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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little bit of back story. I am in a situation where I do not have to pay rent or utilities for my house.\n\n I decided to let my friend move in with me as long as he pays 150 dollars a month to me for rent. Today I just asked him if I could get the money early because I need gas and to get some other stuff. He basically told me that I use him as an atm. I don't understand this. We agree'd to a certain amount. I told him that I hope he didn't see it that way, because I don't see him that way at all. He has lended me 15 bucks for a leash for my dog a while back and I told him he could take it off of rent, but that's the only time I have asked for any sort of early rent from him or any sort of money beyond the agree'd 150. What's the deal and what can I say? I'm kind of upset about it and it felt like an accusation of sorts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Samsung recently started a promotion to receive a year of free Netflix when you buy one of their qualifying devices. I've been looking into the Galaxy Tab S for a while now, so I finally took the plunge and ordered it from Samsung's official storefront on Amazon. Upon receiving the package, I entered the required info on the promo website and was told that my serial number is not valid. I hopped on the live chat support and spoke with a customer service representative. He informed me that despite ordering the device in the US and having it shipped to my home in the US, from Amazon's US WEBSITE, that I was somehow shipped an international version and therefore do not qualify for the promotion. The thing is, however, I have read through the official terms and conditions from top to bottom and nowhere in there does it say it must be a US device. It DOES say that I must be a legal US resident, which I am; living in Boston, Massachusetts. I have spoken to 4 representatives now who refuse to let me speak to a supervisor. I have been provided a number for Prize Logic, who is running the promotion, but discovered upon calling it that my only option is to leave them a message. Is there any sort of legal action I can take against them for violating the policies which they have set forth?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and this guy have been \"talking\" for a couple months. The last time we broke things off was because I felt like he was putting too much pressure on me.We did no contact for a lil over a month and just started seeing each other again last Thursday. \n\nFor his bday(It was Saturday) he wanted a pair of Jordans nikes.I agree to get them not knowing they cost $180. Sooo we get to the mall,I have about 50 bucks on me(broke college student) and then he shows me the shoes. I refuse to pay cause they dint seem worthy of that much money and I dint have that much money. I give him 40 and he pays the rest(he pulled out 1000's). He called me a liar and cheap and blah,blah,blah.I even put my ego aside and told him I just could not afford them and now he wont speak to me.\n\nIm not this mans gf and this happened 2 days after the no-contact ended. am I wrong for lying or is he for asking for something that expensive.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: Bekkah and I have been friends for 3 years and she was the nanny to my daughter for over a year. She is very religious and because of this she is in a huge rush to get married (a different issue all together) and is having a wedding with little to no money.\n\nShe is having children at the ceremony but not at the reception and although my daughter was invited to the ceremony I declined and said that she would probably cause a commotion and I thought it would be best if she stayed at home. Although I did offer to dress my daughter up and for Bekkah and I to do photos before or after the ceremony which Bekkah was more than happy with. \n\nThe issue I am having is that even though it hasn't been officially said I don't think she is giving me a plus one. I do not know ANY of her friends and family or her fiance's so I will be all by myself during the ceremony and the reception. Even if I had chosen to bring my daughter to the ceremony, I would still be alone at the reception, where the socializing happens, as children are not allowed.\n\nThe invites haven't been sent out but she did mention that \"there would be a few tables of random friends\" when I expressed that I wouldn't know anyone there. That hurt. Because of this I am assuming there will be no plus one.\n\nI understand that they are tight on money but honestly I am not sure if I even want to go to a 4 hour long reception and eat dinner so I can socialize with a bunch of strangers and get a total of 5 seconds to see my friend. We are close and I want to support her on her special day but it feels sort of tacky to ask to bring a plus one but then again I feel it is sort of tacky to not include one in my invite. Maybe I am wrong.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We had a fallen out and I haven't seen him in 2 months. Basically he had a problem with meth use, he became pyschotic and I've had enough of it. He also didn't like that I became great friends with his ex (they're gay). Long story short, now he wants to patch things up. I still think he's using but he wont admit. He thinks we can go back to normal right away.. That's why he's outside my work place and asking me to come out to say hi. I want a formal sit down and talk first. What do I say to him that won't hurt his feelings, but get the point straight that I'm fucking serious and I still don't believe him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not sure if this is the best subreddit but I'm at a restaurant in Italy on my iPhone and I couldn't find anything better. I have AT&T and paid for 500 texts for while I'm here. I just checked my at&t app and it says I've used 57/500 texts, but I'm pretty sure between sending and receiving its been more. Does it charge for both, or just sending?\nI've been texting my boyfriend who is in California, he has Verizon. Does it charge him to text me while I'm here? I figured it would charge me both ways and the 500 I bought would cover it but now I'm concerned since it only says I've used 57. I haven't counted I'm just pretty sure it's more.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I found [this] in my girlfriend's notebook while looking up a wifi password. I'm 99% sure it's a list of sexual partners but I'm not so sure about the blank names or what the arrow means. \n\nJust to clarify, she does not know I saw this and I'm not even considering breaking up with her because of it. The reason I'm concerned is because she has told me that she has only done anything at all sexual with 3 guys before me, and I feel like I was lied to. Her history doesn't bother me too much but this list does seem to a bit extensive for our age. \n\nSo what do you think reddit? Should this affect out relationship? And just out of curiosity, can you tell me what it all means? I think I have a pretty good idea.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys,\n\nI recently went to a doc (not my usual guy, but someone I've seen before) and I mentioned that I had been using marijuana to get rid of my headaches, and help relax myself after work (I really get stressed out easily)\n\nHe went on to say that he does not like it personally, but that he was going to give me a medical opinion as thats what I came for. He then proceeded to say \"A joint a day is worse than a pack a day\". He said the long term effects outway the short term fixes and that I should instead look to something more like a prescription pain med (IE: T3's).\n\nI'm fairly against taking pain meds as I feel they just don't seem natural, and really make me feel groggy in general. I have an appointment to see my actual doctor next week but I figured I should get some studying in first.\n\nI've read around in the past and found myself believing that marijuana really isn't bad for you, and the only thing it can (and does) cause is short term memory loss (although I haven't smoked in a few days and feel like I'm getting better at remembering things)\n\nSo, in short, can Reddit give me an unbias opinion on the short and long term effects of marijuana use? (please don't use things like \"YOUR DOCTOR IS AN IDIOT! LOL, HERE READ THIS!\").\n\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met in the fourth grade, we spent every day together for a year and a half before I had to move cross country (summer before grade 6). We kept in touch, speaking almost every day. The last time I saw her (and only time since the last day of school in grade 5) was May of 2013. She was healthy then. \n\nNine months ago, she was diagnosed with a heart/lung condition and was given 7 years to live originally. As her condition progressed, she quickly lost time off of that estimate. Three days ago I got a message from her informing me that she needed a double lung transplant and open heart surgery, without it she would only be able to live between 6 months and 2 years more. I found out 5 hours ago that she passed away. \n\nShe was a compassionate, loving, goofy, accepting, selfless human being. She was beautiful inside and out. I loved her more than anyone in the world and she was like family to me when my own family wasn't. I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: I (F26) Have been in a relationship with my bf (M26) for 10 years. I currently stay at his parents house with him and I have a part-time job, he works full-time. \n\nToday I was suppose to attend an assessment for a job in another city but I didn't go as I felt doubtful about enjoying the job so I missed the assessment. This was a mistake and a terrible reason to not attend a job assessment. I currently work part-time and need a full-time job so not going to this assessment was just childish and wrong. I feel guilty and bad about not going and beat myself up over it. I will not do this again. \n\nMy bf was extremely disappointed with me (expectingly so) but also very angry I made that decision. I already feel stupid for not going and it was a mistake but my boyfriend has decided to react with calling me names and making me feel terrible for it. \n\nHe had work at 2pm and I told him this news around 8am. By 1pm I asked why he was still angry with me and he responded with ' Im not angry cos I dont give a shit about you any more'. This made me feel horrible. \n\nBefore leaving for work, I told him I already feel like shit for it and he responded to this with ' you should feel like shit cos you are a piece of shit\". He has told me I am a waste of space, time and money and that I am pathetic. Today I have felt extremely depressed and worthless all day because of his reaction, as well as for the mistake of not attending that assessment. \n\nIs his reaction validated? Should he be behaving like this? I can understand he will feel disappointed with me but I feel it is too extreme.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "30's M/F couple months\n\nSo my boyfriend was driving home one night and ran across a female hitchhiker. He picked her up, thinking that if he didn't, she could end up in trouble. Gave her a ride home, they had a conversation where she revealed some personal things about herself (being assaulted, etc), and he gave her his number by texting her a link or two related to the conversation to help her out with random things. He also mentioned he had a girlfriend. He told me about it, and I told him I wasn't comfortable with him picking up random people because who knows who you're picking up, and thought that was it. 4 days later, she texted him saying she was stuck somewhere without a ride and asked him to pick her up, it happened to be on route to where he was heading so he did it. He told me about it on the way to get her, I told him I didn't like it and was upset, and he did it anyways because he had already said he would do it. I trust my boyfriend 100%, but the whole thing makes me uncomfortable and upset and he doesn't understand why. He thinks he did a good thing for someone twice, and it should be a non-issue. I see it as him not taking my feelings into account for a stranger who got herself into the same situation days later and looked to him for help. \n\nI'm looking for other opinions on it to sort myself out and get some outside viewpoints.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a gamer who always met guys on the internet. Within the past few years, I've been in a two serious long distance relationships that haven't worked out. Each one lasting a year. We would bond over our love of gaming and Skype/text everyday. The first one was 2012-2013 and the second one was 2013-2014.\n\nI have been doing online school for two years; I used to go to a public highschool and I'm very shy. I don't talk a lot, I pretty much have social anxiety and it's hard for me to go up to people that I don't know.\n\nI don't like the feeling of when someone says hey, I can't say it back, or I do and I get so anxious because I can't carry a conversation. I want to be able to feel confident to make friends, especially ones in my repeated grade (supposed to be a senior, but I'm still a junior.)\n\nI feel like my social skills are the one thing that keeps me away from happiness most of the time, and well, I think it would be nice to legitly have a boyfriend for once. I haven't even experienced anything, and I feel partly like I'm missing out.\n\nI go back to my public school in September. Do you have any tips to overcome shyness? And I guess, how did you meet your girlfriend/boyfriend in school? Thank you in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Mine happened very recently and would not probably compare to other people's stories but anyway, I sold a latest generation Kindle for $100 through craigslist (Los Angeles) which included a nice sleeve worth $29 bucks on Amazon. Met the buyer at a coffee shop, at a fairly busy cross-street walkable from where I work. He asked if he can get it for $90. I told him no, because the Kindle is in like-new condition plus I'm giving him the sleeve as well. He then said okay and gave me his money. He counted it in front of me, but I wasn't really paying attention (it was a little distracting since we were outside the coffeeshop and there were lots of people and cars around). So I said thank you and he went away and crossed the street. Before leaving, I decided to recount the money and noticed that this old guy only gave me $90! So I started to follow him and texted him about it, he didn't reply. I called him and saw him looked at his phone and rejected my call. He turned off his phone (or maybe he was rejecting it promptly after that). Anyway, I texted him and told him that what he did was not cool. I mean seriously, who would do shit like that for 10 dollars?! A few minutes, he started replying to me and said that I may have dropped his other ten bucks which of course was a lie. I told him I was walking behind him and saw him reject my call. He didn't say anything about that and insisted that I probably dropped the other ten. Unfortunately, I lost him in the crowd after he 'illegally' crossed the street. It also didn't help that there was a farmer's market on the next street. Anyway, I'm still shocked from this experience. I've sold many things online before and on craigslist in particular; and this is the first time something like this happened. People can be just depressing sometimes. Sorry, throwaway.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I post here a while back ( about backing off my girlfriend. I did, but that wasn't the source of the problem. The source was how polar opposite we were, and miscommunication. It was fun while it lasted, there was a leeeetle sex, but I certainly don't think I would get back with her. However, as I am still in highschool (a small one at that. I locker directly next to her) and we are in the same friends group, I see her a lot. And frankly getting over her is incredibly hard. We've become more friendly than right after the breakup, but it certainly doesn't mean I'm over her. Is it always this hard? Am I taking it too hard maybe? How do you move along in this situation? How have you moved along in general? How do you stop missing being in a relationship without getting in a new one right away, if there is a way?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I are temporarily in different countries. He ruined my birthday with some very uncool behavior on his part (that ended up with him threatening to leave me on my birthday). \n\nWe mostly worked through that until yesterday I went to the post office to get the gift he sent me. It was a week late (which would not have bothered me had he not utterly ruined my birthday) and it was just full of candy and a bag for a show that I sorta like and sorta hate (including the receipt for the bag $6.50 from Hot Topic). Even worse, the candy was not the candy I would prefer. He got me tropical flavored fruit by the foot, and I don't like tropical flavored anything, and peanut butter M&Ms, which are good, but more of his thing than mine. \n\nI wouldn't have been upset about these oversights and lack of a \"real\" gift, except he already ruined my birthday. It just made me feel like he really doesn't give a damn. To be fair, he sent the package before my birthday, so he didn't realize at the time that he was going to ruin my birthday.\n\nAnyway, I talked to him about it, and now I feel bad. I shouldn't be ungrateful and I know I hurt his feelings. Still, I feel like his gift was so thoughtless and uncaring that I can't help but feel hurt. \n\nShould I not have said anything? Am I being terrible?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This post is not meant to body shame, or make anyone feel insecure about their weight. I'm just worried for my mother.\n\nMy mother works a very high paced stressful job, on top of that, she's going back to school. When she's not working her long hours at her job, (she works overtime all the time, she can't say no to her work or else she feels somehow guilty) she is slaving away at her desk writing long essays. She gets very little sleep, and often pulls all nighters to complete her essays. Through all this stress, she has put on about 20 pounds, and was not \"thin\" before that. My mother has taken to food to cope with her stress. Cookies in the morning, high calorie meals at night, I'm very worried my mother is going to eat herself sick. My whole family is getting concerned, and my other parent confided in me that she is becoming increasingly depressed. How do I talk to my mom, without offending her, that I'm worried about her weight? She often calls herself a \"fat cow\" or a \"whale\", my goal isn't to make her feel insecure, but if she keeps eating like this she WILL get sick. How do I approach this as kindly as gently as I can while getting my point across? Any advice is welcomed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all. My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship at separate universities. Being in college, we both like to go out from time to time and drink. These anxious feelings started coming after I visited him once, but before that I had no issues with him going out. It was his birthday so I drove to visit him for the weekend and attend his birthday party that his roommates and friends had planned for him. When we got to the club, I left him to dance and hang out with his friends to get a quick drink at the bar with one of his roommate's girlfriend. Right when I turned around, I see a random girl that he or any of his friends did not know come up, grab him and start making out with him and grabbing his crotch. No hesitation or anything. He was very drunk but he was taken aback so he pushed her off and grabbed my hand immediately. I know that he would never cheat on me and he showed that by not reciprocating. But every time he says he's going to go out, I just think back on random girls throwing themselves at people like that. I get these knots in my stomach and I kind of just dwell on it while he's out. I hate the way I get when he tells me he's planning on going out so I know he probably doesn't like it either. It seems really silly when I type it out like this or talk about it but when the time comes for him to go out, it's like I forget about being rational. How do I just let this go?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I've never done anything like this before...like at all. So I'm not even sure if I'm doing this right, didn't realize there would be a list of rules to read!But I've heard from friends that these things can be helpful, so I'm giving it a try.\n\nLong story short, my husband of 1 month now, have been together 6 years. We have been through many ups and downs, and have been very open with each other and have really grown in our relationship. Which is a big reason why we got married.\n\nA few days ago I found naked pictures of a girl he used to work with on his phone. They were from 2 years ago, and the date suggested about 3 months before he proposed to me.\n\nFirst I know it was stupid of me to even be looking on his phone, though I wasn't looking for him cheating. Just something that is irrelevant to this problem now. But feel free to speak openly about this to me as well.\n\nSecond, I have confronted him and he has told me in phases about what happened. Though my concern is that he's not being fully honest with me or him self, because he's answered a lot of my questions with something like \"I'm not sure, it was a long time ago\" or \"To the best of my knowledge, this is what happened.\" He said it was a time in our relationship when he wasn't sure where we were going, and we weren't really having a lot sex. But honestly, he never clued me in on that time in our relationship much, especially since he proposed only months later. He said he knew it was wrong immediately and feels so guilty. But he kept those pictures, and I know he never stopped his friendship with her. \n\nNow we're only a month into our marriage, and I'm worried about how we're going to deal with this...how I'm going to deal with this!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been on and off with my now ex-gf for a little over a year. She's done everything she can to end the relationship, like traveling around the world for months and now moving out of the country. However, she always comes back. I always come back as well. We're drawn to each other like magnets, even though we fight constantly and are really, really not good for each other.\n\nI guess she'll be gone in a few days and this will all be moot, but its sad to see the love die. I've accepted it, and believe I'll be ok. I believe she'll be the same. We both love each other. But this has been going on for months, the love is dying and its sad.\n\nWe don't know how to not see each other. We constantly hurt each other. And she doesn't deserve me, but since she's moving, I want to see her and enjoy her while she's still here. It's getting harder and harder.\n\nAll I'm wondering, is if anyone has been through this before and knows how to handle it. In my life, I'm extremely good at doing things that are good for me, and avoiding things that aren't. This is the glaring exception. I have a weakness for her and for love and can't shake it. I feel ultimately powerless.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because I know how petty of an issue this is and I don't want it associated with my main.\n\nSo I [19F] have a good friend that I'm honestly very jealous of. Let's call her Grace [19F]. First of all, Grace is literally the epitome of everything good and sweet in the world. She's the type of girl that doesn't look like she could harm a fly. Just a really sweet, mild temperament. She's very humble and doesn't see what literally everybody else sees in her. She's generous, kind, and an extremely great friend. I seriously have zero problems with her, she's supportive and loyal and everything you'd want a friend to be.\n\nGrace also happens to be 5\"8, lithe (think dancer's body type) perpetually tan, has very nice hair and very pretty blue eyes, and is just generally a really gorgeous person. Nearly every time we hang out I see guys checking her out/staring at her. I cringe every time I see a picture of us together because of the stark contrast between us. I'm 5\"5, pale, still thin but not the same body type as her, have boring brown eyes, and my hair....it's long and wavy and generally just all over the place. I don't think I'm necessarily \"ugly\", but in comparison to her, I'm definitely the inferior looking one.\n\nAs I said before, I have ZERO problems with Grace. She's one of the best friends I've ever had, and an all-around great person. I've just been finding myself feeling insecure when I'm around her lately. She's pretty, smart, kind, generous, has an great boyfriend, a great circle of friends, etc. It's almost getting exhausting being around someone that seems so perfect. I know that no one is actually perfect, and I know that these feelings of jealously are stemming from my own insecurities. I just don't know how to deal with it. I'm tired of feeling ugly and inferior around her. She's such an awesome person and doesn't deserve any negative feelings directed towards her. Any advice/words of wisdom?\n_____________________________________________________________________________________", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm one of two guys in my women's lit class. I usually sit right in front of the other guy, and we're always cracking each other up by making (subtle) sexist jokes. (It's one of those in-the-moment things)\n\nAnyways, I'm out of it, having stayed up the whole night before. The professor is talking about the Presidential elections in a few years, how Hilary could be president, etc. etc. He then asks where we were when we found out that Obama was first elected president. A girl raises her hand and says \"I was in the kitchen with my family, we all started cheering\", or something like that.\n\nI turn around to my friend and whisper discretely, \"Of course she would be in the kitchen\".\n\nExcept it's not my friend. He's absent. IT'S THE FUCKING PRESIDENT OF THE WOMEN'S RIGHTS CLUB. She stands up and instantly shouts/announces that she'll be dropping the class because there are certain people in the class who are anti-women, and that she's disgusted that people like me exist. (while staring and pointing at me the whole time, I pretty much wanted to dissolve on the spot)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey. I'm writing a travel guide about Buenos Aires because all the mainstream ones there are aren't good and because I think that it would be fun if there was a guide written by an actual local.\nSo far, I've been writing everything one would need to know to subsist here. That doesn't include, for example, ~good restaurants, but it does include how to stop a bus here, or where are the reasonable places to stay, which isn't really where the most hotels are. What I'm trying to write is a guidebook that gives tips regardless of the tourism industry's recommendations or what is usually expected for a tourist to do in the city.\nFor this reason, I'd like to know what are the things you think should be in a travel guide but that are often left unanswered. Like, the situations in where you're all like WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW THIS BOOKS SAYS NOTHING ABOUT THESE KIND OF STUATIONS and you'd have liked to have avoided. Can you please help me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was in a bad relationship with my ex for 9 years. I have been single for the past 4. \n\nI have recently started dating again and realize I have a trigger and I want to overcome it.\n\nMy ex was a serial cheater and it was often with women from work. Eventually I knew that anytime he was talking about \"my friend from work\" he really meant whatever girl at work he was fucking. \n\nSo fast forward to dating and met a great guy. Except when he talks about his female co-workers. It sets off a stupid trigger in my brain that must be sleeping with them. I hate it and it really is bothering me. How can I make it go away?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Looking for some creative revenge ideas, the more epic the better. \n\nBack story: I live and work in South Korea. Due to ridiculous cellphone texting capabilities, anyone in Korea is able to send text messages under the guise of someone else and have it show up as that other person (i.e.: you send a text to your boss from someone else's phone saying you quit.... internal corporate shit-storm ensues.... you get the idea.) Someone somewhere thought that this was a good option to have on all Korean cellphones in the country. \n\n*The REAL story*: This past Sunday morning finds me waking up to a text message from a cute girl at work I am currently seeing. It reads: \"im sorry, but i think you should get tested for herpes. ive got it.\" The next few minutes sorta pass by in a haze as I frantically search the internet for clinics, hospitals and centers that will be able to test me (btw, hard to find an open clinic on a Sunday in Korea.) \n\nEventually I calm down, take a hot shower, and sort of reevaluate my life with my new \"herpy derp.\" I decide to text the cute girl who sent me the message. Maybe she can shed some light. I write: \"thnx for the info. where can I get checked out?\" Not five minutes pass when she responds with \"???\". Reddit, I've never been more happy to see three question marks in my life.\n\nNow I call the cute girl, we talk for a few minutes about how she didn't send it to me, and my brain realizes you can send fake text messages. I immediately suspect a fat bitch at work. In fact we both suspect fat bitch as our number one suspect. Today is Thursday (in South Korea) and we just got back from the SK office and we have proof undeniable that it was the fat bitch. \n\nSo reddit, I ask for creative ways to seek my revenge. I'm also asking on the part of cute girl, so two part-players in this revenge story would be even more sweet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 36 year old male, the lady is 43 and our kids are in their pre-teens in elementary/primary school (grades 1-6 here). We've been together since the mid 90:ies.\n\nAbout four years ago she got hit by a car at a pedestrian crossing (drivers fault), leaving her hospitalized for half a year and with permanent brain damage. This was of course a big, unwanted change for the whole family leaving us all shaken. She is now rated with 15% disability, but is working in IT at the same workplace as before. (She chose to, she was entitled to retirement but couldn't stand sitting at home.)\n\nDuring the years that has followed I have noticed that love is over, to put it simply. After a lot of sorting of my feelings I have found that I don't trust her any more. Trust is the most important feeling in a relationship, so no wonder things have gone downhill. Apparently my subconscious has decided that she can't be trusted, as she got herself run over. I'd like to think of myself as a rational human that understands that she has done absolutely nothing wrong and deserves all the respect, love and trust as ever before, but no. This feeling of untrust can't be defeated with rational thoughts, and the struggle between my morals (keeping the family together) and my feelings is really getting to me.\n\nIf anyone has been in a somewhat similar situation, how did you cope and was it possible or not to get the relation back on track? How was things resolved?\n\nAnyone with any piece of advice is of course welcome to answer.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We had been together for over 2 years.\n\nI've seen her on FB basically telling everyone she is devastated because I broke up with her. I have been tempted to \"correct\" her since she is still on my friends list and we have mutual friends but I have restrained myself every time.\n\nWhat it ultimately came down to was her wanting to stay friends and keep me in her life but not be in a relationship anymore. I refused with that setup and I guess I am now the \"bad guy\" and broke up with HER. Has anyone dealt with a similar situation before? Any advice? Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My(17) girlfriend(15), we will call her J, have been together for around 6 months now and since the day I have met her mother she has been belittling her, treating her poorly, and has previously hit her. J's mother is in her mid-forties and does nothing but smoke, drink, work, and constantly have sex with random dudes. It's not that these things are bad in itself, but she projects herself onto her daughter. \n\nTwo weeks ago we got caught being at her house home alone. J and I were just cuddling watching a movie, but her mother freaked out. I can understand why she was mad but what she did was what I believe out of line. Because from before this point the only belittling I heard was from J. But the next thing that I know her mother comes in screaming at J saying,\"You're a stupid whore. You are worthless to me. I'm glad that your brother is at least somewhat valuable.\"\n\nI wanted to stay and protect J, but I knew there was nothing that I could do. J's mother took everything thing that was of use to J. She took her phone, iPod,", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I know this problem will be resolved on it's own when I go to college in a year and a half, but for now, it has become a very complex issue that I'm not sure how to handle. I've known these two friends since pre-school and they happen to live in my same neighborhood so naturally we talk often and have all grown kind of close over the years. They are twins, so I've usually hung out with both of them together. However, they each have very different personalities and their traits have even grown more distinct throughout high school and I am beginning to absolutely despise one of the twins (I'll refer to her as A).\n\n A has, over the period of about a year, become extrememly moody, aggressive, and exhausting to talk to. Our personalities conflict and we bicker often. I am usually able to laugh it off; she holds grudges. She has started conflicts with me for absolutely no reason and it has progressed to the point where I no longer enjoy being around her and I automatically feel defensive whenever I see her, because of her offensive attitude. \n\nHowever, B & I (the other twin) are the best of friends. Our personalities compliment each other well, and the conflict between A & I has only served to strengthen our friendship. We get along well. I just don't see how I will be able to remain friends with her if I plan to cut A out of my life (even though they \"hate\" each other, they do everything together and have the same mutual friends). It is incredibly frustrasting and I feel I am causing even more conflict between the two of them. For example, A & B give me rides to school (they share a car) sometimes work as well, but after an argument, A told me she would no longer provide transportion for me. I know B however, will not let that happen, and that they will argue and fight over this for some time. I just don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I wanted to tell my story of motivation so far, and maybe it will help some folks who aren't sure what/where their motivation comes from.\n\nA few months ago, I had someone I loved very much go away. My heart was broken. Our situations were the cause, so it wasn't something that either would have chosen if they were different. This set something off in my brain. This is when I started my weight loss journey. At first, it was the only thing that distracted from my broken heart. As time went on, I also questioned if my motivation to lose weight was JUST because of this. \nRecently, I was able to reconnect with her. It is nothing like it was, but it's what I desperately wanted that whole time. But today, I had a realization that my weight loss path and the road to a healthier version is more important to me now. I still want to reconnect with that person, but I know now, I am only getting healthy for myself. It was a great feeling. I know I will keep going with or without them in my life. She was the catalyst to start, but not the fuel to keep going. I found that in myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some back story: I had this friend who we'll call LoudMouth or LM for short. Before I knew LM couldn't keep secrets, I had confided a few things to him. On two occasions I told him some things and on both occasions he goes and 'accidentally' tells the the people who I'm especially not trying to let know... My secrets. So I cut this guy from my life... Fk him. He doesn't know this. \n\nNow for the pettiness. Recently a mutual friend, Kevin, moved out of a residential unit owned by my parents as Kevin decided to move back to his home city. In doing so, Kevin left a few pieces of furniture in the unit. Fast forward 2 months and LM is asking me if I can help him take a piece of furniture from the unit. You have the audacity to ask for a fkin favour after backstabbing me twice? Fk you, so I simply tell him I'm busy with 'life'. A week later he asks me if I can ask my parents for the piece of furniture. To this I tell him 'go read up on the residential act pertaining to furniture that has been leftover upon a mutual agreement of termination between tenant and landlord. Unless you can find me a fking bona fide agreement between my parents and our friend, go fk yourself, that piece of furniture is staying with us as it's mine... Bitch!' And damn did that feel good...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, mostly because they are a bunch of self righteous christian people that feel as if by them paying for me so far, (feeding me and letting me live with them rent-free) I am not only their slave, but am expected to mindlessly agree with everything they say and do. They think that I am not capable of leading my own life, and I know for a fact that if they knew half the stuff I deal with/get up to in college they would throw me out. In addition, they get angry with me when I do what they ask because five minutes later they change their minds, and when I wait to see if they actually want it done they get even madder. They show me no respect, and yet expect me to show them respect when their behavior merits none.\n\nSome info about me\nI am 20 years old\nI go to a state college, I am studying to be a teacher\nI am not really that into all the religious stuff, but I am not an atheist\nI work at my local YMCA as a swim instructor/lifeguard\n\nI am trying to think of ways that I could effectively cut the ties with them. At this point the best solution I have come up with is to join some branch of the military, such as the navy or something, because my job doesn't pay enough for me to move out on my own and continue my education. (when I am at school, things are sort of OK as I go far enough away that they don't visit, though they expect a phone call every day. They pay for my meal plan, so they expect me to be in contact with them)\n\nAlso, sorry about the poor writing quality of the post, but I felt like I had to write this down before I went crazy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As usual, this FU did not occur today, but it did GO DOWN today in a big way.\n\nI bought my high school son an iPhone 6 plus 18 months ago. With that, I attached my credit card to his Apple ID, with the strict instructions that he must ask me before ever using the card. This he did... for 17 months. I think we all know where this is going... \n\nToday I looked at my credit card bill, because it seemed a little high. Turns out it was over $1000US high. My son has gotten addicted to one of those stupid games, and spent over $1000US on \"in-game purchases\" in the last month. And what kills me is this: the main reason was so that he could, at various times, \"pop balloons faster\". I shit you not. I spent over $1000 so that my little cherub could \"pop virtual balloons way faster\" for 30 days. (The game is \"Bloons TD 5\", for the curious...) \n\nThere should be a subreddit for parents who have discovered their precious little ones have sold them down the river electronically, to the tune of 4 figures, in order to \"pop virtual balloons faster\" or whatever. Said iPhone/iWatch has been confiscated and may indeed be sold, I haven't decided. Be on the lookout at an ebay near you for an iPhone/iWatch combo on sale by \"father_of_a_balloon_popping_addict\". \n\nThere is good news in all of this. Apple Support was downright SAINTLY about the charges. I told them exactly what happened and just hoped for the best. Legally, they owed me nothing, but they reimbursed 98% of the charges anyway. A big shout out to \"Gina\" and \"Jennifer\", you guys REALLY made my TIFU less TIFU-y feeling!!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were dating for a while until a few months back, since then we've been off and on, not exactly seeing each other but neither of us have moved on. Over time my feelings have became less and hers have became more (she still gets butterflies from me, I get none from her). \n\nI feel as though I'm no longer in love with her whereas she's in love with me. We still see each other but emotions are running high and I have no idea what to do as I don't want to be in a relationship, but I don't want to lead her on. \n\nThe problem is I want to let her go but the thought of her being with anyone else is heartbreaking for me. I know I'm stopping her from being happy but I can't bear the thought of her falling in love with anyone else. I realise this is extremely selfish and that I'm messing her around and that isn't fair on her.\n\nI can't be in a relationship with her however because I'm not in love with her and therefore it wouldn't be right on my part. I can't even spend time with her or go out to the cinema etc. with her because of the same reason. I just feel so unbelievably guilty. \n\nI love her so so much and I just want the best for her. But I just can't let her go. \n\nAnother thing that is stopping me from letting go is the totally irrational fear that I won't find anyone else and that no one will fall in love with me again. And I realise it's totally stupid to think that but I can't stop myself from thinking it. It's almost like an innate fear.\n\nPlease, if anyone can give me some advice I'd appreciate it so much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had a breakup six months ago with my then-boyfriend of four years. Upon breaking up, we did the old breakup ritual of giving stuff back. He said I could keep a Takamine guitar he had been letting me use, and requested that I only send him a check for $25 for it. I did, I kept the guitar, and that was that.\n\nI thought we parted on good terms, but now we don't talk anymore as he broke off contact with me quite bitterly (he's somewhat emotionally unstable). I do play the guitar on a near daily basis. I don't know how much it's actually worth.\n\nThis week, I came home from college, and my best friend just out of the blue gave me--for free--a black Ibanez guitar that I absolutely LOVE. More so than the Takamine. For this reason, I'm thinking of selling the Tak--I really don't need two guitars, I could use a little extra money, and I think I have appropriate enough closure on the relationship that I could leave this part of it behind.\n\nMy problem is I don't know if it's acceptable to sell something that someone who you no longer have contact with gave you. If it's not acceptable, then I apologize if my question (or I) was rude in any way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "already posted but im looking for more advice.\n\nI am a non druze female who was in a relationship with a druze male, we dated for a year and for both of us it was our first love. Even though we're still young it truly feels like he's it for me and vice versa. However, recently we hit a crossroad and he decided to end things. Since in Druze culture you are unable to marry out of the culture and if you do you are no longer considered a druze, and then you and your family are looked down on and shunned in the community. However, some people i talk to say in druze culture it's different for guys and it may be acceptable for them to marry someone outside the culture. He doesn't really follow his religon/culture, he's just scared of how it'll affect his parents, he says he can't loose them or let them down. He doesn't want them to die unhappy, feeling like they failed. I really dont think they'd completely disown him, and i think he knows that, he just wants them to die content and they apparently can't if hes with someone outside the culture. But then if he chooses to abide his parents wishes he says he'll just be alone and not marry, meaning he isnt going to be happy... so confusing. But by being appart its destroying the both of us, im unable to move on and let go of him, i just can't give up hope. And he is regretting his choice everyday, but he's so torn. He tells me \"maybe one day we can be together but i can't bank on that\" which makes me feel like him and i can be, i can't let go.. I feel like hes just scared and he always stresses about the future, so maybe he's just having a quater life crisis? Any help of what we should do ? id really appriciate it, i dont think ill ever be able to get over him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I started my current job as a PT position while in high school. It's in the field of media and video production which I loved growing up. Attended some college while working at my job, but college didn't feel right for me and I dropped out. I've been employed at my job now since 2006. Over the years, as the pay and responsibility increased, I have found myself transitioned into what is essentially a very mundane and monotonous desk job doing programming and transcoding of media files for 40 hours a week, where before I obtained this higher level position, it was mainly creative projects and generating original media for the company which I had control of.\n\nI am now 26 y/o and extremely unhappy in my current position, have that \"stuck\" feeling, and no longer get along well with my superior and it affects my mood outside of work around my family. It's mentally eating me up inside and I really want a change in my life toward employment in a field that will be more active, rather than being at a desk in a windowless room. \n\nThe problem is, I make $18/hr (which for me personally is a good sum of money that takes care of the bills and most of whatever else i need) and my health insurance/benefits are fantastic. I've been dealing with the mental stress of this job for a year or two since losing interest and motivation, but feel chained to it because I don't think I'll find similar-paying gainful employment elsewhere due to my lack of education and specific set of skills. \n\nDoes anyone have any pro life tips for me to conquer this? Do I reinvent myself from the inside to accept the fact that I'm lucky to be employed at all and try to quell back the sadness, or do I reinvent myself by setting a hard quit date say 8 months from now while I work on seeking new skills? I don't want to ever be in this field again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I only know how to ask people out and all I get is no!\nI know am not ulgy, dumb, or unattractive in general, but no one wants to go out with me! \n\nI can hold a conversion and in my opinion am very good in the sack!!!!\nI've only had three girlfriend's all ending because I eventually lose contact with them (relationship ending on a good note in way!)!\n\nI've never been with a guy. I know that am emotionally attracted to them but I don't know if am sexually. That is a huge problem not knowing because if I get into a relationship and I am not sexually attracted to my partner then what's the point of being in that romantic relationship? If there was a just to sleep with a guy without starting a relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\nMy grandfather recently passed away in June, leaving my dad with access to a lot of his old papers from the Marines. My dad has been going through a lot of old family pictures and those documents, trying to place where his family lived at different times (it was quite a few being a military brat). I started dating a guy from near South Bend, Indiana which is consequently where my dad was born in 1954. When looking for the address where he lived there, it seems to be the only one missing from all the documents. He knows it was in the area surrounding Notre Dame, but hasn't had much luck finding an address.\n\nBasically, I wanted to know if anyone else out there has found any resources for locating OLD addresses that people lived at, or where might be a good place to start. I'm thinking of maybe contacting any schools he attended or seeing if I can get access to census data.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Friends for 2 years, dated for about half a year. Chemistry was there. \n\nGo out-of-state for a summer internship, get dumped via text. He says something about an epiphany and how he knows who he actually wants to be with. \n\nHe is part of an organization that I am in and we see each other often. I pretend he doesn't exist and he does likewise. No contact, the routine after break-ups. \n\nSuddenly, half a year later, I'm hit with a torrent of what could have been and all that shit. I'm too prideful to ask him to take me back, especially since he desires someone else, but the thoughts won't stop. Everyday, I walk out of my house expecting him to be there like before. I want to call him\n\nI impulsively talk to him today when I see him (facepalm). I speak with him the way I did in the past, full of jokes and an overabundance of info/commentary. I also am overly straight-forward and ask him to verify the name of the girl I think he wants to pursue. I don't care that he's realized I have feelings for him. I just want these stupid thoughts to leave. I would also prefer not to have feelings for him at all, ideally. Remember, for me, it feels like everything just suddenly hit me out of nowhere. \n\nMy question would be what can I do to reach that state of \"moved on\"? Any creative ideas? I have many hobbies that I partake in and interact with friends regularly, so I would prefer not to get responses like \"find a hobby/friends\".", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is not the first time it happens. I posted about what happened 6 months ago here: (She hit me a couple of times in the face without glasses)\n\nWe got back, and two months ago we had a fight, where it ended up with me throwing her phone to the wall, and grabbing her by her arms, and throwing her into bed leaving her upper arms bruised. I did not hit her.\n\nYesterday we got into an argument and she repeatedly hit me in the face, I hugged her, she stooped. She wanted to leave I didn't want her to, then she kept hitting me and I slapped her. Then she realized she left me my face bruised up and a bleeding nose and she was very sorry.\n\nthere was alcohol involved in all of this fights.\n\nLater on today, she has been asking me to go and see her.\nNow that I type this, this relationship looks like a mess, but we love each other a lot. thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all!\nSo I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is totally wonderful except he is so clingy. \n\nWhen ever we are alone he is always cuddling me too close and holding me and it feels suffocating. When we are in public he is always trying to hug me from behind and constantly kissing me. He will always try to kiss me on the neck in public and it is driving me nuts! I hate pda. hate it. Its driving me crazy. I have tried to get him to stop but if I mention anything he'll pout and walk behind me. If I get irritated when we're alone he'll ask me if he is a clingy boyfriend and i'll say yes, he will giggle and tell me he's ok with that. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I think I'll explode at him one day.\n\nWhy is he doing this? and how can I make him stop?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Fair warning, this is my first post to Reddit, and I'm on mobile. Please bare with me.\n\nA week ago, I decided to start a (hopefully) lifelong journey to slowly yet steadily improve my life. I bought a scale, and weighed myself at 340lbs. I wasn't nearly as upset as I probably should've been, considering I was expecting closer to 400lbs.\n\nThat very day, I took the first step. I made a myfitnesspal account, and tracked a typical day for me, with no changes. I was very, very quickly disgusted. I discovered two things that fascinated me. The first being, that I DONT over eat. I do however, drink incredible amounts of calories. I found I was drinking TWO THOUSAND calories on a good day. Well, clearly I've established what I need to change most, right? Right.\n\nThe next day, and every day since, I've completely stopped drinking soda, and went into what I believe was a sugar/caffeine withdrawal. Years of drinking hundreds upon hundreds of calories worth of soda has left me more than a little messed up. I allow myself 1 glass of coke a week, and so far this has kept off any cravings, yay! \n\nNow for the advice I need. As I said, I've been tracking my progress with myfitnesspal, hoping to lose 100lbs within a year. Myfitnesspal puts me at approximately 2500cal/day at a loss of 2lbs/week. And I'm actually having trouble meeting this. Just wondering if I should be concerned if I'm not even coming close to the calories that are suggested I eat in a day. Note, I do NOT feel hungry.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first post, so bear with me:\n\nI [F] was in a relationship for almost two years with my first real boyfriend. I started talking to him about a month after I was released from the hospital (I was there as a high-risk patient with clinical depression). He helped me get my life back in order, and gave me something to love. We were serious and very committed, or so I thought. After much talk, we did eventually become intimate. \nAfter the first year he started acting differently. He became demanding and distant, but I obeyed because he was all I knew. I was completely in love with him and was positive I would kill myself if I wasn't with him. By then, he had become abusive. I never told anyone. Near the end, I found evidence that he had cheated numerous times. Even then, I wouldn't break it off. It took my two closest friends to convince me to break up with him. After I broke up with him (which I had to do on his voicemail because he was at his other girlfriend's house), I still had a hard time getting over my addiction to him.\n\nOne of my best friends, coincidentally a co-worker of ^his, started becoming more than just a friend. Nowadays, this friend is my boyfriend. He treats me better than anyone I've ever known, I love him and I know the feeling is reciprocated. Recently, I started having nightmares and fears about getting in too deep again, about feeling addicted again, and being abused again. I KNOW this guy would never hurt me on purpose, and I have talked to him about it. But how do I get over this irrational fear?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I bought my girlfriend a sterling silver necklace with a Sapphire for Christmas. I got it on sale, regular $175, I paid $50. Today she goes to her parents house (we don't get along at all). They bought her a necklace too (they probably spent $1000 on her this year). Her parents gave her 3 large gifts prior to Christmas. She walks in today and the first thing she says, while carrying two huge bags, is \"I have too much stuff\". Then she proceeds to tell me about how the necklace they bought her costed 6x as much as the one I bought her. She can't understand why I'm annoyed. Am I wrong for feeling annoyed? I feel like it was just rude of her to go on about how expensive the gifts she received from her family were.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [27F] have been seeing a new guy, John [30M] for a month and a half. We see each other once a week, often on weekends, and text each other every day after work, usually telling the other one what our day has been like. He is the one initiating the conversation most of the time; not sure if it's relevant, but just saying in case it is. We didn't have the exclusivity talk yet.\n\nYesterday he initiated the conversation again and started telling me about this woman at work who wanted to set him him up with someone. I asked him if she showed him pictures of the woman in question. He replied: \"Yes, she looks terrible. I lied and said I just started seeing someone.\"\n\nI am very upset because of the \"I lied\" part of the sentence but didn't tell him anything about it yet. He didn't seem to be joking at all.\n\nAlso, I think it's worth mentioning that our first date was outside and awesome and lasted six hours but that the dates after were mostly dinner at his place.\n\nDo you believe he is seeing me as a fuck buddy and thinks I'm cool with it, or is there any chance that he is testing the waters to see how I am going to be reacting to his behavior?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The funeral is in just over a week and I'm not sure if it's better to attend or not.\n\nI was home over Christmas just to see her since it was clear that she was not going to live for much longer, so I did get the opportunity to say goodbye in person. I am studying on the other side of the world and just got back two weeks ago. Uni is in the middle of the summer break right now, so at least I won't be missing out on anything in that regard if I do decide to go home for the funeral.\n\nIt is a very long journey - about 30 hours each way - which is quite exhausting. The cheapest tickets I can find are around $2K since it's on very short notice. I'm slightly worried that going back will leave me jetlagged and unable to be as present as I should during the ceremony and family gathering afterwards. If it ends up this way, it seems it will be more stressful and depressing than what I would get back for it (mentally speaking).\n\nRight now I have no idea if any of this matters in the bigger picture, compared to attending the funeral service. She is the first person this close to me who has passed away, so I can't really tell if being physically present at the funeral is a big deal to me or not. While this could appear slightly self-centered, I don't think she would have wanted me to go if it is too inconvenient and stressful, and funerals are for the living, so it doesn't feel wrong to consider it.\n\nDue to the inherent time pressure of making a decision - I would have to arrive at least a day in advance if it is to be meaningful, after all - I don't feel like I will be able to assess my options properly (I'm not able to think very clearly right now), so if anyone here has been in a similar situation, I would appreciate your input.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So when I consider the concept of heaven, as described in nearly every religious doctrine, I think of an endless expanse where the human soul of every living person resides in peace and happiness. \nAnd we can say with certainty that the soul is something other than our body, as it's what drives us but supposedly leaves our body upon death. From this we can reason that the soul has no mass and is able to fit inside any space an infinite number of times.\nWith the physical logistics covered, now I ask- what would it be like in heaven? We can speculate a thousand different outcomes but what is the common theme across every religious text? It's Good.\nPersonally when I think of good I think of everyone benefiting each other and no one is hurting and everyone can live and grow in peace. Yet somehow people consider others' actions, that don't directly effect them negatively, are the cause for non-related tragedies. At this point I'm speaking specifically about the extreme Christians' stance on homosexuality. And it's when people consider themselves harmed in any way it's natural that they'll fight back, and so we see blow-back in the middle east and prejudice in the US (unfortunately this is by much more superstitious people that convinced themselves gays hurt others because of personal identification in the same way they can cure cancer through inaction [prayer]). Clearly there are other examples in racial prejudice in the same way and I'm not going to claim expertise in foreign affairs if someone better informed would like to comment. But to me the world would be more like heaven if everyone understood and accepted others' lives for all they're worth, not even that everyone should donate their time and money but at least not force themselves on others in any way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 25 female, dating a 23 male. We live in the eastern United States, I'm attending grad school, he's attending law school. We've been dating for 3 months now and have been exclusive for the past month and a half or so. At this point we don't call each other boyfriend or girlfriend, but he does stay over every couple weeks and I've stayed over his place on multiple occasions. He's very affectionate in person and in his text messages, he opens car doors for me, we hold hands in public, kiss etc. I have only met one of his friends, but he's shown my picture to a couple of his gfs.\n\nAnyways to get to the question. He was asking me what I was doing and I told him I was listening to my friend tell me how she was FB stalking our high school classmates who had hot boyfriends. And he said \"so she's stalking you? haha jk\" I said \"to answer you, yes :)\" and then \"does that mean you're claiming the boyfriend title haha?\"\n\nHe completely ignored that boyfriend text and moved on with the conversation. I haven't brought it up again, and don't plan to anytime soon. I'm assuming this means he's not ready to claim the boyfriend title. But how do I bring it up again without making him feel like I'm some pushy, clingy girl? By the six month mark I'd like to be considered his GF because otherwise I'd feel like the relationship isn't moving forward. For me the boyfriend/girlfriend title wouldn't change our relationship, it would just reinforce my confidence in our relationship. I'm not going to worry about it for now, but would just like some advice as to how to broach the subject again if necessary and/or why he's not ready to claim the boyfriend title (myriad of possibilities I know).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I added a girl at work on snapchat, then we exchanged numbers like you do. We started talking about work but that eventually went on to everyday things. She would talk about her boyfriend and I played on as If I actually gave a fuck. When he would not talk to her she would talk to me about her problems. This went on until she broke up with him.\n \nThe following is a conversation with her.\n\n\"good but it would be better if (Her ex) would acc talk to me instead of being with his ex. Your acc quite good looking crying with laughter face x2\"\n\n\"Thanks....... you to (smiling face x2)\"\n\nthen we talk about work and it seems that that just came out of the blue and she did not talk about for long. \n\nI not interested in her in the she seems to be with me. I don't want to be in a relationship with her but she is send signals as if she wants to be with me.\n\nThen she sent this.\n\n\"(My name) I need u to be my date for a night monkey covering eyes\"\n\n\"smiley face Why??? smiley face what's up??????\"\n\n\"I have to go on a double date u coming? crying with laughter face and monkey covering eyes\"\n\n\"With who??????? smiley face x2\n\n\"Me & (her friends name)\"\n\n\"oh who's (her friends name) date?????\"\n\n I don't know if I am leading her on, how can I tell her nicely to fuck of. Help me reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I was in high school, I was a straight A student and able to understand concepts and think critically about how they apply to the real world but since my Sr year of high school I haven't been able to perform academically in comparison. I often times found myself forgetting my keys or wallet with no recollection of where I had left them and locked my keys in the car more times than anyone I know (it's quite embarrassing when you have to call your ex girlfriend for help to unlock your car because everyone else is busy). \n\n I haven't had health insurance since I was nineteen because that's when Medicaid expired and have been unable to see a doctor about it since it wasn't too much of a concern. As time has gone by, I'm now in my Jr year of college and have found myself unable to pay attention in class for more than probably 7 minutes. It's really become a problem. Forgetfulness has plagued me over the past 3-4 years, as I will frequently be in the middle of doing something and forget why or even what I'm doing. \n\nAnyways, today I asked my friend if I could take one of his ADHD pills because I had a major paper due in a class that would make up for my my poor grade on the only other major assignment in the class. I wound up for the first time in years actually being able to focus on my task without any distraction at all and when I had found myself working on a task that didn't directly pertain to my paper, I was able to easily shift my focus back onto my paper picking up exactly where my thoughts had left off. I think I may have taken too much because of my friend that had ADHD's recommendation and my own impatience but once I had felt the pill take effect, I was able to think and read more clearly than I have been able to in years. \n In a related question, what effect does television and video gaming have on ADD or ADHD?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There was this babe who apparently is into BATTLESTAR GALACTICA and FIREFLY in my lab class this past semester who kept giving me the looks and body language that she was probably interested. We never actually spoke, because in that class I actually enjoyed the material, and was working with all the dudes on the opposite side of the room; my persona was pretty alpha because all the guys liked me and sort of looked up to me (this isn't normal), they listened when I spoke, I helped them with their work since the subject is kind of my thing, laughed at my jokes, etc. \n \n \nThe class only met a total of 7-8 times, some of them she didn't show up so even fewer opportunities, but between the work, exams, scheduling, and most of all me bitching out, we never spoke to each other. It took a couple of weeks but eventually I started to forcefully forget about her. \n \nI'm taking a summer course now, and a couple of weeks ago I saw her in the hallway, we made brief eye contact, I ignored it because I was in an important meeting/conversation with faculty and stuff, but mostly again because I bitched out. She passed by a few more times and I still didn't step out. \nI tried to man up and sent her a facebook friend request, but she ignored it. Is this because she's offended or otherwise not interested in me? I'm pretty sure she's single.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm extremely worried about my opinions on anything related to music, movies, books, shows, or otherwise related to matters of taste and culture. I'm worried that I'll say the wrong thing and that what I like or dislike will somehow reflect negatively on my intelligence or worth. There's a sizeable chunk of the internet that seems to hold an unwritten notion that the minority of smart people like one set of things and the \"idiot masses\" like another set of things and never the twain shall meet. I don't know if I'm smart or if I'm part of the ostensibly vast masses of idiots that are, according to various rants I've read, apparently responsible for the death of culture and the plummeting quality of everything.\n\nTo make things more difficult, I don't know which opinion I read on something is the \"smart\" opinion. So I don't even know what I should even be looking for. All I know is I've seen a couple of movies recently and I've been scared to death to say anything about them lest I confirm my nagging doubts about my intelligence and perception (or, rather, lack thereof).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So to cut to the chase, when we are apart, I barely ever hear from her and her text messages are very distant and impressionable. When we are together it's passionate and amazing. She says she has commitment issues and its hard for her to flirt or show her feelings. As we spend more time apart than together, this has become a problem for me. I know she wants to be with me, but as soon as I'm out of sight it feels like I no longer exist. She's constantly telling me (in person) that she's so thankful to have me in her life and appreciates me being patient. But most of the time I feel as though I'm dating a brick wall. Every compliment is met with a standard \"Thank you\" and ever suggestion of a date is met with \"maybe\". I've called her out on this several times and she tells me she is truly working on it. I just don't know what to do to help her, or how for me not to feel like I'm dating a brick wall.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Crossposting from another sub because this seems more suitable.\n\nSorry in advanced for any typos or unclear sentences, I'm drunk and typing this on my phone.\n\nOk so flashback to the day before yesterday. One of my close friends [17/f] broke up with her boyfriend (another friend of mine) because he treated her like shit etc. She called me [17/m] up before she did it because she wanted me to be at her house for emotional support. We hung out for a short while but I had to get home before it was too late because I had work really early in the morning. The next day (yesterday) I got off at 12 (short shift) and went over to her house because she wanted to hang out again. We started watching a bunch of movies (we have a giant list that we want to watch because one of us hasn't seen it), but halfway into the second movie we were a bit buzzed from wine (not enough to cloud judgement) and we started playing this weird game (or whatever the fuck it would be) where we try to not have the other person blow in your ear and the one who was trying to blow into the other's ear was \"losing\". Idk, shit was weird. Anyways, this led us to a lot of contact and getting very close to each other. There were points where I was so close I could feel our lips slightly touching and I wanted to kiss her so, so bad (and I think she might have wanted to as well) but I didn't. Once we both started to lose energy we just lied down on the couch and started kind of spooning while she was grasping my hand. This part was post buzz (about 4 hours after alcohol kicked in).\n\nI loved that day. We had so much fun. I want to start a relationship with her. I felt the same way about her 9 months ago but I thought I was over her. But I know it's wrong. It's wrong because she just got out of a relationship and it's wrong because her ex is one of my friends. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always been in two minds about abortion. While the act of taking a potentially concious being out of existence isn't something I treat lightly, I also believe it's not my place to influence a woman's right to choose. At the end of the day I don't have all the facts and I shouldn't build an opinion on incomplete data. Very happy to have a reasoned discussion about it though.\n\nAnyway, I was recently told that a human being at ANY stage of life has fundamental rights, and is subject to the laws. Long story short, if you could sucessfully defraud an unborn baby, you'd be arrested for it. Foetus Fraud is, hopefully, not possible and the few crimes that do apply are Murder, Manslaughter, and (to a vaguer extent) bodily harm.\n\nSo a mother smokes, drinks and essentially spends her pregnancy extremely unhealthily. The baby dies and the conditions for Manslaughter in your country are satisfied (Reasonable acceptance of the possibility of death, gross negligence, Duty of Care etc).\n\nIn this hypothetical world... Should this woman go to jail? If not why can a baby be murdered but not subject to manslaughter? How would you police this? Where would the buck stop? Should women with a high predisposition to miscarriage who get pregnant knowing there's a high chance be subject to chastisement or are the children she carries somehow exempt due to her inability to control the factors?\n\nThanks for taking for taking the time to read and if you didn't...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm going to go ahead and assume that everyone who's been through their first year of college/university has been through such problems or may think of this as being super obvious, but I just want to get some general opinions on a very general question.\n\nI've just come out of a somewhat casual relationship around two weeks ago, which included a lot of dates and physical activity, but has, somewhat confusingly ended with being told that I am just liked as a friend (which I am completely fine with). So that's a bit of a small hole in life at the moment. \n\nAt the same time, my architecture education is absolutely killing me, destroying my personal time and stressing me so much. I've had to reduce contact with friends and have chosen to focus more on work. But in the time that I spent with this other person for the last several months, I realize now that I've distanced myself from my friends even more than I wanted to. They're all still very close but they simply expect me to be busy with other things. \n\nI now have an overwhelming sense of loneliness and (hopefully momentary) loss of direction as my education is confusing me so much. I am usually really good alone, but when nothing in life really seems to be going the way I want it to, do I need to find someone new? I spend all day at my studio and have little time to meet people outside my course. I've set my two closest friends up with each other, so now I'm sort of outside the circle. Do I miss attention or do I need something to impose my attention onto?\n\nNot really looking for the most serious or specific of advice, just maybe a little discussion.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last post: \n\nSo I heard what you guys said... Again. I talked to her about it but she was pretty set about doing it over 1-2 months. I argued with her a bit saying that it will create drama since she'd be replying to him less and less over a course of time. This did happen before as she ignored him because she wanted to indirectly say that she didn't like him. Anyways, I told her I could tolerate her doing it over a course of time but just last night, she told me that she cut him off. \n\nNow, she's pretty sad. Her main reason for being sad is because she had lots of memories with him and now, she doesn't have anyone other than me to talk to everyday. She says she feels lonely and I don't know what to do. (Her dad is very controlling and rarely lets her go out to see her friends) \n\nI feel extremely bad about telling her to cut him off. For me, I was in a band in my senior year and we have an active Facebook group chat and when I was showing her some funny messages today to try and cheer her up, she got all quiet and got sad. She no longer has her best friend to talk to her everyday about nothing and I feel like I can't fill the void for some reason...\n\nDo you guys have any suggestions on what I can do to cheer her up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry if this post seems all over the place.\n\nSo, the title pretty much summarizes the situation. My dad has gone to is home country to work on his family business. This is the most time my parents have been apart since they met (around 1997, married since 1999). my mom has been talking more and more to her second in command \"Jack\". Her job is very high stress (humanitarian organization) and she must deal with emergencies as they arise, thus the increased contact. \n\nAnother thing worth mentioning is that my mom has been getting home relatively late, for about 2 weeks now. She says she has dinners that she must attend to. Whenever she talks to Jack (by phone), she walks away to somewhere out of earshot. The event that began my suspicions (around 2 months ago) was when i was in her office after school, and Jack came in. He was about to say something but he realized I was there. He asked if he could talk to her in private, so they left to another part of the building. She told me it would take 10 minutes. She came back an hour and a half later. Yesterday she got a call from him as we arrived home from doing errands. Again, she walked to a secluded area of our condominium and they talked for 20 minutes. I guess this entire thing is based on assumptions. \n\nI usually help out with the laundry, and we do it weekly, so if anything did happen, it must have been recent. I have 4 half sisters all above the age of 23 that live abroad (so it couldn't have been theirs), but I only live with my parents and my [18M] older brother.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My crush knows of my nose job from the grapevine. I just got my nose done around 7 years ago. He has seen my nose, and even though it is aesthetically pleasing from the front, I have deep scars along one of my nostrils. I don't want to do a revision because the nose job looks good except for the scars. I have been using retin-a like crazy to try to lessen the scars which have worked, but I don't know if I will ever get rid of my scars completely and I don't know how long it will take.\n\nI never consulted my crush about my nose job and it seemed like he liked me before my nose job. I really don't know what to do. I really regret to some extent getting my nose done because I still looked OK without it. I just wanted to touch it up a bit because I didn't like how my nostrils flared when I smiled. After using the retin-a the scars are only visible under certain lighting and at certain angles.\n\nI can't stand the scars and they have been taking over my life ever since I got my nose done. I'm scared that I look vain and superficial and that my crush won't love me because of this. I rarely make the time to be near my crush because I'm embarrassed of even getting a nose job in the first place because it was poorly executed. \n\nIf my crush ever gets fat I know I'd still love him. I feel like he knows about the scars and still cares for me anyway but it's my insecurity that's eating me up and telling me that he shouldn't love me because these scars have made me have to constantly be around a mirror 24/7. It's vain. It's a bad personality trait on top of the scars. I don't know what to do. I feel like I easily get self conscious and angry about the scars. I'm just hoping that the retin-a will fill up my scars.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm an Australian setting out in a few weeks to backpack around Asia, starting in Japan and then flying to Hong Kong. I was intending to apply for a Chinese visa in Hong Kong and spend some time there however I'm on a shoestring budget (which is fine, I stay in hostels and eat street food regardless).\n\nI don't mind paying for the visa to get into China but I've noticed (because China is so massive) trains between many of the major cities cost ~$80 one way which is pretty steep for me. I only have 30 days so I feel there's plenty for me to do in China on the Eastern side, just wondering if anyone has any recommendations?\n\nI'd love to go up to Shanghai but that's the furthest up from Hong Kong I'd like to go, I've heard Yunnan is nice and I'm considering starting in HK, up to Shanghai, then work my way down to Yunnan and ultimately enter Laos at the end of my visa. Is this reasonable? Where is worth stopping at on the trip? And roughly how much should I expect to spend on a cheap as possible month in China if you don't mind me asking? (I budget usually around $40 AUD per day)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last weekend I invited friends over to a house party. A female friend, who I've known for about 4 months, enthusiastically responds while everyone else ended up flaking. We aren't great friends but we have a shared group of friends and have hung out a fair amount. \n\nOn the day of the party, I message her the details for the party expecting her to flake out as well. However she ends up coming and we have a pretty fun time. \n\nHowever, about two weeks ago, I broke up with a girl who I had been casually dating. I'm wondering if I'm just subconsciously trying to look for signals that aren't really there. \n\nI'm hoping a removed party can look at our interactions and judge the events. \n\n1. She's recently been helping me a lot with a side project of mine. She has a pretty expansive network and I've been leveraging that a lot recently. \n\n2. At the party, she generously shared her coke with me. However she's been in the process of setting me up with her contact. Her generosity could have been more about giving me a test run.\n\n3. She often followed me into secluded areas of the house and felt really comfortable about it. However she never sat up right beside me. She typically maintained a few inches of space.\n\n4. I'm not sure if she knew I had a gf when we first met? Also my relationship with the aforementioned gf was slated to end in August. She was moving away and neither party wanted to do long distance. A lot of our mutual friends knew this but I'm not sure if she specifically knew this. \n\nDuring the night, I operated under the assumption that we were simply friends. If I made a move and she wasn't interested, it would have been awkward trying to leverage her network for my side project. Plus a part of me feels like its best to just have some alone/me time at the moment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actually happened when I was young, but you understand. \n\nIt was about 1 in the morning and I was out with the boys. They were playing cards on our table at Steak & Shake while I watched. We order our meals. I was indecisive and so I told the waiter \"1 of every slider!\". He put down his pad and said \"Really, dude?\". I don't tolerate this kind of disrespect and saw it as a challenge. \"Yes,\" I said, \"All six, with cheese!\" About 35 minutes pass and I've drank all my water. No refill would be given to me. The boys finished their meals and we're ready to leave. I said \"Hold on fellas, let me eat! but they wanted to leave NOW. So I crammed the last 2 sliders, a buffalo and a frisco, right into my mouth and swalloed. However, they got caught in my throat. Having no drink I could not down them. My instincts kicked in and I projectile vomited onto the table, including on the man's tip. I got up and said to my buddies \"We gotta get out of here, boys.\" They asked me why just as the waiter came to the table and began to gag. We ran. And since then the boys refuse to buy me lunch or even take me to lunch.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She said \"I can't take this bickering anymore\" and told me to find somewhere to be. \n\nWe talked and she said I'm too clingy and jealous of our roommate [22] who is lesbian and only wants my wife and doesnt hide that fact. She spends all her free time with said roommate ( or so I feel) and screams at me at the smallest thing. The roommate is her best (and ONLY) friend she has who lives in our area code and they do nothing but air at the house and RP(roleplay) characters they created on IM \n\n She said she wants to try again with us and apparently didn't think breaking it off meant divorce or that I would want nothing to do with her besides our daughter. \n\nShe doesn't work and and my paranoia has me thinking the only reason she took it all back is because of the fact I am the primary income, our roommate refuses to pay more the 150 which isn't even 1/4 of our bills\n\nThe sex is gone, we rarely do anything together. It all started going down hill after the birth of our daughter, I don't blame her for the sex issue because I honestly beleive it is the birth control \"implanon\"\n\nI am a good father\n and only wants what's best for my daughter...I fear the best would be our divorce.\n\n..as we speak she is in another state for the week with roommate visiting roommates family...any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, this story happened about 3 years ago when I was just a 13 year old who was really into gaming at the time. Anyways my brother wanted to take my mom to a hair saloon and there was Newbury Comics upstairs and being the geeky kid I was I told my mom and my brother I would be buying game. Now I had not seen the saloon but all I knew was that it was downstairs. I had picked out Fallout 3(A bigger fuck up was that I didn't buy GOTY edition) and my brother bought it for me and told me come downstairs after I was done exploring the Newbury Comics. I had enough and decided to go downstairs to see if we were going home, so I could play the masterpiece of the game that is Fallout. Now, I had gotten down the stairs and went inside to a store without reading the sign. I walked in and the woman at the counter told \"Hey , you can't be in here.\" A bunch of people had started staring at me while I was at the doorway and had seen everything including the sex toys and all of the other adult stuff. I left and looked at the sign and turns right I had to go downstairs and take a right to the saloon. I saw my mom and just sat down and hid somewhere and began reading the survival guide that came with Fallout 3.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Girlfriend (19F) and I (20M) were walking my dog around campus when we walked past my ex (20F)\n\nWe have no hard feelings for each other since we broke up about a year ago so I wasn't gonna be rude and just ignore her. We exchanged heys, but then she stopped to pet my dog introduce herself to my girlfriend\n\nAfter a very quick conversation she left and we started to walk back to the car. My girlfriend hardly spoke on the way back and left for her place shortly after we made it to mine.\n\nShe came back later that night still hardly speaking and started to cry a little. I tried ask he what was wrong but I couldn't get it out of her. \n\nShe didn't move from the couch until this morning and still isn't speaking. Why do you think she's upset and what should I do about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been with my gf for 4 months now and in the beginning I was so excited to get with her cause we had been friends for a while and I always thought she would be awesome to hook up with. However, things have not gone as planned. She acts very open and adventurous about things so I thought sex would be the same but it's not, the sex is very vanilla. \n\nOn top of that, I'm starting to think I could find a more attractive partner. I mean my current gf is cute, but for a long term relationship I would prefer to have a girl that wows me every time I look at her or think about her.\n\nMy current gf is a great friend, and gets along well with the guys but she's just not... Sexy I guess is the word. Idk I feel selfish and shallow for writing all this, but I'm being honest. Has anyone experienced something similar? Know if I'm just making something out of nothing or panicking? Any advice or thoughts are welcome.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I didn't know where else to post this but I need advice. I dated this guy (20m now) in high school when I was 15 (20f now) for a little over a year, and he is still obsessed with me. It's been YEARS. \n\nEvery couple of months I will get strange messages or comments online and I have no way to prove its him I just know it is. \n\nHe posts hateful, disgusting things from fake accounts, and things like that. I know he does this because when I dated him so long ago, he did the same thing to his ex-gf before me. It's ridiculous, I'm so sick of it and I don't know what to do. \n\nI've tried ignoring him, I haven't spoken to him in over 4 years. But he continues to do things like this. I have his number, I could call him and try to ask him to leave me alone but that's what he wants, my attention. \n\nHe is a psychopath, and I want more than anything for him to leave me alone forever but I just don't know what action to take.\n\nEveryone is telling me to ignore him but part of me wants to call him and confront him because honestly I think it might scare him so much he would stop, but maybe not. \n\nI'm just very uncomfortable knowing there he is out there, trying to keep constant tabs on me and plotting ways to make me feel uncomfortable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This has been an ordeal for months now and is getting to the point where I may need to get a lawyer involved.\n\nMy neighbor drove into my patio door and damaged the patio door, some of the carpeting inside, patio furniture and a large planter. This was a hit and run as the neighbor then left and did not report this. One of my other neighbors noticed damage on his vehicle later that evening and we called the police to come take a look at the vehicle. When questioned, the neighbor with a damaged car admitted fault to the police officer.\n\nHis car insurance company is not the greatest, and is only offering a resolution of the actual value of the items and not the replacement value. Therefor, the amount of money they are offering is less than what it would even take to repair the sliding patio door. Side note: when I do email or call, it can take 4 days to get s response via email and I have yet to receive a phone call back even when I have requested it.\n\nOur home owners insurance company is able to put a claim in, but then we would have the issue of our rates going up if we do that.\n\nCan we file a law suit against our neighbor or our neighbors insurance company? Is there anything that can be done with the insurance company to even maybe just push them to give us the replacement value at all? We reside in Illinois.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know what to even think or how to approach this one without being rude, but I'm at the point that maybe I NEED to be.\n\nMy fiance and I have had a rough road financially but otherwise we've been great together. We're finally on our feet and about to move into a new apartment Feb 1st.\n\nThings are looking up for both of us, we're making more money and work is plenty.\n\nBut I noticed over the last few MONTHS he's been forgetting to brush his teeth, or if he saw me doing it he would. Now he just flat out does not, and I've bought him 2 toothbrushes and tooth paste in the last 2 months as a hint hint. Mouth wash and a tongue scraper too!\n\nIt has been over a week since he last showered and this man works outside all day under filthy cars.\n\nIt's gotten so bad that I'm repulsed by him, he has horrific athlete's foot and won't do anything about it. It smells so fucking bad the instant he takes his shoes off. He has terrible eczema and every day I come home to see him itching and scratching like a crazy person and just shedding skin all over the fucking place. Like in my bed and in the kitchen.\n\nNot that I blame him for the eczema, but I know it's a million times better with bathing and lotion.\n\nI'm at my wits end, I really do not understand this. Has anyone else gone through this? He's not even depressed, we have GREAT things to look forward to. \n\nEven his clothes are filthy! Crunchy dirty athletes feet socks reused and I can smell his jeans.\n\nThen he wonders why I don't want to have sex and he's coming at me with those black fingernails. No please.\n\nWhat makes a man who used to shower and lotion up and wear cologne and get frequent hair cuts just stop and say, nah?! I don't understand it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I met over 2 years ago in college, but were never close until we started hanging out a bit last year. Anyway, we started going out in January, and I'm so happy, so comfortable and so in love with him. He's my first boyfriend (serious or otherwise). \n\nWe're from California and are planning a trip to New York this summer. We've never travelled with a partner alone (again, I'd never had one and he's had only one other) and I don't think he's ever really been outside the west coast. \n\nI grew up Catholic, and in a conservative area. My parents are not at all too religious, or fanatics, but I've always been instilled the whole \"wait until marriage, it's inappropriate to visit his house to watch movies, you can't travel with him\", etc mentality. Needless to say, my parents don't know of my trip, even though we both live with our parents. \n\nMy question is: I've always heard that sleeping, or travelling, or doing \"married\" things will make the man less committed and less likely to marry you in the future. I'm genuinely sure I want to marry him some day but I know men think differently. How true is this? \n\nAny help would help. Thanks so much!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my BF (25M) and I (24F) have been together for three years and we have been living together for about two years. \n\nEverything has been great, the relationship is fine. It's been convenient that we've lived together because his car had broken down and we have been fortunate enough to get by using only my car. He's able to walk to school and use my car to get to/from work. \n\nNow the opportunity for him to get a car has presented itself and he is considering moving back into his parent house to save money. He wants to stay together, but doesn't want the financial responsibility f living in an apartment. \n\nI'm devastated for multiple reasons. One being that he'd move out and I love having him around to come home to. And two, because although he doesn't pay much rent/utilities he does help out and the money he gives me every month definitely helps me get by. \n\nIn my eyes it seems selfish to move out when I know he'll just be over all \nthe time anyway like he was before he moved in. Except now he won't be \"living\" with me so won't have the financial burden. He says he wants to live with me but has to look out for his best interest. But what about mine? The biggest reason I'm still in this damn state is because I love my bf and want to stay until he done school so we could start our lives elsewhere. \n\nI've sacrificed a lot for him, and now I feel like he's just looking out for what's convenient for him. \n\nBarring the financial stuff it really hurts my feelings he'd want to move out in the first place. I feel like him moving out is like backtracking in a relationship. And I wonder if it will suffer because of it. \n\nI need help reddit. I am in a world of confused emotions and I dot know what to feel", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I teach theatre design at a performing arts magnet school in Tampa, FL. I took over the program last year after it had been on a downward spiral for several years and I'm rapidly turning it around. \n\nThe problem is that we, of course, get little to no funding for the basic things that we need for our program/classroom. I have a Donor's Choose account, and currently have two open projects that need funding for the upcoming school year:\n\nThis one is for new drafting mats for the drafting desks in my room. Since the program hadn't been maintained in years, all of the old mats were drawn all over and cut to shreds. I want to teach drafting as a part of my advanced class this year, but without these it's impossible.\n\nThis project isn't as vital but it's still important. It's model building supplies so that my students can learn how to build scale models of the theatre and their scenic designs.\n\nThe other thing that I really need help with is computers - I really want to get 12-15 computers (ideally iMacs, but high end PCs would work too) but I am having a nearly impossible time getting them from the school. Does anyone have any leads on some kind of grants or any ideas as to how I can get new or used machines for my students to learn CAD on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some story. My freshman year of college first semester I took this extremely difficult linear algebra class. I was between an F-D all semester but arrogant me would just say after every bad test \"Ah I'll figure it out, I don't need to drop.\" Well it came to the night before the final (a Friday and my first college final) and I still didn't fucking get it. So I said fuck it and went out and got shit faced with my friends. I woke up the next morning hung over as all hell and went to take my test. Low and behold I aced the fucking thing and got a B+ in a class I thought I might fail. I now go drinking the night before every final. And it keeps working.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "this applies to my current 1 year relationship with my bf but is more of a general question. I always hear over and over how lack of trust is the #1 dealbreaker in so many relationships, but I honestly feel like being reserved or holding back is just a smart move for alot of reasons. If for example my bf is out for the night and not responding to texts that's ok and I'm not going to interrogate him or go through his texts when I see him, I just mean in a more general sense, as in I feel being reserved and protecting myself/not trusting him all the way is just the right thing to do generally. I have felt this way in all relationships I've ever had and I see no reason to change really. You never really know someone's true thoughts or feelings, and if you open up you are just going to get hurt, so why not enjoy your relationship while also protecting yourself on some level. He (or anybody else) will never have me completely but I don't think our relationship suffers for it.\n\nCan anyone explain why this is so important to many people? I am not a sociopath I swear, just cautious and I don't see why I should change, but it is a problem to other people I have dated. I feel you can enjoy relationships and love without a deep level of trust and it's not as important to me as it is to others.\n\nETA many are reacting negatively which is what I expected/is unsurprising, I already know people get upset about this. Can someone explain to me WHY this is important? I don't want to hurt anyone by being this way, it's just how I feel", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my boyfriend in April and we started dating in May before becoming exclusive in June. At the time he had a job in theatre and would spend short times (A month or less) away doing shows around the country.\n\nHe was given an amazing job opportunity in August and went on tour for 3 months with a prestigious theatre company. It's been very difficult being left alone but we've tried to deal as best we can. He's busy during the evenings and weekends with work and I am in my final year of college which takes up my days. We end up not speaking for days or even weeks.\n\nThe company want him back for the next tour which he is ecstatic about BUT... it's 5 months long. I would never ask him to not go because it's an great career move for him and he'd resent me. However, I don't want to be alone for 5 months. To me, that isn't really a relationship and I didn't sign up to do a long distance thing (again). \n\nI do love him and would hate for things to end but it seems like being single wouldn't be much different from what we have when he's away. It's clear that I'm not a priority which upsets me.\n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "During the summer of '11 I lent a friend in a halfway house a few hundred dollars to be able to stay there. He kept asking for more money, saying that it was for the house, and I kept dishing it out. When I added it all up, he owed me about $1200 which he said he would pay back. I, being foolish, believed this. I'm not sure where the money went... he could have honestly been telling the truth. \n\nThe next thing I know, the guy moves to South Carolina! (I'm in Pennsylvania.) He wouldn't answer my calls or texts, so I told my parents. I had this guy sign a piece of paper saying how much he owed me and that he will pay it back. With this, my parents called their lawyer and there was nothing they could do about it because it isn't enough to have a silly piece of paper. \n\nFast forward 2 years of fighting the urge to tear him a new asshole, I finally confronted him via Facebook, and he apologized and said we needed to talk. I told him I just want my money and to be done with it, but he's insisting we need to speak first or \"nothing will ever get done about it,\" so I told him I'd call tomorrow.\n\nNow, I know this was incredibly stupid and, believe me, I've learned my lesson. I don't need to be reminded of my dumbassery, but I have no clue what to do. I'm obviously going to call him, but I have a feeling he has some sob story waiting for me and I don't want to hear it... I just want my damn money! I also don't know if he's gonna wanna meet up or something, and if he does, I don't know if it will be safe for me or anyone for that matter. This is a shady kid and I was just trying to help him out.\n\nPlease help Reddit!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, around 2012, we just moved into a new house. We had absolutely no internet at that time, but my mom was a saint, she had the magical power of her cell phone, which had internet! Every Monday night, she would let us use her phone to look up random shit. I had tons of awesome memories with her phone, like the reveal of the new Mario Kart and Super Mario game coming next year. It was great...\n\nBut, onto the real story. It was another Monday night, my mom gave us both the phone with unhindered internet access. Now, I watch YouTube videos all the time, it was how I found news about the latest in tech and stuff! As I was searching through the vids, going from link to link, I found this strange video. It's name? \"YTP: Spongebob starts a Farting Contest in class\". What is this beast that lives on my screen? I found out quickly. It was vulgar, it was poorly edited, but most of all, it was hilarious. I tapped on the Youtuber's icon, and I looked at all of his YTPs, which were also hilarious.\n\nI do this until around 11 P.M., and my Mom bursts into the room to tell be something while I was watching a YTP. I quickly turn the phone off and nervously asked if it was time for bed, but before Mom answered, she grabbed the phone out of my hands and watched the entire fucking YTP. She gets pissed, and sends me to bed. You might think I just got yelled at, but NO. What my mom was going to tell me was that I could go out into the living room and have a midnight snack of a cupcake. A CUPCAKE. Let's just say, my pillow was drenched in tears when I finally fell asleep. I'm now 16 years old, and I've found ways to watch YTP in secrecy now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not sure what to do.. \n\nWe've hung out and gone out to eat a few times, we see each quite a bit because we work together, and we text/talk a lot. It's been like this for several months now, but has heated up more within the last month. She has told me I'm one of her best guy friends, and she has expressed interest in going to college together so our \"friendship\" doesn't end. I want to tell her how I really feel, but I don't want work to become super awkward either. I've never been one for reading signals and hints, so I couldn't tell you if she's been hinting at a more serious relationship. \n\nIf we didn't work together, I feel like I could just tell her my true feelings. It's too overwhelming right now because I really like her, but this messes up my approach to selecting a college, and could throw a wrench into my work. Also some additional info, she doesn't already have BF or anything like that, we don't go to the same school, and we've already talked about going to prom together.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been considering moving in together. We've really been growing in to our relationship, and despise our age have matured into it. I've had a lot of struggles through the year - including my father's death. He has not left me, or avoided me, but he supported me through it all.\n\nWe're both studying a bachelor at university (first year) - he has a decent paying job (about $400 a week), and I've been getting temporary jobs here and there (Currently working 2, and earning $500 week). If we register our relationship officially and move in together, we will both be eligible for about $400-500 of government assistance each. \n\nWe are both ready for the challenge, and one way or another I am moving out of home. We won't be moving out until December-January, earliest. I will hopefully have a more permanent job, consistent.\n\nI'm seeing a lot of positives to moving in together, it may help develop our relationship further and build a life. We're certainly not ready for kids or marriage or anything. Just moving in together, into a small house/flat for rent (which is pretty cheap in our town, I've looked into it).\n\nSo, money aside - I'm really focused on the good points, and I'm hoping I'm not overlooking a crucial point. Is there some dead obvious reason not to move in together? Or any good advice on handle the situation, assuming it does go through? Or good advice for figuring it out.\n\nI want to move in with him. I want to cook with with him, and fall asleep beside him every night. I want to drag myself home after work, and have a cup of tea with him. I want to have those moments where one of us get grumpy because our assignment is due and it's not finished until 11.34pm... and the other stays up late enough to read it through that one last time before it's submitted. I want us to sort out our problems, make decisions together, and know we're in this for each other.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened in California while I was driving on a local street to home. I was driving in the left lane on a main street that no where close to an intersection. The other car was in the middle lane and I guess the guy didn't check his blind spot because next thing I know he hits me. The damage on my car is on the passanger's side (behind the front wheel but in front of the side mirror) & the damage on his car is on his left bumper. \n\nThere was no police report and the guy is apparently claiming that I was trying to make a left turn on an intersection when he hit me..? Apparently he has an attorney & I'm not sure if I should get a lawyer also. His son called me today & asked me to re-email him the insurance information because the information I gave him was apparently wrong. However, I talked to my insurance and they had already talked to the guy's insurance company so I'm not sure if he's lying or not. He also wants me to send me pictures of my car's damages because his father didn't take pictures of the damages. I know I shouldn't agree to that but is it safe to even send him the insurance information when it seems that our insurances are already talking?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened last week, after dinner and drinks, and during sex. She said it, and I fucked up and responded in kind. Told her the truth tonight, and she stormed out. It's over. \n\nI feel horrible, but she did drop that on me right in the middle of a drunken melee. I should feel honored and lucky that someone feels that way about me.\n \nWe dated a couple of months last year and had only recently started dating again, and this happens. Tonight I acted like she didn't say it, and when pressed, I told her the truth. \n\nI only hope I haven't fucked her up too bad. She doesn't deserve it. \n\nI'll start another thread about why I'm so wishy-washy, but here's this: Has anyone else experienced this? How'd it work out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was meaning to get this off my chest for a while, here it goes.\n\nIn December 2009, I started talking to this girl I met online. I didn't think anything of it, and all we did was just talk online, or text. Soon after, she called me on the phone, and we became pretty serious. She is an amazing person with an addictive personality after talking countless hours with her. The problem? She is 35 with 2 kids and I'm 21 studying to become an Accountant. For the longest time we both wanted a relationship so badly, but I told myself it would never work because we are both in 2 completely different stages of our life. I wanted kids and she already had kids. So after fighting her desire for a relationship, we became best friends, and we are both extremely happy.\n\nShe broke up with her ex boyfriend (who is around my age), and after a year and half, they recently got back together. I feel a little be crappy about it, but I keep reminding myself that I was the one who didn't want a relationship. She is forever grateful that I came into her life, and says I was the best thing to ever happen to her life. She had a dark time where she fell into depression and she tells me that I am the reason for her getting out of that depression period.\n\nEven after she got back with her ex, she still tells me she loves me, and will forever do so because of all the things I helped her with to get rid of her depression. She goes on further by saying that given the opportunity, she would spend the rest of her life with me because she knew I was the one. I feel the same way. You may call me an idiot for thinking that way, but it's how I feel, i'm entitled to have my heart express the feelings I have for this girl.\n\nAnyways, how would you feel if the girl you were dating was just dating you because the guy she really wanted told her it could never happen?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf of just over a year sometimes posts nude pics of herself on her Tumblr and I'm really uncomfortable with it. I feel like such a hypocrite because I was fine about us posting in r/GW, It was my idea. posting pics of yourself to anonymous strangers for shits n' giggles is fine with me, But when it's on her Tumblr it isn't really anonymous at all, it's mostly her friends, be it male or female. She isn't posting smut, It's pretty tasteful for the most part. I'm just really uncomfortable about the idea of her friends seeing her naked. Is it normal for me to not be ok with this, or am I just being stupid and jealous? How would you feel in this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[ Warning: Long Text ]\n\nI broke up with my ex of 1.5 years of relationship. I went through some hurdles but after 1 month prior to the breakup, I am somehow relieved and accepted the breakup in a positive light. I'm really sorry if it is a lot to read after this.\n\n \n \n\nHowever, I asked for his assistance (exactly 1 week ago) which ended up going into his room during late night. He was fixing my tablet which I need to use the day after. I was really exhausted and somehow dozed while sitting on his couch. He woke me up and offered me to take a nap on the bed with him. That's where the sex started. He initiated everything and for some reason I let him. I accepted that part of it is my fault.\n\n \n\nThe day after, I told him the tablet was causing me problems and I gave it to him without going into his room. He returned it hours later and said \"this will be the last time we'll see each other.\" I tried my best to reply in a friendly manner despite the fact that I feel like there is a gaping hole inside. Then I blocked him everywhere after my casual goodbye.\n\n \n\nWhy. I never understand how a guy like him can just have sex as if you really wanted the person and act like none of that crap matters. I felt stupid falling for it. But he is not the type of guy who would sleep with women willy nilly. I know he had sex with his ex a long time ago but never with people whom he is not in a relationship with. \n\n \n\nNow I'm back to square 1... It was painful because I was fine for a month and ended up not being fine again. \n\nCan anyone explain about why your ex would just sleep with you and act indifferent afterwards? And any advice would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I only see my boyfriend about once every 4-6 weeks. He is a semi-devout Muslim who used to be extremely religious but divorced after 1 year, at an early age (26). Since then he has had lots of partners and does non-Muslim behaviors regularly, including doing drugs, drinking, having sex with married women, and not praying. \n\nFor reasons I will not get into, I am in a sort of cuckquean relationship with him. I am totally in love with this man and his behaviors don't bother me much because he has proven time and time again that he always chooses me over others, in the end. He hasn't said that he loves me, but I can feel that he does. We have total trust. I am prepared to do anything for him; he need only ask. Except this...\n\nWe live on opposite coasts- him in California, me in NY. I arranged a beautiful, romantic weekend for him in Big Sur and Carmel, which I arranged 100%. Last week I wished him a good Ramadan, and he tells me, \"Oh, I forgot to tell you. We can't touch -at all -- during Ramadan. Sorry.\"\n\nThis greatly upset me as he has sinned repeatedly in the past, and including eating during daylight hours during Ramadan except when he's with family. I made such an effort to visit him and arrange a wonderful weekend for him. \n\nI suppose I don't \"need\" sex with him, but how can he have it both ways? He is picking and choosing what it means to be Muslim. It is hurting me. I would marry him and have his children. I would give up everything I know in NY to be with him in Cali and take care of him forever,and even let him be who he needs to be. One of many wives, even (I am agnostic, FYI). I love him. He is declining to even hold me. \n\nWhat arguments can I make to at least be held and kissed during nighttime hours? Or even have sex?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I looked for a \"help me translate this\" subreddit but could not find one. Since this had to do with my relationship this was the best place I could think of for posing this question. So my girlfriend is moving to cali next week(ldr) we came to say hello to her parents and introduce me to/saybye to her friends. Instead of staying at a hotel and her staying at home, they kindly offered to stay with them. They fed me, took us out etc. the works. They don't speak much English, and I don't speak great Spanish (I'm a horrible Mexican). So I was hoping someone would give me a nice way to say thank you got letting me stay and being so hospitable. Would really appreciate it. Thank you in advance", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have a roommate who always asks me & our other roommate for rides. Her boyfriend is one of our good friends and he's always over at our place. She treats him like shit and we always feel bad for him; usually I end up trying to defend him or something. She is also rude to the rest of us (boyfriend definitely gets most of it though). She takes forever to wash her dishes and when she does, there is still fucking food on them, so I ended up re-washing them and now I got so fed up I finally moved my plates and stuff to a separate place. I want to just straight up tell her she's being a shitty person (and this is why I will not give her anymore rides or any help) but I still have to live with her for another 6 months. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, a little back story for all of you. \n\nI met this girl [16] (I'm 17 Male) about 3 1/2 or 4 weeks ago and it was a really casual thing to start out with. She was only a friend of a friend to me at first so I was like, \"Oh okay, she's just gonna chill with me and my other 2 friends.\" so I thought nothing of it but she was pretty chill so we talked a good while while just skating around town, getting coffee, and then going back to my place to just relax and listen to music.\n\nI started to like her more and more as the day went on because she's a very talented musician, very laidback, skates, and ADORES animals. She's perfect.\n\nWell, fast forward to now, we've hung out alot since then, gone to a concert, the mall, and hung out almost all week in a couple cases, and we're still just pretty close friends. \n\nI'm not too worried at the moment because we talk alot and always skate together and such but I'm just wondering, how do I advance this without overstepping my boundaries? She's had bad experiences with relationships in the past so I've been very careful to not do anything that'd upset her. \n\nAnd no friends, I'm not stuck in the friendzone, I've been made aware from her friend that she's interested in me as well, she's just shy and careful around people she likes.\n\nI would have totally taken her out for dinner already, but the only thing is that I'm currently unemployed...\n\nSO, my question to all of you lads and lasses out there is: How do I advance our relationship without making her feel uncomfortable? \n\nThank you in advance all of you. <3", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Happened just now. I happily skip up the stairs, getting ready to head to bed. I brush my teeth and then feel the sudden urge to pee. I drop trou and let it go, spraying my urine all in the toilet.\n\nMidway through, as I was about to go no hands, I see a spider crawling up the toilet roll. I panic, and jolt backwards, making my urine go all over the place. Then, with my baby maker out, stir dripping my urine, I grab the nearest deadly thing to banish this monstrosity. Air freshner. \n\nI spray it as it crawls away. Then I lost it. So I pulled my trousers back up and ran. I'll clean the floor when that bastard is dead.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating Boyfriend for about 8 months, and this isn't a huge problem or a deal breaker. I love him a lot and we have plans on marrying when I'm done with university. Unfortunately, this has been a problem for a long while now, and it's really been getting troublesome these past couple days.\n\nSee, the more time goes on, the more sex I want to have with him. I see sex as one of the few ways that I feel close to him. For him, though, sex is just an extra thing to do with the person he loves. Which is fine, except that there are days when he's just too tired to do things. And while I respect that, those also happen to be the days where I see him the least, which makes me want to feel close to him even more. It hurts to be turned down, and it hurts him to hurt me, and it hurts me to hurt him, so on and so forth. While its only been this difficult these past couple of days, we both agree that this is kind of a problem that should be resolved sooner rather than be held off.\n\nMy position is to change, and that it's my own problem that I have to deal with. He doesn't think I should, though, and that there's some middle ground that we can reach that works. I'm really not sure what to do. Masturbation doesn't really work, and forcing him to put out is not an option.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we were together 2 and a half years, yeah we had a few little problems but everybody does, we went out clubbing last Saturday and I got drunk and a bit insecure/jealous about her talking to another guy most of the night and not me.\n\nBecause I'd had a bit too much drink I made a few comments and we ended up arguing but I thought we had kind of sorted it but it was obvious we had to talk. I thought it was going to be okay but we met up at a pub and we talked about something's and she decided we should spend some time apart.\n\nI know it was kind of my fault I kept saying I would do things but not actually doing them, just things like not managing my money properly, saying I would start driving and I think the main one was that I said quite a few times I would work on my insecurities and that but we would always end up having a talk about it because I made a comment or something.\n\nIt's just really hard and I want to change those things but I want her back so bad, as I said I just haven't been able to do anything these past couple of days, I can't even stand being in my bedroom because of the memories and stuff :/ any advice would be a great help, even on the length of time I should probably leave it before talking to her again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years. We have a really good relationship and we're moving in together in August.\n\nThis question is going to sound incredibly stupid but I still wanted to get peoples' opinions on if this is something I should just \"let go\".\n\nAnyway... My boyfriend has always given me nice gifts for special occasions. I've gotten hockey jerseys, an expensive jacket, tickets to see Anthony Bourdain, nice dinners, all kinds of great stuff. I've never gotten treated like this before because I was usually dating someone financially unstable and I was kind of the one who would do the spoiling/treating to my partner.\n\nAnyway... This year my boyfriend has a surprise planned for me. I told him I've never cared about the cost of gifts or getting something \"special\", I would enjoy whatever he got me. What I really want is a card from him.\n\nI know that sounds stupid but I'm a huge card person. I make cards for people on special occasions and put a lot of thought into the message I write in them. I know my boyfriend is not really this type of person and feels awkward writing a message in a card. He's a physically affectionate guy but doesn't verbalize his affection very well or often.\n\nHe wrote me one (short message) card and it literally made my week. I'd really like him to do it again despite knowing it's not really his thing. \n\nBasically... Should I just let this go because it's a small detail, or should I directly ask him (or drop hints)? \n\nI love saving that kind of thing and it's just nice to get an actual message I can look at that says how he feels.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my second marriage, his first. We have two kids. For a couple of years, I've gotten a bad vibe from one of his female co-workers. They are good friends, and get along really well. They're both musicians. He really likes her and wants to be able to hang out with her after work, like grabbing a beer with her. I know he texts her sometimes outside of work hours but not sure how often or what about (he's pretty secretive with his phone). It makes me super uncomfortable and he knows this. \n\n We had a pretty big blowout a few months ago when she was throwing a party and I asked him not to go. He thinks I'm totally irrational about her and gets angry whenever I try to talk to him about this. He was going to go to the party regardless of how I felt about it so we ended up going together and it was fine. \n\nI have tried to just drop it since the party. I feel like he knows how I feel and that's all I can really do. He hasn't been going for drinks with her or anything, which I appreciate. I have recently found out, though, that this woman has a reputation for being a \"home wrecker.\" My husband said it's because she went one a date with her married friend while he was separated from his wife. This is making me feel even more uneasy about her and my husband's friendship. I know rumor mills can get carried away, especially in a small town. But I can't help but feel a little justified in wanting them to not be friends now that I know this.\n\nMore relevant information.... My first marriage ended because he met someone else. So it's entirely possible I'm over reacting about this situation because of that. I've been in therapy for over three years and feel like I've made great strides. My husband occasionally goes to therapy with me but it hasn't been very helpful. He gets impatient taking about the same thing over and over (his words).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we met at Starbucks, and he asked me to be his girlfriend 2 weeks later. Now we've been dating for 9 months. Every time I'm with him, I have so much fun.\n\n I've only had 3 ex in the past, and I've never been so attracted to someone like this before. Honestly, he even gave me my first orgasm! He's smart, mature, and very attractive. I notice all the little things about him and I'm in love. The only problem is, I haven't told him yet due to many reasons. \n\n* his age. I can't tell what's going on his head. \n* He's been around the block with the dating scene. He was married for 20 years before going through a hard breakup with his ex wife. That happened 5 years ago. Then he's been in a few serious relationships and \"multiple\" online dates. So obviously he's experienced. I've only had 3 ex and had sex with 2 of them. \n* if I tell him I love him, I'm scared he won't feel the same way and our relationship", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this guy for just over a month, but we've spent pretty much every second of our free time together. As in 6 sleepovers a week, and Friday night - Monday morning without a second apart. So it feels a lot more serious than your average one-month relationship. \n\nHe invited me to spend Mother's Day weekend with them. They live a few hours away. I would not be going home for the holiday anyway, so that is not a factor.\n\nMy questions:\n\n1. Is it too early to spend a whole weekend at his parents' home, regardless of the holiday?\n\n2. Is it too early to spend what I consider to be an important family holiday with his family?\n\nMy instincts are telling me that I should just wait at least another month, but I don't want my declination to put a damper on the relationship or hurt his feelings.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 22 [F] and she is 19 [F]. We have been dating about 2 months.\n\nHere's the thing, I know she is busy and probably tired but can someone be so busy as to not spend a second seeing how their significant other is doing? We met online and she lives in Mexico while I live in the U.S., so I understand a that it is harder to communicate. We used to message everyday and now I'm lucky if she messages me back and if she does, she stops after a short while. I do text her to see how she is doing but I feel like I'm annoying and needy and wait for her to go first. I realize this all sounds a little selfish of me but it is clawing at my mind and I am literally crying myself to sleep over this. Does she hate me? Did she find someone else? Am I as boring as I think I am? I don't want to ask her because I'm afraid I'll make her feel bad and make me look like a crazy needy freak. Also, I don't want her to start messaging me more just because I complained about it. I seriously can't sleep and I feel so stupid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just had my first experience calling up Virgin Mobile's customer service, and I hadn't heard good things; their horrid customer service reputation nearly kept me from signing up with them. So I was pleasantly surprised when the representative who talked to me was incredibly patient, helpful, and had a sense of humor; I didn't have my account numbers ready, I didn't know where to find certain things in my bill, etc., but she was patient and didn't grumble. At the end, when I thanked her for her great help and asked to speak to her supervisor, I could hear a smile break out on her face. Her supervisor did say that she would be rewarded for my compliment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I have been together for 1.5 years, things are pretty great. We live together, we get along, everything is good. However, at the end of May she went on a month-long trip to China with a study abroad group and met some friends. Specifically, she hung out with her friend from before the trip and this one guy, we'll call him Bill, they met when they got there.\n\nWhen she got back she kept talking about how her friend had a crush on Bill but she thinks Bill is interested in her. I got my suspicions and finally came out and asked my SO if he had feelings for her. She says he did. I get mad and ask why he would tell her that while she was in a relationship and why she didn't nip it in the bud. She says she thinks Bill and I would be good friends and she didn't want to end a friendship. I say OK and end it at that.\n\nWell, sort of. I notice them texting pretty often - a couple times a day - and I fuck up and snoop through her phone. I see that she told her best friend that she has a crush on Bill and she gets the \"butterflies\" around him that she doesn't get with me (anymore?). I tell her I snooped through her phone and that was wrong but I know she has a crush.\n\nShe tells me it is just a passing thing and it's normal for relationships, which I understand, but I don't see why she wouldn't tell me. We argue for a while and I say OK as long as you don't see him.\n\nAnyway, I still see his name pop up on her phone all the time when we're together and it makes me really upset. I don't see why she can't understand that it makes me uncomfortable and upset that they're still talking after all we've been through about it. I don't know how to bring it up anymore without seeming paranoid or controlling.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background:\n\nI've known this girl for about a year. We've talked casually from time to time - just at school, and did never meet outside school except at her party, which was cool.\n\n---\nWe both moved to the same city coincidentally (we're students). There's going to be a room available on her floor in a month, and I was interested in renting the room (since it's a major upgrade from where I live now).\n\nI said that I would like to see the room, and she invited me over to her place to see hers, and she offered to cook.\n\nI went there Tuesday and we both had a great time! We have a lot in common, and we had laughs about each others' stories :). \n\nAnd suddenly after I had to leave (she had to go to work), I immediately developed strong feelings for her.\n\nI just don't know how to approach this situation; how should I act to win her over?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last week, I had 3 huge assignments due for one of my teachers. These assignments have made the past week pretty much one of the most stressful weeks of my life, and I didn't even finish until Friday just about when school ended. When I went to go to her to turn it in, it turns out she had health problems and checked out 30 minutes before class ended, leaving me in what I would call an FML state of mind. I rushed to the library and emailed my teacher as soon as possible explaining the situation... but so far she hasn't responded. And it's Sunday. I'm worried sick, Reddit, and I have no idea what I should do. Surely she must understand and not flunk me just because I barely missed her leaving her class... but I'm in doubt. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

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