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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for close to three years now, living together for two of those years. All of a sudden, he stopped being able to pay his rent and I took up his part of the share. (Big mistake, since once this pattern started it never stopped). Since he is still a student, I could make excuses for this, and he still payed for some bills where he could help and genuinely was helpful.\n\nHe quit his job several months ago at my bequest to spend more time with me as we were doing fine on money and he was working a ton to be making minimum wage. Then, emergencies came up and money has been scarce since then. There always seems to be too much month left at the end of my monthly paychecks. We've tried budgeting, but even now I'm not sure how to pay the bills that are left for this month.\n\nI've asked him to get a job about a month ago and I feel like he's not taking me seriously. I am seriously considering breaking up as he brings along some seriously expenses and I feel like I am digging myself into a huge hole of debt. I told him today that I was ashamed of him, and I have been unable to respect him since he doesn't seem to put forth much effort. \n\nAm I at fault for telling him to quit his low paying job in the first place? How else can I help encourage him to find a job without it stressing him out so much he won't bother applying? Should we break up due to the money issues because it will make my financial load lighter?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Bear with me. My soon-to-be stepson is 23 years old and stuck in my basement. He did well in school until his mother mentioned that she would soon give him her car so he would have transportation for the job he would have when he finished his four-year college program.\n\nAfter 2.5 years of getting A's with doing nothing but handing in assignments and showing up, his marks suddenly tanked. He flunked his last year before the end if the second semester, and dropped out, saying he would get a job after Christmas - something that didn't happen.\n\nHe says now that if we would let him live the rest of his life in the basement with nothing but video games, that he would be happy.\n\nIt didn't take long talking to him to see he's smart. I managed to get him to a counsellor, and she says he shows no signs of depression or schizophrenia, but rather displays a very high degree of social anxiety. He sabotages himself regularly. Sleeping to late so he \"can't go out\" and so forth.\n\nHe sleeps all day, plays video games all night (I've blocked him from the router, but one of my neighbours does not have a password on theirs). He does nothing more than I ask him to, and even them it generally takes him being told more than once to do anything.\n\nI'm tired of being his babysitter: waking him for appointments, pushing him to get out. And my fianceeand I are tired of putting or lives on hold trying to help him when he will do nothing for himself. He says he's not worth anything to anyone.\n\nCounseling is ongoing but appears to be making no progress. We're thinking of making him leave the house for the daytime -he'd have no access to his game console or laptop- hoping he'd get bored and do something for himself.\n\nWhat do you think of this situation, or our half-assed solution? Any other thoughts on where we might take this? We'd like to see him succeed on his own and would rather give him a hand up than a simple boot to the curb.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm admitting I've been very lazy the past 2.5 months. I haven't done any runs. I haven't been to the gym. \n\nI'm most upset about the no running. That was my \"me time\". I recently had a major change in my daily routine. I went from not working or doing anything during the day for the past two years... to being a nanny for 7 weeks from 6am-5pm and then working at a local retail store.... to then finding a full time job that is PERFECT for me. \n\nI'm having a really hard time adjusting to the schedule and simply put... I just don't want to do anything when I get home from work. \n\nIts also summer on Long Island and its like a sauna 90% of the days. The air is thick and humid. \n\nI don't know if part of my issue is also that I'm not eating correctly and taking my supplements lately. I'm a gastric bypass patient. Almost 15 months post op. Down 188lbs. I feel like my body is done losing and I think that is also part of my problem. \n\nI feel like I need an ass kicking or a reboot. \n\nI need my mojo back. I need to get back on the pavement. I miss it. My body misses it. My back has been killing me and I know its because I'm not releasing the tension. \n\nI'm just having a hard time getting back into it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened just a few minutes ago. My girlfriend and I, lets call her Jan, were sending pics to each other. Jan is pansexual. She accidentally sent me a picture of one of our friends, we will call her Hope. This is where my low self esteem, paranoia and worrying begins. I asked her why she had a pic of her on her phone, she replied with \"it was a good picture. Plus I kinda like her.\" I start asking her if she'd ever leave me for someone else, cheat on me, etc. She got really mad and said \"Trev, I think we should see other people.\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My nephew has been asking me why I haven't been coming to their house anymore, since me and my sister had a huge argument a couple of months ago. I used to go there once every second week. I have been seeing my nephew and his younger brother outside the house. \nI'm not sure if I should talk to him about the fact that his mom and I aren't talking. I don't want him to feel bad about it. \nI'm sure my sister [F37] must have said something about me in front of the kids, she has a habit of talking bad about anything and anyone in front of her kids, and I'm sure she must have said something.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I started off yesterday, after an 8 hour day at work, with a surprise telephone interview for a job. The position is great, and they're having me come in for a live interview later this week. It a dream job, but it means being away from my SO for at least six months, and maybe up to a year and a half. \nThen, I found out that my younger sister is pregnant by her longtime boyfriend. She hasn't finished college, and probably won't now. Her boyfriend can't provide anything, because he works in fast food. But the biggest problem is that she just had gastric bypass and now we're concerned that she won't receive the medical attention/nutrition she and the baby need. My mother threatened to disown my sister if she told anyone. I argued that was going to be a difficult secret to keep, because there will be a human being as evidence. \nThen I find out that my father, whom I haven't spoken to in a while, is now a double amputee living in a shelter. He has dementia too. \nThen my sister tells me that three of my father's siblings have died before 65, from complications due to alcoholism. Of his remaining siblings, one is fine, and the other is in a nursing home because of their dementia. \nThat all happened in about two hours, and it was only this morning when everything stopped spinning à la Maverick-and-Goose-flew-through-the-jet-wash. \n**So, Reddit, What's your biggest 'when it rains, it pours' story recently?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I was 9, my dad never recycled anything our huge laserjet churned out.\n\nThe computer room was part of my bedroom. One night I was on a cot near the computer since I had a friend sleeping over in my bed. I got up to pee, but being unfamiliar with the new bed, couldn't find the door in the dark. I panicked, and just peed against the nearest wall. I turned on a desk lamp and saw that I'd pissed all over my dad's precious pile of printer paper. And the wall. And carpet. I was sure he'd be furious. Since he was saving those papers, and this was his office, I figured they must be important documents.\n\nWith piss-stained pyjamas (I couldn't change because I didn't want to risk waking up my friend by opening the closet), I frantically cleaned up my piss and tried to copy by hand all the text on those pages onto new paper with a pencil. But there was no hiding the fact that I'd pissed all over several hundred pages of white paper.\n\nI gave up and went to bed crying, struggling to keep quiet because my friend was a few feet away and I didn't want to wake him and see what I'd done.\n\nMy dad never noticed the next morning, my stomach in knots. Months went by, until we were moving to a new house. He picked up the pile of papers while packing, I froze. He said it looked like they'd gotten water damage somehow. He shrugged, and threw them all in the trash without ever bothering to save any of the information on them. All worthless. FML.\n\nI still recycle paper frequently due to the scar this left.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, like I said in the title, I've been with my SO for about 3 months now, and honestly things are going REALLY well. I'm extremely happy in the relationship, and so is he...\n\nExcept, I have this problem where I can't stop comparing myself to other people. I especially get hung up on his exes and girls he's had flings with in the past, but I mean, I compare myself to just about anyone, really. \n\nI wouldn't call it jealousy. I have my exes too, and that's totally fine, don't get me wrong. I just tend to compare myself. Like, for instance, pretty much all of his exes are a bit skinnier than myself and I feel bad about that, like I'm less than them for that. I have low self esteem, so I pick out the things in them that I think make them physically prettier than myself. \n\nI don't want to talk about it with my SO, because I don't really want to upset him. I've kind of mentioned it before but he didn't really seem to know what to say/do (he just kind of said \"Aw, no. you don't have to worry about that\" and told me some things he thinks are great about m, which is nice but.. doesn't really help me stop?)\n\nI don't want this to be the thing that tears us apart, because Ii really do care about him and want it to work, but it's really stressful on me and is causing my insecurities to really flare up and create new issues based on those.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Couple of my friends were planning on going to a holiday for a week and they asked me if I am 100% certain and I kept saying yes. My dad is supportive but mom is really scary about everything and kept saying no but then she said I'll think about it. \n\nSo yesterday I had to tell one of the friends that was organizing the thing if I'm 100% confirmed, but that \"i'll think about it\" turned out to be a no. She just spills reason after reason after reason for me not to go and it pisses me off. I had to tell the guy i probably wont make it and he sounded as disappointing as me. I am pissed off because i feel embarrassed, everybody is letting the other guys go but not me. Sure they are one or two years older but its not that big of a difference. And now if I am not going the group will be probably smaller than expected because couple of other guys also can't make it due to different reasons. I kept telling my self I will go to this no matter what, and I probably can despite moms will but I know this will make things worse and I will basically be coming home to a battlefield if it happens. \n\nI am so stressed and pissed off right now I feel like breaking everything around me. I am certainty not going to be talking to my mother for the foreseeable future. I'm just thinking what to tell the other guys who plan on going (if they are even gonna be going, because as I said a lot of people backed out and with me too I dont know whats gonna happen) so I don't look like a fool. Any thoughts and advice is welcome.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Am I right to be upset about her being at the house but not contributing in anyway?\n\nIt started out very slow, she would spend a night here and there. And it wasnt a problem. Then slowly she starts spending a lot more time here. At one point early on, she ended up staying a week without returning to her home. I asked my roommate about it and he was shocked and claimed he didnt realize she had been at the house that long. I shrugged it off and asked that it didn't happen again. Everything was fine for a while, and then she started letting herself in without knocking. I personally feel this is disrespectful to the rest of the housemates, am I wrong about this? Is this the norm these days?\n\nI asked them to have her please knock when arriving at the house, and she does, but then proceeds to enter the house anyway. I let this go as they are doing as I asked. \n\nThe next issue I have is her here without him, and even more so, her here without ANYONE else. I can understand her arriving before he does if they have plans, or shortly after he leaves. But hours before or after seems to be a bit excessive. And being here when no one else is I feel is defiantly out of line. When these things started happening. I asked my roommate if she is living here. And he said that she does not. I repeated my concerns, but this time they seemed to have fallen flat. Lately she has been here everyday and night it seems. It is rare that her car is not in the driveway. \n\nAm I wrong for feeling that they are past the line with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "All right, so there's lonely little me who manages to somehow arouse the interest of a pretty girl for awhile. She even kissed me a few times one night. Of course, over the weeks I managed to screw it up by being too afraid to be assertive and she started losing interest in me. She stopped being the first to text and would hardly respond when I texted her. And yes, after the night we kissed all we did was text each other for a week or two because we were probably both waiting for each other to be the one to take things further.\n\nThe people here told me I dropped the ball and it's over. They said she was being too immature to come out and say it's over, probably because she felt she was in too deep because she offered to take my virginity. But then I worked with that girl last night, seeing her for the first time since things went sour. As we left for the night, she gave me a hug, said I can come over with her and a coworker if I changed my mind (even though she never asked to give me a chance to say no in the first place which makes me suspicious), and told me to text her. \n\nHalf an hour later I texted her saying I changed my mind and wanted to come over. She said the coworker (some weird guy 30 years older than us) was mad so she was leaving. Although she still could've been sitting on his couch chatting with him for all I know.\n\nI need you guys to slap some sense into me. Because she hugged me and told me to text her, I have this little misguided sliver of hope. It's still over right, and she's still just too afraid to reject me? What do I do now? Do I text her now? What do I text her? She said she wanted me to text her, but I bet if I text her now I'll be getting one word and effortless responses like before.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My dog is a one and a half years old mutt. He's been strugling with bad skin problems ever since he was a baby.. He is itchy all the times and sometimes will make himself bleed for scratching too much... I saw the vet many times for that reason and tried many different treatments. I personally believe that my dog might have allergies and I asked a new vet for a scratch test. \n\nShe wasn't enclined to do that and told me she wanted to treat him (and my two cats) for parasites. I explained to her that we already did that less than a year ago and it didn't help. She kept on insisting and since she's a proffessional I kept on nodding and agreeing on her treatment plan. \n\nShe took samples of his skin on many different areas to check for parasites and the results came back negative... I had a 300$ bill and went back home with antihistamines and lots of worries. She still insist we should start the treatment this month even though they didn't find Anything.\n\nThe treatment is \"advantage multi\". I'm wondering why she wasn't inclined to do the scratch test right away and if she's pushing the meds just because she might get a bonus at the end of the year for selling a certain amount... Do vets get that for animal medecine? Should I stand up to her and ask for what I think is the best treatment for my dog?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Apologies if this is incredibly awkward...\n\nYesterday I was on a short flight and got into a really nice conversation with a girl I sat next to. We seemed to click on a lot of levels and as she left she gave me a hug. I was beaming for about an hour or so afterwards.\n\nShe gave me her profile on a social networking site that I don't belong to. I'm going into this with a more \"see what happens\" attitude. I feel like she'd be a cool friend to have but I'd be open to a relationship if, as we got to know each other better, we continued to click on these levels. Would it be creepy if I created an account, threw some content on there and waited a few days to follow her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is taking place in Austin, TX\n\nFWB = Friend With Benefits\n\nThe ex is Alice. Our mutual ex, meaning we were all three dating before, and then because of reasons, there were breakups, and now it's just me and FWB named Clarissa. Ex deserves to be upset, but this behavior is inexcusable.\n\nJust this past week, I gave up on being \"friends\" with this ex. She has been trying to convince me to break up with Clarissa for weeks now, and I finally gave up talking with her when she sent me with a falsified screenshot of a message (from Clarissa to Alice) implying something nefarious. I decided I was sick of the lies, and explained that I was no longer interested in staying in contact. I blocked her on every single digital communication medium I could (and her fake profile that she was using to get information from me). Clarissa has done the same.\n\nAlice most recently called in to Clarissa's place of employment, and claimed that someone fitting her appearance was smoking weed in her car in the company parking lot. Alice then makes an anonymous Yelp post saying the same. Clarissa's management took her aside privately and asked for clarification, and all agreed that it looked like someone was deliberately making a personal attack on her, so she still has her job. The Yelp review has also already been taken down.\n\nI need to know when I can decide that this sort of behavior constitutes legal recourse. Obviously, I can't take away Alice's ability to use a phone or internet. If I got an attorney involved, would they say \"until she actually causes provable damage to someone physically or to their livelihood, you have no case?\"\n\nI'm not interested in retaliating. I already know that this individual thrives on getting a reaction out of people, and Clarissa and I are committed to not giving her the satisfaction.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend texts with with this guy she maintains is a friend. They used to flirt a bunch but she says they don't anymore. She got a text from him this morning saying \"I had a fever dream about you.\" She maintains that this is an innocent text and doesn't mean anything (i.e. isn't flirty). I told her previously that I wanted her to tell me about things like that, and she didn't.\n\nAm I in the right to call her out on that? She got pissed and said that friends tell each other if they're in their dreams all the time. I said sure, but saying it was a fever dream implies something else.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Honestly this is a very awkward situation for me since I've always been a person that said he'd leave the moment he found out he's been cheated on. Couple years ago I got cheated on but for the first time ever I decided to give my gf another chance and I have stayed with her since then. For the most part I've been happy since then but my main problem is that deep down I'm unfortunately still enraged and paranoid about what happened in the back of my head. I thought I'd feel more mature for actually giving her another chance but I've honestly just feel like a shameful pathetic idiot for taking that choice. Unfortunately I just have always had issues with letting my anger die out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was at a party with my friend (who happens to also be my boss) and the girl I've been seeing/hooking up with. It's a pretty big party and everyone is drinking etc. My girl is acting kinda weird, flirty with other guys and generally not too attentive to me. I tell her I'm feeling tired and want to leave. I walk outside briefly and when I return she's making out with my friend/boss. Basically ended with me telling him off, to go fuck himself, that he fucked up etc and with her begging me to get in the car with her. I ended up getting dropped off by someone else altogether. They both seemed fairly sorry but I still haven't really talked to either one since. Not sure what to do, lots of mixed feelings, work is approaching on Tuesday and ill have to see him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I once pretended to be a big 1990's sitcom character( Psychologist) and emailed a 419 scammer( The Nigerian Letter Scams) pretending to be him..\nI managed to get another big TV character( A 1970's britcom hotel keeper ) to act as a lawyer/brother.. I had the lawyer go on a mental tirade involving a great deal of expletives. The scammer sent me something along the lines of we no longer want to deal with that mad man. He agrees to send his brother home.. I waste a day or two before sending them a letter telling them that the Psychologist was attacked by his brother with a tree branch and then used a car bomb to injure him. I sent them a fake newspaper article with a IRA Car Bomb as the headline photo. And they came back to me wishing me safe healing...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My former best friend I'll call her Jenny used to hang out with me all the time. We always got dinner together at least once a week and she was really close to my parents as well. Lately I've noticed since she got another new bf (she's had a string) that she's stopped responding to any texts I've sent her or trying to hang out. It seems her only focus is on said boy. \n\n[break] However, she will come back into my life if the boy breaks up with her for comfort and then will go away again as soon as she finds someone else. She's done this before and admittedly it was my fault for letting her do it, but I'm just sick of being used whenever she needs comfort from being dumped. Do you guys have any suggestions how to end this toxic friendship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so I couple days ago i was browsing the hubs, if you know what I mean, on my phone. To be honest, I was in the mood for a quick boosh before I hopped in the shower. I was looking for videos to go along with my boosh and I noticed the video would not play. I copied the video link to try it in a few different browsers.\n\nFast forward to today, My dad and I have been looking for a car to purchase. We both went to look at one today and both my mom and aunt wanted to know what it was like. I texted my aunt first, explaining how it went. This is where the fuck up is. After i sent the message to my aunt, i tried to copy it so i can send it to my mom too since i'm too lazy to type one seperate for her. You can probably guess what went wrong. IT DIDN'T FUCKIN' COPY. I go to my mom and I's text conversation and I paste the pornhub video link (when i thought it would be what i sent to my aunt) and hit send immediately after i paste it. Lo and behold, I send a pornhub link to my mom.\n\nI started to panic, not that i would be embarrassed or anything, but it is my mom i sent it to. That is a little weird. After i sent the link, i simply texted \"Woops, meant to send something else\" and then I pasted what was meant to be sent in the first place. She didn't say anything about the pornhub link, so I think she was completely oblivious to it. I haven't spoken to her in person yet, hopefully i got away with it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up about a month ago because we were long-distance. We'd been together for about a year with an 8 hour time difference. He told me he couldn't handle being so far apart from me anymore and it was causing him a lot of stress. I felt the same way too; I had a lot of anxiety, and so we decided to stay as friends. We still talked regularly as if nothing had changed, except that we cut the \"I love you's\" and pet names. But 2 weeks ago I found out that he has a new girlfriend. I was more upset about the fact that he didn't tell me about it. I suppose because we were friends now we could talk about anything, especially about something as major as that. He said he was afraid to \"lose\" me if he'd told me.\n\nHe still talks to me regularly. I try to avoid him when I can now. I thought he'd rather focus on his new relationship, and so I started talking to a guy on Tinder. We'd meet regularly, mainly for sex. At some point I just forgot to check my phone so I was avoiding calls and texts from my ex. He then asked me if he'd done something wrong because he felt that I was avoiding him. \n\nWhen I told him I was seeing someone, he became really upset/jealous and even said that I deserve better than a guy who just wants to fuck me. We talked for 3 hours about this, and he admitted that he still has feelings for me, that he really loves me but the distance is holding us back. He said his girlfriend is great but not as \"amazing\" as me. He missed the connection we had. I feel the same way. And now I think we're equally confused. We're not going to stop seeing our new partners because we'll just go back to square one.\n\nJust at a loss of what to do here. Should we go NC? (it's going to hurt so much) Should I pay him a visit and try again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just interested how common it is to have jobs where you can literally do nothing all day, nada. I'm not saying everyday but where the average workload is 50% or less than the time you have at work and where you can literally spend a day doing nothing if you decided on it.\n\nAlso interested in how many of you can say you actually get worked off your asses and have too much work compared with time?\n\nRealize posting this on reddit probably means I'm more likely to get the slackers...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a bit of background and sorry for any typos this is on my phone. My girlfriend has been in track the past two seasons usually placing top 3 in her main event and top eight in the other two. Recently she has refused to do one of her side events due to an injury that is worsened by said event which I believe to be why the coach has done this. \n\nSo on to the story, today at track everything goes as normal until about 30 minutes in when her coach calls her and about 5 other people in relationships over (side note: none of these peoples SO's including me distract at any sort of track practice or event.) and tells them they could be throwing and running so much better if they would stop \"exercising\" so much. He asks if he needs to clarify and my girlfriend says \"yes what do you mean?\" Knowing exactly what he meant. He tells them then they need to stop having sex. My girlfriend walks away after this and he follows her and tells her he doesn't appreciate how she acted when she said that and is now considering not taking her to districts. My girlfriend listens to this then goes and begins to practice her event obviously upset until practice ends and I come and pick her up. \n\nMe and her both have no clue what to do and whether or not we should report him to the school. I'm just asking for advice on how to handle this situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Using a throwaway since I don't want this tied to my main account. Anyways, I have a friend whom I haven't talked to in a year. I recently made a new facebook, added her (which she accepted), and sent her a message. We've known each other since high school, so about 5 years now.\n\nI asked her if she would like to meet up to catch up on things, she said she might be free this week (that was last friday). I told her just message me with a convenient time and she said sure. Now, I'm close to positive she won't respond again, which is fine, but I've been trying to mend a lot of friendships. I've 'restored' 3 or 4 now.\n\nI'm trying to change my lifestyle, and 'old me' would have sent a couple messages on monday/tuesday, but I don't want to sound creepy or needy. I genuinely want to send a thought out apology.\n\nI just need some help on getting it across in a decent way. Even if she just says she doesn't want to be my friend, I just want to send it as a peace of mind. I've restored 3 good friendships so far by 'speaking from the heart' but it was a fairly short thing since I had just fallen out of contact with them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Apologies for any formatting issues as I'm on mobile. I've recently reconnected with an old ex of mine from back in high school. We've both changed significantly over the last 7 years, to the point where we have a very different kind of relationship now than before. I would say that I've become a lot more open minded and less critical of things he's interested in, and he's become less self centered and more considerate of others, which makes us more compatible than before.\n\nHowever - we are both well aware that I am further along on my \"life path\" (aka I am already almost 2 years into my career while he's still finishing his degree) and this adds a strange dynamic to our relations. In addition, he is constantly complimenting me and telling me how awesome and beautiful I am, etc. I would say this ends up being about 50% of our conversations. \n\nDon't get me wrong, I like being appreciated - but for some reason I haven't been able to fully describe, I feel uncomfortable, like there's an imbalance. I expressed this to him and he basically just said that he's so impressed and infatuated and \"wants to treat me like the angel I am.\" \n\nThis is such a weird thing for me to be feeling off about and I'm wondering if someone can help me put into words what's making me feel uncomfortable so I can express it to him and hopefully figure this out. Thanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's the story. I'll to to shorten it as best as I can. Most of my girlfriend's friends (I'd say about 80%) are men. Our relationship is extremely healthy and there are literally no large issues. But when I see that she's texting one of her guy friends, it bothers me. There's no reason it should. She's texting people that she doesn't normally hang out with or see very often, which is totally normal. She's not talking to any ex boyfriends or men I think she's interested in (although they may be interests in her).\n\nThe odd thing is that it bothers me even though what she's doing is totally normal. She's not on her phone all the time. She's rarely on it. I've told her on numerous occasions that I don't care who she texts or hangs out with because she has all of my trust (she really does). But for some strange reason it just bugs me to see guys blow up her phone and call her all the time. She doesn't text or pick up the calls when she's with me. Sometimes she'll wake up with tons of texts and missed calls from all different people. \n\nI've never looked through her phone or snooped or anything. I don't think she's doing anything wrong. \n\nAm I just jealous she's getting a lot of attention from men? She's a very attractive, fit person. But it all boils down to her getting a lot of attention and and it bothering me. Not keeping me up all night or anything. Just slightly irking me. \n\nThis is probably normal but it's been a while since I've dated someone. Is this normal? Is there a better way to look at the situation? What did you do if this happened to you?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "we broke up about a month ago and went no contact for a few weeks, until he messaged me to say he wanted to let me know how much he missed me. he also told me he had sex with someone else and it made him realize how much he treasured our time spent together. understandably it made me upset but i thought him reaching out could be the first step towards reconciliation. we made plans for me to visit him (part of the reason we broke up is because we were in a LDR), but on the night before i was to go, i brought up the girl he hooked up with, and what he expected for our future. he was confused about what he wanted but by the end of the conversation decided in the absolute we weren't getting back together. \n\nhowever, he called me this morning and asked me to come visit him after all, and that he didn't care what happened after, as in the emotional after-effects of seeing each other again.\n\ni get the sense he's using me to abate his own loneliness, but so am i. should i go see him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We are in the process of buying a bank owned home. The house is in great condition with the exception of the basement. There is a water issue. It is not a finished basement, just basic cement floor/walls.\n\n Every day we had been there the basement was dry. The home inspector did find that a downspout in one corner was too short and is likely causing the source of a potential water issue. As it happened, the appraiser showed up the morning after some seriously heavy rain and there was a small puddle in that same corner with the short downspout. He made the appraisal subject to \"identification and remediation\" of the water in the basement.\n\nAfter jumping through the mortgage company's many (and changing) hoops, it is becoming clear we simply wont be satisfying their requirements and therefore wont be getting the loan through them.\n\nSo my big question is: Since this entire issue would never have come up if not for unlucky timing of the appraiser, I'd like to work with the selling bank to get the basement sealed and the downspouts fixed which should fix the water issue (mortgage was pressing for full 4-wall $$$ drainage system). Is it at all illegal to do this before finding another bank who will then order another appraisal? It's a genuine fix but feels a little like covering the issue up. Nothing that wouldn't happen if actual sellers were selling the place but still...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's my situation.\n\nOne day this girl added me on Facebook out of nowhere, we started talking, and it turned out she was a mutual friend of some of my friends and she served me one day at the coffee shop she works at.\n\nFastfoward, she invited to grab a bite a with her, that was our first date, and we started dating two more times until I asked her to be my girlfriend last week, and she said yes, at this point we had kissed, hugged and exchanged a few \"I love you\".\n\nNow, one week later she told me that she needs time to herself, but that she swears she loves me and want to be with me and we can still be dating, but she needs time because things advanced too soon between us.\n\nOne thing I forgot to mention about us, is that we just got out of abusive relationships recently, mine was a 4 years relationship and hers was a 6 months relationship.\n\nAnd I think my problem stems from a similar situation that happened to me before with my EX; I waited all time for her to recover from her previous relationship, but in the meantime I was the rebound and she was dating different guys until she found the one and then proceeded to dump me, and for this reason, I have this weird feeling that if I keep around this new girl until she recovers, is going to happen the same thing.\n\nBut I'm still taking her feelings as true, but I'm still confused of what to do, any advice guys?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Whenever I do activities that don't involve much focus, I get extremely tired and have an almost uncontrollable urge to close my eyes and fall asleep. This happens when in church, in class and even when driving (only in low activity areas like driving between towns). \n\nI love going to church and listening to sermons but am unable to stay awake. I love to drive but again fall asleep. My classes are understandable because most of them are boring but I still have an almost uncontrollable urge to fall asleep. I am only tired when I do these things and as soon as I stop and do something that involves more focus or brain activity I am wide awake and couldn't fall asleep if I wanted too.\n\n I am a 21 year old white male, who sleeps for 8 hours every night. I have a sleep number bed that is only a couple months old. This has been happening since I was around 17. Is their anything that I can do? An actual diagnosis for this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this might be long but I've run out of people to ask for advice. I am currently going to be a junior in the Journalism School and I'm on track to study Strategic Communication, specifically advertising. I've always been a really indecisive person and I knew I would have a hard time choosing a major. Lately i've been second guessing the journalism route because of a multitude of things, like people and the internet suggesting I won't find a job (I spend way too much time on reddit and it is SO anti-humanities), the fear that the job with be low paying, and the thought that I'm wasting my time in college and should have gone to trade school because I'm not in STEM. I don't want to be scared about my future job prospects. I'm the type of person that needs to feel confident about what I'm doing.\n\nI went to talk to the career counselor about my fears and he was super reassuring. He said its best to do something you're good at and that \"people find jobs\" and I have nothing to worry about. I then asked if he would give the same advice to an Art History major and he said \"Of course I would, they find good jobs as well and nothing is limited by major.\" Is that true? Because it scared the shit out of me. He didn't help at all by saying that. All I could think of was the old \"have fun serving coffee in 4 years, blah blah\" and he seemed to think Art History and Philosophy were excellent choices in major.\n\nSo the other day I came up with the idea of keeping my same J-school major but taking the med-school prerequisite courses as well. I know, you can't just decide to be premed, but I kinda did. Honestly I just want to have a financially secure future and not be worried and I thought it would give me a backup plan. Is this a good idea?\n\nAnd then I looked up the stats for med-school and realized its hard as fuck to get in and my GPA is already lower than what most school want, so theres that.\\ Does anyone have any advice? Major suggestions? I'm so lost...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my friend and I recently decided to start dating. We had a casual, non-exclusive relationship for a few weeks, and last night I told him I wanted to be exclusive.\n\nThe thing is, he talks a lot about how attracted he is to other women. He told me pretty much any time a woman is wearing X or Y, regardless of who she is, he'll be horny. He keeps a lot of female friends on Facebook simply so he can look at their pictures (and I guess masturbate to them, I dunno, based on what he's told me before). He still talks to his ex's. \n\nAnd last night, after I had said I wanted to be exclusive and we were talking about something else, he said something along the lines of, \"The physical half of my would fuck anyone who would fuck me. I'd fuck a pile of dirt if it felt good.\"\n\nAm I weird for being upset by this? I understand being attracted to other people is part of life, and that doesn't bother me. I don't mind him watching porn or anything like that. It's the attitude of being willing to fuck pretty much anything that moves, having sexual feelings towards his female friends… I guess it's more personal than I'm comfortable with.\n\nIt just made me feel really shitty. Is this normal? Am I supposed to be okay with this stuff? I don't think he'd cheat on me, but I guess it makes me feel like sex with him is nothing special, and I don't like that feeling in a relationship. All of this just came to light last night after I told him I wanted to be exclusive. If I had known this stuff beforehand, I'm not sure I would've jumped into it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am F (22) and he is 24, dating a year and seven months. \n\nI'm not the best at making friends and most of my close friends don't live nearby anymore. I'm not planning on moving back to my hometown when I graduate college this December. I want to stay in the area I'm in. I would like to hang out with my bf and his friends more often so that I am not so lonely. I have communicated this to him on numerous occasions. He does not react to it.\n\nTo be clear: Yes, I do have friends. But I like the social situation he's in better than mine. Where numerous people are involved. I could make friends, but it's difficult for me. I don't want our social circles separate. Whenever I have friends over my place I invite him as well. I am not asking him to include me EVERY time he hangs out with them. A couple times per week - maybe even once per week - would suffice!\n\nHe hangs out at this one couple's apartment (and their one roommate who has been my bf's friend since high school) almost as much as he hangs out at my apartment. They are social butterflies so to speak, and they often have numerous different people over. They live ten minutes from me. He sees them after he gets off work, and then comes to my place. Sometimes he gets so caught up in hanging with them, that he doesn't even come to my place. I can probably count on my hand the number of times I have been to their apartment with him.\n\nHoly fucking shit would I love for him to just start including me in his social life. I don't understand why it goes in one ear and out the other. Does he seriously not want me around his friends? I am getting angry typing this.\n\nI don't know how to confront him about the situation. I already have and he won't listen. To be honest it almost makes me want to break up with him, even though we have a great relationship otherwise!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 20 years old and I need to make a decision about the next two years of my life. Within a week. I currently work for a bank that requires strict sales goals to meet. IF they aren't met three times (three months) you're canned. They pay me 10/hour and it's not unheard of to get a raise in 6ish months. The issue is, I'm not a salesperson. That's not my personality. I'm amazing at customer service, I have the most positive customer service \"reports\" done about me in the short time I've worked here. A coworker asked \"do you ask for people to fill these out? you have a ton\". That being said, I have a job opportunity at Chase Bank as a part time teller. What makes this decision so hard is that at my current job, I get 40 hours and Chase could only offer me 20 hours/week. Drive time to my current job is also 21 miles one way while Chase is literally 1.8 miles from my house, allowing me to go home for lunch. I do have an apartment and an awesome roommate that I know wont be late on his portion of rent, so paying bills with 20hours a week isn't the issue. It's the spending money and being broke all the time.\n\nI previously worked at Wal-Mart and took home just about 400 dollars every other week. So I know i can survive on this income. I just don't know whether I should go for Chase as I could definitely see myself having a career there. I'm a math major likely going to become an actuary, so Chase could provide excellent opportunities for me eventually.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 20f and he is 19m. So basically I looked at my boyfriend's Google search history (I know, I know) and I stumbled across \"glory holes\", he read forums about them and ended up looking for \"glory holes IN [our city's name]. I told him what I found and he said he was just \"being curious\", but why is he THAT curious to look for specific locations of glory holes? I don't know what do to. I don't think he would ever go to one but it scares me anyways. We have had issues with our sex life recently and I think he may be looking for other outlets. What should I do? What should I think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and this one girl have been working at the same place for awhile now, I'm just having trouble with figuring out a way to start talking with her without coming off as creepy. I work at this place full time where as she works just on weekends, since she attends college during the week. It's a retail job, so weekends are very busy.\n\nI am able to talk to her in short amounts of time during the days she actually does work, but don't feel that it really amounts to much more than just chit chat. It's almost always a customer needing to be helped or me being needed somewhere else as to why we never get more than a few minutes to chat.\n\nOver the times that we have talked, she seems to be a very sweet and energetic person, someone I'd like to get to know more. I feel that just outright asking for her number is weird since we talk for only a few minutes a day if she does work. I'd like to be able to talk to her more and get to know more about who she is. After that, eventually see if she's got some interest in me, and then go from there.\n\nWould it be weird of me to ask for her number in a situation like this (in one of these brief encounters)? If so, what are some ways that I could get her number without coming off as creepy? This is my biggest issue. I don't really have a problem with talking to someone and getting to know them, but the fact that I don't really get much of a chance to interact with her makes this situation seem like it could come off in the wrong way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend here in Israel is 20, and I'm 25 (American). She is on her base all week, and I see her on weekends usually, which has worked out well so far. We talk often. I'm very much in love with her and she is with me.\n\nI just moved from a boring place to the absolute center of Tel Aviv, and it's become clear to me that the change in my circumstance has her nervous... because that's exactly what she said to me.\n\nThe first night I was in my new place I was invited out by a roommate, and so I went obviously because I'm new in a foreign city and desperately need friends. She called while I was out and so I found a quiet spot and talked to her for a bit, and since then she has been distant.\n\nWhen I talked to her this morning I tried to explain that no matter where I am or who I'm with, she's completely #1 for me, but it doesn't help. She says just talking about it makes her nervous.\n\nShe has said many times that \"All the women will look at you and try to steal you\" etc., so maybe it's the sudden proximity to a lot of single girls, but really it doesn't matter if Bar Rafaeli herself approached me... I'm a man of my word and I literally only care about this one girl. I could see myself marrying her.\n\nI just can't seem to get past these weird fears she has that somehow I will find someone else, and now it's making me nervous also, because I don't want her to see our situation as hopeless either!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all,\n\nI'm a 28 year old teacher with moderately OK credit. I work in a state that is fortunate to pay its teachers reasonably well. I rent. I have a small emergency fund, am steadily paying off student loans, and am wanting to save more for retirement. Last year I saved 10,000 pre-taxed income in my school's 403(b) retirement vehicle with AXA-equitable. I'm liking AXA so far, no complaints. Not sure if AXA is the \"best\" provider of a 403(b), but it's the only one offered by my school at the moment. \n\nI'm writing because I see a lot of chatter about the value of an IRA, I'm not sure what makes the most sense in the long run. My school does NOT offer matching funds, so all of the money in the 403(b) is my own. The max I could contribute is 17,500. This is more hypothetical because at the time I don't have hte finances to afford maxing out, but.... would it make better sense to divide my investment between the 403(b) and an IRA?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So for the most part, I've been told I look about 19/20 and that I have a baby face. While I know it's a great trait to have when I get older, I feel like it's a turnoff or doesn't make me masculine enough to have women take me seriously when it comes to dating. I've been told plenty by female friends, colleagues, and the like that I'm a super nice, high-energy guy, but when it comes to asking women on dates, I tend to get the runaround, or dare I say it, get put in the \"freind zone\" as they go off and date more masculine guys. What advice do female redditors have for someone in my situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there, I recently starting counting calories with MFP and it has been great. It is forcing me to cook more (which I enjoy doing) and I actually like what I eat more than when I was eating whatever I wanted. I am a Male 6'2\" and I started at 255. It has been two weeks and the scale showed 242 this morning. I am worried that I am losing weight too fast. MFP suggested a calorie goal of 1740, and I have never gone over and am typically 2-300 lower than that goal. I also do 20 minutes of stationary bike on even days and weights/body weight exercises on uneven days.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work as a cook in a restaurant and ever since my old boss got fired, the new guy has been a real prick. Even so, he's been pretty lenient about making food for yourself on the job, but has been increasingly stingy about making food for servers, runners, etc. Not to mention he tried to short me on a paycheck. Anyway I was never shy about taking food from work, but now I do it more than I ever did or would need to.\n\nTaking a meal home is frowned upon--and I do it anyway--but I also find myself taking home food that isn't perishable (jars of nutella) or that I don't even want and won't use (coconut milk?!?). Also I took a shit-ton of saran wrap for my windows when it got cold.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A girl and I have recently started dating. Long story short, she was talking about her past sexual experiences and said that her old FWB (male) (also her best friend currently) is very good at sex.\n\nI told her that makes me a bit jealous, and she promptly said that I'm good at fingering, etc. and that I'm a very affectionate, etc. To me, they are just compliments to shut me up even though I'm sure she was being sincere.\n\nI don't think I'm jealous because of the fact that a guy has had sex with her or whatever, because that's all in the past. I think I'm just insecure knowing that I'm possibly not her best sex partner, which is the dumbest thing ever but I can't help it.\n\nShould I just get over it? Or is there something I should do?\n\nI am going to try to not think about it too much. However, there is a very good chance I will meet her best friend. I feel like I would feel really insecure/self-conscious in front of him. What can I do to help ease that feeling?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My GF (23) and I (21), have been dating for 2 years and we had been acquaintances for a year or so before hand. We see a lot of each other and spend the night together 80+% of the time, whether at my place or hers. \n\nWe have had a recurring argument for a long time that comes up every 2 months or so about her perceptions our relationship, where she feels that I take her for granted, that she does so much for me that I don't seem to appreciate and that I'm not always there for her. Often the argument comes up after one of us has been away from the other for a couple days. I try to be supportive and talk it out with her because its important to me that I understand her frustrations and make sure it doesn't happen again but when we start getting to the root of the problem (this can take a very long time, since she is reluctant to talk about it) she tends to get more upset saying that explaining herself just makes her sound like the \"bad guy\". When I tell her that its really upsetting to me that she does this (It gives me the feeling that I've done something horribly wrong but it never gets resolved and I never get any indication of how to be a better BF for her) she shrugs it off and we go on until the next time this happens. \n\nIn the mean time she has been busier and busier with school, spending little time with friends, since her free time is usually spent with me (her choice) and our sex life has been less and less active.\n\nI just feel like we're stuck in a loop and at the same time our relationship is faltering in other ways. I'm not sure what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, here we go. I am kicking myself hardcore, and I really need to stop being so fucking awkward in relationship scenarios.\n\nThe other night I had a little party and had some friends over, and they brought one of their friends. Very cute girl, we have talked a few times prior to party night, and we seem to be fairly comparable. So I am pretty excited that she will be coming over. We had made plans to hang out a few times previously, and things kept popping up that made us change the day of our hang outs. \n\nWell, the night progresses, and much liquor is consumed. People are getting ready for bed, and picking their spots to pass out/sleep, and some how she and I are in my bed with some crappy TV show on. Shes 99% naked as am I, and I froze. Completely froze, did not do anything, didnt make a move, didnt even hint at anything. Just layed there staring at the TV with this mostly naked girl in my bed.\n\nNothing ended up happening, but we do have plans to hang out at her place again fairly soon, and I need help. I need to not be that dumbass again and just sit there with my thumb in my bum, but for some reason I couldnt do anything to stop myself from being super awkward, and I fear that it will happen again next time we see each other. \n\nI think the majority of my nervousness came from not wanting to say something stupid, Ive been in 2 LTR my entire life (totaling about 10 years combined), and its been easily 10 years since Ive been in the early stages of dating, and I am terrified that I will say/do something retarded and scare this girl away.\n\nNot quite sure if this is even the place to post this, but I couldnt think of anyplace better so here it is. I am a bit drunk as I type this so if it doesnt make sense, please spare me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear redditors, \nI opened my first Tumblr account about a week ago for sharing pictures of my newborn daughter with family and friends. We disabled google search so that nobody could find us. \n\nToday, I saw something that turned my stomach. A Tumblr user had reblogged a picture of our daughter onto their own page. When I looked at their page it was full of explicit porn. (a la 4chan) \n\nI'm not sure why they reblogged it to their Tumbr and frankly I don't care. I attempted to delete the photos from my page hoping that the link would be dead... but they stayed on the other person's page. I e-mailed Tumblr for help but they have not responded yet.\n\nI'm creeped out by a photo of my newborn daughter being reblogged on a pervy pr0n Tumblr site. Is there anything I can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I hope this is the right sub, I searched a few, and couldn't figure out the appropriate one.\n\nI am female, age 30. Uncle male, 62, paralyzed from the chest down for the last 44 years. Other individual age and gender unknown, but claims to be female and 32. \n\nI am the primary care provider for my disabled Uncle. He lives in my house. Last night, he told me that he has been in an online relationship with a woman is Ghana. She says she is in love with him, but in a bind, and needs money. He is asking me to go purchase a money order (a few hundred dollars) to send to her. Obvious scam. \n\nHe is lonely. He has been single for decades because of his disability. The woman makes him happy, even if she is just a con artist. Part of me just wants to just give in because its not worth getting in between my Uncle and his happiness even if he is getting used. If I don't do this, it will cause a big rift in my relationship with my Uncle. On the other hand, F--k that b--ch. Nobody uses my Uncle with my consent. \n\nI don't know what to do. Help? Advice? Experience?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys! I am a future freshman from Europe (I am a male and I will study in the US) at a tech school. Although I am smart, I am not very geeky (actually not at all) and I like to have fun. I am not into wild parties every night, but one every weekend (or at least every couple of weekends) is a priority for me. These are my problems:\n\n* Tech school students are not that much into partying\n* I am international so I basically have no idea how to be cool with Americans\n* (because of these two) I don't know how to find the wright people to hang out with (geeks --- wright people --- wild animals)\n* I heard that some weirdos rat people for no good reason, like drinking a beer in the room or coming back from a party drunk, and this may seem like no big deal to citizens, but I am on visa and they will find any reason to kick me out, so how do I stay away from those guys\n* (Q) are there places where each type of students usually hang out?\n\nCould you give me advice on how to deal with these problems and stay away from the dark side at the same time? Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This fuck up happened a couple years ago before I knew of reddit and now I feel compelled to share it. \n\nSo it was new years eve and my husband and I didn't have much food in the house. So I decided to make some homemade potato chips to munch on while we watched a movie. I used a pot and heated up some oil. The chips turned out okay I can never seem to cut them thin enough. I turned off the stove and returned to the couch to watch our movie. \n\nSo the kitchen in my apartment was hiding behind a corner, so there was no way we could have noticed the flames any sooner. \n\nI see a ominous orange glow coming from the kitchen so I casually walk over and turn the corner and...\nOH SHIT! FIRE! FIRE!\n\nI literally panic like an idiot. And thank goodness my husband was there to take care of the situation otherwise I would have surely burnt down the apartment. Turns out I hadn't turned off the burner, but had left it on the highest setting.\n\nSo my husband bolts into the kitchen and grabs the pot of oil that has ignited. With some quick thinking he grabs a nearby pan and attempts to smother the flames whilst running out of the kitchen towards the door. I open the door and finally in the breezeway of the apartment complex my husband tames the fire.\n\nThere was black soot coated on the vent hood of the stove and my pan was destroyed. I am just glad I didn't start the new year by burning down the apartment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Little background. Im a 28 Asian(vietnamese) female. Born and raised in California. First generation. Only child. My name has always been \"asian,\" never really had a legal american name. Regardless, around the age of 8, due to my name ending in Dai (Pronounded Die), people started calling me Lady or Lady Dai. So for 20 years, my given name correlated with my birth name.\n\nSo today I get an email from my dad. He wants to change my birth name to an even harder to pronounce vietnamese name \" Thien Kim T. Nguyen\" Personally I cant even pronounce the first word. Ive stated \" if Im going to change my name to anything, Its going to be Lady or something AMERICAN.\" due to the fact, I work in a business industry, an even more complexed asian name, will not fit, or make introductions to others any easier. \n\nThe problem is my dad is your typical \" Im right you are wrong\". His reason for changing my name is to change my fate. To make my life better, change the course I am on. I don't agree with this logic, and as he is the most superstitious, demanding asian father, I dont know what to do.\n\nI know I can simply say no. And not go through with the paperwork, but my dad is vengeful. He will make sure my life is a living hell, cutting me off, disowning me. etc. etc. Its all been done before. \n\nIs there a way I can approach him, to get him to understand? Im hoping someone has some insight on dealing with asian parents. As I was more influenced by the American Culture, its hard for myself to speak in a way that could be understood and respected.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Disclaimer: sorry if this falls into the mediocre and vague category of questions, but I don't know how else to put it.\n\nI'm a recent graduate, came out of uni in the UK last year. Haven't found anything I really want to do with my life yet in terms of a career, so have been muddling along in a call centre for the time being. With respect to this question, it probably doesn't help that my university (Oxford) is really the kind of place that holds your hand - at least in terms of providing accommodation, food etc. \n\nI'm sure that I want to travel and see the world, especially now that I'm in a time of transition, but I cannot even begin to imagine where to start. Every time my mind returns to the subject, and starts to think about the impossible complexity of the world outside my small country, I am hit with almost a sense of dread. Part of that dread is, I suspect, the worry that I will never pluck up the courage/resolve/whatever to actually do it. \n\nDon't misunderstand me, I have been abroad - many times. However, it has been exclusively in Europe, and only on what would be called holidays rather than 'travel'. \nWhen I hear or read about people going away for long periods of time, like a year or more, I wonder how can they do it? Does it cost enormous sums of money (which I lack)? Do they work while away? If so how on Earth does one organise such a thing? Down to even the basics, how do they choose where to go, how to move between places, everything. \n\nPart of this post is really just me tossing my frustrations out into the void. However, if anyone has any words of encouragement for a young man huddled in the corner of a room made of windows but no doors, they would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To start off, I have never cheated or dumped someone. I like to think of myself as an ethical person that would never do something like that ^^^since ^^^its ^^^happened ^^^to ^^^me ^^^a ^^^LOT\n\nMy relationship has been good thus far with no real complaints on my part. However with the summer months --that I've been looking forward to since I met her in the middle of our god-awful winter -- I've been feeling like we both aren't as excited to see each other or make plans... My schedule is flexible and with no job and no school she really has few reasons she can't hang out.\n\nYet, we simply don't see each other, often for as long as 2 weeks sometime. I'm feeling more and more like she's just a girlfriend on the weekend and a text buddy for the remainder. I'm almost always the one who takes the initiative to make plans, and it's starting to frustrate me and causing me to feel neglected.\n\nTo make things more complicated, I've been growing closer with a friend [f/21] who is more aligned with my interests, seems to have a good sense of where she's going in life, and has always been a source of astounding conversation since I've known her. Last night we hung out until the wee hours of the morning, opening up on very personal subjects and then sharing a bed that night (zero funny business).\n\nThis is the worst thing I've *ever* thought I'd say but I almost feel like I'm dating the wrong person. I feel disgusted with my own thoughts of leaving my girlfriend to jump ship to someone else. I am at a loss and it's eating me away inside.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there,\nSo yesterday I ended things with a wonderful girl who I'd been dating for a year. For the past couple months little things kept ticking me off, like how she would be afraid to make decisions because she was worried I would be disappointed with her choice. Or how I felt like I was doing a disproportionate amount of the work during sex for less enjoyment. She is a very sensitive person and so when I would try to talk to her about these things it would usually end in tears and I would struggle to get my point across. I decided to end it when I thought about whether this was someone I could see myself with 5 or 10 years down the road and the answer was no. Of course, there were so many wonderful things that we had together, and I can't stop thinking about what I'm giving up. She loved me entirely for who I am and I couldn't give that back to her. Do you think we had a chance? Was it possible for her to change? Or was is best just to end it before things got more serious? \nThanks for your time\n\n#", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A newspaper (Metro News) is having a contest and effectively whoever gets the most votes can win a chance at a sub-orbital flight into space. Judges will be polling the applications with the most votes, so you really can help me win a trip to space! Because of what region I'm applying in, there is very little competition.\n\nMy entire life I've been working towards a career in space science. I spent years working at one of Canada's only dedicated Space Science and Human Space Flight museums teaching about the wonders of the cosmos. I do research in astrophysics now: I work on the VERITAS experiment, a gamma-ray observatory near Tucson, Arizona. I am participating in Mars simulations (I am the Chief Engineer for the Mars Desert Research Station's Crew 116) and in my free time I like reading and learning about the history of human space flight. My passion for this field allows me to do public outreach with the Astrophysics group at McGill University. I love being able to share my passion with others and get them interested and motivated in such a fantastic field. Being able to go on this adventure would be achieving a life goal.\n\nThe current post with the most votes has ~25,000 votes. This is nothing compared to some of the other regions (which have 60,000+). So, really, support from even a small part of Reddit can really help me out. I'm in second place with just under 2800 votes.\n\nAll you need to do is go to and click 'voter' (French for 'vote'). No signup, nothing. Just vote. Use your phone, your laptop, your tablet, anything!\n\nAnything you do will really increase my chances of going on this adventure. The contest runs until the end of the month. It's one vote per computer, per day.\n\nThis would be a life accomplishment for me. Reddit, please help me! (If anything, please upvote this so that it gets more visibility! This is a self post so karma wouldn't be an issue).\n\nIf selected, I promise to do an AMA.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend moved across the country 5 months ago for work, leaving his other friends and family, and I'm the only person he knows here. We met on a forum online and have been friends for about 3 years. He's a very sensitive person and very shy, which means he hasn't made new friends here and gets offended when I say I'd rather hang out with other people over him. He is my best friend, but I'm starting to feel suffocated. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him and constantly make excuses and explain myself. I don't like making plans because I'd rather just do a thing when I feel like it, but he needs things to be very planned and gets upset if something falls through or doesn't turn out the way he expected. I end up apologizing for things I don't believe warrant an apology, and just give in because I don't like to argue. I really like the guy, but I'm starting to wish he'd move away again so I could stop feeling so responsible for his happiness. Because it's stressing me out very much. Besides friend breaking up with him, what can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway is because she also uses reddit.\nMy girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and things are very serious between us. We've been living together for about 6 months now and things have been pretty much perfect. We have similar interests and ambitions and I really feel like she makes me a better person, I love her. The only problem is that she never wants to have children and I really want to have a family.\n\nI think her dislike of children stems from her being bullied a lot as a child, having a terrible childhood herself, and generally having bad experiences with children as an adult. She is completely unable to interact with other peoples children, and has very little patience for them. It's so strange because she's a very kind and understanding person towards other adults, she's one of the nicest people I've ever met. She also studies medicine and the thought of pregnancy and giving birth seems very unappealing to her.\n\nI don't know what to do, I've been thinking a lot about the future lately and taking the relationship further but I don't know if I can do it knowing that I may never have children if I do. I've tried talking to her about it, and suggesting she talk to a psychologist to try to disassociate the bullying from how she sees children but she isn't too keen on the idea. I've also tried to look at the positives of having a life without children, to try to gauge whether it's worth it or not. But I'm just very unsure and If anyone has had a similar experience I would love some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello PF! \n\nBeen a reddit lurker for a few weeks and i figured now i will make an account to ask for some guidance as i feel a little lost in my current situation.\n\nI am a 21 year old male living on long island working an 8-5 office job and going to college twice a week (last class till i can graduate with my associates). I currently own a old beater car with alot of problems and im constantly scared its going to die on me. On top of that I have to be out of my house by january. I make $14 an hour, roughly 400 a week now with school, have only $2000 saved for an emergency and a credit card with a $2000 limit i only want to use for emergencies. I honsetly have no idea what to do. Im saving every penny possible until ja uary so i can try and get a decent living situation as well as a new car but it just doesnt seem possibe.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit! \n\nI need some job-hunting advice and I was hoping this subreddit could give me a fresh take on the situation. Background: I lost my contract job as a Sr. Systems Admin in December due to the dissolution of my department and I've been looking for work since. The problem has been that my last job before this one was also contract and also one in which I was let go before the end of the contract term. That unemployment stretch lasted about three months. During that time, I applied to about 15-20 jobs per week and had an interview roughly every week and a half. \n\nThis time around, with more experience and the same level of effort, I have had a total of 3 interviews, but these were not direct hires so I'm faced with the same risks as I have been at the last two positions. I've been targeting System admin/SQL developer/Business Analyst and Jr DBA-type positions both locally and out-of-state. Honestly, I'm not sure if it's my resume or the positions I'm applying to (or the fact that I don't have a CS degree), but I was really hoping for some feedback/advice on what I can do to get some interest.\n\nPlease see the redacted resume below.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: I'm a girl who's going into her junior year of high school and I live in Canada. I'm starting to thinking about university and I've decided on something business related, either econ, commerce, finance etc. \n\nMy (Indian) parents however do not take me seriously when I tell them that's what I to do/major in because they believe that the only acceptable option for me is medical school. \n\nMy mom is a doctor and my dad works in business/did his MBA so I don't see why I can't follow in his footsteps, rather than my moms. It's not as if I am throwing my life away, working in finance is a respectable, well-earning career. I have taken a lot of business courses in high school and I know that's what I have a passion for. \n\nRather than reasonably discussing going to university for a business related degree, they choose to lecture me about how my life will be miserable if I don't go to medical school. They say that I have 'expensive tastes' that can only be satisfied with a doctor's salary. \n\nNow they are starting to become desperate when they see that I'm not budging about medical school. They are saying that anything STEM related is ok too. I told my parents that I don't have a passion for STEM, I used the example that I took a tech course and I hated the programming/coding. \n\nIn reply to this my mom literally said, \"it doesn't matter if you like it or not, you'll be happy once you get the salary\". So I told her that I'm not going to suffer through a 4 year degree (let alone work as that my whole life) of a subject I hate just so I can be happy with the money. \n\nI fear that by the time I go into senior year and university applications are due they will still be begging for me to switch to medical school instead of helping me do a degree in business. \n\nIf there is a better subreddit to post this, please let me know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work at a call center at had a older lady call in who was very distraught. She had called in multiple times that night and no one was willing to listen to her. I talked to her and found out she had just got medical news that she did not have much longer to live. She was very scared and said she didn't have anyone to talk to and felt very alone. It broke my heart and by the end of the call I was in tears myself. I know I broke the companies rules but I wrote down her address because I wanted to send her something anonymously to maybe cheer her up a little. I wouldn't know what to write in a card since I can't say who I am. I don't have a ton of money to spend but want to send her something. Wondering if anyone has any ideas of what I can send her? I can be a one time thing or some little things to send every once in a while.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, where to start... I'm 20, I like this girl but we've been friends for 5+ years now, I never really had feelings for her before but I've started spending more time with her and found I had a lot more in common then I originally thought.\n\nI have been told by other friends (girls and guys) over and over again that I should ask her out, but I get the feeling that I will just get rejected as she may see me as in the dreaded friend zone.\n\nI want to know whether I should take the risk or go for a girl that I'm not really that interested in but I know that she likes me because she's always grabbing my hand.\n\nI will answer any questions that do not reveal my identity or anyone else's involved.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've known him for a few years now, but only recently have we started dating. He's definitely someone that I care about and he hasn't given me any reason to doubt his sincerity.(so far)\n\nBUT, the hardest thing is that he goes out dancing a lot (that's where I met him and we do that regularly) and has SO many friends that are girls. They are beautiful, smart, fun, creatures and sometimes it's just really hard to trust that he's really just interested in me only. \n\nHis Best Friend is a girl.. that CONSTANTLY facebooks him \"I love YOU!!\" etc... and it's just so uncomfortable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off I will preface by saying I am in the US, and more specifically MA. I know many states have differing laws on this so I feel that this is important to say.\n\nSecondly, if this is the wrong sub, please let me know and I'll change it. It just seems like the best place to get some help.\n\nI had been working at my most recent job for roughly a year and change when I had to move for family reasons. Before I left I confirmed that I had about 6 days PTO unused, and according to my knowledge of the MA labor laws this is something that I have earned and therefore should be compensated for. I left assuming that I would be getting this with my final paycheck, but was surprised to find ~~that not only was~~ this not included~~, but I was paid much less than I usually am per period, despite being salaried.~~\n\nSo from my point of view, I should be entitled to the 6 days worth of PTO, ~~plus the remainder of the pay period that I was not paid for.~~\n\nMy employer does not see it that way, and claims ~~that since I only worked 4 days out of the last bi-monthly pay period, then I only earned 4 days worth and~~ that the PTO is not mine until I take it.\n\nIf it helps, this is a very small company, ~15 people, and I'd like to not burn any bridges.\n\nWhat should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As much as I want to talk about this to someone, I don't want anyone I know to misunderstand and think ill of her, which is why I've come here. My dad died yesterday after a long battle with cancer; it was very emotional and we all cried, the air was somber. \n\nI know everyone grieves differently, but I can't detect serious sadness from my older sis. She was close to my dad, but today she just laughed and joked around (as did I to an extent) and even yesterday, she was planning on going on a long hike with her boyfriend this morn. I told her not to go, that mom needed us around. She left my room an hour ago, trying on my dresses and picking out the cutest one (and raving about it) in preparation for going to the movie theatre with her bf tonight. I couldn't help but feel completely annoyed that she wasn't spending time with us. \n\nShe's gonna get dressed up as a cowgirl to go on the weekly themed bike rides my area holds tomorrow. I looked at her in disbelief, and she scoffed and told me not to judge her. That I can be sad and mournful all I wanted, she didn't care. \n\nI don't think she's in denial, as we've been discussing all the funeral planning, but I really don't know how to feel about this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "OK, here's the story. I'm having my second child. It's going to be a boy. My first was a boy. I didn't want to circumcise him, but I gave in to family pressure. One of the things I was told was, 'don't worry, everyone does it and everyone is fine.' Well, after seeing the first emotional expression on my newborn baby's face; fear, pain, confusion... it was traumatizing for me to say the least. Yes, he's fine now, but that memory will always haunt me. (And perhaps him too, who knows) \nSo, now, with boy #2 on the way I am absolutely refusing to put myself and my child through that again! As you can imagine, I feel I am totally alone in this. Yes, my husband is standing by me, but he is also being affected by the stress of it. \nNow, I've been raised Jewish, but I'm not a religious person at all. I've always questioned tradition. I don't keep kosher, I travel on the Sabbath, I don't go to temple, even on the high holidays. So, I can't justify putting another child through, what I feel is, an out dated traditional ceremony. It just doesn't feel right. There is an alternative ceremony that includes the blessings and the bagels ;) but no cutting. \nOf course there's the issue of both boys being different and if it might cause a problem for my child in the future. \nSo, my question is, are there any Jewish males out there who have gone through this ceremony and what was it like for you growing up? Are there any brothers out there who are different in that way and how does it effect your relationship? \nIf anyone wants to share their story about how they wish they were or weren't circumcised, I'd be interested in hearing it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old and we live together. For a while we were long distance up until May of this year. He's never posted a single thing about me or us on social media. No pictures, no statuses, and if we go out and do something fun or cool it's always somewhere along the lines of \"can't wait for the concert tonight\" and that's it. No tagging, no recognition, nothing. I know this sounds like such a first world problem but like idk it's just weird. I was the one that had to initiate making our relationship fbook official too, after waiting a few months to see if he would. Idk reddit, maybe I'm being ridiculous, but should I be concerned? And how would I bring this up to him without sounding stupid?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My story is, (24m)i have been out of relationships and even have had literally no sex life for a while. I met a girl(22f), who i think is awesome, and she has a boyfriend. That isnt the problem. I respectfully act as a platonic friend to the girl i originally had feelings for, and to a lesser degree her boyfriend. Now, somehow or another while i was drunk and we were all hanging out at a bar one of her friends(19f) came up to me and started giving me compliments and all that, she posts on a sexual comment i made on fb later on that night, i get her number not very long after (next day, first time we talk on fb). We have been meeting up to see eachother with other people around and she always kisses me, which i am loving. I even got her to go see a big concert with me in a city thats 30 minutes away (she brought her friend tho, and we didnt do anything but kissing/a little dancing) Yesterday i txted her early in the day and she said \"Im in a terrible fucking mood\". I ask why, she sais its personal, so i say ok, you dont have to tell me if u dont want, as long as you still talk to me. she sais \"okies\" and i guess i may have danced around it to see if she would let anything else out. \"so what are you pregnant?\" lol gawd no etc etc. well, i finally send her a last one saying to hmu if she wants to hang/talk/wtfever. she didnt, and instead made open facebook posts about how happy she was and shit. \n\nheres where i fucking blew it reddit: seeing the fb posts i txted her \"hey u up? i wanna talk to u im gettin this wierd feeling that i missed my chance or somethin...\"\n\nits 730 am. should i just go get drunk or something and try not to think about it? cuz im kinda stewing in what closely resembles highschool style rejection.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in school I should finish in a year and half. I am working part time at a low paying job, I have tried for over a year to get something better. I am having family issues, my mother is seriously ill. To make my life work right now I am needing to balance it all out. School, Work and Life. On the side I am looking for things to make life more frugal. I am applying for food stamps and hopefully will get more help in school.\n\nWhat I am asking is for tips and ways to help life right now. I want to live with as little stress as possible but I know its going to be hard.\n\nWhat more is out there? How easy is it to sell clothes etc on ebay? How likely is getting assistance through the state ( only temporarily)?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriends dad passed away in early December of last year, before he and I even met. We met in late December/early January, and it actually took me a while to find out that that had happened (his friends told me, because they didn't want either he or I getting hurt). We started dating in the middle of February, and so far as I can tell from what he's told me and the interactions we've had, I don't think he's grieved much since that time, unfortunately we are also long distance most of the time because I'm attending college in a neighboring state. So, the anniversary of his dads passing will be coming up before I'm back in town for winter break (mid December to mid January). I also am not sure if Christmas is a touchy subject, I haven't really brought it up with him because he's never brought it up with me and I don't want to cause him to feel sad by taking about it and asking questions. \n\nIf it helps for advice, he and his father weren't very close, his dad was strict and my boyfriend was a pretty rebellious adolescent, so they were always at odds until my boyfriend got older and they understood each other a bit more. I also am slightly concerned that he feels a small amount of responsibility, for reasons that it's not my place to talk about. \n\nI've never had a close friend who has lost a parent, so I'm really lost on how to give him my support without dragging up a lot of pain. Thank you for any help you can provide.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, imagine 50 years from now, we have flawless and painless non-lethal warfare technologies that are all remotely controlled, like warm flying blobs that gently, politely, and safely scoop up any resisting combatants and deliver them to a resort-like minimum security prison with comfortable, dorm-like amenities. There they would be rehabilitated for the most part, and soon after released. No interrogations or intelligence gathering unless someone volunteers... although some regime leadership members might face war-crimes/crimes against humanity charges, etc., but with no chance of death penalty. \n\nAlso, the entire purpose of the invasion would be to establish democracy. \n\nEach robot fighter on our side would be controlled by a human, so no robot automated decisions, and every action of every US robot is recorded live from a hundred little cameras and released live to the public on a million streaming channels, with no chance to censor anything. \n\nAfter a decade of infrastructure improvements, education, and constitution writing in cooperation with local elected representatives we'd leave. \n\nOne last point - to those that say this prevents their self-determination as a people, I just want to clarify that in this scenario, they aren't self-determined to begin with, as they are controlled by a single hereditary dictator. The idea would be to make self-determination possible through democracy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just checked my credit score. Instead of the usual 679, I see 587. I start freaking at see that I have a collection agency after me for $679. T-Mobile sent me to collections on a phone that I returned to them months ago. I called them multiple times months ago after I got collection notices about it. The last rep I spoke to, probably 3 months ago, told me they received the phone back and all was fine. Then I check my credit score today, and this. I'M FUCKING BEYOND LIVID\n\nWhat do I do? If I dispute it and they remove me from collections, will my credit go back to 679?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in need of some advice! Disclaimer though, I know not everyone agrees with casual sex, but all that matters is that I am and that I am safe about it. Please no judging on that aspect :)\n\nThis last weekend while out I ended up meeting a guy and we found out we had some mutual connections,we danced, hit it off (both were drinking though) and I walked home with him to his place. He got my number before we went to his place.\n\nObviously, we hooked up and he said a lot of \"sweet\" things (like constantly mentioning that he loved what was happening and that he really liked me a lot - I know that can't be entirely true though as we only had just met). After we were done, he kept mentioning that sex with me was the best and I said that I should probably go home as I didn't want to overstay, but he told me not to worry and to spend the night.\n\nIn the morning, he kept on cuddling up to me while we were both awake and we kind of just lingered in bed for about an hour because we both weren't feeling 100%. I was going to walk home, but he insisted on driving me, so I let him. There was just small talk in the car about plans for the day (what we were each doing) and about how we both didn't even plan on going out the night before.\nBefore I got out of the car, he double checked to make sure he got my number.\n\nMy question I guess is - do you usually hear from guys like this again? I guess because of the cuddling in the morning, and some comments he made during the night and then the checking to make sure he got my number are throwing me off a bit. I know this very well could be a one night stand, but what do you think from a listeners POV? It's only been almost three days since I last saw him.\n\n(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of 11 months has told me before that he has masturbation and porn addictions and that he's working on them, I try to not bug him too much about this.\n\nI went through his phone today (I know, terrible and crazy of me, I invaded his privacy) and I read an email between him and his friend. My SO was saying he jacks off to slutty pictures of my friends on instagram. I am hurt, but I know that most men do fantasize about girls they know. I don't know if I should confront him about this, should I be angry or am I in the wrong for snooping? Is it normal to jack off to pictures of girls that are friends? Keep in mind he has a masturbation addiction, so this is probably a frequent thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright so Christmas is coming up and I literally have NO idea what to get my boyfriend... He already got me something and it's.. It's pretty expensive.. I don't know what it is, but we were in the car earlier and I asked him about things he'd want \"You don't have to BUY anything.\" is what he told me.. I am at a loss.. I really can't think of anything.\n\nI really feel like shit for not being able to think of a Christmas gift. I want it to mean a lot. He's a level-headed realist Atheist. He enjoys video games like skyrim (mostly WoW). He likes Mid-evil things. I just want something he can cherish forever that he will actually like... Any ideas? I have a pretty small spending amount.. And I at least want to be able to make it. (I am really artsy).\n\nWe have been together for a Year and a Half now, live together and what not. I am 20, he is 21 Obviously I am female, he is male.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for 2 years now. I want to make it perfectly clear that I respect that he has a job, and I respect and admire how hard he works at it. I don't mean that he shouldn't have a job or that I want him to quit. \n\nTrying to keep this anonymous so I won't mention what he does, just that for the most part, it's pretty heavy manual labor. He goes into work at 1PM, and doesn't get off sometimes until 11, 12, or 1AM because he gets more orders that he has to fill. It takes him about an hour to drive home. So, usually, he's gone from 11:30AM-12AM. It fucking SUCKS. He works 5 days a week, usually, but sometimes he gets called in to work on a Saturday. \n\nWhen I first met him, and first became exclusive, he had pretty regular job hours. 9-5, typical. The company he worked for shut down, and he found this job. He started out only working maybe 5 hours a day, and then it jumped up to this shit because he had a few guys quit. \n\nThis has been going on for the past 6 months, and it's taking a serious toll on our relationship. We only see each other at night when he gets into bed (I'm already asleep usually, I have to be at work at 8) and then on weekends, he usually sleeps late Saturdays because he's exhausted. So Sunday is really our only day. \n\nI love him, but it sucks that we never have anything to talk about because he's always at work, or sleeping. I get SO annoyed when we make plans for a Saturday, and then Saturday morning rolls around, and his boss calls wanting him to come in. If he says no, he'll probably get fired.\n\nWhat can we do? I would never expect him to quit a job. So I don't know how to handle this. I feel like we're just existing to each other because we never have time to do anything as a couple.. nothing is moving forward.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been exclusive with my boyfriend for one month. It has seemed like a fairy tale thus far. He is extremely handsome, fit, doesn't drink/smoke, soft spoken, thoughtful, homebody like myself, supports his mother, and is extremely successful. He has taken me on trips with beautiful hotel suites and fancy dinners, pays me endless compliments, we always have a great time together no matter if we are watching movies or just washing his car together, and he has been there for me during some rocky times. It is the most exciting beginning to a relationship i have ever had.\n\nThere are some concerns though which make me wonder how healthy things are:\n\n1. when i googled his name, it came up with an arrest earlier this May for \"DV INV\" which supposedly means domestic violence. Not sure how to bring that topic up for conversation?\n\n2. He says he is not a jealous person, but i have noticed if i go out with friends, the next day he will hardly text me/not see me if we had plans. Seems like a \"conditional love\"\n\n3. He likes sex to hurt me. Granted this is not the entirety of sex, but maybe 10% of the time, and he stops when i tell him. I'm understanding of kinks, but i do know this can be a warning sign.\n\n4. He has already told me he wants to marry and have children with me. (granted i've fallen for him, and these things sound wonderful to me too)\n\n5. His father was physically abusive to him and his mother until he was 7 when his mother fled to the US.\n\nIt is very well possible i am being overly cautious as i do volunteer for a domestic violence organization, combined with the fact i feel like this is too good to be true and i don't deserve something so perfect. Where do i go from here? Do i discuss my concerns/his arrest or try to hold back so i don't get hurt? Am i being a crazy person for getting this \"feeling\" that he may abuse me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because my boyfriend knows my regular username. So my boyfriend and I have been talking about moving to Germany in a few years and traveling across Europe together (we both live in the U.S.). The company he works for is a Germany-based company, so he has always had hopes of being able to travel there for work. He recently got the news that he will be traveling to Germany, Wales, and London in a month for two weeks through his work. \n\nI am ecstatic for him because I know how badly he has wanted to travel there, but I can't help but have a little FOMO (fear of missing out) because I wanted to experience Europe together for the first time when we went. Now he will be going to many places we wanted to visit without me, so it won't be as much of a new experience for the both of us when we go. \n\nAlso, he will be traveling during the time I had planned a very long tattoo appointment which he promised to attend with me so I could have someone's hand to squeeze. Now I have to find someone else to commit to sitting with me for 6 hours while I get tattooed :/\n\nAny advice on how to shake this FOMO I'm feeling would be greatly appreciated. As I previously stated, I am more than excited and happy for him because I know he has wanted to go to Europe more than anything. I just wish we could have experienced it together for the first time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have the most making girlfriend ever and unfortunately she wants to break up with me. I know else loves me so much but unfortunately I lied about my past. She asked me on the third date when I lost my virginity and the true answer is 21 but I thought in the back of my mind this amazing girl will find that pathetic so I stupidly said 19. I knew this would come back to haunt me. \n\nShe has severe result issues after going through a tough time in her life and I don't know what to do. She made me promise once we became a couple to always be honest with her but I knew that I had to hide this as it meant that I only just lost my virginity and I'd recently found out she was a virgin so she would be sad that I couldn't share this experience with her. \n\nSo I held onto this lie but it was eating me up inside until today when she asked about it I is it blurted it out. I've been an absolute idiot and now she thinks she can never trust me again. What can I do to get her back? She's absolutely perfect in my eyes and and couldn't bare to lose her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /r/relationships,\n\nFor some background, my boyfriend has oculucutaneous albinism. Essentially he has pale and sometimes translucent skin, very light blonde hair, and his eyes move back and forth due to a related condition called nystagmus. \n\nMy boyfriend thinks that he has faced a good deal of discrimination due to his disability. He goes as far as to say that people don't want to really get to know him because of how he looks. He has very few friends, but the ones he does have are very close friends. I'm not sure if he's right or not, but I do know I enjoy spending time with him and really can't see why his personality would turn people off. \n\nNow for the friction. He and I have decided we are going to be entirely honest with each other. This means telling each other things that aren't always pleasant. \n\nThe fact of the matter is I have a good friend who has told me flat-out to dump my boyfriend because he looks weird. (She even pointed out the moving eyes and hair) I have a few others who have disapproved of me dating him because they don't find him attractive enough. Of the several friends who have met him or seen his picture, only one hasn't implied or outright told me that my boyfriend is unattractive because of his condition. \n\nI have told him about all of these interactions because we both promised total honesty. Also, I think I may have made a mistake recently. A guy in one of my classes was hitting on me (even though I told him I have a boyfriend). My BF asked me who I found more attractive and I told him that I find him more emotionally attractive but I find the other guy more physically attractive. \n\nNow my boyfriend is acting very distant and I'm not really sure why or what to do. Please advise reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened when I was around 12. I found a turtle in my back yard, put it in a box, and brought it inside. From experience and from TV I had developed an understanding that I couldn't force an animal to be friends with me. I felt a sense of pride in my maturity for realizing it might take time for this turtle to like me. I covered my floor in newspaper, took him out of the box. Then I went and sat on the floor across the room. I had the fanciful idea that if I was patient enough, the turtle would warm up to me even though I removed it from its natural habitat, family, friends, etc. \n\nI sat there and waited. Sure enough, the turtle began slowly crawling over to me. I was ecstatic but I sat there playing it cool for almost 45 minutes. The turtle made his way across my room inch-by-inch as I daydreamed that he actually wanted to sit in my lap, play with me, etc. \"All it took was a little patience,\" I smugly thought as the turtle finally arrived. As soon as he was close enough to reach me, he stuck out\nhis neck and bit me really hard. Dejected, I put him in the box and took him back outside. So his (defensive) attack, while painfully slow, was effective.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Different account from my main because my boyfriend is a reddit lurker.\n\nI have many insecurities about myself, and I'm afraid that this may come between my boyfriend and I. Being overly self-conscious is something that I have struggled with for years. He knows about this, and tries to reassure me, but at times I let my insecurities get the better of me and I lash out. \n\nHe tells me that he likes me the way that I am, but I'm very self conscious about my appearance. He's naturally very thin, and I weigh about 35 more pounds than he does, so this makes me feel pretty self-conscious around him. I have talked to him about my insecurities before, and he said that if he has seen any downsides, or anything that I should feel insecure about, that he has decided that these things don't matter. So is this a good thing, or might this mean that he is trying to look past a \"downside\" to dating me that may become a breaking point for him later on? I have a habit of worrying about little things, so I can have a difficult time differentiating between something that may actually be worrisome, or just me worrying too much. \n\nHow can I come to terms with my insecurities and be more accepting of myself so that I may keep it from becoming a problem? I don't want my self-consciousness to come between us.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It has been just about 7 years since we have been dating (since high school) and I love her to death. We have always had a kind of long distance thing going on because we went to different colleges but we were able to see each other during the summer. Just a few days ago, though, she tells me that she isn't sure if I make her happy and needs time to think. This has really torn me apart because I have tried to change as much as I could for her (like cleaning more and playing less video games), but it really feels like it was for nothing. I have tried to give her space to think, but I always cave in and try to convince her to stay with me. She says she wants to the end of the month to think, but I don't know if I can reasonably go that long without talking to her again. I'm at a real loss of what to do because I don't want to lose her, but I want to make her happy as well. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey. Throwaway here... \n\nI have a heartache. I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I will be visiting him soon. The distance is hard, but we try to be pretty consistent about Skyping and visiting. It's less than 2 hours away by plane, so it could be a lot worse. We've been friends for five years, and he's been great. I sometimes contrive loneliness due to lack of attention, but we're both busy with full schedules. I never felt the head-over-heels attraction for him, but fell in love with him pretty gradually. He was there for me after a bad break up and eventually feelings developed. We've been together since, and for the most part I've been pretty happy.\n\nI met someone recently, and I began to realize that I was quickly developing a crush. We would message each other throughout the day when I was at work, just to talk, and I now know I look forward to it. It doesn't hurt that this guy seems to be reciprocating. I realize that having a crush isn't the end of the world and can happen to anyone, and I don't feel any desire to cheat, but I'm at such a loss on how to deal with my emotions. I haven't done anything save for talk to this guy, and I feel immense guilt because I know I'm enjoying it. I'm trying to muster up the willpower to just cut the connection before it gets harder for me, and then another part of me tells me not to. \n\nI'm not 100% sure what I'm asking, but I felt like I had no outlet and needed to get this off of my chest. I feel so mixed up. My SO knows that I'm friends with this person, knows that we talk (though he doesn't know the extent of how much we talk). I set a boundary with new guy, saying he needed to curb how much he flirted since I was in a dedicated relationship, and here I am crushing like I'm fourteen again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I play a game with my six year old where I give her a topic to research on Google and she writes a basic report or draws it, depending on the subject. We were driving somewhere yesterday and talking about shapes, the difference between a pyramid and a cone, trapezoids, rhombus, pentagons, octagons. She knows all of those, no problem. So I try to make it harder and the only thing I can think of is a dodecahedron.\n\n\"Do you know what a dodecahedron is?\" I asked her. \n\"No. What's a dodeca... wait what did you say?\" she replied.\n\"Do-dec-a-he-dron.\" I repeated this a few times until she got it. \"When we get home I would like you to draw it for me.\" \n\nWe get home, I give her my iPad, write the word down on a piece of paper for her to type into Google, and go into my office to do some work. She gets out her crayons and paper. About 10 minutes later I hear her crying. I walk into her room, there's a couple of crumpled pieces of paper on the floor and she's bawling. \"IT'S THE HARDEST THING I'VE EVER DRAWN!!!!\"\n\nI thought it was a simple two-dimensional shape, like an octagon with more sides. I look on the iPad screen and see a twelve-sided, THREE DIMENSIONAL object. Aw fuck, I'm an idiot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I were together for 4 years and recently moved to VA. She couldn't find a job so she began helping me with my business and personal affairs. This gave her banking account access to my personal and business. \n\nThing went well for a long time but our relationship soured and while I was out of town she moved out. I don't really care about the personal items/money she took...that can be recovered in time and I didn't want her on the street anyway. But she cleaned out my business account for about 7500.00. That money wasn't really mine, it was from customer whom had ordered things that I haven't paid my distributor for yet. So now I haven't the income to re-order those things and send them to my customers. \n\n I've waited about a month to try and reason with her before calling the police but now I feel like I don't have an option. She hasn't responded to anything and now my customers are pissed because I haven't delivered. \n\nwhat are my options if any? I don't have money to hire a lawyer which is what brought me here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last week TIFU. Tuesday Night 2am.\n\nSo I was with my new friend with benefits in my apartment and we were wondering what to do. I asked her if she wanted to smoke a joint and maybe have some sexy time while high... She was up for it but she told me she doesn't smoke often and she get a huge feeling and I told her I'm the same.\n\nWe get to the balcony (I live on the 3rd floor) and smoke it and relax while talking... After 15 min or so, I ask her if she want to go inside and have a little bit of fun... She agrees to it and I go back toward the window-door. The thing is hard to pull... so I decide to go ham and try as hard as I can... but it doesn't move... You see, she closed the 3rd \"Window-door\" and this one need to have the little handle inside pushed for it to unlock... So we are trapped !\n\nShe tells me if I have any way to contact somebody... I pull out my phone and say \"yes im going to contact my landlord... hes going to be pissed but he lives in the same building so it should be alright\". At the same time, I realize I reset my phone to default the same day and still didn't put the contacts back into it... I also recently moved to the city so I don't have any friends to contact.\n\nSo we are locked out on my balcony, on the 3rd floor, high as fuck, at 2am in the morning without any way to contact anybody and we are starting to freeze (it was like 5 outside and we didn't bring warm clothes)...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 22 and have been with my husband for 3 years. A little over a year ago I cheated. We had a lot of issues. Basically I felt like he didn't love me and didn't care to listen to me. We fought and most of the time when I brought up something I was upset about he seemed to turn it around to be my fault so I quit talking. Instead I started talking to a friend of mine who actually seemed to care and listen. When me and my husband had a fight my friend was always backing me up which felt nice. One thing led to another and I ended up cheating. \n\nI regret it. I hate myself every day for it. I have since cut off all ties with said friend and we live a long distance apart. Me and my husband decided to try to make things work. We went to counseling three times since it happened then things felt a bit better so we quit going and started focusing on our up coming move. We get here and things seem to be okay. We're sort of in a rut but I've been doing my best to show how sorry I am for what I did. We finally settled in here and things seemed to be looking up after a pretty crappy year. \n\nToday I mentioned I was abnormally content only to be told that he can't see us staying together and maybe we should split up. Obviously I deserve this but I am crushed. I don't want to lose him and I don't want him to hurt anymore. He said he'd love for him to feel the same way he did about me but he isn't sure it's possible because of what I did. He said what I did may just be the end of us. Has anyone been through this before? Has anyone's relationship been pulled through the mud so badly only to have it work out? I feel so lost right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, \n\nThis is my third year at community college and I'm going to be applying to colleges this year. \n\nThroughout the years at community college, I've been thinking about what kind of major I should be doing or career path after college. I've never had solid grasp on what I wanted to do, so I usually followed what my parents and friends guided me towards. \n\nIn my first year at CC I thought about majoring in computer science, but after taking some programming classes I was shocked to find out it was completely different from what I thought computer science was. \n\nThen in my second year, I thought about doing electrical engineering because my dad told me it was a safe and stable major to choose, also because he works in a engineering company himself. I thought to myself this was going to be the major I'm gonna stick to, but after getting obliterated by physics classes I was discouraged and changed my mind about engineering major. \n\nNow here I am in my third year, still debating what major I should be considering. However, I was considering maybe majoring in mathematics because it is somewhat related to a career path I was interested in, which is cryptography. \n\nHowever, I've read about some stories about math majors who've went onto upper division classes and ended up changing their majors because it was not what they expected. I'm aware of what the upper division courses for maths are like because I've looked up some problems people post, and it does terrify me quite a bit. \n\nI guess I'm worried because if I do end up majoring in mathematics, I may end up switching my major when I transfer because I don't have enough guts to handle it. \n\nI'm sure a lot of people on here had similar problems or anxiety like me, having doubts about one's ability, how did you guys decide on your major and what advice can you guys give me? \n\nSorry for my disorganized post, my thoughts are jumbled up so I can't put together my thoughts well together. I appreciate any feedback or comments.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just came back from the airport where I said goodbye to my girlfriend of 4 months. She is going back to her home country to start university and I am going far abroad for a university exchange which lasts 12 months. This is not a break-up because we still very much want to be together but because of important things going on in our lives, that gets complicated.\n\nThere is a chance that we could see each other around Christmas time, so about 6-7 months from now, but that is still incredibly far away and I don't know how to deal with such a long wait or this situation as a whole.\n\nOf course I can only speak from my side, but I know that we are both deeply in love with each other but the foreseen (yes, we knew this was going to happen) circumstances mean that we both have to start one of the most important parts of our lives and go our separate ways.\n\nWe're both very excited to be starting the things we are, but at the same time extremely sad to be leaving each other (almost unbearably so).\n\nIt's hard to explain exactly why our relationship works so well but I want to know what I can do now. We are going to continue to be in touch and hope to start again some day (in any form, be it as a couple or just good friends). I told her just before I let her go that we're just putting this all on 'pause', not stopping it completely – kind of like a video tape. I hope this is realistic and I'm a bit scared and feel sort of lonely now without her constantly around.\n\nI need tips on how to effectively stay in touch and keep this going please, as well as some help on keeping my chin up during this crappy time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first year of uni. At the start if the year I met this chick doing the same course as me and who also happened to be on my dorm floor. We started hanging out a lot, and we became close pretty fast. We're very similar in a lot of ways, including music/movie tastes and life beliefs. We both also happen to have depression, and we've had some really honest conversations with each other (I've probably shared more with her than I've shared with my therapist). She's my best friend. \n\nI never really considered anything but a platonic relationship with her until quite recently: when we started getting drunk together. Basically every time we did there would be this strange sexual tension. Until one night we kinda started cuddling and then slept (literally slept) together. Since then (about 2 weeks ago) we've spent a lot of evenings with each other: her staying the night probably more often than not. Things have escalated to kissing, then boob touching, then fingering, then last night I ate her out (after being in town) and we slept together naked. I should note that we're both quite sexually inexperienced. I've gotten with only 4 girls before, and only had proper sex with one of them a couple of times. Aside from making out with other people, the only sexual stuff that she's done has been with me. \n\nHowever, since we have depression, we can both be quite mean to each other sometimes. Also quite manipulative. It often feels like we're competing. We've talked about it before and agreed that it's dumb. I'm hesitant to date her because it seems like it could end up being an awful relationship. I'm hesitant to bang her because despite what I wrote above, her friendship is very important to me: I'd say we both help each other a lot when going through particularly shitty times. I told her I wanted to be friends with benefits but I don't think she's happy with that and I don't think I am really either tbh.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a very anxious person in general, sometimes to an obsessive degree.\n\nWe've been together for over two years without having sex. At first she was too young (14) and now she wants a time when she is free of stress so she can be relaxed and not have to worry about anything else. The.. event itself will take place in about a month, after she finishes her exams. We've considered it now and then through the time we've been together but always decides to wait.\n\nNow it isn't being put off any longer. And, while it has been a TORTUROUS wait for me (worth it, to be with someone like her), it suddenly seems... rather sudden and immediate. \n\nGod knows I want to, and I definitely don't want to wait any longer, but at the same time I don't know how I'm going to be fully ready by the time it happens. \n\nI understand on an intellectual level that it is not that big a deal. Just sex, right? But emotionally it seems like a great deal more than that.\n\nAnd I know that it is for her. We're very open in discussing these matters. To her this is a really big deal; her virginity is something she can only ever give to one person and she wants it to be meaningful. It's sharing a more intimate part of herself than she ever has before.\n\nI understand and even agree with her. But that kind of adds pressure to the situation. I don't want to screw up and make her first time something she doesn't want to remember. And I don't know if worrying about it will just make it more likely to happen.\n\nI'm not even sure what I'm asking here. As much a chance to just talk about it as possible,I guess; my only confidante aside from my girlfriend is asexual, and as such she can't give much input here. But do I really have anything to worry about? Just how badly CAN I screw this up? And is there anything I definitely, definitely shouldn't do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is going to be long so be prepared. Me and this girl have been on and off for about 2 and 1/2 years now. And this is our senior year in high school. We have finally been able to make things work and we dont have much time because i am staying in state for college and she is moving up north but i really do love her a lot. but we argue a lot. Over stupid things that I dont mean to do. Like if I dont rush around with her to do things for her. And she says i dont do enough or dont care. But recently she acts like she doesn't want me around. But she will turn around and tell me she does and that she loves me too. But this is her birthday weekend and she is currently mad because i cant afford to buy her gifts for birthday and valentines day and take her on two dates and to a movie and the circus and buy her prom ticket on my part time job paycheck. She claims she isnt mad but i can tell she is. And last weekend we were supposed to go out to eat and she decided she didnt want to. But we hung out anyway. It took four calls for her to answer. While i was there another male friend called her and she answered first time and almost made plans with him but didnt. Then when i asked if i could fill the plans she said she couldnt. And I just told her thats what has been bothering me lately and she is now ignoring me and told me to leave her alone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When we met last year we knew of each other but we had never talked but because of a group project we were forced to talked and we instantly started flirting and we knew we had something special. After awhile we started sating and we were each other's first real relationship so we took everything slow. \n\nAs we dated we liked each other more and more but as teenagers we both agreed that we didn't understand real love and we knew we would not last through high school but we made each other happy so we were together. We got serious about 5 months in our relationship and truly knew that we loved each other. We thought that this was the ideal relationship and we even thought we could last. \n\nWe had our problems alone the way like jealously and being too clingy but we got over them. In December he started to change and became more like a teenage boy and stopped being romantic and emotional to the point where he got annoyed if I told him I loved him. He became mean and distant and I did everything I could to keep us together because I still loved him.\n\nHe only got worse from there and said he did not love me anymore but loved me for what we used to have. He broke up with me a month ago and ever since then I cry everyday because I miss him and us. He said he wanted to be friends but he's still really mean to me and today I told him off and now I feel empty and don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For almost all my post-high school life, I've been single or at the most simply dated. There were a myriad if reasons for this, but for the most part, it never bothered me. \n\nI started dating my current gf 14 months ago, although we worked together and had been acquaintances for approx 3 years before we started dating. She knew who I was and seems to accept my habits like the fact that I smoke pot each night, dedicate alot of time to my new profession as a brewer, watch sports all the time, etc. \n\nNow that we're living together, I can't help but think I may have made a mistake. We get along great and aren't constantly fighting. But part of me still can't shake this feeling of, \"what the hell have I gotten myself into?\".\n\nFor example, my gf is very picky about certain things around the house and for the most part I'm not, but when I do assert myself she gets pretty bent out of shape very easily. She'll get over it quickly when I explain why it's not a big deal, but the fact that she gets all pissy for 10-15 minutes about me wanting to add more pasta sauce to MY raviolis concerns me as it seems like the kind of thing that doesn't warrant a second thought. \n\nThis kind of stuff doesn't happen all the time, but I'm noticing that she sweats the small stuff too much in general, gets stressed out easily it seems and kinda shuts down (quiet, not very responsive, seems sad). Is this something to be worried about or am I just making excuses since I'm not use to such commitment?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, I hate the town we live in for many reasons. Some I know are petty but some I feel are legitimate. I can't seem to make friends here as hard as I try, I can't find work and I feel very isolated a lot of the time.\n\n Jacob (my SO) has good work here and very recently got a promotion. He has a steady job he loves and he loves it here. He is from this town and I'm from another town a few states away. We met in my town, fell in love and lived there for a while. Work wasn't as easily available for him and the cost of living there is much more expensive than it is here so we left after 2 years. We've now lived here for 2 years and I'm just not happy. I had friends, a steady job and family in my old town. Here I can't find work because its mainly hospitality and Jacob works days and nights so its not feasible to work around his hours. We have 2 children that I can't get into daycare because they're all full, so even regular Mon-Fri work is out. I've tried play groups, local parks, clubs, local events and markets in an attempt to make some friends but this is a very big retirement town and any other mothers here are in their 30's and people closer to my age don't have kids and I can't seem to connect with anyone. \n\nHis family live here and none of us really get along. Were both polite to them and will always help out of we can or are needed, but we don't see them often. My family live 2 hours away and they have accepted Jacob as part of the family completely but that's not really relevant, just trying to demonstrate that my closest support system is 2 hours away. \n\nI had friends in my old town who I maintain contact with, I feel like I had more of a life. I wasn't just a mother or a partner. I was a person.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was about 10 and my friend and I saw a cool infomercial (no idea now what they were selling) where a guy flattened a penny with a hammer. (If you think you know where this is going, you are absolutely right.) For some reason, we thought it would be a great idea to try that, only we couldn't find a penny, so we decided to try to flatten a dime. Shockingly, dimes and pennies are made of different materials, so we weren't making much progress, but like good little elementary school kids, we were taking turns swinging the hammer on the sidewalk by my house. When it was my friend's turn, I noticed Roosevelt's face was angled about 40 degrees away from her, and for some reason it seemed really crucial that he be facing her dead on, so I rotated the dime. I was a neurotic, whiny kid, so when my mom heard me crying, she assumed it was something minor and came out rolling her eyes before she saw all the blood. Luckily, I didn't break any bones, but I had a cool hangnail with which to gross out all the boys on the bus for the next few weeks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey, first time post on here and I'm unsure how to handle myself.\n\nAbout last October (in 2013) I broke up with my long time girlfriend. We dated for about 6 years, throughout most of high school and a large portion of college. She was the first girl I dated and I really did care for her. I broke up with her because we were both abusive towards each other, physically (nothing extremely drastic but I have a scar on my arm because of her) and verbally.\n\nWe decided to stay friends after the break up and all seemed to be going well. However, I noticed that almost immediately (within like 2 weeks) after we broke up this guy she met from a club started hitting on her. She claims to have no attraction towards him but anyone with a pair of eyes can see there's a mutual attraction. Now I don't like this guy because he was hitting on her while we were still dating. I just got onto Facebook today to see her and a picture of him together celebrating his 21st birthday.\n\nI know I'm the one that broke it off and it's my fault for doing so, but I can't help but feel...betrayed? Is that normal? How should I handle myself? I feel like I want to punch something, as I still find myself caring for her, but that would only break my hand. I'm at a loss as to what to think/feel and I don't have anyone else around I can talk to about this. So, anyone have any thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [25F] met my friend [30F] last year, and quickly realized that her relationship that I assumed was healthy (we have mutual friends) is really codependent and toxic. She acknowledges that she's a shell of her former self, he verbally abuses her, manipulates her in weird/unhealhthy ways, and has isolated her from all of her friends. A few of our mutual friends think it is abusive.\n\nI was really happy to be friends with her, until her drunken boyfriend lashed out at me for no reason. He randomly started telling me I was a worthless person. I'm sure he was just jealous she had a friend. I managed to be patient with the scenario since I wanted her to have support, but eventually I was too blunt about my disapproval which upset her, and our relationship kind of faded out.\n\nI'm not sure what to do. I valued her as a friend, and at the least would like to be supportive. But I think her boyfriend is an abusive asshole. I don't want to hang out with someone who would personally insult me, and I don't really want to talk about him either. We haven't talked for a few months, I'm not sure how to start things again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Right, so I've been with this girl for a bit over two months now; she's attractive, we share the same general interests and I should be loving her to pieces. The catch? I'm not, honestly this whole thing feels completely vapid, every time we kiss or even just talk I don't feel like I'm getting any satisfaction, and that I may as well be talking to an inanimate object. Her replies to things are rarely longer than a few words, and even sex felt rather dull when we got round to it.\n\nSo yeah, I took heed of this and decided to tell her that it wasn't working, she cried a bit, and we generally left on good terms, it all felt pretty decent. Then I did a really piss-poor thing and decided to get back with her. Why? Because I felt bad, and I won't deny that this whole thing is anybody else's fuck up than mine.\n\nNow to the actual question: What do? Going in and simply breaking up with her again would look ridiculous, and would most certainly put us on bad terms with each other for the foreseeable future, considering that we have a few close mutual friends, that would also cause complications. I need some advice here, if any can be given.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A year ago I pledged to try my best to become a better person and imprvoce my life: I've lost 40 pounds, stopped bitting my nails, saved money to go to any concert I wanted including a cruise, and starting dating an amazing girl.\n\nThis year I will be attempting to improve my speaking skills by learning new words, reading more books, and being less vulgar. I want to save money to pay off my loans. AND THE HARDEST OF ALL, I will be quitting reddit. Starting (ending?) with this post. I will not visit the site again as soon as I hit the submit button. \n\nI think reddit is an amazing source for information and one of my absolutely favorite places; However, I do not yet posses the personal restraint to stop it from inhibiting my productivity. I wish you all the best of luck in improving your lives and look forwarding to reading your responses (if any at all) in a year.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I wrote a post yesterday explaining that I want to break up my 4 years relationship.\n\nI said that I don't feel the same, because she hates my friends and she is living miles away from me because she doesn't have money to stay in the city to continue her degree.\n\nToday she has failed an exam and she is coming next monday to see it.\n\nIs it a good moment to speak about my feelings?\n\nI'm not sure if it's the right moment but I don't know when I'm going to be face to face with her again. It could be months.\n\nI need advice.", "role": "user" } ]

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