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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Warning: long\n\nI used to be a good kid. I had good grades. I told very few lies and I was respectful to everyone. I don't know what triggered it. It's like the part of my brain that made me care about stuff stopped working. I started getting bad grades in school. I mean like really bad. I was lucky enough not to get summer school but i still did awful. The worst part is that they spent a lot of money on tutoring lessons for an ap exam and i ended up getting a 2. I also cheated alot on tests. I started lying to my parents and told them i was studying when i was doing other stuff. Then when they started seeing a decline in grades they grounded me. I would usually learn my lesson and pull myself out of situations like these but i didnt this time. I kept doing bad stuff and I started disrespecting my own parents and my siblings who were just trying to help me. I eventually lost most of my friends and i put on a huge amount of weight and I started doing bad things. I started lying to my mom and said that i was walking home with friends/staying afterschool but i actually withdrew money from my bank account and spent it on junkfood/useless shit and coming home late. I'm suprised they still let me do it for the rest of the school year. I also started stealing money from my family members because i had used all of mine. They never found out, but i feel terrible about it. I've been trying to study/exercise but i can never stick to any of these habits.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: met this girl on tinder, went out with her for 2 months. Things felt \"relationship-y\" for a few weeks before I asked her to make things official. She said yes. Lasted for 48 hours before she said she wasn't ready for a relationship and just wanted to be friends. I respected her decision and was happy to keep in touch with her and continue hanging out casually. \n\nEver since we \"broke up\" (can you even call it that?) this girl has been a complete fucking enigma. Every so often she'll text me something like \"hey :)\", or she'll tell me about something exciting that just happened to her or something. Cool! Normal stuff. She wants to keep in touch! Only trouble is that when I respond to her she acts FUCKING WEIRD. She'll give me lame, one word responses, or just not respond at all. Then I'll come back the next day and text her something, and I'll get similar lame ass responses. This cycle has been repeating for 2 weeks and I'm so confused.\n\nWhy bother initiating conversation at all if you don't want to actually talk? I don't get it. Can you guys offer some theories? I can't even begin to understand what's happening here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "... and, on the whole, that is in no way problematic for me. I wager a great deal of people here fall under this distinction. \n\nHOWEVER, not owning a school and being forced to sneak-teach (not nearly as suggestive as it sounds) in public parks or sign into a contract deal at a local community center (which I am currently doing) teaching with the very, VERY few students I have is heavy in cost both in time and in money. At this point in time, I am losing money to the community center. 100% of what I take in from student/s covers 60% of the center's monthly fee.\n\nEasy problem to understand. Need to teach indoors due to high chances of inclement weather. Roof cost money. Money comes from Students. Have 1 solid student. No money :C\n\nThe solution is a bit more complicated. It's hard enough generating interest in the martial arts let alone a SWORD art. It's nigh impossible to get someone to understand the benefit of studying swordsmanship when many, many people have already decided ahead of time that they will NOT understand anything you try to tell them because \"I'll just buy a gun OLOLOLOLOLOL!\". It takes a very specific kind of person to earnestly study swordsmanship (I'm gonna say that studying consistently for longer than a year qualifies you as \"earnest\") and finding them is wickid hah'd. \n\nI've tried all of the low cost methods of advertising I could think of which, admittedly, is not many (dropping fliers around, craigslist ads, you know, free things). NOW I am beginning to wonder if a more... I hate to call it \"professional\" considering the many flavors of ads I've seen... let's say \"cost intensive\" approach might be better. Does anyone have any suggestions/ideas/thoughts on how best to approach attracting more students? Totally open to suggestions more abstract than \"place an ad in the paper\". The best ways are probably the simplest but I thought I'd swing by and ask while I was here :D", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short, there was some chick at my work who was always a crappy employee and was a bitch to me. I am her boss but because the way the company is structured and because my boss is a bum, she was never disciplined. The other day she walked out on me so that i had to finish her shift. I had just worked an 11 hour shift and then had to stay an addition 7 hours. I heard through the grapevines that she had been planning it for awhile to 'show me who's boss.' She then goes on her Facebook and tries to talk trash about me. She has even gone as far as calling my corporate office to try and get me fired over making her do work. She is spreading false rumors about me on a daily basis. She is obsessed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So he and I both have instagram but I don't post anything just because I like to keep my life private and I'm not crazy about the whole social media thing. \n\nI have no problem with him posting stuff, I like to see all the cute stuff he posts, and he often posts pictures of us. But he also posts shirtless pictures of himself, and sometimes girls will comment saying how attractive he is or whatever. \n\nAm I right to be uncomfortable? I haven't said anything because I don't want to be controlling and I don't really think it's my place. But really, I compliment him all the time and tell him how good looking he is, why does he need constant validation from random strangers on instagram? \n\nMy ex was not into social media that much and I liked that about him. Maybe there are just different types of people, and I am not really compatible with current bf? The attention-craving attitude is really a turn off for me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend picked up a dog two days ago from a shelter, an eleven month old female husky/shepherd (possibly German Shepherd?) mix. She is super sweet most of the time, but she growled at my friend's mother, and at my friend when she was going to pick up a stick, then the dog nipped at one of her friends because the girl tried to push the dog down. The bite ended up drawing blood, and since it was so soon after getting the dog (and apparently the shelter released the dog without her rabies shot), my friend called the shelter to see what to do. They told her she had to quarantine the dog for 10 days, which she had to do at the shelter. When she took the dog in, she described the behavior above and the woman at the shelter strongly recommended turning the dog over to be euthanized because she was too \"unpredictable\" and could be dangerous. My friend felt she didn't have much choice in the matter and turned the dog over. I'm not sure if she can even get her back now (she's in the quarantine process at the moment), but my question is whether there is training that is likely to help this kind of behavior? She showed no aggression towards me whatsoever, but my friend is worried she'll be too dangerous to take out in public or to have people come over. She wants a dog she'd be able to take out with her to public places, but she's also been crying all day about the dog being put down. I'd really like to believe she could train the dog to be better, but is random aggression something that can be gotten rid of? If the responses are unpredictable, what can you really do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both in college, and as with many college relationships it started as a hookup at a party. It pretty quickly reached a level of emotional intimacy that I haven't experienced before and we've kept seeing each other. We've both gotten around a bit (had sex with multiple of each others friends) but we've both been upfront about it and are comfortable with it.\n\nA few weeks ago we talked about being exclusive \nand both agreed to it. A few days later she had a tough night with a friend and was drunk and expressed to me some doubts. She's a freshman and I'm a junior, and she said that I'd already gotten to experience being single and on the scene my freshman year and she thought she might want it too. A couple days later when we were both sober we talked about it again and I made it clear that if she felt that way then I'd rather we end things now before it got too serious, and that we should only keep going if she really wanted to. She said that she did and that I'm the only guy she's met in college that has made her feel important and not just like she's being used.\n\nOther than that issue things have been going great. I've had the opportunity to have a relationship before but from a combination of fear of commitment / high standards for relationships vs. hookups / insert other excuse I've always backed out before things got too serious. This is different and I really like where we are and would like to see where things go.\n\nDue to my lack of previous relationship experience, I'd love outside advice. What are good practices and tips to help build and strengthen a new relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "At 7:30am today, I got a call from the delivery company. \"Damnit, this is super early,\" I thought to myself. My very pregnant wife rolled over and asked who I was talking to on the phone. I informed her there was a delivery truck on the way. \"Happy Birthday!\" I exclaimed with a shit-eating grin. \n \nsigh \n \nI had spent the last few months tirelessly researching my purchase. Our household had been plagued by constant beeping sounds coming from the laundry room at all hours of the day and night. So much so that we had been unplugging the decade-old washer and dryer when not using them. It had been going on for years. I resolved myself to fix this problem. I'm a problem solver. It's what I do. There are 4th of July appliance sales. My wife's birthday is around the 4th of July. She would love it if I got one of those fancy-schmancy laundry sets with the steam and pedastals, right? Great gift, right? Come on, guys, at least humor me and pretend I'm not an idiot for a second. \n \nSo I splurged and bought the bestest set I could find and had it delivered as a present. On my pregnant wife's birthday. At 7:30am. Waking her up. \n \nShe groggily comes downstairs so see my present... \n \nHer: \"You bought me CLEANING SUPPLIES?? .... FOR MY BIRTHDAY???\" \n \nMe: \"...\" \n \nHer: disappointed look \n \nMe: \"Happy Birthday...?\" \n \nHer: \"This is insulting\" \n \nMe: \"I'm sorry\" \n\nYeah... I am not a smart man. We haven't spoken since the the delivery occurred. I don't know if dinner plans are still on...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my girlfriend for eight months now and the topic of sex has come up quite a bit recently. She is really afraid of getting pregnant and she doesn't want to have sex yet. I'm not trying to convince her or push her or anything, I want her to be 100% comfortable when it happens. \nShe is really afraid that she is going to freak out before it happens, or during. She says that it will happen and I've seen little freakouts from her if I get too close to her. I just really want to know how I can help her not freak out, or if she does, how to calm her down enough to continue and be comfortable.\n\nHere's some background info if it helps.\n Her parents sheltered her from sex completely telling her it was bad and making it seem weird and out of place by not talking about it.\n\nI've been helping her get over the \"weirdness\" of the sexual things we do and it is really hard, but we get by.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a reader. I went to Barnes and Noble a while back & picked up a Mark Twain book.\nAnyway the lady who helped me said to go to the front to pay (I never went to B&N before this event) Its also good to note I have a stutter, so shit like my name is a pain to say.\nAnyway the lady in front said \"Do you want to sign up for our email list?\" I said No but she persisted so I just said it.\nI had trouble telling her my email, so I asked if I could write it down and she told me to just say it.\nAs I'm trying to get the letters out of my mouth she grows this smile that made me mad. It wasn't like a \"take your time\" smile it seemed like she was forcing a smile which made me pretty angry a the time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, theres been a lot going on lately with my boyfriend of two years, and I'm honestly not sure what to do. \n\nThroughout the course of our relationship, he has always been late for pretty much everything, to the point where if we make plans with others, I will tell him a different time so he will show up sort of on time. The worst is with me though. We will plan to spend the day together, and often he will show up at 8-10 pm, hours later than the agreed time making me wait around for him all day with no forewarning that he will actually show up soon. Often we will just end up watching Netflix together because he shows up so late that there's not much open, so we don't really ever go on dates anymore. \n\nHe also has started to make little effort in actually making contact with me unless it's after 10 pm, when he knows I am going to sleep for work the next day. It feels like I'm always calling him all the time as well. When I've asked him to call me earlier while he's at school if he can't make it home by a reasonable time, he won't take a 5 min break to call me while he's there, and will call late at night. When I have tried to talk to him about this, he immediately gets defensive and doesn't own up to any of it. Then he will go on to say that he should quit school because apparently asking him to be on time and call me before I go to sleep (he often wakes me up) is too much for him. I'm also in school, so it really upsets me that he uses school as an excuse to not put effort into our relationship. \n\nLately our sex life has suffered as well. I'm always initating and getting turned down more often than not. We've gone from 1-3x a week to once a month in the last couple of months. \n\nHe always says he loves me, wants to marry me and have kids with me, but he has a funny way of showing it. I love him but I'm starting to get very frustrated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To recap, my friend, the girl, and I hung out in the first few days of college. I've liked the girl since 7th grade, and he met her during their orientation. I met him several weeks ago when I first moved in. I panicked when my friend asked me if I was interested in her and told him no and that he should go for her. I know that I made a major mistake here. The girl and I are very good friends.\n\nI confronted my friend a few weeks later after I learned he was flirting with her. More strikes against me, I know, but he was surprisingly supportive of my situation. He offered me one chance to ask her out, and after that he would pursue her.\n\nSince the confrontation, which was very awkward but calm, I have gone with her to a rally for Herman Cain, and have hung out in her dorm. It was really unclear whether or not the Herman Cain rally was a date. However, another one of my friends was at the rally and said that she seemed interested and was flirting with me.\n\nMy question to you is, is there a correct way to move forward out of the friend zone with the girl? I want to make the most out of my one shot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there's this guy (lol). About a year ago I went to a party and met up with a guy (W) of whom I knew but reputation due to mutual friends and because he was in the same program as me at school. I almost hooked up with him, going so far as to go home with him but then I stopped it because I was in a relationship at the time (we didn't go further than a few fairly innocent kisses). I really liked him, like a lot, which drove me to break up with my boyfriend but at the time W was kind of pissed that I was with someone else and didn't want to entertain any more thoughts of a fling with me. However after this all went down he friended me on several social medias and we maintained a causal relationship. It's been a long while, and in the past year he graduated and moved back to our shared metro hometown. I'm home for break right now and I'd really like to reconnect with him but I don't know how to do it without being totally awkward even though the situation had totally changed. I've always had a crush on him and I would hate that this old boyfriend is holding us back, though I feel like it doesn't matter anymore and I would hope that I did the right thing before.. Please any advice is appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, I'm an 18 year old girl. He's 31. I met him at a local restaurant I frequently go to with my mother about 5 months ago. He's the manager there.\n\nHe gave me his number and we've been seeing each other ever since. I told my mom about him at first and she said he was very nice, cute and had seen him many times at the restaurant before. When she found out his age however, she immediately disapproved and proceeded to tell my dad. They both came to a consensus that I was not to speak to him because he was too old for me. I was infuriated and told them I was an adult and could speak to or date whomever I please. \n\nAfter that, there was tension in the house to the point where I decided to move out for a couple of days. Eventually I decided to come back because it was too crazy for me to be living with different friends. When I came back home, my parents told me the only way I could continue living there would be if I stayed away from that guy AND if I couldn't abide by that rule, and decided to leave again, I wouldn't be allowed to take the car they got me. I wanted to act like an adult, I was to be treated like an adult with my own bills, they said. So I agreed. \n\nI still haven't stopped speaking to or seeing him though. I see him as often as I can and am always having to make up the dumbest lies to my parents about where I'm at and who I'm hanging out with. I feel like one of these days, I'm gonna get caught and my boyfriend feels very bad. He feels like he's going to get me in trouble and not only that, wishes we could have a normal relationship. No sneaking around bullshit. \n\nReddit, should I confess to my parents or wait till I'm more financially stable to move out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My first day back at school for the semester. Teachers normally provides us with a syllabus explaining the class and it's expectations. Every teacher I've ever had provided us with a paper copy of the syllabus no matter how long or complex it was. This teacher does not. She explains to us that if her syllabus isn't printed out by the next class, she will deduct 50 points from our final grade at the end of the semester. Very mature. Now keep in mind this syllabus is 30 pages long. 15 pages front and back. That's a lot of paper and toner for me. I have a Brother laserjet with duplex capabilities. It's the best printer ever.\n\nNormally when teachers have tech issues, I would normally offer my help since I'm very familiar with classroom technology. This teacher is trying to figure out how to plug the HDMI cable into her Macbook to show us a presentation. Macbooks do not have HDMI ports. And she doesn't have the adapter. This will be fun to watch. She grabs the VGA cable. Nope. No VGA port on her Macbook and she doesn't have the adapter for it either. She plugs in the 3.5mm audio cable into her computer expecting to see video on the projector. The students are no help. They're attempting to turn off the projector and back on and one student even offered his Macbook to see if that'll work. Needless to say, it didn't.\n\nInside, i was laughing so hard that my gut hurt. Outside, I remained perfectly calm.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago telling me he didn't love me anymore. He was a horrible person at all in the relationship and there was no other reason for the breakup. \n\nDuring the break up he did say some horrible things. I was doing the NC but have had a really bad weekend and I ended up speaking to him a second ago. I didn't know what I was going to achieve by this but I asked if he missed me. He Hesitated and then said sometimes. Basically this is really no. \n\nI feel so awful for what I've done to my self. I've no deleted his number and crossed it out where I written it. Why did I do it? What did I think this would achieve?\nI'm being so weak, I'm trying to carry on but why doesn't my mind stop thinking about him? Why when after 6 years he doesn't care why do I care so much? I shouldn't be wasting my time on him when he doesn't want to be in my life, so why am I?\n\nI'm so scared it won't get better and I won't be strong enough to get through this. I feel stupid because I know I shouldnt let this rule my life and I can be me without him. \nPlease can anyone offer a little help I feel like I'm going out of my mind. even doing different things I'm still thinking about him I feel this to much to handle every day.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all,\n\nNext month I will be looking to move in with my friend that works at the same location as me. I graduated last semester and this moving situation has been a long time coming. When I originally told my girlfriend about me potentially moving away (only an hour north from where I currently live) she was very angry that I did not ask her to live together first. She is still in University (which is an hour south of where I currently live) and plans on moving away to Graduate School afterwards as well (to another state). She also dorms at Uni, so I guess I assumed too much when thinking about this decision. When she was originally angry about it I looked up what the middleground would be for us to move in together instead. Both of us would have over an hour commute to school or work if we met exactly in the middle. She is also trying to save for graduate school because she will be paying for graduate school herself. Also her dorm is paid for by her scholarship. I understand that moving in together is the next step, and it would be amazing to live together and have that experience, but to me it made little sense economically. We can still see each other on the weekends, and she can even live there on the weekends rent free if she wanted. How do I come up with a solution to this issue with her? I am willing to compromise and come up with a solution (and my friend doesn't really care if we live together it just made sense to us because we will be working at the same place so we wanted to save some money). \n\nWe have been dating for approximately 1 year.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm going on a long driving trip (10 hours) with a friend in the next few weeks and I'm trying to find a way for me to use the 3G connection on my phone to get internet access on my laptop. (and any internet is good internet when your stuck in a car for 10 hours)\n\nPreviously I had a Palm Pre+ with Verizon and with that came a free wireless hotspot service that was pretty sweet. Sadly I don't have that on my Motorol Photon from Sprint. \n\nAfter doing some digging I realized that the closest option I have is to pay the $40s for a hotspot plan from sprint. I honestly remember that plan only being $5 too, which is the weird thing. Obviously when I called the customer support people about it they didn't have any idea what I was talking about. \n\nNow I know that I could root my phone and probably get an app that will do exactly what I'm looking for, but I'm trying to avoid rooting my phone at all costs.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just found out today, when my boyfriend was scrolling through his Instagram with me that he follows this guy. I don’t like him and I think he’s a douche. I simply don’t want to share my life with someone who shares the same values and morals as him. My boyfriend likes a lot of the things this guy does like cars and private jets and etc. we got into this argument and he doesn’t like that I said I don’t want to share my life with someone who shares the same values as the dude who kicks women in face, objectifies them and throws them down from the rooftops. He said just because he follows Dan doesn’t mean he wants to be like him or look up to him. I’m probably overreacting to this and I want to be over this cause right now things are awkward between us. I just don’t know how to get over it. I think he’s also angry that I caused argument over this. I'm scared that it might change my view of him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "SO the story goes that I have had this sinking feeling that my best friends girlfriend was going to breakup with him for a while. sincing this I told him over and over that if she ever hurt him to just call me and I would be their for him. We spent tonight texting, and he is coming over tomorrow night, so we can talk. \n\nI told him some stuff about when I went through something like this. I told him that I am their for him, and that everything's gonna work out. I didn't lie to him though see his girlfriend said she wanted some space. So he is going to give her two weeks and try and contact her again after that. See what can be salvaged kind of thing. This is almost a mirror of what happened to me. \n\nI told my friend that its going to be hard, that the waiting was, and is going to be the worst part. I also reminded him that I would be their for him during the waiting. During this moment of pain in his life. \n\nWhat I need advice on is what else can I tell my heart broken friend who is truly in pain right now. I just want to be their for him, to comfort him as best I can. Please help me, any advice I would greatly appreciate thank you all very much. \n\nContext We are both in our twenty's. He is a straight (although I have my thoughts) male who has been dating our mutual friends sister for something like one and a half to two years. I am a MTF closeted (to everyone him included) pansexual who has been in love with him for like five years. This isn't about me though so my feelings need not be involved. Just added for transparency.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm sure these types of posts crop of from time to time, so I apologize if you've seen this all before.\n\nI'm looking for a little advice. To begin, I'll give you some background information. I graduated in 2002 and joined the Air Force. While I was in, I worked on Radar Jamming Pods and their Test Stations. I was young and it was my first time away from home, so I didn't pursue my Associates like I should have. I was Honorably Discharged in 2006 and I moved back home.\n\nJanuary 2007, I enrolled in the local community college and started an AAS in Biotechnology. I gave up on that, changed my major, and instead, graduated with an AAS in Electronics Engineering Technologies in May 2010. I looked for work in my field, but ended up as a Shipping Supervisor for a bakery in October 2010. I'm still here.\n\nWhat I'm looking for is direction...I want to work in a field relating to computers. I've put off getting any Comptia Certs, because I don't know if they're worth the effort / money. I just withdrew from CTU's Online program, due to time constraints and a lack of instruction from the courses I was taking. I did take a Web Design course during my time there and I enjoyed it.\n\nShould I try and obtain a second AAS? A Bachelor's degree program is likely out of my reach, due to work and money.\n\nI'm including my resume for any pointers you may have.\n\nThanks in advance; sorry for the wall of text.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obligatory this was when I was in high school. \n\nSo, for those of you who don't know, in Boston there's a shopping area called Haymarket. To all the tourists in the area, it's just Faneuil Hall, which is the crazy cramped food court building in the center of the area. You can get all kinds of foods there, ranging from Irish pub to mediocre Chinese food to sushi to Gelato. My personal favorite is currently the mac and cheese shop, but that's not the point.\n\nWhen I was in high school and come into Boston on my own, I would always make a bee line to the Greek shop in Faneuil Hall. During my first time there, I noticed the food item called \"tzatziki - a kind of Greek yogurt.\" Coming from East Bumfuck, NH, I didn't know much about many other cultures' food stuffs, but I certainly knew about Greek yogurt!\n\nI don't know why I choose this, because I hated yogurt at the time (\"it has live bacteria in it!\" I can't explain the logic in that argument if I tried,) but I decided to order it. The people at the counter looked at me and were like, \"Okay, tzatziki aaaaaand?\" And then I cheerfully replied with, \"Oh, and a Nantucket Nectar!\"\n\nThey just looked at me, reached into the display case, and slid the solid near-2 cup tub of tzatziki over to me. I bounced up and down in excitement, gave them some money (and told them to keep the change! I'm a good person!) And bounced upstairs to eat lunch with a spoon. It tasted great, but after like five or more bites it caused that reaction where your body is just like, \"Okay, you need to cool it with that stuff.\"\n\nI proceeded to order tzatziki every time I went to Faneuil Hall for a solid year. I couldn't figure out why everyone around me looked at me with mild disgust/bewilderment. Until I looked at the ingredient list for an online recipe for tzatziki.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating/seeing this fellow for a couple of months. I was somewhat pursuing him, but have given up on him after the relationship hasn't progressed forward much. He is very private and seems to keep me separate from his life. I haven't pushed it, but started backing away when I noticed that I was pursuing him. A month ago, I met someone that I really like and would enjoy seeing him more. The relationship with the new guy isn't exclusive, but I just realized that I am done with the other guy. My question is: How do I break him off without losing our friendship? We were pretty good friends before we got involved (sexually) and he stated in the past that he likes to remain friends with ex's. I have barely talked to him in the past couple of weeks and haven't met up with him in person (my choice)....", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been dating for two and a half months, but we were friends in high school. We are both divorced, but her kids' dad takes them maybe one day a week. By their bedtime she's too tired to stay up for time for herself. I have more free time because I only have my kids for half the time. \n\nWhat can I say to her to help her get over the mentality she has to take care of all her problems alone? I'm willing to invest whatever it takes because we get along so well. Ask me any info that I may have left out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I thought I'd see how easy it could be to write a fake and yet relatively believable TIFU.\n\nAbout an hour and a half ago I had finished my masterpiece, ready to deceive all of you. This fake story involved me having sexual intercourse with two of my cousins a couple of years ago and some supposed pictures I'd taken on a disposable camera which i'd kept. The fake story went on, detailing how while I was away my mother decided to develop the pictures on said fake camera, as in this made up world we'd recently lost some family photos and she had hoped there would be some on there. In this fake story of course she went mad once eyed been developed and she's seen the non existent photos. \n\nSo now you know about the fake story, I can go back to when I'd just finished writing it - happy with my work, I went downstairs and decided to take the dog for a walk, i was about 35 minutes. I get back, my computer was off - all cords unplugged, everyone out of the house, phone off the hook. Clearly, one, or all of my parents have read this and phoned someone or something. Sorry this is terribly written I'm writing this from my phone and not in the most coherent state right now. How the fuck do I explain this one..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [31 M] have been in one relationship. We met on Twitter. I dated her [30 F] (This was 4 years ago, I was 27), long-distance, relationship lasted a few months. She broke up with me over Facebook without given a reason; does not talk to me.\n\nI have a fairly small circle of IRL friends [20s/30s M/F], mostly women, and a larger circle of online friends [20s/30s M/F]. I've been increasingly lonely, especially as so many of my friends are getting married/pregnant. I've been trying \"everything\" to meet someone: Internet dating, speed-dating, asking friends to fix me up, etc. for quite some time now. This isn't working. Nobody is interested in me.\n\nI've decided to quit looking for a relationship for now while I any attempt to find someone to date for now and instead try to work on myself, but I'm not sure what's wrong with me and what I should be focusing on improving or how to set realistic goals so I know I'm actually achieving any change.\n\nI have chronic depression, and anxiety, low self-esteem, and Asperger syndrome (AS).\n\nI hope my post makes sense. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a part of a co-ed organization that gets new recruits every spring. Each new recruit gets paired up with an older member so that the older member may be a mentor to the new recruit. I happened to be paired up with a fun and very beautiful girl. I really liked her, but she had a boyfriend. I respected that and kept things strictly mentor related. \nA few weeks ago, I was at a bar with some friends and this girl randomly shows up to hang out with us. She and I break off to get drinks from the bar and we start talking. She told me that she and her boyfriend broke up. She then told me that she always had a thing for me, but obviously never acted on it because she was in a relationship. Unfortunately she had to work the next day so nothing really come of the night besides her telling me this.\nFrom the point where she told me this till now, she has treated me differently. Some days she is very flirty with me, but other days she acts like she had a chafe of heart and treats me like just a friend with no potential of dating. \nI want to ask her out on a date, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. I'm not worried about rejection. I just don't want to put her into an awkward position since I'm her mentor.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me-(27 Female), Fiance-(26 Male)...I introduced my fiance to my best friend Marie (26) and her fiance Mark (32) about a year ago. One of the first times we hung out as couples Marie was kind of whiny about some things and put a damper on the day for everyone. Since then my fiance has had a bad taste in his mouth about her.\n\nAfter that point he expressed to me that he was disinterested in spending time with them in the future (even though he finds Mark to be a perfectly nice guy). I understood his point of view, but since she's my best friend I encouraged him to give her another chance. From that point on we've enjoyed several dinners, BBQ's, etc. with them and she's never done anything to be rude or annoying to him.\n\nHowever, he recently confessed to me that for the past year every time we have had these \"couple dates\" he has solely done it to \"keep me quiet\" and that he really does not want anything to do with them. In the same convo he told me he thinks they are both very nice people and he does NOT dislike them, but that he feels he has nothing in common with them. He says he likes spending time with all of my other friends but said he no longer wishes to spend time with Marie and Mark.\n\nI do not want to try to tell him who to be friends with, but I guess I just don't see why if he likes them, he has to withdraw from any future time spent with them. It would be more understandable to me if he had a strong dislike for either of them.\n\nMy question in all of this is how do I handle things now with my friends Marie and Mark when suddenly all of our time spent as couples is now reduced to the three of us? It makes me sad because they really like my fiance and truly consider him a friend. They have no clue that he wants nothing to do with them and has felt this way all along. \n\nHas anyone else experienced this? How can I avoid hurting my friends' feelings and this being awkward for me? \n\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ill make it short. I've (m25) been with this chick(30) for about a year and a half. she's great but there's some issues I can't get past and don't know how serious I should let it get.\n\nLast year we were both fresh out of long relationships and were taking it slow. we wanted to start dating but she was leaving to go back home and work with her dad for the summer so we decide to wait till she gets back, promising to wait for each other. fast forward to the end of summer, she text me when she gets back that she didn't sleep with any one but her ex left some hickies. I don't press for details and we pick up where we left off just \"officially\" dating. fast forward a few months I find out she blew him the night before she came back. I'm pissed but I reason that we weren't official so I couldn't let it bug me. then later she tells me of her five man gangbang... ouch. that one gets me. I had known of her promiscuous past (50 + she \" remembers\") but this was a bit of a deal breaker. now it all adding up and I can't take her seriously. \n\nI've talked to her about it and she knows how I feel but it gets us no where. and here I am a year later feeling the same way. every thing is good besides and were talking about getting a place but Idk. sex isn't even special with her anymore knowing what I do. it my problem to get over I know but how? it all goes away when I'm with cuz I just can't see her being like that but these twelve hour shift have thinkin a lot and its got me fucked up.\n\nI never would have started dating her had I known what happened when she got back. But I found out after feelings were already there. Now I'm torn. Do I throw it all away or stick with it and hope I can eventually look past it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been seeing this girl for a little while now and lately it's been almost everyday. 3 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend of one year and we were friends and talking during that time but since they broke up we have been talking more and more and now it feels pretty serious.\n\nSo last night we went out again and I asked her what she wanted out of this whole thing and she basically told me all the good things about me and that I'm the best guy she's ever dated and she doesn't want to stop hanging out with me, but she isn't ready for another relationship. Afterwards she messaged me and told me she thinks she's in love with me. \n\nShe tells me she likes me all the time and doesn't hide her feelings about me. \n\nMy question is, it already feels like a relationship so I don't get why she wouldn't want to put the label on it because it's not like we're hiding what we're doing from our friends and family. We are always messaging and whenever we have the chance we are together and we kiss and hold hands and act like boyfriend and girlfriend, even in front of our friends. I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend so I'd really appreciate any advice you have to give me on what I should do!\n\n[", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is an open discussion, thank you for taking your time to contribute. If you think this is a \"circle-jerk\" or pointless, that's cool, the back button is at the top of the screen.\n\nFirst: This is about United States Politics, if this is of no interest to you then you clearly did not read the title. This doesn't mean Americans only, we live in a global society and our governments decisions and actions affect everyone. \nSecond: This should not be an indictment of the wrongs committed by the government. Everyone has their own opinions on what injustice has been done to the people or to industry. The ceaseless bickering has stagnated us, we argue and drain our energy and then retire to the conveniences we are so blessed to have, believing that to act would be as fruitless as the senseless arguments we get caught up in.\n \n\nFor the sake of accomplishing something let's start this discussion with how to get started. How do we organize effectively? How can we communicate efficiently? What can be done to overcome the mass polarization of the nation? All I know for certain is that we are divided. Is this the worst divide in our nations history? I don't know, but I doubt it. We aren't killing each other yet, that's something at least. Our freedoms are threatened but they are not gone, if nothing is to be gained what is there to lose by engaging to try to accomplish something? What do we need to do? How do we go from one to many?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's been four months now since Jesse and I have broke up. We ended our relationship due to trust issues that we could not move past. We decided to be friends after (I know, you guys say never be friends with an ex) well anywho, we did and it actually is going well! At first we had a couple bad spurts trying to adjust while we were talking to other people(she with her ex, and me with people from school) but we still hang out a lot and continue doing the same hobbies we enjoyed. Honestly, it stills feel like we're dating but it's so much better than how it felt our entire relationship. We connect a lot better now and I feel closer to her than I ever have.\n\nLately, i've been feeling myself get more involved emotionally again so I don't know whether I should back off and slow down the friendship or should I propose the idea of dating to her again? I feel like we have a better shot this time but it might just blow up in my face.\n\nPeople who have gotten back together with their exes, how much time did you allow during the separation and how did it go for you?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dating 1.5 years. Did not have this problem before, only for the past few months. Had the same problem with my ex (but that was because I didn't care about him). \n\nI've read multiple threads on people being on the recieving end, and commenters saying that their SO is just doing it to be manipulative and gain control. \n\nI guess this is true? I don't really understand why I do it. Sometimes I just don't feel like talking to him, but want him to keep trying to talk to me. I'm sad when he doesn't. By 'silent treatment' I mean: not initiating, only answering his questions with one-word answers, etc. Not flat out ignoring (although it might as well be).\n\nI'm a bad communicator. Eg. I was supposed to go to his house this weekend. He told me that he had a lot of school work, so we would mostly be studying together (I'm okay with this, it happens a lot). I just told him I don't have to come if he doesn't want me to. He said \"I'd like for you to come, but I do have a lot of work to do. It's up to you. I'm totally happy for you to come if you want to anyways.\" And I do want to, but I guess I wanted him to convince me and make me feel more invited? He tried to talk to me a bit more after but I' still shutting him out. \n\nThis happens all the time. I realize that it is really childish, and immature, and ridiculous. I want to stop it, I just don't know how.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is Catholic, my mother is a conservative evangelical Christian, and I'm an atheist (Though I'm not telling my mother that until she no longer has power over me). My mother pesters me to invite her to our church, and has been growing increasingly forceful and is making veiled threats to forced to break up with her.\n\nI can't exactly reason with her. She will never entertain the possibility that I'm right about something and will shout and bully people into silence. She vents her anger onto the people around her, which is problematic given that people disagreeing with her pisses her off like nothing else. I recognize that she's a toxic person, as awful as I feel for thinking that.\n\nShe resorts to screaming insults at me if she gets too upset. She belittles me, She has a tantrum, reduces me to tears, and then when she calms down she begs for forgiveness. It's not because she's genuinely sorry. It's not about me. It's about her and how she feels like a bad mother. So she pretends to be sorry and I pretend to forgive her. I feel guilty for being this bitter towards her.\n\nMy girlfriend is a rather liberal catholic. She views Catholicism as a cultural identity mostly, in actual religious terms she's more of a universalist. Breaking up with her is not an acceptable course of action. I've grown far too close to her to accept losing her.\n \n\nI've been getting by with saying that denomination is insignificant, but I doubt she'll accept that for too long. I have no qualms about lying to her to get her to leave me alone. I just want her to drop it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend had a rough childhood. His parents split when he was about 5. His mom suffered from mental/sexual abuse from her father, causing her to be not as nurturing to him. And my boyfriend's dad started drinking heavily following the divorce. He still lives with his dad (clean now) and stepmom but isn't as close with his mom (sees her every month or so). From what he's told me he was a troublemaker when he was younger, wasn't diagnosed with ADHD but most likely had it.\n\nAnyway, down to the main point of this- my boyfriend has a lot of issues now. I love him, but lately there's been a couple setbacks. He's a great boyfriend, it's just what he does to himself...that also affects me. Like getting fired from his job for being late (he quickly found a new one, but still). Or dropping a class (he's still in school, I graduated in May and have a full-time job now) because he wasn't doing well in it. Or getting nostalgic and sad while drinking in his hometown and DRIVING.\n\nI worry about him, and our future, because of his decisions.\n\nHe's been to a psychiatrist before. Him and I have both researched and are pretty sure he has adult ADD, anxiety, depression, I don't know... \n\nI just want someone to reassure me that he can get help and get his life together before it ends up destroying our relationship. I can't constantly be worrying about him when we're not together. Or someone to let me know how I can deal with it and help him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always been fine with him smoking pot, and the deal with cigarettes was that he stopped smoking when I got pregnant. \n\nI found out recently that hes been using coke at parties and with certain friends. He says its just recreational. That because I never noticed, it clearly isnt affecting him or us badly. \n\nI've always been upfront with what I am ok with and what I am not. I have watched loved ones change into horrible, miserable people because of addictions, and I never want to put myself through things that happened in the past. I also never want to be the person who gives ultimatums to change someone. \n\nWhen I finally told him that its really bothering me and I cant go through my past again, he said if it meant that much he wouldnt....Then a few mins later suggested that I think about how I feel and take into consideration that hes not addicted. He thinks its fun. \n\nMy logical side is telling me exactly what I expect to hear, but my heart tells me that I love him and I cant imagine not being with him. Not sure where to go from here. Help :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I think I just need to get this off my chest and any comments would be appreciated. I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 months who is a single mother to a 9 year old. I feel absolutely terrible for a few reasons. The main one being I was a coward and never told her that I was starting to not feel the same way about her as she did me, or discuss things about the relationship I wanted to change with her. So the break up came out of the blue for her but for me I had been going over it in my head for about a month. Now I feel sad, upset and miss her which I hadn't felt for a month. Is it just me being to nice and not wanting to have caused someone grief? I guess since I made the decision I have to live with it and let her go.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "27/f. I've always been very sexual, but all of the sex that I've had has been with men. I have made out with two women, one straight and one gay. I recently met this girl through a friend who, to my knowledge, is also straight but is definitely an LGBT supporter. We hit it off immediately. We have similar interests, career goals, etc. I thought we'd just be great friends, but I also find her really attractive, and she has also said that she thinks I'm beautiful. We've said lightheartedly that we're falling in love, have admit that we have \"lady crushes\" on one another, and to top it all off, we had a sleepover last weekend where we cuddled all night long. We're both cuddly people, but this was the first time I ever spent all night in the arms of a female friend. I don't know her well enough to know if this is how she is with all of her friends or just me. Nothing more has happened, but we aren't going to stop hanging out or acting this way around one another, and it makes me curious where things could go. I'd hate to ruin our friendship by attempting something more or by making things awkward by initiating a serious conversation about it, and so any advice would be awesome. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently, my mother asked for a loan from me and my sibling to get her and my father out of debt, but I'm not entirely sure if we should or not? It's somewhat substantial (around 30k, so 15k from my sibling and me), and while we can afford to do so I'm not sure it's something that we should absolutely do. My mother offered to write up a contract to pay us back over the span of three years; she even suggested a decent annual interest rate of 5 percent. \n\nMy hesitation lies primarily with her spending habits. While I'm fairly confident in her promise to pay back the loan in full, I feel that she is only asking this because she recently discovered our financial situation and realized that we can afford to essentially bail her out. While her spending habits are not too crazy, she often splurges on trips and eats out a fair amount and will often buy things she doesn't need. Currently, my parents are saving up for a fancy motorcycle, although my mother has assured me that they are not planning on buying it anytime soon. I'm worried that she will use our money to pay off her debts without adopting more frugal habits as a result (and perhaps even splurging on the motorcycle).\n\nI'm mostly feeling obligated because my parents paid for both of our college tuitions (at great financial stress), but I also feel like if she adopted a decent financial plan they could pay off their debts on their own.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The title pretty much says it all.\n\nI think it's sort of like, a separation anxiety type thing.\n\nI feel nauseous just thinking about being away from him for a \"long\" time. \n\nWe've been together for two years. We've never been apart for this length of time before.\n\nI'm going traveling with my dad, and we haven't always gotten along, and I am always able to turn to my SO to talk about things and he helps to calm me down, and I fear that my dad and I have a big argument whilst I'm overseas, and I won't be able to get the comfort and support I need from my SO (which isn't anyone's fault, obviously).\n\nI'm also insecure and I fear that he's going to find someone else whilst I'm gone.\n\nI would just like some advice on how to deal with this, as I obviously want to have a good time whilst I'm away instead of constantly worrying and stressing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The statue of limitations may be up, but I got injured on the job a year and some months ago. I slipped and fell at work and landed straight on my butt. I was okay after it happened, but later on the nerve pain hit. I finished my shift and went home. The next day it was awful and I went to talk to the manager about going to the hospital. She was totally rude and so was another manager. That's a whole different story. I was only able to go to one place (manager told me this), so I went. I got x-rays done, they thought I broke my spine. I didn't, just some serious nerve inflammation. It did show that I was starting to form DJD. Ever since that accident, I've had chronic back pain and chronic sciatica. I'm pretty sure this helped speed up my back issues. I am now disabled to the point I have to walk with a cane and at times a walker. I'm 23 years old with degrees in Healthcare and can't get a job in TN at all. (It's an at will state. I walk in with a cane and they'll say \"You don't have enough experience, sorry.\" My degree has some HR background, I know how it will go.) I'm just wondering if there is anything I could do. I went through hell with that company (big chain). I was discriminated against, talked down to by management (GM for that matter) and I feel like this has ruined my life. Just because they didn't want to clean properly. Like I said though, statue of limitations might be up, but I'd like to see if I have anything before contacting an attorney. I kick myself in the butt I didn't back then. Any advice given would be nice. I appreciate everyone who read this wall of text! I can PM details if need be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my brother went to the neighborhood concert in Dallas but when we showed up two hours early the line was already hundreds of people long. We kept debating whether to stay and be packed into the back where we couldn't see the stage all too well, or go see rise of the planet of the apes and then play super smash brothers. Eventually we decided on the latter. My brother set off to sell the tickets for 80 bucks a piece. He was offered a maximum of 30 bucks. He then sent me to try my hand at selling the tickets. I have grown up in a small rural town all my life and now I was bargaining on the street side in Dallas, and I guess this homeless guy sensed it. He asked to see my tickets. I hand them over. He says he can give 50 dollars. I'm elated I beat out my brother. He gives his guy a call. It goes to voicemail. He says he will be right back with the money. He doesn't come back. My brother is still berating me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my dad met \"Jessica\" when he worked at a school. My dad used to talk about her all of the time. At the time my mom would get annoyed but would let him have his \"friend\". One day my mom found a secret email address he was using to talk to her and confronted him. He told her it was all innocent but my mom was suspicious as he could have easily just talked to her openly. \n\nFast forward to about a couple years later and he starts talking about a new girl. He at first gives her a different name. However it doesn't take long for my mom to figure it out that it's Jessica again. She confronts him and he says yeah but there is nothing between them.\n\nThen he retires last year from the school. My mom is relieved as he no longer sees Jessica daily. Well, it continues now in secret texts, pictures, and phone calls. He also has started tower her in his favorite \"fishing\" spots. My mom is now diagnosed with cancer, not working, and cannot drive. She confronted him again about it and explained to him how deeply it hurt her to see he is doing this. He agrees, cries, and apologizes. \n\nToday my dad woke me up and called me to drive me to the ER as he was by feeling well. When I took him in, he didn't bring his cell. He is having surgery, so I came home to check on my sick mom. Lo and behold, there is his cell phone. I open it up to check it and he has tons of phone calls back and forth with her under her initials JB. I told my mom but she does not want to confront him. I do. She is afraid because she needs him to take her to her treatments. I just want justice. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all, \nI have been married to this awesome lady for 14 years now, in the past 8 months, I have seen a lot of signs that she is into or cheating on me with one of our close friends. I don't have a prove yet, but I found his apartment extra key in her car, she always delete their conversation in texts. They always change the subject when I get in the room. Last night she told me she is going to the gym but she already check in a Starbucks store around his place. Moments later she deleted the check in.\n\nWe don't have kids together, my heart is already broken. I needed a prove! should I put a hidden camera in his bedroom? or ask her about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I live in SE Michigan in a condominium complex. Our water was shut off due to non-payment. (we recieved no notice) and we had to pay all that was due ($1500) We payed this yesterday at 2, they said the water would be turned on immediately. It wasn't. It's now the next day. The lady in our assosciation keeps insisting that the water meter is in another condo. Which we can't access because the person living there is never there (it's being rented) Now we're stuck with no water, no shower, no teeth brushing, no toilets, and no food for certain meals....\n\nPlease help us... What can we do? We called the police and they say that we can file a civil report for the lady not doing her job...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To explain:\n\nWe all know that not everything that dies will turn into a fossil fuel or fossil or anything like that. However some things do. We also know that the Earth goes to transitions that are normal, some destructive, but through the destruction new branches of evolution come and in some cases go. \n\nMy husband and I were talking about this yesterday after a debate on a Justice Files case (lol). If the Earth was to have another huge 'change' would the damage we're doing to it prevent it from doing what needs to be done to ensure the future of the planet? Have we damaged the Earth to the point where it wont be able to make it to the next level of evolution?\n\nAt any rate, the question simple is:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf and I have been in a relationship for 2 years now (in love, thinking about a future together). The past 4 months we've been continuously arguing. Here's an example of her arguments:\n\n1. Started a fight because I interrupted her while talking (I don't often interrupt her)\n2. Told her I won't be able to make it an event at her work because of my work (she gets very upset and tells me that makes her not want to share her life with me)\n3. One time shell called me in the morning chatting, she said she just finished breakfast, so I joked by saying \"I'm proud of you! :)\"...She took it as an offense and sarcastic comments, even though I said I was joking\n4. If I don't text her during my 8am-5pm work hours, she gets upset saying that I wasn't thinking about here\n5. The other day she lied to me that she lost her phone, then the other day said that she was joking (to get my \"caring\" attention), so I got upset at her lying...then she gets upset at me for \"making a big deal out of it\"...\n....and many more...This is just a fraction of all the stuff that happens, all of the same calibre. It happens at least once every 72 hours. \n\nNot to mention:\n* she went through my phone 3 times before as well as my e-mail. \n\n* She created a fake OkCupid account to see if I'm still on that site (I'm not, since we met on it). \n\n* She occasionally looks at my exes facebook pages (one time I was using her laptop to check my facebook, and as I was typing facebook.com the Chrome auto-complete showed facebook URLs of my exes that she's not even friends with)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My dad wasn't always a great dad. When I was younger, he was mean and abusive (verbally, and once physically) to me and my brothers. I moved out at 16 and didn't speak to my family for a very long time. \n\nFast forward a decade, and there was a tragedy that brought us back together. (My husband and daughter were killed in a car accident)\n\n5 years ago, I started re-building my relationship with my dad. We were both older, and sorry for things that were done and said, and we made amends. \n\nHe is now laying in a VA Hospice with cancer in his lungs, liver, and pancreas. His condition is rapidly deteriorating and he's already called for clergy. \n\nToday might be the last time I could see him alive. I am also 4 hours away from him. My last memories of my father are him being strong and tall and saying goodbye to me as I take the last of his belongings in the back of my truck back to Austin. He gave me a big strong hug and told me that he loves me very very much. At 31, I finally have the relationship with my father that I always wanted, and he's going to die within the week most likely. \n\nI don't know if I can handle the drive there, knowing what I am about to see, and then leaving him and driving the 4 hours back home, by myself. I don't know if I want my last memories of my dad being this sick feeble old man laying in bed not even able to speak more than a sentence at a time. \n\nAm I a horrible, coward of a daughter (only daughter) for not seeing him in his last days?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend asked me for the password to my computer. There isn't one, and I told her as much. \n\nApparently after she got done shopping, she got into my email and searched herself. She found some older gchats from a few months ago where I had talked to a couple of old friends about some fights we had. I didn't say anything derogatory, just explained what happened. These people live nowhere near us and are not in our current shared social circle, and very close to me and not judgmental, so I thought it would be ok to get things off my chest. I also had an email exchange from a while back when we had broken up and (subsequently) gotten back together with my mother, who was just saying it sounds like we just got in a fight, she really likes her, and if we get back together, she'd be happy.\n\nThis very much angered her, and she claims she can never look at those people without feeling shame. Right now she's apartment hunting.\n\nI guess my main question here is if I did anything that terrible. I understand her embarrassment, but it wasn't anything bad, just arguments, that I was talking about. And she's flat out told me she's complained to her friends about me. Friends we used to see often.\n\nThe other thing is that it took a bit of effort for her to find those. Even just searching her name, she had to go through a few hundred messages to find anything incriminating. It feels very violating, honestly.\n\nThanks for reading. I'd like honest feedback so I don't repeat the same mistakes. I don't know if the relationship is salvageable though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This wont be a very long post. I don't like alcohol, not drinking it or anything but there's a lot of bad, bad history I have with it. I had to check my dad into rehab a few months ago and it's damaged a lot of friendships and family relations I've had. My girlfriend and I had this talk a long time ago, and re-affirmed it since that she wouldn't drink alcohol anymore (not at my request, but she knows I hate it). \n\nThere's a lot of back-story to this, but basically for the past few months she's been situationally depressed living with an emotionally abusive mom and dealing with the fact that I've had a different girlfriend in the past (there's a lot of back story to this too, she has low self esteem and doesn't find herself very special :( ). \n\nAnyway, she told me tonight that she drank. I'm glad she told me that she did instead of keeping it a secret, but it hurt, it really did. I guess it's just a trust thing for me.\n\nAnyway, am I over-reacting? Should I just let it go? Do you think it's a one time thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A friend of mine goes to to dance up in Nashville every now and then and recently met an older couple. She says this couple is very friendly and they really get along well. But last Saturday she said that the wife in the couple came up to her and looked terrified and demanded that she talk to my friend in private. The lady goes on to say that she believes in reincarnation and believes that my friends soul and her soul are connected and she goes on to tell my friend that she forgives her for anything she has ever done that might hurt her and then asks my friends forgiveness. She said that their souls being connected was not a bad thing but they had to stop some spirits of some kind. I am in a genuine state of WTF right now and am wondering if you guys have any clue as to what religion or belief system this lady follows.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I were done with dinner and decided to go to this micro brewery bar. We walk in and this large bearded bartender yells at us \"We're closed!\" I think \"Uhh what? it is Saturday at 6:30.\" However, the bar was pretty empty and it looked like majority of the patrons were tabbing out. I, thinking this is probably a joke, continue to walk in with my girlfriend. The burly bartender again yells, \"We're closed!\" but a little louder this time. I think \"Eh, well that is weird\" and start to walk outside and say to my girlfriend \"Come on baby, they're closed.\" As I am just about to get to the door I hear someone, probably the other few bargoers, telling me that the bartender was just joking. I get outside and my girlfriend says \"Come on in he was just joking.\" I say \"Fuck that that was disrespectful. I can spend my money somewhere else.\" Later, she told me she wished I would have sucked it up and gone in and gotten a beer with her but wasn't overly upset with me for how I acted.\n\nA part of me feels like a douche, but another part feels like I was justified to be somewhat insulted and not wanting to spend my money there. I felt stupid for believing that they were closed and being able to be tricked and didn't want to go in and hang out with those people. What do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last June I started dating my best friend. Before we started dating I had told her I was looking for a girlfriend, but nothing long term (3-6 months). We get along great, and I really enjoy her company, but I just don't want to settle down at such a young age, especially in NYC. She also expressed doubts that I was in it for the long haul, and has expressed that she wants to move away from the city, but that I was her anchor. Hopefully now she can make a decision that's not based on whether I go with her or not.\n\nIt sucks because I still love her so much, just not in the way she wants me to. She is the nicest person on the planet and her reaction to me breaking it off was heart-wrenching. I could tell this hit her out of the blue, and all she kept saying was she hoped this was a nightmare that she could just wake up from. All I want to do is make her feel better, but I'm afraid that if I don't give her space she won't move on. Anyone been in a similar circumstance? Any advice would be very helpful", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey so I moved to a new country for work. Here I met this girl who did the same thing. We met about three months ago when she moved here and when she did she had been with a boyfriend for about a year and at the time I didn't care much.\n\nWe've been getting closer to each other to the point we she or I stay over basically every weekend and spend a lot of time together. So I've gotten quite attached to her and some days I believe she has as well. I know she still talks to the other guy and I actually understand it. She says they are not bf and gf anymore (I didn't ask for this, she just came with this after the xmas break) but I can imagine you don't just undo a relationship like that overnight.\n\nSo I have some weeks when she is super lovely but then she suddenly starts being distant and hard to reach for a few days. It drives me crazy because she has been so non-vocal about everything. She just says she is tired and prefers to stay home than doing something with me. And then the weekend comes and she is all nice again. \n\nThis is driving me quite crazy and I've \"decided\" to break it up like three times and every time I decide to wait for a while because a part of me tells me that in the great scheme of things waiting for her for a while might be worth it. Another part of me tells me she is just having fun with me and I am idiot.\n\nAnyway, I don't know if I just wanted to share this or to actually just get some advice. Anything will work at this point to be honest. Am I an idiot? \n\nJust for clarification, we are both staying in the country for at least two more years and the bf does not have plans to move to this country so that is out of the question.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was 9 years old and during a time my brother used to take me with him to spend the afternoon at his friend's house. There was this guy who had a house with a big ramp that goes to the garage (which was also the main floor of the house).We would ride a bike as fast as we could all the way down the ramp until the front tire hits a wall (not very clever I know, it was hell fun tho). \nIt turns that we only had this old bike with a broken seat - it didn't have anything covering it up, so the three tiny irons that work as the structure were exposed.\nAfter riding the ramp a couple times I noticed that something went wrong. At that moment, I only noticed a small cut on my thigh. But I started to feeling that there was something else . I was afraid of finding out what actually happened and I was feeling really embarrassed to ask for help (I thought my brother's friends would make fun of me or something). So I stayed behind a small wall near the gate while they were playing on the street (I didn't have a plan, I don't know what I was doing lol). Then a neighbor sees me there, hiding and crying. She immediately tells my brother about it, I don't say what is going on so he takes me home. Once mom gets home I have to tell her. When she looks at it she got desperate and 30 min later I am at the emergency room getting 9 stitches on my scrotum. \nI got a Y-shape scar.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is often lonely when I'm not around and it doesn't help that she doesn't have any close friends anymore. She's the kind of person to latch onto one close friend, but unfortunately she doesn't have those friends anymore (most of them weren't great people so she grew out of those relationships).The problem is that I am the one she latches on to and I'm not always around. She wants friends of her own to be able to hang out with when I'm busy or with my friends and she also wants to get into some hobbies again. This all sounds pretty good, but she's pretty terrified of people—especially girls—and she's overly critical of her abilities, leading to her quitting out of intimidation.\n\nHow can I encourage her to pursue these things or what kinds of advice can I give? I've been really working on not blaming recently and I feel like saying \"you need to do this\", \"you need to do that\", blah blah, might make her feel less motivated. She used to really be into writing and I told her I'd write some stuff with her (even though I'm trash). This, she said, will give her some confidence in her writing again. My worry is that she'll just end up relying on this so when I'm not around she won't find joy in it anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in a high school marching band. Today, we were preparing for our first marching contest. It was 7:30 in the morning, it had rained the previous night, and it was about 50 degrees outside. We went out to the football field to practice for the contest, and as I got there, I had realized I had forgotten my marching shoes. Our director was coming out onto the field, so, in the panic I was in, I decided I had no choice but to take my shoes and socks off and go barefoot. I walked onto the field, and there was about an inch of incredibly cold water all across the field. Almost instantly, I felt a certain numbness in my feet, but I kept on. Everyone was either amused or horrified by my decision.\nI did this for 20 minutes. I could not feel my feet at all after a while. When I couldn't stand it any more, I asked my director if I could just wear my non-suitable shoes. He was angry at my forgetfulness, but when he saw my multi-colored feet, he felt pity for me and let me wear them.\nIt's 10:30 at night right now, and no, I don't have frostbite or hypothermia. The only thing that came out of this experience is that I look like a bamf in front of my friends.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As the title says, my girlfriend and I have run into some issues over the past few months. When we first started dating we had sex nearly every day, but that has dropped precipitously, to MAYBE twice a month now. Part of this is due to circumstance (we both held time-intensive internships this summer), but part is simply due to her lack of sex drive. It has gotten to the point where she almost never makes any sexual advances, and seems to have sex only to appease me. Obviously, this is not a sustainable thing for me.\n\nThis a complicated, sensitive topic for her (and me) though, as she was sexually assaulted a few years ago (before we started dating), so I am hesitant to bring this up to her. We have had a couple of conversations and she assures me that she is still very much attracted to me, and loves me, but that her body just can't have sex, and she is still affected by what happened to her. She also added that at the beginning of the relationship she didn't want to say anything, but that the amount of sex we were having \"was just too much for her to handle\". I do believe she is still attracted to me and loves me, and everything else about our relationship is great, but I can't help feeling like we've simply turned into best friends who occasionally have sex, as opposed to romantic partners.\n\nThe question here is: how do I handle this? I feel as though speaking to a psychologist might help her a bit. It's clear that she's still affected by what happened to her. I just want to go about it in the most gentle, sensitive way possible, without offending her or forcing her to re-visit things she doesn't want to. I am committed to the relationship and I want to help us, but sex is a part of that, and I feel like this is something which needs to be addressed, for her sake and mine.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone! \nA little about myself, I'm 25 married (wife also 25) and we have both always had some serous wanderlust. Recently we came up with the idea of leaving our old life behind and buying a motorhome and go wander. We both are dissatisfied with our jobs and have no possesions that we are terribly attached to. \nWe plan on leaving Jan 2013 \nOur main idea was to work on selling as much stuff as we can until the day our lease is up (July 1st). By then we plan on having our motorhome and living out of that in her parent's driveway (lame I know) and continue working at our jobs until our tenative leave date. This will allow us to make extra money - almost entirely to be dumped into savings and to pay off any remaining debt. Then with only a month or so before we leave, we sell both our cars and wave goodbye to our old lives for a while. \nThe trip is going to be open ended meaning we don't have a definite return date but our guess is probably a year. \nWe plan to stop in towns and get basic labor jobs once in a while to supplement our savings. She's excellent with money and can stretch a dollar. Also at the advice of [Cheap RV Living] we can also find jobs at campgrounds doing maintenance in exchange for a free site and after a determined amount of hours: cash. \nOur biggest concern so far is lack of health insurance. Which to me, is nothing, I lived half my life without insurance and I rollerbladed, skateboarded, etc. \nWhen we decide we had enough we plan on either heading back to our hometown or to another town we found along the way and living out of the RV but having real jobs until we can afford an apartment and rebuild our lives again. We both have handy skils I'm a truck driver and she's a certified English teacher. \nWhat I'm asking is what else should I be worried about? Ideally, I'd like to hear from people who have done something similar.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well,my girlfriend(f16) have sociophobia,everytime when we are not outside,we MUST be at her home,she never come to my home,\nshe tell me that she is afraid of that something will happen (stomach ache,fear,etc. - her symptoms),so i am okay with\nthat we go to her home.\n\nUntil yesterday,at morning she texted me that we wont be together that day because she going to sleep to her friend (f23) and she come today,it first,i was like \"Okay honey,take care of yourself),but inside of me,i am \"mad\" and feel decieved.\n\nWhy decieved? Because at my home,when i want to ho to my home with her,we are everytime alone which shoud help her about \nthat symptoms,but she always refuses,thanks to that she doesnt even know my parents (i know almost all her family because we are always at her home..) after 8 months of being tohether in relationship.\nAnd also, when she went sleep to that friend,there was also a party,maybe 10 people (5f/5m) and one of guys that were there was..well...her earlyer crush (?)..she said that if she was older she would already be with him...and it look like she didnt had any symptoms at that party at all,she even told me how they both had a little perverted talk(if i would do that,a wrangle would be already here...)\n\nP.S.: non-native english here,please dont blame me :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a male. \nOne of my best friends was over and he was spending the night. He was using my computer earlier in the night to go on facebook and he fell asleep with his account still open.---\n\nRecently I had a hard breakup with someone that meant everything to me. She was very conflicted about ending things and always stayed vague and nebulous about her reasons. The most solid reason she said she couldn't be with me was because of our difference in faith, or rather my lack of faith in contrast to her faith. That I would bring her down in her faith and draw her away from God. I supported her completely in whatever she believed and I made a point not to pester her about it or make any objection/arguments against her faith. Anyway, there always seemed to be something in the way of her expressing her feelings for me completely.\n\n---back to me having access to my friends facebook account... I was curious and I looked at some of the messages between my friend and my ex-girlfriend. I searched the whole of 12,000 messages between them for my name and it turns out that I was a common conversation topic between the two of them. Specifically, my friend telling her that I was wrong for her and that my feelings for her were not authentic. He also made a point to tell her whenever she mentioned her feelings for me that she didn't have any real feelings for me and that she should brush them off and try to create a distance between herself and I.\n\nI did all of this while he was sleeping not a few feet away from me in my bed. I didn't fall asleep until 8 something AM and I haven't mentioned it to him at all yet. \n\nIt was dishonest for me to go snooping at that level but it was relieving in a way to understand what was causing her strange behavior and vague tones. I have no idea what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a stay at home mom right now (not a permanent thing) with two kids not in school yet. I breastfeed and am up 2 -3 times during the night with the children. I never get a full night sleep. My husband works long shifts five days a week, and leaves for work early so he has 20-30 minutes of personal time before work. By the time he gets home, they are both asleep.\n\nHe has recently stopped doing chores and seems to expect me to do them all. For chores, I had asked him to take out the garbage (I get it together and leave it near the door) and to wash/dry the laundry. I said I would fold. We don't have laundry in our unit and the garbage is a short walk, and it's a huge inconvenience trying to carry the kids and a laundry pail or garbage bags -especially given the ice, snow and cold. He usually cooks once or twice a week but makes a mess and doesn't wipe down the stove or clean the pots. I have talked to him before, and he says he just forgets sometimes. \n\nI know as a stay at home mom I should take on most of the housework, and have decided to start using a cleaning schedule so it doesn't seem so overwhelming, but I really feel like he needs to help more. I just don't know what is fair to ask. I need to sit down and talk to him since he isn't doing anything, and am wondering if it's okay to ask him to help out with more than those two things. For now, with two at home, breastfeeding, and taking care of feeding/diapers at night, what do you think is an appropriate split? I feel clueless.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background: I'm 22, f, 5'4\" and currently around 253 lbs. Over the last 3 weeks I've cut out soda and sweet tea completely, started eating more fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and less white bread, reduced my calorie intake (down to 1390) started doing cardio at the gym (3 mph on the treadmill at an incline of 1, for about an hour, every day). Thanks to this, I've lost 15 lbs from my starting weight of 268.\n\nNow, I'd like to start strength training so that I'm not only losing fat but maintaining/building muscle so that when I finally do lose all this weight I won't just be a nasty, wrinkly mass of skin. I plan on strength training 3 times a week. \n\nWhile at the gym earlier today (last night?), I wrote a list of weight machines I should use and I just wanted to get peoples' opinions on my routine and if there are any other machines I should use or any muscle groups I neglected in selecting the machines. \n\nBEFORE anyone says I shouldn't use weight machines, I'd just like to say I'd prefer them because I'm uncomfortable using free weights and that's just that. When I'm more confident in my ability to keep form while lifting, I'll go to free weights, until then, I'd like to know that I'm not going to drop anything on myself or peel my muscles from my bones (I'm quite attached to them, you know!) because I didn't do something right.\n\nAnyways, here's my list of machines:\nLeg press\nHip abduction/adduction\nLower back (that's all the machine said)\nCompound row\nVertical chest press\nPullover\nOverhead", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am friends with a soft spoken guy - we'll call him Chad - in our social group (all friends from college) who is in an emotionally abusive relationship. His girlfriend Christina pushes him around, dictates his schedule, speaks on his behalf, and has no qualms with tearing him down in front of everyone. A few incidents have occurred over the past few months that have really made the fact that Christina is emotionally manipulative and abusive hit home. The only problem? Chad either doesn't see it, or he's too afraid to leave for fear that we will choose her over him.\n\nMy boyfriend and I want to help Chad, but we worry that Christina is keeping him from interacting with us. Our invitations to him to hang out have gone unanswered and he often seems nervous to speak with us when in a group setting. We've decided that the best course of action is to get him alone, to talk to him, and to tell him that we are here, we see what's going on, and we want to help. He won't be alone if he leaves Christina; he will still have us (at the very least) there as a support system.\n\nOf course, if this goes badly (if Chad doesn't leave and Christina finds out what's happened), it will cause massive chaos in our friend group. We will probably be unceremoniously punted from our social circle. \n\nWhat should we do? My boyfriend and I have discussed this at length, and we genuinely feel that someone needs to reach out to him and let him know that he is not alone. Emotional abuse can be absolutely soul searing, and we want to offer him a life jacket if he needs one. At the same time, we realize that this may be the beginning of the end of our group of friends. How can we approach this delicately?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start this off with the worst part that has proved to be the most damning - I have a Misdemeanor Theft II on my record in Oregon from 2009. \n\nTo be honest, that instance completely changed my train of thought and goals. I was a pre-kinesiology major at the time and, after going through my conviction, transferred colleges and graduated with a Sociology degree focusing on Crime and Juvenile Delinquency. I graduated in 2011, and worked at a \"stepping-stone\" job until I was recently laid-off because of the lack of work. \n\nWell, TOMORROW I have a group interview with the State of Oregon's Department of Child Protective Services. I can tell you how qualified I am for this entry-level position but, to be honest, I can't stop thinking about how shitty it looks to have a Theft II Misdemeanor on my record. \n\nI've really turned my life around since 2009, have absolutely no drug history, and have chosen to go into a career field where I have the opportunity to make an impact on at-risk youth who may need to see that, even with a criminal record, you CAN be successful. \n\nI'd appreciate anyone with a related history or advice to chime in. I've never had a group interview before and have no idea what to expect.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The main story that stuck with me involved my roommate and this guy that everyone in the band absolutely hated. For the life of me, I can't remember his name, so I'll call him \"Dave\". Dave apparently was an asshole to everyone and if there's anything to take away from this story, it's to not piss off band geeks.\n\nMy roommate's high school band was traveling by bus to a school in a different city for a competition. Dave had been messing with the people in band all week and as a band member himself, would be accompanying them to the competition. The bus ride was going to take around 4-5 hours and a group of trombone guys (including my roommate) decided it would be a great opportunity to get back at Dave. They sneaked into the band room, opened Dave's trombone case, and stole his mouthpiece.\n\nOne by one, the guys took turns jacking off into it. One of the them stuck it up his ass. Another pissed on it.\n\nThey made sure to wipe off the more obvious fluids, but didn't rinse the thing out. Instead, they stuck it back into Dave's case and watched as it was loaded into the storage section under the bus. There, the mouthpiece sat. Did I mention it was May? It was fucking May. For 5 hours, that mouthpiece sat roasting in shit and piss and semen like a fetish-loving prostitute in the trunk of a car. When the bus finally stopped, Dave took it out and played his trombone as if not a single thing was wrong.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been debating on the topic on if I should end my relationship. I'm not sure if what I feel for (let's call her Kelly) Kelly is genuine love, yet I have a strong feeling that it really is. Perhaps it's just because I'm going through high school and this is just the result of raging developing testosterone, but I digress. The kicker is that Kelly is near-depressed and mainly relies on me for emotional and moral support because of her abusive family and she can be self-abusive if she reaches a certain point of sadness (Note: when we broke up before it was because of her abusive father getting mad at her and out of emotion she broke up with me since I didn't come to offend her. In retrospect, she felt guilty about it and decided to re-start our relationship. She said she became a shut-in and didn't eat for two days, looking back that seemed somewhat ridiculous.) I feel like she also expects too much of a person like me with no type of job and her unneeded materialistic ideals are malicious to both my psyche and my bank account (I have no job). More and more, we are having arguments and fights starting for no apparent reason; just earlier today she got angry at me since I decided to hang out with my friends instead of her (but I was going to see her in a few days anyways). I also feel like that she'll become terminally depressed since she tends to be over-dramatic about things and do dangerous things to herself... I care for her, but her security, well-being, and health may be in danger if I end our relationship. Please respond, Reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I just got over a breakup, and that's swell. I'm not entirely sure what to do now though. I'm stuck in highschool for another semester until I can get into college, and I feel like there aren't more fish in the sea. I've already dated a myriad of girls, sexted a bunch more, and now I really have no idea how to find another girl for a go at a long-term (at least until college) relationship. I've already taken my chances with all the girls I'm interested in in my classes and whom I've met at lunch. So how can I go about meeting new people in my last year here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For around a year now I've started realising that more and more people are ignoring me or being un neccesarily harsh. I am in secondary school and am often bullied by a majority of people. Around six months ago I made friends with some people who I play video games with (mostly league of legends).\n\nI used to play with these people daily and talk on Skype a lot, I really appreciated their company. A while ago I asked people if they wanted to go to town and do something, everyone said no, this was extremely strange as they always go. From that point on I have realised that no one has started a conversation with me, infested this out over a school holiday, not messaging anyone, I got messages from one person.\n\nThis one person happens to be a girl that I like at the moment and so a small bit of conversation was welcome. But this didn't last long, for a while now not even she will start a conversation. I've essentially given up on people. I often message said person but replies seem half hearted etc. and I know I don't have a chance anyway. Today I asked why she still bothered talking to me, her words: \"why do I bother talking to you? Because I care, and I care because I do care and I can care if I want to.\"\n\nNow this pushes the line because I'm pretty damn sure that its a lie, looking at conversations and other aspects. \n\nI came here because I'm really not sure what to do next... Do I try to talk to people? Or what? I just needed somewhere to vent really, thanks for any words of advice :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met a few months ago and have become friends. Unfortunately we don't get to see each other often because we live on opposite ends of town. Nevertheless, I've started developing feelings for him and never initiated because I take things slow. \n\nI've been gathering the courage to speak to him more frankly about moving forward, but now that I recently found out I'll be moving in 8 months I wonder if it's worth it. I know a LDR probably wouldn't work out, and don't believe he'd move because he's established himself at a great job. Sure, there's always the option of having a fling, but I'm not really into that.\n\nIdeas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the past few week my girlfriend has been wanting to go to a haunted house. She has asked my multiple times and I had curved the question by jokingly saying \"Yeah, only if someone holds my hand.\" And I even said that I'm not really into scary things.\n\nThe truth is that I have trouble coping with large amounts of anxiety and I barely even watch scary movies because of it.\n\nSo about a week ago I said I would go to a haunted house, at my girlfriend's request. Today, the day we were supposed to go, I told her I was nervous and I didn't know if I wanted to go. I told her I wouldn't enjoy the experience because of my anxiety, but I would still go if she wanted to. \n\nMy girlfriend seemed to take me confiding in her more as me letting her down than anything else. She started talking about how I should have said no to begin with, and why did I wait until the last minute to say I would be uncomfortable. \n\nI apologized and said if you really want to go, I will still go, but it just might not be enjoyable for me. She just shut down after this and is continuing to focus on me letting her down. \n\nI then suggested that we should still go out and do something, even if she wants to stay in because I wouldn't be comfortable at the haunted house. She initially rejected my suggestion, but eventually said, \"You plan what we'll do then. I just wanted to do something that we couldn't do any other time of the year. Where could we even go out to dinner that we haven't already been.\" (This is not verbatim, but just the gist of what she said)\n\nI understand I could have communicated more directly when she first brought up the haunted houses a few weeks ago. I take responsibility for that. \n\nMy question is: What do I do now that my girlfriend is so disappointed that it almost seems like she's depressed? How do I make this into a good night, or is that not possible anymore?\n\nAny additional feedback unrelated to my primary questions is appreciated as well. Thank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex were together for almost 2 years when we broke up 5 months ago. The breakup was mutual and we decided to try and remain friends. During this period I felt really happy to be single, I felt really good about myself. Over a period of time me and my ex started arguing badly, and I could see that staying friends was not healthy for her as she was starting to become obsessive over me. We decided to go no contact just before I left for university and since then I have been a mess, crying everyday and non stop thinking about her. \n\nI can't sleep, because I just think about her and my mind starts racing about regrets and what I could have done to make the relationship work. I am coming back home for Christmas in a few weeks, and all I can think about is contacting her. I know I shouldn't contact her but it's all I think about and I just don't know what to do to get over her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so I know this isn't like the most major thing, but I just feel good about listening to my gut and stuff, and doing a good thing. So we're both in our early 20s. Me and my older brother haven't had the best relationship for most of our lives, and though it has been getting better lately we still are kind of figuring out how to be open with each other and stuff, and he hasn't said anything about it. Not that I would really expect him to, as it really wasn't that big of a deal.\n\nAnyways, I just feel good and want to tell someone without being all high-and-mighty and whatnot.\n\nWe were just on vacation, and we were swimming in the ocean. We had rented out a paddle board, but the winds were kind of strong so we only got one good run in a small bay, then decided to go to a different beach. This beach had bigger waves, and just as much wind. \n\nWe get there and he just gets right in on the paddle board and was out there for just a minute or so before I decided to go swimming. After a few minutes I noticed that he wasn't up on the board anymore so I looked around and saw some flailing arms with a paddle and figured it was him. He steadied up though and began swimming back to shore. I had a thought that he might be struggling but I figured he would be fine.\n\nAfter a minute or two I realize that he's still trying to get back to shore but hasn't made any real progress, so I decide to swim over and see if he needed any help. I get over there and ask if he needed help, but he was too winded to say anything. I asked if he was okay and he still didn't respond. So I just grabbed the board and swam him to the shore while he just hung on and dragged behind. He was tired out of his mind. \n\nHe was totally fine, just tired. Although with the wind that day, who knows what would have happened otherwise. I didn't do anything that crazy, but I helped my brother out, and that feels pretty good.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live in an apartment with four girls. Our university doesn't have class in January, and all three of the others will leave for the month. One of those girls has a cat.\n\nI never wanted a cat. I told them I didn't, but the roommate wouldn't live with us without her cat (she has had it for years, she didn't get it for the apartment) so I agreed. But upon her moving in I said I wanted no part of paying for the cat's expenses or caring for it. It even cost me $800 in laptop repairs a couple weeks ago when it knocked water on my computer. I'm still nice to it, I even pet it occasionally, but cats aren't my thing.\n\nSo I have zero desire to care for this cat. It if was just feeding it dry food I might consider it, but it's litter box duty too. My roommate asked me by saying, \"Will you take care of Tiger in January? I'll pay you, but less than I'll pay someone else to come do it.\"\n\nIf I say no, she'll have to hire a service to come take care of it, which makes me feel a little bad but...it's not my cat. Am I jerk if I say no?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had a second interview with this company and I'm just baffled by the manager that interviewed me. With a good guess I'd say he was about 26, and I'm newly 20. Anyways, I was put together very professional-no cleavage was out or heavy makeup. While interviewing me, almost every time he asked me a question he would look down below my face while I was speaking to him. I always look people in the eye so he had to have known I could see what he was doing. But he kept doing it! And when he looked away from me, I would quickly put my hand to my chest to see if anything was there. Nothing. No cleavage, or crumbs, or something weird worthy of staring at. He was so calm and nonchalant about it too. I'm mostly used to this as I developed early and awkwardly in middle school, but when I would catch guys looking it was always instant red face for them. And the quick glance to anywhere but my chest like it never happened. Overall the interview went really well and we connected on growing up in small towns in crappy states and such, and he was very nice to me. I just don't get why some guys (this guy in particular), have no shame or embarrassment doing that. I don't think I would be able to stare at a guys package while knowing he's looking right at me. Especially in a more professional setting.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Link to original post (sorry its long, I'm on mobile): \n\nSo not just 20 minutes ago I had her in my arms, we were enjoying our show that we are watching together (white collar, 10/10 would recommend if you haven't watched it). The episode we are on ends, and I then I stop it from auto switching to the next episode like I always do so we can either decide to talk or watch another episode. I had literally completed this short task, and began to turn my head like I was going to talk with her (although this time I was going to kiss her), when she announced that she better be going. She said she had more studying to do for finals and wants to get to bed early (completely understandable, it IS finals week).\n\nSo that obviously threw me off from kissing her. But in a last effort, I asked her to stay for just a few minutes to talk, which we normally do before she goes anyway, but she insisted that she really did need to go. So no kiss tonight.\n\nHere is where I need advice again. We only have this week till we will be away from each other for winter break. We don't know if we will be able to meet up once more or not. So what do I do, hope for the best? Hope we can meet up one more time, and if not, just leave it? Meet her right before she leaves for break, give her a kiss to think on? Should I try and call and talk to her tonight or another day this week? Should I just give up and not get my hopes up?\n\nI hate it when I catch the feels so easily. Damn me for being so slow on this, and for letting so many opportunities slip by me!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "title is supposed to say the\n\nPossible long post.\n\nMe and my ex husband were married for 14 years we had 4 beautiful children together. i thought we had a good marriage we were high school sweethearts and best friends.\n\nI found out in 2014 that he was having an affair with another woman but that wasn't the worst part. She ended up pregnant with his baby and he left me to be with her.\n\nI was so hurt and broken, he was posting pictures of him and her on Facebook and they looked so happy. we have shared custody and despite what he did he was still a good father.\n\nits been 2 years since our split and (with my daughters encouragement) have gone on a few dates. i have met a few great guys but don't want to rush anything.\n\ntoday i was on Facebook and just out of pure curiosity checked my ex's page. him and her look so happy together and he looks at her the same way he used to look at me. \n\ni continued looking and they announced awhile back that they are engaged and the wedding is soon. i can't help but feel hurt about this after everything he did he gets the happy ending but i feel like i don't.\n\ni don't know how to get rid of these feelings. help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this actually happened a couple years back. Me and my girlfriend had recently just moved in together and had sat down to watch a movie one night. A little ways into the movie she decided it would fun to start tickling me, I'm extremely ticklish so it didn't take long for things to go horribly wrong. I was laying on my stomach and she went for a spot on the back of my leg and in my panic I swung around and managed to knee her in the face.\n\nMostly stunned at first and in some pain she shook it off and we continued to watch the movie, until she noticed a clear like fluid dripping out of her nose. So we went to the emergency room to have her examined and what the fluid turned out to be was cerebrospinal fluid. So the fluid surrounding her brain was leaking causing it to sink on her brain stem and she began to have low pressure headaches.\n\nThey put a drain into her spine to help relieve pressure off of the leak in her skull, but during the procedure the tech had missed his entry point and had mistakenly herniated one of her discs. As a result of this two of her vertebrae collapsed and are now putting pressure on a nerve. It has been over four years since that has happened, she has had a surgery to fix her collapsed septum, and will have several more procedures placing localized pain killers on her nerve endings to help her sciatica she now has as a result of the pressure from her vertebrae. Once they have the sciatica under control they will prepare her spine for surgery and begin the repair process on her vertebrae and herniated disc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm copying this from /r/relationship_advice\n\nMy boyfriends home state is Michigan and he recently (in October) moved here, to NC. We met soon after he moved and we started dating on Thanksgiving night. Last week his mom got into a car accident (minor injuries to her) and is getting sick (I don't know what with). She has to either fix her car or buy a new one, and she's already late on rent. So my bf is moving back home to help her out.\n\nHe told me he wants to get her in a better financial situation, and get himself into a better one too. I understand it fully, and I don't blame him one bit. I just don't want to be in another (I've been in two!) long distance relationship. I can't handle them well. And I know we won't be able to see each other much, and I just feel like its a bad idea. But at the same time I feel a bit selfish and insensitive. Am i?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I made a friend back in the forth grade with duchenne muscular dystrophy more than a decade ago. Since then we have been best friends. I knew early on that he was not long for this world but there was never a given time line. I've watched him from being able to lift his hands above his head to not being able to move them at all. He's always been a good conversationalist as his mouth hasn't weakened due to his condition. Now 25 years old he struggles to sit up for more than an hour at a time. I just spoke with his mother and its beginning to sound like my friend won't make it to the end of the year.\n\nI always pictured him dying of a quick complication or something sudden. I pains me to see him reach this state of being, not being able to do anything he loves but mentally all there to feel the pain and frustration. He has lived a pretty good life given the hand he was dealt, it just doesn't seem right for it to end in frustration.\n\nMy friend is a trooper though. He will sit through his pain in a room of his friends than to lie alone in his room sleeping it off. He had me set up his computer in his room so that his other friends would still have something to hang around on even though his confined to his bed for most of the day.\n\nMy friend and I are really close but his death has never been a subject we've discussed and I never hope to. I think we both enjoy discussing video games and televisions show more than wasting time talking about unchangeable facts. \n\nHow have you dealt with the on coming inevitable end of a close friend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A couple of weeks ago my [23M] girlfriend [20F] of eight months met a random guy [20s M] through some of her friends at a bar. I have never met him but they quickly added each other on facebook and are already sending each other snapchats daily.\n\nI haven't confronted her with this yet because I'm afraid she'll find me over jealous or something but I don't think it is appropriate for her to be sending so many pics back and forth with a guy even if they are just friends especially since they've met so recently.\n\nShould I talk to her about this and tell her to go easy on snapchatting this new guy or should I chill since I haven't seen any of those snaps therefore it could be nothing to worry about?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not the coolest or the scariest, your most previous one you remember. \n\nHere's mine from two nights ago: \n\nI was in my room and I woke up around 12ish, it was my birthday. There were no indications of it--no balloons or decorations--Dream Me just knew. I looked out the window and it wasn't my street. I was in my room but the neighborhood was not mine. Also, I think my Asian friend was walking down the sidewalk (Dream Me deduced that bitch was leaving my birthday party early). \nAnyway, I pulled on one of my teeth and half of it came off. It was disintegrating like a cement putty almost. Then once I thought I had pulled out all of them, I got really excited because I could finally rub my gums together like a baby or an old person. In addition, I remember being really excited because having no teeth meant I could eat pudding for the rest of my life. But then I realized my bottom teeth were still there and my top teeth still had the cement-like upper half. \nThat's all I remember; holding the remnants of my chalky teeth wondering if I could still eat pudding forever even though I still had 75% of my teeth. \n\nAnyway, I thought this was real life because I couldn't find toothpaste the night before and hadn't brushed my teeth.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off, I'm on mobile so sorry for any errors.\n\n I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 and a half years and things are going great between us. We're both seniors in college and we're just honestly so excited to see what life has in store for the both of us. But I'll just admit this here: I've been sneaking him in so we can spend alone time with each other. My parents didn't know any of this was happening until my dad came home super early from work Friday and caught us. I was in the shower while my boyfriend was in my room, which is downstairs. I opened the window and made him hop my fence before my dad could see him. Needless to say, my dad and my mom have been very disappointed in me (for good reason) but my dad built up his anger against me and let it all go today. When he drove us home from the baby shower my sisters and I went to, he yelled at me for not picking up my phone whe he called it. My excuse (albeit a bad one I admit) was that I was helping my aunt and the rest of my family clean up their apartment's party room after the baby shower and I couldn't feel my phone vibrate. When we got home, he made faces at me (like he always does when he's angry at someone) he then asked me who came over Friday. I told him that it was a guy. He asked more questions like how long has this been going on, and why did he leave without seeing him. I answered him like \"a while now\" and \"because I was scared about what you would say\". I was crying a little at this point because I was just so scared of him and thats when he lunged at me with his fist. Thankfully my mom came just in time and I told her what happened.\n\nI understand I did something wrong and I really should have told my dad I was dating someone. Because of all these lies and shit I said and done I feel like I really deserved to get punched. I'm also really scared now and I just don't know what to do from here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm currently in the Netherlands for a few months. Everyone over here uses a special Dutch debit card with a chip. Not having one makes life much much more difficult since some places don't accept cash (in euros) or American credit cards.\n\nAs a result, I opened up a Dutch bank account with ING. I have an account back in the US with Chase. Currently, Chase charges me a 3% fee + $5 when I take out money using an ATM. It sucks since I'm a student. What would be the cheapest way to move money from my Chase account to my Dutch account? I'd like to make transfers every few weeks. So far I figure my options are: 1) take out money from ATM every time using my Chase card (incur 3% + $5 fee) and deposit that into my Dutch account, 2) Wire transfer each time I want to move money over (I'm guessing this will be expensive-- anyone know Chase's rates?) 3) Write myself a check and deposit it in the Dutch account (Is there a fee for doing this?) Are there any other options?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In June I took a blood test in Belgium, which among other things checked for TSH levels. The level was 2.9. A month later I took another blood test in my home country, Norway (I'm an expat), which had a score of 1. Both tests were taken at around 11 AM, with no food beforehand (don't know if this is relevant at all). Should the TSH level vary this much? The ranges were the same at both laboratories (0.3 - 4.2). The latter laboratory also tested for Free T4 and Anti-TPO, which came back normal (16 (range: 11 - 22) and 97 (range 50 - 150) respectively). \n\nBackground info:\n\n26 year old Caucasian male, approximately 70 kg, 182 cm. Not taking any medications. Blood pressure 133/86, taken this Monday. Symptoms in no particular order:\n\n* Night sweats which usually come in \"clusters\", occurring about three to four nights in the span of about two weeks. I can then have a month or two without it happening.\n* Frequent bowel movements (at least four times per day)\n* Panic attacks at varying intervals", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had feelings for this girl for quite some time, she knows that he hang out almost daily. She doesn't have a lot of friends and she is having some hard time both financially and medically speaking. We had on an off friendship until i decided to break it up completely ~ 2 years ago (after she said she had no romantic feelings for me whatsoever), an had a relationship with a girl for 9 months, and after breaking it up she appeared in my life out of nowhere again, wanting to hang out and feel leaden on. About a month ago i asked if wants to be more than friends and her reply was \" i don't want to lose you as a friend if we dated and something went wrong\". I'll have helped her and still have both financially and emotionally with almost every breakdown she has had, been there for her supporting her loaned or given her money, payed for food or whatsoever. But every time i feel like things may get serious between us he kind backs-off, Friends and people that know her dont have such a positive thoughts about her, she can be a real bitch. People have said that she is using me and i kinda get that feeling, i know that, but the feeling that i have for her overcome that. I know it sounds stupid but that is the way things are, we chat see and hear each other on daily basis, and i have a dull feeling about it. The reason i post here is your opinions, she knew/knows i have always had feelings for her, and if she doing that solely to use me is she being a \" Giant Cunt\" like everyone else is telling me, how to proceed?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the deal. I'm 16 (m) she's 17 (f, obviously).\nWe've been real close friends for about a year. We have our ups and downs. \n\nMy parents are kind of weird when it comes to me and girls, and they found out that we made out/fooled around a little, and kind of didn't like that...then they found out she offered to take my virginity. They love her to death, and we're crazy about each other, but this whole sneaking around thing sucks. They just don't trust her. Oh, and they're pretty conservative Christians. So am I, but I'm a little more...lenient when it comes to females...\n\nSo, what should I do? I feel horrible lying to my parents about this, and I DO NOT want them to find out that we've been sneaking around for some late night...stuff pretty regularly. Should I just tell them, and try to convince them to approve, or what?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few months ago, my girlfriend had this friend who was crazy over her. Always asking her out and wanting to date her while we were together. She shut him down a few times but he kept trying. She told him that she needed him to stop talking to him after consulting me and another of her friend. He completely ignored her request and kept trying to push himself in her life until she completely forgets about it.\n\nNowadays, they are still talking. He's always stalking her, texting her, joining her when she plays online games, being on Skype calls with her. \n\nI keep asking to Skype call her but she says she's in one with her sister already. 30 minutes later I find out she's in a Skype call with the guy as well. Tells me it's actually a group call and that friend and her sister are both in it.\n\nI'm getting annoyed by his stalker behavior and asked her that she should sometimes tell him to give her space so I can have some privacy with my girlfriend but instead she gets upset over this and won't talk to me. I didn't think that was unreasonable seeing the circumstances, right?\n\nWhat do you guys think? Am I being an asshole? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My written English isn't the best. Please ask for any clarification and I'll respond. I've been dating Julie for about two months and have known her for over a year. She's had boyfriend and I girlfriends but there was a connection. We both were recently single and were talking and one thing lead to another. Now fast forward two months till now. Everything is great but she is showing signs of bi polar disorder. She is intensely happy and excited to the point I start to worry. She sleeps all day and wakes up grogy at one in the afternoon. Three weeks ago she was sleeping very little and was getting pretty moody. All the sex and the dire for it changes from week to week. I have to walk in egg shells in order for her not to snap at me. She doesn't use medicine. But self medicated with pot and sometimes alchol. My question is does anyone have any history with this disorder? How do I apporch her about her disorder? Also when she snaps how do I respond. Currently I just walk away and when we get into arguments I just walk away. I'm no peach either. I have a past and I have problems from it. But I'm a better person and I'm working on bettering my issues.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met a month ago. Everything went awesome. We were \"official\" two weeks later. Everything began fast and furiously. She told me she loved me and said she was SURE, more sure than anything else in her life that I was \"the one\". She trusted me enough to meet and hang out w/ her son. She met my daughter. Everything was great, even the sex. \n\nSo, last Tuesday, I stayed at her house and everything was fine until we got in bed. She went cold. Didn't touch me at all, no sex. Wednesday night, same thing, even sleeping fully clothed this time. Saturday night, same thing once again. I texted her the next morning and asked her to tell me what's going on. She said: \"Maybe we moved to fast. You're such an amazingly sweet guy... I'm just not feeling it as much as I was wanting it to work\"... \n\nI text her and say well let's talk about this because I don't believe you just aren't feeling me; you wouldn't allow me to meet your son if you weren't into me. Told your family about me, etc. She's FIERCELY protective of her son, I can't see her introducing me into his life if she wasn't into me, only to dump me a week later. \n\nShe agreed to dinner but due to somethings we didn't get to meet. She said \"let's talk tomorrow when I'm thinking clearly. I'm overwhelmed. I'm sorry.\" I'm going over her house tonight to talk about it. \n\nWhat do you guys think is going on here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this past Saturday a good friend of mine got married. At the reception he had an open bar, like all good wedding receptions do. Having left my keys and car at a friends place I figured I would go a little harder than usual knowing I wouldn't have to drive.\n\nThe reception started around 5 and ended about 10, so during that time I had become pretty drunk. Because the reception ended so early, a few of us decided to head out and hit up some of the bars downtown. \n\nThis is where the fuck up begins, and most of this I've had to piece together through third party accounts and texts/calls from the night. Heading down there I began to text this girl I had just started seeing and really liked, trying to get her to come meet us. Her and her friends decide to come out, and get there maybe an hour, hour and a half after we did. In that time I had continued to drink and past the black-out point of alcohol consumption. So we meet up, continue drinking, and around 2:00am the bars close and I hitch a ride back to the girls place. All I remember from being at the girls place is being trashed on their couch and at one point just deciding I was gonna leave. I walked out the door thinking I would walk home, about 20 miles away. Luckily I had some sense, and somehow ordered an Uber ride and got home around 4-4:30am.\n\nRoommates weren't home, and my keys were still at my friends place. Amazingly, all luck goes against me and my phone dies shortly after getting there. So I decide to just pass out in front of my apartment and hope my roommates get home early. They don't, and I end up walking to a 7-eleven to get a taxi to go get my keys and car. Finally get into my apartment around noon, charge my phone, and immediately text the girl apologizing for anything stupid I might have done and that I didn't really remember anything. All I get back is \"It's fine\" and haven't heard anything from her since. So now I'm going crazy thinking I ruined a relationship before it even had a chance to start.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, Reddit, I have a query for you. I am twenty years old, I have worked for the same company building high voltage electrical components for two years, I have good job security here, my employer, and the owner of the company like me personally, and are satisfied with my work. It's somewhat of a dead-end however. The best paid technicians, which is what I am, only make $35-40k a year. I could stay there and be financially secure, and make enough to get by, and facilitate some lesser hobbies of mine, but I don't think i'd ever truly be happy working there, as my co-workers make it somewhat high-stress. \n I've lived in mid michigan my entire life, A close friend of mine has been on a few different internships to Aspen Colorado over the past few years, and she asked if i'd like to move out there with her. She says i'd love it, and quite frankly, I think that I would. I would love a fresh start in a new place, with new people, I'm a generally well liked enough person, and would have little to no problem making friends anywhere new. Should I seek employment there, and move on out to colorado on a whim, or should I stay here and continue to work for the same company, and not experience any other areas?\n I would like advice on this from anyone who's ever made a big move, to a new place, with little or nothing to go on. I have about six thousand dollars in cash saved up, that I could use for the initial move and expenses, but is it worth it? Should I pick up and move half way across the country simply on a hunch? I know i'll never be truly happy at my current job, but for all I know this whole thing could go crashing down in flames, and I would be broke, jobless, and a hell of a long ways from home, and the little close family that I have. This plan has just started forming today, I apologize for the lengthy post.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As I was walking to work today, I see a seedy looking character holding a bag running towards me. Roughly 15 meters behind him there was a lady chasing him.\n\nI immediately assumed the bag he was holding was the woman's purse and he was robbing her. Thinking quickly, I attempted a Good Guy Greg and went to stop the guy as he ran past me. However, my best intentions were all for naught, as he completely knocked me over.\n\nInstead of him trying to keep on running, he started yelling at me and repeated that 'he should punch my face in'. Turns out, he was actually running to stop the bus and that the lady behind him was his wife.\n\nI apologized, (still lying on the ground) and got up and went to work. haven't told anyone in person because I'm too embarrassed because I was an idiot, and because I almost got beaten up.\n\nAnyone else have any Socially Awkward Penguin stories?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone,\n\nFirst of all, I´d like to ask if this that I´m going to tell you is a \"normal\" procedure to you. I´ve had three serious relationships, and when I realize I may not be in love anymore, I usually do the same thing over and over again.\n\nI´m a very caring person, I love to make my girlfriend feel like she is the luckiest and happiest person alive, treating them with respect, care and giving them the most of me. So, for everyone outside the relationship, it may look obvious that I´m completely in love with my gf. \n\nWhat happens is, at some point I start realizing that I don´t truly love her (I guess I´m still growing on this, as when get into a new relationship, I can understand things better clearer than before), and I have a really hard time with letting the girl go, as I, by that time, have the deepest connection and the greatest relationship with her. \nSo what I do is, I keep being a \"great boyfriend\", and I let the relationship last beyond reasonable, and keep all the obvious feelings and thoughts of lack of love to me. \n\nOf course the relationship eventually ends, but I´d like to last, do any of you have trouble with letting go, and with having to be reasonable towards your SO? As I´ve said, I honestly feel like I´m a great boyfriend, but keeping those feelings of \"this is not true love\" only for me is obviously disrespectful, in the long term, towards my SO.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "24f 29/m Relationship 2 years. I'm on a scouting trip for about 6 weeks in another state, and my boyfriend just doesn't want to have sex. I'm lucky if I can get it out of him about once every two weeks, and I'm going nuts. I've sat down with him and told him that I would like/need more sex, and he has acknowledged me, but I still have to initiate everything. I asked him if he would initiate more, and he said he would when he feels like it but he NEVER does. Our relationship has always been like this. I really do love him, but this one thing is killing me.\n\nI have a business contact who is putting some serious moves on me, and the deep ache I have desperately wants me to give in. No emotions, no connections, just sex.\n\nI could never understand what would drive anyone to cheat, the horror it is to me is still just that: horrific. But I'm 24 and sexually starved.\n\nWhat the fuck do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so first off let me just say that things are going great. We've been on dates, we hang out loads and we genuinely really really like each other (maybe even love?).\n\nUp till now, everything sorta felt like we've been climbing up this relationship ladder, but right now it seems like, short of marriage and children, we're as high up as we can be. I guess what I'm trying to ask is - what do we do now?\n\nDo we just keep on going as things are (it's definitely not stale yet btw) or what? I guess maybe I also don't know how much time I should try to spend with her coz I don't wanna come across as too needy (sounds stupid I know). Basically I'm just a bit confused about what to do with our relationship at this point. Any tips/suggestions would be greatly appreciated! :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone,\n\nThe next summer I will be traveling with my brother, mom and dad from West Canada to East Canada with a camper. We got family in Canada which we wish to visit while traveling from west to east. We are starting at Vancouver then head towards Calgary to meet an uncle of mine and then continue our journey to Toronto which is also our final destination. In Toronto I got a lot more family. We also wish to travel through the Rocky Mountains as that is something we really wish to see.\n\nOther than that we still have no clue what we should visit. I did some research and found a couple of interesting places but I don't know if it is actually worth going to so I decided to ask in here. I have been following this subreddit for quite some time and always enjoy reading the stories and advices people give here. \n\nSo now I am wondering if people who have done this before know where we should have a look. I am really excited to visit Canada, I think it is a gorgeous country but I really want to get the most out of it.\n__________\nSome details:\n\nStart: Vancouver\n\nGuaranteed Stop at: Calgary\n\nEnd: Toronto\n\nDate: early summer, think July.\n\nInterests: the nature, the culture, mountainbiking/hiking (basically experiencing Canada's nature), swimming, no extreme sports (jumping out planes, bungiejumping that kind of stuff).\n____________", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all, I’m not sure if there is even anything I can do with my case, but at this point I am willing to try anything. I was a treasurer for a student accounting society for my university, and when some financial hardship hit, I made the idiotic decision to use my availability of funds to help front some money, with the intent to pay it back. However, before I was able to fully pay it back, the academic advisor of the group took notice and turned it over the university police who took it to the county. I was up front with all of my information and did not try to hide anything from them, knowing that they had access to all copies of the checks and had talked to the other student board members. August 14th, 2014 I was sentenced for a felony count of forgery through a county court. Being 23 and dealing with this completely on my own, I had to take a court appointed attorney, who was able to get the prosecutor to drop the other counts of forgery and embezzlement. In total, the amount in question was $4,000 which was paid as restitution in full amount on the date of sentencing. I never spent time in jail besides the 6 hours while I was waiting arraignment, I never had probation or any other court ordered conditions I unfortunately did not look into the possible pros of hiring an attorney versus taking a court appointed one, and now at 24, cannot find work. I took a year off from school in order to get my life somewhat together, I found a low paying job that did not background check, but as I approach completion of school, I am afraid of the non-existence of finding a job that will allow me to survive on my own. I know that 5 years after sentencing I can apply for expungement, but that also means I just wasted my time finishing school if I can’t even find a job. Some may say that I got off easy, but looking into other similar cases, I see that restitution was paid and charges were dropped. I am just ready to move on with my life and try and bounce back from this but I feel like I’m trying to swim up a waterfall.", "role": "user" } ]

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