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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My grandmother is 85 years old. We bought her a computer in 2002 and after six months she threw a blanket over it because \"it gave her stomach aches.\" I offered to take a class with her, but she was worried she'd feel stupid. She's extremely prideful.\n\nThey recently found a tumor in her stomach, and she is undergoing chemo/radiation (as of three weeks in, it shrank by 30%! yay!). She goes to treatments every day, for four hours. My parents bought her an iPhone so that she would have something to mess around on while she was there, and so the grandkids could send her pictures/texts (we're all upwards of 1200 miles from home). My parents are the only ones there to give her much direction on how to use it (yikes), but in spite of that, she still seems pretty excited about it! I'm visiting home in a couple weeks, and beyond helping her organize it/learn how to use it, I'd like to put some interesting apps on it. She doesn't have a lot of 'interests' per se. She grew up on farms in the south, and has only ever really taken to reading and writing as hobbies, so I can't even really narrow down the types of apps I'm looking for. Anything that might be interesting to an 85 year old woman, that is relatively easy to navigate. Any ideas?\n\nThanks in advance! Sorry if this isn't the appropriate place to post this - please point me in the right direction if that's the case.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Title explains it, but I'm providing a bit of context.\n\nMy best friend, Alice, is the type of person who needs everything to be even. She doesn't like accepting things that she cannot repay. \n\nTo clarify, this Christmas, she requested that none of her friends get her gifts because she couldn't afford to buy presents. After the holidays, she called me from the mall, complaining that another friend had spent over $100 on a present for her. Alice was buying this friend something of equal value (with money she received for Christmas) because she needed things to be even.\n\nI cannot fault her for this--I also feel like this sometimes, but I have tried to explain to her that for little things (like paying for dinner), it's not a big deal. I recently started working full-time, and she is still a college student. I remember what it was like to constantly be on a very tight budget, and now that I am in a better financial position, I don't mind helping where I can.\n\nAlice's father (who was the sole source of income for the family following her mother's lay off a few years ago) was laid off today. As anyone would be, she's devastated and very worried about how things will be for her and her family moving forward.\n\nShe is my best friend and I am very close to her family. I feel compelled to help however I can, but also don't want to make the situation worse with some material offering that Alice would feel obligated to repay (and simply cannot).\n\nOther than offering mental and emotional support, any ideas for how I can help my best friend and her family?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After the a few more similar encounters I only began to have a good time when I started treating the whole night like a massive joke. eg. girl compliments my jacket, and asks \"what brand is it?\" I reply, 50% off from target. \n\nSeriously, am I the loser to think it's lame to talk about brand names and openly judge each other like this?\n\nI had another conversation with a dude I just met who proceeded to boast to me about how \"successful\" he is after i subtly asked what he was up to this weekend (in charge of all these projects etc etc). After 15 minutes or so when he was done telling me how good he is and offering me a job, he asked me what I do. So I said I do online surveys for a living. (I am 21, he is 21...)\n\nReddit is this normal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some backstory first, when I was younger (14-16) I wasn't really a \"good\" kid. I was smoking and had a lot of friends who were in gangs or that were beating people up for money. And at some point one of my friends took me with him to one \"job\", I didn't know what we were doing because at first he only said he needed some help but I realized later when I entered a dark street that something was going down. So we did that \"job\" and fro that point on my life changed completely, I started helping as many friends as I could with the fights and they were asking for help because I can hold my own in a fight (trained mma for 5 years). Just a little clarification, when I said beating peopme up for money I don't mean robbing them. Whenever someone that we knew wanted to beat a guy or more up he called us and after it was done he would give us money.\n\nNowadays I'm completely different, at 16 I moved to another country and I realized how bad I was falling and how lucky I was with the moving. When I think about the things I've done I'm disguted and hate myself for it but that won't change anything. The only problem now is that 3 months ago I've started talking to a girl and we've been together ever since and last night someone from my past decided to make a joke and write to her on facebook that if she knew everything she wouldn't like me anymore. She told me about the message and she is supposed to come over tonight to talk about what that means. I'm afraid that if she learns the truth she is going to break up and I don't want to lose her. Should I tell the truth or should I just tell her that someone was just making a joke", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll begin, of course. \n\nWhen I was 15 years old, I went to Ottawa in the summertime to visit an old friend of mine. Everything was going fine, until we went about an hour out of town to visit a mutual friend of ours. After we met with her and made awkward small talk with her parents, we left to get some ice cream. \n\nOn the way back, my buddy started doing crazy leaps off of things (whether he was trying to impress her or just being insane, I still don't know), and being the impressionable young teen that I was, I decided to emulate him. It worked out fine until we came to this ditch. My buddy, being part orangutan, scaled it perfectly. I made it most of the way across, but landed on my left leg, snapping it. The sound it made was akin to a tree branch snapping, and very audible. I wasn't sure what had happened at first, until I tried to move my leg and couldn't. \n\nThey called an ambulance and I was embarrassingly lifted onto a board and carried inside. The pain was so intense that I couldn't do anything but scream in agony at the top of my lungs, but not so intense that I could pass out. The next 30 minutes or so were a blur of pure writhing agony as we hit every bump on the way to the hospital. \n\nBecause I wasn't 18, they decided to take me to a children's hospital first. They wanted to give me some anesthetic while they tried to pop my leg back into place. Let me tell you, children's anesthetic doesn't knock you out when you're a teenager, it just trips you the fuck out. Just imagine a bunch of Alice in Wonderland type imagery before you with the occasional jolt of unimaginable pain. \n\nEventually they got me to a real hospital, put my leg in a cast, and my condition was upgraded from 'terrible' to 'not great'.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She lost her job six months ago through no fault of her own (lay-offs) and even though she has been looking nonstop for one, going on interviews, etc, the hiring process in our city is harsh and there are over 600 applicants for even menial jobs. \n\nI don't know what to do. I don't make a lot (34kish) and I'm paying for everything for us. She handles the budget and food shopping and all of that and she cooks and cleans and does what she can (not all of the cooking/cleaning but most of it) alongside looking for work. \n\nBut there's so much stress and frustration on us both now and I don't know what to do to really help it for either of us. She cries a lot because she doesn't like mooching off me and because she's bored and feels useless (she's not interested in volunteering either, and I don't blame her, it's unpaid labor), and we don't have a lot of chances to have a lot of fun since everything fun pretty much costs money.\n\nWhat can we do? Life's so fucking hard.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright so four other classmates and I are assigned were assigned a group project to do last week. During that time, I started liking one of my team members; even though we didn't have that much 1 on 1 time with each other, I still felt attracted to her personality and smile (She always smiles when she is talking).\n\nNow the actual project was completed it a few days ago, so realistically speaking there's not a lot of reason to continue talking to my team members (We weren't friends before this group project). However, I want to at least hang out with/date the girl that I like to see if we get anywhere.\n\nMy school term ends next Friday (so next week is the last week of classes). After that are exams which ends approximately at the end of April. I don't want to ask to hangout around this time since school is wrapping up and a lot of assignments are due around this time. Similarly, exams are next month so I don't want to bother her then.\n\nTherefore, I was thinking of asking her to hangout after exams (We're friends on FB, so I found out that she lives in the same hometown as me via her profile).\n\nTwo issues are holding me back: 1. I haven't really talked to her a lot, or get to know her. I was hoping to do this via dates/hanging out. I'm not sure if this order could work though (Normally people get to know each other a bit first, and then start hanging out).\n\nYes, amazingly enough we live in the same hometown, but I'm worried that she would find it weird to hangout with a team member she doesn't really know back in our hometown, let alone at university.\n\nSo, question time: Should I ask her out in the first place? If I am going to ask her out, is my method a good one? Or is there another way to ask her out?\n\nThanks everyone for the tips.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It hasn't been long since my boyfriend and I broke up. We had great sex chemistry and I would often fantasize about sex together throughout the day and before I slept. I guess it's become a habit..?\n\nNow that we're broken up, I don't know if it's okay to. On one hand, I think it's just dirty thoughts, everyone has them. He's been my first and only sexual partner and I'm not really attracted to anyone else right now. On the other hand, I'm afraid it'll make it harder for me to move on.\n\nLately, I've been forcing myself not to, but my sexual frustration is manifesting through my dreams! For 3 days in a row now, I keep having dreams about doing sexual things/having sex/getting physical affection from 3 different guy friends. I don't know what's wrong with me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while, but had a breakup in January after he started his first semester at a new school. During the time we were broken up, he had a fling with a girl over a period of close to two months. He would spend the night at her apartment frequently but as far as I know, it didn't progress past making out and some groping. She admitted she had feelings for him, and he ended the physical part of their relationship because he didn't feel the same way. We got back together in late June.\n\nMy issue here is that they are still best friends, and he hangs out with her, or her and her roommates (who are also his friends), nearly every day. I'm not a jealous person when it comes to his other female friends, but because of him being back in the place where our relationship ended and his physical involvement with this other girl began, I can't stop feeling horrible. I trust him, and I love him, but I don't know her well enough to trust her. His opinion is that I need to just \"get over it,\" but that's been really difficult. I asked him if he could potentially cut down on the time he spends with her to two to five days a week instead of every day, which he felt was an \"unreasonable request.\"\n\nI know I'm being jealous, but the amount of time he spends with this girl is really bothering me, and the way it's causing me to feel is putting our relationship in danger. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey there, so what triggered this post is my girlfriend showing me a list of potential baby names yesterday. I felt very uncomfortable because \n\na) I feel waaaay not ready to think about children \nb) I don't think I actually ever want to have my own children.\n\nSo this lead to me staying up late feeling very weird and rethinking alot about our relationship. Being in a relationship with an older women is weird in a lot of ways. She already has a job, while I'm still in University and sometimes it feels like she lives 5 years in the future, while I can't let go of my teenager years. I'm not a theist, while she is catholic and themes like Marriage, children and our perception of the world etc. are not exactly on the same page, but we always said \"we can figure that out when it looks like we'll be together for a long time\" in the beginning. But now it actually looks like it, and I don't feel ready at all.\n\nOur parents are starting to pressure and this is really bothering me too. I told her I'm not sure about children, but I think I know now, that I actually do not want them at all. I do not want to talk about the reasons, please just believe me I thought it through.\nI just had to get this out of my system, because it's really hard on me, but I don't know if I should talk to her about it right now.\nWhat do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "not sure if reddit will be particularly interested in my story here... \nI'm a 19yr old [M] and just broke it off with my girlfriend after 13 months. I, a few weeks later, want to try and restart said relationship.\n\nThe reason I decided to break it off was that she was unhappy despite the fact that our relationship was great in and of itself. She felt neglected and lonely when I would hang out with my friends (male and female) or seem to enjoy myself without even when she couldn't be there. She has friends, but not to the same capacity that I do and didn't always feel like hanging out with me and my friends. \n\nEssentially, I broke it off because I couldn't resolve this dynamic in our relationship that seemed to be getting more and more unhealthy. The thing is, I would very much like to get back together with her and I think she feels the same way despite it not ending on very good terms.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance.\n\nI feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my \"good\" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that \"None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability\". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit over a week ago my ex and I broke up. He is very business savy and wealthy. \n\nWe had lived together for a full 3 weeks, but being with a traveling business man is not easy, and he felt pressured into commitment. He being 42 told me I was not right to be his future wife, so he kicked me out. I am in my late 20s and very much in love with him. \n\nHe is cold but showed his love in the form of helping my company get off the ground. He invested time and money getting things set up for me. Suddenly he wants me gone but still hopes to participate in my business ventures. I begin no contact and he is shocked. I admit I stalked his facebook, he was depressed up until yesterday. Today I launched my online store and made a Tinder account (I found him there a week ago). Today he emails me a very business-like email saying how it's stupid talking through assistants when he could just contact me about my business plan. He offers all the financial and business help he knows I need. \n\nA part of me knows it's because he wants in on my future business (it's fucking genius) a part of me hopes it's because he hates waking up alone and being completely alone. He was incredibly depressed the last few weeks we were together. I was worried and asked him to get psych help. Now he's throwing money at the situation, asking for nothing in return. He knew I needed a couple of thousand for a lawyer, a bit more for merchandise, etc. He writes a detailed pricing email explaining me my business model but says he wants nothing more than my success and maybe a bit of his initial investment. \n\nI'm lost without him both emotionally and business-wise but somehow could make it work without him(loan from family), although not as well as he ever could, not a marketer at all. He knows this. Right now there is nothing tying me to him, except my feelings and need for business help. What to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone! I'll keep this short. Also I'm on mobile so please excuse mistakes.\n\nThis guy and I dated for 5 years. We broke up this past December and moved 2hrs away from each other. Last month we decided to try again and take things extremely slow.\n\nI texted him yesterday morning asking him if he wanted to go watch Jurassic World in the town my sister is in (about an hour away so it'll require some coordination and planning) this weekend. No day was set yet. That was at 10am. \n\nI texted him back to try to see if he wanted to hike and do the movie after in the town because the area is known for being great for hikes. He replied, asking if it would be a whole day thing. I replied that it would be. Then I hear nothing back until I am putting my phone down because I'm about to pass out. This morning I check my phone and he texted me back over 12hrs later asking what time would we leave and that he was okay with my hike+movie plan.\n\nThe problem is that during this entire day's worth (over 12hrs!) of silence from him, my friends start making plans for stuff this weekend that I would like to take part in.\n\nSo my dilemma is this. Am I in the wrong for not holding out for him to reply? Should I not try to make any plans with friends when something may possibly have the potential of happening with him at some point in the future? I know people can get busy but I personally don't want to feel like I'm waiting by the telephone for a guy to respond...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I did some looking around at different models of wrist mount GPS units. Cost and functionality were the biggest concern. I finally decided on the Forerunner 305 since it would do everything I wanted and was a good price (even though it's huge).\n\nBest price I found online was through Amazon for around $130, with free shipping if I wanted to wait 1-2 weeks. It was available at the local Best Buy for $150. Did a quick search and found a printable coupon good for the month of February at Best Buy for 20% off all \"Health & Fitness\" products.\n\nWent in to Best Buy and the price was $160 on the shelf. I found an employee (just happened to be a cute girl) nearby and told her I wanted to get the 305. She said she had that model and loved it...even more than some of the more expensive ones she tried (even though it's huge). She said she has run some marathons and we chatted a little bit about how I was just starting to run. She told me about some of the runs in the area, how the best ones tend to end with beer, and overall was very pleasant and informative while waiting in line at the cashier. I definitely hope to meet more cool people like her while pursuing this sport.\n\nSo I got to the cashier and the 305 rang up at $160 as expected. I mentioned the web site price was $150 and he price matched it. Then I gave him the 20% off coupon and it wouldn't scan. He tried typing in the number and it wouldn't take it. So he tried again and it accepted the coupon, but didn't apply the discount to the 305. He read the coupon, looked at the GPS, manually entered the 20% off and had a supervisor approve it. Super easy, out the door for $120.\n\nThe coupon should work on any \"Garmin Fitness GPS\" (that's an actual category on the Best Buy website), as well as any heart rate monitor or other brand of fitness GPS.\n\nHere's a link to the coupon. Hopefully it will be useful for someone out there within the next couple weeks. It expires on 2/28/2011.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend's mom is visiting for three weeks from quite a distance away. His mom and I have a decent but minimal relationship. I don't see her often, and she's a little hard to connect with, but in all we've never had any problems. I'm closer to his dad.\n\nIn general, I think that cleaning other people's kitchens is not a good idea. There's too much of a risk that you may misplace or break something, so it's best to just leave it up to the host. This doesn't mean I never offer to do the dishes, but if they say no, I don't push it.\n\nCooking is my hobby. My kitchen is not stocked with your standard Teflon pans and plastic pastry brush pushed into the back of some drawer from disuse. I have handmade, antique, and expensive tools that require special care, and I've learned from experience that I can never trust anyone else to even wash the dishes due to the special care some things need. You wouldn't offer to clean someone's hobby carpentry shop, and I don't want people messing with my hobby kitchen.\n\nThat, and I don't think guests should have to do any chores at all. Not in my house at least.\n\nMy boyfriend's mom sees it differently. She wants to help and keeps insisting on cleaning the kitchen. My boyfriend thinks I should at least let her do the dishes so she feels like she's contributing, but I would likely just have to do it over again. They think I'm being rude by not letting her feel like she has a place to be \"mom\" in the kitchen. My boyfriend thinks I could teach her how to clean, but I can imagine that feeling very condescending to her and being overwhelming and testing for both of us.\n\nAm I wrong to be so protective of my kitchen?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm in a new(ish) relationship that has gone amazing so far. Yesterday my grandmother passed, and since I was at the gym, I texted my gf to let her know. She called right away to offer sympathy, but she was driving and I was working out so we agreed that I would call her when I was done. I did that, she didn't answer (no big deal), then texted a little later to let me know she would call in an hour. Fast forward to this morning, and she hadn't contacted me at all. No text, no call, nothing. I did see her when I got to work (we actually work together), and at this point I was a little upset. I don't think she knows that, in addition to still being a little sad about my grandmother passing, I'm also upset because I think not making any effort to contact me last evening was inconsiderate.\n\nI found out that she basically got busy with errands/chores, which is fine. Honestly, I don't even care that she didn't call. However, I'm thinking of asking her, in the future, to at least text to let me know that she got busy with things. The thing is, when I don't hear from her at all, all kinds of things run through my head including wondering if something happened to her. It made it difficult for me to get to sleep. Is a request like that overly needy? I'm trying to be \"manly\" about it, but this kind of thing does hurt my feelings and I do feel at times that she is inconsiderate toward me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently got out of a long term / long distance relationship and found these two girls have had a thing for me for quite some time. I am attracted to them and they both are attracted to me sexually. I've asked each individually and they want sex more than a relationship right now which works great for me, however I have no idea how to proceed. We're all in college as well. I've gotten to third base with both of them and nothing is awkward between us when we all hang out. I don't think they've told each other either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello,\n\nSo I [25/F] am getting married in about 2 months. I had planned to have 3 bridesmaids and a maid of honor. However, one of my bridesmaids [25/F] has been really out of the loop (not answering calls/texts/emails/fb messages). This was also the case when I was trying to ask her to be a bridesmaid (a process which took months to get in touch with her!). My fiancé and I recently moved to another state, so most of our people from our wedding party are from out of town (which I understand limits what they can do to help); however, all my bridal party have gotten matching dresses (of different shades of blue) and she still hasn't even responded to any of their messages either. She always comes up with lame excuses (her phone broke/ she got a new computer- which SHE WOULD STILL BE ABLE TO CHECK FB MESSAGES AND EMAILS!). \n\nShe has been a very close friend since we were young (since 11 years old!). I love her to death and we have always had the kind of relationship were we don't need to talk or hang out every weekend to be able to maintain our friendship (we have always been there for any crisis and told each other everything even after months of not talking). I feel like she is really dropping the ball on this tough… It's not like I'm asking her to help with ANY PREPARATIONS for the wedding, just get ANY dress that is blue... I would even help financially but she doesn't respond to ANYTHING.\n\nI have thought about asking her to step down because I find it really rude of her BUT HOW if I can't even get in touch with her?! I am also scared about messing up the friendship… but… I think she already has.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay this wasn't today but in 2005.\n\nMy dad worked for a few production companies in London and often got to meet celebrities through work and as social friends. He managed to get tickets to go see a Pantomime in London which Ian McKellen was starring in as Widow Twankey. The show was a rendition of Aladdin.\n\nAfter the show we got to go backstage to see the cast, and as a 10 year old I was super exited because I was going to see fucking Gandalf in person! Holy shit I was pumped! \n\nWe get into the backstage area of the venue and inside a big dressing room where all the cast were getting out of their make up and costumes etc and sat down in the corner laughing away with Roger Allen was indeed Sir Ian McKellan, who was eating a[ Pot Noodle] on a saucer in a dressing gown and high heels (part of his show outfit)\n\nMy face lit up when I saw him, my dad walked me over to say hi and to sign the booklet about the show with his signature.\n\nAs my dad said who I was he stood up and said 'Ahhh!! Splendid to meet you young Mr_Murdoc!' But as he lent over to shake my hand I accidentally reached out for his and knock his Pot Noodle all over him and his dressing gown. He jumped with an 'oh my!' and began to wipe off all the noddles and sauce I just got all over him. All the other cast members were laughing like crazy.\n\nHe laughed it off as well and said it was alright and to give me the book so he could sign it. We ended up talking about some of the films he did and how I loved LOTR's and X-Men etc... Left with all their autographs which I still have (see below).\n\nIan, if you ever somehow read this, you were amazing. A true gentleman and a friendly person, sorry about the gown. \n\n**Proof", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a week ago a cute cashier that works at the local gas station gave me her number. We ended up going out on a date for dinner and drinks , had a blast and went back to her place that night and had sex.\n\nWhile we were on the date she actually said she was looking for a boyfriend and something long term , as was I .\n\nNow over the past week she has barely been commucating with me. I usually always try and initiate conversation (over text and calls) first and when she does respond its usually quick and not detailed. Sometimes she wont answer me for several hours at a time.\n\nToday she told me she had a fever and wasn't feeling good at all so I offered to bring her some medicine to help her feel better and she said that would be nice. So I went to her house just to find out she was at work at the time and didn't mention it . I felt like such a jackass . So tell me reddit , was I just a booty call or is she just genuinely taking things (super) slow?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this guy online about a little over a month ago. I'm 19 and he's 26. We hit it off immediately, especially after figuring out that we come from the same background and religion. We talked for some time before meeting up in person, and during the entire duration of speaking he never mentioned anything sexual, but was being very nice and interested. After we met up the first time, we hit it off amazingly in person, and later in the night there were some sexual activities that occurred (besides actual sex). The week after, he came over to my place and we actually did it, and we went on a third date recently and things were going really well. Every time after we'd meet up, he'd text me telling me he had a great time, and that we should plan something else soon. But in between the periods of where we meet in person, he hardly replies back to my texts (once about 6-10 hours). Once he finally does, he gives a nice long reply/somewhat flirty reply, but the fact that he barely replies but in person seems to have a great time with me and always wants to make plans confuses me as to where his head is at. Also, if I ever don't reply to his text, he texts back a day or two later asking how I am etc. \n\nI'm just confused as to what this guy may want, whether it's just something short term or long term. Also, the fact that he ignores my texts so much inevitably makes ME think about him more than i'd like to, but do you guys have any advice as to what I should be doing? \n\nThanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my boyfriend live about an hour and a half apart, he moved last year for work. I plan on moving with him once I'm done with school. \n\nWe talk every day, have had relatively few issues, and have talked about marriage. That's what makes this whole thing so scary. It's been 4 days since I have heard anything from him. He has a history of depression and anxiety (undiagnosed because his family didn't believe him and he just sort of lives with it now) so I'm scared something finally pushed him over the edge. I try contacting his family and none have responded except for his sister who says she hasn't heard from him in about a month. \n\nI won't be able to make it out there till next Saturday and I'm losing my mind.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For me, it was when I was 2 or 3. I had this terrible daycare provider. She would force me to eat when I wasn't hungry, scream at me, and even make me change my own diaper. I was 2 for Christ sakes. She once made me clean up my own throw up with my sweatshirt. I'd always tell my parents/grandparents that I didnt want to go because she was a \"mean lady\". No one believed me.\n\nOne day, a friend of my mom sent her daughter there, and she saw what that witch did to me. She probably said something not too descriptive being that we were 2, but it was enough to get people to believe me. \n\nAfter that my dad came, cussed her out, and then she demanded the months pay. My dad spit at her and then left.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My BF found a great job in the south and we have been living down here for 4 months now. I like it okay, but I have been feeling really sad about missing out on being with my family and friends (and dogs!). This job has the potential to be a long running career for him and although the company does have multiple locations in multiple states I'm not sure they will ever be in the state my family is in. Which is a problem for me. \n\nI'm very much in love with him, and can see us getting married someday however I feel as though I'm at a crossroads, where if I commit to him its commiting to a life without my loved ones. And I have a really close relationship with my whole family. I knew I was moving to be with him but I didn't want it to be a long term commitment. I brought it up with him and he agreed that he isn't including me in his future plans but didn't seem to want to alter them. \n\nBefore we moved, it was loosely agreed that we would stay down here for a few years, he would chip away at his student loans while I either went back to school or found a job and saved up. Which sounded fine, but as of late he's been talking a lot about staying for the next 5 or even 10 years. And I'm not sure that's going to change....", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My family is headed to Brazil for the World Cup this summer and we're starting to set our itinerary. Here is what we know (pretty much revolves around where we have tickets):\n\n- Salvador for the Germany v Portugal game on 6/16\n- Fortaleza for Germany v Ghana on 6/21\n- (Probably) Recife for Germany v USA on 6/26\n\nWe don't know where we'll be for the round of 16 and quarterfinal games, but it looks like we'll be moving around between Sao Paulo, Brasilia, and Rio starting July 1. Our plans also will include Iguazu Falls at some point.\n\nWhat I'm asking\n\n- Are there any must-sees in the country that I'm missing?\n- What might be some good, interesting day trips I can take from any of those cities? We like outdoorsy hiking type activities, beautiful landscapes and wildlife, interesting cultural anecdotes, good food...\n- What are some hidden gems in any of those cities (like good restaurants, market places, neighborhoods) that may not show up in a travel book?\n- Logistical advice on getting around, what to look for in choosing hotels (like which neighborhoods?), etc. We saw that there is a Brazil air pass which we will probably purchase, but any other thoughts are welcome.\n\nI've ordered the NatGeo travel book, Fodor's Brazil 2014 (World Cup edition), as well as Fodor's: Rio, Best 25. If I'm missing a good one, let me know!\n\nNo specific budget, but let's keep it reasonable :)\n\nThank you!\n\n*<", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "5 months shy of my 17th birthday, I met a senior at a party (a nerd gathering, to be honest) and we started chatting. We clicked. We had similar interests, but that didn't mean much--everyone at the party did, and I didn't get along with most of the people there. However, we had compatible worldviews; we didn't see things the same way, but we saw things similar enough to have interesting conversations. We quickly became friends; I hung out with him almost every day, but certainly 2 or 3 times a week. We quickly became best friends, and confided in each other about a lot--my losing my virginity, him worrying about getting an STD from his girlfriend, who got it from the 62 year old man she'd dated before him, our career plans, our understanding of the universe, etc. etc.\n\nAbout ten years later, I was the best man at his wedding in Hawaii. I even wore the fucking horribly uncomfortable shoes and stood in a hideous tux for hours while his parents took pictures. I did it because he was like a brother to me.\n\nWe're still friends, even if we live thousands of miles away. We still keep in touch, and I visit him every once in a while. However, I simply haven't made friends like him since. I've met people and gotten close to them, and I have really clicked with some of them. But I just don't feel that close personal connection that I used to, and I don't feel a need to connect with people like I used to.\n\nI don't know; maybe it's the internet. Maybe I'm just getting old. I'm happy with my wife and meeting people casually as I go through life. I just don't feel the need to have \"friends\" anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend (or ex now) asked for us to take some time apart. But by time apart, she means time out of relationship. \n\nWe met about 2 months ago and dated for around a month. This was the first relationship for both of us in several years and we were both very excited to start. However, she began feeling too much pressure. She needed time to think if she truly likes/loves me or not and she wasn't able to have that time. \n\nThe strange thing is she wants us to be close friends. She believes that a relationship can only be strongest if two people are very good friends already before establishing the relationship. So she wants to become good friends with me first. We moved along very quickly but she still barely knows who I am and vice versa. Two months isn't exactly enough to get to know someone so deeply. She still wants to spend a lot of time with me. But she doesn't want the burden of a relationship just yet. She said that she doesn't want to be forced to like me just because we're in a relationship. She wants her boyfriend to be her best friend as well.\n\nBut the thing is, she said she wants us to be good friends before we get together again. I also made sure to point out that I'm trying to get back together with her, and she accepted that as well. We only met each other recently but we've grown extremely fond of each other. Just too much stress I guess. \n\nI want to know what to do. I want to know how long I wait before I try again. She didn't give me a time. These things can't be measured in a specific time frame. I really like this girl and she's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. How do I know if we can still work out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "From what I can remember, my childhood environment was filled with distrust, yelling, judging, anger, confrontation and control, \n\nany attempt at voicing my opinions or becoming angry was useless and ended up worse then it needed to.\n\nSince then any sign of anger was channeled away and eventually filled with sadness and severe depression. I'm not an angry person, nor do i concern myself with things that stress me out, my life is vary vary stress free.\n\nRecently after I looked back on what brought me here and why my body reacts the way I do its pretty clear. Any immediate bout of anger instantly turns to sadness and tears involuntarily.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 22/F with a 23/M and we've been together for 2.5 years. Our relationship is loving and happy, and due to the fact that we live approximately 45 minutes away from each other (both living with our parents [embarrassing, but resources we're lucky to have]) have to restrict our visits to about 2 days a week. \n\nWe did the 2 days a week for a year and a half, then we got an apartment together for 6 months. When we lived together life was wonderful, and I couldn't ask for better. Due to various financial difficulties compounded by extreme family crises, we both moved back to our parents' homes until the crises were dealt with and we had enough saved up to move out again. The time to move out of my parents' house is coming up, I'm unsure if when I move back out it should be with him.\n\nIt has always been extremely important to me that I live by myself for at least a year, at some (relatively early) point in my adult life. My mom drilled in to me that you must learn to be alone in order to function well within relationships, and I think at this point I would feel like I had missed out on something major if I didn't experience living on my own soon. \n\nI've talked about this with my boyfriend and he understands/encourages me to do what I need to do, but I don't want to move without him. So much of my relationship with him has been spent with strict limits on time that when the opportunity arises to live with him again I know I won't want to say \"No\". Plus, it just seems like a huge economic waste for us both to be paying for an apartment, Internet, etc. etc., when we could just be splitting the bill (our low incomes plays a role in my trepidation as well), when he moves to the same city I'm moving to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend caught me with porn on my computer. She was understandably pissed. Not so much that I was looking at it but that I was keeping it from her. We talk work things out. She says it's fine if I look as long as I don't hide it. Great we make up and continue on with our lives.\n\nLater she's on my computer helping me with my resume and finds the file with screenshots of pics I'd taken. I had (wrongly) assumed she'd seen those. She gets pissed all over again. I feel like an asshole again. She is on there looking for something else and finds the download file piled high with stuff I didn't even know was on there including videos. I don't download videos because I don't really find them terribly sexy at all. I don't even know how they got there (I'm not very computer savvy to these things). Some of the sites I was on maybe a bit sketchy?\n\nI feel like a total jerk now and she is understandably upset. I want the relationship to continue and she still tells me she wants me to feel comfortable looking at that stuff if I want. I don't know if I can do that anymore. All that will happen now is that I'll end up feeling guilty about hurting her if I look at it and I won't enjoy it.\n\nI would appreciate your thoughts on the matter.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So over the summer my ex and i had a nasty break up she took everything the wrong way. We never really even \"dated\" or whatever you want to call it we were more of friends with benefits (for me at least). But after it happened it turned into that stereotypical situation where she would blow my phone up, write me letters, send her parents to my house, lie and say she broke up with me and i wanted her back and all that stupid shit. So, about six months ago my gf and i started dating and her and my ex absolutely HATE each other. they already have history with each other but that's not why I'm here. She is seriously coming between us and I don't know how to deal with it. I have never been happier with anyone in my whole life and she feels the same way. But there is always drama going on it makes my gf not want to be with me anymore like that if she wasn't with me she wouldn't have to deal with her. The girl is saying we're harrasing her and that we won't leave her alone and she's going to the police because of it. I just don't want to lose my gf whom I've never been happier with because of some crazy ex. I apologize if this seems jumbled up i'm not really use to writing this kind of thing i mostly post to no sleep.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "BG: So my boyfriend lives in an apartment building that's gated and you can't enter the building without one of those key passes. As a result, I'm always waiting for him when I drive up. Even when I give him a heads up that I'm five minutes away, I'll still be parked and waiting between 5 - 10 minutes for him to ride the elevator down so he can let me in. We've been together 1.5 years.\n\nWe had plans for me to pick up Panera and for my daughter (5) and me to have dinner at his place. He tells to let him know when to leave work (he typically gets off at 5:30) and I text him at 5:40 to let him know he should leave, since it takes 10 - 15 minutes to drive home. No response, but whatever. \n\nI pull up to the apartment at 5:50 and I let him know I'm parked. 15 minutes pass by and I text him that I hope he's on his way. No response. 30 minutes pass by. I'm still sitting in my car with a bag of food and a bored, hungry, five year old. So I text him that I am leaving and do so.\n\nSo he calls five minutes later, while I'm driving away, apologizing about having been pulled into something for work and saying he is on his way home and wants me to turn around. I'm halfway to my own place (as I live ten minutes away from him), so I say no. We wouldn't be eating until seven at this rate if I turn around, so I tell him that I'm gonna eat at home, but he can pick up his food if he likes or eat at my house after he lets his dog out.\n\nHe refuses and then calls me stubborn and that I have no empathy because I don't turn around and now he doesn't want to have lunch with me tomorrow. Did I handle it badly? I wasn't really mad at him, I just wanted to get home, was tired of waiting and tired from work and want to put my kid who has school tomorrow to bed by eight and staying there would delay that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been friends for a couple years, and this information came up a while before we started dating, simply in conversation as friends. She is an amazing girl and I am completely head over heels for her. She makes me smile all the time, accepts my weirdness while owning hers, is fine being bored with me - the list goes on. Despite all this, sometimes the thought of her hooking up with someone really bothers me, and I hate that something from her past would get to me so much when there are no other issues in our relationship.\n \nI know that she has had long term relationships ( > 1 year) in the past, and I have no issue at all with any aspect of that part of her life. To me anything that happens in a relationship is fine, but I have a hard time coming to terms with sexual relations happening before being in a relationship, or before feeling certain that a relationship will soon form. \n\nI'm worried that if I bring up that it's bothering me, I'll mar our otherwise pristine relationship. Preferably, I'd like input to help me learn how to accept her past and be happy with what we have now. However, I'd also welcome suggestions on how to have a healthy conversation about it if the thought continues to bother me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I think it is normal to ditch condoms in long term monogamous relationships. I have been on the birth control pill for 3 years, had unprotected sex many times with my previous partner and have never been pregnant. I take my birth control religiously because neither he nor I are anywhere near ready to have a child. If I were to become pregnant, I would have an abortion, and I have expressed this to my boyfriend. I do not have any STI/Ds.\n\nMy boyfriend insists on using a condom every time and laughs when I bring up not using a condom, his only explanation being that using condoms is \"just something he likes to do\". I don't like condoms because it feels much less intimate, the feeling of skin is very different from rubber, and because condoms dry me out and sex becomes difficult/painful. The way he reacts whenever I bring up not using condoms makes me feel like he doesn't trust me, and he has said things that imply that he thinks most women are looking to get knocked up by their long term partners. I find this to be a very insulting opinion to have about women in general, and about me in particular because he should know me well enough at this point to know that I have a lot of things I want to do with my life before I am ready to have children come into the picture. \n\nI have expressed all of this to him and gotten very little from him in the way of useful responses. I can't help feeling insulted and annoyed by his opinions and reactions on this topic. In general we communicate very well and our relationship has been very happy and easy. This is a fairly minor point in our relationship, but it bothers me enough that I'd like to hear if anyone has advice as to how I can get over it myself or help him realize that I'm not trying to get pregnant.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so I didn't really get both my front teeth but I couldn't pass up the title and as most TIFU post begin, mine too starts with a little backstory. I'll try to be quick.\n\nSo in the 6th grade I was on my way to school on my bike just as I would do any other day. Suddenly, and I shit you not, some jackass I had never met decided to kick me off of my bike. I wasn't expecting this and so when he kicked the peg of my bike I swerved too hard and as my front tire went perpendicular I flew off the bike, and onto the pavement, teeth first. Luckily my teeth only had some cracks in them and they really weren't noticeable. My lip on the other hand was split wide open but that part isn't important to the post.\n\nSo here I am about a week ago at my friends house having a few beers and taking shots while playing a Mario kart drinking game when some more people show up so we're gonna go to Gamestop to get more controllers. (Sober driver drove, obviously) While walking out of his room my friend looks up and blows on the plastic piece of those pull strings that you use to let down the foldable attic stairs, you know what I mean. (I added a photo of the one in my house but it doesn't have the plastic piece) In any case it shoots up the string and makes it quite high and so I, in my infinite tipsy wisdom decided to beat his \"record\". Now I'm shorter than my friend by a few inches and I know there's no way I'll beat his \"record\" if my breath dissipates before it reaches the plastic handle thing. Naturally this prompts me to jump a bit off the ground so as to compensate for the height difference. I hop, I push with my breath, I only get the plastic piece a few inches up the string. This is followed by me closing my mouth on the way down from the hop and the plastic piece hooking on the back of my tooth and shattering it. The next day I went to the dentist and had my tooth bonded. My mother said it was a Christmas gift.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In need of a little advice here. Back in 2009 my current girlfriend and I graduated from college, me with a degree in accounting and her with a degree in marketing. It took me roughly a year to land a job in my career field; my girlfriend, however, was not so lucky. Taking menial and tedious jobs she tried to make the most of it. \n\nFast forward to 2012, she accepts a part-time job and makes the decision to return to school. This time, however, to take courses for her to able to attend Pharmacy school.\n\nEnrolling as a part-time student, she takes the necessary classes she needs to meet her Pharmacy prerequisites. However, because of the weird curriculum of her university, one of her classes doesn't meet the Pharmacy requirements and so ultimately she drops it in favor of a class that does. \n\nTwist occurs when it turns out the class that met her Pharmacy prerequisite does not meet her university's prerequisite for the upper level classes she needs. So now she has to take additional classes just to meet those prerequisites. This of course means that it will take her longer to take her PCATs and ultimately longer to get into Pharmacy school. She doesn't want to be in school the rest of her twenties nor does she want to be burdened with additional debt/expenses while reaching her goal. \n\nI guess I'm unsure of what to do; I try to be supportive as possible, hearing her out, letting her express her frustrations but it doesn't seem to work. What are her or my options here? I don't wanna be useless.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my family and I have a set of older neighbors that live behind and are constantly giving us a hard time. Every time we do something in our backyard they are over complaining about it, checking if we have permits, making sure it is our property etc etc. We one time trimmed the branches on a tree in our yard and they freaked out about it. Additionally, when my sister and I were in middle school and highschool(prior to being able to drive), we would cut through the very edge of their yard and another neighbors yard. One day they flipped out on us that we were killing their lawn(which we weren't). This summer I recently caught the older gentlemen who lives cutting through our yard after his morning walks. They also just cut down bushes and piled them right on the border of our yard behind their fence(still their property so we can't do anything). What can I do to annoy these people in a legal and funny manner?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a single mom of two sons, and my sister is much younger than me. She is a 20-year old college student with very liberal views contrasting my conservative ones and is often very vocal about her opinions. One of my sons is 11 years old and he looks up to her a lot. I feel like sometimes I'm just his old mom, and she's the one he goes to when he needs anything, like help with homework.\n\nWith the election being a really big topic recently, my sister often talks to my son about these sort of things and her opinions obviously really differ from what I want him to believe. I feel like she thinks I am raising my own children wrong. We both grew up in the same religious household, but at very different times since she is so much younger. She still goes to church with our parents, but probably just to make them happy. Her religious views are nothing like what I want to instill in my kids. For example, my sons are both in a Sunday youth group at our church. My older son (14) doesn't really mind it too much, but the younger one likes to rebel and complain about it. At one point, I asked my sister if she could explain to my son that it is important to be in this youth group and she said, \"No, I don't think I can tell him that because I don't believe it myself. All they are doing in that youth group is telling him how to think, and if that's the way you want to raise him then I'm not going to help.\" \n\nI am really stuck as to what to do. My younger son has recently come up to me and said, \"Mom, why are you voting for Mitt Romney? Auntie says that he would make a bad president and he doesn't care about people who are different from him.\" It's things that this that I don't know how to answer. My sister and I are not particularly close (she is the youngest sibling and I am the oldest - she's much closer to our other siblings). So how do I approach this? How can I talk to my sister, or to my son?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my boyfriend were together for 4 months before we broke up because we argued too much. It had been 1.5 months since we broke up and I decided to contact him again seeing as I was still madly in love with him and missed him so much. It took a while to 'convince' him that we wouldn't argue any more but eventually we got back together. A few weeks have passed now and we were literally so happy being back together; I thought he'd changed because now we talk more and see each other more and generally have fun. However, sometimes he doesn't speak to me for days on end because he feels I'm 'moody' and doesn't want to 'start an argument' which is fair enough, however he doesn't understand that not speaking to me is one of the reasons I get annoyed and feel unwanted.\n\nAnyway, we started arguing on Halloween and because I was playing hard to get I decided to text saying 'we both need to change otherwise it's not going to work' and he agreed and unfortunately we broke up yet again. I don't want this at all and I have messaged him a lot of times trying to talk to him and sort the argument out- however he doesn't understand and sometimes will not reply. I know he loves me and we both want to be with each other, however sometimes he can be a little too stubborn and will ignore me and not speak to me for long lengths of time. I want to be with him and 'moving on' is not an option. At this moment in time he is still ignoring my methods to talk to him and will not see sense. Is there anything I can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My roommates and I have rented a house about 3 blocks away from a local college, and it was previously used for parties by the previous renters about 2 years ago. We were unaware there was a college nearby before renting the property. Being college-aged, we often have our friends over to drink or hang out (we are all 21), but we either go to community colleges 20 minutes away or live here for work convenience. We have had no actual police of the town knock on our door, nor any noise complaints, but the campus security comes to our house and suspects we are throwing a party and housing underage-drinking even though none of our friends attend the college. Is there any way to make the school stop harassing our private residence? This has happened 5 times in the past 6 weeks and we are planning to rent it for the next couple of years.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 5'8\"/1.73m and my GF is 6'/1.83m. We started dating about seven weeks ago and things seemed to go well for the past few weeks. This past Tuesday we were talking about something I do not remember and I said that I am 5'8\". She disagreed and was in disbelief that I am 4\"/10cm shorter than her. She kept saying that maybe I measured incorrectly and that I am at least 5'10\"/1.78m. She was ok with the height difference until she realized the numerical value of the difference.\n\nI thought Tuesday was the end of it, but she has mentioned it while talking to her yesterday on the phone and also today while we were walking in the park.\n\nI am uncertain what to make of it. Maybe nothing, maybe discomfort.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl on Okcupid. We hit it off and after a few messages I asked her out to dinner in which she replied \"I'm really busy for the next couple weeks, but I'll see what I can do\". I figure she's letting me down nicely and never expect to hear from her again.\n\nFour days later she messages me back with her number! Word. We text back and forth a few times over the next few days and I ask her out one more time and I get the same sort of response. However, I figure she's being honest because she not only gave me her number in the first place, but has talked about sex, that she wanted to teach me how to dance, and all this other stuff that proved she was really interested. If anything, the fact she keeps responding to me, someone she's never even met, tells me she's being honest.\n\nSo after this, I go on vacation to Florida where I am currently (it's been almost two weeks). I asked her if she was busy next week again, but made a rookie mistake, gave her another thread at the same time, and she latched onto that instead of the real inquiry I was interested in. Oh well. A few days later (about 3 or 4 days ago) I ask her again and she replies \"I'll see what I can do :)\".\n\nSo here I am today. I get back on Friday. I've been talking to this girl somewhat for roughly 3 weeks. What do I say to get her to commit to a date on Saturday? If she gives me another iffy response should I keep trying MORE? I mean as long as she's responding, she's clearly interested right? I just don't want to come off as pathetic seeing as this is like the 4th time I've asked her out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just recently broke up with my ex-boyfriend. If you want the info on that, then heres a link \n\nWhen we were together, he demanded my passwords for my social media sites including facebook and instagram. I know, that was crazy of me to do. But I really loved him and thought it was ok, so I definitely learnt my lesson. I would never do half of what I did in that relationship. Thank goodness for that. \n\nNow, I've changed all my passwords and on Facebook I've logged out all devices so I know he is off of that. BUT instagram doesn't seem to have that feature that I know of? I'm still getting notifications that his friends have got a instagram account, so that means that he is logged in on one of his devices still. \n\nI've approached this topic several times. I've asked him to please sign out of my instagram. It is my personal account that I made the bad choice of letting him on. He keeps telling me he will or he has, but I still get the notifications about his facebook friends getting an instagram. So, he obviously hasn't.\n\nIs there anything I can do in this situation? I know this is all my fault for being so foolish in this relationship, but I'd like to get this fixed as this is my personal information.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my first ever real relationship started when I was about 14, and me and her were together for nearly four years. \n\nWe lost our virginities to each other, and we thought we'd be together for ever, etc. We split up about eight months ago due to our relationship falling apart quite a bit, and the fact that I was moving away to university acted as a catalyst as well. \n\nNow I've been at university for around six months, and I thought I'd moved on completely, until now, when she told me she is now in a new relationship. It feels horrible knowing that she's being intimate with someone other than me. I don't think I'm still in love with her, but I don't know why I'm feeling like this, I've been sitting in my room feeling sorry for myself all day, and I just can't shake it off.\n\nOur break up was by now means clean and simple, and it took a while after we broke up officially to actually stop seeing each other and having sex etc. \n\nAnother relevant detail could be that the guy she is currently seeing, she had a slight thing with at a festival when we were together, and there was always a bit of tension about him when we were together.\n\nCan anyone help me with trying to get over her? Or working out why I'm feeling like this? I know this isn't a huge issue, and it's probably really common, I just don't know where else to go for help. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This isn't a question of affordability - my wife and I have great credit, low debt and by every criteria we could afford the average house in our area.\n\nBut....we make well above the average income, and yet we can really only afford the average house. In our area the average income/price ratio is higher than average compared to other regions, never-mind it's also way above its historical average. And housing prices have been rising much faster than incomes as well. \n\nSome people see that and think \"I better buy now before it's too late!\" But I can't help but think the current prices are already detached enough from their intrinsic value as it is. It's not quite 2007 levels but it's on track to getting back there. \n\nSo that makes me consider buying a house outright for cash is already questionable idea. But most people don't do that. Now also consider that not only have mortgage rates been very low for quite some time, but they've been dropping at a steady clip for the better part of 30 years. To the point where it's inconceivable that they get any lower. By definition that must have had a significant positive effect on the nominal value of homes in the past. And thus even the long term return of investing in a house is based on an idealized version of the market, a distortion that there's no reason to believe can continue (unless rates literally go negative) and every reason to believe will reverse, even if the timing and magnitude is uncertain. And considering mortgage rates are so low, and increase from 4%to 5% would have a massive impact on the affordability of a house - a mortgage payment that would get you a 400K house at 4% today would only get you a 360K house at 5%. And that must push prices down. \n\nNow I'm sure very few people here would advise someone to borrow 400K at 4% to buy bonds on margin at any time, but especially at a time when rates seem destined to rise, it seems borderline insane. So why is borrowing to buy a house any different, when the ramifications of rising rates are the same?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actually happened today...\n\nSo usually when I wake up I hit snooze on my phone around 5 times and get out of bed in just enough time to get everything done and get out the door in just the right amount of time to make it to work on time...maybe. Instead of just waking up earlier I have gotten into the practice of setting my clothes out the night before, and multi-tasking to make breakfast while brushing my teeth and this morning instead of oatmeal I decided on buttered toast with cheese. This is where it all began.\n\nSo I throw the toast into the toaster oven, set it to that perfect golden brown setting, and head into the bathroom to brush my teeth. As I come back into the kitchen there is smoke (not a lot but more than bread should let out) filling my kitchen and I think 'How the hell did I burn the toast I wasn't gone for that long' so I head over to the toaster and as I open it, some smoke billows out but my bread is maybe halfway done toasting. I figure it could have maybe been some food me and my girlfriend had cooked the night before that was dried and burned on the element.\n\nSo without thinking too much about it I throw some butter on it and a few pieces of asiago and fold it up in hopes the heat will melt both. As I start driving I take a bite and it tastes awful. It tastes like smoke (which isn't too bad) but there is something else - some bitter, horrible taste. I eat the piece because I was hungry dammit! So then I go for a second bite and I couldn't do it, as much as I needed to eat i just couldn't. So I text my girlfriend (she has to be at her work an hour and a half after I do) to check the toaster/don't use it because something is in there that shouldn't be. She then sends me a text and said \"Yeah there's a piece of dried sweet potato....and 3 burnt stinkbugs.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys!\n\nSo about 2 or 3 days ago, a few friends and I were at a nearby KFC when my friend noticed something strange in his meal. Upon having a closer look, he pulled out the \"mystery object\" and it was a feather. A small, white feather was lodged inside his chicken!!! Anyways, we talked to the people working there and they literally acted like it was just something that happens everyday. After a complaint,all they did was give us a free new piece of chicken, which nobody honestly felt like eating any more. After complaining to the manager, we got the same result and they didn't seem to care. So what I ask of you, reddit, is what can we do about this? Could it be proof of animal cruelty or something? However, the problem is that we live in Austria, where lawsuits aren't as common as in America, and people generally don't give a shit about these things. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Disclaimer: I am new to this subreddit. Help would be appreciated :)\n\nThis is my first relationship, and I do not want to break up with my girlfriend. I know this is a very simple thing to say as a high schooler, but my question is whether I get mad at her about is justifiable. \n\nRecently, she has been more distant with me and has not been replying to me as fast or with the same upbeat attitude she's had in the past. As a result, I do not feel the love in the relationship as much as I once did. It seems like her attitude is affecting me to not be as talkative which has led me to call her out on this. I've asked her multiple times to tell me why she seems more distant and if it's a problem with me, but she keeps saying, \"idk, sorry\". At this point, I got tired of it and told her that I won't talk to her until she wants to start a conversation for once and not seem like I'm boring her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I deal with a lot of chronic pain issues and for many many years I took 10mg morphine sulfate as needed. As we found other ways to manage the pain, I ended up moving and didn't form a new relationship with a pain clinic, so when my morphine ran out, I just let it go. \n\nHowever, from time to time, I have a flair up that is particularly bad. A friend of mine who is extremely ill had a bottle of morphine from when his docs tried him on it, but it hadn't worked well and they switched him back to dilauded, so he gave it to me. \n\nLast night was pretty damn bad, so after almost a year of having it sit on my shelf, I decided to take one. \n\nLast night was... odd, and I woke up this morning dizzy and miserable. I was supposed to drive to a doctor's appointment, but realized that was a bad plan. Eventually it occurred to me that my friend is very sick and maybe they wouldn't have him on 10mg morphine. Which is when I realized that it was 100mg not 10. \n\nSo I'm just going to lie here for the day I think.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "2 months ago, I (M/22) got dumped by (F/22) after a +2 year relationship. Thanks to the expensiveness of apartments in the city, I've continued on sharing an apartment with her. This has made getting over her very difficult, especially since most days I just want her back.\n\nLast night, she, our roommates, and I were hosting a small party with a few friends. Afterward, four of us went out to one of our favorite bars. There we met up with another friend, and met her new roommate and a few of that roommate's friends from home. I hit it off with one of the friends-from-home and got her number. Unfortunately, this girl is leaving either Sunday or Monday, I can't remember which, so I have a limited window. Dating seems off the table.\n\nI have a party tonight I might be able to invite her to, but then I ought to invite her whole group. Also, though the host is a good friend of mine, (a) the whole group might be too many people and (b) he wanted to have a strict dress code of business wear for this party.\n\nOther concerns, how much should I expect out of this? If we met one night and might hangout for a second night, am I doing this just for a make-out? It's been a couple years since I've been single, and I was never one for getting girls' phone numbers or hooking up before that. Also, if we wanted privacy, there's none to be had. She's a guest in someone's apartment and I live in my ex's living room.\n\nFinally, I absolutely want my ex back, but she has wrecked any notion of that whenever I bring it up. Is it OK to be going for other girls when I want my ex? Will it help me not? (This is just something I felt like throwing on the pile. The most pressing question is how to get as much as I can out of my limited time with this other lovely girl.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little backstory:\n\nI have been renting a place with a roommate whom his dad owns. The living arrangement turned out great since I didn't have to sign the lease so I can back out anytime I want, and his dad is pretty laid back. \n\nPrior to my roommates leave, he and his friend would come over and chill, which I was totally cool with. Now, my roommate is in rehab for heroin use for the second time and wants to house his friend to \"get his act straight.\" I don't know him or trust him since he has a history of heroin use and still might be. To make matters worse, the gutters above my balcony and found about 25 syringes. I'm not usually paranoid, but I have a lot of valuable items in the general area that could be prime candidate for pawning (i.e: surround system speakers, tv, and game systems). Also my roommate had asked if it was alright to copy a set of keys for his friend in which I responded, \"Hell no.\" I already have my BR door key-locked.\n\nI have yet to talk to the dad or my roommate about these issues, but that is my top priority after work today.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little more than 4 months. Everything has been great, we get along fantastically, share similar interests, and love doing things together. When making out things are great, it's just fun, never awkward, and we really have a good time. However, whenever I attempt to instigate anything beyond making out she subtly pushes me away (shifts positions, pulls shirt down etc.). I've talked to her about it and she says that she's totally fine and comfortable with doing things beyond making out (although I know she never has), but in the moment she never seems to want to. How would you recommend I bring this up again and talk to her about?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay guys, I'll try to keep this short.\n\nSo, I've known her / liked her (I REALLY like her) for about 3 months now. We see each other quite often outside of class. I've only been alone with her a couple times: once, we went to dinner because everyone backed out, and another time we had coffee (she brought a girl friend, FML, but she left reasonably soon.) Both times, we had an awesome time. The conversation was fast, fresh, funny...I had her laughing at all of my jokes. And we relate in so many ways. She's really confusing though. She'll text me, seeming really sweet, act like she really wants to talk to me, etc. and then just stop talking to me / act like she doesn't care for absolutely no reason. IDK what's going on.\n\nThe reason I haven't made a move yet is I always thought there was someone else (turns out it wasn't). She mentioned a cute guy she talked to but I don't think that's going anywhere.\n\nFinal note: I asked her what she looked for in a guy. She pretty much described me to a T. She's looking for a nice guy, and I feel like I'm really sincere, and would be really sweet to her. I really want to; she's dated some jerks in the past who really hurt her, and I just want to be with her and make her happy. I have every other characteristic she listed. Is my luck just that bad, or....?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To preface, I am a National Guard veteran recently leaving service suffering from depression and I'm looking for a companion animal that will give me a reason to wake up in the morning and have at least something to look forward to in my day. I'm currently looking to adopt a dog which will be my first pet that I've had while living on my own. This means that I don't have any reason to have a fenced in yard yet or any sort of veterinarian referral which seem to be the two foremost blanket requirements in adoption. I live in a somewhat remote area so it's not really feasible for anyone to do a house visit either. How the hell am I supposed to give a needing pet a home? Why do I need past experience with that dogs size or breed? My main vent is to mention that it's easier to buy one firearm a day every day of the week in the US than it is to save a pet that could possibly be my best friend. Does anyone have any advice for me? I know I should probably look for other venues but shouldn't I be able to adopt a pet that has been rescued from previous owners or high kill shelters more easily rather than letting them float in foster care limbo?\n\nTy for reading, if not:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend(M24) is and extrovert and I(F23) am an introvert. We have been in a relationship for 2 years and have been best friends for 2 before that. He loves always having plans and hanging out with people, which I also sometimes enjoy doing but I also need nights where we can just stay in and watch movies or do nothing. Lately we haven't had a moment to ourselves. We are constantly running all over, hangin with people and filling our free time with activities. This week alone we have plans with friends every single night. I like seeing friends but it getting so exhausting trying to keep up with him. Last night I almost had a nervous breakdown at his parents house. This morning I almost had another and while trying to make me feel better I said \"I just feel like we are busy all the time\" and he said \"Life is busy, you're going to have to get used to it\". This caused me to start crying and frekaing out and it seems like he couldn't understand where I am coming from. Everytime I mention that I want/need a night in it feel like he he thinks I'm being lazy or don't want to hang out with his friends. I'ma afraid if I continue trying to keep up with him I'm to have a complete frekout. I don't know how much longer I can try suppressing these current mini breakdowns. How do I get him to see my point of view.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. \n\nI went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. \n\nI went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. \n\nNope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. \nI did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, boyfriend[21] and I[21f] have been together for over 3 years and I've decided that it's high time we get hitched, so I'm planning on proposing to him in December. The only thing is, I have no idea how to do it.\n\n I know that he would want something private and not too grand, but if it's too subtle, I don't think he'd realize I was seriously asking. I want to incorporate some nerdy things, but as my interests lie elsewhere, I don't know much about it to do anything really cool. Google isn't very helpful, so I turn to you for any ideas or advice you can give.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was doing some volunteer work for a hospital and met a guy named Connor. He's 22 and is awesome.\nI was wondering what you would do if you were in his shoes:\n\nAbbreviated Transcript:\n>\"Before my accident I was going to college at RIT in upstate New York.\n>Was going into my senior year.\n>Worked at a restaurant over the summer.\n>I was at a coworker party at a camp. Dove off a dock with a few of my buddies. \n>There was a rock right below the surface. Cut the top of my head just right on the rock and couldn't move from the neck down.\n>They pulled me out after I passed out facedown in the water. Got me to the hospital and then got helicoptered to a couple others.\n>But um, I'm here.\"\n\n>\"Long time, though - I want to be able to walk again.\"\n\nMore information: I've worked with Connor and he's amazingly upbeat. I've had this video for over a year now and haven't really known what to do with it. It was just an impromptu mini interview.\nI can't imagine being as upbeat after becoming a quad as he is. \n\nSide note: I found out today he got kicked from his insurance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I were together for a year before I broke it off. My reasons were fairly immature; I was bored by the monotony of our relationship, wanted to date around and enjoy my youth, etc. Part of this sudden change might have been due to medication-induced hypomania, as I had recently started a new antidepressant (I have been in treatment for bipolar disorder for several years now). Regardless, it seems like a kind of stupid decision now. \n\nI met another guy a few weeks after the breakup who seemed fun, light-hearted, and interested in me. We hit it off and almost immediately began dating and sleeping together. However, it didn't take long for me to realize that he was not right for me (for reasons I can explain if necessary, but I don't want to make this post too long). \n\nA month has passed and my ex of a year and I have begun talking again. I'm feeling a bit more stable on my meds now and I think we're both considering getting back together. While I know this would usually be easy (we had an extraordinarily close bond and good chemistry), I don't know how to approach the topic of the other guy. My ex and I lost our virginities to each other, and I know that the idea of me having sex with another guy would absolutely tear him apart. However, I could never hide that from him with a clear conscience. \n\nSo, how should I go about that discussion? Or am I just not cut out for a healthy relationship right now? I just feel like a despicable person and don't know where to go from here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday was the \"we're officially together\" anniversary of my fiancée and I, but I'm traveling for business out of state and couldn't be there. I had a shitty morning and didn't get the order for her flowers in on time, had to have them sent to our house instead of to her work since she'd be out of the office by the time they were to be delivered, and had to use an unknown florist. I thought everything was going to be fine, she'd see them when she got home after thinking I had forgot and be completely surprised. Good hell was I wrong. She thought I sent them AFTER she yelled at me for not sending her flowers, I sent them to the house and not her office (big mistake, the only thing that matters is showing them off- like dick-waving for women), and they looked like shit.\n\nSO, I am (trying to) make up for this on Valentine's, but I will still be out of town. I've got the florist set and the arrangement picked out, but need a good message in the card. But I don't want anything boring or conventional.. I also want a bit of humor. But I'm having a hard time coming up with something that doesn't make me sound like an ass (such is my nature sometimes).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Rant follows:\n\nSo my fiancee and I have been in an amazing, intense relationship. We both like to drink and have a good time. That was one of the first things we noticed about each other - in past relationships we both felt like we had to try to act mature and stop partying, but together we just had so much fun hanging out together and going out with each others' friends, etc. \n\nBut this past week she was at a work conference and her company threw a big party the last night. There was an open bar, and she had been working really hard so I guess she just got really drunk and was kind of a mess. She was talking shit about her old boss (who works at her company but is in another department now) to anyone who would listen. Then she started dancing with random guys. She didn't even remember until one of her friends called the next day to make sure she was ok and didn't do anything stupid. She said she didn't kiss anyone or do anything other than dance, but that she was dancing \"scandalously,\" at least for a work setting. Obviously, I was very hurt, but what hurt the most was when she saw I was upset she said \"I shouldn't have told you.\" \n\nThat's when I really got upset and went to go lie down. We talked a bunch and she says she's always had self-destructive tendencies (which we've discussed before) but that she thought that was all behind her because it hadn't happened while we've been together and she said I'm the best thing that's ever happened to her, etc.\n\nShe now wants to see a therapist and stop drinking, at least for a bit and then decide whether to cut back or stop altogether. I guess I don't really have a question, I just wanted to rant a bit. But advice is welcome and I'll try to answer any questions people have. Thanks for listening.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night was one of my best friend's birthday parties. I'm in the backyard and a couple of my friends go out front to smoke and I stay behind with one other guy. After talking for a bit my eye catches a wooden jungle gym complete with 4 swings and a big slide in the side part of the backyard. I ask the guy I'm with if he wants to go over to see it and reminisce about our childhoods. \n\nWe head over there and I take a seat on one of the swings and he on the opposite one WITHOUT SWINGING, just sitting there. Also, we both way around 165 pounds each, which isn't really that heavy. I say to him \"I used to have one just like this when I was a kid,\" and right after the support beam holding up the swings snaps in half and the swing set collapses.\n\nNeedless to say, I felt awful and my friend was pissed when he saw it but got over it quickly because he is nice like that. I still offered to help fix it or pay for a new one, but he told me not to worry about it. After telling his parents this morning, he texted me saying that they weren't at all mad and wanted to get rid of it for a while anyways, so I kind of did him a favor. But when his 3 yo brother saw it, he burst out crying and was extremely upset, understandably so. \n\nI still feel bad about it even though his family is OK about it. I think his and his parents reactions were worse than mine, not caring about the 3 yo being heartbroken by this, but that may just be my subconscious trying to make me feel better. What do you think reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So today my girlfriend told me that one of her best friends started dating a black guy. I'm just like ok...? She then said that her friend was all excited because she was learning about all the things about dating a black guy, since this was the first one she's dated. I was like there's a difference, other than the penis? I'm white by the way. She just smiles, shakes her head and doesn't give me an answer. Now before we started dating my girlfriend and I were friends and she said she always preferred black guys. So I'll never get an answer, and she will enjoy holding this over my head.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me 27M and my ex 25F. Best friends for 9 yrs serious relationship for 7 yrs. Broke up with me because she started liking another guy. After, she regretted sleeping with him. All he wanted was to hit and quit but he sucked in bed.\n\nShe literally left the best sex she's ever had. I gave her her first orgasm and after that it was rare for her to not get an orgasm when we had sex. Sometimes she would get two. She left her best friend. We had a connection where we could really just be ourselves and be comfortable, talk about anything. She left her cat. She loves my cat and still misses her a lot. She left a less stressful lifestyle. She became a manager, high stress and lots of hours for lower pay.\n\nI'm not exaggerating any of this. Honestly I'm not looking to get her back but sometimes when I think about it or my friends bring it up it just baffles me how she really left all that.\n\nI'm just bored and curious. She's contacted me a few times before. Do you think she'll try to come back or nah?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I dated for 11 months and broke up almost a month ago because of college. We loved each other and it was amicable and everything. There were no hard feelings but we both knew he had to break up because our colleges are so far apart and we don't have money for flights. \n\nWe've texted once then, but I've been trying to avoid talking to him because I want to get over it. Apparently he was home this weekend and he asked my best friend to hang out since she's going to community college and living at home. He's kind of friends with her but they never hang out alone or anything. They don't really get along; if they're talking for more than a few hours, they start bickering.\n\nAfterwards I asked her what happened and she said that he said he misses me but he's over it. But how can you be over it if you still miss the person? I would understand if he said \"I don't miss her and I'm over it\" or \"I miss her and I'm not over it\" but not both. Also, do you think he asked her to hang out because he wanted to ask about me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this lovely guy on tinder (I know, questionable origins) and he's treated me better than anyone I've ever been with. From our very first date he said he was only in the market for casual however, so I've been understandably weary. But regardless of our casual status, we see each other weekly, have Scrabble nights, pig out and watch Netflix... Plus he invited me to his brother's wedding and asked me to go away for the weekend with him, among other very coupley things. Plus he's just so nice to me, always telling me I'm pretty, plus he seems to find my daftness charming (I'm not used to this).\n\nAnyway, in spite of it all, he doesn't want to commit, and he's still on tinder. Apparently he used to be pretty overweight and has had really long dry spells, so he says he wants to make up for lost time. We've only been dating 2 months, but I can feel myself becoming attached. I don't want to let him go though, because he gives me everything I need (beside the title of girlfriend) and I'm scared I won't find another guy as nice as him. I've been with quite a few dudes, and at this point in the relationship they usually fade on me or start to treat me like shit. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should let him go because we want different things at the moment, or if I should stick it out for a little while longer and see if he changes his mind, since it genuinely feels as if he really likes me. Any advice/anecdotes would be greatly welcomed :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "i am having a confusing relationship with my ex-boyfriend. We had a neutral break-up, and agreed to stay as friends. The cause of the break-up was that, he felt that he was tied-down, and wanted more freedom as we are both just in our teens. I've tried to change his mind, but he was persistent. So right now, we are just suppose to be friends, and I'm okay with that. But now that we are not in a relationship, he treats me really well, and sometimes when we are alone, he will kiss me and hug me. He still shows that he really cares for me and likes me a lot still, but in front of his friends, he is a bit cold to me. I'm really confused, what should I do? Does he still like me more than a friend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a year ago on the 28th I met the girl of my dreams. Everything was just fantastic, there was great chemistry, attraction, you name it it was there.\n\nFast forward 2 months (yes I know) I get my ass dumped for \"not showing her I was serious\"... at the same time she she we might be moving fast. I was okay with her wanting to slow down. A kiss each night would have been enough, I didn't need sex. She left me and I've been devastated since. She said she needed time... I was waiting.\n\nI wasn't perfect though, I lied. When we first started talking I implied I had relationship and sexual history, I was tired of being laughed at for being a virgin by choice, yes it happened several times. So I let her think I had experience.\n\nI told her about this after she dumped me. It pissed her off so much and basically got to where she said \"I hate myself for letting you in\". Midsummer this was and then 2 weeks later she has a new bf. I guess she just needed time without me in the picture. That's fine, I messed this up and will have to try and live with that.\n\nMy question, how can I really get over her? I fell hard and fast. I've been living in this personal agony since March. I try and forget her, I try to tell myself if she was my one she wouldn't have let her ex's sins become problems I paid for. What should I do? Anything, everything, I just need to hear any advice. Because I can't figure it out myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She never compliments me or says anything to make me feel like I'm important to her. I am not bad looking, in good shape (if a little too skinny, but still work out) and I have an interest in trendy fashion. I feel like I usually put more effort into what I'm wearing and how I look than she does yet there is never a word about it.\n\nIf she gets her hair cut or wears a dress, I am supposed to say how great it looks when the other 9/10 times she wears her hair in a tight bun and wears high waist leggings to hide how out of shape she is now.\n\nI just sometimes don't know why I settle for this. I feel like there could be someone else out there that will make me feel happy and loved but I'm too afraid to give up our relationship because we have been together so long that it would be like losing one of my childhood friends or something.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the last 2 years I have been working with this girl. In that time we have had a lot of time to chat to one another and for the past year I have really wanted to ask her out on a date. The trouble is that she is 17 years old (18 shortly after new year) and I'm concerned that the age gap is too large considering how young she is. A 23 year old dating a 17 year old seems a bit predatory to me.\n\nWhen it comes to dating, I have almost no experience and she could be the first person that I ask out. I am very introverted and find it hard talking to anyone let alone someone that I am attracted to. However I find this girl much easier to talk to than anyone and I really feel that she is perfect for me. We independently have discovered and watch the same television programs and even programs on the radio! (How many young people do you know that listen to the radio?). She is even about to start studying for the same degree as me.\n\nDo you think that she is too young for me? Would it be weird if I asked her out?\nI think about her all the time and really want to ask her out but I'm not sure what other people (my parents, her parents and our friends) would think about it. And I'm not sure how she would react.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my friend \"Joe\" have been friends for about two years now. He started dating said girl about a year after we were friends. Him, me, her, and some mutual friends would hang out like people do. \n\nOver the last six months her and I have realized but never said that we really like each other. Her and her ex broke up about a week ago, he did something he was not supposed to do and it was the last straw in their relationship. \n\nWe got together on Valentines day both of us not having a date, we hung out at her house and just sat around talking. The whole thing led to us being in a relationship, I am glad that we are together but there is one thing. Her ex/ my friend doesn't know that we had a thing for each other or that we got together yesterday. \n\nHe is a great friend but I don't know what to do, I am freaking out. I don't want to mess up the relationship with my friend by telling him that I am dating his ex, but I want him to know the situation. \n\nI was thinking about just waiting till he is okay with not dating her and then telling him. I feel as if he has moved on it might not be that big of a situation. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In the first couple years of our relationship my husband was physically abusive. He got help and it stopped happening. It's been nearly 3 years since the abuse stopped., But I still haven't gotten over it. I still feel anger and hurt towards him. I watched a movie showing an emotionally abusive relationship and I recognized myself as the abuser! Constant putdowns, always disagreeing with him (most of the time it comes out before I even think about it and I realize I don't ACTUALLY disagree, I just wanted to), refusing to apologize for stupid things, and belittling him in front of our friends.\n\n I feel so bad after realizing this because for the last year I have had it in my head that he is a terrible person and HE was the emotionally abusive one, but I think it's me! I want to make this better, because I don't want to be divorced at such a young age! I want to make this work. He has said many times he wants to be married to me. \n\nI should also include I have depression, I have had it since I was a teenager, but I have always been off and on my medicine. My husband says when I'm on my medicine he enjoys being around me, but when I come off of it I'm miserable to be around. I have been on my medicine for a few weeks now and I actually want to stay on it now that I've recognized this pattern. Hopefully that helps me in the future!\n\nI want to deeply apologize to him for how I've treated him. A real, meaningful apology. And I want to STOP this pattern.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let's see my ex SO of 5 years and I have been trying to work things out, but there are some factors that pretty much scream RUN. It starts off during the middle of our relationship when he talked to this girl during us dating, it caused us to break up because I would constantly bitch to him about how its fucked up he is talking to another girl so much. It turn out that I was right in the end about them \"talking\". Well we got back together not too long after I found out, because he was begging and promising that he did not know what he was doing and that he would drop it and I was in a tough place because I lost someone(death). Well years have passed, and we had broken up again. This time he told me that he had liked her, months later we started to try and rekindle things and then I saw him talking to her again, but he claimed he was fighting with her because she was talking to a kid he did not like. I asked him why he cared so much, and he said it was because she was his friend and he despises the kid. Which I know it total bullshit, but yet we were still trying to work on things. After months have passed, we still are trying until he started hanging out at her house, and she has been attending parties at his with her boyfriend and all because they all have mutual friends. He will talk to her, and continue to hang with her and friends. This is all no problem since we are technically not together. The issue is he does not understand why I would not be with him if he was friends with her, and he thinks it would be okay to be friends with this girl if we did get back together. Can someone give me their opinion as to what you think about all that?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /r/running, \n\nLast week my teacher told me the school was organizing a run. Everybody has to take part in a 20 minute run, which is part of an 8-hour relay with everyone from the school. Or if you would like to you can form a group of 6 people and run the full 8 hours with them. \n\nKind of jokingly I asked a friend of mine if he would like to do the full 8-hour run, he said yes, then someone else said she wanted to join our group, and now we're going to do it... We've decided it would be best to run in segments of 10 minutes so everyone will run eight times for ten minutes. \n\nHere's the thing though, my condition is not that good, at all. Last Thursday I ran 1,8km in 13 minutes and 28 seconds (8,03km/h) and today I ran 2,33km in 14:23 (9,72km/h). There are two things I would like to ask: \n\n-What would be a good strategy to improve my stamina so I'll be able to run for a longer time? \n\n-After I'm done with the first 10 minutes of running, how will I be able to regain stamina as quickly as possible (~50 minutes) to run the next 10 minutes, and then again.\n\nI'm 16y/o, the run will be in two weeks, do you think it's possible? I just keep telling myself to just do it :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so I've been dating my girlfriend for the past 2.5 years, but I've decided that it just isn't working out. We both want to go in different directions, with her settling down and having children, but me still wanting to visit the world that I have been saving up for the past few years.\n\nThe only thing is, I've been thinking about for months, but I can never see a proper time to do it. Important events to her keep popping up, like Valentine's, her birthday, or in this case, her graduation (coming up on June 6th). The thing I'm wondering is, would it be better to wait it out until a \"restful\" time comes, or should I break it up as soon as I can?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've known this particular friend for at least 6 years now, but we've only become better friends in this past year or so. I've always been hoping to become better friends with him, as I've recently learned we're way more similar than I had thought. However, he's a bit of a closed book when it comes to talking about anything personal with others (I can't blame him, I'm the same way.) \n\nHowever, the other night, I checked up on him because he had seemed upset. He ended up calling to me and venting about what had been happening to him. I felt honored that he trusted me enough to tell me out of all the other guys in our group, since we all confirmed that he had never opened up to any of us beforehand. \n\nI decided that since he trusted me enough to vent to me, that I should show him that I trusted him too and talk/vent to him, since I've had a lot of stuff on my mind anyway. The problem is, I have way too much social anxiety and I'm afraid that I'll mess something up or freak him out before I even get the chance too.\n\nSo reddit, even though its kinda silly, how should I go about venting to my friend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Together 2 years. \n\nWe have sex like, once every 2 weeks. Tops. We used to do it more often. I try to initiate and it goes nowhere so I drop the subject. When he initiates though, he gets super butt hurt when I am not interested.\n\nIt's been 3 weeks at this point. For the past two weeks I've been trying to seduce him. It wasn't working, so I stopped all sexual things and just gave him non-sexual physical attention and taking care of my orgasms on my own. \n\nYesterday he wants to get busy. At that point, I'm not even interested. After being turned down for weeks I become indifferent. Then, we have sex and it starts all over again. I get excited, try to initiate, get turned down, and as soon as I'm \"over it\" he wants to go again. I've tried just NOT initiating at all (maybe the chase turns him on) and that doesn't work either. \n\nWhat the fuck can I do here? Yes I have talked to him about it only to hear \"I'm sorry, I'll work on it\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my current girlfriend for about a year and half. I honestly do love her and care about her. However, we have done everything in this relationship wrong. We start dating too early, had sex to early, moved in together WAY too early, etc. Everything has just been downhill after our initial \"honeymoon\" stage.\n\nI've been thinking about how to break up with her, since we live together. I honestly don't know how to do it. She has nowhere to go. She doesn't make enough money to live on her own, and we have recently moved to another city together (big mistake), so she doesnt have any friends that she could stay with, or even comfort her.\n\nOn the other hand, I am just transfered to a new school and immediately fell incredibly hard for this other girl. We spend lots of time together in and outside of class. To be honest, I have never met anyone like her, or felt this way about anyone (it sounds cliche, but its the honest truth). I want to try everything to get this girl.\n\nSo I guess my question to you guys is, how do I break up with my current girlfriend (whom I live with) and what to do about this new girl?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been really good friends with this girl for over 5 years, and we slept together about a year ago and left it as that since we're at different universities, I had a girlfriend when I slept with her and now I don't have a girlfriend but she has a boyfriend who it seems she is not that bothered about, but I do really want to go out with her, but the different universities is holding me back and I don't know what to do. I have a year at university left and she had two, what should I do?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know what his problem is. He's been ignoring me since last night before he went to sleep. He woke up for a bit in the middle of the night to eat. I tried to talk to him but he was pissed at me. This morning I asked him what his problem was, if I ever did anything, he denied there was any problem but still continues to ignore me. I am so frustrated right now. We live together and we've been a couple for almost 2 years now. We usually never have issues or argue, we're a happy couple. I wish he would just tell me. I'm. So. Annoyed.\n\nWhat should I do? Should I talk to him until he blurts it out? Or should I also ignore him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So in about an hour will be the day that would have marked my (20F) would be 5 year anniversary with a guy (20M) I've basically loved since 7th grade...We're not currently together because I was his first...everything (relationship, first kiss, etc.) and we're both at different universities so he wants to see what else is out there. We still talk (message) occasionally, and he will tell me about his bad experiences with women and how he \"spent an hour on the roof appreciating [me] last night\", and other such things. I have faith that we will find our way to each other again, it just sucks that I have to deal with the uncertainty, the pain, the heartbreak, while it's so much easier for him because he was the one who wanted to call it quits. \n\n2 years later, I'm STILL grieving the loss of my relationship. Am I crazy for doing so? No other romantic experience has even come close to what I had with him, but he thinks it's too soon to get back together. Logically I agree, logistics aren't exactly favorable right now (different universities, don't know where we will be working after finishing up school, etc.). Emotionally, my heart just hurts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've known this girl for about two years now and have always had feelings for her. Two years ago I told her the way I felt about her and she told me she didn't reciprocate and I was okay with it at the time because she was pretty nice about it. After that for a few months she would become increasingly flirty so I thought maybe she liked me now but after a while I realised she was just leading me on. I decided to stop talking to her because the way she was treating me was pretty toxic to me. \n\nNow that was two years ago and every once in a while she will say hi to me (never me initiating conversation) and we would talk but then she would resume flirting with me and leading me on when I knew she had no interest in me so I would stop conversation again. I knew she had no interest in me because I saw her doing the same thing to quite a few other guys. \n\nFew weeks ago she started talking to me again and this time her flirting and what not increased by a lot (inviting me to her house and other things). My friend then told me that during the whole time she was flirting with me over the years she was actually in a relationship on and off with one of my friends who introduced me to her and was giving me advice during the whole time. I decided to stop talking to her because she wasn't worth the effort but she has always been a good friend to me. Did I do the right thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 26 yo male, she's 28. We've been dating for nearly a year. Our relationship's had its ups and downs, and I've been feeling more downs as of late. I feel like two out of three times we are together, there's a conflict or emotional escalation.\n\nMost recently, she came home from a day of running errands with my car, frustrated and tense. I'd made dinner for her, and we'd planned on going to the movies together. She was really short with me and impatient as I tried to get her to come unwind over the meal. As we were eating, I said it appeared we wouldn't have time to get to the movie. It'd been my idea to go, but she suddenly got super invested in going, and started trying to get me to rush, and got upset when she felt I wasn't moving fast enough. This escalated, and I ended up detaching from the situation and trying to just be there for her.\n\nI'm feeling like more of these situations happen, and the one I explain above, though minor, struck me as particularly chaotic. It felt like the situation escalated when there was no need for it. It's chaos that I can't use in my life. Other times, she's judgy of others, quick to find fault in her and my friends, will openly alienate people if she deems them unethical, and is often frustratingly needy/demanding of my time (I often feel like I can't say no to hanging out unless I have something specific and important scheduled).\n\nTalking to her today, I realize she doesn't see how these things stress me out. I try to express my misgivings, but she chalks them up to being due to us being very close, sensitive people who are attuned to one another's moods, that I'm focusing on the bad moments over the good ones. Trouble is, I can't think of a good moment in the last month or so, but I can name a dozen bad ones. \n\nI've never dumped someone, so I don't know when you know you should, and I don't know what to do when your s.o. will be fighting to keep you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I posted 6 weeks ago about training for a marathon despite having never run over 10 miles (although I've run almost my whole life 3-7 miles on average). My goal time was under 5:30 and I got a lot of flack and discouragement, but I completed it 2 days ago in under 5:20 and was quite pleased with the results. The maximum I ran before the marathon was 15 miles (2 weeks prior). As for the marathon itself, the most excruciating pain was in the joints since most of the run was on pavement/sidewalk. It was too bad because I had enough energy to run but I couldn't much towards the end because of the joint pain. The last 5 miles I walked/jogged through slowly and they ran out of energy chews/bananas, so that sucked. Was feeling cruddy and a fellow runner gave me some jelly beans (even though I'm allergic to corn, i.e. just skin reaction, I had no choice but to eat them and that helped out). But today, 2 days later I have almost no joint pain and only soreness in my back and thighs. I was never out of breath, no chaffing, no blisters, no injuries, wasn't too thirsty or hungry after. \n\nMay not be a spectacular time but all things considered I am quite happy since I beat the time I aimed for (and I was within 5 minutes of the time I expected I could get). Moving forward, I would like to improve my joints and the tendons around them to help absorb more of the shock. I had an excellent pair of asics which helped a lot too. The other runners were very supportive, weather was good, everything went swimmingly.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the story:\nIn December 2011, my wife and I made an offer on a home, which was eventually accepted. The home was a foreclosed property, owned by Aurora Mortgage Services. Closing date, dictated by the seller, was to be February 10th, 2012 (tomorrow). We fulfilled our end of agreement - provided earnest money deposit, secured financing, obtained insurance, and as far as we were concerned were ready for closing. As a matter of fact, title agency (again, dictated by the seller) contacted us and scheduled the time for the actual close. However, on Tuesday, February 7th, we were notified that Aurora has placed all of their assets on hold \"until further notice\", but that periodically, properties will be \"released from hold\" - whatever that might mean. \nI've done some research online and came up with [this blog] It appears that we are not the only ones currently dealing with this.\nSo now, our options are to file for an extension, or get our earnest money back and walk. By choosing the later option, we loose out on the inspection money, appraisal and cost of gas that had to be turned on for the said two things (all together around $1,000). We don't necessarily want to walk, because we like the house, but our current lease is set to expire next month. We have no indication that this will be resolved by that point.\nHas anyone ever experienced this while dealing with foreclosures? Has anyone ever dealt with Aurora?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really love my BF, but he told me something about his past a while back and I can't get over it.\n\nHis previous girlfriend cheated on him right after they started to live together. It's been several years since then, but he at first told me that they never had sex in the year they kept living together. Then he came out and told me they had sex everyday and he was high most of the time living with her, trying \"everything but meth\".\n\nI have gotten over it in some way by saying \"it was the drugs, it's not entirely his fault\". I am addicted to smoking and trying to quit, so I started vaping. I told him I didn't want him to do it too because it bothered me because I was worried he would do it as an escapist thing and it made me think about that past situation. I caught him doing it by the sound via skype and got really upset with him. He tells me I need to get over it, but gets jealous when I vape because a male friend gave me a unit (when I use his I hear the sound and get upset because I remember it). I just didn't want him to do it because I thought \"what happens if it's not enough\"? It would just be a gateway for him to do other things, and since he was previously using a lot of drugs I get really worried.\n\nI don't know if I am being too unreasonable. I just don't know how to get over it and it's killing me. I know it has nothing to do with me, but the fact that he was able to do something like that just drives me crazy. I don't know how to cope with this, but I do want to be with him. We are trying to have a longterm relationship and I have met all his family. I don't know if I am the fucked up one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this awesome chick since late June. The sexual chemistry is unbelievable. We are very open with our feelings, have the same sick sense of humor, and tend to both be athletic.\n\nSo the issue is that we have really lost ourselves. We both are addicted to hanging out with each other. We have both stopped or slowed down our workout regimen and gained weight. I think that the loss of our scheduled activities has caused us to both be a bit depressed.\n\nThe relationship has been moving quickly. She met my folks and I met her dad. We already say I love you to each other.\n\nShe has moments of distance that she attributes to missing her home and family. She has been in this city for about a year and has next to no friends. Im a bit of a workaholic and was a running addict before I met her, so I rarely see my friends.\n\nHere is the big one.. She wants to move back home, close to her family. She doesn't really the lack of her social network in this city and wants to be with her big circle back home.\n\nAfter the time I have spent with her, I think that this could potentially be someone that I could spend my life with. Ive dated around for a very long time. She certainly stands apart. I would move to be with her. She tells me that she wants me to move with her.\n\nThe moments of distance, when she is homesick, has kinda killed my self esteem. She says that as we hit new milestones, with out her understanding why, makes her miss home. She has mentioned that she wants to make a family close to home, so maybe that is it.\n\nI suggested a week without talking or texting, while she takes a trip home. That way we can both see where things lay. Did I make a mistake here? Was this a good idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "By June, I had lost about 30lbs and I was a size 14 and I thought I was looking good. I thought I was in \"normal girl\" range. By that I think I meant that people wouldn't term me as a \"fat girl\" and men wouldn't immediately remove me from their range of attractiveness. I wasn't done losing weight but I didn't think of myself as a fat person. cue Summer Romance. cue being rejected. cue believing that that rejection was connected to my size. One guy friend agreed with my diagnosis and another said (jokingly) that the idea of me and my crush together physically was gross to him because of our physical differences.\nI'm back to thinking of myself as a fat girl. No matter how fit I am, even at my target size I think I will always think of myself as a fat girl. On the one hand the only place this has affected me is romantically, so I'm certainly still an expressive, successful, functional person. But its still isolating.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hope I'm posting in the right place. There's a yard on my street I walk by every day on my way to class. Inside there's a pitbull-mix looking dog. It's a small yard, all cement. The dog is outside every day on my way to/from class and to/from the gym, and most of the rest of the time it seems. I live in North Philadelphia, not the nicest place, so I don't hang around the fence but every day as I pass, the dog is laying either on the pavement (Next to about 10 piles of it's droppings) or in this wooden shack looking dog house. Today the dog was sitting right along the fence. It's face was just droopy and miserable, it's eyes were blood red, and it seemed to have an abrasion/patch of fur missing on it's side/front leg. The last time I was this close to the dog, it barked at me. Today, it just stared blankly. I've been wondering what I can/should do all semester. Is there someone I can/should call? Should I mind my own business? In any other situation I'd have ZERO problem confronting someone about a case such as this (I'm a pretty decent sized guy) but as I said, I don't live in a great area and many of the locals here don't take kindly to students as it is. I've volunteered with PAWS (Philadelphia Animal Welfare Society) before so I imagine I might wanna start there.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with him for 7 months and when we first started dating my friends would make comments about how hot he is (not to him, but to me and to eachother) and I was okay with it then but I expected thrm to stop once things got serious, and they didn't. They still make comments about him all the time and it makes me uncomfortable, one of them even tries flirting with him sometimes. She also comments like little emoji things on his pictures on instagram. He doesn't flirt back or anything but it still pisses me off, a lot. How can I tell them I'm not okay with this without seeming like a bitch? I'm a passive person in general so I've never even mentioned that it bothers me, but it really like eats away at me and I want them to stop.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for almost 11 months. Lately, it seems like he's babying me and it makes me feel like he thinks I'm stupid. A lot of the time, it has to do with my car. I'll say something to him about something that's wrong (power steering is messed up right now, for example), and he'll tell me all these things about how dangerous it is and how I need to take it to a mechanic, and that he can do it for me at this time, blah blah blah. Another thing is with school. If I miss a class, he'll be sure to tell me to email the Professor... like I don't already know that... And with work. I haven't been getting many hours, and I was complaining to him, and he keeps telling me to threaten to quit if they don't give me more hours, etc.\n\nI'm getting pretty annoyed. I'm not stupid. I can take care of myself. Maybe it's just his way of showing he cares, but it's making me feel like he thinks I'm dumb or something... I don't know. Any advice on how to get him to stop? I don't want him to take it the wrong way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend (F 21) has left for a few months. So I won't be able to see her for a pretty long time. We've been together for 10 months now.\n\nOk so my problems start with Facebook. This girl randomly sends me a friend request. We have mutual friends so why not. So she messages me. She just says hi, blah blah blah. Then she asks me to download KIK. I go ahead and do that. The first thing she says is \n\"Hi there cutie :)\" \n\nThat was the first clue that she wanted something else. So we're still chatting. Then she throws this out there, \"are you all alone?\" Then \"do you wanna trade pics?\" I was thinking with my head down there instead of the one up top, and we ended up exchanging pictures. Nude ones. \n\nNow I just don't feel right. I know I shouldn't have done it. I regret it so much. But what I want to know, is do you think that this is cheating? There is no way we'll ever meet up and have sex or anything. They were only pictures. Please tell me what you think.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've just moved in with my SO of one year. I am very much in love and am very excited and happy to be living together. But I've found myself now worried about falling out of love and drifting apart and ultimately losing him down the road. Is this a normal reaction? To be honest it has kind of taken me by surprise. I'm not really sure what to think... I'm worried it may become a self-fulfilling prophecy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story very short, we've been ignoring each other for about a month now. No argument happened; I started ignoring him, he tried getting my attention for a few weeks, I texted him why I'm ignoring him, no text back, and then he started being incredibly awkward around me every time we see each other, and now we have both been ignoring each other. \n\nHowever, yesterday was interesting. He knew I was going to go to an event in an organization we're both in with relatively few others that will show up. He came anyways, and the entire time we ignored and barely looked at each other even though we sat right across from each other. However, I noticed that he would copy a decent amount of my actions. If I looked at my phone, he would either immediately look at his as well, or look at it a few seconds later. If I crossed my arms, he would too. If I had my hands resting under my chin, he would do the same thing or at least be touching his chin. But again we barely looked at each other.\n\nI've noticed other moments of mirroring the past month too, but what exactly does this mean? I've been researching online and it just says that mirroring implies that you're having a great convo or building a great bond... But we're ignoring each other.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (26m) am dating a (31f). We've been seeing each other for about two months now. It's clear, at least to me that we like one another and I've told her I want to move on to the next level and be in a relationship with her. Shw tells me that she's still not sure. One reason being that she wants a man who's ready to settle and succesful etc etc. I tell her that i understand and that for me its only a matter of time before i get to that part of life. We act like a couple. Do things couples do. Yet we arent an official couple...just exclusively dating. Im beginning to feel that this may be a wild goose chase. What are your thoughts? What would you do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I were sheltered virgins when we met. Not an excuse, but some background on why we are immature idiots. Anyway, we have had to rebel against our strict, narcissistic, critical parents (my mom, his dad) in order to be independent \"adults\". \n\nWell, we still don't know how to life and are learning the hard way... through painfully stupid mistakes. On New Years Eve, we were on our way to the bank to deposit $500 cash to pay the rent due the next day. One minute it was in his hand, the next it was gone. We went back to retrace our steps and saw a couple of lonely $20 bills drifting in the wind. We both had a good cry that afternoon. I got over it eventually since I figured we had JUST enough cash to make up the rent and pay additional bills too. Our bank accounts would be less than $5 for a bit but we'd manage til next paycheck. \n\nHe didn't take it as well. His dad was worse than my mom so my husband already suffers from low self-esteem, depression, etc. He's getting better, but after dropping our rent money he told me that he honestly just wanted to kill himself. Well he's better now, but I know it still haunts him.\n\nWell, yesterday it happened again. He had $60 cash that he took out and it's not in his pocket, not in his wallet, not in my purse. Again, he's really upset about it. I want to take it out of my account and tell him that I found it. Maybe it will make him feel better. But we never lie to each other about anything. We don't keep secrets and we tell the whole truth no matter how hurtful. I'm afraid that this white lie will be a stumbling block for more lies in the future.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've been looking into teaching English abroad, and I've been in contact with the company called Travel and Teach Recruiting. They've told me that to go abroad, I need to get an FBI background check. They gave me a link to the FBI webpage and told me to get back to them when I had gotten it taken care of. However, they didn't give me a fingerprint card and they never really explained to me what exactly I do. Well, I've been to the police station, and I've called the FBI, and they all said that this sounds suspicious. Apparently, companies almost always give you a card and detailed information. Without a card and certain information, I can't really get the check done. However, when I called the company, they just told me to try talking to the police again and that they should be able to help. So, I don't really know what to think. I haven't paid this company anything, so I don't think I'm getting scammed. But what they're telling me contradicts what everyone else is telling me. What do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: When I met this girl (at college) she had a long-distance, long-term boyfriend with whom she was in an open relationship. We started hooking up exclusively but had many ups and downs due to her not wanting to jeopardize her feelings for her boyfriend. Her interactions with me and her boyfriend are not the topic of discussion for today. They broke up this summer and after a long period spent getting over some associated guilt and hurt feelings, she and I agreed that we would try to be together this fall.\n\nIssue at hand: She feels that I hold a grudge against every person she's ever hooked up with other than me. This argument popped up because I brought up a one night stand she had this summer after her break up with her ex, me kind of overstating my jealousy of this hookup because I had \"existed\" at that point. I told her I disliked the idea of her kissing him or looking at him in the ways that we shared. It was all a little overstated maybe. She's a little upset over my reaction and I agree that what I said was possessive. \n\nWhat I think: I think that a lot of it may stem from insecurity about her feelings for me, given how we started off (just hooking up while she was in an open relationship), but I am afraid that I am possessive and that this will continue to be an issue for me in this relationship or future ones if I cannot correct it now and would like to hear your thoughts on possessiveness / how I can better avoid this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a throw-away, and as kind and respectful as you are Reddit, I want your honest opinions.\n\nOver the weekend, I ended up sleeping with two different girls within about a 14 hour period.\n\nThe first girl was early in the day, maybe 1-2pm. I was talking to her and asked her to come over and get lunch and make out. Her and I have sort of dating the last year. I say sort of because it has never been official, we've discussed it numerous times and never decided to make it exclusive. We have sort of a cutesy relationship in terms of how we act around each other, so it's not a clean pump and dump. She lives about an hour and a half away, and I see her maybe once a month if that. We're kind of on the tail-end of whatever it was we've been doing for the last year or so.\n\nThen later that night another girl called and asked to hang out. She has a thing for me, and I'm conflicted. She's cool, and a solid friend, but sometimes attractive to me, sometimes not. Everything was normal, and we watched a couple episodes of LOST, and then I told her I wanted to go to sleep (asleep sleep). Then jokingly asked her if she wanted to start drinking, somehow we ended up drinking, and 2 hours or so later, she told me she was tired and we needed to go lay-down. We have a slight history of hooking up. Like twice in a couple of months. Anyway, she obviously stayed the night, and we ended up sleeping together. How should I feel about myself for doing this?", "role": "user" } ]

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