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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I recently got married but opted not to invite my Grandparents on my fathers side. \n\nI've never met my father as he as young and didn't want to be involved, which is fine. Though she opted to stay apart of my life. I've always been the 'dirty secret' on that side. One time when I was 13 I had to be locked in a room for an entire day because my Grandmothers sister dropped around unexpectedly and they don't know I exist. \n\nAnyway, my grandfather has been sick for the last 6 years and at one point it was bad. So I asked her if things took a turn for the worst, would I be invited to the funeral as my biological father would be there and wants nothing to do with (he's even found me on facebook and blocked me)\nShe said that I wouldn't be invited for that reason and that I'm 'bad for their image', but they are both 'still so proud of me'. She's not a nice person. \n\nSo, basically this is why I haven't invited her. I could say she's 'bad for my image' too. Plus, my Mother-in-law is one of 13 children, so that's a lot of my Husband's family we had to invite!\n\nI still email and speak to her every couple of months. She knew we were engaged, but I didn't disclose to her when the wedding was. I feel like I should tell her sooner rather than later. \n\nDon't know what or how to word it. \n\nAny suggestions on how to approach this situation would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I recently got married but opted not to invite my Grandparents on my fathers side. \n\nI've never met my father as he as young and didn't want to be involved, which is fine. Though she opted to stay apart of my life. I've always been the 'dirty secret' on that side. One time when I was 13 I had to be locked in a room for an entire day because my Grandmothers sister dropped around unexpectedly and they don't know I exist. \n\nAnyway, my grandfather has been sick for the last 6 years and at one point it was bad. So I asked her if things took a turn for the worst, would I be invited to the funeral as my biological father would be there and wants nothing to do with (he's even found me on facebook and blocked me)\nShe said that I wouldn't be invited for that reason and that I'm 'bad for their image', but they are both 'still so proud of me'. She's not a nice person. \n\nSo, basically this is why I haven't invited her. I could say she's 'bad for my image' too. Plus, my Mother-in-law is one of 13 children, so that's a lot of my Husband's family we had to invite!\n\nI still email and speak to her every couple of months. She knew we were engaged, but I didn't disclose to her when the wedding was. I feel like I should tell her sooner rather than later. \n\nDon't know what or how to word it. \n\nAny suggestions on how to approach this situation would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I recently got married but opted not to invite my Grandparents on my fathers side. \n\nI've never met my father as he as young and didn't want to be involved, which is fine. Though she opted to stay apart of my life. I've always been the 'dirty secret' on that side. One time when I was 13 I had to be locked in a room for an entire day because my Grandmothers sister dropped around unexpectedly and they don't know I exist. \n\nAnyway, my grandfather has been sick for the last 6 years and at one point it was bad. So I asked her if things took a turn for the worst, would I be invited to the funeral as my biological father would be there and wants nothing to do with (he's even found me on facebook and blocked me)\nShe said that I wouldn't be invited for that reason and that I'm 'bad for their image', but they are both 'still so proud of me'. She's not a nice person. \n\nSo, basically this is why I haven't invited her. I could say she's 'bad for my image' too. Plus, my Mother-in-law is one of 13 children, so that's a lot of my Husband's family we had to invite!\n\nI still email and speak to her every couple of months. She knew we were engaged, but I didn't disclose to her when the wedding was. I feel like I should tell her sooner rather than later. \n\nDon't know what or how to word it. \n\nAny suggestions on how to approach this situation would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I recently got married but opted not to invite my Grandparents on my fathers side. \n\nI've never met my father as he as young and didn't want to be involved, which is fine. Though she opted to stay apart of my life. I've always been the 'dirty secret' on that side. One time when I was 13 I had to be locked in a room for an entire day because my Grandmothers sister dropped around unexpectedly and they don't know I exist. \n\nAnyway, my grandfather has been sick for the last 6 years and at one point it was bad. So I asked her if things took a turn for the worst, would I be invited to the funeral as my biological father would be there and wants nothing to do with (he's even found me on facebook and blocked me)\nShe said that I wouldn't be invited for that reason and that I'm 'bad for their image', but they are both 'still so proud of me'. She's not a nice person. \n\nSo, basically this is why I haven't invited her. I could say she's 'bad for my image' too. Plus, my Mother-in-law is one of 13 children, so that's a lot of my Husband's family we had to invite!\n\nI still email and speak to her every couple of months. She knew we were engaged, but I didn't disclose to her when the wedding was. I feel like I should tell her sooner rather than later. \n\nDon't know what or how to word it. \n\nAny suggestions on how to approach this situation would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I recently got married but opted not to invite my Grandparents on my fathers side. \n\nI've never met my father as he as young and didn't want to be involved, which is fine. Though she opted to stay apart of my life. I've always been the 'dirty secret' on that side. One time when I was 13 I had to be locked in a room for an entire day because my Grandmothers sister dropped around unexpectedly and they don't know I exist. \n\nAnyway, my grandfather has been sick for the last 6 years and at one point it was bad. So I asked her if things took a turn for the worst, would I be invited to the funeral as my biological father would be there and wants nothing to do with (he's even found me on facebook and blocked me)\nShe said that I wouldn't be invited for that reason and that I'm 'bad for their image', but they are both 'still so proud of me'. She's not a nice person. \n\nSo, basically this is why I haven't invited her. I could say she's 'bad for my image' too. Plus, my Mother-in-law is one of 13 children, so that's a lot of my Husband's family we had to invite!\n\nI still email and speak to her every couple of months. She knew we were engaged, but I didn't disclose to her when the wedding was. I feel like I should tell her sooner rather than later. \n\nDon't know what or how to word it. \n\nAny suggestions on how to approach this situation would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I recently got married but opted not to invite my Grandparents on my fathers side. \n\nI've never met my father as he as young and didn't want to be involved, which is fine. Though she opted to stay apart of my life. I've always been the 'dirty secret' on that side. One time when I was 13 I had to be locked in a room for an entire day because my Grandmothers sister dropped around unexpectedly and they don't know I exist. \n\nAnyway, my grandfather has been sick for the last 6 years and at one point it was bad. So I asked her if things took a turn for the worst, would I be invited to the funeral as my biological father would be there and wants nothing to do with (he's even found me on facebook and blocked me)\nShe said that I wouldn't be invited for that reason and that I'm 'bad for their image', but they are both 'still so proud of me'. She's not a nice person. \n\nSo, basically this is why I haven't invited her. I could say she's 'bad for my image' too. Plus, my Mother-in-law is one of 13 children, so that's a lot of my Husband's family we had to invite!\n\nI still email and speak to her every couple of months. She knew we were engaged, but I didn't disclose to her when the wedding was. I feel like I should tell her sooner rather than later. \n\nDon't know what or how to word it. \n\nAny suggestions on how to approach this situation would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, /r/dogs! First time posting in here, so please tell me if I left anything out, or if it should go somewhere else, like Puppy101. :)\n\nWe adopted our some-kind-of-mix, Zelda, last month. She's 6 months old and about 35lbs/16kg, and incredibly sweet and friendly. She loves people, other dogs, is even good with our cats. Her foster home included a few other dogs and cats as well, so in general she's social and great with other animals. \n\nHer one issue seems to be with dogs that are significantly bigger than her. On a walk is not a problem. She'll seem a bit nervous, but I generally just tell the other owner \"hi\" and everybody keeps walking. But we've been to the dog park a couple times, and of course dogs there want to play. She'll happily run around and play with any other friendly dog under maybe 50lbs/23kg or so. But when a big dog walks up (yesterday we met an enormous shepherd, and 2 Great Danes), they'll sniff each other, and Zelda clearly decides \"thanks but no thanks\" and goes off the other direction. The big dog sees this and \"yay! Someone to chase!\" and goes after, at which point Z gets scared.\n\nWhat should I do, if anything? These big dogs aren't acting aggressive, she just doesn't want to chase with someone so large. And otherwise, she loves the dog park. Yesterday she made instant friends with a smaller GSD her own age, an Australian shepherd, a pit bull, and a Maltese. She was in heaven, any moment that a huge dog wasn't trying to play with her. (After they did, we left. I don't want her to be afraid of the park!) Do I keep making sure she's around dogs of all sizes? Should I avoid the big dogs so I'm not forcing her into an uncomfortable situation? Or is this a common thing that dogs can outgrow once they're a bit older/more confident?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, /r/dogs! First time posting in here, so please tell me if I left anything out, or if it should go somewhere else, like Puppy101. :)\n\nWe adopted our some-kind-of-mix, Zelda, last month. She's 6 months old and about 35lbs/16kg, and incredibly sweet and friendly. She loves people, other dogs, is even good with our cats. Her foster home included a few other dogs and cats as well, so in general she's social and great with other animals. \n\nHer one issue seems to be with dogs that are significantly bigger than her. On a walk is not a problem. She'll seem a bit nervous, but I generally just tell the other owner \"hi\" and everybody keeps walking. But we've been to the dog park a couple times, and of course dogs there want to play. She'll happily run around and play with any other friendly dog under maybe 50lbs/23kg or so. But when a big dog walks up (yesterday we met an enormous shepherd, and 2 Great Danes), they'll sniff each other, and Zelda clearly decides \"thanks but no thanks\" and goes off the other direction. The big dog sees this and \"yay! Someone to chase!\" and goes after, at which point Z gets scared.\n\nWhat should I do, if anything? These big dogs aren't acting aggressive, she just doesn't want to chase with someone so large. And otherwise, she loves the dog park. Yesterday she made instant friends with a smaller GSD her own age, an Australian shepherd, a pit bull, and a Maltese. She was in heaven, any moment that a huge dog wasn't trying to play with her. (After they did, we left. I don't want her to be afraid of the park!) Do I keep making sure she's around dogs of all sizes? Should I avoid the big dogs so I'm not forcing her into an uncomfortable situation? Or is this a common thing that dogs can outgrow once they're a bit older/more confident?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, /r/dogs! First time posting in here, so please tell me if I left anything out, or if it should go somewhere else, like Puppy101. :)\n\nWe adopted our some-kind-of-mix, Zelda, last month. She's 6 months old and about 35lbs/16kg, and incredibly sweet and friendly. She loves people, other dogs, is even good with our cats. Her foster home included a few other dogs and cats as well, so in general she's social and great with other animals. \n\nHer one issue seems to be with dogs that are significantly bigger than her. On a walk is not a problem. She'll seem a bit nervous, but I generally just tell the other owner \"hi\" and everybody keeps walking. But we've been to the dog park a couple times, and of course dogs there want to play. She'll happily run around and play with any other friendly dog under maybe 50lbs/23kg or so. But when a big dog walks up (yesterday we met an enormous shepherd, and 2 Great Danes), they'll sniff each other, and Zelda clearly decides \"thanks but no thanks\" and goes off the other direction. The big dog sees this and \"yay! Someone to chase!\" and goes after, at which point Z gets scared.\n\nWhat should I do, if anything? These big dogs aren't acting aggressive, she just doesn't want to chase with someone so large. And otherwise, she loves the dog park. Yesterday she made instant friends with a smaller GSD her own age, an Australian shepherd, a pit bull, and a Maltese. She was in heaven, any moment that a huge dog wasn't trying to play with her. (After they did, we left. I don't want her to be afraid of the park!) Do I keep making sure she's around dogs of all sizes? Should I avoid the big dogs so I'm not forcing her into an uncomfortable situation? Or is this a common thing that dogs can outgrow once they're a bit older/more confident?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, /r/dogs! First time posting in here, so please tell me if I left anything out, or if it should go somewhere else, like Puppy101. :)\n\nWe adopted our some-kind-of-mix, Zelda, last month. She's 6 months old and about 35lbs/16kg, and incredibly sweet and friendly. She loves people, other dogs, is even good with our cats. Her foster home included a few other dogs and cats as well, so in general she's social and great with other animals. \n\nHer one issue seems to be with dogs that are significantly bigger than her. On a walk is not a problem. She'll seem a bit nervous, but I generally just tell the other owner \"hi\" and everybody keeps walking. But we've been to the dog park a couple times, and of course dogs there want to play. She'll happily run around and play with any other friendly dog under maybe 50lbs/23kg or so. But when a big dog walks up (yesterday we met an enormous shepherd, and 2 Great Danes), they'll sniff each other, and Zelda clearly decides \"thanks but no thanks\" and goes off the other direction. The big dog sees this and \"yay! Someone to chase!\" and goes after, at which point Z gets scared.\n\nWhat should I do, if anything? These big dogs aren't acting aggressive, she just doesn't want to chase with someone so large. And otherwise, she loves the dog park. Yesterday she made instant friends with a smaller GSD her own age, an Australian shepherd, a pit bull, and a Maltese. She was in heaven, any moment that a huge dog wasn't trying to play with her. (After they did, we left. I don't want her to be afraid of the park!) Do I keep making sure she's around dogs of all sizes? Should I avoid the big dogs so I'm not forcing her into an uncomfortable situation? Or is this a common thing that dogs can outgrow once they're a bit older/more confident?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, /r/dogs! First time posting in here, so please tell me if I left anything out, or if it should go somewhere else, like Puppy101. :)\n\nWe adopted our some-kind-of-mix, Zelda, last month. She's 6 months old and about 35lbs/16kg, and incredibly sweet and friendly. She loves people, other dogs, is even good with our cats. Her foster home included a few other dogs and cats as well, so in general she's social and great with other animals. \n\nHer one issue seems to be with dogs that are significantly bigger than her. On a walk is not a problem. She'll seem a bit nervous, but I generally just tell the other owner \"hi\" and everybody keeps walking. But we've been to the dog park a couple times, and of course dogs there want to play. She'll happily run around and play with any other friendly dog under maybe 50lbs/23kg or so. But when a big dog walks up (yesterday we met an enormous shepherd, and 2 Great Danes), they'll sniff each other, and Zelda clearly decides \"thanks but no thanks\" and goes off the other direction. The big dog sees this and \"yay! Someone to chase!\" and goes after, at which point Z gets scared.\n\nWhat should I do, if anything? These big dogs aren't acting aggressive, she just doesn't want to chase with someone so large. And otherwise, she loves the dog park. Yesterday she made instant friends with a smaller GSD her own age, an Australian shepherd, a pit bull, and a Maltese. She was in heaven, any moment that a huge dog wasn't trying to play with her. (After they did, we left. I don't want her to be afraid of the park!) Do I keep making sure she's around dogs of all sizes? Should I avoid the big dogs so I'm not forcing her into an uncomfortable situation? Or is this a common thing that dogs can outgrow once they're a bit older/more confident?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, /r/dogs! First time posting in here, so please tell me if I left anything out, or if it should go somewhere else, like Puppy101. :)\n\nWe adopted our some-kind-of-mix, Zelda, last month. She's 6 months old and about 35lbs/16kg, and incredibly sweet and friendly. She loves people, other dogs, is even good with our cats. Her foster home included a few other dogs and cats as well, so in general she's social and great with other animals. \n\nHer one issue seems to be with dogs that are significantly bigger than her. On a walk is not a problem. She'll seem a bit nervous, but I generally just tell the other owner \"hi\" and everybody keeps walking. But we've been to the dog park a couple times, and of course dogs there want to play. She'll happily run around and play with any other friendly dog under maybe 50lbs/23kg or so. But when a big dog walks up (yesterday we met an enormous shepherd, and 2 Great Danes), they'll sniff each other, and Zelda clearly decides \"thanks but no thanks\" and goes off the other direction. The big dog sees this and \"yay! Someone to chase!\" and goes after, at which point Z gets scared.\n\nWhat should I do, if anything? These big dogs aren't acting aggressive, she just doesn't want to chase with someone so large. And otherwise, she loves the dog park. Yesterday she made instant friends with a smaller GSD her own age, an Australian shepherd, a pit bull, and a Maltese. She was in heaven, any moment that a huge dog wasn't trying to play with her. (After they did, we left. I don't want her to be afraid of the park!) Do I keep making sure she's around dogs of all sizes? Should I avoid the big dogs so I'm not forcing her into an uncomfortable situation? Or is this a common thing that dogs can outgrow once they're a bit older/more confident?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not particularly superstitious. But I know something weird happened that night. \n\nLast year I suffered from severe depression, with, at its worst, bad panic attacks and agitation. My friend used to let me sleep over at her place when I was really upset to give me a break from my home and family. One night when I was feeling particularly irrational and unwell, I was over at her place again and slept beside her in her bed. In the middle of the night, I jolted awake, feeling that I had been asked a question and shouted out 'Yeah, Jo?' and there was her face (I thought it was), just there above mine, but then I turned my head and she was there beside me, fast asleep. Then that face disappeared. I think a door closed. \n\nI don't remember too well because I was half-asleep, but the strangeness of it was still clear as day. It was a scary realisation when she was just there, sleeping, and the figure above me wasn't Jo. I just went back to sleep. I don't rule out that I hallucinated because I was so distressed, but despite my history of mental illness I have no real history of psychosis, or anything involving hallucination. I stand by having seen what I saw because the experience was so intense. \n\nSix months later Jo said she saw the ghost too, just wandering across the living room, a transparent greeny-purple flash, a young girl that she only saw out of the corner of her eye. And she said the same thing, that she doesn't believe in ghosts, but she was what she saw. It's an old house, and we're both pretty unnerved about it, and love talking about it, but we were never all-out scared, funnily enough."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not particularly superstitious. But I know something weird happened that night. \n\nLast year I suffered from severe depression, with, at its worst, bad panic attacks and agitation. My friend used to let me sleep over at her place when I was really upset to give me a break from my home and family. One night when I was feeling particularly irrational and unwell, I was over at her place again and slept beside her in her bed. In the middle of the night, I jolted awake, feeling that I had been asked a question and shouted out 'Yeah, Jo?' and there was her face (I thought it was), just there above mine, but then I turned my head and she was there beside me, fast asleep. Then that face disappeared. I think a door closed. \n\nI don't remember too well because I was half-asleep, but the strangeness of it was still clear as day. It was a scary realisation when she was just there, sleeping, and the figure above me wasn't Jo. I just went back to sleep. I don't rule out that I hallucinated because I was so distressed, but despite my history of mental illness I have no real history of psychosis, or anything involving hallucination. I stand by having seen what I saw because the experience was so intense. \n\nSix months later Jo said she saw the ghost too, just wandering across the living room, a transparent greeny-purple flash, a young girl that she only saw out of the corner of her eye. And she said the same thing, that she doesn't believe in ghosts, but she was what she saw. It's an old house, and we're both pretty unnerved about it, and love talking about it, but we were never all-out scared, funnily enough."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not particularly superstitious. But I know something weird happened that night. \n\nLast year I suffered from severe depression, with, at its worst, bad panic attacks and agitation. My friend used to let me sleep over at her place when I was really upset to give me a break from my home and family. One night when I was feeling particularly irrational and unwell, I was over at her place again and slept beside her in her bed. In the middle of the night, I jolted awake, feeling that I had been asked a question and shouted out 'Yeah, Jo?' and there was her face (I thought it was), just there above mine, but then I turned my head and she was there beside me, fast asleep. Then that face disappeared. I think a door closed. \n\nI don't remember too well because I was half-asleep, but the strangeness of it was still clear as day. It was a scary realisation when she was just there, sleeping, and the figure above me wasn't Jo. I just went back to sleep. I don't rule out that I hallucinated because I was so distressed, but despite my history of mental illness I have no real history of psychosis, or anything involving hallucination. I stand by having seen what I saw because the experience was so intense. \n\nSix months later Jo said she saw the ghost too, just wandering across the living room, a transparent greeny-purple flash, a young girl that she only saw out of the corner of her eye. And she said the same thing, that she doesn't believe in ghosts, but she was what she saw. It's an old house, and we're both pretty unnerved about it, and love talking about it, but we were never all-out scared, funnily enough."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not particularly superstitious. But I know something weird happened that night. \n\nLast year I suffered from severe depression, with, at its worst, bad panic attacks and agitation. My friend used to let me sleep over at her place when I was really upset to give me a break from my home and family. One night when I was feeling particularly irrational and unwell, I was over at her place again and slept beside her in her bed. In the middle of the night, I jolted awake, feeling that I had been asked a question and shouted out 'Yeah, Jo?' and there was her face (I thought it was), just there above mine, but then I turned my head and she was there beside me, fast asleep. Then that face disappeared. I think a door closed. \n\nI don't remember too well because I was half-asleep, but the strangeness of it was still clear as day. It was a scary realisation when she was just there, sleeping, and the figure above me wasn't Jo. I just went back to sleep. I don't rule out that I hallucinated because I was so distressed, but despite my history of mental illness I have no real history of psychosis, or anything involving hallucination. I stand by having seen what I saw because the experience was so intense. \n\nSix months later Jo said she saw the ghost too, just wandering across the living room, a transparent greeny-purple flash, a young girl that she only saw out of the corner of her eye. And she said the same thing, that she doesn't believe in ghosts, but she was what she saw. It's an old house, and we're both pretty unnerved about it, and love talking about it, but we were never all-out scared, funnily enough."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not particularly superstitious. But I know something weird happened that night. \n\nLast year I suffered from severe depression, with, at its worst, bad panic attacks and agitation. My friend used to let me sleep over at her place when I was really upset to give me a break from my home and family. One night when I was feeling particularly irrational and unwell, I was over at her place again and slept beside her in her bed. In the middle of the night, I jolted awake, feeling that I had been asked a question and shouted out 'Yeah, Jo?' and there was her face (I thought it was), just there above mine, but then I turned my head and she was there beside me, fast asleep. Then that face disappeared. I think a door closed. \n\nI don't remember too well because I was half-asleep, but the strangeness of it was still clear as day. It was a scary realisation when she was just there, sleeping, and the figure above me wasn't Jo. I just went back to sleep. I don't rule out that I hallucinated because I was so distressed, but despite my history of mental illness I have no real history of psychosis, or anything involving hallucination. I stand by having seen what I saw because the experience was so intense. \n\nSix months later Jo said she saw the ghost too, just wandering across the living room, a transparent greeny-purple flash, a young girl that she only saw out of the corner of her eye. And she said the same thing, that she doesn't believe in ghosts, but she was what she saw. It's an old house, and we're both pretty unnerved about it, and love talking about it, but we were never all-out scared, funnily enough."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not particularly superstitious. But I know something weird happened that night. \n\nLast year I suffered from severe depression, with, at its worst, bad panic attacks and agitation. My friend used to let me sleep over at her place when I was really upset to give me a break from my home and family. One night when I was feeling particularly irrational and unwell, I was over at her place again and slept beside her in her bed. In the middle of the night, I jolted awake, feeling that I had been asked a question and shouted out 'Yeah, Jo?' and there was her face (I thought it was), just there above mine, but then I turned my head and she was there beside me, fast asleep. Then that face disappeared. I think a door closed. \n\nI don't remember too well because I was half-asleep, but the strangeness of it was still clear as day. It was a scary realisation when she was just there, sleeping, and the figure above me wasn't Jo. I just went back to sleep. I don't rule out that I hallucinated because I was so distressed, but despite my history of mental illness I have no real history of psychosis, or anything involving hallucination. I stand by having seen what I saw because the experience was so intense. \n\nSix months later Jo said she saw the ghost too, just wandering across the living room, a transparent greeny-purple flash, a young girl that she only saw out of the corner of her eye. And she said the same thing, that she doesn't believe in ghosts, but she was what she saw. It's an old house, and we're both pretty unnerved about it, and love talking about it, but we were never all-out scared, funnily enough."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly a month, before I asked her to be my girlfriend. Ever since we have started dating, she seems really distant over text messages. Literally, taking a day to reply. \n\nThis would normally be annoying but bearable, as when we talk in person everything is still amazing as usual. However, she has just left to go away with her family over the holidays for just under three weeks, im really worried about not talking to her over this period of time & I miss her crazily so the lack of communication is really getting to me. I am really upset, as this is the first girl I have had real feelings and emotions for. This also makes it difficult to have a flowing conversation, so the short two or three message conversations we have are seemingly aimless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly a month, before I asked her to be my girlfriend. Ever since we have started dating, she seems really distant over text messages. Literally, taking a day to reply. \n\nThis would normally be annoying but bearable, as when we talk in person everything is still amazing as usual. However, she has just left to go away with her family over the holidays for just under three weeks, im really worried about not talking to her over this period of time & I miss her crazily so the lack of communication is really getting to me. I am really upset, as this is the first girl I have had real feelings and emotions for. This also makes it difficult to have a flowing conversation, so the short two or three message conversations we have are seemingly aimless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly a month, before I asked her to be my girlfriend. Ever since we have started dating, she seems really distant over text messages. Literally, taking a day to reply. \n\nThis would normally be annoying but bearable, as when we talk in person everything is still amazing as usual. However, she has just left to go away with her family over the holidays for just under three weeks, im really worried about not talking to her over this period of time & I miss her crazily so the lack of communication is really getting to me. I am really upset, as this is the first girl I have had real feelings and emotions for. This also makes it difficult to have a flowing conversation, so the short two or three message conversations we have are seemingly aimless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly a month, before I asked her to be my girlfriend. Ever since we have started dating, she seems really distant over text messages. Literally, taking a day to reply. \n\nThis would normally be annoying but bearable, as when we talk in person everything is still amazing as usual. However, she has just left to go away with her family over the holidays for just under three weeks, im really worried about not talking to her over this period of time & I miss her crazily so the lack of communication is really getting to me. I am really upset, as this is the first girl I have had real feelings and emotions for. This also makes it difficult to have a flowing conversation, so the short two or three message conversations we have are seemingly aimless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly a month, before I asked her to be my girlfriend. Ever since we have started dating, she seems really distant over text messages. Literally, taking a day to reply. \n\nThis would normally be annoying but bearable, as when we talk in person everything is still amazing as usual. However, she has just left to go away with her family over the holidays for just under three weeks, im really worried about not talking to her over this period of time & I miss her crazily so the lack of communication is really getting to me. I am really upset, as this is the first girl I have had real feelings and emotions for. This also makes it difficult to have a flowing conversation, so the short two or three message conversations we have are seemingly aimless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly a month, before I asked her to be my girlfriend. Ever since we have started dating, she seems really distant over text messages. Literally, taking a day to reply. \n\nThis would normally be annoying but bearable, as when we talk in person everything is still amazing as usual. However, she has just left to go away with her family over the holidays for just under three weeks, im really worried about not talking to her over this period of time & I miss her crazily so the lack of communication is really getting to me. I am really upset, as this is the first girl I have had real feelings and emotions for. This also makes it difficult to have a flowing conversation, so the short two or three message conversations we have are seemingly aimless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this really isn't huge deal. atleast I don't think. My girlfriend of 6 months loves to check her \"on this day\" page on her facebook which for those that don't know is a list of all her posts from the past on that particular day. What I don't like about it is she always has to see her old posts and memories of her and her ex on there. She had been with this guy for 4 years and we got together only a month after they had broken up. I know that's not ideal to get with someone after they've just gotten out of a long term relationship but I figured I'd go for it anyways and see if it worked out. I just know that it takes time to heal from a breakup and I feel like her seeing these memories everyday can't help her move on like she should. Maybe by now it doesn't affect her as much because it's been over half a year since they've broken up but I just sometimes wonder. They ended on bad terms and she claims she was over him long before they officially broke up but who really knows. Is this something that I should be concerned with or should I just let it go? I really don't know if I should approach her about it. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this really isn't huge deal. atleast I don't think. My girlfriend of 6 months loves to check her \"on this day\" page on her facebook which for those that don't know is a list of all her posts from the past on that particular day. What I don't like about it is she always has to see her old posts and memories of her and her ex on there. She had been with this guy for 4 years and we got together only a month after they had broken up. I know that's not ideal to get with someone after they've just gotten out of a long term relationship but I figured I'd go for it anyways and see if it worked out. I just know that it takes time to heal from a breakup and I feel like her seeing these memories everyday can't help her move on like she should. Maybe by now it doesn't affect her as much because it's been over half a year since they've broken up but I just sometimes wonder. They ended on bad terms and she claims she was over him long before they officially broke up but who really knows. Is this something that I should be concerned with or should I just let it go? I really don't know if I should approach her about it. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this really isn't huge deal. atleast I don't think. My girlfriend of 6 months loves to check her \"on this day\" page on her facebook which for those that don't know is a list of all her posts from the past on that particular day. What I don't like about it is she always has to see her old posts and memories of her and her ex on there. She had been with this guy for 4 years and we got together only a month after they had broken up. I know that's not ideal to get with someone after they've just gotten out of a long term relationship but I figured I'd go for it anyways and see if it worked out. I just know that it takes time to heal from a breakup and I feel like her seeing these memories everyday can't help her move on like she should. Maybe by now it doesn't affect her as much because it's been over half a year since they've broken up but I just sometimes wonder. They ended on bad terms and she claims she was over him long before they officially broke up but who really knows. Is this something that I should be concerned with or should I just let it go? I really don't know if I should approach her about it. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this really isn't huge deal. atleast I don't think. My girlfriend of 6 months loves to check her \"on this day\" page on her facebook which for those that don't know is a list of all her posts from the past on that particular day. What I don't like about it is she always has to see her old posts and memories of her and her ex on there. She had been with this guy for 4 years and we got together only a month after they had broken up. I know that's not ideal to get with someone after they've just gotten out of a long term relationship but I figured I'd go for it anyways and see if it worked out. I just know that it takes time to heal from a breakup and I feel like her seeing these memories everyday can't help her move on like she should. Maybe by now it doesn't affect her as much because it's been over half a year since they've broken up but I just sometimes wonder. They ended on bad terms and she claims she was over him long before they officially broke up but who really knows. Is this something that I should be concerned with or should I just let it go? I really don't know if I should approach her about it. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this really isn't huge deal. atleast I don't think. My girlfriend of 6 months loves to check her \"on this day\" page on her facebook which for those that don't know is a list of all her posts from the past on that particular day. What I don't like about it is she always has to see her old posts and memories of her and her ex on there. She had been with this guy for 4 years and we got together only a month after they had broken up. I know that's not ideal to get with someone after they've just gotten out of a long term relationship but I figured I'd go for it anyways and see if it worked out. I just know that it takes time to heal from a breakup and I feel like her seeing these memories everyday can't help her move on like she should. Maybe by now it doesn't affect her as much because it's been over half a year since they've broken up but I just sometimes wonder. They ended on bad terms and she claims she was over him long before they officially broke up but who really knows. Is this something that I should be concerned with or should I just let it go? I really don't know if I should approach her about it. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this really isn't huge deal. atleast I don't think. My girlfriend of 6 months loves to check her \"on this day\" page on her facebook which for those that don't know is a list of all her posts from the past on that particular day. What I don't like about it is she always has to see her old posts and memories of her and her ex on there. She had been with this guy for 4 years and we got together only a month after they had broken up. I know that's not ideal to get with someone after they've just gotten out of a long term relationship but I figured I'd go for it anyways and see if it worked out. I just know that it takes time to heal from a breakup and I feel like her seeing these memories everyday can't help her move on like she should. Maybe by now it doesn't affect her as much because it's been over half a year since they've broken up but I just sometimes wonder. They ended on bad terms and she claims she was over him long before they officially broke up but who really knows. Is this something that I should be concerned with or should I just let it go? I really don't know if I should approach her about it. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit!\n\nI have been dating this girl Larissa for about 3 months now and we have a fantastic time. We are completely on the same wave length as far as humor and life style. She even utterly whooped my ass on the golf course (she was a D1 full ride golfer) multiple times. My only issue is that while she is by no means an ugly duckling, I just don't find her to be incredibly attractive. She is cute, but not \"Hot\". if that makes sense.\n\nI got out of a relationship of 2 years with a girl I did find attractive, but every other part of her life was at odds with my values. Over time my physical attraction for her completely disappeared as well. Based on the premise that my physical attraction to someone will grow weak as we get old I have been asking myself the following question.\n\nIf everything else about this person is great (funny, motivated, successful, and someone I love to be around), why can't I seem to get over the fact that she is not a bomb shell? I feel shallow at times and think maybe I should cut this off, but so far it has not affected the relationship. Anyone with some more wisdom want to weigh in on what they have done in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit!\n\nI have been dating this girl Larissa for about 3 months now and we have a fantastic time. We are completely on the same wave length as far as humor and life style. She even utterly whooped my ass on the golf course (she was a D1 full ride golfer) multiple times. My only issue is that while she is by no means an ugly duckling, I just don't find her to be incredibly attractive. She is cute, but not \"Hot\". if that makes sense.\n\nI got out of a relationship of 2 years with a girl I did find attractive, but every other part of her life was at odds with my values. Over time my physical attraction for her completely disappeared as well. Based on the premise that my physical attraction to someone will grow weak as we get old I have been asking myself the following question.\n\nIf everything else about this person is great (funny, motivated, successful, and someone I love to be around), why can't I seem to get over the fact that she is not a bomb shell? I feel shallow at times and think maybe I should cut this off, but so far it has not affected the relationship. Anyone with some more wisdom want to weigh in on what they have done in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit!\n\nI have been dating this girl Larissa for about 3 months now and we have a fantastic time. We are completely on the same wave length as far as humor and life style. She even utterly whooped my ass on the golf course (she was a D1 full ride golfer) multiple times. My only issue is that while she is by no means an ugly duckling, I just don't find her to be incredibly attractive. She is cute, but not \"Hot\". if that makes sense.\n\nI got out of a relationship of 2 years with a girl I did find attractive, but every other part of her life was at odds with my values. Over time my physical attraction for her completely disappeared as well. Based on the premise that my physical attraction to someone will grow weak as we get old I have been asking myself the following question.\n\nIf everything else about this person is great (funny, motivated, successful, and someone I love to be around), why can't I seem to get over the fact that she is not a bomb shell? I feel shallow at times and think maybe I should cut this off, but so far it has not affected the relationship. Anyone with some more wisdom want to weigh in on what they have done in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit!\n\nI have been dating this girl Larissa for about 3 months now and we have a fantastic time. We are completely on the same wave length as far as humor and life style. She even utterly whooped my ass on the golf course (she was a D1 full ride golfer) multiple times. My only issue is that while she is by no means an ugly duckling, I just don't find her to be incredibly attractive. She is cute, but not \"Hot\". if that makes sense.\n\nI got out of a relationship of 2 years with a girl I did find attractive, but every other part of her life was at odds with my values. Over time my physical attraction for her completely disappeared as well. Based on the premise that my physical attraction to someone will grow weak as we get old I have been asking myself the following question.\n\nIf everything else about this person is great (funny, motivated, successful, and someone I love to be around), why can't I seem to get over the fact that she is not a bomb shell? I feel shallow at times and think maybe I should cut this off, but so far it has not affected the relationship. Anyone with some more wisdom want to weigh in on what they have done in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit!\n\nI have been dating this girl Larissa for about 3 months now and we have a fantastic time. We are completely on the same wave length as far as humor and life style. She even utterly whooped my ass on the golf course (she was a D1 full ride golfer) multiple times. My only issue is that while she is by no means an ugly duckling, I just don't find her to be incredibly attractive. She is cute, but not \"Hot\". if that makes sense.\n\nI got out of a relationship of 2 years with a girl I did find attractive, but every other part of her life was at odds with my values. Over time my physical attraction for her completely disappeared as well. Based on the premise that my physical attraction to someone will grow weak as we get old I have been asking myself the following question.\n\nIf everything else about this person is great (funny, motivated, successful, and someone I love to be around), why can't I seem to get over the fact that she is not a bomb shell? I feel shallow at times and think maybe I should cut this off, but so far it has not affected the relationship. Anyone with some more wisdom want to weigh in on what they have done in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit!\n\nI have been dating this girl Larissa for about 3 months now and we have a fantastic time. We are completely on the same wave length as far as humor and life style. She even utterly whooped my ass on the golf course (she was a D1 full ride golfer) multiple times. My only issue is that while she is by no means an ugly duckling, I just don't find her to be incredibly attractive. She is cute, but not \"Hot\". if that makes sense.\n\nI got out of a relationship of 2 years with a girl I did find attractive, but every other part of her life was at odds with my values. Over time my physical attraction for her completely disappeared as well. Based on the premise that my physical attraction to someone will grow weak as we get old I have been asking myself the following question.\n\nIf everything else about this person is great (funny, motivated, successful, and someone I love to be around), why can't I seem to get over the fact that she is not a bomb shell? I feel shallow at times and think maybe I should cut this off, but so far it has not affected the relationship. Anyone with some more wisdom want to weigh in on what they have done in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I still can't believe this happened, granted, it happened a while ago but still. So, when I was in high school I was a big fan of the British TV show \"The Inbetweeners\". Whenever the characters on the show saw a hot girl they'd call her \"fit\" or a \"fit bird\". Now be me, 17. We have to read these dumb essays we wrote out loud to the entire class. I was sitting at my desk with my friends when I heard a girl with a British accent start to speak. I then automatically said \"She's a fookin' fit burd!\" My friends laughed their asses off. One of them, let's call him Aaron, told the de facto leader of our (ugh, I hate using this word) clique the whole story. This guy, let's call him Jack, gives out decent advice but also loves to fuck with people for shits and giggles. A true chaotic neutral. He tells Aaron to tell the chick, let's call her Alice, to talk to me. Now at this point I'm shitting bricks. I am ridiculously socially impaired but I think to myself \"maybe she'll find it funny\". Eventually, Alice walks over to talk to me. At this point I've convinced myself that she's in on the joke. As she says \"Hi Jude\" I blurt out, in my best Cockney accent, *\"YOU'RE A FOOKIN' FIT BIRD, I'D FOOK Y'ER FANNY RIGHT OFF, YOU FOOKIN' TWAT\"* Unfortunately, she was not in on the joke at all, Aaron had just told her to talk to me. Word got around and now all the girls at school think I'm a complete fucking moron. On the bright side my friends think I have giant balls now, so that's nice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I still can't believe this happened, granted, it happened a while ago but still. So, when I was in high school I was a big fan of the British TV show \"The Inbetweeners\". Whenever the characters on the show saw a hot girl they'd call her \"fit\" or a \"fit bird\". Now be me, 17. We have to read these dumb essays we wrote out loud to the entire class. I was sitting at my desk with my friends when I heard a girl with a British accent start to speak. I then automatically said \"She's a fookin' fit burd!\" My friends laughed their asses off. One of them, let's call him Aaron, told the de facto leader of our (ugh, I hate using this word) clique the whole story. This guy, let's call him Jack, gives out decent advice but also loves to fuck with people for shits and giggles. A true chaotic neutral. He tells Aaron to tell the chick, let's call her Alice, to talk to me. Now at this point I'm shitting bricks. I am ridiculously socially impaired but I think to myself \"maybe she'll find it funny\". Eventually, Alice walks over to talk to me. At this point I've convinced myself that she's in on the joke. As she says \"Hi Jude\" I blurt out, in my best Cockney accent, *\"YOU'RE A FOOKIN' FIT BIRD, I'D FOOK Y'ER FANNY RIGHT OFF, YOU FOOKIN' TWAT\"* Unfortunately, she was not in on the joke at all, Aaron had just told her to talk to me. Word got around and now all the girls at school think I'm a complete fucking moron. On the bright side my friends think I have giant balls now, so that's nice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I still can't believe this happened, granted, it happened a while ago but still. So, when I was in high school I was a big fan of the British TV show \"The Inbetweeners\". Whenever the characters on the show saw a hot girl they'd call her \"fit\" or a \"fit bird\". Now be me, 17. We have to read these dumb essays we wrote out loud to the entire class. I was sitting at my desk with my friends when I heard a girl with a British accent start to speak. I then automatically said \"She's a fookin' fit burd!\" My friends laughed their asses off. One of them, let's call him Aaron, told the de facto leader of our (ugh, I hate using this word) clique the whole story. This guy, let's call him Jack, gives out decent advice but also loves to fuck with people for shits and giggles. A true chaotic neutral. He tells Aaron to tell the chick, let's call her Alice, to talk to me. Now at this point I'm shitting bricks. I am ridiculously socially impaired but I think to myself \"maybe she'll find it funny\". Eventually, Alice walks over to talk to me. At this point I've convinced myself that she's in on the joke. As she says \"Hi Jude\" I blurt out, in my best Cockney accent, *\"YOU'RE A FOOKIN' FIT BIRD, I'D FOOK Y'ER FANNY RIGHT OFF, YOU FOOKIN' TWAT\"* Unfortunately, she was not in on the joke at all, Aaron had just told her to talk to me. Word got around and now all the girls at school think I'm a complete fucking moron. On the bright side my friends think I have giant balls now, so that's nice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I still can't believe this happened, granted, it happened a while ago but still. So, when I was in high school I was a big fan of the British TV show \"The Inbetweeners\". Whenever the characters on the show saw a hot girl they'd call her \"fit\" or a \"fit bird\". Now be me, 17. We have to read these dumb essays we wrote out loud to the entire class. I was sitting at my desk with my friends when I heard a girl with a British accent start to speak. I then automatically said \"She's a fookin' fit burd!\" My friends laughed their asses off. One of them, let's call him Aaron, told the de facto leader of our (ugh, I hate using this word) clique the whole story. This guy, let's call him Jack, gives out decent advice but also loves to fuck with people for shits and giggles. A true chaotic neutral. He tells Aaron to tell the chick, let's call her Alice, to talk to me. Now at this point I'm shitting bricks. I am ridiculously socially impaired but I think to myself \"maybe she'll find it funny\". Eventually, Alice walks over to talk to me. At this point I've convinced myself that she's in on the joke. As she says \"Hi Jude\" I blurt out, in my best Cockney accent, *\"YOU'RE A FOOKIN' FIT BIRD, I'D FOOK Y'ER FANNY RIGHT OFF, YOU FOOKIN' TWAT\"* Unfortunately, she was not in on the joke at all, Aaron had just told her to talk to me. Word got around and now all the girls at school think I'm a complete fucking moron. On the bright side my friends think I have giant balls now, so that's nice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I still can't believe this happened, granted, it happened a while ago but still. So, when I was in high school I was a big fan of the British TV show \"The Inbetweeners\". Whenever the characters on the show saw a hot girl they'd call her \"fit\" or a \"fit bird\". Now be me, 17. We have to read these dumb essays we wrote out loud to the entire class. I was sitting at my desk with my friends when I heard a girl with a British accent start to speak. I then automatically said \"She's a fookin' fit burd!\" My friends laughed their asses off. One of them, let's call him Aaron, told the de facto leader of our (ugh, I hate using this word) clique the whole story. This guy, let's call him Jack, gives out decent advice but also loves to fuck with people for shits and giggles. A true chaotic neutral. He tells Aaron to tell the chick, let's call her Alice, to talk to me. Now at this point I'm shitting bricks. I am ridiculously socially impaired but I think to myself \"maybe she'll find it funny\". Eventually, Alice walks over to talk to me. At this point I've convinced myself that she's in on the joke. As she says \"Hi Jude\" I blurt out, in my best Cockney accent, *\"YOU'RE A FOOKIN' FIT BIRD, I'D FOOK Y'ER FANNY RIGHT OFF, YOU FOOKIN' TWAT\"* Unfortunately, she was not in on the joke at all, Aaron had just told her to talk to me. Word got around and now all the girls at school think I'm a complete fucking moron. On the bright side my friends think I have giant balls now, so that's nice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I still can't believe this happened, granted, it happened a while ago but still. So, when I was in high school I was a big fan of the British TV show \"The Inbetweeners\". Whenever the characters on the show saw a hot girl they'd call her \"fit\" or a \"fit bird\". Now be me, 17. We have to read these dumb essays we wrote out loud to the entire class. I was sitting at my desk with my friends when I heard a girl with a British accent start to speak. I then automatically said \"She's a fookin' fit burd!\" My friends laughed their asses off. One of them, let's call him Aaron, told the de facto leader of our (ugh, I hate using this word) clique the whole story. This guy, let's call him Jack, gives out decent advice but also loves to fuck with people for shits and giggles. A true chaotic neutral. He tells Aaron to tell the chick, let's call her Alice, to talk to me. Now at this point I'm shitting bricks. I am ridiculously socially impaired but I think to myself \"maybe she'll find it funny\". Eventually, Alice walks over to talk to me. At this point I've convinced myself that she's in on the joke. As she says \"Hi Jude\" I blurt out, in my best Cockney accent, *\"YOU'RE A FOOKIN' FIT BIRD, I'D FOOK Y'ER FANNY RIGHT OFF, YOU FOOKIN' TWAT\"* Unfortunately, she was not in on the joke at all, Aaron had just told her to talk to me. Word got around and now all the girls at school think I'm a complete fucking moron. On the bright side my friends think I have giant balls now, so that's nice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 years old and serving as a freshman orientation leader this summer at a moderately conservative, large public university. Among the typical orientation content where I give them information and they ask questions, one of our breakout sessions focuses on social issues they may face in their first year. The context of the talk is very serious, ranging from peer pressure, harmful behaviors, mental health, alcohol, etc. The last talking point on the outline is always relationships and sex. \n\nWhen I get to this topic, I always talk about the importance of mutual consent before sex, bystander intervention if they witness someone being assaulted or in an abusive relationship, making responsible choices, etc. Then, like all the other topics, I open it up to them for questions. I always get questions about how I, personally, have handled college boyfriends and what I think is the best policy for dating in college. I usually say something along the lines of \"that's a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves, I'm not here to tell you who to be in college\". Normally that is sufficient for them and we can move on, but this past time a male freshman kept pressing the questions about my personal stance. The truth is that I don't know where I stand. I've dated some in my last two years but have never gotten to the point of being physical with someone, though I've had roommates that were.\n\nIt never comes up that none of this information I'm giving them applies to me. I don't want them to think of me as any less qualified to help them through their freshman year if they think I won't understand the issues they are facing. It's also just embarrassing and not something I'm not ready to admit.\n\nBy the end of the summer, I will have given this talk to 150+ freshmen jn small group settings. How should I approach this the rest of the summer? Experienced redditors, is there anything I should be telling them that I'm not already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 years old and serving as a freshman orientation leader this summer at a moderately conservative, large public university. Among the typical orientation content where I give them information and they ask questions, one of our breakout sessions focuses on social issues they may face in their first year. The context of the talk is very serious, ranging from peer pressure, harmful behaviors, mental health, alcohol, etc. The last talking point on the outline is always relationships and sex. \n\nWhen I get to this topic, I always talk about the importance of mutual consent before sex, bystander intervention if they witness someone being assaulted or in an abusive relationship, making responsible choices, etc. Then, like all the other topics, I open it up to them for questions. I always get questions about how I, personally, have handled college boyfriends and what I think is the best policy for dating in college. I usually say something along the lines of \"that's a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves, I'm not here to tell you who to be in college\". Normally that is sufficient for them and we can move on, but this past time a male freshman kept pressing the questions about my personal stance. The truth is that I don't know where I stand. I've dated some in my last two years but have never gotten to the point of being physical with someone, though I've had roommates that were.\n\nIt never comes up that none of this information I'm giving them applies to me. I don't want them to think of me as any less qualified to help them through their freshman year if they think I won't understand the issues they are facing. It's also just embarrassing and not something I'm not ready to admit.\n\nBy the end of the summer, I will have given this talk to 150+ freshmen jn small group settings. How should I approach this the rest of the summer? Experienced redditors, is there anything I should be telling them that I'm not already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 years old and serving as a freshman orientation leader this summer at a moderately conservative, large public university. Among the typical orientation content where I give them information and they ask questions, one of our breakout sessions focuses on social issues they may face in their first year. The context of the talk is very serious, ranging from peer pressure, harmful behaviors, mental health, alcohol, etc. The last talking point on the outline is always relationships and sex. \n\nWhen I get to this topic, I always talk about the importance of mutual consent before sex, bystander intervention if they witness someone being assaulted or in an abusive relationship, making responsible choices, etc. Then, like all the other topics, I open it up to them for questions. I always get questions about how I, personally, have handled college boyfriends and what I think is the best policy for dating in college. I usually say something along the lines of \"that's a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves, I'm not here to tell you who to be in college\". Normally that is sufficient for them and we can move on, but this past time a male freshman kept pressing the questions about my personal stance. The truth is that I don't know where I stand. I've dated some in my last two years but have never gotten to the point of being physical with someone, though I've had roommates that were.\n\nIt never comes up that none of this information I'm giving them applies to me. I don't want them to think of me as any less qualified to help them through their freshman year if they think I won't understand the issues they are facing. It's also just embarrassing and not something I'm not ready to admit.\n\nBy the end of the summer, I will have given this talk to 150+ freshmen jn small group settings. How should I approach this the rest of the summer? Experienced redditors, is there anything I should be telling them that I'm not already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 years old and serving as a freshman orientation leader this summer at a moderately conservative, large public university. Among the typical orientation content where I give them information and they ask questions, one of our breakout sessions focuses on social issues they may face in their first year. The context of the talk is very serious, ranging from peer pressure, harmful behaviors, mental health, alcohol, etc. The last talking point on the outline is always relationships and sex. \n\nWhen I get to this topic, I always talk about the importance of mutual consent before sex, bystander intervention if they witness someone being assaulted or in an abusive relationship, making responsible choices, etc. Then, like all the other topics, I open it up to them for questions. I always get questions about how I, personally, have handled college boyfriends and what I think is the best policy for dating in college. I usually say something along the lines of \"that's a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves, I'm not here to tell you who to be in college\". Normally that is sufficient for them and we can move on, but this past time a male freshman kept pressing the questions about my personal stance. The truth is that I don't know where I stand. I've dated some in my last two years but have never gotten to the point of being physical with someone, though I've had roommates that were.\n\nIt never comes up that none of this information I'm giving them applies to me. I don't want them to think of me as any less qualified to help them through their freshman year if they think I won't understand the issues they are facing. It's also just embarrassing and not something I'm not ready to admit.\n\nBy the end of the summer, I will have given this talk to 150+ freshmen jn small group settings. How should I approach this the rest of the summer? Experienced redditors, is there anything I should be telling them that I'm not already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 years old and serving as a freshman orientation leader this summer at a moderately conservative, large public university. Among the typical orientation content where I give them information and they ask questions, one of our breakout sessions focuses on social issues they may face in their first year. The context of the talk is very serious, ranging from peer pressure, harmful behaviors, mental health, alcohol, etc. The last talking point on the outline is always relationships and sex. \n\nWhen I get to this topic, I always talk about the importance of mutual consent before sex, bystander intervention if they witness someone being assaulted or in an abusive relationship, making responsible choices, etc. Then, like all the other topics, I open it up to them for questions. I always get questions about how I, personally, have handled college boyfriends and what I think is the best policy for dating in college. I usually say something along the lines of \"that's a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves, I'm not here to tell you who to be in college\". Normally that is sufficient for them and we can move on, but this past time a male freshman kept pressing the questions about my personal stance. The truth is that I don't know where I stand. I've dated some in my last two years but have never gotten to the point of being physical with someone, though I've had roommates that were.\n\nIt never comes up that none of this information I'm giving them applies to me. I don't want them to think of me as any less qualified to help them through their freshman year if they think I won't understand the issues they are facing. It's also just embarrassing and not something I'm not ready to admit.\n\nBy the end of the summer, I will have given this talk to 150+ freshmen jn small group settings. How should I approach this the rest of the summer? Experienced redditors, is there anything I should be telling them that I'm not already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 years old and serving as a freshman orientation leader this summer at a moderately conservative, large public university. Among the typical orientation content where I give them information and they ask questions, one of our breakout sessions focuses on social issues they may face in their first year. The context of the talk is very serious, ranging from peer pressure, harmful behaviors, mental health, alcohol, etc. The last talking point on the outline is always relationships and sex. \n\nWhen I get to this topic, I always talk about the importance of mutual consent before sex, bystander intervention if they witness someone being assaulted or in an abusive relationship, making responsible choices, etc. Then, like all the other topics, I open it up to them for questions. I always get questions about how I, personally, have handled college boyfriends and what I think is the best policy for dating in college. I usually say something along the lines of \"that's a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves, I'm not here to tell you who to be in college\". Normally that is sufficient for them and we can move on, but this past time a male freshman kept pressing the questions about my personal stance. The truth is that I don't know where I stand. I've dated some in my last two years but have never gotten to the point of being physical with someone, though I've had roommates that were.\n\nIt never comes up that none of this information I'm giving them applies to me. I don't want them to think of me as any less qualified to help them through their freshman year if they think I won't understand the issues they are facing. It's also just embarrassing and not something I'm not ready to admit.\n\nBy the end of the summer, I will have given this talk to 150+ freshmen jn small group settings. How should I approach this the rest of the summer? Experienced redditors, is there anything I should be telling them that I'm not already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been using OkCupid for a while. I've gotten a few dates, nothing really came out of them. Well, one day I get a completely random message from a girl in Thailand. I assume it's a scam or spam, but I respond anyway. To my surprise, she's real: just a lonely Thai girl who wanted to talk to an American guy. We keep chatting, and eventually move the conversation to a message app.\n\nWe keep talking pretty regularly. She sends me pictures of Thailand, I send her pictures of America. It's pretty cool talking to someone on the other side of planet. We also flirt pretty heavily, but nothing more considering the fact that we will never ever meet in person.\n\nMeanwhile, I'm still using OkCupid. I meet another girl, and this one lives in the same city as me. We go on a date and really hit it off. I've gone on two more dates with American Girl and it seems like this one is going somewhere. \n\nSo my question is, how should I break it off with Thai Girl? We never had any sort of relationship; I'd classify us as flirty pen-pals at most. It doesn't seem right to just stop talking to her all of a sudden though, and it also doesn't seem right to keep talking to Thai Girl while I'm for-real dating American Girl. What's the nicest way to end it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been using OkCupid for a while. I've gotten a few dates, nothing really came out of them. Well, one day I get a completely random message from a girl in Thailand. I assume it's a scam or spam, but I respond anyway. To my surprise, she's real: just a lonely Thai girl who wanted to talk to an American guy. We keep chatting, and eventually move the conversation to a message app.\n\nWe keep talking pretty regularly. She sends me pictures of Thailand, I send her pictures of America. It's pretty cool talking to someone on the other side of planet. We also flirt pretty heavily, but nothing more considering the fact that we will never ever meet in person.\n\nMeanwhile, I'm still using OkCupid. I meet another girl, and this one lives in the same city as me. We go on a date and really hit it off. I've gone on two more dates with American Girl and it seems like this one is going somewhere. \n\nSo my question is, how should I break it off with Thai Girl? We never had any sort of relationship; I'd classify us as flirty pen-pals at most. It doesn't seem right to just stop talking to her all of a sudden though, and it also doesn't seem right to keep talking to Thai Girl while I'm for-real dating American Girl. What's the nicest way to end it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been using OkCupid for a while. I've gotten a few dates, nothing really came out of them. Well, one day I get a completely random message from a girl in Thailand. I assume it's a scam or spam, but I respond anyway. To my surprise, she's real: just a lonely Thai girl who wanted to talk to an American guy. We keep chatting, and eventually move the conversation to a message app.\n\nWe keep talking pretty regularly. She sends me pictures of Thailand, I send her pictures of America. It's pretty cool talking to someone on the other side of planet. We also flirt pretty heavily, but nothing more considering the fact that we will never ever meet in person.\n\nMeanwhile, I'm still using OkCupid. I meet another girl, and this one lives in the same city as me. We go on a date and really hit it off. I've gone on two more dates with American Girl and it seems like this one is going somewhere. \n\nSo my question is, how should I break it off with Thai Girl? We never had any sort of relationship; I'd classify us as flirty pen-pals at most. It doesn't seem right to just stop talking to her all of a sudden though, and it also doesn't seem right to keep talking to Thai Girl while I'm for-real dating American Girl. What's the nicest way to end it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been using OkCupid for a while. I've gotten a few dates, nothing really came out of them. Well, one day I get a completely random message from a girl in Thailand. I assume it's a scam or spam, but I respond anyway. To my surprise, she's real: just a lonely Thai girl who wanted to talk to an American guy. We keep chatting, and eventually move the conversation to a message app.\n\nWe keep talking pretty regularly. She sends me pictures of Thailand, I send her pictures of America. It's pretty cool talking to someone on the other side of planet. We also flirt pretty heavily, but nothing more considering the fact that we will never ever meet in person.\n\nMeanwhile, I'm still using OkCupid. I meet another girl, and this one lives in the same city as me. We go on a date and really hit it off. I've gone on two more dates with American Girl and it seems like this one is going somewhere. \n\nSo my question is, how should I break it off with Thai Girl? We never had any sort of relationship; I'd classify us as flirty pen-pals at most. It doesn't seem right to just stop talking to her all of a sudden though, and it also doesn't seem right to keep talking to Thai Girl while I'm for-real dating American Girl. What's the nicest way to end it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been using OkCupid for a while. I've gotten a few dates, nothing really came out of them. Well, one day I get a completely random message from a girl in Thailand. I assume it's a scam or spam, but I respond anyway. To my surprise, she's real: just a lonely Thai girl who wanted to talk to an American guy. We keep chatting, and eventually move the conversation to a message app.\n\nWe keep talking pretty regularly. She sends me pictures of Thailand, I send her pictures of America. It's pretty cool talking to someone on the other side of planet. We also flirt pretty heavily, but nothing more considering the fact that we will never ever meet in person.\n\nMeanwhile, I'm still using OkCupid. I meet another girl, and this one lives in the same city as me. We go on a date and really hit it off. I've gone on two more dates with American Girl and it seems like this one is going somewhere. \n\nSo my question is, how should I break it off with Thai Girl? We never had any sort of relationship; I'd classify us as flirty pen-pals at most. It doesn't seem right to just stop talking to her all of a sudden though, and it also doesn't seem right to keep talking to Thai Girl while I'm for-real dating American Girl. What's the nicest way to end it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been using OkCupid for a while. I've gotten a few dates, nothing really came out of them. Well, one day I get a completely random message from a girl in Thailand. I assume it's a scam or spam, but I respond anyway. To my surprise, she's real: just a lonely Thai girl who wanted to talk to an American guy. We keep chatting, and eventually move the conversation to a message app.\n\nWe keep talking pretty regularly. She sends me pictures of Thailand, I send her pictures of America. It's pretty cool talking to someone on the other side of planet. We also flirt pretty heavily, but nothing more considering the fact that we will never ever meet in person.\n\nMeanwhile, I'm still using OkCupid. I meet another girl, and this one lives in the same city as me. We go on a date and really hit it off. I've gone on two more dates with American Girl and it seems like this one is going somewhere. \n\nSo my question is, how should I break it off with Thai Girl? We never had any sort of relationship; I'd classify us as flirty pen-pals at most. It doesn't seem right to just stop talking to her all of a sudden though, and it also doesn't seem right to keep talking to Thai Girl while I'm for-real dating American Girl. What's the nicest way to end it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a little background before I retell today's FU. Last week I was staying over at a friend's and during the middle of the night I kicked the metal bed frame in my sleep, hurting my foot quite badly above the ankle and making it fairly painful to walk normally even a week later. \n\nFast forward to today when I'm in college, ~walking~ limping along the corridor as per usual when I see a disabled person coming the opposite way who also has a pronounced limp. For some reason my first thought decided that the person may see me limping towards them and misinterpret it as mocking their disability so I quickly decided to act casual, walk completely normally and ignore the sharp pain in my foot. \n\nSo there I am appearing to walk completely normally for a 22 year old when I come to the set of three stairs that lowers the corridor and immediately put my injured foot down the first step. Evidently this action was too much for my foot as the pain suddenly quadruples and causes my ankle to buckle, I lose balance and pretty much flop down the remaining two stairs, landing fairly awkwardly a few feet in front of the disabled oncomer. He came to my aid, asking if I was okay but with a fairly amused smile to which I sheepishly replied that I was fine, thanked him and limped onwards, surmising that I had an excuse to limp without having to worry about potentially insulting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a little background before I retell today's FU. Last week I was staying over at a friend's and during the middle of the night I kicked the metal bed frame in my sleep, hurting my foot quite badly above the ankle and making it fairly painful to walk normally even a week later. \n\nFast forward to today when I'm in college, ~walking~ limping along the corridor as per usual when I see a disabled person coming the opposite way who also has a pronounced limp. For some reason my first thought decided that the person may see me limping towards them and misinterpret it as mocking their disability so I quickly decided to act casual, walk completely normally and ignore the sharp pain in my foot. \n\nSo there I am appearing to walk completely normally for a 22 year old when I come to the set of three stairs that lowers the corridor and immediately put my injured foot down the first step. Evidently this action was too much for my foot as the pain suddenly quadruples and causes my ankle to buckle, I lose balance and pretty much flop down the remaining two stairs, landing fairly awkwardly a few feet in front of the disabled oncomer. He came to my aid, asking if I was okay but with a fairly amused smile to which I sheepishly replied that I was fine, thanked him and limped onwards, surmising that I had an excuse to limp without having to worry about potentially insulting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a little background before I retell today's FU. Last week I was staying over at a friend's and during the middle of the night I kicked the metal bed frame in my sleep, hurting my foot quite badly above the ankle and making it fairly painful to walk normally even a week later. \n\nFast forward to today when I'm in college, ~walking~ limping along the corridor as per usual when I see a disabled person coming the opposite way who also has a pronounced limp. For some reason my first thought decided that the person may see me limping towards them and misinterpret it as mocking their disability so I quickly decided to act casual, walk completely normally and ignore the sharp pain in my foot. \n\nSo there I am appearing to walk completely normally for a 22 year old when I come to the set of three stairs that lowers the corridor and immediately put my injured foot down the first step. Evidently this action was too much for my foot as the pain suddenly quadruples and causes my ankle to buckle, I lose balance and pretty much flop down the remaining two stairs, landing fairly awkwardly a few feet in front of the disabled oncomer. He came to my aid, asking if I was okay but with a fairly amused smile to which I sheepishly replied that I was fine, thanked him and limped onwards, surmising that I had an excuse to limp without having to worry about potentially insulting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a little background before I retell today's FU. Last week I was staying over at a friend's and during the middle of the night I kicked the metal bed frame in my sleep, hurting my foot quite badly above the ankle and making it fairly painful to walk normally even a week later. \n\nFast forward to today when I'm in college, ~walking~ limping along the corridor as per usual when I see a disabled person coming the opposite way who also has a pronounced limp. For some reason my first thought decided that the person may see me limping towards them and misinterpret it as mocking their disability so I quickly decided to act casual, walk completely normally and ignore the sharp pain in my foot. \n\nSo there I am appearing to walk completely normally for a 22 year old when I come to the set of three stairs that lowers the corridor and immediately put my injured foot down the first step. Evidently this action was too much for my foot as the pain suddenly quadruples and causes my ankle to buckle, I lose balance and pretty much flop down the remaining two stairs, landing fairly awkwardly a few feet in front of the disabled oncomer. He came to my aid, asking if I was okay but with a fairly amused smile to which I sheepishly replied that I was fine, thanked him and limped onwards, surmising that I had an excuse to limp without having to worry about potentially insulting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a little background before I retell today's FU. Last week I was staying over at a friend's and during the middle of the night I kicked the metal bed frame in my sleep, hurting my foot quite badly above the ankle and making it fairly painful to walk normally even a week later. \n\nFast forward to today when I'm in college, ~walking~ limping along the corridor as per usual when I see a disabled person coming the opposite way who also has a pronounced limp. For some reason my first thought decided that the person may see me limping towards them and misinterpret it as mocking their disability so I quickly decided to act casual, walk completely normally and ignore the sharp pain in my foot. \n\nSo there I am appearing to walk completely normally for a 22 year old when I come to the set of three stairs that lowers the corridor and immediately put my injured foot down the first step. Evidently this action was too much for my foot as the pain suddenly quadruples and causes my ankle to buckle, I lose balance and pretty much flop down the remaining two stairs, landing fairly awkwardly a few feet in front of the disabled oncomer. He came to my aid, asking if I was okay but with a fairly amused smile to which I sheepishly replied that I was fine, thanked him and limped onwards, surmising that I had an excuse to limp without having to worry about potentially insulting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a little background before I retell today's FU. Last week I was staying over at a friend's and during the middle of the night I kicked the metal bed frame in my sleep, hurting my foot quite badly above the ankle and making it fairly painful to walk normally even a week later. \n\nFast forward to today when I'm in college, ~walking~ limping along the corridor as per usual when I see a disabled person coming the opposite way who also has a pronounced limp. For some reason my first thought decided that the person may see me limping towards them and misinterpret it as mocking their disability so I quickly decided to act casual, walk completely normally and ignore the sharp pain in my foot. \n\nSo there I am appearing to walk completely normally for a 22 year old when I come to the set of three stairs that lowers the corridor and immediately put my injured foot down the first step. Evidently this action was too much for my foot as the pain suddenly quadruples and causes my ankle to buckle, I lose balance and pretty much flop down the remaining two stairs, landing fairly awkwardly a few feet in front of the disabled oncomer. He came to my aid, asking if I was okay but with a fairly amused smile to which I sheepishly replied that I was fine, thanked him and limped onwards, surmising that I had an excuse to limp without having to worry about potentially insulting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welcome to college, right? I'm 23/f and I have a crush on my 22-25/m TA. I haven't made any big moves yet as the semester just ended, but I'm pretty sure he's into me. We exchanged emails (though always initiated by me) on non-school topics occasionally and after the final I sent him an \"I like you. Let's be friends.\" situation. Insert some nerd-related banter and his \"and now we're friends\" and you're up to date. Nothing particular to make me think he's interested except a feeling. He's initiated conversation with me irl, though I have avoided eye-contact/him in general during the semester because I am awkward and didn't want to put him in a weird situation, etc. I want to ask him to coffee, but I'm not sure how. I'm nervous about actually having coffee with him as that will mean eye-contact and conversation. I only have his email. To me it seems obvious that I'm interested, so should I wait to see if he makes a move?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welcome to college, right? I'm 23/f and I have a crush on my 22-25/m TA. I haven't made any big moves yet as the semester just ended, but I'm pretty sure he's into me. We exchanged emails (though always initiated by me) on non-school topics occasionally and after the final I sent him an \"I like you. Let's be friends.\" situation. Insert some nerd-related banter and his \"and now we're friends\" and you're up to date. Nothing particular to make me think he's interested except a feeling. He's initiated conversation with me irl, though I have avoided eye-contact/him in general during the semester because I am awkward and didn't want to put him in a weird situation, etc. I want to ask him to coffee, but I'm not sure how. I'm nervous about actually having coffee with him as that will mean eye-contact and conversation. I only have his email. To me it seems obvious that I'm interested, so should I wait to see if he makes a move?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welcome to college, right? I'm 23/f and I have a crush on my 22-25/m TA. I haven't made any big moves yet as the semester just ended, but I'm pretty sure he's into me. We exchanged emails (though always initiated by me) on non-school topics occasionally and after the final I sent him an \"I like you. Let's be friends.\" situation. Insert some nerd-related banter and his \"and now we're friends\" and you're up to date. Nothing particular to make me think he's interested except a feeling. He's initiated conversation with me irl, though I have avoided eye-contact/him in general during the semester because I am awkward and didn't want to put him in a weird situation, etc. I want to ask him to coffee, but I'm not sure how. I'm nervous about actually having coffee with him as that will mean eye-contact and conversation. I only have his email. To me it seems obvious that I'm interested, so should I wait to see if he makes a move?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welcome to college, right? I'm 23/f and I have a crush on my 22-25/m TA. I haven't made any big moves yet as the semester just ended, but I'm pretty sure he's into me. We exchanged emails (though always initiated by me) on non-school topics occasionally and after the final I sent him an \"I like you. Let's be friends.\" situation. Insert some nerd-related banter and his \"and now we're friends\" and you're up to date. Nothing particular to make me think he's interested except a feeling. He's initiated conversation with me irl, though I have avoided eye-contact/him in general during the semester because I am awkward and didn't want to put him in a weird situation, etc. I want to ask him to coffee, but I'm not sure how. I'm nervous about actually having coffee with him as that will mean eye-contact and conversation. I only have his email. To me it seems obvious that I'm interested, so should I wait to see if he makes a move?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welcome to college, right? I'm 23/f and I have a crush on my 22-25/m TA. I haven't made any big moves yet as the semester just ended, but I'm pretty sure he's into me. We exchanged emails (though always initiated by me) on non-school topics occasionally and after the final I sent him an \"I like you. Let's be friends.\" situation. Insert some nerd-related banter and his \"and now we're friends\" and you're up to date. Nothing particular to make me think he's interested except a feeling. He's initiated conversation with me irl, though I have avoided eye-contact/him in general during the semester because I am awkward and didn't want to put him in a weird situation, etc. I want to ask him to coffee, but I'm not sure how. I'm nervous about actually having coffee with him as that will mean eye-contact and conversation. I only have his email. To me it seems obvious that I'm interested, so should I wait to see if he makes a move?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both were very much in love and he would die to be with me. He was a little bit attracted to me but not very much. He never meant to be hurtful or derisive but I am not his \"type\" at all. When I asked him to be clearer (and he was very uncomfortable to be put on the spot), he said I was \"attractive\" enough but he loved me for my personality and looks weren't important to him. I was so upset. After being cheated on before and rejected by guys, I was sad the one person I loved wasn't even physically that attracted. We made out and stuff but it ate at the back of my mind until I realized I began to resent him for not being able to ravage me with passion and attraction to me. It ended. But he was otherwise perfect for me and I almost regret it all.\n\nShould I have tried harder to stay? Is it worth it to compromise the wild attraction I desire for a long-term stable love that he offered? I'm with a new guy but this is gnawing at me. I want to get on with life but really loved my ex."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both were very much in love and he would die to be with me. He was a little bit attracted to me but not very much. He never meant to be hurtful or derisive but I am not his \"type\" at all. When I asked him to be clearer (and he was very uncomfortable to be put on the spot), he said I was \"attractive\" enough but he loved me for my personality and looks weren't important to him. I was so upset. After being cheated on before and rejected by guys, I was sad the one person I loved wasn't even physically that attracted. We made out and stuff but it ate at the back of my mind until I realized I began to resent him for not being able to ravage me with passion and attraction to me. It ended. But he was otherwise perfect for me and I almost regret it all.\n\nShould I have tried harder to stay? Is it worth it to compromise the wild attraction I desire for a long-term stable love that he offered? I'm with a new guy but this is gnawing at me. I want to get on with life but really loved my ex."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both were very much in love and he would die to be with me. He was a little bit attracted to me but not very much. He never meant to be hurtful or derisive but I am not his \"type\" at all. When I asked him to be clearer (and he was very uncomfortable to be put on the spot), he said I was \"attractive\" enough but he loved me for my personality and looks weren't important to him. I was so upset. After being cheated on before and rejected by guys, I was sad the one person I loved wasn't even physically that attracted. We made out and stuff but it ate at the back of my mind until I realized I began to resent him for not being able to ravage me with passion and attraction to me. It ended. But he was otherwise perfect for me and I almost regret it all.\n\nShould I have tried harder to stay? Is it worth it to compromise the wild attraction I desire for a long-term stable love that he offered? I'm with a new guy but this is gnawing at me. I want to get on with life but really loved my ex."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both were very much in love and he would die to be with me. He was a little bit attracted to me but not very much. He never meant to be hurtful or derisive but I am not his \"type\" at all. When I asked him to be clearer (and he was very uncomfortable to be put on the spot), he said I was \"attractive\" enough but he loved me for my personality and looks weren't important to him. I was so upset. After being cheated on before and rejected by guys, I was sad the one person I loved wasn't even physically that attracted. We made out and stuff but it ate at the back of my mind until I realized I began to resent him for not being able to ravage me with passion and attraction to me. It ended. But he was otherwise perfect for me and I almost regret it all.\n\nShould I have tried harder to stay? Is it worth it to compromise the wild attraction I desire for a long-term stable love that he offered? I'm with a new guy but this is gnawing at me. I want to get on with life but really loved my ex."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both were very much in love and he would die to be with me. He was a little bit attracted to me but not very much. He never meant to be hurtful or derisive but I am not his \"type\" at all. When I asked him to be clearer (and he was very uncomfortable to be put on the spot), he said I was \"attractive\" enough but he loved me for my personality and looks weren't important to him. I was so upset. After being cheated on before and rejected by guys, I was sad the one person I loved wasn't even physically that attracted. We made out and stuff but it ate at the back of my mind until I realized I began to resent him for not being able to ravage me with passion and attraction to me. It ended. But he was otherwise perfect for me and I almost regret it all.\n\nShould I have tried harder to stay? Is it worth it to compromise the wild attraction I desire for a long-term stable love that he offered? I'm with a new guy but this is gnawing at me. I want to get on with life but really loved my ex."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We both were very much in love and he would die to be with me. He was a little bit attracted to me but not very much. He never meant to be hurtful or derisive but I am not his \"type\" at all. When I asked him to be clearer (and he was very uncomfortable to be put on the spot), he said I was \"attractive\" enough but he loved me for my personality and looks weren't important to him. I was so upset. After being cheated on before and rejected by guys, I was sad the one person I loved wasn't even physically that attracted. We made out and stuff but it ate at the back of my mind until I realized I began to resent him for not being able to ravage me with passion and attraction to me. It ended. But he was otherwise perfect for me and I almost regret it all.\n\nShould I have tried harder to stay? Is it worth it to compromise the wild attraction I desire for a long-term stable love that he offered? I'm with a new guy but this is gnawing at me. I want to get on with life but really loved my ex."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend (let's call him J) for about 5 months, not very long. We get along great and have had hardly any issues, when we were in school there was a mutual friend of ours (closer to me) who we'll call H (m18). H started to develop feelings for me a couple months ago and J told me. H never told me directly but I got hints because he would flirt a lot and I let him know that J and I were not comfortable with this and I just wanted to remain friends. H got mad at J because he was jealous and they havent really been friends since. H is still my friend so I wanted to hang with him like I do my other friends but I always got the feeling that J wouldnt feel comfortable with this. I told J today that I wanted to hang with H because we were still friends and that I understood if he wasnt comfortable with me doing this and that if he wasnt I wouldnt go. He responded in text saying to go ahead and when I asked if he was sure he just replied \"ya\". So what im asking you all is if me hanging with H sounds like its unreasonable considering the past even though I dont return his feelings and if this would be and issue if you were in J's place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend (let's call him J) for about 5 months, not very long. We get along great and have had hardly any issues, when we were in school there was a mutual friend of ours (closer to me) who we'll call H (m18). H started to develop feelings for me a couple months ago and J told me. H never told me directly but I got hints because he would flirt a lot and I let him know that J and I were not comfortable with this and I just wanted to remain friends. H got mad at J because he was jealous and they havent really been friends since. H is still my friend so I wanted to hang with him like I do my other friends but I always got the feeling that J wouldnt feel comfortable with this. I told J today that I wanted to hang with H because we were still friends and that I understood if he wasnt comfortable with me doing this and that if he wasnt I wouldnt go. He responded in text saying to go ahead and when I asked if he was sure he just replied \"ya\". So what im asking you all is if me hanging with H sounds like its unreasonable considering the past even though I dont return his feelings and if this would be and issue if you were in J's place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend (let's call him J) for about 5 months, not very long. We get along great and have had hardly any issues, when we were in school there was a mutual friend of ours (closer to me) who we'll call H (m18). H started to develop feelings for me a couple months ago and J told me. H never told me directly but I got hints because he would flirt a lot and I let him know that J and I were not comfortable with this and I just wanted to remain friends. H got mad at J because he was jealous and they havent really been friends since. H is still my friend so I wanted to hang with him like I do my other friends but I always got the feeling that J wouldnt feel comfortable with this. I told J today that I wanted to hang with H because we were still friends and that I understood if he wasnt comfortable with me doing this and that if he wasnt I wouldnt go. He responded in text saying to go ahead and when I asked if he was sure he just replied \"ya\". So what im asking you all is if me hanging with H sounds like its unreasonable considering the past even though I dont return his feelings and if this would be and issue if you were in J's place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I left my job of 12 years after I started being harassed by the former boss. I started my own LLC (sole proprietor) and immediately got sued by the former boss, accusing me of sharing his trade secrets with the third party (the new LLC). There was no non-compete, I did not use any of his trade secrets plus I'm in a different state now. The new LLC made no revenue yet. I also don't have money for lawyers and want to try to defend myself. I read that corporations can't be represented Pro Se, but I also know that a \"Sole Proprietor\" LLC is not a corporation. So - will I be able to defend myself in this situation? Should I dissolve the corporation, or keep it active? \n\nMore info about my case: I was the longest standing employee at my former employer, was in charge with training employees, agents (independent contractors), managing all operations in the office. Problems started when former boss started hiring his family members and friends to the point where the business was hurting financially. I ended up being the last non-family related employee at the time harassment started. My \"mistake\" was to bring to boss's attention that the unfair employment practices are hurting the business. When I quit, he immediately panicked and threatened that he will bury me in legal fees. Although I didn't do anything to hurt his business, the lawyers I tried to hire warned that this could be a very costly lawsuit and even if I can prove I'm innocent, it may still cost me $75,000 - $100,000 by the time it's all done - money I don't have."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I left my job of 12 years after I started being harassed by the former boss. I started my own LLC (sole proprietor) and immediately got sued by the former boss, accusing me of sharing his trade secrets with the third party (the new LLC). There was no non-compete, I did not use any of his trade secrets plus I'm in a different state now. The new LLC made no revenue yet. I also don't have money for lawyers and want to try to defend myself. I read that corporations can't be represented Pro Se, but I also know that a \"Sole Proprietor\" LLC is not a corporation. So - will I be able to defend myself in this situation? Should I dissolve the corporation, or keep it active? \n\nMore info about my case: I was the longest standing employee at my former employer, was in charge with training employees, agents (independent contractors), managing all operations in the office. Problems started when former boss started hiring his family members and friends to the point where the business was hurting financially. I ended up being the last non-family related employee at the time harassment started. My \"mistake\" was to bring to boss's attention that the unfair employment practices are hurting the business. When I quit, he immediately panicked and threatened that he will bury me in legal fees. Although I didn't do anything to hurt his business, the lawyers I tried to hire warned that this could be a very costly lawsuit and even if I can prove I'm innocent, it may still cost me $75,000 - $100,000 by the time it's all done - money I don't have."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I left my job of 12 years after I started being harassed by the former boss. I started my own LLC (sole proprietor) and immediately got sued by the former boss, accusing me of sharing his trade secrets with the third party (the new LLC). There was no non-compete, I did not use any of his trade secrets plus I'm in a different state now. The new LLC made no revenue yet. I also don't have money for lawyers and want to try to defend myself. I read that corporations can't be represented Pro Se, but I also know that a \"Sole Proprietor\" LLC is not a corporation. So - will I be able to defend myself in this situation? Should I dissolve the corporation, or keep it active? \n\nMore info about my case: I was the longest standing employee at my former employer, was in charge with training employees, agents (independent contractors), managing all operations in the office. Problems started when former boss started hiring his family members and friends to the point where the business was hurting financially. I ended up being the last non-family related employee at the time harassment started. My \"mistake\" was to bring to boss's attention that the unfair employment practices are hurting the business. When I quit, he immediately panicked and threatened that he will bury me in legal fees. Although I didn't do anything to hurt his business, the lawyers I tried to hire warned that this could be a very costly lawsuit and even if I can prove I'm innocent, it may still cost me $75,000 - $100,000 by the time it's all done - money I don't have."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I left my job of 12 years after I started being harassed by the former boss. I started my own LLC (sole proprietor) and immediately got sued by the former boss, accusing me of sharing his trade secrets with the third party (the new LLC). There was no non-compete, I did not use any of his trade secrets plus I'm in a different state now. The new LLC made no revenue yet. I also don't have money for lawyers and want to try to defend myself. I read that corporations can't be represented Pro Se, but I also know that a \"Sole Proprietor\" LLC is not a corporation. So - will I be able to defend myself in this situation? Should I dissolve the corporation, or keep it active? \n\nMore info about my case: I was the longest standing employee at my former employer, was in charge with training employees, agents (independent contractors), managing all operations in the office. Problems started when former boss started hiring his family members and friends to the point where the business was hurting financially. I ended up being the last non-family related employee at the time harassment started. My \"mistake\" was to bring to boss's attention that the unfair employment practices are hurting the business. When I quit, he immediately panicked and threatened that he will bury me in legal fees. Although I didn't do anything to hurt his business, the lawyers I tried to hire warned that this could be a very costly lawsuit and even if I can prove I'm innocent, it may still cost me $75,000 - $100,000 by the time it's all done - money I don't have."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I left my job of 12 years after I started being harassed by the former boss. I started my own LLC (sole proprietor) and immediately got sued by the former boss, accusing me of sharing his trade secrets with the third party (the new LLC). There was no non-compete, I did not use any of his trade secrets plus I'm in a different state now. The new LLC made no revenue yet. I also don't have money for lawyers and want to try to defend myself. I read that corporations can't be represented Pro Se, but I also know that a \"Sole Proprietor\" LLC is not a corporation. So - will I be able to defend myself in this situation? Should I dissolve the corporation, or keep it active? \n\nMore info about my case: I was the longest standing employee at my former employer, was in charge with training employees, agents (independent contractors), managing all operations in the office. Problems started when former boss started hiring his family members and friends to the point where the business was hurting financially. I ended up being the last non-family related employee at the time harassment started. My \"mistake\" was to bring to boss's attention that the unfair employment practices are hurting the business. When I quit, he immediately panicked and threatened that he will bury me in legal fees. Although I didn't do anything to hurt his business, the lawyers I tried to hire warned that this could be a very costly lawsuit and even if I can prove I'm innocent, it may still cost me $75,000 - $100,000 by the time it's all done - money I don't have."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I left my job of 12 years after I started being harassed by the former boss. I started my own LLC (sole proprietor) and immediately got sued by the former boss, accusing me of sharing his trade secrets with the third party (the new LLC). There was no non-compete, I did not use any of his trade secrets plus I'm in a different state now. The new LLC made no revenue yet. I also don't have money for lawyers and want to try to defend myself. I read that corporations can't be represented Pro Se, but I also know that a \"Sole Proprietor\" LLC is not a corporation. So - will I be able to defend myself in this situation? Should I dissolve the corporation, or keep it active? \n\nMore info about my case: I was the longest standing employee at my former employer, was in charge with training employees, agents (independent contractors), managing all operations in the office. Problems started when former boss started hiring his family members and friends to the point where the business was hurting financially. I ended up being the last non-family related employee at the time harassment started. My \"mistake\" was to bring to boss's attention that the unfair employment practices are hurting the business. When I quit, he immediately panicked and threatened that he will bury me in legal fees. Although I didn't do anything to hurt his business, the lawyers I tried to hire warned that this could be a very costly lawsuit and even if I can prove I'm innocent, it may still cost me $75,000 - $100,000 by the time it's all done - money I don't have."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, he was hanging out with his family while I was in his bedroom playing some games. Match finished, I got bored and curious, went on his phone, looked at browsing history for pr0n (I have no problem with it, I just get curious about what kind of ~kinky stuff~ he's into). Temptation low impulse control forbidden fruit blah blah. He walked in, asked what I was doing, I immediately feel like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar, blurt out I that was snooping and why, and he starts laughing, says he doesn't care, etc. I feel incredibly embarrassed, tell him I know that it's wrong and I won't do it again, but he just seems to be amused.\n\nI guess I have this preconceived notion that snooping is this cardinal sin for guys that is immediate break-up material no matter the circumstance. FWIW I would never, ever go through his texts or social media, but that doesn't matter much. I feel absolutely terrible and like I need to make it up some how, and understand that this would be a major breach of trust for most people, but he insists it's small potatoes. Should I ignore the guilt and leave it be, or would it be better to talk about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, he was hanging out with his family while I was in his bedroom playing some games. Match finished, I got bored and curious, went on his phone, looked at browsing history for pr0n (I have no problem with it, I just get curious about what kind of ~kinky stuff~ he's into). Temptation low impulse control forbidden fruit blah blah. He walked in, asked what I was doing, I immediately feel like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar, blurt out I that was snooping and why, and he starts laughing, says he doesn't care, etc. I feel incredibly embarrassed, tell him I know that it's wrong and I won't do it again, but he just seems to be amused.\n\nI guess I have this preconceived notion that snooping is this cardinal sin for guys that is immediate break-up material no matter the circumstance. FWIW I would never, ever go through his texts or social media, but that doesn't matter much. I feel absolutely terrible and like I need to make it up some how, and understand that this would be a major breach of trust for most people, but he insists it's small potatoes. Should I ignore the guilt and leave it be, or would it be better to talk about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, he was hanging out with his family while I was in his bedroom playing some games. Match finished, I got bored and curious, went on his phone, looked at browsing history for pr0n (I have no problem with it, I just get curious about what kind of ~kinky stuff~ he's into). Temptation low impulse control forbidden fruit blah blah. He walked in, asked what I was doing, I immediately feel like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar, blurt out I that was snooping and why, and he starts laughing, says he doesn't care, etc. I feel incredibly embarrassed, tell him I know that it's wrong and I won't do it again, but he just seems to be amused.\n\nI guess I have this preconceived notion that snooping is this cardinal sin for guys that is immediate break-up material no matter the circumstance. FWIW I would never, ever go through his texts or social media, but that doesn't matter much. I feel absolutely terrible and like I need to make it up some how, and understand that this would be a major breach of trust for most people, but he insists it's small potatoes. Should I ignore the guilt and leave it be, or would it be better to talk about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, he was hanging out with his family while I was in his bedroom playing some games. Match finished, I got bored and curious, went on his phone, looked at browsing history for pr0n (I have no problem with it, I just get curious about what kind of ~kinky stuff~ he's into). Temptation low impulse control forbidden fruit blah blah. He walked in, asked what I was doing, I immediately feel like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar, blurt out I that was snooping and why, and he starts laughing, says he doesn't care, etc. I feel incredibly embarrassed, tell him I know that it's wrong and I won't do it again, but he just seems to be amused.\n\nI guess I have this preconceived notion that snooping is this cardinal sin for guys that is immediate break-up material no matter the circumstance. FWIW I would never, ever go through his texts or social media, but that doesn't matter much. I feel absolutely terrible and like I need to make it up some how, and understand that this would be a major breach of trust for most people, but he insists it's small potatoes. Should I ignore the guilt and leave it be, or would it be better to talk about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, he was hanging out with his family while I was in his bedroom playing some games. Match finished, I got bored and curious, went on his phone, looked at browsing history for pr0n (I have no problem with it, I just get curious about what kind of ~kinky stuff~ he's into). Temptation low impulse control forbidden fruit blah blah. He walked in, asked what I was doing, I immediately feel like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar, blurt out I that was snooping and why, and he starts laughing, says he doesn't care, etc. I feel incredibly embarrassed, tell him I know that it's wrong and I won't do it again, but he just seems to be amused.\n\nI guess I have this preconceived notion that snooping is this cardinal sin for guys that is immediate break-up material no matter the circumstance. FWIW I would never, ever go through his texts or social media, but that doesn't matter much. I feel absolutely terrible and like I need to make it up some how, and understand that this would be a major breach of trust for most people, but he insists it's small potatoes. Should I ignore the guilt and leave it be, or would it be better to talk about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, he was hanging out with his family while I was in his bedroom playing some games. Match finished, I got bored and curious, went on his phone, looked at browsing history for pr0n (I have no problem with it, I just get curious about what kind of ~kinky stuff~ he's into). Temptation low impulse control forbidden fruit blah blah. He walked in, asked what I was doing, I immediately feel like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar, blurt out I that was snooping and why, and he starts laughing, says he doesn't care, etc. I feel incredibly embarrassed, tell him I know that it's wrong and I won't do it again, but he just seems to be amused.\n\nI guess I have this preconceived notion that snooping is this cardinal sin for guys that is immediate break-up material no matter the circumstance. FWIW I would never, ever go through his texts or social media, but that doesn't matter much. I feel absolutely terrible and like I need to make it up some how, and understand that this would be a major breach of trust for most people, but he insists it's small potatoes. Should I ignore the guilt and leave it be, or would it be better to talk about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for almost 4 years and we didn't break up for any 'bad' reason, like cheating or anything. We were both 22 when we broke up and it was because we had different ambitions. He wanted to travel, I wanted to find a good job and travel later. \n\nAlso I hadn't learnt the 'be happy alone before being happy in a relationship' thing first so I had my own shit to deal with, which I feel I have now and feel way better about. I feel ready now to have a relationship in a way I never was when I was actually in one, so that's a good thing that's come out of this. \n\nI'm just wondering if you redditors have any advice for me? I'm working and socialising and that sort of stuff, everything's great, but every time I think I meet someone I might like or think about wanting to date I feel like.what's the point, because I still love Ex-boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for almost 4 years and we didn't break up for any 'bad' reason, like cheating or anything. We were both 22 when we broke up and it was because we had different ambitions. He wanted to travel, I wanted to find a good job and travel later. \n\nAlso I hadn't learnt the 'be happy alone before being happy in a relationship' thing first so I had my own shit to deal with, which I feel I have now and feel way better about. I feel ready now to have a relationship in a way I never was when I was actually in one, so that's a good thing that's come out of this. \n\nI'm just wondering if you redditors have any advice for me? I'm working and socialising and that sort of stuff, everything's great, but every time I think I meet someone I might like or think about wanting to date I feel like.what's the point, because I still love Ex-boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for almost 4 years and we didn't break up for any 'bad' reason, like cheating or anything. We were both 22 when we broke up and it was because we had different ambitions. He wanted to travel, I wanted to find a good job and travel later. \n\nAlso I hadn't learnt the 'be happy alone before being happy in a relationship' thing first so I had my own shit to deal with, which I feel I have now and feel way better about. I feel ready now to have a relationship in a way I never was when I was actually in one, so that's a good thing that's come out of this. \n\nI'm just wondering if you redditors have any advice for me? I'm working and socialising and that sort of stuff, everything's great, but every time I think I meet someone I might like or think about wanting to date I feel like.what's the point, because I still love Ex-boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for almost 4 years and we didn't break up for any 'bad' reason, like cheating or anything. We were both 22 when we broke up and it was because we had different ambitions. He wanted to travel, I wanted to find a good job and travel later. \n\nAlso I hadn't learnt the 'be happy alone before being happy in a relationship' thing first so I had my own shit to deal with, which I feel I have now and feel way better about. I feel ready now to have a relationship in a way I never was when I was actually in one, so that's a good thing that's come out of this. \n\nI'm just wondering if you redditors have any advice for me? I'm working and socialising and that sort of stuff, everything's great, but every time I think I meet someone I might like or think about wanting to date I feel like.what's the point, because I still love Ex-boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for almost 4 years and we didn't break up for any 'bad' reason, like cheating or anything. We were both 22 when we broke up and it was because we had different ambitions. He wanted to travel, I wanted to find a good job and travel later. \n\nAlso I hadn't learnt the 'be happy alone before being happy in a relationship' thing first so I had my own shit to deal with, which I feel I have now and feel way better about. I feel ready now to have a relationship in a way I never was when I was actually in one, so that's a good thing that's come out of this. \n\nI'm just wondering if you redditors have any advice for me? I'm working and socialising and that sort of stuff, everything's great, but every time I think I meet someone I might like or think about wanting to date I feel like.what's the point, because I still love Ex-boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for almost 4 years and we didn't break up for any 'bad' reason, like cheating or anything. We were both 22 when we broke up and it was because we had different ambitions. He wanted to travel, I wanted to find a good job and travel later. \n\nAlso I hadn't learnt the 'be happy alone before being happy in a relationship' thing first so I had my own shit to deal with, which I feel I have now and feel way better about. I feel ready now to have a relationship in a way I never was when I was actually in one, so that's a good thing that's come out of this. \n\nI'm just wondering if you redditors have any advice for me? I'm working and socialising and that sort of stuff, everything's great, but every time I think I meet someone I might like or think about wanting to date I feel like.what's the point, because I still love Ex-boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me - 26 m, her - 26 f.\n\nWe've been together only a month but we're really into each other, we have great chemistry and we both want something long term because we're very happy with each other. (So many \"we\", I wish I knew better English so I could rephrase).\n\nAnywho, she told me that she was with a guy for a year and a bit and that she loved him but he did not love her back and he left her when he moved with work to a different country.\n\nShe keeps mentioning him randomly, showed me pictures of him without me asking, told me about stuff they used to do together, again, without me asking. I had a gut feeling she's still in love with him but did not say anything.\n\nToday I saw that in her IM, this ex-boyfriend is in the \"Recent Contacts\", checked the history and I saw they've been chatting regularly for months. I did not confront her about it yet but I don't know how to approach it. She will of course say she has no feelings for him but can it be true? Why would anyone keep contact with an ex if they have no feelings for them anymore? I hate this situation and am seriously considering ending the relationship before I get seriously hurt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me - 26 m, her - 26 f.\n\nWe've been together only a month but we're really into each other, we have great chemistry and we both want something long term because we're very happy with each other. (So many \"we\", I wish I knew better English so I could rephrase).\n\nAnywho, she told me that she was with a guy for a year and a bit and that she loved him but he did not love her back and he left her when he moved with work to a different country.\n\nShe keeps mentioning him randomly, showed me pictures of him without me asking, told me about stuff they used to do together, again, without me asking. I had a gut feeling she's still in love with him but did not say anything.\n\nToday I saw that in her IM, this ex-boyfriend is in the \"Recent Contacts\", checked the history and I saw they've been chatting regularly for months. I did not confront her about it yet but I don't know how to approach it. She will of course say she has no feelings for him but can it be true? Why would anyone keep contact with an ex if they have no feelings for them anymore? I hate this situation and am seriously considering ending the relationship before I get seriously hurt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me - 26 m, her - 26 f.\n\nWe've been together only a month but we're really into each other, we have great chemistry and we both want something long term because we're very happy with each other. (So many \"we\", I wish I knew better English so I could rephrase).\n\nAnywho, she told me that she was with a guy for a year and a bit and that she loved him but he did not love her back and he left her when he moved with work to a different country.\n\nShe keeps mentioning him randomly, showed me pictures of him without me asking, told me about stuff they used to do together, again, without me asking. I had a gut feeling she's still in love with him but did not say anything.\n\nToday I saw that in her IM, this ex-boyfriend is in the \"Recent Contacts\", checked the history and I saw they've been chatting regularly for months. I did not confront her about it yet but I don't know how to approach it. She will of course say she has no feelings for him but can it be true? Why would anyone keep contact with an ex if they have no feelings for them anymore? I hate this situation and am seriously considering ending the relationship before I get seriously hurt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me - 26 m, her - 26 f.\n\nWe've been together only a month but we're really into each other, we have great chemistry and we both want something long term because we're very happy with each other. (So many \"we\", I wish I knew better English so I could rephrase).\n\nAnywho, she told me that she was with a guy for a year and a bit and that she loved him but he did not love her back and he left her when he moved with work to a different country.\n\nShe keeps mentioning him randomly, showed me pictures of him without me asking, told me about stuff they used to do together, again, without me asking. I had a gut feeling she's still in love with him but did not say anything.\n\nToday I saw that in her IM, this ex-boyfriend is in the \"Recent Contacts\", checked the history and I saw they've been chatting regularly for months. I did not confront her about it yet but I don't know how to approach it. She will of course say she has no feelings for him but can it be true? Why would anyone keep contact with an ex if they have no feelings for them anymore? I hate this situation and am seriously considering ending the relationship before I get seriously hurt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me - 26 m, her - 26 f.\n\nWe've been together only a month but we're really into each other, we have great chemistry and we both want something long term because we're very happy with each other. (So many \"we\", I wish I knew better English so I could rephrase).\n\nAnywho, she told me that she was with a guy for a year and a bit and that she loved him but he did not love her back and he left her when he moved with work to a different country.\n\nShe keeps mentioning him randomly, showed me pictures of him without me asking, told me about stuff they used to do together, again, without me asking. I had a gut feeling she's still in love with him but did not say anything.\n\nToday I saw that in her IM, this ex-boyfriend is in the \"Recent Contacts\", checked the history and I saw they've been chatting regularly for months. I did not confront her about it yet but I don't know how to approach it. She will of course say she has no feelings for him but can it be true? Why would anyone keep contact with an ex if they have no feelings for them anymore? I hate this situation and am seriously considering ending the relationship before I get seriously hurt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me - 26 m, her - 26 f.\n\nWe've been together only a month but we're really into each other, we have great chemistry and we both want something long term because we're very happy with each other. (So many \"we\", I wish I knew better English so I could rephrase).\n\nAnywho, she told me that she was with a guy for a year and a bit and that she loved him but he did not love her back and he left her when he moved with work to a different country.\n\nShe keeps mentioning him randomly, showed me pictures of him without me asking, told me about stuff they used to do together, again, without me asking. I had a gut feeling she's still in love with him but did not say anything.\n\nToday I saw that in her IM, this ex-boyfriend is in the \"Recent Contacts\", checked the history and I saw they've been chatting regularly for months. I did not confront her about it yet but I don't know how to approach it. She will of course say she has no feelings for him but can it be true? Why would anyone keep contact with an ex if they have no feelings for them anymore? I hate this situation and am seriously considering ending the relationship before I get seriously hurt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know, the hubris. But really my case is a bit different (I'm sure everyone thinks that but it's unique from what I've seen and who I've talked to).\n\nI want to see if my university will let me pay in state tuition instead of international tuition. I've already done my first two years here and paid in state fees because my immigrant status allowed me to do so. That will change soon and according to the policies that my college has in place right now, I will no longer qualify for in state tuition.\n\nI think I should qualify for in state tuition because I've been living for well over a decade and the only reason I'm being screwed over is because of the immigration process. There are other reasons too but I can explain these in the email.\n\n*I am already expecting a no but it's worth a try anyway.* Who do I email? I'm thinking the Dean but I'm not too sure. Would the office of the registrar also be a good choice? Who would have the most influence over something like this? Do I email just one person or should I reach out to multiple people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know, the hubris. But really my case is a bit different (I'm sure everyone thinks that but it's unique from what I've seen and who I've talked to).\n\nI want to see if my university will let me pay in state tuition instead of international tuition. I've already done my first two years here and paid in state fees because my immigrant status allowed me to do so. That will change soon and according to the policies that my college has in place right now, I will no longer qualify for in state tuition.\n\nI think I should qualify for in state tuition because I've been living for well over a decade and the only reason I'm being screwed over is because of the immigration process. There are other reasons too but I can explain these in the email.\n\n*I am already expecting a no but it's worth a try anyway.* Who do I email? I'm thinking the Dean but I'm not too sure. Would the office of the registrar also be a good choice? Who would have the most influence over something like this? Do I email just one person or should I reach out to multiple people?"
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