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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick back ground, I was only with my daughter's father for a very short time. He was in the military and got moved away when she was about 2. I thought he was decent guy and was involved as much as he could be and always paid support, gave gifts and saw her whenever he could. \n\nHe recently moved back into our city with the military and my daughter has been so excited. I am not happy with all the changes because I don't think he feeds her well, he wants her to play sports (both my girls are very arts and computer orientated). So far she has taken to all of this stuff because he's very handsome, charismatic and was a pro football player for two years. She is over the moon in love with him, which I don't want to stop even if I have issues with it. \n\nHe just texted me that he was going to take her to a fucking gun range after school. I said absolutely not. It's not safe and I do not believe in guns in any way shape or form and they should be banned and every gun owner should be arrested and locked away for life (yes I feel that strong). He said that he does have custodial rights and that as long as its legal, he can do what he wants. I said absolutely not. He said we could talk about it in person when they got to my house. \n\nI want to stave this off and go grab my daughter out of school right now and get a restraining order against him. This is sickening. I'm a momma bear and no one fucks with my kids like this. \n\nWe have an agreement (not legal, but written and signed) that he gets to pick her up from school on the days I'm in class. But from what I understand it could be used me in court and I guess technically what he is doing is not illegal (but it is grossly immoral in my opinion) \n\nCan anyone offer advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: * Age: 20\n* Sex: (trans) male\n* Height: 1.76m\n* Weight: 65kg\n* Race: Caucasian\n* Duration of complaint: 2nd day\n* Current medications (if any): Testosterone gel (daily), Vitamine D supplements (weekly)\n\nHad (yet another!) damn cold recently, but it's almost gone now. Yesterday it was a bit worse, and I was also feeling dizzy all of yesterday. From the moment I tilted my head in the morning while getting up, until I went to bed, too much movement made my head feel dizzy. My nose was BARELY stuffy, my throat entirely okay. No headache. I ended up lying down, watching stuff and felt a bit better.\n\nToday I started off feeling pretty good, went to the store to buy groceries, showered, made food and ate, sat in front of the PC for a while. but the moment I try to go back to studying for upcoming exams (which I did the day prior as well), the up and down motion of taking notes makes me feel dizzy again.\n\nI drank more than I usually do yesterday for that reason, ate well; lots of fruits and vegetables and whole meals. Been doing the same today.\n\nI've never felt dizzy from a cold, especially not when it was such a light one. I generally never feel dizzy - if I'm dehydrated, I generally get a headache from it first thing, and I drank so much I can't imagine it. I didn't exactly exercise loads these days, but I don't just sit around either. And it's not any different from my regular schedule.\n\nI'd just sleep it off but with the exams upcoming it's becoming a bit of a problem if I have to skip more and more days, but the dizziness is just too annoying after a while. Is there anything I'm missing? Am I still not drinking enough? (Going to the bathroom every half hour gets annoying after a while) Should I move more regardless? (I'd go outside more but I loathe the cold)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: * Age: 20\n* Sex: (trans) male\n* Height: 1.76m\n* Weight: 65kg\n* Race: Caucasian\n* Duration of complaint: 2nd day\n* Current medications (if any): Testosterone gel (daily), Vitamine D supplements (weekly)\n\nHad (yet another!) damn cold recently, but it's almost gone now. Yesterday it was a bit worse, and I was also feeling dizzy all of yesterday. From the moment I tilted my head in the morning while getting up, until I went to bed, too much movement made my head feel dizzy. My nose was BARELY stuffy, my throat entirely okay. No headache. I ended up lying down, watching stuff and felt a bit better.\n\nToday I started off feeling pretty good, went to the store to buy groceries, showered, made food and ate, sat in front of the PC for a while. but the moment I try to go back to studying for upcoming exams (which I did the day prior as well), the up and down motion of taking notes makes me feel dizzy again.\n\nI drank more than I usually do yesterday for that reason, ate well; lots of fruits and vegetables and whole meals. Been doing the same today.\n\nI've never felt dizzy from a cold, especially not when it was such a light one. I generally never feel dizzy - if I'm dehydrated, I generally get a headache from it first thing, and I drank so much I can't imagine it. I didn't exactly exercise loads these days, but I don't just sit around either. And it's not any different from my regular schedule.\n\nI'd just sleep it off but with the exams upcoming it's becoming a bit of a problem if I have to skip more and more days, but the dizziness is just too annoying after a while. Is there anything I'm missing? Am I still not drinking enough? (Going to the bathroom every half hour gets annoying after a while) Should I move more regardless? (I'd go outside more but I loathe the cold)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: * Age: 20\n* Sex: (trans) male\n* Height: 1.76m\n* Weight: 65kg\n* Race: Caucasian\n* Duration of complaint: 2nd day\n* Current medications (if any): Testosterone gel (daily), Vitamine D supplements (weekly)\n\nHad (yet another!) damn cold recently, but it's almost gone now. Yesterday it was a bit worse, and I was also feeling dizzy all of yesterday. From the moment I tilted my head in the morning while getting up, until I went to bed, too much movement made my head feel dizzy. My nose was BARELY stuffy, my throat entirely okay. No headache. I ended up lying down, watching stuff and felt a bit better.\n\nToday I started off feeling pretty good, went to the store to buy groceries, showered, made food and ate, sat in front of the PC for a while. but the moment I try to go back to studying for upcoming exams (which I did the day prior as well), the up and down motion of taking notes makes me feel dizzy again.\n\nI drank more than I usually do yesterday for that reason, ate well; lots of fruits and vegetables and whole meals. Been doing the same today.\n\nI've never felt dizzy from a cold, especially not when it was such a light one. I generally never feel dizzy - if I'm dehydrated, I generally get a headache from it first thing, and I drank so much I can't imagine it. I didn't exactly exercise loads these days, but I don't just sit around either. And it's not any different from my regular schedule.\n\nI'd just sleep it off but with the exams upcoming it's becoming a bit of a problem if I have to skip more and more days, but the dizziness is just too annoying after a while. Is there anything I'm missing? Am I still not drinking enough? (Going to the bathroom every half hour gets annoying after a while) Should I move more regardless? (I'd go outside more but I loathe the cold)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened last year, but I feel as though I effed up so hard I should share it with fellow effer uppers. \n\nMy husband and I work opposite shifts during the week. He leaves for work at 4:30am and gets home around 2:30-3, and I leave for work at 10:30am and get home around 8:30. He usually is in bed before or shortly after I get home and has already eaten dinner/lounged around a bit. He'll get tired and sometimes leave his cup or plate from dinner out on the coffee table. \n\nWe don't have a dishwasher so sometimes I will just reuse his cup if we are drinking the same thing. This period of time we were on a cranberry-grape juice kick. I came home from work and made some food, and refilled the cup he had used as it had about an inch of juice left in it. I finish eating and start chugging the juice and I have a teeny tiny amount left when I notice something floating around and flowing up toward my mouth as I drink. \n\nWhat the hell? What is that? Oh, just my husband's TRIMMED TOENAILS.\n\nI drank a whole cup of dark grape juice that camouflaged anything in it until the very end. There in the bottom of the damned cup were little off white crescents of clipped toenails. I usually ask him to please not throw them on the floor because stepping on them is sick, but what the shit. I'd rather step on them than have my drink flavored with sweaty warehouse worker toe clippings. GAGBARFVOMIT! I seriously cried a little and then told my best friend who still likes to remind me of the incident."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened last year, but I feel as though I effed up so hard I should share it with fellow effer uppers. \n\nMy husband and I work opposite shifts during the week. He leaves for work at 4:30am and gets home around 2:30-3, and I leave for work at 10:30am and get home around 8:30. He usually is in bed before or shortly after I get home and has already eaten dinner/lounged around a bit. He'll get tired and sometimes leave his cup or plate from dinner out on the coffee table. \n\nWe don't have a dishwasher so sometimes I will just reuse his cup if we are drinking the same thing. This period of time we were on a cranberry-grape juice kick. I came home from work and made some food, and refilled the cup he had used as it had about an inch of juice left in it. I finish eating and start chugging the juice and I have a teeny tiny amount left when I notice something floating around and flowing up toward my mouth as I drink. \n\nWhat the hell? What is that? Oh, just my husband's TRIMMED TOENAILS.\n\nI drank a whole cup of dark grape juice that camouflaged anything in it until the very end. There in the bottom of the damned cup were little off white crescents of clipped toenails. I usually ask him to please not throw them on the floor because stepping on them is sick, but what the shit. I'd rather step on them than have my drink flavored with sweaty warehouse worker toe clippings. GAGBARFVOMIT! I seriously cried a little and then told my best friend who still likes to remind me of the incident."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened last year, but I feel as though I effed up so hard I should share it with fellow effer uppers. \n\nMy husband and I work opposite shifts during the week. He leaves for work at 4:30am and gets home around 2:30-3, and I leave for work at 10:30am and get home around 8:30. He usually is in bed before or shortly after I get home and has already eaten dinner/lounged around a bit. He'll get tired and sometimes leave his cup or plate from dinner out on the coffee table. \n\nWe don't have a dishwasher so sometimes I will just reuse his cup if we are drinking the same thing. This period of time we were on a cranberry-grape juice kick. I came home from work and made some food, and refilled the cup he had used as it had about an inch of juice left in it. I finish eating and start chugging the juice and I have a teeny tiny amount left when I notice something floating around and flowing up toward my mouth as I drink. \n\nWhat the hell? What is that? Oh, just my husband's TRIMMED TOENAILS.\n\nI drank a whole cup of dark grape juice that camouflaged anything in it until the very end. There in the bottom of the damned cup were little off white crescents of clipped toenails. I usually ask him to please not throw them on the floor because stepping on them is sick, but what the shit. I'd rather step on them than have my drink flavored with sweaty warehouse worker toe clippings. GAGBARFVOMIT! I seriously cried a little and then told my best friend who still likes to remind me of the incident."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory \"didn't happen today\".\n\nAbout 2 years back or so I was in charge of a big portion of marketing at one of my previous companies and was the only graphic designer. We had just recently kickstarted a community outreach and educational program for parents and their children.\n\nWell, there were community/educational brochures I designed to mass-print in a quantity of 10,000 brochures. These would go out to churches, rec centers, elementary schools, libraries - you know, community orgs and entities. \n\nWhen designing the brochure I inserted a placeholder phone number that was just a random 800 number for proofing purposes (it wasn't meant to stay and was meant to be replaced by a real number to our location). The brochures were approved and sent to print. That placeholder number stayed.\n\nWhen they came in, my manager and I were REALLY excited to see how they turned out (I worked really hard on them). We opened up the FedEx box, pulled them out and my boss turns to the page with the number and says \"Oh! You purchased a new number for this brochure?\" - I acted dumb to play it off and I couldn't say much but \"oh noo.\" \n\nShe picks up the phone and dials it and the good news here is that it turns out it's not a fake number.the bad news was that it was a number to a phone-sex hotline.\n\nI didn't get fired and my boss kept her composure quite well and just said \"okay.let's see how we can fix this\" - so I ordered a bunch of tiny permanent stickers to put over the brochure phone number."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory \"didn't happen today\".\n\nAbout 2 years back or so I was in charge of a big portion of marketing at one of my previous companies and was the only graphic designer. We had just recently kickstarted a community outreach and educational program for parents and their children.\n\nWell, there were community/educational brochures I designed to mass-print in a quantity of 10,000 brochures. These would go out to churches, rec centers, elementary schools, libraries - you know, community orgs and entities. \n\nWhen designing the brochure I inserted a placeholder phone number that was just a random 800 number for proofing purposes (it wasn't meant to stay and was meant to be replaced by a real number to our location). The brochures were approved and sent to print. That placeholder number stayed.\n\nWhen they came in, my manager and I were REALLY excited to see how they turned out (I worked really hard on them). We opened up the FedEx box, pulled them out and my boss turns to the page with the number and says \"Oh! You purchased a new number for this brochure?\" - I acted dumb to play it off and I couldn't say much but \"oh noo.\" \n\nShe picks up the phone and dials it and the good news here is that it turns out it's not a fake number.the bad news was that it was a number to a phone-sex hotline.\n\nI didn't get fired and my boss kept her composure quite well and just said \"okay.let's see how we can fix this\" - so I ordered a bunch of tiny permanent stickers to put over the brochure phone number."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory \"didn't happen today\".\n\nAbout 2 years back or so I was in charge of a big portion of marketing at one of my previous companies and was the only graphic designer. We had just recently kickstarted a community outreach and educational program for parents and their children.\n\nWell, there were community/educational brochures I designed to mass-print in a quantity of 10,000 brochures. These would go out to churches, rec centers, elementary schools, libraries - you know, community orgs and entities. \n\nWhen designing the brochure I inserted a placeholder phone number that was just a random 800 number for proofing purposes (it wasn't meant to stay and was meant to be replaced by a real number to our location). The brochures were approved and sent to print. That placeholder number stayed.\n\nWhen they came in, my manager and I were REALLY excited to see how they turned out (I worked really hard on them). We opened up the FedEx box, pulled them out and my boss turns to the page with the number and says \"Oh! You purchased a new number for this brochure?\" - I acted dumb to play it off and I couldn't say much but \"oh noo.\" \n\nShe picks up the phone and dials it and the good news here is that it turns out it's not a fake number.the bad news was that it was a number to a phone-sex hotline.\n\nI didn't get fired and my boss kept her composure quite well and just said \"okay.let's see how we can fix this\" - so I ordered a bunch of tiny permanent stickers to put over the brochure phone number."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory \"didn't happen today\".\n\nAbout 2 years back or so I was in charge of a big portion of marketing at one of my previous companies and was the only graphic designer. We had just recently kickstarted a community outreach and educational program for parents and their children.\n\nWell, there were community/educational brochures I designed to mass-print in a quantity of 10,000 brochures. These would go out to churches, rec centers, elementary schools, libraries - you know, community orgs and entities. \n\nWhen designing the brochure I inserted a placeholder phone number that was just a random 800 number for proofing purposes (it wasn't meant to stay and was meant to be replaced by a real number to our location). The brochures were approved and sent to print. That placeholder number stayed.\n\nWhen they came in, my manager and I were REALLY excited to see how they turned out (I worked really hard on them). We opened up the FedEx box, pulled them out and my boss turns to the page with the number and says \"Oh! You purchased a new number for this brochure?\" - I acted dumb to play it off and I couldn't say much but \"oh noo.\" \n\nShe picks up the phone and dials it and the good news here is that it turns out it's not a fake number.the bad news was that it was a number to a phone-sex hotline.\n\nI didn't get fired and my boss kept her composure quite well and just said \"okay.let's see how we can fix this\" - so I ordered a bunch of tiny permanent stickers to put over the brochure phone number."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory \"didn't happen today\".\n\nAbout 2 years back or so I was in charge of a big portion of marketing at one of my previous companies and was the only graphic designer. We had just recently kickstarted a community outreach and educational program for parents and their children.\n\nWell, there were community/educational brochures I designed to mass-print in a quantity of 10,000 brochures. These would go out to churches, rec centers, elementary schools, libraries - you know, community orgs and entities. \n\nWhen designing the brochure I inserted a placeholder phone number that was just a random 800 number for proofing purposes (it wasn't meant to stay and was meant to be replaced by a real number to our location). The brochures were approved and sent to print. That placeholder number stayed.\n\nWhen they came in, my manager and I were REALLY excited to see how they turned out (I worked really hard on them). We opened up the FedEx box, pulled them out and my boss turns to the page with the number and says \"Oh! You purchased a new number for this brochure?\" - I acted dumb to play it off and I couldn't say much but \"oh noo.\" \n\nShe picks up the phone and dials it and the good news here is that it turns out it's not a fake number.the bad news was that it was a number to a phone-sex hotline.\n\nI didn't get fired and my boss kept her composure quite well and just said \"okay.let's see how we can fix this\" - so I ordered a bunch of tiny permanent stickers to put over the brochure phone number."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory \"didn't happen today\".\n\nAbout 2 years back or so I was in charge of a big portion of marketing at one of my previous companies and was the only graphic designer. We had just recently kickstarted a community outreach and educational program for parents and their children.\n\nWell, there were community/educational brochures I designed to mass-print in a quantity of 10,000 brochures. These would go out to churches, rec centers, elementary schools, libraries - you know, community orgs and entities. \n\nWhen designing the brochure I inserted a placeholder phone number that was just a random 800 number for proofing purposes (it wasn't meant to stay and was meant to be replaced by a real number to our location). The brochures were approved and sent to print. That placeholder number stayed.\n\nWhen they came in, my manager and I were REALLY excited to see how they turned out (I worked really hard on them). We opened up the FedEx box, pulled them out and my boss turns to the page with the number and says \"Oh! You purchased a new number for this brochure?\" - I acted dumb to play it off and I couldn't say much but \"oh noo.\" \n\nShe picks up the phone and dials it and the good news here is that it turns out it's not a fake number.the bad news was that it was a number to a phone-sex hotline.\n\nI didn't get fired and my boss kept her composure quite well and just said \"okay.let's see how we can fix this\" - so I ordered a bunch of tiny permanent stickers to put over the brochure phone number."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Male, 22. Her: Female, 21. Dating about four months. Extremely happy relationship.\n\nI go to Hooters quite a bit. Maybe about once I week. I usually go with clients from work that I'm supposed to be entertaining. For those outside the US, Hooters is a restaurant whose main selling point is the scantily clad waitresses, but their food is good too. I go for the food, the boobs, and because it's great to entertain clients.\n\nI've been dating a girl for almost four months and we're extremely compatible, but every time I mention Hooters or the Tilted Kilt (basically Hooters with an Irish twist), she seems to be slightly uncomfortable and criticizes the chain. She called them \"skank restaurants\" yesterday. She's usually an extremely sweet girl and doesn't act like this, and definitely usually doesn't slut shame or anything like that.\n\nShe has never and I don't think would ever tell me to stop going but I don't think she's comfortable with it. Should I stop going for her or what?\n\nI know r/relationships jerk reaction is almost always, \"Omg break up with that bitch,\" but that is not the proper response here. I'm in absolute love with this girl and she never acts like this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Male, 22. Her: Female, 21. Dating about four months. Extremely happy relationship.\n\nI go to Hooters quite a bit. Maybe about once I week. I usually go with clients from work that I'm supposed to be entertaining. For those outside the US, Hooters is a restaurant whose main selling point is the scantily clad waitresses, but their food is good too. I go for the food, the boobs, and because it's great to entertain clients.\n\nI've been dating a girl for almost four months and we're extremely compatible, but every time I mention Hooters or the Tilted Kilt (basically Hooters with an Irish twist), she seems to be slightly uncomfortable and criticizes the chain. She called them \"skank restaurants\" yesterday. She's usually an extremely sweet girl and doesn't act like this, and definitely usually doesn't slut shame or anything like that.\n\nShe has never and I don't think would ever tell me to stop going but I don't think she's comfortable with it. Should I stop going for her or what?\n\nI know r/relationships jerk reaction is almost always, \"Omg break up with that bitch,\" but that is not the proper response here. I'm in absolute love with this girl and she never acts like this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Male, 22. Her: Female, 21. Dating about four months. Extremely happy relationship.\n\nI go to Hooters quite a bit. Maybe about once I week. I usually go with clients from work that I'm supposed to be entertaining. For those outside the US, Hooters is a restaurant whose main selling point is the scantily clad waitresses, but their food is good too. I go for the food, the boobs, and because it's great to entertain clients.\n\nI've been dating a girl for almost four months and we're extremely compatible, but every time I mention Hooters or the Tilted Kilt (basically Hooters with an Irish twist), she seems to be slightly uncomfortable and criticizes the chain. She called them \"skank restaurants\" yesterday. She's usually an extremely sweet girl and doesn't act like this, and definitely usually doesn't slut shame or anything like that.\n\nShe has never and I don't think would ever tell me to stop going but I don't think she's comfortable with it. Should I stop going for her or what?\n\nI know r/relationships jerk reaction is almost always, \"Omg break up with that bitch,\" but that is not the proper response here. I'm in absolute love with this girl and she never acts like this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Male, 22. Her: Female, 21. Dating about four months. Extremely happy relationship.\n\nI go to Hooters quite a bit. Maybe about once I week. I usually go with clients from work that I'm supposed to be entertaining. For those outside the US, Hooters is a restaurant whose main selling point is the scantily clad waitresses, but their food is good too. I go for the food, the boobs, and because it's great to entertain clients.\n\nI've been dating a girl for almost four months and we're extremely compatible, but every time I mention Hooters or the Tilted Kilt (basically Hooters with an Irish twist), she seems to be slightly uncomfortable and criticizes the chain. She called them \"skank restaurants\" yesterday. She's usually an extremely sweet girl and doesn't act like this, and definitely usually doesn't slut shame or anything like that.\n\nShe has never and I don't think would ever tell me to stop going but I don't think she's comfortable with it. Should I stop going for her or what?\n\nI know r/relationships jerk reaction is almost always, \"Omg break up with that bitch,\" but that is not the proper response here. I'm in absolute love with this girl and she never acts like this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Male, 22. Her: Female, 21. Dating about four months. Extremely happy relationship.\n\nI go to Hooters quite a bit. Maybe about once I week. I usually go with clients from work that I'm supposed to be entertaining. For those outside the US, Hooters is a restaurant whose main selling point is the scantily clad waitresses, but their food is good too. I go for the food, the boobs, and because it's great to entertain clients.\n\nI've been dating a girl for almost four months and we're extremely compatible, but every time I mention Hooters or the Tilted Kilt (basically Hooters with an Irish twist), she seems to be slightly uncomfortable and criticizes the chain. She called them \"skank restaurants\" yesterday. She's usually an extremely sweet girl and doesn't act like this, and definitely usually doesn't slut shame or anything like that.\n\nShe has never and I don't think would ever tell me to stop going but I don't think she's comfortable with it. Should I stop going for her or what?\n\nI know r/relationships jerk reaction is almost always, \"Omg break up with that bitch,\" but that is not the proper response here. I'm in absolute love with this girl and she never acts like this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Male, 22. Her: Female, 21. Dating about four months. Extremely happy relationship.\n\nI go to Hooters quite a bit. Maybe about once I week. I usually go with clients from work that I'm supposed to be entertaining. For those outside the US, Hooters is a restaurant whose main selling point is the scantily clad waitresses, but their food is good too. I go for the food, the boobs, and because it's great to entertain clients.\n\nI've been dating a girl for almost four months and we're extremely compatible, but every time I mention Hooters or the Tilted Kilt (basically Hooters with an Irish twist), she seems to be slightly uncomfortable and criticizes the chain. She called them \"skank restaurants\" yesterday. She's usually an extremely sweet girl and doesn't act like this, and definitely usually doesn't slut shame or anything like that.\n\nShe has never and I don't think would ever tell me to stop going but I don't think she's comfortable with it. Should I stop going for her or what?\n\nI know r/relationships jerk reaction is almost always, \"Omg break up with that bitch,\" but that is not the proper response here. I'm in absolute love with this girl and she never acts like this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, this is my first time asking the internet for advice on something but I really want this to work out for me.\n\nSo basically; this girl and I have known each other for about 4-5 years and we're pretty good friends and we get along pretty well, I'm good at making her laugh and she's great to talk to.\n\nWhen it comes to relationships, I've never even been in a semi-serious one before, although I'm after a stable, happy relationship that revolves around actual love and caring for each other, rather than the increasingly more typical \"whoo, relationship means sex!\" kind of relationship, what I'm trying to say here is I want this to count.\n\nI don't really want to go into too much fine detail here, but I'm after advice on how to get the ball rolling, whether digitally or in person. (I know in person makes them feel more special, but if I can't muster the courage, nobody's gonna be feeling special but me after I blow my chance.)\n\nWould it be better to ask her on a date? Just tell her how I feel about her and see her response, then move forward or withdraw depending on the response? Or the typical \"Will you go out with me?\" kinda thing.\n\nNow let's say we get this going, then what? We're both currently attending school, I don't have a job, so I have little to no income, so movies and dates can't really be a common thing, maybe occasional. maybe.\n\nI'd just like to reiterate that I lack confidence with relationships to the point I am actually slightly depressed (Not attention seeking, just elaborating on the case, haha)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, this is my first time asking the internet for advice on something but I really want this to work out for me.\n\nSo basically; this girl and I have known each other for about 4-5 years and we're pretty good friends and we get along pretty well, I'm good at making her laugh and she's great to talk to.\n\nWhen it comes to relationships, I've never even been in a semi-serious one before, although I'm after a stable, happy relationship that revolves around actual love and caring for each other, rather than the increasingly more typical \"whoo, relationship means sex!\" kind of relationship, what I'm trying to say here is I want this to count.\n\nI don't really want to go into too much fine detail here, but I'm after advice on how to get the ball rolling, whether digitally or in person. (I know in person makes them feel more special, but if I can't muster the courage, nobody's gonna be feeling special but me after I blow my chance.)\n\nWould it be better to ask her on a date? Just tell her how I feel about her and see her response, then move forward or withdraw depending on the response? Or the typical \"Will you go out with me?\" kinda thing.\n\nNow let's say we get this going, then what? We're both currently attending school, I don't have a job, so I have little to no income, so movies and dates can't really be a common thing, maybe occasional. maybe.\n\nI'd just like to reiterate that I lack confidence with relationships to the point I am actually slightly depressed (Not attention seeking, just elaborating on the case, haha)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone, this is my first time asking the internet for advice on something but I really want this to work out for me.\n\nSo basically; this girl and I have known each other for about 4-5 years and we're pretty good friends and we get along pretty well, I'm good at making her laugh and she's great to talk to.\n\nWhen it comes to relationships, I've never even been in a semi-serious one before, although I'm after a stable, happy relationship that revolves around actual love and caring for each other, rather than the increasingly more typical \"whoo, relationship means sex!\" kind of relationship, what I'm trying to say here is I want this to count.\n\nI don't really want to go into too much fine detail here, but I'm after advice on how to get the ball rolling, whether digitally or in person. (I know in person makes them feel more special, but if I can't muster the courage, nobody's gonna be feeling special but me after I blow my chance.)\n\nWould it be better to ask her on a date? Just tell her how I feel about her and see her response, then move forward or withdraw depending on the response? Or the typical \"Will you go out with me?\" kinda thing.\n\nNow let's say we get this going, then what? We're both currently attending school, I don't have a job, so I have little to no income, so movies and dates can't really be a common thing, maybe occasional. maybe.\n\nI'd just like to reiterate that I lack confidence with relationships to the point I am actually slightly depressed (Not attention seeking, just elaborating on the case, haha)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nI'll try to keep this short. \n\nIn 2014, TimeWarner tried to charge me $90 (which I genuinely owed them) but was incredibly stupid about how they went about trying to get it from me. I was a continuing customer, paying a monthly bill, but they never bothered to call or email me about the charge, which they ended up sending to a collection agency. After being contacted by the agency, I corrected the issue with TimeWarner. Seemingly issue resolved.\n\nThen, in the summer of 2015, I get more collections calls about the same debt. I investigate with TimeWarner, and apparently it was just an error in their system sending out the same debt. Caught it early, so no damage. \n\nThen today, I discover on CreditKarma that my score was hit (~800 -> ~750) and I had no idea why. Turns out that TW sent that was $90 debt to another agency in February, but that agency never bothered to contact me, so it actually ended up hitting my TransUnion report. Both TW and the agency were WAY less than helpful on the phone today, and I'll have to spend some more time with them tomorrow. but it will be resolved, at least in terms of me not having to pay. \n\nBUT, the real issue is that I'm about to go to Law School this fall, and I'm looking down the pipe of about $50k in private student loans that I need to apply for this summer (to cover the first year). I've still got decent credit, my parents will cosign, and I'm going to a great school with almost sure prospects of landing a BigLaw gig in NY, but still I'm worried that TW's incompetency is going to cost me $ down the road in higher interest rates."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nI'll try to keep this short. \n\nIn 2014, TimeWarner tried to charge me $90 (which I genuinely owed them) but was incredibly stupid about how they went about trying to get it from me. I was a continuing customer, paying a monthly bill, but they never bothered to call or email me about the charge, which they ended up sending to a collection agency. After being contacted by the agency, I corrected the issue with TimeWarner. Seemingly issue resolved.\n\nThen, in the summer of 2015, I get more collections calls about the same debt. I investigate with TimeWarner, and apparently it was just an error in their system sending out the same debt. Caught it early, so no damage. \n\nThen today, I discover on CreditKarma that my score was hit (~800 -> ~750) and I had no idea why. Turns out that TW sent that was $90 debt to another agency in February, but that agency never bothered to contact me, so it actually ended up hitting my TransUnion report. Both TW and the agency were WAY less than helpful on the phone today, and I'll have to spend some more time with them tomorrow. but it will be resolved, at least in terms of me not having to pay. \n\nBUT, the real issue is that I'm about to go to Law School this fall, and I'm looking down the pipe of about $50k in private student loans that I need to apply for this summer (to cover the first year). I've still got decent credit, my parents will cosign, and I'm going to a great school with almost sure prospects of landing a BigLaw gig in NY, but still I'm worried that TW's incompetency is going to cost me $ down the road in higher interest rates."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story time! Back in the summer after 8th grade, I hung out with my group of friends everyday for the whole summer. There was this girl in the group and I really liked her. Like I had the biggest and dumbest crush on her. I was only 13 so I didn't know shit, but I was thinking she's perfect for me, I gotta marry her and all this dumb stuff. The puppy love was so strong I wanted to be a part of her life and I wanted her to be a part of my life. I never had the courage to ask her out, and we went to different high schools. Eventually we stopped talking but during high school I never really liked anyone else. Every other girl felt dull compared to her. I still get nostalgic thinking about her and what would've been different if I had the balls to ask her out. Anyway I'm going to a party this Friday and I heard she's coming. I honestly don't know what to do to so this goes great and eventually ends up in a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story time! Back in the summer after 8th grade, I hung out with my group of friends everyday for the whole summer. There was this girl in the group and I really liked her. Like I had the biggest and dumbest crush on her. I was only 13 so I didn't know shit, but I was thinking she's perfect for me, I gotta marry her and all this dumb stuff. The puppy love was so strong I wanted to be a part of her life and I wanted her to be a part of my life. I never had the courage to ask her out, and we went to different high schools. Eventually we stopped talking but during high school I never really liked anyone else. Every other girl felt dull compared to her. I still get nostalgic thinking about her and what would've been different if I had the balls to ask her out. Anyway I'm going to a party this Friday and I heard she's coming. I honestly don't know what to do to so this goes great and eventually ends up in a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story time! Back in the summer after 8th grade, I hung out with my group of friends everyday for the whole summer. There was this girl in the group and I really liked her. Like I had the biggest and dumbest crush on her. I was only 13 so I didn't know shit, but I was thinking she's perfect for me, I gotta marry her and all this dumb stuff. The puppy love was so strong I wanted to be a part of her life and I wanted her to be a part of my life. I never had the courage to ask her out, and we went to different high schools. Eventually we stopped talking but during high school I never really liked anyone else. Every other girl felt dull compared to her. I still get nostalgic thinking about her and what would've been different if I had the balls to ask her out. Anyway I'm going to a party this Friday and I heard she's coming. I honestly don't know what to do to so this goes great and eventually ends up in a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story time! Back in the summer after 8th grade, I hung out with my group of friends everyday for the whole summer. There was this girl in the group and I really liked her. Like I had the biggest and dumbest crush on her. I was only 13 so I didn't know shit, but I was thinking she's perfect for me, I gotta marry her and all this dumb stuff. The puppy love was so strong I wanted to be a part of her life and I wanted her to be a part of my life. I never had the courage to ask her out, and we went to different high schools. Eventually we stopped talking but during high school I never really liked anyone else. Every other girl felt dull compared to her. I still get nostalgic thinking about her and what would've been different if I had the balls to ask her out. Anyway I'm going to a party this Friday and I heard she's coming. I honestly don't know what to do to so this goes great and eventually ends up in a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story time! Back in the summer after 8th grade, I hung out with my group of friends everyday for the whole summer. There was this girl in the group and I really liked her. Like I had the biggest and dumbest crush on her. I was only 13 so I didn't know shit, but I was thinking she's perfect for me, I gotta marry her and all this dumb stuff. The puppy love was so strong I wanted to be a part of her life and I wanted her to be a part of my life. I never had the courage to ask her out, and we went to different high schools. Eventually we stopped talking but during high school I never really liked anyone else. Every other girl felt dull compared to her. I still get nostalgic thinking about her and what would've been different if I had the balls to ask her out. Anyway I'm going to a party this Friday and I heard she's coming. I honestly don't know what to do to so this goes great and eventually ends up in a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Story time! Back in the summer after 8th grade, I hung out with my group of friends everyday for the whole summer. There was this girl in the group and I really liked her. Like I had the biggest and dumbest crush on her. I was only 13 so I didn't know shit, but I was thinking she's perfect for me, I gotta marry her and all this dumb stuff. The puppy love was so strong I wanted to be a part of her life and I wanted her to be a part of my life. I never had the courage to ask her out, and we went to different high schools. Eventually we stopped talking but during high school I never really liked anyone else. Every other girl felt dull compared to her. I still get nostalgic thinking about her and what would've been different if I had the balls to ask her out. Anyway I'm going to a party this Friday and I heard she's coming. I honestly don't know what to do to so this goes great and eventually ends up in a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have kind of a unique dilemma that a service, in my opinion, a lot of people would use, would solve. I wish I could buy subscriptions to specific television channels and stream them on my smart television via an application or stream on a computer or mobile device. This is why.I live on Indiana University's property. They have the most shit standard definition cable ever and it blows. It only has very basic channels. When I asked if I was allowed a cable box, I was told that in the rules and regulations that it clearly states that anything of the sort would be considered a violation of the other tenants' rights to health and safety. Consequently I have to buy each episode of The Walking Dead on Amazon Instant when it becomes available the next day and will have to soon for Game of Thrones. Some say we should pirate them. That would work if their internet security system wasn't so thorough. It tells me when my Java is out of date.I'm pretty sure they could catch me stealing and do something irritating to us school-wise."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have kind of a unique dilemma that a service, in my opinion, a lot of people would use, would solve. I wish I could buy subscriptions to specific television channels and stream them on my smart television via an application or stream on a computer or mobile device. This is why.I live on Indiana University's property. They have the most shit standard definition cable ever and it blows. It only has very basic channels. When I asked if I was allowed a cable box, I was told that in the rules and regulations that it clearly states that anything of the sort would be considered a violation of the other tenants' rights to health and safety. Consequently I have to buy each episode of The Walking Dead on Amazon Instant when it becomes available the next day and will have to soon for Game of Thrones. Some say we should pirate them. That would work if their internet security system wasn't so thorough. It tells me when my Java is out of date.I'm pretty sure they could catch me stealing and do something irritating to us school-wise."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have kind of a unique dilemma that a service, in my opinion, a lot of people would use, would solve. I wish I could buy subscriptions to specific television channels and stream them on my smart television via an application or stream on a computer or mobile device. This is why.I live on Indiana University's property. They have the most shit standard definition cable ever and it blows. It only has very basic channels. When I asked if I was allowed a cable box, I was told that in the rules and regulations that it clearly states that anything of the sort would be considered a violation of the other tenants' rights to health and safety. Consequently I have to buy each episode of The Walking Dead on Amazon Instant when it becomes available the next day and will have to soon for Game of Thrones. Some say we should pirate them. That would work if their internet security system wasn't so thorough. It tells me when my Java is out of date.I'm pretty sure they could catch me stealing and do something irritating to us school-wise."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory, it didn't happen today (but around a month ago) and I am not a morning person. \n\nInterning at a company. One month in I had a meeting with my boss and his boss. We were to meet at 7 am. I usually get into work at 8:30 so 7 am was early for me (specially cause it's a 1 hour drive)\n\nI get to work at 6:50 and see my boss and he said go ahead into his boss's room (since he will be in the meeting late). I'm super tired and I walk into the room and wait. No one is in this room. 10 minutes pass, 20 minutes pass, and then 4 people walk in and I'm like finally (I have never met my boss's boss) and they all sit down and start discussing some project that makes no sense to me - definitely not the project I was assigned. And I'm completely flabbergasted. I sat in that room for one and a half hours confused as hell.\n\nFinally the meeting ends and everyone starts asking me who I am, and I explain and then they tell me I got the wrong room. Completely embarrassed I leave and see my boss and his boss leaving the adjacent room. They ask where I was and I explain my story and they just laughed and said that I'll have a one on one meeting later this week since I missed the original meeting \n\nKept my job, looked like a dumbass, all in a good day's work. It's been over a month and everyone in our department constantly remind me of this whenever I go into conference rooms or meetings."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory, it didn't happen today (but around a month ago) and I am not a morning person. \n\nInterning at a company. One month in I had a meeting with my boss and his boss. We were to meet at 7 am. I usually get into work at 8:30 so 7 am was early for me (specially cause it's a 1 hour drive)\n\nI get to work at 6:50 and see my boss and he said go ahead into his boss's room (since he will be in the meeting late). I'm super tired and I walk into the room and wait. No one is in this room. 10 minutes pass, 20 minutes pass, and then 4 people walk in and I'm like finally (I have never met my boss's boss) and they all sit down and start discussing some project that makes no sense to me - definitely not the project I was assigned. And I'm completely flabbergasted. I sat in that room for one and a half hours confused as hell.\n\nFinally the meeting ends and everyone starts asking me who I am, and I explain and then they tell me I got the wrong room. Completely embarrassed I leave and see my boss and his boss leaving the adjacent room. They ask where I was and I explain my story and they just laughed and said that I'll have a one on one meeting later this week since I missed the original meeting \n\nKept my job, looked like a dumbass, all in a good day's work. It's been over a month and everyone in our department constantly remind me of this whenever I go into conference rooms or meetings."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory, it didn't happen today (but around a month ago) and I am not a morning person. \n\nInterning at a company. One month in I had a meeting with my boss and his boss. We were to meet at 7 am. I usually get into work at 8:30 so 7 am was early for me (specially cause it's a 1 hour drive)\n\nI get to work at 6:50 and see my boss and he said go ahead into his boss's room (since he will be in the meeting late). I'm super tired and I walk into the room and wait. No one is in this room. 10 minutes pass, 20 minutes pass, and then 4 people walk in and I'm like finally (I have never met my boss's boss) and they all sit down and start discussing some project that makes no sense to me - definitely not the project I was assigned. And I'm completely flabbergasted. I sat in that room for one and a half hours confused as hell.\n\nFinally the meeting ends and everyone starts asking me who I am, and I explain and then they tell me I got the wrong room. Completely embarrassed I leave and see my boss and his boss leaving the adjacent room. They ask where I was and I explain my story and they just laughed and said that I'll have a one on one meeting later this week since I missed the original meeting \n\nKept my job, looked like a dumbass, all in a good day's work. It's been over a month and everyone in our department constantly remind me of this whenever I go into conference rooms or meetings."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm a bit confused in my situation right now. I'm a college student and I am not looking for a long term relationship and I'm just having a bit of fun right now meeting new people. \n\nAbout a month ago I met this guy and we hit it off pretty well. We had a bunch of the same interests and he was really into me and we started flirting a bit. I give him my number and we text on and off for the next few weeks, and it went very well. \n\nThen suddenly, he stopped texting me and after a few days he said he apologized since he was busy. I told him it wasn't a big deal and to just reply to my texts whenever he wanted. During the next two weeks were dead week and finals week for both him and me in college so I understand why we didn't talk as much.\n\nI was busy studying and he was busy so we barely talked but we would sent random snapchats once in awhile. However, now we have finished finals and now he never texts me or replies to my snapchats, he only replies to me if I message him on snapchat. However our conversations are short but it seems he still enjoys talking to me. He is almost always the first one to see my snapchat stories as well, I'm unsure if that makes a difference.\n\nI would text him once every few days, just to talk about whats going on and I wouldn't get any replies, then I messaged him on snapchat and I asked why he only snapchats instead of texting and he replies almost immediately and says he's been ignoring everyone and all his messages, not just me personally. He reassured me by saying he still wants to hangout and that he wouldn't ditch me but I'm wondering what is up and I'm wondering if I did something wrong? \n\nMaybe he actually isn't that interested, should I just wait for him to talk to me and get on with my life? I know I shouldn't worry about it too much but I'm curious about his attitude. What advice do you have or what would you do? I'm not too committed I would just like a guy's POV for this sort of situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm a bit confused in my situation right now. I'm a college student and I am not looking for a long term relationship and I'm just having a bit of fun right now meeting new people. \n\nAbout a month ago I met this guy and we hit it off pretty well. We had a bunch of the same interests and he was really into me and we started flirting a bit. I give him my number and we text on and off for the next few weeks, and it went very well. \n\nThen suddenly, he stopped texting me and after a few days he said he apologized since he was busy. I told him it wasn't a big deal and to just reply to my texts whenever he wanted. During the next two weeks were dead week and finals week for both him and me in college so I understand why we didn't talk as much.\n\nI was busy studying and he was busy so we barely talked but we would sent random snapchats once in awhile. However, now we have finished finals and now he never texts me or replies to my snapchats, he only replies to me if I message him on snapchat. However our conversations are short but it seems he still enjoys talking to me. He is almost always the first one to see my snapchat stories as well, I'm unsure if that makes a difference.\n\nI would text him once every few days, just to talk about whats going on and I wouldn't get any replies, then I messaged him on snapchat and I asked why he only snapchats instead of texting and he replies almost immediately and says he's been ignoring everyone and all his messages, not just me personally. He reassured me by saying he still wants to hangout and that he wouldn't ditch me but I'm wondering what is up and I'm wondering if I did something wrong? \n\nMaybe he actually isn't that interested, should I just wait for him to talk to me and get on with my life? I know I shouldn't worry about it too much but I'm curious about his attitude. What advice do you have or what would you do? I'm not too committed I would just like a guy's POV for this sort of situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm a bit confused in my situation right now. I'm a college student and I am not looking for a long term relationship and I'm just having a bit of fun right now meeting new people. \n\nAbout a month ago I met this guy and we hit it off pretty well. We had a bunch of the same interests and he was really into me and we started flirting a bit. I give him my number and we text on and off for the next few weeks, and it went very well. \n\nThen suddenly, he stopped texting me and after a few days he said he apologized since he was busy. I told him it wasn't a big deal and to just reply to my texts whenever he wanted. During the next two weeks were dead week and finals week for both him and me in college so I understand why we didn't talk as much.\n\nI was busy studying and he was busy so we barely talked but we would sent random snapchats once in awhile. However, now we have finished finals and now he never texts me or replies to my snapchats, he only replies to me if I message him on snapchat. However our conversations are short but it seems he still enjoys talking to me. He is almost always the first one to see my snapchat stories as well, I'm unsure if that makes a difference.\n\nI would text him once every few days, just to talk about whats going on and I wouldn't get any replies, then I messaged him on snapchat and I asked why he only snapchats instead of texting and he replies almost immediately and says he's been ignoring everyone and all his messages, not just me personally. He reassured me by saying he still wants to hangout and that he wouldn't ditch me but I'm wondering what is up and I'm wondering if I did something wrong? \n\nMaybe he actually isn't that interested, should I just wait for him to talk to me and get on with my life? I know I shouldn't worry about it too much but I'm curious about his attitude. What advice do you have or what would you do? I'm not too committed I would just like a guy's POV for this sort of situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my roommates were at a bar, our friend who sulks and cockblocks everyone's night whenever he doesn't have a girl to talk with or do anything with and has ruined each one of our nights on separate occasions many a times by telling girls \"did you tell her about your son\" \"dude are you even gonna call this one tomorrow\" or \"wow she looks just like your ex someone's got issues\" was with us. So he found a girl and was talking, joking, and hitting it off with. So we all decided to cockblock him just to show him how it felt. So I run back to our place have my friends call me and give me updates. I photoshop some pictures of my ex-girlfriend to show just them, put them in his frames on his bed, grab a bottle of lotion throw it on his bed, put balled up tissue all around his bed near the picture frames, print out abortion brochures and put them in his room. All the while my friends at the bar are dropping subtle hints to her about \"how good it is to see him out having a good time\" how \"this is really helping him move forward\" \"he really needs something like this\". I called my ex who lived down the street and hated him come by and wait for the right time in my room. They come back go into his room we're all on the couch and after a few minutes we hear him tell her \"no none of this is mine, she's not my girlfriend\" \"I've never made a girl get an abortion\" i grab my ex and tell her to start banging on the front door and call \"mike a coward\" \"a pro-choicer\" \"and the least he could do is pay for the abortion like he promised\" needless to say the girl storms out of the place, he runs after her, he comes back in and we all start busting up laughing he gets pissed slams his door and finally lightens up the next day about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my roommates were at a bar, our friend who sulks and cockblocks everyone's night whenever he doesn't have a girl to talk with or do anything with and has ruined each one of our nights on separate occasions many a times by telling girls \"did you tell her about your son\" \"dude are you even gonna call this one tomorrow\" or \"wow she looks just like your ex someone's got issues\" was with us. So he found a girl and was talking, joking, and hitting it off with. So we all decided to cockblock him just to show him how it felt. So I run back to our place have my friends call me and give me updates. I photoshop some pictures of my ex-girlfriend to show just them, put them in his frames on his bed, grab a bottle of lotion throw it on his bed, put balled up tissue all around his bed near the picture frames, print out abortion brochures and put them in his room. All the while my friends at the bar are dropping subtle hints to her about \"how good it is to see him out having a good time\" how \"this is really helping him move forward\" \"he really needs something like this\". I called my ex who lived down the street and hated him come by and wait for the right time in my room. They come back go into his room we're all on the couch and after a few minutes we hear him tell her \"no none of this is mine, she's not my girlfriend\" \"I've never made a girl get an abortion\" i grab my ex and tell her to start banging on the front door and call \"mike a coward\" \"a pro-choicer\" \"and the least he could do is pay for the abortion like he promised\" needless to say the girl storms out of the place, he runs after her, he comes back in and we all start busting up laughing he gets pissed slams his door and finally lightens up the next day about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my roommates were at a bar, our friend who sulks and cockblocks everyone's night whenever he doesn't have a girl to talk with or do anything with and has ruined each one of our nights on separate occasions many a times by telling girls \"did you tell her about your son\" \"dude are you even gonna call this one tomorrow\" or \"wow she looks just like your ex someone's got issues\" was with us. So he found a girl and was talking, joking, and hitting it off with. So we all decided to cockblock him just to show him how it felt. So I run back to our place have my friends call me and give me updates. I photoshop some pictures of my ex-girlfriend to show just them, put them in his frames on his bed, grab a bottle of lotion throw it on his bed, put balled up tissue all around his bed near the picture frames, print out abortion brochures and put them in his room. All the while my friends at the bar are dropping subtle hints to her about \"how good it is to see him out having a good time\" how \"this is really helping him move forward\" \"he really needs something like this\". I called my ex who lived down the street and hated him come by and wait for the right time in my room. They come back go into his room we're all on the couch and after a few minutes we hear him tell her \"no none of this is mine, she's not my girlfriend\" \"I've never made a girl get an abortion\" i grab my ex and tell her to start banging on the front door and call \"mike a coward\" \"a pro-choicer\" \"and the least he could do is pay for the abortion like he promised\" needless to say the girl storms out of the place, he runs after her, he comes back in and we all start busting up laughing he gets pissed slams his door and finally lightens up the next day about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my roommates were at a bar, our friend who sulks and cockblocks everyone's night whenever he doesn't have a girl to talk with or do anything with and has ruined each one of our nights on separate occasions many a times by telling girls \"did you tell her about your son\" \"dude are you even gonna call this one tomorrow\" or \"wow she looks just like your ex someone's got issues\" was with us. So he found a girl and was talking, joking, and hitting it off with. So we all decided to cockblock him just to show him how it felt. So I run back to our place have my friends call me and give me updates. I photoshop some pictures of my ex-girlfriend to show just them, put them in his frames on his bed, grab a bottle of lotion throw it on his bed, put balled up tissue all around his bed near the picture frames, print out abortion brochures and put them in his room. All the while my friends at the bar are dropping subtle hints to her about \"how good it is to see him out having a good time\" how \"this is really helping him move forward\" \"he really needs something like this\". I called my ex who lived down the street and hated him come by and wait for the right time in my room. They come back go into his room we're all on the couch and after a few minutes we hear him tell her \"no none of this is mine, she's not my girlfriend\" \"I've never made a girl get an abortion\" i grab my ex and tell her to start banging on the front door and call \"mike a coward\" \"a pro-choicer\" \"and the least he could do is pay for the abortion like he promised\" needless to say the girl storms out of the place, he runs after her, he comes back in and we all start busting up laughing he gets pissed slams his door and finally lightens up the next day about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my roommates were at a bar, our friend who sulks and cockblocks everyone's night whenever he doesn't have a girl to talk with or do anything with and has ruined each one of our nights on separate occasions many a times by telling girls \"did you tell her about your son\" \"dude are you even gonna call this one tomorrow\" or \"wow she looks just like your ex someone's got issues\" was with us. So he found a girl and was talking, joking, and hitting it off with. So we all decided to cockblock him just to show him how it felt. So I run back to our place have my friends call me and give me updates. I photoshop some pictures of my ex-girlfriend to show just them, put them in his frames on his bed, grab a bottle of lotion throw it on his bed, put balled up tissue all around his bed near the picture frames, print out abortion brochures and put them in his room. All the while my friends at the bar are dropping subtle hints to her about \"how good it is to see him out having a good time\" how \"this is really helping him move forward\" \"he really needs something like this\". I called my ex who lived down the street and hated him come by and wait for the right time in my room. They come back go into his room we're all on the couch and after a few minutes we hear him tell her \"no none of this is mine, she's not my girlfriend\" \"I've never made a girl get an abortion\" i grab my ex and tell her to start banging on the front door and call \"mike a coward\" \"a pro-choicer\" \"and the least he could do is pay for the abortion like he promised\" needless to say the girl storms out of the place, he runs after her, he comes back in and we all start busting up laughing he gets pissed slams his door and finally lightens up the next day about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my roommates were at a bar, our friend who sulks and cockblocks everyone's night whenever he doesn't have a girl to talk with or do anything with and has ruined each one of our nights on separate occasions many a times by telling girls \"did you tell her about your son\" \"dude are you even gonna call this one tomorrow\" or \"wow she looks just like your ex someone's got issues\" was with us. So he found a girl and was talking, joking, and hitting it off with. So we all decided to cockblock him just to show him how it felt. So I run back to our place have my friends call me and give me updates. I photoshop some pictures of my ex-girlfriend to show just them, put them in his frames on his bed, grab a bottle of lotion throw it on his bed, put balled up tissue all around his bed near the picture frames, print out abortion brochures and put them in his room. All the while my friends at the bar are dropping subtle hints to her about \"how good it is to see him out having a good time\" how \"this is really helping him move forward\" \"he really needs something like this\". I called my ex who lived down the street and hated him come by and wait for the right time in my room. They come back go into his room we're all on the couch and after a few minutes we hear him tell her \"no none of this is mine, she's not my girlfriend\" \"I've never made a girl get an abortion\" i grab my ex and tell her to start banging on the front door and call \"mike a coward\" \"a pro-choicer\" \"and the least he could do is pay for the abortion like he promised\" needless to say the girl storms out of the place, he runs after her, he comes back in and we all start busting up laughing he gets pissed slams his door and finally lightens up the next day about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may be obvious to some, but it has helped me get a much better picture of my finances. For years I struggled with paying bills, sometimes because of low income but just as often because I was disorganized. After making simple changes to my bank account structures I don't miss bills, have lowered my spending and can understand my expenses better.\n\nThe trick is pretty simple. Open a checking account for all your reoccurring expenses. Then go about setting them all on auto-pay. Most of the time you can connect the bank numbers or use a debit card to automate payment. If you need to pay an individual or have to pay by check most banks have a bill pay feature that will send scheduled payments by check.\n\nAt first you'll need to overpay into this account because your expenses estimate might be off and you need a buffered balance. After a couple of months you'll be able to pay in almost exactly what you need. Then you can setup automatic deposit to cover all your expenses.\n\nCongratulations, your financial life is now completely automated. Did you remember to pay such and such bill? Yeah totally. Analyzing your accounts it looks like you're paying for a lot of online storage. Google sells space cheap. Consolidate accounts and save. Get hit with an unexpected bill? There's plenty of buffer in the account, just pay a bit more in to make up and move on.\n\nIt can take a while to move all your accounts over, but once you do the benefits of organization are massive. Also, once you make that one or two payments into the account per month (pay into it right when you get income) whatever remains is your spending / saving money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may be obvious to some, but it has helped me get a much better picture of my finances. For years I struggled with paying bills, sometimes because of low income but just as often because I was disorganized. After making simple changes to my bank account structures I don't miss bills, have lowered my spending and can understand my expenses better.\n\nThe trick is pretty simple. Open a checking account for all your reoccurring expenses. Then go about setting them all on auto-pay. Most of the time you can connect the bank numbers or use a debit card to automate payment. If you need to pay an individual or have to pay by check most banks have a bill pay feature that will send scheduled payments by check.\n\nAt first you'll need to overpay into this account because your expenses estimate might be off and you need a buffered balance. After a couple of months you'll be able to pay in almost exactly what you need. Then you can setup automatic deposit to cover all your expenses.\n\nCongratulations, your financial life is now completely automated. Did you remember to pay such and such bill? Yeah totally. Analyzing your accounts it looks like you're paying for a lot of online storage. Google sells space cheap. Consolidate accounts and save. Get hit with an unexpected bill? There's plenty of buffer in the account, just pay a bit more in to make up and move on.\n\nIt can take a while to move all your accounts over, but once you do the benefits of organization are massive. Also, once you make that one or two payments into the account per month (pay into it right when you get income) whatever remains is your spending / saving money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may be obvious to some, but it has helped me get a much better picture of my finances. For years I struggled with paying bills, sometimes because of low income but just as often because I was disorganized. After making simple changes to my bank account structures I don't miss bills, have lowered my spending and can understand my expenses better.\n\nThe trick is pretty simple. Open a checking account for all your reoccurring expenses. Then go about setting them all on auto-pay. Most of the time you can connect the bank numbers or use a debit card to automate payment. If you need to pay an individual or have to pay by check most banks have a bill pay feature that will send scheduled payments by check.\n\nAt first you'll need to overpay into this account because your expenses estimate might be off and you need a buffered balance. After a couple of months you'll be able to pay in almost exactly what you need. Then you can setup automatic deposit to cover all your expenses.\n\nCongratulations, your financial life is now completely automated. Did you remember to pay such and such bill? Yeah totally. Analyzing your accounts it looks like you're paying for a lot of online storage. Google sells space cheap. Consolidate accounts and save. Get hit with an unexpected bill? There's plenty of buffer in the account, just pay a bit more in to make up and move on.\n\nIt can take a while to move all your accounts over, but once you do the benefits of organization are massive. Also, once you make that one or two payments into the account per month (pay into it right when you get income) whatever remains is your spending / saving money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may be obvious to some, but it has helped me get a much better picture of my finances. For years I struggled with paying bills, sometimes because of low income but just as often because I was disorganized. After making simple changes to my bank account structures I don't miss bills, have lowered my spending and can understand my expenses better.\n\nThe trick is pretty simple. Open a checking account for all your reoccurring expenses. Then go about setting them all on auto-pay. Most of the time you can connect the bank numbers or use a debit card to automate payment. If you need to pay an individual or have to pay by check most banks have a bill pay feature that will send scheduled payments by check.\n\nAt first you'll need to overpay into this account because your expenses estimate might be off and you need a buffered balance. After a couple of months you'll be able to pay in almost exactly what you need. Then you can setup automatic deposit to cover all your expenses.\n\nCongratulations, your financial life is now completely automated. Did you remember to pay such and such bill? Yeah totally. Analyzing your accounts it looks like you're paying for a lot of online storage. Google sells space cheap. Consolidate accounts and save. Get hit with an unexpected bill? There's plenty of buffer in the account, just pay a bit more in to make up and move on.\n\nIt can take a while to move all your accounts over, but once you do the benefits of organization are massive. Also, once you make that one or two payments into the account per month (pay into it right when you get income) whatever remains is your spending / saving money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may be obvious to some, but it has helped me get a much better picture of my finances. For years I struggled with paying bills, sometimes because of low income but just as often because I was disorganized. After making simple changes to my bank account structures I don't miss bills, have lowered my spending and can understand my expenses better.\n\nThe trick is pretty simple. Open a checking account for all your reoccurring expenses. Then go about setting them all on auto-pay. Most of the time you can connect the bank numbers or use a debit card to automate payment. If you need to pay an individual or have to pay by check most banks have a bill pay feature that will send scheduled payments by check.\n\nAt first you'll need to overpay into this account because your expenses estimate might be off and you need a buffered balance. After a couple of months you'll be able to pay in almost exactly what you need. Then you can setup automatic deposit to cover all your expenses.\n\nCongratulations, your financial life is now completely automated. Did you remember to pay such and such bill? Yeah totally. Analyzing your accounts it looks like you're paying for a lot of online storage. Google sells space cheap. Consolidate accounts and save. Get hit with an unexpected bill? There's plenty of buffer in the account, just pay a bit more in to make up and move on.\n\nIt can take a while to move all your accounts over, but once you do the benefits of organization are massive. Also, once you make that one or two payments into the account per month (pay into it right when you get income) whatever remains is your spending / saving money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may be obvious to some, but it has helped me get a much better picture of my finances. For years I struggled with paying bills, sometimes because of low income but just as often because I was disorganized. After making simple changes to my bank account structures I don't miss bills, have lowered my spending and can understand my expenses better.\n\nThe trick is pretty simple. Open a checking account for all your reoccurring expenses. Then go about setting them all on auto-pay. Most of the time you can connect the bank numbers or use a debit card to automate payment. If you need to pay an individual or have to pay by check most banks have a bill pay feature that will send scheduled payments by check.\n\nAt first you'll need to overpay into this account because your expenses estimate might be off and you need a buffered balance. After a couple of months you'll be able to pay in almost exactly what you need. Then you can setup automatic deposit to cover all your expenses.\n\nCongratulations, your financial life is now completely automated. Did you remember to pay such and such bill? Yeah totally. Analyzing your accounts it looks like you're paying for a lot of online storage. Google sells space cheap. Consolidate accounts and save. Get hit with an unexpected bill? There's plenty of buffer in the account, just pay a bit more in to make up and move on.\n\nIt can take a while to move all your accounts over, but once you do the benefits of organization are massive. Also, once you make that one or two payments into the account per month (pay into it right when you get income) whatever remains is your spending / saving money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Need some help, reddit.\n\nMy father, pushing 60, just asked my brother and I for money to pay for 3 months worth of back due rent. Total: $1,350.\n\nA little backstory: he used to work for a large multinational but got canned about 8 years ago. He got severance and he decided to start his own business with it, which failed in about a year. He spent all of his severance on it. He now has another business which is obviously not yielding enough cash. He's also currently looking for a job.\n\nHe's re-married, to someone about 5 years my senior. She doesn't really work, but does some free-lance stuff, so \"she's been paying the bills\", according to my Dad. She recently took $30,000 from an older family member of hers to buy a car. She also frequently travels by invitation from this family member. (e.g. this family member pays for it.)\n\nI know that I will not *loan* my father any money, but just give it to him if my wife and I decide to do so. However, I don't see an end to this unless he makes some drastic changes. It seems he believes he will get different results by doing the same thing over and over, and frankly I don't see that he's *killing himself* to improve his situation.\n\nHowever, if I don't help him out, he will probably not pay rent and get kicked out. He also won't have money for a new place.\n\nWhat's also interesting to note is that my father , when he was doing well, gave his father (my grandfather) money every month to help *him* out. I don't want to do the same: I have my own family and life to take care of.\n\nSo, reddit, what to do? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Your thoughts, please?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Need some help, reddit.\n\nMy father, pushing 60, just asked my brother and I for money to pay for 3 months worth of back due rent. Total: $1,350.\n\nA little backstory: he used to work for a large multinational but got canned about 8 years ago. He got severance and he decided to start his own business with it, which failed in about a year. He spent all of his severance on it. He now has another business which is obviously not yielding enough cash. He's also currently looking for a job.\n\nHe's re-married, to someone about 5 years my senior. She doesn't really work, but does some free-lance stuff, so \"she's been paying the bills\", according to my Dad. She recently took $30,000 from an older family member of hers to buy a car. She also frequently travels by invitation from this family member. (e.g. this family member pays for it.)\n\nI know that I will not *loan* my father any money, but just give it to him if my wife and I decide to do so. However, I don't see an end to this unless he makes some drastic changes. It seems he believes he will get different results by doing the same thing over and over, and frankly I don't see that he's *killing himself* to improve his situation.\n\nHowever, if I don't help him out, he will probably not pay rent and get kicked out. He also won't have money for a new place.\n\nWhat's also interesting to note is that my father , when he was doing well, gave his father (my grandfather) money every month to help *him* out. I don't want to do the same: I have my own family and life to take care of.\n\nSo, reddit, what to do? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Your thoughts, please?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Need some help, reddit.\n\nMy father, pushing 60, just asked my brother and I for money to pay for 3 months worth of back due rent. Total: $1,350.\n\nA little backstory: he used to work for a large multinational but got canned about 8 years ago. He got severance and he decided to start his own business with it, which failed in about a year. He spent all of his severance on it. He now has another business which is obviously not yielding enough cash. He's also currently looking for a job.\n\nHe's re-married, to someone about 5 years my senior. She doesn't really work, but does some free-lance stuff, so \"she's been paying the bills\", according to my Dad. She recently took $30,000 from an older family member of hers to buy a car. She also frequently travels by invitation from this family member. (e.g. this family member pays for it.)\n\nI know that I will not *loan* my father any money, but just give it to him if my wife and I decide to do so. However, I don't see an end to this unless he makes some drastic changes. It seems he believes he will get different results by doing the same thing over and over, and frankly I don't see that he's *killing himself* to improve his situation.\n\nHowever, if I don't help him out, he will probably not pay rent and get kicked out. He also won't have money for a new place.\n\nWhat's also interesting to note is that my father , when he was doing well, gave his father (my grandfather) money every month to help *him* out. I don't want to do the same: I have my own family and life to take care of.\n\nSo, reddit, what to do? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Your thoughts, please?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Need some help, reddit.\n\nMy father, pushing 60, just asked my brother and I for money to pay for 3 months worth of back due rent. Total: $1,350.\n\nA little backstory: he used to work for a large multinational but got canned about 8 years ago. He got severance and he decided to start his own business with it, which failed in about a year. He spent all of his severance on it. He now has another business which is obviously not yielding enough cash. He's also currently looking for a job.\n\nHe's re-married, to someone about 5 years my senior. She doesn't really work, but does some free-lance stuff, so \"she's been paying the bills\", according to my Dad. She recently took $30,000 from an older family member of hers to buy a car. She also frequently travels by invitation from this family member. (e.g. this family member pays for it.)\n\nI know that I will not *loan* my father any money, but just give it to him if my wife and I decide to do so. However, I don't see an end to this unless he makes some drastic changes. It seems he believes he will get different results by doing the same thing over and over, and frankly I don't see that he's *killing himself* to improve his situation.\n\nHowever, if I don't help him out, he will probably not pay rent and get kicked out. He also won't have money for a new place.\n\nWhat's also interesting to note is that my father , when he was doing well, gave his father (my grandfather) money every month to help *him* out. I don't want to do the same: I have my own family and life to take care of.\n\nSo, reddit, what to do? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Your thoughts, please?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Need some help, reddit.\n\nMy father, pushing 60, just asked my brother and I for money to pay for 3 months worth of back due rent. Total: $1,350.\n\nA little backstory: he used to work for a large multinational but got canned about 8 years ago. He got severance and he decided to start his own business with it, which failed in about a year. He spent all of his severance on it. He now has another business which is obviously not yielding enough cash. He's also currently looking for a job.\n\nHe's re-married, to someone about 5 years my senior. She doesn't really work, but does some free-lance stuff, so \"she's been paying the bills\", according to my Dad. She recently took $30,000 from an older family member of hers to buy a car. She also frequently travels by invitation from this family member. (e.g. this family member pays for it.)\n\nI know that I will not *loan* my father any money, but just give it to him if my wife and I decide to do so. However, I don't see an end to this unless he makes some drastic changes. It seems he believes he will get different results by doing the same thing over and over, and frankly I don't see that he's *killing himself* to improve his situation.\n\nHowever, if I don't help him out, he will probably not pay rent and get kicked out. He also won't have money for a new place.\n\nWhat's also interesting to note is that my father , when he was doing well, gave his father (my grandfather) money every month to help *him* out. I don't want to do the same: I have my own family and life to take care of.\n\nSo, reddit, what to do? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Your thoughts, please?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Need some help, reddit.\n\nMy father, pushing 60, just asked my brother and I for money to pay for 3 months worth of back due rent. Total: $1,350.\n\nA little backstory: he used to work for a large multinational but got canned about 8 years ago. He got severance and he decided to start his own business with it, which failed in about a year. He spent all of his severance on it. He now has another business which is obviously not yielding enough cash. He's also currently looking for a job.\n\nHe's re-married, to someone about 5 years my senior. She doesn't really work, but does some free-lance stuff, so \"she's been paying the bills\", according to my Dad. She recently took $30,000 from an older family member of hers to buy a car. She also frequently travels by invitation from this family member. (e.g. this family member pays for it.)\n\nI know that I will not *loan* my father any money, but just give it to him if my wife and I decide to do so. However, I don't see an end to this unless he makes some drastic changes. It seems he believes he will get different results by doing the same thing over and over, and frankly I don't see that he's *killing himself* to improve his situation.\n\nHowever, if I don't help him out, he will probably not pay rent and get kicked out. He also won't have money for a new place.\n\nWhat's also interesting to note is that my father , when he was doing well, gave his father (my grandfather) money every month to help *him* out. I don't want to do the same: I have my own family and life to take care of.\n\nSo, reddit, what to do? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Your thoughts, please?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both have vacations coming up in the next few months. I'm going to India, she's going to America. She doesn't have much money saved up and I know her holiday is going to be a splurge and shopping spree at best, and I'm fine with that. However, she recently received a large bonus from her work, to the sum of about $3,000. I told her it'd be smart to pay off her debt and use the rest as savings for her trip, but I know she's already spent a few hundred on clothing and has bought me a gift as well. Now she keeps mentioning this ring she's interested in, it's about $400 and to me it looks just like any other ring but I guess that's just because I'm a guy.\n\nThis is affecting me way more then it should, I know I have a right to be mad in that she's being financially irresponsible. But it feels like the tip of the iceberg in a line of things that have being happening in our relationship. I think with me psyching myself up for India and knowing what it's like over there, it's got me thinking how much $400 could do, but instead it's just going towards a small round piece of metal?\n\nIt's got me thinking about the future quite a bit, will it always be like this? Shes always known about my plans of extensive travel and volunteering in the future and wants to be apart of them with me, but she's showing no signs of it. Her eyes light up when she sees the next best thing in the shop or on tv, and I could not care less about anything like that. Surely I'm overreacting right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both have vacations coming up in the next few months. I'm going to India, she's going to America. She doesn't have much money saved up and I know her holiday is going to be a splurge and shopping spree at best, and I'm fine with that. However, she recently received a large bonus from her work, to the sum of about $3,000. I told her it'd be smart to pay off her debt and use the rest as savings for her trip, but I know she's already spent a few hundred on clothing and has bought me a gift as well. Now she keeps mentioning this ring she's interested in, it's about $400 and to me it looks just like any other ring but I guess that's just because I'm a guy.\n\nThis is affecting me way more then it should, I know I have a right to be mad in that she's being financially irresponsible. But it feels like the tip of the iceberg in a line of things that have being happening in our relationship. I think with me psyching myself up for India and knowing what it's like over there, it's got me thinking how much $400 could do, but instead it's just going towards a small round piece of metal?\n\nIt's got me thinking about the future quite a bit, will it always be like this? Shes always known about my plans of extensive travel and volunteering in the future and wants to be apart of them with me, but she's showing no signs of it. Her eyes light up when she sees the next best thing in the shop or on tv, and I could not care less about anything like that. Surely I'm overreacting right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both have vacations coming up in the next few months. I'm going to India, she's going to America. She doesn't have much money saved up and I know her holiday is going to be a splurge and shopping spree at best, and I'm fine with that. However, she recently received a large bonus from her work, to the sum of about $3,000. I told her it'd be smart to pay off her debt and use the rest as savings for her trip, but I know she's already spent a few hundred on clothing and has bought me a gift as well. Now she keeps mentioning this ring she's interested in, it's about $400 and to me it looks just like any other ring but I guess that's just because I'm a guy.\n\nThis is affecting me way more then it should, I know I have a right to be mad in that she's being financially irresponsible. But it feels like the tip of the iceberg in a line of things that have being happening in our relationship. I think with me psyching myself up for India and knowing what it's like over there, it's got me thinking how much $400 could do, but instead it's just going towards a small round piece of metal?\n\nIt's got me thinking about the future quite a bit, will it always be like this? Shes always known about my plans of extensive travel and volunteering in the future and wants to be apart of them with me, but she's showing no signs of it. Her eyes light up when she sees the next best thing in the shop or on tv, and I could not care less about anything like that. Surely I'm overreacting right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not good for figuring out presents for myself but I recently saw this ring online that caught my attention. It's not entirely expensive, about $120. When I saw it I thought it was cool. It's actually black and has these cool gothic looking flowers on the sides but technically it is an engagement ring, it says so on the website. \n\nI really don't want to seem like I am passively aggressively asking for my boyfriend to propose. Because I am totally fine with and would almost rather continuing to be a live-in couple. My boyfriend isn't interested in marriage. His ex was a big traditionalist and would always go on and on about her dream wedding with him. Showing him dresses, rings and venues that she wanted to get married at. This always upset him because he said he doesn't like traditional romance and she would berate him for it calling him a bad boyfriend and saying things like \"he must not really love her.\" Besides her, he also isn't religious and doesn't want us to mingle money because he feels it would cause more arguments partially due to us having very different spending styles. All of this is fine with me (I actually earn more than he does). But I am rambling a bit. Should I just show him the ring? Should I just say fuck it and buy it for myself and ask for something less \"controversial\" or should I ask him but preface it with \"I know it's says engagement but I am not suggesting you propose.\" \n\nSeems like a very small issue and it really isn't a big one. I just don't want to ask people I know IRL because I don't feel like getting the \"WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET MARRIED! Why SHOULDN'T he propose?\" etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not good for figuring out presents for myself but I recently saw this ring online that caught my attention. It's not entirely expensive, about $120. When I saw it I thought it was cool. It's actually black and has these cool gothic looking flowers on the sides but technically it is an engagement ring, it says so on the website. \n\nI really don't want to seem like I am passively aggressively asking for my boyfriend to propose. Because I am totally fine with and would almost rather continuing to be a live-in couple. My boyfriend isn't interested in marriage. His ex was a big traditionalist and would always go on and on about her dream wedding with him. Showing him dresses, rings and venues that she wanted to get married at. This always upset him because he said he doesn't like traditional romance and she would berate him for it calling him a bad boyfriend and saying things like \"he must not really love her.\" Besides her, he also isn't religious and doesn't want us to mingle money because he feels it would cause more arguments partially due to us having very different spending styles. All of this is fine with me (I actually earn more than he does). But I am rambling a bit. Should I just show him the ring? Should I just say fuck it and buy it for myself and ask for something less \"controversial\" or should I ask him but preface it with \"I know it's says engagement but I am not suggesting you propose.\" \n\nSeems like a very small issue and it really isn't a big one. I just don't want to ask people I know IRL because I don't feel like getting the \"WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET MARRIED! Why SHOULDN'T he propose?\" etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not good for figuring out presents for myself but I recently saw this ring online that caught my attention. It's not entirely expensive, about $120. When I saw it I thought it was cool. It's actually black and has these cool gothic looking flowers on the sides but technically it is an engagement ring, it says so on the website. \n\nI really don't want to seem like I am passively aggressively asking for my boyfriend to propose. Because I am totally fine with and would almost rather continuing to be a live-in couple. My boyfriend isn't interested in marriage. His ex was a big traditionalist and would always go on and on about her dream wedding with him. Showing him dresses, rings and venues that she wanted to get married at. This always upset him because he said he doesn't like traditional romance and she would berate him for it calling him a bad boyfriend and saying things like \"he must not really love her.\" Besides her, he also isn't religious and doesn't want us to mingle money because he feels it would cause more arguments partially due to us having very different spending styles. All of this is fine with me (I actually earn more than he does). But I am rambling a bit. Should I just show him the ring? Should I just say fuck it and buy it for myself and ask for something less \"controversial\" or should I ask him but preface it with \"I know it's says engagement but I am not suggesting you propose.\" \n\nSeems like a very small issue and it really isn't a big one. I just don't want to ask people I know IRL because I don't feel like getting the \"WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET MARRIED! Why SHOULDN'T he propose?\" etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not good for figuring out presents for myself but I recently saw this ring online that caught my attention. It's not entirely expensive, about $120. When I saw it I thought it was cool. It's actually black and has these cool gothic looking flowers on the sides but technically it is an engagement ring, it says so on the website. \n\nI really don't want to seem like I am passively aggressively asking for my boyfriend to propose. Because I am totally fine with and would almost rather continuing to be a live-in couple. My boyfriend isn't interested in marriage. His ex was a big traditionalist and would always go on and on about her dream wedding with him. Showing him dresses, rings and venues that she wanted to get married at. This always upset him because he said he doesn't like traditional romance and she would berate him for it calling him a bad boyfriend and saying things like \"he must not really love her.\" Besides her, he also isn't religious and doesn't want us to mingle money because he feels it would cause more arguments partially due to us having very different spending styles. All of this is fine with me (I actually earn more than he does). But I am rambling a bit. Should I just show him the ring? Should I just say fuck it and buy it for myself and ask for something less \"controversial\" or should I ask him but preface it with \"I know it's says engagement but I am not suggesting you propose.\" \n\nSeems like a very small issue and it really isn't a big one. I just don't want to ask people I know IRL because I don't feel like getting the \"WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET MARRIED! Why SHOULDN'T he propose?\" etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not good for figuring out presents for myself but I recently saw this ring online that caught my attention. It's not entirely expensive, about $120. When I saw it I thought it was cool. It's actually black and has these cool gothic looking flowers on the sides but technically it is an engagement ring, it says so on the website. \n\nI really don't want to seem like I am passively aggressively asking for my boyfriend to propose. Because I am totally fine with and would almost rather continuing to be a live-in couple. My boyfriend isn't interested in marriage. His ex was a big traditionalist and would always go on and on about her dream wedding with him. Showing him dresses, rings and venues that she wanted to get married at. This always upset him because he said he doesn't like traditional romance and she would berate him for it calling him a bad boyfriend and saying things like \"he must not really love her.\" Besides her, he also isn't religious and doesn't want us to mingle money because he feels it would cause more arguments partially due to us having very different spending styles. All of this is fine with me (I actually earn more than he does). But I am rambling a bit. Should I just show him the ring? Should I just say fuck it and buy it for myself and ask for something less \"controversial\" or should I ask him but preface it with \"I know it's says engagement but I am not suggesting you propose.\" \n\nSeems like a very small issue and it really isn't a big one. I just don't want to ask people I know IRL because I don't feel like getting the \"WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET MARRIED! Why SHOULDN'T he propose?\" etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not good for figuring out presents for myself but I recently saw this ring online that caught my attention. It's not entirely expensive, about $120. When I saw it I thought it was cool. It's actually black and has these cool gothic looking flowers on the sides but technically it is an engagement ring, it says so on the website. \n\nI really don't want to seem like I am passively aggressively asking for my boyfriend to propose. Because I am totally fine with and would almost rather continuing to be a live-in couple. My boyfriend isn't interested in marriage. His ex was a big traditionalist and would always go on and on about her dream wedding with him. Showing him dresses, rings and venues that she wanted to get married at. This always upset him because he said he doesn't like traditional romance and she would berate him for it calling him a bad boyfriend and saying things like \"he must not really love her.\" Besides her, he also isn't religious and doesn't want us to mingle money because he feels it would cause more arguments partially due to us having very different spending styles. All of this is fine with me (I actually earn more than he does). But I am rambling a bit. Should I just show him the ring? Should I just say fuck it and buy it for myself and ask for something less \"controversial\" or should I ask him but preface it with \"I know it's says engagement but I am not suggesting you propose.\" \n\nSeems like a very small issue and it really isn't a big one. I just don't want to ask people I know IRL because I don't feel like getting the \"WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET MARRIED! Why SHOULDN'T he propose?\" etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every year my university sells new editions of textbooks for \"first year\" calculus courses, and pays nearly nothing for the return of last year's books. This is completely ridiculous, the material is not changing, and the curriculum definitely is not changing fast enough to warrant the sale of a new edition every year.\n\nI used my father's late '70s calculus textbook for my first calculus course, and it was perfectly sufficient. And, given the fact that most professors do not use questions from the textbook for assignments (at least at my university), I just don't see the need for having all these new editions.\n\n- I'm assuming this happens at every academic institution, or am I wrong about this?\n- Are the publishers/universities/professors doing this solely to make money; is there some other justifiable reason?\n- Am I missing something here?\n- What do you think about this?\n\nNote: I understand the reasons for new editions every couple of years: to correct mistakes, add relevant examples, include sections on Maple/Matlab, etc., but again, it's the fact that it's every year that \"grinds my gears\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every year my university sells new editions of textbooks for \"first year\" calculus courses, and pays nearly nothing for the return of last year's books. This is completely ridiculous, the material is not changing, and the curriculum definitely is not changing fast enough to warrant the sale of a new edition every year.\n\nI used my father's late '70s calculus textbook for my first calculus course, and it was perfectly sufficient. And, given the fact that most professors do not use questions from the textbook for assignments (at least at my university), I just don't see the need for having all these new editions.\n\n- I'm assuming this happens at every academic institution, or am I wrong about this?\n- Are the publishers/universities/professors doing this solely to make money; is there some other justifiable reason?\n- Am I missing something here?\n- What do you think about this?\n\nNote: I understand the reasons for new editions every couple of years: to correct mistakes, add relevant examples, include sections on Maple/Matlab, etc., but again, it's the fact that it's every year that \"grinds my gears\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every year my university sells new editions of textbooks for \"first year\" calculus courses, and pays nearly nothing for the return of last year's books. This is completely ridiculous, the material is not changing, and the curriculum definitely is not changing fast enough to warrant the sale of a new edition every year.\n\nI used my father's late '70s calculus textbook for my first calculus course, and it was perfectly sufficient. And, given the fact that most professors do not use questions from the textbook for assignments (at least at my university), I just don't see the need for having all these new editions.\n\n- I'm assuming this happens at every academic institution, or am I wrong about this?\n- Are the publishers/universities/professors doing this solely to make money; is there some other justifiable reason?\n- Am I missing something here?\n- What do you think about this?\n\nNote: I understand the reasons for new editions every couple of years: to correct mistakes, add relevant examples, include sections on Maple/Matlab, etc., but again, it's the fact that it's every year that \"grinds my gears\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and I want her back.\n\n4 weeks ago, she broke things off for good after we got into an argument which involved my female friends who I have been in completely platonic and respectful friendships with. My ex never got to really get to know these friends as we were involved in a LDR for the past year and half which probably exacerbated the issue.\n\nI talked to her last week to get closure, say a proper farewell and she told me that she has realized that I was manipulative. I was not and the examples she gave were taken out of context and grossly misinterpret the things I've said. She also said that our relationship was always in a cycle where one of us submitting to the other for a couple months before we switched places for the next couple months. She didn't explain this very well to me, but I again disagree with her assessment.\n\nWe have supported each other through a great deal in these past three years. Life has been extremely unfair and I am not exaggerating. I realize that we are young, but I would rather not intimidate you with a convincing essay to tell you why I truly believe we are meant to be together. Just know that, these last three months have been hell for both of us and it definitely took a toll on us. I believe that her current assessments of our relationship are misconstrued due to the emotional stress that she is continuing to deal with from other events in her life. We were really great together before and it really showed. We rarely got to hang out with friends together because she had to stay home a lot due to her situation at home and we were conservative about PDA, but everyone knew us as the couple that would get married. It was our every intention to get married.\n\nMy plan is to wait one more month before visiting her in person to try and win her back. I only recently stopped making any attempts to contact her as she has been requesting.\n\nDoes my plan sound reasonable or should I wait longer? Should I wait to see if she'll ever come around?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and I want her back.\n\n4 weeks ago, she broke things off for good after we got into an argument which involved my female friends who I have been in completely platonic and respectful friendships with. My ex never got to really get to know these friends as we were involved in a LDR for the past year and half which probably exacerbated the issue.\n\nI talked to her last week to get closure, say a proper farewell and she told me that she has realized that I was manipulative. I was not and the examples she gave were taken out of context and grossly misinterpret the things I've said. She also said that our relationship was always in a cycle where one of us submitting to the other for a couple months before we switched places for the next couple months. She didn't explain this very well to me, but I again disagree with her assessment.\n\nWe have supported each other through a great deal in these past three years. Life has been extremely unfair and I am not exaggerating. I realize that we are young, but I would rather not intimidate you with a convincing essay to tell you why I truly believe we are meant to be together. Just know that, these last three months have been hell for both of us and it definitely took a toll on us. I believe that her current assessments of our relationship are misconstrued due to the emotional stress that she is continuing to deal with from other events in her life. We were really great together before and it really showed. We rarely got to hang out with friends together because she had to stay home a lot due to her situation at home and we were conservative about PDA, but everyone knew us as the couple that would get married. It was our every intention to get married.\n\nMy plan is to wait one more month before visiting her in person to try and win her back. I only recently stopped making any attempts to contact her as she has been requesting.\n\nDoes my plan sound reasonable or should I wait longer? Should I wait to see if she'll ever come around?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and I want her back.\n\n4 weeks ago, she broke things off for good after we got into an argument which involved my female friends who I have been in completely platonic and respectful friendships with. My ex never got to really get to know these friends as we were involved in a LDR for the past year and half which probably exacerbated the issue.\n\nI talked to her last week to get closure, say a proper farewell and she told me that she has realized that I was manipulative. I was not and the examples she gave were taken out of context and grossly misinterpret the things I've said. She also said that our relationship was always in a cycle where one of us submitting to the other for a couple months before we switched places for the next couple months. She didn't explain this very well to me, but I again disagree with her assessment.\n\nWe have supported each other through a great deal in these past three years. Life has been extremely unfair and I am not exaggerating. I realize that we are young, but I would rather not intimidate you with a convincing essay to tell you why I truly believe we are meant to be together. Just know that, these last three months have been hell for both of us and it definitely took a toll on us. I believe that her current assessments of our relationship are misconstrued due to the emotional stress that she is continuing to deal with from other events in her life. We were really great together before and it really showed. We rarely got to hang out with friends together because she had to stay home a lot due to her situation at home and we were conservative about PDA, but everyone knew us as the couple that would get married. It was our every intention to get married.\n\nMy plan is to wait one more month before visiting her in person to try and win her back. I only recently stopped making any attempts to contact her as she has been requesting.\n\nDoes my plan sound reasonable or should I wait longer? Should I wait to see if she'll ever come around?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and I want her back.\n\n4 weeks ago, she broke things off for good after we got into an argument which involved my female friends who I have been in completely platonic and respectful friendships with. My ex never got to really get to know these friends as we were involved in a LDR for the past year and half which probably exacerbated the issue.\n\nI talked to her last week to get closure, say a proper farewell and she told me that she has realized that I was manipulative. I was not and the examples she gave were taken out of context and grossly misinterpret the things I've said. She also said that our relationship was always in a cycle where one of us submitting to the other for a couple months before we switched places for the next couple months. She didn't explain this very well to me, but I again disagree with her assessment.\n\nWe have supported each other through a great deal in these past three years. Life has been extremely unfair and I am not exaggerating. I realize that we are young, but I would rather not intimidate you with a convincing essay to tell you why I truly believe we are meant to be together. Just know that, these last three months have been hell for both of us and it definitely took a toll on us. I believe that her current assessments of our relationship are misconstrued due to the emotional stress that she is continuing to deal with from other events in her life. We were really great together before and it really showed. We rarely got to hang out with friends together because she had to stay home a lot due to her situation at home and we were conservative about PDA, but everyone knew us as the couple that would get married. It was our every intention to get married.\n\nMy plan is to wait one more month before visiting her in person to try and win her back. I only recently stopped making any attempts to contact her as she has been requesting.\n\nDoes my plan sound reasonable or should I wait longer? Should I wait to see if she'll ever come around?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and I want her back.\n\n4 weeks ago, she broke things off for good after we got into an argument which involved my female friends who I have been in completely platonic and respectful friendships with. My ex never got to really get to know these friends as we were involved in a LDR for the past year and half which probably exacerbated the issue.\n\nI talked to her last week to get closure, say a proper farewell and she told me that she has realized that I was manipulative. I was not and the examples she gave were taken out of context and grossly misinterpret the things I've said. She also said that our relationship was always in a cycle where one of us submitting to the other for a couple months before we switched places for the next couple months. She didn't explain this very well to me, but I again disagree with her assessment.\n\nWe have supported each other through a great deal in these past three years. Life has been extremely unfair and I am not exaggerating. I realize that we are young, but I would rather not intimidate you with a convincing essay to tell you why I truly believe we are meant to be together. Just know that, these last three months have been hell for both of us and it definitely took a toll on us. I believe that her current assessments of our relationship are misconstrued due to the emotional stress that she is continuing to deal with from other events in her life. We were really great together before and it really showed. We rarely got to hang out with friends together because she had to stay home a lot due to her situation at home and we were conservative about PDA, but everyone knew us as the couple that would get married. It was our every intention to get married.\n\nMy plan is to wait one more month before visiting her in person to try and win her back. I only recently stopped making any attempts to contact her as she has been requesting.\n\nDoes my plan sound reasonable or should I wait longer? Should I wait to see if she'll ever come around?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and I want her back.\n\n4 weeks ago, she broke things off for good after we got into an argument which involved my female friends who I have been in completely platonic and respectful friendships with. My ex never got to really get to know these friends as we were involved in a LDR for the past year and half which probably exacerbated the issue.\n\nI talked to her last week to get closure, say a proper farewell and she told me that she has realized that I was manipulative. I was not and the examples she gave were taken out of context and grossly misinterpret the things I've said. She also said that our relationship was always in a cycle where one of us submitting to the other for a couple months before we switched places for the next couple months. She didn't explain this very well to me, but I again disagree with her assessment.\n\nWe have supported each other through a great deal in these past three years. Life has been extremely unfair and I am not exaggerating. I realize that we are young, but I would rather not intimidate you with a convincing essay to tell you why I truly believe we are meant to be together. Just know that, these last three months have been hell for both of us and it definitely took a toll on us. I believe that her current assessments of our relationship are misconstrued due to the emotional stress that she is continuing to deal with from other events in her life. We were really great together before and it really showed. We rarely got to hang out with friends together because she had to stay home a lot due to her situation at home and we were conservative about PDA, but everyone knew us as the couple that would get married. It was our every intention to get married.\n\nMy plan is to wait one more month before visiting her in person to try and win her back. I only recently stopped making any attempts to contact her as she has been requesting.\n\nDoes my plan sound reasonable or should I wait longer? Should I wait to see if she'll ever come around?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). \n\nSince it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). \n\nSince it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). \n\nSince it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). \n\nSince it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). \n\nSince it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). \n\nSince it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met at our job, with him being a supervisor and I, an entry level worker. I have worked there for seven years while he has been there for four years. We fell in love quickly and have went strongly together ever since. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I was promoted to supervisor, too. I was happy because it meant more money for us to accomplish our goals. I thought he was happy as well. Only now he takes to arguing with me at work and shaming me when I make a mistake or take too long to complete a task. I kindly let him know that I feel he isn't addressing me respectfully and he says nothing in response. \n\nA few of those blow up times have been in front of other coworkers, which I find embarrassing and unprofessional. The next day, of course, it's like it never happened. \n\nIt makes me feel like a complete failure and my heart breaks every single time because this is the person I love more than anyone else in this world. I don't want our work arguments to affect our relationship together but he literally gets so mad at me he stops talking to me altogether. \n\nHe has been married twice. I'm a late bloomer. This is the first (and I'm hoping the last) long-term relationship I've ever had. So I'm having trouble understanding how someone who loves you can speak so harshly and get mad so quickly for the tiniest things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met at our job, with him being a supervisor and I, an entry level worker. I have worked there for seven years while he has been there for four years. We fell in love quickly and have went strongly together ever since. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I was promoted to supervisor, too. I was happy because it meant more money for us to accomplish our goals. I thought he was happy as well. Only now he takes to arguing with me at work and shaming me when I make a mistake or take too long to complete a task. I kindly let him know that I feel he isn't addressing me respectfully and he says nothing in response. \n\nA few of those blow up times have been in front of other coworkers, which I find embarrassing and unprofessional. The next day, of course, it's like it never happened. \n\nIt makes me feel like a complete failure and my heart breaks every single time because this is the person I love more than anyone else in this world. I don't want our work arguments to affect our relationship together but he literally gets so mad at me he stops talking to me altogether. \n\nHe has been married twice. I'm a late bloomer. This is the first (and I'm hoping the last) long-term relationship I've ever had. So I'm having trouble understanding how someone who loves you can speak so harshly and get mad so quickly for the tiniest things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met at our job, with him being a supervisor and I, an entry level worker. I have worked there for seven years while he has been there for four years. We fell in love quickly and have went strongly together ever since. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I was promoted to supervisor, too. I was happy because it meant more money for us to accomplish our goals. I thought he was happy as well. Only now he takes to arguing with me at work and shaming me when I make a mistake or take too long to complete a task. I kindly let him know that I feel he isn't addressing me respectfully and he says nothing in response. \n\nA few of those blow up times have been in front of other coworkers, which I find embarrassing and unprofessional. The next day, of course, it's like it never happened. \n\nIt makes me feel like a complete failure and my heart breaks every single time because this is the person I love more than anyone else in this world. I don't want our work arguments to affect our relationship together but he literally gets so mad at me he stops talking to me altogether. \n\nHe has been married twice. I'm a late bloomer. This is the first (and I'm hoping the last) long-term relationship I've ever had. So I'm having trouble understanding how someone who loves you can speak so harshly and get mad so quickly for the tiniest things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory: Bekkah and I have been friends for 3 years and she was the nanny to my daughter for over a year. She is very religious and because of this she is in a huge rush to get married (a different issue all together) and is having a wedding with little to no money.\n\nShe is having children at the ceremony but not at the reception and although my daughter was invited to the ceremony I declined and said that she would probably cause a commotion and I thought it would be best if she stayed at home. Although I did offer to dress my daughter up and for Bekkah and I to do photos before or after the ceremony which Bekkah was more than happy with. \n\nThe issue I am having is that even though it hasn't been officially said I don't think she is giving me a plus one. I do not know ANY of her friends and family or her fiance's so I will be all by myself during the ceremony and the reception. Even if I had chosen to bring my daughter to the ceremony, I would still be alone at the reception, where the socializing happens, as children are not allowed.\n\nThe invites haven't been sent out but she did mention that \"there would be a few tables of random friends\" when I expressed that I wouldn't know anyone there. That hurt. Because of this I am assuming there will be no plus one.\n\nI understand that they are tight on money but honestly I am not sure if I even want to go to a 4 hour long reception and eat dinner so I can socialize with a bunch of strangers and get a total of 5 seconds to see my friend. We are close and I want to support her on her special day but it feels sort of tacky to ask to bring a plus one but then again I feel it is sort of tacky to not include one in my invite. Maybe I am wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory: Bekkah and I have been friends for 3 years and she was the nanny to my daughter for over a year. She is very religious and because of this she is in a huge rush to get married (a different issue all together) and is having a wedding with little to no money.\n\nShe is having children at the ceremony but not at the reception and although my daughter was invited to the ceremony I declined and said that she would probably cause a commotion and I thought it would be best if she stayed at home. Although I did offer to dress my daughter up and for Bekkah and I to do photos before or after the ceremony which Bekkah was more than happy with. \n\nThe issue I am having is that even though it hasn't been officially said I don't think she is giving me a plus one. I do not know ANY of her friends and family or her fiance's so I will be all by myself during the ceremony and the reception. Even if I had chosen to bring my daughter to the ceremony, I would still be alone at the reception, where the socializing happens, as children are not allowed.\n\nThe invites haven't been sent out but she did mention that \"there would be a few tables of random friends\" when I expressed that I wouldn't know anyone there. That hurt. Because of this I am assuming there will be no plus one.\n\nI understand that they are tight on money but honestly I am not sure if I even want to go to a 4 hour long reception and eat dinner so I can socialize with a bunch of strangers and get a total of 5 seconds to see my friend. We are close and I want to support her on her special day but it feels sort of tacky to ask to bring a plus one but then again I feel it is sort of tacky to not include one in my invite. Maybe I am wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory: Bekkah and I have been friends for 3 years and she was the nanny to my daughter for over a year. She is very religious and because of this she is in a huge rush to get married (a different issue all together) and is having a wedding with little to no money.\n\nShe is having children at the ceremony but not at the reception and although my daughter was invited to the ceremony I declined and said that she would probably cause a commotion and I thought it would be best if she stayed at home. Although I did offer to dress my daughter up and for Bekkah and I to do photos before or after the ceremony which Bekkah was more than happy with. \n\nThe issue I am having is that even though it hasn't been officially said I don't think she is giving me a plus one. I do not know ANY of her friends and family or her fiance's so I will be all by myself during the ceremony and the reception. Even if I had chosen to bring my daughter to the ceremony, I would still be alone at the reception, where the socializing happens, as children are not allowed.\n\nThe invites haven't been sent out but she did mention that \"there would be a few tables of random friends\" when I expressed that I wouldn't know anyone there. That hurt. Because of this I am assuming there will be no plus one.\n\nI understand that they are tight on money but honestly I am not sure if I even want to go to a 4 hour long reception and eat dinner so I can socialize with a bunch of strangers and get a total of 5 seconds to see my friend. We are close and I want to support her on her special day but it feels sort of tacky to ask to bring a plus one but then again I feel it is sort of tacky to not include one in my invite. Maybe I am wrong."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex recently broke up this last week, we had been dating for 9months. I don't agree with the break up, but she doesn't think we have what it takes to be a long lasting relationship. In her opinion we are close and good friends, but not great friends. And we should end it now, instead of wasting time and breaking up eventually. \n\nThe problem is, I'm a team leader at our work and am technically one of her bosses. We work at a call center and she will sit and talk with coworkers when they should not be. They will sit in queues that prevent calls from coming in, or miss calls and not log back in. I don't know how to tell them to stop messing around at work without it seeming like I'm targeting her out of spite. I actively walk around and keep the other employees focused and working as well. But i feel like she thinks I'm being strict on her due to the break up or jealousy. \n\nAt this point I almost feel like I have to let her get away with stuff, so that she doesn't go to upper management and say I'm targeting her specifically."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex recently broke up this last week, we had been dating for 9months. I don't agree with the break up, but she doesn't think we have what it takes to be a long lasting relationship. In her opinion we are close and good friends, but not great friends. And we should end it now, instead of wasting time and breaking up eventually. \n\nThe problem is, I'm a team leader at our work and am technically one of her bosses. We work at a call center and she will sit and talk with coworkers when they should not be. They will sit in queues that prevent calls from coming in, or miss calls and not log back in. I don't know how to tell them to stop messing around at work without it seeming like I'm targeting her out of spite. I actively walk around and keep the other employees focused and working as well. But i feel like she thinks I'm being strict on her due to the break up or jealousy. \n\nAt this point I almost feel like I have to let her get away with stuff, so that she doesn't go to upper management and say I'm targeting her specifically."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex recently broke up this last week, we had been dating for 9months. I don't agree with the break up, but she doesn't think we have what it takes to be a long lasting relationship. In her opinion we are close and good friends, but not great friends. And we should end it now, instead of wasting time and breaking up eventually. \n\nThe problem is, I'm a team leader at our work and am technically one of her bosses. We work at a call center and she will sit and talk with coworkers when they should not be. They will sit in queues that prevent calls from coming in, or miss calls and not log back in. I don't know how to tell them to stop messing around at work without it seeming like I'm targeting her out of spite. I actively walk around and keep the other employees focused and working as well. But i feel like she thinks I'm being strict on her due to the break up or jealousy. \n\nAt this point I almost feel like I have to let her get away with stuff, so that she doesn't go to upper management and say I'm targeting her specifically."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this guy for 2 months, and he broke up with me. I'm meeting him soon to get my stuff back and I was just wondering how I should dress.\n\nI told him I would meet him after a meeting, so should I just show up in slacks and a nice shirt? I originally wanted to wear a hot dress and make him drool but I just realized how pathetic it might seem. I was going to tell him I was headed to the bar to relax - that's why I look so sexy - but I'm sure he could see right through it. Yet I don't want to look like a total square and wear nice clothes, you know? But I feel like he'll be expecting me to look hot for him, and I don't want them.\n\nSo professional or hot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this guy for 2 months, and he broke up with me. I'm meeting him soon to get my stuff back and I was just wondering how I should dress.\n\nI told him I would meet him after a meeting, so should I just show up in slacks and a nice shirt? I originally wanted to wear a hot dress and make him drool but I just realized how pathetic it might seem. I was going to tell him I was headed to the bar to relax - that's why I look so sexy - but I'm sure he could see right through it. Yet I don't want to look like a total square and wear nice clothes, you know? But I feel like he'll be expecting me to look hot for him, and I don't want them.\n\nSo professional or hot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this guy for 2 months, and he broke up with me. I'm meeting him soon to get my stuff back and I was just wondering how I should dress.\n\nI told him I would meet him after a meeting, so should I just show up in slacks and a nice shirt? I originally wanted to wear a hot dress and make him drool but I just realized how pathetic it might seem. I was going to tell him I was headed to the bar to relax - that's why I look so sexy - but I'm sure he could see right through it. Yet I don't want to look like a total square and wear nice clothes, you know? But I feel like he'll be expecting me to look hot for him, and I don't want them.\n\nSo professional or hot?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, I found out my boyfriend was talking to some girl and flirting with her. I don't want to go into too much details about how I found out, but we had a period of about 3 weeks where we weren't talking too much because we were trying to figure things out. I know that while we weren't talking too much (and not officially on a break or broken up), he basically made her into his girlfriend. It really bothers me. Sometimes I'm just doing something random and my mind automatically goes back to that and I end up depressed. I keep getting paranoid and thinking that while I might be occupied with something else, he might go back and talk to her. He already said it was a huge mistake and that no one could ever replace me. It was just that new experience of a crush but it was stupid. I just need some help so I don't have to get so depressed and we can move ahead. I know it's getting better with time, but is there something that can help me just move past the hurt that's still in me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, I found out my boyfriend was talking to some girl and flirting with her. I don't want to go into too much details about how I found out, but we had a period of about 3 weeks where we weren't talking too much because we were trying to figure things out. I know that while we weren't talking too much (and not officially on a break or broken up), he basically made her into his girlfriend. It really bothers me. Sometimes I'm just doing something random and my mind automatically goes back to that and I end up depressed. I keep getting paranoid and thinking that while I might be occupied with something else, he might go back and talk to her. He already said it was a huge mistake and that no one could ever replace me. It was just that new experience of a crush but it was stupid. I just need some help so I don't have to get so depressed and we can move ahead. I know it's getting better with time, but is there something that can help me just move past the hurt that's still in me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, I found out my boyfriend was talking to some girl and flirting with her. I don't want to go into too much details about how I found out, but we had a period of about 3 weeks where we weren't talking too much because we were trying to figure things out. I know that while we weren't talking too much (and not officially on a break or broken up), he basically made her into his girlfriend. It really bothers me. Sometimes I'm just doing something random and my mind automatically goes back to that and I end up depressed. I keep getting paranoid and thinking that while I might be occupied with something else, he might go back and talk to her. He already said it was a huge mistake and that no one could ever replace me. It was just that new experience of a crush but it was stupid. I just need some help so I don't have to get so depressed and we can move ahead. I know it's getting better with time, but is there something that can help me just move past the hurt that's still in me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title says it all. He's in a masters program to further his career while I'm a senior and we are working in a group project together. The first thing that stood out about him is that he is very energized for someone his age and I correctly assumed he had no kids. When we chat about topics outside of the project he has a lot of sage advice about anything you may ask him. He is very perceptive and can read people quite well and is a genuinely friendly person and is always honest (which he admits will get him into trouble with some people). He is well traveled and has had his fair share of adventures and really seems to know how to enjoy life. He is an excellent cook and says most women he starts dating gain 10 pounds as a result.\n\nHe believes his disadvantage in dating is that he's short and balding (he has a great sense of humor about it). Besides that he's in great shape and a very smart guy. He goes to speed dating events but for him that doesn't work well. 4 minutes is never enough to really get to know someone well enough and he cares more about having someone he can be himself around. But what do I know about finding him a date? I'm only 21 years old and I've never really been in a relationship myself. I asked him if he goes to interest sites to meet people where the personality means much more, but he doesn't seem to. He only mentioned considering such sites (and named reddit :D) but he is quite busy with work and school that I doubt he would want the distraction (you ALL know what I mean). \n\nHow do I help him out?"
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