following. Obviously this was hard for her as was telling me about it. \n\nAt this point she has only told me and her two best friends about it as she is too scared to tell her parents (her mom just beat breast cancer so this is something they just thought they finished fighting).\n\nAt this point that talk was the only time it has been brought up. Everything has been wonderful with her and bringing it up would just make something that I'm sure is weighing heavily on her heart that much harder. I only want her to be happy and not bring it up but I can't help but think about it. Everyday I think about it and it simply knocks the breath out of me.\n\nI want to know more about cervical cancer without bringing it up to her. At the same time I would love to hear real people with real life experiences that simply googling \"cervical cancer\" wouldn't provide. \n\nWe're both 22 and until now it was beyond anything I could imagine for anyone my age to get cancer let alone someone I cared so much about. This girl is such a bright place in the world, any positive thoughts would mean so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I've been dating an amazing girl for about 2 months now. I was going through a pretty rough stage in my life before meeting her. Since she came into my life I've been happier for longer than I can remember. I can honestly say she a significant part of all the positive things going on in my life.\n\nAnyways, we were seeing each other for a while before actually dating and one night while lying in bed she began crying. I asked what was wrong and she replied that there was something she needed to tell me. I was obviously a little nervous but asked her what it was. She proceeded to tell me she had recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was absolutely floored. I didn't know what the fuck to say. \n\nShe had gone for a routine checkup and was told her diagnosis following. Obviously this was hard for her as was telling me about it. \n\nAt this point she has only told me and her two best friends about it as she is too scared to tell her parents (her mom just beat breast cancer so this is something they just thought they finished fighting).\n\nAt this point that talk was the only time it has been brought up. Everything has been wonderful with her and bringing it up would just make something that I'm sure is weighing heavily on her heart that much harder. I only want her to be happy and not bring it up but I can't help but think about it. Everyday I think about it and it simply knocks the breath out of me.\n\nI want to know more about cervical cancer without bringing it up to her. At the same time I would love to hear real people with real life experiences that simply googling \"cervical cancer\" wouldn't provide. \n\nWe're both 22 and until now it was beyond anything I could imagine for anyone my age to get cancer let alone someone I cared so much about. This girl is such a bright place in the world, any positive thoughts would mean so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved to this island last year at the end of Summer where most people here are Greek Orthodox Christian and times are tough with the economy. (relaxed culture but strict religious beliefs)\n\nIt's Spring and my girlfriend is starting her last trial of her 5th year in university, getting a paid internship. (stress)\n\nWe are both living with our respective families so its hard to find time to be intimate in a bed. (stressful)\n\nHer dad was never around when she was a child and he himself probably had a bad childhood and never learned to be healthy with emotions. (emotional abuse)\n\nSo her parents are divorcing and I cant stand her being in so much pain/struggle. I happen to have a bit of self knowledge and can kinda analyze things to some degree. but I have kinda felt like I'm not the right person to tell all her parents (family's) problems to, as I have met them on multiple occasions. (complicated, its not that I dont want to hear her problems its just that I am not sure its appropriate. somehow. know what I mean?) We love each other but im afraid she needs more from me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved to this island last year at the end of Summer where most people here are Greek Orthodox Christian and times are tough with the economy. (relaxed culture but strict religious beliefs)\n\nIt's Spring and my girlfriend is starting her last trial of her 5th year in university, getting a paid internship. (stress)\n\nWe are both living with our respective families so its hard to find time to be intimate in a bed. (stressful)\n\nHer dad was never around when she was a child and he himself probably had a bad childhood and never learned to be healthy with emotions. (emotional abuse)\n\nSo her parents are divorcing and I cant stand her being in so much pain/struggle. I happen to have a bit of self knowledge and can kinda analyze things to some degree. but I have kinda felt like I'm not the right person to tell all her parents (family's) problems to, as I have met them on multiple occasions. (complicated, its not that I dont want to hear her problems its just that I am not sure its appropriate. somehow. know what I mean?) We love each other but im afraid she needs more from me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved to this island last year at the end of Summer where most people here are Greek Orthodox Christian and times are tough with the economy. (relaxed culture but strict religious beliefs)\n\nIt's Spring and my girlfriend is starting her last trial of her 5th year in university, getting a paid internship. (stress)\n\nWe are both living with our respective families so its hard to find time to be intimate in a bed. (stressful)\n\nHer dad was never around when she was a child and he himself probably had a bad childhood and never learned to be healthy with emotions. (emotional abuse)\n\nSo her parents are divorcing and I cant stand her being in so much pain/struggle. I happen to have a bit of self knowledge and can kinda analyze things to some degree. but I have kinda felt like I'm not the right person to tell all her parents (family's) problems to, as I have met them on multiple occasions. (complicated, its not that I dont want to hear her problems its just that I am not sure its appropriate. somehow. know what I mean?) We love each other but im afraid she needs more from me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved to this island last year at the end of Summer where most people here are Greek Orthodox Christian and times are tough with the economy. (relaxed culture but strict religious beliefs)\n\nIt's Spring and my girlfriend is starting her last trial of her 5th year in university, getting a paid internship. (stress)\n\nWe are both living with our respective families so its hard to find time to be intimate in a bed. (stressful)\n\nHer dad was never around when she was a child and he himself probably had a bad childhood and never learned to be healthy with emotions. (emotional abuse)\n\nSo her parents are divorcing and I cant stand her being in so much pain/struggle. I happen to have a bit of self knowledge and can kinda analyze things to some degree. but I have kinda felt like I'm not the right person to tell all her parents (family's) problems to, as I have met them on multiple occasions. (complicated, its not that I dont want to hear her problems its just that I am not sure its appropriate. somehow. know what I mean?) We love each other but im afraid she needs more from me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved to this island last year at the end of Summer where most people here are Greek Orthodox Christian and times are tough with the economy. (relaxed culture but strict religious beliefs)\n\nIt's Spring and my girlfriend is starting her last trial of her 5th year in university, getting a paid internship. (stress)\n\nWe are both living with our respective families so its hard to find time to be intimate in a bed. (stressful)\n\nHer dad was never around when she was a child and he himself probably had a bad childhood and never learned to be healthy with emotions. (emotional abuse)\n\nSo her parents are divorcing and I cant stand her being in so much pain/struggle. I happen to have a bit of self knowledge and can kinda analyze things to some degree. but I have kinda felt like I'm not the right person to tell all her parents (family's) problems to, as I have met them on multiple occasions. (complicated, its not that I dont want to hear her problems its just that I am not sure its appropriate. somehow. know what I mean?) We love each other but im afraid she needs more from me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved to this island last year at the end of Summer where most people here are Greek Orthodox Christian and times are tough with the economy. (relaxed culture but strict religious beliefs)\n\nIt's Spring and my girlfriend is starting her last trial of her 5th year in university, getting a paid internship. (stress)\n\nWe are both living with our respective families so its hard to find time to be intimate in a bed. (stressful)\n\nHer dad was never around when she was a child and he himself probably had a bad childhood and never learned to be healthy with emotions. (emotional abuse)\n\nSo her parents are divorcing and I cant stand her being in so much pain/struggle. I happen to have a bit of self knowledge and can kinda analyze things to some degree. but I have kinda felt like I'm not the right person to tell all her parents (family's) problems to, as I have met them on multiple occasions. (complicated, its not that I dont want to hear her problems its just that I am not sure its appropriate. somehow. know what I mean?) We love each other but im afraid she needs more from me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not a virgin but I've never had a relationship. \n\nI met this absolutely beautiful girl who is also very intelligent and deep. I'm really liking her. Feelings I've never felt before. Ever.\n\nWe went on a fantastic date where I took her to dinner and then we watched her favorite movie in my room.\n\nI kissed her part way through and we made out for a while. She held my hand when I walked her to her car and our connection was very fun, very real, and very cute.(I left out a ton of details about the date. Just understand we had a good one)\n\nShe is taking a year off and I'm a college sophomore. \n\nI can tell that she also really likes me from how she acts around me and how we text each other(not to mention she basically straight up said it)\n\n*Here is my problem:* I don't know how to handle a relationship. She is currently MOST of what I think about, even if I don't show it. These feelings are strong, scary, and remind me why people are so broken after breakups.\n\nHow often should we arrange to see each other? Is there a too much? One date a week is driving me crazy because she is so fucking cool. I want to see her.\n\nI want to take my time, though, and not rush sex. I want intimacy. How do I establish TRUE intimacy? I'm very good at talking to her, teasing, making her feel comfortable, etc. We are honestly already a little intimate, but I would like advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not a virgin but I've never had a relationship. \n\nI met this absolutely beautiful girl who is also very intelligent and deep. I'm really liking her. Feelings I've never felt before. Ever.\n\nWe went on a fantastic date where I took her to dinner and then we watched her favorite movie in my room.\n\nI kissed her part way through and we made out for a while. She held my hand when I walked her to her car and our connection was very fun, very real, and very cute.(I left out a ton of details about the date. Just understand we had a good one)\n\nShe is taking a year off and I'm a college sophomore. \n\nI can tell that she also really likes me from how she acts around me and how we text each other(not to mention she basically straight up said it)\n\n*Here is my problem:* I don't know how to handle a relationship. She is currently MOST of what I think about, even if I don't show it. These feelings are strong, scary, and remind me why people are so broken after breakups.\n\nHow often should we arrange to see each other? Is there a too much? One date a week is driving me crazy because she is so fucking cool. I want to see her.\n\nI want to take my time, though, and not rush sex. I want intimacy. How do I establish TRUE intimacy? I'm very good at talking to her, teasing, making her feel comfortable, etc. We are honestly already a little intimate, but I would like advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not a virgin but I've never had a relationship. \n\nI met this absolutely beautiful girl who is also very intelligent and deep. I'm really liking her. Feelings I've never felt before. Ever.\n\nWe went on a fantastic date where I took her to dinner and then we watched her favorite movie in my room.\n\nI kissed her part way through and we made out for a while. She held my hand when I walked her to her car and our connection was very fun, very real, and very cute.(I left out a ton of details about the date. Just understand we had a good one)\n\nShe is taking a year off and I'm a college sophomore. \n\nI can tell that she also really likes me from how she acts around me and how we text each other(not to mention she basically straight up said it)\n\n*Here is my problem:* I don't know how to handle a relationship. She is currently MOST of what I think about, even if I don't show it. These feelings are strong, scary, and remind me why people are so broken after breakups.\n\nHow often should we arrange to see each other? Is there a too much? One date a week is driving me crazy because she is so fucking cool. I want to see her.\n\nI want to take my time, though, and not rush sex. I want intimacy. How do I establish TRUE intimacy? I'm very good at talking to her, teasing, making her feel comfortable, etc. We are honestly already a little intimate, but I would like advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not a virgin but I've never had a relationship. \n\nI met this absolutely beautiful girl who is also very intelligent and deep. I'm really liking her. Feelings I've never felt before. Ever.\n\nWe went on a fantastic date where I took her to dinner and then we watched her favorite movie in my room.\n\nI kissed her part way through and we made out for a while. She held my hand when I walked her to her car and our connection was very fun, very real, and very cute.(I left out a ton of details about the date. Just understand we had a good one)\n\nShe is taking a year off and I'm a college sophomore. \n\nI can tell that she also really likes me from how she acts around me and how we text each other(not to mention she basically straight up said it)\n\n*Here is my problem:* I don't know how to handle a relationship. She is currently MOST of what I think about, even if I don't show it. These feelings are strong, scary, and remind me why people are so broken after breakups.\n\nHow often should we arrange to see each other? Is there a too much? One date a week is driving me crazy because she is so fucking cool. I want to see her.\n\nI want to take my time, though, and not rush sex. I want intimacy. How do I establish TRUE intimacy? I'm very good at talking to her, teasing, making her feel comfortable, etc. We are honestly already a little intimate, but I would like advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not a virgin but I've never had a relationship. \n\nI met this absolutely beautiful girl who is also very intelligent and deep. I'm really liking her. Feelings I've never felt before. Ever.\n\nWe went on a fantastic date where I took her to dinner and then we watched her favorite movie in my room.\n\nI kissed her part way through and we made out for a while. She held my hand when I walked her to her car and our connection was very fun, very real, and very cute.(I left out a ton of details about the date. Just understand we had a good one)\n\nShe is taking a year off and I'm a college sophomore. \n\nI can tell that she also really likes me from how she acts around me and how we text each other(not to mention she basically straight up said it)\n\n*Here is my problem:* I don't know how to handle a relationship. She is currently MOST of what I think about, even if I don't show it. These feelings are strong, scary, and remind me why people are so broken after breakups.\n\nHow often should we arrange to see each other? Is there a too much? One date a week is driving me crazy because she is so fucking cool. I want to see her.\n\nI want to take my time, though, and not rush sex. I want intimacy. How do I establish TRUE intimacy? I'm very good at talking to her, teasing, making her feel comfortable, etc. We are honestly already a little intimate, but I would like advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not a virgin but I've never had a relationship. \n\nI met this absolutely beautiful girl who is also very intelligent and deep. I'm really liking her. Feelings I've never felt before. Ever.\n\nWe went on a fantastic date where I took her to dinner and then we watched her favorite movie in my room.\n\nI kissed her part way through and we made out for a while. She held my hand when I walked her to her car and our connection was very fun, very real, and very cute.(I left out a ton of details about the date. Just understand we had a good one)\n\nShe is taking a year off and I'm a college sophomore. \n\nI can tell that she also really likes me from how she acts around me and how we text each other(not to mention she basically straight up said it)\n\n*Here is my problem:* I don't know how to handle a relationship. She is currently MOST of what I think about, even if I don't show it. These feelings are strong, scary, and remind me why people are so broken after breakups.\n\nHow often should we arrange to see each other? Is there a too much? One date a week is driving me crazy because she is so fucking cool. I want to see her.\n\nI want to take my time, though, and not rush sex. I want intimacy. How do I establish TRUE intimacy? I'm very good at talking to her, teasing, making her feel comfortable, etc. We are honestly already a little intimate, but I would like advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend of mine that is constantly trying to one-up every one and will bullshit a lot of stories to make himself sound cool. For example\n\nMe: I deadlifted 225!\n\nHim: So, I deadlifted 700!\n\nObvious bullshitting to attempt to one-up me considering Elliot Hulse's one rep max for deadlift is 600. Anyways.\n\nI've got maybe two or three other friends he'll always rip on other than me to make himself look better. And frankly, we're annoyed, most of the time he rips on me for trying to dress well and making sure my hair is nice (I'm not gay). Like yesterday when me, him, and another friend were in the mall and a female friend of mine comes in and says hi, we talk for a little and my female friend jokingly says something which prompts my friend to says this.\n\n\"yeah if you really want to mess with throwaway185674 just mess up his hair.\"\n\nAlso this, when we were at a party someone complained that they kept running out of cellphone data, so I said \"If you watch a lot of youtube videos on there you'll run up your data\" My friend says this.\n\n\"Yeah and throwaway185674 runs up his data because of something else on youtube *elludes to dirty stuff.\"\n\nYeah that made me look like a perv just because I have a weird sense of humor. My friends agree that he's obnoxious also and slightly homophobic. Really annoying at times. \n\nAlso, its annoying how he tries to make himself look macho all the time and manly, I was talking to one of my other friends saying \"Yeah Korea is actually a hub for men's fashion now\" and he says \"lol you know Korea's top fashionista is old and gay right?\"\n\nYeah, me and my friends are just annoyed at him and I might pitch the idea to confront him on it. He's a cool guy when he doesn't try too hard by ripping on others.\n\nSo if we should confront him, how do me and my friends confront him without burning any bridges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend of mine that is constantly trying to one-up every one and will bullshit a lot of stories to make himself sound cool. For example\n\nMe: I deadlifted 225!\n\nHim: So, I deadlifted 700!\n\nObvious bullshitting to attempt to one-up me considering Elliot Hulse's one rep max for deadlift is 600. Anyways.\n\nI've got maybe two or three other friends he'll always rip on other than me to make himself look better. And frankly, we're annoyed, most of the time he rips on me for trying to dress well and making sure my hair is nice (I'm not gay). Like yesterday when me, him, and another friend were in the mall and a female friend of mine comes in and says hi, we talk for a little and my female friend jokingly says something which prompts my friend to says this.\n\n\"yeah if you really want to mess with throwaway185674 just mess up his hair.\"\n\nAlso this, when we were at a party someone complained that they kept running out of cellphone data, so I said \"If you watch a lot of youtube videos on there you'll run up your data\" My friend says this.\n\n\"Yeah and throwaway185674 runs up his data because of something else on youtube *elludes to dirty stuff.\"\n\nYeah that made me look like a perv just because I have a weird sense of humor. My friends agree that he's obnoxious also and slightly homophobic. Really annoying at times. \n\nAlso, its annoying how he tries to make himself look macho all the time and manly, I was talking to one of my other friends saying \"Yeah Korea is actually a hub for men's fashion now\" and he says \"lol you know Korea's top fashionista is old and gay right?\"\n\nYeah, me and my friends are just annoyed at him and I might pitch the idea to confront him on it. He's a cool guy when he doesn't try too hard by ripping on others.\n\nSo if we should confront him, how do me and my friends confront him without burning any bridges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend of mine that is constantly trying to one-up every one and will bullshit a lot of stories to make himself sound cool. For example\n\nMe: I deadlifted 225!\n\nHim: So, I deadlifted 700!\n\nObvious bullshitting to attempt to one-up me considering Elliot Hulse's one rep max for deadlift is 600. Anyways.\n\nI've got maybe two or three other friends he'll always rip on other than me to make himself look better. And frankly, we're annoyed, most of the time he rips on me for trying to dress well and making sure my hair is nice (I'm not gay). Like yesterday when me, him, and another friend were in the mall and a female friend of mine comes in and says hi, we talk for a little and my female friend jokingly says something which prompts my friend to says this.\n\n\"yeah if you really want to mess with throwaway185674 just mess up his hair.\"\n\nAlso this, when we were at a party someone complained that they kept running out of cellphone data, so I said \"If you watch a lot of youtube videos on there you'll run up your data\" My friend says this.\n\n\"Yeah and throwaway185674 runs up his data because of something else on youtube *elludes to dirty stuff.\"\n\nYeah that made me look like a perv just because I have a weird sense of humor. My friends agree that he's obnoxious also and slightly homophobic. Really annoying at times. \n\nAlso, its annoying how he tries to make himself look macho all the time and manly, I was talking to one of my other friends saying \"Yeah Korea is actually a hub for men's fashion now\" and he says \"lol you know Korea's top fashionista is old and gay right?\"\n\nYeah, me and my friends are just annoyed at him and I might pitch the idea to confront him on it. He's a cool guy when he doesn't try too hard by ripping on others.\n\nSo if we should confront him, how do me and my friends confront him without burning any bridges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend of mine that is constantly trying to one-up every one and will bullshit a lot of stories to make himself sound cool. For example\n\nMe: I deadlifted 225!\n\nHim: So, I deadlifted 700!\n\nObvious bullshitting to attempt to one-up me considering Elliot Hulse's one rep max for deadlift is 600. Anyways.\n\nI've got maybe two or three other friends he'll always rip on other than me to make himself look better. And frankly, we're annoyed, most of the time he rips on me for trying to dress well and making sure my hair is nice (I'm not gay). Like yesterday when me, him, and another friend were in the mall and a female friend of mine comes in and says hi, we talk for a little and my female friend jokingly says something which prompts my friend to says this.\n\n\"yeah if you really want to mess with throwaway185674 just mess up his hair.\"\n\nAlso this, when we were at a party someone complained that they kept running out of cellphone data, so I said \"If you watch a lot of youtube videos on there you'll run up your data\" My friend says this.\n\n\"Yeah and throwaway185674 runs up his data because of something else on youtube *elludes to dirty stuff.\"\n\nYeah that made me look like a perv just because I have a weird sense of humor. My friends agree that he's obnoxious also and slightly homophobic. Really annoying at times. \n\nAlso, its annoying how he tries to make himself look macho all the time and manly, I was talking to one of my other friends saying \"Yeah Korea is actually a hub for men's fashion now\" and he says \"lol you know Korea's top fashionista is old and gay right?\"\n\nYeah, me and my friends are just annoyed at him and I might pitch the idea to confront him on it. He's a cool guy when he doesn't try too hard by ripping on others.\n\nSo if we should confront him, how do me and my friends confront him without burning any bridges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend of mine that is constantly trying to one-up every one and will bullshit a lot of stories to make himself sound cool. For example\n\nMe: I deadlifted 225!\n\nHim: So, I deadlifted 700!\n\nObvious bullshitting to attempt to one-up me considering Elliot Hulse's one rep max for deadlift is 600. Anyways.\n\nI've got maybe two or three other friends he'll always rip on other than me to make himself look better. And frankly, we're annoyed, most of the time he rips on me for trying to dress well and making sure my hair is nice (I'm not gay). Like yesterday when me, him, and another friend were in the mall and a female friend of mine comes in and says hi, we talk for a little and my female friend jokingly says something which prompts my friend to says this.\n\n\"yeah if you really want to mess with throwaway185674 just mess up his hair.\"\n\nAlso this, when we were at a party someone complained that they kept running out of cellphone data, so I said \"If you watch a lot of youtube videos on there you'll run up your data\" My friend says this.\n\n\"Yeah and throwaway185674 runs up his data because of something else on youtube *elludes to dirty stuff.\"\n\nYeah that made me look like a perv just because I have a weird sense of humor. My friends agree that he's obnoxious also and slightly homophobic. Really annoying at times. \n\nAlso, its annoying how he tries to make himself look macho all the time and manly, I was talking to one of my other friends saying \"Yeah Korea is actually a hub for men's fashion now\" and he says \"lol you know Korea's top fashionista is old and gay right?\"\n\nYeah, me and my friends are just annoyed at him and I might pitch the idea to confront him on it. He's a cool guy when he doesn't try too hard by ripping on others.\n\nSo if we should confront him, how do me and my friends confront him without burning any bridges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend of mine that is constantly trying to one-up every one and will bullshit a lot of stories to make himself sound cool. For example\n\nMe: I deadlifted 225!\n\nHim: So, I deadlifted 700!\n\nObvious bullshitting to attempt to one-up me considering Elliot Hulse's one rep max for deadlift is 600. Anyways.\n\nI've got maybe two or three other friends he'll always rip on other than me to make himself look better. And frankly, we're annoyed, most of the time he rips on me for trying to dress well and making sure my hair is nice (I'm not gay). Like yesterday when me, him, and another friend were in the mall and a female friend of mine comes in and says hi, we talk for a little and my female friend jokingly says something which prompts my friend to says this.\n\n\"yeah if you really want to mess with throwaway185674 just mess up his hair.\"\n\nAlso this, when we were at a party someone complained that they kept running out of cellphone data, so I said \"If you watch a lot of youtube videos on there you'll run up your data\" My friend says this.\n\n\"Yeah and throwaway185674 runs up his data because of something else on youtube *elludes to dirty stuff.\"\n\nYeah that made me look like a perv just because I have a weird sense of humor. My friends agree that he's obnoxious also and slightly homophobic. Really annoying at times. \n\nAlso, its annoying how he tries to make himself look macho all the time and manly, I was talking to one of my other friends saying \"Yeah Korea is actually a hub for men's fashion now\" and he says \"lol you know Korea's top fashionista is old and gay right?\"\n\nYeah, me and my friends are just annoyed at him and I might pitch the idea to confront him on it. He's a cool guy when he doesn't try too hard by ripping on others.\n\nSo if we should confront him, how do me and my friends confront him without burning any bridges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You guys have been super helpful in the past, so although I've been reading up plenty on introducing a new puppy to my cat, I thought I'd see if y'all have any tips.\n\nThe situation: my cat is a 4 year old, 15 lb Maine coon mix that I adopted when he was a kitten. He's pretty chill - he's (mostly) leash-trained, can \"come\" and \"sit\" on command, loves car rides, very people-oriented, never sprays. (I didn't know anything about cats when I got him so I just pretend he's a dog half the time.) He's lived with dogs before for 1-3 months at a time; he's not a fan of big dogs (and HATES other cats), but he is fine with dogs his size or smaller. He does tend to be pretty \"alpha\" in these relationships once he gets to know the dog.\n\nThe puppy is a ~3 month old pom/chihuahua mix who currently weighs 7.5 lbs and is unlikely to get bigger than the cat. He's not house or leash trained yet, so we'll obviously need to start there. Both animals are fixed. Otherwise, I don't know the puppy yet - he's arriving this weekend from a rural shelter down south.\n\nWe live in an apartment in Upper Manhattan - it's quiet and large, for Manhattan, but will probably still be small and noisy for the country pup. That also means that we'll have to leash-train immediately since we have no yard access. I've got a wire crate for puppy and have moved my cat's food and litterbox to high surfaces where they're safe from the dog.\n\nSo that's the scenario. Tips or personal experience with introduction and getting these guys to live peacefully together? Most of the things I read involve not scarring the cat for life, which I certainly don't want to do, but with this size discrepancy and the fact that the cat plays pretty rough, I'm actually just as worried about the cat hurting the dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You guys have been super helpful in the past, so although I've been reading up plenty on introducing a new puppy to my cat, I thought I'd see if y'all have any tips.\n\nThe situation: my cat is a 4 year old, 15 lb Maine coon mix that I adopted when he was a kitten. He's pretty chill - he's (mostly) leash-trained, can \"come\" and \"sit\" on command, loves car rides, very people-oriented, never sprays. (I didn't know anything about cats when I got him so I just pretend he's a dog half the time.) He's lived with dogs before for 1-3 months at a time; he's not a fan of big dogs (and HATES other cats), but he is fine with dogs his size or smaller. He does tend to be pretty \"alpha\" in these relationships once he gets to know the dog.\n\nThe puppy is a ~3 month old pom/chihuahua mix who currently weighs 7.5 lbs and is unlikely to get bigger than the cat. He's not house or leash trained yet, so we'll obviously need to start there. Both animals are fixed. Otherwise, I don't know the puppy yet - he's arriving this weekend from a rural shelter down south.\n\nWe live in an apartment in Upper Manhattan - it's quiet and large, for Manhattan, but will probably still be small and noisy for the country pup. That also means that we'll have to leash-train immediately since we have no yard access. I've got a wire crate for puppy and have moved my cat's food and litterbox to high surfaces where they're safe from the dog.\n\nSo that's the scenario. Tips or personal experience with introduction and getting these guys to live peacefully together? Most of the things I read involve not scarring the cat for life, which I certainly don't want to do, but with this size discrepancy and the fact that the cat plays pretty rough, I'm actually just as worried about the cat hurting the dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You guys have been super helpful in the past, so although I've been reading up plenty on introducing a new puppy to my cat, I thought I'd see if y'all have any tips.\n\nThe situation: my cat is a 4 year old, 15 lb Maine coon mix that I adopted when he was a kitten. He's pretty chill - he's (mostly) leash-trained, can \"come\" and \"sit\" on command, loves car rides, very people-oriented, never sprays. (I didn't know anything about cats when I got him so I just pretend he's a dog half the time.) He's lived with dogs before for 1-3 months at a time; he's not a fan of big dogs (and HATES other cats), but he is fine with dogs his size or smaller. He does tend to be pretty \"alpha\" in these relationships once he gets to know the dog.\n\nThe puppy is a ~3 month old pom/chihuahua mix who currently weighs 7.5 lbs and is unlikely to get bigger than the cat. He's not house or leash trained yet, so we'll obviously need to start there. Both animals are fixed. Otherwise, I don't know the puppy yet - he's arriving this weekend from a rural shelter down south.\n\nWe live in an apartment in Upper Manhattan - it's quiet and large, for Manhattan, but will probably still be small and noisy for the country pup. That also means that we'll have to leash-train immediately since we have no yard access. I've got a wire crate for puppy and have moved my cat's food and litterbox to high surfaces where they're safe from the dog.\n\nSo that's the scenario. Tips or personal experience with introduction and getting these guys to live peacefully together? Most of the things I read involve not scarring the cat for life, which I certainly don't want to do, but with this size discrepancy and the fact that the cat plays pretty rough, I'm actually just as worried about the cat hurting the dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You guys have been super helpful in the past, so although I've been reading up plenty on introducing a new puppy to my cat, I thought I'd see if y'all have any tips.\n\nThe situation: my cat is a 4 year old, 15 lb Maine coon mix that I adopted when he was a kitten. He's pretty chill - he's (mostly) leash-trained, can \"come\" and \"sit\" on command, loves car rides, very people-oriented, never sprays. (I didn't know anything about cats when I got him so I just pretend he's a dog half the time.) He's lived with dogs before for 1-3 months at a time; he's not a fan of big dogs (and HATES other cats), but he is fine with dogs his size or smaller. He does tend to be pretty \"alpha\" in these relationships once he gets to know the dog.\n\nThe puppy is a ~3 month old pom/chihuahua mix who currently weighs 7.5 lbs and is unlikely to get bigger than the cat. He's not house or leash trained yet, so we'll obviously need to start there. Both animals are fixed. Otherwise, I don't know the puppy yet - he's arriving this weekend from a rural shelter down south.\n\nWe live in an apartment in Upper Manhattan - it's quiet and large, for Manhattan, but will probably still be small and noisy for the country pup. That also means that we'll have to leash-train immediately since we have no yard access. I've got a wire crate for puppy and have moved my cat's food and litterbox to high surfaces where they're safe from the dog.\n\nSo that's the scenario. Tips or personal experience with introduction and getting these guys to live peacefully together? Most of the things I read involve not scarring the cat for life, which I certainly don't want to do, but with this size discrepancy and the fact that the cat plays pretty rough, I'm actually just as worried about the cat hurting the dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You guys have been super helpful in the past, so although I've been reading up plenty on introducing a new puppy to my cat, I thought I'd see if y'all have any tips.\n\nThe situation: my cat is a 4 year old, 15 lb Maine coon mix that I adopted when he was a kitten. He's pretty chill - he's (mostly) leash-trained, can \"come\" and \"sit\" on command, loves car rides, very people-oriented, never sprays. (I didn't know anything about cats when I got him so I just pretend he's a dog half the time.) He's lived with dogs before for 1-3 months at a time; he's not a fan of big dogs (and HATES other cats), but he is fine with dogs his size or smaller. He does tend to be pretty \"alpha\" in these relationships once he gets to know the dog.\n\nThe puppy is a ~3 month old pom/chihuahua mix who currently weighs 7.5 lbs and is unlikely to get bigger than the cat. He's not house or leash trained yet, so we'll obviously need to start there. Both animals are fixed. Otherwise, I don't know the puppy yet - he's arriving this weekend from a rural shelter down south.\n\nWe live in an apartment in Upper Manhattan - it's quiet and large, for Manhattan, but will probably still be small and noisy for the country pup. That also means that we'll have to leash-train immediately since we have no yard access. I've got a wire crate for puppy and have moved my cat's food and litterbox to high surfaces where they're safe from the dog.\n\nSo that's the scenario. Tips or personal experience with introduction and getting these guys to live peacefully together? Most of the things I read involve not scarring the cat for life, which I certainly don't want to do, but with this size discrepancy and the fact that the cat plays pretty rough, I'm actually just as worried about the cat hurting the dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You guys have been super helpful in the past, so although I've been reading up plenty on introducing a new puppy to my cat, I thought I'd see if y'all have any tips.\n\nThe situation: my cat is a 4 year old, 15 lb Maine coon mix that I adopted when he was a kitten. He's pretty chill - he's (mostly) leash-trained, can \"come\" and \"sit\" on command, loves car rides, very people-oriented, never sprays. (I didn't know anything about cats when I got him so I just pretend he's a dog half the time.) He's lived with dogs before for 1-3 months at a time; he's not a fan of big dogs (and HATES other cats), but he is fine with dogs his size or smaller. He does tend to be pretty \"alpha\" in these relationships once he gets to know the dog.\n\nThe puppy is a ~3 month old pom/chihuahua mix who currently weighs 7.5 lbs and is unlikely to get bigger than the cat. He's not house or leash trained yet, so we'll obviously need to start there. Both animals are fixed. Otherwise, I don't know the puppy yet - he's arriving this weekend from a rural shelter down south.\n\nWe live in an apartment in Upper Manhattan - it's quiet and large, for Manhattan, but will probably still be small and noisy for the country pup. That also means that we'll have to leash-train immediately since we have no yard access. I've got a wire crate for puppy and have moved my cat's food and litterbox to high surfaces where they're safe from the dog.\n\nSo that's the scenario. Tips or personal experience with introduction and getting these guys to live peacefully together? Most of the things I read involve not scarring the cat for life, which I certainly don't want to do, but with this size discrepancy and the fact that the cat plays pretty rough, I'm actually just as worried about the cat hurting the dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is a fantastic guy. When he's around me or his family or people he knows in general, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is a lot of fun to be around. Unfortunately, I don't think he's ever really had to learn how to act in social situations with people he doesn't know and he just kind of sticks to himself, either standing next to me and saying nothing, or standing off to the side of the room not talking to anyone.\n\nIt upsets me that he's so uncomfortable at these types of events, particularly since they're a big part of my job and in my industry others expect you to know how to handle meeting new people. I want to encourage him to try opening up and basically teaching himself how to talk to people he doesn't know, because I used to be the same and I know the only way to get better is practice, but I also don't want to sound critical because I understand how difficult it is to do that when you're a naturally introverted person. I want to help and be supportive, but not sure how.\n\nAny advice, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is a fantastic guy. When he's around me or his family or people he knows in general, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is a lot of fun to be around. Unfortunately, I don't think he's ever really had to learn how to act in social situations with people he doesn't know and he just kind of sticks to himself, either standing next to me and saying nothing, or standing off to the side of the room not talking to anyone.\n\nIt upsets me that he's so uncomfortable at these types of events, particularly since they're a big part of my job and in my industry others expect you to know how to handle meeting new people. I want to encourage him to try opening up and basically teaching himself how to talk to people he doesn't know, because I used to be the same and I know the only way to get better is practice, but I also don't want to sound critical because I understand how difficult it is to do that when you're a naturally introverted person. I want to help and be supportive, but not sure how.\n\nAny advice, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is a fantastic guy. When he's around me or his family or people he knows in general, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is a lot of fun to be around. Unfortunately, I don't think he's ever really had to learn how to act in social situations with people he doesn't know and he just kind of sticks to himself, either standing next to me and saying nothing, or standing off to the side of the room not talking to anyone.\n\nIt upsets me that he's so uncomfortable at these types of events, particularly since they're a big part of my job and in my industry others expect you to know how to handle meeting new people. I want to encourage him to try opening up and basically teaching himself how to talk to people he doesn't know, because I used to be the same and I know the only way to get better is practice, but I also don't want to sound critical because I understand how difficult it is to do that when you're a naturally introverted person. I want to help and be supportive, but not sure how.\n\nAny advice, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is a fantastic guy. When he's around me or his family or people he knows in general, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is a lot of fun to be around. Unfortunately, I don't think he's ever really had to learn how to act in social situations with people he doesn't know and he just kind of sticks to himself, either standing next to me and saying nothing, or standing off to the side of the room not talking to anyone.\n\nIt upsets me that he's so uncomfortable at these types of events, particularly since they're a big part of my job and in my industry others expect you to know how to handle meeting new people. I want to encourage him to try opening up and basically teaching himself how to talk to people he doesn't know, because I used to be the same and I know the only way to get better is practice, but I also don't want to sound critical because I understand how difficult it is to do that when you're a naturally introverted person. I want to help and be supportive, but not sure how.\n\nAny advice, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first some background: Recently my girlfriend dropped this bombshell on me : In the last 4-5 months, she didn't want sex almost every time that we did. She felt forced to it by me and doesn't feel attractive during sex. \n\nShe doesn't feel attractive because she gained like 10 kilos in half a year's time. A few weeks ago she asked me if I would prefer her to be skinnier again. Me, trying to be honest (worst thing I could do) was to say \"yes I would prefer it, but honestly I don't mind that you put on some weight\". However she has done no effort whatsoever to lose this weight since then. (Not that I want her to, I don't care)\n\nShe also admitted that she sometimes flirts with guys in order to feel beautiful again, because I don't make her feel beautiful (I don't know in how many ways I describe her beauty every day), she doesn't kiss them or gets too touchy with them or anything, but she \"forgets\" to mention that she has a boyfriend and wants to see how far they want to go for her. . Hearing this really, really hurt me. \n\nI told her I think she's beautiful no matter what her weight is, but that she can not flirt with guys under any condition whatsoever. She says she can't stop doing that because she feels wanted, and it's something \"different\". It goes on like this for a few more hours, where I eventually say that I will break up with her if she will continue flirting and we fall asleep. This morning she left to work without saying anything (normally she wakes me and I walk her up to her tramstop) and has ignored me since then. How do I handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first some background: Recently my girlfriend dropped this bombshell on me : In the last 4-5 months, she didn't want sex almost every time that we did. She felt forced to it by me and doesn't feel attractive during sex. \n\nShe doesn't feel attractive because she gained like 10 kilos in half a year's time. A few weeks ago she asked me if I would prefer her to be skinnier again. Me, trying to be honest (worst thing I could do) was to say \"yes I would prefer it, but honestly I don't mind that you put on some weight\". However she has done no effort whatsoever to lose this weight since then. (Not that I want her to, I don't care)\n\nShe also admitted that she sometimes flirts with guys in order to feel beautiful again, because I don't make her feel beautiful (I don't know in how many ways I describe her beauty every day), she doesn't kiss them or gets too touchy with them or anything, but she \"forgets\" to mention that she has a boyfriend and wants to see how far they want to go for her. . Hearing this really, really hurt me. \n\nI told her I think she's beautiful no matter what her weight is, but that she can not flirt with guys under any condition whatsoever. She says she can't stop doing that because she feels wanted, and it's something \"different\". It goes on like this for a few more hours, where I eventually say that I will break up with her if she will continue flirting and we fall asleep. This morning she left to work without saying anything (normally she wakes me and I walk her up to her tramstop) and has ignored me since then. How do I handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first some background: Recently my girlfriend dropped this bombshell on me : In the last 4-5 months, she didn't want sex almost every time that we did. She felt forced to it by me and doesn't feel attractive during sex. \n\nShe doesn't feel attractive because she gained like 10 kilos in half a year's time. A few weeks ago she asked me if I would prefer her to be skinnier again. Me, trying to be honest (worst thing I could do) was to say \"yes I would prefer it, but honestly I don't mind that you put on some weight\". However she has done no effort whatsoever to lose this weight since then. (Not that I want her to, I don't care)\n\nShe also admitted that she sometimes flirts with guys in order to feel beautiful again, because I don't make her feel beautiful (I don't know in how many ways I describe her beauty every day), she doesn't kiss them or gets too touchy with them or anything, but she \"forgets\" to mention that she has a boyfriend and wants to see how far they want to go for her. . Hearing this really, really hurt me. \n\nI told her I think she's beautiful no matter what her weight is, but that she can not flirt with guys under any condition whatsoever. She says she can't stop doing that because she feels wanted, and it's something \"different\". It goes on like this for a few more hours, where I eventually say that I will break up with her if she will continue flirting and we fall asleep. This morning she left to work without saying anything (normally she wakes me and I walk her up to her tramstop) and has ignored me since then. How do I handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first some background: Recently my girlfriend dropped this bombshell on me : In the last 4-5 months, she didn't want sex almost every time that we did. She felt forced to it by me and doesn't feel attractive during sex. \n\nShe doesn't feel attractive because she gained like 10 kilos in half a year's time. A few weeks ago she asked me if I would prefer her to be skinnier again. Me, trying to be honest (worst thing I could do) was to say \"yes I would prefer it, but honestly I don't mind that you put on some weight\". However she has done no effort whatsoever to lose this weight since then. (Not that I want her to, I don't care)\n\nShe also admitted that she sometimes flirts with guys in order to feel beautiful again, because I don't make her feel beautiful (I don't know in how many ways I describe her beauty every day), she doesn't kiss them or gets too touchy with them or anything, but she \"forgets\" to mention that she has a boyfriend and wants to see how far they want to go for her. . Hearing this really, really hurt me. \n\nI told her I think she's beautiful no matter what her weight is, but that she can not flirt with guys under any condition whatsoever. She says she can't stop doing that because she feels wanted, and it's something \"different\". It goes on like this for a few more hours, where I eventually say that I will break up with her if she will continue flirting and we fall asleep. This morning she left to work without saying anything (normally she wakes me and I walk her up to her tramstop) and has ignored me since then. How do I handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first some background: Recently my girlfriend dropped this bombshell on me : In the last 4-5 months, she didn't want sex almost every time that we did. She felt forced to it by me and doesn't feel attractive during sex. \n\nShe doesn't feel attractive because she gained like 10 kilos in half a year's time. A few weeks ago she asked me if I would prefer her to be skinnier again. Me, trying to be honest (worst thing I could do) was to say \"yes I would prefer it, but honestly I don't mind that you put on some weight\". However she has done no effort whatsoever to lose this weight since then. (Not that I want her to, I don't care)\n\nShe also admitted that she sometimes flirts with guys in order to feel beautiful again, because I don't make her feel beautiful (I don't know in how many ways I describe her beauty every day), she doesn't kiss them or gets too touchy with them or anything, but she \"forgets\" to mention that she has a boyfriend and wants to see how far they want to go for her. . Hearing this really, really hurt me. \n\nI told her I think she's beautiful no matter what her weight is, but that she can not flirt with guys under any condition whatsoever. She says she can't stop doing that because she feels wanted, and it's something \"different\". It goes on like this for a few more hours, where I eventually say that I will break up with her if she will continue flirting and we fall asleep. This morning she left to work without saying anything (normally she wakes me and I walk her up to her tramstop) and has ignored me since then. How do I handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not really sure what to write, but like the title says I had an abortion yesterday, (Wednesday). I know it was the right decision, as my boyfriend (24) and I (22) are not ready. Just to clarify I was on contraception, so the pregnancy was unplanned. I was 12 weeks by the time I had the abortion, so unfortunately I only had one option, the surgical procedure. \n\nAnyway I thought I'd be okay with it all, but as soon as I woke up from the anesthetic the first thing i did was cry, to be honest i'm not even sure why. Eventually I went home with my boyfriend and Apart from being very tired and in some discomfort, I was fine with it all, I didn't really feel any kind of emotion, kind of numb I guess. \n\nI wasn't till today (Thursday) that I kind of felt confused about the whole thing. I still feel like I made the right choice, but I guess there is some part of me that is upset and still not sure how I should feel. I feel like i should be relieved it's over, and I don't have to worry anymore, but i'm not. I guess I just keep thinking what if things had been different. What if I had gone ahead with it all. Even though I know this wouldn't of been the right decision. \n\nI guess I could just do with some advice from people who have been in this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not really sure what to write, but like the title says I had an abortion yesterday, (Wednesday). I know it was the right decision, as my boyfriend (24) and I (22) are not ready. Just to clarify I was on contraception, so the pregnancy was unplanned. I was 12 weeks by the time I had the abortion, so unfortunately I only had one option, the surgical procedure. \n\nAnyway I thought I'd be okay with it all, but as soon as I woke up from the anesthetic the first thing i did was cry, to be honest i'm not even sure why. Eventually I went home with my boyfriend and Apart from being very tired and in some discomfort, I was fine with it all, I didn't really feel any kind of emotion, kind of numb I guess. \n\nI wasn't till today (Thursday) that I kind of felt confused about the whole thing. I still feel like I made the right choice, but I guess there is some part of me that is upset and still not sure how I should feel. I feel like i should be relieved it's over, and I don't have to worry anymore, but i'm not. I guess I just keep thinking what if things had been different. What if I had gone ahead with it all. Even though I know this wouldn't of been the right decision. \n\nI guess I could just do with some advice from people who have been in this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not really sure what to write, but like the title says I had an abortion yesterday, (Wednesday). I know it was the right decision, as my boyfriend (24) and I (22) are not ready. Just to clarify I was on contraception, so the pregnancy was unplanned. I was 12 weeks by the time I had the abortion, so unfortunately I only had one option, the surgical procedure. \n\nAnyway I thought I'd be okay with it all, but as soon as I woke up from the anesthetic the first thing i did was cry, to be honest i'm not even sure why. Eventually I went home with my boyfriend and Apart from being very tired and in some discomfort, I was fine with it all, I didn't really feel any kind of emotion, kind of numb I guess. \n\nI wasn't till today (Thursday) that I kind of felt confused about the whole thing. I still feel like I made the right choice, but I guess there is some part of me that is upset and still not sure how I should feel. I feel like i should be relieved it's over, and I don't have to worry anymore, but i'm not. I guess I just keep thinking what if things had been different. What if I had gone ahead with it all. Even though I know this wouldn't of been the right decision. \n\nI guess I could just do with some advice from people who have been in this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not really sure what to write, but like the title says I had an abortion yesterday, (Wednesday). I know it was the right decision, as my boyfriend (24) and I (22) are not ready. Just to clarify I was on contraception, so the pregnancy was unplanned. I was 12 weeks by the time I had the abortion, so unfortunately I only had one option, the surgical procedure. \n\nAnyway I thought I'd be okay with it all, but as soon as I woke up from the anesthetic the first thing i did was cry, to be honest i'm not even sure why. Eventually I went home with my boyfriend and Apart from being very tired and in some discomfort, I was fine with it all, I didn't really feel any kind of emotion, kind of numb I guess. \n\nI wasn't till today (Thursday) that I kind of felt confused about the whole thing. I still feel like I made the right choice, but I guess there is some part of me that is upset and still not sure how I should feel. I feel like i should be relieved it's over, and I don't have to worry anymore, but i'm not. I guess I just keep thinking what if things had been different. What if I had gone ahead with it all. Even though I know this wouldn't of been the right decision. \n\nI guess I could just do with some advice from people who have been in this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not really sure what to write, but like the title says I had an abortion yesterday, (Wednesday). I know it was the right decision, as my boyfriend (24) and I (22) are not ready. Just to clarify I was on contraception, so the pregnancy was unplanned. I was 12 weeks by the time I had the abortion, so unfortunately I only had one option, the surgical procedure. \n\nAnyway I thought I'd be okay with it all, but as soon as I woke up from the anesthetic the first thing i did was cry, to be honest i'm not even sure why. Eventually I went home with my boyfriend and Apart from being very tired and in some discomfort, I was fine with it all, I didn't really feel any kind of emotion, kind of numb I guess. \n\nI wasn't till today (Thursday) that I kind of felt confused about the whole thing. I still feel like I made the right choice, but I guess there is some part of me that is upset and still not sure how I should feel. I feel like i should be relieved it's over, and I don't have to worry anymore, but i'm not. I guess I just keep thinking what if things had been different. What if I had gone ahead with it all. Even though I know this wouldn't of been the right decision. \n\nI guess I could just do with some advice from people who have been in this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 16 year old male who has been single for about a year now. My last girlfriend was someone who I thought was going to be a keeper. She broke up with me. A couple of months ago (present day) I started to like a different girl. However, she talks to/flirts with A LOT OF GUYS. Including some of my closest friends. I don't particularly flirt because, to be honest, I'm not very attractive. So I always think (why would she like me when there are so much more attractive guys she is currently flirting with). The only time I can talk to her 1 on 1 is when were in class together. Otherwise other guys start flirting with her. So how can I get her to notice me and potentially start talking to me more?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 16 year old male who has been single for about a year now. My last girlfriend was someone who I thought was going to be a keeper. She broke up with me. A couple of months ago (present day) I started to like a different girl. However, she talks to/flirts with A LOT OF GUYS. Including some of my closest friends. I don't particularly flirt because, to be honest, I'm not very attractive. So I always think (why would she like me when there are so much more attractive guys she is currently flirting with). The only time I can talk to her 1 on 1 is when were in class together. Otherwise other guys start flirting with her. So how can I get her to notice me and potentially start talking to me more?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 16 year old male who has been single for about a year now. My last girlfriend was someone who I thought was going to be a keeper. She broke up with me. A couple of months ago (present day) I started to like a different girl. However, she talks to/flirts with A LOT OF GUYS. Including some of my closest friends. I don't particularly flirt because, to be honest, I'm not very attractive. So I always think (why would she like me when there are so much more attractive guys she is currently flirting with). The only time I can talk to her 1 on 1 is when were in class together. Otherwise other guys start flirting with her. So how can I get her to notice me and potentially start talking to me more?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 16 year old male who has been single for about a year now. My last girlfriend was someone who I thought was going to be a keeper. She broke up with me. A couple of months ago (present day) I started to like a different girl. However, she talks to/flirts with A LOT OF GUYS. Including some of my closest friends. I don't particularly flirt because, to be honest, I'm not very attractive. So I always think (why would she like me when there are so much more attractive guys she is currently flirting with). The only time I can talk to her 1 on 1 is when were in class together. Otherwise other guys start flirting with her. So how can I get her to notice me and potentially start talking to me more?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 16 year old male who has been single for about a year now. My last girlfriend was someone who I thought was going to be a keeper. She broke up with me. A couple of months ago (present day) I started to like a different girl. However, she talks to/flirts with A LOT OF GUYS. Including some of my closest friends. I don't particularly flirt because, to be honest, I'm not very attractive. So I always think (why would she like me when there are so much more attractive guys she is currently flirting with). The only time I can talk to her 1 on 1 is when were in class together. Otherwise other guys start flirting with her. So how can I get her to notice me and potentially start talking to me more?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 16 year old male who has been single for about a year now. My last girlfriend was someone who I thought was going to be a keeper. She broke up with me. A couple of months ago (present day) I started to like a different girl. However, she talks to/flirts with A LOT OF GUYS. Including some of my closest friends. I don't particularly flirt because, to be honest, I'm not very attractive. So I always think (why would she like me when there are so much more attractive guys she is currently flirting with). The only time I can talk to her 1 on 1 is when were in class together. Otherwise other guys start flirting with her. So how can I get her to notice me and potentially start talking to me more?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of things:\n\n- I have Bipolar 1 Disorder, I was diagnosed 6 years ago after a severe manic episode\n- About 4 years ago I moved to my current town, went into denial about my condition, got a different psychiatrist and psychologist, and was re-diagnosed with depression and anxiety\n- Also 4 years ago, I met my current fiancé, let’s call him Jim\n- Life remained fairly unstable but not unmanageable: I was able to focus my attention on videogames most of the time, and it helped that I was getting the depression treated. I did not sleep with anyone but Jim during this time.\n- Roughly 2 months ago I had another very severe manic episode with auditory psychosis. I ran away from the home Jim and I shared, and I did many, many terrible things. I spent most of our savings, ruined my hair, did drugs and abused alcohol, endangered my own life, and worst of all, I slept with 2 people, a man and then a woman.\n\nWords cannot describe how remorseful I feel. Jim and I have since moved back in together; I’ve gotten diagnosed properly and I am now taking the right medication, and we put a safety net in place so that if I run away again, my funds will be frozen and my parents (who are definitely aware of my condition, considering my first manic episode occurred when I was still living with them) will be alerted and will be able to help Jim.\n\nBut the damage is intense. Jim wakes up in the middle of the night and asks me to hold him, because he has nightmares about me running away again and everything falling apart like it did last time. I have nightmares about having another episode too and hurting him again. I feel terrible and I wish that I could help him, but I don’t know how."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of things:\n\n- I have Bipolar 1 Disorder, I was diagnosed 6 years ago after a severe manic episode\n- About 4 years ago I moved to my current town, went into denial about my condition, got a different psychiatrist and psychologist, and was re-diagnosed with depression and anxiety\n- Also 4 years ago, I met my current fiancé, let’s call him Jim\n- Life remained fairly unstable but not unmanageable: I was able to focus my attention on videogames most of the time, and it helped that I was getting the depression treated. I did not sleep with anyone but Jim during this time.\n- Roughly 2 months ago I had another very severe manic episode with auditory psychosis. I ran away from the home Jim and I shared, and I did many, many terrible things. I spent most of our savings, ruined my hair, did drugs and abused alcohol, endangered my own life, and worst of all, I slept with 2 people, a man and then a woman.\n\nWords cannot describe how remorseful I feel. Jim and I have since moved back in together; I’ve gotten diagnosed properly and I am now taking the right medication, and we put a safety net in place so that if I run away again, my funds will be frozen and my parents (who are definitely aware of my condition, considering my first manic episode occurred when I was still living with them) will be alerted and will be able to help Jim.\n\nBut the damage is intense. Jim wakes up in the middle of the night and asks me to hold him, because he has nightmares about me running away again and everything falling apart like it did last time. I have nightmares about having another episode too and hurting him again. I feel terrible and I wish that I could help him, but I don’t know how."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of things:\n\n- I have Bipolar 1 Disorder, I was diagnosed 6 years ago after a severe manic episode\n- About 4 years ago I moved to my current town, went into denial about my condition, got a different psychiatrist and psychologist, and was re-diagnosed with depression and anxiety\n- Also 4 years ago, I met my current fiancé, let’s call him Jim\n- Life remained fairly unstable but not unmanageable: I was able to focus my attention on videogames most of the time, and it helped that I was getting the depression treated. I did not sleep with anyone but Jim during this time.\n- Roughly 2 months ago I had another very severe manic episode with auditory psychosis. I ran away from the home Jim and I shared, and I did many, many terrible things. I spent most of our savings, ruined my hair, did drugs and abused alcohol, endangered my own life, and worst of all, I slept with 2 people, a man and then a woman.\n\nWords cannot describe how remorseful I feel. Jim and I have since moved back in together; I’ve gotten diagnosed properly and I am now taking the right medication, and we put a safety net in place so that if I run away again, my funds will be frozen and my parents (who are definitely aware of my condition, considering my first manic episode occurred when I was still living with them) will be alerted and will be able to help Jim.\n\nBut the damage is intense. Jim wakes up in the middle of the night and asks me to hold him, because he has nightmares about me running away again and everything falling apart like it did last time. I have nightmares about having another episode too and hurting him again. I feel terrible and I wish that I could help him, but I don’t know how."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of things:\n\n- I have Bipolar 1 Disorder, I was diagnosed 6 years ago after a severe manic episode\n- About 4 years ago I moved to my current town, went into denial about my condition, got a different psychiatrist and psychologist, and was re-diagnosed with depression and anxiety\n- Also 4 years ago, I met my current fiancé, let’s call him Jim\n- Life remained fairly unstable but not unmanageable: I was able to focus my attention on videogames most of the time, and it helped that I was getting the depression treated. I did not sleep with anyone but Jim during this time.\n- Roughly 2 months ago I had another very severe manic episode with auditory psychosis. I ran away from the home Jim and I shared, and I did many, many terrible things. I spent most of our savings, ruined my hair, did drugs and abused alcohol, endangered my own life, and worst of all, I slept with 2 people, a man and then a woman.\n\nWords cannot describe how remorseful I feel. Jim and I have since moved back in together; I’ve gotten diagnosed properly and I am now taking the right medication, and we put a safety net in place so that if I run away again, my funds will be frozen and my parents (who are definitely aware of my condition, considering my first manic episode occurred when I was still living with them) will be alerted and will be able to help Jim.\n\nBut the damage is intense. Jim wakes up in the middle of the night and asks me to hold him, because he has nightmares about me running away again and everything falling apart like it did last time. I have nightmares about having another episode too and hurting him again. I feel terrible and I wish that I could help him, but I don’t know how."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of things:\n\n- I have Bipolar 1 Disorder, I was diagnosed 6 years ago after a severe manic episode\n- About 4 years ago I moved to my current town, went into denial about my condition, got a different psychiatrist and psychologist, and was re-diagnosed with depression and anxiety\n- Also 4 years ago, I met my current fiancé, let’s call him Jim\n- Life remained fairly unstable but not unmanageable: I was able to focus my attention on videogames most of the time, and it helped that I was getting the depression treated. I did not sleep with anyone but Jim during this time.\n- Roughly 2 months ago I had another very severe manic episode with auditory psychosis. I ran away from the home Jim and I shared, and I did many, many terrible things. I spent most of our savings, ruined my hair, did drugs and abused alcohol, endangered my own life, and worst of all, I slept with 2 people, a man and then a woman.\n\nWords cannot describe how remorseful I feel. Jim and I have since moved back in together; I’ve gotten diagnosed properly and I am now taking the right medication, and we put a safety net in place so that if I run away again, my funds will be frozen and my parents (who are definitely aware of my condition, considering my first manic episode occurred when I was still living with them) will be alerted and will be able to help Jim.\n\nBut the damage is intense. Jim wakes up in the middle of the night and asks me to hold him, because he has nightmares about me running away again and everything falling apart like it did last time. I have nightmares about having another episode too and hurting him again. I feel terrible and I wish that I could help him, but I don’t know how."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my GF for 2 year since we were both 19. She is my first serious long time GF and I'm her second (kinda first though). We fell very deeply in love and had plans about living together after high school and go to the same college. Our relationship is great but not perfect and I care a lot about her. I could see us go the distance.\nMy problem: Last night a female friend of mine declared that she had strong feelings for me, and we've been talking a lot to each other lately. She's a type of girl I could see myself with, but I've just seen her as a friends of course. Learning this has really twisted my mind. Suddenly I've been having second thoughts about my current relationship and the fact that I don't see myself \"settling down\" with my first ever GF. I mean, I'm 19 after all. Here is my question: Is this a reason enough to break up? I feel like I'm wasting my GF's time if I'm planning to end it some time later, especially since she's planning on going the distance with me. Our relationship is good and steady and I can't even imagen what it would be like to end it. Am I a douchebag? Please help me here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my GF for 2 year since we were both 19. She is my first serious long time GF and I'm her second (kinda first though). We fell very deeply in love and had plans about living together after high school and go to the same college. Our relationship is great but not perfect and I care a lot about her. I could see us go the distance.\nMy problem: Last night a female friend of mine declared that she had strong feelings for me, and we've been talking a lot to each other lately. She's a type of girl I could see myself with, but I've just seen her as a friends of course. Learning this has really twisted my mind. Suddenly I've been having second thoughts about my current relationship and the fact that I don't see myself \"settling down\" with my first ever GF. I mean, I'm 19 after all. Here is my question: Is this a reason enough to break up? I feel like I'm wasting my GF's time if I'm planning to end it some time later, especially since she's planning on going the distance with me. Our relationship is good and steady and I can't even imagen what it would be like to end it. Am I a douchebag? Please help me here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my GF for 2 year since we were both 19. She is my first serious long time GF and I'm her second (kinda first though). We fell very deeply in love and had plans about living together after high school and go to the same college. Our relationship is great but not perfect and I care a lot about her. I could see us go the distance.\nMy problem: Last night a female friend of mine declared that she had strong feelings for me, and we've been talking a lot to each other lately. She's a type of girl I could see myself with, but I've just seen her as a friends of course. Learning this has really twisted my mind. Suddenly I've been having second thoughts about my current relationship and the fact that I don't see myself \"settling down\" with my first ever GF. I mean, I'm 19 after all. Here is my question: Is this a reason enough to break up? I feel like I'm wasting my GF's time if I'm planning to end it some time later, especially since she's planning on going the distance with me. Our relationship is good and steady and I can't even imagen what it would be like to end it. Am I a douchebag? Please help me here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my GF for 2 year since we were both 19. She is my first serious long time GF and I'm her second (kinda first though). We fell very deeply in love and had plans about living together after high school and go to the same college. Our relationship is great but not perfect and I care a lot about her. I could see us go the distance.\nMy problem: Last night a female friend of mine declared that she had strong feelings for me, and we've been talking a lot to each other lately. She's a type of girl I could see myself with, but I've just seen her as a friends of course. Learning this has really twisted my mind. Suddenly I've been having second thoughts about my current relationship and the fact that I don't see myself \"settling down\" with my first ever GF. I mean, I'm 19 after all. Here is my question: Is this a reason enough to break up? I feel like I'm wasting my GF's time if I'm planning to end it some time later, especially since she's planning on going the distance with me. Our relationship is good and steady and I can't even imagen what it would be like to end it. Am I a douchebag? Please help me here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my GF for 2 year since we were both 19. She is my first serious long time GF and I'm her second (kinda first though). We fell very deeply in love and had plans about living together after high school and go to the same college. Our relationship is great but not perfect and I care a lot about her. I could see us go the distance.\nMy problem: Last night a female friend of mine declared that she had strong feelings for me, and we've been talking a lot to each other lately. She's a type of girl I could see myself with, but I've just seen her as a friends of course. Learning this has really twisted my mind. Suddenly I've been having second thoughts about my current relationship and the fact that I don't see myself \"settling down\" with my first ever GF. I mean, I'm 19 after all. Here is my question: Is this a reason enough to break up? I feel like I'm wasting my GF's time if I'm planning to end it some time later, especially since she's planning on going the distance with me. Our relationship is good and steady and I can't even imagen what it would be like to end it. Am I a douchebag? Please help me here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my GF for 2 year since we were both 19. She is my first serious long time GF and I'm her second (kinda first though). We fell very deeply in love and had plans about living together after high school and go to the same college. Our relationship is great but not perfect and I care a lot about her. I could see us go the distance.\nMy problem: Last night a female friend of mine declared that she had strong feelings for me, and we've been talking a lot to each other lately. She's a type of girl I could see myself with, but I've just seen her as a friends of course. Learning this has really twisted my mind. Suddenly I've been having second thoughts about my current relationship and the fact that I don't see myself \"settling down\" with my first ever GF. I mean, I'm 19 after all. Here is my question: Is this a reason enough to break up? I feel like I'm wasting my GF's time if I'm planning to end it some time later, especially since she's planning on going the distance with me. Our relationship is good and steady and I can't even imagen what it would be like to end it. Am I a douchebag? Please help me here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our general method has been that when he misbehaves or doesn't listen he loses things. And usually it's not the \"initial offense\" that triggers discipline, it's when we try to correct the behavior and discuss the issue with him and he responds with stubborn defiance.\n\nWhen he loses things it's either toys or other tangible possessions, or activities such as a bed-time story or, in extreme cases, a play date or other fun outing that was planned.\n\nThe problem is that, more and more often, he seems to decide that no matter what he loses he is going to \"take a stand\" as it were. We can take away every favorite stuffed animal, new exciting toy, or video game/TV privilege, but while he is worked up and in the moment of being defiant he will continue to choose not to do what we are asking him to do at all costs.\n\nSometimes we will take away the right thing that he cares about enough to break him out of it, but it feels like a hit and miss game.\n\nWe had tried instituting a point system with fun sticker cards where he earns them for being extra good and loses them if he is bad. If he were to fill up his jar with 30 of these \"points\" he would get a special evening out with me at a local arcade/go-kart/bowling place. He was really excited about that at first but after a little time he stopped caring about losing those too and hasn't made it close to filling up the jar.\n\nToday it got so bad with asking him to finish getting ready to go to school that we just took away all toys. Every last one. After my wife got back from dropping him off at school we broke out the bins and went through every single toy box, train set, lego bin and play castle. They are all on shelves in the basement, every last one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our general method has been that when he misbehaves or doesn't listen he loses things. And usually it's not the \"initial offense\" that triggers discipline, it's when we try to correct the behavior and discuss the issue with him and he responds with stubborn defiance.\n\nWhen he loses things it's either toys or other tangible possessions, or activities such as a bed-time story or, in extreme cases, a play date or other fun outing that was planned.\n\nThe problem is that, more and more often, he seems to decide that no matter what he loses he is going to \"take a stand\" as it were. We can take away every favorite stuffed animal, new exciting toy, or video game/TV privilege, but while he is worked up and in the moment of being defiant he will continue to choose not to do what we are asking him to do at all costs.\n\nSometimes we will take away the right thing that he cares about enough to break him out of it, but it feels like a hit and miss game.\n\nWe had tried instituting a point system with fun sticker cards where he earns them for being extra good and loses them if he is bad. If he were to fill up his jar with 30 of these \"points\" he would get a special evening out with me at a local arcade/go-kart/bowling place. He was really excited about that at first but after a little time he stopped caring about losing those too and hasn't made it close to filling up the jar.\n\nToday it got so bad with asking him to finish getting ready to go to school that we just took away all toys. Every last one. After my wife got back from dropping him off at school we broke out the bins and went through every single toy box, train set, lego bin and play castle. They are all on shelves in the basement, every last one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our general method has been that when he misbehaves or doesn't listen he loses things. And usually it's not the \"initial offense\" that triggers discipline, it's when we try to correct the behavior and discuss the issue with him and he responds with stubborn defiance.\n\nWhen he loses things it's either toys or other tangible possessions, or activities such as a bed-time story or, in extreme cases, a play date or other fun outing that was planned.\n\nThe problem is that, more and more often, he seems to decide that no matter what he loses he is going to \"take a stand\" as it were. We can take away every favorite stuffed animal, new exciting toy, or video game/TV privilege, but while he is worked up and in the moment of being defiant he will continue to choose not to do what we are asking him to do at all costs.\n\nSometimes we will take away the right thing that he cares about enough to break him out of it, but it feels like a hit and miss game.\n\nWe had tried instituting a point system with fun sticker cards where he earns them for being extra good and loses them if he is bad. If he were to fill up his jar with 30 of these \"points\" he would get a special evening out with me at a local arcade/go-kart/bowling place. He was really excited about that at first but after a little time he stopped caring about losing those too and hasn't made it close to filling up the jar.\n\nToday it got so bad with asking him to finish getting ready to go to school that we just took away all toys. Every last one. After my wife got back from dropping him off at school we broke out the bins and went through every single toy box, train set, lego bin and play castle. They are all on shelves in the basement, every last one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our general method has been that when he misbehaves or doesn't listen he loses things. And usually it's not the \"initial offense\" that triggers discipline, it's when we try to correct the behavior and discuss the issue with him and he responds with stubborn defiance.\n\nWhen he loses things it's either toys or other tangible possessions, or activities such as a bed-time story or, in extreme cases, a play date or other fun outing that was planned.\n\nThe problem is that, more and more often, he seems to decide that no matter what he loses he is going to \"take a stand\" as it were. We can take away every favorite stuffed animal, new exciting toy, or video game/TV privilege, but while he is worked up and in the moment of being defiant he will continue to choose not to do what we are asking him to do at all costs.\n\nSometimes we will take away the right thing that he cares about enough to break him out of it, but it feels like a hit and miss game.\n\nWe had tried instituting a point system with fun sticker cards where he earns them for being extra good and loses them if he is bad. If he were to fill up his jar with 30 of these \"points\" he would get a special evening out with me at a local arcade/go-kart/bowling place. He was really excited about that at first but after a little time he stopped caring about losing those too and hasn't made it close to filling up the jar.\n\nToday it got so bad with asking him to finish getting ready to go to school that we just took away all toys. Every last one. After my wife got back from dropping him off at school we broke out the bins and went through every single toy box, train set, lego bin and play castle. They are all on shelves in the basement, every last one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our general method has been that when he misbehaves or doesn't listen he loses things. And usually it's not the \"initial offense\" that triggers discipline, it's when we try to correct the behavior and discuss the issue with him and he responds with stubborn defiance.\n\nWhen he loses things it's either toys or other tangible possessions, or activities such as a bed-time story or, in extreme cases, a play date or other fun outing that was planned.\n\nThe problem is that, more and more often, he seems to decide that no matter what he loses he is going to \"take a stand\" as it were. We can take away every favorite stuffed animal, new exciting toy, or video game/TV privilege, but while he is worked up and in the moment of being defiant he will continue to choose not to do what we are asking him to do at all costs.\n\nSometimes we will take away the right thing that he cares about enough to break him out of it, but it feels like a hit and miss game.\n\nWe had tried instituting a point system with fun sticker cards where he earns them for being extra good and loses them if he is bad. If he were to fill up his jar with 30 of these \"points\" he would get a special evening out with me at a local arcade/go-kart/bowling place. He was really excited about that at first but after a little time he stopped caring about losing those too and hasn't made it close to filling up the jar.\n\nToday it got so bad with asking him to finish getting ready to go to school that we just took away all toys. Every last one. After my wife got back from dropping him off at school we broke out the bins and went through every single toy box, train set, lego bin and play castle. They are all on shelves in the basement, every last one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our general method has been that when he misbehaves or doesn't listen he loses things. And usually it's not the \"initial offense\" that triggers discipline, it's when we try to correct the behavior and discuss the issue with him and he responds with stubborn defiance.\n\nWhen he loses things it's either toys or other tangible possessions, or activities such as a bed-time story or, in extreme cases, a play date or other fun outing that was planned.\n\nThe problem is that, more and more often, he seems to decide that no matter what he loses he is going to \"take a stand\" as it were. We can take away every favorite stuffed animal, new exciting toy, or video game/TV privilege, but while he is worked up and in the moment of being defiant he will continue to choose not to do what we are asking him to do at all costs.\n\nSometimes we will take away the right thing that he cares about enough to break him out of it, but it feels like a hit and miss game.\n\nWe had tried instituting a point system with fun sticker cards where he earns them for being extra good and loses them if he is bad. If he were to fill up his jar with 30 of these \"points\" he would get a special evening out with me at a local arcade/go-kart/bowling place. He was really excited about that at first but after a little time he stopped caring about losing those too and hasn't made it close to filling up the jar.\n\nToday it got so bad with asking him to finish getting ready to go to school that we just took away all toys. Every last one. After my wife got back from dropping him off at school we broke out the bins and went through every single toy box, train set, lego bin and play castle. They are all on shelves in the basement, every last one."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday, my boyfriend of 3.5 years asked me to check a text on his phone. The message was from his friend. For background, we are all new attorneys. My boyfriend and his friend went into corporate law and are making significant money. I work in a prestigious federal government position, but I make a lot less. \n\nSo, I am checking the phone, and I see an earlier message from the friend asking my bf, \"Now that you are rich, are you going to date someone actually attractive.\" My bf responded that he loved me, but is it unreasonable that I am offended by this? I won't ask my bf to cut off his friend, but I am upset that he would continue to be friends with someone who would such a mean thing. \n\nThis friend is also the guy who said that every man must choose between a smart \"bitch\" or a hot \"bitch,\" cause you can't have both. I'm seriously thinking about breaking up with my bf because I don't want someone in my life who feels entitled to belittle me and my entire sex. Any advice on how to approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday, my boyfriend of 3.5 years asked me to check a text on his phone. The message was from his friend. For background, we are all new attorneys. My boyfriend and his friend went into corporate law and are making significant money. I work in a prestigious federal government position, but I make a lot less. \n\nSo, I am checking the phone, and I see an earlier message from the friend asking my bf, \"Now that you are rich, are you going to date someone actually attractive.\" My bf responded that he loved me, but is it unreasonable that I am offended by this? I won't ask my bf to cut off his friend, but I am upset that he would continue to be friends with someone who would such a mean thing. \n\nThis friend is also the guy who said that every man must choose between a smart \"bitch\" or a hot \"bitch,\" cause you can't have both. I'm seriously thinking about breaking up with my bf because I don't want someone in my life who feels entitled to belittle me and my entire sex. Any advice on how to approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday, my boyfriend of 3.5 years asked me to check a text on his phone. The message was from his friend. For background, we are all new attorneys. My boyfriend and his friend went into corporate law and are making significant money. I work in a prestigious federal government position, but I make a lot less. \n\nSo, I am checking the phone, and I see an earlier message from the friend asking my bf, \"Now that you are rich, are you going to date someone actually attractive.\" My bf responded that he loved me, but is it unreasonable that I am offended by this? I won't ask my bf to cut off his friend, but I am upset that he would continue to be friends with someone who would such a mean thing. \n\nThis friend is also the guy who said that every man must choose between a smart \"bitch\" or a hot \"bitch,\" cause you can't have both. I'm seriously thinking about breaking up with my bf because I don't want someone in my life who feels entitled to belittle me and my entire sex. Any advice on how to approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday, my boyfriend of 3.5 years asked me to check a text on his phone. The message was from his friend. For background, we are all new attorneys. My boyfriend and his friend went into corporate law and are making significant money. I work in a prestigious federal government position, but I make a lot less. \n\nSo, I am checking the phone, and I see an earlier message from the friend asking my bf, \"Now that you are rich, are you going to date someone actually attractive.\" My bf responded that he loved me, but is it unreasonable that I am offended by this? I won't ask my bf to cut off his friend, but I am upset that he would continue to be friends with someone who would such a mean thing. \n\nThis friend is also the guy who said that every man must choose between a smart \"bitch\" or a hot \"bitch,\" cause you can't have both. I'm seriously thinking about breaking up with my bf because I don't want someone in my life who feels entitled to belittle me and my entire sex. Any advice on how to approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday, my boyfriend of 3.5 years asked me to check a text on his phone. The message was from his friend. For background, we are all new attorneys. My boyfriend and his friend went into corporate law and are making significant money. I work in a prestigious federal government position, but I make a lot less. \n\nSo, I am checking the phone, and I see an earlier message from the friend asking my bf, \"Now that you are rich, are you going to date someone actually attractive.\" My bf responded that he loved me, but is it unreasonable that I am offended by this? I won't ask my bf to cut off his friend, but I am upset that he would continue to be friends with someone who would such a mean thing. \n\nThis friend is also the guy who said that every man must choose between a smart \"bitch\" or a hot \"bitch,\" cause you can't have both. I'm seriously thinking about breaking up with my bf because I don't want someone in my life who feels entitled to belittle me and my entire sex. Any advice on how to approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a quarter or so, living together for the last few months. Everything is going great, and we're starting to plan for the future. What do we want out of our relationship, where is it going, what are our priorities, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. We are both big communicators and talk *everything* out, so I don't see any problems on that front. We've tackled and dealt with some big issues like children and careers, but there's one that's still somewhat outstanding.\n\nI'm Canadian and moved here to the UK in 2005 (currently we live in London). She was born and raised in London. We both know we want to travel a lot and possibly live and work abroad, but that at least for the moment, London is home.\n\nThe concern is our families. Both our parents are retired and in their mid-to-late 60s, and will probably need some support in the next few decades. And both our parents will want to spend tons of time with any grandchildren that appear on the scene. Taking care of her family is probably more important to her than I, but I also don't want to leave my folks in the lurch, nor deny them access to their future grandkids. She has no siblings, but a reasonably wide extended family across the UK with whom she's reasonably close (notably her aunt and uncle who are like second parents to her). I have one brother on the west coast of Canada (I'm from near Toronto so he's far from my parents as well), but a fairly small, independent and somewhat scattered extended family.\n\nSo the obvious solution would be to plan to live in the UK. I love my parents and we get on well, but we've lived apart for nine years and are pretty independent in our own way. But I do love my parents and don't want to deprive them either of their progeny or-later on-necessary support.\n\nI was wondering if any Redditors had faced similar dilemmas and how you handled it. What are the key things to discuss that might not be immediately obvious?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a quarter or so, living together for the last few months. Everything is going great, and we're starting to plan for the future. What do we want out of our relationship, where is it going, what are our priorities, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. We are both big communicators and talk *everything* out, so I don't see any problems on that front. We've tackled and dealt with some big issues like children and careers, but there's one that's still somewhat outstanding.\n\nI'm Canadian and moved here to the UK in 2005 (currently we live in London). She was born and raised in London. We both know we want to travel a lot and possibly live and work abroad, but that at least for the moment, London is home.\n\nThe concern is our families. Both our parents are retired and in their mid-to-late 60s, and will probably need some support in the next few decades. And both our parents will want to spend tons of time with any grandchildren that appear on the scene. Taking care of her family is probably more important to her than I, but I also don't want to leave my folks in the lurch, nor deny them access to their future grandkids. She has no siblings, but a reasonably wide extended family across the UK with whom she's reasonably close (notably her aunt and uncle who are like second parents to her). I have one brother on the west coast of Canada (I'm from near Toronto so he's far from my parents as well), but a fairly small, independent and somewhat scattered extended family.\n\nSo the obvious solution would be to plan to live in the UK. I love my parents and we get on well, but we've lived apart for nine years and are pretty independent in our own way. But I do love my parents and don't want to deprive them either of their progeny or-later on-necessary support.\n\nI was wondering if any Redditors had faced similar dilemmas and how you handled it. What are the key things to discuss that might not be immediately obvious?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a quarter or so, living together for the last few months. Everything is going great, and we're starting to plan for the future. What do we want out of our relationship, where is it going, what are our priorities, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. We are both big communicators and talk *everything* out, so I don't see any problems on that front. We've tackled and dealt with some big issues like children and careers, but there's one that's still somewhat outstanding.\n\nI'm Canadian and moved here to the UK in 2005 (currently we live in London). She was born and raised in London. We both know we want to travel a lot and possibly live and work abroad, but that at least for the moment, London is home.\n\nThe concern is our families. Both our parents are retired and in their mid-to-late 60s, and will probably need some support in the next few decades. And both our parents will want to spend tons of time with any grandchildren that appear on the scene. Taking care of her family is probably more important to her than I, but I also don't want to leave my folks in the lurch, nor deny them access to their future grandkids. She has no siblings, but a reasonably wide extended family across the UK with whom she's reasonably close (notably her aunt and uncle who are like second parents to her). I have one brother on the west coast of Canada (I'm from near Toronto so he's far from my parents as well), but a fairly small, independent and somewhat scattered extended family.\n\nSo the obvious solution would be to plan to live in the UK. I love my parents and we get on well, but we've lived apart for nine years and are pretty independent in our own way. But I do love my parents and don't want to deprive them either of their progeny or-later on-necessary support.\n\nI was wondering if any Redditors had faced similar dilemmas and how you handled it. What are the key things to discuss that might not be immediately obvious?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a quarter or so, living together for the last few months. Everything is going great, and we're starting to plan for the future. What do we want out of our relationship, where is it going, what are our priorities, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. We are both big communicators and talk *everything* out, so I don't see any problems on that front. We've tackled and dealt with some big issues like children and careers, but there's one that's still somewhat outstanding.\n\nI'm Canadian and moved here to the UK in 2005 (currently we live in London). She was born and raised in London. We both know we want to travel a lot and possibly live and work abroad, but that at least for the moment, London is home.\n\nThe concern is our families. Both our parents are retired and in their mid-to-late 60s, and will probably need some support in the next few decades. And both our parents will want to spend tons of time with any grandchildren that appear on the scene. Taking care of her family is probably more important to her than I, but I also don't want to leave my folks in the lurch, nor deny them access to their future grandkids. She has no siblings, but a reasonably wide extended family across the UK with whom she's reasonably close (notably her aunt and uncle who are like second parents to her). I have one brother on the west coast of Canada (I'm from near Toronto so he's far from my parents as well), but a fairly small, independent and somewhat scattered extended family.\n\nSo the obvious solution would be to plan to live in the UK. I love my parents and we get on well, but we've lived apart for nine years and are pretty independent in our own way. But I do love my parents and don't want to deprive them either of their progeny or-later on-necessary support.\n\nI was wondering if any Redditors had faced similar dilemmas and how you handled it. What are the key things to discuss that might not be immediately obvious?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a quarter or so, living together for the last few months. Everything is going great, and we're starting to plan for the future. What do we want out of our relationship, where is it going, what are our priorities, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. We are both big communicators and talk *everything* out, so I don't see any problems on that front. We've tackled and dealt with some big issues like children and careers, but there's one that's still somewhat outstanding.\n\nI'm Canadian and moved here to the UK in 2005 (currently we live in London). She was born and raised in London. We both know we want to travel a lot and possibly live and work abroad, but that at least for the moment, London is home.\n\nThe concern is our families. Both our parents are retired and in their mid-to-late 60s, and will probably need some support in the next few decades. And both our parents will want to spend tons of time with any grandchildren that appear on the scene. Taking care of her family is probably more important to her than I, but I also don't want to leave my folks in the lurch, nor deny them access to their future grandkids. She has no siblings, but a reasonably wide extended family across the UK with whom she's reasonably close (notably her aunt and uncle who are like second parents to her). I have one brother on the west coast of Canada (I'm from near Toronto so he's far from my parents as well), but a fairly small, independent and somewhat scattered extended family.\n\nSo the obvious solution would be to plan to live in the UK. I love my parents and we get on well, but we've lived apart for nine years and are pretty independent in our own way. But I do love my parents and don't want to deprive them either of their progeny or-later on-necessary support.\n\nI was wondering if any Redditors had faced similar dilemmas and how you handled it. What are the key things to discuss that might not be immediately obvious?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a quarter or so, living together for the last few months. Everything is going great, and we're starting to plan for the future. What do we want out of our relationship, where is it going, what are our priorities, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. We are both big communicators and talk *everything* out, so I don't see any problems on that front. We've tackled and dealt with some big issues like children and careers, but there's one that's still somewhat outstanding.\n\nI'm Canadian and moved here to the UK in 2005 (currently we live in London). She was born and raised in London. We both know we want to travel a lot and possibly live and work abroad, but that at least for the moment, London is home.\n\nThe concern is our families. Both our parents are retired and in their mid-to-late 60s, and will probably need some support in the next few decades. And both our parents will want to spend tons of time with any grandchildren that appear on the scene. Taking care of her family is probably more important to her than I, but I also don't want to leave my folks in the lurch, nor deny them access to their future grandkids. She has no siblings, but a reasonably wide extended family across the UK with whom she's reasonably close (notably her aunt and uncle who are like second parents to her). I have one brother on the west coast of Canada (I'm from near Toronto so he's far from my parents as well), but a fairly small, independent and somewhat scattered extended family.\n\nSo the obvious solution would be to plan to live in the UK. I love my parents and we get on well, but we've lived apart for nine years and are pretty independent in our own way. But I do love my parents and don't want to deprive them either of their progeny or-later on-necessary support.\n\nI was wondering if any Redditors had faced similar dilemmas and how you handled it. What are the key things to discuss that might not be immediately obvious?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to think really, my partners 10 year old son has been in pain for weeks now and has had blood tests and urine samples tested. There is blood in the urine and he has been waiting for 3 weeks for an ultrasound of his kidneys. This came about after being in agnosing joint pain which was accompanied with a temperature. The blood test results have come back now also and the doctor has said it's pointing to stills disease. Since I've got home I've been searching the internet for information on this and well I'm extremely worried as you can expect and it's hard to take in the information on the internet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to think really, my partners 10 year old son has been in pain for weeks now and has had blood tests and urine samples tested. There is blood in the urine and he has been waiting for 3 weeks for an ultrasound of his kidneys. This came about after being in agnosing joint pain which was accompanied with a temperature. The blood test results have come back now also and the doctor has said it's pointing to stills disease. Since I've got home I've been searching the internet for information on this and well I'm extremely worried as you can expect and it's hard to take in the information on the internet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to think really, my partners 10 year old son has been in pain for weeks now and has had blood tests and urine samples tested. There is blood in the urine and he has been waiting for 3 weeks for an ultrasound of his kidneys. This came about after being in agnosing joint pain which was accompanied with a temperature. The blood test results have come back now also and the doctor has said it's pointing to stills disease. Since I've got home I've been searching the internet for information on this and well I'm extremely worried as you can expect and it's hard to take in the information on the internet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to think really, my partners 10 year old son has been in pain for weeks now and has had blood tests and urine samples tested. There is blood in the urine and he has been waiting for 3 weeks for an ultrasound of his kidneys. This came about after being in agnosing joint pain which was accompanied with a temperature. The blood test results have come back now also and the doctor has said it's pointing to stills disease. Since I've got home I've been searching the internet for information on this and well I'm extremely worried as you can expect and it's hard to take in the information on the internet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to think really, my partners 10 year old son has been in pain for weeks now and has had blood tests and urine samples tested. There is blood in the urine and he has been waiting for 3 weeks for an ultrasound of his kidneys. This came about after being in agnosing joint pain which was accompanied with a temperature. The blood test results have come back now also and the doctor has said it's pointing to stills disease. Since I've got home I've been searching the internet for information on this and well I'm extremely worried as you can expect and it's hard to take in the information on the internet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to think really, my partners 10 year old son has been in pain for weeks now and has had blood tests and urine samples tested. There is blood in the urine and he has been waiting for 3 weeks for an ultrasound of his kidneys. This came about after being in agnosing joint pain which was accompanied with a temperature. The blood test results have come back now also and the doctor has said it's pointing to stills disease. Since I've got home I've been searching the internet for information on this and well I'm extremely worried as you can expect and it's hard to take in the information on the internet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to explain. a friend of mine ordered a day bed online (think of it like a bed with an added pull out bed / aka a \"trundle\" underneath.) The company delivered it, but they messed up and didn't have the \"trundle\" bed underneath. Finally, a month later they got the trundle bed in and finished putting it together. Now a few weeks later, they call up and say \"We have the trundle bed in, when would you like it delivered?\" Apparently, nobody logged it in that the trundle had already been delivered and assembled so a new one was just waiting to be brought. My friend actually considered accepting the delivery, but in the end told them they were in error and he had already gotten what he ordered. But I bet there are many people who would just accept the free additional merch. So."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to explain. a friend of mine ordered a day bed online (think of it like a bed with an added pull out bed / aka a \"trundle\" underneath.) The company delivered it, but they messed up and didn't have the \"trundle\" bed underneath. Finally, a month later they got the trundle bed in and finished putting it together. Now a few weeks later, they call up and say \"We have the trundle bed in, when would you like it delivered?\" Apparently, nobody logged it in that the trundle had already been delivered and assembled so a new one was just waiting to be brought. My friend actually considered accepting the delivery, but in the end told them they were in error and he had already gotten what he ordered. But I bet there are many people who would just accept the free additional merch. So."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to explain. a friend of mine ordered a day bed online (think of it like a bed with an added pull out bed / aka a \"trundle\" underneath.) The company delivered it, but they messed up and didn't have the \"trundle\" bed underneath. Finally, a month later they got the trundle bed in and finished putting it together. Now a few weeks later, they call up and say \"We have the trundle bed in, when would you like it delivered?\" Apparently, nobody logged it in that the trundle had already been delivered and assembled so a new one was just waiting to be brought. My friend actually considered accepting the delivery, but in the end told them they were in error and he had already gotten what he ordered. But I bet there are many people who would just accept the free additional merch. So."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to explain. a friend of mine ordered a day bed online (think of it like a bed with an added pull out bed / aka a \"trundle\" underneath.) The company delivered it, but they messed up and didn't have the \"trundle\" bed underneath. Finally, a month later they got the trundle bed in and finished putting it together. Now a few weeks later, they call up and say \"We have the trundle bed in, when would you like it delivered?\" Apparently, nobody logged it in that the trundle had already been delivered and assembled so a new one was just waiting to be brought. My friend actually considered accepting the delivery, but in the end told them they were in error and he had already gotten what he ordered. But I bet there are many people who would just accept the free additional merch. So."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to explain. a friend of mine ordered a day bed online (think of it like a bed with an added pull out bed / aka a \"trundle\" underneath.) The company delivered it, but they messed up and didn't have the \"trundle\" bed underneath. Finally, a month later they got the trundle bed in and finished putting it together. Now a few weeks later, they call up and say \"We have the trundle bed in, when would you like it delivered?\" Apparently, nobody logged it in that the trundle had already been delivered and assembled so a new one was just waiting to be brought. My friend actually considered accepting the delivery, but in the end told them they were in error and he had already gotten what he ordered. But I bet there are many people who would just accept the free additional merch. So."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to explain. a friend of mine ordered a day bed online (think of it like a bed with an added pull out bed / aka a \"trundle\" underneath.) The company delivered it, but they messed up and didn't have the \"trundle\" bed underneath. Finally, a month later they got the trundle bed in and finished putting it together. Now a few weeks later, they call up and say \"We have the trundle bed in, when would you like it delivered?\" Apparently, nobody logged it in that the trundle had already been delivered and assembled so a new one was just waiting to be brought. My friend actually considered accepting the delivery, but in the end told them they were in error and he had already gotten what he ordered. But I bet there are many people who would just accept the free additional merch. So."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.\n\nI am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible.\n\nThis all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.\n\nI met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.\n\nI love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.\n\nIf you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info."
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