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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Original post.\n\nSo wow yea what a big mess I've made first of all the kiss wasn't 10 seconds. It was more like 3 seconds but I was shocked as shit okay it felt like a never ending kiss.\n\nSo after waiting 2 days(stupid me) I decided to tell her. She was not happy in fact she was more mad at me for not telling her right away than the kiss. She called her sister and asked her about the kiss at first her sister denied it but then came clean.\n\nMy wife told her she can't trust her anymore and from here on out she won't be contacting her.\n\nWe talked later that day and she asked why I didn't tell her the second it happened. I told her they had just started talking again and I didn't want to mess it up.\n\nShe told me in the future if any woman were to come on to me she would want to know. She said because of how long I waited to tell her with good intentions she doesn't feel she could trust me.\n\nShe want marriage counseling so that's what we are going to do. In retrospect I could have told her sooner but that was my fault and I take full responsibility of it.\n\nThat's the update and hopefully things will get better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Original post.\n\nSo wow yea what a big mess I've made first of all the kiss wasn't 10 seconds. It was more like 3 seconds but I was shocked as shit okay it felt like a never ending kiss.\n\nSo after waiting 2 days(stupid me) I decided to tell her. She was not happy in fact she was more mad at me for not telling her right away than the kiss. She called her sister and asked her about the kiss at first her sister denied it but then came clean.\n\nMy wife told her she can't trust her anymore and from here on out she won't be contacting her.\n\nWe talked later that day and she asked why I didn't tell her the second it happened. I told her they had just started talking again and I didn't want to mess it up.\n\nShe told me in the future if any woman were to come on to me she would want to know. She said because of how long I waited to tell her with good intentions she doesn't feel she could trust me.\n\nShe want marriage counseling so that's what we are going to do. In retrospect I could have told her sooner but that was my fault and I take full responsibility of it.\n\nThat's the update and hopefully things will get better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Original post.\n\nSo wow yea what a big mess I've made first of all the kiss wasn't 10 seconds. It was more like 3 seconds but I was shocked as shit okay it felt like a never ending kiss.\n\nSo after waiting 2 days(stupid me) I decided to tell her. She was not happy in fact she was more mad at me for not telling her right away than the kiss. She called her sister and asked her about the kiss at first her sister denied it but then came clean.\n\nMy wife told her she can't trust her anymore and from here on out she won't be contacting her.\n\nWe talked later that day and she asked why I didn't tell her the second it happened. I told her they had just started talking again and I didn't want to mess it up.\n\nShe told me in the future if any woman were to come on to me she would want to know. She said because of how long I waited to tell her with good intentions she doesn't feel she could trust me.\n\nShe want marriage counseling so that's what we are going to do. In retrospect I could have told her sooner but that was my fault and I take full responsibility of it.\n\nThat's the update and hopefully things will get better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Original post.\n\nSo wow yea what a big mess I've made first of all the kiss wasn't 10 seconds. It was more like 3 seconds but I was shocked as shit okay it felt like a never ending kiss.\n\nSo after waiting 2 days(stupid me) I decided to tell her. She was not happy in fact she was more mad at me for not telling her right away than the kiss. She called her sister and asked her about the kiss at first her sister denied it but then came clean.\n\nMy wife told her she can't trust her anymore and from here on out she won't be contacting her.\n\nWe talked later that day and she asked why I didn't tell her the second it happened. I told her they had just started talking again and I didn't want to mess it up.\n\nShe told me in the future if any woman were to come on to me she would want to know. She said because of how long I waited to tell her with good intentions she doesn't feel she could trust me.\n\nShe want marriage counseling so that's what we are going to do. In retrospect I could have told her sooner but that was my fault and I take full responsibility of it.\n\nThat's the update and hopefully things will get better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my last SO and I dated long distance for six months - when we met we lived 1400km apart but we had this instant connection so we sort of did a casual long distance thing - texted pretty regularly, visited every six weeks. When we started dating I had already applied for an overseas teaching contract in Asia. We both knew this was probably happening and when I got accepted we decided to basically break things off temporarily. It was his idea, he's been cheated on before (incidentally while his girlfriend was vacationing in the same country I'm living in) and he just basically wanted me to \"do my own thing\" and if we were both single when I came back to give it a try.\n\nI left early October and we texted pretty regularly. Then we were texting in mid-November and her got very pissy at me for no reason and ended the conversation abruptly. I was going through a really rough patch and since I'm always the one making the initiative I decided to, as my grandpa says \"Let him cool off in the same water he got hot in\". Then he didn't text me again.\n\nI got one \"Merry Christmas\" Facebook message on Christmas, and a similar one on New Year's, to which I responded in kind. I'll admit I was stubborn, I basically was of the mind that if he wants to talk, he knows where to find me, I'm not going to chase after him from the other side of the world when I've got enough problems of my own. Now, six weeks from my flight home, he's striking up a conversation with me on Facebook, saying he wishes he could be on the beach with me and can I visit him at his new place (MUCH closer to my hometown, about 400km away).\n\nI was really head over heels for this guy, but I don't want to be a fool. Am I inviting trouble by starting things up? Or is it reasonable for him to really make a complete break?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my last SO and I dated long distance for six months - when we met we lived 1400km apart but we had this instant connection so we sort of did a casual long distance thing - texted pretty regularly, visited every six weeks. When we started dating I had already applied for an overseas teaching contract in Asia. We both knew this was probably happening and when I got accepted we decided to basically break things off temporarily. It was his idea, he's been cheated on before (incidentally while his girlfriend was vacationing in the same country I'm living in) and he just basically wanted me to \"do my own thing\" and if we were both single when I came back to give it a try.\n\nI left early October and we texted pretty regularly. Then we were texting in mid-November and her got very pissy at me for no reason and ended the conversation abruptly. I was going through a really rough patch and since I'm always the one making the initiative I decided to, as my grandpa says \"Let him cool off in the same water he got hot in\". Then he didn't text me again.\n\nI got one \"Merry Christmas\" Facebook message on Christmas, and a similar one on New Year's, to which I responded in kind. I'll admit I was stubborn, I basically was of the mind that if he wants to talk, he knows where to find me, I'm not going to chase after him from the other side of the world when I've got enough problems of my own. Now, six weeks from my flight home, he's striking up a conversation with me on Facebook, saying he wishes he could be on the beach with me and can I visit him at his new place (MUCH closer to my hometown, about 400km away).\n\nI was really head over heels for this guy, but I don't want to be a fool. Am I inviting trouble by starting things up? Or is it reasonable for him to really make a complete break?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my last SO and I dated long distance for six months - when we met we lived 1400km apart but we had this instant connection so we sort of did a casual long distance thing - texted pretty regularly, visited every six weeks. When we started dating I had already applied for an overseas teaching contract in Asia. We both knew this was probably happening and when I got accepted we decided to basically break things off temporarily. It was his idea, he's been cheated on before (incidentally while his girlfriend was vacationing in the same country I'm living in) and he just basically wanted me to \"do my own thing\" and if we were both single when I came back to give it a try.\n\nI left early October and we texted pretty regularly. Then we were texting in mid-November and her got very pissy at me for no reason and ended the conversation abruptly. I was going through a really rough patch and since I'm always the one making the initiative I decided to, as my grandpa says \"Let him cool off in the same water he got hot in\". Then he didn't text me again.\n\nI got one \"Merry Christmas\" Facebook message on Christmas, and a similar one on New Year's, to which I responded in kind. I'll admit I was stubborn, I basically was of the mind that if he wants to talk, he knows where to find me, I'm not going to chase after him from the other side of the world when I've got enough problems of my own. Now, six weeks from my flight home, he's striking up a conversation with me on Facebook, saying he wishes he could be on the beach with me and can I visit him at his new place (MUCH closer to my hometown, about 400km away).\n\nI was really head over heels for this guy, but I don't want to be a fool. Am I inviting trouble by starting things up? Or is it reasonable for him to really make a complete break?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my last SO and I dated long distance for six months - when we met we lived 1400km apart but we had this instant connection so we sort of did a casual long distance thing - texted pretty regularly, visited every six weeks. When we started dating I had already applied for an overseas teaching contract in Asia. We both knew this was probably happening and when I got accepted we decided to basically break things off temporarily. It was his idea, he's been cheated on before (incidentally while his girlfriend was vacationing in the same country I'm living in) and he just basically wanted me to \"do my own thing\" and if we were both single when I came back to give it a try.\n\nI left early October and we texted pretty regularly. Then we were texting in mid-November and her got very pissy at me for no reason and ended the conversation abruptly. I was going through a really rough patch and since I'm always the one making the initiative I decided to, as my grandpa says \"Let him cool off in the same water he got hot in\". Then he didn't text me again.\n\nI got one \"Merry Christmas\" Facebook message on Christmas, and a similar one on New Year's, to which I responded in kind. I'll admit I was stubborn, I basically was of the mind that if he wants to talk, he knows where to find me, I'm not going to chase after him from the other side of the world when I've got enough problems of my own. Now, six weeks from my flight home, he's striking up a conversation with me on Facebook, saying he wishes he could be on the beach with me and can I visit him at his new place (MUCH closer to my hometown, about 400km away).\n\nI was really head over heels for this guy, but I don't want to be a fool. Am I inviting trouble by starting things up? Or is it reasonable for him to really make a complete break?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been very much infatuated with this guy [M17] for the 8 months he was dating his girlfriend at the time and I used this time to become pretty good friends with him. They broke up a couple weeks ago and I took the chance to ask him out to a movie.\n\nWe get there and he pays for my ticket ( :D I had freaked out to my friend beforehand, because I believed that the person who asked out should be the person who pays and that going dutch made the date too friendsy)\n\nAbout halfway through, me sick of sitting like a couple of Mormons, I slyly put my left leg to rest on his right leg. Our elbows brushed a couple of times, but we never held hands (neither of us took the initiative). \n\nAfter the movie, we hung around the theater, which had an arcade and a fake drive in. We sat and talked, played some fake DDR. With no employees around, we stole a giant display cup and snatched some slushee from the machine :) \n\nThen he drives me back to my car that I left at work. He walks me to my car and we fumble around a bit. It was raining so I didn't want to drag out his time, suggested a quick hug to avoid the \"are we going to kiss or are we not?\" silence. As he drives away, he honks his horn and makes a silly face at me.\n\nOn my drive home, I can feel my face burning from regret of not kissing him when I had the chance.AND it could have been one of those romantic kiss in the rain things.gah!\n\nSo in my opinion, this date went well, but there were some mixed signals that I don't know what to make of.like no kiss, no \"let's do this again\" (but he did say \"this was fun\"), no jumping to hold my hand.\n\nWas the date successful or not? O.o"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been very much infatuated with this guy [M17] for the 8 months he was dating his girlfriend at the time and I used this time to become pretty good friends with him. They broke up a couple weeks ago and I took the chance to ask him out to a movie.\n\nWe get there and he pays for my ticket ( :D I had freaked out to my friend beforehand, because I believed that the person who asked out should be the person who pays and that going dutch made the date too friendsy)\n\nAbout halfway through, me sick of sitting like a couple of Mormons, I slyly put my left leg to rest on his right leg. Our elbows brushed a couple of times, but we never held hands (neither of us took the initiative). \n\nAfter the movie, we hung around the theater, which had an arcade and a fake drive in. We sat and talked, played some fake DDR. With no employees around, we stole a giant display cup and snatched some slushee from the machine :) \n\nThen he drives me back to my car that I left at work. He walks me to my car and we fumble around a bit. It was raining so I didn't want to drag out his time, suggested a quick hug to avoid the \"are we going to kiss or are we not?\" silence. As he drives away, he honks his horn and makes a silly face at me.\n\nOn my drive home, I can feel my face burning from regret of not kissing him when I had the chance.AND it could have been one of those romantic kiss in the rain things.gah!\n\nSo in my opinion, this date went well, but there were some mixed signals that I don't know what to make of.like no kiss, no \"let's do this again\" (but he did say \"this was fun\"), no jumping to hold my hand.\n\nWas the date successful or not? O.o"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been very much infatuated with this guy [M17] for the 8 months he was dating his girlfriend at the time and I used this time to become pretty good friends with him. They broke up a couple weeks ago and I took the chance to ask him out to a movie.\n\nWe get there and he pays for my ticket ( :D I had freaked out to my friend beforehand, because I believed that the person who asked out should be the person who pays and that going dutch made the date too friendsy)\n\nAbout halfway through, me sick of sitting like a couple of Mormons, I slyly put my left leg to rest on his right leg. Our elbows brushed a couple of times, but we never held hands (neither of us took the initiative). \n\nAfter the movie, we hung around the theater, which had an arcade and a fake drive in. We sat and talked, played some fake DDR. With no employees around, we stole a giant display cup and snatched some slushee from the machine :) \n\nThen he drives me back to my car that I left at work. He walks me to my car and we fumble around a bit. It was raining so I didn't want to drag out his time, suggested a quick hug to avoid the \"are we going to kiss or are we not?\" silence. As he drives away, he honks his horn and makes a silly face at me.\n\nOn my drive home, I can feel my face burning from regret of not kissing him when I had the chance.AND it could have been one of those romantic kiss in the rain things.gah!\n\nSo in my opinion, this date went well, but there were some mixed signals that I don't know what to make of.like no kiss, no \"let's do this again\" (but he did say \"this was fun\"), no jumping to hold my hand.\n\nWas the date successful or not? O.o"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been very much infatuated with this guy [M17] for the 8 months he was dating his girlfriend at the time and I used this time to become pretty good friends with him. They broke up a couple weeks ago and I took the chance to ask him out to a movie.\n\nWe get there and he pays for my ticket ( :D I had freaked out to my friend beforehand, because I believed that the person who asked out should be the person who pays and that going dutch made the date too friendsy)\n\nAbout halfway through, me sick of sitting like a couple of Mormons, I slyly put my left leg to rest on his right leg. Our elbows brushed a couple of times, but we never held hands (neither of us took the initiative). \n\nAfter the movie, we hung around the theater, which had an arcade and a fake drive in. We sat and talked, played some fake DDR. With no employees around, we stole a giant display cup and snatched some slushee from the machine :) \n\nThen he drives me back to my car that I left at work. He walks me to my car and we fumble around a bit. It was raining so I didn't want to drag out his time, suggested a quick hug to avoid the \"are we going to kiss or are we not?\" silence. As he drives away, he honks his horn and makes a silly face at me.\n\nOn my drive home, I can feel my face burning from regret of not kissing him when I had the chance.AND it could have been one of those romantic kiss in the rain things.gah!\n\nSo in my opinion, this date went well, but there were some mixed signals that I don't know what to make of.like no kiss, no \"let's do this again\" (but he did say \"this was fun\"), no jumping to hold my hand.\n\nWas the date successful or not? O.o"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit.\n\nI'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.\nI'm the one who make \"different things\". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying \"have a good day\". This kind of stuff.\nShe has a lack of proactivity.\nWhen I think \"fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter\" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: \"Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!\". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.\nNonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.\nI think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. \n\nI really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.\nI don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her \"Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad\", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.\nWhat would you guys do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are partners in a classroom, we are training to become art teachers. Part of our requirement for this semester is to create a lesson plan for the middle school kids that we are teaching. We had kicked some ideas back and forth about what we thought would be good, and communicated with our cooperating teacher (in the middle school classroom, not our professor) about what she thought would be good. We both agreed that we would research some ideas and the come together to compare. \n\nWell I just got an email from my partner STATING that we are doing an Andy Warhol lesson that she wants to do with construction paper. She is telling me what to do and when to do it, not even asking for my input. I emailed her back and attached a sample of my mock ups - I did these all by hand for about four possible lesson plans (she just sent me a link to a lesson plan she saw online). She responds back immediately with \"Your lesson plans look too difficult. Middle schoolers will not understand blind contour or pointillism, you have to remember the idiots and the slow workers.\" \n\nI'm sorry for the art terms but it helps put in into context. I just feel like I have no say, and don't know what to do about it in a professional way. The age difference makes it seems like she feels that she has an automatic authority over me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are partners in a classroom, we are training to become art teachers. Part of our requirement for this semester is to create a lesson plan for the middle school kids that we are teaching. We had kicked some ideas back and forth about what we thought would be good, and communicated with our cooperating teacher (in the middle school classroom, not our professor) about what she thought would be good. We both agreed that we would research some ideas and the come together to compare. \n\nWell I just got an email from my partner STATING that we are doing an Andy Warhol lesson that she wants to do with construction paper. She is telling me what to do and when to do it, not even asking for my input. I emailed her back and attached a sample of my mock ups - I did these all by hand for about four possible lesson plans (she just sent me a link to a lesson plan she saw online). She responds back immediately with \"Your lesson plans look too difficult. Middle schoolers will not understand blind contour or pointillism, you have to remember the idiots and the slow workers.\" \n\nI'm sorry for the art terms but it helps put in into context. I just feel like I have no say, and don't know what to do about it in a professional way. The age difference makes it seems like she feels that she has an automatic authority over me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are partners in a classroom, we are training to become art teachers. Part of our requirement for this semester is to create a lesson plan for the middle school kids that we are teaching. We had kicked some ideas back and forth about what we thought would be good, and communicated with our cooperating teacher (in the middle school classroom, not our professor) about what she thought would be good. We both agreed that we would research some ideas and the come together to compare. \n\nWell I just got an email from my partner STATING that we are doing an Andy Warhol lesson that she wants to do with construction paper. She is telling me what to do and when to do it, not even asking for my input. I emailed her back and attached a sample of my mock ups - I did these all by hand for about four possible lesson plans (she just sent me a link to a lesson plan she saw online). She responds back immediately with \"Your lesson plans look too difficult. Middle schoolers will not understand blind contour or pointillism, you have to remember the idiots and the slow workers.\" \n\nI'm sorry for the art terms but it helps put in into context. I just feel like I have no say, and don't know what to do about it in a professional way. The age difference makes it seems like she feels that she has an automatic authority over me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are partners in a classroom, we are training to become art teachers. Part of our requirement for this semester is to create a lesson plan for the middle school kids that we are teaching. We had kicked some ideas back and forth about what we thought would be good, and communicated with our cooperating teacher (in the middle school classroom, not our professor) about what she thought would be good. We both agreed that we would research some ideas and the come together to compare. \n\nWell I just got an email from my partner STATING that we are doing an Andy Warhol lesson that she wants to do with construction paper. She is telling me what to do and when to do it, not even asking for my input. I emailed her back and attached a sample of my mock ups - I did these all by hand for about four possible lesson plans (she just sent me a link to a lesson plan she saw online). She responds back immediately with \"Your lesson plans look too difficult. Middle schoolers will not understand blind contour or pointillism, you have to remember the idiots and the slow workers.\" \n\nI'm sorry for the art terms but it helps put in into context. I just feel like I have no say, and don't know what to do about it in a professional way. The age difference makes it seems like she feels that she has an automatic authority over me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my mid year evaluation is coming this Friday. \n\nThe pay is directly correlated with the amount of units you have taken. \n\nWhen I was hired, I was a junior and my pay was set at 18/hr and I gladly accepted. \n\nNow I am 24 units away from graduating and will be working full time over the summer. The average pay for a senior is 21/hr. \n\nI was going to say if there was anyway my pay could reflect the current amount of units I have taken. \n\nI called HR and they said I should be fine, but I still need my bosses approval. \n\nI am getting a bit anxious and with finals coming up its not too great. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little about me: I'm an 18M, 5'11, milky brown African American, well groomed, well spoken, generally laid back (but still goal oriented), kind of sporty, mostly nerdy, like to laugh, and I consider myself to be open minded. I wouldn't call myself shy, but I wouldn't say I'm outgoing either. I'm also pleased with what I see in the mirror. \n\nHere's my problem: After finishing my first year of college I've realized that I am missing something when it comes to keeping girls interested. I have no issue talking to girls or getting them interested, but I do a piss poor job when it comes to keeping their interest and capitalizing on the rapport I've just built. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little about me: I'm an 18M, 5'11, milky brown African American, well groomed, well spoken, generally laid back (but still goal oriented), kind of sporty, mostly nerdy, like to laugh, and I consider myself to be open minded. I wouldn't call myself shy, but I wouldn't say I'm outgoing either. I'm also pleased with what I see in the mirror. \n\nHere's my problem: After finishing my first year of college I've realized that I am missing something when it comes to keeping girls interested. I have no issue talking to girls or getting them interested, but I do a piss poor job when it comes to keeping their interest and capitalizing on the rapport I've just built. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little about me: I'm an 18M, 5'11, milky brown African American, well groomed, well spoken, generally laid back (but still goal oriented), kind of sporty, mostly nerdy, like to laugh, and I consider myself to be open minded. I wouldn't call myself shy, but I wouldn't say I'm outgoing either. I'm also pleased with what I see in the mirror. \n\nHere's my problem: After finishing my first year of college I've realized that I am missing something when it comes to keeping girls interested. I have no issue talking to girls or getting them interested, but I do a piss poor job when it comes to keeping their interest and capitalizing on the rapport I've just built. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little about me: I'm an 18M, 5'11, milky brown African American, well groomed, well spoken, generally laid back (but still goal oriented), kind of sporty, mostly nerdy, like to laugh, and I consider myself to be open minded. I wouldn't call myself shy, but I wouldn't say I'm outgoing either. I'm also pleased with what I see in the mirror. \n\nHere's my problem: After finishing my first year of college I've realized that I am missing something when it comes to keeping girls interested. I have no issue talking to girls or getting them interested, but I do a piss poor job when it comes to keeping their interest and capitalizing on the rapport I've just built. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21F, he's 24. We've only been going out for about a couple months, but we've both fell for each other pretty hard. He's incredibly sweet, handsome, chivalrous, hilarious, and fun. He tells me all the time how beautiful he thinks I am, and also often tells me that I'm smart and things like that. I also compliment him frequently, but generally he denies what I say, especially if it's appearance based.\n\nI know what the problem is. I could be described as petite, skinny even, where as he is quite husky. He's a little over 300 pounds. This really isn't a problem for me. In fact, I'm quite turned on by his body. I've never gone out with bigger guys, even though that's the body type I'm most attracted to, I guess out of fear what people would think. However, I got over that, and I'm really proud to be with my wonderful boyfriend and I'm having the best sex of my life!\n\nHowever, because of my track record, he thinks that he's not my \"type\". He thinks that he's the least attractive guy I've ever gone out with, while he thinks I'm the most attractive girl he's gone out with. I'm concerned because he's started eating a lot less recently (if he wants to eat healthier that's fine but this is concerning), and he constantly tells me that he's not good enough for me. \n\nI don't know what to do! He's really the best boyfriend I've ever had and I'm more attracted to him than I have been to anybody!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21F, he's 24. We've only been going out for about a couple months, but we've both fell for each other pretty hard. He's incredibly sweet, handsome, chivalrous, hilarious, and fun. He tells me all the time how beautiful he thinks I am, and also often tells me that I'm smart and things like that. I also compliment him frequently, but generally he denies what I say, especially if it's appearance based.\n\nI know what the problem is. I could be described as petite, skinny even, where as he is quite husky. He's a little over 300 pounds. This really isn't a problem for me. In fact, I'm quite turned on by his body. I've never gone out with bigger guys, even though that's the body type I'm most attracted to, I guess out of fear what people would think. However, I got over that, and I'm really proud to be with my wonderful boyfriend and I'm having the best sex of my life!\n\nHowever, because of my track record, he thinks that he's not my \"type\". He thinks that he's the least attractive guy I've ever gone out with, while he thinks I'm the most attractive girl he's gone out with. I'm concerned because he's started eating a lot less recently (if he wants to eat healthier that's fine but this is concerning), and he constantly tells me that he's not good enough for me. \n\nI don't know what to do! He's really the best boyfriend I've ever had and I'm more attracted to him than I have been to anybody!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21F, he's 24. We've only been going out for about a couple months, but we've both fell for each other pretty hard. He's incredibly sweet, handsome, chivalrous, hilarious, and fun. He tells me all the time how beautiful he thinks I am, and also often tells me that I'm smart and things like that. I also compliment him frequently, but generally he denies what I say, especially if it's appearance based.\n\nI know what the problem is. I could be described as petite, skinny even, where as he is quite husky. He's a little over 300 pounds. This really isn't a problem for me. In fact, I'm quite turned on by his body. I've never gone out with bigger guys, even though that's the body type I'm most attracted to, I guess out of fear what people would think. However, I got over that, and I'm really proud to be with my wonderful boyfriend and I'm having the best sex of my life!\n\nHowever, because of my track record, he thinks that he's not my \"type\". He thinks that he's the least attractive guy I've ever gone out with, while he thinks I'm the most attractive girl he's gone out with. I'm concerned because he's started eating a lot less recently (if he wants to eat healthier that's fine but this is concerning), and he constantly tells me that he's not good enough for me. \n\nI don't know what to do! He's really the best boyfriend I've ever had and I'm more attracted to him than I have been to anybody!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21F, he's 24. We've only been going out for about a couple months, but we've both fell for each other pretty hard. He's incredibly sweet, handsome, chivalrous, hilarious, and fun. He tells me all the time how beautiful he thinks I am, and also often tells me that I'm smart and things like that. I also compliment him frequently, but generally he denies what I say, especially if it's appearance based.\n\nI know what the problem is. I could be described as petite, skinny even, where as he is quite husky. He's a little over 300 pounds. This really isn't a problem for me. In fact, I'm quite turned on by his body. I've never gone out with bigger guys, even though that's the body type I'm most attracted to, I guess out of fear what people would think. However, I got over that, and I'm really proud to be with my wonderful boyfriend and I'm having the best sex of my life!\n\nHowever, because of my track record, he thinks that he's not my \"type\". He thinks that he's the least attractive guy I've ever gone out with, while he thinks I'm the most attractive girl he's gone out with. I'm concerned because he's started eating a lot less recently (if he wants to eat healthier that's fine but this is concerning), and he constantly tells me that he's not good enough for me. \n\nI don't know what to do! He's really the best boyfriend I've ever had and I'm more attracted to him than I have been to anybody!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I have a lab partner that is a bitch, I don't like her but I'm civil. I don't talk to her, and pretty much just converse her about lab things, well one of my best friends texted me yesterday that she told another girl in my class that I had said my best friend was talking shit about her. The girl that told my best friend this happens to be very good friends with my BF. I told her that she was lying, that I don't converse with her and I have never said anything bad about her. My best friend then tells me she doesn't believe anybody and she just wanted to ask me if it was true, since she's defended me countless time against them. I told her that that's what she should do, since were best friends-but that I don't want to continue being friends with someone that likes to hang out with other people who talk bad about me. \n\nWas this the right choice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I have a lab partner that is a bitch, I don't like her but I'm civil. I don't talk to her, and pretty much just converse her about lab things, well one of my best friends texted me yesterday that she told another girl in my class that I had said my best friend was talking shit about her. The girl that told my best friend this happens to be very good friends with my BF. I told her that she was lying, that I don't converse with her and I have never said anything bad about her. My best friend then tells me she doesn't believe anybody and she just wanted to ask me if it was true, since she's defended me countless time against them. I told her that that's what she should do, since were best friends-but that I don't want to continue being friends with someone that likes to hang out with other people who talk bad about me. \n\nWas this the right choice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I have a lab partner that is a bitch, I don't like her but I'm civil. I don't talk to her, and pretty much just converse her about lab things, well one of my best friends texted me yesterday that she told another girl in my class that I had said my best friend was talking shit about her. The girl that told my best friend this happens to be very good friends with my BF. I told her that she was lying, that I don't converse with her and I have never said anything bad about her. My best friend then tells me she doesn't believe anybody and she just wanted to ask me if it was true, since she's defended me countless time against them. I told her that that's what she should do, since were best friends-but that I don't want to continue being friends with someone that likes to hang out with other people who talk bad about me. \n\nWas this the right choice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I have a lab partner that is a bitch, I don't like her but I'm civil. I don't talk to her, and pretty much just converse her about lab things, well one of my best friends texted me yesterday that she told another girl in my class that I had said my best friend was talking shit about her. The girl that told my best friend this happens to be very good friends with my BF. I told her that she was lying, that I don't converse with her and I have never said anything bad about her. My best friend then tells me she doesn't believe anybody and she just wanted to ask me if it was true, since she's defended me countless time against them. I told her that that's what she should do, since were best friends-but that I don't want to continue being friends with someone that likes to hang out with other people who talk bad about me. \n\nWas this the right choice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27 year old caucasian male. 5'8 and 235lbs (in San Mateo, California).\n\nI've had 2 meniscus surgeries, one was for what I thought (I was young at the time, around 17 so 2004 or 5) was a stretched meniscus (this one was invasive, where the cut the side of my knee open and it required multiple staples to close), and one was afterwards to help alleviate some of the damage from the first one (I had a lingering ache/pain after the first surgery). The second surgery was done in about 2011. About a year after that surgery I began having aches in my knee again. I assumed it was from lack of muscle in the knee from the surgeries and lack of PT afterwards (the orthopedists never prescribed it after either surgery).\n\nI had an MRI done earlier this week and saw another orthopedist that said the pain was likely caused by me having around (he guesstimated) 10% of my lateral meniscus left. This is concerning as after the meniscus goes, the cartilage will start rubbing against itself and then it will become bone on bone which is sub-optimal (all this according to him).\n\nHe said there were essentially two choices, one was live with it and be fit/active (I already am to a certain extent) and try to manage the pain.\n\nThe other was a meniscus transplant, which I have never heard about before. He said that if successful it might be able to add about 10-20 years to my knee life before it has to be replaced, and if successful would also eliminate the constant ache in my knee.\n\nI am going to get a second opinion anyway, but thought I'd come in here and see if anyone had anything to share about this, whether you've had it, or heard about it. I've never heard of a meniscus transplant (always thought the whole knee was just replaced). The doc did say that they don't do these often, as the window for this type of surgery (low % of meniscus left, but no cartilage damage, and young) was rather limited. Is that accurate? He said only 2-3 of these per year.seems low?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27 year old caucasian male. 5'8 and 235lbs (in San Mateo, California).\n\nI've had 2 meniscus surgeries, one was for what I thought (I was young at the time, around 17 so 2004 or 5) was a stretched meniscus (this one was invasive, where the cut the side of my knee open and it required multiple staples to close), and one was afterwards to help alleviate some of the damage from the first one (I had a lingering ache/pain after the first surgery). The second surgery was done in about 2011. About a year after that surgery I began having aches in my knee again. I assumed it was from lack of muscle in the knee from the surgeries and lack of PT afterwards (the orthopedists never prescribed it after either surgery).\n\nI had an MRI done earlier this week and saw another orthopedist that said the pain was likely caused by me having around (he guesstimated) 10% of my lateral meniscus left. This is concerning as after the meniscus goes, the cartilage will start rubbing against itself and then it will become bone on bone which is sub-optimal (all this according to him).\n\nHe said there were essentially two choices, one was live with it and be fit/active (I already am to a certain extent) and try to manage the pain.\n\nThe other was a meniscus transplant, which I have never heard about before. He said that if successful it might be able to add about 10-20 years to my knee life before it has to be replaced, and if successful would also eliminate the constant ache in my knee.\n\nI am going to get a second opinion anyway, but thought I'd come in here and see if anyone had anything to share about this, whether you've had it, or heard about it. I've never heard of a meniscus transplant (always thought the whole knee was just replaced). The doc did say that they don't do these often, as the window for this type of surgery (low % of meniscus left, but no cartilage damage, and young) was rather limited. Is that accurate? He said only 2-3 of these per year.seems low?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27 year old caucasian male. 5'8 and 235lbs (in San Mateo, California).\n\nI've had 2 meniscus surgeries, one was for what I thought (I was young at the time, around 17 so 2004 or 5) was a stretched meniscus (this one was invasive, where the cut the side of my knee open and it required multiple staples to close), and one was afterwards to help alleviate some of the damage from the first one (I had a lingering ache/pain after the first surgery). The second surgery was done in about 2011. About a year after that surgery I began having aches in my knee again. I assumed it was from lack of muscle in the knee from the surgeries and lack of PT afterwards (the orthopedists never prescribed it after either surgery).\n\nI had an MRI done earlier this week and saw another orthopedist that said the pain was likely caused by me having around (he guesstimated) 10% of my lateral meniscus left. This is concerning as after the meniscus goes, the cartilage will start rubbing against itself and then it will become bone on bone which is sub-optimal (all this according to him).\n\nHe said there were essentially two choices, one was live with it and be fit/active (I already am to a certain extent) and try to manage the pain.\n\nThe other was a meniscus transplant, which I have never heard about before. He said that if successful it might be able to add about 10-20 years to my knee life before it has to be replaced, and if successful would also eliminate the constant ache in my knee.\n\nI am going to get a second opinion anyway, but thought I'd come in here and see if anyone had anything to share about this, whether you've had it, or heard about it. I've never heard of a meniscus transplant (always thought the whole knee was just replaced). The doc did say that they don't do these often, as the window for this type of surgery (low % of meniscus left, but no cartilage damage, and young) was rather limited. Is that accurate? He said only 2-3 of these per year.seems low?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27 year old caucasian male. 5'8 and 235lbs (in San Mateo, California).\n\nI've had 2 meniscus surgeries, one was for what I thought (I was young at the time, around 17 so 2004 or 5) was a stretched meniscus (this one was invasive, where the cut the side of my knee open and it required multiple staples to close), and one was afterwards to help alleviate some of the damage from the first one (I had a lingering ache/pain after the first surgery). The second surgery was done in about 2011. About a year after that surgery I began having aches in my knee again. I assumed it was from lack of muscle in the knee from the surgeries and lack of PT afterwards (the orthopedists never prescribed it after either surgery).\n\nI had an MRI done earlier this week and saw another orthopedist that said the pain was likely caused by me having around (he guesstimated) 10% of my lateral meniscus left. This is concerning as after the meniscus goes, the cartilage will start rubbing against itself and then it will become bone on bone which is sub-optimal (all this according to him).\n\nHe said there were essentially two choices, one was live with it and be fit/active (I already am to a certain extent) and try to manage the pain.\n\nThe other was a meniscus transplant, which I have never heard about before. He said that if successful it might be able to add about 10-20 years to my knee life before it has to be replaced, and if successful would also eliminate the constant ache in my knee.\n\nI am going to get a second opinion anyway, but thought I'd come in here and see if anyone had anything to share about this, whether you've had it, or heard about it. I've never heard of a meniscus transplant (always thought the whole knee was just replaced). The doc did say that they don't do these often, as the window for this type of surgery (low % of meniscus left, but no cartilage damage, and young) was rather limited. Is that accurate? He said only 2-3 of these per year.seems low?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 28/M and my gf is also 29/F. We've been together 5 years. She fell in love with someone else, but put it on hold while we tried counseling. Eventually we decided it would be best to separate for a few months to reevaluate the relationship and see other people.\n\nThe main goal for her appears to be to try to be with this other person. I'm pretty sure she will let me know soon that she's leaving me for her new SO.\n\nObviously there's a possibility that once the novelty of the new relationship wears off for her, she'll realize that perhaps I was the one for her all along. At the same time, I haven't decided if I could forgive her or take her back.\n\nI'm wondering if getting back together is even worth considering? How did you go about doing it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 28/M and my gf is also 29/F. We've been together 5 years. She fell in love with someone else, but put it on hold while we tried counseling. Eventually we decided it would be best to separate for a few months to reevaluate the relationship and see other people.\n\nThe main goal for her appears to be to try to be with this other person. I'm pretty sure she will let me know soon that she's leaving me for her new SO.\n\nObviously there's a possibility that once the novelty of the new relationship wears off for her, she'll realize that perhaps I was the one for her all along. At the same time, I haven't decided if I could forgive her or take her back.\n\nI'm wondering if getting back together is even worth considering? How did you go about doing it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 28/M and my gf is also 29/F. We've been together 5 years. She fell in love with someone else, but put it on hold while we tried counseling. Eventually we decided it would be best to separate for a few months to reevaluate the relationship and see other people.\n\nThe main goal for her appears to be to try to be with this other person. I'm pretty sure she will let me know soon that she's leaving me for her new SO.\n\nObviously there's a possibility that once the novelty of the new relationship wears off for her, she'll realize that perhaps I was the one for her all along. At the same time, I haven't decided if I could forgive her or take her back.\n\nI'm wondering if getting back together is even worth considering? How did you go about doing it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 28/M and my gf is also 29/F. We've been together 5 years. She fell in love with someone else, but put it on hold while we tried counseling. Eventually we decided it would be best to separate for a few months to reevaluate the relationship and see other people.\n\nThe main goal for her appears to be to try to be with this other person. I'm pretty sure she will let me know soon that she's leaving me for her new SO.\n\nObviously there's a possibility that once the novelty of the new relationship wears off for her, she'll realize that perhaps I was the one for her all along. At the same time, I haven't decided if I could forgive her or take her back.\n\nI'm wondering if getting back together is even worth considering? How did you go about doing it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex girlfriend off and on agian of ten years broke up and she moved back to California to be with another guy; an old flame. We left on somewhat good terms and were still texting. I still had passwords to some of her accounts and found out when she was going to go visit this guy and got upset. So when I would get drunk I would start sending her belligerent texts. She finally got pissed of and said I was bothering and said she was going to block my number. \n\nI don't really remember what I was texting her or conversations we had when I was drunk. The text messages where deleted from my Iphone, and I am not sure if I deleted it in my inebriated state or it Just got lost in space. I still want to remain friends or somewhat apologize. Is it going to be a bad Idea to try and reach out and try to make amends?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex girlfriend off and on agian of ten years broke up and she moved back to California to be with another guy; an old flame. We left on somewhat good terms and were still texting. I still had passwords to some of her accounts and found out when she was going to go visit this guy and got upset. So when I would get drunk I would start sending her belligerent texts. She finally got pissed of and said I was bothering and said she was going to block my number. \n\nI don't really remember what I was texting her or conversations we had when I was drunk. The text messages where deleted from my Iphone, and I am not sure if I deleted it in my inebriated state or it Just got lost in space. I still want to remain friends or somewhat apologize. Is it going to be a bad Idea to try and reach out and try to make amends?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex girlfriend off and on agian of ten years broke up and she moved back to California to be with another guy; an old flame. We left on somewhat good terms and were still texting. I still had passwords to some of her accounts and found out when she was going to go visit this guy and got upset. So when I would get drunk I would start sending her belligerent texts. She finally got pissed of and said I was bothering and said she was going to block my number. \n\nI don't really remember what I was texting her or conversations we had when I was drunk. The text messages where deleted from my Iphone, and I am not sure if I deleted it in my inebriated state or it Just got lost in space. I still want to remain friends or somewhat apologize. Is it going to be a bad Idea to try and reach out and try to make amends?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex girlfriend off and on agian of ten years broke up and she moved back to California to be with another guy; an old flame. We left on somewhat good terms and were still texting. I still had passwords to some of her accounts and found out when she was going to go visit this guy and got upset. So when I would get drunk I would start sending her belligerent texts. She finally got pissed of and said I was bothering and said she was going to block my number. \n\nI don't really remember what I was texting her or conversations we had when I was drunk. The text messages where deleted from my Iphone, and I am not sure if I deleted it in my inebriated state or it Just got lost in space. I still want to remain friends or somewhat apologize. Is it going to be a bad Idea to try and reach out and try to make amends?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been out in a long time due partially to anxiety, and partially to the fact that my boyfriend wasn't working so I haven't had any extra cash. \n\nHe got a job and I thought I was doing OK money - wise this week, so I posted on a Facebook page for girls in my area asking what people were doing tonight. A few girls who I've been talking to online for awhile invited me to a house party/potluck. I was super stoked! But then I checked my bank account and found out I wasn't doing as well with money as I thought. \n\nSo I messaged one of the girls and told her I wouldn't be able to make it. She said that she and other people there would be ok with offering me drinks or what have you. She was totally nice about it but I feel like it would be making a really bad first impression to these people and I'd look like a mooch. I also feel bad because I can't afford to buy any food to bring. I really want to go out but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been out in a long time due partially to anxiety, and partially to the fact that my boyfriend wasn't working so I haven't had any extra cash. \n\nHe got a job and I thought I was doing OK money - wise this week, so I posted on a Facebook page for girls in my area asking what people were doing tonight. A few girls who I've been talking to online for awhile invited me to a house party/potluck. I was super stoked! But then I checked my bank account and found out I wasn't doing as well with money as I thought. \n\nSo I messaged one of the girls and told her I wouldn't be able to make it. She said that she and other people there would be ok with offering me drinks or what have you. She was totally nice about it but I feel like it would be making a really bad first impression to these people and I'd look like a mooch. I also feel bad because I can't afford to buy any food to bring. I really want to go out but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been out in a long time due partially to anxiety, and partially to the fact that my boyfriend wasn't working so I haven't had any extra cash. \n\nHe got a job and I thought I was doing OK money - wise this week, so I posted on a Facebook page for girls in my area asking what people were doing tonight. A few girls who I've been talking to online for awhile invited me to a house party/potluck. I was super stoked! But then I checked my bank account and found out I wasn't doing as well with money as I thought. \n\nSo I messaged one of the girls and told her I wouldn't be able to make it. She said that she and other people there would be ok with offering me drinks or what have you. She was totally nice about it but I feel like it would be making a really bad first impression to these people and I'd look like a mooch. I also feel bad because I can't afford to buy any food to bring. I really want to go out but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been out in a long time due partially to anxiety, and partially to the fact that my boyfriend wasn't working so I haven't had any extra cash. \n\nHe got a job and I thought I was doing OK money - wise this week, so I posted on a Facebook page for girls in my area asking what people were doing tonight. A few girls who I've been talking to online for awhile invited me to a house party/potluck. I was super stoked! But then I checked my bank account and found out I wasn't doing as well with money as I thought. \n\nSo I messaged one of the girls and told her I wouldn't be able to make it. She said that she and other people there would be ok with offering me drinks or what have you. She was totally nice about it but I feel like it would be making a really bad first impression to these people and I'd look like a mooch. I also feel bad because I can't afford to buy any food to bring. I really want to go out but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I[25f] bought plane tickets and hotel with my bf[26m] of 6 years for a vacation. Our deal was I pay for transportation and hotel and he pays for the activities, since he doesnt make that much money and going on vacation was something I wanted to do. We got in a fight and have not spoken in 5 days. I tried to call and text him today, and no response. On top of being heartbroken, I dont know what to do about the tickets. I don't have anybody else to go with me and to cancel just the plane tickets will cost me $100. We are going in September. Im not sure what to do. I feel abandoned and now out money"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I[25f] bought plane tickets and hotel with my bf[26m] of 6 years for a vacation. Our deal was I pay for transportation and hotel and he pays for the activities, since he doesnt make that much money and going on vacation was something I wanted to do. We got in a fight and have not spoken in 5 days. I tried to call and text him today, and no response. On top of being heartbroken, I dont know what to do about the tickets. I don't have anybody else to go with me and to cancel just the plane tickets will cost me $100. We are going in September. Im not sure what to do. I feel abandoned and now out money"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I[25f] bought plane tickets and hotel with my bf[26m] of 6 years for a vacation. Our deal was I pay for transportation and hotel and he pays for the activities, since he doesnt make that much money and going on vacation was something I wanted to do. We got in a fight and have not spoken in 5 days. I tried to call and text him today, and no response. On top of being heartbroken, I dont know what to do about the tickets. I don't have anybody else to go with me and to cancel just the plane tickets will cost me $100. We are going in September. Im not sure what to do. I feel abandoned and now out money"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I[25f] bought plane tickets and hotel with my bf[26m] of 6 years for a vacation. Our deal was I pay for transportation and hotel and he pays for the activities, since he doesnt make that much money and going on vacation was something I wanted to do. We got in a fight and have not spoken in 5 days. I tried to call and text him today, and no response. On top of being heartbroken, I dont know what to do about the tickets. I don't have anybody else to go with me and to cancel just the plane tickets will cost me $100. We are going in September. Im not sure what to do. I feel abandoned and now out money"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've met this girl a few times at parties and just general hangouts. We've chatted a number of times and I've come to really like her. However, I'm clueless as to how she feels about me.\n\nShe's given subtle hints (like expensively talking about flirting) and has mentioned we should hang out together outside of our friend group. I'm not sure if she's just friendly or if she wants more.\n\nI've managed to somehow agree to pick her up from work tomorrow. My plan is to see if she wants to go for a night time drive after work and then try to see what happens. I'm scared to make a move though. And if I do what should I do? I don't want to make things awkward around our friends if she doesn't like me and I'm super bad at reading signs. How to I casually move in the direction of like. Intimacy without being overt and getting straight up shut down? I'm bad at reading women and I need some advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've met this girl a few times at parties and just general hangouts. We've chatted a number of times and I've come to really like her. However, I'm clueless as to how she feels about me.\n\nShe's given subtle hints (like expensively talking about flirting) and has mentioned we should hang out together outside of our friend group. I'm not sure if she's just friendly or if she wants more.\n\nI've managed to somehow agree to pick her up from work tomorrow. My plan is to see if she wants to go for a night time drive after work and then try to see what happens. I'm scared to make a move though. And if I do what should I do? I don't want to make things awkward around our friends if she doesn't like me and I'm super bad at reading signs. How to I casually move in the direction of like. Intimacy without being overt and getting straight up shut down? I'm bad at reading women and I need some advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've met this girl a few times at parties and just general hangouts. We've chatted a number of times and I've come to really like her. However, I'm clueless as to how she feels about me.\n\nShe's given subtle hints (like expensively talking about flirting) and has mentioned we should hang out together outside of our friend group. I'm not sure if she's just friendly or if she wants more.\n\nI've managed to somehow agree to pick her up from work tomorrow. My plan is to see if she wants to go for a night time drive after work and then try to see what happens. I'm scared to make a move though. And if I do what should I do? I don't want to make things awkward around our friends if she doesn't like me and I'm super bad at reading signs. How to I casually move in the direction of like. Intimacy without being overt and getting straight up shut down? I'm bad at reading women and I need some advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've met this girl a few times at parties and just general hangouts. We've chatted a number of times and I've come to really like her. However, I'm clueless as to how she feels about me.\n\nShe's given subtle hints (like expensively talking about flirting) and has mentioned we should hang out together outside of our friend group. I'm not sure if she's just friendly or if she wants more.\n\nI've managed to somehow agree to pick her up from work tomorrow. My plan is to see if she wants to go for a night time drive after work and then try to see what happens. I'm scared to make a move though. And if I do what should I do? I don't want to make things awkward around our friends if she doesn't like me and I'm super bad at reading signs. How to I casually move in the direction of like. Intimacy without being overt and getting straight up shut down? I'm bad at reading women and I need some advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nWell, this Sunday barbecue was pretty dramatic.\n\nI decided against talking to my son or his girlfriend, and instead decided to just say something to any family member or acquaintance that said something. I asked my husband to say something to the \"Pabst Crew\" if they said anything inappropriate. They ended up saying some inappropriate things.\n\nMy husband was having a beer with them while they were all standing, and (all of this is according to my husband) they started talking about my son's girlfriend. He ignored it at first, because all they said was \"your son's really lucky\" and stuff like that, but eventually they started making jokes about her being \"kissed by fire\" (I think that's the northern girl in game of thrones,) and made a carpet matching the drapes comment. My husband's younger cousin decides this is a good time to ask my husband about me. It ends up with my husband yelling at his cousin, my son gets involved and now the main offenders aren't welcome back at the barbecue until they apologize to me and my son's girlfriend.\n\nThis might have been the best way it could have worked out, the men who were problematic revealed them as such and I really doubt any women are going to say anything about my son's girlfriend now. Probably not that important to know, but she did dress up a little more than usual today, she wore a blouse and a skirt (still probably \"revealing\" to my family, but not \"trashy\" to them)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nWell, this Sunday barbecue was pretty dramatic.\n\nI decided against talking to my son or his girlfriend, and instead decided to just say something to any family member or acquaintance that said something. I asked my husband to say something to the \"Pabst Crew\" if they said anything inappropriate. They ended up saying some inappropriate things.\n\nMy husband was having a beer with them while they were all standing, and (all of this is according to my husband) they started talking about my son's girlfriend. He ignored it at first, because all they said was \"your son's really lucky\" and stuff like that, but eventually they started making jokes about her being \"kissed by fire\" (I think that's the northern girl in game of thrones,) and made a carpet matching the drapes comment. My husband's younger cousin decides this is a good time to ask my husband about me. It ends up with my husband yelling at his cousin, my son gets involved and now the main offenders aren't welcome back at the barbecue until they apologize to me and my son's girlfriend.\n\nThis might have been the best way it could have worked out, the men who were problematic revealed them as such and I really doubt any women are going to say anything about my son's girlfriend now. Probably not that important to know, but she did dress up a little more than usual today, she wore a blouse and a skirt (still probably \"revealing\" to my family, but not \"trashy\" to them)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nWell, this Sunday barbecue was pretty dramatic.\n\nI decided against talking to my son or his girlfriend, and instead decided to just say something to any family member or acquaintance that said something. I asked my husband to say something to the \"Pabst Crew\" if they said anything inappropriate. They ended up saying some inappropriate things.\n\nMy husband was having a beer with them while they were all standing, and (all of this is according to my husband) they started talking about my son's girlfriend. He ignored it at first, because all they said was \"your son's really lucky\" and stuff like that, but eventually they started making jokes about her being \"kissed by fire\" (I think that's the northern girl in game of thrones,) and made a carpet matching the drapes comment. My husband's younger cousin decides this is a good time to ask my husband about me. It ends up with my husband yelling at his cousin, my son gets involved and now the main offenders aren't welcome back at the barbecue until they apologize to me and my son's girlfriend.\n\nThis might have been the best way it could have worked out, the men who were problematic revealed them as such and I really doubt any women are going to say anything about my son's girlfriend now. Probably not that important to know, but she did dress up a little more than usual today, she wore a blouse and a skirt (still probably \"revealing\" to my family, but not \"trashy\" to them)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nWell, this Sunday barbecue was pretty dramatic.\n\nI decided against talking to my son or his girlfriend, and instead decided to just say something to any family member or acquaintance that said something. I asked my husband to say something to the \"Pabst Crew\" if they said anything inappropriate. They ended up saying some inappropriate things.\n\nMy husband was having a beer with them while they were all standing, and (all of this is according to my husband) they started talking about my son's girlfriend. He ignored it at first, because all they said was \"your son's really lucky\" and stuff like that, but eventually they started making jokes about her being \"kissed by fire\" (I think that's the northern girl in game of thrones,) and made a carpet matching the drapes comment. My husband's younger cousin decides this is a good time to ask my husband about me. It ends up with my husband yelling at his cousin, my son gets involved and now the main offenders aren't welcome back at the barbecue until they apologize to me and my son's girlfriend.\n\nThis might have been the best way it could have worked out, the men who were problematic revealed them as such and I really doubt any women are going to say anything about my son's girlfriend now. Probably not that important to know, but she did dress up a little more than usual today, she wore a blouse and a skirt (still probably \"revealing\" to my family, but not \"trashy\" to them)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't want to disclose who, but recently I've been seeing a \"celebrity\", he's in his early twenties and it's early on in our relationship to the point where the public doesn't know about it. He's made millions so far in his career, and he has practically anything money could buy. This makes it very difficult to think of a Christmas gift for him because I feel like if he wants something he could just buy it? I'm not a public figure and I don't make 1/100th of what he made in this year alone. So what should I get him? I couldn't think of anyone else to ask because I'm not even allowed to tell my friends that I'm seeing him. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't want to disclose who, but recently I've been seeing a \"celebrity\", he's in his early twenties and it's early on in our relationship to the point where the public doesn't know about it. He's made millions so far in his career, and he has practically anything money could buy. This makes it very difficult to think of a Christmas gift for him because I feel like if he wants something he could just buy it? I'm not a public figure and I don't make 1/100th of what he made in this year alone. So what should I get him? I couldn't think of anyone else to ask because I'm not even allowed to tell my friends that I'm seeing him. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't want to disclose who, but recently I've been seeing a \"celebrity\", he's in his early twenties and it's early on in our relationship to the point where the public doesn't know about it. He's made millions so far in his career, and he has practically anything money could buy. This makes it very difficult to think of a Christmas gift for him because I feel like if he wants something he could just buy it? I'm not a public figure and I don't make 1/100th of what he made in this year alone. So what should I get him? I couldn't think of anyone else to ask because I'm not even allowed to tell my friends that I'm seeing him. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't want to disclose who, but recently I've been seeing a \"celebrity\", he's in his early twenties and it's early on in our relationship to the point where the public doesn't know about it. He's made millions so far in his career, and he has practically anything money could buy. This makes it very difficult to think of a Christmas gift for him because I feel like if he wants something he could just buy it? I'm not a public figure and I don't make 1/100th of what he made in this year alone. So what should I get him? I couldn't think of anyone else to ask because I'm not even allowed to tell my friends that I'm seeing him. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work 7:45-3:45 M-F and my boyfriend works 11PM-7AM M-F. when he gets to sleep early enough, it's not so bad and i'll get to be with him 5 or so hours before he leaves for work. Lately, he doesn't fall asleep until 1-2pm and is asleep until about the time he goes to work, and it's driving me crazy.\n\nI understand that he is on a completely different schedule than me and needs to get his full sleep too, but it is negatively affecting me and our relationship. I hate sleeping alone every night, and hate waiting and wondering when and if he will wake up for any sort of quality time together.\n\nI just got a big promotion at work. I've been stressed out for a month over the application process of this new position, and it's a big deal that I got it. I came home and he woke up long enough to say hi and to hear I got the job. He said congratulations and clapped then turned over and fell back asleep. \n\nIs it so bad I was really hoping to go out for a celebration dinner or drink?\n\nWe have talked about this schedule many times, and fought more times than I can count. I am very much in love with him, but despise that to do anything during the week I pray that a friend will go get a bite to eat with me since my boyfriend can't. It's too the point that when and if he does wake up at 8pm, I'm angry and we argue.\n\nI feel lonely and angry, but also know he needs to sleep. I just don't know if I am cut out for this kind of schedule. I'm about to heat up a frozen burger and eat it alone in front of the TV while my boyfriend is asleep upstairs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work 7:45-3:45 M-F and my boyfriend works 11PM-7AM M-F. when he gets to sleep early enough, it's not so bad and i'll get to be with him 5 or so hours before he leaves for work. Lately, he doesn't fall asleep until 1-2pm and is asleep until about the time he goes to work, and it's driving me crazy.\n\nI understand that he is on a completely different schedule than me and needs to get his full sleep too, but it is negatively affecting me and our relationship. I hate sleeping alone every night, and hate waiting and wondering when and if he will wake up for any sort of quality time together.\n\nI just got a big promotion at work. I've been stressed out for a month over the application process of this new position, and it's a big deal that I got it. I came home and he woke up long enough to say hi and to hear I got the job. He said congratulations and clapped then turned over and fell back asleep. \n\nIs it so bad I was really hoping to go out for a celebration dinner or drink?\n\nWe have talked about this schedule many times, and fought more times than I can count. I am very much in love with him, but despise that to do anything during the week I pray that a friend will go get a bite to eat with me since my boyfriend can't. It's too the point that when and if he does wake up at 8pm, I'm angry and we argue.\n\nI feel lonely and angry, but also know he needs to sleep. I just don't know if I am cut out for this kind of schedule. I'm about to heat up a frozen burger and eat it alone in front of the TV while my boyfriend is asleep upstairs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work 7:45-3:45 M-F and my boyfriend works 11PM-7AM M-F. when he gets to sleep early enough, it's not so bad and i'll get to be with him 5 or so hours before he leaves for work. Lately, he doesn't fall asleep until 1-2pm and is asleep until about the time he goes to work, and it's driving me crazy.\n\nI understand that he is on a completely different schedule than me and needs to get his full sleep too, but it is negatively affecting me and our relationship. I hate sleeping alone every night, and hate waiting and wondering when and if he will wake up for any sort of quality time together.\n\nI just got a big promotion at work. I've been stressed out for a month over the application process of this new position, and it's a big deal that I got it. I came home and he woke up long enough to say hi and to hear I got the job. He said congratulations and clapped then turned over and fell back asleep. \n\nIs it so bad I was really hoping to go out for a celebration dinner or drink?\n\nWe have talked about this schedule many times, and fought more times than I can count. I am very much in love with him, but despise that to do anything during the week I pray that a friend will go get a bite to eat with me since my boyfriend can't. It's too the point that when and if he does wake up at 8pm, I'm angry and we argue.\n\nI feel lonely and angry, but also know he needs to sleep. I just don't know if I am cut out for this kind of schedule. I'm about to heat up a frozen burger and eat it alone in front of the TV while my boyfriend is asleep upstairs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work 7:45-3:45 M-F and my boyfriend works 11PM-7AM M-F. when he gets to sleep early enough, it's not so bad and i'll get to be with him 5 or so hours before he leaves for work. Lately, he doesn't fall asleep until 1-2pm and is asleep until about the time he goes to work, and it's driving me crazy.\n\nI understand that he is on a completely different schedule than me and needs to get his full sleep too, but it is negatively affecting me and our relationship. I hate sleeping alone every night, and hate waiting and wondering when and if he will wake up for any sort of quality time together.\n\nI just got a big promotion at work. I've been stressed out for a month over the application process of this new position, and it's a big deal that I got it. I came home and he woke up long enough to say hi and to hear I got the job. He said congratulations and clapped then turned over and fell back asleep. \n\nIs it so bad I was really hoping to go out for a celebration dinner or drink?\n\nWe have talked about this schedule many times, and fought more times than I can count. I am very much in love with him, but despise that to do anything during the week I pray that a friend will go get a bite to eat with me since my boyfriend can't. It's too the point that when and if he does wake up at 8pm, I'm angry and we argue.\n\nI feel lonely and angry, but also know he needs to sleep. I just don't know if I am cut out for this kind of schedule. I'm about to heat up a frozen burger and eat it alone in front of the TV while my boyfriend is asleep upstairs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I've been having lots of trouble getting into a real relationship since back in high school because I've come to realize that nearly all the women who I'm attracted to are older than me. While I'm perfectly aware that it is entirely possible for me, a 19M to date a, say, 21F, the odds of such a relationship realistically succeeding are pretty slim. \n\nI've been in two serious relationships in my life, both with older girls, and they both resulted in me being cheated on (with significantly older men), which has made me feel rather inadequate due to my age. Now, I don't date older girls because I'm sexually attracted to girls older than me, but because I find women who are mature, respectful, ambitious, and overall secure and happy with themselves to be the most attractive. Obviously there's a physical attraction too, but beauty lies in the eye of the beholder, so that aspect is entirely subjective.\n\nSo my real problem lies in the fact that I am finding it extremely difficult to find a girl who has the qualities that I find attractive, and is younger than me. So am I just unlucky here in that I can't find that girl? Or am I doing something wrong? I'm no Ryan Gosling, but I take care of my body and would consider myself at least adequately attractive. I have a job, good social life and friends, hobbies, etc. Is it really just my age that is resulting in me having no success with these older girls?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I've been having lots of trouble getting into a real relationship since back in high school because I've come to realize that nearly all the women who I'm attracted to are older than me. While I'm perfectly aware that it is entirely possible for me, a 19M to date a, say, 21F, the odds of such a relationship realistically succeeding are pretty slim. \n\nI've been in two serious relationships in my life, both with older girls, and they both resulted in me being cheated on (with significantly older men), which has made me feel rather inadequate due to my age. Now, I don't date older girls because I'm sexually attracted to girls older than me, but because I find women who are mature, respectful, ambitious, and overall secure and happy with themselves to be the most attractive. Obviously there's a physical attraction too, but beauty lies in the eye of the beholder, so that aspect is entirely subjective.\n\nSo my real problem lies in the fact that I am finding it extremely difficult to find a girl who has the qualities that I find attractive, and is younger than me. So am I just unlucky here in that I can't find that girl? Or am I doing something wrong? I'm no Ryan Gosling, but I take care of my body and would consider myself at least adequately attractive. I have a job, good social life and friends, hobbies, etc. Is it really just my age that is resulting in me having no success with these older girls?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I've been having lots of trouble getting into a real relationship since back in high school because I've come to realize that nearly all the women who I'm attracted to are older than me. While I'm perfectly aware that it is entirely possible for me, a 19M to date a, say, 21F, the odds of such a relationship realistically succeeding are pretty slim. \n\nI've been in two serious relationships in my life, both with older girls, and they both resulted in me being cheated on (with significantly older men), which has made me feel rather inadequate due to my age. Now, I don't date older girls because I'm sexually attracted to girls older than me, but because I find women who are mature, respectful, ambitious, and overall secure and happy with themselves to be the most attractive. Obviously there's a physical attraction too, but beauty lies in the eye of the beholder, so that aspect is entirely subjective.\n\nSo my real problem lies in the fact that I am finding it extremely difficult to find a girl who has the qualities that I find attractive, and is younger than me. So am I just unlucky here in that I can't find that girl? Or am I doing something wrong? I'm no Ryan Gosling, but I take care of my body and would consider myself at least adequately attractive. I have a job, good social life and friends, hobbies, etc. Is it really just my age that is resulting in me having no success with these older girls?"
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