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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'm an 18 year old male, and I've had a few relationships, longest one lasting 2 years, and that one ended towards the end of my sophomore year. However, almost all of my relationships have been me dating someone I've been friends with for a while prior to so I've never had the whole classic dating experiance. That being said, I've also almost never asked a girl just plain and squarely out. I've almost always thought it would be creepy if I, as a random dude, saw a cute girl at a mall and just gave her my number, despite having had girls do this to me at least twice in my life now. \n\nAs odd as it may sound, I just have no idea whatsoever how to go about it. I've had a case recently where I saw a girl I really wanted to try and give my number to, but I just couldn't build up the courage to do so. \n\nI'm just asking for advice and how do other people do this? It's a concept I've never had to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (17/f) have been dating my SO (19/m) since the last 3 years. He's a great guy, always there for me and very supportive. Things were going extremely well in our relationship and we esteemed ourselves because we were better off than the rest of the couples around us. Our relationship was perfect! Until his best friend walked in. Let's call her Amy. So Amy and my SO used to hate each other back in high school. One day she accidentally sent him a message, and the both of them started talking and wouldnt stop! They would talk till 4 am, go out for movies blah blah blah. I was fine with it, really. I was indifferent to Amy. \nAlso I should mention that I really hate threesomes because they make me insecure like hell and I made that very clear to my boyfriend. Yet he \"joked\" that he'd want to have a threesome with Amy. I obviously had a problem with this and I lashed out at him, and he knew this made me upset and begged for forgiveness and promised that he'd never say anything like that ever again. I should probably mention that Amy is really hot. \nThere was a time when he became all dismissive me, and became closer to Amy. He realized it was wrong though. \nOne day my boyfriend told me that he digs OAG's. He also told me that making me jealous is a huge turn on for him. I jokingly asked him to make me jealous and he said that Amy called him sexy and said she'd love to have a threesome with him and her crush. I felt nauseated and decided to shut up because I didn't want another fight. And also because he calls me over-sensitive. Our relationship has been going downhill ever since Amy entered his life but he refuses to acknowledge it. Am I being a clingy or am I right to be mad?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So now I'm his boss, but he goes over my head to my boss and others above me about with issues instead of going through me, he tries to take charge of situations and push me out, he doesn't inform me on issues that are occurring, and he seems annoyed when I ask him to do something. Other co-workers have noticed it and joke with us about it...they'll say something like \"give that to your boss\" and he'll say \"pft\". It's getting annoying. What makes it tougher is that we were really cool back when we were at the same level. So that friendship carries over to now and we talk about common interests frequently. But when it comes to work it's different. I sympathize though. I understand it may hit his ego pretty hard to have to work for someone half his age that was previously his equal. But it's affecting my work and reputation. I already asked him nicely to stop going over my head. He wasn't too happy about it and that only lasted a week. I'm getting to where I want to stop being friendly about it and tell him that I'm his boss and he needs to do what I tell him to, but I'm afraid that will piss him off and he'll try to make my life miserable. Perhaps I should mention it to my boss. What do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This has been a problem for me ever since I started wanting to lose weight - I started taking birth control and gained weight back to my highest, which really is only 30 pounds over my GW and technically not even overweight. \n\nMy mother, father, and sister are all overweight - my sister unfortunately did not get my genes, and has been this way all our lives despite eating basically exactly the same as I did. My mother has been overweight my entire life. My father as well, though even more-so now that he's getting well into his 50s. \n\nWhenever I want to tell my family that I want to lose weight, I feel guilty, almost ashamed. All I can think is that I'm insulting them. I'm 'the pretty one' according to my sister, my mother has tried to diet and has failed, and going to them, saying I want to lose 30 pounds when I'm technically not even overweight (I'm relatively close - 5 or 10 more pounds would do it) feels like a slap in the face. I love my family. I don't want them to feel like I'm judging them. My sister is gorgeous. My parents are wonderful, beautiful people. I would like to have their support, but I don't think I can ask for it. My father, especially, wouldn't give up junk food if I asked them to do it with me...and asking them to do it with me feels like an even bigger slap in the face. Like my own weight loss goals are just a ploy to get them to eat healthier. \n\nThe problem is when I'm home, which will be really often soon, there's all kinds of junk in the house, and my mother hates to cook so will often want to opt for take out or order in stuff that's really high calorie. I'm worried it'll only make my weight loss harder. \n\nMy mother is really sensitive, and so is my sister. I'm kind of lost here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few weeks ago, my friends and I went to go see a DJ. We parked in a lot with a gas station, on a side parking spot facing the street. There were no posted signs about towing, and there was clearly space for it. We went to the show and came back to find our cars towed. Apparently this took place within minutes of us walking away. \n\nBeing 4 kids in our early 20s on the wrong side of town at night, no money, and no transportation, we found some local police to help us out. They understand our predicament and took us 10 miles away to the tow yard. \n\nWe arrived and got in line with around 20 others there to pick up their cars.\nMy friend stays to pay for his car, but in the moment I saw the tow company as essentially a group of thugs who just stole my car and were trying to extort money from me. \n\nThe gate was open next to me where people were walking in. I saw my chance and followed them. Found my car and drove off the lot.\n\nMinutes later I get a call from my friend, still on the lot, saying they, the tow company, had called the police and had a squad of cops and tow trucks looking for me. Luckily, I arrived home and nothing happened.\n\nI was a little frightened, but everything seemed to work.out fine.\n\nToday I received a letter from the tow company saying they had filed a report with the police that the car was stolen from their lot. \n\nIn the letter they requested the $270 for the tow and said that if I didnt pay up in the next 10 days then they would \"take further action\" against me. \n\nAlso, the tow company cc'd the letter to my cars finance agency.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "r/college, I'm a natural introvert. I don't really have much in common with my generation. I don't like rap, I can't dance for shit, and I don't really like the taste of alcohol. Add some social anxiety to that and you've got my current situation.\n\nI'm a month into college, and for four Fridays and Saturdays, I've sat in my dorm room doing absolutely nothing. Browsing Reddit, playing Xbox by myself, usually offline (the wifi is spotty on the 12th floor), things like that. I look all around me and see people connecting. I have made two or three friends while I've been here, but the awkwardness and hesitation plays into me not really actively trying to hang out with them. I'm usually okay on my own, but lately I've been feeling kinda lonely. I really don't know how to push myself to go do things or meet people I don't expect to have anything in common with. \n\nIs there anything I can do? I WANT to meet people. I WANT to find someone who I really do connect with. College is usually the place to do that, but it seems I'm not doing well with it. Part of the reason I feel so isolated is because my major is Language Studies and I want to get into the JET program to teach English in Japan, which inevitably means I'd be leaving the States after college. It feels like anything I would try to create now, relationship or friendship, would automatically have a time limit on it. I'm not the partying kind of person. I'm not a drinker. I don't smoke cigarettes. Haven't met anyone who smokes weed but I really don't want to get caught high/in possession, especially my freshman year. I'm sorry for the wall of text but I needed some place to vent tonight.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Its kinda odd that our relationship has been starting to hit rocky shores because of this topic but it seems very reasonable. My girlfriend and I (both 17) are starting to have relationship problems, as we are starting to fight more, get in more arguments and just frankly not get along too well. \n\nWe've been dating for more than a year and our sex life has been better than excellent. But it's starting to come to the point now that she feels that all I am interested in half the time is just having sex since it is all we do. Whenever were at each others houses we always have sex like its a given as to what we would do that day. She thinks that it's starting to take a toll on our relationship as we can't do anything but have sex like hangout without it. Obviously I love her so very much and don't want our relationship to end but it seems its very close to the finish. \n\nI really want to change our ways because I do believe half of it is my fault because of how horny I am. (trust me she is also very horny too) I don't know why but it always seems I get too heated in the moment and want to rip my clothes off and have sex with her but I really need to control that now since she sees the negatives of only having sex. we both go to school at the moment so we don't spend that much time together other than school so when we do see each other we are going to have sex. what should I do if I want to try and fix my relationship as its too based on the sex we have? (ofc its not the ONLY thing we do but it is a good portion) I love her and I really want to fix things as I understand how she feels and how she thinks our relationship is too based on sex. Would love to hear some of your guyss opinions and stories.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all,\nI'm a male currently at 5'11\"/285lbs. My personal goal is to lose 95lbs by March 2014. I was originally 305lbs. My elliptical workout began December of 2012.\n\nI'm a generally muscular person, mainly in my legs. This is also where the majority of my weight/mass resides. While lifting weights has never been an issue, I've never been good at maintaining a good diet and cardio program.\n\nI've tried going the route of a no Carb diet but I've not been able to maintain it as at my current salary I've had to move towards food with carbs in order to eat at all.\n\nI currently (6 months to date) do not drink soda of any kind anymore, and rarely drink anything with sugar at all.\n\nI'm looking for a good starting cardio work out that I can build and eventually turn into jogging, and any info on a diet that can work on a budget, without starving myself.\n\nI can currently do a 45 minute elliptical \"jog\" ranging between 4.9 and 6 MPH with the settings up to 15 (highest being 25) but I'm not seeing results as fast as I'd like. I acknowledge I may be a bit impatient.\n\nAlso I'd like any personal opinions on things like the p90x, insanity, etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened two weeks ago and I've been doing damage control since. \n\nI was looking to buy some hobby stuff and found something good and inexpensive on eBay. I didn't have an eBay account and created one that day and bought the item using my card -- processed by Paypal. \n\nA few days pass and I constantly check the tracking information as my package gets closer and closer to my city. Finally, it's out for delivery. I leave the apartment to go to work and decide to check the mail once I get home.\n\nSo there I am, 1:30 AM, and no package. \n\nI was upset. I was so sure that the tracking said it was out for delivery before I went to work at 4:00 PM so it should be there, but it wasn't. I checked for a claim slip in case the package didn't fit in my box at the complex and I had to pick it up at the post office, but no, nothing.\n\nI went home and checked tracking again to see what happened, and there it was, \"Undeliverable as Address\".\n\nI grew even more upset because they were here. They had to have been here while I was out for them to know that it was undeliverable here. \n\nThen, as I'm cursing the seller and the shipper, I notice something wrong with my shipping address on eBay. I didn't add my apartment number. Why... why did I do that? It was in my billing address, but for some reason I didn't put it in my shipping address. Just... dammit.\n\nI've messaged the seller, created a case on eBay, and even messaged the post office, but nothing. No one seems to have any idea where my package went. It should have returned to the seller, but he hasn't said anything except sent me the tracking information.\n\nIt's now been two weeks, and nothing. Still.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "BACKGROUND: I'm a student studying History in the UK. Like many others, I'm doing a degree which won't benefit me much in the next ten years; I'm going to be up to my elbows in debt and have no desire to get an office job in order to pay it back. In fact, university for me has just been a formality that I'll be glad to see the back of; my parents wanted me to go, so I went; this is the last thing I have to do before I can start living my own life.\n\nHow hard would it be to move to Canada (after I finish my degree) and start living a life there? I chose Canada because, well, honestly it's because of the Cannabis culture over there. I'm a writer and I feel like I'd have something cool to write about over there; I'd love to become part of the legalisation movement, become a grower, whatever: I just want an adventure! California is also a viable option.\n\nI realise that this is a bit of a crazy pipe dream, but seriously I'd like to know how possible this is. Will my debt make it harder to get a VISA? Is there any work over in Canada? Would I be better off moving somewhere else? Are there any skills I should be developing? Am I just a naive idiot who doesn't stand a chance? Should I just go and work in I.T. or diplomacy like my parents want me to?\n\nI'd appreciate any advice you can give me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently in a relationship with a man I've known since I was a teenager. While we love each other, we both know that we are going to go our separate ways when he moves in a little over two months.\n\nThis has been painful, but we both feel that at the time we are in our lives it is important to live a little, and long distance isn't for us.\n\nI have been trying to make the transition easier. I asked him to please try to keep our relationship light until he leaves. I asked him to no longer say that he loves me, because it just makes it harder. He keeps saying it, although I don't say it in return.\n\nIn addition, he keeps talking to me every time something new happens with the job or brings up the job in ways that aren't necessary. For example, \"They just got off the phone with my references for a final confirmation!\" or \"Don't make fun of me for \"x\", it is valuable in the field I'm going into\", \"I hope I make new friends before \"x\" holiday!\"\n\nI feel like I'm just being overly irritable because I'm stuck here and he is moving on to bigger and better things, but at the same time, I feel like he is being really insensitive about the situation.\n\nShould I tell him how I feel, or not bother?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me: 23 Her: 21 Together about 4 months, very close friends before that for about 5.\n\nMy girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship for the summer. We both go out and drink with our friends occasionally, and this is fine. This past week, I have noticed my girlfriend has gotten drunk with friends nearly every day for the past 10 days. I told her why this makes me uncomfortable in the gentlest way possible. \n\nThis is not a trust issue. I simply don't understand how I can miss or like someone (or vice versa) when nearly every single day they are are out boozed up. The calls and effort on her part have become less frequent these past 10 days, and she says this is simply because she has been busy with these friends, not because she needed space or her feelings had diminished. \n\nShe flat out told me I am being overbearing and she sees no problem with this amount of drinking because it's \"fun.\" I guess it scares me because she has never seemed to respect alcohol and the fact that there is such a thing as drinking too much. I don't care if she drinks in moderation, but I don't want to date someone who is... not really there almost every day of the week.\n\nI also understand why someone would get defensive about being called out on this, and put on the spot. I think relationships take certain sacrifices and she doesn't seem to respect that you can't really be a great girlfriend if your main activity is going out and drinking with the girls...every night.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first post and I'm glad this sub exists!\n\nAbout six days ago I went for a really hefty workout (martial arts) for about 1.5 hours. After that I felt pretty good, and the next morning I was really sore (pretty usual stuff).\n\nAnyway, now I have an uncomfortable pressure in my right ear with a non-stop ringing (I already have tinnitus, but this ringing puts that to shame).\n\nAnyone know what is causing this? Is it possible I have some kind of head cold or something? Seeing a doctor isn't a problem, I just want to know for sure it's what I should do before taking time off work. It's not terribly uncomfortable but it's not getting better...\n\nThanks guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "They have been married for around 20 years.\n\nSince around 15 years ago, my dad has frequently been going on business trips. Frequently as in he's gone almost half the time.\n\nTwo years ago, my sister and I found email evidence from around four years before that that my dad was trying to get into a romantic relationship with a women in the country he travels to. We ended up showing our mom some of the emails. We subtly confronted our dad about it but he just blew it off and we kind of just let it slide since it was such a long time ago.\n\nRecently, after he got back from a business trip, my siblings and I found a box of condom he bought during the trip and some of them were used so we are suspecting he is still having an affair but probably with someone else.\n\nWhat should I do? I think we should confront my dad about this first before telling my mom and tell him to tell my mom. \nI'm afraid of the consequences though because realistically, we are going through college right now and we are financially dependent on our dad right now for almost everything. Shelter, food, tuition etc.\nWhat should I do? And how should I go about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 30 years old and I reside in Pennsylvania. I was never all that responsible with my credit, I admit to it. I was a dumb kid and it's hurting me as an adult. At one point I was almost debt free, and then I got sick. I've been dealing with a chronic medical condition for about 3 years and it's not only sucking the life out of me, but it's really putting me in a bad financial situation. It all goes back to those damn credit cards. I got to a point where all of my money was going to medical bills just to keep me out of collections that I was putting all of my everyday expenses on credit cards (mostly food and gas.) I'm now to the point where my cards are maxed out, my medical bills continue to pile up (I'm still sick and still receiving treatment ), and if those things weren't bad enough, I also have student loans. Added up I'm about 48,000 in debt. I have to say it's horrifying to type that out. I'm so embarrassed and ashamed that it's gotten to this point. As of right now my credit hasn't been completely ruined, but I don't know how much longer I can keep this up. To make things even worse, my doctor is getting me into a treatment program in another state for the illness I have, I don't know how long the treatment will be, but there's a possibility that I'll be on short term disability for a month or two, which means I'll only be getting about 2/3rds of my pay. Does anyone have any advice or am I to the point where bankruptcy is my only option? Thank you in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Went on vacation 1 1/2 years ago\n\nMet an amazing girl\n\nSpent a lot of time together\n\nHad to leave\n\nWe had agreed it would be ok to see other people\n\nBut we keep in contact and talk about how much we miss each other all the time\n\nStill have feelings for her\n\nShe just entered a relationship recently\n\nIt bothers me\n\nIdk if I should tell her how I feel or if I am just idealizing something we had and should move on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 21 year old South American male moving to Charlotte for an internship opportunity. While I haven't really needed to drive back home (I relied on public transportation almost exclusively and cars are too expensive!) I now have to get a car.\n\nIve managed to actually get a cheap car (96 Civic) to move around, but now the next step is to get it insured when I get there. I am not the kind of person to ask before googling, but Ive got nothing from my searches. A few websites providing quotes, but nothing too helpful.\n\nThe problem? 21, Never insured, no US Driving experience. Ergo, the 200 p/month numbers Im getting. I understand I might not get something much cheaper, but that would be ideal. If not, maybe share your insights on why go for company A or B?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I heard my best friend's little sister was expecting baby 2 before 1 will be 18 months. I have a Phil & Ted double stroller in storage in good working order, no perfect, some stained from little fingers, but clean and we'll loved. I offered it to her instead of listing it on Craigslist for $200. She said she wanted to take a look at it. Being nice I dropped it off. A couple days later I called to follow up, then texted a few days later. 2 weeks pass and no word. I go to see her after asking her sister, my friend if she knew she was interested or not. She was not, so I collected it late last night and could see it was outside the whole time and is now MOLDY! I just spent nearly an hour dismantling it and cleaning it. If the sun and vinegar don't bleach the stains it will be unsellable. I am so mad and needed to vent.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. \nThe last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. \nWhen I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. \nI need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. \nI really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I have a crush on this girl since I met her in our freshman year of highschool. I think she has had a crush on me too, but I'm not sure.\n\n \nShe once put her phone on my cellphone without me asking for it. She gave me a nickname which none of my other friends use, and I love when she calls me by that nickname (I also have a nickname for her, that only I use). She would also sit beside me in all classes. She liked to hold hands with me \"because of the cold\", but then, no matter how the weather was, I would just grab her hand, or she would grab mine, just for the sake of holding hands. A friend of mine (female) always said that it was weird. \n\nThe problem is, she's living in another city now. She is visiting her mom in my city, and I asked her out last Sunday, and I was planning to tell her about my feelings. But I didn't. We had a great time, talked for a couple of hours that felt like a couple of minutes, but in the end I couldn't say anything. \n\nShe's leaving this Saturday, and I said I wanted to see her again because I had something to tell her. I think she already knows what it is about (after this text, anyway).\n\nWhat do you guys think? Is it possible that she has a crush on me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating a guy who is really health conscious. I was never a dieting type until I started dating him, and now all I do is obsess over my appearance and worry about looking fat..he can be unintentionally critical about it. He used to be with someone with an eating disorder, so I think that has a a lot to do with it. The entry was open when I went to use his laptop and caught my eye. It said \"I haven't had sex with her for months. She put on about 15 pounds and I lost interest.... Plus, given that my ex was anorexic, that's a tough act to follow.\" and describes how he's lost attraction to me then he sarcastically said \"oh well, we'll probably get married soon so she'll realize she's never going to be single again and start working out more and stop eating like shit. yeah, it'll get right back on track.\" The thing is, I'm 5' 8\" and 130 pounds; I wear a size 2. I'm not fat at all, and I don't know if this is something worth throwing away a relationship over or what to even say for him to understand how humiliating that was to read. I've only gained I think 5 pounds since we began dating years ago.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I love my gf and I love her family (brother, dad, mom) too. They are good people but they fight about 4-5 times a week. The thing is , everytime my gf fights with her mom, she comes to me and tells me (texts) the whole thing and how she feels about the fight and her mom and THATS NORMAL because shes my gf, but I start to get frustrated when her mom texts me too. She complains about my gf and tells me how horrible and cruel her daughter is (it makes me so angry)\n\n I usually take my gfs side because her mom is really disfunctional at times, I've tried to speak to her mom and she won't listen. It's her way or no way. \n\nYesterday they texted me at the same time and they were freaking out and saying horrible things about eachother and I felt sick and angry and I went to bed really nervous. \n\nMy family is really relaxed and we fight about 1-2 times every two months, and usually we solve everything in less than an hour. Their relationship is bringin ME down and when they turn to me everytime they fight at the SAME time it literally ruins my whole day and puts me in the worst mood.\n\nI tried everything because I really want her mom to stop and i dont want to get affected by their relationship: i took the mothers side once, i took my gfs side, i told them to go to therapy (they are still going and nothing happens) i even ignored them once and they kept bombing my phone, i told my gf how i felt, etc.\n\nI dont think I'm emotionally weak, but people i love can take my peace away in seconds. \n\nI want to be always there for my gf because shes beyond perfect but I want to remain sane.\n\nAm I wrong or selfish for feeling like this? I really dont know how to deal with them in a healthy way.\n\n(My mother -in-law is texting me again, right now, ahgggggg)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So as short as I can make it, I've always been super close with my Dad. My mom was clinically crazy and we were both the victims of her abuse until she finally took off and left us when I was 13. I've always felt that it's been he and I against the world. \n\nWhen I got home for 4th of July I knew he was nervous and avoiding something important. And then bam out of the blue a young girl shows up at the house and she's his girlfriend. Yay!! Oh and not only that they've been dating since January and the cherry of everything...she's due in October. \n\nOnce my dad relaxed and I caught my breath and the week settled in (my dad was very respectful of my opinion and pre-arranged for her to stay with her family---who apparently approve of this situation) I could tell he was very happy and excited, in fact more so than I'd seen him in years. When I discussed the details he said that she worked as an intern at one of his suppliers and thier age difference actually gave them something to talk about as opposed to it being an obstacle. She's in college, she comes from a good family and she's made it clear that prior to them getting marrried, we all meet with a lawyer so my dad's estate is fair to all of us. So at least by her word she's a decent person who is not after my Dads money.\n\nAll of this would be awesome if she were 45, 40 or even 35...but she's 23. And it just seems weird. And it makes me sad and it makes me feel like I'm losing him. I'm having a hard time forgiving him for taking \"him\" away from me. \n\nI would LOVE any help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So its not really important but I, the guy, am 16, and she is 17. Anyway, today, I thought I would surprise her by walking to her house in the middle of the day because we were both just bored. I don't drive, but she does all the time.\n\nSo I finally get to her house after an hour of walking and she seemed really happy about it, but once I get inside, we both start talking and doing what we usually do, and cuddle etc. So then I start trying to make out and stuff like that, but she just says that she's not in the mood to do anything. (shes not on her period, trust me I know).\n\nSo, it's not that I didn't want to see her or anything, but I feel like I got a little cheated because I didn't walk an hour to watch TV, ya know? Anyway I was just wondering if it's wrong that I feel like I got cheated? Cheated isn't a good word but I can't think of a better one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this has been a buildup of nervousness, after I losing a bet and she had me kiss her during our schools trip on Monday to a US naval ship. She didnt make me, I lost a bet and followed through, I wanted to do it. After I kissed her, she stuffed her face in my chest and hugged me. I asked her \"what now?\" We than later \"joked\" about seeing a movie on friday, She told me next time Ill kiss you and it will be longer. \n\nI really do like this girl. It's been a buildup of 2 years coming, the only thing that bothers me is that she is going to prom with a senior she says is her really close friend, It sorta bothers me but not really. She had been making a lot of interactions with me and it was led up to this kiss, my first. Should I try and bring up that movie? Except I actually kiss her and not her kiss me. I hate the feeling of her having to walk me through it and I feel it will kill it off if she thinks im too damn nervous.\n\nI ended up texting her that day and she told me the kiss \"it was cute\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a college student and I think it's time for me to get my first actual girlfriend but idk how or even if I should.\nI read a lot on this sub and honestly I can't see myself as a boyfriend or maybe I'm just scared to be one.\n\n- I'm scared that my girlfriend would cheat on me\n\n- I'm scared that I won't find someone\n- I'm scared of all the bad things that I read on here will happen to me like cheating, emotionally distress, whether if I make the right choice of breaking up or not.\n\nHell i read a lot about ppls experiences on love and relationships and I try to soak in what ppls advice is so I can be ahead of the curve, it's like I'm preparing myself to be a boyfriend but I'm just scared.\n\nHow do you guys do it?\n\n1. from finding a girl to actually like you\n\n2. not cheating on them or them not cheating on you\nfinding out red flags like who they're hanging out with to what other ppls intentions are with your SO?\n\n3. how to keep things fun and not boring, yea dates and romantic evenings, cool convos but I don't want to be a boyfriend that becomes \"boring\"\n\n4. how do I not disappoint in bed, like I want to get good and not disappoint\n\nI keep reading and reading a lot of topics on everyone's secret to a long term and successful relationship and marriage, and it helps but I'm still afraid\nHell I can hold a conversation no problem in that dept but approaching a really pretty girl is like my Achilles heel, I get really nervous.\nBasically I'm asking; how do you guys do it? How do you people manage to keep going with relationships and make them happy and successful\n\nI feel like I'm freaking out for no reason and I do want a girlfriend but I just can't shake this uneasy feeling.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am just curious about one thing and that is the best way to go about financing my purchase, more specifically getting the loan. For anyone who is curious, the reason I want to buy new is because I plan to start a family in the near future and want something that falls into place with that and can get my fiance and I to work daily.\n\nIf my fiance and I both have limited credit histories (almost 2 years for me, 1 year for her) and scores in the very high 600s, low to mid 700s, would it make sense for her to cosign on a loan with me or should I ask a family member with a more extensive credit history? We have already looked over our finances extensively and decided upon what we can afford together since we are getting married this year, but I just want to know what makes sense in regards to applying for our auto loan. I am looking to get the best interest rate and more than likely looking into a 72 month loan (lower payments but I will pay it off before the term is up).\n\nThe dealer I am looking into has a financing program that gives a 500$ discount to recent grads (Honda), but should I look to get my loan from a bank I have a history with (Wells Fargo) or even joining a local Credit Union since they give the lowest rates? \n\nAlso, if it helps, I am going to be making about a 20% downpayment depending on how much I can afford later this year (already have a good portion saved in a separate account) and I am aiming for an OTD price of $30,000 - $32,000 when I begin negotiations.\n\nThanks in advance guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original:\n\nYesterday morning, I talked to one of my sisters and told her about everything and showed her texts. Luckily she believed me and I asked her not to tell our parents because I wanted to just tell my mom but hadn't had a moment alone with her enough to tell her.\n\nLater that day my friend, his dad and his dads wife came over to our house and I had to walk past him for something and he put his arm around my shoulder in a \"joking\" way and when I pushed him off he acted really hurt and pretended he had no idea why I would react that way. My sister saw and heard what he was saying and confronted him about everything in front of everyone. \n\nOf course he denied it and said that I was the one who started flirting with him and hitting on him. Then my dad came into it and things escalated really really quickly. He and my dad were arguing and he made a comment to my dad about how it was my parents fault overall for raising a slut who thought it was okay to lead older men on and my dad hit him and they started fighting (why I didn't want to tell my dad). They threatened to press charges against my dad for it, but I'm not sure if they actually did or actually will since nothing has happened yet. \n\nLater last night after things had calmed down some, my parents and I talked and I told them what all had happened and showed them the texts and they said that they would see what they could do about it. \n\nUltimately I'm happy that it came out and that I won't have to deal with it anymore, but I really wished that it had t happened like that because now my dad may get arrested/go to jail and that's specifically what I was trying to avoid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex husband was extremely jealous.. I've told bits of the story before on reddit I believe, but I've never posted it all. \n\nI couldn't look up while in public, I had to watch the ground or my feet. I wasn't allowed to wear make up or talk to any guys whatsoever. \n\nIf I broke any of his 'rules' then I would get beat... Plain and simple. \n\nI can deal with that... What I can't deal with is now that I'm away from him and divorced... I can't move on.\n\nI still can't look people in the eyes. It's extremely hard for me to talk to men. And I always feel so awful about the way I look, even though I get compliments from everyone. I flinch every single time someone moves to quickly towards me, and it's embarrassing not having an explanation for them... \n\nI feel like my mind will always go back to the way it was trained while I was with him, and I don't know what to do.\n\nI feel, right now, that I could go my entire life not dating anyone else, and be fine with it. Because then I know I won't get hurt again... (I know this feeling will go away eventually, so I've been told) \n\nHas anyone else ever been in this type of situation? If so.... What did you do to go back to your normal self. I want to trust people again, I want my confidence back... I just want my life back. \n\nSorry for the rant. I haven't slept tonight and I'm feeling sorry for myself. Thank you for taking the time to read, if you've gotten this far.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our relationship is fantastic. Sometimes, like in all relationships, there's a miscommunication, or we get short with one another out of stress. Nearly always we recognize when we're being unfair, there's an immediate apology, and everything is fine. However, when it's a problem over text or something else intercedes and I have to bring it up after, I always start crying when I explain that my feelings were hurt. It's not even because I feel so bad about the event itself, and I completely understand in the moment that it's a miscommunication and that we love each other and wouldn't want to hurt each other-- it's more like I feel bad for feeling bad. I usually just do this kind of ridiculous thing where I assure him it's not bad enough to cry about, and I can't control it, as I'm tearing up (not sobbing).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story medium-sized: My GF of just under a year and I split three months ago. We hadn't talked since our final argument until I recently suffered a tragedy. She texted me sympathy and that started us talking again and forgiving each other for what happened between us.\n\nNow we're back to being the friends we were before we started dating: daily texting and joking. We haven't seen each other in person yet due to our schedules but I would like to arrange it sometime soon. I clearly still have feelings for her but I think she might think of it in a \"just hasn't gotten over me\" sense, like I'm uninterested in a relationship. I do want her back.\n\nShe hasn't really indicated she still has romantic feelings or is interested in getting back and I don't know how she feels about me, I just know she said she missed me a lot and wanted to text me every night but couldn't while we were apart. Of course that could just be because we've always been close friends.\n\nWhen we were together things were pretty intense: telling each other \"I Love You\" and physical stuff. I can't convince myself that she doesn't still have feelings.\n\nIs there any way to get her back? Can I at least tell if she has feelings for me so I can decide which way I should turn?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The other night, my gf (26) told me (26m) she doesn't feel like we spend enough time together, and that she doesn't feel that she's very high on my list of priorities.\n\nThe trouble is, I'm somewhere in the middle. I'm not head-over-heels in love with her; she's not dwelling in my every thought. But I do love her; I think she is a wonderful person. I enjoy spending time around her. I want to make her happy and make her feel as special as she makes me feel. But I'm also incredibly busy. I also deeply cherish my alone time. I pretty much constantly feel like I'm running around. \n\nStill, I've made sure to have some manner of dedicated date night each week, as well as a night or two where we stay together or tag along to one another's functions/events/shows/gatherings. On average, I'd say we see one another three times a week.\n\nEven more frustrating is that she often outright rejects some of the nice things I try to say. She'll cringe or roll her eyes when I compliment her, and even the other night said she didn't believe me when I said I'd been looking forward to seeing her all day. At first, it was kind of sweetly self-effacing, but I'm starting to feel undercut, like I'm just fighting this uphill battle to let her know she's special to me. \n\nWriting this out, it sounds like she's in the wrong, but I truly feel guilty about how disproportionate our relationship is. I think I am making an effort, and I do nice things and try to show that I'm thinking of her, but I'm still constantly aware of how much more she likes me and how much more invested she seems in the relationship than I am.\n\nI know this is kinda a lot of stuff with no concrete issue and a lot going on at once; any insight would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well this happened about an hour ago. I was at a restaurant with family. We ordered our food and sat down to eat. All was good up until we finished our food. At this restaurant they gave us Styrofoam plates and my cousin thought it was pretty funny to write \"suck my ass :)\" onto his plate and it was directed at me. We didn't think much of it and we figured they are going to get thrown away. At this particular restaurant they didn't have a trash can and we had to give them the plates our selves. We left not thinking about it at all. As we were about to leave the owner or manager of this establishment told us we might as well not come back for the note we left them and now I can no longer go back. The worst part is one of them was a teacher at my school and its a pretty small town. I have no idea what tommorow has in store for me but I hope it just blows over.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating a month and a half. Everything was going great until last weekend. I guess I was touching him too much, according to him. I thought it was normal for new couples to have regular contact but he's from a country where men are really expected to chase the woman and the woman is expected to resist. I told him on Wednesday when we talked about it that I won't do it again, but I'm afraid the damage has been done. He went out of town this week. I did not attempt to contact him. He texted me this morning and it seemed very cold. He always calls me \"beautiful girl\" when he texts me and today he called me by my name. And he didn't give any kiss signals and it felt very unromantic. I told him I couldn't meet today (we made plans before with his roommate but i thought I should give him space) but that I could on Wednesday. I think he is going to end it. I'm just wondering how I can tell him to just relax and that it's not serious. I'm just trying to get to know his boundaries. What's my best bet? Should I be really flirty when I see him so that he feels excitement? Should I act aloof? Should I kiss him when we meet like we always have?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I hung out with her all day everyday and eventually developed a crush on her.She's been single for about 4 months and has always had the same bf prior. It slowly happened and I tried to prevent it but I can't anymore. I knew I never had a chance and she didn't feel the same way so I told her I needed some space because I started having a crush. She's mad at me because she thinks I was just being friends with her to get to date her which isn't true. She also has no friends in the area except me. \n\nShe can't accept that I need to change our friendship or understand how it hurts me to hang out with her so much. She was very depressed before I told her all this. I really want to be friends but she won't accept that I can only friends with her and not best friends. She's tried to get me to hang out multiple times since and I have to keep turning her down for my own health. I feel like shit and I'm worried about her harming herself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there's this girl I've been into for a while and I've been suspecting she feels the same. We've done light stuff like making out, ect. in the past, but she's had this on and off boyfriend for the last 2 years and she's known him for way longer than she's known me.\n\nRecently, we were drinking together and one thing led to another. We ended up on her porch making out and I told her how I felt. She told me she had feelings for me also and that she liked the thought of being with me more than her current bf.\n\nProblem is, she's leaving in four months to grad school and won't be anywhere near where we both are now. She's not sure what to do with the whole situation, neither am I. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": ">Those who have dated a lot (and the people who made Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind) will tell you that you end up desiring the same type of person over and over again. It's the same restaurants, the same conversations, the same jokes, the same view of familiar places, the same stories of your childhood told to a slightly different person with slightly different looks and habits. A slightly obscure author said, \"I like young girls. Their stories are shorter.\"\n\nIs this true? Because it makes me lose all hope of ever having a meaningful relationship with anyone if all I'm ever gonna find in someone else is just some lesser version of [this](\n\nHell, I got depressed watching Her because the main character seemed to be doing and saying things almost exactly the same as I did. So if she (a girl I liked ) is all that I'm gonna see in someone else, then what's the point in any of this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all,\n\nAfter talking with a college classmate of mine about living situations, we went out searching for an apartment to live in. We didn't come to any solid conclusions, but we did narrow it down.\n\nProblem is, I have recently found out that a few friends of mine are in need of a roommate and want me to join them in apartment hunting.\n\nNothing is set in stone with my friends, but if it gets to the point where I need to let the original guy down, I'm not sure how to do it without hurting him.\n\nI'd like to have the talk with him as soon as possible, but I'm not sure how to do it without upsetting him. What is the best approach to this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend's best friend is a another guy which is no problem. I told her that he was a bit too touchy with her for my liking and he toned it down and we (her friend and I) talked it out, he saw where i was coming from. \n\nMy girlfriend told me that her best friend and someone else were talking about grad dates and she offered herself with one of her (girl)friends. She didnt even consider telling me anything until the next day.\n\nWhen me and her friends went out the next day she brought it up saying, \"so what are we wearing to this guys grad\". I was suprised and i couldnt believe she didnt tell me.\n\nShe then told me that he asked her (which he didnt), i dont understand why she would lie we've always been honest. I told her in the end that its her decision if she wants to go, but im not happy with it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so it's a little complicated. Here's some backstory:\n\nWe dated about two years ago, but things ended with a lot of hurt on both sides. It was a silly thing, a small argument that got out of hand because we were long distance and too young to know how to cope with that. I never really got over him, and a few months ago took the step of contacting him again. Since then, we've been talking and getting along very well. So here's the issue...\n\nI am still very much in love with him, and want nothing more than to be with him. He tells me he feels the same, but is unsure about taking it to the next level. We are still long distance (opposite ends of the UK), and I believe that he is scared that the same thing will happen again. I understand this, it was incredibly hard to handle, but we are different people now, more able to handle small disagreements like that. Yes, long distance is taxing, but if it's worth it...\n\nHe also seems to have very set ideas about what I will 'expect' from him. This is very frustrating for me, as these are his ideas and have no bearing on what I would actually need/want in a potential relationship. He seems to misread all my well intentioned conversation as me distrusting him, wanting to know where he is and what he's doing 24 7, when in reality I am simply enquiring about his day. I am merely interested in him, naturally so considering my feelings.\n\nIt is a very difficult situation for us both. But I love him dearly, and want nothing more than a chance to show him that. It causes me great pain that he cannot see this, and I am honestly terrified that he will throw this away rather than risk the hurt. I think it could be something beautiful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last month at a party for my grandma's birthday, my grandma says there is this girl that she wants me to meet. I'm apprehensive because my grandma is famous for setting my brother up on a date with a one armed girl. No offense to the one armed ladies out there, it just took my brother by surprise. I also haven't dated much (read: at all), but I finally got a handle on some major depression and anxiety that has ruined my life for the past 10 years, so I agree to meet her.\n\nSo we go on a few dates, and awesomely enough she is not only cute as hell but fun to talk to and hang out with. I have an awesome time, and as far as I can tell she has a great time too. Couple of days after we last get together she asks if we can put off getting together again while she hunts for a job. I say of course, because that seems pretty understandable to me. \n\nI text her a few times, asking how the hunt was going, or seeing if she had time to get dinner blah blah. Didn't ever hear anything back. 5 weeks go by, don't hear anything. O well, she is either still on the job hunt, or just not interested I suppose. Then this morning I get back from the gym to see she accepted a facebook friend request I sent her a long time ago. According to my notifications, she accepted the request, liked some status I made yesterday, then unfriended me.\n\nSo I write this to repeat that cliché of I don't understand women. Also, I'm letting facebook news bother me, so that's pretty cool too!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My stepdaughter is hanging around with this boy who is quite possibly the lowest form of life on earth. He is the dirtiest, slimiest, most disgusting person I have ever met. He lives in a shitty apartment with three other guys who are all slobs. He doesn't work, doesn't bathe, and quite literally lives in a pile of his own amassed garbage. Nine times out of ten, whenever I see him, he smells like rancid milk due to not bathing/not washing his clothes/not NOT wallowing in his own filth. He claims homeless benefits since he technically is only temporarily (permanently) sleeping on the couch of his apartment. He draws food stamps, and unemployment (whenever he does work for as long as an employer can stand him). I helped him to get a job working with children once, and he was almost immediately let go due to \"inappropriate (non-sexual) physical contact with a child\". He is very manipulative. I've caught him going through the text messages on her phone and going through her facebook account as well. I know that he and my step daughter are sexually active to some degree, as I've caught them mid-fingerbang (they were doing it while I was 10 feet away). Yes, unfortunately it is consensual. Is there anything that I can do to scare him off, or put them off of one another?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Part 1\n\nWe were loading up at a nice bar before heading out to begin with the actual Bachelor's Party. Deciding to keep it safe, none of us had cars and would be cabbing it all the way. The problem is, 1.) there weren't many cabs passing our way and 2.) there were 20 of us. Then, after several minutes wait, a stretch limo comes out of nowhere and the driver sticks his head out and tells us \"Need a ride fellas?\" We book the driver and head out.\n\nPart 2\n\nThe Gentleman's Club was on the 4th floor, so we take the elevator up. The maximum number of people the elevator could carry was 20, which for some reason we found quite amusing. We tested it, squeezing into it one at a time. A beep was resonating, but it stopped. We thought we had succeeded. \n\nThe elevator was slowly moving up, then for some reason someone decided to chant \"20! 20! 20!\" With fist pumps and joyous laughter and our new chorus of \"20!\" we were looking forward to the beginning of an epic night. When suddenly... \"BAM\". The elevator stops, right between the 3rd and the 4th... and it stays there for the next 2 minutes. Stuck. \n\nEventually, the elevator makes it back down ever so slowly and we are asked to vacate the elevator which we slightly damaged and take the other. We take the other elevator and proceed with the festivities. END", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is bipolar and is very low at the moment. Through throwaways and the internet, I am slowly learning to deal with her low moods. \n\nEvery time is she feeling like this I do my best to make sure she is knows that I love her and I am there for her for everything she needs or wants. I m going to lie it sometimes can be frustrating and unrewarding but I really do not care, I love everything about her and being with my best friend is a dream come through.\n\nRecently, she keeps saying that she does not deserve me and that I should find someone better. I really want to reassure her that I am going nowhere, but I do not know how would be the best way to say this. \n\nI am desperate to find advice from anyone who may have been in a similar situation and would know how and what to say to her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It began when my uncle asked me to help redecorate the house with the new furniture he got from his friend. Being the good nephew I am, I happily obliged.\n\nNow here's where trouble begins. The furniture my uncle's friends gave to us, still had a lot of stuff in them (mostly clothes). So we had to take out the clothes and put them in garbage bags in order for us to use and carry them. Out of sheer luck, I found a bottle of lube.\n\nThe labelling on the lube said \"strawberry flavor\". I don't have much experience with sexual things and so I got really curious. I wanted to smell the lube. Yes you read that right. I WANTED ITS FRUITY SMELL IN MY NOSTRILS.\n\nLittle did I know that water-based lube actually has a very watery-like viscosity. Despite it clearly saying that, I still thought it had a lotion-like viscosity. So opened the cap and tried to squirt a bit into my hand.\n\nInstead, a grand deluge of lube came down all over my body and the furniture--the fruity smell pervasive throughout the vicinity. As this was happening, my entire family stood and watched with mixed expressions of horror and confusion. I told them to relax as it was only water-based lube but my clarification only added to their horror.\n\nThey then asked, \"Why did you open it?\" to which I replied nonchalantly, \"I just wanted to smell it.\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We are together for 2 years, currently living together so we can pay the rent. But for the past 2 months, our relationship is doing pretty bad. We are not talking to each other that much, he is spending all of his free time on computer, i am usually studying or hanging out with friends. Our last sex was 2 months ago.\n\n He was always kind of weeb/nerd but right now i am feeling it got pretty out of control. He is, and always was a fine guy to spend time with and someone who i can talk to, the -50% rent helped both of us a lot. But i am feeling pretty sad about our situation right now. \n\nHis wallpaper on pc is one anime girl, thats pretty normal, but the same girl is a wallpaper on his phone too, he even has some figures of the ONE SAME ANIME GIRL. I talked to him about this and he told me that he loves her.\n\n...... wow\n\nI googled up the name and she is 14 years old, flat chested of course.\n\nI pretended that nothing happened, not like he would care anyway. \n\nI am not sure i want to leave him, he is still pretty reliable, listening person, but this creeps me out little bit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm going to visit a friend of mine in another state in a little over a month. We've been friends for over ten years and we've always gotten along really well. She's smart and she's attractive, we know how to make each other laugh and we have a lot in common. I think that there could be more than just a friendship here, there could be relationship potential.\n\nA little background: This girl and I have known each other since college. She used to date one of my best friends, but we've known each other since before that relationship and have kept in touch since then. We drifted apart for a couple of years after they broke up but have gotten back in touch and have grown closer as friends over the last couple of years. I would have said something to her sooner, but I was in another relationship anyway until about two years ago and until know I've been reluctant to pursue someone my friend had dated.\n\nThe question is, when is the best time to bring this up? The tickets are purchased and I'll make the trip regardless. I have no doubt that it will be a fun visit either way. Should I say something before I get on the plane to go visit? Should I wait until I get there and can ask her in person? (Should I make a drunken pass and see how she reacts? :-P ) Help me figure out what to do!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am gonna be very blunt. Please dont tell me in the comments what an asshole I am or how badly i treated her i know this very much.\n\nOur relationship started well and we were pretty happy together. About six months in the relationshipi cheated on her two times with one of her friends (not very close). I texted with this girl throuought the 2 years a few times mostly sexual things. I didnt tell my GF and 3 month ago about 2 years in the relationship it all came out. I continued to lie to her and only told her bits and bits and wasnt ever honest to her.\n\n When she found out she broke up immedieatly but couldnt let go so we \"came back together\" more or less after 3 or 4 days. But at that point she still didnt know everything e.g. the writing things and one of the major things, that i texted the girl she should come over on the day of the first breakup. So she broke up with me again. Only at this point i told her everything. After a little bit silence (one week or something) we came back together again, this time for 2 months. We even had a vacation at the sea. But then on the day she finished school she broke up with me again because she said she cant forgive me and she cant forget it.\n\n She isnt angry anymore but just cant do it anymore. Now two weeks ago, about one week after the 2nd breakup we spend the whole week together, e.g. at the lake or in the park or at home and texting all the time but at Sunday last week she suddenly stopped texting for three days and tells me on Wednesday its over again. Fort he 2 years weve been together the only thing she is talking about is that she wants to move away for university as soon as possible. This is in approx 2 months. I am just afraid to lose her ( i know that shit sounds stupid) and i dont know what to do or how to act anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's an employee who works for us, I'll call him Dave.\n\nDave is slim build, but sports a large upper body, which is evidence that he works out a lot. he has an EXPLOSIVE attitude problem, and the fact that most of the time he walks around eerily silent gives me a bad feeling about him.\n\n I am a supervisor and was promoted before him. understandably this can be frustrating for someone with less experience to gain a higher position, but the thing is, Dave NEVER does anything to better himself or his standing within the company. He constantly does the bare minimum and will not do anything outside of his position for anyone. He also refuses to take shifts he's not scheduled for unless it's usher (he refuses to work concession or box, which is important for a someone in a supervisor position to do.) He expects that just because he's been there for a long period of time, he's going to get the position. But I digress. \n\nDave tends to \"hold things in;\" things that are bothering him or that he doesn't agree with, and then proceeds to PROJECT his anger and agression out on myself and a number of other managers. He does this by stomping around, breathing hard, and balling up his fists and speaking with severe upward inflections. There's a possible new supervisor position opening up soon because we just lost someone, and I am terrified after he doesn't get it (there's not way he's getting promoted because of the reasons stated earlier, plus his inability to deal with stress without screaming and acting aggressive) That he's going to come in and shoot up the place, or PHYSICALLY hurt someone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there's this girl I've liked for a long time back in elementary to high school. She moved away and it took me a while to 'get over her'. I recently ran into her in college and found out she's in a club and told me I should come out. I started thinking, this might be my chance to introduce her to the 'new me' and get to know who she's become. (I've changed significantly from high school, due to advice she gave upon moving). Also, I'm not going just because of her, I've been looking into similar debate styled clubs for a bit and had started joining a few. I probably wouldn't know about this club club if it weren't for her though.\n\nThe problem is that my dad and I have been following the Jays quiet alot recently, and watching Jays games has been bringing my family together. The volunteer training meeting is tomorrow during game 5 of the ALDS, which is an elimination game for both teams. I REALLY want to watch this game but doing so won't let me volunteer with this club for the year( this is their only volunteer training)\n\nOh and she personally told me to attend when I didn't RSVP yet.\n\nI think I already know that I should sacrifice this game to go to this meeting, just guess I wanted an unbiased confirmation from Reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this girl and I like each other. I confessed my feelings and she shared them except she said she doesn't want to date for two reasons. \n\n 1. School is almost over. After that, we have to spend the summer back in our hometowns on the opposite sides of our state which is like a 7 hour drive nonstop from each other.\n\n 2. She wants to get her stuff together before getting into a relationship. She can never say no and ends up \"carrying too much on her plate.\" She does a lot of volunteering. So I'm assuming she wants to organize herself before dating.\n\nIn the end she said, \"we'll see in August about dating.\"\n\nWe have like a month left here. What do I do now? I'm not going to push her into it or anything but I don't know if I should possibly be more flirty or touchy with her when we hang out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Apologies for any language issue in advance, English is not my native tongue.\n\nMy partner \"John\" and I are best friends with another couple who will probably be splitting up soon. \"Maria\" and \"David\" have been together for about 4 years, and John and Maria have been good friends since high school. David has been really good to and for Maria and is an all around great guy. Maria confided in me recently however that he has been thinking about breaking up for a lot of typical feelings-reasons (not ready for the long term relationship that she wants, etc). She's devastated about it. Although I'm pretty frustrated with David because he's being really wishy washy about what he wants and hurting her in the process, it's not exactly an unpardonable offense. I know that breakups are really hard. I still love both of them no matter what.\n\nThat said, what is the best way to handle this from an outside perspective? We live in a small town where everybody knows each other and have a large friend group that gets together multiple times weekly and host a big party at our place once every couple weeks. We have multiple tabletop games going that both of them are involved in. How can john and I remain friends with both of them under the circumstances?\n\nEverybody involved is approximately 25.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently in college with a 3.8 gpa. I work, go to school, and practice singing; I am a well rounded individual. My sister is 27, stuck working for my parents, and is possibly the laziest person I know. \n\n Anyways I have always wanted to go to this particular country. My mother has known my obsession for this country and its culture. My uncle lives in this country and is getting married next summer! My sister lied to me saying she opened a credit card to pay for her trip to this wedding. I can't afford it because I am a poor college kid that can only pay her rent and basic necessities. My parents are relatively wealthy. \n\nToday I found a receipt for a trip to this country in my mother's email (it was open on a computer at home), the email included two plane tickets, my sister's name on one of them. I called my mom asking her why she would do this and not pay for me to go because she knows how much I love this particular country. She quickly lied and said \"I didn't pay for it\" then hung up. Total lie. Her credit card receipt for two tickets is clearly in the email. I am so angry and hurt. I believe in being fair. I don't understand why she would pay for my sister's trip but not mine. My sister is 27 years old, shouldn't she pay for her own way?! \n\nMy mother has bought my sister and I both cars and trips to Europe during college. My mother even took her on a free trip from her work, but not me. What am I doing wrong? I do everything right and yet I still get the short end of the stick. I am so mad, I am thinking of just cutting ties and never talking to my mother again. Never doing anything for her again. I am sick of doing everything right and everything going to someone else that doesn't want it as much as I do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me first say, as a female, I very much enjoy porn. I watch it often. I do not expect my boyfriend not to watch porn when I am not around. It's normal. I am 22 and he is 23. We have lived together for 2 years.\n\nHOW FUCKING EVER,\n\nEvery time I open my god damn laptop, there's porn. I unflip the iPad, there's porn. I feel like every time I use a piece of technology for the day, he has already used it, beat off on it, and left the porn open for me to see. I have come home to my laptop covered in astroglide. I open to pages of forums where he has sorted through 8 pages just to find titties when he is \"using the iPad for homework\" and can't be bothered to converse with me.\n\nI don't know why I am hurt, but I am. I am a very reasonable girl and I have expressed my concern; I don't want to see the girls you beat off to. However, every chance he is presented with to make it subtley known, he takes it. Most delete their history, this son of a bitch rubs it in my face time and time again.\n\nIs this passive aggressive? I don't see how he could be so forgetful when I have expressed my discomfort. Wat do? How could I confront him? Do I try to shrug it off? I don't like to make a big deal out of something so stupid, but gah.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello guys. So i'll just start off by saying there is a girl, a girl i've been a schoolmate with for 8 years and have known her for about 13 years.\n\nFor as long as i can remember, i had a crush on her. Thought it was just going to pass, but i liked her more and more, so i worked up the nerve to ask her for her number a while ago. We never really hang out or anything, but we always greeted each other and talked for a bit if we saw each other anywhere.\n\nI got the number, even though it seemed like she wasn't too interested when she gave me it. She made an excuse when i called her to meet up, so i just figured she's not interested, but i can't just forget her, i'm in deep, even hearing her voice when i called her is like a drug to me. \n\nShe studies in a city about an hour away at the moment, which i will be going to with my friend. It's not because of her, we're going just to go out and party there, it's the capital here.\n\nWhich brings me up to my question.\nDo you guys/girls think there is still a chance? Should i call her one last time when i'll be there and ask if there is a chance if she makes an excuse again or what? If not,\n\nHow do I get over a lifelong crush?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[long back story here](\n\nMy girlfriend and best friend of 1 year dumped me about 3 months ago ('officially' 3 weeks ago), and it definitely put me into a tailspin. She thought we weren't compatible, that we fought too much, that I dragged her down, and that she didn't have feelings for me.... a whole myriad of reasons that surprise me. On top of that she wants to see another guy. The breakup was not mutual, and I did a lot of begging and pleading and convincing to try and give me a second chance. Lots of texts, emails, letters and phone calls. I really fought to make it work, but it was too late. She told me that it wasn't going to happen, and even if I continued to improve myself she could never see herself being with me due to emotional baggage. She said that I was a great guy and that she just wanted to be friends, but she couldn't handle the begging anymore. \n\nI really have no idea what to do, I'm really head over heals in love with this girl and i'm doing my best to separate entirely and move on. I initially tried being friends, but that was a serious mistake since it led to feelings of rejection and neglect. I've learned a lot from the break up and where we went wrong.... I've done a lot of self actualizing and I know that our situation is entirely different than when we lived together. I'm in a place where i'm capable of being a devoted boyfriend, and i'm certainly more confident and ambitious than when we were together. We've communicated much better since I moved out, and I consider us to be compatible. The problem is she's moved on and doesn't want me around, and I understand that. \n\nI guess I really just have no idea what the next step is... if I should be friends so I can prove myself to her or if I should just disappear. I might be delusional, but I really just have no idea what to do since this girl is a very important part of my life.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I received a few text messages from someone claiming to be Stephanie. However, I cant remember meeting her or giving out my number (should be noted that alcohol would have been at play). \n\nIve asked my pals no one is sure who she is or at what point I would have met her. There was three times that I could have met her and gave my number out, Christmas eve and twice in pub after going to two games of football. \n\nI've messaged her back a few times but still don't have a clue who she could be. What is the best way to ask her who she is and how I know her.\n\nWill be going to bed shortly so will respond in the morning. \n\nCheers", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have known this girl for about a year, and I am certain I like her and I am almost certain she likes me. She has done all kinds of things convince me she likes me. \n\nWe had food together (just the two of us) a few weeks ago, she got tinder the moment I mentioned it in a conversation, and she kissed me on the neck and cheek at a party the other week. There seems to have been some attempts to make me jealous. My friends mentioned her and another friend was about to go into a relationship when that clearly wasn't the case, they were both clearly not really into it. When I was mentioned in a similar context she almost died of embarrassment (she hid under her arms for a few minutes and went bright pink). We have also told each other very deep and painful parts of our lives, and she has been very good with me about it and said she would always be there for me.\n\nHowever, I think I have not been responding in the right way. When she kissed me I was tipsy and quite shocked so I didn't kiss her back like I really wanted to. I also told her I didn't want a GF a few months ago, when I did but thought that she was too high up socially, and later on she said she didn't want a BF for very similar reasons to me. I also got interrupted today so I didn't get a chance to ask her out like I wanted to. She seems to have been quite down in the dumps this week, and I have only talked to her twice. She told me some sad things about her and I wanted to hug her so badly, but If I had I think I would have been laughed at by others.\n\nI really haven't got any idea of what to do, and I don't see her again until Monday at least. I don't want to ask her out by text since that is really impersonal. Ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years, we met in college and had one year together since then we've been long distance going from seeing each other every month for a weekend to now we have 7hrs between us and we see each other every 4-6 months. I will be graduating (Masters degree) in June and we had planned for me to move down to where he lives.\n\nI truly love my boyfriend but our relationship has become stagnant, he's been depressed for a while and started taking meds for it (relevant in a bit), he seems to think that everything will be great when we're living together but the last two times I saw him (Christmas and Thanksgiving) had me reconsidering my relationship. He got absurdly drunk at two events we attended and it was mortifying, he stated it's because he's stressed, depressed and knew we would be parting soon, again. \n\nBluntly, I am not attracted to my boyfriend sexually right now. Sex with him was a chore the last two times we saw each other (if I'm completely honest it's always not been the best), he couldn't finish because of his meds. Usually he can't finish inside me for whatever reason and instead jacks off which does nothing to make me feel desirable in this relationship. \n\nI love him but I question how well I know him, he is very closed-off and whenever I have pointed out concerns/issues he says it'll be better when we live together...\n\nHow do I fix this? I don't know what to do. My entire adult life so far has been tied up in this guy. I love him deeply but I feel dread at the thought of a lifetime of our current relationship/sex life. I tried to keep this concise, if you have any questions I can answer them in the comments.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf and I have been together for 6 years, in that time we have had 2 serious break ups (one lasting a week, and the next two weeks). The longer break up was last December.\n\nEssentially, I don't think I'm happy with our relationship. When I think about the person I would want to marry I don't see her. But I love her and absolutely hate to cause her pain... She already has more than enough stress and physical pain in her life. She has chronic health problems that cause her a lot of pain. She is unable to go to school or keep a job with her heath issues. She desperately wants to be better, and I want that for her too. But the person I envision marrying is someone more independent like I am, who does what she wants to do in life, a leader not a follower... And I sort of feel like a jerk for feeling this way... But as Ted Mosby says: there is no worth in settling in a relationship.\n\nSo I guess really I have the answer to my question, and I have for a while. I am just scared to do it, and I don't know how. I really don't have a lot of experience breaking up in an effective way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I went on a date with a girl this past Sunday, about 5 days ago, and it went very well. We hung out for a total of 7.5 hours and I could tell she was into me. And I know I'm pretty into her. We've been texting back and forth, and she's actually been initiating conversations quite a bit. \n\nI'd like to see her again over this coming weekend, but there's a problem. I have what's known as a pilonidal cyst. It's a non-cancerous, non-life threatening cyst that's, well...basically on my buttcheek. In fact, I've had it for about 10 years. Normally, it doesn't hurt much, but every few months, it'll flare up for a day or two and then get better on its own. However, over the last few days, I've been experiencing the worst flare-up ever, to the point where I can't sit down or lie on my back. I saw a doctor and he gave me an antibiotic and a narcotic painkiller and referred me to a surgeon. \n\nNow, I may need to get surgery on this cyst, which means I may be bedridden or house-ridden for a few days. It may also limit how much...ahem...physical movement I can do and what positions I can be in. I may not be able to see her this weekend. \n\nWhat should I tell her? I don't want to tell her that I'm basically having ass surgery because, well...that's kind of embarrassing. Should I just tell her I'm having lower back surgery, without going into the details? Should I tell her I may not be able to see her this weekend? My worry is that she'll either get (1) impatient about not being able to see me this weekend or (2) grossed out by my surgery and just end it.\n\nOf course, I'm not sure what the surgeon will recommend. I'll be seeing the surgeon in a few hours and he might just do some minimally invasive procedure that'll ease the pain and swelling now and do something more permanent later on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I suggested a break after not receiving the attention I wanted in a relationship. I constantly felt lonely when with him because he'd be too busy doing things that seemed more important. \n\nHe never wanted to cuddle or talk about anything other than work. It got to the point where I had to ask him to kiss me and he'd sigh. I was hurting for a long time before asking for a break. He cried and told me he loved me (something i hadn't heard before) and it hurt that I had to break it off to finally hear him say it.\n\nIt's been a week and I'm mad at myself because I've made contact and at first I was in control but now it seems like I'm trying to keep in touch and he's barely responding. \n\nI know the right thing to do is pull back but I feel lonelier than ever and after 5 years, it's become a way of life to have him there. He's taking this time to work on himself but he doesn't know when he'll be ready. \n\nHow long do I wait for? How should I act towards him in the meantime? I'm afraid that he'll forget me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey there Reddit. \n\nSo about a week and a half ago I met this super awesome girl. We didn't really hit it off right away. Guys were swarming all over her. She asked for my number and we've been seeing eachother and talking on a regular basis ever since.\n\nA few nights ago she met me at a concert and we hit it off right away. Dancing, kissing, grinding, the works. For the rest of that night we were holding hands, acting like we were together and it really felt \"right.\" \nShe ended up staying the night at my place. We stared romantically into each other's eyes, kissed quite a bit, and fell asleep in each other's arms\n\nThis situation seems too good to be true, right? That's because it is. \nShe went back to her hometown yesterday to apparently see her boyfriend, says her roommate. She told me she was going to see and spend time with her family. \n\nI don't want to be wasting my time on a girl who could do the same thing to me, but at the same time I am really falling for her. \nHow do I confront her about this (or should I even confront her about this)??\nAny other advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's this girl I met when I was hanging out in a bar with some friends last fall. I discovered that we were in the same lecture and started talking to her and asked her out quite soon. Our date consisted in going to a random lecture in the evening. Afterwards she told me that she was not interested in relationships (or even sex) because she had just had a drug-induced psychosis at that time.\n\nWe began hanging out as friends which was ok for me because I had dates with other women and didn't mind us just being friends.\n\nA few weeks ago we started meeting in a more date-like setting and I started becoming interested in her again.I decided to tell her that I wanted to date her. We agreed to meet late in the evening in the garden in front of her apartement block. There she gave me all this talk about her being complicated etc. All while letting me touch and finally kiss her (like 10 times). I suggested that she took some time to think about our relationship. We met yesterday.\n\nWithin a minute she told me that she a) had never thought about me during the last week b) thinks our kiss was \"unnatural\" and c) thinks we shouldn't meet anymore (even as friends).\n\nI'm confused now and decided that it probably is best to forget about her. She seems emotionally unstable and would probably just suck off my energy in the long run. Do you guys agree? Should I break off all contact?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear Reddit,\n\nAbout 2 weeks ago, we made this thread : [link](\nWe made a prototype of our website and asked for some feedback on how to make it better.\n\nTaking the information supplied to us by our dear redditors, we re-build the site from scratch. Do note tough, that there are still improvements to be made (such as a tagging system & a search bar).\n\nNow you may ask, what is this website for ?\nWell basically, we tried to make a catalog like website with reactionfaces (as in popular pics or gifs people post to express their feelings about a post) and we tried to keep the design as simple as possible.\n\nNow the main goal of this website is to finance my year abroad to Panama. I am a 18 year old student who will attend university in Panama for a year, but since a lot of you know, this is expensive! So I made this website, which will generate revenue through google ads. \nSo now reddit, do you like our [webpage] ? We would love to see it being used here.\nIf you have any feedback or are a web developer/designer, please leave a comment if you want to help us out, that would be greatly appreciated.\n\nI will be keeping a blog about my exchange year to panama, so that if you would use my website to support my trip, you get to see some of it too ! (I will also make videos in full HD for you to enjoy and do an IAmA when im done with my year.)\n\nOnce again, the link : www.reactionbox.net\nEnjoy and thanks for reading :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After reading many posts on the subject, I know I should just tell my friend my feelings and get it over with. But what is the best way to do this? Anyone ever been through this and can offer some advice? Or best way to mitigate hurt feelings?\n\nHim and I have been friends for a couple years now, we have a lot of similar interests. A few months ago he broke up with his most recent boyfriend and we really reconnected as I helped him through it. Since then we've started hanging out a lot more often and even go on \"dates\" about every week or so. Although, they're under the guise of being just a platonic date. At some point I started realizing that I have feelings for him and I would really like to take our relationship to the next level.\n\nWe talk all the time now and play video games together almost every single day. He's started saying things about our \"future\" together and bringing up all sorts of things weve talked about in the past. Like having a business together and moving in together when his lease runs out etc. And he often sends me a message the second he gets out of work or wakes up (he works odd hours). So I feel like the feeling is mutual, especially since his behavior has really changed a lot from what he was like before. Although this past week he's been mentioning other guys that he thinks are hot or he could date. And I'm not sure if he's seeing if I'm jealous or if he's just not into me. And the last time we went on a \"date\" after my roommate teased us of dating, he mentioned that he didn't understand why two friends couldn't go on platonic dates together as we walked to my car. Although, I'm sure I've said somethings to make him think this is all just friendly etc.\n\nSorry for ranting but needed to type it out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a very busy schedule this semester, so I've had 4 tests this past week, and another two tests in 4 days. \n\nI understand time management would have prevented this, but I felt overwhelmed and had a breakdown which wasted even more time.\n\nBack to the point: I got about 3 hours of sleep and about 2 hour naps everyday for 5 continuous days because of a very hectic schedule this week.\n\nShould I listen to my body and not set any alarms, and just sleep until I naturally wake up? Or should I get 8 hours of sleep and drink coffee if I find myself getting tired (in order to maintain a structured sleep schedule)? I slept for about 15 hours today, which I could have used to study but I could hardly keep my eyes open.\n\nAlso, are there any huge health risks from this one week (first time I've ever done this) that I should worry about?\n\nThanks reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Keep in mind; when I say ' talk ' it usually means through the phone via messaging etc.\n\nA few years back - we dated for like 3 months and things didn't work out well between us ( well for her ). I was really hurt but I moved on trying to get over what had happened between us. However I don't know what my past self was thinking and we ended up becoming friends instead of strangers. This lasted for 3 years.\n\nJust last year - I lost my shit and we got into a huge fight which basically started from her not replying as fast as she used to, it was stupid and I regret it tremendously because since then we have not talked much, like none at all. Which leads us onto this week.\n\nIt just came as a shock when she called up through her phone crying because her pet had died ( like on a Thursday night last week )and as a good Samaritan, I comforted her. Then all of a sudden boom ; we're talking again - like \"friends\". Why did I put quotation marks? Basically \"something\" feels weird between us - I feel as though I'm only there because she needs comfort and someone to talk to after school, but at the same time I feel like she wants to repair the relationship that was broken. I would also like to mention the conversation we have is 'dry' - we don't have much to talk about really.\n\nDon't get me wrong, she's a lovely, modest person and all but sometimes you cannot really help to wonder if she's putting on a facades to get what she want. I'm saying this because earlier she asked me to mind her folder until we had the next class ( which was during lunch breaks ) as she did not bring her bag to school since she finishes early. Am I being paranoid? When the past few months I swear we have been avoiding each other like the plague!\n\nWhat do you guys think? Is she manipulating me or is she trying to fix our relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm feeling tremendous guilt and I'm someone with a heavy conscience and guilt nearly cripples me. Long story short, my boyfriend never communicated with me which led to problems I didn't know we were even having. This led him to lie to me. I found out, flipped shit, hit him, and broke up with him. \n\nI feel awful for losing control and hitting him. I hate that I hurt him. The relationship damage was done before I ever even touched him. I was going to break up with him anyway. I wish I'd stayed calm and just broke up with him instead of acting on my feelings of utter betrayal. \n\nAs if getting over a betrayal and a breakup isn't bad enough, but now I feel crippling guilt over hitting him. I feel like I'm not even allowed to be upset with the way he single-handedly ruined our relationship before I made the awful mistake of hitting him.\n\nHow do I get past these complicated feelings? (inb4 therapy, because that's a given)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this post is about a friend I've had for about 4 years or so and he will be called Tyler for the remainder of this post. Tyler has been going through some rough shit; he broke up with his first (and only) girlfriend during the summer that he'd been dating for 2 years and hasn't really gotten over it, he's convinced his parents hate him, and he's feeling very guilty over other breakups that have happened in our circle of friends. \n\nSo he's kind of turned into a dick.\n\nSince the summer, about 2 months after I started dating my current girlfriend, he told me she's not good enough for me and I should dump her. Since he was drunk off his ass I didn't really pay it any mind, however recently it's gotten worse; whenever he's drunk he constantly wants to fight me and telling me I should break up with my girlfriend since she \"isn't good enough.\" And I'm getting really fucking sick of it. \n\nSo I need help. The last thing I want to do is be yet another bad event in his life, but at the same time it's gotten to the point where I'm not really comfortable around him anymore. Worse still is that he acts like he's never said any of the stuff he's said while drunk and expects me to act like I don't care.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've seen each other around, but only recently are we friends. Yes, there's attraction there (she's lesbian, I'm non-cis). \nI'm in a long term committed relationship (friend is aware).\nShe's in a 2 yr committed relationship.\nHer girlfriend treats her poorly. She's aware of it. She's unhappy.\n\nI'm a supportive person, and even the most basic nice things you say to friends (you look nice! thanks for the delicious dinner! It's cool you like \"x\") is shocking to her. \n\nI want her to find someone who treats her right. Treats her how she deserves. It's too early for me to butt in specifically. But I want to drop hints that she deserves better, without implying that I am that something better.\n\nWhat makes it so difficult is that if I had met her earlier in my life this wouldn't even be a debate.\n\nAny Ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is utterly bizarre, so the internet's the only place I can really discuss something like this. The only other person to discuss this with has a conflict-of-interest (you'll see why).\n\nMy first 2 relationships were very vanilla. In my third, I met a guy who was insanely attractive and this made me more confident in sex in general. He was interested in anal, I was not. Eventually, he convinced me to overcome my hangups. Just a couple of weeks after we started exploring, he broke up with me.\n\nCue my current bf. Been dating for six months, but technically know him for longer. Comfortable enough to share my history and bring up this fact. Tell him I'm interested. I thought he would be delighted! To my shock, he dismisses it. Calls it unnecessary and a \"little too erotic\" in his words. WTF?!!\n\nThen there's the prankster of a friend I know. He's male. NBD. He's gay, so my exes haven't gotten jealous. He buys me this nice metal plug. Partly as a fun prank, partly because he knows I might enjoy it. Again, NBD. I bought him a pair of leather cuffs because I know his major fetish is being handcuffed. We buy each other sexual gifts.\n\nCue my bf again. Hears this. Is absolutely livid. Refuses to talk to me for 24 hrs. Then, remains cold. Says he loves me for everything I've done so far but I'm pushing his limits and apparently making him uncomfortable.\n\nSays he doesn't want anything to do with this and if I respect him I would have nothing to do with it to. Now, I'm pissed. I sorta enjoyed the new sensations and the adrenaline rush of doing something naughty. I started to fantasize sneaking around with it. Surprising my bf. It's not going to fly. I am kinda pissed of. And sad. I also now am starting to think of other instances where he isn't comfortable with how comfortable I am. Me overthinking? Help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 5 months ago, I (25f) met a guy (27m) at a friend's party. He took me home and we ended up sleeping together and he stayed over. We've continued sleeping together at least once a week since. We've talked about the fact that we're both pretty wary of relationships. \n\nThe only times we spend together are at each others' houses or if we happen to run into each other at a public place (like a bar) and then end up going home together (happens very rarely). When we're together, we talk about our lives (jobs, friends, happenings, family, etc.). We don't communicate very much when we're apart except to hook up. \n\nThe other day, I invited him over as usual. We did not, however, have sex. I tried to initiate it, but all he wanted to do was kiss a bit, rub on me, and go to sleep. \n\nWas he just not feeling into sex that day/super tired? If so, why would he come over if that's pretty much all our relationship has been? Does that mean he's catching feelings? Am I reading too much into all of this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [23M] need advice on how to handle this situation. My roommate [23M] and I live in a small two bedroom apartment. He has his GF over probably 5 nights a week. It doesn't bother me. But now she has the flu and has pretty much not left our apartment for more than a couple hours for the past 6 days. She lives on a boat that I've never seen but I think is in disrepair - hence her staying over so much. I get that staying in his bed is probably the best place for her recovery (as opposed to on the boat) but I feel like I'm starting to come down with something. Do I have the right to be pissed at him if I catch what she has?\n\nI've been good friends with my roommate since childhood and I get along with his (relatively new) GF pretty well too. If she had her own apartment I wouldn't feel bad telling him that she needs to stay away until she's better, but since she's living on a unfinished boat, I feel like telling him she has to go would be like throwing her out on the street. Every twenty minutes I can hear her coughing up a lung. I know the flu virus doesn't transmit via surfaces very well, but I don't think she covers her mouth when she coughs. She also doesn't work so is here 24/7 and smokes weed multiple times a day - which I can't imagine helps her coughing get better faster.\n\nWhat should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend (23M) and I (20F) have been together for one year and seven months. We both have been cheated on in our past and vowed to never do that to one another.\n\nIn the beginning I could tell he was insecure and had trust issues from past relationships. I kept building him up and reassuring him. \n\nAbout seven months into our relationship he texted me under a new number pretending to be somebody else and I had responded to the flirtatious text. I had to regain trust in him and he was able to move forward. I have never cheated on him. \n\nFast forward to yesterday, I have had a feeling things weren't right. We haven't been seeing eachother as much even though we talk everyday and profess our deep love for eachother daily. I saw his phone had texts from two different women that were very flirtatious and that he's seen them multiple times. \n\nI confronted him and he begged and pleaded for me back and to forgive him like he forgave me. He claims that I have been distant (even though I make time for him) and that hes scared of me moving an hour away for school. He also says he did not have sex with them although one text from one woman asked if she could still come over to his apartment later. \n\nI made him leave a voicemail to one who he claims was his ex that cheated on him. He told her to never text him or call him back as he messed up a valuable relationship. He says I'm the woman he wants to marry, the love of his life, and that they don't mean anything. How do I trust him? What do I do? I dont know what to believe.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/relationships,\nI had a few conversations over the last week with a very good friend of mine that I know for 8 years now. He's an Arab, I'm a Turk.\n\nHe always was a chill guy. We would do everything together that was funny, like literally everything. We would go out to smoke waterpipe with another friend. We would talk about anything, we would talk about girls, make fun of things that we would all find funny.\n\nHe has changed now, though. No more smoking waterpipe, no more trying to have sex before marriage, no more dating girls as it seems. He talks about why all women should wear scarfs and why they should be capped everywhere on the body. He tells me to stop consuming alcohol. He tells me to stop running after that one girl and rather go learn. He tells me to stop smoking.\n\nHe's still kind of chill and responds quiete normally when I ask him about that girl I want to date and get closer to but he also said that if he was me, he'd stop having contact.\n\nHe even sent me a video about the Islam and what you should do. I friendly said 'No' and also told him that I respect him for the way he thinks if he thinks that it's the right way but I know for a fact that I won't change and that I'll also go out to smoke with another friend later today.\n\nIt's still very strange how he has changed so quick. We would have smoked together like 1-2 months ago and now he just became like that. I don't know how to handle his behaviour. I mean, I don't really think he's going to become an extremist but he seems to be very bullheaded when it comes to religion.\n\nLike I said, I'm a Turk but I take it all easy and also consider continuing to smoke, consume alcohol and having sex before marriage because it's and would all be just part of my life.\n\nThanks for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'm very interested in a girl that I have some strong feelings for. But the problem is, she does not want to be in a committed relationship. This girl and I go way back. We've been on a few dates recently and had a lot of fun. She had even told me that there was a good chance we could be in a committed relationship. Since then, she has proceeded to also go on dates with numerous other people, including some of my good friends whom I reintroduced her to. \n\nBeing tired of dealing with the jealousy, I asked her if there was any chance of us having a relationship. She said yes, but that it was so miniscule that it was irrelevant. I then asked if she was interested in one in the near future to which she replied: no. I'm not the kind of person that wants to play games, so I told her that I was done emotionally, and that we had to stop going on dates and texting. She still wants to hang out and be friends which I think is a good idea, but it's going to be tough. \n\nYou see Reddit, I am a really really nice guy. I'm not a douchebag. If I'm going to do something, I'm going to do it right. If I'm going to pursue a girl, I'm going to try to have a committed relationship with her after we go on a few dates, are really close, and have a lot of fun. \n\nSo my question is this: Should I just abandon this altogether? It kind of seems weird to me that as the guy I am the one wanting commitment, while she just wants to be emotionally involved with everybody. Is there anything I can do that will make her want to commit? She's told me before that I'm the nicest and sweetest guy she's met, but at this age I also believe that to be a curse. Girls my age don't want to be with nice guys. She has told me that there is a very small window in life where you can enjoy being single, and that she doesn't want to lose that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I had just bought a brand new drone to fly around and do drone stuff with and I had been practicing in my house to get the hang of it. My kid says that I should fly it outside and I agree that it's time. So we go outside and I get it started and I was flying low because it was windy(probably not the best time to fly it). My kid says fly it higher and in my head I said, \"Fuck it, why not.\" So I did and the wind pushed it away from us and for some reason I stopped making it ascend and tried to let it fall to the ground or close enough so that I could turn it back on but there was a tree that decided to catch it for me. It's a pretty big tree too, like at least 30-40 feet tall, and while my kid is screaming that I did a good job, I'm screaming in my head because it's either I go get it out the tree or I'm just SOL of $110. After about 10 minutes of ranting, I decided to climb the tree and I have never climbed a tree before but I wasn't gonna that stop me because I wasn't about to let that money go to waste. After about another 15 minutes of standing on a trash can(first branch was too high to grab) I managed to get to first branch and was ready to start my adventure to get the drone. Then I realized that I had never climbed a tree before let alone a tree of this tall and start running scenarios in my head about how I'm gonna die if i fuck up and regret my decision and now I can't get down from the one branch I was currently standing on. Luckily my neighbor came by and saw me in distress and not only helped me out the tree, but decided to climb the tree to get the drone down for me. Now we play Smash Bros at his house on the weekends and I'm not out $110.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm with my girlfriend for 10 months and we are very happy together. I love her and can't imagine myself with another person. \n\nA while ago, she saw some old pictures of me and my ex-girlfriend and became super jealous and very mean to me the whole afternoon. She said she was not jealous. She claimed that she was disappointed that I took my ex-girlfriend's out kayaking, zip-lining, and do all the stuff that she wants to do, but I never took her out, even though I'm from this area, and she has never been here before until we met. But I think she's clearly just jealous. We always go out and do things on the weekends. She complains about me never making any arrangement, and she always takes the initiative to reserve things, book things, plan things. \n\nRecently she brought up the topic of my ex-girlfriends almost every day, because I have some homemade sex videos and photos with them. They are just good memories, and it's not like I look at them everyday, but I think it'll be fun to watch them and laugh about it when I'm 90. Anyway, she was very upset, so I deleted all the porn videos, and then I put the other photos with my ex-girlfriends in an encrypted disk image on my laptop. \n\nThis weekend she came across the encrypted disk image while doing some work on my laptop and again became super mad at me. I just hid the pictures so that she wouldn't see them and gets super jealous. I already deleted all the porn videos, but she wouldn't believe me. What can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend (24/f) and I (25/m) had been in a relationship for 1.5 years, but just recently split. Up until about two months ago, things had been going pretty well, but then things took a turn for the worse. We broke up last week.\n\nI got laid off from my job about 3 months ago, and have been unemployed ever since. Needless to say, it had a significant impact on our relationship. My days consisted of searching for jobs, playing video games, and occasional outings with friends. I'll be the first to admit that my life had no-direction at all.\n\nShe has been working two jobs while simultaneously attending school. She was definitely more stressed out, and was having a hard time coping with it. We've been living together in a small studio apartment, which contributed to a lot of her stress as well; she felt as though she didn't get enough personal space.\n\nOur breaking point was an argument about money. I had fallen behind on rent , so she was carrying more of the burden. In so many words, it ended in me moving out in a flurry, and us later deciding that we both wanted to stop fighting. We broke it off.\n\nWe haven't really spoke after that, as I want to try and give her space that she needs. I've realized that my life has gotten a bit off track. That, in addition to her situation, seemed like a recipe for disaster.\n\nI know that it's been shorter than a week, but all I can do is think about her and our relationship. I understand that this is somewhat normal, but I deeply feel as though this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. Despite our problems, we've made it through a lot and I've never been happier in my life than when I'm with her. I'd like to have her back in my life, but it's clear that we might need some time to sort things out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been with this guy for a week. Knew him previously, but didn't really talk. We both got it on at a party, now we're seeing each other, kind of. Still extremely fresh. Since then we've hung out a couple of times, at the beach, and talked for hours. I'm actually starting to really like this guy and want to be with him and get to know him better. He's got a business trip for 10 days as of tomorrow though, so we won't be able to hang out. Should I say anything? Should I text him much? He has been the one taking me places for us to hang out and stuff but I don't want to seem clingy or annoying, it's one of my peeves actually. We text a couple of times a day and he always responds with really long texts.\n\nI had a bad experience a few years ago and am still a bit scarred mentally. When I was with him today we were quite intimate with hugging and kissing and I'm scared I came off as \"awkward\". So I told him very superficially what happened in the past. He just looked at me for a long time and gave me a long hug.\n\nI'm scared to scare him away, nobody seems to give me long enough for me to \"open up\" and get totally comfortable with. And this guy is really worth it. I know it's super early yet, but I want to give it my all, and I'm scared he'll drift away because of how I might act or whatever.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As a cat person, I do not know much about dogs. Everyday when my neighbors leave for work, they leave their dog outside with food and water and some rope toy. The issue is that my Dad works from home, and the dog barks and whines for the 8 hours his owners are gone, disrupting my Dad's phone conferences. We've nicely asked our neighbors to handle it twice now, and they haven't, so I need your help Reddit. What toy can I buy and throw over the fence for this poor puppy to make him quite and happy? I considered dog treats, but I don't know if he has any specific dietary needs. Thanks for the help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated this guy for 2 months, and he broke up with me. I'm meeting him soon to get my stuff back and I was just wondering how I should dress.\n\nI told him I would meet him after a meeting, so should I just show up in slacks and a nice shirt? I originally wanted to wear a hot dress and make him drool but I just realized how pathetic it might seem. I was going to tell him I was headed to the bar to relax - that's why I look so sexy - but I'm sure he could see right through it. Yet I don't want to look like a total square and wear nice clothes, you know? But I feel like he'll be expecting me to look hot for him, and I don't want them.\n\nSo professional or hot?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My FWB has feelings for me and my best friend her ex... she got upset at both of us at the same time because she saw me by myself because I was on my phone and then she got mad/upset and my best friend because he was dancing with a girl... and I'm a millionaire and no one knows but my best friend and we have talked about going out because we like each other and almost inlove with each other and she said it herself we've been together as fwbs for about 4 weeks and best friends for a year", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened in early 2011 after the massive spike in popularity of instagram, a popular cell phone app that was sold for 1 billion dollars a while back, but worth much more today. \n \nMy best friend from high school wanted to create a social media app since he claimed it was going to be the next big thing and his \"instagram\". He pitched it to me during dinner. His was idea was messaging photos to each other like text messages without relying on sms service and rather through wifi. I immediately, laugh and tell him what a stupid idea that was and that no one was going to use it because people can just share photos through instagram. He continues to tell me how people can send random moments of their day to each other and I continue with stupid rebuttal ideas such that it would be faster to message people by text instead. \n \nAnyways fast forward to present day, the only app he has made is some small game and organizer which he did for fun. He realized that it was just a hobby and nothing serious. We joke constantly that he would be a billionaire if I had liked his idea and that he would bring me aboard.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I love my girlfriend dearly, but she has kids and I have no children of my own. I don't feel like I'm right for fatherhood, I'm a very irritable person. I feel she wants to get married and settle down, and because of her age it's fairly important to her. I'm not ready for this, or to be strongly tied to anything. The only thing stopping me is the guilt, I love her and fear I might crush her... and make her jaded, emtionally insecure for future relationships. Am I being weak? Am I being to considerate? Will she be OK ? I appreciate any advice, thanks redditors", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "No throwaway because the Dow was down and I'm feeling like enough of a ballsy idiot. This happened now. I'm prescribed Adderall and Lunesta PRN, which means I take both when I need to versus at a specific time each day. I pulled a muscle at the gym today and have been in moderate pain. While I was brushing my teeth, I remembered that I had Lunesta and opened the cabinet to take a pill with the brilliant idea that I would call it an early night and avoid tossing and turning in pain.\n\nTook the pill, lay down in bed, and settled in to some wholly mediocre episodes of 30 Rock. An hour in, which is usually when I feel like I'm about to pass out and shut my laptop off, I realized that I felt more awake, so I made myself some tea and tried for another hour. No dice. I went to pour myself another cup of tea and realized the Lunesta bottle was next to the bed, which made no sense, because I didn't take it in the bathroom. The bait and switch clicked and I realized that instead of taking my sleeping pill, I'm pretty sure I took my 10mg pill for staying awake. Fuck. Me. Of course, they look [pretty] [similar] so in the dark of the bathroom, I probably wouldn't have paid attention to the color. No wonder I couldn't fall asleep. Time to drink lots of water, marathon Netflix, and see what Reddit is like when Australia takes over once the US goes to sleep.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, I am just very confused. I really need unbiased perspective on this. So this is a \"long distance\" relationship (we see each other on average every 2 weeks, but now get a full few weeks together), and we've been dating almost six months. He told me at the beginning of our relationship that he was...damaged? Not sure what word he used. Seemingly from whatever happened with his last girlfriend. I think they had been separated for 7-8 months before we started dating, and their relationship was like a year and a half.\n\nWell last night I finally got the details of what he meant. He says he thought she was perfect, and that his senior year when he was dating her was the best of his life. But that then she went to school and decided he wasn't as important to her as she had said. That messed him up, and he admits he shouldn't have believed she was perfect. But he says ever since that break up he hasn't felt capable of feeling deep feelings, and that now he is feeling anxious because he thinks maybe we are at that stage...and that so far he has been very guarded (I have too).\n\nI got upset because that means at the beginning of the relationship he knew he couldn't feel deep feelings. I didn't think that was fair to me. And I don't want to have to \"coach\" someone into feeling again...I shouldn't have to. It also seems like he's not over her...but he claims he is enough and no one is ever COMPLETELY over another person. Am I right in being upset? I have no idea how to proceed from here...\n\nAnd an outside issue--for the past few days I have been really distant with him because frankly he was annoying and I am pretty pessimistic about us spending longer than 2 years together (that is when I graduate)...I haven't told him that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My brain needs unwashing. I know men look at porn and so do women. I know we all masturbate. I know different things get us all off.\n\nI know he loves me very much, but I'm afraid he is going to keep things from me if I tell him I'm over the threesomes and some of the other stuff. I don't want him to seek out sexy conversations with other men. Supposedly, he just wants pics of dicks, but if that's true, there are plenty on the internet.\nI know that this is one of those times I should just talk to him about it, but most of us have turned to reddit for a little advice or insight into our issues. Any thoughts would be appreciated. If mods feel like this would be better directed to another subreddit please, let me know. Thanks.\n\nAges:27 Me:F Him:M 3.5 years together", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I get a call nearly every week from the phone number 1 (720) 539-6698. I think the number is a credit card scam. The automated message says it is cardholder services and that it can lower the interest rate on your credit card. I pressed 1 to \"speak to an agent.\" When the person picked up I asked what company he worked for and why they continued to call me when I'm on the National Do Not Call Registry, and he hung up. I called back and it went straight to voicemail saying \"The mailbox belonging to Mike(?) is full.\" I'm damn near positive they are more than annoying telemarketers, they are attempting to steal people's financial information. \n\nI already filed a complaint with the [National Do Not Call Registry] but I have a lack of faith in their ability to do anything about the fact that this scumbag is trying to rip people off. It seems like they're more worried about telemarketers than anything. I wouldn't be as up in arms about this if it was just stupid telemarketers, but I'm pissed that there's probably poor people out there getting ripped off. This asshole has been calling for months, but I just hang up. Today I've had it. \n\nWhat else can I do to make sure this scumbag sees justice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "first love [24m] and I [20f] broke up 9 months ago but only decided to initiate strict NC 3 weeks ago. I still think about him and miss him constantly and I know he's been seeing another girl so that makes it about 100 times worse. I lost a lot of my social circle due to the breakup so I'm alone a lot while he's with good friends all the time. I just feel crappy a lot and constantly have this lingering pain and him in the back of my mind and I'm scared it'll never go away. Can someone share some personal stories of hardship so I feel less alone? Will NC eventually do what it's supposed to at some point. I don't feel much different now than I did when we initiated it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, my girlfriend might not be able to get into her desired grad school due to certain academic and financial complications. She has one or two courses with an undesirable grade, and wants to retake those courses. But with college tuition costing as much as it does today, it's putting her in a difficult position because she can't retake the courses for an improved grade. I honestly wish that I could help her out and pay for everything, but I have my own increasing tuition fees to cover plus housing.\n\nI'm trying to support her and help her through this the best I can, but it just seems like there isn't much I can do... Or at least, none comes to my mind. This is pretty major source of stress and unhappiness right now, for the both of us. She's been crying about it almost every night, she's also become irritable and somewhat cold and detached. I've been giving her more space, and just being there when she needs me. But I can't help feeling extremely useless and helpless right now, and it's probably one of the worst feelings I've ever experienced. Is there anything I can do to make things a little easier, ease the stress a bit. I just want to see her smile again...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My pregnant girlfriend says I do not care about her and all this other stuff. Yet I do everything possible that I can. Right now I am inbetween jobs, So I am putting in effort into learning things for my career because I have enough money saved up until I go back to college and work.\n\nEverything I do does not seem to be good enough. I do not want to have sex with her because she refuses to talk to me about things that matter to me. Will not and I mean absolutely will not talk to me about things that bother me. Yet she wants me to listen to her gossip about co workers and things of that nature. I absolutely do not care about gossip.\n\nI told her she does not make me feel romantic and she says fine then. I told her what she has to do to make me want to have sex more and does not want to put forth the effort into making me feel sexual. I can't have sex unless I feel appreciated. (not common for a guy) She just expects me to be sexual 100% of the time and I am not.\n\nShe yells at me for not doing things with her kids, Yet She has not once taken them out by herself since we have been together. I have around 1-3 times a week taken them to do something. The kids are her sisters and not biologically hers. Their mother is a junkie.\n\nI am about to have a child with this women. Should I back out and just try to do my part as much as I can from the sidelines, Try to get custody and raise the kid. Help please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the story: We met 6 years ago at his ex's house, who I was staying with because she's my dear friend. For all that time we liked each other but never did anything about it 'cause it'll feel weird. Last friday, my friend (his ex) was hosting a party and she invited us. She kept saying all night how cute he thinks I am, how he always talked fondly about me and what not. At the end of the night, she made us kiss and so we did. After that our whole relationship changed and my enormous crush on him was out in the open having a blast. We kissed 'til the morning light. He's sweet, sensitive, smart, funny and I spend the best time with him.\n\nThe thing is that I broke up a 2 year relationship with a guy 5 months ago because of the distance and loss of interest. When I say lost of interest I mean I lost all interest because he was 28 with no job and no degree and no nothing, I wanted to get married, have a family and lots of things but he didn't moved his ass out of the computer; I even helped him get up his chair and he fought me for it. Now I'm scared the same thing will happen with this guy 'cause he has a crappy-3-days-a-week job and also no degree. \n\nI've never been so crazy about anyone in my life, not even the guy I spent 2 years of my life with. I don't know what to think. Can somebody help me clear my mind?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently switched jobs (5 months) from a larger institution to a smaller company. Over the last month I have gotten very disillusioned with my new job, I miss the camaraderie of my old job as well as the lower level of stress. Also the old job was much closer to my house.\n\nFor me the most important thing is not my job, I don't have the ambition to be in a super high paying job, I like having an average job if it means I have the energy and motivation to do that and extracurriculars.\n\nI recently applied to a different job posting at my old company. I feel totally unmotivated to go to work and I've called in \"sick\" about 3-4 times the last month....\n\nI guess what I'm asking is; how do I stay motivated to keep going to work right now, at least until I get another job, and should I just go back to my old boss and ask him for my old job back (as opposed to trying for this new position). He mentioned I could do that because he likes me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've recently started dealing with the fact that I was physically abused by my father for a good 10 years of my childhood. I've never talked about it with anybody or really been aware of how it affects me until my most recent relationship with my current BF. We've been together for 9 months and I would get upset at the smallest and most insignificant things and completely blow up within seconds. \n\nI started seeing a therapist this past March and I've felt it has helped a little bit. These past few weeks have gotten especially bad though as I have begun resorting to self destructive ways (hitting myself, cutting). My bf can no longer put up with my behavior and is telling me we should end things. I can't help but feel at a total loss now that the person I love most is thinking of abandoning me. \n\nI'm curious to know what other people in similar situations have done/are doing? For me, it just seems like a vicious cycle that I can't get out of. The same thing over and over again: Get annoyed, get mad, blow up/yell, calm down, feel regret/apologize profusely. Basically the same process my father would get into when he would hit me. He once told me to try and talk to him while he was mad and say something like \"Dad, it's ok. you're calm. you don't need to do this.\" But it never worked. \n\nI'm afraid I will just end up like him, hurting everybody around me whether it be emotional or physical. A part of me is afraid to have children because of what I could possibly do to them when I get upset. Anybody else out there with similar situations?\n\nI checked and have seen a few threads posted a year ago dealing with the topic of child abuse, but not one really asking how people are coping/have coped with it. (Maybe there were and I just missed them; I'm new to reddit btw so sorry if this post is redudant!).\n\nAnyway, thanks for reading if you took the time to do so.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met her while she was in a bad spot after a breakup. We became friends (she doesn't have many in this small town). Despite there being a lot of red flags I developed feelings for her. After a few months we tried dating. I was really into her and it was a roller coaster of emotions for me. She gave it a try because on paper I'm great for her, but it just didn't feel right, so we broke it off. It was her call but after the rose coloured glasses had come off a few days later I was happy it had gone that way. We are almost neighbours so we talked and decided to stay friends. Hung out, went fishing, talked about our new online dating experiments etc. \n\n6 weeks later, we met up and she was excited to tell me that she started seeing someone. Told me all about it. I was happy for her, but then a few hours later it hit me. I can't stop thinking about her and this new guy. Didn't sleep last night, I really thought I was done losing sleep over this one. It's stupid, I don't want her back, I'm just jealous that she managed to move on quickly and I didn't (small town, pretty woman, lot of single males..). \n\nI think I need to call her up and tell her no hard feelings but we have to stop talking because it's messing with my head. But I can't quite get myself to do it. Damnit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been a beer lover since about the age of 16 (used to live in Germany) and have developed a strong passion for artisan beer over the last five years. I also rather enjoy cooking I've found as well as professions / hobbies that are ancient to a degree (i.e. baking, black-smithing, being a prostitute :P).\n\nAnyways I will be living in a medium sized single bedroom apartment come June (in Houston) and was hoping to maybe pick up a new hobby with my job. \n\nHow much does an average home-brew kit cost to get started? What should I know before making the investment? What should I avoid? \n\nThanks Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night I went over to my best friend's place and we were drinking and I eventually got fairly drunk and my gay friend was being a bit suggestive. In my less than ideal state of mind decided well here's my chance to try doing stuff with a guy. \n\nThere was nothing intimate about it at all and he just did oral on me for a few minutes before I tried doing it on him. I stopped after 2 minutes because I kinda realized what I had done.\n\nImmediately I recognized it had been a terrible idea because I have a girlfriend. All I saw it as, was a chance to experiment with a guy in case I don't get the chance in the future if my girlfriend and I who have been together for nearly 3 years now was to be a forever kind of thing.\n\nThough now I am seriously regretting it and he has said that he wouldn't ever tell anyone about it. I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend or not because it was just a one off thing that I don't have any interest in doing again.\n\nI don't think she would take it well at all even though it meant absolutely nothing to me.\n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this one is kind of tame in comparison to some of the problems on here but here goes anyway. My friend is getting married and has asked me to be the best man but he said, quite assertively, that he wants me to be clean shaven for the ceremony. At the time I was caught off guard and happy to be asked so I said okay. However having had time to think about it I feel like it's quite unfair for him to ask that. It took me months to grow this beard and I'm very fond of it. A lot of people have told me I suit it and it does actually mean something. My last girlfriend couldn't bear the feeling of my stubble so I had to have a wet shave every day which I hate doing. That relationship ended really badly and growing the beard was (is) part of me trying to move on. My friend doesn't know this and has mainly seen the beard in context of me being a mess as I stopped looking after my appearance when I sank into quite a deep depression. I'm clawing my way out of that now and I've started to make an effort again. The beard is still there but a lot neater and last night was the first time my friend has seen it like this (he works away for stretches at a time and asked me to be his best man on the phone). He appeared to be looking at my beard thoughtfully last night, perhaps realising it is a style and not just a mess. I didn't bring it up last night because I was unsure if I'm being selfish. Am I? I know it will grow back but it will take months to get to the length it is now.", "role": "user" } ]

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