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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there redditors! \n\nFirst of all I'd like to apologize for my English, but as you will see (I hope not), I'm not a native speaker.\n\nI'm 23-year-old who recently graduated from university and just stared my first job. Now, you see, my job is interesting and all, but it's an office job and I feel I'm not suited for this. I'm the adventures type, I want something happening around me and going to work from 9 to 6 is just killing me.\n\nThe one thing that I thought of is a bike trip mostly in Europe, Asia and North Africa. The problem is that I'm from a country with an average salary around 350 euros or 450 USD. My salary is a bit higher - around 450 euros, but still not enough according to what I read is needed for such a trip, witch is about 30000 USD.\n\nMy question is if somebody has done something like this without any money and if they have some tips for me. I'm thinking about sleeping outdoors or helping some locals for food and a place to crash. Is this something that could work out? I'm planning to go with my girlfriend and I think not too many people would take us in.\n\nAny help would be greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So finals week is happening at my uni next week and I've been killing my hours cramming my head in books and revisiting notes. One of my study partners planned to go to the library this morning at 9AM and stay all day, to which I responded, \"I'll swing by around 10 and study with you\", and I was totally going to do that, but I decided to stay in bed until 2 because I was tired. I show up at the library with my Lakers shirt on since they played in my city the previous evening and I forgot to rep the shirt then, and my partner smiles and says,\"Oh you're a lakers fan? I have something to tell you. Guess who I met about 2 hours ago\". Turns out the Lakers practiced at my Uni's gym today before they headed off to the next stop on their road trip. So fuck. I missed my last chance to meet Swaggy P and the Black Mamba before he retires. He is literally 1% of the world that has met Kobe Bryant in person and held a conversation with him. Fuck me. Fuck me being lazy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As mentioned before, I'm 19 years old. My mom has given me a deadline of a month to move out. I have no credit score yet, and working on finding an apartment. Right now I work about 25 hours a week, and since I've working fairly long at my job, I'm hoping to work with my scheduling manager to get more hours. I also have a car insurance payment coming up at the same time, and am pretty broke.\n\nMy checking and savings accounts are student accounts under her account. I'm going to see about moving to my own account if possible. I'm under 5/3 bank. I also have a savings account that my grandma left me for emergencies after she passed away. However, even though I am of age, they won't let me access it without my mom being there. I'm not sure if my mom would be malicious enough to use that account. It's technically with my other two accounts, also under hers. Is there anything I can do? \n\nAlso, I'm still fairly uncertain of the process of getting an apartment, and am having a hard time finding any listings. I want to stay fairly low budget, but am willing to pay more to stay in my nicer area for a sense of security. Any tips on apartment searching, apartment life, etc would be much appreciated. \n\nI won't be on too much for a couple of hours as i'm going to take my boyfriend job-hunting, but I'll be back soon to see if anyone has replied. Thanks for your time!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up about a month ago because we were long-distance. We’d been together for about a year with an 8 hour time difference. He told me he couldn’t handle being so far apart from me anymore and it was causing him a lot of stress. I felt the same way too; I had a lot of anxiety, and so we decided to stay as friends. We still talked regularly as if nothing had changed, except that we cut the “I love you’s” and pet names. But 2 weeks ago I found out that he has a new girlfriend. I was more upset about the fact that he didn’t tell me about it. I suppose because we were friends now we could talk about anything, especially about something as major as that. He said he was afraid to “lose” me if he’d told me.\n\nHe still talks to me regularly. I try to avoid him when I can now. I thought he’d rather focus on his new relationship, and so I started talking to a guy on Tinder. We’d meet regularly, mainly for sex. At some point I just forgot to check my phone so I was avoiding calls and texts from my ex. He then asked me if he’d done something wrong because he felt that I was avoiding him. \n\nWhen I told him I was seeing someone, he became really upset/jealous and even said that I deserve better than a guy who just wants to fuck me. We talked for 3 hours about this, and he admitted that he still has feelings for me, that he really loves me but the distance is holding us back. He said his girlfriend is great but not as “amazing” as me. He missed the connection we had. I feel the same way. And now I think we’re equally confused. We’re not going to stop seeing our new partners because we’ll just go back to square one.\n\nJust at a loss of what to do here. Should we go NC? (it’s going to hurt so much) Should I pay him a visit and try again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating this guy for about three months. Last month I went to his buddies [M] house and the three of us were hanging out when their friend [F] showed up crying and upset. I talked to her about things and we really hit it off, and I was super happy to make a new friend as well as get along with my BF's friends. I have texted with her and hung out with her, and I genuinely feel she is a real friend. \n\nThen yesterday my friend since childhood [30F] came over and we were celebrating the end of a string of long shifts at work. We were pretty drunk. So my BF and the female friend came over, started drinking too. My childhood friend asked new female friend if her and my BF went to school together, or how they met, just making drunk meeting new people conversation. They neither one will say, until finally they admit they used to date. \n\nMy problem is figuring out how to be grown up about this. I don't distrust either of them, I have no thoughts whatsoever that they are going to hook back up... I just don't like it and can't sift through my feelings to find the actual reason why I'm so upset about this. At this point I just don't want to see or hang out with either of them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my GF and I have been together for just over half a year and enjoy a great relationship, we are very understanding and communicate well. The main issue is that my gf is a little bit of a \"follower\" when it comes to her friends. She always tries to please everyone rather than make compromises and has trouble saying no to her friends.\n\nThis is a perfect example of that. In Australia we have this massive event called schoolies after graduating high school where graduates gather, usually along the beach in Queensland to drink, do drugs and just celebrate the end of high school in general. Well My GF's friends basically said that they don't want me to come with her cause they want it to be a \"girl's thing\". And of course my gf agrees and doesn't counter or say why she wants me to come. She's just like \"well I tried but the girls don't want you there.\" And this isn't just for a few nights it's a whole two weeks of her going up there. \n\nShe was raised in a very strict Jewish household so she is definitely going to be drinking, smoking pot and doing drugs as a way of rebelling against her parents. Which is all fine cause I like that stuff too, I just feel like I'm missing out on all the fun, you know?\n\nAlso lastly my gf is incredibly good looking, has a very nice body and her face is very symmetrical (attractive). Whenever we go to clubs or bars together she gets approached by at least 3 or 4 guys a night so is it wrong for me to be worried about that sort of stuff??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I have had minor crushes in the past and I have told him about them, and he was okay with it. A few months ago I developed a crush on a guy in my classes. I looked him up on Facebook and saw that he liked one of my favorite bands. I have one of their band t-shirts and I like to wear it out in public because I love when someone makes a positive comment about it. I was excited when I saw that he liked the band and decided to wear it to class. I wanted to talk to him about the band because I was excited to meet someone who likes it, but I guess a part of me also wanted him to be impressed/attracted to me. I would NEVER do anything remotely romantic or sexual with him, though. \n\nHe didn't notice, so I wore the shirt again a few weeks later. He noticed that time and complimented me on the shirt, and I immediately felt extremely guilty and basically cut off the conversation after saying \"it's one of my favorite bands.\" I feel like I cheated in some way and I've been beating myself up over it for weeks. Should I tell my boyfriend about this, or do you think it's too minor of a situation/it would do more harm than good?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how...\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend's mum has anxiety (pretty bad from what I know), however, she's also still a responsible parent for 3 children. She abuses my girlfriend by saying things such as \"you're the worst thing to happen to me in the world\" and abuses her for moving away with me. If my girlfriend disagrees with her on anything she then gets verbally abusive again. \n\nNow, me and my girlfriend of 4 years live together, and have been relatively happy, but my girlfriend gets incredibly upset at me whenever I get angry about something her mum does. For example, her mother recently suggested just \"dumping\" her 3 children to go live with a love interest in another country. \n\nMost recently, her mother was staying in our apartment and was supposed to leave at a designated time in order to arrive for a plane. I stayed home from university (because I don't feel comfortable leaving someone alone in my house and my girlfriend was at work) so I could make sure the house was locked up when I left. However, her mum constantly complained she was going to miss her flight (I assured her if she left soon she most certainly would not), to which she rung her boyfriend, made herself a coffee and sat down for a chat, whilst still complaining she was going to miss the flight. She didn't leave for another 2 hours and prevented me from leaving. \n\nI vented about this to my girlfriend to which I was told I was \"being a f***head\" about. I'm considering removing myself from this altogether, as in breaking up and moving out as she can't understand my anger towards her mother or tolerate it at any stage and I don't feel it's my place to force someone to cut off their mother.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit! I have a bit of medical history to address super fast, but I'll split it up. Thank you in advance. ( F , 18 y/o )\n\nOctober 2015 I got my first UTI. They started to come back every 4-6 weeks. I was referred to see a nephrologist. He diagnosed me with kidney disease after having an ultrasound and revealing I have seemingly one kidney. Left has grown to compensate for the right that seems to have not worked since birth. Also had what they said to be a \"small stone\" in the right kidney.\n\nI had then been referred to see a urologist if I got another UTI within the span of the next nephrologist visit. Well, I got one again. So I had a scheduled visit there before the nephrologist.\n\nThat was around June, 2016. Not much longer than a month, I had gotten sick from what seemed to be a stomach virus. All the symptoms. Lasted longer than 48 hours, which was strange. I had two ER visits due to pain and what I thought was bloody stool. CT scan revealed a cyst on my right ovary but that wasn't made a big deal.\n\nThen a GI doctor referral. She scheduled a multitude of tests for me. My stool sample test came back positive with C. Difficile toxin B. I am now taking Flagyl for this. 500 mg 3x a day. I have an endoscopy and colonoscopy October 3rd.\n\nToday, I've had a bit of pain in my lower abdomen very similar to what I would say UTI pain. I've had burning sensations when I've gone to the bathroom, too. I'm a bit worried and was wondering if I should see my urologist. The next time I believed I would have a UTI he requested I go to the clinic. \n\nThank you, all advice is greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mother is a Narcissist and abused my sister and I for many years. She started walking around the house naked when i was very young (this is normal and fine) however she never stopped. At the age of 16 I asked her to stop. She never did she would \"forget\" every day. I would ask her not to every day until I moved out for college at the age of 18 and never returned. When I visit home for the holidays I beg her not to. She always does it anyway.\n\nI don't want to see her or associate with her but I come home to see my father who I love very much. My father refuses to divorce this garbage... so there is no escaping her. How do I get her to stop? I told her that I will press charges if I see her nude but I figure she will probably \"forget\" as Narcs often do. The solution seems to be light every piece of skin that I can see but don't want to see on fire, because thats how it feels on my end. \n\nI'm tired of the 'it's just nudity its no big deal' excuse. I'm a fucking adult I pay my own bills I have my own apartment and I wouldn't tolerate this bullshit from anyone else. I shouldn't have to tolerate it from my abuser that I'm forced to see for two weeks every year. I'm dreading this moment. I'm only up because I had a nightmare about her that made me dry-heave myself awake. I just want her gone from my life. I don't even know why I'm posting this you people can't help me. I'll just lie awake for a few hours.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As the title says, we just don't know what to talk about or really how to talk to eachother. I really like her (a lot) and she feels the same towards me, and I just don't know what to do. She was grounded for 2 months a couple days ago (her mom's a little crazy when it comes to punishments), so seeing her in person is sadly out of the question. We're both just as awkward in person, anyway... \n\nI've seen on some other places that this happens in every relationship at some point and not to be worried about it, but I never see how to deal with it. Both of us agree we need to be more confident and open with eachother, but it seems like there's never anything new to talk about, and even if there was we wouldn't know how to talk about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't want to get into a major philosopical/scientific debate. What I want to know is your personal opinion and experience.\n\nOne of my lecturer says that our brain changes the more we study. If we keep on studying, we will be able to learn new things faster and be able to absorb more information. For example if someone is bad at biology and they put the time and effort in. Eventually they will master it and learn new topics quicker then they did at the start.\n\nI'm hoping that is true. I just started college and I am finding it difficult. I can change my study techniques and I am willing to put in effort and the time. However what worries me is that I am in my first year. If I am struggling at this level what will happen in my 2nd,3rd or 4th year? I fear the years of not doing anything but be lazy and watch tv might have taken its toll on my brain. My brain after a while stops absorbing new information and I get a headache. \n\nEither way I'm going to spend the next 8 months treating my class like a full time job.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I usually try to be very light with my behaviour, as I know i can be rough with it or over-sensitive.\nHe knows that and I always expect him to have a little bit of touch before saying things, he also knows i don't really like how people have to drink in social gatherings as I find no entertainment on that.\nWe're both going out tonight, i'm going out with a friend i haven't seen in a while and we're going to eat, he's celebrating with co-workers. I asked him if he wanted to meet me after the celebration because I knew he would be jealous of my plans, but instead he told me he didn't know if he would come because he didn't know if he wanted me to see him tipsy.\n\nI disliked that he was going to the meeting already knowing he would get tipsy, and i disliked that he told me he would because he knows that would make me mad.\nThe result is he noticed i didn't like his behaviour but I tried to convince him that he could do anything he wanted as I wasn't going to control him, but I'm still mad that he told me that knowing what my reaction would be.\nAm I right being mad because he didn't had the touch to not tell me that? (I already know I shouldn't get mad if he drinks or goes out)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Around this time last year I met a girl in one of my classes and we became acquainted. A short time later she was talking to me about how she was struggling in her chemistry class and I offered to tutor her in it since that's my major and I'm pretty good at it. So I help her out and she's grateful, I'm attracted to her but she has boyfriend at the time so nothing happens but we become decent friends. Anyways after class went out over the summer we didn't talk much up until a month ago when she suddenly starts talking with me again and is asking me to take classes with her next quarter. So I do and we start getting very close texting every day, flirting, and such but I don't have a chance to see her due to conflicting schedules. I also learn that she recently broke up with her boyfriend.\n\nThen two weeks ago class starts and a week later she starts acting kind of disinterested. Which sucks because I've just realized I like her and want a relationship with her. We still get along great when we're together, she just acts a little weird when we text and we no longer do it as often. \n\nI'm going over to hang out/tutor her later today and was wondering if anyone had tips on how I should act around her, assuming I'm still interested. Confessions typically end poorly, correct?\n\nSome other stuff to note is she has never told me about her boyfriend, I found out they were together and had broken through one of her friends and a picture on her facebook (she had her relationship status hidden). Also I asked her out to dinner last week and she said \"We can if you want\" Or something like that. And she is extremely shy, much more so than any girl I've ever known.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She tried to break up with me yesterday. She said it was because we act too much like friends and that it looks like I don't care about our relationship because it looks like I don't like her. I called her and told her I really liked her and didn't want to lose her and promised we'll start being a couple. She said she believed me and that she wanted to hang out with me. When we hung out I asked her if she still liked me and she said yes but when I asked her about why she tried to break up with me, she said she didn't know. I asked her if she really wanted to act like a couple, she said that she didn't care (wtf). I asked her straight up what she wanted and she said that she didn't know what either. What do? Nonetheless we had a great time hanging out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is going to be short and sweet.\n\nI am currently renting a room in a house with 3 other roommates, we get along great and have a lot of respect for each other. The floors in my house are very creaky and noisy, also the doors make a lot of noise when being opened so whenever possible I try to avoid leaving my room during very late hours. I am a very creative mind so I spend a lot of time awake during wee hours so it can be difficult. \n\nIt's really late one night and I need to use the bathroom, pretty simple...but tonight I was feeling extra courteous, courageous and confident and decided to urinate inside of a water bottle in order to 1) not awaken my roommates and 2) fulfill my lifelong dream of urinating in a bottle.\n\nThis didn't go over as smoothly as I thought it would...the circumference of the water bottle was no where near big enough for me to ahem...properly utilize. I ended up urinating on my bedroom floor, and in efforts to reverse my FU ran to the bathroom successfully awakening my roommates and relieving myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just wanted to pass this info along to anyone else who, like me, wouldn't have known otherwise. \n\nI have a US passport. I planned a 3 week trip through Europe, scheduled all my flights and stays in between, researched places to see and things to eat, read blogs and watched videos, packed my bags and double checked to make sure I had everything, showed up at the airport yesterday, and was promptly denied because my return date was 2.5 months before my passport expired. \n\nTo travel to Europe, my return date has to be 3 months before expiration. My passport expired before the stated expiration date.\n\nI was disappointed and so sad. Thankfully my friends who were seeing me off came back to pick me up, I made an appointment with the passport agency (earliest one is for Thursday) and rescheduled my trip to Friday. I'm hoping and praying that passport turn around is same day as some people have told me, otherwise my entire trip is doomed. \n\nSo because I thought my passport expired on the day of expiration, my three weeks got cut to 2 weeks. I've rescheduled, dropped 2 countries from my travel list, and am sitting at home with nothing to do, a cleaned out fridge, and moping for an entire week... \n\nI wish I had checked and known about this passport thing, and I'm disappointed in myself and in the system in general for such a maddening rule. \n\nI hope you wonderful Travellers out there learn from my mistake. And if you already knew about this, are actively letting others know :( I sincerely wish that international airlines would automatically ask about passports for these kinds of things: I honestly had no idea about these rules and I'm sad my long vacation got cut by 33%.\n\nBest of luck to everyone out there", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been on a couple dates with a girl I met online, and I'm worried that my fear of physical intimacy and the slow rate at which I get used to people is getting in the way (or will soon). \n\nTo give a little background, I'm 27m and it's been over 2 years since I last did anything with a girl (not a virgin, though). I'm sort of a shy guy who doesn't fully open up until he's gotten to know people. Once I do I make friends easily, but it takes time. I'm also afraid of girls: in general I have trouble interacting with them unless I somehow remove all sexual tension (and thus interest) from the relationship, and so you can see why it's been a rather prolonged dry spell.\n\nAnyway, I've been on OKCupid for a while and been on a few dates, but none of them have gone past the first date until the most recent one. This girl (~25f), in contrast to most, I felt pretty at ease speaking to, and while I'm not comfortable enough yet to deploy puns and silly humor I usually do when among friends, I can see it getting there. But now we're up to the third date potentially, and I haven't even hugged her. I'm scared and out of practice and in general am not a very touchy guy (and if I'm not comfortable enough to crack a joke, how am I going to do much else!?), but I also know that this is sending weird and mixed signals. More or less I want to, but am immobilized with doubt.\n\nOn some level I know I need to sack up and do it, but thinking about it makes me nervous enough to feel a little physically sick. Is this something I can bring up casually (and just say that I really like her, but need to move slowly), or is that not ok? To give a little more insight into the dynamic, she sent me message after the first date saying that she'd had fun and wanted to hang out again, so I think she feels something there, too...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First of all, excuse my English, because I'm pretty drunk right now and English is not my native language. \n\nOkay, so, I'm originally not from England, but I've lived there for a couple of months and I met a girl there, who is not from my home country, and I totally fell in love with her. I'm now living in Spain and I really thought we could make it work, but for no reason at all she just started ignoring me. She went from all happy, glee and lovely to ignoring me all of a sudden. She didn't give me a response for two days now, which sounds like a short time, but it's killing me on the inside. I like to think that a healthy relationship is about mutual respect and trust and to be honest, I don't really trust her and she doesn't show me any respect as of late. I really liked it with her in England, but now I'm just making myself crazy. \nShould I break-up with or, or should I wait till she responds? Thank you in advance for the advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my ex have a lot of friends that we both know and hang out with. These were people that knew and were friends with him before I stepped in the picture mostly, but some are new that we both met and became friends with. I don't know now that we are broken up if any of our shared friends will want to be with me. I only have a handful of my friends in school still this year; most of them graduated and left for jobs else wheres. I don't know how to spend my weekends. And for almost two years I pretty exclusively met friends through him, despite being apart of a college community, going out and enjoying my personal interests in groups of people with the same interests, and so on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated a girl who we'll call Jane for 8 months and was very in love with her. To make a long story short, over the summer we broke up and I was devastated but, as is part of life, I had to move on. So I started talking to other people and the one person in specific I started talking to was her friend - let's call her Nicole. So Nicole and I got to talking a lot and rather quickly I became really interested in her. So one day, I invited her over to my house thinking that we would just hang out as friends because that's all I really thought of it but things started getting pretty flirty. I brought attention to a vodka bottle I had in the cabinet twice not for the purpose of convincing her to drink some with me but just pointing it out. The second time she suggest we have some so we did. We both got a bit tipsy and nearly kissed but instead both decided that on account of Jane that would not be a good idea for either of us because I admittedly still had feelings for Jane. Despite this decision, I continued flirting with Nicole and she continued flirting with me. We started hanging out a lot and cuddling and doing essentially anything but actually kissing. Again, to make a long story short, over the past few months we've hung out a lot and flirted a lot and cuddled but we keep getting stopped by something. Despite knowing that this thing is Jane I decided to ask Nicole today. So we went for a walk and talked and she said that if it were not for Jane she would definitely be interested in me but that she can't do that to Jane. I want to have something more than a friendship with Nicole but because of my relationship with Jane which, to restate, she ended Nicole doesn't see that happening. I basically want to know if there is anything I could do to convince Nicole otherwise.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating a girl going on two months now and we are both pretty happy. Recently I was at an event without her and drinking with some friends but we got separated. I ran into another group of people who I didn't really know that well and they started talking to me for a while. \n\nWith the new people, one of the girls asked if I was planning on heading to a party at a particular house, and I said yes. She followed me there and we had a bit more to drink. Because I was pretty drunk the details aren't super clear, but I think she started to make out with me and I didn't stop her. \n\nNext, she isn't feeling too well so I get her some water and crackers and call one of her friends who can take her home. Her friend gets here and tries to get her to leave but she wants to sleep here. I tell her friend it's ok, and that I'll sleep downstairs (I really did mean this). The girl wants me to sleep with her though, so I do. We lay there for a while, then make out a bit, then she keeps trying to get me to have sex and I keep avoiding it, but eventually it happens. \n\nI've never cheated in a relationship before and I feel absolutely terrible for letting it happen. How do I let my girlfriend know, and any other advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a girl a little over a month ago and I really like her. We have been seeing each other often and text during most days quite a bit. It seems like we were getting pretty close and she invited me on a trip with her that's in a week.\n\nA few days ago she found out that one of her good friends had passed away and I don't know how to be there for her better. I think that it's causing her to become distant from me and even though it hasn't been very long, I don't want to lose her.\n\nIn the past 4 years I have lost my father and my grandmother, so I understand what it feels like to lose, but don't know how to help someone else in that situation. When I think about it, I feel like there is nothing I can do but give her space, but feel that will only increase the distance I've been feeling.\n\nI don't want to mention the way I feel because it's selfish, and really I just want to be able to support her emotionally in a time like now.\n\nAny advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm friends with this girl. I've only met her recently and I have a crush on her. She's so much fun and she's really funny. We have really similar senses of humor and always talk super fast when we're together. She's just as weird as I am. I usually can figure out what she's going to say and vice versa. When it's just her I feel like we could talk for hours and hours.\n\nShe has a BF though, which is fine. I can respect that. She's been with the guy for several years. But the problem is I thought I could be friends with her, but the truth is, it hurts when I'm around her. And she's always weird with me whenever her boyfriend is around. It's like suddenly we're not cool anymore. It's starting to not feel good to be around her cause it's painful.\n\nThe other problem is she's good friends with a bunch of people from my friend group. And we hang out as a group often. I want to preserve the sanctity of the group so it's not like I wanna stop talking to her completely (otherwise I would). But I also don't want to talk to her too much because it just makes me depressed. What should I do, Reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background: We have only been dating for about 2 months and we started dating in my hometowm, tho I go to school in a different city. But we're not exactly long distance. I live close enough to drive home any weekend I want (only about an hour and a half drive) so I've seen her every other weekend so far this quarter and she's actually coming up to visit this weekend. We haven't put a label on our relationship but I know we're being exclusive with each other.\n\nThis is kind of hypocritical of me because I go out without her on the weekends when we're not in the same city, but I can't help but feel anxious when she goes out with her friends! I feel weird about this because I know we're in a commited relationship and I trust her not to cheat on me. (last time she went out with her friends she complained that too many guys were trying to chat her up. And she told me she missed me. She was kinda drunk haha) \n\nI feel even worse because I know she's not going out to look for guys ( She knows plenty of guys and has been in more relationships than I have and I am OK with that) She's just trying to have a good time with her friends! I definitely dont want to stop her from having fun. I actually like that she has friends to go out with while I'm away at school. \n\nWhenever I think about this rationally I know deep down she really likes me and that I have nothing to worry about. I'm just stressed and feel like there is something wrong with me.\n\nSo how can I bring this up to her without upsetting her or making it seem like I want to control what she does?\n\nThanks for any advice in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend went away on a trip with his family during the holidays, so we didn't see each other during Christmas or New Year's. Knowing that, I made sure to give him a Christmas gift before he left, and I told him to open it on the 25th. He told me that he would give me my gift when he returns, so I was fine with that.\n\nWhen he came back, I proposed to him that we should cook a nice dinner together, a sort of small celebration since we were apart for the holidays. He said ok, but didn't seem to excited. Then we had a stupid fight and he told me he wasn't in the mood for it. So we never had that nice dinner, and he hasn't even given me my gift, even though he keeps telling me that he will, just that he hasn't had the time or right moment. \n\nI am not a materialistic person, and I wouldn't care if he didn't give me anything. It just bothers me that he keeps saying that he will give it to me, but it's been a month and a half. Should I just forget about it or is it okay if I feel a little unappreciated? I don't want to make a big deal out of this, so I'd really appreciate your comments :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's 'funny', but at the same time it feels like as close as you can get to a physical attack without actually attacking someone. Like, worse than cuss words. It's done mockingly and seems intended to humiliate me. We'll be arguing and then when he gets sick of hearing it he does this noise over any of my words from then on out. I don't know, is this abusive behavior?\n\ncan I get serious replies only please", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend did the shittiest thing last night.\n\nHe lives with me and my mom and little sister, and its all hunky dory.\nHe's 20, I'm 19, and my sister is 16.\n\nI wasn't going to be at my house that night, and told him to stay at his parents because I wouldn't be there. I told my mom and she was shocked, told me to call him back and apologize, that they liked him and it wouldn't be weird without me. So he came by and I left for the night.\n\nI come back home to learn he got drunk (never drinks), and accidentally found some risque bad pictures of my sister and an old boyfriend (she gave him a hard drive, didn't know they were there).\nApparently the pictures got him horny, and he spent the rest of the night texting her (they were in the same house), telling her she was sexy. Not only that but telling everyone he has a small dick, i'm a nymphomaniac, and that we haven't had sex in months. Crazy embarrassing outrageous things.\n\nMy sister was scared to go to sleep, he kept joking about putting cameras everywhere to watch her. She didn't sleep that night at all, until I came home and kicked him out on the spot.\n\nWe were dating for a couple years, and that was a real shitty way to end it. Nobody saw it coming.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway, because my main account is known to people in RL who should probably remain ignorant of this. Large amount of text to follow:\n\nI am 19, female. He is 20. We have known each other since elementary school and were best friends starting in junior high. We have a great relationship and are mutually supportive. However, he has recently been expressing an interest in me that I do not reciprocate. \n\nHe's constantly touching me, bringing up the topic of sex (porn he's watched, asking what I like, etc.), and joking that he can't wait to sleep with me. When I came out as lesbian, he thought I was lying to make him stop, which was completely untrue. This makes me uncomfortable, to put it lightly, and I've asked him to cease and desist numerous times, but he always sort of shrugs it off. \n\nHere's the summary of my brand of crazy: I am diagnosed with rapid-cycling bipolar I disorder, which is the mental equivalent of getting every STD at once. I've been dealing with it for most of my life now and the meds give me an ultra-low sex drive. I also have a massive aversion to being touched because of physical abuse in my youth. I do not come to my friend with my emotional problems; that's what my therapist is for, and I don't want to burden him. He knows the details, but he has never personally witnessed an episode because I am always doped up.\n\nHe kind of presses all my buttons in the wrong way. Last time I rejected him, he threatened to 'deprioritize' me on his list of friends, saying that if we weren't taking this relationship any further then he didn't want to invest so much time in it. He apologizes afterwards but I do feel scared and sort of lost. \n\nReddit, he is literally my only friend and I don't want to lose him. More importantly, I don't want to lead him on. I'm not ready for a relationship of any sort - I have uni and personal demons to face. How can I get him to back off and stop trying to stick his dick in crazy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, I was hoping to gather some tips from people who left running and had to start over. \n\nA semi-lengthy background on myself to help you understand where I am coming from. In high school I was a very good cross country runner, running from 35-50 miles a week and never slower than 8-9 minute miles. At the end of senior year, I planned on taking a break from running and then try to race half or full marathons in the spring. I ended up not running at all after xc. 4 years later, I was noticing how much I miss the sport (especially after seeing the success of xc friends) so I decided to join a running group to get back into it. But the only group at my university that I could find was a triathlon club. I joined them, but only did the running workouts. After about 4 weeks, I developed shin splints. This is because I haven't ran in 4 years but thought 6 miles was ok after 4 weeks. Also, being 25 pounds heavier didnt help. After taking 3 months off and training on the bike and in the pool, I finally was back to running in february. but my shinsplints was still around. I finished my first sprint triathlon last week, and have been trying to get miles back under my feet again. I havent felt shin splints severely since the beginning of March, but I can feel it looming around. After a half year of it, I am getting really really frustrated. I cant run more than 4 miles still and my fastest mile is 8 minutes. I know I will probably never run like I did when I was 17, but its difficult because of remembering what I used to be capable of running.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just amicably/reasonably mutually ended a relationship with my girlfriend and have been using No Contact to facilitate the healing process. I'm still mourning the relationship and trying to move forward.\n\nRight now I'm struggling with my past: I have been more or less in a relationship for the last 12 years (since I was 17) and haven't spent a lot of time \"alone.\" My relationships have been 7, 3, and ~2.5 years long with only a gap of about 6 months between the first and second. I've done a lot of reading and thinking about it, and I'm pretty sure I have co-dependent/\"Nice Guy\" tendencies. As a result, I feel like I may have alienated a lot of friends/family, but they're still in strong orbits around me and accessible.\n\nI know it's been 35 days since the break, and that recovering takes time and thought in delicate balance. But at some point I know I have to move on and start \"getting out there\" and expanding my social circles. It feels difficult, but I am looking forward to the challenges it brings.\n\nMy question is this though: I hear everything across the board from embracing the loneliness and sitting with it versus spending as little time alone as possible. I want to spend the time/energy to feel more comfortable being alone and be more confident on my own, but I'm not sure what ratio of friends/public/solitude is healthy for my recovery and the construction of a new self.\n\nIs there a compromise? Being alone in public places? Hanging out with a lot of low-impact friends? Hanging out with a few intimate friends?\n\nIs there a way to figure out this balance?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've got two problems at the moment, both inter-related.\n\n* First, The Job Posting:\n\nThanks to corporate-speak, it's extremely hard to come across as genuine in a business context. I'm looking for people who enjoy IT, and take a lot of pride in what they do. I'm looking for the sort of people to whom \"good enough\" isn't. How do I let these sort of people that they want to work with me? How do I let them know that my company knows \"pride\" isn't just a buzzword for \"watching the bottom line\"?\n\n* Second, The Candidates:\n\nI'm pretty new to management. There are a lot of people who are far more experienced at talking themselves up than I am at figuring them out. It's easy enough to hire someone qualified, you can test for that with a well-executed test environment. The problem is that will only tell you what they're capable of, not how much you have to fight them to do anything. \n\nWe're an IT company in the small/medium business market, our clients don't generally have piles of cash to blow on new servers. There are times I'll have to hand someone a 3-year old server and some extra RAM and say \"The client's budget fell through this year but they still need an upgrade, see how well you can polish this turd.\" The kind of person I'm looking for isn't just gonna say \"This thing sucks\". They're gonna say \"This thing sucks, but it's gonna gleam anyway because it's my fuckin' turd.\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throw away account here. Im going to make as short as I can because I am too broken up to even sit at my computer right now, Its been a real rough night. So last night me and and my gf of 3 years who I live with decided to do our own thing. I was supposed to crash at a close friend of mines place for the night but decided against it last minute. I had tried texting and calling my gf during the course of the night to no avail. I wasn't very happy about this but just figured she was drunk with her girlfriends and that I would just catch her at the house. Well when I got home I walked up to my front door to see my girlfriend walking in the house with some dude I have never seen before. He splits when he sees me and me and my girlfriend fight all night over it. She can barely stand up or talk because she is so wasted and eventually passes out. So, I don't know what to do. Should I take her back? How do I handle this? We have been living together for 2 years and together for 3. Most of my life revolves around the relationship and Ive honestly always thought that I couldn't find a girl who would do as much as she does for me. She makes more money and pays most of the bills and yet doesn't look down on me for it. She has always been extremely supportive of me though everything and I feel like she loves me for me. I have severe anxiety and she has been there to hold my hand in the hospital through many panic attacks. Im closer to her than any person on the planet. This morning she woke up and is destroyed by what happened and is begging me to take her back. She says she was getting a ride home and was going to pass out but who knows. I don't know what to do but the trust is broken. So guys, if there is anyone I can rely on for advice it is you... Please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "41F - me. 41F - spouse. Married 21 years\n\nHi. My husband drives drunk. After he does it, we talk about it in the morning and he swears he's so sorry and won't do it again. Then he does. Over and over.\n\nThe incidents are spaced out over a few months usually. The last time was this past Tuesday. Before that it was probably in May. At that time I talked to him about the money just getting a DUI would involve, not to mention if he had an accident or killed someone. It seemed like he really understood finally. He even used uber a few times.\n\nWe've been married over 20 years and have worked hard to get what we have. I don't want to lose everything because of a stupid choice he makes. I feel like when he chooses to drive drunk he's kind of saying, \"Fuck you and fuck our kids and our comfortable life. I don't give a shit if my bad choice ruins everything.\"\n\nI feel like I have no other tools to use. I've already stopped riding with him if he's been drinking, leaving the house if he comes home drunk, etc. I ask him to not drive drunk, but what if he does? How can I protect myself and our children financially if something happens? We live in Florida.\n\nI'm tired and going to go to bed now. \n\nThanks for any insight.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well reddit, I fucked up hard. I woke up this morning with a nasty cold, and I hopped in the shower before getting ready for school. I thought to myself, \"Why don't I just blow my nose in the shower, I mean, it's all just going to go down the drain anyway?\" \n\nSo I let it rip. Huge chunks of mucus came flying out my nose and onto the bottom of the tub. They were actually so big that I had to intentionally get water to flow onto them to make them move. I got out of the shower, feeling MUCH better with myself, and put my clothes on. As I was downstairs getting the last of my stuff together, I could hear my roommate getting up and walking into the bathroom. I was then serenaded by the lovely sounds of her screaming, \"Oh my f*** god!\" I half-jogged upstairs and saw her standing in the bathroom looking down into the tub. She told me, verbatim, \"Shadowheart321, I know guys have needs, but can you PLEASE** keep it out of the shower and keep it in your room?\"\n\nI realized when I looked into the tub that we had just gotten a new drain catch and all of my nasty phlegm was stuck in it. I quickly caught on and started telling her that it wasn't what she thought and I was just really sick and I just had to blow my nose and it's not that, etc. She was listening to none of it and was still just staring into the tub with an appalled face on. As I bantered, my other roommate walked into the room to see what the fuss was about, and before I could even try to explain what happened, he looked into the tub and started absolutely hollering. In a last ditch effort to prove to them that it wasn't that, I leaned over, stuck my hand into the drain catch and scooped up some of my nasal droppings and told them to take a deep wiff of it. Then both turned out of the bathroom looking queasy as I stood there with a handful of mucus sitting in my palm. I will forever be known as the guy who picked up his own load from the bottom of the shower and told them to smell.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let's call my ex- boyfriend James. OK first off, I don't really know if he's really my ex, since we are pretty much in contact and he keeps saying he will come back to me when he's done growing up. \n\nSo recently, James's father has not been well, and needed to get surgery. Living in Canada, health care is pretty much free, so hospital bills are not the problem. However, because of this illness, he will be unable to continue working for the next 3 years. James has just finished his bachelor in electrical engineering, but has no internships or related working experience. His mother who is also working, says she can't afford working alone to support their family of 5 and is pressuring him to find a job. I don't know what she exactly said to him because I wasn't there, but James last week, cried to me over the phone, saying he needs to find a job and grow up, and to do that, he wanted a break.\n\nJames, for the years I have been with him, has sort of slacked off, and would sort of treat me like shit occasionally, for which I would reprimand him. But I've always felt the need to help him however I can. It's partially my fault, that he has become the way he is, because I was the one pushing him to apply to jobs (I would make his resume and cover letters as well as apply for the jobs for him). He would get interviews, but unfortunately would not pass them. Because of my success with finding jobs and his failure, he sometimes tells me \"you're only getting hired because you're a girl\". \n\nAnyway, he's been feeling really low on himself, but he doesn't really have anyone to support him except me, but he just wanted to be friends until he can figure things out. \n\nI wanted to distance myself from him so he could get the peace he wanted, but he calls me and wants my company, so I don't understand... Why he wanted a beak.\n\nShould I keep supporting him, or do I leave him be?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit. I'm in an emotional clussterfuck. Apologies for formatring, I'm on mobile. I need advice in helping save my brother from abandonment, and probably homelessness. A little background; \nHe's 30 years old, diagnosed schizophrenic by BHR, and they have changed his medications more times than I can remember. I'm almost a decade younger than he is, and have grown up seeing him hospitalized, do large amounts of drugs, be arrested, have multiple restraining orders, etc. Here's the thing, he gets paranoid, feels sick from his meducarion, and stops taking it. That's what causes episodes. My sister doesn't think it's schizophrenia, having been only a year apart from him. He lives with my parents, and I have personally been in a physical altercation with him. When I was, he pinned me down to beat my face in and stopped the moment I said \"(name), you don't want to hurt me\". I know, from growing up with him, that he is lonely and he suffers. His best friend shot himself when they were in high school and I know he hadn't been the same since. He was molested as a child and has been through a lot. Yesterday my mother called me to let me know that they have a restraining order on him because they do not feel safe with him there (He has probably not taken medication in a couple months and stole all of the knives, been weird, had fights). We don't know where he is, but court is on the 22nd and I don't know what will happen to him. BHR has been a nightmare and he's been on the waiting list with them to get an apartment for ages. He has been suffering a root canal for months and is also on a waiting list for removal. He started smoking to dull the pain. There's so much more to it, and my sister and I spent last night crying and drinking because we are entirely helpless. We don't want to see him on the street. Here's where I'm asking for advice. Are there any known programs or groups that can help us get him on his feet? We're almost certain he's homeless now and he doesn't have a cell phone with data or minutes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (28 F) have been with my boyfriend (28 M) for 2 years. He’s my best friend and we get along really well. He’s a good boyfriend to me and we have a lot of fun together. He gets along great with my friends and family. However, lately the relationship feels stagnant and it seems like there is no future. I think the reason I feel this way is he has never communicated his feelings towards me and I am starting to develop stronger feelings towards him. We haven’t said I love you, even though I do feel that way about him and have said it to him. I believe that saying those words shouldn’t be rushed but he told me he doesn’t know if he can be in love...ever. He doesn’t know if he loves his family and he often feels “nothing” towards people. I think he might be suffering from some form of depression. If I try to talk about our relationship it usually turns into a fight where he totally shuts down. I’ve asked him several times if he wants to be together and that if he wants out we can still be friends. He always says he wants to be together when I give him this option. \n\nWe talked this weekend about it and he admitted he thinks he might have depression because he feels very up and down all the time and often feels “nothing” and wants to “disappear.” He said he doesn’t know if he’ll ever have strong enough feelings to be in love and that he’s had this same problem in his last relationship.\n\nPart of me thinks he is suffering from depression and that things could change and that I should be there for him but part of me thinks it’s stupid for me to hold out for someone who may never feel strongly enough about me in the way I need. I would like to stress that otherwise things are really great between us, we have the same interests, the same sense of humor, and he is truly my best friend.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, long time lurker, first time poster. First time posting on reddit at all actually. I'm posting on my sister's behalf really because she doesn't really get this site. \n\nLong story short, my sister and I have a wonderful relationship with our parents. Very healthy, very loving. Unfortunately, my mom passed away very suddenly a couple of months ago which has hit my family really hard. Not to get into it, it was very unexpected and completely devastating. My parents were married for 43 years, and were such a role model for my sister and I. My dad is struggling, we all are, but we try and support each other. \n\nMy sister has recently become engaged...she and her fiance are both employed. He is making pretty good money and my sister is doing okay. Not terrible. \n\nAnyway, my parents had retired and were living pretty well off of their pensions. I know they have investments, but I don't know the extent. I obviously didn't really inquire too much about their business. With the death of my mom, my sister and I worry about my Dad's finances. My mom's retirement and pension was a lot more than my dad's, so we know he took a hit financially. My Dad is a wonderful man, and would pay for the whole thing if he could, but my sister is anxious about asking too much of him. She's stuck because she knows if she doesn't let him pay for anything it'll hurt his feelings but she also doesn't want him paying for too much. \n\nI guess we're just not sure how to approach this. What is normal for parents of the bride to pay for? I was thinking he could help with the venue and her dress but I have no idea. And how do we let him help but not let him give too much?? I'm the maid of honor for my sister, and I'm trying to plan with her, but I'm completely at a loss and any input would be greatly appreciated. I don't know if I gave enough info, I'm pretty scattered. If you have questions I'll be happy to answer.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing someone I really like for a month - we've been on 7 dates and it seems things were progressing really well. Last weekend he canceled plans the day of our date which threw me and I couldn't do the days he suggested to reschedule on, so I think it came off I was blowing him off. I didn't phrase it well and it was over text. I reached out Tuesday to mend the miscommunication that happened - turns out he did think I was miffed - and we are talking again though not as often as we had been. I'm worried this one blip threw us off course. We haven't made plans this weekend as he has friends coming into town. As its a male and female group I thought hed invite me to hang with them but he hasn't. As I'm not sure if he is feeling it anymore, I've made plans to see other dudes. We have had no exclusivity talk. I'm just worried though he or a friend of his will see me out with a guy and he'll be angry. But at the same time I really don't know where I stand with him. And don't feel ready to bring exclusivity up to him where we are after these past few days.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, I'm a 22F about 7 months ago I met this guy (24M) on OKC. We chatted for about a week, exchanged numbers, and then texted for another week. We went on a date and totally hit it off. We hung out a couple more times then on the third date, I spent the night and he had mind blowing, freaky, fun, great sex. The only issue we had was the fact we lived about an hour and 15 minutes away from each other. Well, we sext all the time (I'm talking hot erotic novel type shit) and we've hung out on more occasions and then recently I've gotten super busy with work...Well. Today I was on FB and this picture pops up of him and some other girl. I totally forgot he has a FB cause he was never on it. I go to his profile...turns out he's been dating this girl since February. He never mentioned anything to me about her and he's been hitting me up like crazy to hang out again soon on top of him texting me everyday already...so reddit, what should I do? Call him out or let it ride? Or be the bigger person and end it all...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the 2 months after her breakup I was fully supportive of my friend. I unconditionally agreed with whatever she had to say about her ex, even if i knew she was wrong. I gave her all the sympathy I could; I was'there for her'.\n\nBut here we are three or so months later, and still she goes off about her ex almost daily, making small-minded comments about how he did her wrong that just really make me want to scream. Her ex didn't really do much wrong, yet she insists on referring to him like he stole everything from her and ran. \n\nIve tried to give my friend alternative ways of viewing her situation after she makes all these doom and gloom comments. Im really tired of playing into her mindset of, \"my ex is such a dick, feel sorry for me, the world hates me.\" I really wish she could see it as, \"my ex left and who cares why because it's over now. Feeling sorry for myself solves nothing, so id better move on and allow myself to heal. There are other people out there for me.\" But anytime i approach any of those concepts with her, she shoots me down and i am labeled a bad friend who is supposed to just cater to what she wants to hear (that her ex is a buttface and i should just feel sorry for her). One big factor is she believes shes always right, never wrong. She thinks i should treat her word as gospel which makes it impossible to bring up opposing view points.\n\nI dont know what to say to her. It makes me cringe every time her ex is brought up because i already know what she wants me to say. I hate it. Im tired of letting her play the victim. I really wish she would get over her first ever ex whom she dated a measley 2 months. But no matter how gently i try to coax her away from her rut of playing the wronged victim i always get shot down.\n\nHow can approach this subject with her without any hostility arising? What do i do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This post is an update to this [one](\n\nI never ended up seeing Jess that week, but today my co-worker (and mom) told me that Jess stopped by my store looking for me and my sister. My mom said she was there \"with a girl.\" But left quickly when she didn't see us. Apparently the girl (her american gf) said \"but you wanted to stop here!\" as Jess was leaving the store. I explained to my mom that a few weeks ago Jess invited me and my sister to a boat dance cruise taking place tomorrow, so I'm sure she stopped by my store to ask if we were still going (and to show off her new gf lol -_-)\n\nHonestly, I'm really glad I didn't see Jess today. I wasn't prepared lol \n\nBUT I plan to FINALLY send Jess a message either tonight or tomorrow morning. I was gonna say \"Hey, I won't be able to make it. Completely forgot I already made plans to see this girl. Thanks for inviting anyway~ Also this is kinda random but back in Feb I saw a fb post you made about how people don't like black people unless it's a fetish, just a couple of days after hanging out with me and toni. Not gonna lie it felt like a low-key jab at us, and it shocked and disappointed me. That's why I distanced myself; I don't really know where we stand anymore.\" \n\nPlease let me know what you think of that message, I could really use some feedback. And definitely feel free to tell me what you would say. Thanks for reading!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Slightly fudged for anonymity.\n\nI'm pretty liberal, except when it comes to a few things. \n\nI pretty much keep to myself about them. They are just opinions that I've formulated after researching both sides for years, and what feels right to me. In other words, it is my personal choice to believe what I believe.\n\nI was in a situation this past year where my friends wanted to do something as a group. I said to count me out, because it goes against one of my beliefs, but that it's cool if they want to. \n\nWhen I said it goes against my personal beliefs, some people got defensive and got into debate mode about why it's OK to do it and so forth. Which is fine. I get it if other people want to do it, I just didn't want to participate in it. I know I could've just gone with the flow, but I didn't feel comfortable being a party to it and I feel like I'm allowed to make that personal choice not to be involved, if I don't want to.\n\nAnyways, since then, I've been told that this is being \"judgy.\" This bothers me, because I hate the feeling of other people judging me, and I wouldn't want others to feel I was being judgy towards them. I think that the people calling me \"judgy\" are just upset that I don't share their same opinions?\n\nAt the same time, I do want to take some time to reflect and see if I'm being judgy or not. Is there a better way to handle situations like this, other than saying you don't want to be part of it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl online on an Indian dating website.\n\nThe girl is great - she is super sweet, was open about her previous relationships/dates, is really well educated girl, likes a bit of craft and art projects. \n\nShe is looking to get married in a year or so. I've met her four times at occasions and have been talking on the phone on and off. \n\nFew things that came to my attention was she liked to have conversations about anything and everything without any substance (eg. went to mall and used a coupon to get xyz, my sister cooked this, etc etc). I, personally, dont find that really helpful in learning about her. \n\nAlso, she seems to be moving a bit quicker and looks like she has fallen for me already. I on the other hand dont feel much chemistry yet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am really jet lagged being day two in Budapest traveling from California. I woke up about 2am CET shaken and crying from a really disturbing dream. My childhood dog, Tammy, golden retriever/dacshund mix, lived until 15yrs old and was put down about 2 years ago. The dream's memorable part was Tammy having a small neck injury, I was taking care of her and cleaning a wound around her neck. Eventually it was like her whole neck had a cut all the way around and I desperately held her head on her body trying to prevent her bleeding out. I had this feeling of absolute dread that my dog was going to die, bleeding out in my arms. I was screaming for help, I couldn't move her as it would expedite her death. She looked at me so dependent, longing, trusting, and fearful of her own mortality. Blood pooled on the ground, and I knew she didn't have long. I woke up crying and confused, and I'm balling as I write this. \n\nI got a new wonderful amazing papijack dog in April. I usually travel with my dog, domestically, but can't internationally due to quarantine laws. I have my boyfriend looking after him and he sends me pictures of their walks and gives me updates. He is taking great care of him and I'll see my boy in about a week when I return. I'm probably just grieving my old dog and probably preparing for the inevitable loss with new dog. He is only 2 years old, so we have a lot of time to look forward to. It is just so sad to outlive your doggie and dreams are too real sometimes. I've had other dreams about BBQing the new dog, performing surgery to save him, ultimately butchering him, and putting him on the BBQ. By the time I realize what I've done it is too late, and I'm sad/appalled I murdered my beloved dog... Dreams are weird, I do love BBQ steaks though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been having problems. I'm moving back to my home state and I've been more than depressed and anxious for a couple of months. We had 2 huge fights in the last couple of days. \n\nRecently, he started talking to some other girls online. I encouraged that. After this huge fight yesterday, I thought we were good. He called me today and told me he wanted to sleep with some girl. I told him to go for it. I felt guilty because he told me he wanted to experience what was out there (I'm pretty sure I put that idea in his head) and that he was in a rough spot because he felt trapped. \n\nHe said some pretty nasty things to me in our argument last night. We have since said sorry to each other, but this felt like rubbing salt in the wound. He told me he hated coming home to me. That he would rather sleep or be at work. He told me to pack my shit and get out. We talked a little more and ended up staying together. \n\nHe's a generally positive person and he hates being around negativity. I have a terrible habit of being negative and I have started going to therapy to get my depression and anxiety under control, but lately it's been raging. I've been dealing with these problems for years. \n\nI feel guilty because he tells me its my fault that he can't enjoy being in his home state. He resents me because I encouraged our move here and now I'm miserable. I've been looking for jobs lately, but everyone knows what that's like. He's angry with me because I've been slacking on cleaning a bit lately and keep making empty promises. \n\nThe point is that I encouraged him to sleep with another woman and he did. And now I'm deeply hurt and angry. Mostly at myself. I feel devastated and heartbroken. I'm sleeping in the other room in our apartment because I don't want to sleep in the same bed they fucked in. I feel disgusted even looking at him and it's my fault. \n\nI guess I don't really have a question. I just wonder if I'm wrong in all of this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we've been talking/seeing each other for a few weeks now, we click on everything - music, movies, TV shows, opinions etc etc.\n\nShe has admitted to me that she's damaged from a previous relationship where the guy messed her up and its screwed how she deals with people. That she's very \"stand offish\" and that she's not good with people.\n\nShe's like me in so many aspects except that I'm very passive and don't get angered easily, whereas she can get very in your face (figuratively) and offended.\n\nI really really do like her a lot and I know she thinks of me this way and she's willing to take things further then just talking, but I have to know how can I go about helping her heal from that previous relationship? I want to be there for her, I want to be able to talk to her about it and maybe change her personality to that of less of a pessimist and more of an open person (especially with me.)\nI want to know how to make her know that she's not unwanted, that she's awesome person and that people in general aren't horrible. That I'm here for her.\n\nJust to complicate things as well, the guy who did this to her in the first place messaged her last night asking her how she is. She hasn't talked to me much about what it is he did to her only that it \"fucked her up\" and has caused her to be how she is now. I think she's a little stressed about him talking to her though as she's been very aggressive towards me today which is hard for me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 months now since the 4th, and the relationship between her and I is wonderful. We get along extremely well, and love each other very much. \n\n-\n\nShe has had a hard past, and even present. Her father left the family when she was young, and she hates every thought of him. Her mother had to support her two daughters for many years working many jobs, which led to not much one-on-one with her loved ones. All of my girlfriends life she has been scarred by past events and it has left her a very sensitive person which I completely respect.\n\n-\n\nHer mom remarried to a different man and they had 3 more children, so the total is 5 living in one household. Financially they are stable, but sometimes not everyone gets along and the love often feels distant for her (my girlfriend). \n\n-\n\nHer moms attitude towards her is usually very negative, and they even physically take it out on each other - her mother starting most of the trouble. She takes most of her anger out on my girlfriend which I am less than okay with. She shames her, hits her, and is the main cause of her mild depression. \n\n-\n\nOverall, the relationship between my girlfriend and her mother is growing distant and she is actually scared of her. Her mom puts her down on almost every occasion, and makes her feel like everything bad and terrible that has happened to her is her fault. I love my girlfriend to death and only want to see things get better for her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I have been having a lot of arguments lately. Usually about the same stuff, she or I take something the other person said wrong or offensively.\n\n I have mommy and daddy issues, major ones to the point I have to feel loved everyday and shown affection. Sometimes I feel as though she doesn't love me, or she's disgusted by me.\n\n Today we started arguing bc she didn't want to hug or kiss me, as usual it turns into a 2 hour seaming contest and i noticed that it's starting to get more and more physical. I've never hit her, and she's never hit me. We have just been grabbing and poking a lot. I feel fucking horrible. I never wanted her to be scared of me, I want her to love me. I'm so lost, I feel like self harm on my part is inevitable. Please give me advice on how to make things better! I know I have a lot to work on!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always been socially isolated (usually a small group of close friends, made up of people who are themselves social outsiders.) In the past two years, I've been on one date; in the past four years, I've been in one relationship; my last sexual encounter was now over six years ago.\n\nI'm now 24, and am about to return to college following a three-year absence (I flunked out cause I wasn't doing any of the work.) I plan to be quite busy, as I'll be pursuing double majors in math and computer science, and would rather not delay my graduation any more than I already have. Still, I figure this is a good chance to get back into the world.\n\nI have a few rules/hangups that might interfere with the, er, sketchier advice people seem to give college guys; they basically boil down to \"I refuse to mischaracterize myself or my intentions,\" \"I refuse to have any romantic or sexual contact with anyone I don't genuinely respect.\"\n\nPast that... just looking for general advice on getting out there, meeting people, and moving things forward. I really have no idea how most of this stuff works; I've only been in two relationships, and both of them came about because me and the girl fell for each other so hard that the actual details of what I said/did didn't really matter. I'm woefully unimpressed by what I've seen of the way most people go about this, and am looking for more... open, mature and honest strategies. Theoretically I'm interested in either serious or casual stuff, but it feels like almost everything I have going for me applies more to serious relationships.\n\nMore info (my relationship history, my strengths and weaknesses, my looks) on request, but I don't want to make this any longer than necessary. Brutal honesty appreciated, especially if you see a weakness or shortcoming that it doesn't look like I'm aware of.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello redditers, \n\nFirst topic post on Reddit. \nSo, I went to study abroad in the United States for 5 months. My GF is coming after 4 months of us being separated(we met in the same town and spent a lot of time together, before I left). Today I spoke with her over the phone, and she told me she was very excited, but also nervous and afraid. She was afraid that maybe one of us didn't feel the same after such a long time. We haven't had any major fights while we've been apart, and we've talked every day and tried to do everything to let the other one feel loved. Am I overreacting when I think she might leave me? I must admit I'm afraid too. It feels like a vague memory, since I haven't seen her for so long.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need to clean up a pretty big [tree that fell in my yard] in a mobile home park back in August, which is going to cost quite a bit to remove. Homeowner's insurance offered a whole $150 to help me remove it (they paid for the belongings in the shed pictured), but that's my own fault for putting the lowest possible amount of insurance on the place just to satisfy the park's demands.\n\nI've been trying to sell the place cheap for the past month or so with the tree in the yard but to no avail, just to clean my hands of the mess that I can't afford to get rid of.\n\nI got a \"final notice\" in the mail today that the tree needs to be removed by December 12th or else I'm in violation of some community policy and they'll bill me to have them remove the tree and I'll no longer have a \"positive relationship with the management office\" (which obviously could hurt me on future rental applications).\n\nI need to find a way to make or borrow about $2,000 for the complete cleanup. I'd be able to pay that amount back when I sell the house, which should be soon (my house is priced at about 60% of its actual value because of the tree and the fact that I want to leave ASAP).\n\nI'm 22 with minimal credit. I don't know why I'm asking Reddit for advice, but I guess that's my form of panicking.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I met at work, but got together after I switched jobs so that there wouldn't be any workplace drama. We have been together for 4 months this last Sunday. I have another female friend who I've known for 2+ years who I hang out with fairly frequently. She is straight, but we have no romantic interest in each other whatsoever, and we are both cool with that.\n\nAbout a month and a half ago, my girlfriend approaches me very angry saying how she's upset that I sat next to my friend while watching a movie (even though I was actually sitting in the middle between the both of them). I try and find out why she's upset about this, and apparently she had been holding in her frustration for a while. Before she moved back into town for our college semester to begin, my female friend moved in a week early. Having not seen her for a large amount of the summer, we hung out a lot during the week before school. My girlfriend was not in town for this whole week, and when she arrived that weekend, I got a call that I needed to come home for family reasons. My girlfriend described her anger with this situation as \"You got to hang out with HER for a whole week, and when I got here, you leave me!\"\n\nAfter a while of fighting, I ask her why she's not upset when I spend time with my large amount of other friends (some of which are also female). She said that \"I don't hang around other girls. I don't trust them, all they do is make drama. Girls and guys can't be friends without any romantic interest. I'm tired of girls stealing my boyfriends from me, and I don't want to lose you.\" She now gets upset about me texting my female friend, sitting next to her in any situation, or even bringing her name up in conversation. She's been going through a lot of family problems lately as well, so I don't want to break up with her and shovel even more problems onto her shoulders. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's been almost exactly 2 months since I broke up with my now ex. I explained my reasoning, and he seemed to accept it okay. I tried my best at no contact, but I did end up sending a few emails along the way to see how he was, explaining a bit more, etc. \nI am not sad about this anymore. Not in the slightest. I don't even really miss him, which kinda tells me I did the right thing.\nNow, I haven't emailed him in over two weeks and he continues to send an email almost everyday. They're so desperate. I want to tell him to stop, that it's over, seriously. I'm not replying and he's sending more and more, manipulating me in shitty ways. \nI feel like I should tell him to stop, but he's said that he'll die trying or that he has nothing else but me. He isn't in a good place in his life and I'm afraid what me telling him to back off will do to him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend has an addictive personality. He used to be addicted to meth but has been clean now for a few years. He is also a heavy drinker. I found out he did coke a couple of months into our relationship. I've tried being cool about it but then he started lying to me about his use. I've asked him to stop and he has said he will but still doesn't stop.\n\nIt doesn't seem like he uses it a lot but I am worried about his health. Whenever certain friends come around, he can't help but give in and do coke with them. I love him and we have talked about kids and getting married and I am worried he will never be able to stop. He tells me he can stop whenever he likes, but I feel if he doesn't stop now, how will he be able to stop 5 years down the line. His friends are telling him to be a man and don't let her \"cut of your balls\". All I am asking is he stops doing cocaine. I'm not asking anything else of him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obligatory \"didn't happen today\"...\n\nAbout 2 years back or so I was in charge of a big portion of marketing at one of my previous companies and was the only graphic designer. We had just recently kickstarted a community outreach and educational program for parents and their children.\n\nWell, there were community/educational brochures I designed to mass-print in a quantity of 10,000 brochures. These would go out to churches, rec centers, elementary schools, libraries - you know, community orgs and entities. \n\nWhen designing the brochure I inserted a placeholder phone number that was just a random 800 number for proofing purposes (it wasn't meant to stay and was meant to be replaced by a real number to our location). The brochures were approved and sent to print. That placeholder number stayed.\n\nWhen they came in, my manager and I were REALLY excited to see how they turned out (I worked really hard on them). We opened up the FedEx box, pulled them out and my boss turns to the page with the number and says \"Oh! You purchased a new number for this brochure?\" - I acted dumb to play it off and I couldn't say much but \"oh noo....\" \n\nShe picks up the phone and dials it and the good news here is that it turns out it's not a fake number...the bad news was that it was a number to a phone-sex hotline.\n\nI didn't get fired and my boss kept her composure quite well and just said \"okay...let's see how we can fix this\" - so I ordered a bunch of tiny permanent stickers to put over the brochure phone number.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my SO (M 30) and I (F 22) have been together for almost five years, living together twelve months. We have a great relationship, and always have. Early on when we started dating our sex life was great. We had sex almost every day, tried new things, and it was just generally satisfying for both of us.\n\nFast forward to about eighteen months ago. That's around the time we started looking for a house together. That's about when my sex drive all but died. I'm still very much in love with my SO and want to be with him for the rest of our lives.\n\nWhen we have sex (which he always initiates) I feel so guilty because I just have no interest (while he always enjoys it). It feels fine, but not as good when we first started dating. He wants it to be good for me, I know, but nothing works. I'm not on any kind of medication that would do this to me, so I'm not sure what's going on. I'm just terrified of spending the rest of my life with someone when I really struggle with their sexual appetite. I really have to force myself to have sex and then feel awful about it after 'cos I just don't enjoy it at all. \n\nI'm wondering if there's anything I can do to go back to how things were before. I'm willing to put my feelings aside to make him happy... I know that probably isn't healthy, but I value our relationship too much. Is it possible to fake interest in sex for the next 50+ years? Can I do something physically or mentally to change how I think/feel about sex? I want to enjoy/desire sex, but no matter how much I talk myself into it, it doesn't happen.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I changed my cell phone number at the beginning of this year because of personal reasons. Unfortunately, the new number came with some baggage.\n\nEvery few days, the same person would call and ask for a Ramon in Spanglish. Having taken 7 years of Spanish, I've patiently explained to him numerous times in both English and Spanish that this is no longer Ramon's number and that I'd like time to stop calling. \n\nAfter the 11th time of 'ello? Donde es Ramon?' I promptly hangup and wait for the next call. Sure enough, a few minutes later, I get another call from the same person and I answer in Korean. \n\nIt's important to note that I have absolutely no how to speak Korean except for what my friends have taught me.\n\n'Annyeonghaseyo?'\n'Donde esta Ramon? Ramon?'\n'Kimchee saranhaeyo. Oppa Oppa na!'\n'I want to uh speak with uh Ramon. I know he is there.'\n\nAt this point, I've exhausted my Korean knowledge, so I turn to my extensive anime background.\n\n'Dattebayo! Konbanwa minnasan! Suzuki Honda kage bunshin no justsu!'\n\nI begin spewing out the lyrics to Just be Friends until I hear a muddled apology and the phone clicks.\n\nI haven't received a phonecall looking for Ramon ever since.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The funding behind a lot of thinks is pretty straightforward, in my opinion. Most biological and chemical research can be tied to understanding/curing/treating a disease or something about alternative energy. That's what people pay for, that's what people want, that's what people need, so scientists do it. \n\nMost engineering is done for a few purposes: Defense. Commercial computing. Industrial manufacturing and things like...cars. Things we sell, things we make to make things we sell, and things to \"protect us\" or w/e.\n\nAnyway, why do we want to go to Mars? To determine the climate and surface radiation to plan for a human mission to Mars? - why would we want a human mission to Mars?\n\nTo see if Mars was at any point habitable - Why do we need to know that? Why would we spend billions of dollars and countless hours of work to determine that? \n\nIt's an incredible feat, and space has always fascinated me, but what motivates these studies?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm walking down the street in New York, and there's a steady stream of foot traffic going in either direction. Out of the corner of my eye, I'm watching people coming at me when I bump shoulders with a guy and hear a splat of what sounded like some kind of drink behind me. Recalling what I had previously seen, it looked to be an emaciated man carrying an old black plastic shopping bag that I had bumped shoulders with. Thinking nothing of it, I keep walking. Then I hear someone say \"excuse me\" from behind, and realize that I may have knocked the plastic bag out of the homeless-looking man's hand by mistake. Two thoughts pop into my head about what might have happened: 1) this guy is trying to scam me, and probably \"accidentally\" bumps into people and drops things all the time, hoping that they'll overcompensate him for what they've \"damaged\" 2) I genuinely knocked something out of this guy's hand. In the case of the latter scenario, my response is still going to be something like \"well, you should really carry your things away from oncoming traffic if they're that important to you,\" but I figure this homeless guy isn't the type who's going to listen to that kind of reasoning. So I ignore him. I pick up my pace to walk quickly like someone who's in a hurry, but not quickly enough that he could accuse me of trying to evade him. Then I hear \"excuse me\" again. At this point I'm thinking \"fuck, this guy is persistent, and he's definitely not the kind of person I want to get into an argument with on the street.\" I also note that I'm only one block away from the subway station, so I decide to keep my pace up and continue to ignore him. I duck into the underground pathway leading to the turnstile and I hear it again, with heightened urgency: \"excuse me.\" So I make a dash for the turnstile, swipe my card, and jump on the first train out of there.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: \n\nI am from a rural town in mexico where old traditions are still a rule. my parents believe in dating = just talking never kissing, holding hand or anything. Is difficult for them to understand that I am dating someone from US, and often get in arguments with them about it. I cannot imaging if they found out that I am sleeping over at his house. \n\nNow my boyfriend got mad see background please. He called me coward, but I do not know what to do. I cannot tell my parents. I do not want to be dishonest, is just that they will not understand. :( . I am just going to cause an argument with them of not ending, just to give you an idea my grandpa only advice to me was \"if you lose you virginity before marriage you are worthless, so be careful\" how can I deal with this!!! \n\nIt took me years to do not feel guilty myself, and now my boyfriend who I love very much is thinking of breaking up with me. I am dying.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "we have been together for 2 years and it was a great relationship, we had intimate relations too, we basiclly lived in each others house and we were so happy, she loved me and I loved her.\none week (a month ago) we had crazy fights since she went to a trip and met a lot of guys and I was jealous, we had a lot of tenstion that week and there was 1 fight that just screwd everything up, we got to my house after that and we broke up, we did a mistake and she spent the night with me (our last night).\nafter that we fought a lot, we basiclly hurted eachother a lot and she told me things that are really offensive, I guess I did the same to her as well.\nnow we dont speak, if I try to speak with her she will probably block me (using whatsapp,facebook).\nI love her so much and I want to get her back and I think she loves me too but doesnt want to be with me, how do I get her back? I have to I feel, its been a month and nothing has changed, I think she still loves me but she said she doesnt want to be with me.\n\np.s: we broke up in the past, about4-5 times but always got back together, once she told me that it doesnt matter how much we are mad at each other and we will always get back together because we love each other.\n\nsorry for bad english.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I introduced 2 girls to each other. They hit it off. They are both bisexual. Anyways, they started dating. And on the side, I found out that both like me, and they are both sexually liberal about themselves. So my question, is how do I get into a 3some with the two? \n\nI am not a sleezy douche. I'm just being lost and confused since I'm a virgin. \n\nFirst: How do I bring up the idea of a 3some? I don't know if they know that the other person likes me. \nBoth they do both like me. They told me, separately. \nAnd if they both agree, how would a 3some work? \n\nI am 20 years male.\nOne girl is 21 years old.\nThe other is 19 years old.\nTheir relationship duration is 2 weeks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's summer and I've got a lot of time on my hands, I've also got some fat accumulating on my body that I really wouldn't like to be there and have a new appearance when I return to school in August. I'm a gamer so my diet is poor and I tend to sit around a lot. I've already got my diet on the way to a greener future so that is covered but thoughts are still welcome on that. I'd like to stay away from going to the gym if possible, my ultimate goal is to be thinner and look like I'm in good shape but I don't want to build a lot of muscle, so mostly cardio work I was thinking. I thought a morning jog that would go progressively further everyday would be a start but I'm unsure as I've never tried to lose weight before, doing this in the morning to me would also rid me of my laziness by forcing me to be active first thing in the morning. So anybody else that has advice or tips it'd be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this girl now for about 9 months, and it has been going great. She's the first girl I've been with that I am completely happy with, and we have an amazing amount in common.\n\nHowever, I'm slowly finding out about her past, and I am letting it get to me. We make it a point to never talk about past relationships/flings, because it is not important, only the future is. I knew she had had a few boyfriends in the past, but never heard anything else. A couple months after we started dating, I kept hearing from mutual friends about her \"crazy\" past, and how wild she used to be. I never wanted to hear more, so I just tuned it out and didn't worry about it.\n\nThe other day I was at a large house party, and she was visiting some family before she got there, so she wasn't present yet and I didn't know very many people. I was in the kitchen and two guys were talking about her, and I made the foolish decision to hang around and listen (they didn't know I was dating her). Apparently she was like the one night stand queen, and had slept with a bunch of guys the past few years. Eventually another girl came up and joined in and said something along the lines of \"yeah, I've heard she's been with over 50 guys!\". Thats when I finally realized I didn't want to hear any more and got out of the room.\n\nI know I shouldn't let it get to me, but it really is :( \nI think part of it is that I'm not one for casual sex, and have only been with girlfriends in the past. I view sex as a very emotional thing, and it makes me think that she doesn't by hearing things like this. I know it is so foolish to think about this too much, because we really are perfect together, and she has never given me a reason not to trust her.\n\nWhat can I do to not worry about this? I feel really bad for letting it get to me, and I want to make sure I don't ruin things by being distant and distraught about it.\nThanks everyone!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My current roommate (college) and I have been good friends and living together for a year and a half after being randomly assigned to live together. However, she came into the situation of living with me expecting me to be some terrible person with no regards to others feelings, when in fact I'm very compassionate. Apparently my boyfriends ex-girlfriend and my roommate were friends and the ex-gf said that I was a home wrecking bitch due to the fact that we had been friends and I started dating her ex. In retrospect, after I broke up with my ex she always invited him over to hang out with us even though I told her it made me uncomfortable and I really didn't want him to hang out with us because he was obviously not over me. When I started dating my boyfriend I made sure that her and him never saw eachother because neither liked the other. She then told me we could no longer be friends because knowing that I was with him basically tainted her view of me and it made her violently ill to even look at me...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey r/relationships, \n\nHere to talk about this since it happened on New Years day. It didn't upset me as much as it confused me. \n\nWe dated in the summer before she went off to college (as I went to college in our hometown). We both agreed to keep in touch and to also look for other people and date others if we feel the need be. We kept flirting off and on through the semester. --- College is over and she comes back down saying how she's still in love with me and wants to have sex.\n\nI broke it down for her, and was honest. Stating that I've been intimate with a girl, and have started dating her like we initially said we should do. \n\nAlthough we both agreed on the gameplan, and I tried to not lead her on, she was extremely upset with me. Now I'm known as a manipulative bastard to all her friends, which is fine, since i never see them anyways.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so, i mean i have zero dating experience, let alone flirting experience, but i'm only 16 so that's expected. Its really simple so i'm just going to try to get down to the point. \n\nA guy i text says he likes to talk to me twice but he never starts the conversations. I hate always doing it because i feel like i'm annoying him or being clingy, and for that reason i can't face him in person or keep texting him, i haven't texted him in a long while (probably like 2-3 weeks) because i get a disinterested vibe from him if i start another conversation with him in the same week so i feel intimidated and i back off. Another thing that is difficult is that i have had no classes with him since grade 9 so...not much time to get to know each other face to face during these 3 years. Despite that, i'm okay talking to him face to face if he approaches me, its just me walking up to him is hard and starting a conversation is bad because i don't even do that with my close friends.\n\nShould i still try to talk to start conversations (via text cause...no other way for us to really communicate) or just forget about him in a romantic-relationship way and stick to being a friend...\n\n(if you need more details feel free to ask)\n\nSorry if i am coming off as those typically teenage girls, its just my friends don't care or want to bother listening to my \"boy problems\" since i never act on them, so i would appreciate some simple advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically i'm hanging out with her this weekend and she is already looking up stuff for us to do... I have kind of been lacking on that end because had work + tons of errands to do today. I basically told her that I felt bad for not looking for things to do this weekend, because she hopped on it before i could.\n\nShe THEN replies to me with this: \"i just wanna make an effort in this relationship, so you see it <3\"\n\nWhat is she thinking? Does she think i don't see her love and affection??? Should I feel bad about this??? What should I be telling her back right now???? I want to make her feel like I care about her...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I gained approximately 30-40 lbs after turning 21 - just the past year and 8 months. I would say a good deal of that came from drinking and the drunk eating. Additionally, I moved off campus for my senior year and found it easier to eat out or grab fast food for lunch and dinner rather than cook for myself or go to the dining hall on campus as I did my first three years. During my last semester of college I was easily drinking every day. Typically Sunday-Wednesday were \"light\" nights varying 2-4 beers, with Thursday-Saturday being heavy nights where I may have 8-10 drinks or more in a night. After graduating in early, I have drank maybe 3 times total and each time it was only a glass or two of wine. I've also been more responsible about not eating out (though still not perfect) and exercising.\n\nNow, I'm wondering why I haven't seen any weight loss. I've been trying to take the \"Ease into it\" approach, but it seems like even just cutting drinking I should be losing weight. Beyond that, no late night taco bell and mcdonalds runs, or pizza/pasta for dinner every night should be showing on the scale too right?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay Mainly I hate her choice in guys. She's awesome. She's got a master's degree. She's got a great job teaching. She's attractive to most. But fucking damn does she know how to pick them. She has this almost delusional sense of what love is. She has been one of my best friends since 6th grade (almost 16 of friendship) We were even roommates for a year I love her to death. But I can't fucking stand any dude she has dated. They just take advantage of her naivette, she's is currently in love with a dead beat dude, who has cheated on her multiple times with girls off craigslist as well as with the bartenders of the places we all frequent. She knows this, which just irks the hell out of me. \n\nI am about tired of bailing her out and being there for her. I wish her nothing but the best, but I'm tired of hearing the same sob story about him cheating on you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well I'm writing this from my phone bc I refuse to go back on my laptop out of embarrassment. Backstory: I'm on a trip with my parents and dog and to my disapproval, I have to share a room with them. Two beds, in an exceptionally small room but hey, there's a kitchen. In all fairness though, a room just for me or even for my dog too would be a lot of money, but I digress. This literally happened about 15 mins ago, when I was just browsing the front page. Now, I wanted to keep it clean bc I don't need to be a horned up 18 year old in the same room as his parents. But, gonewild got the better of me. After a few posts, shit, I started to feel some type of way so I decided to check out that site Reddit is advertising, Thumbzilla (not bad). I found a video and as things started to get heated in it, my hand slipped under the sheets and there was rubbin' galore. This went on for about 5-7 mins before I looked past my laptop screen and saw the glint of my mom's eyes staring me dead. In. The. Face. Instantly, I froze, pretended nothing happened, closed the laptop, and rolled over in the bed. Might as well have been my grave. She hasn't said anything to me and I doubt she will but I don't think she can unsee what she done seen.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background: I'm 20, she is 21. She cheated on her ex (of three years) with me. I was unawares at the time because she said they were through. Fast forward to when she actually broke up with him. She went through a long period before we had begun dating, and during this time it was sketchy at best. We were not dating but had been involved and were considering dating soon. A week before I asked her to be my girlfriend (4 months of being together unofficially) she meets up with a random mutual friend and gets drunk and fucks him. She says she didnt know they would when they were drunk, but thats rediculous because I talked to him and he said they planned to have sex for a long time. (This isn't a huge problem because we werent dating but still concerns me). Did she do this to get it out of the way because she knew she would soon be \"committed?\" She is completely anal about me not talking or even looking in the general direction of a girl whom she thinks I like, however, she can hang out, alone, til 4 in the morning, while we're dating, with a guy she has fucked before. My real question is, am I encroaching on relationship boundaries by asking her to stop hanging out with him? Or is she being rediculous by having this double standard since she has a bad track record with cheating (obviously)? Can I trust her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night I was talking with my girlfriend, things have been rough this month. Everything was going smoothly, nothing out of the ordinary and we began discussing about feminism. I don't actually remember how it came about that but it did. I asked her if she was a feminist and she responded with of course I am. We both live in separate countries (me USA) and my experience with feminism is extremely toxic, she lives in Sweden where its #1 country for feminism (I'm not surprised). She was saying things like how women get paid less, etc. Me trying to not argue with her, doing my best to be logical. She told me don't you want women to have equal rights? I'm like yes of course, but that doesn't make me a feminist. The word itself 'feminism'- isn't equality by itself, that is fighting for women's rights- I'm not going to go into that because that's just- another topic.\n\nSo after discussing about that she kept telling me, you're either a feminist or I'm breaking up with you. My brain 'blue-screening' figured she was just making up an excuse to break up with me but shes being dead serious I believe. Everything else makes sense, her attitude towards me at times or how I just want sex only, it really bothers me and I tell her that. I've been in a feminist relationship before and it was pretty toxic and feel like if I try to reason with her it's just going to end bad now, now that we know we aren't both feminists. \n\nI just don't know why I can't agree to certain aspects without calling myself a feminist cause I'm not, there are problems too with men's rights and not just women's.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm going to be a sophomore next year at UC Irvine and the only way I've been able to afford college is through loans. I wasn't awarded a single cent in grants or scholarships. I don't understand why I haven't gotten anything... I'm a Hispanic female, top of my high school class (well...bottom of the top...I got two B+s), took 9 AP classes and passed every test, 7 of them with 5s, I'm one of 6 children with divorced parents who make...oh...right....they make just enough for me not to qualify for anything from FAFSA. I'm a Cognitive Psych major hoping to double in Studio Art and shooting for a PhD in Psych. I'm starting up my school's very first Doctor Who Club next year but...of course...it doesn't count for anything. I am asking anyone who feels slightly sympathetic for my case to help me. Whether it be showing me scholarships I can apply to (besides all those useless ones that you apply to every week online...), advice on how to make money, or you know...a loving donation. I can draw you a picture, please. I need money for school. :[\n\noh god how pathetic of an attempt to have strangers give me money. forgive me internet. I need the money.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all,\n\nI [30M] am at a bit of a transitional point in my life at which I intend to move out-of-state in about a year's time. I am also finally at a point where I feel I have emotionally \"moved on\" from a previous long-term relationship. These two factors combine to form my desire to meet and have a relationship with a woman, though simultaneously keeping things necessarily short-term-- I am clean-slating this out-of-state move and I'm not trying to take a relationship with me (if it happens, so be it, but that's not the target I'm aiming at).\n\nThe problem is I don't really know how to do this. I've always done either a high-quality committed relationship OR 'one night stand' type of hook-ups. I don't have much interest in doing the bar-pickup 'one night stand' scene at this point just because-- at my current state of person-- it takes a little more than just biology to get me into a girl enough to want to sleep with her. What I'm trying to achieve is to maintain a casual relationship with a woman that doesn't feel cheap to either side. I'm not down for misleading. I'm not down for sleeping with a woman that I can't at least enjoy conversing with during non-sexual time. I haven't had much luck in the past because the few women that I felt I had this kind of set-up with told me in the beginning that they were okay with the arrangement, only to actually end up wanting a greater commitment as time progressed.\n\nSo...is there anyone out there who has had this work out well? Am I chasing a phantom?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry this will be long.\n\nI am about to graduate from law school and applied for a job where they are seeking someone with a J.D. to work as a contract manager. I sent my resume and cover letter and was called within 1-2 hours after emailing it to come in and interview.\n\nAs it turns out, the job posting (I am pretty sure at least) only went out to my classmates. I know several people who have applied.\n\nThe interview was yesterday and I feel very positive about it. I tend to interview well, and all the signs from the three different people I interviewed with really made me think I have a good shot at this job. My interview concluded at 2:45pm or so.\n\nI was told by HR that they have \"a couple more interviews this week\" and \"one pushed back to next wee\" but she will contact me either way with an offer or just to let me know they are going a different direction \"soon\" and that the contact should happen \"pretty quickly\" likely within 1 week, and probably not more than 2.\n\nI found out today that a classmate/friend of mine who applied the same day as me (a week ago yesterday) was called yesterday to come in for an interview this week.\n\nI know for sure they conducted at least two interviews yesterday before the call to my friend to ask him to interview. He and I applied the same day, and I was called within 2 hours of applying the same day, but he was called a full week later to interview. And he was called at 3:45pm so definitely after my interview had concluded.\n\nMy question is, does calling more people to interview mean that they probably didn't love me and are trying to get a bigger interview pool?\n\nI don't know what to make of it, and I am stressing royally because not only is it my dream job, but the pay is simply amazing. However, the pay was not advertised in the job posting and I only found out from the HR Manager at the end of my interview what the salary is.\n\nThoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's this guy who I'm very close friends with, we've been friends for about 4 years and he's been dating this girl now for 2 weeks. I've never had romantic feelings towards him before, until now. Ever since he's been dating her I feel like I've been developing a crush on him. Is it maybe just that there's a new girl in his life and I'm being territorial and not wanting her to take his attention from me? Or do you think it's an actual crush? How do I differentiate? Because it's weird that I've never had any sort of romantic feelings for him until he's dating her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Events which really needed some insight in order to figure out what really happened (nothing too traumatic).\nHere's mine:\n\n* I wasn't a really great student back in grade 2 and the teachers really were scared of me. One day we had a math test; and math was just not something that I grasped at the time. For some reason I understood what was to be tested that day, I didn't really buckle down and study, I just understood out of nowhere how to do the questions. The teacher marked our tests really quickly and handed them back so we could go over the answers. She comes to me to share what I did for a fairly \"complicated\" question and then asked me how I got it right. I couldn't tell her why. I wasn't a great learner at the time and couldn't give her a logical reason, but clearly, I had work written out for that question. I said I forgot how I did it, and the teacher eyed me and said \"Hmm, that's weird I guess that happens sometimes, when students just forget how to find the answer\" and she moves on. So I think about it today, and it's very obvious she thought that I cheated; and at such a young age too! Sort of explains why I wasn't a very favored student among the staff.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been friends with this person for a few months now, and we honestly get along very well. He's a funny guy, and we play a lot o' games together as bros. Whenever we're out together or at some sort of group gathering, we jokingly always act as though we are secretly deeply in love with each other and get all touchy. And up until now I thought he was straight, so I didn't really think much of it. (For reference, I am a bi-curious straight male.)\n\nAnyway, today he finally came out to me and a select few as gay after realizing he felt this way roughly 2.5 years ago. I was really happy for him, because it was honestly a huge weight off his shoulders and it makes me happy knowing that he feels better about this. However, now I feel incredibly awkward. I'm not sure whether or not it's still okay to do the whole \"gay couple\" act with him at this point, because I don't want to play with his feelings like that knowing that it might not necessarily be an act on his part.\n\nI am going to try talking to him when I get the chance and see what he says, but he's notorious for not giving very clear answers and I don't want to pressure him so soon after he has built up the courage to come out to me and a few others. But I don't know whether or not it's still okay to do this, and I'm not sure whether or not he might even have feelings for me, since he doesn't really do the \"gay couple\" thing with anyone else. I really don't know what I'm supposed to do here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a few days ago I stumbled upon his Facebook search history. I scrolled down to see the list, and there are about 3 girls (friends) that keeps coming up. Every month there'd be a few times where it says \"___ searched for CuteGirlA \" . but one girl got more searches than the other ones... \n\nI then confronted him. He lied about it at first until i showed him the proof. and he said that he has a \"creeping addiction\"? and that he feels bad every time he does it but can't stop himself.. But he said its merely for entertainment and not lust..is there such thing? \n\nHe apologized many times, and said he really does love me. and he would do anything to earn back my trust, and he even deleted Facebook for me. but I feel very betrayed and I don't know what to do that'll make me feel better.. can i trust him again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I broke up with my ex of 2.5 years last may (about 8-9 months ago) and although it was difficult I felt I was making the right choice - I needed to date around/experience other women, things we were way too stale (she can be really quiet and sedentary). We completely stopped talking ~3 months ago. \n\nI felt a lot better about myself after this, was really happy and even recently started dating a girl I am really into. However, now that I started dating this new girl, I have started thinking a lot about my ex. I find myself comparing the two and it has me missing my ex/romanticizing my old relationship. I have no idea why these feelings have just surfaced and they're bothering me. How do I get them to stop?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obviously, it can't be all that repressed if I'm making a thread about it right now. The anonymity helps me to speak about it more openly, I believe.\n\nFrom that Nerdy Nummies chick on YouTube to pretty much 90% of the women I've raided with in WoW. Even the woman that I play with in league and know IRL irritate me greatly, even though I'd never admit it out loud.\n\nThe only motive I can think up that would make me so upset is that they are applauded for embracing their \"geekdom\" while most males are criticized. Which is pretty stupid since I like women and playing with them should be enjoyable. They tend to have pleasing voices and be more willing to play support roles(100% personal experience).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok.. I know this sounds like a silly question, but hear me out.\n\nFirstly - I've been in several relationships, some better, some worse - but I have never cheated in any of them and I never plan to.\n\nI did however start to think about \"why\" I don't cheat.\n\nThinking about this the NUMBER ONE reason I wouldn't cheat is that it would hurt my girlfriend a lot. I couldn't bear that and it alone has definitely and will definitely stop me from ever cheating. \n\nBut in talking to her about this, she also lists a reason of simply not wanting to - and being happy with me. I'm not sure I can say it that way - I love her a great deal but I'm also a young guy with a strong libido. I definitely meet women all the time that, if I wasn't in a relationship, I'd sleep with in a second.\n\nThere's a lot of talk where men view sex and love as two separate things and women don't. Maybe that's part of this.\n\nWhat are your thoughts? Are there more reasons you don't cheat? Is it different for women?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Bear with me here, there is a bit of a story. \n\nSo I am a part time manager at my movie theater job (one step above staff member), My general manager has a \"managers can't even be friends with staff\" rule which I frequently ignore. In my opinion he has no say over what I do when I'm not at work as long as it's not effecting my job performance. \n\nThe other day I was working as the only Manager on duty and I spent a lot of the day talking to this one guy, we'll call him Joe. Joe and I often talk a lot on shifts but never really about anything personal, more like latest movies, what we did on the weekend etc. \n\nAt the end of his shift I brought Joe into the office to balance his cash drawer and he waited until we were in there alone and said out of no where \"Do you want to see deliver us from evil\"\n\nI didn't think anything of it and responded by saying \"I do want to see it, I like scary movies but none of my friends will ever watch them with me.\"\n\nTo which he responded \"because I kind of want to see it...\" At that point someone else knocked on the door and we weren't alone in the office anymore so that was it. \n\nNow he's away on a family trip for the next 2 and a half weeks. \n\nWas he trying to ask me if I wanted to see that movie with him? or was he just making small talk?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in charge of checking payroll where I work, and I see how many hours people work during the pay period (2 weeks). We've had a lighter month than usual, and a few people were commenting that they didn't work as much because of it. What should have been 80 hours, was more like 70-75. One person barely broke 60. \n\nI noticed my boss had 80+ hours, even though she took two half-days during this pay period. She over compensated her paid time off (PTO). She added time to her half-days so that she had close to 10 hours for each of her days off, even though she didn't put in more than 8 hours a day at work this whole month (she worked closer to 7 hrs a day). She is constantly complaining about the budget and complains when we (the employees) need supplies (you know, for our jobs). I feel like she's cheating the company by taking extra time off she didn't earn, and even getting some over time when she's pretty much the only one (there is a specialist who has the most work out of everyone regardless). I'm not mad she took PTO, I'm mad because she intentionally set it for more than 8 hours to boost her paycheck. \n\nThe problem is, I can't do anything about it. I have a very low position and I hold no sway. I can't tell the higher ups in the company/corporation, because she's in good with all of them and it will just come back to bite me. I can't tell the other employees because that will just start more drama and tension in the office. I'm also not entirely sure if what she did was unethical in taking advantage of the situation, or if anything wrong actually took place. \n\nSo, is this unethical or illegal, or am I just not used to office politics?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My [21F] BF [20M] is the sweetest guy I have ever met. He is a very big guy as well which is what attracted me to him before he opened his mouth (He's 6'6\" and 300+ lbs). I love him so dearly and I'm so grateful that I do have someone so wonderful in my life.\n\nI have been very seriously abused by men so my boyfriend (let's call him John) has always been very supportive and is always careful of what and how he says things and now its second nature to him. I have never told John, however, that I am very attracted to the manly man as well as the sweet guy. I would like, when we're alone, for him to carefully man-handle me. I want him to take control sometimes and basically let out his inner Neanderthal a little.\n\nI don't want him think that I like the abuse. It's more the \"chest-beating\" and the \"I'm the man, you're the woman\" attitude that I enjoy once in a while. It's also only in the bedroom/getting to the bedroom when I do enjoy it. Not if we were to be at the grocery store and he says \"So what are you making me for dinner?\" kind of crap.\n\nSorry of that's confusing but I don't really know how to explain it...\n\nWhat I'm asking for is a) how can I better describe this to him? and b) is this something that's okay to ask of him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "From time to time you feel like wearing that top hat and monocle to drink your favourite tea kind... But you feel alone. You feel like \"Hell why ain't ma dawg drinkin dis shit?\". But dogs don't drink tea. So you feel alone. Alone with your after-effects of the holy tea very few know about. Visions emerge before you as you're having the best trip ever from the tea. Then! Why not share my favourite tea with the Internet? Maybe I will enlighten someone? Maybe this is my destiny! This is what I was born to do! Share my exquisite tea collection!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit, long time lurker, first time poster. Throwaway account. I am a 22 year-old female and he is a 29 year-old male. We have been casually seeing each other for about six weeks now.\n\nWe initially met through a friend at a bar, and things were awkward at first, but we ended up going for a late meal and hitting it off. After we met we began texting quite frequently (maybe once a day) and went on a few dates. We first slept with each other on the third date and it was great. Since then, we have gone on a few dates, that almost always end with us sleeping together. I consider all of this to be casual and we have never discussed a relationship or anything more. \nBut here is my issue: he keeps asking me to go on all of these really nice, fancy dinner dates. I do enjoy his company but I do not want to pursue anything more than what we currently have going. He is attractive, generous, and sweet; but we do not seem to have an engaging connection and I got out of a very long and intense relationship at the beginning of the year (so I want some time to be single), among other reasons.\nMy question is: when would it be an appropriate time for me to bring up my concerns? He invited me to go on a date this week. Should I go and tell him there? Or should I decline and tell him right away that I think these dates are a bit much for our given situation? My personal philosophy has always been don't discuss being serious unless the other person brings it up. He has not brought it up. I guess my biggest concern is that he pays for our dates (I try to pay for my half or my drinks and he never lets me) and it seems unfair if I don't want to be official in the end. He is a great guy and I would like to continue seeing him without any strings attached.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We get home and put the pizza in the oven, while we waited for the pizza to finish I thought I would go ahead and have an energy drink. I downed that in a few minutes. Big mistake. My stomach started to hurt a little but I said what the fuck and went for the nice greasy pizza when it came out.\nSo about five minutes after I finish my pizza I get the brilliant idea to go down on my fiance. She gets in front of me and pulls down her pants and I start to please her. I stop for a second because I think I have to burp. NOPE. It wasn't a burp it was vomit. I threw up the pizza and energy drink I just had into her pants and it ran down her legs. She just stood there and took it. The pain and embarrassment crippled me to the floor and I just laid there and wept for a few minutes while she cleaned herself up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so this girl has been my friend for 3 years, and I never really had a crush on her until now. She is a grade behind me and I rarely got to see her after the year we met but we texted nearly every day since then. We briefly saw each other my sophomore year and we had a lot of fun that week but she moved away for family reasons. \n\n During sophomore year I went through a break up with the first person I fell in love with (I say love because I had never experienced the feelings I had for her before or since), and well I found solace in food and really let myself go and I began eating a lot and the habit stuck for a while. It has been a year and I have recently acknowledged my problem and have made the effort to lose weight. I'm losing weight through diet and exercise and its coming off but slowly. At the moment I am 5'11 and weigh 215 lbs. \n\n Now, I developed a crush for this girl after going through another problem with the aforementioned \"first love\". I vented out my my problem to my friend and we talked stuff through. Something happened after that, our conversations changed and we began texting more often. I don't know why but I began to like her more and more every day and realized how perfect for me she was. \n\n This was all good and she recently told me she is moving back here. The last time she saw me I was smaller both in height and weight, but the fact that i'm fat now concerns me. I want to further our relationship but I am very self conscious about my weight and I am too scared to make a move. My question is what do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had a note in my pocket, it was sort of a love note, but not. I placed it on my desk, so I could clean my pockets out. My friend tried to read it, so I picked it back up. Then, she snatched it back out of my hands and read it.\n\nShe laughed all the way through reading, she then showed it to the girl sat next to me. I told her not to tell anyone, especially the person who the letter was for.\n\nThe girl say next to me told another girl. They lightly teased me, but I didn't mind. They were nice to me about it and told no one.\n\nAt lunchtime, the boy who I wrote the letter for (not really intending to give), came up to me and said \"I know something\" with a straight face. He then walked away. I panicked, but tried to remain calm. I carried on with the conversation and he smiled at me, which is a good sign that he isn't too bothered, but I can never be sure with him.\n\nI asked my friend if she told. At first, she said no, but was laughing. Then, she told me that she told him about the letter and teased him about it. I told her that I was upset and that I told her not to. She simply said to get over it, that he doesn't like me and he always insults me. She continued to laugh and tease me the entire lesson.\n\nI feel horrible about this. So stupid. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(throwaway account, and sorry if this is the wrong subreddit).\n\nShe told me she had a history of fainting, and yesterday I saw it first-hand, and it was terrifying.\n\nWe had just taken a 2-hour car ride, and upon getting out of the car, she complained of feeling a \"head rush\" and leaned against the car. She then tensed up, stumbled and fall ever, and started having what I can only describe as a seizure: eyes glazed over, arms/body tensed, twitching on the ground. It lasted 5-10 seconds, and during that time she was completely unresponsive. Then almost immediately afterward, she sat up, asked for some water, and seemed almost completely back to her normal self. She said that she had \"blacked out\" and remembered nothing between complaining of the head-rush and waking up on the ground.\n\nHISTORY: apparently this started happening to her when she was in her early teens, usually after standing up after a period of inactivity. More recently, it's been linked to times when she's had a strenuous workout or been otherwise dehydrated. She says happens about 2-3 times a year. When she was younger, the doctors said it was because she was growing and \"didn't have enough blood in her system.\" Now, they don't have any idea why it's happening. \n\nDoctors (and/or med-students) of Reddit, what is this? If I see it happening, what can I do to make sure she doesn't hurt herself? Is there anything she can do to prevent it from happening?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know that it's time my girlfriend and I break up. I can't give her the attention/emotion she deserves or wants and I feel like I'm wasting her time by being with her. I really like her, and breaking up with her is going to break me and I know that but I really honestly and truly believe we need to break up. \n\nI digress, we both go to the same college together but our home towns are 3.5 hours apart. She was planning on driving up to visit me for a week on Sunday and I was going to break up with her while she was visiting. \n\nI didn't choose this to be cruel. I thought that she would rather hear it in person than over the telephone. When I told my mom my plans she was infuriated with me because it was \"cold\" of me to have her drive all this way to be broken up with and then have to drive home sad and alone. \n\nShould I call her and do it tomorrow or wait for her to visit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been thinking about seeking some type of therapy (most likely CBT) for awhile now to help me deal with some social anxiety and negative thinking issues for some time. I've never done this sort of thing before and while I think I'm doing pretty well in bettering myself on my own, I'd like to make more progress and get an outside opinion on some things.\n\nMy concern is that if I seek therapy, and use my insurance to help pay for it, that this information could somehow be used against me when looking for employment. I just submitted an application to the Peace Corps and as part of that application it asked if I had ever seen a psychologist and if so, the date I saw them last. I answered no, which is true, but if I now go see a therapist and don't tell them, then I'm likely breaking rules that if they found out, could lead to my termination (and I guess possibly fines/jail).\n\nIs there any way for them to find this out if I don't tell them? I really feel that it's a personal issue that doesn't concern them and I don't want it to influence my chances. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Need some perspective! \n\nI've been in 2 long-term relationships since high school, so I've never really done the adult dating thing. I recently got out of my last one in the summer, and started casually dating in the fall. I've been having a lot of fun going on dates. For a while it was a string of first-dates and nothing serious, but recently I've been seeing a guy for a month and it's been going really well.\n\nI enjoy spending time with him including going for dinners as we both are foodies, cooking dinner at his place, going out to the bar with his friends, that kind of thing. This past weekend he was acting off-standish and today he said that it bothered him that I rarely offered to pay. I mean I've paid for coffees and movie tickets and a few ones offs but when I thought about, I never did the whole fumbling-with-my-wallet thing very much. He would usually pick it up, but didn't say much after that. We talked it over and I told him of course I would pay for my share from now on. I wasn't even aware of it - I guess in my eyes, we weren't exclusive and if he wanted me to pick up my tab, he would have asked for separate bills or something to the tune of, \"Let's split it.\" I would have been more than happy to - I'm not going out with him for the free ride.\n\nI wanted to get some perspective from outsiders: is there a timeline when the girl should start paying? Is it right away, or after a month? Or totally depends on the guy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me start off with a disclaimer: I am not an egotist by any means. In fact, I despise haughtiness to the point of psychosis. I know this probably doesn't seem like a \"real problem\" but hear me out. When we first started dating I thought it was cute how \"into me\" she was. Not to mention the fact that I'd never really experienced being so gratuitously complimented by a member of the opposite sex. We've been dating for nearly a year and she hasn't slowed down in telling me how \"hot\" and \"perfect\" I am, and how she can't find a single flaw with me (these are her words mind you; I'm a pretty humble guy, probably a hard 7 in terms of looks, and am not perfect by any means). The more I hear it, the more cringe-worthy it becomes. The worst part is that she uses it as a metric for her own self-deprecation, saying how she needs to \"work out twice a day just to be hot enough for me\" when I persistently tell her that I am perfectly happy with the way she looks. She confesses her adulation for me on a daily basis pretty much, saying things like \"I worship pretty much everything about you\" and \"I don't know what I'd do if you left me.\" I love pretty much everything else about her, but this one tiny problem is quite maddening and I feel like I'm becoming less attracted to her the more she says these things. Is this what you girls mean when you chastise men for \"putting the pussy on a pedestal?\" It's weird seeing it from the other side. But yea, any thoughts? What can I say to her that will get the point across but won't hurt her feelings in the process?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Its a summer day and being a 16 year old female enjoying the days of being home alone, I decide to put my favorite broadway soundtrack Chicago on. I hop in the shower to enjoy the jazzy tunes (because, who doesn't like to sing in the shower) and I don't bother to close the bathroom door because I'm home alone right? Getting out to dry off when my favorite, \"When your good to Mama\" is on. \nFor those of you who don't know Chicago very well, \"When you're good to Mama\" is very sudctive if sang/danced right. So I feel hot when I sing this song and began to dry off in a senutal mannor, I put my leg up on the closed toilet seat and having a little sexy time in the mirror to see what I look like if I ever get a boyfriend and I do my little number when I turn my head to see-...\nMy Uncle, starting down the hallway. Gets a glance of my sexy-nakedness through the wide open door and my towel only covering one boob. He dives down the stairs and I grab my towel, turn off the music and shamefully dry myself off like a normal person, got dressed, and came out to the computer where I write my story of shame.", "role": "user" } ]

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