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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [21M] tell if I'm ever going to get over an ex? POST: Hi, I'll keep this short because if I don't it will be a book. I ended a relationship with a girl who I loved very much. I was very confused - didn't know if I really loved her and felt that I would regret not dating around in college. ------------------------- The following year was very difficult for me for numerous reasons, but I never got over my ex. I've been dealing with depression - been seeing a therapist and taking antidepressants. So i've been working on myself a lot. ------- This is my last year at Uni and I'm finally starting to make some progress with other women, but every day my heart still aches for my ex. ------ The thing is, I'm ususally pretty good at knowing if how I feel is temporary or whatever, I feel like I'm good at gauging the severity of my emotions. I've been working very hard to get over and to stop loving my ex but I have this gut feeling and deep fear that I never will. I'm afraid that I'm going to live my life and regret not trying to get back with her - but I know i'm not ready to try that. ------- finally, I keep expecting to see her around campus. Every girl who even slightly resembles her I see her face and my heart flutters like "oh shit there she is". I'm constantly feeling nervous. I also wish for nothing more than for her to contact me. I made a decision that if I'm going to talk to her again it would have to be her that contacts me - I'd just feel too weak and immasculated if I did again. ------ What can I do here? I'm just so sad and anxious. Thanks. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm still hurting about an ex from a year ago. How can I tell if this pain is going to stop or not?	I'm still hurting about an ex from a year ago. How can I tell if this pain is going to stop or not?	5,976
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23/F] just found a hair that isn't mine in my boyfriend's [27/M] bed. POST: Let me just preface by saying that I am WELL aware this is a crazy-insecure-girlfriend kinda' question, but all I'm looking for is reassurance. I have shoulder length dark brown hair and I just found a long blonde hair on my boyfriend's (well, our shared) bed. He's mentioned finding a hair of his ex's in his car before (who had long blonde hair), so please just remind me there are OTHER ways of that hair getting there, other than a girl crawling into bed with him. I have no other reason to think he was/would cheat, and in his defense he works with a bunch of long-haired girls. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Found a blonde hair in the bed that isn't mine...please tell me the likelihood of it getting there in a non-sexual way is high.	Found a blonde hair in the bed that isn't mine...please tell me the likelihood of it getting there in a non-sexual way is high.	1,412
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) feel like my boyfriend (24 M) of 7 months has no time for me anymore. POST: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. TL;DR: . Assistant:	boyfriend doesn't really give me the time of day anymore, but still wants to move in together. How should I handle this?	boyfriend doesn't really give me the time of day anymore, but still wants to move in together. How should I handle this?	3,726
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27/f] want to know: how do you meet/date people who actually want to be with you? POST: I'm 27/f and have had two real relationships. I don't like dating (i.e., auditioning physical relationships with people I barely know) and have had virtually no smaller relationships in between. Both those relationships started as friendships for about six months, morphed into dating on their initiative (first for less than a month, second for about 8 months), and then we broke up but stayed really good friends for at least a year afterward before either drifting apart or forcibly ending contact. I'm about to do the latter with the second guy this weekend. With the second guy we relapsed a few times in that year which has run me through a roller coaster. The first guy was about three-four years ago. The really good friends thing is what kills me. These were both people with whom there was strong chemistry, strong physical intimacy, strong friendship/respect/shared values/compatible interests/compatible intellect/make each other laugh like crazy, and real affection. In both cases, we worked through some significant life turning points together that were pretty bonding. I'm being a little on the clinical side for brevity, but in other words: the makings of what I would consider a great relationship. They didn't want to date me anymore (despite obviously being attracted to me) but wanted to stay really good friends (like, among both of ours top-3 closest friends at the time I'd say). Both of these guys are sensitive, monogamous, only date one person at a time, don't really date casually, looking to have a family guys. I didn't feel like I wanted to marry them, but I didn't feel like I specifically couldn't do that, and thought there was a lot more good stuff left to live through together. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I seem to have a knack for finding guys who think I'm almost the bees-knees, but not quite, while I think they're pretty great. What should I do differently?	I seem to have a knack for finding guys who think I'm almost the bees-knees, but not quite, while I think they're pretty great. What should I do differently?	3,167
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: How/where to get more clerical and office administrative skills? POST: Been volunteering for a local non-profit for about 2 years in the hopes of getting some admin skills to beef up my resume. So far though, I do mostly filing, folding & bundling newsletters at the end of each season, some maintenance here and there. I want/need more experience using computer programs like MS Office and data entry. I've only gotten maybe a few handfuls of computer work in my pocket. The folks where I volunteer are wonderful and I would love it if I could work there. But they seem to have plenty of staff and hiring me is out of their purview. Most computer work is only allowed to the staff. Nothing against them, but I feel like I've wasted the past couple of years there on grunt work. Beyond typing up college papers on Word and making flyers on Publisher, I've got little practice in MS Office programs. Learning Excel, Acces, mail merge, etc. would be so useful. At a previous non-profit, I learned a bit of html using Wordpress to update their websites. That has withered from disuse. What kind of place can I apply to for office work where the employer wouldn't mind training me? Or are non-profits my only option? If the latter, are there specific kinds that will get me more office work? Mine is part gallery so they need more help outside of the office. Could I take classes somewhere, ideally free? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Need more office admin experience. What place will train me? Is volunteering the only way? Classes an option, if so, where and free?	Need more office admin experience. What place will train me? Is volunteering the only way? Classes an option, if so, where and free?	2,122
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: I've been arrested for possession of marijuana and adderal without a prescription. POST: I'm a 21 year-old Mechanical Engineering student and I live on campus at my school in the metro-Atlanta area. I have been a student here for a while, now. I used to be a huge smoker a year ago when I lived off campus, found it detrimental to my status as a student, and moved back immediately. This Friday was my last day before my Thanksgiving break and I wanted to unwind for the week. I bought an 8th and threw it in my stash jar. I went to lunch earlier that day with a friend with an Addy prescription, and after talking about how difficult it was for me study and stay focused, he gave me a few pills that I never even intended on using, I just threw them in my stash jar also. A friend of mine was walking up the stairs to my apartment with another friend of mine and he was very blatantly and loudly talking about smoking. Someone in my building overheard him and called the cops on us. When the cops knocked on my door, my friend's gram, my piece and my grinder were clearly visible. They searched my stuff and found other pieces, but not my personal stash jar. Keep in mind these are campus police, and that they don't need a warrant to come in and search what is already out in the open. The cop asked me if I had any other drugs to report, and I handed over my stash jar out of absolute fear they'd find it anyway, as it wasn't very well hidden in my closet admittedly. They arrested me for possession of Addy and weed and I'm looking at a felony and a misdemeanor, getting kicked out of school, or at the very least my apartment at school, and thousands and thousands of lawyer, court and bond fees. As of right now, I have no court date, I've paid 572.00 dollars towards my bond set at $5720, have gotten in contact with a Drug and Alcohol counselor, and have been referred to a handful of lawyers by coworkers and friends. This is also my first offense and the police report given to me is riddled with evidence that shows I was polite, kind and cooperative to the arresting officers. TL;DR: . Assistant:	got caught with weed and Addy on campus at school, I'm looking at a felony and misdemeanor. Just looking for some advice. Thank you all very much.	got caught with weed and Addy on campus at school, I'm looking at a felony and misdemeanor. Just looking for some advice. Thank you all very much.	3,688
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: Tifu by walking into the wrong room at work. POST: Obligatory, it didn't happen today (but around a month ago) and I am not a morning person. Interning at a company. One month in I had a meeting with my boss and his boss. We were to meet at 7 am. I usually get into work at 8:30 so 7 am was early for me (specially cause it's a 1 hour drive) I get to work at 6:50 and see my boss and he said go ahead into his boss's room (since he will be in the meeting late). I'm super tired and I walk into the room and wait. No one is in this room. 10 minutes pass, 20 minutes pass, and then 4 people walk in and I'm like finally (I have never met my boss's boss) and they all sit down and start discussing some project that makes no sense to me -- definitely not the project I was assigned. And I'm completely flabbergasted. I sat in that room for one and a half hours confused as hell. Finally the meeting ends and everyone starts asking me who I am, and I explain and then they tell me I got the wrong room. Completely embarrassed I leave and see my boss and his boss leaving the adjacent room. They ask where I was and I explain my story and they just laughed and said that I'll have a one on one meeting later this week since I missed the original meeting Kept my job, looked like a dumbass, all in a good day's work. It's been over a month and everyone in our department constantly remind me of this whenever I go into conference rooms or meetings. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I walked into the wrong meeting room and wasted 1.5 hours, while the meeting I was supposed to be in was done without me. Everyone makes fun of me still.	I walked into the wrong meeting room and wasted 1.5 hours, while the meeting I was supposed to be in was done without me. Everyone makes fun of me still.	2,826
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my co-worker [23 F] ~1month, hooked up - now she is hooking up with different employee. POST: I just started working at an office job where I am an IT contractor. A female got hired as a temp soonafter and we hooked up twice. Within the first week of her working there. Fast forward like two weeks and she is hooking up with a full time employee now. Kissing inside the building we work at and I found out by questioning them leaving together almost every day. What do I do? It's got me all fucked up in the head and I have to watch this happen on a daily basis? Who flips a switch like that so easily and says, "WELL I THOUGHT YOU ONLY WANTED TO HOOK UP AND I REALIZED I WANTED A RELATIONSHIP." She didn't even give me the option or share her feelings with me - just jumped ship. I am so confused and really just need some guidance here on how to deal with this in a work environment. This is a small office of 30 people with HQ located in Seattle so it is very intimate space in which I cannot avoid anyone. Help? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I hooked up with co-worker. Co-worker hooked up with someone else in office - am now fucked up in the head because I have to go into work every day and watch them interact.	I hooked up with co-worker. Co-worker hooked up with someone else in office - am now fucked up in the head because I have to go into work every day and watch them interact.	3,058
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: One year post-pregnancy, aches and pains in hips and knees, can't even comfortably do day 1 of C25k. Help? POST: I'll try to keep this short! Background * I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k * My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had "runner's knee" * Pre-pregnancy, my "runner's knee" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program) Current Problem I had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. I'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running! Has anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed. Thanks! TL;DR: . Assistant:	I think pregnancy messed with my body, now I can't even run even the smallest amount without pain in my pelvis and knees. I'm fairly certain the problem isn't just that I'm completely out of shape.	I think pregnancy messed with my body, now I can't even run even the smallest amount without pain in my pelvis and knees. I'm fairly certain the problem isn't just that I'm completely out of shape.	3
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girls of this subreddit I need advice, I [17m] unwittingly pissed off my girlfriend [16f] and don't know how to apologize. [5 months today] POST: Last night me and my girlfriend were on the phone, she was clearly tired and after speaking for about 20-30 minutes with her falling asleep about 5 times I said to her "I'm just gonna let you go to sleep". She responds with "You just don't wanna talk to me" laughs. So I reassure her that obviously I want to talk but she keeps falling asleep so she'd be better off just sleeping then me keeping her up. Well half way through my explanation she hangs up, I call back the first time and she just texts me saing "no!" I call her the second time, she answers saying "What?" and then hangs up as I start to talk, then she texts me simply saying ":P". At this point I don't really know what to do so I just say "Forget it ____, get some sleep and I'll talk to ya tomorrow, Good night <3", all I get back is "kay..." Text her this morning and got nothing back, but I know when I do there's gonna be no smileys and not much of an effort at conversation, so I need to know how to apologize. Oh, almost left out that she was supposed to see me today but her dad told her they were going somewhere, we only see each other every second weekend except during the holidays, plus I've got tests in a few weeks and she's always telling me to be studying instead of worrying about seeing her and that she's "patient enough". TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend hung up on me for saying I'd let her sleep instead of me keeping her up, I text her saying I'd talk to her in the morning, now she won't talk to me.	Girlfriend hung up on me for saying I'd let her sleep instead of me keeping her up, I text her saying I'd talk to her in the morning, now she won't talk to me.	2,259
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to be polite and keep eye contact POST: Long time lurker, made an account to tell this and hopefully stop stressing so much. So I'm a junior in High school, and a clumsy one at that. Yesterday during marching drill before actual practice began, me and some friends were all sitting outside in the small parking lot we have for band and sports personnel. The lot had been empty up until a few minutes before "the event" happened. I never noticed a car had come in, and was talking with a friend. Keeping eye contact and walking backwards at a moderate pace as she followed. Last second she yells "PintoBean, STOP!" and I quickly stop, stumble over my foot and fall straight back... into a car. I somehow made a 2 1/2ft wide 1ft tall 1/2in thick dent in the back door of this car (I'm about 5' 10" and 145lbs). I limp my way inside to get the owner of the car, and he seems fine with it and just wants me to cover insurance/ damages if needed, perfect, no issues, just a small mishap. This was reported to the office as an incident and I'm called in the next morning (day I'm posting) and he's in there, they contact my parents, clear things up, and I give the car owner my parents info to talk about insurance and what to do, the school at this point was just a medium for us to work this out through. So later that day I'm called into the office for the school police officer along with the friend I was talking to. We walk in with the principle I talked with in the morning. We are seated, the officer explains everything, tells us to be calm and we can work this out, average stuff. About near the end of him clearing things up, he breaks part of the news (couldn't tell us everything without the presence of a parent/ guardian) that the owners mom is choosing to go through Juvenile Services and charge me as a criminal instead of just working out insurance. I await tomorrow in which everything will be worked out and my future behold. I'll update if you guys want or not TL;DR: . Assistant:	I walked backwards into a car on accident, dented the shit outta it, thought I worked out a solution with the owner but now his mom is possibly pressing charges	I walked backwards into a car on accident, dented the shit outta it, thought I worked out a solution with the owner but now his mom is possibly pressing charges	5,987
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How long can things on my debit history such as insufficient funds stay there and hurt my credit? POST: Okay Reddit, I'm trying to switch to a local credit union from the Devil (AKA Bank of America ) and in the online application process it told me I would be unable to open a checking account with them due to a recent history of insufficient funds. I've had my BofA account since July 2011 and have only had one occasion where I was declined, this was September 30th of this year. I also applied and was denied a Target credit card earlier last month. My main question to you guys is this: How long do things like this stay on my history and can affect me? Specifically the insufficient debit fund one. TL;DR: . Assistant:	how long after I have a declined debit transaction do I need to wait before applying to open an account at another bank/credit union?	how long after I have a declined debit transaction do I need to wait before applying to open an account at another bank/credit union?	1,219
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My[21/F] boyfriend[21/M] won't stop bragging about this achievements. POST: We're both University students, and he had coordinated a fantastic cultural show this year at the beginning of February. He also designed shirts for all the people who helped out, and the shirt also looked great. He did an incredible job at planning the show and making the shirts, and I am super proud of him. However, its been almost 3 months now, and he still brings it up at least once a day on how awesome his show was. He'll even interrupt people when the conversation topic is remotely related to talk about how great his show was. I would compliment and praise him on his performance every time, but lately, I've started to get really irritated with him and I would think to myself, "does he really need to bring the attention back to him, even though the conversation is barely related?" Earlier, I spoke to him about it and said that he should stop bringing up the show and shirts so much. Him constantly bringing it up is getting irritating. But immediately he got angry and upset with me, saying that he lets me talk about things that make me happy, why can't I let him talk about the things that make him happy. I think he took it at a personal attack or that I'm not proud of him, but I really am, both the show and tshirts were great. I don't know if I should have brought it up or just continued to let him. I had planned the same show the year before, so maybe I was just resenting out of jealousy. But he also does the same thing about his new job. He currently works at a large software company while also attending school, and whenever anyone brings up the topic of job, he has to tell everyone that he works at this said software company. I'm wondering if his actions are normal and that I'm in the wrong for calling him out, or if it's not and he's trying too hard to boast or fish for compliments. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend planned a fantastic show in February, but three months later, he is still talking about it everyday. He got mad at me for calling him out. Am I in the wrong?	Boyfriend planned a fantastic show in February, but three months later, he is still talking about it everyday. He got mad at me for calling him out. Am I in the wrong?	3,350
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I am very scared to tell someone that I like that I am religious, How do I approach it? How do you approach your differences? POST: I go to school for Microbiology paired with Biophysics, many of my classmates are either atheist or agnostic so I call myself agnostic for the sake of avoiding an argument. I wasn't really expecting to enjoy a persons company, but I do and now I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place. He invited me to join the Atheist for Science (not the real name but let me keep the anonymity) group in school and now I have no idea how I should tell him that I am.... religious. Normally I wouldn't have a problem with it, but there are other things involved such as my race, I am Afro-Caribbean and he's Asian so his parents.....hate me. Totally racist. So I am scared that if I bring on this bombshell he'll stop talking to me and our very flirty Star Craft Two moments will end. Reddit how should I approach it? How do you all approach it? If curious I could also post my reasons for being religious in the comments. Thanks in advanced. TL;DR: . Assistant:	He's Atheist I'm not, He's Asian and I'm Black. He doesn't know I'm religious.	He's Atheist I'm not, He's Asian and I'm Black. He doesn't know I'm religious.	5,438
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: On 2 year anniversary GF didn't show appreciation other than verbally POST: Now I am not trying to be a materialist, just having her in my presence is enough of a gift to me. But anyways here is what happened. My SO of 2 years and I celebrated our 2 year anniversary last night. She lives with me and I know that she is tight for cash (she is having trouble finding work in her field after graduating college and I cover all the bills). I wasn't expecting much from her in way of any gifts, but I still expected something to show she appreciated me, either a Painting (She is a very talented artist) or some other home made gesture. I was gone the weekend leading up to Monday so it isn't like she didn't have the time to make anything. Well anyways, I get home and take her out to a fancy dinner, and she didn't get me anything at all. She said she felt bad she didn't get me anything however I feel like she just didn't care enough to get me anything or do anything to show how much she appreciates me being here for her. I am unsure how to handle the situation. If I bring it up to her I feel like I would be looking like a complete asshole, but if I don't say anything I feel like I am being a complete pushover. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My SO didn't do anything to show affection for our 2 yr anniversary and I don't know how to confront her about it	My SO didn't do anything to show affection for our 2 yr anniversary and I don't know how to confront her about it	1,387
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Now ex-boyfriend says he can't handle a long distance relationship. POST: So my SO and I started dating a year+ ago. We're both attend A&M, except he is graduating in a few weeks and is moving to Houston, which is just an hour away, to work. I still have two more years of college left. He broke up with me because he feels like he can't handle the long distance. Background information: He's graduating with a petroleum engineer degree. His job will require him to travel to oil rigs during his training until he finally gets settled into an office in Houston, which may take six months to two years. He's living with his parent during this time. He says during his freshmen year, he tried a long distance relationship with his high school girlfriend, but it didn't work. (Again, it was about an hour and a half away.) During last summer, he was working as an intern while I went to summer school. He almost broke up with me then because of the distance (this probably should've forshadowed what is going on now.) Is there anyway I could convince him that we could make it work? We still love each other and it would be such a shame to just throw this relationship away like that. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Can /r/relationships give my boyfriend advice about going through a not so very long distance relationship? What can I say to reassure him?	Can /r/relationships give my boyfriend advice about going through a not so very long distance relationship? What can I say to reassure him?	4,485
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] with my now Ex girlfriend [18F] left me for another guy again after 2 years. Need help with recovering. POST: On mobile and in a rush please forgive me I need help. After a relationship of 2 years with a girl who I thought was honestly the one for me I get dumped for another guy for a second time. I know that if I take her back again it'll be another mistakes, I don't plan to either. I feel worthless. Even after everything we did. All the time we spent together, she didn't find me good wnough. I tried so hard to make her happy. I did everything possible to make her feel like a queen. This is a fact, everyone I've talked to about this has said that I didn't do anything wrong and that it wasn't my fault. Even though I know that this is true My self esteem is destroyed. I'm usually a very chipper and funny person to be around according to my friends and right know I feel like they don't want me around because I can't be happy now. I want to know how to cheer myself up. I've tried distracting myself with almost everything I can but for some reasoning keep thinking about her and her new guy fucking. It's a guy wrenching feeling and for some reason my thoughts keep going back to that. He is more attractive.That he will make her happier. That he will please her better. That I am inferior in every way possible. How can I stop thinking and picturing anything to do with her? Another problem I'm having is that after being with her for so long and being in such a small town I feel like no one will take me. It is known that her and I we're together by everyone and I feel that I am now undesirable. That on top of the fact that I never really learned how to e single. Is there anywhere I can learn how to flirt. Learn how to at least not be completely inept with the opposite sex? Like an r4r but not physical. I know it's an odd question but it's something that I just thought TL;DR: . Assistant:	Got dumped by someone I cared about for another guy and not I feel worthless and am worried about just being single in general. All help is appreciated.	Got dumped by someone I cared about for another guy and not I feel worthless and am worried about just being single in general. All help is appreciated.	1,511
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/m] just broke up with my girlfriend [23/f] because I caught her sending nudes. Am I in the right and what next. POST: Been dating this girl for 6 years. We both agreed it would be best if we both had stable jobs and completed our education before thinking about marriage. 2 months ago I caught my girlfriend sending text messages to a 'friend' from church. It wasn't the fact that she was texting a man it was what they were talking about. One message from the other read something like 'i hope we can be in a relationship in the future'. Even after this she still continued to talk to him. Once I saw the message I confronted her about it and she acted naive and said she would end it. Fast forward to last night. After a date at a concert and a couple beers she receded to the bedroom. As I was not ready for bed I walked into the bedroom to grab my charger and a night shirt. I found her shirt up and pants down. I asked her what was going on and she replied that she was just taking a picture. I brushed it off and went back to what I was doing. 2 hours later I climbed in bed and noticed her phone was still playing music. I reached over to turn it off and noticed that her indicator light was flashing yellow and she had a snapchat. By this point I was concerned that the picture taking was related so I opened snapchat to a single message 'wow I was not expecting that'. Curious as to who this guy was, and I admit at this point I am in the wrong, I searched her messages for the user name. It came back from a Facebook message from a guy who is friends with my sister and they had met at my sister's wedding 9 months ago. I woke her up asking who was so and so and why he would send her that message. Her reply was '... I didn't send naked pictures to him tonight' To make a long story short I broke up with her. TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend texting guy with more then friends details. Gets caught. Acts naive. Does it again with a different guy and naked pictures.	girlfriend texting guy with more then friends details. Gets caught. Acts naive. Does it again with a different guy and naked pictures.	1,304
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 M] Have been crushing on my friend [20 F] for 8 months, she knows and accepts it. POST: I am in college and met a girl in one of my classes. it was an instant connection and we started talking outside of class through facebook after about a month. so when I friended her on FB it said she had a boyfriend and I was unhappy but decided we could still be friends. she and I talked on facebook daily, to the point that I couldn't even put my phone down even when I slept. after about 2 months of messaging she brings up her bf and from then on started complaining about him. I gave her advice when she needed it and just listened the other times. well, it turns out that she knew I liked since before we started messaging and brought it up one night. so I spilled the beans and told her how I felt. she gave the usual speech about how she's in a relationship and that she didn't feel the same. so fast forward to a week ago, her bf broke up with her and she turned to me for comfort. I, of course, helped her through it. the problem is that I find myself really loving this girl and the last 2 days she's been very flirty but I don't wanna take advantage of her. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I really like this girl but she just got out of a relationship and has previously stated she doesn't like me but is now acting like she does. any ideas?	I really like this girl but she just got out of a relationship and has previously stated she doesn't like me but is now acting like she does. any ideas?	2,322
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] and a girl [20F], been talking for a few months. Just found out she has a boyfriend??? Help. POST: A very quick backstory.. I met a girl about 10 months ago and we talked for about an hour but never got any contact info. I never saw her again until a few months ago, where she remembered me somehow and we exchanged numbers. We've been friendly/flirtacious, and feel very comfortable and connected to each other. We hung out the other week and I kissed her. She started crying and saying "you're going to hate me" and admitted she had been seeing someone for about 6 months. She says she felt so shocked when I came back into her life and basically has been falling for me and didn't know what to do. She says she feels like shit because the guy she's with is a "nice guy", but she feels strongly for me. I told her she needs to choose and she says she knows. She still hasn't broken up with him, nor stopped talking to me. I'm confused and a little hurt. I was hoping you could answer some questions for me. Is it possible that she really likes me and this is some rare case? She told me she never cheated before and now she feels horrible and doesn't know what to do because he's nice and all, but she really wants to be with me too? Should I just keep stressing that she has to make a choice? It's painful because she and I honestly get along so well and feel like we've known each other forever/etc... literally perfect situation other than the other guy. Should I just say "if you want to be with me, then break up with him first"? And then how do I know she won't cheat on me? She doesn't seem like that kind of person and is brutally honest with me about her past and stuff.. so I think it's really a one time thing, but I'm cautious. Has anyone had an experience where they fell for someone else while in a relationship and it turned out alright? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girl and I want to be together, she has a BF, scared to break up with him because "he's nice". What do I do.	Girl and I want to be together, she has a BF, scared to break up with him because "he's nice". What do I do.	3,830
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (31M) having a never ending internal battle trying to decide which woman to be with. Please don't judge me,your help is greatly appreciated. POST: Hi guys, Long story short, Im an 31 year old male and I broke up with my ex girlfriend of 9 years about 2 years ago. Reasons for the breakup were that I wasn't convinced she loved me because of certain things I experienced with her and that in turn caused me to pull back which made things worse. Our relationship was a tonne of fun, I felt like we connected on a different level. Which is why the breakup was hard for me, I was convinced it was the right thing to do at the time given all I had seen. For the record she was always faithful, she was just a selfish person at times and could be mean with a bit of alcohol. Fast forward to a couple of months after the breakup and I meet the girl who I felt was perfect for me. She immediately fit in with my friends and family, loved me the way I needed, gave me everything I could ask for. A real perfect and wholesome girl. It was literally everything i wanted in a partner. But the connection I had with the first person was stronger even though I wasn't any happier. I see my ex as my soulmate and my current girlfriend as a great life partner. I miss my ex and i sometimes wonder if I was fair with her with the way things ended. I can't say I gave her much of a chance. And that part is eating away at me. I mean I was ready to propose at some point and we were very close to buying a house together. I'm sure that if I contacted her again she would want to work things out together. I know I should be happy but I'm not and I can't figure out how to handle all this. I need help! TL;DR: . Assistant:	I feel guilty for breaking up with my ex and I would feel guilty breaking up with my current girlfriend to be with my ex. Im stuck. Help!	I feel guilty for breaking up with my ex and I would feel guilty breaking up with my current girlfriend to be with my ex. Im stuck. Help!	1,504
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing New Vegas for tens of hours without realizing I didnt have basically any mods activated. POST: So yeah. I have never played New Vegas without mods. I knew the mod scene was huge so there was no way for me to play without mods. I downloaded few "essential" mods like some weather mods, basically only graphical mods. Today I downloaded Weapons Mod Expanded because I'm lvl 18 and I have access to pretty much every game in the game, at least those weapons that you can get from merchants. So I tought that maybe this was good time to get some more weapons. While installing the mod, I realized that in Skyrim, Oblivion and Morrowind you actually had to activate the mods with some mod manager. I havent activated shit with New Vegas. Open mod manager, realize that none of the mods were activated. I have been playing for 18 levels without any mods. Yes, I have been enjoying the game but I know I would have enjoyed it A LOT more if the mods were activated. I hadnt played New Vegas "without" mods so I didnt really know how vanilla NW was. I had nothing to compare to. Now Im so depressed that ALL my eagerness to play NW is gone. I have no desire to play it anymore because I feel like I have wasted all that time. Jesus christ I want to uninstall the game and never play it again. > TL;DR: . Assistant:	>Installed mods to NW, played NW to level 18, installed more mods, realized none of the previous mods were activated, no desire to play anymore, want to uninstall game.	>Installed mods to NW, played NW to level 18, installed more mods, realized none of the previous mods were activated, no desire to play anymore, want to uninstall game.	4,999
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my Ex? [22 F] 3 weeks, Breakup... Maybe? Really need some advice. POST: Ok so I started dating a girl three weeks ago that I had been friends with for the last 6 months or so. She just got out of a year and a half relationship with an emotionally manipulative guy about a week before we started dating. Today she texted me that she really cares about me and is scared that this will make me hate her but that she doesn't want to rush into another relationship so quickly and told me she needs some time to sort out her life. I asked her if this meant we needed to take it slower or if it was over and she said to give her some time before we start talking again. I told her that I would be here when she felt she was ready. My question to you guys/gals is this, Is this relationship over for good or is there any hope for us? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Got sorta dumped by a girl who just got out of a relationship, Need to know if it's really over.	Got sorta dumped by a girl who just got out of a relationship, Need to know if it's really over.	1,454
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Americans of reddit, what's your stance on gun control, and why? POST: I'm a staunch supporter of the 2nd Amendment. I believe citizens have both the constitutional and the natural right to bear any small arms they choose - including assault rifles, machine guns, and even should-fired missiles. I support thorough background checks on weapons purchases, as well as state-issued firearm licenses. However, I don't think people should have to pay special fees or taxes on specified weapons types (for example, the current NFA tax on short-barreled rifles). In short, I advocate firearms being freely available with minimal government regulation. The common arguments against gun control involve hunting, recreational shooting, and home defense. I whole-heartedly support those things, but I think focusing on them too much ignores the primary reason for an armed civilian population: PROTECTION FROM TYRANNICAL GOVERNMENT. When writing the 2nd Amendment, the Founding Fathers specifically had armed militias in mind. Such militias played a pivotal role against the British during the American Revolution, and it was assumed that they could play a role in keeping any future government in check. Today, the media regularly tells us about police brutality and CIA torture. It is now "legal" for the federal government to spy on, kidnap, indefinitely detain, and assassinate anyone (including American citizens) it deems a "threat" to itself. I don't care what Congress or the Supreme Court says- these things are wrong, and they threaten the freedom of the American people! In order to maintain a free, safe, democratic nation, PEOPLE SHOULD NOT FEAR THEIR GOVERNMENT! THE GOVERNMENT SHOULD FEAR THEM! TL;DR: . Assistant:	I advocate an armed civilian population as protection against tyrannical government. I'm against any further gun control measures, and believe that the system in fact needs to deregulated.	I advocate an armed civilian population as protection against tyrannical government. I'm against any further gun control measures, and believe that the system in fact needs to deregulated.	2,244
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21M] gift giving doesn't come naturally, needing advice on what is appropriate for gf [20F] of 8 months POST: Gift-giving isn't something that comes to me naturally, so in past relationships I've been guilty of overlooking/underthinking this important part of being a boyfriend. I'm looking for advice on what would be appropriate to get my girlfriend for Christmas (I'm trying to think ahead because in the past I haven't!). I know that ultimately it depends on the unique girl/situation, but maybe y'all could help me with guidelines? Some particulars about the relationship - she and I are both college students, we're serious (talking about our future, have said 'I love you', etc.), but definitely independent and still learning about one another. I have a fairly good income for a student and would be comfortable spending up to around $300 on a gift. I want to get her something that says 'we're serious and I really care about you' but without saying 'you're mine forever and don't forget it'. You know what I mean? She's pretty girly - likes clothes and jewelry and stuff. Again, I know that this all comes down to the particulars of the relationship, but as someone without much experience with stuff I could really use some help with examples/guidelines about what is appropriate. Thanks! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Not sure how to give gifts, looking for advice on where to start/what is normal and appropriate to give a serious gf of 8 months.	Not sure how to give gifts, looking for advice on where to start/what is normal and appropriate to give a serious gf of 8 months.	4,460
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is my girlfriend unreasonably controlling? [18M & 18F] POST: Alright, so I have quite a few things that have been a problem in my relationship that I havn't been able to workout with my SO. Some back story. We've been dating for over a year and recently (3 months ago) we moved in and this is when all of these problems became very prominent. First off I used to enjoy responsibly smoking cannabis and sometimes drinking with a few of my friends once or twice a week. By responsibly i mean we'd stay in the house, no driving, no hard liquor allowed, not allowed to do anything reckless which was enforced by all of us. Most nights consisted of playing smash Bros on the wii or watching animation domination. Nothing bad or reckless. To my girlfriend this is absolutely the worst and scumiest thing to do and thinks all of them are low lifes. There is no compromising on me smoking or drinking. End of story. Another thing is, we have sex regularly once every other day or so. But occasionally she will completely lose interest for anywhere from a few days to over a week. Now this is fine with me, everyone has different sex drives and that's alright. But it recently got brought to attention that she does not like me masturbating during our dry spells and porn is completely out of the question and so are nudes. TL;DR: . Assistant:	my girlfriend tries to control the parts of my life that I enjoy most. I love her but not really sure what to do.	my girlfriend tries to control the parts of my life that I enjoy most. I love her but not really sure what to do.	5,858
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [21M] have an absurd apprehension with new relationships. POST: I was involved in a lengthy relationship during my first year of college. Me [21M] and her [now21F] went to high school together, we went to prom, and began dating shortly thereafter. She broke it off with me, and I transferred to a university out of state. I'm now a senior at my university. Over the past year or so, I've begun to initiate relationships with various girls, no sex(my first girlfriend was my only sexual partner) but after a month or so of build up, I just get this intense feeling of wrongness. It's like, everything is going well and then all of the sudden, I just don't want what it is that is forming. I'm guessing it's all tied to that first relationship, but will it get better with time? Do I just need to take these budding relationships slower(aka REALLY slow) or what? Hopefully someone here can help me figure this out. TL;DR: . Assistant:	After my first relationship, I now just can't form a new relationship, despite enjoying the company of new potential partners.	After my first relationship, I now just can't form a new relationship, despite enjoying the company of new potential partners.	3,724
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst thing that happened to you before, during, or after a music concert? POST: Last summer I went to see my favorite band, Ludo. We got to the train station and it was about 90 degrees. It was brutal. The intercom said the train would be arriving late. It then said it again once more a few minutes later. After about two hours, we got sick of waiting. One of my friends went online and apparently all the trains on that track were suspended. We were all dissappinted and decided to go home. WAIT, not over yet. We decide to go to the neighboring town to see if the trains are still running. They are! We run to the trains and all movie style like, we all jump onto the train right before the door closes. Due to the suspended track, this train was packed. Keep in mind it was 90 degrees. In the train it felt like 100. About half an hour in, my side starts to hurt. I tell my brother. He tells me to grow a pair. A few minutes later, my vision goes a bit fuzzy and fades completely to black. I don't remember much cause I was completely out of it, but my brother wrote on his blog about it. Turns out I compltely froze and my lips went white. My brother asks my friends for help. He told me to spit out my gum and he's holding out his hand. I barely heard him telling me. To lighten the mood a bit, I swallowed it. My brother kind of chuckled a bit. Some girl, who was pretty attractive, gave up her seat and gave me water. I could see again. I was chilled and shakey. We decided to get off the train. In the end we didn't go. It would be too hot in a crowded room. We in turn went to a friends house and watched My Neighbor Totoro. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Me and a few friends went to a concert. Train line was suspended. Boarded train in neighboring town. I passed out. Instead watched My Neighbor Totoro at a friends house.	Me and a few friends went to a concert. Train line was suspended. Boarded train in neighboring town. I passed out. Instead watched My Neighbor Totoro at a friends house.	6,023
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31M] trying to deal with my girlfriend [30F] not wanting to go on vacations anywhere where other people have been before POST: Advice of "find someone else" is not going to be helpful, seriously. My girlfriend and I have a long and great relationship. However, we're planning our first overseas vacation together and everything was going well until a few of her friends went on vacation to the same country we were planning on going to. She now steadfastly refuses to go anywhere that other people she knows have been, period. I've tried explaining that neither of us have ever been to those places, and that it's a new and fun experience for us, but that doesn't matter. She says she wants our trip to be unique and to make other people jealous at how awesome our trip was. She grew up in very humble beginnings so I'm a bit taken aback by the whole attitude about jealously. I've also tried to explain how it'll still be special for us together even if others have done it before, and that shouldn't matter, but "I know people that have been there so it isn't special." I tried to give the example of what if we were going to Paris and you knew people that had been to the Eiffel tower, the louvre, and everywhere else worth seeing and she said she wouldn't want to go anymore just because her trip would be a copy of others. Wtf?? TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend only wants to go on vacation places that no one she knows has ever been before. How do I convince her the trip is about our experience and not other people?	girlfriend only wants to go on vacation places that no one she knows has ever been before. How do I convince her the trip is about our experience and not other people?	2,162
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17M] got dumped by my [17F] girlfriend of 5 months POST: She broke up with me on the 3rd through text and we're in different countries right now, we'll be around each other after summer though. basically i was an asshole and didn't treat her the best i could. It's been 2 weeks of no contact, but on the 3rd august she told me "talk to me on the 16th". Now I don't know why she told me to contact her, but I'm not sure if I should. I've been working on myself for these 2 weeks and overall becoming a better person and trying to love myself again. Right now, I can follow my mind, and I'm sure that if I get back with her I can be the person she deserves. My question is, should I contact her on the 16th ? Should I wait for her to contact me ? I'm at the point where I can live without her, but I still see our relationship working better around this time which is why I wanna give it a shot. TL;DR: . Assistant:	getting my ex back, dont know if i should wait for her to contact me, she told me to contact her on the 16th but im not sure what to do	getting my ex back, dont know if i should wait for her to contact me, she told me to contact her on the 16th but im not sure what to do	4,272
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Are my bf [19 M] and I [18 F] going too fast? POST: So, this is my first relationship ever and before this, I've never even made out with a guy before. And we've known each other for a while and have been talking for a couple months before we started dating, so I'd say we were somewhat close by the time the relationship started. It's only been about 2 weeks and after a few dates and makeouts and stuff, he wanted me to go down on him. I told him I didn't exactly want to yet, but he was persistent and I eventually agreed to. It wasn't terrible, but also not that great either. Since he was all for it, and I didn't really care too much since it's staying between us, I don't think the relationship will get messed up. But I also am not ready for actual sex yet, since this is the very beginning of my very first relationship, and I just want to see how things go with what's happening right now. But was this the smart thing to do? Was this way too soon for my first time giving oral, in relation to my total experience which was nonexistent prior to 2 weeks ago? Am I putting too much thought into this? Am I taking this way too lightly and am actually desenstizied to the entire thing? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Gave bf head after only about 2 weeks of dating and I'm not sure if that was the right thing to do.	Gave bf head after only about 2 weeks of dating and I'm not sure if that was the right thing to do.	5,864
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[28M] girlfriend[28F] moved in with a male roommate [28M] and started to get distant. Need advice? POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 9 months, and its been rocky but we managed to work through it. Due to certain financial things on her end we decided to move in together but broke up and she moved out to stay with a friend. We were under a lot of pressure at the time with both of us losing our jobs at the same time; the companies we worked for went under. 2 weeks ago we got together again and made up. It was great; I missed her and she missed me. We made love for days. She had also gotten work but it was a bit far from where I stayed and she moved in with a guy she met in the classified section looking for a roommate - she said she didn't have much choice and had to move quickly to be close to her new job. It's been 3 days since she moved and her entire attitude towards me has changed. At first I couldn't get her off me, now she barley wants to talk to me or see me. She is spending a lot of time with the male roommate and it bothers me a lot, because even thought the guy is rather fat and not good looking at all I can see he fancies my girlfriend and keeps giving her things and is being overly nice. He seems to have some money, but wouldn't call him rich. Her car broke down and he even lend his other car to her, which is nice but the guy seems like over overly nice if that makes sense. She misses a few of my calls and disappears for hours and feels like she is insinuating she needs her space after we just gotten so close again, just out of nowhere. I tried talking to her about the situation and said how would she have felt if it was me living with a girl and just disappeared and seemed to have a real ball of a time with her and then kinda start ignoring my gf? Needless to say we got into a fight but we both apologized but essentially the same issue persists. Maybe I'm just jealous but I'm really uncomfortable with the situation but at the same time that will push her away? So what the hell should I do? I love her. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend and i got back together but she moved in with an unattractive semi-wealthy male roommate and now it feels like she's pushing me away almost overnight. Need advice	Girlfriend and i got back together but she moved in with an unattractive semi-wealthy male roommate and now it feels like she's pushing me away almost overnight. Need advice	5,597
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Non-Romantic - Me [24F] with new housemate[28 M] 3 days after moving in I found him in my room touching my clothes when he thought I was at work, I am freaked out. POST: Essentially my female friend and I moved in to our new houseshare and met the 4 guys we're living with on Saturday. On Tuesday morning I left for work but 5 mins later realised I had left my laptop in my room. Got back to my room, opened the door, and my new male housemate was in there looking in my wardrobe and touching my clothes. He had properly shut the door behind him so it's not like he had just popped his head in to have a quick look at the room.As far as I can see he hasn't taken anything (or left anything). I flipped out and yelled at him while he scurried back to his room, 'What the FUCK are you doing? What went on in your head to make you think that was ok?' etc. He started brokenly stammering 'oh ..er...your door was open..I came out of the shower...I', then fell to his knees shaking and running his fingers through his hair just saying 'I don't know, I don't know what I was thinking, I can't explain it, I'm so sorry'... I rang the landlord and asked for a lock to be put on my door, and he agreed to that and said, 'Wow...ermm [ awkward chuckle] ...that's a bit embarrassing isn't it... yeah I'll look into the locks for you, I know he smokes a lot of waccy baccy but we've never had a problem with him.' Then later the housemate came downstairs crying saying that he had told his girlfriend and parents and that he was arranging to see a counsellor. A handyman came and installed a lock on my door the next day, so I feel much more comfortable in the house now. I am just really interested to get some opinions from reddit on this. So far everybody I've spoken to agrees it is really weird, and personally I am finding it really difficult to be civil to the housemate, as it really freaked me out and he still doesn't seem to be able to explain his behaviour. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I found my new male housemate in my room touching my clothes when he thought I was out, he can't explain it and is distraught.	I found my new male housemate in my room touching my clothes when he thought I was out, he can't explain it and is distraught.	473
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my mother [56 F] a few months, highly irresponsible and asking me for money POST: Hello, it's me again. Please read my first topic on this matter: Especially the short background info. I've found a flat and moved away from my toxic parents. Everything was great until my mother came back from abroad, where she has a job. The matter is, I thought she'll forget about the idea of me taking credit for her. Unfortunately I was wrong. Not only the topic returned - she literaly guilts me into this. She keeps talking that she feels like dying, that she stopped eating and she's loosing weight, and that it's probably cancer. All this comes from terrible financial problems she has right now. To be honest, those terrible financial problems are something I remember from childhood. All my life she had those, and later she stole some amount of money from old employer and was forced to pay it off. To do this, she emigrated and now she earns two times more money than myself. Still, her debts are not getting smaller. They seem just as big as 7 years ago when she left the country. Just now she called me with the news that she needs fast help - she took another loan and now she must quickly pay it off. Of course it's because she didn't read contract carefully enough. That kind of things happen to her all the time. Unfortunately she knows that I earn stable money. I know that I'm the only one person that can rescue her. Literally no-one in my family is financially reliable apart from me. BUT if I do this, she will make another stupid decision and I will have to rescue her again. I'm not in the position to do this - I ended my education, found a job, moved out and now I'm stabilizing myself financialy after really chaotic childhood and college-hood. I'm not willing to going there again. I'm seriously thinking about going absolute no-contact with her. I only worry that she could do something to herself... I feel cruel, guilty, ungrateful bitch. I'm her only child. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Mother has serious financial problems, is highly irresponsible and asking me for taking high loan. Feeling like crap, going to say no.	Mother has serious financial problems, is highly irresponsible and asking me for taking high loan. Feeling like crap, going to say no.	4,660
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: scholarship, fees and medical leave of absence? POST: Ive paid 2k for this semester and ive missed about a month's worth of classes due to severe anxiety. I'm going to defer a semester (this one) or take a medical leave of absence. The problem is im on scholarship. The total is 10k and i pay 5k total for 3 semesters but im paying sem by sem. What would happen to the $ i paid? Burn? I dont want to waste my parents' money. They said its okay and all that but still. Ive read through the handbooks and scholarshop t&c's. Most of the lecturers dont know shit so Theyre gonna meet up with my dad today & discuss that. I actually didnt want to get my parents involved and wanted to handle everything on my own but i guess this time its inevitable....im so proud of myself for taking matters into my own hands up till now! TL;DR: . Assistant:	what would happen to the 2k i paid this 2nd semester when im on scholarship and the original pricing is 10k (i got 5k for all 3 semesters)	what would happen to the 2k i paid this 2nd semester when im on scholarship and the original pricing is 10k (i got 5k for all 3 semesters)	3,547
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I thought I was straight until... (xpost: LGBT) POST: 27/f. I've always been very sexual, but all of the sex that I've had has been with men. I have made out with two women, one straight and one gay. I recently met this girl through a friend who, to my knowledge, is also straight but is definitely an LGBT supporter. We hit it off immediately. We have similar interests, career goals, etc. I thought we'd just be great friends, but I also find her really attractive, and she has also said that she thinks I'm beautiful. We've said lightheartedly that we're falling in love, have admit that we have "lady crushes" on one another, and to top it all off, we had a sleepover last weekend where we cuddled all night long. We're both cuddly people, but this was the first time I ever spent all night in the arms of a female friend. I don't know her well enough to know if this is how she is with all of her friends or just me. Nothing more has happened, but we aren't going to stop hanging out or acting this way around one another, and it makes me curious where things could go. I'd hate to ruin our friendship by attempting something more or by making things awkward by initiating a serious conversation about it, and so any advice would be awesome. Thanks! TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm a straight girl falling for another straight girl, and I think the feelings are mutual. Not sure how to approach the situation.	I'm a straight girl falling for another straight girl, and I think the feelings are mutual. Not sure how to approach the situation.	5,763
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [17M] begin a relationship with someone [17F] if I know it will become a LDR? POST: Hey guys, This is the first time I have posted to this subreddit so bear with me, I'm 17 and I've not had a girlfriend yet. That's not the reason I'm posting this. Basically, I have met this girl through my work and we're really hitting it off. I feel like I want to take this further but in August we're both going to different universities (about 1 hour 30 mins from each other). I don't know whether to go further if I know I'm only gonna be able to be with her "full time" for a year or so, and I really think this could work. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Should I go forward with a relationship if I know we're only going to have a certain amount of time in the same city	Should I go forward with a relationship if I know we're only going to have a certain amount of time in the same city	1,980
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25F] boyfriend [26M] of a few months has suspcious cuts on his legs POST: Hi r/relationships, I recently started dating a GREAT guy. He is thoughtful, interesting, intelligent, and has the biggest heart of anyone that I know. I am so happy and lucky to say that I genuinely mean that. I do not consider this a flaw per se but It's very clear to me that he has pretty severe anxiety. He can get very tense and stressed at times and I feel like there is often no way that I can help. I lay with him and rub his back while he vents but I'm not sure if there's more that I should be doing. A few nights ago I noticed some cuts on his upper thighs. They weren't exactly fresh wounds but they definitely weren't old enough to have been there since before we started dating. I didn't say anything (because I didn't want to kill the moment or make him uncomfortable) but I'm not sure if it's my place to say anything. Should I wait until he comes to me? Or should I speak up? He is open with me about his anxiety, so it wouldn't be completely out of left field to talk about this with him. I care about him so unbelievably much and I don't want to make him any more stressed or uncomfortable than he already is. I'm not sure how to handle this. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I noticed cuts on my boyfriends legs. They are clean lines and do not at all look like an accident. Not sure how to address it.	I noticed cuts on my boyfriends legs. They are clean lines and do not at all look like an accident. Not sure how to address it.	3,693
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (23 M) going through a break up with my (24F) girlfriend of 3 years and she wants to remain friends and I'm afraid of being hurt, what do i do? POST: We were together for 3 years and both decided to end our relationship last week. She wanted to remain friends and I agreed because we had a clean break with no hard feelings for each other, but now I'm really starting to feel the pain and am realizing I didn't want it to end and I only let her go because I felt she wasn't happy with me. I'm having a really hard time trying to figure out if i should remain friends with her. I don't know if it would be easier to just cut off all contact and move on or remain friends and hurt myself as I watch the girl I love share the life we had planned together with someone else. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I don't know if I should keep in contact and run the risk of only hurting myself or if I should cut my losses and move on.	I don't know if I should keep in contact and run the risk of only hurting myself or if I should cut my losses and move on.	290
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling my pregnant wife I wouldn't cheat on her. POST: This basically happened... oh... ten minutes ago or so. My wife is 9 weeks pregnant and well into the morning sickness, sick headaches, hormonal/emotional mess that the first trimester brings. Her self-esteem has taken a hit and her nerves are pretty frayed because she basically feels like ass 24/7. Her nausea usually hits her the worst in the afternoons and evenings, so today after work, she decided to lay down in bed and read until I got home from work about an hour later. When I got home, I crawled into bed with her and we started cuddling and chatting about our days. Now, sexy time usually happens in the evenings or before we go to bed, but the last month or so, my wife has felt so crappy in the evenings that she usually just passes the fuck out as soon as she hits the pillow. Being the understanding husband I am, I of course let sleeping pregnant ladies lie and let her get her much needed rest. Growing a person is hard work apparently! She has expressed regret, though, that we haven't had sex in awhile and today was no different. As we were cuddling in bed, she apologized again that we haven't had sex in awhile and said she wished she was feeling better so she could, and she said this in a joking tone, "attend to her wifely duties." I kissed her on the cheek and, in the same joking tone, said, "Don't worry. I won't cheat on you." She looked at me with complete horror and kind of choked out, "Wh-why would you even say that? Are you? Omigod, are you cheating on me?" Cue the crying and sobbing and blubbering. She kept repeating, "I wouldn't blame you. I'm gross and fat and ugly. I haven't felt good enough for sex. I would understand. I wouldn't blame you." I of course started apologizing profusely. I have never apologized so much in my life. She finally just said, "Okay. Okay," a few times and quit crying. But she asked to be alone for a while. Reddit. I fucked up. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Told my sick, emotionally strained, pregnant wife I wouldn't cheat on her after she apologized for lack of sexy time. Cuddling to crying in 0.5 secs.	Told my sick, emotionally strained, pregnant wife I wouldn't cheat on her after she apologized for lack of sexy time. Cuddling to crying in 0.5 secs.	1,602