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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 549 [Date & Time] 2005-09-17 16:05:47 [Post Text]
I don't think you're crazy.& I think it's sexy that you can enjoy yourself without anyone else.& I love to masturbate as well.& I don't do it everyday, but I think about it. &
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 663 [Date & Time] 2005-10-09 17:10:27 [Post Text]
that's great that you love it so much! but you don't do it with your partner? what a shame for him (or her). that's one of the (very few) things that is a bit disappointing about my wife. i absolutely LOVE to masturbate - but she could take it or leave it. to me, there is nothing hotter than the sight of a woman, confident with her own body,& legs spread wide, rubbing, vibrating, or fingering herself to a powerful orgasm! & here's to you and yours!
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 665 [Date & Time] 2005-10-09 22:08:22 [Post Text]
I love to masterbate, too. I don't know what I would do without my trusty vibrator, though! I would probably come close to doing it everyday, sometimes for up to 2 hours at a time, just having orgasm after orgasm and I end up in a sticky mess! I have a boyfriend whom I live with, sometimes he watches, sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes he joins in, sometimes he doesn't. I had an interesting experience the other day, sometimes my partner and I invite a girlfriend of mine into our bed to have a bit of fun, she was over the other day and we started getting a bit horny together but my partner was out so I said I would love to have sex with her but I thought it would be wrong to do it without my partner. So we said our goodbyes and I went back& into my room and masterbated, I received a text message from her shortly afterwards saying how horny she was and how she couldn't do anyhthing about it because she was at work. So I sent one back saying I'd just made myself orgasm and a little bit of imagery for her to get more worked up over. So we sent dirty msgs back and forth until she finally& finished work. Her last text msg said something like& "I just masterbated in the shower thinking of your beautiful body shuddering in orgasm. I just kept cumming and cumming, thank you for helping me get off, xoxo" I loved being a part of that moment of hers ;)& I'd love to watch her masterbate. Fuck it, I'd love to masterbate together!
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 677 [Date & Time] 2005-10-13 16:25:37 [Post Text]
Mantra, I understand the desire to masturbate with the girlfriend. I already did it with male and female friends and it was great. I will do it again and again.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 678 [Date & Time] 2005-10-13 21:37:33 [Post Text]
Hi Mantra, So I'm not the only one who beleives a girl's orgasm may be even stickier than a guy's? Melissa
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 684 [Date & Time] 2005-10-17 08:58:56 [Post Text]
[user=204]sally_b[/user] wrote: "I know, me too. People here may think i'm crazy but it just feels so good."No!! I don't think your crazy. Its feels great:D
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 687 [Date & Time] 2005-10-17 20:23:04 [Post Text]
HI..to me masturbation is a unique sexual experience because I can achieve one or more orgasms and at the speed I want. I can make it& last longer if I feel like keeping myself at the edge or just come fast if I am in a hurry and my personal opinion is that there is not another sex experience that compare to masturbation. Good luck& Luisa
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 688 [Date & Time] 2005-10-18 05:43:48 [Post Text]
u just gotta keep tryin i guess........... try somethin new tht would get u closer to experiencin orgasms wit ur partner gotta keep tryin girl
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 715 [Date & Time] 2005-10-22 15:04:28 [Post Text]
Hi Mantra, It is interesting about what you say about secretions...being sticky, etc...If you would, I have a few questions, you may e-mail me at PLEASE DO NOT PUT AN EMAIL ADDRESS ON A PUBLIC FORUM. PEOPLE CAN CLICK ON YOUR PROFILE AND EMAIL YOU DIRECTLY FROM THERE. THANK YOU Princess
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 716 [Date & Time] 2005-10-22 15:06:49 [Post Text]
Dear ultm8 I wouldn't have you feeling awkward watching her masturbate? Perhaps some guys I beleive would want to be in on it being the one to please her... Melissa
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 744 [Date & Time] 2005-10-30 18:27:45 [Post Text]
MM: Not sure I understood ur question. Either way, I don't feel like i have to be the one pleasing her. I always thought i would marry someone who had a love of masturbation like i do - spending lazy afternoons watching each other making ourselves cum. Didn't work out that way. On the rare occassions that my wife will masturbate for me, it doesn't bother me in the least to not be the one getting her off. I've always told her that i don't care what gets her hot, as long as she GETS hot!& LOL!
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 910 [Date & Time] 2005-12-20 03:54:34 [Post Text]
I have never had sex, but I do love to masturbate. Something that gets me off is watching a women masturbate.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 912 [Date & Time] 2005-12-20 11:35:24 [Post Text]
I've been doing it since I was 18 and I love it too. I cannot have IC as of yet because of vaginismus but I have been inserting my dilators whilst aroused and making myself orgasm whilst they are in which I think helps me a lot. I can spend ages building up and holding off from my genitals for quite a while and then as soon as I go down there, I explode and can then continue to have orgasms for as long as I have time to lay about martubating, haha. I hear that loads of men get off on seeing us females masturbate. I would feel a bit stupid doing it in front of a guy as things stand now& but I suppose it would be worth getting used to, it would be great if it didn't make me feel ridiculous.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 914 [Date & Time] 2005-12-20 17:21:30 [Post Text]
Hi perhaps if you filmed yourself masturbating first you would see what you look like. Just a suggestion. Then when you are comfortable seeing yourself that way you can share the experience in real life with a boyfriend or partner. I love masturbating in front of my partner. It is a huge turn on watching him becoming increasingly aroused watching me. Princess
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1188 [Date & Time] 2006-02-22 17:25:33 [Post Text]
I have watched my wife masturbate and I have masturbated in front of my wife. I find it very erotic.I wish I could have multiple masturbations like a female. It does feel so goooooood.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1192 [Date & Time] 2006-02-23 15:01:32 [Post Text]
Last night while I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone, I mentioned that I would really like to watch him masturbate since the thought of it turns me on.& He then asked if I would masturbate for him too, of course I told him I would be happy to. Just thinking about it gets me excited.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1197 [Date & Time] 2006-02-23 16:47:55 [Post Text]
good for you :) Princess
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1226 [Date & Time] 2006-02-25 15:39:25 [Post Text]
Thanks!:D& I absolutely can't wait. 13 more days until I get to see him.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1409 [Date & Time] 2006-04-11 17:13:44 [Post Text]
DO YOU HAVE ANY PARTICULAR FANTASIES WHILE YOU ARE MATERBATING there is already a thread about this subject can you post in that one please thank you Princess
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1410 [Date & Time] 2006-04-12 03:55:06 [Post Text]
here is a link to the other thread - femalesexuality.mywowbb.com/forum7/260.html Princess
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2009 [Date & Time] 2006-07-22 16:15:11 [Post Text]
how do you tell if yor female partner is getting off durring sex& and not just faking?:-/
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2014 [Date & Time] 2006-07-22 16:47:00 [Post Text]
Well if she's moaning like a pornstar, then you should worry.& You can't really tell unless she's upfront about it. Or if you can feel her vagina milking your penis when she's orgasming. When it comes to oral sex, if you are fingering her while you're playing with her clit, you most likely will feel her muscles pulsate squeezing your fingers.& And if you don't feel the sensation of her pvc muscles doing that to your fingers, she's faking.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2176 [Date & Time] 2006-07-29 12:45:24 [Post Text]
I China ,some people called& Taoshi can have multiple orgasms just as the female.(Taoshi was who believe in a Chinese religion called Taojiao,which was founded by Laozi,who was compared with Confucious)They are admirable,aren't they!
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2177 [Date & Time] 2006-07-29 12:55:17 [Post Text]
Hi,Ladyburg,but women can contract the muscles of their viginas by will,can't they?So we male still can't tell,I'm afraid,so it's still a tough problem,when you are making lov e with a good actress.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2178 [Date & Time] 2006-07-29 13:29:00 [Post Text]
[user=678]dragon[/user] wrote: "Hi,Ladyburg,but women can contract the muscles of their viginas by will,can't they?So we male still can't tell,I'm afraid,so it's still a tough problem,when you are making lov e with a good actress."Yes we can, but there's a different between an orgasm pulse and a grap your finger flex.&
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2193 [Date & Time] 2006-07-30 17:09:39 [Post Text]
I too; am also in the "Fan of the Masterbation Club" yes enjoying masterbation is really a good thing. I would suggest if you are having a hard time "getting off" any other way than from masterbation; try doing different ways of masterbating. learning to cum from another method may help you come with another person. Years ago another woman and I use to masterbate over the phone together; but, I am digressing. just wanted to add my two cents.
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2196 [Date & Time] 2006-07-30 17:55:03 [Post Text]
:-DDear Mantra & I think its hot that u masturbate an wanna have sex wither other women around your bf& I wish there were more women like you out there@};-
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&Dear [user=130]melissa_malena[/user] & it probably is& women have a bigger& space for it to come from
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[Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2574 [Date & Time] 2006-09-07 21:13:38 [Post Text]
what post are you replying to?
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Wow! This site sure is helpful in overcoming shame and guilt. If nothing else you learn that you really are not alone. Wish our whole western society would read the stuff that's posted here and just GET OVER IT! If I ever have any children, I promise not to make them feel guilty about it. We'll just talk about being discrete and the fact that other people are not necessarily so open minded, so you may need to think carefully about whom you want to share that info with. Thanks to all here for being so open minded! (Yes, I enjoy it too! ;)& )
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& this is the post i was replying to& & Hi Mantra, ?? So I'm not the only one who beleives a girl's orgasm may be even stickier than a guy's? Melissa
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hi, i live in grenada w.i. i'm a guy my name is kellon i just want you to know. i have a gf. but i want to understand more about female masturbation i think that it will help with my overall understanding of females who do and add to the relationship with my girl. i want to learn so any help will be great thanks:D. p.s. you can contact me via messenger if you like let me know.
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here is a link to the other thread - [url=femalesexuality.mywowbb.com/forum7/260.html] femalesexuality.mywowbb.com/forum7/260.html Princess,& sorry to trouble you.& You posted the above on 12th April, 2006 but, when I click on it, I am denied.&
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I've been masterbating since I was a little girl---I think around 5 or 6.& I remember humping on teddy bears, beach balls and baby dolls etc Now, I have graduated to using a vibrator on my clit and it feels really amazing.& It's better than using my hand.& My orgasms are quite intense, and afterwards it puts me to sleep like a baby.& I think it's an excellent substitute for oral sex right now.& Defintely not better than the real thing, but pretty close and it keeps me very satisfied.
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I love to masturbate just as much as you do .. i just don't have enough privacy but once in a while i do.. and i make the most of that time xD I'm like 17 and my parents keep walking past my room all the time and& walk in and out of my room aswell... sigh xD:?
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I am a lesbian . I mostly like boobs . What attracts& other& & girls . do other womanlove boobs&
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Hi I'm bi and I don't feel we look to a particular feature in a girl, myself tend to look tothe inner girl and then enjoy the intimacy before we start picking parts of the body. Talking about breasts no 2 women agree on big or small breats each has its own beauty and the nipples are so different and ll so arouisng; I have a friend with beautiful large nipples and she feel asahmed and hide them and tells me she looks like a female monkey... Well we are beautiful in our way..love Luisa
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I think women in general are beautiful creatures.& I am attracted to all kinds of women, some with big boobs and some with small.& I went to this adult themed party once and there was this Asian gal.& She was so petite.& & She had long black hair.& She didn't have any body hair, and she had the perkiest little boobs.& She didn't have any cleavage, and they curved up showing pink nipples.& I couldn't stop staring at her.& She "worked" at the party and would perform lap dances but only for men.& I went with my boyfriend, and he had her perform for him so I could watch.& I really wanted her to perform for me.&
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[Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 525 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 14:01:35 [Post Text]
i am a 27 yr old caucasian and my mother always told me not to shave above the knee. i remembered how hairy my mother was so i figured i would since i didnt want to look like her. well...she failed to tell me the reasoning behind it- so alass now i am very hairy and am forced to shave all the time which leads to more -thick, dark hairs!!! i went to get a bikini wax once and this perfect little bleach blonde girl did it and was like "wow, you DO have a lot of hair"...i was sooo embarassed! the nerve! i never did that again!anyway i dont like wearing short shorts or bathing suits because i shave my thighs and bikini area so much and have inevitable little red dots and ingrown hair bumps and it looks like i have some freaky rash! YUCK! but if i dont i have black stubble all over my thighs and bikini instead! i cant win. so my question is....how do i get rid of hair forever so i dont have to constantly shave or wax- are there creams or lotions that are PERMANENT??? i use this naturally smooth hair mimimizing lotion but its not working- has anyone had luck with that?? advise please!!!!:shock:
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[Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 527 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 16:20:24 [Post Text]
Hello rosadog and welcome to the group :) in short - no - there is no permanent answer to removing hair. Electrolosis come fairly close but costs a bit. You can buy home kits nowadays which will do the job but they are pretty tricky to use as you have to get the tiny needle down into the hair folacle. One thing that I do while I am relaxing is to pull the hairs out with tweasers. This takes ages. I usually do this while I am watching a heavy going film to take my mind off the pain of it. But it works and the hairs grow back much much finer and more easier to remove. They dont grow back too quickly either. They take much longer to grow back then shaving them off does. As for waxing, again, I would try one of the home kits you can buy. Much more convenient and less embarassing to use at a salon as you have experienced already. Also, one more thing, have you had your testosterone levels checked recently by a blood test? And been checked for insulin function? Both these things can cause excess hair as can progesterone levels being too low. I hope this all helps a little. I am sorry I couldnt tell you that you could simply remove the hair and that would be that. But unfortunately that is not the case :( Princess
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[Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 530 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 21:10:52 [Post Text]
Hi, Laser hair removal can reduce hair growth, to the point of almost no hair in some cases, so I gather. Expensive, requiring three treatments, but about your only option, besides what Princess mentioned: Here are some links. [url=www.hair-removal-products.net/brazilian-wax.html] www.hair-removal-products.net/brazilian-wax.html [url=www.hairremovalforum.com/bodyhairremoval.htm] www.hairremovalforum.com/bodyhairremoval.htm [url=www.hairlasers.com/index.html] www.hairlasers.com/index.html [url=www.sfsi.org/answers/hairless.html] www.sfsi.org/answers/hairless.html It isn't shaving that increases hair growth, but simply increased age. Brad
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[Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 534 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 14:39:32 [Post Text]
thank u both so much. i wish i lived in a country where no one shaves so it wouldnt matter....but i dont! Maybe alaska or antartica or greenland....those places are always cold- no one would want to for fear of freezing! anyway....i'll have to check out those sites and just try different waxing kits (nothing ever works like it says its going too) just like the picture on the BK commercial doesnt ever look the same as the burger you unwrap after you order at the drive thru. i use to do the plucking thing- i got real good at it and it didnt hurt much if i did it all the time- it was just so time consuming! i probably shouldnt even worry about it (i doubt i have a hormonal inbalance or anything) my friend when i was in highschool had hair under her chin she'd have to shave...im not that bad...i just dont see anyone else with& rashy thighs and bikini,& so i dont like it. funny how society makes girls/women compare themselves to glam-stars and such (even when they know better, like me...i know better....its just thats what& most guys look at.....and i want my husband to like looking at me) anyhow. im glad this site is available. so freaks like me can feel a little bit more normal.-;)
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Please help, and I apologize if this seems long.. I have been doing some research, but I can't seem to find the answers that I need.& & Here is my problem: I just recently lost my virginity, about a couple weeks ago, my boyfriend can't have children, he is defective, so we had sex without a condom, and five times since.& Ever since our first, I have noticed that my discharge has started smelling 'fishy' and research tells me that this could be signs of a bacterial infection, but I don't know what to do.& If it is, is there anything 'simple' I can do to get rid of it?& I know how to prevent it in the future, but I need to know what I can do about getting it to go away.. the smell seems gross and strong, and sites tell me too many different things, I just want to know if anyone has gone through this, or can confirm my assumptions, and most of all, help me get it gone! thank you. & -Serena
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[Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 528 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 16:29:03 [Post Text]
Hi Serena Welcome :) Yes, at some point I have had this several times. Firstly, it is always best to get these checked out with a doctor. It could be anything. But in the meantime, get some thrush cream from the chemist or pharmacy. Thrush is the most likely cause. This is not bad at all. It is a yeast inbalance within the vulva and vagina. The cream will help sooth the irritation and treat the infection. There are times though when this cream must be backed up with the corrrect antibiotics as well. Please please get this checked out. A swab taken from you will rule out all manner of other more serious infections. Princess
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[Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 529 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 18:04:20 [Post Text]
ah, I was hoping you wouldn't say the 'd' word lol..& okay, I have a docter, mr. smith, as my normal doctor, should I see him?& What type of doctor is okay?&
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[Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 531 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 21:15:56 [Post Text]
Hi, A fishy odor possibly indicates a bacterial infection, or your body reacting to his ejaculate. A bacterial infection requires antibiotics, a yeast treatment, an anti-fungal, wont work and could cause harm if you don't have a yeast infection. You should& see a doctor. Even if he is sterile, how do you know for sure, he should still be using a condom to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections, especially if you are dating. Brad
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yes, I am making sure to use condoms next time!& Its not good, worrying about the 'possiblility' of pregnancy or any 'reactions' & on a more positive note, I described to my mum about what was going on, and she said yeaste (pardon my spelling) infections are common in her side of the family, the women produce extra, so she gave me a tablet and told me to douche before I shower (once) and then from there on, once a month, so not to over do it, and to keep clean.&
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[Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 533 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 23:59:00 [Post Text]
Hi, Douching causes rather than prevents infections, as it disturbs the natural balance of the vagina. You can also force foreign material into the uterus resulting in a pelvic infection, resulting in infertility. Please see the information on the following page: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm This page has the info on infections: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/vaginitis.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/vaginitis.htm Brad
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[Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 535 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 17:58:12 [Post Text]
i have a deeper question this time... i have been married to my husband for a little over a year. he didnt tell me until after we were dating a while that he had lead a permiscuous life before he met me and that he aquired herpes in his early 20's. obviously i was hurt beyond belief since i didnt think he was that kind of person since(which was the major reason i married him) PLUS we had not been using condoms... I& asked him why he didnt tell me& when he met me-& he said it was because his doctor told him he could not pass it on unless he was having symptoms. he also stated he hadnt had a breakout for 2 years. I was so upset and refused to believe 'heresay' and couldnt understand why, if he had a sexually transmitted disease why he wouldnt keep up with information about it! so i researched it and i found otherwise. i told my husband it CAN be passes asymtomatically, whenever his body is shedding it even though he has no symptoms. which is why most peolple dont even know they have it let alone aware they are passing it on. unfortunately i think i may have already caught it from him. its hard to say since symptoms, if any- include anything from a mild itch to a burning rash with blisters, to only a severe unexplaine cervical pain. i aim to get it checked out. but instinct tells me i have it. i also want to get checked out to make sure thats ALL he is passing to me since he was only tested that once long ago...hes not a cheater so i know hes not with anyone else but me now. Question #1 is- can i also catch it from sharing a towel after showering together? considering the towel is damp? i know toilet seats are not likely because they are dry. Question #2- say i get tested and if i DO indeed have it now too, does it matter if we use condoms? it seems gross to me but, does it really matter if we are passing the same disease back and forth(does it& cause more breakouts that way) Question#3- this is for anyone (a personal pole) what is the adverage number of sexual partners a 27 year old has had? my husband had 12 before the age of 21 (he started at age 15---when i was still playing with my little ponies and strawberry shortcake dolls!) i was never kissed until i was 21, and have had only 2 partners before my husband, one of which i was with 3 and 1/2 yrs. (you can see why im a little distraut over finding my husband was with 18!............. PLEASE HELP....:?
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Hi rosadog Firstly, Yes, you can catch it from sharing towels. That was one of the first things that the hospital said to us that I must take great care and use my own towels and not allow anyone else to use them. Secondly, it may not bother you to pass the same thing back and forth whilst being married, BUT, do you really want to be going through this on and off for the rest of your marriage? You should both get treated together and get advice together about this. Perhaps some marriage counselling may be in order so that you can express your feelings of how let down you feel that your husband did not tell you he had an outbreak of the herpies virus before he was with you. I would most certainly feel betrayed and angry about that. With the herpies virus, I am sure you already know, but once you get it, you always have it. You may not present with all the symptoms of a full on outbreak but the virus will be with you. Sorry, if that is something which causes you to feel uncomfortable. But it is better to be straight about these things. Get yourself checked out properly. Receive the right treatment. But it will be a fruitless exercise if your husband doesnt do the same thing at the same time. There may well be something else like bacterial infection that shows up and so you will both be treated for this together. Hope this helps and let me know how you get on Princess
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When you married, you already knew about the herpes, correct? If you don't have herpes, do everything possible to protect yourself from getting it.& I've read that herpes can cause some forms of cancer in women.& If you get pregnant, and give birth vaginally, you can transmit it to your baby if you have an outbreak.& & Stress can cause your outbreaks, and being in labor is stressful. Wear protection...always, and whatever you do, DO NOT perform oral sex on him without a condom or you may get herpes in your mouth. Sure, herpes is a livable condition, but if you are not careful, it is really gross!& I hate those TV commercials about herpes because it makes it sound like it's not that bad. I hope you do not have it.
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i think that i too my have herpes because i have this bump on the inside of my vagina its not painful or anything and it has been there for about two months but but besides that everything else has been normal what do u think ?:?
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[Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 566 [Date & Time] 2005-09-21 13:12:30 [Post Text]
to answer ms.bama: i am not a doctor but i doubt that it is herpes. a herpes blister is different. in most cases (those who have full blown herpes symptoms) it tends to itch or burn in areas around your vaginal area, then a pimple like bump will develope turning into a blister then eventually a sore& before it& crusts over and begins to heal. it may last a couple days to a week. (again most cases)....if u have a bump it may either be normal or something that a gyno should check out but if it doesnt cause you any sort of irratation and has been there for months it doesnt sound to me like herpes.
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another question about transmitting herpes: i have looked on different sites but they only answer general questions. the questions i would like to know answeres to are - 1.- i have read you can get herpes different places then just vaginal, anal, and oral... if you say that it can be caught from sharing a towel, does that mean you could get herpes anywhere the towel touches, like arms, legs,shoulders & etc....??? ..also, if i have a breakout and i am drying myself with my own towel couldnt i then spread it all over myself??????- how does that work? 2.- medication only helps with holding back breakouts. but it does nothing to keep u from asymptomatically shedding the virus and transmitting it...(or does it)so, since my husband has only had 1 break out in 2 years and& has not been on any medication,& if i get diagnosed with it too& as long as i dont have symptoms we should be fine having sex without condoms shouldnt we? or does this increase both our risks for having more breakouts. (obviously we would not be having sex at all if one of us had symptoms) 3.- oral sex is a no-no too i found out. but what if one of us is already infected in the mouth, would kissing be a no-no forever too? or do you have to have symptoms to be able to pass it from mouth to mouth?? i would hate to think i may never even be able to kiss him!!! .................i dont know about this stuff- hopefully some one else does!:(
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well I know it is wrong to keep something like that from your mate.& but I do understand why some people do it.& my sister got herpes at age 17 and was horrified by the experience.& she had warts and had to have them burned off, very painful.& she is now married and her hubby does not know.& He would probably leave her if he knew.& she was told the same thing by her doctor that as long as she doesn't have any breakouts she can't pass it along.& she took meds to suppress breakouts and hasn't had any since, but he still doesn't know.& 3 kids later and one affair by him, still no clue.& I dont know if she'll ever tell him, but he would probably leave her because of it.& i know that is why she doesn't tell him. & Oh my thoughts on the sex roster.& I had 11 by age 26. which now days doesn't seem like much w/ girls sleeping around.& and even though it seems like such a double standard, most guys are screwing as young teenagers.& they are little hormones just running around.& my fiance has slept w/ probably 30+ women, dont know the exact number and i am probably way off its most likely more.& majority of the sleeping around was in his early 20's when he was in the navy.& the problem w/ guys sometimes is they would rather have all the feeling in their penis then put on a condom to keep from getting a disease.& it scares me for both of my kids when they get older, all i can do is educate them. try to understand why your husband kept this from you, probably fear of rejection.
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i dont doubt him having the fear of rejection, but just& think of& the devistation your sister felt when she learned she caught it, dont you think it would be just as, if not more devistating to know that you are potentially passing it on to someone who loves and trusts you very much......and giving them the same hurt, devastated feeling that you wished you never had?.................... would you say the same if it was HIV/AIDS that you sister was secreting hiding from her husband??
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Hello there are two different types of the Herpies virus. Herpies 1 and Herpies 2. I caught the Herpies 2 virus last year in November. I had the blisters and boy, they were the most painful thing ever. I spent three days propped up on the sofa on top of a fan which was blowing cold air between my legs. To urinate I had to use this cream which numbed the area otherwise I was springing off the toilet seat in absolute hysteria with pain. My partner and I were both treated even though he had never had the virus, and I had performed oral sex on him two days before the blisters broke out. Since then, we have carried on like normal even with oral sex and we dont use condoms either. We dont sleep with anyone else so the risks of another breakout are limited to ourselves. We talked this through with the people at the GUM clinic and they strongly advised us to always use our own towels, and washing materials, never share our personal things even hair brushes, and always ensure that our bathroom is thoroughly cleaned after use. We have stuck to the advice to the letter and not had another breakout and touch wood we wont again. We had to include things in our diet too like extra vitiman C and B6 plus eat foods rich in iron like spinnach to boost our immune systems. If you look up the other highly contageous condition of Impetigo, the hygine rules are similar to that of herpies. Herpies 1 can present as colesores on the mouth, arm pits and under breast areas and sometimes between the thights. Herpies 2 is when the genitals have sores which swell, become extremely painful and weep. You can pass either of these on easily and without meaning to. Either by kissing, sharing cups or utencils, towels, and other things that come into contact with your body. On a personal note, we drove ourselves mad last year when this happened to me. I caught it from using a towel whilst away. I was sweating and so used someone elses bathroom while I was in their hotel room, and shouted out was it ok to use their towel to give myself a rinse. Needless to say I will NEVER be doing anything like that EVER again. I washed with water from the sink and wiped myself down inbetween my legs, around my breasts and under my arms. That was all it took. Lesson learned the hard way. I did not know this person well, hardly at all in fact. It was just someone who worked in our group occasionally. We went to pick up some paperwork from their room and I needed to use the toilet. It seemed like a good idea at the time to freshen up while I was in there. My Partner thought I had been unfaithful. We had couselling. He is ok now but cried when he saw the pain I was in and when he took me to the hospital after the doctor came to our house, he was emotional and worried sick. Neither of us knew what was going on. All I knew was pain. If I can just give you one piece of advice, both of you just get treated together and dont let this consume you. You are both together, faithful and love each other. Just get treated and get on with your lives. If either of you does break out again, just get treated again together. Share the experience and get treated at the same time. That way, there will be no resentment under the surface. What is done is done and cant be undone. You know about the condition now and your partner having had it before you were married. So move on. Get counselling at your local clinic if necessary. Quite a lot of people dont think that herpies is a big deal. That is until they get the herpies 2 virus. Then it does not seem so funny any more. People said to me "oh its only herpies, I have had that" and I used to look at them and think, how lax an attitude that was. Yes herpies 1 probably isnt a big deal but if you catch that after having a major operation like I did, or when you immune system is perhaps not as strong as it normally is, then it quickly develps into herpies 2. Anyway, I hope this all helps to put your mind at rest slightly. I would just both get treated together and not worry about it any more like we have done Princess [user=224]rosadog[/user] wrote: "another question about transmitting herpes: i have looked on different sites but they only answer general questions. the questions i would like to know answeres to are - 1.- i have read you can get herpes different places then just vaginal, anal, and oral... if you say that it can be caught from sharing a towel, does that mean you could get herpes anywhere the towel touches, like arms, legs,shoulders etc....??? ..also, if i have a breakout and i am drying myself with my own towel couldnt i then spread it all over myself??????- how does that work? 2.- medication only helps with holding back breakouts. but it does nothing to keep u from asymptomatically shedding the virus and transmitting it...(or does it)so, since my husband has only had 1 break out in 2 years and has not been on any medication, if i get diagnosed with it too as long as i dont have symptoms we should be fine having sex without condoms shouldnt we? or does this increase both our risks for having more breakouts. (obviously we would not be having sex at all if one of us had symptoms) 3.- oral sex is a no-no too i found out. but what if one of us is already infected in the mouth, would kissing be a no-no forever too? or do you have to have symptoms to be able to pass it from mouth to mouth?? i would hate to think i may never even be able to kiss him!!! .................i dont know about this stuff- hopefully some one else does!:( "
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Okay. So I have been sexually activefor the past 3months. Give or take. Everything has been great andfulfilling. Recently I haven't been able to get wet. I feel aroused but there is nothing to show for it. Please help me out.
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k-y jelly
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[Topic ID] 102 [Post ID] 570 [Date & Time] 2005-09-22 01:24:59 [Post Text]
try astroglide too,& if you have a castle's near you, you might want to pop in.& they have so many different types of lube.& everyone is different.& try small bottles and see what works for you.
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Do you all fantasize when you maturbate to help you orgasm quicker or do you just pleasure yourself and not think of anything until you cum? I love to fantasize.& Sometimes I fantasize that I'm having sex while someone is watching me.& Sometimes, I fantasize that I'm with someone else other than my boyfriend or girlfriend. Stories please...do tell.
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Hello and Welcome to the group :) Have you read the main site pages on fantasising? www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_fantasy.htm Princess
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of course....i think every one fantasizes to some degree.& some more than others.& i like to look at porn, or home movies me and the fiance have made.& but everyone is different.
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To: Group Hi everyone, I am not new to this group but have been inactive for quite a while. The reason is that my job kept me quite busy and for some reason I did not find out that the Yahoo Group was closed (the message was probably lost somewhere in my Inbox). Anyway, with Brad's help, I'm back but am still having a problem replying to your posts and starting new topics so I've asked Brad to post on my behalf. What is the best way to get your partner to try out something new? For instance, my girlfriend has never shaved her pubic hairs. I shave occasionally and wanted to experience how it would feel for both of us to be cleanly shaved. However, since she really has never shaved before, I dont want to seem insensitive by suggesting it directly. How can I go about this? Sincerely, G'Trotter (email: ) Note: Make sure you have cookies enabled or the software will not be able to see that you have logged in. Brad
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If you do oral sex on her than you could say that you can't reach all of her sensitive areas (i hope i found the right word) and it could be more intensive for her. She should do it because she wants it by herself and not because you want it. Bye, Andy
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if u are partners you should be able to talk about stuff. i always say if i cant talk to him a shouldnt be sleeping with him. there really is no way to tip-toe around the question....just say to her "how come you have never tried shaving? not that i mind, but maybe it might be fun to try it once just to see how sex feels..." if she knows who u are at all she should know you arent being insensitive!
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Hello there. This is a rather interesting subject (I'm a male, right, of course it is!). There's a couple of reasons, as far as I can tell, why your girl might not want to get rid of the shag carpeting in the basement (let's see how well that joke goes over with the ladies :P). Firstly, she might be afraid. Really, shaving your pubic hair can be dangerous. Ever shaved your face?& I'm sure you cut yourself a couple times before you got it right, right? Now, imagine if your face was inbetween your legs and was folded like some Himalayan valleys. That's a little more difficult, eh? Not to mention how bad I can only imagine a nick or a scrape might feel! If that's the case, talk it out. Maybe you can convince her that you're a much more experienced "shaver" ;) & Secondly, maybe your girl has been warned about the "side effects". Although I've never met one, I hear from some reliable sources that those in the gynecological field advice that those hairs are important. If that's her hang-up, you might need to find a gynecologist who's a little inebriated (there's another one of those jokes, how'd ya like it?). Other than that, you may be stuck. & Thirdly (and lastly, God willing), maybe she's heard about what happens afterward. You know, the thick black hairs that come back, the ingrown ones, the razorburn, not to mention the uncomfortable feeling of little pokey hairs inbetween her legs. There's only one solution for that: waxing! And friend, if you're having trouble convincing her to even consider shaving, you're going to have to be a master debator (get it?) to convince her to put hot wax on that! & So, remember, if she's not willing to try it, you're either going to have to love it or leave it. It being her. Sometimes you just have to respect the decisions your partner makes regarding HER body. If you can't deal with it, pack 'er up, and get outta Dodge. & Six.
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If she doesn't like to shave, maybe she agrees to just cut her pubic hair? It looks good, helps a lot when you're doing oral an her, but has no side effects. & Steffi
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I do think suggesting her wax for a more sensual feeling is more likely for her to do it.& Another way, tell her you'd love to shave her.& Some women find that arousing. I know I would. & [user=301]six[/user] wrote: "Secondly, maybe your girl has been warned about the "side effects". Although I've never met one, I hear from some reliable sources that those in the gynecological field advice that those hairs are important. If that's her hang-up, you might need to find a gynecologist who's a little inebriated (there's another one of those jokes, how'd ya like it?). Other than that, you may be stuck. ""Ladybug's response: There are some gynecologists who do say that shaving is dangerous.& "" Thirdly (and lastly, God willing), maybe she's heard about what happens afterward. You know, the thick black hairs that come back, the ingrown ones, the razorburn, not to mention the uncomfortable feeling of little pokey hairs inbetween her legs. There's only one solution for that: waxing! And friend, if you're having trouble convincing her to even consider shaving, you're going to have to be a master debator (get it?) to convince her to put hot wax on that! ""Ladybug's response: It only appears to be thick hairs because the hair that was once shaven off has split.""I do recall reading that when shaving for the first time you should shave in the direction of the hair growth, and to not shave it completely bald.& Shave in the direction of the hair so your skin gets used to a razor running over it because the skin down there isn't yet used to it.& Then you eventually start shaving it bald going in the opposite direction for a smooth shave.& Wait a few days and proceed to shave again.& Getting the skin used to the razor can take awhile. ""Six. "
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it takes my boyfriend a real long time to climax during oral sex do anyone have any suggestions on howor what i can do to speed up the process?:?
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How long is too long? Are you in any kind of discomfort? & I know for me I can get oral sex for an hour and not come. Or, sometimes it only lasts fifteen minutes. It really depends on a lot of things. & However, if you need a tip just remember this - it's not about how fast you do it, it's all about rhythm.
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why is it that some men think that just because a woman gives birth to a baby that it shouldn't hurt during sex
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Hi and Welcome in short - lack of education perhaps talking this over may help? Princess
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& I love maserbation. I do it a lot. During maserbation, i insert fingers in my pussy. but i do not touch my clit at all .I think& all girls masterbate without ever stimulating their clit . what do you say.
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Hello lis no for me clitoral stimulation is a must during masturbation Princess
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I think most women touch their clit. Very few women don't need to touch it at all. And probably most would find that both clitoral and vaginal stimulation together work best since more area is being stimulated.
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I am a female. I know that clitotis is very important in female masterbation. However , every female is unique and responds in a different way during masterbation. ____________________ Please visit www.the-clitoris.com for more advice on this subject and feel free to continue discussions on here. Please do not advertise other sources of advice especially with a yahoo ( annonymous email address ) unless you run it by Brad first. Princess
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& Dear Lis..I htink that we masturbate in the way we learned when we were growing and discovered it, most of us touch or massage our clit , others just rub the whole vulva, others love to have something inside and stimulate the inner of the vagina& and many other ways; I love the clitoral stimulation by fingers or other way and also the vaginal insertion... My point is that there is no general rule as stimulation goes, just what you find more pleasurable, I do recommend to my friends just to devote some time to ourselves in private and explore every inch of our bodies to find those erotic places. Love and luck in your quest.....love.Luisa PS tou can write I'll answer
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This is quite an interesting topic... I had a girlfriend who actually involved me in her masturbation. I didn't realize it as masturbation at first but then figured it out. She used to get on top of me in the 'Cowgirl' position (aka woman on top position) and rub her vulva on my thigh or erect penis until she came. This was highly stimulating for me especially when she used my penis. While using my finger...she was not nearly as worked up and only came like this once. So I believe that not every woman likes to have fingers on her clit but I also believe that the clit still plays a huge role in most forms of female masturbation.
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I have a roommate. She says that when she masterbates and put her fingers in her pussy , she can feel sensation(both sexual and touch) only in outer one 3rd of her pussy& but does not feel sensations& in her inner two 3rd of her pussy.& according to her only outer one third of pussy is sensitive enough . Is it true.
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Hi try reading this page www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_methods.htm it may give you more insight into how others masturbate. Each woman is different. I find that my vulva, ( the outer 3rd you describe ) is very sensitive but not as sensitive as the inner vaginal area ( the inner 2 3rds you speak of ) and as the G-spot is situated quite high up behind the clitoris area, it is much more sensitive inside. When my partner is stimulating me with his hands or fingers, and touches deep inside me even with one finger it is more stimulating than just the outer third. Princess
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Me and my girlfriend have decided after 3 years that we are ready for intercourse but we both are concerned regarding her pregency. Please help us. We arenot ready for a child right now at all. We would like to know as to which contraceptives should we prefer oral contraceotives for her or simply a usage of a condom by me will do just fine.... please help .... needed urgently!!
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Hello jackbrown101 and welcome to the group :) For the first part, have you or your partner been to a family planning clinic for advice? There are so many contraceptives available nowadays. Injections and condoms may be suitable. The injection lasts for three months and your partner wont have to worry about taking the pill each day. All she needs do is go back to the doctor's or family planning clinic and have another one every three months. Condoms are strongly recommended for the prevention of spreading STD's but if this is the first time for both of you, then perhaps this would be more down to personal preference. It may be fun in any case to try using a condom so you have the experience. You are right to worry about pregnancy. There are other barrier methods of contraceptives available other than the condom but they dont prevent the spreading of diseases. The cap or diaphram for example. Then there is the contraceptive pill which needs to be taken every day. Some people swear by the injection over the pill. I would gather as much info on each method as you can to enable you both to make an informed decision together. The family planning clinic would be your best source as you could talk face to face there and come away with condoms as they are usually given out there to everyone. Good luck with your endevours and please dont hesitate to ask questions on the various methods of contraception as you learn about them. Princess
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i came to know that pills have some some side effects like dizziness etc. Can u tell me wether pills are in any way harmful in the longrun or do they affect if one would need to stop them .... as i have heard that condoms arent always 100% effective.
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Hi, There are numerous potential side affects associated with the use of hormonal contraceptives, but there are more potential side affects associated with pregnancy and delivery. The potential consequences of an unwanted pregnancy are certainly significant too. My concern with their use is that doctors actually know little about how hormones work within an "individual" woman's body, they are playing the odds. The hormone dosages have changed significantly since they were introduced, the dosages have decreased significantly. The reason a male contraceptive pill has not come about is because of the adverse side affects they cause. I have to wonder if a female pill would be approved today given the potential side affects and stricter regulations.& I personally would not recommend women take the pill, that is my gut feeling not a scientific opinion. But I would not fault a woman who chooses to use them either. While they are assumed and advertised to be 99% effective they are actually around 92% effective, which still leaves a significant risk of pregnancy. While doctors prescribe them like candy, and assume they are what women should and do want, women should educate themselves before using them. Doctors are also routinely prescribing them to regulate menstrual cycles and to reduce menstrual flow and cramps, they are presumed& to be the quick and easy fix, or they are the only option doctors have. The problem I see is that teens are prescribed them long before they become sexually active and there is no way of knowing if they are the cause of her current sexual difficulties involving desire and sensitivity to sexual stimulation. I have friends who do not want to take the Pill or who have experienced adverse side affects. My main concern is that some bad side affects have not gone away when their use was stopped. Here are links to more detailed information: [url=www.aafp.org/afp/991101ap/2073.html] www.aafp.org/afp/991101ap/2073.html On the following page note the difference in expected and actual effectiveness of the different birth control methods. [url=www.drugs.com/PDR/Ovral_Tablets.html] www.drugs.com/PDR/Ovral_Tablets.html More information: [url=www.healthsquare.com/newrx/ora1310.htm] www.healthsquare.com/newrx/ora1310.htm [url=www.ewtn.com/library/PROLIFE/OCSIUDS.TXT] www.ewtn.com/library/PROLIFE/OCSIUDS.TXT [url=www.youngwomenshealth.org/med-uses-ocp.html] www.youngwomenshealth.org/med-uses-ocp.html On& this page [url=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contraceptive_pill]en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contraceptive_pill& it states: method effectiveness: is the Pearl index number for use under perfect conditions. The method effectiveness Pearl index for the Pill has been measured as low as 0.3 and as high as 1.25, which means that under ideal conditions, anywhere from 0.3 to 1.25 out of 100 users will become [url=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnant] pregnant during one year of perfect use (Pearl index = 0.3 to 1.25). user effectiveness: is the Pearl index number for use under typical conditions. The user effectiveness measured by the Pearl index for the Pill has been measured as low as 2.15 and as high as 8.0, which means that anywhere from 2.15 to 8.0 out of 100 women will become [url=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnant] pregnant during the first year of typical use (Pearl index = 2.15 to 8.0). [url=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_contraceptive#endnote_2] [2] [/suP] [url=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_contraceptive#endnote_3] [3] [/suP] [url=www4.nau.edu/fronske/brochures/bcp.html] www4.nau.edu/fronske/brochures/bcp.html This page [url=www.infoforhealth.org/pr/a10/a10chap1.shtml] www.infoforhealth.org/pr/a10/a10chap1.shtml& looks at the effectiveness around the world. Choosing an appropriate birth control method is not always an easy choice for a couple. Another thing to consider is that condoms should always be used to prevent the spread of disease, at least for dating couples, which is just about everyone not in a long term relationship.& If you don't see your current partner as your partner in 10 years you probably should be using a condom.& I know a& couple of my female friends have contacted sexually transmitted diseases from their partners. I get e-mails from very anxious young women who fear they are or will become pregnant. There is no way they could possible& enjoy intercourse because it causes significant anxiety. The simple truth is that some couples& should not be engaging in intercourse because the potential negative consequences are too great. If there would be dire consequences if you or your partner become pregnant then you shouldn't engage in intercourse. The use of birth control does not necessarily change that. Brad
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 584 [Date & Time] 2005-09-25 21:33:33 [Post Text]
As my girlfriend is a little scared about the pain that she might have during her first time can u help me as to what lubricants to use. As we are staying in India we do not have access to K-Y Jelly or other smilar products atleast not that we are aware of!!! What kind oils can be used for the same also please help us regarding her fear of the pain.... is it really that bad .... if not please tell me how do i explain that to her....(THATS THE DIFFICULT PART!!!!!!)
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 586 [Date & Time] 2005-09-26 10:58:35 [Post Text]
Hello again jackbrown101 Try ensuring that she is nicely relaxed first before attempting any sort of penetration. You could try massaging sweet almond or grapeseed oil into her vulva. Almond oil should be readily available in India. The pain that is felt with the first penetration is not "painful" it is more unusual as it is something which her body would not have been used to. Just make sure that she is ready for penetration by using lots of foreplay first. Stimulating her mentally as well as physically will make a lot of difference. Princess
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 588 [Date & Time] 2005-09-27 02:22:37 [Post Text]
I second the suggestion for sweet almond oil. You may also ask her to try putting her finger in herself first, so she can get used to the sensation of having something inside. Make sure you're both relaxed and maybe you can ask her to guide you inside with her hand so she feels more in control of the situation.
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 598 [Date & Time] 2005-09-27 23:41:42 [Post Text]
Hi, This subject is addressed on detail on the pages linked to below: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/virgin1.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/virgin1.htm Brad
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 601 [Date & Time] 2005-09-28 03:45:20 [Post Text]
Hmm.. if almond oil works, would sunflower cooking oil/olive oil work as well? :)
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 603 [Date & Time] 2005-09-28 09:22:42 [Post Text]
Hi olive oil does work but it is so rich it is not that good. Plus the smell and taste does kind of not gel with natural body smells and fluids if you see what I mean. Sunflower oil is no good neither are any of the vegetable oils. Peach Kernal oil is good as well as grapeseed oil. Jojohba oil is very good especially on the anus. Coconut oil not so good on the penis or inside the vagina as it is too thick and greasy. I cant think of any more now but will come up with a list later when I have more time. Any oil which is used in Aromatherapy as a "base" or "carrier" oil should be ok and safe to use as a natural lubricant. Princess
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 610 [Date & Time] 2005-09-30 22:27:09 [Post Text]
So, if I had no choice, olive oil would be better than sunflower oil, then?
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 818 [Date & Time] 2005-11-15 15:20:26 [Post Text]
hi, um.. is using baby oil good? I tried it for giving bf a handjob, but not with penetration... &
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 823 [Date & Time] 2005-11-18 11:58:51 [Post Text]
ya....i had the same question regarding the use of baby oil for lubricants i have heard from many people that baby oil can be used i would seriosly like ur expertise in this matter as baby oil is pretty much available everywhere....;)
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[Topic ID] 113 [Post ID] 824 [Date & Time] 2005-11-18 13:59:50 [Post Text]
Hi it is trial and error with things like baby oil. It irritated my vulva and that irritation developed into thrush. It felt great at the time but I would not be using it again. I stick to gels made from natural materials. Woods Of Windsor do a rose gel and a cucumber cream gel which are both really great. I also love SBC gels particularly their Vitamin E one. SBC ( Simply Beautiful Cosmetics ) is mostly available online and from QVC. The gel is light, does not dry up quickly and is vitamin enriched. It doesnt taste of anything in particular and feels good inside the vagina as well so makes a good lubricant. Hope this helps and please bare in mind that these are my own personal choices. Princess
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[Topic ID] 114 [Post ID] 587 [Date & Time] 2005-09-26 17:40:12 [Post Text]
My girlfriend isn't having orgasisms with pentetration. The only way I can make her cum is by rubbing my hard dick between her legs in the missionary postition with my dick down between her lips. She states it has always been like that for her. I am well endowed and have always been pretty good at licking pussy too, but I have even had trouble giving her an orgasism by eating her pussy too. She does not want me to put my fingers in her pussy and rub her g spot which I am very good at. She doesn't want my fingers down there at all. She loves me alot and is gorgeous and the only person that really seems to have a problem with this is me since it has always been that way for her. She won't even let me use a vibrator on her either. She states I am the best lover she has ever had which I believe because I have heard that with the last 5 women I have slept with, but it is a slight blow to my ego to not be able to give her an oragasim by licking it or penetration. I understand her pain. Before her no woman could make me cum by giving me head, but she figured it out and can suck the chrome off of a trailer hitch and makes me cum everytime. I want to return her the favor. Any suggestions.
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[Topic ID] 114 [Post ID] 592 [Date & Time] 2005-09-27 09:37:57 [Post Text]
Hello, not all women can cum through penetration. I cant without clitoral stimulation as well. I would get the idea that you are an amazing lover out of your mind. It is doing you no good at all. If you keep focusing on that, you will end up not being able to live up to your own expertations at all. Just because you may have had success with five women and they found you to be red hot, does not mean that other women, your partner included, will. Each woman is shaped differently on the inside as well as on the outside. What works with one may not, and often doesnt, work for another. Keep focusing on what feels good for your lover. If she has orgasms the way you describe, then carry on giving her that special gift. Once she is ready to try out or experiment with different methods of stimulation, she will let you know. Try encouraging her to speak to other women about what works for them. She may be feeling slightly odd. There is no need for her to feel like this as we all have our own special feelings about what feels good for us individually. Speaking to other women, on here perhaps, may give her new insight. You may also want to show her the clitoris main web site. There are heaps of information pages on there that I am sure will inspire her to try out different things. Does she masterbate at all? Encourage her to do this on her own. She has to get to know her own body and her reflex system herself then she can share this with you. Princess
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[Topic ID] 114 [Post ID] 593 [Date & Time] 2005-09-27 14:33:25 [Post Text]
she does not masterbate at all. She never has which is very new to me. It doesn't turn her on to masterbate. She has a problem with men touching her pussy also i think it is because her mon's ex boyfriend molested her as a young girl althoug she has no problem with intercourse. She says I am the first person to regularly touch her there even though she is 28 which makes me feel good because she trust me and I make her feel comforatable. She likes it when I give her a reach around when I penatrate her anally and she likes it when I put my finger in her butt and play with it while I go down on her. She won't let me put my fingers in her pussy when I go down on her though. I guess my problem is she says I am not using my finger in her ass enough when I go down on her. Thats what she says.If I could just get the ass thing right. She likes the combination of pleasure and pain.Alright I'll get it out of my mind that I am and amazing lover. Your right.& The only& girl that matters& if I please is her.& & I think I just need to take a day off of work& and go to town on her till I get it right. Thank you for your advice
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[Topic ID] 114 [Post ID] 594 [Date & Time] 2005-09-27 14:36:58 [Post Text]
I also can't come without clitoral stimulation but honestly I don't see it as a problem that I have to 'fix'. And the only two women I know willing to talk about sex also never come just from penetration. I have an idea, not sure if it'll work but maybe worth a try. Stop aiming to make her come with oral sex, try to see how far you can go before orgasm.. make it a game (this time 6, then 8... so on). Probably this will make you and her less nervous and am sure with time you'll get closer and closer. Problem is it's very hard to come when a guy is between your legs anxious to give you an orgasm and you're wondering if you're taking too long :S
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[Topic ID] 114 [Post ID] 596 [Date & Time] 2005-09-27 16:12:20 [Post Text]
I agree in part with Kay here. Sex and Love Making should not be about achieving orgasm but more like pleasuring and sharing with each other. Focus on that side of things for a while. Try reverse psychology. Tell her you are taking the day off. There will be romance and love and a lot of touching between you both. Massaging that type of gentle caress. Then tell her that she is not allowed to orgasm no matter what happens. It may work. If she is letting you, and loving it by the sounds of things, play with her anus, then there just seems to be a mental block. She may feel odd about the length of time it takes her to orgasm. You say she likes pleasure and pain, so tease the living daylights out of her without touching inbetween her legs at all. Dont got into her anus either. You may very well surprise yourself, and her :) We have another group which you are both welcome to join too if you are interested. It is for people who were sexually abused or whom have or still are experiencing incest. You can ask questions on there about your thoughts on her having been molested. It may help. The link is sexabuseandincest.mywowbb.com/ Princess
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