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"content": "I had a horrible break up nearly 2 years ago and I'm totally out of this dating for a longer period thing. After my ex broke up I became the guy that went only for the short adventures but this time it is different but I forgot how to do this the right way. I need your honest advice how to act to not destroy this. Here are some more details.\n\nFew weeks ago I met this girl at a party and we talked a lot and I had a great time with her, so I asked for her number and got it. After that we started to text each other a lot and I asked her out to the movies and it was basically great but nothing serious happened.\n\nNo Kiss - just a hug.\n\ntbh I haven't done a right approach since I kinda got shy somehow. It's weird because normally I'm the complete opposite.\n\nThe next time we met she invited me to her place and we watched a movie together. Things got more \"touchy\" - we cuddled and were more playful but her family (including younger siblings that disturbed us) was at home so a kiss on her cheek was the limit.\n\nNow here comes the part where I need your help. I know I like her very much and haven't felt this way for a long time but I don't know if she feels the same for me.\n\nI will meet her this Sunday at a quit romantic Christmas market. What is your advice to get this flirt-thingy to the real dating and how can I really ask her how she feels for me?",
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"content": "I have ~11K in savings and a remaining balance of ~3K in student loans with a seemingly steep interest rate. Even though I am 'paid ahead' until July of 2016, I am still incurring interest hits with each payment (generally pay $100/month towards the loan and about 87 goes towards principal and the remaining is interest). Should I go ahead and pay off my remaining balance of 3K now, leaving me with 8K in savings?\n\nThings to consider: I just moved across the country for grad school. I am currently unemployed and seeking work. I can (and probably will have to) take another loan out for grad school in the next two months. So I wouldn't be flat broke if any major expenses came up. The only main concerns I have to worry about (aside from standard bills and insurance) are rent of ~625/mo, a dog who is now 7, and a 1999 car which seems to be surviving ok right now, but who knows.",
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"content": "Almost every day we discuss/fight about my fears, about being cheated or changed, or being left behind. Our clocks are 7 hours difference and that makes it even worse.\n\nI know he loves me, and he wouldn't never hurt me, I understand it, and I'm fine until I start to overthink and I get insanely crazy about it. I'm also pretty secure about myself, i have a good self esteem, but when I think about other girls they suddenly look like they have something that make them better for him than me. \n\nIt gets so but so so so hard to deal every night, I dream about him fucking random girls and \nI'm afraid of losing us every night.\n\nIf someone have read \"the unbearable lightness of being\", I'm exactly Theresa, but without the real cheat from her partner. \nDeep inside knowing that is all bullshit, not true and is just in my mind.\n\nHe's most of the time really patient and supportive with that, but I'm afraid he's getting sick of it, like it's obvious. \nI'm also getting so tired I have suggested several times to break up, not because I want to, but because it seems to be the only way to let it go and being relax again. But he's telling me we won't break up because of this. I'm really exhausted of this thoughts because they're there every second.\n\nI've spent weeks reading about jealousy, and it haven't help.\n\nI need to stop and I really don't know how.",
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"content": "Driving back from a breakfast outing I saw an unmarked cop car sitting adjacent to us at the intersection as i prepared to turn left, i pointed to the unmarked car and looked to my girlfriend and said \"thats a subtle one but thats a cop\" My arrow went green and i took the left turn and shortly after i saw the aforementioned unmarked cop make a u-turn into our direction only to see his lights turn on shortly after and get pulled over. The offices, seemingly in plain clothes approached my car and without hesitation shouted at me asking why i was going so fast. I replied saying my car was in neutral and i was gling downhill but i surely wasnt going more that maybe 5 over if anything at all. He replied to me \"No not here back there at the light where you turned left!\" I was confused to say the least and he ripped the license and registration from my hand and went back to his car only to return with a ~$250 ticket for speeding which he basically threw at me before storming off. The ticket stated that i was \"Clocked\" and \"Estimated\" going 57 in a 40 which i definitley was not. I could not have come from 0 mph to 57 mph before taking that left turn in the 1999 car that i drive, not even on a good day could most standard cars do that nor would I do that with a passenger in my car on a major road.",
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"content": "So I'm in my 2nd year of college beginning September and two days ago I finally landed a job. It's nothing in the field I want to do, just something to earn a bit of money, its a waitressing job.\n\nFor the entire summer all I wanted was a job, to not have to rely on parents, and to be able to buy or do whatever I want. My boyfriend works in a clothes shop but currently isn't really working cause he has a repeat college exam and is busy studying for that.\n\nWe don't live together and lately because of the exam we haven't seen each other in almost 2 weeks. I guess I'm worried that now that I have a job, we won't get to see each other as much, and worried that after his exam, he'll be off out on nights out with his friends and I won't be able cause I work from around 5.00pm till 1-2am.\n\nI know this sounds ridiculous but I know I'm going to feel left out. I don't know why I'm feeling like this because it's irrational and all I wanted for months was a job. Maybe because his hours are always morning/evening and mine are evening/night so I wonder when we will get to see each other.\n\nRight now, I feel like quitting because it doesn't seem worth it. Am I being crazy?",
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"content": "I got out of a long (3yr) relationship right at the start of September. It was semi-mutual (he initiated it, and I completely agreed - we both needed freedom/independence from each other), though I was still very sad about it and still in love with the guy. After a bit of grieving I was hooking up again, and doing a tiny bit of dating, and mostly just focusing on school/academia/my friends and was fairly happy and over my breakup. (In case it sounds a little too soon, the ex and I hadn't seen each other for a month prior to the breakup as I was on a paleontological dig, and had been apart for weeks at a time during the summer, so we had already kind of gotten used to each other's absence). \n\nFast-forward to now, I have a very cool FWB (22M) who I've been seeing for a few weeks after sharing the same group of friends for a few months. But I am feeling weird about the whole situation because despite the fact that I *do not want another relationship right now* I'm afraid I'm getting really clingy. I feel in some ways that I need him to validate me, and often worry I am not truly comfortable with being alone. I think I may be pushing feelings of loneliness onto my FWB, and get really sad if he doesn't respond to my texts, etc. despite the fact that I know don't want a boyfriend. \n\nI think sometimes it may be better for me if I just quit it with boys, because from September to November I was pretty content with just doing academic things and being with my friends. As soon as the FWB started my feelings of anxiety rose again (though coupled with all the fun and excitement of intimacy and sexuality).\n\nI don't know, reddit... what do you think would be a healthy way for me to deal with these feelings?",
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"content": "So, this just happened two weeks ago, and I'm just now facing the shit-storm.\n\nMy girlfriend does wild land firefighting. Well, so needless to say we are in a short-term long distance relationship. \n\nBack story: her and I have been friends for two years. We got together in March (Pi Day!), and she spent her vacation with me during spring break. Well, she and I had lots of sex and clothes were thrown everywhere.\n\nLast week I was cleaning my room and I found a shirt at the foot of my bed, but inside the corner of the bed frame. So, I sent my girlfriend picture of said shirt and said, \"You left this here.\" Well, she went home yesterday, and started looking through her stuff, and she had both shirts she had brought.\n\nShe sent me a text that said, \"We need to talk.\" This is also known as, \"The four words that make your buttcheeks clench.\" She calls me and tells me she has both shirts and has no idea whose shirt I have. I told her, \"Well, that makes two of us.\" I honestly don't know. \n\nI'm not fucking around on her. The last time I had sex was in December (more than likely this one's), and then there was that fooling around thing with that girl from work at the beginning of January, but no sex happened. I'm not fooling around on her, but I don't want her to feel like I am.\n\nHer tone says she is going to let it go, but I'm not trying to give her a reason to doubt me.",
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"content": "I screwed up by quitting my job without having a backup. First off, I felt it was a little unethical to work while knowing that I would leave soon. I'm in sales so the ROI on employees is a little further out than is typical in other industries.\nI was literally the last person left. My bosses, engineers, and fellow employees quit all as soon as I started. I was with the company for less than a year and didn't want to burn time on a shit company. I was definitely misled into taking the position.\nSeveral of the people I worked with assured me 100% that I could get on at their companies, but none have come through. That's why I'm in this situation.\nNot eligible for any unemployment.\nSo.. onto the question:\nFor those in Texas, particularly Austin, how / where can I get help (aside from begging) to pay rent / bills until I can get a new job.\nI'm about a week away from being evicted (not a notice, but the kind where the cops kick you out) and have literally negative 60 dollars in the bank.\nI have nothing really of value to sell and expect my situation to be temporary.",
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"content": "So yesterday I asked out this girl I like and she asked for a day to think about it, and she replied to me today. Here response was \"Yeah [my name], I can't do this right now. You're a good guy but I'm not a good girl I'm sorry.\" \n\nShe parties a lot and knows a good number of people who commit a lot of felonies, and I'm a generally tame person. That being said, I don't believe I've given any sign that I'm uncomfortable with that type of environment, hell, we both intend to go to a party together later this year. I just want to better understand what she meant by this.",
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"content": "Ok to start it off, I think she is honestly the most amazing person in the world and aside from this rather large 'bump' we fit together absolutely perfectly.\n\nWe met when I was looking to go to a university in New Zealand online, I had originally intended to go over there (I live in Britain) however could not afford it. We still hit it off and went from being friends - best friends - too waiting for eachother not only romantically, but sexually (I can still go over there maybe one or two times a year, with her coming over here once a year)\n\nBut the problem simply is the space between us, I'm thinking of moving over there in three years but not only is there the time between me being at university to coming over, but also that presents a whole host of problems with our families etc. \n\nI'm gonna be incredibly upset if I have to break things off, she is honestly the most brilliant person ever but can this really work?",
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"content": "I know this question has a lot to do with the kind of relationship one has with each parent and at what stage in life you are personally and professionally.\nI'm 27, moved two states away for grad school, and i'm living strictly off loans. It's my first semester and I'm taking 12 hours. I'm an ex-teacher, so I have some professional background. No savings. I've travelled quite a bit though. Shooting for an assistantship/internship in the Spring. I've never been this low on funds. It's also scary realizing how much deeper I am putting myself into the dark debt hole of student loans.\nI'm pretty much living on a credit card for the next two months and I am too ashamed to ask my parents for any money. I can nanny here or there, but it takes time and effort (yes, like everything) to find families needing a babysitter in a giant college town. I will get organized enough to pay my father back, of course. He's already loaned me close to $1,000 in the past four or five months and I feel a little disgusting since he has a hard time making any income himself. Mother is another story--she's got a really tight grasp on her pocket and is a little aggressive when it comes to financial advice. So I never approach her.\nMy dad is the kindest man I know and has the cleanest reputation among his contacts, which is why people trust him and partner with him so much. His kindness does get the best of him however, sometimes to his detriment. In other words, people have walked all over him in the past. Mom, on the other hand, is constantly reminding me about payments, asking me about my loan, really approaching things in a way that push me far from wanting to face finances. Fabulous parenting. It's always been this way, with anything growing up. Dad never seemed to say no, he always gave me options/choices. Mom was a straightforward, dry, clear, British NO. She has always said I don't have my feet firmly grounded. I'm getting off on a tangent now so I'll stop.",
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"content": "We've been together for over 3 years, but for the first year and a half, he was addicted to alcohol and drugs, which turned him into a pathological liar. He physically cheated on me with 4 of his exes during his addiction and that may have been the root of all of this. Now, he is almost 2 years sober and has constantly apologized/made up for everything he has done to hurt me. I 100% trust that he would never cheat on me again and he has shown me that. Exes have reached out to him and he immediately blocks them and tells me that they contacted him. He has changed and our relationship is the most solid, trust-filled, secure thing on this planet, but I still think about his ex girlfriends. Every single day. I check both girls' instagrams every day, multiple times a day. If they block me, I create a new account and check from there. I can spend all day just scrolling through their old pictures and reading every comment. I check if they have new followers, if they were tagged in anything new, all of it. I know their accounts and their faces better than I know my own. I know their family members' names, places they've lived, concerts they've been to, their other exes, thing that my boyfriend doesn't even know. I'm not sure why I do this or what will ever come out of it. They don't think about me and my boyfriend anymore, so why am I so stuck on them?",
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"content": "Hey guy's I'm in a continuation school because I'm far behind on high school credits due to poor choices. Anyhow I have a final that will be the determining factor on if I pass the class or not, so this is really important to me. I asked the teacher for a study guide or some practice questions and she flat out refuses to give me anything to go off of. In the past when asking her for help she always directs me to another teacher instead of helping me herself. What can I do online that will help me study a general understanding of geometry and let me know what I know and what I need to work on for tomorrow's final?",
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"content": "Been on tinder lately. Well i matched with a girl that looked decent and had potential. We talked for awhile over the app and then she decided to come over. She had asked me if it was ok that she hadnt shaved, now i am a mature adult so a little bit of hair is no big deal. She shows up, not quite as good as her pictures which is typical, and sounds pretty manly. We hang for a bit and then start getting into it. I reached in and felt bush but that doesnt bother me anyway so everything is good. Eventually her pants come off and now i see why she said she didnt shave. Her pubes ended around her knees and i could smell her. I tried to muster through, trying to avoid hurting her self-esteem by asking her to leave or stopping. I eventually got it up by thinking happy thoughts and covered my jimmie, went for a few minutes and then she wanted to get on top. When she did so i was forced to view the garden and went limp. I said that i had to pee before and thats maybe my problem, it wasn't, so i went into the bathroom and started getting myself hard again, fake flushed the toilet and rushed out to get back in there. Again within a few minutes i was soft again. At this point i decided to tell her that i have this problem if i have jacked off recently and told her i did an hour before to last longer, not an actual problem for me i promise, and told her that i probably wont be able to finish and eventually sent her on her way. Hopped in the shower and cleaned the smell off of me.",
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"content": "Throwaway cuz' I have friends on here.\n\nI've lived with my roommate for a month and known him for as long. Long story, but I was in a bad situation and desperate to get out, he was also, so when someone recommended we be roommates, we jumped at the opportunity. Despite not knowing each other before moving in, we've realized we're a lot alike and we've actually become pretty great friends. He's a cool person and I enjoy his company.\n\nHere's where it gets a little complicated. I've slept with him. Three times. And most nights when he gets off work, we snuggle together on the futon and watch a movie and end up falling asleep spooning. I figured we just had FWB type thing going on while we're both between GFs/BFs, so I've tried to not be weird about it and just act normally. Tonight though, while we were snuggled on the futon watching a movie, he laid his head on my lap, kissed my stomach and my thigh, then told me he loves me. I kinda tried to chuckle it off, because I figured he was high/supertired/half asleep (although I don't honestly think that he was) and didn't know what he was saying, but he asked me if I heard him then he repeated it. I just stroked his hair and told him to get some rest and he went to sleep. What do I do now? Do I pretend like he didn't say it or I didn't hear it and wait to see if he brings it up? Should ***I*** bring it up? And what do I say if he does? I seriously don't want to compromise or complicate my living situation, since I have nowhere else to go.",
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"content": "Mine is probably not that great in comparison to what I'm sure other people have experienced, but whatever. It was a pretty amazing experience for me. This spring our dog went missing when she got spooked and slipped her collar. She instantly went into \"survival mode\" and although we had a few sightings, she did not recognize anyone or anything from being so out of sorts and was pretty much acting like a wild animal. She was missing in the woods for 2 1/2 days. After we had tried pretty much everything else to catch her, we realized that we'd have to wait for her to approach us. I sat in the middle of a freezing cold, soaking wet hay field with a bowl of food and just waited for her to get brave/hungry enough to approach me. \n\nAfter about an hour and a half, she cautiously made her way toward me. She stopped about 10 feet away from me and started barking aggressively, trying to scare me off of the food. At this point I started to softly and calmly talk to her and slowly held out a piece of steak. I was scared SHITLESS, by the way; my own Great Dane was barking aggressively at me and I only had one chance to grab her when she got close enough...I legitimately thought she was going to sink her teeth into my arm when I tried.\n\nAs she reached out to grab the steak from my hand, the most amazing thing happened. I watched as, within a split second, her eyes went from totally empty to recognizing who I was. I have never seen an animal so clearly have a moment of total relief and utter happiness. I swear, if someone had been filming the encounter it would be the key scene in a sappy dog movie. (Not to mention I was bawling and babbling incoherently while she was jumping 6 feet in the air licking my face).",
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"content": "Been together about 3 years. \n\nTo tell the truth I do love him; he's the sweetest most caring guy I've ever met, he's very good in bed. He cheers me up when I'm down. He's amazing. \n\nBUT, I can't handle the distance anymore, we only see each other every 5 months or more, and trying to handle 2 jobs as well as college and a long distance relationship is killing me... \n\nHe keeps trying to plan me moving where he is after I finish my education... and I just don't see it happening.... its tearing me apart? \n\nAlso, I'm terrified of hurting him; I was basically his first real girlfriend, and he is (or at least acts and tells me) that he's madly in love with me and doesn't want to lose me.",
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"content": "*I apologize for the shitty, nondescript title*\n\nGirlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now, both early 20s. \n\nShe was in a LDR with a guy for 2 years, and cheated on him a few times with these two different guys. She dated both of them separately for a bit, broke up, but still hung out with them afterwards. \n\nShe maintains an awkward relationship with them, and they clearly want to hang out with her still (and are most definitely still into her). She wants to hang out with them too. I do not get along with these two guys, they are shady as all hell.\n\nWe have a good relationship now, but lately these guys have been popping up a lot more often and it has been causing me problems big time. \n\nIs this normal? Am I being overly jealous, or is hanging out with guys you've cheated on your ex boyfriend with okay? I also will be away from her for a few months pretty soon, and I'm worried something might happen while I'm gone. \n\nI'm at a loss, I don't want to lose her but I really can't handle the stress this is bringing me.",
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"content": "I am a 24/F, my sister is 26/F. Here is a small background on our relationship:\nOur entire lives we have fought. When we were younger it was fist fighting and as we got older it became more verbal. My sister is very manipulative, my parent even admit it. They have said, \"We don't know where we went wrong raising your sister.\" Regardless, they love her and deal with her shenanigans; mostly they because they usually aren't directed at them. Things in our relationship came to a head about a year ago and we had what I call a \"come to Jesus meeting.\" We said our issues, spoke our piece and agreed we wanted a relationship with each other and we would try to get to know each other on the adult level and have a clean slate in regards to our relationship. Since then, she hasn't changed. She uses my strong relationship and feelings of obligation towards my parents as leverage to try to manipulate me. She has hacked my email, puts her friends before me, talks trash about my husband and kicks me when I am down. She is constantly trying to find ways to be superior to me. The events that have happened recently are the straws that have broken the camels back. I feel I should sever ties because this relationship is no healthy and I don't deserve to be treated this way. My parents and my sister always expect I will just get over her drama, but I no longer wish to feed into the cycle. Severing ties will alienate me from my niece and nephew and will upset my parents, but I don't know what else to do. I have debated talking to a family counselor for suggestions. Any input or advice, especially from people who have dysfunctional sibling relationships would be greatly appreciated.",
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"content": "Making a one-off account, for some \"privacy\". \n\nSo I've been lurking on this sub for a while, and there has been a lot of great advice, including on the sidebar. My problem basically is -- I don't even know where to start. I know that we (my wife and I) aren't doing a good job managing money, and we've been \"trying\" to fix it for a while, but both aren't very good at this. With a little one on the way, it's really time for us to get on track.\n\nSo I've tried Mint, YNAB (can never get it working right so that I can actually use it successfully), and spreadsheets. I'm most comfortable with the spreadsheet, at least for now. It'll really be on me to manage, as my wife isn't very tech or financially savvy, but ultimately would love a way for her to access & manage. That's later...\n\nSo -- I know my income and the fixed expenses (rent, insurance, etc.). What I struggle with when creating a budget is the variable costs such as my wife's income (she's full-time, but paid hourly and paychecks vary depending on holidays, sick time, etc.), gas/electric (which changes pretty dramatically month-to-month), etc.\n\nWhat about factoring in things like doctors (co-pays, etc.), prescriptions, etc. that also happen every month. I also have some ESPP, 401K, credit card debt (for the first time ever, due to multiple unexpected things happening at once... long story, doesn't matter), Student loans, etc. One problem is that I think the money is too \"spread out\" over multiple accounts.\n\nI'm thinking that one of the incomes could cover most of the expenses, and the other can cover leftover debt & savings, but would like to account for every dollar to make sure that is happening/can happen.\n\nI'll need to make another post once I get all this sorted out, but where is the best place to start? If I can at least get some of the basics down that would be great.",
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"content": "So yesterday I was on my way back to home in pretty empty train, I was prepared for this boring ride so I started solving my Rubik`s cube and putted my headphones. Out of curiosity I took a glimpse around and there were plenty of seats left and so I continued solving my puzzle.\n \nAfter second time I solved that cube and started a new run suddenly a pretty quite girl sits in front of me, I didnt stared or anything just saw a nice girl in front of me (usually everybody is so scared of me and doesnt even sit near to me). At first it didnt bothered me but when I had another look over her I just continued my puzzle.\n\nIt wasnt very warm day something about 19 degrees Celsius (66°F) but it didnt stopped me from wearing a shirt and shorts when most of the people around weared jeans and hoodies. The girl in front of me weared nice brown leather jacked and after a while she started to take it off, I didnt mind and while she was searching for her thin, brown with white stripes sweater, I took one long stealthy glimpse of her and immediately turned back to my cube.(pretty weird huh? yep it shore is).\n\nRest of the ride was relatively boring until I took big yawn like [this] and our eyes met where suddenly me and her just turned our heads like it didnt happen. I felt pretty embarrassed at that moment but I didnt care much about it after all. At the end I could ask her something but I didnt had courage and something inside me was saying that there is her boyfriend waiting at the end so I just sited there and listened to music. \n\nWhen I got of the train she was still walking alone and after a while our our ways parted. Only after a while I realized that that one girl which I saw for the first time and didnt even know made my day by just siting in front of me on a train. Probably I`m just a weirdo and still Reddit share your stories of how someone and/or something has made your day.",
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"content": "Hey there,\n\nI (20/M) will be going to a new school soon, and I have met a (20/F) there. We've talked some in the 3 times we met, and I already became cool with her father (I met him in the waiting room, we talked for an hour, we kinda became pals), and I know I've only met seen her 3 times, but I really start to fall for her. Thus should I ask her out fast or should I wait a year orso, to establish a friendship and ask her out then?\n\nThis is my idea of a good first date, I've never been on one, so please help me! :) I don't have a lot of money, so keep it under €180 like mine, please! \n\n1. Pedicure or Manicure max €40\n \n2. Hanging out +- €15,-max.\n3. Make a nice walk with her €0,-\n4. Starbucks +- €10\n5. Buy her something nice MAX. €60,\n6 Dinner max €40\n\nCosts max €180,",
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"content": "Back story: We have two kids together, he last saw the oldest when she was 2 (she's 6) and has never met the youngest, who is 3 now. When we broke up, he said if he couldn't have me, he didn't want any of us. We broke up because he was a violent alcoholic and I asked him to quit drinking or leave.\n\nHe has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and told me once that he had been diagnosed with schizophrenia. I don't know the difference between the truth and lies, as I believe him to be a pathological liar as well. \n\nThe obvious answer is go to the police. At this point, I don't have his address. I believe I know what state he is in, but that is about it. Also, if I do manage to get a restraining order, and have him served, it will give him my address. This terrifies me. \n\nThings said in the message: I love you, I hate you, it is your fault my mother killed herself, watch your children and those you hold dear, blatant threats to my mother, my father, and my \"little husband\" (my fiance,) \"I'm closer than you think,\" \"I will kill you\" and some babble that makes little sense. \n\nAs I type this, I become more and more scared that he's on reddit and will see it. He has gotten me that paranoid.",
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"content": "My boyfriend and I just started dating a few days ago. He asked me out nye (super romantically, it was pretty adorable tbh)\nWe only recently met (2 months ago) but have ended up very close. I'm a very emotional person and he's very reserved and I'm cool with that. While super drunk last night in a total lapse of judgement I blurted out 'I think I love you' in kind of a half joking way (because obviously we still aren't THAT close being we've really just met) but it definitely caught him off guard and made him feel super uncomfortable. Being drunk I immediately went into 'holy shit I'm sorry wow that was stupid I'm an idiot' mode and got pretty upset, it's the first time I've gotten that way around him and It kind of spiraled into me feeling even more shitty about making him uncomfortable which in turn made him feel worse. He's an absolute sweetheart and was very honest with me, telling me he was uncomfortable with it but he's not thoroughly turned off from the fact I said it, just that he can't say it back. He hasn't had much relationship experience and I do know he does like me, but I also know that now I've compromised my calm and collected attitude and made myself look vulnerable, which leaves me with a lingering anxiety about how he's feeling and what he may not be saying. \n\nEverything is fine this morning, he kissed me goodbye and I went off to work and I'm going back to see him tonight, but I feel that I've thoroughly fucked everything up and can't really go back from this. Is this feeling in the pit of my stomach valid or am I just overreacting?",
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"content": "Last night, I got together with friends to have a cooking night and we all had a bit too much to drink. Drunk me thought it would be a good idea to send a lovely voice mail to my boyfriend of six months who is currently in France for vacation. Here's where my story and my (ex) boyfriend separate. When I left my voice mail, I remember saying that I wished he was here with me, that he sucked for being in France and that eating bacon weaves and potato scallops were a lot better than him. I also remember clearly saying that I loved him and goodbye. Today, however, I texted him saying that my voice mail was probably really weird, so don't listen to it. He seemed angry, so I asked him what was wrong. Apparently, in my voice mail, I got really hypocritical with him and said that the things he did were stupid and that he was dumb. I asked him what I said, but he refuses to tell me the exact thing. A friend of mine at the party, who was sober, was in the kitchen with me and said that I never said anything horrible to him. I'm not sure what to believe because I can't really remember everything that happened, but at the same time I truly believe that I never said anything horrible enough to get broken up with. I apologized for whatever I said that hurt him, but all he said was that he could have forgiven me, but knowing that I was drunk made it worse. His last words to me were, \"Yeah, drinking is a bitch, right?\". I don't drink often, and I only do when it's a celebration, like a big get-together with old friends. Help :(",
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"content": "Hey what's up ladies and gents, \n\nSo pretty much, I'm back at my home town for the summer and had my first tinder date (first date ever) yesterday night so it was pretty monumental (; I unfortunately don't have as many female friends as I would like to hang out with so I figured I would give a tinder a spin. \n\nI don't know if other normal looking asian guys go through this or I'm just butt ugly, its whatever but I probably get a match or two on the daily if I'm lucky and that is if I use all my likes. But I match with this one girl on the second day on the app and was able to see meet with her that weekend. And yeah, she didn't turn out to be a psycho or anything and she was actually pretty chill(she drinks and smokes occasionally with a college degree/job). We didn't hit it off right away, but after a few drinks we were able to expand and talk about life a bit more. We had dinner and took off to sight see and it became a pretty lame 8th bench date type of thing since I really didn't know how to escalate but it was still chill. She told me and I could tell that she was an avid tinder user so I was a little intimidated since this being my first time out and all. I don't know if she was bored at all or just wanted to hook up but I had a pretty good experience either way. Dropped her back off and was back on my way. This sound like a typical exchange on tinder or did I majorly fuck up in some way?\n\nHow many matches do you asian brothers get typically?",
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"content": "This past October I (19F) met a really great guy (20M) through tinder. We went on a few dates here and there and got along really well.\n\nHowever, we did run into some problems when it came to hanging out. If I had some free time, he would be working or in school (does both full time). And if he had free time I'd be in school or not home at the time (plus, I don't have my license yet so transportation was a factor too). This made it really difficult for us to hang out and see each other more. \n\nToday, we started talking on snapchat and he told me he doesn't think this can work anymore. I was crushed because I was really starting to like him and he even told me he had feelings for me as well. He said he just wants to work on himself for a while. I asked him if it's possible if things do work out in the future will he reconsider trying again. He didn't give me a straight answer saying it just depends on when it happens. \n\nSo my question for you /r/relationships is it possible to meet the right person at the wrong time? And if yes, can things work out in the end? I'm really hurt right now and don't know how to feel because this has never happened to me before.",
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"content": "First serious relationship for us both. Our families love each other, everything is literally PERFECT. He's financially stable, I'm still a mess financially and scholastically (still haven't graduated, in debt), but he's always so supportive of me. \n\nWe love each other and I know I want to marry him. But I'm also the kind of person that sets a time to everything. It may not make any sense but I wanted my early twenties to enjoy and date randomly and settle into my late twenties. It just makes me kind of sad that I met my BF too soon in life. I can't imagine ever settling down with anyone else but I also can't imagine settling down right now. \n\nHe was a bit bummed since he was planning on proposing really soon, but I kind of threw shade at those kind of couples without knowing, so he was almost in tears since he was already planning everything. I do love him but how can I get over having a time for everything? Like telling him \"1-2 years is the \"NORM\" to get engaged\" and just get over how it'll look to others?? Is 6-8 months considered sane enough to get engaged? \n\nI don't like the irrational part of love!! Am I supposed to feel vulnerable in a relationship? Is he moving too fast or am I just afraid to admit that I'm afraid? I'm so afraid of hurting him that I would go along with it just to avoid hurting him.",
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"content": "My english teacher had gone to an island with some college buddies Lord of the Flies style. He paid a fisherman with a shady boat 10 dollars to drive them to the island and pick them up. When on the island, numerous pounds of cocaine washed up on the shore. The police in the area showed up and picked up the cocaine while my teach and his friends were in the treeline. When they got to shore a couple of days later, they found they had been followed by the police and got arrested for questioning.\nHe also told the officials at a horse race in Italy he was with the press and had a press badge. He showed them his YMCA id and got in for free. (It was an expensive race)\nHe feels free to curse and say orgy cause he doesn't care if he gets fired, \"I can get a job anywhere anytime.\" He's pretty much awesome.",
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"content": "*I really need therapy. Something's wrong with me.*\n\n \n\nSo a year after the break up, I'm still trying to find excuses to talk to my ex [18/F], even though she already told me she feels uncomfortable about it. The most recent example is asking her to draw on my newly-bought phone casing because there are stains on it (she's quite an amazing artist btw).\n\n \n\n# \\*insert facepalm here\\*\n\n \n\nThe f\\*\\*k is wrong with me? Am I too obsessed with her? Am I just f\\*\\*king horny (especially at this age)? WHY DO I NEED HER SO BADLY?!\n\n \n\n> #### Quick summary of the relationship:\n> \n> Started off as friend, then to best friends, then to a couple. No major issues with each other. Lasted for about 10 months. Broke up due to disapproval from her parents.\n\n \n\nA few people around me really did suggest that I seek therapy. I would love to, except I'm not exactly oozing out money to be able to afford the fee. I've tried distracting myself. I've attended special programmes where we work on projects similar to the ones in the industry. I've started a ton of projects. My life is MUCH busier than during the relationship.\n\n \n\nHelp, /r/relationship?",
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"content": "Im taking my GF(you know that girl that you finally get a chance with and recently just started seeing and so far she has been nothing short of amazing...yeah that's this girl) out for a 4 course Italian dinner with bottomless champagne. \n\nWhat can i do to really impress her besides the dinner? She fucking hates flowers and sappy ass shit. \n\nI'd like to hear both the success stories of what worked and the failed stories of what definitely doesn't work. At the end of the story please share your current relationship status you have with the person from your story...",
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"content": "[CO] Finally left my increasingly abusive fiancé of 2 1/2 years (by getting him arrested on 3rd degree domestic violence assault and child abuse charges, along with getting him served a permanent protection order, which is now pending the domestic violence case's resolution). Fiancé and I have a child, and after he's convicted and serves his sentence, I fear he will try to file to see her. He has out of control anger issues (destroyed a bunch of stuff and bruised me up on several occasions) and has control issues (isolated me from friends and family stopped me from going to a self help group because he said I was turning into a bitch). This is his second domestic violence offense (the former was 9-10 years ago with a previous significant other).\n\nI thought ICE would put a hold on him when he was initially in custody, but he has bailed out and is out working. I've heard every answer possible from victim advocates, DA, Guardian ad litem. No one has any idea. I called the local immigration detention office more than once, no one ever returned my call. He tells friends that we'll get back together when this is all said and done, I never want to hear from him again, nor do I want him to have any contact with our daughter. Does anyone know (at least) the chances of him getting deported, or even to help him get deported?",
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"content": "I am 45 years old, have been living out of the US for two years; previous to that my career history was spotty at best, lots of temp jobs, and short term employment. \n\nMy BFA is in Industrial Design, I've never worked as an Industrial Designer; my first job out of college was as a laborer (fall '01) then I was hired on as a marketing assistant for a real estate company. This had varying degrees of graphic design, nothing complex.\n\nMy computer skills have suffered because the ID field has moved onto software that is out of my price range and my computer's capabilities. I do still have solid Adobe Creative Suite skills. \n\nI also have a depression, anxiety, and attention disorder. The attention disorder is the biggest factor in my design work, little things slip by me at times but they are frowned upon when they have happened. \n\nI'm looking for suggestions in possible career changes or career advice in general.",
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"content": "Hey Reddit, doing this a day early just in case it doesn't work! My girlfriend and I usually celebrate the anniversary of when we started dating(Nov.1st) with a nice dinner and a gift. Money is limited since I returned to school this september so no fancy gift.\n\nI know that there is nothing she loves more then when people listen to her band's music or add her band on facebook.\n\nIf she got bunch of views and comments she would be on cloud 9 for the day. Can Reddit help me make this happen?\n\nGive a few tracks a listen, and only if you really like it leave a comment!\n\nWatch a video:\n\nCheck out the site!\nwww.unbuttonedmusic.com\nBecome a Fan!",
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"content": "Going to make this as short as possible. Basically a long time friend of mine said something that really bothers me. I want to get Reddit's opinion.\n\nBackground details: Growing up my family was flat broke because my mom was in school to become a lawyer and my dad was sick and couldn't work. Years have past since then and my parents are in a much better financial position. They pay for my car and insurance, and cell phone. I pay for the rest of my expenses like rent, internet, gas, groceries, utilities, entertainment, booze, etc. Sometimes I fall short and my Mom will take me to the grocery store but that's pretty much the extent of my acceptance of money from my parents. \n\nSo anyway's, me and a few friends were discussing a trip we were going to take. I had a shift at work the day we wanted to go and I said I could get it covered. More people wanted to go than there were seats in the car and my friend starts saying \"don't you want the money from that shift, I thought you said you were broke\" and I just said \"well, w.e\" because I wanted to go on this trip. He then says mocking me \"I'll just ask my Mom for that $100\".\n\nClearly I'm kind of upset about this because I don't like accepting money from my parents when they've worked so hard to earn it. I'm trying hard to reach financial independence and I don't advertise or show off the fact that they pay for certain things. But at the same time, most people in their early 20's are still a financial burden to their parents in some way shape or form. I mean this guy lives at home with his mom and doesn't pay for anything except his own internet service because his mom doesn't need or want it. \n\nSo what's your opinion Reddit? Am I a piece of shit for accepting money from my parents. Do I have a right to be upset with my friend for chirping me over it when I've always been respectful to him? How do I bring it up that what he said upset me?\n\nThanks for your input!",
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"content": "I wanna preface this by saying I have two different questions, but they both seem to stem from the same issue. \n\nI've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and the relationship has been great. We're both pretty different people, but we have been able to work out whatever issues have come up except for this one; she cannot be alone and I feel like a dick when I need alone time. \n\nI spend nearly every waking moment with her and while I love the time we spend together, I need some time to focus on myself and do some things I enjoy, like video games, that she doesn't want to be a part of. I rarely get any such time because she needs someone to be with her. \nShe has some pretty severe depression and while shes on medication for it, there are times that it only helps so much. There have been nights where she has talked about killing herself or starting drugs and I rush to her. When its normal and I leave, she is sad, but tells me its okay. I feel like a dick for taking time for myself and worry because I want her to be okay. I don't know how to convey that I need space for myself without making her think I don't want to spend time with her. \n\nThis leads me to my second problem; I'm leaving for law school in about six months and im very worried about leaving her alone and being unable to be there for her. \n\nI have tried to bring it up before, but she threw it back to me and said I was calling her crazy and that I wanted to break up with her. I'm just very scared of her doing something serious to herself when I can't be there for her and I don't want any resentment to come from this. I told her she needs to work on this, but her reasoning is that shes going to be okay the next day so it's okay, I disagree though. She has admitted that she can't be alone which frustrates me even more that she won't try to get help. I don't want to do a long distance relationship only for her to tell me that she needs someone around.",
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"content": "Apologies if this belongs in /r/sex - I wasn't sure.\n\nWe've been together ~5 months and have great communication about everything but our sex life, which hasn't been going amazingly. I took his virginity, but he's not the first guy I've been with.\n\n I'm into some basic kinky stuff, nothing too \"out there\", I would just enjoy some light bondage, spanking, dirty talk, etc. A week or so ago I brought up the topic of kinks and encouraged him to talk about specific fantasies he has...all he came up with was telling me his favorite position thus far (missionary, incidentally) and that he really is not into the whole dominance/submission power play thing, which was a little disappointing. Now I feel awkward talking about stuff I want to try because I really doubt he'd be into it...how can I bring this up?",
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"content": "I (25) met a girl (22) at a party.\n\nBasically, we hit it off. Starting texting constantly and found out how similar we are. We tried to meet up last weekend, but she got sick (actually got sick) and she seemed super bummed about having to skip.\n\nShe says things to me like \"I can't believe you exist\", \"I feel like I've known you a long time\", \"this is so exciting and scary at the same time\", so I thought she liked me.\n\nToday, I ask her to meet up tonight and she seems excited and she'll keep me posted. I wait hours and hours, and text her \"are you up for tonight?\" with no response. I see she is liking photos on Facebook, so I know she saw it.\n\nWhat the hell? I'm actually angry right now. She would text me like, every day and if I ended a conversation she would text me again several hours later. I really like her, and I thought she really liked me. At 25, I'm able to tell when a girl is just being polite or if she actually likes you.\n\nShould I call her? Just move on without asking what happened? Should I lay it out (say \"hey, that kind of hurt when you ignored the text to hang out, because you've really been giving me a different impression\")?",
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"content": "A little background, we both deal with depression and we've both been in a few relationships before (1 serious one each). \n\nAbout two months ago a lot of differences started coming up. I.e. he likes to \"go with the flow\" whereas I insist on having things planned out, he thinks thoughts are suffice but I want action, he wants a religious family - I'm an atheist (yay), he's not big on friendships/socializing while it's key to me, hes insecure about me having male friends while I really don't care for his female ones, etc.\n\nWe were really strong but things just started going downhill. We skipped my birthday ~2 months ago because of a fight/break. We were completely fine a few days later though but we haven't done anything as of yet. Birthdays aren't a big deal to him (same with anniversaries) but they're important to me. \n\nI feel like these differences keep coming up. I discussed parting ways because we're failing to meet each others needs and his response was that \"we're meant to be.\" \n\nIs it possible to overcome this or will it keep coming up?",
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"content": "obligatory: My wife actually did this about 20 minutes ago but I just had to share.\n\nThe following is her story:\n\nBackground:\nI used to work part time with kindergarteners as a teacher at an after school program at my local Community Center. About two months ago I got a full time offer to work in the centers pre-school, infant care program, so no more after school program. \n\nFast Forward to today:\nTFIU when one of my old kindergarten boys saw me walking down the hall. He ran up, gave me a hug, and asked asked when I was coming back to his group. This made my day, and even more after I told him that I wasn't coming back and he got very upset over it. He really missed me! After this touching moment I turned around and headed back to my classroom. Little did I know that he was following right behind me and when some called out to me from behind I spun around to see who it was and I managed to smack him right in the eye!",
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"content": "I should preface this by saying that she lives about 5 minutes away from me, we've known each other for 17 years, but I don't know if she is choosing to drift away or is just naturally busy.\n\nShe hasn't made the effort to hang out with me for two months and had been declining hanging out with me to the point where we would only hang out on weeknight rather than the weekend.\n\nShe has a mom that has quite a few mental-health related 'issues' but I think the majority of her time has basically been spent with her boyfriend.\n\nI feel like she's ditching me which is fine, but I don't know what I should say if she tries to reach out. She has also stopped texting me and only sent me one text in the course of a month and a half...Should I end the friendship if she reaches out again?",
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"content": "Hello, a few weeks ago I saw my teacher(I consider him an older brother rather than a teacher, and let's call him \"J\") in the swimming pool I usually go to so I greeted J and he asked if I wanted to race so I accepted. I won because him ran out of breath and couldn't continue so I asked if he was alright then continued my routine swimming. A few days later at school I saw him and reminded him of his loss and said: \"dead lungs, haha\"(Yes, that sounded horrible and I don't know why I said that AT ALL). Then around a week later I heard a few teachers talking and saying that J has lung cancer! I confirmed that by asking certain people. Now I feel guilt every single day because J PROBABLY thinks I knew about his condition and I knowingly mocked him for it. He hasn't changed the way he treats me, but I feel genuinely bad. What should I do?",
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"content": "My strangest question actually wasn't that strange, yet somehow the circumstances made it weird. \n\nI was babysitting a four year old boy who asked me what happened when you die. At this moment I was very surprised because I didn't expect a four year old asking this question. I decided to answer him as honestly and openly as I could, of course in terms that he was able to understand. We sat there talking half an hour about this, I told him that no one actually knows what happens, that some people believe in a form of afterlife while other people don't, that he doesn't need to be afraid because it happens to everyone eventually and that it's an inevitable consequence of living.\n\nI was very surprised how he reacted to this, he seemed happy and he slept well. Somehow it still is strange that he asked, though... But I was glad to answer him as honestly as I could.",
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"content": "Hi all,\n\nSo, I got a new puppy a bit over a month ago. She's a 13 week chihuahua She's got a great attitude, very friendly, and she's pretty smart. She already knows \"no\", sit, down, shake, \"drop it\", and how to let me know when she needs to go out.\n\nUnfortunately, I am working for the summer (at a pet supply!) and do not have a steady schedule, so I decided not to crate train her. She sleeps with me. She used to wake up a few times at night, but I guess her bladder is more developed and now she wakes up at 6:30 every morning. She knows how to wake me up to take her out. \n\nRight now, when I'm working, I put her into my bathroom. I keep the light and radio on, put in a puppy pad, water, and a frozen kong among 2 or 3 other regular treats to keep her company. I also keep her crate door open so she can get to everything and doesn't feel trapped.\n\nI'm a college student and will be living in an apartment with three other women, one being a friend. I just want to make this move as painless as possible for both of us. I want to know how to make sure she isn't whining while I'm in class (which will be a lot less time than when I was working), so that we don't get complaints and I have to get rid of her. I still would rather not crate train as she's pretty used to her routine sleep with me, but can anyone give advice on this??? I don't think she whines in the bathroom while I'm at work, but my only evidence is that when I come home, she's completely quiet and when I open the bathroom door, she comes running out her crate. \n\nAlso, I'm sharing a bathroom so I will probably not be able to do it in my bathroom, but start leaving her in a portion of my bedroom. She was accidentally left in my bedroom once while I was away and she didn't really destroy anything so that's hopeful.",
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"content": "Taking a girl A as friends to prom (she has bf in college) and semi-dating other girl B at high school. Girl B and I aren't going because we agreed to go with our friends' groups. Girl A and I are really good friends, have been all year. Turns out she might have the hots for me, but she also seems to be pretty flirty with most people (but a little more physical with me). Girl B has been sort of busy lately/distant, but still seems interested. Girl A is hotter than Girl B. Who should i try to hook up with?",
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"content": "* Hi everyone, myself A (23) met N (22) while we were both traveling overseas in South America. A from NZ and N from Eygpt. We hit it off incredibly well and spent the next few weeks travelling together. It was a very intense and passionate albeit short experience. That is a year ago, since then we constantly have talked and skyped with each other. I haven't been able to get her off my mind, and nor her me - so she says.\n\n* We both agreed that as hard as it is we both do want each other to be happy and we would try to be happy for each of us to date someone. As we previously established long distance was never going to be a real possibility. We both looked into making the move and it seemed unlikely - we both had plans. My plans fell through due to various reasons and now the plans I did have are not there anymore.\n\n* Recently, N just got into a relationship with someone and I didn't realise how much it would affect me. I haven't been sleeping right, it's all I can think about. We have talked about it a few times but it is difficult. I don't know if I am confusing my emotions but all I want to do is head over and be with her now. I proposed this idea to her and she seems kind of willing but hesitant for that it may not work out, that she just started going out with someone, what happens when I have to leave it might make things harder etc.\n\n* I just dont know what to do, has anyone been in a situation like this before? What happened? Any advice or something that can help soothe my psyche?",
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"content": "SO my boyfriend and I have been living together, for 6 months now. We both work in the food industry and hes planning on going back to school in 2 weeks. \n\nA little background on our jobs, its important to our disagreement. I am a salary manager in a very popular corporation and he is an hourly manager in another popular franchise. We both make enough money to make ends meet. With my salary I can pay for m half of the bills. He is an hourly manger but is working overtime, so he can make his ends meet as well. \n\nWell, he just put in his 2 weeks notice at his job today because his boss accused him of stealing from him and threaten him of \"breaking his fucking hand\" if he ever stole from him again. My boyfriend on the spot told him he is leaving in 2 weeks. \n\nNow I wouldnt mind so much if we were in a better economic state. I have about 2500 in debt right now and I am now worried about whats going to happen to our apartment. If we cant pay for it, its really going to affect us on our future like our credit score. Also our electricity bills and internet is under our names so that will affect us too. \n\nNow we just got over a heated discussion because he said I wasn't supporting him on his decision. He said, right away I told him he was wrong for leaving the job. That I didnt believe in him cause he kept saying \"things are going to be ok. I can find another job, its not a big deal\". \nWe also got in an argument about him thinking his team is going to follow him into whatever new job he has. I told him, in a restaurant youre by yourself, theres no such thing as a team. \n\nMy question is, am I making a mistake by freaking out about whats going to happen? Did I react too harshly to the news?",
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"content": "So, super long story short(If needed for more information, I will give some), I currently attend a decent college (I'm not sure if it's the best idea to post my college for privacy sake, but lets say it is ranked in the top 30 colleges by US News), and have a good resume/portfolio. The college I'm attending really fucked up with me, and they realized it. Before this semester my GPA was 3.8 and I had countless extracurricular. A student made some false accusations against me(not rape, actually even worse accusations), and the school punished me before hearing my side or collecting evidence. I just proved my innocence in court the other day, and all records have been expunged and the school was forced to remove disciplinary sanctions against me, but there are permanent damages that have been done. I was approached by a group of lawyers because my case would help make a multimillion dollar class action suit against the school virtually guaranteed, and this was made known to the school. The vice chancellor of my school, as well as many other higher-ups in the administration approached me and said they would bend over backwards to help me in any way they could. I want to transfer at this point because of everything that's happened here, and want them to help me in the process. Does anyone know if this is a possibility? Could the administration here ask another school to accept me as a transfer, or is there no way around waiting till new applications come around and applying for a different school next year? Also, what would you guys recommend I do as far as proceeding with the school. Should I just try catching back up on everything and acting like this never happened, or should I engage the school to have them right the wrongs they did? I don't want them to end up retaliating against me if I decided to go about this aggressively.",
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"content": "I'm 25 and male, my girlfriend is 27. We have dated for over a year and a half and we don't have our own places so it's relatively rare to get a chance to fool around, maybe once or twice a month. She's a virgin (though had two previous boyfriends in which she had manual and oral sex), and the handful of times we tried to have vaginal sex she would ask me to try repeatedly but immediately cringe and push me away because of the pain. She insists she doesn't have any kind of medical problem, and always eventually says we will try again next time.\n\nThis is my first proper relationship and I don't want to just throw it away since I have no idea how long until I'm in another. I also don't know how common this kind of problem is but by now this aspect of the relationship makes me angry. I don't see how I could explain that she needs to start having sex and enjoying it, or break up. Also I'm worried about feeling that if the relationship is ended I'll feel that I've wasted time hoping the negative things would sort themselves out. Just yesterday I found out that a female friend I was attracted to started dating someone else which bothered me more than it should have, from the sense that doors are closing.",
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"content": "Some background: My boyfriend and I grew up together and he has liked me for pretty much his whole life. I am sixteen and he is fifteen. We were best friends before I moved away and then we realized we liked each other. We've been dating long distance for the past seven months and have been getting along great. We don't argue and we resolve things logically. I just got back from visiting him for the first time in the whole relationship and it was great (though very difficult to say goodbye). \n\nSituation: My boyfriend is constantly depressed nd I don't know how to help him. I try to cheer him up and talking to him usually helps him, but when I am not around, he falls into deep funks. Sometimes he can even get into one in the middle of a conversation. I really care about him and I know he feels the same way. I know it's nothing I'm doing. I'm about to start a very hard year at school this year, so he anticipates that our relationship won't be the same as it used to be. I think this may be the reason he has been so depressed lately.\nWhat are some ways I can cheer him up and remind him, even though we may not be talking all the time, that I care about him?",
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"content": "This morning my bf found a picture of me on my computer from this summer where I was wearing a bikini. I wasn't in the country this summer, so he wasn't seeing my body every day.\n\nI blushed and was a little embarrassed, more or less playing coy but not really ashamed that he found a picture of me like that (I had intended to send it to him since we were apart for so long).\n\nThen he mentions that \"I almost look too skinny\" in the photo. This makes me angry, and I still am a little bit because A) I felt like I looked really attractive there, and B) I'm taking a \"dirty\" picture for him and he responds with a critique. Also, his comment set off an alarm in my head that there's a skinny threshold in his mind that I may have been crossing. Given that I'm a size 10 and 5'11'', I'm not fat by any means, but I'm at least 20 pounds away from being \"too skinny\", which is bullshit anyways.\n\nWhen we talked about it he said that he didn't mean it like that, but when he tried to say what he did mean he couldn't really explain it in a way that wasn't offensive and just kept saying he didn't mean it, he finds me so attractive, and that wasn't the first thing he thought of when he saw the photo, etc. A part of me was trying to justifying it by thinking that maybe he was just trying to make me feel good about my body by emphasizing how \"skinny\" isn't necessarily attractive to him (I've told him I put pressure on myself to look like that before), but that's not how it came across. \n\nOverall, I just feel confused because what he thought was \"too skinny\" was actually quite normal. It was an odd comment for him to make, and as soon as he said it he realized he had put his foot in his mouth. I guess I just don't know if I'm being over sensitive.",
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"content": "I met a girl about a month ago at a gig and she made it clear to my friend that she liked me a lot. \n\nI got it together and sorted it out to meet with her to get to know her, met with her a couple of times and it went really well both time and she showed the usual good signs that she was into me. After the second time I think I made the mistake of not texting her after which in hindsight I should have (I was seeing if she would text me first which wa s probably a stupid thing to do). Since then it seems like she's now suddenly uninterested, I don't know. \n\nI think its probably best that I move on to someone else but for the future can anyone say what I might have done?",
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"content": "When I had my heart transplant i was 12. I remember I was always tired and i can't breath properly so my mother took me to the ospital. We found out that my heart was larger than normal, they put me on transplant list and 3 weeks later there was an heart available for me.\nNow I'm 23 and I almost spent the majority of my life with a new heart. I'm grateful for that, but sometimes i feel like it's an heavy bag on my shoulders. Sometimes I feel guilty, because when i was sick i prayed for a new heart (and it means that i prayed that a child would die to take me alive).\nSometimes I just feel \"normal\" and then reality comes back and hit me in my face with a new complication (my medication take me alive but they have a lot of side effects)\nI don't plan my life, I just live it day by day, knowing that one of this days my doctors can tell me some bad news.\nIf i must describe what i feel, it will be a mix of angriness, resignation and a little bit of fear, knowing that life took my innocence away when i was a kid.\nSorry for my bad english but I'm italian",
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"content": "For my final project in World Politics 116 we are required to author a blog about international relations. I think it stands very well on it's own in regards to quality and effort, but the blogs are graded in four parts, one being \"diversity and quality of readership as seen in the comment section of your blog.\" Unfortunately blogging is hard, yo, and although I am extremely proud of the content and hard work I put into this project, I am not skilled at all when it comes to marketing and distributing a blog. (This is my first try ever.) \n\nIf you appreciate my view, analysis or writing skills, please leave your appreciation / opinion in a comment. If you don't, please let me know! Also by leaving a comment, constructive criticism ftw.",
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"content": "Hi, I have a serious problem and I have no idea how to address the issue without having a war and causing serve drama. My girlfriend is beyond a slob. I myself am clean and neat like an average human being. I'm not super neat but I'm not messy. My girlfriend is beyond a slob and doesnt take care of herself. I and her leased an apartment in December and ever since we moved into together the house is always disgusting. Its sometimes so nasty, I'm embarrassed to be living here. I always clean up the house. She never does. She always says she does but doesnt. I've picked up stuff that is SO NASTY I cannot describe it. I actually almost threw up, and I'm not being funny, thats serious. I had to clean up stuff that was just beyond repairing to my brain. I love my girlfriend, I do.. But I don't think I can live with her anymore if she keeps up like this. I don't know why she thinks its okay to sleep next to filth. Her bathroom is filled with so much stuff. I had to clean up Tampon papers that were left on the floor. I had to empty out her garbage in her bathroom and found a USED Pad.. it was so old the blooded turned to BLACK. It smelled so bad, I can taste it in my mouth.\n\nI have serve allergies that I have to take medication for to keep my nose from not running and sneezing... 70% of the time of that day. There is so much dust from her stuff lying around that it eats at me.\n\nI have no idea how to bring up this issue without hurting her feelings and to actually get results. \n\nI don't mind cleaning, but its every week. And after I'm done cleaning, it only takes a day for it go back to the way it was.\n\nI don't know what to do, sometimes inside I wonder if I just never signed the papers and never left to live with her. \n\nI love this woman but I don't know how much more I can take.",
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"content": "Hello I am a college freshmen, and I transferred into the school I am in now after my first semester. I really thought I hated it there. I now believe that what I thought was me hating the college, was actually me just being homesick. Now that I am going to a college near my home, things are even worse. I hate everything here ten times worse than I did at my old school, and I have realized that what I am majoring in here, I am positive would not work out for me: Secondary Education. I am now at a crossroads, and I would love to go back to my old school, and major in Parks and Recreation to become a Park Ranger, but I just got invested in an apartment with my friend here... Needless to say, I am struggling with what I should do. I really want to pursue that major at that school, but I don't know how to get out of my contract with my friend at my new apartment. I don't want to leave my friend in a bad situation, but I don't think that paying for an apartment on top of transferring to a new school that will be two hours away from that apartment is the way to go. I think that I should live with my parents over the summer and save up some money, and then transfer back to my old school, but I am not sure. Please let me know what you think.",
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"content": "This is my first post so please be kind :)\n\nI know that lots of people often feel confused when they come out of a long-term relationship. They think they have forgotten how to be single, or how to flirt/date.\n\nI am one of these people.\n\nThe problem is, my relationship started when I had just turned 16. I have never been single - as an adult. That might sound silly. But the only time I have ever flirted or dated was as an over-confident, hormone-riddled teenager.\n\nNow I have a pretty demanding job, responsibilities blah blah... And I just don't know how to this!\n\nI'm no way in a rush to get into a new relationship, but that doesn't mean I want to be completely alone in the mean time.\n\nIf anyone has experienced anything similar, or just generally has some advice, it would be greatly appreciated!",
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"content": "A bit of back story. I have been using this company to register my domain and host my site for years. Its a little site, nothing special, just my home business. I am really attached to my domain name, so when I returned to school I kept up payments but didn't keep much of a website (just the basic info on some pages, more brags than business)\n\nThe company billed me for the hosting automatically. That reminded me I should update a couple of pages. It was gone, and it was parked! I did a whois and found they bought it less than a month after I paid last year for two years. I did update a couple of pages after I paid last year so it was working for a bit. \n\nI contacted the company and they were snarky. They said that the CC payment hadn't gone through on the 24th of may.. which was true, for some reason the CC company thought using the CC online was suspicious, due to the fact it had never been used for that before. It was cleared up and worked the next day. I pointed out to them that the second payment had gone through. Got a snarky reply that I had no idea what I was talking about and I must not have got the \"it didn't work email\"\n\nSo the CC was contacted and provided a statement for that month, which clearly shows the payment went through and was charged to the account. Armed with this knowledge I emailed them back saying I had the statement, and would a scan do or did they need it mailed to them.\n\nThat was 2 weeks ago. What should I (can I) do? I am just so bummed I really liked that domain name.",
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"content": "A week ago I hadn't kissed a girl yet. \n\nSince then I've gone on 4 dates, made out numerous times with this girl I met and even had her over and took off her bra and had some fun. \n\nBut for some reason my attraction is waning. Shes incredibly nice. Showed more interest in me than any other girl. But she already wants me to meet her family. And she messages me every hour. \n\nShould I trust my instincts or am I being self destructive?\n\nWhen she snaps me I no longer get that bubbly feeling. I just think: Oh I should probably respond to this. \n\nI was rock hard during my first kiss with her? How is that I was soft with her nipple in my mouth?",
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"content": "One of my coworkers is so handsome. We chat and banter a fair bit but there are some things he does which make it seem like he's flirting with me (which I would be totally ok with), but Im not sure. Just to be clear, in no way am I looking to 'get with' this guy because of the obvious age difference. I'm just curious whether he's flirting with me or if I'm reading too much into it. \n\nFirst off, half the time he calls me by name, the other half he calls me things like 'love', 'sweetie', 'babe' etc. On a few occasions, there has been a group of people talking, and he'll look at me with a smile and wink at me. Also, he throws in statements every now and then about my appearance - for example, once I asked him for help with something and he said \"I've got it, all you have to do is sit there and look beautiful\" (aw!) \n\nThere are only 2 other girls at my work (both very close to me in age) but I've never really seen him interact with them, so I don't know if he's just like that with everyone.",
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"content": "Hi - kind of a weird question / situation. I'll try to be brief.\n\nI am from country A, did high-school in country B, and am currently in the United States for college. My friends from country A are doing a month-and-a-half long trip to country B. Since my family lives in country B, I suggested that my friends, when they get to the city we live at, stay at our house so they don't have to pay for hotels and my parents could show them around.\n\nThe problem, as I found out, is that I *cannot deal with it*. \n\nI cannot stand the thought that my friends and my parents are making memories (in the most literal sense) without me. Like, these are two groups of people that have only come together because of me, and the fact that I am not there and that they are doing (fun) stuff together unrelated to me is making me really anxious. Basically, my parents are taking them out to restaurants/attractions and are basically being awesome for showing my friends around the city.\n\nI remember having this as a kid too, it just hasn't surfaced in a while. When I was about 6 or 7, it was my mom's turn to carpool the kids from school and everyone got to the car before me, and hence waited for like a minute until I got there. When I found out that they had all waited together for me (for a really insignificant amount of time, no one cared) I broke down and cried. I remember everyone being really confused and didn't understand when I tried to explain.\n\nSo, definitely something I need to talk to my therapist about, but I wanted to know if anyone has ever encountered something like this and what are people's thoughts on this.\n\nIt's like a weird mixture of FOMO/jealousy/homesickness. I realize this is not normal.",
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"content": "I [27/M] recently got into a huge fight with my--now ex-- girlfriend [24/F].\n\nWe'd been dating for about 2 years at this point and I still largely pay for all of our meals as well as our apartment + utilities. I have a nice luxury loft apartment and she keeps a very small--think glorified storage closet--apt in a bad neighborhood. She literally never goes there except to pick up and drop off clothing because I don't have enough closet space for two people. She doesn't pay a penny to live in my apartment or drive my car (we split the gas costs even though she drives it 80% of the time for her work and I walk to work.)\n\nWe both have good jobs. I make about twice what she does, but I have crushing student debt that I'm trying to pay off as fast as possible. I pay off about $3.5K of student debt a month, which really cuts into my cash flow, as you can imagine. She has about 1/10 the student debt I have.\n\nI recently started suggesting that we split our food bills more evenly. I suggested that she could pay for her own meals and I'd pay for mine. Obviously we'd still go on dates and I'd pay for her meals, but on a day to day basis, I suggested that we split the food costs.\n\nWe ended up getting into a huge fight and then lots of old, old stuff came out and we ended up breaking up.\n\nAt this point, the relationship issue is moot, but she was my first really seriously, long-term relationship.",
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"content": "This won't be too long of a post but it is a severe problem in the least. My girlfriend and I have a very loving relationship and we have dedicated ourselves to each other. I have a tendency of being very protective. I have trouble when she is out with her friends or doing stuff when I am not around. I have told her about this and she thinks it's fine and a tad cute as long as I don't act upon it. I haven't acted upon these feelings but every time I hear she is doing something and we are not together I get this very primal instinct that I need to protect her and be with her at every moment and I want it to stop. I don't want to suffocate our relationship by being too overprotective. Is there anyway that I can stop myself from feeling too overprotective so I can be happy when she is not around me and around me equally?",
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"content": "As lurking has taught me: mandatory \"This actually just happened!\"\n\nThis happened barely 10minutes ago and the shame is ever soo fresh..\n\nSoo here I was sitting on the bus listening to music and watching the peasents walking on the curb as I drove by, when I suddenly felt something tapping my shoe.\nWatching the lady infront of me bending down I naturally assumed she dropped something and bent down to help her pick it up.\n\nWhat I saw was a cardboard coffee-cup with the plastic mouthcover toward me, spilling out the juices. I didnt want to touch her plastic thingy, but I wanted to help her, soo my brain, smart as it is started telling my foot to gently tap it towards her. Again I didnt want to touch the plastic cause that would only make it moore dirty.\n\nIn an instant flurry off emotions and the \"F***ING NOW OR NEVER!!\" sensation deer get when they want to cross the road, my foot went for it!\n\nI turned this presumably nice lady's cardboard cup into a missile and launched it through her feet, into the midway and 6-ish seets down the line. The lady sit's up straight, looks at me with the \"dude, the f*ck..\" kinda look, sighs and goes for her coffee. Wich now is surrounded by a wall shaming eyes.\n\nIm sry presumably nice lady!!",
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"content": "So I am off to the trailer with this girl i have been seeing for 5 months and exclusively for 2 months. I saw on her phone she had her ex over to her place yesterday to pick up her cats to look after them for the weekend. and she texted him at like 1230 last night saying i wish you picked them up this morning cause i miss them. to which he said \"come visit us lol\". She replied \"not happeneing, as nice as itd be.\"\n\nThis seems grand she denied his advance to come over. however she hasnt told me about any of this.. What does reddit think of all this?..",
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"content": "I found out a few days ago that my boyfriend married his ex-girlfriend because he came here illegally and needed a green card. They had been dating on and off for a few years and were together and married for two. I understand the need for it and I'm not upset that he did that. It just comes as a shock to find out now.\n\nI just want to know if anybody else has been through this before and how they handled it. It's hard to talk to my friends about it because I don't think they will fully understand the situation.",
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"content": "I was in a dark place exactly 22 days ago. What's interesting is that I know this because I posted on this subreddit. I actually just noticed that I posted it, because honestly, I forgot. I re read what I said, and I can say that I understand exactly what I was saying at the time, and even agree with it. I understand that what I did was fucked up, and that it wasn't what I wanted, but you know what? I'm who I am right this fucking instant because of it, and dammit, I fucking love me. It feels good. It feels good to actually like yourself, rather than hing on what others say. Deduce your worth based on your interpretation of others appraisal of you.\n\nSHIT, you know what? I just fucked up with like two girls in the past two days, and that's soooo shitty. I just broke a nofap streak of like 2 weeks! But the funny thing is, I'm still me, and I'm still the shit. I'm learning from the stupid mistakes I make, and that's the only way I'd ever have it.",
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"content": "I don't like the girl, let me say right off the bat. She is a very dear friend of mine, though. Before she left, we were hanging out often. We eventually began to fool around. Now that she's back, she tells me she made a boyfriend. Cool. I respect that. I won't make any sexual advances. Yet, she made the initial sexual advance. At first I was hesitant because she told me no sex. But I decided to go with it. First time, she felt awful for cheating, ruined the night. We go at it again soon, and several times. She doesn't feel bad, though. She even admits what she is doing is 'heartless'\n\nSo I found out she only knew the guy for the last 2 months abroad and yet she says she loves him and wanted to spend the rest of her life with him. So I'm thinking, \"really? Why are you cheating on him?\" I just don't know what to make out of this.",
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"content": "So I dated this guy. And he was great while we dated: funny, smart, caring, ect. but he has always been the ass-kissing attention whore type. He dumped me because the relationship had gone bad and I tried to move on, but every time he saw me get close, he would do something to keep me (hook up with me, apologize, tell me how great I am, you get the gist). \n\nEssentially, I was manipulated a lot by him and even though I don't love or want him anymore, I can't seem to move on. He has turned many of our mutual friends (that he was always closer to) against me and I'm just so bitter about the whole situation. Every time I get close to forgiving him, I'll be undermined by my anger at being alone without all the emotional support and friends I had before the breakup. Please help I just really want to move on with my life but it's hard because it's high school and he's EVERYWHERE.",
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"content": "Hey /R/unnit,\n\nJust wanted to follow up and post a race report for the Yellowknife Overlander Marathon (which was my first ever marathon) that I finished today!\n\nAfter running my first half 6 weeks ago and getting 3 weeks of training before my taper I was woefully underprepared but I set out only to finish. My final time was 4 hours and 20 something minutes, I sadly was so caught up in the moment that I didn't take a look at the clock but I will get my results in the next week.\n\nI woke up at 5 AM today and had my usual long run breakfast of a bagel + energy drink. The weather was between 10-20 celsius, gradually warming up as the time ticked on, but very bearable with the overcast and wind. \n\nMiles 1-13: Fairly uneventful and basically was just warming up at a 10 minute pace or slower, minor irritants like my foot getting a pinch on every step (nothing painful I could just feel it) and my stomach being grumbly.\n\nMIles 13-20: At this point I was starting to feel a bit of fatigue as the miles started to pile on. Around mile 13.5 I got a major cramp in my foot and I had to retie my shoe way tighter which alleviated the issue for the most part. At mile 16 I had to use the washroom really bad and was lucky to snag a toilet out on the route (these were spread out very few and far between) which saved my ass when I felt I was going to burst.\n\n20-24: At this point I felt I had good energy but the wear and tear on my muscles was reaching new levels. Hips, my left knee, my feet, my nips, hamstring were all seizing up and it was some of the most mentally challenging parts of the race. \n\n24-26: Flat ground and smooth sailing, I was sort of hobbling to make it back but I never walked once! \n\npost 26: I am in bed and everything hurts, theres nothing that isn't aching and I want ice cream...",
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"content": "So I just want to clarify that no I'm not a anti-social guy who is being friendzoned by a girl who is out of my league.\n\nSo I'm taking a friend of mine who is super pretty to my matric dance(prom) and I started becoming more interested in her after I asked her to go with me on a date. So I asked her and we are planning to go on a date after I finish writing my exams and before the dance(prom), and she seemed keen when I asked her so I guess that's something to go on. Also at the beginning of the year my one friend tried to set the both of us up to go out and from what he told me she was interested in me but it never happened because we just weren't comfortable with each other then and it was difficult to speak to her at first.\n\nNow the problems start with the fact that I'm moving next year to another city 12 hours away from where we live to go to varsity. Now I stay committed when I get into relationships but long distance would be tough on me and I'm not sure about her. I brought it up with her before I asked her out that I'm going to be leaving and she seemed pretty disappointed by it.\n\nThe second problem for me is that this year was also the first time I've been in love with someone and the first time a girl rejected me when I asked her out - this is a long complicated story I don't wanna explain XD. Anyway some days she would pop up in my mind and I would get bummed out about it and also somebody in my grade is bringing her to the dance so that kinda sucks a little. After I stopped speaking to this girl that I fell in love with the girl I'm taking to the dance seemed to become a little bit more interested in me and started talking to me more often.",
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"content": "I have found that I can save quartars but I have a little trouble saving much else. Well 600$ in quarters is probably a bit much and id like to invest it. I also have about 2000 dollars that I need to get away from myself. And then if I invest all this I would also like to invest about 50-75 a week on top of that. So I guess I need something easy to add to, and completely separate from my retirement.\n\nAnother thing while I'm on personal finance is that I have a collection in 2010 that wasn't reported untiln 2013 . It's for a gym membership that I cancelled multiple times and dutifully I've tried to get it taken off my reports every year. So for now to try to establish some good credit I've got a secured card through a credit union, and a secured loan as well both for 500$. I also have 2store credit cards that I use every 3 months or so. Is there any no fee credit card companies that PF knows that I could apply for? My credit score is about 580. Anything that could bump up my credit would be awesome.",
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"content": "I'm sure I'm not the only one that has this problem. I have nearly 100 active accounts between forums, social media, email, financial institutions, and whatever. Some assign you a username others allow you to pick. Some require different lengths. Then you have the password problem: remember when you could have lengths less than 6 characters? I still have some of those passwords. Alphanumberic only? Special characters mandatory? Its insane. As of right now, I have a txt file with all my websites, the username, and password I used. This works kinda okay, but then I have multiple computers so I have to maintain the file in 3 locations? Sure, you can \"always remember\" but that doesn't work on my banking, phone, and utilities sites. Oh, and getting a new computer? Enter everything all over again (if you remember your username/password). On top of that, I'm a developer, so I end up using multiple browsers (sure, I have a favorite that I use more often than the others, but that doesn't mean I don't use 2-3 different browsers per computer). \n\nTo preempt any doucher that says \"I only have a facebook, gmail, and reddit account, that's all I need and that's all you should need.\" Don't fucking bother. I'm here looking for a solution, not listen to some dickface pat himself on the back about something so trivial. I have a social/entertainment side, a finance/professional side, and a developer/hobby side that I'm trying really hard to keep separate (for security AND professionalism) so I'm going to need facebook and reddit and several developer forums and youtube and three financial institutions and multiple email addresses (for each version of me) and lets not forget about every place I buy something from online... I need an account for all of them too.",
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"content": "*shit, title should be: My girlfriend and I just started dating*\n\nWe started dating about a month ago and have hit it off extremely well. I seriously adore everything about her, and I don't mind paying for most things we do together as I like to spoil her. She is definitely very caring and offered to pay several times for our first few dates but I declined. Now she hasn't offered, which isn't a huge problem, but I'd like her to pay for some things a little more often. \n\nThis is a factor because we go out together 4-5 times a week. I don't care (nor want) for it to be 50/50 but instead maybe 70/30. Right now it's 95/5",
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"content": "I've never spoken about the intimate details of my relationship with anyone before, let alone online. My apologies in advance if I'm difficult to make sense of.\n\nMy wife and I have been together since I was in high school. Our relationship has never really been easy. Keeping an **extremely** long story short we now have two kids (two and three years old) and have just moved to a new city. Also worth noting, we have both suffered from depression and anxiety for many years, coupled with low self-esteem. My wife had post-partum depression after my eldest was born as well.\n\nPart of the reason we moved was to get away from negative influences where we were living, and to help repair our struggling relationship. So far our relationship has remained stagnant, discussing divorce is coming up more frequently. Usually this is spurred on by me reacting poorly to a situation.\n\nI'm not even sure how I feel about a divorce at this point. I've thought about it a lot over the last few years. I can see myself being a lot happier after a divorce, but I can also see my self becoming a depressed bag of shit. I'm not sure what the best course of action would be at this time.\n\nI'm really worried about my kids too. I love them both so much, and don't want them to get hurt during all of this. It's breaking my heart thinking about what this would do to them.",
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"content": "We split up in the middle of the summer because she was leaving for the semester, and she wasn't into me anymore (or so she claimed). We got back together at the end of the summer temporarily when our families stayed at the same hotel for a week during vacation.\n\nShe left for the semester, started hooking up with a douche who eventually cheated on her and got expelled. I made a terrible decision and hooked up with one of her friends and had a brief fling with another one. I was incredibly depressed and looking for someone to cling to for support. She had a brief fling with another guy and is currently pursuing a third. We talk a lot over email and chat, although it's mostly me who initiates contact. Towards the beginning of the semester I asked several times if she wanted to get back together and she said it was too early to tell. The last time, I pressed her for an answer (was a month or two ago), and she rejected me pretty brutally.\n\nShe came back for thanksgiving break and didn't particularly want to see me, although she wasn't totally opposed to it. She went to a random party and hooked up with several guys but apparently they weren't particularly desirable. She posted a bunch of shit on her tumblr about lost love and missing someone. She could mean me, or could mean the guy she's currently pursuing. I have no idea. She posted a picture with the caption: \"You used to be alright. What happened?\" and said \"[name], lovie, this is for you.\"\n\nThose are the facts and I have no idea what to make of them. I think she still has feelings for me, but is also angry/disgusted with my hooking up with her friends. I've apologized and explained myself to her, and I don't know how best to help the situation now.\n\nI would really like to get back with her when she gets back, but I don't know if that's possible or how best to go about doing that. My idea was to give her some space for a month (aka no contact) and seeing how she feels when she gets back. Am I an idiot? What should I be doing? I have no idea what to do. Please please help.",
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"content": "I feel extremely conflicted. I know that some scholarships don't even require that much heritage in order to give some money or take some cost off of tuition, but I don't know whether I would be taking money away from people who are legitimately oppressed or have experienced negative things because of their heritage. My family is asking me to find as much money for college as I can (I have a job, my mom is on disability with a muscular disease, and my dad doesn't want to support me in the way he should attempt), but I'm in constant worry that I won't have enough money to get a start even with scholarships. However, I am still conflicted about putting this on forms, as I don't want to hurt people in different situations. Please help, reddit.",
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"content": "I have seen a lot of posts on here about being the ex-gf in these situations, and none of them are too positive on the bf. \n\nWhat are your thoughts on not only having both of these relationships, but the fact that they will likely meet each other? I do not see/associate with the ex-gf at all, but am very close to everyone else (brothers[8,14,22], father[42], mother[41]). It is probable we'll hang out and do things together in the future, without the ex[f25]. \n\nIs this a receipt for disaster and I'm just not seeing it? People around me haven't been able to properly describe why this would or wouldn't end well. Just that \"it's...\" with no follow-up. Am I worried about nothing?",
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"content": "So as the title explains, my girlfriend and I have been dating for just short of a year. This is the first time I have gone through mother's day with her. Normally, this wouldn't be a big deal, but she lost her mother about 7 years ago to a battle with Lymphoma. I know she misses her mother greatly and I want to do what I can to make Sunday as easy as possible for her. I know that I will spend this weekend comforting her whenever she needs it, but can y'all think of anything I could do to help her honor her mother? Because I am sure someone will ask, I have a very good feeling she would appreciate and love something like that.\n\nThanks!",
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"content": "Small bit of background seeing girl for close to 18 months. We both have trust issues due to messy breakups with partners who cheated on us but we are getting there. Everything has been great despite my gf still liking to keep her life and our relationship a little separate. She has a pretty large group of guy friends who I've met only once. \n\nSo long story short I'm pretty anti drugs. Never a fan and really dislike people on coke or pills. Really not my scene. Gf has told me she is going to a number of music festivals this summer and hasn't invited me. I probably wouldn't have gone but I wasn't given a choice. \n\nAt breakfast this morning she told me her and her guy friend had decided over a night out that they were going to do ecstasy at a music festival next month and then she got beyond giddy daydreaming about it. It will be both of their first times but will be with friends who have done it. This is really out of character for her as up to now she has had zero interest or so I thought. \n\nI was stunned and didn't raise the point for half an hour as I didn't know what to say. Her reaction was it's my body my choice. She said she had tried at a music festival last summer and failed to find any but would be doing it this time. \n\nIve had friends/gfs who have taken E and all they want to do is dance and then hug/kiss/screw. This along with being told we are doing E, it's not really your scene so you are not invited. \n\nIm rattled by this. Dont know this guy, don't know these friends. Should I be ok with this situation? I'm just as frustrated with the drugs as I am with the comment which went with it. Any advice is hugely appreciated.",
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"content": "Hey guys,\n\nI met this Girl once on a NCS (National Citizen Service) basically a camp for teen-agers. 1st two weeks are holiday the other 2 its community service.So i ended up getting something nice on my CV.\n\nHowever this isn't about NCS , this is about a girl I met there. Before NCS I was super shy,lacked confidence and just the usual teen issues.\n\nI met a girl, i managed to fight of my fears and spoke to her, we seemed to hit it off quite well. 1 and a half weeks into knowing her I asked her out , knowing that i'm probably not the only one attracted to her.\n\nWe ended up having a pretty healthy relationship but we did rush into a lot of the couple stuff. \n\nAfter 6 months something happened and she didn't want to be with me anymore. We did live about 45 minutes / an hour from each other , and we were attending college at the time so we didn't see each other as much as we would've liked.\n\nAfter multiple attempts to reach out to her and convince her that we made a mistake I kind of gave up. So here we are today still talking to each other, as friends.\n\nIt has been over a year and a half since we have broken up , but I still cannot get over her.\n\nHave any of you gone through a bad break up and had a bad time letting go ?\n\nIf you would like to know more about my situation feel free to pm me.",
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"content": "Hi all, I live in Georgia, and unfortunately with this weeks cold snap, it resulted in several water pipes bursting in my attic and water damage across several ceilings in our house. Fortunately I was able to cut off the water before any further damage could happen. When I had a plumber come out to fix the pipes, he basically laughed when he went up to the attic and saw the plumbing system that had been installed by the previous home owner. In the attic, there was a maze of exposed CPVC (no insulation jackets) pipes all through out the attic. They were also raised about 2-3 feet in the air with NO hangers. The plumber said it was basically a disaster waiting to happen and that the only real solution would be to have the entire attic re-piped correctly. He said he could replaced the broken pipes, but it would just result in another break during the next deep freeze so we went ahead and replaced the entire attic and we are setup with a good PEX system, with a fiberglass insulation sleeve, and the pipes now run low enough to where insulation can be placed on top of it also so we should be good for the future.\n\nSorry, long lead up, but my question is: Before we purchased our house in 2012, we had it inspected by a home inspector for $400 or so. He provided us a pretty detailed report about some issues, but NOTHING was mentioned about the shoddy plumbing system that was just waiting to fail. I went back and looked at the report again to confirm, but I also noticed that apparently \"Private Water systems\" are out of the scope of their inspection/report which I think is RIDICULOUS... We were first time home buyers and needed an true professional inspection to let us know of any potential problems before purchasing the house. Do I have any recourse with our inspector? The plumbers and the insurance adjustor that have come out have both stated that they are amazed the house passed inspection with a water system like that in the attic. Any help/advice would be much appreciated.",
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"content": "I started playing the cello in 7th grade. I was in my High School orchestra class (*mediocre at best with the type of funding we had*) throughout my entire high school schooling. I was in a chamber string quartet, and was also in the Georgia Youth Symphony Orchestra for 3 years.\n\nAs a player that is an intermediate/experienced player (*I don't like to think I'm close to professional level, though I may just be modest*), what do you suggest to help muster up the power to practice and learn new techniques on your own? I find that during my entire time in all these programs, I was never once taught how to properly study and practice on my own (excluding the material that we would be performing for at a concert). I also find it difficult to remember some basic practice challenge scales and bowing techniques, as we would lightly brush over this material at the beginning of class and mindlessly rush into what we would be performing for a concert. I feel I was never taught the fundamentals of learning to play on my own.\n\nIf you're able, list off some things that you would recommend that would help with practice and learning newer techniques on your own, such as:\n\n* Books\n* Techique sheet Music\n* Specific works of music\n* Tutors\n* Etc.",
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"content": "So I'll try to make this as short as possible. My dad started a company the beginning of last year selling a bottle opener called \"MyTopOff.\" (www.mytopoff.com it's hard to explain what it does)\n\nHe ran a few television commercials last year and didn't have much success. He has been doing a bit of online marketing and hasn't broken even yet on his investment for getting this all started. He even packs and ships this product from his own garage.\n\nThe commercial for the product says \"buy one get one free\", but there's extra postage on the second item. This is pretty standard on most commercials, and before someone checks-out online it clearly states the extra fees for the shipping on the additional item.\n\nMy dad received notice for a case that was filed by an attorney out of New Jersey (name withheld by me) who filed a class-action lawsuit against my dad because of the \"deceptive\" advertising. Upon further research my parents saw that this attorney files about 100 cases a year against companies for this same thing; usually settling out of court for large sums of money. This attorney ordered the product with the intention of filing this case, and I'm assuming the attorney keeps all the money he collects.\n\nMy dad ended up calling the attorney, and the attorney said this can all \"go away\" for $15,000. The problem is, my dad hasn't even made $1 on this product yet, and is struggling trying to get his business going. He called a couple other attorneys about this, many of them know who this bad attorney is. If my dad tried to fight it, it would cost him approximately $10,000, and then it's a gamble whether he will win or lose.\n\nDoes anyone have any advice on what plan of action my dad could take? He's a great guy and this whole ordeal has been super upsetting for him.",
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"content": "I'm starting a business (only local and online at first, no brick and mortar) and at first this will only be selling apparel. \n\nI have a name of the business, a name of the apparel line, and a logo. I've check trademarks and everything is fine - do I need to trademark the name before I sell anything? \n\nThe trademark (I believe has to be done separate since the names are slightly different between company name and apparel line name) is expensive I think (700 up front maybe?) - didn't know without doing that if I had any protection if someone stole my name and or logo.",
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"content": "So I'm new to reddit so please be kind! My boyfriend suggested I ask for help here.\n\nBackground - about a year ago I was in a bad car accident (rear ended a semi on the freeway doing 60mph because he cut me off). Well I'm paying monthly to multiple places, hospitals & doctors, for the exams and tests I had done.\n\nI went to the dentist for my checkup and was told that I need a root canal and crown but my insurance covers almost nothing - I would still need to pay $1200+ out of pocket. I cannot afford this on my income currently.\n\nI have a credit card that I use for small purchases and pay off every month, would it be a smart idea to get another credit card with lower interest rate put my dental work on it and then pay it off monthly?\n\nOr is there a better solution I'm missing? I have tried care credit and they won't approve me :(",
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"content": "Yesterday my son brought me into his room so that we could talk. I was somewhat worried, everything's pretty relaxed in our household, not much you can't say in the lounge room. He sat me down and said that he's in love with my fiance. He said he was sorry and that he didn't mean for it to happen. He was on the verge of tears and I didn't really know what to say, so I just sat down next to him and gave him a pat on the back and said that it was alright.\n\nMy fiance and I have been together for 2 and a half years now. She moved in 6 months ago after we got engaged. Since then she's been trying to do things with my son so that she could feel more like part of the family. I'm guessing some wires got crossed.\n\nDo I just leave it at that? Should I tell my fiance so she can comfort him? I don't really know what else to do. I haven't seen him this upset since he was a kid. I would feel wrong just leaving it at that, but I have no idea what else to say or do.",
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"content": "Basic story is this - I am a vegetarian, female, 25 years old, 115 pounds, 5 foot 1. I work with a bunch of jock males who eat meat and white bread for lunch every day and pick on my food incessantly. I eat things like large salads with quinoa or brown rice and veggies, greek yogurt, you get the idea. I get plenty of protein, i eat a balanced diet, i don't lecture others on being vegetarian but am a constant victim. I usually just laugh it off but do have a tendency to get annoyed when people lecture me on \"how I don't enjoy life\" and \"how I eat rabbit crap food\".\nMy breaking point is this morning - I was talking to a few coworkers about how I need to do more cardio (I tend to end up doing more yoga/stretching type exercises and i realize the importance of good cardio), and instead I got a talk about how they eat whatever they want but because they work out hard, it doesn't matter.\n\nI KNOW this is not true - you can't just eat shit and then go to the gym for 2.5 hours and justify it. These guys are guys with six packs, great bodies, very athletic - but they eat shit all day and are proud of it too - snickers bars, crappy pastas, the works. I told them that even though they look great, their internal organs and arteries probably aren't doing well and that you can't just \"cancel out\" eating bad with working out right. They both literally laughed in my face and were like \"um, yes you can\".\n\nAnyways i am REALLY effin fed up with this nonsense. If i'm wrong, and you actually can \"cancel\" the effects of eating badly with working out right, well then i'm wrong. But i really think this isn't true - you might be the fittest person ever but because of your eating habits have high blood pressure, etc.",
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"content": "So my daughter turned 8 a few months ago and her whole life she has been accompanied by her cat. Her cat would sleep with her, follow her around, sit on her lap, and put up with pretty much anything she did to it. \n \nHere is the hard part. My daughter had a hard time closing doors when she is in a rush to go out and my wife or I will shut the door after she doesn't get it all the way shut. Three weeks ago neither of us were in the room when she went out and the door was open for long enough for her cat to get out. \n \nHer cat did not come back. We made lost fliers and posted them around the neighborhood and contacted the local shelters in case someone picked her up. We got a ton of calls but none of them were her cat. \n \nLast week we got a call from the local shelter and they said we should come take a look at this cat because it matched the pictures and age. My daughter was still at daycare and the wife and I were both working from home. We drove up and saw the cat in question and it was ours. She had been mauled, infected with FIV, and couldn't stand up on her own. The vet bill would have been outrageous and we have another cat at home who does not have FIV so we made the call to have her put down. \n \nEvery day since the cat ran away my daughter has asked about her and since the day at the shelter my wife has to leave the room and cry every time she asks or says she hopes she found a good home. so finally, the question: should I tell my daughter that her cat won't be coming back? I have discussed it with my wife and we are in agreement that we have to do something about her asking every day but we don't know if she is ready to deal with the death of a pet.",
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"content": "So, this is about 4 years ago. I was a sophomore in highschool. \nIt was in the first week of school that me and my friend group heard the name of this freshman.. He had an awesome name. Idk how i can make something comparable.. We'll call him Barry Powers. It wad like that, a superhero type name. So anyway, we heard the name Barry Powers during freshman roll call and we were like \"damn! What a sick name!\" And made it our ultimate mission to find this guy.\nAnd so we searched.\nIt took weeks. \nWhenever we met other freshmen, we asked, \"do you know Barry Powers?\" And other questions like \"what does he look like?\", \"where did you last see him?\", and \"where can we find him?\". We really wanted to find this kid and congratulate him on his name.\nSo, after two weeks of this walking around and searching and asking, we ask someone about Mr. Powers and their answer is \"oh, he's right there.\" we get freakin hyped and beeline to the dude, who looks at us with fear in his eyes. Thinking back on it, we had the poor kid, who was eating lunch on his own, in a corner surround by 4 of us. I asked, \"hey man. You Barry Powers?\"\n\"y-yeah..\" He managed to respond. \n\"oh, well, you have a sweet name!\" I said.\n\"ok..\" Mumbled Powers. Now, the next moment was like the end of an always sunny episode; my friends and I looked around and each other and decided, \"oh cool we did it, moving on now.\"\nIt was only a little bit later that we heard that this poor guy thought this was some massive hazing ritual the whole time. And since we had asked so many people, most of the freshman class thought here was some crazy hazing where we chose one random dude, hunted him down, and did something to him. Oops!",
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"content": "Been seeing this girl and it's gotten the point where we're sleeping at each others places. She has this dog, kind of a poodle or something (not exactly sure on the breed, small, white, kind of curly hair). She (dog) is cool in the dog park, pretty decent on a leash, but in her own dwelling, does not like men.\n\nDog has no history of abuse by men, but the dog does not like men. She is pretty territorial and barks when I even get close to her closet door (where she keeps the dog when I'm around, it's a huge closet, no sketchy neglect or anything).\n\nGetting to the point where I have to meet this small beast and make nice-nice. What is the best way to do so? Apparently, she nips at hands/heels and will just stare me down and growl the entire time. Should I arrive with treats? I've raised pups on my own and never had a problem but mostly German shepherds and Dobermans. Never thought I'd struggle with a poodle. \n\nAny help or tips would be great.",
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"content": "To begin at the beginning:\n\nBoy meets girl at college social event. Boy likes girl. Boy is unaware of girl's response to boy's potential advances. Boy is especially reluctant because of Forever Alone issues. So boy texts mutual friend of boy and girl to check if she might be keen, so he can act on rock-solid information.\n\nResponse: 'Sorry, Derp, she's my best friend. I'm not passing on anything that we share. **It's none of my business.**'\n\nLater I get a text from potential soulmate: 'Herpess told me about how you felt. Yeah, look, not looking for a relationship right now. Goodbye, good luck, etc.'\n\n**'None of my business'**, my pointlessly shaven balls.\n\nSo, I was lied to. Did I deserve it by not being upfront from the get-go by trying to act through a surrogate?",
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"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
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"content": "So, currently in college (that's our way of saying before university in the UK) and i've been with this girl for a year and a half. I love her, and think she's amazing. But the downside is, i'm 18. I want to go and experience lots of different things in lots of different places, but I can't go and travel and do amazing things with her. I want to go and do these things myself and make new friends. \n\nI'm worried however, that if I approach her with this she'll go for it, but when I come back she'll have moved on with the relationship. We both feel the same way about each other, that's clear. Another point to make is that she has made plans to go and travel around Australia herself. \n\nThis may seem like a very selfish post, however I hope you can all understand that i'm young and want to expand my knowledge of the world and have my own individual experiences. For this to happen i'm looking at 2 or so years. Which is a long time I know, but as the title says, I met her too young. I'm not looking for criticism, i'm looking for people's own similar experiences and how they went about dealing with the situation. Thank you for reading, if I don't reply, i'm sleeping.",
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"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
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"content": "I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little bit over 1 year. We recently had a breakup because I was distant and she thought I was cheating on her (which I wasn't). Before the breakup, she wanted to spend as much time with me as she could, but recently she has been very distant. We used to go to eachothers places overnight almost daily, but nowadays she does not want to come over to my place or want me to go over to hers (We both live on our own). She also used to talk to me all the time on facebook, but now she pretty much only replies to what I talk, and does not try to keep the conversation going. She has became pretty slow at replying, but when I'm with her, she replies instantly to her other friends who text her. \n\nI'm really lost at this situation, because I feel like she does not want to be with me anymore. I know that she's taking SSRI medications at the moment for anxiety. But she was taking them before we broke up for couple weeks. Her explanation for this situation is that she wants to spend some time alone, because she is working so much and never has time to be alone. This bothers me because she used to want to be with me all the time she could, and now she does not even try to schedule time for me.",
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"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
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"content": "This actually happened about 4 hours ago and my SO is still giving me hell about it. \n\nI had a list of things I had to accomplish before having to drive 4 hours to a wedding. One of those things I had planned to do was stretch my ears from a 4G to a 2G. I go to the bathroom and get out all my stuff to stretch my ears. I successfully stretch them without any hiccups and hop in the shower. At this point, we are looking at about 1 hour before we have to leave and I still had several things to do. As I'm completing these tasks, I lose track of time and have to be in the car and heading to the wedding in ~5 minutes. Shit. So my SO is starting to rush me and I'm trying to finish getting ready. Go to the bathroom to brush my teeth and about that time my SO asks me something and I turned to look at her and inadvertently picked up the tube of surgical lube that previously I used to stretch my ears and applied it to my toothbrush. I put my electric toothbrush in my mouth and turn it on and start brushing and that's when I realized it was too late. I was spitting out lube left and right and dry heaving all while my SO thinks it's the funniest thing on earth. I guess the good takeaway here is that food will slide down my gullet much easier.",
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"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
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"content": "I'm young and stupid, and I know that there's reason to believe I have no idea what I'm even talking about, but I truely believe that my SO is the one I'll be with for the rest of my life. I was in an abusive relationship with a boy 3 years older than I for the past three years, and my current SO makes me realize how stupid I was to even stay in a situation like that. My ex would verbally and mentally abuse me every day and night, calling me at early hours of the morning because he couldn't sleep, or had a nightmare. He'd yell and scream at me for not helping enough, or for being over bearing. A few times it came to him pushing and choking me. Now, let's just say that those incidents did not roll over well with a southern bell. He was bipolar manic, and never took his multiple medications as he should have. I overlooked too much, and was just willing myself to be ignorant. I cheated. He abused. I cried. He controlled. If we had been a song, we were \"Kim\"- Eminem. Eventually I was numb and lost to the pain I felt. But my current SO showed me everything I was never allowed to believe was real. Our relationship grows each day and every moment, and every time I breathe I just feel like he's the only thing keeping my tried to earth(besides gravity). My ex and I haven't seen each other or spoke since june 5th or 6th of this year. This is the longest I have ever been away from/without him and I haven't felt the usual need to relapse into him again. My SO keeps me sane, and I feel like he truely saved me. I want to know that out of all the sob stories I hear, and the hurt people I find, that there are people out there who have found their \"One\". I'm asking you all to tell me what you have, what you lack, and what you want. Are they \"the one\"? How do you know? <3",
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"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
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"content": "I started talking to a girl on tinder about a month ago, hungout with her and everything was good. We talked NON STOP day in day out texted till 4-5am then the same the next day. We hungout two weeks ago, she told me she liked me and we kissed and acted all couply. \n\nShe then asked me to a new years party, and then I noticed she was slowing down on talking to me. I asked whats up and she said her mom gave away a beloved pet/was jam packed with homework. \n\nSo she ditched me on new years.. she texted me that night saying hey blah blah Two days ago she'd just text me once in the morning, and today in the morning saying how stressed she is over school and stuff. Also noticed she's been active on tinder again and changed her display pic.. Thoughts?",
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"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
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"content": "Well. I feel like an asshole due to the invasion of privacy but I'll explain that in a second...\n\nIt all goes back to when I was driving her car because I didn't have one at the time. I was looking for some kind of chapstick and found a bottle of adderall in the storage between the driver and passenger seat.\n\nI didn't say anything for a couple weeks because I had no idea how to approach it. I finally brought up the subject in a \"general\" way and she told me that she had taken it a couple times when she lived in NYC (1.5 or 2 years ago) but does not take it currently. I THEN brought it up a week later, telling her I FOUND IT by accident, and she said that her therapist had prescribed it but she won't be taking it and won't be getting it refilled.\n\nHere's the horrible part:\n\nI looked at her text messages because part of me didn't trust her. What did I find? A text message to her therapist from this past weekend asking the therapist to refill the prescription for adderall. \n\nHow the hell do I approach this? I only ask because I'm not sure if I should be worried. Do I even say anything or do I just respect privacy? We live together. I'm aware this is amazingly hypocritical but shouldn't she be sharing this with me? Or no? This is the best relationship that's ever happened to me... curious if anyone else has experienced something similar.",
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"content": "A little background, I have 4 rats; 2 albino, 2 black and white ones. In the last week or so, one of the albino ones (mind you, they are practically blind) has been learning to jump from her cage, which is three feet up, and then explore our room. We've tried a bunch of solutions that didn't work, but yesterday we switched out the table and thought now she wouldn't be able to jump down, and she didn't for about three hours.\n\nThis morning we wake up to find the glass of water on my desk (which is about 15 feet away from her cage, and about 3 feet off the ground) is tipped over and the water spilled onto my gaming pc. We found her under the bed and put her back.\n\nNow, I open my PC and dry off the parts with a q-tip, the wires, everything is dry it seems. I turn it on, motherboard, GPU, CPU,",
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"content": "So I've known this girl since middle school, and I've been hopelessly in love with her ever since. I mean I don't know if it's love, because what is love, blah blah blah and so forth. But anyways, we were off and on in high school, we went to different colleges and we've both been with a bunch of other people, but we always come back to each other. She's told me a bunch of times that she loves me too, and that she doesn't want anybody else, but at the same time it's never really been exclusive and I don't think it would last too long if we tried to make it exclusive. Neither of us has ever lasted long in a committed relationship.\n\nShe's going to Australia next week for a semester, I'm not gonna talk to her much for a few months and she's probably gonna meet a bunch of guys who surf and play guitar on the beach and wrestle crocodiles for fun. I'm a little bit beside myself, but at the same time I want her to go and have fun and get the most out of it.\n\nI wonder if anyone's ever had a similar situation? I'd like to give her something she could take with her that would make her think of me once in a while, whenever she takes it out and looks at it. Something really sweet that'll make her go \"aaawwww!\" I know it's kind of an obscure request seeing as how nobody knows either of us, but it doesn't have to be something personal. And any ideas might help me think of something. I know this is something I should come up with on my own, but romance was never my thing and I don't have much time left. \n\nAnd honestly it doesn't have to be a gift, it could just be something we do before she leaves, but the gift idea seemed good to me. Like I said I'm really bad at this. Please help me!!!",
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