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"content": "So, I'm growing up in a very religious family, but in my religion I've always been taught that it's very important to make choices for myself. My parents have affirmed that to me many times. And about two years ago I started to think and realize that I don't really want to be in the church, but I didn't want to tell anyone because I didn't want to disrespect anyone. Then a few months ago, I finally couldn't take it anymore, I started to get annoyed by what many people were telling me in my three hour long meetings. I just overall wasn't very happy.\n\nSo naturally I faked being sick the next Sunday, didn't go to church and had no association to religion for the next two weeks (you can't be sick just one week). It was the happiest I'd been in a long time, no worries about a god that I didn't believe in watching my every move. \n\nThen another Sunday came, I knew my parents would start to get on me after three weeks of \"sickness\" so I decided to come out and tell them that I didn't want to be a part of their church anymore. It was one of the hardest things I've had to do, My dad was not pleased with this. He just assumed that society broke me and I had been spending too much time out in the world, so he grounded me, but not only that he restricted my every move. So this has led me into depression and It's soo hard to leave the house now, but it's also the only way I can come close to being happy.",
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"content": "So to make a long story short I made a myriad of financial mistakes when I was younger and instead of fixing my problems I hid from them and wallowed in depression. Over the course of the past 3 years I have fixed almost all of these mistakes and taken care of my depression through therapy and am trying to get on track to have a healthy and successful financial future. \n\nSo about a month ago I get an alert from Credit Karma of a new debt reporting on my credit and my score (which isn't great to begin with) takes a huge hit. I immediately go about checking my credit report. I see a new account labeled as being in collections for about 6k. I freak out for a little and then calm down and begin to investigate. \n\nSo it's seems that this account is collections for a private loan I took out when I was in college. Now, I did not realize I had taken out a private loan, all my other loans were through the federal government, but I was drunk a lot at that time in life as a depressed 22 year old and it's fully possible I went with a private lender to cover some of my school expenses. I look further at this account. It was already on my credit report as a delinquent account from Education Finance Partners. I looked them up and all I could find was that they apparently filed Chapter 7 at some point in the 2000s. This new collection account seems to be that same loan. However, the old loan was reported delinquent in 2008. It's been over 7 years. How can this new company report me as delinquent as of 2015? Any advice on what to do about this?",
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"content": "I'm living with my parents right now, due to some serious injuries I've since recovered from. I have the opportunity to move for a 9 month internship that might turn into a job. Even if it doesn't, I'd like to be in the general area where I want to settle down, so that I can drive to future interviews.\n\nI'm planning to move in March, and haven't told my family yet. I will probably tell my sister first, as she's the most reasonable. I like my parents, but they're kinda... strange sometimes. They don't like risk at all, and have told me many times that they don't understand why I want to live in a specific region when I can save money by working locally... even though it's a bad state for my career and I've hated it ever since moving here.\n\nAny advice? I'm thinking of telling my sister today. Otherwise I'd need to explain why I'm not signing with her new gym (last day to do it for cheap!) and naming her as referral.",
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"content": "My ex and I have been ex's for about 5 months. She broke the relationship off, she said her feelings for me had faded. I was truly heartbroken and I am still progressing this, but feel less for her every day now days. Within this time we've talked a little, mostly basic questions like how eachother is doing.\n\nI figured out a couple of days ago that I still have a couple of things at her place, a grillpan, and a couple of other things. Now we live about 500 kms apart, so get it is really not that easy. So I messaged her about it. It goes a day or two, she messages back that she can't find a box that big for the pan to fit in. I replyed that she can buy a large box, she claims she does not know where to buy one big enough.\n\nIn the next message she askes \"Stupid question, but you wouldn't be able to come here and pick them up? :)\".\n\nAs much as I still have still feelings for her, but certainly not as much as before. I wonder what she really wants. I don't want to be rude either, we handled this breakup like two adults. I don't know if I want to see her, as she was my first love of course she will be special to me. What can I reply to this?\n\nIf a longer version is needed, I think I can provide one.",
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"content": "My fiancé and I have been together for four years, he is the love of my life. Two years ago I was sure he was the man I would spend the rest of my life with and I thought I couldn't wait to have a baby with him, so I got pregnant. For a while everything was great, it wasn't perfect and we definitely had our problems but they were workable.\n\nThen, back in August I catch him talking to his ex girlfriend, nothing really inappropriate but I had asked him in the beginning of our relationship not to talk to her because it made me uncomfortable (they had just broken up 2 months before we started dating). We had a huge argument and he cried to me and swore he'd never do something to fuck up our relationship again. Then 5 weeks later his female friend has relationship problems and he lies to me and says he's staying late at school and can't pick our daughter up, so he can goto her house for an hour and help her, I guess. I caught him, he admitted everything but insists that nothing happened. I believe him, kind of.\n\nHere's the thing, I don't want to be with him anymore. I love our daughter so much though and I know that if I just tried, we could get through this for her sake. I also dug my own grave when I got pregnant because I set myself up to rely on his income. I feel like he's holding me back and like I'm holding myself back and quite honestly I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of fun things that people my age are doing and it kills me. I know now that we were no where near ready to have a child but I feel like it's my responsibility to stay with him and live out the life I've created for myself. Even if it means I having to be unhappy. \n\nWhat do you think I should do? Does anyone see a plan C?",
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"content": "Heeeeeres the summary:\n\nWe go to the same university - he is 1 year below me. At the end of fall semester before I left for study abroad during one of the uni wide parties I drunk FB chat him from my phone and get him to come \"hang out\" in my room at around 2 am. I was booty calling him since I was leaving, he thought were were hanging out and we just chatted in my room for an hour or so. [Made this meme about it.](\n\nDuring my study abroad we chat on occasion, I think he is quite funny but he is very shy. I am back in the US now interning in NYC and I find out that he is also interning in NYC. We have hung out twice in the city, walking around and talking for a a couple hours each time, each of which have ended with a brief hug. \n\nSo, I really can't tell what is up, its frustrating to me since I could be dating in the city if I wanted to but I'm focusing on this.",
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"content": "This girl who I have known for years, (We have both been in serious relationships, so it's not like I have been timelessly waiting for the moment) has told me that her SO will ditch her to go to house parties, and generally makes no time for her. I have had a thing for her since we were about 15, but never acted on it. Is it a wrong to wait until she is done with the relationship to ask her out for dinner? I don't want to be the reason for a breakup, but I feel like I have a lot more to offer her than this guy and am willing to wait until they break up.",
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"content": "When I was about 13 or 14, I had a neighbor, a nice, polite, elderly man who was VERY religious. He kept asking us, every single week, if we wanted to go to church with him, and me and my mom always politely declined. I'm an Atheist, and my mom is Jewish, for the record. \n \nSo, during one holiday, I can't remember which it was, probably Easter or Christmas, he asks us to go to church with him, and when we once again politely decline, he insists that it was important that we go because it was a holy day. It was then that my mom explained that she was Jewish, which he was somewhat taken aback by, but quickly accepted. However, the moment I said \"I don't believe in god.\", he was very clearly offended. \n \nFrom that day forward, every single day, he would knock on our door and remind me that I was going to hell and that the only way that god would ever forgive me is if I accepted him as the lord. He didn't care whether I was Christian or Jewish or whatever, as long as I believed that god was the creator of all and that I submitted my soul to him. He would always end our conversation with a typical \"Would you like to go to church with me this Sunday?\" and when I inevitably replied \"no thanks\", he would reply with \"Then you're going to hell.\" \n \nWe tried to ignore it, since we didn't want to start any problems, but it became so persistent, we eventually told him to stop coming by and harassing us, and that we were entitled to believe in whatever we wanted as long as our beliefs weren't hurting anyone else. He refused to accept that, saying that belief in god is the only path to heaven and that if you don't believe in him, then you will suffer in the fires of hell for eternity after you die. After that, we never spoke to him again.",
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"content": "So my ex broke up with me about a month ago after she was seeing someone behind my back. She did me a favor honestly and I just wish she had done it sooner.\n\nAfter she did it, she was posting pics with this other guy and all this crap, so I blocked her and all her friends on literally everything. The only possible way to contact me is through a carrier pigeon. I have completely removed her from my life, she is poison.\n\nI recently went on a date with this girl I really like and plan on asking her out on a second date. Psycho found out about it...\n\nI woke up yesterday morning to an email (the only way to block on gmail is to have them routed to the Spam folder) from her saying how I was a jerk for not telling her I was going on a date, that she's over me, etc. (uuuhhhh????? yeah ok).\nOk whatever, I found it hilarious.\n\nFast forward to around 2:54 pm and I decide to check my phone call blocking app, which keeps a log of phone calls and text messages blocked. Turns out that she tried to call me 28 times in a 25 minute period and sent 33 harassing texts...to which I burst out laughing at my desk. Bitch be cray.\n\nNow I know ignoring is the the best option and that's exactly what I've been doing. I'm just nervous that she's going to say something to this girl I went on a date with. Nobody wants to be harassed by someone just because they went out on a date, and a second date goes out the window if she finds out about this crazy person.\n\nHow/can I get this situation under control without making contact with that lunatic? Am I obligated to tell this new girl about this wacko? Should I contact my ex's friends?",
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"content": "My girlfriend has always worn very revealing clothes (Very short shorts, low cut shirt, tanktops, and the like) and has had problems with guys staring, groping her, flirting and even as far as slapping her ass. (We're in highschool by the way)Am I wrong to ask her to try to wear less revealing clothes to try to limit that kind of response from other males? The problems always decrease and even disappear completely when she wears jeans or reasonable shorts instead of short shorts or yoga pants and a tee shirt or blouse. But when I ask her to wear different clothes she says I am worrying too much about it, or we have a little spat and both get kinda pissy and it's really starting to get to be a big problem.",
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"content": "So I've just started college recently and I met a cute girl at the concert the school held for us before the first day of classes. She remembered me from orientation that summer, and we danced the whole night and then hung out in one of her friend's rooms.\n\nThings sort of progressed from that as we hung out most of the week, cuddling a lot and making out some. I thought she was really into me, but then last night we were at a party, her first ever time drinking. She seemed to ignore me most of the night, but I chalked it up to the alcohol. Then today, I get a text from her saying she didn't want a relationship right now, but she wanted to experience college and still be friends.\n\nI can kind of understand her wanting to experience college before she finds someone, but this blindsided me as she seemed like she really liked me and I really did like her. I told her that of course we could still be friends, but I'm kind of at a loss right now, because even though it was just a week, I thought there was something there. What can I do? I definitely want to stay friends, but I want to know if there's anyway we can still make something out of it down the road.",
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"content": "So we've been together for a bit and we're solid house partners and friends. No drama, v. little fighting. We split housework and financial responsibilities. We're both gainfully employed, me teaching middle school, him teaching college. The small tussles we get into are pretty easily managed--usually just grumpy sniping at one another, pretty infrequent. \n\nSounds perfect, right? We've been talking about kids-- I'm at the age where I kinda need to fish or cut bait. I'm into it, but not, like, chomping at the bit. \n\nHere's the thing. We're not very, well, INTO each other. We had constant sex when we were first together and now it's infrequent-- though still good when it happens. We spend a lot of free time doing things separately, and sometimes it feels like we're just roommates-with-occasional-benefits. I grew up with parents who were relentlessly practical about relationships and I feel like I've kind of settled into their pattern.\n\nWhen we talk about kids, sometimes there's this little tiny voice that kind of goes, \"Um, do you really want to be in this relationship forever?\" I'm the sort that becomes more like the person I'm with than I think is good for me-- being with him is drama-free, but it's also pretty sedentary and not very spontaneous. I had two awesome, adventurous parents and I loved my childhood. I worry that we're sort of bad influences on each other. Also, the thought of co-parenting with an ex sounds awful (no offense to folks who are divorced or had divorced parents).\n\nAm I crazy to complain? At my age, shouldn't I be happy to be with a drama-free friend who's also a good partner? Or if I go into it bored, will it get worse?",
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"content": "I am so freaking sick and tired of repeatedly telling my mother my opinion (when she explicitly asks for it) about the engagement party. I decided that I do not want to be the center of attention and would like a couples shower instead of a bridal shower. Only I phrased it as an engagement party initially. Now my mother will not listen to anything I tell her after she asks (i.e. she asked if I would like a specific brisket recipe and I said I would prefer my fiancee's family recipe. She won't let us have his family's recipe). This compounded with me asking for informal Facebook invitations to a cake and punch (what I originally requested to save mom & dad money) party and them telling me that is not what Brides' (fucking) magazine said to do, I am more stressed out about a fucking engagement party than I am about the actual wedding. I don't even want the party any more. Heck, she expected me to hash out a guest list for the party and the wedding WHILE AT WORK. (I go to classes full time and work part time in a position that would easily be full time thus creating more stress)\n\nOn top of all of that is the attire issue. Mother has purchased two and almost purchased two more dresses. Only one of the four is in a wedding color not the same as bridesmaids. I also sent her a picture of a dress I found when just looking to see what was out there. She refused to comment on it and threw a holy fit over not being there (without asking me if I would show her when she came up in a week). I ended up buying the dress now because I did not want to deal with it (she would have complained that the underlay is not white).\n\nNow she is saying that because when I invited her up to look at the dress I was not able to go shopping with her that day due to wanting to spend time bonding with bridesmaids, she has been ousted. \n\nI feel that my opinion no longer counts for anything but to decide to do the exact opposite.\n\nWeddit, HELP!!!",
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"content": "Please reddit, I need some advice. My SO and I have been together for about 4 years, long distance for the last 1. \n\nBottom line is I am a very physically affectionate, he is not. This has been an ongoing issue every since the honeymoon phase ended. In the beginning, he was just as affectionate as I was but that gradually that faded, and he started to become uncomfortable if I was touching him (holding his hand, giving him a hug, trying to cuddle, pretty much anything). He doesn't mind affection if he initiates, but can't stand it if I do.\n\nHe's told me this again and again. And I try, but it's just something so natural to me that I don't even think twice about it. Then he gets upset that I can't respect his personal space, I get upset that I am unable to do this one thing for him, and the cycle starts over again.\n\nAnyway, I know this is a big issue between us, and I would like to figure out a way to solve it. Any suggestions on what to try would be greatly appreciated!",
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"content": "I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else is like this or if I'm just weird? I'm pretty antisocial in general, don't have many friends, would rather relax at home then go out etc.\n\nsomedays I desperately wish I had a group of friends to do stuff with. Other days I don't want to deal with that. Like if I start talking to someone new and they want to talk every day or ask to hang out a lot I immediately get the feeling they're being clingy, don't want to do anything with them etc and kind of react the same way towards romantic relationships also? \n\nHow do I nicely let people know, no I don't want to hang out with you multiple times a week and talk every day, without coming off as a bitch?\n\nAs I said don't have many friends, also never been in \"a relationship\" and am a virgin (part my antisocialness, part haven't tried, part don't want someone hanging on me 24/7).. And I feel really shitty about it. Like I'm way falling behind other people my age in these departments. \n\nI've tried to push myself to \"get over it\" and just deal/be around people more but ugh. Some days I wish I had someone I was close to and other days it's a relief I don't. I don't think I'm asexual, I have sexual *feelings* but not toward anyone in particular. People just annoy me.\n\nIs there something wrong with me for feeling this way? How do I fix it? It's not that I'm afraid of getting close to people. I do that pretty easily actually. I know this probably comes off as like I am a really SNOBBY person but I'm not. I get along with most people and am friendly.",
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"content": "I have never really been able to talk to my mom easily. My parents divorced when I was about 3, and I have always been a bit of a troublesome and angry kid (and now adult). She is way more extroverted than I am and talks far more than I do. She has always been understanding, helpful, and supportive of whatever I do (despite being quite controlling of my life), but for some fucked up reason I resent her. Whenever her and I are alone I feel agitated, frustrated, and annoyed, so I just can't have a proper conversation without getting sarcastic and snippy, and shooting down what she says.\n\nI honestly have no idea what is wrong with me, and it has been eating me up for my whole life and I don't know how to fix it. It feels like there is a mental block in my mind that prevents me from having a positive relationship with her, and I feel like I need some sort of therapy to fix it. She has been nothing but tolerant of me my entire life, despite me being a shithead most of the time.\n\nThe thing is I want to be able to relate to her, and I know that's all she wants, but my mind will absolutely not let me do it. Whenever I'm by myself I hate myself for being such a bad son. Has anybody had any experience with this, or have any advice about it? Thanks.\n\nI'm fully aware of how much of a bad son this makes me, but I can't change it.",
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"content": "First off, yes the age difference is huge. I guess I was dumb for expecting a result of anything different.\n\nMy girlfriend cheated on me a year ago. She told me it was because we were having problems with her feeling anything sexually, and she wanted to see if it was me or her. She ended up not feeling anything with him (supposedly) and ended it after trying twice with him. \n\nShe never told me she did this, and hid it from me for eight months until we'd reached a point in our relationship where I felt like I wasn't being a good enough boyfriend to her. I asked if she cheated, and it took her about an hour to admit it. We spent three days apart and I took her back on the condition she sees a doctor to see if the sexual issue is a medical problem.\n\nFour months later, she hasn't taken any steps toward this goal. I bring it up, and she says \"yeah I need to do that\". But nothing afterwards. Last night, I had it. I told her she needs to get it done or I walk. She made an appointment, but she refuses to admit that something is wrong. She later told me that she cheated also to see if it was just that she wasn't attracted to me anymore. She wouldn't even give me the name of the person or where she met him until I pryed it out of her. \n\nI'm at my wits end. I know I should leave, but I don't know if I can. I know I deserve somebody who won't keep things from me, but... I don't know. I've been one of those \"forever alone\" types in the past, and going back to that scares me. She says I'm important to her, but she may not value our relationship enough to admit she may be the problem. She's agreed to couples counseling at our college, but What the hell do I do?",
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"content": "Hey RA.\n\nWifernator and I are at our wits end.\n\nI think most people would have already thrown in the towel, but I/we are glutens for punishment - and more importantly there are little people involved.\n\nThings have been spiralling downwards for the last 5 or so years in all departments, except financial.\n\nTo summarize we are terrible communicators whom each feel that they are pulling more weight than the other, sharing a house with a dead bedroom.\n\nWe both acknowledge that if it was not for the small humans we would have split long ago - but I do feel there is something that we can rekindle here.\n\nThe last time we absolved one another of our misgivings I indicated that it was the last time I was going to do so - but, we did not actually do anything to try and change things.\n\nSo here we stand in that terrible place again, she says that all I did on Sunday was make dinner while she was working her way into martyrdom around the house - I was hurt and retreated to my cave, because words hurt (and how could she not see everything else I did?).\n\nWe've been cloistered for the last few days - waiting for the other to make the next move.\n\nSo, I just sent an offering of absolution in exchange for a serious conversation about what we need to do for our grand finale - because this time is the last time and I mean it......this time...really!\n\nMy idea is to have one another craft a list of what we think is working, what we think is not and to lay out what we expect from one another to MAKE THIS WORK.\n\nIts super anti-romantic but I am going to get this down on actual paper and sign it.\n\nI am sure that I am not the first person to want to draft up this type of contract so that is why I am posting today.",
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"content": "To start off, I'd like to say im semi ok with this. But I have some worries. lets call her C. Over the course of three months I've come to the logical (or illogical, however you want to look at it) conclusion that I am head over heels in love.\n\nI personally dont belive in marriage. I have my own personal beliefs that stray from normal Christianity. For me, I dont think god would give a shit for a signed piece of paper and some shiny metals. All he would care about is if shes my wife in my heart (shes not yet). \n\nRegardless of that.\nBut she insists that we would have to be married first. My first worry is, however much I love this women, what if we were not physically compatible? Say we get married and find this out. I can't go the rest of my life without sex. Nor want either of us to be pushed into someone else's arms for it. Has anyone on reddit had this problem? \n\nSecondly, im her first boyfriend. And I have this little voice in the back of my head constantly telling me \"you never stay with your first\". She has feelings for me. But what if she decided to move on... just because? Anyone here ever stayed with your first bf or gf?",
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"content": "Yes, I hate the the word friendzone too because it implies that either girls are stringing along guys for attention or alternatively that guys are just pretending to be friendly in order to get sex. That said, it got your attention, so meh.\n\nSo I have had a rough go of things lately. Got dumped by my first girlfriend and not long after serious health issues arose. In between seizure like episodes and a whole bunch of other symptoms I havent had much time for dating. \n\nAt the same time it is something I have always wanted, and was something that meant so much to me when I started dating this ex (S) at the late age of 22. So while I have sort of been out of commission I have been feeling... lonely... I guess is the word for it. I kept messaging my ex, nothing aggressive or mean just a \"hey\" and some needy follow up once every 2 months until she threatened to call friends and family to get me to stop. Since then I have felt... I dunno... crazy. That was a little while.\n\nThe past couple months health has improved. I have been making more friends and have started getting back into interests outside of work and doctors visits. I messaged this one girl I used to hang out with and we met up to go to perform at a comedy show. Other friends were there, so it wasn't like a date, but I really liked spending time with her. We made plans to do it again.\n\nI guess my worry is... all my other friends are completely coupled with a SO. Add to the fact that I want to do more comedy and would like someone to do it with. I am very eager to date someone but am not sure with my condition and just the way I have been that it is a good idea or even fair for her. Some of my symptoms might make things a little tricky. Id be fine with a friend to do shows with... but I dont know where my health could go and this could be my last chance for all I know. I am not super experienced so I am also worried that I reading into something that's not there.",
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"content": "I'm 26 and have been dating my girlfriend (24) for about 1 1/2 years and for the past few months she has only hit me up once wanting to hang out.\n\nI'm usually always the one asking her to hang out. Most of the time she always wants to hang out when I ask her too and I know she makes time for me since she does work a lot. It's not a question of her dodging me, it just that she rarely asks me first.\n\nIf it could make a difference, I'm also her first serious boyfriend. She had a few before me that lasted only a couple months and I'm also the only person she has had sex with so I'm wondering if she thinks she might be annoying me by asking me to hang out.\n\nIn regards to her seeing someone else, I really don't think that's likely as she really isn't the type of girl to do that (every guys famous last words right?). We still get along great and other than a few minor issues throughout all of our time together, we really haven't had any problems. She has even been getting me more involved with her family lately as well.",
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"content": "Hi /r/relationships!\n\nI have a coworker and friend that I'm developing feelings for. I'm considering asking him out to dinner or to hang out 1:1 but am generally concerned with the age difference. He may not even be interested ultimately, but I still want to think about this before I even really consider pursuing him.\n\nFirst off, we don't work very closely together. It's a large company, and are just starting to develop a stronger friendship as part of a small group.\n\nI'm concerned with our age difference(~14 years). I know everyone has their own beliefs, but I'm hoping you guys can help me see a perspective I might be missing. For context, we are at roughly the same place in our life- especially career wise. He was oversees for many years working as a missionary so he is a little behind, but still doing pretty well for himself. I, on the other hand, am slightly ahead of the game for a 23(almost 24) year old. We are both down-to-earth, level headed, and mature. He just has a great head on his shoulders, but still has tons of youthfulness and passion for life. \n\nPart of me says the age difference doesn't matter because of what I list above, but another part of me says there's got to be some kind of negative to dating someone much older. HELP!",
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"content": "To start, I've always had these random episodes of gay thoughts to the point where I would masturbate to gay porn. Well, a while ago I met this wonderful girl and eventually we started dating.\n\nShe and I have been together for eight months and I can tell I make her feel a way that no other guy has felt before. I'm only her second boyfriend and I have always treated her as best as possible. \n\nI think I have to breakup with her though because I'm getting the idea that I might be gay. There's a feeling I get thinking about gay sex that I don't get with women, even though I would always check them out when I was single. Overall I'm confused and want to explore my sexuality, but breaking up with her would break my heart.\n\nJust thinking about doing it makes tears swell up a little bit. I want to keep making her smile and feel loved, because I do believe I lover her. I can't imagine not being in her life. She has made me a better person and her companionship is great.",
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"content": "Sorry for horrible writing. Not my best work, but I'm tired and I'm about to go to sleep.\n\nI go to a small highschool only for freshman (Also known as a ninth grade center) and There's this girl that caught my eye. I don't know her name because I don't have her for any classes, but we see each other every morning and make eye contact, but never talk. In fact, I don't think I've seen her talk with anybody before. She's bilingual so I'm starting to wonder if bad English is the reason why or if she has no interest in meeting anyone or if she's mute or other reasons. I'm over thinking this, but to explain why I'm over thinking this I should talk about myself a little and continue.\n\nI'm a shy guy.. Like a really shy guy with anxiety and shit i don't want to get into, but I've never really had a lot of friends hardly any my entire life, and always was insecure about myself and didn't want to bother anybody with my presence so yeah I basically am a mess with few friends and I'd like to meet this cute girl and Maybe ask her out if she seems interested.. Though there is a bit of a problem. School is about to end and I can only see her in the mornings for a couple minutes and I feel like I wouldn't have time to introduce myself enough to make her feel comfortable enough to exchange social media to talk outside of school so I don't know what to do or what to say or how to even get the courage to walk up to her, introduce myself and Strike up a conversation without messing up or worse.\n\nAny ideas or tips or like suggestions on what I should say or how to uh basically not fuck up.\n\nP.S highly unlikely but paranoid she's reading this.\nP.S.S. throwaway because I'm ashamed that I'm making this because of a simple situation when most things on this thread are serious..",
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"content": "Ok people listen up! I am doing a survey about what people perceive beauty to be. So here's the bottom line post a discussion so that I may reap the benefits and generate a discussion. \n\nnext, you either PM me or comment. If you can send me a picture/ preferably send me a picture of what you believe beauty to be. anonymously or not, upload a photo or not, do what you wish, as long as as it relates to this question: What do you think beauty is? Maybe it is a little much to ask but I would like to have honest answers. If you don't want to be honest that's fine, I like funny shit. \n\nHere is the kicker, I want you to define what beauty is to you. I don't mean what you think is beautiful but rather what you perceive to be the definition of beauty pertaining specifically to your own life. Please post pictures as that is the main purpose aside from the notion of generating discussion. \n\nyou can also submit your photos and videos to the tumblr survey. Although I know how a lot of you feel about tumblr. For those interested it's as follows:",
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"content": "Ok so one month or two ago i met this girl in line for a night club. We hit it off so i ended up going home with her, and we had a good time (no sex).\n\nSo we've been talking a bit on facebook since. I also asked her out once and she said ok, but she ended up getting sick so that went down the drain. Cue some radio silence (took this a sign that she wasn't interested) and suddently a few days ago she asked if i wanted to come with her to this pre-party at her friends place this weekend.\n\nThis is good stuff i figured so i said yeah sure i'll come. And now i've been thinking. \n\nThe pre-party is at her friends place and i don't know anyone there. I also dont know this girl all too well either and it just hit me that this is probably not the best \"date\" scenario. Oh well, i'll be going anyway - i'd beat myself up if i didn't.\n\nAlso worth noting is i'm not the most outgoing person, but as the night progresses alcohol tends to smooth this over pretty fast.\n\nSo... how do i approach this situation in the best way possible? \nhow am i supposed to keep her entertained the entire evening?",
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"content": "I know it's only a high school relationship, but we had been dating for so long. I broke up with him because he can't show emotions and comfort me the way I need, and he was becoming very controlling over all I did. \n\nHe was such a big part of my life, now I can't even walk into my house without thinking about him. It hurts a lot, but I know it's for the best.\n\nI just don't know what to do now. I know it takes time but I don't want it to feel this way forever.\n\nDo I just grit my teeth and move forward or is there some secret potion I can use to get over this faster?",
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"content": "At least, today I found out I fucked up.\nLast year, my 10-year-old sister and I found a very young box turtle at my uncle's house. We figured it probably would have got eaten by one of the million animals that eats baby turtles, so we took it home. We kept it for a long time, but it didn't seem very healthy - we probably didn't take very good care of it, and I don't think we even got it the right food, because it refused to eat for some reason. After a long time of it not seeming healthy, it just stopped moving. Guessing it had passed away, we had a cute little funeral for it, and buried it (deep) in the backyard. Well, today I found out box turtles hibernate.",
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"content": "I was on Grindr, looking for some fun (I know, but still). This really hot guy messaged me and told me that he was alone on his birthday (that day). I said I'd come to join him and watch TV or whatever. When I noticed that none of the pictures had his legs in them, I didn't think too much of it. I walk into his dorm complex, knock on his door, and he answers. He had huge leg braces on, was using a cane, and was talking kind of funny. I didn't think too much of it - I have a friend who is disabled and still efficiently sexually active. We lay down on the futon, talk a little bit, watch some South Park, and things get really heated. Clothes are flying everywhere and things are going swimmingly. I lift his legs above my head and rest them on my shoulders, lean in, and kiss his lips. (I had to clarify.) Suddenly, I hear this \"foop\" kinda sound and feel something warm on my legs.\nI look down.\n\nIt's shit.\nA lot of shit.\nNot just like a little slimy thing, but like a fucking volcano erupted out of his ass and onto my thighs and dick. \n\nI shrieked and flipped out. I jumped off of the futon, sending shit in every direction possible, although none got on my clothing. Luckily, the room had a personal bathroom. I ran in and locked the door. I gathered up as much toilet paper as humanly possible and tried to wipe as much of it off as I could. I hopped in the shower, scrubbed the goddamn shit out of my legs and genital area, and left promptly.\n\nHe texted me later that night to apologize, telling me that this isn't the first time something similar had happened.\nI would have loved a forewarning.",
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"content": "So here is my situation.\n\nI am a 29/m who is a novice with relationships. I have been happy on my own until this point but I decided to see what was out there and met someone through an online dating site. She, 27/f, is largely in the same situation as me and has very little dating or relationship experience. We hit it off after meeting for drinks and have been going out for about two weeks and started a physical relationship a week ago. We spent the day together yesterday, went out on a date, came back to my place and cuddled up on the couch, got intimate and generally had a lot of fun. When time came for her to get home, she got very emotional and teary. I asked her what was wrong and she said she was a bit overcome with how she felt about me and didn't want to leave. Then she told me she loved me. Now, I like this girl a lot and enjoy spending time with her but this was too much too fast for me. Even so, I had just finished consoling her and telling her she was special and I liked her and when she said she loved me I panicked. I didn't know what to say and didn't want to leave that just hanging and I said I loved her too. I know I shouldn't have said it without actually feeling it but I was caught off guard and it just happened. So now I feel like we are getting way too serious way too fast for me. I absolutely do not want to hurt this girl but I also feel like I have to be honest and I can't let her keep thinking I am in love with her if I am not. I am really stuck on where to go from here. How do I let her know I think we are getting serious too fast? How do I tell her I only said 'I love you' because she surprised me and caught me off guard? Should I get out of the relationship if she if feeling so serious so fast and I am not? Any advice would be so welcome.",
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"content": "I've happened to see/read a lot about hypnotists being able to \"instruct\" people to do things while in some form of a hypnotic state (like the classic sleeper agent spy who will perform an act when his hypnotic state is activated). There have been plenty of movies and entertainment TV shows that showcase this, including one I saw a while back that purported to show that it was possible and effected. There's also the use of hypnosis as for drug/alcohol/mental status therapy that has plenty of anecdotal evidence to support this.\n\nHowever my question revolves around whether students could be hypnotized and taught material as is in a normal class and usefully retain that information when not in a hypnotic state? I'm a college student and (no surprise here) the idea occurred to me while cramming for an exam.",
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"content": "I've known this girl for a about a year now and when I met her she was depressed, we started to text all the time and seemed to really get along so i asked her for a relationship but she said she wasn't looking for a relationship (doesn't like commitment). Two months later she starts dating this guy but from what she's told me shes not taking the relationship seriously and that it probably wont last much longer. she says she likes talking to me every day and that i'm \"very important\" to her she even gets sad sometimes if I don't text her but she has gotten through the depression now. My feelings for her have not changed. so am I just super far into the friend zone?",
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"content": "Basically I am looking for any exercises or ideas that people have had success with that helped them regain trust in each other after something happened like cheating or repeated lies. I've already decided to try and work this out, and if something similar happens again I know to leave the relationship and move on, but I want to give it a real 110% chance and I have no idea where to start with something like this.\n\nWe have already talked about her completely cutting all contact and writing a message to the person in question about why it was wrong and to never talk to her again and all that, I am more looking for advice on how me and her can work together in order to rebuild that trust. We understand it will take time but we have no idea where to begin.\n\nBackstory on what happened - Basically she deals with severe depression and due to issues in our relationship and a lot of stressors that were out of either of our hands she was intimate with 2 other people in order to get through that time period. I was very much in the wrong during this time period and was hostile and I know that I caused a lot of it so while that may sound bad I have made the decision to move past it and try and work things out. Recently she was caught in a lie about one of the people where she wasn't honest about what happened between them, and I feel like there is another person involved that she is not telling me the whole truth about either, but that could just be me over-thinking things.\n\nI need some advice and please try and refrain from the \"leave her and find someone better\" stuff, because that is really not what I want for better or for worse and I already know everything I am ever going to learn about the reasons to make that decision, so please try and be constructive.",
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"content": "So. Background. I'm [26F] married to a dude [26M]. Been in this second relationship with my girlfriend [29F] for 3 months. I met her days before her most recent ex dumped her. We started 'dealing', as the kids say (...do the kids still say that?) right after. So far, (supposedly) she's only been dating me, but it's an open relationship, so that door is open if she finds someone else to start things with. \n\nCrazy, emotionally abusive ex wants her back. Gf lies about staying over at her ex's house last month....where the ex makes a move and kisses her..... They hang out about once a week since. Each time they hang, the ex tries to get her back and/or asks her for sex and/or tells her she's sure that they would be back together if I wasn't in the picture. Gf insists that she just wants to be friends, is maintaining boundaries, and is just trying to help her ex through a hard time........\n\nI feel like because this is a poly thing that I'm not allowed to be jealous. But...she lied about staying over there. When we got together, I asked her repeatedly if she wanted more time to figure things out with her ex. Offered space. Offered time. Even offered for her to see both of us at the same time. She said she wanted me, only me. So. To me, this ex was the one person in the free world she said she wasn't going to date. She knows how I feel about all of this. \n\nSo, Internet, I'm turning to you since I have no unbiased perspectives in my life? Am I a dumb fuck who needs to end this? Am I supposed to get over my jealousy? If so, HOW? If I stick it out and let her figure out what she wants...how long do I wait?",
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"content": "I was happily reading a book on my iPad at two in the morning last night, when suddenly it felt like my hair was tickling my ear. I brushed my hair away, and it still felt funny. Little did I know, that was the bug crawling in! \n\nNext thing I knew it started flapping and crawling and buzzing right next to my ear drum. This has to have been the most uncomfortable thing that has ever happened to me. It made my skin crawl, and every time it moved there was an instant shot of adrenaline through my system, which made me almost hysterical while my fiance Googled what on earth to do to get it out. \n\nWe spent an hour following sundry advice from the internet pouring vegetable oil, hydrogen peroxide, and water in my ear to flush it out. Eventually it came out, but not until it had caused what may be permanent psychological damage. My ear will never be the same.",
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"content": "I've met a girl a few months ago at a concert and we started meeting more frequently. We had an amazing time at a live show around two weeks ago that ended in us kissing and generally being very fond of each other.\n\nOur interests are very similar and we enjoyed each other's company, but the last time we've met I felt like she was a bit more distant. She had her friends there, so I thought she maybe didn't want them to know.\n\nIn the end we still parted with a kiss, but I'm not sure that it had the same weight from here perspective. I'm hoping to go out with here sometime but she has tons of schoolwork and I don't know how to figure this out. When we are texting she doesn't seem much different.\n\nWhat should I do? Is this normal? I know nothing about relationships",
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"content": "I (21 f) have been living on my own for the last year in an apartment with some roommates. I am currently enrolled at a prestigious private college, and am maintaining a 3.7 GPA while I've been living out of a drawer at my boyfriend's place. He provides little distraction from my dream of graduating with my two bachelor degrees in a year and a half. I have been dating my boyfriend (22) for two years, and we have been discussing our future and the possibility of moving in together since November. He has asked me to pick out a ring, and I anticipate him asking me at any time.\nI come from an extremely conservative family (think \"Southern Belle\" mentality), and I knew I wouldn't be met with a hug and cheers. But while I was alone with my father for a four hour car ride yesterday, and he starting saying the most hurtful things to me. Like I said, I anticipated this.. but now the pain I'm feeling is more so than I imagined :/ he said:\n- you learned nothing from the lessons I taught you as a child.\n- you don't know right from wrong.\n- you're being incredibly selfish (mom wants to help me decorate, but won't because she morally opposes the move).\n- he's just going to take advantage of you.\n- any man who is good enough for you will protect your reputation.\n- think of your grandparents.\n- you made a promise and now you're breaking it (he claims I promised that I wouldn't get engaged or married until I graduated, and he considers this the same thing. I don't remember that conversation in the least bit..\n\nAnyway Reddit.. I just want an outside view of his comments. I'm very hurt and depressed that he's taken it so hard and is trying to give me a guilt trip. What do you guys think?",
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"content": "So I met this new guy on okcupid. Been seeing him for a little over a month. He's clearly quite a bit older than I and far more experienced than i. He says he wants something serious and to settle down, thing is, he has this very odd view on dating that I just can't sync up with. \n\nHere it is: He refuses to consider it a relationship until 3 months in, not so bad, BUT during that first three months, it's okay to see other people amd go on dates with other people and who knows what. He still considers this monogamy. \n\nThing is, I can't tell if I'm comfortable with that. I don't casually date. And because of that, I can't really get myself to want to meet anyone much otherwise. I mean he has caught my interest and I really like getting to know him. \n\nIs this just a dude trying to be a player? How do i tell him this whole ordeal makes me uncomfortable without seeming like I want this new guy to be my boyfriend? \n\nIt's really killing my self esteem. He's made comments about how he doesn't know about dating me because i'm too young and I'm \"not nerdy enough\" which I think is absolute bullshit and i have no idea what to do with it. \n\nAlso, I feel like after seeing someone for a month you at least decide if they have your attention by then, right?",
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"content": "We have been together for the past year and a half but I have been abroad for 8 months during this time. Now I'm back for a couple of months and naturally we are spending a lot of time together. 6 out of 7 days a week we go out for at least 3 hours and after that we go home (we don't live together) and skype chat for another 4-5 hours and that repeats everyday. Our interests are very different so usually when we are talking to one another we aren't paying attention because we are interested in the conversation but because the one who is talking is. She seems to be fine with all of this but I'm feeling very tired and I just don't know what to do. Sorry if this doesn't make a lot of sense.",
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"content": "I cannot wrap my head around the idea of why people want to stay \"friends\" with their ex. I have one ex around and that is because of my kids. Otherwise I have told them all to hit the bricks because I wouldn't want it to interfere with my current relationship.\n\nMy current bf of over 7 months thinks that it is no big deal to stay friends with his exes and it bothers the shit out of me.\nI have spoke with him on the subject and he says that he was friends with them before and will be friends always. I see no good in this and I'm frustrated!",
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"content": "Hey, 21 m here, dated a 19f for a month,\n\nSo a few months ago I met an amazing person, she was everything i could have asked for, we started dating, and i really rushed things ( sexually and labeling whatever we had). After around month she ended things with me. And 5 months later i'm justt starting to get over her. I want to apologize to her for so many things but i feel its wayy too late that i could be giving out the image that i want her back, i don't.\n\nI want her in my life again as she's an amazing person and a great friend\nBut i feel its wayyy too late to apologize to her after 5 months of barely speaking to her.\n\nShould i try to make amends?\nOr should i accept the fact thats its over and just get her completely out of my life even though its all my fault?",
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"content": "So my fiancé was grocery shopping at the commissary and cashier asked him if he wanted to get what he understood was a points card. He even asked to make sure it wasn't a credit card because we are about to close on a house in a couple of months and do not want anything to affect our credit. She said it wasn't and he signed up. \n\nHe didn't think much of putting his SSN in because in the military it's your identity number and his rank and all showed up when he put it in, and then he discovered it was a CREDIT CARD. Is there anything we can do to dispute this. It's already popped up on his credit report and he doesn't want another credit card..",
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"content": "I'm really in need of advice right now. I'm still inlove with my ex-boyfriend. We were each others first love. He was the most sweet kind caring man I knew. We talked about spending our lives together.\n\nAs the years went by we had our share of disagreements, no relationship is perfect 24/7. 3 years into us being together I had given him an ultimatum. I wasn't comfortable with him using recreational drugs. He agreed to stop for me. He continued to spend time with certain friends I did not like because of their partying and drug use. He would choose them over me.\n\nThis made me become bitter and resentful. I started to hate those people in his life because I felt like they meant more to him than I did. \n\nFlash forward to recent days, he's told me he lied and broke his promise to me. It went horribly. I said things I shouldn't have to him. I acted so childish. I did not handle being lied to for a years time well.\n\nBut here's the thing. I still love him, and I could forgive him and try to work things out. He said to me he would keep an open mind and give me a chance. Our fight and break up happened 3 months ago. He and I would talk and at times things felt good between us. \n\nNow there is another women. She is tossing herself at him. He has always had confident issues, so she makes him feel good about himself. I have always told him how sexy, hot, amazing he was. His lack of confidents didn't stem from me. But I feel like they are going to get together. I still love my ex deeply, I feel like he was the one for me and I cant let him go. Tomorrow night he is having a party, and that women is going. I'm scared something will happen between him and her. I wouldn't be able to forgive that.\n\nHe has stop answering my texts and isn't wanting to see me. I feel led on and used by him. Yet I still love him and want to be with him. I need advice please.",
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"content": "I won't get too far into the details, but basically had an 8 year long relationship end in April of this year. We split friendly enough, but she ended up being angry and there was fallout in our social circle as a result. We started talking again in late June, and called it quits for good in August partly because of the burnt bridges.\n\nI want to start dating again, but I'm not really sure that I should. I lost almost all of my (our) \"friends\" as a result of her attitude about our break up (lying, exaggerating to gain support, etc). It does make me angry, but she needs the emotional support more than I do. That being said... I am lonely now. I pretty much have 2 friends, and they're both busy with their own lives. I don't want to make the mistake of seeking a relationship just because I am feeling lonely.\nI also have feelings of regret and I miss our relationship sometimes, but I mostly feel bad for my ex because of the situation she has put herself in (I know we both made mistakes). It almost feels hormonal or something because I will randomly break down emotionally for no reason. We had 4 dogs and it feels like I lost my kids too (got them as puppies over the years). I don't know what I should be doing to properly move on, and I would feel wrong entering into a relationship like this. I work full time, I have been hitting the gym regularly for 3 years, I get out as much as I can.\nEh I dunno, rereading this is can see what a mess my mind is. What do you guys think? Date in an effort to move on? Hold off in fairness to others?",
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"content": "I've been dating my girlfriend for about 5 months now, but we were friends for about 2 years beforehand. We have a mutual friend (who I can't really call my friend anymore, let's call her K) and when my girlfriend hangs out with her, I genuinely get upset.\n\nIn the past, she has tried to stop other people who were her friends from dating because it upset her. I feel like she might be trying to do that with me and my girlfriend.\n\nWhenever my girlfriend hangs out with K, it's this huge thing where I feel like I can't even go into the same room as them. My girlfriend won't answer my texts because K says that it's her time. \n\nThe main reason why I'm upset is because K bad mouthed me in front of someone who used to have a crush on my girlfriend. That girl then proceeded to set me aside at a party and have a full blown conversation with me for over 30 minutes that I really didn't want to be a part of. Whenever my girlfriend hangs out with K, it feels like a little stab in the back. Like she doesn't care that K trash talked me to someone. Who knows that other shit K has said about me to other people, or even to my own girlfriend?\n\nI don't know what to do. Everyone coddles K because she'll just start crying or bitch and moan about how everyone is being mean to her, but why doesn't anyone care about the way I feel? One of these occurrences happened last night, where my girlfriend and I were supposed to Facetime because I'm at home for a couple of weeks, but she couldn't because K just took up all of her time.My girlfriend keeps asking me if I'm mad, and I'm not. I'm upset and hurt, and I don't know how to talk to her, or if I should.",
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"content": "Too poor to afford a therapist \n\nBasically everyone on my dad's side of the family has something wrong with them. All of his siblings are addicted to something (From cigarettes to pain killers and meth and whatnot). My father is an alcoholic and was pretty distant to me and my sister for half my life. About a year and a half ago he tried to kill himself and that led to him going into heavy therapy and substance abuse counseling, both of which he is still doing today. It was there he was finally diagnosed with being bipolar, which has been fueling his alcoholism. His sister and some other members of his family also suffer from this. \n\n What I want to know is if there is a chance that I am also bipolar. I know that i go through phases of being really eccentric and phases of depression with little middle ground, but I don't know that much about bipolar-ism and I don't want to draw any false conclusions.",
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"content": "Hey Reddit!\n\nI don't want to delve into too many details - but I'm facing possible unemployment. I'll do everything in my power to find a new job ASAP. But when I expressed my (natural) anxiety that I won't find something right away to my boyfriend (2 yrs - living together 1), his response was, \"I can support us at our current standard of living indefinitely. I want you to have a job that you love.\"\n\nReddit - I want to put a ring on this. So bad. BUT. I am no gold digger. I was raised by a family that taught me to always pull my weight. I do NOT like being without a job (been through under-employment before at a 4-month stint). And I'm too proud to rely on someone else when I'm not mortally ill. \n\nMy question is: Should the worst come to pass and I'm unable to find a full time job... what can I do to keep the relationship feeling like a partnership between equals if he's paying for everything? How can I maintain our trust, love, respect, and avoid resentment building up?\n\nWhat do I do to keep this gem of a man in my life and not lose my self esteem to the reality of \"having a man take care of me\"...?",
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"content": "Throw away since she knows my reddit account.\nBeen together for 8 months, almost 9. We're planning on living together. She's a great girl,and I'm sure I want to live with her.\n\nBUT.....\n\nThere's this situation where I write her letters, and make \"corny\" things for her (not sure if that's the term i'm looking for lol sorry, english is not my main language), write her very long and romantic texts, stuff like that.....Tell her everyday I love her, that she's beautiful etc... And although she says one onf the things she loves and makes her crazy about me is that, she does not do the same things.\n\nYeah, sometimes she surprises me with a card or some detail, but I'm at the point where, sometimes if I don't say \"I Love You\", she won't tell it. she also confessed me that it is very hard to her to express herself, and it's not only with me, all her life she was the same, but she thanks me because I'm helping her to develop that side.\n\nI want her to be more expressive, to tell me everyday that she loves me, misses me, I talked with her about this and she says she's making her best but I'm not seeing nor feeling a great step forward.\n\nI don't know what to do to stop making a big deal about this, but I really would love if she could be more expressive. Sometimes I think that maybe that's the way it should be but I don't know how to deal with it.\n\nWhat can I do?\n\nThanks in advance, /r/relationships!",
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"content": "Almost two years ago, my (now ex) girlfriend got caught stealing a box of condoms. I was not stealing, but I was with her when she did. I did not stop her, but I also was not aware that she was stealing. She got caught, and I went to jail with her. I lawyered up, but the lawyer said that it would be best if I plead guilty, as to avoid a costly trial with Wal-Mart that would likely result in a conviction, even if I wasn't actually guilty. I was told that Wal-Mart goes all-out on their lawyers, and that they would hire a lawyer even if the ends didn't justify the means, so that they could prove a point.\n\nThe judge was nice and didn't sentence a fine or jail time to me, but he did for my girlfriend. I did plead guilty, and that is still on my record.\n\nTwo years later, and I am still having trouble finding employers that will hire me. Lots of my friends have said that it would be better to just lie on an application and that many employers don't check criminal history.\n\nI currently have a job, but as the company will likely go under in the next three years, I am looking for a new career.\n\nIs it best to lie on an application? On all of the ones I have filled out, I have not lied. It seems underhanded, even if I did not commit the crime. What would you guys do?",
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"content": "Me and my brother got high this morning and decided to plug in the ole gamecube to the tv, so we go to our garage to find it. We find it and we decide to take it upstairs. \n\n(We have some stairs that lead from the house into the garage, and we did not realize our dog followed us down the stairs to the garage.)\n\nAnyways I tell my brother I will carry her up the stairs and he can keep taking the gamecube to the room.\n\n(I got a big golden retriever dog thats pretty old so she doesn't like to climb up stairs, shes around 80 pounds or something like that)\n\nAnyways as I go to pick her up, and me being high as fuck still thought she was very soft. (I was also shirtless so it felt really good)\n\nSo I start rubbing against her and hugging her and all of a sudden my garage door opens up and three construction workers were staring at me, shirtless, in the middle of a garage, rubbing against my dog.\n\n(apparently there was some work being done today I forgot about)\n\nThey just started in awe for a little bit then one of them was like \"well give you a few more mins\" and they walked away for a bit, two of them looking confused as fuck and one of them chuckling...",
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"content": "My girlfriend and I (dating 2 years) have very different expectations for what is a reasonable lifestyle. She thinks it's reasonable to go out to eat every weekend (for about $125 for 2), go on expensive trips, and generally live pretty freely. However, neither of us make a ton of money (I make 45K, and she makes 28K + a few hundred/month from her Dad). At first I was the sole contributor, for the past year or so it's probably been a 65/35 split (we split most bills, but I end up with the big ones).\n\nNow, left to my own devices, I will spend ~$1500/month. With her, I end up spending nearly everything I earn. Lately my fixed expenses have gone up a little (night classes, car maintenance, electric bill rising, etc...), and I need to cut the luxury spending, but it's nearly impossible to tell her I'm not going out without some sort of uncomfortable conversation. She generally points to the fact that I make more money than her, but she still gets money from her Dad, and she doesn't have many of the expenses I have (car payments, car/medical insurance, night classes, etc...). \n\nOn top of this, I generally drive her nearly everywhere (work, grocery store, etc...) and she hasn't once offered to pay for gas, nor does she offer to pay for food she eats at my house, or heat when she blasts the heater. She's otherwise a wonderful person, but it makes me uncomfortable that she's so unwilling to take on expenses or downgrade her lifestyle. The odd thing is, she wasn't spoiled when she was younger. She never had to lift a finger (didn't even know how to do laundry until college), but her Dad is incredibly frugal, so maybe this is her making up for lost time.\n\nAnyway, how do I bring this up in a reasonable way? With Valentine's day coming up, I feel like I'm expected to drop a few hundred easy, but I'm starting to dip into savings as it is with the new big expenses. Anyone been through anything similar?",
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"content": "This is the weirdest situation ever so please bear with me. My friend was over earlier tonight and she was using my cell phone while I was making food. My cell phone has nudes of my boyfriend on it, I know it's stupid to do that so I don't need a lesson about it please. We've been together for over two years and we fully trust eachother and I'm never doing anything like it again. I had gave her permission to use my phone, she didn't just take it. But I hadn't thought about the pictures, she was just using it to go online on though so I didn't think much of it. I came back in the room and got my phone back and we just went on with our evening.\n\nBut about an hour after she leaves I got some email notifications on my phone, that was weird because I don't have my email set up on my phone in the email app. So I check it and she had left her email signed in, I saw messages from herself to herself, of pictures that was sent around the time she wouldve been using my phone. I know it's kind of snooping but I clicked on it, and she literally sent pictures of my boyfriend on my phone, to her own email. So she probably has them saved on her computer or something now.\n\nI have no idea how to confront her about it because it's the most awkward situation ever, but I have to say something. And I want to make sure she deletes those pictures. I don't even want to continue our friendship anymore if she doesn't. I feel completely betrayed and I think that was disrespectful to my boyfriend, me, our relationship, and our friendship. I haven't told my boyfriend yet as I'm sure he'll be mad at me, but I'll tell him after I resolve this. What can I do?! :(",
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"content": "So my mom has brought a lot of men into my life. Finally she seemed to have settled down. She has been married to my stepdad for 2 1/2 years now and recently started a new business. I noticed she became \"friends\" with the owner of one of the businesses that she does work for. She has been really sketchy ever since. constantly texting him and is on the phone with him more than she even talks to my stepdad. My stepdad works hard and often has to work out of town. When he is gone my mom will randomly disappear for 3-4 hours saying she went out with friends. When I ask her what friends she answers \"just a few friends from work\" I know this is bullshit because I saw a text message to the guy when my mom was texting him that said \"I can't wait to see you\". Now tonight I saw a message on her facebook from him saying \"I love you\" to which she replied, \"I love you more.\" I know that I should say something to her. The trouble comes here. My brother and sister both know and would be on my side. However if they said anything my mom would probably kick them out. If I said something my mom could make me go live with my dad. or even worse my mom could get divorced and move in with this new guy, who is a total cunt by the way. Even worse is that my stepdad has 2 kids who I have become really close with and I would hate to see what they would have to go through.",
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"content": "I just want to say that I've gotten past this (haha maybe I haven't since I'm asking this) and I believe it was just a weak point of her life.\n\nMy girlfriend of 2.5 years lost her virginity to a guy in highschool. Long story short he messed around with other girls and bascially broke her heart/dumped her. \n\nSo she was at a party a couple mothers later and his brother was there. Once again, long story short she ended up fucking his brother out of pure spite. To get back at him. \n\nNow it's been a long time since this has happened, and honestly I don't think of it that much, but it is a little fucked up. \n\nIt's fucked up because she said she enjoyed it, she enjoyed getting the revenge. We talked about this a year ago. \n\nI'm just going to assume she was a weak phase in her life, she is now hopelessly devoted to me and has always been faithful and honest. And I will never hold it to her for stuff she has done in the past, but wow that is something else, especially since she still says the revenge was sweet.",
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"content": "This has a little backstory to it so bear with me.\n\nWe met last Halloween, and that night she added me on Facebook and said we should hang out. I agreed, but was crushing on another girl at the time, and waited until that fell apart a few months later to ask her out.\n\nWe met for dinner on our school's campus just to get to know one another and it went pretty well, so I asked her to go to dinner and a movie with me (I know super-imaginative, right?) She accepted and that date went ok, but I was pretty nervous and I think she picked up on it and it affected her. \n\nThe next day, she texted me and said she had just gotten out of a relationship and wanted a break, and that we should just be friends. I said that was fine, believing full-well that she just meant she didn't want a relationship with **ME**, and that we shouldn't stay in touch. \n\nBut we have stayed in touch, and now that I've already been rejected, I am much less nervous and we have a lot of fun together. We've been out in groups and alone, and its been a lot of fun. \n\nThe problem is, now I'm crushing hard on her, and she seems to like me back. Its only been a couple months since our first \"date\" and she said no then. I can't tell if she just likes me as a friend, but I'm pretty sure she likes me as much as I do her. \n\nSince its only been a few weeks, is it acceptable to ask her how she feels now? I don't wanna mess this up as a friendship, but I figure if we both like each other then why not?\n\nI know this sounds a lot like a \"friend-zone\" situation, but I've already asked her out, and I think now that I'm less nervous she has gotten to know the real me, and likes me more than she originally did.",
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"content": "2 months ago she got out of a bad relationship with a guy who treated her like crap. She is funny, outgoing, and very energetic. Occasionally she is a bit flirty with some guys.\n\nWe talk every night over text, and we have a class together. We always tease each other, and joke, and laugh. Some of our discussions are really deep. She has told me a lot of stuff that she hasn't told too many other people.\n\nShe said at first that she was not looking for a relationship, but recently she said she is looking for a guy who can show her that he deserves her, because shes tired of being treated like crap.\n\nToday, for example, she wanted me to share a chair with her while we worked on our project together. She would look at me and laugh, whisper into my ear, and get real close to me. She would rest her head on my shoulder. We were teasing eachother the whole time, but she seemed genuinely flirty.\n\nBut when our other group member took notice and asked if we were dating, she quickly and blandly said no, like it was nothing. This isn't the first time either.\n\nShe sometimes talks about enjoying the single life, but also asks me if she will ever fall in love, and about how guys are always interested in her. Some nights she will give me a full layout of info, others she seems aggravated and ends the conversation shortly.\n\nA lot of times she tells me about how great I am, and that she would be dumb to lose such a great friend. But when relationships emerge in the conversation, she usually say something like \"I hope you find the right girl, youre such an amazing person\".\n\nIts just so on and off, and I need a few pointers.",
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"content": "Long story short, my roommate made a mistake stuck his dick in crazy. He broke up with this girl, and was gonna drive back home up north to do some thinking. He turns his phone off for the drive. The girl, fueled by illegitimate emotions and prescription drugs(morphine, I believe), decided she was gonna drive up north and find her bf. *Note, she does not even know what town he lives in, only the state. Well she's driving all fucked up, at night, and she runs into the back of another car. Rather than doing the respectable thing and taking responsibility for her actions, she takes off, making the situation a hit-and-run.\n\nMy question is, is there anything I can do about this? Report it to someone, possibly the State Trooper Association? Now, I like getting fucked up as the next guy(probably more), and I'm normally not a \"snitch\" but this girl could wrecked another person's car while **intoxicated** and could have really hurt someone. \n\nI keep getting haunted by this vision of myself getting rear-ended in the middle of the night. Imagining myself trying to regain awareness, and making sure all my passengers were ok...and then just seeing the perpetrator driving away. It just stirs up so many emotions. Including, but not limited to rage and hopelessness. \n\nWhat should I do Reddit? Should I try to follow up on this and contact someone and seeing if there were any hit-and-runs on the Interstate going up North? Or does this seem like a lost cause? Or am I just a douche for giving that much of a damn?",
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"content": "I am on my phone so sorry about the formatting. \n\nMy grandmother was told earlier this year that she had stage four kidney failure, she was expected to last till later on in the year but her health declined very suddenly and she died last sunday. During the time she was sick I asked my boyfriend of just over a year if when she died he would come to the funeral with me, he said he would. I asked him two more times, once on the day she died and once a couple of days ago, and he said he would every time so I asked my parents yesterday if he could come as they were booking a house to stay in over the time of the funeral. \n\nEarlier this morning he messaged me that he doesnt want to go anymore because he feels it will be awkward as he hasnt met most of my family and he doesnt want to sit around for a couple of days (the funeral is being held in her home town five hours away from where we live) with people he barely knows. I feel really upset that he waited till yesterday to tell me he didnt want to go after we had already discussed it a few times, I kinda want him to just tough it out and go regardless but now he has told me he doesnt want to I dont want to drag him to a small town a hours away for the weekend. \n\nAm I justified in being upset with him? Or am I overreacting and should just let him not go?",
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"content": "So we (21 M/F) are cuddling downstairs and being dorks on our computers as usual, when I feel a weird mood come on to me. We talk about it, turns out I'm just having one of those bad mood days, so my wonderful boyfriend leads me upstairs and draws a nice hot bath for me, with candles and classical music and everything on the side. \n\nAfter about five minutes in this hot bath, I have to pee AND I'm in need of some nice cool water to drink. He offers to get me a glass of ice water, so as soon he's out of the bathroom I hop up and head for the toilet. I have to move his laptop off the lid, sending both our phones (which we were resting on the keyboard) flying to the floor. Amid the loud noises and movement, my bladder decides it's safe to release, and a small dribble hits the tile. \n\nI'm forced to squeeze those muscles tight (which is no easy thing once it's time to go) while I get everything else in order, phones back to safety on the counter, laptop off in the corner away from steam and water, etc, but there's now the problem of a puddle on the floor. \n\nWhile I finally release myself into the proper receptacle, I tossed a small hand towel onto the puddle. When the show's over, the boyfriend enters the room, and I tell him I accidentally got water on the floor when I hopped up to pee. I don't tell him about the pee on the floor, however. \n\nMinutes later, he grabs up the towel, soaks it in the hot bathwater, and wraps it around my neck to soothe my sore neck muscles (I have a nasty condition from an injury more than 10 years ago), and I keep my mouth shut because I know he would get upset and feel like he messed up somehow if I told him the truth. So I awkwardly sat with the pee-towel draped over my shoulders while he played me beautiful violin music and cheered me up for another 10 minutes.",
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"content": "I have never been in a relationship before. In essence, I have low self-esteem and am afraid. There is this girl who I have liked for years. Recently, we've been talking and I have a huge chance with her. Unfortunately, I found out she likes to go clubbing with her friends. She goes about once a month (or so I've noticed) and like to drink over there.\n\nI understand, from reading, that clubbing is \"fun.\" That girls go there to have a great time with their friends. There is nothing to be afraid of. Yet, I am. I am afraid of the guys who will be hitting on her. I am afraid that she may get too drunk and cheat on me. I know this is wrong, but I can't help it. If I can't get over this feeling, I won't be able to date her.",
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"content": "Okay....so me and this girl, we've been dating for two months now. She's a virgin, and I'm a virgin. Hell, she's so innocent, it's not even funny.\n\nBut, we've recently started to get a lot more physical. From about the second week, we've been sleeping together. As in, we would cuddle and then sleep in the same bed. We might make out a little bit, but it was mostly the cuddling and the sleeping.\n\nThen, I started with the dry-humping, and she reciprocated, and clothes started coming off. Only above the waist, however. I quickly learned how to properly take off a bra.\n\nAnd then, just within this last week, we moved to third base. It started with me rubbing outside of the shorts she wore to bed, and then I asked if she minded me moving inside the shorts, and she said no, so I did. And she's given me a handjob before too. Mostly, though, I feel like it's been me.\n\nAnd I want it, in the moment. And she wants it--she never hasn't wanted it. But, afterwards, I always feel like shit. I wouldn't say I regret it, but I feel like a bad person. I feel bad for initiating it, and for almost pushing the boundaries.\n\nI guess, what I'm asking here more than anything, is that should this be happening? Is this one of those things that should just *feel* right from the moment you're doing it? Like, when you're doing it and when you're not? As bad as this sounds, could it be a sign that she's not really \"the one\" and that, knowing that, I should break up with her?",
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"content": "She was my first love and we dated for about 1.5 years in high school which ended really badly. She wasn't sure what she wanted so she strung me along while she was dating another guy for about 6 months before we officially broke up. I was heart broken needless to say.\n\nI would say that it jaded me for the longest time to the point that I let opportunities pass because i had a \"fuck it everything is a waste of time\" mentality. It made me harbor a lot of resentment towards her and made me insecure to the point that i didn't date anyone for 3 years after that. Nowadays she rarely comes up in my mind except once in a while. Her sister still wishes me a happy birthday and tells me that my ex feels remorse for how we ended. \n\nTo get to the point, I feel like my past relationship is subconsciously effecting any new relationships I have. Its hard for me to trust people in general to the point i close myself off. and yet, if i do let a girl in i panic and over-think everything. I think it really gets in the way of future prospects.\n\nI want to contact my ex because i feel like i'm dragging this weight around and its influencing how i act when a girl i'm interested in shows up. I have zero interest of pursue this to reconnect or even make a friend, this is mostly to clear the air. I know now that i wasn't completely blameless like i used to think. i feel like i need to confront my past and clear the air to get a grip on my future",
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"content": "This story actually happened a good few years ago. When I was younger my friends Shelby and Chris were over at my house. We were playing around, and acting a fool like normal barely teenage kids would do.\n\nWell at some point I go in the garage, and their standing outside at the garage door. We're laughing and making faces through the windows of the door when I decide to jokingly charge at it making a weird face and some strange silent hill level movements.\n\nBasically I stop too late, and end up hitting the garage door and the glass pane breaks with them outside. I get cut up a bit on my arms from the glass, and Shelby originally standing merrily outside is on the ground with a chunk of her skin cut off by a chunk of glass that shot out.",
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"content": "I have a tight I knit family, we all get along well and usually meet a few times a month for dinner or drinks. We like to joke and banter a lot, but over the last few months I guess I've felt ganged up on as I seem to be the constant target of their teasing.\n\nWhat can I do about it? It's gotten to the point where I don't really want to hang out with them so much anymore. Is it a case of talking to them individually or should I say something to them as a group? It's mostly my siblings as opposed to my parents, but sometimes it's embarassing when other people from outside the family notice. \n\nI don't have a quick wit, but I do have a good sense of humour and am able to laugh at myself. So I never really do anything but laugh along, they don't get much of a reaction out of me.",
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"content": "So Ive known this girl for over a year, but I've only seen her twice at various music events. We have each other added on Facebook, though. \n\nShe made a comment on this event I'm going to asking if anyone had an extra ticket to this music festival. I commenter saying I have an extra one that I could sell her. So she messaged me. \n\nI gave her the details about the ticket, she thanked me. She then offered if she can pay for it later, I said it was no problem and just hand the money over the day of and the ticket is hers. She thanked me again, told me about her situation on having to take care of her sick dog with vet bills, etc and how she's low on money. She then said we should kick it when we get there. \n\nI then follow up with \"Oh man. Sorry about your dog. And for sure it's been a while. I think since this one festival in 2015.\" The message was marked seen a bit over an hour ago and no reply. \n\nI kinda feel like it was a bit creepy to say \"it's been a minute\" to someone you've only came across 2 times. I was just trying to make friendly chit chat. Seeing when we did run into each other those two times, we got a long pretty great.",
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"content": "Please give me some advice. I've been with my current bf for over 2 years. Things have not been good quite a while, mostly on my part. I have regrettably stuck by it for all the wrong reasons. I did not want to hurt him, I usually need a big push to make a serious change, and I am afraid of what would become of him if I ended it. He does not have strong relationships with people other than me, he is very co-dependent, can show aspects of depression and anxiety, etc. For the 2nd time in our relationship I have discovered that he has been exchanging dirty messages with other people. I forgave him the first time because I blamed myself for not giving him adequate attention, plus I still corresponded with my ex against his wishes. This time I cannot look past it, mostly because I am looking for a way OUT. I need to end this relationship for my own mental and emotional well-being. Nonetheless I can't help, but worry that he might hurt himself if I leave him.",
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"content": "We live on the 13th floor of a high rise, in a condo that we rent. We've lived here 3 years and love it, it's a really nice place in a great area, close to lots of nature. This past year they've been working on the facade and balconies to bring them up to code. The noise is constant, and after we told our landlords about it they decided not to raise our rent for the next year (as they were going to). We really like our landlords, they've extremely fair and good people.\n\nThe construction started on our floor a few months ago. Currently, our windows are boarded up (no sunlight), we have no access to our balconies or fresh air, and the noise is pretty unbearable before 5pm, and some saturdays. Today things got much worse, as they have to replace a window in our living room, so we had to move all our furniture so that they could construct a plywood \"room\" for them to access half of our LR. I think this \"room\" should only last a few weeks, but construction on our floor will go until March, at least.\n\nWe pay a lot to live here, and while I'm thankful that our landlords didn't raise the rent, I am growing increasingly more irritated that we pay so much to live in such a headache. The facade of our building has no bearing on us, and will not increase our quality of life once it is finished, but I imagine it will for our landlords (the owners of our unit).\n\nI do not want to financially hurt our landlords, because this is obviously not their fault, but man - I would NEVER have moved in had I know that this would be our life in a few years. Should I ask for a rent reduction? If so, how should I put it?",
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"content": "Long story short I had an affair. The man I had the affair with is exactly physically my type. Even before the affair began (we were best friends) every time I was around him I'd be overcome with lust. Every inch of him was perfect in my opinion, and our sex life was amazing. I eventually left my husband for him, but things fizzled before they truly began because he's mentally unstable and he became a danger to himself and others.\n\nSince then my husband and I have been working things out between us (there were deep issues we had before the affair that drove us apart) and it's actually going quite well. We're both ready to forgive, forget and move on, but there is one really big issue that so far I've not been able to overcome.\n\nI am no longer sexually attracted to my husband. Physically he was never truly my type, but because I fell in love with his personality I wound up being very turned on by him. He and I explored our sexuality together and we had an INCREDIBLE sex life full of kinks and orgasms and everything I could ever want.\n\nBut now I can't get turned on by him unless I'm drinking and already turned on to an extent. If he tries to initiate it all feels wrong. I can't stop comparing him to my friend. I can be in the mood and my husband will kiss me and there's just nothing there, or worse, I get disgusted. My husband is aware of my feelings and lack of drive toward him and is being very patient with everything.\n\nI don't want to feel this way anymore, I want my intimacy and my sex life back and don't have any idea how to make that happen.\n\n(we are in couple's counseling and individual counseling as well)",
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"content": "I'm the type that usually goes from long-term relationship to long-term relationship without much dating in between. I'm trying out the casual dating thing for a while. I am 26f, above average attractiveness (in my opinion, but i still have pretty low confidence). \n\nSo, someone told this guy (pretty much a stranger to me, we only met in passing), that i thought he was cute and he gave my friend his phone number to give to me. So the next day I texted him, and we have texted a couple of times for a few days. Seems like we have some things in common. \n\nAfter the 3rd day, I asked him if he wanted to grab a drink sometime...no response. I find it hard to believe that in 24 hours he hadn't used his phone.\n\nWhy would he give me his number, have good back and forth texts, then leave me hanging when I ask to chat in person? Just not that into me?",
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"content": "I am a caregiver and one of the women I care for is openly racist. I began helping \"Rose\" and her husband \"Dan\" for 6 months. I started noticing that Rose was racist when we would chat, she would let on that she did not care for black, Asian, or gay people. These are the groups that I know of, anyway. Also, my sister is gay so it really hurt me when she said 'Oh I HATE that woman, she is gay' when referring to Ellen Degeneres.\n\nWhat's worse, we were taking a walk today and we walked past a black woman. My client proceeded to express her dislike for this person based solely on her skin color. I was appalled. I did not know what to say, so I just said \"Hmm.\"\n\nHow do I handle this? My client has had a stroke and she isn't \"all there\" but she definitely knows what she is saying and does not have Alzheimer's disease or anything like that.",
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"content": "First, thank you everybody. I lurk in this sub a decent amount. And have learned tons and gotten out of debt due to your discussions.\n\n30 y/o. No debt of any kind. Single, no children.\n\nOwn a reliable vehicle paid off. No large property owned aside from the car.\n\nIncome $6780.84 a month before taxes, SS, Medicare, etc.\nRent & utilities is about $1200 a month.\nI save $1542 every month into my emergency fund (Currently at $14,909.26).\nDeposit $1458 every month into Roth TSP (Currently at $3,745.84).\nDeposit $458 every month into Vanguard Roth IRA Target Retirement Fund 2045 (Currently at $11,460.24).\n\nThe remainder I save in my checking account and use for food, fuel, and any other costs.\n\nAfter I have $20,000 saved up for my emergency fund, I'd like to save at least $50,000 for a down payment on a home. I don't see myself purchasing a home anytime soon but would like to keep the option available by preparing for it.\n\nThe nature of my profession requires constant relocation. So I won't buy a home probably till I retire or decide I'm tired of moving every few years and change careers. Is this a good course of action? \n\nIf yes, is there a recommended method to save that $50,000 while earning interest safely and ability to withdraw it without penalties?\n\nIf no, what other options should I consider?\n\nThanks again!",
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"content": "I have a really close friend who is a guy. We've been friends for 2 years and we're neighbors who spend most of our weeknights together. He is honestly one of the greatest people I know-- I trust him with my life. We're moving in together (platonic) in a few weeks in a new city and we're both extremely excited, but I'm nervous about our relationship.\n\nPeople tease us already that we're dating and his mom is convinced that we're together. We usually just deny it and laugh it off, but I feel like there's some subtext that we're not addressing. We'll playfully tease each other or he'll tickle me randomly when we're hanging out; we're pretty touchy/cuddly with each other but nothing over the top or scandalous. We talk about everything and I feel it's safe to say we're best friends. \n\nThere have been moments where I've wanted to kiss him and be relationship cuddly, but there's always been something holding me back. Like, I can't picture having sex with him at all (not that he's unattractive, I just literally can't see it). I want/can picture kissing him, but the second I try and imagine something more sexual, I can't. \n\nFuthermore, I can't say I'm too thrilled about him getting a girlfriend either. It's not like I'd ever sabotage anything for him, but I'm not too keen on the idea of sharing him or spending less time with him. I know that mindset is unhealthy, so I'm trying my best to keep it under wraps. \n\nI'm afraid I'm in an emotional relationship with him and I'm concerned about what might happen when we move in together. Any advice or opinion would be greatly appreciated.",
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"content": "I understand that they used to and that people [complained] because there were lots of \"vote up if\" type posts that were getting karma. Removing karma from them, however, does not appear to have changed things. They've always been reported and deleted (none are on in the pages [archived by archive.org] for the time before it was removed). They still show up from time to time (despite it actually saying right above where I'm typing this \"*Beginning your title with \"vote up if\" is violation of intergalactic law.*\"), then they get reported and removed.\n\nHowever, one effect that this has influenced is the creation of rage comics and an increase in screenshots. I've even noticed that increase just over the last year. Now, I'm not saying that they wouldn't happen if self posts got karma, nor that they are always inappropriate, but it is evident that there are some things that would be better as self posts that are instead posted as screen shots or rage comics and it's hard to not think that the lack of karma for self posts plays a part in this.\n\nSo, I think we should revisit this decision. It seems to me that self posts add original content to reddit and should be encouraged. This very, and very popular, subreddit is a perfect example. It accepts nothing *but* self posts. [IAmA] is another perfect example of a popular subreddit that is affected by this that is also quite popular. So, is there any reason we shouldn't start letting self posts get karma? If there is not, what kind of karma would be the most appropriate for them?",
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"content": "I am a college freshman at a school with a very high female population. In the past six weeks I have met two amazing girls (not at the same time) that anyone would be lucky to have, but there was that awful friend zoning that happen… It was shitty but I'm basically over both.\n\nAfter talking with a friend, she mentioned that I shouldn't be friends with them if \"it hurts too much\". Now understand that I have fallen on a tough patch with girls in general over the last 4 months i.e. friend zone, after friend zone. Its truly the most depressing thing right now, but maybe this post will help.\n\nMy question:\nOne of the girls is my next door neighbor in the dorms, like 10 feet away. She is in my group of friends and is in the common area frequently. If I were to say that I wanted to not talk to her for a while, how would I go about doing that?\n\nThe second girl is the only other person in my Calculus class who is open for study seshes in the same time periods as I am. She and I also think very similarly when it comes to math, so we work really well together, and if we get really stuck, who ever is available to go to office hours can report back to the other person. If I were to say that I wanted to not talk to her for a while, how should I break things off?",
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"content": "My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly a year now, and have a great relationship: She's very smart, thoughtful, and strong-willed. She makes me happy, I admire her and what she does, and we have a great sex life.\n\nShe seems generally happy with me. However, I have a daughter [3 years] whom she gets along just fine with, but my gf can't seem to cope with my ex. My ex and I were in a 6 year relationship, engaged, had a child, but she cheated on me, as I discovered as I went through her phone. I broke up with her, we never married, daughter now lives with her mom, and one year later, I go on my first date with my now girlfriend.\n\nUnfortunately, my ex will forever be in my life because of my daughter - my gf is always reminded of my terrible ex whenever my ex and I exchange our daughter for visitation, mention my daughter, our whenever she sees a pic of my daughter. My gf questions my judgement as she thinks my ex is the complete opposite of her. In many ways, that's true (with ex, we had a terrible sex life, she had many insecurities, and she often followed her heart more strongly than logic). But my gf keeps bringing her up, and because she views her as trash, makes her question why I choose to be with her.\n\nNot to toot my own horn, but I'm a great guy; I'm very thoughtful, funny to her, extremely good with kids, including my daughter. I get along fine with my ex, and though sometimes thinking about how she cheated gets me angry, I figure it's best for my daughter if we're cordial.\n\nBut my girlfriend just isn't getting over my ex. I don't know how to help her even tolerate my ex. Anyone else ever been in this situation?",
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"content": "He left his mail open on MY laptop, I scrolled but didn't open anything and saw that a girl had \"responded to [his] message\" on a dating website. I'm pre-freak out (just a few tears) because I wanted some advice first. \n\nI know I'm the wrong. I shouldn't have looked. In addition, I had an account on a different site during our relationship that I closed six months ago after he found out (I secretly met up with a lesbian from the site and he walked in before anything sexual happened. He broke up with me but we got back together soon after).\n\nI wish I could \"unsee\" what I saw. Do I talk to him? Do I just let it eat me alive knowing that we deserve our privacy? I feel so betrayed, but also I feel like I deserve it. There's no harm in chatting, but what if it's more than that? Maybe there's a point in a relationship in which both parties have just been too cruel to continue the cycle of shock and forgiveness. What's the protocol for this situation?",
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"content": "*i'm posting this on a throwaway account due to the fact my main account(stupidity) is the same user as My Skype name*\n\nI've been talking to a guy for a year and he's honestly one of the closet friends I've ever had, we talk about pretty much anything and everything(also 9 times out of 10,\nwe Skype pretty much everyday for 3\nhours) however I'm so confused how he feels so for me. He says he doesn't like anyone yet he always compliments me all the time and he said to one of his friends that the only reason why he's in college is due to the fact that I motivated him and he's doing it for me. He's also compared me to some of his female crushes. \n\nThe confusing part of it all as we got on the topic of relationships and he said that he never wants to have a girlfriend meaning he can't like me however I get that vibe if you feel me?? I joke around saying \"oh course you love me, who doesn't love me\" but like how do i spot out if he likes me or not? I know it's cliché however I'm so confused, how do I spot if this boy likes me or not?",
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"content": "So let me start somewhat from the beginning, me and her had met back in middle school when we were 13. We had become each others first girlfriend/boyfriend, gave each other our first kiss to our first fuck. Everything went well until we entered highschool where i had started to smoke trees, because of this she broke up with me and we went on a 4-5 month break where we would somewhat still keep in contact. During this time i had come to realize that i am bi sexual. We had got back together and these feelings became suppressed as i was happy to be back with her. The rest of high school was good up until after graduation where we decided to take a break during the summer. During this summer i had come to realize that i am more attracted to men to girls. I have not told anyone but here that i am gay now and dont plan on telling anyone else. I had only told her because i had grown up with her and she knows me best in my life as i know her best in her life.\n\nNow the problem that i see is that i am a gay man in a relationship with a girl. Now dont get me wrong, i love her to death and would never wanna loose her as she is my best friend and most important person in my life. The hard part is having to suppress my true sexual attractions, but also, pretend that i am attracted to her. I have tried to ask if we could just be friends but she tells me that she cant just be my friend and that its either were together or not. i can understand this because she is deeply in love and attracted to me and would not be able to be by my side if i am not with her as a boyfriend. I am afraid that i will cheat on her and just hurt her which brings me to the question....WTF should i do? i cant stand the thought of loosing her in my life....",
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"content": "Hello!\n\nI know I have no right to feel the way I feel but I can't help it... I won't to get over it and I need your help.\n\nSo here we go... We have been together for one year and things are going great. He's generous, kind, funny, handsome, etc everything you could possibly want in a man.\n\nI am the problem. He is my first real boyfriend and he has a lot more experience than I do... At first, it did not matter at all. But now, it's starting to hurt... I don't care about his experience per se, I know he had a life before me. When we started dating, he had just broken up with his long-term girlfriend (of over four years) a few months before.\n\nShe left him (silly girl...) and they have not contacted each other since. I am not worried at all about our relationship because he's never given me any reason to doubt him. But for some reason it still hurts... Because had things gone his way they would probably still be dating right now.\nBecause he does not say anything to me he has not already said to her. Because the way he looks at me is just the ways he used to look at her. Because for four years she was the most important personne in his life and now I feel like I can't compete. I feel like a second choice and I know it makes no sense for me to feel that way...\n\nThey have four years of memories together, four years I know nothing about. (Maybe that's what bothers me?)\n\nI think he wants to start talking to her again. Probably because he wants to show he has forgiven her. Nothing to worry about. Except I do... It hurts.\n\nIt's not something I think about everyday, but it hurts every time she is mentionned. \n\nI am aware that it all sounds crazy and I want to get over it, which why I'm asking for help, so please be kind to me...",
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"content": "I'm not really sure where to begin, I found the picture earlier today and confronted him about it. He said it was only a one time thing and that he was 'curious' to see what men thought of him but for me this is a huge red flag. \n\nWe've been together on-off for under a year now, don't get me wrong I have absolutely nothing wrong with LGBT individuals, I've got quite a number of gay friends, my best friend is gay... it's just, it's really weird that he was actively seeking approval from gay men. It's not the first time he's done this apparently, there was an incident a year and a half ago (before we met) that he traded pictures with a guy not too far away and it made me feel uncomfortable. \n\nHe posted the picture during one of our 'off' periods, about two weeks before we got back together. He said he never wanted to hide it from me which is why he didn't use a throwaway account but he also expected me to not react well to it. His personality as well is rather 'camp' (sorry if I offend anybody) and girls thinking he's gay has been an issue in the past, but he assures me he's straight, I don't think I believe him anymore. I'm a mixture of confused, angry and somewhat disgusted right now and I really need advice. I've proposed we take a short 'break' so I can get my thoughts around it so we're not really talking atm.",
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"content": "Totally into this girl. I have never felt a connection with anybody quite like her. And she's really hot.\n\nI first met her when we were in school together but she would not go out with me as she was already dating the person she is with now. We were still able to get to know each other, however.\n\nThree years later, when they were on a break, I was yet again unable to take advantage of the opportunity to ask her out due to my already dating someone else at the time.\n\nNow, another three years later, we are back in touch (past month) and I am single. She is currently still with the guy but has revealed that she is unsure whether to continue things with him due to compatibility issues. The guy is aware of this and of the fact that we are in touch (he is aware of my intentions). He has not broken up with her.",
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"content": "There's a group of really trashy people in my area that throw parties that revolve around a bunch of half naked girls acting really trashy and slutty and doing a lot of cocaine off each other's boobs, butts, other body parts... This group is holding a twerk contest at a local bar and my boyfriend is all ecstatic about going. He did invite me to go and I said I would, but I'm a nervous wreck.\n\nYes he did invite me, but I still feel weird about it. He sarcastically told me not to be jealous of the other girls, just to \"grab his boner and everything will be fine.\" It's all he's been talking about all day. Am I wrong for feeling a little bit down about myself? I do have my share of insecurities, I don't get mad at him for checking out other women, I just feel really uncomfortable already and I'm not even there yet.\n\nHe told me I didn't have to go, and not to come if I'm going to be negative the entire time. I would feel even more uncomfortable if I were to let him go alone with his friends. He's going to be staring and gawking at a bunch of trashy girls shake their asses while I stand there feeling uncomfortable and somewhat down. He said not to worry, seeing all those girls will just make him want me?\n\nHow can I go and be an awesome girlfriend and feel comfortable with him out and out staring and getting a hard on over these girls? I want to make him happy and I want both of us to have fun.",
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"content": "My Girlfriend has a 3 year old daughter with her ex fiance, I am in the Marine Corps and have been dating her since before I joined, her and I have been talking about getting married lately but with my career that will mean she will be moving around a little bit (possibly a lot). at the moment, her ex fiance and her have no \"official\" custody arrangements for the child (other then both names being on the birth certificate). my girlfriend has a good job and works from home so she is always with her daughter, the dad takes the daughter every other night and every other weekend. long story short, he doesn't like the idea of her moving out of state with their daughter, he is threatening to take her to court and request that she is not allowed to move out of a certain distance with her daughter, so that he can still be around her. when she and I get married we were planning on her moving to california where my duty station is (she lives in Florida now)... \n\nBASICALLY, is she screwed? can he really force her to stay put with his daughter for the next 15 years, regardless of if she gets married or any other factors, according to her, even if this happens HE would still be free to move anywhere he wants with the daughter, whats up with that??... \n\nI don't know too much more info, nor do I know anything about custody, I just feel like she is being trapped, and I want to know if anyone has experience with this, or can give advice, or ANY help",
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"content": "My parents are Indian, and though they are fairly open-minded with most topics, they don't approve of my white boyfriend who I've been dating for almost 2 years (I told them about him 1 year ago). I am now doing a short internship abroad for 3 months, and he is planning on visiting. Should I tell my parents about this visit, especially if it will upset them greatly and disapprove of our decision to get more 'serious'? I know the easier thing to do would be not never tell them he visited, and to enjoy his company without having to deal with family drama. But is this a cop-out?",
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"content": "My ex and I were together for six years, which culminated with him holding a gun to my head threatening to murder me while he was under the influence of a drug (MXE). He has a lot of mental health problems and the drug abuse certainly does not help. \n\nSince the end of our relationship three+ years ago, he's been in a relationship with one woman and told me that he had gotten clean, which I've since learned is a lie. We have very little contact. Last weekend a mutual friend was with the ex and his gf and he was intoxicated and choked his gf in front of other people. The gf said it's happened a number of times. The next morning when everyone was sober, the gf tried to brush it off and act like everything was fine. She lives with him with her two young children. He still has guns. I'm absolutely terrified for her. \n\nOn one hand, it isn't any of my business. My life changed substantially for the better after getting out of the relationship with my ex and I don't want to involve myself in any drama. I dropped him and everyone associated with him (other than this one mutual friend) back then because of how messed up I was after the gun incident. On the other, I feel like I should tell her about what happened to me so that she knows exactly who she's dealing with (although she may already know). His behavior is clearly escalating, he has guns, and he's still abusing this drug. My current boyfriend, whose opinion I value immensely, says that I should leave it be, but he is obviously biased.\n\nI can't look at this situation objectively. What, if anything, should I do?",
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"content": "My girlfriend's family were friends with his family and spent time together fairly often. When my girlfriend was 9, he tried to rape her in the basement while the two families had dinner upstairs. It happened more than once. She was embarrassed and blamed herself and never told anyone about it.\n\nYears later, the two families drifted apart for other reasons, but in the last year or so, they rekindled their friendship. Her family, including myself as her date, are invited to his sister's wedding. Her brother will obviously be there.\n\nMy girlfriend continues to blame herself for everything and told me she doesn't know how she would tell her mom about what happened. He likes to pretend things never happened and continues to try and have small talk with my girlfriend at dinners when the two families get together. I have never met him before. I don't know how to handle myself at the wedding if he comes in close proximity to me or my girlfriend.\n\nI need advice because I am clearly not thinking straight at the moment and can't discuss this with anyone.",
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"content": "Me and this girl have been seeing each other for this past month. Every visit we usually cuddle and stuff but If I make moves other than kiss she is hesitant and moves her face away. During the time we have seen each other she drops boyfriend hints but I played the asshole and just blow them off jokingly. She usually texts me everyday and I thought things were going well\n\nThe 6th time we cuddle and made out a little more. But I was still frustrated with it all. So on the way home I gave her the ultimatum I said I want to know if you want a relationship because I don't want to just be a cuddle buddy/friend. So I said 4 days decide so I am not wasting my time. She hugged me and kissed me goodbye. \n\nThen the texts die off in frequency and after the 4 days I asked her did you think about things. Here is what she said paraphrased, since I deleted it out of anger\n\nI know you know I like you but I don't know if I want a relationship right now because I don't want someone who will leave on me because you have goals in life and shit. And I want to better my life too.\n\nI just told her I understand and she told me she cares about me and likes me. and tells me the only guys that talk to her that like her is me and another the others she blocks. I just replied that I don't like getting played and she said I know then that's been it.\n\nNow no texts or anything from her, I haven't wanted to text first because I feel like that is a just a nice way of saying that I don't want you anymore. I feel like I should move on. I believe I saw her today at work and she didn't even look which my overthinking mind went in anger.",
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"content": "I really connect with this guy and I have been in a few relationships before where I have been cheated on. But I honnestly just don't think that is what's going on. He has 2 roommates his ex, and my old boss(28m) ironically.\nShe acts like a cool person when he is in the room and all but when he is gone for a bit she always has some smart ass comment, like a joke about how much he Jacks off, or how \"gay\" he is and it just pisses me the fuck off. He wants us to get along because he has known her for 14 years and she is like a best friend.\nAnytime I try to talk about where he is going to live when the lease is up he gets upset. I just don't know how I'm always wrong in this. He defends her if I say something bad about her, he only hangs out with me on weekends, he takes her out to eat with us sometimes, she knocks on his door late at night asking him to smoke with her. There are just lots of things about their friendship that makes me uncomfortable.",
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"content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. It's been a long-distance relationship (we met online) but we've spent time together in person and are madly in love and want to spent the rest of our lives together. I recently started attending college and my boyfriend and I were so excited because we had been planning on him moving out there with me (he attended trade school and is now working and has the flexibility to move). He has purchased an apartment and a plane ticket and is planning to come out here at the end of October. \n\nMy parents, however, are completely against it. They've gone overboard (my mom threw away everything in my room back home, she's trying to convince my dad to sell my car, and she's trying to get me to pay for everything entirely on my own i.e. insurance and whatnot). \n\nMy mom and I were always friends and my dad was the mean one, but the roles have flipped, even though my dad is still against it too. They are concerned I'll begin to completely ignore my friends and not get involved with anything (I'm in music ensembles, the cycling club, and the residence hall senate).\n\nHe completely refuses to wait any longer, which I fully understand. At home, he has only one real friend due to everything being expensive in New York City so he doesn't like going out with people. He isn't close with his family and is just very lonely. He will not wait any longer to move, regardless of what my parents will do.\n\nI don't want to completely ruin my relationship with my parents, I mean, they're my parents and they've given up a lot for me over the past 18 years. But I also couldn't imagine my life without my boyfriend. My parents want me to have the \"college experience,\" even though I feel like they are the ones that are messing that up. They call me daily and cause me to cry, which then causes me to lock myself up in my room and not spend time with my friends.\n\nI love my boyfriend and I don't want to lose him. And I don't want my children to not know their grandparents. What the hell do I do :(",
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"content": "Hi! I'm 19 years old and I am not in a relationship, but lately I've had this question on my mind that I'd like to hear your opinion about! Is it uncommon for 2 people to date, when they've known each other closely for a couple of years and when she's had a serious relationship but the guy (me lol) hasn't ever had one?\nI got to know this girl (19) when she was in the middle of her relationship and we've always been close (although I would definitely not call it a friendzone, as there has always been flirting going on).",
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"content": "Hey guys,\n\nSo yesterday night I was playin games on her phone and then she got a text from a mutual friend. I told her and then just asked me to reply to her. When I did, I notice there was a text from her Exs sister with a buncha exclamation marks. Curiosity got the wter of me and I read it.\n\nBasically went like this.\nSister: we shoul hang out ! Omg I miss you! \nSO: omg me too! I was going to your neighborhood but I forgot my key in your Bros car ( her ex). I'm actually meeting a friend in a bit (referring to me) \nSuster: wait you guys got back together or what? \nSO: haha nahh lmao or what! Ttyl\n\nI was gutted as soon as I read that. Earlier that day She said she was waitin for her friend, a coworker, to drop off her key. Why was her key in his car ? I can only assume the worse.\n\nReddit, should I confront her now about this? I was thinkin I should restore her deleted msgs without sayin anything about this so I don't jump to conclusions. I want to be 100% on this.",
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"content": "My girl and I have been together for a few months now. However, there is a guy that she still is in contact with that worries me. This guy happens to be her ex LTR. She told me at the beginning of the relationship while we were in the dating phase that she had slept with him. I said I appreciate your honesty and we moved on and we are now exclusive. \n\nShe wants to remain friends with this guy and I told her I found it a bit weird. They were together for a long time and I don't think its my place to tell her who she can and cannot see. She told me anyway that she wouldn't be cutting him out of her life. \n\nI am aware that they are still in contact through social media and text. I had not been aware if they actually see each other but I had a strong suspicion they do during the week. I asked her about it and she came clean. They have been seeing each other platonically about once a week for the whole time we have been together. He is obviously still in love with her. The part that bothers me is that she didn't tell me they were actually hanging out. I think in her mind she covered it by telling me they were still in contact.",
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"content": "Our car broke down in another state, and long story short we got jobs, found an apartment, started a new life here. \n\n At first, I didn't have a job, and he paid for everything. Then, I got a job, worked my ass off and got promoted to full time. His contract was over and now he's looking for work again. I pay for everything now, with the deal that he will pay me back his half later. He said he would pay half of the rent out of his savings. \n He's applied for about two hundred jobs, with no leads. He's been late giving me rent for the last two months, and he still owes me one hundred from last month. When I tried to explain that I was worried he didn't respect how important rent is, he quickly got upset, and stormed off into the night to find an ATM. Over the phone, i've begged him to come home- it's about 2am here- but he maintains that I just want his money, and \"everything is about money\" to me. For the record, it's not, I would pay all of the rent if he told me ahead of time he couldn't afford it. I'm worried about him walking for miles in a strange city so late. \n\n His ego has been wrecked lately, because of lack of work and unhappiness with his appearance. He dislikes how he looks because his hair has gotten shaggy, but he doesn't have money to cut it, and refuses my offer to pay for one. I think I may have hit a sore spot when I asked about the rent. He has been feeling inadequate lately, and this may have rubbed salt in his wounds. \n\n How can I go about his better in the future? How do I know if i'm being taken advantage off? I don't know anyone here, so thanks in advance for reading dear redditors.",
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"content": "Hey reddit, this has been really getting me befuddled about this whole situation. To begin my gf works at a clothing store and 2 months ago they hired this old, stupid woman. She would be mean to customers her boss and of course my gf, for about 2 months after every shift my gf would come home and complain for a solid 3 hours about this one girl. Eventually my family and I got tired of hearing her bitch, so I tried something to get her fired. I went on their website and sent a complaint email trying to get her in trouble (I know very immature :P)\nThat being said I told my gf what I did, she seemed cool but the next morning at work she phoned me, crying her eyes out. \"YOU HURT HER FEELINGS!\" \"I KNOW IT WAS YOU I HAVE TO TELL HER, ITS ON MY CONSCIENCE\" She ends up fucking telling her. Her of all people, 2 months known and she hates her, I've known her for 2 years and we \"Love\" one another. After all that she acts higher than the fucking pope and says you need to think about what you've done, so we're breaking up for now. What do you think reddit? who's at fault? and what do you think I should do?",
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"content": "Today, i fucked up really hard.\n\nIt all started this morning while I was scrolling down my Instagram. I noticed someone that did this weird thing with his hair and i actually really liked it. And since I'm 16 I taught it'd be a good idea to ask my parents before i get a new haircut, and so I asked.\n\nIt turned out that the haircut was 'inappropriate' for a 'handsome young man' like me.. And that the haircut was for criminals and football players. And yes, my parents are very Catholic. After i continued arguing and saying that you can't say if someone is a 'bad guy' just by his hairstyle, my dad got really mad and told my mom that i needed a haircut right now.\n\nSo my mom took me downtown and right in to the first barber shop we saw. And there all my hair got cut off. Since I am black i don't actually mind because it will grow back within some weeks. But deep down I still was freaking mad. While we were walking back to our car my mom saw a cute second hand shoe vendor and asked me if I wanted to take a look. First i couldn't really care but after taking a second look at the store I saw a medium size blue sign which read: Mosque' or something like that. I looked in my mom's eyes and saw she hadn't read that sign. So I just played along and said that I didn't feel very well but that I wouldn't mind if she went to take a look. And so she did.\n\nAfter not even a minute there were already 2people escorting her of the mosque and telling her that she should read better and some other things that i couldn't understand.",
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"content": "So I'm 20m and my ex is 20f, we dated for over 2 years in high school. We broke up during the beginning of college, which was over 2 years ago. We've remained in touch through this time, occasionally meeting up and wishing happy birthday and merry christmas to each other. However, for the majority of these 2 years I've been dating another girl, also 20f. I stayed in touch with my ex as friends because she's an interesting person and I guess I tend to hold onto my old friends!\n\nAnyways, within the last 2 weeks I've had strong feelings for my ex. You know how your brain tells you that you can't live without this person, I even was dreaming about getting back together with her. This is where things get really complicated in my head because I'm still with my girlfriend that I met after I broke up with my ex. I don't think I have any problems with my girlfriend but in my mind I end up putting my ex-gf up on a pedestal (she looks better, dances better, the sex was better etc.). I hope this hasn't affected my current relationship, which is why I'm looking for help from you guys.\n\nIn the last month I've been in contact with my ex-gf and wished her merry christmas and what not and even mentioned that we should meet up over the break. She said she would like to but hasn't gotten back to me so I figure the ball is in her court.\n\nMy question is if I meet up with her, should I tell her my feelings to see where she's at? I've been thinking this might complicate things for her because I'm not sure if she's seeing someone right now. I've also considered meeting up with her and telling her my feelings and that I don't think we should continue this friendship we have. Things were fine between me and my ex before but these feelings seem to have popped up from somewhere hidden inside me and I'm not exactly sure how to deal with or ignore them. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks",
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"content": "First of all this is my first real girlfriend as in relationship and we are still building up.\n\nI always had problems with dessemination of time as in doing my hobbies, going out with friends and work. Now when I have a girlfriend I don't know what I should do with my spare time after work.\n\nI have the feeling that I can't handle all the things happening and that I should spend most of the time with her and doing less with my hobbies and such.\n\nI am almost always gaming with a friend of mine and its part of my life and it became something that I think I need to do but with a 40 hour work week I don't have much time (For my doing). \n\nI'm more comfortable at home gaming because I have my rig there and I can voice chat with my friend and just relax. Now I don't really know how much time I should be spending home vs being with my gf and playing games but not really playing with my friend (We almost do everything together as in playing WoW and currently ARK)\n\nNow before it escalates and getting really stressed I am asking for some tips on how to spend my time, explaining this is really hard for me so I hope I have explained it well enough\n\nSorry for my bad english I'm from holland so english is not my native language.",
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"content": "I should probably preface by saying that I'm living in France, in case anyone has any habitation rights savoir faire!\n\nI moved into my apartment on the first of October this year, and when I arrived to my 'furnished' flat, I noticed some things were missing... I had no cooker, no washing machine, a broken fridge, no cleaning equipment and no other furniture in my room other than a bed.\n\nNow, for 350 euros a month, this is weird. She got me a second hand, unclean fridge. I just cleaned it without complaining because I needed a fridge. Here's where she starts to get passive aggressive. She managed to call me several times on my number before, but when I started to press harder for the necessary furniture she left a note stuffed in my letter box that said 'thisisrage182, can you give me your ACTUAL phone number please?' (in French of course).\n\nLittle weird... there's nothing wring with my phone. Whenever I call she says that she can't find a cooker, that her husband is working so she can't come over, that she doesn't have a car big enough. I'm living out of my suitcase here, and eating microwave food.\n\nThis week she said that she had found me a better bed (not really in my list of priorities, but I was hardly going to say no) so I asked her to make sure she didn't call me in school hours as I'm a teacher. She called while I was in class and then said the bed will now have to wait because I didn't answer my phone.\n\nLast but certainly not least, today she came directly to my flat to announce that my rent is one day late and that she is considering taking action on it... I asked for a direct payment method to be set up at the bank but they obviously hadn't set it up. Seriously though, coming to my house all fussy over one day and a mistake after living here for over a month!\n\nPlease help me get around this bitch!!!",
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"content": "We flirted all throughout class in the most passive ways and then I asked him out on the last day and he said sure! We went to this bar and I got too drunk off of two drinks. I don't usually drink hard alcohol and he said I could have beer but for some reason I said \"No, that's fine\" and proceeded to drink gin and absinthe ... I DON\"T KNOW WHY I DID THIS. I really like him. He is so intelligent and sexy.. Then I got too drunk and started saying everything that is awful. Like how I didn't like the kids in our class, I live with my parents, my parents have money, how I *WASN'T* planning on telling him about all this. JESUS CHIST. And this is only the stuff I remember. I texted him when I got him and told him I had a good time and we should do it again. He said he did too and sure. I'm not sure he's just saying that or....? I asked him to go to coffee Sunday (yesterday) and the event happened Monday. I know really close together, but I wanted to apologize to his face. Should I? Like:\n\nI am so sorry for Monday. I am embarrassed. I think you are intelligent, interesting and sexy and I would like to get to know you more. Please don't judge me on Monday and go to the art museum or zoo or something before you leave the state? \n\nIf he doesn't text back in a week is a text apology as a last resort ok? \n\nYes, I wrote it out. I am so fucking embarrassed...",
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"content": "My girlfriend likes to go out quite a bit, mostly going to bars to hang out with friends or meet people there. Many of the times, I am not with her but she always comes home to me and is faithful. She told me today that she was invited out for some drinks with a guy friend of hers, but she didn't have any money to buy drinks. He said that he would buy her a few to help her out.\n\nHere is where I chimed in. I asked, \"Don't you think its a bit weird for guys to buy you drinks when you have a boyfriend.?\" She doesn't seem to think so and lets guys buy her drinks at the bar all the time. She doesn't mind if strangers buy her drinks at the bar either.\n\nI just think its a bit weird that she lets other guys buy her drinks at the bar when she clearly has a boyfriend. Is it weird for me to think this way?",
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