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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Looking for some advice on the topic, or specifically if someone knows a good lawyer in the Riverside, CA area for this, that would be awesome.\n\nMy step son is having a kid, and the mother-to-be is the victim of harassment by him. He has a history of domestic violence when he lived with us (I had him arrested as a minor), and he has a history of domestic violence with her. They are unmarried, and he is now threatening 'all out war' to get full sole legal custody of the child when she is born. He is even pushing to break a restraining order, and get an early judgement on visitation and custody rules. \n\nHe has threatened to retain a lawyer, which there is a 75% chance he can not afford to do and is using it as a stalling tactic. A new restraining order hearing was postponed today when he said he was retaining counsel at the end of this week, and it has been pushed to mediation (for custody issues, not RO issues).\n\nHe's great at playing the system and the people that work inside of it. I am all for getting her a lawyer to fight against this but I am wondering just what we're in for.\n\nHe will not be named on the birth certificate. \nThere is no paternity test, just that they both agree it is his.\nHe has no stable support system or family to help him out.\nShe is surrounded by a supportive family, and his mother and myself.\n\nIs he facing an up hill battle here to get visitation and possible custody, or is she?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I [28M] have been hooking up with this girl[25F] I've know for a few months now, and have made it very clear from the beginning that I am not looking for anything serious at all and not looking to date exclusively right now. Strictly a friends with benefits.\n\nWhen we first started hooking up, she was closely integrated with my group of friends, and when I learned she might have feelings, I stopped and told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious. She said she's totally cool with that and is fine hooking up, which we did.\n\nThe problem is, I'm not so sure she is totally cool with that regardless of what she says. Since she's part of my group of friends, we often all go out together, and I can see she gets a bit jealous if I'm looking at another girl, and I can't bring myself to move forward with any girl. \n\nI'm not really sure what to do, on one hand I feel like she's an adult and I've done my part of making my intentions clear from the start. on the other I don't want her to get more attached. I feel like I'm playing with fire, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I [28M] have been hooking up with this girl[25F] I've know for a few months now, and have made it very clear from the beginning that I am not looking for anything serious at all and not looking to date exclusively right now. Strictly a friends with benefits.\n\nWhen we first started hooking up, she was closely integrated with my group of friends, and when I learned she might have feelings, I stopped and told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious. She said she's totally cool with that and is fine hooking up, which we did.\n\nThe problem is, I'm not so sure she is totally cool with that regardless of what she says. Since she's part of my group of friends, we often all go out together, and I can see she gets a bit jealous if I'm looking at another girl, and I can't bring myself to move forward with any girl. \n\nI'm not really sure what to do, on one hand I feel like she's an adult and I've done my part of making my intentions clear from the start. on the other I don't want her to get more attached. I feel like I'm playing with fire, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I [28M] have been hooking up with this girl[25F] I've know for a few months now, and have made it very clear from the beginning that I am not looking for anything serious at all and not looking to date exclusively right now. Strictly a friends with benefits.\n\nWhen we first started hooking up, she was closely integrated with my group of friends, and when I learned she might have feelings, I stopped and told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious. She said she's totally cool with that and is fine hooking up, which we did.\n\nThe problem is, I'm not so sure she is totally cool with that regardless of what she says. Since she's part of my group of friends, we often all go out together, and I can see she gets a bit jealous if I'm looking at another girl, and I can't bring myself to move forward with any girl. \n\nI'm not really sure what to do, on one hand I feel like she's an adult and I've done my part of making my intentions clear from the start. on the other I don't want her to get more attached. I feel like I'm playing with fire, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I [28M] have been hooking up with this girl[25F] I've know for a few months now, and have made it very clear from the beginning that I am not looking for anything serious at all and not looking to date exclusively right now. Strictly a friends with benefits.\n\nWhen we first started hooking up, she was closely integrated with my group of friends, and when I learned she might have feelings, I stopped and told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious. She said she's totally cool with that and is fine hooking up, which we did.\n\nThe problem is, I'm not so sure she is totally cool with that regardless of what she says. Since she's part of my group of friends, we often all go out together, and I can see she gets a bit jealous if I'm looking at another girl, and I can't bring myself to move forward with any girl. \n\nI'm not really sure what to do, on one hand I feel like she's an adult and I've done my part of making my intentions clear from the start. on the other I don't want her to get more attached. I feel like I'm playing with fire, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I [28M] have been hooking up with this girl[25F] I've know for a few months now, and have made it very clear from the beginning that I am not looking for anything serious at all and not looking to date exclusively right now. Strictly a friends with benefits.\n\nWhen we first started hooking up, she was closely integrated with my group of friends, and when I learned she might have feelings, I stopped and told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious. She said she's totally cool with that and is fine hooking up, which we did.\n\nThe problem is, I'm not so sure she is totally cool with that regardless of what she says. Since she's part of my group of friends, we often all go out together, and I can see she gets a bit jealous if I'm looking at another girl, and I can't bring myself to move forward with any girl. \n\nI'm not really sure what to do, on one hand I feel like she's an adult and I've done my part of making my intentions clear from the start. on the other I don't want her to get more attached. I feel like I'm playing with fire, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was getting on the subway train on my way to work when I accidentally bumped into someone. I took a glimpse at him and said \"my bad\". He politely shrugged it off.\n\nAs I wait for my stop, I analyze what just happened and that leads me to thinking about my apology's word choice. I then realize that I would never say \"my bad\" if it was some white guy in a shirt and tie. Because the guy was black (btw: I'm hispanic), I chose to say \"my bad\".\n\nA quick search through my memory bank resulted in another example: a quick \"yo what up\" vs. with-a-smile \"hey good morning\".\n\n*So Reddit, does that make me racist-lite?* I'm judging someone by the skin of their color. Although I think I'd of used the same word choice if it was a white guy dressed \"urban\". *Shrug*\n\n*Related*: *I use to have a hard definition of racism: \"if you change the way you treat someone based on their skin color, it's racist\". However, I now think that's too broad. Based on that definition, affirmative action is racism-not that I agree or disagree with affirmative action. *How do you define racism?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was getting on the subway train on my way to work when I accidentally bumped into someone. I took a glimpse at him and said \"my bad\". He politely shrugged it off.\n\nAs I wait for my stop, I analyze what just happened and that leads me to thinking about my apology's word choice. I then realize that I would never say \"my bad\" if it was some white guy in a shirt and tie. Because the guy was black (btw: I'm hispanic), I chose to say \"my bad\".\n\nA quick search through my memory bank resulted in another example: a quick \"yo what up\" vs. with-a-smile \"hey good morning\".\n\n*So Reddit, does that make me racist-lite?* I'm judging someone by the skin of their color. Although I think I'd of used the same word choice if it was a white guy dressed \"urban\". *Shrug*\n\n*Related*: *I use to have a hard definition of racism: \"if you change the way you treat someone based on their skin color, it's racist\". However, I now think that's too broad. Based on that definition, affirmative action is racism-not that I agree or disagree with affirmative action. *How do you define racism?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was getting on the subway train on my way to work when I accidentally bumped into someone. I took a glimpse at him and said \"my bad\". He politely shrugged it off.\n\nAs I wait for my stop, I analyze what just happened and that leads me to thinking about my apology's word choice. I then realize that I would never say \"my bad\" if it was some white guy in a shirt and tie. Because the guy was black (btw: I'm hispanic), I chose to say \"my bad\".\n\nA quick search through my memory bank resulted in another example: a quick \"yo what up\" vs. with-a-smile \"hey good morning\".\n\n*So Reddit, does that make me racist-lite?* I'm judging someone by the skin of their color. Although I think I'd of used the same word choice if it was a white guy dressed \"urban\". *Shrug*\n\n*Related*: *I use to have a hard definition of racism: \"if you change the way you treat someone based on their skin color, it's racist\". However, I now think that's too broad. Based on that definition, affirmative action is racism-not that I agree or disagree with affirmative action. *How do you define racism?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, I'm a 22F about 7 months ago I met this guy (24M) on OKC. We chatted for about a week, exchanged numbers, and then texted for another week. We went on a date and totally hit it off. We hung out a couple more times then on the third date, I spent the night and he had mind blowing, freaky, fun, great sex. The only issue we had was the fact we lived about an hour and 15 minutes away from each other. Well, we sext all the time (I'm talking hot erotic novel type shit) and we've hung out on more occasions and then recently I've gotten super busy with work.Well. Today I was on FB and this picture pops up of him and some other girl. I totally forgot he has a FB cause he was never on it. I go to his profile.turns out he's been dating this girl since February. He never mentioned anything to me about her and he's been hitting me up like crazy to hang out again soon on top of him texting me everyday already.so reddit, what should I do? Call him out or let it ride? Or be the bigger person and end it all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, I'm a 22F about 7 months ago I met this guy (24M) on OKC. We chatted for about a week, exchanged numbers, and then texted for another week. We went on a date and totally hit it off. We hung out a couple more times then on the third date, I spent the night and he had mind blowing, freaky, fun, great sex. The only issue we had was the fact we lived about an hour and 15 minutes away from each other. Well, we sext all the time (I'm talking hot erotic novel type shit) and we've hung out on more occasions and then recently I've gotten super busy with work.Well. Today I was on FB and this picture pops up of him and some other girl. I totally forgot he has a FB cause he was never on it. I go to his profile.turns out he's been dating this girl since February. He never mentioned anything to me about her and he's been hitting me up like crazy to hang out again soon on top of him texting me everyday already.so reddit, what should I do? Call him out or let it ride? Or be the bigger person and end it all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so he's known for a while that I post there. He mentioned it months ago that if we were to date, he would only be okay with topless pictures, but I completely forgot about that conversion because I'm a flake. We haven't been together long, so I didn't even think about talking to him about it before I posted again. I've been posting there for a while, and I'm used to my ex being okay with it. I admit that I fucked up here. I should've talked to him about it. \n\nLast night I posted a picture that I had saved in me and my exes fb chat history shared photos, so I had the app open to that. In those pictures, there were naked pictures of him as well. My bf now thinks that i was intentionally saving nudes from my ex, which isn't the case. \n\nI honestly felt that I had nothing to hide, which is why I'm not mad that he went through my phone. The only reason he went through my phone was to close out the apps that i had open as he plugged in my dying phone. I'm not upset that he snooped. \n\nSo how do I go about fixing this? He's really upset with me about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so he's known for a while that I post there. He mentioned it months ago that if we were to date, he would only be okay with topless pictures, but I completely forgot about that conversion because I'm a flake. We haven't been together long, so I didn't even think about talking to him about it before I posted again. I've been posting there for a while, and I'm used to my ex being okay with it. I admit that I fucked up here. I should've talked to him about it. \n\nLast night I posted a picture that I had saved in me and my exes fb chat history shared photos, so I had the app open to that. In those pictures, there were naked pictures of him as well. My bf now thinks that i was intentionally saving nudes from my ex, which isn't the case. \n\nI honestly felt that I had nothing to hide, which is why I'm not mad that he went through my phone. The only reason he went through my phone was to close out the apps that i had open as he plugged in my dying phone. I'm not upset that he snooped. \n\nSo how do I go about fixing this? He's really upset with me about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so he's known for a while that I post there. He mentioned it months ago that if we were to date, he would only be okay with topless pictures, but I completely forgot about that conversion because I'm a flake. We haven't been together long, so I didn't even think about talking to him about it before I posted again. I've been posting there for a while, and I'm used to my ex being okay with it. I admit that I fucked up here. I should've talked to him about it. \n\nLast night I posted a picture that I had saved in me and my exes fb chat history shared photos, so I had the app open to that. In those pictures, there were naked pictures of him as well. My bf now thinks that i was intentionally saving nudes from my ex, which isn't the case. \n\nI honestly felt that I had nothing to hide, which is why I'm not mad that he went through my phone. The only reason he went through my phone was to close out the apps that i had open as he plugged in my dying phone. I'm not upset that he snooped. \n\nSo how do I go about fixing this? He's really upset with me about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so he's known for a while that I post there. He mentioned it months ago that if we were to date, he would only be okay with topless pictures, but I completely forgot about that conversion because I'm a flake. We haven't been together long, so I didn't even think about talking to him about it before I posted again. I've been posting there for a while, and I'm used to my ex being okay with it. I admit that I fucked up here. I should've talked to him about it. \n\nLast night I posted a picture that I had saved in me and my exes fb chat history shared photos, so I had the app open to that. In those pictures, there were naked pictures of him as well. My bf now thinks that i was intentionally saving nudes from my ex, which isn't the case. \n\nI honestly felt that I had nothing to hide, which is why I'm not mad that he went through my phone. The only reason he went through my phone was to close out the apps that i had open as he plugged in my dying phone. I'm not upset that he snooped. \n\nSo how do I go about fixing this? He's really upset with me about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so he's known for a while that I post there. He mentioned it months ago that if we were to date, he would only be okay with topless pictures, but I completely forgot about that conversion because I'm a flake. We haven't been together long, so I didn't even think about talking to him about it before I posted again. I've been posting there for a while, and I'm used to my ex being okay with it. I admit that I fucked up here. I should've talked to him about it. \n\nLast night I posted a picture that I had saved in me and my exes fb chat history shared photos, so I had the app open to that. In those pictures, there were naked pictures of him as well. My bf now thinks that i was intentionally saving nudes from my ex, which isn't the case. \n\nI honestly felt that I had nothing to hide, which is why I'm not mad that he went through my phone. The only reason he went through my phone was to close out the apps that i had open as he plugged in my dying phone. I'm not upset that he snooped. \n\nSo how do I go about fixing this? He's really upset with me about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so he's known for a while that I post there. He mentioned it months ago that if we were to date, he would only be okay with topless pictures, but I completely forgot about that conversion because I'm a flake. We haven't been together long, so I didn't even think about talking to him about it before I posted again. I've been posting there for a while, and I'm used to my ex being okay with it. I admit that I fucked up here. I should've talked to him about it. \n\nLast night I posted a picture that I had saved in me and my exes fb chat history shared photos, so I had the app open to that. In those pictures, there were naked pictures of him as well. My bf now thinks that i was intentionally saving nudes from my ex, which isn't the case. \n\nI honestly felt that I had nothing to hide, which is why I'm not mad that he went through my phone. The only reason he went through my phone was to close out the apps that i had open as he plugged in my dying phone. I'm not upset that he snooped. \n\nSo how do I go about fixing this? He's really upset with me about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'll start out saying that I recently met this girl and I'm usually pretty shy, we're only together for about 55 minutes a day (math group) and I seem to be interested in her personality, which she doesn't seem to express much, but since I'm the same way, maybe we could connect in a very similar way. \n\nI used to think this was just a small crush that would easily pass, but every day I talk to her I seem to get more and more attracted, and since I haven't really had much experience in the relationship field, maybe I can get some opinions on how to take a crack at this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'll start out saying that I recently met this girl and I'm usually pretty shy, we're only together for about 55 minutes a day (math group) and I seem to be interested in her personality, which she doesn't seem to express much, but since I'm the same way, maybe we could connect in a very similar way. \n\nI used to think this was just a small crush that would easily pass, but every day I talk to her I seem to get more and more attracted, and since I haven't really had much experience in the relationship field, maybe I can get some opinions on how to take a crack at this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'll start out saying that I recently met this girl and I'm usually pretty shy, we're only together for about 55 minutes a day (math group) and I seem to be interested in her personality, which she doesn't seem to express much, but since I'm the same way, maybe we could connect in a very similar way. \n\nI used to think this was just a small crush that would easily pass, but every day I talk to her I seem to get more and more attracted, and since I haven't really had much experience in the relationship field, maybe I can get some opinions on how to take a crack at this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive seen so many of these lately. i hate to add my own. but here goes. \n\nI never subscribed to the notion that we have a soul mate out there. And I still don't. 8 months ago i meet a great girl. 3 months ago we started going out. 1 week ago we found out she was pregnant. now before the usual conclusions are jumped too. we were using protection (obviously not enough) condom slipped (or broke depending on when the actual time was) and we purchased the MAP (Morning After Pill) the next day. We are both in our early 30s and she already has a Child from a previous relationship (She has sole custody and father has never been in child's life) hes now 7. Shes not sure what she wants to do. but we know we want to stay together. Ive worked hard over the last 4 years to achieve a lot. (house being built. Car I've always wanted. Bike I've always wanted. ) I know in a why I'm being selfish. but i don't think i want this child at this time. (yes i would like to have one with her in the future) With this house being finished it would be tight to support her, her son and our new child. and shes not sure she can come back from aborting this potential child. I'm not looking for whats wrong or whats right as its different for everyone. i just want to hear from others. Point of view perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive seen so many of these lately. i hate to add my own. but here goes. \n\nI never subscribed to the notion that we have a soul mate out there. And I still don't. 8 months ago i meet a great girl. 3 months ago we started going out. 1 week ago we found out she was pregnant. now before the usual conclusions are jumped too. we were using protection (obviously not enough) condom slipped (or broke depending on when the actual time was) and we purchased the MAP (Morning After Pill) the next day. We are both in our early 30s and she already has a Child from a previous relationship (She has sole custody and father has never been in child's life) hes now 7. Shes not sure what she wants to do. but we know we want to stay together. Ive worked hard over the last 4 years to achieve a lot. (house being built. Car I've always wanted. Bike I've always wanted. ) I know in a why I'm being selfish. but i don't think i want this child at this time. (yes i would like to have one with her in the future) With this house being finished it would be tight to support her, her son and our new child. and shes not sure she can come back from aborting this potential child. I'm not looking for whats wrong or whats right as its different for everyone. i just want to hear from others. Point of view perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive seen so many of these lately. i hate to add my own. but here goes. \n\nI never subscribed to the notion that we have a soul mate out there. And I still don't. 8 months ago i meet a great girl. 3 months ago we started going out. 1 week ago we found out she was pregnant. now before the usual conclusions are jumped too. we were using protection (obviously not enough) condom slipped (or broke depending on when the actual time was) and we purchased the MAP (Morning After Pill) the next day. We are both in our early 30s and she already has a Child from a previous relationship (She has sole custody and father has never been in child's life) hes now 7. Shes not sure what she wants to do. but we know we want to stay together. Ive worked hard over the last 4 years to achieve a lot. (house being built. Car I've always wanted. Bike I've always wanted. ) I know in a why I'm being selfish. but i don't think i want this child at this time. (yes i would like to have one with her in the future) With this house being finished it would be tight to support her, her son and our new child. and shes not sure she can come back from aborting this potential child. I'm not looking for whats wrong or whats right as its different for everyone. i just want to hear from others. Point of view perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were dating for a while until a few months back, since then we've been off and on, not exactly seeing each other but neither of us have moved on. Over time my feelings have became less and hers have became more (she still gets butterflies from me, I get none from her). \n\nI feel as though I'm no longer in love with her whereas she's in love with me. We still see each other but emotions are running high and I have no idea what to do as I don't want to be in a relationship, but I don't want to lead her on. \n\nThe problem is I want to let her go but the thought of her being with anyone else is heartbreaking for me. I know I'm stopping her from being happy but I can't bear the thought of her falling in love with anyone else. I realise this is extremely selfish and that I'm messing her around and that isn't fair on her.\n\nI can't be in a relationship with her however because I'm not in love with her and therefore it wouldn't be right on my part. I can't even spend time with her or go out to the cinema etc. with her because of the same reason. I just feel so unbelievably guilty. \n\nI love her so so much and I just want the best for her. But I just can't let her go. \n\nAnother thing that is stopping me from letting go is the totally irrational fear that I won't find anyone else and that no one will fall in love with me again. And I realise it's totally stupid to think that but I can't stop myself from thinking it. It's almost like an innate fear.\n\nPlease, if anyone can give me some advice I'd appreciate it so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were dating for a while until a few months back, since then we've been off and on, not exactly seeing each other but neither of us have moved on. Over time my feelings have became less and hers have became more (she still gets butterflies from me, I get none from her). \n\nI feel as though I'm no longer in love with her whereas she's in love with me. We still see each other but emotions are running high and I have no idea what to do as I don't want to be in a relationship, but I don't want to lead her on. \n\nThe problem is I want to let her go but the thought of her being with anyone else is heartbreaking for me. I know I'm stopping her from being happy but I can't bear the thought of her falling in love with anyone else. I realise this is extremely selfish and that I'm messing her around and that isn't fair on her.\n\nI can't be in a relationship with her however because I'm not in love with her and therefore it wouldn't be right on my part. I can't even spend time with her or go out to the cinema etc. with her because of the same reason. I just feel so unbelievably guilty. \n\nI love her so so much and I just want the best for her. But I just can't let her go. \n\nAnother thing that is stopping me from letting go is the totally irrational fear that I won't find anyone else and that no one will fall in love with me again. And I realise it's totally stupid to think that but I can't stop myself from thinking it. It's almost like an innate fear.\n\nPlease, if anyone can give me some advice I'd appreciate it so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were dating for a while until a few months back, since then we've been off and on, not exactly seeing each other but neither of us have moved on. Over time my feelings have became less and hers have became more (she still gets butterflies from me, I get none from her). \n\nI feel as though I'm no longer in love with her whereas she's in love with me. We still see each other but emotions are running high and I have no idea what to do as I don't want to be in a relationship, but I don't want to lead her on. \n\nThe problem is I want to let her go but the thought of her being with anyone else is heartbreaking for me. I know I'm stopping her from being happy but I can't bear the thought of her falling in love with anyone else. I realise this is extremely selfish and that I'm messing her around and that isn't fair on her.\n\nI can't be in a relationship with her however because I'm not in love with her and therefore it wouldn't be right on my part. I can't even spend time with her or go out to the cinema etc. with her because of the same reason. I just feel so unbelievably guilty. \n\nI love her so so much and I just want the best for her. But I just can't let her go. \n\nAnother thing that is stopping me from letting go is the totally irrational fear that I won't find anyone else and that no one will fall in love with me again. And I realise it's totally stupid to think that but I can't stop myself from thinking it. It's almost like an innate fear.\n\nPlease, if anyone can give me some advice I'd appreciate it so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On our second date I told her I had Bipolar 2 and she was fine with it. She borrowed a book I had on the disorder that helped her understand. Everything has been fine, but lately I've been in a bad depression. I have lost interest in everything and I really have no desire to be intimate which is really getting to her. Also, im irritable on top of the depression so im constantly lashing out verbally. Im trying to see a psychologist but my insurance doesnt cover it so I have to pay a huge chunk of money every visit. I cant afford it right now. \n\nThroughout this depression Ive had moments of semi-happiness. So when I have those moments and im still not interested in anything or intimate, she takes it as im losing interest in her, Which I AM NOT. I love her dearly.\n\nI can see her slowly becoming mentally drained. I want her in my life, and ive told her that it will pass, which she knows, but her insecurities are getting the best of her. Last night, she told me she cried all the way home, and now she is afraid to come over because she doesnt want to get let down because im not being intimate with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On our second date I told her I had Bipolar 2 and she was fine with it. She borrowed a book I had on the disorder that helped her understand. Everything has been fine, but lately I've been in a bad depression. I have lost interest in everything and I really have no desire to be intimate which is really getting to her. Also, im irritable on top of the depression so im constantly lashing out verbally. Im trying to see a psychologist but my insurance doesnt cover it so I have to pay a huge chunk of money every visit. I cant afford it right now. \n\nThroughout this depression Ive had moments of semi-happiness. So when I have those moments and im still not interested in anything or intimate, she takes it as im losing interest in her, Which I AM NOT. I love her dearly.\n\nI can see her slowly becoming mentally drained. I want her in my life, and ive told her that it will pass, which she knows, but her insecurities are getting the best of her. Last night, she told me she cried all the way home, and now she is afraid to come over because she doesnt want to get let down because im not being intimate with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On our second date I told her I had Bipolar 2 and she was fine with it. She borrowed a book I had on the disorder that helped her understand. Everything has been fine, but lately I've been in a bad depression. I have lost interest in everything and I really have no desire to be intimate which is really getting to her. Also, im irritable on top of the depression so im constantly lashing out verbally. Im trying to see a psychologist but my insurance doesnt cover it so I have to pay a huge chunk of money every visit. I cant afford it right now. \n\nThroughout this depression Ive had moments of semi-happiness. So when I have those moments and im still not interested in anything or intimate, she takes it as im losing interest in her, Which I AM NOT. I love her dearly.\n\nI can see her slowly becoming mentally drained. I want her in my life, and ive told her that it will pass, which she knows, but her insecurities are getting the best of her. Last night, she told me she cried all the way home, and now she is afraid to come over because she doesnt want to get let down because im not being intimate with her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title pretty much explains it, I've been dating a girl for the last four months and have really enjoyed spending time with her. We have alot of common interests, the sex is great and I'm happy around her.\n\nBut the other day I came to the realization that she looks ALOT like my mom. They both have short curly hair and similar figures. My moms skin is alot lighter, and she is a bit shorter. Buut, I can't get it out of my head now.\n\nMy family wants to meet her and I'm afraid to introduce her to them. Could really use some insight or advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title pretty much explains it, I've been dating a girl for the last four months and have really enjoyed spending time with her. We have alot of common interests, the sex is great and I'm happy around her.\n\nBut the other day I came to the realization that she looks ALOT like my mom. They both have short curly hair and similar figures. My moms skin is alot lighter, and she is a bit shorter. Buut, I can't get it out of my head now.\n\nMy family wants to meet her and I'm afraid to introduce her to them. Could really use some insight or advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title pretty much explains it, I've been dating a girl for the last four months and have really enjoyed spending time with her. We have alot of common interests, the sex is great and I'm happy around her.\n\nBut the other day I came to the realization that she looks ALOT like my mom. They both have short curly hair and similar figures. My moms skin is alot lighter, and she is a bit shorter. Buut, I can't get it out of my head now.\n\nMy family wants to meet her and I'm afraid to introduce her to them. Could really use some insight or advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This year I began my freshman year of college and left my hometown for the first time. My best friend had to stay in town for her senior year of high school. When I left she was dating another one of my friends and things were really good for her. She was normal and I didn't have to worry so much of staying in touch while I was in school.\n\nTowards the last month of school I was beginning to get phone calls from mutual friends saying that she was talking to this absolute loser. He's a rude snotty brat that gets publicly intoxicated and starts fights very often. He steals a lot and was generally disliked by most of our high school. When I finally came home I talked to her about it and asked why she would want to talk to someone like this and she just loves how he showers her with attention. Now none of her friends get to see her because she spends all of her time with this kid. She steals a lot and drinks too excess. She's moving to the opposite side of the country in a few months and we're scared she's going to bring him with her.\n\nMe and her close group of friends don't know what to do. I'm scared that if I see this kid in public I might get into an altercation that would surely ruin my friendship. Should we sit her down and talk to her about? Should we let it ride out? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This year I began my freshman year of college and left my hometown for the first time. My best friend had to stay in town for her senior year of high school. When I left she was dating another one of my friends and things were really good for her. She was normal and I didn't have to worry so much of staying in touch while I was in school.\n\nTowards the last month of school I was beginning to get phone calls from mutual friends saying that she was talking to this absolute loser. He's a rude snotty brat that gets publicly intoxicated and starts fights very often. He steals a lot and was generally disliked by most of our high school. When I finally came home I talked to her about it and asked why she would want to talk to someone like this and she just loves how he showers her with attention. Now none of her friends get to see her because she spends all of her time with this kid. She steals a lot and drinks too excess. She's moving to the opposite side of the country in a few months and we're scared she's going to bring him with her.\n\nMe and her close group of friends don't know what to do. I'm scared that if I see this kid in public I might get into an altercation that would surely ruin my friendship. Should we sit her down and talk to her about? Should we let it ride out? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This year I began my freshman year of college and left my hometown for the first time. My best friend had to stay in town for her senior year of high school. When I left she was dating another one of my friends and things were really good for her. She was normal and I didn't have to worry so much of staying in touch while I was in school.\n\nTowards the last month of school I was beginning to get phone calls from mutual friends saying that she was talking to this absolute loser. He's a rude snotty brat that gets publicly intoxicated and starts fights very often. He steals a lot and was generally disliked by most of our high school. When I finally came home I talked to her about it and asked why she would want to talk to someone like this and she just loves how he showers her with attention. Now none of her friends get to see her because she spends all of her time with this kid. She steals a lot and drinks too excess. She's moving to the opposite side of the country in a few months and we're scared she's going to bring him with her.\n\nMe and her close group of friends don't know what to do. I'm scared that if I see this kid in public I might get into an altercation that would surely ruin my friendship. Should we sit her down and talk to her about? Should we let it ride out? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So.Where do I begin? \n\nI am 15 years old, 5'11, 160 pounds, and I really like a girl.(less relevant) but, I am too nervous to ask anything because I feel like every guy is better for her than I am and that compared to them, I'm nothing. I'm funny, and I know I look good (on many occasions called gorgeous) but.I just cant see it myself, It may be true.but I cant see it.\n\nI dont play a sport for my city, I dont play high in sport leauges, I dont do anything really phenomenal (other than.Caring and.I am an expert in Java) So, to me I can't see why she should take me over, a great sports player.And I am deathly afraid that if I do ask her out, she would much rather prefer another guy over me.I constantly think \"Oh, this guy looks way better than me.\" Even though people tell me that it is simply not true.I dont know why im like this and I need help with that.\n\nThanks Guys"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So.Where do I begin? \n\nI am 15 years old, 5'11, 160 pounds, and I really like a girl.(less relevant) but, I am too nervous to ask anything because I feel like every guy is better for her than I am and that compared to them, I'm nothing. I'm funny, and I know I look good (on many occasions called gorgeous) but.I just cant see it myself, It may be true.but I cant see it.\n\nI dont play a sport for my city, I dont play high in sport leauges, I dont do anything really phenomenal (other than.Caring and.I am an expert in Java) So, to me I can't see why she should take me over, a great sports player.And I am deathly afraid that if I do ask her out, she would much rather prefer another guy over me.I constantly think \"Oh, this guy looks way better than me.\" Even though people tell me that it is simply not true.I dont know why im like this and I need help with that.\n\nThanks Guys"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So.Where do I begin? \n\nI am 15 years old, 5'11, 160 pounds, and I really like a girl.(less relevant) but, I am too nervous to ask anything because I feel like every guy is better for her than I am and that compared to them, I'm nothing. I'm funny, and I know I look good (on many occasions called gorgeous) but.I just cant see it myself, It may be true.but I cant see it.\n\nI dont play a sport for my city, I dont play high in sport leauges, I dont do anything really phenomenal (other than.Caring and.I am an expert in Java) So, to me I can't see why she should take me over, a great sports player.And I am deathly afraid that if I do ask her out, she would much rather prefer another guy over me.I constantly think \"Oh, this guy looks way better than me.\" Even though people tell me that it is simply not true.I dont know why im like this and I need help with that.\n\nThanks Guys"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is loving kind and takes care of us. He just rejects me sexually. Cuddles are great and plenty, but sex is once a month at best. \n\nWhy? He masturbates 3 to 5 times a week. Why is his hand better than me? \n\nHow can I fix this? Consoling is a no go, and divorce over this is dumb as my libidio is low. Im just hurt from rejection and him loving his hand more than my own body. \n\nHe wont tell me why. He acts embarrased. \n\nNo, he isnt gay. I translate gay graphic novels for a living. Im jot exactly close minded and he would tell me. Plus we live in San Francisco. great place to be out and about. \n\nSo, what is it? Why does he never want me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is loving kind and takes care of us. He just rejects me sexually. Cuddles are great and plenty, but sex is once a month at best. \n\nWhy? He masturbates 3 to 5 times a week. Why is his hand better than me? \n\nHow can I fix this? Consoling is a no go, and divorce over this is dumb as my libidio is low. Im just hurt from rejection and him loving his hand more than my own body. \n\nHe wont tell me why. He acts embarrased. \n\nNo, he isnt gay. I translate gay graphic novels for a living. Im jot exactly close minded and he would tell me. Plus we live in San Francisco. great place to be out and about. \n\nSo, what is it? Why does he never want me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is loving kind and takes care of us. He just rejects me sexually. Cuddles are great and plenty, but sex is once a month at best. \n\nWhy? He masturbates 3 to 5 times a week. Why is his hand better than me? \n\nHow can I fix this? Consoling is a no go, and divorce over this is dumb as my libidio is low. Im just hurt from rejection and him loving his hand more than my own body. \n\nHe wont tell me why. He acts embarrased. \n\nNo, he isnt gay. I translate gay graphic novels for a living. Im jot exactly close minded and he would tell me. Plus we live in San Francisco. great place to be out and about. \n\nSo, what is it? Why does he never want me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm babysitting two little dogs through a website called Rover. An owner contacts me online when he is going out of town, I watch the dogs and get paid. These two dogs were with me for 5 nights. I have a full time job. When I went to work, I came home and one of them had completely destroyed my expensive reading glasses, my flats and my EarPods for my iPhone. They did well over $100 worth of damage. A lot more damage then I am getting paid for. They had to jump on a table to get to that stuff, it was not laying on the ground. Do I tell the owner that the dogs damaged my property? If I tell him, should I expect him to pay for it? Or is that the risk I take watching a stranger's dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm babysitting two little dogs through a website called Rover. An owner contacts me online when he is going out of town, I watch the dogs and get paid. These two dogs were with me for 5 nights. I have a full time job. When I went to work, I came home and one of them had completely destroyed my expensive reading glasses, my flats and my EarPods for my iPhone. They did well over $100 worth of damage. A lot more damage then I am getting paid for. They had to jump on a table to get to that stuff, it was not laying on the ground. Do I tell the owner that the dogs damaged my property? If I tell him, should I expect him to pay for it? Or is that the risk I take watching a stranger's dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm babysitting two little dogs through a website called Rover. An owner contacts me online when he is going out of town, I watch the dogs and get paid. These two dogs were with me for 5 nights. I have a full time job. When I went to work, I came home and one of them had completely destroyed my expensive reading glasses, my flats and my EarPods for my iPhone. They did well over $100 worth of damage. A lot more damage then I am getting paid for. They had to jump on a table to get to that stuff, it was not laying on the ground. Do I tell the owner that the dogs damaged my property? If I tell him, should I expect him to pay for it? Or is that the risk I take watching a stranger's dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm babysitting two little dogs through a website called Rover. An owner contacts me online when he is going out of town, I watch the dogs and get paid. These two dogs were with me for 5 nights. I have a full time job. When I went to work, I came home and one of them had completely destroyed my expensive reading glasses, my flats and my EarPods for my iPhone. They did well over $100 worth of damage. A lot more damage then I am getting paid for. They had to jump on a table to get to that stuff, it was not laying on the ground. Do I tell the owner that the dogs damaged my property? If I tell him, should I expect him to pay for it? Or is that the risk I take watching a stranger's dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm babysitting two little dogs through a website called Rover. An owner contacts me online when he is going out of town, I watch the dogs and get paid. These two dogs were with me for 5 nights. I have a full time job. When I went to work, I came home and one of them had completely destroyed my expensive reading glasses, my flats and my EarPods for my iPhone. They did well over $100 worth of damage. A lot more damage then I am getting paid for. They had to jump on a table to get to that stuff, it was not laying on the ground. Do I tell the owner that the dogs damaged my property? If I tell him, should I expect him to pay for it? Or is that the risk I take watching a stranger's dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm babysitting two little dogs through a website called Rover. An owner contacts me online when he is going out of town, I watch the dogs and get paid. These two dogs were with me for 5 nights. I have a full time job. When I went to work, I came home and one of them had completely destroyed my expensive reading glasses, my flats and my EarPods for my iPhone. They did well over $100 worth of damage. A lot more damage then I am getting paid for. They had to jump on a table to get to that stuff, it was not laying on the ground. Do I tell the owner that the dogs damaged my property? If I tell him, should I expect him to pay for it? Or is that the risk I take watching a stranger's dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm 25/m 5'8\", been dieting and exercising for about 12 weeks now. Dropped about 20 pounds, starting at 240 and currently standing at 218 this morning. When I started, I stayed away from a lot of social gatherings and just focused on my program. Well honestly I was just a bit self-conscious about how much I gained. I also have a skin condition on my face that causes rashes to break out a lot. Anyway, I skipped out on a lot of birthdays, graduations, etc. Around week 8 I felt confident enough to start going out again, the diet has pretty much eased the rashes on my face and I'm more clear than I have been in awhile. My friends noticed my weight loss immediately. These days I'm starting to attend more gatherings and kind of regretting it, haha. I find it hard to stay away from all the drinks and snacks that come along with it. From starting at a pace of 2-5 pounds lost every week, I haven't lost any weight in the past 2 weeks. Thankfully I haven't gained."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm 25/m 5'8\", been dieting and exercising for about 12 weeks now. Dropped about 20 pounds, starting at 240 and currently standing at 218 this morning. When I started, I stayed away from a lot of social gatherings and just focused on my program. Well honestly I was just a bit self-conscious about how much I gained. I also have a skin condition on my face that causes rashes to break out a lot. Anyway, I skipped out on a lot of birthdays, graduations, etc. Around week 8 I felt confident enough to start going out again, the diet has pretty much eased the rashes on my face and I'm more clear than I have been in awhile. My friends noticed my weight loss immediately. These days I'm starting to attend more gatherings and kind of regretting it, haha. I find it hard to stay away from all the drinks and snacks that come along with it. From starting at a pace of 2-5 pounds lost every week, I haven't lost any weight in the past 2 weeks. Thankfully I haven't gained."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm 25/m 5'8\", been dieting and exercising for about 12 weeks now. Dropped about 20 pounds, starting at 240 and currently standing at 218 this morning. When I started, I stayed away from a lot of social gatherings and just focused on my program. Well honestly I was just a bit self-conscious about how much I gained. I also have a skin condition on my face that causes rashes to break out a lot. Anyway, I skipped out on a lot of birthdays, graduations, etc. Around week 8 I felt confident enough to start going out again, the diet has pretty much eased the rashes on my face and I'm more clear than I have been in awhile. My friends noticed my weight loss immediately. These days I'm starting to attend more gatherings and kind of regretting it, haha. I find it hard to stay away from all the drinks and snacks that come along with it. From starting at a pace of 2-5 pounds lost every week, I haven't lost any weight in the past 2 weeks. Thankfully I haven't gained."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi girls. Need some advice and never been in this position that I know of before. We've hung out for almost a month now. Never been sexual besides some kissing and light touching and he just recently told me he has had herpes for a while and for him it is very manageable. I could tell it was very hard for him to tell me. He is a big strong guy and had tears in his eyes telling me. He said he isn't on meds but he'd b willing to for sure. \n\nHe seems like such a great guy, he has a good job, is very attractive and we click so well. We are both in our late 20s. What should I do? I know the worst part of this disease appears to be the stigma and like one in five people\n\nOr so have it. I am scared to let him walk but obviously I don't want herpes myself. I just know if he didn't have this condition we could really be something. We have a ton of common interests and he seems to have a lot going for him. But I don't know what to do. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi girls. Need some advice and never been in this position that I know of before. We've hung out for almost a month now. Never been sexual besides some kissing and light touching and he just recently told me he has had herpes for a while and for him it is very manageable. I could tell it was very hard for him to tell me. He is a big strong guy and had tears in his eyes telling me. He said he isn't on meds but he'd b willing to for sure. \n\nHe seems like such a great guy, he has a good job, is very attractive and we click so well. We are both in our late 20s. What should I do? I know the worst part of this disease appears to be the stigma and like one in five people\n\nOr so have it. I am scared to let him walk but obviously I don't want herpes myself. I just know if he didn't have this condition we could really be something. We have a ton of common interests and he seems to have a lot going for him. But I don't know what to do. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi girls. Need some advice and never been in this position that I know of before. We've hung out for almost a month now. Never been sexual besides some kissing and light touching and he just recently told me he has had herpes for a while and for him it is very manageable. I could tell it was very hard for him to tell me. He is a big strong guy and had tears in his eyes telling me. He said he isn't on meds but he'd b willing to for sure. \n\nHe seems like such a great guy, he has a good job, is very attractive and we click so well. We are both in our late 20s. What should I do? I know the worst part of this disease appears to be the stigma and like one in five people\n\nOr so have it. I am scared to let him walk but obviously I don't want herpes myself. I just know if he didn't have this condition we could really be something. We have a ton of common interests and he seems to have a lot going for him. But I don't know what to do. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly - sorry for the 'downer' on a day like today - just really on my mind.\n\nWell Reddit, another year has come around and its Christmas - I work in retail so I'm surrounded by people that are talking about doing everything with the family and friends, buying presents for everyone, so on and so fourth.\n\nWith my career, and it being my own choice, I sometimes have to move to different places to manage stores, its still a yes/no choice but to move up its something that I have to do and shouldn't really say NO to, as its something that is somewhat required of you (see of it as, what are you willing to give up to get a chance of a life time) - although I'm starting to think just how much of my own life am I giving up to chase my dreams?\n\nI don't live with my family anymore, and I'm roughly 1200km from them (not much, I know, but we are talking about $600 in flights, possibly more for return) - my girlfriend is now even further away, and shits getting pretty tough there too with the distance and not being able to be there for each other.\n\nI left most of my friends, and rarely hear from them now (could be partly my fault not speaking to them either, but frankly I'm pretty busy most of the time and we just end up drifting apart).\n\nSo reddit, without giving you the entire life story, I ask for your guidance:\n\nMy job could potentially give me (X) amount of money to live comfortably for the rest of my life, filling a dream that I fill I would love to achieve - but in the process losing the closeness of friends, family and loved ones - but possibly getting them back in the end?\n\nOr do I get out now, move back to family and loved ones (in an area possibly without as good job prospects and in some ways settle for 'second best' or have to work even harder to get where I want to be?\n\nIf you have any questions, I'll try to answer them - I mean, I don't have anything to do today on Christmas, right? I'm alone and self reflecting!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly - sorry for the 'downer' on a day like today - just really on my mind.\n\nWell Reddit, another year has come around and its Christmas - I work in retail so I'm surrounded by people that are talking about doing everything with the family and friends, buying presents for everyone, so on and so fourth.\n\nWith my career, and it being my own choice, I sometimes have to move to different places to manage stores, its still a yes/no choice but to move up its something that I have to do and shouldn't really say NO to, as its something that is somewhat required of you (see of it as, what are you willing to give up to get a chance of a life time) - although I'm starting to think just how much of my own life am I giving up to chase my dreams?\n\nI don't live with my family anymore, and I'm roughly 1200km from them (not much, I know, but we are talking about $600 in flights, possibly more for return) - my girlfriend is now even further away, and shits getting pretty tough there too with the distance and not being able to be there for each other.\n\nI left most of my friends, and rarely hear from them now (could be partly my fault not speaking to them either, but frankly I'm pretty busy most of the time and we just end up drifting apart).\n\nSo reddit, without giving you the entire life story, I ask for your guidance:\n\nMy job could potentially give me (X) amount of money to live comfortably for the rest of my life, filling a dream that I fill I would love to achieve - but in the process losing the closeness of friends, family and loved ones - but possibly getting them back in the end?\n\nOr do I get out now, move back to family and loved ones (in an area possibly without as good job prospects and in some ways settle for 'second best' or have to work even harder to get where I want to be?\n\nIf you have any questions, I'll try to answer them - I mean, I don't have anything to do today on Christmas, right? I'm alone and self reflecting!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly - sorry for the 'downer' on a day like today - just really on my mind.\n\nWell Reddit, another year has come around and its Christmas - I work in retail so I'm surrounded by people that are talking about doing everything with the family and friends, buying presents for everyone, so on and so fourth.\n\nWith my career, and it being my own choice, I sometimes have to move to different places to manage stores, its still a yes/no choice but to move up its something that I have to do and shouldn't really say NO to, as its something that is somewhat required of you (see of it as, what are you willing to give up to get a chance of a life time) - although I'm starting to think just how much of my own life am I giving up to chase my dreams?\n\nI don't live with my family anymore, and I'm roughly 1200km from them (not much, I know, but we are talking about $600 in flights, possibly more for return) - my girlfriend is now even further away, and shits getting pretty tough there too with the distance and not being able to be there for each other.\n\nI left most of my friends, and rarely hear from them now (could be partly my fault not speaking to them either, but frankly I'm pretty busy most of the time and we just end up drifting apart).\n\nSo reddit, without giving you the entire life story, I ask for your guidance:\n\nMy job could potentially give me (X) amount of money to live comfortably for the rest of my life, filling a dream that I fill I would love to achieve - but in the process losing the closeness of friends, family and loved ones - but possibly getting them back in the end?\n\nOr do I get out now, move back to family and loved ones (in an area possibly without as good job prospects and in some ways settle for 'second best' or have to work even harder to get where I want to be?\n\nIf you have any questions, I'll try to answer them - I mean, I don't have anything to do today on Christmas, right? I'm alone and self reflecting!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly - sorry for the 'downer' on a day like today - just really on my mind.\n\nWell Reddit, another year has come around and its Christmas - I work in retail so I'm surrounded by people that are talking about doing everything with the family and friends, buying presents for everyone, so on and so fourth.\n\nWith my career, and it being my own choice, I sometimes have to move to different places to manage stores, its still a yes/no choice but to move up its something that I have to do and shouldn't really say NO to, as its something that is somewhat required of you (see of it as, what are you willing to give up to get a chance of a life time) - although I'm starting to think just how much of my own life am I giving up to chase my dreams?\n\nI don't live with my family anymore, and I'm roughly 1200km from them (not much, I know, but we are talking about $600 in flights, possibly more for return) - my girlfriend is now even further away, and shits getting pretty tough there too with the distance and not being able to be there for each other.\n\nI left most of my friends, and rarely hear from them now (could be partly my fault not speaking to them either, but frankly I'm pretty busy most of the time and we just end up drifting apart).\n\nSo reddit, without giving you the entire life story, I ask for your guidance:\n\nMy job could potentially give me (X) amount of money to live comfortably for the rest of my life, filling a dream that I fill I would love to achieve - but in the process losing the closeness of friends, family and loved ones - but possibly getting them back in the end?\n\nOr do I get out now, move back to family and loved ones (in an area possibly without as good job prospects and in some ways settle for 'second best' or have to work even harder to get where I want to be?\n\nIf you have any questions, I'll try to answer them - I mean, I don't have anything to do today on Christmas, right? I'm alone and self reflecting!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly - sorry for the 'downer' on a day like today - just really on my mind.\n\nWell Reddit, another year has come around and its Christmas - I work in retail so I'm surrounded by people that are talking about doing everything with the family and friends, buying presents for everyone, so on and so fourth.\n\nWith my career, and it being my own choice, I sometimes have to move to different places to manage stores, its still a yes/no choice but to move up its something that I have to do and shouldn't really say NO to, as its something that is somewhat required of you (see of it as, what are you willing to give up to get a chance of a life time) - although I'm starting to think just how much of my own life am I giving up to chase my dreams?\n\nI don't live with my family anymore, and I'm roughly 1200km from them (not much, I know, but we are talking about $600 in flights, possibly more for return) - my girlfriend is now even further away, and shits getting pretty tough there too with the distance and not being able to be there for each other.\n\nI left most of my friends, and rarely hear from them now (could be partly my fault not speaking to them either, but frankly I'm pretty busy most of the time and we just end up drifting apart).\n\nSo reddit, without giving you the entire life story, I ask for your guidance:\n\nMy job could potentially give me (X) amount of money to live comfortably for the rest of my life, filling a dream that I fill I would love to achieve - but in the process losing the closeness of friends, family and loved ones - but possibly getting them back in the end?\n\nOr do I get out now, move back to family and loved ones (in an area possibly without as good job prospects and in some ways settle for 'second best' or have to work even harder to get where I want to be?\n\nIf you have any questions, I'll try to answer them - I mean, I don't have anything to do today on Christmas, right? I'm alone and self reflecting!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly - sorry for the 'downer' on a day like today - just really on my mind.\n\nWell Reddit, another year has come around and its Christmas - I work in retail so I'm surrounded by people that are talking about doing everything with the family and friends, buying presents for everyone, so on and so fourth.\n\nWith my career, and it being my own choice, I sometimes have to move to different places to manage stores, its still a yes/no choice but to move up its something that I have to do and shouldn't really say NO to, as its something that is somewhat required of you (see of it as, what are you willing to give up to get a chance of a life time) - although I'm starting to think just how much of my own life am I giving up to chase my dreams?\n\nI don't live with my family anymore, and I'm roughly 1200km from them (not much, I know, but we are talking about $600 in flights, possibly more for return) - my girlfriend is now even further away, and shits getting pretty tough there too with the distance and not being able to be there for each other.\n\nI left most of my friends, and rarely hear from them now (could be partly my fault not speaking to them either, but frankly I'm pretty busy most of the time and we just end up drifting apart).\n\nSo reddit, without giving you the entire life story, I ask for your guidance:\n\nMy job could potentially give me (X) amount of money to live comfortably for the rest of my life, filling a dream that I fill I would love to achieve - but in the process losing the closeness of friends, family and loved ones - but possibly getting them back in the end?\n\nOr do I get out now, move back to family and loved ones (in an area possibly without as good job prospects and in some ways settle for 'second best' or have to work even harder to get where I want to be?\n\nIf you have any questions, I'll try to answer them - I mean, I don't have anything to do today on Christmas, right? I'm alone and self reflecting!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (21M) whom I (21F) was dating for a couple months before I moved away (we're just \"casual\"/friends now) is going through a lot of acute stress in his life at the moment. He recently broke his arm and is stressing about that because it interferes with him being able to work out (which he used to do to keep him in his \"groove\") and do a lot of other things, a lot of things at his apartment are getting broken, he got his car totaled in an accident, one of his family members was suddenly sent to the hospital, etc. I wish I were there by his side, but I'm 300 miles away, and I don't know what I could do to help alleviate his stress. When we talk on the phone, I try my best to be understanding and be a good listening ear so he could at least talk about it and vent, but he's pretty emotionally reserved and doesn't delve into his problems and instead asks me about my day and what I'm going through. I guess he doesn't like talking about that stuff, so I want to see if I could help him in other ways. r/relationships, what do you recommend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (21M) whom I (21F) was dating for a couple months before I moved away (we're just \"casual\"/friends now) is going through a lot of acute stress in his life at the moment. He recently broke his arm and is stressing about that because it interferes with him being able to work out (which he used to do to keep him in his \"groove\") and do a lot of other things, a lot of things at his apartment are getting broken, he got his car totaled in an accident, one of his family members was suddenly sent to the hospital, etc. I wish I were there by his side, but I'm 300 miles away, and I don't know what I could do to help alleviate his stress. When we talk on the phone, I try my best to be understanding and be a good listening ear so he could at least talk about it and vent, but he's pretty emotionally reserved and doesn't delve into his problems and instead asks me about my day and what I'm going through. I guess he doesn't like talking about that stuff, so I want to see if I could help him in other ways. r/relationships, what do you recommend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (21M) whom I (21F) was dating for a couple months before I moved away (we're just \"casual\"/friends now) is going through a lot of acute stress in his life at the moment. He recently broke his arm and is stressing about that because it interferes with him being able to work out (which he used to do to keep him in his \"groove\") and do a lot of other things, a lot of things at his apartment are getting broken, he got his car totaled in an accident, one of his family members was suddenly sent to the hospital, etc. I wish I were there by his side, but I'm 300 miles away, and I don't know what I could do to help alleviate his stress. When we talk on the phone, I try my best to be understanding and be a good listening ear so he could at least talk about it and vent, but he's pretty emotionally reserved and doesn't delve into his problems and instead asks me about my day and what I'm going through. I guess he doesn't like talking about that stuff, so I want to see if I could help him in other ways. r/relationships, what do you recommend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (21M) whom I (21F) was dating for a couple months before I moved away (we're just \"casual\"/friends now) is going through a lot of acute stress in his life at the moment. He recently broke his arm and is stressing about that because it interferes with him being able to work out (which he used to do to keep him in his \"groove\") and do a lot of other things, a lot of things at his apartment are getting broken, he got his car totaled in an accident, one of his family members was suddenly sent to the hospital, etc. I wish I were there by his side, but I'm 300 miles away, and I don't know what I could do to help alleviate his stress. When we talk on the phone, I try my best to be understanding and be a good listening ear so he could at least talk about it and vent, but he's pretty emotionally reserved and doesn't delve into his problems and instead asks me about my day and what I'm going through. I guess he doesn't like talking about that stuff, so I want to see if I could help him in other ways. r/relationships, what do you recommend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (21M) whom I (21F) was dating for a couple months before I moved away (we're just \"casual\"/friends now) is going through a lot of acute stress in his life at the moment. He recently broke his arm and is stressing about that because it interferes with him being able to work out (which he used to do to keep him in his \"groove\") and do a lot of other things, a lot of things at his apartment are getting broken, he got his car totaled in an accident, one of his family members was suddenly sent to the hospital, etc. I wish I were there by his side, but I'm 300 miles away, and I don't know what I could do to help alleviate his stress. When we talk on the phone, I try my best to be understanding and be a good listening ear so he could at least talk about it and vent, but he's pretty emotionally reserved and doesn't delve into his problems and instead asks me about my day and what I'm going through. I guess he doesn't like talking about that stuff, so I want to see if I could help him in other ways. r/relationships, what do you recommend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (21M) whom I (21F) was dating for a couple months before I moved away (we're just \"casual\"/friends now) is going through a lot of acute stress in his life at the moment. He recently broke his arm and is stressing about that because it interferes with him being able to work out (which he used to do to keep him in his \"groove\") and do a lot of other things, a lot of things at his apartment are getting broken, he got his car totaled in an accident, one of his family members was suddenly sent to the hospital, etc. I wish I were there by his side, but I'm 300 miles away, and I don't know what I could do to help alleviate his stress. When we talk on the phone, I try my best to be understanding and be a good listening ear so he could at least talk about it and vent, but he's pretty emotionally reserved and doesn't delve into his problems and instead asks me about my day and what I'm going through. I guess he doesn't like talking about that stuff, so I want to see if I could help him in other ways. r/relationships, what do you recommend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist.\n I'm a 20 year old female. \n\nI never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. \n\nI squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. \n\nJust wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist.\n I'm a 20 year old female. \n\nI never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. \n\nI squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. \n\nJust wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist.\n I'm a 20 year old female. \n\nI never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. \n\nI squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. \n\nJust wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So the other day my girlfriend for 6 months and I [18M] had a bit of an argument which lead to us talking about us breaking up. She told me that if I ever left her, she would still love me and wait for me to love her again even if I was dating someone else. She said she would never date anyone else again after me and even if she did, she would still have feelings for me and try to find some parts of me in that other guy.\n\nWhile this was an incredibly sweet thing to say, it comes at the wrong time for I feel myself losing feelings for her. I fear that we don't have enough in common (in fact we're opposites and in this case opposites don't attract). \n\nI don't want to treat her poorly and get her to leave me and stop loving me because I can't do that to her, but I feel like we should just be friends. How can I do this without treating her terribly while also getting her to lose feelings for me after time too? I don't want her to be the kind of obsessive ex. \n\nI've been trying to give her subtle hints that I'm not happy with her (no sexual contact, trying to keep the conversations short, spending less time with her)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So the other day my girlfriend for 6 months and I [18M] had a bit of an argument which lead to us talking about us breaking up. She told me that if I ever left her, she would still love me and wait for me to love her again even if I was dating someone else. She said she would never date anyone else again after me and even if she did, she would still have feelings for me and try to find some parts of me in that other guy.\n\nWhile this was an incredibly sweet thing to say, it comes at the wrong time for I feel myself losing feelings for her. I fear that we don't have enough in common (in fact we're opposites and in this case opposites don't attract). \n\nI don't want to treat her poorly and get her to leave me and stop loving me because I can't do that to her, but I feel like we should just be friends. How can I do this without treating her terribly while also getting her to lose feelings for me after time too? I don't want her to be the kind of obsessive ex. \n\nI've been trying to give her subtle hints that I'm not happy with her (no sexual contact, trying to keep the conversations short, spending less time with her)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So the other day my girlfriend for 6 months and I [18M] had a bit of an argument which lead to us talking about us breaking up. She told me that if I ever left her, she would still love me and wait for me to love her again even if I was dating someone else. She said she would never date anyone else again after me and even if she did, she would still have feelings for me and try to find some parts of me in that other guy.\n\nWhile this was an incredibly sweet thing to say, it comes at the wrong time for I feel myself losing feelings for her. I fear that we don't have enough in common (in fact we're opposites and in this case opposites don't attract). \n\nI don't want to treat her poorly and get her to leave me and stop loving me because I can't do that to her, but I feel like we should just be friends. How can I do this without treating her terribly while also getting her to lose feelings for me after time too? I don't want her to be the kind of obsessive ex. \n\nI've been trying to give her subtle hints that I'm not happy with her (no sexual contact, trying to keep the conversations short, spending less time with her)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick run down of the relationship:\n\nWhirlwind romance and 6 months later Married young (20 and 19 respectively), together for 14 years, 2 kids over the course of it. In the end a number of issues ended the relationship, to begin with my own inadequacies and addictions, but after the separation thinking about it i came to terms that maybe neither of us were overly happy. 3 days after the separation she asked me back, and i refused, saying we had more issues to work through.\n\nFor a long time after this i begged and pleaded and did everything i could to get us back together, but she needed to \"evaluate her feelings\", as she for a long time felt nothing towards me. A few weeks ago she requested i cut all non-essential contact (so only discussions about kid arrangements etc were to take place). Since then i have taken steps to survive, removing many itmes around my home that reminded me of \"us\", removing my wedding ring, ive had a sexual experience with someone else (nothing major and no harm done on either side, were both aware of the current situation) and been on my first date in 15 years.\n\nAfter a recent meet up with my wife, she confessed a number of feelings, such as jealousy, missing me, her heart wants me but her head says its a bad idea etc. The only feelings i'm experiencing are pity for how shes currently doing, and exasperation at how messed around im feeling with her off again-on again contact and physical/mental affection (often not both at the same time).\n\nIs this normal? am i going through a phase where if i tell her i dont feel anything it could change in 2 weeks and by then it will be too late? Or am i finally looking at moving my life on past this relationship?\nShould i be open about my feelings and experiences (we made a clause on breakup, she didnt want to know anything i did with other people while we were separated, and told me to lie if i had done anything) or would that just end everything, and if it did is that for the best?\n\nIf someone could just live my life for me for a bit and give it back in a few months that would be grand :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick run down of the relationship:\n\nWhirlwind romance and 6 months later Married young (20 and 19 respectively), together for 14 years, 2 kids over the course of it. In the end a number of issues ended the relationship, to begin with my own inadequacies and addictions, but after the separation thinking about it i came to terms that maybe neither of us were overly happy. 3 days after the separation she asked me back, and i refused, saying we had more issues to work through.\n\nFor a long time after this i begged and pleaded and did everything i could to get us back together, but she needed to \"evaluate her feelings\", as she for a long time felt nothing towards me. A few weeks ago she requested i cut all non-essential contact (so only discussions about kid arrangements etc were to take place). Since then i have taken steps to survive, removing many itmes around my home that reminded me of \"us\", removing my wedding ring, ive had a sexual experience with someone else (nothing major and no harm done on either side, were both aware of the current situation) and been on my first date in 15 years.\n\nAfter a recent meet up with my wife, she confessed a number of feelings, such as jealousy, missing me, her heart wants me but her head says its a bad idea etc. The only feelings i'm experiencing are pity for how shes currently doing, and exasperation at how messed around im feeling with her off again-on again contact and physical/mental affection (often not both at the same time).\n\nIs this normal? am i going through a phase where if i tell her i dont feel anything it could change in 2 weeks and by then it will be too late? Or am i finally looking at moving my life on past this relationship?\nShould i be open about my feelings and experiences (we made a clause on breakup, she didnt want to know anything i did with other people while we were separated, and told me to lie if i had done anything) or would that just end everything, and if it did is that for the best?\n\nIf someone could just live my life for me for a bit and give it back in a few months that would be grand :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick run down of the relationship:\n\nWhirlwind romance and 6 months later Married young (20 and 19 respectively), together for 14 years, 2 kids over the course of it. In the end a number of issues ended the relationship, to begin with my own inadequacies and addictions, but after the separation thinking about it i came to terms that maybe neither of us were overly happy. 3 days after the separation she asked me back, and i refused, saying we had more issues to work through.\n\nFor a long time after this i begged and pleaded and did everything i could to get us back together, but she needed to \"evaluate her feelings\", as she for a long time felt nothing towards me. A few weeks ago she requested i cut all non-essential contact (so only discussions about kid arrangements etc were to take place). Since then i have taken steps to survive, removing many itmes around my home that reminded me of \"us\", removing my wedding ring, ive had a sexual experience with someone else (nothing major and no harm done on either side, were both aware of the current situation) and been on my first date in 15 years.\n\nAfter a recent meet up with my wife, she confessed a number of feelings, such as jealousy, missing me, her heart wants me but her head says its a bad idea etc. The only feelings i'm experiencing are pity for how shes currently doing, and exasperation at how messed around im feeling with her off again-on again contact and physical/mental affection (often not both at the same time).\n\nIs this normal? am i going through a phase where if i tell her i dont feel anything it could change in 2 weeks and by then it will be too late? Or am i finally looking at moving my life on past this relationship?\nShould i be open about my feelings and experiences (we made a clause on breakup, she didnt want to know anything i did with other people while we were separated, and told me to lie if i had done anything) or would that just end everything, and if it did is that for the best?\n\nIf someone could just live my life for me for a bit and give it back in a few months that would be grand :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have to provide a bit of a back story. There is a husband and wife. They own a house. The husband dies and the wife has dementia and is put into a home. Due to the wife's lack of mental capacity, 3 of their daughters were appointed as executors. The house that the father and mother lived in is up for sale. The money from this sale would not be made probate, but would go to the mother and pay for her stay at the nursing home.\n\nNOW for my question. Do all 3 of these sisters have to agree on the price of an offer in order to be able to sell it or do only 2 need to agree and they majority rule the other sister? Like if there was an offer of $150,000 and the 2 sisters agreed to that but the third sister said she doesn't want to accept any offer unless its $200,000, would it not matter because 2 over power one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have to provide a bit of a back story. There is a husband and wife. They own a house. The husband dies and the wife has dementia and is put into a home. Due to the wife's lack of mental capacity, 3 of their daughters were appointed as executors. The house that the father and mother lived in is up for sale. The money from this sale would not be made probate, but would go to the mother and pay for her stay at the nursing home.\n\nNOW for my question. Do all 3 of these sisters have to agree on the price of an offer in order to be able to sell it or do only 2 need to agree and they majority rule the other sister? Like if there was an offer of $150,000 and the 2 sisters agreed to that but the third sister said she doesn't want to accept any offer unless its $200,000, would it not matter because 2 over power one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have to provide a bit of a back story. There is a husband and wife. They own a house. The husband dies and the wife has dementia and is put into a home. Due to the wife's lack of mental capacity, 3 of their daughters were appointed as executors. The house that the father and mother lived in is up for sale. The money from this sale would not be made probate, but would go to the mother and pay for her stay at the nursing home.\n\nNOW for my question. Do all 3 of these sisters have to agree on the price of an offer in order to be able to sell it or do only 2 need to agree and they majority rule the other sister? Like if there was an offer of $150,000 and the 2 sisters agreed to that but the third sister said she doesn't want to accept any offer unless its $200,000, would it not matter because 2 over power one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I meet this girl that had a huge crush on me. She wouldn't leave me alone, like she would draw picture of me and send them to me over facebook, at my graduation ceremony from school she ran up and hugged me and wouldn't let me go until I went berserk and told her to get off me. Our friend circles blended over a little and I felt quite bad for blowing my lid at her at my graduation cause it might've been kinda embarrassing since she was in the grade below me, and she asked me to go out on a date with her and if I don't enjoy it I'll never have to deal with her again. \n\nSo I went on this date with her, didn't enjoy it mainly cause she just sat there in silence. So it was time for me to drive her back home, she gets in and starts striping down and I told her I'm really not in the mood and she eventually started putting her clothes back on. She kept up her side of the promise and I never had to deal with her again. \n\nDuring my mid-semester break I met up with another girl that was pretty cool, we kept in contact while I was at uni. Now this girl met the crazy one and asked me what happened with this other girl cause she said \"We [plzhelpme121] dated for a while and then when we got to have sex and then I left her\". \n\nNow that my mid-semester break is coming up soon I wanted to see if I could pursue something with the sane girl, which I have explained myself to and I don't know what to do and don't feel like dealing with this shit atm."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I meet this girl that had a huge crush on me. She wouldn't leave me alone, like she would draw picture of me and send them to me over facebook, at my graduation ceremony from school she ran up and hugged me and wouldn't let me go until I went berserk and told her to get off me. Our friend circles blended over a little and I felt quite bad for blowing my lid at her at my graduation cause it might've been kinda embarrassing since she was in the grade below me, and she asked me to go out on a date with her and if I don't enjoy it I'll never have to deal with her again. \n\nSo I went on this date with her, didn't enjoy it mainly cause she just sat there in silence. So it was time for me to drive her back home, she gets in and starts striping down and I told her I'm really not in the mood and she eventually started putting her clothes back on. She kept up her side of the promise and I never had to deal with her again. \n\nDuring my mid-semester break I met up with another girl that was pretty cool, we kept in contact while I was at uni. Now this girl met the crazy one and asked me what happened with this other girl cause she said \"We [plzhelpme121] dated for a while and then when we got to have sex and then I left her\". \n\nNow that my mid-semester break is coming up soon I wanted to see if I could pursue something with the sane girl, which I have explained myself to and I don't know what to do and don't feel like dealing with this shit atm."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I meet this girl that had a huge crush on me. She wouldn't leave me alone, like she would draw picture of me and send them to me over facebook, at my graduation ceremony from school she ran up and hugged me and wouldn't let me go until I went berserk and told her to get off me. Our friend circles blended over a little and I felt quite bad for blowing my lid at her at my graduation cause it might've been kinda embarrassing since she was in the grade below me, and she asked me to go out on a date with her and if I don't enjoy it I'll never have to deal with her again. \n\nSo I went on this date with her, didn't enjoy it mainly cause she just sat there in silence. So it was time for me to drive her back home, she gets in and starts striping down and I told her I'm really not in the mood and she eventually started putting her clothes back on. She kept up her side of the promise and I never had to deal with her again. \n\nDuring my mid-semester break I met up with another girl that was pretty cool, we kept in contact while I was at uni. Now this girl met the crazy one and asked me what happened with this other girl cause she said \"We [plzhelpme121] dated for a while and then when we got to have sex and then I left her\". \n\nNow that my mid-semester break is coming up soon I wanted to see if I could pursue something with the sane girl, which I have explained myself to and I don't know what to do and don't feel like dealing with this shit atm."
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