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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's this girl I like and I'm pretty sure she doesn't feel the same way about me.\n\nWe used to work together and about a week ago she took a job in a city thats 300 miles away. We still talk/text everyday and she's says she misses me a lot, but this is more in \"friend\" way.\n\nNow here's the sad part. I can't stop thinking about her, I can't focus on anything. Its just her I think about all day. This has begun to affect my productivity and I'm sad most of the times.\n\nI know some of you'll are going to suggest to cut off all contact with her, but that's something I really can't do right now. At least for the next few weeks until she's gonna find new freinds cause she keeps calling/texting me every now and then.\n\nI need your help reddit, please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, I've recently met this very nice boy that I instantaneously fell head over heals for. He's very sweet and I feel that he is perfect match for me and he feels the same! We've only known each other for a month and we are both 19.\n\nUnfortunately... we're both young and in college and he is moving back in with his parents for the entire summer, starting on the 21st or so. So we'll be roughly 4 hours apart for around 4 months.\n\nMy question is, what should I do now? At this point I feel like I'm falling harder and harder for him, but I'm afraid that I'll be really sad and lonely when he leaves. Should I stop seeing him until he gets back? Or should we keep in touch? Help me not be irrational, because if he asked me to be in a long distance relationship with him, I might consider it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys. I have a question for you but first, some background.\n\nI have a chronic pain condition so sometimes my ability to train can be affected. However, I'm fed up of being what I consider 'slow' as I know if I knew how to train, I could take a lot off my times.\n\nSo, as my club's season ends soon (end of October) I've set targets for next year:\n\n5k - Target: 00:20:00 - Current race PB: 00:24:28\n\n5 mile - Target: 00:33:06 - Not raced before\n\n10k - Target: 00:41:41 - Current race PB: 00:51:13\n\n10 mile - Target: 01:09:02 - Not raced before\n\nHalf - Target: 01:32:00 - Current Race PB: 02:02:47\n\nMarathon - Target: 03:11:49 - Not raced before\n\nAre these targets realistic for 12 months time? Also, does anyone have recommendations for a training plan that I could follow that has a lot of focus on flexibility but could still achieve these times?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First of all, I apologize for any/all spelling and grammar mistakes and sloppy writing. This whole situation has made me a crying, emotional wreck and my writing has suffered sufficiently. \n\nI'm sixteen and dealing with my first heartbreak. Now, I am a very logical and analytical person. I know my fears and worries are stupid. However, I just can't shake the feeling that I'm never going to find someone like him. I feel like I don't deserve to be treated like he treated me. He was the first guy to treat me well, and the only guy to ever make me feel loved. \n\nWell, we met on reddit. We facebooked, PM'd skyped, texted, everything. We talked almost all day everyday. I loved him and he loved me. He was the only person I trusted enough to tell everything to (self-esteem/body image/ depression issues), he was the only one to make me feel happy. He would always tell me that I was it for him. That he wanted to marry me and I was his soul-mate. \n\nWell, we broke up. He told me he would fight for me and that he'd make me trust him again, but he never did. Instead he \"fell for\" my now ex-best friend. Less than a week after we broke up. He's already moved on and I'm miserable wishing that we could be back together. Now I feel worthless and like I meant nothing to him. That our year meant nothing to him. \n\nIt's like being treated like crap for all your life, then suddenly finding that one person who treats you like a queen or goddess. Then, having that person stomp on you then wiping you off of their shoes like the piece of crap you truly are. \n\nHow do I move on from this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The other night we we're outside star gazing and having a good time. We kissed cuddled and everything was great. Once we got in her truck to go home, she begins telling me that she isnt sure that are relationship is going anywhere and that we are at a stalemate. This left me confused since we have only been dating for 3 weeks and we have both been busy from work and haven't seen each other as often as we would have liked to. We have kissed, made out, cuddled, watched movies together, everything besides sex. So im not sure how we are at a stalemate? \n\nAnother point she said was that we are going to slow. We have met each others parents and, once again, have done about everything except for sex (we are both virgins). I dont really know how i could speed things up? Perhaps more time together? \n\nAny advice is much appreciated! :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the other night she wen't out with one of her gf's, the next morning she decided to tell me she stayed at her girl friend's because when they realized the time it was too late at night and she lived nearby.\n\nThat same afternoon we are talking again and she tells me a different story, she tells me she left her friend to attend a late class she's been taking, then she came back with her and some other bunch of male friends then they all decided to stay in one of these male friends house. \n\nThis bothered me quite a lot, i don't know if i'm overreacting, you have to know i have trust issues, and this kind of things just makes it worse. When i asked her why she changed the story she just said she didn't want to bore me with details.\n\nIt is worth to tell you i have seen hear lie the shit out of her family and friends before, usually because she tells them she is going to be someplace or doing something and she actually is with me. \n\nYou think i'm overreacting? Because i'm hurt, i don't feel i can have a relationship with someone i can't trust and that i can't tell how many times have lied to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all, recent incidents got me thinking.\n\nI live in the suburbs of Chicago, right outside the city limit. My city is pretty nice, but there are some iffy surrounding areas. My girlfriend and I rented out a condo from the owner last May and it's been great so far, aside from a couple incidents that got me thinking.\n\nIn early August, I bought a Nexus 7, worth about $300 bucks with shipping and had it delivered to the condo. The UPS guy dropped it off in the foyer. It was swiped by the time my girlfriend got home, two hours later. I talked with the woman who signed for it and concluded that she received a package at the same time (verified) and the UPS guy applied her signature to my package. She told me that stolen packages are pretty common in this complex. Called UPS, they're still working it out, but my credit card company has already refunded me my money. Lesson learned.\n\nRight after that, the labels on our mailbox were ripped off. They were flimsy cellophane taped on, so I thought maybe they just fell off. We got a label maker and put them on again. Ripped off again within two days, though whoever did it obviously struggled with the one on the buzzer, half of it is still attached. I don't know what purpose this would have, but there you have it.\n\nThird incident was last night. I do karate Monday and Wednesday nights, and my girlfriend went to bed around 9pm. I get home around 940 and in a half asleep daze, she tells me she was hearing strange noises. Apparently after she went to bed she heard someone rattling the doorknob, loud enough for the cat to jump up and run towards the door (she's a energetic cat though). I fall asleep and figure she was just half-asleep. \n\nThis morning I talk to her a little bit more, think about all three incidents, and wonder if something else is going on. We have renter's insurance and thankfully our schedules work out so she's home in the mornings and I'm home in the evenings. We've contacted the landlord and he said he'll be in contact with a few other owners in the same building. Thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me: Male, 22. Her: Female, 21. Dating about four months. Extremely happy relationship.\n\nI go to Hooters quite a bit. Maybe about once I week. I usually go with clients from work that I'm supposed to be entertaining. For those outside the US, Hooters is a restaurant whose main selling point is the scantily clad waitresses, but their food is good too. I go for the food, the boobs, and because it's great to entertain clients.\n\nI've been dating a girl for almost four months and we're extremely compatible, but every time I mention Hooters or the Tilted Kilt (basically Hooters with an Irish twist), she seems to be slightly uncomfortable and criticizes the chain. She called them \"skank restaurants\" yesterday. She's usually an extremely sweet girl and doesn't act like this, and definitely usually doesn't slut shame or anything like that.\n\nShe has never and I don't think would ever tell me to stop going but I don't think she's comfortable with it. Should I stop going for her or what?\n\nI know r/relationships jerk reaction is almost always, \"Omg break up with that bitch,\" but that is not the proper response here. I'm in absolute love with this girl and she never acts like this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short my parents a long time ago gave me a large paperback collection of like 500 pages and around 5 stories from this bald author who made super irreverent children's novels and I wanted to find out who the author was for my sister who is now the same age as I was (6th grade)\n\nDescription of work: I'll write what I remember from memory. One kid was able to see two separate worlds and had an obsession with a chili that was made at this one place and kept going back and forth between a block where the chilli was made. Another was a coney island hot dog shop or something and they were entered into an intergalactic food competition? Another was a kid discovers an underground subculture at night and there is a park where anybody can get up on a pedestal and give a speech about whatever they want and there was a girl obsessed with radios and equipment.Those are a few of the stories briefly from memory. Thanks so much for me and my sister because I'd totally like to read them again", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met my gf off tinder. We've been officially dating for a month, seeing way other for a couple weeks before that. When we first started chatting on tinder she mentioned (on her profile) how she was looking for friends only. After meeting her I knew I wanted to be more than friends, one thing led to another and we started dating.\n\nEverything has been going awesome! But I just have one \"issue\".\n\nBefore I met my gf she met another guy off tinder. She's told me about him and when we first committed to dating each other she told me how he would only ever be a friend and nothing more. She said I don't need to worry about him and that she's all mine. Ok great. I'm not against having friends of the opposite sex, I have some friends who are female myself. \n\nMy problem is that when they do hangout (maybe once or twice every couple weeks) they seem to almost go on \"dates\". They don't hangout in group settings (always just the two of them). Last time they hung out, my gf went over to his place to watch movies. Tonight they are going to a board game bar.\n\nMy girlfriend is honestly the nicest person I've ever met. She's never given me a reason to mistrust her but I can't help but feel uncomfortable with their friendship. I've never met this guy and she doesn't have him on FB so I have no idea what he looks like. Should I be concerned with this? I trust her but being a dude I know how guys think. \n\nAny advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello World of Reddit\n\nI'm a 21 year old female diagnosed last month as iron deficient anemic: my blood tests tried to count my iron levels and they were non-existent.\n\nI was told by my doctor that I had three routes I could take:\n\n* I could have a blood transfusion in the next week to boost my iron levels;\n\n* I could do an IV drip of Ferritin 2X a week for 6 weeks; or\n\n* I do take iron supplements and see how things go\n\nWell as a full time University student and, at the time, a waitress for four days out of the week options A and B did not work for me, so I decided on taking the iron supplements. Unfortunately, my doctor likes to have his patients in and out and isn't very forthcoming with information. He basically told me to get an iron supplement from the pharmacy and come back in 6 months. -.-\n\nWell, talk about conflicting information, the pharmacist told me to take one a day and to have my doctor check my iron levels in a month... So my first month of iron supplements is up and I don't feel any freaking better. In fact I feel almost worse than I did when I went and got my blood test done initially.\n\nMy iron supplements are 325 mg ferritin with 60 mg of elemental iron.\n\nI was taking one pill once a day, but then upped it to two pills a day because I wasn't feeling any better, and the result is still the same. I have absolutely no energy to do anything and I could probably outsleep a Snorlax.\n\nCan someone give me advice or any ideas to help me get better? Even just questions and comments to talk to my doctor about, as I plan on seeing him in the next 24-48 hours.\n\nIf you've read all of this thanks a million for taking the time to help me sort out this issue!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend of 7 months just broke up with me after I called her asking what was wrong this past weekend. She didn't wanted to break up with me on the phone but since I asked her, she had to say it. She's meeting up with me this Friday since we both go to different colleges (1 1/2 hours away) so we can talk.\n\nI was dumbstruck when she told me and nearly broke down on the phone, begging and pleading that we can work things out (I know, bad idea). She told me the cliche, \"I don't want to be in a relationship right now,\" and \"You were a great boyfriend, but you're not right for me.\" She told me she'll meet with me but her decision won't change.\n\nEven though we didn't date for long, I fell deeply in love with her and she inspired me as a person. I really want to be friends with her because it would be dumb of me to lose such an amazing person in my life, (and not saying that because I loved this girl, but she really is a good person and we both have the same goals in our life) but doing so will hurt me because I will still have these deep feelings for her and I will never know if she does with me. She visits my town pretty often as well because her best friend lives here, who is my best friend as well (the best friend got us together) and will eventually move here.\n\nIf I do the No Contact, that means that I can't hang out with the crew like we always do and we have such great times when we do. Also, the NC will make me think that she'll miss me and come back to me and I want to wait for her when she does.\n\nShould I be friends with her or no?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together off & on for three years. We've had our fair share of issues, but I love him and I think he loves me. \n\nWe work opposite shifts, and it really cuts into our time together. Majorly. On the few days we both have off, every other weekend, he chooses to hang out with his friends. He works with his friends on the same schedule, an they are over every single day.\n\n I always feel like I have to force him to do anything with me and I'm getting tired of it. I always complain to him that it would be nice if we could spend time together. But, he just says in over reacting. And that I can hang out with him and his friends. The thing is, we haven't spent a day together just him and I in over a year. I like his friends but I just want a day where we can be together just us. I'm sick of being ignored for his friends, or video games and I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The title describes it all. I turned 21 recently and have taken a liking to drinking in the evenings, especially since I'm home on leave. I leave for training for about three months tomorrow. My girlfriend and I were going to spend my last night together getting a fancy dinner when she pulled up tinder on my phone and found some pretty dirty conversations. \n\nI feel awful. I downloaded the app while drinking alone last night for fun. Girls offered me their phone numbers unsolicited and wanted to snap chat dirty photos. One even suggested meeting up that night. I politely declined all contact outside of the app.\n\nI wouldn't have done this sober. In fact, I won't be drinking for a while as I'm leaving for military training anyway. I thought it would be fun to drink alone on my second to last night home but didn't expect myself to have dirty conversations with other women.\n\nMy girlfriend is very upset (rightfully so). We want to works things out though. Reddit, what advice do you have to offer? I really love this girl and wouldn't want to be with anyone else other than her. I feel so stupid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so, me and two other girls are in a study group. We all known each other for about 1 month and a half now. So girl A and I studied by ourselves the previous week without girl B. I thought we had some good conversations when we were alone, making each other laugh and stuff. So i was gonna ask girl A out the next time we study together.\n\nSo two days ago, Girl A said we should all meet up to study. Then yesterday when we were suppose to meet, Girl B started a group text and said she couldn't make it. Then all of a sudden Girl A said she had a doctors appointment later in the afternoon at 4:30 and couldn't make it. Our original study time was at 12 and she doesnt live that far away. We usually study for like an hour and a half so i didnt see why girl A couldnt make it, besides thinking maybe she wants to avoid being alone with me.\n\nSo should i keep pursuing or is this a sign saying she is not interested?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, I need some help. My dog has a licking problem, one where she will continue to lick one particular spot. I've had her for a year and during this time, there is always one spot at a time she keeps licking, 4 in total so far, with one being here for months now on her front leg, fur is gone and it was infected before. She keeps licking until it bleeds, and when I find out I'll put ointment on it. I've been to the vet before because she seems to have developed an allergy to something randomly (started getting scaly skin and dandruff), but it hasn't been determined what it is yet (not food) and the licking issue, while brought up, wasn't really directly addressed. This is getting very stressful though, as my dad is also pressuring me to give her up to tend to my own emotional needs I'm trying to attend. I've tried to pinpoint if it may be something such as bordem, but I'm attending college, though not in school right now as it's summer and I currently don't have a job so I literally have spent months just her and me. I know it's not her \"fault\" but she keeps breaking my trust. If she's alone for literally 5 minutes, whether it's me showering or her going to her kennel after a walk and I'm in the living room she goes at it and then is afraid to see me because she knows how disappointed I get. I can tell whenever she does it everytime. I've tried wrapping it in every which way but she has torn everything off right after I leave her alone, and while I don't have an official E-collar, she has scratched off the homemade one as well silently, when she was sitting behind me. I really need help to address this and any advice would be greatly appreciated as I'm leaving her for a week to go to a family reunion many states away soon. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To begin, and give context, it seems now two years after graduating high school that I am just sick of where I live. (No this isn't a wah me post.) So, I have always had the attitude, that if I don't like something in my life, I want to change it. \n\nI don't like being around people I grew up with. I am subscribed to my city's subreddit, and it seems that people only talk about where they would rather be, due to extreme heat and lack thereof things to do.\n\nHowever, now I am asking you redditors for help and to see how you guys have moved on your own.\n\nBeyond actually deciding which city I would want to move to, (I have narrowed down my decisions,) I need help on how to finance the move because right now, it seems completely unrealistic for meand it pains me. I feel somewhat trapped here. Now I have the transportation to move, and I could quite possibly put down one months payment on my lease. However, only being a college student, I don't have the experience to be considered for a job that one could just accept via the telephone. I would need an entry level job. It seems I would need a job previously to moving, because I can't spend weeks without pay scrambling to find a job.\n\nI find myself in a catch 22.\n\nI need success stories. Have any of you redditors out there moved all by yourself without the help of affulent parents or have handy tips for me to make my dream a reality?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my wife and I are about 4 years out of college, we have about $23k in loans still to pay. About $7k of that has an interest rate of 6.2ish% then rest is under 3%.\nWe also have about $14k in retirement...with our cash we have a net worth of about $3k. I feel comfortable knowing we're on the positive side but I feel like we might be mismanaging our debt. Wife is the only one working right now so I probably wouldn't feel real comfortable using a large sum of our cash.\nI'm looking for some advice, should we use our retirement money at all to pay off some debt or is that a bad idea? Also, since I'm unemployed is there a smarter way to invest my 401k money that's just sitting there? Is there anything we can do with our loans to lower the interest? I've never had any kind of professional advice, I feel like I'm just winging it.\n\nThanks guys :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "original \n\nBarely anyone saw the other but on the off chance anyone was curious. Turns out he actually broke up with me because he met someone else (also 24f). She spent the night at his house the very next night and they went on the exact date we had planned. I know this because of course she posted pictures of it on social media. I went ahead and dectivared my accts where I could but am having a hard time not checking compulsively in other ways. \n\nAll I can think about is them having sex, her sleeping on my side of the bed, wearing his t shirts that I've worn so many times, playing with his dog... It's freezing here and all I can picture is them cuddling cozily in his house while it snows outside. My imagination is my number one enemy right now. \n\n any comfort I took from thinking he ws being honest and respectful because he cared about me is all gone. He was just straight lying.. \n\nBasically I want to throw myself off of a bridge.\n\nHappy Monday!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Repost because the last one got caught in the spam filter.\n\nSo, in February of 2010 when I was 16-17, I was the victim of a screwup at the pharmacy, which landed me in the hospital for about 4 days. I received a decent amount of money for a settlement for the screwup, and it was placed in a bank account with my mom's name on it, to be transfered to me when I turned 18. Starting in January, before my 18th birthday in March, my mother started behaving very nastily towards my father, and eventually filed a restraining order, saying he had become \"violent,\" and \"kicked in her door.\" I never saw any of this. He never raised a hand towards her, even though they argued frequently. He had been sleeping in the garage in the winter to avoid upsetting her, and was asking to sleep in the house. Turns out, she withdrew almost $5000 from my settlement money, to be used for college, to put a down payment on a divorce lawyer the next Monday. Now she's saying to the court that it was a \"loan,\" even though I wasn't even aware of it until months later. I think I'm going to press charges, but I figured I'd ask what everyone else thinks. Theres a lot more to the story I'm probably missing, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've lived together for a month now and we are usually very happy together but we've also survived a lot of shit already. Bad friendships, new dog, kicking a housemate out for her. After every tense situation, I am the one apologizing and I understand I haven't handled things exactly as she wanted, but it worries me how few mistakes she has admitted and how empathetic she is not. I read recently that people who love you are by your side even when you suck. I feel that is the only time when we are not close. Like the success of this relationship depends on my ability to make x number of mistakes or fewer. Shouldn't it be more about understanding each others' intentions and avoiding offending each other, while forgiving mistakes? I feel that she has never really forgiven me. Each time I apologize she accepts it as if I said \"it won't happen again\" instead of accepting it because it was an honest miscommunication or mistake. Similarly, she rarely apologizes because she is who she is. I'll admit that she makes very few mistakes but the ones she makes are very personal like not paying attention to me when I am sad or not acknowledging the legitimacy of my feelings. She is an affectionate person but only on her own time. There are very specific occasions that people need a hug or a shoulder and she does not look for ways to console me in those times, despite my requests that she be more attentive. I do not want to leave her but I will if need be. We are very compatible, save for this caveat (but it feels like a big one). What can I do to let her know that I generally feel disrespected and unappreciated? I have told her many times and she says \"oh sure I can be nicer\" but doesn't acknowledge the severity of it and then she doesn't change, which is particularly frustrating because I have changed a lot of things in my life for her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been dating this girl for a month and on paper we are perfect for each other. On the outside, we have a lot in common in that we like the same kind of music, same food, same movies etc, but also on the inside we are the same in that, we are both quite independent, we both are ambitious, both have the same cultural values, but most importantly we approach life the same. I have met a lot of people in my life (due to my job and how my social life is) and I genuinely have very rarely met anyone who has the same approach to life as me but who I also want to pursue a relationship with.\n\nHowever I have stumbled across a problem... Normally when I like a girl, I normally fall quite fast, quite hard for them. However, with this girl, only half the time do I feel infatuated for her, while the other half I'm not very bothered. E.g. Normally when a girl doesn't text me back for a couple of hours, I get quite concerned, but with her, I don't really pay attention. I'm quite confused as to why I'm not feeling fully infatuated with her - Is it because I either:\n\na) Am not really that interested in her. \n\nb) Realise that this relationship is doomed because she is moving back to her home country at the end of next year. \n\nc) Am still numb from the pain that my ex-girlfriend inflicted on me when she cheated on me a year ago.\n\nd) Am growing up/have a job and therefore the feeling of infatuation has reduced, but I'm also too busy with work to care.\n\ne) All of the above", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys,\n\nSo this is a pretty short post, but basically I only have one more semester left in college. This has sparked lots of emotions and confusion of what we should do. I love this girl to bits but we have had our fair share of problems, and a lot of the problems were caused during summer and last year's winter break. Basically, it is apparent that we cannot handle long distance and we have said it before in the past. \n\nI should also mention I go to school with her but I live a state away during the breaks. There is a huge chance I am going back after college to come back home and find a job somewhere which is what my sister did when she graduated college. \n\nMy question to you guys is I have no idea what to do now, winter break just started and we have already been freaking out cuz the date is getting closer and closer to me graduating. It sounds like we have an expiration date but it is really hard for me to understand what to do with this situation. It is really hard to force a breakup when things are not going that poorly.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I I remember correctly I was 19 and my girlfriend 18 at the time, and we took a few slightly scandalous pictures of each other. (This will come into play) and my mom worked a combination desk/ running around helping do stuff job. I would often sit in her office with her and read a book, or run around and help her help do stuff. \n\n \nThis day was a day like any other except my iphone was a little low on batteries. My mom has a nifty little iphone charging chord dangling from her, work assigned, MacBook so I just go ahead as plug my phone into her computer. The computer does it's thing and asks if I want to download all I my pictures, and music, and get all of the updates that I haven't gotten in the last ten years and my mom just sort of flips it around with a sigh so I can push all the buttons I want to push because at this time in our lives, as well as now, I was better a tech than her. \n\n \nRemembering that I've got my unprofessional personal photos on my phone I request to NOT upload any pictures or music, and just to be safe DONT update my phone. And that was the end of it, or so I thought. \n\nDun dun DDUUUNNN!\n\nI get a call a few days later from my mom \"PROFESSOR! YOU LEFT NUDES ON MY COMP!\" So I rush to her office to see what the hell happened and find that she had a second program, this was a few years ago so I don't remember what it was, that didn't ask if you waned your photos uploaded, it just assumed you wanted it. \n\n \nShe had closed her computer at the first glance of glorious girl meat (I know she's a woman too, she was jut being polite) and let me delete the photos. Thankfully, the only picture that was on the screen was from the waist up, one of our less scandalous screenshots.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I live together. together for about a year. SO has had a friend who she claimed to be nothing more than a friend. I have meet him and he seemed like a nice enough guy. For a time she talked to him all the time to the point of neglecting me. I confronted her about how I feel and the problem seemed to be done. but i never fully trusted their interactions. A few days ago he sent her a text and I read it. Leading me to read the rest only to find that they have been sexting back and forth with a lot of detail. I don't know how long this has been going on. The only redeeming fact was that they never talked about cheating. My SO and I had just had a great week where we had found a whole new level of trust(Opening up about our sexuality etc.) So naturally I feel hurt and betrayed etc. In trying to show that I could still trust her I told her that they could still talk as friend. We are working on it and I forgave her. She is doing a much better job than I expected trying to show me how much she loves me and that it was just stupid text that went to far. But i can't stop wondering what they are talking about? Am I in the wrong to ask to see their text's back and forth? I don't know if i'm Overeating to this whole thing and obsessing or I'm right to be so paranoid about them. thanks reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Quick run down of the relationship:\n\nWhirlwind romance and 6 months later Married young (20 and 19 respectively), together for 14 years, 2 kids over the course of it. In the end a number of issues ended the relationship, to begin with my own inadequacies and addictions, but after the separation thinking about it i came to terms that maybe neither of us were overly happy. 3 days after the separation she asked me back, and i refused, saying we had more issues to work through.\n\nFor a long time after this i begged and pleaded and did everything i could to get us back together, but she needed to \"evaluate her feelings\", as she for a long time felt nothing towards me. A few weeks ago she requested i cut all non-essential contact (so only discussions about kid arrangements etc were to take place). Since then i have taken steps to survive, removing many itmes around my home that reminded me of \"us\", removing my wedding ring, ive had a sexual experience with someone else (nothing major and no harm done on either side, were both aware of the current situation) and been on my first date in 15 years.\n\nAfter a recent meet up with my wife, she confessed a number of feelings, such as jealousy, missing me, her heart wants me but her head says its a bad idea etc. The only feelings i'm experiencing are pity for how shes currently doing, and exasperation at how messed around im feeling with her off again-on again contact and physical/mental affection (often not both at the same time).\n\nIs this normal? am i going through a phase where if i tell her i dont feel anything it could change in 2 weeks and by then it will be too late? Or am i finally looking at moving my life on past this relationship?\nShould i be open about my feelings and experiences (we made a clause on breakup, she didnt want to know anything i did with other people while we were separated, and told me to lie if i had done anything) or would that just end everything, and if it did is that for the best?\n\nIf someone could just live my life for me for a bit and give it back in a few months that would be grand :D", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start - when I lived about an hour out of town between when I was 8 and 16, we had a few cats and dogs (also birds, guinea pigs, chickens, horses, ponies and ducks) and the jobs for feeding our cats and dogs was rostered around between us three kids. Being a property, our recycling bin was located near the garage, which was no where near the house. It was joined to the house by a pathway maybe 25meters long and I can tell you, as an imaginative 10 year old in the dark, that was the longest walk in the universe. \n\nIt became a habit that when nearing the end of a tin of dog or cat food my brothers and I would 'test' how little we could leave in the can to avoid the walk of doom to the garage and shunting the responsibility (and resulting terror) onto the next sibling.\n\nOur parents quickly caught wind of this when complaints of 'ridiculous amounts' were found in the tin each night and as a result, a strict ban on 'ridiculous amounts left in the tin' (later defined as an inch), which became severely punishable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The science of Deja Vu isn't really cut and paste a lot of it is still speculation. Just a few days ago I had a very strange case of Deja Vu. I was at a bar I had never been to, in a city I had never been to with friends I just met for the first time that week. Then all of a sudden it hit me, the situation, the setting, the atmosphere, the lights, the sounds, the ambiance, everything seemed like that moment in time had occurred for me before.\n\nSo I ask, what do you think Deju Vu means? To me, I think it is a sign that your life is on the path it is intended to be on. That you are heading in the right directions. Kinda like a butterfly effect. You always start at point A and you always end at point B. But the way you get there is up to you, and there is a right path for you to take and there is the wrong path for you to take. Not morally, but just the way that your life is \"Suppose\" to go.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night I was at the bar shooting pool, a Latin American man in his late-forties or early-fifties complimented me on a shot I had made by shaking my hand and giving me a kiss on the cheek. As a new pool player, and a few drinks deep, I deemed this to be a kind gesture, said thank you and continued on with my game.\n\nLater in the evening he approached me while I was waiting for the single bathroom to open up. He tried kissing me, I nicely told him I was not interested and in order to avoid what was turning into an awkward situation, held a conversation until the bathroom door opened up. After I left the bathroom, he was still in the hallway, called me beautiful, and I said something along the lines of \"That's sweet. Have a good night\" and went back to meet up with my friends. \n\nOver the course of the night, there were 3 more interactions with this man similar to the one outside the bathroom. After the last time I decided to leave the bar since he was not getting the hint and was making me extremely uncomfortable. \n\nI can't explain how many times this happens to me. I'm a relatively attractive girl in my early 20s and am not a \"bitch.\" In other words, I don't like rudely telling a guy I'm not interested, nor do I feel like I should have to. I feel like it should be sufficient for me state that I'm not interested politely and that be it. \n\nso I'd really like to know why men tend to do this to women?? and is possible for me to turn down a guy nicely and not have the reoccurring, borderline harassing, attempts to be \"picked up\"?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There is a backstory behind this so let me give it to everyone straight. I'm 17 M never dated anyone before. I have made posts prior to this one based around my issues with being able to date.\n\nMy biggest issue is that once a girl peeks my interest I pursue her until she develops the same feelings. Once I understand she is interested too I sort of back off. A friend of mine called me a \"chaser\" which is what I feel I am.\n\nNow I have this girl that I know, really sweet, really smart, talented, the whole thing. I found recently she has feelings for me and we talked a bit about it after I mentioned I was aware of them. \n\nWhen we talked I gave her the impression that I wanted to date her and that we should talk in person and hang out a big more to be dating. The only issue is my gut AGAIN like always is telling me I'm not interested even though I really want to be, I'm just not.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Briefly, my parents split up about 6 years ago, and to say it was an unfriendly divorce is putting it extremely mildly. My dad remarried about three years ago. My mom has not and is quite happy being single. The only people IRL who know my SO and I are engaged are my mom and my sister (this is only until the ring is finished in the spring-ish).\n\nNow that my fiance and I are discussing more details of the wedding (like venue, kind of wedding, photography, etc), I've realized that this is probably going to be a big issue.\n\nIn the past my mom has said things like 'I don't want to go if your father is bringing her' (which I told her was unreasonable), 'I don't want her in any family pictures, she had nothing to do with raising you' (understandable but still perhaps irrational), etc. And it occurred to me that figuring out seating is going to be problematic.\n\nI'm not even sure how people are traditionally seated at weddings but I thought that the in-laws sat at the same table? I don't think this will be able to happen, and I'd feel like a huge jerk seating my dad and his wife at another table while my mom and my fiance's family sat at the same table. And equally I can't cut my mom out and have my dad sit with my future in-laws, she would be really upset.\n\nWhat do, weddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /relationships,\n\nI am a 20 years old, shy introvert boy and I have great ability to see what other people think, mostly I can \"read\" people's feelings and their feels to others.\nI correctly guessd some duos in my old school (who likes whom), saw girls who like my friends and then put them together. I just see a lot.\n\nNow i am here with a problem. On grammar school I was attending, I found girl who liked me but I wasnt able to speak to her. She is as shy as I am, silent and she was in other classroom than me. We were just 2 or 3 hours a week together and with next 20 students. Now we both are attending high school and I can see her sometimes there and she me. We both are friends on FB but we arent writing too much. We even dont know each other much to keep our friendship there so long. Last time we were writing was before the school leaving exam, year and half ago. In school she always nicely smiles to me. I am sure she likes me and I like her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She starts a job in less then a week. She got a call from her soon to be boss and sort of walked out of the room. When I asked about it she seemed a little off so I pressed the subject. Turns out she slept with this guy a few years ago (before we started dating.) She says it was a one time thing and it was a mistake and that she doesn't find him attractive or even interesting. \n\nHe just got the job a couple of weeks ago and I know it's totally out of her control, but I can't help but feel weird about the whole situation. She's going to be working really closely with this guy for the foreseeable future and her job just by its nature has her working really late all of the time. \n\nI have no reason not to trust her, but it's difficult to not get that sick feeling in my gut when I think about it. I've told her this and she got really defensive.\n\nAdvice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.\nSo me and my girlfriend (If you can call it that) have been going out for a month now, but I was somewhat uncertain about me feelings for her. \n\nSo there came a day when she called for a talk (Friday) and here I tried to express my true feelings about not being too sure, so then we left it at that and a few days. I was pretty down because of the pain I caused her. She asked if I was okay but I sort of brushed it off while feeling down. I was out of character, and many people realized how I was. (Its really hard to bring yourself up, any advice to cope)\n\nFast forward to Monday, we have a brief exchange of returning her belongings, and the following day we spoke. She said she was hurt and even more so about the fact I never tried to contact her, and it appeared to her that she did not mean much to me, which is quite the opposite. This day (Tuesday) we were talking to each other for a few hours, but most of it was like our regular banter talking about random stuff like it was sort of normal. Towards the end, we went back into business and she said she was willing to see how this went through since she didn't know how much she liked me. Day ended, texts were a little out of character. \n\nWednesday, nothing much really happened, texts here and there. She was busy and I wanted to talk to her. In the end, I told her I would be there for her even if things did not work out. She said she didn't want to lose a friend over this, and also stated it would take a while to actually forgive me. Then we went into somewhat friendly banter and end of day.\n\nThrough this duration, I have been feeling like poop, and this is a new feeling for me (First semi-relationship if you will). I would like to try and reconcile with her but is it worth trying or not? Have I gone too far?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Should I even get involved? My girlfriend comes from a family of two little sisters, mother and father. Her parents are separated, (her father seems fine) but her mother is really poor off... We went to her mother's house today and there was a notice from the water company, saying they owe hundreds and their water will be shut off soon. They have a hard time putting food on the table, but her mother just bought a new car. \n\nWhat I'm confused about is whether or not this is an issue of her mother not being able to budget/prioritize properly, or if she just doesnt make enough money...She's a high school teacher and also picks up hours at Home Depot when she can. My girlfriend has a job, and her mother takes nearly all of the money she makes from her bank account without asking. Her mother also seems to be housing a \"boyfriend\", I use that term lightly, because I don't think he adds any income to the house and is mooching; he sleeps there, and when he is not in the house, he has their car. My girlfriend has found marijuana in their car after he's been smoking in it (something no one in that house does). Her mom hasn't commented on this guy's situation yet.\n\nI really worry about the safety of the girls in their house, because their front door doesn't lock and the \"boyfriend\" refuses to talk to the girls or me, which only leads me to believe he's shady. \n\nGot any ideas as to what I should do? I want to make sure the girls are safe, and I don't want their water shut off. I'm in no position to give them money, and that's not what I want to do, but this situation really is putting stress on our relationship. I'm very ok with her venting about the situation, but I would like some answers or advice to give her. I'm really trying to be a man here, but I don't want to get too involved and take on responsibilities that I can't handle.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I started running. \n\nMore specifically, I started the C25k program in hopes of becoming a runner. Sometimes, it still feels like I might not make it through those last intervals of week 3. However, after week 1, I learned how tolerable running could be if I just never looked at the timer. (\"I still have THAT much time left? Fff.\") Instead, I would zone out, not look at the clock and think about awesome, motivating things.\n\nSince starting on this road, every Monday I would muster up the courage to step up to the scale and be faced with my destiny, my frustration, watching the numbers move in tiny increments or sometimes, not at all. The numbers shouldn't have mattered so much to me, but they did. I would get discouraged and lose focus on the fitness goals I was truly trying to achieve. \n\nI stopped looking at the scale, too. \n\nIf I'd had to guess at what the scale would've said then, it wouldn't have been much different from 2 months ago... and then my capris humbled me. \n\nSo, I bought these awesome capris a while ago that had sadly been stretching out in the wash over time. I loved these capris. (When you find bottoms you like, you never let them go.) Hoping to find another pair, I go back to the store and there they are... one last pair tucked away in a sale rack, but the tag reads 2 sizes too small. Perfect for \"goal\" clothing! \n\nIn the modesty of my bedroom, I try on these capris to see how far I have to go to get into these babies. I don't know which emotion was stronger, dismay or delight, when they fit slightly loosely around my giddy little self. My happy dance quickly turned into: \"Ergh... now I have to find something else that fits me this well...\" Which subsequently turned back into a happy dance after I realized how much easier it's going to be to find clothes that FIT now...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend traveled around the world in the 6 years since HS and we didn't talk much. He recently moved back to our hometown, which gave us the opportunity to hang out this weekend over the holiday. Before I saw him in person we had started texting a bit. It was pretty harmless, but it is clear that he still as feelings for me. When we hung out this weekend it was a bit awkward. I'm not sure if that's because he's not as into me as he thought (I suspect he held onto strong feelings form HS that may or may not hold now) or maybe it was uncomfortable because he does still have feelings for me. Maybe it's something else...?\n\nSo now I'm unsure about how about to handle this. I'd like to continue talking to him, but I also don't want to give him false hope. If it's possible, how do I nurture a friendship without leading him on? Do I let him be the first to call or text? If he cares about me it seems shitty to never initiate contact, but then again this may make him feel false hope... Is this even possible?\n\nI should also note a couple things. There is another female in his life, but she is in another state and they're not in a committed relationship. Also, my partner of 7 years [m, 24] knows that we've been talking and that I hung out with him over break. He is totally find with me talking and hanging out with him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife does the bulk of the driving and there's nothing I can do about it. I have epilepsy and even though my driving record is just as good as hers, it's just safer for everyone that I don't drive. That goes double for when my kids are in the car. She regularly goes 20 mph over the speed limit, will swerve through three lanes just to get ahead of one car, and then rides the bumper of the next car in line. When the light turns green she either takes off like it's a drag race or doesn't notice the light has changed until someone honks. When a light turns red she accelerates until she is forced to slam on the brakes. When I drive the SUV I get about 22 mpg. When she drives she gets about 16 mpg. \n\nWe've fought about this more times than I can count and she always calms down for a month or two. Then she inevitably goes back to driving like she's sponsored by Marlboro. The biggest problem I'm facing, and the reason I'm never going to win this fight (other than that she's my wife) is that she always knows exactly where everyone else is on the road. She has perfect spatial awareness. I'm at a loss as to what to do and need some new arguments to get her to slow down. It's one thing to drive so aggressively in L.A. where that's the norm, but we've moved to a place where the only traffic we ever see is for local sports and church.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am looking for advice on how I should approach my sister about dating one of her good friends. I am not looking for an opinion on whether or not it's a good idea. \n\nMyself and said female spent some time together recently (innocently) and have seemed to have hit it off. We are both obviously attracted to one another and interested in seeing where things go. She is one of my sister's very good friends and I don't want to move forward without her blessing. Does anyone have any advice on how I can approach my sister about moving forward with hanging out with this girl on a more personal level?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband has recently been diagnosed with a lifelong illness (fibromyalgia). We have a wonderful marriage and I love him dearly but I'm not sure whether I can handle this. A very important part of who I am is someone who does not want to spend my life supporting another person. This is the major reason why I have not had children, nor want children. Being stuck taking care of someone who can't work and needs my constant support is like death to me, as selfish as that may sound.\n\nI also don't want to abandon my husband either. It's unthinkable to just leave someone you love so much. I worry, though, that over time that love will turn to anger and resentment. Especially if he is unable to work a steady job and contribute to our household.\n\nAs it is right now he has no family near us and would be unable to support himself. I have no idea what he would do without me. He'd no longer have health insurance which would be especially devastating considering his condition.\n\nI don't know how to make this decision: Living a life of misery and resentment or abandoning a loved one.\n\nAdvice would be helpful, especially from anyone who is living with fibro.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For Halloween this year, I am considering going as Private First Class Bradley Manning (if you don't know who he is, Google the name). It's certainly not your typical Halloween costume by any means, but I usually don't do the typical thing.\n\nI want to represent Bradley in good taste while offering information to my friends and co-workers about the history of what lead up to the charges against him, the current state of the trial, info about Wikileaks and what we have learned from the various leaks, Julian Assange and the allegations against him, etc. I only intend on dressing up at work and at home on Halloween so as to not be viewed as impersonating a soldier or breaking the uniform law in any way. I'm not going to force my opinion onto anyone, just offer only the facts if asked.\n\nThere has been some controversial costumes worn in the past, so I don't have any reason to believe that it would be taken the wrong way, but I also don't want to tread on taboo or anything that might offend or upset anyone at my work place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 4 years now, we have lived together for close to 2, and I feel like I have let myself go. When we first met, I was 20 pounds lighter and nearly never left the house without making sure I looked good. I took pride in the way I looked, now I hardly even wear makeup and even though my boyfriend loves me and constantly tells me how beautiful I am, I feel like I've let myself go and have no idea how to find the motivation to get back to finding myself again. I need help...I'm scared one day he will wake up and realize I'm not the fit, pretty girl he fell in love with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey All,\n\nSo I've been having a hard time at work lately and have been eager to try something new. My girlfriend has been in a similar situation and until recently was also seeking new opportunities.\n\nWe're both based in London but were considering job opportunities in Dublin. Unfortunately her circumstances recently changed and she now needs to stay in London as she needs to help her family which is totally understandable and she also got a promotion at work.\n\nI've been applying for new jobs in London for months but have been getting hardly any responses. Last week I decided to send off 2 final applications for roles in Dublin and have successfully made it to a final stage interview with one of the leading tech/social companies - an opportunity that I don't believe comes around all that often.\n\nMy girlfriend is absolutely amazing and she knows how ambitious I am and has said that she'd definitely want to give it a try if I was to go there but I'm worried that I may be being selfish or this could end up with me loosing her?\n\nThankfully Dublin isn't too far and I'd plan to come back every few weekends and also fly her out every now and again too but I'm still slightly worried.\n\nIf this was for any other company then it wouldn't even cross my mind but this opportunity could open up so many doors in the future as well as travel/relocation opportunities that I'm not sure if I should pass it up.\n\nAny help or advice here would be greatly appreciated, especially from those that have been in a similar situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been having some trouble with my girlfriend, we'll call her Pam. I was talking to another female friend of mine, we'll call her Kate, about my problems. I told Kate it didn't look like Pam and I would be going to prom, because we were having a disagreement. Kate decided it would be appropriate to invite herself to be my date to prom. Now, Pam and Kate are friends and they go to the same school, but I go to another school and know them through work. Kate also has a boyfriend who I am pretty good friends with. I went to the prom at Pams school and of course, saw Kate and her boyfriend there. I don't think he knows Kate wants to go to prom with me, and I don't think he would be happy to hear that.\n\nJust a few days ago, Pam and I reconciled and it seems that all is well and we will be going together. Kate has already told her parents that she has a date to prom with me, and I believe she has bought a dress. I tried to talk to her about the situation, but she just tells me that I need to tell Pam that I'm going with Kate. I don't want to loose Kate as a friend and I don't see any way to tell her I'm going with Pam without it ending badly. I'm also sure that if I upset Pams friend, Pam won't be to happy with me either. What shall I do? Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello,\n\nSo I live in the Philippines, moved here a few weeks ago, and man, it is so easy to meet people here. Ridiculously easy. There are many reasons, I know; some less than honorable.\n\nI have met a few women on Tinder here, and they just wanted to have fun with a buncha different guys. I have been talking to one [22/F], have met up with her twice now, and we have been doing it like animals after our dates. After the second time, I told her that I might start getting more serious with her because I don't like just fooling around. Her attitude since then has been positive and receptive about it; we are actually meeting again tomorrow at my place and I am making dinner (paella, she loves that stuff), then taking her out to the rooftop to check out the beautiful view of Makati City. We have kinda talked and have both decided to have a serious talk when she comes.\n\nHowever, my issues stem from when she was leaving the other day, she had to shower and left her phone unlocked on the bed, and I saw a message from some guy it looked like she was making plans with. I don't know if she followed through or what not, but I always overthink things regardless and let it stress me out. \n\nSome people tell me 'you aren't together, let her do her thing; but if you do go official, it has to stop of course' and others 'drop that sh*t right now, you ain't got time for that'. It's super confusing.\n\nThe best I can think of right now is to just do what I wanted to do and check the phone [issues! i know], and not say anything about anything, just handle it appropriately and with class/dignity.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "and a student e-mails/approaches you with literature, a video, a news article, etc. that they thought was interesting because it pertains to something you covered/are covering in class, don't respond with \"That's nice,\" or \"How interesting.\" At least show a little enthusiasm. An exclamation point takes no extra time to type in an e-mail and if a student comes to you during their own free time to show you something they thought was interesting and relevant, chances are they have taken a liking to you. When you show an obvious disinterest in your student, not only are you probably hurting their feelings, you're also chipping away at their interest in education. It wouldn't kill you to take a couple minutes to listen to why they thought their piece was so absorbing. I don't mean to be accusatory, as there are plenty of instructors that do not act like this and show students the respect they need to excel in school (obviously if they deserve it). But if you do act like this, change your attitude. Or go do something else with your life. Or go suck a railroad spike.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met him about a month ago and we hit it off from the start. We hung out non stop for the first 3 week(4 night a week) and he told me he could really see a future with me.\nour only issue is he thinks I have some growing up to do. \n\nOne night last week we were laying in bed just talking and he says \"you are just too young for me\" and I said \"what do you mean\" he started explaining how I need to work and move out of my parents house.He works 40hr weeks so He feels like im a spoiled princess cause my parents are well off and they take care of me while im in college. Hearing him say that made me feel really bad about myself, as if I was a baby and that I wasnt good enough for him.\n\nThe next morning he dropped me off at home and I text him saying we should take a break until I get on my feet(which was a immature impulse decision on my part cause i really dint want to break things off) and He replied with just \"ok\". \n\nI really miss him like crazy and If becoming more independent is something i need to do to make things work i will. Its been about 5 days since we spoke and I just want to know if i should call\\text him saying i miss him or something cause I could really see myself being with him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So just recently moved to Tucson with my SO who was stationed at Davis-Monthan afb. We signed up with centurylink to get the $30 a month plan about a month ago. I'll just list the lies and overcharges as bullet points to make this easy to read.\n\n$100 for modem we did not order. We have our own and informed them of this thought the order process.\n\n$15 shipping for said unwanted modem\n\n$20 for installing said modem (which I installed myself)\n\n$15 for 4 days prorated not at the advertised rate of $30 a month\n\n$30 a month for up to 72 Mbps. Which we are only seeing 12mbps which is covered under a $20 plan\n\nWe did call the company and even asked to speak to a supervisor about these problems. To which there reply was \"it was not lying, we just did not disclose these charges\". The problem being we inquired what our first months charges would be and were told \" only slightly higher than any other month due to the prorate charge\". Obviously they are assuming they will just walk all over us and not care. They didn't even offer to change the monthly plan to reflect the speeds we are getting or take back there modem. While we are not broke we do try to keep a budget and things like this really take a bite out of it and I think if they don't care to fix it others should know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our supervisor has every good intentions for coworkers. He is a good natured and caring person. However, his work style is somewhat unorganized and too trusting of the system because I believe how he is used to working. He is also very reserved and tend to not express his thoughts and concerns. My impression is that he tends to avoid talking things out.\n\nMy coworker, lets call her Mary, recently made the worst mistake that could have affected our company into millions of dollars of lawsuit. Mary was recently transferred/promoted to a new department. However, even though our nature of work is very sensitive and requires every attention to details, the department culture due to supervisor is, I believe, is too relaxed. She did not have any formal training to follow. She was just walked through what we do by another coworker. The mistake happened on the coworker's first go at the task. Unfortunately, the situation was just a little bit more complicated and she ended up making the mistake. \n\nThe problem ended up working out luckily. However, Mary was put on a week of no-pay dismissal plus 90 day probation. During the probation, she was asked to work on menial job for 90 days. The supervisor and Mary were supposed to sit down and talk about what exactly happened three days ago, but it has not happened yet. I told Mary that she deserves to at least share her side and talk about what happened for a couple of reasons; to bring it to attention that there needs to be proper training, also I feel it is her right to tell her side of the story.\n\nI only heard from her what happened. I intentionally avoided gossiping and talking about it with others. I feel strongly about telling my supervisor to talk to Mary. What I am worried about is that whether I am going too far or crossing a line. But I feel that since we work as a team, the conversation needs to happen.\n\nI also think it is possible that the supervisor may aware of the lack of training, therefore, trying to avoid his part of responsibility. But this is only my speculation. Am I going too far? What is the right thing to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met while I was at the vacation in his country, exchanged contacts and talked online. I've flown over a couple of times, we fell in love, so we're currently 6 months into the relationship and we're long-distance.\n\nThe problem is that he has a weird sense of humor. His understanding of a joke is to say something offensive in a completely serious tone, but others are somehow expected to understand that he's kidding (Poe's law in action, in other words). Needless to say, most people who heard him make those jokes don't understand that he's joking. I've gotten somewhat used to this, so I can recognize when he's serious and when he isn't most of the time, but sometimes he sounds too convincing. For example yesterday he said something sexist to me. It hurt me, but I thought that he probably didn't have any malicious intent and might have just been ignorant when it comes to this issue, so I gently tried to explain what was wrong with what he said. His reaction upset me greatly, so to avoid making a scene and saying things I'll regret, I said goodnight and logged off. I woke up the next day to messages of him apologizing profusely and clearly being very sad about it. Turns out he thought I was joking too so he played along, while to me it looked like he was mocking me for what I was saying. And this is not the first time it has happened. I tried talking to him before about it, but his only reply to this is \"How can you seriously think I'd say those things? Do you really think I'm such a terrible person?\". But what the heck else am I supposed to think when he sounds like he absolutely means it?! Even when I say that what he said upset me, he thinks I'm joking too.\n\nHe's not a bad person, he's actually very kind and sweet, so I understand why it saddens him when I take him seriously. But I also think that he's old enough to understand that not everybody gets his sense of humor and not everybody is kidding all the time, like he does. What should I do, reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for a year and 7 months now. We both drink, smoke pot, and smoke cigarettes occasionally. I take an 'everything in moderation' approach to cigarettes - If I'm at a party or in a large group and they're there, then I might have one. He used to be completely against smoking (his parents are both smokers), then he started. He told me it was only sociable smoking (like me). Now he's begun smoking them frequently, and he told me he's addicted. I really want him to stop. Having a nicotine addiction is unhealthy, expensive and hearing him cough all the time is getting really fucking annoying. How should I go about this? He told me he's not willing to quit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I ordered a christmas gift for my friend over two months ago. I contacted the seller via e-mail and didn't hear from them for over a week. I then hunted down their Facebook Page and direct messaged them there. They told me their screen printer had been closed for the holidays and my package would be sent out \"soon.\"\n\nAgain I waited over two weeks with no package. I direct messaged them again and they replied back saying that one of the totes full of packages had been left behind at the office and he would straighten it out on that coming tuesday. Two weeks again go by and I message him again. He states that my package had been sent out (coincidentally that same day, probably before replying to my message). I waited another two weeks and FINALLY the package arrived today.\n\nMy friend says I should definitely ask for a partial refund or discount because of the time it took to get the package. I missed christmas AND valentine's day as opportunities to give this gift, which really sucked. I am totally satisfied with the product and am willing to do business again, but apparently I'm not the only one this happened to.\n\nAm I in the right for asking for a discount/coupon/refund?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl just over a year ago at a university a few hours from mine and we began dating within a few months, initially we only saw each other on weekends and managed to have a few extended periods together, a month being our longest.\n\nShe then had to move back to where she was originally from, 30 hours away.\n\n80% of our relationship took place online and we were both very involved in it and always there come the end of the day. Just recently a plan for a 2 month visit was cancelled because we are both getting jobs that won't allow such a visit, and it crushed me.\n\nIt had been a rough road part of the time because the distance was hard on us and caused lots of frustration, but we still loved each other and still do. We both agreed that it would possibly be years before we stood a chance to be together, so I ended it. I know I broke her heart and it kills me because I broke my own too. \n\nI guess I'm just here to tell someone what I did and why, and see if anyone has ended a relationship for similar reasons. The distance was just too much for me, I'm just hoping I didn't make a huge mistake.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, we met on the ever popular OKCupid about a month ago, and have been on around 8 dates since. On our second date we ended up going home together, and having sex, but there was no awkwardness afterwards and arranged another date over coffee in the morning. \n\nOn Thursday last week, we had a bit of a \"where is this going?\" conversation, in which he confessed he's never really had a relationship or dated extensively. I have dated and had relationships in the past, so understand that it's a bit of an awkward new world for some people. I'm really into him, but he doesn't seem available outside of face to face dating. When we're together we have a great time, lots of fun and good conversations, but when we're apart he ignores my texts, doesn't speak to me often and seems bored when I attempt to strike up a conversation. It's leaving me a little confused and frustrated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my long term girlfriend have been together for a little over 7 years now. We have been in a long distance relationship for the past 3 years due to our studies. We long our virginities to each other and from there we began to explore a bit.\n\nI have been watching porn for 10 years and have built up various fetishes and sexual desires. My girlfriend on the other hand had barely begun to touch herself when we met and had little to no idea about what she liked or what she wanted to try. So we used my 'knowlegde' to try several things and see what we liked.\n\nDuring this time we tried several things ranging from your normal passionate sex to public sex and from mild bdsm to anal. What became clear after several years of exploring is that we both have quite different tastes. She prefers passionate normal sex and occasionally being restrained. I'm into things such as anal play and exhibitionism. She is very specific about what she likes now and I'm still very open and willing to do pretty much anything. This is starting to bring a bit of conflict as I become bored with all of these restrictions she has now put in place so that she stays in her comfort zone.\n\nIt's difficult for us both to enjoy sex to its fullest extent at the same time as I want to do certain things that she won't do and she wants to do things that we've done a thousand times and don't really excite me anymore.\n\nI'm not going to pack in the relationship over this as I love her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I want to know if this is going to be a source of conflict for the rest of our relationship, and if anyone has any advice or ideas regarding this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "*\"still has feelings for me\"\n\nMike and I dated for a little over a month. He broke up with me out of the blue, stating he just \"couldn't see himself developing serious feelings for me\". Fine, whatever. \n\nFast forward two months and we're in the process of trying to be friends. I'm treating him like a friend: being friendly, talking to him semi-regularly and just generally moving on with my life. I invite him to a party being thrown by mutual friends (along with about 25 other people). He says he'd love to come and I don't think anything more about it. He never shows. But not only does he not show, he sends me a long text late that evening explaining that he wasn't ready to see me in person, still had feelings for me, had been having second thoughts (about us), how he didn't think he could handle seeing me with someone, and just generally dumping all of his emotions on me without suggesting any course of action whatsoever. \n\nI waited until I was sober (earlier today) and called him to talk. Not only did he not have anything to contribute past what he wrote, but he promised me that he would never do that again/he was sorry. Why does he think he can dump and run like this? What is the point of telling me these things if you have no intention of doing anything about it? I'm furious, and feel like he's being both immature and manipulative, even if it's not on purpose. What do you guys think? I'm absolutely mystified by his behavior.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl and i go pretty far back. Back when we were in high school i always considered her a friend and liked her a lot, but strictly as a friend, she had boyfriends and stuff throughout high school so there wasn't really a chance even if i wanted to. \n\nWe end up going to the same university and had a class together. I started talking to her again. She's now single and been out of her last relationship for about 2 months. We end up hanging out every weekend for a few weeks, hiking, bowling, sitting down and watching movies, whatever, it seemed to be going well. \n\nHalloween roles around and we are going to a party together. I find a good moment where we are alone to ask her if she wanted to go steady. She told me that she wasn't really looking for a relationship at the moment, (she stressed that she had definitely thought about a relationship with mw and that i wasn't in her friend zone). Im obviously upset and decide to sleep it off in my car that night. She texts me in the middle of that night saying she was really sorry and stuff like that. i ignore it and hit the hay.\n\nI stop actively pursuing her. I text less often. and started hanging with other people for a couple of weeks. All of a sudden she starts all out texting me, in the mornings to when we go to bed. It is like never before. \n\nAnd now she's giving me what i consider 'signals', by asking me how she looks, fishing for compliments, saying i look nice, complimenting my hair style and stuff like, she even described to me what kind of panties she wears, and offering me rides. She brushes my shoulder a lot and has gotten a lot more touchy feely. \n\nSo i think she trying to say something but I'm not really sure. I wanted to do a reddit post to see what anyone else's take on it was. Does anyone have any ideas about this? or maybe any some suggestions about my actions in the future?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, our parents were friends before we got together so I practically knew him my whole life. Before I get into detail, I just want to say I really love him, there's no doubt in my mind that he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, and we have and we do speak about the future together. I guess you can say we are over the \"honeymoon\" stage, I mean we still have amazing sex and I always get butterflies seeing him but obviously its not the same anymore.\n\nWhat my concern is, is that his small mannerisms that really bother me are truly getting to me. Theyre making me really peeved, and bitchy all the time and I think this might hurt my relationship.\nThese are just a few things he does that really get to me:\n\n1) Eats so sloppy and never uses a knife\n\n2) His hygiene doesn't suck but I have to remind him to wash his hands and brush his teeth\n\n3) Never cleans up after himself\n\n4) Doesn't know how to control his alcohol when were at gatherings\n\nThat's basically it there might be a few other things but this is what kind of gets to me.\n\nPLEASE DONT SAY IF THESE THINGS ABOUT HIM BOTHER YOU THEN YOU DONT LOVE ME. That's not true. I love him a lot, and I know he's not ideal, but how can I stop these things from getting to me.\nI feel like I have to baby him a lot, and it's my fault that I let him get comfortable and used to that. His parents never tell him what to do, or tell him when hes wrong, so he gets away with everything.\n\nAm I just being really picky or is it normal to feel this way?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just a little background, I am male (26) and my boyfriend (25) broke up with me about a month ago. We had been together for about a year and a half and he has met my entire family and we had been more or less living together, so I thought that it was getting serious. We didn't have any huge fight or anything but it was a bunch of little fights and a lack of sexual compatibility towards the end that did it. Since we broke up we've hung out and had a great time (and really great sex). He tells me that he's thought of getting back together and he misses me, but that he still needs time to figure stuff out, and he has started casually dating someone new. \n\nHe seems like he still wants to see me and have me in his life, but obviously it isn't fair to me to keep me in limbo like this (especially when he's meeting other guys), so I am doing my best to avoid seeing him and see new people myself.\n\nAlthough... I can't deny that I still love him, and if there were a chance that we could work things out I'm sure I would regret not taking it. I know big romantic gestures like in the movies usually don't work, but I was thinking of just mailing him a CD with a single song I recorded for him.\n\nI was planning on attaching a short note only saying \"I know we've talked a lot about us already, but maybe I am better expressing myself with this. I hope you are doing well.\" \n\nThe basic premise of the song stays away from phrases like \"i need you\" and is more about how I am thinking about him and that I'll be there for him in case he decides he misses me too and wants to be in my life again. Just a side note, I'm an amateur singer and he has sad that he really loves my voice in the past.\n\nIs this too desperate!?!?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months.\n\nShe will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back.\n\nWe talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. \n\nI am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just started a relationship a couple months ago with a girl. She's very open about her past dating life and stays friends with her exes, which is fine. But to me she may be crossing the line a bit with her most recent ex. \n\nThey dated for 2 years and he broke up with her last summer. She still keeps in regular contact with him (from long distance), and it seems he still has feelings for her and regrets his decision to break up according to her, though she tells me she has fallen out of love with him. \n\nI've been cordial with my exes, but I would never send them letters/message them weekly. She just texted me nonchalantly saying that she was going to bed, after skyping with [ex's name here]. It kind of upset me. I want to talk to her about it, but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. My longest relationship is 6 months, so I never really formed a strong bond with any of my exes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I [28M] have been hooking up with this girl[25F] I've know for a few months now, and have made it very clear from the beginning that I am not looking for anything serious at all and not looking to date exclusively right now. Strictly a friends with benefits.\n\nWhen we first started hooking up, she was closely integrated with my group of friends, and when I learned she might have feelings, I stopped and told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious. She said she's totally cool with that and is fine hooking up, which we did.\n\nThe problem is, I'm not so sure she is totally cool with that regardless of what she says. Since she's part of my group of friends, we often all go out together, and I can see she gets a bit jealous if I'm looking at another girl, and I can't bring myself to move forward with any girl. \n\nI'm not really sure what to do, on one hand I feel like she's an adult and I've done my part of making my intentions clear from the start... on the other I don't want her to get more attached. I feel like I'm playing with fire, any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This thought came to me while I was watching the film Gravity. Now I won't spoil it for those of you who haven't watched it, but without giving anything important anyway, there is a scene where our protagonist, faced with almost certain doom, calms herself down by listening to random radio broadcasts coming from Earth. She can hear them, but they can't hear her. It's a nice scene because it reminds you that if you were faced with your own impending mortality, you would instantly miss the most mundane parts of life, and one of its most simple pleasures - the luxury of not having to worry about your own death.\n\nThis scene just made me realise - and you can trade out the protagonist's imprisonment in space for anything, such as a cancer diagnosis or life on death row - these people would trade anything just to get back the opportunity to wake up in the morning of a standard day where your biggest worry is getting to work on time, or finishing an essay for college. They would trade anything just to return back to a normal, boring, mundane reality.\n\nTHIS IS YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW, AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO TRADE IT FOR ANYTHING. \n\nEven if you are poor, or ill, you have options. You can choose to read this post or you can close your internet browser and run outside and just taste the fresh air. You can learn something new, fall in love, or get blisteringly drunk. It sounds cliched but you'll never realise how much you would value these privileges unless you actually lost them. So if you are feeling down, or depressed, just remember that you are a tiny ant, crawling on a tiny pebble, in the infinite sandy beach that is our universe. You don't have to answer to anyone but yourself, no one is judging you from afar, and you are capable of whatever it is you want to do. If you fail, at least you can sit back, relax, and enjoy the fact you have the time to fail, fail, fail, and fail again. \n\nDon't treat every day as if it was your last, treat every day as if it were your first. Earth has a lot of surprises in store for you, and if you're seen everything and done everything, you still have the potential to change yourself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my good friend's new [just over a month] boyfriend[22] this weekend for the first time at a party. A quick backstory, they met when she was 14 and he was 15, and she fell in love with him but he did not reciprocate, but they have just recently reconciled and begin to date. He is about to move into her apartment.\n\nAnyways, the night I met him he was quiet, but seemed alright, that is until he started drinking. He drank nearly an entire bottle of gin to himself, mostly chugging straight from the bottle. He didn't even seem drunk afterwards. He was constantly berating my friend in front of everyone. Commenting on her weight, insulting her intelligence, insinuating she was promiscuous, and constantly arguing with her. The next second he would kiss he and tell her he loves her.\n\nThe scariest moment was when he leaned over and gave her a small slap on the face and scolded her for something she said. He did this more than once, and in front of myself and another person.\n\nI later asked my other friend what she thought and she brushed it off saying it was all an act, and that he was just trying to seem weird and intense to impress me (?). \n\nI want to talk to my friend about her boyfriend, but I'm scared she won't listen, or that she will tell him and he will try and turn her against me. Does anyone have any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently had my two sons over to visit this summer (I am divorced from their mother). While they were here, one of them had to have an emergency CT. It turned out to be nothing, and the ER trip was only about 90 minutes total, so I was relieved.\n\nAfter they left received 3 separate bills from 3 separate entities that allegedly provided service, totaling 3200 dollars. My son has Medicaid from his state of origin, Washington. I gave them his insurance when we walked in.\n\nI live in Idaho. Every person I talk to regarding these bills says \"we have no contract with Washington and we aren't a contracted provider anyway, so it's not going to fly.\" When I contacted Washington's DSHS, they told me they \"don't cover anything that happens outside of the state of Washington.\" Like, if someone's traveling or with their Dad in another adjacent state, they're just out of luck.\n\nI don't have 3200 dollars. I can't even afford to make monthly payments on this, I am still making monthly payments on my own medical shit from years ago, and I save up all year to take my sons in the summer.\n\nIt makes no sense to me that someone could be poor enough to need Medicaid, but a hospital could feel like I could just pay 3000 dollars.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm on Facebook asking if there's a place to rent in the Portland, OR housing classifieds. We have a few kids, enough that people think that you cannot put more than 2 kids per room for, say, a two bedroom house. There seems to be a section in the housing code that they should follow the \"2+1\" rule for renting. However, when reading the code, this seems to be even more of a guideline than a rule, and is even mentioned as such by the mayor in a PDF I found dated a few years ago.\n\nWith housing so tight and people failing to find housing for one reason or another (and I plan to move my family up in a couple of months. I work in Portland right now), it would be nice to be able to come at this problem to show landlords that this isn't a law but a guideline, and should be treated as such.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright some back information, I'm 18 female I've been in a few really great relationships with some really great girls! I'm currently in one (it's been 2 months) and I have to say I couldn't be happier. My girlfriend is the greatest thing I could ever ask for and more than I'd ever expect from a person. I'm not unhappy at all, not bored at all (of the sex either.. that's just.. amazing), I have no issues really with the relationship and how it is!\n\nThat being said.. why do I think about cheating? I know I have a really really high sex drive, but hers is rather high as well. It works out great, and I can't complain at all about what/how she does. \n\nI just have always, in every relationship, felt an urge to cheat. Not to end my relationship, but because I know that it's bad. That's why I want to do it? I'm just looking for opinions here, maybe someone else faces the same thoughts? I have dreams that I can control and I'll dream of my girlfriend all the time but some nights I'll cheat in my dreams. There's just this feeling that hits me where it's like.. \"yeah.. I'd do that. It's bad.. but I want to.\"\nAs a side note maybe, it's always been part of my \"fantasies\" to do bad things. (sex with a teacher..coach..married woman..someone else cheating with me) Maybe I'm just attracted to the bad things? \n\nI never would though! I love my girlfriend and I'd never want to hurt her. I'm just curious as to what it means/any advice or thoughts on it. Any questions as well I can answer! Thanks for reading this jumbled train of thoughts!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello my name is Daniel. I am 24 years old and i am going to be going to college for the first time! I am finally able to go as independent so now is the time to get help with tuition. I start in the fall!\n\nI would like a little guidance from the community here. I decided to go to a community college first, as to not load myself up with debt. I am looking to go into the tech sector. \n\nThese are what i'm looking at:\n\nSoftware Development A.A.S. Degree\nI am looking at computer programming #1. I am not the most creative person, but i can definitely create something with the correct inspiration. And.... i love computers and solving problems.\n\nWith an Associates in Applied Science, i should be able to get work pretty quickly if i do well if what I've researched is correct.\nBut if i we're to attain this degree, what can i do to advance my education and achieve a bachelor's degree or get a better job? Is a bachelor's even needed to move up in the industry?\n\nComputer Support and Network Administration A.A.S.\nI'm also good with people and would love working in a field that is actively working with people to solve problems.\n\nIs there way to advance my education past the AAS in this field? What can i do to advance my education and achieve a bachelor's degree or get a better job in networking? Is a bachelor's even needed to move up in the industry?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "we've had our share of problems but we overcame everything.\n\nover the last year i started to be too active in my own activities and i stopped showing intrest in her activities. i did not do this knowingly! she also didn't realise it so we couldn't talk about it \n\nlast wednesday we were talking about how our relationship changed over the last couple of months and how we became to much as normal friends. the reason was my behaviour, my neglaction of her, made her lose intrest in me in a intimate way. \n\nshe is everything to me and i wanted to do whatever it takes to stay together with her but i can't seem to make her believe it can really be done in the long run. \n\nwe agreed to stay friends, but in trying to make her believe i can change, i would only push her away from me and the thought of her being completely out of my life terrifies me more than anything\n\nshe is everything i want in a woman and there is no doubt in my mind that this is the woman i want to grow old with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "27F/5'10\"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160\n\nFor the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. \n\nOne of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. \n\nAm I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We always had an amiable relationship. She's like that family member you love because you have to. I have to be her friend. I've tried many times in the past 2 years to cut all contact with her. She is a victimizing manipulator. She has a degenerative brain disease but it's going to take 2 decades to impair her. But she's always using it as her excuse. She's never been very bright, but now she uses the disease as an excuse to say/do things that are inexcusable. She is rude, mean, jealous, and irrational. She calls me her best friend because I am the only person who pretends to like her because i feel bad for her. Her boyfriend feels the same way. Our \"group\" was getting high the other day and when she walked away he asked me, \"do you ever feel like you're stuck with her?\" I ignored him because I wasn't about to slander her name, I do care for her. But yes, I feel stuck. And ever since he said that, I feel this responsibility to stay in her life because I know the only other consistent person in her life feels the way I do. I can pretend to be her friend, but I'm slowly beginning to hate her. What should I do? I know deep down she's good, but most of the time I can only see the bad. I feel like she's bringing me down. She is so fucking dumb and bigoted. When Im around her, I feel like there's a brain cell genocide occurring. What should I do, if anything at all? Sorry if I sound like an asshole.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The sister of my partner is an abusive bully towards her mother an my partner. At every (and I mean every) family gathering that I've attended over the past 13 years (roughly 2 a year, so 26 in total), she has arrived in a foul mood, verbally and publically harassed and humiliated her mother, and done the same to my partner. After every encounter, my partner shrugs and says, \"I know, she's awful, but she's always been like this and we can't change her now\".\n\nChristmas is usually fraught, and this year, she's insisted on hosting it at her place. In the past, I've declined going because I'd rather avoid feeling livid post-celebration. But this year, my partner tells me that if I miss the day, his mother will be heartbroken (she's 80) and I'm pretty sure he'll be upset as well. \n\nWhat have you done in the past to help the situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for about 7 months. I'm a little hung up about her past. She has slept with 13 other guys and that is a bit overwhelming for me. I lurk in this subreddit a lot, and I've seen all the posts that deal with this issue. I know that this is my problem and not hers. I try my hardest not to let it effect our relationship, and I've done a really good job so far, but its getting really hard to do when she brings up her past sex experiences.\n\nI have told her on 3 different occasions that I'd prefer not to know those things. I express this each time she mentions something. Last night she told me a story about a time she had anal sex with another guy and that she didn't enjoy it. I got a little mad that she brought it up. She apologized, and i said that its okay. I'm still pretty pissed though.\n\nWe have never had a real discussion on my feelings about her past. Its hard for me to explain why these things bother me. I guess I feel jealous that she has tried stuff with other guys that she won't try with me. I know I'm not the best shes ever had. I know she has done way kinkier stuff with other guys. I know I'm not the cutest or the biggest guy shes been with. I feel like I'm just number 14. It just hurts. She has even admitted that I'm not her best lover. It was my fault for asking though. It kills my ego. I have been with a few other people too but she has had a much more colorful sex life than me. I know its not logical to think this way but its hard to beat out this gut feeling.\n\nI don't know what to do. She can't seem to stop talking about her past sex life. I know i need to have a larger discussion with her about this but I don't know how to bring it up or what to say.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My relationships haven't worked out lately and I have realized that I have never NOT been cheated on by someone. I struggle with depression, have been to therapy, and know I am not always easy to be around but I know I don't deserve this. \n\nI am having an increasingly difficult time forming healthy relationships because I just don't trust men with my heart and in turn, I can't let my guard down and really let a relationship develop. My self-esteem is pretty wrecked, too. I am really unsure what to do because like everyone, I want connection and love. Advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To start, my SO has very severe social anxiety and has a very hard time with having attention on him. That being said, we've been together for two years now and he still will not call me his girlfriend or publicly announce our relationship at all. He knows this hurts me, he does feel bad about it, but he just doesn't want us to be public right now. The thing is, he seems to see this as something completely normal. He genuinely doesn't seem to get why I want us to be public and sees it more as a way for me to just brag about our relationship. I love him. He's the first person I've ever loved and has been a very good friend for a long time. I feel like even if we would break up, the only way I could even get over him at all would be to cut ties with him completely. I don't want to do that and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I don't understand what he's so afraid of. He's heavily introverted, which I do have a basic understanding of, and he comes from a family that doesn't really discuss each other's personal lives, so for the two years that I've been coming over and seeing him, his parents have never really acknowledged me much (he's still in college and living at home). I'm at my wits end. I don't know what to say anymore and I don't know what to do anymore. He isn't intentially hurting me, he just has a lot of anxiety that's running his life verses being dealt with. Does anyone have any advice other than just breaking up with him? I really don't want that to be the outcome of this...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/legaladvice!\n\nI posted before asking about my landlord.\n \n\nSituation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his.\n\nWhat are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm currently trying to help him move on from her.\n\nLong story short, my friend met a girl in uni. They talked a bit before but only on FB (talked a bit in class also but that's about it). They went on to being in different classes due to one of them failing a year. She told him on FB that she'll hang out with him. After a while she met her current BF. Now my friend says that it's not fair that she gave her BF a chance before him even though she hasn't met either one of them. They argued about it a bit. She blocked him and unblock him after a while to help him move on.\n\nNow it has been more than a year, and he still tries to message her in whatever way possible, to the point of harassment. She would open up accounts under her name, open up other accounts, post pictures of himself and tag her in it, etc. She has contacted the police twice, and the police has talked to him twice, warning him but he doesn't care. He has specifically said he doesn't care about going to jail, as long as she will explain why she didn't give him a chance. The police also warned that he'll be kicked out of school, but he doesn't care.\n\nI've been trying to talk to him but his mind is locked onto this, and he said it'll basically continue until she gives him a reply to why, which she has multiple times, but he thinks she's not being truthful. I'm not sure how to help him move on, as he clearly cant and I don't want him to get kicked out of school/going to jail because of a girl..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Starting a new job on wednesday paying AUD $24.11 p/h + 9.5% super, 8 hrs a day with 30 minute lunch break 5 days a week. Its a call centre job, not cold calling. We answer queries from customers about their utility bills etc. The contract for this job is for 6 months (probationary). I have been told that i will be offered an extension on the contract after the 6 months as long as i do my job well and not slack off. I also have family friends in company so lets just say that i will have my contract extended for the purpose of my query. Im also looking to do a networking/system administration certification in the upcoming months (which will cost around $2k, give or take). \nI have roughly $21k owing on personal loan with a 7 year repayment period and $3k owing on a credit card. I want to pay these off as quickly as i possibly can. Currently im paying rent on a place i no longer live at until August 23rd at $193 per week, roughly $85 per month for phone bill and $55 per month for something else (up until the 16th of oct). Currently only paying around $58 per month for the credit card (has been stable around this figure for quite sometime so im thinking this is just the card fee as i dont actually purchase anything with the credit card anymore) and $217 for the loan (i think this is monthly). So presuming the credit card fee stays the same, what would be better to pay off first?\nAny help with this i am really grateful for.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit World!\n\nAfter dating for five years and six months then being broken up for the past three months we still use the same Starbucks and Costco account.\n\nWhenever one of us buys coffee the other person gets a notification on our iPhone. Well as of last Wednesday I quit texting and replying to her messages because I hate to be the one waiting. In the meantime I go to Starbucks and study. \n\nThis has been our text log since Wednesday:\n\nWeds: I get a retake but idk [her], Thursday: Hi [her], Sunday: Who do u always buy coffee for on the bux card? Just saying [her]. \n\nI know I need to stop using the Starbucks app but after five years I feel like it be difficult to cut out of my life. \n\nWhat do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've done my ultimate best to try and move forward. The breakup was awful and centered around a terrible point in my life. Best mate died, Grandad died and she slept with a mate of mine during us getting together because she thought i was out of her league. The love was incredibly deep for both of us but the relationship was terribly difficult all the same. It resulted in all my so called \"friends\" siding with her and i was left completely on my own trying to rebuild my life.\n\nI did the dumb thing of chasing her for a few months but then dropped contact suddenly, removed her from faebook and got to the gym, slept with a few people. Just tried to forget really.\n\nRecently she's been turning up to events she knows i'll be at. She came and seen my brothers bands and now shes been tagged in pictures with a few of my girl cousins on big nights out. It's blowing my mind! We run into eachother again and sometimes will give a casual \"alright\" or \"hi\". But other than that don't talk. There was no contact at my brothers gig, but she kept hanging around his girlfriend and stuff.\n\nI put all this effort into getting myself together but i can't avoid her totally. What is she trying to do? I wish she's just **** off.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "what emotions did you experience during or after the event?\n\ni was hanging out and reconnecting with some friends after a short deployment while my gf of two years was living abroad. my best friend was trying to mack on a girl and would force me to go along with him whenever they'd be at the same social gathering. well, one night we're all at a mutual friends house cooking and drinking and generally having a good time. i get way too drunk and instead of leaving when my buddy wanted i convince him that we should go back into the house. i'm basically asleep on the couch in the living room when the girl my buddy likes comes up and starts grinding on me. eventually we go upstairs and have sex. my buddy leaves in disgust while another guy that was supposed to be one of my oldest friends basically sends my gf live updates via email. afterwards my best friend cuts me from his life as does my gf. \n\nwhen i woke up the morning after i just sat there wishing as hard as i could that the night before was a part of some awful dream. i felt sick to my stomach about what i did - that somehow i'm not the guy i thought i was, that i completely disrespected my best friend and my gf. i was deeply saddened that i had hurt and embarrassed two people i cared about so much. it's easily the one thing in my life i wish i could take a mulligan on. it's been a year and i'm starting to feel like not such a jackass about it but i fear the possibility of running into my ex this friday will bring up some of those old emotions.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay for the longer version of this I've been in a relationship with my current GF for about 3 and a half years now and we have been and are still happy together. However whenever I meet a new girl that I think might be slightly into me I can't stop myself from sort of popping a few flirty smiles and looks at them until their interest in me grows. I can do this with multiple girls at a time and I always spend a whole lot of time wondering what things would be like if I left my current GF for one of these girls. Like right now for example there's this girl called 'C' who I only just met in one of my classes, I only found out her name through some serious FB stalking and we always have these moments in lectures and labs, I can tell she's into me and I'm giving a clear vibe that I'm into her. All I can think about is her right now, I don't know anything about her but it just seems like I want to date her..? I don't know what I should do about this because if I get over this girl I generally find a new girl, help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I am currently a junior in college, living off campus for the first time with 2 of my mates. A few weeks ago, one of my housemates used a baking pan of mine. He waited 2 or 3 days to wash it and it stained the pan. Yesterday, he's heating up a frozen pizza on it and cuts it was what seems to be a butcher knife. He left 2 massive gauges in it. It really pissed me off but I went to my other buddies first to tell them about it. I told them what was wrong and asked if I was overreacting. They said I kinda was (I don't really think I was). I decided not to tell him about it because, it's a pan, whatever. Fast forward to today, he comes into my room with a new pan and angrily says to me \"I went and bought you a new pan because apparently ones with scratches in 'em don't work anymore.\" Then he huffs and walks out. It's not even the pan that I'm mad about necessarily, it's that he treat my stuff like crap. That's what really pisses me off. Because I know if I treated his stuff like that, he'd be just as pissed as I am. I'm also pissed that my friends girlfriend decided to tell him about me being pissed off. But I'm not even going to say anything to her because apparently expressing my feelings is wrong...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In the beginning of a wonderful relationship, I was woken up one morning by my (ex)girlfriend convulsing beside me. She had two \"pre-seizures\" and though I supported her completely I was mortified. It was a terrifying experience. I knew that she had had them some years back, but was not warned that this might happen.\n\nThe spark was gone - it permanently changed how I felt about her, despite my efforts to keep it alive.\n\nThe relationship had been awesome up until that point, and now I can't shake the feeling that either A: I'm an asshole and/or B: I screwed up what could have easily been the best relationship of my life to date.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi. I'm 23, male.\n\nI knew her since i was like 14, she was a year younger than me. We used to hang out almost daily for years - she lived just down the road from me. We were really good friends, and our friendship lasted until i was about 19. I was a really naive teen, and never realized she had feelings for me, even though she gave some massive signals. \n\nI had strong emotional feelings for her too, but i didn't really understand them at the time. I was a late bloomer. I went through a lot of hardships and i slipped into a bit of a destructive state. I ended up pushing her away, i did it to protect her, but it ruined our friendship. I imagine she hates me now. \n\nI've only seen her once since (been 5 years), and we both completely blanked each other. I haven't attempted to contact her or anything, i could quite easily, but i don't want to talk to her and find out she hates me now. I still think about her a fair bit, and even have dreams about her. (non sexual). I know it's weird, but i'm not stalking her or involving her in any way so it's not hurting, right? \n\nWell, that's the past. The present is the problem. I don't feel attracted to anybody, sexually or emotionally. I have options, i'm not bad looking and i get interest on nights out, and a couple of friends who like me. But none of them interest me. \n\nI know this is really pathetic, but i don't know what to do. I want to get over her, but i still have the problem of not finding anyone else attractive. I've only slept with one girl ever, and weirdly, she looked a lot like the girl i liked. Still the sex was no more enjoyable than masturbating, and was all very average.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Previous Post](\n\n---\n\nSo I snooped again because I saw a text pop up from him last week on her phone.\n\nLast Saturday night, she texted him out of the blue just before 10pm saying \"what u up to tonight?\". This is a week after he last texted her and she didn't respond. This was in a 20 min gap when she wasn't with me. She was drunk too.\n\nShe then met up with me shortly after at 10pm so didn't respond to any of his texts for the rest of the night/she got too drunk to function and I had to take her home.\n\nThe rest of his texts were about asking her to meet up etc with last text being at 1am. This is when I saw the text as I was still up and her phone was on the table. I decided not to snoop further at that stage.\n\nShe hasn't text back since then.\n\nI know all of this because I only decided to snoop last night because it's been bugging me ever since. She got blind drunk last night so I had to meet up with my mate and her on the street and help her get home. She was in memory blank drunk mode. On a work night too. Which just made me think wtf is going on with her so I snooped when she was passed out.\n\nAlso remembered something she said to me a few weeks ago, she said\n\n\"I used to text other guys when I was with my past boyfriends, because basically I got bored, but with you I don't have to because you're so fun\" or something like that.\n\nAnd ever since she said that it's been in the back of my mind, contributing to my insecurity, and has me thinking oh is this the start of this sort of behavior.\n\nI think you guys are right that I don't trust. And I have to admit it too. I don't trust her that much at the moment due to her behavior and my insecurities.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This conversations started the other day with me explaining to my girlfriend that a pair of glasses she usually wears are particularly unattractive (which, I believe, is true and she agrees). This turned in to something much more.\n\nShe tells me that the job she started 3-4 months ago is male-dominated and she feels as if she's constantly being \"stared at\" and wants to be treated as a regular employee. She says that she wears unattractive glasses because she feels as if she's taken more seriously by being deliberately \"non-sexy\" which I absolutely understand. She then began crying and saying how much she hates it and that she has to deal with garbage truck drivers frequently who she feels like are staring at her in a potentially sexual nature.\n\nIt absolutely breaks my heart to hear these things and I'm completely lost on how to support her, which I want to desperately. Quitting her job is a non-option as it's an opportunity she has been working for the past 5-6 years and is a massive career breakthrough for her.\n\nAny advice? Thank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We dated for about 1.5 years, and then decided to try seeing other people. There were some complications in our relationship, but we were happy while it was going. \n\nI recently told her that my feelings for her were resurfacing. We talked tonight, and she said that she felt the same way, but didn't want to get back together. When I asked why, she said she didn't want her friends to judge her. She said she wants to wait a few months for them to grow on the idea, but still wants to text and talk to me like we have been doing the last week (very often, like if we were a couple). \n\nIs she telling the truth? It seems like she is leading me on, but she doesn't seem like someone who would do that? I just need a second opinion reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I have been friends with this guy since 6th grade. Because he lives 14km away and went to a different school than I we only talk online in voice chat room and meet IRL sometimes at a party or go for a movie night with some othe guys. But since we both finished school this year and there is a 3-4 month period of nothing to do between end of school and university starting, we have been hanging out online every day. He is rather slow and relaxed, but gets pissed really quick if something is not to his liking, which, while playing online games, happens quite often.\n\n Now most of the time I am not the target of this, but when he sees me as the cause of his anger and lashes out towards me, I react and it ends with us shouting and one of us leaving. This happend about 4 times in 7years but when it does, he goes into his sulking phase where he activly avoids me and then after a week or so, when I want to talk to him, tells me that he needed \"time away from me\". And when he goes into his sulking phase I just know that this is the phrase I am going to hear sooner or later. The cause of our anger are seldom big matters, for example I joined a rival clan of his because they asked me to be a member while his clan rejected me although I know their leader IRL. Trivial, right ? Or I denied knowing two close friends of his in front of a group of new people I met, because they made neo-nazi statements.\nThe current event was about him thinking of me as urging him to hurry up after he made some friends and myself needlessly wait on him and me calling him out on that.\n\nSo, r/relationship_advice. Are these just normal clashes among friends ? Am I thinking to much into it ? Should I change my behaviour ? As someone who doesnt become friends with someone easily and values his friendships above all, this is an important matter to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit!\n\nMy SO and I moved from Missouri to Austin, TX after graduation in the hopes of finding work in commercial art (we both have Graphic Design and Illustration degrees). After living here for a couple of months, some of my fears have become realities. We are far too late to really benefit from the huge boom that started in the late 90s, early 00s. At the moment, we are both working on learning web dev, in the case of my SO, and relearning Java OOP, in my case, in the hopes of being more marketable. But there's still a major problem...\n\nThe traffic here is a holy forking NIGHTMARE!!\n\nWe heard stories, but it took wasting 2 hours of my life in traffic today to really get to my breaking point. The highways are awful, and they aren't going to fix it any time soon. It would be feasible if we did end up getting jobs as developers later on and managed to find jobs within 5 miles of our house. However, there are so many variables and headaches around it that we're seriously considering just moving away the moment our lease is up.\n\nSo that brings me to a couple of questions:\n\n1. Does Austin offer any real benefit for tech jobs over other US cities? (Other than Oracle is getting ready to build a huge campus here)\n2. Are there any other US cities that are showing the same early signs of growth in the tech industry similar to Austin 10-15 years ago?\n\nSince most of the articles I have read seem to be outdated, or point to cities that have already grown a lot, we're hoping to get firsthand experience from people who live in these unicorn cities. We're also debating on looking for jobs in Dallas and Houston to at least just get away from this horrible traffic asap, but we're also wanting to consider the long game.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently got a laptop for christmas. While looking over the options I noticed I had the choice of a HDD or SSD. I have a few questions. 1. Why is it that SSD seem to not be able to have the same capacity of HDD? I see HDD that can hold 2TB, while I see SSD that can usually only store 500-750GB. 2. Is there a difference in how the memory is stored on the drive? For instance: Is file \"X\" going to take up less space on a SSD because of the way it is stored? I understand that RAM takes segments of your HDD and breaks it down to send it to the processor (I know it's more complex than that, but for the sake of time). Since a SSD is flash memory, is it faster at doing this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two weeks. He asked if it was okay to introduce me to his friends and family as his boyfriend on day two, which I said was fine. He updated his relationship status on Facebook the morning after our first 'date.'\n\nI have never had a 'traditional' dating experience- ya know, the one you see in movies? He asked me out to coffee, and a few days later we ended up at ihop at 11pm and then spent the entire night at the beach in a Gazebo- dancing, singing, snuggling. I have been spending the night at his house 2 or 3 nights a week. It feels like we have been together much longer than we have. We have cried together, laughed, and shared our secrets. \n\nI do not think I know him all of the way, just yet, and I most certainly have not given him the whole life-story. We are already best friends, inseparable. My heart races thinking about him. We have talked about just about everything under the sun. I really do love him.\n\nI am not in love with him, just yet. I do not want to give my emotions up so easily. I do not want to end up falling for someone who I may not end up being compatible with. I felt romantically attracted to one person, before, and it took quite some time to get over that. I am cautious about this guy, and I know he feels romantically attracted to me so I feel a bit guilty that I haven't gotten there yet. He is already invested in the relationship, and I have half a mind to jump ship before it gets too serious. I take it one day at a time, though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On our second date I told her I had Bipolar 2 and she was fine with it. She borrowed a book I had on the disorder that helped her understand. Everything has been fine, but lately I've been in a bad depression. I have lost interest in everything and I really have no desire to be intimate which is really getting to her. Also, im irritable on top of the depression so im constantly lashing out verbally. Im trying to see a psychologist but my insurance doesnt cover it so I have to pay a huge chunk of money every visit. I cant afford it right now. \n\nThroughout this depression Ive had moments of semi-happiness. So when I have those moments and im still not interested in anything or intimate, she takes it as im losing interest in her, Which I AM NOT. I love her dearly.\n\nI can see her slowly becoming mentally drained. I want her in my life, and ive told her that it will pass, which she knows, but her insecurities are getting the best of her. Last night, she told me she cried all the way home, and now she is afraid to come over because she doesnt want to get let down because im not being intimate with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I am relocating to a new apartment in a few weeks and I'm trying to get everything straightened out. The company that is renting out the house I'm currently at is saying that since I'm moving out 'early' there won't be a new lease, and instead I'll be dropping from the current lease and declared 'vacating'.\n\nThat would be fine, since it's all the same to me, but they are asking me to sign a waiver saying the following:\n\n> \"Vacating Tenant agrees to relinquish all rights to any sums which Landlord may be holding on behalf of Vacating Tenant including but not limited to a security deposit, advance rent, any prepaid\n> fees or charges and agrees that nothing is owed to Vacating Tenant by the Landlord or its agent(s).\"\n\nI e-mailed the company and they say that the deposit cannot be withdrawn until everyone moves out.\n\nMy roommates are only living there for 6 more months and they are close friends, so I'm okay with dealing with this when they move out since it's only a few hundred dollars. I'm just worried about potential issues with the state of the house come that time and how much my deposit will be included in damages they do in the coming months.\nGetting the new guy (that's replacing me) to just give me the share of the deposit also doesn't exactly work, since we do not know how much of the deposit would be used in the current state of the house. When I move out it will be 2 years at that house.\n\nWhat should I do in this case?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm 35 and I'm with this 24 year old girl who is as hot as the sun. Like she is reaaally beautiful, always happy/friendly/positive/funny/clever... \n\nShe is amazing and I like her way too much. I'm used to being in relationships where the girl is more addicted to me than I am to her, so this is new for me and I feel like a total emo retard.\n\nDon't get me wrong, she really likes me too, and we have something special going on. But she likes me as a 24 year old teen can like you... with this careless attitude, this lack of initiative and very hard to read way of showing she likes me...\n\nRight now we are separated by the atlantic ocean, for 2 more months. Every 2 day that I don't hear from her, I get in total panik mode and start thinking OH MY GOD it is FUCKED, she met someone else, I lost her. Of course I don't show her any of this, but this is a fucking awful and paralyzing feeling I would like to stop having. I'm used to being pretty independent and having enough stuff in my life going on that I normally wouldn't be like that. But this time, this girl, I just fucking really like her too much and she is under my skin all the time.\n\nSo I write her songs (I'm a music producer) or make her all kind of little surprises, that I know she enjoys a LOT, but other than showing she loves it, never really does the same for me.\n\nMy question is, how could I reach a point in this relationship where I stop worrying that much that imma loose her, and even better, how can I revert the situation to the one I'm used to, where she cares about me even more! Aaaah so comfortable :p I'm joking, I really like her and she can't care about me too much.\n\nThanks. Geeez. I like her so much that I need to dump her xD", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently battling what is pretty sure to be depression although I often like to be in denial and claim to myself I am fine and don't need to keep going to therapy. \nNow I have been shutting people out recently, off Facebook, all triggered by a girl I was talking seriously to for a couple months who just cut me out of her life. I've been struggling to get past this and don't even know why it kills me being such a shirt relationship it makes me feel quite pathetic.\n\nNow I had a hard time opening up to her and letting her in but I decided to take a try. Yet she left me struggling to keep going and see the point in life. \n\nI guess I want to know does anyone else self sabotage relationships? I can talk to a new friend hang out once or twice but suddenly stop, I'll think we won't have a good time or it won't go well being out. And I will just flake on them or make something up not being able to go. \n\nMaybe this I related to how my mom was pretty emotionally abusive, thought she tried killing me, and died suddenly of an OD, and now I have just have what seems to be serious issues of trust. \n\nI just have so many regrets how I have treated others blowing them off and continue to do so. I just can't make myself keep a bond...and it scares me I'll always be alone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was going to the store today, and i just happened to pass by woman who was a little above average in looks, and height, nothing really special about her. I have a habit of making eye contact and smiling to most people I cross paths with just because its nice, and theres no harm in smiling. Anyway, as soon as we made eye contact she immediately her head down, and looked away, but as soon as we passed she put her head back up again and continued as if nothing happened. This has happened to me a lot before, but for some reason today it really struck and bothered me. So Reddit, what is your take on why people do this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO (30 M) and I (23 F) have decided to take a break due to his holding back for months that he was getting depressed. I have had mental issues my entire life that include OCD, Anxiety and Depression so I understand how hard it was to him and where it was coming from. \n\nHe didn't want to lose me from his life, and I didn't want to lose him. We love the hell out of each other.\n\nNeither of us have had a \"break\" before, and we want it to work/be beneficial.\n\nas he said \"I want to look back on this one day with you and agree that it brought us closer and made us stronger\". \n\nSo, we decided that the onus of contact is on him, and he calls me twice a day to talk. We met up today {had the conversation on Friday} because he really wanted to see me. I'll admit i wanted to see him too.\n\nSo those who have been on a break, and it was successful please advise!\n\nWhat were your ground rules, how long was your break, what do you do to make sure its successful?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiance (we've been together 3 years, getting married in November) has been working all day (this is common) and decided to go out for a drink after work (also very common). I'm concerned because last night we went out and on the way home got pulled over and I nearly got a DUI. This really freaked me out and I don't even want a sip of alcohol before driving ever again, yet he decides to go out for \"one beer\" (in quotes cause one beer for him really means 2 or 3)? On Cinco De Mayo nonetheless? Should I be angry about this? We're 27, female-male relationship.", "role": "user" } ]

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