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6	48108 Five year old me
4	I mainly get frustrated with my work colleagues who all have a penchant to suddenly disappear when there's actual work to be done. When that happens I get even more quiet than my usual quiet. The...
11	sometimes i make odd analogies when i tutor. using moles is like trying to sell sandwiches. i have an odd sense of humor. iremember the other day i was texting this girl how i was gonna become...
2	Let's make Baileys drinks with an INFJ and an ESTP! :D
14	yup. There is nothing wrong with society. We are doing exactly what we should be doing. Everything is the way it should be. hindsight is 20/20. looking ahead, you can imagine many...
6	When it's not safe to be vulnerable, it's normal to be uncomfortable with emotions. And it's prudent to wait until you're sure of something before articulating it. Although I've learned to qualify...
3	I completely agree. It always annoys me when anti-social INTJs blame their lack of social skills to their personality type. Yes, I don't like to go out too often, especially not to big parties or...
2	Dear Universe, I'm generally a good person. So please stop giving me such shitty luck. My good karma needs to come back, like now. Sincerely, A depressed Walmart employee
10	1. I'm saying this to my 15 year old self: You're a likeable, funny and intelligent person and any time you feel like you aren't, you're wrong. In the next few years you are going to feel like...
2	No, the Earth in its present state is not a paradise. It is rapidly being ruined by the greed and selfishness of man. Revelation 11:18 says that the the time will come when God will have to bring...
6	mesas
6	So here's the situation I'm trying to figure out here: My direct supervisor at work is also one of my closest female friends ever. As a friend, she's awesome. As a BOSS, she makes me want to...
7	Well for the sake of argument say we did. Or a sentient life form similar to us. It can be a science project! Design an alien species to suit this world!
2	Can't you try to motivate him ?
7	That is a double win for me. What I mean by generally by the way means that a lot not really everything. I like to create things with my hands as well (i.e. when I play the piano and create...
4	This will sound awful and I hate myself for writing it: It may be worth it to bite the bullet and ask them what you can do to change. I'd rather die. I'd rather tell them all to shit in their...
6	Im one of those infps that want to make the world a better place, and sometimes, like you, i too feel insignificant. But realize that everyone matters, and everyone is special in there own way!...
6	I'm pretty sure I'm an Idealist, though I still don't understand a lot about enneagram and other correlations, I can identify with that description as not so much with the other ones. I'm very...
3	Lucifer in the Bible refers to a king of Babylon, and there is not much info about this dead Babylonian king, so I don't know.
6	Dear person who listens and understands: I am sorry for letting you down. I understand and realize you want me to hit the road. I think. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk - now Free
5	People remember me!?!? P.S. I've been okay, mostly. Just wasting my summer away.
3	Don't get me wrong my friend... I didn't say it was an epidemic, and I'm not finding a cure... I just gave a list for all to see, if there's anything there that you might relate to, good. At least...
7	Hmm alright fair enough on Shouta. Recovery girl def screams Fe. Lets just leave Momo for now. I don't really wanna come down to any wrong conclusion, but I do see your point. I never implied...
12	Haha, the idea is interesting but wouldn't work for me. I was a classic 8w7 growing up, and even more eightish than I am now. A return to childhood would mean being even less mindful of others and...
8	I'm thankful for my boyfriend, he's my rock on days like today. I don't know what I'd do without him in my life. I want to marry him.
3	This is flattering. However, I am actually a scientist, so please don't draw conclusions just based on my comments. Thanks for stepping up. On all counts, you captured my own thoughts and...
2	What if you do both? I'm highly skeptical that such a distinction can be made. Images evoke all kinds of thoughts and feelings in me. I'm not limited to only one side of looking at a picture. It...
6	First confession: I am in LOVE with Hipster Cop. So dreamy Second...
3	When you make up jokes inside your head and laugh out loud because they are so funny.
2	lol!
6	Fazil Say - Istanbul Symphony
10	Hahah, your description of people avoiding people they like is /exactly like me. I'm the same as you with being uncomfortable in a group too, a lot of people end up telling me ...you were so quiet...
2	I think it would be tough for any INFJ to give you tips because this is something that's done automatically. It's a deep unconscious process that analyzes the particular individual, their body...
4	I like the idea of surviving in the wilderness somewhere. I don't like the tropics, I would rather be in the North. When I was a kid I had to read a book in school called 'the hatchet about a kid...
6	What light bulb? Go!:cool: Awh...this is a repeat post....sorry...dunno how to delete! HELPPPPP!!!!! :)
11	7 and 9 are fairly close but I think 7 wins by just a tiny bit with 3 trailing last. I love introspection and I don't shy away from conflict if I see it as necessary/ unavoidable but I prefer to stay...
8	Sure, but there are minimum (subpar) standards and they aren't even in the ballpark of those even. The police should have taken her license away.
3	Ha, if you wait for an INTJ to chase you, you're going to wait quite a long time. The fact that he wants you around and is asking to do things with you is all you need to know right now, it might be...
4	So I recently started working at a grocery store (first real job) and I'm having trouble getting along with some of my coworkers, I'm trying to decide if I should give them space and hope they forget...
2	As others have said: it is literally impossible to change your actual type. It is possible to act more like one type or another, which INFJ are very good at.
7	Thank you for your response :proud: I found it very informative and helpful and I'm looking forward to anything else that you might add. You're spot on about their characteristics so far and...
6	beetwick Ah, parents. It only takes the meeting of two gametes to qualify two people for parenthood. I have yet to meet someone who wasn't damaged in some way by their upbringing. Some much more...
10	my okcupid user name is epic_romance. What does that tell you??
9	Wait, he was fired just because he didn't use his vacation time? Seems like there'd have to be something else going on that he's not telling you.
6	Felidire raised a pretty interesting question on my thread (quoted below) concerning the four temperaments. We are both unsure of our personality types, and we were wondering if there is any pattern...
12	If you do something for the good of society, if affects you too because you are part of society. If half the country were about to die, you would help them not just for moral reasons, but for the...
6	Sounds a lot like me. I always just sit there quietly, hoping someone will come and talk to me, although I never show any sign that that's what I want. I'm painfully shy, but I love people. I hate...
5	Sorry, my phone ran out of battery. Sorry Sorry SORRY SORRY Why am I so apologetic!!
3	My closest friend is an ESFP female, and I've known her since I was 3 y.o (I'm 19 this year, and still pretty much suprised at how long this friendship lasts, despite of our differences). We're...
11	Fantastic combo, 'cause I'm 2-5-9, nearly a triple play! I like power. Love me some power. It's hot. I enjoy having it in and of itself, although I don't actually like using it except to protect...
2	My ex once made fun of me for being old-fashioned/almost quaint. So what? SUCK IT, LOSER.
8	I can't and won't type you, because there is a subforum for that where more experienced people will do that for you. I will say however that I can somewhat relate to some of those balanced traits....
6	... sexual grand master...? :dry:
6	Dibs on the black kitten with the orange nose
10	When it comes to putting experience, and/or knowledge into practice within a romantic relationship: My ENFP tendency to follow whatever FEELS right, or what my heart WANTS to do, often leads to...
6	I dont even think the atmosphere matters. It has got to be the public. I would feel fine in almost any environment as long as people relate to me.
2	Probably a personal question but I always find ENFPs uplifting. What do you do when times are bad and feel no escape? Quite honestly, I'm going through a rough time right now and feel so very alone.
7	A conversation without an argument? What is this? I've never heard of such a thing! Lol, I hear ya though.
6	If I were to go to college, I would like to major in liberal arts, but I don't want to have a degree that's not going to help me getting a skill in the workforce, and have debt, when I could just...
8	I'm just super bored and thought this might amuse me for a while. I'm an ESTP 7w8 female, ask me things to get my perspective on them. :kitteh:
11	Oh hahaha I thought you were just bragging about how you got laid. You will be okay. You have a 70% chance of knocking a girl up with a condom...I hope you aren't lucky
7	Hollywood Swinging Kool and the Gang Sent from my C6725 using Tapatalk
7	I've always found the idea fascinating, yet the idea of remembering a location that thoroughly seems to me a rather daunting task. However I suppose it's just like at home you know exactly where that...
4	Looks like so far ISTPs are 50% split into both using and not using Facebook!
6	Well, my city is notoriously cold and unfriendly, and there's a gender imbalance as the industry here is largely technology and some manufacturing as well. There are just not enough women to go...
10	Soooo I did a thing aaaand made a blog. Idk what I think of this yet, but I wanted to have some place that archived everything that happened from start to finish and how that's led to the way I think...
10	It's tough but I have always felt like an ENFP's calling and vocation are not meant to be the same thing. Initially I did because I wanted to be a doctor, but I got into medicine classes and hated...
6	No. No, you didn't.
3	Justice over mercy? Definitely.
4	It isn't about anyone being purer and more gracious than religion. I already acknowledged that human beings are prone to make mistakes. What's wrong is when a group of bigots, that is, people to...
10	LAWYERS???!! Oh.....so are we being all diplomatic and lawful now? :kitteh: :woof: Or can I unleash my ELIMINATER? :exterminate: Hmm, I do so love a good dual. :tongue: Or we can just all...
2	Also, AW10, reading about/learning the functions is a lot to absorb. And the descriptions can be so murky, and also very similar to other functions, that it can get confusing. I struggled wrapping...
10	Haha you stole my thread title. Or actually it would probably have been INFPs & Anger. But my question would be if any other INFP doesn't feel the emotion anger? I don't remember ever having done so...
7	Just be yourself makes me cringe whenever I hear it, especially when it is offered as serious advice. It's a passive-aggressive way of implying that the advice-receiver is somehow lacking without...
7	Coworker: Google is your friend. Me: My fist is your enemy.
6	I wish people were that cool where I'm going =(
3	Mkay, all women are liars and will eventually leave you for the first available, better looking, option. Now that we've got your subtext out in the open and a little more clearly defined. ...
4	Found out about MBTI during college. Was actually so not into it I actually forgot what result I had when I took the test back then. Reason why I got into it is because I was feeling lost and was...
3	lookslikeiwin thanks for that link about being a sensitive person. But just like with autism/aspergers, I still wonder how many of those traits can be independent of personality type. Of course,...
2	I just had an idea, and would like to see if it works out. I thought this would be an effective way for people to learn including myself. Can everyone find a positive and negative to something,...
5	I hope this is worth it.
10	First one I got: Ne (Extroverted Intuition) (100%) Te (Extroverted Thinking) (80%) Fi (Introverted Feeling) (75%) Ti (Introverted Thinking) (75%) Fe (Extroverted Feeling) (70%) Si...
3	Intelligence. Passion in what they do. Love of learning. Anyone who can make me think, alter my perspective on the world, or offer refreshing insights are actually the sexist people in the world to...
7	Yes. But that would just be its just deserts. :unsure:
15	Depends on the situation & there has to be a reason or end goal.
7	Yes, and confidence goes a long way, too.
6	. So... I guess the koala guy was projecting narcissism on me, and thinking of his experiences with his mum (I just noticed his thread about covert narcissism), which is rather unfair. I...
6	It's hard to not listen by your heart but it's probably something about having so many thoughts. When I talk to my friends I often feel the urge to hold back the truth since it could be hard for them...
3	6/10 It's funny!
2	Is nostalgia not limited to Si types? I am an INFJ, so obviously not. But what is giving me nostalgic feelings time to time?
4	Intimacy is the big one. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
11	This summer I spent five days in a foreign country having dialog only within my head, and with random local people who did not know me beforehand and whom I'll never meet again. It was incredibly...
7	Ah, the rush of crime.
3	Thanks!
2	No. It's not necessary and doesn't have a base in the original texts. Helen Faurve wrote about it based on some short studies then registered it as a copyright trademark. If you know anything about...
3	I agree about it being both. The basis is in nature, however it is amplified through nurture. For example, something I see with Fe users is that their familial situations either required Fe...
14	x93Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.x94 - Psalmu202c 42:5u202c Anxiety is coming at me again. I hate it yet...
6	cool I'm gonna start keeping track. Or maybe I should just copy this thread and make one in the INFP section. I'm sure enough people would respond :)
15	I'm confused here. I still don't see how it's not possible to meet with you and your mom separately. When he will be meeting her, she can pick him up and when he will be meeting you, you can pick him...
6	I usually stick to one or a few sexual partners at the same time, who I am also close friends with. But it happens that I come across some casual fling who I really click with and that's also great. ...

6

48108 Five year old me

4

I mainly get frustrated with my work colleagues who all have a penchant to suddenly disappear when there's actual work to be done. When that happens I get even more quiet than my usual quiet. The...

11

sometimes i make odd analogies when i tutor. using moles is like trying to sell sandwiches. i have an odd sense of humor. iremember the other day i was texting this girl how i was gonna become...

2

Let's make Baileys drinks with an INFJ and an ESTP! :D

14

yup. There is nothing wrong with society. We are doing exactly what we should be doing. Everything is the way it should be. hindsight is 20/20. looking ahead, you can imagine many...

6

When it's not safe to be vulnerable, it's normal to be uncomfortable with emotions. And it's prudent to wait until you're sure of something before articulating it. Although I've learned to qualify...

3

I completely agree. It always annoys me when anti-social INTJs blame their lack of social skills to their personality type. Yes, I don't like to go out too often, especially not to big parties or...

2

Dear Universe, I'm generally a good person. So please stop giving me such shitty luck. My good karma needs to come back, like now. Sincerely, A depressed Walmart employee

10

1. I'm saying this to my 15 year old self: You're a likeable, funny and intelligent person and any time you feel like you aren't, you're wrong. In the next few years you are going to feel like...

2

No, the Earth in its present state is not a paradise. It is rapidly being ruined by the greed and selfishness of man. Revelation 11:18 says that the the time will come when God will have to bring...

6

mesas

6

So here's the situation I'm trying to figure out here: My direct supervisor at work is also one of my closest female friends ever. As a friend, she's awesome. As a BOSS, she makes me want to...

7

Well for the sake of argument say we did. Or a sentient life form similar to us. It can be a science project! Design an alien species to suit this world!

2

Can't you try to motivate him ?

7

That is a double win for me. What I mean by generally by the way means that a lot not really everything. I like to create things with my hands as well (i.e. when I play the piano and create...

4

This will sound awful and I hate myself for writing it: It may be worth it to bite the bullet and ask them what you can do to change. I'd rather die. I'd rather tell them all to shit in their...

6

Im one of those infps that want to make the world a better place, and sometimes, like you, i too feel insignificant. But realize that everyone matters, and everyone is special in there own way!...

6

I'm pretty sure I'm an Idealist, though I still don't understand a lot about enneagram and other correlations, I can identify with that description as not so much with the other ones. I'm very...

3

Lucifer in the Bible refers to a king of Babylon, and there is not much info about this dead Babylonian king, so I don't know.

6

Dear person who listens and understands: I am sorry for letting you down. I understand and realize you want me to hit the road. I think. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk - now Free

5

People remember me!?!? P.S. I've been okay, mostly. Just wasting my summer away.

3

Don't get me wrong my friend... I didn't say it was an epidemic, and I'm not finding a cure... I just gave a list for all to see, if there's anything there that you might relate to, good. At least...

7

Hmm alright fair enough on Shouta. Recovery girl def screams Fe. Lets just leave Momo for now. I don't really wanna come down to any wrong conclusion, but I do see your point. I never implied...

12

Haha, the idea is interesting but wouldn't work for me. I was a classic 8w7 growing up, and even more eightish than I am now. A return to childhood would mean being even less mindful of others and...

8

I'm thankful for my boyfriend, he's my rock on days like today. I don't know what I'd do without him in my life. I want to marry him.

3

This is flattering. However, I am actually a scientist, so please don't draw conclusions just based on my comments. Thanks for stepping up. On all counts, you captured my own thoughts and...

2

What if you do both? I'm highly skeptical that such a distinction can be made. Images evoke all kinds of thoughts and feelings in me. I'm not limited to only one side of looking at a picture. It...

6

First confession: I am in LOVE with Hipster Cop. So dreamy Second...

3

When you make up jokes inside your head and laugh out loud because they are so funny.

2

lol!

6

Fazil Say - Istanbul Symphony

10

Hahah, your description of people avoiding people they like is /exactly like me. I'm the same as you with being uncomfortable in a group too, a lot of people end up telling me ...you were so quiet...

2

I think it would be tough for any INFJ to give you tips because this is something that's done automatically. It's a deep unconscious process that analyzes the particular individual, their body...

4

I like the idea of surviving in the wilderness somewhere. I don't like the tropics, I would rather be in the North. When I was a kid I had to read a book in school called 'the hatchet about a kid...

6

What light bulb? Go!:cool: Awh...this is a repeat post....sorry...dunno how to delete! HELPPPPP!!!!! :)

11

7 and 9 are fairly close but I think 7 wins by just a tiny bit with 3 trailing last. I love introspection and I don't shy away from conflict if I see it as necessary/ unavoidable but I prefer to stay...

8

Sure, but there are minimum (subpar) standards and they aren't even in the ballpark of those even. The police should have taken her license away.

3

Ha, if you wait for an INTJ to chase you, you're going to wait quite a long time. The fact that he wants you around and is asking to do things with you is all you need to know right now, it might be...

4

So I recently started working at a grocery store (first real job) and I'm having trouble getting along with some of my coworkers, I'm trying to decide if I should give them space and hope they forget...

2

As others have said: it is literally impossible to change your actual type. It is possible to act more like one type or another, which INFJ are very good at.

7

Thank you for your response :proud: I found it very informative and helpful and I'm looking forward to anything else that you might add. You're spot on about their characteristics so far and...

6

beetwick Ah, parents. It only takes the meeting of two gametes to qualify two people for parenthood. I have yet to meet someone who wasn't damaged in some way by their upbringing. Some much more...

10

my okcupid user name is epic_romance. What does that tell you??

9

Wait, he was fired just because he didn't use his vacation time? Seems like there'd have to be something else going on that he's not telling you.

6

Felidire raised a pretty interesting question on my thread (quoted below) concerning the four temperaments. We are both unsure of our personality types, and we were wondering if there is any pattern...

12

If you do something for the good of society, if affects you too because you are part of society. If half the country were about to die, you would help them not just for moral reasons, but for the...

6

Sounds a lot like me. I always just sit there quietly, hoping someone will come and talk to me, although I never show any sign that that's what I want. I'm painfully shy, but I love people. I hate...

5

Sorry, my phone ran out of battery. Sorry Sorry SORRY SORRY Why am I so apologetic!!

3

My closest friend is an ESFP female, and I've known her since I was 3 y.o (I'm 19 this year, and still pretty much suprised at how long this friendship lasts, despite of our differences). We're...

11

Fantastic combo, 'cause I'm 2-5-9, nearly a triple play! I like power. Love me some power. It's hot. I enjoy having it in and of itself, although I don't actually like using it except to protect...

2

My ex once made fun of me for being old-fashioned/almost quaint. So what? SUCK IT, LOSER.

8

I can't and won't type you, because there is a subforum for that where more experienced people will do that for you. I will say however that I can somewhat relate to some of those balanced traits....

6

... sexual grand master...? :dry:

6

Dibs on the black kitten with the orange nose

10

When it comes to putting experience, and/or knowledge into practice within a romantic relationship: My ENFP tendency to follow whatever FEELS right, or what my heart WANTS to do, often leads to...

6

I dont even think the atmosphere matters. It has got to be the public. I would feel fine in almost any environment as long as people relate to me.

2

Probably a personal question but I always find ENFPs uplifting. What do you do when times are bad and feel no escape? Quite honestly, I'm going through a rough time right now and feel so very alone.

7

A conversation without an argument? What is this? I've never heard of such a thing! Lol, I hear ya though.

6

If I were to go to college, I would like to major in liberal arts, but I don't want to have a degree that's not going to help me getting a skill in the workforce, and have debt, when I could just...

8

I'm just super bored and thought this might amuse me for a while. I'm an ESTP 7w8 female, ask me things to get my perspective on them. :kitteh:

11

Oh hahaha I thought you were just bragging about how you got laid. You will be okay. You have a 70% chance of knocking a girl up with a condom...I hope you aren't lucky

7

Hollywood Swinging Kool and the Gang Sent from my C6725 using Tapatalk

7

I've always found the idea fascinating, yet the idea of remembering a location that thoroughly seems to me a rather daunting task. However I suppose it's just like at home you know exactly where that...

4

Looks like so far ISTPs are 50% split into both using and not using Facebook!

6

Well, my city is notoriously cold and unfriendly, and there's a gender imbalance as the industry here is largely technology and some manufacturing as well. There are just not enough women to go...

10

Soooo I did a thing aaaand made a blog. Idk what I think of this yet, but I wanted to have some place that archived everything that happened from start to finish and how that's led to the way I think...

10

It's tough but I have always felt like an ENFP's calling and vocation are not meant to be the same thing. Initially I did because I wanted to be a doctor, but I got into medicine classes and hated...

6

No. No, you didn't.

3

Justice over mercy? Definitely.

4

It isn't about anyone being purer and more gracious than religion. I already acknowledged that human beings are prone to make mistakes. What's wrong is when a group of bigots, that is, people to...

10

LAWYERS???!! Oh.....so are we being all diplomatic and lawful now? :kitteh: :woof: Or can I unleash my ELIMINATER? :exterminate: Hmm, I do so love a good dual. :tongue: Or we can just all...

2

Also, AW10, reading about/learning the functions is a lot to absorb. And the descriptions can be so murky, and also very similar to other functions, that it can get confusing. I struggled wrapping...

10

Haha you stole my thread title. Or actually it would probably have been INFPs & Anger. But my question would be if any other INFP doesn't feel the emotion anger? I don't remember ever having done so...

7

Just be yourself makes me cringe whenever I hear it, especially when it is offered as serious advice. It's a passive-aggressive way of implying that the advice-receiver is somehow lacking without...

7

Coworker: Google is your friend. Me: My fist is your enemy.

6

I wish people were that cool where I'm going =(

3

Mkay, all women are liars and will eventually leave you for the first available, better looking, option. Now that we've got your subtext out in the open and a little more clearly defined. ...

4

Found out about MBTI during college. Was actually so not into it I actually forgot what result I had when I took the test back then. Reason why I got into it is because I was feeling lost and was...

3

lookslikeiwin thanks for that link about being a sensitive person. But just like with autism/aspergers, I still wonder how many of those traits can be independent of personality type. Of course,...

2

I just had an idea, and would like to see if it works out. I thought this would be an effective way for people to learn including myself. Can everyone find a positive and negative to something,...

5

I hope this is worth it.

10

First one I got: Ne (Extroverted Intuition) (100%) Te (Extroverted Thinking) (80%) Fi (Introverted Feeling) (75%) Ti (Introverted Thinking) (75%) Fe (Extroverted Feeling) (70%) Si...

3

Intelligence. Passion in what they do. Love of learning. Anyone who can make me think, alter my perspective on the world, or offer refreshing insights are actually the sexist people in the world to...

7

Yes. But that would just be its just deserts. :unsure:

15

Depends on the situation & there has to be a reason or end goal.

7

Yes, and confidence goes a long way, too.

6

. So... I guess the koala guy was projecting narcissism on me, and thinking of his experiences with his mum (I just noticed his thread about covert narcissism), which is rather unfair. I...

6

It's hard to not listen by your heart but it's probably something about having so many thoughts. When I talk to my friends I often feel the urge to hold back the truth since it could be hard for them...

3

6/10 It's funny!

2

Is nostalgia not limited to Si types? I am an INFJ, so obviously not. But what is giving me nostalgic feelings time to time?

4

Intimacy is the big one. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

11

This summer I spent five days in a foreign country having dialog only within my head, and with random local people who did not know me beforehand and whom I'll never meet again. It was incredibly...

7

Ah, the rush of crime.

3

Thanks!

2

No. It's not necessary and doesn't have a base in the original texts. Helen Faurve wrote about it based on some short studies then registered it as a copyright trademark. If you know anything about...

3

I agree about it being both. The basis is in nature, however it is amplified through nurture. For example, something I see with Fe users is that their familial situations either required Fe...

14

x93Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.x94 - Psalmu202c 42:5u202c Anxiety is coming at me again. I hate it yet...

6

cool I'm gonna start keeping track. Or maybe I should just copy this thread and make one in the INFP section. I'm sure enough people would respond :)

15

I'm confused here. I still don't see how it's not possible to meet with you and your mom separately. When he will be meeting her, she can pick him up and when he will be meeting you, you can pick him...

6

I usually stick to one or a few sexual partners at the same time, who I am also close friends with. But it happens that I come across some casual fling who I really click with and that's also great. ...