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11	Te Emerald Isle te be sure...Ireland!
6	Yes, my brother is the biggest douche you will ever meet, racist, sexist, homophobe everything and he put me down growing up. Being an INFP made me an outcast even amongst the rockers i would hang...
3	1st: Afrikaans 2nd: English I had Xhosa in primary school, but have forgotten basically everything. I understand Dutch and Flemish if people speak slowly and simply, but they are easier to read.
10	I understand what you're saying but the things you say about goodwill and empathy are definitely not social imperatives. Yeah some people may misuse ideas such as that to gain personal recognition or...
4	For fun, I sit on my computer like a piece of shit. Figuratively, of course.
7	For a while now, I've been pretty depressed, with a fair amount of anxiety and loneliness mixed in. My internal spark, that burst of energy to live life and that internal curiosity that drives me...
6	While I don't know that much about how to identify what type someone is, I just want to say I'm so glad that when I stumbled on this thread, I was so relieved that there seems to be few TAA fanatics...
9	This is not a nobody eats cookies type situation, and you know it. I've explained myself well enough.
6	Vimerge This sort of thing is exactly what this forum is for. The better you understand yourself and why you react or process things in the way you do, the more you can look at your individual...
14	I haven't read every post, but the title intrigued me. I just recently got involved with this forum a few months ago, and at that time, I discovered my MBTI. I had my husband figure his out, too. I'm...
14	Thank you(: I found that picture randomly, but it is a reference to my speaking. When I was four years old my mom was diagnosed with Schizo-Affective Disorder. She would talk to me about the...
6	I won't speak for everyone, but look for the odd person sitting in a corner who refuses to socialize. haha
6	I walked straight into a pole last night. I wasn't drunk at all... just... distracted.
2	I'm only 25 but I have no urge to settle down. I'm a really committed person, but I just don't see the point in rushing into marriage. I honestly don't care that much about ever being married, to be...
10	Hmm, ISFJ. I know two, they both happen to be female. And I could guess that they do the same! Maybe I'm thinking of a few ISFPs I know. In which case, which function do you think would be most...
2	As others already said: Depends on both the bobby and your personality (I think the latter is even more important). The biggest stumbling block is not being realistic from the outset, and...
7	Thank you both for the responses so far. It hurts to hear it, though it's nothing I haven't heard many times before. I guess I just don't know how to give up on it. Premature loyalty I suppose. ...
2	What do you all mean guys cant wear make up? And how can you tell if we are? :)
7	How exactly is that relevant to the conversation?
6	I have another question. Do you think for autobiographical or memoir writing that I need to go to graduate school or would writing classes be sufficient training? I ask this because if I go to...
6	one band, one drummer, no, wait...
7	Peace, fellow ENFP. :c)
11	I'm a Christian NT..is that rare?? LOL well I've been put on my arse and a true experience with God is what brought me back up. I'm crushing on a Christian isfp who is VERY VERY introverted. God...
2	You were the one who said suicide is the easy way out; only after you put pressure on me did I concede that sometimes suicide is drastically easier than climbing out of the depression pit, if the...
5	susank56: ESTJ
6	Interesting. Fearful is a subset of Avoidant (Avoidant-Fearful and Avoidant-Resistant are the two subsets). I think I am Avoidant-Resistant (what was basically described in the video), but I identify...
11	Patrick Jane is quite similar to an ENFJ guy I know, who is a CEO of a non-profit. This guy a very good public speaker, very charming (Fe) and also a very good observer even when it's small...
0	I think there are two possibilities for what is going on here. One may be that he is not getting upset or worried about the situation since there is no benefit to doing so. It would only create drama...
3	The whole Pisces INFJ thing has never been proven. Horoscopes have never been proven. While they are good fun, I fail to see the connection. Anxiety befalls many, this is not unique to the Pisces...
6	No, he's not and if he cant see that then you're out of his league. As for how I'm feeling right now, tired, just back from a camping trip, and frazzled, having major keyboard problems. Still...
7	So how does mind altering drugs affect you? These are only drugs i have had the pleasure/ dis-pleasure of trying Alcohol - Hate it... the more i drink the more aware that my abiltiy to logic is...
15	i see you point about the dangers that could stem from a faulty hypothetical worldview. a wonderful expamle of this we can find in artilery.guessing the flight path of the fired shell can mean the...
15	INTPs can't go that big. Their instincts are not as big as ENTJs can have... Yes, there is a rumor he is an INTP and I studied that through various websites and youtube videos. What they are...
11	Well, there are a lot of jobs that you can't do without a degree, and a lot of companies which won't consider you at all unless you have a degree (even for an entry level, menial job), so, in that...
12	Because you can't help it isn't an acceptable answer. If I go out of my way to be concerned and fawn over them in the same way, I'll feel like we're displaying equal amounts of affection. I...
2	Hmm. I understand your frustration, but, speaking for myself and my friends, I really don't agree that girls prefer bad lads to nice guys. Not true. I am not attracted to direct and assertive...
11	Socionics says that relationship is crap, and that infj dont really loke intp Apparently it's not true One of my best friends is probably an infj, too, and its one of the few types i wouldnt care...
10	The iNtuition, definately. We think randomly, without any discernible order, we make assumptions and intuitive guesses that are really right most times. It makes us incredibly creative and...
3	Correct on all points. Regrettably though this game has gotten stale. I enjoyed going back and forth with you but if all we do now is trade control of political power for peoples' favor then really...
7	Cuddle trafficing... I see... I always knew there would be some kind of typical crime committed by INFPs :tongue: Fiiine, I'll get my passport. Do we have some sort of union that protects us from...
0	I'd like to preface this by saying that I tend to get jealous and a little possessive. From my experiences with FWBs (read: relationships that aren't relationships...), I tend to get a little...
6	Yes, because this wagon ain't going anywhere and when the reality strikes us down, we'll need a good support group.
7	Nobody reads magazines anymore, grandpa.
6	Watching The Walking Dead and wondering whether or not I would survive... and if so, how long?
4	4w5 9w1 7w6
6	Hey everybody, so I talked to her. We both said more than I can remember, but following is a basic summary. *(Don't read too much into the tone of the written conversation, my memory of the real...
2	- When people use me as an emotional dumping ground. I am not a band aid to be used to patch others up and be discarded when no longer 'useful'. - People who get on the machine next to me at the...
7	Have any of you ever mistyped as something else? (If so, what'd you get?) I strongly considered INTP for a time due to my interest in logical systems and my tendency to be alone for a quite a...
5	Personally, I understand the rebellious stereotype. I hate being told what to do, who to be, what to act like, etc. This may have something to do with being enneagram type 4, though. (the...
6	:mellow: Yea, I'm attracted to the morbid, too. Things like rape, incest, murder, suicide, and rotting bodies. :unsure: It has scared me a lot of times, but sometimes I keep revisiting some of the...
7	Another vote for the cooking equipment here. No unforseen problems. Never give music stuff to a musician unless you can guarantee that none of the notes are backwards.
7	Whoever made that poll obviously isn't a real INTP. :proud:
3	I don't really see eye to eye with them, but there are some similarities between us. Both types seem to be coolly cynical and very kick-ass, but the ISTP's let things be while the INTJ's analyze...
6	Yes, though maybe she's more maternal than she gives off, and not all SFJs will be. She seems like she'd be fairly accommodating. Great idea, I commented on a video she made, 50 things about me, I...
2	Agreed. He has a pretty amazing understanding and handle of the cognitive functions, how they are exhibited and interact with one another, and jungian theories in general.
10	Here is some interesting data for you. In this list 1 and 8 are tied for the rarest, but in my experience...
2	Seems to me like maybe Kerik_S is just a fan of Miley getting defensive over someone he likes and taking your criticism of her personally. Seems like a very infj thing to do. anyway. ...
6	that was me in school too. everyone got saddened and I wanted to leave early. I always flat line(emotionally) but then explode with feelings at times... it is horrible, but both have their...
7	Are there any Christian INTPs that have struggled with their faith? I'm not. How do you view your relationship with God and how do you nurture it? I don't believe god exists and believe that the...
2	For the moments when you feel alive. I want the opportunity to have moments and I get swept up by them as they come.
7	I have some experience with both the giving and receiving of either intentional or unintentional comments. I can't speak for all others but for me personally have never, and would never intentionally...
2	Sometimes when I close my eyes I see myself in the future having achieved everything I currently desire and still being unhappy. This kind of thought takes all my motivation to produce something away...
3	Does anyone know or think that Rob Thomas is an ENFP? He's one of my favorite performers - very intense, emotional and soulful. What do you think?
15	It used to not work correctly. Where I would would have impulses to self serve in the now with long term disadvantage. Basically once I became more mature and started focusing heavily on having a...
7	He's an obvious ISTJ. There's nothing Ni about him at all, Si is everywhere.
3	If you could buy a replica melee weapon form a game,show, book, or somewhere, what would it be? And what would a reasonable price you would pay for it. Edit: I would want Kirito's black...
7	The Joker from The Dark Knight. ENTP or INTJ. Moses and Seaman from South Park. Moses is likely an INTP, not sure what Seaman is. ...
2	Most of my recent friendships have stemmed from me just saying I'm bad at this but I want to be better friends with you and conversations have started from there. I've ended up becoming really...
2	Well, I'm a really deep and philosophical person most of the time; I'm not really like that around other people because I don't want to be the weird one out. And I agree with what you said about...
6	A mixture of on-going grief and past traumatism. If a bully repeatedly torments you, stalks you and calls you names, chokes you with soap, attempts to(who knows, maybe succeeded) expose your...
2	stay away from IT! crappy hiring prospects. at least that is what i have experienced with my B.Sc.
8	and also if you have any knowledge in enneagram it could be nice to mine (:
7	:crazy: ! ...
3	{delete}
14	All the time! Generally, my mood is geniunely cheerful and optimistic, especially when there are more people. When I'm at my best, I can't help but tell my friends something along the lines of: 'I...
6	That is so cute though :laughing: :blushed:
2	Polish Slovak Portuguese Filipino Chinese On my father's side of the family, my Grandfather is Polish. He came to America shortly after he was liberated during WW2. My Grandmother is Slovak....
14	How do you get over someone who you know is not right for you? (too flirty with loads of other people, does drugs etc.)
2	Yep, INFJ that's me
6	Me and my kitty cat... I don't think words can describe the bond that we share. She is the one living thing alive that hasn't betrayed me, and I don't think she ever will. She's the most loyal...
4	Some more, stuff... By @tigerlily 1-what makes you angry? Repetitive people, the importance that people place on political correctness. 2-what do you like/dislike most about people? I...
10	148 is a fairly high IQ, considering 100 is considered average.
2	That's a feeling I felt very deeply as a teenager. My advice would be to just try not to worry about it too much. I was the steroetypical advice-giver as a teenager. People would open up to me but...
7	-Piles of leaves in the street during autumn always makes me fell melancholic for some reason, I love it. -Seeing the whole town covored in a white blanket during the winter. Seasonal Affective...
6	Undiesss. It's like hell in here.
4	I build them for fun.
3	Haha. Well I will say you are probably safe from INTJs clinging to you like kryptonite napalm. I can't speak for the other 3. :laughing:
6	When I'm scared my eyes get really huge and I start to shake but I try not to shake. And everything shakes, I can see the tendrils of my hair shaking out of the corners of my eyes. My hands shake, my...
6	I have hit rock bottom. Again.
2	@INForJoking Here's to drinking... I'll hoist one (or many) with you anytime...
10	When I was a kid I got told to my inside voice all the time. I got confused because I thought I was. Now I get this said to me all the time. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I747 using Tapatalk
5	Some INFJ vibes there, but close enough.
2	For me, I have always expected myself to put other people's feelings first. It's like - my purpose in life is to listen to other people and help them. It feels wrong to add to their burden by talking...
7	lol!!
0	This is awesome!
11	I'm like 99.99% sure that your supposed Enneagram Tritype is impossible. Although I do wonder what a 7w1 would be like.
7	This thread validates my existence. Lulz. Many friends and I will typically take hours to dissect each others' arguments only to find that we actually agree. Only one friend agrees that this is a...
10	Hmm You're here! Finally we can have some real fun! You weren't being obnoxious, you're a riot! You're just as great as you seem to think you are! At first I was torn, but after hearing...
5	Hi booklover :) . I'm not sure I can say this because I'm fairly new myself and am enjoying this site too, but here it goes, Welcome :)
7	I don't dislike it, I dislike the pre-group anticipation and the effort involved in looking presentable. The situation is usually dandy unless it's a party where I don't know anybody. I have a...

11

Te Emerald Isle te be sure...Ireland!

6

Yes, my brother is the biggest douche you will ever meet, racist, sexist, homophobe everything and he put me down growing up. Being an INFP made me an outcast even amongst the rockers i would hang...

3

1st: Afrikaans 2nd: English I had Xhosa in primary school, but have forgotten basically everything. I understand Dutch and Flemish if people speak slowly and simply, but they are easier to read.

10

I understand what you're saying but the things you say about goodwill and empathy are definitely not social imperatives. Yeah some people may misuse ideas such as that to gain personal recognition or...

4

For fun, I sit on my computer like a piece of shit. Figuratively, of course.

7

For a while now, I've been pretty depressed, with a fair amount of anxiety and loneliness mixed in. My internal spark, that burst of energy to live life and that internal curiosity that drives me...

6

While I don't know that much about how to identify what type someone is, I just want to say I'm so glad that when I stumbled on this thread, I was so relieved that there seems to be few TAA fanatics...

9

This is not a nobody eats cookies type situation, and you know it. I've explained myself well enough.

6

Vimerge This sort of thing is exactly what this forum is for. The better you understand yourself and why you react or process things in the way you do, the more you can look at your individual...

14

I haven't read every post, but the title intrigued me. I just recently got involved with this forum a few months ago, and at that time, I discovered my MBTI. I had my husband figure his out, too. I'm...

14

Thank you(: I found that picture randomly, but it is a reference to my speaking. When I was four years old my mom was diagnosed with Schizo-Affective Disorder. She would talk to me about the...

6

I won't speak for everyone, but look for the odd person sitting in a corner who refuses to socialize. haha

6

I walked straight into a pole last night. I wasn't drunk at all... just... distracted.

2

I'm only 25 but I have no urge to settle down. I'm a really committed person, but I just don't see the point in rushing into marriage. I honestly don't care that much about ever being married, to be...

10

Hmm, ISFJ. I know two, they both happen to be female. And I could guess that they do the same! Maybe I'm thinking of a few ISFPs I know. In which case, which function do you think would be most...

2

As others already said: Depends on both the bobby and your personality (I think the latter is even more important). The biggest stumbling block is not being realistic from the outset, and...

7

Thank you both for the responses so far. It hurts to hear it, though it's nothing I haven't heard many times before. I guess I just don't know how to give up on it. Premature loyalty I suppose. ...

2

What do you all mean guys cant wear make up? And how can you tell if we are? :)

7

How exactly is that relevant to the conversation?

6

I have another question. Do you think for autobiographical or memoir writing that I need to go to graduate school or would writing classes be sufficient training? I ask this because if I go to...

6

one band, one drummer, no, wait...

7

Peace, fellow ENFP. :c)

11

I'm a Christian NT..is that rare?? LOL well I've been put on my arse and a true experience with God is what brought me back up. I'm crushing on a Christian isfp who is VERY VERY introverted. God...

2

You were the one who said suicide is the easy way out; only after you put pressure on me did I concede that sometimes suicide is drastically easier than climbing out of the depression pit, if the...

5

susank56: ESTJ

6

Interesting. Fearful is a subset of Avoidant (Avoidant-Fearful and Avoidant-Resistant are the two subsets). I think I am Avoidant-Resistant (what was basically described in the video), but I identify...

11

Patrick Jane is quite similar to an ENFJ guy I know, who is a CEO of a non-profit. This guy a very good public speaker, very charming (Fe) and also a very good observer even when it's small...

0

I think there are two possibilities for what is going on here. One may be that he is not getting upset or worried about the situation since there is no benefit to doing so. It would only create drama...

3

The whole Pisces INFJ thing has never been proven. Horoscopes have never been proven. While they are good fun, I fail to see the connection. Anxiety befalls many, this is not unique to the Pisces...

6

No, he's not and if he cant see that then you're out of his league. As for how I'm feeling right now, tired, just back from a camping trip, and frazzled, having major keyboard problems. Still...

7

So how does mind altering drugs affect you? These are only drugs i have had the pleasure/ dis-pleasure of trying Alcohol - Hate it... the more i drink the more aware that my abiltiy to logic is...

15

i see you point about the dangers that could stem from a faulty hypothetical worldview. a wonderful expamle of this we can find in artilery.guessing the flight path of the fired shell can mean the...

15

INTPs can't go that big. Their instincts are not as big as ENTJs can have... Yes, there is a rumor he is an INTP and I studied that through various websites and youtube videos. What they are...

11

Well, there are a lot of jobs that you can't do without a degree, and a lot of companies which won't consider you at all unless you have a degree (even for an entry level, menial job), so, in that...

12

Because you can't help it isn't an acceptable answer. If I go out of my way to be concerned and fawn over them in the same way, I'll feel like we're displaying equal amounts of affection. I...

2

Hmm. I understand your frustration, but, speaking for myself and my friends, I really don't agree that girls prefer bad lads to nice guys. Not true. I am not attracted to direct and assertive...

11

Socionics says that relationship is crap, and that infj dont really loke intp Apparently it's not true One of my best friends is probably an infj, too, and its one of the few types i wouldnt care...

10

The iNtuition, definately. We think randomly, without any discernible order, we make assumptions and intuitive guesses that are really right most times. It makes us incredibly creative and...

3

Correct on all points. Regrettably though this game has gotten stale. I enjoyed going back and forth with you but if all we do now is trade control of political power for peoples' favor then really...

7

Cuddle trafficing... I see... I always knew there would be some kind of typical crime committed by INFPs :tongue: Fiiine, I'll get my passport. Do we have some sort of union that protects us from...

0

I'd like to preface this by saying that I tend to get jealous and a little possessive. From my experiences with FWBs (read: relationships that aren't relationships...), I tend to get a little...

6

Yes, because this wagon ain't going anywhere and when the reality strikes us down, we'll need a good support group.

7

Nobody reads magazines anymore, grandpa.

6

Watching The Walking Dead and wondering whether or not I would survive... and if so, how long?

4

4w5 9w1 7w6

6

Hey everybody, so I talked to her. We both said more than I can remember, but following is a basic summary. *(Don't read too much into the tone of the written conversation, my memory of the real...

2

- When people use me as an emotional dumping ground. I am not a band aid to be used to patch others up and be discarded when no longer 'useful'. - People who get on the machine next to me at the...

7

Have any of you ever mistyped as something else? (If so, what'd you get?) I strongly considered INTP for a time due to my interest in logical systems and my tendency to be alone for a quite a...

5

Personally, I understand the rebellious stereotype. I hate being told what to do, who to be, what to act like, etc. This may have something to do with being enneagram type 4, though. (the...

6

:mellow: Yea, I'm attracted to the morbid, too. Things like rape, incest, murder, suicide, and rotting bodies. :unsure: It has scared me a lot of times, but sometimes I keep revisiting some of the...

7

Another vote for the cooking equipment here. No unforseen problems. Never give music stuff to a musician unless you can guarantee that none of the notes are backwards.

7

Whoever made that poll obviously isn't a real INTP. :proud:

3

I don't really see eye to eye with them, but there are some similarities between us. Both types seem to be coolly cynical and very kick-ass, but the ISTP's let things be while the INTJ's analyze...

6

Yes, though maybe she's more maternal than she gives off, and not all SFJs will be. She seems like she'd be fairly accommodating. Great idea, I commented on a video she made, 50 things about me, I...

2

Agreed. He has a pretty amazing understanding and handle of the cognitive functions, how they are exhibited and interact with one another, and jungian theories in general.

10

Here is some interesting data for you. In this list 1 and 8 are tied for the rarest, but in my experience...

2

Seems to me like maybe Kerik_S is just a fan of Miley getting defensive over someone he likes and taking your criticism of her personally. Seems like a very infj thing to do. anyway. ...

6

that was me in school too. everyone got saddened and I wanted to leave early. I always flat line(emotionally) but then explode with feelings at times... it is horrible, but both have their...

7

Are there any Christian INTPs that have struggled with their faith? I'm not. How do you view your relationship with God and how do you nurture it? I don't believe god exists and believe that the...

2

For the moments when you feel alive. I want the opportunity to have moments and I get swept up by them as they come.

7

I have some experience with both the giving and receiving of either intentional or unintentional comments. I can't speak for all others but for me personally have never, and would never intentionally...

2

Sometimes when I close my eyes I see myself in the future having achieved everything I currently desire and still being unhappy. This kind of thought takes all my motivation to produce something away...

3

Does anyone know or think that Rob Thomas is an ENFP? He's one of my favorite performers - very intense, emotional and soulful. What do you think?

15

It used to not work correctly. Where I would would have impulses to self serve in the now with long term disadvantage. Basically once I became more mature and started focusing heavily on having a...

7

He's an obvious ISTJ. There's nothing Ni about him at all, Si is everywhere.

3

If you could buy a replica melee weapon form a game,show, book, or somewhere, what would it be? And what would a reasonable price you would pay for it. Edit: I would want Kirito's black...

7

The Joker from The Dark Knight. ENTP or INTJ. Moses and Seaman from South Park. Moses is likely an INTP, not sure what Seaman is. ...

2

Most of my recent friendships have stemmed from me just saying I'm bad at this but I want to be better friends with you and conversations have started from there. I've ended up becoming really...

2

Well, I'm a really deep and philosophical person most of the time; I'm not really like that around other people because I don't want to be the weird one out. And I agree with what you said about...

6

A mixture of on-going grief and past traumatism. If a bully repeatedly torments you, stalks you and calls you names, chokes you with soap, attempts to(who knows, maybe succeeded) expose your...

2

stay away from IT! crappy hiring prospects. at least that is what i have experienced with my B.Sc.

8

and also if you have any knowledge in enneagram it could be nice to mine (:

7

:crazy: ! ...

3

{delete}

14

All the time! Generally, my mood is geniunely cheerful and optimistic, especially when there are more people. When I'm at my best, I can't help but tell my friends something along the lines of: 'I...

6

That is so cute though :laughing: :blushed:

2

Polish Slovak Portuguese Filipino Chinese On my father's side of the family, my Grandfather is Polish. He came to America shortly after he was liberated during WW2. My Grandmother is Slovak....

14

How do you get over someone who you know is not right for you? (too flirty with loads of other people, does drugs etc.)

2

Yep, INFJ that's me

6

Me and my kitty cat... I don't think words can describe the bond that we share. She is the one living thing alive that hasn't betrayed me, and I don't think she ever will. She's the most loyal...

4

Some more, stuff... By @tigerlily 1-what makes you angry? Repetitive people, the importance that people place on political correctness. 2-what do you like/dislike most about people? I...

10

148 is a fairly high IQ, considering 100 is considered average.

2

That's a feeling I felt *very* deeply as a teenager. My advice would be to just try not to worry about it too much. I was the steroetypical advice-giver as a teenager. People would open up to me but...

7

-Piles of leaves in the street during autumn always makes me fell melancholic for some reason, I love it. -Seeing the whole town covored in a white blanket during the winter. Seasonal Affective...

6

Undiesss. It's like hell in here.

4

I build them for fun.

3

Haha. Well I will say you are probably safe from INTJs clinging to you like kryptonite napalm. I can't speak for the other 3. :laughing:

6

When I'm scared my eyes get really huge and I start to shake but I try not to shake. And everything shakes, I can see the tendrils of my hair shaking out of the corners of my eyes. My hands shake, my...

6

I have hit rock bottom. Again.

2

@INForJoking Here's to drinking... I'll hoist one (or many) with you anytime...

10

When I was a kid I got told to my inside voice all the time. I got confused because I thought I was. Now I get this said to me all the time. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I747 using Tapatalk

5

Some INFJ vibes there, but close enough.

2

For me, I have always expected myself to put other people's feelings first. It's like - my purpose in life is to listen to other people and help them. It feels wrong to add to their burden by talking...

7

lol!!

0

This is awesome!

11

I'm like 99.99% sure that your supposed Enneagram Tritype is impossible. Although I do wonder what a 7w1 would be like.

7

This thread validates my existence. Lulz. Many friends and I will typically take hours to dissect each others' arguments only to find that we actually agree. Only one friend agrees that this is a...

10

Hmm You're here! Finally we can have some real fun! You weren't being obnoxious, you're a riot! You're just as great as you seem to think you are! At first I was torn, but after hearing...

5

Hi booklover :) . I'm not sure I can say this because I'm fairly new myself and am enjoying this site too, but here it goes, Welcome :)

7

I don't dislike it, I dislike the pre-group anticipation and the effort involved in looking presentable. The situation is usually dandy unless it's a party where I don't know anybody. I have a...