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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by starting an oil fire in my kitchen POST: This fuck up happened a couple years ago before I knew of reddit and now I feel compelled to share it. So it was new years eve and my husband and I didn't have much food in the house. So I decided to make some homemade potato chips to munch on while we watched a movie. I used a pot and heated up some oil. The chips turned out okay I can never seem to cut them thin enough. I turned off the stove and returned to the couch to watch our movie. So the kitchen in my apartment was hiding behind a corner, so there was no way we could have noticed the flames any sooner. I see a ominous orange glow coming from the kitchen so I casually walk over and turn the corner and... OH SHIT! FIRE! FIRE! I literally panic like an idiot. And thank goodness my husband was there to take care of the situation otherwise I would have surely burnt down the apartment. Turns out I hadn't turned off the burner, but had left it on the highest setting. So my husband bolts into the kitchen and grabs the pot of oil that has ignited. With some quick thinking he grabs a nearby pan and attempts to smother the flames whilst running out of the kitchen towards the door. I open the door and finally in the breezeway of the apartment complex my husband tames the fire. There was black soot coated on the vent hood of the stove and my pan was destroyed. I am just glad I didn't start the new year by burning down the apartment. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Nearly burned down the apartment on new years eve because I left a pot of oil on the burner and when I thought I turned it off it was actually on the highest setting.	Nearly burned down the apartment on new years eve because I left a pot of oil on the burner and when I thought I turned it off it was actually on the highest setting.	108
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 35M with my 42F spouse of 15 years, she wants her the father of her son to stay at our house for 5 days for his graduation POST: Update: I told her yesterday that he could stay here. Thanks for the feedback everyone. I felt that my position basically came down to I don't want him to stay here because I don't want him to stay here. If I can't come up with a good reason for it and it's for a special occasion for my stepson, I should just do what's best for him. I bet it will be more uncomfortable in theory than in practice anyway. Thanks also for the replies relating past experiences from the stepson's perspective. My wife of 15 years has a 22 year old son from a previous relationship. He is graduating college this month and his dad will be visiting him from another country for 5 days. His dad travels a lot and has money for a hotel, yet my wife offered for him to sleep at my place without asking me first. She's brought up the topic 3 times and each time I've said no. I don't think she'd do anything with him or anything like that, but I also don't want somebody who was in a relationship with her in the past, even the far past, sleeping at my house when there's no real reason for it. Am I being unreasonable? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Wife wants the father of her 22 year old child to stay at our house instead of getting a hotel, which he can afford. Am I being unreasonable in saying absolutely not?	Wife wants the father of her 22 year old child to stay at our house instead of getting a hotel, which he can afford. Am I being unreasonable in saying absolutely not?	2,286
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Apparently I have "one of those faces"... do I look like anyone you know? POST: So I get "do I know you from somewhere?" or "I have a friend/granddaughter/ex who looks EXACTLY like you" from strangers on a regular basis. Happened daily when I was a cashier and, you know, was forced to interact with people (hurray for social anxiety). I do realize that these could be variations of a common pick-up line, but I'm positive that that's not the case 99.9% of the time. The thing is, it drives me CRAZY, because never once has anyone produced a photograph of my supposed doppelgänger(s)... and therefore I never know how to take it. I also have no real concept of what I look like to other people; my face seems to change from mirror to mirror and picture to picture. Therefore, I'm asking you Redditors if I look like anyone you know, on the off-chance that someone can finally provide me with a photograph (with its subject's permission, of course). Do I really have a long-lost twin out there somewhere? And would I be flattered or insulted (or neutral) to find out what she looked like? TL;DR: . Assistant:	apparently I have an unrealistic number of doppelgängers. Do you know any of them?	apparently I have an unrealistic number of doppelgängers. Do you know any of them?	273
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, a girl with a fake facebook identity is seducing unknown people on facebook for no reason. What should I do? POST: So I was added as a friend on Facebook by a girl who looked very cute, but I didn't know her. I asked how she knew me, and she said she had made a mistake, and mid apology threw in, "you look cute." Basically we texted back and forth for a few days, and she was extremely, extremely flirty. My suspicious were halted when she would talk to me for 3-4 hours a night on the phone and text me virtually all day. I was suspicious, but she had a few hundred friends, a twitter account with a bunch of followers that tweeted at her, etc. It seemed legit, but I noticed one too many red flags. Long story short, I got suspicious enough I did a few reverse image searches on Google, and sure enough she is using a fake name, has real pictures, but fake info, and has added enough friends to look legitimate. This is truly a work of art. She claimed to live about 45 minutes from me, go to my University, work in a city about an hour away, and even knew a bunch of stuff about our supposed mutual church, etc. Now I realize she lives in Texas, is in a sorority, and it's all lies. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have her the phone number and real information of a fake girl who apparently goes way out of her way to lead people on and seduce them. What should I do? Subscribe her to cat facts?	I have her the phone number and real information of a fake girl who apparently goes way out of her way to lead people on and seduce them. What should I do? Subscribe her to cat facts?	219
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Dating a guy who was originally very attentive, then I get blown off. Why? What should I do? POST: Hi r/dating_advice, I apologize if this has come up before, but after some googling I couldn't find any good advice for my situation. I met this guy online and I've been dating him for about 3 weeks. We are casually dating, and I initially didn't want anything serious, but the more I spend time with him the more I like him. Originally, he wanted to set up dates with me no more than 1 or 2 days after we last saw each other and he was very good about texting and sending messages about when he was living from his city (we live about 20 minutes away) and when he would get to my city. Then this week on Wednesday, he suggests we hang out on Friday. I was invited to happy hour with some friends already, and so I ask if he'd like to join. He says yes. I text him the next day telling him when and where we are meeting, and just to let me know when he gets off work. I get no reply. This was the first warning sign. So I arrive at the place for happy hour with my friends and then I finally text him an hour into it to tell him where we are. He FINALLY texts me back an hour later saying that he has too much work and can't meet up. I was very annoyed and hurt because I felt like we were really hitting it off, and he didn't seem like the type of guy who would just blow someone off. He also texts "would I like to meet tomorrow?" I say that I am actually busy. The good thing is(1 hour later), he does apologize and acknowledge that he should have texted me earlier. I tell him that yes he should have, and that I am busy, but I will be free starting Sunday night. So far no reply. I don't really no what to think or what to do. Any insight? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Guy I'm dating acts very interested in me than cancels a date 2 hours later. Why and what should I do?	Guy I'm dating acts very interested in me than cancels a date 2 hours later. Why and what should I do?	3,380
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Freshly single - Looking to get fit and coupled. POST: The title might be a little difficult to understand, sorry. I'm a bigger guy (256 lbs) and, unfortunately, as brief as my first relationship was, I had to end it due to her complete lack of communication. So, now I want to get fit, to the point where I could be considered remotely sexy for a guy. I'm currently 22 and I'm going to a community college. The problem comes in where I also want to have a girlfriend at the same time that I'm getting fit. I've gotten slightly addicted! So, any previously heavy guys who have dated/tried to date while they were slimming down have any tips for me? I know it sounds douchey of me, but I'm not sure I can wait for months up to a year before I can get a skinnier girlfriend. Any tips or comments are appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm fat, trying to get skinny. Currently in community college. Want to date girls. Halp, plz?	I'm fat, trying to get skinny. Currently in community college. Want to date girls. Halp, plz?	3,888
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend of 2+ years[20 F] and I [20 M] are no longer on the same page sexually POST: As the title says, my girlfriend and I have run into some issues over the past few months. When we first started dating we had sex nearly every day, but that has dropped precipitously, to MAYBE twice a month now. Part of this is due to circumstance (we both held time-intensive internships this summer), but part is simply due to her lack of sex drive. It has gotten to the point where she almost never makes any sexual advances, and seems to have sex only to appease me. Obviously, this is not a sustainable thing for me. This a complicated, sensitive topic for her (and me) though, as she was sexually assaulted a few years ago (before we started dating), so I am hesitant to bring this up to her. We have had a couple of conversations and she assures me that she is still very much attracted to me, and loves me, but that her body just can't have sex, and she is still affected by what happened to her. She also added that at the beginning of the relationship she didn't want to say anything, but that the amount of sex we were having "was just too much for her to handle". I do believe she is still attracted to me and loves me, and everything else about our relationship is great, but I can't help feeling like we've simply turned into best friends who occasionally have sex, as opposed to romantic partners. The question here is: how do I handle this? I feel as though speaking to a psychologist might help her a bit. It's clear that she's still affected by what happened to her. I just want to go about it in the most gentle, sensitive way possible, without offending her or forcing her to re-visit things she doesn't want to. I am committed to the relationship and I want to help us, but sex is a part of that, and I feel like this is something which needs to be addressed, for her sake and mine. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Rarely have sex, having hard time bringing this up, as it is a sensitive topic for her due to a past sexual assault...	Rarely have sex, having hard time bringing this up, as it is a sensitive topic for her due to a past sexual assault...	3,294
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my ex[24M] broke up 6 months ago, want to be friends. Is this even possible? POST: My ex and I dated for 1.5 yrs. The last ".5" year was long distance. We broke up back in early January. I moved on fairly quickly, being an active, social person. He is introverted and a homebody. We have texted several times, usually talking about day-to-day stuff. We are now back in the same city for the summer and have overlapping friend groups. He thinks that I'm brushing him off and feels awkward about speaking with me. I honestly don't feel awkward at all. (But I also sometimes have the social finesse of a bull in a china shop.) He says I was his best friend for that 1.5 years and that he wants to stay friends. I'd like to be friends, but he expects me to come find him and initiate plans to hang out with him, and that because of his introverted nature, he is "not the type to make plans". I told him that's not my job and that friendship is a two-way street, that he could have shot me a text at any time to hang out. He seems also to be going through some issues like depression and whatnot. I'm just wondering - is it even possible to stay friends? If so, how? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Ex and I broke up ~6 months ago, he wants to be besties, I don't know how to manage that or if I should even try.	Ex and I broke up ~6 months ago, he wants to be besties, I don't know how to manage that or if I should even try.	1,922
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend lives with a girl he used to be in a relationship with, it's making me paranoid and I don't want it to ruin the relationship. POST: I've dated him for a month now, and I managed to misplace his trust just recently because of this girl that he lives with. They dated whilst living out of home and I know very little of there past history mainly because I try to avoid information like that due to my emotions/ irrational paranoia. It's scaring me because I tell myself to not panic and to be rational, but due to the break up I took, prior, with my ex which left me depressed for a long time, I didn't want to find myself in that situation again. I don't want to lose his trust but I don't want to sacrifice my time and effort for something seemingly not worth it. If he turns his attention away from me and to her, and then finds that he doesn't need to talk to me that often, what should I think? How should I deal with it? They say that they're just friends but she gets angry when he doesn't tell her certain things about what he's doing, and he feels guilty for not telling her. Is that normal? Why am I here? Why does he want me? She seems like a nice and polite person, but no way is she honest with me. I mean, it's like I'm just getting in the way of there friendship. When they're friendship is so much closer than our relationship, then what is the point? It leaves me so paranoid and I can't go through that feeling again. What should I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I feel like I'm the other girl in a relationship with a guy who is still in a close 'friendship' with his female house mate ex-gf. We are all in our Mid 20's.	I feel like I'm the other girl in a relationship with a guy who is still in a close 'friendship' with his female house mate ex-gf. We are all in our Mid 20's.	6,340
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [18/M] delivered pizza tonight to this gorgeous girl [18/F], got a call from her phone a few hours later. Please help me. POST: Im not sure if this is the right place to post this, so i apologize in advance if it isnt. Alright well ill get to explaining, please dont laugh me out of this subreddit. So I work at Pizza Hut as a delivery driver, and on my last delivery i looked at the name of the person of who I was delivering to and for some odd reason i had this gut feeling that she would be highly attractive. Even though it was some asian name i couldnt even pronounce. Anyways, i get to the house and ring the doorbell a couple times a dont get an answer. So i call the number on their reciept and the girl answers and says she will come open the door. She opens the door and sure enough she is very pretty, and was around my age. (18) She greets me very warmly and smiles the whole time and I give her Her food and leave. About 4 hours later I am working out and decided to check my phone, Ten minutes earlier I had a missed call, from the number of the girl i delievered to. Im assuming it was the girl, and not the very old woman I saw in her house (looked to be her grandma) especially since it said the call was from a mobile phone. Anyway I texted her back saying hello and that i didnt hear the phone when she called. I havent got any response back. But It was almost errie how this whole thing played out, beginning with me having this gut feeling before i delivered the pizza. I really hope that I hear back from her. But if i dont, what is the best thing for me to do? Should i call her? I feel like that would maybe come off as weird. Maybe she just called me on accident or something and Im just reading way too much into this. Thank you for bearing with me, any advice is appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	A gorgeous girl I delivered pizza to tonight ended up calling me later, i replied but got no response, where do i go from here?	A gorgeous girl I delivered pizza to tonight ended up calling me later, i replied but got no response, where do i go from here?	122
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] and my boyfriend [18M] of one year, are breaking up before college, and I don't think I'm ready POST: We've been friends for about 4 years, and have been going out for 1. We decided to break up before college (we are going to be 3 hours apart) for various reasons, not wanting to be tied down and we felt that the relationship would probably end within our freshmen year. However, we both have a month left until we move in, and the thought makes me more and more upset by the day. This summer our relationship has just been amazing, emotionally and physically. The part that kills me the most is having to leave something that is making me so incredibly happy. I guess what I'm looking for is just personal experience/advice with having to move on from a relationship that was good. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend and I are breaking up before college, and I'm having a really hard time thinking of having to leave a good relationship.	My boyfriend and I are breaking up before college, and I'm having a really hard time thinking of having to leave a good relationship.	4,885
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend of two years [27m] and I [23f] got into such a serious fight today, cops came to the door. Help. POST: We've been together for two years. Living together for the better part of one. We've had our share of fights - our share of really bad fights. Hours long, screaming, him blocking me into a room and not letting me out, me then patently ignoring him. The biggest part of the bad stuff is the fact that for the whole first year, his ex was still on his phone plan, still way more part of the picture than I felt comfortable with - he would have me be quiet when she called so she wouldn't know he was at my place and be hurt, etc - and when I complained about these things, he basically dismissed my problems and I didn't feel like I could do anything about it. He convinced me that I was wrong, even though I felt sure I was being fucked, and I didn't have the confidence to leave. After the first year he changed heart, but I've remained bitter. He claims that during the first year I was seeing things wrong and, even though he admits he made mistakes, he said if I had just listened to him, things wouldn't have gotten so awful to start. I don't know. We go back and forth between everything being utterly wonderful - when things are good, we are each other's world. When things are bad, we scuffle physically, put holes in the wall, give each other bruises - and tonight it all got all the more real when a policewoman came to the door and said next time this happened, someone would get arrested. I don't really have any friends, I know I'm co-dependent, I'm terrified to leave, and to top it all off, I really do love him - but I can't keep doing this. I am double-majoring and planning on going to graduate school and I don't have the time or the energy, and it's breaking my fucking heart. He wants to just start over again, but my feelings will always be tinted by the way he treated me in the first year (a perception he says is somewhat mistaken). TL;DR: . Assistant:	boyfriend and I really love each other but have serious fights due to a lot of shit in the past. What do?	boyfriend and I really love each other but have serious fights due to a lot of shit in the past. What do?	2,964
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [19/f] in love with my best friend [19/m] POST: I just finished my first year of college, and I met my best friend there. He lived across the hall from me, and I saw him pretty much every day of my life for nine months. We were good friends first semester, then got really really close second semester. We tell each other everything. He would tell me about his family life, struggles with his ex, etc, and I would do just the same. We're entirely honest with each other, and there's this level of comfort and easiness about the relationship that makes the friendship so much different than any other friendships I've had. So the school year ended and I live out of state, so I hadn't seen him in person since I left school. I started to notice some feelings, but I was certain that it was a misplaced sense of missing him. Recently he came to visit for the weekend, and I knew. I realized I had had feelings for him for a long time, but that I had just been ignoring and/or burying them. In the interest of honesty, I told him. He didn't say much, but it went over okay. He said it doesn't change anything, and that he's my friend, and that our relationship means a lot to him. I'm okay with being his friend, but why do I feel so horrible? What should I do? It's not like any other "crush" or anything, where if it doesn't work I can just stop seeing the person, because he's my best friend. He's the person I go to. He means so much to me, and I feel horrible inside. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm in love with my best friend I met a year ago in college, and I told him and our friendship is completely fine, but I feel terrible.	I'm in love with my best friend I met a year ago in college, and I told him and our friendship is completely fine, but I feel terrible.	2,304
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it alright to scrutinize persons who claim ownership of pictures? POST: Being a Redditor, i tend to pick up links a full 24-48 hours before my friends do (read: i probably spend too much time on the internet). However, some of these friends like to take these pictures and post it on their Facebook profiles claiming ownership for the picture, or leaving an open connotation that it is possibly theirs. For example, many of the text message logs from iPhones shore up on my friend's wall, as if he is involved in many of these text conversations themselves. I recently took action and called him out on it, but was it fair? Is it okay to rain on other people's parades and their lesser understanding of memes and other internet culture, or just sit back and pretend that they know what theyre doing. Another somewhat aggravating situation i find myself in is people using 'trolled' incorrectly. They throw the trolling meme everywhere like its sparkly glitter, when it is obvious they are using it incorrectly. Its frustrating, but i dont want to sound condescending when i correct them. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My friends dont understand the internet and their usage of everything incorrectly makes me mad. Am i allowed to call them out on it?	My friends dont understand the internet and their usage of everything incorrectly makes me mad. Am i allowed to call them out on it?	5,113
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my friend [27M] of couple months, should I be excited? POST: So, made a new friend a couple months ago. Been getting to know this guy pretty well and have really been enjoying spending time with him. From the beginning, he made it clear he wasn't looking for a relationship (with anybody) due to an anticipated career change that could take him out of the state. I think that's fine since I'm not really looking for a relationship either. We've progressively been spending more and more time together the last few weeks and I've been comfortable enough to open up about some pretty difficult stuff to him. This man makes me laugh so hard. He's incredibly intelligent, we pretty much finish each others' sentences, and he's the first guy to come along who has invested time in genuinely becoming my friend without trying to get in my pants shortly after. He recently invited me to come to his family's Thanksgiving AND Christmas dinners. Along with this, there was mention of "wanting to stay in the area" as far as new job/career. He messages me on a daily basis and would have gladly come over for the fourth night in a row tonight to hang out had I not been completely exhausted. I'm struggling because 1.) I'm starting to like this guy, a lot 2.) this whole being friends first thing is foreign territory to me 3.) what if talking to him results in him not feeling mutually? I'm feeling my self-sabotage kicking in. Should I take the invitations for the holidays and behavior as a hint that he might be feeling something more than a friendship? I don't want to blow this. He's absolutely amazing. People, I secretly do a happy dance every time he gets turned down for jobs out of state or that are far away because that means I get to spend a little more time with him before he goes away for good. I want the best for him though, no matter wherever life takes him. I know I need to talk to him, but I don't know how to even begin the conversation. I've never been in a situation like this before. Help! Any advice would be welcome. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Met an amazing guy who turned into an amazing friend and now I want to open my heart up to him, but I'm scared.	Met an amazing guy who turned into an amazing friend and now I want to open my heart up to him, but I'm scared.	3,171
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend is turning 21 and wants me (21M) to throw her a party. How do I break the news that no one will show up? POST: Birthdays have always been hard on my girlfriend. She's had a few parties as a child where no one showed up, and since moving states in the middle of high school she hasn't made close friends. Here at college, she tries hard to make friends. She talks well to people on a superficial basis but doesn't have any real friends. She's never been invited to a college party and has often missed out on many typical activities. We've been together for 3 years, since freshman orientation. I don't have friends but I'm happy that way. I like keeping to myself if I'm not spending time with her. Since she's naturally extroverted, she spends her free time with me, or at club meetings trying to connect to people. She's asked if I could put together a small party so I invited some acquaintances, my roommates, etc. everyone said no. I gave the invites well in advance too. I don't know how to break the news to my girlfriend, she's been so excited. She thought providing free food and drink would be a great way to make friends. But people don't want to come for even that. What can I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My friendly but friendless girlfriend wanted me to throw a 21st birthday party for her, but no one accepted. How do I still make this a special day? How do I tell her without crushing her?	My friendly but friendless girlfriend wanted me to throw a 21st birthday party for her, but no one accepted. How do I still make this a special day? How do I tell her without crushing her?	684
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: False advertising from Samsung and what I can do about it. POST: Samsung recently started a promotion to receive a year of free Netflix when you buy one of their qualifying devices. I've been looking into the Galaxy Tab S for a while now, so I finally took the plunge and ordered it from Samsung's official storefront on Amazon. Upon receiving the package, I entered the required info on the promo website and was told that my serial number is not valid. I hopped on the live chat support and spoke with a customer service representative. He informed me that despite ordering the device in the US and having it shipped to my home in the US, from Amazon's US WEBSITE, that I was somehow shipped an international version and therefore do not qualify for the promotion. The thing is, however, I have read through the official terms and conditions from top to bottom and nowhere in there does it say it must be a US device. It DOES say that I must be a legal US resident, which I am; living in Boston, Massachusetts. I have spoken to 4 representatives now who refuse to let me speak to a supervisor. I have been provided a number for Prize Logic, who is running the promotion, but discovered upon calling it that my only option is to leave them a message. Is there any sort of legal action I can take against them for violating the policies which they have set forth? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Bought a Samsung tablet to take part in a promotion. Samsung is refusing my claim despite satisfying all of the terms and condition. Help?	Bought a Samsung tablet to take part in a promotion. Samsung is refusing my claim despite satisfying all of the terms and condition. Help?	2,223
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (33M) love my (31F) girlfriend of 2 years+ and she is my best friend but am no longer attracted to her. Do I end it? POST: Our strength has never really been our physical/sexual chemistry, but I've always thought of that part of relationships as being the least important, and what we have had has been passable. However, lately the physical/sexual side of things has decreased even further, and it now feels more and more like a companionship kind of relationship more than romantic. Other aspects of the relationship (intellectual, emotional chemistry, etc.) all continue to be the highest I've ever experienced. But I'm coming to the conclusion now that the physical/sexual is still a necessary prerequisite for any relationship, so it seems inevitable to me that we will break up. Since realizing this I have been feeling incredibly guilty. She remains my closest friend and my favorite person in the world, so I desperately don't want to hurt her, but now that I've become more certain that we won't make it long term, I feel like I need to end it asap to avoid wasting her time, since neither of us are getting any younger. TL;DR: . Assistant:	When the physical/sexual side of a relationship dies, is it time to end it even when other aspects of the relationship are solid?	When the physical/sexual side of a relationship dies, is it time to end it even when other aspects of the relationship are solid?	2,412
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My friends just asked me[19F] to go with them to South Padre for spring break. They specifically asked my boyfriend[20M] not to come because they don't have the space. POST: Like I said, my friends asked me to go to South Padre with them. They already have everything paid for and they need one more person to go. They don't have room for my boyfriend to go, so that's why they haven't invited him. I really want to go!! For years I've wanted a Spring Break to unwind and relax and I haven't been able to go because my other friends never saved up the money to go. These friends aren't my best friends, they're a group of friends I used to hangout with in High School. One of my ex boyfriends from when I was 16 will be there in the group. I've been assured that i won't be staying with him and that I won't be riding with him in the car on the way there. I don't know how my boyfriend is going to react to me asking him. He's a pretty jealous person, especially over my exes. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I guess my question is: Would you be okay with your girlfriend going to South Padre alone with a group of her friends, including her ex boyfriend?	I guess my question is: Would you be okay with your girlfriend going to South Padre alone with a group of her friends, including her ex boyfriend?	4,821
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My coworker [22 M] and I [21 F] have been hooking up consistently for almost three years. POST: Not a very interesting story, but it's been confusing enough for me to post, and I don't know where to go from here. My coworker and I have been hooking up consistently for about three years now, even when we would be somewhat seeing or interested in other people (though haven't dated anyone else.) We've never really talked about it, but we're really close and spend time hanging out together (going hiking, going to parties, etc.) but we've never considered dating (at least I haven't.) The other night we were walking home from a party and things got heated and then he stopped and said that we should talk soon and that he was "thinking of me differently." We haven't talked about it sense but yesterday while we were leaving work he said "I love you," while we were saying goodbye and hugged me for an unusual amount of time, and that was somewhat atypical though it didn't seem super serious. I'm just really confused because this has been happening for so long but when we're around each other it's like nothing has really changed. Not sure what to make of that night or what to expect. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My coworker and I have been hooking up for years but the other night he said he's been thinking of me differently, don't know how to read that.	My coworker and I have been hooking up for years but the other night he said he's been thinking of me differently, don't know how to read that.	3,080
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex (F/24) and I (F/23) broke up a year ago because she cheated after 2.5 years together. Now she's come back into contact and I would appreciate advice. POST: I will keep this brief as I can. We were together 3^^(ish) years (lived together for 2), but the last 7 months were pretty shitty. Standard story - she met someone else and was hiding it. Every time I questioned it she would twist it round to be my fault. I was paranoid/clingy/didn't want her to have other friends. I ended up being quite sick because of constant anxiety, but she didn't stop. Eventually of course it all came out and we broke up, but had to live out the rest of our shared lease...which was not fun at all. She didn't show any remorse and continued seeing this other girl, even though she had a gf. After our lease ran out I moved to another country (1000 miles away) to get away and get a fresh start and began cutting her out my life. It's been 7 months now since I saw her, and 5 months since we last had contact. But this week she sent an email saying she started counselling 3 months ago and is in a completely different place and realises how she acted like a prick and would like to talk, even if meant travelling to my country to do so. I agreed. And she's coming next weekend to talk. But now I have no idea what to do. Can people really work past this sort of thing? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Seeing Ex for the first time in 7 months to talk. Now confused how I feel about the situation. Would like advice/anecdotes on people who have gotten back with cheating exes.	Seeing Ex for the first time in 7 months to talk. Now confused how I feel about the situation. Would like advice/anecdotes on people who have gotten back with cheating exes.	3,334
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Can't stop worrying about potential break up and it's interfering with my daily life. (x-post r/relationships) POST: I (22 F) have been with my boyfriend (20 M) for about a year. Recently, we have been talking and he is starting to feel emotionless (says he can't control it and doesn't know anything that will help make it go away) and told me he wants to give our relationship some time to see if things can improve before we end up breaking up. Ever since we've had this talk (about a week ago), I have been feeling very out-of-sorts. I have put a lot of effort into this relationship and I love him and don't want to end it. I can't help but be paranoid all the time that he is going to break up with me and worry about our relationship. So I ask, first: what are some things that he can do to avoid losing all emotions and become (basically) a hermit, and then end up shutting me out of his life? Second: How can I stop worrying that this is definitely going to happen? I literally can't stop thinking about it and it has been interfering with my daily life. I find myself feeling nauseous, don't want to eat, getting headaches, and even just breaking down and crying. I don't want to feel this way anymore but I don't want to lose him either. It won't make me feel any better to end it with him. I truly think he is something special and we have never had any major problems in our relationship.... Please help! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend of a year is shutting me out accidentally and wants to see where the relationship goes before breaking up. I can't stop worrying and it is making me sick. I want to help him but I don't want to lose him	Boyfriend of a year is shutting me out accidentally and wants to see where the relationship goes before breaking up. I can't stop worrying and it is making me sick. I want to help him but I don't want to lose him	4,501
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Bleeding during/after plane flight normal? POST: I'm a 24 year old male, and this isn't my first time on am airplane. I've been on airplanes 6 times prior to yesterday, and never had an issue. Yesterday I took 2 airplanes... One from NY to Atlanta, Georgia. Then again from Georgia to Guatemala. When I was boarding the 2nd plane, before it took off, 2 drops of blood fell from my nose... I pulled my head up and it went away. At the end of the 3 hour flight, when I bent over to get my carry on bag, my nose just started pouring blood quickly. My clothes were damaged, my hand was literally covered in red, and it made a scene as everyone saw what happened.Also later on that night, more than 12 hours after flight, and after 5 or so hours of sleep I bled again, but only a bit. TL;DR: . Assistant:	bled from nose 3x during and after flights. Want to know if this is normal. I have to do flights again in a week and am slightly worried.	bled from nose 3x during and after flights. Want to know if this is normal. I have to do flights again in a week and am slightly worried.	3,944
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By buying roses to ask a girl to homecoming. POST: So last night I decided i need to get my shit and line and ask a girl to homecoming. I planned out everything to ask her and go to bed. The next morning i ask my mom to take me to our local Fred Meyer's to get a bouquet of flowers, only to find out that Fred Meyer's doesn't open till 7:00. So i wait in the parking lot for 15 minutes and we go in and get the roses. After all of that is said and done I get to school go, go put my backpack in my classroom, and go to meet her in the halls. Only to find her getting asked by another guy, with a card and some coffee. She says yes, turns around and sees me with the roses. I felt so embarrassed and I felt crushed all day and ended up giving them to a friend. Fuck school dances. Fuck them all. TL;DR: . Assistant:	bought roses for a girl to ask her to homecoming, only to come out and see her getting asked by another guy. Most crushing day of my life ever.	bought roses for a girl to ask her to homecoming, only to come out and see her getting asked by another guy. Most crushing day of my life ever.	3,049
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [23/F] be more supportive to him [23/M] or are my drunk instincts right? 1yr+ together POST: Okay so I've [23/F] been going out with this guy [23/M] for just over a year, things have generally been good but its always been apparent that he likes me a bit more than I like him. We get on really well and he always makes me smile but lately he's been going through a hard time and although I have tried (and i believe generally succeeded in) being supportive I find it really hard to do, hes changed, become a lot more vulnerable and dependent and a bit more cynical (or maybe i just didn't notice the cynicism before?). I find myself missing the single life and our relationship (at least on my side) become more and more just about being sexual than the connection we used to have. I tried ending things recently (a bit spur of the moment after too many drinks) but once sober we talked a lot and decided to stay together as I do have a lot of feelings for him still and would miss him a lot. A lot of little things have also started bugging me when I know they shouldn't. I have generally quit in relationships in the past when things got hard and have been trying not to do this as again. He is quite insecure at the moment and feels like he doesn't deserve me so i find it hard to discuss things at times, though I think hes noticed I'm pulling away from him. My question is should I just stop being selfish and try to be more supportive? Or was I right to try and end things? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend is going through tough times and as a result has changed. I don't know if I feel the same way about him now, should I stick with him or move on?	Boyfriend is going through tough times and as a result has changed. I don't know if I feel the same way about him now, should I stick with him or move on?	1,644
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have you ever wanted to say a compliment to someone another color but it came out really wrong? POST: So the other day we were playing volleyball at my school and since there's people who can't play we're allowed to catch the ball. So I jump and push the ball where no one can reach it, but there's this black guy who dolphin dive and catch it (most amazing volleyball catch I ever saw) Me wanting to make a funny joke, told him he should get back in the NBA ( I actually wanted to say NFL because of that catch) but since I heard that joke about every black people being good at basketball, so many times, the word NBA just came automatically. Now he thinks I'm racist (Which I'm really not) Long story short, What's your worst racial comment/joke? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Made NBA joke to a black guy when I wanted to say a compliment about an amazing catch at volleyball and now he think I'm racist.	Made NBA joke to a black guy when I wanted to say a compliment about an amazing catch at volleyball and now he think I'm racist.	2,255
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Difficult situation with the girl [F/16] I'm interested in [M/16] POST: There's a girl in my high school that i'm interested in, she's in 3 of my classes but we don't talk to eachother much. Let's call her Carly. We aren't directly in any same friend groups so the only time we ever see eachother is during class. We have the occasional class-related chat and a few jokes here and there, but mostly we don't talk. (We're both pretty quiet, but she's shy) The part where it gets complicated is here, she has a best friend who i'm closer with, and we talk a bit. Let's call her Jen. All three of us are in the same class, and Jen speaks her mind quite often. Going on for about 2 weeks now, Jen says Carly and I would be a perfect couple. (Mind you all three of us are in audible whisper range) Jen says it quite loudly, and I know Carly acknowledges it but doesn't say anything and neither do I, pushing it aside as a tease. Coincidentally, and neither of them know them know i'm interested in Carly - or at least I think so. Now given the circumstance, i'm not extremely close with Jen, we talk about general things and have a lot of mutual friends, but i've never talked to her about relationships or any "internal" things before. I could directly ask her, but i'm trying to avoid things from getting too awkward, considering Jen and Carly are best or at least really close friends. As I said, Carly is extremely shy so approaching her would make her or both of us uncomfortable. TL;DR: . Assistant:	The girl i'm interested in's best friend says we'd be a perfect couple. I'm not sure what do in this situation, and i'm avoiding asking her best friend for advice. (Complications elaborated in post)	The girl i'm interested in's best friend says we'd be a perfect couple. I'm not sure what do in this situation, and i'm avoiding asking her best friend for advice. (Complications elaborated in post)	1,077
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [FL] Driving on a suspended license POST: This is my first post so if I leave any information out please let me know and I will update asap. Earlier today I was pulled over for driving on a suspended license. I was unaware of this as I had renewed my registration a month ago and only had an issue with an unpaid toll. The officer withheld my license and allowed my sister who was a passenger to drive us home (to which I am very thankful for, I am pretty sure I could have been arrested). I was given a ticket with a court date for driving with knowledge on a suspended license - 322.34(2). Upon arriving home I went online to determine the cause of this and found that I was given a red light violation ticket in February of this year. I had no idea this happened and contacted the Clerk office for that county immediately and found that I had not updated my address and as far as I can see the notices were being sent to an old address. During the conversation with the Clerk's office I found out that the vehicle that was photographed and ticketed belonged to my best friend who I had co-signed the car with. From what I recall I was the primary on the registration so his ticket violation was sent to me and was counted against my license. I have contacted an attorney, but I am hoping to avoid becoming a hypochondriac by reading too much into the potential consequences as I am no expert in this and this is my first real encounter with the law. Tomorrow morning I will be going to the DMV to pay the ticket and reinstate my license, but my main question is how badly could it go on my court date later this month? I am under no illusion that I will need to hire an attorney as this is considered a criminal offense. TL;DR: . Assistant:	1. Vehicle that was ticketed for red light violation was a co-signed car that I was not in. Happened in February	1. Vehicle that was ticketed for red light violation was a co-signed car that I was not in. Happened in February	1,167
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32 M] with my Wife [28 F] of 2 years - with a baby on the way - Birthday Gift Expectations. POST: So my wife and I are high income earners - but we come from humble backgrounds, so only on rare occasion do we buy each other expensive gifts. For example, her engagement ring was $36,000.00 - but her Christmas gift last year was $300.00. Most of our gifting for each other's birthday's and christmas's are in the $300 - $500 range. On rare occasion, we will buy more expensive gifts. So this year, my wife, for her birthday, wanted a full day spa retreat. Thus, for her birthday gift, I bought her a full day spa retreat package - last about 8 hours - cost of $400.00 before tip (which of course, I will pay). As her birthday approaches, my wife has been also been dropping hints that she has been eyeing a particular designer bag. So my question is simple - what are my wife's birthday expectations? Is she expecting the purse in addition to the spa retreat? Or is she just letting me know for perhaps valentine's day? I just want to make sure I don't let her down. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My wife's birthday is coming up and I'm not sure if she is expecting a gift in addition to the "gift" of a day at the spa.	My wife's birthday is coming up and I'm not sure if she is expecting a gift in addition to the "gift" of a day at the spa.	2,198
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the scammiest salesman tactic you've experienced? POST: Just the day before, I got a call from a guy named Jared, referred to me by my dad. I usually take care of the secretarial shit for my dad's business. Jared told me that our restaurant got picked for one of the bests in the city, and he wanted to set up an interview. He told me he has picked many candidates, and he will notify me if our restaurant gets selected. He told me the interview process was about 30 minutes long, and I just needed an internet connection to share a screen with him. I missed our first appointment because of a class, called him, he said he had no more appointment slots available but immediately. I found a computer in a hurry at the university library even though I needed to go to work. Being published as one of the bests is a good news, so I made time for this guy, even though I'm going through midterm season. We share screens with join.me, and what he has for me is a fucking powerpoint presentation. He worked for a start-up called SinglePlatform, and was presenting me shit on how important menus are to a restaurant and the services they offer. All while he has convinced my dad that we're picked as one of the best restaurants in the city, need to go through a selection progress, and might end up paying if we are selected. I googled his company, told him about the package his company offered, called bullshit on his bullshit, and cut the session short. TL;DR: . Assistant:	he told us we were selected for best restaurant list and wanted to interview/have candidate selection process, but was a salesperson trying to sign us up to have our menu online for $395/year	he told us we were selected for best restaurant list and wanted to interview/have candidate selection process, but was a salesperson trying to sign us up to have our menu online for $395/year	3,407
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My co-worker [30f] is single and always talks about just wanting to have sex... POST: OK... I am currently a 26 year old male. I have been in a relationship for 8 months with a girl I am unsure of. My older co-worker who is now 30 dates guys occasionally from Match.Com. Anyways I get drinks with her as co-workers frequently (a bit less frequently in the last 5 months) and we generally get a long GREAT. Every time she gets drunk she says she can't find a guy and starts talking about how she would just like to let go of some stress. We have talked a few times about this and a few other people have mentioned it to both of us that we might be compatible. I am not the best looking guy but I do well with the ladies. Anyways I have a question. " Essentially she tells me that we are both just friends but then just says that she wants to get laid. I always kind of bluntly play it off. I am unsure if her being like "Yeah we are just friends" when I say "If we were not co-workers I would certainly be attracted to you" is code for "please make a move on me." I know she is not seeing anyone else and I think I may be in this case TL;DR: . Assistant:	30 year old girl from work says we are just friends but then says she just wants to get laid in odd ways and gives me the impression that she only says that we are friends to avoid embarrassment. Should I make a move?	30 year old girl from work says we are just friends but then says she just wants to get laid in odd ways and gives me the impression that she only says that we are friends to avoid embarrassment. Should I make a move?	6,388
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25] broke up with my girlfriend [25] of 8 months and now feel horrible POST: I think I just need to get this off my chest and any comments would be appreciated. I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 months who is a single mother to a 9 year old. I feel absolutely terrible for a few reasons. The main one being I was a coward and never told her that I was starting to not feel the same way about her as she did me, or discuss things about the relationship I wanted to change with her. So the break up came out of the blue for her but for me I had been going over it in my head for about a month. Now I feel sad, upset and miss her which I hadn't felt for a month. Is it just me being to nice and not wanting to have caused someone grief? I guess since I made the decision I have to live with it and let her go. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Broke up with my gf but never discussed why before hand, now I feel sad and upset. Is this normal ?.	Broke up with my gf but never discussed why before hand, now I feel sad and upset. Is this normal ?.	3,567
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I might be falling for my best friend, but I have a boyfriend? POST: First things first, I love my boyfriend to death, and I would never, ever, ever cheat on him. We've been together for over a year now, and I can sincerely say that I deeply care about him. We don't share the same outlook and we may ague sometimes, but it's fine. There seems to be a small problem with us not being fully honest with each other, which kind of bugs me. Then I have a best friend. We've been friends for three years now. We share the same outlook, expect the same things from relationships, and we are completely comfortable with being fully honest with each other. He's witty, kind, and endlessly entertaining. Due to timing conflicts, I've been spending more time with my best friend than my boyfriend, and for the past 6 (maybe 7) months, I have started to feel very drawn to my best friend. I dismissed it as a passing crush at first, but the fact I haven't been able to shake it off for 7 months is extremely annoying. My boyfriend has expressed jealousy for my friend in the past, even going as far as saying shit like: "Well, why don't you go date {best friend} then, huh?" So a part of me knows he's slowly picking up on it. I don't want to make my boyfriend miserable, he truly does not deserve it, but I don't want to walk out of my relationship for something like this. Keep in mind, my best friend is 8 years older than me (I'm 20), so that's another thing that holds me back from pursuing anything further, as he said over a year ago that "I was too young for him". Despite this, we see eye to eye in many, many things, and we do seem to care deeply about each other. Ideally, I would be able to shake off my feelings for my best friend. I would never act upon this as: a) I adore my boyfriend despite our conflicts, though we've been growing apart lately. b) I don't want to fuck up my best, most stable friendship. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm falling for my best friend, but I love my boyfriend too much to do anything about it. Also, I'm a pussy. Help.	I'm falling for my best friend, but I love my boyfriend too much to do anything about it. Also, I'm a pussy. Help.	885
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] need to leave my abusive ex [25M]. POST: We started our relationship last October, but it quickly turned to shit. What was supposed to be a carefree relationship became forceful, angry, and sometimes abusive. There have been many occasions of him forcing himself on me, yelling at me and making me scared by putting his hands around my neck, etc. But when he's not angry or aggravated he's actually the most intelligent person I've ever met. He's also very empathetic and calm. It's just when I set him off he would really, really blow up. I finally made up my mind and left him a little over two months ago, but he's recently been trying to get back into my life. I couldn't resist. I've started seeing him and sleeping with him again. I always insist on using protection, but he constantly tries to manipulate me into letting him enter me without one. Sometimes he tries to pry my legs open. The last straw was when I found some child pornography on his computer. It was frightening, and I couldn't understand how somebody could be this cruel. I'm disgusted with myself for being with somebody like this. Here's the catch: it's not easy for me to leave him because I don't have many friends. I don't have friends at all. He is my only friend. My worsening anxiety and depression has caused my friends to withdraw from me, so I can't get any external support. None from my family, either- it is already dysfunctional. Basically the main things I need help with are my conflicting feelings regarding this person and myself- I feel disgusted with him for being a rapist and watching/enjoying child porn, but I also hate myself for having such deep feelings for someone like this. Secondly is leaving him behind myself, because I don't have friends and I don't plan on getting any external help. I need to really, really leave him myself. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My feelings for my sexually and physically abusive ex boyfriend are preventing me from leaving him, and are starting to cause me to deeply resent myself.	My feelings for my sexually and physically abusive ex boyfriend are preventing me from leaving him, and are starting to cause me to deeply resent myself.	4,608
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advise - relationship going stale? POST: Me: 21 M, Her: 21 F, Relationship: 6 Months Hey all, just wanted a bit of advise as I'm really not sure what's up really. Lately things have been feeling like they've been going a bit stale. I'll keep this short and sweet. For about a month we didn't see each other much. First she was sick, then I was sick, then I was bombarded with the last couple of stressful weeks of university trying to get all my work in on time. This was when things started to feel off, naturally, as we went from seeing each other at least every other day to seeing each other once a week if we were lucky. Now that we're getting to see each other more (it's been about 2 weeks of this now) it's been feeling stale, mainly when we're together at my house watching a movie or the usual activities of derping around the house doing stuff. When we're out with friends or out doing something together everything is amazing and feels great, it's just when we're sitting together in my house. Maybe I'm just sick of sitting around my house after the amounts of uni work I had to do while sitting stressing out for weeks? Anyways, I don't want to break up with her because I know that I still love her. Yeah, 6 months may seem to soon to be saying the "L" word to some people (by the way it's mutual and we've both said it), but I don't ever expect people to understand my own relationships when they're not the one involved in them. So yeah, I was just wondering if anyone here has any advise or insight as to what is going on. Am I just in a rut? Am I being an idiot? She's an amazing girl and I've never been happier in a relationship. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Relationship feels stale, may be in rut, need advice on what is wrong and how to personally work on things as it's only my problem really.	Relationship feels stale, may be in rut, need advice on what is wrong and how to personally work on things as it's only my problem really.	2,820
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Should people get extra time for university examinations because of disabilities like ADD? POST: Do you think that schools should accommodate people with disabilities like ADD when they are writing examinations with things like extra time or open book exams? Should there be any safeguards put in place? How much privacy is the student requesting the accommodation entitled to? I am asking this because there is a general debate going on in my school regarding rumours of accommodation that some other students are receiving. The rumour is that one student receives additional time and gets to write an open book exam. Our school is also anonymous with exams, so these exams go back into the global pile and the professor has no idea who has or has not received accommodation. It could be possible for this person to write thousands of additional words. The rumour is also that this person receives outstanding grades. It is also important to note that we are marked on a curve for the class of 160, and the job market is very competitive, so that is where there is this debate. One faction of the debate argues that for the type of degree we are obtaining, you really cannot be unable to work under time and pressure constraints. There is unlikely to be this type of accommodation in the workplace, so is the school setting these students up for failure by allowing them to get degrees in a field that they won't be able to work in? One faction of the debate argues that there are serious barriers in education systems for people with disabilities. Furthermore, examinations often have little correlation to actual abilities anyways, so the entire degree is arbitrary and there is no point even debating the issue. I'm not asking specifically about whatever policies your university or jurisdiction has regarding accommodation (but the discussion could go there). What is your reaction regarding the fairness and equity for accommodation, considering the perspectives of those who claim disabilities and also the class at large. TL;DR: . Assistant:	What is your reaction to people being accommodated in university? Is this fair to the other students? Should there be more accommodation?	What is your reaction to people being accommodated in university? Is this fair to the other students? Should there be more accommodation?	6,159
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (23F), my ex (23M), together 4 years apart 4 months. Feeling very lonely and anger, nothing is going right in my life since the break. POST: I feel as thought I can not let go of the anger and resentment I am feeling towards my ex. I'm not sure if this is a normal feeling to have and it is eating me up inside. He broke up with me 4 months ago and not even a month after the break up he started sleeping with a friend of his that I always had suspicions about. I feel like a dirty napkin or something to him that he used me up and just threw me away. After everything i did for him all the love and devotion I gave him in return he broke my heart and has just forgotten about my existence. I don't know how to let go of this anger. I feel like since the break up I have been the only person who has suffered. I am depressed, my life and school are going down the drain, I have lost my best friend (ex) and everyday just feels like nothing will get better. Nothing is going right for me and yes i know its not my ex's fault, but I just can't believe that he wasn't even slightly upset about the break up, which is what it feels like. I feel like no ones going to ever love me or any relationship will ever work either. I feel like I am going to be alone forever. TL;DR: . Assistant:	feel like I'm going to be alone forever, cant let go of anger towards ex, nothing is going right for me	feel like I'm going to be alone forever, cant let go of anger towards ex, nothing is going right for me	4,470
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] and my GF [19 F] dated for 8 months and she broke up with me because she's not ready and wants to be single POST: My ex and I met almost 2 years ago We go to the same school and live in the same dorms We started out as best friends but part of me always liked her as more than that I never thought she liked me that way until we both got drunk and hooked up at a party After that we just stared developing a relationship and finally she agreed to be my girlfriend We had a great relationship for the first few months and were very happy together Then she started to get distant and would blow me off to go out with her friends or leave me waiting for hours after she told me we would hang out We started fighting a lot and she broke up with me saying she's not ready for a relationship It was very upsetting because I was putting so much effort into our relationship and she was putting barely any in but that still hasn't made me stop loving her. I know she's still very immature and I need to let her do some growing up before I think about trying to get back together with her although thats what I really want The problem is she wants us to be best friends again and as much as I want her to be part of my life I don't know that I can go back to being just her friend It's been really hard because I feel like I've lost my girlfriend and my best friend because she was the first person I'd ask whenever I wanted to do something TL;DR: . Assistant:	I stared dating my best friend, 8 months later she breaks up with me and says she's not ready for a relationship and needs to be single but now she wants to be best friends again	I stared dating my best friend, 8 months later she breaks up with me and says she's not ready for a relationship and needs to be single but now she wants to be best friends again	1,524
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [20M] and I [22M] got in a fight and now he wants to talk it over. But I kind of want to stop being friends but don't want to hurt his feelings. POST: So a little over two weeks ago, my friend got upset with me because I preordered movie tickets, you can [Read more about that here] but basically, my step dad wanted me to preorder our tickets and then tell him where they are so him and his uncle can preorder the seats beside us, he ended up telling me I was rude and such and I got pretty upset about it as well. We have been having really stupid arguments for the last few months and I'm kind of sick of it, so I figure that even though he is my only friend (he doesn't know this, but he says I'm his only friend he can really hang out with), it's best to just end things. Now yesterday he texted me saying "Hey shelcod" and I stupidly replied back with "Hey" because I was curious as to what he would say. He ended up asking to get together to talk face to face and I told him I am unavailable until next week. Now the thing is I have thought about it more and realize that no matter how I tell it to him, it will end up hurting his feelings and I don't want to make anyone sad. So I've come up with 3 ideas. Would it be better if I just disappeared and said nothing more to him, should I tell it to his face, or should I go and make up with him and then just casually blow off all communication? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I got in a fight with a friend. He wants to discuss what happened and I just want to end this friendship.	I got in a fight with a friend. He wants to discuss what happened and I just want to end this friendship.	908
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21M] How important is physical attraction? POST: I'm 21, have never been in a relationship or sexually active, and have only dated one person. Lately I've started to become attracted emotionally to a friend [20F] whom I believe is likewise attracted, but I'm not very attracted physically; I think it's mostly a weight thing (I wouldn't say she's obese, but not in good shape either). I'd like to ask her out, but I fear that I'd be overlooking the lack of physical attraction simply because I'm lonely. I don't want to start something and then find out later that it won't work because I can't see her that way, and hurt her in the process. Am I being shallow? Advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm inexperienced in dating, and want to know how heavily I should weigh physical attraction when deciding to romantically pursue someone.	I'm inexperienced in dating, and want to know how heavily I should weigh physical attraction when deciding to romantically pursue someone.	5,224