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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know, I know, it is generic. We have known each other for about 5 years now, and in that time we have become the best of friends. We've established that no matter what happens in our friendship, that we will never cuddle, kiss, or have feelings for each other. \n\nBut recently we have been communicating non-stop and sometimes I just feel like I may have feelings for this person. But I am afraid to say something about it or point it out in the event that she won't continue being my friend, which is what's more important to me than dating her. We were talking the other day about what we look for in a partner, and I listed some things, (I am [trait], enjoy [verb], and have [noun].) and her response to that was basically, \"But dude, I am [trait], enjoy [verb], and have [noun].\", with the EXACT same things I listed. It made me pause and think that maybe she said that in the hopes I would get a mother fucking hint. But I dunno. She told me she did some stuff with this guy, and for some reason it really set me off.\n\n And now I can't stop thinking about her, but at the same time, I know I shouldn't think about her in this way. I wish I could simply tell her how I feel. It's basic Middle school bullshit, but it's driving me nuts and starting to stress me out. It's like this little guy tugging at my shirt telling me to be sad about it and stuff, telling me to not be able to enjoy my life without her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Need some help, reddit.\n\nMy father, pushing 60, just asked my brother and I for money to pay for 3 months worth of back due rent. Total: $1,350.\n\nA little backstory: he used to work for a large multinational but got canned about 8 years ago. He got severance and he decided to start his own business with it, which failed in about a year. He spent all of his severance on it. He now has another business which is obviously not yielding enough cash. He's also currently looking for a job.\n\nHe's re-married, to someone about 5 years my senior... She doesn't really work, but does some free-lance stuff, so \"she's been paying the bills\", according to my Dad. She recently took $30,000 from an older family member of hers to buy a car. She also frequently travels by invitation from this family member. (e.g. this family member pays for it...)\n\nI know that I will not loan my father any money, but just give it to him if my wife and I decide to do so. However, I don't see an end to this unless he makes some drastic changes. It seems he believes he will get different results by doing the same thing over and over, and frankly I don't see that he's killing himself to improve his situation.\n\nHowever, if I don't help him out, he will probably not pay rent and get kicked out. He also won't have money for a new place...\n\nWhat's also interesting to note is that my father , when he was doing well, gave his father (my grandfather) money every month to help him out. I don't want to do the same: I have my own family and life to take care of.\n\nSo, reddit, what to do? Anyone else been in a similar situation? Your thoughts, please?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "*This a a re-post due to changing accounts* \n\nSo pretty much what happened was:\nMy friend always gets me food for break (in high school), why? No idea. Just a thing that started happening, anyway. He bought me milk and a doughnut (donut for US) and I got the milk and put it where my fly should be and I went to my band room like that. After getting there I made everyone laugh and then I started laughing and the milk carton went down my leg. Everyone laughed more while I was hoping around the room, kicking my other leg trying to get this milk carton out. I had my back to the door and while I was fucking around my teacher came in and as he did the milk slipped out. I picked it up and turned to leave the room and then I saw him looking quite confused. He asked me \"What are you doing?\" to which I held up the carton of milk and replied \"My water got stuck somehow\" and swiftly left the room knowing I had fucked up and looked like a dumbass...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is just a simple question, nothing dramatic. My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 years and will be living together next semester in an 10 person flat. 7 of these other people are single women and 1 is a gay man. We're the only couple, and we don't know any of these people. \n\nMy question is, how much cuddling is acceptable in common spaces? There are 10 tiny bedrooms so there is private space for cuddling and such, but would it be awkward to do that in common space? My boyfriend's pretty demonstrative and I'd like to know if this is something we should avoid. Obviously no sex will be occurring at all, the walls are thin. But should we keep our couple-y demeanor for behind closed doors? What about hugs and flirting? It may sound stupid, but from facebook stalking I've seen at least a couple of these girls post stuff about hating obnoxious couples. A couple are also very unhappily single based on their statuses, and I don't want to rub it in their faces. \n\nIs this a conversation I should have with my boyfriend before shoving him aside if he tries to go in for a kiss? Or am I overthinking things? What are the appropriate boundaries?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Good morning, everyone! I have a question that I (probably) already know the answer to, but I'm at the end of my rope so I have to ask it.\n\nI have two puppies - Tillie is 10 months old and Henry is 3.5 months old. I've posted on here a lot and gotten a lot of great advice. Both of my puppies are really good dogs, and are pretty trainable.\n\nMy current problem is with Henry and his barking. It's not that he barks too much or too often. It seems like he barks a lot because Tillie hardly ever barks, but I'd guess he's pretty normal. The problem is that when he does bark it's like ice picks through my fucking ear drums. His bark is so high pitched and grating that it's intolerable. Everyone hates it including Tillie who will often snap at him to get him to shut up (thank you, Tillie!) Henry is such a good, cute dog, but the family, and anyone else who can hear him, hates the sound of his voice and it's making people not want to have him around.\n\nI've tried anticipating when he's going to bark, but he's a puppy and there's just no way to accurately predict when he might get it into his puppy brain to start barking. I'm not suggesting that he should completely stop barking, that's his means of communication and he's actually (mostly) using it appropriately. But is there any way to train him to ... I dunno, bark a little manlier? There's not, is there? :-/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In May, my mom passed away unexpectedly. I was evicted from the house we rented for $300/month simply because she was no longer living there- we were renting from my mom's nephew. \nI have no savings and my mom left me nothing- as her only income was social security. I work as a supervisor at a movie theater for $7.90/hr and work anywhere from 20-30 hours a week. I am a student but this upcoming semester all of my classes are online but one studio class. \nMy grandfather has agreed to pay my car payment for me for the foreseeable future. \nI have been crashing with my boyfriend and his roommate but my boyfriend and I would like to get our own apartment but I'm not sure how to go about that on our income. He also works at the movie theater making a similar wage but he is not a student and does not have a car. When he can't get a ride somewhere, he takes the bus. \nShould I take out a student loan to try to get on my feet? I can't stay in my current situation and I don't have any family support other than my grandfather paying my car payment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a bisexual female, 19, and my boyfriend is also 19 and straight. \nWe've been together for a year and a half.\nI love him very much and trust him completely and he feels the same about me. \nHe is totally fine with me hooking up with chicks, and I have, I tell him about it and share stories and he's all for it. In fact, he was even disappointed I didn't go home with the girl I made out with at the bar. Lol. So he's really cool.\nHe was virgin when he met me because he comes from a country where premarital sex is illegal (though he is an atheist). And I know he wants to have sex with other women, naturally. I told him I'm okay with it, for months I've been saying so, but though I DO admit when he first brought up the idea to me at the start of our relationship, I was very against it. But my mind has changed, like 6 months ago, but he still doesn't believe me. He feels upset because he is limited but he won't believe me that I'm fine with it even though I've explained it to him why I am. He is not okay with me being with men and I respect that. But how do I get him to believe me? He says he fears me being very upset afterwards and having a bitch-fit or demanding freedom to sleep with men. None of this is true. Advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone,\nI dated an awesome girl for 16 months. We broke up over a horrible miscommunication and pride from both sides being unwillingly to compromise. Then after having a month and half apart we started dating again. We were together for two weeks before we broke up due to a huge fight over what happene while we weren't together. It's been about two months now and we've just started talking again. I still have strong feelings for this girl and she has feelings for me too (I do not think they are as strong as mine). \n\nThis is where my delima comes in. I have been told countless times that her and I spent too much time together, especially since we're so young. I know that is most likely true, but we just loved being in each others company. My family, especially my parents think that I only want her back because I haven't met someone new. I have been encouraged to start dating again and find someone knew with more similar interests. I wouldn't mind dating again, but I just can't get my feelings for my ex to go away, nor do I really want them too. I still have strong feelings for her and I would love to be with her again, but I know it wouldn't be the same. Her family and my family would probably give us both a lot of stress and crap about it too. But in all honesty, I wouldn't care because she makes me happy.\n\nWhat I want to know is what you all think I should do. I do not want to lose her as a friend, so do you think I should just back off, date other girls, and only be available to her platonically? Or do you believe that I should act upon my feelings and show romantic interest in her again? \n\nI know that whatever I do I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings anymore. Am I being selfish for wanting to be with her again for a third time, even though we broke up? Do you think that I am being a loser and I should just meet new people? \n\nThanks for your time, I just don't have anyone else in my life to turn too for this advice. \nP.S. I might meet her tonight for warm drinks and conversation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First post- Check ✔\nClickbait title- Check ✔\n\nNewish (about half a month) lurker. Have been overweight all my life. I know my stats may seem okay but I have a lot of excess fat and my eating and activity habits are terrible. I lost almost 15kg (30lbs) about 2 years back but it came back and then some. This, constant weight loss yo-yo-ing and unhealthy eating+ no exercise have caused me to have a lot of stretch marks and not have a lot of confidence.\n\nBut I'm losing weight again and this time it's staying off. My brother and cousin, who both live with me at my parents house in Australia are quite fit and we're looking forward to attempting a 13 day Everest base camp hike in January of next year. This is my main motivation right now as well as looking good for graduation in November/university next year. \n\nI've been at it for two weeks now and I've lost about 5 lbs by doing 3 morning runs a week and 4 sessions at the gym as well as keeping to MFP goals even though I was very slack with it starting up ( \n\nWell anyways I wrote this basically to keep myself accountable. I'm not sure anyone will read this and tbh I don't mind if no one does.\n\nThanks to r/loseit for all the motivation it gave me and has given others. Keep losing people! :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I have a problem. And it's terribly embarrassing to me. I haven't been laid in a year and a half, and I haven't been in a relationship for nearly three. I'm going nuts. I live in the Pacific Northwest in a city full of young attractive women and I can't seem to meet any single ones.\n\nI'm a reasonably good looking guy, not particularly confident, but good at faking it, and I don't choke up talking to girls (any more). I'm not shy around people and I can appear gregarious when motivated properly (read: by booze). I haven't really had this problem before. I just don't know where to go to meet single girls. All my friends are in relationships. Their friends are in relationships. THEIR friends are in relationships.\n\nI've joined OkCupid. No dice. Not a peep from any of the 50+ girls I've contacted. I go to bars, but the women travel in packs or with their SO's. What am I doing wrong? Do I need a wingman? I do a fair number of activities, when not working. Quiz night, hiking, social events, frisbee golf. I'm just at a loss.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When you're a kid, you look forward to birthdays. Your friends and family do something special for you, you get a few cool presents, and have something to eat. \n\nBut now that I'm older, I'd rather pretend that my birthday doesn't exist. I fear getting older and irrelevant, and hate knowing that my youth is behind me. A few of my friends are around five years or so younger than me, and it's so cringe-inducing when I realize that they aren't familiar with the movies or music that I grew up with. Turning 30 tomorrow is a milestone I'd rather not have to deal with. I really am turning into a damn old man, at least mathematically, and I hate it.\n\nI've always gotten kind of depressed in recent years when my birthday is coming up. It reminds me that I'm drifting further into irrelevance, that my best youthful days are behind me, and that another year has passed without me doing anything great with my life. I'd rather just not acknowledge it. In my head, I'd prefer to think that I'm still 19 years old without a care in the world. Of course, a 40 hour a week office job and a mortgage makes that impossible, but at least I can dream.\n\nMy wife brought it up last week and asked what I wanted to do for my birthday. I told her I'd just like to have a nice drink at home and watch a movie with her or just grill out some burgers with our friends or something like that. But I know that they've probably got something crazy planned since I'm turning 30, and I honestly just dread it. I don't know how to approach it, and I'm already kind of a nervous wreck over getting older anyways. I feel guilty about it because I know they mean well, which is kind of hitting me and making me even more depressed about the whole deal.\n\nAnyone have any suggestions on how to approach this? How did you deal with a big age milestone? Did it make you depressed too? How do you suggest I go about this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello friends!\n\nI am in a long distance relationship and as such Skype has been a major boon to the quality of our lives. This has been downgraded somewhat recently.\n\nMe and my girlfriend would screen-share so we could enjoy movies and episodes together. It might not seem like much but we cherished the ability. I subscribed to the Skype service solely to keep that for us. \n\nSome time ago screen-sharing just stopped being able to cope with running video. I think this was around the time Microsoft acquired Skype although I'm not sure. This is confounding since both of us still enjoy good web connections and use high definition webcams that stream very well under normal conditions. \n\nFurthermore we have discovered that if we screen-share for any reason our call is seemingly throttled and we have to recall to regain quality.\n\nI have googled this to no avail and I was wondering if anybody has any knowledge about this situation and/or knows a working alternative?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have a fairly decent, average, relationship with about one exception. Her manners are so bad that I'm embarrassed every time we eat with friends/family and I'm starting to get frustrated even when it's just her and I to the point where I have a hard time being \"normal\" around her eating. I've also had friends/family mention it to me themselves on several occasions. \n\nI'm not a picky person by any means (at least about anything else) and in general am very tolerant of people who don't do things \"my way\" but after three years of listening to her chew with her mouth open, bite her fork/spoon when she takes a bite, play with her food, and shovel it into her mouth bit by bit I'm about at my wits end. I certainly don't expect royal manners or anything of that variety but I am slowly realizing that general manners are a must in my relationship. \n\nI know the old adage of \"just talk to her\" (we really do talk about almost everything, very open) but I have a particularly hard time, I think, because I feel like it's not my responsibility to coach her in proper social manners. It feels a bit father-like and I get the \"its not my job to teach her manners\" every time I consider talking about it. It's the details that get to me, is it best to try and train her in every nuance that makes up good manners (\"don't bite your fork, don't chew with your mouth open, don't pick at your food with your fingers\") or should I just generally say \"you need to work on your manners\" and hope that she gets it? \n\nIt's not just her eating habits, she seems to have been taught very few social manners but I thought it best to start here and see if I can figure out an easy way to approach such a topic.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "me[19/m] and my gf [17/F] have been together for 3 years and more. We met at secondary school and the first and a half year of relationship was sweet and lovely. After that I graduated from secondary school and proceeded to college. Since then my schedule is somehow different from hers, thus we cannot meet each other that often even though we are still in the same, small city. I am a bit aware of my family's financial status so I dont feel like visiting her a lot. We do miss each other and our relationship keep getting worse. This situation lasted for around 1.5 years and recently we had a deep chat and she told me that she was very very tired of this kind of medium-distance relationship and she didn't know whether she still love me or not. I still love her, I still miss her, I admit I was being selfish and not be with her, it felt like the whole situation is caused by me. I'm hoping to continue, but logically it would be best to break up, for the sake of both of us. Redditors, thanks for reading, if you don't have anything to comment, kindly leave a reply when you read it, 'I've read this' will do, I need some support, thank you :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both in our mid-twenties.\n\nI've been seeing her for about 2 months. In the past month, we've spent almost every day together and have been on plenty of dates. We sleep together almost every night and have had sex about a dozen times. We're affectionate, communicative and generally very happy with one another. Essentially, we're in a relationship, but we haven't made it official, or exclusive.\n\nShe got out of a serious relationship about 2 months before meeting me, and she was the one who was broken up with. She has said that she's wary of getting into another serious relationship, as she has been in one kind or another since her teenage years, with little gap between. She seems anxious about us becoming serious so fast, but we seem to be so good together that we've been able to get to this point despite her reservations.\n\nIf I'm fairly certain that she's committed to being romantically involved with only me, should I even make the move to talk with her about making it 'official'? I don't really care about titles or labels, etc. but I'm afraid of scaring her off by talking to her about it. That said, I want some sense of security. \n\nShould I instead just man up and let it play out on its own (i.e. enjoy the relationship for what it is and wait for a natural progression), or is asking her to make it official a natural move in and of itself?\n\nLastly, what signs from her should I look for that she wants to make it official? She's already said things like \"I love sleeping with you; I love holding and being held by you; You're amazing; We're virtually in a relationship (but not quite); I really really like you\" etc. but she has also said things like \"This is moving kind of fast; You're going to get bored of me; We see each other so much\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On Sunday, I ran my first 10-mile race. While this is a great accomplishment I have noticed a significant spike in my sex drive during the week leading up to the race and in the days since I ran; about 10 days in total.\nI workout 2-3 times per week for about 45 minutes each time and have average eating habits. During the week leading up to the race, I ate mostly a plant-based diet - salad for lunch and dinner, fish for protein, etc. - and worked out 3 times and ran only twice (Not great prep, I know.) This helped me lose about 2 or 3 pounds.\nNow, I cannot stop thinking about sex! This morning (Thursday) I spent about 3 hours watching porn and \"distracted\" myself by going to a midday fitness class. Now I want to jerk off again or have find someone to sex.\nI don't know what to do. This is both embarrassing and confusing. I want to continue working out but am honestly afraid being fit will turn me into a sex addict.\nBackground: I played soccer in college and recall a similar correlation during my off season workouts. I am now in my late 20s and no longer train 5-6 days a week as was the norm in college. This is the most physically active I have been since my early 20s.\nQuestion: Is there research that has connected a higher sex drive (thinking more about sex) with a increased physical activity (working out)? Also, share your experiences because I feel like an outlier here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. We've had our ups and downs, as with any relationship but I love her. I thought our relationship was in a really good place the past couple months. But, the last few days she's been acting very strangely -- not nearly as interested in sex, being very careful to not leave her phone or computer around me, etc. I got pretty suspicious but tried my best to be trusting.\n\nI am ashamed to say I broke. I snooped her texts with her guy friend and found some messages that made it very clear that they are having sex.\n\nI am burning up inside, but I don't think it's fair to my friends to ruin our vacation with an explosion of fighting, especially since we're all stuck in a single car together for the next few days. But, at the same time I don't know if I can manage to act normal around her for that long. How should I go about this? Also, how can I confront her when we get back since I also broke our trust by snooping her texts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I treat her better than any other gf I have had. We do all sorts of romantic stuff, go on hikes, have pikniks, cuddle after sex, when I wake up at her house I make her breakfast, clean shit up around her place, let her sleep in. We have been together for two years and broken up thrice. I have never cheated on her. She drunkenly kissed a guy once but she came to me crying the next day and kissing isn't that big of a deal for me. I listen to her problems and give her solid advice when she asks for it. I am very helpful with her family: doing yard work, cleaning, making dinner when nobody else wants to. And on top of all that I give her 3-5 hour long massages a month (I'm a massage therapist by trade). The only thing is I am faking this entire relationship. I've gotten very good at it. I know exactly what she wants and expects most of the time and am good at delivering. The reason I know I am not ever going to fully commit to this relationship is because she suffers from depression. I take into account that one week of every month is 'that' week and should be treated with caution, every other week she will suffer a major debilitating headache that will spiral her down into a pit of depression lasting at the very least 3 days most I've seen it go is a week. Conservatively that is 4 days every other week where shit goes down the toilet. That comes out to a MINIMUM of 13 days of the month where no matter what happens she will be in a bad mood. I know not to bother her when this happens and she knows not to expect me around. I love her but am not in love with her. I can not live with her and her depression. Is it wrong to fake this relationship for the sake of casual sex until something better comes my way?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit friends. I need some help. \nSo there my (now ex) girlfriend moved into New highschool. She didn't move houses just schools. There was this boy that ended up befriending her on every social media. FB, Instagram, Twitter. He began liking a lot of her pictures and she liked a few of his. I asked about him, and she said she didn't know him but was just returning the favor to be nice. I didn't think much of it. \n\nFast forward until about 2 days ago. I saw a text pop up on her phone, and it was the same guy. They weren't talking about cheating or anything, just hey what's up and stuff. So I talked to her about it and she ended up telling me that she actually did know him and and talked to him a few times. She told me she thought he was cute, and that he told her friend he liked my girlfriend. so I asked her to unfriend him on everything and she agreed. She did. \n\nToday I saw she again friended him again. I asked her ABout why she did that and she got extremely mad. I told her I was not okay with this given what she has told me and She said to me that \"I don't get to fucking decide what she does\". And then she called me an inconsiderate controlling asshole. I told her we wanted different things in a relationship. \n\nWas it wrong of me? Or was she just not caring about my feelings. Was communicating with this one guy so important that out whole relationship is over? Reddit help me. Was I in the wrong for being controlling? We were dating for 9 months. Was I right for calling off the relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all, thanks for reading. \n\nSo I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 months now. I like him a lot, but its clear that he does not want to pursue a relationship with me. i am okay with that because i'm extremely busy.\n\nAnyway, this past Friday was my birthday. I asked him to hang out with me about a week in advance. He said maybe. I texted him the plan on Wednesday night and he never answered. Then, my birthday arrives, and I don't hear from him. At all. Not even a happy birthday text. He doesn't show up to my bday thing and never even texts to say he won't be there. \n\nI know we aren't boyfriend-girlfriend, but my feelings are really hurt that we have been sleeping together for 6 months (these instances often include taking his dog to the dog park, cooking dinner together, going to art shows, etc) and yet he doesn't respect me enough to even acknowledge my birthday... Even with a polite invite decline... \n\nI don't know how to talk to him about this in a way that conveys how I feel without making it seem like Im being clingy and expected boyfriend treatment from him. I work part time in the same building as him so will probably run into him Monday and am nervous.\n\nDo you guys have any thoughts/advice/insight into why we would act like this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She: 26, Me: 29 together about 5 years, off and on, mostly on.\n\nShe tends to be rather selfish in my opinion in the relationship. The basic rule is to not talk too much about yourself because it's boring, but she always talks about herself. Recently I told her how I felt, that I'd like to change the subject more often and maybe stop talking about her all the time. I do care about her world, but it would be nice if she weren't so selfish in the conversations. I know females love attention, but honestly, it's about give AND take.\n\nQuestion - am I in the wrong to think she's selfish when our conversations involve a lot more \"I\" and \"me\" and \"my\" than \"you\" or \"our\"? When I told her what I did she didn't snap and we didn't fight about it, but based on her reaction I don't know if anyone else has ever told her that she's kind of...egocentric.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Frist of all I am shy and not very self-confident, but this is something I am working on right now and I have not been in a relationship ever before.\n \nLast year I worked 9 months at the Red Cross in Austria and saw her on one evening in this period of time. \nAs I ended working and started studying I started volunteering for the Red Cross one time a month (weekend shift) and I was surprised that she also works the same day in the month. \nAs I was working I heard, that she had been single since spring 2015. \nI basically saw her 10 times in 2015, but I really feel connected to her. \nOn Christmas I asked her out to play pool/billard with me sometime. She posponed it to a later date, because she had serious exams to do after the chistmas break. \nHence I have my exams now, I have not saw her neither asked her since then. \nThe last thing before I sleep and the first thing in the morning is that I think of her. \nI think I am overthinking the whole situation, how she will react and if I am her type of guy. \nWhat makes me think that is, that she is more the type of girl which is into sports and party on the weekends and I am the IT kind of guy and I use my free time playing video games. \nMy Question now is, how do I know if there is any chance, should I just say it straight forward, that I like her, when we meet up to play pool/billard, or should I try to tease a little bit and get to go slowly.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Kind of an unconventional post here, but here it goes:\n\nMy roommate is a guy that smokes a ton of weed at just about any hour of the day. In fact, I heard him fill up his bong at 9 this morning in the sink near my room. I'm cool with him smoking weed, I mean you do you, bud. What I'm not cool with is his blasting music when I'm trying to do work (we share a wall), the awful smell that comes from his room seeping in to mine (again, right next to each other), and the sheer number of people that come over for an indefinite amount of time (the door is literally unlocked so his friends can walk in whenever). These guys use our water at a rate that I'm not okay to split with my roommie at our agreed 50-50 rate. These guys use our toilet paper at a rate that I can't afford and have been stuck in a situation where I've had to hobble out to the drug store to buy more twice so far. These guys order pizza every night and then my roommate makes a big deal when I ask him to buy dish soap or do a fucking chore. In fact, as I was writing this, another guy walked in and he cleared his bong. IM. FUCKING. DONE.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have this fear of being murdered, in my own home, but it goes well beyond that. It all started when my car was broken into, in my own drive way. My laptop, radar detector, GPS, system, amp & sub were all taken from my car in the middle of the night. I really felt stupid for leaving my things in my car, in plain view. Following the incident, I would go outside on the back porch to smoke and almost immediately have a panic attack. I'm usually up until 4 - 5AM, so it was quite dark when I'd go out. One of my dogs would usually go out with me and she would bark at shadows. That's what triggered it. Even with every landscape light & the lights from my porch on, I'd panic at the thought of what I couldn't see beyond the lit areas. I'd race inside, usually throwing my cigarette to the ground while flailing my arms about & slam the door. From that point on, I'd have to constantly make sure the doors were locked. Every light in my house had to be on. I'd make sure my dogs are awake & alert. I'd usually wake the next morning in the recliner in my bedroom, sometimes with a knife (which I now sleep with close by). \n\nNOW, I have quit smoking. I thought that would help and it did for a few days. Unfortunately, I still freak out, every single night. I cannot be home at night without every light in my house on, in a complete panic. It's even gotten to the point that I grab all four of my dogs & stay at a friends house quite frequently. Should I seek therapy for something like this? Any home remedies for curing this kind of fear?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I (22/M) have been dating for about 2 months. I just graduated and she is still in school, staying on campus. I am going on a overnight trip to the beach next weekend and really wanted her to come with me. \n\nShe asked her parents and they said no. This then became a much bigger issue of independence and I really encouraged her (or pressured) to tell her parents instead of ask, as she is an adult and I would like an adult relationship. \n\nThe conversation finished by me saying that I viewed her independence as a threat to our relationship, and that because I really care about her and don't want to get hurt, I would like to get this straightened out. \n\nAm I being unreasonable and any other ideas on how I should approach it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've recently started uni, had eyes on this girl from the start, we got talking, flirting, (to be fair she said right from the start she didn't want a relationship, I wasn't phased by that though I did want something exclusive) but then we began to meet up a couple times, we kissed, texted everyday flirting, etc. but all of a sudden she's now decided she wants to call things off, we're in the same friendship group but this didn't affect us at the start and I think were both mature enough to not let that affect anything. She wont deny liking me but says since she doesn't want a relationship she doesn't want to carry on with what were doing.\nI had some bad news in the family recently and since I live away from them now I feel I sort of clung to her due to the affection she gave the past few days, I fear this has put her off.\n\n-----Most people you ask will say I'm attractive, confident and funny - I do not mean to come across arrogant it's just to give you an insight to what I'm like! She is a nice girl, a virgin, by the way, not a player-----\n\nThe question is, I really like her and I don't want things to go that easily, how can I sway her views, and look to atleast get a date and maybe more from her? I really don't feel up for the friendzone... Do I need to make her jealous, if so how? Or at least, how do I recover?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I had a good time the other night bonding with a friend I had a crush on. I knew that she was newly single and she had come over to hang out with me and some friends. We ended up alone together on the balcony talking about shared experiences until late at night. We had just finished a bottle between the both of us and I was feeling confident, so I went in for the kiss. We made out and I asked if she wanted to take this to my room once we broke for air. We proceeded to have sex and during the whole fiasco my condom had fallen off without me noticing and so I accidentally came inside her. We got plan B and everything and I apologized profusely. She said she didn't hate me or anything for it and that it was just a bad situation. I haven't talked to her for a few days after it. Should I just shoot her a text and start up casual conversation? Wait till she contacts me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi folks,\nI want to give back to Reddit.\nReddit has given me so much and I just want to give back to the community.\n\nIm thinking about setting up a designated email address to provide you guys with, and when I have time I will just spiffy up your resume (I am a hiring manager) and give you tips on the Application Process.\nBefore I do this I just wanted to ask you guys, what do you think? Would this help you or would I be wasting my time?\n\nThere is also the ethical issue of me giving you the upper hand for a short part of any given Application Process- but if you truly are not a good fit for a position then I believe the hiring manager can determine this at the personal interview stage.\n\nI want to get you guys interviews. And hopefully jobs.\n\n99% of the resume's that come in to my business are crap. I hate seeing this, because who knows if this person would be a great hire but they just dont know how to express that on paper? And most people are not to blame, because most people were never properly taught how to write a resume.\n\nI do the hiring for my restaurant, although Ive been told by others in the field that our Application Process trumps most large corporations and research firms and is way more technical than most Application Processes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\n\nSo this was my first serious relationship with this amazing girl and it was almost near perfect. Unfortunately life decisions are causing us to seperate in the upcoming months with atleast a 6 hour difference between us. This distance will not go away for atleast the next 6+ years and I totally realize sustaining a LDR with no end goal is very difficult.\n\nShe said said she would like to break up and become friends as we get closer to going our seperate ways. Initially, I wanted to atleast give it a shot and see what comes of it - and if we were both truly unhappy I would be fine with breaking it off. I understand now, that this will only delay the eventual breakup and I support her decision as well.\n\nI'm having difficulty with realizing what this means though. It bothers me when I realize I wont get to know the little things in her life or be a priority anymore. It bothers me that eventually she will get intimate with someone else thats not me. She was the first person I would tell when something happened to me, now I dont know who will listen to the little things with the genuine interest she had. Again, this is my first long term relationship so I'm wondering does it really get better. Will I wake up one morning and no longer wonder how she is doing? For now, some mornings I wake up feeling physically sick realizing that we will be near strangers in a matter of months.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone, thank you in advance for any advice you can give me! \n\nMy girlfriend and I are almost done with our sophomore year in college. We have been dating for 1 1/2 years since we started college. She is my first for everything including kissing. I think she is a great person and I do love her but I just don't know what to think.\n\nWe talk about the future and we have many similarities in what we want in our future but I am having doubts about our relationship. My biggest thing is that I have not dated or done anything with any other girl. I feel like even though I love her, I need a break to experience college, both by myself and with other people. I am always thinking about other girls and I don't know if I'm ready to commit for life without testing the waters. It's just so hard to give up something very good that we've had for over a year. \n\nLife after college with her could be both what I want and don't want. I have some things that make me feel insecure about our relationship after college and I don't want to make this too long but it pretty much involves her mother and my job which I get to choose if I want to move around a lot or stay in one spot. I can explain further if anyone wants.\n\nThanks again!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 15 year old girl that has liked the same boy for 3 years, passionately. However, he doesn't like me, as far as I know. I sort of asked him out before, ages ago. He said no. Back then, he was very cold to me and we were having a bad time in our friendship. We fell out, because his friends disliked me and I annoyed him or something like that. \n\nNow, he is friends with me again. We are closer. However, the way he's acting with me has changed. He sits more open and talks to me all the time, he does things to get my attention and he stares at me in the eyes while smiling at me. He'll pretend to be cold, but he'll have a little smirk on his face, but not a rude one.\n\nI like this new change. It seems he has forgotten about our argument and my love. People have mentioned it to him, he doesn't say anything. During a conversation with a group about partners and sex, he said to me that \"he might be a tiger in bed\". He's being sweeter, nicer and a little bit...cheeky.\n\nI am getting sick of lying and denying my feelings for him, I just want to tell him, but I'm scared that it will all go bad again. I'm more mature now, but I still fear rejection.\n\nWhat do you think these changes mean? Do you think I should tell him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When we got together nothing split us up, we aere happy as all young people are, into the relationship i started taking seing her for granted.\nShe felt so shit if i would ever cancel with her. But alas i was not told, as most females do not say what is up.\n\nSo a guy comes onto the scene and shows her all the attention she so requires and the attention i should have shown her, but as i said, i saw seeing her for granted. Thing is, i dont have many people in my life, and she is such a huge part of me, i was literally a fool to not show it.\n\nWhen we are together things are right, we can sense it, but when apart she denies it all and its breaking my heart.\nWe had a year of love where i did not show her the attention she deserved, she is perfect to me, and every morning i wake up hating myself more for what i have done.\n\nI do not know if i can win back another chance, or if it is too late, but thinking of her or seeing her is soo painful. She stills means the world to me, I wish i wanted a fool.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've known each other through school but never talked until we had a class together. I asked her out after about a week, we went out for food, laughed, flirted etc etc. I asked her out again same situation, everything going great. Now it's three weeks later (midst of exams) and I'm starting to get the feeling that she's not thinking of this as a \"relationship\" in the conventional bf/gf sense. I'm new to the whole dating game and wondering a few things. \n\nDo I need to ask if we're together as bf/gf or is that implied by asking her out multiple times? Should I straight up ask if she likes me the way I like her? I know what the friend zone is and I'm not feeling there, yet, but we're having a movie night tomorrow just her and I. I plan on seeing what's what then by trying to get physical, not hardcore, just simple stuff like leg touches, cuddling etc. Oh and finally, to add to my lengthy situation, On our third \"date\" (studying for an exam) I drove her home and attempted to kiss her but got the infamous cheek. I didn't make a big deal about it I just moved past said \"got your things?\" and politely said goodbye preceding to wait for her to get inside her house. I've been told I shouldn't fret about ONE kiss rejection cause there could be multiple reasons for it but at the same time that made me think more about the friend zone possibility. \n\nAny advice or similar situations and how you solved the problem would be smashing! Thanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm at a top ranked graduate school, doing better than I ever have academically and making friends- yet I'm miserable.\n\n I've been in the middle of an eight month eating disorder relapse. One failed treatment episode over the summer. Three different therapists. Three different dieticians. Two different doctors. I know it's not all them but I feel like nobody in these teeny town knows how to deal with me. Feeling frusturated and hopeless. Had recovery before but can't seem to get back to it.\n\nIn the past, my entire life has been completely unmanageable when I'm struggling and this is not happening this time; this concerns me as that was always a catalyst for change.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just bought my prom dress online, and to my horror I found that it didn't fit properly. Sadly, the dress went through 3 countries before I got it and so the deadline for sending the dress back is long past. Therefore I'm hell-bent on making the dress fit. I want to lose about 15 pounds before prom in June, and wondered if loseit could help me!\n\nI'm 17, F, 5 7\" and about 185 pounds. In other words overweight. I've always been of the muscular type with a somewhat bulky (ಠ_ಠ) upper body, and I want to lose fat, and not so much muscle. I got access to a modest gym with the most basic equipment, and now that it's getting warmer I'm also open to doing stuff outside. What I don't have access to, however, is proper food as I live in a host family as a poor student. I therefore can't afford to buy a lot of fancy food.\n\nDoes loseit have some healthy tips as to what what options I got with food, healthy snacks and stuff, and what do do in the gym to reach my goals? :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for about 9 months, and its been rocky but we managed to work through it.\n\nDue to certain financial things on her end we decided to move in together but broke up and she moved out to stay with a friend. We were under a lot of pressure at the time with both of us losing our jobs at the same time; the companies we worked for went under.\n\n2 weeks ago we got together again and made up. It was great; I missed her and she missed me. We made love for days. She had also gotten work but it was a bit far from where I stayed and she moved in with a guy she met in the classified section looking for a roommate - she said she didn't have much choice and had to move quickly to be close to her new job.\n\nIt's been 3 days since she moved and her entire attitude towards me has changed. At first I couldn't get her off me, now she barley wants to talk to me or see me. She is spending a lot of time with the male roommate and it bothers me a lot, because even thought the guy is rather fat and not good looking at all I can see he fancies my girlfriend and keeps giving her things and is being overly nice. He seems to have some money, but wouldn't call him rich.\n\nHer car broke down and he even lend his other car to her, which is nice but the guy seems like over overly nice if that makes sense. She misses a few of my calls and disappears for hours and feels like she is insinuating she needs her space after we just gotten so close again, just out of nowhere. I tried talking to her about the situation and said how would she have felt if it was me living with a girl and just disappeared and seemed to have a real ball of a time with her and then kinda start ignoring my gf? Needless to say we got into a fight but we both apologized but essentially the same issue persists. \n\nMaybe I'm just jealous but I'm really uncomfortable with the situation but at the same time that will push her away? So what the hell should I do? I love her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So she decided we needed some time and space from me on the weekend I was planning to propose (she didn't know about my plans), we got to talking about our relationship and some issues that had been swept under the rug for a while finally came to light on both our ends. After 2 weeks of space and time I started reaching out to try and work things out, she said she needed more time I said we should work on things together, after a bit of a discussion she decided if I can't give her the time and space then it's over and broke up with me. It's been a total of 6 weeks including the time a day space. We've stayed in contact the whole time and some days she seems to be hinting at getting back together and other days she's very standoffish and says we'll never get back together, just give up hope. With all the back and forth, I heard she was dating someone now so I asked and she said she's not, she's just friends with a guy but they're talking a lot and getting to know each other but that's it. Then the next day she's telling me how much she loves me and got upset that I deleted our pics off social media (yet she had unfriended me weeks ago). She says she wants to keep a friendship with me but I told her I can't, not with how in love I still am and specially not if she's talking to someone else because I think it's BS she won't try to fix things with me, but is willing to give someone else her time and attention. I love her, more than I've ever loved any woman before, she's the first and only girl I've ever bought an engagement ring for. My family adores her, my kids have become attached to her and call her mommy, her son has done the same with me and calls me dad. I just don't know what to do now, I'm tired of feeling depressed and being on this emotional Rollercoaster of getting my hopes up one day, and shooting me down the next. What do you guys suggest I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit,\n\nLong time lurker and first time poster. I recently graduated from a well-known university with a management science degree (a lot of economic classes with emphasis in math, microeconomics, econometrics, etc.).\n\nIt has been about 5-6 months since I graduated and I really don't know what to do with my life. I realized that I don't know anything of the real world and that I don't have the business personality and mindset that so many people in my major seem to have. Along with that, I have no experience with internships or anything of the sort. I was just that college student that took classes and did nothing else but do general club activities, drink and game.\n\nI feel like I made a wrong choice in my major and that I should go back to school (looking into a computer science degree as I am interested in the subject and the job opportunities that are open with it). Even though I have no idea on how to do such a thing.\nWhat I'm wondering about is this. Is it smart to go back to school to get another bachelor's or should I just try to keep finding jobs in my major? Also, to those that say I should go back to school, should I go back to my old university (where I would have to pay an arm and a leg for) or is an associates good enough for this field?\n\nSorry if this seems like a \"I need help, please give me all the answers with no work on my part\" type of question. I have just been extremely depressed for the past month as I took an extra year to graduate with this major after switching from a science and all of my friends seem to have moved on to the next stage of their lives.\n\nP.S: If neither of the questions seem like a good idea, any answer would be great. I just feel like my glass was shattered when I finally left school. Finding out I don't really like my major, and with no classes to take, I feel like I can do anything; however, I just don't want to make the another mistake (such as switching from science to management science without really thinking about it).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for formatting - I'm on mobile\n\nStuff like this isn't really an issue normally. My mum came home whilst I was in bath (it's prom tomorrow so I taking longer because I was shaving and whatnot) so she shouted up to me that she needed to use the bathroom and I told her I'd be 10 minutes so that I could finish up. Not 5 minutes again so was shouting up the stairs to me that she needed to go out so she needed to use the bathroom now. I told her that I'd be two minutes more and she could come in (I had to get out with shampoo still in my hair). She opened the door slightly literally 20 seconds later and said \"are you done yet?\" as I was getting out of the bath with a towel around my body. I said (or more like shouted at her) to not open the door at me when I was in the bath. She laughedand said that it didn't matter because I had a towel on.\n\nI don't feel like that the fucking point though. She didn't know if I had a towel on or not - she may be my mum but I don't feel comfortable being seen naked by her. Who would? I'm really angry about it. I feel like she disrespected me and my privacy by doing this and especially just to laugh it off because it could have left me majorly embarrassed. Like I said, she's never done anything like this before.\n\nReddit, am I overreacting here? I don't know if I can justify being this angry. What should I say about it when she comes home/should I even mention it? If it was me I would have waited until the person inside opened the door for me...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a girl in a class we both had in college about a month ago. I have always seen her in class (I'm pretty sure I've had multiple with her) but I only spoke to her recently. \n\nWe both had to work on a project together along with one other member. One day we were all to meet up to work on the project, but the third person came late so it was just me and her for a while. At first we just talked about the project and how sucky it was that the third guy was so late, but then we began to talk about ourselves.\n\nI have never had a conversation like the one we had. Generally when I talk to people I have to reserve my interest in science or my goals, but in that conversation I didn't feel like I had to. Everything she said felt like she was just reading my mind and saying exactly what I wanted to hear or what I was going to say. She seems so passionate about science and I think that has to be the best quality I've ever seen in a person. Also, of course, I do as well find her attractive. \n\nI mean there was something that did put me off... She smokes cigarettes. But I think I can look past that lol. I honestly felt a connection with her that I've never felt before.\n\nI don't mean to sound full of myself, but it's so hard to find someone my age, in my city, to have an intellectual conversation with. It was refreshing. \n\nBut now I want to keep talking to her and I don't know how to make an excuse to. The semester is over and the project is done. I have her number but I don't know what I should do with it. I thought of texting her, we have before, but about what? \n\nOn top of all that, I have always told myself I shouldn't date in college. It might present distractions that could be take me away from my already overly ambitious goals.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in the Navy and stationed domestically, but several states away from home. I came home for a couple of weeks, had a lot of sex, and now she's pregnant (according to a test she bought).\n\nMy dad, my stepmom, their son (my half brother), and everyone they interact with dislike her for stupid reasons. My mother loves her to death.\n\nI am scared to tell my family. I am scared that my family will disown me. My dad's family has disowned his sister, and I am afraid that they might do the same to me one day.\n\nI am scared that I'll be like my mom and either become an alcoholic or leave my child. And it wouldn't be hard being so far away from home.\n\nI am scared that my girlfriend and I will grow up and hate each other or be forced into a marriage we're not ready to be in yet.\n\nI am scared I'll be a failure. I just got into the Navy, got into my first command recently, and I'm afraid my performance and everything will go to shit.\n\nI'm afraid I won't ever go to college and get a good job. I'm afraid that I'm leaving my girlfriend with a kid at home and she'll resent me for still being able to pursue my career and ambitions, and she's at home taking care of a baby instead of following her own dreams.\n\nI'm scared people will make fun of her for getting pregnant so young.\n\nI'm scared I won't be able to provide adequately or be a shitty father.\n\nI'm scared that I didn't realize I was so stupid and not careful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know people in this sub tend to look down on teenage drama but this has been bugging me recently.\n\nMy old SO, we can call her Jane, were in a relationship for a significant length of time during middle school. Post relationship, I maintained a sort of \"gay best friend\" friendship with her; a very very close platonic partnership. Jane was supportive me of in my quest for love through high school, and I tried to help her out as well, but she has yet to have any luck whatsoever.\n\nRecently I started dating a third girl, who we will call Jill. Jill is in the same small friend group as Jane is, and I gained interest in Jill at the beginning of this year of high school. Jane was supportive of me, but she had big doubts about my chances will Jill, until it slipped out that Jill knew I fancied her and wouldn't mind a date. Even though I have seen images of these conversations, Jane has been telling me that Jill doesn't want to date, which I know is false because we began chatting up and are prepared to do an official first date soon.\n\nAs soon as news of this broke, Jane began to be more hostile to me that usual. We went from chatting every day for a few hours to twice in the last 2 weeks. She also insults me more (this is significant because although we maintained a very sarcastic attitude with each other, she has begun to cross a line and be mean). Jane is stonewalling my efforts here; it is unfair of her to intrude on this new relationship of mine. However, I don't know how to deal with this, because Jane is possibly my best friend but still is being a big nuisance.\n\nI don't know what to do here; I don't think I have to pick between Jane and Jill but it seems that I have to make that choice. Can someone explain what is happening? I have been out of the dating game for some time so I don't really get what issues are happening.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my boyfriend for almost a full year now. We are so incredibly close and have spent nearly every single day together. I have never been so close with someone, even past people I was in love with. \n\nAnyway, he has a pretty cool job - he is self employed, and does magic for weddings and restaurants and corporate events - classy, adult close up magic. None of that bunny in the hat stuff. He is young and very very cute, tall, and gets a lot of girls giggling and winking at him, which I understood when entering the relationship was part of the deal.\n\nHe used to do this trick, which he once did on me when we first met, called the kiss trick. Where he pretty much puts a card in his mouth and another card in a girls mouth, they kiss, and then the cards are switched. He's asked, and I've told him, this is not okay with me. He can flirt for tips all he wants but kissing crosses the line. He has plenty of other tricks. Hundred of them. He agreed. However, a week ago he was doing a wedding and ended up going a kiss trick on a bridesmaid who asked him to, who had seen the trick done by another magician before. He told me and was honest but I can't help feel betrayed and upset. We agreed on this from the start :/ I love him and have no desire to leave him but want to handle this in a way that shows how serious I am. Please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and we're planning on living together this coming fall. He and I won't see each other during the summer months since we'll be in different states working, and we'll move in together right when he gets back. I am one hundred percent ready to make this leap with him, but what makes me hesitate is that he recently told me that his love for me comes and goes in waves, and that he feels more fulfilled when he is alone because he is more productive. This brought on the topic that he thinks that living together like this will either solidify our relationship or end it. I think it's a bit strange to bring this up while still planning on moving in together... Our relationship has been a bit rocky because of the lack of productivity together. When we're together, we just want to BE together: not be bothered by friends, school, etc. Just be in each others company. This has made both of our grades suffer, and friendships. Which has soured the relationship. We both said that when we look back on our history together, it's been great but not as great as it could be because of how little we have actually done. I am just worried that this isn't the right step to take in our relationship if he feels so rocky about it, and if our relationship is based off of a history of non-productivity. \nHave any of you been in this situation? And what did you do to fix it? Or can it be fixed?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Couldn't find a good subreddit for this\n\nI live with my fiancé and a male roommate. Things are not bad at all. We like where we live and most of our neighbors are really great. My problem stems from the apartment manager. She is rude, unprofessional and seriously starting to get on my nerves. \nThe way we have it set up (between the 3 of us) is that I take care of the house and I am the one who notifies the manager about issues and all of that kind of thing. She has been told multiple times that I am the one to get in touch with about any apartment related things. \n\nShe refuses. I can call her a dozen times and leave message after message and she refuses to get back to me. But she has no problem calling either my roommate or my fiancé back. In fact there have been times where I was calling everyday for 2 weeks and heard nothing from her, (the matter was about resigning our lease) my fiancé called…and she called him back within 5 minutes. \n\nShe not only completely ignores me and ignores the guys when they tell her to call me, she flirts endlessly with my fiancé. Asking him out to do things and all of that to which he always tells her no. I'm not jealous…but I am getting pissed over the disrespect she is showing not only to my face but behind my back. Now, I also happen to know that she does this with every other couple in the apartment complex. Ignores the woman and hits on the man. \n\nI just don't know what to do about her anymore. Anybody ever have to deal with this, or know how to deal with this. It has been going on (and getting worse) over the past two years. \n\nNote: We don't want to move because right now we can't afford any other place. And like where we live.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a mid-20s female who has been with my 30 year old boyfriend for about 4 and a half years. We've been living together for 4 years and were having an awesome time of it up until last year. He's my best friend, and we live together so easily it's almost ridiculous. He suffered a lot of stresses that triggered underlying depression and PTSD, and turned into someone who is basically not the person I fell in love with. He's been getting treatment on and off, and recently felt like he had a breakthrough after being in the hospital for a few days and receiving extra care and education. \n\nHe's wanted kids for the last 25 years. It's his main ambition, partially because he wants to give a kid a chance at a better childhood than he had. I hadn't even planned on having kids before meeting him, but over time, I at least opened up the issue for reconsideration. I was sold logically on the idea as a way to instill more meaning in my life, something that I couldn't weasel out of easily if I lost motivation, and occasionally felt excited about what could happen. However, the last year has added extra doubts about the stability of my partner, and I don't know if I can handle so many unknowns. I still have major fears about limiting my freedom, being stuck in a relationship that may continue to be unhealthy, and also potentially regretting the choice to commit myself to raising a kid. My partner needs a decision from me as soon as I can because he's afraid of being too old to do everything he's dreamed of doing with his kids. I know that there's not much of an answer for me beyond \"figure out what you want,\" but I just want to hear opinions and any possible advice that might help me make this decision.\n\nThanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just wanted to ask reddit their opinion on this:\n\nShort story is my cousin was caught by my aunt beating and kicking her son (13) to near death in a drunken rage. Authorities showed up, got another call, and didn't come back until 3 days later. Her son (13) and daughter (12) have given MULTIPLE never-ending stories of very graphic child abuse, drug-use, and molestation while in the care of their mother.\nShe has been finally found (after 3 years since the incident of her being caught) to have her parental rights completely removed and the children are now under my aunt & uncle's care.\n\nNow that the judge has found her to be an unfit parent, why is she not in jail for all of the accounts of abuse, drug-use, and molestation by her roommates?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my girlfriend and I have been going out for roughly three months now. Now, she's a flirty person by nature, but the extent to which she flirts with other guys when I'm around is, in my opinion, completely excessive. Sure, you have the friendly hugs with friends of hers, and that's perfectly fine with me. But then there are a few other things that drive me up the wall. For one thing, she'll begin flirting with guys the instant she meets them, with me standing right there. (Yes, even my friends that I introduce her too) If she wants to flirt with guys on her own time, she can go ahead, but it's just irritating to have her do it with me awkwardly standing there. And there are also one or two guys which she flirts with to an absolutely ridiculous extent. Take, for example, her extremely close male friend, we'll call him Steven. They both insist that there's absolutely nothing going on between them, and quite frankly, I believe them. Without fail, she'll be all over Steven whenever he's around. And he will blatantly point out how awkward it is with her boyfriend being right there, but she'll just continue.\n\nAnyway, I've been mulling this over for a few days, and want to know how I should handle this with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a relationship with my ex for 3 years and I want her back.\n\n4 weeks ago, she broke things off for good after we got into an argument which involved my female friends who I have been in completely platonic and respectful friendships with. My ex never got to really get to know these friends as we were involved in a LDR for the past year and half which probably exacerbated the issue.\n\nI talked to her last week to get closure, say a proper farewell and she told me that she has realized that I was manipulative. I was not and the examples she gave were taken out of context and grossly misinterpret the things I've said. She also said that our relationship was always in a cycle where one of us submitting to the other for a couple months before we switched places for the next couple months. She didn't explain this very well to me, but I again disagree with her assessment.\n\nWe have supported each other through a great deal in these past three years. Life has been extremely unfair and I am not exaggerating. I realize that we are young, but I would rather not intimidate you with a convincing essay to tell you why I truly believe we are meant to be together. Just know that, these last three months have been hell for both of us and it definitely took a toll on us. I believe that her current assessments of our relationship are misconstrued due to the emotional stress that she is continuing to deal with from other events in her life. We were really great together before and it really showed. We rarely got to hang out with friends together because she had to stay home a lot due to her situation at home and we were conservative about PDA, but everyone knew us as the couple that would get married. It was our every intention to get married.\n\nMy plan is to wait one more month before visiting her in person to try and win her back. I only recently stopped making any attempts to contact her as she has been requesting.\n\nDoes my plan sound reasonable or should I wait longer? Should I wait to see if she'll ever come around?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(X-post with [r/deaf] )\n\nSo this might be a long shot, but I'm looking for a little advice. I'm going to be taking a 2 month trip through Europe with my boyfriend. We are hostelling/airbnb-ing with our backpacks and doing europe on the cheap (as possible).\n\nI am hard of hearing with one hearing aid (left) and one cochlear (right). I've traveled extensively with hearing aids before and it's pretty low maintenance. However, I've only had a cochlear for 3 years now and have yet to travel outside of the Us with one. I'm fairly able to communicate without sign language and my speech is quite good.\n\nI am wondering the following:\n-----------------------------------------------------\n\n1. How should I keep my battery charged: bring my charger / disposable individual batteries / both? It generally takes 1-1/2 hours to charge a battery with the charger. They last for 2.5 days. Batteries where you replace individually them are 2 at a time and disposable and last as long but generally are more expensive than using the rechargeable\n\n2. Do you suggest I bring up my back up cochlear or leave it at home. I'm thinking at home, but bringing some basic things like hooks because they are cheap\n\n3. Are people in Europe generally open and friendly towards disabled persons / hard of hearing members? \n\n4. Is it easy to pick up 675 zinc air blue tab batteries in stores in Europe? I ask because I wonder how easy it'll be to get more if they are stolen / lost / etc\n\n5. Anything else I should consider while travelling with a cochlear implant?\n\nAlso in case it helps, my itinerary: The Netherlands > Belgium > West Germany > France > Switzerland > Austria/Hungary > Czech > Poland > Germany > Denmark \nWe are spending at least 3 days in each place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My GF and I have been together for a little over 3 years now and are both freshman in college at different universities hours away. \n\nEverything was good for the most part during our first semesters away from each other, but as this second semester has started things have been different. We recently nearly broke up, over a number of things (without sounding like a jerk, they were all problems that she caused). I explained that I needed time to think about things and think about the relationship and eventually decided that I would be ok with seeing how things went in the next couple of weeks., and here we are.\n\nShe said she is depressed being so far away and jealous that she has to live at home while I am away and enjoying my time here. \n\nAlthough I really love this girl and have always been willing to do anything and everything to make her happy, recently I have been having thoughts about ending it for a couple reasons: I have always been a near-perfect boyfriend (something she has also expressed) while she has always brought problems into the relationship as a cause of her own insecurities etc., I have questioned whether or not I would just be happier without her and without a LDR so I can enjoy my time her in college without the stress of an LDR, and finally, I do not want to eventually resent her and resent the fact that I never got the 'full college experience'. \n\nI care about this girl but I do recognize that I need to do what is best for me and for my own happiness as well as hers. The LDR can be a lot to deal with, especially on top of school and work. I hope I haven't sounded like an insensitive person.\n\nI should also add the 'problems' I spoke of: First she was talking to her ex to try and make me jealous, then told me to have a nice life without her when I told her I was going somewhere for spring break with my friends, but then apologized for this. And finally, gave another guy that is probably interested in her her phone number (which may seem like nothing but on top of the other two previously mentioned, and considering these all happened within 2 months, it got to me).\n\nThank you", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Relationship time: 5 months\n\nHey /relationships,\n\nSo I met this girl at OSU earlier this year, and we both fell deeply in love. This was my first real relationship, and I was smitten completely - I fell hard for her, and she did the same for me. Now, at around 7 days, she said I love you, and I returned it, for I really thought that I felt that way. Around 2 months in, we were talking about marriage and getting engaged, and formulating plans together for the future. \n\nNow here is the issue. I no longer am sure about getting engaged or married. I definitely still want to be with her, but I am finally coming to my senses and realizing that 6 months is way, way, Way too soon to get engaged, and that I want to know her for a few years before I am comfortable with being married. We're just beginning to get to know each other and commit to each other for life right now would just be laying the grounds for a potentially unhappy and unsuccessful marriage.\n\nWith all of that being said, I know the general consensus will just be to talk about it, and keep both parties on the same page regarding the relationship, and this is what I would do, if I knew that she wouldn't freak out completely. She has deep abandonment issues and trust issues which we have been working through together, and I know she would view this as a violation of her trust and love. I've always assumed honesty is the best policy, but I'm just not sure about what to do in this circumstance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm an experienced hiker with a lot of time spent in the back country, knowledge of survival skills, navigation, first aid, and outdoor safety. But when you're careless and are overconfident all of that can go out the window, which is the first thing you're taught! Well I was very overconfident and it led to some real problems.\n\nOn a short (6 mile round trip) half day hike on the Appalachian Trail, I went off trail to look at a rock formation about .25 miles away. Instead of turning back to the trail I decided to keep going up and over the mountain through light undergrowth and widely spaced trees. I did not pack a map, nor a compass, and did not have a cell phone signal or GPS device. Nor did I tell anyone where I was hiking that day. BIG MISTAKES.\n\nWhat I thought would be a 10 minute walk that would intersect the trail at the crest of the ridge turned into an over two hour bushwhack through heavy vegetation, but I continued to push forward farther off trail. I got really cut up from vines and thorns and had to rely on the sun and fixed landmarks for navigation. Eventually after descending to a creek, I recalled a map I had looked at earlier which showed a creek crossing the trail about 3 miles into the hike. I ended up following that creek through even more heavy vegetation until I eventually intersected the trail again only about half a mile from where I originally left it. \n\nSo TIFU by abandoning some of the core principles of hiking safety: I was not prepared beyond half a days worth of water. I did not bring a map. I did not bring a compass. I did not tell anyone where I was going. I left a well marked trail. I did not re-trace my steps. I can only hope I did not do any damage to sensitive ecosystems. I got covered in cuts, scrapes, and poison ivy.\n\nAlways be prepared, it's cliche but it is true. Always tell someone where you are, stay on marked trails if they are available or bring a means of navigation if in unmarked terrain, and prepare for the unexpected. Overconfidence can get you seriously hurt or lost.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm using a throwaway because my girl will go on reddit sometimes. Title pretty much says it all.\n\nWe've been together for about a year and a half. The first year was great, we lived close to each other and spent most of our time together. Then she had to move with her parents ten hours away from everything she's ever known. So we've spent the last six months long distance. She started school and everything was going well for the most part. We've had our issues here and there but we've mostly worked through them. Things have still been pretty good despite our random arguments. I would say we're both a little over protective of one another, probably even more so now that we're about 500 miles apart. And here's where I need advice. She recently started talking with one of the guys in her class and they want to get together and work on a take-home test with each other. Because of my past, I've had some trust issues and this situation seems all too familiar with me. Previous ex went and \"studied\" which really was just her studying the guys dick. So because of this, I'm feeling uncomfortable with my girlfriend going and studying with this new guy she met.\n\nI understand deep down that my fears are irrational and its not fair to her to compare her to my ex. I want to be okay and be care-free about who my girlfriend hangs out with and stuff but I'm just uncomfortable with it all. It's really consumed my thoughts for the past few days since she told me about what she was going to do. I feel that if she was going to study with a girl, I'd be perfectly fine with it, but since its a guy, I feel uncomfortable. I would never tell her to not go and study with him because I don't want to be that guy and that would probably only push her away. So how do I overcome these thoughts about what could happen? How do you be comfortable with this? I feel that these are probably my insecurities talking, so what do you do to become more secure?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my boyfriend since I have been in high school. This past year I have been noticing how incredibly clingy he is... I am unsure if he was this way before and I just didn't notice or it never bothered me, but as of lately I feel like I can't breathe around him. \n\nI go to school and work full time. When I'm not doing either or, he is always there with me. It has never really bothered me before but it's starting to get to the point where I feel like I'm starting to dread going home. I want my independence and I have talked to him about giving me some breathing space but he takes it as an insult, saying that he just misses me and wants to spend more time with me. \n\nI do care about him very much but I really need some 'me' time away from him. He can talk forever which is nice at times but my jaw is beginning to get sore from trying to keep up... he gets extremely offended if I don't verbally respond to what he says. \n\nAll I would like is to find a way to let him know that I need some time alone from him for the sake of being alone... not because I don't care for him or anything. I've tried to tell him that and he takes it like I want to leave him which is not the case. \n\nSorry for any spelling or grammar errors... literally typing this very late into the night because he thinks I'm sleeping :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here is the OP: \n\nI spoke with an attorney. His legal advice was that we did not have a lease but it would be best to keep this out of court.\n\nI agreed completely. I wanted legal advice before the meeting in case things went pear shaped.\n\nI came to an agreement with the landlord. We are going to pay Jan/Feb and call it a day. \n\nI always set personal feelings aside when it comes to making decisions for the business I own. My feelings don't matter, I have to do what is best for the business. What was best was settling this matter to ensure that my manufacturing space was not put into jeopardy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I share an apartment with my boyfriend. There are two spare bedrooms which are a constant rotation of friends-in-need. We recently invited a friend to stay with us while she figures out what her next step in life is. \n\nNow, I want people to feel at home in my apartment, but she keeps moving things around so we can't find them, using things that aren't hers, and ruining our possessions. Her version of an apology is an explanation of her actions followed by, \"So I'm sorry if I am guilty, but I don't think I am.\"\n\nLast Sunday I got around to sorting through laundry she took it upon herself to wash. She ruined an expensive pair of fingerless mittens knit with alpaca yarn and she lost a prized shawl, gifted to me for being the Maid of Honor in my best friend's wedding this past summer. When I explained as much, and how I knew she was the guilty party, she insisted it wasn't possible she was at fault, and if she was, I shouldn't be upset with her for things she did weeks ago. \n\nYou can understand, I'm pretty annoyed and generally disinterested in her disrespect. \n\nSo I'm keeping all of her clothes that were mixed in my laundry that she washed. I won't even wear any of it, but if she feels no remorse losing my shawl, I don't feel too guilty either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for the throwaway- keeping it private. \n\nI broke up with my ex last year, caught her cheating. This is after looking after her during cancer and doing everything i could to help her. I am now convinced shes got BPD. \n\nI'm starting to date again, but I'm struggling. I'm either Jaded and wary of women playing games/ being untrustworthyor I take it hard when someone i like isn't that interested after a couple of dates. \n\nCan you guys/girls help? How do i get past this and live my life again? I'm done letting that wh*re ruin my future.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the whole point in wedding shower is to come together as a community and help a couple start their lives together. My question is why do we have to wait until we are getting married? My best guess is people (especially women) didn't start their own lives before marriage. But the world has changed! I've graduated college, am living on my own, and working. Life has already started for me. It would be really nice to have my friends and family help me to establish a nice place for myself. I am doing it on my own, and there is a lot of satisfaction in the independence of it. Still, it seems kind of unfair to have to wait until engagement for community support. Reddit parents who have a son or daughter who is becoming or recently financially independent, tell your friends and family to skip the wedding shower and throw them a life shower.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll keep this as short as possible. \n\nI had a terrible day today and needed to go out with friends. My coworker, who I socialize with outside of work often and consider a friend, invited me out with him and his friends. \n\nI went, had a few (three) beers. About beer two my friend and I were talking, and I got that weird urge to just kiss him. This was not a romantic situation, we were not talking about romantic things. He's hinted in the past that he's been in to me, but has always always respected my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and love him deeply. \n\nI immediately freaked out and went to the toilet. I then removed myself to the other side of the table and talked to other people for the rest of the evening. I did not kiss him, nor did I mention to him that I thought of it. \n\nI'm just freaked out. What was that? My boyfriend and I are long distance, and I only see him a few times a month, so I thought that perhaps it was just me wanting attention. I've never been attracted to my friend, and have never thought of kissing him before. Should I be concerned, or is this just my emotions being weird at the end of a trying day?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had my best friend [19 M] friendzoned for 4 years. We met when I was dating my ex, so I never really saw him as anything more than a friend. He's been there for me for everything. He's basically been in love with me since the moment we met. He would do anything for me if it meant that I would be happy. I never thought that I would have feelings for him like he has for me. That is until a couple months ago.\n\n I developed feelings for him, while also developing feelings for my current boyfriend, [21 M]. Everyone told me to give my best friend a chance, but I was afraid of losing our friendship in the process, and I had stronger feelings towards my boyfriend. So I told my boyfriend that I would date him, and now my best friend will barely talk to me and wants to kick my boyfriends ass. Also all my friends are mad at me for the decision I made. I regret not giving him a chance, but I feel like if we were to have dated, I should have feelings for only him, and not anyone else. My boyfriend said he would fight my best friend if that's what he really wants, but I don't want them fighting over me. I'm afraid I lost my best friend and made a mistake in not choosing him, now I don't know what to do. Any advice Reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've done compare and contrast essays and I've done Critical Reflections. But never Critical Analytic Reflections. So What Am I supposed to Write About? \n\nThis is what our Prof said: \n1) Choose one core idea/concept from one of the readings Ok Good, that's pretty basic\n2) Explore \"One Idea\" more in depth than discuss more material but more superficially Ok, I guess I'll talk about what my idea is and what it's about first to fill up space\"\n3) DO NOT DESCRIBE. ANALYZE. ASSUME READER KNOWS TEXT. So, I guess my idea above is not going to work...**\n\nLet's say my topic is about Justice. So if I assume the reader knows EVERYTHING about justice, and there is no room for me to say anything about it. Then what should I be saying at all?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband found a job on craigslist for a [\"Fugitive Recovery Agent\"] for Luna Bail Bonds. He told me he went in for an interview and that they said they like him for the job, so they gave him a spot at an \"orientation/seminar\" this summer to train him. There was a $50 deposit for a seat at the orientation since, as my husband says, there are only 20 seats available, and they told him at the interview that his equipment and training class would cost $540, which he would be expected to pay before attending the seminar/orientation. My husband and I are extremely low on cash, so I'm tentative in telling him I truly think he should go for it, since $540 is the majority of his next paycheck and I'm not bringing in any substantial amount of money. I'm at school and only working part time, and his current job is only temporary and will only last a couple more months at the most, so finding a new job is very important.\n\nThis whole situation seems really sketchy to me, but I'm not sure if I'm just being unreasonably skeptical. My concern is that he'll pay the money, go to the seminar, and they'll tell him something along the lines of \"We'll call you when there's a position open.\" Does anyone have any more info on this company? The only stuff I can find is what the company put up themselves...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met online and have been going on dates for the past month. Some of the dates have last entire weekends, or whole days. He has a unique personality and I adore his sense of humor. When we're together we laugh for most of the day. He's probably the most positive and uplifting person I've ever met.\n\nBut when we're not together, it's like radio silence. He'll text me maybe once late at night with a picture or something random. He usually takes a while to respond if we text earlier in the day. Totally understandable because he has a high pressure job, and I'm not into the whole text-all-day ordeal.\n\nThis morning he flew across the country to visit family, and I figured I'd hear from him when he landed (maybe just a confirmation text that he got there safely?) but I haven't heard from him all day. I don't want to bother him if he's with his family. He has called me quite a few times, and I enjoy talking on the phone with him. \n\nLast week after one of our dates we were lying in bed and he asked me if I had missed him (somewhat as a joke, because we saw each other the day before). I told him I did miss him, and he said that he missed me and was thinking about me all throughout the day. So I asked why he didn't text me or talk at all, and he said he was also busy with work. I don't think it's that he's not serious about me. Although we haven't had the exclusive talk, I've met his parents and his friends, and it seems like it's heading in a great direction. I'm already developing strong feelings for him.\n\nI figured that would've prompted him to communicate a little bit more, but it hasn't. He's going to be away for 2 weeks, so I guess we'll see how the communication is, and if he doesn't make any effort, we'll talk when he returns. I'd like to be on the same page about it. What's the best way to approach this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just thought I'd throw this out there and see what opinions arise out of it:\n\nOver the past decade our internet usage has been moving rapidly towards a model that utilizes mobility. With the release of the iPad and the mainstream adoption of Android devices combined with the construction of nation wide 4G networks an ever increasing dependency on wireless data services is emerging. My fear is that telcoms will separate this form of data transfer from hardline services such as cable or DSL and will clam that they aren't subject to the same rules concerning Net Neutrality. I know this is bullshit, you know this is bullshit, but little Suzie must have her new iPhone and what does it matter if the telcom charges her just a little more for the internet service because \"that phone requires more bandwidth\"... it seems, they already do this as the N1 service through TMobile featuring \"Android Web Service\" is $20/month more expensive than the same plan featuring identical, unlimited web service. Just the fact that they brand it \"Android Web Service\" raises a red flag for me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a tenancy with other students for nearly six months now, and have gotten really close with one of them - the others just hide away in their bedroom. However, she's extremely messy now.\n\nI don't really mind things being super untidy every now and again - I get that it happens and sometimes we're busy. It's just it's out of hand. She never tidies up after having guests round (beer bottles everywhere), she rarely does her wash up - usually it takes her about 3 days to finally do it - and just leaves her belongings all over the house.\n\nIt's driving me nuts, and I need to talk to her about it but I don't know how without risking anything! Please let me know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm sure that this has been discussed a thousand times, but let's have another go at it.\n\nI pay off my CCs each month, have good credit, blah blah blah.\n\nHowever, I'm feeling mischievous and annoyed at Chase, which sends me 2-3 CC applications a week. Shredding them is a PITA, and just mailing random junk back in the postage-paid envelopes is getting old.\n\nI know that this is childish, bad karma, etc etc, but I'd like to mess with the CC companies (though I know that the people dealing with the fallout will be the poor $8/hour employees in the mail center). That being said, my requirements are that such messing with the CCs be:\na) Legal\nb) Quick (under 20 secs per CC offer)\nc) Cheap and easy on my part (no bricks- too much heavy lifting, and the post office makes you ship packages over 13 oz in person in any event)\nd) Safe and sanitary (no rotting meat or dog crap in the mail, for example)\n\nI know that major companies use automatic machines to cut open envelopes, remove the contents, etc, and I've heard that a healthy dose of glitter will gum these machines up (sounds logical to me). That's my best idea so far.\n\nAlso, if any one has any practical ways to use CC offers (I'd use them to heat my home, for example, but I lack a fireplace, and the envelopes aren't blank on the back, so I can't use them for shopping lists), I'd love to hear them. Shredding them and using them for animal bedding (\"My hamster shits on your puny offer, Chase!\") would be great if I had pets.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello,\n\nMy relative sold a car to someone over the phone. This person sent a money order (that cleared and deposited fine). However, part of the verbal agreement is they had to come get the car. The car is in horrible shape, pictures were shown to the person who bought it before the sale. Many months have gone by and this person still says they will get to it. \n\nWe are convinced he won't and we want it gone.\n\nI want to send him a \"x\" day notice to come get it or we will resell it or trash it. \n\nI figured I would send a registered mail letter to the return address on the money order saying you have 30days to come get the car, ignoring this and failing to get the car will result in forfeiture of the item and no refund.\n\nAm I missing something here or does my plan sound solid? Is it even necessary?\n\nWhenever I google this issue I mostly find people talking about abandoned cars with no owner, or tenants who've abandoned their apartment.\n\nThanks for your time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit, so this sounds kind of pathetic issue but I have no idea to do. I am dealing with an 8 year old child who absolutely adores me who is my exes little brother. Whenever I would go over to his parents' house he would want to play with me. He really likes me and he would always ask when I was going to Marry his brother. He would always show me his work from school and ask for my help. He has two other sisters who adore him as well, I always noticed they like their little brother a lot more than they did my ex. My ex and his sisters do not get along at all \n\nMy ex and I broke up because he cheated on me when he went on a business trip to Las Vegas (probably another lie he told). His excuse was \"I had to get some pussy somewhere\". He was gone for a week and we had sex twice on the day he left. So if he can't save sex for a week then I don't know what to tell you. \n\nHis brother keeps texting me from the home phone (it's the household cell phone, it is there for someone to call home if that makes sense). He asks me when am I coming over to play, when are we going to play video games again. The whole deal and I feel really bad for ignoring him. He really likes me and I would love to hang out with him/babysit him again sometime. That would mean having to potentially see or talk to my ex and I can't stand him. I can't stand the sight of him. \n\nHow do I deal with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened about 30 minutes ago, it's 12:39 am as I write this and it all started when I texted my B at ~8:30 I was really quite nervous, I waited for her to text back while I was in bed trying to catch some Z's listening to some Redbone when I hear some rap music playing, some random guy was walking down the street with music blasting, that was pretty weird. FF to ~11:59 I couldn't keep waiting so I hoped back on my phone and looked at the message. I waited for a bit before reading old conversations and getting a lil emotional when suddenly... anxiety round house kicks me in the dick I have a panic attack and then I threw up all over myself. I proceeded to get into the bathroom with my jeans at my ankles, I made into the toilet and the seat was closed. I felt more coming up so I tried to open the seat as fast as I could but it was too late. I projectile vomited into the top of the seat while lifting it causing a rainbow of liquid pepperoni and cheese pizza all over the goddamn wall. it was pure filth. I finished shitting out of my mouth then cleaned my face up. it was all over my bed and on every surface of the toilet room. by the time I finished cleaning it up it was 12:30. To put a lil cherry on top I also have an English test of some sort tomorrow and I'm really fucken tired.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "At the start of our relationship I made a huge mistake and got drunk and slept with my ex boyfriend. At the time I was all over the place about my feelings - do I like men/women? (she is the first woman I slept with) - and I ended up hurting everybody.\n\nI decided to come clean about it after a few months because things were getting more serious and I thought she should know what happened. \n\nHer ultimatum was to cut him out completely. No talking, nothing, ever again. I feel immensely guilty because of what this meant for her and for him. I understood and accepted that I would have to cut him out, and still do. However, my sister is still good friends with him and I am, 4 years on, avoiding situations where I might bump into him.\n\nMy sister says I'll have to 'get over it' and that I'll need to see him one day (e.g. when she gets married). This fills me with dread - I am scared of mentioning it to my GF because she will be very upset and angry if I have to be anywhere near him - but my sister is my sister...I'm not going to say 'I won't come'. She won't back down either - my ex WILL be there. \n\nI think about the pain I've caused (and will cause in the future because of the mess I made) and I feel so ashamed. I don't know what, if anything, I can do to make things right. I wish I had never been so stupid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a person who enjoys smoking weed and drinking beer. I am also a person who enjoys swimming biking running jumping and lifting weights. I've found that if I allow myself to smoke or drink on days when I haven't exercised, I risk getting lazy the next day and avoiding exercise that day as well.\n\nIn order to prevent myself from slacking on my exercise routine I've started forbidding myself to enjoy a drink or a smoke on any day that I haven't already busted my ass exercising. I think this concept can help others: it's fine to reward yourself for working hard.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit,\n\nI feel like I'm filling out a lotto ticket with this request.\n\nHere goes: ten years ago I met my first love playing an online game. We only interacted through the game. As time went by my family watched my life change as I spent hours everyday on the game, unbeknown to them I was in love. They eventually took the computer away from me, cutting off any connection with the one girl I'd ever had feelings for. \n\nTo their credit: I was spending an unhealthy amount of time playing that game and lost track of life outside of it.....\n\nSo, I started living life outside, playing sports, making friends, doing very well in school. High school went very well, college was even better, and now I'm working hard at a fantastic job. \n\nLife has taken me on a crazy, wild ride; alas, I never forgot about her....\n\nCan you help me find her?\n\nWe played Everquest and her character name was Santeey. (US)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So back story about the dog, His name is lei and I adopted him from my local humane society about a month ago. He's a 4 y.o. shiba inu who, from what I have seen, is the sweetest dog. He also gets along quite well with my cat(he will sometimes bark and try to play with the cat -.-) but other than that they will lay right next to each other and go to sleep. So after having the dog for 2 weeks I thought I would bring him to the vet to turn in his papers and register him in the system. Before doing so, my dog has been around 20+ new people and I've never had any issues with aggression. (No hand biting, growling, snapping, etc) He is really shy around someone he first meets but other than that he's fine. As soon as I got to the vet my dog was clearly nervous/scared/anxious. After waiting for almost an hour to be seen I managed to calm him and have him sit next to me on a bench. Once our name was called, however, the noise from inside scared him out again.(trying to go back out and having his tail down) The lady who takes my dog is clearly irritated at the type of breed I have. She talked to me as if I knew nothing about the breed and snapped angrily about how aggressive the breed was. After waiting for the nurse to return with my dog she proceeded to tell me about how my dog is EXTREMELY people aggressive and ill have a lawsuit on my hands if I don't fix it. Then handed me 50 million pamphlets on dog trainers in my area. What should I do? What's the best course of action? Get my dog evaluated? Or go to a different vet? It' crazy because I've been going to this one my whole life and never had an issue.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Frankly, I'm really hoping some Verizon person (preferably one who doesn't like their company very much) reads this and chimes in, but here goes:\n\nSome hijinks occurred, and I feel I recently got screwed by Verizon -- regardless of what their people tell me they can and cannot do, I think that there's some bullshit going on in terms of assigning contracts to lines. I hate being told that \"we just can't do that\" when SOMEONE had to design the bloody system. Also: I'm tied in a 1 1/2 year contract (I think) more or less.\n\nThat's not my real point though; end of story is I've gone from having unlimited (5GB cap, realistically), to having a hellova bout of crappy luck I guess, and now have no data.\n\nFor those who don't know, Verizon's tiers (per month) are:\n\n* Pay as you go, 1MB - $1.99\n 75MB - $10\n 2GB - $30\n* 5GB - $50\n* 10GB - $80\n\nNot smart-phone eligible (\"feature-phone\" only).\n\n---------\n\nSo let me get this straight: Verizon has \"a lot of usage on their towers\" (and more so now that they have 4G and the iPhone); but rather than upgrading their infrastructure, they're reducing what the customer gets. Fine, you can argue that back and forth.\n\nWhat I don't get is how this (and this is the argument that a Verizon rep straight up told me) is better* for a consumer. They said \"Well, your average person doesn't use 5GB, they don't even use 2GB\" (and I have friends who have said something similar). That's fine in theory, to me that means LOWER THE PRICE FOR 2GB SO THE CUSTOMERS GET MORE FOR THEIR MONEY. Oh, you have 75MB for $10? Aside from that (and the pay-as-you-go) being LAUGHABLE prices for bandwidth, you CAN'T PUT A SMARTPHONE ON THEM?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard jaggy uncomfortable place right now, and looking for a little advice from fellow redditors.\n\nMy ex and I have been divorced for about four years now. We'd been married for over ten years and had three wonderful kids when she left and started a relationship with a woman she'd met. At first things were very amicable, however over time I found her partner to be emotionally controlling and distanced myself from them while remaining cordial. Somewhere along the line my ex decided she would stop my sons from seeing me, much to both my sons and my distress, which resulted in me going to court and racking up solicitor bills over the course of a year to get a contact order.\n\nLately her partner has been stressed out and doesn't want the kids in her house any more. My ex found a house to let but asked me to be guarantor. From everything I've read, this sounds like a terrible idea, not to mention the fact this is someone I obviously can't trust given their history, so I say no. She manages to find another person to act as guarantor but has discovered the day before she's due to move in that they can't do it, so asks me again. If she doesn't find someone she'll apparently lose her deposit.\n\nReddit, am I right to continue to refuse here? I'm getting abusive texts from her partner telling me I've got a responsibility to my sons to do this, which is just the sort of s**t I'd expect from her. My sons can always stay with me, I'd obviously never allow them be homeless... but I don't think it's right that my ex expects me to continue to underwrite her life after all that's happened?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've known this girl (let's call her Jenn) for several years, originally met on a video game in 2011ish. We became really good friends, play video games together a lot, in skype/teamspeak a lot, video chats, have each others phone numbers and IRL info and the such, and both pretty much admitted our love for each other. I just feel really confused, confused because we live in completely different parts of the country, and since we're both in high school there'd be no way to move near each other for some reason (not that either of our parents has any reason to move). We've considered applying to the same colleges, but I don't know because there's always \"what if one of us doesn't get in\" and we really want to go there. I am just confused about what I should be doing. I have really strong feelings but I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened a number of years ago. One of my old buddies kind of went crazy (too many hallucinogenic drugs) and he became super lazy. He stopped taking his dog outside to go to bathroom, so the guest room became the dog's poop and piss room. My friend also decided it was too much work to take the trash out to the dumpster so he started throwing the full trash bags into the poop and piss room too.\n\nEventually his power got shut off because he wasn't working or paying bills. This was in the middle of summer in Alabama. Needless to say the apartment became super hot and the fleas from his dog multiplied at an alarming rate. My friend eventually left, but didn't bring his dog with him.\n\nMy other friend and I had to go save the dog from the hell hole apartment. When we walked in, we were instantly covered in fleas up to our shins. It was terrifying! We grabbed the dog and ran. Not sure what ended up happening to the apartment, but I'm sure the people who cleaned it had to go in with haz-mat suits on haha.\n\nMy friend, whose jeep we used to rescue the dog, had to live with a new problem; his jeep got infested with fleas. He tried everything he could think of and eventually just had to set off bug bombs in his jeep. That jeep smelled like death for months after that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Didn't happen today, but a 3-4 years ago.\nI was visiting my Mom's brother and his family in India (I was about 12 years old or so). I lived in another country (not India). Anyways, I stayed with them for about 2 weeks by myself (parents were coming to another city in India later), so I pretty much spent time with my cousins, uncle, aunt and grandma. \nOne day, my uncle decided to take me down to the beach to show me what it was like. So my uncle, cousin and I set out. We left home and walked to the car (it was parked further up a street). It was like 2 pm and there was a lot of traffic on the street. There were 2 trucks blocking our path ahead to the car, which was just in front of these trucks, and there were only 2 ways to get past these trucks - go in between them, or squeeze in between a wall and the truck. My cousin and uncle go between the trucks, but the overly safety-conscious me decides to squeeze in between the wall and the truck. Bad idea. I get through no problem, but I notice something as I reach out to open the car door - there were hundreds of black ants on my left arm. I kid you not, HUNDREDS. My arm was literally black, from wrist to shoulder, and was barely able to see any of my skin. And these weren't just any black ants, they were carpenter ants. I must've brushed past an ant colony, and given them a new home. I frantically started brushing them off, at which point they started biting. I flinched in pain as they kept on biting me. My uncle and cousin, noticing my discomfort, rushed to my aid, and upon seeing my situation, started laughing hysterically before helping me out (they were still laughing then). There were still a few ants on me after we brushed them all off, having spread out to some uncomfortable places. We still went to the beach though, where I rinsed myself thoroughly before taking a shower back home.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a couple weeks ago I got with a girl I knew from high school at a club. In the morning she gave me her number and we've been texting a fair amount since then. \n\nLast week I asked her out for drinks and she said she may be busy but might be able to do Friday. She bailed on going out on the Friday as she'd been out the night before but said she'd definitely see me this week.\n\nSo I asked her tuesday if she wanted to do something Wednesday and she again said maybe as she thought she already had plans with her friend. She then text me late yesterday afternoon to say she's busy.\n\nSo I went out with my best friend who works with her and he got the impression that she doesn't want to go out with me. She said she's going away to study abroad for a year in a few weeks and thinks I've forgotten and doesn't really want to get into a relationship. She had mentioned both of these things the night I got with her but she'd also said she didn't like one night stands so I have no idea what I was.\n\nHonestly I just can't quite understand why you'd say your up for going out with someone then do everything you can to avoid it. I'd begun to think she didn't want to as she wouldn't give me an idea when she could go out when I tried to ask her.\n\nJust looking for some advice on what to do next. I feel like she is attracted to me but doesn't want to get to deep into things. Should I just ask her if she doesn't actually want to see me or just stop trying to set stuff up with her and move on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "background: live in Israel and go to a class of autistic middleschoolers in Raanana, even though i live in Even Yehuda (small suburban town).\n\nstory: so i get a little hyperactive and careless, and i am also in the middle of an emotional roller coaster. and i tried getting to my class, and there were people on the stairs. so instead of being patient and waiting for them to clear the way, i tried jumping over them, and kicked one of them in the leg. after the incident i ran to the class and looked for ways to do to myself \"medieval punishment\" (or harming somebody who harmed as punishment). started punching myself in the leg. then after a while where i thought it didn't hurt enough, i took a fork and stabbed myself in the arm. it caused damage to my skin but i wasn't bleeding. i hid under the table of the microwave for 5 minutes and then decided, to get to English lesson, but the teacher stopped me, and brought me to the computer forcing me to write an essay about the value of life. after 2 lessons that i was writing the essay, my grandmother came and brought me back to Even Yehuda.\n\nSo now i am expelled from school until i go to a psychiatrist.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The Basics\n\nMy girlfriend was just offered a job at one of the major tech firms in Seattle with a salary of $110,000+ bonuses. It's kind of a dream job for her and a significant bump in salary. \n\nWe currently live in New York. Still in separate apartments (which I think is a key thing to mention here). We've dated for about a year. I've known her for even longer.\n\nThe Problem\n\nI don't know if I want to move to Seattle. I feel like the decision was just thrown on me last night. And the challenge is - making this decision makes me think - am I going to marry this girl? Am I going to stay with her forever? Is she worth completely committing to?\n\nIt's not even the move that intimidates me. Seattle would be great. I'd love to do that. It's the commitment. It's the conversation of \"Of course I'll move with you cross country, drop my job and leave my friends.\" - I don't know if she's someone I should be with forever. To put it simply, I don't think I'm in love with her. I don't really know what that means, but I just know that I may want to date other people before I settle down.\n\nSo this opens the pandora's box of relationship issues. I started dating her casually, and it slowly evolved to be more serious, but in terms of marriage/settling down I've always been explicit that I didn't want to do anything of the sort until my early 30's. This moving conversation opens up that discussion again.\n\nWe just had the conversation last night. She just left my apartment this morning and it's running around my mind.\n\nThe Question\n\nWhat do you recommend I do? What questions do I ask? \n\nI don't think a long distance relationship is realistic.\n\n**The", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(M/17 about F/17)\n\nThis girl I really like has a boyfriend. They've been dating for a couple years. I ain't gonna try nothing unless they break up, but its unlikely. Anyway I feel like she's teasing the HELL OUT OF ME! Every time I see her in the halls or wherever, there's almost ALWAYS physical contact. (She always bumps into me and stuff.) And if they do break up and I do pursue, I feel like I'd be a downgrade compared to her \"Ex\". Anyway to get over this or anything? \n\nSorry. Seemed more of a rant. I just don't know what to do. Its taking a toll.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have Firefox \"ask me every time\" a site tries to set a cookie, I can allow, deny, or allow until the end of the session (I close my browser).\n\nI set most cookies from Google to allow for session. If I have any Google cookies set to allow for session, EMBEDDED youtube videos do not work. I get an error message that reads \"An error occured. Please try again later\".\n\nThe pattern is consistant, and the videos work if I watch them directly on Youtube.\n\nDoes anyone know why this is? Is my experience an enigma or common to anyone else? Is Google punishing me for not allowing their tracking completely?\n\nThanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "His ex lives in a different city, and I've never met her, but I found her on Facebook and have gotten into the bad habit of checking up on her every day to see what she's up to. \n\nShe seems perfect, and she and my bf dated for like 5 years and he really loved her. A part of me thinks he still does because the relationship ended abruptly after she was unfaithful to him. He doesn't talk about their relationship. \n\nI know he shouldn't, but I'm so curious to know what he was like with her, and what caused her to cheat on him. I'm insecure of their relationship because I've never dated before I met him, but he loved someone else.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well I just got out of a divorce and was with that person since I was 15. I never got a chance to figure out how to interact with someone you would want to date. I am a single mom and a very very nervous person (I cannot emphasize that enough.) There is a guy in one of my classes and I see him around campus alot because he has classes in the building I do. I haven't really talked to him about much just some here and there. I have know idea how to show interest without simply coming out and saying it. I am to afraid to just say anything to him about it. So I am in between a rock and a hard place. To be honest I feel as if I have all of this stuff going against me and that I am not good enough to try to have a relationship with someone but on the other hand I want to find someone before my son gets old enough that my dating would affect him. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "PSA: i suffer from mental illness, including extreme anxiety and panic disorder, so please try to be gentle.\n\ni have a lot of insecurity when it comes to my long distance relationship. fortunately for me, cheating is not one of the things i worry about. however, he and i haven't seen each other in about six weeks. this is my first ldr, and i'm trying to keep in mind that he's not avoiding seeing me and that this is just the nature of a long distance relationship. we have tentative plans for next weekend but he hasn't confirmed yet and it's been the source of a lot of anxiety for me.\n\ntoday i kind of took that out on him, telling him i was afraid that he was embarrassed of me or stringing me along, and asking him to explain to me why he couldn't commit to our plans yet and telling him it was the only way i could calm down. i sent him a lot of panicked texts and it was kind of intense. \n\ni have since calmed down, and we talked briefly, and i'm just trying to gauge how angry he is with me right now. when he got back to me he texted me \"woah, holy shit, what did i just walk back into\" but then after that he told me that he hasn't committed yet is only because he doesn't know exactly what is going on yet for next weekend and he's uncomfortable finalizing everything if he doesn't have a solid plan.\n\ni'm very anxious about the status of our relationship right now. to me it seems like he's definitely a little angry, but i don't think he would have tried to reassure me like he did if he was thinking of breaking up with me or something like that. is that a reasonable conclusion? how can i better handle things like this in the future?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Education:\n\nI am going to graduate this fall with a bachelors in Computer Science, with my girlfriend looking to graduate next spring with a bachelors in Food Science. She plans to get her masters in Business Administration starting fall 2017.\n\nFinancial Situation:\n\nShe needs to pay off her car with monthly payments, pay off student loan, and possibly her sister's financial needs. Her family may not be able to support her 13 year old sister, as the parents are getting sick. They might move out of country if they cannot work. I'm not sure when this can happen, so I'm really scared about the financial implications of my girlfriend suddenly becoming the guardian of her sister. She says that it will be ok and she will handle the costs of her sister, but I am just worried that we might not be able to fully handle this sort of situation. I just learned about the sister thing tonight and I am absolutely terrified. What can I do?\n\nFinancial Endeavors:\n\nI would like to be able to travel out of country with her by our late 20s, as well as start looking for affordable houses on the west coast. Ideally we would have at least $2000 contributed each year to our IRAs and saving regularly. I want us to be debt-free and financially stable by 25, at most. I definitely do not want kids, but that might change as I get older.\n\nAny help is extremely appreciated. Also, please do not just suggest that I break up with her. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now, and a few months ago went through a wee hiccough. We're back together now and enjoy each other's company more than ever.. \n\nBut I can find myself falling back into the old routine of things. I'm obsessing over him and want to see him every day. If he's unavailable, I find myself getting really upset, and if he doesn't text back I feel really down. I DON'T WANT TO BE A STAGE FIVE CLINGER!!! (I don't tell him he makes me feel this way 'cos I know how irrational I'm being). On the other hand, when we're together and he's showing affection I feel like the luckiest girl on the planet..\n\nI know this is unhealthy, and I do not want to depend on him in this way.\n\nI want to know how I can break this habit; Reddit, can you help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been FWB for over a year, and we have started to develop feelings. I eventually said this wasn't going to work anymore, because one of us is going to get really hurt (probably me). He agreed, but a week later he said we should \"try dating\" because he doesn't \"want to lose me.\"\n\nMy thoughts are this--don't you start a relationship based on what you WANT as opposed to what you DON'T want? Like, I enter a relationship hoping to build a future with someone, not because I am afraid of the alternative (no longer getting to sleep with them/losing the intimacy/seeing them date someone else).\n\nI know he cares about me, but the fact that I haven't seen this side of him at all until I said we had to stop is a little irritating/confusing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend asked me to homecoming sophomore year. I said no but I texted him later that I couldn't go but I'd date him. We dated for 1.5 years and I love him. I met another guy at a state event and started texting him because he was nice and was a new friend. He kept calling me hot and attractive and I texted him to quit being horny with a ;) face. My boyfriend saw the texts and broke up with me. I told him that I still love him and that I still care. He now wants to get back together but I don't think I can emotionally handle it knowing that I hurt him. I need advice on what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[First Post, so I hope this is good]\n\nUnlike most other TIFU this actually happened today. It was a ordinary day in English Class. The class was preparing to get ready for our next assessment. Now, I had a brain wave. Out of a class of 25, I decided to be the odd one out, and be \"The next gen kid\" and do my assessment on an iPad, and the rest of the class did theirs on pen and paper lol\n\nThe class kept looking at me why I did my work, I think it was just for pure jealously as I had the privilege of using an iPad in class. So to piss them off, I spent a couple of minutes just surfing the web just for the fun of it! I then opened up Keynote and got my work done. I would consider myself to be one of the students to know a lot about Technology, so I flown through my work, while the rest of the class still worked on theirs.\n\nBell Rung for lunch. I get up pretty quickly from my seat, open up the box were the iPads sit and charge, and it happened. I cut myself on my hand.... with an iPad. \n\n[INTERESTING PART] \n\nThe case on the iPad was one of those fully protected one. It was kinda hard, but rubbery edges to protect it. While I was putting it back in the box to charge, the edge of the case must a sliced a bit of my skin off while I put it back... ;( While I walked back to my seat to grab to get my money for lunch, I noticed that the top of my thumb started to bleed. When I turned round to look at the class to line up for Lunch, they looked at my hand, as it started to bleed quite badly. I couldn't understand how it happened as I felt no pain while I was putting it back.\n\nAll I could hear was how stupid I was for cutting myself... with an iPad \"kappa\" \n\nI'm thankfully okay, and don't need stitches. It was only a slight cut, and it healed in no time. The bleeding stopped, and I was fine and dandy after that :D", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend (24M) and I have been dating for a few years now and talk about getting married several years down the line. I am on good terms with his family and he with mine. His mother is throwing a big birthday celebration for her mother (my boyfriend's maternal grandmother) at the end of the summer, and his mom invited me. My boyfriend's grandmother is in poor health, and this is likely to be her last birthday, so this is also kind of an opportunity for everyone to say their goodbyes. My boyfriend hasn't seen his grandmother in 10 years, since she lives far away, and I've never met her before.\n \nI was fine with attending before I found out that it's being held on the other side of the country and airfare will run $500+ (that was the price when we checked a couple of weeks ago so it's likely higher now). I'll be paying for my own airplane ticket. I'm currently in med school right now living off student loans, and money is tight. In order to go, I will have to take time off my summer job, and I'll be digging into my loans. \n \nI feel like I should go, since my boyfriend's whole family (including his brother's fiancee) is going to be there, and I'll presumably be a part of that family in the future. I'm worried his mother will be upset if I don't go and will forever hold that against me. My parents don't think it's a big deal, and say I shouldn't be obligated to go since I'm not married or in the process of marrying into the family at this time. My boyfriend doesn't think it's a huge deal either. What do you guys think? I just want to make sure I don't alienate the people who are my future in-laws.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Short story time. \n\nI made a goof recently with paying my credit card bill. I always pay in full the week prior to it being due. I don't do auto pay for this card because often times I have things being refunded back to it or credited to it and would rather calculate how much I need to pay to hit $0 balance myself. Whereas with auto pay it would likely overpay and I would have account credits. Not a big deal, but something that bothers me.\n\nAnyways. I was going out for the weekend. So I quickly jumped on, figured out what I needed and hit pay, got up and ran out the door without even looking back. Didn't check my email for confirmation and overall just screwed up.\n\nToday I got an email from my creditor (Chase) saying that I was late in paying and was hit with a $25 Late fee. Obviously I was distraught. \n\nI immediately got in contact with them and asked if there was an off chance that since I have never been late before and use this card a lot if they could waive the late fee and interest charges I would likely incur. Without hesitation they said \"No Problem\". They credited me the late fee and are waiving interest for 2 months. \n\nNeedless to say, I was relieved. Even though it wasn't a lot of money, it was stressful. I haven't paid interest in nearly a year and dread the thought of ever doing so again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I wasn't sure where to post this, but after a little thought I decided perhaps r/relationship_advice would be the best place to ask.\nAs it's mainly involves a relationship.\n\n----\n\nI have trust issues, I have had them for a long time.\nI learn't when I was young, that I will only ever have myself, that no matter what one day I will be all alone. \nI selfishly cannot bear the idea of trusting someone & getting hurt in the process.\n\nI accepted this & have done so for years.\nYet recently I had met someone, we became \"close long distance friends\". \nEach and everyday he would bring a smile to my face, and brighten my \"not-so brilliant\" day, by just talking to me about all sorts of things. We didn't go without talking to each other more than 12 hours, each and every day we would talk.\n\nToday is the first day I went without talking to him.\nI did miss his thoughts & opinions.. but hey, we both have different life's to live. \nDue to this.. Today I realised, that I am always looking forward to each time he talks to me. I was beginning to \"trust\" that he will be there for me in the present, and talk to me. \nAnd I feel that it's selfish that I even began to feel emotions such as these..\nSo I realised that I cannot/shouldn't rely on him to always be there.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend has the HTC Inspire. She originally got one last summer that worked fine. A few months ago the phone started to lose service frequently for hours at a time. We took it to the store and they had replaced the SIM card. It didn't help at all she kept having calls dropped, text messages unable to be sent and no service. \n \nWe called AT&T and had them replace the phone. The first phone she received was DOA so they sent her another which had the same connectivity issues. She sent that one back for a new one that had service but would restart a few times a day. I told her to send that one back but she said it was fine as long as she had service.\n\nAbout a month later the phone starts doing the same as all the other ones, no service. She hasn't had any service at all for the past 3 days. It isn't a problem with AT&T in her area because her family is on the same plan and everyone else has perfect service.\n\nShe just wants a phone that will have service. I don't think her contract is up for another year but she can't go that long with a phone that isn't working. Why should she have to pay them for not providing her with a working phone. What can she do to guarantee she gets a working phone?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When my grandma died it was a year and a half after my grandfather died, and it is forbidden by Greek Orthodox burial custom to open up a family grave and insert another coffin before two years have passed, so the only other option was to bury her in her parents' family grave, then re-dig her out after two years have passed for her and bury her along with her husband.\n\nWe knew all this, and on the same afternoon she died we started contacting her other relatives. When we got to her only living brother, he said we can't bury her in her family's grave.\n\n\"Why not?\"\n\n\"Because my wife is very sick and I'm afraid I'll need to reserve the space.\"\n\n\"But she was married to you, she's not of your parents' bloodline!\"\n\n\"I don't care, don't even try it!\"\n\nSo we rented another temporary grave after a lot of searching.\n\nThat was two years ago. His wife is alive and well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all,\n\nSo I am in college and have been dating a girl I met at college for about six months. This is my longest relationship thus far. \n\nWe fell pretty hard and for the first semester I spent a majority of my time with her. There was literally nothing I wanted out of college other than to spend time with her. But this semester it feels as if I just am losing interest. I feel like I'm just losing the connection that we had. Sometimes she'll be talking and I just don't have any interest in what she's saying. Today I was playing Playstation and she tried to make out with me and I had no interest at all.\n\nI also feel very drawn to other women. I'll see girls in class or whatever and wish that I could ask them out on a date or invite them out to a party. \n\nHowever, my girlfriend is such a great person. She's never wronged me and we've never been in a real argument. She's great to me and I can't think of any other reason to not be with her other than the fact that I feel less in love with her as of late. To put it in other words, I could see myself marrying her, but in this moment I don't feel like I love her.\n\nIt may also be of importance that she went through a very traumatic experience ~freshman year of hs. She is somewhat emotionally unstable and therefore needs a lot of attention. (I sleep in her bed every night.) Yet I want to spend more time with friends.\n\nSo should I leave her and explore other things or stick with her and see if I find myself having feelings for her again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I would begin by getting a proper wingsuit and parachute. I would then drive a four wheeler to the highest peak I could find and drive straight off of the cliff (making sure it will not hit anything below beforehand), then spreading my arms and taking flight. \n\nAfter my first flight I would then purchase a turbo charged Hayabusa street bike and take it to the desert and feel what it is like to drive 180 mph. \n\nNext I would purchase a massive yacht and begin to tour the world, stopping at places along the way and going backpacking to meet new people and see places and cultures, staying in hostiles and visiting pubs along the way.\n\nOnce I have accomplished several of these goals I would finally have the funds to dedicate all of my time and energy to my music. Music is a part of me, I sing and play many instruments.\n\nAfter making music and recording albums for several years I would likely become a humanitarian worker and spend the rest of my life teaching people how to build ovens and provide their children with proper food / how to get clean water / helping out the needy of the world.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit of background:\n\nAll of my exes that I have had, (with the [current] exception of my most recent one [less than two months since breakup]) are married, and all of the ones that had interest, have kids.\n\nEvery single one of them.\n\nMy most recent ex broke up with me under the guise of we needed to take a break so we were better together, and kept saying things like we needed space so we could become better for ourselves, not each other.\nThen today I found out that not only is she with someone else in all possible ways, less than two months after our breakup, but she realized when she met him while we were still together that he was the one she was going to spend her life with.", "role": "user" } ]

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