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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my fiancé and I are in the beginning stage of planning, where we're just kinda throwing ideas around and brainstorming etc. Problem is though, he doesn't really want to be actively involved in the whole looking for inspiration, looking at different ideas for tuxes and dresses, and all that kind of stuff. Whenever we talk about it, we have totally different ideas. For example, I like the idea of a softer grey tux/suit for the groom and groomsmen and mix and match, but complementary, dresses for the bridesmaids, as we are having a semi-formal summertime wedding. He wants traditional black tuxedo with cravate, and all the bridesmaids looking identical because that's how he has always seen weddings, that's how he was raised to think about weddings etc.\n\nI've made the suggestion of us looking for ideas and then bringing them together to discuss and try to find a way to combine both of our preferences but he doesn't really seem interested in this. He has said that he thinks it would be better if I just make the decisions about how the wedding should look and he'll be happy. I don't want that, though. I want us to both be actively involved in planning our special day *together*.\n\nAm I crazy for not wanting to be in control of the whole thing and for not expecting a \"yes, dear\" response from him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my SO for several months now and we both love each other very much. We both know what we want and it's headed in the direction of wanting to spend our lives together after we give living together some time.\n\nWith that being said, this past week or two I have not been myself. I've allowed my insecurities and jealousy to get the best of me, and I have imposed them on my SO and her friendships with her male friends. Despite reassurance that I'm the only one for her, her unwavering dedication, and her complete and total faithfulness, I still managed to act like OAB and have caused somewhat of a divide between her and her friends.\n\nAside from feeling like total shit, I know that the person I've been acting like isn't me. I know that these thoughts I have had stemmed from irrational and illogical fears. I'm man enough to recognize my problem and take responsibility, but going forward, I don't know what to do about it.\n\nWe had a long talk and she reassured me that she still wants nobody but me. She loves me unconditionally, even for my faults. I feel so blessed to have her in my life and I made that clear. Despite that, actions speak louder than words and I feel like I have failed her. I have not been the boyfriend that she needed, yet she has been everything for me.\nI know I can do so much better, because I know I can be the man she fell in love with, and whatever this temporary guise that has taken ahold of me has done to our relationship, I am determined to not let it happen again.\n\nI almost lost one of the people I care about most in life and I don't want to have to relive that experience.\n\nReddit, is there anything I can do? Anything I can read?\nAnything I should say? Any way I can act?\n\nThis is a LDR. Thank you." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my SO for several months now and we both love each other very much. We both know what we want and it's headed in the direction of wanting to spend our lives together after we give living together some time.\n\nWith that being said, this past week or two I have not been myself. I've allowed my insecurities and jealousy to get the best of me, and I have imposed them on my SO and her friendships with her male friends. Despite reassurance that I'm the only one for her, her unwavering dedication, and her complete and total faithfulness, I still managed to act like OAB and have caused somewhat of a divide between her and her friends.\n\nAside from feeling like total shit, I know that the person I've been acting like isn't me. I know that these thoughts I have had stemmed from irrational and illogical fears. I'm man enough to recognize my problem and take responsibility, but going forward, I don't know what to do about it.\n\nWe had a long talk and she reassured me that she still wants nobody but me. She loves me unconditionally, even for my faults. I feel so blessed to have her in my life and I made that clear. Despite that, actions speak louder than words and I feel like I have failed her. I have not been the boyfriend that she needed, yet she has been everything for me.\nI know I can do so much better, because I know I can be the man she fell in love with, and whatever this temporary guise that has taken ahold of me has done to our relationship, I am determined to not let it happen again.\n\nI almost lost one of the people I care about most in life and I don't want to have to relive that experience.\n\nReddit, is there anything I can do? Anything I can read?\nAnything I should say? Any way I can act?\n\nThis is a LDR. Thank you." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my SO for several months now and we both love each other very much. We both know what we want and it's headed in the direction of wanting to spend our lives together after we give living together some time.\n\nWith that being said, this past week or two I have not been myself. I've allowed my insecurities and jealousy to get the best of me, and I have imposed them on my SO and her friendships with her male friends. Despite reassurance that I'm the only one for her, her unwavering dedication, and her complete and total faithfulness, I still managed to act like OAB and have caused somewhat of a divide between her and her friends.\n\nAside from feeling like total shit, I know that the person I've been acting like isn't me. I know that these thoughts I have had stemmed from irrational and illogical fears. I'm man enough to recognize my problem and take responsibility, but going forward, I don't know what to do about it.\n\nWe had a long talk and she reassured me that she still wants nobody but me. She loves me unconditionally, even for my faults. I feel so blessed to have her in my life and I made that clear. Despite that, actions speak louder than words and I feel like I have failed her. I have not been the boyfriend that she needed, yet she has been everything for me.\nI know I can do so much better, because I know I can be the man she fell in love with, and whatever this temporary guise that has taken ahold of me has done to our relationship, I am determined to not let it happen again.\n\nI almost lost one of the people I care about most in life and I don't want to have to relive that experience.\n\nReddit, is there anything I can do? Anything I can read?\nAnything I should say? Any way I can act?\n\nThis is a LDR. Thank you." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my SO for several months now and we both love each other very much. We both know what we want and it's headed in the direction of wanting to spend our lives together after we give living together some time.\n\nWith that being said, this past week or two I have not been myself. I've allowed my insecurities and jealousy to get the best of me, and I have imposed them on my SO and her friendships with her male friends. Despite reassurance that I'm the only one for her, her unwavering dedication, and her complete and total faithfulness, I still managed to act like OAB and have caused somewhat of a divide between her and her friends.\n\nAside from feeling like total shit, I know that the person I've been acting like isn't me. I know that these thoughts I have had stemmed from irrational and illogical fears. I'm man enough to recognize my problem and take responsibility, but going forward, I don't know what to do about it.\n\nWe had a long talk and she reassured me that she still wants nobody but me. She loves me unconditionally, even for my faults. I feel so blessed to have her in my life and I made that clear. Despite that, actions speak louder than words and I feel like I have failed her. I have not been the boyfriend that she needed, yet she has been everything for me.\nI know I can do so much better, because I know I can be the man she fell in love with, and whatever this temporary guise that has taken ahold of me has done to our relationship, I am determined to not let it happen again.\n\nI almost lost one of the people I care about most in life and I don't want to have to relive that experience.\n\nReddit, is there anything I can do? Anything I can read?\nAnything I should say? Any way I can act?\n\nThis is a LDR. Thank you." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my SO for several months now and we both love each other very much. We both know what we want and it's headed in the direction of wanting to spend our lives together after we give living together some time.\n\nWith that being said, this past week or two I have not been myself. I've allowed my insecurities and jealousy to get the best of me, and I have imposed them on my SO and her friendships with her male friends. Despite reassurance that I'm the only one for her, her unwavering dedication, and her complete and total faithfulness, I still managed to act like OAB and have caused somewhat of a divide between her and her friends.\n\nAside from feeling like total shit, I know that the person I've been acting like isn't me. I know that these thoughts I have had stemmed from irrational and illogical fears. I'm man enough to recognize my problem and take responsibility, but going forward, I don't know what to do about it.\n\nWe had a long talk and she reassured me that she still wants nobody but me. She loves me unconditionally, even for my faults. I feel so blessed to have her in my life and I made that clear. Despite that, actions speak louder than words and I feel like I have failed her. I have not been the boyfriend that she needed, yet she has been everything for me.\nI know I can do so much better, because I know I can be the man she fell in love with, and whatever this temporary guise that has taken ahold of me has done to our relationship, I am determined to not let it happen again.\n\nI almost lost one of the people I care about most in life and I don't want to have to relive that experience.\n\nReddit, is there anything I can do? Anything I can read?\nAnything I should say? Any way I can act?\n\nThis is a LDR. Thank you." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my SO for several months now and we both love each other very much. We both know what we want and it's headed in the direction of wanting to spend our lives together after we give living together some time.\n\nWith that being said, this past week or two I have not been myself. I've allowed my insecurities and jealousy to get the best of me, and I have imposed them on my SO and her friendships with her male friends. Despite reassurance that I'm the only one for her, her unwavering dedication, and her complete and total faithfulness, I still managed to act like OAB and have caused somewhat of a divide between her and her friends.\n\nAside from feeling like total shit, I know that the person I've been acting like isn't me. I know that these thoughts I have had stemmed from irrational and illogical fears. I'm man enough to recognize my problem and take responsibility, but going forward, I don't know what to do about it.\n\nWe had a long talk and she reassured me that she still wants nobody but me. She loves me unconditionally, even for my faults. I feel so blessed to have her in my life and I made that clear. Despite that, actions speak louder than words and I feel like I have failed her. I have not been the boyfriend that she needed, yet she has been everything for me.\nI know I can do so much better, because I know I can be the man she fell in love with, and whatever this temporary guise that has taken ahold of me has done to our relationship, I am determined to not let it happen again.\n\nI almost lost one of the people I care about most in life and I don't want to have to relive that experience.\n\nReddit, is there anything I can do? Anything I can read?\nAnything I should say? Any way I can act?\n\nThis is a LDR. Thank you." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, \n\nI have a quick question for you all. I applied for a research job about two months ago went through the interview process and passed. \n\nHowever, due to the recent budget cuts and the fact that it is a government job, my resume needed to be approved by the chief before being hired. \n\nAfter my last interview I was told by the staff scientist hiring me that I would hear back soon. Two weeks ago I emailed him asking to follow up (three weeks after the last interview) on the process and whether or not there was enough funds to bring me into the lab. However, he didn't email me back. This staff scientist has a lot on his hands and kind of forgets things all the time ( he missed my first phone interview because he forgot about it, and forgot to reply to one of my earlier emials as well). \n\nI need to know about the status of this job since if i'm not hired i need to look at other options. How do I politely remind him that I need an update on this position?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, \n\nI have a quick question for you all. I applied for a research job about two months ago went through the interview process and passed. \n\nHowever, due to the recent budget cuts and the fact that it is a government job, my resume needed to be approved by the chief before being hired. \n\nAfter my last interview I was told by the staff scientist hiring me that I would hear back soon. Two weeks ago I emailed him asking to follow up (three weeks after the last interview) on the process and whether or not there was enough funds to bring me into the lab. However, he didn't email me back. This staff scientist has a lot on his hands and kind of forgets things all the time ( he missed my first phone interview because he forgot about it, and forgot to reply to one of my earlier emials as well). \n\nI need to know about the status of this job since if i'm not hired i need to look at other options. How do I politely remind him that I need an update on this position?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, \n\nI have a quick question for you all. I applied for a research job about two months ago went through the interview process and passed. \n\nHowever, due to the recent budget cuts and the fact that it is a government job, my resume needed to be approved by the chief before being hired. \n\nAfter my last interview I was told by the staff scientist hiring me that I would hear back soon. Two weeks ago I emailed him asking to follow up (three weeks after the last interview) on the process and whether or not there was enough funds to bring me into the lab. However, he didn't email me back. This staff scientist has a lot on his hands and kind of forgets things all the time ( he missed my first phone interview because he forgot about it, and forgot to reply to one of my earlier emials as well). \n\nI need to know about the status of this job since if i'm not hired i need to look at other options. How do I politely remind him that I need an update on this position?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, \n\nI have a quick question for you all. I applied for a research job about two months ago went through the interview process and passed. \n\nHowever, due to the recent budget cuts and the fact that it is a government job, my resume needed to be approved by the chief before being hired. \n\nAfter my last interview I was told by the staff scientist hiring me that I would hear back soon. Two weeks ago I emailed him asking to follow up (three weeks after the last interview) on the process and whether or not there was enough funds to bring me into the lab. However, he didn't email me back. This staff scientist has a lot on his hands and kind of forgets things all the time ( he missed my first phone interview because he forgot about it, and forgot to reply to one of my earlier emials as well). \n\nI need to know about the status of this job since if i'm not hired i need to look at other options. How do I politely remind him that I need an update on this position?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, \n\nI have a quick question for you all. I applied for a research job about two months ago went through the interview process and passed. \n\nHowever, due to the recent budget cuts and the fact that it is a government job, my resume needed to be approved by the chief before being hired. \n\nAfter my last interview I was told by the staff scientist hiring me that I would hear back soon. Two weeks ago I emailed him asking to follow up (three weeks after the last interview) on the process and whether or not there was enough funds to bring me into the lab. However, he didn't email me back. This staff scientist has a lot on his hands and kind of forgets things all the time ( he missed my first phone interview because he forgot about it, and forgot to reply to one of my earlier emials as well). \n\nI need to know about the status of this job since if i'm not hired i need to look at other options. How do I politely remind him that I need an update on this position?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, \n\nI have a quick question for you all. I applied for a research job about two months ago went through the interview process and passed. \n\nHowever, due to the recent budget cuts and the fact that it is a government job, my resume needed to be approved by the chief before being hired. \n\nAfter my last interview I was told by the staff scientist hiring me that I would hear back soon. Two weeks ago I emailed him asking to follow up (three weeks after the last interview) on the process and whether or not there was enough funds to bring me into the lab. However, he didn't email me back. This staff scientist has a lot on his hands and kind of forgets things all the time ( he missed my first phone interview because he forgot about it, and forgot to reply to one of my earlier emials as well). \n\nI need to know about the status of this job since if i'm not hired i need to look at other options. How do I politely remind him that I need an update on this position?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live near New York and she is in London. We have beaten the odds and have been visiting each other every Christmas and all of every summer since 2012. It has been amazing and for a while I thought about moving to London.\n\nWhen we are not together she is a clingy, depressed mess. I cannot do anything with my friends because I get yelled at for not talking to her all day every day. I even get complaints for going to work because I can't talk to her. I can't do anything on my own and feel suffocated. I can't live my life while being in this relationship.\n\nWhen I am with her it is amazing and she is completely different. But last June when I visited her for 3 months I was not even excited to go. We weren't planning to see each other until Christmas, but she has just told me she's coming in 2 weeks as a surprise. I'm not even excited though. I feel so horrible for feeling like this. \n\nI want to break up with her, but the thought of hurting her just kills me. I can't imagine having a 'final goodbye'. But I don't want to be miserable for years to come and lose out on years of life where I could potentially find someone closer and better for me. Any advice on how I should go about doing this is appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live near New York and she is in London. We have beaten the odds and have been visiting each other every Christmas and all of every summer since 2012. It has been amazing and for a while I thought about moving to London.\n\nWhen we are not together she is a clingy, depressed mess. I cannot do anything with my friends because I get yelled at for not talking to her all day every day. I even get complaints for going to work because I can't talk to her. I can't do anything on my own and feel suffocated. I can't live my life while being in this relationship.\n\nWhen I am with her it is amazing and she is completely different. But last June when I visited her for 3 months I was not even excited to go. We weren't planning to see each other until Christmas, but she has just told me she's coming in 2 weeks as a surprise. I'm not even excited though. I feel so horrible for feeling like this. \n\nI want to break up with her, but the thought of hurting her just kills me. I can't imagine having a 'final goodbye'. But I don't want to be miserable for years to come and lose out on years of life where I could potentially find someone closer and better for me. Any advice on how I should go about doing this is appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live near New York and she is in London. We have beaten the odds and have been visiting each other every Christmas and all of every summer since 2012. It has been amazing and for a while I thought about moving to London.\n\nWhen we are not together she is a clingy, depressed mess. I cannot do anything with my friends because I get yelled at for not talking to her all day every day. I even get complaints for going to work because I can't talk to her. I can't do anything on my own and feel suffocated. I can't live my life while being in this relationship.\n\nWhen I am with her it is amazing and she is completely different. But last June when I visited her for 3 months I was not even excited to go. We weren't planning to see each other until Christmas, but she has just told me she's coming in 2 weeks as a surprise. I'm not even excited though. I feel so horrible for feeling like this. \n\nI want to break up with her, but the thought of hurting her just kills me. I can't imagine having a 'final goodbye'. But I don't want to be miserable for years to come and lose out on years of life where I could potentially find someone closer and better for me. Any advice on how I should go about doing this is appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live near New York and she is in London. We have beaten the odds and have been visiting each other every Christmas and all of every summer since 2012. It has been amazing and for a while I thought about moving to London.\n\nWhen we are not together she is a clingy, depressed mess. I cannot do anything with my friends because I get yelled at for not talking to her all day every day. I even get complaints for going to work because I can't talk to her. I can't do anything on my own and feel suffocated. I can't live my life while being in this relationship.\n\nWhen I am with her it is amazing and she is completely different. But last June when I visited her for 3 months I was not even excited to go. We weren't planning to see each other until Christmas, but she has just told me she's coming in 2 weeks as a surprise. I'm not even excited though. I feel so horrible for feeling like this. \n\nI want to break up with her, but the thought of hurting her just kills me. I can't imagine having a 'final goodbye'. But I don't want to be miserable for years to come and lose out on years of life where I could potentially find someone closer and better for me. Any advice on how I should go about doing this is appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live near New York and she is in London. We have beaten the odds and have been visiting each other every Christmas and all of every summer since 2012. It has been amazing and for a while I thought about moving to London.\n\nWhen we are not together she is a clingy, depressed mess. I cannot do anything with my friends because I get yelled at for not talking to her all day every day. I even get complaints for going to work because I can't talk to her. I can't do anything on my own and feel suffocated. I can't live my life while being in this relationship.\n\nWhen I am with her it is amazing and she is completely different. But last June when I visited her for 3 months I was not even excited to go. We weren't planning to see each other until Christmas, but she has just told me she's coming in 2 weeks as a surprise. I'm not even excited though. I feel so horrible for feeling like this. \n\nI want to break up with her, but the thought of hurting her just kills me. I can't imagine having a 'final goodbye'. But I don't want to be miserable for years to come and lose out on years of life where I could potentially find someone closer and better for me. Any advice on how I should go about doing this is appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live near New York and she is in London. We have beaten the odds and have been visiting each other every Christmas and all of every summer since 2012. It has been amazing and for a while I thought about moving to London.\n\nWhen we are not together she is a clingy, depressed mess. I cannot do anything with my friends because I get yelled at for not talking to her all day every day. I even get complaints for going to work because I can't talk to her. I can't do anything on my own and feel suffocated. I can't live my life while being in this relationship.\n\nWhen I am with her it is amazing and she is completely different. But last June when I visited her for 3 months I was not even excited to go. We weren't planning to see each other until Christmas, but she has just told me she's coming in 2 weeks as a surprise. I'm not even excited though. I feel so horrible for feeling like this. \n\nI want to break up with her, but the thought of hurting her just kills me. I can't imagine having a 'final goodbye'. But I don't want to be miserable for years to come and lose out on years of life where I could potentially find someone closer and better for me. Any advice on how I should go about doing this is appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So just this last weekend I took the girl that I've been best friends with and liked for 4 years on a formal trip. She dated my best friend for nearly 2 years and broke up a year ago. Before this trip we hooked up drunk 3 weeks before. We hooked up 4 more times in 2 days while there. We got drunk one day at the beach and one thing lead to another and I ended up pouring my heart out to her.\n\nAfter I finished saying what I had to say, I asked her if she had feelings for me. She started saying that within the past month she's thought about us being in a relationship a lot and she said that she's not ready for it due to some hangups, one including me being her ex's best friend. She was really confused and unsure of everything. She called my best friend and hung up the phone. He called me and I confessed everything and immediately hung up the phone.\n\nJust to clarify, I spoke to him on 3 separate occasions about her dating other people including myself and he said he didn't care about it anymore and she was free to date whoever she wanted. He gave me permission to take her on this formal so he should've full well known the consequences.\n\nHe sent us both a text 4 hours later saying that he couldn't be friends with us anymore, etc etc. She starts crying while I'm angry and sad from getting crushed. The next day we have to drive back home which was an 12 hour trip and we said maybe 50 words the ride home. I sent her a very long text apologizing for the previous night.\n\nOnce we were home and apart from each other, I told her I wanted time away so we could think about whatever we needed to. She kept texting me and I told her to stop because we needed time to figure out what we want. I haven't talked to her since. What should I think of this? Do I wait for her in the chance she has feelings for me, or just move on already?" }