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News was spread that I had been found doing sexual intercourse with a small girl. At first this annoyed me but later on I became ashamed because many people seemed to believe it.
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Some people whom I do not like at all, and one of the reasons is their physical appearance.
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The time I shouted at most of my friends at a party. It was as if all my friends had done something wrong, or may be it was the influence of the beer.
2
When I was a school girl and I copied at a class work.
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When they found out that I was absent from school, I had gone to the girl's secondary school.
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I suddenly found that those whom I considerered to be my good friends did not care for me. Although I could still be with them I felt unimportant. I deeply thought about the reason behind this so as to see who was responsible for this. Finally I made up my mind and decided not to expect too much from them. I was sad when I decided that they were no longer my good friends.
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I was ashamed one day when we were found stealing and roasting maize cobs from Agricultural experimental projects.
2
When I have sometimes been unfair to my parents, when I have happened to deceive them over some trifling things.
5
Finding out some people had been talking about me at my back.
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I was at the table at a French friend's house. They served me a big dish with roast cauliflower and sauce. I had to eat it.
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My mother had sent me to buy a few things. The change I brought back was not right as I had given away some money to a friend thinking that she would not notice it. However, my mother told me that the change was not correct.
5
A friend told me about his cousin who is my girlfriend. He said she had treated him in a mean and nasty way. I was surprised because in front of other people she had always treated him in a friendly way. I am very sad about it.
4
When I lost my father on the 25th of September,1970. He died of a sore on the leg.
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My boyfriend finished our relationship when I started studying psychology in Nijegen, because then we would not be able to meet frequently anymore.
4
Watching suffering in Third World country.
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When my parents and sister went on a trip and I was separated from them for about three months.
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[ No answer as I see very little difference between shame and guilt. Therefore see answer for "shame".]
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A close relative of mine underwent a difficult operation, and everything turned out fine.
1
At a weekend's seminar my trousers suddenly burst, therefore I was prevented from participating in several activities.
2
When I blamed my failure to the bias and favouritism in the marking system, in fact I had not worked hard enough.
2
Walking on the street passing by an air duct, my skirt went up.
2
Sometime back I used to stay with my mum alone then time came when dad joined the family from his working place I found myself having fear for him for no cause at all.
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My failure to provide the appropriate emotional/spiritual level to a sexual relationship that had a large physical content. Born out of inconsistency with my personal beliefs and value shame at largely using this sexual partner.
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Recently, some friends and I had too much to drink while on a foot-ball road trip to USC. We trashed our hotel room and I felt ashamed when the maid walked in the next morning.
2
I had a friend who I didn't see for a long time. We had a relationship from much union and interaction. It was more that one year that I didn't see her. She appeared in my home and we talked.
1
I am a kindergarten teacher and I am thoroughly weary of my job. After having taken the university entrance exam I suffered from anxiety for weeks as I did not want to carry on with my work - studies were the only alternative.
6
Many times, when my father used to come home drunk and maltreated physically me and my mother.
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A day I was with my boyfriend and a couple of friends in a bar, and he said something that I didn't like (I don't remember what). Without thinking I slept him in his back, getting ashamed and sorry just after.
2
When I asked my classmate to teach me to do my homework, he asked me to study by myself first but I did not do it. When he asked me if I had studied, I felt very ashamed.
2
I was very pleased and happy when my older sister came home from living somewhere out of town and I hadn't seen her for months. We are very close sisters.
1
When I saw an accident, a woman was run over and she died on the spot.
6
I saw a drunk man tottering behind his wife and insulting her awfully.
0
Someone told me that he would stay at my home for one night. Therefore I made big efforts to make everything ok (food). One day before he cancelled the appointment because he had to go to church with his parents.
3
When I broke the piggy bank of my brother and my mother discovered that.
2
When I decided to move away from my parent's home, my mother told me that it was as if a part of her had been torn out of her.
5
I'd just got the top mark in an exam.
1
I shared a secret with a friend and it later turned out that he had revealed it to another person with whom I didn't get along very well.
3
My friend had many female friends and I thought that they were his lovers. I would scold him but he did not accept my advice. Later I learnt from his girlfriends that this was not true. I felt ashamed at having misunderstood him.
2
When my friends were rude to a girl.
2
When I was bringing in the shopping and nearly stood on a snake.
6
When I heard a rumour that the 1st year exam results were out. I had fear that I might be one of the failures.
6
When planning to marry.
1
I was watching a movie alone - it was a horror movie. The music was a deep pulsing type - not really music. And a light flashed on and off. It was in the complete darkness of a movie theatre that was almost empty.
6
When i was asked to be a child's godmother.
1
Slaughtering of animals.
0
When I take a look into a slaughter-house and when listening to stories about torturing people or animals.
0
Recently when I made a slip and blurted out indecent words in my mother's presence.
5
I had a quarrel with a good friend about the fact that I didn't pay her a visit when she expected me to come. Hereafter I was very sad because it became a real quarrel.
4
When our dog died.
4
When I was an evening school teacher it was my job to make the coffee but I was not able to get the coffee ready on time and I thus arrived half an hour late to the class. On top of this the coffee was undrinkable.
2
This happens to me when I am not prepared in a given subject.
2
After going through much shame, I became a Christian and something new happened in my heart. Joy that overflows was manifest in me.
1
When my beloved girlfriend got married to another person.
4
When I received some good news : I obtained an amount of money I needed to buy something I had been planning to buy.
1
When my parents insisted that I take up a teaching career.
0
When I had crossed Lilongwe forest I heard that there was a rabid hyena just near the path in the forest.
6
I saw a movie called "The Thing", the film directed by John Carpenter. The monster in the film made me feel disgusted.
0
Whenever I am late, I feel ashamed of myself even though no one tells me anything.
2
The emotion came to me when a certain girl who was not polite to her mother hit her sister severely.
0
When I failed one of the tests because I had not worked hard enough.
2
The loss of the woman who loved me most till today.
4
When I first saw a person begging.
3
Some friends and I were crossing a street when one of my friends was seized by a car and thrown aside. I had seen the car coming in our direction but I did not have enough time to react and prevent the accident.
6
I slammed my little brother into a wall because he was bothering me.
5
When a big angry dog put its snout on my arm and had I made one movement it would have bitten me.
6
An encounter with a man whom I love, after a very long separation.
1
I was happy when I understood that the girl I liked was in love with me.
1
I was to take a test and I had not made the necessary preparations until it was too late. There were two days to go and I still had not done much.
5
Finding out that my grandfather had died. He lived in England and I had not seen him for 10 years.
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One night I had to bike home all alone after a party. Then I found out that I was pursued by a man in a car.
6
When I got lost in New York city a late friday night with a friend of mine.
6
I feel disgust with some people when I see what they are capable of, including lack of any dignity, when trying to find a seat in the tram.
0
When last year in college I received the award "Best Student of the Year", I felt very happy as I got what I had wanted and my wish had been fulfilled.
1
I went to see a friend. There were other people, too, and everybody brought some present. I was the onlyone who brought nothing. My friend was very hospitable and did not show anything - although I knew how he felt.
2
I had a quarrel with my father. He was depressed, because somebody had treated him injustly. As we had an argument, it was impossible for me to help him.
5
When I wasn't well prepared for a terminal exam and the teacher tried to give me a three by asking me some very easy questions. I burned with shame then.
2
When my brother was very late in arriving home from work.
6
A relative, whom I like very much, left for the United States.
4
When I was 8 years old my tonsils had to be operated on. This is not a complicated operation, but just before it started I was very afraid so that I will never forget it.
6
The passing away of my mum.
4
When I was an auxiliary nurse at the hospital and I had to change the nappies, for the first time, of a very old and sick woman.
0
When the Real Madrid football team lost against the inter in the U.E.F.A cup.
3
I borrowed money from a friend and did not pay back the debt when I said I would.
5
I was wearing a short skirt one day and someone told me my underwear was showing.
2
When I embarrassed a friend by asking him aloud if a certain person was "the source of gossip" he told me about, while that person was also present.
2
The end of a relationship (after 4 years) by doing this I hurt the other person very much.
4
I insulted the girl to whom I had proposed when she turned me down.
2
I was admited to the Chinese university of Hong Kong. The day the results were announced I looked in the newspaper and saw my candidature number.
1
When I began to read a thick book, which I had a limited time to read. Also when I have a lot of work to do and I cannot keep up.
4
When I was mistreated by my step-mother.
3
When I got through the examination for my driver licence, and when I finished I knew I had passed it.
1
When I gave in to what my wife wanted and locked the cat out, it was killed by the dogs.
5
I felt disgusted when I found out that someone had betrayed me. That person had been dishonest with me and I felt used.
0
I felt angry when repeated pleas to the ticket collector and the co-passengers in order to make a queue fell on deaf ears. I have this feeling whenever someone is not disciplined and methodic in doing his duty.
3
My trouser's zipper was open when I was at a public wedding.
3
Suddenly found out that I was the lasr one to leave the anatomy room.
6
When I won the "Under 18" Showjumping at the Brookfield Show. The competition was very stiff and there were many riders competing.
1
Death of my father.
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I received a letter form home telling me that my sister was very sick.
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Article published.
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