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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. I'm back!\n\nLink to the old threads I made here.\n\nSo, I'll get you up to speed with the details.\n\nI did a lot of thinking over the holiday break about this. We saw each other a few times with other people, since it was almost impossible to get her to do something with her alone. (And the other guy from the previous thread also *HAD* to come along.\n\nI came to the conclusion after she went away for a few weeks away from contact, that she was not interested in having any sort of relationship with me. I decided to just sweep it under the mat and let it fade away, and she did not bring up anything about it again. \n\nMe being me, I kept some sort of hope that maybe something would turn around and she would reconsider, but I wouldn't be as 'devoted' as I was before about it. \n\nSo we finally get back to school after the long break and she has been definitely acting a lot differently towards and around me for the last six weeks. She is talking to me a lot more, interacting with me a lot more, actually responding to messages and instigating conversations with me instead of me having to start everything, but it is still somewhat obvious that she still likes my other friend (almost forgot: I, in my stupidity, convinced her to ask him out before she left for two weeks before the holidays, to which he politely declined.)\n\nSo I am wondering, is this just a coincidence or could it possibly lead to something else? I don't want to get my hopes up with this but at the same time I also don't want to possibly miss out on an opportunity.\n\nAlso as a side note: The final formal dance is coming up in a few months. Depending on how this all turns out, could that be a possibility for me to ask her to it to spend some time with her?\nAm I just over thinking this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. I'm back!\n\nLink to the old threads I made here.\n\nSo, I'll get you up to speed with the details.\n\nI did a lot of thinking over the holiday break about this. We saw each other a few times with other people, since it was almost impossible to get her to do something with her alone. (And the other guy from the previous thread also *HAD* to come along.\n\nI came to the conclusion after she went away for a few weeks away from contact, that she was not interested in having any sort of relationship with me. I decided to just sweep it under the mat and let it fade away, and she did not bring up anything about it again. \n\nMe being me, I kept some sort of hope that maybe something would turn around and she would reconsider, but I wouldn't be as 'devoted' as I was before about it. \n\nSo we finally get back to school after the long break and she has been definitely acting a lot differently towards and around me for the last six weeks. She is talking to me a lot more, interacting with me a lot more, actually responding to messages and instigating conversations with me instead of me having to start everything, but it is still somewhat obvious that she still likes my other friend (almost forgot: I, in my stupidity, convinced her to ask him out before she left for two weeks before the holidays, to which he politely declined.)\n\nSo I am wondering, is this just a coincidence or could it possibly lead to something else? I don't want to get my hopes up with this but at the same time I also don't want to possibly miss out on an opportunity.\n\nAlso as a side note: The final formal dance is coming up in a few months. Depending on how this all turns out, could that be a possibility for me to ask her to it to spend some time with her?\nAm I just over thinking this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. I'm back!\n\nLink to the old threads I made here.\n\nSo, I'll get you up to speed with the details.\n\nI did a lot of thinking over the holiday break about this. We saw each other a few times with other people, since it was almost impossible to get her to do something with her alone. (And the other guy from the previous thread also *HAD* to come along.\n\nI came to the conclusion after she went away for a few weeks away from contact, that she was not interested in having any sort of relationship with me. I decided to just sweep it under the mat and let it fade away, and she did not bring up anything about it again. \n\nMe being me, I kept some sort of hope that maybe something would turn around and she would reconsider, but I wouldn't be as 'devoted' as I was before about it. \n\nSo we finally get back to school after the long break and she has been definitely acting a lot differently towards and around me for the last six weeks. She is talking to me a lot more, interacting with me a lot more, actually responding to messages and instigating conversations with me instead of me having to start everything, but it is still somewhat obvious that she still likes my other friend (almost forgot: I, in my stupidity, convinced her to ask him out before she left for two weeks before the holidays, to which he politely declined.)\n\nSo I am wondering, is this just a coincidence or could it possibly lead to something else? I don't want to get my hopes up with this but at the same time I also don't want to possibly miss out on an opportunity.\n\nAlso as a side note: The final formal dance is coming up in a few months. Depending on how this all turns out, could that be a possibility for me to ask her to it to spend some time with her?\nAm I just over thinking this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. I'm back!\n\nLink to the old threads I made here.\n\nSo, I'll get you up to speed with the details.\n\nI did a lot of thinking over the holiday break about this. We saw each other a few times with other people, since it was almost impossible to get her to do something with her alone. (And the other guy from the previous thread also *HAD* to come along.\n\nI came to the conclusion after she went away for a few weeks away from contact, that she was not interested in having any sort of relationship with me. I decided to just sweep it under the mat and let it fade away, and she did not bring up anything about it again. \n\nMe being me, I kept some sort of hope that maybe something would turn around and she would reconsider, but I wouldn't be as 'devoted' as I was before about it. \n\nSo we finally get back to school after the long break and she has been definitely acting a lot differently towards and around me for the last six weeks. She is talking to me a lot more, interacting with me a lot more, actually responding to messages and instigating conversations with me instead of me having to start everything, but it is still somewhat obvious that she still likes my other friend (almost forgot: I, in my stupidity, convinced her to ask him out before she left for two weeks before the holidays, to which he politely declined.)\n\nSo I am wondering, is this just a coincidence or could it possibly lead to something else? I don't want to get my hopes up with this but at the same time I also don't want to possibly miss out on an opportunity.\n\nAlso as a side note: The final formal dance is coming up in a few months. Depending on how this all turns out, could that be a possibility for me to ask her to it to spend some time with her?\nAm I just over thinking this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi PF,\n\nA little background - I'm a contract based engineer a few years out of college. I have a few hundred dollars in the bank and just found out that my next contract doesn't begin for several months. I'm trying to find and extend my revenue sources, i.e. take on contracts with other companies, work another job? etc. EITHER WAY I need to pay the rent and don't have enough to do so. I feel like my choices are skip a payment on my phone or electrical bill, eat only ramen (and not often at that), skip a rent payment and risk getting evicted or go to a fast money place like PayDay Loans or something like it. I've heard that those places are super dangerous, but don't really have any good options right now.\n\nIf anyone has any advice, or a positive story about one of those places, I'd appreciate it. Rent is due on Monday and I'm running out of options.\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi PF,\n\nA little background - I'm a contract based engineer a few years out of college. I have a few hundred dollars in the bank and just found out that my next contract doesn't begin for several months. I'm trying to find and extend my revenue sources, i.e. take on contracts with other companies, work another job? etc. EITHER WAY I need to pay the rent and don't have enough to do so. I feel like my choices are skip a payment on my phone or electrical bill, eat only ramen (and not often at that), skip a rent payment and risk getting evicted or go to a fast money place like PayDay Loans or something like it. I've heard that those places are super dangerous, but don't really have any good options right now.\n\nIf anyone has any advice, or a positive story about one of those places, I'd appreciate it. Rent is due on Monday and I'm running out of options.\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi PF,\n\nA little background - I'm a contract based engineer a few years out of college. I have a few hundred dollars in the bank and just found out that my next contract doesn't begin for several months. I'm trying to find and extend my revenue sources, i.e. take on contracts with other companies, work another job? etc. EITHER WAY I need to pay the rent and don't have enough to do so. I feel like my choices are skip a payment on my phone or electrical bill, eat only ramen (and not often at that), skip a rent payment and risk getting evicted or go to a fast money place like PayDay Loans or something like it. I've heard that those places are super dangerous, but don't really have any good options right now.\n\nIf anyone has any advice, or a positive story about one of those places, I'd appreciate it. Rent is due on Monday and I'm running out of options.\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi PF,\n\nA little background - I'm a contract based engineer a few years out of college. I have a few hundred dollars in the bank and just found out that my next contract doesn't begin for several months. I'm trying to find and extend my revenue sources, i.e. take on contracts with other companies, work another job? etc. EITHER WAY I need to pay the rent and don't have enough to do so. I feel like my choices are skip a payment on my phone or electrical bill, eat only ramen (and not often at that), skip a rent payment and risk getting evicted or go to a fast money place like PayDay Loans or something like it. I've heard that those places are super dangerous, but don't really have any good options right now.\n\nIf anyone has any advice, or a positive story about one of those places, I'd appreciate it. Rent is due on Monday and I'm running out of options.\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the thing there's this girl (17)that I \n(17) like and have liked for a few years I'm good friends with her and I've known she has liked me recently in the past and I want to ask her out but I'm to afraid of ruining anything I'm not sure if she likes me right now but it is possible I've really liked her for three years now and she knows that I have liked her in the past its possible that we booth like each other right know but don't know it She always brings the best out of me and I've always liked her a little bit even when I was dating other girls a I've never felt This way about a girl in the past she always brings the best out in me and I always have a good time with her but I don't want to ruin anything cause we are great friends but I still want to date her and have something lasting with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the thing there's this girl (17)that I \n(17) like and have liked for a few years I'm good friends with her and I've known she has liked me recently in the past and I want to ask her out but I'm to afraid of ruining anything I'm not sure if she likes me right now but it is possible I've really liked her for three years now and she knows that I have liked her in the past its possible that we booth like each other right know but don't know it She always brings the best out of me and I've always liked her a little bit even when I was dating other girls a I've never felt This way about a girl in the past she always brings the best out in me and I always have a good time with her but I don't want to ruin anything cause we are great friends but I still want to date her and have something lasting with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the thing there's this girl (17)that I \n(17) like and have liked for a few years I'm good friends with her and I've known she has liked me recently in the past and I want to ask her out but I'm to afraid of ruining anything I'm not sure if she likes me right now but it is possible I've really liked her for three years now and she knows that I have liked her in the past its possible that we booth like each other right know but don't know it She always brings the best out of me and I've always liked her a little bit even when I was dating other girls a I've never felt This way about a girl in the past she always brings the best out in me and I always have a good time with her but I don't want to ruin anything cause we are great friends but I still want to date her and have something lasting with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the thing there's this girl (17)that I \n(17) like and have liked for a few years I'm good friends with her and I've known she has liked me recently in the past and I want to ask her out but I'm to afraid of ruining anything I'm not sure if she likes me right now but it is possible I've really liked her for three years now and she knows that I have liked her in the past its possible that we booth like each other right know but don't know it She always brings the best out of me and I've always liked her a little bit even when I was dating other girls a I've never felt This way about a girl in the past she always brings the best out in me and I always have a good time with her but I don't want to ruin anything cause we are great friends but I still want to date her and have something lasting with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I are in the process of buying this great old victorian house, which really has a lot of character. It's about 5,500 square feet and is the last house left from long ago when our street was prime real estate.\n\nOur house is built on the bank of a river, which a hundred years ago was a major canal. All the other mansions have since burnt down or been knocked down, so we really have a chance to make our house the most striking house in the whole town. But we need Reddit's help!\n\nHere is our [house]( I hope you will appreciate the photo quality achievable on today's state-of-the-art potato. We would appreciate any advice you can give us to help make it a little more impressive.\n\nSome thoughts:\n\n* The trim color is currently some kind of bland green (with a beige-ish secondary trim color around the windows). Is there something less blah we could use that would mesh well with the brick?\n\n* I feel like there is something. missing. from the windows on the front of the house. They are just flat and boring. Should we add shutters? Window boxes? Some kind of awning?\n\n* My wife thinks we should add some [medallions](\n\n* The garden, as we inherited it, is just a mess of bushy ground cover. What kind of plants should we replace them? We are in south-central Pennsylvania, so about USDA hardiness zone 6 or 7.\n\n* Bonus: The [back yard]( is also just a mess. Here's an [alternate view]( Advice?\n\nSure, we could hire a landscape or some kind of exterior designer (does that exist?), but there is no where in the world we can get the kind of knowledge that Reddit can provide. This project is going to take months, but I promise to update along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I are in the process of buying this great old victorian house, which really has a lot of character. It's about 5,500 square feet and is the last house left from long ago when our street was prime real estate.\n\nOur house is built on the bank of a river, which a hundred years ago was a major canal. All the other mansions have since burnt down or been knocked down, so we really have a chance to make our house the most striking house in the whole town. But we need Reddit's help!\n\nHere is our [house]( I hope you will appreciate the photo quality achievable on today's state-of-the-art potato. We would appreciate any advice you can give us to help make it a little more impressive.\n\nSome thoughts:\n\n* The trim color is currently some kind of bland green (with a beige-ish secondary trim color around the windows). Is there something less blah we could use that would mesh well with the brick?\n\n* I feel like there is something. missing. from the windows on the front of the house. They are just flat and boring. Should we add shutters? Window boxes? Some kind of awning?\n\n* My wife thinks we should add some [medallions](\n\n* The garden, as we inherited it, is just a mess of bushy ground cover. What kind of plants should we replace them? We are in south-central Pennsylvania, so about USDA hardiness zone 6 or 7.\n\n* Bonus: The [back yard]( is also just a mess. Here's an [alternate view]( Advice?\n\nSure, we could hire a landscape or some kind of exterior designer (does that exist?), but there is no where in the world we can get the kind of knowledge that Reddit can provide. This project is going to take months, but I promise to update along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I are in the process of buying this great old victorian house, which really has a lot of character. It's about 5,500 square feet and is the last house left from long ago when our street was prime real estate.\n\nOur house is built on the bank of a river, which a hundred years ago was a major canal. All the other mansions have since burnt down or been knocked down, so we really have a chance to make our house the most striking house in the whole town. But we need Reddit's help!\n\nHere is our [house]( I hope you will appreciate the photo quality achievable on today's state-of-the-art potato. We would appreciate any advice you can give us to help make it a little more impressive.\n\nSome thoughts:\n\n* The trim color is currently some kind of bland green (with a beige-ish secondary trim color around the windows). Is there something less blah we could use that would mesh well with the brick?\n\n* I feel like there is something. missing. from the windows on the front of the house. They are just flat and boring. Should we add shutters? Window boxes? Some kind of awning?\n\n* My wife thinks we should add some [medallions](\n\n* The garden, as we inherited it, is just a mess of bushy ground cover. What kind of plants should we replace them? We are in south-central Pennsylvania, so about USDA hardiness zone 6 or 7.\n\n* Bonus: The [back yard]( is also just a mess. Here's an [alternate view]( Advice?\n\nSure, we could hire a landscape or some kind of exterior designer (does that exist?), but there is no where in the world we can get the kind of knowledge that Reddit can provide. This project is going to take months, but I promise to update along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I are in the process of buying this great old victorian house, which really has a lot of character. It's about 5,500 square feet and is the last house left from long ago when our street was prime real estate.\n\nOur house is built on the bank of a river, which a hundred years ago was a major canal. All the other mansions have since burnt down or been knocked down, so we really have a chance to make our house the most striking house in the whole town. But we need Reddit's help!\n\nHere is our [house]( I hope you will appreciate the photo quality achievable on today's state-of-the-art potato. We would appreciate any advice you can give us to help make it a little more impressive.\n\nSome thoughts:\n\n* The trim color is currently some kind of bland green (with a beige-ish secondary trim color around the windows). Is there something less blah we could use that would mesh well with the brick?\n\n* I feel like there is something. missing. from the windows on the front of the house. They are just flat and boring. Should we add shutters? Window boxes? Some kind of awning?\n\n* My wife thinks we should add some [medallions](\n\n* The garden, as we inherited it, is just a mess of bushy ground cover. What kind of plants should we replace them? We are in south-central Pennsylvania, so about USDA hardiness zone 6 or 7.\n\n* Bonus: The [back yard]( is also just a mess. Here's an [alternate view]( Advice?\n\nSure, we could hire a landscape or some kind of exterior designer (does that exist?), but there is no where in the world we can get the kind of knowledge that Reddit can provide. This project is going to take months, but I promise to update along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, I broke up with my now ex-gf of five years. We had been living together for 4 years. I felt that the relationship got to a point where I wasn't seeing her as a romantic partner anymore and I felt I needed space to work on myself. I was starting to experience some crippling anxiety and somewhat of a quarter-life crisis. \n \nSo I ended things, moved out, got a new place, started a new job, made an appointment for therapy, etc. The problem is, a couple months have passed and I find myself feeling very alone and full of regret. That she was very kind and caring, intelligent and mature. It feels like there is no going back though, she said I am the biggest asshole in her book and I probably deserve that. I unfriended her on FB, and stopped following her on social media to keep my mind off of her, but I can't help but feel melancholy, especially as I spend this holiday weekend alone. \n \nHow do I get past this? Has anyone else been in this type of situation? How did you deal with it? I don't really have a close friend base in the city I live in because I moved down here for work with my ex-gf and we were each others social circle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, I broke up with my now ex-gf of five years. We had been living together for 4 years. I felt that the relationship got to a point where I wasn't seeing her as a romantic partner anymore and I felt I needed space to work on myself. I was starting to experience some crippling anxiety and somewhat of a quarter-life crisis. \n \nSo I ended things, moved out, got a new place, started a new job, made an appointment for therapy, etc. The problem is, a couple months have passed and I find myself feeling very alone and full of regret. That she was very kind and caring, intelligent and mature. It feels like there is no going back though, she said I am the biggest asshole in her book and I probably deserve that. I unfriended her on FB, and stopped following her on social media to keep my mind off of her, but I can't help but feel melancholy, especially as I spend this holiday weekend alone. \n \nHow do I get past this? Has anyone else been in this type of situation? How did you deal with it? I don't really have a close friend base in the city I live in because I moved down here for work with my ex-gf and we were each others social circle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, I broke up with my now ex-gf of five years. We had been living together for 4 years. I felt that the relationship got to a point where I wasn't seeing her as a romantic partner anymore and I felt I needed space to work on myself. I was starting to experience some crippling anxiety and somewhat of a quarter-life crisis. \n \nSo I ended things, moved out, got a new place, started a new job, made an appointment for therapy, etc. The problem is, a couple months have passed and I find myself feeling very alone and full of regret. That she was very kind and caring, intelligent and mature. It feels like there is no going back though, she said I am the biggest asshole in her book and I probably deserve that. I unfriended her on FB, and stopped following her on social media to keep my mind off of her, but I can't help but feel melancholy, especially as I spend this holiday weekend alone. \n \nHow do I get past this? Has anyone else been in this type of situation? How did you deal with it? I don't really have a close friend base in the city I live in because I moved down here for work with my ex-gf and we were each others social circle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, I broke up with my now ex-gf of five years. We had been living together for 4 years. I felt that the relationship got to a point where I wasn't seeing her as a romantic partner anymore and I felt I needed space to work on myself. I was starting to experience some crippling anxiety and somewhat of a quarter-life crisis. \n \nSo I ended things, moved out, got a new place, started a new job, made an appointment for therapy, etc. The problem is, a couple months have passed and I find myself feeling very alone and full of regret. That she was very kind and caring, intelligent and mature. It feels like there is no going back though, she said I am the biggest asshole in her book and I probably deserve that. I unfriended her on FB, and stopped following her on social media to keep my mind off of her, but I can't help but feel melancholy, especially as I spend this holiday weekend alone. \n \nHow do I get past this? Has anyone else been in this type of situation? How did you deal with it? I don't really have a close friend base in the city I live in because I moved down here for work with my ex-gf and we were each others social circle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both 19 (I’m almost 20) and we have been dating almost 11 months. A bit of a background info: Last year at college I pretty much bombed because of not knowing how to study, and then I just lost all of my confidence and just couldn't do well until I got some help (which I did over the summer).\n\nFor this next school year, I wont be living in dorms. I have a very nice apartment. It is a loft style place in a brand new high rise very close to campus, making it very expensive. Right around $817 a month including utilities. My girlfriend on the other hand is still living in dorms because she has a full ride to her college (we go to different colleges) and room and board is included in that, so it would be silly for her to get an apartment.\n\nOne day my gf and I toured my apartment and she was just in awe, and the jealousy started to come out right away. I could tell she was bothered by it, and she even pointed out to the guy giving us the tour that my parents were paying for it, not me. She has made it very obvious she is jealous. She has been complaining to her parents about it, even to all of her coworkers, who happen to be mutual friends. \n\nI am very use to the whole jealousy thing. I've been a very privileged kid all my life and had to deal with it a lot growing up in a small destitute farm town. But I'm not use to dealing with it from a significant other.\n\nThe way she justifies her jealousy is that: \"why should you get an awesome apartment after doing so bad at school? Its like your parents are rewarding you for nothing.\" I've tried to explain to her that I'm not being rewarded, my parents can easily afford to put me up in a nice place, and the difference between it and the cost of dorms is just a few hundred dollars. But any reasoning I try doesn't seem to help. \n\nAnd even in comparison it’s almost the same price of room and board at the college I go to, about 10grand a year including a meal plan, but not that that really matters."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both 19 (I’m almost 20) and we have been dating almost 11 months. A bit of a background info: Last year at college I pretty much bombed because of not knowing how to study, and then I just lost all of my confidence and just couldn't do well until I got some help (which I did over the summer).\n\nFor this next school year, I wont be living in dorms. I have a very nice apartment. It is a loft style place in a brand new high rise very close to campus, making it very expensive. Right around $817 a month including utilities. My girlfriend on the other hand is still living in dorms because she has a full ride to her college (we go to different colleges) and room and board is included in that, so it would be silly for her to get an apartment.\n\nOne day my gf and I toured my apartment and she was just in awe, and the jealousy started to come out right away. I could tell she was bothered by it, and she even pointed out to the guy giving us the tour that my parents were paying for it, not me. She has made it very obvious she is jealous. She has been complaining to her parents about it, even to all of her coworkers, who happen to be mutual friends. \n\nI am very use to the whole jealousy thing. I've been a very privileged kid all my life and had to deal with it a lot growing up in a small destitute farm town. But I'm not use to dealing with it from a significant other.\n\nThe way she justifies her jealousy is that: \"why should you get an awesome apartment after doing so bad at school? Its like your parents are rewarding you for nothing.\" I've tried to explain to her that I'm not being rewarded, my parents can easily afford to put me up in a nice place, and the difference between it and the cost of dorms is just a few hundred dollars. But any reasoning I try doesn't seem to help. \n\nAnd even in comparison it’s almost the same price of room and board at the college I go to, about 10grand a year including a meal plan, but not that that really matters."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both 19 (I’m almost 20) and we have been dating almost 11 months. A bit of a background info: Last year at college I pretty much bombed because of not knowing how to study, and then I just lost all of my confidence and just couldn't do well until I got some help (which I did over the summer).\n\nFor this next school year, I wont be living in dorms. I have a very nice apartment. It is a loft style place in a brand new high rise very close to campus, making it very expensive. Right around $817 a month including utilities. My girlfriend on the other hand is still living in dorms because she has a full ride to her college (we go to different colleges) and room and board is included in that, so it would be silly for her to get an apartment.\n\nOne day my gf and I toured my apartment and she was just in awe, and the jealousy started to come out right away. I could tell she was bothered by it, and she even pointed out to the guy giving us the tour that my parents were paying for it, not me. She has made it very obvious she is jealous. She has been complaining to her parents about it, even to all of her coworkers, who happen to be mutual friends. \n\nI am very use to the whole jealousy thing. I've been a very privileged kid all my life and had to deal with it a lot growing up in a small destitute farm town. But I'm not use to dealing with it from a significant other.\n\nThe way she justifies her jealousy is that: \"why should you get an awesome apartment after doing so bad at school? Its like your parents are rewarding you for nothing.\" I've tried to explain to her that I'm not being rewarded, my parents can easily afford to put me up in a nice place, and the difference between it and the cost of dorms is just a few hundred dollars. But any reasoning I try doesn't seem to help. \n\nAnd even in comparison it’s almost the same price of room and board at the college I go to, about 10grand a year including a meal plan, but not that that really matters."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both 19 (I’m almost 20) and we have been dating almost 11 months. A bit of a background info: Last year at college I pretty much bombed because of not knowing how to study, and then I just lost all of my confidence and just couldn't do well until I got some help (which I did over the summer).\n\nFor this next school year, I wont be living in dorms. I have a very nice apartment. It is a loft style place in a brand new high rise very close to campus, making it very expensive. Right around $817 a month including utilities. My girlfriend on the other hand is still living in dorms because she has a full ride to her college (we go to different colleges) and room and board is included in that, so it would be silly for her to get an apartment.\n\nOne day my gf and I toured my apartment and she was just in awe, and the jealousy started to come out right away. I could tell she was bothered by it, and she even pointed out to the guy giving us the tour that my parents were paying for it, not me. She has made it very obvious she is jealous. She has been complaining to her parents about it, even to all of her coworkers, who happen to be mutual friends. \n\nI am very use to the whole jealousy thing. I've been a very privileged kid all my life and had to deal with it a lot growing up in a small destitute farm town. But I'm not use to dealing with it from a significant other.\n\nThe way she justifies her jealousy is that: \"why should you get an awesome apartment after doing so bad at school? Its like your parents are rewarding you for nothing.\" I've tried to explain to her that I'm not being rewarded, my parents can easily afford to put me up in a nice place, and the difference between it and the cost of dorms is just a few hundred dollars. But any reasoning I try doesn't seem to help. \n\nAnd even in comparison it’s almost the same price of room and board at the college I go to, about 10grand a year including a meal plan, but not that that really matters."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I bought a 1980 CX500 (Custom) in cash on craigslist, because it was a sweet deal, the bike is in good mechanical condition, and I've always wanted a toy to restore. Here's the thing- this is the first vehicle I've ever purchased, and I was pretty fuzzy on the titling laws. I live in California, and I'm pretty sure that this transaction was technically illegal. He couldn't provide the title, and assured me this would not be a problem with the DMV. I figured I'd treat it like an abandoned vehicle- you know, claim it was left by a former renter, etc. and apply for a new title.\n\nI don't think it ACTUALLY works that way, but such is life. I bought the thing, love it, and want to ride it. \n\nBefore I can do anything, I need the title. or at least obtain a new one. \n\nyou guys got anything? Am I screwed? I'm willing to swallow the bad news: that I bought a bike I don't legally own."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I bought a 1980 CX500 (Custom) in cash on craigslist, because it was a sweet deal, the bike is in good mechanical condition, and I've always wanted a toy to restore. Here's the thing- this is the first vehicle I've ever purchased, and I was pretty fuzzy on the titling laws. I live in California, and I'm pretty sure that this transaction was technically illegal. He couldn't provide the title, and assured me this would not be a problem with the DMV. I figured I'd treat it like an abandoned vehicle- you know, claim it was left by a former renter, etc. and apply for a new title.\n\nI don't think it ACTUALLY works that way, but such is life. I bought the thing, love it, and want to ride it. \n\nBefore I can do anything, I need the title. or at least obtain a new one. \n\nyou guys got anything? Am I screwed? I'm willing to swallow the bad news: that I bought a bike I don't legally own."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I bought a 1980 CX500 (Custom) in cash on craigslist, because it was a sweet deal, the bike is in good mechanical condition, and I've always wanted a toy to restore. Here's the thing- this is the first vehicle I've ever purchased, and I was pretty fuzzy on the titling laws. I live in California, and I'm pretty sure that this transaction was technically illegal. He couldn't provide the title, and assured me this would not be a problem with the DMV. I figured I'd treat it like an abandoned vehicle- you know, claim it was left by a former renter, etc. and apply for a new title.\n\nI don't think it ACTUALLY works that way, but such is life. I bought the thing, love it, and want to ride it. \n\nBefore I can do anything, I need the title. or at least obtain a new one. \n\nyou guys got anything? Am I screwed? I'm willing to swallow the bad news: that I bought a bike I don't legally own."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I bought a 1980 CX500 (Custom) in cash on craigslist, because it was a sweet deal, the bike is in good mechanical condition, and I've always wanted a toy to restore. Here's the thing- this is the first vehicle I've ever purchased, and I was pretty fuzzy on the titling laws. I live in California, and I'm pretty sure that this transaction was technically illegal. He couldn't provide the title, and assured me this would not be a problem with the DMV. I figured I'd treat it like an abandoned vehicle- you know, claim it was left by a former renter, etc. and apply for a new title.\n\nI don't think it ACTUALLY works that way, but such is life. I bought the thing, love it, and want to ride it. \n\nBefore I can do anything, I need the title. or at least obtain a new one. \n\nyou guys got anything? Am I screwed? I'm willing to swallow the bad news: that I bought a bike I don't legally own."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship is going great in all other aspects except for her living with her parents due to not wanting to live together until married.\n\nShe liked to sleep in pajamas that are a little larger than her so from time to time I'll surprise her with pajamas or other clothing of her size and hide it somewhere in her room that I know she'll check daily. So, I found these pajamas that she told me she really liked (I got them for her about a year ago) and this time they were in her favorite color. I'm happy that I randomly stumbled upon them on my walk home and I enter the store and buy them immediately without checking the size. It was XX instead of just X and when she found it in her room she came out crying asking if I was calling her fat. This was in no way shape or form what I was trying to do and I explained that, however, she is gaining weight and I'm starting to get worried. I'm fine with her body as is but if she keeps gaining weight I'm worried about any health issues and also that I might not be attracted to her physically if she gains too much.\n\nI don't know how to mention this seeing as how I previously told her I don't mind her weight.\n\nedit:\nJust to clarify, I bought her pajamas a year ago. They were size X, she loved them. This year I found them in her favorite color and bought them in XX by mistake. She asked if I was calling her fat to which I said no, because I wasn't. It's been 5 months and she has not stopped gaining weight since then. Her weight 5 months ago didn't matter to me, but if it keeps increasing then it will."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship is going great in all other aspects except for her living with her parents due to not wanting to live together until married.\n\nShe liked to sleep in pajamas that are a little larger than her so from time to time I'll surprise her with pajamas or other clothing of her size and hide it somewhere in her room that I know she'll check daily. So, I found these pajamas that she told me she really liked (I got them for her about a year ago) and this time they were in her favorite color. I'm happy that I randomly stumbled upon them on my walk home and I enter the store and buy them immediately without checking the size. It was XX instead of just X and when she found it in her room she came out crying asking if I was calling her fat. This was in no way shape or form what I was trying to do and I explained that, however, she is gaining weight and I'm starting to get worried. I'm fine with her body as is but if she keeps gaining weight I'm worried about any health issues and also that I might not be attracted to her physically if she gains too much.\n\nI don't know how to mention this seeing as how I previously told her I don't mind her weight.\n\nedit:\nJust to clarify, I bought her pajamas a year ago. They were size X, she loved them. This year I found them in her favorite color and bought them in XX by mistake. She asked if I was calling her fat to which I said no, because I wasn't. It's been 5 months and she has not stopped gaining weight since then. Her weight 5 months ago didn't matter to me, but if it keeps increasing then it will."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship is going great in all other aspects except for her living with her parents due to not wanting to live together until married.\n\nShe liked to sleep in pajamas that are a little larger than her so from time to time I'll surprise her with pajamas or other clothing of her size and hide it somewhere in her room that I know she'll check daily. So, I found these pajamas that she told me she really liked (I got them for her about a year ago) and this time they were in her favorite color. I'm happy that I randomly stumbled upon them on my walk home and I enter the store and buy them immediately without checking the size. It was XX instead of just X and when she found it in her room she came out crying asking if I was calling her fat. This was in no way shape or form what I was trying to do and I explained that, however, she is gaining weight and I'm starting to get worried. I'm fine with her body as is but if she keeps gaining weight I'm worried about any health issues and also that I might not be attracted to her physically if she gains too much.\n\nI don't know how to mention this seeing as how I previously told her I don't mind her weight.\n\nedit:\nJust to clarify, I bought her pajamas a year ago. They were size X, she loved them. This year I found them in her favorite color and bought them in XX by mistake. She asked if I was calling her fat to which I said no, because I wasn't. It's been 5 months and she has not stopped gaining weight since then. Her weight 5 months ago didn't matter to me, but if it keeps increasing then it will."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship is going great in all other aspects except for her living with her parents due to not wanting to live together until married.\n\nShe liked to sleep in pajamas that are a little larger than her so from time to time I'll surprise her with pajamas or other clothing of her size and hide it somewhere in her room that I know she'll check daily. So, I found these pajamas that she told me she really liked (I got them for her about a year ago) and this time they were in her favorite color. I'm happy that I randomly stumbled upon them on my walk home and I enter the store and buy them immediately without checking the size. It was XX instead of just X and when she found it in her room she came out crying asking if I was calling her fat. This was in no way shape or form what I was trying to do and I explained that, however, she is gaining weight and I'm starting to get worried. I'm fine with her body as is but if she keeps gaining weight I'm worried about any health issues and also that I might not be attracted to her physically if she gains too much.\n\nI don't know how to mention this seeing as how I previously told her I don't mind her weight.\n\nedit:\nJust to clarify, I bought her pajamas a year ago. They were size X, she loved them. This year I found them in her favorite color and bought them in XX by mistake. She asked if I was calling her fat to which I said no, because I wasn't. It's been 5 months and she has not stopped gaining weight since then. Her weight 5 months ago didn't matter to me, but if it keeps increasing then it will."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not a native speaker so I apologise for all errors in this text.\n\nSo yesterday my girlfriend came over for the night, but just after dinner she said we needed to talk. This week has already been a pretty rough week and I kind of felt this all coming. We went to my room and sat down on my couch. There she told me that she still loves me, but isn't in love with me anymore. \n\nI already thought something was going on, because lately she has been very distant and acting increasingly annoyed by the things I do.\nShe told me that I am the greatest guy and that she feels like shit for it, but she can't be in a relationship with me without actually being in love. \n\nWell, this conversation lasted for a bit, and in the end she wanted us to take a break. She doesn't want to see other people or anything, she just needs to think. I really don't want our relationship to end, she is my first serious girlfriend and we've been through so much.\n\nI decided to agree with a 2 week to 1 month break, but I feel really empty and I just don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend really much, and I know that the feeling of being in love fades. In my case it fades but it comes back at times and it's almost never gone completely.\n\nI keep checking my phone to see if she sent me a message. I just want to be with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not a native speaker so I apologise for all errors in this text.\n\nSo yesterday my girlfriend came over for the night, but just after dinner she said we needed to talk. This week has already been a pretty rough week and I kind of felt this all coming. We went to my room and sat down on my couch. There she told me that she still loves me, but isn't in love with me anymore. \n\nI already thought something was going on, because lately she has been very distant and acting increasingly annoyed by the things I do.\nShe told me that I am the greatest guy and that she feels like shit for it, but she can't be in a relationship with me without actually being in love. \n\nWell, this conversation lasted for a bit, and in the end she wanted us to take a break. She doesn't want to see other people or anything, she just needs to think. I really don't want our relationship to end, she is my first serious girlfriend and we've been through so much.\n\nI decided to agree with a 2 week to 1 month break, but I feel really empty and I just don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend really much, and I know that the feeling of being in love fades. In my case it fades but it comes back at times and it's almost never gone completely.\n\nI keep checking my phone to see if she sent me a message. I just want to be with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not a native speaker so I apologise for all errors in this text.\n\nSo yesterday my girlfriend came over for the night, but just after dinner she said we needed to talk. This week has already been a pretty rough week and I kind of felt this all coming. We went to my room and sat down on my couch. There she told me that she still loves me, but isn't in love with me anymore. \n\nI already thought something was going on, because lately she has been very distant and acting increasingly annoyed by the things I do.\nShe told me that I am the greatest guy and that she feels like shit for it, but she can't be in a relationship with me without actually being in love. \n\nWell, this conversation lasted for a bit, and in the end she wanted us to take a break. She doesn't want to see other people or anything, she just needs to think. I really don't want our relationship to end, she is my first serious girlfriend and we've been through so much.\n\nI decided to agree with a 2 week to 1 month break, but I feel really empty and I just don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend really much, and I know that the feeling of being in love fades. In my case it fades but it comes back at times and it's almost never gone completely.\n\nI keep checking my phone to see if she sent me a message. I just want to be with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not a native speaker so I apologise for all errors in this text.\n\nSo yesterday my girlfriend came over for the night, but just after dinner she said we needed to talk. This week has already been a pretty rough week and I kind of felt this all coming. We went to my room and sat down on my couch. There she told me that she still loves me, but isn't in love with me anymore. \n\nI already thought something was going on, because lately she has been very distant and acting increasingly annoyed by the things I do.\nShe told me that I am the greatest guy and that she feels like shit for it, but she can't be in a relationship with me without actually being in love. \n\nWell, this conversation lasted for a bit, and in the end she wanted us to take a break. She doesn't want to see other people or anything, she just needs to think. I really don't want our relationship to end, she is my first serious girlfriend and we've been through so much.\n\nI decided to agree with a 2 week to 1 month break, but I feel really empty and I just don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend really much, and I know that the feeling of being in love fades. In my case it fades but it comes back at times and it's almost never gone completely.\n\nI keep checking my phone to see if she sent me a message. I just want to be with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I'm a college sophomore in Chicago and need some help building my credit. I currently have none that I know of, and need to at least start building it now, as I'm going to be moving out of University housing this summer. \n\nBoth of my parents have amazing credit scores (I forget their numbers, but the last time I went in with my Dad to buy a car with him, the salesman was shocked at the score he saw.) Anyway I'd rather like to be like them, and not screw myself over now and be paying for it forever. \n\nI was thinking that the best thing I could do would be to get a credit card and pay off the balance each month, no if, ands, or buts, to start building my score up. My parents cover food, \"normal expenses\" (staples, dishes, textbooks, sheets. not \"fun\" stuff,) and my college costs (housing included.) I have one job that I pull in around $200 a month from working with an old roommate I had (ebay listing) and am working as a STA for 9.50 an hour at Smest Buy as well. \n\nWhat cards would ya'll recommend (I have my Checking and Savings with Chase, but I figured there would be better options out there for people in my situation?) Also, if there were other things I could to do start building a solid history now, what would those be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I'm a college sophomore in Chicago and need some help building my credit. I currently have none that I know of, and need to at least start building it now, as I'm going to be moving out of University housing this summer. \n\nBoth of my parents have amazing credit scores (I forget their numbers, but the last time I went in with my Dad to buy a car with him, the salesman was shocked at the score he saw.) Anyway I'd rather like to be like them, and not screw myself over now and be paying for it forever. \n\nI was thinking that the best thing I could do would be to get a credit card and pay off the balance each month, no if, ands, or buts, to start building my score up. My parents cover food, \"normal expenses\" (staples, dishes, textbooks, sheets. not \"fun\" stuff,) and my college costs (housing included.) I have one job that I pull in around $200 a month from working with an old roommate I had (ebay listing) and am working as a STA for 9.50 an hour at Smest Buy as well. \n\nWhat cards would ya'll recommend (I have my Checking and Savings with Chase, but I figured there would be better options out there for people in my situation?) Also, if there were other things I could to do start building a solid history now, what would those be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I'm a college sophomore in Chicago and need some help building my credit. I currently have none that I know of, and need to at least start building it now, as I'm going to be moving out of University housing this summer. \n\nBoth of my parents have amazing credit scores (I forget their numbers, but the last time I went in with my Dad to buy a car with him, the salesman was shocked at the score he saw.) Anyway I'd rather like to be like them, and not screw myself over now and be paying for it forever. \n\nI was thinking that the best thing I could do would be to get a credit card and pay off the balance each month, no if, ands, or buts, to start building my score up. My parents cover food, \"normal expenses\" (staples, dishes, textbooks, sheets. not \"fun\" stuff,) and my college costs (housing included.) I have one job that I pull in around $200 a month from working with an old roommate I had (ebay listing) and am working as a STA for 9.50 an hour at Smest Buy as well. \n\nWhat cards would ya'll recommend (I have my Checking and Savings with Chase, but I figured there would be better options out there for people in my situation?) Also, if there were other things I could to do start building a solid history now, what would those be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I'm a college sophomore in Chicago and need some help building my credit. I currently have none that I know of, and need to at least start building it now, as I'm going to be moving out of University housing this summer. \n\nBoth of my parents have amazing credit scores (I forget their numbers, but the last time I went in with my Dad to buy a car with him, the salesman was shocked at the score he saw.) Anyway I'd rather like to be like them, and not screw myself over now and be paying for it forever. \n\nI was thinking that the best thing I could do would be to get a credit card and pay off the balance each month, no if, ands, or buts, to start building my score up. My parents cover food, \"normal expenses\" (staples, dishes, textbooks, sheets. not \"fun\" stuff,) and my college costs (housing included.) I have one job that I pull in around $200 a month from working with an old roommate I had (ebay listing) and am working as a STA for 9.50 an hour at Smest Buy as well. \n\nWhat cards would ya'll recommend (I have my Checking and Savings with Chase, but I figured there would be better options out there for people in my situation?) Also, if there were other things I could to do start building a solid history now, what would those be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Friday was my girlfriend's birthday. She worked during the daytime and her teenage daughter got her tickets to go to a comedy show all evening which started not too long after she got out of work, so I didn't think I would see her at all on her actual birthday. Therefore, I celebrated with her the evening before. I had reservations to a restaurant I thought she would love, but ended up cancelling them and having dinner at home at her request because she didn't feel well. I gave her the gifts, we had a cake, and we spent a nice relaxing night together at home. She's quite a homebody, and often states that she doesn't like going out. She has said several times she doesn't like shows, concerts, etc very much. The next day (her actual birthday) I unexpectedly got to see her for about an hour and a half between work and leaving with her daughter to attend the show all evening. Late that night she sent me some very unhappy texts about the fact that I had done absolutely nothing at all for her birthday and she couldn't believe I would do such a thing. She made a comment that \"even if I gave you your presents the day before your birthday I would still give you a little something on your birthday.\" \n\nI feel really awful. I regret not getting flowers or something at the very least. I love her more than anything, and I didn't want to intrude on her \"mother-daughter\" time. She doesn't get to spend a lot of time with her daughter since they are both very busy, and I thought the night together would mean a lot to them. She always says she doesn't like to go out, so I thought I was doing what she wanted by having a nice night at home. She seemed extremely happy at the time. I was really hit out of the blue when she blasted me for not doing anything on her real birthday, \"not even flowers.\" \n\nAny suggestions? I don't know where to begin fixing this awful misread :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) \nWell, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with \"HE KEPT STARING AT ME\" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed.\nThinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something. or maybe autistic? I dont know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) \nWell, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with \"HE KEPT STARING AT ME\" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed.\nThinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something. or maybe autistic? I dont know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) \nWell, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with \"HE KEPT STARING AT ME\" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed.\nThinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something. or maybe autistic? I dont know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) \nWell, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with \"HE KEPT STARING AT ME\" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed.\nThinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something. or maybe autistic? I dont know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend M[26] and I F[21] have been together for 2 years and lived together for about a year. He has been wanting me to have anal sex with him, in which I've tried 3 times, resulting in feeling violated and lots of tears. \nHe keeps looking at porn claiming it is because I won't have anal sex with him and he can be satisfied by just watching it. It really upsets me that he looks at porn so I've told him many times that I feel de-valued, cheated on and completely disrespected when he does it.\nI've taken steps with him to get to the point where I might be comfortable with it in the future (toys and whatnot) but I have trouble seeing it happening. The fact that he won't stop looking at porn is taking a huge toll on the relationship so I've offered to give him whatever videos or pictures of me he would like (but I'm afraid it won't be enough). I need some advice, is he asking for too much? Or am I too much of a prude?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend M[26] and I F[21] have been together for 2 years and lived together for about a year. He has been wanting me to have anal sex with him, in which I've tried 3 times, resulting in feeling violated and lots of tears. \nHe keeps looking at porn claiming it is because I won't have anal sex with him and he can be satisfied by just watching it. It really upsets me that he looks at porn so I've told him many times that I feel de-valued, cheated on and completely disrespected when he does it.\nI've taken steps with him to get to the point where I might be comfortable with it in the future (toys and whatnot) but I have trouble seeing it happening. The fact that he won't stop looking at porn is taking a huge toll on the relationship so I've offered to give him whatever videos or pictures of me he would like (but I'm afraid it won't be enough). I need some advice, is he asking for too much? Or am I too much of a prude?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend M[26] and I F[21] have been together for 2 years and lived together for about a year. He has been wanting me to have anal sex with him, in which I've tried 3 times, resulting in feeling violated and lots of tears. \nHe keeps looking at porn claiming it is because I won't have anal sex with him and he can be satisfied by just watching it. It really upsets me that he looks at porn so I've told him many times that I feel de-valued, cheated on and completely disrespected when he does it.\nI've taken steps with him to get to the point where I might be comfortable with it in the future (toys and whatnot) but I have trouble seeing it happening. The fact that he won't stop looking at porn is taking a huge toll on the relationship so I've offered to give him whatever videos or pictures of me he would like (but I'm afraid it won't be enough). I need some advice, is he asking for too much? Or am I too much of a prude?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend M[26] and I F[21] have been together for 2 years and lived together for about a year. He has been wanting me to have anal sex with him, in which I've tried 3 times, resulting in feeling violated and lots of tears. \nHe keeps looking at porn claiming it is because I won't have anal sex with him and he can be satisfied by just watching it. It really upsets me that he looks at porn so I've told him many times that I feel de-valued, cheated on and completely disrespected when he does it.\nI've taken steps with him to get to the point where I might be comfortable with it in the future (toys and whatnot) but I have trouble seeing it happening. The fact that he won't stop looking at porn is taking a huge toll on the relationship so I've offered to give him whatever videos or pictures of me he would like (but I'm afraid it won't be enough). I need some advice, is he asking for too much? Or am I too much of a prude?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically; I have been into my friend for a long time now, but since I have known her she has had a boyfriend. They were in a pretty committed relationship for about 1.5/2 years, but today I found out that they have split up.\n\nI noticed that my friend wasn't their usual self today though (very quiet where they would otherwise be talking your ear off), but they got better as the day went on. I don't know the details of their breakup though, as I thought it better not to ask (ie. Who broke up with whom/was it mutual? Why did they break up? etc.)\n\nI was wondering how long should I wait before saying anything to her? I feel like I should give her time to just get her head straight, and even to just be single for a while after being in a long term relationship; but how long should I wait? I don't want to be so quick as to come off badly, but also don't want to wait too long as I highly doubt she wouldn't have anyone else that was into her.\n\nWhat do you think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically; I have been into my friend for a long time now, but since I have known her she has had a boyfriend. They were in a pretty committed relationship for about 1.5/2 years, but today I found out that they have split up.\n\nI noticed that my friend wasn't their usual self today though (very quiet where they would otherwise be talking your ear off), but they got better as the day went on. I don't know the details of their breakup though, as I thought it better not to ask (ie. Who broke up with whom/was it mutual? Why did they break up? etc.)\n\nI was wondering how long should I wait before saying anything to her? I feel like I should give her time to just get her head straight, and even to just be single for a while after being in a long term relationship; but how long should I wait? I don't want to be so quick as to come off badly, but also don't want to wait too long as I highly doubt she wouldn't have anyone else that was into her.\n\nWhat do you think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically; I have been into my friend for a long time now, but since I have known her she has had a boyfriend. They were in a pretty committed relationship for about 1.5/2 years, but today I found out that they have split up.\n\nI noticed that my friend wasn't their usual self today though (very quiet where they would otherwise be talking your ear off), but they got better as the day went on. I don't know the details of their breakup though, as I thought it better not to ask (ie. Who broke up with whom/was it mutual? Why did they break up? etc.)\n\nI was wondering how long should I wait before saying anything to her? I feel like I should give her time to just get her head straight, and even to just be single for a while after being in a long term relationship; but how long should I wait? I don't want to be so quick as to come off badly, but also don't want to wait too long as I highly doubt she wouldn't have anyone else that was into her.\n\nWhat do you think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically; I have been into my friend for a long time now, but since I have known her she has had a boyfriend. They were in a pretty committed relationship for about 1.5/2 years, but today I found out that they have split up.\n\nI noticed that my friend wasn't their usual self today though (very quiet where they would otherwise be talking your ear off), but they got better as the day went on. I don't know the details of their breakup though, as I thought it better not to ask (ie. Who broke up with whom/was it mutual? Why did they break up? etc.)\n\nI was wondering how long should I wait before saying anything to her? I feel like I should give her time to just get her head straight, and even to just be single for a while after being in a long term relationship; but how long should I wait? I don't want to be so quick as to come off badly, but also don't want to wait too long as I highly doubt she wouldn't have anyone else that was into her.\n\nWhat do you think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [27F] broke up with my [26F] ex a year ago. The break-up was kind of emotional, and I admit that I treated her like shit and did terrible things. For example, I kicked her out of my house after she flew 2,000 miles to see me. There was yelling and crying, but I think even though she was hurt and angry, she kind of understood where I was coming from (at least I hope she did). \n\nAnyways, the last conversation we had she seemed calm and resolved, and said that she would still like to remain friends. At the time I was not ready, there were still too many emotions, so I told her I needed some time. \n\nNow a year later, I am thinking about her a lot. I don't have any intention of starting a romantic relationship with her again, but I really do miss her friendship. I also want to apologize for my behavior, and let her know that I still do care about her and have not just forgotten about her. \n\nHowever, I'm afraid that if I contact her again, I will just be bringing up bad feelings and drama back into her life. For all I know, she has moved on, forgot about me, and wants nothing to do with me. But she could also be missing me too, and waiting for me to make the first move again. \n\nIs it worth it to risk bringing up painful memories to apologize and maybe try a friendship, or is she better off without?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [27F] broke up with my [26F] ex a year ago. The break-up was kind of emotional, and I admit that I treated her like shit and did terrible things. For example, I kicked her out of my house after she flew 2,000 miles to see me. There was yelling and crying, but I think even though she was hurt and angry, she kind of understood where I was coming from (at least I hope she did). \n\nAnyways, the last conversation we had she seemed calm and resolved, and said that she would still like to remain friends. At the time I was not ready, there were still too many emotions, so I told her I needed some time. \n\nNow a year later, I am thinking about her a lot. I don't have any intention of starting a romantic relationship with her again, but I really do miss her friendship. I also want to apologize for my behavior, and let her know that I still do care about her and have not just forgotten about her. \n\nHowever, I'm afraid that if I contact her again, I will just be bringing up bad feelings and drama back into her life. For all I know, she has moved on, forgot about me, and wants nothing to do with me. But she could also be missing me too, and waiting for me to make the first move again. \n\nIs it worth it to risk bringing up painful memories to apologize and maybe try a friendship, or is she better off without?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [27F] broke up with my [26F] ex a year ago. The break-up was kind of emotional, and I admit that I treated her like shit and did terrible things. For example, I kicked her out of my house after she flew 2,000 miles to see me. There was yelling and crying, but I think even though she was hurt and angry, she kind of understood where I was coming from (at least I hope she did). \n\nAnyways, the last conversation we had she seemed calm and resolved, and said that she would still like to remain friends. At the time I was not ready, there were still too many emotions, so I told her I needed some time. \n\nNow a year later, I am thinking about her a lot. I don't have any intention of starting a romantic relationship with her again, but I really do miss her friendship. I also want to apologize for my behavior, and let her know that I still do care about her and have not just forgotten about her. \n\nHowever, I'm afraid that if I contact her again, I will just be bringing up bad feelings and drama back into her life. For all I know, she has moved on, forgot about me, and wants nothing to do with me. But she could also be missing me too, and waiting for me to make the first move again. \n\nIs it worth it to risk bringing up painful memories to apologize and maybe try a friendship, or is she better off without?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [27F] broke up with my [26F] ex a year ago. The break-up was kind of emotional, and I admit that I treated her like shit and did terrible things. For example, I kicked her out of my house after she flew 2,000 miles to see me. There was yelling and crying, but I think even though she was hurt and angry, she kind of understood where I was coming from (at least I hope she did). \n\nAnyways, the last conversation we had she seemed calm and resolved, and said that she would still like to remain friends. At the time I was not ready, there were still too many emotions, so I told her I needed some time. \n\nNow a year later, I am thinking about her a lot. I don't have any intention of starting a romantic relationship with her again, but I really do miss her friendship. I also want to apologize for my behavior, and let her know that I still do care about her and have not just forgotten about her. \n\nHowever, I'm afraid that if I contact her again, I will just be bringing up bad feelings and drama back into her life. For all I know, she has moved on, forgot about me, and wants nothing to do with me. But she could also be missing me too, and waiting for me to make the first move again. \n\nIs it worth it to risk bringing up painful memories to apologize and maybe try a friendship, or is she better off without?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 24 [M] together with 23 [F] for 9 months now.\n\nI guess i'm looking for more advice on how to deal with something or cope with it in a way that I show how supportive I am.\n\nThe problem: When my girlfriend is on her period (She informs me everytime) she gets really hormonal and uses aggressive tones alot and basically gets frustrated with everything thrown her way. If a pen drops, she gets pissed off.\n\nNow when she is on I don't take any of this to heart, but the problem is I try to show how supportive I am and try to comfort her and calm her down, but to no avail.\n\nIt's like I have no affect in these situations. Obviously I know I can't control her hormones and I'm not trying to. All I want to do is be able to defuse it all. We had a rather heated argument the other night and she just kept going and going and going and I tried to stop it and used a very calming tone and did all I could to make her smile or laugh. She smiled maybe once for 1 second and then it went back to us arguing about absolutely nothing.\n\nWhen she gets like this, she's very disrespectful. I know she doesn't mean it but she'll do things like \"I don't want to hear it\" and hold her hand up when i'm trying to speak. She normally never does things like that. She never interrupts me speaking.\n\nI guess what I want to know is, how do I help? It's my first major relationship and it's a little intimidating. She always apologises and says shes sorry and she doesn't mean any of it and that its the hormones to which I nod and say it's fine and I haven't taken it to heart. I don't get offended in these instances.\n\nSo reddit, what can I do to help defuse the frustration and aggitation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 24 [M] together with 23 [F] for 9 months now.\n\nI guess i'm looking for more advice on how to deal with something or cope with it in a way that I show how supportive I am.\n\nThe problem: When my girlfriend is on her period (She informs me everytime) she gets really hormonal and uses aggressive tones alot and basically gets frustrated with everything thrown her way. If a pen drops, she gets pissed off.\n\nNow when she is on I don't take any of this to heart, but the problem is I try to show how supportive I am and try to comfort her and calm her down, but to no avail.\n\nIt's like I have no affect in these situations. Obviously I know I can't control her hormones and I'm not trying to. All I want to do is be able to defuse it all. We had a rather heated argument the other night and she just kept going and going and going and I tried to stop it and used a very calming tone and did all I could to make her smile or laugh. She smiled maybe once for 1 second and then it went back to us arguing about absolutely nothing.\n\nWhen she gets like this, she's very disrespectful. I know she doesn't mean it but she'll do things like \"I don't want to hear it\" and hold her hand up when i'm trying to speak. She normally never does things like that. She never interrupts me speaking.\n\nI guess what I want to know is, how do I help? It's my first major relationship and it's a little intimidating. She always apologises and says shes sorry and she doesn't mean any of it and that its the hormones to which I nod and say it's fine and I haven't taken it to heart. I don't get offended in these instances.\n\nSo reddit, what can I do to help defuse the frustration and aggitation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 24 [M] together with 23 [F] for 9 months now.\n\nI guess i'm looking for more advice on how to deal with something or cope with it in a way that I show how supportive I am.\n\nThe problem: When my girlfriend is on her period (She informs me everytime) she gets really hormonal and uses aggressive tones alot and basically gets frustrated with everything thrown her way. If a pen drops, she gets pissed off.\n\nNow when she is on I don't take any of this to heart, but the problem is I try to show how supportive I am and try to comfort her and calm her down, but to no avail.\n\nIt's like I have no affect in these situations. Obviously I know I can't control her hormones and I'm not trying to. All I want to do is be able to defuse it all. We had a rather heated argument the other night and she just kept going and going and going and I tried to stop it and used a very calming tone and did all I could to make her smile or laugh. She smiled maybe once for 1 second and then it went back to us arguing about absolutely nothing.\n\nWhen she gets like this, she's very disrespectful. I know she doesn't mean it but she'll do things like \"I don't want to hear it\" and hold her hand up when i'm trying to speak. She normally never does things like that. She never interrupts me speaking.\n\nI guess what I want to know is, how do I help? It's my first major relationship and it's a little intimidating. She always apologises and says shes sorry and she doesn't mean any of it and that its the hormones to which I nod and say it's fine and I haven't taken it to heart. I don't get offended in these instances.\n\nSo reddit, what can I do to help defuse the frustration and aggitation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 24 [M] together with 23 [F] for 9 months now.\n\nI guess i'm looking for more advice on how to deal with something or cope with it in a way that I show how supportive I am.\n\nThe problem: When my girlfriend is on her period (She informs me everytime) she gets really hormonal and uses aggressive tones alot and basically gets frustrated with everything thrown her way. If a pen drops, she gets pissed off.\n\nNow when she is on I don't take any of this to heart, but the problem is I try to show how supportive I am and try to comfort her and calm her down, but to no avail.\n\nIt's like I have no affect in these situations. Obviously I know I can't control her hormones and I'm not trying to. All I want to do is be able to defuse it all. We had a rather heated argument the other night and she just kept going and going and going and I tried to stop it and used a very calming tone and did all I could to make her smile or laugh. She smiled maybe once for 1 second and then it went back to us arguing about absolutely nothing.\n\nWhen she gets like this, she's very disrespectful. I know she doesn't mean it but she'll do things like \"I don't want to hear it\" and hold her hand up when i'm trying to speak. She normally never does things like that. She never interrupts me speaking.\n\nI guess what I want to know is, how do I help? It's my first major relationship and it's a little intimidating. She always apologises and says shes sorry and she doesn't mean any of it and that its the hormones to which I nod and say it's fine and I haven't taken it to heart. I don't get offended in these instances.\n\nSo reddit, what can I do to help defuse the frustration and aggitation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: my best friend of 5 years killed herself last Wednesday. It was 4 days before her 20th birthday. \nI just really don't know how to deal with this at all. Last April one of our close friends died, and a year before that another one had died. \n\nShe was there throughout the first two deaths. I just don't know how to deal with her death since I don't have her to go to.\n\nevery morning i wake up and remember and just want to die. i feel like i've lost a huge part of me. She knows the worst parts of me, she loves me so much and i love her more than anything i just don't know what to do except cry \n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to deal with this?\nor can lead me to the correct subreddit in case this isn't it.\n\nthank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: my best friend of 5 years killed herself last Wednesday. It was 4 days before her 20th birthday. \nI just really don't know how to deal with this at all. Last April one of our close friends died, and a year before that another one had died. \n\nShe was there throughout the first two deaths. I just don't know how to deal with her death since I don't have her to go to.\n\nevery morning i wake up and remember and just want to die. i feel like i've lost a huge part of me. She knows the worst parts of me, she loves me so much and i love her more than anything i just don't know what to do except cry \n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to deal with this?\nor can lead me to the correct subreddit in case this isn't it.\n\nthank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: my best friend of 5 years killed herself last Wednesday. It was 4 days before her 20th birthday. \nI just really don't know how to deal with this at all. Last April one of our close friends died, and a year before that another one had died. \n\nShe was there throughout the first two deaths. I just don't know how to deal with her death since I don't have her to go to.\n\nevery morning i wake up and remember and just want to die. i feel like i've lost a huge part of me. She knows the worst parts of me, she loves me so much and i love her more than anything i just don't know what to do except cry \n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to deal with this?\nor can lead me to the correct subreddit in case this isn't it.\n\nthank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: my best friend of 5 years killed herself last Wednesday. It was 4 days before her 20th birthday. \nI just really don't know how to deal with this at all. Last April one of our close friends died, and a year before that another one had died. \n\nShe was there throughout the first two deaths. I just don't know how to deal with her death since I don't have her to go to.\n\nevery morning i wake up and remember and just want to die. i feel like i've lost a huge part of me. She knows the worst parts of me, she loves me so much and i love her more than anything i just don't know what to do except cry \n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to deal with this?\nor can lead me to the correct subreddit in case this isn't it.\n\nthank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship started out great and he gave me the impression of his extreme indifference to his ex, who cheated with his best friend and is currently engaged to him. I understand they were together for a long time and he has many emotional ties to her including a beautiful daughter.\n\nThe problem is that he often has blow out fights with her over the phone and in person. She threatens to keep their daughter from him over things like money. He is a great and attentive father so it's absurd. The real issue is that she doesn't have a job and apparently the money her new fiancee gives her isn't enough. Their child is in school so I feel there's no reason she couldn't at least work part time \n\nMany times I've walked in on him crying and there's nothing I can say or do to console him. This makes me feel worthless and insignificant. He can't afford to give her more money. They split custody so there is no child support. \n\nI've never had children or seriously dated a man who did. He doesn't seem to sympathize with my ignorance and resulting insecurities. I really love him and want things to work. Can anyone advise me on how to handle this? It's so soon in the relationship but we spend every day together. I am head over heels for his daughter as well. She's only 6 so I don't think she quite understands what's going on. She loves that I'm her dad's girlfriend but also frequently comments on how she wants her parents to be together. This too breaks my heart."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship started out great and he gave me the impression of his extreme indifference to his ex, who cheated with his best friend and is currently engaged to him. I understand they were together for a long time and he has many emotional ties to her including a beautiful daughter.\n\nThe problem is that he often has blow out fights with her over the phone and in person. She threatens to keep their daughter from him over things like money. He is a great and attentive father so it's absurd. The real issue is that she doesn't have a job and apparently the money her new fiancee gives her isn't enough. Their child is in school so I feel there's no reason she couldn't at least work part time \n\nMany times I've walked in on him crying and there's nothing I can say or do to console him. This makes me feel worthless and insignificant. He can't afford to give her more money. They split custody so there is no child support. \n\nI've never had children or seriously dated a man who did. He doesn't seem to sympathize with my ignorance and resulting insecurities. I really love him and want things to work. Can anyone advise me on how to handle this? It's so soon in the relationship but we spend every day together. I am head over heels for his daughter as well. She's only 6 so I don't think she quite understands what's going on. She loves that I'm her dad's girlfriend but also frequently comments on how she wants her parents to be together. This too breaks my heart."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship started out great and he gave me the impression of his extreme indifference to his ex, who cheated with his best friend and is currently engaged to him. I understand they were together for a long time and he has many emotional ties to her including a beautiful daughter.\n\nThe problem is that he often has blow out fights with her over the phone and in person. She threatens to keep their daughter from him over things like money. He is a great and attentive father so it's absurd. The real issue is that she doesn't have a job and apparently the money her new fiancee gives her isn't enough. Their child is in school so I feel there's no reason she couldn't at least work part time \n\nMany times I've walked in on him crying and there's nothing I can say or do to console him. This makes me feel worthless and insignificant. He can't afford to give her more money. They split custody so there is no child support. \n\nI've never had children or seriously dated a man who did. He doesn't seem to sympathize with my ignorance and resulting insecurities. I really love him and want things to work. Can anyone advise me on how to handle this? It's so soon in the relationship but we spend every day together. I am head over heels for his daughter as well. She's only 6 so I don't think she quite understands what's going on. She loves that I'm her dad's girlfriend but also frequently comments on how she wants her parents to be together. This too breaks my heart."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship started out great and he gave me the impression of his extreme indifference to his ex, who cheated with his best friend and is currently engaged to him. I understand they were together for a long time and he has many emotional ties to her including a beautiful daughter.\n\nThe problem is that he often has blow out fights with her over the phone and in person. She threatens to keep their daughter from him over things like money. He is a great and attentive father so it's absurd. The real issue is that she doesn't have a job and apparently the money her new fiancee gives her isn't enough. Their child is in school so I feel there's no reason she couldn't at least work part time \n\nMany times I've walked in on him crying and there's nothing I can say or do to console him. This makes me feel worthless and insignificant. He can't afford to give her more money. They split custody so there is no child support. \n\nI've never had children or seriously dated a man who did. He doesn't seem to sympathize with my ignorance and resulting insecurities. I really love him and want things to work. Can anyone advise me on how to handle this? It's so soon in the relationship but we spend every day together. I am head over heels for his daughter as well. She's only 6 so I don't think she quite understands what's going on. She loves that I'm her dad's girlfriend but also frequently comments on how she wants her parents to be together. This too breaks my heart."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not quite sure if this is the place for this, sorry if it isn't!\n\nSo around April this year, my classmate [17F] and I [17M] had some misunderstanding, and we stopped talking. We are not in a relationship, although we were very close before this happened.\n\nFor a while, we tried to avoid each other and she would stick with a group of friends that we were both part of, since this group of us were taking the same classes. As a result, I stayed away from this group of friends. At that point in time, I didn't know what was the issue, so I thought I'd give her some time and space to get over whatever she was going through.\n\nLater on, during a class trip, she approached me and admitted to me that the reason she tried to stay away from me was that some event caused her to get quite depressed (Nothing too important, just some other classmates were switching classes away, and she was quite sad about this), and said she felt moody and didn't want to talk to me during that period. Anyway, after that she said that she found it awkward to start talking to me again after that, and thus she stayed away. Now that I think about it though, I was the only one she didn't seem to want to talk to at the time. We sort of promised to try to talk to each other again, and try not to be so awkward after that.\n\nHowever, even after that, it never happened, and although I try to talk to her occasionally, she doesn't seem to be trying herself. I don't know whether it's because I've done something or said something myself and she doesn't want to talk about it, or some other reason that I'm not aware of. Has anyone been in this situation before? Because she's not giving any other signs or hints as to why she doesn't seem to want to talk to me. She also still tries to avoid me, and sticks to our old group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not quite sure if this is the place for this, sorry if it isn't!\n\nSo around April this year, my classmate [17F] and I [17M] had some misunderstanding, and we stopped talking. We are not in a relationship, although we were very close before this happened.\n\nFor a while, we tried to avoid each other and she would stick with a group of friends that we were both part of, since this group of us were taking the same classes. As a result, I stayed away from this group of friends. At that point in time, I didn't know what was the issue, so I thought I'd give her some time and space to get over whatever she was going through.\n\nLater on, during a class trip, she approached me and admitted to me that the reason she tried to stay away from me was that some event caused her to get quite depressed (Nothing too important, just some other classmates were switching classes away, and she was quite sad about this), and said she felt moody and didn't want to talk to me during that period. Anyway, after that she said that she found it awkward to start talking to me again after that, and thus she stayed away. Now that I think about it though, I was the only one she didn't seem to want to talk to at the time. We sort of promised to try to talk to each other again, and try not to be so awkward after that.\n\nHowever, even after that, it never happened, and although I try to talk to her occasionally, she doesn't seem to be trying herself. I don't know whether it's because I've done something or said something myself and she doesn't want to talk about it, or some other reason that I'm not aware of. Has anyone been in this situation before? Because she's not giving any other signs or hints as to why she doesn't seem to want to talk to me. She also still tries to avoid me, and sticks to our old group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not quite sure if this is the place for this, sorry if it isn't!\n\nSo around April this year, my classmate [17F] and I [17M] had some misunderstanding, and we stopped talking. We are not in a relationship, although we were very close before this happened.\n\nFor a while, we tried to avoid each other and she would stick with a group of friends that we were both part of, since this group of us were taking the same classes. As a result, I stayed away from this group of friends. At that point in time, I didn't know what was the issue, so I thought I'd give her some time and space to get over whatever she was going through.\n\nLater on, during a class trip, she approached me and admitted to me that the reason she tried to stay away from me was that some event caused her to get quite depressed (Nothing too important, just some other classmates were switching classes away, and she was quite sad about this), and said she felt moody and didn't want to talk to me during that period. Anyway, after that she said that she found it awkward to start talking to me again after that, and thus she stayed away. Now that I think about it though, I was the only one she didn't seem to want to talk to at the time. We sort of promised to try to talk to each other again, and try not to be so awkward after that.\n\nHowever, even after that, it never happened, and although I try to talk to her occasionally, she doesn't seem to be trying herself. I don't know whether it's because I've done something or said something myself and she doesn't want to talk about it, or some other reason that I'm not aware of. Has anyone been in this situation before? Because she's not giving any other signs or hints as to why she doesn't seem to want to talk to me. She also still tries to avoid me, and sticks to our old group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not quite sure if this is the place for this, sorry if it isn't!\n\nSo around April this year, my classmate [17F] and I [17M] had some misunderstanding, and we stopped talking. We are not in a relationship, although we were very close before this happened.\n\nFor a while, we tried to avoid each other and she would stick with a group of friends that we were both part of, since this group of us were taking the same classes. As a result, I stayed away from this group of friends. At that point in time, I didn't know what was the issue, so I thought I'd give her some time and space to get over whatever she was going through.\n\nLater on, during a class trip, she approached me and admitted to me that the reason she tried to stay away from me was that some event caused her to get quite depressed (Nothing too important, just some other classmates were switching classes away, and she was quite sad about this), and said she felt moody and didn't want to talk to me during that period. Anyway, after that she said that she found it awkward to start talking to me again after that, and thus she stayed away. Now that I think about it though, I was the only one she didn't seem to want to talk to at the time. We sort of promised to try to talk to each other again, and try not to be so awkward after that.\n\nHowever, even after that, it never happened, and although I try to talk to her occasionally, she doesn't seem to be trying herself. I don't know whether it's because I've done something or said something myself and she doesn't want to talk about it, or some other reason that I'm not aware of. Has anyone been in this situation before? Because she's not giving any other signs or hints as to why she doesn't seem to want to talk to me. She also still tries to avoid me, and sticks to our old group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My whole life I've viewed women in such a wierd way. I get so emotionally attached so quickly, and it takes me forever to get over a girl who I barely even know.\n\nI've only had 1 girlfriend and she's the only one I've slept with aswell. She's slept with a lot of guys before me, and is sleeping with a lot now too. I broke up with her because I didn't see myself being with her forever, she just wasn't the girl I wanted.\n\nThe thing is, even though we've been broken up for like 6 months now, I still can't get her out of my head. I know I don't want her back but all I can think about is her fucking other dudes and it kills me inside. \n\nI thought after we broke up I'd be getting tons of girls. I'm in college and there's plenty of attractive girls around me, but I'm back where I was before. I know girls find me attractive and I have a good personality, but I can't seem to get the confidence, or even know what to say to girls. \n\nI know I'm getting a little better because for the first time in my entire life I have girls who are just my friends. Before I only talked to dudes ever. However, I still can't seem to get over approach anxiety. I was at a concert last night and there were attractive girls all around me that I wanted to talk to, but I just couldn't think if anything to say to them. I keep telling myself I'll go out and start a conversation with a bunch of girls but I never do it.\n\nIt's not even just approach anxiety, even when I've talked to a girl for a while I don't know how to show her I'm interested or escalate. I feel like in a lot of social situations i have nothing to say.\n\nI need to fix this or I'm going to feel like shit forever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My whole life I've viewed women in such a wierd way. I get so emotionally attached so quickly, and it takes me forever to get over a girl who I barely even know.\n\nI've only had 1 girlfriend and she's the only one I've slept with aswell. She's slept with a lot of guys before me, and is sleeping with a lot now too. I broke up with her because I didn't see myself being with her forever, she just wasn't the girl I wanted.\n\nThe thing is, even though we've been broken up for like 6 months now, I still can't get her out of my head. I know I don't want her back but all I can think about is her fucking other dudes and it kills me inside. \n\nI thought after we broke up I'd be getting tons of girls. I'm in college and there's plenty of attractive girls around me, but I'm back where I was before. I know girls find me attractive and I have a good personality, but I can't seem to get the confidence, or even know what to say to girls. \n\nI know I'm getting a little better because for the first time in my entire life I have girls who are just my friends. Before I only talked to dudes ever. However, I still can't seem to get over approach anxiety. I was at a concert last night and there were attractive girls all around me that I wanted to talk to, but I just couldn't think if anything to say to them. I keep telling myself I'll go out and start a conversation with a bunch of girls but I never do it.\n\nIt's not even just approach anxiety, even when I've talked to a girl for a while I don't know how to show her I'm interested or escalate. I feel like in a lot of social situations i have nothing to say.\n\nI need to fix this or I'm going to feel like shit forever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My whole life I've viewed women in such a wierd way. I get so emotionally attached so quickly, and it takes me forever to get over a girl who I barely even know.\n\nI've only had 1 girlfriend and she's the only one I've slept with aswell. She's slept with a lot of guys before me, and is sleeping with a lot now too. I broke up with her because I didn't see myself being with her forever, she just wasn't the girl I wanted.\n\nThe thing is, even though we've been broken up for like 6 months now, I still can't get her out of my head. I know I don't want her back but all I can think about is her fucking other dudes and it kills me inside. \n\nI thought after we broke up I'd be getting tons of girls. I'm in college and there's plenty of attractive girls around me, but I'm back where I was before. I know girls find me attractive and I have a good personality, but I can't seem to get the confidence, or even know what to say to girls. \n\nI know I'm getting a little better because for the first time in my entire life I have girls who are just my friends. Before I only talked to dudes ever. However, I still can't seem to get over approach anxiety. I was at a concert last night and there were attractive girls all around me that I wanted to talk to, but I just couldn't think if anything to say to them. I keep telling myself I'll go out and start a conversation with a bunch of girls but I never do it.\n\nIt's not even just approach anxiety, even when I've talked to a girl for a while I don't know how to show her I'm interested or escalate. I feel like in a lot of social situations i have nothing to say.\n\nI need to fix this or I'm going to feel like shit forever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My whole life I've viewed women in such a wierd way. I get so emotionally attached so quickly, and it takes me forever to get over a girl who I barely even know.\n\nI've only had 1 girlfriend and she's the only one I've slept with aswell. She's slept with a lot of guys before me, and is sleeping with a lot now too. I broke up with her because I didn't see myself being with her forever, she just wasn't the girl I wanted.\n\nThe thing is, even though we've been broken up for like 6 months now, I still can't get her out of my head. I know I don't want her back but all I can think about is her fucking other dudes and it kills me inside. \n\nI thought after we broke up I'd be getting tons of girls. I'm in college and there's plenty of attractive girls around me, but I'm back where I was before. I know girls find me attractive and I have a good personality, but I can't seem to get the confidence, or even know what to say to girls. \n\nI know I'm getting a little better because for the first time in my entire life I have girls who are just my friends. Before I only talked to dudes ever. However, I still can't seem to get over approach anxiety. I was at a concert last night and there were attractive girls all around me that I wanted to talk to, but I just couldn't think if anything to say to them. I keep telling myself I'll go out and start a conversation with a bunch of girls but I never do it.\n\nIt's not even just approach anxiety, even when I've talked to a girl for a while I don't know how to show her I'm interested or escalate. I feel like in a lot of social situations i have nothing to say.\n\nI need to fix this or I'm going to feel like shit forever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf have decided to remain sober. Since I have made this decision, I have remained sober. Completely. She has not. She still takes pills, still drinks. When she confesses that she has taken a pill or drank, I don't give her shit about it. I don't give her ultimatums. I don't demean her and I don't insult her. I don't guilt trip her. I helped a friend out today and he offered to smoke some pot with me (pretty much the only thing I did before I was sober). I tell her that I was contemplating taking him up on the offer. She gets pissed. Starts calling me weak. Starts threatening to rat my friend out to his probation officer. In the middle of all this, she admits she took a pill today without even bothering to get my input (no surprise). Yet, she still won't relent and continues to brow-beat, threaten, and insult me further. She then comes over to my apartment, gets her shit saying she will not be with me because I'm choosing pot over her. How and the fuck can someone justify being such a gigantic hypocrite?! (Bear in mind I didn't even fucking smoke yet. I never answered my friends text)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf have decided to remain sober. Since I have made this decision, I have remained sober. Completely. She has not. She still takes pills, still drinks. When she confesses that she has taken a pill or drank, I don't give her shit about it. I don't give her ultimatums. I don't demean her and I don't insult her. I don't guilt trip her. I helped a friend out today and he offered to smoke some pot with me (pretty much the only thing I did before I was sober). I tell her that I was contemplating taking him up on the offer. She gets pissed. Starts calling me weak. Starts threatening to rat my friend out to his probation officer. In the middle of all this, she admits she took a pill today without even bothering to get my input (no surprise). Yet, she still won't relent and continues to brow-beat, threaten, and insult me further. She then comes over to my apartment, gets her shit saying she will not be with me because I'm choosing pot over her. How and the fuck can someone justify being such a gigantic hypocrite?! (Bear in mind I didn't even fucking smoke yet. I never answered my friends text)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf have decided to remain sober. Since I have made this decision, I have remained sober. Completely. She has not. She still takes pills, still drinks. When she confesses that she has taken a pill or drank, I don't give her shit about it. I don't give her ultimatums. I don't demean her and I don't insult her. I don't guilt trip her. I helped a friend out today and he offered to smoke some pot with me (pretty much the only thing I did before I was sober). I tell her that I was contemplating taking him up on the offer. She gets pissed. Starts calling me weak. Starts threatening to rat my friend out to his probation officer. In the middle of all this, she admits she took a pill today without even bothering to get my input (no surprise). Yet, she still won't relent and continues to brow-beat, threaten, and insult me further. She then comes over to my apartment, gets her shit saying she will not be with me because I'm choosing pot over her. How and the fuck can someone justify being such a gigantic hypocrite?! (Bear in mind I didn't even fucking smoke yet. I never answered my friends text)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf have decided to remain sober. Since I have made this decision, I have remained sober. Completely. She has not. She still takes pills, still drinks. When she confesses that she has taken a pill or drank, I don't give her shit about it. I don't give her ultimatums. I don't demean her and I don't insult her. I don't guilt trip her. I helped a friend out today and he offered to smoke some pot with me (pretty much the only thing I did before I was sober). I tell her that I was contemplating taking him up on the offer. She gets pissed. Starts calling me weak. Starts threatening to rat my friend out to his probation officer. In the middle of all this, she admits she took a pill today without even bothering to get my input (no surprise). Yet, she still won't relent and continues to brow-beat, threaten, and insult me further. She then comes over to my apartment, gets her shit saying she will not be with me because I'm choosing pot over her. How and the fuck can someone justify being such a gigantic hypocrite?! (Bear in mind I didn't even fucking smoke yet. I never answered my friends text)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I was woken by the doorbell at around 5:00 a.m. I get dressed and walk downstairs while the doorbell is *still* ringing. When I open it this extremely old, dirty, man is standing outside asking \"may I have a moment of your time?\" I ask him what he wants, and he tells me \"We are offering a new type of razor, extremely comfortable, for a discount today. Anything you buy today is over half off.\" \nBefore I can ask, he pulls out a razorblade-hot-glued-to-a-toothbrush thing out of his pocket, and proudly announces that this will shave anything. \"It works everywhere on your body! Your face, arms, even your genitals!\" Then he asks if he can come inside *my house* and demonstrate. \"Your balls will be as smooth as glass when I'm done!\"\nI shut the door, locked it, closed the blinds, called my parents, and hid in the shower for an hour while he stood in my yard saying he would pay me if he could come inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I was woken by the doorbell at around 5:00 a.m. I get dressed and walk downstairs while the doorbell is *still* ringing. When I open it this extremely old, dirty, man is standing outside asking \"may I have a moment of your time?\" I ask him what he wants, and he tells me \"We are offering a new type of razor, extremely comfortable, for a discount today. Anything you buy today is over half off.\" \nBefore I can ask, he pulls out a razorblade-hot-glued-to-a-toothbrush thing out of his pocket, and proudly announces that this will shave anything. \"It works everywhere on your body! Your face, arms, even your genitals!\" Then he asks if he can come inside *my house* and demonstrate. \"Your balls will be as smooth as glass when I'm done!\"\nI shut the door, locked it, closed the blinds, called my parents, and hid in the shower for an hour while he stood in my yard saying he would pay me if he could come inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I was woken by the doorbell at around 5:00 a.m. I get dressed and walk downstairs while the doorbell is *still* ringing. When I open it this extremely old, dirty, man is standing outside asking \"may I have a moment of your time?\" I ask him what he wants, and he tells me \"We are offering a new type of razor, extremely comfortable, for a discount today. Anything you buy today is over half off.\" \nBefore I can ask, he pulls out a razorblade-hot-glued-to-a-toothbrush thing out of his pocket, and proudly announces that this will shave anything. \"It works everywhere on your body! Your face, arms, even your genitals!\" Then he asks if he can come inside *my house* and demonstrate. \"Your balls will be as smooth as glass when I'm done!\"\nI shut the door, locked it, closed the blinds, called my parents, and hid in the shower for an hour while he stood in my yard saying he would pay me if he could come inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I was woken by the doorbell at around 5:00 a.m. I get dressed and walk downstairs while the doorbell is *still* ringing. When I open it this extremely old, dirty, man is standing outside asking \"may I have a moment of your time?\" I ask him what he wants, and he tells me \"We are offering a new type of razor, extremely comfortable, for a discount today. Anything you buy today is over half off.\" \nBefore I can ask, he pulls out a razorblade-hot-glued-to-a-toothbrush thing out of his pocket, and proudly announces that this will shave anything. \"It works everywhere on your body! Your face, arms, even your genitals!\" Then he asks if he can come inside *my house* and demonstrate. \"Your balls will be as smooth as glass when I'm done!\"\nI shut the door, locked it, closed the blinds, called my parents, and hid in the shower for an hour while he stood in my yard saying he would pay me if he could come inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Where do I begin.\n\nback story: I cheated, with a women form my new job (2 years ago). I felt extremely guilty and confessed. We worked past it and stayed together. Then a year later she cheated on me and we decided to end the relationship, it was.rocky. We lived with each (kinda of.) for the next month so we wouldn't have to pay a closing cost on the lease for the apartment. During which we semi-reconciled so that we wouldn't live hating each other.\n\nAbout a week after we split she starts telling people she is pregnant. I knew it wasn't mine we always used condoms. We resoled that quickly and without blood. However the guy she cheated with and father of the child moved 3 states away. She kept the child and hes pays child support for her (how ever much that is hes a server at Applebees.).\n\nCurrent Situation: About three months ago she came to me for help financially. I'm an engineer and make a little less than $70K a year, and she is a nurse aid at a nursing home and does make that much. She Needed money for a down payment on a new apartment for her and the child, and for the sake of the kid I agreed.\n\nNow she is. bugging. pressuring me to be in the child's life. Asking me if I would like to spend time with them and meet the child, of course all disguised as just being friends. The more a distance myself the harder she tries, and I have picked up on this. The breaking point was her calling me crying and complaining how difficult raising a child by herself is.\n\nAnyway we have a lot of mutual friends and I don't want to be a father to this child. I have no idea how to get out of this without becoming a complete asshole."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Where do I begin.\n\nback story: I cheated, with a women form my new job (2 years ago). I felt extremely guilty and confessed. We worked past it and stayed together. Then a year later she cheated on me and we decided to end the relationship, it was.rocky. We lived with each (kinda of.) for the next month so we wouldn't have to pay a closing cost on the lease for the apartment. During which we semi-reconciled so that we wouldn't live hating each other.\n\nAbout a week after we split she starts telling people she is pregnant. I knew it wasn't mine we always used condoms. We resoled that quickly and without blood. However the guy she cheated with and father of the child moved 3 states away. She kept the child and hes pays child support for her (how ever much that is hes a server at Applebees.).\n\nCurrent Situation: About three months ago she came to me for help financially. I'm an engineer and make a little less than $70K a year, and she is a nurse aid at a nursing home and does make that much. She Needed money for a down payment on a new apartment for her and the child, and for the sake of the kid I agreed.\n\nNow she is. bugging. pressuring me to be in the child's life. Asking me if I would like to spend time with them and meet the child, of course all disguised as just being friends. The more a distance myself the harder she tries, and I have picked up on this. The breaking point was her calling me crying and complaining how difficult raising a child by herself is.\n\nAnyway we have a lot of mutual friends and I don't want to be a father to this child. I have no idea how to get out of this without becoming a complete asshole."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Where do I begin.\n\nback story: I cheated, with a women form my new job (2 years ago). I felt extremely guilty and confessed. We worked past it and stayed together. Then a year later she cheated on me and we decided to end the relationship, it was.rocky. We lived with each (kinda of.) for the next month so we wouldn't have to pay a closing cost on the lease for the apartment. During which we semi-reconciled so that we wouldn't live hating each other.\n\nAbout a week after we split she starts telling people she is pregnant. I knew it wasn't mine we always used condoms. We resoled that quickly and without blood. However the guy she cheated with and father of the child moved 3 states away. She kept the child and hes pays child support for her (how ever much that is hes a server at Applebees.).\n\nCurrent Situation: About three months ago she came to me for help financially. I'm an engineer and make a little less than $70K a year, and she is a nurse aid at a nursing home and does make that much. She Needed money for a down payment on a new apartment for her and the child, and for the sake of the kid I agreed.\n\nNow she is. bugging. pressuring me to be in the child's life. Asking me if I would like to spend time with them and meet the child, of course all disguised as just being friends. The more a distance myself the harder she tries, and I have picked up on this. The breaking point was her calling me crying and complaining how difficult raising a child by herself is.\n\nAnyway we have a lot of mutual friends and I don't want to be a father to this child. I have no idea how to get out of this without becoming a complete asshole."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Where do I begin.\n\nback story: I cheated, with a women form my new job (2 years ago). I felt extremely guilty and confessed. We worked past it and stayed together. Then a year later she cheated on me and we decided to end the relationship, it was.rocky. We lived with each (kinda of.) for the next month so we wouldn't have to pay a closing cost on the lease for the apartment. During which we semi-reconciled so that we wouldn't live hating each other.\n\nAbout a week after we split she starts telling people she is pregnant. I knew it wasn't mine we always used condoms. We resoled that quickly and without blood. However the guy she cheated with and father of the child moved 3 states away. She kept the child and hes pays child support for her (how ever much that is hes a server at Applebees.).\n\nCurrent Situation: About three months ago she came to me for help financially. I'm an engineer and make a little less than $70K a year, and she is a nurse aid at a nursing home and does make that much. She Needed money for a down payment on a new apartment for her and the child, and for the sake of the kid I agreed.\n\nNow she is. bugging. pressuring me to be in the child's life. Asking me if I would like to spend time with them and meet the child, of course all disguised as just being friends. The more a distance myself the harder she tries, and I have picked up on this. The breaking point was her calling me crying and complaining how difficult raising a child by herself is.\n\nAnyway we have a lot of mutual friends and I don't want to be a father to this child. I have no idea how to get out of this without becoming a complete asshole."
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