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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My father-in-law is staying with me and my husband for two weeks. We have a very small apartment, one bedroom, a tiny bathroom and kitchen. I love my father-in-law, and he's very kind and generous, but staying in such close quarters with anyone except my husband or best friend is trying. He has these tiny habits, like humming the same short melody over and over again, that drive me up the wall.\n\nIn the mornings, I have to have my alone time. My fil gets up early, blasts the radio and asks me all kinds of questions on everything from food to politics as I'm trying to wake up over my breakfast at 7 am. \n\nI know I'm at fault for being easily stressed and needing a lot of alone time, but is there any POLITE, NICE way of saying I need to eat breakfast alone or that I need to go spend time alone in our bedroom in the evening? Thanks guys.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live with some college girlfriends in a small city in a very old home. I pay rent, utilities, (which include water, gas, heat, cable, internet, etc) and my own foodstuffs since I'm on a specific diet. I have known this girl for 5 years, and she has a boyfriend that NEVER leaves. It's not like he's a typical mid twenties burnout either - he's a teacher in a great school district, makes good money, and has his own place sans roommates less than two city blocks away. \n\nBasically, he is always here. Never leaves for more than his workdays and to pick up clean clothes from his place. He literally lives here, showering, cooking, doing laundry, and hanging out in the common areas even when his girlfriend isn't here. PLus, they have loud sex every night, which doesn't really bug me, but its getting a little annoying when you have early mornings and you are awoken to a slamming headboard at 2am every night...\n\nHere is the real problem though. Many other sites that address this problem suggest that the boyfriend should chip in with rent and/or utilities. Here is the kicker - the roommate doesn't pay rent since its her fathers place. She has a joint bank account with her Dad (who is my landlord) to which she pays me the utilities that are in my name. She is a new grad and unemployed, so I know she isn't paying rent with her own money.\n\nMyself and the third roommate are getting seriously frustrated. We both work hard at out entry level jobs to make ends meet, plus the work in maintaing the house. I basically feel like I am financing their love nest, and I'm sick of it. \n\nSorry that was so long, I feel much better getting all that out.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to make this short(ish).\nSo I have had only one committed relationship in my life; my high school AND college sweetheart. We were together for eight years. He is the guy I lost my virginity to and the only boyfriend I have ever had. However, we broke up this January. I am completely over it now. Haven't really dated since, just some coffees and lunch dates. Decided to get off the pill because it was terrible for my mood, libido and was causing some physical complaints. Haven't had sex since January, fine with me.\n\nBut now I started dating this guy and I really like him. It's actually scary to admit because I have only experienced this beginning phase of love ONCE: almost nine freaking years ago. We have been on three dates, kissed and I hope to call him my boyfriend in the future.\n\nHowever this shit is frightening me. I thought I was super experienced due to my eight year relationship but turns out I know nothing. It's been three dates and we haven't had sex. My girlfriends are telling me I am weird en prude for not having sex yet and that he'll probably won't want a fourth or fifth date. It's not even the sex itself that I am concerned about, it's the damn pill. I don't want to rely on solely a condom, but I only got off the pill three months ago and my period still isn't perfectly regular. I just don't want to fuck up my body again but maybe I should to keep him happy?\n\nAlso, when do you start thinking about being boyfriend-girlfriend? It's only been three dates over a course of 1,5 month, is that extremely short? Long? Normal?\n\nBasically I am a giant noob and need advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Thank you in advance for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 23-year-old male and I'm considering ending a relationship with my best friend of 5 years.\n\nI finally forced myself to see her for the massively narcissistic, attention seeking person she really is - and how I've always been a punching bag for her emotions in this unhealthy friendship.\n\nLast week, I told her that I will be renewing my work license in New York (I live in Philadelphia) for two days during my day-off when we were talking about work; out of nowhere, she mentioned \"I guess you don't miss and want to visit your friend in California afterall\". I just don't understand why she always takes my words out of context in order to make me feel guilty and be manipulated by her. When I was talking to my family when she was calling, she left a message saying \"I won't bother you by calling anymore if you're busy\".\n\nWhat would you do in my situation? I just don't know what to do anymore. I will miss her very much. But I won't miss the friendship. I won't miss the friendship at all.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm looking for some advice - I babysat a kitten over the weekend who it seems like just started getting fleas. The owner had been aware of the flea dirt, but didn't do anything about it (and also didn't tell me that this was happening). I found a few adult fleas on the kitten, and informed the owner and told her she needs to treat the kitten. Now, I'm wondering what I should do about my apartment. It seems like this was early on in terms of when the fleas started, however, I'm worried because I was hoping to adopt a new cat soon as my former cat passed away earlier this month. Do you guys have any advice for how to treat my apartment and also how worried should I be about possible flea infestation?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "hello all. like the title says, i got hpv from a girl that i had been in love with for a long time. she didnt know about it till she went to her doctor and found abnormal cells in her uterus (yes, this is the strain that causes cancer :(\n\nlong story short, her and i went our seperate ways i have vowed to be a good person and not pass this on to anyone else. my dating and sex life has been non-existent and i just tried to focus on school/work to keep my mind off. now, im feeling very very depressed and lonely and i dont know how to deal with this situation.\n\ni have a prospect i really like. i just cant seem to get over this hurdle and let my feelings show in fear that i will hurt her. has anyone else dealt with this before? i could really use some advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In the past day or so I've come across some rather troubling sights. One of which I saw in r/vinyl, the only sub I tend to visit with due regularity. There, a redditor made a thread to discuss the mastering of an album compared to it's digital counterpart. He was met with a response that it sounded 'funny' because the band sucked. The antagonist to the OP then went on a thorough, but juvenile, nit picking of his distaste for said band. It lead OP to call r/vinyl 'r/elitistmusiccirclejerk'. While the sub can be helpful in discussion of vinyl and listening tips, it's also a place where people share their collections, to the jargon of a good few.\n\nLast night in r/music I was reading comments in a thread wherein OP had up to enough with people posting popular music. Others suggested that he check out various, more specified subs. This was met with people saying that sharing links to other subs leads those of 'inferior' tastes to their smaller subs, ruining them.\n\nThe same can be said of just about any sub that deals in pictures. Particularly r/WTF, which 'goes back to it's roots' about once a month instead of people just going to something more suitable. Any sub that hits more than a few thousand subscribers seems doomed to turn in such a way.\n\nI find it disheartening that people feel this way. That some will complain about the content of a sub and others well be upset when alternatives are proposed. Seeing as Reddit is a community based in connection and sharing, with many options available to provide with an acceptable feed, I find the battle between those that circlejerk (post what they like, and know others will) is met with such fierce elitism (a hatred/dislike of those who appreciate similarities, even on a base level).\n\nHow do you feel about this? Discuss!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obviously, this is a throw away account.\n\nSo I have a roommate who is also an ex-fuck buddy. We are now simply friends. I am a 24 year old female and he is 20 years old. \n\nWe stopped our 'actions' because he decided to become more dedicated to his LDR girlfriend, who he's been off and on with since December of last year. He was confused (aka, young and doesn't know what he wants) while we were together, but I helped him understand that he really did want this girl. I had listened for DAYS about his absolute love and devotion and about how this girl saved him and how sweet she was and....blah blah blah.\n\nAnyhow, he was supposed to be staying celibate for this girl until November, which is when he is moving back to be with her. It took all of about a week for him to go to a party and sleep with someone else (last night). I'm friends with his girlfriend, she called the house four times last night and this morning, and I had no idea what to say. I'm an honest and very open person; I won't lie if it doesn't mean life or death, but I kept his partying on the down-low.\n\nI have no idea what to do. He does this constantly. It's a cycle, I guess. He controls what she does via telephone, but does his own thing anyway. I've talked to him, it lasts for a day or so, and he's back to treating this girl like dirt.\n\nI have no idea how to approach him now, or if I should let her know whats going on. People of Reddit, you all usually hit the nail on the head with these issues....help?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As always, this didn't actually happen today\n\nI made plans with a girl I had been talking to online for a few months for her to come down and visit me. She didn't live too far but it was still three trains away. Well the day came and she hadn't been responding to my messages. Waited all day, she didn't come. I get a message the next day just: *I have a virus*. I called 'bullshit' and just ignored the message. She stood me up.\n\nThe day after, I was talking to a friend of mine about it. We were friends as kids, family are pretty close, they moved away not so long ago. She asked me whether I was a virgin and I confided in her, telling her that I had been recently stood up. She laughed for a solid two minutes. At first I was laughing with her but that eventually faded. She immediately apologised (she could tell I wasn't enjoying it) but couldn't hold herself any longer. I eventually hung up and couldn't bear the embarrassment anymore. We usually give each other a hard time and laugh but this was just plain mean.\n\nI feel like shit still.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend that I've known for most of my life got married yesterday and I was his best man. His wife's sister was the maid of honor. Just to give you an idea of the age range of everyone, the bride and groom are both 24.\n\nAnyway, I live a state over from all of them so I visited for all of last week. Since most of the time was spent doing last minute wedding prep, I ended up spending a lot of time with the maid of honor. I had met her a few times before this past week, but this was the first time we spent any substantial time together. \n\nLong story short, some innocent flirting took place and now I can't stop thinking about her. It's been 3 years since my last relationship and I haven't even had feelings for anyone since then. A few things weird me out about this situation/tell me this isn't and shouldn't be going anywhere:\n\n1. The age difference. I've graduated from college and she hasn't even started her senior year of high school.\n\n2. She has a semi-serious boyfriend (as serious as you can be in high school, I guess). I've never met him.\n\n3. This all hits to close to home. I've started considering the long-term when it comes to relationships because a lot of my friends are starting to get engaged or married, and dating my best friend's wife's sister just seems weird to me.\n\nDespite all that, I can't deny that I like her. It could partially be because I'm lonely or haven't had romantic interaction in 3 years, but regardless, the feelings are there. Cutting off contact won't really work either since she'll likely be around some or most of the time when I go visit my friend. Also, I've gotten pretty friendly with their family as a whole and I wouldn't want to get on their bad side.\n\nAfter writing this, I'm not really sure what advice I'm looking for. I guess I'm looking for advice on how to stop thinking about her in a romantic context. Or maybe I just needed to get this off my chest.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, and living together since we were together around 6 months. \nEverything was awesome, we rarely fought and there has rarely been any huge issues aside from a few times I've come across him text messaging other women inappropriate things, which he apologized for and I forgave him, etc. (I'm surprised i did, i have serious trust issues)\n\nNow, lately, I've been feeling very upset and frustrated, and generally unhappy.\n\nI feel as though I need to be on my own, I want to travel and explore and do all kinds of things that he's not interested in. I find myself thinking things like \"if I was single I'd go do this\" or \"if I became single again I'd go here or try this\" & I'm realising that if I ever want to do those things, it likely won't be while I'm with him.\n\nBut, here's the hard part - I have no idea if he feels the same way - he knows something is wrong because I've completely shut down over the weekend, my mind is so jumbled and I'm so confused that I didn't eat anything yesterday so I'm obviously not feeling well. Hes been too sweet to me, massaging my back before I fell asleep last night, etc, so I feel like this might completely blindside him.\n\nDon't get me wrong, there's lots about him I love, he's kind (most of the time), he can always make me laugh or smile with his goofy sense of humor, but I really don't know if I csn do this anymore. I feel held back, trapped! I know I could go do all those things with other people while still with him but I fear the rarely seeing eachother due to our schedules would just end in a breakup anyways..\n\nSo what I need is advice - How do I do it? We live together so this will be incredibly hard... I'm so scared to break his heart, I'm scared he'll get angry. I'm terrible at confrontation, so i'll likely break down and be bawling before I even get any words out...\n\nPlease help :(", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A lot of things happened with us. Both have bad pasts but mostly I was dealing with a big illness (bad Gerd) that made me bitter about a million things. She was the kindest most giving person ever but so much that I though she'd always be there despite my outbursts. Would give anything to have her back, but I do just want her happy.\n\nI've started working on myself, fitness, quit drinking and smoking and started my own business.\n\nI made her feel worthless in the relationship and i spent 2-3 weeks after the breakup letting her know how much she was worth to me. We broke up before after my grandads funeral, instantly regretted it and then chased her for a week and we were back together. We never properly reconciled though because we missed eachother so much.\n\nShe won't get into any talks but we run a charity together. The one day we had to.meet at an event, and we we acted like we used to at the beginning, it was amazing. After we left eachother she was texting me jokingly and that was great too. Times gone on and as i try to sort things out she she just keeps saying she wasn't good enough, how she was no good for me and I need to change for me etc. I say how great she was and she tells me.I'm doing so well (because of what I'm doing with my life now). I ask if she's okay and she says she's getting there. I ask her if she's sure and she says \"I'm Ok.. Just Concentrate on being you.\" we then both said good night. When I've suggested we can't be friends because I'm only interested in her romantically she's kicked off in aggression so surely some feelings are still playing about?\n\nIs there any, any chance at all to get this back? She really is amazing and I can't see myself ever getting over how badly i treated her, especially as we run a charity committee together.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years and we recently bought our own house and moved in at Christmas.\n\nI've always ran on about 6 - 7 hours sleep, and prior to moving in, I'd always do my own thing when I got home. I'd play games, learn some code until I was tired which was usually until about half 12. \n\nMy girlfriend is always tired and wakes up early for her job, she's usually up at 7 and out of the house by 8. She goes to bed at 10:30 so gets about 8 - 9 hours sleep a night.\n\nI've been trying to get into this sleep pattern, but I just find myself lying awake at night or being shattered the next day from too much sleep.\n\nI'm wanting to spend some time playing some games, and with most people my age, the only time we get is later at night - hence the reason I was usually playing games from about 10 - 12:30.\n\nNow we're living together, she complains that I either wake her up because she's a light sleeper, and how it's unfair for me to go to bed later because I should be thinking about her.\n\nPersonally I think this is wrong to simply demand this, but she's as stubborn as they come, and trying to talk sense into her just results in an argument. I've tried explaining the above, or using the fact that when she wakes up in the morning, her alarm wakes me up, as does her getting dressed etc so I end up waking up an hour earlier due to her. \n\nI should add that I work from home in a stressful job, but she uses this as an excuse as to why I should respect her sleeping hours and go to bed at the same time (even if i lie awake for hours). I can't go to bed later, I can't use my laptop in bed to code, yet she has to have the TV on to go to sleep to (I can't stand this)\n\nI don't really know how else to tackle it, as everything gets turned into me being the bad guy and its all about her", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Fortunately, none of my \"encounters\" have been embarrassing, but one of my close friends just recently ended up going home with a girl from a club. They were both trashed and after they finished, he left her dorm room in order to go to the bathroom. Unfortunately, he was on the girls floor so he couldn't use the bathroom. He preceded to leave the floor not realizing the door locks behind him. He ended up pissing on the stairwell and waited there for hours until someone would let him in (all his stuff was in her room and she was passed out). The next day, he learns she left her tampon in and had to go to the doctors because it was stuck. Reddit, what is your most embarrassing story?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a senior in college right now and my boyfriend and I had been dating for about a year when he ended it very abruptly about 2 months ago. With that it ended pretty explosively. The initial breakup was - as normal - upsetting but fine. Within days though he was pestering me via text and through mutual friends, constantly trying to get me to talk to him. Basically, when I went back to his place to get my stuff back, it ended in an extremely heated argument with lots of yelling on his end.\n\nFastforward 2 months and we've just gotten back from our separate spring breaks. I come home to a text from him saying that breaking up with me was the biggest mistake of his life and that he would like an opportunity to talk and a chance to prove his worth to me. We ended up talking for a long time during which we talked about what had happened during our relationship and he explained to me that he broke up with me because he was intimidated by the fact that I had a job so long before him and that there were some pretty bad problems going on at home that he felt he couldn't talk to me about.\n\nWe've been texting a little over the past few days since I said we could try being friends. Tonight though, I received a long text from him saying basically he would like to date me again because he has realized that I am \"the one\" and he wants a second chance.\n\nSo confused here, I have no idea what to do and I am feeling incredibly torn. Any advice would be much appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our school went on strike at the beginning of our university careers in 2008 and went from October to February when they were legislated back to work by the government. For those who didn't transfer to different schools or drop out entirely, two semesters worth of classes were compressed to fit into a Feb-June timeline.\n\nNow, they're about to strike again, right before exams. This is going to mess up people's plans for getting a job for the summer (This same shit happened in 2008 that I forgot about, we had significantly less time to work and almost zero opportunities to work as all the other uni students were already on summer break), grad school applications, and career employment for graduating students. \n\nThis is not to mention that many of the students graduating from our campus are international students and this could mean they have to leave the country before they can graduate, as their visas may expire. Even if they are able to stay, they also need to have arrangements to live somewhere, etc etc. \n\nSo many problems will arise from this, **WHAT CAN WE DO??", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've had a shitty week/month/year regarding women and I'm starting to think it's just me...\nso, I'm 25 year old male and I've had this ex who had strung me along for over a year. She dumped me because she didn't love me anymore then dated someone else and came back to me for a year before I put a stop to it. I didn't talk to her for over 8 months and during that time I went on several dates, all ended with the first date and no second one. Then, I meet this girl, she goes on several dates with me and just cuts off contact and never responded to my text (no, I didn't blow up her phone, I just stopped texting her after she never responded.)\nAfter not hearing from her for a month or so she text me out of the blue on wednesday, asking if I want to see a movie. I said yes and today, when we were going to see it, she told me \"I'm so bad, I saw it with my brother, I'm sorry\" I said no problem, we can do something else. Its turned into nothing but excuses so I just said fuck it, not going to push for it.\nNow, today, my ex hit me up to hang out and talk. I said ok, we talk, go out to lunch and she said \"you promise you won't get mad?\" I told her to just say it. She said \"I'm dating another guy, but if it doesn't work out do you want to get back together?\" I just walked out without saying a word.\nI have aspergers, but I'm very high functioning, just bad social skills. I feel like once the initial physical attraction wears off, I'm bland and boring. I don't know what I'm doing wrong or if it's not me. Are girls normally like this or have I just been unlucky?!?!\nI'm \"very good looking\" from what I'm told so I think that's what scores me the dates, but my personality is shit. and yes, they know I have aspergers before I go on dates with them.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey r/relationships, I've been lurking this subreddit for a while now and I just had to take this off my chest and just ask some questions.\nThis past 2 semester in school I've been doing terrible, it's my third year in college and before this I've been doing really well with a 3.7 gpa. \n\nI guess it all started once my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because she was moving to another state. This broke my heart and I had lost all interest in everything. I stopped going to my classes and ended up failing all 4 of them... which ended up in me losing my financialaid and lost the whole next semester due to my uni rules. All I had was my part time job to worry about.\n\nNow this new semester my mom gave me money to get into the uni again but warned me that if I failed again I was out of the house and had to pay her back. She made me quit my job so that I would just focus on school. This just made me get way too stressed and now... I'm doing terrible, I had to drop a class already and will probably fail another class. I feel so useless. I can't even take a damn test without me freaking out and forgetting a lot of stuff. I've been studying a lot but I don't know what's going on with me lately. I used to be a good student but everything it's just been crappy.\n\nI've been thinking a lot about it lately, I'm talking with my mom tomorrow and I know she'll freak out. I'll start looking for another job or apply at the same place that I was before. I am just scared about my future, I feel like a loser.\n\nI need some advice reddit, I don't know what to do :(", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short I was in a relationship for 6 years. Unfortunately I fell out of love, the sex was no existent for the last year or two and overall it just want not a healthy relationship. \n\nAll that aside she still loved me and believed I was the one. She was completely blindsided by the break up ( she said she was but I tried talking about my issues and was never listened too, she must have seriously been in denial). \n\nIt's been 2 months since we broke up and I have been dabbling in the online daiting scene and there mutual interest with a few girls, one in particular. \n\nI'm afraid to pursue anything with her because of fear I would really destroy my ex. Even though I'm not romantically invested in my ex anymore I still care about her as a friend/person. Am I stupid for having these feelings and should I just grow the fuck up and do what makes me happy?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This one won't be too long. I am finishing up my bachelors on Dec 15th, but also working a [very] part time job at my local vet hospital. So basically, I have a very small income after I pay my bills (unfortunately, bills are still due in December!). My boyfriend G, has been helping me pay for some of my family's christmas presents and he knows that I am unable to reciprocate for his family. He has a pretty good teaching gig and makes a steady paycheck. He told me he doesn't want my money (in regards to paying him back for my family's presents). I still feel like this isn't right. After graduation, I will be working more hours. Should I let this go? He really is helping me out A LOT, but we're not married and I don't want him to feel like he has to give me money for things like this.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay here's some back story. 22/F/Austin, TX. Been an esthetician for 3 years and I'm extremely bored. Wanting to start college at Austin Community College and I'm not 100% sure what to major in. I want to do something with technology & science (but not too much, don't want math/science to rule my life) and management. I want to be able to make good bank, a little techy, and lots of management. I've always been fascinated by management roles and how they can really shape the entire operation. Any idea what I should major in? I've read about Management Information Systems, seems interesting...but what would I get an associate's in to feed into that? Dis hard. ACC Councelors won't meet with me until I have all my stuff turned in and take a test or two and I'm antsy so I'm asking y'all", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met 21f through a buddy almost two years ago shortly before moving away. We became good pals through facetime and texting pretty regularly. Last May I moved to a new city and we Would facetime daily since I didn't know\nMany people. It was a huge help. She's had a rough couple of months with a family member passing, I was there for her more than the guy she was seeing even though I'm Six hours away. Lately though, I've started to feel more and more like a therapist to her as she often will ask me for advice, what do to and if she can do certain things. \n\nIt's getting to be a bit much for me to the point I just told her how I feel this morning. She has some additional issues which I won't get into but has now\nTold me she feels bad and won't talk about things anymore. I've tried to talk about things I'm excited about and will often not get a reply or the subject will get changed, I show interest in what she is doing when she's excited. Things just seem one sided and I'm getting tired of it.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "we had a great relationship and the breakup was out of nowhere. Just before the breakup he took me out on a nice date and bought me flowers.\n\nFast forward a little bit and he sends me text saying we need to talk and i'm going to hate him. He tells me he doesnt know what he wants in a relationship and wants to figure out what he wants in life blah blah. I was very hurt but decided I could be friends with him in a couple monthes once school starts.\n\nWe have been broken up for about a month when I found out that he had met another girl while we were dating. He claims all they did was talk and hangout but they started dating two days after we broke up. This girl is already hanging with his family and everything makes me feel like it was longer than two weeks and was intense\n\nI was over the breakup but finding out he did this to me really hurts. Inever expected him to do anything like this. All he could say was I didn't mean for it to happen it just did\n\nI feel so lonely and don't even know how to date.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Relationship_Advice,\n\nSo here's the predicament: I've recently been seeing this amazing girl - smart, great body, emotionally stable - she has it all. It's amazing! \n\nWe've been dating for a while now, and we've finally progressed into the bedroom phase of the relationship. Here's where it gets...awkward.\n\nOne of the first few times we had sex, I was behind her, and I noticed a small bit of, well, crap, still hanging out on her butt. Now, I'm no prude, and we were in the middle of sex, so I honestly didn't care. \n\nFast forward a week or two - we're going at it again, and as soon as I take off her pants, I *smell* something...but it's the heat of the moment, and so we just go at it, as it were. I won't get into details, but suffice to say she's a squirter, and did her thing. We did it in missionary that night, and it wasn't until the next morning that I noticed a *skid mark* down the middle of my white sheets. D: Ohhhh no.\n\nFast forward, another few days: Sex again, now I'm worried, I can smell poop, and lo and behold, the next morning, I actually find *crusted shit* on my comforter. :( :(\n\nr/relationship_advice, what do I do? I absolutely adore this girl - her looks, her brain, her calm and cool collected demeanor. What a step up from my ex! BUT - this whole 'my ass isn't clean' thing is **really** getting to me, and I need to know how to break it to her as politely as possible. I'm stuck, and I need your advice!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short, I completed my Masters in a communications-related field last May. Right after school, I was hired to work in IT, even though I had no experience or knowledge of anything IT-related. I failed to meet the expectations of the job, and today when I went in to discuss a plan of action, I was told that when I was hired, they didn't have a training plan in place to help me, nor did anyone have the time to work with me. I said to my manager, \"so basically, I was set up to fail from the moment I was hired,\" and she agreed. My manager offered a two-week plan to \"get back on track\" but explained that if I didn't meet the expectations, I would most likely be terminated, so I should take the severance package and leave on my own terms. So, I voluntarily left in order to get severance, but now I don't have a job.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I write this one mainly to chanel my frustration, but also because I'm confused as hell whether this is so inappropriate I should treat it like a major red flag.\n\nI've been on some dates with this guy, and the last couple of times I stayed over at his place. He doesn't have a double-sized bed, only two person-sized beds, so after doing the deed, and falling asleep right next to each other I usually just move over to the other bed (mainly because he starts spazzing and snoring).\n\nThis last time we were out drinking, so we came back to his place drunk (me more than him), undressed and got into bed fast. As I said I usually can't stay the night next to him, but thanks to the booze this wasn't a problem now, I slept like a baby. I still woke up once or twice when I felt I was almost falling down the bed, and once when he climbed over me to get to the other bed.\n\nWhen I wake up in the morning, I look at him on the other bed, and he's there playing with his phone with a really stern look on his face, and giving me the stink eye. I understood I probably did something in my sleep, like snoring or kicking, so I said \"Sorry, did I chase you away? I've been sleeping so deep I wasn't feeling anything if you were poking me or something\", and he answers \"Yeah, I didn't have enough space so I tried kicking you off, but didn't succeed, so I had to move from my *own* bed.\" I would think he was kidding, but his tone was really serious, and he was still giving me this cold look. I tried to talk about it, but then he just brushed it off, and sat down to work, ignoring me for maybe another hour (while I was still lying in his bed, I'm horrible!). \n\nNow everything's alright and peaceful, but what the actual fuck was that? Who does that?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He's my first real official boyfriend. I like him alot. We haven't been able to see each other because of distance and lack of licenses. But almost every time we talk he ask me if I want him to buy me stuff like clothes. On one had yes I want the stuff on the other hand I like him and he's worth more to me than just stuff. I'm not sure if I should just let him buy me stuff or if I should keep rejecting the offers. I feel guilty anytime anyone buys me stuff so he's no different maybe even more. I don't have a job so I can't give back. I wouldn't feel as guilty if I could buy him stuff too. Advice?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I think this belongs here but I'm not sure. Not really sure where else to ask for advice or how to proceed. I'm not even sure if \"creep shot\" is the correct term. Either way, there are photos on my SO's computer of him taking covert pics of girls in public. Legs, boobs, girls wearing really short skirts, etc. yes, one that I saw may classify as an up skirt but only because the girl had on a really short skirt and it was from a slightly downward angle. \n\nEither way, I don't know what to do. We're married, I love him. Do I trust him? Not really, but we were working on that. And I wasn't snooping for no reason. I was getting on his computer to borrow it and I asked him first. Went into a folder with a pic of our kid and those pictures were scattered throughout the folder.\n\nI don't really have anyone I can confide in because I don't want my friends to think bad of him. He's actually a really good dude.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long time lurker, first post ever. I'm looking for a bit of help trying to figure out if this potential job is legitimate. Regardless of my desperation, I'm typically rational when it comes to making big life decisions but last week, I received an email from a recruiter about a potential \"Project Management\" position from a VC from Delaware and all I had to do was apply on their website if I was interested. I was already sketched out but 2 things checked out: 1. Recruiter had a corporate email and 2. The website seemed really legit, so I thought that it wouldn't hurt to apply. There was no financial information requested, only my address and phone number as well as my references.\n\nOn Monday, I received another email, asking to schedule a phone interview. At this point, a lot of emotions take over and I request for a call at their soonest availability. The next day, I receive the call right on schedule by a female with a heavy Russian-ish accent. I was asked a couple basic questions like my typical workday and my career goals. It was very brief, 8-10 minutes but I immediately felt that I was being scammed. After the phone call I do even more research and found that the site has been active for only 21 days.\n\nToday, I got an email about the next step from a Sr. in Human Resources. Attached was a contract for a one-month paid training which is apparently a part of their \"screening process\" before they decide to hire full time. Again no financial info was asked from me, just e-sign the document.\n\nThe document says that the corporate address is in Kowloon and I haven't been able to find ANY contacts on linkedin but they included a bunch of address for the new office in Los Angeles. I'm going to call all the numbers to see if I could speak with anyone. How should I go about all of this to find out if this is a real job and also a what is the best way to protect myself if it isn't?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met online, on a random group video hangout thing, and were both flirting with each other. Our first video hangout lasted about 6 hours, and have easily clocked way over 50 hours since then. Other than that we spend an insane amount of time texting and are always sending snaps to each other. We're both fairly intense people and have already fallen madly in love with each other. \n\nWe both work full time but I have more flexibility when it comes to taking time off so I'm going to visit for a couple of weeks in a few months.\n\nWe both realise how quickly we've fallen for the other, and have expressed an interest in pursuing something serious if the trip goes well. Neither of us wishes to be exclusive or anything at the moment, neither of us has sacrificed hobbies, trips, social life or anything to spend time with each other, we mostly just sacrifice sleep to video chat and spend every free moment messaging each other. And yet it seems completely insane that I am considering moving country for someone that I've not only never met, but have only just met recently.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today (a few weeks a go) I was a patient in a small open psych ward. It was Sunday, the one day a week that we were allowed to sleep in past 7:30 am, and I had to get early up to play in a gig. \n\nSo my alarm goes off at 6:50 am, and I get up to make some breakfast. I put my bread in the toaster and put the kettle on, get the milk out and all that, but I realise I forgot to grab my own tea bags an mug I brought with me, so I go back to my room to grab them. I'm walking back to the kitchen when these red lights start flashing, and sirens, and a really weird voiceover saying 'evacuate, evacuate'. \n\nSo staff are pouring out of their hidey holes and making sure everyone is getting out of bed, and all of a sudden there's a small army of very tired, very angry psychologically damaged/frail youths. I rush into the kitchen to discover that my toast hadn't burnt but was smoking a little bit. I eject the toast to find that it isn't even toast yet.\n\nEveryone is rushed outside while staff do mandatory room checks. The fucking fire brigade show up. I'm crying, there's an army of youths whose sleep in I stole, and staff are laughing at me and trying to explain to the fireys that we don't need them. Apparently after the same thing had happened a few months back, they had decided to re-jig the alarm to stop it from happening again and fucking didn't.\n\nI got to the gig, but when I went back, everyone was angry at me, except for the few friends I had made on the inside.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Everything seems to be going really great with my boyfriend. We've met each other's families, we're spending a lot of time together, we have sex regularly and things seem fine. I'm worried because this is the third time I've caught him sexting other women. \n\nHe reactivates POF and OKC accounts, gets phone #s from ladies on there, deactivates the accounts and then sexts them. Each time he insists it's just to masturbate, that he has no real intention of emotionally investing in any of these women or meeting in person. I guess that's better than if he were actually meeting up with them, but i feel so betrayed and disgusted. He swears he will permanently delete his online accounts and contact info for these women and \"just watch porn like everybody else\" (his words). \n\nAm I being foolish to give him another chance? Does anyone have an experience like this where the person actually does change their behavior?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There is this guy whom I have known for maybe around a year now. We go to the same school so we used to see each other every day before the holidays began. I could say we are rather good friends as we can talk about almost everything. Now there's this event coming and both of us are attending it. We were chatting one day on Facebook and he said if I wanted he could pick me up that day and also bring me back home with his bike. I see it as a \"big\" thing as this guy is an introvert and quite shy around people. He's often awkward with girls save for me.\n\nIs this only a gesture of politeness or could this guy have some feelings towards me? In general he is a real gentleman and a very sweet guy. That made me think that he might have no special reason for offering a ride. However, I never complained or even mentioned how I would otherwise go to the event; he just came up with that suggestion all of a sudden. He has never asked anything me anything like this before nor have I seen or heard him giving a ride to anyone else ever before.\n\nWhat got me thinking was that getting a ride from someone is, after all, quite intimate, isn't it? Being so close to the driver and having to hold onto them and all. You don't usually see guys giving rides to girls unless there's something between them (okay, you do... but you know what I mean).\n\nAnyway, I want to hear your opinions about this. Do you think he could be developing feelings towards me, or is this an everyday thing for guys to do?\n\nIn case you want to know my reply, it was a yes. I have a weak spot for guys with motorbikes. :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was always taught that if you don't like something you speak up and if things change then great, if they don't then either you learn to accept it or move on.\n\nWell my boyfriend is almost the exact opposite way. He'll only speak up if it is incredibly annoying to him. He says he learned to just accept that sometimes the way things are is the way things are and trying to change something if it is only a minor annoyance isn't always helpful.\n\nWe've only ever had one serious discussion (we've been together for less than 6 months) and it was about something he said sounded almost coercive and I had been in an emotionally abusive relationship in the past so I've learned to watch for signs. We had our discussion, like two hours long, where we talked it out. At first there were cases of interrupting in the discussion but I was firm and said that if he is talking I'll be quiet and vice versa (that we will wait for the other to finish speaking). At one point I felt like I wasn't being understood and I basically said everything as bluntly as possible and he finally understood what my problem was and he apologized for what he said and how it came off and specifically said, without my prompting, that if he ever coerced me in anyway that I should leave him flat out because I deserve better (basically a big plus in my book). (a preview of our \"argument style\".)\n\nMy big thing though is that he doesn't speak up on these small annoyances and I can tell that he's annoyed sometimes but if I ask him then he gets more annoyed because he basically says that it's something he can deal with. I'm not used to this \"confrontation\" style and am wondering about how to handle it when I come from such a brutally honest family. \n\nI don't want our communication styles to be an issue later on.\n\nAnd if it's something small then I'll wait til we are alone and speak up saying I don't like it when you do this, I feel this way (doing that psych stuff where you speak about I things) ... sadly can't remember any of the old talks.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry if this comes out poorly formatting-wise,doing this on phone.\n\nMy ex and I dated for 2 1/2 years. We met at college and quickly became great friends which led to us dating. Throughout the relationship she stressed that she wasn't one for relationships and was only involved in one with me because she loved me so much (we were each our first serious relationship).\n\nThroughout our time together she kissed another guy once and swore it'd never happen again and broke up with me once only to reconcile a week later and apologize. Around 5 months ago she broke up with me again, saying shewanted to be single her final year of college. She claimed she still loved me and if she had to be with someone it'd be me.\n\nI tried to move on and cut contact but she kept finding a way to stay relevant in my life, even though several times I asked her if she wanted to get back together to which she replied no. She said she jusy wanted to hook-up with other guys, which she has during our time apart.\n\nAs I've said, she's kept in contact despite me asking her to stop and have even had to take her to the hospital at one point. A week ago she showed up at my house saying she missed me and we agreed to meet for lunch to sort things out.\n\nAt lunch we agreed we still loved each other very much and that we should take things slowly. She says that if she finds that I'm not what she wants that she will end it for my sake. It's been a few days now and i just can't help but feel that she isn't nearly as serious about us as I am.\n\nMy question is should i even bother with the relationship at this point? I do love her but she's just such a pain in the ass and has caused me so much grief. I should note we are both graduating in May and are most likely moving to different states. Thanks for any help or insight you can give if you managed to get this far.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Crisis mode: engage. \n\n---\n\nWe (25F 40M) have been together for 2.5 years. When things are good, they're GREAT. He is doting, affectionate, thoughtful, admiring, and generally the best boyfriend there could be. \n\n---\n\nHOWEVER, when he gets emotional (and for some reason this tends to be around holidays) he gets BATSHIT crazy. Not physically abusive crazy, but completely unable to think rationally... he attacks and demeans and cannot see how bad his behavior is until I pull the plug on the relationship. \n\n---- \n\nI pulled the plug over 4th of July weekend. I haven't seen him since then. Last time we had sex was July 3. I was still on my depo shot. Yesterday I had such bad stomach cramps I went to the ER with what I thought was an obstructed intestine. Turns out, I'm pregnant. \n\n--- \n\nShould I give him a chance? I haven't told him yet. If I choose medical abortion, should I tell him at all? If I did tell him, he would want me to have it and he would want to try again. I have always wanted a child, and were it not for his outrageous behavior I would have no question of keeping it. He would financially support both of us, and would be unquestionably doting MOST of the time, but what about the rest? \n\n---\n\nI have a week to decide before I can't take the abortion pill anymore. Any alternative answers to what I've heard already would be nice. Thanks everyone", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just took over for a pretty incompetent manager. One of my employees that I took on is a great guy. He's well respected by the group. The business is growing at a insane rate, and it's preparing for expansion. \n\nIn that preparation, we're trying to change operations a bit in order to meet the client needs. In doing that, things are changing. The guy used to REALLY enjoy his job. Not so much anymore. He's having to do things he's uncomfortable. Things have been the same for 10 years, all the sudden everything's changing. \n\nToday I was asking him about something, and noticed his hands were shaking. I'm making him nervous, and it's breaking my heart. People passively mention to me 'James used to be so happy at work' and the like. All I really know about the guy is that he used to be in a men's choir, and that he had a stutter as a kid. \n\nI'm going through a lot personally, and I'm pretty intense. He's someone I really admire, and I really appreciate. \n\nBeyond developing a relationship, accommodating him for personal needs, is there anything I can do that could calm his nerves? Thought about putting up personal money to buy him something nice, I want to express my appreciation but calm his nerves. It bothers me that I would/could make someone that nervous.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my fantastic boyfriend for one year. He is amazing, I am pretty sure I love him even though I have not told him yet. Months ago I bought tickets for my friend and I to go to portland in August because they were so cheap. Turns out my friend can't get the time off and the tickets are non-refundable so I ask my boyfriend if he would wanna go and I say I'll pay for his plane ticket. He says he \"would love to go with me\". Well my boyfriend doesn't have a job right now so I feel bad making him pay for half the hotel room, I tell him I will pay for the hotel room all three nights without thinking. Now things are going to cost me at least $850. I just keep thinking he has not told me he loves me either, for some reason I just can't stop thinking about the fact he probably would not spend $850 on me. I feel like a fool for spending so much on him. I am worried I am going to start resenting him over this. I don't even know how to approach the situation or what I want my end game to be.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "6months...6 months!!!!! I've never felt so betrayed. I'm everything you would expect heartbroken, angry. I haven't stopped crying since I've found out I'm pretty sure he's in love with her, and he never was with me. \nI don't know how to pick myself up, and I desperately need advice on how to cope. I'm afraid I'm not going to recover from this. My previous breakup nearly killed me off, and this well... It makes the other one seem like a cake walk.\n\nBefore you ask I didn't do anything wrong, he just met someone, started a relationship with her (we are not living together) and decided not to mention it, whilst treating me horribly, making me think all that time that him being awful to me was my fault.\n\nI feel so incredibly alone. I don't have anyone to talk to.\n\nI know this is probably too generic a question, but is there any advice out there from someone who has been through something similar. or someone who hasn't frankly, I'm open to any suggestion that doesn't involve me walking off a cliff. Help.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 21 and she is 20, we have been dating for about 19months. \n\nThis being said, we are a very sexually active couple, being a 21-year old male, I have the sex-drive of a 21-year old male. Because of this I know she is completely comfortable with sex, never once has she denied it and she is always into it, but not even once in almost *two years* has she instigated it. I have brought it up to her so many times and everytime she just says sorry, but then it's instantly forgotten about and *nothing* changes.\n\nI can't figure out what to do because theres clearly not much I can do to fix it if telling her about how much it bothers me has never changed anything in the long course of time that she has known its bothered me.\n\nIf you are wondering why it bothers me it is quite simple: I see sex, when in a relationship, as a very important thing and as the most explicit way to show someone you care about them if you're willing to let them see you completely naked and you will please them. Therefore I get greatly bothered by her never putting even an ounce of effort in to starting it off, not even making out. I have *every single time* for almost 2 years.\n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "note: throwaway because he's a reddit lurker.\n\nme and my boyfriend would have been together for a year at the end of the month. We broke up after a conversation a week ago about our happiness came up (I asked if he was happy and what was happening to us after a weird patch). We mutually decided to end it and stay friends but I'm starting to regret it.\n\nI'm worried that our unhappiness was merely due to my health problems and school stress getting me down and his sister is dying making him unhappy. I have felt worse than ever since and I just want to be with him. I told him I missed him last night and he told me he misses me too.\n\nAlso, a big part of me not thinking it was exactly the best idea to work it out was that next year i'm leaving for a month or two to travel then in 2.5 years when I finish studying I plan on leaving to find a new home somewhere in this big world. He says travelling doesn't interest him when it's my whole life plan to travel. Yet since meeting him my life plan wants to include him, what if he doesn't change his mind?\n\nDo you guys think it's a good idea to talk to him about this all? I'm worried that if I do and he doesn't want to work this out the friendship we have will go to shit and I will be left COMPLETELY alone - note: i have very little friends as it is, none of which I can talk to about my health problems, he's my guy. I don't want to lose my friend.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So tonight I have to take my dog back to the vet, for his wee paw. He has been ill today and keeps 'fighting' with the cone he has on to stop him licking the sore part of his paw. My problem is that i have to get him to the vets tonight, we're getting a taxi but I'm not sure how to get him from our house to the car! basically when i go near him he gets very agitated, so my question is how do i calm him down enough to pick him up ? Because he cant walk on the paw its the only way I'll get him out to the taxi :/", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit, throwaway obviously. Now, this is probably boring as there's not much drama but today my uncle came over to buy my spare bikes for his kids (they're in great shape) and he brought it to mine and my mother's attention that his kidneys are at 20% (him and my mother are both diabetics). \n\nNow, my mother was not a diabetic when I was born and I'm incredibly healthy with a fantastic diet and exercise regimen. I don't drink (I've had maybe 2 small drinks since turning 21 in December; I'm not a fan of the taste of alcohol), smoke, have done no drugs.\n\nSo naturally they both turn to me and my mother asks me if I would be willing to go in for tests to see if I'm a kidney match. We also have the same blood type.\n\nI'm honestly just at a loss for words.\n\nI'm not the closest to my uncle but we are still on great terms.\n\nAlso some background. My mother is the oldest of three, the middle child (her brother), passed away in 2010 from kidney failure, and the youngest is the one asking for the kidney. Both of the brothers were born with diabetes, my mother didn't get diabetes until she was 34, while pregnant with my sister (but my sister is not a diabetic, she is 17). I'm like the star health child.\n\nSo, I naturally would like to say yes but I'm terrified of anesthesia and surgery and have no idea how to come about this. \n\nIf any of you know any one who has donated a kidney or you've donated one yourself, I would love some insight.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A friend and I were talking about the Occupy Wall Street movement and the presence of business in government. After much back-and-forthing of ideals and motivations and background of the movement, he ending the conversation by saying:\n\n\"This is stupid anyways. What's the point of getting all up in arms over it? Protesting is not going to do anything at all. It's best to just let the government take its natural course and fall apart just like all the other governments. We're just regular people. We can't do anything\". \n\nThis, of course, spawned an entirely NEW argument, but it got me thinking.\n\n-Is this apathetic attitude popular among people? (I'm around college kids all day, so I'm in a bubble). \n-Is it better to let the government just \"run its course\"?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better.\n\nUnfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were \"in the process of being organized\" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I just started my new month yesterday on my cell phone plan. \n\nI decide to put on some Netfrix, but I'm currently without an internet connection. I didn't feel like using my phone to watch, so I decided to tether to my laptop and lower the bitrate to the lowest possible setting (Alt+Ctrl+Shift+S in my browser at least.)\n\nI only planned to watch one episode, but I ended up letting it roll on to the next.\n\n3/4 of the way thru the second episode I get a text saying I used all my data.\n\nI don't know what I expected, for some reason I suppose I just assumed, same session=same settings.\n\nFML I now have to go 30 days with the most shit throttled bullshit data. I'm blaming Netfrix, frankly it's the only Damn thing I CAN complain about with Netfrix. \n\nWell.. there is the fact that you can't transfer profiles across accounts... or that you can't delete items off your history without deleting the whole profile. Yeah see Netfrix is preeettty good... Fuck you Netfrix. You're not that great. Also the last season of arrested development was disappointing. My friends ps3 shows different thumbnails for the same shows on the same type ps3 as mine with the SAME", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I hope to live past 70, but my wife [34] of 15 years thinks I'm going through such a life-event.\n\nNot long ago, I brought up the idea of divorce and the results were terrible. There was yelling. Smashing of dishes. Now she doesn't even trust me at all. I really wish I could take it back, and go back to the way things were before.\n\nI've never cheated. I don't watch pornography. I don't have female friends because they always seem to get too close.\n\nI've now quit my job and promised to build my own business at home.\n\nI supported her for a decade, but now moved my finances into both names and made myself financially dependent on her. I hope this will show I have no intention of leaving or cheating.\n\nI work out for 2 hours a day, mostly to make myself too tired to consider other relationships or sex. My gym wanted me to model for their promotions, but I knew that would make her uncomfortable so I declined.\n\nI do not go anywhere without her. I even decline when her friends ask me to dance.\n\nShe lost her best friend over me and doesn't know it. I feel terrible. We would all three meet together, but she suddenly stopped talking to my wife and started texting me... asking if I would meet her alone. I cut off all ties before anything happened.\n\nI care for my wife very much and don't want to lose her over a stupid phase.\n\nI suppose I worry too much because I regret never having children or sex. I have never had a place of my own. We don't have sex and I have accepted I never will. She is happy just being held, but she has issues with doing anything more and I have never wanted to coerce her into feeling guilty.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me 26 F, My 2 co-workers 45 F. I've been at my job for 3 months and management is very impressed with my work. So impressed, that they've put me in charge of one woman and they want me to learn another woman's job. These two women have been at the company for 3 years and it's quite obvious that they hate me. They've yelled at me, told co-workers that I don't know what I'm doing and are insulting me in Armenian. I'm trying to be as nice as possible about the whole situation. It's understandable why they are upset, but I'm having a hard time not taking it personally. Advice, please?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 4. We have two kids, 4 and 1.5. It has been up and down though lately (last year or so) we have been getting along better at least (less fighting, less nastiness -he used to be quite verbally abusive, but this seems to have decreased, at least for now). \n\nThe problem -he seems to have no interest in doing things with me. He works, I am stay at home. I understand he's tired from working, but I am too -I do the childcare, errands, groceries, 90% of cooking and cleaning, taking kids to and from activities etc.\n\nHowever, I feel that we need to spend time together as a couple. He never seems to want to. He has his projects, and spends time with the kids (he is a great dad), but seems to have lost interest in me.\n\nI gained weight after my first pregnancy, which led to a lot of fighting and issues, however, by this time, I have lost all the weight, and am back to within 10 lbs of where I was when we met. Yet, losing the weight, keeping it off, and trying to do sexy times for the bedroom seems to have little effect -he seriously doesn't seem to be interested at all. I have tried to bring this up with him, but he doesn't seem to think it is a problem?\n\nI just want to get some of our intimacy as a couple back. I am afraid in a few years, when the kids are less dependent on us, we are going to have nothing in common. \n\nHow do I bring back the spark?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "New account, forgot the other throw away account password.\n\nOriginal Post [Here] (\n\nThanks to everyone who gave me advice on this. I appreciate it! I regarded it but there wasn't much to go off of other than \"he's crazy, don't stick your dick in crazy\" or whatever. (I appreciate it none the less). \nWe messaged for a few hours or so. I got defensive and I retaliated and things got very heated. He ended up cutting contact with me and it felt pretty awful. I said things I didn't mean and lost a good friend. In a sense, I felt smothered by him and I said it. He put out that he just wanted to enjoy my company. I'm really confused because I know I didn't go about this the right way and I want to at least be on good terms with him. \nI'm not sure I can after the things we said to each other. \nI'm not sure I should even say anything. I value our friendship but he constantly tried to act like a boyfriend. \nI don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ugh so the title is supposed to say My boyfriend made me FEEL terrible...\n\nA few days ago the dog in the apartment below mine started barking/howling/whining non stop for over an hour. The walls are paper thin and eventually I got tired of it. I don't know any of the people there but happened to know the name of one guy who did live there so I emailed him saying the dog had been making noise non stop please do something about it (I knew that no one was home at that point).\n\nAt first he made it sound like he wasn't going to be doing anything about it but then I guess he was just about to get out of class and was coming home. The whole convo could pretty much be summed up as me asking him to do something about the dog, him saying \"it's barking because it's lonely\", me repeating \"please deal with the dog\" (idc why it's barking I just want it to stop(didn't say this to him)) and him saying \"okay I'm on my way back anyway\"...So the whole situation with the dog was solved pretty quickly.\n\nI showed my boyfriend the message exchange and he said I embarrassed him. Basically what he said is that it embarrases him that I got upset over a barking dog. I was polite during the conversation with the other person so it's not that. It's just the fact that I would get upset over noise. I mentioned something about making a noise complaint if it didn't stop (to my boyfriend, not to the dog owner) and he acted like I was the biggest bitch ever.\n\nI just feel like I can never complain or get upset about anything around him because he acts like I'm a big whiny bitch. It hurts my feelings. I don't want to have to deal with more nights of getting 3 hours of sleep because neighbors are playing music all night or have to try to deal with migraine headaches while listening to a dog bark. He would just rather \"ignore\" problems like these when I'm the type of person who will comfront the people causing the problem. I don't know what to do in these situations now... sorry if this is rambling. We've been dating for 8 months.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few weeks ago I went back to school, first time after 2 years. I dropped out because of personal reason. social phobia and as a result depression. Now I met this girl who is my age, she has a few of my classes and we have talked a bit with eachother the last 2 weeks. Now I know she has never had a boyfriend and has a general anxiety disorder where shes still fighting with. I have her number, her phone was broken and she needed to cancel an appointment so I lend her my phone(we actually had to swap simcards since she didnt know the number by heart) and said that she at least should give me her number in return and she did. anyway I really want to ask her out but I have no idea how to do it (forever alone youknow), im averted to asking her over the phone or with an sms since it seems so \"cowardly\" and want to ask her in person. so reddit how should I go about this, how should I ask her out and what would be a good place?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Apologize for the throw away account. \n\nMy friend is interested in in making his way into the mainstream music industry as an A&R representative. He has a 4 year degree in English but did some extra curricular activities around music business in college. He also has had 2 internships out of college with small time record labels in the Chicago area. He has been trying for a few years now with no success. He lives in Chicago but has moved to LA for a year. He returned recently to Chicago. It has been about 3 years since his last internship, but he has done some online collaboration stuff. Still far and few in between. \n\nMy question is what path have any of you taken to make your way into the record industry? Is networking the only important thing? Is there a set of skills that are specifically looked for?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So.. this seems like a very mediocre problem but it has been bothering me for the longest time.\n\n1. We've been together for about four months. \n2. She isn't my girlfriend. She says she doesn't like the title of being a girlfriend and that her first boyfriend was awful. So she was only \"dating\" the previous \"boyfriends\" she has had. (So technically she has only had 1 boyfriend and the other guys were just relationships)\n3. She never has time or makes the time (She says she's incredibly busy). We probably hang out about every two weeks unless I push hard for some time to hang out. \n4. I don't know what else. She's someone I thought I would actually like and it kind of just happened. Before, she used to think I was this cool, super outgoing person (things she said before I had an interest in her) while she was this super shy girl (who actually seemed to waver on the social side). But now I'm interested in her in ways I never would've thought because of her personality and her drive and how different and unique she is to just about any other girl I have ever dated. \n5. I'm also afraid that maybe we moved too fast. Was sex on first date bad? Did it make it so it becomes hard to build a relationship since there was no tension building up on it?\n6. She has never introduced me to anybody and shoos me out whenever she is expecting anybody. \n*I just want to build that she is the type that spent her life alone from middle school to high school. Would this be the reason she treats me so? \n7. Am I just a fuck buddy to her?\n\nThe real question I'm asking is whether she isn't making the time for me because she genuinely doesn't have an interest for me and I should end the relationship or make some kind of ultimatum. Or if it is because she really is busy and really doesn't expect much time out of our relationship but she actually does hold an interest. We also live only about 3 blocks away from each other.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "my brother had been dating his girlfriend for several months when the girlfriend's sister starts to text me. We text back and forth for two months before i get up the courage to ask her out(on the beach i might add). \n\nThen three weeks into our relationship my brother and his girlfriend broke up. She said that he couldn't be her first priority right now and that wasn't fair to him. Then the next week my girlfriend comes to me wanting to breakup saying she cant provide for my needs and she wants to breakup. She was like \"nothing is going to change and we can still be friends\" bullshit is what i thought. \n\nThis left me completely confused as she had not shown any signs of wanting to breakup and she hadn't told me of any problems in our relationship. But I was wondering if it was because of what her sister had done and if she did it just because of her (they do most everything together). I don't know if i am over thinking this because it was my first relationship or not but it left me extremely confused and sad/lonely. I used to text her all of the time and now she wont text me back and its making me depressed.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello,\n\nMy girlfriend broke up with me before Christmas. She told me she loved me and that she felt like shit because she couldn't spend time with me. I let her go.\n\nWe sent each other Christmas gifts. In addition to some stuff I got her before we broke up, I made her a little jar full of notes about what I love about her and why I miss her.\n\nShe told me she hated it because I was trying to guilt trip her. I wasn't. I just wanted to make her something personal. She kept the gift though. She told me all this.\n\nNow all the guys I've spoke to say that doing this was extremely sad and pathetic. So much so that I'm now embarrassed I made it.\n\nWhat I'm asking is, was it a bad thing that I made this and gifted it to her? Did I actually make as big a mistake as I now think I've made? She texted me saying that she never wants to see me again because of the gift I made. This seems like a big over-reaction though to me? Am I just in denial?\n\nGuess I just wanted a place to vent and write something about this.\n\nThanks.\n\nI'm 23, she's 20.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: When I was 15 I developed a crush on one of my school friends but since I was really shy and didn't want to ruin our friendship I just left it and hoped the feelings would go, 2 years down the line I still have a crush on her so I finally decide to ask her out, she says yes and we stay together for a good 6 months with no real problem. \n\nAt this point in the relationship I fully believe that I'm in love with her, however in January of this year she broke up with me. At first I wasn't too affected by it as I had pretty much expected it by the way she was acting, I thought this meant that I was over her but gradually over the months I started to care more and more until it was all I could think about.\n\n2 months ago I decided it was time to talk to her and apologise for my behaviour that possibly led to our break up, she said everything was fine and that it's all in the past and we haven't spoken since. \nNow I really don't know what to do, I think I'm still in love with her but I know she's over me, I want to be friends with her but it would be very awkward between us (plus I hate her friends), I want to meet someone else but the only girls I know are friends from my secondary school and one girl in my college class.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway for identity reasons.\n\nMy SO [m 18] and I [f 18] have been dating for five, almost six years and are very serious, despite being so young. We don't live together and he works all week, so we don't see each other very often either. Out of nowhere he starts telling me I need to accept more from him. More gestures, gifts...money. I didn't know how to respond. I've heard of a husband doing this for his wife and vice versa, but never a boyfriend for his girlfriend. After refusing this multiple times, he said *this*, \"It'll make me happy.\" How would it make him happy? How should I respond? Should I take it?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We broke up about 8 months ago due to me being going through A LOT of personal crap. He knew the whole time I still cared for him and I wanted him back. We have had very little contact but some since the break up. He has always expressed that he would be here for me whenever i needed him.\n\nHe would also confuse me, because he would text me and then stop. A couple weeks later again he would do the same thing. My birthday he sent me a REALLY long message saying he hopes my day is incredible etc. \n\nAbout a month ago I added him back on fb and snapchat because he deleted me because he wanted me back.\n\nThat probably doesn't make much sense because earlier I said he wouldn't take me back but he was kind of strange in a way that he felt that since we broke up it was for a reason and we could not be together again..\n\nWell this whole summer he has been in Spain for school. He recently came back and we started snap chatting. I initiated because I sent it to everyone and put it on my story. To my surprise, he snapped me back and we started talking. (This was yesterday) I asked him about Spain and he said he has a lot of pictures if I wanted to see. AND THEN later in the day I asked him to send me a recipe and he said \"Or I can teach you how to make it\" Totally caught me off guard, so I said \"Yeah you should because it's really good\" then he continued saying \"let me know when you move back in [to school]\" \n\nI'm not sure what his intentions are and I am honestly too afraid to ask. I'm in love with this kid and breaking up with him made me realize how much I cared for him. I did tell him once that he pursued me the wrong way and we went too fast and that we should have been friends first.\n\nSo I am taking this as a friendship right now but I REALLY am trying not to get my hopes up. I know he still cares but he is so stubborn I don't know if he is wanting to rekindle the relationship.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(THROWAWAY)\n\nHe can't help me, because there is nothing pyschiatrically wrong with me.... But I have a problem I am a quitter, I also give up. Every job I ever had I just quit after awhile I'm not unhappy or don't enjoy it, some day I just wakeup and don't feel like going anymore.\nI had a 3.5 gpa and quit university with 6 courses left. I'm 23 and now I feel like my easy riding won't work anymore and I am getting nervous as all my friends begin to succeed, I am a smart guy and so capable but I just seem to punish myself for no good reason.\n\nI'm usually so happy, but the realization that Im fucking up is starting to worry me. Im trying to do better but I still make poor decisions about holding a job. I have had ADD my whole life and feel this contributes somewhat but the shrink said that im just not motivated and my life has been to easy for me to hit rockbottom and get motivated. But I don't want to hit rock bottom, I wanna turn it around and stop quitting before I get there...\nBut I can't seem to wrap my head around it... Im sure many people have similar problems but have gotten by, what Im asking is for techniques or excersizes that might help me hold my focus and push through those days when I just wanna say \"meh\" and not go work.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep this short!\n\n**Background**\n\n* I've always been an on again/off again (very casual!) jogger, typically doing 3 - 5 k\n* My knees have always been finicky, and I went to a physio who thought I had \"runner's knee\"\n* Pre-pregnancy, my \"runner's knee\" would flare up when I got to the 8 - 10 k distance range, even if I had a decent base (doing a C210k type program)\n\n**Current Problem**\n\nI had my baby a year ago, so all in all I haven't run for about 1.5 years. I'm quite slim and have been doing aerobics-style classes for the past year, so I'm not totally out of shape. Body weight exercises, aerobics, bikes and ellipticals are all fine. However, when I run even the tinyiest bit, or even go on a long walk or a hike, my pelvis gets very sore and tight, and my knees start hurting very quickly. I already am doing general squats/lunges/stretching type things. \n\nI'm starting to feel like running just isn't for me anymore. Which is a bummer, because I really enjoy running!\n\nHas anyone had something similar? Can anyone recommend some stretches or exercises that might help? Should I see a Dr? Or should I just see a physio? Not quite sure how to proceed.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I failed a math last semester, but just found out- today- that I have to take it immediately again. Summer classes start tomorrow.\n\nI already have summer classes to take, and am going to be doing the online math class before/after those. \n\nThe problem is an email I got:\n\n> I would like to have an on-line meeting on Tuesday, June 14 at 8:30 p.m. using my virtual office\n\nMy other summer classes don't last that long. I'd rather not spend another 9 hours on campus after that... I live off-campus, 30min commute on a good day. \n\nThe biggest thing is that my internet speeds are ass. Just, pure ass. It takes an hour to load a 20min youtube vid at 144p. [Speedtest.net says my internet is worse than 98% of the US.] It's a data softcap. I get 10G of the regular speeds (1mbps) a month. Once that 10 gigs of data is used, it's back to ass speeds.\n\nHowever, I do get unlimited internet from 12am-5am (which sometimes starts at 10:30? or 11? sometimes 3am???).\n\nThe local library closes at 8pm.\n\nI don't know what to do, or what to tell the professor.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So yesterday I went to the post office to mail out some packages. I used the APC (Automated Postal Center) like I always do [saves time dealing with the lines]. I purchased some shipping labels and went to grab them below. At first I thought the machine had printed the first label wrong, but then realized it was an extra. Someone had mistakenly left it - I guess they didn't understand how the machine worked. So now I have an extra label/stamp for the city of Syosset, NY (11773). I'd be happy to send a random letter/postcard to anyone in this area. I hate seeing things go to waste. Feel free to P.M. if you'd like. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi /r/relationships I need some help. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. She lives in a dorm at a Uni and I live off campus at the same Uni. \n\nAnyways she has some guy friends that I don't like. One guy in particular, but I don't let it bother me too much. Anyway, he came up for the weekend to hangout with her and do some other stuff, and at the end of the night, they slept in the same bed together.\n\nI feel uncomfortable about this. Is it something I should feel uncomfortable about? She is just friends with him, but I know if he got the chance, he would probably sleep with her.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original post here:\n\nSo last night we go to the bar and end up talking all night, eventually the conversation turns to where i thought it might, about how she doesn't want to marry the guy and how she wishes we got a shot. I thought she was just gonna go for it, and I would have to do all the resisting, but she started addressing all my red flags and telling me that's why she can't just break up with the current BF for me. Because she'd feel like a piece of shit for cheating on this guys after breaking up an engagement for him. She already feels shitty enough for cheating once, and she said its her own damn fault for rushing into the rebound relationship without being sure it was what she wanted. Plus she said she's happy with him, and has no way of knowing if she'd be happier with me so its best to just let things run their course naturally. The night ended with us looking at the skyline on the beach, and it was bad. Like we didn't do anything at all, but the tension was too thick so we left. So now we're in this odd pseudo relationship where we're trying to be friends, and we both agree it would go well for nobody if anything ever happened, but it is a fucking pain in the ass. \n\nI know I'm under her thumb, but I told her we were \"breaking up\" last night at the beach and that we weren't gonna do this anymore. I know she doesn't mean to lean on me emotionally, its mostly my fault because I haven't had a relationship in about 10 years and I welcomed the company and I can honestly say at worst she's just ignorant of what she's doing. But hot damn, why did one of the hottest girls I've ever met have to do this.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's a long story and it doesn't really matter but essentially my friend's sister (lives in WI) met someone on Match.com and has sent somewhere in the neighborhood of $30k to this Internet woman who claims to live in Oregon.\n\nBased on [this Travel.state.gov report]( (not to mention *common sense*) it is beyond a doubt that this person is a scammer.\n\nFor anyone who finds this thread in the future, a [quick search]( of Reddit turned up the following similar old threads: [1]( [2]( [3]( [4](\n\nThe scammer *IS* a real person, a white female with a foreign accent who claims to be Italian-American, has talked to my friend's sister on Skype, and based on some basic sleuthing has a phone number that seems to be a land line in Oregon. She claims to run an antique business that does appear to have a website, but there is zero actual information on it so it pretty clearly looks like a shell.\n\nSo far here are the best tips I've seen:\n\n* Reverse image search this lady's Match.com photos\n* Investigate the land line and antique business (not sure how)\n\nI would *happily* post this scammer's personal information on 4chan or wherever if I really knew how that worked but I understand the \"not your personal army\" business.\n\nIt has gotten so bad that my friend and other members of the family are saying that this sister needs to give them financial power of attorney so that she doesn't keep sending all her SSI checks to this sketchy woman. It's a good step but if the sister doesn't go along with it it'll never happen.\n\nI've seen advice on here before that ultimately going after the scammer isn't going to lead anywhere, and the problem needs to be fixed at home. I'm just asking to make sure.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This Saturday (Feb. 8) my parents and I will be driving to the college that I will be attending this fall, which is about an hour and a half drive from home, give or take. My parents have been smokers for my whole life, so I am pretty desensitized to the smell, but many instructors and just random bystanders have commented about the scent on my person. This will not make a good impression on the committee (at least I think it is a committee. either way, it will be noticeable). I tried to ask very nicely if at least my mom would consider not smoking, but she kind of laughed at me and made a bunch of rude, sarcastic comments about how it's not really that noticeable, and my character should be enough to win over the interviewers. 1. My personality is not the best, and I'm not too great at interviews and 2. If the competition is tough, I am pretty sure that it WILL go down to the first impression that is given, and the smell of cigarettes is NOT going to give a good impression, even if I apologized and that my parents were smokers.\n\nSome suggestions that I have been given by instructors/counselors include: chewing cinnamon gum, packing my clothes and covering my hair until I get there (which I'm not too keen on, because I don't know where I would really change or anything like that), and putting cooking vanilla in the car? I'm not too sure about that one. Will any of these work? Other suggestions are very welcome.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met this girl who's a sophomore my first semester of college and we hit it off really well and became \"official\" towards the end of the semester. She lives 3.5 hours away so I haven't gotten to see her too much since our winter break started. I visited once and it was great meeting her family and friends and I'm looking forward to seeing her again this Tuesday.\n\nAnyway...this is only my second relationship and my first was awful because my ex was very manipulative and cheated on me twice and unfortunately I let her walk all over me because I thought I was being \"nice\". That one lasted for about a year. I never did anything to wrong my ex and she always talked about how I was \"the best bf ever because I actually treated her right\" and then shit happened anyway...this has kinda made me a bit worried about things with my current gf for no reason.\n\nWe've only known each other for a few months but we're already very comfortable together and act weird all the time and it's great. I was very hesitant about things with her because I consider her \"out of my league\" but apparently she's actually attracted to me (I wouldn't say I'm very attractive) but the biggest thing I get from her friends is that I'm actually a nice guy unlike previous bf's.\n\nThe problem is that I get these irrational thoughts of her cheating on me (since I'm not around during breaks) and I get depressed and everything just seems so difficult. It's not like \"she hasn't texted me back in 10 minutes...she's cheating\". It doesn't happen very often thank goodness and I'm dealing with it a lot better than I would've almost a year ago after the last relationship but I'd prefer if it didn't happen at all. My friends are the best because I can talk to them about this (and I do) but I thought I would get some feedback from /r/relationship_advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I recently wanted to throw a party at a hotel with a pool for my 19th birthday. NUMEROUS random people ended up coming without my permission. Hookah was smoked, the hotel had no damage it was just a fucking mess and we actually ended up getting kicked out.\n\nThis place would have been cake to clean up, it was just messy but the hotel was insistent on me paying an additional $250. Ok fine I'm not gonna argue with that because we created a commotion, COMPLETELY reasonable for them to do that. It was agreed by the original crew that was expected to be there that I would pay for the room ($140) and everyone else would get alcohol. \n\nOkay that being said, I did NOT expect to have an extra $250 to be added on to that tab. It was a shit show of a night and I COMPLETELY understand I'm at an incredible amount of fault HOWEVER, nobody has mentioned helping pitch a tiny bit of money to help pay for the cleaning fee. Every time I bring it up, I see sour faces and awkward change of subjects. I get that the room was under my name and the room was up to me but still...come on we all contributed to the mess.\n\nAm I really being a penny pincher here? Am I crazy? What should I do/say.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know, I know. Why should I be so mad that all we ever do is fuck, right? Well frankly it gets annoying, but neither of us have really anything in common. The only game she ever plays is Skyrim (which I do love) and when I try and get her to play other games with me she just snubs me off and tells me to \"stop trying to get her absorbed into video games\". We have no real common interests other than Reddit, and I am not entirely certain if I love her anymore. I mean I only see her once to twice a week now because I have gotten so tired of fucking that it just pisses me off. That being said I don't want to break up with her because I hate to see her sad. Every time I try and talk to her about it she says \"Alright, we'll fuck less\" then 30 minutes she tries to fuck me again. She really doesn't get it. She is smart (all AP classes, passes all of them with 80 or higher) but she just can't seem to understand the concept of not having sex. I have been avoiding seeing her lately because, well... I just can't. Not when I feel like this. What would you recommend I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mother has a really bad habit for forming circle arguments where she restarts the conversation after its long dead and I don't care anymore.\n\nLast week: \n\nI come home from work after school, it is 10:30 on a Tuesday night, I am beat I put my half eaten pizza in the fridge and head for bed. Not before she catches me in the doorway of my room and yells about how I haven't fed my dog or vacuumed in a week.\n\nMe: I have been leaving at 6:00 am and only come home for 30 minutes after school to shower. I don't have time during the week but do everything I am asked on weekends. \n\nHer: well maybe you should quit your job so you can help out with the horses, goats, chickens, and your brothers.\n\nNote: none of those are mine, I pay for my phone, gas, insurance, clothes and food. Gas is very expensive as I have a diesel car and drive 70 miles a day. \n\nI decided to show her just how expensive it is. She has had to pay for everything this month via my stepdad who is tried of her nagging me for the 1-2 hrs I am awake at home. The total thus far \n$234 a week\n\n$65 in fuel\n$84 in insurance\n$25 in food\n$60 for a pair of pants her goat ripped \n\nAnd this is a cheap week. Next week my car needs glow plugs and a coolant flush before summer....", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I are on the heavy, heavy rocks. She's moved out and is at her sister's for two weeks now. She keeps my son a lot of the time, but she's good about letting me pick him up after work so I can be with him, then drop him off with her in the morning before I go to work. He's the only thing keeping me sane right now. \n\nThe roughness stems from my own issues. I've been diagnosed with BPD, and needless to say it's rough on relationships. I'm seeking help, and will do everything I can to get my family back. She said that she might do couples counseling with me if she thinks I've made progress with my own personal counselor. \n\nI texted her today to ask about having a party for our son's birthday coming up in a week. She set off one of my triggers (anything that would hurt my son or my relationship with him) and I blew up. I think I really hurt my chances of getting back together with her. When I'm like this, it gets hard for me to think objectively. Thanks", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright so here is the situation, and it is very strange.\n\nThis girl my roommate works with came over to the house a few weeks ago drunk and hysterical after she broke up with her boyfriend and gave him 180 dollars, her bridge card, and a credit card she said was \"paid for\". She also gave another friend at the house 200.\n\nShe said she was dying and that she wanted them to spend everything as she wasn't going to need it.\n\nNow after this happened she promptly left and me and my roommate went and filled up my gas tank with the credit card and went to the super market and bought food and stuff for the house.\n\nWe ended up using about 130 dollars on the card and it was maxed out, now my roommate came up to me about a half hour ago and told me money was back on the card and he wants to go to the store and max it out again....the first time I thought wasn't the greatest idea and I told him I didn't really think it was a good idea to use it again.\n\nHe told me it was fine since she gave him permission but that her dad had been calling him and trying to get a hold of him and he hasn't responded. \n\nNow I DEFINITELY do not want to be involved in anything with this credit card.\n\nSo my question is, the card is in the girls name...my roommate is going to stupidly keep maxing it out every month even though I told him it might be credit card fraud...and I think her dad might be footing the bill for everything. \n\nShe gave him permission....I don't think hes talked to her since, so my question is would you guys see what hes doing as credit card fraud? How dangerous is this? Should I stop him, or just not get involved?\n\nAlso, am I guilty of anything even though when I was participating in use it was directly after this girl had given us permission?\n\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm living at home with my parents in Houston, Texas. I'm a post-bacc student at UH, taking classes to get into a CS master's program, and I've already graduated from a top school with a BS in geophysics. I've also worked for years doing web dev and have a broad range of experience, and I can program decently well also have extensive web development experience.\n\nThere's lots of internships I probably *could* have gotten if I hadn't waited so long, but since this is the last minute I don't know what to do. I can't work from home, really. Any ideas? Pay isn't important, if I can get good working/research experience. Although pay would be nice. :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend (27F) is having bedbugs removed from her apartment tomorrow and she is worried about the chemicals being dangerous for her two pet reticulated pythons. Since she lives close by to our work, she is getting some of our friends to help carry the two cages to her office there. She is planning on moving in two weeks, so she would keep the pythons in her office for the two weeks. \n\nI tried telling her the chemicals are really concentrated on the sprayed surfaces and keeping the cages on her balcony for a few hours would more than suffice. I think she thinks that I am unconcerned about her snakes' welfare, which is untrue, and so she is not listening to me. We work in an building (university building) with over 200 people, and she does not want to notify anyone or get approval. I am not helping carry the cages because I do not want to get involved in this. I can tell she is irritated with me. What do I do? I feel like I need to convince her otherwise because she can get into a lot of trouble, and more importantly, if a python were to escape (unlikely, but not impossible) someone can get seriously hurt. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I feel as thought I can not let go of the anger and resentment I am feeling towards my ex. I'm not sure if this is a normal feeling to have and it is eating me up inside. He broke up with me 4 months ago and not even a month after the break up he started sleeping with a friend of his that I always had suspicions about. \n\nI feel like a dirty napkin or something to him that he used me up and just threw me away. After everything i did for him all the love and devotion I gave him in return he broke my heart and has just forgotten about my existence. \n\nI don't know how to let go of this anger. I feel like since the break up I have been the only person who has suffered. I am depressed, my life and school are going down the drain, I have lost my best friend (ex) and everyday just feels like nothing will get better. Nothing is going right for me and yes i know its not my ex's fault, but I just can't believe that he wasn't even slightly upset about the break up, which is what it feels like.\n\nI feel like no ones going to ever love me or any relationship will ever work either. I feel like I am going to be alone forever.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because she knows my username.\n\nSo I met this girl about a year and a half ago, and we were acquaintances. We didn't really talk to each other much, but we knew each other since we worked at the same place but different departments.\n\nAbout 10 months ago, a good friend of mine begins dating this girl. I don't really care at the time since I don't know her.\n\nAbout 3 months ago, I get switched departments at work and we are working very closely together. We immediately click and become best friends overnight. About a month in I start developing feelings towards this girl and I have to tell myself that I should ignore them.\n\nNow its been 2 more months, and when I hang out with both of them together or when I just hang out with her it slowly begins to tear me apart because I want to tell her how I feel. I don't know what to do and I really don't want to risk either relationship and its really beginning to get to me. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we're dealing with a teen mom/young parents-who-can't-support-a- child situation here.\n\n**Back story**\n\n>Girlfriend of 2 years (on and off) accidently gets pregnant Spring 2012\n\n>Already shitty relationship fueled mostly by desperation and immaturity\n\n>She wants to keep it, I don't\n\n**Current**\n\nFast forward to this past November and my first son is born. My girlfriend moved in with him so aside from work, we spent pretty much every waking minute together. Like I said, this relationship is already toxic, we're always fighting, we live(d) in my parents' house, we resent each others' pasts, etc. It's horrible environment for two young adults, let alone our child.\n\nThe thing is, I love my son. I look at him and see my entire world. I love spending time with him and look forward to watching him grow (he's almost 4 months). He's the only thing keeping his mother in my life. I'm afraid to break up with her completely because I fear she'll use him to get back at me by not letting me see him, lie to the courts to get custody, etc. I don't want her to be the kind of mother that talks shit about her kid's father and screw up his relationship with his parents. I just want things to be civil. Oh and I kicked her out of my house yesterday, saying it was only temporary. She took our son with her to her parents' house.\n\nI feel like there's so much more to say, but I can't get my thoughts organized. Feel free to ask anything.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst time poster in this subreddit. It's been a about 14 months since I've graduated undergraduate, and I've been having trouble finding an entry level, full time position in either marketing or sales. When I first graduated, I had a fair share of interviews and recruiters contacting me, but I had received no formal offer or I ended up through the process realizing the company might not be a good fit.\n\nI'm underemployed at the moment working a job paying $13/hr that doesn't require a Bachelor's degree, so I'm keeping my head above water in paying my student loans and other bills, but just barely. I live at home and I am saving money, but I can't help but feel discouraged that I \"SHOULD\" have a salaried position at this point, but I don't.\n\nI tweak my resume to the job description with keywords, I actively use LinkedIn, reach out for networking, and nothing seems to materialize other than the automated rejection email sent by computers. \n\nI apply to at the very least, 2 jobs per week, and I feel like my resume doesn't even get glanced upon by human eyes at this point, even when I include a personalized cover letter with my application. I'm wondering if there are any other redditers on here with similar experiences struggling to find their \"career\" jobs as well within their recent years of post undergraduate life, because sometimes I feel like I might be the only one. If anyone can share their experiences, I would LOVE to hear them.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like I said we've been together just over a year, living together for 4-5 months. Since we began dating we've been both working afternoon shift with the same days off, which really works out to a lot of time together. \n\nNow he wants to go to midnight shift, because it's less stressful. Now I agree with that, but it could be years (probably 1-3) before I could switch. That would leave me coming home to an empty house, eating dinner alone, and going to bed alone every evening after work. \n\nWe've discussed in depth how much that upsets me, and how important it is to me that he not go through with this. However, he feels it's very important to his mental health that he not miss this opportunity. \n\nMy suggestion was that he just wait for a bit until we can both get midnight shift. But his is that he takes it as soon as it's available, and I just wait until it's available to me. \n\nNow, I've never asked him to do anything big for me. I called off a wedding, broke off an engagement, moved out on my own, and recently we moved in together... All because I wanted to be able to spend more time with him. This is the first important thing I've asked for, and I feel dismissed. \n\nHe says he will gladly give me whatever I ask for, at any time, but this is something he can't budge on. All I want is his time, so I don't see how he could make it up to me", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl through one of friends and we hit it off. After a month or so of sexting and flirtation, she moved to Texas. I live in California btw. So we continued sexting and talking for about a year. One day she says \"Bye.\" And doesn't respond to anything I say. \n\nA week goes by before she texts me again. She says she doesn't like me anymore and wants to stop being friends. So she stops talking to me. \n\nNow a week after that (today) she tells me she's sorry and doesn't really want to end things and the reason she tried to leave is because she tried to kill herself. I haven't responded. I don't know what to do. She's two states over, and we can only talk. What..what the hell do I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Quick facts. I've had only 1 sexual partner (fwb) and hardly any relationships. She's had 7 sexual partners and numerous relationships. I know that she is devoted to me and I know that she loves me very much. I know she won't cheat on me and I am not jealous of her when she talks to other guys because I trust her. I am not even worried that I don't \"measure up\". \n\nSimply put, I am jealous of her because she's had sex with 7 different guys and I've only had one. I love everything about her, except for that. Every time I think about this, I just want to scream. It makes me acknowledge that she is an experienced woman that has gotten her fair share and gotten it out of her system (it's making my skin crawl as I'm even typing this), and I am just not. It also doesn't help that she is insanely cute and innocent looking. \n\nI know that she wants me, she tells me all the time that I'm better than everyone else. But this is a personal jealousy. If I had around the same number, I don't think this would have been a problem. It just reinforces the fact that I haven't gotten it out of my system, and I am afraid I might break up with her sometime in the future because of this. I don't want to, I really don't. I can't see myself with someone else. She is wonderful, I really do love her. But this is something that is putting strain on my feelings for her. It's sad but I wish we'd gotten together after I've had more experience under my belt.\n\nWhat can I do to get over this? I need to before I make a mistake. (If it helps, we haven't had sex yet but it's looking to be very soon.)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a student at a university and I've seen a girl around a few times from a distance who I thought was absolutely gorgeous. Since she is in a sorority and me a fraternity, I know a lot of her friends and when I asked them about her they were quick to tell me she's the perfect girl personality wise for me. So, one of our mutual friends who is really close to this girl told her about me and told me she wanted to meet me, gave me her number, and said it would be okay to text her so I did. We had a decent conversation going and it abruptly stopped. It was late, she probably fell asleep. So I followed the double texting rule and waited three days to try to reach out again. After I got the conversation going I asked her if she would like to meet me for coffee and she said she wouldn't be able to that week because of how busy she was with a weeklong philanthropy event. Even though she kept the conversation going for a while (that abruptly stopped again) I took it as a rejection and decided I wouldn't press it again. After that, I told another mutual friend who sits next to her in class and she said she actually was really busy with this philanthropy event and not to take it personal and that she'd talk to her about relationships without mentioning my name. So they talked and this girl told her a guy had been mean to her and she wanted to focus on school.\n\nThis was about three weeks ago, and her close friend said she'd give it one more try. I want to. This girl apparently is super sweet and has a great personality and I really want to get a chance to meet her but I don't know what to do and I'm scared of coming on too strong and creeping her out. What's your take?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm very happy with this guy so far, we've been getting along great. We've got good communication and we're on the same page about where we are and where we see things going. \n\nThis weekend he's meeting my family, but just my parents and siblings. He's also invited me over to meet his family for a while on Easter, which i'm very excited about. \n\nHowever, I'm also going to be spending part of Easter with my extended family. Many of these relatives tend to be somewhat judgmental and disapproving of my relationships. Not the *people* I date, but how many people I've dated, and that I put these relationships on facebook (because \"people can see how many people you date, and might think you're promiscuous\"). I've had my fair share of relationships, but never more than 2 in one year. \n\nI originally wanted to hold off on talking about him until things got more serious, hoping that my family would take me more seriously. However, I also don't want to appear ashamed of him, or like I'm trying to hide him. I appriciate that he has been so open about me meeting his family, and want to be able to share my family with him too.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Am located in the UK. \n\nTwo weeks ago, my housemate was evicted after a spate of horrible behaviour and 'forgetting' to pay his rent. The landlord is taking him to court over the late rent payments (which amount to several thousand pounds), which he didn't think he'd have to pay if he moved out right away.\n\nHe has left everything apart from his laptop. That includes bedding, clothes and loads of personal items that I'm sure are worth a lot of money. He doesn't seem to understand that he needs to come and get it, saying that he'll \"come when he wants\". As far as I know, he hasn't even contacted any housing agencies to try and get a new place.\n\nI don't want to be stuck with his stuff until he finds a new place; I have new tenants moving in! I've contacted the city council but they just said to wait and see if he came to get it, which wasn't really helpful.\n\nDoes Reddit have any advice at all? Anything would help!\n\nThe general consensious on r/relationships is to box it up and leave in on the curb after a set date. Does this sound okay?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Title pretty well sums it up. The reason I wasn't allowed to go was because her friend was marrying someone with ties to her ex's family. Her ex wasn't there but she didn't want it to be awkward.\n\nI have gotten a few texts over about 8 hours. Asked how I was doing at 8:30, told me I was amazing at 10:30. I asked her about midnight if she was going to stop by afterwards, she responded at 1:30 that we would see, she's at a strip club. \n\nI really have no idea who she is with, what club, anything. Obviously she is at least drunk, if not on something else.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Whats up everyone,\n\nSo I (M25) went out to meet a girl (F27) I met through Tinder on a \"date,\" if you want to call it that. Anyway, we had a few drinks each, talked for a solid 2 hours, and the conversation flowed really smooth. Never a lull, interesting conversation all around...etc.\n\nAnyway, as we were heading to our cars, I went for the kiss, and got the whole \"I don't want to go too fast\" BS that I knew just meant she wasn't into me (and I thought she was). But then we kept walking to the car, and I was just saying I was surprised about the outcome. Anyway, I figured that would be it, but then when we got to our cars (interestingly enough right next to each other) she said \"Well, maybe just a peck.\" So then we kissed... and it was nice. I told her it was odd we didn't exchange #s and that she should just tinder me it so we aren't messaging through there.\n\nAnyway, it's been a few days (2) and I messaged her saying it was a good time and sent her my # yesterday, and got a winky face back... but nothing else has happened.\n\nI know I played a few things wrong:\n-Went for kiss without her being attracted enough.\n-She was going to just give me her # at the cars and I said to just tinder me it.\n-Messaging her mine when she was suppose to tinder me hers anyway.\n\nAnyway, should I just not message anything further, and assume there won't be a second date? Or, should I give one last message (on tinder since she hasn't texted me or tindered me hers) to set up a second date? Thanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay. I met this girl maybe about 3 months ago, and I kind of suspected her of liking me since before we actually formally met each other, as she was always that one girl at every house show I'd go to that would be staring at me from across the room. \n\nFast-forward a little bit to her birthday party that was 2 weeks ago:\nShe had interactions with me that made me pretty much 100% that she does like me, and to add to my own sureness, several of our friends came up to me and said something along the lines of, \"hey, she obviously really likes you.\" \n\nLater that night, we're all still hanging out, and we're talking about a camping trip that this girl is about to go on.\nWhen I asked whom she is going camping with, her response was, \"My... boyfriend.\"\nShe didn't seem too thrilled to mention him.\n\nOf course, learning that she has a boyfriend was surprising to me myself, but a peculiar thing is that her roommates/best friends for the past few years also had reactions along the lines of, \"what boyfriend? Since when do you have a boyfriend?\"\n\nSo yeah, for some reason she has a boyfriend that no one knows exists except for her.\n\nFast-forward to 2 nights ago, when I run into her at our mutual friend's show. We had some great conversation, and the night ended with me walking her to her car, and we exchanged phone numbers.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my GF for 1.5 years. It's been amazing. She moved in with me 2 months ago after 13 months of living an hour apart and although we initially fought a lot, we're starting to get the hang of sharing the same space. \n\nShe gets worried about things easily and always thinks about the worst case scenario. I'm working a great job right now as a pharmacist. She is finishing her last year of a Doctorate in Psychology and probably has 3 years before actually starting her career. She would prefer not to have kids until that point, but I absolutely DO NOT want kids until she has finished. It's very important to me that she has a career.\n\nShe is not on birth control so I use condoms. She always wants to have sex without them (so do I), but I insist. I feel like she interprets this as I don't want kids ever. When we met I was a 1-2 kids guy and she was a 2-5 kids girl. However, now I'm completely open to not having kids and am really soul searching about whether or not I want them or not.\n\nI enjoy the life I currently live and don't know if I want that to change. I love my GF, but I want her all to myself. I want to be able to have fun and be spontaneous. She loves to travel and so do I. Most of my buddies have kids and I never get to hangout with them any more. It just seems like so much work that I'm not interested in.\n\nI have no idea how/when to talk to her about this and know it will break her heart. She's an independent woman who knows what she wants. We've worked hard to keep this relationship together, but I worry that this would be a dividing point between us.\n\nThanks for any input.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were on a break for about a month to focus on ourselves. Anyway, his friend (Mark) I were talking (I consider him a friend as well). During this break Mark got in contact with me and said we should definitely fuck. I asked him why and he said I was pretty.\nI got PISSED, both because he was betraying my boyfriend and because I felt objectified (he said at one point during the conversation that if it wasn't me it was prostitutes). When I said to Mark I would have to tell my boyfriend he guilt-tripped me and said that they were releasing their EP next month and that my relationship meant nothing compared to their EP release and essentially I was fucking him over.\n\nWhen I told my boyfriend about it he asked if I'd dealt with it, and I said yes I had. I was told later on that my boyfriend had a serious conversation with Mark and that they were no longer friends, just band mates. \n\nThen, last night I see a picture on Facebook of them with their arms around each other. Boyfriend claimed that they were advertising band merchandise but he wasn't wearing this shirt. I asked if they were still friends and he said he didn't know, and that I had no right to be upset about it because this was a betrayal to HIM and HIS band.\n\nI feel pretty disgusted by the entire thing because it looks like he's fine with this stuff. Should I just burry the hatchet? My boyfriend isn't very forgiving and he's shut me down when I try to talk abut it. I'm starting to wonder what this says about his character but I don't know exactly what I'm upset about.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One time, I was hanging out with my friend, we'll call him DJ, my brother \"Brock\", and our family friend \"Kurt.\" We went to the Mc Donald's connected to a BP in our small town and got large soft drinks, then afterwards we decided to go across the street, and down this steep hill to the lake our town sits on. About halfway down this steep-ass hill there was a pot hole. Brock and Kurt went over it with ease, and DJ wanted me to go first. So I thought, being the genius I am, that I could jump the pot hole and sprint down the hill. I would clear the hole and get to the bottom faster. Two birds, one stone right? Wrong-o. \"DJ, hold my drink!\" I said, then I jumped the hole, started sprinting. Now, I think it is important that I mention that I am no stranger to food, I am a heavy set guy. This being said, I realized shit got too real, too fast. I fanatically looked for a way to slow down, and noticed a small tree in front of me... I steam rolled over that like it was a rolling pin going over play-doe. Adding insult to injury, I somehow swallowed a spider that was using the tree as shelter. I then made it to the bottom... on my face. Right into the jagged rocks at the bottom. I rolled right across them. I basically cried and laughed at the same time. Then DJ came down and I said \"DJ, dude.\" and he replied \"Uhhh... yeah?\" I said \"You still have my drink?\" He replied \"Yeah dude.\" \"Gimmie that, I swallowed a spider and its in my throat.\" I said. I took a drink to force the bitch down, and tried to at least go out like a spider eating boss. So ends a perfect day...", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this was in the planning for a few weeks, I wanted to take this girl that Im close with to a party my friends always host but we never planned one tilll a few days before the event. Because of that her mum didnt feel comfortable about not having plans so she said thay she can have a couple of friends over and Im invited, I didnt decline as I wanted to spend it with her. Day after day more people bailed and it was down to 4 people including me but one of which liked the girl Im into.\n\nSo the night of new years arrived and I spent the first 3 hours hanging with the closest friends I could ask for but then I had to split to go to this other party. Straight away I can see him flirting with her and getting close while I sat there bored out of my brains, Im used to drinking heaps and playing board games or card games (friend tradition) but instead we were not drinking much and played xbox instead. I liturally felt like a fish out of water and just wanted to get wasted before the year ends, I spend my last day of the year unhappy with my surroundings and feel like I ditched my friends just to think I was going to have a great night. Now Im going to have to lie to my friends and say I had an amazing night when really I would of preferred to be alone then in the situation I was in :(", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was filling gas watching this young, sleazy little salesman kid try to persuade other car owners to buy his car cleaning spray put out by a famous racing league. I have a bit of a flashy car so I knew it was just a matter of time before he came to me as I had a lot of gas to fill. When he came up to me, he started with the usual sleaze about how we must be cousins because we both drive BMWs. He had terrible, unprofessional skills and I'm surprised he's ever sold anything in his life if his current behavior was any indication as to how he approaches people.\n\nHe proceeded to test it on my car and, yes, it did seem to work but I just wasn't interested. Well, not until he said, \"Okay, you know what bro? I'm just gonna give you one. A can for free, on the house.\" Surprised, I walked over to the table where his setup was and also where a female coworker of his was standing and he then handed me a can and said, \"Okay, so it's only $10.\" Again, I was surprised, and instead of disputing his offer, I went ahead and pulled out my credit card and paid for it. Oh, and there was a $2 tax on the damn thing so it actually came out to $12.\n\nHe ran my card, handed me a receipt, and the transaction was over. I'm sure he felt good about having basically hustled me into walking over there under the impression that I'd get a free can and then actually making a sale. I handed him the can back and said, \"I want you to give this to the next person you promise a free can to. Now you can actually keep your word,\" and got back in my car and drove off.\n\nIt felt good doing this and I'd love to hear some stories of similar things that you may have done to help others at your cost, perhaps to prove a point or just to flat out pay it forward.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few weeks ago I started seeing this girl. We had a great time. Some things were strange, because she would text me 24/7 and get mad if I didn't respond within 1 min. She was also very indecisive with everything. Overall things were going well. I work 50+ hours a week as process engineer and she is still in undergrad for business. She constantly demanded things from me like hanging out all the time, lots of texting. When I asked for it to be toned down a bit, since I only have so much time in a day she would get mad. \n\n Things moved fast, she said I was pushy about sex and maybe I was, but I was confused because we were both naked in her bed, she undressed first, after 3 weeks of seeing each other and I thought that was coming that night. So she kind of got mad after I asked her if we were doing it that night. Anyways we made up the next day and things went the same. Another night we are in the same situation. We had just talked about waiting then all of the sudden she gets on me and we are do it. I was confused. We do it again the next day and then she says she feels bad about it and I have had enough confusion at this point so I get mad because she is making a big deal about it. So I try to patch things up but she isn't saying anything so I leave and a week later I get these messages about how she found a better guy and that I hurt her feelings.\n Now she is sending me messages that she misses me and she keeps thinking about us. Her last messages were \"I really miss you\" and \"Idk why I've been thinking about this so much\". I did like her and I still kind of do but I don't want to deal with the same thing all over again. What should I say? I want to say that I do miss the good times we had, but I don't want to a repeat of last time.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend's birthday is December 24th, which is Christmas Eve. He grew up in a foster home and never got great presents for either his birthday or Christmas. He often spends his birthday and Christmas alone because his foster mother is uninterested and he doesn't have a great relationship with his birth mother. \n\nHe spent Christmas with me last year, so I went out of my way to get him both a birthday present AND a Christmas present, both of which valued above $50. However, he was so thrilled to have someone to spend his birthday and Christmas with, he showered me with 5 very nice, expensive gifts. I felt terrible. Happy, but terrible.\n\nHe is a video game artist but was recently laid off from his job. He is very passionate about his video game collection. There is one game I noticed in his collection that he only has the sequel of. I asked him why because it is very unlike him. He said it was because the original was wildly expensive and he already had a hard time affording a mint condition version of the sequel.\n\nThe cheapest, mint condition version of the game I could find is about $500. I do not make a whole ton of money, but I have saved up enough for it but now I find myself having second thoughts. I would have to buy it now or within a few months because the price skyrockets the closer it gets to Christmas. We haven't been together all that long (about 6 months) and I don't know if it would be right to drop $500 on a present just yet.\n\nI have so many questions. Is this too much? Would it be creepy to get him something that he never asked for? What if giving him a game gives him bad feelings about getting laid off? What if we break up before Christmas and I am stuck with the game? Would the game have the same value to his collection if he didn't earn it himself?\n\nAny help would be great. I am torn.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is kind, loving, sweet, really hot etc and tells me she loves me all the time, but I can't shake the feeling that she's not the one. I know I'm young and so is she, and being my first girlfriend this is probably a pretty generic case. I don't know why I feel this way which is why the prospect of breaking up is so hard, I'd want to give her a reason other than \"I just don't feel the same\"!\n\nOne thing that does bug me is the fact that she says she loves me SO much, like, at least 2-3 times an hour when we're together. I feel like she doesn't trust that I'll say it back? I also feel sometimes that she wants to keep me for the company, as she doesn't have many friends (she wouldn't have any trouble getting any if she put herself out there a bit more) of her own and is often alone in her flat. I, on the other hand have no problems being by myself for a length of time. \n\nOh, and I'm moving to Sydney for 5 months in 8 weeks or so.\n\nI feel like I'm answering some of my own questions simply by typing my thoughts out here, but I'd much appreciate other people's opinions.\n\nThanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating a guy for a month now who is so sweet to me and treats me like his princess. His personality is basically what I want in a guy and he makes me very happy. However, lately he's revealed how jealous of a person he is, and how he doesn't want me to hang out with any of my male friends. I was offended and brought up trust, but he said he trusts I won't do anything. He thinks I don't understand where he is coming from, but will try not to be jealous.\n\nOn another note... I am in college and trying to make something of my future, with a job and extracurricular activities. I want so much in life. He, on the other hand, is only a high school graduate and I don't see much motivation to get very far in life. This has been bothering me..\n\nShould I end it before we make anything official? Should I wait it out? I don't want to say all this to him and offend him.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were dating for 1 and a half years and both go to the same school. Things were going really great, but, like in all relationships, that spark had seemed to settle down. Things were really comfortable, don't get me wrong. But I felt like I was missing out. I decided to break up with her. I really didn't have a great reason to do so except for the fact that I wanted to try out the single life again.\n\nHanging out with her was always fun, but sometimes I was genuinely bored to be around her. We were very open about our feelings and would always let each other know when/why the other was feeling down, so the communication was there. But sometimes the conversations were just the same repeated stuff over and over and over again. I tried to expand on them, but it just seemed to go back to the same boring conversations.\n\nAll in all, I felt like being single again and stepping away from the comfort zone. She was very devastated by it and I could barely take it as well. After the initial breakup, it did feel like I had a huge relief lifted off of me, as I had been considering it for about a month or so. A few days later, I was ridiculously upset, but not sure if it was because I had lost HER or lost the RELATIONSHIP.\n\nI deleted myself off of Facebook for awhile, and she did the same. I saw her again today since I reactivated my account and fucking lost my mind and broke down in tears. I feel like an idiot. I really loved this girl and now I feel like I lost her for no fucking reason.\n\nDuring the course of the breakup, I texted her twice to see how she was doing (I know I broke NC) and I got no response. I understood, but it still hurt. \n\nI feel like I don't deserve to be hurt since I was the one that initiated the breakup.\n\nI'm sorry if this is very vague and scatter minded, I'm just looking someplace to vent and maybe get some good advice on how to get the fuck over it.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 years now. For the last 2 years, when Thanksgiving and Christmas came along, we spent it with our own families. His family lives 5 hours away from my family, so it's not very realistic to spend one day with one family, and then go to the other one's the next day. I would really love to spend a holiday with my boyfriend, but I feel bad for my parents. His family makes a much bigger deal out of holidays than mine, and he likes his family a lot more than I like my family so I can't convince him to come spend the holiday with my family. Thanksgiving is tomorrow and I could still go with him to his parent's house over mine, but I hardly ever see my parents. My parents are currently spending a lot of money on me to put me through school, so I feel like it's really selfish of me to ditch my parents to spend Thanksgiving with my boyfriend and his family.\n\nSo I guess the main question is: Should I go ahead and finally spend a holiday with my boyfriend of 3 years, or should I spend it with my parents since they've been such good parents and I feel bad?\n\nAnd for another question... How can my boyfriend and I split holidays in the future so that everyone is happy?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm going to be really concise about this because I could rant about it for three hours. \n\nShe's her own problem, and i'm the one she tells everything to. \nHe's a manwhore and refuses to grow the fuck up. \n\nHe loves to make her cry. Usually for no reason. Always claiming that she's conspiring to break up with him. Which she wont: her self esteem is too low to break up with someone. He's a gossip queen and loves to talk shit to all his friends about her. Really personal stuff that no one should know about. Especially since she has problems opening up to people. That was pretty much the norm before he moved.\n\nNow he's moved 40 miles away. No large feat for someone with a car that's in love. But for a senior that's still mommy's little girl; it's not that simple. So they are \"taking a break\" in his words, due to the distance. He has a car, doesn't go to school, and has a part time job. She's starting to see what's going on, but refuses to believe it. I've hear the words \"he's losing interest\" come out of her mouth. \n\nI am, of course, biased towards her. Why else would I be making this post? I do have feelings for her, but that's not (entirely) why I want them to break up. Im worried about her and want whats best for her. \n\nSo, I have a friend doing leg work for me. He's good friends with her boyfriend and agrees with every word that comes out of my mouth. If he gets substantial evidence that her \"Bf\" is dating banging other women; should I present my case to her?", "role": "user" } ]