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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm bisexual but not out to many and I have never been with a girl, although I have wanted to for a long time. At a festival I volunteered at 3 months ago I was put on shift with a girl I'll call Hannah. Me and Hannah spent a lot of time together on shift and using her sharp gaydar I'm pretty sure she began to suspect I liked girls, so she dropped a few hints that she was gay and then made a few passes at me. I was too shy to reciprocate, especially because at that point I wasn't out to the people I attended the festival with, who me and Hannah were also working with. I stupidly left my last shift without her number and never saw her again. So today while scrolling through the volunteer group Facebook page I found a post by someone that looked a lot like her had made about a week ago, and it did turn out to be Hannah. (Not that I've been looking for her for the last 3 months, or anything.) Would it be weird to add her on Facebook and try and talk to her, or has it been too long? I feel pretty stupid for still thinking this over this 3 months later and I'm worried that I might come across as really creepy. I know this seems really trivial, but I would love for my first experience with a girl to be with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in love with this girl for a number of years, we have a really strong history together. We've been friends since the 8th grade, dating since early highschool. But we've grown together, she was there through my moms alcoholism, I was there for her emotionally abusive mother. She dealt with my religious turmoil, I dealt with her trust issues. We've even broken up, dated other people, and concluded that we simply prefer each other over the rest of the population. It's so corny and cliche that we were each others first kiss, first love, first lovers. I'd gag if I wasn't so in love with her. Anyway, I feel a little in over my head. \n\nI'm worried i'm not equipped to handle a relationship of this caliber. I have no doubts regarding my commitment to her or whether we are right for each other, I'm just worried that I'll be young and dumb and muck it up. Am I worrying for nothing? Are there common mistakes that people make in the transition to long term relationships?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "...in the post! I like to think that i'm pretty charismatic most of the time, I'm a bit chubby but not threatening. So why is it hard for me to approach strangers in groups? Especially if i'm alone. Like if I go to a pool hall or something I won't talk to anybody unless someone approaches me. I play pool by myself a lot in school. I think i'd be really nice to make friends with people and anybody that I know would tell you that once I get to know you I'm anything but shy. Is this a regular thing?\n\nI figure once I can approach people and groups as a friendly person I might be able to do it with the opposite sex after a while. Also I can do being introduced by a mutual friend but without a necessary cause (work, school, summer camp,etc) I cannot talk to unknown people. Finally doing this without seeming like a creeper would be nice too!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my boyfriends family are pretty terrible people. His mother is a complete irresponsible mother (she's lost 2 children to the state), and my boyfriend has never had a relationship with them. She works long hours as a nurse a few hours away from her home, so she is often not at the house. My boyfriends brother is at the house, but all he does is sit around in his basement playing video games, not paying attention to his surroundings. Now, the dog that they have is a rescue dog. They adopted him a couple years ago. I've seen the state of the house when my boyfriend used to live there, and it's terrible. There is dirty laundry all over the place, dirty dishes throughout the kitchen, open paint cans laying around, and so many other terrible things. That dog craps all over the place because I believe he needs to be let outside but no one is paying the right attention to him. When he is outside, he's often tied up on a line in a muddy driveway and will often escape. The brother screams at him when he barks (probably barking because he needs attention), and the mother is never around to look after him. Overall, I'm wondering if I should make the anonymous phone call to Animal Control, and if they will actually do something about the situation. I don't think anyone hits the dog, but I don't even know how much he is fed (or if he is even fed enough). Is this enough for the dog to be taken to a better place??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just had a work meeting last week at my fast-food job. Everything was going normal, until my boss mentioned a new rule that we'll be trying out. If he catches you talking, or slacking off, you get a tally mark, and for each tally mark at the end of the week, 5 minutes is deducted from your pay. I go to school full-time, so I only work part-time on the weekends. It shouldn't affect me because I'm hardly there, and when I am, I'm a hard-worker. The thing I'm worried about is that my boss is a dick and I feel like he might arbitrarily deduct from people he doesn't care for because it seems like a rule with a lot of grey area and no oversight for how the manager implements it. Is what he's doing even legal? And if it's not, what would be the appropriate course of action to take?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 21/f and I met a 22/m about 2 months ago. We didn't really start talking until a month ago. He would text me almost every weekend asking to hang out, but I was always busy.\n\nFinally I agree, and we go to a movie, but I'm 99% sure that was just as friends. We bought our tickets separately and met inside the theater. Nothing happened there.\n\nWell, after that, we started texting/chatting online a lot. We had a lot of interesting conversations and he kept mentioning that I was really nice and that I gave good advice. Somehow we got on the topic of sex one day and since then, things kind of got stuck there? We ended up sexting a few times.\n\nHe tends to flirt with anything with breasts, so I was weary of his flirting. But at one point i asked him why he had to go after so many women. That one is enough. He responded saying if one were to take him, that would be enough. I told him that shouldn't be hard to find, and he simply replied with \"Who? You?\". I said I couldn't answer that, and he didn't pursue much further. Then we just ended up sexting..\n\nI don't know if I'm assuming things because of the sexting or if it's valid to think he might be interested in more than just \"sexting buddies\" (if that's a thing.. I don't know). I've never done that before so I don't know the procedure.\n\nLike I said, he is the kind of guy that flirts with anything with breasts, but when talking to him privately, I've kind of figured that it's all kind of a muse to hide insecurities. I just don't know if he's doing this with me because I'm a female and willing, or if he actually likes me and wants more than that.. I'm not the most attractive person, so I can only assume he's actually genuine and not in it just to get in my pants, because no one wants that.. not in 3 years.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: Like Colbert said, \"Instead of fear, we ignored Muslims, like God intended\". But WHY!?! Christianity and Islam has butt heads plenty, it's a HUGE religion, and is not only is it vast, but it incorporates numerous ethnic groups all over the place that seem completely distinct. I remember going on wikipedia and finding a bunch of ethnic groups in Europe being Muslim. And then I remember going on to another link through reddit (surprise, surprise) and found this photo journal of a man going through the world, and he photographed a people that lived on boats off of the Philippines (I think) that refused to live on land, and they happened to be Muslims also. Turks, Bosnians, Arabs, Somali's, Filipinos, to random converts. All Muslims. Please Reddit, if you're going to downvote, give me some damn reasons that matter in this situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In April, my boyfriend of eight years broke up with me telling me that the only reason he had stayed with me for the past year was because it was convenient to have me around since I cleaned, cooked, etc. and that he didn't want to get married (at that point, he was the person I was planning on the spending the rest of my life with). Since then he has been contacting me and saying he didn't mean it and he wants to get back together and get married. After hearing his original comments I've refused to go back to him and have no intention of doing so.\n\nHowever his comments really hurt me and I feel has damaged my ability to trust my friends and family. I'm the person who shows up to a party with fresh baked cookies, the person who pops up with soup when you're feeling ill, etc. I know in the back of my mind that my friends are my friends because they value me as me, but I'm afraid they see me as someone convenient and useful and not an actual proper friend. Since I wasn't able to pick up on my ex-boyfriend being unhappy for the past year (as far as he told me and I could tell, everything was wonderful until he broke up with me), I'm afraid I can't tell if other people are lying too.\n\nIt has made it difficult for me to open up and share with my friends and family and I hate myself for treating them all suspiciously. I was asked out on a date a few weeks ago and the guy is a complete sweetheart, but I'm still terrified. How can I conquer my fear and treat my friends, family, and potential significant others the way they should be treated?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "M27, F25. The title basically sums it up. We've been dating 5 months. I care about my girlfriend (\"Jane\") a lot, but I'm exhausted by how jealous she can be sometimes. \n\nI would say that 70% of my friends are girls, but my two closest friends are guys. The other day, Jane and I were together and a friend of mine walked by. I said hi to her like I do with all my friends, but later Jane said that my face \"lit up\" when I saw her and that I was obviously attracted to her. I denied being attracted to the friend (I am not) and tried to change the subject because this conversation has never ended well. \n\nShe started a line of questioning.\n\nJane: In a hypothetical universe where you had never met me, would you have dated \"friend?\"\n\nMe: No.\n\nJane: But you obviously think she's pretty.\n\nMe: Why does this matter? There are lots of pretty people in the world.\n\nJane: So you do think she's pretty.\n\nMe: Do you think she's pretty?\n\nJane: Yes.\n\nMe: Fine, she's pretty.\n\nJane: So you're attracted to her.\n\nMe: No, please don't put words in my mouth.\n\nJane: Obviously you'd date her, and that's not okay with me.\n\netc...\n\nI've never cheated on her nor would I. At the moment I don't see how these hypothetical scenarios could ever be good for a relationship. At the same time, I want to be sensitive to Jane's feelings. \n\nI have told her how I feel about this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "29M Almost recently lost a 3 year relationship (w/ 32F) due to my being possessive and at times controlling. When I asked her to marry me this fall, when I was honestly unaware I was doing this, she was extremely happy, but within the next few weeks, she realised she could not be with a person who made her feel this way. She always felt like she was walking on eggshells, and was, deep down, not happy. \n\nThings feel appart in a bad way (emotional affaire on her part). But, after a long, hard period of working things out and realising that we truely want to make it work, we're giving it a very positive second chance. She is very enthusiastic about it, and wants it to work as much as I do. I don't want to make the same mistakes again. I was her to be free to be herself, and not feel untrusting towards her. \n\nI've become very introspective, and have spend much time reading about possessive relationships, dating \"losers\" and whatnot. Though I most definitaly do to match most categories of what these \"Are you dating a loser\" articles point out, there are a few that unfortunately are dead on to how she felt.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was 22 and driving home at roughly midnight, maybe a bit later. As I pulled into my neighborhood, which was your average middle class neighborhood, I saw a teenage girl sitting on the curb with her head in her hands, obviously crying.\n\nI circled back around, turned my dome light on so she could at least see me, and stopped next to her to ask if she needed anything. Sobbing, she asked to borrow my cell phone, which I handed to her. \n\nBefore she could use it, I asked her if she needed a ride anywhere. She gleamed and immediately jumped in my car.\n\nTurns out she had been over at the house of a guy down the street. Apparently he tried to force himself on her, and when she kept refusing he got angry and kicked her out of the house. She had ridden there with him, so had no car, and no cell phone.\n\nI asked her where she needed to go and she told me her mom worked at a hotel across town, so I took her there and dropped her off.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm currently 19 and can honestly say that I personally will never want children. I don't dislike children in any manner, in fact I think other people's kids are great I just do not wish to waste ~18 years of my life on another human.\n\nI've spoken this over with friends and the like, the only down sides they can present me with are (not including the obvious chances of infection due to the procedure) as follows -\n\n 1. I may change my mind in the future -\n\nI can safely say that I will never want children, I've argued with friends about this and every time it boils down to people having kids due to boredom. Even if I do change my mind reversals have a high success rate, say the reversal fails IVF treatment is a possibility and on the NHS 3 chances are given. Say these all fail I will never be in the situation where I would be unable to pay the money necessary for IVF to take place.\n\n 2. The person I'm with may want children -\n\nIf this is the case they may likely not be the person I want to be with, even if they did and I was inclined to oblige see No.1.\n\n__________________________________________________________\n\nMy reasons for this are simple, I never want to be in the situation where I've managed to get some girl pregnant with-out prior thought.\n\nI find it odd that every person I've spoken to has called me a mad-man, even though they can offer me no valid reason as to why I shouldn't go through with it.\n\nReddit, I heed your advise mainly people that have gone through with it at a comparable age.\n\nThank you in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "yes, i am pretty naive. here is my story:\n\nlike one year ago i was bored, talking to strangers on omegle. so there was that girl (i should have known there are no girls on omegle), and we had a nice conversation. so after she added me on her facebook, which she just made for me, because she didn't sign up yet (i should have known no person, not even from canada - that's where she claimed to live - that is in the internet has no facebook).\nwell, there was only one picture of her and she never added any other and claimed there aren't any other (not very believable neither - yes i know).\nwell so we have been chatting from time to time. i also chatted with her cousin (suuuuure), who kept emailing me from time to time.\nduring that time she told me always about her fucked up life:\n\nThere was her neighbor girl that slept with her father as a revenge for her breaking up with her ex-boyfriend who was the brother of the neighbor girl (complicated) and a lot of other WTF stories.\n\nWhat made me suspicious was that she mostly came online a couple of days after i ve got an email of her cousin and then always a break for 8 weeks or so.\n\nSo today i was bored and kinda remember my quite good chatfriend and how i was always suspicious so i goggled her facebook picture and BOOM, i end up on various brasilian blogs claiming ppl using that picture are fake (as far as i understand portuguese). \n\nYet, that person was sometimes quite helpful (studying spanish) and we really went on fine and there wasn't anything weird like her asking for money or my address or something alike. So here my questions:\n\n1. Have you also pretend to be someone else? If so, why did you do it and for how long?\n2. Have you been fooled by someone else this way? If so, how did you find out about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "myself, 23m, her, 25f, relationship over a year. Moved in with each other from one city to another 450 miles away.\n\nThis is an update from this thread: \n\nI'm at a complete loss. I finally got back into town and got to see her face to face. She wasn't cold or mean, but as soon as I stepped in, she wanted to sit down and talk. It's obvious that this decision is hurting her just as much as it is hurting me. We talked and cried, everything. Even held each other for awhile during a powerful lighting/thunderstorm.\n\nlater in the evening, she started to get playful, or cheery. I guess to try and lighten the mood. Then she became angry, wishing the move was already over so we can move on. She asked for a back massage (like I used to always give her)..promptly after, said she could not sleep in the same place with me...so I left and spent the night on the couch.\n\nShe left not too long ago for work, gave me a hug and said sorry. I've already begun packing my things. She has a place on standby to move into. Just this one night back has been incredibly painful. I told her to just move out and move on. She doesn't need to worry about me or the apartment lease we're on. Hell, I'll even pay for her first month if it means it will be emotionally easier for the both of us\n\nI was really hoping to find a solution to all this, that we stayed together, but that hope is now gone. Maybe in the future? I don't think I should keep my hopes up at all. Been through this once before, this is the second time. I don't think I can bear another scar.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I did something that was hurtful to her and I hate myself for it. When I apologized before for something else I felt really bad about, I spelled out 'I'm Sorry' in her backyard with candles and lit them up. \n\nI want to win her back again, and obviously I know that this isn't going to make things all better, but I want to try at least.\n\nI was thinking of getting helium balloons and writing on them, floating them up to her window and telling her i'm sorry and that we can work things out and then give her a scrapbook afterwards to show that hopefully all the great times we had/will have are worth it. \n\nhelp anyone?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright- So I'm doing the c25k thing and have been at it for three weeks now. Today was w3 d3. So last Friday (w2 d3) my jog resulted in this sort of tight pain\" up the side of my left leg, not on top of my shin but on the outside of the leg, sort of like a cramp. Now I stretch before and after every run, so I'm not sure what was going on. I didn't really do anything for it, figuring it would go away but it took three days, a few ice packs and finally a heat pad to get it to stop. \n\nSo Monday, I go for my run and it's back. Not too horrible but there. the runs are longer this week (3 minutes) and my jogging pace that day was barely a jog. I come home stick my leg in the Jacuzzi for 20 minutes and the pain is gone. same on Wednesday. \n\nToday I'm doing my run, going a bit faster than I was before, and the pain comes back. While I'm jogging, it's just small twinges, but when I slow to my walk it comes back with a vengeance. I figure for some reason I'm not allowing my ankle a full range of motion, so I try to relax and walk normally, but the pain gets worse and worse and worse. - I end the run, stretch out again get in my car and it disappears for the most part. It still feels tight in that whole area, but no real pain anymore. \n\nDoes anyone at all experience this?, is there a special stretch I should be doing. I bought some kinesiology tape, but I don't think I put it on the right place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The time comes again, I have been with the same company for almost four year. When I started working there I thought it was going to be a decent job and I would have no problem working my way up. I was dead wrong.\n\nAll the people I worked with know I have a four year degree in marketing and management.\n\nI have applied for various posistions throughout the company, including the headquarters. All turned down, with no reason as to why. I had talked with higher levels of management to be promoted so I can actually use my education for a change. Nope, just took a rookie two years younger than me and threw him in with a HS education.\n\nWell fuck me right?\n\nNow it is gonna happen again, I was told when I transfered locations I would recieve a promotion as agreeded upon. Two months later still nothing, but now they tell me I have an interview tomorrow (18th) for the posistion was passed up for. This coming only for the second time changing the date I was supposed to interview. Best part is they don't even seem excited to promote within.\n\nI know that there are people out there who have experience working as a manager, but to basically be tossed around like a sack of taters is really pissing me off. There have been people in this same company who were hired then promoted not but a month later.\n\nI HAVE A DAMN EDUCATION IN BUSINESS PEOPLE, I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING! I am tired of playing along to your games. This is the last damn time. I have worked just as hard as people two levels above me, gone out of my way to show dedication, and have done everything possible to get you more satisfied customers who want to remain loyal to the company.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I hope I am posting in the right subreddit for this. Lately I have been feeling....anomalous(?) regarding what I want out of a relationship. Another fling of mine was recently ended because he 21M did not want to \"marginalize his friendships.\" When I am in a relationship, I want a Tabula Rasa -- a complete clean slate. I don't want my significant other to be facebook friends or have any contact whatsoever with previous ex-girlfriends and/or people he has slept with. I provide the same respect. I am accepting of friends of the opposite sex as long as there is not a sexual or romantic past. It would make me uncomfortable if they were to hang out independently though, and I would prefer a group setting. \n\nIt's as if my ideals are from another planet. All of the men I have met seem to think my relationship expectations are absolutely ludicrous. I, on the other hand, do not think it is expecting too much of a person. I am feeling lonely and as if there is something wrong with me. Am I being overbearing? I would really appreciate some objective opinions.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my gf for six years now. The last couple of months we have had a kind of dead bedroom, with sex maybe 2-3 times a month (I know that this isn't exactly dead, so I'm not sure I'm entitled to complain). We didn't live together, and we both had hectic days so I guessed that this was the reason for our lack of sex. Three weeks ago we moved together. This was big for me. I thought that now we could start working on our dead bedroom. Unfortunately we only had sex one time the first week. I just thought that was because she was stressed out. So was I. The next week she got her period, so that kind of killed the sex part.\n\nSo, yesterday she was really sad. And I asked what was wrong. She then confessed to me that she had been having an affair with her friend. She haven't told me how long this has been happening, but it seems like it has been going on for a while.\n\nThe worst thing is that I was sickly jealous at her friend. And I was really paranoid that there was something going on. So I confronted her, but she told me that I didn't need to worry. So I felt really bad that I was this paranoid and jealous guy, that couldn't let her have a guy friend. So, I guess my suspicions was right the whole time.\n\nI don't know what to do yet. We have just moved together, and there will be hell to move out again. We have both been living with our parents, and there's no turning back now. I don't know if she's gonna quit seeing her friend, and I don't know if we're going to try to make this work. I know I can't forgive her for what she did, and I'm not sure I can just forget and put it behind me either.\n\nSo, do anybody have any tips? Been in a similar situation? And is it even possible to fix this kind of thing? Anything goes, I just need some perspective.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know what it is or why it happens, but if a girl shows me attention for like 2 days in a row then they can just basically have their way with me.\n\nWhen a girl has been talking to me for a couple of days in a row, I feel like they fancy me and we might get in a relationship soon. This is a massive problem for me cause I'm now afraid that when I find someone I won't actually like them, I'll just like the attention they're giving me. \n\nAlso I hate when this happens because I over think stuff WAY too much (e.g. I start thinking 3 or 4 months ahead) and it just messes with my life.\n\nDoes anyone have the same kinda thing? Or maybe some advice or something.\nThanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've never done this before, but in truth i dont have anyone i can talk to. My husband and i have been married for 4 years, together for 5. At the beginning, we were so close. Even when we werent together, we were close. We managed to get through a 6-month deployment for him less than a month after we got together.\n\nOver the years, something has changed. We're not intimate at all, no sex, no cuddling, no time just spent \"together\". We go off and do our own thing and we've basically become friends who share a bed. We talked last night and he says he still feels that \"spark\" for me.\n\nI dont.\n\nOur relationship is complicated by the following things:\n\n- Im schizophrenic and quite often he has to basically take care of me because im too depressed/ psychotic to look after myself. This has put him in a kind of carer role.\n- We live in the US and im originally from England. I have no family and only one non-online friend over here. I dont go out, i dont socialize, he really is all i have over here.\n\n-I take so many psych meds for the schizo that even when the mind is vaguely willing for sex, the body is absolutely not. I cant remember the last time i got genuinely horny.\n\nBecause of my illness, i closed myself off, stopped opening up. I still dont open up very much although im working on it. I've become this walled-off person and i have no idea how to get that spark back. I dont want to lose my marriage, but im scared that's how it will go if we cant fix this. \n\nAny advice would be awesome, im really lost.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay I know the question is a bit strange, so let me elaborate. I've always had this back-of-my-mind need for people to like/want me. I'm in an amazing relationship with a girl I love more than anything or anyone in the world, but i can't shake this need. The problem is that it mainly manifests with other girls. I don't cheat, I don't even flirt very much, but I have this awful habbit of seemingly trying to prove I can still get some of these girls I'm around. It's almost like I miss the chase, but I don't because I love my girl and would never cheat. Is there a way for me to change this quality? I seriously hate being like this, but I don't know how to stop as I've had this problem pretty much my whole life. It's creating strain in my relationship, and my girlfriend and I have talked about it and I'm obviously going to do my best to get over it, but I'd really like to stop for good and not have to force/fake it forever. Has anybody had this problem before or have any tips for how to do this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm in the wedding party for a guy named Raymond. He's marrying his high school sweetheart next month. The best man and I are tasked with giving him a bachelor party in a few weeks and we're both on the fence for the direction we want to go in. Assuming money isn't an option (my mother died a few months ago and left me a sizeable inheritance), what would be the better bachelor party? 1) We get his soon to be wife (who controls all their assets) to drain his bank accounts and tell him she's leaving him just as we all land in Las Vegas. We decide to have a good time anyway and somehow convince Raymond to come party tonight and we'll head back the next day. We go out to dinner and we have a random woman at dinner near us (read: escort) lay on the charm with Raymond. Raymond doesn't drink so she'd have to be an amazing actress but we somehow convince Raymond to go back to her place to continue the party. We get to her place and boom, the door get's kicked in and her boyfriend and some other thugs pile in. Next thing we know, we're all riding with bags over our heads in the back of an SUV heading out into the desert. Long story short we're all digging our own graves when one of the thugs drops his gun (unloaded) next to Raymond and we all see how things play out as Raymond has little to nothing left to lose. The best man's idea is: 2) Raymond is a short guy and has been all his life. Due to that, he has been bullied his share back when he was in high school. The idea here is the best man and I would have a surprise for Raymond. We take Raymond to the garage connected to a house of a friend way out in the country. We then present Raymond with a high school bully tied to a folding chair (read: random actor with a bag over his head) and then we hand Raymond a gun (again, not loaded) to see how it plays out. Now this is a serious question but in full disclosure, I named the Groom Raymond after Raymond K. Hessel from Fight Club.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I found a folder of around 8 pictures, all one of each of his gfs on his computer. They were totally not the sexiest ones. When I lurked them on FB, they definitely had \"better\" photos but he had saved all of it, one of each ex gf, straight from FB on one day. To be clear, they were not photos of when they were together etc. they were all basically old profile pics of the gfs. \n\nI spoke to my friends about this and they think this is extremely weird and I should bring it up. Do men generally do this? What about you?? I would like to get as many opinions as possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My sister was in drug court for a drug charge she got almost 5 years ago. She has a 9 year old daughter. My sister and my niece had been living with her b/f who is in recovery and doing well. Everything had been going fine until I got word that she had been doing meth. I didn't even hesitate, I called her PO the next morning after find out. The way I found out was, her bf finally got sick of her shit, and he asked her to leave. He paid for her phone so he made her leave the phone. He brought the phone directly to my house, and we looked through the text messages. She was CLEARLY buying and selling meth, WHILE on probation. HER PO called Department of Child Services and they made my sister sign over custody of my niece to our mother. My sister is now in jail for violation of probation. I regret nothing. I do however, feel terrible. I just don't want to see my sister go down that dark path yet again, however, my main motivation was to make sure her daughter was safe. My niece's father was living with registered child molesters so I knew they would not send her to her dads. Her other grandmother was one of the people my sister was getting meth from, so I knew she wouldn't be an issue. I feel bad, but at the same time, I fell great!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I posted here a while ago, but can't remember my throwaway. \n\nAnyway's, I basically found out that I'm going to be a Dad. The child is mine, unless she's lying. (Which she might be, you never know people are shitty)\n\nShe didn't tell me for the first 7 months she was pregnant, she's holding a grudge against me because I broke up with her. \n\nAnd now she's trying to say that she's naming the child whatever she wants, that it will not have my name, and that she's going to try and fuck me over as much as possible in child support. She's also saying that she's talked to lawyers and is pretending like she will be granted full custody, and that I will no be able to visit the child at all, and If I do it will be infrequent monitored visits. \n\nCan she do this? \n\nI want nothing to do with her, as she's an awful person entirely. \n\nBut if it's my kid, I want to be in his life as much as possible. This would be my first born child, my first born son. the continuation of my genes. \n\nThere's no way she could name it without me, deny me visitation and fuck me over on child supoprt right? \n\nIs the court system really geared that much towards women? this can't be the case. \n\nBasically, what can I do here? Can I have a say in the childs name, and what are the odds of her being successful in denying me any custody/visitation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(24f) It's a Wednesday night and my live in boyfriend(29) of 2 years has no money, and works @ 6 am the next morning. We go back and fourth arguing about who should go. He finally says that I should go. I've worked the last 13 consecutive days, and Have a day off tomorrow. I jump at the opportunity.\n\nOne important factor that I have yet to mention is my beautiful 3 yr old son, who's fast asleep in the house. The live in boyfriend is not the father. \n\nAs I'm getting changed, he begins to get upset. My girlfriends are already at my house harassing me to hurry up. He acts very childish. This only makes me want to leave the house more. Why should he get his way if he's being a child about it? He then goes to stay that he's burdened with my son and I, and before he met us he had more privileges. I ignore this response and leave. \n\n1 hour .\nHe calls all my friends at the table. When they refuse to answer, he calls the bar. I'm so embarrassed... I finally check my phone that I've been reluctant to look at and there's mean texts and a threat to leave the house with my son at home. \n\nWhen I arrive there was no conversation. He knows that I'm not into confrontation until the following day. It's important to react rationally, not emotionally. \n\nA part of me knows I went to the game despite him. At that moment, I felt entitled. It's just a Wednesday! I spent every day taking care of my son and the man child.\n\n I never really ask him for favors like watching my son. Maybe this is why...\n\nI'm wondering about letting him go already. If there's a foundation that lacks understanding, I'm not sure if I want to be a part of it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: GF & I were each other's first serious relationship & have been together for more than 3 years now. We're both super young to have been in a relationship for so long, but when we met, we clicked really well (& still do!). Our relationship even survived the transition from going to the same high school to different colleges. We're still very much within driving distance though, which helps a lot. We absolutely love each other & are each other's best friend. \n\nGF mentioned to me recently that we should both probably see other people, just to make sure that we've gone on dates with people beside each other. We've kind of progressed from joking about marriage to actually talking about it as a serious option, but neither of us want to go into that with any doubt in our mind. So, I told her how I felt that trying other people out was definitely a good idea for the long run, but that I was also scared. She reassured me that she loves me & that nothing was going to happen & that this is just to make sure that we're right for each other, since we've got practically nothing to compare each other to. I completely believe her & trust her, but I'm terrified of the possibility that we may each come to a different conclusion. At the same time, I am also intrigued by the possibility of dating someone with different interests & experiencing that. \n\nBasically, &", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically my boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and he keeps calling me his life partner. He believes we will be married someday and would totally be okay with being engaged and living together right now. \n\nI, on the other hand, don't really plan on him being my \"forever\" due to multiple reasons (money, he's very critical, insecure) so it makes me very uncomfortable when he says this. However, it would start a huge endless argument if I ever brought this up to him so it's better to leave it alone. \n\nMy problem though is that I don't want to waste his time when I don't plan on this lasting forever, but I also don't want to break up right now because we have a great relationship and it's a nice thing for the time being. \n\nAnother wrench to throw in is that he has absolutely no friends besides me. This puts a lot of pressure on me to constantly be there for him and be his only source of happiness, entertainment, and companionship. This sometimes makes me feel trapped in our relationship which is a feeling I really don't like. I don't like that feeling since I'm only 19 and have been in this relationship and one before this meaning I have always been in a relationship ever since I was 16. Sometimes I get curious about being single but I feel like I can't even consider leaving him when I'm his only source of friendship. \n\nI'm not suggesting I want to end our relationship. But I don't like the feeling that I basically couldn't if I wanted to. Anyone else had a similar situation or general advice for how to continue in a relationship where each partner has different expectations or if it should continue at all? \n__________________________________________", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my boyfriend (named Andy) for a few months. I knew he was beaten as a child (with a whip) by his father, but then again, so was I. I assumed his father stopped, and that it was a cultural thing, as he had lived in Israel until two years ago. Andy and his uncle had been eating at a restaurant when he was a child, and there was a terror attack. Andy's uncle protected Andy and died in the process, causing Andy's father to blame him for his brother's death.\n\nI recently learned that the beatings have not stopped. They have instead continued to grow worse, and he is whipped with a belt for things like coming home late or having his music on too loud. At one point, when Andy's father knew Andy and I had kissed, he beat Andy with a belt until his back bled and threw him outside the house until midnight (I am Indian, and Andy's father would prefer he be a with a white, Jewish girl).\n\nI've told my mother what is happening to Andy. She had been abused by her father as a child, so I thought she would understand. She said that Andy is probably lying and that if something was really happening, Andy should tell someone. She said I am being naive, and that if this is really happening to him, it's only an incentive for him to move out when he turns 18. She walked in on us kissing (it was our first kiss, so it wasn't like we were making out) and now she thinks he just wants to use me and is manipulating me.\n\nToday, he asked his father if he could come to my house. He says his father broke his rib and said no when he asked. I told my mother this, asking if I should call an ambulance or something. She said it's his problem, not mine, and that if he wants help, he should do it himself. \n\nIs she right? I really don't have any proof other than his texts to me, but abusers are good at hiding what they do. Should I keep it to myself?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was in a relationship with the same guy for long time years. We were never suited. Made a massive mistake, we broke up. Lost all but two friends who are already in relationships and settled. That was three months ago.\n\nI don't want to pick up guys in bars, I hate clubs. I work with older women that are settled with families, babies and belong to nappy clubs or whatever parents do.\n\nOnline dating seems good but also from old work friends experiences it can be tedious. I'm willing to give it a go despite this but have no idea what to look out for. I also don't know where to meet single people in real life.\n\nAlthough both my exes have told me I'm pretty, I really don't think I am so there the whole self esteem thing. I'm friendly and flirty, but would wait for a sign someone liked me. So if I were sat in a bar I wouldn't just walk up to a strange guy and give him my number. Once I know someone I've got no problems with making moves. The thought of speed dating fills me with fear.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Girlfriend has guy friends (like most normal women) and i know a couple of them like her and this weekend one of them (he is in a ton of her major classes) Drunk texted her professing his feelings. She doesnt think its a big deal but im Having a super hard time Not Giving a Fuck about this. I just need some help figuring out how to deal with my side of the problem. i think its just the thought of some skeezy dudes i dont really know trying to eventually take what i have from me. she assures me that its not anything to worry about but im a guy and i know how our brains work and i realize that you can home wreck a relationship really freaking easy and that scares the crap out of me. \nAdvice would be awesome. Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently received a phone call from a debt collector telling me that I owe Columbia House $50.50. I asked when the original statement was sent out to me but they were not able to give me that information. However, based on the address they had for me I know it was somewhere between 2006 - 2010. I seem to recall opening an account with Columbia House and ordering some DVDs but I'm certain that I would have met the requirements of the contract and then closed the account. During the time that I lived there I don't remember ever seeing a bill from them. If I did I would have paid it! So here I am today getting this phone call and they say that it's been reported to the credit agencies and that I need to pay it off ASAP. Obviously I don't want that on my credit report but I honestly don't believe that I owe them any money. I did a Google search and there's a bunch of people with similar complaints from Columbia House and BMG. I'm starting to think that this might be some sort of scam but I have no way of being sure. I mean, who keeps records from that long ago?! So what's my next move? Contact Columbia House, credit agency, local police, Better Business Bureau, someone from the attorney general's office (Minnesota), etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My bf and I have been together 2 years. We are currently in a LDR and he is in Hawaii but possibly moving back soon. Haven't seen him in 3 months. \n\nThis isn't even a big deal. Of course I get jealous of him talking to other pretty girls...but really, who doesn't? \n\nSo, I was on Facebook and it constantly pops up on my newsfeed that he is liking all these other pictures of these girls he is friends with. (Note: most of his friends are girls. He has always been that way AND he has had huge crushes on all of them at one point in time before we started dating.) And I was a little jealous because I want more attention from him. So, out of curiosity, I asked about it. At first he said he didn't like any pictures. But then he said his brother does it most of the time.(His brother goes on his account often) Then he got really pissed at me over it. I didn't even sound mad about it. I kinda made a joke out of it when I asked. It's just frustrating because now he won't talk to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife has been going out a lot recently, maybe for the past month or so. She just left for another night out with her friends and I feel like it is too much. This week alone she was out Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday and will be out again tomorrow.\n\nShe goes out for a variety of reasons and always has. It is mostly the frequency that has increased. Girls night out, game nights, to watch shows or sports, to movies and also parties. \n\nI have no reason to think she is cheating. She has admirers but they haven't changed her habits any and haven't gotten any closer to her. I checked the obvious things like fb and text (I have permission) and saw nothing. She doesn't really hide anything from me anyway.\n\nThings that have changed recently are that she is working out frequently now and has been since January. She is in much better shape. Her wardrobe has expanded but it was always good and she has always been known for her style. Maybe one style related thing is that she has gotten into a kick of dressing like she did in college again since the 90s stuff has come back in. So these things are different but are also not very conclusive to me.\n\nShe has one friend who I consider a problem friend (heavy drinking, some drug use, generally ugly behavior) but she is actually hanging out with that friend less lately. So I don't think it is anything to do with her or that group.\n\nShe sometimes ignores me and she does the phone, texting, fb thing all the time but that is something she's done for a long time now, and I don't know any husband in our circle who doesn't have a complaint about that right now. \n\nAnother issue is I am heavy and out of shape and she has let me know that. I am definitely falling behind as she becomes more fit.\n\nSo my questions now are why is she going out so much? How do I let her know this is too much (if it is)? Is there anything I might be doing wrong--I haven't changed recently but maybe that is the problem?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's a book I'd like to read that isn't available as an ebook. I'm perfectly willing to buy a DRM-laden ebook version of this book, but it's simply not available. I bought hard copy of this book (actually 3 books, but that's splitting hairs) but, being a techie, I'd really much rather have an ebook. Preferably in .pdf, .doc, .rtf, or some other flexible, easy-to-use format.\n\nThere has to be some way of turning a physical book into an ebook other than individually scanning each and every page by hand. I'm sure there's some kind of specialized machine that can do it, but I don't have one. I'd be more than willing to pay for temporary access to such a device; maybe mail the book away, or bring it to a Kinkos-like place. The thing is I can't manage to find any service that does this. Maybe my google-fu is weak, but all I can find are websites and programs that convert one ebook format to another, and 1 or 2 services that are only intended for authors/copyright holders (and they make you sign a thing certifying that you are such).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I thought about doing this as a throw away but I never check those anyways. Back story I guess would be a good idea first. My wife and I met in high school and have been together ever since. We had our first child when I was 21. I've got an esteemed job finally two years ago. We're finally out of poverty and our three children. \n\nBetween the first and second child she admitted she was bi and we split for a while. She came back and we've fought the whole way. This year we had both felt beaten down and I found someone else. So I left. Granted I see and take care of my children every day. That is not the issue here, the issue is coming. \n\nSo things are hard. We're looking at one another and feeling the pain of the separation. We stick around one another to do family things and keep the kids happy. Then we start having sex again two months in but we still stay apart. \n\nOn the side she begins hitting up craigslist for men and women and gets hits. She'll go to work and on her lunch she'll fuck someone in the car and then never see them again. \n\nThis devastated me at first. I couldn't believe that she would beg me to come back, fuck me, and then have something on the side. But then I realized I had something on the side. So it go weird for a while and we didn't talk again. \n\nNow we're talking and having sex again, but now I make her tell me, as we are fucking what she did with those other men. And it is the best sex ever. Now we're thinking of letting her get fucked by other men and let me watch. \n\nThis is the kicker. It still hurts but I like it. \nWhat the fuck is wrong with me?\n\nAs a side note, the children are not aware that any of this goes on. I keep them happy safe. My children are first, I am second.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I originally posted this in the subreddit where you are supposed to post the things you forgot the names of. They told me I'm not allowed to ask my question there because there was a strong likelihood that I might one day use medicine and it's totes frowned upon to use medicine or mention a medicine or talk to anyone about medicine ever. Its like the stock market, we all know it exists but nobody can give you advice about it or they'll be hung. So anyway, here goes.\n\nI remember when I was a kid whenever I got a canker sore in my mouth my mom would pull out this clear tube with red ends on each side and she'd open it and she'd fish out a long white cylindrical—medicine. It was shaped like a piece of chalk and the entire piece was the medicine, you put it against the sore in your mouth and it deadened it. if you accidentally tasted the part of your mouth that you medicated, it was almost like licking a 9 volt battery. Really awful. Maybe its no longer sold, maybe it was an off label use, maybe my mom was torturing me by rubbing white painted batteries in my mouth. Any help here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll keep this short as possible, anyways, I went to a restaurant tonight with my brother and when we got inside I saw my ex sitting at a table, to try and make it as less awkward as possible, I asked to be seated on there other side, so I wouldn't have to be \"around\" her.\n\nI order my food and step outside for a cigarette and as soon as I do that, she comes outside to talk to me. We chat for a little and she explains that she didn't want things to be weird and that she thought the reason o switched tables was because she assumed I hated her, which isn't true. So we talk for a little and she then tells me That's she is moving soon because mom got a new job. She then says that she would like to hang out one last time before she leaves. I am uneasy about this, so my question is, should I do it or not?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend (male) and I (female) are freshmen in college, respectively 19 and 18. We've known each other since Freshmen year in high school but didn't become real friends until earlier this year when I broke up with my high school boyfriend who was a mutual friend. \n\nFor the past few months, everything with my friend has been great. We used to have \"deep\" conversations but funnily enough, that was only when he was still dating his girlfriend (they broke up around the same time as my BF and I). \n\nIn the past month or so, he's been acting really strange. I feel like he's starting to pick fights for no reason. He'll ask me if I'm up to anything and I'll say something, he tries to press further (\"Is there anything troubling you\") and I'll say I'm fine and as soon as I say that, he'll get upset. Yesterday we were having a seemingly fine conversation via IM and he did it again, when I asked him what was going on he called me a bitch and logged off. I'm getting concerned because I genuinely enjoy his company, so long as he isn't acting this way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened about an hour ago. I went to get a haircut as my hair was getting too long, I usually have it cut by the same girl but today I got booked in last minute and had someone new. She sat me down and asked what I wanted and since I've only really had one hairdresser for the past two years I've gotten used to not saying what I want. So I say \"I don't know\", but she still fires questions at me and I reply as best I can saying \"Not to short\" and \"Yes she does use clippers\" (referring to the other hair dresser). Eventually she gets started, and this is where I fuck up. She takes number 4 clippers and takes a chunk of hair out of left side of my head, I only expected her to trim around the edges but she went all in, I should have stopped her but I just don't have it in me to be rude. So I try to stay calm and let her finnish, after all, she is a professional. She completes the final touches... And it looks terrible. I have a long face, if that makes sense, and the way she cut it makes it look even longer. Now I'm sitting inside not wanting to venture outside for at least 3 weeks, but I have school in 2 days. Do you think I'm overreaching a bit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Besides what I'm about to say, there is absolutely nothing wrong with our relationship (me 21/m and her, 21/f). I feel there is very strong love between us, and we've pretty much exposed every part of our lives to one another. \n\nShe's a heavy user (not poster, but rather \"stalker\") of social networks. A lot of the time she quickly \"homescreens\" when I look at her using her phone, where I'd catch a glimpse of Facebook/Instagram. When using my PC/iPad, she'd sometimes clear the brower history after use. \n\nIn a relationship where we've agreed to be open about everything, I just find this little thing biting away at me. \n\nShould I just feign ignorance since nothing is wrong? Or should I confront her about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I could tell from the start my sister's new boyfriend was a toxic individual. I wanted to tell her to break up with him, but I was scared to do so. I built up the courage to tell her after 3 months. She was just in a fight with him, and I told her to break up with him because he was a toxic person, and she was just starting to realize that. The next day, she broke up with him.\n\nWhen she told our parents that she broke up with him and I had really helped her, our mom was furious. She went off on me and yelled at me for about 10 minutes because I had \"broken up the family\" and that her boyfriend had been a perfectly nice person and was not toxic. Our father was on her side, but my 4 siblings (including the sister mentioned) were on my side. They said they had realized he was a toxic person, but hadn't spoken up.\n\nNow, I don't know what to do about my parents. They're threatening to go no contact with me because I'm an embarrassment to the family. Do you have any advice for me, Reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in a long distance relationship with my SO. We have been together for 1.5 years. We live close enough (4 hr drive one way) that we can see each other pretty much every weekend. \n\nWe have always had communication problems. My SO hates texting and would rather call. My question is he has been out of town on vacation with a bunch of friends (mix boys and girls) and although I trust him completely I've been having a hard time dealing with the loneliness since he has been away. In the week that he has been gone I've gotten an average of one text a day and only 2 calls total. \n\nHe is has gotten much better at communication since we started dating, but since he's been gone on this trip he has regressed substantial. I have asked him to try to call me more but he hasn't, so I don't think I'm looking for a way for him to change. Just a way for me to deal with the loneliness.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Start by saying, Throw away account. I will try to be brief yet thourough and then answer any additional questions.\n\nI am 23, M, I have been friends with a girl lets say \"Amy\" for 5 years now, There has no always been strong emotions but I have always enjoyed her company and would call her one of my best and consistent friend over the last 5 years. Last year I told her I liked her, was not sure what to expect, her response: was she wasn't sure what to think because she didn't want to lose her best friend if we didn't work out. I with sadness agreed.\n\nFast forward to January 2ed, I have the same Talk, say that I still have these feelings, and want to see where they go. She gives same response about not sure cause not wanting to risk losing me as a friend, This time I grab her Hand and tell her no matter what happens in this new stage of our friendship I Promise that if it doesn't work we will always remain friends. \"IT WORKS!\" for the most part, we hold hands and go for a walk, 2 weeks later it is not un common for us to hold hands or when she comes over to watch TV/Movie we cuddle, Tonight I go in for the goodnight kiss! its successful but then we end up having a long talk about how she goes back and forth and still is afraid to risk our friendship and how that she doesn't want to keep moving forward and end up hurting me. I just don't know what to do to keep things moving forward without scaring her off. I have explained that it is worth the risk but I don't think she sees that as comfort. Any Advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I am so insanely, head over heels in love with my boyfriend, J. \n\nHumble bragging about us: We met when I moved to a new area for my job in July/August. We had been really great friends for months and ended up getting together on Valentine's day. We got very serious very quickly and have spent nearly everyday together since (admittedly, it's a little bit much but it's the honeymoon phase and we can't get enough of each other). I don't think I could have dreamt of a better match for me. J's brilliant, creative, confident and unbelievably kind. His humor is clever and nerdy and immature in all of the right ways. He is so thoughtful and amazing at communicating, which is especially important because that is not my best trait. I've never been able to talk to anyone the way I can with him... And I've opened up more with J than I ever thought I would (with anyone). I could go on for pages just gushing about how infatuated I am with him. \n\nNeedless to say, we're both serious about this... we've said the I-love-you's and started looking for apartments to move in together in June. We're talking about long-term plans and I've already met a huge chunk of his family. It's real. I never would have imagined myself to jump into a relationship this quickly or intensely, but it's really real. And I'm thrilled!\n\nI want to yell it from treetops and tell the world... but I'm worried that people might think I'm being silly or naive and rushing into it. I am very close with my family and desperately want to tell them that I love him and how serious we've gotten but I would be really upset if they wrote it off as some sort of tryst. \n\nSo that leads me to my question: Can I tell my family about my intense, new relationship? Or should I wait it out and bring it up on a more \"normal\" timeline?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Look, it's nothing too big. This is my second proper relationship. Right now, it's starting to be just like the first one I had. I love spending time with her, but as soon as the new week starts and we separate until Thursday/Friday, I start feeling this stupid insecurity again. I'm gonna assume most people know what I'm talking about, the thing that goes hand in hand with freshly having a crush on someone. \n\nAnyways, I'm just looking for ways to deal with it, to avoid it a little more because frankly, I don't like it. That's all. \n\nAlso I'm looking for ways to keep up a conversation via text message. Not looking to constantly text back and forth, but it would be nice not to have every attempt shipwreck after two or three messages.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This FU happened in December of last year, so forgive me, and is possibly one of my worst.\n\nSo my very closest friend in the world (let's call him AssHat) loves to troll me. I, in turn, enjoy trolling him back. Recently, he received a dare to post something serious to his facebook as part of a prank. The way the prank works is that if somebody messages you about the serious thing you posted, you are given something by them to post on your wall. The joke spreads around like that, and is sort of stupid in my opinion. A few days later, I see he has posted to his wall \"My Grandmother went to heaven today.\" With the odd wording, and me hearing nothing of his grandma's ill health, I assumed it was another one of his prank posts to lure more people in to his silly joke. I thought it would be rather funny to mess with some of the believers in the comments of the post.\n\nI type \"Good riddance\" into the comments and, within seconds, I receive a reply from one of his friends I did not know saying \"That's horrible. Why would you say something like that?\" With a lack of better judgement, I decide not to hold back. I go on a rant spreading lies about his grandmother: \"She was a horrible person and a menace to society\", \"She even ran over my cat and never apologized\", \"I went to AssHat's house and saw alot of German WWII related items.\", \"That monster was literally a nazi!\", \"She's scum of the earth and we're better off without her.\"\n\nI felt pretty accomplished with my trolling, not even considering the possibilty his grandmother could have actually died. Later that night, I returned to facebook only to see my comments had been deleted, and AssHat's comment about the awful things I had said. Turns out his Grandmother had actually died that day, and I was the worst best friend in the world. I of course apologized profusely, and attempted to explain myself, but he was still ticked at me for a couple of days.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend (24f) is a stylist/sales associate at Hugo boss. She has good style and I always get complimented by the outfits she puts together. She has been at Hugo boss a little under a year now and is having trouble with consistent sales, clientelling, and referrals. She is off to a good start but is looking for ways to expand her clients and referrals faster.\n\nI am in finance and tried showing her some things I do to get clients but the transition to fashion is a bit different and doesn't seem to work.\n\nSo, reddit, what are some ways you go about building your book of business in particular in the fashion world as a stylist/sales associate.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night on our valentines date, we got to talking about our futures and what we wanted.\n\n I expressed to her that I'd enjoy having each other as someone to confide in about our stresses in college next year (we're planning on going to schools roughly two hours away from each other). She responded by saying that college is a time that she expects we'll want to and will grow as individuals and didn't really express that she wanted to continue dating once we go off to college. She doesn't want to make me feel like I have to stay with her and follow her to the school she's going to, which we both want to major in the same thing and I keep telling her that I wished I'd applied to the same school she had because it's closer to home.\n\n I really like her (yes I know it's the whole high school sweetheart thing) and we get along together really well, but occasionally she gets depressed and shuts me out, although she has gotten less sad the longer we've dated and shares more than she previously did.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I feel like it's pretty normal for someone to take that personal but I I had a long day and was falling asleep when she decided to get frisky and I had a feeling my body wouldn't want to cooperate but instead of declining I tried to force myself into it and and then I got into my own head of why I couldn't get my body and body to fall in line...the results are obvious.. \n\nShe took it pretty personal and I couldn't convince her it wasn't HER who couldn't get me up.. It was just a weird occurrence. I said it twice and at this point I think trying to convince her otherwise is stereotypical and kind of sounds pathetic. What should I say to or do to clear the slate or should I just move on and pretend like it never happened?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ill try and keep this short. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year and everything seemed great. We had a lot of the same interests, humor, and a lot of the same friends. During we were both very affectionate and goofy and people always commented on how good we are together. Basically we were a healthy fun loving couple. \n\nRecently though i have noticed a little bit of hesitance on his part and felt him pulling away a little. I thought he would bring it up and talk to me about it but no. The one conversation we have ever had about his feelings is him breaking up with me. \n\nHe said i was a perfect girlfriend and all he can ask for but he just knows he doesn't love me and feels bad because he doesn't think things can go to the next level (which i presume he meant moving in together) \n\nThis came so out of the blue. We even went out to eat before and acted like everything was fine - which makes me feel so stupid. I was talking to him planning things for next week and holding his hand and just acting normal. \n\nI dont know how to handle it, im in complete shock and i cant stop crying. I just feels so rejected and that i did something wrong in the relationship. \n\nIm being smart about the break up and not calling him and keeping my space but im a wreck and i dont have the first clue how to get out of this. \n\nAny help would be greatly appreciated. I dont have a lot of friends and i dont want to be that friend who just talks about the break up all the time either because we have mutual friends.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First, stomach cant burp almost. It wants to, but the mechanism to burp seemed fucked up. It cant burp, so I get sick, and it tries to eject everything instead. I hate eating now, since it hurts from the first few bites. And then after I eat a meal it hurts. Lots of discomfort. I have to force myself to eat sometimes. But, could that be due to saliva or something? I noticed when I throw up its...weird. Its like a blob of spit almost...could that be due to swollen tonsils? They stay big, but when I get sick, they get even bigger and hurt. I cant eat or drink for a few days. Also, my lymph nodes kinda get like a ball shape you can feel...\n\nAnyway, that one is not so bad I guess. Ive been smoking MJ, and even with that I cant eat. But If I smoke a LOT, then I can at least eat a few bites. So, found a fix..\n\nThe sleep problem seems to be destroying me right now. I cant sleep from the time 11-2 is seems. For the last year at least. I have hypnagogia, so I play a \"movie\" or dream before I fall asleep fully. Ill be in the deepest thought you can ever have, and it will play automatically. Its sorta like inception. But after the movie, usually around 30 minutes, ill wake up. but lately ive been catching myself even before that. when it starts, ill think, wtf am i thinking about, and then be like, DAMN. When I finally fall asleep, i feel im not sleeping deep. Or if I do, no more than a hour. I wake up exhausted. I never get the tired feeling/sensation/chemical until the day. I take a nap, and I feel so much more rested after a few hours. But I cant take naps during the day everyday. Even if I dont nap, Ill be god damn tired all day. Then 11 comes and im fucking wide awake. Its hell. Weekend or weekday I cant sleep at night. Ive tried just about all the things they tell you to do. None work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, this just happened recently and I should've took a picture but I was freaking out too much and washed all of them off. If you don't believe me, fine, but for those who have any idea about this please answer. \n\nSo I just got back yesterday from a holiday (12 days trip). I took a bath directly after I got back but there were no signs of ants, only a little bit. Anyway, I just got out of the shower but this was what happened: \n\nI was washing my hair when I felt something crawling on my legs. I thought they were just water droplets that were on my legs and were just hanging around then suddenly, I felt the crawling sensation going up not down and found it strange cause the last time I checked, gravity was still in place. So I looked down and I saw 2 ants crawling on me. Wtf? I know right anyway, I didn't find it that strange as there have been a few ants in my bathroom before the trip (like i see 3 a day). Okay after I washed them off I saw 5 ants in front of me and they were all running towards the left and that's when I saw it. LIKE OVER 200+ (not exaggerating) ants running away up the wall to a hole (where their home are I guess.) AND I WAS PANICKING/TERRIFIED IDK I WAS JUST SO SCARED and I know I should've taken a picture but I was so freaked out and I washed all of them off. Jesus! Despite telling my parents, they were all like \"You washed them off didn't you? That's fine then\" and \"You're a guy, act more manly\". BUT THAT'S NOT THE POINT REDDIT D; I was so shocked. I never eat in my room or the bathroom so I'm really confused plus scared as I have seen some ants coming into my bedroom. So if you guys have any advice or whatever, please help. I don't feel safe in this place anymore knowing that a shitload of ants are nearby. \n\nFYI, I live on the 3rd floor of my house.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I started dating in the middle of our last year of high school. We're both going to school on opposite sides of the country and we're going into different fields.\nWe talked about going long distance and I enjoyed the idea of going further with her.\nI broke up with her because at the end of college there was no guarantee we could be together. I told her that I wanted her to do everything she could possibly imagine with her degree and her life and that I did not want to get in the way of that. \nShe said she'd follow me and I told her I couldn't let her throw away her dreams to come with me on my adventure. I couldn't ask that of her--especially at this age.\nI did it because I care about her and want her to do everything she can with her life, and I just need to hear some other opinions. \nDid I do the right thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I like this girl (lets call her Q) and it ended up getting around to one of my friends (who is also a close friend of Q) and she figured out that Q also likes me, but isn't ready for a relationship. She also managed to slip that I liked Q. So Q knows that I like her, and she knows that I know she likes me. I'm just a kid and the relationship will probably end up dead in the ground a few months after it starts but what the hell. I know this is barely even something worth asking for advice but I've never been in a situation like this before so any advice will help. This happened about a week or two ago, and I contemplated asking her if she wanted to come over and play video games (She enjoys playing video games, we both own a wii u and smash and stuff) but I don't want to scare her by coming off as super pushy and stuff. She i only in one of my classes but I still talk to her every day. (over text) I'm not sure what I should do and I'm afraid I will just end up never doing anything at all.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm going to college in about a year while leaving my girlfriend behind. I have two options right now which is to stay in my state and go to an okayish college or go somewhere else to a better college. She doesn't really want to do a long distance relationship and neither do I. The problem comes up in what I chose. I already know I want to go out of state to the better college but I haven't broken this news to my girlfriend yet. She believes that I'll stay in state and stay with her through college. Now I love her a lot and I care about her a lot but I know I need to value my education more right now. However when we've talked about me going to college she's made it clear that if I decide to go to the far away college she rather just have us break up now so she won't get her self more attached/in love with me. \n\nNow I've made my decision already but I'm not ready to lose her and I don't want to lose her when I still have almost a year before I leave. I know I need to tell her soon that I'm leaving and I don't want to drag this out and make this hurt her more but at the same time I know telling her will make her want to break up. My dream situation is to tell her now and get her to understand and want to stay with me for the year before I leave and have an amazing year with each other. I just don't know if that can happen. We love each other a lot both and she tells me that I'm the only guy who has ever made her this happy and stuff and we both deeply care about each other. I know we'll probably both meet a lot more people in our life and we won't end up getting married or anything unrealistic but I just want to have at least my remaining year left with her.\n\nAny Advice? Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so in the grand scheme of things this may seem like a rather insignificant little problem, but its the most troubling thing for me in my life at the moment apart from my studies. \nSo I'm in high school, 11th grade, a sophomore basically (not sure if sophomore or senior, Aussie here) and I have a girlfriend. Yeah, I know, how silly of me. The thing is, I really like this girl, but she seems to be way more into this relationship than I am. I am considering breaking up with her but then it would be so awkward for both of us as we are in the same class together for Biology and do our experiments and what-not together. She is also very emotionally unstable at this point, very conscious of her weight, has been known to cut herself and doesnt have a very good relationship with her parents. Anybody who is or has been in a similar situation please, you're my only hope.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in my seventh year of teaching in a public high school. I have an engineering degree, and I have worked in industry. After being a stay-at-home mom for a while, I saw a posting for a physics teacher at my kids' school and got it.\n\nOur system currently pays the minimum pay scale allowed by the state (which is what I'm making). But I have heard through the grapevine that several of our teachers are making quite a bit more than that -- almost twice as much -- because they are engineers. \n\nThey are working on special projects that get a lot of attention (as they should -- they are both nationally-ranked) but I think their course load is lighter. And there is another teacher who is also working on one of the projects (and she herself is nationally recognized) who I think is making low pay like the rest of us. \n\nThe system has a hard time finding teachers to teach what I teach. There are only a couple of us who have done this for very long at all. And I also have been recognized nationally for what I do. \n\nThe teacher who told me about this pay inequity is also telling me I should renegotiate my contract. It sounds to me like these teachers were able to do it -- is this a good idea? How would I go about this? Should I go through our union or not?\n\nP.S. I have four kids in college this year...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys\nI'm not sure if this is the right subreddit, but here it goes.\n\nSo this past week I was in a foreign country with some friends. We went to a club one night and met a group of girls and shared a table with them. \n\nThis one girl and I started dancing and in no time we were making out. I don't know for how long, could have been 5 minutes, could have been 30 (too drunk to remember). I don't remember how we were separated either. \nWe were supposed to meet them again the day after, but for some reason we were late and many of them just went home. She didn't though. \n\nThey were three girls who had waited for us. We went to a bar that night and I sat down next to her. We talked, but the conversation didn't go to any personal level. \n\nWe ended that night with a quick hug. The day after I (and my group of friends) went back home. I added her on facebook.\n\nIt has now been 4 days since the night we were making out and I just feel so empty. Now I'm always tired and quiet and just can't stop thinking about her. I want to write to her, but I don't even know if she feels the same way. \n\nSo my questions are\nDo I write to her or not?\nIf yes, what do I write?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "-I hate the way you blow smoke out of the side of your mouth.\n\n-I hate the inflections in your voice when you flirt with me.\n\n-I hate how your hand feels on my shoulder blades when you unnecessarily stroke my back.\n\n-I hate the way you look at me with that stupid smirk and your stupid eyebrows.\n\n-I hate taking 15 minutes to compose a witty, grammatically correct, meticulously worded reply to your texts. Then waiting an hour or two to send it so I don't look keen.\n\n-I hate looking to my right and seeing your face on the pillow next to me when we're watching TV in your bed.\n\n-I really, really, really, really hate your six pack.\n\n-Ditto arms. Hideous. Get them out of my sight.\n\n-I hate the fact that I didn't pretend I was drunker on that last night, and that I didn't scoot closer to you under the covers and rest my head in the space between your neck and your shoulder.\n\n-I hate the fact that you're not a person I could ever actually date, not least because you're a massive slag who would break my heart.\n\n-I therefore hate the fact that you want to fuck me. And I hate that you know I know. And I hate that you know I want it.\n\n-Because I hate the fact that I'm way more emotionally attached to you, dependent on you even, than you ever could be to me.\n\n-I hate the fact that I think of you when I come.\n\n-I hate the fact that I'm not going to talk to you for the next month, because facebooking or emailing you would be an intrusion on my part. And you're not going to facebook or email me, because you don't need to. Or want to, I guess.\n\n-I hate the fact that I miss your dumb ass so much that I'm writing this to make myself feel better, while you haven't thought of me at all since I went away. Except maybe once or twice. In passing. Perhaps?\n\n-I hate how happy that possibility makes me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday I broke up with this girl [18] who I had asked out 3 months ago. At first i was head-over-heels about her, she was just about everything i look for in a GF, then it just died... She said she felt it too, I was becoming less romantic, less like how i usually am, as if she was boring me. She said she was going to break up with me if I didn't change because it felt as if though we were holding each other back.\n\nThis situation happened with my past three relationships, they start out big as i get to know them, then it just suddenly dies. Seeing as I have no idea what's going wrong I talk to me best friend (let's name her Rose). The whole time I kept catching myself saying \"just like you\" and then it hit me, these girl aren't you. I've been comparing girls to her and they fail to meet her standard.\n\nNow this is where it gets complicated, she's already rejected me, five years ago and that's around the time we became friends too, and believes that we're platonic...so did I. We tell each other everything, things that I would never be tell anyone else unless i married them, I don't trust people all that much.\n\nI don't know if I want to tell her again, this friendship between us means so much to me, and for her. But I also can't go on like this, ever other girl is inadequate compared to her. Plus I don't want to her reject me, she is the one person's opinion that I care for...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship anymore. He cheated on me 2 months ago and we agreed to work things out but it failed. \n\nI was upset and turned to Tinder for a quick confidence boost. He texts me saying he knows I'm on Tinder. (His friend must have seen me and texted it to him) I still love him so much and I know we shouldn't be together because he's completely disrespected me and strung me along. He was my best friend and I feel bad if he's upset/hurt that I'm on Tinder. How do I get past this guilt? He's the one that broke up with me for fuck sakes!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a freelance producer/videographer/editor and recently collaborated with a major national radio station. All the producers involved commended my work and were very pleased with the outcome. One producer (from head office) emailed me: \n\n>Make sure you stay in touch, we have plenty of video projects over the year, it's always good to know there is a reliable pair of hands in town and keep me posted on what you're up to.\n\nand another producer (from my city) emailed me:\n>Shoot me through your resume and clips. Let's sort a time for you to come in and have a chat.\n\n>I can't promise you any work or a job but I can tell you how to get work at [NAME]. The fact you produced this for us on a deadline and that my bosses have seen that is a great step towards that.\n\nSo I have email my resume and what not to that one producer but whats the next step for me in \"keeping in touch\" with the other? What do I update him with and how often?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met this girl on OKCupid around 3 months ago and we really hit it off. I hadn't dated in a very long time so I was really just aiming to get back out there, nothing too serious. One thing lead to another and things seem to be pretty serious now. Much more on her end than mine.\n\nI'm lagging behind in terms of how I feel about her. She really likes me while I'm just moving out of the \"this is a good friend\" stage.\n\n Things like randomly saying the names of her exes (who she claims to hate), telling me about how she gave her actual number to a drunk guy at a bar she was at or how she would definitely date one of her coworkers (that I've met before) if we stopped dating. I'm trying to be patient and let things work themselves out, but she does some things that make me question if I should even allow my feelings to catch up to hers.\n\nSorry if that came off kind of rant-y. I don't have anyone in real life to talk to about this stuff so I just needed to get it off of my chest. I can clarify anything if need be.\n \nI've kind of brushed off each of these things, but I'm nearly positive that if I were to say anything of the sort to her she would flip out on me. Those are red flags right? Or am I just reading to much into nothing. Should I just end things now or let things play out a little more?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my gf met on tinder and have been dating for ~6 months now. The start of the relationship was fun, and best of all was the sex. We both loved it. She was a lot more experienced than I am, she has slept with 8 people where I have only slept with 2 (current gf included) but that was never an issue.\n\nAbout 2 months into the relationship we both moved cities for university, coincidentally we had both been accepted by the same one and now live just minutes away from eachother, as opposed to the 45 minute drive before hand. But then the relationship changed - she started getting more jealous, we argued a lot and it seemed like we were going to lose eachother but we both stuck through it. \n\nWe had to start searching for a house in the private sector rather than in University accommodation for second and third year study, and I felt like it would be sensible to get separate houses with friends just to be safe, as we are in a new relationship and this was my first 'real' relationship, but when I told her she took it as an offence, like I was trying to get away from her. It took me a while to reason with her, and though she still doesn't agree with me, she is accepting of my decision.\n\nWe've been going steady for a month or two now without arguing but the relationship is different, there's no spark. We seem to just sit and watch tv, and the sex is down to about once or twice a fortnight. I know that can be classed as the honeymoon stage passing but the sex just feels forced. Like we only do it because we haven't in a while. I have tried a few times to mention that I would like to have more sex but she doesn't seem as enthusiastic. Am I a bad person for saying this? We are happy together but this has been bugging me for a while.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing this girl for only a few weeks but we've been hanging out a lot/spent the night together last weekend and text frequently. It's been fun and romantic but I'm definitely a monogamous person at heart, so I've been just seeing her. I wouldn't expect the same, but I guess once we sleep together I'd hope for the same. Anyway, we were supposed to hang out last night and she texted me in the afternoon saying she slept with someone else and felt bad. I was upset (mostly just took a hit to my self esteem) but was really calm in my responses to her. I said I wasn't quite sure why she told me about it and she said it was because she was covered in bruises which made my stomach sink. She's definitely into rough sex and it just made me think, you're not telling me because you wanted to be honest with me as much as you wanted me to know you had good sex? Of course I didn't say that. It just kind of sucks to hear this. So I asked what she wanted with me and she said she wants to progress into a relationship eventually. But I feel like things just got incredibly weird between us. Am I overreacting by feeling upset by something when we never defined the relationship? Or is it sort of inappropriate for her to be telling me this? I can't really figure out where to go from here and I haven't responded to her since she said what she wanted. Any thoughts would be great.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My last relationship lasted 10 months and I gave it my everything. It seemed like a perfect match until one day he gave me the \"it's not you, it's me\" (which albeit was valid, as he does suffer from severe depression). It took me a while, but I recovered. That was about 4 months ago. \n\nFlash forward to now. After that didn't work out, I started going on casual dates and meeting new people. I actually found I really enjoyed it. It gave me space to focus on schoolwork (I'm an engineering major and have 3 jobs on campus so I'm pretty busy) and an openness in my social life. A few weeks ago, I met this guy at a party, and we started flirting, nothing crazy, kissed, then I left. I thought it was a one-off thing, but we ended up going on a few dates before break and talk a lot now. \n\nHe's made it very clear that he wants a relationship. He doesn't play mind games (my ex did and I hated it) and is genuinely very sweet and we're surprisingly compatible. Honestly, I could see it working out really well. The issue is that I have found that I really enjoy the single life. After giving so much to a relationship and watching it flounder, I realized that I can be all that I need, and while this new guy is wonderful, I don't really want the commitment attached to a 'relationship'. I'm still really young and I want to enjoy college. At the same time, I don't want to miss out on a potentially really wonderful guy, nor do I want to hurt him at all. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: my boyfriend and I dated for 3 years in college, broke up because I (28F) cheated. Got back together 5 years later, now have been together 2 years and living together for 5 months. \n\nThe problem: I don't know if I want to stay in the relationship. \n\nHere's why: \nI recently came to terms with the fact that I'm an alcoholic (sober 4 months). I also have bipolar disorder (medication/therapy managed). My father died 6 months ago and that sent me into kind of a tailspin. I then moved across the state to be with boyfriend and closer to my mom, and started a new job (which I love). I've been away from therapy for a few months due to this transition. Adjusting to living with boyfriend has not been easy...I require more space/alone time than he does, and once you live with someone all the things that bugged you about them before become more pronounced. All this to say that I've been more moody/touchy/unstable than I was for the past year. Previously I had been ready to get married and spend my life with this guy, then about a month into living together it's like everything changed out of nowhere. And now I'm avoiding sex with him like the plague and sometimes the thought makes me physically ill. Confession: I started to develop feelings for someone else and I'm not quite sure if it's because he has been helping me in early sobriety or if it's more than that. Anyway, the point is that I now have some good days/weeks where I feel like my old self and am ready to marry this guy again, other weeks I can't stand him. I feel guilty because I'm the one who cheated years ago, then I'm the one who begged him to take me back, so how could I leave after that?? So there's a lot of shit going on and I don't know where I'm at or what I should do. I'd appreciate some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My life is just (or at least seems to be) a lot harder than his. My job is more intense and my boss a lot less flexible than his, thus I work more hours and get less vacation. Although we have the same type of job at different places, mine just seems to come with more responsibility and more demands and expectations. I am also pretty high-up in a field which is mostly men, and I feel I have gotten this far by always being better than the men to be considered equal. I am also an only child taking care of my parents who are both ill. Lastly, I pursue more hobbies and interests and social contact outside of just my boyfriend to feel fulfilled and satisfied. As a result of all this, I am often tired and need a fair amount of care a support. I don't get much time off from my job to recover, either. This imbalance in our relationship makes me uncomfortable, \n\nWhen this all started, I thought it would be a few months and then we would reach an equilibrium and maybe even he would have some problems and it would be my time to be the supportive one. But his life is still relatively stress free, and things have only gotten more stressful for me now as my job gets more intense (we are dependent on government funding, which just got cut, and means more work and less people) and my parents' health has continued to decline. It's been well over a year of this mess and shows no sign of letting up soon.\n\nI shouldn't always be the one who needs to be taken care of, I feel. His life is pretty great, I guess (except for the over-extended girlfriend), but I feel like I am a parasite. \n\nThis is a tricky thing to talk about, especially with him. He knows he is supposed to be a supportive partner so there is really no safe way for him to tell me this is too much for him without making himself look like a bad boyfriend or like some dirtbag that might abandon me in my time of need.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live in a two bedroom apartment with two girls in each room bedroom. Recently, one of the girls from the other room decided that the best way to tell us things was through passive-aggressive notes put in certain places as seen here: (those are not the only ones). \n\nOn top of that, she now decides that she hates my boyfriend because he comes over too often (in MY room, where she doesn't even have to see him), and because he doesn't lock the door when he leaves. She has called him a \"douchebag\", \"faggot\", \"dick\", etc. straight to my face, and told me to tell him to go home. She has no reason to even think that because all he's ever been is respectful to her and has even done favors for him.\n\nThe thing is, if she had been nice about it and told me directly that she had problems with something, I would be much more susceptible to change. But when she simply leaves notes all over the place and then blows up and bitches people out when things don't change, I have no respect for her.\n\nWhat should I do? :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The other week I found out that my boyfriend of 6 years created an okcupid account while I was out of town for work.\n\nI found out about the account because I saw messages from OkCupid when he logged into his email. Later I went to okcupid.com on his computer and he was logged in. No major detective work here. His profile is fairly bare with no picture, but states that he is single, and I can tell that he has looked at other women's profiles and \"liked\" them. He has no messages in his inbox, but you can delete those right? I haven't ever used the site.\n\nI didn't bring it up to him for a few days because I just didn't want to think about it. When I finally told him that I had found the account, he admitted it to me. He said he had looked at women's pictures but that's it. His reason why was that \"I was out of town,\" which is fucking stupid.\nWe are generally a good couple, and though of course we fight about stupid shit sometimes, this is the first time I've had trust issues with him. He's a bartender and often doesn't come home until 7 am, but I've always just trusted that he just gets off work late and then maybe has a few drinks with his coworkers. I travel often for work and never assumed that he was looking to meet up with other women while I was gone.\n\nSo, am I being a total fucking shmuck? What would you do? I will be devastated if he cheats on me, and I'm not even sure that he is trustworthy anymore. Can I believe him if he says it was nothing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok my girlfriend texted me asking whether I'd be attracted to her IF she was fat. [Conversation] I'm not attracted to fat women, she knows this because I've never dated anyone fat, I'm not fat and above all, SHE isn't fat. \n\nI've told her before that I would love her but I wouldn't be sexually or physically attracted to her because I don't like fat women. She got upset, saying I'm shallow. I'm not shallow, there's nothing wrong with not being attracted to fat women, at all. It's just who I am. \n\nShe then went on to say that I should be because she's still the same person and my reply would simply be that it's not always the personality that counts, you have to be attracted to somebody who looks good to you and if you were fat, you wouldn't look good to me.\n\nBut one point you guys have to understand is that my girlfriend is not fat, she is nowhere near. She's absolutely fine in my eyes.\n\nHow can I deal with this?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm currently in a open relationship with a good [F20] that I met like 1 month ago. We have been seeing eachother quite frequently and I've started to grow more and more interested in her.\n\nThe problem still is that she is satisfied with the current situation with us hanging out and that we occasionally end up having sex. Mostly because she doesn't want to (in her words) end up being very annoying and controling, which she has stated that she gets in relationships. Mostly since she had this experience with a previous boyfriend of hers. This ended up with them drifting apart i think (haven't really researched those events due to it not being my business)\n\nMy problem with the current situation is that the relationship is open and that both of us can see other people if we end up partying etc. I myself isn't much for going out and doing this though since I dislike the clubs for several reasons. She has been with other dudes twice during parties though, which makes me kinda sad since I haven't really got anything to say due to the relationship status. Well I have told her that I don't like it but I can't really say anything else because: we had previously discussed the actual relationship terms when we started seeing eachother. \n\nNow Im not sure if I want to go on with it. She is a good friend and all and I would like to be with her. But not on these terms, since it just ends up being weird.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off all I would like to clear up: Sexytimes will be provided. \n\nI know you guys are brilliant, so I need some ideas. I will list all the criteria below. \n\n-\tTurning 22. \n-\tRelationship = 6.5 years\n-\tWe are both mature. Graduated university and recently completed professional exams. \n-\tWorking full time (office).\n-\tMy budget: ~$300\n\nWhat he is into…\n\n-\tHe is not crazy about video games. Only PC games that he gets himself. \n-\tHe is very mature, and if he needs something he will get find a way to get it himself. \n-\tHe LOVES technology…and he is well covered. \n-\tHe likes the finer things…which tends to be a little pricey/hard to find. \n\nPresents to date: \n\n-\t16: Turtles (real ones, because he wanted them)\n-\t17: Lego. He loves Lego. \n-\t18: Blender (inside joke) – it was useful. \n-\t19: Good scotch (Legal drinking age in Canada)\n-\t20: Safety Razor + essentials\n-\t21: Belt, leather gloves, wallet, professional accessories.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, parents have never had a great marriage, cheated on other, etc. They divorced finally 6 years ago. Since then they have been petty and mean to each other and have constantly tried to get my sister and I to choose sides. We've chosen each other. I wasn't close with my sister until I got out of college, but since then she is one of my best friends(Along with her husband) and she and her husband are a part of my social group.\n\nAnywho, both of our parents have new young toys(Not sure how, neither have money. They both look good and keep in shape but still) they have been with for half year or so, I don't really keep up with them, and for the last 2 years my sister has hosted Christmas Dinner for our family. They have been strained, but so far no blowouts.\n\nLast week we found out that our parents have been bickering over the phone and have both decided to bring their new partners into our family dinner to one up each other.\n\nI told my sister and she was furious. Neither of us want our kids to be around this stupidity, so we decided to dis-invite them. Since then we have been getting a lot of harassment from our parents and other family members.\n\nMy grandmother called me today and asked how I could be so heartless, that they are family, and family always trumps problems. She said my sister and I had no right to disinvite them and that our parents have every right to be with us and bring whoever they want.\n\nSo I have been dealing with this turmoil for a few hours now, wondering if we were in the wrong for doing this.\n\nDoes family really trump all, even for this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I found my way over to this sub because I had a discussion with my mom and felt like kind of a hypocrite. \n\nMy mom is a life-long smoker who despite having cardiovascular issues refuses to give up cigarettes and tonight we had an argument about it. Her stubbornness is going to lead to an early death or leave her incapacitated in some way, shape, or form.\n\nAnd after I got off the phone with her I felt like a hypocritical prick because even though I am giving her the correct advice and she is absolutely being a dumbass w/r/t her continued smoking....I kinda do the same thing with my weight. Oh man do I eat like shit. Can't do that anymore, I'm almost 33. I'm going to have a heart attack.\n\nSo, I figure if I'm going to lecture my mom about needing to take better care of herself, I am going to set an example and take better care of myself, too.\n\nI'm currently 5'6 and 175 pounds. My goal weight is 135 lbs. Holy crap I can't believe I am going to try to drop 40 lbs. at my age. Is it possible? We'll see. Gonna try, at least.\n\nThe plan is to start C25k and Stronglifts for exercise (which, of course I don't get ANY of) and clean up the diet. My BP is at the very low end of pre-hypertension and my cholesterol is borderline high and my triglycerides are high. As such, I'm going to try to stick to a DASH-style diet as best I can over the next 3 months (hence the 90 days SN thing) and then get a new blood panel done.\n\nThank you for reading my brief novella. I did not intend for this to be so long, but sometimes when you write after taking NyQuil the words just flow.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been seeing this guy Roman for 4 months now, he is really sweet. His nick name is \" The Gentle Hulk\" not a name he wanted but people labelled him as that \n\nHe is a big guy like 6'8 and is really into body building\n\nToday we were out with one of my friends at a coffee place , and I was talking to Roman about what movie we were going to go see tomorrow. I jokingly suggested a arm wrestle contest, he put his arm on the table and said \" square up\"\n\nHis arm dwarfed mine, it was like a stick compared to a log. He let me win and was like \" oh no you beat me\". He got up a little while later to go do something \n\nMy friend started telling me that, if he let's me win at thing's like that it will hurt my confidence. She was telling me it was really rude how he let me win and she should not treat me as \"weak\". \n\nI have never dated a guy before, but is she telling the truth when she says these things?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Original post here](\n\nI emailed my grandparents a few times and they said they were excited to hear from me. I found out that they have a winter house in Florida now, which is where I went on vacation with my husband a few weeks ago. My flights back got delayed so I had a free day so I asked if they would like to get dinner. I thought it might be too much too soon since we'd only just started talking, but I also thought that it was too perfect an opportunity not to take. They said yes so I drove the two hours to their house for dinner.\n\nAnd it was the most awkward time of my life. I was really nervous so I kind of rambled about living in Alaska and they asked me different questions. Towards the end of the night there was a lull in the conversation and my grandfather tells me that they were going to take a trip to Alaska back when my mother was under their care, but then she got sick and died. My face looked something like this o.O I had no idea what to say to that. There were also a few times that I felt like they were fishing for information, either to see what I knew of other family members (asking me questions they already knew the answer to) or to show that they knew that family member better than I did. \n\nI flew back home the following morning and its been two weeks and I haven't heard anything from them in response. It makes me think that they didn't like me and maybe my dad's side of the family was right about them all along and them not being nice people. I knew that rejection was a risk with trying to reconnect, but I think it would have hurt less than if they'd rejected me from the first.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I wasn't sure where to post this, so if this is the wrong place, just point me somewhere else.\n\nMy roommate went to this \"training workshop\" called [Pathways Core Training, inc.] over the winter break this year.\n\n At first I thought it was just a group therapy organization, and thought he was better off for doing it, but recently he has been behaving strangely. Before this camp he was a lot like myself, and I'm sure many of you: cynical, skeptical, easygoing, and a smidge of socially awkward. In short, a great guy to be around. Nowadays he is constantly on edge (at least towards me) and refuses to accept criticism or any kind of insult. Not that I'm being cruel, we're just guys, and guys do that sort of thing. \n\nDespite all this, he claims to be the happiest and freest he's ever been. He constantly posts statuses involving the word \"blessed\" but if I, or anyone, says something even slightly negative on it, he gets defensive and angry. \n\nOn top of the behavior listed above, he has also been actively recruiting for this \"Training\" workshop. His mother, two of his friends, and his girlfriend of barely a month have all gone since he was forced to go by his then-girlfriend last December/January. \n\nI'm only an undergrad in my psychology program, but this seems to have all the warning signs of someone joining a cult/being brainwashed. Has anyone else heard of this Dallas-based group or had any experience with them? This guy was(is?) one of my best friends, and I'm worried about him. I'm also worried about my friends that he will get to also drink the kool-aid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Best friend and I have known eachother about ten years, both 24 year old females. She is very sensitive to criticism, and does not handle it well. She does not get defensive but rather has a childish and irrational response when she feels she is being criticized or is offended. For example, she was upset with her current living situation so I asked why she hadn't considered moving somewhere else. Her response was that she was upset I never supported her decisions, I was mean and critical. I tried to tell her that I was trying to help, I didn't understand why she would continue to make herself unhappy when she could change it. She became more frustrated, calling me rude of names and the conversation got worse from there. \n\nI am very bad with social cues and my wording, I can be a little too blunt sometimes. I am aware that sometimes I come off at rude, but if I upset someone I try to make it very clear that wasn't my intention. \nMy friend has not acted this way towards me till about a year ago. She had some health issues in the past but is alright now (maybe stress has something to do with this?). She works almost everyday, and doesn't take as good care of herself as she used to, she's often sick or exhausted. \n\nWe've only fought a few times, but when we do I'm not sure how to handle her. She is very stubborn and will refuse to see another point of view. If I don't pick her side she tries to make me feel guilty, and will \"play victim \" to make me feel bad for her. When she gets in a fight she is manipulative, and will twist the other persons words to make her sound like the victim.", "role": "user" } ]
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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all. I'm doing a brief project for a class in which we plan a weeklong vacation within a certain region (traveling from NYC to Tunis, Tunisia and then to Fez, Morocco and then to Marrakech and then back to NYC again, but it's not really relevant to the question).\n\nThe thing is, like in real travel, she's given us a budget and my hypothetical expenses are adding up. I only need a one-way flight to my initial city - in this case, Tunis - and I need to include pricing for accommodations. I'm setting the dates for sometime in June, if it's relevant.\nI'm under the impression that you'd save some significant money doing a flight + hotel package, but everything I see offered on the websites includes round trips only, as far I can see. It wouldn't make sense for me to backtrack to Tunisia once I travel to Morocco. The budget is $4,000 USD for everything not including meals.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (26f) have not been getting enough sleep lately, so knowing I had some free time last night, I decided to take 3 melatonin & get some actual good, deep REM sleep to reboost. My boyfriend (28m) was drinking beer and playing video games with a friend as usual. Did not think too much of it. Fast forward 6 hours later, and I wake up to the fire alarm blaring. I run to the kitchen to see a giant pan of ramen burning on the stove. The kitchen was filled with smoke so I turned off the stove and rushed to get the windows and doors open. \n\nHe almost set the fucking house on fire. It took me a long time to wake up from the alarm because it made its way into the setting of my dream. I took 3 melatonin. I normally don't wake up for anything. I am so shaken up right now. We have a dog and two cats. I know it could've been worse, but how do I get him to see the seriousness in this?! His drinking has gotten out of hand and I'm worried he's going to brush it off as not a \"big deal\".", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 23 years old, male. My ex-girlfriend is 25. 4 years ago we had a really intense, short relationship, 8 months long. I don't know what love is, but I definitely thought I was in love with her at the time. I feel like we had a very strong emotional connection. However, we both had some serious issues. I was using a lot of drugs. She became very dependent on me for her own well-being and that made me want to distance myself. I broke up with her and it was very hard for her.\n\nI got sober, and a couple of years ago I realized I might be gay. Things made a lot of sense, I thought I was bisexual before but that I could control who I was attracted to. I really didn't want to be with guys so I thought I could just ignore that part of me.\n\nI felt a lot of reluctance to come out because I did have some great sexy times with my ex-GF early in our relationship. But I had a lot of hangups as well. A lot of anxiety surrounding sex.\n\nJust recently I sent my ex-GF an email telling her that I'm pretty sure I'm gay and she told me she was really happy for me and that she thought she had ruined her one chance of true love but really the relationship wouldn't have worked anyways, because I'm gay. That's awesome, and I'm stoked for her that she can have some closure.\n\nAnd so we were planning to meet up and talk. I do really like her and I'm excited. It feels like we are going to be reunited. But now all of a sudden I feel attraction to her, sexual attraction. I want to lay in bed naked with her and have intimate sex.\n\nI feel very confused. I don't want to hurt her but I feel like I want to explore these feelings too. My gut tells me that I shouldn't even tell her about these feelings because I don't want to be in a relationship with her, because I still need to explore the side of me that is attracted to guys. I want to be honest with her as well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated a woman for three years who was amazing and, in retrospect, I did not deserve. We had a great time and she saw me through some pretty serious personal shit, but I didn't handle my setbacks well. I drank too much and let myself become chronically under-employed while she excelled at her job and saw the writing on the wall. She dumped me and it hurt. It hurt because I knew it was my actions that lead to me sleeping in motels and couch surfing.\n\nBut, I did manage to turn it around after about a year. I screwed my head back on straight as it would go and locked down a new job in a state far, far away. And it's been great. I like my work again, I've made friends and I've met a woman who I really really like. A woman who I like enough that we've met each other's families and plan trips months in advance. Bully for me. However...\n\nMy ex and I managed to stay on speaking and eventually friendly terms. We still text each other jokes from time to time and it's nice for to hear that she's doing well. And I really mean that. I truly value her as a friend. But the elephant in the room is our failed and pretty serious relationship. I mean how do you say \"Oh, and by the way, I know I said I love you for three years but now I'm seriously into someone else\"?\n\nI guess I'm not asking for a way to bring this up without pissing her off so much as I'm asking for the most tactful way to let this information slip.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 25, UK have done a lot of travelling in my younger years (i.e pre18). She's 22, we've dated 1yr and a half, lived together for 4 or 5 months before she finished her Uni/Work placement and decided she wanted to travel. She's gone to Oz for 6months or so and I didn't want to give up my well paid job to go with her, just to come back to unemployment\n\nThe problem is that she doesn't know if she ever wants to stop travelling. I always planned to move to wherever she was when her career finally kicked off (I can work anywhere) but she can't say when that will be. In a way she feels bad for making me wait. She knows I want to settle down and have kids, and shes getting the \"I'm young and only have one chance to see everything in the world\" out of her system\n\nI cant conceive of any situation where the two of us would break up, and we both love each other a substantial amount, so I guess my question is: do you think this is a situation that can work out? Will the strain and guilt pile on for her the longer she's away and I'm waiting at home? Will some sort of resentment grow for each other because neither of us have said no to our dreams (hers to travel, mine for family) to be with each other from now on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm hoping to get some advice on this real estate related question. My sister and her husband are working on purchasing their first home. They approached me and asked if I would be willing to help them out with their down payment. This assistance would be them handing me $5k in cash, and then I write them a check for the $5k and state it was a gift. They said the broker told them to do this.\n\nPersonally, I don't see why something like this would be necessary, and for lack of a better term, seems to be money laundering. I don't see how them having $5k in cash is any different from them getting \"gifted\" $5k. Money is money, right? \n\nFrom my little bit of google searching it looks like this then requires me to hand over my personal bank records as well to prove where the money came from. While I don't have anything to hide, it is just more of an invasion of privacy in something I'm otherwise not a part of.\n\nIs this something that is common?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating this guy for maybe a month. We aren't in a serious relationship, just dating here and there. I'm not in the mood to be in a serious relationship now.\n\nIn the last week he has been texting me a whole bunch, enough to make it somewhat annoying (10 texts every hour or something. I reply here and there). I just don't want to talk to him all the damn time. I want to hang out with my other friends and such.\n\nJust today, I was playing this online game with another friend. First time I got to play in a couple days, and when he sees me online, he watches me play the game itself (the game has a \"spectator\" mode, which means people can watch you play), and keeps asking me to play against him. About a couple hours later, he gives up and says \"fine, guess not\" which makes me feel bad. I really just want to play by myself right now (or with my other friend, whom I haven't talked to in a while). Honestly, him watching me play in spectator mode kind of felt like someone watching what you're doing over your shoulder. It felt kind of uncomfortable.\n\nHow can I deal with someone like this? I want to keep dating the romantic friend, but this is sort of starting to get annoying. I'm not sure how to explain without being rude.\n\nAnother thing to note: He was virgin when we met and we had sex a couple times. He was really nervous about it, so it wasn't good sex. Not a big deal to me at all. I want to make sure I can be as nice about the talkative issue as much as possible, and make sure he knows it isn't about the sex or whatever.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background: So back in 2008 I went to WeFest and signed up for one of those \"Win a free vacation!\" things. Anyway a couple days later I get a call saying I won. (Here comes the stupid part) One thing leads to another I give my credit card info. Please don't just say I shouldn't have done that etc., I know I shouldn't have, lesson learned/ in progess. I agreed to $175 +$43/month over 6 months. About an hour later I realized, holy hell I'm dumb called and cancelled the 6 months but they still got me for the $175. Now, 18 months later I get a call saying I have a substantial balance of $898 due, asked what would happen if I refused to pay it and they said they would just debit the credit card they have on file. Can they do this? I never actually signed anything and know I never agreed to that much. Are they just trying to get me to agree for more money now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't really have a question or anything. I just need to vent and maybe reach out to those who have been in similar situations. \n\nMy sister told me yesterday that she's pregnant. At first I was thrilled. But then reality hit me. I can't have children.\n\nI'm so happy for my sister and my brother-in-law, I really am. But they weren't planning on having children for at least a few more years. My sister's never really wanted to be a mom. Me, on the other hand, have always lived for it. As a kid when people asked what I want to be when I grow up, I always said, \"a mom.\" \n\nBut, 3 years ago I found out I can never have children. I was devastated but have tried to tough it out, tried to believe it isn't true for years. I'm in a serious relationship and we're planning on getting married in a little over a year and starting to try having kids immediately, but we will probably end up adopting. While adopting is wonderful and that thought excites me, I still so badly want to be pregnant one day. \n\nMy sister being pregnant is like a kick in the side. A reminder that I'll never be pregnant. I don't want to be around her, I don't want to be happy for her. I'm jealous. I don't know how to deal with this. I never expected to feel anger towards my sister for getting pregnant. But really, how am I expected to feel about this?\n\nI would never dare tell my sister or anyone else in my family how I feel about this. I wouldn't want to upset anyone and I really don't want to be selfish and make this about me. It's just so hard.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiance and I are beginning to combine finances and working through our plan for that. That's not the problem. 1 year ago my fiance paid off my car loan to help me with the accumulating interest. I had/have every intention of paying him back and now I'm in a financial situation where I can. However, our incomes are now going into our joint bank account and it's basically \"our money\". We talked about putting the repayments into a seperate account that is essentially \"his\", but we're not sure if that's the best way to go about it. I will not be able to pay this off completely for a couple years as we are saving for a house as well, so we don't want to wait until I finish paying him back before combining finances.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Was working on a paper and have 3 hours until I have to get up but I'm feeling a bit stressed out now. Question: I feel annoyed, almost disgusted at my older sister, what should I do?\n\nGot into bed and my older sister woke up (bunk bed) and she just admitted that she lost 3 wii remotes (2 belonged to family, 1 to my brother) months ago that she borrowed for a friend's party and never told anyone about it. \n\nI can't help but feel disappointed because my younger siblings came to talk to me right after they both got home from work last night to talk about their party (cleaning up, getting the wii remotes back). \n\nIgnoring our bedroom, the two livingooms are a mess because of all of her stuff (she sews and leaves everything everywhere). She just told me that she was stressed out from school/work/wii remotes/cleaning up/buying the cake for their birthday (offered to split with her). She told me how she gets 8 hours of sleep but is always so tired (can't stay up to work on stuff because she gets too tired and passes out in bed) \n\nI told her to tell them about the wii remotes because they deserve to know. \nI'm a bit annoyed because she told me she was just ranting, so I could have slept earlier... I feel disappointed. \n\nI'm so sorry that this is all over the place, trying to post on my phone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so for the past 6 months or so I have been dating around A LOT since a nasty break-up. I had never dated so many people and felt so single and free before. However, at the same time, I began to feel like I wanted to make a real connection. \n\nI made that connection with a really great guy, who is a little older at 22. We've been seeing each other for about 2 months now and about 2 weeks ago he asked if I wanted to \"make it official\". I told him that I would prefer to have no labels right now, but would be dating him exclusively. \n\nSo, here's the problem. I really dislike the idea of being \"in a relationship\". It sounds weird. I don't want to be anyone's anything right now. But, at the same time, I definitely do not feel single because we've hit it off so well! Trust, caring, communication, and all the fun little things are there.\n\nWhat I'm looking for is maybe some advice or input on how to work through these feelings and move forward.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have known my boyfriend for about 8 years, we have been together for 3. He has been smoking from about age 15.\n\nEven before we were together he has said that he want's to quit smoking. He has been doing this thing where he says he will quit tomorrow, or that he he has to finish the pack and then he will quit or similar. He says that at least once a week. Then he won't really try. He will get new cigarettes that same evening.\n\nI hate that he smokes, but I don't think I can really help with that. That is something he needs to do on his own.\n\nProblem is that I really dislike being in this limbo. I am the kind of person who likes everything to be clear. So this constant 'I'm quitting smoking, but not really' can get on my nerves. Most of the time I let it fly over my head, but sometimes it really annoys me. \n\nHow do I deal with this? Is there any way I can help him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I love my girlfriend, she's great. Highly attractive, loving, very affectionate, heart-in-the-right-place - all of that stuff. \n\nI'm thinking about asking her to move in with me because we spend most of our time together and she's pretty much all the time at my place anyway.\n\nI should also mention I'm very well off while she is sort of still struggling (yet independent). So that may play a part in her being so attached to me. Although she never said or indicated that.\n\nFor some reason, I feel extremely sexually attracted to other women. Different women, particularly older (40-50), or just simply different in looks. It's not that I would want to have a relationship with them, I just have a strong urge to plow them.\n\nHow normal is this? And how should I handle it? I don't want to break up with my GF for meaningless sex with other women, who I will forget after a couple of days. Netiher do I like the idea of cheating. I have strong feelings for her. But it's just these strong urges...\n\nCould I be addicted to sex? What do you think? I don't think this urges are going away anytime soon.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I scared off this guy I got really into 2 months.\nHe told me he's never had a gf before, and has never really fallen for a girl before.\nHe seemed into me but I was cautious, we hung out a few times, then we kind of accidentally plowed (I didn't mean to, but for the first time I got super drunk because I was nervous) in the back seat of my car, and after being talked to by the police under the suspicion I was going to drive (I wasn't we just left out friends house to be in my car) he confessed he actually likes me and invited me over for cuddles. He would say how \"unfairly adorable\" he thinks I am. At a friend big party, he stayed by my side and kept offering me water. One of his best friends said he's never seen him like that with a girl before and how \"weird\" it was to see him like a girl.\nAfter a trip to LA with him and his buddies, him and I got drunk at a friends house, my friend was being negative and said she think he isn't that into me, and I cried to his friend asking \"is he even into meee??!1\" :( ugh. That night he had me over again to watch movies, but after that he didn't message me. People we didn't even know that well would get in our business and ask about us to his face, too.\nI messaged him saying sorry everyone got in our business, and he said \"we should just be friends.\"\nI still see him occasionally and it hurts really bad. If he was once interested in me, surely he can be again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It was my 17th birthday. I was pretty heavy into drumming, and I had been playing for more than a year on a cheap Pearl kit with the same stock cheap-o cymbal it came with. My birthday comes around, and right after my Mom and Brother finish singing happy birthday and passing me a donut (not a big fan of cake), my Dad asks me to follow him into the garage.\n\nI follow him in there, and he reaches up behind the refrigerator and pulls out a bag with a scratched up crash and a dinged ride cymbal. He hands it to me, and says, \"Happy Birthday, son. The drum guy said these are good ones, but they're a little banged up. I'm sorry they're not new.\"\n\nI was just blown away; my childhood hero is scraping cash together to get me a present (that I absolutely loved, by the way), and he's apologizing?! At that moment, I knew that whatever hardship that my Dad and I experienced before and whatever we'd experience in the future was just because he loved me so very much.\n\nJust thinking about it now causes me to choke up. Ever since then I've done my best to live up to his example.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiancee and I have been engaged for 2 months and together for 6 years. We have no issues living with each other and are very happy with each other.\n\nWe are currently living in her house and I am paying her rent equal to half her mortgage. We split all other expenses. I'm okay with this arrangement but I had hoped after we get married, that all property would be owned mutually. She does not.\n\nShe would like to keep her house in her name only as well as have me continue to contribute 50% to her mortgage. It feels like I'd be putting money into her backup plan instead of our lives but she was adamant that the house remain hers entirely. She would also like to get a prenup that says in the event of a divorce she gets to keep the house, but assures me that I would get 50% of the equity gained during the marriage.\n\nI understand wanting some protection against divorce but this seems unfair to me. I am looking for some perspective here. Is this a reasonable request of hers to have me contribute 50% to the mortgage once married and not own it mutually?", "role": "user" } ]

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