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I've wanted to be like my ISTP boyfriend in some ways but have always delighted in just being me. **Im just a wee bit different, giggles** Outside of that, I think we are starting to share traits....
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Haha awww! This is cute. :) The last time I saw one of my INFP friends, I wasn't expecting to see her, so when I did, I ran, gave her a hug, and literally knocked her down. I had to pull her back up....
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What the hell! Don't do this unless it's crucial! And don't let it ALWAYS be crucial. If anything don't do this to an FP. uggg. I secretly lose respect for my boss and start spending as much time...
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ENFP bruh. :D
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Indeed. While I find that I can usually separate myself from people enough, this (the sentences above) is where the fluidity of the INFJ lies. Vivid Melody shows why we constantly change below: ...
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“You kill a man, you kill every opportunity he ever had.” — Bill Murray quoting a Clint Eastwood movie, referring to the importance of staying present and living life to the fullest.
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Gotta teach you how to kiss the next time around, buddy.
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You should be
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Thank you :) and the avengers is shit compared to the Dark Knight Rises coming in June :)
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Thanks, it's a great show... I don't take anything you said as attacking, just initially startling. I absolutely did not mean to come off naïve, and yet I did in that infps have no moves...
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Well I guess I'm still getting the hang of standing up for myself and saying NO to a person now that I'm in my early twenties. When I was a teenager I never wanted to hurt anyones feelings and even...
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+ Because I'm not used to it. Openly talking about feelings and all that mushy stuff isn't how I was raised. Like, me and my siblings don't even say I love you to our parents and vice versa. Those...
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For example??:confused:
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Female ENTJ type 3 here, recently Totally Not Dating ENFP probably type 7. I love that he isn't scared of my enthusiasm for things and is super excited to learn and do things out of the ordinary....
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Welcome and just in case you may not know:
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But I do think that intuitives are also going to be more comfortable with grey areas of justice and morality - because of that ability to see multiple perspectives.
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Everything I've seen online about the two being ENFJ seems to stem from one website online, which probably analyzed the movie characters. I've actually watched both the series in the 1990s and the...
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He is productive in a Ni way. J single-minded Not squelched in school or at home 25 just married (don't tell me THAT is the reason!)
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Hope it helps: 72434
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My ability to find things boring without shame
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So, what's the flip side of this? If ENFJs are INFJs with social skills, then INFJs are ENFJs with ___________? BTW, your usage of apostrophes is incorrect in this context.
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Small Business Managemnt/Entrprenuership
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Just read your username and all I can say is Will you marry me?
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AWESOME! Fuck YEAH!:tongue:
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Hi INTJ :D
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How have your recent relationships turned out when you were in close proximity to the person?
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Well we can narrow it down to 3 possible options as far as I'm concerned. 1. His bs explanations are true and he is going through something and perhaps he was hoping sex would change things. ...
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Is it just me or do ALL these descriptions sound negative, for all of the SLOAN types? I am an ENFP(type 7 Sexual on the Enneagram) and got this: SLUAI (3.9% of women; 2.9% of men) easily...
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I wish people could be more bluntly honest. Politeness and hypocrisy are all too often mixed up; but please. Manners doesn't keep you from telling what you think. Cowardice does.
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My dislike of hugging isn't so much a dislike of being touched--some people give really good hugs. It's more a dislike of that awkward moment when you're trying to figure out whether there's a hug...
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the way the bird intonates that sounds like he learned the phrase from a woman...so more accurately Touchy boyfriends parrot
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I think I fell into this in my early 20's. I was into Gawd back then and if a topic came up not about Gawd then I didn't want to talk about it. I had no friends because I didn't want to waste my time...
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Yeah, I find sociopaths seem to have little difficulty holding onto grudges for long periods of time. I usually forget about anything I find distasteful within no time at all. And At the very...
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I have a friend who does this every two weeks or so. Then she talks, non-stop, for as long as I allow her to. I usually cut her off after 45 minutes or so. I think some people feel they need to...
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Usage lesson of the day: John Proctor might have been hung, but only Abigail Williams and Elizabeth Proctor would have known that. Instead, say John Proctor was hanged.
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I would like to open a modern design store and gift shop/ art gallery, selling unique and useful items that add a little joy to people's lives. I think it would be really fun travelling to...
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Had a discussion with the same ENTP friend mentioned two pages earlier. I said, Everything you hear is an opinion, not a fact and she like didn't get my point at all. She used the example Look at...
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Please don't spend any money on that unless you enjoy the games or you have seen it actually help someone. I haven't done much research on it but I don't think it does as much for your brain as they...
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Surprised to see a lot of doubt on the things, I expected t open this thread and every 2nd post be someone saying they at least thought it was a good chance of being real for most/all of the things...
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Barbecue beef brisket sandwich.
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In need of more food
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Hunny Bunny - Heeeyy I'm not exactly Christian but I'll still send my prayers out (: Hopefully things will get better soon! Keep your head up and remember to breath ^_^
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Ikusagami and @Stawker, Just going to go ahead and say it. You guys come off as trying to mansplain to us women what it's like to be a woman and how we should comport ourselves in situations...
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I had a really fantastical connection with an ESFJ, we bonded on a really deep level that felt so natural, almost eerily like I had known them forever. We felt totally comfortable around eachother...
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That you shouldn't build on a perfect image of someone in your head, because in reality they're far from it.
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Boy Name: Mikbert Girl Name: Mikbert yesssss
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There are these really good youtube videos. Look up Craig Calvert. He explains them really well with one of his buddies. Basically to summarize what they say- N vs S is all about how you take in...
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INTP Aries with moon in Aquarius. Not the same sun sign, but still a fire sign.
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Thanks for the suggestions guys, I've personally been using a schedule/todo list kind of strategy in order to stay on task. I plot out the day and give each task a time box, like 9:30 - 10:45, to...
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Not saying it's the majority or anything by a long shot. Just saying it's not like everyone is into sex and it's a 1 in 100,000 shot to find someone who isn't into it at all. We could actually use...
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I'm giving it a shot this year. I tried before once but couldn't finish. I started fresh yesterday and I'm basically working off the cuff. I can't really plan where a story is going to go ahead of...
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Big enough for company, and firm enough for bouncing. *suckles lollipop*
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@g_w Its good for her then cause I am a beast when it comes to the weights... shell be fine, gonna get her that squat booty since shes lean as hell already. We are together now... as long as...
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Edible Money
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Do you have any desire of being an actual mouse or having mouse-like physical characteristics? Or is this exclusively about your personality and behavior?
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for some female INFPs they don't pick you last for the team but at least they don't beat you up. usually.
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Then, what is the point of a monogamous (Im assuming from OP) relationship? Maybe I ask too much of people, maybe I'm too picky, but I'd rather be alone until something better comes along, then...
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Absolutely! but I'm 31 so I need to get over that- plus I can commit partially but there always needs to be something uncommitted- or space to move- plus I'm an extremely loyal and monogamous partner...
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There is no evidence, and there is no reason for us to think that there would be. I too love the stars, but I see astrology as a perversion of science and I do what I can to articulate to myself and...
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There seems to be little disagreement here. Thoughts?
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Sex. Lots of sex. Nerdy pick up line are awesome too. Worst? An illogical romantic gesture.
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They don't guilt trip me with puppy dog eyes and they don't demand attention 24/7. I like the fact that they are independent and have calm temperaments. If I have to love something conditionally, I...
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I'm an INFP I play on servers most of the time, but when I'm alone I can still do well. I generally build, and try to farm animals. I hate to kill animals, especially bunnies. Though nonetheless...
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I think it depends on the individual more so than their type, I believe. I know that despite being an introvert, I can sometimes fall into the well of introspecting too much to the point where my own...
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Communication + kicking their ass! :kitteh:
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I got Visual-8, Kineasthetic-5, and Auditory-3. But I'm not sure if I'm really K>V>A.
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Four years ago I met this guy online and I did not like him at first because he seemed like a crazy, emotional screw up. Eventually I got around to actually talking to him and I found out he's a...
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Hi ShyViolet, thanks for sharing... I am having a very similar experience right now (depression, feeling isolated from my church community - this is for several reasons but lots of close friends...
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Telling people what to do. Supervision Relationships. Saying what you don't want to hear. Both ends. Even if you're right.
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^This. InMediasRes He's probably REALLY taken you for granted. You put up with him for 3 years? Uhm... Congratulations? Don't know what to say... But do try to leave him alone and give him some...
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First let me say I love the Hunchback of Notre Dame. I'm listening to the soundtrack right now, which is what gave me the idea for this thread. I'm wondering if Hunchback was really a good idea...
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Yes indeed.... wth.
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Sign up for things, clubs, events, etc. Volunteer somewhere. Get in shape, go running, lift weights. Buy/take out books on what you're interested in. See if you can shadow someone with a career...
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Your temperament is melancholic / choleric.
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Biggest Flaw: I am incredibly insensitive and uncaring at the worst possible times. Biggest Strength: I have a pretty good work ethic, I get stuff done when it needs to be done and I do it well and...
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There's one more thing I forgot to mention. There is an effect that I don't recall the name of, but you may want to poke around for it online. There have been a few studies and a book or two about...
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grr I have this problem too. Talking to people happens to be one of the things I'm worst at yet need the most to stay balanced and stimulated ): But recently I took a risk and went to a rally...
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Hey! ( ´ ▽ ` )ノ I'm from Ireland too!! I'm 20 btw. Welcome to the forums:D
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I am a critical and judgmental INFP vocal about moral issues.
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I'm an entrepreneur! its just ebay but its enough for me to not get a boring real life job :) uhh Idk if personality has much to do with it, I just saw an opportunity and ran with it. Most people...
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I have been in the same situation before! Within a few weeks of meeting each other he wanted to know everything about me..He told me he was falling for me within like a week. And at night, he would...
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It's all about that Fi and that Te...dynamite.
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I see. I do all of each, so that's probably why I find raves fitting. Reasonably, you would not, and likewise, you wouldn't want someone who wasn't similar to you in their preference of drugs and...
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Can ENFPs be stubborn about something they believe in strongly? I don't have too many of those moments, and I don't usually immediately know how I feel about something.. but when I do pinpoint my...
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I do my best work under EXTREME pressure. And that can be dealing with anything as long as its drastic, last second, and life alteringly necessary. I basically turn on when I'm under that kind of...
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Here's a bit of Rowan Atkinson.
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I couldn't travel alone. I have to share my excitement and experiences with someone. I can eat alone at a restaurant, because there's nothing to really experience AND I can read. But traveling and...
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I often feel this way INTJs...
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Seconding @Hurricane, I'm bad at expressing affection. When I'm getting to know someone, I keep my feelings to myself and act neutral. Cool cucumber right here; I've got my poker face down pat. And...
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Veronica Mars (in the first season of that show) And, I wouldn't want to be like her, but the Marquise de Merteuil in Les Liasons Dangereuses.In my opinion, none of the film versions capture quite...
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5-8-4 Character limit.
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Well if you have watched it you probably know who (the extremely dreamy) Terry Grandchester is!Turns out, I'm having the hardest time typing him! Really, he doesn't seem to fit into any personality...
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Maybe I'm going to take on politeness. Because I lie, and sometimes I cheat, but not steal. I can be compassionate at times too. When I use my Fi, it's usually being true to what I want. Or maybe I...
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The new film Passengers, a dream film for the introvert. As for being alone I work with people in a team but at weekends or a week off the most converaation I usually get is with the pizza delivery...
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Not really...cool avatar by the way
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There seems to be this pervasive stereotype that Americans are obnoxious and rude, but this is untrue. My sister's friend and her mother visited us from Sweden and they were quite stunned at how kind...
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Of course you don't change. It's more like, you choose not to wear green, so the people at the party devalue what you have to say, rationalize violence against non-green shirted people in your...
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I'm definitely the intellectual, with a dusting of special snowflake and a little of the overstressed when I'm...overstressed. I don't know that I ever get mistaken for an NT, but I do tend to...
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After all this time, this thread is still going strong. ^^ Stick with ISFP.