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Thanks! I look forward to the same. What are you up to these days, Hiimhere?
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At the cheap end, there are some government funded career counselors who's job is to promote employment in their local area. I find there's some baseline standard, although there simplistic in...
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This is a crosspost that I've already posted to the ENFP section. However, I'm wondering what common themes or threads NFs have with dreams. Here's my original post: Hey guys I was just recently...
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Acerbusvenator You misstate my position and then belittle me (based on a conjecture that stands in contradiction to the overwhelming weight of hundreds of thousands of data points collected over...
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My situation is actually different from relationship textbook, I think. What works for me is the INFP style passive-aggressiveness..., angry and dark, about to retreating to a cave..... It hurts...
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It seems NF's have the same mode of thinking of wanting a deep conversation before becoming genuinely interested in people. I wonder how SF and ST respond to this I should bring this to their thread...
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Wait, this just described my last year perfectly... When I was still in high school, I was the total drifter among all the social groups. To some of the shy-er people I talked to in different...
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I think I love you!
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resisting the urge to not hit on intp newbie but sorry dude your whole 'tude is totally hot. sorry it didn't work out with the last chick I'm sure you'll find someone who digs your shit tho, I do.
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I find having kids completely unnecessary, and find it hard to comprehend what people can possibly get out of it when compared to overall cost-time-effort ratio towards the perceived benefits you can...
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I did leave the situation alone. We were just randomly catching up after a few months of not talking. I asked him if he was ever coming back home to visit and then he suggested I come out there. ...
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Would you ENFPs say that you only show your depressed side to the people you really love and trust? That you would prefer to be completely isolated with your 'dark' moods? And that I should feel...
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I vary in style because the different appearence, but I have to look good. Comfy is nice but I like looking put together and ready for the task at hand.
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I like the artwork a lot. Absolutely gorgeous.The problem I'm having after reading about 30 pages is that I haven't been given a strong reason to care about the characters: there's tons of action,...
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Seriously I visited LA and it is perhaps the worst place I've been to. San Francisco is okay. London, anywhere else is bland. In my opinion from my experience the best places I have...
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After two months of fullfiling 3 of my goals, I have some freetime... I feel good and relaxed. But I already start to feel boring also...
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Hahaha I was just going to add that GRRM might change it cause he likes to surprise people. The theory does make sense though. How about Rickon on the throne? I always thought him and Tommen...
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Restaurant (please specify) many kinds. i love to try new types of food and love all different kinds of restaurants- greasy spoons, fancy vegetarian wine bars, hole in the wall indian restaurants...
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Before you try psychotherapy, you should not only try making friends but also improve your physical health. In order to achieve either of them, harness the force of Don't think, do. Decide on a...
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I wanted to create this thread so that others can come here and receive feedback, advice, ideas, inspiration and what have you, on they're stories. Also, I have this story that I need advice on. I...
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Nice guy syndrome is pretty much an inflated level of perceived entitlement and covertly contained arrogance. It's more about themselves than the other person. I can take care of somebody much...
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Respect has to be earned. So it depends on the context of hard to get there is two types as pointed out already. 1. Hard to get because they like the attention of a person chasing them. (This is...
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I have felt the same way my whole life. Truth is though that most people admire me and enjoy my company. I feel that the feeling you're describing is more personal dislike for yourself than...
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I'm inclined to believe this. I don't think children have much of an understanding of the abstract so we just start out as Sensors. I would also agree that iNuittion develops in the teenage years....
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They way I see things is that many people are ignorant, and won't take you seriously for who you are. I guess it's the Judging types. I think I would have sticked to the ones open to other people. ...
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Sometimes. The politics in my country are MESSY and...pretty much headbanging-inducing. I learned to (somehow) close my senses and move on, but it still hurts. It's generally a sense of WTF are...
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Holy shit, just watched that for like the 10th time a couple days ago. so funny.
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It looks like this is about introvert vs extravert not Ti vs Te but I'm still interested greatly. Something that confuses me is that he mentions how the extravert tries to deal with objects and...
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I do project a specific self-image, but I feel like part of it is conscious and part of it isn't. Obviously I knowingly select things such as the clothing I wear, where I spend my time, and the...
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That sounds nice if somewhat bittersweet, but so nice to me now, I could use some time like that but I shall not be having any not soon at least. I feel terrible and it's there to be picked threw,...
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It has been a little over two years, and I am still unsure of mine. First, I though I was an ISTJ, but now I think I'm an INTP. I actually enjoy this site more when I post with an unknown type,...
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This is similar to my reaction! I was genuinely shocked and so appreciative that they would all gather to celebrate with me. But I had no idea what to say or do. And everyone was staring and smiling....
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I've been in relationships with three ENFPs, and none of them ended well. Take my personal experiences for what they're worth, which in the end is not a whole lot, but INTJs and ENFPs simply have...
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It's funny how you say that... She would always say the same in the last year. I need to miss you! So it sounds like your boyfriend is a lot like me. Are you guys dating others? She has...
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Actually I kind of like vampires...
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Going through this right now. It's such a mindfuck, I can't even wrap my heart around it! Thanks for the advice though. I appreciate your take on the matter. I might just have to heed it and let you...
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I'm also an INTP with ISTJ sibling. Coincidence? xD Overall, there ain't too many problems, other than at times when I feel that she's too stiff with schedules and keeping everything clean and neat....
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INTJs, if you could choose would you become human?
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Welcome!! :)
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i wish i could ask my dad if would have done things differnet now...
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That's a much more appropriate list for an INTJ. Your list mirrors that of my former INTJ room mate. He was awesome, though slightly strange. He would give me odd looks for listening to certain songs...
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@Saoirse1969 Ah well every introvert is different :D I wouldn't have thought to share it either but since someone else did it just made me think of it.. lol! (wait.. who originally posted the comment...
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My dad is ten years older than my mom, and they've been happily married for over two decades. What can I say? My dad took a little longer to get his shit together and that's fine =P I'd hate to never...
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People say I flirt but I don't understand why they think that.
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Thanks! :) when I'm alone though, I burn for some other stimulation. I have met people who allow me to be more myself than even I do, when I'm alone, because...because *sigh* they validate the...
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I've probably spent everyday thinking about what I want to do with my life since I was around 12. It has gotten me nowhere. So far I've wanted to be a geologist, astronomer, psychologist, stock...
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I think im an ESTP, every test i take gives me ESTP or ESFP. but im not sure i sometimes feel like im an ISTP. so i thought about answering those questions things but i feel they never get to the the...
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I do this all the time. This way people always know to move away from me. There is no need to even ask them.
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I agree with this! I love sun but a rainy day once in a while feels so calming and refreshing. I can listen to different kind of music then and it's more socially acceptable to be sitting in with a...
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Yes, they use the word arrogant. It's in another language, but the best translation is arrogant. I would say he comes across as sure of himself and determined, not superior. I see the...
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So far, in all three of your posts, you've demonstrated projection. Somehow I doubt an ENTP female would ever consider dating you is a manifestation of your personal insecurities that you would...
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-Kind and considerate, a must. - does that mean sugarcoating the truth? Or is having good intentions? -Someone who doesn't bullshit me? What do you mean by that? Lies? Playing games? And how do...
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Commenting on the answer to the first question: you are so Te. There are a lot of things that shows it, but the answer to 10 is the one that makes me quite sure of Te. Also, some of your answers are...
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That is an really good one, had to have been written by an INFP or with heavy contributions from them. I have a very hard time with finding the right words to comunicate my ideas and insights...
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Thank you for sharing, I love your comment. Part of the challenge i've had in the past is that I've never met an INFJ in real life. It's great to hear that you're open to understanding your...
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you've been told your whole life that you're wiser than your years and very mature for your age. I always felt like the party pooper. I was liked by my peers in school even though I was mostly...
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not to sound overconfident, but I'm pretty sure I win.
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I cracked the screen on my iPod touch a while ago. I'm still using it with the cracked screen, its not too bad and doesn't bother me much. I imagine the cost will be fairly constant wherever you...
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I dreamed about the girl I like for the 3rd time. What's that all about?
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Quality time. What's the quote, if you are consider someone else over me... just pick them. Don't waste my time.
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I have 3 cats and I love them my male friends thinks it odd that im a single man with cats but I dont care what they think cats are cool they are sneaky and remind me of woman lol
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Currently dating an ENTP. He thought I was quiet, kinda mysterious at first, acted 'cute' but had a lot of depth. But really, best thing YOU can do is make a lot of eye contact hanging out in...
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That's hilarious.
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Not that I'm aware of lol. I was told I said some weird things. Guess I didn't have a filter back then :D Honestly college is when I really started finding myself and was able to find some friends...
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I try to take out some time to do the things that I enjoy, but make sure I do it in the company of those who I can share the experience with. The most important part is being in the prescence of...
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Haha yeah we are not pushovers. We can pretend to be pushovers very well if we want though. One of my infj friends got into a ton of fights in highschool because people thought he was a push over....
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Overwhelmed by what? That could mean anything. :-)
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Thx baybay!! Absolutely... Foremost, Cynthia is a constructive person. The body of her research and all her travels are all directed to build towards concrete ends. It is not so much that takes...
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Argh! Snorgles! :P Counterattack with tickling!
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We're withdrawn competitors, for lack of a better way to say it. We're not in-your-face competitive like ENTJs are. But, at least in my case, if i see i have a good chance of winning something,...
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I'd say 5w6 or 6w5. sp/sx or sx/sp. 499826 499834 499842
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This is the subject I came to vent about, but I'll put it here... I have just been trying to work out my mother's type to work out why she appears to be such an alien. ESTJ seems to fit but I'm...
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Well with the INTP I know, he's spoken about wanting to be in a relationship and believes that a relationship helps to bring out the best in each partner. With your situation, I'm sorry cause good...
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Wallmaster, what is actually meant by values synchronisation? Also to aconite good to hear it does work, I always find myself more attracted to ISFP type people (they may not actually be ISFP's...
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When I lose my balance. When I have to walk slow. When I can no longer run up and down the stairs. All movement related to me.
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Count me in with feeling body conscious. If I'm by myself I don't care, but if i'm sitting in the classroom or even walking down the street, I overanalyze a lot of my actions and do a lot of...
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When you try to explain to your friends how a song makes you feel and they think you're crazy.
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I'm always open to opinions, especially this subject. It brings me down to reality. I'm horrible at explaining by text. I would say more but it just leads to more ideas *shrug* I will try my...
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If you can't enjoy your meetings with him just limit your contact with him. Many of us have experienced difficult periods in their lives and I don't think your telling your friend that his behavior...
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My first introduction to personality tests was when the HSP book grabbed me from the bookshelf at the natural food store. Click - the light went on! I cope by limiting the degree of noise, wearing...
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So bored... It's killing me.
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God damn it !!~~ what was your setting like? Gimme deets yo. Mindset?
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I love learning languages and also the study of linguistics as a whole. Right now I'm simultaneously learning Ancient Greek, Latin, and Icelandic. I'm also planning to eventually study at least most...
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I'm trying to figure out how to connect with my brother. When we were younger, we talked about goofy stuff all day, everyday. My favorite thing to do was tell him jokes and do crazy stuff to make him...
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1. 'Safe' genetic enhancement of your children. Will you accept the treatment? (Yes or No) Only if it were disease preventative. Nothing aesthetic. 2. Inevitable disaster. Will it hit nearby...
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Not if you really think about it. Everyone contains both Extraverted and Introverted functions, therefore they would be capable of both - it's just your main way of thinking.
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Haha, thanks man! It's fun, you should try it.
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While I am not a Marine, I frequently work with them and get along quite well. I read a study a few years ago that showed that most of the Marine Leadership (in a combat roll, NOT the admin/computer...
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Ok, this question probably needs an essay to cover it completely but I'll summerise: Making friends: One-on-one I think I approach and speak with as many females as males. Gender, for me, is never...
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just earlier when walking home and when remembering something
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I'm really horrible at giving comfort, but I'm great at giving advice. It doesn't matter if it's an emotional relationship problem or a problem with a more practical solution, I've been told that I'm...
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emotional logic Yeah, it was helpful. And heart warming. Thank you! . Oh, I was you know - just making a comparison of INFP/INFJ tendencies. Of course being all - I don't know abnormal? - and...
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LET IT BE KNOWN TO ALL, THAT NOT ONLY HAVE I CREATED A NEW WORD (Ironicism), BUT ALSO A SANCTUARY IN WHICH ALL WHO WILL IT CAN GATHER TO EXPRESS ALL OF THE INCIDENTS OF STRANGE/FUNNY IRONY THAT IS...
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Yes, that was always my impression of her. Definitely not a feeler. Eric Camden is clearly an ExFJ. I'd say ESFJ--that's my father's type, and the character's like an exaggerated version of him...
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You know you're an INFP when ... you laugh at your INTJ sister for not realizing that she is wearing mismatched flip flops, only to go shit... I am wearing mismatched flip flops too. ...
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Interesting question. Everyone gets equal trust on a 'people are innately good' kind of level. However, I will know very quickly how the relationship will progress or if it's worth fostering. ...
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To be honest when he said that his best company is himself- about the beach thing-I was caught off guard.I am not into enneagram much but he could have an unusual mbti/enneagram combination I would...
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This game should just be named Lose! in this case.
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Thank you. You're a much needed ray of sunshine, as always.<3
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I used to be a dog person. But then my boyfriend talked me into getting a cat. Now I'm the one who loves my sweet, furry feline friends to death while my boyfriend complains about me coddling them....