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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and this girl began seeing each other about a month ago, and have gotten quite serious quite fast and we are completely head over heels for each other.\n\nThe problem here is that we never get to see each other due to how overprotective of her parents are, she is literally never allowed outside the house . At first this wasn't too much of an issue, we'd skype everyday, she'd see me for 10/15 minutes after school at my bus stop (even this was limited as my friends would be there). Recently though, her parents have found out about me, and deemed that I am too much of a distraction from her studies, and that she is no longer allowed to see me or even Skype me.\n\nWe're now questioning where this relationship is going, and if there is anything we can do, because we're both so desperate at this moment in time. Unfortunately at this point she doesn't seem to be willing to lie to her parents so that's out of the question at the moment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, I (M, 23) want to ask out a girl (don't know her age, must be 20something). The only contact I have is via FB. \n\nI know it's not the best way, but I have to stick to it. Now my question is, is it better, to just text her and ask right away or should I start a conversation first and ask then?\n\nA little more background: I know her from university, had a course together. Hadn't a lot of time to talk there, because she was always late and left quickly afterwards. After the last session of the course she added me on FB, I think she didn't know my full name until then. \nI think she must have searched me, because we only have two friends in common (one is a fellow student from the course, the other one happens two be my ex... I don't know how close they are, but I assume they are only college mates).\nDuring the course we exchanged some smiles.\nAfter she added me, she wrote me in the chat and we had a brief small talk, mostly about uni stuff until she left. She isn't online often, so I wrote her a message some days ago, again small talk. She responded quickly, despites being offline, but didn't respond then, when I wrote again.\nSo, should I text her again, when she's online and try to start a conversation or ask her out of the blue, if she wants to meet?\nFB is the only way of contact, because the course is over, it's summer break and it's a big uni, where you don't run into people often.\n\nThanks in advance for your tips!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So for some context, I hadn't been drinking at all. But I have some rabbits whom I keep in a pen outside in my back garden. As the night was drawing in I go out to shut them in the pen in my boxers and dressing gown.\n\n As I step over the little wire pen, which is just below crotch height, I don't lift my leg high enough and trip over. And by the beautiful way in which the world works, my boxers snag on the fence and I fall spread eagled into the grass butt ass naked with my neighbors and their friends looking on like I was a alcoholic stumbling around my property.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's over. \n\nIt hurts to admit it, but it's true. We fell in love fast and hard, and were completely absorbed in our relationship for a while. And slowly it's just been fading. I love him, but I'm not in love. \n\nThere's no romance. He always gets upset at me for things that shouldn't be an issue at all (like wanting to go out and have a girls night). He spends his days sleeping and playing video games, he has no interest in working or working out or taking care of himself (or me). I feel like I'm scared to do anything because he always finds reasons to yell at me. I'm just not happy. He has told me multiple times that he doesn't trust me, and to a point I think he is very controlling (or tries to be). \n\nIt's hard. We live together, and have spent 99% of our time together for the last two years. I love him, and he loves me, but I just can't do this anymore. I need to experience being single and doing my own thing and having freedom. Maybe I am making a mistake and maybe I will regret letting go of someone who loves me, but the fact that I can't get these thoughts of breaking up out of my head is a big sign. \n\nWhat do I say? I don't want to hurt him. I've been putting this off because I don't want to have to go through the stress of one of us moving out or explaining to his parents (who treat me like a daughter). How do I even bring it up? I have never done this before and I don't know how. \n\nAlso- my biggest fear- will I regret it? \n\nThank you for any advice or comforting words.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because some people know my account. I'm nice and loyal to others and I really enjoy the company of others but my thoughts are completely different than what I do, say and what people think of me. People think I'm loyal to everyone (based on that I've helped friends out through tough times and that I've been a good person to them), but believe me I'd ditch my friends if I got 'better'. People think I'd be nice and friendly to everyone (based on selfless things that I've done), but in my mind I wouldnt mind stepping on others to get higher up, and in my mind I help others to egoistically feel better about myself. People think I'm a very strong guy mentally because I've faced - long story short - addictions, bullies, my illness and deaths of others close to me, and even though I'm over it all I still think I'm weak and I want to give into my addictions every day. The compliments I get from the people who know me, sometimes better than I know myself, are - objectively seen - extremely nice... but I feel like I don't deserve it and I'm angry at them for not seeing the thoughts behind it and seeing how I feel. Most of the times I want to shout at them for it, but I don't. I know objectively I'm a great guy. But I feel all alone in the thoughts I have, and I've talked to others about it and then I only get compliments on how 'humble' I am. Fuck that. I feel like I want someone to hate me at those parts where I hate myself, because that feels more valid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "F (early 20's) He's a little older. We broke up very very recently. It was completely mutual. It needed to happen. Trying so hard to adhere to the NC rule but I feel like 3 hours isn't enough time to end a 2 year relationship. Why can't we wean off of one another? Two friends had to nearly physically hold me back from driving to his house drunk last night because I got locked out and needed a place to stay.\nMy argument? What's one more night? Our last romp was quick and impersonal. The last night we slept next to eachother, we had no idea that was the last time. I can't stop crying. The few friends I have are nice, but Tullamore Dew is even nicer. I can't stop making myself puke after drinking. Help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Almost a year ago I met this girl on a online site and since then we have text almost every day and spoken on the phone a number of times. I don't know why we have never skyped, none of us have ever brought it up. We have however exchanged pics/videos so I'm 99.9999% she isn't some stranger from Ghana.\n\nAnyway we've hit it off really well and I get on with her unlike anyone else I've ever spoken too. We come to eachother for advice and we have quite a good sense of eachothers personalities. Now recently she said she is going somewhere and with a bit more conversation this may end up being our first meeting as I've been looking to go somewhere and she suggested that I go with her as at least she'd roughly know someone. \n\nShe is an incredibly nicest person and we have spoken about past relationships, she said she isn't one to judge and I've spoken/seen people she has been out with before and she herself described them as \"not exactly lookers\", so I'm not afraid of her seeing me and being like \"what kind of creature are you\" as I'm not exactly overweight or hard to look at. I am however still incredibly nervous that we may not get along, why I have no idea. \n\nI'm not looking for advice on what to do I am however hoping that some here have been in a similar situation and how it ended up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so I'm not really the kind of guy who's too open about feelings and relationships and all that, but there is this girl who I see at school and sit next to in class that I really like.\n\nWe share one class together, sit next to each other and often have conversations. We don't really see each other outside of class, walking in the halls and all that, but when I walk into class and sit down, she will ask me how I am and I will return the question. She seems generally cheerful to see me, but I don't know if this is in a romantic way or if I'm just being hopeful. \n\nI really like her and would like to ask her on a date, but I'm not sure how to proceed. I know how to cook and was considering asking her to dinner (and then cooking said dinner). I also have had no previous relationships so I'm not sure if this is a good thing to do (dinner), and I'm not sure how to ask her. Help me please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just graduated college in May and already am working full time (including some benefits). In August I plan to leave my current apartment for a house/duplex in a less busy part of town which would also allow me to have room for a dog. I grew up with dogs (so I'm very familiar with all the work that goes into caring for one), and spending the last four years without one has gotten harder and harder. I'm to the point now where seeing another person's dog (or even cat) makes my stomach drop and just makes me kinda sad. However, there is a chance that I will be moving next year as well, depending on my gf's decision on grad schools. Additionally I'm also looking at paying off student loans, and occasionally work a second job a couple nights a week (which does offset the financial burden of loans a good bit) though I would definitely make sure to only have one job for the first couple months of having the new dog.\n\nI know it's not a perfect time to get a dog, but I don't think there ever is - and I hate the idea of waiting another year or more. Plus I'm not planning on getting & dealing with a puppy, rather adopting 3-7 year old.\n\nI'm just looking for opinions. Is it a bad or okay idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I suggested to my ex, who I have recently gotten back in touch with, that maybe she could spend the night over at my house. She's a really great girl and I know she still has a lot of strong feelings for me. \n\nShe acts like she doesn't mind just being friends with benefits, but I know she does and would want a relationship with me if I was open to it. But honestly I don't feel like getting into a relationship because my life is really fucked up and weird right now. Also she is going through a some shit and I don't want to take advantage of her in anyway because I do care about her. Also she is very into sex being an emotional thing rather than just a fun thing.\n\nBut I am really conflicted. Would sleeping with her just make her want a relationship more? I don't want to hurt her, and yeah it would be nice...but do you think it would make her feel worse?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all,\n\nI wanted to start a legitimate conversation about how coders view project managers and why they have those views. I am coming to the end of my senior year and I begin grad school in August where my focus will be in project management within the information technology realm. \n\nI myself have some background in coding (Java, Javascript, C, C#, VB .NET, some HTML / ASP .NET, SQL / MySQL) but not enough interest, drive, or skill to go out and do what you all do. I feel I have always been more of a people driven worker, and my passion for technology has helped me to decide to stay involved with it; this is why I landed in the world of Project Management. However, it disturbs me to see how many members of project teams despise their managers. \n\nI am asking you all this because I am finally able to start putting work in to really accelerate my learning in this sector, and one of the things I strongly believe in is getting information from the source. So I'm ask you all now;\n\nWhat do you think of your P.M.'s? Why do you think it? What would you suggest to make them better? \n\nI'm doing this so when my time comes, I can be the best manager possible, so please no flaming.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit I'm lost, she told me she got drunk and had sex with two other women. I told her i wasn't OK with that since it's cheating. She then snidely added, \"if you slept with two other guys I wouldn't care\" and I tried to explain that that wasn't the point, the point was she made a commitment to me and she broke that commitment by cheating in me. She still says it's not cheating because she was with other girls. Am I right in saying it's cheating or am I just going crazy? Also what should I tell her to knock some sense into her head?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi /r/relationships, this may sound confusing to you, it's driving me razy\n\nI [23M] am pretty confused, I've been dating my girlfriend [24F] for over a year now and things have been going well, ups and downs as is usual in relationships. Recently my girlfriend (refered to as G from now) [24F] has slept with my best friend's girlfriend [25F] (refered to as T from now), both myself and my best friend [26M] were fine with this. I have known T for a few years now as well, my best friend was dating her for a while before, then they broke up for a while and are back together now for probably over 6 months or so. I've always been attracted to T but now more so, every time I think about her I get butterflies in my stomach and I have no idea what to do about the whole situation. I don't know if I should stay with G or if it isn't fair and I should end it and wait to see what happens. Any advice or thoughts would be great. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit. \nSo I have been dating this boy for roughly 2 months now, and things were going well between us. Every summer he travels with his friends from school (I don't know them since we were in different schools and met in college) and visits various places. This summer he'll be travelling with them again and exploring Europe for 2-3 months. Which is completely fine by me, under normal circumstances. \n\nHowever this summer, his ex girlfriend will also be a part of the group of friends he'll be travelling with. They dated in high school and were together for nearly 2 years, and he admits that they really liked each other a lot and it took him a while to get over her. As much as I hate to be dramatic and give ultimatums so early on in our relationship, I really don't think I'll be able to handle him seeing her and being near her over a period of 2 months. 2 months is a really long time and a lot can happen and I don't think I will be able to handle the doubts and insecurities I will feel during that time. \n\nI thought about this a lot, and I really don't want him to go on this trip Reddit. I really don't. I don't know if my stand is justified or not, or if I am merely over reacting. Help me out guys?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I were both Forever-Alone types until we met. Neither of us have had a major relationship since high school, and as a result we're both out of practice and super-paranoid about everything. And since we're both massive geeks, we're constantly looking for information and validation on what we're doing.\n\nWhenever we do anything, we over-analyse our actions way too much, instead of just doing it. The day after our first kiss, we spent half an hour talking nervously about how we kiss, if we like it, if the other person didn't like it, etc. By the end both of us felt embarassed and apologised for asking so many questions.\n\nWhether it's physical stuff like hugging or kissing, or other stuff like where to go on dates, when to see each-other and the like we're always having meta-conversations about what we're doing. Besides the meta stuff, our relationship is pretty awesome (we're both incredibly attracted to one another, physically & mentally).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi All, \n\nSo I was totally into this girl but it is finally fizzing out. I've pretty much been in denial about the whole thing since we've \"broken up\" but it's finally now catching up to me because she's seeing someone else now. Friends and family still talk like she's my girlfriend. I know it wasn't healthy just pushing it away for so long but I need to face the music.\n\nMy family basically treated her like family because they liked her so much. I'm wondering if anyone else has had an experience like this? \n\nIdk maybe I'm just kind of venting. This sucks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for 11 months and going on a year in 2 weeks. In the beginning of our relationship, she was allowed to come over to my house, hang out, play with my siblings, and talk with my parents whenever she wanted to. However, as the relationship progressed, her parents cut her off from going to my house AT ALL without a valid reason. It's been 4 months since she has stepped foot in my house and it is really starting it irritate me. Her parents are nasty control freaks and make her text them every minute she is out of their house, even at school. I can no longer hang out with her alone and can only if she has a friend accompanying her. These new \"rules\" came out of the blue and her parents didn't even give me a reason and my girlfriend doesn't know why they did it either. She has a 4.5gpa, is the valedictorian of our school, and does many things for our community so it's not like she is this bad person. We will be going to college in less then 4 months and I want to spend as much time together as we can, but they are preventing this from happening. We already decided that we will be doing a LDR, but I don't see how it can work with how much her parents control her life.\n\nIs there anything I can do to change this? I would go and talk to her parents but I'm afraid that they will never allow me to see her again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Every progress pic I see is incredible. And I'm really motivated by seeing the results of others. Its truly inspiring to see people making healthy choices and achieving their goals. Its also great to read about obstacles overcome by sheer willpower. However, when I scroll the comments I notice that there is an overwhelming concern from everyone about loose skin after weight loss. I'm assuming that it has much to do with a fear of appearing unattractive to potential partners. I could be wrong.\n\nThis post is meant to lead to a healthy discussion to help calm the nerves of those that might be scared of losing weight because of loose skin. \n\nPersonally I have been there. In the past I have been afraid to start getting serious with losing weight because of the idea of loose skin. \n\nI have decided recently that I will cross that bridge when I get there, and that the lesser of two evils would be to have a healthier body. I'm trying desperately hard to change my life. Every day is a battle, and I'm actively choosing to disregard those negative voices that whisper to me \"but all that work will be for nothing\". \" Why try, its too late for you to look that good.\" And \"Nobody will ever be attracted to you, you're a piece of garbage.\" As you can imagine, I've dealt with a lot of self image issues because of my weight. I've been picked on, and I know that I'm not the only one to have had such terrible experiences whilst being overweight. That's why I open this discussion up.\n\nPlease upvote for visability. This discussion could reach someone that would otherwise give up on their goals and aspirations. \n\nI hope that comments from the community might help support and motivate others to lose weight, regardless of what may happen with skin. \n\nI'm looking forward to gaining support from this community, and a greater feeling of togetherness. This may be the only supportive resource for some of us, and this discussion could help people tremendously.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend 'Sean' and I have known each other for a little over three years. We're fairly good friends, but somewhat fell out of contact a while ago when he graduated from our university. We share a pretty large friend group, though, and they usually know how he's doing and trying to invite him to our outings. Through the group I knew that Sean was dating 'Maggie', a younger girl(19) from out of town. \n\nBut last April, Sean contacted me out of the blue and started striking up conversations over messenger, ostensibly to seehow I was. I enjoyed talking to him again after a few months of no contact, and soon after our conversations started he told me he had been thinking about me and wanted to sleep together at some point. I asked if he was still with Maggie, and he said he had broken up with her the past month.\n\nWe continued to banter the following months, and eventually scheduled our first 'date' for this upcoming Saturday. I was pretty excited, and was hanging out with some of the guys from our friend group today. Sean's best friend, 'Matthew', didn't seem to know that Sean and I were seeing each other, which struck me as weird since Sean tells Matthew everything. Later that day, Matthew also offhandedly mention that he had been hanging out with \"Sean and his girlfriend\" last weekend.\n\nI'm not sure if it's a misunderstanding or if I'm overreacting, but I'm worried that Sean may still be seeing Maggie and trying to sleep with me behind her back. I had a big crush on him a year or so ago(which he knew about and did not return at the time), and I'm worried he might just be trying to take advantage of me and my feelings. How do I broach this subject with him without sounding accusatory?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my friend in college a little over a year ago. The first night we hung out, we stayed up talking almost all night. We started hanging out more regularly (never anything sexual though), and then we graduated. I haven't seen him in person since then because we live far away. \n\nHowever, we text and Skype frequently. Skype conversations are never shorter than 2 hours and often last up to 4. Basically, we really understand each other and like each other's company. Seeing each other in the future is not completely out of the question... currently we live very far away but he wants to move closer to where I live for a number of reasons. And we'll be going on vacation together in a couple months. \n\nBoth of us are recently single and craving both physical and emotional connection. But here's the thing: he is very, very opposed to having children in the future. I, on the other hand, want kids. It's completely irrelevant right now, but I'm wondering if it's even worth pursuing if I know our end goals are so different. I don't want to have to persuade him to change his mind about such a serious life decision.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there's this one guy in our friend group, I'll call him Spencer for anonymity purposes. In my years I have found that most friend groups, including my own, have at least one if not more \"Spencers\". I'm talking about the whiny, mean, lazy, sloppy goodfornothing that nobody REALLY likes, but hey, he's been along for so long that it's just impossible to get rid of him. \n\nNow Reddit, this is where I need your help. The school year is coming to an end very soon, and I was hoping to fill the summer with loads of zany, intricate, pranks to execute on \"Spencer.\" I need your best ideas for for any pranks that cause public humiliation or physical DISCOMFORT. We do NOT want to harm him in any way, as his rage and fists of fury make him a dangerous adversary when he is hurt. That's my proposal reddit, learn me your best pranks!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's the situation. I've worked with my co-worker (Rebecca) for about 4 years now. We don't have the same job, but we regularly work together. We'll often start talking about work related stuff and then get side tracked talking about personal stuff for half an hour or longer. \n\nOver this time I developed feelings for her – we have a lot of similar interests and I really enjoy spending time with her. I haven't acted on them though, as I wasn't sure if the feelings were mutual and I didn't want to jeopardize our working relationship.\n\nRecently Rebecca has decided to quit her job in order to pursue some life goals that our company couldn't accommodate (sorry for being a bit vague here). \n\nSince she told me this, we've had a couple of conversations that lead me to believe that she might be interested in me. First of all, these conversations have been completely non-work related and the tone was a bit different (hard to explain). Secondly, a co-worker who sits near me overheard a bit of the conversation and said she was totally into me.\n\nThis along with some other stuff (she's called me her 'favorite <my occupation>' on more than one occasion) leads me to believe that she might be interested after all.\n\nOn the other hand, she's a very friendly person and we haven't really interacted outside of work and work functions.\n\nI'm very inexperienced in this domain, so am I crazy? I'm typically very oblivious about reading social cues, so I wanted a second opinion.\n\nIf I do pursue this, given that we already know a decent amount about each other, what's the best way to approach it? Is asking her out for coffee my best option here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So today it finally happened. My ex hit me up after two years. I decided to respond to his \"hey\" to be nice and fix any animosity between us (relationship didnt end well), and see how he was doing and where he was in life. \n\nHe started saying things like \"wow you look so different in your pictures. like in a good way\" and \"is that you in that pic? idk. its someone.\" and its really bothering me. He is acting cold and unfriendly. Any advice? I am feeling a great deal of anxiety waiting for his replies, I can't even sleep. And it kind of hurts how he thinks im barely recognizable. Am I being overly sensitive? Am I reading too much into it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "While others around me call me a genius, I feel like an idiot all the time because I am constantly making mistakes in huge areas that affect my life. Example: I'm currently jobless, after having quit a very high paying job to move to a new state, and have now spent thru most of the available cash on hand - a known risk, but made bigger by lots of unaccounted-for unexpected expenses and poor timing.\n\n Despite the urgency the situation and the need for great caution, I continue to make lots of huge money mistakes despite knowing at some level ahead of time that they are probably mistakes. \n\n This kind of anti-pattern is prevalent in every area of my life, from wardrobe choices, to daily activity planning, to even driving choices such as what street to turn on. \n\nIt's as if my brain knows the right thing to do, but then deliberately chooses the wrong thing anyway. Surprisingly, its worse the harder I try to be more cautious. \n\nI think its indicative of widespread problems with executive function, specifically judgment and decision making, but I don't know what I can do about it. It has been getting worse and worse recently and I am finding that I am no longer able to justify decisions after the fact in ways that make them at least seem remotely well thought out. I am at the point where I feel I should not be in control of the bank account anymore, if that's any indication.\n\nShould I be worried? Is this most likely a long term health issue or a short term response to stress situations that I can expect to improve as I settle into my new environs? Has anyone else experienced anything like this? What did you do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My(25M) gf(F25) and I have a fairly new relationship, and unfortunately it has been a long distance thing from the beginning. Even though our distance is only about 90 miles, we still only get to see each other on weekends, maybe every other if we have some other plans. We mostly text all the time when we aren't together. We have had phone conversations that I have initiated, but it seems like she prefers to only text.\n\n \nI don't mind it, but some things can be taken the wrong way though texting(sarcasm as he biggest one) and it's much less personal as many of you know.\n\nSo the question is do most people who aren't around their SO's mostly text all the time or should I try to push phone conversations more often? She's also fairly introverted, which I think plays a large role in this as well. Thanks for your thoughts in advance..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've met the girl of my dreams and blah blah blah. We are compatible to the point of disbelief. I'll save you the details but on a personal, emotional, and sexual level we are on the same page 9 times out of ten. Our senses of humor and worldviews are in sync and so everything is just incredible. On a person to person level it's perfect.\n\n The problem is I got way more than I bargained for. She comes from a sophisticated, intellectual, and incredibly gifted family. She is one of those people that you hate just because they're so damn good at everything they do. Music (Instruments and singing), Sports, Art, Academics, and everything in between the lines. Her parents taught her french and Spanish and she speaks them fluently. She is so passionate and talented that I can't help to feel anythig but inferior in comparison. I'm rather intelligent myself, I can hold my own on a wrestling mat, and I have my own interests too but mother of god this girl does everything. Can somebody please explain to me how to get over the fact that she's just better than me? I feel like she deserves some Division 1 athlete/scholar/rockstar that has the same innate ability to be amazing at everything she does. I know it's mostly a personal problem but input would be nice. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Since January, I've been seeing my current FWB. She's great, the sex is fun, and we enjoy each others company.\n\nHowever, lately, my feelings of jealousy have been creeping up. She enjoys chatting with other guys, found using Whisper. While I tell her it doesn't bother me because we're not exclusive by any means, I cant help but feel a little hurt. We're pretty darn close, having told each just about everything in our past. We talk daily about everything on our minds. When shes having a hard day and at her emotional breaking point, she turns to me for help.\n\nAm I wrong to have these feelings? I understand that we got into this on a FWB status, but as we've talked and been together, it feels almost like a serious relationship in every aspect just with out the BF/GF title.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So for the last 2-3 years I have had one tonsil that is always swollen. At first I assumed it was from smoking (I'm not a heavy smoker, maybe a few a day for several years, with plenty of week-long breaks) so I quit. It got better but not completely better, it was still visible in the back of my throat while the other wasn't. I went to the doctor who prescribed antibiotics (which didn't do much). She said there's no reason to do anything about it unless it's bothering me enough to want surgery. I probably should've mentioned to her that I smoke but I didn't think of it at the time. I highly doubt it's cancer though, I'm young and healthy other than the smoking (I know that sounds ridiculous haha)\n\nSince then, I've been an on-and-off smoker (mostly during exams or nights of drinking) and sometimes my tonsil is fine but other times, like right now, it gets really swollen and uncomfortable. I know that I should stop smoking and that's the plan, but for now can anyone offer any ideas as to what's causing this? Or any advice on how to reduce swelling? I've tried gargling water, vinegar etc. without much improvement.\n\nI should mention I've had tonsilloliths before but have not had any (visible/noticeable) ones in probably over a year.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been secretly seeing a girl who was engaged. Her situation was basically that she was very unhappy with her fiancée but stayed with him due to them having a child together. \n\nNow I don't normally get involved with people in relationships and I felt like an asshole for doing it but I really adore this women so I stuck it out to see if anything would happen. \n\nRecently we have been talking about a future together. Little things like who would do the dishes and who would do the drying. What side of the bed she would have and also bigger things like the fact that I would love to have her son in my life. She also tells me that her son mimics me and he knows how to say my name better then hers. (I have met him before and talked to him over the phone a few times)\n\nWe have been sleeping together for a few months now and other then a few stupid fights we get along really well. Recently she said I love you and I also said it back and it was cute. She also wants to be a big part in my plan to get my own place so I can live by myself. \n\nLess then 24 hours ago her and her fiancée had a talk and they decided to break up, they have a holiday planned together in a few weeks which they still plan to take. \n\nNow comes the hardest part. I know I have to be patient, I know I have to be supportive but I am also unsure what I do and say. How do I act and how long do I wait/ how do I know when she will be ready to commit again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Good day r/Loseit! First post, I had contemplated posting my journey prior to this but I got caught up with other things and didn't see at as entirely necessary but now that I made my previous milestone I am looking for advice/help/suggestions for the future.\n\nI started Jan 1st at a weight of 286 lbs and being in the Military I had to get my act together...or else! I shook my head at myself in the mirror and got to it. I started small and slow, running short distances at slow speed, rode the bike and eliptical for lower impact exercise. I'm now up to a consistent mid-8 mile split when I do my daily three mile and that feels good. Long story short, lost 32 lbs by the time I had my Physical Fitness weigh in and cut a considerable amount from the mid section. Wearing a belt I hadn't been able to fit since Senior yr in college, granted it's on the last hole... but the one I had been wearing is on the opposite end of the spectrum so I'll take a win where I can get one. 286 to 254 in roughly 3 1/2 months. Lost roughly 4- 4 1/2 on the waist.\n\nMy issue now. Since that milestone I've sort of lost my willpower. I haven't stopped running altogether but nowhere near what I was doing prior to the weigh in. Put on about 4-6 lbs but it's holding steady... which is great considering the amount of crap has made it's weight into my diet again. My next goal is to lose around another 25-30 prior to early August for my friends wedding and ultimately I'd like to finish the yr at around 225-230 and about 15%. I'm around 260 and about 21% right now and would like help getting motivated again as well as healthy ways to lean out and lose weight the correct way.\n\nThanks for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO was supposed to visit his best friends today, but held off because we were supposed to see each other. When our plans fell through, he decided to lie to his friends and say he was with me so he wouldn't have to go with them. I, however, was not informed of this lie.\n\nOne of his friends later texted me and asked me if he had already left, and I replied that I hadn't seen him. The two friends got mad at him for lying to them and ditching them, and then my SO got mad at me for not covering him.\n\nSince I wasn't aware of my SO's lie, I answered honestly. I told him this and he got mad for not telling him his friend texted me in the first place. What bothers me about this is the fact that I have to tell him someone talked to me, so he can then regulate my response. \n\nAm I simply overreacting, or is this something more serious?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, long story, but this girl I like went back to where she is from today. \n\nI've been liking her for many months, I think she knows very well that I do like her, because half this time I made many attempts to be with her. \nShe now is my friend (we share friends) and I know she cares for me. I don't want to be one of those persons that complains about the \"friendzone\", I like being her friend but it hurts sometimes.\n\nAt least I would like her to acknowledge that I have feelings for her, and that she treat them with respect.\n\nOf course, I think that deep inside me I would like her to acknowledge that she likes me, but the truth is that she doesn't...\n\nSo reddit, should I write her? even if it's something short? I don't know if I'll meet here again, it could be that she comes back in a month, or maybe I'll never see her again.\n\nI feel guilty for not having the courage of asking her for a time alone last night and said all these things. Also, I'm trying to be more confident, and I feel that taking the \"easy\" way of writing would be counterproductive.\n\nThanks everyone for some insight in this, I'm confused. Also, I'm not an English native.\n\n**She 23, me F 26 (sort of SAP)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So theres this girl i know that i really like. I think she likes me by the fact she comes to talk to me when I'm working at my school, gives me passionate hugs, We spend all our free time together, and we talk all night.\n\nI would ask her out soon, but she told me awhile back that she doesn't believe she is ready for a boyfriend (we have been very open with one another) she says that she is too immature but still continues to flirt and do all those things listed above, She has even invited me to her home an hour away to a BBQ that her parents do every once in awhile. We've also gone out for lunch just the two of us. \n\nI would like to ask her out soon, but I want to do it at the right time. But i also don't know how to ask her out, I'm new at this never had a girlfriend, wanted many but none of them ever worked out. I just want some advice on what to do. BTW known her for a month.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I have a pair of very close friends that we did a lot for (with no expectation of anything more than a thank you) about a year ago when they were getting married. We threw them a shower, I married them (thanks to the internet), and my wife recorded the whole event which we later edited nicely. They recently offered to pay for a nice dinner to repay us. We didn't want to accept but they said that wasn't an option. So they give us a card with a $350 Visa gift card in it and after several rounds of refusal it is clear that they will be offended if we decline.\n\nSo reddit, how can we use this $350 in a way that will make them proud? Some of our thoughts are to get them airbrushed shirts and souvenirs with their names on it, document every penny that we spend and make them a video, buy $350 worth of PBR and hot wings and dedicate the feat to their honor. Hit me with your most creative ideas, we really want to do more than pay for the hotel room.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay. So this happened yesterday, as TIFU's rarely happen onthe day.\n\nIt was late at night and I was waiting for my train home at one of the inner city train stations. My pervious train had been cancelled, and if it hadn't been, this would not have happened.\n\nI was talking to a friend on the phone, both my headphones in so my voice was probably rather loud. We'll call this friend... Larry.\n\nI was telling Larry about Monster Hunter 4, and How myself and other friends name all the monsters after another friend, Jimmy's sexual encounters due to the new mounting mechanic.\n\nAnyway, you should know that Jimmy and Iare really close and we rarely hide stuff from each other. Jimmy told me about another guy, Richy, who is a complete scumbag that has been cheating on his girlfriend for over a year now and she doesn't know. \n\nSo back to Larry. I don't know how we got to the topic of Richy, but I was telling Larry all about how Richard is scum and cheating on his girlfriend, Katie, and she doesn't know. \n\nThis is where the fuck up happened. \nLarry searches their facebook profiles.\n\n\"Oh Knight. They went to the concert tonight, talk about lucky\" \n\nAt this point I realize I've been shit talking someone in public and I turn around.\n\nRICHY AND KATIE ARE SITTING ABOUT 10 CENTIMETRES BEHIND ME AND HEARD EVERYTHING I SAID.\n\nKATIE IS CRYING, RICHY IS GIVING ME DIRTY LOOKS.\n\nI get up and walk to the other end of the platform hoping to avoid an awkward situation. \n\nI call Jimmy to tell him what happened. He pisses himself and tells me that most of the repercussions are going to fall on him and he's going to get shit on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "EDIT: Accidentally broke a rule.\n\nSo I met this girl on the train in my city, wound up chatting, leading to dating, and she has expressed interest in proceeding into the \"real\" long-term relationship stage. \n\nI'm pretty on-board with the idea, except the age difference is kinda messing with my head. I knew from the beginning that she was younger than me, but I didn't realize how much younger at first.\n\nHer attitude is that the law says she's an adult and she is allowed to be with who she wants, and she's right, but there's a voice in my head that is reminding me that she has been an adult for less time than has passed since I las needed to update my vehicle registration.\n\nI mean, I've been out of my parents' house for eight years. I've had enough time to serve a stint in the military, move around the world, and start my own small business. It's not bragging to say I have loads more world experience than she does. It is just a statement of fact.\n\nJust for the record, I'm not a Jerk. I am not and will not hold that experience over her head. I do and always will respect her. I am not trying to exploit her youth. And she is much more mature than her age would suggest.\n\nShe holds that she is perfectly happy with me and doesn't see the age as a problem. She doesn't feel exploited. \n\nAm I wrong here, or is this an okay relationship? I really need some outside perspective, because I do really want to be with this girl for the foreseeable future.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have recently lost a good amount of weight [cw 138 lbs. sw 205lbs]. I was a sweet fat girl and I'm still nice. I've been getting a lot more attention from guys lately. Recently I went to my SO's 10 year high school reunion where upon my husband was openly congratulated by a drunk guy for 'scoring' me. I thought this was super flattering and would never imagine in my wildest dreams this would happen to me in real life. I was having a reasonably good time until my husband decided he needed to go to the bathroom. I was sitting alone at one of the party tables playing a game on my iPod touch when ol' drunky comes up from behind and places his hands squarely on my shoulders and says, \"Where's your husband.\" After telling him he's in the bathroom drunky says, \"Well that's too bad.\" In a super fucking creepy voice. So I move to shrug his hands off of me and they don't budge. So I get up and start walking and drunky starts following me! He stopped following me when I walk up to a group of guys talking. At first I thought this incident was funny. Haha some drunk guy being silly but then it really scared me. I was practically invisible before , just another fat girl. But now, people see me, men see me and most of them are nice but some of them are definitely not. I've never had to really fear for my safety until recently and it's truly bizarre. I really understand why hot girls are such assholes all the time now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Warning: potential spoiler for game of thrones \n\nA friend of mine has a bad habit of overextending himself and then not telling people that he considers their plans \"canceled,\" leaving them to figure it out for themselves. He'll then come up with some bullshit excuse the next day explaining why he couldn't uphold his obligation and why he didn't let them know. I've witnessed him do this plenty of times, so unfortunately he's developed a \"boy who cried wolf\" syndrome in my mind. \n\nAnyway, he called me yesterday saying how he hasn't seen me in a while (which is because of him pulling shit like what's mentioned above) and asking if he could come over to hang out and watch the game of thrones episode together. I said of course, and asked if he had any weed I could buy--\"yup, 6 kinds.\" Okay, perfect, 'cuz we're dry. At 7:30 he says he's leaving his house (show airs at 9), I think, \"great, he's gonna be early for once.\" 8:30, still not there, text him, no answer. Uh oh. 9:00, episodes starting, still not here. Call him twice, text him, no response. There it is: he's officially not showing up. Luckily another friend, who really is a friend, had come over, had some extra bud and was more than willing to share. We all cheered as a certain scumbag choked to death. \n\nFast forward to 12:30 am, about 3 and a half hours later, douchebag texts me saying \"sorry man I fell asleep.\" Bullshit. My response: \"word. [GoT character] died.\" I knew he had gone somewhere else to watch it, so it wasn't really a spoiler, but it was extremely satisfying to see him squirm and try to pretend like I had spoiled it for him. \n\nSuch sweet vengeance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok Reddit; You seem to know way more about science than me and I trust that a lot of you can answer this question to your own satisfaction but you may not manage to educate me if you assume that I have the same scientific education as you. My formal science education stopped 11 years ago when I was 16 years old. Since then it has been what I happened across and conversations with scientists. (I love learning through conversations). Please go slow explaining this...\n\nHere's my understanding of the principles of evolution theory;\n\nIf you live to make babies who live, well done your genes are passed on. If you don't, sad times mr, your genes are no longer contributing anything.\n\nIf a certain gene gives you an advantage over your competitors for a mate or for a dwelling or for surviving a winter etc then they will help you to survive and make a baby or two. This way the genes that are helpful slowly are preserved whilst the genes which do not help or even hinder slowly get weeded out. It's good it's logical and I'm happy. Until...\n\nI'm considering the final stages of human evolution; At some point we got quite ahead of the curve. We're much more intelligent and adaptable than our closest evolutionary relative right? We have developed technology like weapons and clothes. We can adapt much better. So at some point our competition stopped being with the other species I think and was only down to who got to sleep with yonder hottie and who survived that snow storm last winter. Perhaps it was also to do with fights over who get's to sleep in this part of the valley.\n\nMy point is. There's a huge amount of lovely inhabitable fertile world out there. Once we beat the apes even by 25% of the advantage we have over them now, why did we continue to evolve so far in advance of them? Our competition with fellow humans is surely not fierce enough? Only now are we really in a place where the population is unsustainable. Why would we have evolved before now?\n\nI apologise if this is long and meandering. I wish I knew the short hand for explaining these ideas.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long time lurker, made an account to tell this and hopefully stop stressing so much. So I'm a junior in High school, and a clumsy one at that. Yesterday during marching drill before actual practice began, me and some friends were all sitting outside in the small parking lot we have for band and sports personnel. The lot had been empty up until a few minutes before \"the event\" happened. I never noticed a car had come in, and was talking with a friend. Keeping eye contact and walking backwards at a moderate pace as she followed. Last second she yells \"PintoBean, STOP!\" and I quickly stop, stumble over my foot and fall straight back... into a car. I somehow made a 2 1/2ft wide 1ft tall 1/2in thick dent in the back door of this car (I'm about 5' 10\" and 145lbs). I limp my way inside to get the owner of the car, and he seems fine with it and just wants me to cover insurance/ damages if needed, perfect, no issues, just a small mishap. This was reported to the office as an incident and I'm called in the next morning (day I'm posting) and he's in there, they contact my parents, clear things up, and I give the car owner my parents info to talk about insurance and what to do, the school at this point was just a medium for us to work this out through. So later that day I'm called into the office for the school police officer along with the friend I was talking to. We walk in with the principle I talked with in the morning. We are seated, the officer explains everything, tells us to be calm and we can work this out, average stuff. About near the end of him clearing things up, he breaks part of the news (couldn't tell us everything without the presence of a parent/ guardian) that the owners mom is choosing to go through Juvenile Services and charge me as a criminal instead of just working out insurance. I await tomorrow in which everything will be worked out and my future behold. I'll update if you guys want or not", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I just got out of a long relationship that I knew was failing for a while. I told myself that I wouldn't start seeing anybody anytime soon, but I've met someone that I get along with really really well, and that I like a lot- and I'm not about to throw away an opportunity if I'm not still heartbroken (which I'm honestly not) over my last boyfriend. \n\nMy problem is that I don't know what the intentions of this new guy are. We've only been talking for about a week, and he's in town just for summer and I'm assuming holidays because he goes to a school out of town. He's told me he's a virgin, but he's so gorgeous that it's almost hard for me to believe. My question is as to why, after only a few dates, he's already told me this info. Would it be because he's ready to lose it to someone he's comfortable with, or because he sees a future (whether it be short or long, whatever) between us? I asked him why he hadn't lost it yet, as he's almost 19, and he said that it was because he hasn't really felt that it was the right time with anyone else. \n\nBasically my dilemma is that I really like him, but I'm not sure if he's trying to just use me to lose his virginity to someone that isn't totally random and then go back to school. I know I should talk to him, but I feel like its too soon... And I think he wants to have sex relatively quickly into this. He's already hinted and told me that he wants to. \n\nI just don't want to end up hurt!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been engaged for a year and started off planning a medium wedding with 75 people. We had to move the wedding up by 4 months as of last October thanks to Obama care (that or pay a $300 fine). We also are passing for the bulk of things ourselves as no one offered to help us, and realized that to keep the list that size was at least $3000 more than we could manage. We cut the list down to 35, essentially immediate family and wedding party plus those helping us. due to family drama we bumped it up to 50 which still worked as that is how much our catering package and venue hold (max). Things were finally coming together and I was feeling good about getting this done. I am exactly a month away from the wedding, invites have all been received, and now my mom decided that my list is still to small and she will pay for extra catering and cake and whatever else we need to double our guest list. My max is 50, to do that, I would have to completely start over in planning, again and I only have a month and would essentially have to contact everyone and tell them to throw away the invite they just got and replace it with whatever we figure out. I would need a new venue, New church, possibly new time and catering. I don't even know who would be invited! \nI just don't know what to do!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay... Long story short.\n\nMy wife was a school teacher but hated her life. At this time i was working full time and working on my degree. Well things flip flopped around and I ended up going to part time at work because I needed 50 credit hours to graduate and it was either get it done in one year or, because of prereqs, get it done in 2 1/2. After I moved to part time we got pregnant (planned) and my wife decided that she couldn't do the teaching thing anymore so she switched jobs. We were not thinking of the insurance implications. \n\nWe went from $90 a month to $750 for the three of us... thats right $750. We tried to split it up because coverage for her and the baby is $320 and my employer will offer me insurance for $380. We still couldnt budget that. So i go to the healthcare.gov website and apply but because my employer offers coverage i get no discount. I am now officially paying $175 for the worlds worst insurance only to avoid paying premium increase on our house and car insurance as well as the stupid tax for not having any. At this point I am wondering if it is even worth it to have a job because even though I would lose my part time income of 29k we could save 12k per year in day care costs and who knows, maybe get free health care (this of course really isn't an option)\n\nI would like to know if there is some sort of advocacy service that can help me navigate the insurance system so that I can get my family affordable insurance without paying over 15% of our annual income.\n\nSorry if this comes across ranty but i just get discouraged when two people who try to plan, go to school, contribute to society, and stay employed end up getting shafted this hard when they simply want to get a pair of glasses and some back adjustments.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I already posted this to r/deadbedrooms, but I figured I would post it here as well. \nOk, i'm honestly very confused and I'm not sure whether I'm being childish or whether my concerns are warranted. I (23M) have been dating my girlfriend (24F) for just about six months. For pretty much the entire relationship we have been having sex around two to three a week. The frequency of our sex has remained relatively consistent throughout or relationship, although as of recently is becoming less frequent. \n Whats bothering me the most though is her lack of interest when it comes to sex. At the beginning of our relationship she would often be the first to initiate via flirty texts, kissing ect. But as of recently She has shown practically no interest in sex. I will try to initiate but more often than not i'll get shut down. And when we do have sex it feels like she does it just to appease me. Like she'll say \"I guess we can have sex if you want to\" which to me is a total turn off. \n I feel like it is important to note that she has told me time and time again that this is the best sex of her life (she gets off almost every time) and she is completely happy with our sex life. Like I said earlier I'm not sure whether we are heading towards a dead bedroom or whether I am being paranoid. Obviously I have a Higher sex drive then her and although I would love to have sex more often, I understand that her sex drive is lower and I'm fine with twice a week. I just don't understand why it seems like she never actually wants to have sex. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Firstly, I knew this girl from college and high school but we never hung out directly, I actually had a bit of a crush on one of her flatmates when we met. I only started hanging out with her about a year or so ago when she was coming to the end of a messy break up. \n\nWe became good friends, we hung out and smoked up together. We went on road trips, out for meals and really got on really well. I stupidly moved too soon and within a few months of intense texting and hanging out, I told her that I liked her. She said her head was still in a mess and we put aside our amazing friendship for a while to \"cool down\". The problem, is that nothing really cooled down, she picked right back from where we left off the following week as if the conversation the week prior had never happened.\n\nLots of texting, lots of flirting, still going out on \"dates that are not actually dates\" and alike. This has been going on a few months and I really really like this chick, but I dont want to move in too quickly again. I get great vibes 99% of the time, and sometimes it can really feel like we are a couple. (Despite not being a couple) Just recently she has started mentioning other guys to me, despite her still being quite cute and affectionate towards me & wanting to make future plans with me (this week, next week, next month, next year) . She even mentioned that she was texting a guy who \"doesnt really suit her\" and that she doesnt really have any interest in him, despite my amazing ability of changing the subject, she still doesnt seem to get the hint that I dont really want to hear about him.\n\nIt feels like ive waited in limbo forever and now my chance has just wizzed by. Or maybe it hasnt? I just dont understand why she would want to spend so much time with me, do cool things with me, be cute and make future plans with me & then kicks me in the balls by telling me about other guys who hit on her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We had been known each other for a about a year, flirting and hanging out consistently for about 4 months. We went on a number of dates, and the morning after the last one, I received the dreaded \"friend-zone\" text, saying that she thought of me as more of a brother than a romantic interest. She dodged a few questions, and without much fanfare blocked me on facebook/shut me out of her life. I was devastated, with no answers and closure, I spent the next month in a bad spot. \n\nI heard on Tuesday through a mutual friend that she'd be willing to talk about things. I contacted her today, and we met and she finally answered my questions. \n\nShe did like me. She did have feelings for me, and she was excited to explore these feelings and go on dates with me. She had an excellent time on the last date we went on, until she got home and her roommates told her that it was obvious that I was crushing on her. Apparently the favors I would do for her, that she didn't realize until her friends pointed them out, somehow changed her mind about her feelings for me. I am incredibly confused about what this means. I don't understand how realizing that someone you are interested reciprocates is a turn off. If someone can explain this to me, I'll be in a much better place, because right now, I'm confused and hurt.\n\nI already have all of the \"she's playing you man, just move on\" confirmation bias I could ever need with the other people in my life, so I don't want to see that here. I'm looking for answers from people who have insight into the change of heart that happened, and explain how it makes sense.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and this is my first real relationship. I met him when I was attending college through friends and we started dating around my junior year. He lives with parents, but he works full time (he's not very wise with his finances). He's always talked about moving out but honestly, it doesn't seem like he's going anywhere because he basically lives paycheck to paycheck. He buys video games, weed, and eletronics that he only messes around with for a short period of time. Since he lives with his parents he relies on his mom to do his laundry, to cook him food, and clean his room/bathroom. But isn't 27 too old for that? Or am I being too judgmental? \n\nI really do love my boyfriend and this is the first time where I've felt like I can truly love someone (I come from an abused childhood). However, whenever I bring up the fact that he should try to save his money, he gets upset and starts arguing with me. This worries me. Since this is my first real relationship, I'm not quite sure what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my friend go way back, around 8-9 years or so, last year I lost my virginity to her as a drunken one night stand. We keep being friends and get past all that, I had a brief relationship and so did she. the same thing happened a few months ago too and we hooked up again. This time however we are quite open and flirty with each other over Skype/texts etc (she lives in a different city to me)\n\nLast week we admitted that we had feelings for each other. She hooks up with a lot of guys as one night stands and that's all cool and fine but she says that she doesn't know if she could commit to a long distance relationship. Because we have been incredibly close friends for quite a long time we decided that she should visit me in January (she is off on a work expedition for a month) and see how it goes. We've booked tickets and everything and I'm super pumped but I still have a little niggle. \n\nShe's clearly open to the idea of being in a relationship with me but still has reservations whereas I am falling for her kinda hard. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Gf[26/f] and I are together for 8 years. Some time before meeting her, I had a long distance relationship with a girl but only met once. This is important because the wanting to really meet at least once and get down to business was great. A couple of years went by and I finally had an opportunity to meet that girl and I didn't let it slip. This happened only once and it worked as a closure to me and the other girl.\n\nYesterday when telling her how the sex went, I changed the timeline so it won't conflict with our relationship, to which my gf said So you lied to me, I was not your first :(, this really hit me hard.\n\nWe are in our first relationship, we were both virgins when we met and we did a lot of first things together. So this is part of our history together and I think this is important.\n\nQuestion: I don't want her to think she was not my first girl, but if I tell her I cheated on her, will it be worse? Sounds dumb, but I' am at a loss right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for a little less than a year, on and off, and have been FWB for two. Have broken up once before, got back together at Thanksgiving. We don't have plans to see each other on V-day - he'll be working all day, and lives a 12 hour drive away, and I have to work this weekend. I told him I would drive up next weekend, and he is planning our \"V-day\" already. I am certain that I want to end the relationship; however, he does genuinely care about me/love me and I want to minimize the damage. Would it be better to get it out of the way now, via Skype, or should I drive up next weekend and then tell him? I'm worried that it will be worse if I come up, he's planned a great V-day event, and I ruin his weekend. Is it a dick move to end it via skype? I know the timing is terrible, but I really don't want to hold out, miserably, for another month just because of a Hallmark holiday.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been dating for more than 3 years, and we went to the same colleges we are going to this year. She goes to college 2.5 hours south of our home town and I go to college 2.5 hours north of our home town.\n\nLast year when we were leaving it was extremely hard. I never cry, and I cried for about 10 minutes. I kept feeling like I was never going to see her again. It was terrible.\n\nThis year I thought it would be easier because we have already been through it and it turned out alright, but I'm starting to get that feeling again. It feels the same as it did last year. I'm going to miss her a lot.\n\nWe both love our respective colleges, and both give us the best financial options (she has a full ride and I have my tuition paid for). I have often considered putting myself in even greater debt by transferring to her school just to be with her. I still think about it. Or if she transferred to my college.\n\nSo is there any way to help how we feel about it? What should I do? Is it something I'm basically gonna have to deal with?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need help!\n\nCurrently, I am living together with my girlfriend of 5 years and 6 months. I still love her. Deeply. Sharing my life with her is fun, and has always been beautiful. We reached adulthood together and after graduating school we decided to move in together to study in two close cities.\nBut with the start of university I met new people and one girl in particular sparked my interest. \n\nToday, after 8 months of studying and living together with my gf, I am best friends with this particular girl. We laugh a lot and spend a lot of time together, even outside of university. I often thought about, if I am starting to feel more for her than just friendship but quickly buried these thoughts whenever they came up...\nBut I want to, or atleast try to be completly honest with myself and I definetly feel attracted toward her. Both sexually as well as emotionally.\n\nThen, a few days ago we were at her place studying together like we often do, for the upcoming tests. We chatted for a bit and she admitted that she fell in love with me and had a crush on me since the beginning of the degree course. Vice versa I admitted that I DO have feelings for her but that I do not love her and instead love the relationship I currently have and want to keep.\nShe was devastated (never had a boyfriend, hoped for more etc...) and I soothed her. We came each other closer than before and suddenly kissed for a brief moment...\n\nI do not know what to do or think since then... :(\nI feel like I am in love with two persons at the same time and I can not and simply do not want to decide myself for either side.\nI feel so lost and alone in my own thoughts. I do not know what the right decision is. \nAlso, I feel bad and unfaithful. I never wanted to cheat (even if it was just a kiss) on my girlfriend. She does not deserve this. \nBut I can not forget the other girl since then. Maybe I reallly fell in love with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm absolutely devastated after finally ending things with my on-again-off-again, very dysfunctional relationship with my first love. We met 3 weeks into my freshman year of college, began as FWB and evolved from there. He was a senior who still has yet to graduate or know where he's going with his life; I'm now going into my senior year after securing an amazing summer internship with plans of going to grad school, etc.. Very different places in our lives, but that's not the point. We were just fire and ice, constantly at each other's throats, and it wasn't healthy, no matter how insane our chemistry was and how much passion we had for each other.\n\nI lost my virginity to this boy. He was my first love, first everything. I'm terrified I'll never meet someone who understands me the way he does. I've never had to deal with a breakup like this. Ever. I've cried for 3 solid days and just want the world to swallow me whole because I feel like I threw away something so rare and crazy and beautiful. But this is what my mom told me:\n\n\"Sometimes we grieve more for the loss of what the relationship could have been rather than what it actually was.\"\n\nAnd it really hit me that maybe that's what I was grieving for the most. I loved the fuck out of him but we just clashed so horribly all the time that I would have been miserable staying in the relationship as well. In my head, I saw what we could have been if one or two or three things had been different. But they weren't things I could change. So there's no point in me pining for this ideal of a relationship we never would have been able to achieve... although I guess I'll never know if we could have or not.\n\nJust a thought. Maybe some people will find this helpful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me start at the beginning. My boyfriend and I adopted our cat Spike in January of this year from the shelter, he will be a year old in October. The shelter spayed him before we took him home and he had no problems when we took him home. He can be a little asshole at times, but thats all cats. We moved from Indiana to Texas this May to a home with 1 cat and her litter of 5 kittens. Roomies got rid of 4 kittens but had to foster another pregnant cat, whose kittens are currently up for adoption (other momma cat was about to get fixed but ended up preggers again, waiting for that litter currently). He started peeing on roommates daughter's bed in June but we figured it was him marking his territory. A few weeks later, he peed on the roommates bed. Again, we thought it was just him marking. Until he started doing it on our bed. Every day. Took him to the vet to check everything out and he has a UTI. Started him on antibiotics about a week ago. For a few days he was going back in the box (we uncovered it and clean it everyday). A couple days ago, he peed on the pillows so they got thrown in the washer. Then last night, right in front of me, he peed on the sheets. Depending on if he stops or not, he's scheduled for another UA on Tuesday. Money is a factor right now. Me and boyfriend were wondering if there was anything we could use to discourage him from peeing on the bed again. We were going to look into Feliaway but have read mixed reviews and dont want to spend money we dont have on something that may or may not work. Hes fine with the kittens, he loves playing with them. So anything that wont cost an arm and a leg would be greatly appreciated. We are at our wits' end as to what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend Robert and I have been together for two years this coming October. Last November, he moved to another city 3 hours away for a better paying job, but he totally regrets the decision and now is actively looking for jobs in the city that I live and we met in.\n\nI just graduated from college in August and I'm currently renting out a room in a couple's townhouse, but have already started making arrangements to move in with a girl friend after she graduates from college in January. Naturally, since I'm in a LDR and just graduated, people ask me questions about how Robert and I are doing and what I'm doing next. After I tell them that my boyfriend is moving back, they ask if we're moving in together. I say no, and most people are pretty shocked, asking me why wouldn't I want to move in together since we must miss each other so much? People will actively engage in a conversation with me about how weird we are and it really annoys me. I never thought people would be so shocked at mine and Robert's decision.\n\nRobert and I have talked about the possibility of moving in together and we both agree that neither of us are ready. We're both trying to build our careers and think that going from LDR to living together is way too drastic of a change. Also, Robert broke up with me last year around my birthday; we got back together six weeks after. Although I've forgiven him, I still have suppressed feelings about it and deep down it still hurts a bit. I'd be lying if I said that doesn't factor into my decision not to move in together just now.\n \nMy question is, what's the typical timetable for a couple to live together? I know every couple is different, but what is the general consensus? Also, we're not the type of couple that needs to be married before we move in together, that much we know for sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Years ago and all that. \n\nI was at a music festival I've been going to for years, and competing in their poetry slam which I had done a number of times and had started to get recognized. \n\nNow, I had just got a wisdom tooth removed and I was on painkillers. \n\nFor those of you who have never seen a poetry slam, it's multiple poets performing pieces and there are a number of judges that give you a score, top ten or so go to the next round, two or three rounds, and you can win things. These events are hosted by someone from the local poetry scene and they MC the event. \n\nFirst round, I nailed it. Did a very long piece called Meladies that I'm rather proud of. It was a long double entendre about picking up girls and writing music. It's tasteful but boy is it suggestive. I was 3rd place out of maybe 20 in the first round. \n\nSecond round, I go immediately after a girl who did an amazing and moving piece about equality and fair treatment. \n\nIt should be noted here that the co host of this particular slam was a rather attractive poet that I most definitely had a thing for at the time. She even seemed a little wooed by my first piece! Score! \n\nSo it's my turn, and me, trying to get some cool points with aforementioned co host, say \"Man let's give it up to these hosts, they're killing it.\" \n\nDead silence. Awkward. \n\nI do my second piece, nothing in particular, just some rhythm and rhyme. Decent scores, snaps during it and all that. \n\nThen the co host girl gets up and says \"Uh did you say hoes or hosts?\" \n\nApparently I slur my words when I'm on drugs. I already looked like a man slut after lines like \"I can cop two in a pinch, at the same time like, wanna split a seven inch?\" and \"So I started rhyming, bumping that back seat rhythm, cus I have a way with words, then I have my way with them.\" Then I call a girl a hoe after she does a passionate piece about equal rights.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have just under 48 hours to make a decision that could forever alter the course of my life.\n\nI've been offered a financially lucrative position in a beautiful country that I believe I could enjoy living in. Personally, things aren't so great at home, so were it not for my boyfriend, I would be jumping at the offer.\n\nI've been in an on-again/off-again relationship for four years. He was my first kiss, first everything. I fell hard and never really got back up. We recently decided to try dating again after about a year of pretty much dating without the label.... however, I don't think a relationship (not just with me, with anyone) is what he wants. I think I pressured him into it.\n\nSo I have this offer. This dream job. But on the other hand, I have a chance at stability and finally being with the man I love more than my own life. I've never lived in a foreign country and honestly the thought terrifies me. But... what if I stay here? What if the relationship doesn't work out and I'm left here wondering.... what if? for the rest of my life? What if I move and, again, I'm wondering what if? but this time about the relationship?\n\nI really just don't know what to do. I'm so torn. I can't eat or sleep, it's almost some sort of cosmic joke. Why would this offer come right when I have a chance with the person I've dreamed of for years? I just... I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "No, this isn't a mispost meant for /r/r4r. =P\n\nYes, I'm a recruiter, but I try to be one of the good ones, please don't hate me for my industry.\n\nI'm trying to move into / be more effective in what business types like to call 'the mobile space'. I admittedly don't know as much about the inner workings of each OS, why a developer might prefer Gingerbread over iOS for a specific app, and a whole bunch more. Not just app development, either, but product development, OS engineering, testing, even mobility sales and sales support, anything. I don't know much, but I'd like to learn. Not because I'll ever be even close to as knowledgeable as you folks, but because I'd like to be knowledgeable enough to speak intelligently to companies - on my behalf, and on yours.\n\nAttending conferences and meetups is in my future, but just chatting with some intelligent folks is a good place to start, and a great way to network. In theory, if this works out, I'll turn into a good resource with lots of connections into the hiring managers looking for mobility folks.\n\nSo, anyone want to be friends? Or have a friend who might consider chatting with me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have a group chat with about 8 of my Internet friends and my boyfriend. Except for my boyfriend, everyone else is scattered around the world and my country. Two of these friends were in a long distance relationship for 3 months until recently (the boy broke it off because of distance). \n\nEver since this happened, they are both relatively friendly until one or the other brings up someone they're interested in. They're constantly arguing and making sly, passive aggressive remarks at each other. Honestly, it's making talking to them both at the same time rather unpleasant.\n\nI do like both of these people, I just want to be able to talk to them without some stupid fight breaking out. I personally think one should leave or both should leave, but they're both wanted by others in the chat. \n\nPlease help Reddit, this situation is like walking around a room full of gas holding a match.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my cousin is getting married and while I'm really happy for her I don't think I'm responsible enough to take on the MOH role. I'm in school and also have a job. I've never even been to a wedding! Her friends organized a surprise engagement party for her and I feel horrible for not partaking. I just feel an immense amount of pressure and to be honest I don't necessarily want the responsibility. \n\nMy cousin knows this, yet still gives me hints that I should start organizing something. I don't even know where to begin. I have too much on my plate right now really need to get my shit together. I know she will get really upset if I tell her I can't do it. \n\nWhat do I do Reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My weakest attribute is I can never seem to name things... I still cannot think of something I wouldn't get sick of in a few weeks and I have been attempting to do this since Xbox Live came out back in 2002. I have been using my brothers account since then but he stopped paying for it so now I really need to think of one (or let you guys do it if this gets enough attention). Going for not-too-serious but not-too-silly. I am turning to you guys for this. Even if you don't want to at least upvote this [self] post to increase my chances for people to see this and I can get a variety of responses instead of the two people who look in the new section. I am sick of the name \"daughtercrown01\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex boyfriend and I dated for about 3 years and it did have a lot of issues because of us both being so young for the duration. I broke things off before I left for college this fall and simply explained that I thought we both needed to grow and expand on our own a little bit, because we had become too reliant on one another. As many new people as I have talked to, there is nobody personality or interest wise that I click with or that I do not have to compensate for many of their traits which I never had to do with him. I feel as though we've both grown up a lot in the time we've spent apart and truly want to rekindle our relationship. I think being together from ages 14-18 for me and 17-21 for him called for a break but I miss him more than anything in the world and want nothing more than to pick up where we left off. Is it insane of me to think that anything good could come out of it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "brief background: met James earlier this year through OkCupid. we went on a phenomenal date, had great sex, and were both pretty into each other. James is bipolar and lives two hours away, and a few days after our great date, he told me that he didn't think he was stable enough for a relationship with that much distance (he's an artist so money is sporadic). I was pretty bummed, deleted him off of Facebook, and moved on.\n\nfast forward to last week. I started dating someone after James and that relationship ended last week. by coincidence, a few days later James reached out to me to ask how I was and to say he'd been thinking about me. we decide we should hang out in the next few days and meet in the middle at a hotel (to spare the distance and because I needed to get out of my house). we get drunk, have sex, cuddle, have a great time, even spend the next day together going to a few shops.\n\nnow James and I are talking about striking up a FWB arrangement, but I guess I'm a little concerned. the emotions weren't there when we hung out last week but I think that has a lot to do with my relationship recently ending and I have a feeling that if we have sex regularly knowing that we already had strong feelings for each other at one point, it's going to turn into a relationship. I guess I just don't know if you can have one without the other in this situation.\n\nany advice? anyone been in this situation and can share their experience? I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with James way down the line and I think he knows that, but obviously with the distance and his instability, it's a little hard to gauge.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this FU doesn't happened yesterday or the day after tomorrow.It happened six years ago when I was in the 7th grade.So it was diwali back then and in diwali we all play with a lot of fireworks.\nMy uncle Sam who was my next door neighbour brought a huge amount of rockets and crackers.My cousins started burning the lot.As I was quite small back then so I was not allowed to play with fireworks.So the naughty mode in me got ON.I took 3-4 rockets and went to our street and started burning them.Uncle Sam lives at the opposite side of our house.As I preparing to burn the biggest one my cousins came and saw me doing it.They all urge me not to burn it as I was inexperienced in handling them.But I ignore them and carry on with it.I put the rocket in an empty bottle (to hold) and light it up.I don't remember exactly what happened after that.But remembering now I think due to a strong breeze of air the rocket fell on the ground and it was about to blow up. We all were scared shitless to go and put it off.And as soon as I took a step it went on like the Flash and at the same time Uncle Sam opened his door and came outside.The rocked projectiled it way and landed on my Uncle's Tatas and it caught fire. And that moment was un-seen.He ran like lightening screaming My dick's on fire and somersaulted into the kid's pool.He got 2nd degree burn.\n\nI was grounded for a month.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's my story, I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 10 months now, before I met her I was lovestruck with this one girl, I tried to get het for about 6 months but I'm shy as fuck and so it didn't happen. So I met my now girlfriend, totally fell in love with her. She's really great. As you can imagine i havn't thought about the other girl for a pretty long time, until about 4 months ago, I saw her at a party and we talked for a while had good laugh and so on. Since then I think of her more and more, saw her a few other times. Now I can't get her out of my head, I dream about her I think about her, I often just randomly go to her facebook page just to look at her face. Now the thing that scares me the most, the last 2 times when I slept at my girlfriends place i dreamt of her while sleeping with my girlfriend in my arms. \n\nThat's pretty much it, I just really don't know what to do.\n\nBy the way the other girls has a boyfriend, but it's always very flirty when we see each other and we just ramdomly smile at each other.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For a few financial reasons, my husband and I are considering a legal divorce. There are two aspects to this: will it help us in the way I think it will, and are there other ways to obtain similar benefits as a married couple has. \n\nThe thought process: \nPrimarily, my husband just graduated college in December with nearly $100,000 in loans, about half through Sallie Mae. I did not cosign on any of these. Since he has not found a job as of yet and only has a couple months left before repayment begins, the thought is that if we remain married, they will a) consider my income when evaluating deferment or income-based repayment, and b) hold me liable for the loans after a certain time period (10 years, I believe?). If we divorce now, my income -should- no longer be considered in repayment and I won't be held accountable for the loans since they were entirely his, entirely used for his tuition, and I have received no benefit.\n\nYes, I know our taxes will go up, but I'm guessing not the $800 - $1000 a month his payments will be.\n\nAdditionally, at the moment he is carried on my insurance because Covered California counts my income and it makes him ineligible. If we divorce, theoretically he could then qualify for subsidized insurance, possibly at a lower cost than my coverage. \n\nIf this is correct and we decide to divorce, are there other documents we can have to ensure certain benefits - Power of attorney, medical rights, etc. I know tax rates and insurance aren't possible to affect, but what other documents can serve to ensure we have rights to make hospitalization/medical decisions and financial decisions should the need arise?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all,\n\nSome background: my girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now, dating for about 3 total. The distance has certainly been tough, and we tend to only see each other every couple months. \n\nThe story:\n\nWithin the last year, she had befriended one of her coworkers and they got pretty close. She's gone through a rough patch with some health stuff, etc, and he was basically who she relied on to help, since I couldn't be directly there. Recently though, when she was having a bad night, he came over and they ended up kissing. From what she's said, she immediately cut things off there and had him leave. Since then, he's quit their place of work and many of her coworkers have turned on her saying that she \"led him on\". They don't talk anymore so as far as I can tell, she thought of him as a friend and he thought of her as more than that.\n\nNow, she feels totally alienated and has lost a good friend. I'm honestly not even that upset with the kiss, since she immediately told me about it. What I'm struggling with is that now she seems to be taking her frustrations out on me. Last month when I visited, she was incredibly distant, and still really upset regarding losing a close friend and having work now be a tough environment. She basically avoided any and all physical contact, but has said that she still loves me and that things are ok. I've been as supportive as I possibly can be, and I think very understanding regarding the whole kissing another person situation. But honestly, I'm not sure how to handle this. Should I just continue to be as supportive as possible right now? I really love this girl and I don't want to come off as being needy or selfish. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "How do you break up with someone if they are the only person you've been close to in the past 4 years, if they have a shit family or no place to really call home? I am afraid I will ruin him. I can't think of life without him yet I feel we are toxic to each other.\n\nMy parents do not approve of him, say he brings nothing to the table for me and that I am not responsible for his life. It has put so much strain on our relationship throughout the years and I have found myself exhausted. Their strict rules have also been extremely troublesome/stressful for us and I am often pushed to my limits in order to maintain a balanced relationship between family and bf but more often than not one of them suffers.\n\nI do not know if I'm trying to make things work between us because I feel guilty and responsible for him, or if I'm just afraid of what will happen if I let him go, or if we are actually meant to stay together and work through these hard times. Things have escalated in the past few weeks and this fate has become more imminent than ever. His unstable living situation is putting so much stress on the both of us. We have dealt with distance for the past 3 years horribly. I play a division 1 sport in college and have a ridiculous schedule while he has not been able to hold down a job for more than two months because of unfortunate variables relating to his shitty living situation. It will be a huge pivoting point in both of our lives if things end but I feel as if we are stuck in some awful loop of shitty circumstance and I do not know how to get out of it.\n\nI'm sorry if this sounds pathetic this is the first time I've tried writing this. I really have no one to talk to and am in desperate need of advice. \n\nI am at my wits end. He is so important to me and I just want to do what will be best for both of us in the end.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway cause she reddits.... Basically I met her through work (different departments so rarely do we interact and we have different bosses) and we talked and had some things in common. Afterwards I emailed her to see if she would want to climb the next day, she texted me and we went twice over the course of a week and a half. Our third time hanging out we also got dinner and drinks and when I drove her home I kissed her goodnight. Thought things were going well. We texted a little the following days and then I asked about plans Sunday night (on Thursday or Friday) she said no plans so I texted that I'd love to get dinner. Didn't hear from her so Sunday afternoon I retexted and she basically said she couldn't make it, so I said that's fine how about getting together Monday or Tuesday. Haven't heard anything back. I have this weekend off so would love to hang out with her. Is it worth trying again? Do I wait to see if she gets back to me? Like I said we did have some good texting after our last date so I am confused as to what happened. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A friend of mine went on a date with a guy from OK Cupid. Eventually they got back to his place and had unprotected sex, at his request. Later, she told him that she wasn't interested in dating, and he flipped out and sent her a ton of messages calling her a slut. One of the messages said something along the lines of \"oh, lucky you I guess, because I'm not exactly healthy ;) \" \n\nThis obviously freaked her out, so she went to get tested and found out he gave her chlamydia. A week or so later we find out that another girl we know was dating him at the SAME TIME he hooked up with my friend. This girl thought her relationship with him was exclusive. She also said he insisted on unprotected sex with her. \n\nNow we are all afraid he is going around and intentionally giving women STI's. Is there anything we can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Things have always been good with us, the start of the relationship had it's up and downs with some health/money/family issues but it never really got us down and we kept going strong. Unfortunately these issues did result in us living together after about a week of us getting together so we never got that new relationship experience with each other. On top of that we also had his dad move in with us so we never got any real alone time. We moved to make the situation better on us and it helped but now it's started to get harder. We're not holding proper conversations anymore and we just don't know what to do when we are together so it gets boring quickly and it's starting to make us unhappy. We've tried thinking of things that can help but neither of us are good at this and it keeps resulting in us blaming the start we had and wondering how we could have that now to bring the spark back, but the only option we have come up with is moving apart and starting again which neither of us really want to do. We do love each other, and this is hurting both of us and we just want to make things better again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little history: dated two years long distance, finally going to the same school. He has a lot of Mormon friends, so his friend group has dwindled because they're all on their missions.\n\nBasically, it's down to me, my SO, and his friend (we'll call him Jake). When the three of us hang out one of two things will happen; either Jake feels like a third wheel because my boyfriend and I will hold hands (which is the only sign of affection we ever show each other in front of people), or I feel like a third wheel if we don't hold hands, because my boyfriend will pay more attention to Jake and talk more to him. I try to involve myself in their conversations, but when they talk about basketball and working out there's really not much I can do. \n\nIt's come down to my boyfriend deciding that the three of us can't hang out together anymore because at the end of the night either Jake or I will be unhappy. What am I supposed to do? How do I make things better? I really dislike the fact that it's come down to this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: I'm originally from Maryland, but I just came back from doing a summer internship in Boston. In late July, I met this woman from OKC.. we were sexting pics within a couple days of first contact and at first I thought all this was going to be was a hookup because of the way things started. When I first saw her in real life she ended up being a lot bigger than I anticipated and I quickly noted that she was not my ideal body type but I still enjoyed the sex.\n\nAfter sex, we just laid on my bed and talked for about 3-4 hours. We found that we had a lot in common and I realized that I actually enjoyed her company. She even bought me Chipotle afterwards. We decided we wanted to keep seeing each other, even though we both knew that I had to go back home to Maryland soon to finish up my last year of school. \n\nFast forward to last week (Aug 24), she ends up coming down to visit me for the week at my parents' place in Maryland (where I'm staying for the next 2 semesters). She's met my parents and sister.\n\nBasically, I find that I really enjoy her company, her personality, the way she supports me in my hobbies/aspirations.. everything except her body type. We have TONS of sex (2-3 times a day) but one time I couldn't finish and she asked if I thought she was unattractive and honestly I don't really find her body attractive but I think she has a gorgeous face. Of course I didn't tell her this I just said that I think she is beautiful. \n\nI like everything about this woman except her weight. She is about 5'6 and 155 and I am that same weight but I am 5'9. Sometimes I feel like I'm settling in the looks department (is this shallow?) because up until this point in my life I've only dated skinny/athletic women. Am I just scared about what my friends will think about her weight? \n\nI don't want to just cut her off since I really do like her but her weight bothers me slightly. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Backstory]:( He has been divorced and has two children. I've never experienced any of those. I also realize that it takes a lot to be part of a broken family.\n\nI don't feel that my emotional needs are being met. I feel like I'm always listening to his problems, but he never hears mine. He also likes to go to strip clubs, a lot, and has all of these women who just randomly give him their numbers, etc. I'm concerned about one friend in particular of his. He says she's just a friend, but he's admitted to me before that she has a crush and she has also text me from his phone pretending to be him before. He never did anything about it and got mad at me for \"over reacting about it\". \n\nRecently things have changed though. He's been calling every day and showing a lot of improvement. I want to fall for him, but I keep having that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I did tell him that we would give this \"relationship\" one last try and then just let it all go if it didn't work. Since then there hasn't been a lot of fighting and there hasn't been any issues with his \"female friends\".\n\nI want to say I care about him, but I don't think he feels the same way towards me. He has made improvement, but it still just feels strange. I'm not sure where to go from here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this story starts during a cleaning expedition of my college dorm room. When moving the dresser I discovered an all black SD card or a reasonable size (no longer in my possession. I cannot remember the exact number). Being the Curious George that I am I decided to delve into the contents. One of the things that stood out the most and I can still recall to this day is a \"striptease\" (no nudity involved) video a girl did where she pranced around and proceeded to take off TWELVE layers of shirts before getting tired although it seemed as if she had more.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We both are considered middle-class by our individual salaries. Recently he moved in with me and I resigned to go to school. Even without him in the household, going to school full time was something I was pursuing with thorough back up plans. Debt free and all. One thing I didn't account for was his spending habits. I use my take home money to go into bills and living expenses while he burns through his with having nights out with friends and buying me things. I've explained that I'd rather him spend money on me by spending money on the home. He agrees then weeks later spends money on more events and gifts. This is incredibly frustrating. With him now being the breadwinner and older than I it's very difficult to break through his ego. I'd tell him to get his own place but now after I've calculated he has thrown me into small debt. I'm wondering if I should just kick him out anyway and figure it out. I was much better living alone. I would like to live together financially happily ever after.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I used to walk to school in the 3rd grade. At the halfway mark, I felt a pressure bubbling in my gut. Thinking it was just gas, I squeezed out the fart only to have my underoos instantly ruined by butt mud. The walk back home was too long and I was going to be late, so my 10 year old brain said screw it, just go to school like this.\n\nI spent the rest of the day pretending to be shocked by the stench of shit around me when my classmates would say, \"what's that smell?! Smells like poop.\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so this is a throwaway account. But I really need some help. Theres a girl and we have been good friends for about over a year now. Nothing more then friends, anyways she is really good looking and I want to start talking to her but don't know how to start it or whatever. About a week before new years we were at a party and we were just together as friends nothing really, the thought about trying with her didn't really cross my mind until my friend and her friends asked me if i was going to kiss her. By the end of the night I had made up my mind, grabbed her away from the party and finally kissed her. After we finished she said this was always going to happen. I don't really know what she meant by that and i am a little confused. I've tried texting her but i haven't really gotten many replies or enthusiasm. Definitely need help where to go next.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we've been good friends for almost 9 months and talk A LOT. Mostly online, but we hang out in person when we get the chance and we chatted on the phone a bit over the summer. However, sometimes stuff he has said has made me wonder if he actually likes me, or he's gotten more comfortable with the fact we're friends and isn't afraid of me misunderstanding. And before you ask, yes, we have actually talked about what happened if unreciprocated crushing/love were to occur, and we basically agreed that we can't really predict what may or may not have in the future. However, neither of us want to lose the other's friendship, so if this situation were to occur, I assume no one would confess.\n\nBut now I think this may actually be happening. If it is, what do I do? Do I pull away and give him space so he can get over me (because I do not foresee myself anytime wanting to be with him)? Do I confront him? I really think I'm just going to ignore it and let him do what he wants. If he doesn't want to confess and just go on as everything's normal, then I will too. I don't want to screw up our friendship, and he's strong enough to handle this, I think. But what do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I use a website for work that has a logic based Captcha system for their WAP site where you're supposed to pick the odd word out. Normally, there would be sets such as:\n\n[Monday, Tuesday, Sunday, Uranus], [sociology, mathematics, chemistry, atlanta, biology, astronomy], [latin, lacrose, lizard, recliner, lexus, learn]\n\nYou get the idea. So today I run across this one:\n\n[blue, black, twelve, twenty]\n\nI choose twenty because it's the only one without an L. Wrong. I then chose one of the others, I don't remember which, and was told I was wrong again. After two wrong answers it logs you out and you have to log in again. Given that this is time sensitive, I was pissed and called the support line for the website. The conversation went something like this:\n\nGirl: Hello?\nMe: I'd like to report a problem with the captcha on your WAP site.\nG: Oh, yes. We've had other people tell us it's too hard.\n\nAt this point I got more annoyed and the conversation deteriorated. At some point she tells me that while she cant figure it out either, shes positive there is a correct answer. Reddit, please tell me which one that is, and more importantly, why!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In September my boyfriend of 10 months (Bart) broke up with me. We had been fighting almost all summer and it was a long, heartbreaking process. For the last month he insisted he didn't need to say \"I love you\" and we almost never had sex. Awful. \n\nAbout a month later my ex (Steve) from less than an hour away just dumped his ex and we entered a sort of FWB situation. We had been there before because we have excellent sexual chemistry, but the romance wasn't there for YEARS. Now, after a month, the first ex (Bart) and I exchanged letters and we agreed to a friendship, he started going to the gym with me and it was a really good. We both achieved long-sought goals of physical fitness and he was a good motivator. The past two weeks he's been getting cozier. Four days ago he came over and we finally kissed again and we had a loooong talk. I explained that telling somebody you don't love them, and wont have sex with them, isn't a real relationship. He had many many emotional outbursts in the past, which I explained were totally unacceptable. \n\nThen he pulled what feels like a high school girl move and opened up about a dark secret (long story is he was taken advantage of by a Sugar Daddy who helped pay for college expenses and it had repercussions that manifested as intimacy issues). I told him I didn't really give a shit about it. I also told him that I'd be open to another attempt at a relationship but I wont call him my boyfriend or partner until \"It damn well feels like it\". Maybe that wasn't fair of me. \n\nSo here I am, between two boys. The FWB (Steve) needs to be made aware because we established an exclusive sexual relationship for health reasons. I dunno if I want to go back to an emotionally immature, possibly sexless relationship. Oh and all three of us aren't financially independent because student loans lol", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After a painful month apart, I went to her house and got her back. This was a few days ago. We talked for a long time, both of us talked about our grievances, and also what we had wanted out of the relationship to begin with. I found myself apologizing for everything that I had failed at. She did less apologizing, to the extent that I worry that she doesn't believe she did anything wrong in the relationship or that I had no reason to doubt her. \n\nSince then, I initiate most of our meeting, texts and everything. She no longer seeks me out as she did before. When we talk about things that caused the split, she gets mad and I find myself apologizing for wanting to see her.\n\nShe doesn't have many friends, and during the time we were apart she became more active in a college club. Now its where she would rather be. Any time I talk to her, that's what she brings up, like every time. I understand she needs to be more involved, but this is a weird time to be hiding out.\n\nI don't know if I'm just overcompensating because the breakup/reconciliation is so recent or if I'm just fooling myself and don't really have much of a relationship. I really just want her to meet me half-way here. I don't want to over-react to anything but I also won't eat shit either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently deployed to Afghanistan, and the military life has been pretty hard on my marriage. I've been having a lot of my mind and you could almost say borderline depressed. There is a lot of stuff that I can't just tell my wife, especially over a social network site, but I don't lie to her. I tell her I have a lot on my mind and I will tell her all about it when I get home. I didn't think it meant anything beyond that. My job here is a desk job, and I get a phone call from my supervisor about the 15th rumor of when we are actually going home. So, I message my wife, \"oh my jesus, I just don't care anymore!\" What I then noticed is that she sent something just before that that went along the lines of, \"I think I know what's been on your mind. I know we haven't had the best marriage due to your deployments but we've been through too much just to give up.\" Of course right after I see that, I attempted to correct myself. I typed 2 words and then, out of nowhere, power outage. Our internet went down for numerous hours and I think my wife thinks I really don't care about our marriage anymore. When it finally came back up, I got to send the message I meant to send and apologized. She hasn't messaged me back yet...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone. Thanks for reading!\n\nI've been on one date with this guy and he was fun to hang out with. Previous to the date, I told him I wanted to take anything physical very slowly. He seemed understanding, and I reiterated this again after the date. A few days later, he tried sexting with me, which made me uncomfortable especially since I had just told him I really wasn't interested in anything physical yet, and I find it presumptuous of him to assume that I will have sex with him at all, given we have only hung out once. I also found it kind of disrespectful, since I hadn't been unclear about my opinions on that.\n\nMy question is, can I just like...stop talking to him completely? I haven't answered his texts since that conversation. Can I just keep doing that, or should I explain myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello. I've been here for a while but this is my first time posting because the situation is rather pressing.\n\nSince we moved in together I've noticed that he often looks like he just finished crying. When I ask him what's wrong he says it's nothing and that it's allergies. I let it go on his word but I know him. I can tell he was crying but I didn't know how to comfort him without making him feel embarrassed or angry.\n\nHe also has mood swings. He'll be the happiest man on earth one second and then he doesn't want anyone to talk to him. He loses his appetite and he becomes agitated.\n\nHe also can frighteningly easily throw people out of his life. A few years ago his cousin who he grew up with (they always called eachother brothers. I didn't even know they were cousins til we'd been dating for 2 years) told him that he wasn't his brother and my fiancé hasn't talked to him since.\n\nHe does not forgive people. You cross him, he's done with you. Period.\n\nAll this I was able to kind of just, idk. Deal with (that probably isn't the right way to say it). But last night I woke up after noticing he wasn't in bed with me anymore. I found him on the balcony outside our bedroom silently weeping. Tears are streaming down his face and he could barely talk to me.\n\nI started crying and asked him what was wrong and he told me he didn't know.\n\nAfter he said that he hurried and wiped his tears and refused to talk about it. We went back to bed and today has been normal aside from that elephant in the room.\n\nIs this depression or something else? What can I do to help him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the deal. I've been talking to this girl for a couple months on and off. I like her, and she has told me that she likes me. She the type of girl who gets C-B's in school and parties every weekend, I get straight A's in school and never go to parties. I'm not antisocial I just don't like the party environment and drinking in general. For some reason it bothers me that she goes out to these parties and they are just not my thing. Is this something to be feeling this way about or should I just shrug it off?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl ive been seeing has been awesome and ive never had a reason to not trust her. Her ex has been in the picture since I began dating her. Now we are exclusive and she agreed to be my gf. I have been noticing she still gets the odd text/snap from her ex. If were watching tv and shes next to me when she checks her phone i can see his name come up. Im not snooping. She hasnt brought anything up about how he still talks to her. \n\nFast forward to this week, i found out through one of her friends that she was at his house last wednseday getting high and watching some tv. Last Saturday he took her on what seems like a date. Feeding birds and then to a restaurant for supper..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all. Sorry in advance for formatting, I'm on mobile right now. \n\nVery recently my grandmother's best friend died. She was like a sister to her, and I was also very close with her since I was young. The way she died was absolutely horrific, and my grandmother held her in her arms as she passed.\n\nThis Friday an open casket funeral is being held, and my grandma asked me if I would like to go. I told her I would. I have been asked to be at funerals twice before in my life, though I've refused, for (very) distant family.\n\nMy problem is that I don't deal with death/the dead well. I am not religious but spiritual. Seeing any type of dead body makes me extremely anxious and uncomfortable. I don't believe that any part of a person or 'soul' stays in a body after they die, only that the body is a remaining vessel, not really the person themselves... If that makes sense. My grandma and most of my family understand and respect my beliefs but at the same time, it has always been custom for them to at least view, if not touch/kiss the forehead of their loved ones one last time. I don't think I can touch her body, let alone see it. I can't really describe what it's like, but I just get such a bad feeling from bodies, and I have never seen someone I've loved in a casket before.\n\nBasically, I'd just like some help on how to act appropriately at the funeral, while also avoiding (as much as I can) making myself uncomfortable. In addition, it would also be cool if I could get some tips on etiquette in general, what is appropriate to wear, things like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my GF of 4 years were destined to break up for a while, I just wasn't sure how to do it. Then one day I find out that one of my good friends (who I have a major crush on) likes me, and she knows I like her back. This helped things along and I broke up with my GF a week ago.\n\nAnyways, since then, she doesn't seem the same. We don't seem to flirt and talk as much as we used to. She told me that I need to figure my stuff out, and she needs to focus on exams (which are 2.5 weeks away), and doesn't want to talk about it until after.\n\nWell, I had to figure a way to hang out with her, so I asked if we could study together, and she said yes. So now, we are going to study after class on Friday at 2:00pm. What are some ways you can flirt with a girl when you're in a classroom all by yourselves? She is the type that moves slow so I will not be making any moves or anything!\n\nNow here is my question. We are only going to be away from home for about 3 more weeks. I would like to take advantage of this and invite her over (she has come over a few times before, just as friends). **Do you think its reasonable for me to ask her to watch a movie at my house after we study on Friday? Or should I give her more space?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this is a new one for me! My girlfriend and I have been together 3 years. In the last year, she has gained a lot of weight, probably 30 pounds. I've definitely noticed both the weight, and the fact that she feels negatively about her body now - she won't wear tighter clothes any longer, and she makes comments sometimes about how she feels unattractive. For my part, I haven't commented on her weight, but I've tried to sympathized, and involve her in exercise and things that I do. She's usually pretty eager to participate, and she has started trying to lose weight!\n\nAnyway, last night she got angry with me that I've never commented on how she's gained weight. She even asked if I'd noticed! I mean, I haven't done so in so many words \"hey babe, looks like you gained some weight, thought about losing it?\" but I have definitely tried to eat healthier with her and exercise more. To be honest, I thought I was totally nailing the supportive boyfriend role, but I guess not? \n\nCould someone help me interpret what could be doing on here??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have a friend whom I only see once a year that is coming down to visit and she is going to spend the night at my place and we're going to pull an all nighter. BEST THING: we're going to get drunk and have sex, we both already know it and we've even talked about it, it's a for sure thing. Does anyone have any fun ideas what stuff we can do? (whether or not sex is involved) we are already planning to hot box my car and watch a movie or two. what are some other fun things to do? I want to do as much as possible since I wont see her till next year and this is the first time were doing this. Throw some ideas.\n \nSome things to consider are that I am living with other people so we will be confined to just my bedroom or out in my roomy car.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys, \n\nI'm in a tricky situation.\n\nI'm with a guy right now and we have a lot of fun together and we never fight and we have a great time together usually. \n\nHe told me that he's happy with me right now and he's not sure how long it will last but he knows I'm not the kind of person he wants to marry one day... it really hurts. I feel like I'm not good enough. \n\nOne day he asked me if I loved him, and I told him I do and when I asked if he loved me he said No. \n\nIt was devastating. Am I self inflicting myself with this relationship? I love spending time with him. We laugh a lot... I'm hoping that if I can just show him the person I am that his feelings will change maybe and one day he'll realize I'm the one? \n\nI'm not saying I want to marry him, either. We havn't been together for very long but I do enjoy the time I have with him right now a lot. Am I just overthinking about the future? I go into relationships not wanting to waste my time - I'm looking for someone to love for the rest of my life... I hate jumping around. Soooo... am I just overreacting the future or should I step back from this thinking of \"am I/will I ever be good enough?\".. We're both very honest with eachother a lot and he shows symptoms of aspergers syndrome (I think he has it?) so I'm usually very blunt/honest with him as well as he is to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was driving home from work in San Antonio when I noticed this jerk in a sports car tailgating, honking, flashing lights, and in general being a major pest. We pulled up to a red light and he gunned it right through the intersection, somehow managing to not cause a major accident. I fumed for a bit but figured that was the end of it.\n\nTen minutes later I pulled into my apartment complex gate (it had one of those bars that raises and lowers after you put in a code) and there he was, idling next to it. I don't know if he was just visiting so didn't have the right entry numbers or what, but he was just waiting for someone to come in so he could slip by on their pass.\n\nI pulled up to the gate, put my code in, and saw him inches from my bumper waiting to race in behind me. The gate raised up, I went forward, he followed intently, and I stopped with my rear bumper just barely in front of where the gate would fall.\n\nHe fumed in his front seat while I waved, the gate lowered blocking him out, and I pulled away happy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright reddit So I met this girl at work, right? Gorgeous, smart, great sense of humor, the works. I strike up conversation with her and flirt with her, tease her, etc. and she's responding really well. I get her number that day. In the past week we've been texting a lot and she has had shifts at the same time as me and I've been training her in my department as she's new to it. We have the same taste in music, we both like the same kind of videogames and play them often, we both love anime, and as far as I can tell she doesn't have any faults that I personally would consider to be a deal breaker. I'm going on a date with this girl later today. \n\nI guess I don't have a question really but I have this really bad feeling in my gut since the whole dating thing has literally never once gone this well for me. I usually have to bust my ass to get the girl to think of me as anything more than a friend much less agree to go out with me. But with her, it's so easy it just feels natural. It's not complicated, I'm not having to win her trust over a long period of time, we both like the same things and have compatible personalities (which, granted, could simply be a result of our shared interest in anime and videogames), she's not playing hard to get, I mean this is just going TOO well. My roommate with whom I have been friends since elementary school even mentioned this. I don't know if I'm just jaded from all the shitty experiences I've had with women or maybe if I'm simply reading too much into it. Basically this whole thing is just going really really well for me and I'm a little freaked out by that. I don't want to slow down or anything, but still. What do you guys think? Am I reading too much into it? Do you think maybe I just lucked out and met a girl who doesn't want to suck my soul from my bones and just wants to have a nice normal relationship?? Or do you think my gut may be trying to tell me something? I'm already catching the feels for this girl pretty hard.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl I know well has often said she looked bad. Be it clothing, weight,her dress choice,etc. I have said she looks great after telling me she improved on her weight, she still was kinda nervous like adjusting her clothes and hair and trying to make it seem like she never mentioned anything, she did smile a bit and said thanks. Her dress according to her was bad so she changed it for a different one and I said you looked great and she told me how she exchanged her dress for another and why, going on and on. I told her dont worry you looked nice and she seemed okay. \n\nI feel like I could say something to her so it just makes her feel good or boosts her self esteem.Its not exactly low, just an effort could help. Do I just tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous? Or should I do it some other way like compliment her clothes? I know body parts are a definite no. I have heard girls like compliments overall and it makes them feel pretty and good, not generalizing, but saying that being nice could not hurt\nAny ideas or advice would help me here", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's a summer camp for teens I am a counselor for every year and one of the workshops we do is for teens to be able to ask the opposite sex questions they've always had but have never been comfortable asking. They write down their questions on index cards and then through mediation of adult counselors, they get their questions answered by the opposite sex of teenagers. A lot of the questions are normal, boys want to know if girls really think size matters, girls want to know if boys really get morning wood, etc. Not all the questions are of a sexual nature either, sometimes girls want to know if boys are intimidated by girls who are better at sports than they are and boys want to know if girls watch as much porn as they do. Well...most of the questions are related to sex.\n\nThat's where I need your help, sometimes the questions are just slang questions, one year it was a big discussion topic of what an \"Eiffel Tower\" was and would you ever be part of one? And what does it mean to \"super man that ho\"? I'm a 24 year old female and I don't watch a lot of MTV or necessarily know that most current terms being thrown around for sex acts. I know what sexting is, but what beyond that are terms I should be prepared to know what they are in case a camper asks?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a 20 year old lady who went to an all girls catholic boarding school and finally got away from home to an out of state college. You see where this is going. Met this guy at a coffee shop, he's older, grad student, tall and smart. Hello. I give him my number and we start texting and set up a time to meet again.\n\nWe meet for a date, and end up back at my place. Because it's been almost 6 months, I'm lonely, he's hot, not going to slut shame myself, ect, we have fun. Throughout it all he's saying all the plans he's got with me for next time, it's going well, he leaves.\n\nIt's been four days, no contact. Do I contact him? I was the one who asked for his number, and invited him back to mine, and so I've already been the aggressor in all of this and frankly I'm confused. I don't want to be too desperate, I'm just confused as all get out. I don't have much experience with relationships or even hookups (though this story might suggest otherwise, it took me a long time to get up my courage to jump into the dating scene and well, I sort of floored it with him.) So I have no clue.\n\nIt just seems odd that he wouldn't text at all especially when he seemed happy leaving and was talking about next time. And before, when I was talking with him, he would text pretty frequently with me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "TIFU: So on Saturday I decided it was a good idea to blow off some steam. Work and school beat my ass down the previous week and to maintain some semblance of sanity, I drove to meet some friends at a bar some thirty minutes from my apartment. Saturday was DST and that led to an entire extra hour of drinking - which in hindsight was problematic - but I had a fun time at the bars we visited. Got back to my friend's place and left without saying more than a couple words. I have a tendency to want to walk and wander whenever I drink, and Saturday was no exception. Except I also decided I wanted a bed to sleep in after walking around the downtown area for twenty minutes so I decided to drive home. From what I remember during the drive home, I managed to fall asleep at the wheel, hit a guard rail, complete shred my front right tire, and then proceed to drive through the campus of the University I attend and then park in a nearby parking lot of an establishment. I drove maybe four or five miles with only three tires. How I didn't get pulled over, or how I'm alive, or how I didn't absolute destroy my car is all a mystery to me, but damn if I didn't learn a lesson.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She really, really loved me. At 28, I've never had anything close to \"love\" or even infatuation for anyone, really.\n\nI'd tried to break up with her a couple times in the past for her own good, but could never really get it to stick. It's hard to choose to hurt someone AND render yourself bored/alone and I wasn't strong enough. She finally realized recently that I really DIDN'T want to live with her or get married and all that, and we decided to split fairly amicably.\n\nI'm really, really unbelievably bored now but I'm pretty sure I'd just put any future person in the same shitty position. Even now, there's a girl who seems interested in me and I have exactly the same lukewarm feeling about the whole thing as I did last time (or any other time in the past). I'm tired of feeling like I'm screwing up the lives of the people who care the most about me.\n\nI find it doubtful that some magical \"right person\" is going to come along and change all this and really have no idea what to do at this point.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so recently this chick from high school and I started talking again its been a couple days now since initiation. Weve hooked up and been to several parties together and there was defs something there (she was a schooling year below me). \n\nWeve been texting and shit sharing some nostalgia and all but wanna get a date going. Should i just ask her if she wants to come down to the beach with some wine lol? i mean the worst thing that could happen she says no. \n\nBasically anyone else been in a similat scenario ? what happened? you can ask more on the situation shes just smoking if you know what i mean.", "role": "user" } ]

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