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good how are you?	2gt
I'm doing well. Thanks for asking.	2gt
Last week you were talking in therapy?	1irq
Yeah. I mean, I thought a lot more about it this week after I mentioned it last week, but but Jill was telling you about Jill, a co worker. And, you know, she was kind of bothered me the past couple weeks, but really, this this past week was like the worst, right? So she's not doing her paperwork. And the thing is, is that she has to do these reports in order for me to do my reports. So if she doesn't have hers, I can't do mine. And then I can't get mine out in time for the next person to do theirs and it's a mess. The whole thing's a mess. And it's just it's annoying.	0id
So her work slow down, or not being efficient work is affecting your work productivity.	3gc
Yeah. Yeah, it definitely is. And it it's one of those things that like,	7ack
you know, has, it gives me a bad	0id
a bad evaluation, you know, like, if I'm not in my stuff in in time, the number reflects negatively on me, you know, and it's it's all kind of she's she's the first level, you know, and then all the other levels are kind of dependent on her turning things in on time. So she doesn't, then I don't then the next person and so forth, and it makes it seem	0id
like you're not doing her job,	0id
right? Yeah. And my boss doesn't like it. my boss's boss doesn't like and so forth. You know, and I try to explain them. You know, she's the problem, but it doesn't always I don't always have the time to go up and tell them like, here's what's happening or just somehow it doesn't Now,	0id
you don't always get the opportunity to tell people that are important at your work about the situation.	5yq
Yeah. And that's pretty annoying too. Because,	7ack
you know, it's one thing if people get mad at me, but then I'm able to tell them why I'm not doing my job, like I'm supposed to. But it's another thing for them to get mad at me. Not realizing it's not my fault.	0id
You know, you have an explanation for why that works.	4crq
So you're feeling stuck with this whole thing?	1irq
Yeah. Yeah, I mean,	7ack
I talked to Joe a little bit about it, too. You know, and I tried to ask, I tried to kind of gently reminding her, you know, like, such and such needs to be turned in by Tuesday at 12 o'clock. I didn't want to be real abrasive, you know, but I, I tried to remind him as a polite approach. Yeah. Yeah. And it didn't didn't really seem to work because it's still happening. You know,	0id
your attempt to fix the problem hasn't really worked the way you want.	4crq
It really hasn't. And, and that's just, I feel like I've tried everything that I could try.	6cd
You know, and even like, I came home and I	6cd
was talking to a friend about it, and	6cd
I was trying to think of other solutions, right. You know, I was trying to think like, what else I could do what else I could say. Who else I could talk to things like that. You know, and my friend, you know, you He was listening and stuff. He had some good suggestions, but he didn't know what to do either like cuz he doesn't know the way the company works.	6cd
So like, I got nothing. You're not getting the help you need for this.	6cd
Yeah, not at all feeling pretty lost with it. And I wish there was just like a	6cd
clear way to do things like this is what you should do now. And I don't see anything some	6cd
sort of clear plan.	5yq
Yeah, yeah.	7ack
But yeah, I don't	9on
I don't see a way to go about it. I mean I've so I've Okay, so this is the way I laid out in my mind. I tried talking to the people above me didn't work out the way I thought it would. I tried talking to the people below me so to speak, just lower on the before me in the process. That's what I mean. And that didn't work out which is just Jill and I talked to her and that didn't work.	0id
So like, there's nowhere else I could turn.	0id
The options are exhausted.	10od
Yeah, that's what it seems like to me.	7ack
And this is frustrating for you.	3gc
There's no other avenue.	0id
It sort of seems like to me Yeah. I mean, that's	7ack
and you know, as I'm even trying to think like,	3gc
I don't know, should I Write a letter to somebody maybe. But I don't even know who or what	3gc
you thought about a letter.	1irq
But who would you send it to?	1irq
Yeah.	7ack
Or like just something else that I can I can do instead of going to this person though to that person that didn't work.	0id
Can I can I	0id
call somebody is there anybody else in the company that you know might handle stuff like that? But I mean, there's there's HR people, but	0id
I can't really see where they could come in. I don't know how human resources could deal with something like that.	0id
You don't view them as a potential solution.	4crq
Wondering if there's like a	6cd
But there's I mean, I'm thinking now that there's gotta be something or somebody, or somewhere that I could put in, like, almost like a complaint or something like, something's out of my hands. And I don't know what to do about it, but there's got to be something. And now that I'm saying this, I'm thinking that there's got to be	6cd
some other resource you haven't tried yet.	1irq
Yeah, yeah.	7ack
I mean, now I'm trying to think back to my training, you know, initially	0id
you know, maybe there's, you know what, I think now that I'm, now that I'm thinking a little bit harder about a little bit differently about it. I'm thinking that there's like, man, I forget what they call it now, but maybe like a complaint but It's not the right word, but maybe a complaint box or like suggestions or something. And I think, if I remember correctly, those suggestions and those complaints get brought up at every staff meeting, which we have, like every other week.	0id
They're discussed at this regular meeting.	3gc
Yeah. And I'm thinking now, I mean, nobody really uses it. But I'm thinking like, maybe that's an avenue that I can use, you know, like, maybe that'll get brought up. And maybe that's something that that might actually work.	3gc
This could be another option for you.	11orq
Yeah, it could be. And then if it does work, it'll get brought rather if they do read it, it'll get brought up at the staff meeting. where everybody's at my boss, my boss's boss, Jill, everybody's there. And maybe that's a way for it to come to most attention. That deadlines being missed, affect other people in ways that you don't really know about.	10od
So everyone will hear your complaint	3gc
and maybe react in a way to help you maybe.	3gc
Yeah, I think that's, I mean, that's gotta be the way to do it. And maybe that's the best way. I really think. Yeah, I mean, after saying all that, and after going through that, I really think that that's probably the best way to do it. And if it doesn't, then I guess I can find another way. But I really think that's the best way to do it.	3gc
You feel as though you found an option here?	1irq
Yeah. Yeah. And even if that doesn't work, then it'll be brought up. And maybe it'll allow me to talk to my boss further about it. And maybe I'll understand really where I'm coming from. But this will at least be a start to something you know, to make me a lot less stressed with deadlines and stuff in	0id
your first Started with all this.	4crq
Yeah. But maybe, maybe after I do that, you know, put in the complaint or suggestion.	6cd
Maybe I won't be as frustrated.	6cd
I mean, I'm feeling a little less frustrated now. Even thinking if there is another option.	6cd
It feels better now as you're contemplating and another potential Avenue here.	3gc
Yeah. Yeah, that's,	7ack
well, this might be a good place to wrap this session up.	2gt
That feels like the right.	2gt
Move for you. Yeah. And we'll schedule See you next week. And we can pick up from there. Sounds good. All right. Cool. Next car. Thank you.	2gt
Okay.	7ack
And before we go over any of that I really wanted to find out from you how things are going and what you're concerned about.	1irq
Well, I mean, I'm, I'm curious about them because I haven't been very well, right. I haven't been very, very well. I've been last week I threw up some blood.	0id
Is that the first time that's happened?	1irq
Yeah, the first time. I mean, I threw up blood last weekend then. Again, yesterday. So there's something bad going on. I know there's something bad going	0id
What do you think is going	1irq
what cancer right I think I probably have cancer i'm not i'm not doing very well I just look headaches and I was just	0id
let's try to figure some of this out. Okay. When you said you were throwing up blubbery, throwing up bright red blood and was it like little spots, big spots?	1irq
It was a it was almost filling a toilet wasn't that much. I wasn't like that it was enough that I could see it in the toilet, and I was throwing up.	0id
And did did you have any other symptoms?	1irq
Well, I was feeling sick. So and I had headaches and I, you know, I've got,	0id
what time of day was this?	1irq
I have headaches a lot	0id
throughout the day, throwing up the blood	4crq
that was in the morning and then again,	6cd
the other time it was sort of later in the day, but I	6cd
you know, I also wake up in the middle of the night and I'm just covered in sweat. I know that's another cancer thing.	6cd
Actually, just before I came here,	0id
okay, so that was earlier this morning. All right, what did you have?	1irq
I had orange juice and I had some vodka in it. It's the only thing actually that like steadies me enough to get out the door. I don't ever go out that often. But right now,	0id
so tell me how it helps you.	1irq
It's just studies me studies me like I'm, you know, I'm shaking all the time. I'm just like,	0id
So over the course of the day, in order to study yourself in order to feel calmer. How many drinks do you end up having?	1irq
Five? Hmm, maybe	0id
singles or doubles?	1irq
I don't measure	0id
right. So is it mainly vodka	3gc
Sometimes if I'm feeling really like my stomach is really upset, I'll drink cider. So that's its cider or vodka because	3gc
and you ever get that feeling in the morning that some people describe that they wake up feeling so edgy. They need a drink to calm down. Yeah. It's like the only thing that works for me. Anything that works, too. So in the past week, do you think you've been drinking more?	1irq
In the last week? Not so much in the last couple of weeks maybe?	4crq
Hasn't been daily. Oh, yeah. Right. So the longest you've gone without a drink in the last month would be how long?	6cd

good how are you?

2gt

I'm doing well. Thanks for asking.

2gt

Last week you were talking in therapy?

1irq

Yeah. I mean, I thought a lot more about it this week after I mentioned it last week, but but Jill was telling you about Jill, a co worker. And, you know, she was kind of bothered me the past couple weeks, but really, this this past week was like the worst, right? So she's not doing her paperwork. And the thing is, is that she has to do these reports in order for me to do my reports. So if she doesn't have hers, I can't do mine. And then I can't get mine out in time for the next person to do theirs and it's a mess. The whole thing's a mess. And it's just it's annoying.

0id

So her work slow down, or not being efficient work is affecting your work productivity.

3gc

Yeah. Yeah, it definitely is. And it it's one of those things that like,

7ack

you know, has, it gives me a bad

0id

a bad evaluation, you know, like, if I'm not in my stuff in in time, the number reflects negatively on me, you know, and it's it's all kind of she's she's the first level, you know, and then all the other levels are kind of dependent on her turning things in on time. So she doesn't, then I don't then the next person and so forth, and it makes it seem

0id

like you're not doing her job,

0id

right? Yeah. And my boss doesn't like it. my boss's boss doesn't like and so forth. You know, and I try to explain them. You know, she's the problem, but it doesn't always I don't always have the time to go up and tell them like, here's what's happening or just somehow it doesn't Now,

0id

you don't always get the opportunity to tell people that are important at your work about the situation.

5yq

Yeah. And that's pretty annoying too. Because,

7ack

you know, it's one thing if people get mad at me, but then I'm able to tell them why I'm not doing my job, like I'm supposed to. But it's another thing for them to get mad at me. Not realizing it's not my fault.

0id

You know, you have an explanation for why that works.

4crq

So you're feeling stuck with this whole thing?

1irq

Yeah. Yeah, I mean,

7ack

I talked to Joe a little bit about it, too. You know, and I tried to ask, I tried to kind of gently reminding her, you know, like, such and such needs to be turned in by Tuesday at 12 o'clock. I didn't want to be real abrasive, you know, but I, I tried to remind him as a polite approach. Yeah. Yeah. And it didn't didn't really seem to work because it's still happening. You know,

0id

your attempt to fix the problem hasn't really worked the way you want.

4crq

It really hasn't. And, and that's just, I feel like I've tried everything that I could try.

6cd

You know, and even like, I came home and I

6cd

was talking to a friend about it, and

6cd

I was trying to think of other solutions, right. You know, I was trying to think like, what else I could do what else I could say. Who else I could talk to things like that. You know, and my friend, you know, you He was listening and stuff. He had some good suggestions, but he didn't know what to do either like cuz he doesn't know the way the company works.

6cd

So like, I got nothing. You're not getting the help you need for this.

6cd

Yeah, not at all feeling pretty lost with it. And I wish there was just like a

6cd

clear way to do things like this is what you should do now. And I don't see anything some

6cd

sort of clear plan.

5yq

Yeah, yeah.

7ack

But yeah, I don't

9on

I don't see a way to go about it. I mean I've so I've Okay, so this is the way I laid out in my mind. I tried talking to the people above me didn't work out the way I thought it would. I tried talking to the people below me so to speak, just lower on the before me in the process. That's what I mean. And that didn't work out which is just Jill and I talked to her and that didn't work.

0id

So like, there's nowhere else I could turn.

0id

The options are exhausted.

10od

Yeah, that's what it seems like to me.

7ack

And this is frustrating for you.

3gc

There's no other avenue.

0id

It sort of seems like to me Yeah. I mean, that's

7ack

and you know, as I'm even trying to think like,

3gc

I don't know, should I Write a letter to somebody maybe. But I don't even know who or what

3gc

you thought about a letter.

1irq

But who would you send it to?

1irq

Yeah.

7ack

Or like just something else that I can I can do instead of going to this person though to that person that didn't work.

0id

Can I can I

0id

call somebody is there anybody else in the company that you know might handle stuff like that? But I mean, there's there's HR people, but

0id

I can't really see where they could come in. I don't know how human resources could deal with something like that.

0id

You don't view them as a potential solution.

4crq

Wondering if there's like a

6cd

But there's I mean, I'm thinking now that there's gotta be something or somebody, or somewhere that I could put in, like, almost like a complaint or something like, something's out of my hands. And I don't know what to do about it, but there's got to be something. And now that I'm saying this, I'm thinking that there's got to be

6cd

some other resource you haven't tried yet.

1irq

Yeah, yeah.

7ack

I mean, now I'm trying to think back to my training, you know, initially

0id

you know, maybe there's, you know what, I think now that I'm, now that I'm thinking a little bit harder about a little bit differently about it. I'm thinking that there's like, man, I forget what they call it now, but maybe like a complaint but It's not the right word, but maybe a complaint box or like suggestions or something. And I think, if I remember correctly, those suggestions and those complaints get brought up at every staff meeting, which we have, like every other week.

0id

They're discussed at this regular meeting.

3gc

Yeah. And I'm thinking now, I mean, nobody really uses it. But I'm thinking like, maybe that's an avenue that I can use, you know, like, maybe that'll get brought up. And maybe that's something that that might actually work.

3gc

This could be another option for you.

11orq

Yeah, it could be. And then if it does work, it'll get brought rather if they do read it, it'll get brought up at the staff meeting. where everybody's at my boss, my boss's boss, Jill, everybody's there. And maybe that's a way for it to come to most attention. That deadlines being missed, affect other people in ways that you don't really know about.

10od

So everyone will hear your complaint

3gc

and maybe react in a way to help you maybe.

3gc

Yeah, I think that's, I mean, that's gotta be the way to do it. And maybe that's the best way. I really think. Yeah, I mean, after saying all that, and after going through that, I really think that that's probably the best way to do it. And if it doesn't, then I guess I can find another way. But I really think that's the best way to do it.

3gc

You feel as though you found an option here?

1irq

Yeah. Yeah. And even if that doesn't work, then it'll be brought up. And maybe it'll allow me to talk to my boss further about it. And maybe I'll understand really where I'm coming from. But this will at least be a start to something you know, to make me a lot less stressed with deadlines and stuff in

0id

your first Started with all this.

4crq

Yeah. But maybe, maybe after I do that, you know, put in the complaint or suggestion.

6cd

Maybe I won't be as frustrated.

6cd

I mean, I'm feeling a little less frustrated now. Even thinking if there is another option.

6cd

It feels better now as you're contemplating and another potential Avenue here.

3gc

Yeah. Yeah, that's,

7ack

well, this might be a good place to wrap this session up.

2gt

That feels like the right.

2gt

Move for you. Yeah. And we'll schedule See you next week. And we can pick up from there. Sounds good. All right. Cool. Next car. Thank you.

2gt

Okay.

7ack

And before we go over any of that I really wanted to find out from you how things are going and what you're concerned about.

1irq

Well, I mean, I'm, I'm curious about them because I haven't been very well, right. I haven't been very, very well. I've been last week I threw up some blood.

0id

Is that the first time that's happened?

1irq

Yeah, the first time. I mean, I threw up blood last weekend then. Again, yesterday. So there's something bad going on. I know there's something bad going

0id

What do you think is going

1irq

what cancer right I think I probably have cancer i'm not i'm not doing very well I just look headaches and I was just

0id

let's try to figure some of this out. Okay. When you said you were throwing up blubbery, throwing up bright red blood and was it like little spots, big spots?

1irq

It was a it was almost filling a toilet wasn't that much. I wasn't like that it was enough that I could see it in the toilet, and I was throwing up.

0id

And did did you have any other symptoms?

1irq

Well, I was feeling sick. So and I had headaches and I, you know, I've got,

0id

what time of day was this?

1irq

I have headaches a lot

0id

throughout the day, throwing up the blood

4crq

that was in the morning and then again,

6cd

the other time it was sort of later in the day, but I

6cd

you know, I also wake up in the middle of the night and I'm just covered in sweat. I know that's another cancer thing.

6cd

Actually, just before I came here,

0id

okay, so that was earlier this morning. All right, what did you have?

1irq

I had orange juice and I had some vodka in it. It's the only thing actually that like steadies me enough to get out the door. I don't ever go out that often. But right now,

0id

so tell me how it helps you.

1irq

It's just studies me studies me like I'm, you know, I'm shaking all the time. I'm just like,

0id

So over the course of the day, in order to study yourself in order to feel calmer. How many drinks do you end up having?

1irq

Five? Hmm, maybe

0id

singles or doubles?

1irq

I don't measure

0id

right. So is it mainly vodka

3gc

Sometimes if I'm feeling really like my stomach is really upset, I'll drink cider. So that's its cider or vodka because

3gc

and you ever get that feeling in the morning that some people describe that they wake up feeling so edgy. They need a drink to calm down. Yeah. It's like the only thing that works for me. Anything that works, too. So in the past week, do you think you've been drinking more?

1irq

In the last week? Not so much in the last couple of weeks maybe?

4crq

Hasn't been daily. Oh, yeah. Right. So the longest you've gone without a drink in the last month would be how long?

6cd