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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I recieved, as it often happens at my university, a conversation by email between (what I assumed to be) 2 students. Those students were not the first to put the whole university as copy of the mail (thanks mailing lists). But today I recieved those email 8 times and since I was pissed, I decided to answer both of them to tell them to use the mail listing properly.\n\nMy answer went as simple as \"No one cares about your life\". Clever as I am, I send this email from my iPhone on an alternate email adress that doesnt show my name.\n\nIt could have ended here if I hadn't press \"answer all\" and send this message to the whole university who was in copy... worse, my iPhone used my auto signature for the mail which is \"Regards, my name\". Also it turned out that the 2 students were 2 teachers trying to set up a small event.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "my fiance and i are throwing a very intimate family get-together so that our two immediate families can meet each other before the big day. this is also the first celebratory thing of any sort that he and i are doing for our wedding/engagement. the total head count is 19--only our parents, siblings, their spouses and children are invited. no friends, no aunts/grand parents/god parents, etc. are invited. we have made reservations at a very high end restaurant for the event, and are footing the bill for this and EVERYTHING else wedding-related.\n\nhis parents divorced on strained terms in 2011 due to cheating, among other reasons. they are cordial to each other (and very socially well behaved) at family gatherings. \n\none of my fiance's siblings gave us the heads up that FMIL would like to invite her boyfriend to this intimate dinner. fiance and i have met FMIL's boyfriend a total of 2 times ever since his parents divorced. we're not close. at all. i don't even know this guy's last name. previous family gatherings have included drama where one parent threatens to not attend if other parent's significant other also attends, though nothing like that has happened here (yet). we are assuming that would be the same case here. we'd really prefer to have both his parents attend. to FMIL's defense, she has been dating this gentleman for ~2.5 years, no threats of attendance have or haven't been made.\n\nthe family dynamics aside from FMIL's boyfriend is already a precarious social situation: not everyone gets along perfectly, but can be mature enough to hopefully behave themselves. despite how important these people are to us, and how much we may love them, we struggle to get along with the dynamics sometimes, which will already make this a very interesting dinner. the subject of the dinner is us, and not our families, and i feel that it is appropriate for us to leave it in the intimate setting in which we intended.\n\nso bottom line: do we invite FMIL's boyfriend and if we do not, how do we address this so FMIL doesn't freak out on us? are we being unfair?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't think I'm relationship-type. I'm also insecure about my level of femininity. \nMen that I meet (work/socially) are hardly ever single. The ones who are and that I get to know, I almost always develop a crush, but try so hard to hide it that they just end up becoming a good friend of mine. They usually make it clear that they are attracted to me, but I disregard it. I make it so easy to be comfortable with, the start sharing secrets and life stories and I do the same. And that's where I know I screw up. I also think I am headstrong, brazen and outspoken. I'm very opinionated. Also, I'm not as feminine (clothing) as other women. I wear makeup, do cute hairstyles, wear lipstick, do my nails, wear jewelry, I have a perfume collection, etc. But I do not wear skirts, dresses, or heels and open-toed shoes. I think it is all beautiful, but I feel so alien like with it on. I'm not a tomboy, I just don't like super girly attire. I've had a male friend tell me that he and a lot of other men would date me if I was more feminine and submissive. \nAlso, I've dated a couple of guys in the past who refuse to get serious with me. They don't take me seriously romantically. It seems like they'll try to hook up (9/10 times I'm not putting out) but not make anything exclusive. I'm starting to feel real insecure. Am I crazy and just don't know it? Do men really only date super feminine women? Am I too friendly? How can I become more comfortable? What do men like? I'm at a age where I want to be in a relationship and fall in love, but I'm not sure if someone will ever accept me for me. Sorry for the pity party. I've been single for so long, I have to accept it is my fault.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know the title sounds odd but I didnt know how else to word it.\n\nMy girlfriend grabs my boobs and pinches my nipples all the time no matter we are doing, I could be cooking, in the shower, in the car etc it usually doesn't annoy me but every now and then they get really sensitive or sore so I tell her and ask her to stop but she still does it anyway.\n\nBut, one thing that I sometimes have to say that has a 99% success rate is \"youre making me horny\" and she stops straight away. I think that's bullshit and it happened again last night and I actually got really really upset about it.\n\nShe knew something was up so I told her and I said \"its just really really weird that if I say my nipples are sore or sensitive you will still pinch them really hard and laugh about it but the moment I say im horny you stop.\" And she said \"oh great so now youre having an issue about sex\" and I said \"no im having an issue with the fact that telling you my nipples hurt doesnt stop you but saying im horny does, it makes me feel like shit how can you not see this from my point of view? If you say you are horny I jump your bones straight away, if I say im horny you stop its just shit\".\n\nSo she stormed out of the bedroom and came back in once she thought I went to sleep and now weve woken up shes giving me the silent treatment.\n\nShould I just let this relationship end? It really does make me feel like shit when it happens.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently got together with a guy. We got along swell, have tons in common, never a dull moment. Last time I saw him we talked about our expectations from the relationship. I told him I like to hear from his regularly and I like goodnight calls. Things were fine, ever since them he never talks to me. In a week I've heard from him like every other day. He says he's just been busy, but too busy to say \"hey ill be busy\"? \n\nDo you think he is just busy or should I just break things off with him? I'm not particularly attached to him, I'm not really even angry at him. Its too soon to have strong feelings for him. I just dont want to be that stupid little girl that doesn't know when I'm not wanted.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi /r/loseit! I am an 18 year old man, currently at 220~ pounds. I have been with a girl for almost a year long distance, and in 2 months (August 13th) I will be flying out to Minnesota to stay with her for two weeks. Its going to be the biggest moment of my life, and I want to look my best.\n\nLong story short, I am looking to lose as much weight as possible in these short two-months (unrealistic goal is 30-40lbs, but happy with anything). I don't have trouble losing weight necessarily, I just need motivation like this to get me started. I've been dieting for about a week now, since we booked the flights (it was a surprise birthday present). I work a very physical job so I don't believe exercise to be necessary at this point, but I am willing to cut calories to any amount, eat any food, buy any program... anything it takes. \n\nFor the last week, I've been consuming roughly 500 calories a day which I know is terrible. I haven't been hungry at all and I posses none of the cravings I used to. This happens everytime I attempt to lose weight, then I end up gaining again eventually. I realize quick and fast weight loss is NOT the most healthy or best way to go about doing things but I'm looking for a jump start. After we meet, I'll feel more confident about starting a manageable long term diet that will leave me as skinny, happy, and healthy as I would like.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey RA, so I need some help. I (18M) had been in a committed relationship with my ex (24M) for a good few months, but recently he broke up with me. It wasn't a bitter break up by any means. It wasn't something either of us did, it was just that he is having personal issues (he really is it's not a lie like I originally thought) and doesn't think he could do a relationship right now and doesn't want to give me the burden of his issues. In fact, we both agreed that we would remain friends and see what the future holds for us, but not to make any expectations. I am ok with that, I just miss him so much. We broke up on Tuesday night and I just need some advice of where to go from here. I have started talking to a few other guys and one guy (22M) is really nice and is just a good decent guy, but every few hours or so I think of my ex and I don't want to. Is it wrong for me to still like my ex or is it normal since it's only been a few days? I do have alittle bit of an emotional attachment to my ex and I don't want to cut him out of my life cause we are such great friends and I don't want to close the door on a friendship. Thoughts keep rolling through my head of whether or not he's out tonight and sleeping with someone else or on another date. I feel bad for being hypocritical but I can't help it, my mind lingers towards it. So I guess I just need some advice on what would be best for me. Thank you guys so much and I'm sorry if I rambled on a little bit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Four weeks ago, a mouse I adopted had six babies. All the babies looked like [wrinkly pink jelly beans] Nothing was amiss. \n\nDay 6 or so, we thought it was safe to [begin handling the babies] All babies looked fit and healthy and [were all the same size] It appeared as though they were having trouble moving their hind legs, but I chocked that up to them just learning to walk. I noticed it especially in the dark grey-brown ones, but in hindsight, maybe I had been handling the same mouse every time thinking that they were different. The only female was the white one, the rest were males, which made it even harder to differentiate between the three ones of the same color.\n\nOnce they really started growing hair and we handled them for hours at a time, we noticed [this guy] Do you see anything odd about him? How about if we [compare him to his brother] At first we thought he was paralyzed, but it soon became clear that was not the case. He could move his tail and his hind legs freely, but he didn't do it often. When he did decide to move his legs, the movements were stiff. He could curl his toes. He used his whole leg like a flipper to push himself along the table. We named him Forrest, after Forrest Gump, because he is a determined bugger who can't walk or do any mouse things as well as his brothers. \n\nNow, he is one third the size of his family. He developed slower than the others after day 12; his eyes opened about 4 days later, he took the longest to wean, and he is the least adventurous (understandably). \n\nAs with most random mouse pregnancies, there is a chance of the litter being a result of inbreeding. His body size makes me think it's not an environmental or physical cause, which leads me to genetic disease. Do his symptoms sound like anything you know about? My google-fu has failed me, but I am only a trainee. Thus, Forrest and I turn to you for help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend broke up with me before Christmas and I was literally TORN to pieces, and as much as I keep telling myself I'm over him, I'm not. He was my first boyfriend and maybe that's the reason I keep trying to stay in contact, but he wants nothing to do with me any more. And it breaks my heart. \n\n We were best friends from 15 years old and then we went out for 2 years until I was 18, he was 19. Shit happens and he moved away and didn't want the bother of a long distance relationship. He wouldn't answer my phone calls, he didn't reply to my letters, he just didn't give a shit. So I thought going to his new city would fix everything. Spent money on flights and trains and we were reunited and it felt like normal again, I met his new friends and loved them all!! Had the most amazing few days and cried when I had to leave. He texted my mum to tell her he thought I was wonderful and that all his friends liked me a lot and that he missed me every day. Life was back on track. \nThe weeks went by and things dragged again, the same stuff happened until one night, he texted me that he'd cheated on me and if that wasn't bad enough, he 'told his mum we weren't a thing anymore'. \n\nIt's now April and I can't stop thinking about him. I keep trying to stay in contact and he says we can be friends but he's being so dry when i talk to him, probably for my own good. I've kissed a few boys since and had cuddles with a long time 'crush' after a night out but nothing gives me even nearly the same feeling as seeing him even just smile does.\n\nHow much longer do I have to go of this?! And how can I speed up the process because by the looks of his social media he is definitely over me and has been for a long time. I hate that I must've been so much more emotionally invested than him for 2 whole years!!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Over this weekend I was able to meet a remarkable girl. Pretty much from the get go it was obvious that at least I was interested (I drunkenly gave her a flower at a cocktail party to start off our first conversation), but she also ended up hanging out with me the next night as well at my house, albeit with her friend. She knows I have a crush on her. I know she is interested in me at the least as a friend, but I am not fully confident if she is interested as anything more (we've only met a couple days, I'm about 60-70% sure she's interested in me beyond friendship - I thought I heard her asking her friend if it was okay to sleep over at my place but I'm not sure).\n\nI don't have a problem with LDRs provided they are serious but to be honest, I have my own life and school to focus on now anyway. I don't think I want a relationship as of the current moment. I'm more interested in down the road - this is the first girl that I met that is astoundingly pretty, captivating, and is part of my exact same culture (families are pretty much the exact same which I value a lot). Practically speaking, it's perfect material for a serious relationship save for the fact that she lives far away. Which pretty much renders the whole thing impractical as of the moment.\n\nI want to continue talking to her but I'm not sure where or how to gear the relationship. I'd like to get to know her better but also be in a place in the future where she knows I'm (likely) seriously interested and I can figure out if she is seriously interested in a relationship. \n\nI know I've only met her a couple days, but I've just got a feeling on this one...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, last night we were hanging out with these guys we met (they were like 18-24) and we had a good time, except my sister was really wanting to talk to the guy that was 18. (well they did talk I guess, and we're hanging out with them later)\n\nI felt pretty bad because he just got out of a relationship (it was over a year according to his friend), and when he told us about it, he seemed like he was wanting to cry but he held back. So I just felt bad for him. And back home, she has a thing with a guy already? \n\nNormally I would just let her do her thing, but then I realized she doesn't even know what she wants with the relationships she has (she admits to liking her ex (she saw him a few weeks ago), while having a thing with someone right now (from what she tells me it seems like he wants things to get serious: ex. inviting her to meet his family for his birthday last week), and then wanting to start things with this guy? Like I just don't think it's right.\n\nJust so everyone's clear, I'm not jealous, I think its stupid, but I don't want to get flack for being an ass...\n\nShould I talk to her, or let things happen and not say anything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was reading the artificial heaven question on this subreddit, and it got me thinking...too much. I've been watching a lot of scifi TV shows lately, and keep debating with myself about the point at which artificial life should be given the same rights humans have.\n\nI thought about it for a while, and concluded humans are similar to robots. From what I know, we have signals going through our bodies and neurons interacting to give us everything that makes us human (consciousness, self-awareness, etc). So I figure any type of artificial intelligence that reaches this level should be given the same rights, right?\n\nBut at the same time, wouldn't artificial intelligence just be a computer's imitation of consciousness, self-awareness, etc? And is that all we are too, except our brains imitation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like the title says, I'm 23. I look my age. I recently decided to get back into tennis since I stopped playing throughout college and wanted to introduce some sort of athletic activity into my life while avoiding my least favorite things in the whole world: getting fat and running. Everyone on my league team is very nice, although I do seem to be the youngest. (Ages range from 27 - 40s.) That's fine and no one has made comments.\n\nThe past couple weeks we've had matches against other teams that seem to consist of older women (40s - 60s). At each of these matches, one of my opponents has, at some point, asked: \"Are you even 18?!\" I don't really understand why they're saying this - to discredit me if me and my partner are winning? - but they're often very persistent. Not persistent enough to question my presence on the team, but enough to make me uncomfortable with their faux-joking. \n\nEven though it makes me uncomfortable in the moment, this isn't hovering over me or haunting my dreams. I just need some suggestions on how to shut this kind of thing down, especially with some quippy one-liner or something. I wrote the first time off but am now 2 for 2 at matches and so want to be prepared for the next time, since I'm assuming there will be one. Last time it happened, I tried to ask if they wanted to see my birth certificate but I don't think they really heard me. Awkward.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was messaging my friend we will call Donna and things were going okay but then she started acting really strange saying how she didn't want us to be friends anymore and then she said she wanted us to be strictly platonic friends (we would often start making out when spending time together and we did go on one date but she decided earlier she wasn't ready for a committed relationship which I understood but we would still kiss and we almost had sex at least twice. But anyway, today I was messaging her and she started acting weird and said how she wanted to be strictly platonic and didn't want to kiss me at all anymore. So I said that was probably a good idea so our relationship doesn't get compromised or confusing plus my feelings had grown more platonic towards her anyway, because I didn't want her to think that she was forcing me into an uncomfortable situation and that I would be crushing on her and constantly trying to be her boyfriend. It was at this point that she informed me that her roommate had written the line about wanting to be strictly platonic and everything. She then agreed anyway that it would be good for us to stop making out. So the conversation continued for a little while but she kept bringing up the fact that I said I didn't have romantic feelings for her anymore despite having made out and cuddled with her last night and accusing me of not liking her for her and only the things she did for me. Things just escalated from there and now I'm really worried that she won't be my friend anymore etc.\n\nI was just hoping someone on here could give me some advice any thoughts really on this situation because I'm completely lost and in a very dark place as a result of possibly losing her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone, I'm totally new here but I'm searching for some advice so thank you in advance if you choose to share your opinion with me :)\nSo, my boyfriend and I got engaged over a month ago and I've already started to plan our wedding. I can't wait to get married - I've been dreaming of the day coming ever since I was little - and I want everything to be perfect, the way I imagined. As you might probably suspect from my question, my fiance is Scottish and I'm not. And mind you, he is very - I mean VERY - proud of his heritage and ancestry and what follows, wears his kilt to every celebration. The point is, I've always imagined my wedding traditional, with my groom wearing a tuxedo and I can't get used to the idea of him wearing a kilt and hiring a piper for our special day. I'm definitely talking him out of bagpipes but I know for sure that he wants to wear kilt and nothing else for the wedding.\nNow my question is, am I selfish to ask him to wear something else for me? Would YOU say yes if your SO asked for sth like that?\nI'm torn because I don't want to force him or make him give the kilt up because of guilt but at the same time, I know how perfect it'll be if he wears a tux :(\nI know it's trivial compared to other problems people share here but it's really important for me. So if you take your time to give your opinion it's much appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently started seeing someone exclusively, and it seems we are having a lot of communication issues and I'm not sure how to approach them. \n\nI have been in romantic relationships pretty consistently since the age of 15. They are not always serious, but the casual ones are always casual because I am usually seeing a few people at once. When I get into exclusive relationships, they seem to progress very quickly. If I've made up my mind that someone is worth investing in, I go all-in (to an extent, I mean - I've never planned to marry anyone or anything like that - but I do take monogamous relationships seriously once I decide to be in them). \n\nThe person I am dating now was last in a relationship two years ago with someone he dated for 6 years. He is really sweet and fun and we get along great. The trouble is, he's sort of taciturn and seems disconnected. I've asked him about it in the past and he was pretty passive in his response but still insisted that he wants to be dating me. I just feel like right now, we should be very excited about each other and everything should be romantic and nice. Instead, I feel sort of unwanted and bummed out. He went out of town for 5 days and didn't call me once. I got a few texts, but he didn't seem excited to come back at all. I don't know how to express my expectations and the like without seeming like I am expecting too much from him or something. We are supposed to go on holiday together in two days and I am feeling very apprehensive. I really want to go on the trip we've planned, but don't want to spend the whole time feeling insecure and bad. Best course of action?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in a rut. My family decided to go Chengdu recently but threw all the planning matters to me, and I am in a lost of what is Chengdu like other than hotter than sin hotpots and an other worldly location in Jiuzhaigou.\n\nHere's the plan:\n3 days Chengdu. No idea what locations to visit. I browse thru sites at Tripadvisor. Personally I think I will choose Jinli, Hakka Village. Somewhere unique but not too \"fake\". My parents unfortunately has a rather bad experience in Kyoto and they would like it if its not full of \"UNESCO\" heritage stuff but scenery is way too manufactured (I know, quite a controversial opinion but it makes my dad refuses to go to Tokyo this year even if he never been there). And some nice food. My dad's quite picky and quite unpredictable with food taste but he does like non-oily food. He is quite contradictory when it comes to oily food.\n\nThere is a talk of going Hailuogou. We have never been in a glacier and in short term are not likely to go to anything similar but our aunt recommend us to go there. Personally it sounds great to me.\n\n3 days JiuZhaiGou - We are not going to Huanglong or WenChuan (we really dont want to), but straight away to JiuzhaiGou by flight. Will it be feasible to go in 3 days? What are the things I should take care of? By the way Jiuzhaigu is a compulsory for the trip.\n\n2 days Chengdu.If we are going Hailuogou then we will go to the places mentioned above.\n\nAll of my family speak Chinese so languages shouldn't be a concern. Should we get a guide in Chengdu/hailuogou or Jiuzhaigou? My dad is disabled so he's our primary concern. He is perfectly willing to shell out money for transport/stay in hotel if the place is too dangerous, but we will like it if he can participate with us if not all of the time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was never good at making friends, and I probably never will be. My parents knew that, so my mother decided I should meet the daughter from one of her friends. \n\nShe was so nice to me. She invited me to her parties and her friends - even thought I didn't know them very well - were just as nice as she was. I had so much fun. But we saw each other less and less.\n\nI have to mention; I don't live in America but in the Netherlands. And here middle school and high school are one school; one \"middle school\", and you go there when you're around twelve.\n\nSo I didn't saw her in four years when I went to middle school. I was so surprised when I saw her, and decided to send her e-mails. We mailed a lot and I wanted to talk to her in school. Before I could finish my sentence, she mumbled uninterested \"yeah..\" and never spoke or mailed to me again. She didn't even looked me in the eye anymore. Why? Why the fuck? This frustrated me to this day. Maybe she didn't wanted to be friends with me because she was one grade higher. Or maybe because she's super beautiful, skinny and tall and I'm ugly, plump and short. Or maybe because my e-mails were childish? Or \nmaybe I'm a fucking embarrassment for somebody as popular as her. Or maybe, after all those years, she could finally see I'm just some weirdo who doesn't have any real friends. How could she be so mean, after all those years? I know I never meant much to her, but she meant a lot to me. She was the only friend I had. And now she's going to the 4th grade from our middle school. They have other lunch breaks so I'll hardly ever see her again. And I'll keep wondering forever..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I and my girlfriend are both 20 years old. I am a male and she is female. We've been together for about 3 months now and both of us go to the same college. We started off as a friends and would constantly flirt, talk about sex, wrestle, and cuddle; pretty much every indicator that we both wanted sex to happen. And eventually it did; we became friends with benefits. The sex was amazing, and daily. We even decided to try for having sex 100 times in 100 days. At day 20 we'd had sex 27 times, and this included being apart for a week. She was insatiable, I could barely keep up with her.\n\nEven before we started having sex I'd always had a thing for her, and as time went on we started spending more and more time together. Finally I asked her if she was willing to make what was already a relationship in all but word, official. To my joy she said yes. \n\nAnd almost immediately after we actually became a couple, her libido bombed. Circumstances beyond control forced us to cancel our attempt at 100 times in 100 days, and in the three short months since we've become official we've gone from sex one or two times a day to having sex maybe once or twice a week. More than that, she's no longer as receptive or interested in flirting the way we used to before we became a 'we'.\n\nI'm a very, very sexual person, I feel that a healthy, frequent sex life is essential to a strong relationship. I also feel that communication is important, so I've approached her and discussed whats happened with her. Neither of us have any idea what's going on, and neither of us like it. But I'm so tired of having my sexual advances being rejected by my girlfriend that its getting to the point that I don't even want to try to initiate sexual contact anymore.\n\nSo my question is, what could have happened, and how do I fix it? And if I can't fix it, what are some tips for dealing with the physical rejection?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway acct.\n\n6 months ago, my younger brother explained to my mom that he found the doctor that he had his sports physical with \"creepy\" and that he didn't want to go back to him again. He explained that the doctor had touched him for a long time, but my mom thought that it was just his reaction to having his first physical without her in the room. 6 months later, after learning of similar charges being brought against the doctor by others, my mom talked to him and he confessed that he knew what the doctor had done was wrong, and that it had really scared him. I won't go into any details, but what he described was indisputably molestation. My mom is afraid to press charges because she doesn't want him to have to describe the situation any more than he already has. Personally, I think that not dealing with this now is going to really fuck him up down the road. Reddit, do you side with my mom, or me on this? If there are any professional lawyers, psychologists, etc that have dealt with this, what is the right decision right now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background information:\nMy condition was overlooked until now (19) due to a combination of what I assume was my intelligence compensating for the deficit and an aversion to the idea of ADD/ADHD by a great part of my family.\n\nI first became interested in ADD while talking to a friend about her condition and, upon further research, diagnosed myself; however, that is another story.\n\nThis thread isn't about ADD and I don't want ADD to be discussed on it. My question stems from a new found ambitious drive and the fact that, while medicated, I am able to better access and apply my mind. A lot of my current inspiration comes from the idea of a renaissance man, Edmond Dantes, and The Most Interesting Man in the World.\n\nAll being said, I humbly ask my fellow Redditors to answer a few questions:\n(feel free to answer as many or as few as you please)\n\nWhat do you wish you would have done (to invest in yourself) when you were 18-22?\n\nName your top 3 books/philosophers/inspirational materials of all time.\n\nConvince me why I should learn a specific language as opposed to any other.\n\nLadies of Reddit, what sort of learned habits/characteristics/hobbies/skills do you find attractive in a Man?\n\nWhat is a skill/subject I should dedicate some time to grow/learn about that will benefit me down the road?\n\nWhat ideas/motifs should I attempt to avoid throughout my human experience?\n\nAny other piece of information you would like to give me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a girl last year, and started to get to know her better in school. We ended up becoming really good friends and I eventually got the courage to ask her out. She didn't say no, but she did say that she was emotionally unavailable and kind of unstable to be in a relationship. So we just became friends. \n\nA few days ago, we talked about it some more. I wanted to make sure that she was interested in a more serious relationship still (mainly because I was terrified that I had been friend-zoned). I was not, and she said that she was interested and could still see us together, but that her life was still to hectic to include something like that. I was relieved, as she also said that she would even tell me when she was ready to progress. I would never pressure her into something like this.\n\nSo how should I simply comfort her during this time? She's getting over some depression issues, but I can see how bright and optimistic she is, and I want to be there for her. What tips can you give me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for the awkward title! I've always dated friends before, so I've always leapt into the \"relationship\" phase. The last couple months have been my first time actually dating around, and I've met some great people - but they're still basically strangers.\n\nMy standards are low, but I do have some requirements and don't want to waste my time or choose a guy who doesn't fit my tastes over a guy who does. For example, I don't want to date guys who smoke or do drugs even recreationally (but I do want drinkers) and I want guys who want kids in the future. There's also more specific ones; for example, I've been on two dates with a guy who lives over an hour away from me and while I'm starting to really like him, but I don't want to keep seeing him if I can't sleep over at his place in the future (he rents from an older woman who knows his parents and lives in the other bedroom, so there's a chance I won't be able to). \n\nI'm having trouble figuring out how and when to phrase these questions. Smoking/drugs feel awkward to bring up without context and I don't want to make guys think I'm crazy or trying to get pregnant asap by talking about kids when we're unexclusively dating. Same sort of thing with the guy with the roommate - he's really cute and sweet but we've only kissed once and haven't even mentioned sex. I don't want to scare him off by asking if he can host, be rude by inviting myself over, or make myself sound like a thief.\n\nThese are just examples, but I figure if I can get some advice on these I can extrapolate it to other issues. I do make it clear that I'm looking for long term relationships and I move pretty slowly with everyone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all, \n\nI [22F] have been dating my bf [21M] for around a month now, and everything has been going great! \n\nBUT there's one problem... he CONSTANTLY talks about his ex-girlfriend. I'm not really the jealous type, so for the first couple of weeks, I didn't mind it. I figured that since they dated for over three years (they broke up 9 months ago), it's inevitable that she would be part of most of his stories and anecdotes... And I really enjoyed how open we were being with each other... \n\nBut now that it's been over a month of him mentioning her at least 3-4 times a day, it's getting a little old. Things that he mentions about her include her food preferences, cute little things she used to do, what she would get angry about, her sexual preferences, things that used to bother him about her, etcetc. The whole shebang. \n\nIt doesn't make me jealous or worried (should I be? haha), but it does irk me a little... Since it's not a hugehuge deal, is this something that is worth mentioning? Should I simply hope that it'll die off after a while?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've (29) been chatting with a lady (31) I met online for the past month and we have been seeing each other for 2-3 weeks now. She has clearly expressed interest in me and vice versa, but I am concerned that I am becoming too emotionally invested early on. I believe there is good potential and she's expressed the same, so I would like to make sure it runs its own course without me negatively impacting it.\n\nEarly on, we would have long chats over text which I really enjoyed. Now, those are less existent which would lead me to think she's not as interested, but she still expresses interest in including me in her life and making time for me for us to go on dates even though her time is severely limited.\n\nIt leaves me feeling a bit peculiar because the dates are so great that the void in between dates is taxing at times. I enjoy/respect that she is independent, so I don't mind that she is leading her own life and slowly involving me. \n\nI suppose what I'm really asking for is perspective. I've never enjoyed when the person I was dating was clingy and I feel the roles are slightly reversing in this relationship. I do not want to appear as a clingy person. I'm not sure how to express interest and show I care without being too emotionally invested.\n\n \nWhat do you guys think? Any stories or advice is greatly appreciated! I feel like I'm shooting myself in the foot here and I don't want to cripple myself in this relationship or future ones if this doesn't work out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together almost 2 years. I'm 27, she will be 27 in a couple months. She is a very emotional person and is having continual stress issues with her job, her family, and problems in our relationship that stem from lack of communication. I live alone in a 1br apartment. She lives alone in a condo.\n\nBasically the problem has become that over the months, she has been consistently stressed out to the point where I will call her and she will describe it as having a meltdown and that she is not able to progress in her personal and professional life, usually because of simple things like not having time to clean her house, and not feeling adequate at work, respectively. (even tho at work they all said they like her). This has happened more than a few times.\n\nI don't have a lot of stress in my life so I don't know what shes going through, but I feel it is not normal. I did find out last night that when she was in college, she saw a therapist for this same reason. I have been supportive but it has been consistent for so long that it is taking its toll on me as well and just causing more issues.\n\nSo last night we had a long discussion, and it ended with us both agreeing (more reluctantly on her part) that we need to take a step back. We decided to take a temporary break to allow both of us to have quality time with ourselves and get some perspective.\n\nI love her and neither of us want to break up permanently. But if things don't get better we can't keep destroying ourselves.\n\nHas anyone ever done this temporary break thing before? How did it work out? How exactly do you \"do\" it anyway? Any other advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I just got hooked up with a girl a couple weeks ago by my friends, the first relationship of my life (hers too) and we're both pretty shy, introverted, and like the same things. After the first date, she warmed up extremely quickly and made the first advances, and was super affectionate in general. We text every day, for hours upon hours but the conversations are rarely interesting. Over texting, her replies are usually only a few words in length and are only replies to questions I ask about her. She's still super affectionate, and frequently makes reference to how \"I'm the best decision I've ever made\", calls me cute and babe all the time, says she anticipates our next date, will occasionally use some innuendos followed by \";)\" yet never asks questions about me or brings up topics of conversation. Her non-flirting replies only answer my question directly, with no intention of moving forward the discussion. Sometimes, I'll take a 5 minute break from texting (she always replies instantly, so points for eagerness?) to see if she'll come up with anything on her own. She invariably doesn't. \n\nTo be frank, if it weren't for her frequent references to her attraction towards me, and the fact that she always initiates the conversations, it would appear that she has no interest in me at all.\n\nThe way I see it, she's either:\n\n1. Only attracted to me physically and not for my person (interests etc.) which doesn't make much sense considering I'm slightly overweight and not particularly attractive.\n\n2. Doesn't really like me but wants to put in the minimum effort to keep the relationship going, since I'm her first and she likely has no other alternatives, as neither do I\n\n3. Texting just isn't her thing\n\nNone of these bode well, but she's a really nice person and extremely pretty and I don't want to lose this opportunity. What do you guys think?\n\nAlso, if it's relevant I was recently diagnosed with clinical depression and have a tendency to get paranoid, thinking everyone hates me, and generally overrexaggerate things. Is it a possibility that I'm just delusional and everything's fine?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so I'm basically fucked. Let me get started on how badly I'm going to lose my job.\n\nSo today at work my boss was sick so he called in her daughter who is a year older than me to come in to help close. So she came in and we proceeded to get done clean up and the other workers left. I work in a grocery store by the way so nothing too special. Anyways I was getting my stuff from the back when she came back there and she started to get really touchy.\n\nSo this is where shit got hot and heavy and we proceeded to carry on, she blew me for a bit and then she asked if I had a condom. I had one in my car so I went out of the store, but I took the short way which was to open the loading door, at the time I thought nothing of it. So we finished up and she said she has been wanting to do that for a long time and next time we should make it even more kinkier and all over the store.\n\nSo this is where shit gets bad. I was driving home when I was thinking of how awesome it was, when the thought hit me. The alarm was set because we had locked up. So tomorrow my boss is going to get to work and see the alarm had gone off, and do what anyone would do. Watch the camera's. So I'm basically fucked.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's a little background on us\nWe have been friends since I was a junior in high school. We have always just kinda clicked and gotten along really well. I find her very attractive and wonderful.I enjoy her company and I think she enjoys mine because she laughs at my jokes/me alot (in a good way). I'm not afraid to talk to her about my problems or anything. and we have a pact to get married when she turns 30 (if we havent found another person)\nNow we are juniors in college, and we both go to the same university (It has 50,000 students). While we have different sets of friends, and dont see each other but maybe 2-3 times a month. we are still close.\nWell today I went to go try on this pair of boots I had made (its part of my schools military tradition, hard to explain). Its a pretty big deal and I asked her to come with me to take some pictures. While we were waiting for others in line to finish, we were talking and hanging out. She always puts her head on my shoulders or messes with my phones. makes us take selfies, etc. Its almost always like this whenever we hang out.\nAfter we left the shoe place, my buddy who also came with us to the shoe place asked what the deal was between me and her. He said it seems like you have feelings for her (which I do) and she has feelings for me. He said we are just really good together. Several of my other friends who have met her/been around us have said the same thing. I don't know how she feels about me, because I have always felt hat she just views me as her close guy friend.\nHowever, I love our friendship between me and her too much to try and jeopradize our friendship or make it awkward between us. What do you r/askwomen think I should do? (should I just continue being friends or tell her how I feel? )", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend (22M), let's call him A, came to me and told me he cheated with his best friend (B)'s girlfriend. She is in town for the month and will be going back soon. After they slept together, she told A that she wants to dump B to be with him. A told her that he doesn't do long distance (she lives in another country) and even though he kept saying that, they still continue sleeping. She eventually broke up with B and now I have B coming to me seeking emotional support. It's destroying me that I have to keep this secret and to comfort B.\n\nB asked A if he could do him a favor and let her sleep at his place (he completely trusts him) and he has no clue that they are just sleeping together behind his (B) back.\n\nB now thinks he owes A a massive favor and is buying him gifts, favors, errands, whatever. \n\nShe will be heading home soon but this doesn't change the position I'm in.\n\nWhat do I do? Do I just pretend like I know nothing or does B deserve to know? I don't know how B will react.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 23 year old, single virgin medical student. I'm trying to find someone to date but every girl is seemingly either taken here or not looking for anything. Also, I'm reluctant to even ask anyone out because I'm scared of my having my life change drastically by virtue of being in a relationship. Even so, I still get depressed when I meet a nice girl and find out she's in a relationship. I don't want to end up alone in my 30s while all my friends are living happily ever after. How do I stop caring about all this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi :)\n\nNames Joshua and I plan to go on an adventure within the next year or so to the great European continent. I was hoping to hear some tips and tricks from fellow travelers or those whom occupy the nations. I will list some details in the next few paragraphs. Please post anything related to my plan, because it is all new to me!!\n\nI plan to join the Merchant Mariner's after finishing my Seafarers schooling. \n\nAfter working the boat, I hope to hit the EU scene with one of my best friends whom is doing the same thing.\n\nCountries in mind include: France, Italy, Germany, Norway or Denmark, Spain, and Austria. But the sky is the limit.\n\nWe plan to Back-Pack it the whole way with about 10,000 grand in our spending budget, as well as another 10 grand in our savings. (each)\n\nWe are definitely looking for new experiences and being able to go with the flow. Really hoping to meet some new people!\n\nI'm really excited to start this adventure and during my time working and saving I will be studying and planning this trip. All information is helpful. I am especially interested in understanding the state of the economy, what type of VISA I should apply for (if any), what to pack and bring, and most defintelly I am looking for people who might be interested to take us in for a few days and/or provide us with work.\n\nThink of it as bumming around Europe.. But with cash in hand.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a pretty friendly and outgoing guy, but I am confused about something. I usually smile at people and say hi cordially (even strangers), but when I see Muslim women in headscarves, I am worried that they will take offense to me smiling and looking them in the eye. So in the end, if I accidentally make eye contact, I quickly look away so I don't feel like I am offending them, but that seems even more rude.\n\nI am in the US, and my heritage is East Indian (Hindu). I live in AZ and women with headscarves probably already have such a hard time with discrimination in this state. I just want to do what is right. With my Indian background, I look similar to Muslims, and I am worried that that may create even more offense, as if I am leering or something when I am really just a nice guy.\n\nMy fiancee and I were at the mall yesterday, and it came up. I smiled and said hi to the women behind us in line, and they looked a little taken aback. Did I fuck up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I come here for the links, the pictures, the videos, the discussions, the awesome altruism, and the occasional boob(s). The only reason I care if randomdudeORgirl123 has 400 points is because it makes the front page and it catches my attention first. I am also (sort of) guaranteed that the post will be a good one. Yeah, it does feel nice to get upvotes and sometimes if my comment gets downvoted into oblivion then I delete it out of shame, but how is it useful to anyone to call others out on karma whoring if they posted a screen shot and received more upvotes than the original post? I actually enjoyed the screen shot post about the guy getting the free pizza, and he's right, reddit is awesome cuz of stuff like that, and I would have missed out on that reminder of awesomeness had it not been for that repost. \nAlso, how can I karma whore if I can only give myself one vote? \nLet's just quit the \"he/she has more points than I think he/she deserves\" and get back to the \"nice... upvote\" or \"meh.. leave it alone\" or \"ugh.. downvote\".", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's this girl [26] who is out of a 2 year relationship where her ex was cheating on her. It's been about 5 months. \n \nI've [27/m] had a few nights with her, we chatted a bit about what she wants etc, and I've not said I want a relationship (though she might have interpreted this) and she's basically said she just wants to \"kiss all the boys\" or flirt with everyone now that's she's single. \n \nShe's still flirting with me, and definitely conflicted as to what she wants as we may have a plan to have a night together but then all of a sudden it's called off (not in a beating round the bush way, just \"I think this may complicate things so it may not be a good idea\" way.) \n \n\nI'm at wits end with what to do - tell her I really like her and would like to keep hanging out, with no expectations of a relationship or anything more serious than being friends who've shared a few nights together... or walk away and close the door on anything happening, i.e. stop flirting and just be friends. \n \nWe had planned to talk about this since the last time it was called off, but neither of us have raised a time or place to discuss it. \n \nI feel like bringing the issue up etc puts me in a bad position and may make her want to avoid me. I'd really appropriate any insight or thoughts on the matter.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, long story short, we've been together more than 15 years, married for 10, no kids yet, and we love to travel. We've always traveled kind of thriftily, but I was planning a 10 Year Balls-to-the-Wall something or other until we got a little bad news: she needs back surgery, and she needs it fairly quickly. I started working to move my plans up on the calendar, no matter what the changes cost me, but then I found out that she's on strict orders not to travel while awaiting surgery. FML.\n\nHer recovery time will be a small number of months, but in the mean time I'd like to commemorate the date with something a little more special than a really nice dinner, etc. To make matters more complicated, the surgery is only a few days after our anniversary date and it's happening in another city (Houston), so we'll be several hundred miles from most of our friends and all of our family except for her parents.\n\nAnd I have absolutely no idea what to do. I've looked into getting some of our friends to come down and have some sort of a party, but I couldn't get anywhere with that for a variety of reasons (not least of which was the aforementioned hundreds of miles of travel). I've rescheduled our whirlwind trip for as soon as she can reasonably be expected to be capable of travel, but that won't be for several months.\n\nWhat can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ever since the Winter began in my country, which is located in South America, I've been feeling kind of depressed and lonely. I don't feel by any means good, and the situation keeps getting worse and worse. My main problem is I can't seem to get rid of my past: tiny and non-important situations that I shouldn't be feeling bad about at all. Just please, help me. I feel like I'm a complete mess that only creates problems to other people and on top of that I'm useless. I've made people I do really care for worry about me, but it looks like they've been getting tired of it as well, and I can't really blame them. Every single Winter is the same thing, I always get nostalgic and solitude just seems to be always by my side.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've not been in a relationship for about 3 years. The last one ended poorly put while I was in it, it was very passionate. Before and after this relationship I've been going to a therapist for some mild form of depression.\n\nFast forward to the beginning of 2014. It seems over the past two years or so depression has gotten worse and everything seems pointless. I decided I couldn't do the single lifestyle any more and found this girl who is very intelligent, kind, pretty, funny. I found out she had an eating disorder and depression and we've been able to talk about these things which has been helpful to both of us, I think. While this girl has been great, I'm not feeling the same spark with her as I was the ex. I know this girlfriend likes me a lot, but I think if she said \"I love you,\" I would freak out because I don't feel that way. I mean, I care for her and respect her and don't want to hurt her, but it's just not as much positive feeling or passion as I know I can be capable of. I bounce back and forth multiple times a week or day on if I should end things with her or not because of a lack of feelings on my part. The thing is that it would be through no fault of her own. What do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit,\n\nI am a 30/m and I've been in a relationship for 6 years with a girl younger than me, but not by much. I love her. She is the most pure, kind person I'll ever meet. She understands me, I understand her and we have always considered each other soul mates. I am very, very lucky.\n\nWhat brings me here, then?\n\nLast weekend, I went out for afternoon drinks with some friends. They all left quite early in the evening and I decided to stay out drinking on my own. Not usual for me at all but I've been feeling a bit jaded in general lately.\n\nI ended up meeting a girl at one bar I went to and I felt that same damn spark I haven't felt in a long time. She knew about my relationship from the start and nothing physical happened between us. We just spent hours talking and going from bar to bar with some of her friends. The subtext wasn't as innocent however.\n\nIn addition to a good dose of well-deserved guilt, I am now completely conflicted. Everything I thought I knew isn't. Or, I was in denial and the truth just hit me in the face. Or, nothing much happened but I was so drunk it seemed amazing. I'm not sure what to believe.\n\nThis girl gave me her number, \"if ever things should change\". I threw it out in a panic when I got home and the trash had gone when I went back to get it. Part of me is happy about that. Part of me really wants it back even though I'm not sure what I'd do with it.\n\nI don't necessarily want a relationship with this other girl. I really don't want to end my current relationship. All I know is I would like that feeling of excitement in my life more often.\n\nCan anyone offer some advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I currently live in city A, where my girlfriend is from. My girlfriend is in city B for the next couple of years, currently living in residence for school. This April I'm also moving to city B for school - I have 450 hours (1-3 months) of placement before I can work as a registered nurse. Until I'm finished with that and working, I'll be living on student loans. I'm moving to city B for this as placements often lead to jobs - and city B is the place to be. My girlfriend and I are planning on moving in together with a relatively low budget, however it will work out to be the same as if we were living in dorms. Her parents control her finances so we're fairly limited in what we can afford. Recently, her parents suggested that we allow her brother, who's also moving to city B for school, to move in with us. This would allow us to go from renting a small basement apartment to a decently sized unit. I feel like this won't work out smoothly, though. Her brother is a great guy - very quiet, introverted, and spends most of his time in his room. I fear he may feel left out as the third wheel. They get along great and never fight, however aren't very close. Additionally, I fear that with all three of us having social lives the place may be cramped. I was initially excited as moving in with my girlfriend meant us starting our adult lives together - now with her brother it will feel like we're in dorms again. That being said, it would save money and help out her brother as well. He says he doesn't want to impose, but wouldn't mind it as long as we're okay with it. What do you guys recommend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One night while down at a party spot near a creek with some friends (we were all in high school), I pulled out some dog repellent I had found to show it off. It got passed around and soon someone I knew said she was going to spray this other kid we didn't like so much. Not wanting to cause serious trouble to him, I told her I would spray the back of his neck to show her how bad it hurt on just skin -- not the eyes or face. I sneak up behind him and raise the bottle... when suddenly he turns his head slightly... right as I begin spraying the dog repellent. It bounced off the inside of his glasses and hit his eye. He let loose a howl and began dousing his eye with creek water, trying to flush out the chemicals. A few days later I saw him in school and he told me that I had burned away 30% of his retina.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 10 months ago my GF(20F) of 1 year told me(27M) about her past as an escort. It was completely against her will and started as just rapes organized by her at the time BF. I thought I had dealt with this. Literally didn't think about it for months now. \n\nThen we were watching Drive and she started acting funny when the shoot out started and as he's holding the girl down on the motel bed. She was reacting to the gun violence, but it triggered my mind. And it all came flooding back. To be clear I'm not upset with her. Never blamed her, still don't. Her life was hell and when you have no support bad stuff happens easily.\n\nHowever I can't stop thinking about wanting to bring harm to her ex. I've caught myself looking for him as I drive to work (he works down the street) again. Literally feeling sick today that this guy is out there walking around enjoying life like nothing happened. Also upset with myself that I am this obsessed with wanting to crush someone's world when I've never even met him.\n\nI love this girl to death, she means everything to me. She's off her meds now and dealing with it herself so she's not as willing to talk about it at the moment. So I feel completely stuck. I've dealt with it before but I had her help.\n\nAnyone have any advice? We move 1.5 hours from home into an apartment together in 4 days so at least driving by the motels she used to be taken to is not going to be an issue anymore. But that guy is still just down the street. I know the obvious \"talk to her\" and will be, but right now I'm so stressed with Moving, work, getting my car fixed, etc to really have a proper conversation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So our subdivision is consisted of a bunch of racist assholes....It's a pretty well off upper-middle class area. My \"situation\" begins from the community facilities area (where the pool, basketball, tennis courts are). They implemented a really retarded security gate feature, that requires an electronic keycard. Now the entering process with the card is really annoying to me as the gate never opens, and it just beeps.. So I just jump over it...There's 2 gates, one gate for sidewalk opening and another for cars to pass through....It has security cameras (god forbid someone trespasses to play tennis or what have you)...So apparently they caught \"me\" and \"a companion\" opening the car part of the gate on camera.. Pictures were taken and distributed to all residents, but someone out of honesty replied saying it was \"us.\" Now the board of directory is claiming that the gate was tampered with and all this exaggerated bullshit, even though many people pass through the same way, but we have no proof...they are denying access and claiming to bill \"us\" of damages....Judging by videos/pictures they can't necessarily \"convict\" it to be us... because \"I\" haven't confessed to be any part of it... Now bear in mind there has been many robberies in our neighborhood, I've been robbed for at least a grand of things in my garage including mail...yet they chose to add security to an unnecessary area.. Now what can I do in my defense? They are not buying that we didn't do anything in terms of damage, it's pretty evident that nothing was necessarily damaged, just the gate was yanked open....It is a huge metal gate that's magnet retracted....So in my defense what can I say/do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a senior in high school, so I'm going to preface this post by saying I'm not looking for something long-term, but I want to have a fun relationship to end the year. \n\nGirl 1 is 16, so she's a little young, but she's very attractive, and we share lots of interests/ have similar hobbies. I've had a bit of a crush on her for a while, but never really did anything. (dating an 8th grader as a sophomore seemed a bit weird)The thing is ,though, I am friends with her older sister, so I don't know if this will end up being a problem.\n\nGirl 2 is 18, and I was told from her best friend that she wants to hook-up with me. She's a very funny girl and also very cute but I've heard from multiple people that she's still not over her ex. She's also much more experienced sexually, which is a positive.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me a female 21yr and my cousin female 23yr have been best friends for a long time (were neighbors too). My cousin has always been wilder than me and although I do love her she is much more manipulative and she dates many guys. \nA few months back I met one of her guy friends and we hit it off, I have never felt that connection with someone. She immediately prohibited me from seeing him because he was ' hers\". Anyways we went back to my place, my cousin got drunk and danced that night, I stayed up talking with him and he told me he liked me because I was sweet. We started talking after that and eventually started seriously dating. I started to really fall for him and we spent almost everyday together. We never had sex because I wanted to wait.\nAll behind my cousins back. \nI know its is wrong what I did and take full responsibility on what happens after.\nWell first ( at around 8 months) he turned out to be a total different person than I had once believed. He eventually was totally different and started growing extremely distant.\nI became very attached and it really hurt me.So we broke up.\nBut, now is when things get weird. He began speaking to my cousin once more, and I thought it was very harmless because she is not his type.\nWe all decided to go out on Thursday ( his best friend 23yr Male, him, my cousin and I) although I knew this was a bad situation I was getting myself into. He ended up being with her the whole night. I drank too much and of course that didn't end well. I kissed his best friend, fell on my ***, I told him he was a terrible person and even cried a bit? ( Which is really out of my character)\n\nNow him and my cousin are going out more often. \nWhile I, have to sit back and say nothing. \nIt is really hard to see them together and I do not know what to do?\nI know I should have not lied in the first place and I wonder why he is doing this? \nWhat is the best thing I can do?\nShut up and deal with it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating officially for nine months, but talked for a couple months prior. He is a really fantastic guy and is super sweet to me. I am his first serious relationship and he is my second. The last guy I dated was in a three year relationship but he turned out to be a class A asshole. \n\nThis semester is our last semester at school and it has been a little stressful trying to figure out where we are going to end up and what that means for our relationship. We know now that we are going to be three hours apart just based off of where we got jobs. But I told him after about a year I'd be willing to move pretty much anywhere. And a three hour drive isn't a big deal to either of us, so we are now recently over this hump. \n\nLately with the busyness of the semester wrapping up and lots of group events, it's taken a slight toll on our intimacy, meaning mainly \"peck kisses\". We haven't progressed much beyond first base in our relationship, which is fine with me. I've been trying to not pressure him because I have gotten pressured before and that's not fun. We also have not said I love you to each other, but I know I love him. \n\nIn January after our winter break he told me he thought he was falling for me after missing me for a couple weeks. However, last night he said he feels like we have plateaued and that he could not say with certainty he loves me. I appreciated his honesty. I asked him if he still liked me or if he thought of me as more of a friend. He said he still liked me and enjoyed spending time with me. But he doesn't know what love is and feels like most college relationships would have had sex by now or said I love you and that it worries him we haven't. \n\nI told him there's not a set timeline for when things are supposed to happen for everyone (sex, i love you, etc). But he's over-thinking everything (something he's good at). I also think he’s worried about moving forward physically knowing that I have more experience than him. I don't know how to have him just follow his gut instinct, even if that winds up hurting me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Allow me to clarify in the least-douchey way possible: \nI'm the first person in my family to go to college and I'm pretty smart. All of my life I've been really good at smiling and nodding when someone sounds like an idiot because it's really none of my business to go around correcting people, that's a dick move. For some reason, though, it's been getting harder and harder to let people continue speaking without trying to correct them. For example, today my grandma was trying to convince me that eating one mushroom and half an onion each day would completely stop any cancer growth. (She saw it on some TV \"doctor\" show.) On Christmas I found out that people still exist that don't believe we ever landed on the moon. \n \nIt makes me feel like a terrible elitist asshole to correct grandma by saying, \"You know that isn't really proven? There's been no peer reviewed studies supporting it... Don't trust the TV 'doctors' please.\" How do you handle situations like this? Is it more polite to let my ignorant relatives continue to be ignorant?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys. I have used this thread to search up interview tips and it has payed off! I have received a verbal offer from the hiring manager at firm A.\n\nThe problem is, I have also interviewed with 2 other competing firms and that process has went quite well so far. I've been through 2 telephone interviews and an in person interview at firm B, and 2 in person interviews and a telephone interview with firm C.\n\nNow that I have an offer from firm A, I'm very curious to here back from B and C. I'm unsure as to how to approach this, because I don't want to keep firm A waiting too long. Each firm has their respective qualities that I really like, and if an offer was presented by all of them it would definitely be a very tough choice for me. Is there any way to speed up this process as far as finding out if a decision has been made by either firm B or C?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So as the title suggests, I met this girl at a Physiotherapy clinic I go to for my back. I go there around 3 times a week. We started talking there and sooner or later I added her onto fb (turns out, we have a few friends in common). So we end up talking for a while, like 4 months. I talk to her a LOT on fb and at the clinic, and we've chilled like once outside the clinic. We open up to eachother and start telling each other a lot of personal stuff. I would have asked her out sooner, but for health reasons, I wasnt able to go out too often. My health has gotten better though. \n\nBut lately, I've noticed that she is becoming a little bit distant, and doesnt talk as much as we used to. I end up initiating the conversation more and more often. In the past two weeks, Ive asked her to hang out, but she said she is busy. Whether she is bullshitting or not, I dont know. My friends say that I'm giving her wayyyy too much attention, and I agree. Im sure she knows that I have the hots for her. And as a result, I've have gotten friendzoned, or something similar, because when we do talk, she really likes to get into it. Hell, I asked her to chill today, and no dice.\n\nNow people are saying that I should stop talking to her for a week or so. Just to show that Im not dependant on her. Thing is, I would like to date her eventually, later on. Did I mess things up completely? or is it salvageable? Some tips or opinions would really help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit of backstory: I've been with this girl for around 5 months. It started out as a purely physical thing where we'd just hook up on a regular basis then go our separate ways, but both of us wanted to keep it exclusive. Lately we've been spending more time together and it's been getting a bit more serious, but nothing drastic. I do enjoy spending time with her though if we're being totally honest.\n\nJump forward to last night, we're at the bar with all our friends, and this guy she used to have a bit of a fling with is there. She's drunk, giving him a little too much attention, and I can see that he's trying to get laid. So, being the aggressively jealous person that I am, I freak out & yell, we get into a big argument, I say something hateful to the guy, and I storm out in a jealous rage.\n\nThis morning, she tells me that she ended up getting blackout drunk and they hooked up. Something about how she practically had to be carried home, and she woke up naked with the guy. She seems remorseful though, and judging from the story she gave me, it sounds like he really took advantage of her drunkenness. But I don't know what actually happened, and I probably never will. Which really makes me think I should've knocked that son of a bitch out when I had a chance, but that's life I guess.\n\nIt still makes my blood boil when I think of it though, and due to the fact that our relationship isn't all that serious, I don't know if I should cut ties, or try to put it behind us, because to be honest, the sex is amazing, and I don't think this is going to happen again. But on the other hand, our one rule was that we keep it exclusive, and she broke it. I kind of have a tendency to torture myself with this type of thing as well, so my willingness to \"work it out\" might just be my inner masochist talking. Feedback would be great because I'm feeling pretty torn.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little backstory from a post about a month ago \n\nSo here is what's going on now. About a week ago, she took a break from her boyfriend. She came to my house and we fooled around for about 6 hours. It was amazing, but I feel like a horrible person for doing it. She says she loves me more than anything and wishes we were together, but she's too afraid to leave the position she's in now because it's \"too risky\". Now she's done with her break and she wants to stay with her boyfriend. I love her so much, I just don't know what to do anymore. I told her that it would be difficult being friends because at the end of the day, she'll be going home to her boyfriend and that's going to break my heart. Sorry guys, I feel like a total bitch looking for advice because I usually stray from this kind of drama that I somehow got sucked into. I just don't know what to do anymore. I guess I'm just hoping that thing don't work out for them, and that makes me feel incredibly selfish. Anyways, thanks for anything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is against smoking pot so when we got together i told her i didn't smoke although i had been smoking for a couple months.\n\nNow a couple days ago i bought some weed and we were smoking in a park at around 11pm when suddenly two cops come at us, take our weed and ask for identification and so forth. I knew one of the cops was her uncle but he doesn't know me so he couldn't have told her already. I'm scared shitless and i don't know what to do right now. should i tell her what happened? Or is it best to keep my mouth shut and see what time brings?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been pretty depressed after being rejected by a girl who sort of led me on and realized I wasn't her type. I guess since she said she was \"busy\" with school and things were getting worse. But she was letting me down easy. Before you guys say \"Just let it go, man\", it's as easy as you think, but I'm not much of a social person. I can't just randomly approach someone and start asking them out and flirting with them. It takes me some time to get back on my feet. I've lost a lot of self esteem and just been really sad because I still like the girl a lot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We actually met briefly before Thanksgiving through a mutual friend. I only got her name ('Eva' for this post) and we exchanged a few words. This mutual friend has been insisting since then that I go on a date with her. I initially resisted because of my busy work schedule, but honestly I think I resisted because I have not had a real relationship in years (about 8 years) and I had a 'fling' that ended painfully about 3 years ago. I eventually gave in and agreed to go out with my mutual friend, his wife, and 'Eva' this past Friday. It turned out great and we seemed to click but did not get to talk much because we went out to clubs and bars. The next day I got a text from her (she somehow added her number to my phone without my knowledge!) which led to an invitation to her best friend's birthday party. I met a lot of her friends (which was a bit intimidating being the 'random guy' at the party), and had lots of fun that night. Would that count as a date?\n\nShe is really attractive and funny and now I can't stop thinking about her. I realize we really don't know much about each other, but I think she's interested in me. I have not texted her all day because I don't want to seem too pushy, but now I think that might have been a bad idea. Help! I want to go slow and build a relationship, but I don't know what to do. I've never gone on a date before and I don't know what to do or say to her. Does any one have a strategy guide for this kind of stuff?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Title pretty much sums it up.\n\nMy boyfriend went to go live with family in another state after we got evicted for awhile and so we're doing LDR visit stuff I guess. For context, we started dating in March 2015, and I moved in with his best friend in June 2015. He moved in too, and we got evicted in May 2016 from our own place. \n\nI'm someone who loves to do special things like go out to eat, swim, spend time, ect during special moments. He is an introvert and we are both broke, so I want to avoid going out and spending money. Garb loves Italian food, and spending time inside playing video games. \n\nI'm a terrible, horrible cook. I can cook 3 things really well. Everything else is ungodly most of the time. It sucks, but it's not everyone's thing. I want to make a special meal for him, but I don't want to waste a bunch of money ruining stuff until I get it right. \n\nI also have no idea what to do. I don't want to spend all day inside playing games and not saying much to each other and whatnot, cuz that was what we normally did when he was here. Going over the top isn't what I'm looking for, I just want to do something out of the way and sweet, but I'm at a loss. We both play Pokemon Go, so that's definitely stuff we're gonna be doing, but I want to put more effort into making this sweet.\n\nWe are both Nintendo nerds big time, and like a lot of youtubers that do stuff similar to our tastes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my best girlfriend stopped talking to me a couple of months ago. Because I apparently \"lied\" to her about something which is not true. However, recently she just appeared out of nowhere wanting us to be friends again. \n\nI told her that I wanted to talk with her first, and so we did. I agreed that we could be friends again, or at least work towards rebuilding our friendship. She was quite enthusiastic about it, so I thought it was worth giving it a shot. \n\nA week later I asked her to hang out at some place we used to hangout a lot. And now even though she does appear really friendly via text she doesn't make the effort to hangout. Using an excuse that she is busy, while college is over for the semester so she has plenty of time. \n\nWell, now I feel like she just wanted to be friends again so she doesn't have to feel \"awkward\" around me. We have also many mutual friends so we see each other occasionally, and I invite those friends to my place to hangout. I think she wants to be a part of that as well, so I guess it's like using my friendship to gain those advantages without having to anything for it.\n\nNow I feel like confronting her. Should I or shouldn't I? I want to tell her that I don't want to hangout at that place anymore, because she doesn't make the effort to set a date. And that she was the one who wanted to be friends again, so that it is her that should make the effort of strengthening our relationship. Right now I feel like this friendship is going nowhere if she doesn't put any effort in it. \n\nShould I confront her? Or just see where this is going?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been talking with this girl for a few weeks now (I'll call her Sarah) at school and we've already established that we like each other, we've hung out a couple of times and we've kissed before, but something's been bothering me. She claims that she hasn't had sex since last year and she has told me that she doesn't talk to any of her exes, but two of my friends have told me on separate occasions that she talks about how she regularly has sex with her ex. I confronted her about this, and she adamantly denied, saying that she doesn't talk with her exes and that she definitely hasn't had sex with anyone in over a year. She went the whole nine yards with \"you should trust me over other people\" and all that. I chose to believe her and was happy for a week or two, until one of my friends told me that Sarah told her that she straight up lied to my face about the sex issue.\n\nI confronted her once again about it and she again denied everything and said that I need to trust her over listening to other people and was pretty upset about it all. She is asking me how she can prove that she hasn't had sex.\n\nNow I know my two friends who told me she said these things have no reason to lie to me, but I also feel that she doesn't (or shouldn't at least) have a reason to lie to me. We've been pretty open about our sex life before.\n\n I'm torn between who I should listen to, because there's no way to actually prove if she's been having sex or not. Talking with any of her exes is out of the question.\n\nI desperately want to believe her but it seems fishy that two separate people would give me the same story on her. If she has been having sex with her exes while admitting her feelings for me, then that's obviously not someone I want to be involved in a relationship with. \nNow she is asking me how she can prove she is telling the truth, and I have no answer for her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we've been dating for a while and for the last few months we've been in a LDR. Things have been going bad for both of us, him financially and me in my family life. \n\nThe problem is that for some times he'll just clam up completely, says he just wants \"quiet days\" and won't reply very quickly to IM messages, or just disappears. I am not a very chatty person myself, very introvert, and I find it difficult to keep the conversation going, completely on my own. Or if I do talk, he gets irritated by something I say or will roll his eyes or give me the \"disappointment\" face. \n\nOver the days i'll get more and more frustrated, until I'll snap at him. Then he will apologise and say that he is dealing with his own issues and doesn't want to cause me any more stress than I already have (1. I am stressed because of my family but he's making me more stressed because I am thinking, by cutting contact, he is weakening our relationship and causing the \"lets slowly drift apart until we break up\" scenario) \n\nI know I haven't help by becoming more and more worked up and therefore causing more female \"drama\" but I am genuinely worried for our relationship. \n\nI've tried talking to him, saying lets set aside a time to talk your problems through, but he always says \"oh i'm ok\" when I say I have time to talk. \n\nAny help appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I interviewed for a job as a moderator for a start-up website in NYC. The website was down the day prior and the day of my interview so I wasn't able to really play around with it.\n\nAfter my lengthy interview I sent a thank you email. I didn't hear anything back but I decided to sign up for the website and give some feedback. A week later I sent my interviewer a decent sized email about things I liked and areas I thought could be improved.\n\nI never received a response but I did notice that there was a poll asking about one of my suggestions and the general consensus was favorable. I thought this was very odd because I never heard back from them until the other day (weeks later) stating that I did not get the job.\n\nI somewhat felt that the interviewer might have just taken my ideas and presented them as her own? Is that common? Should I just continue to brush it off and move on because I feel that I am not really in a position to do anything. Just felt that it was somewhat messed up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Mine is simple, my kids. I will always remember the one day my daughter made me feel like the best dad in the world. I sometimes have to go back to work late at night to attend meetings (I work for a place with offices around the world) and one day I was home before my family was done with school. I decided to make some dinner and leave it for them and while I was making it I spotted some cookie dough in the fridge. I thought it would be nice to leave them cookies. So when my wife picks the kids up from daycare she said my daughter seemed to have a rough day (as rough as a 5 year old can have, I guess) and was very grumpy/sad. When they got home my son smelled the curry I had made and got very excited and then my daughter found the cookies. I had left a little note saying to enjoy the cookies and sorry for having to work late. My daughter started to cry and said she was so happy. My wife took a short video and sent it to me at work. I have never felt more needed and counted upon, then that. I know that these kids will cause me all kinds of worry throughout our lives, but I wouldn't trade that feeling of unconditional love for anything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, a few days ago I decided to have a fap, and I also decided it was a good idea to use hair conditioner/shampoo. No, it was not a good idea. In the upcoming days, my penis/sack became dry, \"tight\", while just my sack would be rough and red. They itched a lot too. Then I decided to fap again one more time a few days after the incident, and I...think... there was blood in my semen? I wasn't so sure but I did see red when I was cleaning up. This prompted me to think that I might have urethritis, should I see a doctor? It is from the chemicals in the hair conditioner, so I wasn't sure if it will go away or not. I am 17 years old and living with my parents so this is kind of a tight situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just finished my undergrad degree in Biology - specifically ecology and evolution - and want to take some time off to get some experience while at the same time just trying something totally new. I'm looking for something that I can spend somewhere in the neighbourhood of a few months to a year in a place completely different and far away (I'm in Montreal).\n\nI've been looking for good volunteer spots for a while, but most of the ones I've been finding seems to require a couple thousand dollars just to volunteer (on top of airfare), something I can't exactly afford at this point in time. Anything that has room and board paid for is perfect for me, and I'm willing to work extremely hard and give up a lot of my time helping.\n\nI am only fluent in English unfortunately, though I can manage in French if required. I am willing to go anywhere in the world, and would like things in the realm of behavioural ecology or conservation biology.\n\nEx: [Kalahari Meerkat Project] - something like this is what I'm looking for more or less.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My roommate lets call her sofie is unstable. Ive lived here since June 2015, and things have slowly gotten worse. Lately, Ive taken to avoiding her. But this recent incident occurred that has really driven me up a wall.\n\nSo I have my good family friend, pretty much my uncle over last night. I have not seen him in a month or two. Him and I are talking in my apartment's living room. Then Sofie grabs her art project and sits on the floor, coloring while my uncle and I are talking. She continues to interrupt the conversation and constantly invalidate what I say. The best part was my uncle asked me a question and she totally interrupted and answered it for me.\n\nNow her and I barely talk. Because she tries to micromanage and control me or she downplays everything I say. I've been avoiding her and she acts like everything is fine when I have family over. She does not talk to me and only did so last night.\n\nFurther examples of what she does\n\n1. My roommates and I have all paid her for utilities and she said she paid the bill. She did not and our power got shut off.\n\n2. My girlfriend at the time was over and Sofie asked if my gf wanted a hug and proceeded to hug her without waiting for a response.\n\n3. She leaves dishes in the sink and doesn't do them. But tells me how to do my dishes. Btw I'm a well paid dishwasher at a fancy pasta place.\n\n4. Constantly interrupts me and disagrees. Not just normal disagreeing but everything I say she says is wrong. She was at my job and in front of my coworkers interrupted me and invalidated my statement.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This was a couple of years ago, approaching Christmas in 2012. I had a really bad habit of not locking the door to my flat, and had the idea that it might bite me in the arse one day.\n\nSo it was a Wednesday night, student night and me and the girlfriend were lying in bed. We could hear some goings on in the corridor but thought nothing of it really, it sounded like somebody had come back drunk and was having trouble getting into their flat. Eventually we hear a door close, it sounded quite close. The girlfriend turns to me and asks was it ours. I was sure it wasn't and so we ignored it.\n\nNext thing we know, a girl wearing just a t-shirt and knickers walks into our bedroom. I jump out of bed and instruct her to leave, she instructs us to leave claiming that it's her flat. She then leaves our room and uses our toilet. (At this point I'm like, wtf I do?). Being a gentleman, I wait for her to finish her business, then tell her again to leave, block her from entering our kitchen/living room, she gets confrontational, and me, not wanting to touch that, do nothing to stop her going in there. Try a bit more to get her to leave, then call the police cause girl wearing next to nothing and clearly drunk is not a thing I want to tackle.\n\nMe and the girlfriend then spend some time waiting for the police to arrive, in the meantime this girl eats some of the lunch I left out for taking to work, drinks some of my rum, then throws up all over the blinds. The police arrived a couple of hours later. I was left to clean up her sick.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities.\n\nHowever, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me).\n\nWhat else is she going to do? Just sit and watch?\n\nAre these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This story takes place when I was about 13 years old, and living in a neighborhood in the not-so-great part of town.\n\nI was just about to climb in bed at about 11:30 one night when I heard this \"BAMBAMBAM\" from the backyard. I assumed it was just my dog screwing around, so I yelled \"shut up, dog!\" and continued getting in bed. When the noise persisted, I decided to look out my window to see what was going on.\n\nBig mistake.\n\nTo my horror, I was viewing a rather large, middle-aged nude woman banging on my sliding glass door. She had her whole muddy body pressed up against the glass, yelling to \"let her in\". I was pretty shocked and so were my parents when they came out. They were well aware that this woman was obviously under the influence of some crazy drugs, so we ended up calling the police. When the cops showed up, the lady took off to the right of my street, and the cops went in the opposite direction. My family decided we'd had enough adventure for the night and we all went to bed. \n\nThe next morning, I walked outside in front of my house to find this lady's clothes bundled up in my driveway. She had disrobed in my driveway, walked casually into my front yard, opened the gate and walked into my back yard, and then proceeded to freak out.\n\nAnd for all the people who are thinking that I'm a jerk for not letting her in and assisting her, I was 13 at the time. I had no idea what to do, and my parents had called the cops before I could even react. Plus, she probably would have ended up in police custody anyway. Meth is a hell of a drug.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work for a Political Consulting Firm, we run campaigns all over the country for various clients. My job keeps me away from home for a few weeks here and there.\n\nI moved to Florida 1 1/2 years ago. I met a boy in january of this year and we have been boyfriends for the last 6 months. He had recently moved to florida as well and we hit it off. We took things slow, did it right. In may I was assigned to a 10 week project in SLC. He supported me and my work, the night I left for this project he told me out of the blue that he loved me.\n\nThe first few weeks were fine. We talked once a day and texted here and there. After week six or so it began to get a little shaky. We hashed things out and seemed to get back on an even keel, its now week 9 out of 10, Im wrapping up a very successful campaign and ready to head home and see my boy. Or so I thought. Tonight on facebook he made a post about heartbreak mew mew it hurts mew mew. I was like oh no what did I do!!!, I start reading the comments like oh shit this doesn't make sense.. low and behold he was drunk facebooking about how his ex (who lives in NJ 1000 miles away) broke his heart again, and how much he still loved his ex, how this ex broke his heart again by sleeping with another man. Me, his boyfriend of the last 6 months no where in the picture.\n\nI understand distance, outta sight outta mind, and I have a tough job for relationships. But HE told me he loved me, not the other way around, I was head over heels for this kid. Now I'm broken and angry. What's the adult thing to do here? Confront him for closure or just delete friend, cut contact and start healing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I separated with my girlfriend back in the beginning of February, and during all of that time I've still been in love with her, but successfully didn't contact her at all. We were each others' first love, whatever that means, and I know what I did really hurt her. Since September I've been backpacking throughout Europe by myself, and have had this strong desire to contact her. We were friends on fb during all this time, but she recently deleted me, which to me just shows that reminders of me hurt, also why I blocked her and chose to not see into her life.\n\nIs it out of line to write her, just to communicate, see what's going on in her head/life? I'm not trying to force her to be with me or anything, but I miss her and it pulls at me, affecting my life in hindering ways. I just want to know the person I used to be so close with, if that's possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know this question has been asked before, but I doubt people will be replying in threads that are 2 years old.\n\nI have a springer spaniel pup (about 10 months old).\n\nI've read a bit about dog's pulling on leash problems and I've gathered that if the dog pulls, stop, and the 'heel' command and wait for him to get by your side before praising and continuing to move.\n\nMy problem is that my dog just won't listen to me when we're outside, or on the leash at all for that matter. He's normally a pretty obedient dog inside and can do a good number of tricks like lie down, play dead, crawl, catch and the other basics. But when we're outside, he just won't listen to me, he pretends I don't exsist. When he pulls i say \"heel\" and wait for him to come by my side, gently tugging if he won't respond at all, then praise him when he's by my side again, the problem is the dog just sits ahead of me whilst keeping the tension on the leash. How do I actually get him to come back and sit at my side. I'm guessing most people won't approve of yanking the dog back to your side? Any tips for actually teaching the heel command? Oh and toys and treats won't work outside, he just doesn't seem to care about them anymore as soon as he steps outside.\n\nI should admit that this is only my 2nd/ or 3rd time trying this and i know that it takes patience, but I was just wandering if you guys had any tips?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been dating long distance four and a half months, she is my first actual girlfriend. She was in two other relationships before she met me, we had a pretty long discussion that lasted a month about these previous relationships. \nWe see eachother once every three weeks for 2-4 days at a time, the sex is really good. Dating long distance is tough, and I miss her everyday, but I feel like things will get easier when we get to see each other more often. Sometimes I randomly start to think about her past, and it bothers me. I don't think about her past as often as I used to, I think it's unhealthy.\nI know I mean everything to her, and she seems worried that I am going to break up with her, I've reassured her the few times its been brought up that isn't the case. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is the weirdest thing that has happened in my 19 years. This girl had stole my number from a mutual friend and started texting me about 6 months ago. We hit it off instantly and still do, the conversation never stops and we enjoy each others bodies alot.\n\nI can't remember how the conversation came about but we have both escorted before and we are both aware of this. I have recently stopped and I am well aware that she still does it, it doesn't stop me liking her all the same.\n\nBut today on twitter I was scrolling through and I saw a picture of a cat I was sure I had seen before. So I looked at the picture and I looked at a picture Sarah had sent me, It was her cat. So this confused the fucking life out of me, Sarah said she didn't use social media at all. But I did some digging and some searching around to find out that she is a popular camgirl (I'm fine with this entirely). I found her social medias and so on and they are all under a different name. I'm aware of this, I have an alternative name for escorting myself (still fine with this).\n\nWhat i'm confused at is that how far does this go? I don't want to scare her away because she is amazing but then again I dont want to be lied to because I'm paranoid as it is.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A girl I liked accepted my invitation to a Baskin Robins. So tomorrow afternoon, we're headed there together. We've been friends for a few months, not close but in school, and we're both Juniors in Highschool.\n\nIt's not normally like me to be shy, I've done a lot of nerve wracking public events, and everyone knows me as that guy that isn't afraid to do anything as well as acted in the school play.\n\nThe problem is recently around the girl it's been getting really akward, for both of us, I just choke up and can't think of anything to say, I can still add in a few witty comments here and there to make her laugh, but I'm really worried! It seems like all we can really say now is \"hey\" and \"how are you?\" and nothing really passed that. Any tips are appreciated! Maybe some conversation ideas for a ice cream shop setting.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This past Saturday, my wife and I went out on a bike ride with two of my friends. She had just ordered some new clip in pedals and wanted to try them out. However she never practiced clipping in and out of the pedals and she ended up falling several times. Her last big fall, she ended up having a big scrape on her butt. She's been asking me to help her treat it since apparently my wife isn't that coordinated with cleaning a wound while looking at a full body mirror.\n\nFast forward to today. My brother-in-law and sister-in-law ask to come over to get some headache medicine. My s.i.l. wasn't feeling well, so I said sure. I wasn't aware that my wife was in the shower at the time. Out of habit, they both visit quite often and I usually unlock the door for them to come in. \n\nWife comes out the shower and asks for my help once again to clean her wound on her butt. I'm still very hesitant to do it for her, but I give in. She comes in to the living room and lays on her stomach with neosporin and peroxide, ready for me to clean it. PRESUME THE CLEANING! Peroxide goes on and my wife does that \"SSSSSSS\" sound when something hurts, but you don't want to let out that sound. Still, it's loud enough for others to hear since she doesn't have a high tolerance for pain. Then I proceed to put the neosporin on her butt wound. As soon as I start, front door opens and brother and sister in law are coming in. First words they hear are \"Now doesn't that feel better?\" as I rub the neosporin,a bunch of thick white pain relief cream, on the wound. My wife jumps up out of embarrassment, and runs in the bedroom to isolation. My b.i.l and s.i.l just stare at me in all sorts of what the hell did I walk in on. To save the embarrassment and awkwardness of the situation, I just gave them the headache medicine and apologized profusely.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is visiting her home in a different city and we are in a long distance relationship. I spoke to her last night and she told me she would call me back once she was done with her family. We always facetime before we go to bed, but she didn't call last night. I wake up this morning and haven't heard anything from her since. I've sent her texts and she's still not responding.\n\nI know I should be more patient and have the benefit of the doubt that something important could have happened to her or her phone. But after something similar that happened last week, she's testing my patience. She tells me she can't multitask. So when she is busy with people or errands, she can't take a second break to reply to my text. I'll never be able to relate to her position but I have to because I love her.\n\nI wasn't like this before though, I used to keep my cool in the beginning of the relationship and I felt like I was being respected because I wasn't chasing for her attention. But I'm going through some tough times here alone and she is someone I can open up to and talk to. I'm having to turn to other people for prayers. I know the society labels men as who are not sensitive but that is who I am and I realized I can't change core personality.\n\nI am afraid that she is losing respect for me. If she still respected me, I feel like she would try to get back to me after we had a serious talk about this. How can I get her to try harder without coming off needy? Which is not good right?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 25, shes 24. We've been dating for almost 2 years this November. I work 9 to 5 and she works as a server a couple nights a week. \n\nThe beginning of this year, her father passed away. Its been 8 months now, but it has really put her in a bad place. Since then, we've had a hard time getting intimate.\n\nFast forward to today. Every time i try to get physical past kissing, she gets turned off or just doesn't reciprocate. I try being romantic (wine, dinner, talking, fun events, etc) but when it comes down to it, she'd rather sleep. It seems she's always too tired. I work 9-10 hour days at times and STILL take my ass to the gym and have more energy than her.\n\nI love her to death, but if our sex life is this bad now, what am I supposed to expect if we get married? Our sex life was 10x better in the beginning of our relationship.\n\nFor those that think she may be cheating: I'm 99.9% sure she is not. She's been cheated on twice and it's screwed her up some. She'd rather break up with me than cheat.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I began talking to a guy online maybe 2 or 3 months ago and it's progressed very fast. I am only 18 and he's 25, although I have moved out of home and support myself. We talk all day, every day, calling or facetiming pretty much every night. He really, really likes me but the problem is I don't like him as much. It was all fine, until recently I mentioned how it sucks I'll never see him. Fast-forward a couple of days and he tells me he has found a super cheap plane ticket to the city I live in. He asks if I would be open to him coming to visit and not really thinking or wanting to hurt his feelings I said of course! He bought it right then and there and now I am scared. As time goes on my attraction to him is fading and I can see that he mainly likes me because I am his ideal 'perfect girl'. He is not my perfect guy, I do not want to commit to him and I am not sure if I even have feelings for him. If it weren't for the plane ticket I would probably stop talking to him as to not lead him on but now I have this paralyzing guilt that he has spent all this money to come see me and I don't even want him to. I feel like when he gets here I'm going to have to put on this huge facade, because I don't want to hurt his feelings. It takes every ounce of patience within me not to lose it with him when he's being annoying eg- going on about how well traveled he is (keep in mind I have visited 10+ countries, 5 of which on my own. He has never been outside of the Americas), how cool he is, and how so many girls want him. To be honest I feel almost no sexual attraction anymore and it's becoming overwhelming keeping up with this lie. I don't know what to do, how to go about this, or whether or not plane tickets are refundable. I need help but I am too ashamed to go to my friends about this because I'm embarrassed we met online.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Happened few hours ago. Friend coerced me into going after I told her and another friend I wouldn't go repeatedly. Decided to go. Ended up spending most of the night wishing I hadn't gone. One friend ditched me because he wanted to go get someone to grind on him(no way in hell would it happen) and I am not about that. I don't really feel like having chicks I barely know rubbing up all over me. The other friend that I mostly went because of I barely saw and when I did it was to dance. Yeah dancing is terrible. Ended up getting vented to by a kid who's date left him for her boyfriend when they showed up. Pretty shitty night. Doesn't help when you have severe social anxiety and shut down in large social groups. I don't know, kind of just venting at this point.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "so, I'm a pretty nerdy dude to the extent that over the last few months have pretty much intentionally isolated myself to pursue an intense study in applied math/physics with a bit of computer programming thrown in. While I love to help people out and explain things (heck my awesome job is to teach children), I'm kind of feeling taken advantage of recently (and that it is bullshit that the vast majority of the times I do anything with girls it is under the pretence of them receiving math or programming help). In particular, there is one girl (who is of course hot) and she is in very desperate need of C++ help (received 5 texts, none answered , in the last hour). So here is the rub. I am a normal looking, even slightly muscular dude (I previously wanted to go into fashion design so I feel like I have a decent sense of this), so what are the things that I need to do in order to accommodate both her urgent needs for C++ and the relentless carnal yearnings of the male??\n\n(I am willing to say pretty much anything. I don' t worry about losing a 'friendship' because it is already way too asymettric)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently I have redeveloped a crush on my best friend who already has a boyfriend the she loves. I have asked about my chance of ever dating her and she says never. That our friendship means too much and that she loves her boyfriend to much to ever break up with him. She has also told me to get over it and even is trying to set me up with her cousin who I liked in the past. So she is no help even though she has seid she would be dating if her and her bf never meet. \n\nThen I talked to my therapist about my issues with her and it was a helpful conversation but it left me with a delmia. She told me that I am letting her live the best of both worlds with pretty much having two boyfriends. Me who she spends more time with her then her bf and is willing to give her anything in the world along with just wanting to make her happy and take care of her problems. But she doesn't see that most of the time and she treats me like her gay friend sometimes. So my therapist told me that I need to give her the ultimatum where she cant have us both and if she doesn't want to be with me the same way I want to be with her I should cut her off.\n\nSo now my issue is that I really don't want to do that but I'm miserable having to suffer with her telling me about how she fucks her bf and how she loves him but not me. At the same time she helps me out because we do have a ton of fun and she helps me out with some other problems that I have. Along with that she is very understanding and probably knows me the best out of anyone in the world. So I have a major issue to deal with somehow.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my basic diet (which I started about 3 weeks ago) is mostly just calorie counting. According to everything Ive seen online, my BMR (or TDEE...I'm actually not sure what the difference of them are) is somewhere around 2500/day. On Sunday-Friday I shoot for 1400-1700 cal/day. On Saturdays I'll have a light breakfast and light lunch, and then a cheat meal for dinner. My overall goal is to keep Saturday under 2700 cal. \n \nSo, yesterday was cheat meal. I planned the whole day out to be 2400 cal. For dinner we went to chili's and I got a bacon cheeseburger and swapped the fried for corn on the cob. I also had 3 diet cokes. I wake up this morning, and I'm nearly 3 pounds heavier than when I weighed myself yesterday. \n \nDoes this represent an actual 3 pound gain, or is it probably just food and drink sitting in my stomach. Should I be doing something different in cheat meals? It was a really good meal, but if its going to undo an entire week its not worth it. Its kinda frustrating because everyone who is successful seems to really repeat the calories in, calories out thing, but that equation doesn't explain a huge overnight weight gain.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my friend had some guests coming from Germany. I took them out for a long walk in the hot temperature of our city. After two or three hours, when we are back home my friend calls me and tells me to buy them a sandwich for dinner.\nIm like. \"Dude, a sandwich wont be enough\" so he tells me to buy two.\n\nWhen its dinner time they both tell me, and insist, that they dont want dinner! Im like WHAT THE HELL?!\nOne of them tells me that he is going to have the salad which has been left over from lunch, and the other tells me he will have some fruits. Im like WHAT THE HELL HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE?!!\n\nTwo days later I take them to another MUCH LONGER walk in the hot temperature (we were seeing the city so there was lots of walking). This temperature is hot for me, so it must have been very hot for someone living in Germany.\n\nWhen its lunch time, we order pizza except one of them. he says in germany he only has breakfast and one session of food.\n\nAt dinner, Im sure they must be dead hungry. Both of them tell me they are not hungry and dont want food.\n\nTheir way of food life is very different to mine and anyone I know. I wake up in the morning and have breakfast. When im back from work i have lunch, normally rice with meet or chicken. Then at dinner Im hungry again and must have another session of food. In between, i eat small things as well, like fruits etc. So this was very shocking to me how they could even survive eating so little. (and im not very fat. just a couple of kilos extra)\n\nDoes it have to do with where we live? Does living in Germany mean you need much less food than living in Iran? How can I learn to have a diet like them and be energetic, healthy but not hungry?\n\nThanks and sorry for the long post.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I got pissed off with a student's behavior today and wanted to find out if I did anything wrong!\n\nSo, this guy comes to my door step and showed me some papers (that he got admission into some college and needs some monitory help). He said typically people are giving him $20 but any amount is fine for him.\n\nI have seen guys like this very frequently, in our neighborhood, all earlier guys used to ask me to subscribe to a news paper (so that they would get some commission) and gave me a tip that I can cancel the subscription on the very same day when my subscription started.\nBecause of my experiences with this subscription cancellation etc., I used to just offer $5 and ask them to leave me alone on that subscription.\nSo I did the same with this guy asked me to stop explain the stuff and just take $5, initially he agreed but I noticed later on that I didn't have exact change. I asked the same guy if he had change for $20 he started to explain how tough his life is and how $20 could change his situation etc.. I stopped him and said don't make me feel guilty and said I decided to give you $5 even before I started to listen your reasons and added that I myself have gone through tough times like this when I was a student.\nAt this point that guy got pissed off and started to curse me on my race religion etc.., and left the premises.\nReddit, let me know your opinion, did I do it wrongly?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So 3 of my friends (all the same age) moved to the next country over, one of them being really close to me. We still talk all the time and everything and a couple of months ago we all started talking about going on holiday. Mary and Bianca (Bianca is the friend who this is about) really wanted to go to Europe and so did Sophie and myself. But Sophie and me thought it would be too expensive to really enjoy ourselves the way we want to, so we should go to SE Asia where its really cheap and enjoy ourselves thoroughly. Mary and Bianca didn't want to because they felt it would be dangerous to travel there and they were like there's no way we are going there (I know, its ridiculous). Anyway we were like ok but everything got too expensive so the plans kind of fizzled out. Now Bianca messages me and tells me that she and Mary are going to Bali in a few months. What? She didn't even ask if I wanted to go! To be honest, I don't have a job at this moment so I would have said no. She knew I didn't have a job so she probably assumed I wouldn't be able to go which in fair enough. But I still feel like she should have atleast mentioned it to me. Is it really childish of me to be kind of pissed off? She only asked if I wanted to come AFTER I called her out on it. I was like, you said no a few months ago and now you guys are going alone. \n\nMore than anything I'm just worried that the distance if affecting our friendship. I'm scared that she doesn't see me as a 'proper' friend anymore because I don't live in the same country :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This basically happened... oh... ten minutes ago or so.\n\nMy wife is 9 weeks pregnant and well into the morning sickness, sick headaches, hormonal/emotional mess that the first trimester brings. Her self-esteem has taken a hit and her nerves are pretty frayed because she basically feels like ass 24/7. Her nausea usually hits her the worst in the afternoons and evenings, so today after work, she decided to lay down in bed and read until I got home from work about an hour later. When I got home, I crawled into bed with her and we started cuddling and chatting about our days.\n\nNow, sexy time usually happens in the evenings or before we go to bed, but the last month or so, my wife has felt so crappy in the evenings that she usually just passes the fuck out as soon as she hits the pillow. Being the understanding husband I am, I of course let sleeping pregnant ladies lie and let her get her much needed rest. Growing a person is hard work apparently! She has expressed regret, though, that we haven't had sex in awhile and today was no different. As we were cuddling in bed, she apologized again that we haven't had sex in awhile and said she wished she was feeling better so she could, and she said this in a joking tone, \"attend to her wifely duties.\" \n\nI kissed her on the cheek and, in the same joking tone, said, \"Don't worry. I won't cheat on you.\"\n\nShe looked at me with complete horror and kind of choked out, \"Wh-why would you even say that? Are you? Omigod, are you cheating on me?\" Cue the crying and sobbing and blubbering. She kept repeating, \"I wouldn't blame you. I'm gross and fat and ugly. I haven't felt good enough for sex. I would understand. I wouldn't blame you.\"\n\nI of course started apologizing profusely. I have never apologized so much in my life. She finally just said, \"Okay. Okay,\" a few times and quit crying. But she asked to be alone for a while. \n\nReddit. I fucked up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met at our job, with him being a supervisor and I, an entry level worker. I have worked there for seven years while he has been there for four years. We fell in love quickly and have went strongly together ever since. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I was promoted to supervisor, too. I was happy because it meant more money for us to accomplish our goals. I thought he was happy as well. Only now he takes to arguing with me at work and shaming me when I make a mistake or take too long to complete a task. I kindly let him know that I feel he isn't addressing me respectfully and he says nothing in response. \n\nA few of those blow up times have been in front of other coworkers, which I find embarrassing and unprofessional. The next day, of course, it's like it never happened. \n\nIt makes me feel like a complete failure and my heart breaks every single time because this is the person I love more than anyone else in this world. I don't want our work arguments to affect our relationship together but he literally gets so mad at me he stops talking to me altogether. \n\nHe has been married twice. I'm a late bloomer. This is the first (and I'm hoping the last) long-term relationship I've ever had. So I'm having trouble understanding how someone who loves you can speak so harshly and get mad so quickly for the tiniest things.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not the best communicator in the world. I have ADD and sometimes that makes it nearly impossible to focus on more than one thing at once. My bf frequently gets mad at me for not listening. Part of the problem is that I'll be reading something when he comes in the room and sits down, then he just starts talking. I literally can't always hear him when he does this because I'm so engrossed in what I'm already doing.\n\nThis morning he said something that I didn't have anything to contribute to really. I was looking directly at him when he said it, but he still got mad because apparently I'm still not listening if I don't have anything to say.\n\nI know I have to work on my part but how do I get him to understand that I can't drop everything all the time to pay attention to and verbally acknowledge every single thing he says. I've explained to him several times that he needs to get my attention before he speaks and I've been working extra hard on keeping my ears open and paying attention. How can I get him to realize that his expectations are unrealistic?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Update: So the ex sent me a text last night saying that he didn't understand why I had an okcupid profile when I wanted to try and get back together with him, he said that it seemed like I was more \"lonely and sad\" and not a person sho was still in love with him. I created my profile about 2 weeks ago and haven't been on any dates, because he wasn't communicating with me; meanwhile he reactivated the account I met him through right after the break up, and has been on dates.\n\nI tried to explain to him, that I haven't been using the account at all, and haven't been on any dates, and I brought up the fact that he never deleted the account he had originally (we had talked about eventually getting hitched, so to me it seems like he kept the profile because he never planned on getting hitched). \n\nHe is also convinced that I have narcissistic personality disorder, which is devastating for me to hear. I have gone to my shrink about this, and my shrink said no that I don't have this, and that it sounds like my ex is projecting. I told this all to my ex, in an attempt to open communication and to get him to drop this \"diagnosis\", and I even got a second opinion from a counselor that specializes in personality disorders,who also said that I don't have npd, though I do display signs of defaulting into co-dependent behaviours. Even though 2 medical professionals have said I don't have npd, my ex continues to say \"that's classic npd\" when I say something contrary to what he wants.\n\nHe is also, negating anything I say as lying, or thinking only of me, or of changing the subject. I know I'm not perfect, and I know I caused him a lot of pain, it's just so hard to try and apologize and fix things between us so that we can move on and rebuild, when he takes anything I say and twists it into the opposite of what I intended it to mean, and that when I try to explain in different ways he says I'm lying or back tracking\n\nSorry for bad link posting, my laptop died, and I'm using a crappy tablet:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have never been diagnosed with anything, but I am an extremely anxious person. On the plus side, it has made me very high-achieving; on the negative side, I am generally pretty unhappy and minor setbacks are extremely hard for me to deal with. I have recently started seeing a therapist, but I think she can probably only do so much.\n\nToday is a good example. I made a minor mistake at work, and have spent the entire day fighting back tears and tearing myself up. I am completely miserable and nothing is going to make me feel better.\n\nI love him, and I love our relationship. But he is nothing like this, and I feel like he should not have to deal with my horrible moodiness forever. I am terrified that when we have kids it will only get worse (have had bad reactions to hormonal birth control in the past).\n\nShould I just spare him the trouble? I feel like he deserves so much better.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So for some back story, I was in my first year of highschool and all I did was sit at home and watch various YouTube channels (I had no life). I was very socially awkward and never knew what to say when made fun of or when something unexpected happened. So here I am in math class on my phone watching FilthyFrank. My teacher was fairly strict and ends up taking my phone and sending me to the front of the class. Now.... Our school has many types of foreign exchanges every year, students from all over the world come to our school. So trying to make light of the situation thinking that people will understand my filthy frank reference, I said \"JEEZ IT SURE SMELLS LIKE PAKISTAN UP HERE\". Funny right? False. Everyone looks shocked, so I look around and notice that there are three students sitting behind me. 2 of which are wearing turbans.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live abroad and am dating a girl from the country I live in. I've been here for 3 years and we've been dating for 1. \n\nWe had an argument today about New Year's Eve, I know it's a long way away but we like to plan our travels in advance. I want to go home and spend it with my friends and family, I'll be home for Christmas which is great, but I don't get to go home very often (I spend about 9 - 10 months a year abroad) and I miss them a lot. She has a big problem with this because in her culture NYE is a very important holiday (more like Christmas) and she really want me to come back for it. \n\nHere's where I feel I'm being selfish: I'll be home for about 7 weeks this summer and she plans to visit me twice, it's going to be great and we have loads of stuff planned. She's spending a fair amount of money to come and see me (she also has to get a visa to enter my country). I live about 1,000 miles from home so it's not MEGA far or expensive. Because she's visiting me twice and I don't want to be back for New Years it makes me feel like I'm being a bit selfish in the relationship. \n\nSo she feels I don't care about her as much because I'd rather be at home for NYE. I feel quite guilty about this and I can totally understand. She's spending X money to come and see me this summer but I don't want to leave my country early to spend New Years with her, as much as I love her, I want to see my friends and family. I miss them a lot, I'll be spending Xmas with my dad but I might not have time to go and see my mum if I leave early. However this is a MASSIVE deal for her and she said she might even think of splitting if I choose to stay at home. \n\nI love her so much and she is such a wonderful, kind person, I don't want to put her in a bad light. This is a tricky situation though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I began dating a girl right before Christmas. Things were absolutely perfect for about 6 weeks. By far the best relationship I have ever been involved in in my life. About two weeks ago I made some mistakes of overreacting to small things. She started to pull away and I just kept making it worse. A week ago we really talked things out and everything seemed to be better again. Then Saturday night I overreacted over nothing again and Sunday morning she broke it off with me. I sent her a really sincere and honest text Monday about how it was my fault and I was insecure. \n\nI haven't spoke to her since but I realize what I lost and how it was my fault. I was planning on texting her in two week just to see how she is and not make anything of it because I am actually leaving the country for a week. \n\nShe said when we broke up she was upset that we lost what was so good at the beginning. I really want to show her I'm not that guy and I am really as laid back as she is. Is this a good idea or am I just grasping at straws?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background info: A few months ago, my flatmate and I were forced to rent out our spare room to keep costs down. My flatmate put an ad out and this guy replied and moved in while I was out of town. He was a bit older than us (he's 35 and we are 22) but he seemed ok. He needed a place quickly because he had just broken up with his partner. He was pretty depressed for a while and started acting pretty weird. His ex saw us all out at the pub one night and followed us home. My flatmate and I started getting abusive texts from her telling us to stay away from him or she would hurt us. She stalked us to the point where he had to take a restraining order against her and her sons. Drama followed this guy like a bad smell and he loved all the attention it brought him. He's a pathological liar and has lied about everything from being left at the alter, having cancer and to owning a gay cruising club. Unfortunately we can't kick him out of the flat as he is now on the lease and we can't afford to make rent payments with just the two of us.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "6 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. I reluctantly agreed to try and stay friends. \n\nThe problem was that the only thing he wanted to talk about was our relationship, and all he did was blame me and guilt trip me. I told him I couldn't handle that and that I didn't think we should be friends. He got really angry, told me that \"I guess we just shouldn't talk anymore.\" He blocked me on social media and stopped contacting me. I thought that was the end. \n\nA week later, he texted and asked me why I was giving him the cold shoulder. I was confused. I told him we agreed to stop talking and I was sticking with it. For the next 3 months, he continued to send me texts and leave me voicemails. I made the mistake of responding to one of them, which only led to more and more texts full of things like \"I miss my best friend,\" \"How could you do this to me?\", and even \"Just tell me you want me to die and I'll stop bothering you.\"\n\nI learned to ignore everything he sent. Then he started texting some of my close friends, trying to ask them what they knew about me. My friends are smart and they told him they didn't know anything and that it was really none of their business anyway.\n\nWhen I came back to campus in September (we go to the same college), he continued texting and calling, and approached me one time. Then he finally stopped. I thought it was over. Today he sent me a message through FB (I had unblocked him because I thought it was over).\n\nHe wants to \"have a chat\" with me, which I assume means that he wants to continue this harassment in person. It's been 6 months. How do I get this guy to leave me alone? Why doesn't he get it? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, this may take some explaining but please bear with me, I could really use some solid advice.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have been together since we were in school. In fact we're celebrating our 14th anniversary this year, and we couldn't be happier with each other. We're just as in love now as we were when we first got together.\n\nThe problem is that everything in those 14 years has been a complete secret from everyone we know.\nWhen we first got together I told me mother I was bisexual and she hit the roof. In all other respects she's an amazing parent and I love her very much, but she absolutely forbid me to do this. So, we kept our relationship a secret, neither of us really expecting it to last forever.\n\nWhen I left school I suffered a medical issue that has left me disabled and stranded at home with my mother (who has cared for me amazingly). I'm without the means to get a job or support myself properly. Because my mum is a generally cool lady she allowed my girlfriend to move in with us a few years ago, but as a friend - nothing more. Our relationship was, and is still a secret.\n\nMy girlfriend has a low income job that couldn't possibly support us if we moved out, and my mother is still as adamant as ever that homosexuality is wrong. As we're soon to be entering our thirties together, my girlfriend and I would love to get married, and rent a place of our own, but if I just straight out tell my mother she'll blow her top and kick her out and we wouldn't get to be together at all, any more.\n\nNeither of us know anyone that would put us up, and we both rely on my mother a lot for anything from advice to health care, but at this rate it just feels like we're going in circles and getting nowhere. Please, help, Reddit. Is there any way out of this mess that we're missing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone,\n\nIf you are inclined to check my post history you might noticed that this is a time of transition for me in terms of friends, family, university and self-awareness. In this post I'm particularly concerned about a long-term friend of mine who I have known for 13 years. \n\nI've always known him as the type to hide his emotions and explode periodically and this was something I would occasionally have to deal with but otherwise our friendship was fine because we were in school together and shared many of the same hobbies.\n\nAfter high school, I went into a science program and he went into a technical certificate program for an oil related career. He also had an emotionally abusive girlfriend, which always bothered me because he is a great guy. \n\nI feel as though his ex really did a number on him emotionally and he is much more prone to anger than when I met him, add the fact that oil has tanked and I can see that he is under a lot of stress.\n\nSomething happened to his political views since getting a career in oil. Money reigns supreme, other people can suck it basically - I don't mean to rip on anyone here who feels that way but the way I see it is that he has become much colder during this period. \n\nOne thing that really shocked me recently was when we were chatting about a Chinese fellow I introduced him too. Not sure how he got this idea but apparently the Chinese guy hates white people (most of his friends are white) and is ungrateful because white people taught him martial arts (his Chinese dad did) and white people gave him everything that he has right now. Until this point, I thought he was just grumpy about the economy - didn't know he has become a racist. \n\nI think this is a signal that I should start to distance myself from him.\n\nIf this has happened to you, how did you deal with it? Thanks everyone", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The title might be a little difficult to understand, sorry. I'm a bigger guy (256 lbs) and, unfortunately, as brief as my first relationship was, I had to end it due to her complete lack of communication. So, now I want to get fit, to the point where I could be considered remotely sexy for a guy. I'm currently 22 and I'm going to a community college.\n\nThe problem comes in where I also want to have a girlfriend at the same time that I'm getting fit. I've gotten slightly addicted! So, any previously heavy guys who have dated/tried to date while they were slimming down have any tips for me? I know it sounds douchey of me, but I'm not sure I can wait for months up to a year before I can get a skinnier girlfriend.\n\nAny tips or comments are appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a cat named Link. He's nearly four and we adopted him nearly a year ago. The neighbor's got a cat about 6 months ago that we call \"Gray Kitty.\"\n\nGray Kitty really like Link. I mean, some mornings when I let him out, she's already waiting for him and she's frequently with him when he wants to come in. She seems to like him more than he does her, but he's a really mellow cat and there's clearly no animosity there. Gray Kitty is extremely affectionate and I find her hanging out on our back porch a lot or coming to greet me when I get home. Being the cat-loving human I am, I frequently give her a few pats before going in. \n\nThe problem is that Gray Kitty has gotten into our house like a dozen times now. Any time the door is open, she's in, bolting towards the food. It doesn't help that our back door will swing open if it's not deadbolted and we won't notice. The other day, we looked down and she was under the coffee table, just strolled right in. \n\nI know that she belongs to our neighbors and she appears well-fed, just starved for attention. She also had some matting in her fur that I brushed/cut out to the best of my abilities. I think her owners feed her, but I don't know how loved she is. Whenever she gets in, we typically let her stay for a minute or two and then toss her out again. I would kind of want to kidnap her because she really is a sweetheart, but I know her owners and I'm not a catnapper. I mean, she purred the entire time I was brushing her. My cat acts like I'm torturing him and gets wary as soon as he sees the brush.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I'm a 22 year old, just graduated international student.\nI got approved of Optional Practical Training, and currently looking for a job. I can only work that is related to my major, which is Dramatic arts. I studied acting, scenic designing and costume designing.\n\nI have to pay for rent and groceries and everything, but since I just got out of college, I won't be paid much in the business. \n\nI cannot work part time in anything but something related to dramatic arts, and I want to survive. \n\nIs there any grants or financial aid international student can do?\n\nI don't know what to do and I don't want to give up on my dream.\n\nIs there any advice out there?\n\nI desperately need some advice. Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night my landlady (who lives in the unit below mine) called me at 2:30 in the morning freaked out and paranoid. She asked me if I would come downstairs and sleep on her couch because she was afraid and couldn't sleep. I'm not sure why I agreed, but I did. We talked for a little while and she seemed extremely overwrought, paranoid and nervous. At one point she asked if she could stay in my room until she found a new place to live, to which I politely said no. Overall it was a very bizarre experience; I sat on her couch until about 6 AM and then went back upstairs to my unit. There was no sign of any disturbance or anyone outside. Apparently she also cornered one of my roommates a few weeks back as she was leaving the house and asked her if she had seen or heard anything strange going on. None of us have seen any evidence of anybody loitering or hanging around or anything. I've lived at this place for 5 years and she has always been a bit flighty, but since her husband left her a few months ago she has been even weirder, and this is a new low.\n\nAny thoughts on how I handle a potentially crazy and thus potentially very invasive/unreliable landlady without pissing her off or making my living situation untenable?", "role": "user" } ]

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