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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was angry at my girlfriend, drunk, and I made a mistake. I met a random. We did not have sex but I went home with her and we fooled around. We were long distance at the time, but I returned a few weeks ago and had to confess the truth to her, so I told her everything.\n\nShe is obviously very hurt and I am asking for forgiveness from her, but not expecting it. We will be long distance again soon for another 8 months, and she will not be able to trust me. She is a lovely and beautiful person, compassionate and caring, and I don't want to lose her over this mistake, but fear I already have.... I am lost. Where do I go from here? Am I too far gone?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey there.\n\nI guess there isn't anything new to say other than what I have posted in my previous posts with this account. I had my first ever relationship and it ended 3 months ago mostly due to her moving abroad. It was emotionally abusive and for every \"good\" thing related with it, there were around 50 \"bad\" things associated with it.\n\nThe thing is that whenever I have some \"free time\" or anytime I recollect myself, I find myself thinking about her. I've initiated NC and while she has called 2-3 times (with a time difference of two weeks to a month) I never answered the phone.* I'd like to think that it's for the best but I'm not so sure given the following circumstances:\n\nI'm not delusional. I know now and I've known since the very first days of the breakup that no matter how hard we (I) tried things would never change in this particular relationship. Even in my \"darkest\" moments after the breakup I never thought that if we give it another go at it things might end up differently. No, they will always remain the way they were.\n\nThe scary part is that in my current state I keep thinking that I would be better with that relationship rather than having nothing. I do admit I'm insecure and suffering from low self-esteem but... that much?\n\nHow do I move forward fixing this? How do I let go of something that even my brain says that it really isn't worth it? Thanks in advance for reading.\n\n* = I do find it curious that even though she has called 2-3 times, she has me blocked on skype for the past ~3 months (she blocked me around 10 days after leaving the country and without any reason). Even though it serves no practical reason... any thoughts on that?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend asked me today how many guys I've slept with in the past. I know that I am the more experienced of the two of us and I really don't want to tell him. I think he's slept with two women and while I love him and love the sex we have, he isn't as great as previous partners and I'm afraid he'll start to compare himself. I've had about five partners, seven if we're not just counting actual penetration. They've all been in serious relationships and one a marriage. I don't feel like this makes me a whore but I'm afraid he will view it that way. I feel like this is a normal number for a guy but maybe a little high for a woman? Should I just lie?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so here's the situation. I got a nook color and I liked it. Then I got the SanDisk SD card for it, an 8gig card.\n\nThen I experimented with Nook honey or whatever it was called, and it worked fine, put in the card and the nook boots into nook honey. Then I took the card out and put it away so I could boot the nook up normally. \n\nSo the nook gets full and I decide I want to wipe the card and just use it as normal for now. And.. I pop it in and it says \"boot\" and it's only 117mb. I tried to reformat it and it still says it's only 113mb usable. This is an 8 gig card.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and her fight over every single little thing you can think of, but they aren't huge arguments where we yell and scream at each other, but more of petty disagreements, that happen every day or every other day.\n\nThey have been going on for quite a while, but haven't always happened when we first started dating we got along great! We were always happy and never disagreed but past that, after about month 3 we started bickering about everything, however it is never in person only on the phone.\n\nI am asking for advice on what to do, how to stop bickering, really at this point any advice is appreciated, we both agreed we can't continue doing this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need to get this off my chest and get some advice from the community.\n\nMy gf and I have been doing long distance for about 5 months and dating for 1 year. We will be living in the same city again come June hence why we decided to give a LDR a try. \n\nThe time we spend together has been great and we usually see each other for long weekends every couple of weeks. \n\nA few months ago I found out that my gf cheated on me (she kissed another guy in a club). I decided to give her a last chance but if I'm entirely honest, since it happened I have not taken the relationship as seriously as I used to. \n\nThis weekend, I went down to see her (hadn't seen her in 3 weeks). I got her flowers, chocolates and a card for valentine's day. She spent most of the day with her friends and I didn't even get a card in return. In the evening I cooked her a nice dinner, then we had a bit of a fall out and she spent the rest of the evening hanging out with friends. \n\nNeedless to say, this morning I was pretty fed up and have initiated a 2 week \"trial break-up\". She was really upset. We won't be talking for 2 weeks and will then meet up to decide whether to end it or continue.\n\nAm I being perfectly reasonable here or am I just being overly sensitive? Obviously I love her to bits and the text above is only really showing her in bad light - but these are the things I'm picking up on. Our sex life isn't great either. She has a slight cold and so there was no love making this weekend (even after not seeing each other for 3 weeks).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I can't seem to get rid of several people I've basically cut out from my life after an issue that's been ongoing for the past couple of years.I'm a junior in uni,\nand freshman and sophomore year I tried to kill myself after being with depression for the better part of my entire life. I failed with both attempts, and after\nthe second I basically gave up on the idea of killing myself so I just kinda live and go to school. \n\nWell, it's approaching the end of junior year and my ex-friends have been getting fairly intrusive in my life. I figured out why a couple of weeks ago, and I told them very plainly sent them a mass text that told them that I was\nfine and they needed to drop it. They ignored my wishes and kept trying to interact with me. About 2 weeks ago I told them that I was done, and I didn't want to see them\never again. I said some nasty shit but it seemed to work and most of them gave up at the time. \n\nFast forward to now, and the same shit has started up again. They're texting and messaging like we're still friends and nothing ever happened. Most people would be like \"cool,\nmy friends listened it's ok now\", but what they did just irritated me even more. I invited over the defacto coordinator of my friends to tell her to butt out. I forgot that I was\nin the process of moving and she noticed, she asked, and I slipped and said I was moving. Now I can't get them from subtley trying to ascertain where I'm moving too.\n\nShould I just block them and ignore them? It's hard for me to just ignore blatant ignorances, but would it be better? I want them to understand that I don't want to deal with them,\nand it's not some plea for attention.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was in South Korea for two months this summer, studying abroad. I chose to go there partly because my older sister happens to live in South Korea as an elementary school English teacher and I wanted to visit her. Saved up for a year to scrape up enough money to pay for half of it (scholarships covered the other half).\n\nI stayed with my sister for about one month of it. I understood that we'd both changed during the long time we didn't see each other so I shrugged off various things that would have bothered me otherwise, and we had a great time hanging out together and catching up and having fun. Anyway fast-forward to today when I've been back in the states for a month and she just messaged me saying that she got into a toxic relationship a few days after I left, cropped up with a host of health problems, and just found out that she has a stress-induced hernia (whatever that may be), and part of the reason is that she couldn't handle me leaving. \n\nAs soon as she told me all this, she tried to blow it off and make light of it, especially about the relationship she's in (what details she did tell made me really uneasy). On top of that she decided to re-sign her teaching contract and stay for at least another year. I know I'm responsible for part of this situation (especially since I gave her the idea to teach in South Korea in the first place) and I could have done more to help her out but at the time I had no idea that she had counted so much on my being around. She's four years older than me and we didn't even become friends until recently. I always looked up to her because she was always taller/more beautiful/more mature than me and I was so busy being excited that she was treating me like an equal to see that she was having a lot of other problems.\n\nI keep catching myself planning to go back to Korea as soon as I can just to try to help her out. But I can't go, because I'm in the thick of my senior year in university, I have no money anymore for travel, and I can hardly think straight myself because of school expectations.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway account here.\n\nI'm M (20) and she's F (20). We've been dating for about 4 months now, although we have been close friends for 3 years prior to dating. During these 4 months, we've had good times but we have noticed that we argue a lot. They're not usually arguments about big things but generally just many arguments about small things.\n\nFirstly, I admit that I am a person who is a bit quick to anger and I tend to get annoyed by small things. I am aware that this is a problem and have been consciously trying to correct such a bad trait. It's not at an extreme level where I get ticked off at everything, but things like when she decides to, for example, see her friends over seeing me after she has been away for a month sort of ticks me off.\n\nWe end up arguing over things like that and it happens way too frequently. I'd say we average an argument almost every week and I know it can't be healthy for our relationship. I really want to make things work between us but I really don't know how to approach it.\n\nI'm here, requesting advice on how to make everything better. I've grown tired of arguing over small things because I know it cannot be good. I do not mind if I have to do all the work and change myself so that I don't get annoyed so easily, as long as I know how to approach it. Please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend's aunt has this party thing coming up in a couple months she told me about a while ago. She said I could come if I wanted, but stressed I didn't have to. I genuinely wanted to go because I knew it would make her happy to have me there. Since I have a bunch of friends in the city that the event is near, I figured it would be the perfect weekend to go see them as well as attend the party.\n\nThe location recently changed to a city about two hours away from where it was originally thought to be. Since I already told my friends I would see them that weekend, I hatched this new plan of going to see my friends on Friday and then hopping a bus to the city where the party is on Saturday, since my girlfriend won't be there until then anyway. I thought this was a no-brainer great solution, when I told her she seemed mad. She said \"I'm just confused, it seemed like you originally didn't even want to go. All that traveling seems like a waste of money, it makes more sense just to stay with your friends.\" Now she just seems bitter and weird about it. So where did I go wrong? What does she actually want me to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've [21 M] recently begun falling for a girl [19 F] from my university and when we're in person we get along fantastically. I've known her for about a year now but only just recently started talking/hanging out more after we both showed up to a party where we knew literally nobody but the host and we just ended up talking a bunch (mind you aside from this one instance at the party we've only hung out in groups of mutual friends thusfar). But after I got her number it seems that she is pretty bad at the whole texting thing. What I mean by this is just basically if I text her she will either take quite a while to respond to my message or she just won't respond at all (even sometimes if the text has a question in it). And so far after probably a little more than a month being decent friends she has NEVER initiated the texts, it has always been me. Recently at a school bar night we were both drunk and she literally dragged me to the dance floor with her (which is extremely abnormal for me) so I'm thinking this was a sign of interest. But even after that the texting still continues to be the same.\n\nBasically I'm worried because most everyone I've talked to says \"no girl is bad at texting, if she actually likes you she would initiate/text you back/respond in a timely matter. Get over her she's not interested\". So I guess my question really is, is it possible for someone to be a bad texter like that but still be genuinely interested in me? Or should I just accept the fact that if she did like me she would put a little more effort into texting me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm sorry if this is too long or too short, but I am so pissed right now.\n\nWell, we found out papi (My so's grandfather) passed away last friday. His mother told us to hold on to making any plans until we know for sure when the funeral actually was. Today, he got a call from his mom saying that the funeral will be this friday. We live in NC and the funeral will be in his hometown in FL. The kicker is, he's leaving tomorrow morning (his birthday) and won't be back until sunday afternoon; and I'm not allowed to go, period. My SO and I have been together well over 3 years and we have a 9 month old baby together. So it's not just like he's leaving ad coming right back, he's going for a whole week...leaving me stuck at home (with no car and no phone) until his family is coming back. I have no idea how to take this. \n\nIt also makes me mad because his sister got married last october, and he just ditched me at my mom's even though I spent lots of money finding a nice dress and shoes that fit me right (I was a week away from my due date) only for him to leave me with no contact until the next day.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last night, I was over at a friend's house to celebrate the New Year and had brought over an air horn that I would blast when it was midnight. I had already used the horn to scare some of my friends earlier, and was planning to use it again as a joke for when a couple of my friends finished their game of Smash Bros. Right as they finished the match, I raised it and pressed down on the button. Instead of being met with the screeching noise, however, a large PFFFFFT came out of the nozzle. A lot of the gas used in the can then came out of the sides in between the can and the actual horn, which sprayed right onto my hand. I yelled \"OH, SHIT!\" and ran to the bathroom to wash my now freezing hand and get rid of the chemicals.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm an only child with very over protective parents. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I recently started going to his house to hang out.\n\nThe first time I went there, I had a lot of fun watching movies until late with him and his parents. Late as in 2am. I forgot to check my phone till on the way back at 2:30 with 6 missed calls, 4 voicemails, and multiple texts if I was ok. I find that quite excessive. He's not my first boyfriend, nor my first serious boyfriend. I told them where I was going, so it wasn't like they should he surprised as he stays at my house till 1-2am. \n\nYesterday, I went deep sea fishing with my boyfriend and family. I told my parents where and what boat I was going on to try and help out, plus the times we'd be out to sea. I texted them after I got off of the boat and posted pictures on facebook. After that, my phone dies and it was roughly 7pm on the way back to his parents house. I shower, watch a movie, and it roughly 11pm and I remember my phone had died. I plug it in and receive multiple texts if I'm OK, where I'm at, and a phone call. Then the texts start to get rude from my dad saying \"Your mother told me you were shopping for her mother's day present, you better pull it together for her tomorrow whatever the hell you have been doing!\". Obviously he knew what I was doing and I have already bought her something. It was just rude and was sent after I told him I was OK and at my boyfriends parents house. \n\nIs all of this excessive or is it just me? How do I handle this? I don't have to check in when I'm with friends...and I didn't have to with my prior boyfriend.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so I had been dating this one girl for a while and she was and still is absolutely amazing and I've yet to question my love for her no matter what. We had a misunderstanding where we both felt like the other was losing interest, so we both pulled away to save our feelings should things get ugly. I know, stupid. Now I thought just communicating would work, but she blamed it on stress and claimed to not want to be extra stress in my life so we broke up.\n\nFast forward a couple of weeks. We text daily and even call for hours. Occasionally she slips up and calls me babe or puts hearts in her texts, immediately followed by \"I'm sorry, Idk why I did that.\" Now I know she's immature, but that doesn't make me love her any less. She's kept all my things and has even checked to make sure I haven't thrown away any notes or gifts she's given me. But every time I approach the subject of getting back together, she says this is for the best. So what do? Is it salvagable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This just happened and I'm in a state of embarrassment and shock right now. I have been dating him for almost 2 years now and would consider the relationship to be very serious. I love him he's very sweet at times, but does have issues with anger and communication of which I considered manageable. But now I don't know what to do. \n\nEarlier we had gotten in an argument (which under comparison was meaningless and stupid), which had to be put aside because we were heading to his families barbeque. His grandmother, aunts and uncles were there and all his cousins. \n\nTowards the end of the bbq all the cousins including him and I went into the basement for a innocent game of Uno. There he made one of his younger cousins; let's name her Natasha (9 years old), cry because how he was accusing her of cheating. So Natasha's older brother, Jayson (18) was sticking up for her. It got heated and my boyfriend (23) and Jayson started fighting. I figured I would let them figure it out until a heard the door break. Head over there and Natasha is crying, Jayson is yelling at my bf who was still getting in Jayson's face. \n\nApparently my bf was choking Jayson. They were separated by Jayson and Natasha's mother. When I tried talking to my bf he was yelling at me. Telling me it's none of my business, while I was telling him to let it go and not go after Jayson while he was being pulled away by his mom. \n\nI admit I was using force to try and stop him, when he pushed me against the wall, in front of the rest of the cousins. \n\nI'm embarrassed. I left with Natasha and Jayson and their mom soon after, leaving my bf there. \n\nHe then messages me this: \nI'm assuming the last message was for the wrong conversation. I havent replied to returned his call yet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always had an eye on this girl \"lissa\" and we've been friend/acquaintances for a while. I'll see her nearly every day and well say hey and small talk for a bit before we go our separate ways.\n\nWe have prom coming up A week or so ago I was just having another one of those nice short convos when her and I realised stuff I hadn't realised before. She had pretty blue eyes and lush blonde hair that I'd love to play with. So I delayed whatever I had and just talked to her. It was great! We had common interests and we really hit it off.\n\nWhenever I talk to a girl I like I really get nervous and I hadn't texted her before so it took me a while to balls up and text her for the first time. It was going really well! She was laughing and we were both having a great time. However abruptly out of nowhere she just stopped the texts. It was just a jolt.\n\nI don't make much of it. So next day (still haven't got a text back) I was just talking to my best friend about Lissa for the first time and he tells me my other friend had also been talking to her for a week and wants to go to prom with her.\n\nI'm just not sure what to do at this point. We were really hitting it off until the sudden cut off and my friend who is also interested in her has also been talking to her for a week. Do I go for her and ask her to prom in person; do I talk to my other interested friend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway account because this shit is personal.\n\nAnyway, there's a girl at school. She's very shy. I'm pretty much the same. \n\nI like her, of course.\n\nI've been getting some hints that she's interested in me and wants to talk to me, but I think that she can't. It's as if she knows me, but just doesn't talk to me. I want to start a conversation but I'm no good at small talk or starting conversations.\n\nI'm lucky because her last name is always right next to mine on rolecall lists. She's in two of my classes, but I get a better chance of talking to her in my PE class. For about the first ten minutes the teacher/coach takes rolecall. I'm right in front of her in the rolecall line. I have the perfect opportunity to talk to her, but I just can't. I mean, what is there to talk about? The weather? I don't want a casual conversation that two men would have in an elevator.\n\nI'm most likely making this harder on myself. Actually, I know I am. I just don't know how to deal with this. Talking with other girls I was interested in was much easier. I can't figure out why it's so much harder with this girl. She's really smart and loves reading, so maybe I'm just afraid of being judged.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been together for 2 years. When we first got together he had never had a proper gf before and mostly slept around. I knew he was a huge fan of porn and in the first few months of the relationship I was fine with it. Once we got to know each other more I was able to express my feelings about his porn watching and he told me I was being insecure and that the girls didn't compare to me. However, I offer him sex or blowjobs every day.\n\nHe knows how upset I get and burst into tears when I found out he had searched porn. He told me he doesn't deserve me because I'm \"such a good person\" but to be honest, I don't feel I am because I made him feel this way. I don't ever want to see him like that again and it took me by total surprise. The only reason I get so upset about it is because he knows the names of porn actressess and searches them. This makes it more personal to me. I noticed he has liked the actressess on facebook which really annoys me. I get jealous of him jerking off to Divas in WWE.\n\nI wish I didn't feel this way and I don't want him to feel this way either. If it's what he wants to do then I have no right to stop him. I can't help how I feel about it and it will never go. Sometimes I think I need to find someone who doesn't watch it at all. I love this boy more than anything and he has stopped watching it because he loves me too but I don't feel right about it.\n\nI understand it's common for people of our day and age to jerk off to porn. It upsets me him looking at them. Maybe if it was more random I wouldn't mind so much but he searches for women with massive asses and huge tits. This makes me feel more insecure because I don't have either.\n\nPlease provide some advice to help me stop being so jealous.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is the person I tell everything to and she tells me everything, I had my first kiss with her and all of that cutsie stuff but am also a really self conscious person. \n\nI think im fat which after we first met she told me was a complete lie (and so have other people), I tend to be really quiet in school (we go to different high schools), and Im just really nerdy/geeky (play video games with my friends all weekend, built my own pc, thought myself how to program in python, etc. -she also says she thinks its cut but eh), I never really went out anywhere on weekends until I met her and the list goes on (I think im ugly, she's really good looking, etc. etc.).\n\nWe have a nice time when we're together and can talk for hours on end but I feel like she's just going to get tired of me eventually.\n\nI don't know if im worrying too much about this or not, I'd really appreciate some advice on how to get over this since I've never really had to deal with my insecurities while in a relationship before", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I am new at a lab and haven't really had the lay of the land. I generally keep my head down and focus on my work.\n\nHowever, I found a real connection with one of my colleagues. We would often stay late and work together on tests. It was easy and flirty, comfortable like I was hanging out with a good friend. It was obvious he was coming on to me - texting me to hang late at night, resting his hand on mine, going for long walks at night and buying me lunch out of the blue- we even went to a concert together as we like the same type of jazz. I was hesitant to get involved with a colleague, but my girlfriends said to trust my gut and if I felt something, go for it. I finally gave in and asked him to dinner. We kissed and I was over the moon. I felt sparks and like it was right. \n\nCut to the very next day at work and me finding out that he apparently is in a committed relationship with another female in the office. I feel terrible. Idiotic, stupid and guilty. I have never been the \"other woman\" before, even unknowingly. I immediately cut off all ties with him as soon as I heard and have no intentions of ever speaking to him when we aren't wearing our white lab jackets. \n\nI feel terrible, like I was duped. All of the possibility and feelings I had been denying myself due to the work relationship have surfaced. The potential of what could've been hurts, not to mention losing a close friend who deceived me and the guilt and shame I feel everyday coming to the lab. I can't even make eye contact with the receptionist now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had a plan with At&t for over 6 years now with a standard sony w580i. Being in college, theres a lot of times where I need to jot down a not on the go and having a device with a calendar and that ability is ideal for me. Now just 2 months ago I had the opportunity to upgrade to an Iphone 3GS from a friend for a pretty good price. I've been using all of the features on it and am pretty stoked with its usefullness, but today I got a text saying AT&T has signed me up for a data plan without my consent or any contract. \n\nI called them irate and have since been told I will be getting a call back from a manager with the details. I feel this is literally stealing from me. They went into my bank account and took the money without me even knowing. The supervisor I spoke with on the phones reasoning was, \"well if you have a smartphone you need to pay for a data plan.\" But I NEVER use it for anything other than music, a calendar, calls, and note taker. That's like me buying a lawnmower and them saying if I replace the engine, I have to come to them and pay for doing it.\n\nWhat should I do? I have the name of the supervisor I spoke to and his manager, as well as a summary of our whole conversation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a seventeen year old going into grade twelve, and I don't know anything about my future... I really don't know where I'm going career-wise. That's one thing; I also have a girlfriend of 2+ years and we have yet to kiss, I haven't gotten even my learner's license yet, and throughout my life I have refused to use any drugs/alcohol to this point.\n\nNow, I've been really satisfied with all this untill today, when an old friend and I got together and met up with our third friend (who turns out to now smoke weed/is now on a two month light-every-day streak). This lead to a messed up day of following them to dealers and near fights, small town gangs and free kijiji kittens, all leading to getting some friends together to light up.\n\nI did nothing but follow and listen to them today, and what an average day for any one of them amazed me. I left and thought about my current life, and now I'm here on askreddit while laying in bed.\n\nBasically, I want to know how normal I am.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just broke up officially with my girlfriend after being on a break for a few days so I could think things over.\n\nLots of details in there so you don't have to read but I did decide that it was best that I broke up with her, as bad times outweighed the good and there were certain things that happened between us that I couldn't get over. \n\nI can't help but think I made the wrong decision. We had two minor break ups before and I kept missing her, thinking about all the good times, and ended up getting back with her just to have more bad times then good again. Nothing changed. I don't want to have it happen again but I'm worried I will cave if she tries to contact me. She didn't take the break up well but after explaining how I felt about me being resentful, not being happy, and me needing to focus on myself, she kind of understood but was still very upset. We both apologized to each other and I wished the best for her before blocking her number.\n\nI just feel so upset, like half of me is missing.. how do I cope with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy).\n\nSo Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband is 42 and I'm 34 and we've been married for 6 years. I trust my husband. He's not leading this woman on. But I don't know how the most secure person in the world wouldn't be distracted by the fact that this woman is coming on to him day after day. \n\nHe says it's just her personality but it's so blatant. Everything is an inuendo (\"Oh, I'll pass you those post-its alright\" wink,wink). He only hired her about a month ago but it's pretty constant and aimed solely at him. He works in IT where the woman are few and far between but when he told me about interviewing her I asked if she was older and he said no, she was about my age (34) and when I asked what she looked like he said \"She's not ugly at all!\" Nice. \n\nWe have a 'policy', if you will, where we let the other know when things like this come up so it's not heard on the flip-side and interpreted that one was trying to hide it. He's not coming home 'bragging' about the behavior but he knows that one of his other co-workers could easily say something to me about it jokingly (as we are all friends as well) and it could come across as him hiding it so he lets me know up front about her advances.\n\nSo there you go. I'm not an insecure person and I don't think anything will happen but if you knew you were sending your spouse off to be hit on day after day....what would your reaction be? How long could you say \"Ah, he's faithful to me, let her bring her best\" until it gets under your skin?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm studying film in college and have many lecturers, who teach all aspects of the creation of film and television, all wonderfully relevant lecturers. But we have one class which is dubbed Philisophical Tradition and our lecturer seems to get kicks out of making our class as vague as he can, with as little link to reality as possible. Take for example my notes from our last class which simply say: \"Freud. Noses are the link? Use dreams as example.\" Utter madness.\n\nWell, we have been given a 2000 word essay to submit within the next 3 days. We have been told we have the freedom to write pretty much anything, our only hint on what the context might be is a quote from the philosopher Arthur Rimbaud, \"I am another.\" An interesting quote, but we have been advised that we don't even have to take that into consideration. We could, if we wanted to, write 500 Haikus about Llamas. \n\nI've considered a host of topics to write about but I can't focus on one thing. What I'm now considering is to conduct some sort of experiment on myself and document it.. Something to do with dreams, hypnosis, sleep deprivation etc.\n\n So that's what I'm asking for, an idea for some form of experiment that I can document, conduct within three days and do so without any harm to myself. I'll post whatever I document if this is all goes according to plan.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 and a half years and recently, I've had to move away because of my job. Its only a 2 hour distance but from going from seeing each other everyday to once in a week or in this case, one in 3 weeks ... its hard. He has many more girl friends than boy friends and i am completely ok with that. but recently he's been seeing more of this one friend. today he says that its a good thing because her best friend has got a bf now and therefore, she feels alone and he feels alone too so it work out for both of them to spend time together. \n\nI completely trust my boyfriend and he's never given me any reason to doubt him but i still can't help but feel uncomfortable. I don't know how to address this because I feel its totally unfair of me to say that he cant see her that often or that I am uncomfortable with it coz she is a good friend of his. On top of that, our communication sucks. his phone is crap so he doesnt recieve my texts half the time and he's shit at calling anyone. I don't know how to deal with this and would really appreciate some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated my \"first love\" in High School during a very turbulent period in my life. I came out to my family as bisexual, and had come out to my friends as transgendered. My girlfriend then was super supportive. She called me by my new name, and she she immediately used all the right pronouns. She encouraged me in the face of adversity.\n\nThen it just ends. I get home from a short trip abroad, and she breaks up with me. She says she just doesn't love me anymore, and that's just all there is to it. I am crushed.\n\nSo I am dealing with all of this when my best friend at the time tells me he needs to ask me something. Turns out he wants my permission to start dating her. This isn't months or years later, mind you, its only a few days. Wanting to be a good friend, I say yes. A mistake on my part.\n\nIt kills me to see them together. He takes her out to do dates that I never did because she told me she hated it (nights on the town doing nothing but walking around, for example). Within a week they are officially dating. Its senior year of High School and I just lost my two best friends to each other.\n\nAnd then the clincher to it all. He convinces her that me being trans is just an act I do for attention. She, for whatever reason, believes him over me suddenly. So I am suddenly without my two best friends, and my safety net for all the insecurities that I deal with in only recently having come out to people.\n\nYears later, and I am with an amazing woman who accepts me for the girl I am, and those two broke up in what I understand was quite a messy breakup.\n\nSo Reddit, how have your friends stabbed you in the back?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Bit of background... \n\nI have been with my gf coming on for a year and a half and we get on very well, have a lot of the same taste's and everything seems to be going very well.In fact it is by far the best of the four relationships I have had. \n\nBut obviously I would not be posting here if that was everything. When she drinks she can act rather flirty towards other men, in front of me. This doesn't bother me so much as I appreciate that she is just having fun and I am confident enough in our relationship to not feel threatened by a bit of friendliness at a bar. \n\nHowever this changes at music festivals, which she goes to a lot of, starting last year at a Download (a UK metal festival). Here she woke up drunk and went straight outside our tent to some creepy looking bloke and asked if he would give her a drink if she flashed him, he obviously agreed and proceeded to motorboat her as i sat in my tent dumbfounded. Taking this as a drunk one off I swallowed my dignity and continued with life. \n\nNow go forward to the same festival this year, and she's drunk again. I come back to our camp site, after being separate that day to see different bands, and she's telling everyone that she flashed one of the singers and that another guy had grabbed her as she did. Her drunken antics that followed was basically getting grabby with everyone and once getting her tits out in my mates face when someone jokingly said to do it. \n\nI trust her completely when she is sober and when she is out drinking with me its nothing to worry about to much. However when at festivals with her mates she does not know when to stop drinking and it concerns me as I don't see her when she's out with her friends which is when she gets out of control.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both in our mid-20s and have been together several years. My boyfriend is totally awesome and I love him to pieces. However... he rarely brushes his teeth. (He's otherwise hygienic, so this baffles me.)\n\nThe first time I got the nerve to talk to him about it was a couple months into the relationship. I learned then that he only brushed his teeth a couple times a week. I was horrified, and over a the next few months, I pestered him to brush his teeth more often. Eventually, he got up to brushing his teeth most days. Many months later and more pestering, he was brushing daily, flossing a couple times per week, and usually using mouthwash.\n\nBut lately I've been noticing it again. I can smell his breath from a few feet away. It's gross to kiss him. I've had to interrupt foreplay a few times and ask him to go brush. Sometimes I outright refuse to kiss him until he brushes. He's always annoyed and a bit mad when I do that, but in my opinion, he should know by now that he needs to brush his damn teeth.\n\nI feel like this is ridiculous; I shouldn't have to tell him several times a week to brush his teeth. I thought my refusing to kiss him and/or interrupting foreplay would be enough, but this still happens on a fairly regular basis. What can I do to get my point across? I'm tired of acting like his mom on this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I find that in my relationship with this girl, conversation doesn't flow too well and there are often gaps and long silences. This is fine for both of us as we enjoy each others company.\n\nHowever, since we haven't seen each other much over the summer we have resorted to texting, and I've been getting a lot of short, if not, one worded responses. I know this is a sign of disinterest but I'm fairly certain that she likes me and doesn't want to get rid of me, because by now -- she would have. I often get tired of trying to think up an engaging response to short and to the point texts, and give up most of the time. Probably not the best thing to do but otherwise the conversation drags and becomes forced.\n\nThis can sometimes lead to making me feel like she isn't interested in me since I feel I'm neglected from attention, although occasionally there are times when she shows emotions in a very subtle way -- reassuring me she likes me.\n\nI believe this is to do with her past relationship issues, as I know she has been hurt by other guys and even cheated on. I understand that it takes time for someone to warm up to you, but for the majority of the time we have been together I feel like I'm just another guy to her. Her feelings being reciprocated back is very important for me in any relationship as I take them seriously and stride to work things out.\n\nHence the reason I came here to seek words of wisdom and advice. What is the best possible course of action when dealing with someone who isn't as expressive as you, or someone who is afraid to show feelings?\n\nAny help would be of assistance to me, and thanks for taking the time to read this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys, \n\nLast year I started talking to a girl that I knew via mutual friends and eventually bit the bullet and asked her out. She agreed to go on a date and she said she will let me know when she's available to meet. She never got back to me about the time but she ended up telling me that she cant make it to the date. Instead she offered to go for coffee in uni the next day.\nUnfortunately, we met for coffee on campus, so it was close to impossible to have a decent conversation without a friend interrupting and joining us.\n\nFast forward a few weeks, exams piled up and we were both busy and so the conversations died down. I found some time to go and see her. I told her that if she wasn't interested, there was nothing wrong in saying so. To which, she said she IS interested but she was just busy a lot with studying. I was kind of annoyed at this and so I told her that she should choose a time and place for the next time we should go out and left to do the rest of my exams.\n\nAs the exams went on and the rest of the year went on, we talked less and less and we never ended up going out again. However, during the summer we started talking again because our birthdays were around then.\n\nWe came back to uni last week and I asked her if she wanted to meet up for coffee during the week and she said she wanted to. She said she would let me know the time to meet her. The day before we were supposed to meet up i bump into her and she told me that she would tell me the time to meet up. Surprise surprise, she never did, but in the morning we were supposed to meet up she messaged me to say that she forgot to tell me that she was busy with lessons and so she couldn't come out.\n\nNow I'm sat here writing and re writing this post because I don't know what to do or how to deal with it. \n\nWould appreciate any advice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "2 years ago hurricane sandy came through, and we actually made out pretty well. A fucking massive tree did fall on my house, but it hit another tree on the way down, and that kinda softened the blow. In any case, after a lot of other stories, we got the tree off the house.\n\nMy family is pretty good at making the best of things, and we thought \"well, now we have a few thousand pounds of firewood!\". We have a fireplace that we like to use.\n\nYou can't use the logs right away because they have to dry out. I honestly don't remember if we split any last year, but even this year we have plenty left. So, I figured I'd be a good sport and help out, and split some logs.\n\nMy dad was in an accident recently, and broke his wrist, so wielding an axe isn't exactly something that's very comfortable for him. Another incentive for me to help out. It's at this point that I should note- He got a brand new handle for the axe about 2 weeks ago.\n\nI grab the axe (actually a maul but whatever) and the sledge, and he gives me some pointers. I hit like 4 logs off center, and make real crappy attempts. At this point I'm feeling like I'm not helping much, but he's cool about it.\n\nOn the 5th or 6th log I over swing, and BAM I bust the head clean off the handle. I casually tossed the handle down, looked at my dad, and said \"well, looks like I owe you a handle.\" I felt pretty damn bad.\n\nFortunately he was cool about it, and said that's part of learning.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, \n\nI have some lady issues I need to get straightened out. To be clear, I've been friend zoned. Yes, that dreadful word that we've all been through has slapped me in the face. Let's call her Mary for the sake of privacy. Marry and I have been talking / seeing each other for about two months. We're both really attracted to each other and enjoy each others company, but she has a boyfriend. She's been in a long distance relationship for under a year and rarely sees the guy. \n\nThis was my golden opportunity I thought to myself, but it got weird. After talking for awhile. She deletes my number and only contacts me on Facebook. She's obviously attempted to quit communicating with me, but cant help herself. We still hangout weekly for drinks and other adventures. When we hang out we become intimate and cant keep our hands off each other. I would like to date her and create a relationship, but I feel like I'm being used.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all,\n\nSo first of all thank you for reading this, now let's get into the meat of my dilemma\n\nI'm currently going to college and my parents have graciously allowed me to live in their home while I'm going to college so I can save the maximum amount of money possible, for which I am very grateful. \n\nMy father lost is Job about six months ago and has been vigorously looking for a new one. He recently has had two opportunities for employment come up. the problem is that one is in the middle of nowhere in the state we live in. They have invited me to go with them to which I have declined; I would like to stay in my current city and finish my degree. \n\nmy anxiety has been running haywire.\n\nlogically I make enough money to live with a roommate, pay all of my bills, have extra fun money, and STILL save money. \n\nbut my mind has been wracking itself with self deprecating thoughts and its honestly annoying. I was in the army and I managed just fine, so its not like I haven't been on my own before. I really don't know where this is coming from. \n\nI'll honestly be fine no what. I would honestly enjoy the option where my parents stay and I keep wracking up savings but I'm also fine with the other option as well, but my mind keeps telling me otherwise.\n\nso I need your advice. How do I quell these thoughts of doom?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all,\nDon't know if this is really appropriate for this subreddit considering some of you may consider it to be petty high school shit. Anyways, this girl I noticed had been staring at me across the room in my school's library a few times, never really talked to her before. Eventually I sit with her as she is sitting with a group of underclassmen I am friends with, and we talk a bit. Next day she tells me she missed me during our free period(period where students can walk around the school and choose to do whatever they like). I talk to my friends about it, and get her snapchat from one of them. I begin snapchatting her that weekend and noticed she takes forever to respond, and sometimes doesn't bother to, really depends on the day. One night we stayed up talking over Snapchat about our pets or whatever. I try to initiate conversation once a day, most of the time she will open it a long time afterwards and respond or not. \n\nRecently I've went to her locker once or twice and talked with her and she was all smiles and laughter and walked all the way to class with her. Another time after free period we did the same. Last night I attended an event at school and we exchanged random snapchats afterwards. Today I sent a picture talking about my run to which she did not respond to and read 4 hours later. \n\nI feel as if she's putting me off or ignoring me sometimes, am I being too clingy? I say hi all the time in person and try to talk to her in real life as much as I can but we don't have same classes. I'm really confused as to what I should do, ask her out? or should I get to know her better?\n\nAny help would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit!\n\nMe and my friends have way too much time on our hands, and have started a little project. We're planning on making a Reddit Trading Card Game!\n\n[If you don't know what a TCG is, here is the wikipedia page on the subject.](\n\nIdeas so far\n\nPlease note that this idea is really new, and therefore also really raw.\n\nThe cards would be memes, timeless ones or just the ones that are popular for some time and then disappear. It will all be there.\n\nThe \"Life\" of the cards will be karma. If you have something that gives you upvotes, you gain karma, and therefore have more life. If you have something that downvotes, you lose karma, and therefore have less life.\n\nThe \"Energy\" or \"Mana\" will be called Power (not settled). Red Power will for example be called Rage Power.\n\nThe area where you play out your memes, will be called the \"Front Page\". Your deck is called \"Links\" (open for suggestions on this one), when your meme's die or you have used a one-use card, they get \"Deleted\".\n\nWe need YOUR help!\n\nIf you're interested in this project, please visit [/r/rtcg](/r/rtcg) and leave your suggestions there! We need help with game rules, we need artists, and we need creative minds for ideas! If you want to help us with this project in any way, be it drawing, coming up with ideas and rules, or anything else that might be useful, send me a message, we would love getting your help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend (22) and I (22) had been dating for almost 4 years. There was a short breakup in there about 11 months ago in the Spring because I was unhappy/didn't feel appreciated/could no longer put up with his lengthy list of bad habits and his attitude. After that breakup he 'changed'. He did everything the way I pictured a relationship should be. So we got back together a few weeks later.\n\nFast forward to the Fall: He is back to his old habits but worse. But there are still good times so I ignore them. And our relationship continues. But come Winter, we just are not happy. So we break up about a week ago.\n\nAnd then it all happens again. He 'changes'. He say's most of the change is because his doctor told him he needs to shape up, and he blamed most of our problem on the fact that he'd gotten fat and self conscious about that. Now he's running, and working out, and eating well, and stopping smoking, and is being more exciting and seems happier, and listening to me, and we have actual communication, and he shows affection, and sex (yes, we're broken up, I know it's bad and confusing), and he deleted his video games, and stopped sitting on reddit for endless hours(no offense, reddit). All the things that weren't there before.\n\nHe's doing what he did last time that worked to get me back last time again, but with much greater effort and what I think is more sincerity. \n\nI don't want to be a fool. It is nice spending time with him, now that everything is what I wanted in a relationship. But with us, it seems like we're better a bf/gf when we are broken up. I am really at a loss as to what to do. I don't want to not spend time with him. But I don't want to jump right back into it and repeat the cycle. Did he change, and is that change enough to make us work, or is this a failing relationship which is bound to be prolonged? Please, may I have some advice? I don't know what I want.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background:\n\nAlthough she is making large strides toward taking the world head on, she has extreme issues with self-image, self-worth, and an overall complete lack of confidence. She could be absolutely gorgeous if she wanted to and leave me in the dust for a much better looking guy, but she does absolutely nothing to take care of herself. She rarely wakes up before 9am, brushes her teeth about every other day, she might shave her legs once every few months. She maintains absolutely no upkeep on her body. \n\nShe has beautiful long red hair, yet I have never once seen it in any form other than parted directly down the middle (think Millie from Freaks and Geeks). She owns absolutely no type of hair holding mechanism, any kind of makeup, and virtually no clothes. Unless she is working, she seldom wears anything other than pajamas. She seems to spend most of her days lost in the dream world of the future, making lots of grand plans, but doing nothing to follow through on them.\n\nLet me be well understood that none of these things are required by me, but it was my understanding these things generally help women feel better about themselves.\n\nI spend a lot of time trying to motivate her by telling her she's beautiful, smart, capable, and how much I love her. I sometimes buy things and put them in the bathroom/shower that I think she may like or may be interested in using (facial cleansers, luffas, etc.) but nothing seems to work. I am a very motivating and positive person, but most of the time I feel as if she is just ignoring my attempts to help her take life head-on.\n\nWhat more can I do to help her gain confidence?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Inspired by this post, \n\nI'll go ahead and start it's a little long so bear with me. A long time ago in Jr. Highschool I had this teacher, we'll call her Mrs. R. Mrs. R was just genuinely unlikeable as ar as teachers go. She had bad breath, treated us all like we were 5, took her class way to seriously, and never gave students second chances on anything. So one day I decided it would be funny to rip a massive fart in the middle of her trying to teach the class something. I went over it with my buddies and they all thought it would be hilarious. Thus, Operation Massive Rip was born.\n\nSo basically, Op: MR went something like this. She was in the middle of discussing plot structure or something and I had finally built up enough pressure to let one rip. I let out the loudest earth shaking fart the world had ever seen. My friends in the class started laughing hysterically which led to everyone else laughing. Mrs. R, the bad breath smelling party pooper she was, got red faced and decided to kick me out of the class. She then sent me to another teacher's classroom where I had to copy 4-5 sentences saying bodily functions are inappropriate in the classroom 100 times. To this day, I have never seen a crazier reason to be kicked out of a classroom.\n\nSo Reddit, what's the craziest reason you've ever seen someone be sent out of the classroom?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi /r/Relationships,\n\nI'm a 25 year old male and I've never been in a relationship and I'm starting to wonder if I ever will. \n\nI have a decent job, a car, a home. I'm successful in every part of my life apart from the part that seem to matter the most to other people. I've never been in love and I've never been in a relationship with a woman. \n\nIt's getting harder and harder as time goes on too. When I was 23 I went on a date and it ended up with the girl in my bed, but I chickened out and just went to sleep. It's stupid to be a virgin at 22, and I didn't want to look stupid nor admit that fact. Now I'm 25 and I just feel even more ridiculous. I mean, the pool of people who haven't done any of this kind of stuff by my age must be pretty damn small. Most people won't encounter them. \n\nSometimes I think about trying online dating, but in the end I'm going to come up against that exact same wall that I did 2 years ago.\n\nThen there's part of me that wonders if I can be bothered with it all. I look around at all my friends and there seems to be a huge amount of interdependence and compromise in relationships. I've always been really independent and liked my own space, so I'm not sure how well I'd even function in a relationship. \n\nMy family all seem to be convinced I'm gay, which is frustrating. My reluctance to talk about it with them is basically proof. I don't even know what's worse at this point.. Coming out as gay would probably be easier and more normal at this point. \n\nI feel like I'm missing a huge part of the life experience and that I'm emotionally stunted compared to my peers. It's not like I'm even an introvert, I'm very extroverted according to all my friends. \n\nSo yeah, I don't know what to do. Has anyone been in a similar situation of felt the same way? How did you get over it? Did you get over it? \n\nThanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my SO for five years. It's been an amazing relationship in parts but unfortunately our long-term goals do not align (they haven't for years and we just pushed it under the carpet and said love can overcome everything) and neither of us are willing to compromise. That, and we just argue over insignificant things which just highlights our incompatibility.\n\nAnyway, we graduate this year and after the summer it will be over. It's been half a decade of our lives that we're just going to throw away. My gut instinct tells me that it is the right thing to do and that we'll be happier with other people. So I want to go ahead with this. But how do I push past all the doubt and the guilt and move forward without looking back?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This one comes from the beach down in Corpus Cristi, TX: We were there on a band trip during my freshman year. We decided to have a game of beach ultimate and split up basically seniors versus freshmen.\n\nLate into the game, one senior guy is streaking up the beach toward the endzone and the disc gets hucked to him. It flies out over the water, where my friend Charlie proceeds to lay out parallel to the ground, and make a spectacular flying swat to save the point.\n\nSorry if that had a little too much Ultimate jargon in it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After 8 months, my lover chose another woman over me. We tried to maintain a work relationship, but I just was a total bitch. I don't want to be but then I think too much, and I'm hurt and mad. He's been so kind. I thought I was in love, but how can I love someone I'm so willing to hurt and be mean to? I should be happy for him, and I should want him to be happy no matter what. But why am I so hateful if I love him? Maybe I am just a selfish bitch? He loves me on some level, he's said, I believe him. He just has other obligations to this other woman. I get it, but why then can't I be happy for him, and just love him and move on? Am I incapable of love?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll keep this short. We had a great weekend away for the long weekend. As soon as we get home he is miserable. I ask for help unpacking and doing laundry, and he huffs and puffs about it. He went from being super affectionate during our trip away to not even looking at me. I ask him what wrong and he says \"just leave me alone\". \n\nI don't get it at all. I end up going to bed alone early because he isn't making room on the couch for me and is watching a TV show he knows I hate.\n\nThis morning he apologizes for being a jerk, but I am still hurt and I don't understand why his mood changed so drastically.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a guy friend who I made recently and he asks to hang out a lot and whenever we go grab a bite he offers to pay. I always say no but sometimes he is very persistent. He also tries to hug me a lot and texts me rather often. I've just recently met him at work so I find his behaviour a bit odd because even though we're friends, I'm still getting to know him and I don't feel close enough to him to be so touchy feely. Also, I think he may be interested in me, which if he is, I don't want to lead him on but I also don't want him to think I don't appreciate his friendship. I do enjoy hanging out with him but just as a friend.\n\nHow do I know if he likes me or is just being friendly? How do I set boundaries without being rude? He is fun to hangout with but I'm not a sentimental person and I don't like being touched. I am also not attracted to him at all.\n\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "September of last year I bought a pair of apple earpods which come with a 1 year warranty. They stopped working after about 6 months and they gave me a replacement no questions asked. The replacement has now stopped working and they say they can't give me a replacement because the warranty for the original pair has now expired. Shouldn't the warranty restart from when I got the replacement pair or are they allowed to do this? In addition to this, they are now asking for a receipt or email which confirms when I bought them (in order to check if the warranty is still valid), even though the 4 other times I've been given a replacement (I got through quite a few) they replaced them no questions asked.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl (we'll call her Claire) was my first gf ever back in hs. We dated for about a year but distance drew us apart. Our breakup was a little messy and for a few years we didn't talk. Fast forward and we began texting again 'as friends'. We both moved back to our hometown after college and I expected us to have a great friendship, as that's what we both wanted. In my eyes a friendship would consist of hanging out, doing things together, etc.\n\nEver since she moved home she refuses to hang out with me one on one, as she believes it's 'too close to bf/gf'. As much as I would try to get closer with her she would equally push me away. However, her and I text all day every day, she tells me all of her closest secrets and innermost thoughts, we talk on the phone about her problems etc.\n\nI'm really confused about all of this. She treats me 'like a boyfriend' via text/phone but she treats me as LESS THAN a friend in person. I finally decided to bring my frustrations up to her and mention that 'it's our last year possibly ever in the same state (before grad school) and that I wished things went differently etc. She took this as me confessing my love and told me 'too bad but I don't feel the same way.' Basically a generic 'friend-zone' response that she has sent to multiple guys before.\n\nI really don't know what to do anymore but it's wearing on me. I have tried to bring things up to talk about what relationship we have and she completely blows me off month after month. And yet I'm still there anytime she needs to talk about issues or even other bf issues (which i told her to not bring up to me multiple times) On one hand I feel like I need to do what's best for me. Which includes slowly cutting her out of my life. On the other hand we've been 'friends' for so long now that I'd feel awful 'abandoning her'. I feel like I love this girl and it sucks. Idk what to do anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was helping my dad babysit my five year old nephew yesterday. We were up in his room, where he showed me a plush football he had received as a gift. We started tossing it back and forth and I decided it was time to show him how to snap a football.\n\nI turned around, crouched, and hiked him the ball. He started laughing uncontrollably, repeating that I had showed him my butt (I guess I should mention that he is in a butt/poop phase right now). He started yelling \"butt!\" and trying to add other random words to it... and this was when his (uptight) mother walked in.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I never believed in divorce, I thought marriage was forever but life dealt me another set of cards. We went down every avenue trying to fix our marriage - two inpatient rehab stays, AA, Al-Anon, marriage counseling, individual counseling. When our son was born it was like someone flipped a light switch and I realized that my son was not safe with him and he couldn't grow up with the uncertainty of being parented by an addict, even though he's mostly a functional one. I moved to another state and moved in with my parents and the three of us work together to care for my son and make his life as happy as possible. My dad is super involved, changing diapers, taking him for walks, playing with him, etc but my dad is not his father. \n\nI'm struggling even though I know my decision was the right one with the guilt of robbing my son of his real father. His dad rarely asks about him and when he does, he will text my mom. Most of his Facebook posts are about how much he misses our son. He tells me he doesn't ask about him because talking to me is too painful. He also owes me over $500 in back child support. He told me it was because he was waiting for them to mail him the paperwork. I took care of all the proper forms yesterday, once again taking care of his responsibilities and enabling him just like I did in our marriage.\n\nHow do I let go of the guilt, the love I still have for my ex husband and raise a strong man without a dad? Please tell me it gets better.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, I recently adopted a cat (about two weeks ago now) She's a 4 year old and is TINY. We set her up in the bathroom because we thought the small space would make it easier for her to transition. So now the problems, she only sits by the toilet when my Fiancee and I are around; She eats in front of me but only if I place the food in front of her and only stands up after extensive petting. She will immediately sit after I'm done petting as well. She's extremely jump and the tiniest noise causes her to curl into a ball and hide her head behind the toilet. She doesn't play, at least not with me, and a laser pointer causes her to go stroke mode and again, hide her head behind the toilet. She doesn't hiss at anything that I've found out yet.. So my question is, does my cat just need more time to get used to her space, and what can I do to get her to come out of her shell? Her history at the shelter says they found her as a new appearance in a Feral colony, so they thought she was a stray. I don't think she's feral because she lets you touch her (not pick her up; and bring your face even close to her is a nono...) She also hasn't tried to escape the house...or leave the bathroom at all (except one night when she tugged my electric shaver down and it caused her to run laps around the house.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Im dating a new girl who never dated anyone before. She lives in my apartments and we get along great, have same interests,etc. She never tries to pay for things when we go out or ask me about myself. Most of the time I listen to her talk on and on. I ask her questions but she doesnt ever seem interested in me.....more like she wants to talk and feel special....and like shes interested in a free meal. I know shes new to relationships and this isnt my first rodeo.... unsure of what to do. In prior relationships I would wait on the girl to ask if we could do something and then let her pay for that to even the bounds... this seems way too convenient for her. Im finding this difficult because she lives in my apartment complex so there is no physical boundary. Oh and weve been dating for seven weeks. We go out a few times a week and I pay each time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I posted this 5 months ago hoping to get advice in a few subs:\n\n>I'm a 15 going on 16 year old and I have 3 siblings; 13 year old sister, 12 year old brother and a 6 year old brother. Yesterday our parents sat the three oldest of us down and told us they had filed for divorce. I'm not really bothered by it since I saw it coming. My real problem is I don't want to go anywhere my siblings go.\n\n>I don't have a good relationship with my family. My mum and dad >haven't gotten along for years and have always taken their frustration out on me. They didn't want to parent us and wanted me to step up and take care of my siblings.\n\n>My siblings and I hate each other. My brother thinks its funny to wreck my stuff and steal my savings (summer jobs). My sister steals my stuff and is physically abusive (hits and scratches me). If I retaliate I get slapped and if I try to take my stuff back I get yelled at because \"I'm the older sibling and should be the bigger person\". The 6 year old is alright since he hasn't picked up any bad habits from those two and I wouldn't mind him staying with me.\n\n>When my parents split I want to be away from them, I want to be in the custody of the person who doesn't have their custody. I wouldn't mind going to foster homes if it comes to that, I reckon it'll be better than having those two constantly ruin my days. I don't really want to meet them either if my non-custodial parent gets visiting rights.\n\n>I don't know if I'll get asked for my preference when my custody is decided. I talked to me school counselor and she said she didn't know much about it (haven't had any kid come to her with that problem) but said she'd expect the judge to get that sorted. I don't really want to choose between my mum and dad, I just want my brother and sister to not be with me.\n\n>How do I tell the judge this if he asks me? I really want him to take me seriously on this. Thanks for reading.\n\n>", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and we're having some problems. To start off, I'm a guy who pretty much exclusively only has female friends, and my girlfriend knows this, and previously seemed okay with it. \n\nRecently one of her friends saw me on a night out with a group of girls, and told my girlfriend that I 'was all over' one of them. This wasn't true, the girl who told her already dislikes me and constantly gives me dirty looks etc. The girls I was out with were my 3 best friends, and I have absolutely no romantic attraction to any of them, plus they're all in relationships and I've been friends with them for most of my life so you can see why this irritated me.\n\nImmediately my girlfriends attitude towards me seemed to change, she is already quite an insecure person so I immediately tried to reassure her, I told her I only wanted to be with her and noone else and after a few weeks everything seemed okay between us, and I thought I'd sorted it out.\n\nA few nights ago, however, she told me there's been more rumours of my infidelity. We had a long phone call argument where I essentially told her (or tried to) that I never cheated, never will and I wanted to stay with her. She asked me whether I wanted to end it and I obviously said no. Some further background is that my last two girlfriends have cheated on me, so you can see how annoying it is to me to feel like I'm in the wrong without doing anything.\n\nI just don't know how to get through to her that she needs to trust me and believe that I'm not a cheat, never have been and never will be. Any advice would be great.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met her more than a year ago. Just casually through online friends who played the same games I did. We immediately had a lot of in common, we played games, always had something to talk about, talked on Skype for more than 12 hours a day, everyday. And we at least talk 3-4 hours a day still. I really like her but I live in a different state. \nShe is very complicated because of her past but that's what I love about her. Everything that makes her who she is right now. And I really just want to say that I love her and would love to see it go further. But because of us living so far away I know there's not a whole lot of further. But I keep reading about people doing this kind of stuff and I was just wondering what reddit had to say about this.\n\nTo sum it up, as of now we are very close friends who care about each other a lot. I obviously want more. And I don't know what she wants. How do I proceed? ( As of now I have no means of travelling there and seeing her, I will obviously will be able to do it later in life, but I don't want to miss this chance. Because I really like her.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Everyone has their favorite tricks/tips to keeping a clean house, so I'm curious...and in the market for a new vacuum and/or steam mop. \n\nWe have three adult cats and one Italian Greyhound puppy and live in a mostly hard-wood apartment [two carpeted rooms and two large area rugs]. The cats are short hair but shed like crazy [black, white and grey!] and IGs don't really shed at all, but track in a decent amount of dirt from the yard. Getting sick of sweeping, swiffering and then pushing around dirt with a mop. It'd be nice to have a vacuum that picks up dirt and hair effectively on hardwood and carpet and I'm strongly considering investing in a steam mop.\n\nSo what do you do? What do you recommend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically, I've had a rough few months. I finished university and got a good degree. \n\nIt's been like 3 months now, I've been applying for jobs and I recently got a good job. But now it's a struggle to get into work cos I'm trying to move to a new city.\n\nMy normally very positive mindset has taken a real kick in. I feel like I'm never gonna be able to move into my own place which is my current goal. I've been broke for so long that it feels permanent. but tonight I've had a breakthrough.\n\nI'm broke, and basically have no home. But tonight I realised that I have a degree, I have a smashing girlfriend, I have a supportive (albeit poor) family. But more than any of that, I've got a mentality to not give up. \n\nThis whole sub has the common theme of 'the only real loser is the one who gives up' going through it and that really resonates with me now. \n\nThe job I got is good money so I've got three weeks of struggle then I'm golden. But my mindset has been so bad lately that I've only been seeing negatives. That's not me at all, I've always been positive and hate how I've been thinking lately.\n\nBut anyway, the point, done with being negative. I've done so much and come so far, only a short distance to go now. Let's do it.\n\nSorry for the rant, I just needed to get this stuff out.\n\nAnd I have a quick request, any pictures that quote about \"how far you've come\" or stuff like that. Preferably ones that would make a good iPhone 5s wallpaper.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright so I DM'd this girl a grade lower than me in May and it only lasted for a few hours of back and forth. The conversation was pretty general and we just talked about school. Then she just stopped responding. No goodbye, nothing. Just never responded.\n\nFast forward to now, I decided to DM her again. And she answered and we talked all day until I had to go to work. The conversation was constant and the longest break between texts was around 15 minutes. I tried to make this one deeper and I got to know her a lot more. Before I went into work a I decided to ask for her number and she gave it to me. Then after work I texted her and she responded. And we talked for a few hours but then she fell asleep. Again no goodbye she just fell asleep, which I understand.\n\nShe texted me this morning telling me she fell asleep and then we texted again for a few hours. Then she did it again. She just stopped responding. Like she did in May. Its been a few hours and I know she must've seen it because she's been active on Twitter. \n\nI forgot to add that she has the read receipts on and even though she's been on Twitter she hasn't went into our conversation and looked at the text, probably so I don't see the read receipt. \n\nSo should I never text her again? I'm not sure what to do or what this means. She was super involved in the conversations and they don't die down she just doesn't respond. It's confusing lol. Any and all advice is helpful. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all so a bit of backstory; i'm 22 years old currently working full time as a Kitchen Porter/Commi chef, i'm also in 2nd year of a Software Development course slowly letting it all fail. I've lived by myself in a flat but had to move back home because i couldn't find a job where i was at. Me and brother live and look after ourselves (our parents are only back home for a month in a year).\n\nI was studying to be an accountant but hated that, so i tried to pick something i was interested in. I enjoyed working on games, and working with people. But once i hit 2nd year i just couldn't find the time to work on stuff properly, i needed the money badly. So i'm in the midst of resitting the module i failed, watching it fail again. My coursework will be late, i'm pretty certain i can pass the exam in a month but my coursework i find just to difficult to wing it.\n\nI've fucked up i know and haven't found the time to work on my coursework, i could blame the crazy 12+hour shifts but i know other people work much longer then me and find the time to do many many things.\n\nI'm honestly scared because i'm 22, i don't know what the fuck it is i'm meant to do. I hate working in a kitchen but it pays the bills, but i think if i'm to be successful in this degree (if i get a chance to resit it in August)\nI might be able to get a resit in August but i'm just scared i'm not where i should be at 22, and i don't know who to talk to,letting everyone down.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this actually happened a little while ago, but it's one of my favourite stories.\n\nEarlier in the day, I (male) tell my partner (female) this theory about male recovery time after sex, and how it's shortened if another girl comes in - as if the brain is saying \"Oop, better spread your seed!\". I bring it up like this:\n\n\"I read this interesting theory about male recovery time after sex. Like, you know it usually takes around 10-15 minutes for me to get hard again after I come? Apparently that is totally negated if another sexual partner gets involved.\"\n\n\"Really? Huh. That's interesting.\"\n\nSo, a few hours later, we're going at it, as you do, and she starts very obviously wanting to say something. I encourage her. This exchange happens:\n\n-----\n\nHer: \"Well...\"\n\nMe: \"Go on...\"\n\nHer: \"Remember what you said earlier?\"\n\nMe: \"Yeah?\"\n\nHer: \"That idea really turns me on.\"\n\nMe: \"... really.\"\n\nHer: \"Yeah. That's hot. That's really hot.\"\n\nMe: \"Do go on.\"\n\nHer: \"I'd love to make you come and then for the door to open...\"\n\nMe: \"Yeah...\"\n\nHer: \"And for this other guy to come in. And he'd just fuck me, hard, until you're ready to go again.\"\n\nMe: \"Uh...\"\n\nHer: \"Fuck, that's so sexy.\"\n\nMe: \"I think you might have misunderstood the nature of the study.\"\n\n----\n\nThen I laughed. A lot. She got really embarrassed, so I had to explain how we'd sort of missed each other somewhere along the line.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "These people have lived across from me for over a year. They have a home made wooden cage near the end of the garage. I've seen them take the dog out of the cage literally once. A younger guy walked the dog down the street for about 20 yards, came back to have his mother spray the dog with the hose while he held it back on a leash. To be fair, they sprayed the dog with the cone/mist setting in some attempt to clean the dog, not necessarily to piss it off. We live in Michigan, and the garage faces the west, so everyday this summer, the dog dealt with sun on it from 1pm till sunset, on some very hot days. The dog barks almost constantly, but they close the garage when it gets to be too much, so only they and the neighbors directly next to them can hear it, unless you walk past their house.\n\nAs far as I can see, the dog looks fairly healthy. It's some sort of husky type dog from what I can tell. I sort of know the neighbors directly next door to them, and they just facepalm when I make mention of it. They obviously hate the noise, but apparently they work for the guy who owns the dog, so they can't necessarily call the cops or say anything out right, so they say. They also say that the neighbors reason for keeping it caged up is because it's too vicious around small children.\n\nI like dogs, I like animals in general, I don't go out of my way to call people on their stupid bullshit, but this seems ridiculous to me. I can't find any solid, concrete information saying what they are doing is wrong, only because the dog looks to be in decent health. \n\nShould I do or say something? Or would it just turn me into the neighborhood asshole for prying into other peoples business?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife recently had a few-weeks \"emotional affair\" with her boss. I'm not sure it was really an \"emotional affair\", because they didn't talk about anything except work. On the other hand, it wasn't merely infatuation on her part, because he knew her feelings and reciprocated somehow. I gathered all this from what she told me, because I have no independent evidence to go on.\n\nAnyway, her latest contact with this character was an (innocuous) email exchange just after she quit the job (which was temporary), in which she asked if he could provide a reference for future job applications, and he agreed.\n\nAfter this, she confessed to me about this thing and insisted that it was all in the past. She agreed not to contact him again and not to reply if he contacted her, which (apparently) he hasn't.\n\nThe problem is that she is now thinking of applying for her next temporary job and has already updated her CV with details of her last employer, naming this guy as a referee. I'm not exactly happy about this because it could provide an excuse for him to contact her. Even if he doesn't contact her, writing a reference effectively gives him some kind of power to be helpful to her. (I know because I often write references for people at work.) This is a sensitive topic because apparently the main reason she fell for him is that he was soooo helpful at work.\n\nMy wife doesn't see this as a problem because the agent or new employer (not she) would be contacting him for a reference, and she thinks it would look strange/suspicious if she omitted this detail from her job application. I suggested simply stating truthfully that the name is omitted for personal reasons, but she thinks that would also look strange.\n\nWhat is the best thing to do in this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was driving home after work today when I see this squirrel being attacked by these two small bitch dogs. I pulled my car to the side and tried to chase the unattended dogs away. When I walked over to the dogs and the squirrel, the dogs didn't move, so I had to yell at them to get away. I am standing in a stranger's yard yelling \"Bad dogs! No! Get out of here!\"\n\nAfter the dogs ran off, I walked back to my car, just as it started to rain. As soon as I reached my car, one of the dogs ran back over and shook the squirrel to send it flying. I ran back over to yell some more. By this point, the neighbors have come out side to stare at me. I am getting drenched in my business clothes as I yell at the little bitch dog.\n\nThe dog ran off again, and as it did, the neighbors (not the ones who owned the dogs… They were never seen) asked what I was doing. I told them that I was a huge animal lover and can't stand to see an animal in pain. I then told them that I would be back with a net to relocate the injured squirrel to a new location, away from the little terrors. \n\nAfter getting a net and a bucket, I went back over to scoop up the squirrel. I feel pretty crazy at this point. I am drenched in business clothes, chasing a squirrel who is too weak to climb a tree, but fast enough to get away from me. I eventually catch him and release him down the road into a big tree, where I am sure he will eventually die. I am soaking wet, but feel like I did my best – and on a second thought, I am going to bring some dog food to put by the tree, just in case he is hungry.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We're living together but only temporarily. I move back to the college dorms in January. \n\nI've really liked living with him. This place has a kitchen, so we cook our own food rather than eating at the dining hall. Rather, I cook the food. I get a lot out of making him breakfast in the morning and leaving it on his nighttable while he sleeps, or tidying up his room while he's out. I don't really do it much in front of him because it makes him feel like he's in debt. I've told him over and over that it isn't the case. I actually really enjoy this sort of thing.\n\nThinking about moving back to the dorms and back with other roommates (none of whom I know) has been a bit depressing for me. But honestly, the thing I'm going to miss most is taking care of my boyfriend the way I have been these past few months. I've really liked this 'mom' role, much more than being a 'girlfriend'. We always argue about sex, and we always argue about going on dates, but it's not like we argue because he doesn't like the food I've cooked. Being a mom in this case is stress-free, while in the other cases feelings and emotions are always in play. I just don't know if I'm going to cope well with going back to how our relationship used to be.\n\nI'd like to talk about this with him, and I have tried to several times, but the conversation never really ends up being fruitful, so I'd like some advice from you more experienced individuals.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like I said, my friends asked me to go to South Padre with them. They already have everything paid for and they need one more person to go. They don't have room for my boyfriend to go, so that's why they haven't invited him. \nI really want to go!! For years I've wanted a Spring Break to unwind and relax and I haven't been able to go because my other friends never saved up the money to go.\nThese friends aren't my best friends, they're a group of friends I used to hangout with in High School. One of my ex boyfriends from when I was 16 will be there in the group. I've been assured that i won't be staying with him and that I won't be riding with him in the car on the way there. \nI don't know how my boyfriend is going to react to me asking him. He's a pretty jealous person, especially over my exes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "OKAY SO! My fiancé and I have known each other since 2008. I met him the second month of my sophomore year in college, the second month of his freshmen year, we both settled at a small liberal arts college up in Pennsylvania. Through mutual friends from our neighboring hometowns (we lived five minutes from each other, knew one anothers friends, i was roommates freshmen year with the chick he went head to head w/ during some student president election thingy)... but... we never knew each other)... we met through magical circumstances; I was pledging a stupid sorority, and he was just getting in the swing of things...navigating his new environment and acclamating...\n\nOUR RELATIONSHIP (plus 7 years of bickering and kissing and fighting and lots of loving and communication...)\n\n+Studying/Traveling Abroad: Vienna, Paris, Rome/Ven\nice, London, Prague, Amsterdam, Brussels... \n+Graduate College (2012) \n+Got into Graduate School \n+ Law School \n+MY FIRST adult JOB \n+GRADUATE, LMSW \n+ENGAGEMENT!!! (4.4.15 it was so personal and meaningful and meticulously executed..I am BLESSED.\n+GRADUATE from Law school\n+ BAR EXAM!!\n\nOur families are close. My family got him this classy michael kors messenger brief case....\n\nHe is my best friend, my life partner, my lover, my big one. I am open to all suggestions!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Only moments ago, I opened the door to go inside my house from the backyard, where I'd just finished smoking a cig. The lights are all off.\n \n As I walk past the kitchen table towards my room, I see my cat trying to get onto it from one of it's chairs. I scratch her once behind the ears, and gently start pushing her off. She quickly ducks beneath my hand, and keeps peering over the surface of the table at something. \n \nI see what looks like a single piece of popcorn in the darkness. I pick it up, and what I grab is crunchy, but much softer than popcorn. I flip on a light and saw that I had just squashed the biggest moth i'd ever seen in person right between my thumb and forefinger. Not a huge fuck up, but still. Gross.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have known this girl for about since September last year. I would really like to start talking to her and maybe one day ask her out but my anxiety gives me big problems and I dont know what to do about it.\n\nI know a decent ammount of things about her as I've managed to speak with her but it was a group type of thing which made it easier. I dont know what I should do. \n\nThanks to previous experiences with people I have a bad case of anxiety and dont really trust many people with what they say to me and I always think that they are thinking the worst thing possible about me. How do I get the courage to talk to her more and what should I say?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I come from a relatively broken family. My mom left when I was in high school, and my sister also chose to live a more frivolous lifestyle during her years of adolescence. Over the the years, she began to live more 'ghetto' lifestyle; welfare, drugs, boyfriend who beat her, went to jail... etc. She recently got married to him, and my father chose to NOT attend the wedding because he was morally against her marrying this individual. \n\nLast year, She was told that she was absolutely welcome at our annual Christmas gathering on Christmas eve. (So long as her SO was not in attendance) Given this relatively strict stipulation, she could not agree to leaving him at home alone last year, but this year, she came to me, as her sister, asking if I could talk to my dad about having her over for christmas.\n\nI spent the entire time trying to convince her that it would NOT be a problem and that, OF COURSE, she would be welcome to attend the family gathering. \n\nLow and behold.. my Dad is NOT okay with this situation. I spend an entire afternoon crying about this situation trying to deal with the estranged relationship that has developed between my dad and my sister. I can't come to understand why he could reject his eldest daughter this way.\n\nHas anyone else ever experienced a family disrepair around the holiday season that has worked out for the best in the end?? I feel so lost and helpless.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit,\nI moved in with a good friend of mine in November of last year. Before moving in with me he knew I was gay. However in February he told me that he became very religious (joined Knights of Columbus) and could no longer live with me. He asked me to 'control myself' until November at lease end or he would have to move out. \n\nI never had anyone over while he was at the residence and you would never know I was gay unless I told you. This all started because I had a straight friend over and the entire time he 'freaked out' thinking of what I might be doing with him. I was so furious at the time I told him to just move out.\n\nHe moved out, I could not find another roommate so we were forced to give notice to the leasing office we would be leaving. He continued to pay bills, rent, etc. \n\nHere is my problem, there is a $1000 dollar cancellation fee, he is to pay half and I have to pay half. I think it's ridiculous though because he is the one that broke the lease contract on his own accord based on his views, I did not want too. My attorney says the same and says the state will agree with me in small claims court. He sent my roommate a letter stating that he must pay or we will pursue civil law suit action. However no results. \n\nMy attorney is suggesting I send him a letter basically saying 'If you are a true Catholic as you say then you will pay him the money because it's the right thing to do. He suggested I quote some excerpts from the bible. I'm not religious so I'm not too versed on what excerpts I could pull out. \n\nI would appreciated any help you guys could give me!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm soon to graduate, and have had a few interviews with companies all in rapid succession. All have gone well. I got an offer on one very quickly, and feel very confident about the other two. \nThe one I got an offer on is basically my backup plan. It'd be a fun position, but it's lower pay than what the other jobs would be, fairly significantly (10-15k, if not more). I delayed them as long as I could; I was told by one to expect an answer within 2 weeks, and 2 1/2 weeks later, I've heard nothing (contacting their HR recruiter after the 2 week mark just got me the answer that \"they're still deciding\"). \nI can't afford to be unemployed on graduation, so I went ahead and accepted the position on the last day I was given to make the decision; I stalled them as long as I could knowing it wasn't my first choice. I also know I can't count on the other two jobs coming through. That said, if either of the other two come through, I'll almost certainly tell the company I accepted an offer from that I changed my mind and take the other offer.\nHow badly would this be burning a bridge? Are there other potential negative repurcussions that I'm not considering? I really didn't want to do it, but, from my POV, I didn't have much of a choice if I was going to make sure I had a job lined up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just as the title says, folks. \n\nI took pictures of a customer's truck loaded with product that has no paper trail and I watched my boss pocket cash that he had just taken from the customer. I also heard the customer ask about which product was \"off the books\". We previously accepted cash payments off the books, but stopped the process when sales declined... Company is in financial trouble, but his salary could boost our bottom line if he was no longer employed. We are confronting him before the end of the day and I need some reassurance and advice.\n\nThanks Guys/Gals, Don't fail me now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend has anxiety and is very emotional. I tend to solve problems more logically etc. Anyways, she asked if I'd go to her grandmother's funeral depending on when it was. Her grandma is currently in hospice so the time is coming soon. I've never been to a funeral before and I've never met my girlfriend's family.\n\nThe twist is that she doesn't have a good relationship with her dad and refuses to talk to him. This creates tension with her mom and her sister who live with her dad. I don't really think it's appropriate to be meeting her family at a funeral and I don't know her grandma at all. I told my girlfriend I'd take off work or whatever possible to be there for her after she gets home from the funeral (we don't live together). However, she started crying saying she really needs me there and needs someone to hold her hand. \n\nWhile I understand the logic behind this, it's also a big deal for me because 1. Her dad and her are in a feud and I really don't want to be a part of any sort of family drama at a funeral. 2. Meeting her mom and her sister or any family at her mom's funeral is going to be weird to me. Everyone's going to be crying and I don't know any of them yet, so the first time I meet them all it's going to be really sad. 3. I've never been to a funeral before and the closest thing is being in the room while putting my favorite childhood dog down with my family.\n\nGirlfriend got really upset when I told her these reasons and said she expects to have a boyfriend who is there to support her. I understand her perspective which is why I offered to be there for her after she gets back. But she really wants to hold hands during the funeral itself.\n\nDon't know what to do! I told her I'd think about it more, but she is still upset that she might have to 'ask someone else to go with her'.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In High School, I had a lady friend over late at my house on a school night. We were up chatting and having sexytimes, until about 6 in da monin. I didn't realize it was so late, until I heard my parents door open down the hall. Freaking the fuck out, I told her to get in the closet, and hide for a bit until they left for work. I laid back down to act like I was sleeping, knowing my dad came in my room to check his email every morning. This is where it all went horribly wrong.. 3 hours later, I was awoken by an utterly horrified girl, crying an screaming at me. When I laid down, apparently, I had immediately passed out. Once she calmed down, she told me that my dad came in, and she stopped breathing for about 10 mins. My closet was also pretty damn dirty, so if she moved, it would have knocked something over.\n\nLater that night, my mom came home and asked me what my girlfriends shoes were doing at the front door when they left. Like a boss, I replied, she accidentally left them here. She has inside and outside shoes. My mom bought it, never underestimate the power of denial.\n\nI have more, that was the best one though.. Tell me yours..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "TIFU: In the kitchen of the restaurant where I work (today was my 7th day), the county mandates that we have to wear gloves when handling food, no exceptions. So, when trying to fill cups of tartar and sour cream, I have some issues flipping and separating the cups. I thought I had a great idea: since the cups, much less the outside of the cups, are not food, let's not wear a glove; thought that cutting the tips off would be more fun. I neglected to remove my hand from the glove, and snipped the tips off my left index and middle fingers before I transformed my left ring fingerprint forever. That knife, as with all of our knives, are PARTICULARLY dull, so I had breezed that one through the (shitty) carbide pull sharpener a few times when I got in.\n\nWhen going to get a napkin to staunch the flow and then ask for a bandage, I slipped on the freshly mopped area just outside the doors.\n\nNot 20 minutes later, when returning the bucket of sour cream to the walk-in cooler, I again biffed on the freshly mopped floor of the cooler.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have recently started seeing a Latino girl, named Maria, who almost explicitly speaks Spanish. We met through a mutual friend, and Maria conveyed through our friend that she would like to see me again (a date). \n\nSo we exchanged phone numbers and went on a few dates. We really hit it off, and last week she told me that she would like to be with me in a relationship. With her being a very attractive girl with an amazing personality, I told her I'd love to be exclusive with her. \n\nSo we're getting along amazingly, she's helping me learn Spanish and I'm helping her with English. She hopes to be decently fluent in the next few months for her 18th birthday. \n\nBackground info aside, time for the real problem. I come from the Deep South, and a LOT of my family isn't exactly racist, but they frown upon interracial relationships. Some of the more hardcore members may even \"shun\" me. My mother (who lives not far from where I am now) is in no way racist, so I'm not worried about that. What about the rest of my family? Maria wants to go with me to stay the weekend in Alabama here soon, but I'm kind of nervous about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I am a 31 y/o M and have been dating a 25 y/o F for 5 months now. We have a fantastic relationship, and she really is everything I could ever want from a woman. She's smart, funny, caring, and most importantly accepts me for who I am, and loves me for who I am. I am 2 years removed from an 11 year relationship with a woman who was the basically her opposite.. she was overbearing, funny but at my expense, selfish, and tried to make me who she thought I should be.. In the end, she cheated on me with a friend of mine for several months before we split up and I was left not even knowing who i was anymore and seriously depressed. Fast forward to now and I am truly happy. I love spending time with my current gf, and honestly can see myself spending my life with her. She feels the same for me. Everything is for lack of a better word perfect. My issue is that I have this underlying trust issue now due to my experience with my ex. I have explained the situation to my current, and she is VERY understanding. She does everything she can to make sure I am comfortable and at ease with situations. I seriously have no reason to not trust her, and I DO trust her to be honest. It's more of a self-worth issue I think, this little voice in my head telling me that this amazing woman is too good for me and will realize it one day and dump me. So how do I get over this annoying nagging voice? I don't want my own internal issues to cause problems down the road.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(Full background under my submitted)\n\nI decided I couldn't wait for my ex to come around since there was no guarantee that me waiting for her would be worth it. Sure since the breakup we hadn't talked as much obviously but now that we are done seemingly forever I can't comprehend at all knowing that we will never laugh, kiss, talk etc etc together ever again. \n\nWe had so many plans and so much love but now all that is gone. How do I coupe with that? How can I move on and be happy after knowing all the hard work we put in and all the love is out the door now. I just can't wrap my head around knowing that the girl I thought I would marry will now move on and live her life away from me till the day we both die. \n\nI still do care for her, yes I still love her even after everything that happened at the end. I feel so alone and lost even though the actual break up was months ago, I'm honestly just afraid of the future now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, he's really, really hot. And since I'm not the only one who thinks so, he has been with a lot of girls, and even a couple of guys. More than 100, he said. He doesn't quite know.\nBut! He gets tested (urine samples) regularly, the last time he checked out clean was three weeks ago. The bigger things, like HIV and Hep, he says he tests less frequently, but we live in one of the world's safest countries, there were only 122 new cases of HIV among sexually active men in 2012 (most recent statistics - gay or straight - yeah, I checked), and socialized medicine and strict rules makes it almost impossible not to be alerted within a relatively short timeframe after having had sex with someone who was positive. \n \nI know this. \nI also know how condoms work. However, I don't trust them. I think they'll break, or that something bad will happen somehow. I lube up, I (or he) puts them on the right way, we take every precaution - but I don't dare letting him finish. I have to tell him to quit, and then I finish him with a handjob or something. He says it's okay, but I hate being that girl, and I actually want him to fuck me long and hard, I just... I'm too scared. I even had him promise that if the condom broke, he'd go test himself for EVERYTHING just to be sure. \n \nBut here I am, freaking out. Thinking the next time we have sex (if it's fair to even call ten or eleven thrusts sex), the condom will break and I will get AIDS. \n \n- - - \n... And this guy is literally the nicest guy I have ever met. He is thoughtful, kind, patient and he knows what he's doing - and he's totally honest. I want him bad. I don't know how to deal with this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi! \n\nMy boyfriend used to watch a lot of porn before we dated, and describes himself as \"jerking off all the time\". I know he slowed down since we moved in together. Recently, I caught him masturbating to a coworker's Facebook picture. \n\nHe doesn't understand that I see a difference between pleasuring himself to porn and pleasuring himself with a real person he works with. He doesn't think it's any different and is disorting the issue. \n\nTo me, there is a major difference, and I am not comfortable with the situation at all. \n\nSo I'm wondering... \nGUYS : Is it a normal guy thing? Do men in general don't see the difference between jerking off to someone you share your environment with, is it just as unpersonal to you as porn is? \n\nGIRLS : Am I over reacting? Would you be comfortable with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 17. I was driving my dad's '06 Audi A3 on a gravel road last night around midnight at about 5km/h over the posted speed limit. As I rounded a corner, there was something running across the road. I swerved to avoid it, over corrected my slide, and wound up flying off the side of the road into the forest. If it's not totalled, it's got at least $10,000 worth of damage. Thankfully nobody was hurt. The police officer was really nice and waived the careless driving ticket, and the tow truck driver was really good. My dad is absolutely furious (understandably). This all happened 9 hours ago and I'm still shaking. I can't get the accident to stop replaying in my head and I can't stop analysing it and telling myself what I should have done differently. Is there an easy way to make myself stop thinking of these things?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright. So the abridged version is basically we got into it because I looked at a celebrity gossip website randomly and she thought that was weird. Told her I looked at it because I'm fascinated by celebs (who hasn't thought it be cool to b a celebrity?) and she said she can't be with someone who want to be a celebrity so bad (I don't). So she asked to look through my phone history to see and I mentioned I delete my history. (I do. No real reason just always have. Not hiding anything) she says I'm sketchy. I say I can't be with someone who doesn't trust me. She throws my phone and starts walking away. I get in front if her and lightly push her to stop her from walking. Some random guy outside screams \"hey don't touch a girl like that\" She then proceeds to squeez my arm with her until it bleeds. She then slapped my head several times. After this she said she wanted to go home and I offered to give her a ride. On the way home she proceeded to call me the scum of the earth, said she can't believe the way that I treat her. And I'm abusive. Told me I don't deserve anyone because I put my hands on her. What should I do I've never been in love before and this is my first real relationship. I feel like my whole world is falling apart. Any advice will be helpful", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I got a letter in the mail saying I've been passed up for being hired for my dream job. I wanted this job for 10 damn years and now it's over. I've trained my body, mind, and soul for this job and just through a simple letter, I've been removed from that process. \n\nI was in good standing with getting hired. Passed everything with flying colors. Nailed the interview, scored good on the tests, passed my background investigation. All that stress and time I put in for this job was for nothing. \n\nWhat am I going to tell my co workers? My friends? My family? How am I going to deal with this? \n\nWhat am I going to do with my life? I've worked so hard since I was 14 to get this job so it's pretty much the only thing I'm good at. I've made so many sacrifices to get it and for nothing. \n\nI needed this job. I need to move out of my parents house. I need to pay off my debt. I can barely afford my car payment. \n\nNow what? Am I to live with my parents the rest of my life? Am I to never get my dream car? Am I to just keep my job where I only get paid minimum wage while I make the company tens of thousands? \n\nI don't know what to do. I mean my second dream job would be to work with penguins, but I don't think that's possible for me. \n\nAnyone have any advice for me? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello r/legaladvice, I'm moving to a new town for college in Florida and signed a lease yesterday for a room within a 4/4 Apartment in a larger apartment complex for students, through a private company/corporation.\n\nI was given the last available room within that floorplan but was refused disclosure of who my room mates are until after signing (dumb idea, I know). I was assured they were \"random people\" which is in fact not the case, it's a group of 3 people who know each other and come from a different culture, I already contacted them and it was made clear to me that they'd rather not have me there. There are several other problems with the apartment/room that are now starting to show also, such as a lack of power outlets in the walk in closet (I was told I could put a fridge in there) and a few other things.\n\nI haven't taken possession of any keys yet and my lease doesn't officially start until August, all I really did was sign off on the lease, a few addenda and a guarantor form. What's my legal standing in this instance and is there a way I can break my lease? If need be I can pay some fines but there's no way I could pay off the whole lease or something to that extent. \n\nAny help appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "in March~ I started working at a walmart, to save up money for graduate school. working there, specially now that school is over has resulted in very odd hours. Thus, i eat whenever I can and whatever I can find. Before I was working, i found it easy to stave off hunger, cause all I was doing it was sitting around at home. When i was just doing college, I would eat at like...11:00 and then at 5-6. Totally doable. Now its like, I work in the middle of the day for 8 hours then, im back in at 7:00am, it threw me off.\n\nAnywho, before i started there, I was somewhere around 170-172, down from a high of 350+ within a year. Now im like...184 (weighed myself yesterday when I noticed a shirt was a bit tight. I knew I needed to get back on track and fix this, but tonight sealed it for me. My mom was about to go to bed and told me good night, but before leaving she GRABBED MY STOMACH and said \"getting a bit of a belly back, aren't you?\".\n\nI freaked out, felt she totally overstepped her bounds and chewed her out, she didn't seem to know what the problem was. But that was also the wake-up call I needed. Tomorrow (its 11:23pm) its back to clean eating, no deserts/shit food....period. If I have to stand around hungry for a few hours then so be it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Met a girl at a gaming meetup event and we started a friendship. We've done stuff together (play games and go see movies, meet for coffee) and I enjoy the friendship we've had up until now. I know she's developed feelings for me but I already told her I am only interested in a friendship and nothing else. \n\nHer marriage has been deteriorating and when we are together on an outing or online chatting she's slowly over time been confiding in me very personal stuff (which she should be discussing with her husband and not me). I understand people need to vent, but I get the feeling I'm becoming nothing more than a shoulder to cry on. It feels like emotional cheating, and morally I wouldn't infringe on anything like that. \n\nI already brought it up with her and she's using the pretext as a \"friend\" to continue to divulge personal things... Am I just better off cutting ties?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hear me out. I had a two hours interview the other day, with three different people. They're all smart professionals, and I highly respect them for their profession. First one to interview me had absolutely no people skills. She may be smart, but definitely should not be dealing with another human being, she practically just read my resume to me. The second guy was very personable, no complaints about him. Final guy was the CEO, and he's an asshole. I really respected that he's a straight forward guy, BUT it's absolutely unnecessary to put down another human being just because you think you're better than them. I know he's smarter, richer, and cut throat, but you know what, we're all humans, if you treat me like that when I'm just interviewing, how will you treat me when I'm your employee? They're waiting for me to email them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the post about our breakup a few weeks ago - \n\nNow I find myself thinking about her more and more each day. I know there were parts that weren't great, because I can read that post. However, we've had a little bit of contact here and there, but nothing about the breakup. Just chit chat things about finding a place to live and stuff. We're still friends on Facebook and Twitter and she seems like she's doing all right, but maybe she's just doing that to make me feel less guilty...? I don't know.\n\nI guess I'm just not sure what it is I'm feeling. I thought I'd be able to just move on and be fine because I was never really emotionally invested. Am I just bothered because she seems all right or do I really care more than I think I do? I want to send her an email (yes, an email of all things) and tell her what I'm going through and that maybe I'd like to hang out some time soon. I'm just afraid of building her hope (and mine?) up and then letting us both down if that feeling isn't there again...I'm not sure what i want to do here and I just don't know exactly what it is I'm going through. \n\nShould I send her an email? Should I try and get together with her and see if something is there? Should I even try? Or should I just delete her from social media and invoke a strict NC? Any advice would be decent.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dated this girl for 5 years she was amazing and the most beautiful girl. We were each other's firsts.\n\nShe turned abusive at year 4 and cheated on me with my best friend. She dumped me after. One month later, she dumps him and wants me back. I foolishly accepted.\n\nWe've been \"dating\" but it's really just sex and then she would be distant for a week, then sex, then she would bring up something from the past and use it against me. I never instigated, all I say is 'okay' and talk about other stuff.\n\nI finally left her today\n\nI told her it's over and i never want to see her again. I blocked her on everything.\n\nMy problem is i feel extremely empty and depressed right now. I've been crying for 3 hours and I'm a wreck. Did I make the right choice? What do I do now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Link to original post: \n\nI'll admit, I completely ignored the advice from my original post. I should have ended it immediately but I thought I could salvage it. She meant a lot to me after two and a half years. \n\nAnyways, I went to the beach with her family at the end of May. I could only stay for two days due to work problems (I drove back 9 hours from the beach at night straight to the office just so I could spend more time with her,) but it wasn't enough. She said I always \"put her second,\" and ignored me for about a week. \n\nHer first text back to me was \"I will not be put second, it's over!\" I knew she was putting on a show, but I couldn't bring myself to just forget about it and move on. I tried and tried and tried to get her back until finally we met up at her house and spent the night together. I had woken up in the middle of the night and just staring at the ceiling when it finally registered that I didn't want to be with someone who treated me this way- someone who just kinda ran all over me. \n\nI got up, left, and never came back. It's been about three weeks now and I'm content. \n\nEvery time I think I miss her, I remember that she \"left\" me for the dumbest f**king reason in the world just to get me to beg for her back. I remember that she emotionally cheated for six months prior. I miss the thought of her, of \"us,\" but then I realize what it was really like. \n\nI don't hate her- I'm not really the hater type. But I'm glad I can finally be myself and be happy in my daily endeavors. You were right all along, reddit. Thanks for the help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay here's the dealeo, I've been texting this girl since November and we've gotten pretty close. I know she likes me and would definitely say yes if I asked her out.\n\nThis is where it gets complicated, there's another girl. I've known her since kindergarten and just this year I have developed \"feelings\" for her. I have no idea if she likes me at all like that, she acts all flirty and stuff, but that's also how she treats her girlfriends.\n\nSo now I have no clue if I should go for a girl I'm not sure I really like and definitely have a chance with, or a girl I might really like and may have no choice with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband (!!) and I tied the knot April 9th, we planned every little detail ourselves and paid for it ourselves. (Well with some help from my parents). And all decor was DIY'D. It was a LONG year and a half, but seeing it all come together was worth it!\n\nSome things that went well...\n\n* Seeing my husband's face during our first look. He bawled like a baby and it was the most treasured moment of the whole day and probably my whole life. \n\n* Our officiant killed it! We had guest after guest comment on how beautiful the ceremony was, some said it was the most emotional wedding they'd ever been too. And a friend's mom said our vows made her question her marriage (yeah, that was a weird comment). But it was worth it to custom curate our ceremony with our officiant, it was so special and even though I was so nervous I'm glad we wrote our own vows. \n\nThings that went wrong...\n\n* My father in law hit my day of coordinator's car before the ceremony... I didn't find out about it until we checked into our hotel that night. But during our first dance it was funny to hear my husband go \"I have so much to tell you...\" Everything was fine though! He just scraped the side of her truck with his, but she handled it like a PRO. She just told him well, today is you son's day so we'll exchange info later and take care of it tomorrow, let's worry about the wedding first. She really was just fantastic all around.\n\nAdvice...\n\n* Get a day of coordinator if you can. It is SO much easier than taking care of it yourself/having a friend or family member do it. We paid $500 for a DoC to setup/break down everything and she really made the day go smoothly and kept us on top of everything.\n\n* Make as detailed of a timeline as possible. It was a little stressful coordinating who was leaving the hotel with who to the venue, etc. Also my husband had to pick a lot of people up at the airport, so maybe pay a friend from your area to be a designated taxi. It was different with us since 90% of our guests were out of town.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short-ish:\n\nI worked with this girl over the summer, and we were pretty good friends. About last week, I message her. She says she misses me. Like, a lot. Then I find out we have a mutual attraction, as in we want to date.\n\nThe next day, we plan to hang out at my place, and she says its ok for me to kiss her. We watch a movie and hang out, and then I take her home. Later I ask why I couldn't kiss her, and she says she'd rather be friends.\n\nWhat should I do? I mean, I'm ok with the friendzone, but I'm really in love with her... (note: I'm a freshman in college, she's a senior in HS. She also lives in one town part of the year, and another town a half hour away for the other part)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Mandatory happened on Sunday afternoon. \n\nI was cooking pasta, the stove top was hot with the pasta boiling away and the cat we are currently looking after was getting too curious for his own good. \n\nAfter several attempts of jumping onto the stove top to suss out where the food smell was coming from, I picked him up and put him in the room next door, and shut the door. \n\nI guess he wanted back in badly because all I could hear were nails digging into the carpet beneath the door. Eventually the sound ceased, I had finished cooking and after restoring all the culinary supplies I went to open the door to release the cat. \n\nExcept that the door wouldn't open. The cat had pulled the carpet from the edges and jammed the door shut.\nI called my SO and had him come from his classes to unlock me from the kitchen three hours later. \nI've spent the last few hours re-attaching the carpet to the edge tacks. Any tips to get it all smoothed out before our house inspection on Wednesday would be appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Boyfriend, A, and I have been dating a little over a year. Recently he's been expressing interest in getting tattoos and piercings (of which he currently has none), and has just dyed his hair bright pink. I'm all for self-expression or whatever, but my attraction to him absolutely plummeted from a 110% to 30 upon seeing pink hair. I know if he keeps doing this alternative stuff, especially tattoos, it will make him increasingly unattractive to me. I don't want to outright tell him he looks ugly to me and that I find it very, very hard to take him seriously , but I also don't want to feel like I'm pressuring him into doing something. Advice on how to approach this problem?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently myself [22M] and a friend of three years [21F] (not close, on and off) hooked up and from there began a relationship. We dated for four months before she called time on it in January because she \"wanted to be alone\" and by herself for the last few months of our last year of University (although she followed this up by saying she would probably \"regret\" her decision in a few weeks and that I was \"the best\" boyfriend she'd ever had, great closure, huh?).\n\nI understand all her reasoning behind it, the last year being stressful and to add a relationship onto that would be extra tough. However, although I agreed to still be friends with her, I still have strong latent feelings for her. I have attempted \"No Contact\" a few times but keep getting drawn back into texting/messaging her. Every now and again I will feel like I'm over it only to see her around, get a text or be at a party/gathering with her and have everything rush back.\n\nI'm sick of this, and so have resolved to bite the bullet and confess that I am still attracted to her, and, though I'm aware that at the moment she just wants to be alone and be friends, its not something I can change for now.\n\nI don't, however, know how to approach this. I obviously shouldn't (and don't plan to) do this over text or messaging. However I also feel a phonecall would be too impersonal and wouldn't get my point across properly. I was thinking of inviting her to have lunch at a neutral location (a cafe on campus or similar) and talking to her there.\n\nSo, the crux of the matter is what do I say and how do I go about it? I don't want her to feel like its her fault or that I'm going to ignore her / be a dick about it. If anyone has any ideas or suggestion it would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I understand that she needs space to grieve, and that she needs to come to grips with what happened, after the abortion, i was her only shoulder to cry on,of course her parents were there to support and talk to, but she didn't want to due to fear, shame and embarrassment. \n\nSo after the abortion we thought it would be a breeze, that wasn't the case, it happened around 3/4 months ago and our relationship hasn't been the same, for around 3 months after it was constant battling at eachother and tears of what happened but i'd always support her.\n\nMy mum and a close friend have told me to not text her at all, wait for her to come to, open the door, then come in and pick everything up again. But i had to text her and just let her know im waiting for her and would never abandon her, any hour of the day i would be here. The reason im worrying is because she has one therapy session a week, and she doesn't talk to her mum about it as much as she should, she's even admitted shes depressed and i could see it.\n\nHer exact reply to my text was \"That definitely put a smile on my face! So nice to hear that fro you, you mean everything to me still and just for you to understand that honestly makes me the happiest person alive\"\n\nThe problem is, i don't want her bottling everything up and not speaking to anyone, i hate knowing she could be sat upset, feeling alone, and of course i don't want,after all this space, her to think i was never here from her, feelings to go,and to get a wrong impression of me.\n\nWhat shall i do?\nShould i call or text her at all?\nShould i just let her come to me?\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The conflict between three of us in the house and our craigslist roommate resulted in a police call Monday night. \n\nOur roommate (now referred to as Craig) has been shirking every responsibility in taking care of our house. Craig himself is a weird guy, mumbles to himself, isolates himself in his room, occasionally records our female roommate with his phone, and refuses to do anything involving cleaning or house work.\n\nWe've tried to settle things peacefully and buy him out of the lease, but every time he says \"I don't think that would be the best choice for me.\" He occasionally mentions that if he moves out, we would \"fail to learn our lesson\". \n\nOn Monday night, I approached him about his failure to do any chores in the house, and after some shouting back and forth he pushed me in the chest with a detergent bottle he was holding, we tussled and both I and the female roommate told him to back off. I grabbed a knife off the counter and told him to leave us alone, threatening to hurt him if he didn't go into his room.\n\nHe called the police. After speaking with them (apparently he told them I had started everything and had attempted to swing at him with the knife) and clarifying with the help of the female roommate, they decided to diffuse the situation by escorting Craig out of the house and having him sleep somewhere else that night.\n\nI haven't received the police report yet, but I was wondering if there was anything I could do to get him out of the house? At this point we are worried he'll snap and try to hurt us. The Landlord has made it clear that she doesn't want to be involved, but I am trying to convince her that if she doesn't, we will be in danger.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been going out for 3 years now, and outside of the bedroom, we're a perfect match for each other, and we love each other very much. However in the bedroom, things don't feel like such. (I also like to point out that this is my first relstionship). Minus a FEW good (and even great) moments in the past in regards to sex, there's been a lot of \"okay\" to disappointing feelings that made sex a total guilt trip and frustrating experience. \n\nI feel as this is all my fault because I have a tendency to think/fall into this selfish bastard mindset that goes straight for the immediate sex and release, and then feel like a dick and horrible for doing so...which in turn, does get her to climax. Sex ends quickly too with my lack of self control in regards to cumming first. It's gotten to the point were she not only expects it to be a disappointment, but that she has felt less if not completely not sexy anymore in bed, and feels used. I keep on beating myself up for it and it's been a repeat issue for most of the relationship and I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]

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