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We have found that God does not make too hard terms with |
those who seek Him. To us, the Realm of Spirit is broad, |
roomy, all inclusive, never exclusive or forbidding to those |
who earnestly seek. It is open, we believe, to all men. |
A New Life |
Is sobriety all that we are to expect of a spiritual awakening? |
No, sobriety is only a bare beginning; it is only the first gift of |
the first awakening. If more gifts are to be received, our |
awakening has to go on. As it does go on, we find that bit by |
bit we can discard the old life -- the one that did not work -- |
for a new life that can and does work under any conditions |
whatever. |
Regardless of worldly success or failure, regardless of pain |
or joy, regardless of sickness or health or even of death |
itself, a new life of endless possibilities can be lived if we are |
willing to continue our awakening, through the practice of |
A.A.'s Twelve Steps. |
GRAPEVINE, DECEMBER 1957 |
Group and World-Wide Community |
The moment Twelfth Step work forms a group, a discovery is |
made -- that most individuals cannot recover unless there is |
a group. Realization dawns on each member that he is but a |
small part of a great whole; that no personal sacrifice is too |
great for preservation of the Fellowship. He learns that the |
clamor of desires and ambitions within him must be silenced |
whenever these could damage the group. |
It becomes plain that the group must survive or the |
individual will not. |
"The Lone member at sea, the A.A. at war in a far land -- all |
these members know that they belong to A.A.'s world-wide |
community, that theirs is only a physical separation, that |
their fellows may be as near as the next port of call. Ever so |
importantly, they are certain that God's grace is just as much |
with them on the high seas or the lonely outpost as it is with |
them at home." |
Out of the Dark |
Self-searching is the means by which we bring new vision, |
action, and grace to bear upon the dark and negative side of |
our natures. With it comes the development of that kind of |
humility that makes it possible for us to receive God's help. |
Yet it is only a step. We will want to go further. |
We will want the good that is in us all, even in the worst of |
us, to flower and to grow. But first of all we shall want |
sunlight; nothing much can grow in the dark. Meditation is |
our step out into the sun. |
"A clear light seems to fall upon us all -- when we open our |
eyes. Since our blindness is caused by our own defects, we |
must first deeply realize what they are. Constructive |
meditation is the first requirement for each new step in our |
spiritual growth." |
Quantity or Quality |
"About this slip business -- I would not be too discouraged. I |
think you are suffering a great deal from a needless guilt. For |
some reason or other, the Lord has laid out tougher paths for |
some of us, and I guess you are treading one of them. God is |
not asking us to be successful. He is only asking us to tgy to |
be. That, you surely are doing, and have been doing. So I |
would not stay away from A.A. through any feeling of |
discouragement or shame. It's just the place you should be. |
Why don't you try just as a member? You don't have to cargy |
the whole A.A. on your back, you know! |
"It is not always the quantity of good things that you do, it is |
also the quality that counts. |
"Above all, take it one day at a time." |
Seeking Fool's Gold |
Pride is the basic breeder of most human difficulties, the |
chief block to true progress. Pride lures us into making |
demands upon ourselves or upon others which cannot be |
met without perverting or misusing our God-given instincts. |
When the satisfaction ofour instincts for sex, security, and a |
place in society becomes the primary object of our lives, the |
pride steps in to justify our excesses. |
I may attain "humility for today" only to the extent that I am |
able to avoid the bog of guilt and rebellion on one hand and, |
on the other hand, that fair but deceiving land which is |
strewn with the fool's-gold coins of pride. This is how I can |
find and stay on the highroad of humility, which lies between |
these extremes. Therefore, a constant inventory which can |
reveal when I am off the road is always in order. |
The Shared Gift |
A.A. is more than a set of principles; it is a society of |
alcoholics in action. We must carry the message, else we |
ourselves can wither and those who haven't been given the |
truth may die. |
Faith is more than our greatest gift; its sharing with others is |
our greatest responsibility. May we of A.A. continually seek |
the wisdom and the willingness by which we may well fulfill |
that immense trust which the Giver of all perfect gifts has |
placed in our hands. |
Newcomer Problems |
The temptation is to become rather possessive of |
newcomers. Perhaps we try to give them advice about their |
affairs which we aren't really competent to give or ought not |
give at all. Then we are hurt and confused when the advice is |
rejected, or when it is accepted and brings still greater |
confusion. |
"You can't make a horse drink water if he still prefers beer or |
is to crazy to know what he does want. Set a pail of water |
beside him, tell him how good it is and why, and leave him |
alone. |