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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First, this morning I'm at my dentist, and I'm told that my insurance isn't going to cover the installation of an implant I'm getting, because I switched jobs (and therefore insurance providers) between the time they removed the broken tooth and put in the implant base, and now when they need to put the actual cap in. That makes it a pre-existing condition so far as they're concerned, so it's not covered. \n\nThen I go to my bank to try to understand why not one, but two of my credit cards were declined at dinner on Monday. Their explanation \"Well, sir, you haven't used your credit card since October, so it was flagged as possibly stolen, then you go to spend $480 on dinner, so we assumed it was fraud and deactivated your cards.\" to which I responded \"So you're telling me that first you thought my card was stolen, but you didn't tell me about it, then you thought it was being used fraudulently so you deactivated both of my cards, but didn't bother to call me to say 'Hey, we think something is fishy'?\" \n\nSo yeah,", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 2 months ago, I experienced a \"breakup\" with a friend/crush who didn't share my feelings (it was a pretty strange story - you can see it and the multiple updates if you look at my posting history, if you're interested). Right after I had pretty much gotten over all my feelings and decided to move on, I immediately registered for OKCupid because Tinder wasn't working out for me. As soon as I made my profile public, I got a visitor and then a \"like.\" Well, I visited her and gave her a like. After a few days of messaging and feeling like she was enjoying it, I got her phone number and we began texting. We found out that we both had a lot in common with each other, namely that neither of us was looking for a simple hookup. Also, she attends a university which is only like 15 minutes away from mine.\n\nFast forward through 3 weeks of good communication --> I asked if she would want to meet up for lunch on the weekend. She agreed enthusiastically and we had the date (although I would consider it more of a \"meetup\" than an actual \"date\"). I enjoyed it and it seemed like she did, too. Before we parted ways in the parking lot, I asked her if she would like to do something similar whenever she had enough free time in the near future. Again, she said yes, and that we could easily work something out since my school's semester ends several weeks earlier than hers. (Since my home is only 20 minutes away, this is optimal.)\n\nSo, to sum things up: we've been chatting online for 3 weeks and met in real life yesterday. She seems to enjoy talking and hanging out with me. I want to continue pursuing a relationship with her, and I think she does, as well.\n\nMy problem is that I don't know how to ask her out again. Should it just be another casual meetup or a more date-oriented thing? I would like to ask her on an official date but I'm not sure if it's too early for that. (As you can infer, dating isn't really my strong suit and I had never tried online dating before this.) Any advice will be greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my girlfriend for a year now. This is my first relationship and im new to a lot of things. We are really close and going strong. But every once and a while she gets reminded of her previous boyfriend(she dated for one year) and becomes sad and feels down for a while. She has regrets about a guy that cheated on her and she is having trouble forgetting about him and moving on.\n\n I always tell her that it takes time, and ill always be there for her. We normally settle the current sadness and move on, but I can tell she is still upset a little.\n\nI am really patient and always comfort her, but I am just looking for tips on how to comfort her further about this topic. And am looking for more information on break ups and when its normal to get over someone, and how can I help her more?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an \"off and back on\" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments.\n\nBoy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. They are friends. boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc, while sleeping on girl X's couch. Boy y and girl x dated once during the \"off and on time\" but nothing came of it. Communication between girl x and boy y is roughly equivalent to boy x, maybe a little less (I mean, they are like 52 days in a row on Snapchat last I saw). Communication with boy x has dropped to almost nothing since (when I assume he got there, idk cus she never told me) boy y arrived. \n\nIs Boy X screwed?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my ex broke up with me at a friends wedding because he wasn't ready/wanted to do his own thing (ride motorbikes). I was very sad for a long time because we talked about moving in together and we were pretty serious.\n\nI'm moving overseas soon, so I thought I should get my act together and contact him to get his things back, get mine and leave on good terms... even though he broke my heart.\n\nIn the last few weeks we had some contact, texts and saw each other once in which we talked and had a laugh, but today he said not to contact him because he got demoted, he only has one friend, his parents are moving interstate and told him to move out.. and he's not comfortable with seeing me again before I go. It broke my heart a little more.\n\nWhat should I do? Should i leave him or should I go see him? He still has my things, and I his.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in my first real relationship for two years now, we started senior year of High School, and carried through freshman year of college sorta long distance (2 hours). Recently she cheated on me, it devastated me. I'm still very much in love with her and a few days after all of this happened, I contacted her to tell her that. She said it was a mistake and she still loves me, but we agreed we couldn't be together right now and we need some time to figure it out. So, we've been in this kinda limbo state ever since. I just don't see a way to move on, even though I know I probably should. Has anyone dealt with a situation similar to this? I need words of advice or just something to make me feel better.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry in advance for the wall of text this seems to be! I didn't' mean for it.\nEarlier this week, my ex dumped me because she said she couldn't be a good student (we are both in university) and a good girlfriend. Before this all happened we couldn't really see each other very much but we still texted and tried out best.\n\nI've always been there for her and optimistic that we would find the time when we could to make the most of it. I drove her home from a weekend staying in our hometown and we try to figure things out but it ends up we break up and I'm heartbroken\n\nI still drive her home and do my best but she sends me a long message saying that she can't bare to see pictures of me with friends or in a relationship so she deletes me. I'm confused about the whole situation but somehow talk myself into that it's for the best. \n\nThe next day when I come home from school I see a bag on the doorstep. When I look inside its all the things I gave her through the time together. I was crushed. I felt betrayed, lonely, and couldn't understand what I did to deserve this. I quickly glance at her roommate's Facebook and see that they went out downtown and I think the worse. Of all the years I've known her, I've never seen her act like this.\n\nNow that it has been some time I am doing better. I try not to look too much into what she is doing but I feel wrong and I have urges to at least Facebook her or say hey at school. I was wondering if anyone else could relate or provide some guidance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys \n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8-9 months. Today is Mother's Day and I live across the country so I can't spend Mother's Day with my mom. My boyfriend invited me to spend Mother's Day with his mom and dad, but I feel awkward bc that's like implying that she will become my mom too one day, but we have only been together for like 8ish months and I think it's too soon. We never talk about marriage or kids or anything like that so its not like she's really going to become my mother in law soon because we plan on getting married you know ? We haven't talked about this stuff because it's still a new relationship and still figuring things out. What do you guys think too soon to spend Mother's Day with boyfriends parents or am I overthinking this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some preliminary notes — this happened yesterday at school, and it was actually my friend who caused this whole ordeal (his bottle, his attempt to clean it). Regardless, I'll share my bland point of view since I was in attendance the entire time.\n\nIn the morning announcements, we were all instructed to empty out our lockers by the end of the day or risk losing whatever we failed to reclaim. Two friends and I — one friend, Zed (not his real name), being the character of importance — shared a locker, and the only remaining articles were our history textbooks and Zed's running shoes and opaque water bottle. Zed had told me throughout the year not to touch his bottle because it's \"a bomb\", and I never thought much of it until that day.\n\nDuring our break between second and third period, the three of us returned our textbooks and went with Zed to the bathroom, who intended to wash his bottle. He unscrewed the top and dumped the contents into one of the toilets — some pale orange liquid that, to me, faintly resembled vomit. He then proceeded to the nearest sink and left the now-empty bottle under some running water. At this point in time, there was nothing in the bathroom that smelled particularly bad.\n\nAlmost instantaneously, the air was pervaded by the most putrid stench conceivable, and, by split-second deduction, we pinpoint the cause to be whatever he poured out into the toilet. Half the people in the bathroom start coughing and grunting after mere seconds, many already trying to push past me and run out. I grabbed my friends and stumbled backwards with them out into the hallway, which was already completely obstructed by people who had retreated or were reluctant to enter (the odor had already seeped well out the doorway).\n\nSoon enough, you had a whole nauseated crowd lingering outside the bathroom, with no one besides us really knowing what was discharging that terrible redolence. I stood on the side laughing for a good ten minutes while the crowd (but not the stink) gradually thinned out, while Zed tried to save any familiar-looking soul that intended to enter the abyss.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my best friend had been friends for years,she is pretty hot and I am an average looking guy,6 months ago we hooked up,ever since then whenever there is a party we make out,we don't have sex because she doesn't want to.We were kinda in a romantic relationship,we didn't want to go as bf/gf relationship.When I asked her if we should go that way,she said no its good the way it is.I agreed.I dont see her a lot,like maybe 2 times in a month,I want to have sex with her but she doesn't want with me,meanwhile she is having sex with some other dude,which she is probably in a relationship with.But when she's home she always hooks up with me,we both like it.Today I decided to ask her why is it so hard for her to have sex with me,is she uncomforatble with me,am I too ugly for her,then she answered that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship.She says if we do that(sex)we would be a gf and bf,or maybe she was referring that should fell in love with me,that one is tricky for me.I really like her and decided that we should take a time off each other so further feelings wont develop,she doesn't want that,I promised her that I would make her my girlfriend,she just laughed and replied \"maybe :P\",we both told each other what we don't like about each other...when I told her that we should stop talking to each other,she didn't want to,but I really want that.She got 5 months of school left so I don't want to bother her,and I will use that time to change myself a bit,like something she told me she doesn't like at me,she also promised me to change herself,because I also told her what I dont like about her.DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? please note that i am not doing this becouse she doesnt want to have sex with me\n\nSORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so he's known for a while that I post there. He mentioned it months ago that if we were to date, he would only be okay with topless pictures, but I completely forgot about that conversion because I'm a flake. We haven't been together long, so I didn't even think about talking to him about it before I posted again. I've been posting there for a while, and I'm used to my ex being okay with it. I admit that I fucked up here. I should've talked to him about it. \n\nLast night I posted a picture that I had saved in me and my exes fb chat history shared photos, so I had the app open to that. In those pictures, there were naked pictures of him as well. My bf now thinks that i was intentionally saving nudes from my ex, which isn't the case. \n\nI honestly felt that I had nothing to hide, which is why I'm not mad that he went through my phone. The only reason he went through my phone was to close out the apps that i had open as he plugged in my dying phone. I'm not upset that he snooped. \n\nSo how do I go about fixing this? He's really upset with me about all this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "\"I want to be free of constant relationships to be able to make friends and know what I want\"\n\nto me: we are ldr during the summer and all last semester and she has lots of time on her hands. so her wanting to make friends by not being in a relationship is crap. She has nothing stopping her from making friends with anyone expect herself. So, this reads to me as \"I want to be single so I can flirt/hook up with a lot of people and do whatever i want with no consequences. she said its not that and it is just that she wants to make friends.. Except that makes no sense to me.\nHere is the reddit thread that she made. I honestly stumbled across it cause she was talking about a diff thread that the same account commented on. I thought the style of writing was familiar so i clicked it and yea... it reads 1,3,2", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have acquaintances, but no other actual friends. I have been best friends with A (I'll call her that here) for almost 10 years. I think because her parents are pretty cold to her, A feels like she needs to belittle others so she can feel better about herself. Ever since we've met she has been like this, but for some reason I'm only just recently realizing that she might be one of the greater reasons I have no real friends. (She also has no real friends... Basically all we have is each other and our boyfriends. But that's it.)\n\nMy thoughts on this are that since she is always talking shit about everyone, other people over the years must think that I am like that too. Which I will admit, after having been around A for so much of my life, some of her negative traits have rubbed off on me, like her negative views on life and pessimism in general. \n\nI don't know... I'm just very upset with my life, so things are festering.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend and I decided that we wanted to get married... however, this isn't a typical marriage.\n\nBeing that I'm gay and want kids and she, after having a rough childhood, is wanting stability, we came to realize that we could help each other out. What we're looking at doing is entering a temporary, 5 year marriage in our home state of Wisconsin where the conditions would be that we have a few children (she is wanting them too) and I'd help her get through college. Being that I'm graduating this spring, I'd be bringing in most of the income at first and I'm alright with that.\n\nAnyways, we'd be signing a prenuptial contract that would declare that the marriage would only last five years. Now as to whether or not this is legal- I do not know. However, the deal would be that after 5 years, we would have the option to go our own way so long as we were equally involved with the kids. We would keep our finances separate except for those finances related to housing and raising the kids and the marriage would be open.\n\nSo with all of this in mind, is there anyway for us to mentally prepare ourselves for this? Is this a good idea or a bad idea and what steps should we take in doing this? Finally, how would we explain this to our families and later on to our kids? And most importantly, could we end up scarring them for life doing this or would they likely be understanding?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically I was dating another guy (John) for a year- not bad for a first relationship- but he broke up with me in a pretty harsh way (just dumped me out of the blue on the first day back to school. I was a wreck for months). Then my new ex (Mike) comes along, and kinda lifts me back out from my depression-esque mentality. So we're both attracted to each other, but I was scared to date Mike because I didn't think I could go through anotehr breakup. But after a while, I finally relented cuz I couldn't bear to see him with other people, and he kinda said, \"If we break up, I'll make you hate me or something so it'll hurt less.\" Either way, we got together, but I was a bit clingy and needed a lot of his time, so he said he couldn't deal with it. Broke up with me gently, and said we could stay friends (we were pretty good friends in that period where he was helping me get over John). Now I want to be friends again, but I feel like I'm trying too hard. Also I still like him, and it's only been... about exactly a week. I've actually just started no contact for about 3 hours (shoulda done it right away I know, but it was hard), but I already feel like shit. \n\nAny advice? I need to let go and stop making a fool out of myself, especially because we have so many classes together. I can't keep my eyes off him and everyone says it's creepy. Help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First and foremost, I'm really just mentally exhausted. I am a good guy and sensitive. My wife cheated on me. And bad. I am giving her a another chance and she has been spectacular in doing the right thing and working to rebuild trust. Here comes a major problem though... \n\nWhen this all happened I reached out to my family for support and now they are less than thrilled with my decision to work on my relationship. My wife and I are separated, have been for 4 months, however continue to see each other and work towards reconciliation. We do not live together. It appears to me that my parents, and possibly brothers and sisters in law may not be able to forgive. \n\nI sent an email last night telling my family that I was working on things with my wife. The only response that I have received thus far is from my mother who has said that she \"will pray\" that \"God's plan for us will be accepted by all\". Also, she said that she is upset that maybe I \"disclosed a little too much\" when all of this went down and now its all coming back to bite me. \n\nI'm frustrated. I understand her point and I don't expect them all to forgive or forget today, tomorrow, or anytime soon. However, I feel like I am the black sheep. I feel as if I have done something wrong by taking my wife back and for giving another chance. I feel like I did something wrong for leaning on my family when times got tough. Isn't that what family is for??\n\nI have a very close family but today that email validated my long held feelings that I am THE fuck up. I married a woman who they hate. I have made horrible decisions myself in the past. I feel like my family looks down on me and today just strengthens that feeling. \n\nI feel angry almost because I have been victimized by my wife's actions but today I was essentially told that I almost did something wrong for leaning on my family. My mom told me that she hurts for me. That she hates to see her son in pain. I understand that... Do I have a chance of ever saving my relationship with my immediate family and my marriage or do I have to choose between them?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Mr parents put our house for sale and due to the relocation company were forced to stick with a set real estate company. Well long story short an agent showing the house did not go through it at the end and one of their clients turned on the hot water valve to the washer machine and never fully closed it, which lead to the flooding of our laundry room. Luckily, my mom decided to go back to California to look at the house that day or else the water would not have been discovered for another week eventually flooding the whole house. My parents never shut off the utilities, due to having a pool and wanting to keep the yard in tip top shape. Our real estate agent called the last few people to show the house and of course they all denied everything. Our listing agent agreed to put an electronic lock box on the house which never happened (would document the agents obtaining the key for the house). Our listing agent also made idiotic comments saying \"don't worry the water will just evaporate over night\" when clearly water seeped through the walls and most definitely up the dry wall. She also told my parents that they should just try to hide the damage and hope this wont effect the full offer on the house they accepted the night before the flooding was discovered. My parents doing the right thing had an inspection done and will end up costing my parents thousands out of their own pockets to get fixed.\n\nI doubt my parents are trying to pursue any legal action but possibly if they were what would they be able to do? At the very least is there a real estate equivalent to the \"BAR Association\" to which my parents could report or review both of the agents involved in this incident. They were wronged and do not want this happening to others.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We dated for two years and I just loved the fuck out of her, had never met anyone like her. She went to school 3 hours away and broke up with me not long after because she said she wasn't happy.\n\nFor the next two years, every break from school she would come home, initiate contact and I would cave and hang out with her. We fucked, went on dates, everything, and starting last year she started to talk about getting back together, put lyrics about me in her facebook that she still wasn't over me.\n\nAnd yet, in person she still mistreated me, acted like she didn't care, embarrassed me in front of her friends, told me at one point that it was over and we were both hooking up with new people (I had been to try to get over her). 3 separate times I tried to cut her out of my life and she kept coming back. Complete mindfuck every time.\n\nThis last time I said goodbye was the day after we had sex and she immediately whipped out her phone while laying in bed to go through her online dating profile. I asked why the hell she had one and she said she was lonely, and well.. I had had enough. She was freaking pissed that I was trying to cut her out of my life, but I knew I had to. That was 5 months ago and I haven't heard from her since.\n\nToday I was flipping through fb and happened across a pic she tagged me in, and saw her profile pic had another guy in it, and my heart dropped through the floor. I am miserable. \n\nHow THE FUCK do I get over her?! I have dated a bunch of different girls over the last two years and broken up with all of them because I haven't connected with any of them like I did with her. Please, please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently I've been talking a lot to this girl who hasn't had the best of lives. She turned to drugs and alcohol, slept with a number of guys and has some mental issues. She seems nice enough, and she's not a total fuck up. She cares about her future and does well in school. Personally, I drink probably a touch more than I should but that's it. I do well in school, am still a virgin and have never done drugs (even weed, nothing against it, just haven't really had the opportunity). I'm trying to get a job that requires me being clean and have a pretty non-fucked up life. Yet this girl is always on the back of my mind. I really do care about her and want to get to know her better but I feel she could interrupt my future if I pursue her. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My bf and I have been dating about 8 months. This is my first REAL adult relationship. My bf is very clear about how he feels about me \"I love you\" \"I'm so glad I met you\" etc... I trust him very much, and I love him as well. \n\nThe problem is that I get very emotional when I think about us breaking up, him getting mad at me, etc... Basically when I imagine us as anything but \"perfect, forever love\" I start to cry and get upset. Now, we rarely fight (Had one semi fight over me not hanging out with him about 4 months in - it was a big miscommunication issue and we have since cleared it up) and this issue doesn't really affect him, except when I feel he is upset with me I start to cry, and he doesn't like this. He says he loves me, and doesn't want to see me upset (only happened 3 times).\n\nWTF? Why is this happening? I told him at the beginning of our relationship that I had not really cried in over a year and I was telling the truth. Why am I freaking out? What is happening? Is this at all normal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "so basically I'm at a point in life where I want to settle down, buy a home, start my career and go on yearly vacations and in around 5-10ys start a family.\n\nmy partner is just entering adulthood. figuring out what they want to do in life. wants to spend their money on traveling the world before \"settling down\".\n\nwe are on fundamentally different stages of our lives.\n\nI'm in my late 20s close to 30 (big freak out for me due to the expectations of what I want accomplished by then etc) they are in their very early 20s.\n\nand we live on opposite sides of the globe literally.\n\nanyone been in a similar situation with words of advice as the older party?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Fresh out of college, trying to get a job as a server though I have little to no experience with it. I really wanted the job because serving is a skill I want to have experience with. This local business hired me, I told them upfront I had no experience but was a quick learner. They started me off first day as a dishwasher, and I handled it fine. The second day they wanted to start training me as a busboy and ease my way into a serving position. I was so excited for this opportunity to move up that quickly. I paid close attention, asked a question for clarity when I didn't understand something, and made sure that the guests were well attended to. At the end of the night they told me good job and though there were a few things I needed to work on they didn't expect much for my first try at it. \nI go into work today and the manager (who wasn't there the night before) sat me down and told me that they were letting me go because they didn't feel I wasn't good enough and that they needed someone with more restaurant experience. Though I only worked there for a few days I was devastated. It's a shitty shitty feeling when someone tells you you're not good enough. I mean, I'm smart I'm competent I feel like I'll pick things up once I get a hang of things. \n\nI've been scrolling through Craigslist the past few hours looking at more restaurant positions and all of them say the same thing \"2+ years experience required.\" Even a dish washing position is required to have multiple years of experience. I feel like the problem out there isn't that there aren't any jobs, there's tons of them I just looked at. It's just the pool of unemployed is so large that businesses are demanding the highest of qualifications for some of the most entry leveled jobs. So my question is how is someone who isn't as qualified compete in our world today?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a little concerned that the guy I've been seeing for about a month now hasn't gotten in touch with me since Monday evening. We've been on six dates now and things seemed to be progressing quite well. We had our sixth date Sunday evening, I spent the night at his and we had a lot of fun (though not sex yet, though i did oral on him for the first time), then the next day he basically wanted me to stay and hang out with him until 4 o clock in the afternoon. That was all on his part - he kind of wanted to just hang and cuddle and watch TV with me all day. And he made me brunch which was sweet. He walked me to the subway and asked me to text him when I got home. I did and we chatted for a bit, I sent the last text and he didn't respond. Cut to now Wednesday afternoon and I haven't heard from him at all. I would initiate but as I sent the last text Monday night and initiated last time I don't want to come off as pushy. We normally talk every day, with one of us usually taking the lead when the other one hasn't the day before. Things have gotten pretty comfortable, he calls me babe now, he is comfortable showing affection to me in front of his buddies, it just seems he has dropped off the radar completely since Monday. Also, we normally make plans for our next date by now and there's been no follow up. Since I picked the last date I feel like I should give this responsibility to him and don't want to be pushy or over eager. When should I be worried if I don't hear from him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So as I'm nearing my second quarter of a century, I'm starting to have a little \"quarter-life crisis\". \n\nI love my gf of 7 years (maybe not as passionate as in the beginning) and we mostly get together pretty good. Some minor stuff here and there, but nothing we can't get over. We were each other's first, lost our virginities to each other. But I can't shake the feeling that I'd like to know other girls, that I don't want her to be the only girl I've been with for the rest of my life, or maybe try being independent for a while.\n\nAt the same time, I don't want to lose her and I feel like I'd make a big mistake if I decide to leave her just for this (I know she won't accept me going solo for a year to try things out and then come back to her). And I also don't want to have the same question in another 7 years.\n\nHave you ever been in my situation? What did you do? How do you decide what to choose?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's girls that are right for me, and treat me well. Although i don't feel the same; I apprieciate the care they give. \n\nI keep having thoughts about, the girl I 'do' want. A Girl i find really attractive and wish i'd date. \n\nTwo issues I have with girls i want to date, and really like.\n\n1: I get let down a lot; the girls I find most attractive make me feel uncomfortable by the way they act. \n\n2: Whenever I get a sign that me and the girl doesn't click, I just give up all patience. \n\nI end up getting mixed emotions, like should i date someone who cares for me but i don't find attractive, or should I date someone based off of attractivness but end up not really liking them as a person either. \n\nI feel like there's really 0% of me meeting someone who fufills, care, personality, attractivity, and sex. \n\nSo if I were to pick a best possible option I feel like i'll just have to live with what I get and not what I want.\n\nI judge people based off 10 minutes of their time; and more often than not I lose my patience on whether I can really 'Like' them. maybe it's the state i live in, that the girls here don't have much to offer and I have looked and met a lot of people. My first love came from a different state. \n\nSo is how i feel wrong? I've learned what I want early, but I lack in know how to look at things, or how to feel about things.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend is a wonderful, caring guy who has supported me through quite a difficult time for me in the past year. We 'officially' got together around March and I have genuinely come to care for him as a person. \n\nCutting to the chase, I have never particularly found him extremely attractive physically, but I was able to look past the looks and appreciate him as a person. He has since gained some weight over the past few months. He IS trying to lose it, in a kind of half-assed way and I want to me there for him…but not a day goes by without him complaining about how despite his hard work, he is not losing any weight. And frankly, it is extremely aggravating to listen to him whine everyday.\n\nPersonally, I have been able to lose about 15kgs (33lbs) a few years back and am still able to keep the weight off and consider myself quite health conscious and knowledgeable about what works and doesn't work. So sometimes I suggest that he eats fewer refined carbs and does more cardio/situps. (His main concern is his belly.) He will refuse to listen and say it doesn't work and how it will only make him fatter because his body doesn't work like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know how I feel.\n\nI've recently gotten out of a five year relationship, of which the final 6 months he had a seriously full blown emotional and physical affair.\n\nComing out I felt great, I met a great bunch of new friends - a mix of guys and girls. About 5 months into the friendship, I started sleeping with one of the guys. We agreed it was casual, and neither of us would pursue it again. But he did last week, very much so. We slept together multiple times that night.\n\nSo I hear a conversation between him and one of the girls in our group about how he doesn't remember sleeping with me or not. I confront him, and he tells me he remembers 100% of the night, and never said that to her.\n\nHim and this girl, over the days following, are all over each other right in front of me. Tonight, I over hear a conversation between her and another one of the friends, that he asked he on a date. She said she sees things happening between them next month.\n\nI feel total used and in the dark. But don't know if I should feel that way. I've since heard he has no recollection what so ever about the conversation he had with her. \n\nI just feel like he's been selfish, liking this girl, sleeping multiple times with her friend, but still then asking her on a date... I'm so upset, and hurt. And I feel like this is a beyond weird situation. But do I have a right to be upset? I feel like he hasn't cared about her either. Whenever I hang with them if I were to walk in, I'll now always be the girl who slept with her bf.\n\nThey're all using the excuse that he was always the fat, unattractive guy who girls didn't like, and now he doesn't know how to handle his new found 'attractiveness'. I feel like we've all been through that though, and if I were in his situation, I'd make one of the two decisions and keep it that way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short, my best friends, who we have all been friends for many years, and I almost got into a MFM threesome on a drugged-out NYE, but I chickened out because I didn't want to reveal to my friends my sexual preferences. I am a bisexual. After having many years to think about, I am 100% sure this is the case. I now feel like my friends are looking at me like 'why would makefunnotother not want to get in on this? is there something wrong with him?' tbh it was all my idea and now that I chickended out I feel like a have some explaining to do. \n\nThe only person I have ever told this to would be therapists and I really never wanted to share this particular part of myself. I personally don't think it's anybody's business. But now I think it might be time to reveal this about myself but i have serious trepidation. I don't want to be called out in public, I don't want it to be a topic of conversation among my friends, I don't want anyone to try and hook me up with some guy, I don't want any of my friends to think I'm in love with them, and I don't want to go through any generally embarrassing discussions with friends and other people I'd generally like to not share this information with. But i do feel like I have to say something to my best friends so we can all look each other the eye again.\n\nShould I just limit it to my best female friend, who may or may not become a gossip queen about it, my other best friend who may get drunk and try mention it slyly in public to be funny or get a rise, or just keep it to myself and not risk a public conversation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit. I have been doing a lot of self reflection lately, having just come out of a 1.5yr relationship 2 months ago. \n\nThere's something about myself I developed during this relationship that I don't like and I think it's unhealthy. It's hard to explain but I became very attached to this person, so much so that I would get very anxious when they were away from me. It made me uneasy when ever she was out or away. I kept thinking she would meet someone else. I felt as though she is wasn't really interested in me, and I would do things to make her jealous. \n\nI had really high self esteem going into the relationship, but it got lower and lower during my time with her. It felt as though she always kept me at an arms length, saying she has to maintain her independence. She kept secrets, and didn't really communicate to me. She would flirt with other guys. When I told her my feelings that I don't appreciate that, she said that she can do what ever she wants that she's a grown woman. \n\nIt's confusing me because with my ex-ex-gf, it was different. I loved when she would go away and I had time to myself. I missed her still, but it wasn't crippling and playing on my mind all the time. I could still relax and look forward to having her come home. \n\nCan anyone identify what is going on here? I don't want this to carry on into future relationships. Any more info needed or questions I'll be sure to answer! Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am applying for a spouse visa to move to the U.K. one of the questions is as follows:\n\n\"Have you received any other penalty in relation to a criminal offence; for example a caution, reprimand. Warning, or similar penalties in the UK or any other country?\"\n\n3 years ago I was in a traffic accident and, not realising I needed to attend court, did not attend court and my license was suspended and a warrant issued for me. However I rectified the situation promptly and sorted everything out. How do I find out if this is still on my record and whether or not to include this information in my application? Do I just need to get a copy of my driving record to see? Will that show me everything I need to know?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday morning I was multitasking,\n\nI put milk on the stove and then went \nto the bathroom to shave, which in itself is not a good idea.\n\nWhile sitting on the toilet I was listening to my iPod classic and began\nto put on a landing strip. Approching take off I cut myself and propelled my iPod into the bowl, panicking I get up knocking my head against the mirror door.\n\nSo by this time I'm lying on the floor bleeding at multiple spots and confused as hell. After realizing what has happend I plan on getting my iPod and turning it off. Easier said than done, grabbing it out of the bowl I notice that I got no idea how to accomplish this trivial seeming task.\n\nSprinting to my laptop and getting blood everywhere I hold play on my ipod. Nothing happens. I figure out that I have to hold play and center, wait for it to boot up fully(which is an eternity for Apple products) and then turn it off. After 2 minutes or so I finally succeed. \n\nRemember the milk from the beginning? Well me neither. But my alarm did and comes screaming at me while I'm disinfecting nearly giving me a heart attack.\n\nYou'll probably like to know if the iPod is working.\nIt does, but it displays a firewire not plugged in message from time to time (which makes sense I guess, since firewire isn't plugged in)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend [19/F] and I [22/M] has been together for about 10 months and living with eachother for about 7 or 8.\n\nShe has Borderline. At first it was OK, I had the power and strength to cope with her. But over time, it's been tearing my whole being to bits and pieces. She is awefully jealous. She wont let me have any friends of the other gender, even though I've never cheated on her in any way. That's because she thinks I wont stay true to her.\n\nI tried today to tell her that I don't want to be in a relationship with her anymore, but she just said \"NO\" when I said it was over. She started sobbing and begged (spelling?) me to talk with her about it later instead. Weak as I am, I couldn't deny her that. I do love her, but I don't see any way we could stay happy together in the long run.\n\nAny advice on how to break up with her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So im starting to get to know this girl[f22] better and I[m19] want to make sure I dont get boring, it has happened to me before. We just spent 2 weeks together at a spring class thing that was in the mountains. There was about 10 of us that built a pretty tight nit group but me and her hit it off real well.\n\nSince we were with each other basically 24/7 for two weeks, we didnt have to text to talk(could just talk in person) or have to plan to hangout, it just happened but now that were back home I want the \"thing\" to go somewhere but im afraid I will get boring.\n\nWhat do you all think i should do to not get boring and to get this to go somewhere. Oh and one more thing, she does have a slight concern that where to far apart in age but she doesn't consider is a huge deal and she seems to be interested in taking it further as well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This was about an hour ago, here's some context\nI'm at a Mini Makers Fair which is a family oriented event that showcases technology, kids programs and other things associated with \"makers\".. basically creative tech fair for yuppie families.\nWhatever.\nI was helping display my friends interactive musical sculpture.\n\nMy point is I was at a nice family event and not just hanging out on the streets of downtown or somewhere more likely to get swindled.\n\nI was taking a cigarette break and piddling around on my phone.\nA guy cursing, looking into his empty pack spots me and asks if he can \"buy a couple smokes off me\"\nOn average the going rate for an American Spirit is $0.35, $0.50 if someone is feeling generous.\n\nI, out of habit, act put off whenever someone tries to bum smokes off me. This is to give them a chance to rescind their offer without me saying \"No\" outright. \nIt's something I started doing with my friends who are chronic bums so they realize I'm not an endless free cigarette machine.\n\nBut, the guy offered to buy right? He had his wallet out, right? \nI busted out two smokes for him which he takes with a thanks me briefly.\nI'm still kinda absorbed partially in my phone but notice he pauses and then starts to walk away.\n\"I'll be right back with something for you\" he says.\n\nI guess I figured he might work at one of the booths that have some cool, silly swag for me? But I remembered thinking it was weird he took his wallet out and then didn't give me any money.\nMaybe he didn't have any single dollar bills?\nI waited around for quite awhile after.\n\nJust lame because I'm generally pretty generous but it's situations like this that make that generosity go into hiding for awhile.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend left me four months ago. We had been together almost three years. I really felt that the breakup was devastating. It took me a bit of time to get to where I am now. I realized that our relationship was unhealthy and my SO treated me poorly. I finally feel like my self again and I am happy in my life.\n\nI'd really like to go out and meet new people. I'm not really sure where to start. I'm worried it is going to feel strange. I'm worried about being awkward. I was completely committed to one person for almost 3 years. It seems it will be hard to open up. I'd love any advice on how to get back out there.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was a smart kid. I could ace a biology test without really trying, and I loved to read. But I was also a little shit to others sometimes, and a bit of an ugly duckling. And then, puberty lended a helping hand, and I'm a lot prettier and think at least, I'm a lot nicer.\n\nBut now I'm kind of the 'slow one'. I just don't notice things around me, I don't ever think. It was kind of OK when I was a bit of a pixie day dreamer chick a while ago, but even that's gone. Less imagination. I just feel a bit... vacant. I want to be smarter, and my schoolwork has been... lackluster to say the least. I'm not a very hard worker, I'm good at picking up projects and working on them, like making games, wood work, no problem. But writing and essay/research? Heaven forbid. I've always loved english, but I don't even enjoy that anymore. \n\nI'm not particularly witty either, I feel like I should stop trying to be the joker, but then I just don't what to say and just end up saying nothing. So, /r/advice , help me out. What can I do to improve myself?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He confessed that he developed feelings for me over time and asked to date him. Basically I love everything about him (we really click in everytihing), but I don't find him physically attractive, (he doesn't turn me off no). Some people say that physical attraction can develop over time if you really love someone emotionally, and he actually kinda said that he didn't find me physically attractive at first but now he really is attracted to me physically too. He took it well, told me that it's not my fault, then asked me if I think this could change over time to which I honestly replied that I don't know for sure, but doubt it. After some time he clearly stated that he's not going to give up on me for now (maybe later when he'll be able to get over me), and told me that he'd like to stay friends for now if I'm fine with it. He also promised that he'll try not to suffer to much, but yeah, I feel him suffering a lot. \n\nHe also told that if physical attraction is really a deal-breaker for me then I shouldn't date him ignoring this fact (only if it would miracliously appeared). Now, I'm really confused, I really want him in my life, I actually started considering the idea of dating him, but I now feel like it will be unfair from me to date him like that. Also staying friends really hurts him, he doesn't show it at all, but I just feel it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When we lived apart for that month I lived with my parents. I'm already not goo with change and it literally uprooted me from all I was comfortable with. I thought living alone was space enough for him but it was basically like we weren't even in a relationship. He thinks that if he wants to go a whole week with no contact whatsoever then I should allow that. It just wasn't a relationship in my eyes. I tried breaking up with him but he didn't want that. So we moved back in. It's been a month and everything seems fine. But he still says feels the same when we discuss it. It really hurts me and I'm scared to renew our lease together because I don't want things to end up fucked up. \n\nSO we agreed on counselling. Basically we want an idea of whose feelings are more abnormal. He says that if the therapist agrees that his feelings are abnormal for a relationship then he will work on whatever problems he has. I'm not sure how to word that. Because obviously the therapist won't \"take sides\" at least as far as I know. I just wanna know what I should expect from our session[s]. I'm not really looking for advice from this sub in our issues. I don't need more thoughts floating around in my head. I would just like a professional opinion on our situation. Thanks guys!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a casual acquaintance, who just so happens to be a girl, asked me to go to San Fransisco tomorrow with her and her friend. Now, I am pretty awkward around women. I've had one girlfriend and she dumped me because I never talked to her. That was 4 years ago but to be honest nothings really changed. It's an 8 hour drive and I'm pretty nervous. I've never met her friend and we're staying at the girl i knows' friends' parents house. I'm pretty sure the girl who invited me was/ still is interested in me. She has a boyfriend now who just so happens to live next door to me (she was hanging out with him when she asked me). So i guess i just need some encouragement or helpful advice on what to do in this situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl during orientation the first week of college. A couple weeks later she started to ask me to go to events with her fairly regularly and we started to become very close. I thought our relationship might turn romantic but then she told me she was gay and only wanted to be friends. This was sort of an emotional blow to me because she was the closest I had ever been to an actual romantic relationship, but I got over it and we stayed friends.\n\nI didn't really talk to her much for a while until like a month into the next semester when she suddenly started asking me to have dinner with her or go to the movies on a fairly regular basis again, like once or twice a week. I wrote these events off as just friendly gestures since she had said she wasn't attracted to guys. Things got more confusing after we started getting drunk together every weekend. She changes a lot when she gets drunk. Someone asked her if she was a lesbian and she replied that that was \"the best theory\". And then she started spontaneously making out with guys at parties. At this point I realized she was sort of emotionally complicated with regards to her sexuality, and I decided not to bring it up. But then she got really drunk one night and made out with my best friend, and she felt really bad about that and apologized to me the next day, so I sort of had to acknowledge that I knew her sexuality was sort of complicated. Anyway, the other day she got super drunk again and started telling me that she was in love with me, and I wasn't really sure what to do (I was also completely sober). \n\nSo now I'm really not sure what to do- should I bring this up with her? I still have feelings for her but I'm more worried about harming her own emotional state, which seems rather fragile, than anything else. She's my best female friend and I wouldn't want to ruin that.\n\nAlso, many apologies if I made an error in style or something, this is my first time posting to Reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a terribly long story, so I'll try to shorten it and will add follow-up information if needed.\n\nTo start, my parents disowned me at 18 due to religious reasons and the fact that they didn't like my boyfriend (this is the part of the story I'm shortening). They told me to go pack my things, neither me or my boyfriend were ever allowed there, and that I wouldn't be able to talk to my younger siblings until they were 18. At the time my sister was 16 and little brother was 13. \n\nI have since seen my younger siblings a few times, but only while my older sister and/or mother was there. I've emailed my mother a few times and though things aren't peachy, they are certainly better than they once were. If it weren't for my siblings though, I wouldn't speak to her at all. \n\nHer and (more so) my father have been emotionally and verbally abuse to me and the rest of my siblings for as long as I can remember. I no longer have a desire to fix the relationship I have with them, because I have tried many times and it's at the point where I have to stop subjecting myself to the hurt they spread. \n\nI got an email from my mother yesterday asking if I wanted to come to Thanksgiving dinner and I have no idea if I should go. I want to go for my younger siblings, because I love them and love when I do get to see them. However, I don't want my parents to think they are allowed to pretend like nothing has happened and that they've been good parents (they still refuse that they've ever been anything but good parents or see how they've done anything wrong). I also don't want to give them the wrong idea that there's a salvageable relationship between us. \n\nShould I go? Any and all advice would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't blame her, I have been where she has been, just self harming to get rid of stress. Im really trying to get her to stop, she just doesn't see the point of stopping but I know from my own experience that its dragging her down. \nShe told me she quit, I believed her. She gave me little reports of how the day went and kept me updated on everything. I was skyping with her last night and I noticed a fresh eraser burn on her hand. She doesn't know I saw it but when I asked her later that evening how the day went she said nothing happened and that she didnt self harm. \nSo, she is lying to me. I know its a very touchy subject for her and just like me a few years ago she is a addicted to it. How can I make her a little bit more honest about this without me forcing her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last week I rented 1 out of 2 rooms to my weedman and his girlfriend. It was only supposed to be till the end of September. \n\nSunday noon this guys calls me and tells me \n\"Hey man, my girlfriend left me. I'm not going to stay at apartment anymore, I want my money back!\"\n\nI don't really have backup funds for emergency situations like this due to the fact that I just started working as an apprentice one year ago. My mother pays for the apartment.\n\nNow here is where the fuck up happened. He payed me around 500€ for one month. The rent was already payed and I decided to spent the money on clothes, electronics, booze and of course some herbs. And I also didn't tell my mother about. \n\nThis dude has the key for the main lock to the apartment. Unfortunately this is a universal key. He can open the door to the building, to my mail and the door. Fortunately I didn't give the key for the second lock. \n\nAfter trying to tell him that I don't have his money, he went berserk. He threatened me via text and phone calls. \n\nI panicked. Closed both locks. Went to my parents house, because I didn't really felt safe there anymore. My parents are out of town till the end of September and I beg to God that I can sort this situation out. \n\nMy mother will probably kill me if she finds out, the dealer most likely too. Drugs are bad mkay kids?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "GF and I were together for 8 months. One day we were talking and somehow it came out that she had slept with like 15 people and that 2 of them were one night stands. I told her I wasn't really cool with that and that I wanted to break up. I didn't freak out or get upset or anything, I just told her it wasn't my thing and that we should split. I'll admit that it was pretty terrible timing for this to all go down because she told me she loved me for the first time a week earlier. Given that, I understand why she got so upset. She basically cried, and begged me not to, but I left, got her stuff from my place, dropped it back, and figured that was the end of it.\nWell, for like 3 days she proceeded to blow up my phone and social media basically freaking out, going from crying to angry, so I ended up just blocking her on everything and moving forward with my life.\nI thought everything was cool and fine until earlier today. I ended up meeting a friend I haven't seen in a few weeks for lunch. She told me that my ex told her, and other people, all sorts of fucked up lies about me. For example, she's heard that we broke up because I cheated with 3 different girls, that I hate black people and visit sites like Stormfront, and that I'm secretly addicted to painkillers. WTF. Literally none of those things are even remotely true, I have no idea where the fuck she even pulled those from.\nNow heres the thing, my friend, and I'm sure other close friends of mine, know that its all bullshit and lies and thought it was funny, but I'm genuinely worried that people that only kind of know me will hear this stuff and thing I'm an awful person and overall fuck up my reputation. What should I do to stop her from spreading this bullshit about me?!?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both currently enrolled in high school. Me and her dated for several weeks during the end of the last year's school year. After summer break, school started and we had classes together and we both became friends again, eventually we got back together, but then she dumped me again only after a short period of time (less than a month) cause of something I did which was not serious at all. Semester one passed , we are still friends to this day. And I feel like I still really adore her and such. I'm just wondering whether I should just tell her that I like her again or should just forget her and start new relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've had girlfriends before, but never met a girl that I didn't already know from school or work. I'm kinda lost.\n\nAnyway; I got a cute girl's number last Wednesday. She seemed either a little shy or a little pressured (even though I just asked \"would you like to meet up sometime?\"), said she worked often and very late, I said I do the same, which is true. I actually work later nights and also very often, so I kind of need to be up on scheduling stuff with people ahead of time. Anyway, she said yes and I got her number.\n\nThat said, girls don't really seem to like scheduling too far ahead - I'm guessing it kills any feelings of spontaneity (sp?)... So I texted her Friday, asking if she wanted to meet up Sunday (today) because people never pick up when you call them these days. No response. It's not like a lot of time has passed, but still, 2 days is plenty of time to type out a text.\n\nI'm kinda thinking I could call her (can get a straighter response, and I prefer it to texting anyway) this afternoon. But I don't want to ruin anything by calling, either. I'm not afraid of rejection, but I hate not knowing.\n\nWhere I live, it's also common to not have a plan for your phone, so instead you'd fill it with a bit of money and use that up. She might not have any money on her phone, and thus can't reply. Probably wishful thinking...\n\nIs she just not interested? Think I might as well give her a call? My gut feeling is saying that if she's interested it doesn't actually matter that much what I do, but I don't want to make a big faux pas already. Unless I already have.\n\nI'm probably overthinking this. I know getting a number isn't a huge accomplishment, perhaps this girl never even wanted to see me at all, so it feels kinda off asking this question in \"dating advice\". But some general ground rules, if nothing else, would be really helpful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have had anxiety for most of my life and for the past 2-3 years I've also been pretty depressed. Boyfriend did not know any of this when we got into a relationship but was very supportive and nice when he found out. He's been my rock (therapist has suggested I rely maybe a bit too much on him for comfort) and is generally very upbeat and positive and tries his best to help me.\n\nI've noticed though for the last 2-3 months that I seem to be dragging him down. He's more irritated than usual and more stressed about things that didn't stress him much before. He tells me the latter is a good change because he was rather careless before. I disagree with him on this but won't argue about it.\n\nWe live about an hour's drive from each other, so we usually see each other once a week. When I've spent time with him I have more energy and feel slightly better than normal. But I think when he has spent time with me he feels tired and stressed.\n\nI'm starting to worry that this relationship isn't healthy for him but he's too loyal and kind to notice or do anything about it. \n\nLike I said, he's more stressed and not the same upbeat happy person he was when we met.\n\nWhat made me think about this was seeing him with his female friend. I watched them chat and laugh together and realized what a perfect match they are. They're both gorgeous, blonde with blue eyes and fit, their eyes lit up as they talked about their favorite type of music (genre that I dislike) and I know her sex drive is very high and would be a much better match for him than me. He seemed so relaxed and happy with her, like he used to be when I first met him. It was very eye opening seeing them together like this.\n\nI don't want him to waste his best years in an unhappy relationship. But then again I know my depressed thoughts aren't perfectly logical so that's why I want a neutral person's opinion on this and whether I should even mention this to him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently found out that for a majority of my six month relationhsip with my boyfriend, he's been on and off chatting up other girls on facebook and okcupid. \n\nHe says he never intended to cheat and that he couldn't have and what's more he says he realizes now that he loves me, he told me for the first time a couple weeks ago. He says he didn't realize what he had and he took me for granted. He says he doesn't deserve me but that he's so lucky I've forgiven him. He says he thought he doesn't deserve to be happy and that he was afraid to fall in love again. \n\nAll he ever did was chat with other girls, flirt, and ask them to hang out or hookup. He hung out with two girls but says nothing happened and I completely believe him on that. \n\nI'm wondering if maybe it could be true that he was just cheating because he was scared of a serious relationship? I really want to believe he won't cheat again and he's completely changed in the way he treats me since he realized he loves me, but I've just heard so many stories about how people never really stop cheating. But he never physically cheated so I'm wondering if my situation is different? \n\nAny advice would be much appreciated! Thank you so much!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know lots of people will the title and think I'm considering continuing our relationship after high school, into college. This isn't entirely true however. Here are the details. \n\nOne of the colleges on my list is a fairly close but competitive state school. I have already applied and expect to be accepted under automatic acceptance rules. She went on a day visit recently with a close friend, and stated she likes the campus a lot. However, she is paying for her college herself, so her plan is to attend community college for a year as a cheaper way to complete some prerequisites.\n\nWhile I absolutely love being with her, and couldn't be happier with our relationship, as seniors I expect the worse come graduation, when we go our separate ways. I have heard that it is a drag socially to freshman who try to hang on to their significant others at different schools. But suppose the two in the relationship both end up choosing the same school, for reasons outside of the relationship, would it be feasible to try to stay together? I know this is far down the road, a lot could happen in between now and then, and like I said she would be at community college for a year and I wouldn't see her for that time. But I'm curious to know if anybody has succeeded in this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Mg girlfriend is loving and supportive. I encourage her to express her self sexually since she is so much more conservative than I am and she has, she feels comfortable around me eyeing other guys and just expressing who she finds attractive which is a big step for her. I don't have a problem with it and I'm happy we're becoming more comfortable with each other. What I wanted to know is that even though we mess around and I enjoy where we are sexually, is it unfair of me to desire more attention? She tells me she loves me and when we mess around she expresses how sexy I am, but I went out tonight and some women hit on me and told me I'm handsome and had a beautiful smile etc. Am I an asshole for loving this attention? Is this normal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like most TIFUs, this happened several months ago on a dry summer night. I was trying to fall asleep a bit earlier than usual (around 11PM) because I had a job interview at 9AM, but kept waking up every 5 minute because of this one fucking mosquito that would just pierce through my skin and bounce without even getting a decent meal from my vasculature. My girlfriend, who is a deep sleeper, had already fallen asleep at the time but I could tell she was distressed because she was unconsciously scratching herself from the mosquito bites. This mosquito would not leave us the fuck alone and around 1AM, I tried to catch it by using my phone light to attract this fucker but he was so elusive that I had failed countless times. I decided enough was enough and went full psycho. I turned on all the lights (my girlfriend was still sleeping), and it took me a while but I searched every corner of my room until I found this small ass mosquito that looked fat as fuck from all the blood it had drained from my precious body. I didn't want to kill it right away because that just didn't seem fair for the both of us. It took me another 30 minutes to capture this bastard in my bathroom and I tossed some green GoldBond (I use it to cool my balls after a shower) on to this fucker thinking it would slow it down. I kept peppering this fucker with GoldBond and missed so many times until my bathtub and my girlfriend's bright pink towels were completely caked with this magical shit. The GoldBond seemed to do pretty well in slowing it down because I finally caught one of its legs with a tweezer and proceeded to torture and dissect it. By the time I went to bed, it was around 5AM and took me another hour to fall asleep from the adrenaline and stress the mosquito had caused me. I didn't wake up for my job interview.\n\nHere's some proof:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so I've been seeing this guy for just about 2 months and things started off great. He is kind, attentive and adores me. There is no problem in our relationship except his mother. He is a mommas boy, which would be okay if she wasn't into illegal activities that she brings him into and involves him in. \n\nHe has told me that he is very close to his mother and that they only have each other. His mother is 50yrs old and deals drugs. She sometimes gets my boyfriend to do it for her as well, she has also given him drugs. She comes to stay at his house and smokes pot in the living room (I'm okay with being an end but surely she could do it outside). She stays for days upon days and just demands his attention. When I'm at his house she gets shitty if we leave to go do something (like get coffee).\n\nRecently I had police show up while I was at his house (he was at work) because they had found some illegally dumped rubbish that his mother made me dump late at night as they didn't want to pay to take it out to the rubbish dump!\n\nI'm having a hard time handling this sort of activity. I'm not a prude but I didn't grow up around anything like this. My parents were very law abiding, conservative people and this is just a whole new world. Can anyone give me advice on how to deal with this? Or someone with experience dating someone who was close to one parent? I tried having a conversation about this with him but he gets very defensive and so does his mother. He tells her EVERYTHING", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a guy at a gaming convention and saw him a few times after that at some other gaming events. After my ex broke up with me I ended up sleeping with him. I didn't really fancy him, but I could tell he liked me. I thought that would be that, but he wanted to see me again and told me how much he liked me. He treated me so well and it was such a difference to the way I was treated by my ex, I couldn't help but fall for him. He's honestly the nicest guy; everything you could ever want. A little bit shy, a little bit weird and nerdy (I love that about him), and he really loves me. I wouldn't say that it's the only thing I love about him now, but initially the only reason I went for him is because he liked me. Is that a bad thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About three weeks ago, my girlfriend and I broke up. I could tell that she wasn't happy in the relationship, so I suggested that we break up , because I want her to be happy. We had an off and on relationship for about a month and a half, do I figured that we would get back together, because I was still madly in love with her. She is my world. She has a new boyfriend, and when I found out, it hit me that she had moved on. I am devestated, because I still love her, and she is completely done with me, and I can tell she really doesn't want to talk to me. I just want o know what to do. Im depressed. I don't want to do anything but lay in bed and cry. I've been crying non-stop (even at school) since 7:00 PM EST last night. Everyone of my friends that I've talked to has told me to move on, but I can't. It hurts too much. She was my first true love.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throw aways get ready. Me and my best friend (males) were watching Brazzers beating it together. It progressed into stroking eachother. We agreed (during the act) this will never fucking happen again, ever. We will never speak of it. It will basically be the skeleton in the closet until the skeleton is dust and blows away in the wind. It did not progress into anything further. No anal stuff, no kissing, no oral, no part of this was out of attraction or feelings. This entire thing was purely out of curiosity. We both have girlfriends we are in love with (I feel my girl is THE ONE). Despite this experience, I would never consider myself bisexual or homosexual, the idea of another man is by no means enticing, tempting, or gets me aroused or excited whatsoever. As much as I would like to erase this experience completely, what's done is done. Nothing is awkward at this point, still buds, still do same old bro stuff (shooting, off roading, cigars). Curiosity was strongly present is all. Guys of Reddit, how many of you have \"experimented\" (to any extent), but your sexuality is not in question? \n\nWhat's Going Through My Head Now\nHonestly, I'm hard on myself when it comes to anything. Integrity is huge to me, and being integral in all of your experiences is also very important. Obviously not going to share this with my girlfriend, but at the same time, I share everything with her. Reddit, it would just help to know that this is normal, I'm not a freak, and that not sharing this with ANYBODY, including my girlfriend, is ok. I feel like I have to tell somebody and discuss it to get it off my chest, and Reddit Throw Aways is the only way I will ever do it.\n\nPlease share", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, long time owner of cats, parents got cats and I am really used to them, I own now a castrated male 4 year old persian. My daugther is almost one year old and she usually tries to catch him removing some of his hair and sometimes the cat answers and has made her some tiny scratches, nothing that would worry me up since the cat is always inside the house and I don't fear it would give her some kind of illness.\n\nThe problem came today, my daughter was softly caressing him (sometimes she does) and the cat started hissing at her, I came just quick and took the cat apart, that was this morning and not (afternoon here in Spain) the cat hasn´t stopped hissing at any of us, my wife and my daughter just got to have lunch with some friends and I'm staying with the cat.\n\nIf I stay still seated on one place the cat will calm down and relax where he can watches me, as soon as I walk he runs by me starts hissing at me, even scratched me on the ankle and won't stay too far away from me.\n\nNow I have him locked in a room with its food, water and sand and he keeps meowing. Called the vet and he told me to keep the cat locked and checked from time to time until monday when he'll make a full check on the cat to see what's wrong.\n\nI guess he is in pain, that's why he's violent and obviously he tried first with my daughter since she is the weakest, now that she is gone he has only me to attack.\n\nAny advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I are both 19. My boyfriend's mother is the only draw back to my relationship with him and I'm not sure how to handle her. She claims to be fond of me, but I know she's lying. She never even gave me a chance, even after a year of being together.\n\nMy boyfriend got me a promise ring because we know we want to be together forever. While pretty much everyone else was happy for us, his mom lost her shit and said nasty things about our relationship. She then got her current husband involved. His dad wasn't exactly nice about it either, but regardless, respected the decision. I understand them being concerned since we are young and they married young only to end up unhappy and divorced. However, this woman is one of the biggest hypocrites I have ever met and is essentially a 40-something child. I can't stand her and am not prepared to deal with her for the rest of my life. I have never followed the \"respect your elders\" thing simply because of you give me no respect and are rude to me, I won't respect you, regardless of age. Any advice on how to handle this monster of a woman? I can give examples if need be, it's just a lot to type out a year's worth of hypocrisy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (f/18) was dumped via text by him (m/18) after a 2.5 year relationship because he was not done 'partying' and felt as if we had growing up to do. Commonly these are signs of the 'grass is greener on the other side' syndrome. We just recently graduated and plan to attend college this fall (him at a university, me at a small community college about 30 minutes away.) The relationship was honestly very smooth, we were in love, had many plans and aspirations together and our families adored one another. He showed no signs of disinterest until about a week ago, he started partying more, hanging out with more friends that he normally wouldn't.\n \n\nNow, I had no problem with this, I never asked to join in on his fun time with friends, always offered to be a safe drive home and only asked for simple information in return, when he couldn't produce that information that is when it upset me. He started being shady, putting friends/getting drunk before me especially at times I really needed him and finally ended it 3 days ago. All these newly developed characteristics are highly unlike him, if he comes back and gets his priorities in check what shall I do? This pattern could stop and then continue in college, yet I know school is a number one priority for him.\n \n\nI understand when he said we needed to grow. We've been together most of our high school years. But I also know that was just a diversion from the whole \"I want to go out and party\" and there is nothing better than growing WITH someone and if two people can do that it is truly amazing. Does anyone have experience with a relationship like this? What was it like to move on/do they ever come back and realize how dumb they were being?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She and I have been best friends since we were children and have been through a ton of shit together and are still best friends to this day. \n\nShe liked a guy when we were 19 years old and they had slept together a couple of times. He didn't want a relationship but she did, so she ended it but still had feelings for him.\n\nI do not remember the time in between but he came on to me and I slept with him. She had moved away by this time. Word traveled fast and she found out and confronted me on the phone. She asked if it was just once and I said yes. She asked if I was drunk and I said yes. Both are not true. It was twice and I wasn't drunk. No excuses. I broke the girl code. I was so afraid of losing her that I thought this way she would know kind of what happened and I had a better chance of retaining the friendship. I am honest when I say there was no maliciousness involved in not telling her. Truth is, I was and may still be a coward. Come to find out years later I trickle truthed her. \n\nI have generalized anxiety. For whatever reason lately, this incident is first and foremost in my head when the anxiety hits. I keep thinking I should tell her but it may just be to assuage my own guilt and a way to reduce the emotional pain. I have spoken to my psychologist about this and he said that it was so long ago and she knows the act that happened that there is no need to hurt her again unnecessarily. He seems to think that my anxiety is looking for an outlet and has latched on to this event. I honestly hadn't thought of the event in years. So much has happened in both our lives (marriages, children, etc) that it seems like ancient history. I don't know what to do and would appreciate some outside perspective. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To put things short, I've had a pretty inadequate life so far. I'm ugly, short, underweight and not all that intelligent either.\n\n I have very few skills or interests, I have very few friendships (most of which are dwindling rapidly), I can't speak to women without either mumbling unintelligibly and apologizing in my head to them for daring to come into their presence, and I cannot for the life of me imagine a future where I don't end up killing myself. \n\nOver the years I've developed an almost crippling fear of people my age to the point where I can barely introduce myself to anyone who isn't at least forty years older than me.\nI am ruled by a subconscious council of people who mocked me in the past and I'm pretty much keeping my behaviour in regulation of how they would expect me to behave. I am living as the caricature they established of me, I am fulfilling the future they planned out for me.\nI have almost forgotten what it's like to be content with life, I am ruled by an enormous apathy for my own existence. I can't eat properly, I can't sleep properly, I've tried going to therapy but I always find myself switching off to whatever's said as I believe my perspective to be infallible. Am I really not meant for existence? Just some genetic mishap that wasn't meant to continue living? \nWhat can I do to? I'm pretty much coming to you guys because I have no other outlet to express my pathetic rambling, for almost half a year I've dedicated most of my life to mindlessly browsing Reddit, seeing the interesting lives of others and wishing I had the same. I guess it would be fitting that the life-changing advice that I've been sifting through countless platitudes for comes from the place I most frequent.\n\nI don't particularly want to end up as 'That guy who killed himself' but it's looking more and more likely. I don't want to end up living the life that's apparently been allotted to me. \n\nI'm sorry you read this far.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiancee and I (24 and 25) bought an investment property recently in a C neighborhood in Philadelphia. Costs 70k, piti is 489, and we collect 1250 a month in rent. So were cash flowing pretty damn well, have had no problems getting rent, and besides a bed bug issue no maintenance issues. \n\nWell, on Sunday, we went out with my fiancees grandparents for lunch. They are old, wealthy wasps. on the ride up, my fiancee's mom mentioned that the last time she went out to lunch with them (with two other members of their family) her grandpa had a fit about our rental property. \n\n He was amazed that my fiancees parents would \"let us\" buy a property in Port Richmond (the neighborhood in philly), that it was a crime infested hell hole and that we were in over our heads. The other two family members had to calm him down apparently, as they both were more familiar with Port richmond and knew that while its not the Hamptons, its not a horrible place and has started gentrifying. \n\nMy main issue is the fact that her grandpa was essentially attacking a decision that we had both heavily researched, and has been working out fine, without either of us present to defend it, or give him the concrete facts. Actually i'm having a hard time figuring out how that even came up without us there. Am I over reacting or is he crossing a line?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because my manager is a redditor.\n\nI started work at a college job a few months ago, first started off because I needed money, but now I really love it and I would hate to leave my job. My shifts are timetabled around availability and lectures so sometimes I won't see some of the people on my team for weeks at a time. Worked my first shift with one of my coworkers a couple months ago and my first reaction was that he is totally my type but I should just get over it because I should be professional. Work a couple more shifts with him and we talk during the breaks about our interests, and he'd always greet me with a smile and ask me about my day. He's quite a quiet guy and I see him around every now and again on campus outside of work, but not much.\n\nThen I fucked up and caught feelings. \n\nHere's the kicker: because of timetabling availabilities, I haven't seen him since mid-December and I don't know whether it's weird for me to have feelings for him even though we haven't talked or seen each other for almost a month and a half. He graduates this year so part of me wants to pursue it, but the other part of me really really doesn't want to make things awkward at work. I also know that he's busy with extra-curricular activities and his degree as well, so I don't want to waste his time. I've been to some nights out where I thought that he would go as well with his friends as so I could 'coincidentally bump into him' but he doesn't show for most of them so I haven't hung out with him outside work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As usual, this did not happen today, or even this year. Probably was about 4 years ago, making me around 15.\nI'd been dating this girl (let's call her Emma) on and off for about a year, and by nature of being a stupid 15 year old male, didn't decide to bail permanently during any of the previous breakups.\n\nSo about a month after we get back together once more, I'm at her house, hanging with her and a pair of mutual friends.\nOne of these friends decides to make what he decided was a hilarious comment comparing the nearby beach to the wet spot that had developed on her whilst sitting on my lap.\n\nI laughed.\n\nShe promptly decided to hop up, and walk into the kitchen. Nothing unusual yet, so I'm sitting talking about stupid teenage stuff with my friend, whilst her friend has gone to check on her in the kitchen. They've been in there for a while when my friend decided he's gonna leave, and so I'm left alone, which suits me fine because my teenage brain is hoping I'll get time alone with Emma.\n\nAbout a minute later, Emma emerges with a butchers knife and a smile. It was not a great combination. Her friend is in the hallway behind her, she's watching in a bit of shocked horror. Sensing that my welcome had run out, I stood up, at which point Emma announced she was going to castrate me as a punishment for being a horny teenager.\n\nThe following few moments of my comprehension of the statement and my rapid running the fuck away from her passed very quickly, and in my rush I took a wrong turn and ended up in a linen closet. Fuck.\n\nTurns out that as she was chasing me, her friend tried to grab her arm, got nicked by the knife, and went into shock.\nEmma breaks out of crazy mode and calls out for help. Apparently her protective instincts only extend to her female friends.\n\nAnyway, I end up consoling her friend whilst we wait for her mum to arrive and drive her to the hospital on the pretext of a cooking accident with knives.\n\nNow heres where it gets really bad. I still dated her for another year or so.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, last July I moved in with my boyfriend... And I had to leave my beautiful 5 year old chocolate lab behind in my hometown with some family. It's killing me to be away from her. We currently live in the basement of someone else's house, and they aren't fussy about having another dog around. We planned on moving out of the house this summer and getting our own apartment.. The thing is, animal friendly apartments are hard to come by around here, and me and my boyfriend both work 7 on 7 off and wouldn't get to see her for a week at a time. Even before I left she was always inside moping, I felt so guilty.\n\nI know she's happy where she is now, always going hunting and playing with other dogs, but due to past experiences (being forced to part with animals I loved, promising to take care of a rescue and being unable to do so) I feel obligated to take her with me.\n\nWhat would you do in my situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Im not even going to bother post all the abuse he's done to me, posted that in other places. But\n\n-first visit to the gynecologist, (was 19 then too, thought there was something wrong, wasn't. Lol yeah right, like I'll have sex before 25) and the doctor prodded and was super rough and I came out crying and my dad told both my mom and I \"forget it! It doesn't matter\", \"drop it now!\", etc.\n\n-I had a boyfriend for a year. My father never bothered to meet him. Didn't seem to get too mad at all when I told my parents my boyfriend abused me. \n\n-I have heard nasty things my father said about me when he thought I wasn't listening.\n\nI am in college but there's no way I can move out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in love with my best friend since year 2 of our friendship. He is the only person i trust in this world. \nWhenever he describes his perfect girl, he describes me, i don't even think he realizes it. He even goes so far to say \"I want to marry my best friend\". \nIts confusing, because he shows no interest in me thus-far. We get along great, we joke about & have fun.\nI've loved him for the past four years, when i first realized it, i let him know. But he said didn't want to ruin our friendship. Ever since then I've acted like my feelings aren't there. I even give him helpful realtionship advice.\nHe is the only person i know i could trust in this world. \n\nWhat i want to know is how can i make him fall for me too? How can i show him I'm right for him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl and I dated for a year. I knew her for five years and pretty much fell for her a month after knowing her. Anyway, after a little over a year of dating, she decided that she had feelings for (and cheated on me with) someone she dated once in college, so we broke up. I was very in love with her, and was planning on building my life around her.\n\nI was absolutely devestated for the first two weeks. I relapsed into drinking (I was an alcoholic for a few years, but have sense been gotten dry). I was very depressed and considered suicide for a few days. \n\nIt's been a little older a month since then, and now I feel fine. I'm dating again, and I don't feel positively or negatively about her now. I'm actually probably about to get into another relationship with a girl I've been seeing. The thing is, I still feel like on some level I'm in love with her, but it doesn't seem to affect me. Is this normal, or is there somethig wrong with me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's called Delayed Sleep Phase Syndrome (DSPS). It's like permanent jet lag, and I hate it sooo much. I've tried everything to fix it: sleeping pills at midnight (don't work, just fall into a weird pseudo-sleep state where I have all kinds of random daydreams), try waking up early (literally run at about 40-60% of full functionality, have trouble with abstract concepts and basic math, functionally retarded), I've even stayed up for the entire night, next day and STILL had trouble falling asleep the next night. I've managed to maintain decent grades in all my classes (senior year at WVU currently), but I always get B's or C's in any class before 2 PM. I doubt my drinking habit helps things.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I fell in love with my bestfriend on accident a few years ago. Sometimes I honestly believe we are soulmates as cheesy as that sounds. We finish each other sentences and I still feel my heart skip a beat whenever I think about him. Even just holding him sends electricity through my body. I just don't know if this is residual sexual attraction based on the chemical component or if its more. The only problem though is that in terms of a relationship we both wanted completely different things and were not on the same continuum. I got frustrated and begin almost hating him and pushed him away and actually ended up marrying someone else without him ever knowing. [I got married because that's what you do at my age. I wanted something solid] At this point I am overcome with guilt as neither my husband nor this man know the extent to my relationship with each of them.[My husband and I have a great relationship and all my needs are being met] however, I cannot stop seeing, thinking, or lying to my bestfriend. I imagine having a full fledged affair with him if you can even call it that as he has no idea that it'd be an affair. So reddit, what do I do? My heart, soul, and body want one guy and my head says youre a moron for even thinking about divorce as my bestfriend is not ready for that sort of commitment either way and my husband is a wonderful guy. Do i just lose both of them and blame myself for being selfish bitch and come clean? Do I have the affair and hope that my feelings are just pent up sexual tension? Or do I just cut all ties and go on with my marriage?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Original Post](\n\nTurns out it wasn't a \"date\". So no-go on the physical contact/ kiss lol. So we met at the dining hall, she grabbed a booth, and we sat down and all. She then excused herself and invited a friend(male) to come sit with us who was sitting alone. Then a moment later, another friend of hers(girl) came to sit with us. I'm confused as to why she did this- instead of wondering why, getting back up and going back out there. Talked with her and her friends, but I distanced myself from the conversation thinking it would just be us two. The previous 3 dates it was just me and her, exception to one meeting on V-Day where her friend joined us for lunch. But anyway, First time dating a girl overall- first time ever in college, it's been good, gained some confidence and I could apply that to the next girl out there. No one said it was easy unfortunately. I'll keep the window open, but the chase with them ends. \n\n*Thought about it: might ask her where we stand, dating over a month, could be she might want me to get me to meet her friends?- I'm probably overreacting.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been working with Steve* for a little over a year. He has always been obviously fond of me and has brought me coffee/breakfast etc. in the past. He asked me for my number about 7-8 months ago and I kind of blew him off.\n\nHere lately he has been trying again to get me to talk to him, so I caved and gave him my number. Turns out, we actually have a lot in common and we have been having great conversation the past few days. He is being pretty obvious about the fact that he really likes me and is looking for something serious.\n\nHowever.... he is still technically married. He is separated to be exact. And he's a coworker. He's a manager in his department and I'm an assistant manager in a different department. Our company doesn't necessarily frown on interoffice relationships though and he's not in a position of authority over me. \n\nI just don't know what to do. I don't know if this is a can of worms I should open, or if I should just go with my gut - I feel like this could be a really good thing.\n\nAnother facet of this is that I'm white and I've never dated a black man (he's black). I have dated outside my race, but just not a black guy. Please read on, this becomes relevant. It definitely wasn't due to lack of attraction - it just happened that way. \n\nHe asked me if I had ever dated a black guy before (he's black) and I said that I hadn't. I asked him if he'd ever dated a white girl before and he said he actually prefers white women. Is this a fetish thing? That's another concern I'm having. \n\nWhat do you think, reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and he doesn't like to sugar coat things. Ever. I admittedly can be really sensitive and hot headed but we usually manage to talk things out and find common ground. \n\nHowever - and I know this may seem like a really small thing, but it really hurt my feelings - yesterday as I was cooking us dinner he said something really hurtful. Let me give you some context:\n\nWe both love steak. I love to cook and I make a pretty bad ass steak, which he loves also. I wanted to try something new, something called a gizo which involves putting steak in a food processor/blender with a tomato sofrito. \n\nHe comes into the kitchen just after I sear the steak and sees me about to put it in my blender. \"You're gonna put that in a blender? What a waste of steak.\" \n\nI gave him a wtf face and told him what he said was uncalled for. \n\nHe thinks I'm overreacting. But it hurt my feelings. Am I wrong?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've started sleeping with this amazing guy and our sexual chemistry is out of this world, mind blowing good. For reasons unbeknownst to me we are incredibly comfortable and intimate and loving in the bedroom. We both recognise that it's like we've skipped 6 months ahead sexually though we've only been seeing each other 2 weeks. \n\nIm concerned about the massive imbalance now that we've agreed to date and be exclusive. We know each other so intimately in one way, but out of the bedroom we are essentially still acquaintances. The chemistry doesn't really match up so I feel a little awkward working backwards and getting to know him on a personal level, it's a little hard to look him in the eye outside the bedroom.\n\nWe have yet to go on a date or see a movie/tv show the whole way through. It's essentially been a 2 week bang fest. I know a solution would be to force these getting-to-know-you dates, but now it feels stupid and awkward to try and force conversation after things have been so effortless otherwise.\n\nWe get a long and laugh a lot, but always in the bedroom alone. It got really weird and uncertain when we were out together socialising with mutual friends once. I hated it. Now avoiding those scenarios massively, but it's self defeating to what I want. \n\nWill it even out? How can I get to know him quickly and comfortably? I'm so damn awkward I can't stand it. Help", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi ! I was just DD'ing for my friends on a saturday night. I have expired plates as of may 30th and my insurance proof was at home. A cop pulled me over to tell me that my plates were expired. I understand I should not have been driving but I have been late on getting them renewed (this is in canada by the way).\n\nThe officer took my license and asked me for my proof of insurance, I did not have it so I told him so. He gave me back my license and did not ticket me or anything, he merely told me to meet him at the station before his shift tomorrow and bring the insurance proof. Currently am I in trouble? \n\nThe problem is the station is way across the city and I don't want to drive without my plates renewed. If I did not make the trip to show him my insurance proof tomorrow as he requested will he be able to ticket me or arrest me, he does have my name and license number and all the information on the license but the address on my license is not mine.. what I really want to know is that as of right now if I do not drive my car until I have my tags and insurance up to date and do not provide the documents the police officer asked me to provide will I be in trouble", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened 11 years ago, and I still laugh about it.\n\nI was in the car with my dad, when some douche bag sideswiped him. It was a minor accident, no one got hurt, and nothing was ridiculously damaged, but my dad was PISSED. Mind you, he's a foreigner (he ain't from Amuuurrriiicaaaa, mahn!), and up until that point in my life, I had heard my dad mess up some phrases here and there. He always pronounced things weirdly, forget to inflect, mistook his \"his\" and \"her\"s, etc. But this one took the cake. As soon as the other driver pulled over, my dad got out of the car, and while waving his hands in the air, he screamed as the other guy tried to talk:\n\n\"SHUT YOUR SHIT! SHUT IT! DO YOU NOT HEAR ME? SHUT YOUR ASS! SHUT YOUR ASS OR I WILL FUCK IT!\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for the long post. Every guy/girl feels that their partner is perfect, I'm just trying to hold on to mine.\n\nBasically me and my girl started dating a few months ago and everything was great. Things were low-key in the sense that there was no PDA on social media and we kept the pictures of trips we shared to ourselves. We enjoyed this obscurity but obviously our really close friends knew.\nIt started with our friends randomly tagging us in couple-y/lovey stuff on Facebook but since this wasnt a lot we didn't mind, plus the feeling a lot of people shipping(?) us felt nice. This is where I feel things turned bad. I kinda got carried away by the whole attention and just started posting romantic stuff on her wall or pictures instead of PMing her like before and the attention and \"awww you guys so cute\" kept on piling up.\nUnknowingly, this also cultivated a culture of people identifying us as one person instead of our own individual identities, she'd be addressed as my girlfriend more than her name and it's something neither of us approved.\nLast night she confronted me saying the relationship had become difficult for her and she was having second thoughts, despite loving me. She feels she lost her individuality as a person and we lost our own personal space as a relationship and there were way too many people involved in this and she felt suffocated and backed against a wall.\nI'm glad we talked out everything in detail especially how our conversations lately got so uncomfortable that it was apparent that we were trying too hard.\n\nShe agreed to give me another chance but told me it's all over if things don't change. The obvious thing is to reduce social media presence again and switch back over to personal messaging and calls. But what else can I do? Also her being on another continent over the summer with like a 6 hour time difference doesn't help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both current university students - she's working for the upcoming term and as a result has her apartment rented out. We're really close, so she reached out to me and asked if she could stay over at my place tomorrow night, due to the fact she has an exam the following day. We first started talking a couple years ago because I had a massive crush on her. \n\nI'm sure I'm overthinking everything here, because to my knowledge she's never had a crush on me. We've joked that if we're both still single by our late 20's we'd start dating. I definitely still have some romantic feelings for her, and wouldn't be opposed to something more happening tomorrow. \n\nAs of this moment, I'm going to pick her up tomorrow night from the bus stop, she's going out for a drink with some old friends then she's going to come back and we're going to watch Game of Thrones together. The TV is in my room and the only real sitting space is my bed.... which I also said she could have for the night.\n\nI guess my predicament is should I make a move? I think I want to but I don't know what kind of reaction to expect...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a long distance relationship for the last 5 years. We live over 250 miles away from each other, and have done since the beginning, apart from a few years when I was at uni, I lived a lot closer to my SO.\n\nAfter uni I moved back to my home town, riddled with guilt that I barely saw my family in 3 years, because I spent almost every weekend at my partners (which I feel extremely guilty about). We have always been ok with the distance, there are obviously times when it's harder than others.\n\nWe're now seeing less and less of each other and I'm really starting to struggle, I'm lucky if I get a whole weekend with him every month. He works 6 days a week, so him staying with me is almost out of the question, and I can't afford any more than I already pay on travel.\n\nWe have discussed getting a place together, but the issue of where to live becomes an issue. I have looked at properties in his area, and for a start I wouldn't be able to afford rent, never mind the increased cost of living. \n\nI told him tonight that I don't think I could live far from my family. My parents are older than his, and I worry about them not having any family near them as they get older. He, on the other hand has an extremely large extended family, all of which live within a 5 mile radius.\n\nAm I being selfish for now wanting to move near them? When I told my SO how I felt, his response was \"well, we have a problem\". He did however say that he would move up to me, but he still has courses he needs to complete with work.\n\nHe told me that I'm acting like a child and didn't understand the issue of me moving away because I would still see my parents every fortnight. Surely if travelling weren't an issue I would see my SO more often than that?!\n\nI'm feeling so conflicted, and feel selfish for not wanting to leave my parents. I love my SO, and I want to be with him, but we have hit this major fork in the road and I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (M- 21) was in a very loving relationship for over a year with my ex (F-20) until mid-June when we realized that we both did not want to try the long distance thing (We both got into uni's and she's staying near home and I've moved out of state). We were very civil about it and both agreed to remain friends. It was awesome until recently- we would talk frequently all the time about everything. \n\nNow she has a new boyfriend and I have slipped into a phase of pseudo-depression because I just cannot handle the idea of some other guy with a woman I still very much love. I have issues with self-worth and this has been awful for me. We have talked about it and I have resolved to do some soul searching and trying to work on myself. I am very supportive of her and her choices and want to preserve a friendship with her (she was by far my best friend before we dated and I trust no one else more than her). \n\nWhat can I do to expedite my healing process? She was the first relationship I've ever had so that might explain why I'm being such a dipshit about all this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: I'm female and in college, with no prior relationship experience.\n\nSo this fall I transferred to a school ~100 miles from my hometown. My best friend, we'll call her J, is stuck in a dead-end job and borderline abusive living situation, and was very resentful of me leaving. (I'd tried several times to get her out of there and into community college, but she never had the drive to do so.) She only started speaking to me again in November.\n\nA few weeks ago I started dating a guy I met through a different friend, and while it's far from serious, it's been going very well. Naturally I wanted to share this exciting new development with J, even if she's not really the girl-talk type. At first I got some good-natured ribbing about it, but then she turned hostile, saying I was desperate and turning into our mutual friend who cannot function without a boy in her life. (I dared express mild annoyance at having to wait over winter break to pick up where he and I had left off.)\n\nIn the past she has stalked and harassed both a celebrity and a guy we went to high school with, and she's already found my guy on facebook and has openly threatened to smother my relationship in its metaphorical cradle if I don't perform for her amusement like a trained monkey. I've asked her both nicely and not-so-nicely to leave him out of this, but she always counters with \"You know I'll do it.\" I'm not entirely sure the friendship is worth saving at this point. How do I get her to stop or just cut her from my life with as little danger to myself as possible?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Met a girl last night at a party, we talked ages and then exchanged numbers, she invited me for a drink at a bar this evening, earlier when I texted her about what time she wanted to go she says she might not be able to go due to studying.\nI played it cool and said to text me later to say whether she is coming or not. \n\nI'm not sure how to go forward, we got on really well last night and she suggested the date and location, is her excuse legit? Should I try to setup an alternate date when (if) she texts later or contact her tomorrow morning about a new date? I've read that you should be positive and let the other person know you definitely want to spend time with them. I want to show her I'm interested without seeming desperate to go out with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I should really say run/walk, I am no where near advanced enough to simply \"run\".\n\nI'll try to stick to the \"need to knows\" and keep this short-ish...\n\nI trained last fall for a half marathon, I ended up not run/walking in the official marathon(financial issues) so instead went to a park where I normally do my thing, I ran/walked the 13.1 miles on my own(my time was 3:11:17). That was in October. November I barely ran (maybe 10 days total, including a 10k, but most of the other runs were 1.5-3 miles). I did not run at all in December or January, and I started running 2-4 days a week mid way through February and have been consistent with that up until last week when I dropped the ball(kind of messy break up).\nSo I haven't ran any more that 3 miles since November, and am feeling really unprepared for this half marathon I am signed up for on March 11th. I have a friend who is amazingly supportive and wants me to go for it, but I just feel I am going to make a fool of myself(we have a 4 hour time limit) or worse, end up hurting myself. \nI know only I know my own body in the end, but with the information at hand, any advice, opinions would be greatly appreciated. I am teetering in the middle so I thought some advice from strangers that know something about running might be able to help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mom is angry that I'm pregnant, I'm happily married(for one year) and this is a planned baby. My husband[31m] is extremely excited about the baby and can't wait.\n\nWhen we told my mother her first reaction was to tell us not to have a baby. She told me it would make my husband hate me.\n\nNow thats she realized I'm keeping the baby, she's trying to force me to have either my tubes tied or a full hysterectomy after birth. My husband and I might want another baby in 5 years or so, so obviously I want to keep everything functioning.\n\nShe cant force me to give up my reproductive rights but how can I make her stop? She's even tried to call my OB. My mom never wanted me to have children or get married, so now she's disappointed in me and tries to make me miserable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She was a healthy weight at the start of college but she's gained at least 50 to 60 pounds since the beginning of college. She's also pre-diabetic. She has a family history of diabetes as well. She hates exercise. \n\nI mainly want her to lose weight not because of how she looks but because of her health. Hell yea, I'd love it if she was thinner, but it's not the looks that bother me; she's an awesome girlfriend regardless. I mean it. Yeah I got some flak from my best friends in the beginning but I told them to can it and I don't have any issues with her weight except in one way (below). \n\nShe wanted to enter a long-term, long-distance relationship with me, and I did too. However, I was thinking I'd rather not deal with any avoidable health problems of hers down the road. I don't want her to call me one day and be like \"Yeah, I'm diabetic, and I'm going to have to take insulin every day for the rest of my life and eat this and not that and you have to watch out for signs of hyperglycemia in me, etc.\" I'd much rather not deal with that along with the emotional fallout. Yeah, I do realize we're both only 21 and this is unlikely to be the last relationship for either of us. Still, that's not something I need on my mental in the possibility \n\nLet me be clear - I'd rather not deal with any avoidable health problems on her side. If she was in a car accident or something, then hell yeah, I would go drive whatever distance to see her. I actually had a seizure the other week for the first time (right out of the blue; no family history) and she drove 200+ miles to see me. I'd do the same for her. But I'd rather not have to deal with preventable stuff like diabetes and heart problems from not watching her own weight. She already deals with pretty bad heartburn and back pain. I biked to the store to get her Tums and give her regular massages because I care. Fortunately, heartburn and back pain are relatively minor issues. Am I selfish or what?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hating someone is not in my blood really. You can learn to love anybody if you know their story. We broke up because things got hard and distance sucked. We were in an open relationship too which was a mistake but I now know I am not capable of one and if I knew I would never cheat before, I now absolutely know. She had a regular and I didn't. \n\nI miss her a lot but have kinda replaced her conversations with this girl I really like, but I can't get the feeling of insecurity out from the sex she was having. I don't hate her and will never, myst trust hasn't been shattered. But I just get sick thinking about her with other people. It has gotten worse after being better for a week or so. \n\nBy the way the new girl I have been talking too is home on break and we have not had sex yet, though it is very open that we will when she is back. \n\nHow do I get over the insecurity? Is it easier to get over someone you learn to hate?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello,\n\nBackground info on myself - I'm a fresh college grad looking for a first credit card away from my parents. I have a credit score of 789 (according to Chase, who declined my credit card application, 785 according to my most recent inquiry on creditkarma). I have had a credit card in my name for the last 11 years with a $6500 spending limit that I have been using for gas and small purchases, which is paid off in full every month by my parents, so I don't have any late payments on my credit score. I also have a student loan on my credit report, which has been paid off within the 6-mo no interest grace period. \n\nBackground on the situation - I was pre-approved for the Chase Sapphire Preferred Card about a month ago when I opened a bank account. 2 weeks ago I applied online, and a week ago I was denied for \"Few revolving accounts opened long enough to establish credit history, Not enough accounts opened long enough to establish a credit history.\" My understanding is that these reasons basically mean I haven't had credit history for long enough. Which is very strange considering I was pre-approved, nothing new has come up in my credit report since then, and I've had a decent sized spending limit credit card opened for 11 years, and a loan which had been opened for a few years.\n\nMy question is - Is it worth it to contact Chase for more information? Is it possible that there was some sort of mistake? Or is normal for someone of my credit record?\n\nSide question - If there's no point in contacting Chase about it, what are some other cards you might recommend? I was looking at the Capital One Venture Rewards card or the CO VentureOne Rewards Card.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time poster, please be gentle!!\n\nSo a little backstory, I'm 17 and I have a handicapped placard because back in July I broke part of my spine in a weird, stair-related accident. I'm perfectly okay now, but walking long distances still hurts. I generally try to park without using the placard, but if there are no spaces or the only spaces available are really far away, I'll park in a handicapped spot. \n\nNow, I live in a town KNOWN for having almost nothing but old people and beaches- it's basically a retirement community. A lot of the old people have handicapped cards just for being old. I tend to get a lot of glares when I walk out of my car after parking with the placard up because I appear fine. \n\nToday, I went to the grocery store and was looking for a spot to park when I noticed someone had parked across two handicapped spots and a crosswalk. I was in more pain with my back than usual, and this really pissed me off. \nSo I did what any logical human would do. \nI parked a few spaces down, went to the cart return, and absolutely surrounded their car with at least 20 empty carts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Up until last week everything seemed fine to me. We were not fighting and there were no major issues. Then seemingly out of the blue he was depressed/upset for a few days, then he broke it off with me via email. A day later he asked to talk about it and he decided he wants to stay together to work on the problems together (apparently he felt like he was losing himself and it was all about me, although he said I did nothing to make him feel that way, it was his mindset).\n\nI ended up taking him back but I am not sure if I am ignoring a huge red flag here. This was completely out of character and I feel like everyone makes mistakes, but am I being a doormat?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The basics: 28 years old, I make $15/hour, I have zero savings and I have approximately 10k in credit card debt. I make about $1,900/month after taxes. I am currently looking for a job that pays more and also offers a 401K and insurance, because my current one does neither.\n\nI've recently moved into my parent's house in order to get a handle on this. \n\nI'm not paying rent, utilities or any other bills. My parents are generous to keep the kitchen stocked and we make dinner every night, so my food expenses are low. I essentially just need to buy gas, personal toiletries and the occasional food item. \n\nUsing unbury.us, I determined that if I put $1,500 toward my debt, I can pay it off by April 2016. I'm using the snowball method. My interest rates are 22.9% (this one will be paid off on August 5), 19.99%, 19.24% and 14.24%. \n\nThis will give me $400/month to live on, which considering I have no expenses except my debt and buying gas, is fine for now. \n\nHowever....I'm wondering if it would be wiser to put less toward my debt and start putting something into savings? So take longer to pay off debt, but have be able to put something into a separate savings account that I won't be spending.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst off, I live in Illinois. I am 23 and graduated college with a BA in mathematics this May. I was not going for this, it just kind of happened. I was originally going for my teaching certificate to teach high school and middle school math. I completed all my classes except for student teach. I did not student teach because I did not pass my content area test (which is math) and you have to pass this before you student teaching. I took the test 5 times with no luck. I think my test stress and general lack of knowledge in math is why I can't pass. Although I know enough about math to get my degree in it. So who knows. Illinois passed a law recently that you can only take the content area test five times. So they are letting me take it one more time if I wanted. I did not take it, and decided just to graduate with my math degree. I always think about trying to take it one more time, or to try to get my certification in another state. My husband and I are willing to move anywhere (although preferable by the beach). I am just afraid that I will never be able to pass the math test and therefore wasting my time. Also, I am not even sure how to start trying to get my certification in another state. I already wasted a lot of time and money taking all the education classes and don't really want to have to take them all again. \n\nI have been working at daycares most my life. But just recently quit because my husband got a job and I hated it. Just a few days ago, I was asked to take this management position of people who sell perfumes and colognes. I have never been a manager, and don't really know if I want to. It pays well and would be a change, but I think my heart is still with teaching. Although, with all that has happens makes me want to yell \"screw teaching\" and forget all about it.\n\nSo my question is, should I continue to try to teach, which is what I always wanted to do, or take this management job? Should I do management for a few years as I try to get my certification?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's a girl that I've liked for awhile that today I had over. Was almost positive she was interested, heard a lot of things from her and others that said it. She came over and I shared Pulp Fiction with her. We ended up holding hands, but that's all, and being stupid, I mentioned another guy in school a lot of people thought she had a thing with. Though we're meeting in the morning to head to school together and have agreed to a lunch in the future, after mentioning the other guy and seeing other weird signals when flirting strongly, not sure where to take it, what she's thinking and what my next move should be. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex told me on the weekend just gone that she is around 3 months pregnant, I had no idea, and didn't tell me until now that she is pregnant.\n\nWe met yesterday to talk about what to do, in which she explained that this was her decision and doesn't want me to be a part of their lives but would feel guilty for not telling me.\n\nPersonally I do not want a child for financial and emotional reasons. So, the idea that I am going to be a father never the less, and she really doesn't want me to be a part of it, is putting a lot of strain on my moral compass to whether I actually want a relationship with this child.\n\nI'm just not sure if I'm making a massive mistake and would like advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 26, 63 inches, 110lbs. I run 2.5 miles about once a week, I have a desk job. \n\nI started monitoring my blood pressure since I got a 145/95 rate at the eye doctor. I am prone to white coat syndrome. Whenever I've had high blood pressure at the doctor, I've made that excuse. But the eye doctor is an EASY one for me. Since I've been monitoring, my blood pressure has never been in the \"green\" range. I take readings at morning, midday, and night. I've been writing down everything I eat and drinking, looking at salt intake and caffeine. It isn't high.\n\nThis morning, right out of bed and before my coffee, 125/112. Wow. I did drink last night and eat salty snacks, but my god.\n\nIn general, I'm an anxious person. I've broken out in hives during interviews and if there isn't a way to order food from a place online instead of over the phone, I don't order. \n\nLately, I have a reason to be anxious. I'm currently facing moving to my boyfriend's home state 500 miles from here. I haven't told my work or my family about it, and I'm dreading breaking the news. I haven't had a good night of sleep in months.\n\nI have nightmares, cheek biting, tooth grinding almost every night. I'm tired all the time. I get headaches. I cry easily.\n\nSo, I guess my question is what do I go to the doctor looking to treat? Could I be genetically predisposed to have high blood pressure, or is the BP another symptom of my anxiety? I've never taken anything for anxiety because I'm afraid to. My mom was taking something years ago and she just wasn't the same person. I don't want to be that way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had two serious relationships prior to this one, both with women. They had no problem with me being bisexual and it was something known before the relationship -- my first girlfriend was also bisexual.\n\nI am now in a relationship with a guy. We've been exclusive for about a month. Having never faced this issue, I come to you, Reddit.\n\nIs this something that he needs to know? Is it really relevant to a hetero relationship, regardless of if one of the participants in the relationship is bisexual?\n\nIf you guys think it is necessary, when do you think is the right time? I think my biggest fear is losing him because of it. I know that I should be with someone who is fine with who I am, but I really like the guy and I'd hate for my sexual orientation to be the thing that kills this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Broke up as she was confused about the relationship, started getting quite distant etc. Should say it was kind of a rebound relationship, however both our feelings were genuine and at least for the first 2 months we did want to make it work. She has had no contact with that ex since their split (too much hurt feelings between the two).\n\nFast forward a few weeks and she's sending messages again saying she wants things to go back to normal and be friends. She's wanting to hang out alot, i've declined three times, but did meet up to go christmas shopping. It was a little awkward and the hug at the end was... not friendly, very awkward. \n\nNow a few weeks after this, she wants me to attend her birthday (sent me a facebook invite and a message) just hoping i can come.\n\nShould also add that she has a new 'friend', who im supposed to know nothing about but unfortunately my friend knows him. He has also been invited, but god only knows if they are in a relationship (i have never asked, as i should not really know). \n\nNow as i'm on here, you can tell i still have feelings for her, but if you were in my position, what would you do? Bearing in mind i only know her and a mutual friend, the rest of the people i don't have a clue who they are. \n\nWhy on earth would a woman want to remain friends with a 3 month relationship (with whom she went distant from)? Should also note it's not alot of communication, it's literally maybe once a week or two since our split 4 months ago (yes 4 MONTHS...)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I want to keep this short. Earlier this week my wife of four years decided to tell me she is bi-sexual and is tired of having to suppress her desire to be with a woman. I need to note here that I have never said one way or the other that it is wrong, she just felt like it would upset me. We have had an open conversation about the situation, and out of my trying to respect her and wanting her to be herself I told her that where I was a little uncomfortable with it, if that's what she wanted then I will do my best to be okay with it. \n\nReality is, I am not really okay with the situation. She has offered to include me and the other girl in certain sexual acts which at first sounded like a great thing, but the more I think about it, the more I hate the idea. I have basically become bummed out, feeling that I am no longer enough to satisfy her, and I do not want to have an open relationship or whatever this is considered. The hard part is at the same time I don't want to deny her who she is, or be a dickhead and put some kind of boundary on her. Guess I'm just not sure what to do. Anyways thanks for reading. I know this is a pretty common thing.\n\nThe other biggest and hardest thing about all of this, is my wife has a girl she is interested in already. She was honest about meeting her and everything, and is already arranging to meet up with the other girl. I've read some of the text messages and they are more flirtatious, more loving, and more exciting than anything I ever get from my wife. This is where my heart broke. Now I feel stupid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to make this as brief as I can.\n\nMy girlfriend and I started dating during our junior year in high school and we ended up going to the same university. When we first moved in, we were both a bit overwhelmed, and it was really helpful to the both of us that we had each other during the transition. \n\nSince I have always adjusted pretty easily to new situations, I started to become pretty comfortable around week 3. I have gotten know a ton of people, I've made new friends and I've been doing very well in all my classes.\n\nShe, on the other hand, has been having a tougher time. She feels like she hasn't made any friends, is really struggling in her classes, and she's feeling pretty lost. I've been doing everything I can to be there for her, and spend all the time with her that I can, but it seems like we're on two different wavelengths.\n\nOne of the main reasons we're running into trouble is that since I'm meeting a ton of people and having a great time, she's worried that she's holding me back from everything. The thing is, I want to meet new friends and everything, but I wanna do it with her. I always try to get her to hang out with my friends, but she never seems happy. When I ask her why, she always says \"they're your friends, you all know each other.\"\n\nIt's beginning to feel like I have to choose between her and my friends, and I don't want that. I love being with her, but it seems like lately, I'm all she has. \n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated! Sorry for the long post!\n\n(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not sure if I posted in the right subreddit...\n\nI've always felt like my whole life that my dad has hated me and not wanted to be a part of my life. I can't even \nsay, \"hi.\" to him without it being weird. I have never had a full conversation with him. When I was younger he \nwas an asshole to my mom to the point even family couldn't believe she put up with him. Like, he's an arrogant \ndickhead. He thinks he's fucking perfect and never makes mistakes. He has no problem calling anyone stupid for \nany reason. I'm 30. I didn't live with my parents from 18 to 28.. Recently had to move back because I couldn't \nafford to live anywhere else. It's so weird that we can't even say, \"hi\" but he'll gladly yell at me for random \nthings. I asked my sister recently if she felt the same way as me and she did. I also asked my mom if he even \nwanted children. She said he did but I don't believe her. I just feel like what the hell did I do to make you \nhate me?? I talk to friends about this weird relationship and actually have one that has a similar one but \neveryone else doesn't. I still even try to do nice things for him! Hate myself for that... so I stopped. \nIt's pretty pathetic, I'm trying to not even acknowledge him anymore.", "role": "user" } ]

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