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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for about a month or so.\n\nThe good about him: he's taken me out to dinner, parties, breakfast, etc. He texts me nearly every day. He seems to communicate well, he's told me that he is looking for a relationship and that he likes me, etc. He told me that he doesn't like to 'hook up' with girls, that he likes to take it 'one at a time.' He said he likes being in relationships.\n\nThe bad: the last time we hung out, he seemed disinterested. I felt like I was having to carry the conversation. He didn't actually say much at all during dinner, and we just went home and passed out. One time at a party, I saw him going downstairs with a girl. I followed, and they were hanging out with a bunch of people smoking weed. It got me suspicious. He hasn't mentioned anything about us getting exclusive since we last talked about it awhile back. He seems to party a lot. He doesn't really compliment.\n\nThe thing is, I like him, but I don't want to get hurt.\n\nAm I just being over-analytical or is this guy a douche that is just leading me on? Also, how would I tell him that I no longer want to see him? We just hung out the other night, and I acted like everything was fine and dandy. It was when I got home and thought about it that I second guessed this guy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok basically, I've started to notice that I have a lot of trouble dropping the little things. For example there was a girl a while back I was seeing and she kind of messed me about a bit, was rubbish at texting back, organising stuff, but usually when we were together it was amazing.\n\nAnyway, one weekend, I'd organised for us to go to the ballet and I was trying to make plans for what we were gonna do before/after and the day before I texted her asking what she fancied doing/what time she'd be free but didn't hear from her until 3 the following day, 2 hours before the ballet started. Anyway, she didn't really have any reason for not replying, nor did she really make much of an apology and it annoyed me. Consequently I couldn't really shake the feeling of being pissed off with her and so when we did meet up, I found it hard to act like I wanted to be with her. Kind of ruined the evening, and made things really awkward.\n\nSo I'm now seeing a new girl and I feel like this is going down a similar route. Not as bad, but I really don't want my hang-ups to be the downfall to this situation, I just don't know how to shake that feeling short of have a few drinks before I see her and that's probably not the best plan of action! Has anyone felt the same, or got any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I have been married for 3 years, and have known each other for much longer. We have one kid. Our relationship has been rocky for most of this time we've been together, but nothing worth breaking up for.\n\nShe's from a fairly religious family, while I have relatively humanist, agnostic inclinations and don't give religion nearly the same importance. She's always had a problem with this, but seems to have lost hope now, and wants to separate.\n\nMy family is important for me, and I don't feel these differences/problems are enough reason to ruin our lives and our kid's future. Any ideas for how to fix this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Can't believe I'm here again asking for advice..\n\nSo to make a (very) long story short: been v. good friends with a guy for 6 years, always a bit flirty. Both early 30s. Few months ago he admitted to having liked me all along, we didn't get together then, but after thinking about him more and more, and me realizing a few things, we got together last month. Background story is actually [here] for anyone interested.\n\nWe never had a talk about what was happening, or where this was going, I just assumed we were going to start getting closer, and things would naturally move forward. Unfortunately, I don't live in the same city as him right now, and the distance situation wasn't clarified at all, so we naturally went back to the normal way and amount of communicating from when we were just friends. Which means we talk about 4 times a week, sometimes every day, but there's never any \"i miss you\" or any conversation that wouldn't take place if we were just friends. It's 100% exactly as it was before we ever got together.\n\nNow cue to today. For years we have always spent new years' eve with these friends who live abroad, and this year the plan was the same. I didn't even think much about it, I just booked my flight as usual, assuming he was too and we were just going to meet there. Well he just told me he's not going, he's been promoted in work and is stressed out and traveling was \"just going to be more stress\"... Wtf? \n\nI said I was looking forward to spending time with him, and he just replied \"you're sweet\". And that was that.\n\nNow, I know we don't have an actual relationship and that means I can't really push and ask him about it without sounding crazy. But I'm sad, does this mean there's nothing going on? We were only together a couple of weekends in the last month, so in normal circumstances that would be totally too soon to be asking where I stand, which is why I'd really feel silly if I had to be forcing that conversation.\n\nSo, RA: thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night I was at the bar around when all the older guys start rolling in after work. I sat next to an interesting guy and turned out he liked to talk (As most older guys do to us strapping young lads.) Let's call him Greg\n\nGreg eventually told me a story about when he lived in Nashville on some river or other body of water that had a power plant of some sort also located on it. Apparently there was a tugboat that was used to lug coal by water to the power plant. \nOne night he was drunk with his friends and as they saw the tugboat approaching he grabbed his golf clubs and a large number of balls. It was about 1 am on a weekday so they couldn't have been spotted by the boat. They all start whacking balls out towards the boat with no avail but eventually he said that he layed one out with a 3 wood and knew that he had hit the boat. Seconds after he hit the ball the tugboat layed on it's horn for a good five seconds as he described.\n\nNow at 1 am this is obviously ridiculous and there wouldn't have been any other reason to do so unless it was the ball that hit the boat...\n\nFast forward a year and Gregs in a new bar that his friends just opened and had been open for about 2 weeks. After work one day Greg described that some random guy sat next to him and it turned out to be none other than the tugboat driver and owner... After describing where he lived the owner told the story about the golf ball coming from the area where Greg had described and how he had \"got the bastards back by laying on his horn for a good 5 seconds.\" Apparantly Greg had told this story at the bar recently and all the other regulars who hadn't believed him had all eyes on Greg and about to crack up. Greg described that he remembered that night and how the horn had woken him up and it was a bitch considering he had to wake up at 4:30 to go to work the next day. Feeling a little guilty the owner bought Greg a beer and merrily went on his way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off let me just get it out of the way, I know it's a large age difference but it has never been an issue. \n\n We've been together for 7 years, married for 5 but have known each other for about 10. We both work and I am going back to school. \n\nWhen we first met/got together he was a manager at a movie theatre and going back to school. Since then he's graduated and is no longer at the theatre. The problem is, he isn't doing anything with his diploma, and is now working at a pizza place. He previously attempted to re-enlist in the military and join the police force but was unable to do either due to medical issues he sustained during his first enlistment. \n\nThis has never bothered me until recently, he was working so I didn't really care. But I've realized it annoys me that he seems to have zero ambition (I don't know if that's the right word), or drive to do more. \n\nThis is truly the only issue in our relationship and I have no idea how to bring this up without it coming off like I'm calling him a bum. I've brought it up once before and he seemed embarrassed and said he's looking for something better, I think the fact that his medical issues are holding him back bothers him more than he will admit. We have talked to his doctor about possible depression but we're told he was fine and doesn't have it, then again it's the VA, so who knows.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It literally just happened 5 minutes ago. I don't feel good.\nA bit of backstory here. Sometimes while staying up late I would need to use the bathroom. My parents always grill me about why I'm using the bathroom and get super suspicious of what I'm doing every time and it gets on my nerves, so I turned to the ever so elegant solution of using ziplock bags to piss it, sealing them and pouring the piss out next morning down the drain and throwing the bag away. Efficient? No. Unethical? Yes. One night (the night of this post) I needed to use the bathroom. Now next to my bed is a little cardboard storage box filled with things like magazines, books, hats and you guessed it, empty ziplock bags. Now I was being a cheap ass so it was filled with old ziplock bags because the day prior, I was exchanging coins at the local coinstar machine and I like my coins sorted. Anyways I pulled out my plastic bag and began to piss in it. When finished, I would put the bag on the other side of the bed, just incase people walk in and see a bag of piss. Not the best sight. I was moving it over my bed and I felt something warm. At first I thought it was just the piss or something and then I realized a wet sensation on my body and could finally hear dripping noises. Turns out the bag had a small hole in it. So I was panicking, piss being sloshed all over my bed, floor and of course, me, when I managed to stuff the piss filled plastic bag into another ziplock bag. When moving it over again, I realized that same wet-warm feeling. Turns out, THIS bag had a hole as well. More piss everywhere. Yay. After finding a bag that DIDN'T have a hole and putting the first and second bag in there, my bed looked and felt as if I pissed my self and my floor looked as if I took a water gun and went Rambo. My upper body was also covered in piss as well. I'm going to clean this mess up in the morning and just sleep in my desk chair.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend had booked two holidays to go away with her friends one to magaluf and one to kavos. Initally i was fine with this as she had booked them before i had known her.\n\nThe first couple of days she had went away on the first holiday it was great, she would call me while her and her friends were getting ready and keep me up to date with how it was going and some funny storys here and there but then after a few nights it died. and me being somewhat clingy i was trying to text her still and got all wound up because i wasnt getting a reply. We'd normally text each other what we called 'cute texts' where we'd basically say how much we miss each other and cant wait too see eachother etc.\n\nshe came back for 2 days before she went on another holiday and so she invited me round hers for one. She was very tired and snappy and did not have a lot of patience. She can normally take good banter and i was just acting like normal and winding her up but i was called an asshole and she slept for most of the night.\n\nI shouldnt of probably went round but she then went away on the other holiday. The only regular contact we had was us trying to keep our snapchat streak going... which consisted of a blank picture of whatever was infront of us and no real conversations.\n\nive told her i missed her a couple of times and rung her once but yesterday i sent her a snapchat saying \"miss you xx\" and she replied with \"stopit xx\". she seems to becoming ever more frustrated with me and i really miss the girl.\n\n Ive talked to a couple of friends that have told me to dump her due to her not seeing it from your point of view and others are saying wait to see how she acts when she comes back.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a relationship with my best friend for 3 years. And now we aren't sure how to proceed.\n\nCurrently, we just finished college in May, and have not been able to see each other (hardly) at all. The biggest problem is that our hours are opposite. She works from at least 5pm to 11pm, Tuesday - Sunday w/ doubles on weekends, and I work an 8-5 M-F job.\n\nThis might be surmountable, but she has a serious anxiety complication. While I can help her with it when we're together, being unable to communicate really makes it harder on her. Add that to the fact that our intimacy has been flagging, and we're scared that we should break it off. \n\nHowever, we still really care for each other and don't want to lose our best friend.\n\n-----\n\nThat's where the complications happen, and where I'm requesting advice.\n\nIf we break it off, we put ourselves in the position of finding other people. That means we can easily hurt each other more, or even hurt the people we are with (like if we aren't fully broken up, or if we decide to get back together with each other instead of the others). If we don't break it off, then we (she especially) feel like we can't know whether we are right for each other, or if we will be able to stick through tough times in the future if we do end up together.\n\n------\n\nI know you can't tell me the \"right\" thing to do, but I was hoping you could give me your opinions. We've just run this topic ragged in circles, and it isn't helping either of us feel any better about our position. I really just want to hear some things we may not have considered.\n\nI'll be happy to provide more description in the comments, but I wanted to keep it short and simple for you. I'll also tell her about this so she can add to it if she wants. Her username is llamaears.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I made this a new post but if you look at my post history, you'll see that it's kind of an ongoing issue. The backstory is that I'm dating a guy with two young kids, his marriage ended around three months ago and he has slept around a fair bit since then. \n\nWe had agreed to be \"exclusive\" and I had asked him to delete tinder off his phone and he did. But I know that he slept with at least one of the women who he hangs around with regularly since his divorce. Like they were friends beforehand, then the divorce happened and they slept together, and now they are hanging out \"just as friends.\" I don't think he's lying but it makes me uneasy. I work nights most of the time so I'll hang out at his house until like 10PM, and then he'll tell me this girl is coming over after I leave. It's hard not to worry because he is obviously attracted to her (since they slept together). I told him that it makes me uncomfortable but he says they're just friends, so I don't want to nag him about it anymore, I hate being that type of person. \n\nBesides that everything has been going really good for us. Dating him is like a dream come true and we're having a lot of fun together. He has child care now so we've been able to go on a couple actual dates and they've gone great. We talk about what we want in the future and our plans line up. \n\nOne other potential red flag is he doesn't want to tell his family and friends that he's dating. He's worried they will go off on him for it being too soon after his separation. He doesn't treat us being together like a big secret, like we still go out in public and everything but it still makes me feel weird.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi /r/relationships, I'm new to reddit, I'm a 20yo student in an engineering school, and I'm pretty shy/introvert/whatever makes you uncomfortable with girls.\n\nAs you may know, the percentage of girls in engineering schools is very low and it makes it harder for guys to get closer with a girl... \n\nSo here is the story (and I'm sorry for my english, which is not my native language): some students from medical schools get the chance to spend one or 2 years in our school, and they follow the same courses as us (me included). One of these students is a cute girl which follows the same courses as I do 2 days a week. As a shy guy, and because I assume I wont get a gf in my school due to the unbalanced ratio I talked about, I havent talked to her at all until 2 weeks ago. I asked her if I could borrow her lessons because I have missed some courses, she answered me nicely, saying she could give me her courses even if her handwirting was bad etc... Then she asked for my phone number, where it was not essential as she would have put her courses in my locker and I would give it back to here on next course.\n\nSo she first texted me the day after, saying I could ask her if I had any problem understanding what she wrote or whatever, and texted me again the nest day to be sure I found her courses in my locker and that I could ask if I had troubles blablabla\n\nNext course, I give the courses back to her, and she starts asking me how I plan my holidays and stuff, she was quite adorable with me imo haha\n\nNow it's been a week of holidays and I will see her again on monday.\nSo this is simple, I don't know if she might be interested in me, but I am in her and I have no clue of what to do next, except that I must be confident about myself ( this doesnt explain what to do next btw).\nI am pretty good looking but I dont know if she's out of my league or something..\n\nFeel welcome to comment :)\nThanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm kind of a unique situation... 30 years old never had a gf, never done anything sexual, just recently started online dating. (Reason for my lack of experience is being extremely shy, low self esteem) Reason I've started online dating is an attempt to salvage what's left of my life.. figured even though I wasted so much of my life at this point there's no reason I should just die as a lonely virgin, so i decided to at least TRY.\n\nAfter about ~5 or so weeks I've met two girls so far, got at least one more to meet in the near future. Problem is, I am a bit awkward (Ok, I am a lot awkward.) I feel like I do not \"click\" with anyone, and would not really know how to flirt, etc. Question is this: how important/real is this \"chemistry\" thing? If I don't feel anything, is it possible to develop these feelings over time?\n\nIn other words, should I force the relationship forward just because I so desperately want one? Or should I move on when I don't detect this \"chemistry\" thing, and have the gross audacity to actually turn down an attractive female when I'm a 30 year old desperate virgin?\n\nDating and relationships are just so alien to me and I have no idea what I'm doing or how to even interact with the opposite sex. At times I feel I'm being irresponsible even trying, and I have no right to date anyone :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He has a history of flirting with other girls and I'm not too sure if he physically cheated on me in the past, or if it was just flirtations and nudes via the internet. Today he lied about where he was going, and didn't want me to come along. I peeked at his phone because it makes a neat water dribbling look when you touch it so i was playing around doing that, when it opened to a text msg from a girl, saying they were going to meet. I am not sure if he just didn't tell me because he thought I'd over react if he hung out with a girl? Or if he was going for other intentions. He first asked if he was going to go over to her house, then they decided to meet somewhere else.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /r/relationships,\n\nHere is my situation, I have recently entered a relationship for the first time since high school (some might say my first ever). After being single for basically my entire life I am kind of having trouble getting out of the single mindset.\n\nI really like my girlfriend, she has similar interests, very attractive, good major in college, the sex is really good, and we laugh a lot. Still with all of this I find myself taken aback when I realize I can't pursue other girls.\n\nI haven't had any slips so far, and I am trying really hard to not view other girls in a sexual way, but it can be quite hard when they start flirting with me.\n\nSo my question is, how can I work towards being comfortable being in a relationship? I want to give this thing my best shot, since I think we are really good together.\n\nThanks!\nfiscal_tiger", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off, I haven't known this girl for that long. I asked her to prom and she said yes and we have been texting and snap chatting, but I can't tell if she likes me or is just dealing with me.\n\nShes told her friends that I'm cute and my friends hooked me up with her. Her snapchatts are usually half of her face or her w/ her friends. She also sent me a snap chat of her in the bath today (just legs). Through text she asks me a lot of questing and used plenty of emojis. She hasn't responded to my snapchat for 4 hours now, which is unusual, but I think I'm overthinking that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit of backstory:\n\nMy longest relationship (~2 years) ended about 2 years ago, and not well. It messed me up for awhile, but for the past year or so, I've really enjoyed being single. I'm a senior in college, and after my internship I plan to travel anywhere and everywhere that I can, which is a big reason why I picked the major I did. \n\nMy boyfriend also had a bad relationship that ended a few years ago. This sent him into a whirlwind of drug abuse and depression that he came out of last year. He's never been to college, never moved out of his parents' house, and does not own a car. He's a great person. Really sweet, caring, loving, etc. \n\nHe contacted me on Facebook at the beginning of the year, but we never got too serious about talking because we lived in different cities. Around the beginning of the summer, we both attended this music festival (with separate groups, although we had hung out a few times prior) and we hit it off. Inseparable ever since. \n\nWe live pretty far apart, and without him having a car, this gets frustrating. I didn't really mind, but as far as I know, he has no money saved towards buying one and although he is appreciative of me driving always.. I feel like this is something he should take upon himself. \n\nThat isn't the big issue, however. The bigger issue is that lately, everything I say, he gets offended by. I'm really not attracted to sensitive men, and I have a pretty rude sense of humor. On many more than a few occasions, he has become hostile/offended by something that I said out of complete innocent humor. Also, he gets very offended when I correct/disagree with him. He has know-it-all tendencies, as do I, but I'd like to think that I can admit when I'm wrong, or at least accept it.\n\nKeep in mind, he's a really great guy, otherwise. Not that these qualities are deal-breakers, but since I've never really been in a healthy relationship, I'm not sure if they're red flags or not.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been long distance after almost a year of being together. Once we began long distance the relationship became ten times harder and I began to question myself if I could do this. \n\nThis led to many many fights and every single one hurt my girlfriend more and more until last night when I poured my heart and realized so many things about myself, I realized how selfish I was to her. But it was too late, she said that she was just too hurt and couldn't be with me anymore. \n\nThis broke my heart because the only person to blame is myself. I told her I'd wait and I'd have to prove to her that I am going to do this. I don't want to go out on weekends, I don't want to and meet women all I want to do is get on Skype lay in bed and read to her until she falls asleep. Why the fuck couldn't I have just done that before without pushing her away so far away. I was just so insecure about our relationship while she was just so sure about her feelings and about herself. I felt like she was falling from a cliff and I couldn't grab and pull her back.\n\nI want to make her feel loved, every single day and every single second I'm not around. I'm not here to ask how to get her back. I'm here to ask how can I better myself and finally become a man. I want to become a man to make her feel safe at all times, to never be afraid of me and she always has someone to go to. She said I was supposed to be her person and as much as it breaks both our hearts, I wasn't. I want to be her person and her man. Not her boyfriend anymore.\n\nHow can I better myself for the good of our relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short -- We dated for about a year and 1/2 I moved for my job we couldn't handle the distance and we end our relationship. Months go by, I see him Friday night and he is very poliet and nice and after we started drinking he started pouring his heart out to me. The next day he calls me twice in the morning and I missed the calls, try to call him back. Doesnt answer, wait a few days, send him a long message, and it said he read it, and has still said nothing. Should I pretend like it never happen?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This isn't too long or complex, just curious is all. There's a girl I've known for a few years through an event we do. She's cute, shorty, has always had a thing for me. We flirt on snapchat and send sexy texts and pictures. Typical shit, we live several hours away from one another, are both busy working and she's told me flat out she doesn't want a serious thing.\n\nWell this morning instead of her replying to me, her dad did :D! Said I was a \"coward,\" that I \"didn't love her,\" that I wasn't man enough to take her to lunch (???), all I wanted was sex (all true accusations, I assure you all). \n\nIn any other situation I'd kind of just laugh and move on. There's not much negotiating to do here. But I know her family well enough, we've all worked together, I enjoy them in the brief spurts I've associated with them, and it would make going to this event in the future slightly strained, but not otherwise uncomfortable. \n\nIt's strange to me that he's looking through his 21 year old daughter's phone, but I digress because who knows how protective I'd feel of my daughter? It's not my place to say if he was out of line, because it really doesn't matter. I'm not really offended this happened. In fact, I'm literally just now remembering she mentioned something like this happened before!\n\nAnyway, I guess I'm wondering how, or if, I should respond to all of this. Do I apologize? I'm not particularly remorseful, but I guess I'm sorry he saw something he didn't like. I feel like no matter how I answer paints her in a light he'd find unflattering, which is more unfair to her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My story: I was going to visit my great grandfather for a birthday dinner it was two weeks past my birthday I do not remember why. He was 90 and very active would walk every day about a mile. We pull up in front of his house and grab groceries as usual. I had this weird sense that something was not quite right and sort of knew that this was the last of something it was eerie. Walking into the house we heard him calling for help he had fallen or something. Calling the paramedics he was resuscitated and taken to the hospital about 3 hours later he was gone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am on vacation at the beach with some friends. We are staying at a house who was rented by 9 of us, including me. All the people staying at this house - guys and girls - are from my hometown. \nAnd so in another house there are four guys I met at the university and two of them are my close friends. They will show up everyday at the house I am staying at and invite us to have meals and some beers together, but it seems to not be reciprocal. \nThe people at the house I am at clearly show no interest in relating to the guys, for no apparent reason, and so I don't know what to do because I want to hang out with all of them - and it makes me very sad to care about friends who seems just to \"not like some kind of people\" very much. \nWhat should I do, reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I am a 17 year old guy in junior year of highschool, and the other day I might have done something not all that great. I have this friend named (lets call her Patrice) who has this really shitty boyfriend(lets call him Doug) who has forced her to do some really terrible things, for instance he forced her to suck his dick, and when she asked to stop, he told her to shut up and consistently sends dick pics to other girls. To further add details on this, she's extremely dependant on him and fears to be alone which is why she hasn't ended up breaking up with her. So, anyways, my friends have been trying to hook me up with her because they want her to stop dating him, I didn't really know much about her except for that she is really fucking hot, so of course I agreed. I invited a bunch of friends over to my house to have a party. Most of them didn't end up coming, but Patrice did. We were chatting it up, until I made the grave mistake of asking her to make out (don't judge me i'm an idiot). She was hesitant, but looked at her friend for confirmation. She, the friend, said its fine, which then led up to Patrice saying don't tell Doug (I don't really know the name suits him), so we made out. Afterwards, she felt really guilty because she still thought that she still loved him even with all the things he has done. My friends still want me to go out with her, but I don't really know how to approach it. Any advice would be great.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently my GF of 6 months broke up with me out of the blue. We have been working together in the same department of a company for about a year now. After about a week of being uncharacteristically distant towards me she said she \"thinks we were only supposed to meet each other and learn from one another\" and that she \"feels like we should just be friends\". I told her I couldn't just be her friend, not at this point at least, because I see her as more than that and it would be unfair to both of us at this time. I want to get over her and do as much NC as possible, but I work anywhere from 10 to 40 hours a week with her and both of us are comfortable with our jobs. To make it a little worse she is good friends with a lot of my family and contacts them frequently. She is adamant that we are never getting back together. Any advice on how to cope with this situation especially while at work?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet.\n\nPreviously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. \n\nHe's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations.\n\nI come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So long story short, I was mildly overweight before I began college, and although I don't have a scale to weigh myself on, I know that I have gained even more weight since I've been here (jeans are too tight, I went up a tshirt size, etc.) I want/need to lose roughly 15-30 pounds.\n\nI've been trying to eat healthy and exercise regularly, but it's so difficult in college. I have to eat lunch and dinner every day in our cafeteria, which is buffet style. They have lots of options like burgers, ice cream, and Chickfila, but very limited healthy foods (plus it's not helpful that I really, really hate salad). \n\nI have a minifridge and can go to the store to buy food, but of course I don't have much money. I buy fruits and veggies to snack on, but I can't afford to be buying lots of meals for myself to eat. Plus, I'm limited in my options since I can only cook things in a microwave.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I go to a very prestigious college, and \"have so much potential\" as many people say. I hope to become a doctor one day. My boyfriend however, was kicked out of his college at the age of 22. We met as he was working to save money for college and I had just graduated from highschool. He now goes to another college, but recently failed a class. This will put him off from graduating a whole year again. So that by the time he graduates, if he even does, he will be 26.\n\nIt concerns me that this is the second time he has messed up. He lacks motivation to do his work. I love him so much. He tells me we need to end this because I deserve better. But I can't imagine my life without him. He will not be able to take classes this spring semester, and we don't really know what he is going to do. He might go and frack for a bit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit I need some advice. My gf of 3 months and best friend of over a year finally broke up with me today after being massively distant for a while. I saw it coming and have had time to make my peace with it, but I'm still into her.\n\nThe thing is, she still likes me (in that way) and has said so many times. She's admitted to me that she just can't deal with anything right now, and hates hurting me. I told her over and over that I will wait for her and how I feel about her. She said she feels the same but just needs to be alone. \n\nAnd before I come off like a creeper, I made sure to give her plenty of chances to tell me if I was the problem or if she didn't like me that way, and that I would leave her alone.\n\nShe's admitted to me that she is never hungry and always tired, but can't sleep and is sick of feeling terrible all the time. This has been going on for a month and a half, and she's had bouts before. \n\nI told her I thought it may be depression, and she agreed. I tried to convince her, without pressuring, to seek help, as we both know it's a chemical as well as physical problem. I told her it's not her fault and that I still wanted to be with her and help her through it.\n\nShe still broke up with me, so I told her I wouldn't text or call, but that she absolutely shouldn't hesitate to contact me and that I'll always be there for her. I'll honour that, but I'm worried about her, and I'm pretty sure I'm the only one she has told. Is there anything I can do to help her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\nI have a problem. Basically, I am thinking of going back to school. I'm 23years old and have already graduated from a 3yr program (Computer Programmer Analyst program, got me an adv.diploma. I'm in Canada, this came from a college. It's roughly equivalent to a bachelors... I said roughly).\n\nMy issue is, I don't really know what to go back for =/ Like, I have ideas but I can't see any practical use out of them. For example, I would love to go back for theological studies (World religions to be specific, I just love religion and the history and mytho) but I can't think of anything I could do with this other than become a teacher... Which is fine, but... That's the best I can come up with as an outcome. I'd be interested in doing journalism but... There's already a bunch of journalists and all that... Media studies essentially I guess... But again, I don't know really what I could do with that stuff...\n\nThere's other things I'm interested in, but I just can't figure shit out, so help me reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone, first off, sorry for the vague title, I suck at titles apparently, let's hope I don't suck at typing the rest ;)\n\nObligatory mobile/non native sentence.\n\nLong story short, I have/had a very good friend (25f), we had a very good bond but for the past few weeks we had a falling out. \n\nThe problem however is that she is in a bad situation with someone else, her dancing teacher, whom she had an argument with. \nI know her teacher personally as well, so I know every detail of the situation since a few days (before that I wasn't really digging into their problem but it came up in a conversation).\n\nNow the thing is, I know what to say to both of them so that they can resolve their problem, something I know will make my friend a lot happier. \n\nHowever, I know she won't like me (or anyone for that matter) interfering with her life and chances are she won't react positive towards me nomatter the outcome.\n\nSo what do you guys think I should do?\n\nOption A is I keep completely out of it, nothing changes.\n\nOption B is I do what is necessary for them to fix their problem.\n\nHonestly I care more for her being happy (dancing is a BIG thing for her) then her being pissed at me, hell, I'd see it as an heroic sacrifice, she'll hate me but her she can go back and do something she loves.\n\nSo I'm leaning towards B, get myself involved, fix this for her, nomatter the fallout. \n\nSo people, advice please, are you going to talk me into it or out of it?\n\nCheers!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's the deal, I'm a 20 year old closeted gay guy. I'm 100% sure I'm gay, and have been with a bunch of guys. I met this girl in high school around 4 years ago, and we've been extremely close friends ever since. Nothing remotely sexual ever happened between us because I honestly was very uninterested. \n\nI was very happy with the way our friendship was going, we talked a lot, texted a lot, hung out almost at least once a week since we met, but nothing sexual at all. Keep in mind she has no idea I'm gay, no one does. Lately, I've been having weird thoughts about her. I've never felt like this towards any other girl in my life ever before, It's not the crazy blinding sexual attraction I feel for guys, but I'm definitely attracted to her, and I'm very much in love. I can easily see myself giving up the idea of being gay (and all of its fun and pleasure) to be with her and to make her happy.\n\n I get very jealous when I sense a guy flirting with her, and I think she's starting to sense it. A lot of our mutual friends know that there's some tension between us, and I've been asked a lot by many people if there's anything going on between us.\n\nI'm relatively attractive, have no problems attracting guys at all, and so is she. It's crazy how much we think alike, and how close we've become without having anything sexual. I'm really confused as to why I'm having all these feelings, and I don't really know what to do. She's the most wonderful person I've ever known, and I have so many conflicting thoughts going on in my head, nothing is clear and I'm completely lost. \n\nWhy do I feel the way I do towards her? Why can't I just learn how to be straight and live my life being happy with her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been friends with P [26f] for about 5 years, she's been with her boyfriend J [27M] for 7 years. \n\nRecently she told me she's developed a crush on a guy she works with, G [31m]. At first I thought it was harmless, she just talked about how she thought he was cute and got nervous around him, I understand what that's like so I didn't think anything of it. However recently she's become better friends with him and they talk quite frequently, chatting at work, texting outside of work, and when we get drunk she will text him. Always something innocuous as far as she's told me, just asking what he's up to and joking about things they talk about at work. She revealed to me that they each lied to their coworkers so that they could have lunch together alone recently.\n\nI'm good friends with P and J, they are also good friends of my boyfriend of 6 years, M [25M]. I understand develop a physical attraction to someone else in a LT relationship, and I certainly don't fault her for that. I just think having secret lunches and drunk texting is starting to get into a grey area, I told her that I don't like where it's headed and she should cut down on the time she spends with him and how much they talk. \n\nShould I bring this up with her to again to emphasize how I feel? Do I owe it to J to say anything if she won't stop? I haven't told my boyfriend either since at first it was just girl talk about how there's a cute guy at her office, but now I feel like I'm keeping a big secret from him that affects our friend group. I know that I am loyal to a fault with my friends and she is one of my dearest friends so I'm torn. M is very good at being logical and unbiased, should I confide in him so he can help me decide what's the right thing to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This ones pretty self explanatory. Best friend/roommate and I have been living together for 2 years. Her chewing has always annoyed me but I've never said anything, but recently a few friends commented behind her back that her chewing was annoying. She has talked before about being a mouth breather, meaning that it's easier for her to breathe through her mouth than her nose, which is probably why she chews with her mouth open. \n\nI've held off for so long, but I felt kinda bad for her when some friends said her chewing annoyed them. I started to wonder if it might be easier for her to hear it from me than, say, some guy who's dumping her after a few dates or something because her chewing is a turn off. (I know, that's a more extremes situation that's not likely to happen but you know what I mean.) she's a pretty sensitive girl and I don't want her to feel bad. so... Should I say anything? Should I just ignore it like I've been doing? Thanks guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys,\n\nNot sure if this is the right place for this, but I feel like posting here would bring a few helpful responses so here goes...\n\nMy sister is now 25 and has basically had the same routine since she started working full time 5 years ago. She works as a chef and because of that she gets odd days off which affect her very small and very limited social life. She mostly lounges around the house watching tv and not doing much of anything and she doesn't seem to want to change it.\n\nNow I have to mention that me and her both share a handful of learning disabilities with a couple of differences, but the major ones affecting our lives would be a difficulty to communicate our thoughts and feelings accurately and the fact that we're both pretty slow thinkers. Processing information and then figuring out the proper course of action takes a while and can be easily disrupted due to horrible attention spans which makes many ordinary tasks very difficult and intimidating. Currently, her way of life is really taking a toll on the whole family (Me, my mother and father) because we all want her to not just become a slave to this unhealthy routine.\n\nThere's a lot more to this, but this is already a fairly long post so I'll try and sum things up quickly.\n\nI'm pretty sure she's depressed, so I'm going to ask her if she wants to talk to a therapist or some sort of professional, but I don't want to intimidate her into becoming reclusive about the subject. So my question is, how can I bring this idea up to her and also what else can I do to try and help her out?\n\nIt really makes me sad to see her like this. So any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Also any other subreddits that you know of that may be of help would be good to know too.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello. \n\nI moved and tried to sign up for internet. I called and it turns out the former residents have internet service here still. Then it turns out it is a bulk account for the building (so maybe it was that and not the former residents, idk) and I need to contact someone else. I didn't contact \"someone else\" yet. I set up the router and \"receiving\" is blinking. In the connection status I am sending and receiving many bytes. Everything looks good, except for the \"no internet access\" part (also \"sending\" light is off on the router). During the setup it says my ISP may need my MAC address. I assume this is the problem. But I don't really know. I'm on a different connection, the one I am trying to use won't connect.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "to start off and give context I work got a seasonal job at a big amusement park chain of which I wont name for privacy purposes. as an employee we get free tickets and passes. one of the rules that come along with them are that we are only allowed to give them away and not sell them. well on Facebook i tried to see how many people who i don't regularly talk to would suddenly want to be my best friend when i offered to sell these passes at a discount rate. after a few hours of it being up and getting the results i was expecting i deleted the post. \n\ntoday i was called into the security office of my job and they interviewed me in a small room for about a 1/2 hour before telling me that i was suspended and would be under investigation. kept my cool because i did nothing wrong and never actually sold them but still it means less hours this week and a smaller pay check", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for 8 months now, in a long distance relationship for 4-5 months, with ups and downs but we love each other. \nIn september I'll be moving from my current place for university and she wants me to go to the university of her city. \nI'd like to live with her, but a few things are tearing me apart : first of all, she lives in a small city (150.000 inhabitants) where the weather is shitty 24/7 and there is not a lot of things to do. This city also is 600km away from where our parents and friends lives. Finally I'm not really sure if I (we ?) can live together 7 days a week for a year at least.\nWhat I fear the most is being in this city that I don't really like for years for uni if things turns bad, but I feel like she would feel betrayed if I don't jump on the opportunity to close the distance.\nWhat do you guys think ?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had trust/insecurity/emotional issues in past relationships and now I'm getting them again with my current boyfriend (we've been together for about 6 months now). I can see that my insecurities stem from self esteem/worth issues... I'm really embarrassed about this, but I'm way to dependent on my SO's. I don't have a good number of real friends to begin with, so I become extra attached. I don't like this so I've been trying hard since my first break-up to build my confidence and independence, and I have improved a lot, but I'm still not exactly where I need to be. I still crave assurance and a \"need to be needed\" from my current BF. Sometimes when I get emotional, he says things that make me feel assured, so I think it's conditioning me to be more emotional... We've been on a roller coaster ride in the past twoish months, and I'm realizing this, and I decided to take that hard step and ask for a break so that I can try to work on myself a little more. However, he said that he thinks I'm gonna use this time to \"f* around\" and he's getting trust issues...\n\nI don't understand why he's saying he thinks I'm gonna f* around... Are we both being immature? What's going on? I would like a third person to give me any opinion on what's going on between us right now. And also, how can I work on my insecurity issue without quitting on our relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a serious question, not a troll. I've completed a stage of therapy, and my lesbian therapist has informed me I am not really lesbian or even that strongly bisexual, but instead I am emotionally unavailable. She says I kept attracting gay and bisexual men because it was a way of telling and proving to myself I was open to dating men while also remaining safe. She also said I tend to see relationships and men in very dire, pessimistic terms (she's correct), and am not yet open to seeing them positively.\n\nTherapist wants to begin the next stage with me and calls it healing my emotional unavailability. \n\nI'm pretty scared and feel like it's worthless to even try. Yep, I was completely over attracting gay guy after gay guy after mind game player after misogynist over psycho after headcase, but I feel \"healing\" this unavailability will just make me open to even worse exploitation. So far I've experienced heterosexual men as brute, primitive, stupid, sex-obsessed oafs who prefer throwing a sports ball to interacting with women and see us only as dolls and toys -- or obsessive stalky maniacs who want to suffocate, smother and use women. I know this is not healthy and not true.\n\nIf it's in you, Reddit, please in a serious, hopefully somewhat compassionate way list some ways heterosexual men are of value to heterosexual women. I'll use these lists to work on my intellectual resistance to healing. Right now I don't see any connection between women and men at all, I see no value whatsoever to men except as business partners and buddies, and I see marriage and other types of heterosexual relationships as women-exploitative.\n\n(And yeah, I know you'll see the opposite as just as horrible, but please skip those kinds of answers right now. I'll just use those as fuel to further hate men.)\n\nInstead I want to see true ways men can be of value to women, so that when my resistance comes up in therapy over the next months I have a ready list I can confront my misandrist inner voice with. For all compassionate, serious responses, REAL GRATITUDE.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We broke up a little less than two weeks ago. Although the breakup was amicable, it was one sided and I was hurt at the time. I deleted him and all pics of us together. I wasn't thinking, I was just being rash. That was far from what I wanted to do. I don't want to send the message that I wanted to cut him out of my life. \n\nWell, he noticed it and bought it up during our last interaction. I explained to him why and said I regretted it immediately after and he simply said to add him back on when I'm ready.\n\nYesterday, I learned that he is upset/bitter about it. And he has been avoiding me. We have a mutual group of friends and they've been taking turn hanging out with each of us individually. I'm thinking it's due to me deleting him (?) or still torn about the breakup. \n\nI'm fine, I have no resentment or anger over the breakup. I care for him and I know he made the best choice for him. And I'm happy that he was honest with me rather than dragging me along. \nMy question is, is it okay for me to add him back on so recently after the breakup?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background. I met her this summer through her then boyfriend [[28]] of two years, who (as I learned later) treated her like shit, was generally abusive, cheated on her, and used violence on her. They were in a long distance relationship and see each other for about two weeks every two months. A few weeks later I invited her over for my birthday party, we got to know each other better and practically started dating (behind his back that is). Initially I didn't want to ruin their relationship but she said she no longer had any feelings for him and their relationship was going to an end. She broke up with him a few weeks later, when he came to visit her.\n\nOur beginnings were pretty intense. We'd hang out every day, spend most of free time together, see each other almost every day and send dozens of messages every day as well. It came to a point where we practically started living together. About a month into our relationship she said that she loves me. I told her I developed feelings for her as well. We started having sex not so long after that.\nAnyway, things were going pretty good for some time, until very recently, when the honemoon phase started deteriorating. I could feel someting was wrong with the way she acted towards me, she seemd sad and unhappy, so today I confroted her about it and what she said is basically that she thinks our relationship came too fast, that she feels bad about chating on her then boyfriend, and that I am a great guy (handsome, intelligent, romantic, good in bed, blah blah), but she thinks what she felt towards me was not love but affection and that this feeling is now gone. She also mentioned that she's used to being with someone significantly older, that I am way too good for her, that she is basically incapable of loving anyone right now and needs to be alone for some time. She didn't exclude being with me in the future though.\n\nWhat should I do guys? I don't want to lose her, I love her.\n\n(sorry for broken English, it's not my native language + I'm a bit drunk and devastated)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Would love to hear from others in similar situations. I've been with my bf for about 4 years now and we're pretty much in it for the long haul. Neither of us are marriage people, but we're basically in that stage of our relationship, to give you an idea. We've lived together for most of our relationship and we've grown very comfortable with each other, which is great. \n\nNow, we're kind of drifting into that territory where the sex has decreased a lot. It went from 4-5 times a week to maybe once every 2-3 weeks. It's been a gradual fade so it's not shocking or anything. And it's not for lack of attraction; we're both quite affectionate otherwise and are still attracted to each other. But it does seem strange how little it bothers me that we don't really do it anymore. And he doesn't seem to mind either; he's quite outspoken and open about his emotions so it definitely would have come up a while ago if it had been bothering him. I guess my only concern is is this going to be detrimental to our relationship eventually? I've read about dead bedrooms and people becoming frustrated and resentful over not getting the amount of sex they want... But I don't think it's affected us at all. My sister told me that she and her husband of 9 years started scheduling sex after they had their second kid because otherwise it would happen way less, but that sounds really unappealing to me. Like a doctor's appointment or something. I think if it's going to happen it should happen organically... But what do I know. I'm pretty young and inexperienced with all this. Is this lack of interest in sex something we need to take a closer look at in our relationship or should we just let it be and assume that's just how we are? Are there couples out there who just don't care about how much sex they have and still have a healthy relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This was today, but began on Friday.\n\nLast Friday in theology class, a seminarian came to our class to answer any questions we had. Class began and the feminist in question raised her hand and asked why women can't be priests, he began to respond but she cut him off and began lecturing him about how it was sexist, unfair, doltish, and threatened all the rights of women. She continued lecturing him for the next 40 minutes, he didn't get to say a word. Today, in theology class, she began yelling at our teacher about how everything she believed was wrong and how she was a disgrace against humanity. All because the feminist didn't agree with something the teacher has said. Our teacher is young, just out of college, and really really nice, to the point where you can't even get in trouble in her class because she's to nice and timid to say anything. Well anyway, being yelled at pushed her over the edge, because she was already sad because her cat had just died, and she began crying and left the classroom. The feminist just said \"see I was obviously right because she couldn't back up her ideas. Here's the FU. A few classes later I was telling a few of my friends about how she had made our teacher cry, and I suddenly feel a tap on my shoulder, I turn around, and it's her, the feminist I had just been talking about, I had forgotten she was in my class because she had just recently transferred in. Well before I could react when I turned, she smacked me in the face, I had been badly sunburned at a track meet over the weekend so it was the most excruciating pain I had ever felt, like a volcano exploding on my face. Before I could recover she punched me in the nose. My nose broke. Right after punching me she kneed me in the groin. So there I was in fetal position on the ground, my cheek stoning, and the blood from my nose forming a puddle on the ground. She smirked, looked me in the eye and said \" That's what you get for disagreeing with me you uncultured swine.\"\n\nSorry for any formatting issues and grammar, I'm on mobile.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For me, it was about a month ago where i procrastinated a week of work and had to do it all in a single day. It may not be a lot for some of you more experienced college kids/ working men/women, but for me i was swamped.\n\nHere is a list of the work i had to do:\n\n1. A 10 page term paper that was required to include 10 sources (2 of which from actual books and not the internet) in APA style format. \n\n2. A 2 week nutrition diary that i had to include times of day and the calories that each item had, which of course i completely bullshitted.\n\n3. A 6 page research paper of our choice with 10 sources MLA style\n\n4. (Because I'm studying exercise science) A Detailed workout regiment of at least 3 times per week that i have done and what affect they have plus the duration/rep count/intensity/sets.\n\n5. Practice and conditioning for baseball - trust me this does eat up a lot of god damn time, plus the time it takes to get ready, get to the field, and to shower afterwards.\n\n6. Actually going to class - I'm going to throw this in there because it did eat up a good portion of the time i could have been working on the work mentioned above.\n\nAgain, this may not sound like a lot, but each of these activities were very time consuming and it took many energy drinks, a sleepless night, and a damn good amount of motivation to complete aka not getting on Reddit. Also i had to turn down all my friends that wanted to hang out. Btw this was over the span of 2 days because it's a mix of my Monday-Wednesday-Friday classes and my Tuesday-Thursday classes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Please don't bust my balls over this, I'm looking for some serious advice and help coping with some sexual addiction issues I'm having.\n\nI met a great girl a few weeks ago and things are going really well. We talk every day and we've been out several times. She's everything I've been hoping for and, for the first time in a long time, I can see myself falling in love with someone. \n\nShe wants to take things slow, so while there's been lots of kissing, there's been no sex. It could be a few weeks or a month before that's on the table. We haven't talked about being exclusive, but I can't pretend that my relationship with this new girl isn't special. She's more or less my girlfriend at this point and I love everything about that. \n\nMy problem is waiting. I recently came to the realization that I have some serious sexual addiction issues. It's ruined relationships for me in the past and I've made more bad choices than I'd care to admit. I've been single for a long time and naturally I love sex, so I have several FWB's and casual hook ups. \n\nI'm having some serious urges to hook up a little something on the side before things get more serious with the new girl. I'm making excuses to myself (it wouldn't mean anything, it's just a quick release) and talking to people I probably shouldn't be.\n\nI need to stay focused on what could be a very good, long term investment and not give in to short term fun... but it's not easy. I would appreciate serious advice from people that have been in similar situations.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My initial post from earlier this year:\n\nSo things never improved since I posted that. They talked about me within my earshot to make me feel bad, stole food and alcohol from me, had parties most nights of the week, and then continued to expect me to be my cheery self around them all year. I haven't spoken to them in two months, but my stuff keeps getting broken and stolen. There's no proof it's them, but it's not like I would hide/break my own belongings. It's been expensive (lost around 500 dollars in belongings) having to live with this treatment. I can't get past my anger about all of this, and don't want to take the financial hit from just moving on and not talking to them anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm going to start by saying I've (25f) been out of the dating game for about 3 years. That LTR ended in June and I've had numerous \"dates\" with guys who turn out to be creeps or just not what they advertise. \n \nFast forward go a few weeks ago. I met a man (26m) online a few weeks ago and we have just started seeing each other face to face. He is everything he seemed to be. Our first day was Thursday night and we have gone out every night since. He fits the bill of what I'm looking for and he has told me I fit his. He asked me to be his exclusive girlfriend Saturday night on our third date, and I gleefully agreed. \n \nWe made out Saturday and Sunday nights and it's been great but I'm really trying to practice restraint. He has already said he's in no rush and is not pressuring me at all. In fact, we both have been very artful and skilled in letting up during our kissing when we notice the other getting too hot/heavy. \n \nI've never been one to make out this quickly let alone have sex so soon, but fireworks are flying. In my gut, I feel like he could be a long term keeper and he has already expressed the same. He's ready to show me off to his family. So I don't want to do anything too quickly and possibly ruin our relationship's chances at going the distance. \n \nBasically, an opportunity is coming up this weekend. Its technically past the one week mark of us seeing each other face- to-face rather than just phone/text/email. We are connecting on every level and conversation flows freely. I feel the relationship so far is more than physical. I feel mentally, physically and emotionally ready if he is also.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a friend of the opposite sex that Ive known for almost 10 years. Full disclosure- we did hook up drunk, ONCE, like 9 years ago. And we kissed a few years ago when we were both single. And again, drinking. Besides that we have stayed friends. We only live 10 minutes apart, but because I have an SO and we know were both attracted to eachother, we dont hang out. \n\nI have been with SO for less than 2 years. Is it wrong to want to keep my best friend, even though we are kind of attracted to eachother? This is my absolute best friend that I tell everything to. I have not/would not cheat on my SO. I dont hide the friendship from my SO. (And yes, SO knows that we hooked up once, and that kissed a few years ago.)\n\nI have heard people say its emotional cheating if you would rather talk to someone other than your SO. Is this always true? This friend understands my awkward social stuff, morbid and generally inappropriate sense of humor, and reddit obsession. \n\nI dont think about the friend super sexually... but I do smile like an idiot when I think about them. And we do talk every day. More than either of us talk to anyone else. Is this just a normal grown up way to feel about a best friend and Im worrying too much and being a weirdo because they are the opposite sex and society says thats bad??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So selling 3d models with an editorial license is a drag, because using 3d models that have an editorial license is a drag... (you have to get permission from original rights owners before you can use it in games).\n\nI'm trying to find a way to rationalize the process selling 3d analogues of real world items without invoking anything. Obviously, some cars in Grand Theft Auto have real world analogs, like Ferrari... beyond simply removing trademarked and copyrighted symbols, you can't argue that a 96% accurate 3d model somehow represents a knockoff or counterfeit, can you?\n\nOr a real world case, this doesn't translate well should still be applicable to 3d models. You list a Zippo lighter on ebay, Zippo sents you a C&D and ebay removes the listing automatically (happened to me). Am I allowed to re-list that item under a generic name? Or is my only resort to simply destroy the item since it's irrefutably a knockoff or counterfeit. Or can I just re-list it titled \"Generic Lighter\".", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "They were together over 7 years. In this time, she has done nothing but treat him like a piece of crap. He's no innocent little kitten in all of this either, trust me. Either way, about 4 years ago she had an affair with a woman. Claimed it wasn't a lesbian or bisexual thing but rather she was just seeking attention. Not long after, he cheated on her too.\n\nCut to about a month ago and they're about to get married. In the time between the affair and now, things have been terrible. Fighting constantly, complete lack of respect for each other, just terrible. My fiancee and I even dreaded going over to their house because of how awkward things would get.\n\nSo they get married, but in the meantime the girl has this coworker of hers move in with them. Hard times, etc. So just before the marriage, during the wedding, and after the wedding, she has an affair and falls in love with this woman.\n\nLong story short, shit hit the fan and it's over.\n\nThing is though, my buddy is really screwed up about all this. He's absolutely devestated, and the bitch of a woman he married and is now getting an annulment from is making him feel even worse.\n\nHow can I best help him to understand that although he did bad things and wasn't the best boyfriend/fiance in the world, it's still not his fault and he shouldn't feel like he wishes he could have her back but without all this crap?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[M/30] having a hard time dealing jealously issues (F/35) we have been dating for almost 1 year.\n\nIn the past I have had several long, horrible arguments about me checking out other females. When we started out as friends during several small talks we had she would always ask me what kind of girls I like, who I dated, how long, what they looked like etc. \n\nMe being honest I told her what ever she asked, not knowing she was really making an inventory that has been held against me since started dating. \n\nIn my case, anyone Asian, short, dark haired with dark eyes (she is Caucasian, blue eyes, and beautiful) is a direct threat to her. In the past I have lost hours and even days fighting because of her jealously. \n\nAnyway last night, apparently some, dark haired Asian, came into the coffee shop, stood at the cash register, sat down near us (community long booth and tables) and payed her bill and left. Apparently I could not keep my eyes off of her, following her every movement. In reality, god honest truth I didnt even see the girl. In my mind she fabricated my eye movement and concluded my every breath to be stuck on this girl. \n\nShe said I was staring, and I simply asked her what she was talking about, she proceeded to call me a fucking liar to my face.. her jealously tends to be blind, with a lot of rage, with zero chance of having a rational conversation. \n\nI packed up my stuff, and left the restaurant, knowing this argument would last several days, or even weeks. I then proceeded to walk to my car. The night ended ugly and I dont know how to deal with these situations.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've [26/f] known my friend [23/f] for about 5 years now, we met at work a year after i started there. Last year she moved to West Virginia (6 hours away), but we kept in touch via emails.\n\nIn the past she had this problem with following through on plans we made to hang out together. Sometimes she would come up with really stupid excuses about how she had to help her mom take out the garbage, other times i just never heard anything from her. Over the past few years i thought she had gotten better at this and stopped doing it so much, but it seems she's gone back to doing it again. \n\nThis past week she came to visit and stayed with another friend all week. We all hung out wednesday, i kept her updated on times and everything and she had planned weeks ago for the 3 of us to hang out again friday ( her idea). Well friday rolls around and i never hear from her, i considered texting but i don't feel like i should be the one to make sure our plans work out every time. It gets old real quick.\n\nShe also kept saying how she would come in to work to say hi to everyone on Thursday afternoon, never showed up. I would have understood if she didn't want to, i probably wouldn't want to either, but why continue to tell me she'd be there?\n\nI feel silly getting upset over something like this but how hard is it for other person to occasionally be the one to call and make sure our plans are still going on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met her before New Years and we hit it off, after a week we moved in together. We're both very sexually liberal (we have sex on cam for money sometimes). \n\nShe talked about doing naked photo shoots and I was supportive (I've seen previous pictures from her past and it's great). She had told me that she would sometimes have sex with the photographers (in the past) and so I figured I would be a lot more comfortable if I came. She thought it was a good idea.\n\nWell, she just left without me. She changed her mind because she thought she would be too giggly and would be distracted. So my question, did she dismiss my emotions over something reasonable?\n\nAlso, she just told me she invited her friend over and said that I should keep her company while she's gone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We spent Christmas time at our own families and agreed that I would drive 3 hours to her after I did the same route on 23rd from her to my place. \n\nShe went out with friends to party last night and I asked her to not go completely crazy so when I drive another 3 hours on 2nd day of Christmas, we can spend some time. Turns out she came home completely drunk at 6:30 am. I just feel really mad and I can't help it. \n\nI find this to be very egoistic as I sacrifice time with my family and friends just to be with her while she stayed full time with her family and on top got super drunk at the school reunion.\n\nI am planning not to drive there today and spent at least one more day with my family but I would want to do this mostly because I want to show her I am mad.\n\nShould I not got today and wait another day as some sort of punishment or go anyways?\n\nThis is not how I imagined Christians to be :/ \n\nThank you and merry Christmas.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, it's me again. Please read my first topic on this matter:\n\nEspecially the short background info. I've found a flat and moved away from my toxic parents. Everything was great until my mother came back from abroad, where she has a job.\n\nThe matter is, I thought she'll forget about the idea of me taking credit for her. Unfortunately I was wrong. Not only the topic returned - she literaly guilts me into this. She keeps talking that she feels like dying, that she stopped eating and she's loosing weight, and that it's probably cancer. All this comes from terrible financial problems she has right now.\n\nTo be honest, those terrible financial problems are something I remember from childhood. All my life she had those, and later she stole some amount of money from old employer and was forced to pay it off. To do this, she emigrated and now she earns two times more money than myself. Still, her debts are not getting smaller. They seem just as big as 7 years ago when she left the country. Just now she called me with the news that she needs fast help - she took another loan and now she must quickly pay it off. Of course it's because she didn't read contract carefully enough. That kind of things happen to her all the time.\n\nUnfortunately she knows that I earn stable money. I know that I'm the only one person that can rescue her. Literally no-one in my family is financially reliable apart from me. BUT if I do this, she will make another stupid decision and I will have to rescue her again. I'm not in the position to do this - I ended my education, found a job, moved out and now I'm stabilizing myself financialy after really chaotic childhood and college-hood. I'm not willing to going there again.\n\nI'm seriously thinking about going absolute no-contact with her. I only worry that she could do something to herself... I feel cruel, guilty, ungrateful bitch. I'm her only child.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this one girl and asked her out. We didn't know each other, only had like 5min. conversation before.\nNow, yesterday was our 3rd date. She initiated it, but at the scene suddenly seemed distant. She even said a few things that baffled me:\n\n1) She mentioned going abroad in two years to finish her degree.\n(it's like she wanted me to lose interest in her)\n\n2) She told me that her mother tried to match her with some of her colleagues over the last few years, but she found them boring or selfish. It's like she wanted to show me that she was not in a commited relationship for a long time.\n\n3) Later we got some ice cream and she offered to pay for everything. I said OK, because I would have to change my money first. So she paid, and I told her I'll change it on the way back.\nBut there was no such possibility so I said (while getting out of a tram): \"I'll return it another time\" and she responded:\n\"If there is going to be another time\". I was so baffled by this that I didn't respond. I just kissed her and had to leave.\n\nNow, as you can see, she's less interested in me than I am in her. I suppose I have three options now:\n\na) try to schedule a next date and make it really special\n\nb) give her some space and time to rethink (?)\n\nc) she's not undecided - I already lost her and should let her go and move on already\n\nWhat would you do and how would you respond in that situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been a simi-regular at a local bar for the past couple of years. Over the last two months they ran a local promotion with one of the radiostations in town giving away vacation packages to numerous destinations. \n\nI entered the drawing, and as luck (and maybe some good karma) would have it I won! I was really excited until the bar-owner told me \"I don't have the packets on me now, but I'll get it too you after I get back from a weekend trip\"\n\nThe weekend went past, and I saw the owner about a week later. The guy wouldn't make eye contact with me, and didn't say anything about the packet. I decided to let it slide thinking he forgot, and went on about my business. The proceeding Friday I went up there for happy hour and got some terrible customer service, was called a \"shithead\" by one of the employees, and basically insulted.\n\nI decided I wasn't going to take that shit from someone who can't keep their word, and decided to take a very long (and possibly permanent) leave of absence from the place, but I still feel like I should get my packet.\n\nDo I have any legal options here, or do I just need to stay on the guy's ass until he fulfills his part of the bargain?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've had one Sphynx cat for about 4 months now, and noticed he seemed to get lonely alone, so a week and a half ago we got a second Sphynx cat (about 20% larger, and a year older). They were fine, socializing since the day we got them, with a decent amount of play fighting that would occasionally get a bit rough, which we would break up.\n\nEarlier today, I was in the kitchen feeding them and as they swirled around my feet, I accidentally stepped on the smaller cat (which we've had longer). He let out a squeal, and the two cats started going at it. We separated them into different rooms, and tried to \"re-integrate\" them after about an hour, and they were both still hostile. We tried again after about 2 more hours, and the same thing happened again. This time we isolated the newer cat in the bedroom and gave our first cat run of the apartment. They stood at other sides of the same door and meowed (loudly, and sounding angrily) back and forth, which got progressively louder until we took one cat away.\n\nIs there something we should be doing to remedy this? I don't want to let them both out in the apartment overnight in case they get into it when we're too groggy to effectively stop them. Any advice is helpful!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My bestfriend, lets call him Carl is a womans man. He's never really had any issue getting girls. Carl isnt a big fan of partying either, sometimes he likes it, sometimes he doesnt. What im trying to say is, he always has a girlfriend and thats just the way its been. 1-2 years ago he broke up with his gf and then he was single up until Januari where he started flirting and, not dating but very close to dating a girl in his class.\n\nIve met the girl and shes pretty and nice and everything, but i think she treated him rather poorly. Not in a abusive kind of way, but more taking him for granted just because he liked her. \n\nShe got angry pretty quickly, and didnt like when Carl went out to party with us but she took every chance herself to go out and party. She never had any time for him but always had time for her friends and her partying.\n\nThis was about 2 months ago. She was at a party, me and carl was at a nightclub so it didnt really matter. Except she kissed a dude at the party. Not just a random dude either, but a guy that had been flirting with her for awhile. \n\nMorning after they had a fight and SHE \"broke\" up with him. He was ready to forgive her as long as it didnt happend again and everything. \n\nI told him to ignore her, just dont say a word to her, do absolutely nothing. He did, and now 2 months later she wants to get back together with him. \n\nMy problem here basically is that i dont like her, i dont think she deserves Carl but, Carl really likes this girl and i just want my main man to be happy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know a former-model-turned-paraplegic-pillhead-uberchristian who regularly updates her facebook status to something like \"Jesus visited me last night and he told me I will walk again in 23 days. Can you believe it? In 23 days I will be healed, everybody! Who's ready to go dancing?\" It's pretty sad/pathetic, but what's worse is that when she's at a bar after she gets nice and drunk, she will start asking guys to let her give them blow jobs, but that usually doesn't work so it turns to begging and finally crying. It's like clockwork, and that clockwork has turned her into a joke. It's a small town, and people know her as 'the crippled blow job girl.' If you see her at the bar, you know it's coming. I'm not really friends with her; I just know her through the bar(yes, I was one of those guys she begged), but I've seen it happen over and over again. The thing is she's always with the same people, so they have to know what's going to happen too, but no one seems to want to tell her that she's embarrassing herself, and they just turn their heads and let her do it. Sometimes people even encourage this behavior, particularly with letting her believe she's going to be healed by a miracle. It's bothered me for a while. I figured someone else has to have witnessed a similar story.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been single for almost 5 or 6 years now, where I have really learned to love this life. I have gotten to travel wherever I want, do whatever I want, I have a stable career, spend my money wherever, etc. However I'm approaching the big 30, and parent's are starting to tell me to settle down - to the point now where they're looking around for me and setting me up on casual dates. I'm not sure if I'm in the right frame of mind, or if I should really change my mindset and start looking. I do want to settle down eventually, but wonder if I will ever get to the mindset of looking. I always feel like someone will kinda just naturally fall into my life, but if I'm not looking I wonder if this will ever happen.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me(M28) and my girlfriend(F24) have been dating 2 months, we work together and will go to local bars after work. We work a job where we interact with many people from town. When we go out guys are constantly coming up to her and talking to her(which i have zero problem with) but tye problem i have is she comes off as almost flirty and will hug people as they come up to say goodbye to us.\n To me it gives off the vibe that she is flirting with them. One guy actually came to our work and gave her his phone number. Now im no bitch i say something to these men when it bothers me. \n\nMy question is, would it be wrong to tell her being friendly and hugging men goodbye gives off a vibe that she is available or interested? \nIs it wrong that i ask her to tone it down a bit with that kind of thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I will try to be brief.\nWe met, we went out 2-3 times, great chemistry but at time I could feel she would give me mixed signals. I held back, eventually (after 4 dates) asked her to dinner to my place while I made it obvious what my intentions were... she told me about BF... I could see it coming but didnt blame her for it, since our first few dates could have been interpreted as friendly ones (.. as if she didnt know what was going on)... I told her I respect that and backed off. She said shes struggling with it so naturally I have kept myself around, but have not been looking for her, yet we text a couple times a week, and have hung out a few times after that...\n\nCurrent situation is\n\n- she knows i like her\n- I know she likes me\n- last time we hung out and i dropped her off she sent a message asking if shes a bad person for wanting to kiss me (i just avoided answering that and said something else related to the night, even though i wanted to say more)\n- I am still assuming shes still with the guy. Havent texted or seen her since...\n\nat what point would it be reasonable for me to put pressure on her again? do I just let it run its course and fucking suck it up as long as I can, do I wait for another situation where she clearly wants to be with me, and act on it?\n\nI like this chick, and I feel that if she cheats on her bf with me, I will always have that in the back of my mind if I got in a relationship with her.... but at the same time, I dont wanna wait around indefinitely", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Im new to reddit, so please excuse me if i didnt exercise proper reddit form. \n\nIve know this girl for about a year. Shes a mutual friend of my good guy friend, so i never really knew he too well. But out of the blue the other day, she texts me (i didnt have her #). Shes a pretty girl, so i was shocked that she initiated the conversation. She just got home from school and is home for the summer. \n\nNow usually its the guy who (in my experience) statrs the conversations, and texts the girl first (she keeps on texting me first everyday, i dont mind its just different from my past experiences). Now im getting a good vibe from her, so i ask her to hang out. Then she stiffs me (something about having to go to LA to see her family). Then i ask her the next day, another excuse. Then ask again, and she keeps saying \"we'l get together at some point\". So i was thinking she just was no longer intested, but she continues to text and talk to me. I just getting weird vibes from it because she hasnt came to hang out yet. Im looking for advice as to what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for 3 years and we've been great friends since high school. We got engaged in November and were about to lock up a venue for our wedding when everything came down.\n\nWe talked on Sunday because she had been stalling on signing the agreement with the venue, and she said she wasn't sure she was ready to get married. She then said that she needed some time to get her head straight and then said that she wanted to take a break for a few months to figure out what she wants.\n\nWe got a house together in July, and things had been going great. We were both happy. I feel like she is scared of the responsibility and commitment that a relationship requires.\n\nI don't know how to get her back and I'm terrified that I won't be able to. I love her to death and the last few days have been brutally tough. Any advice or thoughts on this to help me out would be much appreciated. I'm in the dark here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I went on a date with a girl last night. Not really sure how she feels about it today. So we met up at a bar in the town she lives in, and we talked for about an hour, with only slight pauses. She was laughing at my jokes and everything. Then we go upstairs to another part of a restaurant and meet up with her friend. This guy is outgoing and loud, me being the silent type, obviously don't have much to say. My date and I start holding hands and hugging all that stuff. I get a kiss also which is great, but most of the time she is talking to her friend. After the date I asked her if this was going to happen again, which she responded with, \"Idk, maybe..\" This led me to believe she wasn't interested.\n\nI texted her this morning, saying Goodmorning, and I still haven't gotten a response yet. Is it safe to say she's not interested. Do I ask?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story:\n\nA few months ago, the (ex)girlfriend of my girlfriend's close friend has issues with my girlfriend and her close friend being, well, close. Therefore, she keeps trying to shame my girlfriend on Facebook publicly (e.g. creating pages dedicated to shaming my girlfriend) under a false account. The sad thing is my girlfriend's close friend seems to be defending his girlfriend and says she won't do something like that. That's also the reason why my girlfriend has distanced herself from her close friend ever since.\n\nFast forward to now, that girl and my girlfriend's close friend apparently broke up and so the close friend is trying to make up to my girlfriend. The problem is, the girl is now back with another round of her annoyance. This time, she's now attacking both my girlfriend and me. Creating pages and false accounts just attacking us in ways she can think of. I don't know why she's doing this even though she and my girlfriend's close friend already broke up. I guess she's bitter or something?\n\nSo now my question is, how do we deal with her? It's not easy to say that we should just ignore and block her because she knows some acquaintances of ours which could sever ties with potential jobs and the likes. Creating a new Facebook account isn't a viable option since I also use my Facebook for business purposes and I have a lot of my professional contacts there. Not including the personal URL that is already well established.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys. I'm gonna keep this short for privacy reasons. Also throwaway. \n\nMy boyfriend is a wonderful, sweet, caring person, but no matter how hard he works, he is just not good at school. We go to a competitive college (his dream school) and he's currently stuggling. If he has one more bad semester, he'll have to transfer to a smaller school and live at home for financial reasons. \n\nOn the other hand, my grades are pretty good. I'm no scholar, but I do well. \n\nI have no idea how to be there for him through this without sounding like a jackass. I can't really empathize with him because I've never been through that. I can tell he's frustrated and disappointed, but he also doesn't want to talk about it. \n\nI love him so much and it kills me to see him like this. Anyone have any ideas about how to make him feel better? Should I let him work through it on his own? I'd really rather talk to him about it to show that I care about him and that I'll be there for him. \n\nHow do I bring it up? How can I help him to not feel so bad about this? How can I let him know that if he has to transfer it'll be okay? I don't know how to bring it up without sounding like I think he's definitely going to fail out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was at a mall with 2 friends and i guy came up and began to start trouble, we got in to an argument that escalated to a fight. While i was charging at him he pulled out a revolver and shot me in the chest, that didn't phase me much so I kept going and he shot me again. We wrestled until he wasted the other 4 bullets he had left in his revolver. I realized since the gun was empty I had no other choice but to strangle him to death. It took me what felt like hours to get the job done i squeezed his neck so hard that it ended up looking like a shoe lace. He attempted to grasp some air so i tied his neck like in a knot and made sure I finally got the job done. Since I was shot i decided to go to the bathroom and clean up, on my way there I noticed my ex-gf that I treated poorly a year ago and regret to this day. I walk up to her with 2 bullet wounds and attempt to get her back by asking her out while she laughs and makes fun of me with her 2 friends. I leave while they laugh behind me and meet up with my 2 friends that are standing beside the guy that i killed and tell me I need to wait 2 days to get the bullets out since its the weekend, unless I want to tell my mother about it. I tell them that no way in hell am I telling my mother. I don't remember what happen after this because I think I woke up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So actually happened a few years ago...\n\nSALLLYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!\n\nwas my Freshman writing seminar instructor may her name be cursed for a thousand generations. The topic was \"great new books.\" Being an open-minded starry-eyed freshman, I thought this would mean \"fiction.\" Nope. Poetry. Shit. \n\nSo Sally always insisted that all of our analytical essays were full of cultural stereotypes. This was really difficult to avoid and got on everyone's nerves, particularly because all the poetry we were reading was really heavy stuff and had to do with race, inequality, poverty, etc. It felt like we couldn't even mention race without being \"insensitive.\" Fast forward to the final paper.\n\nSally has a friend who is an impoverished poet, and Sally assigns us her book (called \"a vertical interrogation of strangers\") to read. The book is basically a collection of poetry based on the author's interviews with anonymous Indian women regarding their (often abusive) relationships to men. I choose to write about this book for the final paper. I have had enough of Sally and her lectures on \"stereotypes\" at this point. In fact, I am so tired of her that I become convinced that her friend's book is a giant cultural stereotype. I think you can get where this is going...\n\nYup I decide to write my paper on how my professor's starving poet friend's super artsy feminist book is actually a cultural stereotype and unfair to Indian men. At the time I thought I made a pretty good argument and was looking forward to changing my professor's perspective on things...\n\n...C-\n\nfreshman mistake", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This wouldn't be taking place for at least another year, and we're aware of the practical matters that need to be addressed. My problem is that I use to live with my ex of 3.5yrs, and when we broke up it was very hard on me, since I saw moving in together as a commitment/serious investment in our future. I rushed into it the first time, but this time I'm incredibly gun shy. What emotional / relationship oriented things should I be prepared for or already have established in my relationship prior to moving in? What should we discuss? How do you know if it's a good idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend of one year (who has only met my sister once) had recently started messaging her about some personal topics. She eventually told her that she had an abortion. \nMy sister had a miscarriage late into one of her pregnancies that hit our family hard. I was only young at the time and I know I've never been able to recover from it. However my sister has understandably always had a problem with abortion since.\n\nIt's hard to talk about so I haven't told my girlfriend directly about it, but she did know that I lost my nephew.\n\nYet of all of the things to say to my sister. I only learnt from my mother today after she managed to find out why my sister wasn't fond of my girlfriend anymore. \nApparently after that message my sister told her to no longer talk to her.\n\nI'm conflicted between my girlfriend who I do love, and my sister who I've always been close with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So as usual on this thread it didn't happen today, but rather this weekend. \nBit of background info, me and this boy have been chatting for about a year now after meeting on tinder. We talk everyday on the phone and texting and snapchat and shit but have only met up a couple of times cause he didn't realise I liked him. We have since talked about how much we like each other though. \n\nAnyways recently he moved country for a job and I thought it would be a nice surprise for me to come see him. So I booked flights without telling him but I'm bad at keeping secrets so I ended up telling him. So Friday evening I arrive at his, things start off well, we go for dinner and drinks etc. Dutch courage kicks in and I kiss him when drunk, we go back to his and things progress if you know what I mean. So I blurt out I love him, like its the drink talking, I do like him but I'm not in love with him, but I tell him reasons for it (I'm sure drunk me had good intentions.)\n\nSo the next morning we wake up hungover, and he mentions it. I don't know how to tell him I only said it cause I was drunk, so I run with it. He leaves me in bed and goes downstairs, I go back to sleep. I wake up several hours later still alone. This rest of the day is slightly awkward, I try cuddling up to him on the sofa and he shrugs me off. We go out that night and he invites a friend of his along. (I was only over for 2 nights.) Long story short, the rest of the weekend he was cold. Waste of a few hundred pounds.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend (17f) of about 10 months ended it tonight. It was the best relationship I(18m) could ever ask for. She has been dealing with issues regarding her sexuality and with a therapist ultimately decided she needed to be alone for a while. And I understand and support her. I want to remain good friends with her and she says the same. How do we go about this and how do I feel better? I'm not mad at her. I'm just very upset that it had to end. She was one of my best friends during the relationship and I don't want that to change.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My brother has run into some minor trouble with the law, and I was hoping that Reddit might be able to give him some advice. I asked him to write up a brief synopsis of what happened:****\n\n-----\n\nI was pulled over for driving with my left taillight out. There were three passengers in my car, for a total of four people. There was no weed in the car, no one was high, and no one had smoked in the car since around 4 that afternoon. There was, however, a pipe and a grinder out of sight in the middle console of my car. The officer approached my car, and we had the following conversation.\n\nOFFICER: I pulled you over because you were driving with a taillight out.\n\nMATT: I'm sorry, officer. I know it's out, I'm working on getting it fixed as quickly as possible.\n\nOFFICER: Is there anything in the car that I should know about?\nMATT: No, officer.\n\nOFFICER: Would you mind if I searched, then?\n\nMATT: I'm sorry, officer, but I never consent to searches.\n\nOFFICER: Why?\n\nMATT: It's within my rights as a citizen.\n\nAt this point, the officer says nothing else and walks away. One of my friends overhears him calling in a canine unit. However, he never informed any us that he would do so. He wrote me a citation for the taillight, and I signed/dated the bottom of it. However, he did not give it to me until after the canine unit arrived.\n\nThe officer then instructed me and each of my passengers to leave the car, then proceeded to search each of us \"for weapons\" (even though I said that I refused to consent to a search) before the drug dog began to sniff my car. After he told me that the dog alerted on my car, I told him where the pipe and grinder were. He then confiscated them, searched the rest of my car, wrote a citation for the pipe and grinder, then gave me the citation for the taillight.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, I don't really need advice per se, but I find myself thinking about this at least every other day. I met a girl out of town and it was great. We had a little fling, I went back to see her a couple times, she came to see me. We had a great time. She's awesome etc. We live far away (5 hour drive) and it would never work out. We used to text back and forth but eventually she faded out texting me back. Didn't want a relationship etc. I understood this and knew I was being a little silly but I was just running with it. No fallout, no bad times, just fade away. This was a little over a year ago now. The problem is I've never been happier with anyone else in my life. I find myself thinking about her almost everyday, and the urge to just let her know how I feel, and that I wish her the best (I never say anything.) I usually just try to write it off as missing the special feeling of that fling. I've had other girls since, and I've got active prospects and a booty call... so it's not that I'm lonely/obsessed. However, these aren't fulfilling any emotional holes (maybe I am lonely.) I say this because I keep telling myself that's all it is -- missing that good feeling that she gave me.\n\nMy only problem is I feel it so strongly I want her to know. I know she won't care -- actually I'm afraid she will and react negatively. I'm sure she's totally moved on and it wasn't that significant to her, but I feel it so strongly I just want to let her know someone out there cares for her, but I don't want her to think I'm some kind of creepy stalker for coming out with this a year later.\n\nI probably still won't say anything and will let this post satisfy me for now. I just needed to get this out somewhere, but what do you think? Will it brighten her day or freak her out?\n\nI told myself I could marry her the day after I met her and I still feel that way even though I think marriage is ridiculous... I got it bad", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a guy friend who I made recently and he asks to hang out a lot and whenever we go grab a bite he offers to pay. I always say no but sometimes he is very persistent. He also tries to hug me a lot and texts me rather often. I've just recently met him at work so I find his behaviour a bit odd because even though we're friends, I'm still getting to know him and I don't feel close enough to him to be so touchy feely. Also, I think he may be interested in me, which if he is, I don't want to lead him on but I also don't want him to think I don't appreciate his friendship. I do enjoy hanging out with him but just as a friend.\nHow do I know if he likes me or is just being friendly? How do I set boundaries without being rude? He is fun to hangout with but I'm not a sentimental person and I don't like being touched. I am also not attracted to him at all.\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend and I have basically started dating ...the other night I took her out for a drive to the beach late at night, we had a bite of food, some wine ..we ending up making out for a while (we have a long complicated history and she liked me for a while even when she was with her ex boyfriend). I took her back home, we continued to make out by her door and then by my car. I've met her parents we get along fine. The next day we meet up for a walk (we go on walks every week cause we live close by) and towards the end we start making out again. Now the next day I invite her over to my place and we hang out for a bit ...play piano for each other (we've never heard each other play). I walk her to the station and we kiss before she leaves. \n\nNow here is my problem, she has an ex boyfriend that she is still friends with who lives in the city and hence has a place that is convenient to stay at overnight. Now I've already asked her to give me a call before she heads over there but I don't know exactly what to say to her? Should I clarify that we're exclusive? Is that rushing things? \n\nI just want to know how to clarify what is going on between us and that she isn't going to do something with him without sounding insulting ...as if she's going to sleep with him just because she's staying over. Advice is welcome.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've wondered this for a long time and am hoping someone with a health background can weigh in... it seems that the areas of your body which at cells get fat are fairly consistent but random, by this I mean you don't get fat from the top down or in some other strange way, it all sort of gets fat at the same rate; I assume this has alot to do with your genetics. So this has me wondering how fat is burned. I assumed for along time that if you walked, you burn fat in your lower body, do sit ups burn fat in your belly etc. But that was always a passing assumption, when I actually thought about it I have no idea.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not really sure if this belongs here, because its more about anti-dating (so to speak), so if I should put it somewhere else please just let me know!\n\nI've never been kissed, been asked out, had sex, in a relationship, etc. I've been through college and am almost done with grad school, live in a city, have a large social circle, have a job, and am constantly doing fun things and yet I've never met anyone who's been remotely interested in me romantically.\n\nI'm assuming that I give off bad vibes that people find unappealing from a romantic standpoint. Additionally I know that I'm extremely unattractive (or so I've been told), which I'm sure doesn't help anything. I have a pretty strong feeling that I'm never going to be loved romantically, and I'm tired of being miserable about it. \n\nSo, does anyone have any advice on how to accept that you're going to be \"forever alone\"? And, furthermore, does anyone have advice on how to be happy and content with that knowledge? \n\nI should mention that I don't have any single friends, which means relationships are a constant part of my social interactions (which is totally fine because I adore all of my friends' significant others, but hard because it reminds me that I'll probably never have that). This makes it even more important to me that I be happy knowing I'll be alone - I don't want to be that bitter, single friend.\n\nAny advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Im 6'3\", and roughly 260 pounds.\npic-\n\nLet me be honest here, I dont eat well at all, im a busy guy, ill order out daily, and get little to no exercise. My weight has been floating around the 260 mark for about a year now, even with my terrible diet.\n\nSomething else to note, ive been fairly busy the last 2 days, eating maybe 1 - 2 meals each day. And ive dropped to 248 pounds, from 262. IN 2 DAYS!\n\nThis cant be normal, and it honestly has me worried.\n\nDoes it mean I have a fast metabolism? Was it water weight?\n\nI also want to start working to shed the extra pounds, heres a current picture. \n\nWhat should my target weight be? This is my at 260, looking like garbage.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About two days ago actually I had a really shitty morning.\n\nFirstly my alarm does not go off. So I didn't have breakfast. Rush to the train station and I miss my train by 15 seconds.\n\nSo, minding my own business as I finally make it to my campus I decide to hit up McDonald's (their hash browns are really nice in Australia).\nSo as I'm walking down campus to get breakfast I hear a whirling sound. Wheels. Roller blades?\n\nI turn my head around and for about half a second I spot a little girl maybe 4 or 5 years old on a scooter. Then suddenly everything stops and I hear a sickening bang. I didn't feel anything so I thought I imagined it but sure enough she had fallen over, her little razor scooter tipped over with her.\n\nI freak out and ask her if she's okay, if she's bleeding, if her parents are nearby. On the inside I was swearing like a sailor.\n\nLuckily her dad was not too far behind, along with the girl's little sister. She wasn't hurt, there was no bleeding and by the end of it they're all consoling me instead.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi,\nI apologize if this story is too confusing but here goes:\n\nSo I[17F] dated a guy[19M] for a year and a half and our relationship was awesome until the last month when he stopped complimenting me and stuff and revealed he had feelings for his best friend. He told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and didn't love me anymore so he broke up with me in Dec 2014. I was pretty crushed.\n\nAfter the break up the friend (who was friends with me first btw) and her bff stopped talking to me and hung out with him a lot. It really hurt me that they abandoned me- one day I decided to confront them about it and they told me they stopped talking to me because they thought talking about the break-up would upset me too much. I forgave them and moved on.\n\nA month ago my ex told me he still had feelings for me and started treating me like he used to. One day he said he was gonna stop because he didn't want to get back together because he didn't want to end up like couples who break up and get back together a lot.\n\nFast forward to this week, out of the blue he told me he was gonna ask out his friend, and was pretty mean about it. I decided to tell the \"friends\" because I was really mad tbh, and they told me that 2 weeks after we broke up he told them he had feelings for the friend. She also told me I needed to grow up, get over it, and thats how life is. That really hurt /: She knew how much I liked him and still went after him.\n\nThey are now dating and both seem pretty serious. I just feel so hurt I don't know what to do ;(\nMy ex also sent me a goodbye forever text. He was like my best friend so it hurts that he walked out on me like this. Why did he hurt me like this? /:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Im not going to go into huge detail but basically, I dated this guy from work for a few months, all of a sudden he up and ends it. Citing reasons of \"he needs freedom\" and \"things got serious way too fast\". I actually do respect his reasons. He's going through a huge life change plus it's a busy time of year etc, and it's he was honest with me and told me fairly early on. He wants to be friends for now. \n\nUnfortunately I was further in with my feelings so I still hurt pretty bad (almost a week later) but I have to see this guy regularly at work and tonight I see he's gone out with all the work people, I'm not invited obviously. I understand. But it's making me spiral a bit. I miss him so much! I'm doing the whole no contact outside of work thing so we can be friends later (we were friends before) but it's so hard to see through mutual friends facebook etc pics of his gorgeous face having fun with people I normally hang with, and knowing he no longer cares for me in that way. It's soul crushing. I have zero confidence right now. \n\nI'm seeing my psychologist tomorrow to talk over how I feel but I guess I was wondering if there's anyone out here who can give me advice of how to shut my mind to it, how to move on. \n\nWith my ex's it's always been a bad breakup, so I've been ok hating them etc and could rationalise. It's so much harder here? I don't hate him. He's a wonderful guy who told me early on how sorry he was and how he thought he was ready but isn't. I can't hate him, but I just feel so unwanted it's painful. \n\nAnyone out there who can give me some advice or love?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys and gals I'm planning a trip and wanted to hear some suggestions and input from you all. I will describe myself and what I am looking for based on my research as well as I can.\n\nMyself:\n\nI am a 23 y/o white male living in Atlanta and from Florida originally. My previous trips out of the country have all been to either Europe or the Caribbean and while I enjoyed them I am looking for something different this time. I really like the outdoors, wildlife, and thrill seeking. I used to swim and love all forms of water, but also enjoy a good mountain or rain forest. I took a couple years of spanish and could get to a passable level if necessary. I have a lot of vacation days to use before the end of the year and right now am planning on taking two weeks off for this trip.\n\nWhat I am looking for:\n\nThe above section applies to this one as well but I will try to go more in depth here. The best way I have found to describe what I'm looking for is an adventure. I haven't done well in pinning specific activities to how I want this trip to make me feel, which is why I'm asking you wonderful people, but I want to feel any or all of these: awestruck, humbled, risky, unconstrained, unfamiliar. I would like to go some place where I can see/experience a good variety of things and places during my trip, which means I wouldn't stay in one place for more than a couple days. I would prefer to avoid extra flights once there, but if it would open up a lot of opportunities I would consider one halfway through. I think that optimally I would rent a motorcycle or something (and drive a few hours every couple days)as this would fulfill several of my interests(variety of places, unconstrained, (slightly) risky, adventure). \n\nSummary /", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 18 in highschool, there is a girl, let's call her Lena, she transferred in, and I liked her immediately. I showed her to my friend, let's call him John. John proceeds to go behind my back and go after Lena. John and I have been friends for about 9 years or so, but he has always been a bit of a dick.\n\n I've been really salty about it for weeks now, and last night he even invited her to out karaoke night that we do. So I took this chance, and spend the whole night singing songs about how I liked her, Jesse's girl, Mr steal yo girl, he will never love you like I love you etc. I knee John would be mad at me, but he did me wrong 1st right? He actually tried to fight me earlier today. \n\nHere's where it gets interesting, Lena messages me on fb, and asked me what was going on. I told her I had to tell her in person, so she met me at a park near my house and I spilled the beans, I told her how I liked her all year, and how I told John about it and John went after her anyway. We sat at the park and talked for like an hour and a half. When she was leaving she gave me an extra long hug, I could be reading too much into it but it seems that she might like me back. She also told me to call her or text if I wanted to talk. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A couple years ago, my girlfriend broke up with me twice in once year. At the time I was madly in love with her and was not confident enough to think I would be able to be with anyone who was as attractive or compatible. During that period of the two break ups she cheated on me and told me about it years later because of guilt. \n\nFast forward to now, I have definitely evolved as a person. I am more confident and it has captured the attention of a lot of attractive girls. Every time I go out with my friends and get the attention of a girl, I think to myself, \"maybe I'm entitled to this.\" Of course, I respect my girlfriend too much to act on those desires. \n\nYesterday I tried breaking up with her by bringing up some excuse about a potential possibility of a long distance relationship. The conversation we had made me think about how long we've been together, how much I really like her, how committed she's been since then and how special what we have is. \n\nEvery time I think about her cheating on me I get upset, every time a girl asks if I want to walk her home after a night of drinking I have second thoughts. I wish there was some way to say, \"hey you had your fun, I want mine and then we can get back together,\" but I know that is not realistic. \n\nI really do care about this girl and can see myself with her in the long run, but also wish I could have my time to do me. Maybe its selfish, but that is honestly how I feel. Advice or thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few months ago, we had a pretty big argument. She was upset over it, and I asked her repeatedly if there was anything that I could do to help. She said that she was fine and during the week we had tons of fun so I genuinely believed she was fine. The next few days she messaged me telling me that she's horribly sad, and that she can't believe that I let her feel sad when we were together. \n(Oh! Quick note, she lives in a college a few hours away, and comes to visit every other weekend along with her best friend.) \nNow, this isn't the first time she gas done this, this happens weekly, where she does not communicate clearly how she's feeling and what she wants me to do, then she explodes on me. \nI was furious that she would have the nerve to tell me that I didn't try to make her feel better when I had at one point begged for her to tell me how she was really feeling, so I ended things with her compulsively (over text, so a total dick move on my part). She then called me a few seconds later telling me she was sorry and that she was wrong. I told her that I made a super compulsive decision when I \"ended things\" and that I was sorry and didn't mean it at all. That I just acted without thinking.\nEverything was fine and dandy, until recently.\n This is the problem:\nNow she's telling me that she is VERY sad because I broke up with her (even after I apologized to her for doing so, and practically begged her to believe that I didn't mean it) and she says that she is feeling insecure about the relationship because I had \"ended things.\" She wants me to make it up to her by doing this grand gesture for her as a way of showing her that I really do love her (which I do) and to make her secure of this relationship. She wants me to make her feel better. And she's very upset that I have not done it yet.\n\nIs that fair of her? I don't understand how it could be, but maybe I'm wrong. And what can I do to solve this issue?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been (me M/24, her F/22) together for almost a year now and I've been very happy and excited in the beginning. I appreciate her, because she likes the whole me with every flaw I have. It's worth to note that I'm her first boyfriend.\n\nThe problem is that I really don't think that I love her as much as I did before and she certainly loves me way more as I far as I can see it.\n\nI think I might be wasting her time, because I'm constantly thinking of being with other women, but I would never act on it, these are just thought, but they're there nonetheless. I really think this is unfair to her on my part. \n\nI had only 2 relationships in my life counting this one too, so I'm not experienced one bit. A few people with whom I discussed my problems said that these are not good signs. What's your opinion? Would you break up so you don't waste her time or try to work it out somehow?\n\n*Thank you for reading!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory, I am moving out for the first time, spent some time home saving up money and all that good stuff. I've never had a roommate. I have no idea what this all entails, but I assume(d) that the general rules of relationships would apply. My Roommate is a friend(yes, I know...\"she won't be your friend after living together\") However, her anxiety and personal issues have resulted in some issues....\n\n Having my boyfriend over, for example. We are private people and generally stay in my room reading books together. However, my roommate screamed that he is not allowed over at all, because it would make her uncomfortable. Now, I am paying my fair share of rent, we've split it evenly, even though she gets the bigger room. I feel that I should be allowed to have him sleep over on occasion so long as he isn't disruptive, noisy, peeing on the toilet seat, or putting the TP under instead of over. We have currently negotiated 4 days a month. She also does not want my friends over, ever.\n\n I originally had plans to move in on Thursday/Friday, however due to last minute plans, I had to switch to Friday/Sunday. This resulted in us being there together Sunday. I was met with stomping everywhere she went and silence to any questions I asked....She is now saying that there will never, ever, be plan changes ever again. The first plan is the only plan. I have tried reasoning with her, telling her that she could have told me no to moving in Sunday, instead of throwing a temper tantrum, but she is set. When I tried reasoning with her, she told me that clearly I cannot think like an adult, therefore she is taking away my privileges to change plans. Lunch plans, dinner plans, general hanging out plans....etc. Meanwhile, she has bailed on me nearly every single time we make plans together, often only an hour or two before.\n\n What have I gotten myself in to??? How can I navigate this to come to a compromise with someone so unwilling? I'm already stuck with this, since the lease is signed. I just need a way to make the best of it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically my issue is that I'm terrible at telling someone I'm interested in them in ways more than a friend. I'm not sure what it is or why it happens per say, but I just cannot break that barrier. I'm great at forming long lasting friendships but they form due to my interest in the girl as more than friends. \n\nAs stupid as it sounds, I quite literally get \"stuck\" in the \"friendzone\" as a result of my own inability to act on my feelings and tell the other party I am interested in more ways than just friendship. \n\nLately I've been wondering if this is just something I personally deal with or if its common. Any help/advice/tips/changes I can make to myself/my perception would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's been two months since I (29m) broke up with my ex (23f). Since I have done a lot to improve myself. I doubled down on my schooling, lost 27 pounds, and have been doing more things that I enjoy. \n\nThe issue is my breakup was amicable. We were just two people going separate ways. While it was mutually agreed upon the pain has still been pretty raw until recently. I now feel like I am in the position to start dating again! That's a pretty big step for me the only problem is I'm only meeting two types of women. The first group are women who aren't looking for anything at all besides friendship. That I am totally cool with but having the door open for a possible relationship would be nice. The other type is what gets me. The type of woman who wants to be in a relationship NOW, wants kids NOW, and wants it all delivered to her by a charming prince on horseback. The worst part is that this has happened a couple times in the last week and a half! \n\nIt just seems like I can't find a happy middle ground. I really don't want to rush into anything and sitting around talking about some girls' guy troubles gets old quick when you have your own problems.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so I have a lot of feelings still for my ex, not in the \"HEY LETS DATE\" again way just emotion I suppose, we broke up (she ended it with me) but used to get angry if I would date someone else. \n\nShe wanted to be friends but yeah, she'd get angry and block me if I went on a date with someone and she found out. It left me in a very weird situation because I like my ex, she's a nice person and I'd prefer her to be in my life rather than completely gone.\n\nfew months ago she went out with another guy which is fine but I'm not sure why, the guy she went out with was everything she hated in a guy and I felt like she did it to kind of wind me up by letting me know what they're up to etc. \n\nLow and behold we had an argument as she found out I was now in a relationship with someone else and we're going great :). when my ex found out she hit the roof with stuff, refused to meet up and talk everything through like adults, wouldn't pick up the phone and eventually blocked me on Whatsapp, Twitter, Facebook etc, saying don't contact her. \n\nSo I haven't it's been over 2 months but recently she's unblocked me on these things and I'm weirded out as to why she would? I did what she told me with not contacting her, but now she's unblocked me on all these and 0 contact for that time I'm worried as to who should maybe say the first words? I want her as a friend, she's been a big part of my life and helped me through a lot of difficult times and our relationship seemed good.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have the greatest boyfriend (19m) in the world right now. He is thoughtful, kind, he does everything in the world to make me feel important and special and I try to do the same for him. We have been together for about eight months now.\n\nHowever right around the time we met I was exiting a really bad relationship that ended in me terminating a pregnancy. My current SO knows that that happened, and accepts me for who I am now, which given my past might be more then I deserve. On top of that from about feb-mid april my hormones were really nuts causing me to just be what felt like a shadow of who I was, but after some recent medication I feel a million times better.\n\nI suppose my problem is that a part of me wants to run away from this relationship because I think I might have jumped into it too soon. But I know I truly love my SO and I'm afraid if I tell him what I'm feeling he will take it the wrong way and it will hurt him. I know that communicating what I'm feeling would be the best thing for us, but I just don't know how to have that conversation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need some advice about my brother and her girlfriend's relationship. Let's call his girlfriend \"B\". Basically, my brother can't spend a moment without her. If my mom wants to just hang out with him (eat lunch for example), he claims that if she wants to hang out with him, B has to be there, too. My father currently works overseas, and we see him twice a year, 1-2 weeks each. My mom and I are currently planning a vacation to Hawaii with my dad, and we asked our brother if he can go. He said no because B has summer school. We asked him why he can't go if B can't go. He said that because B isn't going, so he doesn't want to go. We tried to rationalize with him, saying that we don't get to spend time with my dad a lot, so why can't he just come with us for a week? He then started arguing with us saying that B is his family and that if we want him to hang out with my dad, why don't we not go on vacation and spend time at home instead. My brother called us selfish (which I really don't understand). My boyfriend can't go on vacation with us (not enough vacation days), and it didn't even cross my mind to bring him because it's supposed to be a family vacation. My brother said that he's normal, and I'm not. I mean, I hang out with my boyfriend whenever I get the chance, but I still have time allocated to just spending it with my family and my other friends. I really don't understand why he's being like this, and he's constantly getting into huge fights with my mom over this. So please help me out here, is he being completely irrational, or is it just me and my mom?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 17 year old male, and she's 16. We've been dating for 4 months, and recently I've been torn on whether or not I should end the relationship. I love her, but I don't think we've ever been able to really connect. On reflection, we don't have a whole lot in common; I don't think I've ever been able to have a meaningful conversation about anything during the whole 4 months we've been dating. To add to this, she's always busy with baby-sitting, and even uses that as an excuse to neither text, call, or instant message me.\n\nWhen she doesn't have to baby-sit, all she wants to do is sit at home and watch television and play video games; I haven't been able to get her to come over since May. While we're on the subject, I've only been able to spend time with her maybe half a dozen times in the past 40 or so days. I did manage to hang out with her at her house today, and quite honestly, I felt good being with her at the time, but nothing has changed. Well, nothing has changed for the better anyway. While I was there, I could not help but feel distant and a little unhappy with the relationship, and left on an emotional low-note.\n\nI feel bad; I don't want to hurt her. I do love her; she's really sweet, and I can tell she's into the relationship, despite her lazy disregard for communication. However, I feel awfully unhappy, and I don't know what to do. I think I only got into a relationship with her because she was available, and we were both horribly lonely (I've never had a significant other before; she's never done well with her past relationships). I really don't know what I'm doing, and I'm not close to my family, and I have no close friends to talk about this with (especially since most of my friends know and like my girlfriend). Everyone I talk to thinks we're perfect for each other, and I feel stressed out and alone in the world. Reddit, I could really use some advice; I have nowhere else to turn, and no one else to talk to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my ex and I dated for over 4 years and broke up about 3 months ago, we said we would stay friends. We work at the same place and have contact with a lot of the same people so I feel like it's impossible that our lives will ever be separate unless one of us finds a new place to work. For awhile I was a bit depressed and she came out as a lesbian about a month after the break up and is dating somebody that we both know and are friendly with. Of course I was a little upset about it, but I wasn't about to tell her that since she already has a bit of an issue with depression, and coming out to her parents has already caused a lot of problems so I didn't want her to feel any worse than she already did. So I just sucked it up and have been as supportive as possible to her through out this and I'm still friendly with her current girlfriend. 4 or 5 weeks ago, her friend and I started hanging out, going to bars, just hanging out together with no motive of hooking up or dating or anything, we are just friends. Recently, my ex comes to me and says that I've crossed a boundary by hanging out with one of her friends, not just because we're hanging out but I guess how close we've become in the 4 or 5 weeks. She feels like this is heading towards us hooking up. While I understand that the concern is warranted, I have tried to reassure her that will never happen and I wouldn't do that to her. I am also annoyed by this situation because I feel like the boundary was already crossed 2 months ago when she decided to date somebody that we're both friendly with from work. I wanted to point this out to her but she already isn't in the best state of mind so I didn't want to make her feel bad about that. Can anybody give me a little insight from an outside perspective? I feel like I'm thinking rationally but I'm way too close to this whole thing to know for sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend (we'll call him T) and I have always both struggled a lot with depression, me probably more than him. Lately, it has been even worse for me and it was taking a huge toll on him and our relationship, because I would always talk about how depressed I was (I know, I know, I was awful), and I was pretty mean. \n\nSo, T has been miserable for a while because of it so he broke up with me yesterday. But, he said he would definitely want to get back together if he felt I could make him happy. He wants me to do that by acting happy and showing that I've changed I guess. Obviously it's difficult because I'm pretty pained from the break up. \n\nSo far, I've put in my two weeks for a job that made me extremely depressed and very complainy to focus on making myself happy along with the relationship. And since we're currently \"friends\" I've been doing my best to be very nice to him, but since the break up WAS only yesterday I've sort of broken down a couple of times, but I'm getting better at staying strong. \n\nI am going to see T on Monday, what should I do to show him I'm really willing to put in an effort, and that things will be different? I'm willing to do anything tbh.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [28F] have frequent dreams about ex-boyfriends, about 3-4 times a week. These dreams are mostly non-sexual and the content is usually just me spending time with them, and feeling deeply in love with them. In the dreams, I am never aware of the existence of my husband [35M]. Some of these exes are people I have not seen or spoken to in over a decade. I have been married for 7 years, and I was hoping that over time the dreams would become less frequent, but they haven't. These dreams only involve ex boyfriends that I was involved with long-term. Some of the relationships ended abruptly or on bad terms. I have never had a dream about my husband.\n\nAfter I have the dreams, I usually wake up feeling very heartbroken and alone. By mid-day, I usually feel better and have moved on from the feelings. The dreams do not happen specifically during stressful times or when my husband and I are having issues; they are entirely random. Even on days when my husband and I are enamored with each other, the dreams can still happen. Most of these exes of mine have moved on with their lives, and are happily married with children. I don't think that contacting my exes would be a good idea, even if it was an issue with closure. I think discussing this with my husband would really hurt him. I feel helpless and ashamed that I can't control these dreams. Is this something others have dealt with regularly, and is there anything that I can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my GF and I have been dating for about 1.5 years and about 9 months into our relationship I told her I crossdress. This is something that I had done before I met her, and I felt like it was time to be more open with her and let her know this side of me if we were going to move forward.\n When I told her I wouldn't she freaked out, but she got very confused and upset. We have had multiple long talks about this and she is worried about me changing. She has told me how she wants the me she fell in love with, not someone that she doesn't know. She is most scared of me saying I want to become a women even though I say I don't.\nWe have made some progress, she is okay with me wearing panties around her and even finds it mildly attractive. However, she is convinced if I am given a free range I will change into something that is not \"her guy\". \nI believe this is an issue of her not being able to trust me, even though she does in everything else, which is frustrating to me. She also would like me to experiment with everything possibly feminine so I can find out what I want and then she will decide if she's okay with that. This is were I get very frustrated as its not possible to systematically eliminate all things that she might not be okay with, and hurts because she doesn't trust me.\n\nAm I being unreasonable for wanting her to trust me on this? I know I can't give her a definite guarantee, and I love her so much I would give it all for her (she doesn't want me to do that because she wants me to me).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My 3 year old GSD x Husky rescue stayed with some relatives for a few days while my boyfriend and I moved house, and the relatives found an old choke chain to walk him with, instead of his Mekuti harness. We have had real problems with him pulling on the lead, and the Mekuti harness has worked wonders, but didn't eliminate the problem. He hasn't pulled when on the choke chain at all, even when it was first put on apparently, so we think that is what he was trained on (and damage from that process is probably why his barks and whines sound a bit odd). We now think the people who had him before us were violent towards him (if you mime kicking he runs across the room terrified), so, my question is: he is best behaved on walks when wearing a choke chain, and it isn't hurting him at all, but will the harm chokers and the people using them caused him in the past affect him in any way now? I 100% DO NOT want to use a choke chain on him and I don't think anyone should ever, ever train a dog that way, but this chain is the only lead we've used that has completely solved the problem with him pulling, and he hasn't seemed stressed out by it. If he ever started pulling on the lead so that the choker was tight, I would stop using it straight away. The last thing I want is my dog being hurt. If I'd known these relatives were going to put one on him, I wouldn't have let them look after him. Still, it works and doesn't hurt him, my only worry is it'll do psychological damage somehow.", "role": "user" } ]

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