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BFF still mad, juggles back and forth from trying to work things out and getting better to hating me again and wanted me to go away. Any insight or something would be great<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, except the punctuation. \n\nRewrite: \n\n\"Boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship. Thoughts?\"" }, { "text": " Boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures afterwards. Not sure if this is a good idea or damaging to our relationship.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "\"send him pictures afterwards\" - Seems off if he is there when it happens. \n\nI assume author is asking for feedback from readers and may feel uncomfortable with this. \n" } ]

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures afterwards. Not sure if this is a good idea or damaging to our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures when we are having sex. I don't know if this would damage my relationship with him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures when we are having sex. I don't know if this would damage my relationship with him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures afterwards. Not sure if this is a good idea or damaging to our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures when we are having sex. I don't know if this would damage my relationship with him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures when we are having sex. I don't know if this would damage my relationship with him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send me pictures while we are having sex. I'm torn between wanting to do it and staying away from what may be damaging our relationship<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " my boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send me pictures while we are having sex. I'm torn between wanting to do it and staying away from what may be damaging our relationship", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3", "note": "\"send me pictures while we are having sex.\" - Does this \"we\" refer to the bf and author or the other man and author?\n\nPretty convoluted. " }, { "text": " Boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures afterwards. Not sure if this is a good idea or damaging to our relationship.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "\"send him pictures afterwards\" - Seems off if he is there when it happens. \n\nI assume author is asking for feedback from readers and may feel uncomfortable with this. \n" } ]

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

my boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send me pictures while we are having sex. I'm torn between wanting to do it and staying away from what may be damaging our relationship<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send me pictures while we are having sex. I'm torn between wanting to do it and staying away from what may be damaging our relationship<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures afterwards. Not sure if this is a good idea or damaging to our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send him pictures when we are having sex. I don't know if this would damage my relationship with him.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, except the punctuation. \n\nRewrite: \n\n\"Boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship. Thoughts?\"" }, { "text": " my boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send me pictures while we are having sex. I'm torn between wanting to do it and staying away from what may be damaging our relationship", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3", "note": "\"send me pictures while we are having sex.\" - Does this \"we\" refer to the bf and author or the other man and author?\n\nPretty convoluted. " } ]

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend wants me to sleep with other men while he watches but he was cheated on a lot in the past and I'm scared this will damage our relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] wants me [20/F] to sleep with another man in front of him\n\nPOST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 16 months and we have a great relationship. We explore a lot of different things when we have sex like roleplay etc but the other night he asked me to tell him about a time I had sex with another guy in detail. He said it turns him on. I did it but then he asked me to actually have sex with another man in front of him. I don't mind exploring this as a fantasy but I'm unsure if this would be damaging to our relationship if we actually did it. He also wants me to have sex with someone when he's not here and then tell me about it and send him pictures while we are doing it. He knows I don't want him to have sex with other girls and he's fine with that. Just before we made it official that we were together I had sex with another guy while we were sleeping with each other (just not officially together) and he was very angry about it at the time but then he told me a few days ago that it turned him on and he wanted me to explain it in detail even though it happened over a year ago. I am enjoying this as a fantasy while we have sex and just talking about it but he has been cheated on by nearly all his ex girlfriends so I'm wondering if this is something to do with it and why he wants me to do it. I don't want to damage our relationship. He insists it won't but I can't believe it because of his past relationships. Also I know this is a fetish called cuckold.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend wants me to have sex with another man in front of him and send me pictures while we are having sex. I'm torn between wanting to do it and staying away from what may be damaging our relationship<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: possibly alcoholic boyfriend who blames me for controlling him to the point of blacking out and blaming me. When should I leave?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: He drinks a lot, I can't get him to stop. What do I do? Do I just leave? Or continue to try?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boyfriend is a drinker, he won't stop even when he knows that it's a problem. When do you know it's time to end it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend is a drinker, he won't stop even when he knows that it's a problem. When do you know it's time to end it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: possibly alcoholic boyfriend who blames me for controlling him to the point of blacking out and blaming me. When should I leave?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Only man I have wanted to marry can't control his drinking and turns into mr Hyde. Am confused in love woman that wants to know when is enough enough.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Only man I have wanted to marry can't control his drinking and turns into mr Hyde. Am confused in love woman that wants to know when is enough enough.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: possibly alcoholic boyfriend who blames me for controlling him to the point of blacking out and blaming me. When should I leave?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Only man I have wanted to marry can't control his drinking and turns into mr Hyde. Am confused in love woman that wants to know when is enough enough.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: He drinks a lot, I can't get him to stop. What do I do? Do I just leave? Or continue to try?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boyfriend is a drinker, he won't stop even when he knows that it's a problem. When do you know it's time to end it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend is a drinker, he won't stop even when he knows that it's a problem. When do you know it's time to end it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Help with my (31f) possible alcoholic boyfriend (30m)\n\nPOST: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. I guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: He drinks a lot, I can't get him to stop. What do I do? Do I just leave? Or continue to try?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

[20/f] friend from a while back, went out together before but now due to school and work drifted apart and now I'm suddenly reminded of her. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: [20/f] friend from a while back, went out together before but now due to school and work drifted apart and now I'm suddenly reminded of her. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: went out with girl from a while ago, went to block her updates and stopped talking to her and now I'm reminded of her. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

[20/f] friend from a while back, went out together before but now due to school and work drifted apart and now I'm suddenly reminded of her. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: [20/f] friend from a while back, went out together before but now due to school and work drifted apart and now I'm suddenly reminded of her. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm trying to forget about this girl for a few months and then I suddenly became reminded of her and I don't know if I should try to contact her again or what advice you can give me to get over her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm trying to forget about this girl for a few months and then I suddenly became reminded of her and I don't know if I should try to contact her again or what advice you can give me to get over her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm trying to forget about this girl for a few months and then I suddenly became reminded of her and I don't know if I should try to contact her again or what advice you can give me to get over her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: was with a girl before, got over her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

was with a girl before, got over her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: was with a girl before, got over her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: went out with girl from a while ago, went to block her updates and stopped talking to her and now I'm reminded of her. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

[20/f] friend from a while back, went out together before but now due to school and work drifted apart and now I'm suddenly reminded of her. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: [20/f] friend from a while back, went out together before but now due to school and work drifted apart and now I'm suddenly reminded of her. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: was with a girl before, got over her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm trying to forget about this girl for a few months and then I suddenly became reminded of her and I don't know if I should try to contact her again or what advice you can give me to get over her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm trying to forget about this girl for a few months and then I suddenly became reminded of her and I don't know if I should try to contact her again or what advice you can give me to get over her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Looking for advice with [20/f] I'm confused\n\nPOST: Hello peoples I've been lurking around on this subreddit looking for advice that would pertain to me but I can't find one that's exactly similar to my situation Background, I've went out with this girl before on a few dates a few years ago and we both seemed interested but I never found the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend. My situation is that I've been stuck on this girl for so long and I'm not too sure what to do or even what I want anymore. A few months ago I was okay with trying to forget about her and trying to get her out of my mind by working and school. I went to block her updates on facebook and other social networks to try to forget her. Later on in the year she starts texting me randomly and we start to chat and even went out for a "date". The reason I say "date" is that I'm not sure what it was exactly, we're friends from way back and haven't seen each other in a few months so either she wanted to catch up or she wanted to reignite something that we had from before. Everything was amazing on the date and we even promised to meet up again in the future but I was busy with school and she was too so our chats started to dwindle and then disappear completely. At this stage I've decided to once again get her out of my mind so I go to school meet some new people and basically distracted myself from her and it was working. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or moved on. With no communication for about 3 months now I don't know why but I suddenly was reminded of her and now she's stuck in my mind. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about doing it through a text? If I shouldn't what advice can you guys give me to try and get over her, I've tried to meet new people but I always seem to go after people who aren't single.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: went out with girl from a while ago, went to block her updates and stopped talking to her and now I'm reminded of her. Should I try to communicate with her again? If so how do I go about it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is lying to me about being enrolled in graduate classes, which is our most benign and positive social activity. Do I confront him or ignore the whole thing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: husband is a visiting/non-matriculating student at an expensive university, and lies about the courses he is taking. Do I confront him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is secretly attending graduate classes, and I don't know why he would lie about it, and what, if anything, I should do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is lying to me about being enrolled in graduate classes, which is our most benign and positive social activity. Do I confront him or ignore the whole thing?<|endoftext|>

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My husband is lying to me about being enrolled in graduate classes, which is our most benign and positive social activity. Do I confront him or ignore the whole thing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is lying to me about being enrolled in graduate classes, which is our most benign and positive social activity. Do I confront him or ignore the whole thing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband is enrolled in classes at a very expensive university, and I suspect he is hiding them from me. Should I confront him? I feel like he's lying about his entire life, and I don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is secretly attending graduate classes, and I don't know why he would lie about it, and what, if anything, I should do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband is enrolled in classes at a very expensive university, and I suspect he is hiding them from me. Should I confront him? I feel like he's lying about his entire life, and I don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is secretly attending graduate classes, and I don't know why he would lie about it, and what, if anything, I should do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My husband [33] is lying to me [33] about the most benign (even positive) "recreational" activity, and I don't know whether to confront him or ignore the whole thing.\n\nPOST: In a nutshell, he is enrolled in and attending graduate-level classes at an Ivy League university in our area. I work very long hours as an attorney, generally 9am-8pm. Sometimes six days a week. He works 16-hour shifts two days a week, and works from home on another project. Long before we met, he dropped out of a prestigious doctoral program because of personal problems, and this has haunted him. I was reorganizing a stack of paper we keep under the table, looking for tax info, and I found university course syllabuses (syllabi?). Sure enough, he is enrolled in four classes as a visiting/non-matriculating doctoral student. This explains a lot, because we generally text and email a lot through my long workdays. There are huge gaps of time where he "falls silent" though, and I assumed the worst...he was out with someone, dealing with depression, or deliberately ignoring me. Now, we have talked a lot about the relative differences in our education, and how the school he wants to attend is SO prohibitively expensive it is against our best interests right now. I know he is paying a pretty penny for these four classes. Probably by taking on debt I will have to eventually pay. Do I confront him? Come home during the day while he is in class? Go to the campus and confront him there? Write to him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened? Why would he lie about this anyway? This is so perplexing.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: husband is a visiting/non-matriculating student at an expensive university, and lies about the courses he is taking. Do I confront him? Ignore the whole thing like it never happened?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I like this girl. I'm sexually confident and she seems to be, but we haven't had sex yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on, or is this just a lost cause?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl. I'm sexually confident and she seems to be, but we haven't had sex yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on, or is this just a lost cause?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Idk if/how I should escalate with this amazing woman because she says she waits a few months before she sleeps with someone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I like this girl. I'm sexually confident and she seems to be, but we haven't had sex yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on, or is this just a lost cause?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl. I'm sexually confident and she seems to be, but we haven't had sex yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on, or is this just a lost cause?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl but we haven't slept together yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on or worry that I've wasted an opportunity?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I really like this girl. We haven't done anything physical yet (though she says it could happen) and she seems like she's waiting for that. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I really like this girl. We haven't done anything physical yet (though she says it could happen) and she seems like she's waiting for that. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl but we haven't slept together yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on or worry that I've wasted an opportunity?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Idk if/how I should escalate with this amazing woman because she says she waits a few months before she sleeps with someone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Idk if/how I should escalate with this amazing woman because she says she waits a few months before she sleeps with someone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl but we haven't slept together yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on or worry that I've wasted an opportunity?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I like this girl. I'm sexually confident and she seems to be, but we haven't had sex yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on, or is this just a lost cause?<|endoftext|>

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I really like this girl. We haven't done anything physical yet (though she says it could happen) and she seems like she's waiting for that. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl. I'm sexually confident and she seems to be, but we haven't had sex yet. Should I keep trying to turn her on, or is this just a lost cause?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I really like this girl. We haven't done anything physical yet (though she says it could happen) and she seems like she's waiting for that. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I really like this girl. We haven't done anything physical yet (though she says it could happen) and she seems like she's waiting for that. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I really like this girl. We haven't done anything physical yet (though she says it could happen) and she seems like she's waiting for that. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24M] have been seeing a [31F] and we haven't slept together yet (5 weeks).\n\nPOST: I really really like this girl. I could go on and on about how incredible she is but basically I have very high standards and she has every attribute I need/want with a big scoop of ice cream on top of each one. I am confident I can satisfy all of her needs, (she's picky too) but with less ice cream. She says it's usually a couple of months before she sleeps with a guy, and she can count the number of guys she's slept with on one hand. I don't mind waiting, in fact I prefer to, but I don't really know what to do. I am a very sexually confident man but she doesn't seem to have too much trouble resisting when I'm trying (and succeeding) to turn her on. It's weird to me, and it kind of gets me nervous. Should I keep trying to turn her on? Do you think she's waiting for me to set aside a whole day to be romantic and build a shitton of tension? IF I do that, and she's still not ready, then I've wasted the opportunity; I have one shot at our FIRST super-romantic-tension-filled experience, and we both miss out on a lot if it isn't sexual. I can give you more details to the nature of our quazi-sexual experiences if you believe it will help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Idk if/how I should escalate with this amazing woman because she says she waits a few months before she sleeps with someone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

girlfriend of 4 years has been acting very distant and cold to me that don't know why. is leaving for 8 months to study abroad and says that trust cannot be regained if she doesn't make the same mistake again.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend of 4 years has been acting very distant and cold to me that don't know why. is leaving for 8 months to study abroad and says that trust cannot be regained if she doesn't make the same mistake again.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i need to be more trusting of my SO, SO needs to be able to trust herself. (also if anybody has any advice on disapproving parents it wouldn't hurt)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i need to be more trusting of my SO, SO needs to be able to trust herself. (also if anybody has any advice on disapproving parents it wouldn't hurt)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend of 4 years has been acting very distant and cold to me that don't know why. is leaving for 8 months to study abroad and says that trust cannot be regained if she doesn't make the same mistake again.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf left to america, started to act like a really cold and distant person where before she was a really warm and loving person. says "she can't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf left to america, started to act like a really cold and distant person where before she was a really warm and loving person. says "she can't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf left to america, started to act like a really cold and distant person where before she was a really warm and loving person. says "she can't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend of 4 years has been acting very distant and cold to me that don't know why. is leaving for 8 months to study abroad and says that trust cannot be regained if she doesn't make the same mistake again.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf left to america, started to act like a really cold and distant person where before she was a really warm and loving person. says "she can't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf left to america, started to act like a really cold and distant person where before she was a really warm and loving person. says "she can't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i need to be more trusting of my SO, SO needs to be able to trust herself. (also if anybody has any advice on disapproving parents it wouldn't hurt)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i need to be more trusting of my SO, SO needs to be able to trust herself. (also if anybody has any advice on disapproving parents it wouldn't hurt)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend of 4 years has been acting very distant and cold to me that don't know why. is leaving for 8 months to study abroad and says that trust cannot be regained if she doesn't make the same mistake again.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf is leaving for america for a year and says she can't make the same promises again because she doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made last year. need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help.\n\nPOST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for two years but decided to study at different universities while maintaing a long distance relationship. now for the ~~fun~~ bit, just before last Christmas she started to act very distant and almost cold in a way that i have never seen before. it was christmas eve when we were lying in bed and her phone rings, jokingly i answer it assuming its somebody sending a christmas text or something. it wasn't, it was a guy, who was talking about how nice her legs had looked the other night. so my guts dropped with a thud so loud it could be heard in china. now it turns out that while away at university, she had decided that she would dump me and then go spend christmas with this guy. **but** she had chickened out at the last minute. so although nothing *actually* happened, there was a lot of trust lost and its taken months to get back to normal. however she is leaving for 8 months to study abroad in the USA and I've started to get that same cold distance i experienced before. so when i asked her about it she replied that "she couldn't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again.". Although she admits that last year she would've said that there was no chance she'd ever stray, she did. even now she says that she loves me and doesn't want to leave me **but** she also says that she can't make the same promise again if its just going to end up getting me hurt. Not really sure what I'm looking for here I'm just really struggling and hoped somebody might be able to help.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: gf left to america, started to act like a really cold and distant person where before she was a really warm and loving person. says "she can't trust herself not to make the same mistakes again"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Ex-GF and I been broken up for almost 4 months, got caught up at a wedding, things seem just like old times, wondering if I should pursue another shot.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex-GF and I been broken up for almost 4 months, got caught up at a wedding, things seem just like old times, wondering if I should pursue another shot.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months, but we hung out and had a good time at a wedding when we didn't see each other in a while. I want to know if I should give it another shot,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months, but we hung out and had a good time at a wedding when we didn't see each other in a while. I want to know if I should give it another shot,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months, but we hung out and had a good time at a wedding when we didn't see each other in a while. I want to know if I should give it another shot,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with ex for 4 months, drinks with some friends, want to stay friends but can't stop thinking about ex and wondering whether or not she's open to giving it another shot<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Ex-GF and I been broken up for almost 4 months, got caught up at a wedding, things seem just like old times, wondering if I should pursue another shot.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex-GF and I been broken up for almost 4 months, got caught up at a wedding, things seem just like old times, wondering if I should pursue another shot.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with ex for 4 months, drinks with some friends, want to stay friends but can't stop thinking about ex and wondering whether or not she's open to giving it another shot<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months, but we hung out and had a good time at a wedding when we didn't see each other in a while. I want to know if I should give it another shot,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months, but we hung out and had a good time at a wedding when we didn't see each other in a while. I want to know if I should give it another shot,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Trying to be friends with ex, went to a wedding together and had a great time which brought up a bunch of feelings and questions for me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Ex-GF and I been broken up for almost 4 months, got caught up at a wedding, things seem just like old times, wondering if I should pursue another shot.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex-GF and I been broken up for almost 4 months, got caught up at a wedding, things seem just like old times, wondering if I should pursue another shot.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Trying to be friends with ex, went to a wedding together and had a great time which brought up a bunch of feelings and questions for me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Trying to be friends with ex, went to a wedding together and had a great time which brought up a bunch of feelings and questions for me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Trying to be friends with ex, went to a wedding together and had a great time which brought up a bunch of feelings and questions for me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25 M] with my EX [27 F] 14 months, broken up for ~4 months and trying to be friends\n\nPOST: So my ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now and I've been working on getting over her. We were friends before we dated and want to try to remain friends now that our relationship is over, but that is easier said than done. We're both runners, so we've gone on a few runs together and chatted a bit, but the contact has been spotty and not quite like it once was, which was actually making it easier for me to get over her. We have a lot of mutual friends, and two of them were getting married this Saturday and we were both invited to the wedding. The week before she asked me to get dinner with her since we hadn't seen each other in a while, and we got caught up and had a good time. She got a bit choked up when talking about her X-mas gift she got me (baseball tickets) which I thought was odd, but overall it was a nice time and she suggested that a few of us have a "drunk brunch" before the ceremony on Saturday since it was a dry wedding. Saturday rolls around and we drink and have a great time at the wedding. Things seem just like old times. We're joking with each other and giving each other crap about things we always would've (plucking my eyebrows, her stealing my chex mix, etc). It was simply a really nice time. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about it now. It reminded me of how great we were together when things were going well and I can't help but wonder whether or not we deserve another shot. I felt like I was moving on, but this is a huge setback. I don't even know if she feels the same way. Was she just trying to be my friend? Does she feel the same way about all this? Would she even be open to giving it another shot? Should I just drop it altogether and keep trying to move on? I'm more than happy to provide details, but wanted to keep the original post somewhat short.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with ex for 4 months, drinks with some friends, want to stay friends but can't stop thinking about ex and wondering whether or not she's open to giving it another shot<|endoftext|>

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Wondering if I'm the rebound guy for a girl I met online and seeing that she's had a facebook official with someone since last November and seems eager to set up each subsequent date.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Wondering if I'm the rebound guy for a girl I met online and seeing that she's had a facebook official with someone since last November and seems eager to set up each subsequent date.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been on a couple dates with a girl who is (probably) not too far removed from a relationship. Don't won't too be her rebound guy.<|endoftext|>

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Girl seems really excited about each date and is keen to set up each new one, but may just be my first date inexperience on the dating scene. Not sure if rebound or just over thinking.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl seems really excited about each date and is keen to set up each new one, but may just be my first date inexperience on the dating scene. Not sure if rebound or just over thinking.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been on a couple dates with a girl who is (probably) not too far removed from a relationship. Don't won't too be her rebound guy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Met girl online, seemed excited to meet up each time. Now I'm worried that I'm jumping to conclusions and that I may be her rebound.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met girl online, seemed excited to meet up each time. Now I'm worried that I'm jumping to conclusions and that I may be her rebound.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been on a couple dates with a girl who is (probably) not too far removed from a relationship. Don't won't too be her rebound guy.<|endoftext|>

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Wondering if I'm the rebound guy for a girl I met online and seeing that she's had a facebook official with someone since last November and seems eager to set up each subsequent date.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Wondering if I'm the rebound guy for a girl I met online and seeing that she's had a facebook official with someone since last November and seems eager to set up each subsequent date.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met girl online, seemed excited to meet up each time. Now I'm worried that I'm jumping to conclusions and that I may be her rebound.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Wondering if I'm the rebound guy for a girl I met online and seeing that she's had a facebook official with someone since last November and seems eager to set up each subsequent date.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Wondering if I'm the rebound guy for a girl I met online and seeing that she's had a facebook official with someone since last November and seems eager to set up each subsequent date.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl seems really excited about each date and is keen to set up each new one, but may just be my first date inexperience on the dating scene. Not sure if rebound or just over thinking.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Met girl online, seemed excited to meet up each time. Now I'm worried that I'm jumping to conclusions and that I may be her rebound.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met girl online, seemed excited to meet up each time. Now I'm worried that I'm jumping to conclusions and that I may be her rebound.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [20/m] Wondering if I'm her [20/f] rebound guy or if I'm just over thinking and jumping to conclusions.\n\nPOST: So I met this girl about two weeks ago online and we've been on a couple dates and they've gone really well. The second date ended with a kiss, even though it was a bit awkward seeing as I messed it up because I was nervous. I texted her later on saying I had a great time and wanted to see her again and that I was nervous earlier and was sorry about the awkwardness. She told me not to apologize, that she had a great time too. Fast forward a few days later to today and we just set up our third date. The reason I am concerned about being a rebound is for several reasons. She added me on facebook and after looking through her profile I saw that she became facebook official with someone as of November of last year, which made me think that it couldn't have possibly ended that long ago if it began in November. Also, her ex that she was facebook official with in November is in her cover picture (even though he is standing among her and several other friends). She's seemed eager to set up each subsequent date so far (even the first initial meet up), but this may just be something I'm not used to since I haven't had much success in the dating realm.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl seems really excited about each date and is keen to set up each new one, but may just be my first date inexperience on the dating scene. Not sure if rebound or just over thinking.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend and I have a great relationship but he won't stop masturbating. Not sure what to do. Looking for ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend and I have a great relationship but he won't stop masturbating. Not sure what to do. Looking for ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm in therapy and can't get my internet to work. I love my boyfriend. He wants more. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO and I are having difficulty making the magic happen. In the bedroom. No porn. I'm not leaving and I need ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm in therapy and can't get my internet to work. I love my boyfriend. He wants more. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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My SO and I are having difficulty making the magic happen. In the bedroom. No porn. I'm not leaving and I need ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO and I are having difficulty making the magic happen. In the bedroom. No porn. I'm not leaving and I need ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend and I have a great relationship but he won't stop masturbating. Not sure what to do. Looking for ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship otherwise. But we've been having trouble getting it on. We have a great life together. But I'm worried that he only masturbates and maybe I'm too fixated on him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship otherwise. But we've been having trouble getting it on. We have a great life together. But I'm worried that he only masturbates and maybe I'm too fixated on him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm in therapy and can't get my internet to work. I love my boyfriend. He wants more. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship otherwise. But we've been having trouble getting it on. We have a great life together. But I'm worried that he only masturbates and maybe I'm too fixated on him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship otherwise. But we've been having trouble getting it on. We have a great life together. But I'm worried that he only masturbates and maybe I'm too fixated on him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend and I have a great relationship but he won't stop masturbating. Not sure what to do. Looking for ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship otherwise. But we've been having trouble getting it on. We have a great life together. But I'm worried that he only masturbates and maybe I'm too fixated on him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24F] with my [25M] two years-almost dead bedroom.\n\nPOST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO and I are having difficulty making the magic happen. In the bedroom. No porn. I'm not leaving and I need ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Told best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. I realized my mistake the next day, and trying to salvage the friendship. Don't want to lose her. Help pls.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. I realized my mistake the next day, and trying to salvage the friendship. Don't want to lose her. Help pls.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I told my best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. She's the closest person to me, and I care about her. What do I do to make things normal again?<|endoftext|>

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Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. I realized my mistake the next day, and trying to salvage the friendship. Don't want to lose her. Help pls.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I told my best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. She's the closest person to me, and I care about her. What do I do to make things normal again?<|endoftext|>

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Told best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. I realized my mistake the next day, and trying to salvage the friendship. Don't want to lose her. Help pls.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. I realized my mistake the next day, and trying to salvage the friendship. Don't want to lose her. Help pls.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told best friend I loved her, she told me she loved me too. Did I take the wrong decision? How do I make it better?<|endoftext|>

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I told my best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. She's the closest person to me, and I care about her. What do I do to make things normal again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I told my best friend I loved her. She told me she loved me too. She's the closest person to me, and I care about her. What do I do to make things normal again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told best friend I loved her, she told me she loved me too. Did I take the wrong decision? How do I make it better?<|endoftext|>

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Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] accidently told my best friend [17 F] that I loved her. HELP.\n\nPOST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told best friend I loved her, she told me she loved me too. Did I take the wrong decision? How do I make it better?<|endoftext|>

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I have a complex over the meaninglessness of my own artwork and the creative constipation is making me so depressed. How do I get over myself and start drawing & painting regularly again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Visual artists: How did you get your mojo back?\n\nPOST: I used to carry a sketchbook with me everywhere. I got so much out of drawing and painting; I loved to make comics and come up with crazy character designs. I got very depressed after graduating college and feeling like I didn't learn anything about art and craftsmanship there. That was over five years ago. Every few months, I break out a sketchbook and try to draw, but it's almost physically painful. I get anxious as soon as I put pencil to paper and all sorts of doubts fly into my head. "Why am I even doing this?" "What is the point?" "What should I even draw?" "There are so many other more important things I should be doing right now." "Not only have I failed to improve in the past five years, I'm actively worse than I was when I finished school." "Everything I draw looks exactly the same." Intellectually I *know* that these doubts and anxieties are bullshit, but they're so stressful that I'm too intimidated to open the sketchbook again for days or weeks at a time. Have any of you gone through something like this? Can you help me get over the biggest case of artist's block I've ever experienced? I want to enjoy art again, not fear and avoid it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a complex over the meaninglessness of my own artwork and the creative constipation is making me so depressed. How do I get over myself and start drawing & painting regularly again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Visual artists: How did you get your mojo back?\n\nPOST: I used to carry a sketchbook with me everywhere. I got so much out of drawing and painting; I loved to make comics and come up with crazy character designs. I got very depressed after graduating college and feeling like I didn't learn anything about art and craftsmanship there. That was over five years ago. Every few months, I break out a sketchbook and try to draw, but it's almost physically painful. I get anxious as soon as I put pencil to paper and all sorts of doubts fly into my head. "Why am I even doing this?" "What is the point?" "What should I even draw?" "There are so many other more important things I should be doing right now." "Not only have I failed to improve in the past five years, I'm actively worse than I was when I finished school." "Everything I draw looks exactly the same." Intellectually I *know* that these doubts and anxieties are bullshit, but they're so stressful that I'm too intimidated to open the sketchbook again for days or weeks at a time. Have any of you gone through something like this? Can you help me get over the biggest case of artist's block I've ever experienced? I want to enjoy art again, not fear and avoid it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've become artistically paralyzed for years because I can't draw or paint. Please help me get over it and get my mojo back.<|endoftext|>

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I have a complex over the meaninglessness of my own artwork and the creative constipation is making me so depressed. How do I get over myself and start drawing & painting regularly again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Visual artists: How did you get your mojo back?\n\nPOST: I used to carry a sketchbook with me everywhere. I got so much out of drawing and painting; I loved to make comics and come up with crazy character designs. I got very depressed after graduating college and feeling like I didn't learn anything about art and craftsmanship there. That was over five years ago. Every few months, I break out a sketchbook and try to draw, but it's almost physically painful. I get anxious as soon as I put pencil to paper and all sorts of doubts fly into my head. "Why am I even doing this?" "What is the point?" "What should I even draw?" "There are so many other more important things I should be doing right now." "Not only have I failed to improve in the past five years, I'm actively worse than I was when I finished school." "Everything I draw looks exactly the same." Intellectually I *know* that these doubts and anxieties are bullshit, but they're so stressful that I'm too intimidated to open the sketchbook again for days or weeks at a time. Have any of you gone through something like this? Can you help me get over the biggest case of artist's block I've ever experienced? I want to enjoy art again, not fear and avoid it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a complex over the meaninglessness of my own artwork and the creative constipation is making me so depressed. How do I get over myself and start drawing & painting regularly again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Visual artists: How did you get your mojo back?\n\nPOST: I used to carry a sketchbook with me everywhere. I got so much out of drawing and painting; I loved to make comics and come up with crazy character designs. I got very depressed after graduating college and feeling like I didn't learn anything about art and craftsmanship there. That was over five years ago. Every few months, I break out a sketchbook and try to draw, but it's almost physically painful. I get anxious as soon as I put pencil to paper and all sorts of doubts fly into my head. "Why am I even doing this?" "What is the point?" "What should I even draw?" "There are so many other more important things I should be doing right now." "Not only have I failed to improve in the past five years, I'm actively worse than I was when I finished school." "Everything I draw looks exactly the same." Intellectually I *know* that these doubts and anxieties are bullshit, but they're so stressful that I'm too intimidated to open the sketchbook again for days or weeks at a time. Have any of you gone through something like this? Can you help me get over the biggest case of artist's block I've ever experienced? I want to enjoy art again, not fear and avoid it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Used to be an artist. Got depressed because I didn't progress as much as I wanted. Haven't drawn since five years ago. How do I get over this and feel like I'm making progress again?<|endoftext|>

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I have a complex over the meaninglessness of my own artwork and the creative constipation is making me so depressed. How do I get over myself and start drawing & painting regularly again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Visual artists: How did you get your mojo back?\n\nPOST: I used to carry a sketchbook with me everywhere. I got so much out of drawing and painting; I loved to make comics and come up with crazy character designs. I got very depressed after graduating college and feeling like I didn't learn anything about art and craftsmanship there. That was over five years ago. Every few months, I break out a sketchbook and try to draw, but it's almost physically painful. I get anxious as soon as I put pencil to paper and all sorts of doubts fly into my head. "Why am I even doing this?" "What is the point?" "What should I even draw?" "There are so many other more important things I should be doing right now." "Not only have I failed to improve in the past five years, I'm actively worse than I was when I finished school." "Everything I draw looks exactly the same." Intellectually I *know* that these doubts and anxieties are bullshit, but they're so stressful that I'm too intimidated to open the sketchbook again for days or weeks at a time. Have any of you gone through something like this? Can you help me get over the biggest case of artist's block I've ever experienced? I want to enjoy art again, not fear and avoid it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a complex over the meaninglessness of my own artwork and the creative constipation is making me so depressed. How do I get over myself and start drawing & painting regularly again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Visual artists: How did you get your mojo back?\n\nPOST: I used to carry a sketchbook with me everywhere. I got so much out of drawing and painting; I loved to make comics and come up with crazy character designs. I got very depressed after graduating college and feeling like I didn't learn anything about art and craftsmanship there. That was over five years ago. Every few months, I break out a sketchbook and try to draw, but it's almost physically painful. I get anxious as soon as I put pencil to paper and all sorts of doubts fly into my head. "Why am I even doing this?" "What is the point?" "What should I even draw?" "There are so many other more important things I should be doing right now." "Not only have I failed to improve in the past five years, I'm actively worse than I was when I finished school." "Everything I draw looks exactly the same." Intellectually I *know* that these doubts and anxieties are bullshit, but they're so stressful that I'm too intimidated to open the sketchbook again for days or weeks at a time. Have any of you gone through something like this? Can you help me get over the biggest case of artist's block I've ever experienced? I want to enjoy art again, not fear and avoid it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I got too depressed after college, opened sketchbooks that were half-finished, and now I can't draw. It's a huge case of artist's block. How do I get over it and enjoy art again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have a sex partner that I have not seen in a few weeks and I want to ask her out. Should I do it soon, or give it a few weeks?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have a sex partner that I have not seen in a few weeks and I want to ask her out. Should I do it soon, or give it a few weeks?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to be exclusive, I want to talk to her about it, but the abruptness of our relationship makes me wonder if its too early.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been dating girl for a month, haven't seen eachother much, wondering if I should make the move to talk to her about exclusivity, or just wait a month to see how it goes.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been dating girl for a month, haven't seen eachother much, wondering if I should make the move to talk to her about exclusivity, or just wait a month to see how it goes.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to be exclusive, I want to talk to her about it, but the abruptness of our relationship makes me wonder if its too early.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been dating girl for a month, haven't seen eachother much, wondering if I should make the move to talk to her about exclusivity, or just wait a month to see how it goes.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been dating girl for a month, haven't seen eachother much, wondering if I should make the move to talk to her about exclusivity, or just wait a month to see how it goes.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have a sex partner that I have not seen in a few weeks and I want to ask her out. Should I do it soon, or give it a few weeks?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been dating girl for a month, haven't seen eachother much, wondering if I should make the move to talk to her about exclusivity, or just wait a month to see how it goes.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been dating girl for a month, haven't seen eachother much, wondering if I should make the move to talk to her about exclusivity, or just wait a month to see how it goes.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I met a girl, we have gone on several dates, but I haven't spent much time with her in the last few weeks. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have a sex partner that I have not seen in a few weeks and I want to ask her out. Should I do it soon, or give it a few weeks?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have a sex partner that I have not seen in a few weeks and I want to ask her out. Should I do it soon, or give it a few weeks?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I met a girl, we have gone on several dates, but I haven't spent much time with her in the last few weeks. <|endoftext|>

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I want to be exclusive, I want to talk to her about it, but the abruptness of our relationship makes me wonder if its too early.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to be exclusive, I want to talk to her about it, but the abruptness of our relationship makes me wonder if its too early.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [26 M] am wondering when to do the talk with her [22 F].\n\nPOST: I met this girl over Tinder about one month ago. Over the first week and a half we went on four dates. We had sex on the third date, and I spend the night at hers on the fourth. Our dates have been fairly long, the first 3 or 4 hours, the later ones 9 - 10 hours. We have not been doing anything special apart from enjoying each others company. After this point, sadly, she had to go away. First one week to a festival, and then straight from there a week and a half on vacation with family. I visited her one day on the festival (or I visited her amongst others) and I spend the night there with her (no sex). While she has been on vacation we have been talking daily (aside from the first few days she was there) via social medias. Now, she is coming home, and I'm seeing her the day she lands. As you might have guessed from the context I really like her, and I want this to go somewhere. I want it to be exclusive. Normally a month in I would be fine to talk to her about it, but since I haven't really seen her much over the last few weeks I am wondering if it should be delayed. I guess my question is whether I should aim to talk to her about it soon, or whether I should give it a few weeks to sort of get back into things with her.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I met a girl, we have gone on several dates, but I haven't spent much time with her in the last few weeks. <|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Broke up with boyfriend because he cheated on me with another girl. Now, over a year later, I still have a hard time forgiving him. How do I get over this?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay.\n\nImplies that author is not with BF anymore. " }, { "text": " I feel guilty whenever I see my boyfriend with a female friend, even though it's been a year since he cheated on me, and I don't know if I can get past this.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "\"I feel guilty\" -isn't really the feeling that one feels after seeing SO with another person after a cheating incident. \n\nNeeds more context. " } ]

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with boyfriend because he cheated on me with another girl. Now, over a year later, I still have a hard time forgiving him. How do I get over this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with boyfriend because he cheated on me with another girl. Now, over a year later, I still have a hard time forgiving him. How do I get over this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel guilty whenever I see my boyfriend with a female friend, even though it's been a year since he cheated on me, and I don't know if I can get past this.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " After a long and painful break-up I'm still scarred by the fact my boyfriend had an affair 7 years ago and I don't know if I should get over it.", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. Implies need for advice. \n\n\"7 years ago\" -inaccurate. will get responses similar to original post. " }, { "text": " Broke up with boyfriend because he cheated on me with another girl. Now, over a year later, I still have a hard time forgiving him. How do I get over this?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay.\n\nImplies that author is not with BF anymore. " } ]

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with boyfriend because he cheated on me with another girl. Now, over a year later, I still have a hard time forgiving him. How do I get over this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with boyfriend because he cheated on me with another girl. Now, over a year later, I still have a hard time forgiving him. How do I get over this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After a long and painful break-up I'm still scarred by the fact my boyfriend had an affair 7 years ago and I don't know if I should get over it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I love my boyfriend but I don't know how to work through these trust issues after he cheated? I would love a first hand perspective on this, if anyone is so kind, or would welcome sage advice from anyone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I love my boyfriend but I don't know how to work through these trust issues after he cheated? I would love a first hand perspective on this, if anyone is so kind, or would welcome sage advice from anyone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with boyfriend because he cheated on me with another girl. Now, over a year later, I still have a hard time forgiving him. How do I get over this?<|endoftext|>

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I love my boyfriend but I don't know how to work through these trust issues after he cheated? I would love a first hand perspective on this, if anyone is so kind, or would welcome sage advice from anyone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I love my boyfriend but I don't know how to work through these trust issues after he cheated? I would love a first hand perspective on this, if anyone is so kind, or would welcome sage advice from anyone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel guilty whenever I see my boyfriend with a female friend, even though it's been a year since he cheated on me, and I don't know if I can get past this.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I love my boyfriend but I don't know how to work through these trust issues after he cheated? I would love a first hand perspective on this, if anyone is so kind, or would welcome sage advice from anyone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I love my boyfriend but I don't know how to work through these trust issues after he cheated? I would love a first hand perspective on this, if anyone is so kind, or would welcome sage advice from anyone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After a long and painful break-up I'm still scarred by the fact my boyfriend had an affair 7 years ago and I don't know if I should get over it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

After a long and painful break-up I'm still scarred by the fact my boyfriend had an affair 7 years ago and I don't know if I should get over it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After a long and painful break-up I'm still scarred by the fact my boyfriend had an affair 7 years ago and I don't know if I should get over it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Don't want to leave but it hurts to stay\n\nPOST: I am 22 and I've been seeing my boyfriend (25) for around 3 years. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to add the usual discaimer here! My boyfriend is just a lovely guy and I enjoy every minute we spend together. It's almost embarassing how I turn into a character from a 'Romeo and Juliet' adaptation whenever I'm around that guy! However, there is an issue which I don't think he takes that seriously but I can't seem to get over. After dating for 2 years, he cheated on me with another girl (a mutual friend) when we were all living together (but not) at college. Obviously, this was 'not cool', and I left him after I found out. This was an extremely painful time for me, especially as it was the first serious relationship I was involved in. Also, because of the difficult living arrangents, I never really told anyone else what happened. It seemed easier to just cleanly break it off and avoid becoming the focus of gossip. However, things do change. I met new people, did well in my studies, travelled Europe and all that stuff. So when, a few months later, he gets back into contact with me, I let him close enough to apologise. One thing led to another and we started dating again. Overall I think it was the right choice, I know people make mistakes and since then I think that the dynamic between us is improved now. I'm not so clingy and he's been more willing to show me a bit of attention. I knew it would take some time to heal from this, if ever, but when I took him back I knew I would have to forgive him if it was going to work out... \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel guilty whenever I see my boyfriend with a female friend, even though it's been a year since he cheated on me, and I don't know if I can get past this.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not comfortable with the 'traditional' long-term cohabiting relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I still see him as a life-companion. How can we work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not comfortable with the 'traditional' long-term cohabiting relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I still see him as a life-companion. How can we work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am in a monogamous relationship that seems to be stifling me emotionally and intellectually. How can I find compromise in a situation that I don't want to be in anymore?<|endoftext|>

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Stuck in 'cohabited' relationship, don't want marriage or kids, but still want close emotional and intellectual companionship. How can I find compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Stuck in 'cohabited' relationship, don't want marriage or kids, but still want close emotional and intellectual companionship. How can I find compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am in a monogamous relationship, but I want to have a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally (not just physically). How do I get my boyfriend to agree to a compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Stuck in 'cohabited' relationship, don't want marriage or kids, but still want close emotional and intellectual companionship. How can I find compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Stuck in 'cohabited' relationship, don't want marriage or kids, but still want close emotional and intellectual companionship. How can I find compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am in a monogamous relationship that seems to be stifling me emotionally and intellectually. How can I find compromise in a situation that I don't want to be in anymore?<|endoftext|>

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Stuck in 'cohabited' relationship, don't want marriage or kids, but still want close emotional and intellectual companionship. How can I find compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Stuck in 'cohabited' relationship, don't want marriage or kids, but still want close emotional and intellectual companionship. How can I find compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not comfortable with the 'traditional' long-term cohabiting relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I still see him as a life-companion. How can we work it out?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not comfortable with the 'traditional' long-term cohabiting relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I still see him as a life-companion. How can we work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not comfortable with the 'traditional' long-term cohabiting relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I still see him as a life-companion. How can we work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [24 F] am finding traditional relationships hard to stomach\n\nPOST: I have been in a 4 year cohabiting relationship with my boyfriend [24/M]. I pegged our relationship as a 'short term' thing when we started going out, but I subsequently fell very much in love with him. That feeling has faded a little, but we remain very compatible. The problem is that I feel stifled by domesticity and monogamy. I do not want marriage or children. However I do still want a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally - and he is very much it. I don't think I can continue to be in the type of relationship that I'm in now, and I fear we will break up. Subject of course to his agreeing to new terms, is it possible to strike a compromise - and how?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am in a monogamous relationship, but I want to have a life-companion who I am close to intellectually and emotionally (not just physically). How do I get my boyfriend to agree to a compromise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

dated girl in high school of almost two years, broke up over phone, almost no contact since, still lingers in brain to this day, what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: dated girl in high school of almost two years, broke up over phone, almost no contact since, still lingers in brain to this day, what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with girl in high school over phone, she was never really in contact for over a year, now I've tried to move on, but she's still in my mind. Do I talk to her or keep trying to move<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

dated girl in high school of almost two years, broke up over phone, almost no contact since, still lingers in brain to this day, what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: dated girl in high school of almost two years, broke up over phone, almost no contact since, still lingers in brain to this day, what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with ex, over a year later still want to try to fix things. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close the door or just keep making attempts to move on?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with ex, over a year later still want to try to fix things. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close the door or just keep making attempts to move on?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with ex, over a year later still want to try to fix things. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close the door or just keep making attempts to move on?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with girl in high school over phone, she was never really in contact for over a year, now I've tried to move on, but she's still in my mind. Do I talk to her or keep trying to move<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with girl in high school over phone, she was never really in contact for over a year, now I've tried to move on, but she's still in my mind. Do I talk to her or keep trying to move<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with girl in high school over phone, she was never really in contact for over a year, now I've tried to move on, but she's still in my mind. Do I talk to her or keep trying to move<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex girlfriend broke up with me over the phone, and I have had other hook-ups and tried dating again to get over her. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with ex, over a year later still want to try to fix things. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close the door or just keep making attempts to move on?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with ex, over a year later still want to try to fix things. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close the door or just keep making attempts to move on?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex girlfriend broke up with me over the phone, and I have had other hook-ups and tried dating again to get over her. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Ex girlfriend broke up with me over the phone, and I have had other hook-ups and tried dating again to get over her. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3", "note": "It would be okay if it were complete..." }, { "text": " dated girl in high school of almost two years, broke up over phone, almost no contact since, still lingers in brain to this day, what to do.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay. " } ]

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

dated girl in high school of almost two years, broke up over phone, almost no contact since, still lingers in brain to this day, what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: dated girl in high school of almost two years, broke up over phone, almost no contact since, still lingers in brain to this day, what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Do I [19/M] need closure from my previous relationship from one year ago in order to move on completely?\n\nPOST: This girl and I dated back in high school and were together for almost 2 years when she had broken things off during my senior year. Things were kind of rocky at that time, but I wanted to make things work. Long story short is that she had broken up with me over the phone, but never contacted each other or talked about what caused things to end in person. Its been over a year since then, but I have had hook-ups, traveled to another country, and even tried dating again to get over this person. However, she still hangs out in the back of my mind. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move on?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex girlfriend broke up with me over the phone, and I have had other hook-ups and tried dating again to get over her. Do I contact her and talk in person in order to close this door or just keep making attempts to move<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have an ex who I still can't get over. I dumped her, feel regret and wish I could fix things even though it's too late and I don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have an ex who I still can't get over. I dumped her, feel regret and wish I could fix things even though it's too late and I don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dated my high school crush, we broke up and I still can't get over her even though I know I was a jerk for doing so. Is it wrong for me to want to work things out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I broke up with my first love two years ago and I'm wondering if I should try and fix things or if I should try and forget about her and move on with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I broke up with my first love two years ago and I'm wondering if I should try and fix things or if I should try and forget about her and move on with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have an ex who I still can't get over. I dumped her, feel regret and wish I could fix things even though it's too late and I don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have an ex who I still can't get over. I dumped her, feel regret and wish I could fix things even though it's too late and I don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have an ex who I still can't get over. I dumped her, feel regret and wish I could fix things even though it's too late and I don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: dated girl 2 years ago with depression, got along with her but didn't manage it well and broke up recently. Want to be able to get over her again and is it weird that I still think of her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I broke up with my first love two years ago and I'm wondering if I should try and fix things or if I should try and forget about her and move on with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I broke up with my first love two years ago and I'm wondering if I should try and fix things or if I should try and forget about her and move on with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: dated girl 2 years ago with depression, got along with her but didn't manage it well and broke up recently. Want to be able to get over her again and is it weird that I still think of her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

dated girl 2 years ago with depression, got along with her but didn't manage it well and broke up recently. Want to be able to get over her again and is it weird that I still think of her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: dated girl 2 years ago with depression, got along with her but didn't manage it well and broke up recently. Want to be able to get over her again and is it weird that I still think of her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dated my high school crush, we broke up and I still can't get over her even though I know I was a jerk for doing so. Is it wrong for me to want to work things out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I broke up with my first love two years ago and I'm wondering if I should try and fix things or if I should try and forget about her and move on with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I broke up with my first love two years ago and I'm wondering if I should try and fix things or if I should try and forget about her and move on with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19/m] cannot get over an ex girlfriend [18/f] I dated two years ago\n\nPOST: Forgive me if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. So I dated this girl in high school, let's call her Erin. Erin was great. She was my first love. Everything I could ask for in a relationship for the most part. We got along really well, she cared a lot about me and I cared a lot about her. Basically it was a great relationship except for the fact that we both had depression and she had a couple weird quirk that bothered me. Really though, it was basically the fact that we both had depression that we weren't properly managing that made it unhealthy in the end. In the end though we really were trying to work on getting better and I wanted to help and her and she the same. Anyways when we broke up it was really sudden. One of her quirks is that she has this fascination with death and cemeteries that personally I wasn't a part of. We were trying to figure out what to do before we went to the school play and she suggested that we go to a cemetery. I was not a fan of the idea and we argued and I dumped her in the heat of the moment. In hindsight I feel awful about it because I still do care for her and I loved her. It seems cheesy or immature but I honestly haven't felt the way I do for her with anybody else and in the interim since dating her I haven't felt that way with other girls that I've dated. When we broke up we completely cut contact and sometimes I wish I could make it up to her how much I hurt her but I know that will never happen. And now that my personal life is under control I wish I could still be with her sometimes. I know I was a jerk for breaking up with her the way I did, but is it wrong that I want to fix things and try and have a healthy relationship? And is it weird that I'm still not over her and that i still think of her when I hear certain songs or watch certain shows etc?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dated my high school crush, we broke up and I still can't get over her even though I know I was a jerk for doing so. Is it wrong for me to want to work things out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I fucked my hot coworker who has a gf. I'm can't handle the guilt and am going crazy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend. I'm sick of pretending like everything is going well and I want to tell her but I know it will be bad for me. How do I stop myself?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend and now I'm going crazy because I want to tell her. Help me!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend. I'm sick of pretending like everything is going well and I want to tell her but I know it will be bad for me. How do I stop myself?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend and now I'm going crazy because I want to tell her. Help me!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend. Need to tell her but don't want to ruin my life and it's killing me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend. Need to tell her but don't want to ruin my life and it's killing me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend. I'm sick of pretending like everything is going well and I want to tell her but I know it will be bad for me. How do I stop myself?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I fucked my hot coworker who has a gf. I'm can't handle the guilt and am going crazy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend. Need to tell her but don't want to ruin my life and it's killing me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I fucked my hot coworker who has a gf. I'm can't handle the guilt and am going crazy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23 F] slept with my co-worker [24 M] who has a serious girlfriend. Telling her would ruin my life but the guilt is killing me. How do I move on from this?\n\nPOST: I don't want to quit my job but seeing him at work every day and pretending like everything is fine is really starting to take a toll on me. I feel sick getting on Facebook because he is frequently tagged in pictures and statuses by her, most of which are about how much she loves him. So she has absolutely NO idea. They have been together for 4 years and even live together. My coworker is really attractive and has hit on me since the day I was hired but I always ignored it. He never even mentioned that he had a girlfriend; I only know because of Facebook. One night after months of him flirting/hitting on me, he and a bunch of our other co-workers went out for drinks. He and I got pretty wasted and he kissed me. Long story short, I ended up back at his place. We hooked up several more times on different occasions but it just got to be too much. I try my best to ignore him at work but seeing him daily is just a reminder of what we did. I'm going crazy because I want to tell someone but I know that the end result would be disastrous. What the fuck do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I slept with my coworker who has a serious girlfriend and now I'm going crazy because I want to tell her. Help me!<|endoftext|>

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