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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I want to breakup with her because me and her are different people kind of in a way\n\n Her home life is harder then most. Her mom struggles financial in result she's usually has more freedom then me but is alone most of the time which makes her depressed,negative towards herself and suicidal. She also smokes its not a occasional smoke or for fun, she uses weed as a crutch to hide her feels which only brings her down more she usually smokes by herself 3-4 times a day.\n\nI am a senior In High school and have now started looking at my life differently basically what I need to do next how I need to stay out of trouble and be grateful of my parents and what I have. One of those things is telling my parents the truth and not doing things behind there back. I feel like she is bring my down instead of allowing me to go forward. I care about her a lot and the last think I want is to hurt herself but like it would be best if we breakup and go or separate ways.She is REALLY emotional and gets really depressed over little things.\n\nAs I'm writing this I feel like what I really mean is I think I can find someone better for me and that I got too deep in a relationship without thinking about it", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am at Oxford University and he is at Edinburgh University. We just almost broke up after two months apart and while we know what went wrong (lack of communication, lack of experience at the distance thing, him being in a bad mental place, etc) and we're more in love now than ever, I would really appreciate some advice of little things we can do for each other while we're apart. I miss him, I talk to him a lot. I know relationships often don't survive this but I think we have a good shot at it, it's been so fantastically easy since I started dating him and we go really well together. We almost never argue, and that's not the 'too scared to confront each other' non-arguing, it's the 'we just tend to be on the same page with shit and can just chat about it' non-arguing. It's just that we're so young and it's difficult and we're always busy, and I want to make sure that if I lose this, it's in the knowledge I did everything I could to keep it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because I haven't admitted this to anyone. and because people see me as a very calm and very chill person. Like to the max. That's what I try to project and that's what I feel that I am 95% of the time. \n\nBut the other 5% of the time I am either in a state of extreme stress and anxiety from bottling up a shit ton of rage, or feeling really fucking great from being able to act out all that energy and just rage. I can count the number of times the latter has happened and I feel completely out of control when it does but also simultaneously high af. \n\nI just realized that this is a serious problem today after an incident with a neighbor and his dog. I won't go into the specifics and I can't even write down my exact thoughts towards him for you to read because they are so heinous. I felt like he was completely in the wrong in a situation that was 100% preventable. As it was happening I could feel that particular kind of anger building and so did not speak a single word to him. I just let him yell. If I had said anything it would have been very bad and could have led to very bad actions. I had zero facial expressions either, basically just a brick. \n\nThis happened a few hours ago all I've been able to do is fixate on what I would have done had there been no consequences. Or what I would like to do the next time I see him. Or what justice should be for someone like him. All compassion I thought I had just goes completely out the window. All really nasty stuff. When this happens these feelings stay with me for weeks. \n\nThis really interrupts my chill and I hate it. I hate that I have these thoughts and this response sometimes, it feels like all the good I thought I was is completely gone. Like I'm wearing layers and layers of makeup but really deep down I'm just a monster.\n\nI think my question is what can I do to not be this way? Sometimes I feel like I even enjoy having this \"dark side\", which is even more sick.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Met this guy a couple of months ago, however at the time, I didn't really want a relationship but decided to go along with it for fun as he was a really nice guy. It's been a rough couple of months for me in my personal life and I haven't felt comfortable sharing things due to my past serious relationship and getting very hurt from it. We were on holiday a couple of weeks ago and everything seemed to be fine, however this week he went to a party and met a girl who he has been messaging. Now he tells me that he doesn't see a future with me. I am at the stage where I honestly could fall in love with him but I feel I need to hold back because of past experiences and I was under the impression he was moving to Germany in a couple of months from the US and this was just a couple of months of fun. I'm not sure how to let him in, I really want to but I see no point if it's not going to work out? Also, his lack of communication whilst we have been dating has been an issue for me as he can go a couple of days with no communication. Any advice if I should dump him or let him in?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated a guy for about 13 or 14 months a little under a year ago (we were 21 and 22 at the time); I broke up with him February of this year. Since then, I have undergone massive personal change, to the point that I almost feel like a completely different person than who I was when I dated him. \n\nThe relationship was very emotional right off the bat, as I was only a month out of a nearly 5 year long abusive relationship. He remains the nicest guy I have met to date, and he helped me and supported me as I went through dealing with my issues left over from the abusive relationship. I was his first real, long term girlfriend. We ended up living together that summer, and also spent three and a half months traveling through Australia with his friend and his friend's sister. During our relationship we talked about children and marriage, and I found myself thinking about looking at rings and him proposing.\n\nI made a lot of promises to him that I shouldn't have, because throughout the entire relationship I always knew in the back of my mind it wouldn't be forever. He would voice his fear that I would leave him during or after our trip to Australia, and I, without hesitation, promised him I wouldn't. I know I absolutely devastated him when I ended the relationship.\n\nNow, in my new place in life, I feel like I owe him an apology. I know I used him as a very drawn-out rebound, reveling in the security and love he provided. I feel like I should own up to the pain I caused him, and I want to wish him well. \n\nIs this a good idea? Should I let sleeping dogs lie? He and his best friend (our travel buddy) only recently deleted me from facebook - up until November we still retained that modicum of contact. Since finding out he deleted me, I've found myself thinking often of the hurt I caused him, and I legitimately hope he is happy now. I have no idea what kind of person he is now and I haven't seen him since the break up, so I don't know how any contact from me would be received.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have one that stands out from all of the rest.\nI was 13; Me and 2 friends were at a minor league baseball game in the mediocre city of Columbia, SC. It was a diabetes benefit game that had rides and games set up out in an open area by left field, which included a bouncey-house thing and an enormous inflatable water slide contraption. At around half time, me and my dickhead friends decided it would be hilarious if we unplugged the bouncey-house while nobody was looking. Nobody was remotely near it so we figured it would just a quick laugh and nothing dangerous. My friend J pulled the plug out from a power strip on the ground, and we waited for about 5 minutes for something to happen, but nothing did. We were just turning to get back to our seats when literally hundreds of parents started screaming and running to the giant waterslide behind us. It had tipped over on its side and about 30 small children were clinging to the side as it deflated on top of them. Terrified, we fled the stadium and sat outside. A firetruck and 2 police cars showed up, so we ran and hid in the woods behind the parking lot. An hour later, we returned to the stadium and learned that everyone was okay. I laughed for so long and so hard that I was sore for days after.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Put as simply as possible: is it wrong of me to choose to sit with my group of 7 friends (who are all guys) at lunch and not wanting my girlfriend of 2.5 months sitting with me? \nTypical high school relationship problems, yes I get it. But I can't shake this feeling that I was a dick. I love my friends, I've known them since I was like 7 and they helped me through a lot, and we hang out more as a closed kinda group. So I asked one of them privately and he said it would be awkward for all of us, us being the other 6 guys. \nThen I looked at how she would feel; I never introduced her to them before, and what if we broke up during the semester? Awkward as hell right? I always try to put my best friends first, but at the same time I hate making people upset, especially her. (And I wanna stress that I hate making people upset. Deeper problem that doesn't belong in this subreddit.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a recent graduate with a focus in media development. Something that's very hard to find where I am currently. I have always known that I would have to move to California eventually, in fact I've been excited for it. \n\nI moved back home with my mom and Step-dad while I looked for work, but nothing has really panned out the way I had hoped. The main reasons being that I lack hand-on experience in my field (which, like I said is hard to find here) and I'm far away from where the jobs are that I'm applying for, which makes it harder for them to hire me (according to recruiters). This makes my main issues location and experience, but since I haven't been able to find anything that can resolve my experience issue.. I need to resolve the location issue. \n\nOn to the main event: I informed my mom (about a week ago) that I was thinking about moving to LA using the money I have saved up and I should be able to get a job in retail (2.5 years experience in a nationwide company. I'm looking into contacting the location managers about openings). The first and immediate words out of her mouth were \"that's the stupidest idea I've ever heard.\"\n\nMy mom is very black-and-white. If she doesn't understand something she doesn't like it. In the past she has called my psychological research (which spanned 3 universities) childish and that she never thought I'd graduate my university and it was a mistake for me to go. \n\nOn the other side of things, the rest of my family (that I have told my plans to so far) all seem very supportive. \n\nI still live with my mom for the time being (I plan to move at the end of next month). So I don't want the last weeks before I leave to be a constant shit show about me making a big mistake or something, but I also don't want to be backing my car out with all my stuff and say \"btw I'm leaving to move across the country\". \n\nWhat do I do, oh wise Reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been very emotionally unstable the entire time we've been with each other. I think about him all the time, but it's gotten to such an extreme I have to retake classes because my work suffered so much from it. When he doesn't text me back I burst out crying. Im so afraid to lose him, the fear is paralyzing. \n\nHe is in love with me, and he wants to be with me and me to trust him. \n\nI'm not usually like this, and I try to hide it from him as much as possible (i'm afraid I might scare him away if he sees how obsessed I have become), but it's ruining my life. I overeat because I feel stressed. I can't concentrate on anything. I can't sleep. Nothing feels important but him. I am very aware how unhealthy this is, and I'm really embarrassed this is happening to me. \n\nI'm constantly afraid and waiting for my heart to be broken, I can't function. Should I just end this, so the insecurity is gone and I can get over this whole ordeal and get my life back?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys, so I know this girl in my university and I kinda like her. I had randomly started talking to her while doing homework in the library, and then met her again like a semester later. We talked for a few hours and I helped her do her homework (she just needed some info and pics off Google). I learned she is into soccer and asked her if she wanted to join me later that evening. I gave her my number, but she never called back. This was like a month or so ago. A week ago she shows up out of the blue and says, \"hey sup?\" to me and we chat a bit, and then I walk away. Later that night I meet her again in the library and we have a small chat before we start doing our homework. A few hours pass by and I was really wanting to talk to her, but I didn't want to be a bugger cuz she never called me back earlier. Anyway, I approach her and ask her hows she doing. She replies with her back facing me and never turns around. I felt like a d'bag and I walked away the moment she finished. I didn't talk to her for a while, but I did say bye to her later to which she turned around with a smile and greeted me good night and all the usual stuff very sweetly. This really confused me! Now yesterday I see her again in the library, and she notices me walk in - she kinda had the smile hiding face or whatever you call it. IDK if it was cuz she thinks of me as a library-creeper or she was in a fix whether to say hey or not cuz she didn't. I simply ignored her and found my way to a seat away from her.\n\nNow, I do not want to hurt my self-respect anymore, but she is really pretty and I really want to know her more. I am not sure if she is playing hard to get or not interested as she has mixed emotions towards me. What would you do, Reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend of a little over a year and I have been getting into such tiny arguements lately, but they turn into such war between us. Today, we had a great day, went to the sports bar to watch the games, held hands downtown, and then I made a comment of how her breasts needed to be put away and she gets extremely offended, saying it isn't my place to comment on her body. There is a lot of stress surrounding us both but she keeps making a big deal out of little things and it makes her want to break up with me. I really love her with all of my heart but I think I'm losing her with all these petty arguements. I'm tired of feeling like shit for making her cry, I'm tired of making her curse at me but I really don't know what I can and can't say to her at this point. She always wants me to be myself with her and never change, but she acts like I am making her life a living hell.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "By my first girlfriend I am talking about my first, longterm relationship (If you can call 40 days long).\n\nBasicly, we broke up because I was an idiot. We dated last year when I was 18 and started socializing for the first time and man.. I was a complete idiot to people. I never had any interaction with a friend group and I found myself as a part of this big cosplay society, I had tons of friends, a nice girlfriend, really cool people to hangout with and then.. I became a real jackass, a real idiot. My girlfriend broke up with me, my friends stopped talking with me and everyone started to hate me, I was talking shit about them for no reason, acting like an idiot. After like 6 months, I improved myself massively, I am friends again with everyone once more, even better than before, I am the guy people talks when they have questions about many things ranging from comics books to science. I am now a better and more civilized person.\n\nAnd now, I want my girlfriend back, I dated a lot of girls after her but never been happy with any of them like I was with my first girlfriend. Now that I am a better person, I think I can have her back. But I don't know if I really want her back. I was happy with her but that doesn't mean I was never sad. She is an artist but not the most talented one, she can't draw very well even though she has art training. But she blamed ME when she couldn't enter an art school, just because I called her at 10 to wish her luck and turns out she went bed early and said \"You woke me up so I couldn't sleep, that's why I failed.\" and that really broke my heart. But in time, she became a better person just like I did. She is hard working, drawing better, doing lots of stuff.\n\nI can win her back I guess, but I am still not sure, I am also planning to study hard and leave this country to live in a better one.\n\nWhat do you suggest? Try my chance or don't even bother for something that already failed?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing a guy for about five weeks now, and I have no idea what's going on.\n\nWe met through a mutual friend, and he asked me out about an hour after I broke up with the last guy I was seeing (we were out with a group, he asked me how things were going with the bf, I said I was going to break up with him in the next few minutes, guy fb messages me a little while later to ask if I wanna grab drinks a few days later).\n\nWe have a great first date: a few drinks and lots of talking followed by a movie at his place and making out.\n\nA few days later, I ask him if he wants to do something the following Saturday, and he says, \"Oh, uh, I'll let you know,\" and he did actually let me know that he was busy that weekend.\n\nA week after that, we out with friends, and he invites me back to his place for sexy-times (which was amazing, btw).\n\nTwo days later, he invites me over again, and I tell him that I'm not okay being just a hookup. He says we should just be friends.\n\nThe following Monday, I decide that I'll be a great friend in a short, tight dress. Sexy-times ensue.\n\nTwo days later, he invites me out on something I think was a date. He paid, so I'm gonna assume it was.\n\nNext Monday's friend-outing leads to sex again.\n\nLast Thursday, we go to a group event, and he invites me over afterwards. I tell him I'm instigating a 1:2 ratio of dates:sex, so I won't go home with him.\n\nFinally, tonight, I was supposed to see him at a thing with friends, but my car was acting up. I told him that, hoping that he would volunteer to give me a ride; he did not, just said sorry about my car.\n\nI really like this guy, but it seems like mixed signals all over the place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've screwed up. \n\nI've been going out with her about a year and we have lived together about 6 months.\n\nI've told my girlfriend a few times that I would be home by a certain time on nights out by myself and for various reasons ended up being home much later.\n\nIt's happened a few times now and each time she gets more and more angry. \n\nThe first time I just stayed out because I was really drunk and I forgot what I'd told her. When I came home she was really upset and after a few days we made up and I promised to not let it happen again.\n\nThen a few nights ago I went out on my own, told her I'd be home by 1am.\n\nShe was skeptical but I was adamant that she could trust me and I wouldn't do what I did last time.\n\nBut I ended up getting lost, couldn't find the right bus (we're very low on money), then had to wait over an hour for a cab, and ended up getting home at 4am.\n\nNow she says she'll never believe a promise I make etc and she thinks I just went out to a club and didn't give a shit about her etc.\n\nI can't prove that I couldn't get home and I can see why it looks like what she thinks (that I just said fuck it and went out till 4am and took a cab home), even though I know it's not true.\n\nShe's now not talking to me, and last time she was this upset we almost broke up.\n\nHow can I fix this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex recently broke up this last week, we had been dating for 9months. I don't agree with the break up, but she doesn't think we have what it takes to be a long lasting relationship. In her opinion we are close and good friends, but not great friends. And we should end it now, instead of wasting time and breaking up eventually. \n\nThe problem is, I'm a team leader at our work and am technically one of her bosses. We work at a call center and she will sit and talk with coworkers when they should not be. They will sit in queues that prevent calls from coming in, or miss calls and not log back in. I don't know how to tell them to stop messing around at work without it seeming like I'm targeting her out of spite. I actively walk around and keep the other employees focused and working as well. But i feel like she thinks I'm being strict on her due to the break up or jealousy. \n\nAt this point I almost feel like I have to let her get away with stuff, so that she doesn't go to upper management and say I'm targeting her specifically.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am finishing up the last week of fall quarter of my second year as an undergrad. I am in a long distance relationship, eight hours apart. The college I attend was my first choice for college, though I never had any real reason to want to attend, I just wanted to. My boyfriend's college is also his first choice. I was accepted into both. They are both fantastic colleges, his even being ranked higher than mine. However, when after talking it over, we decided that me moving away for college, the college I originally wanted to attend would be the best option. I was to go to his school, and we were to break up, I would feel silly choosing a college over a boy, he would feel guilty for allowing me to make that choice, and overall we would feel awful. So we decided on doing the long distance thing.\n\nWe have been going out for over three and a half years, and the last year has been difficult. But we have survived and are even better than before. Our relationship seems solid. We do have issues, and they are often exacerbated by the long distance, but we trudge on. However, through it all, I feel so guilty for putting our relationship through this. It seems as though this is a relationship that will last, and it would make life ten times easier if we had been in the same school. He always blames me for the problems we have, because I chose to move away. I dont really know how to deal with it. How can I help him move past the decision, and on to fixing the problems that do arise instead of blaming me for my collegiate decision?\n\nSorry for the long post. It just keeps getting difficult.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been seeing this guy for 2 months, met organically at a friend's event. \n\nHe's been absolutely wonderful, but I know he went through a really tough break up a year ago and I'm the first person he's dated since. While he texts me all the time and is always asking me to go on dates/go do things/plus now we have sex, he's never said anything that actually implies that he likes me. He told me I looked pretty once. He almost always pays despite my protests, and has invited me to meet some friends, and to events where his coworkers are. He did not introduce me to said coworkers. I hate that I am overthinking this. I need to just ask. Also, I am aware that I qualify as a emotionally higher maintenance person who likes compliments and confirmation that someone is into me. \n\nBasically what I am wanting to ask him is if he's even looking for a relationship, not necessarily if he knows whether or not he wants one with me now. But for whatever reason I can't figure out how to ask. Like, do I do it when we're just watching Wheel of Fortune? or in the middle of a date? on the phone? I'm afraid of coming across as clingy or jumping the gun. But I am looking for a LTR with someone and if that's not even on his radar at all at this point in his life then I'm going to cut bait and keep looking. \n\nSo any tips for me? How did you guys do this yourselves? Sometimes I feel like his lack of certain types of attention clue that he is not, but in other ways clue that he is. I need to ask.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in my final year of university, and have been planning my next move now that this phase of my life is coming to a close. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We met and began dating in the city where I currently live, and 6 months ago he relocated to a city about 2 hours away for a job. We decided to give the LDR a try, and we've made it work. We have discussed in depth the concept of me moving in with him and looking for a job in his area when I finish school. His area has many job opportunities in my field, and we are both certain that this is a positive move for both of us.\n\nMy mother is convinced that I need to move back home to quickly pay down my student debt (which will be less than $10k). I see her point, and initially agreed - we had this conversation while my boyfriend and I were in an argument, which was a result of the distance, and has since been resolved. Currently, my mom thinks I am 100% moving back with her and my dad [53M].\n\nI don't have a strained relationship with my mom, but our relationship certainly improved when I moved out to go to school. When I do visit my parents, I spend the most time with my brother [17M], who will be moving out to go to school in the fall. I don't think my dad has an opinion of where I go, so long as I am happy.\n\nMy mind is made up about where I want to go - I have given it a lot of thought and after weighing my options, my boyfriend and I decided that we want to move in together. I'm afraid that when I tell my mom what I've decided, she will be hurt and object. I've never had to approach such a topic with her before, and am unsure how to proceed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My little brother is 8 years old. I have always taught him to ask me any questions and that I'd promise to always answer to the best of my ability with no consequent.\n\nSo there we were, shopping in the mall when he randomly asked me \"What does prostituted mean?\". I was taken aback since I know what type of books and videos he watches, so I wouldn't expect him to hear this word. But nonetheless, I begin to explain to him what 'prostituted' and 'prostitution' mean.\n\nI start to explain to him that people really love sex and what 'sex' actually is. I continue to expound that some people love sex a lot but don't have girlfriends/boyfriends/SO/etc to have sex with. Therefore, there are people who offer themselves in return for money or other favors for sex in return. And therefore, they're prostituting themselves.\n\nHe has a dumbfounded look on his face after... He then asked me Why would people be \"prostituted\" to the fullest extent of the law for stealing then. I then notice the sign across from us stating 'you will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law for theft'.\n\nI lose my cool here. I yell at my brother \"YOU LITTLE SHIET, ITS PROSECUTED, NOT PROSTITUTED. LEARN TO READ DIPSHEIT!\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To start, I love my wife and want her to be happy, but I am not. We have a son, who is honestly the reason we got married, that we both love dearly. We were living together for two years before we married, but at the time I was dealing with real self confidence issues.\n\nWhen we got together I was barely making 40k a year, which is pretty respectable in hindsight for a mid-20's single Midwesterner. However I poured myself into my studies and work and now have a master's and make over three times that.\n\nThe issue I have with our relationship is while I am driven and always looking for something new to learn, she is the opposite of that. I've attempted several times over the years to get her back to school (she dropped out before she met me) or to get a job (hasn't had once since being with me), or to get involved in the community, she refuses. She says she has no interest in those things. She is constantly asking and dreaming of travel, new places to eat, and constantly fills our families weekends with so many activities I don't have time to do the chores she hasn't done.\n\nTo make matters worse, she really has no interest in sex since our son was born. She's so afraid of another child that it's destroyed her libido. I've tried to talk to her, ask her what she wants, what would make her comfortable, but all I ever get is \"I'm just not interested anymore\".\n\nI'm not perfect, I try to be patient with all of this, but I do end up angry because I feel resentful of how relatively easy she has life compared to the hours and sacrifice I put in to provide everything.\n\nSo the question is this: Am I really a horrible person for wanting to get a divorce?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a boyfriend of.. I want to say maybe 3 months now. Relatively recently (within the past month or so) he introduced me to one of his closest friends. He's a man who's been in a relationship with a woman for the past 8 years. Within the time we've been introduced up until today, I've become fast friends with him, enough of one to the point where we have each others' phone numbers and IDs for various gaming stuff.\n\nFrom my past experience, and I realize it might be different for others depending on the situation, it's usually good to get along with your SO's friends, but I've never had someone like that send me so many messages throughout the day and want to do stuff with me. Moreso than my SO. Text messages all the time, game invites after work.. I just don't know what to think of it. His girlfriend also does these things, but it seems like he's excluding her almost every night. There's nothing sexual at all exchanged in the messages, but he does have a tendency to bring up a ton of inside jokes. Should I be worried?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last week BF (of 2 years) and I were on a few days of holiday in another country and talked about having a threesome there. We've always been keen on trying that and this was a good opportunity since we could have just had it with someone and never meet them again.\n\nSo we went into a night club near our hotel and kind of found our guy. A cute early 20s guy. The three of us had some drinks together and we got to business after that. It was a lot of fun. We also had sex again in the middle of the night. The guy left early in the morning and it was us again. I thought we both enjoyed it as it certainly seemed like it that night. In the morning I told him that next time we will bring a girl and he was totally for it.\n\nSo today he told me that he's been thinking about that and he can't get the images that he saw out of his mind, the images of me giving another guy a blowjob and another guy having sex with me. He added that he also feels like he's not enough for me since that night I could handle two guys, and that he's generally not good enough in sex (that night he lasted long but the other guy lasted longer so there was a period when my boyfriend was watching the two of us keep going when he had just finished. During the middle of the night sex the same thing happened). I tried to the best of my abilities to reassure him that he's excellent in bed and I couldn't be more satisfied with him sexually but they all seemed to not make a difference.\n\nWe're both at work now and I want to make sure I say the right things tonight at home to make him feel better and help him overcome these feelings. Any suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone!\n\nMy name's Guillaume (don't even try to pronounce it you english-speakers), I'm an 18 french homeschooled student from Lyon, France.\nAnd I'd need some advice about how to get into Ivy League schools.\n\nI have kind of an impetuous background: I was an excellent student, however I dropped school at 15, and then lived for one year in a host family. Now I'm getting back to studies, taking three college-level classes in english (Economics, Maths and PoliSci), studying on my own, practicing billard, looking for a half-time job, doing theatre and soon™ music... Anyway.\n\nEven if my preparation is a total over-kill for a simple high-school diploma, I'd really like to get into Yale or Columbia after I graduate, mostly because of the college life and experience I'm looking for, as well as the high-quality education. However, I only have a vague idea about what is expected to get in - I know that 4.0 GPA and triple 800s at the SAT is pretty kewl to have, also having a nice extracurricular background, but that's pretty much all I know about the admission process right now.\n\nSo, we get to the", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: She's been married for a few years. It was an arranged marriage. She has a kid. She was already a US citizen and her husband wasn't. He has citizenship now. I don't know her husband, but I've met him once and I usually follow my instinct when I meet people because it's never been wrong. I didn't like this guy. \n\nProblem according to my coworker: This guy flirts with other girls constantly on Facebook. He talks to girls back in India and random girls on Facebook. He did most of this behind her back. When she found out, she was crushed, but gave him a chance to fix it. One year later he hasn't stopped and made multiple accounts. She read over these messages when she gets on the computer. \n\nShe kept giving him a chance over and over because she loves him. She talked to his parents and her parents because it's customary in their culture. Her parents were disgusted by his behavior. His parents said, \"well, he hasn't done anything yet so what's the problem?\" \n\nShe says that he used her to get citizenship so he can move his family here. She even signed the papers this year to get them a green card. She says she doesn't know what to do anymore. \n\nMy opinion: She should just divorce the guy. He makes her feel like shit all of the time. He's cheating on her on an emotional level. He obviously has zero respect for her. She's financially stable by herself. She has resources to take care of her kid. \n\nCurrent situation: She keeps asking me what she should do. I don't know if I should say what I feel. Her siblings and parents hold the same opinion as me. I don't understand why someone should even think about staying with someone like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I have been friends for many years and just started \"dating\" a few months ago. Now that we're together I'm realizing how many other guy friends she has. I mean, it's ridiculous, I think she has like 3 close friends that are girls. It seems to me like she treats them the same as she treats me. It's to the point where we'll be hanging out and she'll get a call from a guy and go talk to him for half an hour on the phone. At lunch today she was asleep on the table (she didn't sleep well last night) and the guy on the other side of her decided to grab her and start tickling her right in front of me, and she just laughed as if that were totally normal. Now, I have a good friend (female) and my girlfriend doesn't like her cuz she's kind of a bitch, and a whore, and I honestly can't really disagree. So, I stopped talking to her, and basically all girls in general, because I know how it feels to me when she does that kinda stuff. It's really starting to get to me now. So here's my question: Am I in the wrong for thinking other guys should back off? I've been cheated on before by a girl and it killed me inside. I trust her enough to know that she wouldn't cheat, but I don't trust other guys as much. Am I being too protective?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "my boyfriend and i have been talking about marriage. i want to have a kid, a family, a partner in life. i think he'd make a great father and husband. objectively i know he's a very good looking fellow who loves me very much. he's not perfect but he's really really great. i've always thought of him as a treasure. \n\nso i'm not sure what my problem is and why, when i think of marrying him, i feel a bit nauseous and scared.\n\nis marriage just not for me?\n\nshould i tell him how i've been feeling? \n\nif i can just resolve these issues without him being troubled i'd like to spare him the suffering.\n\ni'd really appreciate any thoughts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys! So I've been dating this wonderful girl for a while now; we both go to college together. The semester ends on May 16th. However, she is transferring in the fall and we both start summer courses on the 21st at different schools, so I want to treat her to something really special before we start that business.\n\nWe currently go to school in Ulster County, NY.\n\nShe's really into the outdoors and music. I wanted to take her to a music festival, but thats just a bit too rich for my blood. It would be cool to take her hiking/camping somewhere, or do something similar, and maybe a show somewhere in there. But I'm just testing the waters to see exactly what $250-$300 can get me, because I'm sure travel expenses/camping won't cost that much, especially if I'm going somewhere in the tri-state area.\n\nI know that this is incredibly generic, but if there any other suggestions of what to do with the remaining money, that would be much appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [23m] met her [21f] through tinder, and we grabbed coffee about a week and a half ago. We hit it off really, really well - the kind of immediate 'clicking' I haven't really experienced since high school - and we've hung out FOUR times since then.\n\nWe've talked a bit about where this is heading, and we're on the same page - it's kind of unspokenly exclusive already, with the definite expectation of dating for a while. We had talked about waiting on sleeping together for a couple weeks, but I saw her today and it just sort of happened. There's just a level of chemistry here I'm frankly not used to at all.\n\nI guess my concern is that if things are getting good so fast, will they fade away just as quickly? Should I be pacing out seeing her so often? We have plans on Monday again already, but after that we won't see each other for a couple weeks - I'm heading out of state, and then she is too the day I get back. In the early stages of dating, is seeing someone this often a bad thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated this girl and it was amazing. She was diagnosed with an apathy disorder earlier this year and...We broke up due to her wanting me not to be troubled with her mental disorder. I said to her that it won't bother me but she really wanted it as she wanted to focus on her studies and because this may be my last year she said she thought hard about it and wanted to break up.\n\n2 Months later we talked about it and I asked her questions. She said she still had feelings for me and that over time it will go away. I confessed and told my feelings. I just wanted to know. I told her I won't bother her about it anymore but...I just can't bare to see the feelings go away over time as it is painful...\n\nI want to get back with her but I have this conflicting feeling of not doing it due to what she said of how she does not want to. Should I atleast tell her how I feel about all this? Right now we are good friends and we enjoy each others company, but due to this complicated scenario I just can't stand the thought of us breaking up not due to incompatibility but due to how she decided that I can't handle her mental disorder.\n\nI would love some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have two female cats that live inside the house and never go outside. Yesterday night one of them allegedly flew through a window, and we noticed it few minutes/hours later.\n\nI found her wandering in the garden, all wet and dirty. I guess she fell to the pool, as we have a dog outside and maybe scared her and ran away.\n\nThe thing is, once inside home again, the other cat (btw they are sisters and been always together) seems to no longer recognize her, and starts doing a sound like growling after smelling her.\n\nIt could be just because she still smells different and it will pass or could be something else?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So ive got a friend who is fat. Lets call him Mike. Me and a mutual friend make fun of this and often joke about him being gay with a second. We do this because we know hes ok with it and can take a joke. One time i took it too far and kept ripping into him and he took it badly. This was entirely my fault. He ended up bitching to my female friend, Jennifer (who i introduced him to) about how much of a horrible person i am. She started ignoring me and treating me like i had just drowned a million puppies. I got in an argument with her basically telling her to fuck off out of my business if shes got no stake in it, and then decided to threaten to show her boyfriend a screenshot she sent me basically saying she doesnt really want to be with him. She use the 'lol dont care' card for a bit and, although i considered it, i didnt show her boyfriend the message. I have a pretty shitty relationship with her and we both pretty much hate eachother 99% of the time. Mikes acting like it never happened and doesnt care, but Jennifers being a total bitch about it. What do i do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday I went out to eat with one of my female friends( ill call her Andrea)from school(we go out to eat often) we talked about relationships and she said how she thinks highschool relationships are stupid and pointless she said she would much rather prefer a Fuckbuddy and we discussed highschool relationships from a third person perspective amd FWB relationships.\n\n When I took her home she asked,me if I was a virgin and unfortunately I told the truth which was that I was.She disclosed that she wasn't a virgin by this time I was already at her car and we departed. Should I follow up? I like her a little bit but not enough to ruin a FWB relationship? Sorry if this is,the wrong thread.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me begin by saying I would absolutely marry this girl. I know that life happens and nothing is written in stone, and we've got a lot to work through before we get to that point. But I still feel that we work incredibly well together. Now for some backstory: for the last few weeks she's been getting more and more depressed. We go to the same school for theatre and are in all the same classes so I know exactly what she's going through. Its a lot of emotionally taxing and time consuming work and I think she feels like she doesn't have any independance or time to herself. This last week was our one year anniversary, and since then she has cried every day because we have been fighting. I think that taking a break is a good idea. But my biggest fear is that she'll realize that she is happier without me. I know she loves me so much, and she has also expressed interest in marrying me one day. Here's the kicker in all of this: like I mentioned before, we have almost all of our classes together, every day. How can I give her space, and how should I act? How should I cope for myself?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the original post \n\nSo I called her this morning, just to see what was going on. I texted her last night and no response. A mutal friend did text me asking how I was doing and he let me know that she didn't end up going to the party at all. Didn't bother asking her what she did last night.\n\nWe talked for about a hour on the phone and I emphasise that I never accused her of anything and just sharing my feelings. She wasn't that understanding but knew were I was coming from. From her, \" I don't know if I still want to do this ,but we can keep going I guess\" that's all I got from her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been \"official\" for three months, dating for five months. He is still friends with his most recent and \"big\" ex. I have hung out with her at a couple of parties and we even had dinner together just the two of us a couple weeks ago to get to know each other better. She has been really nice to me and told me she is happy that he found me, wants us to be friends, etc, etc. Both of them have assured me that there are no residual feelings and I have no reason to doubt them- that isn't the issue here. \n\nThe issue is that I feel insecure with all of the history/interest that they share that he and I don't share. For example, they dated for 2 years, traveled internationally together, have the same friend group, have a lot of the same interests like mountain biking, going to music festivals (e.g. Bonnaroo), and they are even working together on some local events (e.g. planning a TEDx). \n\nHe and I get a long really well, communicate well, and have even done a 6 day trip to the Mexican jungle together, but I can't help but feel intimidated by all the aspects that they share that he and I don't. It makes me feel kind of like the odd man out? For instance this summer they will probably go (with other people) on mountain biking trips- something I am just not into. I hesitate to bring this up to him, because there isn't really anything he can \"do\" about it. \n\nSo, how do I stop feeling insecure about this and start feeling better?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I became really depressed, bitter, and selfish in my relationship. Work drove me up the wall and I was not fun to live with. That's the preface, long-story-short.\n\nShe told me one night that she needed a break. She moved out, I found a new place, and I've given her time and space.\n\nI told her that I would give her the time and space she needed, but I also said that I wanted to fight for us. In the three months I've had, I have done a lot of soul-searching. I have taken ownership of my faults. I have made changes in my life to move forward in a healthy manner. But at every turn, I can only think of her. Every single morning, when I wake up alone... part of me dies all over again. I'm usually a fairly strong person, but this is crippling me.\n\nWhen I originally asked her if she was done with me... with us, I was met with \"I can't answer that right now.\"\n\nI received the security deposit check from our previous landlord and we're meeting this Friday to cash that and have a talk.\n\nWe agreed that putting a timeline on talking was a bad idea, but I feel like I need to know. She offered to bring our dog so we could see each other, but I can't help but think that this won't end well for me.\n\nI think that I've been made to feel complacent until she figures out her life.\n\nI'm in love. I miss her to death. I lead my day-to-day life, actually feeling like the best part of it is gone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to make this as short as possible. \n\nWe had been seeing each other for about a month when I impulsively decided that we should stop (I had my reasons, there were a few red flags but instead of talking to him about them I just assumed I was right and so I broke it off). When he agreed with me and told me he saw signs of jealousy with me, I got ticked and blew up on him. Blew up meaning, I went absolutely nuts. For no reason! I am still trying to figure out why I can't hold onto my emotions when it comes to stuff like this.\n\nAnyways, we got into a fight and it ended badly. This was about a month ago. He called me the other night, tipsy. I eventually answered after the third call, and we talked for about thirty minutes. I told him I was sorry for the way I acted and that I do realize that it was absolutely crazy and irrational. He said he wants to give it another shot, and I told him I would think about it and get back to him. I did a few days later and told him I'm willing to talk to him face to face and see what happens. Alls he said was \"okay.\" \n\nI had feelings for him and we get along really well. If I had communicated my feelings properly, none of this would have happened. I am still learning to express my emotions in a healthy manner. My question is, should I give it another shot with him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm kind of at my wits end here. \n\nMy parents never disciplined my brother growing up. My father always thought it was \"adorable\" how he always tried to control everyone and my Mother never intervened\n\nNow my brother is a 31 year old man and is a complete psychopath. He tries to control everyone by doing shit like moving things around the house to \"force (usually me) to get exercise\" or to \"take responsibility\" for shit, when there's nothing to have responsibility for. \n\nBoth him and I are disabled and I have literally no place else to go. I'm physically disabled and my parents are my IHSS workers, but they let my brother who is I guess you can say \"more normal\" that me, run rampart and do whatever he wants. \n\nA few years ago my brother started popping pills and has become worse with anger; acting more crazy than he already was, but now he has this notion that he's gonna be president next year (I've posted about this before) and thinks people are constantly after him wanting him dead\n\nPretty much I don't feel safe in my house anymore and my parents refuse to do anything about it or do anything about him. I've asked them and told them it's not Fair to me because I have no where else to go, and as my IHSS workers and Parents, they should make my place of living as safe as possible. \n\nI don't know what else to do. I don't want to contact IHSS and tell them my parents aren't making my living situation a safe environment but at the same time, I can't live like this much longer from someone who thinks I need to learn life lessons on a daily basis", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like the title says I am a 22f and newly into the dating scene! I am a serial monogamist and I really don't want to be. My last relationship lasted a year and we broke up in November. I feel like I am in a place in my life were I am super busy and not looking to work too hard on a relationship. Don't get me wrong I love to nurture my relationships with my friends but I don't have the energy to deal with romantic relationship problems and heart break. I had a really rough year last year, didn't get into any specialty programs, parents divorced, my dog passed away and my dad got a new girlfriend. Oh and at the end of the year a very painful breakup (loved him dearly, just not compatible in very important was) so basically I'm just looking to be happy and working on being happy.\n\nRight now I am loving my hobby (pole dancing!), working full time and finishing my degree part time. This doesn't really open me up to many opportunities to meet guys. I've been going to meetups every once and awhile but for the event not really for meeting people. \n\nSo reddit, how in the hell do I meet guys without online dating (freaks me out) and without getting into a LTR? I guess also how do I flirt? I'm not super awkward, I am actually pretty outgoing. I am just not really forward or flirty unless the guy is being ultra flirty then I can catch on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My cousin is dating this over possessive guy, my cousin also lives on the other side of the world from me. We get along pretty good. \n\nWell one day I'm browsing through FB and she has a post that says \"Tell your girl first thing in the morning 'good morning beautiful' and it will make her day so much better\"\n\nSo I comment \"Good morning beautiful\" knowing she'll see when she wakes up and went on with my life.\n\n2 hrs later I get a comment \"Stop hitting on my girl or I'm going destroy you!\" it was from John\n\nI replied \"Excuse me? Who are you?\"\n\nHe responded \"I'm her man, and you need to back off she's taken\"\n\nI'm finding this funny and respond with a laugh\n\nHe responded again \"Stay away or else\"\n\nI think this is funny\n\nHere is the great thing, my cousin reads this and goes \"John, thats my cousin, clam down\"\n\nJohn replies \"Stop lying to me\"\n\nTo which she responds \"Alright, we are done\"\n\nAnd thats how John got dumped.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I am from India and having an older girlfriend is a bit of a taboo. When my parents found out they were upset...and that is an understatement. The relationship was only 7 months old, but we were serious even then. Things cooled down, and now my parents are okay. \n\nI met her mom by accident at her house when I was visiting. She talked about her concern for her daughter. How she wants her daughter to be married soon, and that I should do it within a year if I want to be with her. I had already told my gf that it wasn't going to happen before 2-3 years as I want to establish myself a little financially before I take the plunge. She seemed to understand. She's been okay with the idea. \n\nHowever she has been unsatisfied on the work front for a few months now. I too suffered from depression about 4 months ago and am still recovering. She's going to quit her job after July next year and explore different jobs for a year. She has saved up enough to do that. I fully approve of her plan since I myself will be exploring different avenues next year. \n\nShe's gone through a strange turn of attitude towards the relationship of late though. She wants to get married next year or early 2016. She says that this is non-negotiable. I don't want to be married this soon. I feel I need to work a little more since I only graduated in 2013. I feel I haven't worked enough, not been on my own enough. \n\nShe had gone through a break up after a 4.5 year long relationship with her ex. 4 months before she was to get married, the guy who always knew she had diabetes told his parents and they immediately cancelled the wedding. She didn't take it well, and has become extremely insecure. That's the theme of our relationship too. She's been very insecure when I've constantly tried to reassure her that I'm serious. \n\nI don't want to get married next year but nor do I want to give up on this relationship. Please advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My jealousy is starting to become a problem in this relationship. Actually, it has always been. Last year, a boy my girlfriend was friends with had kept walking her to class, writing her cute notes (something boyfriends do) and asking her if she's sure about being with me. I threatened to break up with her if she never stopped talking to this guy, because he was obviously trying to make a move. Now that she's in college, she's hanging out with more guys! 75% of her friends are guys, always hanging out with her, and after the \"friend\" she had last year, I can't stop being jealous or mad about her friends. The social media part about this, guys put heart eyes on her photos on instagram, and I tell them to back the fuck up, and my girlfriend gets mad at me for confronting them! \"You don't know what they meant by them, it doesn't mean they're flirting with me.\" I understand that she is right, she doesn't respond back but she obviously likes the attention she gets. My jealousy is also fueled by my friend group. My friends have dated my exes, I've been apart of closed door conversations about how some of my friends want to fuck my other friend's ex, visa versa. I would never do that to my friends, and in my world, most guys in college or highschool just want to take my girlfriend if they hang out with her. Or want to fuck her. She has already encountered a guy trying to flirt, and she gave him her number just to talk when we were arguing and on a break from our relationship. I have influenced her as well to be jealous with how i act with my anger and jealousy, but a big break up caused her to stop being clingy. Now i'm stuck being mad and jealous towards guys around her, and now I feel overprotective.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, /r/relationships.\n\nI had a falling out with a friend and business partner, call him John, who I've known for almost a decade. He was controlling, condescending, manipulative, and unfair. When I told him that I didn't appreciate the fact that he naturally assumed a position of power and belittled me, he didn't respond saying that he didn't do those things. Instead, he threw a temper tantrum and asked me why things ought to be fair. I disappeared shortly after. I did nothing wrong to him, I just didn't care to play his games any longer and decided to finally stick up for myself and part ways. I have nothing but contempt for this sorry excuse of a human being.\n\nWe have a lot of the same friends. On one occasion, I asked a friend if I could play a gig. He contacted John behind my back, he told him \"I wouldn't work with Red Cloak,\" and I never heard from that friend again. I know this because John told me. He has also spoken to managers about me which has affected my employment and cost me money.\n\nJust recently, I was talking to a girl [27 F]. We were communicating for a couple of weeks (she lives out of town). She's good friends with John but didn't know we had a falling out. One day, everything about her changed. She brought texting to a halt, stopped returning my calls, and acted very detached. I asked her why and she gave me the whole \"I've just been busy\" routine. I have good reason to believe that she asked John about me, because they still talk/hang out, and he told her to stay away from me. \n\nI don't know what to do about him. I'm not going to apologize for ditching someone who was doing me a great deal of psychological damage. I thought it would be over but I guess he's still looking for blood. What can I do? My anger is tearing me apart.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been best friends with my GF for 8 years prior to us getting together, we have been unofficial for roughly 6 months and started properly dating a month ago. However we both see that time as being together. It's pretty amazing but the only problem is i think she is still hung up on her ex. They broke up at the start of the year and she had admitted to me roughly 2 and half months ago she still had some feelings for him and on that same night said his name while we were having sex. I let this go but unfortunately it has eaten away at me over the last couple of months. Lately she says she has no feelings for him but i find that hard to believe.\nRecently she has started talking about trying to be friends again with him (he doesn't want that) and how much that upsets her. She also struggles with depression and anxiety and told me something that really gives her anxiety is thinking about having a fight with her ex next time she sees him. They also have a long history and were dating for 3 years.\nI don't know how to feel about this or what to do. I just wanted to talk to someone about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "anyway, here goes. Over the past few months, and with increasing regularity, I've been receiving prank calls on my cell phone. Always from a different number, and from area codes all over the U.S., but every call comes from some smart-ass adult, saying they were from some Automotive group, or something of the sort. At first they sounded completely legit, but then they'd ask to speak with Bob. Since I'm not Bob, I'd tell them there's no one here named Bob, you have the wrong number. They would repeat my number back to me, and say they wanted to speak to Bob Zurncle. (Bob's Your Uncle, just in case you missed it) Needless to say, this has become increasingly annoying, especially since the caller is going through a lot of trouble, spoofing fake area codes, and always using this horribly stereotypical fake Hindi accent. Today I received another one of these calls and I'd had enough. I answered, and right away they asked for Bob's Ur Uncle, and I snapped, started cussing a streak, yelling, asking why they didn't have anything better to do with their life, when I hear a woman on the line, saying please sir, let me explain. Our records show that you filled out an online request for an auto insurance quote back in January, and you submitted it with, what is now obviously fake name Bob Zuruncle, but apparently you used your real phone number, hence the calls. \n\nJibber's Crabpst, I do stupid well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a white american male getting in over my head talking to a girl that just move here from China. Normally she'd be waaaay out of my league, but for some reason she's been giving me signals for a week or two. I'm not unattractive in any way, but she's up there with the top. Anyway we've sort of been talking and giving each other looks. Turns out she speaks less english than I originally thought, but I'm prepared to work through that. Hell I'd learn mandarin to talk to her. I'm just not sure how to approach the topic of dating. \n\nThis is where the cultural stuff comes into play. I don't know what a relationship in china looks like; the pacing, little hints, the landmines I should avoid. (I've had another chinese girl, more american though, throw a 'tantrum' and didnt realize she was trying to be cute) I'm afraid of taking a hint the wrong way again and more importantly making her upset over something that seems little to me. \n\nI'm also not sure on how to get past fact that she doesn't speak english very well, even though it can be funny sometimes. \nI was thinking texting would be easier because I can write in spanish a lot easier than I can speak, but I wouldn't know if it'd be the same for chinese.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "last summer i fell in love for the first time with my girlfriend, i wanted to marry her, I still love her, shes the kindest person on earth, she cared so much for me like no other person, but there were ups and downs, i didnt like her dressing sense, she put up with me for a while, then suddenly she said i dont love you anymore, I said id do anything she asked me, even dresses which i had a concern for, but she doesnt want a relationship anymore, she said she lost love.\n\ni told her ill change all she wants, but she doesnt want me, the thing is we've cuddled and did things and i can't do that to anyone in my life than her, im so obsessed with her, i Love her so much more than anything in this world, All i want is a life with her, shes my life.\n\n Is it even possible to get someone back who doesn't love you anymore? I've vommited 6 times over this break up, i've cried, my education and life is getting affcted, when she talks i feel like im in heaven, My friend says once a girl hates a guy she'll never like him again... Is that true, i've tried suiciding 3 times but i still have faith in her, i just want her back, idc if she loves me or not, she moves my world night and day, I miss her :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Generally, I choose either coffee, lunch, or drinks for my dates. Or, if I know the person a bit, something that is relevant to them.\n\nRecently, my schedule has been shying towards weeknights being free. Which means I don't want to be drinking, and it's a bit late for lunch.\n\nObviously, fast food is (generally) a poor date choice unless you know the person gets wet for McDonalds. Fine dining is both expensive and over the top, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me some examples of casual dining. Is this like, Denny's kinda stuff? Tony Roma's or Boston Pizza?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To start this off, I must say that I come from a fairly conservative home, where my parents believe that their now 20-year-old son is a saint of sorts. I have spent the last 2 years studying away from home, so naturally some self discovery and experimentation is to be expected. Recently got a contract upgrade from my cellular service provider and decided to give my mom my old phone, thinking I had deleted all things suspicious and incriminating. Little did I know that when she re-downloaded whatsapp, it would revert to my account, bringing back all my contacts, groups and conversations. She was not pleased by some of the reading material she uncovered. I never delete my chats, because ain't nobody got time for that. So she pretty much had access to every conversation I'd had in the last 2 years. Guys, a lot has happened in 2 years. None of which they were supposed to know about. A rude awakening for my mom at first. You can imagine how I was shaking with fear when she confronted me about this. Imagine your mom finding out everything you ever wanted to hide from her, in a single evening.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (36/M) have the sex drive of a rabbit. I'm horny all the time. For the last 2 years, my wife (28/F) has developed anxiety issues and also perceives our marriage as more of a friendship than lovers. We have sex maybe once every 2 months, and even then, its not a good time. Its like she feels like she's having to do it to make me happy and I just want her to want to have sex with me. We get along in every day life and we hang out and whatnot, but intimacy has dwindled to almost zero. She has pretty much checked out, sexually and has no desire to make things better in the bedroom. I do not want to cheat on my wife, but I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Im incredibly horny every day, I dont want masturbate every day so I can function, and I really yearn to be intimate with a woman. Like even kissing and making out and making love would be awesome. What else is difficult is that I'm a fairly good-looking guy so getting women is not a problem. I really just want to have sex with my wife, even 3 times a week would be great. But she wants nothing to do with me and I've resorted to just watching porn and jerking off every day so I'm not an angry bear. I really hate the state of our marriage and intimacy and want no one else other than my wife, but she literally has no sex drive and I dont want to feel like I'm making her do anything she doesn't want to do. I kind of feel like she's not really contributing to this marriage, but I'd be an asshole if I went out and sought intimacy from another woman. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all, so the other day I read a post about using MFP to track food and just linking it to a Fitbit so I figured I would give it a shot since everyone loves MFP so much. I've been using my Fitbit with a fair amount of success since February and love it but I end up adding a lot of foods since they aren't in the database.\n\nMy problem is this: I linked MFP with Fitbit for steps and food and only logged my food in MFP like it told me to in 3 different places. I have all the same statistics in both applications including desired weight loss but at the end of the day I had different amounts of calories left. \n\nIn order to lose 1lb/week Fitbit says I need a 500 Cal deficit so I assume it's the same with MFP but MFP says I have 36 calories remaining and Fitbit says I'm OVER by 110 calories. \n\nI tried checking online first and I can only find people having the opposite problem bc they accidentally log food in both apps but I am 100% sure I did not do that. \n\nHas anyone had this problem? How did you fix it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so a while back after a Pokemon tournament, some friends and I crashed at one of our friend's house. Lets call him Mr. Brown. While we were all just chilling playing some cards, he got a call from a girl, so he told her to head over. Now I have to say that she was pretty cute, and was getting pretty friendly with Mr. Brown. After a while they both headed into his bedroom, and we all knew what was about to go down. That's when I said out loud, \"What if he doesn't have any condoms?\" Both my other friends said that he should have it covered, and not but 30 seconds later he walked into the room asking if we had any. I immediately grabbed my keys, told him to go entertain her for a bit, and the rest of us hopped into my car and sped to the closest gas station. We all ran into the gas station, and ran to where the condoms were. We decided to grab him some fruity flavored ones just in case that there might have been a blowie waiting for him afterwards, so we grabbed the box and took it up to the clerk. That is when he looked at the box of condoms, looked at us, and had the most disgusted look on him face. Apparently we grabbed a box of only 3 condoms... There were 3 of us there buying them... And the were fucking fruit flavored. We all just stood there super awkwardly for a couple seconds, gave him some cash, and sped back to Mr. Brown's house. We inserted the condoms under his door, and in the morning he told me something that made me feel like the biggest bad-ass in the world. He was a virgin up until that night. So reddit, what are some awesome things you were doing that led to one of your most awkward experiences ever?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so my friend got her phone stolen, Iphone 4s, to be specific. that shit is obviously expensive as fuck so you can imagine her anger right now. We've got an idea as to who it is who stole it. You know, those gangster-wannabes-who-nobody-in-the-school-has-respect-for type? Yeah so, this isn't the first time they've stolen a phone, and they plan on selling it, like the other phones they've stolen. \nSo these guys are two years older than us, but we've got a friend -let's name her Laura- whose boyfriend is in that group. She keeps feeding my friend all this bullshit that her boyfriend fed her about supposedly not ever having it. Also stuff about how they \"picked it up but then put it back down because it was too heaty\"\n But as another of my friends passed by -let's call this one Caroline- they told her to tell Laura that they don't have it anymore. \nShe left her phone on the bench in the gym for less 5 minutes before realizing that she didn't have it, and when coming back, it wasn't there. There's no way that they picked it up, put it back down and some other people came and stole it in those few minutes. There were plenty of people in her P.E. class scattered in that whole area and there must have been someone who saw them take it.\nSo I really shortened the story because I've forgotten a lot of the details, but that's the main idea. She keeps trying to call it but it always seems to be turned off so she can't use that tracking app either. \nIt's also possible that they've already sold it, but we're hoping they haven't. \nShe's gone to the vice-principle but he says he can't do anything unless she has evidence, but clearly she can't prove much. \nSo I'm asking you how to handle this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Where do I begin.. I have been beyond unhappy (in general) lately. This isn't the first time I've felt like this, but it doesn't normally \"last\" this long. So I'm going through stuff..\n\nWe both have feelings for each other, we aren't in a relationship, and we watch TV every night together. I haven't been myself, and I know I'm extremely irritable and pretty much a ticking time bomb, so I tell him I'm sick (I was too, but it was more about my emotions), and we'll watch again in a few days. He keeps checking up on me.. Every day. I tell him I'm fine, but I really just want to be left alone and he won't. We fight (I absolutely started it, but I was trying to stay away). He apologized, but I still haven't talked to him in over a week, but I'm still the exact same so I feel like I still need to be by myself.. And I just can't say what I mean or how I feel. But how long will this feeling last? Forever?\n\nA small part of me never wants to speak to him again, but the rest of me wants to go back to the way things were. Being alone isn't going to make me any happier, but I'm not happy anyway, so.. \n\nI am not a caring/affectionate person in general. I don't even say 'I love you' or hug my mother, and there's nobody I care about more. Do I care about him? It's been 3 years, absolutely, but nothing makes me happy these days - I'm not even sure if I enjoy watching TV with him anymore, but I'm not sure if that's a temporary feeling, and I'm just hurting about everything. But then I feel like I will regret it in the future. We get along great for the most part, but I'm still on the fence. :(\n\nSorry if this a mess. Advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit! \nI need some advice/support/encouragement regarding my girlfriends passport situation. She submitted a renewal application a couple months ago leading up to our trip in April, she got her old passport back and the enclosed documentation said she should receive the new one shortly. We kind of forgot about it and just checked last Friday (3/4) on the status, and USPS has the package marked as \"undeliverable as addressed\" on 2/23. There was no further tracking after that, so the USPS has no idea where it is and assume it was sent back to sender. \nWe called the passport office and have been told a few things: \n \n1) Report the passport lost/stolen and request a new one \n2) Report the passport as undelivered and let the USPS and passport agency attempt to track it down. \n \nI have also heard of success in going to a local passport agency and getting an expedited one, but you cannot get an appointment until 2 weeks out of traveling abroad. We still have like 4 weeks until we travel, so i don't know if the agency will see us, and i don't want to wait until the last minute. As of today (3/8) we have sent in a form to declare the passport undelivered, and they are supposed to be looking into it, but not sure what the outcome will be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/relationships. I've been dating this girl for 2 weeks (only had one date, we're both in the army so it's kinda complicated), but we've known each other for two years, and been great friends for over a year. We've had a hiatus after some ugly things surfaced, but lately we got in touch, and I decided to ask her out, because I'm 18 and never actually had a girlfriend or even a date before.\n\nSo we went out and whatnot, but no touching or whatever occurred. While I'd usually be concerned she's not interested in me, knowing her personality, she's quite shy and somewhat fears touching and whatnot, so it's understandable. \n\nTomorrow we're going on another date, and I was wondering if to just flow with the situation, or somewhat push forwards and ask her if she wants a more serious relationship, i.e. actually be a couple. While she shies away from contact, when you approach her with these things, she's honest and says whatever's on her mind. So I was wondering if I should or shouldn't do so - because we've been good friends for over a year, we know each other well, so is it worth bothering going on regular dates or should I just try and \"force\" the issue on her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there, I made a throwaway because I'm not here for karma I seriously need help. In the next few days my boyfriend's step dad will kick him out for not finding a job in less than a month and I need any form of help here.\nTo be frank his step father and biological mother are mentally and verbally abusive and always have been since we've been dating. They only talk to him like he is subhuman and blame all of his troubles on him. They've stolen hundreds from his paychecks when he was underage and stole his tax return this year. On top of that his stepfather bought him a car only with the intention of making him pay insurance and gas he could not afford so that my boyfriend would have to sell it again.\n\nEvery time I am there his stepfather goes right at him and yells even when we have company over. About three weeks ago he threatened to kick my bf out if he didn't find a job or fill out 20 applications a day. He hasn't found a job yet and he has about 8 days left.\n\nI'm urging him to just say fuck it and leave regardless but he cannot stay at my house long term for lack of space and food.(We're struggling) So reddit I am very desperate, what should I do? Are there any organizations that would take him in and help him? I'm very worried and I love him more than anything so please any advice or help is greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi. My girlfriend and I have been together for three years. Recently, she has broken up with me. She says it is because she is unhappy. To be honest, I have been a shitty boyfriend lately. I love her and she says that she loves me. \n\nRecently, she has been talking to this other guy. However, she says she has been unhappy for three months. She says that she was planning on breaking up with me for a while. She says she is not breaking up with me for this guy. We still live together, she still likes to cuddle. I'm so confused. She. wants her space she says, and maybe in a few months we'll work it out. She doesn't want to work it out because she feels like she needs to focus on herself and that I've had too many chances. I love this girl. Do I keep fighting or just wait it out? I don't know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know what the hell to do. I made an account to post this here. Girlfriend and I have been together for a year. \n\nOn my main reddit account I had got gotten a lot of karma from a big post. I never showed my girlfriend reddit before, but I wanted to show off how popular my post had gotten. She told me she was familiar with reddit, that her ex actually showed her the website. \n\nIn my competitive nature, I wanted to see if I had more karma than him. I asked her, his username and she told me that it was probably the same as his Instagram. I went on to see his profile… all of his posts were in gonewild subreddits. I started looking back this guy's dick was twice the size of mine. \n\nNot only that he had posts up of my girlfriend. There was a gif of my girlfriend giving him a blow job (Her eyes/face are blurred out but I can tell by everything else its her), and then her swallowing it all and smiling. This is something she has NEVER done for me. If she does give me a blow job which isn't often she runs to the bathroom like she has battery acid in her mouth. And now here she is doing it lovingly for this other guy. \n\nThere were other things too, there was one of him with my girlfriend and another girl. All of this was a shock to me. My girlfriend has not ever been that sexual of a person with me. She always told me she wasn't like that kind of girl, that her idea of a fun night was cuddling and watching a movie. However, looking at this she was this other guy's bedroom acrobat.\n\nAfter watching the videos, I asked her if she would ever be interested in spicing up our sex life. I asked her if she would be interested in some of the stuff I saw on the posts of her. She got mad at me and said does she look like a prostitute.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We dated for about 3 weeks. Neither of us had been in anything close to a relationship before, but (I think) we had a really great time for at least 2.5 of those 3 weeks. Then out of nowhere, she breaks up with me the day before Spring Break, but says she still wants to be friends. \n\nIt wasn't too bad over Spring Break, because we only knew each other from college. However, once I got back things started to suck. She lives in the same dorm as ~10 of my friends here, so I introduced them and we all hung out while we were together. The problem is, she still hangs out with a few of them after break. The one time I hung out with them and her since break ended, it was pretty awkward and we both just avoided each other (it was at a party so it was easy). My friends don't want to exclude her, partially because they have to see her all the time, but they feel awkward asking me to hang out if shes there (which is often) because they think it will be weird (which it probably will be again). \n\nI've tried talking to her about it a couple of times, but shes blown me off.\n\nHas anyone else been in a similar situation? Any advice on how I should handle it? Avoiding that group of friends isn't really an option that I want to consider.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently went into a salon with a Groupon that I paid for in advance. After I had my hair cut, I was sent to the register to pay my bill. The girl at the register rings me up, takes my Groupon then asks if I like the products used in my hair. I told her I did and she started showing me the products on the shelves, grabs one and asks if she should ring it up for me. I gracefully declined as even though I made myself get my hair cut, I still am a broke college student. She wouldn't take no for an answer. She went on about how I am ruining my hair by not using their products and that it is a worthwhile investment. I again reminded her that it is not my lack of desire for the product that stops me, but my lack of money. She continues. We went back and forth for a while until I couldn't stand it anymore, it took me raising my voice and saying, \"MONEY, I don't have it\" before I could leave the tip for my stylist and walk out of there. \n\nSalespeople, do not milk my money udders, they are empty.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday he came back home and talked to me about places he's been to, I had a feeling that a place he mentioned was somewhere he took his ex of 5yrs (they lived together and he wanted to marry her), so I asked and he was like yea he was there with her. I felt very uncomfortable immediately and I felt chills on my body from being upset. It is immature I know but I can't help it. I felt like he must have been to a lot of those places with her because he's the kind of guy who would take his girl on vacations and they were in love for 5yrs etc I just felt like I can't compare to that. I didn't ask him to list all the places they went to but I feel like I suspect everytime he mentions some nice place he's been to and wonder if he's taking me somewhere they went to and the idea would make me sick. I know it's very immature of me to think that way and it's unfair to him so I didn't say anything, I didn't know what to say without showing him I'm sensitive and emotional so I was just quiet and didn't say much. But it's been boiling in me since then. \nHow should I approach this issue without sounding unreasonable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I moved to a new state with my family. I'm in my 20's and I'm having a problem. I can't seem to meet the right people. \n\nMy old friends where I previously lived are all moving on. They're still good friends to me but the distance does takes it's toll on how much we keep in touch.\n\nI have acquaintances such as people at the gym I spot or get spots from and class mates at uni. \n\nBut I always have it in my subconscious that those acquaintances won't be anything more than that. \n\nI think it's because all the friendships I've attempted to create either failed or it felt like I was intruding on already established friendships.\n\nI don't know I guess I'm weird? Really sorry if this is in the wrong subreddit. I was going to post it in /Relationship or /Foreveralone ...but I'm not depressed, alone or in need of relationship advice. I'm just really stumped how to form a genuine friendship. ><", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long day at work. Just got home, wanted to take my SO out for some food. Decided I should shower first. Me and SO have only been dating for ~18 months, she just moved in with me about 4 months ago. The way my room is setup, the bathroom is almost a hallway to the closet, which has a large double-wide window in it. She was in the closet pickin out something to wear as I made my way to the shower fully nude. It was at this moment that I realized how glorious my genitalia looked. Like it was hangin perfectly. I couldn't resist. I got my girlfriends attention, and started swing my dick around a circular motion. \"Next time we go to a show and you see a bunch of dudes dancing, this is what's goin on underneath!\" This went on for over a minute, floppin my dick around every which way, laughing til we were tearing up. We were both laughing so hard that we failed to notice the window.. It was dark outside, and the closet light was on, and the blinds were wide open. It's amazing how clearly you can see into someone's house when it's dark out and the lights are on (same thing goes with a car at night with the dome lights on). So mid dick circle, I look past my girlfriend, out the window, and directly into the eyes of my neighbor, who just happened to be taking out the trash. I quickly ducked into the bathroom while my girlfriend laughed hysterically, she said he just shook his head and walked away. We've only lived here a few months, and I haven't met them yet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was going out with a girl for almost 2 years. And recently she broke up with me. It was not an issue of anger. She claims she just fell out of love. And I really don't know how to deal with it. Angry break up with screaming yes. But when it is calm, sad goodbye. I dont know what to do. \n\nWe are trying to be friends. We knew each other for long time before and we are trying to stay friend even now. She seems she can manage. But I dont really know how. She used to fill my life. Now I don't know what to do all day. I am desperate. Every time she asks me how I am, I feel like screaming that I miss her and how bad I feel. But I cant really do that can I? I don't want to make her feel bad.\n \nEveryday I miss a person who I can tell everything to. I miss a person who held me as I was bleeding on the ground after injuring myself. Person who always came to my house with a silly plush toy when I was sick. Who helped me get through bad medical state. Who always made me feel better when I felt really bad. And I am unable to exist.\n\nI still have her photo as my wallpaper. I still feel anxiously when my friend goes to buy flowers where I once bought flowers just to get that smile. I am lost. My love went from happy and returned one to unhappy with few calm words.\n\nI am writing this here in a hope at least somebody might read it and that is all I suppose. If indeed anybody bothered to read my rambeling. Thank you. I dont know who you are but i am eternaly grateful. I am not a native english speaker so please excuse my mistakes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last week, I purchased a 2003 BMW 330xi from my uncle. I loved the thing. Today, some jackass driving daddy's jaguar to school decided to pull out in front of the car that I was behind, those two cars collided and I didn't have time to stop so I hit the jaguar as well (I was paying attention, I had time to slow down but not come to a complete stop, I went from 45 to about 25 in the few seconds I had) After everything was said and done, the 16 year old was deemed at fault for the collision and got a citation.\n\nSo I am insured with USAA and tomorrow they have some one to coming out to look at the damage to my car and figure out how much it's going to cost. I got a loan through USAA foe $7800 to pay for the car, if the car is considered totaled what is my next move? Can I sue the kid and get him (or his dad) to pay off the loan? (Not saying I will, I just want to know my options)\n\nThe air bag did deploy and I have heard from some people that that can justify the car as totaled but also heard that that shouldn't be an issue. \n\nIf the car isn't totaled, I just pay my deductible and get insurance takes care of the rest, which isn't a big deal.\n\nI just want to know my options if the car is deemed totaled.\n\nThis is my first some what major accident, and my first accident being on my own policy so I am sort of new to all of this so please help me. Thank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've met this incredible, funny, loving girl, and we've been dating for about two months. She's everything I want in a partner, but there's one feeling I can't get rid of whenever I'm with her.\n\nShe's a ridiculously outgoing person who talks to everyone around her and is not above fooling about and making herself look stupid. Though that's one of my favourite things about her, I get this sinking feeling of inadequacy when we're with other people.\n\nWhile I'm social and outgoing myself, I feel invisible whenever there are other people around, as she will socialize with pretty much all of them and barely look at or speak to me for varying periods of time. If we're having a cozy moment alone in our school cafeteria she might suddenly jump up and walk over to greet one of her friends if they walk into the room, as if I'm not there at all. I feel like I can be replaced at any point in time seeing as I'm so easily deprioritised. \n\nI can't just tell her she needs to stop either, as the last thing I want is her spending time with me because she feels like she has to.\nI end up not really knowing what to do; should I engage with their conversations and become the kind of boyfriend who never lets her talk to people by herself? Should I get busy with something else pretending I don't feel like crap? Am I just overthinking this whole thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Lately her and I have been having a few problems, and these problems have been brought up before a few times. One problem being that I don't show enough affection. I don't tell her she's pretty very often or don't compliment her much. I feel terrible about it, but this time I was really trying to change for her.\n\nFor Halloween she went to visit her step brother at a college and I got drunk with my friends and watched movies. Last night (11/1) we got in a huge fight about me not changing and how our relationship won't work out and basically broke up over the phone. So in an effort to try and fix it I drove to her house. She told me how at the parties she went to that two guys kissed her. The first one she pushed away, but the second one I asked her if she kissed him back and she said yes and that she did it because it made her feel wanted, which I guess I haven't been making her feel that way lately. We cried, we talked about everything, we had great sex, and I stayed over at her house just to sleep with her and then snuck out in the morning so her parents wouldn't know.\n\nWe both obviously want to work things out but aren't sure if we should. I love this girl, but the more I think about it, all I can think about is her cheating on me, and more importantly, liking it. It makes me sick to my stomach. Should I even try to fix it or would I be better off cutting all ties.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit. My job history is good and bad. From 2003 to 2007 I was a retail store manager. Between mid 2007 and late 2009, I changed jobs a lot. I had an opiate addiction and it was hard to stay in a place too long, due to being so up and down. Things started to get better as I mentioned above (late 09) and I worked in finance from that date until a month or so ago.\n\nI was wondering if I should mention the other jobs at all, or focus on one or two others. If I do that though, how can I explain the gaps?\n\nI know it seems as if I am focusing on the length of time I have stayed at various jobs. However, I know how important that is, especially in full time roles.\n\nI would really appreciate some help with this matter. If you need further information, please ask.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My sister told me and my mom (dad passed away) that her children aren't her husband's. And not only that but her children are both from an exboyfriend that she keeps in contact with. She has even gone out to do a paternity tests to confirm it. \n\nSince our nephew has been little everyone has noticed that some things didn't add up looks wise, but I just chalked it up not being able to tell what little kids look like. Now that I hear this, I don't know what to do. My mom said to just shut up about the whole matter, that my sister's exboyfriend is no good for the kids, and that her husband makes a fine father, and what he doesn't know won't hurt him. \n\nPersonally I think the whole situation is completely messed up and that if I was the husband in the situation, I would definitely want to know the kids I were raising were mine or not. My sister and mom don't feel the same. A part of me wants to tell him or at least hint to him, but I fear that will end the relationship between me and my sister and my nephews.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First of all, this of course wasn't today, it was a few months ago. So I used to go to class really high every day since it's only 2 hours. Usually, I would take a couple bong hits right before I leave to catch the bus so I can feel the come up on the bus and spend the entire class very high. On this particular day, I took those hits before getting dressed then realized I was going to miss the bus so quickly got dressed and left. While on the bus I noticed I kept getting weird glances and looks from the other strangers on the bus. I just wrote it off as I'm probably acting weird without noticing or am just being paranoid. I finally get off the bus and begin my walk to class when, to my horror, I look down and lo and behold there is the fly on my jeans unzipped with my lacy hot pink underwear perfectly noticeable. Needless to say, I've never gotten high before getting dressed since then and obsessively check my fly to make sure it's zipped up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been talking to this girl for just over a month now. We have been working together at a fast food place for about a year now and we have always been kinda just work friends where we say hi to each other and maybe talk every now and then during work. \n\nI would really appreciate some help in understanding how my relationship is going. Is my relationship progressing at a normal rate, is everything I'm going through the usual stuff for a relationship of this length? I really enjoy spending time with this girl so I guess I'm happy but I'm seeking an outside opinion. \n\nI have a legit problem with overthinking things, so maybe that is whats happening here. Within the last week or so I have started noticing some of her tendencies, such as her always judging what I say, never wanting to ask to hangout and instead waiting for me to ask, and every now and then she sends me low effort texts(IMO atleast) like \"ahahah yeah!\" and \"looool true\". \n\nI know that for a relationship to be successful you need to be able to accept your partners faults... however I just feel like I'm putting in a lot more effort than she is. \n\nI know this last part is a bit selfish... but atleast what some of my friends have told me my relationship sexually with this girl is apparently really far behind. After just over a month with this girl all we have done is make out and feeling out and rubbing all over eachothers bodies. We havent done anything sexual yet. Are my friends wrong in thinking that this is far behind where we should be?\n\nI think this is another problem of how I am approaching the relationship. I feel like I always expect the nights to end in an intimate experience. I think this is the wrong approach.. but I don't know how to get the thoughts out of my mind. Maybe its because I've never had a sexual experience before so I'm just really excited and anxious, but the times I enjoy the most with this girl are the times where we just chill, spend time together and talk... not the makeouts and whatever.\n\nThanks for reading guys :-)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy since October of last year. He lives 6 hours away and we've visited each other only three times, but we communicate frequently via text, phone, email, and (occasionally) written letters. When we first met I fell SO HARD for him. He was a 99% match on OKcupid and on paper he seemed like a perfect mate for me, so even though I had thought I was forever done with LDRs I figured I would give it a try. He has been nothing short of super sweet and patient with me always, which I have never experienced before, and he has surprised me numerous times with some truly beautiful and touching hand-made gifts.\n\nHowever, since our last visit I've had this feeling that we're just not right for each other in the long run. We have differing opinions about how quickly we want to move forward and whether or not to someday have kids, and there is a palpable lack of chemistry; dates with him involve SO. MUCH. AWKWARD. SILENCE. It is killing me that this wonderful guy just isn't right for me. I wish I could be as giving and loving to him as he has been to me, but it just feels weird and I know I have to break it off.\n\nThe problem is, we are supposed to go away for what was going to be a \"romantic weekend\"... I recently told him that I was having uncertainties about the relationship and that I wanted to talk to him about it in person. He said sure, good idea. So, it's really going to be a \"we need to talk\" weekend :-/ \n\nI guess this is the kind of thing I have to play by ear, but I would love some guidance re: how to approach this situation. I hate the thought of him driving 3 hours to meet me at a hotel, only for me to say that maybe we shouldn't stay together, but I would feel worse saying it over the phone or through some other means of communication. I guess my real question is, how can I make this break-up as non-shitty for him as possible?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and this girl let's call Kim have been friends forever almost more than friends but the timing has never worked out when we first started talking I was dating my ex fiance and when that relationship went south she was ready to be with me. \n\nSeeing as I had just got out of a bad relationship I told her I wasn't ready. Now she has a boyfriend she hates but doesn't want to leave him seeing as she is almost done with nursing school and doesn't a) have anywhere to live b) doesn't want any life changing my events seeing as she is under.enough stress as it is. \n\nSo we started talking again in January and the depth of our relationship is slowely getting deeper. This past time when we met up she cheated on her bf with me. She keeps telling me to give her a few months and wait till schools.over and we will be together. We talk everyday all day she always calls me first.thing in the am to tell me good morning and at night Well I live about an hour and half from her and she said she wants me move back home. I really want to be with her but I'm worried that ill move back and away from a good job and she won't leave her bf. I'm stressing about it I think about it.constantly. idk what it is about her I've slept with a couple girls since we've been talking which she said she is fine with but she doesn't wanna know about them. Basically I'm trying to get this off my chest and look for advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 21 year old male and I currently live at home.\nLast week, when I was home alone, a girl rang at my door, she 19, lets call her N. She was jobbing as a Representative for a Society for Nature Conservation. It was very cold outside, she asked if she could come in. As my room looked somewhat like Dresden '45, I routed her to the kitchen and offered her a tea to warm herself up. So we both sat down and started talking. After I signed the contract for the Nature Conservation thingy, we talked for quite a while about everything and we had a lot in common, so there was no awkward silence and we laughed a bit. At this point I'm not quite sure, I had the feeling we connected on some level, but I'm such a lousy flirter, that I think I could have missed one or another thing^^.\n But everything seemed against us having a undisrupted conversation, the door rang like 500 times, my brother came home, my grandfather came to visit (but disappeared without a word). Unfortunately my mother had to come home and start cooking. As my mother started to make mothery-awkward comments on our conversation, it grew more and more awkward, so in the end N said that she had to go working again. While I walked her to the door I thougt \"You have nothing to lose, say something goddamit!\". So I said a little bit awkward that it was a pleasure to meet her and if she should be bored on Sunday (her only free day), she could just give me a call and I would meet up with her and show her the town (she wasn't from here). I gave my phone number in the contract I signed, so technically she had access to it.\nYet there was no word from her since then. Now I could use your advice whether I should try to establish contact to her or not. I don't want to force anything and I know that I will let it go if nothing happens. But somehow I am sad that I never wanna see her again if I do nothing.\nSorry for the wall of text.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. When we started dating he was seeing multiple people. He ended it with them about a month and a half into our relationship. I never knew he had been seeing other girls until months later. It has been a source of pain for me in the relationship (our first kiss or date don't feel special knowing he was sleeping with someone else the night before)\n\nOne in particular, he has built a bit more with. They dated about a month. When he ended it with her she was very hurt, which suggests that there are unresolved feelings on her side. They did not know each other prior to dating, and have not spoken since.\n\nWe are moving overseas in a month. My boyfriend has decided to go for drinks with this girl to say goodbye. He has expressed a desire to tell her what he is up to because she would feel proud. He also said that although he has no romantic or sexual feelings, he still feels emotions for her.\n\nI am very uncomfortable with this. I dont understand why it is important to say goodbye to a closed chapter that he hasn't spoken to in over a year. I am uncomfortable with the fact that his train of thought was how proud she would be of him.\n\nI suggested either emailing/phoning her, or me being introduced to her before they go out, but he turned down both of this options, saying he wouldn't want to put her in the awkward position of meeting the girl he left her for (even though she never knew he left for another girl). Shouldn't my own uncomfortable position be taken into account?\n\nAny input would be greatly appreciated. The fact that we are moving makes any red flags even more important so that I don't make a mistake.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To begin things, I am a very passive guy, am generally liked, and I never want any trouble (Dont ever fight). Yesterday, I went to a hockey game and two average sized picked on my buddy. I being the guy I am, walk up to them to ask them to please stop. They told me \"what are you gonna do about it tough guy?\"\n\nI am 6\"5 about 260 lbs. I looked down in amazement as I outweighed the little buggers and appeared to be intimidating one of them (the talker seemed intoxicated). I look at both of them kinda shocked (being the major size difference) ..and even though every ounce of me wanted to show my strength....I held back..shook my head..and walked away.\n\nThe one kid says to another as I turn around \"maybe we should leave\"....I say without looking back, \"you probably should\". I walked away and they tried to say something about my posture..but I did not listen, I had already walked away and made up my mind.\n\nI just have always been a person of much self control and it isn't easy when you know you possess some physical strength..but I am proud of the man I am and never let my size take over my intelligence. \n\nSorry if this came across as gloating...I am just proud of myself for being a nice and peaceful guy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is Malaysian and has been studying in the UK for the past 3 years. We have been in a relationship for 2 ½ years now.\n\nHer visa to stay here is coming to an end later this year, then she will be forced to return to Malaysia despite opting to stay here if she had the choice. We have gone down the job route, to the point that she was offered the job here, but the employer failed to get a license to issue Visas on very petty grounds.\n\nI (and others) have suggested getting married. It is something we've discussed before, and we are both happy to do it except that she refuses to get married before she goes back as she feels like she will just be doing it so she can get a visa, rather than because she will actually be married. She's happy for me to propose in 6 months, but not before she returns. The problem for me is that the delay will mean we are not going to be close to one another for at least a year, perhaps longer, other than for short visits (we both will be working full time).\n\nRight now, I am positive and optimistic about our situation as I think that we can make it work, but two people living in entirely different cultures on opposite sides of the world might mean that we change a lot.\n\nCan anyone offer any advice on how to make this work, or just a new perspective on the situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit if backstory on me: I have just finished my first year of uni. I went in with a girlfriend that was long distance and we broke up because we were distancing from so it was a way of protecting the possibility of getting back together later. We now see each other every holiday and she comes back next Saturday, the day of my party. \n\nMy friend: She is someone i met at uni for the first time and we became good friends. Recently i have been having difficulties with mild depression and she has been there. It would seem in the process she has begun to feel differently about me. She started giving off big signals and i know she has had basically no experience with guys romantically so i feel she may have become quite invested quite quickly when i started sharing stuff with her. My condition meant that i probably reciprocated attention more than i should have but that's in the past now and there isn't much to do about it\n\nThe situation: The party is small, 18 people going to a club with tables. My friend does not know about i yet and also doesn't know i will be getting back with my ex this summer (who'll obviously be at the party). The problem is i want to invite my friend because she is special to me and lives in the same city but if i am i feel i need to somehow let her know first what is happening with my ex. I can't just really talk to her about it because she has no idea i think she has feelings for me and if i'm wrong it could make things bad. Also if i do tell her what me and my ex will be doing that might change her mind on coming as she might now want to see us together which is fair enough. \n\nSo Reddit, do i ask my friend to come and ,if so, how do i tell her what's going on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I broke up with my ex girlfriend 3-4 months ago. Main reason was that it was long distance and I now realise it wasn't working because I refused to compromise with her and move half way to live with her. Which I would do now... \n\nAnyway I want to emigrate and so went on vacation (post-breakup*) in my chosen destination. I met a girl (f/25) there that I have known for a long time and we got it on. Had a brilliant time mostly although there were moments we did fall out! I kind of promised her I'd come back for her and we have been talking on Skype / WhatsApp very regularly. \n\nI was missing my ex the other day and sent her a message. She seemed receptive but cautious and we have agreed to meet. I can't stop thinking about her, and what I'm going to say to her. I want her back. \n\nBut I also want the other girl. \n\nI am thinking that I am imagining a 'perfect girl' scenario with the girl abroad when I don't even know her that well. I don't even know if it will ever happen with her. Maybe I have a complex but it's like I don't want to let her down. \n\nBut I want my ex back too.. I mean for all I know my ex has moved on and doesn't want me back. Should I see her? Should I keep my options open? What's your advice reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We dated for about 2.5 years, and the break-up, (about 5 months ago) was both mutual and heartbreaking. Neither of us have been active on Facebook since we started dating, but I decided to log-on tonight and looked at some of my pictures and hers (not my intention, but it happened).\n As I was going through our respective pictures I noticed that not one time were we both tagged in the same photo, despite the fact that we both appear in at least 12 pictures (there are more pictures of us, but apparently they haven't been uploaded). \n I've accepted (still don't like it) that ending the relationship was the right choice for us then and that staying apart is still the right decision, but it feels strange that there are no Facebook tags of the both of us. \n Am I wrong in feeling like this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys, thanks for even just reading this. First let me say i'm not the best writer, so some of this may seem jumbled together. Here I go:\nI'm 17, 18 in 3 months, senior (male) in high school. Not being arrogant, but I'm a decent looking guy. I've hooked up with a fair ammount of girls, but haven't even bothered having any type of relationship with them, was just in it for pleasure.\nBut i'm changing...chilling out more if yuo will. I'm the pickiest guy I know when it comes to girls, it takes alot to impress me. But oh my god, i've met this girl, and she's amazing. She's beautiful, and I NEVER say that about girls. We have so much in common, it's crazy. I can definately see myself being with her. Don't get me wrong, i'm not getting my hopes up or anything, but we may be perfect for each other.\nBut the problem is, we haven't been close for LONG, and we are not even talking about dating, just hanging out for now. But the only thing I have to get past for now is the first couple times we hangout, or \"date\". I know it will get more comfortable after time, but what can I do now to help? What are some special/memorable things I could do or say during a first date? On the first date am I supposed to go in for a kiss, maybe on a cheek? All i'm asking for is some advice, please. Thanks so much in advanced...I really like this girl.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well Reddit, I fucked up big time. I overdosed on THC. Which is found in marijuana.\n\n I was with two other friends, we will call them Kolin and Matt (not real names), and we were all having a good time at Matt's new beach house. Matt has his medical marijuana card, and I asked him how since he seemed to be in perfect health. He told me he had tendinitis in his knees which gave him chronic pain. I did too and he told me that we could go get my card if I had $40 cash. We go to a small clinic where I filled out a paper listing my symptoms and reasons for my visit. Told the doctor about my aches and pains and he gave me a sealed and verified med card for $40 cash. So we were able to go into dispensaries and pick up stuff legally. It felt pretty surreal. We grab some cash and head to the nearest dispensary a few blocks away. Since it was my first time at the dispensary I had to fill out a user agreement. We buy 2 \"Dark Chocolate\" edibles for $30 bucks, and each bar contains 4x the dose of a normal serving of marijuana. Before heading to the pier that night, Matt and I decide to eat our edibles. Yea the whole thing at one time. It took about 30-45 minutes for me to get high, but when it came I got hit buy a brick wall. I broke out in a cold sweat, and I struggled to survive. We decided to walk to the nearest fast food restaurant which happened to be Carl's Jr.\nI sit down and time flies slow as hell. I remember going into third person and feeling the vomit crawl out of my stomach. I threw up four times on my way to their restroom. I was hallucinating traps around me, and I could barely get out two words at a time without my brain stopping itself from further processing. If it weren't for Kolin looking out for me, I would not have made it last night. Anyone at the beach could have simply asked me for my wallet and I would have given it to them. I was that fucked up.\n\n[TIFU] by getting a med card and overdosing on marijuana or \"greening out\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife was backing out of our driveway today at the same time as our across the street neighbor. They collided rear-bumper to rear-bumper. Neither saw the other so it was relatively high speed. I was at work already when this happened.\n\nMy wife drives a Prius C and they drive a Highlander with a hitch. As you can imagine, damage was fairly extensive for my wife and pretty much nada for the neighbor.\n\nNeighbors are a husband and wife, native Spanish speakers. The husband speaks very little English. They conferred for a while in Spanish and told my wife that they have no car insurance ... well they have insurance but it's registered in Maryland ... well actually they have no car insurance. That's pretty much how it was communicated.\n\nThis seems pretty cut and dry. Make an insurance claim, pay the deductible, get the repairs done. But we really do not want to cause a whole host of legal/insurance problems for the neighbors. We would hate to have their lives turned upside down because of a small fender bender which only caused bumper damage to one vehicle. At the same time, we don't have the money to cover this outright. \n\nI'm afraid our only option is the traditional route. Can anyone share how much of an impact this may have on their lives? Are there any other options I just may be missing? Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf's parents are strict Muslims and won't let her date anyone who isn't a Muslim (for the record, we're in North America, so this isn't unusual for me to not be Muslim).\n\nWe have four options:\n\n* She come comes out and says she's dating me, an non-Muslim and gets disowned and is never allowed to speak to family again. She has a bf she loves, but is sad because of no family.\n\n* I pretend to convert, we can still see each other, she keeps her family and a roof over her head. She knows about me pretending to convert, it's her parents that don't know I'm pretending\n\n* We break up, she keeps family, but is sad because she has no bf who loves her.\n\n* We wait until she is able to move out in about a year on good terms with her parents. However until then, it's basically a long distance relationship, which is something that I think would be difficult to maintain this for such a long time\n\nThe second choice seems more desirable, as it satisfies all parties, however this is still a big commitment, and opens up the possibility to further messes down the road. My concern is that option 2 seems like a temporary fix, and could backfire in the future. However the permanence of 1 and 3 options is also very concerning to both of us. So really option 4 seems like the best bet, but is not a sure thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I were high school sweethearts and dated all through university. She's the best friend I have ever had so i want to reddit's opinion on my texting her to see how she is doing. Our breakup was a mutual agreement that it is really hard to handle such a heavy relationship at our age, especially when we can't remember what life is like without each other. I have never been without her in my adult life. We have broken up a few times over the years, usually over the same reason we broke up this time. Despite all of our problems, she is family to me more than anyone else in the world. I'm not looking to get back together with her because i know that we aren't going to work out and love can't conquer all boundaries but can I maintain contact with her? or am I doomed to spiral out in a cycle of breaking/getting back together forever if i keep contact?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Someone I thought of as a close friend for 25 years totally shit on me this week. I've dropped everything to be at his side in his times of need, given him money when he needed it, listened and encouraged him when things weren't going his way; basically bent over backwards to be the best friend I knew how. \n\nLast Thursday I was unexpectedly hospitalized due to a violent reaction to a new medication. I spent two nights in the hospital, had to have an MRI and EEG, and was scared out of my mind. I was unconscious part of the first night, but when I got myself together enough early the next morning I texted my \"friend. ' after getting no reply, I called and left a message. As of today I still haven't heard from him. \n\nI am devastated that he would do this after all we've endured. I've never had any sort of health crisis before, and am totally shocked at having been basically abandoned in my hour of need.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in Pennsylvania\n\nI am asking for some advice as to if I should File Bankruptcy Chapter 7 which would Eliminate all my unsecured debt totaling about 12k or wait for my disability to kick in. I was recently employed with Apple until an unfortunate series of unexplained events caused my colon to be removed and my spine to be reconstructed. \n\nI have had no income since my short term ran out in May 2014 surviving solely on what I had saved and what my father can provide just to keep me eating. I will not be able to work until all my surgeries are finished and I have NO clue when my disability will be approved by the state. But I will have backpay from Summer of 2014. I was told it could be about a year or two before my case has settled, but I am getting ready to be sued by my creditors. I have no assets so I am not sure what they can do, but I am kind of stuck in a rutt. I will be married in May of this year, my fiance has been paying for the wedding since I am stuck in a hospital bed most of the day, and shes been working as a waitress. I do not want to bring my mistakes into her life, as much as she says it is okay. I would like to have them paid off or wiped away before then. \n\nI am currently on Medicaid and Food stamps so that is helping tons. But I am getting deeper and deeper into trouble with the debts I owe. I lost my car to the bank in January and my apartment last fall. I have a 2 year old daughter who I could not even buy christmas presents for and this whole ordeal is starting to go to my head and really putting me down. Ive become extremely depressed since my Surgeries and have had some pretty bad mental breakdowns having my life change so drastically. \n\nI just would like some honest advice on what I should do now. I dont know I am not sure what else I can do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 23 year old female who has been seeing a 23 year old male for the past couple months now. We live an hour apart so don't get to see each other much in the first place. He recently was switched to 12 hour night shifts 7 days a week. Now we can't talk much let alone see each other. I'm worried that this will put our relationship in a standstill or cause him to change his mind about having a relationship with me. I really like him and see this turning into a really good long term relationship. I also miss him :( Has anyone else been in this situation? Any advice on how to keep the relationship active and growing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit of backstory: \nGrew up in multiple countries as a child, my parents were rich socialites who only managed to have Sunday 'meetings/family days' with my brother and I, otherwise we were raised by maids. At 16, my brother got sent to boarding school in a different country. I was sent to a boarding school at 18. My brother and I were never close then and the idea of family was only something we saw on tv or in movies. \nFast forward to now, I have my own life, job, engaged to be married. My brother is doing really well and has his own family and baby. We reconciled over the lack of family growing up and have a good relationship now. Our parents become nothing more than distant and inconsistent Penpals. (I would always rag on them for never giving us any updates) They live in a different country so it's difficult to even call them sometimes. \n\nAbout a year ago, I received a call from my mother (we had not spoken in years) asking for a bit of cash for an issue they had run in to. Thinking they were in need, I caved and sent them money. I later found out my brother had as well. \nA month ago, I get an email from my mother explaining that my dad has had dementia for the past 2 years, they are in legal difficulties, kicked out of their house by the bank, too poor to afford food... it goes on. My brother and I scramble and send them money. My brother even went out of his way to make sure we weren't being scammed by some distant relatives. \n\nNow I am getting weekly text messages about needing money for food when she barely ever even wished me a happy birthday in the past. They appear to have estranged themselves to their friends since when I attempt to contact any of them, I get ignored. I sent them most of my wedding savings, which I now regret but I am not sure if that makes me a bad person for not wanting to help them more. I have refused the past two weeks to send anything due to having little to share. \n\nWhat should I do? Is it ok to turn them away?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months and things are really great. I had some trouble opening up to him at first but I'm getting better at it, and things are going really well. \n\nThe only thing that sometimes bothers me is our sex life. It used to be more adventurous but it seems to be a lot of the same old same old now. We definitely don't sext anymore and it's dropped off a bit, where we have sex maybe once a week. And he only seems to be able to finish half the time. I don't want to ask him about it since I don't want to put pressure on him or seem like I'm bitching, but I'm kinda curious as to why it's happening. \n\nI know I shouldn't let it bother me but it's started to a little. I want to feel like enough for him and when it happens I don't. Also, I might add that he's incredibly lazy and also that I don't think sex is the most important part of a relationship for him.\n\nAny thoughts, especially from men or women who have been in this situation before, would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a pretty overweight guy but I seem to carry all my weight in the middle. My arms and face are pretty thin and I usually wear hoodies so everyone thinks I'm pretty damn skinny. This has lead to immense problems in my romantic life. I don't feel comfortable taking my shirt off in front of girls because of how I look. My body basically just looks awkward as fuck. My girlfriend on the other hand is extremely healthy and in shape and I'm afraid if she saw me she would.. I don't know, reject me. How do I approach this subject with her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know it's been a very short amount of time we've been in a relationship but in that time, we have hung out 4-5 times a week and been in more or less constant txt communication. We have pretty much everything in common, have similar goals, both want to settle down and start a family and just seem to be perfect for each other. \n\nWe slept together for the first time on Saturday night which was amazing, and I feel like I am in love with her. I don't want to say it too early though and scare her away incase she doesn't yet feel the same or wants to wait a little while (which would be understandable). \n\nWhen is an appropriate time to declare this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story so here goes. My ex of a month, I told her when she broke it off because her depression was effecting our relationship that if she needs/requires support I will try to help out.\nThe other day she called asking for help I was hesitant at first but when I found out she had called the ambulance (hospital is next door to me) I thought I'd check on her to make sure she is okay. She is already receiving help and for depression. But obviously sometimes it's a little worse. \nYesterday she ended up in hospital gave us a slight scare when the hospital told us that they had lost her. But as it turned out she was in another section of the hospital. But for what happened yesterday all of her housemates have essentially just given up on and told her she was being unfair on them and that she should just fuck off else where (in one message they actually said that to her)... So I said she can hide out here till the week break that's just a few days away.\n\nI don't know what to do. Obviously we have broken up its recent and I really don't think it's a good idea for her to be hiding out at the same time. I think her so called friends and housemates are being too harsh and unfair on her... :/\nI have images of what's happening available at request. In caught in the middle and I'm being contacted by them as well, almost like they are trying to get a reaction and assess where I am with all this so far I've just ignored them. But honestly I think they are going a bit far. Seeing as they won't stop. I told them yesterday to leave it, because she feels like she is being personally attacked but instead they carried on and tried to laugh it off over Facebook.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little about myself: I am currently at 250 lbs. Yes I am fat, but I am currently exercising and dropping pounds like the stock market. I am currently going to college and it is only my second semester, with about 2 or more years to go.\n\nMy situation is recently I have felt depressed because I am alone, but my problem is I have never gone and looked for anything nor was i interested in looking. The feeling is just now hitting me that I don't want to do this anymore by myself, I don't have too many friends anymore as most went off to drown themselves in student loans at some big name college. I have only had one good friend along the way, and these last few years have been VERY HARD but he helped me through. Now... its not enough for me, I need a GF and was just wondering when I get where I want to be with myself, is it awkward that I have never been with anyone?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of 2 years uses facebook pictures almost daily to fap, but it has never directly affected our sex life or compromised our relationship (i.e cheating). He has a very high sex drive and he is very committed to me, which I completely trust. To him, it's just simply another form of porn and nothing else. \n\nI don't mind if he checks out other women or watches real porn, but since he's told me about using facebook, it's been bothering me for the past year. Some of these people are my friends, it makes me feel like I'm not pretty enough, and I keep comparing myself to these other girls. \n\nI've talked to him about it many times, and have even been to therapy, but now it's become a trust issue on top of my self-esteem issue. I don't believe that he'd ever cheat on me, but I can't trust him to stop going onto facebook like he says he is, although he deactivated (not deleted) his facebook account a week ago. I feel like I NEED to know whether or not he's been lying to me about stopping even though I know it's not healthy to basically interrogate him.\n\nIs it something that just I need to work out alone because it's only affecting me? How do I start to trust him again?\n\nWe're both willing to do anything to make this work out....but I can't figure out what to do next.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone. So my boyfriend and I have been dating since junior year of high school (so abut two years now). We had some vague plans to go to the same college in our hometown but he didn't make it in, so he's going to a school 8 hours away and I will be staying here (but living in dorms). The point is, he's too far away and because we are both very jealous (and sexually active) people, it's not feasible for us to continue our relationship long-distance.\n\nSo now I just have to get over him, right? But it's been hard. On one hand, I want to be \"over\" him and feeling good by the time school comes around (October) so that I can make new friends and focus on academics.\n\nBut the problem is, I'm leaving to go to my home country for one month (all of August). I figured that would be the best time to get over him, but we still have almost all of September before school starts. He and I both want to try to enjoy all the time we have left together, but is it really smart of us to kind of \"hold on\" for the month I'll be gone and then churn out the rest of our temporary relationship? \n\nI've been with him so long, and even now it feels weird and totally sucks that it's ending forever soon. But I still really love hanging out with him and probably wouldn't hang out with many people before college starts, anyways. \n\nI guess my request for advice is: what should my next course of action be? Should we break up and distance ourselves now, or should be try to hold on until summer ends? I know that breaking up will hurt me for quite some time so maybe I could use a month or two as a time cushion.\n\nReally hope this stuff makes sense and I appreciate this community. thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a newly single mother of 3. I am behind in rent, my vehicle isn't insured right now due to lack of money, our cable and Internet will be canceled within the next few days, and every other bill is now behind due to lack of money. I'm doing what I can with what I can but quickly realizing that I'm drowning. I have been looking for a new and higher paying job for months, with no success (though I have a lot of experience to provide). Reddit, what can I do to help keep my family afloat? I need to make more money and fast!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In June of 2015 I was laid off from my job. I was lucky enough to be paid out through the end of August and collected unemployment thereafter. Unfortunately, prior to being laid off I had a lot of medical issues (2 endoscopies, an ambulance ride, and a colonoscopy) so needless to say the lay off was really bad timing. \n\nNow I'm totally drowning in debt, and feeling defeated. I've applied for so many jobs had a bunch that went to 3rd and 4th interviews, but nothing has amounted to anything. It's been almost a year since I've had a job and I have a hard time doing anything productive every day now. I just look at my computer and freeze up.\n\nI am lucky enough to have a very supportive girlfriend and parents who are helping me how they can. Even with amazing support, I feel depressed, defeated, and as low as I've every felt.\n\nHow do people find the motivation to keep at it after so much failure and financial stress? I'm really reach for any sort of guidance I can get now because I'm completely lost.", "role": "user" } ]

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