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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend ( 37yo) and I( 41yo) have been together almost a year, we moved in together about 3 months ago and everything was good, but about 2 weeks ago he stopped having sex with me? He is still affectionate, still comes home every night nothing else has changed he just says he's too tired to have sex?\n\nI'm starting to get a complex about it, feeling unwanted, unattractive and frankly I am a bit lonely. I try talking to him but it's like talking to a wall he says nothing is wrong he loves me yet I get nothing in regards of intimacy.\n\nI know the \"honeymoon\" period wears off but after only a year I didn't think we would just not be having sex... can anyone offer some advice on how to get us back on track?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway and on mobile. Not sure how to tag on mobile. \n\nI have had multiple partners break up with me because I'm \"too passionate\". Multiple partners have told me that, when things are good, things are amazing. But when things are bad, they're the worst situations they've ever been in.\nThe last two guys I've dated broke up with me within a month because I had gotten into fights with them at least twice in that time frame. The worst part? I didn't even realize we were fighting because we weren't screaming at each other (this happened a lot in my first relationship. Hasn't really happened since then because I now realize how destructive that behavior is and am much better at communication my feelings). I really do my best to modulate my behavior but something small will happen, I'll be upset, and then I won't/can't get over it. I've had constructive talks with my exes and the best advice they could give me if that they hope I'll find someone who likes my combative side. But I don't like that side of me. \n\nI obviously have a problem if multiple partners have had issues with me and they all said very similar things. This only really happens with romantic partners. I'm not sure why my platonic relationships don't have this problem. What can I do?\n\nEdit: \"passionate\" is not my word. Multiple partners have used it. It is not passive aggressiveness because I try to avoid that to communicate my feelings.\nI guess my \"passion\" is getting into unnecessary fights? Once, I was upset and needed time alone, my partner considered that a fight because I didn't want his arm around me. \nI cannot see a professional right now because 1) insurance and money issues and 2) I'll be entering a profession that looks down on mental issues and they WILL find out. I'd rather not get into it but there are no HIPPA violations or anything like that but I wouldn't be able to enter my profession if they find out I have mental problems OR if I lied about not having mental problems.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm mostly curious if there are any companies that will let me pay to download a movie or music that I can watch or listen to on any device I want. I don't want to have a limited number of computers that an account can be activated on(iTunes). I want the product to be mine to use how I want. I can take a DVD to a friends house to watch, why can't I have a high quality digital copy to do what I want with? A one time fee for a single movie, like buying a DVD at Target but a digital copy online.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for over a year.\n\nHe dated this girl the summer between his junior and senior year in high school. They dated for 3 months I think? Anyway, she was his first kiss, first prom date, etc. They didn't kiss and most of their relationship they were apart (he lives in Oregon during the summer). Whenever he speaks about her, he says that he really liked her. He told me specifically that he never LOVED her though. Well, last night, he was drunk and said that she was his \"first love.\" The next morning I asked him about this and he said that he was drunk and being emotional and meant puppy love, and that he never actually loved her, and that I'm his first true love. \n\nWell, I'm a little worried that he still likes her or has feelings for her of some sort... I'll admit, I've snooped a few times on his computer (which is NOT okay...haven't done it in a long time)... but he did go on her Facebook every once in awhile. \n\nI'm just really confused about why he is still wondering about his HIGH SCHOOL girlfriend...of FIVE years ago... strange?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I work at a grocery store and there was a girl in another department who would always come to grab various fruits and vegetables for platters, sushi. Now on occasion, she would grab Cantaloupe, Honeydey and Watermelon and I would always say she had \"nice melons\". Sometimes when she saw me carrying them, she would say the same thing back to me. It was a nice running joke.\n\nSo one glorious afternoon, were in the produce fridge and I make the joke. No harm right? Wrong. So, apparently a co-worker from the deli was behind a skid fishing out some stuff for the sushi lady that doesnt speak English.\n\nShe's apparently a real hard ass. So she goes and tells her manager that one of the \"kids in produce\" makes sexual comments. Next thing I know I am getting a lecture from my manager about not making sexual comments to co-workers.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm head over heels for my boyfriend. We've been together for almost two years but I feel like I've known him my whole life. I wish I would have known him long ago... I'm in constant awe of how much I love, care for and adore this man. I am stupidly in love with him; I'm confident when saying I have never felt this way before. After being with him, I'm sure I've never really been in love before.\nSometimes I look at him and think \"how the... wha... how... who am I to have this phenominal person here with me?\" \nThe short time I've spent with him is enough to last me a lifetime of happiness. BUT, I'm afraid to tell him. 1-2 yrs isn't really that long to be with a person, and although I tell him I love him, I care for him... those feelings are merely service. I don't want to scare him off. I don't want him to think I'm a psycho. Then again, I don't want him to think I'm a heartless bitch either. I know I'm young but I am a bit slow to pace when it comes to the whole \"I love you forever\" thing.\nTonight, he and I are having our Christmas; I'm making dinner, I've baked cookies and wrapped presents... I also wrote him a letter of how wonderful he makes me feel - is it too soon to tell him? Should I wait a few months longer?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello. I just have a question about some insecurities that are cropping up and how to deal with this as time goes on in my life.\n\nI'm a 26 year old male who has been single for the past year. I've been enjoying my time but the past few times I've started dating a woman these insecurities from the past start kicking in.\n\nThe biggest insecurity I have is that my last serious relationship (4+ years) ended primarily due to me having to move back in with my parents. I was 24 at the time and had to go back to school for an internship with a company. I'm currently 6 months in my new position making $30,000 / year with a good outlook for a raise soon.... but I'm still stuck at my parents place. The girl at the time soon left me for someone else shortly after that, and gave the \"I don't know what to tell you, it's not you it's me, etc etc..\". There is certain evidence that this wasn't the case that I discovered later and I believe it had more to do with finances.\n\nSo now that I'm on my way up, how do I stop fearing this kind of occurrence from happening? I feel as if I'm less of a person due to the amount of money I'm currently making and though I do have plans to move soon I feel like my whole dating life is currently on hold until I become more financially stable. Any advice on this? I feel like I don't even want to enter the dating soon out of fear of being laughed at for how much money I make. I don't have any other real issues affecting my confidence like this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This might be a bit of a rant but I'm just really confused at this point and I don't know what to do. So here's to start off I'm friends with this female who I've known for years and I never made a move on her. Recently she gave me what I assumed to be hints like direct eye contact and a smile out of the blue. A couple days ago I finally gained the nerve to ask her out to go eat together and she said yes and told me to message her. (Neither of us suggested a friend coming along or anything so I assume it was just one on one). So on the next day it's the go out day and I message her in the morning to meet up with me at ____ later and no response. Later I go there being the hopeful idiot I am and I just wait. Some more waiting.... I message her to ask her if she does plan on coming, no response. I'm pretty sure she was just ignoring my messages at this point... And I eventually go home. Hours later she messages to me that she has a boyfriend and I just... \"Uh ok.\" Next day she greets me and smiles at me like nothing ever happened. At this point I have no idea how to react cause I sorta end up seeing her everyday and yea...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway account just in case.\n\nShort story and context:\n\nGirlfriend is here on a working holiday visa that was recently renewed. To renew said visa we had to call in a favor from a friend. Girlfriend being the trusting type she is told people she was close to including roommate (who up until recently was our friend) about the details of this process.\n\nSituation in the house has been gradually deteriorating for a number of weeks due to silly reasons. Finally we decided to leave and look for our own place. Girlfriends birthday is coming up soon and I decided id like to throw a birthday party for her before leaving. Roommate was totally opposed to the situation, saying there was no day over the next 2 weeks this would be permissible because he had work and other plans blah blah blah. Situation escalated when he started aggressively demanding his way and I called him a tyrant. \n\nHe threatened that if we even so much as have a single person over without his permission he'll go to immigration and try have her deported.\n\nUnfortunately he's a bitter enough prick that I think this is a credible threat. My situation now is this: we have 2 weeks left till we move out, how can I fuck with him as much as possible and make him pay for being a vindictive asshole without him actually carrying out his threat.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now. We met online and had instant chemistry. We had a rocky start because he is very progressive and I am extremely old fashioned. The first time he told me he loved me was, I think, more of a cover up for the fact that he also revealed he'd gotten a girl pregnant just before dating me. He told her he didn't want anything to do with it and that I was his priority. Probably my first indication to run. \n\nLater I found he had been talking to ex's back in his hometown(very far away from where we are) and I wanted to call it quits at that point. I decided not to because I had already fallen in love with him and trusted him when he said he's change. \n\nDon't get me wrong, he makes me ecstatically happy, otherwise I wouldn't have stayed. We talk about marriage and children a lot. Now we have picked up our lives and moved together to an entirely new city so that we both could have better jobs, but I think I need a fresh start and probably a break from men who do not know what it means to be exclusive. Also I find he texts women from work more often than he should. He has a lot of female interaction on his job and I don't trust him with it. This is what sparked my post.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday, my boyfriend had a pool party and invited a bunch of people. I think one of the girls he's friends with has a crush on him. As soon as I met her, I just knew. I catch her staring at my boyfriend, teasing him in a flirty manner, and she laughs at everything he says.\n\nAt the pool party, she took it upon herself to let my boyfriend know that he was getting a little sunburned on his back. Not even five minutes later, she was putting sunscreen on his back and rubbing/massaging his shoulders. \n\nShe followed him around the entire time. This girl has got it bad for my boyfriend.\n\nIs there a good way to bring this up with him in a loving way? We're in a five month relationship so it's not like we've been together that long.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been having a relationship with a girl for nearly half a year and we recently decided to break it off. After not being in a relationship much since high school, and having many casual hookups, I rushed into a relationship after a life changing event. I was surprised and shocked as I discovered how similar we were, but didn't really know what I wanted in a relationship. I guess after being single for so long, you realize you have a great deal of freedom. Freedom to do whatever you want without any real repercussions other than your own guilt. But when you're in a relationship, you trade that freedom to do anything with the security of having another person to confide in, to hold against the darkness of the universe. I guess I felt like I was losing my identity as I precipitated from a 'me' mentality to a 'we' mentality. Perhaps the 'me' mentality is a symptom of being a young adult, and at some point you realize that security is more important as you age and experience the world, but you have to want to make the transition. I feel like I lost her because I wasn't able to meet my responsibilities for the 'we' part, and I wasn't always there when she needed me. \n\nI guess my question is two parts. How do you reconcile the loss of your self identity to meet it in the middle with your mutual other? \n\nThen also, is the 'freedom vs security' a valid way to look at modern day relationships? It's really 1 person vs 2 people, which is the stronger model? Also, is security interchangeable with responsibility because you have to be responsible in order to gain the benefits of security? This kind of matches the constant struggle in the political spectrum where we try to pick a perfect balance between freedom (doing whatever you want) vs security (being safer) or responsibility (standing up for what you think is right despite what may feel good). I mean, are there any abstract examples or ideas out there that very closely match the balance of a good relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To keep things short and sweet, we live about 2 hours from each other and today was our 1 year anniversary. I took off as did he and I made the trip last night to go visit him so we could celebrate our 1 year together. Today however, we did nothing but look for clothes for his new job as a server.\n\nWe woke up early and tried to make things snappy, as 4PM rolls around we're finally wrapping things up but we're both frustrated because we wanted to have a day together to do 1 year anniversary things (go to museums, get food, go see a movie). Due to it being such an ordeal going from shop to shop, mall to mall that by the end of it we didn't have time to do any of it because everything would be closed after we battled through city 5o'clock traffic. He had a melt-down because I wanted to go back home and sleep in my own bed because I was exhausted and I didn't see a point in staying if he had to work at 7AM the next day.\n\nMy question to you, reddit; Am I totally out of line for being upset that he didn't really take care of his commitments before hand or am I just a needy little bitch? Please help me understand his side because I so badly want to get over this but I just cant understand his train of thought when I stopped my multiple projects a day early so I could come on Wednesday night and not Thursday morning.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was always a huge fan of things like k'nex and fischertechnik as a kid, and loved my \"300-in-1 Electronic Project Lab\" even though I didn't understand any of it (could still follow the directions to do the projects though and had a lot of fun).\n\nI’m looking for something along those lines but a little more advanced. Are there any fun kits out there for adults to build that still give that sought after sense of satisfaction when you finish it?\n\nI’ve peeked at things like the raspberry pi or the arduino. But I’m not really the most imaginative type and prefer to work through a predefined project than just fiddle around with no real goal. And the variations of arduino boards was a little overwhelming, would never be able to decide on a whim. I have a BS in Comp. Sci. and programming is my full time job, just hoping to get a little experience hardware side in a fun way.\n\nI tried to find a more focused subreddit to ask this in but wasn’t able to uncover anything, so feel free to just yell at me to go to some other sub, still appreciated.\n\nMany thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background information: I'm 26. She was my first official girlfriend. We've been together for more than one year, but in the last couple of weeks we didn't put enough energy into the relationship anymore. I expected her to break up with me on Friday when she told me 'I need to tell you something'. Actually she did broke up with me AND then told me that she cheated two weeks ago. This is an actual text I sent her yesterday:\n\nI need to tell you something. This won't be nice for you, but I need to say it. Like you told me that story about Paddy. When I heard about it on Friday, I honestly thought that I can deal with it. My reaction was honest and I meant every word I said. I wasn't even mad at you.\n\nBut since then it hurts more with every day. Yesterday I cried for the first time when I was at my brother's home and just now I did it again at training. It is the first time I am feeling this and it sucks hard.\n\nAnd it was unnecessary. You could have broke up and then fucked whoever you wanted. I didn't need to know then. \n\nAnd it was no random mistake, because you slept with him twice. I know that I am partly to blame for this, too. That is my biggest problem. Had I treated you like you deserve it (Yes, I still think you are awesome), it wouldn't have happened. And you know that this is the actual reason. You just didn't want to tell me that. Therefore sentences like \"it's not your fault, it's mine\" are simply cliché. \n\nI don't hate you. Far from it. I miss you every day, even though I hate to admit it. But all those things I didn't tell you on Friday, so I had to do it now. That you cheated on me, did hurt me and it sucks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(I originally posted this in /r/thailand but got no responses)\n\nYesterday I booked my ticket for my trip to Thailand! I will be there for most of December with a week side trip to Australia!\n\nI have been to Thailand multiple times so I've seen all the major sites. I keep going back because I've made friends there and absolutely love Thai food!\n\nOn this trip I want to relax on an island (or beach in general) that is a bit off the beaten path. I just want to decompress from a stressful year of work.\n\nI am not under some illusion that I will find some island with virgin beaches that no white man has ever walked on. I am just looking for something where things are more relaxed and don't have as much of the regular tourist traffic.\n\nFor recreation all I am looking for is a quiet beach to zit on and read, splash around in the ocean, eat some good Thai food and seafood, a pub to drink a Singha and shoot some pool in the evening (no loud discos). Where I sleep doesn't have to be fancy .. just clean and safe. Nothing too complicated.\n\nI am thinking of something perhaps like Koh Tao or maybe Koh Similan.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To start off, she has a lot of amazing qualities and I deeply enjoy the time we spend together. I like her, but at this point, I am just trying to feel out the relationship and kind of see where it goes. On the other hand, she seems to really love me already. She wants to see me all the time, talks about how her parents will really like me, is planning vacations with me for the next summer, just got me an expensive holiday gift, etc. Apart from her many positive qualities, I find this very unattractive. I need to have a conversation with her about our expectations for the relationship and that I would really like to slow down and just take time to enjoy each other. I'm worried that my lack of such a fast commitment will leave her feeling led on. What's a way to approach that would allow me to express myself effectively, while also not making her feel like I don't care or that she is unwanted (because I do want her)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for nearly a year now and it is her birthday today. I wanted to spend some time with her but she didn't bother to reply. \n\nI'm not proud of it but I logged onto her facebook and she was chatting with this guy continuously. I always figured when 2 people are really in love, they'd spend their best days with the other as well as their worsts. I had a lot planned for her and it hurt me when she didn't bother chatting with me. I didn't say anything because I didn't want to fight with her on her birthday. \n\nI know on my birthday, I'd love to spend every minute talking to her. It kinda feels like she doesn't really care that much and she has other people and when things go to shit with them, she'll come back to me. Or am I really stupid and I should let her enjoy her day?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just got into another heated petty argument with my bf of 3 years! He started telling our roommate a story about someone, I was sure he was thinking of something else, he stops dead in his tracks and tells me that that's not what happened. I said more details of what I remembered, he told me again that I was wrong and I should believe him because it's a story that happened to him. He said what he always does, \"why is it that when we disagree you assume I must be wrong? Why don't you ever consider that you could be wrong?\" \n\nBy that point I had realized it was possible I was wrong, but I absolutely did not want to concede that to him or offer him any slack. I don't get like this with everybody, but my bf and I both have this stupid trait of never backing down! And I hate admitting I'm wrong to him because I feel like he acts super smug and condescending, when I make a mistake he laughs at me in an \"oh, you\" sort of way that INFURIATES me. I know I overreact to this sort of thing but I don't know how to improve!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Boyfriends and I have been together for 3 years. He has always been a gamer. I have too although most of my gaming days were before my son was born. I understand that it's his way to unwind from work. There's this one game he's started playing two months ago with some other guy he met online and since he's started playing, it's like I don't exist. He doesn't want to do anything with me our or son. I've even come home late at night and come back to find our 2 year old still awake at 10:00 pm because he forgot him on the couch. He has a second son that he doesn't pay much attention to either because of his gaming addictions.\n\nThe only time he comes to me is if he wants sex...but I just feel so neglected by him that I'm never in the mood for that. And when I do it, it's just because I feel obligated to him. I've told him that I feel he's spending too much time playing that game, and I've even brought up couples counselling. He's not interested in any of it. And when I try to have a serious conversation he just shuts down and has this poker face displayed so I have no idea what he's thinking, and he never responds to me after these conversations. \n\nI have anxiety issues and depression and with him being so into this game, I feel like he doesn't care about the relationship anymore, and it's just causing me to sink further into my depression.\n\nI don't want to leave him. We have a son together. Also, even though I work, I don't make enough to financially support myself and my son. I'm going to school for the bachelors degree a couple evenings during the week but I am still a few years away from completing that. \n\nAt this point, I feel lost and I don't know what to do. I don't want to stop him from gaming, but I feel like he needs to also focus on his family more.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let's start with background information about this girl\n\nThere's this girl that I really like. We're in science class and I have free period with her. I also sometimes pass by her on the way to class everyday. In Science Class, we show little glances of each other. I'd usually look at her for a few seconds and when she looks back, I either smile or look away. Sometimes we see each other and we both smile -- but it could be that she's talking with her friends as well.\n\nIn Gym class, we notice each other but she's with her group of friends and I'm with my own group of friends. Kind of hard to get to know her. Today in gym, we actually lined up against a wall and I was next to her. I was nervous since we were both talking to our own little group of friends I guess.\n\nWe always make eye contact in some way and I feel like she might show some interest in me too. I really have a huge crush on her. What's also interesting is that prom is coming up in about a month and I really want to ask her to it -- but then again I don't know her very well. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I understand why she did. I've been in the Army for 14 years. I've been deployed five times (51 months total) she just couldn't take it and quit on me. I've always been faithful to her. Im pretty sure cheated on me a couple of times before she divorced me. I could tell she was looking for outs. I'm at a point in my career now that if I quit its basically like turning my back on more than a million dollars. I think the damage is already done. She has moved on, she is dating good guys, that are good for her. I'm having a really rough time moving on. I think about her a lot. I know i call too much. I've tried dating, but for some reason i feel like the biggest creep in the entire world. The women that do date me seem pretty excited by my online profile but fairly disgusted by me in real life. I think i'm giving out the most desperate vibe on the planet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I Work at this small Polish restaurant, when I was first employed i was a dish washer, then I got promoted to bus boy and then almost waiter but then that failed. Our dishwasher recently quit to go to college and I am not stuck with doing the dishes 3~4 times a week. This is not your normal dishes. I have to do dishes, easy,Prep food, and that's all I did when I first started to work there but now I clean the grease hood, wipe down every surface and do all the busboy jobs as well every night. I'm only 15 and it I end up leaving work around 1:00 a.m. in the morning every school night. How can I help myself get through all the work?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I hope the title is not too bad - english is not my first language, sorry. \n\nMy 17-year-old sister recently put herself in a situation which was quite alarming when my mother heard about it. She was drinking (too much) with 2 of her friends and 5 other people she did not know, on a camping beach, near a lake. Nobody was sober enough and some of them took a midnight bath while clearly drunk. I hope I am not overreacting if I think that it is dangerous, mainly because the drowning risk… Anyway, I realized that even if I gave her some big brother drinking advice (things like « if you don't feel like drinking because suddenly, the taste of alcohol kinda disgust you, it is time to stop, no matter what your friends tell you to do, you will not have a good time if you continue »), I never mentioned certain situations (like drowning while drunk).\n\nIn particular, It made me realize that I never told her something like « dudes flirting with you while drunk sometimes misinterpret your signals (by clumsiness or malignancy) and bad things can happen to you, so do not get too drunk with people you barely know/trust to be able to react well if it happens ». I want to tell her that and I want to make her understand that it is serious, but something I've understood by reading feminists books/articles is that many women live in a constant (and horrifying) fear of rape, and when some asshole rapes a woman, this woman often feels some guilt, feeling that it's her fault, that she should have been less clumsy, put on less sexy clothes, drunk less, etc.\n\nI do not my sister to feel that way, and moreover, I do not want to be a part of the transmission of this rape culture which blames victims! On the other hand, I want her to understand that this is a serious issue and that even if, in an ideal world without rapists, she shouldn't have to worry about it, she should be aware of this issue and avoid stupidly risky situations.\n\nHow would you advise me to phrase my advice to her? Again, sorry for my bad english =/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a week ago I went to my favorite sports bar here in Arizona. It's self-seating so my buddies and I sit down at a table near the back of the bar. Our server, a girl, call her J comes over, cute, short girl, takes our orders and walks away. I lean over to my buddy and tell him she was cute and that I think I'm gonna leave my number. Fast forward through awkward flirting and such while we eat and drink for about an hour, checks come, I leave her a note saying I thought she was cute and that I would love to buy her a drink sometime with my number.\n\nYesterday I went back to that sports bar after I hadn't heard from her. Different group of people but turns out she is our server again. She says she remembers me so I call her by her name and have a good meal. This time when the checks came, I grabbed my card and I shut my book. This morning when I woke up, I realized I forgot to fill out the tip portion of my bill. I am a server and now she probably thinks I didn't tip because she didn't text me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "During a game of \"Never have I ever\" the question of \"1-10 scale\" had come up. I gave her my honest opinion. I believed that she was an 8. She told me that she found me to be a 6 and a half. This actually threw me for a loop. I'm generally found to be fairly physically attractive by my partners. My question is as follows:\n\nIs this a relationship that's worth pursuing? In terms of sexual chemistry we seem to fall short. (She doesn't kiss with tongue or like what I like). Aside from that our personalities fit together very well. I'm just curious if this base level of attraction is indicative of problems in the future. If I'm not her type and she chooses to date me what kind of challenges will that bring up later? I do have to admit that I'm bothered by the fact that I (physically) barely meet her most basic requirements for attraction.\n\nAny thoughts/bits of advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Heyo!\n So I've run into a couple of issues while looking to start my journey into weight loss and getting my weight back on track. But first a bit about myself, as that'll come into play soon, I am a 15 year old Male who is about 5'6 and close to 195 lbs. Fed up with myself I began to search the Internet for help. I've been lurking for a bit but I realized that a lot of what is in this sub can't exactly fit me due to my age. For example, although I really want to try My Fitness Pal I cannot create an account without a date of birth for an 18 year old(or older). I thought about this and decided that may throw off my diet so I decided not to do it. Alas I come to you humbly for any help/advice/apps/diets you may be able to recommend to me. Unfortunately I don't know much about diets/calories and what amount of calories I should be I taking or what to eat etc. So I'd appreciate it if some of you may tell me of any apps you guys know and/or specific food and recipes that I can get started on to loose weight. I may be young but I'm not incompetent! So a lot of recipes I myself will be able to cook, and try, that way I can hopefully get my siblings/mother in on the healthy food as we are all in the same boat.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been talking to a guy for about a week now, and we got along really well throughout the week last week. Sending texts/snapchatting... etc.\n\nThroughout the week he was sending me messages saying how beautiful/cute/funny I am, and that he liked me.\n\nHe came over to my dorm (College dorm) on Friday night and we watched a movie and cuddled while talking about random things. Towards the end of the night, we kissed a few times while saying cute things to each other.\n\nHe asked me on Friday night if we could hang out Saturday, and I said yes. Then I knew he was going to be busy for part of Saturday, but he said he might be free that night. He ended up being where he was almost all night, so we didn't hang out.\n\nHe called me Saturday night saying he really wanted to see me today (Sunday) before I go home (2 hours away) for a couple weeks tomorrow.\n\nAll day today he has been playing League of Legends with his brother in his apartment, saying that he wants to hang out with me, but that they are on a winning streak so he doesn't want to leave.\n\nPlease help me understand what is going on. I really like this guy, and I felt like we had a fantastic time Friday night, but now I feel like he is just blowing me off.\n\nI usually over think things a lot, so I'm thinking I may just be reading too much into this. At least I hope that's what's going on. I'm not sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So real quick backstory: I have friends that introduced me to this girl a few years back (like over 5 years ago) and I really didn't think much of her but then recently last summer she started to talk to me out of the blue, and we would constantly be texting or even skyping (Like I would leave my friends house to go home to skype her, and I've never done that for a girl before, I was infatuated) , but here is the catch, she has a boyfriend. Now I'm not usually the kind of guy to mess around with a girl thats in a relationship but I really liked this girl, she seemed interested in me too, and I didn't know what her intentions were for talking to me out of the blue while she had a boyfriend. We stopped talking when I suggested she breaks up with her boyfriend, and ever since I can't stop thinking about what could have been. \n\nSo I guess I'm kind of wondering what I should do. Should I wait for her to break up with her boyfriend and be the rebound, or should I start talking to her again and tell her that I like her? Any advice helps! Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Really long, sorry.\nI have been with him for over two years and I love him to death. We're best friends and lovers. Anyhow, he has cheated on me twice in the past two years that I know of. Nothing physical, but he invited some girl over after I left his house (she didnt go over) & recently he contacted his ex and got naked pictures from her. He denied both even after I had the proof in front of me. He said he didn't know what he was thinking, but could never give me an answer as to why he did it. A friend of his, who became a better friend to me, told me that she is pretty sure he has cheated on numerous girlfriends. He's super protective when guys he isn't friends with talk to me. I love him more than anything, but lately hes become kinda closed about who he talks to and erases all his stuff before handing me his phone. Idk, maybe im paranoid. He has made many many changes for me & he knows I feel like this because I talk to him about it & all he does is cry & say that I'm his world & if I leave he'll start drinking again (he's an alcoholic) & hate his life. The trust is still lacking & it's really hard for me to get it back. He seems to think that I should be over it because he said he was sorry. What do you guys think? Am i wasting my time? He's 24 & i'm 21.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know I'm a little young to post here but I really need some quick advice and I'm struggling a little with my sanity.\n\nSo I've only been dating my current gf for 3 weeks but we have been best friends for a year and would have gone out months ago if not for the two months of exams we have in the UK. \n\nSo anyway, about a year ago, I was diagnosed with a nasty illness and it caused me to lose lots of weight (I was already underweight) but also in some way or another, made me very sad and at one point depressed. After beating the illness with short stints in hospital, I still struggle with happiness now and again.\n\nFast forward to last night, when I had my first argument with my gf. It was my fault as I wasn't in the best place but no one outside of my direct family knew about my issues with mental health. I knew I had to tell me gf and I did; but in a stupid Facebook message and not in person because I live too far away to walk and to be honest, I was scared. Now she knows and is angry that I didn't tell her straight away, I don't know if I should say anything after having a brief conversation on Facebook; mainly making sure I wasn't self harming or anything like that. \n\nHowever, she does know that my first relationship ended because my ex gf was cutting herself and I ,again , was scared. I really don't want to break up with her but I know what it's like to be with someone who is hurting seriously. I just want her to know she can break up with me without her feeling remorse; having told her I feel like I've trapped her in a relationship. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is, what should I do now and is there anything i can do make sure she is ok? I know teenrelationships is a thing but I need an adult and quick answer. Thanks for taking the time to read all this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Has the tittle says 1+ Year relationship Me (22) her (19) Even thought it was kinda an on and off . she was really one of the few persons that changed me and had me really happy. She is a natural flirt( I guess) the kind that would stare at lot of guys and be really social. She had confessed before she had done slutty things on her teenage life including selling weed in high school. Also even thought underage she always loves to drink. Several of those slutty times of her teenage life happened when she was drunk. When i met her i kinda knew what i was kinda getting into. and we tried to worked it out . i tried something i shouldn't have never tried to do, and that was trying to changed her. She did really made a lot of mistakes in our relationship like flirting and staring. but i always gave her several chances and at the ended we worked it out (or that's what i tried to believe i was doing). So now a couple weeks ago she left with her family to mexico. and we both know our Facebook password. And just today I decided to check it and just found out she actually already cheated on me. and even planning more of it with different guys. I really haven't even processed all of this right now. Its really too much to fucking bared . She was the only thing in my life that made my days and nights. and all of that is gone. I was already going trough the worst time of my life. and now this is gonna bring me lower i don't even know how all of this is gonna work out. Am really an introvert independent unemployed person with no close family, parents and only Friend out of the country.she was my everything. and I just feel this anger of being cheated again. I feel of going on her Facebook and calling herself a slut. even tough i might regret doing it and its sound really childlike . Please Reddit if you can convinced me not to do it. it would help me alto .", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to be brief. \n\nI met a girl. We got to know each other a bit. We dated intensely for a week. I was falling HARD, and way too fast... it felt disproportionate to how well we knew each other. I just felt this connection. Then we had a somewhat serious conversation wherein it was determined that I was not ready for anything - dating or a relationship - because of baggage from a previous (terrible) breakup/4.5 year relationship. She felt at this point I would bring drama into her life. I honestly change my mind all the time about what I want and am still dealing with shit personally. I'm not in a good place to be with someone.\n\nBasically I over reacted after this conversation, sent her a lot of emotional text messages... We talked again and she was all like \"I'm not rejecting you, just where you are in life\", there were tears. I feel rejected still. She greatly imply/outright said that we could happen in the future when I'm more ready to date. It seemed sincere. She wants to be friends but I've determined that I just can't do that and have asked for us to not be in contact for a bit.\n\nBUT:\n\nMy question is... was she just being nice (if misguided)? Does this ever really happen or is it just wishful thinking? Either way I'm going to try to just get over it/her and focus on myself. However, part of me - because of this great connection - doesn't want to kill all hope. At the same time I think holding onto that hope even a little bit might impede my personal growth.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was at a bar with my friend, we had a couple beers and decided to go talk to some people/girls. I went and talked to this one girl and her friends, after a bit, our friends seemed to disperse to leave us as we had really started talking. We talked and walked around together in the bar for a good hour or two. It got late and she had to head back to her parents she was staying with. She gave me her number and I when I texted saying it was nice to meet her, she replied very nicely.\n\nThe thing that stuck out the most is the way she touched me, it may have been the alcohol influencing her, but she put my hands on her several times as we were walking. However, this might have been to deter guys that were hitting on her as she walked away from them with me. I don't think she even really drank much as she appeared kind of sober, and had me finish most of the only beer I saw her drinking that night. (I had a half dozen+) She seemed a bit held up on the fact that she was \"old\", but I reassured her that she wasn't.\n\nWe are both leaving in a week or two, but will be return at the same time in a few months. At the very least, I would like to see this girl again, even if it's just going out as friends (we left on a good note). I'm open to the possibility of more, but don't know how I would proceed or if things could work out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've always had the \"traditional\" view on drugs I.e. all drugs are bad etc. When I met my friend, who smokes weed, I've attempted to open my mind somewhat about drugs. I don't have a problem with her smoking weed in fact I've tried it with her a few times. \nHowever, last night she told me that a few weeks ago she and a couple of friends did MDMA. I'm not sure how I feel about this. Because of my upbringing, I always thought MDMA will fuck you over big style, but after I did some research I felt a little better. I'm still uneasy though. She did say \"I probably wouldn't want to do it again, it was fun and all but ehh\" \nAm I right to be concerned that she's going to have no qualms about trying even harder stuff I.e heroin, crack, meth? \nThere's a certain uneasiness I feel in addition, which I can't quite pin down, I think it stems to the fact that my wonderful, awesome friend is trying things I'd never considered her doing, and that opens a new side to her I've never seen before. But thats my problem, not hers.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In August, I met who I thought was a great guy on okcupid. We hit it off online immediately and began texting constantly. After about a week, he asked me out to dinner and a movie and it was the best date I'd ever been on. We began seeing each other 2-3 Times a week and fell into an easy rhythm. It seemed like we were going to become official and we both said we weren't seeing anyone else. \n\nAbout a month ago, he became a bit distant, and stopped texting as much. I asked what was up and he explained he hadn't lost interest, but was adjusting to a new job. We had a great talk and things went back to normal- talking a lot and hanging out every few days. \n\nWithin this past week, I feel like things have changed completely. Rather than him just taking a while to text back, he has completely ignored my texts or gone entire days without texting me himself. When we do talk, it's me carrying the conversation. \n\nWe only hung out one time and that was in a bar, not alone, but everything was exactly how it always is. We were relaxed and he acted completely normal. He even kissed me goodnight. But then the next day he didn't answer my text and blew off the plans we had made. \n\nAt this point, I don't know how to proceed. I really like him and that is a big step for me. I never date and I don't want to ruin things with the first person I've fallen for in years. On the other hand, I feel like I'm not a priority at all and that hurts. \n\nI don't want to come on too strong and I want to give him space to adjust to his new job, but how do I know if that's what this is? How do I know he hasn't lost interest all together? And if he has, how do I get over it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Around the world, second-hand dealers and pawn shops are required to report all of the information on the goods they buy to a corporation called Business Watch International (BWI). This company has a monopoly over their business, which is simply taking this information, putting it into a database, and allowing access to authority figures.\n\nThe way they get implimented is they shop their software around to police departments and cities, saying they'll give the software out free if statutes are written that requires second-hand dealers and pawn shops to use their service (which they charge for by transaction). \n\nFrom a moral standpoint, It's rather shady to send a bunch of people's information to one unified database housed in Canada. Particularly that their system is god-awful (It is based around use with Internet Explorer, and will not function on any other browser).\n\nFrom a democratic standpoint, there is no choice but to use this service for many shops and brokers. If that's no a clear and flagrant violation of your rights, I don't know what is. Personal information such as ID numbers, phone numbers, serial numbers, and all other types of numbers and personally identifiable information is sent across this poorly protected (and, did I mention, basically mandatory) program.\n\nI feel that it would be healthy for the system in general to have BWI's database shaken up a bit. The access website for the US is", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys,\n\nI'm an 18 year old high school student who's in their final year. About 2 months ago I was accepted to my dream school, and as such I'll be going off their in August. I'm extremely happy about it, it's one of the best schools in my country, and the place itself is beautiful. Needless to say, this relatively early university acceptance was a huge weight lifted off of my shoulders. \n\nBut for whatever reason, I can't find it in myself to be happy. Most kids my age would be ecstatic and hopeful for the future. And while I am happy that I'll be moving out on my own, I can't help but feel incredible emptiness. Every night I just waste away the day browsing internet forums or listening to music. My usual hobby of videogames can't grip me like it used to; any time I try a new game I lose interest after a few hours, maybe a few days if I'm lucky. The only thing that can hold my attention for more than a few days is reading books, but even with that, I have to take a break every half hour or else I zone out.\n\nDo you guys have any advice for me? I have nothing to be sad about, my life is great as it is, but at the same time I don't feel happy about anything. I usually feel comfortable with my friends, but we've been talking less and less recently, due to conflicting schedules at school.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this girl for about 3 years now and I've always thought her relationship with her mother was strange. Most of the girls I've dated in the past would seldom talk about their mothers or even talk TO their mothers, but she is incredibly different. She texts her mom constantly, calls her 3-4 times a day, calls her 'momma' like a kid would and not a day goes by where I don't hear something about her mom. Now, we live right around the corner from her mother and lately she has been spending the night there on and off for the past 2 weeks. She says it's because her mom is lonely and misses her, but I just can't wrap my head around it. \n\nMy first impression was that maybe she was cheating and using this as some form of cover, but she always snapchats me pictures of her and her mom hanging out, watching movies, etc. We barely have time to see each other during the week due to work and school, and then she spends what little free time she has with her mom instead of me? I should note that her parents absolutely hate me, for a long list of reasons. I've basically called them cheap and worthless to their faces for making their daughter pay for her own education and bills, leaving her in crippling debt while they're both making huge money as lawyers. I mean they have multiple boats, four houses in three different states and like six sports cars.. but they made her go into debt to get an education.\n\nBut I digress, what can I do? Am I slowly being weeded out of her life by a manipulative mother? There's a ton I could probably include about this but I wanna keep it relatively short.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 15-y.o. female, and I'm pretty sure that I just lost my long-time female best friend (a year older), who has been with me for about 4 years.\n\nI had only two friends in school, and 'she' was one of them. We never argued a lot, but there were very rare occurrences when we didn't get along. I had already been ignored for a week once--as if my presence wasn't there at all--and I always assumed it was simply because I had said something wrong (I apologise to her, I swear). But we would always get along, eventually.\n\nIn the remaining several days before we had to part for summer, our interactions were becoming a little awkward, and it was with the knowledge that I would already be attending a different school from hers when classes return. In those days, I would see her making conversations with other students rather than me. She would always speak to my only other best friend (the three of us have been really close friends for > 4 years), and not include me in the conversation. My online messages are all unread. I have, of course, asked her if I had done something wrong; she would say \"no\", as always, without looking me in the eye.\n\nAnd now she has finally blocked me in social media. 3 months have passed now, and I cannot even fathom what wrong I could have possibly done. I don't have much friends. Now that I am in a new university, I could simply forget that part of my past and move on, but I cannot bring myself to do so. You can't just forget years of shared experiences, right?\n \n\nHell, I even dream about her sometimes. I adore her as a great friend, no less. But in those last few days together, she'd just blatantly ignore me, and wouldn't at least tell me what I've done wrong--and that really hurts me. I'm rarely emotional, but look at me now.\n\nAny help at all would be strongly appreciated. If it's me who's at fault, do tell--I'm open. Apologies for the long post.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I just split a few weeks ago. I'm past the initial grieving pain but I just feel like our break up was a mistake in big picture sort of way. I've dated a lot and I have never felt closer or more at home with anyone else. I really think of her as my soul mate on many levels. If I had to say why we broke up I would say it was a breach of trust. There wasn't one big incident like cheating or anything, it was more of a long haul of small mistakes that left it hard for us communicate without being defensive. We had a pretty huge breakdown of communication at the end. We got into some bad habits and weren't able to break them, even though we were aware of them and actively tried to. I know that I can't hold onto her just because I have hope for the future, but I want to believe that once we give our wounds some time to heal, we might be able to come back to it with a fresh slate. Is this something that is totally illogical? Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/relationships, I'll try to keep this as short as I can.\n\nThree months ago, I moved into a house in England with three other people from my country, 2 girls and 2 guys (including me). I had little to no attraction to either of the girls, one was too dull to talk to properly, and the other I had little attraction to. For the sake of this story, I'll call her Liz.\n\nAll four of us are on good terms, haven't had many problems or serious rows, so we get along well. Recently (a week or two ago), however, I started to become more and more attracted to Liz - we talked a lot, discussed quite a few things, and I understood why she was the way she was (which is to say a bit unusual, she's a bit strange at times with how she behaves). With that insight into her personality, I realised that although she's not stunningly attractive, I really, really like her. I haven't felt anything like this for a while, and I genuinely don't know what to do, or whether the feeling is mutual. Yesterday we were sat in the kitchen for hours discussing love, relationships, sex, all that, and I wanted to do something right then and there.\n\nI will definitely talk to her about this, but it's a question of timing. She's leaving tomorrow morning - heading back home -, and will be back in just under a month. I don't think that now is the best time to bring this up, seeing as she's getting ready to leave, but I honestly don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit, obvious throwaway just to be safe. This is an odd situation with me.\n\nEarlier today I was at work having lunch, when Kate decides to tell me and another co-worker a secret of hers. It went something like \"2 years ago, Adam that used to work here engaged in sexual activies\" - she knew I was friends with Adam, she did not know that he lives with me however. \n\nNow, normally I would confront him about it, ask him wtf he is doing, he's my best mate - but he tends to not always think with his head. The problem lies with the fact his girlfriend is also a very good friend of mine, and so if I confront the issue between them, im walking away without a friend. \n\nI know he's better than this, but I am extremely upset. Furthermore, if it was something that happened 2 years ago, I would accept he fucked up and moved on, but Kate decides to tell me that he contacted her this spring. Which means, once a cheater always a cheater. His excuse for it was pathetic, Kate knew she fucked up and declined any more efforts of his.\n\nSo reddit, what should I do? Part of me is inclined to erase this from my memory, it's none of my business, it's between Adam, Kate, and Adam's GF. On the other hand, Adam's gf is crazy about him, wants to marry him, and seeing her waste her life away on this guy is heartbreaking. If I told her, I am scared of what he might to do - he lives with me and it will get ugly, as he has anger issues (albeit, not as bad as they used to be) and tends to act on impulse rather than with his head. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met X from an online dating site, I had just gotten out of a serious relationship and wasn't looking for anything super quick. \n\nAfter about 2 months of being no title etc we agreed to be \"offical\" which was great I really like X, but X is a tough love kind of guy. No romanace or cute little things are done, we don't go out and do things together like movies or date nights. He always says we will but then something happens and we don't. (Example on my birthday he told me we would go to the science centre. The day of he said we didn't have enough time because he had to go feed the cats and shower before we went to my parents so we'd go shoot guns instead, which we didn't do either.) I've only met two of his friends, he doesn't invite me out with them it's always \"I need to see them first then I'll come over.\" He has no intention of spending time with my friends. \n\nBesides those things I do enjoy his company and I do like him but then Y [20m] has come along. Y texts me daily, interested in getting to know me, we have great conversations about anything and everything. I find Y attractive, but I haven't spent any time with Y because I am faithful to X. Since Y has been around my emotions for X have been up and down. More so with his lack of speaking to me (he is a busy person but lately it's gone from a good portion of the day to a few words.) \n\nI am confused about how I feel. Is Y just a temptation? Is Y filling the void I have for X? Is X worth my time? \n\nSee this may seem like silly nonsense to you but I have not dated for 4 yrs so I feel like a high shool kid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This was actually in 1986. Ancient history. Anyway, I was browsing a thrift store and came across a beat up vinyl copy of \"The Who: Live at Leeds\". It looked like a generic album cover, and inside it were a few pictures of the band, a rejection letter from EMI, and, to my shock, a copy of their contract to play at Woodstock!\n\nMother Lode!\n\nI quietly paid fifty cents and contemplated my newly found riches! This thing must be worth thousands, I thought!\n\nThe fuck up is that I showed the album to a die-hard fan and she immediately offered her car for the album. It was maybe a $2,000 car. I knew better and rejected the trade.\n\nI held on to the album for twelve more years, figuring it would only go up in value. In 1998 I emailed a record dealer about my treasure and eagerly awaited his multi-thousand dollar offer...\n\n\"All the albums came like that. Sorry.\"\n\nA further gut punch is that there were actually items missing from the album, making it just about worthless.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Edit: Wow, butthurt out in full force. I am not asking why are there bullies, rapists, murderers, nor am I suggesting that it should be encouraged. \n\n I'm asking why do we think we are so above that when it seems to be a part of nature, that the strong will use any physical means to take control and dominate?\n\n----------------------------------------------\nDisclaimer: Bullies are, of course, scum and I have no intention of truly justifying them. This is a hypothetical question and I'm intending to play devils advocate here. Hear me out.\n\nAll across the animal kingdom it has been seen that the the biggest/strongest/most aggressive example of the animal usually becomes the leader of the pack, gets the mating rights etc. \n\nIt is not the kindest or wisest lion that leads, it's the one shows displays of his dominance and scares off competition. The big bully.\n\nYet, when a human tries to be the alpha by showing displays of dominance or strength by intimidating others or having the bigger physical presence, we condemn it. Surely that is just natural selection, the strong taking power over the weak?\n\nWe are animals and I don't want to hear anything about civilised society \"being above this\", or that intelligence is the greater requirement. The only intelligence required by other animals (and therefore us) would be enough intellgience to outsmart our opponents, but the fact is the biggest strongest one won't give the smallest smartest opponent the CHANCE to outsmart him, he will rule by power or fear.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wedding is rapidly approaching (a Friday in August). I haven't solved my photography dilemma yet and I could really use some advice. \n\nIdeally, I would like to hire a photographer for just a few hours. I'd like to have group family photos (and photos of me and FH) taken before the ceremony, maybe an hour total. I would also like photos to be taken during the ceremony, which should only last about 20 minutes, and during the hour-long cocktail hour. Plus maybe the first 45 minutes or hour of the reception, but that's negotiable. That's about three or four hours total. I don't have a bridal party and the number of people I want in the photos is probably a total of 20 (most of whom will be only in a couple of photos). I do not expect an album of 500 wedding photos.\n\nI truly value photography as an art and don't want to come across as insulting. It's just that my FH and I aren't terribly keen on posing for photos. Here's what I don't want: cutesy group photos, photos of my FH and I gazing longingly at each other, getting ready photos, photos of my dress before I put it on, ring photos, etc. It's not about money. I just don't need a full day of photography.\n\nSo my questions are: is it possible to find a decent quality photographer willing to do this? If so, how do I go about finding one? How much should I expect to pay (very, very generally)? I am hoping the fact that my wedding is on a Friday will help me out here, as I would never expect to find a photographer willing to forego the typical wedding photo package on a Saturday during the height of wedding season in a very popular wedding destination (coastal Maine). I am even open to hiring a student photographer.\n\nAny advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been going out with my bf for about 9 months and we have previously known and been close friends 3years prior. I've been in relationships and have never gotten jealous about other guys talking about how attractive certain people are. But with the bf I have now he and my other Guy best friend talk about how hott my female bestfriend is and how they would have sex with her if they could or had a chance. I've talked with my bf privately about this seeing if it was just Guy talk but he said if he wasn't going out with me he would date her. And I've talked to her and she finds him attractive and would date him. We have a partner project coming up and she wants to team up with him. I really don't want her to because I'm for some odd reason am boiling up inside and don't want this to happen at all. I don't know what it is but it makes me want to scream. Help me what do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently in university, and this one girl has sat near me all semester. I didn't notice her until a few weeks ago, and finally decided that I want to talk to her. \n\nIt's a fairly large class, but no one sits next to her (the guy who used to sit next to her dropped the class, I assume). \n\nHere is my only problem. Would it be creepy to just sit next to her? I was contemplating on just walking up and asking \"Hey, do you mind if I sit here?\" I'm under the assumption she'll say yes; we have made eye contact a fair amount and when a girl who sits behind her asked me a question, she seemed to perk up and stared right at me as I spoke.\n\nEven if she does say yes, what would I even say? I haven't noticed anything I could really comment on, as that seems to be pretty common advice. She dresses fairly simply (jeans, black sweatshirts and stuff). I'm fairly confident when people are talking to me, the only problem I have is actually starting a conversation. \n\nI guess my main question is, how do I go about talking to her? what are some good ice breaker questions that I can use to ease into more conversation and get to know her better?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been married 10 years and have two kids under 6. We live about 90 minutes from my parents. I'm not super-close with them but generally have a good relationship. \n\nFor the last few years, we've hosted my parents and sister for Thanksgiving. We enjoy cooking and hosting, and honestly it's easier and more comfortable for the kids. We were going to do the same this year. \n\nBut this year, plans are suddenly up in the air because:\n\n* My mom just got out of the hospital for something fairly serious, and is a little iffy on making the drive.\n\n* My sister moved out-of-state over the summer and is driving back on Thanksgiving, but won't make it to their place until around 5 in the evening. My house is even further.\n\nSo my parents would like to host this year, both to save them the drive and so Sis can be at the dinner more easily. My husband says dinner can be at their house but he wants to make the turkey. I told my parents this and they basically think it's a lot of trouble. I also think it's a lot of trouble and borderline rude to insist on bringing the main dish. My husband was pissy when I told him this. My suggestion he talk to them and work it out did not go over well. (Possibly because I was pissy about him being pissy by that point.)\n\nSo, what should I tell my parents to avoid this turning into a huge fight where everybody feels insulted? I honestly don't care who makes the stupid turkey as long as I get to eat some.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all,\n\nSo this is my first time posting and it may seem like a silly question to ask, but it stems from a lot of other ?'s that pertain to bigger things in my life.\n\nSo I've been with my girlfriend now for a little over 2 years, we've been on and off throughout the entire relationship, and i've tried my hardest to make things work. While things seem to be improving I'm starting to feel unhappy and a bit unsure of whether or not I want this to continue. I'm tired and have recently started to question where I am in life, and it only fuels whether or not i want to continue this relationship. when we're together things are great but once we're apart we fight a lot. \n\nSo I've decided we take a break so i can figure out what i want.\n\nNow to the question.\n\nI just ran into an old friend of mine who used to work with me a few years back, and we hooked up a couple times (which was great BTW). She's inviting me over tomorrow, for some fun, and i'm considering going over.\n\nthe one catch. She has Herpes :/\n\nwhile i'm clean and have always practiced safe sex, and didn't contract the virus from her, I'm always a bit apprehensive.\n\nThough we're on and off, I'm afraid of going through with this and then the worst happening. especially with my on/off situation.\n\nSoooo what do i do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Heres mine, I went to a mall with my mom, her friends and my sister along with my mom's friend's daughter. We rented out one of the big cart things for kids to ride on while we were shopping. As were walking a married couple with 3 kids suddenly stop in the middle of the walkway. I accidently bumped into her, as for her reaction she made a painful and shocked expression. She then starts to scream at me of how careful I should be and I could've hurt her child. ( I don't think bumping into her would've hurt her child in anyway considering she was the only one that was hit, and all her children were at the side.) She screams of how painful her ankle was and telling me that it has a giant bruise and hoe much of an idiot I am. Being a 16 year old I decided to be mature and tell her I was very sorry over and over. As I widh this fight would be solved, my mother started to scream outloud in front of the crowd at the woman for ( As a 16 year old I look older than I look) screaming at me. Soon enough the womans husband come and joins in saying I was being irresponsible for not being careful and was being a mature young man taking responsibility. In my head I did not want their kids and my mom,s and her friend to hear this because obviously the woman started to use profanity in front of the children. I tried to to stop this fight but my mother refused, after about another 10 minutes of bickering she finally gave up and called her a fuck head as her last parting words. I wish it would've been handled more peacefully, but it could'nt have been helped. Never some people would cone out so aggressivley in public.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello! This is my first post on here so bear with me! I [F18] have been seeing my [M18] boyfriend for 3 years now. We have just started college together, at the same school. We do not live together, but do stay at each other's houses sometimes. We have always had an amazing relationship, hardly any fights, lots of laughs, and never any reason not to trust. My previous boyfriend did cheat on me, but this has never affected our relationship previously. \nLately, however, I have been getting jealous over the people he has been meeting/talking to. He has acquired some phone numbers from girls, just as friends, but it bothers me for some reason. Any time we don't get to talk or see each other for a little while I start to feel like he is going to break up with me. I just get extremely nervous that he's going to move on in college now that he's meeting all of these new women. The problem here is that he hasn't done anything to make me feel this way. He always reassures me, as we have a very communicative relationship I do tell him that I'm having these thoughts. I imagine that this is some type of insecurity on my part, but I've never had it before so I am wondering why it has happened and how to stop it. I am reaching out on here for some help to stop feeling this way, because it sucks for me and I know it will begin to annoy him eventually. I just don't know what to do. Please help, I am willing to hear anything! Thank you!! \nP.s. Yes, I know we are still young, but that doesn't mean we aren't in love. :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long Backstory:\n\nMy mom's best friend died about six months ago, our 12 year old Sheltie. About a month ago, she decided she was ready to get a new dog, so we adopted a beagle/pug mix puppy. Between getting up at 5a.m. to go to school, studying/doing homework, working out, and having a social life, I didn't have much time to help take care of it. My mother and second eldest sister are both disabled, so they can't work, and were suppose to take care of the dog that they wanted. Between them two, and my eldest sister, who is a home-health-aid for my mom and lives with us, she apparently was too much to handle, and I was harrased by them to help more, even though I didn't have too much time. They also didn't consider the fact that I'm alergic to dogs, and could hardly touch her. Anyway, the dog was always biting my hands, but no one cared... until she bit my eldest sister. They just returned her because of this, and my mom is upset... because, even how much she complained about it, she loved the dog. My eldest sister's cat absolutely loves my mom, and is always cuddling with her and not my sister, which also causes problems, but that is apparently not good enough. She is now mad at me for not helping out, even though I'm alergic to dogs and break out whenever one scratches/bites me, something the dog was notorious/returned for. I know I went on a tangent there, but I'm trying to ask, what are some things that will keep my mom busy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my gf and I have, for the most part, been doing great. We've said the \"i love you\"s and have awesome times together.\n\nMy main problem is that she is very independent and it leaves me feeling uncared for. For example, today we had lunch plans. I texted her a reminder and she said she already ate because she was hungry but that i could meet her at the library to hang out a bit. I feel fed up because many times she has set up a date only to cancel it or change it without seeming to think of me. \n\nI believe she isnt doing it purposefully and is just self focused. Still, i feel like im constantly stressed about our relationship and cant get a good read on what she is feeling. I want to get through to her but when i try to talk about our relarionship i just feel like im spoiling the mood. My question is: should i just accept this as part of her? Or is it worth fighting about? I consistently feel neglected but i know she loves me. Maybe im just too emotionally dependent.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiancée and I have been engaged for a few months and dating for the past 3 years. We graduated college in December (a semester early). She's in grad school and I'm working at a bank.\n\nShe has always dressed casually, loose T-shirts and jeans for every occasion. She has one very worn button down shirt for occasions. She's worn it to weddings, company parties, and other events where she is very underdressed. It's a bit embarrassing at times, especially since I've seen my coworkers and relatives snickering about her.\n\nI've offered to buy her clothes and take her shopping, but she says no. I don't know the slightest thing about women's clothes or I would've surprised her with a dress or something. I'm not asking her to be a fashionista, just to dress appropriately.\n\nShe's joked about getting married in the button down and I'm half afraid she isn't joking. When I talk to her about it, she insists its not a problem and that people are superficial. She also says that no one would look at her either way.\n\nAnything I can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Why do some people try and self destruct?\n Freedom? Greed? Curiosity? Is it being bored with a person? Sex isn't what it used to be? Did you suddenly lose interest in your partner? Did they recently gain weight? \n People in long term relationships could possibly get bored, or may just need to be reminded how awful the dating world really is. Cause its the excitement of meeting someone new and hitting it off with them that you are longing for. The new and exciting aspect of dating. Unless you are like the rest of the 85% of the population and just suck at dating. Then you might fall back into the one thats at home?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit. So long story short, I dated a girl for a couple of months back in November/December, and I knew her ex. We were not close friends(or even friends) but had respect for each other, and we used to hang out in the same group of people. \n\nSo few months ago he saw me leave a bar with her ex, and then someone told him we slept together some months later. The guy deleted on facebook around March and I've been feeling a lot of guilt since then.\n\nThing is, I got invited to a birthday this Friday and he's going to be there. I've been facing anxiety problems lately, because I don't even know how to look at the poor dude(he's still pretty hurt, his ex is now dating another dude for 5 months now). I mean, should I say hi? Some of his friends are my friends also and I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to say hello, and I'm sure as well he's going to leave my hand hanging up in the air.\n\nI know this may seem a minor, minor problem by I stress out a lot in this kind of situations. I know I should have tought about this before dating the girl(wasn't even worth it). I'm also having second toughts about going to that party, but this doens't seem like a reason not to go.\n\nCan you guys give some advice on this? \nThanks for your time, cheers.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend (29F) broke up with me (28M) last week but after some discussions, we decided to try again. We got in an argument on Saturday and she broke up with me again. I left and hung out with my friends. Well I proceeded to get black out drunk and hooked up with someone else... She then talked to me on Sunday and I said I needed sometime apart, we agreed not to talk for 2 weeks and revisit this then. She then texted me later on Sunday saying \"if you hook up with anyone, don't even bother talking me.\" So my questions are, 1) did do anything wrong? I mean she broke up with me again, I was operating that we weren't together and I was incredibly intoxicated. 2) should I tell her now, tell her when we talk in 2 weeks, or bury it deep down?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This cat currently lives on our front porch as our outdoor cat, we acquired him pretty recently. He was abandoned by a neighbor's brother, and has more than likely only been an outdoor cat for a few months. He wants to come inside desperately, and we want to let him inside. He's fully clawed, so we're worried he might tear the place up, and also wondering if he'd take to a litterbox. We could always get him declawed, but the housetraining thing is my real concern. He's extremely friendly and obviously very accustomed to people, and has always been very well-behaved when we let him indoors to warm up (winter is approaching in my neck of the woods). Any thoughts or tips?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been through thick and thin, with him mostly going through the hard stuff since I have a plethora of mental issues (BPD and OCPD), lash out constantly, am mentally immature, etc. and generally haven't been there for his emotional needs.\n\nHowever, he said something in all seriousness that has me, quite frankly, feeling like shit. I guess he's at the end of his rope, but he said something essentially along the lines of, \"yes, you are attractive enough to get guys to hook up with you, but they probably won't have the patience to stick around and love you like I do.\"\n\nSomething about that statement didn't sit right with me, but he's usually super super loving and patient with me. I do somewhat agree with his statement, as I am more than a handful to deal with (I self harm and deal with serious depression) but it was just a bit shocking to hear directly from him. Am I just too sensitive, or what? I appreciate everyone's feedback.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I work in a restaurant and today while quartering chickens my boss, operating manager and restaurant owner tried to show me a better way to cut, I slipped, cut his index finger near clean off, and ended up sending him to the hospital for seven stitches... Pretty much thought I'd be getting fired after he stopped cussing, but instead he told me to make sure everything got done and to watch 'the yahoos' (my fellow workers), before driving himself to the hospital.\n\nIf this wasn't enough he came back to work to finish out the day several hours later (and probably to make sure we all hadn't burned the place in his absence.) He isn't the type to congratulate anyone, but he told me I did a great job, even though I pretty much knifed him.\n\nNo photo evidence yet, was pretty freaked by the whole situation as it happened, and when my boss returned he had gauze, double vinyl gloves and then taped it like he was working with Ebola. \n\nSo that's my story of thinking I'd no longer have a job, what's the worst that you've done to your boss reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep it short for you all. This is in Oklahoma.\n\nBefore we started building we agreed upon the terms and signed two contracts. We signed a Construction Agreement and Specification Agreement. The first one lines out the overall terms of the contract, the second one lines out the specifications that the home is to be built to (construction materials, quality, etc). Both of these documents have a total sales price listed on them, however the price is different on each one. The Construction Agreement has the price listed at $200K, which is $6K higher than the price that is listed on the Spec Agreement.\n\nThe main dispute we are having is over a septic system. When we entered into the agreement we agreed that I was going to install the septic myself and save us $6K. However after construction started we had a hiccup with our guy and we ended up letting the builder install it for us.\n\nOn the Spec Agreement (the one with the lower price) he actually has in there that one of the things he agrees to is to install a septic tank, even though when the contract was signed he wasn't going to do that. This Spec Agreement says the sales price of the home with him installing septic is $194K.\n\nWhen I saw the discrepancy in prices I thought he'd just forgotten to take the $6K off of one contract, but not the other. When I talked to him about it he said it was a typo and the price on the Master Agreement (the higher price) is the correct price and the price on the Spec Agreement is a typo, plain and simple.\nWhat he is trying to do now is to charge us the higher price ($200K) plus an extra $6K for installing the septic. I'm not trying to get anything for free here, I'm just wanting to be fair.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I just came back from studying abroad and have been staying at my parents house until I move into my college apartment on Monday. The house is in a quiet town, kind of suburb-ish. The backyard ends with woods and hiking trails. \n\nAnyways, my 80 year old aunt said she had a litter of kittens living underneath her porch. The only human contact they had was her feeding them in the morning, which she couldn't afford to do for much longer. My sister and I went on July 14 and spent an hour luring one into a cat carrier. We surprised our mom and she was not too happy at first. Neither our mom, nor the kitten, would talk to us for 2 days haha. We discussed that the kitten was mine. I would be taking care of him and he'd be coming with me to my new apartment. Things got much better after 3 days. We discovered he was a boy kitty and I named him Caesar (I studied in Rome). He quickly became very sociable with humans and you could never tell he was ever feral. \n\nMy mom has had two male yellow Labradors since 2003 and a female cat since 2005. Caesar was scared of the dogs at first but now they love each other. The cat is another story. Caesar is a tiny energetic fur ball and always wants to play. He charges straight at her and she's just not about that life. They've never physically fought but she does hiss when he's nearby. For 10 years she always liked to go outside during the daytime to hunt smaller animals and chill with the dogs. I let her out yesterday morning and she hasn't been back since. She has a collar on but no phone# tag. \n I now have this looming feeling that she ran away because of Caesar. I hate that I'll never know for sure and he'll be moving with me in a few days.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The only relationship with a woman I respect is the one I have with my mother. She's consistent in the way she treats me. It's a mutual love and respect, like any healthy person has with his/her mother.\n\nNow, to explain my post better. I realize the stupidity of title. I realize that misogyny is a higher form of generalization. I realize that it's not based on logic, but just experience. I can't stop it though. I can't stop the way I think. \n\nI'm by no means a social outcast or not in contact with women. I'm apparently attractive (sounds really douchey). Every time I've treated female partners, coworkers, friends with respect and politeness general niceness, I get walked all over. They're never, never, reciprocal relationships. As soon as I started treating girls like shit, with disrespect/generally not giving a fuck about them, the dynamics changed. I don't wait for response I take complete control. \n\nMaybe I'm crazy, I don't know. Women of reddit, tell me in what situations you'd start treating a guy like shit/walking all over them or don't, I don't give fuck. \n\nThere's more to this but I can't be fucked typing more.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's not like I'm talking about going around and murdering random people, but I don't have very many nice things to say about them.\n\nI think they are pieces of trash that are led by personal and selfish desires and if deemed necessary Would not hesitate to kill a motherfucker. So maybe I sort of lied about the murdering thing, but I really don't believe that people are worth keeping around. We sit around and manipulate each other until we get what we want. I see most people as mindless animals that are just taking up space and fucking each other so that they can produce more mindless garbage. It just sickens me to see and hear what people do to others.\n\nI mean sure there are the people who actually go out of their way to make a difference and try their best to be good people but I feel like those people are so few and far apart. I believe that all people have the potential to be amazing, but I also believe that people have the potential to be horrible monsters, and I think that most people go in the bad direction.\n\nI don't know, maybe I am just some dumb high-schooler (17 years old in case you were wondering) who is too stupid to see that people aren't shitty. Maybe you people can show me the way. Do you guys have any suggestions on how to not hate people?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: I had some important things to get done today. I had to pay some extra rent on my place, sort out references and paperwork for a new job I'll be starting next month and a new house (I'll be moving away from where I currently live). I have also recently broken up with my SO of nearly four years, so unsurprisingly I'm an quivering, emotional wreck. \n\nI've always liked Neil Blomkamp's movies; District 9 was amazing and Elysium was ok. Chappie seemed like a fun-filled, action-packed hour and a half I thought. How wrong I was. I had no idea how emotional this film was. Without ruining the film, there's a lot of scenes when Chappie (a robot) learns about the world and starts asking some thought provoking questions about life. I got to a point in the movie and I totally lost it. I was sat there absolutely sobbing my eyes out for some bizarre reason. I'm a reserved guy, and considering the emotional impact my breakup had I did damn well on the crying front. It all came out during this movie. \n\nTwelve hours later, I have lost the place I was supposed be living at, I'm late sending a contract to my new job, and I forgot to book/schedule a bunch of other semi-important things.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "M; 24 here. GF: 26\nFirst met at 19 and she 21.\n\nI first cheated on her the first year we were together. It seems as if she knew that I was flirting around with the first girl so did some of my friends. \n\nSecondly was a completely drunk situation. about 1 1/2 yrs ago. I met up with an old family friend who I've known since I was a kid. We went out for a couple drinks to catch up, went back to my place, after a joint later we ended up fucking. She was married and has 1 kid....\n\nI felt like horse shit the next day and even more throughout the years. I'm feeling pretty disturbed by everything that I've done...and everything that I kept to myself. I'm too ashamed to let anyone know or talk about it with anyone. She loves the hell out of me and I've matured to a point to realize the shit I've done.\n\nReally feeling like shit, I've had feelings of just straight out breaking up with her and not letting her know why...other side of me says to say and fight your way back up to a respectable level. \n\nI've been avoiding keeping in contact with other girls as well as limiting myself from partying/going out. I realize what I've done and the effects of it so far. I've already begun reevaluating my morals and practicing them on a daily basis. I prepare myself mentally to deal with what I've done to her and myself as well as what to do now that I realize this. \n\nI just want to see what the community has to say about my situation", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, heres the story:\n\nI was flying from Fortaleza (Brazil) to Stockholm (Sweden) with a connection in Lisbon on Monday evening. Once I got to the Fortaleza airport the flight got delayed a couple of hours but the TAP staff guaranteed us that we wouldn't miss the transfer flight in Lisbon even though it would be a very tight time schedule. Once in Lisbon we (pretty much everyone who was going to Stockholm) ran to the gate just to be denied boarding under the excuse that our luggage wont make it to this flight so we couldn't board, when asked if they could just let us board anyway and then send our luggage the TAP staff girl just said they wont do it. We all went to the transfer desk, pretty upset, only to find a huge line of people from other flights already complaining about their situation. From the 3 attendants in the transfer desk, only 1 was working and the other two just calmly said to us \"We cant help you, you should get in line and wait over there.\" There were pregnant women, people with babies, elderly and everyone stressing out because it has been over 2 hours and the line hasnt move a thing. Soon enough chaos starts and I hear the TAP woman screaming to a customer \"You shut the fuck up! And you too sir!\" (in portuguese). \n\nThats when I pick up my phone and start filming when a lady which was in line with us says: \"You better put that down, you dont have any permission to film here and if you continue, I am allowed to throw your phone away.\" I said it would be illegal of me to publish it but Im filming it to myself and I can do it. She said she was from the press and she knows the law and I cant do that. I didnt want any trouble because it was already a mess over there so I put my phone down and told the lady to fuck off and so we stayed in line until after much trouble, we managed to get home the next day. \n\nSo reddit? Is it wrong to film inside an airport? Was she right and I wrong?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years, which is my longest relationship. Over the course of those two years I fell in love, things seemed great but gradually over time my girlfriend started to become cold and abusive. There were times she would smack me across the face or tell me she hates me and I would still be there for her. She would isolate me from my friends and completely manipulate me. I tried and tried to win her affection which she would oblige for a week or so and then go back to her dastardly ways, leaving me to try to earn back her love. Whenever I would come to my senses and I would tell her it's over she would say that if I ever left her that she would kill herself. So I stayed and continued trying so hard to just make her happy. Then last month I got let go from my job and couldn't afford my school tuition any more. I told my girlfriend that we had to take a break, just to get my mind together, so we could make our relationship better. Over the next week she left me for some other guy, blocked me from everything and acts like I did something wrong to her. I don't know what to think or how to feel and I'm experiencing this weird cocktail of anger, frustration, and sadness. The sad thing, I still love her. How do I move on from this, guys? And even though she's taken me for granted and treated me so poorly, why do I still love her so damn much?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit.\n\nI've accepted an interview for a sales role at a corporate company that I applied for over a year ago. \nThough, I've just found that I'm being interviewed by the same HR Exec as last time.\nThe last interview didn't go well. It was awkward, short and my worst experience to date. I was given poor answers when I asked questions. We just didn't click. \n\nExample question: What does the company offer for progression? \n\nAnswer: You're free to do what you like. We're not chaining you here. -silence-\n\nMaybe it was a bad day or maybe she just didn't like me. It was strange. I've been interviewed many times (usually by managers or directors), I always do the homework and find common ground with my interviewers; I've rarely been given negative feedback. \n\nEither way, I won't be reporting to her if I got the job - which I'm confident in getting. But is there any advice I could get in overcoming the HR hurdle?\n\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A very quick backstory..\n\nI met a girl about 10 months ago and we talked for about an hour but never got any contact info. I never saw her again until a few months ago, where she remembered me somehow and we exchanged numbers.\n\nWe've been friendly/flirtacious, and feel very comfortable and connected to each other.\n\nWe hung out the other week and I kissed her. She started crying and saying \"you're going to hate me\" and admitted she had been seeing someone for about 6 months. She says she felt so shocked when I came back into her life and basically has been falling for me and didn't know what to do. \n\nShe says she feels like shit because the guy she's with is a \"nice guy\", but she feels strongly for me. I told her she needs to choose and she says she knows.\n\nShe still hasn't broken up with him, nor stopped talking to me. \n\nI'm confused and a little hurt. I was hoping you could answer some questions for me.\n\nIs it possible that she really likes me and this is some rare case? She told me she never cheated before and now she feels horrible and doesn't know what to do because he's nice and all, but she really wants to be with me too? \n\nShould I just keep stressing that she has to make a choice? \nIt's painful because she and I honestly get along so well and feel like we've known each other forever/etc... literally perfect situation other than the other guy. \n\nShould I just say \"if you want to be with me, then break up with him first\"? And then how do I know she won't cheat on me? She doesn't seem like that kind of person and is brutally honest with me about her past and stuff.. so I think it's really a one time thing, but I'm cautious. \n\nHas anyone had an experience where they fell for someone else while in a relationship and it turned out alright?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "While in HS I worked at a theme park over several summers. I went back one more year in college and a former supervisor had been promoted to a very high up position. I was living close to his house and he asked if I wanted to hang out sometime. I didn't think anything of it. I knew he and his wife had divorced and figured he wanted to have an excuse to go to the bar. \n\nWe had a few drinks and went back to his place for a couple more drinks as the bar closed. He switched from beer to some heavily poured mixed drinks at a fast pace. He began to talk about his life and got into some DEEP shit, and got emotional. I just kept listening trying not to be a douche, thinking maybe I am helping. Then he started saying \"I haven't felt so close to anyone like this before\". I said \"that's understandable, you are talking about some heavy stuff\". He kept going saying \" I feel like I want to hug you. Maybe hold you if you want to sit over here\". I told him I was comfortable where I was. He kept going and I politely got up to leave and he changed his tune quickly. He tried to give me a hug at the door but I switch it to a handshake. I felt bad but not much I could do. He was ten years older, two levels higher than my boss, and most importantly I am straight.\n\nA couple of weeks later I did something at work that would have been cause for immediate termination (one of those bureaucratic safety things where no one could have been hurt but it's just a rule). He was in charge that day and he changed the violation to a lesser offense that allowed me to keep my job.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time poster - but I just need to get this out.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have been in an LDR since August (8 months) but it is not an extremely long drive so we see each other fairly often (probably every other weekend). We have talked about getting married, but I want to wait until I am finished with grad school to plan a wedding.\n\nI am about to move to go to grad school in the same city he lives in (the decision was for the program, not for him.. just an added bonus). Over the summer when we talked about this being a possibility, he was gung ho about moving in together but has since changed his tune and keeps asking me where I am looking at apartments, what rent will be, if I am looking for a roommate, etc.\n\nI am not fully funded and will have to have a job on top of my graduate studies in order to pay for rent and partial tuition. My BF knows this but does not seem to understand how unnecessary it would be for us to pay to live in separate apartments less than 10 minutes away from each other when I can't afford it (this is not an issue for him, as he has a great job and more money than he needs). Rent would be cheaper for both of us if we split it and moved in together.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a good friend who is currently in a relationship with other guy. We were usually having a good time, laughing a lot, talking about stuff, but recently her behaviour towards me changed quite a bit. She responds to my questions with short answers, tries to ignore my jokes, conversations feel awkward and overall it looks like she is trying to keep distance from me. I can occasionally catch her off guard and things are back to normal, but only for a short period of time. \n\nTo me it feels like she likes me or falls for me(or whats that word), but she doesn't want to end her current relationship. Could it be the cause of her behaviour? Or what else? How do I change things back to normal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dumb question, i know. I am just a spoiled/depressed 21 year old college student. Lost my job and gf about a month or two ago and removed a ton of contacts on facebook and in my phone of people I never talk to. There are a lot of cute girls at my college but I still have some shyness left from high school. I think I am pretty good looking compared to most guys and the way I dress looks good as well. I came off as a creeper in high school and have stopped since I started college. I need more friends because I only have a couple that I actually talk to often. I always go to this game room at my college where people come in to either hangout or work on homework and usually sit in the massage chair for a good half an hour. I want to talk to some of the girls in there but my shyness just gets in the way and I feel like I am invisible to everyone. I don't know how to strike up a conversation and I don't want to come off as a creep. Most of the girls i notice are either doing homework or messing around on their laptops and I don't want to bother them. I do love giving compliments but have yet to give them to any girls. I would also love a girlfriend with the same interests as me but I have tried dating website and only young girls or unattractive girls are into me which i think is weird. Even the nerds that talk about really geeky stuff have friends that are girls. Am i missing something?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone, \n\nBackground: \nI live in a one story apartment complex. My front window faces the parking lot. Over the past years my cars have been burglarized. So I decided to get a surveillance camera and put it in my window looking out. At night it's very dark outside and I've had to block the IR lights on the camera because it reflects to itself in the pictures. I also fashioned a light bulb enclosed in a housing that sits flush against the window. It does not damage or modify the window in any way. The blinds keep it pressed against the window. The camera also has black poster board behind it so that when the lights are on inside the is no reflection. It's not the best look, but it works and keeps me from damaging the landlord's stuff.\n\nFast forward:\nI get a letter in the mail from the complex stating that there was an inspection and to please remove the light and all non white backing. No action or consequences were defined in the letter.\n\nI checked my lease and there are no mention of lights, regulations of anything regarding displays. There is a community rules guide that mentions pool times, attire at the pool, quite hours, and guests getting hurt. However, no mention of windows. This is not an HOA and all the rules I have copies don't have mention of these topics.\n\nI get a voicemail later stating that if I don't take it down they will have to issue another kind of notice. Vaguely meaning I guess eviction or fine, idk.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was always a huge fan of things like k'nex and fischertechnik as a kid, and loved my \"300-in-1 Electronic Project Lab\" even though I didn't understand any of it (could still follow the directions to do the projects though and had a lot of fun).\n\nI'm looking for something along those lines but a little more advanced. Are there any fun kits out there for adults to build that still give that sought after sense of satisfaction when you finish it?\n\nI've peeked at things like the raspberry pi or the arduino. But I'm not really the most imaginative type and prefer to work through a predefined project than just fiddle around with no real goal. And the variations of arduino boards was a little overwhelming, would never be able to decide on a whim. I have a BS in Comp. Sci. and programming is my full time job, just hoping to get a little experience hardware side in a fun way.\n\nI tried to find a more focused subreddit to ask this in but wasn't able to uncover anything, so feel free to just yell at me to go to some other sub, still appreciated.\n\nMany thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't have any idea what to do about/for my parents. Here's the deal; Both of my parents are disabled (Step-Father due to spinal injury, Mother due to surgery complications) and live with my younger sister (13) and my Grandmother (82). This past month the food stamps they were on got cut to 90 dollars a month (from 300). Their only income is from my Grandmothers pension, their disability and whatever at-home work any of them are able to do. However, this Christmas my Step-dad recieved some money from his previous work, but my family used it all on Christmas. Then I find out from my Mother that a family in worse shape near them could not afford Christmas this year, so they gathered together a lot of stuff and used some of their budgeted food money to bring them Christmas.\n\nI understand that the Holidays are important and I even to an extent support what they're doing, but I have a horrible feeling it's killing their finances. I don't have the heart to tell my Mother this. \n\nI'm 23 and putting myself through college and simply can't afford to help out as much as I can all the time, so I need some advice as to what to do for them for this Holiday season. I just feel like getting everyone random presents isn't going to cut it. I also don't know how to express to them that having a big heart is wonderful, but not when it may be hurting your own family. :/ Advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Boy this is one hell of a roller coaster of shit...\nOn a new year's camp 2014-2015 I met a girl, who liked me (a lot), but I didn't quite like her back, I tried to get to know her since it's quite uncommon for girls to like me, the camp went on, we didn't quite click and I just acted like it was nothing special... But we got in contact immediately after the camp via WhatsApp (she lives over +50 km away or a 2,5-hour-trip via Public transport), and found out she likes me way, WAAAY more than I had thought, after a month of chatting and stuff I fell for her too. I met her twice after that, but I just didn't know what to do since she didn't show almost any signs of interest and/or I was too much of a pussy to do anything. I quickly after the second meetup just simply confessed to her, she still liked me according to her, but once I met her again nothing had changed, no signs of interest, no nothing (though this time her friend was with us). After which I was sick and tired of messing around and wanted to get things established and I simply asked if she would like to even be in a relationship, she said yes, after this and today when I saw her, still nothing has changed which has become quite frustrating for me, I just couldn't find the confidence to initiate anything, which is why I feel huuuuge regret of not doing anything. Should I even bother? I have no idea what I'm doing or what I'm supposed to do. She shows only little signs of interest. I can only see her a very limited time for very specific dates. I still feel strongly for her and I'm sure that she does for me too, but with both of us being so awkward and inexperienced, who can't just get the gears working, should I still pursue her? I don't need immediate or exact answers, in fact, only reason why I'm posting this is to get some more POVs about the subject.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Disclaimer: Well I don't know if this is the correct subreddit for this but I honestly don't know where to post this so I apologize if it's in the wrong place. Please don't attack me for this. Thank you.\n\nWell I'm currently a college student in a big college party city and I'm just not into alcohol. It seems to be such a taboo to the point where I have arguments with my girlfriend (F18) about it. \n\nI am majoring in business and I plan on doing business in Far East Asia, specifically China and I keep getting told I'm going to need to drink if I'm going to be a business major. \n\nI just don't want to drink. Nothing is wrong with alcohol, I just don't want to do it. I can't seem to pinpoint why though but I know I don't want to do it. Beer is the only thing I've tried and I plainly don't like it.\n\nI don't like partying because it's basically drinking around these parts.\n\nI don't know what to do with myself because I feel like I'm going to be a terrible businessman and I feel like I'm a partypooper to everyone around me. \n\nI especially feel bad when my girlfriend says it irks her when I don't give her a reason.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys,\n\nI'm a 22 year old and when I was about 15 I received a lawsuit settlement for roughly 100k after lawyer and insurance fees. \n\nI've never spent any of it with plans on paying for my school then investing it for my future. But I had plans on receiving it this past December. \n\nBut my mom, who managed everything for me since I was 15 at the time, said it was sent to the wrong address and has been deposited/cashed already by someone at the wrong address. And now she says a claim is open and they're investigating it.\n\nThe reason I don't believe my mom is my aunt was scammed by an online dating scam and then lied to my mom to get more money to send to him, but my mom claims she didn't touch my settlement fund. \n\nShe said she invested it through tiaacref. Should I believe it was sent to the wrong address and then deposited by the wrong people?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I ended things in late March, and I cut things off for good in mid-May. I don't contact him but he still reaches out from time to time.\n\nI wanted to be with him and work on our relationship. There were many things that he was unable and/or unwilling to give so I ultimately made the decision to end the relationship. He was comfortable living in a quasi-relationship state where after being together a year he was 'open to seeing other people'. This was a complete slap in the face to me and was not something that I was willing to tolerate.\n\nI've told him that I am not interested in friendship. He has friends, I have friends. We don't share but one or two mutual friends, my best friend and his best friend. While my best friend likes him, she has no interest in remaining friends with him because she does t like how he's treated me.\n\nHe's recently accused me of being uncivil because I don't care to maintain a friendship. I'm not seeing anyone else, in fact, I'm devastated at the prospect of dating again, but I still don't want to torture myself with friendship. In my mind, I know that I am respectful and civil. I am putting myself first by not desiring a friendship with someone who only wants to offer me scraps. Why do his accusations of me being uncivil bother me so much?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend saw a video on Facebook that a girl we went to high school made for a musician the 3 of us like. So he messaged her and asked if shed be into making a video for one of the songs he's made. She said yes and that she was really excited to do it. Now I've been into this girl since high school(huge crush) but we barely ever talked and my friend knew this so he brought me along. \n\nSo there's 5 of us just hanging out working on this video having a good time. She's so down to earth and we like a lot of the same music so it's easy to talk to her. At one point when we were talking one on one she wouldn't stop pushing her hair back behind her ears like she was nervous talking to me. And when she showed me a graphic design video she made and I told her it was really good she got a big smile on her face, had no idea what to say and then muttered a thank you. \n\nShe then invited me and my friend to a party that her and her friend were having this Friday. I wanna let her know I'm into her at the party but Idk what to do. I'm afraid if I'm too forward she might get so nervous she won't know what to say. I know she used to act nervous around guys she liked in high school. Oh and I'm not Mr outgoing myself when it comes to girls so I just resort to trying to make them laugh and she laughed at most of the stuff I said. That's good right?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just couldn't stand her being so cold hearted to me during the holidays. I really wanted to meet her during holidays as it was around christmas but she refused to meet me because those are family days for her and she doesn't want that to interfere with me. so I'll make it short and say that I eventually broke up with her because she was not treating me as I wanted to be treated. right now I really regret my decision and for several weeks I can't do anything but think about her and it's driving me crazy. all the good things that happened between us, all the positive experiences just everything came back to me. \n\nI'm not really a person that talks about feelings face to face so I decided to write her a letter and tell her that I still love her, that I was sorry for my past behaviours and want to be together with her again. I am actually willing to talk with her face to face because obviously a letter is not enough but right now she doesn't even want to talk about talking these things. \n\nI'm seeing her everyday as we have 50% of our classes at school together and we're not really treating each other very well as ignoring each other or being unfriendly and things like that. \n\nthe thing is she once texted me that she also loves me, that she is also missing me and I thought that if I tell her about my feelings she might want to be together with me again and might be willing to forgive me. \n\nI'm just really confused right now, I don't even know if I really love her but I just can't stop thinking about her and all the memories I had with her. is there anyone who was experienced something similar? could you guys give me some advice as to what to do right now? thanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello! \n\nSo to make this short and sweet, recently i've been going this busy coffee shop every morning, or at least 5 days a week. The same girl always helps me. She is very friendly and remembers my order. She is about my age, as well. She asks me about life and usually talks with me for a while before i leave. \n\nIt seems like more than just regular small talk, she actually seems interested and sometimes even gets yelled at for talking too long with me. \n\nI know it's frowned upon to ask Baristas out because they basically are always really friendly and most people think they're being personable when they aren't. But this girl seems totally chill and we really get along well. I would love to have another friend to hang out with and she obviously lives in my town. \n\nMy question is, should i bring this up to her? Or will i still be laughed at for thinking a Barista actually had any interest in me? Also, if this is something i could actually do, how should i phrase it. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ive been in a long distance relationship for 2 years and my gf claims that lately I've been distant. She tells me that she has contemplated suicide all the time, for reasons that she never really elaborated on. She is upset, but I am unsure with what as she has never shared. she doesn't like talking to her problems, using the excuse: I dont want to think about it right now. it upsets me. she uses this line every single time and i drop it after some badgering on my part. would a break up be out of the question at this point? would it push her over the edge? i feel this deep anxiety and obligation to her right now and I don't want to feel this way anymore.\n\nI'm in need of advice. what should i do for her? what should i tell her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we had started dating and things were getting very serious, she had some trust issues because this guy cheated on her with her brother's girlfriend, so we were taking it slow. The two of us are both in college so things usually move quick anyway. Regardless everything was fantastic, and we had our spring Break in which she just went home for the week, which is 4 hours away. \n\nShe still hangs out with the guy that cheated on her and realizes that she still has feelings for him, the day that we return she talks to me to tell me that she would feel too guilty going any further with me, knowing she had strong feelings for someone else. I was totally blindsided, but even though it hurts a lot, my main concern is her going back and getting hurt by this guy again, i don't know how to handle this situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, long story short, about three weeks ago I was written a misdemeanor citation for possession of marijuana and possession of paraphernalia. This was after work and was not on property or anything. Anyways, fast forward three weeks to today and I am called into the office. My boss found out about it and I was given the option to either be fired or to resign. I obviously went with the latter.\n\nMy question is, how should I approach this if asked about it in the future? My supervisor (not the same person as the boss that \"fired\" me) said that he'd still be willing to let me continue to use him as a reference. Him and I got along well and I was never a problem at work (in fact, I was quite the opposite) so I still think he will give me a good review if questioned. \n\nAnyways, I have a phone interview this Friday (thank god) and am just wondering how I should approach this problem. There's no way that they know about it and I'm sure they just think I'm still working there. Obviously I'm not going to bring it up but if they ask me about my work there, should I just tell them that I don't work there anymore? Should I be honest and say I resigned? I guess another thing I have going for me is that I never technically was fired...I resigned. Anyways, what do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for a long time and have lived together for about 3 and a half years. A month ago she wanted to break up after I caught her lying about deleting texts etc. She has cheated on me once by just kissing another guy while drunk but I know she is not deleting \"cheating txts\" as I have seen them before she has deleted them before.\n\n Now tongiht everything happened exactly the same. She was found to be deleting txts from the same guy. I am 100% sure she is not cheating on him with me but I can't help but feel she is complaining about me to him or something. Anyway I don't think that's the point. \n\nWe are best friends she says she still loves me and wants to be with me down the track and we will get married have kids etc. But I can't handle that. Once she is gone I cannot bear to think of her with anyone else. She has a lot of friends but most of my friends I have met through friends of hers and my school friends live a few hours away. \n\nShe is saying she just wants to be alone and has found herself developing crushes and finding other people attractive. I am absolutely wrecked and really scared about my motivation and financial situation if she leaves. I love her so much I don't know what to do. I made a throwaway account because I get pretty embarrassed to talk about my relationship with anyone else but her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About five months ago, I was invited to a friends house for beer pong and when I showed up I instantly noticed this adorable boy who was just smiling at me. I literally knew right then that I was interested, and throughout the night we would pick on each other/flirt and the same thing occurred every time we ran into eachother. He's a virgin, and has had only one girlfriend before, in high school. \n\nA few months after meeting, I tweeted \"I need a Pisces\" and he responded saying \"I'm a Pisces, js\". I was so excited about it and we've texted a few times and hangout with his best friend and girlfriend, who happens to be one of my best friends. One night we were messing around and playing and we ended up holding hands kind of and he fell asleep. \n\nHowever, he's pretty awkward and seems like he doesn't know how to make a move. I've made it pretty obvious I'm interested and nothing really has happened. But I know if we ever got past this awkward stage we would have something great, help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the past few months, this girl (Girl 1) I go to high school with has been flirting with me and things have been going pretty well. Recently, she told her best friend (Girl 2) that she likes me and how she wants to be with me etc. \n\nWell, it turns out Girl 2 started liking me a little while before she found out that Girl 1 and I have been flirting for the past few months. Being the good friend that she is, Girl 2 decided to keep quiet about liking me because she didn't want to ruin/get in between me and Girl 1. \n\nHowever, recently Girl 2 finally cracked about how she liked me and told Girl 1 everything. Now Girl 1 is acting distant because she doesn't want to ruin her friendship with Girl 2. But the thing is, Girl 2 is encouraging Girl 1 to not give up on this relationship because Girl 2 knows that Girl 1 really likes me.\n \nAt this point, both me and Girl 1 are avoiding each other and I'm trying my best to kill these feelings I have for her because I don't want to ruin their friendship. The thing thats killing me is that we both like each other and everything would be perfect if it wasn't for this one detail :(\n\nEven Girl 2 wants us to be together and she is mad at herself for liking me and telling Girl 1 about it in the first place. \nI'm stuck in the middle of all this and I don't know if i should back off or if I should still have hope in this entire situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our home was burned down due to some type of faulty leak within the gas pipes.... something to do with the furnace and the gas line being exposed or leak.....Nonetheless a family member has had over 50% of his body ravaged by 3rd degree burns. We've been focusing on our family member, and now we're being told to contact a lawyer ASAP. I've gotten a few names/numbers, yet I can't find any review sites/apps for local lawyers....AND for the sites I did find, there was only ever 1 review from clients, and then 3-5 peer reviews or colleagues of the lawyer giving them praise..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys, so TIFU in front of all my classmates and didn't realize it until after my teacher pointed it out.\n\nI'm currently taking an intro to psychology class over the summer at my university. Today in class we talked about Motivation and Emotion, covering a chapter per day as usual. One of the topics is the Drive Reduction Theory of Motivation, where physiological needs cause internal drives and the organism acts to satisfy the need, and tension is reduced. We tied it to sex because college kids, and the issues of meeting online people for sex came up (Tinder, Craigslist, Grindr) and then someone compared that scenario to an Uber taxi, since the driver of the Uber is a stranger. I talked about how one Uber driver locked the back doors of his vehicle and started masturbating next to the female passenger.\n\nExcept I made the hand motion while I told the class that the guy was masturbating. \n\nSo my professor busts out laughing, my friends bust out laughing (our class is like 10 people so we're all friends here) and the guys at the end of the table who couldn't see my hand motion asked me to do it again. They probably thought I'd actually SEEN the video and not just heard about it. I laughed it off but was pretty embarrassed, realized I needed to cut down my guy-friend exposure time, as I've clearly been desensitized to the social norm of not making obscene gestures in a university class.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She's one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen, she comes in kind of frequently, sometimes with her friends, and sometimes by herself. A couple days ago I saw her by herself and I was working the espresso machine and made her a drink and put a heart in it with latte art. She thanked me, smiled, and when I went back to work I saw her take a picture of it and text text text, looking back at me quite frequently and smiling.\n\nNow, when she left I was off the clock and talking to one of my co-workers, but on her way out she kind of motioned towards me like she was going to come talk to me, but she kind of backed away and left, I told her to have a good day and we both smiled at each other.\n\nSo reddit, what was going through her mind when she backed away? Was she just nervous? Didn't know what to say? And what do I say next time I see her? I've never been the talkative type, I've always been really shy, until recently, I've opened up quite a bit. But I'm just trying to figure out how to talk to her, how to get her number, name, all that stuff. All the girls I've gone after, my friends introduced us, so I've never really gone after someone like this before. Thanks for your time in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for 8 or 9 months now. I've slowly been getting to know all of his friends and the other night I finally met this one girl he'd been friends with since they were both ten. In the past boyfriend has told me that he had a big crush on her and while he was on leave from the military they went on a date and kissed but she decided she didn't want to ruin the friendship so it never advanced. I secretly think he still has a little puppy dog crush on her but that's a different story. \n\nAnyway, we went to her house for a game night and she was very...ditzy. Like those girls in middle school who pretend to be stupid because they think the boys like it. And it's okay, she was still very cool and I had a lot of fun. But then the next day boyfriend told me about one of his professors that he thought was super hot and when he described her it made me realize how different I was from all these girls he'd been attracted to (and his ex girlfriend). Most of them are blonde, have fake boobs, are super thin, kind of ditzy, they like to party and get stupid drunk.\n\nI'm not unattractive, I eat healthy and I work out a lot so I have a good figure and I take care of my body. I would say I'm average looking face wise and I'm okay with that. I'm also incredibly smart. I'm in school for engineering and I'm the biggest nerd. I feel like I'm the exact opposite of these girls. I'm tall, awkward around new people, I prefer getting drunk at home by myself than at a party, I have small boobs for my body size, I'm just not what he's historically been into. His ex girlfriend didn't have the perfect body either but she was kind of ditzy as well and more into parties than anything", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for the wall of text......\n\nMy fiance and I are on a budget. The most we can spend on photography is $1,500, but our main concern is just to get good ceremony shots and a few good shots to hang on our wall.\n\nI found one photographer in our area that is pretty new to the biz. He and his assistant will do an engagement shoot and an entire wedding day of photos for $1,200 (getting ready - cake cutting). We like his photographs, they would be good and acceptable. I have been talking to him, and think we would get along pretty well.\n\nMy sister recommended a different photographer, a woman she had previously worked with. Her photos are AMAZING, and have recently been featured in style me pretty and other such blogs. Her normal package is $2,900 for an engagement shoot, herself & an assistant, all day photos, and 200 4x6 prints. I've been talking to her today (she's doing a $500 off cyber Monday deal), and she could get it down to $1,500 - this would cut out the second shooter and the prints. \n\nI'd jump on the second photographer immediately, but my fiance seems to be excited at the thought of having getting ready photos (he originally didn't care, but after thinking he COULD have it, he started to like it). I'm also not sure if not having a second photographer would be a big mistake!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Currently, I am in a break with my so. Let's call her V. She wanted to be on break because she lost herself in our relationship and she feels vindicated to be young and do whatever(just drugs and partying) she says she doesn't sleep around and I believe her. A little back story we are dysfunctional. She has anger issues and puts them on me and we have horrible mis-communication. We argue almost every week then make up. During this break I was doing me, and I talked to a girl who I talked to before but never met online. The new girl let's call her W. W and I are getting serious and I wanted to break up with V. I managed to break up with V but she asked me to come over for sex. I agreed and she tells me she loves me still and reassured me that she never really wanted to break up but to go on break because we saw each other a lot and problems arouse. Thing is I'm suppose to meet up with W and drive four hours to her and spend time with her. I'm currently confused on who to really go for.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a four year old Cairn Terrier, and for the first year and a half of his life, he was perfectly fine around other dogs. I would even have friends bring their dogs into my house, and he would be fine. I went back to school for my senior year of college, and when I came home for break, my mother explained that he just growls and snaps at other dogs whenever he sees them.\n\nHe seems to be fine with dogs his own breed and even terriers around the same size, but having him lunge at a random dog across the street when I walk him is something I can't deal with anymore. On top of that, I was hoping to be able to get another rescue, but obviously I can't do that until he calms the hell down. I've started being more forceful about establishing myself as Alpha and making sure he walks correctly on lead, and have even gotten him to stop barking on the few occasions we run into dogs on his walks by focusing his attention on me. I'm just looking for more advice on how to do this. He was completely fine before, and I'm hoping to help him get to that point again, but I have no idea how to start.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My brother and I (twins) had a nightmarish childhood. Both our parents were criminals and violent. They were angry at everything and everyone and always unleashed that on me and my brother.\n\nWhen we were 16 we ran away from home. We lived on the streets for a while until we were able to rent a room together. When we were 19 our dad was killed by the police. Our mom killed herself a few months later so we got their stuff. We sold their house and bought a new one and that's where we live right now.\n\nWe focused on getting professional help, trying to heal and moving on. I've been able to do that. Now I have friends, I'm in a relationship for a year with my boyfriend and my life is pretty normal. My brother however has struggled. His progress has been much slower than mine and he still isn't in a great shape. He struggles with making friends and having relationships. Therapy helps and he's getting better but it's a long and slow process for him.\n\nMy boyfriend hasn't really been helpful to be honest. He thinks I shouldn't help my brother since I don't owe him anything and that he's and adult and responsible for his own problems. Last night we woke up because we heard my brother screaming in his sleep (it sometimes happens, though not often anymore) and I went to his room to help him calm down and go back to sleep. He has nightmares about what our parents did to us. This morning boyfriend told me that my brother is a mess and he belongs in a mental institution. I didn't like what he said so I told him that I don't need his \"expert\" psychological opinion. He continued that I should cut him lose since he'll never be a good brother for me as he's too damaged and beyond anyone's help. I became angry and told him that he should leave.\n\nI'm very upset with the things he said. I find his comments not only out of line and insulting but also very wrong. He texted me a \"I'm sorry if I upset you\" apology. I don't know what I should do with him.", "role": "user" } ]

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