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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm studying engineering, on my second year of a four or five year degree. Engineering is not an easy major and on top of that I'm also working as a lab tech, a tutor, and participating in a NASA competition/scholarship. As you can guess, I'm a busy guy and even when I come home for the day, I typically have work to do until 6-8pm. \n\nI do my best however to make sure that my Friday evenings and all day Saturday are free for me and my fiance to spend time together. Even when I'm working in the evenings it's not like we're very far apart, we have an open concept apartment and I'm typically just ten feet away at the kitchen table doing my thing while she watches TV in the living room. We're even going camping next weekend because I wanted to spend more time with her. \n\nEven then, she constantly pesters with questions about my progress. Every ten or fifteen minutes she'll ask me where I'm at and how much farther I have to go. It breaks my concentration and I feel guilty when I take a break and don't want to sit with her and watch netflix, I just want to play a little CS:GO or maybe take the dog for a walk. \n\nToday, after the fifth time of her asking me what problem I was on in my programming homework I kinda snapped and told her, in a raised but not yelling voice, \"I have a shit ton of homework, I always have a shit ton of homework, and you asking me how much more I have to do doesn't get it done any faster!\" I know that wasn't the right thing to do but I'm just tired of her questioning, it makes me feel like I'm lazy or not working hard enough for her, and I already have enough pressure to perform from myself and school. I know I need to make some changes but I'm not sure what those changes should be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 100% certain this girl, let's call her Emily (19F), likes me.\n\nWe have been on a date, and had a couple of \"afternoon hang-outs,\" over the past three weeks. Hopefully, we are going on our second proper date this Friday evening. \n\nProblem is I suck at physical escalation. I never know when it's \"appropriate\" to take her hand, or put an arm around her shoulder. As a result, we still have not kissed (I tried at the end of date 1, but she turned her cheek as it was sort of out of left field), and I keep failing at getting physical. I did finally hold her on a walk home after a party last night, but chose not to kiss her goodnight because I felt I should properly earn it when we are both sober. \n\nPart of my problem stems from the fact that Emily is shy. I notice at practice she only talks a couple other girls for instance. I find it cute, and don't mind in the slightest, but it it also means I have a harder than normal time reading when is a good time to \"move in,\" as she tends to show less emotion. \n\nI am certain she still likes me, and have received enough positive signs to know I have not yet been placed in the dreaded \"friend zone.\" We text daily, she got me birthday chocolates, and she positively mentioned our first date a full week after we went out.\n\nNow, however, I know I need to make a move. I need to kiss her on Friday. I need to spark physical attraction to kiss her. I need to find courage to stop-doubting myself and just take her hand to spark physical attraction. I have analyzed and over-analyzed the situation, and am really confident we can soon be dating. I just need to find inner-strength and stop hesitating. So talk me up, and how can I overcome these lingering self-doubts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really like this girl and from what I can tell she really likes me. We've been seeing each other for 3 weeks and it's great. We've gone on some awesome dates. Had a couple sleepovers which have been amazing. \n\nWe have been taking it slow and I am really excited to see where this goes and she is as well. I am seeking advice because I honestly have never been in a real relationship. I have dated casually a lot so this is a whole different world. I am just looking for advice, tips and I Suppose sort of the etiquette of this stage of dating.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello. I have never posted on reddit before. I am Korean (born and raised in Korea) and my boyfriend is hispanic-american. We have an issue for a long time which he thinks is big deal but I don't. \nAnyways, many times, when we don't hang out or anything is a bit unusual, I ask \"are you cheating on me?\" Or, \"can I trust you?\" We have been together for four years and he has never cheated on me, but I just want reassurance. It makes me feel safe. Recently he is annoyed and says that \"it is insulting\" to ask. He points out that we have been together for a long time (5 years) so this really shouldn't even be a question. But to me, it is normal for Koreans. \nSorry if it is confusing but I am not a native English speaker.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well this happened 3 years ago during my first year of University. \n\nI was just finishing my classes for the day and was approaching the main entrance, ready to go home. A chinese girl ran up to me really frantically and she was almost on the verge of tears. She kept pointing as this timetable vigorously and asking me the same question over and over in Mandarin. Now I am chinese yes, but I was born and raised in the UK and I only spoke Cantonese which is what they speak in Hong Kong. Mandarin is a whole new language to me.\n\nNow I replied to her in english, explaining that I have no idea what she needs. At which point she she starts to cry even harder and louder and wraps her arms around her head... I was thinking wtf... Not only was I extremely uncomfortable due to the crying asian stood infront of me, but now all the people walking past think i'm breaking up with the girl who is now whaling like an injured dog and wrapped her own arms around her head like she's being attacked by anacondas. People started to stand there and watch whilst I swiftly made an abbrupt exit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in a very happy relationship and a guy I work with flirted with me a few months back. He said that he found me \"stunning,\" but he said it in a casual way in the middle of a conversation when we were consulting about something else that was fairly serious. I was very uncomfortable with it and told my boyfriend about it, which then made him uncomfortable. He said I did nothing wrong, which I agree with, and since then I've tried to avoid the co-worker as much as possible.\n\nAlso since then, it came out that he hooked up with a colleague at work and then treated her poorly, causing her to be so upset she quit the job. I have noticed many many more ways that he is inappropriate, has horrible boundaries and moreso just has huge issues. We work in the mental health field and I have a higher position and degree than him so it REALLY bothers me to see how he acts.\n\nToday he asked if I would write a letter of recommendation for him to go to counseling school. I personally think he could be a good clinician, if he had more training, so I think it's a great idea for him to learn boundaries, ethics, theories, etc. However, I feel really weird about writing him a letter of recommendation, mainly because my boyfriend was uncomfortable with him flirting with me, and also because I don't think he has good judgement at the moment, but he could eventually have it with the proper training. I'm a people pleaser so in the moment I said yes. But now I feel awkward, what do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there was a party last night and me [18M] and my friends were a bit drunk and decided to climb up a hill next to the place the party was held at. The hill was really snowy and quite steep. There was maybe 5 of us, including a girl who at one point stated that her legs are quite tired and she has trouble going on. So I felt like a real gentleman as I told her I could piggyback her up for the last 30 or so meters. So I did. \nIn my opinion, it's not a big deal at all, but having told this story to my girlfriend [18F], thinking it was no big deal (we've been together for over a year now and she wasn't at the party), she became really angry and at one point even told me she was going to leave me unless I stop justifying what I had done.\n\n/r/relationships, what do you think about this situation? Do you think it is justified for my girlfriend to be that angry at me for a piggyback ride? I really love her and I couldn't imagine that she'd ever get so mad for a little thing like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been using MFP for about a year (pretty steadily, current streak is 45 days) and set my calories at 1200. This is what MFP calculated for me for my height and to lose 2 lbs per week. I'm typically eating around 1350 calories anyway, but at least shooting to stay under the 1200 most days. I've lost 21 lbs over the past year, which is much less than I should have lost but I've fallen off the wagon a few times. I've been doing it consistently since January 4, and I seem to have hit a plateau. I've lost 4.4 since then, which is a loss of about a pound a week on average, but I saw almost 3 lbs of that in the first week of January and haven't lost in the last 3 weeks but haven't gained either. I also have been on a generally low carb and low sugar diet- no sweets, bread, pasta or alcohol during the week, but sometimes on the weekend. I recently spoke to someone who does keto and they gave me a lot of info which seemed to make sense. They were adamant that I'm cutting my calories way too low and that my body is probably hanging on to fat whenever I am eating over 1200. Basically that my body is in starvation mode, which I previously thought was junk science. She said that calories in/calories out isn't complex enough and what you eat matters more than how many calories it is. She calculates my TDEE and says I should eat at least 1500 calories. This person has lost over 50 lbs and does talks at various venues so I feel like she should know what she's talking about. Later, I was listening to the doctor radio on satellite and an expert there said that Keto is unsafe and that people on Keto are consuming way too much fat (and typically, red meat) than is healthy and even if they see weight loss, they're likely doing harm to other things like their cholesterol level etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's almost been a month since the breakup now. She's 28, I'm 26. I broke it off with her because of various personality problems that aren't relevant to this story.\n\nSince the breakup, she's posted Facebook updates every few days that are barbed, backhanded insults. We were poly (well, she was; I never dated outside of the relationship), and she'll post updates about how great her current partner is, especially compared to \"some of her exes,\" and referring to details of our relationship that I'm sure to get. I'm sure you've seen this sort of behavior, someone talking about how great things are now compared to before, how great it is to be finally understood, etc.\n\nSo I know it would be trouble to engage with this; it's probably what she wants. I've unsubscribed, so I can only see her updates when I look for them, which I do out of morbid curiosity every three or four days. Most of the time, they just cement my convictions about making the right choice in leaving her. Others, it makes me feel crappy, because sometimes the things she says have a grain of truth. There's a part of me that thinks not blocking her is a point of pride; I'm showing that I don't care. Another part of me thinks it might make me feel better to block her. And another, more vindictive, side hopes she'll see that she's been blocked and realize how crappy she is.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my life is in a rut. I limit my sob story to this: I'm a recent college graduate, jobless, recently broken-up-with, with little to do. I've got plenty of hobbies and idle diversions, but my life sorely lacks doing something interesting. So, tomorrow I'm waking up and asking myself the above question. I put it to you, reddit! Hopefully others can benefit from the answers as well.\n\nI personally am looking for things that can be done in and around the suburbs/urbs of a mid-size midwestern city (St. Louis, specifically). In general, I want things that can be done with little advance preparation and won't cost me much/anything. But, honestly, don't let any of these requirements stop you from posting - I am looking for any way to squeeze that delicious nectar of experience out of life. If your idea is a good answer to the post title, throw it in!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my boyfriend (23) for the past 3 years and although it has been full of crazy ups and downs I love the guy with all of my heart. When we both met it really was love at first sight and I felt a wave of sparkles that I have never felt before take over my body and I knew deep down inside this guy is going to be the love of my life. Things were never easy from the start but we honestly got through it because I know he loves me and I love him too. He knows me better than I know myself, and he helped me become the better person I am today and I am so thankful for him. For the first year and a half I can honestly say I treated him horribly and did things to him that I never should have and I wish I could take it back but we all know that we can't do that in life. Why I did those things? I believe I've had a tough childhood and been in terrible relationships but he stuck through all the bad things and still treated me like a princess in the end, but no one can put up with the amount of issues I had given him it was seriously one of those deals where I was blessed with someone I felt like I didn't deserve. I wasn't always bad to him but I also wasn't the best gf I should've been. \n\nWe are currently still together but for the past year and a half we have been off and on and its driving me insane, it drives both of us insane, we have cheated on each other, said the worst things together and left when things got hard, but we always find our way back to each other and we just can't let each other go. I never do want things to end but its gotten to a point where I no longer can handle the pain of thinking we are done and then going back to each other and believing we can. Im just trying to look for some support or see if anyone has ever been in a situation kind of like miner", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have come out of a 2 year relationship with girl of the same age recently. \n\nI have been seeing someone I've known for quite a while shortly after the whole thing ended.\n\nIn previous relationship girlfriend and I didn't see eye to eye on a lot of things. \n\nMaking a lot of fun debates with varied outcomes.\n\nThis girl I've been seeing agrees with EVERYTHING I say. \n\nI even play devils advocate to see if she'll agree with me. Example:\n\n\"X by Kafka is great!\", I'll say.\n\n\"Yes, Kafka is one of the best writers ever\"\n\n\"Oh, I only like this book, I think all his other work is mediocre.\" (Me \nplaying devils advocate fyi)\n\n\"Yeah, I think a lot of his books are quite depressing so I'm not really a fan of that kind of thing myself\".\n\nIt is so dumb, but she agrees with everything. \n\nI like her physically and everything, and she's a very sweet girl, but this kind of submission is the biggest turn-off for me ever. \n\nIt is the same effect as hearing your own voice on camera and cringing where you hear it.\n\nShe even does it to kind of 'impress' me. I'll google the name of some extremely obscure Polish composer or something, and she'll pretend she knows the guy, clearly reading off wikipedia just as I am. \n\nShe really overestimates my intelligence, but pretending to know something is a form of lying and I hate that.\n\nSo I wanna cool the whole thing off. \n\nYou can probably guess, this girl is really submissive and would react badly if I was really cold with her. \n\nShe's kind of in love I think, but must be kidding herself, as given her experience with me, she cannot truly know me.\n\nWhat's the best way to deal with it? \n\nDo I just cool it off right away because she has attachment issues? \n\nDo I tell her, but in effect calling her out on telling lies?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a truck driver, and usually make a pretty good living. But I just moved to a new town and had a hard time getting work because as a driver, most companies prefer to hire someone who \"knows\" the area.\n\nI got a job with this person who owns one truck and has a single contract for that truck. When he hired me he told me I would have work coming out my ears, but it's been over three months and work has actually slowed down. And it doesn't look like he's trying very hard to drum up more work.\n\nMoneywise, He pays me enough to cover my bills, but that's it. BUT keep in mind some days I don't work at all and I usually average about 3 hours worth of actual work per day when I do work so in fairness I'm getting the better part of the deal.\n\nBut here's the thing. I believe he's starting to have money troubles as all I can get from him for gas is 100 dollars at a time. And this time he didn't put the money into my bank account until I pestered him for it today.\n\nAnd it was from a different family members account too.\n\nSo should I confront him about it, or just give him two weeks notice right now and look for something better. Keep in mind I actually like the guy for a boss and have had no problems at all with him work wise. And he has paid me promptly and on time so far. I just found the use of someone else's bank account a red flag to me", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello! I started the beginning of a relationship too late with a girl friend of mine, so we are doing a trial long distance \"thing.\" We've always prided ourselves on not needing a label and being flexible with each other. Especially with it being too long of a distance to be able to see each other often, we both thought it was wisest not to put any pressure to keep something afloat between us.\n\nHaving said that, the last time I visited I started thinking \"Why not?\" and have been starting to have major feelings for her. She did too, at least for the first few days after I visited, but like everything long distance, time and distance starts to numb the feelings a bit. \n\nWith my growing affection for this girl, I've noticed myself getting more jealous and insecure about what she's doing all the time. That isn't healthy to begin with, I know, but I find it hard to bring this up in conversation when we have never explicitly mentioned our rule about exclusivity. It would be unfair for me to ask her who she is with and what she is doing without having grounds to worry, if that makes any sense. I wouldn't mind being exclusive, but if she tells me she does not want it or wants to \"see what happens\" then I feel I might get hurt if or when she finally does find someone. I think I may be unintentionally exclusive from my end for someone who does not feel the same drive.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry about the long post in advance.\n\nHave been in an LDR with a girl named Mary and was super in love with her. I say was because it hasn't felt the same. We have met (Probably about 12 times in person) but recently it hasn't felt the same.\n\nWe're in the same state and all, about 4 hours though. And this year I've grown close with a new friend group including this other girl, Sarah. Recently, it's felt like Mary and I have grown apart. We fight more often, and even about 2 weeks or so we almost broke up. \n\nBut Sarah and I have been hanging out more and more. We were out talking just last night until at least 3 in the morning. I would never cheat on Mary, but it's just been hard with all the stress on our relationship. \n\nSarah is totally different from me, but her and I have become fast best friends, and every time I bring up Mary she gets quiet. I've had a lot of thoughts about breaking up with Mary, but I don't think I could.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So Im at work (service industry) and its a pretty slow part of the day and I'm chatting it up with my friend/enemy coworker. (A little back story: She's very funny and fun to be around but she is one of those girls who is perfectly aware of how attractive she is and tends to use this fact to her advantage. She turned me down some months ago, tbh she's way outta my league but whtvr, and she knows i think shes attractive and so she'll say things that could be taken sexually or just casually scratch her boob or something in front of me. Shes a shameless tease, and it drives me up the wall sometimes) So she's talking to me and she starts slowly leaning over the service counter 'reaching for a pen' while facing away from me. the effect of it was, once she managed to reach the pen,most of her torso was on the desk while her feet were on tip-toe and her ass pointed right at me, which of course was the point. So I say, \"That looks like a position you're used to assuming.\" And she gets off the counter and I expect her to be all mad, but she just looks at me with this hard-done-by expression and says \"Are you kidding? I haven't had a raise in years.\" It was such a perfect comeback I was just stunned. I'm terrible a comebacks, and I had nothin after that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work at a horse barn and the sparrows are literally a plague. We've managed to oust a lot of them once we bought a BB gun, as it's helping rid us of birds and allowing us to take out some stress on the feathered shits. \n\nSo we've got the horses ridden, and we're (My boss, his daughter, and my co worker) sitting around bullshitting, like the usual. I see this little sparrow feebly fly towards the wall and cling to the wall for dear life. So, seeing an opportunity, I jump up from my seat, and go fetch this little thing. I reach up on the wall and cup it into a hand, and a momma bird tries to dive bomb me but I retrieve the bird, and excited that I caught one I go show the boss' kid. \n\nShe's a cute girl, and she's aww'ing over the 'baby' bird, and petting it's head and whatnot. Alright, time to set this bird free so he can go fly up to the rafter with his noisy-ass mother. Go to the indoor arena with the kid and I open my hands, and the little bird takes off, and struggles to get some height. And then the fuckup.\n\nCoworkers puppy (8 month old I think) sees the fluttery thing, and takes off after it, jumps, and catches the bird. It squeaked as the pup's jaws closed on it. \n\nThe little girl standing beside me gasped, hands over her mouth. Boss and coworker started busting a gut, but I felt terrible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'v been with my boyfriend for some time now and his mother has met me before. We've both decided we wanna actually spend our lives together and have been planning for that day now (our wedding). We're both adults, pay our taxes, work, ect ect. But when he brought up to his mother that he was possibly gonna be moving to where I live, she blew up.\nNow, his reason for wanting to leave was personal. It was to find another job and build dependency because he felt really uneasy being where he was at. He pretty much isn't happy with where his current living condition is and wants to make a change in life.\nNow, some pointers I should tell you guys about is my boyfriend is Chinese. And his mother is from Hong Kong China, so she has traditional values N what not...I'm Hispanic, grew up in a traditional hispanic house hold. \n\nShe was okay with him dating me, she didn't take it as anything serious. But when she saw that we where planning our futures together, she even went as far as cutting his phone service off and refusing to allow him to leave out of the city to see me.\n(Keep in mind he lives with his mother to finish school, he pays for his own schools and pays for the car he drives, however its under her name.)\nShe went as far as pulling the race card, telling him that \"Mexican girls are lazy, and cling to a good man whenever they can\"\n\nI feel hurt, i feel lost, and above all else he's hurting. He's made it clear that she's not gonna have any affect on us being together but she's trying her hardest to restrict him from seeing me or even talking to me...Next week i'm adding him to my phone plan (i have my own) and we're going to save up money together so he can get another car under his name so she can't have any power over him.\nIt just...really hurts. I really need some advice on how I can get through to his mother that i'm right for him. I love this man like no one else.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is pretty minor, but it nearly gave me a (not literally) heart attack, so I think it's worth posting here.\n\nI like Zelda games. A lot. I finished Majora's Mask 3D last week, and today during school I was in the mood for some Majora, but, you know, school. So I decided to listen to the soundtrack by searching first for the Clock Town theme.\n\nI have a crappy phone, so the touchscreen isn't very accurate most of the time. I typed in \"Clock\" but somehow resulted in me missing the \"l\" and typing \"Cock\" instead. I rolled my eyes in frustration, tried to hit the backspace, but what do you know, I hit search.\n\nI thought at the time that I was using my school's free wifi (Which you have to sign up for using your school account that is given to you, and is monitored) so I completely freaked out and gasped really loudly, basically everyone in the room stared at me for a few seconds. I knew I was screwed at this point, there would have been no way out of facing that punishment. How do you explain to the AP why you were searching \"cock\" in the middle of the school day? You can't.\n\nBut, thank you, hindsight. I had turned off my wifi and switched to my network just a minute before. So, luckily, I don't have to explain why I was searching for the slang term for male reproductive organs in the middle of school. Still, people probably now think that I have some kind of hypersensitivity to my phone...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First post, some background:\n\nWe've been in a relationship for about 7 months now, and the physical aspect of it didn't start until about 5 months in. She's always been innocent, as in never done anything in her life sexually. As for me, I wasn't a virgin going into the relationship, messed around with a lot of people before. However, I was completely fine not doing anything for those 5 months, then one day we started doing regular teenage things with our bodies. (not sex.) Things progressed from there, and the past couple weeks we've been having great, regular sex, my parents being out of town and her sleeping over at my house while telling her parents she was somewhere else.\n\nWell, today she calls me and tells me that her parents know everything that's been going on. Her dad is very uptight, strict, etc; and he and I were pretty cool before this all happened. One of those intimidating \"you-want-my-daughter-go-through-me\" type of guys, but we hit it off okay. Her mom is also like that, but less so in that she isn't aggressive. (I should also mention her dad was in the hospital for high blood pressure a few weeks ago.) \n\nAnyway, what should I do? Our relationship likely won't ever be the same again, but it was the healthiest I've ever had with a person. Her parents hate me, and I'm going to college in a month or so, is this just the right time to break things off? We've talked and we'd still be friends, of course, but it's pretty rough. Do I continue the relationship and make it hard on her because of her parents? Or should I try to patch things up with them so I can even show my face around their neighborhood? (Unlikely.)\n\nHelp!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been dating my long distance boyfriend (lives in England and I'm from America) for just over a year, I'm in university now (In England but were still at opposite ends of the country) and became best friends with my roommate and now there are benefits with that friendship as well as I may be pregnant with his child (as of the 13th last Saturday).\n\n Planning on breaking up with my boyfriend (not because of the pregnancy thing) I just don't feel the same that I used to with my boyfriend and its way to difficult and expensive to keep this long distance thing going. We also have different plans for the future and I'd been thinking about breaking up with him even before the thing with my roommate even started. \n\nI honestly would have broken up with him already but we planned ahead and had bought train tickets to spend Christmas with him and his family 3 weeks in advance, I'm leaving in two days. It's too late to back out now and I can't refund the tickets.\n\n But I'm more worried about being pregnant, it just terrifies me because, if I am, my mom will probably want me to quit school and come back home and that's the last thing I'd want. Also abortion is out of the question, not because I'm against it or anything, I highly agree with it, I just personally could never do it. And I'm highly considering adoption but which country would I have the baby in because I still would want to be apart of the child's life. The last thing I would want is for the child to think its mother never wanted it. I'm just really scared and need any advice. Thanks guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "More than a year ago my home was burglarized and i had some firearms stolen from me. In the months following I was arrested for misdemeanor pot possession(wrong place wrong time). Instead of fighting the charges I took Pre Trial Intervention (PTI) which means i plead NOT GUILTY and enter a 12 month probation program which if I complete the charges will be dropped and with a little more lawyering my file sealed. Recently two of the firearms were recovered, one by a local agency and the other at a pawn shop in the next county. For me to get the firearm back from the pawn shop, I have to buy it from them for the money that they spent on it. The detective in charge of the firearm told me it would be okay for a friend or relative to pick it up I just needed to let him know who would be coming for it, but I also didn't inform him that i was currently on PTI. I'm just not sure of the legality of taking back possession while on PTI or even having someone else pick it up for me, and the last thing I want to do is get somebody else in trouble for doing me a favor. \n\nHas anyone else dealt with a similar situation or able to offer me any insight on what to do next? Would a lawyer be able to inform me of the laws without much of a payment? Its already going to cost me a few hundred dollars to get back my own property that was stolen from me and its not really worth it for me to put out much more for something that i dont think i need representation for. Or if anyone has someone who could clarify things for me off of reddit PM me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a college freshman and I'm trying to get my confidence back after having it destroyed. A lot of people see me as being shy, but that's not technically true. As a kid I was a natural born extrovert, the rare class clown who also got straight A's. I was born with that kind of lion-esque confidence that some people have.\n\nIn middle school I had that confidence beaten out of me, either with fists or with words. By high school I trusted no one and assumed that everyone was out to get me. While I can now see how stupid that was, I couldn't then. Hating everyone didn't get me many friends, or girlfriends. After I lost my virginity I got a little of that confidence back and started getting with girls pretty regularly, but that didn't last long. After the first ugly breakup with a girl I went right back into a shell.\n\nSo now I'm a freshman at a small community college and it's very hard to meet people. I have a few close friends who I rarely see, I'm in a band, and I can feel that old confidence coming back, but it's coming back very slowly. I would appreciate any advice on speeding up the 'recharging process' and also on meeting new people.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit. Thanks in advance for reading my post and thank you so much for answers. I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and we love each other so much and i can't imagine myself without her.\n\nI'm not beliving in god, and she is christian. Her religion is not causing any trouble actually. She don't talk about it with me and she accept i don't believe. I can't really explain my problem. I just feel a bit scared about religions in general after watching movies and documentaries about religions and how they can in some cases be very bad. I know these movies is taken to the extreme, and that most religions are nice, but still they scared me because i'm for some reason generelising all religions which is totally wrong.\n\nNot only movies changed my mind, but also other people telling bad stories. I'm not as open-minded as i used to be. And i just want to be, i really wish i could just not think about it.\n\nEverytime i think about her believing i get a bad feeling inside. I have tried to talk with her about it, but it makes her sad. I know that Christian people are good people, and i really don't know why i feel this way. I want to be more open-minded. I want, but don't know how. How can i stop this bad feeling inside me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been together over two years, but got in a very large fight today. We have large fights occasionally where my boyfriend just gets blinded by his anger. \n\nI have never ever liked jewelry, and haven't worn a single item of jewelry since elementary school, my ears aren't even pierced. Even with this fact, my boyfriend continues to buy me jewelry.\n\nI haven't been rude about it up until this point, because you shouldn't ever really refuse a gift. But I do make a point to him that I don't like jewelry, and never wear it, while trying to be as polite as possible. For some reason, he can't understand this about me and continues to get angry that he buys me jewelry I don't wear, etc. etc. He just seems to not understand I don't want this type of typically \"nice\" gift. I still thank him for the original intent, but at what point should he start treating me as a person with individual likes and dislikes? He just expects me to like typical \"girl\" things. He's very upset with me and calling me ungrateful. Sigh. Maybe he's right. It's just something I will never be able to like but am expected to be grateful for anyway :/ \n\nAlso, I would understand if we just started dating, but it's been two and a half years of this. I don't want to lie to him about my interests though.\n\nHe is also trying to break up with me right now....but he does that every time he gets angry.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my current SO about 2 months ago, we go to the same university, but come from different states. Things progressed fairly quickly; after a month she told me she loved me and began referring to herself as my girlfriend- this signaled to me that we were an \"official\" relationship. \n\nAnyways we both come from different states, and would be long-distance during our summer break- we'd both be back at school in mid-august. Before we left, she told me she didn't want to be in a long-distance relationship and that she didn't know if she would want to remain exclusive over the summer break. I saw this as essentially the end of our relationship and I told her that I would be moving on. \n\nThis is where things got complicated, as what I said seemed to really upset her. She asked why we couldn't \"just be friends and talk\" over summer then get back together in the fall, and I ignored her for a few days before I ended up breaking down and resuming contact with her. We are still talking and she has at times mentioned plans of what we'll do together when we come back to school, but I just don't know.\n\nWe aren't in an \"official\" relationship, but I feel as if I'm being used; she wants to be single over the summer, but wants me to hang around so we can get back together in the fall. I think this is unfair and I don't like the idea of us going from a relationship to being friends to back to a relationship whenever she wants. \n\nI do have very strong feelings for her, but I don't like the idea that she wants to be single while we're apart but then get back together if nobody better comes along.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Quick background: My ex (m24) broke up with me about a month ago and basically I (f20) have been a completely mess because of it. I also did the unthinkable and pleaded to get back and work around the differences but that hasn't worked out. Anyway, it seems like he is doing fine and messages casually every week or so, just to see whats up, hows work etc. I, on the other hand, do not want to talk to him as that sets me back a lot in my progress and gives me false hope that he wants to get back together. \n\nHow do I tell him that I'm finding this difficult because this sets me on edge and I end up crying pretty much all the time thinking about it. Please help me come up with a way to convey to him that I just can't carry on this superficial friendship where I can't even be honest with my true feelings and that I will only talk to him if he wants to have a conversation about us.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original post.\n\nAbout 3 day's after my post I read all the comments and realized everyone was right. And I want to be 100% faithful to my wife and this woman is NOT worth losing my family.\n\nSome posters said something may be missing from my marriage. and I thought about it and realized me and my wife don't spend that much time together.\n\nSo I talked to my wife about it I told her how I felt and what was on my mind and we had a heart to heart. We cried a little and I don't want to lose her we made a schedule and are going to work out date nights for us to spend more time together.\n\nAs for Talia.\n\nMe and her met up and I told her the honest truth I'm married and I don't want to do something I'll regret forever. I told her my feelings were getting a little to inappropriate and that maybe we should not talk outside of work.\n\nShe agreed and told me she started feeling the same and that we should limit contact. She said it's for the best and that I'm a good man because most men would have just let it continue but I didn't.\n\nSo we ended our friendship.\n\nIn the mean time I'm going to focus on my family and my wife and distract myself from thinking of Talia. Looking back it wouldn't have been worth it because my wife has been with me through everything.\n\nWhen I lost my job when my parents died when I needed surgery. She's had my children and sacrifices for them and takes care of them without asking for anything in return.\n\nAnd I'm happy with her and I couldn't replicate all those memories with any woman. She's the only one for me and I realized and appreciate all the things she does for me and our family.\n\nThat's the update and hopefully I'll never have to return to this sub-reddit again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "i[15M] have liked this girl[15F] for a quite a lone time. I never really talked to her due to us not having classes till we each had a friend who came to gether and we were heavily involved which lead on to us talking more often. I was upfront about it that i like her cause i had not much to lose and she liked another guy. We talked alot and watched tons of netflix through skype/facetime and at school, she gave me a hug before class. So i started hugging her before her classs and we sat together at lunch. I really started to think she was getting to like me when one time she snuck a kiss on my cheek before class. And then one day at the end of school i was getting to hugh her and she pushed back and went home. When i asked her what was that on text, she simple told me \"I couldnt hug you because my crush was right behind you\". And now ive just been depressed. I feel like its my fault for getting my hopes up too high", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm using a throwaway and sorry for my English\n\nI met this great guy a little under a year ago while i was traveling in France. When i went back to my home country we started talking on Skype and became great friends. We spent hours talking every day and he is sweet and amazing guy and we have exactly the same sense of humor.\n\nAfter a month he told me he liked me but i said i wanted to stay just friends because we lived in different countries and i knew it would end badly and also because he was older than me and i couldn't move to France because I still have many years of university left. We kept talking and became even closer. There were multiple times that he told me he wanted something more but every time i said i don't want to date him\n\nSo last weekend when we were talking he told me he has met a girl \"Jessica\" and they are maybe going to start dating. They slept together last weekend and its killing me. i have been crying the entire weekend. it's so stupid because i kept telling him i don't want to date him and he should find a nice french girl. Today we talked on the Skype and he could hear i was sad and tried to ask what was wrong and after a while asked whether the reason was Jessica. I just hung up the call and started sobbing and sent him a message saying i wish all the best to him and Jessica and after i sent it I deleted him from my contacts,. He has sent messages to me but i haven't replied\n\nNow I'm feeling terrible. I never thought i liked him so much until he ended up dating someone. But i know that it would be wrong to now start pursuing something because he is with someone else. He is a shy guy and isn't really great at meeting girls so i don't want to ruin it if he finally found a great girl (who is near to his age). but I just feel so terrible and sad and I need someone to tell me that I'm doing the right thing", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Met up with a guy I met online and we spent pretty much the whole day together. At one point we went to a bar and were close to each other and he started holding my knees, I enjoyed it and was surprised by how nice it felt (I haven't dated in three years). He then leaned over to kiss me and I turned my head to the side and looked down as I felt shy. He then said \"I want to kiss you\" and I kind of shook my head. Later in the night we went to another bar and he tried to kiss me again and I moved my head to the side and he kissed my cheek. Then again as he was leaving he tried to kiss me again and I said \"I'm just shy.... and it's been 3 years\" and he said \"all the more reason to let me kiss you\". We gave each other with a hug and a promise to meet again soon. I let him know when I got home and thanked him for having a lovely time and he replied he should be thanking me and he wants to meet up soon. I wonder if to some I am considered some kind of a tease or something? A friend has said I am giving mixed signals and need to make up my mind what I want.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was thinking today, I'm a good driver (over 1 million miles with no accidents), but I'm a total dick on the road.\n\n I gear down instead of hitting my brakes, so it comes off like I'm riding your ass but I'm just trying to save energy. On the other hand, I do ride close if someone is going excessively slow or not merging.\n\n I drive faster than the speed limit almost all the time, despite over 30 tickets for various minor traffic offenses. \n\nI slalom through traffic, if I deem it to be safe. But I do not sit in my lane waiting to merge, I do not sit behind a slow driver. \n\nI honk at pedestrians if I have the green light and they try to cross, and I don't yield for them. It's MY green light.\n\nI flash my high beams when someone is going slow in the left lane, to tell them to let me pass. \n\nI overtake cars on double yellow line roads (legal in my state). The most cars I've ever passed at one time on a 2 lane road is 6 (never felt unsafe for a second).\n\nBasically, as I said before, I'm just an aggressive driver. \n\nHaving said that, my car has a braking difference that's half of most production cars, 300 horsepower and 300 ft/lbs of torque, so I can overtake quickly. \n\nSo am I a bad driver? Or just a total dick.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We don't have the most perfect relationship, because of the issues we had in past and especially this being both of each other's first relationship. But we have overall a good relationship and we love each other very much. \n\nSo we started off as LDR and it will be LDR for some time as it seems. When we meet in real life, he is the most kind, gentle, mature guy ever. Basically the perfect guy. But recent months when we are far away some of his actions has getting on my nerves pretty pretty bad.\n\nWe play video games all the time, competitive Counter-Strike. He is sort of pro player, and is the highest rank available. Me, I don't have much skills, but I love the game because of my competitive nature. So when we play together, all other players are lower rank than him, very lower. This creates a problem. He is shouting at people, at me whenever we make mistakes. He makes people regret playing with us. I regret sometimes too. Then there is \"trolling\", he swears at people, he calls every game we lose \"OMG cheaters\", usually writing very mean stuff to them and very freaking childish. He often argues with people over video games, in the game. I tell him whenever someone writes something offensive \"love please don't respond please if you love me\" but he is like \"OMG come on I love trolling people!\" \n\nWe had group of friends that we played with. We lost two of them, due to his behavior. Then we got a steady three other people. Recently two removed him and me, solely because of his behavior, after he shouted at the whole team specially at me for not telling him where we died. I am so embarrassed but whatever I say he gets so offensive. I don't want to leave him but recently I have lost all the good image of him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have 2 cats. One is a fantastic indoor cat. The other one is lives outside. This cat was a gift from a friend who got it from a shelter. It was injured and overall nasty. No big deal, we took it to the vet and nursed it back to health. This is where the weird stuff starts.\n\nThe cat did nothing but sit behind the toilet and shit on the floor. We tried to teach it to use a litter box but it would just go back to pooping and peeing on the floor. Then it got violent. It started hissing and jumping at the kids when they would go into the bathroom. The climax was when it attacked a child while she was just playing video games and ignoring the cat. The cat ran to her and started scratching and hissing at her. I threw it outside.\n\nThis cat now just sits on the deck looking in the window and meows until we feed it. After feeding it leaves for a few minutes and starts the meowing again. More compassionate people than I have let the cat inside but it immediately stands at the door and meows to go back outside. \n\nI feel an irrational amount of resentment for this cat to the point of wanting to put it down. It has seemingly no redeemable qualities and has caused much damage to our house as well as attacking the children. If I were alone I would have done it already. I still may.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 23, graduated college and have been working full time ever since. Despite my age, a lot of people tell me that I look like a high schooler. I guess it doesn't help that I'm petite and 5'2\". In terms of dress, if I had to describe it, I guess it would be a mix of H&M and Urban Outfitters.\n\nMy boyfriend is 31 and he looks it. His style is more Uniqlo and Banana Republic. I don't have a problem with anything about him or us, but our age difference seems to bother him a lot, especially since I look so much younger.\n\nLast week we went to a beach concert and he said some of his friends might meet up with us. I had my hair up in two buns (think Baby Spice) and wore a loose top and maxi skirt. In the end, we didn't end up meeting most of his friends because it was so crowded and couldn't find them.\n\nTonight he mentioned how he wasn't digging my hair last week, nor my outfit, and he said that I looked \"so young.\" He mentioned that he was a bit hesitant for me to meet his friends because of all of this. He said he is afraid of what they might think of him dating someone so much younger than him, that they will judge him negatively. He asked me to \"doll up\" more whenever we do something with his friends and dress more \"maturely\" (not his exact word, but that's the best I can think of).\n\nI told him I would see what I could do, but I'm just not sure what to make of this. Of course I want to make a good impression on his friends, but I also feel like the way he wants me to dress isn't my style, and I don't want to feel like I'm not being \"me.\"\n\nIs there any way to compromise? What would you do/how would you react?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I (F, 21) recently moved out of my apartment and got a new one living by myself. I still pay rent at the old apartment and put a lock on my door because without it my roommate would take over my room and that isn't fair since I pay 450 for an apartment that I do not live in... So anyways I pay rent do not pay for internet and electric (obviously since I do not use it) Heat and water is included. Now I was wondering when I go over to the apartment to make sure my door is still locked, if I see that it is not (roommate does not have a key obviously), could I call the cops on her for breaking and entering? We are both on the lease. I'm pretty sure you guys are gonna say no, you can't but I just want to make sure. My room at the apartment is completely empty so she couldn't steal anything I just think it is entirely unfair for me to pay rent at an apartment when nothing of it is mine. You know what I mean? So what can I do if my door has been unlocked?? I am in New York by the way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear Reddit,I am kinda confused on what to do here so I am seeking your advice. (this is a long one by the way)\n\nThere is a girl who I like very much and still have deep feelings for. We had been dating for a year and four days when we broke up/went on a break as I needed to figure somethings out with myself and needed to take a breather from the relationship. \n\nWe remained close friends (Still are to best of my knowledge)and on three seperate occasions had sex while not technically being together. Fast forward to the current time, I have recently (A week ago) told this girl that I am ready to be in a relationship with her again and still care very deeply for her. \n\nHer reply was that \"I am currently in a relationship\"and then soon added but he leaves for Hong Kong in two weeks for 9 months. I then enquired if it was possible that we could be together at somepoint in the future.She replied that\"Anything is possible and you never know what the future holds\" \n\nNow that being said I still love her very much and am currently waiting for the guy she is seeing to leave the country.I feel that after this happens I will be in a better situation as her friend to win her back.\n\nNow a little about this girl,she can't really deal with seperation and as Hong Kong has a 12 hour time difference and her re-bound is going to be busy with work and developing a social network out there and well won't have that much time for her as a whole. \n\nI am hoping that due to this she won't be able to handle being in a relationship with this guy and perhaps comes back to me. I know it is a lot to hope for but at the moment I am biding my time awaiting for this guy to leave. \n\nWell Reddit I ask you what would you do in my situation,would you wait as you said you would and waitfor the re-bound guy to leave, before talking to her again and take it as friends (Like I am currently doing) or would you do something else. \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit- this is a throwaway for (somewhat) obvious reasons. My boyfriend is a redditor and we're in an awkward situation. \n\nI am super unhappy with my boyfriend. He's super disrespectful, frequently groping me or making inappropriate jokes about my body in public. When I convey to him that these jokes make me uncomfortable, and that I wish he would stop, he makes passive aggressive comments like \"well I'm not intending to be MEAN,\" or \"can you tell me what I'm doing to make you mad?!\" I explain the situation/my feelings, and then he continues this same behavior. He has also recently demanded that I get a second job, even though I work 40+ hours a week, and he works part time as a substitute teacher. I'm due to start graduate school in the fall, and I'm not comfortable taking on another job just to quit it in four months. I've expressed this to him, and he seems to think its all a big joke. He also displays other behaviors that have led me to conclude that I can't be with him anymore. \n\nHere's where the situation get awkward: we're both recent college grads, and have been living with his family while we get our ducks in a row, financially. They're great people and I love them dearly, and I hate the sever any ties with them, especially because I don't get along so well with my own family (besides my mother, who is fantastic, but not the best source of support in situations like these). Furthermore, the graduate school I'm attending is in his home town. While it's not exactly a small city, I don't know many people here and all of my friends, I know through him (they are also great people- I really don't know how such a douche managed to surround himself with so many fantastic people, but he did)! I'd hate to run into any awkward situations, but I know I can't be with this guy any more. I know I'll Have to burn some bridges, but I'd hate to make too many people hate me. How do I handle this without making people hate me?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "All right. So this has a little backstory. The \"friend\" is someone I have been trying to date for the past month and a 1/2. She said yes to go out with me, but when I invite her out on a date, she says she wants to get to know me better before we jump in to anything.\n\nOk. I get that. We just start hanging out here and there. Get to know each other. I learn that she's had issues with her weight. It's a big problem for her. Not a problem for me. Fast forward to last Saturday (3/26), and she tells me that she's failing school and wants to focus on herself right now and isn't looking for a relationship. I was pretty broken up because it came out of nowhere and I thought things were going great.\n\nI've still talked to her these past few days like nothing happened. Nothing relationship related, though. Just talking. Then, yesterday (3/28) I posted a picture of a coworker of mine, whom she also knows, and my friend captioned it, \"Bae\" and it had a heart eyes emoji. Everyone knows that her and I always mess around and say things like that. She has a boyfriend and is not my type anyways.\n\nLast night, she sent me a snap that just said, \"Wow.\" Then she texted me that she deleted me off of all social media because I'm going to be posting things like that. I came back and I tried to explain that it was a joke and that we weren't in a relationship anyways and asked why it mattered.\n\nI asked a few of my friends about their opinion on the situation and they said she's just trying to control me. I just have no idea what I should do. Hell, I'm still confused and not sure how I really think about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we are both in high school and we have a dance coming up. My girlfriend isn't really into dances and stuff. I'm not too much of a social person but this dance only happens once every four years so I kinda want to go. It's not prom, it's another type of formal. The problem is my girlfriend really doesn't want to go to the dance. It's a girls ask guys dance and I had to try to convince her to go. She tentatively agreed to go, but told me she wouldn't be having fun. She just found out she has a five hour practice the day of the dance, which is on a Saturday. She could go, but would be super tired. On Sunday she will have an all day tournament, so really her schedule is not helping at all. I don't know what to do. I really really want to go, but not without her. And I would feel bad for \"forcing\" her to go, especially with all of her things.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "F26 (European), M24 (American)\n\nDating almost 2 years, long-distance for most of that time.\n\nWe met while I (F26) was visiting a friend on the west coast. Hit it off instantly and kept in touch via fb/skype when I got home. It only took about a week to decide that it was worth a shot and since then we've been happily dating, traveling back and forth between continents. Even though we're long-distance, we've managed to spend almost 7 months living together, so we do know that we get along well and can live together without any major issues. \n\nHowever. We do have one huge problem and we don't really know what to do about it, so we're turning to you for help. He wants kids, I kinda don't. I'm fairly set in my ways. We want to end the long-distance part, but moving in together permanently would getting married so I can get a visa. Him moving here, which wouldn't require a visa, is impossible for various reasons. I wouldn't mind getting married or even moving there to a degree (I've lived in the States before, for college, and I get along really well with his family and friends), and he has no issues with that part either...but...the kid issue is something we can't ignore. We both love each other very much and it'd hurt like hell to have to break up over this, when everything else is working so well. This is my first serious relationship, his second/third depending on how you define \"serious\". What do you suggest we do? I have issues of my own - not being happy with my job and where I am in life - but I'm not sure going all Suzy Homemaker would make me happier. It's not something I've even considered an option before, coming from divorced parents and being a complete forever aloner (relationship-wise) before I met M24.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating X for almost two years now, but I'm undecided as to whether I want to continue the relationship or not. \n\nShe's perfect on paper, intelligent, pretty, gets along with my family etc, but I'm not sure if my heart is in it any more.\n\nShe seems fairly intent on marrying me, but I don't think I'm ready to even fathom the idea, I think it's way too early and I don't even know if she's the one. I like her and I know she's quite the catch, but I'm not sure I'm ready to stay in a relationship until marriage. She brings it up quite often and seems to be really forcing the idea. Am I just feeling smothered? How do I remedy this?\n\nI'm at a point in my life where my decisions mean a lot to the outcome of how the rest follows through. I'm deciding where I want to go to school, what I'll take, etc. I'm afraid that I'm not making enough of my own decisions and deciding what I want to be happy. \n\nRecently I've been in a bit of a funk and haven't really been as happy as I'm used to. There's nothing really devastatingly wrong in my life so far as I can tell. But I feel like something in this relationship isn't right and it's contributing to my depressed feelings.\n\nWe get along well, it's never been awkward, never felt forced until now. I'm not really sure what started it but I don't think I'm in this relationship as much as she is and I'm questioning continuing it at all.\n\nIs there any way for me to get back into a relationship I seem to have fallen out of? If not, how do I go about breaking up with her? I'm really just looking for insight into the situation and maybe another point of view. If you need more information just ask, I wasn't really sure what to put in here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi loseit. I've been a lurker here for a while, it's a great place to come to when you feel like you need some motivation to keep on track. I'm not looking to lose as much weight as many people here I think, but the method is the same.\n\nI'm a 5'10\", 19 year-old female, and since last August I've gone from my highest weight of 164 and dropped around ~12 lbs using myfitnesspal. It's been rather slow-going for me since every so often I tend to go over my calorie limit for a couple days before getting back on track, but I think overall I end up with more days where I've eaten my goal amount or I'm under my maintenance calories rather than over.\n\nHowever, it's started to get to the point where I'm getting frustrated, because I just can't seem to get any lower. For nearly the past 2 months I've been wavering between ~154-152 lbs, and it seems that any time I just start to think I'll be making progress, I regain those couple pounds I think I've dropped.\n\nThis morning was very discouraging, because after weighing in at 152.4 lbs last week, I stepped on the scale to have it declare I was at 155.4.\n\nNow, I know that this is kind of silly, since in order to re-gain 3 whole pounds of fat, I would have to eat an excess of 10,500 calories, which I am quite certain I haven't done. I know it has to be water weight, but at the same time, it's really disappointing that all this water weight is being added onto my real weight. I mean, last week I must have had some water weight too, right? Yet it still said I was 3 lbs lighter. And the fact that it says so means that I probably haven't lost any fat either, otherwise even with water weight my overall weight would probably be less.\n\nI always weigh myself in the morning, after using the washroom and before eating anything, so that's not the problem. I just don't know what to do anymore to get myself out of this plateau I've been in. Does anybody have any advice or words of wisdom? I'd really appreciate it. :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As mentioned in the title, I'm having trouble moving on from someone I dated 3 years ago. It's been a while, I'm in a good relationship now, yet one part or me can't shake this feeling of \"what could have been?\" With said ex. When I see him with someone else (online/school (we go to the same school)), I can't help but feel loss. \n\nI know my ex isn't right for me. I know I don't want him. Yet for some reason, I'm having trouble letting go of the last few feelings for him.\n\nFellow redditors and relationship gurus, can you give me any advice so I can help myself finally move forward and fully appreciate future relationships?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm just hurting inside. Number one, he doesn't want to spend time with me without the kids. Number two, it doesn't matter to him at all that I would like some time without the kids. You'd think that even if he didn't want to go out, he'd do it at least once a year for me, you know?\n\nWe moved here, 400 miles away from my family, so he could take his dream job. Between work and school he is often gone 80 hours a week. One of our children is special needs with sensory processing disorder and anxiety/depression. I do most of the parenting while trying to run a freelance business on the side. \n\nMy family would often help with the kids but without the family support and with him being gone it's so hard. And he won't compromise. He just doesn't ever want to go out on date nights. He'll happily go to a baseball game for work or go out golfing with his buddies, but he'll never do anything for me. And I get really sad that he doesn't seem to crave any alone time with me. \n\nAm I being unreasonable to want to get out on a date night? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex broke up mid december, we had been fighting quite a bit the month before and we were both very stressed out from school. He broke up with me cause he felt that our relationship wasn't beneficial to each other anymore and that things just weren't the same between us. \n\nIt's been a maybe 4 months now and we haven't talked much at all (he completely blocked me from everything). He is seeing a girl that he's had class with for awhile and I'm dating too. The other day thought he unexpected showed up at my apartment with a package that had accidentally been delivered to his apartment. I was really surprised that he showed up to give me it cause when ever we have decided to met for any reason since the breakup he insist we meet in a public place. He didn't stay for long and he seemed to keep his distance from me (like trying to stand as far as way as possible). We had a good interaction nothing eventful in anyway, but now I'm feeling odd for some reason. \n\nI mean I have been missing him and everything, but have been keeping away form him of course. It just felt very different then any other interaction we have had almost like we were just aquaitence. I don't like the feeling, we were so closed he was my best friend, we shared so much personal, intimate, and emotional stuff. I don't know why this is upsetting me so much but it really is. Of course I want to be friends but this change in the dynamic between us is upsetting and I'm not sure why.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Loseit,\n\nA little bit of a rant because I see so many posts here that are along the lines of I've lost 50, 75, 100+lbs and have plateaued, or about loose skin, or feeling large even though they've lost large amounts of weight, or frustration with where they are fitness wise, and it makes me think of a running joke my partner and I have. Any time something is taking awhile, or we need to be patient for something we tend to say \"give it a second, it's going to space\" in reference to this Louis CK bit \n\nMy opinion is people need to chill a little when they hit these frustrating points. Bodies are natural systems, respect yours, it can only change so much so fast. The changes some people here are making are so all encompassing that encountering these problems means you deserve a pat on the back because they represent just how far you've come. Plateau after losing 100lbs? It makes me think \"oh, you're frustrated? And are you virtually unrecognizable from who you were last year? Are you able to fucking enter a gym without feeling awkward? Let alone exercise without feeling like death?\". The plateau will break, the loose skin will rebound, and mental perceptions will shift, but your body might as well be going to space for how much you're asking it to do. It takes years to get really unfit give yourself time to get healthy, internally, externally, and mentally.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a Kenyan. And fiercely proud of it (and this is neither here nor there but thank y'all Reddit for the overwhelming Omari response, you got my homeboy covered). I now live in the US and I just love it. I identify as Kenyan-American.\n\nI keep tabs on news from home and this made me both sad and angry. \"Primitive energy\" conjures up images of topless women shaking their tatas in delirious glee and chest thumping. Now, granted, there are some tribes in Kenya who go topless (and with that I lost half the audience as they opened a tab with that Google search) but I feel that this was an inappropriate tag line. \n\nDespite what the documentaries portray about Africa as a whole, I think the use of the word primitive is unjustified. I'll speak for Kenya in particular. There have been significant contributions from the country and some of the ones that come to mind:\n1. We have/had the first female professor in East & Central Africa and Nobel Laureate: Prof. Wangari Maathai (RIP)\n2. How can I forget our long distance athletes (though this might be an argument for the other side, running away from lions will sure give you killer hamstrings)\n3. The world's first mobile money-sending app (M-pesa)\n\nAre we underdeveloped, without a doubt. Do we have poverty, absolutely. Are we doing the best we can to get ourselves out of the poverty quagmire? Yes. But primitive...I don't think so.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/relationships,\nI'm kind of in the same situation I was in a year ago. I was seeing that girl from the US more frequently from week to week and started to get more interested in her. As time passed by, I lost 28 pounds in almost 4 months (mid march to end june) just because of her. I was weighing 117 pounds in march last year and got my weight down to 89 pounds which felt very good and I didn't even have any issues with my health and even now I don't.\n\nThe thing is that I didn't really have to lose so much weight in such a short time but I still did it because I just wanted to talk to her which -in the end- I couldn't do because she had moved from Germany over to England. I gained like 15 pounds back in the time from july to february this year. I then started to do sports again and lost 5 pounds already which is good but now the problem is that -like last time- I feel very empty inside because of all the hope I had back then and I also have now.\n\nWhy now? Because I'm chatting with a girl for a few days now and she seems to be very interested in me I guess. I have to mention that I felt quiete normal until yesterday. At the beginning, when I asked her for a picture of her face, she did not want to send me one because I was just an usual stranger to her. We were chatting for quiete some time and then, yesterday, she sent me a picture of her face and I was just stunned of how beautiful she is. Now that I know I really want to meet her, I have that big problem of losing weight again. My body doesn't force me to do it but my mind does. Normally, I'd be hungry, especially after eating one slice of bread but like last year, I can't help it and only drink water.\n\nI really hope I can get a little help from you guys and I'm sorry if some things don't sound well expressed but thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today, I ran for almost 7km straight in 47 minutes. Started my Zombies, Run! mission, and didn't stop running until I heard \"Mission Completed\".\n\nA little background - overweight and out of shape my entire adult life, I had joint problems and was diagnosed with asthma. I moved across the US from everything I knew. \n\nThe day after my boyfriend's birthday (2 weeks after mine), I started working out. Then I decided that I was going to try running. I got a c25k app and barely made it through the 15 second run drills. I finished the app and have been running almost daily, but seemed to have trouble with slowing to a walk way more often than I wanted. \n\nI realized that I was paying too much attention to the distance I was running. It'd tell myself 'after this km, you can walk.' And it would seem like an eternity. So I turned of the distance prompts in the game. I chose a road for today that I've been on a few times, and has a park at the end in case I wanted to add some distance. \n\nI'm still stunned that I did that - even more so that I just want to go back out tonight and do it all over again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I found out from one of my friends that a girl I know has a minor crush on me, she thinks I'm \"smart and cute.\" But to say I know her is a stretch, as I don't know much about her and we've barely talked. That being said, from what I've seen of her interactions with others, I've always thought that she could be an 'ideal' girlfriend. She has a lot of the characteristics I am looking for (an interest in music, computer programming, etc). Now, we're scheduled to meet at some point in the next week; I'm going to show her (one-on-one) some software since she expressed an interest in learning how it works. I don't feel like that is the right context to try any of the usual things and up until this point our texting has been strictly professional. Here is where my question begins, I found her OKCupid profile (according to their match things we're a solid 87%), would it be too bold to send her a 'fancy seeing a girl like you in a place like this'", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok long story short. My parents are the very overprotective \"tiger\" type parents. They 100% forbid me playing video games, and I've complied with them since I was 12. I really want to get the new 3DS with Pokemon. I talked to them recently about it and they still 100% forbid me playing games.\n\nI am an overachiever, I maintain a 95% average and will be entering university next year. I work very hard, and I have saved up $10.4k from summer jobs ($4.3k this year) and I really want to treat myself to something I have wanted for a long time.\n\nMy parents both work all day, so i would be able to conceal the 3DS from them, and they would never know I got it. This would be the first time in my life that I ever \"rebelled\" against my parents. Should I? I can go and purchase it tomorrow if I want to. But the question is... SHOULD I? I feel like I would be betraying my parents' trust, but I have been under their control for my whole life and I've had enough. But if I get it, and make sure they don't know about it, it won't hurt, will it? Please help, have any of you been in this sort of situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obligatory \"happened two years ago\" forward.\n\nI had the bright idea to sit on my then-boyfriend's lap while he was sitting in a poorly constructed chair. I leaned backward to pick something up from the floor, and as he shifted so I could reach it, the seat of the chair fell out from under us. I fell off his lap, landing on my back. I tried to grab onto him, so my spine was bent right where I landed. It knocked the air out of me, and I was in so much pain that I thought about going to the hospital. Weeks later it still ached, and I had to go to the chiropractor and explain how I soberly fell out of a chair. My chiropractor couldn't even do the adjustment without applying electrodes and heat to my back because the muscles were so jammed up. Now my spine dips in where I landed (or maybe I just have scoliosis, idk) and can crack just by moving my shoulder blades back. It still aches a fair amount for a few weeks at a time every so often.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I was young- 1st grade, maybe even before, I was tested for my IQ. I remember how my parents used to be so proud to tell me that the doctor said I had a higher IQ than even his. I don't remember the exact number but I know it was in the upper 140s, likely 146. During most of grade school, I felt as if I was that intelligent. However, during my final year at high school and my years so far in college, I haven't felt so smart. My mind feels sluggish at times and it doesn't seem to react with the same speed it used to. It's like a hazy feeling that I should be able to think through a problem that's giving me issues and it takes a lot more effort than I'm used to. I don't know what to think of this but I try to brush it off as simply being out of practice with the subjects I'm thinking about. I don't know if this is really it though. I don't do many harmful activities- I only drink sparingly and I don't do drugs. I exercise daily and eat healthily. The only thing I really do is play a very very large amount of video games and be on my computer for hours. I saw a comment on another thread and it made me think about this again. So, what is my problem? Is there anything I can do to regain my sharpness and should I start cutting out my excessive hours of video games?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm about to move into a new apartment. I'm moving in with two other people, one guy I know and one guy that I haven't met but is friends with my friend (I didn't know many people in the area so I thought I'd give it a shot).\n\nThe problem that I'm having is that while I was on a trip, my two roommates went out and bought furniture for the apartment. They spent $1800 and got a couch, a kitchen table, a media center, and a shoe rack. Then a bunch of other small things (dishes, screw gun, silverware, etc). IMHO we definitely didn't need to spend that much money. \n\nSo now it's time to split the cost, everywhere I read everyone says that it is 100x easier for everyone to buy their \"own\" pieces of furniture so that everyone knows who is responsible for what. (Someone buys the couch, someone else buys the kitchen table and rug, etc). This in my head makes sense, but when I brought it up, I was shot down.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(24/f) I have had two boyfriends in my entire life- each lasting 4+ years. Never really got a chance to sleep or date around. I know that men prefer younger women, and I feel the older I get the harder it will be for me to sleep with men I find attractive, and who find me attractive as well. I have always had trouble finding guys I would like to date or sleep with too.\n\nOnly problem is I have a boyfriend right now, we've been dating 4 years. I love him a lot but we've had a lot of ups and downs, he treated me poorly in the past, but I had forgiven him. Even though I had forgiven him, it's still never quite the same. I guess the combination of the past plus the fact we've been together awhile, etc. kind of contribute to me feeling bored with him sometimes. I just don't want to wake up one day and feel I missed out.\n\nI don't really know if I want to dump him or if I should. Like I said, he brings me a lot of happiness and I love him and don't want to hurt him. I feel conflicted.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For most of high school, I've been the go to \"computer kid.\" I'll be the first to admit that I know a lot about how computers work, and often fix things for teachers before the IT guys have a chance to get a whack at them. I worked at a computer repair shop for half a year as a technician. I've done the typical tech guy thing and drooled over new computers that come out (read: Wired/PopSci/2600 articles and centerfolds). \n\nThat said, I have NO IDEA what kind of computer to get for college. I've always wanted to buy a ton of parts and build my own \"super\" desktop, but I for sure need a laptop. If everything goes according to plan, I'm enrolling at Champlain College next Fall to double major in Computer Network Information Security and Digital Forensics. \n\nA lot of you probably already know this, but this major involves a lot of virtual desktops. Essentially I set up entire networks on my own rig and then go in and play around with them, all from one computer. It takes a lot of processing power and hard drive space.\n\nOver the years I've built up several stereotypes about different brands, operating systems, products... Recently, my mind has been opened back up and I'm willing to take a look at anything, even a Dell or an Asus.\n\nIt's recently been brought to my attention that Macs are actually pretty good. I've always been a notorious Windows-only-guy. I finally decided to bite my tongue and take a look under the hood, and my god are these things powerful... I guess it really does help making everything but the processor in-house.\n\nAnywho, what I really need is suggestions that might work well for my major, hopefully staying under a budget of $1600. Also, what are the big differences between a MacBook and MacBook Pro?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a student, and I'm at school most the day. \n\nBut on breaks I sometimes go to Panera, I'd say 3-4 times a week.\n\nI see one girl there about half the time.\n\nI realize that people at food places are supposed to be nice, but she's usually cleaning tables, and I always get my order to go. \n\nEvery time I come in, she cleans a something near me, and tries to start a conversation.\n\nPG-13: Extra info: She has a body that I'm really into. \n\nAss looks great in her work khakis, she usually has a loose apron on that covers her chest, but even then, I can tell that she has some very large breasts underneath. \n\nIdeally, I'd like to have a relationship with her.\n\nBut right now, I'm in a position where I don't want a full fledged girlfriend. \n\nSomeone to hang out with, and yes, someone to mess around with.\n\nAs the title says, I have little dating experience.\n\nSo I just thought I'd run my thoughts by reddit, and see what you guys though.\n\nShould I just go in for the kill, or strike up more conversation and let it occur naturally?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Without getting too into it, I was kind of a dick to my ex while we were dating. It got real bad towards the end of the relationship to the point where she cut all contact with me and had her friends tell me things for her. \n\nThis was about 10 years ago give or take, and we've both moved on into our own serious relationships.\n\nI feel like I owe her a huge apology for being such an ass. The problem is that I don't want my current S.O. to know as I worry she'll freak out about it. \n\nI'm also not sure if there's even a point anymore, like my ex has most likely moved on and never thinks about me. \n\nI've been thinking about her more lately and even have had dreams of me talking and apologizing to her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together 3 years and have worked out most of the kinks of living 1,000 miles apart, but this is a new challenge. Yesterday he found out his grandfather was in the hospital, so he rushed to his bedside. As of today, his grandfather is unresponsive and is likely going to pass within a few hours. I am making a point to always be available over text, call, and Skype and I'm doing my best to make sure that he feels supported and loved, but it doesn't feel like I'm doing enough, and I'd do anything to give him my shoulder to lean on right now. It's not necessarily practical for me to fly out because both of us have final exams to take in the next two weeks, and I don't want to burden his family with having to host me. \n\nMy question is if anybody else has advice or ideas on how to best support an SO in a time like this in a way that can be done from a distance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I posted to a few subreddits on the advice of a friend. Forgive me if I did it wrong. \n \nI have a bunch of Brooks Brothers and Brooks Brothers-like oxford shirts that I have barely worn. I would be happy to send a couple to job hunting redditors who can make use of them for interviews or whatever. I think probably just the United States because of shipping costs. I also have some sportcoats to get rid of. The shirts are size 16 - 4/5 Sportcoats are 38-42 Regular. Most of this stuff fit me when I was slightly heavier than I am now, around 5' 8\" and 185 lbs. Not a lot of items, but I'll invest in some USPS for people who could use them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have always wanted a fall wedding and so I'm hoping to have my wedding on October 4th 2014. My Dad is being kind of an ass and telling me I can't because that is the day moose opens. I also can't have it at any point during moose season, which means I can't have a fall wedding because moose season is all of October. He says I can have it in September but where I live the leaves aren't turned yet in September and even early October is risky but I'm trying to not have it right in the middle of moose season. It's not like we rely on him getting a moose to eat or anything like that either, it is recreational for him. He goes moose hunting every single year and it causes him to miss every single thanksgiving (Canada) so I think he can suck it up and go 1-2 days late so I can have my wedding when I want. He says I'm being a diva, I say he is. Am I over reacting reddit? Should I move my wedding day?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the problem I'm having here is that I'll be going off to college this fall. My two siblings, parents, and I live in a very small, three bedroom ranch with not much of a living room. Currently my brother and sister share a room, and I have one to myself. My situation is that my sister wants my room, step dad told her she could have it, and I'll have no space of my own when I return for 4 months out of the year. I am a very private person and tend to stay tucked away into my room, as the house is small. How do I explain to my parents that I don't want to be displaced and that I feel like I need my privacy? I don't want to share a room with my sister, as we have a 10 year age gap, but they also don't want my siblings to share a room as brother and sister, although they have a one year age gap. My sister is messy and always likes friends over, and I'm quite the opposite and like having my own space to stay in and quietly retreat to. My room is kind of my own quiet happy space, and I hate when people touch my things or are in my space, which I know my sister would invade on all the time. I'm not financially in the position to try to get a space of my own, and my parents seldom give me money for things. How do my parents and I try to work this situation out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We are seniors in college. We used to be a thing, but we broke things off because we didn't want any attachments (graduating and all). I know that he's super busy. The past several weeks he has been out of town on the weekends to visit grad schools.\n\nHe went on a trip over winter break, and I know be brought me back something that I asked him to.\n\nHe doesn't really respond to me. It's very sporadic. I asked him if he wanted to even be friends (given we basically broke up). And he said he did, he just doesn't always have time to respond as much as I message him.\n\nI just don't know what to do. It feels like I'm doing all the effort, but I still want to be friends with him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me 30m and my girlfriend 23f of 4 years just broke up a few days ago. We have dated on and of the entire 4 years.We have lived together for about 3 years off and on. We usually go about 8-11 months and then we lose interest it seems then get back together a month or so later. We had trust issues in the beginning but we both moved past alot and trust was rebuilt.\n We have been dating again since may so about 6 months into this. In these six months our communication was 100% better and had some of the best times.\n\n Well up until about 1 1/2 weeks ago.. She started being distant and in turn i reflected the same behavior and became distant as well. Things went south quickly so I start a talk and we admit were mutually unhappy.. But she admits she is emotionally cheating, but its nothing more, and says she doesn't want to break up. But i decide the trust has been broken. And say i cant deal with that anymore. We are on a m2m lease and nether of us can afford our apt alone. We have very minimal contact. I stay away from our home when i know shes there and she does the same. Its very stressful and i have no idea how to deal with this. I didnt expect this to happen at all. It doesnt hurt the worst but its hard for me because of all the stuff we have together. I feel if we are breaking up, this is IT. I need support.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Through CouchSurfing.org, I have been planning a trip to Spain. The woman that I am staying with in Cordoba is named Antonia and she is 56 years old. She's asked me to help her find her old friend named Edward Carlson, who she did a lot of travelling with and has lost contact with. Since she doesn't really know how to use computers, she asked me to help her, but I can't find anything on Facebook or Google, and I'm not really great at stalking people down.\n\nI think it would make her really happy if she could talk to her friend again. This is the information she's given me:\n\nEdward Carlson, from New York City, used to live at 309, Avenue C and also at 17, Honey Lane, Miller Place in Long Island. He served with the Peace Corps in the Tonga Islands in around 1973/1974. He owned a sailboat named Erewhon, which my friend Antonia sailed on with him. Antonia thinks that he is probably just over 60 years old now.\n\nPlease let me know if you can help me find Antonia's old friend! She would be very happy and she's been trying to find him for a very long time :) Thanks, Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm on mobile so forgive me if there's typos/formatting errors. \n\nI have been best friends with this guy for about a year and a half now. We spend almost every day together and if we aren't hanging out we for sure talk everyday and tell each other everything. I started catching feelings a few months ago but I haven't done anything about it because I know for a fact he's not into me. Which alright, fine, I should just drop it and move on, and I've been trying to without losing our friendship. So far it's been okay. \n\nRecently he's been a bit more distant and a little shady. He'd lie to me about who he was texting/hanging out with and talk to me less and less. Turns out he has been hanging out with this girl who I have a bad past with (my ex boyfriend cheated on me with her). I'm pretty sure my best friend has a crush on her and is trying to get at her, and I know it's none of my business but it really bugs the hell out of me, especially since this chick hurt me in the past and now she's hanging out with him. I mean it would probably bug me a tiny bit if he was seeing anyone, but the fact that it's her is kind of like a slap to the face. Is there anything I should do? It bugs me but I don't want to lose his friendship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically what happened was that my brother went off to college in a different state. His girlfriend went to college in our home state. Things were going pretty well considering they video chatted almost everyday. during winter break he came back to visit and everything was fine. He then left for college again and this is when things started going downhill. I noticed on my brother's girlfriend facebook page a lot of posts from this one guy [lets call him jake]. All of these posts look like it was part of a conversation so I assumed that she was replying by posting on his wall opposed to just replying in the comments. I tried to look at his wall but he set it to private. This got me a little worried and it did concern my brother as well. He didn't want to look jealous so he didn't make a big deal out of it. He did, however, talk to her about it and she just said that he's just a friend from class.\n\nFast forward 3 months and now my brother is back. My brother then gets his wisdom teeth pulled out and has to stay at home. While my parents are at work and I'm at school, my brother's girlfriend got dropped off from her college (her college still has school) from her friend. She tells him that she has to leave in about 30 minutes to go back to college and that she will get picked up from her friend at a near by park. My brother tells her that he will walk her to the park but she refuses profusely. He didn't want to push the issue so he complies. He later finds out that her \"friend\" that came to pick her up was indeed Jake. He then talks to her about it and she just said they're just friends once more. He tells her that he doesn't want her to talk to him that much in a flirty way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for over a year now. It never fails that when a deep topic comes up and I try to support her and help her the best way I can it isn't good enough and I feel like she compares me to her ex at these times.\n\nJust so you have a idea her past relationship lasted for 4 years, they broke up because she didn't trust him after he smoked weed once and she held it against him for the duration of the relationship & they fought a lot supposedly. As a idea to why I say she compares us is we had a conversation recently about her parents because they might be getting a divorce.\n\nI tried to comfort her by saying positive things and reassuring her. But she said I wasn't being sympathetic enough compared to someone that has dealt with this like her ex. Because I guess her ex's parents had a divorce also while they were together in that past relationship.\n\nI just need some help as in what should I do, I have told her many times when I feel like she is comparing me against him. I tell her I do not like to be compared but it hasnt stopped. I Feel like because I don't have certain experiences I had to deal with in life she thinks I don't know what I am saying.\n\nWhat should I do to get this stop or is this just a lost cause at this point?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[This] thread got me thinking about the \"disgusting\" things I'd eat if I was really hungry. I don't mean the kind of hungry when lunch is still two hours away and the coffee you had for breakfast isn't helping anymore and you groan to your coworker \"I'm starving!\" I mean hungry like you haven't had a bite to eat in days and you're not sure when you'll eat again.\n\nFor me, it was 1994 and I was 20 years old living with my first boyfriend. We often survived on end-of-day leftovers at our crappy fast food jobs. Business got slow and we both got fired from our jobs and we were just too dumb to think about the fact that the money we were spending on cigarettes and Dr. Pepper should probably be used for PB&J. \n\nHe got a part time job at KFC so he got at least one free meal a day, and I'd usually walk there to share that with him. It was almost Thanksgiving and his hours got cut back from 24 a week to 18, then 12, then they let him go altogether. Just before he left, he stole a bag of powdered mashed potatoes. (Desperate times, desperate measures?) We ate mashed potatoes for every meal for a week until it was just gone. Then there was nothing, and it was the day after Thanksgiving and all the food pantries were closed, and then it was the weekend and we were SO hungry.\n\nThose three days with nothing but water were probably the longest of my life. Strangely, after the 24 hour mark I stopped feeling hunger pains and just felt tired and moody. Any time I thought about food, I'd drink water or eat ice. (I found out several years later that while I had been starving, my boyfriend had been secretly visiting his family and having lunch or dinner with them. His family hated me, they felt I stole away their little boy, and there's no way they'd have fed me. My family wasn't talking to me because I was \"living in sin\" with him, so I didn't have backup like he did.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the first time I met this girl about 2 years go at church- I felt an instant connection with her. I finally found her on Facebook and we've been talking. She's ok with hanging out-and I dont think I'm in the friend-zone because she's so open to go out. But she just posted a relationship update to make it \"Facebook\" official. What would be a good plan? We're getting together in a little over a month to shop around at a record store, a hippie shop, etc. I just feel like even though I don't know her that well it was like a spiritual and emotional connection. But she's in a relationship which I assume is serious. Should I assert my feelings for her when we meet up? I'm not sure what to do-in my mind she's life partner/wife material because she seems perfect for me. At this point in y life I really don't want a girlfriend or children but she makes me think otherwise.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I grew up in two very different homes. Mine was very conservative and his very liberal. \n\nAs with all couples, we find our upbringing influences our perception of how the world should be, including marriage. I want a wedding, nothing big or fancy, but a public declaration of together-forever and celebration with family and friends. He sees marriage as a legal binding that provides benefits financially and legally to a couple, but does not see that we are in any position to need those benefits at this time. If we were to marry under his belief in marriage, it would only be at a time of the greatest convenience and benefit. \n\nI can see where is coming from, love is love and the title of Mr. & Mrs. doesn't change those feelings (or at least shouldn't). I, also, know he understands where I am coming from, but we struggle to find an acceptable compromise. \n\nMostly just looking for advice or anecdotes from fellow redditors that have or have had non-traditional, long term relationships.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A friend of my mine recently found out my tumblr and created a new account made to mimic mine. Same pic, same layout, same theme, and just changed the name by one letter so it's hardly noticeable. He also apparently sends messages to my bf (whom he's also good friends with) to try and confuse him. I'm sure he knows both my bf and I know and it's all in good fun, my bf and I both think it's hilarious, but we both want to try and mess with him as much as we can. One thing I should mention is that I'm currently abroad so the only thing I can do is via the internet, though my bf would probably be willing to step in for some more personal fun, we're both just at a loss for what to do. So Reddit, what would you do to mess with him as much as possible?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this happened about 20 min ago. I had gotten done with my quiet night of gaming and decided to take a shower before bed. As I was brining my dinner plate downstairs I noted my roommate was out and about. \n\nA little info: If I know my roommate is home, I will take my clothes into the shower with me and come out with at least pants on, out of courtesy for another person. If he is not home, I may or may not have boxers on, depending on how I feel. \n\nAnyway, after drying off I open the door, and there are two girls standing outside his room, which happens to be directly adjacent to the bathroom. I was definitely not wearing pants, or boxers. Aside from the brief awkwardness, I shrugged it off and walked to my room, down the hall a bit. \n\nI don't tend to get uncomfortable, as being in the military really prevents you from being shy. Can't speak for them though, they seemed shocked for sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My little girl was born 7 1/2 weeks early (which was also six weeks past the age cutoff for our school district).\n\nAfter two weeks in the nicu and a month on heart/lung monitors at home, she completely caught up and surpassed pretty much every growth metric for actual age (forget about adjusted!).\nNow, at 4 1/2 she's reading books designed for late first-grade and doing late-kindergarten math, mostly just on her own volition.\n\nWe've been terrified for a while of her having to wait an entire year for her to start kindergarten because she'd probably end up a huge discipline problem and start-off her entire school experience on a terrible foot.\n\nAfter months of looking, we finally found a private school willing to bend the rules for her and that we can afford. Once she's through kindergarten, she'll be set for public school and we're off from there.\n\nSo, aside from my huge sigh of relief, I desperately want to give her something on her first day of kindergarten to show her how proud and hopelessly attached to her I am.\n\nBut, I'm drawing a blank. I've thought about jewelry, but what can I find that would withstand a kid that young and be something she'd want to keep as she gets older?\n\nHelp me, reddit! You're my only hope.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I got a haircut. \n\nI was going to give the Asian lady who cut my hair a tip so I asked her to charge $4 extra on my card like I normally do at this place. Little did I know, they had changed their system to what most consider a normal tipping method where you write your tip on the receipt. \n\nAfter filling out the receipt and handing it back to her, I asked (referring to the new style of tipping), \"How is that for you?\" At first she didn't seem to understand so I repeated it louder, \"How is that for you?\" She looked at the receipt, quickly nodded and said equally loud that the tip was much \"good, good!\"\n\nI was given weird stares on the way out by the other eight or so people there. I didn't realize my mistake until I closed the door. The worst part is that she gave a really good haircut and probably deserved more of a tip but I am poor.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "21F, my boyfriend is 22, dating for a year and a half.\n\nOne of the things that makes me most self conscious are bodily functions, particularly the ones related to the colon. I've always been overweight and somehow I relate this to colon problems 'cause I think it makes me really gross farting fatty or something. I have a terribly sensitive colon, and almost anything makes it upset. Most of the time, it's just gas, but it's a lot of it, especially in the night. Lately, I've been sleeping over at my boyfriend's, and you probably can guess where this is going. Sometimes I can't sleep at all for hours because of the effort I put into not letting one rip. When I go to the toilet, even if it's only peeing, and a fart comes out, I feel like I want the toilet to swallow me right up.\n\nTo make things worse, I have the most proper boyfriend I could find. He won't even shower with me 'cause he's too shy about... something, I still haven't even figured it out, maybe washing his genitals I figure. The rest of our relationship is beautiful though, we get along really well, we're very sincere to each other and we even have a healthy and active sex life.\n\nI actually think this is pretty stupid, but it's really bringing me down. I've been getting real serious about this guy, thinking about living together long-term and all, and it just drives me crazy thinking about how I will work around this stuff. So, how do I talk to him about this? How should I act? Won't it be terribly awkward to be sitting there playing games and just... farting? This is really driving me crazy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few months) and within days of me being nicer (texting him first, planning a date, settling for going round to his apartment if he's feeling tired, etc.) then suddenly he loses interest. I once baked cookies on Valentine's Day when we'd been together a few months and the guy freaked out. \n\nSo now I have been dating a guy for a month and he's lovely, but I'm just waiting for it to end - and I feel as soon as I relax or, heaven forbid give him a compliment or say I like him, he's going to bolt.\n\nThe big problem is that he's picking me up from the airport after the Christmas break, and I can't be so ungrateful as to just say thank you, but I'm afraid if I do anything nice he'll run. \n\nSo how can I be affectionate and kind to a guy without him losing interest?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we are both college freshman and have a fantastic relationship (almost half a year in). But the only problem I have found in our relationship is her parents. College to me seems like when we become more independent and on our own. For me that is for sure the case and I love it. But her parents are literally in everything she does. She calls them and tells them about every class and assignment and then they usually and way to mean and tell her to study harder and do better. She sends them assignments to look over before submission. They shove religion down her throat when she doesn't want to be part of it. For Valentines day they send a few candies and the job listings section from a paper...\n\nThey treat her like a child and make me feel like I am dating a child.\n\n^ That is pretty much the main problem. I feel like I am becoming an adult and moving to the next stage and then there is her parents pretty much babying her through everything. I know for a fact if we want to move into together in a couple years it will be a matter of asking for their permission rather than \"We decided to move in\" which is insane to me. An important factor I think is that they are rather well off and pay for all her things, including all college expenses. She has never had a job. I am from a poor family and worked my way here which makes me feel like we are different somehow. Any advice could help me so much, thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Before we left for our easter break (we're at university together). I had a go at her by telling her in a calm but unsympathetic way that I felt trapped by her and that I felt pressurised by her to always pretend I was OK even when I wasn't. After I pulled myself together and comforted her (She cried) I told her we should take a short break after the end of the week and not contact each other over Easter.\n\nAbout 2 weeks into the three week break I texted her a long, heartfelt message telling her I loved her and missed her. I received back a 1 line \"love you too.\" After messaging her on and off for 2 days I sent her a similar message and received a similar answer. I asked to Skype and she told me over Skype that since I had talked to her she had felt disconnected from me. She then said she wasn't sure what she wanted and she would let me know when she sees me face to face. I told her I want to start fresh and have a healthier relationship. We also both agreed that we love eachother.\n\nWhat I want advice on is what I should do to keep myself sane in the intervening week. I know I want to work things out and try to see if we can have a better relationship that doesn't make me feel trapped. Also, how should I go about convincing her to stick with me a little longer to find out if we can make it work? should I try to convince her at all? Finally, if she does dump me, is it appropriate to ask to be fuck buddies? because the sex is super amazingly good.\n\nNot a very exciting post but need advice, thanks for reading to the end.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (male, 26) have a very good friend (female, 25) that I've recently gotten much closer to. Over the past month and a half or so we've come to realize that we are able to communicate and understand each other on a deeper level than with anyone else. We are incredibly similar, in all of the ways that truly matter. We see each other usually a few times a week, and talk every day, for most of the day, including at night for several hours. \nWe're also both physically attracted to one another, but she is just coming off of a breakup with a long term partner, and I am recently divorced, so we don't want to do anything with one another right now. But the desire is there.\n\nThe thing is, though, that we both agree...we don't feel like we want to be in a romantic relationship with one another. We don't want to \"date\". It seems...weird to us. \n\nSo my question is, what is this relationship? If we get along so well, have such a profound connection, spend so much time together, and are physically attracted to each other, why do we not feel like we want to date each other?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm starting this by saying that I realize I'm extremely lucky, and I don't want to fuck it up. I don't have a precedent for my situation, so I need your collective advice:\n\nIn a few years, I'll be leaving college with no debt. I've managed a very small part-time job in addition to being full time student ($2400 in 2012, which I will file taxes on!). I'm looking at ~$3000 for 2012, + an internship stipend (which won't be much).\n\nI've been depositing my checks at a 2:1 Savings:Checkings ratio.\n\nI don't have a car and I won't need one. My room and food is taken care of (I even managed to get free housing for the summer) while I'm in college, and my parents have offered me a (rent-free) couch while I'm job-searching post-graduation.\n\nBasic goals for post-graduation:\nOut of my parents' house by winter, into an apartment, with a job.\nIt's not very realistic, but some recent alum from my department have managed it.\n\nWhat else do I need to consider? What do I need?\n\nI've been reading posts here, but I haven't seen too many very beginner posts, and I did check out the FAQs, but I don't exactly have money to do anything with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I helped a young lady with a computer problem in a coffee shop this morning (couldn't login to school site to upload files); in the process I couldn't help but notice all her google ads (targeted based on her search history) were of jewelry, especially engagement rings. I should have not said anything, but to get her website issue to work I had to delete her cache, history, and cookies. She asked \"will that change anything,\" I said she may have to re-enter login information on some sites and \"you won't be getting all those jewelry ads popping up anymore.\" She says \"What do you mean?\", I explained how targeted ads work and that google just knows she has been ring shopping. She says, with a strange surprised and happy look \"This is my boyfriend's laptop.\" Very awkward after that, as I tried to finish helping her upload files and tried to not think about potentially ruining her boyfriend's engagement plans while she began to daydream in what I can only imagine was the start of wedding planning.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/pets;\n\nI have a little lady named [Franklyn Weatherbee] We rescued her very young after she was found under my friends truck. We think she was about 2-3 weeks old, she barely had teeth, bright blue eyes and was about a 1/2lb. Now she is almost three months, and has been wonderful. Super sweet, mostly a good little thing, and I've grown to think she is fantastic. \n\nEarlier tonight, she went to chew on something and meeped a little. She then spent some time walking around, sad meowing, pawing a little at her mouth and licking like something was stuck in her teeth. It freaked me out, but she stopped after a few and seemed fine, until she tried to eat some dinner (wet food). Same thing again, sad mews, weird licking, seemingly in pain. She wouldn't let me look in her mouth, which is weird because she usually doesn't care. \n\nMy boyfriend thinks she is teething, and that it is worse because she was orphaned at such a young age. Does anyone have any knowledge on this? We're taking her to the vet first thing in the morning, but I'm quite worried and am curious as to what you all think, since you've been so great in the past. Thank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first post, and on a throwaway account because boyfriend and I are both redditors. \n\nMy boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We met online and talked for a few months before meeting up, and it was amazing. I didn't agree to be his girlfriend until a few months after we became an official 'thing' due to trust issues I have from being in a prior relationship where I was cheated on. My boyfriend understands these problems as he was cheated on as well, and swore to never lie to me or cheat on me (in writing, lol). \n\nWe had sex 8 days ago on my birthday, and he was my first. He says I was his first as well. \n\nHowever, upon my random stalking of old reddit posts of his (I do this when I'm missing him), I found that he posted on a subreddit asking for advice on how to get custom condoms sent to his house because 'blah blah brands give me the red ring of death'. I can't understand any other reason as to why he would have done this other than the fact that he had sex with the girl he was with before and lied to me. This also confuses me because he said they never even kissed or held hands but were a 'thing' for nearly a year. The post was a year ago. \n\nHe's sleeping right now and I've texted and called him (he's a heavy sleeper). It's 1:00 a.m. my time and I can't even focus on anything other than being miserable right now. How do I proceed? Should I even entertain his possible explanation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I got out of a long relationship about a month ago. I knew it was coming and was ready to end it myself, but he initiated the breakup. We haven't really been in contact since then.\n\nThe relationship was complex and stressful with many ups and downs. I loved my ex very much and knew that he had some issues as far as his mental health. He talked about feeling poorly-mentally or physically-often.\n\nI've recently been told by a mutual contact that he tells people that I 'gave him depression' and that he is 'so happy' to be without me. I wasn't the perfect girlfriend but I know I did everything I could to support and help him, often at my own emotional expense. I can't believe he would say that about me after all we've been through. Additionally, he told me he had depression issues when we first got together so I don't get how I could have caused it.\n\nCan you guys help me to refocus and not care so much? This hurts. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "7 months have passed since she moved in. Right from the start, we'd joke about sex, but were very clear that room mates should not get together. Seeing as I am not really attractive, a virgin and she recently broke up with her long-distance relationship, I am 100% sure to be stuck in the friend-zone. \n\nAs our friendship grew, she talks more and more about her sexual frustration. While it would be great if we did have sex, I'd rather have some advice on how to reduce these cravings for her. \n\nThe last weeks have been hell. I have started craving her so badly that I am having perverted fantasies and dream about her regularly. I am even starting to have difficulties satisfying myself through my normal porn routine. This is the first time this has ever happened to me and I am getting really sexually frustrated. \n\nI badly need some help before I do something stupid or even creepy. \n\nTo put it into a nice question:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so my father and I went out to dinner tonight and left the dog at home. I'd left half a bar of dark chocolate (about 1.5 oz, still in the wrapper) sitting on my desk. Mind you, the bar has been sitting on the desk for about three days now and the dog hasn't done anything about it, and typically doesn't. She knows not to climb on surfaces and has shown no interest in the candy before. \n\nHowever, I returned home to find my bedroom in shambles. The contents of my desk were all knocked around and a bunch of family photos were all shredded and chewed up. I found the empty chocolate bar wrapper on the ground and still can't find the offending candy. I can only conclude that the dog has eaten it.\n\nThis is something that my dog would've done as a puppy. However, she's ten now and hasn't behaved like this in years. She's acting fine at the moment, but I'm still worried. My father doesn't seem concerned about her at all, which worries me even more.\nFYI, my dog is a dachshund mix and weighs about 25-30 pounds. \nHas anybody been in this situation before? What happened? Does anybody know what to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 22f and my boyfriend (21) and I have been together for a little over five months. Not very long, but I feel like he's the best boyfriend I've ever had- at least the most romantic and thoughtful. He's so many things I feel like I want in a man: open-minded, smart, somewhat adventurous, thoughtful, sweet. He's even open to moving around (not always easy to find in Southern LA guys), has an adventurous appetite, AND is great in bed. He's VERY good at communicating, and understands himself well emotionally. He's the most affectionate, thoughtful, and communicative boyfriend I've ever had. But I've been unhappy. Almost this whole time. I don't know if it's the relationship or if I'm overthinking and taking things personally. Or maybe both? I feel like there's something wrong with me that I can't seem to enjoy a relationship with this wonderful guy who's worst characteristics come down to laziness, not having his life 'figured out', and being a bit quirkier than most of my friends. I keep telling myself that we can be happy, that I'm just getting in my own way with negative thoughts, but I have trouble stopping those negative thoughts. \n\nMy friends and family think this friendly, charismatic nerd is so wonderful and such a great match for me, but I don't know. \n\nIn past relationships, and now, I have a problem with maintaining my independence/being happy when alone. I'm not sure how complicated this all really is, but it feels like it's pretty complicated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As with most stories on here, this happened a couple of days ago (Monday). I went to a large Labor Day party in the town I live in, at the request of some of my friends who were playing music at said party. I was standing in front of the stage, just zoning out and listening to the guys play. \n\nAll of a sudden, I noticed two (lady) arms shooting out around my sides. I ignored it thinking she was trying to dance with someone behind me. She continues to dance and makes her way in front of me. I'm still kinda just zoning out and don't really pay much attention, until her face is about two inches away from mine. She asks me if I'm having a good time and I of course say yes. She then asks why I'm not dancing, and I lie and say I don't know how. I proceed to do a kind of stupid shimmy thing, because why be serious? \n\nShe laughed and said that was how she danced too, and started doing it next to me. I continued to do so for a minute or so, and then stopped. She leaned in again and said something, but I couldn't hear her over the music. Instead of asking her to repeat herself, or moving away from the stage and speakers to talk, I proceeded to just give her a small smile, like she said something funny. She kept dancing next to me for a few songs, gave me a weird look, and left with her friend, who I guess was behind me the entire time. \n\nAbout fifteen minutes later, the band takes a break, and my buddy who was playing came up to me and asked me why I didn't dance with the girl. Evidently from the stage he saw her make a beeline for me from the back of the party. Of course, I had just assumed she knew someone in the band and just wanted to be close to the stage. It took me a few more minutes to realize that she was probably into me, and I completely blew my chance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in a bit of a hole. My issues are currently crashing in on me. My body issues, being dumped, and college fuck ups.\n\nMy ex who dumped me abused me. Emotionally and physically. She was an unmedicated bipolar. She would go from either telling me about how good other guys were looking and commenting on how bad I look. Then she would hit me, and actually stabbed me twice. Me like an idiot stayed. We were together for 2 and a half years. It's 2 months removed from being dumped and it still hurts. The breakup came from no fault of my own. I feel dumb. I'm still not over her, I cry daily and still hurt.\n\nI have no clue what I want out of life. I gave up a scholarship for music because my ex didn't want me to go. Like a fucking idiot. Now I'm stuck in a path I hate. My one passion was music and now I can't get back into it, I'm 3 years removed. My motivation and passion is truly gone. I need help reddit, help me get over my breakup and get motivation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my girlfriend for about two months at this stage, so not all that long. I really like her, but so far it's been a roller coaster for me interpreting her actions.\n\nShe's done some awesome things for me like surprise me with random gifts and asked me to accompany her on dates that were a really big deal for her, like her first baseball game ever. They were front row seats, and her dad and brothers LOVE baseball. Yet, she took me. That really meant a lot to me, and it's various things like this that make me think that she genuinely likes me. Plus, she's a really good looking girl (so many guys after her) so it's not like she'd have to stay with me if she didn't like me. \n\nHowever, I'm confused as fuck because we went from texting and talking everyday for a month and a half to all of a sudden her basically dropping off the face of the earth. I know she's been having a difficult personal life lately and has been very, very busy, so I think this is part of it. Sometimes this means not texting/calling me back for two or three days at a time though and she hardly ever initiating the conversations anymore. I understand being busy. I work two jobs and am a full time student and I still find time to talk to her, so this kind of hurts.\n\nI really like her and would like to try my best to make this work before I give up, but I'm not sure what to do right now. For the past three weeks, I've felt like I was the last priority in her life. It's possible she could be fading on me, but then out of the blue she'll text me things about how sweet I've been being. \n\nSeriously, what is up here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Both Canadians here, we're both in Canada for summer but were planning to move to Europe together this fall. 2 years dating in same city & now our 1 year LDR is so close to ending, but all of a sudden, she seems to be losing interest (way less texts/calls, emotion). \n\nThe question is simple: If I stop texting/calling her, will my scarcity make her realize she doesn't want to leave me? Someone said this would increase her attraction to me on another post & it got me thinking that maybe being the same old me & letting her walk all over me won't increase my chances of keeping her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For my entire life my maternal grandparents have been openly disappointed in everything their offspring, son-in-law and grandchildren have done. To boil our situation down to a few basic examples: My Mom married a blue-collar worker (my grandfather treats my Dad like he is a moron because he fixes cars for a living), my uncle is gay, I have lots of tattoos am an opinionated liberal and make my money working in retail while my brother quit college to make money hand over fist tending bar for a living. (We are all very happy with our choices BTW.)\n\nOver the years they have said countless cruel things such as telling my uncle that it would have been better if he had just kept his being gay to himself. However, as of late I've been having these huge arguments with my mother because she suddenly wants us all to stop sharing with them any details of our lives that they might find upsetting. (Her thought process being that they are getting older and our sharing said information would just cause them un-necessary discomfort.) SUDDENLY I HAVE TO WALK ON EGG SHELLS TO PROTECT THEIR DELICATE FEELINGS?!? \n\nReddit, am I wrong to be so pissed with her or should I just play along.?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in my early twenties. My grandfather had Alzheimer's.\n\nI've always had somewhat of a bad memory but I feel that lately it's gotten worse and it's starting to scare the shit out of me.\n\nA few examples:\n\nA couple of nights ago, I was sitting at a bar with a friend. She went outside to answer her phone and a guy sitting next to me leaned over. \"Do you work at ____?\" he says. \"Yes, I do.\" \"Oh, I was there the other day and thought I recognized you.\" I almost have no recollection of this man (granted, I'm a girl, maybe he noticed me for that reason?). I don't think I could ever remember a random face, especially if I were to see them somewhere unrelated.\n\nI work in sales. I see a lot of people on a daily basis. I could have a client in the morning leave (after meeting them for the first time) and if they stopped by again that evening, I barely remember them (if at all) until they remind me of their name/what we talked about.\n\nTwo more instances.\n\nI don't remember most of my childhood. As far as schooling, I couldn't tell you most of the children I went to school with. If I saw someone, I probably wouldn't recognize them.\n\nThe scariest part of it is I can't remember a lot from my past relationships. I haven't been in many, just a few long term relationships. I was in love with these men. I mean, I remember THEM but most of our time spent together in a blur. My first boyfriend, in high school.. We were together for 2 years. I remember his face and his house but my feelings, I've forgotten.\n\nIs this normal? Maybe I'm fretting over nothing. I'm just terrified about loosing my memory. It's what makes us who we are.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I love my girlfriend been with her for 4 years and the time has finally come. \nUnfortunately I suck at planning and to be honest I see this as more of a bigger moment for her than for me so I'm not entirely too picky about how I do this. All I know is originally I wanted her friends to be around when i do this and selfishly I want to do it at the beach. The 2 things i love in this world, my girlfriend and the ocean.\n\nI'd love to have her friends there when i do it as well, but i called around to a few restaurants and to be honest I wouldn't be able to afford the expenses for a large party.\n\nCan you help me figure out how to do this?\n\nHow can I get her to the beach without being obvious? \n\nAny ideas on how I can have her group of friends be there even though I can't afford dinner reservations at any restaurants on the beach? I was hoping her friends could record it.\n\nI don't mind it being just her and I, but how what would be a reason we go to the beach since she rarely goes? At least if we were meeting her friends up for dinner that would be easier to sell.\n\nEither way the go date is 8/8 so hopefully ill come up with something instead of dropping on one knee in her living room in our pj's lol.\n\nThank you in advance. =]", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back Story\n\nI found my roommate randomly, and moved in quickly. No sublease was signed (stupid I know, but I was desperate) and things have slowly deteriorated. He's super messy, things are leaking, and just plain dirty living conditions. To top it all off, because my roommate and landlord have \"bad blood\" he hasn't be paying rent. This only came to light for me because the Marshall came and took the apartment for 24hours. So, I had been paying him, and he probably was spending it on hookers and blackjack. After the lack of rent paying came about, I informed him that I would no longer be paying him directly, and wanted to pay the landlord instead. Anger flared (on his part, I think it's a legit request), and he told me to be out of the room by Oct 2nd. Thankfully I have a supportive SO who will let me live with him temporally (and NO, it is not an option to live with him permanently), but I'm stuck trying to find a mover for Oct. 1st. and a new roommate situation ASAP. All while working and going to school full time. First world problems, I know. \n\nSo Reddit, whats a clandestine and classy way (AKA not illegal) to screw him over?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I went on a date with this insanely beautiful, intelligent, funny, overall amazing woman a few weeks ago. It went really well, and I liked her a lot. She told me from the start that she was married and in an open relationship, and I wasn't phased by that really. I think that I didn't care because I hadn't fully thought through what it would mean to \"date\" someone in an open relationship. \n\nSo now that I'm about to go on a second date with her, I'm freaking out a little about how I'm expected to act. Do I treat her like any other girl I'd date and say cute things and let myself have feelings for her? Or do I try to avoid that and treat it as a sexual relationship only? On the first date, we ended up making out a lot, and I wasn't sure whether I was supposed to invite her back to my place or whether it was too soon, so I said goodnight. I guess this time I invite her back? And then it's just sexual from here out? I've had meaningless sex with guys and that's easy enough, but I'm worried I might not be able to separate feelings with a girl, because they make my heart go pitter patter. Any insight?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yeah, so I missed a call from him earlier. When I called back he said he'd call me back in a bit. So I'm farting around, looking for something to do. Watched TV in the basement for a short time and went back upstairs. I was chilling in my bed, messing with my phone when he called. He asked if he could run something by me and I asked if it was beer because I was out of beer. We decided that I'd just go over to his house so I could drink his beer and he could run something by me. When I went outside, I smelled something burning. Not just something burning, but it smelled like cigarette butts burning. I had recently smoked a cigarette on the back porch and outside the basement door, so I went to check. Nothing happening on the back porch, but there was a softball size glowing red wad of cigarette butts where I put my cigarette out about 10-15 minutes earlier. I realize now how unsafe our \"ash tray\" is now because it is just a flimsy plastic thing that a plant would come in, it was over stuffed with cigarette butts AND it was sitting in a bed of pine straw! So I grab the hose and easily extinguish this glowing butt fireball of death and breathe a sigh of relief.\n\nSo who knows what would have happened if I hadn't decided to go to my friends house at about that time. I would've come outside within the next half hour or so to smoke, an hour at the most and would have smelled it then if it was still smoldering. But like I said, it was a glowing ball of death in a bed of pine straw, so it could have easily ignited and then who knows what would have happened.\n\nOh, and my wife is out of town. Imagine making that call. Honey, umm, I uh, I burned the house down. shiver Can't even think about the fact that all 4 of my kids were home at this time.\n\nI will absolutely get a can of some sorts to put our butts in to reduce the risk. Should just fucking quit smoking.\n\nThanks dude. Oh, he was contemplating refininancing his house and wanted to discuss it with me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Earlier tonight I did the dumbest thing possible, I sent an unintended text to my girlfriend that was hurtful and insincere. I had been texting a friend of mine about a meeting that we had planed for tomorrow concerning a project we are working on with my girlfriend. The text I sent to her that was meant for him was \"She said 3pm works for her but with the way she has been acting lately I don't know if she is going to \"have something come up\"\". This was said while I was frustrated and drunk. I didn't truly mean it. I feel like the biggest piece of shit on the planet at the moment. How do I make this right? I love her with all my heart and don't want this to be the end. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!", "role": "user" } ]

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