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13fq8wy | 'Everything happens for a reason' - No, sometimes shit just fucking happens. | 0 | False | false | 9 | 4 | 2023-05-12 19:43:05 |
13fq8wy | “You don’t know how good you have it.”
I am arguing to improve my life and my neighbors lives, I know it can be worse but I still have a right to fight for better. | 0 | False | false | 4 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:45:10 |
13fq8wy | I personally hate incomplete sayings which invert meanings, examples being:
"Blood is thicker than water" rather than "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" to say that found family can mean more than blood.
"A jack of all trades, master of none" used as an insult compared to "A jack of all trades, master of none, is still better than a master of one".
Or "Curiosity killed the cat" to dissuade curiosity compared to "Curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back". | 0 | False | true | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:46:35 |
13fq8wy | “But before we get into the video...”
Your intro has lasted 2 minutes, just... fucking... start | 0 | False | false | 3 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:58:28 |
13fq8wy | (from younger people)
"you guys had it easy"
Umm nope, no we did not. We faced lots of struggles from not making enough money to economic downturns and other set backs. I was there...you were not...so I have NO reason to believe when you tell me this. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 23:38:20 |
13fq8wy | Needs of the business. No. I have schedule if my own. My own life. I’m an scheduled x-y. Not a-j. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:45:12 |
13fq8wy | "You have the right to remain silent..." | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:48:01 |
13fq8wy | "She is her father's daughter." Well, duh. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:09:21 |
13fq8wy | Fake it till you make it.
In a working sense, it can be dangerous to pretend you have knowledge and experience, when in reality you haven't a clue what the fuck you're doing.
For health, it takes so much energy already to get by. Why use all of that energy pretending instead of acknowledging where you're at, and be honest with yourself in taking those steps to get better. I tried the fake it with my mental health because it was pushed on me by a friend. I got so much worse, because it was so much energy into something I didn't even understand. What helped me to actually get better by leaps and bounds so much quicker, was to quit putting energy into this mask, and put it into what I needed to do instead. If I was tired, take the rest. If I was upset and overwhelmed, learn copping instead of hiding it from myself. If I needed to walk away from a busy place, that's okay. Better to walk out, regain, then try again then to push through to "look normal" and do myself in. Health wise, it was far more damaging to "fake it".
People can see through it anyways. There's a difference between faking your personality, aspects of your life etc. And presentation. You can present yourself with appropriate attire for the work you want. You can express your willingness to learn. You can still learn coping, and be just as bright to others by understanding your threshold and working with it. It's okay to be where you are in life.
Being honest with yourself, and understanding where your at is so much more beneficial. You can put your energy into maintaining and/or building, instead of energy into being fake. It's safer for you and those around you. If you want the job, work towards it and learn, just don't lie yourself into a position that puts you and others at risk. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:17:01 |
13fq8wy | Saying something is antiracist. Instead of arguing over whether an idea or program is good or helpful, you end up arguing about racism, which the antiracist is all too happy to pontificate on. It’s a crude tool used to shut down critical thought and win arguments. | 0 | False | false | 0 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:56:37 |
13fq8wy | “Forgive and Forget”
I only forgive for my peace of mind, but once the harm is done it will change the relationship. And even if I forgive someone, I don’t have to trust them again. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:50:14 |
13fq79o | Varies by person. some learn by listening, by doing, by reading, by watching, by moving. Most folks are a combination. Find the ones that work for you.
edit: spelling | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:43:44 |
13fq79o | The Fenyman method. Google it. It's straightforward, but effective. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:02:10 |
13fq79o | As of now, I believe the two best ways to learn or consume tailor made content are obviously [ChatGTP](https://openai.com/blog/chatgpt) for text and [GenP](https://genp.app/) for audio. | 0 | False | true | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:28:57 |
13fq636 | at-home, do your laundry for you, people app.
Including folding, hanging, putting away. I really hate do these. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:41:13 |
13fq636 | Cuddle partners on demand.
Want someone to hug while watching a movie? Cuddle partner.
Want someone to hold you on a bad day?
Cuddle partner.
Want to... Cuddle?
Cuddle. Partner. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:44:25 |
13fq636 | A website or phone app that tracks tour dates for your favorite comedians and bands and alerts you when there's going to be a show in your area. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:01:38 |
13fq636 | A teleportation machine | 0 | False | false | 1 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:40:30 |
13fq636 | Super complete nutritious meal replacement pills. I love food but sometimes in a hurry I just don't feel like going through the trouble of eating. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:42:55 |
13fq636 | Legal sex work | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:43:36 |
13fq636 | X-ray vision sunglasses | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:46:45 |
13fq5to | Pretty much anything processed. We don't eat that stuff. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:41:03 |
13fq5to | celery | 0 | False | false | 1 | 4 | 2023-05-12 19:41:12 |
13fq5to | Sardines/herring - my wife can't stand the smell. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:42:29 |
13fq5to | Oreos | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:46:26 |
13fq5to | My wife’s sister | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:03:58 |
13fq5iw | no, honey; god's imaginary. | 0 | False | false | 7 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:39:28 |
13fq5iw | I had a stroke reading that title | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:39:26 |
13fq5iw | > does god help ...
No. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:42:19 |
13fq5iw | Hon, you'll be okay. We all make mistakes. It's how we grow and learn to do better next time. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:40:10 |
13fq5iw | God understands what we need, but that isn't always the same thing as what we want. If you need help then God will help you, but it might not come in the form you were expecting. That's why it's important to be on the watch for help, so that it doesn't wind up passing you by. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:55:44 |
13fq5iw | When did u realise u were wrong?? U did something wrong then u realised u were wrong
So u lying to god aswell? And the chances of u repeating so called sin are very high as u got away with it before
I’m hope you’ll b alright , is there anything that he doesn’t forgive…… | 0 | 1683910463.0 | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:49:58 |
13fq5iw | Uhh… no | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:54:15 |
13fq54l | Run through their tutorials and you'll see. Their main website runs you through everything. It's got normal controllers, and lots of DI stuff. | 0 | False | false | 0 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:52:49 |
13fq4yo | be asian. seems to be working for lots of my friends. | 0 | False | false | 77 | 10 | 2023-05-12 19:39:15 |
13fq4yo | Sunscreen! | 0 | False | false | 25 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:02:52 |
13fq4yo | Hang out near older people | 0 | False | false | 20 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:42:38 |
13fq4yo | Dont have kids. Less stress, better for your skin | 0 | False | false | 20 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:54:10 |
13fq4yo | I've been an introverted homebody for 30 years. Sun damage hasn't been a thing for me. | 0 | False | false | 15 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:55:33 |
13fq4yo | If Paul Rudd tells you to wear sunscreen, wear sunscreen. | 0 | False | false | 16 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:58:00 |
13fq4yo | * Drink plenty of water
* Do `NOT` drink soda
* Exercise.
* Clean eating; avoid garbage
* coconut oil, shea butter, Weleda Skin food, Evanhealy Tea Tree Gel Cleaner
* _"[Black Don't Crack](https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/black_don%27t_crack)"_ :) | 0 | False | false | 30 | 5 | 2023-05-12 19:39:51 |
13fq4yo | Sideways hat, oversized hoodie, and walk around with a skateboard | 0 | False | false | 10 | 1 | 2023-05-12 21:26:08 |
13fq4yo | Don't smoke cigarettes, don't drink alcohol and don't do drugs. | 0 | False | false | 10 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:41:02 |
13fq4yo | win the genetic lottery | 0 | False | false | 21 | 3 | 2023-05-12 21:07:16 |
13fq4yo | Avoid stress.. | 0 | False | false | 7 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:41:26 |
13fq4yo | Vitamins, wash face daily, hydrate, exercise frequently, good diet, get a sufficient amount of rest/sleep, keep stress levels minimal, avoid alcohol, moisturize as much as possible, use sunscreen | 0 | False | false | 6 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:40:36 |
13fq4yo | Dress older. | 0 | False | false | 13 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:38:25 |
13fq4yo | Remain expressionless. Reduces wrinkles. | 0 | False | false | 6 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:26:42 |
13fq4yo | Don't get overweight, ever. If you are, lose weight now. Wear sunblock when you're in the sun, always.
​
If you're a guy, shave your beard.
​
Eat lots of fruit and vegetables and stay off that processed shit. | 0 | False | false | 18 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:55:13 |
13fq4yo | Stop getting older. | 0 | False | false | 10 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:53:44 |
13fq4yo | Good skin care routine and SPF 30 or higher | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:16:12 |
13fq4yo | asian? | 0 | False | false | 6 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:20:08 |
13fq4yo | Probably a bit of genetics in my case but basically don't drink, don't smoke, good sleep, try to avoid stress, stay inside when it's very sunny and never had kids, all the people I know with kids changed dramatically after having kids | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:17:16 |
13fq4yo | Botox | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-13 01:52:26 |
13fq4yo | shave
while unshaven I look like what I am, a 58 y/o man
if I shave all of my face, I look like a 12 y/o boy
(weak chin) | 0 | False | false | 4 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:55:47 |
13fq4yo | Get and stay pickled | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:41:15 |
13fq4yo | Snapchat filters | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:23:00 |
13fq4yo | Have a round face | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:24:27 |
13fq4yo | Exfoliate, wash face with cold water, then moisturize (ideally something with SPF), in that order. | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:48:13 |
13fq4yo | Walk whenever there’s a chance to. | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:51:55 |
13fq4yo | Don't have kids. Stay out of the sun/use sunscreen. Be short. | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-12 23:27:26 |
13fq4yo | Don’t have kids. | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-12 23:44:57 |
13fq4yo | Having a well meaning friend paint a portrait of you that ages and bears the consequences of your actions for you. While the actual you keeps that youthful glow. | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-13 00:04:37 |
13fq4yo | Don't have kids.. | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-13 00:28:36 |
13fq4yo | DON’T have children | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-13 01:05:44 |
13fq4yo | Not having kids. All my parent friends look old and tired by their late 20s. | 0 | False | false | 4 | 0 | 2023-05-13 01:12:17 |
13fq4yo | Don’t get fat | 0 | False | false | 7 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:43:44 |
13fq4yo | Retin A | 0 | False | false | 7 | 3 | 2023-05-12 19:46:39 |
13fq4yo | Exercise | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:45:47 |
13fq4yo | Hydrate, exercise, wear sunscreen, and give even a semblance of a fuck about your diet. If you can do those four things, you'll thank yourself in the long run. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:45:59 |
13fq4yo | Be younger or don't be older. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:56:02 |
13fq4yo | I have theories but I am not sure. I never did drugs or drank underage. From 21 to 35 i did drink but I also balanced it out with TONS of water. Honestly i truly believe drinking water is it. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:02:47 |
13fq4yo | Don't drink, smoke or waste time on bad relationships. Wear sunscreen every day, sunglasses when it's bright (prevent squinting), use retinol, exercise, take care of your teeth | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:07:40 |
13fq4yo | Genetics. My dad didn't start going gray until his 70's. I'm in my late 50's, and although my beard grows mostly gray, my hair is still black. And most people don't believe me when I tell them my age. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:54:56 |
13fq4yo | Don’t. You are as you are and obsessing about wishing it were different is a waste of time. And quite likely to give you crows feet. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:55:26 |
13fq4yo | Moisturiser with SPF on your face and neck daily. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 23:05:54 |
13fq4yo | Tretinoin | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 23:56:13 |
13fq4yo | Drink plenty of water and use hyaluronic acid serum on your face. Plus sunscreen. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 00:26:07 |
13fq4yo | Cold water face washing | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 00:50:57 |
13fq4yo | Collagen | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 01:06:36 |
13fq4yo | Hydrate, moisturize and sleep. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 01:09:35 |
13fq4yo | I can’t believe that I still have pimples in my 30s. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 01:42:37 |
13fq4yo | Sunscreen and retinol! | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 02:28:00 |
13fq4yo | drink water, go to the gym, stay out of the sun most of the time | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 03:23:51 |
13fq4yo | Sunscreen | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-13 03:47:46 |
13fq4yo | Not much of a secret....but
1. Drink clean water!!! Morning, noon and night.
2. Putting on sunblock can protect your skin.
3. Exercise 3 times a week. It's important to move your body and get your heart pumping.
4. Spend time with friends and family or your partner to improve mental health and fight depression.
5. Reduce drug and alcohol consumption. (This includes coffee.) Your liver will thank you.
6. Deep breaths ( fresh air )
7. Go on a walk in nature.
8. Eat fruit rich in B12 and vitamin C
9. Get some sun ( B12 boost)
10. Get 8hrs of quality sleep. | 0 | False | false | 8 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:53:30 |
13fq4yo | Being autistic
Apparently we usually look younger than we actually are. Im almost 30 and ppl still get surprised when I tell them my age and say i look like a teenager. | 0 | False | false | 5 | 2 | 2023-05-12 20:44:55 |
13fq4yo | I wear a mask so that people can't see my face! | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:45:49 |
13fq4yo | Don't smoke
Wear sunscreen
Don't use facial products with alcohol in them | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:59:06 |
13fq4yo | Stay out of sunlight. Just look at the skin of truck drivers and you will understand, they sort of have two different halves. One that is in a lot of sunlight due to the driver side window, and the other with less. It is crazy how much damage the sun does to your skin. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:59:19 |
13fq4yo | Shave my beard | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:01:19 |
13fq4yo | Get a good nights sleep.
moisturise | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:02:15 |
13fq4yo | Sleep 8 hours per day.
Don't smoke. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:03:32 |
13fq4yo | Genetics and Tretinoin | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:09:55 |
13fq4yo | You're never younger than you are today, I find my attitude and confidence influence a younger look.
That and when I shave these pubes on my face. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:22:23 |
13fq4yo | Matcha tea, sleep, avoiding stuff that messes with my sleep, colourful vegetables and fruits, regular exercise, wear a hat in the sun, sunscreen, relax and get stressful crap and stressful people out of your life. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:35:10 |
13fq4yo | Sunscreen
Proper hydration
Exercise
80/20 rule for clean eating and occasional indulgences | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:35:29 |
13fq4yo | all of my close friends are older than me (and I’m the youngest of seven siblings) | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:42:32 |
13fq4yo | Be almost 32 year old me and keep being asked for ID when buying wine. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 2 | 2023-05-12 20:45:09 |
13fq4yo | CBD salve | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:58:04 |
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