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We have found that God does not make too hard terms with
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those who seek Him. To us, the Realm of Spirit is broad,
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roomy, all inclusive, never exclusive or forbidding to those
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who earnestly seek. It is open, we believe, to all men.
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A New Life
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Is sobriety all that we are to expect of a spiritual awakening?
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No, sobriety is only a bare beginning; it is only the first gift of
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the first awakening. If more gifts are to be received, our
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awakening has to go on. As it does go on, we find that bit by
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bit we can discard the old life -- the one that did not work --
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for a new life that can and does work under any conditions
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whatever.
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Regardless of worldly success or failure, regardless of pain
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or joy, regardless of sickness or health or even of death
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itself, a new life of endless possibilities can be lived if we are
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willing to continue our awakening, through the practice of
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A.A.'s Twelve Steps.
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GRAPEVINE, DECEMBER 1957
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Group and World-Wide Community
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The moment Twelfth Step work forms a group, a discovery is
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made -- that most individuals cannot recover unless there is
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a group. Realization dawns on each member that he is but a
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small part of a great whole; that no personal sacrifice is too
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great for preservation of the Fellowship. He learns that the
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clamor of desires and ambitions within him must be silenced
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whenever these could damage the group.
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It becomes plain that the group must survive or the
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individual will not.
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"The Lone member at sea, the A.A. at war in a far land -- all
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these members know that they belong to A.A.'s world-wide
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community, that theirs is only a physical separation, that
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their fellows may be as near as the next port of call. Ever so
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importantly, they are certain that God's grace is just as much
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with them on the high seas or the lonely outpost as it is with
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them at home."
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Out of the Dark
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Self-searching is the means by which we bring new vision,
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action, and grace to bear upon the dark and negative side of
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our natures. With it comes the development of that kind of
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humility that makes it possible for us to receive God's help.
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Yet it is only a step. We will want to go further.
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We will want the good that is in us all, even in the worst of
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us, to flower and to grow. But first of all we shall want
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sunlight; nothing much can grow in the dark. Meditation is
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our step out into the sun.
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"A clear light seems to fall upon us all -- when we open our
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eyes. Since our blindness is caused by our own defects, we
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must first deeply realize what they are. Constructive
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meditation is the first requirement for each new step in our
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spiritual growth."
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Quantity or Quality
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"About this slip business -- I would not be too discouraged. I
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think you are suffering a great deal from a needless guilt. For
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some reason or other, the Lord has laid out tougher paths for
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some of us, and I guess you are treading one of them. God is
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not asking us to be successful. He is only asking us to tgy to
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be. That, you surely are doing, and have been doing. So I
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would not stay away from A.A. through any feeling of
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discouragement or shame. It's just the place you should be.
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Why don't you try just as a member? You don't have to cargy
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the whole A.A. on your back, you know!
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"It is not always the quantity of good things that you do, it is
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also the quality that counts.
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"Above all, take it one day at a time."
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Seeking Fool's Gold
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Pride is the basic breeder of most human difficulties, the
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chief block to true progress. Pride lures us into making
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demands upon ourselves or upon others which cannot be
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met without perverting or misusing our God-given instincts.
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When the satisfaction ofour instincts for sex, security, and a
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place in society becomes the primary object of our lives, the
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pride steps in to justify our excesses.
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I may attain "humility for today" only to the extent that I am
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able to avoid the bog of guilt and rebellion on one hand and,
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on the other hand, that fair but deceiving land which is
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strewn with the fool's-gold coins of pride. This is how I can
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find and stay on the highroad of humility, which lies between
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these extremes. Therefore, a constant inventory which can
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reveal when I am off the road is always in order.
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The Shared Gift
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A.A. is more than a set of principles; it is a society of
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alcoholics in action. We must carry the message, else we
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ourselves can wither and those who haven't been given the
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truth may die.
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Faith is more than our greatest gift; its sharing with others is
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our greatest responsibility. May we of A.A. continually seek
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the wisdom and the willingness by which we may well fulfill
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that immense trust which the Giver of all perfect gifts has
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placed in our hands.
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Newcomer Problems
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The temptation is to become rather possessive of
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newcomers. Perhaps we try to give them advice about their
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affairs which we aren't really competent to give or ought not
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give at all. Then we are hurt and confused when the advice is
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rejected, or when it is accepted and brings still greater
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confusion.
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"You can't make a horse drink water if he still prefers beer or
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is to crazy to know what he does want. Set a pail of water
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beside him, tell him how good it is and why, and leave him
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alone.
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