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Looking for information on a woman who is being cheated by her husband and I am not trying to put her down or do anything against her will. | I am posting on Reddit to find an ex boyfriend's wife who is cheating on him. Is Reddit going to make her life a living hell if they find out that she is? | SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Quick question for you guys out there.
POST: OK so earlier today I made a post looking for information on the woman my boyfriend is cheating with. All I asked is if anyone knew her husband or her so I could find her husband and send him the messages and pictures she sent my man. Later on in the day my post was removed after a bunch of nasty comments. What I am wondering is there any subreddit that I can post on to find who she is without being put down?
I am not trying to do anything but find her husband and give him the info I have. I believe he has a right to know what his wife is up to. Any help from you guys would be appreciated. Please no nasty comments. I may not know these people, but if I know someone is messing around and I have proof to back it up I would like to let the parties involved know.
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POST: OK so earlier today I made a post looking for information on the woman my boyfriend is cheating with. All I asked is if anyone knew her husband or her so I could find her husband and send him the messages and pictures she sent my man. Later on in the day my post was removed after a bunch of nasty comments. What I am wondering is there any subreddit that I can post on to find who she is without being put down?
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TL;DR: Looking for information on a woman who is being cheated by her husband and I am not trying to put her down or do anything against her will.<|endoftext|> | SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Quick question for you guys out there.
POST: OK so earlier today I made a post looking for information on the woman my boyfriend is cheating with. All I asked is if anyone knew her husband or her so I could find her husband and send him the messages and pictures she sent my man. Later on in the day my post was removed after a bunch of nasty comments. What I am wondering is there any subreddit that I can post on to find who she is without being put down?
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TITLE: Quick question for you guys out there.
POST: OK so earlier today I made a post looking for information on the woman my boyfriend is cheating with. All I asked is if anyone knew her husband or her so I could find her husband and send him the messages and pictures she sent my man. Later on in the day my post was removed after a bunch of nasty comments. What I am wondering is there any subreddit that I can post on to find who she is without being put down?
I am not trying to do anything but find her husband and give him the info I have. I believe he has a right to know what his wife is up to. Any help from you guys would be appreciated. Please no nasty comments. I may not know these people, but if I know someone is messing around and I have proof to back it up I would like to let the parties involved know.
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TITLE: Quick question for you guys out there.
POST: OK so earlier today I made a post looking for information on the woman my boyfriend is cheating with. All I asked is if anyone knew her husband or her so I could find her husband and send him the messages and pictures she sent my man. Later on in the day my post was removed after a bunch of nasty comments. What I am wondering is there any subreddit that I can post on to find who she is without being put down?
I am not trying to do anything but find her husband and give him the info I have. I believe he has a right to know what his wife is up to. Any help from you guys would be appreciated. Please no nasty comments. I may not know these people, but if I know someone is messing around and I have proof to back it up I would like to let the parties involved know.
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I have a mental health issue and I don't want to be in a relationship because of it, but I will be unless I get help and I can't do it by myself. | I think I'm destined to get in a relationship. I'm afraid I'll become depressed in the future and be unhappy, which is why I'm here. What should I do? | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17F] have struggled with ocd my whole life and I don't think I will ever be in a romantic relationship because of it.
POST: I'm young and I never really feel pressured to get in a relationship, but lately I crave affection a lot. I've been in one short relationship which was not anything serious at all. I see everyone around me having crushes/dating and I feel a bit left out. Someone even asked if I was asexual. I am just uncomfortable with being super-close, for example: holding hands, kissing, etc. I thought nothing of it, until a girl I had a crush on told me I wasn't datable because I won't do anything people in love do. I cried so hard after that. Like everyone else with mental health issues, I'm always told "it will get better", I'm almost a legal adult and nothing has changed. I am getting very depressed and feel hopeless, like no one will ever love me. I can't live alone because I have bad paranoia and I need to be near others/talk a lot, but at the same time I want to move out at some point. Yes I go to therapy, and yes I take medication.
In my short relationship I tried to do everything a normal person would do. I forced myself to hold hands, but my hands got very sweaty and I was uncomfortable. This person left me because I was too distant + not so mentally stable. It's understandable but it made me very sad. Mental illness runs in my family and my dad still struggles with ocd as an adult. He is now divorced from my mom.
Even though I'm young I already see the direction I'm headed in. I can't stand being alone with my thoughts and I wish I had someone by my side, at least in the future. I may be worrying too soon but I just wish I had less doubt and hopelessness.
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TITLE: I [17F] have struggled with ocd my whole life and I don't think I will ever be in a romantic relationship because of it.
POST: I'm young and I never really feel pressured to get in a relationship, but lately I crave affection a lot. I've been in one short relationship which was not anything serious at all. I see everyone around me having crushes/dating and I feel a bit left out. Someone even asked if I was asexual. I am just uncomfortable with being super-close, for example: holding hands, kissing, etc. I thought nothing of it, until a girl I had a crush on told me I wasn't datable because I won't do anything people in love do. I cried so hard after that. Like everyone else with mental health issues, I'm always told "it will get better", I'm almost a legal adult and nothing has changed. I am getting very depressed and feel hopeless, like no one will ever love me. I can't live alone because I have bad paranoia and I need to be near others/talk a lot, but at the same time I want to move out at some point. Yes I go to therapy, and yes I take medication.
In my short relationship I tried to do everything a normal person would do. I forced myself to hold hands, but my hands got very sweaty and I was uncomfortable. This person left me because I was too distant + not so mentally stable. It's understandable but it made me very sad. Mental illness runs in my family and my dad still struggles with ocd as an adult. He is now divorced from my mom.
Even though I'm young I already see the direction I'm headed in. I can't stand being alone with my thoughts and I wish I had someone by my side, at least in the future. I may be worrying too soon but I just wish I had less doubt and hopelessness.
TL;DR: I have a mental health issue and I don't want to be in a relationship because of it, but I will be unless I get help and I can't do it by myself.<|endoftext|> | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17F] have struggled with ocd my whole life and I don't think I will ever be in a romantic relationship because of it.
POST: I'm young and I never really feel pressured to get in a relationship, but lately I crave affection a lot. I've been in one short relationship which was not anything serious at all. I see everyone around me having crushes/dating and I feel a bit left out. Someone even asked if I was asexual. I am just uncomfortable with being super-close, for example: holding hands, kissing, etc. I thought nothing of it, until a girl I had a crush on told me I wasn't datable because I won't do anything people in love do. I cried so hard after that. Like everyone else with mental health issues, I'm always told "it will get better", I'm almost a legal adult and nothing has changed. I am getting very depressed and feel hopeless, like no one will ever love me. I can't live alone because I have bad paranoia and I need to be near others/talk a lot, but at the same time I want to move out at some point. Yes I go to therapy, and yes I take medication.
In my short relationship I tried to do everything a normal person would do. I forced myself to hold hands, but my hands got very sweaty and I was uncomfortable. This person left me because I was too distant + not so mentally stable. It's understandable but it made me very sad. Mental illness runs in my family and my dad still struggles with ocd as an adult. He is now divorced from my mom.
Even though I'm young I already see the direction I'm headed in. I can't stand being alone with my thoughts and I wish I had someone by my side, at least in the future. I may be worrying too soon but I just wish I had less doubt and hopelessness.
TL;DR: I think I'm destined to get in a relationship. I'm afraid I'll become depressed in the future and be unhappy, which is why I'm here. What should I do?<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: I [17F] have struggled with ocd my whole life and I don't think I will ever be in a romantic relationship because of it.
POST: I'm young and I never really feel pressured to get in a relationship, but lately I crave affection a lot. I've been in one short relationship which was not anything serious at all. I see everyone around me having crushes/dating and I feel a bit left out. Someone even asked if I was asexual. I am just uncomfortable with being super-close, for example: holding hands, kissing, etc. I thought nothing of it, until a girl I had a crush on told me I wasn't datable because I won't do anything people in love do. I cried so hard after that. Like everyone else with mental health issues, I'm always told "it will get better", I'm almost a legal adult and nothing has changed. I am getting very depressed and feel hopeless, like no one will ever love me. I can't live alone because I have bad paranoia and I need to be near others/talk a lot, but at the same time I want to move out at some point. Yes I go to therapy, and yes I take medication.
In my short relationship I tried to do everything a normal person would do. I forced myself to hold hands, but my hands got very sweaty and I was uncomfortable. This person left me because I was too distant + not so mentally stable. It's understandable but it made me very sad. Mental illness runs in my family and my dad still struggles with ocd as an adult. He is now divorced from my mom.
Even though I'm young I already see the direction I'm headed in. I can't stand being alone with my thoughts and I wish I had someone by my side, at least in the future. I may be worrying too soon but I just wish I had less doubt and hopelessness.
TL;DR: I have a mental health issue and I don't want to be in a relationship because of it, but I will be unless I get help and I can't do it by myself.<|endoftext|> | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17F] have struggled with ocd my whole life and I don't think I will ever be in a romantic relationship because of it.
POST: I'm young and I never really feel pressured to get in a relationship, but lately I crave affection a lot. I've been in one short relationship which was not anything serious at all. I see everyone around me having crushes/dating and I feel a bit left out. Someone even asked if I was asexual. I am just uncomfortable with being super-close, for example: holding hands, kissing, etc. I thought nothing of it, until a girl I had a crush on told me I wasn't datable because I won't do anything people in love do. I cried so hard after that. Like everyone else with mental health issues, I'm always told "it will get better", I'm almost a legal adult and nothing has changed. I am getting very depressed and feel hopeless, like no one will ever love me. I can't live alone because I have bad paranoia and I need to be near others/talk a lot, but at the same time I want to move out at some point. Yes I go to therapy, and yes I take medication.
In my short relationship I tried to do everything a normal person would do. I forced myself to hold hands, but my hands got very sweaty and I was uncomfortable. This person left me because I was too distant + not so mentally stable. It's understandable but it made me very sad. Mental illness runs in my family and my dad still struggles with ocd as an adult. He is now divorced from my mom.
Even though I'm young I already see the direction I'm headed in. I can't stand being alone with my thoughts and I wish I had someone by my side, at least in the future. I may be worrying too soon but I just wish I had less doubt and hopelessness.
TL;DR: I think I'm destined to get in a relationship. I'm afraid I'll become depressed in the future and be unhappy, which is why I'm here. What should I do?<|endoftext|> | [
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My little sister is leaving for college next month. It's terrifying, I have no idea how I'm going to feel about her, or how I'm going to handle the fact that she has no idea how to handle herself in the city she's going to. | Sister of 15 is moving across the country. I worry a lot about her safety. How do I stop this from spiraling into a life of stress? | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My little sister [18, F] is moving across the country next month and I [21, F] am having a difficult time not worrying about her.
POST: I have been protecting my little sister since the moment she was born. We had an abusive father, and I did everything I could to protect her from that. We rarely speak to him now, but I never stopped being protective of her.
Next month, she moves to one of the biggest (and most dangerous) cities in America to go to her dream college. I absolutely cannot stress how proud I am of her and how excited I am for her. I think it's so amazing and wonderful that she gets to go on this amazing adventure. But a big part of me is still terrified.
My sister is physically very strong, and has been since birth. Because of this, she thinks she's invincible. She's young, and I know this is a common affliction amongst teenagers, but she is not as tough as she thinks she is. I'm worried that she will assume this strength will save her and will get herself into potentially dangerous situations.
It's not that I don't trust her to make intelligent decisions, because I do. I just know how scatterbrained she can be. Half the time, she forgets to look before she crosses the street. Most of you have probably assumed which city she is moving too, and will probably agree that it's not the place to be an absent-minded pedestrian.
I have a lot of other concerns and they are honestly keeping me up at night. My brother also lives in this city, and that helps. But honestly, he's in his own world and I don't know if I can rely on him to keep an eye on her.
I know she's a smart kid. I know she's going to be fine, but I can't stop worrying about it. How do I put a stop to the mother tiger syndrome?
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TITLE: My little sister [18, F] is moving across the country next month and I [21, F] am having a difficult time not worrying about her.
POST: I have been protecting my little sister since the moment she was born. We had an abusive father, and I did everything I could to protect her from that. We rarely speak to him now, but I never stopped being protective of her.
Next month, she moves to one of the biggest (and most dangerous) cities in America to go to her dream college. I absolutely cannot stress how proud I am of her and how excited I am for her. I think it's so amazing and wonderful that she gets to go on this amazing adventure. But a big part of me is still terrified.
My sister is physically very strong, and has been since birth. Because of this, she thinks she's invincible. She's young, and I know this is a common affliction amongst teenagers, but she is not as tough as she thinks she is. I'm worried that she will assume this strength will save her and will get herself into potentially dangerous situations.
It's not that I don't trust her to make intelligent decisions, because I do. I just know how scatterbrained she can be. Half the time, she forgets to look before she crosses the street. Most of you have probably assumed which city she is moving too, and will probably agree that it's not the place to be an absent-minded pedestrian.
I have a lot of other concerns and they are honestly keeping me up at night. My brother also lives in this city, and that helps. But honestly, he's in his own world and I don't know if I can rely on him to keep an eye on her.
I know she's a smart kid. I know she's going to be fine, but I can't stop worrying about it. How do I put a stop to the mother tiger syndrome?
TL;DR: My little sister is leaving for college next month. It's terrifying, I have no idea how I'm going to feel about her, or how I'm going to handle the fact that she has no idea how to handle herself in the city she's going to.<|endoftext|> | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My little sister [18, F] is moving across the country next month and I [21, F] am having a difficult time not worrying about her.
POST: I have been protecting my little sister since the moment she was born. We had an abusive father, and I did everything I could to protect her from that. We rarely speak to him now, but I never stopped being protective of her.
Next month, she moves to one of the biggest (and most dangerous) cities in America to go to her dream college. I absolutely cannot stress how proud I am of her and how excited I am for her. I think it's so amazing and wonderful that she gets to go on this amazing adventure. But a big part of me is still terrified.
My sister is physically very strong, and has been since birth. Because of this, she thinks she's invincible. She's young, and I know this is a common affliction amongst teenagers, but she is not as tough as she thinks she is. I'm worried that she will assume this strength will save her and will get herself into potentially dangerous situations.
It's not that I don't trust her to make intelligent decisions, because I do. I just know how scatterbrained she can be. Half the time, she forgets to look before she crosses the street. Most of you have probably assumed which city she is moving too, and will probably agree that it's not the place to be an absent-minded pedestrian.
I have a lot of other concerns and they are honestly keeping me up at night. My brother also lives in this city, and that helps. But honestly, he's in his own world and I don't know if I can rely on him to keep an eye on her.
I know she's a smart kid. I know she's going to be fine, but I can't stop worrying about it. How do I put a stop to the mother tiger syndrome?
TL;DR: Sister of 15 is moving across the country. I worry a lot about her safety. How do I stop this from spiraling into a life of stress?<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: My little sister [18, F] is moving across the country next month and I [21, F] am having a difficult time not worrying about her.
POST: I have been protecting my little sister since the moment she was born. We had an abusive father, and I did everything I could to protect her from that. We rarely speak to him now, but I never stopped being protective of her.
Next month, she moves to one of the biggest (and most dangerous) cities in America to go to her dream college. I absolutely cannot stress how proud I am of her and how excited I am for her. I think it's so amazing and wonderful that she gets to go on this amazing adventure. But a big part of me is still terrified.
My sister is physically very strong, and has been since birth. Because of this, she thinks she's invincible. She's young, and I know this is a common affliction amongst teenagers, but she is not as tough as she thinks she is. I'm worried that she will assume this strength will save her and will get herself into potentially dangerous situations.
It's not that I don't trust her to make intelligent decisions, because I do. I just know how scatterbrained she can be. Half the time, she forgets to look before she crosses the street. Most of you have probably assumed which city she is moving too, and will probably agree that it's not the place to be an absent-minded pedestrian.
I have a lot of other concerns and they are honestly keeping me up at night. My brother also lives in this city, and that helps. But honestly, he's in his own world and I don't know if I can rely on him to keep an eye on her.
I know she's a smart kid. I know she's going to be fine, but I can't stop worrying about it. How do I put a stop to the mother tiger syndrome?
TL;DR: Sister of 15 is moving across the country. I worry a lot about her safety. How do I stop this from spiraling into a life of stress?<|endoftext|> | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My little sister [18, F] is moving across the country next month and I [21, F] am having a difficult time not worrying about her.
POST: I have been protecting my little sister since the moment she was born. We had an abusive father, and I did everything I could to protect her from that. We rarely speak to him now, but I never stopped being protective of her.
Next month, she moves to one of the biggest (and most dangerous) cities in America to go to her dream college. I absolutely cannot stress how proud I am of her and how excited I am for her. I think it's so amazing and wonderful that she gets to go on this amazing adventure. But a big part of me is still terrified.
My sister is physically very strong, and has been since birth. Because of this, she thinks she's invincible. She's young, and I know this is a common affliction amongst teenagers, but she is not as tough as she thinks she is. I'm worried that she will assume this strength will save her and will get herself into potentially dangerous situations.
It's not that I don't trust her to make intelligent decisions, because I do. I just know how scatterbrained she can be. Half the time, she forgets to look before she crosses the street. Most of you have probably assumed which city she is moving too, and will probably agree that it's not the place to be an absent-minded pedestrian.
I have a lot of other concerns and they are honestly keeping me up at night. My brother also lives in this city, and that helps. But honestly, he's in his own world and I don't know if I can rely on him to keep an eye on her.
I know she's a smart kid. I know she's going to be fine, but I can't stop worrying about it. How do I put a stop to the mother tiger syndrome?
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I asked my bf for 6 years to leave me, he wont leave and I can't get him out of my apartment, how can I get him to leave? | I broke up with my bf for 6 months, he's changing his behavior and he won't leave me. What can I do? | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29F] with my boyfriend [29 M) 7 years, I broke up with him and asked him to move out, but he won't and now he showering me with gifts and kindness.
POST: In short, I broke up with my long term live in bf. He went crazy this past year and became extremely ugly. Screaming at me, driving like a maniac, breaking stuff, punching the wall, punching me, etc. he says he had a mental breakdown from work. A full year of this awful behaviour.. And all the other awful behaviour before, but in lesser amounts. I wrestled with the decision to break up for a long time, fearful about his violence mostly. After another sleepless night of him walking around, turning lights on and off, fretting about work, I couldn't handle it. I told him to leave, I am not his gf, it's done. He left to stay with family for about 2 weeks and came back because well he still technically lives here. Now he is saying he's a changed man, he has been cooking food for me and showering me with presents. I keep saying it won't change my mind. I keep telling him he has to look for a new apartment and it seems like he's dragging his heels. He hasn't contacted any rental place at all. Thankfully he's not being crazy to me but is this abusive of him to drag his heels? He doesn't respect me and my need for peace away from him. I just want to move on with my life.. And I can't believe he would change in two weeks. It's impossible right? How can I get this guy OUT of the apartment!?
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TITLE: Me [29F] with my boyfriend [29 M) 7 years, I broke up with him and asked him to move out, but he won't and now he showering me with gifts and kindness.
POST: In short, I broke up with my long term live in bf. He went crazy this past year and became extremely ugly. Screaming at me, driving like a maniac, breaking stuff, punching the wall, punching me, etc. he says he had a mental breakdown from work. A full year of this awful behaviour.. And all the other awful behaviour before, but in lesser amounts. I wrestled with the decision to break up for a long time, fearful about his violence mostly. After another sleepless night of him walking around, turning lights on and off, fretting about work, I couldn't handle it. I told him to leave, I am not his gf, it's done. He left to stay with family for about 2 weeks and came back because well he still technically lives here. Now he is saying he's a changed man, he has been cooking food for me and showering me with presents. I keep saying it won't change my mind. I keep telling him he has to look for a new apartment and it seems like he's dragging his heels. He hasn't contacted any rental place at all. Thankfully he's not being crazy to me but is this abusive of him to drag his heels? He doesn't respect me and my need for peace away from him. I just want to move on with my life.. And I can't believe he would change in two weeks. It's impossible right? How can I get this guy OUT of the apartment!?
TL;DR: I asked my bf for 6 years to leave me, he wont leave and I can't get him out of my apartment, how can I get him to leave?<|endoftext|> | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29F] with my boyfriend [29 M) 7 years, I broke up with him and asked him to move out, but he won't and now he showering me with gifts and kindness.
POST: In short, I broke up with my long term live in bf. He went crazy this past year and became extremely ugly. Screaming at me, driving like a maniac, breaking stuff, punching the wall, punching me, etc. he says he had a mental breakdown from work. A full year of this awful behaviour.. And all the other awful behaviour before, but in lesser amounts. I wrestled with the decision to break up for a long time, fearful about his violence mostly. After another sleepless night of him walking around, turning lights on and off, fretting about work, I couldn't handle it. I told him to leave, I am not his gf, it's done. He left to stay with family for about 2 weeks and came back because well he still technically lives here. Now he is saying he's a changed man, he has been cooking food for me and showering me with presents. I keep saying it won't change my mind. I keep telling him he has to look for a new apartment and it seems like he's dragging his heels. He hasn't contacted any rental place at all. Thankfully he's not being crazy to me but is this abusive of him to drag his heels? He doesn't respect me and my need for peace away from him. I just want to move on with my life.. And I can't believe he would change in two weeks. It's impossible right? How can I get this guy OUT of the apartment!?
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TITLE: Me [29F] with my boyfriend [29 M) 7 years, I broke up with him and asked him to move out, but he won't and now he showering me with gifts and kindness.
POST: In short, I broke up with my long term live in bf. He went crazy this past year and became extremely ugly. Screaming at me, driving like a maniac, breaking stuff, punching the wall, punching me, etc. he says he had a mental breakdown from work. A full year of this awful behaviour.. And all the other awful behaviour before, but in lesser amounts. I wrestled with the decision to break up for a long time, fearful about his violence mostly. After another sleepless night of him walking around, turning lights on and off, fretting about work, I couldn't handle it. I told him to leave, I am not his gf, it's done. He left to stay with family for about 2 weeks and came back because well he still technically lives here. Now he is saying he's a changed man, he has been cooking food for me and showering me with presents. I keep saying it won't change my mind. I keep telling him he has to look for a new apartment and it seems like he's dragging his heels. He hasn't contacted any rental place at all. Thankfully he's not being crazy to me but is this abusive of him to drag his heels? He doesn't respect me and my need for peace away from him. I just want to move on with my life.. And I can't believe he would change in two weeks. It's impossible right? How can I get this guy OUT of the apartment!?
TL;DR: I asked my bf for 6 years to leave me, he wont leave and I can't get him out of my apartment, how can I get him to leave?<|endoftext|> | SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29F] with my boyfriend [29 M) 7 years, I broke up with him and asked him to move out, but he won't and now he showering me with gifts and kindness.
POST: In short, I broke up with my long term live in bf. He went crazy this past year and became extremely ugly. Screaming at me, driving like a maniac, breaking stuff, punching the wall, punching me, etc. he says he had a mental breakdown from work. A full year of this awful behaviour.. And all the other awful behaviour before, but in lesser amounts. I wrestled with the decision to break up for a long time, fearful about his violence mostly. After another sleepless night of him walking around, turning lights on and off, fretting about work, I couldn't handle it. I told him to leave, I am not his gf, it's done. He left to stay with family for about 2 weeks and came back because well he still technically lives here. Now he is saying he's a changed man, he has been cooking food for me and showering me with presents. I keep saying it won't change my mind. I keep telling him he has to look for a new apartment and it seems like he's dragging his heels. He hasn't contacted any rental place at all. Thankfully he's not being crazy to me but is this abusive of him to drag his heels? He doesn't respect me and my need for peace away from him. I just want to move on with my life.. And I can't believe he would change in two weeks. It's impossible right? How can I get this guy OUT of the apartment!?
TL;DR: I broke up with my bf for 6 months, he's changing his behavior and he won't leave me. What can I do?<|endoftext|> | [
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