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13fqnis | Step 1: Find any form of store. Doesn't matter what. They will have coffee.
Step 2: Make your way to the back and find the coffee maker. If there isn't one, find the manager and complain.
Step 3: Make coffee using the coffee maker. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:22:55 |
13fqnis | “I’ll have an Iced coffee with [your milk of choice]” | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:35:31 |
13fqnis | "Coffee, please." | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 22:42:42 |
13fqnis | Can I have a large mocha please, full cream milk
💥 | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 23:26:58 |
13fqnis | Pro Answer: You don't, and order Earl Grey Tea (or some other flavor), cause that coffee shit is nasty. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-13 01:59:43 |
13fqnis | Use shein they never disappoint | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-13 03:29:27 |
13fqn46 | Being a team player only gets you more work and less credit | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:08:39 |
13fqn46 | Be careful what you say and to who. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:16:09 |
13fqn46 | You're not there to make friends | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:05:39 |
13fqn46 | The unspoken rule "Don't share salary information."
Had a friend in an old job with the same experience and responsibilities as me find out he was being paid 30% less than I was.
Worst part is that we were working with the government, and our salaries were being paid through a third party, which was receiving _the exact same amount_ from the government for both of us. | 0 | 1683915047.0 | false | 2 | 3 | 2023-05-12 20:17:07 |
13fqn46 | Working too hard gets you more work to do | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:03 |
13fqn46 | Be pleasant to work with. A lot of people forget this one and get limited without knowing it. Like do you really need to send a long email rant? Do people really have to deal with your bad mood on the daily? It's a good way to sign up for a layoff unless you have a top tier skillset to where you have them locked in, and even then, not the best path. | 0 | False | true | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:28:43 |
13fqn46 | We promote on merit.
The only way we know how to measure merit is hours worked. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:57:47 |
13fqn46 | You will be fired if you unionize. | 0 | False | false | 0 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:59:47 |
13fqn46 | It's not what you know, it's who you know. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:22:07 |
13fqn46 | Treating the folks that run maintenance/facilities like they're "the help". | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:24:52 |
13fqn46 | Your thoughts and beliefs will reinforce themselves. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:26:13 |
13fqmej | [deleted] | 0 | 1683917808.0 | false | 3 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:58:17 |
13fqmej | ... Why? | 0 | False | false | 2 | 22 | 2023-05-12 19:57:24 |
13fqmej | Having children, forces you to grow up | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:00:31 |
13fqmej | Have both your parents die. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:02:11 |
13fqmej | Get a job | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:03:05 |
13fqmej | You can't. You can skip steps and pretend to be more grown up, focus on the anesthetics of being an adult, "taking things seriously", not "messing around", but thats not "growing up", that's just skipping those things, at some point you'll realize you need to catch up on them later. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:23:00 |
13fqmej | Trauma is the fastest way to grow up.
But honestly, why would you want to grow up faster? Take life as it comes. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:44:53 |
13fqmej | Get yourself out of your comfort zone. Leave home. Travel the world. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:15:39 |
13fqmej | Trust me, you don't want to. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:20:25 |
13fqmej | Learning.
Learn through experience, through introspection, through trauma, through death.
Learn about who you are, and who you'd like to be as a person - not what you do, or what you own, but who you are inside.
Learn about romance and sexuality options - safely and without using others.
Learn about time, about how perceptions of time change. Didn't summers use to be longer? How short will years be when you're twice as old as now? Learm about taking care of your present so that you can have a future.
Learn about kindness, learn about greed, learn about hope and forgiveness and anger and hatred. Most importantly, learn about frustration and acceptance.
Learn about people and how they can be *anything*. Everyone is multifaceted and complex, even if some are just very complex jerks.
You start learning, and never stop. And when you think you're all grown up and a full adult, laugh at yourself and keep learning. And living. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 22:12:32 |
13fqmaw | The only thing that jumps out for me is, even though at the time I didn't think too much about it, you were always a long way from a phone. But when I was a kid, there really wasn't anyone I wanted to call. | 0 | False | false | 7 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:01:09 |
13fqmaw | I don’t remember “inconveniences” per se, it was just the way things were. It wasn’t all sunshine and light but there are two positive things I remember. The freedom of being able to play anywhere in the neighborhood as long as we were home before the streetlights came on. The joy of opening the encyclopedia and reading from that point up to the subject we were actually researching. Would I go back? Not at all - and I resent people who want to drag us even further back into the dark ages. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:20:08 |
13fqmaw | Having to take a paper paycheck to the bank to deposit, and having to go into the bank in person to get cash.
Having to haul your ass out of the chair to change channels
Doing all your school research in the library using the physical card catalog.
The one telephone in the house is in the kitchen, and that's where you have to be to talk to your squeeze. | 0 | 1683912995.0 | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:06:09 |
13fqmaw | I dont think that there are many redditors over 60, this could apply to over 30s tho | 0 | False | false | -3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:56 |
13fqmaw | I am almost 40, but I had exactly 4 TV stations to choose from for the first 16 years of my life. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:33:23 |
13fqm47 | Lock her up? I barely know her | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:58:20 |
13fqm47 | I was deployed(navy), hooked up with a girl on the beach in Spain. Got caught and was put in jail for a few hours before my command got me. I ended up in the Brig for 3 months for indecent exposure | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:35:19 |
13fqlk9 | If you're okay with a gay one Maybe with a chance of certainty by Goode
Also I remember reading one in Italian when I was younger where the girl has cancer White as milk, red as blood by Alessandro D'Avenia | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:57:24 |
13fqlk9 | r/yalit can help | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 22:34:01 |
13fqlk9 | Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 23:55:51 |
13fqlk9 | will grayson, will grayson by john green and david levithan
it's an alternating pov. john writes for the straight guy's perspective while david writes for the gay guy, and each perspective has their own love interest (their characters are just friends). | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-13 06:01:19 |
13fqlfu | Public library ebooks on Libby. | 0 | False | false | 5 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:56:23 |
13fqlfu | YouTube videos on how to do things: e.g., gardening, prepping for job interviews, playing guitar, and much more | 0 | False | false | 3 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:04:15 |
13fqlfu | The ability to keep in touch with friends and family. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:04:41 |
13fqlfu | Wikipedia | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:12:01 |
13fqlfu | You mean, besides information? community? My baby boomer mum knows how to get all kinds of junkie freebies sent to her, but I'm not a hoarder nor really even a materialist. The information and community are enough. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 6 | 2023-05-12 19:56:30 |
13fqlfu | Everything that is open source | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:40:38 |
13fqlfu | discord | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:49:17 |
13fql0g | There's a lot of good music and funny videos on TikTok. I discovered one of my favorite mangas because of it. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:59:56 |
13fql0g | Booktok | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:12 |
13fql0g | I like that i see both sides of real news that i dont see on cable tv | 0 | False | false | 2 | 2 | 2023-05-12 20:00:26 |
13fql0g | Nothing | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:54:58 |
13fql0g | Creativity. TikTok is hated on for many reasons but I have genuinely not seen such creativity before. It's a really good form of entertainment | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:56:28 |
13fql0g | Honestly I can't think of anything | 0 | False | false | 0 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:55:06 |
13fql0g | The return of short and quick content Vine style forcing YouTube shorts and Instagram Reels to be a thing for people who don’t want to be on tiktok but get tiktok content | 0 | False | false | 0 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:02:14 |
13fql0g | The real news. | 0 | False | false | 0 | 4 | 2023-05-12 20:16:54 |
13fql0g | Cons outweigh the pros | 0 | False | false | -1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:57:31 |
13fql0g | Nothing
TikTok is banned in India. I study in Canada. And I use it there. Everything, including all the celeb or influencer drama, is only on TikTok. It will only show up on IG if you look it up or like/share anything related.
This side of the world is different. And better without TikTok.
It’s hard to fight the urge not to use it when I am in Canada. But a vacation in India is a complete TikTok detox. I love it. | 0 | False | false | -1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:14:41 |
13fql0g | its depends, I really enjoy my feed which is parenttok, Dancetok, Humortok, gardentok, and booktok. Its also incredibly easy to change my algorithm depending on what kind of videos I want to see, all I need to do is search, like, comment and bam, new videos on my feed. I love it. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:33 |
13fql0g | Being able to annoy a whole room of people just by "singing" - I'm an island boy just tryn ta make it
I love it. lol They're horrible people but the meme is great. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:02:22 |
13fql0g | I love the singing videos | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:36:13 |
13fql0g | Dancing girls with cute stomachs and breasties and etc. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:46:31 |
13fqkil | Freckles are hot | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:58:48 |
13fqkil | Praying butt chins are actually secretly considered hot 🙏 | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:54 |
13fqkil | The chin | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:05:04 |
13fqkil | Dimples. Always the dimples. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:05:50 |
13fqkil | eyebrows can either make or break you | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:21:39 |
13fqkil | Genetics good or bad
Makeup good or bad
Skin care good or bad | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:55:36 |
13fqkil | Symmetry ig (or maybe it’s just something I’m insecure about) | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:38 |
13fqkil | The nose. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:10:31 |
13fqkil | Botox | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:12:32 |
13fqkil | Hygine, true for guys and NB people as well. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:26:45 |
13fqkil | Good bone stucture and good skin. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:29:10 |
13fqkdx | Not entirely starving due to lack of money.
but there were many days when I just had to eat very little or skip a meal due to lack of money. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 5 | 2023-05-12 19:55:16 |
13fqkdx | Yes there are days I went without eating | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:11:45 |
13fqkdx |
You can give blood, you can go do day labor work, you can volunteer at a soup kitchen and get some grub there. Go fishing, kill a rabbit. I was broke and on my own at 15 and sometimes all I’d eat was a can of green beans for the day that I got with some change I found. It got so bad once I thought of getting in trouble just so I could get a warm bed and some food… there’s always a way to survive. | 0 | 1683912081.0 | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:11:48 |
13fqk4y | Humboldt | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:56:15 |
13fqk4y | How epic? Circumnavigation of the globe by sailboat epic? If you only get one, why not see as much of it as cheaply as possible.
Yes I realize it can still be expensive, but try flying to multiple different countries. Added benefit, you get to take your stuff with you! | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:17:20 |
13fqjlh | We had nothing in common, but she was attractive so... | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:04:45 |
13fqjlf | I texted her to apologize for how I treated her when we were together and we just kept talking. We got back together and now we live together with our dog and 3 cats, it's been 2 years since then | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:55:16 |
13fqjf7 | “Now you’re free!” | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:53:44 |
13fqjf7 | “I’M Spartacus!” | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:55:37 |
13fqj0d | Your child will hate you when they're older | 0 | False | false | 5 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:53:58 |
13fqj0d | maybe it might trend? Muhammad is like one of the most common names in the world. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 4 | 2023-05-12 19:54:55 |
13fqj0d | The Woke wouldn't be too happy about that. | 0 | False | false | 0 | 5 | 2023-05-12 20:03:38 |
13fqj0d | Not much other than it might make the child have difficulties in a world in which many hold that name in very high regard and the fact that it is very uncommon in English speaking countries. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:54:35 |
13fqj0d | Jesus Christ will get bullied in school | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:54:43 |
13fqj0d | My guess is they would be Mexican since I've known a lot of Jesus in my life. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:57:36 |
13fqj0d | Uncommon name in the English speaking world so they’ll probably resent it like any other weird name that attracts unwanted attention.
Jesus is more popular in Spanish speaking countries, and a Jesus Cristo probably wouldn’t be that unusual. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:57:49 |
13fqiog | The Saints of Steel series by T Kingfisher. Three books, each one is about a different couple and all end happily. It's about broken paladins finding their way.
For urban fantasy with a strong romance B plot I recommend the Edge series by Ilona Andrews. Each one follows a different couple and all end in a good place. I would read these in order. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:47:03 |
13fqiog | Spinning silver and Uprooted by Naomi Novik | 0 | False | false | 1 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:53:35 |
13fqiog | The Fallen Empire series (Phoenix Unbound, Dragon Unleashed, Raven Unveiled) by Grace Draven is quite good! | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:31:09 |
13fqiog | The World Of The Five Gods series, by Lois McMaster Bujold: [https://www.goodreads.com/series/43463-world-of-the-five-gods-publication](https://www.goodreads.com/series/43463-world-of-the-five-gods-publication)
FWIW, this series won the second-ever Hugo Award for Best Series. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 2 | 2023-05-12 21:26:57 |
13fqiog | If by "easy" you're referring to young adult literature, I'd recommend Marissa Meyer's Lunar Chronicles.
The stories are fantasy/sci-fi re-imaginings of classic fairy tales (Cinderella, Little Red Riding Hood, Rapunzel, and Snow White).
It takes until the last book to get the true "happily ever after" moment - the victories at the end of each book are less certain, but all of the main characters do ultimately get a happy ending, and the love stories between the various characters is a strong element of all of the books. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 22:30:05 |
13fqiog | How spicy do you want the books? The Immortals After Dark series is incredibly spicy, but it’s well written and easy to read. All the books have a HEA :)!
The Kingdom Chronicles by Camille Peters is the exact opposite level of spice as they’re closed door romances, but they’re very sweet with guaranteed HEA’s, a lighter level of fantasy, and set in more of a fantasy medieval time period. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 22:41:27 |
13fqiog | Married to Magic series by Elise Kova, all stand alone, super easy reads, and all happy endings. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-13 06:34:48 |
13fqij1 | Proofreading | 0 | False | false | 6 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:52:55 |
13fqij1 | Run | 0 | False | false | 1 | 3 | 2023-05-12 19:57:19 |
13fqij1 | When I am angry I clean. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:33:09 |
13fqhfd | Nebraska Sober means you’re willing to admit Nebraska Football has been irrelevant since we invaded Iraq.
Zero top ten teams since January 2002. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:52:59 |
13fqhfd | Sober in my state means you don't weave when you are driving. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:54:09 |
13fqhfd | Jersey sober means they don't drink at work. Usually. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:51:38 |
13fqhfd | This is a very irresponsible description. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:51:58 |
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