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Hmm. So. I've been messaging this ENFJ guy now for three weeks straight and things are going rather well. We both initiate conversations, we message each other pretty much constantly, he asks lots...
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Don't have that line, either. Well, I was skeptic about it, too. But an online friend of mine (we have never met, yet) did a reading only by looking at photos of my hands and still was...
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Yeah... that's like those minimum possible investment people (MPIs). They're so busy either trying to portray something about themselves, or just meet the minimum interaction goal, that they fling...
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Here's my ENFJ playlist if anyone wants to have a listen! I have one for all the NF types. I'm an INFP personally, so...
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- People who won't say thank you even in little things. I can't stand them and, unfortunately, I encounter these kind of people every day. - Loud people who don't have any nice and intelligent...
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Aw thank you. Except I don't particularly prefer being lumped in with a million other ENFP's >.>
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What are ISTPs take on LDR? Do you guys think you could possibly go with it? Why?
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This is a spectacular response. Thank you Poptart.
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Lawyer! At some point, I genuinely wanted to be a popstar. Then I grew up and decided to become a lawyer. It's perfect. You get to perform on the job, it's more stable than being a performer,...
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Student Learning and the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator the last paragraph under teaching intuitive students. But I've come accross different sources stating more or less the same idea. (also a...
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Haha, yeah. That's Fi for you. If we have positive feelings about you, they're strong and we'll go to great lengths for you, because you're super important. The people we care about can sometimes...
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Medium-rare or rare. I'm not that picky about it.
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I get really scared. I feel like I'm not worthy of their love, even thought I DO have feelings for them. I get stuck. You're not alone :)
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This is an INFJ forum. This thread should be in the hundreds by now. ;)
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English is my native language. But I speak German, and a little Latin. I can understand (or get the gist of, anyway) French and Dutch eBay auctions though if I really try.
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You said you don't like to play with emotions. Do you toy with others to feed your ego ? I'm wondering if I'm some sort of toy.
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Thank you - my husband has lost that much too, it certainly feels nice to make some progress on something anyway. Yes, we are all beautiful in our own ways :D I have just always loved Gwyneth as an...
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To guys : Does it matter if your significant other is older or taller than you? While I've only dated girls younger than me, I don't think it'd be a problem if they were older. As for taller I...
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Zalithian I can't even begin to grasp what you're going thru. I think CuritadeRana is on to something, the change of scene. Maybe try to meditate outside. The only thing I can do is send you some...
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ain37 Greetings and salutations! You've made the right choice, this forum is just lovely =D
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Yeah, as a feeler this is your first instinct. However, it is exactly the wrong thing to do. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES PLAY NURTURER WITH HIM UNTIL THIS IS RESOLVED. It will only drive him...
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i don't want to sound flatulent or anything, but usually i can predict someone's type after speaking with them for a short period of time. this is because i have been practicing for a few years. my...
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I do this too often. To postpone feeling, I just go off and do something awesome. And then something else awesome. Or front. Etc. (Barney from HIMYM really exemplifies this) Those rare times...
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Here's a new Prof. song just for you.
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This is truly a great speech and a great message. I am glad that there are other people with their eyes open.
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Okay, I posted the same thing in the INFP forum but I want your opinions as well:P So here's the thing... I've studied the functions (and I believe this is the best and really the only...
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Yeah, I do the same thing. Being around people who treat every event like an emotional maelstrom drain me. (And I find it hard to take someone seriously who acts as though *everything* is a BFD. No,...
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I agree if by bitch you mean my favorite character.
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Normal hug: Stranger hugs INFJ: INFJ stiffens and starts to panic internally while trying to understand to motifs of the stranger. Friend hugs INFJ: INFJ hugs the friend back. Best friend hugs...
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Pandora finding of the week... it's great!! on repeat :)
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I have a lot of hard days that make me really question my abilities as a mom, friend, and person in general. Today, the stars have aligned. I love my kids and I can tell they love me, I've helped...
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Hmm... so from what I can make of it, to find out what type of iNtuition you use, you must find which function accompanies it and make up your profile? But how does one decide whether they use Ti...
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@blackguard I really don't feel this is the right way... I'd rather advise trying to... erm, it feels wrong to say it as an INTJ in the INTJ subforum, but... :unsure: like, understand your...
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If others are finding it boring yet it is something you enjoy, I suggest you start journaling. It sounds a lot like what I write daily. I enjoy going back and reading what happened a year ago,...
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I am clearly at some sort of crossroads in my life. I can't believe that it is possible that I don't have a single person IRL that I am really close to. Nobody with whom I physically visit, anyway....
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Please excuse my ignorance - but I am a little confused by the sometimes various conflicting information I receive about the extroverted confidence/unconfidence of ENTPs. I read that they are bold...
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Probably has to do with how a 9 (although not only 9s of course) could possibly commit ''evil'' acts just by going with the motions and not really introspecting on what they're doing. The emptiness...
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Hey everybody. I know that ENTP's can tend to be the most introverted extrovert. (Or as I like to put it, the most misunderstood extrovert.) We tend to be extroverted, that is, we are recharged by...
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Most of the trans community shoots themselves in the foot by being too accepting. The concepts of gender being entirely a social construct is a joke, and saying gender identity is merely a choice is...
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well there are different levels of maturity. on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being most mature, i'm about a 3 when it comes to wimmins
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That is so, so interesting! What about her warm, affectionate nature though? Can you see her having Fi? But I've never thought of that and I think I really might agree.
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What started as an intellectual boxing match has turned into a full on social war. This has been interesting, I think I'll just creep back into my corner and continue watching from afar.
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In fact abused people often tend to: 1- Hate sex at all it forms, or 2- develop masochist tendencies. The movie Belle de jour, 1968, by Louis Bunuel is about a woman who was molested as a child,...
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Haha. Maybe, but I am not getting close enough to find out. ;) Kaetastrophe Good for you. I know it is sometimes hard to stand up to bigoted people. What tends to work for me is to acknowledge...
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I saw a great Japanese movie years ago called Ikiru It was about a man dying of cancer. He lived his whole life going through the motions but when he learns he is dying he tries to live with...
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INTP, but with only a mild Introversion. I got 100% in Introversion and let me tell you, not fun at all. I'd want my kid to understand me, question things for themself but still be able to enjoy...
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My reasons are irrelevant. The information is what matters. I'm not hoping to get anything out of this thread, just throwing out thoughts. That's what internet forums are for, aren't they, or must...
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Haha, these actually made me laugh! :) I've got the biggest thing for beards though
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That's so awesome I don't have words to describe it. The Einstein logo is classic. So is Darwin. So is...
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Hell no, we NEED some really hateful and evil Nines. :ninja:
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Just the one, which is even more sad considering some of the responses here. Lol. I'm not overly worried/interested in it though. I'm kinda losing an interest. If I'm supposed to, I will and if...
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76% Real:
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I don't know where else to go so let's try asking here. I have been in a long-distance relationship for more than 3 years now. He has been depressed this entire time and pretty much only shows joy...
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Hahaa.. I guess this doesn't really apply to me then... I am currently dating an ENFJ.. And I love her very muchly!!! :wink:
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My 'goal' if you can call it that, is to take life easy and be content with myself. For example my job has the potential to earn a significant amount of money from overtime, however from observing...
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Thanks. :) Edit: I just realized I said thanks twice, but I don't know how to delete one, so oh well.
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Wait what was that part about about rejecting and getting even more on my tail. The last thing I want is more attention which makes everyone ask more questions about me... What have I done!
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Yes, he is considerably younger than I am and letting go is my only option. I have fond memories and he will always be in my heart. It is so hard though. I'm in a lot of pain.
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I overloaded last semester, and was drinking coke, coffee, sugars all the time to try and stay revved up (& sometimes beers to try n rev down). I've cut all that, plus starches. I'd never heard that...
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If you click the smiley waving face at the top, you'll see your posting, activity stats and points at the top of the page. If you scroll down, you'll see that some forums will have text under them,...
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I really want to quit life for a few months and through hike the appellation trail. I also dream of biking coast to coast. After that I want to design a permaculture farm and try to live off of the...
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Dear xNTx, Talk nerdy to me. :wink: <3 Cordially, INTP
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He seems completely clueless about girls liking him. And he is pretty caring. I'm in a situation with this guy who keeps asking me to have an affair and he's pretty upset with it. Texting in caps...
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Turn into an ISTJ for the day (unless the interview is to be a firefighter or something): prepare, dress appropriately, play the game
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You have to work on yourself before you can really be present in a relationship with another. My advice would be to take this time apart to improve on your living situation and your mental and...
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Agreed! I am such a dork! Very awkward! I want to be with someone who accepts the fact that I am a little odd, and one who thinks its cute....not someone who is embarrassed about it in front of...
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I wonder whether it is just me or some of you guys feel similar/same way. Of course, most of us care about their close people no matter the kind of relationship occurs between them but some people...
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I do have a role and a purpose, but I don't think they necessarily define me, or, at least, none of them define me fully. I think the Giver description resonated well. However, some other...
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Arzazar Szubrasznikarazar If you genuinely want a better life and not just to berate life and other people and deepen your suffering (and extend it to others, at minimum your family), you're going to...
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Dear Anonymous, I think you're being a selfish ass.
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I am working toward my Masters in Philosophy my concentration being Aesthetics, the study of beauty and art. I am also working toward become a certified teacher and wish to become a college...
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We have learned a lot about our patterns over the past couple of years. I had kind of a rough relationship with my brother. This resulted in me shutting people down when conversations got too...
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Either you have: 1. Typed the ISFPs as ESFP because they seem extroverted. 2. Wrongly assumed that ESFP=ESFp. No one can guarantee that, but ESFJ almost always is ESFj, it just happens haha. ...
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Anywhere. I can be found in STEM clubs, poetry meetings, volunteering events, political offices, etc. If you find someone cracking jokes to friends and looking slightly drunk in a nonalcoholic...
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I have Insomnia, and I get stressful when waiting too much time in places I don't really like.
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I'm not referring to your statement--I was talking about the reason why you replied with that statement..I don't not need this in my life right now lol. So if I was unclear. My bad.
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Thank you all for your cordial responses. Much love
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Have you had negative experiences with him drinking in the past? My parents are heavy drinkers as well. Whenever they drink, I feel extremely well. I think you could be absorbing his emotions as...
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Hahaha, I had an INTP do that to me once. But it wasn't random, it was after a good debate. *smirks*
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So do you think your mom's primary motivator is feelings or principles? My guess is feelings (just hidden under a tough exterior), but I don't even know her. ;]
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Pretty much this.[/QUOTE] The consensus is pretty clear.
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This is something I had to learn in order to pass. Start saying Good morning, Goodbye and Have a nice weekend. Insert it into your routine. It makes a difference because even if you don't...
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I'm trying to see if I can find any correlation between the 8 letters and stubbornness.
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Dear R, I know you'll probably never read this, and surprisingly I'm okay with that. I don't regard you as my father. Father's are supposed to care about their children, and nurture them to be...
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Okay then thanks :)
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My advice is to study everything that excites you. While you're in university, it's a great time to take a class on everything that remotely interests you - eventually one of these fields will stand...
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Not living in the US, I took the opportunity to point out that the media (and most people) ignored the bombings in Iraq which killed ten times as many people. And that it was probably time to ask why...
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Most days I can just barely tolerate people. Yeah I'd even go so far as to say 50% of people make me feel like smashing something.
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Nobody knows an ESTP better than an INFJ
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What's going on in here? I'm bald and started shaving my head a long, long time ago. It's not so bad.
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i tried once and i thought i was gonna die my heart was beating so fast that i was convinced it was gonna explode and i measured my blood pressure and it was crazy high ill never try it again it...
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I highly recommend getting some real clinical experience. This was an eye opener for me and should be for you as well. Personally I love teaching and tutoring (and would find tough, weird psych...
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Maybe if I'll post once again (and possibly answer, if anyone has questions for me) and I'll then delete my account from PerC, because I am utterly embarrassed about all this commotion. I started to...
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Lol! ;) (Could be...it's strikingly similar to arguments I've had with IxTPs.) But what's funny to me is that your post is pretty classic aux Fe. :D Oh, believe me, I agree that his behavior...
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I can't wait to graduate from uni next spring so I can get my own kitty (or two)! My mom claims she's allergic and I can't have one on campus :'[
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Agreed on being old enough. He's just a really sensitive kid. I guess just curious on approach. She had a stroke and fell down stairs last night. He knows there was an accident but the decision was...
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Everyday is a reminder of how different I think and feel. I wake up positive and ready but I just get let down by the end of the day. I try new things but I end up in the same funk. I talk to...
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Thank you for your advice Mademoiselle Wonderland. Whether it's hard to hear or not, I needed to hear it, and I'm very thankful. But I can't say i'm going to give it up that easily!! I will keep...