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From my grandfather Verus I learned good morals and the government
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of my temper.
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From the reputation and remembrance of my father, modesty and a manly
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character.
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From my mother, piety and beneficence, and abstinence, not only from
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evil deeds, but even from evil thoughts; and further, simplicity in
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my way of living, far removed from the habits of the rich.
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From my great-grandfather, not to have frequented public schools,
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and to have had good teachers at home, and to know that on such things
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a man should spend liberally.
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From my governor, to be neither of the green nor of the blue party
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at the games in the Circus, nor a partizan either of the Parmularius
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or the Scutarius at the gladiators' fights; from him too I learned
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endurance of labour, and to want little, and to work with my own hands,
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and not to meddle with other people's affairs, and not to be ready
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to listen to slander.
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From Diognetus, not to busy myself about trifling things, and not
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to give credit to what was said by miracle-workers and jugglers about
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incantations and the driving away of daemons and such things; and
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not to breed quails for fighting, nor to give myself up passionately
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to such things; and to endure freedom of speech; and to have become
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intimate with philosophy; and to have been a hearer, first of Bacchius,
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then of Tandasis and Marcianus; and to have written dialogues in my
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youth; and to have desired a plank bed and skin, and whatever else
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of the kind belongs to the Grecian discipline.
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From Rusticus I received the impression that my character required
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improvement and discipline; and from him I learned not to be led astray
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to sophistic emulation, nor to writing on speculative matters, nor
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to delivering little hortatory orations, nor to showing myself off
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as a man who practises much discipline, or does benevolent acts in
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order to make a display; and to abstain from rhetoric, and poetry,
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and fine writing; and not to walk about in the house in my outdoor
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dress, nor to do other things of the kind; and to write my letters
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with simplicity, like the letter which Rusticus wrote from Sinuessa
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to my mother; and with respect to those who have offended me by words,
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or done me wrong, to be easily disposed to be pacified and reconciled,
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as soon as they have shown a readiness to be reconciled; and to read
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carefully, and not to be satisfied with a superficial understanding
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of a book; nor hastily to give my assent to those who talk overmuch;
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and I am indebted to him for being acquainted with the discourses
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of Epictetus, which he communicated to me out of his own collection.
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From Apollonius I learned freedom of will and undeviating steadiness
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of purpose; and to look to nothing else, not even for a moment, except
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to reason; and to be always the same, in sharp pains, on the occasion
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of the loss of a child, and in long illness; and to see clearly in
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a living example that the same man can be both most resolute and yielding,
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and not peevish in giving his instruction; and to have had before
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my eyes a man who clearly considered his experience and his skill
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in expounding philosophical principles as the smallest of his merits;
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and from him I learned how to receive from friends what are esteemed
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favours, without being either humbled by them or letting them pass
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unnoticed.
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From Sextus, a benevolent disposition, and the example of a family
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governed in a fatherly manner, and the idea of living conformably
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to nature; and gravity without affectation, and to look carefully
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after the interests of friends, and to tolerate ignorant persons,
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and those who form opinions without consideration: he had the power
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of readily accommodating himself to all, so that intercourse with
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him was more agreeable than any flattery; and at the same time he
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was most highly venerated by those who associated with him: and he
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had the faculty both of discovering and ordering, in an intelligent
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and methodical way, the principles necessary for life; and he never
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showed anger or any other passion, but was entirely free from passion,
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and also most affectionate; and he could express approbation without
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noisy display, and he possessed much knowledge without ostentation.
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From Alexander the grammarian, to refrain from fault-finding, and
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not in a reproachful way to chide those who uttered any barbarous
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or solecistic or strange-sounding expression; but dexterously to introduce
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the very expression which ought to have been used, and in the way
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of answer or giving confirmation, or joining in an inquiry about the
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thing itself, not about the word, or by some other fit suggestion.
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From Fronto I learned to observe what envy, and duplicity, and hypocrisy
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are in a tyrant, and that generally those among us who are called
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Patricians are rather deficient in paternal affection.
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From Alexander the Platonic, not frequently nor without necessity
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to say to any one, or to write in a letter, that I have no leisure;
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nor continually to excuse the neglect of duties required by our relation
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to those with whom we live, by alleging urgent occupations.
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From Catulus, not to be indifferent when a friend finds fault, even
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if he should find fault without reason, but to try to restore him
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to his usual disposition; and to be ready to speak well of teachers,
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as it is reported of Domitius and Athenodotus; and to love my children
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truly.
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From my brother Severus, to love my kin, and to love truth, and to
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love justice; and through him I learned to know Thrasea, Helvidius,
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Cato, Dion, Brutus; and from him I received the idea of a polity in
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which there is the same law for all, a polity administered with regard
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