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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "While we've only been in a proper relationship for 2 months we've been romantically involved one way or another for the past 6 months. Yesterday she said there was something she wanted to ask me but felt horrible asking it so never ended up asking me. Today I convinced her that it was best for our interests that she just comes out and says it. She was unable to say it over Skype so she just sent me a text, the text said \"Sometimes I get slightly paranoid that like sometimes I think that you might like the idea of having a girlfriend or just having a girlfriend more than you actually like me as a person\".\n\nFirst and foremost I love this girl so much, I'd do anything for her and it hurt me a little that she thinks this. I tried to explain to her how much I like her and there's no one else in the world I'd want to be with but no matter what I say she says the doubt is still in her mind.\n\nI have a feeling that she might be insecure about our relationship because she told me that someone had told her that I wanted to have sex with her when I first met her (this is from one of my friends crazy ex's and is not true). I really like her and I want to make this work but what ever I say she doesn't seem to listen to me, how can I make her believe that I think she is the most amazing person in the world and I want to be with her, not the idea of a relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just turned 28, and I've had a really hard life. As a child, I was sexually, physically and mentally tortured by my mom. As a result, I was diagnosed with severe depression, OCD, PTSD and pretty much the works, which I've been dealing with my whole life. Also have lupus.\n\nI live with my dad who is extremely supportive, and is frankly keeping me alive. I see a therapist, and take 5 different medications. I honestly feel like I haven't made much progress. I don't have a job (therapist says it's not a good idea for me to be working at the moment) and don't have a car (too afraid to drive, and I don't think that'll change ever). I weigh 250 pounds (was 300 at one point), so I'm obese as well. I do get SSI, so I'm covered on health insurance / and some allowance.\n\nI've been playing catch up my entire life, and lately, I've been wanting a relationship with someone. I do have friends (online only), but I also want to date. As far as experience, I haven't held a girl's hand or even had a kiss. I've tried okcupid, and even had a date which I thought went well, until she messaged me later saying I was too fat to find anyone.\n\nWith my situation, how do I get out there and meet people? I know this is a therapist question, but she's been at a loss at what I should do as well. \n\nMy dad insists I'm charming, and have a great personality, but I seriously doubt he'd tell me otherwise.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently, I became aware of the Minecraft Convention scam, \"Meeting of the Mines,\" through BebopVox's [video on the subject.](\n\n(TL;D-Watch: Rich guy by the name of Kevin Roman ran a Minecraft convention. Claimed it was sponsored by Nickelodeon, Red Bull, and Play N Trade. Promised to give away a bunch of stuff, such as 200 Lego Minecraft sets, and 10 Playstation 4's. Only one", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just got a summer job as a research assistant at a federal research facility about 8 hours away from my home. If I play my cards right, there is a good chance I will be able to land a full-time job there when I graduate next year. My girlfriend says she doesn't want to move and doesn't want a long ~~term~~ distance relationship. I understand her completely, she's saying what she wants in life and if I don't fit into her plans then there's no point in continuing our relationship. She's my first real relationship, and my best friend. Should I decline this opportunity and stay with her, or take the job and leave?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend and I have been friends since freshman year of high school. Ever since then, we've been inseparable. We never hadfights or really disagreed on everything. She was really one of my only friends since I was going through deep depression and no one wanted to be around me so I cherish her deeply. However, for around six months, she got a new boyfriend and a new group friends from her work. And I'm really happy for her especially because I went college and she stayed around home and didn't really hang out with anyone else. \n\nHowever, I noticed that she is getting especially distant around me, even when she is with me. When I attempt to ask her to hang out, she'll ignore my texts or say that she is hanging with her new friends or boyfriend. \n\nOnce we had plans and she said she was too sick to hang out but then she has the nerve to come into my work while I'm working with her boyfriend not looking sick at all. If that didn't make me mad enough, for my birthday shortly after, we usually exchange really awesome and thoughtful gifts since our birthdays are around the same time. I got her concert tickets to my favorite band and she got me 20 dollars and a card. I felt extremely embarrassed and sad that she seemed to not put any thought at all. And then shortly after, I was present when she spent over 300 dollars on her boyfriend and new friends when we hung out one day. \n\nSo now that brings up Christmas. After that embarrassing birthday encounter, I don't feel I should get her anything extravagant because despite her ignoring me, she still reminds me about our Xmas tradition which makes me think she might be using me. I'm paranoid at this point, mind me. \n\nAnyway, I don't know what to do at this point about making plans. I'm really sick of getting ignored and lied to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me lay down the details here: we've been dating for three months. Nothing big, I know, but there's been some kinks thus far, and as the title suggests, the big one is the fact she has no drive to text or call first. I've always got to be the one who talks first, or ropes her into a conversation. Usually not an issue, because I'm a relatively charismatic kind of guy, and we typically have an hour or so of conversation daily.\n\nFor me, the kicker is that she just got back from a two week cruise without net or phone service, and has been in Texas for two days, completely able to say hello or tell me how it went. She hasn't. She's not said anything to me, and I've only found out that she was able to by her circle of friends texting her when I went to the theater with them.\n\nA'ight, I get it, I look a bit clingy, but I'm upset that she didn't even talk to me. We've gone half a month without saying anything to each other, and it sucks that she's zipped her mouth shut when she's got the chance to talk. So that's my case. Am I in the right to feel a bit hurt?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was previously in a 3 year relationship that ended (in May) due to many issues stemming from my exes emotional affairs, amongst other issues. After breaking up I wanted to be on my own and clear my mind but found myself with too much free time and constantly rationalizing her behavior and wanting to go back. \n\nKnowing that was not a good idea I started going on dates, and hanging out with women to get my mind off her. I began seeing one of my coworkers and I really like her. We had been drinking and now wanting to make the mistakes I made early on in my previous relationship we had the \"exclusive\" conversation. She is beautiful and I really like her but I don't want to \"use\" her? If that makes sense. I am taking this really serious however I keep thinking that she's just a rebound and I'm a dick for using her.\n\nIts gotten to the point where I feel an incredible amount of guilt during sex, so much so that I go soft because I feel like such a shitty human being.\n\nAm I looking too much into it? Or am I really just using this woman?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have dating for about 4 months now, but we're fwb for about a year prior to me asking her out. I have immense feelings for this girl and can honestly see myself having a future with her. The problem is her bipolar disorder and I feel it is tearing our relationship apart. The good times are great, but obviously the bad times are bad. I know she does not mean it, but we have been getting into fights a lot recently and it's pushing my tolerance and patience to the limits. I am not usually an emotional guy, but she has brought out emotions in me I didn't think we're possible. I have she'd tears in front if this girl just because of how open and honest I've been with her. Currently she is on no medication, but is on a list to receive some in the next few months. My plan was to stick around to see how the medicine would effect her mood swings and possibly make her more stable. I am scared of the future, how is she going to act as an adult? Are we going to fight for the rest of our lives? Is she going to cheat on my during a mania stage? She always says I'm to good for her and to just leave so I don't have to deal with her bullshit, but I talked to her about it and she agrees that it is nonsense. Just the thought of breaking up with her brings tears to my eyes and I don't know what to do. I need advice, has anyone else been in a ltr with someone with bipolar? Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background:\nI'm 21(F) and he's 25. He moved in with his old college room mates about a year ago, and they're a terrible influence on him. Before he moved in there, he used to go to the gym regularly, eat well, and go to church. Since he's moved in with them, he's gained about 30 lbs. To be fair, I've gained weight as well since we started dating, but it's mostly because I started at a University with a meal plan, and later on I could only afford cheap, less-healthy food. I've been trying to work with him constantly for both of us to go to the gym more, eat better, and go to church together. He ends up going out to eat way more than he should (his friends all have good paying jobs and don't really care about their health, while he's still looking for a job in his field of study), and is just generally negatively affected by the environment. I like the person he is when we're alone a lot better than him around his guy friends. It seems like he just makes a lot of poor choices around this group. I don't know how to go about telling him this...I know guys can be sensitive when it comes to their friends, though he already knows I don't like his friends. They give me a hard time a lot and tend to make me feel like crap- they've actually reduced me to tears a few times. On that note- they're about 70/30 as far as being jerks goes. Maybe 1/3 of the time they're actually decent to me, but I mostly end up feeling belittled and uncomfortable- it's a lot like High School. I've talked to him about this multiple times, and he says that A) I need to stand up for myself, and B) I need to let him know when I get upset, because he genuinely doesn't know what's making me upset, or what they say that sets me off. So, suggestions for how to bring this up with him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Forgive me if this is in the wrong reddit.\n\nA very nice steak restaurant is located down the road from me (not on the same street), and recently they added enough new tables that they have severe overflow onto my neighboring residential street. My street is narrow, hilly, and there's hardly room for the people who live here to park, much less this restaurant's customers. They have a dinner rush, so when I get home at 5:30 there's no place to park because my street is filled with huge, poorly parked, yuppie SUV's.\n\nI have called the police for advice twice and an officer never called me back. Not sure how to go about this, because the restaurant is a mainstay of my city and its owners and clientele are very well connected. Is there anything I can LEGALLY (or gray-area legally) do to stop this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I've been home schooled all of my life. I have never set foot in a public school as a student. But since 3rd grade I've always been at least partially involved in programs where I take classes at \"alternative schools\" for part of the week. I'm currently a freshmen at one of these schools, and during high school they pretty much just take control of your education. So it's essentially a small public school where I only have to go 3 days a week. But my consultant has suggested an interesting proposition to me. \n\nShe suggests that I should switch to my local high school. Being the small program that I'm in, we don't have that many options. In fact, my schedule's going to a little fucked up next year because I took a few classes early in high school. On top of this, she feels that I'm not getting challenged enough, especially since my class is one of the lowest scoring classes in recent memory (which I don't disagree with). I could get into the honors classes at my local high school, and have access to resources my currently school could only dream of. \n\nBut I would still lose a few things if I switched. Mostly I would lose the friends that I've made at my current school, but to be frankly honest I never hung out or talked with them outside of school. Also I would have to start getting up a few hours earlier and go 5 days a week. The workload would be higher, and when I asked my friend what she thought of when she heard the schools name, she said: \"pregnancy\".\n\nI'm torn Reddit, what do you think?\n(Yes I know turning to the internet isn't the best thing to do when making life choices, but I want to get as many opinions as possible.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, I've had to get an AVO (Apprehended Violence Order) against my downstairs neighbour. We live in a really old building with little to no insulation, so noise travels really easily. \n\nBut he takes offense to the smallest things at really random times (11am, Sunday morning, being on the phone with my Dad and wandering around the apartment was cause for a 7 minute tirade in the stairwell about how I'm a dumb white cunt who's always walking around. I don't know if he expects me to teleport or hover between rooms, but unfortunately, I can't do either.\n\nHe's threatened me a couple of times (raised fist, prevented me from exiting the building, tried to kick down my apartment door the other day) the last time he did it, I'd been watching TV with a few friends (normal volume) - no-one else has ever witnessed these events before and they encouraged me to call the police. Police suggested I get an AVO, and so I did.\n\nNext day, I call the real estate and say basically, okay, look. I need to leave or this guy does, because I am terrified of him, and this seems to be escalating. They decide to evict him (he's being served papers today) but with 90 days notice, I'm basically going to have to live with an enraged junkie for three months.\n\nSo, I'm not sure what I can do to either protect myself, should I just move out and bear the cost of breaking lease five months early.. Do I get a new giant bro housemate, because my current one has basically fucked off to her friends house and left me to deal with the whole mess... or do you guys have another idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my girlfriend (Lucy) for close to ten months now, a little while before we got together our close friend (Alice) admitted to my girlfriend that she had feelings for her. Lucy very politely shut it down because she and I were dating. \n\nAlice has been in and out of several relationships in the time that Lucy and I have been together but she still seems to be flirting with her and it's getting kind of inappropriate. She will touch Lucy's bum or breasts and frequently ask for kisses from her. Lately Alice has been asking to only spend time with my girlfriend and will arrange meeting times around when I am at work.\n \n\nI don't know if I'm being paranoid or if I should approach her. She is a good friend and I enjoy her company, I just don't enjoy watching her come onto my girlfriend every time she's at our house.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we just got back from visiting our family, before which I told his old work friends from home that we were visiting and to message my BF if they wanted to see him. \n\nWe were the for 3 weeks and nothing.\n\nWe get home and his ex work colleague, a 19F is having her birthday and has invited him to a birthday dinner...after a few messages back and forth saying how she wanted to do dinner and drinks, she finally said ''You should definitely come and your gf too\". Like he could bring me if he wanted to but probably better if I didn't come.\n\nSo he actually wants to do it. He wants to take time off of work, spend probably $100 on petrol and drive for 4.5 hours to see a girl who messages him probably once every 3 months. And if I mention a bad word about her, he gets mad and defensive, I feel like I can't even voice my concerns because if I say something bad I'll be the one who's done the wrong thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Looking for some advice on the topic, or specifically if someone knows a good lawyer in the Riverside, CA area for this, that would be awesome.\n\nMy step son is having a kid, and the mother-to-be is the victim of harassment by him. He has a history of domestic violence when he lived with us (I had him arrested as a minor), and he has a history of domestic violence with her. They are unmarried, and he is now threatening 'all out war' to get full sole legal custody of the child when she is born. He is even pushing to break a restraining order, and get an early judgement on visitation and custody rules. \n\nHe has threatened to retain a lawyer, which there is a 75% chance he can not afford to do and is using it as a stalling tactic. A new restraining order hearing was postponed today when he said he was retaining counsel at the end of this week, and it has been pushed to mediation (for custody issues, not RO issues).\n\nHe's great at playing the system and the people that work inside of it. I am all for getting her a lawyer to fight against this but I am wondering just what we're in for.\n\nHe will not be named on the birth certificate. \nThere is no paternity test, just that they both agree it is his.\nHe has no stable support system or family to help him out.\nShe is surrounded by a supportive family, and his mother and myself.\n\nIs he facing an up hill battle here to get visitation and possible custody, or is she?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Now this isn't what you think, I'm not trying to be ungrateful I just think this is really weird. \n\nMy birthday is this month and I tend to give my boyfriend gift ideas so he doesn't stress over what to get me. He does the same for me. Well, I'm a huge plush collector and there is this plush I have wanted for YEARS. It's only $25 so I thought that would be a perfect thing for him to get since inexpensive and one of my favorite plushes. I sent him a link of where to buy it and he said it was neat.\n\nToday he sent me a picture of a nerdy item he bought for me that was the same price as the plush and I have a feeling this is my birthday gift. I mean yeah, I like it and it's something I've expressed interest in before, but I have to admit I was a little disappointed. \n\nHe does this with every holiday though. Sometimes he spends even more money than the item I truly wanted was worth. Again, it's not like Im not happy he took time to get me something, I just don't really understand his reasoning behind all this. \n\nHe told me all the things he wanted for his birthday and I got them for him with some extra gifts on the side and he was so happy. I just really don't get why he doesn't do the same for me.\n\nNow if he made something for me or something like that I would completely understand and it would be better than any old plush because it came from him. But, since we are talking about non personal items, why is he ignoring my suggestions?\n\nI'm afraid to bring this up to him because I don't want him to think I don't appreciate the things he gets me, because again he could just get me nothing. \n\nAny ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been dating for 10 months. Everything has been just wonderful, we even moved in together last month. Last two month has be weird. Her \"ex aka good friend\" at lest that what she calls him. Have been spending alot of time together. I have not said anything yet, I don't want her to think I cant trust her. I have not seen or meet him. Not to long ago, she left her labtop open with facebook on. I looked at her messages and I see they are meeting at a coffee shop. Even weird hes black. I have never seen my gf show any interest in black guys, We don't even have any black friends ! Anyway Should I just straight up ask to hang or meet him ? like I really wanna know who this guy is and what hes up to with my gf. Like who the fuck stays friends with there ex?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a college student in a very small Institute. (Graduation class of less than 50) Well there is this particular guy who is the biggest jerk of the school. He has to \"one up\" everybody and is constantly demeaning and disrespectful. \n\nWell, this particular discussion began over the recent tragedy involving Robin Williams death.\n\nHe had mentioned the incident and said that those who take their own lives are \"Shameless Cowards\" and those people shouldn't waste time on Earth if they can't handle life. Also the families and loved ones of those individuals should be ashamed and embarrassed.\n\nI then was very upset and told him that I have had people very close to me take their own lives, and You can imagine what that person must have been dealing with. He proceeded to say they were simply weak. At this point I went off and can't remember everything that was said. Well a nosey student went and told a director that I was Verbally assaulting an innocent student. (of course) this student was an underclassmen who did not know the situation nor the history of this person. They also lied and exaggerated the story.\n\nI was called into a meeting where I was suspended for the next 3 days. Upon my return on Monday I have a meeting with the program Director to discuss further repercussions, aka Expulsion from a College I have paid to go to. \n\nThis college is a joke. The teachers act like high school students and gossip like no teenage I've ever met. the favoritism and exaggeration is outrageous. I am being threatened with expulsion on the false grounds of bulling with no proof of the entire incident and the guy that was involved didn't even come forward to complain about it because it was simply a heated discussion in which were both involved.\n\nI guess the lesson here is, You can't stand up to Bullies because you look like a bully and then are kicked from a bullshit college that you have paid $30,000 to attend.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Brief background: We've been together for over 2 years now and the past few months things have been a little rocky due to issues over privacy and snooping.\n\nAfter some recent issues that we've had, we managed to work thru them and everything has been fine since then. After everything I don't really feel the same deep connection with her that I once did. It's not that I don't find her attractive, but after everything I just feel distant.\n\nI'm not sure if it's because I don't feel like I can trust her anymore, or if I've just changed as a person and it's my fault. I'm not really sure if I should stick with it and hope to one day feel close again, or if I should walk away. \n\nAny advice or similar experiences would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). \n\nSince it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I were seriously in love. We dated for about 7 months. She has a troubled past and was hurt a lot by guys. She wasn't ready for a serious relationship even though she wanted to be and ended it with me. 3 days later she sleeps with a guy she used to see before me. She says it's easier for her to have just a \"physical\" relationship than have both physical and feelings. Hard to explain.\n\nBasically, I'm just really struggling right now. I miss her and I still love her. I'm giving her the space she needs but she still says she misses me. I was starting to try to move on when she texted me saying she misses me. I care so much about this girl even still. I'm in pain but I don't want to lose her for good. Any advice or anything - thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "hi there guys Ill make this as short as possible:\n\nI come form a strict Muslim Indian family, all my siblings have accepted the religion that they've been brought up with and are in arranged marriages living nice Indian Muslim lives.\n\nI decided through my teenage to adult years that I simply did not want this culture/religion for my family when I grew up and moved out.\n\nJust before I turned 19 I moved in with my long term girlfriend (neither Indian nor Muslim) without my parents consent of course. since then shes been my rock, shes helped me find work, taken care of me with nothing but love and devotion, with been through plenty of hard times and now been together for more than 5 years in a very stable relationship.\n\nJust one problem, my family. I still go to visit them, I call them every so often but as far as my life is concerned they never ask about her, I've tried countless times to get them to come meet her but they simply wont and insist I come back home (to live with them). It makes her really upset and today I've decided enough is enough.\n\nI was just about to text my mother stating that Ill no longer be coming to see her since shes made to effort to come see me and my partner (now fiance'). First I wanted reddits opinion on whether I was making the right choice her or not. I truly am fed up of their ignorance and have given them countless years of patience while I pretended not to exist and not make any mention of the woman who has brought me so much happiness for the past 5 years. any thoughts would be appreciated guys and thank you for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey First time poster here so be gentle. Or not. Do whatever you want- who the hell am I to tell you what to do\n\nLong story short dated someone for over a year and had a great time. I am 30 M and she is 29F. When I turned 30 I kind of freaked out (is this the girl I am going to marry? Everyone else is getting married? Is she expecting that I get married? Is this the last girl I will ever kiss? Sleep with?) The advice I got from everyone was things like \"well you would know if you loved her/ If you loved her you wouldn't even think of these things and you would know.\"\n\n I don't think I'm that kind of guy- I have a hard time making decisions and I must admit that I am not in touch with my feels a lot of the time. Breakup was in September and it is now July.\n\nI work in finance and the hours suck and Im always tired and thats one of the reasons I broke it off but I have thought about her basically every day- but i am afraid that (1) Maybe she won't take me back and(2) Maybe we aren't going to work out and i will break her heart again, and i really really do not want to hurt her.\n\nLong story short I think about her when I hear romantic music (F&^& you Michael Buble!) and I have recently started to look at old pics of us when times were good. I feel like because my life kind of sucks right now for other reasons I am romanticizing our past relationship and I am searching for the last thing that made me happy. I have slept/kissed others and I still think about her. I really don't have an interest in getting to know another girl/woman as I just don't…..care\n\nI fear that if I keep waiting and she may find someone and I will have missed my chance and I am not trying to be an ahole and deny her being happy but I feel like I could be happy and she could be happy with me if I just get my fking thoughts and shit together\n\nHelp me Obi Wan Reddit", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My past is relatively normal and I don't have alot of intense drama(other than losing 8 of my friends in 1 year but that's a story for another time). \n\nMy SO was born when her mother was 16, her dad was physically abusive and bother were intensive druggies. Her raising was aided by her grandparents that look down on her and see her as nothing more than a burden. She just started her first year at college and doesn't have any friends other than her ex who was her best friend before they started dating(They dated for 2 1/2 months). He has told me that he 100% plans to win her back from me. Oh here's the kicker, I'm going to school 100 miles away, her ex is not and she sees no problem hanging out with him, having him spend the night in her dorm...share her toothbrush. I trust her and I actually don't see anything happening but there's that pressure in the back of my head that's driving me insane. \n\nTomorrow is her Birthday and right now, shes at a party with her mom, aunt, and her ex.(she actually doesn't have any friends). She has serious self-worth issues and I don't want to tear her only friend away from her...but he drives me insane because he's kind of an asshole.\n\nThis might just be my way of venting so I don't blow up at her and drive her away because I actually really care for her and she takes drama very personal and blames herself. Oh and there are probably things that I'm just not remembering", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "If you've read my other questions, you know some facts about the relationship, but here's all the background context:\n\nHer last exes spent a lot of money on her. They took her out on dinner dates very often, took her shopping, paid for her clothes and her gas, bought her necessities and luxury items, and even paid to have her car repaired (300-400 dollars).\n\nI, however, am not as loose with my money. I like the idea of equal and fair effort/spending for both parties.\n\nShe is a nearly broke college student and I am a not at all broke graduate. \n\nI have told her that if she needed help paying for gas to get to my place and back, then I can help her out. This arrangement was fine. She only asked every month or two. Now she seems to be asking every time she drives down. This last time, I gave her the money and not 20 minutes later went out and bought herself 10 dollars worth of non-essential stuff.\n\nWe argued over it and she said my money was not used for it and I said I enabled her to buy that item because I would not have given her the total gas money, just the amount she needed in addition to her own spending money for gas. She expected I'd pay her gas to allow her spending money, not give her gas because she has no spending money.\n\nIn our argument over this, she brought up her ex claiming that HE would have bought her the luxury item AND paid for her gas. She also claimed that she has never been treated so badly by a boyfriend, and one of her boyfriends was physically abusive.\n\nMy question is this: Is she too spoiled rotten to save, is it salvageable, or am I way off base and should be more giving with my own money?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always had a slight issue with my weight. My lowest weight was when I was 16 at 109lbs and more recently when I was 24 I weighed about 122lbs, now Im closer to 180 (and I'm 27 now). I blame this on my sheer laziness and grad school life as well as my inability to say no to candy and yummy tasting food. This needs to stop though because I feel unhealthy. \n\nI used to be a gymnast when I was younger, and was super flexible...with this in mind, I decided to go to a yoga class 2 weeks ago and was absolutely wrecked after it to the point where I couldnt do anything physical for a week. I have lost all my flexibility and I'm totally out of shape :( \n\nI want to try a weight loss/exercise program that will work and keep me motivated. I was thinking about combining Weight Watchers with P90X...but honestly I don't even think I could do half the moves in the work out video. Other than that...I am a pretty attractive girl, have a bf who loves me no matter what, and I'm in my last year of my Ph.D....I just want to be healthy and less fat.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I should start off by saying, she broke up with me (over snapchat >.< ) 3 days ago..\n\nSo, firstly I don't have the confidence that many of you have.. As a gamer and not really much more, being with a girl as cute and funny (insert more compliments that makes me miss her ) was apsolutely amazing. But, a month has passed and I hadn't even kissed her.. We'd joke about it and how I was being a pussy but I couldn't do it.\n\nAfter ignoring me for 2 days (I didn't spam, as I figured I'd done something wrong.. Still asked if she was ok) I got a snapchat message saying that it just isn't working and we shouldn't go out anymore. \n\nIf only I had that confidence, I really liked her too.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It could have been for a good or bad reason, but we have all been stubborn at times. And sometimes it gets out of hand, maybe with parents or an SO, to the point where it's just stupid and you perhaps look like a complete asshole.\n\nMy most stubborn moment came at a celebration for a friend's birthday party in high school. We had a few people get together (I think about 8 or 10) and after just hanging around for a bit we all decide to catch a movie as a group. We hadn't decided which movie to see so we discussed it when we arrived. Since we were leaning towards comedy, it came down to two choices: Most people wanted to watch Shark Tale, but I was adamant about Shaun of the Dead. People caught in the middle sided with the birthday girl, who wanted to watch Shark Tale, which left me as the only one fighting for SotD. None of us had seen either movie before at the time, but I swore on my life that SotD would be better. It escalated and I made a *huge* fuss and had to be taken aside and calmed down before very reluctantly agreeing to side with the hive-mind. I was ready to start walking home or even wait outside while everyone else watched Shark Tale. We were each paying for our own tickets so paying for a movie I did not want to see and thought would be terrible definitely played a factor. After the movie people started to latch on to the idea that I may have been correct in my assertion, and I basically sulked and kept my mouth shut for the rest of the night. Needless to say after everyone saw SotD on their own time I was more or less vindicated for my actions. Despite my stubborn outburst I didn't lose any friends, including the birthday girl, who is actually one of my best friends to this day and is also a fellow redditor. We have laughed about this since, despite me carrying some major guilt for acting the way I did.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Before i got into the full details for this post, i'm going to get into some back story. Cousin, Charlie introduced me to my current best friend, Lesley. We hit it off immediately and developed a really strong relationship. while our friendship blossomed Charlie and Lesley had a falling out. To make it short Lesley didn't want a romantic relationship with Charlie so he cut her off as a friend, a decision that i still think was petty and immature. Lesley moved on but Charlie still holds negative feelings about it. \n\nFast forward to today, I've won a trip for two, air fare and hotel included. I immediately decided to take my best friend Lesley. I told Charlie since I was genuinely excited only for him to lose it. he tells me that we're no longer friends and he can't believe why I wouldn't consider him. i told him simply he doesn't have the funds to sight see and really enjoy himself in another country. I would most likely be footing the bill. And most importantly I don't want to go on a trip for two with another man that i'm not dating, that's just awkward. We're probably going to share rooms and I don't want to be kicked out of my room so he can sleep with strangers. Now he's giving me the cold shoulder. I'm not changing my mind about the trip, I'm still no taking him. But how do I get him to understand my point of view.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On mobile and in a rush please forgive me\n\nI need help. After a relationship of 2 years with a girl who I thought was honestly the one for me I get dumped for another guy for a second time. I know that if I take her back again it'll be another mistakes, I don't plan to either.\n\nI feel worthless. Even after everything we did. All the time we spent together, she didn't find me good wnough. I tried so hard to make her happy. I did everything possible to make her feel like a queen. This is a fact, everyone I've talked to about this has said that I didn't do anything wrong and that it wasn't my fault. Even though I know that this is true My self esteem is destroyed. I'm usually a very chipper and funny person to be around according to my friends and right know I feel like they don't want me around because I can't be happy now. I want to know how to cheer myself up.\n\n I've tried distracting myself with almost everything I can but for some reasoning keep thinking about her and her new guy fucking. It's a guy wrenching feeling and for some reason my thoughts keep going back to that. He is more attractive.That he will make her happier. That he will please her better. That I am inferior in every way possible. How can I stop thinking and picturing anything to do with her?\n\nAnother problem I'm having is that after being with her for so long and being in such a small town I feel like no one will take me. It is known that her and I we're together by everyone and I feel that I am now undesirable. That on top of the fact that I never really learned how to e single. Is there anywhere I can learn how to flirt. Learn how to at least not be completely inept with the opposite sex? Like an r4r but not physical. I know it's an odd question but it's something that I just thought", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and her parents have known me for about the same amount of time. This past weekend, we both graduated together from the same major in college. Yesterday, when I went to see my girlfriend again, she handed me an envelope and said that her parents told her to give it to me. Inside was a card congratulating me on graduating, as well as a check for $50.\n\nNow I know this isn't some large amount, but I'm not sure how to react when I see her parents. My girlfriend doesn't know what to do either. Should I take the money or would it be considered rude to give back? If I should take it, how should I thank them? What do I say?\n\nThis is my first relationship so I really have no clue and no experience with something like this. Help me, Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 23 and my boyfriend (30) and I have been dating for a year, living together for most of the time. We get along wonderfully and he is so loving and nice to me. \n\nThe problem is that he is not very ambitious/career oriented and has had 4 jobs since we've been together (restaurants and construction) and many weeks of unemployment. I end up paying for more than my fair share out of my savings. This sometimes includes cigarettes, beer, weed. I pay for the car, car insurance, gas, cell phones, internet, etc. He seems to have the best intentions and hates that I do that, says he will make it up to me but it's been going on since the beginning.\n\nHe also has some issues mentally and it's getting hard for me to handle emotionally. He is depressed a lot and paranoid that people are against him. I want to help but don't want to put the burden on myself and he is very against medication/therapy.\n\nI don't know what to do. I am not sure I can handle much more but I would feel so bad if we broke up. He has nowhere to go (no car and lives with me and my mom) and no money. I also do really love him and he really loves me. I really just don't know whether I should keep trying?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Father, a few UFC/Boxing announcers and myself call the area on the face under the eye \"The Button\", because in most fights when that area is struck really hard, it's immediate jelly-legs as they hit the canvas unconscious...\n..now is that actually, as we call it, a \"Button\" area that causes them to lose consciousness? Or is it just because the guy got punched in the face?\n\nAlso, we've all seen it in the movies where the Martial Arts Master sneaks up from behind and gives the enemy a chop to the side of the neck (\"JUDO CHOP!\"), causing their enemy to black-out. I've seen and been in enough fights to know that simply taking a hit to the side of the neck isn't going to do anything but hurt and maybe activate a pressure-point and just hurt more...but is there a certain area there on the neck (or anywhere, for that matter) that can be hit or pinched that will cause instant unconsciousness (without the unconsciousness coming from the force of the hit, but rather the placement)?\n\nJust curious.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I just kind of need to vent, and I can't imagine that I'm the only one with douchebag friends.\n\nSo heres my story about... Let's call him R.\n\nR. is a constant show-off. He's had sex with 3 girls. 1 borderline chick who faked pregnancy every month, 1 ugly chick, who was another friends ex he kept bragging about, and his (now) ex-girlfriend.\n\nSo his girlfriend recently broke up with him, because generally, he's a douchebag, smokes weed all day, and lies alot. I can't believe they've been together for over a year, because she's actually a really nice girl.\n\nThe week after they broke up, he tells me he got a girls phone number. 'Lookie me, I'm hot stuff, I got a girls phone number! She was totally into me!'. I tell him grats, good for you, and carry on. 2 days later, he tells me he got 4 other phone numbers from extroardinally hot girls.\n\nHe tells me the story of how he got the number for each girl individually. By the third girl it's getting old, but eh, I'm his friend, so I'll sit and listen. He then proceeds to tell this same story to ALL our other friends, making everybody hear the story like 3 times.\n\nR. is not a very good looking guy. He dresses poor, he IS poor, actually, and doesn't pay attention to hygiene a whole lot. Yet he constantly keeps bragging about getting girls phone numbers, and then asks me what the last time was I had sex. (I came out of a long relationship,", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently came to my significant other and spoke to him candidly about what I did. 2 years ago I had a crush on someone for about a school semester, spoke to him, hid I spoke to him. I feel like I did it because I felt very low about myself, felt nice to have someone make me feel good. It was not a serious crush/liking. I never expressed my feelings to him, but we did talk often and I hid it and realized it was wrong after looking back objectively. Recently, I had another crush on someone else, I felt flattered someone would like me, but I never flirted, never wanted him over my s/o but again hid speaking to him, even though it was never sexual conversations. Both were ones you would have with a friend. It was mostly about school, studying, sometimes about family things, regular conversations, never sexual or flirty.\n\nI see marriage with my s/o and wanted to come to him and tell him this as I did not want any secrets or hidden feelings anymore. I was honest with him, told him everything, told him sometimes I would fantasize/think about these guys (only the second guy was sexual; the first guy was mostly just thinking about hanging out or having fantasies of him noticing me and seeing me as beautiful (kind of weird thinking back to it now)). I haven't spoken to the first guy in a year or more as I realized how wrong it was of me, and I have also cut off contact with the second guy as well. I have no intentions of continuing speaking to them.\n\nI told him this. I know it could be considered emotional cheating, which is why I came clean. He said the fact that I would think about them ruined everything. He says I ruined the past 7 years now, that it is too late now to make this right. I never expected him to end this. Is this really unfixable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's what I wanted from the beginning. People are now recognizing my weight loss and I'm not even half way into my journey. The act of people telling me on a regular basis that I look alot better has been giving me some motivation...but it's been giving me something else. Deep in my mind it's been giving me the idea that if I get satisfied with the compliment...if I say \"Thanks! I've been working out\", that I'm going to feel like I've achieved my goal. \n \nLosing fat, to me, has been an asthetic goal all along. I wanted to be seen as something different than just another fat guy. It feels great to be able to run a mile or to see yourself lifting more weights than some other guys in the gym (you know it's true). But when it comes down to it, it's just been about how people see me. Getting this positive attention is what I really wanted. Now that I'm getting it, I feel that I'm going to lose some of my motivation. \n \nMy stats are SW:335, CW: 290, GW: ~210, 6'0. I've been at this for almost three months now and I feel that this is going to be the deciding point. I can either slip back to where I started, or be a man and push through until I'm satisfied with myself. \n\nThis is mainly just me venting, I'm sorry to bother with my insecurities. I don't really vent to anyone so at some points it has to go somewhere. Have some of you been in a similar situation? How did you deal with it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I find myself in this stupid cycle with every girl I date. We hit the ground running and everything goes great for a while. Then as if a stupid switch is turned on in my brain I begin to find myself tripping over my words, making shitty conversation, and ultimately screwing up. I'm fairly introverted and one-track minded and I mainly blame this as the culprit. I'm a full time student who works two jobs so time to sit down and talk is not a luxury that I have most of the time. This makes me bad at maintaining frequent text conversations which in this day and age seems to be pretty much a deal breaker. \nSo the girl that I have been dating recently is amazing, an artist, loves to travel, funny, pretty much the whole nine yards. One thing that does suck is that she lives out of state, we have maintained what I view as healthy contact for the past month or so and we have visited each other a few times. But mentioned earlier I'm beginning to find myself in the same situation I always do. Making shitty conversation or saying something that makes me sound stupid. I don't know what to do. I know I need to be confident and relax I usually start out like this but I just lose it when I start having real feelings for someone. I hate it and it makes me want to live in a hole.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Using a throwaway just to be safe. Mostly.\n\nI've known one of my friends for around 10 years, and though we no longer live near each other, I make an effort to spend time with her a few times a year. She's practically a sister to me. In that time I've become close to her family, including one of her sisters, let's call her Olivia.\n\nOlivia may or may not have been fond of me for some time. In recent years, my friend sent me teasing texts like, \"When are you visiting again? Olivia misses you.\" At the time, I liked Olivia as much as one likes any annoying-but-somehow-endearing younger sisters of your best friend, so I rolled my eyes and humored her. I figured it was a phase, and it probably was.\n\nWell, as it happens, I hate myself; Olivia has grown on me. After teasing Olivia through her college years for being in a related discipline embroiled in a conflict with my own, she switched to my major. Funny, that. Having the ability to share in obtuse conversations certainly enabled us to spend more time together, and I find myself stupidly grinning at even the worst of her puns.\n\nFast forward to the present. Olivia and I are both graduating in the spring. Part of me knows that keeping my mouth shut is the safer course of action, and much of this could just be me projecting, but I still want to open up to my friend before we all part ways. I'm trying to conceive how best to broach the topic with her, as it's going to be awkward regardless. I know all the risks involved, and I even considered the cataclysmic scenario in which it's my friend and not her sister who has feelings for me, which is ridiculous, but you know what they say about truth and fiction.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm in a pretty difficult situation Reddit. One of my best friends happens to be a girl. (I'm a guy). I adore her more than anything and may have feelings for her past just being friends. I found out that she's already picked out a Christmas present for me and is fairly excited about giving it to me. I was pretty touched at this but also very uncomfortable. You see, she already has a boyfriend who I'm pretty sure she loves. Should I return the favor and get her a present? I really don't want to come off as trying to hit on her at all seeing as how she's in a relationship. But then again, I don't want to come off as rude or uncaring because I didn't give her a present myself. Fuck, or am I just retardedly paranoid?? Help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (24F) met this guy (26m) just over a year ago through an online dating site. We went on a few dates and started sleeping together, and I had feelings for him. Unfortunately, he didn't have romantic feelings for me, so he asked if we could continue to hang out and be friends. In retrospect, I should have said no to that, but I was delusional and I liked hanging out with him.\n\nSo for the last year, we've been hanging out as friends, but with some weirdness thrown in. For a few months we had a friends with benefits situation going on, but I cut that off because I wasn't doing great with it emotionally (big shock). We texted almost constantly every day throughout the year and he became one of my best friends. There were a lot of confusing conversations about the nature of our relationship that gave me mixed messages, but mostly I got the impression that he didn't have romantic feelings for me. \n\nAbout a month ago I realized I still have feelings for him. I think I probably have for a while but I was ignoring it. I told him as much, and I also told him I needed to not see/talk to him for a long time because it was too hard for me. I'm so tired of the confusion and as much as I'm going to miss him I think it's what's best for me long term. I told him that and made myself very clear, but he was really upset about it - he desperately wants to stay friends but he seemed to understand why I needed to do it. He's been one of my best friends and I feel like a jackass for ending things in this way (and so suddenly), but I don't know that I have another option. It's been 2 weeks and I don't feel better about it yet. Am I crazy? Has anyone else been in a similar situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm going to be moving out of my parents apartment soon and moving very far away (from New York to South Carolina) and I'm trying to figure out what the best way to not get screwed. I've searched reddit and it seems most of the people moving are wealthy enough to where things are going to be tough but manageable they're just looking for tips. They have a job lined up or they have a SO they're moving in with so it makes things easier.\n\nRight now I only have a GED and some coursework in college. I'm staying with a friend for a bit so housing immediately isn't a concern (though I am looking before I move) and I don't have a job for right when I get down there (the ones that I've received asking for interviews want to do it in person so I have to wait until I get down there).\n\nI'm moving as the parent I'm living with has screwed me over an insane amount of times (brining my credit score down because I was dumb and trusted her to pay for things I sign on and stealing money from me), and I'm moving out of New York just because it's too expensive to live here and the job market doesn't exist, at least for people with no degrees.\n\nI'm looking to go back to college once I get settled down there and don't have to pay out of state tuition but I'm just insanely nervous about the move and am looking for any advice I can get. Hoping that someone in a similar situation can throw me advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been dating this amazing man for more than a year. I love him completely and I have never been happier in my entire life. It is also the longest relationship I have ever been in.\nI met my boyfriend at college which is out-of-state and during the summer we are in different states. I am in my home town where my ex lives.\nWhenever I'm driving around I find myself peering at all of the places he usually is, looking for a glimpse of his car or of him even. I'm not entirely sure /why/ I do this.\n\nI had dated my ex for four months, the longest relationship I had ever had until my current one. At the time I was certain he was the first person I ever fell in love with, but now that I've been in my current relationship I'm not even sure if I ever was /in love/ with him and not just infatuated. He ended things with me and then proceeded to ignore me if he saw me in person for the next few days, blocked me on FB, etc. I haven't really seen him since, I mean once I walked into the coffee shop he works at and saw him unexpectedly and turned right around and left without even getting farther than the doorway.\n\nI am just kind of confused. I don't know why I still feel weird and act weird about my ex when I am so in love and so happy with my much longer term boyfriend.\n\nDoes anyone else have experience with this? Any help for me to understand what I'm feeling more would be really appreciated, or really just anyone sharing similar experiences so I know I'm not alone! It'd be really appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened on Friday. I went to my Dom's house for some fun. Usually, he gives me very clear instructions to follow, undress, get on your knees, etc. but that day, my own inner dom wanted to get out to play. So I ignored him and started teasing him, tickling him, etc. Of course I knew I would be \"punished\" for my insolence and sure enough, after 30 seconds or so, he grabbed me around my neck, threw me on the bed, pulled my pants down just far enough to expose my ass, shoved his dick in and started hate-fucking me (it was awesome).\n\nNow, you've all read the title to this \"TIFU\" so I'm sure you can all see where this is heading. My phone has recently picked up this habit of redialing my last call when I put it in my pants. In this case, it was my parents and it seems having my pants pulled down and being hate-fucked was enough to get it to redial them...Of course I only found this out when I checked my messages on my way home and had one from mom. She's \"not sure what stunt [I'm] trying to pull\" but she's \"incredibly disappointed and disgusted with [me] and not at all impressed\". No idea if she's told dad or not...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The people who get caught up, that's who. If you're not getting caught doing something you're not supposed to, what's to be mad at?\n\nWhy do people decide to give each other their passwords for things like that to begin with? Because the people in question are trying to prove to one another that they can be trusted, and that they trust the other person.\n\n\"I've got nothing to hide from you, go ahead and check,\" is pretty standard nowadays it seems. The only people who seem to be getting mad about it are the people who are too DUMB to use that same e-mail account to do something deceitful!\n\nIt's not an invasion of privacy if you GAVE SOMEONE YOUR PASSWORD, strictly for the purpose of them entering it on-line, to log in to your e-mail account. Unless you made specific stipulations that they would only access your e-mail \"IF/WHEN....\" then you've got nothing to complain about. And, IF anyone feels like their SO is trying to impose such restrictions in the relationship.. it's not a good relationship.\n\nIf somebody reads your shit and you get caught up, OH WELL, should've covered your tracks better. So, before you begin whining about how so and so is to blame for this and that, remember that you were the one who did the bad thing, and while now you have all this anger because you feel your life is fucked, it's nobody's fault but your own.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Both in our mid 20s. I have been sleeping with a girl for over a year now. We work together and when it started when she still had a boyfriend. It happened under circumstances I am not proud of. She came to me when her relationship was fizzling out, and I think she needed me to see if there was any hope of re-igniting a flame of passion that she has not had in a while. I was the other man for almost 6 months. Then we decided that had to stop. \nWe took a pause for a few months, but since we work together, we still constantly saw each other. So when I find out she moved out of her shared apartment and broke up with her boyfriend, we start it up again. \n\nThings are great for a month, but then something happened. I can't pinpoint it, but the passion is gone. We both used to stare at each other with passion, and we used to make love with passion. Over the past month, she has stopped doing anything romantic, surprising or spontaneous. \n\nI think I have a high sex drive, and I like to have sex everyday. For the first few months we had sex 3 times a day, but now, after about 4 months of this, we only have sex maybe 1-2 times a week.\n\nI care about her a lot, and I was kind of hoping that it could be something more. She says she still isn't ready to get into a relationship, which I understand. We had agreed at the start of this that we were just going to keep it to casual sex, but we both understood that we had feelings for each other. \n\nNot sure if I should just let her be for a while, move on or keep with it for a while longer. Again, I felt like I was falling for this girl a few months ago, but I feel like now she is fighting it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm dating an amazing guy and I can see this relationship being long-term for sure. We love spending time together and crack each other up, we balance each other, the sex is bomb, etc.\n\nI am at a point in my life where I am extremely happy - with my body image, my job, my friends, just my life in general. He is not. He has a great job and is VERY successful financially, but doesn't like this city and struggles with feeling lonely. He's lived here for two years and hasn't tried much to branch out and meet people or explore the city. \n\nHe had his heart broken several years ago and I kind of think he's been moving around, switching jobs, running away from how hurt he was. He definitely hides behind how funny he is and I don't think he lets people see that there is more to him than that.\n\nWe had a heart to heart last night about all this and he seemed really touched that I cared and said no one had ever asked him these things before.\n\nSo, my question is, is it risky to date someone who isn't happy with himself as a person yet? Is it possible for him to \"catch up\" or am I setting myself up to be a crutch?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\n\nI've been dating this girl for 4 months now, and long story short it's been great. I shouldn't complain, but yet I keep feeling as if I'm just another number. \n\nLet me elaborate. I'm a virgin and haven't been in many relationships (2) before this. On the other hand, she's been with a few guys and isn't a virgin. (She had some self esteem issues, which may be why she wanted to have sex soon.) \n\nSo now we're getting to the point where we're thinking about having sex. As much as I'd like to, I feel like I'd be just another number. Like it would just be meaningless.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months. It's been great. We fell in love and spent every waking moment together whatever chance we got. I met her family, she met my family, we've been on trips together... you get the idea. \n\nWell, lately, she's been demanding me to make compromises in everyday things (movies, hobbies, etc.) in order to appease her. Now I told her that who she's suggesting I be is just not 'me' and that I'm not comfortable with her dictating how I live my life. \n\nShe insists that she knows what's best for me and that I need to start living like an adult, whatever that means. In the meantime, she starts pushing her hobbies and media interests on me. \"No, let's listen to this\" she'll say in the car while we're playing the radio, or \"Why do you go to the gym so often? Stay home, babe, and watch New Girl with me.\"\n\nThis behavior is starting to aggravate me and I begin denying her requests. She starts getting more belligerent in her remarks and starts guilt tripping me, telling me \"You don't care about me, you're so inconsiderate to my feelings.\" \n\nAbout a week later I'm driving her home and she's playing some god awful pop radio station I've never heard of. I get this funny idea to play \"Kill You\" by Eminem on full blast while we're driving through the neighborhood because at this point I don't care anymore. She starts yelling something at me but I can't hear her over the music, plus I have the windows open. \n\nAll we hear is \"Slt, you think I won't choke no whre?!? Til the vocal cords don't work in her throat no more??!\". The look of resolve and assertiveness on her face dissolved completely, she was in horror and I was laughing my ass off. At one point she started screeching and assaulting me as I repelled her from the sound control panel. \n\nWell, I drove her home. She ran out while screaming at me and we haven't spoken since. I'm not sure how I feel about all this...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not sure how to start, so I'll just tell it as it occurs to me. This girl is truly one of my best friends, and I love her in that respect immensely. We are very open with each other and are aware that physically, we find one another attractive.\n\n On friday night, as we were both fairly drunk (don't chastise for the age, in our country legal drinking from 16) she turned to me and seemed like she was trying to say something else, but in the end just said \"whatever, I dont care, I dont care, can we just hook up\" and so we did. This night, however, was a bit of an odd one, as we were with a few other friends, and several were making out already. So I went for it, and hooked up with another friend afterwards as well. A probably relevant detail is that at a party a few weeks ago we also made out, but accepted it as being nothing.\n\nThat was fine, and it seemed that there was no problem, however I later saw the girl looking at me oddly and we hooked up again, with her initiating. also when we all crashed at another friends house, she came to sleep next to me. The major complications arise in the fact that a few months ago I broke up with a long term gf who is one of this girl's closest friends.\n\nFurthermore, recently (for about 2 months) I have had a bit of a thing with another girl, but nothing serious. On friday she also mentioned that and it seemed she was sad about it, though I assumed it was just because she was sad about something else (unrelated, I wont go into it). I then asked another friend who was there that night, who is very close with both of us if the girl loved me, and she said \"of course, its obvious\" but she may have been meaning friend-love. So I am not looking for anything with this girl, and she knows that nothing can happen, but what do I do? acknowledge that she has romantic feelings and I dont? Or am I just misinterpreting everything (entirely possible)?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need some sort of advice. I'm sitting downstairs crying in the apartment I share with my former fiancé. He is upstairs asleep. We have built a life together and my wedding dress is hanging in the closet. I have no idea how to begin the process of dividing our shared possessions and bank accounts and frankly, I just want to crawl into a hole and never come out. \n\nHe ended it because he doesn't have the \"energy\" to put into salvaging our relationship, which was seemingly fine until this evening. \nWe argued in the past but have had no issues since September. He recently lost his job and we have been going through a rough time financially, but everything else has been great until now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I should probably state that my best friend is also my ex. We were incredibly close during our year and a half together, and had a mutual breakup because we wanted to see new people/ I graduated college and got a full-time job about an hour away. Our breakup was mutual, and after a couple of months of no-contact, we recently rebuilt our friendship. I think of her as my closest friend, and actually, just a couple of days ago, she openly admitted the same about me.\n\nDue to the distance, our only means of contact is through Facebook messenger. Since we started talking again though, I'd find that she'd frequently not respond to my last message, despite Facebook saying that she \"saw\" it. Sometimes we'd be having a fairly in-depth conversation (that she sometimes brings up), or she'd be ranting to me about something, when all of a sudden, her messages just stop. I realize that there are probably a number of reasons why she may not be replying; she's a lot more social than I am and often talks to multiple people at once, not all of my messages warrant a response, or that she's just busy, but it's still fairly annoying to see, especially since I'm the sort of individual that tries to send some sort of acknowledgement to all messages that I receive, or tell them if I can't talk at the moment. Because she doesn't always do this, I initially interpreted that she was sending me mixed messages shortly after we resumed contact.\n\nI realize that yes, we're no longer in a relationship, and that I can't expect her to always be there, but I feel as if this issue also extends to courtesy, and I really would like to talk to her about this without trying to sound needy/ pushy (especially given our former status). Maybe it would be best to just accept that this is how she is? All advice is appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So... I'm adopted, 12 families from 2-3/8, drug addicted bio mom. Years of physical, emotional, and some secure abuse. I've had 3 concussions as well, been hospitalized from being hit by several cars while walking. \n\nI feel like I am emotionally lacking, and I've always been a very factual person in confronting issues. I'm a straightforward INTJ personality type, and I want to know how I can improve myself become more in tune with her. \n\nShe is scatter brained, intelligent, and very understanding most times. We've had a couple arguments, and I've had to work hard to understand where her side comes from, and even if I don't agree, it gets settled. \n\nI can see it causing issues in the future, so any tips on how I can start solving it now? I've always had this problem, but I love her, and her family loves and vice versa. We have no problems at all in our relation at the moment, just want to nip a huge flaw before it starts causing issues.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Have met and hung out with both 26F and her (ex?)-bf in group settings maybe 2-3 times this year. They were together for almost 2 years. I don't mess around with girls in relationships. My mom cheated on my dad and seeing that damage shaped my beliefs, I think cheating is vile. I was never close to this girl or the guy, but definitely knew who they were, greeted them in passing, etc.\n\nThis weekend 26F and I were at the same bar, people all night had been saying she dumped her guy, and then she told me the same. Moved to an after party that she invited me to and there she was openly hitting on me. I let her initiate everything. I assumed we'd make out and then she'd bail, but she invited my back to her place, initiated taking off my clothes, her clothes, and getting the condom. Sex was great. \n\nI assumed it was a one time thing given the circumstances but she's been texting me so that led me to look her up. Found that Facebook and Instagram still have all their \"in a relationship\" status and couples pictures up so now I'm feeling a little guilty and worried about the whole thing. \n\nShe outright stated to me and everyone at the party that they were broken up. I did ask her if it was a temporary or permanent break and she said never say never but it's over indefinitely. It's a hippie/yoga/weed crew so I took that as they have no plans to get back together but there's no way of predicting the universe... that kind of philosophy. I've been told they were never an on-and-off couple or anything unstable like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I'm a 22F, and recently I started dating a guy from my university [21M]. \n\nI've been almost exclusively single since my last long term relationship two years ago, but through the fall and winter last year I had a very serious fling. My guy [25M] and I fell very hard for one another over the course of a few months (it did not work out well in the end. He had to move to a different continent). It was quite a difficult break-up (if you could call it one), and I was really not even able to face real closure until a month ago when we spoke for what is now the last time. \n\nBack to my dilemma now. I have mixed feelings about this new dating dynamic so far. This new guy is sweet, very kind, attractive, and we have a decent amount in common, so there's no reason I should not be ecstatic about us dating. Despite this, I feel very vulnerable right now, and I do not want to get hurt as badly as I did from my last fling, so I think I'm clamming up a little bit. My problem is that I can't tell if I'm over-thinking this all, if we simply don't have chemistry, or if I'm not ready to be dating someone else. (Or even if it's fair to continue to date the the new guy if I'm having second thoughts)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating a girl off and on for about one year now. Things have been complicated for a variety of reasons but it's finally stable and we've been going at it for about a month. \n\nI feel crazy for feeling this way and I acknowledge that, but I can't help it. When we're hanging out it's fantastic, really fantastic for both of us. Through everything we still have a stupid amount of fun together. \n\nThe problem is that whenever I'm not hanging out with her, I become really sad and anxious thinking about the two of us and I can't stop it. I assume it's a personal issue but I don't know how to fix it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months (we are both in our senior year of college). We both love each other and besides small communication issues, we get along great. But I feel guilty about things\n\nWe met during our freshman year. We flirted with each other for one week before we kinda hooked up. The night that we almost hooked up ended horribly, in a very embarrassing way for the both of us. I broke off things two days later and for the next three years, we didn't talk/acknowledge each other. After the incident, I told about 5-7 of my close friends the story of my almost hookup. \n\nAnyways, three years later, we meet up again through Facebook and we realize that we were still very attracted to each other. Now we're together. My problem though is should I tell my boyfriend that I told my friends the story of our hookup? \n\nThe people that know it was boyfriend who I hooked up with are my best close friends and I told them if they told him they know that I would stop being friends with them. I told them the story because a) I was extremely embarrassed and it helped to talk about it and b) I never thought that we would meet up later in our lives. I was wondering if I should tell my boyfriend that I told my friends this story? He's sensitive about the issue that is involved in the story and I don't want to unnecessarily hurt him but I always feel guilty about it and feel like he should know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I asked my now ex-boyfriend for a break while he was backpacking for a month after having been abroad for two months. I felt neglected and powerless. The relationship seemed entirely one-sided. I needed time to think if he was what I really wanted. We didn't talk for six weeks. When we finally talked, he was not interested in addressing the core issue. He implied that he didn't love me as much as I loved him. I can't seem to get over how much that hurt. \n\nI keep waking up, three months later, forgetting that we've broken up. Then I realize and get emotional. I know that he is what I want. I've known it for a while, I told him and he wanted nothing to do with me. I just feel like a terrible person for everything that happened. I hate myself. I just want him to be happy but I can't seem to move on. I really need help. I have a previous issue with self-mutilation (but I haven't cut in four years).\nAny advice for moving on with my life?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It was stormy weather in London today around noon so while holding my iPhone 6, which I should shamefully add is not backed up and I depend on to run my business (I know!), I reached out to close the window. Some awkward fumbling ensued and next thing I know my iPhone has gone out the window from the 13th floor onto concrete floor/grass below.\n\nRan to the lift, went out, trying to find it and it is laying over the footpath a metre or so away from the building. Some scratches but screen is fine and phone is working! Miracle. Not sure how but it made it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I was in 2nd year of college in Welland, Ontario (ugh) I lived with 6 girls. I'm a guy. One of them was my cousin, and the other her friend. The other 4 are not part of this story.\n\nAnyways - haven't spoken to/heard from/seen/had on Facebook this friend of my cousin's for 2.5years+ and today she is asking my cousin for my D.O.B., my middle name, and my home address (in Toronto, far from Welland).\n\nThis is significantly creepy to me as I have never had anything like this happen to me before. So Reddit, what are your creepy stalker stories involving people from your past?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am her boyfriend and am [x-posting] this from /r/ihaveissues.\n\n>I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. It's been at least two years since we've broken up. He was my first love, my first time and I also had his child. We're still good friends, but I'll always want more. Is this normal? My current boyfriend gets angry about it, even though I see no way to change it. I know that I'll never get back together with my ex, but I still think that my feelings for him will always control how much of my heart I actually put into a relationship. Do I try to fix it? Make my boyfriend get over it? Give up on all love together? :P", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were college sweethearts and we always had a solid relationship. She is the shy nervous type, but I loved that about her. After 1 year and 7 months I had to move for school, which led into a long distance relationship.\n\nThe distance really was difficult for both of us. She worked a night schedule and I worked a day schedule but we still managed to call every night. After a while, I tried to convince her to move to my side of the state. She did not really like her job that much (under payed) and I had a hard time finding a job on her side of the state (2 hours away). \n\nShe expressed a feeling of not knowing what she wanted to do with her career, leading her to not be able to commit looking for work near me. She was always really nervous with decisions and really feared drastic change. So I didn't push her, even though the distance was getting too both of us. She has to do whats best for her.\n\nSuddenly, that excuse ended up ending the relationship. She acted distant randomly as I visited her for the week (this was later in the week) and I called her out on it. She told me she doesn't know what she wants for her life and wants to be alone at this point in her life. She told me she loved me and as I left her house, I told her I hope shes finds what makes her happy and that I loved her. We were both in tears as I walked down her porch.\n\nIt has been a week since then and I am up-and-down each day. Happy,Sad,Confident, Self-loathing, miserable, ecstatic and most of all confused. I do still love her and I really don't know how to analyze what I am feeling. The breakup was out of nowhere. I just want to know that this type of things happens..because I personally don't understand it completely.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all, \n\nI wanted to get some advice on how to reach out to biological family members that I've never met. Basically, my mom got pregnant with me with her boyfriend of three years and he told her he doesn't like kids and didn't want to be involved with raising me, which I don't have any hard feelings about. My mom remarried and my step dad adopted me, so I had a father figure who treated me like his own. \n\nI've always been curious about my biological side of the family though and found them on Facebook. I have never reached out because I didn't think I was ready but recently have been thinking about contacting them. I know about a half sister I have from my bio dad's first marriage and she's in her thirties and lives really close by. My bio dad lives across the country. Would it be weird reaching out to her over Facebook? Or should I contact my biological dad first? I don't know if she knows about me so I don't want to shock her with the info or create a riff in the family. I'm really just a stranger to them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Same girl as before, different problem. \n\nStarted developing feelings for her and never really told her because I don't want it to affect our relationship. We're really close platonic friends and it's been that way since I've met her and I don't want that to change. Honestly just being her friend, listening to her talk, sitting next to her every day in class, gives me all the happiness in the world. I know she'll never see me as anything more than a friend and I've resigned myself to that fact. \n\nNot telling her that I like her though is killing me. I don't think she knows that I do like her, as nothing has changed between us at all. It feels like I'm being dishonest about our relationship, but on the other hand I don't want her to be pushed away if I tell her. I'm her only close friend, up to the point that things that girls usually talk to amongst themselves, about boys, crushes, boy bands, whatever, are things that she talks to me about, despite the fact that I'm a straight heterosexual male. Argh. And now I'm rambling. Jesus. \n\nTo make it even better, this entire situation is made even more complicated by a friend of mine, who was previously unacquainted with said girl, has now professed an interest in her and it's reciprocated. Fuck. Fuck. I'm supportive on the outside, and I really am happy for both of my friends, it's just... fuck. I can't help but feel like I missed an opportunity. And I feel like I'm being selfish. \n\nBlah.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this actually happened today. I work at a large sporting stadium, normally as a bar tender and today I was working in a kiosk i hadn't worked at before. At the clean up point in the shift one of the satff asked me to wipe the '....' i did not hear what she said, It sounded like benches, but that didn't seem right so i asked \"did you say clean the benches?\", to which her response was yea the benches. I was looking outside the kiosk at some of the park benches around the stadium thinking ok, this is wierd but whatever. At some bars I had cleaned tables outside the bar, and i was just like whatever, if that's how it works over here. Turns out that's not how it worked over there. when she confirmed benches, she meant the kitchen benches. Hind sight is a bitch. at this point she just explained to the other staff that i was just outside the kiosk scrubbing at a random bench. They all had a good laugh and poked fun for the rest of the shift. The fact that some of the girls there were also quite pretty made the embarrassment even worse. Felt pretty retarded after that. Really hoping i don't get rostered there again any time soon.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but love is pretty much all we've got that works. Well, we also get along very well. But other than that it feels like it is all obstacles between us. \n\nWe are long distance now because we are both academics and living the \"two-body problem.*\" We not only live far from each other, but far from our families that rely on us both for a lot of help -- and they will only become more reliant on us over time. (For me, the responsibility is taking care of my ailing and elderly parents (I'm an only child), for him it is his impoverished widowed mother and very sick brother). Top that with the fact that we have to work like maniacs around our numerous visits to each other and to our families to stay afloat in our very competitive careers. \n\nI could give up my work, but I am so close to a breakthrough in my research and it is on a treatment for a disease that is such a terrible scourge, I feel I can't leave it. Plus, being a scientist is not just what I do, it is what I am. This isn't like being a carpenter and I can just built a workshop in the basement and keep going with it. I would be miserable without my research, and not the woman he fell in love with anymore.\n\nCan this possibly ever work out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tonight a few friends and I went to a kegger in the student housing area around my school. Everyone was having a good time(not to big of a party, about 60 people) and one friend, who was really high at the time, was especially enjoying his take-out chicken fingers and fries. \n\nAnyway he had given a few of the chicken tenders away and someone proceeded to grab his last nugget, dunk it and eat it in one bite right in front of him. Now the friend with the chicken proceeds to throw his beer on the legs and feet of the chicken aggressor and yell some obscenities at him. \n\nThe following conversation included such timeless classics as \"What kind of man eats another mans last nugget\", and \"Honestly man, you need to grow up and learn to not eat other peoples last tenders\" and something else along the lines of i need that for sustenance. He than storms out the door and slams it behind. The whole party is now in silence and someone asks what that was about\n\n\"someone ate his chicken\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple months, and am currently in a long distance relationship. He is amazing- always initiates skype calls, sends me random loving emails, initiates sexts, sends me gifts through Amazon, etc etc. All signs point towards a great, faithful guy.\n\nHowever, what scares me is the possibility of him cheating on me emotionally. There are some examples on this sub where OP's were totally blindsided by their spouses/SO's cheating on them. Since I never touch his phone/laptop and only visit him a couple hours a week, even if he was texting/calling other girls I would have no idea.\n\nThere was also an incident in the first month of our relationship (after we confirmed exclusivity and relationship status). I caught him striking up a conversation with a girl he met on Tinder, which is also how we met. It was an innocuous text exchange, but he wanted to call her, which she refused. He told me it was because we had an argument and he just wanted to talk to a friend to take his mind off of it. I decided to accept this.\n\nIt's been a couple months since that incident, and I don't feel it's fair for me to bring that up in discussion with him. I decided to forgive him so I should stick with it. Most of the time, I know I am being paranoid- he is really a great boyfriend, very loving and spends basically all his free time with me. However, a couple days ago when I visited him, I looked over his shoulder while he was on Facebook and saw that he recently messaged a pretty girl at his school, just saying hi and how are you. I know it's ridiculous- they're classmates after all, and he can obviously talk to anyone. But that whole day I was in a bit of a funk.\n\nHow do I get rid of these insecurities? If a boyfriend is loving and caring, should I just let it go?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For starters, not sure if this is the right sub and format and everything. So please let me know if I messed anything up here. \n\nI feel like I'm a decent catch. I have two college degrees, a great job in my field, workout 5-6 times per week (and have ~9% body fat and a bit of muscle definition), pay my bills on time, and have a few thousand dollars saved up to buy my first house. I also smoke pot almost every night. \n\nI'm responsible about it. I don't smoke and drive, I take care of my business for the day before I smoke, and I try to minimize tar inhalation as much as possible. Also, I now rarely drink because I simply prefer to smoke.\n\nI'm about a year out of my last relationship and feeling really good about myself. I've gone on a couple dates from OKC, but have yet to find a good match.\n\nI know pot is a deal breaker for at least some women and am wondering whether I should quit in order to increase the number of potential matches. I also feel like there are other reasons to quit like health, job opportunities, etc. But the main one for me right now is to eliminate it as a deal breaker for potential relationships. If it wasn't for that, I wouldn't be considering quitting right now.\n\nShould I change my lifestyle? I don't necessarily see smoking as \"wrong\". But I don't love being a pothead either. What do you all think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I honestly do not care anymore. \n\nExcluding physicians and dentist, I am so sick of reading up on forums about how one career path in the medical field is over now that it is saturated and that the job prospects are completely made up. Time and time again people are complaining how even years after their graduation, they are unable to find a job.\n\nRegarding physicians and dentistry (which was the career I was originally pursuing), the tuition rates have become insane. At this point the average tuition rate for dental school is about 400k and rising. \n\nWhat is the point of working so hard in school and in life just to come out of school with a monstrous amount of debt.\n\nThe physician career is out of the question for me. There is no way I am going to kill myself studying 7 additional years of my life just to be overworked the rest of my life.\n\nAt this point I would think working for Starbucks or Walgreens and working your way up the ladder would be a better choice.\n\nPlease offer me some guidance because I have a few major science exams coming up within the next few days and I have lost all motivation to study.\n\nI grew up thinking the medical field was the safe career choice. Where job security was guaranteed. That if you just work hard, you will be successful and life will turn out easy.\n\nI honestly do not see any light at the end of this awful tunnel of careers in the medical field.\n\nThe reason I am emphasizing the medical field is because I grew up with healthcare all around my family so that is kind of my background.\n\nPlus I will soon be graduating with a biochemistry degree.\n\nI am not necessarily restricting myself to the medical field so I do welcome any kind of career advice or suggestions.\n\nAny advice is appreciated. Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have organized a trip two years in a row now from my University in Raleigh, to Camden, SC for the Carolina Cup horse race. We go as a group of approximately 50 people so we charter a bus for the occasion as it allows to consume copious amounts of alcohol with out a DD. \n\nAnyways for the past 2 years, with two different charter bus companies, each company called me within a week of the event saying the bus broke down.\n\nThis has lead to issues in transportation as we found out the first time around that any and every charter bus in the south east is going to the Carolina Cup at the time. A week before, there is literally no available busses anywhere.\n\nFor the past two years now, we have thought, what are the odds of two different busses breaking down at the exact same time, 1 year apart. Bad luck I guess.\n\nBut then one of my friends brought up something that almost seemed obvious. What if another group is trying to go to this event and order a bus too late, and so they come to our company and say \"We will pay you that plus more\" and the bus company just tells us the bus is broken which would void our contract with them, and then sells it to another group.\n\nHave any of you run into this issue? It's totally logical and really scummy since we know to order our bus 3 months in advance and then we are put in a terrible situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not 100% sure if I have what it takes to make this huge change, but I feel like being a Veternarian is something I really want to do in life. \n A bit of background. I'm currently 24, graduated with a finance degree 3 years ago. I'm currently a financial rep focusing on selling insurance. Even though I don't hate my job I feel like it doesn't fit my personality. But I stuck with it for a while because I don't like to quit easily. The idea of becoming a vet happened when a chinchilla of mine \npassed because I didn't take it to the vet in time, and I really love \nanimals. People tell me I'm a warm person and great with kids and \nanimals. I feel like this is something I came up with myself and not what other want me to be.\n So back to reality, I did a tiny bit of research on this. The closest grad school that has this program is Cornell university (I'm located in NY) I'd probably need to do an undergrad in science or medical field. I'm a little unsure of 8 more years of school, but I guess if there's no other choice. Another concern is money, I only have about 10k in bank, I cannot touch my retirement and life insurance money. I'm not sure if I can qualify for any federal grant. I may also need to move back with my parents. One idea I have is to just brokage product with high residuals while I wait to get into a school. I'll also appraciate any insight and experiences from a vet or a person going back to school.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of 3 years was blatantly ignoring me and apathetic and I decided to break up with him because I was the only one putting effort into keeping the relationship together. He hurt me (flirting with exes, lying, trying to berate me) way too often and enough was enough. We live together, but he said he would be the one to move out since I'm recovering from an injury and I have fish that would be a pain to move. I told him I want to cut ties and I do not want to talk to him anymore. I do not want to be his friend.\n\nI have heard him sobbing in the other room almost every night since the breakup. We have exchanged some letters but his letters don't make sense. He keeps saying he loves me and he doesn't know what he wants... That his emotions say he's \"making a continuous mistake\" but he is trying to be rational and needs space. He doesn't seem to accept the reality that I am DONE. It's over. I'm ready to move on. I feel like I don't love him anymore. \n\nTonight I confronted him because my alternative plan fell through. He said that moving out was not a priority for him. He was very cold about it and seemed to be putting on an act. Is he trying to get in a last ounce of control? \n\nWhat are my options? I live in a city where it is hard to find decent rent prices. My cousin agreed to move in with me here, but my ex doesn't seem to want to leave. I need to give my landlord 30 days notice before leaving. I feel like I should just give her the notice tonight and abandon the apartment and just settle wherever I end up. I could squeeze into a studio but I'm a student and would be paying way more than I am now. I might reach out to my family to help fund an apartment by myself.\n\nWhat should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have two cockatiels, one of which is very old, pushing 18 years of age. She is very fragile and very care intensive. She is unable to sleep on a perch anymore, so she usually sleeps in a soft pillow-lined box draped in towels with a number of soft socks and scarves to cuddle up in. I have a cage for her to stay in, but I feel like I'm punishing her if I lock her up in it. \n\nI'm leaving for a graduation trip to another city for the New Years (about an 8 day stay) and I do not really want to take the birds on a 12 hour drive across country. Unfortunately, the only people I trust to proved proper care for the birds (especially my elderly bird) are my parents who are also going on the trip with me. \n\nI'm forced to leave my feathered friends with a companion of ours from school, I trust him as he has been a pet-sitter for a number of other friends and promises to take good care of them, but I am still uncomfortable about leaving my Elderly bird with him. I'm not sure if he will know how to handle her being scared or what to do if she needs some attention...\n\nUnfortunately, my only options are: Leave both birds with him and hope everything goes well, or take the Care intensive bird with me on the 12 hour trip to stay in a hotel room while I go with my family. \nI am afraid the bird will feel I've abandoned her, get depressed and die before I have a chance to come back. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had a bad breakup ~6 months ago with my ex, let's call him Bill, who was emotionally abusive and ended up cheating on me with one of my friends and getting her pregnant. After the breakup, he expected that I'd eventually come crawling back. It took a lot of work not to, but I cut the cord and haven't spoken to him in 5 months now, even when he was sending me death threats. Asshole. One of my best girlfriends, let's call her Alice, knows all about this and was there for me through it all. She would do what all good girlfriends do: take me out for lunch, coffee, come over, cry with me, etc. \n\nAbout three months ago, Alice went through a breakup of her own, and I was there for her every day. \n\nYesterday, I thought it OK to finally unblock my ex Bill on Facebook. Morbid curiosity, maybe? Most of his Facebook posts are private, but he has several photos that are public. Recent photos, some photos that were even taken at the same time that Alice and I were together hanging out. Anyway, it turns out that Alice is still friends with Bill on Facebook (not a big deal), and she has been commenting and liking all of this posts (big deal--wtf?).\n\nI'm 100% certain Alice isn't interested in Bill sexually, as she is dating someone new now and completely head over heels. Her new man is all she can talk about. So her actions with my ex on Facebook really don't compute. \n\nI realize that it's a touch childish to worry about things over Facebook, but this definitely rubs me the wrong way. I can't really think of a good way to confront her about it either, because I'm afraid she'll immediately go on the defensive. As it stands now, I'm just going to put her at arm's length. This really, really sucks.\n\nAny advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've managed to lose 8 lbs. in under TWO WEEKS which I am very proud of, but I fear that my weight loss streak will come to a stop very soon. So far I've been really good with diet, no cravings, no junk, no sugary foods, but I am afraid that I will get a sudden urge to pig out at a fast food place or some greasy buffet. I have not yet encountered an urge like this but since it has been a while I am scared that some stress will hit me in my life and an old habit that I had would come back and causing me to go out and eat junk. If I ever encounter craving what should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(x-post from askreddit)\n\nOk so here is the story from what I've gathered, this happened about a year before I started dating her.\nShe attended a party near the end of her junior year in High School. She never really did alcohol or any drugs before this to much of any extent but this time she went way farther than she intended and ended up getting very crossfaded. Basically at some point during the night she started getting hit on by her boyfriend at the time's best friend who was sober. She was still a virgin and hadn't even slept with her boyfriend before but this guy convinced her to have sex with him.\nIn the morning she woke up in his shirt and barely remembered anything from the night before, but the fact that she had slept with the guy was fairly apparent. She asked him what had happened and if they even used protection but he wouldn't admit to anything. He wouldn't even say that they had sex. Soon after rumors circulated as they do in high school. She was always known as being incredibly innocent, hell she is a pastor's daughter, but now guys started asking her out of the blue if she would have sex with them if she was drunk. Also rumors got out that she was pregnant (she wasn't).\nAll this had a devastating impact on her self esteem and ego, meanwhile her boyfriend had gotten seriously depressed and was absolutely intolerable to deal with. The guy from the party started talking to her again. They met a few times under different circumstances, he would get her drunk, and have sex with her.\nShe left her boyfriend and soon after stopped seeing the other guy too. By the time that I met her she was obviously very scared to be in a relationship again. She also wouldn't sleep with me for the first few months because she was so scarred by her last experience. She still blames herself for the entire event even though the guy was obviously manipulating her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently on an internship in my home town, and have two other interns that work with me. They live together and have grown close, while I live at home. One of them really likes to talk about how bad of worker I am. I do not conciser myself a bad worker, just very conscious in what I do, and it slows me down some. I get the job done. \n\nI wouldn't really care what he said if I wasn't in my home town, but this is where my friends and family live. Everyone from my high school is coming home from college and we are all meeting at the bar. No doubt the other interns will be there. \n\nI have worked hard to keep a good reputation, but I know that this intern will bad mouth me to my friends at the bar when I'm not around. I don't know what to do. Being a good worker is one of the best traits that someone can have since I live in the Midwest. \n\nPlease help me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Only dated a few times, last night we were intimate. This morning he texts me asking if I have any STDs because he is feeling ill. I have been checked recently, and have made an appointment to be re-checked next week.\n\nHe says after we had sex there was an odor on his penis, and that there was an odor coming from me. I am very aware of what my lady parts smell like, and they don't smell like anything out of the ordinary. I have never had anyone say this to me before. I feel embarrassed and humiliated. Isn't it normal for there to be scent when having sex?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm mainly asking for my friend because a) the parties involved don't use reddit, and b) none of his close friends really know what to do.\n\nSome background: A couple months ago, my friend and former roommate (from here on referred to as B) had a call from his mom (who lives several states away) that his younger sister (we'll call her C) had been violent and abusive towards her. She had a history with drugs (meth and heroin) and theft, but her parents were unwilling to just put her out on the street. \n\nB agreed to take her in for a couple months to get her away from bad influences back home, and things were looking up. C started at a public uni with a clean slate, and B began a new job working long hours to support rent for two. C also began to identify as a male around this time (not sure if that's too relevant). Our friend group was supportive of both of them, and they would come hang out together from time to time.\n\nSeveral weeks later, B told me privately of C stealing marijuana and prescription painkillers from his (locked) room. I was shocked, because I had thought things were on the upswing judging from the few times I had seen them, but apparently C had failed every single one of his freshman classes. \n\nC began verbally abusing B and disrespecting (and stealing) his belongings in their apartment and leaving it a mess. B has replaced his locks, but confided in me that he has begun to hate living with C. His lease does not end until the 4th quarter of this year, and I hurts me to know that he works so hard for his sibling and gets treated like this in return.\n\nI've offered to keep some of his valuables at my place away from C, and couch space if he just needs to get away. I just wish that I could do more. How can I help him, reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I had to finish my last 2 years at university online because of affordability and illness. It was in a regionally accrediated state school out of state (so it was still 100% legit, and all my exams were proctored). I got better after the first year, but I had to finish online because many schools around me require the last 60 units to be done from them, so that would have required an extra year in school for no reason.\n\nAnyways, they always ask me \"How was it there? How was the weather?\" There was one interviewer that seemed turned off by the idea saying I was sick for a year and that's why I had to do that, I even mentioned I'm no longer sick. I couldn't tell if it was because I said online or because of my illness.\n\nSo is it smart to only bring up that I just couldn't afford the university I was going to before? Which is true. Do I not bring up the fact I was sick? Do I mention that all my courses were 100% the same as on campus students?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I go to college and I work on the school paper. I get some money from it, which is why I called it my job, but I don't really need it. I met her while working there, and we're both supposed to go back to the paper next year to work on it for the school year then. The problem is that we just broke up a couple of weeks ago, and I don't feel like seeing her again. She dumped me, and for some strange reason, I really hate her right now, and I don't think I would be able to stand seeing her. The problem is I don't really have many friends outside of the people I know on the school paper. So if I left the newspaper because of her, I feel like I could be alienated by the others for quitting before the school year start. Do you think I should still quit though? Am I being immature for not wanting to see her and work with her for an entire year? \n\nWe were together for a year, by the way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The girl of my dreams just ripped out my heart and crushed it into microscopic dust. (Through Tumblr...) I also almost got killed today due to my motorcycle malfunctioning and spilling gas all over the road. (And that will cost an arm and a leg to repair, I found out) Then I came home to seeing half my book collection ripped to shreds by my dog. (My fault actually, I left them in boxes on the floor while I painted my room.) I take joy at seeing other people happy or smiling. So raise my spirits up and tell me what made you smile today.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my housemate, Rich (lives above me and my boyfriend) has been watching his roommate, Kent's, dog for a week. Usually Kent takes the dog out 4 times a day but does not walk her. Rich works 8-9 hours straight so wasn't able to take her out and the dog went to the bathroom on the floor. He felt really bad about it, so he thought he'd take her for a walk because Kent had talked about taking the dog for a walk soon. While on the walk, the dog launched at another dog and bit onto its neck. Rich put his hand in the dog's mouth and pulled her off. He got cuts on his hand/wrist and there was a lot of blood. The woman even said it wasn't his fault (he told her it wasn't his dog and apologized profusely) ... she took her dog in. The dog had no cuts/bites, the blood was all from Rich.\n\nWell he called Kent who is on vacation who ended up being a dick over it. Saying \"Well you shouldn't have done that\" and that Rich will have to help him pay if the woman wants him to help pay any vet bills. Rich feels terrible and is really upset. Kent never told him he shouldn't take the dog for a walk. Kent made it sound like this has happened before but Rich had no clue.\n\nI guess my question is .. is this in any way Rich's fault? He had no idea. And should he have to pay for any vet bills the woman racked up? The dog never acts aggressive, just apparently does not like other dogs.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I have been together for three years and he's broken up with me because he says I'm perfect for him and he's not ready to settle down. He says I make him happier than anyone ever has and probably anyone ever will. He just feels like he is too young to settle down. Is he stupid for letting go a relationship with someone that makes him incredibly happy? Or should I respect his decision?\n\nIs this bullshit? We've broken up in the past a couple times because of his desire to stray sexually, so I'm completely confused. He's matured a lot since then and seems more invested in the relationship (until, obviously, he wasnt). He either is bullshitting me, or is making a huge mistake he's going to regret.\n\nHe's claiming it's just a break he needs. But should I be okay with that? I'm so confused. He seems very certain and confident that he gets to have one last break to go play and party before finally settling down with someone who makes him the happiest he's ever been. Do I let him go and make him realize what he's losing, or should I be mature and allow him the time to grow up?\n\nIt still stands I dont know if he's bullshitting or not.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last Friday (March 29th) my 5 and a half year old beagle, Miles, started acting weirdly. He would start shaking and quietly whining. My family and I chalked it up to being in a new environment since we brought him to stay with us overnight at my grandparents' new home. This wasn't too worrying to us, since Miles is epileptic (relatively common among beagles) and we assumed he was having a mild seizure. But the problem persisted through the night and every couple hours he would start shaking again on every inhale. Also, he refuses to jump onto the furniture he knows he's allowed on; he chooses to stay on the floor and whine or I have to pick him up to be on the furniture with me. What I noticed starting yesterday is that he seems to be in pain around his bottom ribs and haunches. I tried lightly poking him in those areas every couple of hours and every time I do, he yelps. \n\nThroughout all of this I noticed what worries me the most. As any beagle owner would know, beagles can't shut up around food. Never before has Miles acted calm around food, let alone slept in his kennel during Easter lunch in a strange environment. He won't run up to snatch a treat out of my hand, either. I have to offer it to him a few inches from his nose, or, if I throw it on the floor he might be bothered to mosey on over and chomp it up very slowly. \n\nDoes anyone know what may be wrong with him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this girl and I have been in a pretty serious relationship for the past 5ish months. She is a little older and has a 5 year old girl from a past relationship that I have just fallen in love with. I have always wanted kids and this has given me a taste of what it is like to be a Daddy.\n\nWe both love each other very much and the kid and I both love each other as well. I have taken the little girl fishing, to the zoo, on walks with the dog, etc.\n\nMy SO and I have lived together about two months and it has been a little rocky because of our situation but in terms of the relationship between us it has been great.\n\nWe met each other in detox and I went to rehab for a few months. We talked while I was there and when I got home we got together.\n\nNot too long after we started getting serious and I started getting involved with the kid she started asking a lot of questions about my ex because of things she saw on Facebook. She believes that my ex is still in love with me and that since we were together so long and still has a lot of pictures up of us together, of which I was also guilty. She asked about a couple casual conversations that my ex and I had in the last few months and I told her honestly that it was just casual conversation.\n\nShe seems to think the contrary and believes that it is only a matter of time before we end up getting back together. I tell her there is no way in hell I would do that regardless of being in a relationship or not but she is persistent.\n\nShe is so afraid I am going to break her and her daughter's hearts.\n\nI don't know what else to say to her at this point. I deleted all our photos, unfriended her, told her to please take hers down.\n\nThis has not done anything to persuade my SO otherwise.\n\nI just want a little perspective on what this is all about or what the next possible moves on my part could be.\n\nI really love this woman and her little girl and I dont want to lose them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (22M) have a crush on this girl (22F) in my University. I have asked her and she is interested in me also. We have had sex and things have been going on for 3 months.\n\nBut here is the twist, she is bipolar. She basically have these periods where she changes personality and won't talk to me and totally ignore me. These periods can come whenever and it's driving me crazy.\n\nThing is, I really like her. I can't get her out of my head and when she is \"normal\" we have a great time together and the sex i great. But I don't know if I can handle those \"periods\" anymore. They really hurt me emotionally. \n\nAny suggestions on what to do? Should i dump her or should I stick with it and \"ride the storms\"?\n\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend (19M) broke up with me (20F), after an 8 month relationship, a little over a month ago. The break up was bad. I was hysterical and acted like a child. At first I did not know why he had broken up with me (his answers to my questions were not very clear). \n\nAfter a while, and a little soul searching, I realized that out relationship fell apart because of my need to be in control. I was constantly nagging him to do things and I constantly micro-managed not only my life, but also his. \n\nI have been going to counseling ever since the break up. It has made me realize that my behavior comes from a controlling parent. I do not want to be controlling and am working on living life without worry about something not going right. So far, I am actually enjoying my life more than I have in a very long time.\n\nI had not thought about my ex for quite a while. About a week after the break up I decided that it was time for me to pull my life back together. Now that I am feeling much better, I have started thinking about him again. I would like to try again in a relationship with him. I am sure he is angry and hurt by the way I treated him. I do not want to have the same relationship we had because if it did not work once, it is not going to work again. I could go give him the whole \"I've changed\" speech, but I feel like I need to say something different than that. I do not know what to do to try and win him back, and let him know I actually want to have a good, healthy relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been out of steady employment since January of 2011. It's been a mixture of bad employer experiences, but mostly really bad personal choices. Way behind on child support, I haven't been able to make a full payment in quite some time and it absolutely guts me that I don't have the means to make sure my children are taken care of. I've spent the last few weeks refocusing on what I need to do to take care of my kids. I'm divorced with two kids. I don't have full custody, just every other weekend. \n\nThis morning I was offered a job in New Mexico (I live in Louisiana). The pay would be double that of what I've made at any job in the past so I would absolutely have the means to fulfill my responsibilities. I just hate the idea of being away from my kids, but I could always fly home on weekend. As with any normal parent, my kids are the two most important people in my life and even not seeing them for two weeks is hard enough. Do I take this job and make sure they're set up for life, or do I try to stick it out here and hope I can land a minimum wage job (I work in TV news, there are two stations around here but they won't hire me as I was laid off from one of them).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit, so i have a little problem. I'm not sure if this is the right sub but I'm just going to leave it here. I was driving home from school today and this car in front of me stopped short and I had to slam on my breaks. So what did my Idiot self decide to do tail gate this car for the next 15-20 seconds. I eventually back off after I cool down and everything is ok for the next couple of minutes. However, as we both approach a red light with the other car making a left and myself making right, as I passed her she honked her horn at me a couple times. Now this normally would not be an issue for me as I like to consider myself a level headed person. But once again in the heat of the moment I honked back a couple times and proceeded to give the middle finger out of the window. As I look back to see if the driver of the car get gotten the message, the car drives up next to me and rolls down the window. As I begin to ponder the possible things that I am going to say after the window is rolled down I suddenly realize that it is a teacher at the school that I attend. She says to me and my friend who is sitting besides me, \"DO YOU WANNA SAY SOMETHING TO ME?!?!?!\" I then look at my friend who is scared beyond belief. The cars in front of us began to move at this point and all i said was \"No were good\" and drove off. Now I am pretty sure she does not know who I am, but my friend has her as a teacher for one of his classes. I am trying to figure out what I am going to do sort this all out tomorrow. I am leaning to going up to her and apologizing but I just wanted to get some input from a site that I have seen so many others before me. Sorry for the long post.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last year there was this guy I liked who a) had a girlfriend and b) I was just friends with through sports. Basically, I didn't ever expect anything to happen. \nTowards the end of the school year he and his gf broke up and then over the summer he started texting me a lot and then we went out once or twice. Nothing ever happened (maybe an occasional hug, no kissing or anything), we would just talk and flirt and go out a lot. So that went on for about six months and then I guess...I don't know I just didn't like him anymore I suppose. Suddenly, the idea of being in a potential relationship (cause at this point it still wasn't defined) with him just wasn't as appealing anymore. Basically, it was something I really wanted until all of a sudden it just wasn't. So basically, what is wrong with me/what caused it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone of reddit I need you. 21 female here. \nSo I'm currently a freelance artist manager, which means I help musicians get their career going so they can focus on creating music.\nI've been working with my client for a few weeks now, and it's come to the point where we have so much in common (same music tastes, same interests, pretty much if I was a guy he would be me) so inevitably we've ended up being really really good friends and just recently slept together. \n\nI'm just trying to figure out where I'm supposed to go from here. I want him to do well in his career, since in the end, me doing well is totally contingent of him doing well, which is why I feel like mixing business and pleasure is a bad idea. However, I see it working out. I don't see myself in a relationship anytime soon, and feel like I can keep my emotions away and keep things platonic. As a female, I also feel like I'm battling the constant \"oh you gave in too soon, you're being too easy\" but really, I WANTED this. Who is anyone to tell me that I'm too easy for doing this on my own will, cause if the situation was reversed no one would be calling the guy \"easy\". \n\nSo what do you guys think about mixing business and pleasure. Is it all just gonna go to shit? Is communication key? Should I just quit while I'm ahead?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I grew up with my mom. When I hit the age where I started growing facial hair, she bought me a razor (one like [this] and some shaving cream, and I just kind of figured out the rest.\n\nI generally shave after my hot shower (I believe it opens the pours or something). I cover my face in gell/foam and go with the grain then against the grain. Then if I missed any spots or the razor is dull and there is still a little bit of stubble, I'll go with the grain again, until it is gone.\n\nThat's it. \n\nMy beard looks like [this] because I don't know how to shape or style it. I have no hair above my lip or on my neck. Once the beard gets a bit too long, I'll just shave it all off and start over because I don't know what the hell I'm doing.\n\nI was thinking about buying an electric razor because:\n\n1. I'm under the impression I can do a quick once-over on my face every day, keeping myself relatively clean shaven, or, if I can pull it off, with just a thin layer of stubble (which I hear the ladies like).\n\n2. It would be cheaper than buying razor heads.\n\n3. They don't give razor burn, which, I get on my neck frequently if I shave more than once every four days (which sucks because I get a faint neck beard that I feel looks unattractive).\n\nSo yeah... Any suggestions? Good electric razor suggestions? I've got about $50 to spend on one, unless a more expensive razor will make a huge difference, and is well worth the investment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was online and reading an [article] about a young boy who asked to be transferred out of a class of a gay (but closeted) teacher in his middle school. The boy had been picked on and harassed by other students for being \"teacher's pet\". He couldn't handle it, so he asked for the transfer.\n\n38 years later, he apologized to the teacher for his disappearing from the class.\n\nMy own story is about a girl with Down's Syndrome in my P.E. class. She was fun and funny. Always cracked jokes and tried to make everyone happy. After spending most of the year with her, I had become the focus of most of her attention. Being a moody teenager, I didn't want this attention and would avoid talking to her.\n\nNear the end of term, she wanted to give me a hug. As she closed in on me, I turned around and walked away. I later wrote a letter to her asking her not to talk to me and to leave me alone.\n\nAs I've gotten older, that letter and my actions make me ashamed of myself. I never apologized to her or even looked at her for the next 2 years. I've tried to find out what happened to her since her graduation (children with Down's are developmentally delayed. She was 21 when she graduated), but I've never found anything. I would like to ask her forgiveness and I hope one day I will.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So to not beat around the bush basically looking for help/advice in how to best handle the problem.\n\nI had trouble maintaining an erection while first being with her. For some reason condoms have always made me feel like I lose 80% of sensation which is a big buzz kill but the only protection we have atm. She's also a larger girl which makes positioning difficult. \n\nThis is what scares me the most. I've only been with a handful of women and the only time I've ever had performance problems was with one other larger woman. I attributed that first time to being on a rebound from my shambles of a marriage not to mention she really wasn't that good of a person.\n\nBut now I'm with a larger girl and having the same problem... this frightens the hell out of me because she's an amazing person. I am truly attracted to her but when the condom became an issue I took it off and it was great, stayed hard, made her orgasm. But stopped because it made her too nervous.\n\nI don't want to scare her off because of the issue. Her weight really doesn't factor into who I want to be with but if I can't perform I know she's going to think that's why.\n\nI guess im just mostly conflicted about my feelings because with that first larger woman I couldn't...just couldn't have sex. But now I did with this woman that I really care for but not without complications... any objective thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've recently started a relationship (I'm 22M she's 22F), and now that it's starting to get pretty serious I've started to have the problem that has helped end other relationships for me: that I'm being a little overly-jealous.\n\nWe spend the night apart for the first time in a couple weeks because her friend (another girl) was in town and stayed with my SO for the night. I was of course totally cool with this, as it gave me a chance to play some discgolf with my buddy. She even let me keep her car for the night (I've been driving it to work/school rather then driving the bus). We planned that she would come over in the morning and hang out for a bit.\n\nSo this morning I woke up to her kissing me, everythings cool, but then she said she had to take her car and leave right away. I was still half asleep but right after she left I was like wtf? It really pissed me off, and I sent her a pretty harsh message over facebook (my phones currently dead). Turns out she was going to breakfast with her friend, and they've been hanging out all day. I feel really jealous that she gave up on our plans to hang out with her friend instead. But I think I'm taking it too hard, because we're together every night and she should be able to hang out with her friend for a couple days.\n\nThis has happened in previous relationships, when plans change and my SO hangs out with other friends.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys, first post on reddit and also a throwaway account, so hopefully this goes alright.\n\nI've been feeling bummed out recently for seemingly no reason. I am fairly fortunate, but have low self esteem from a childhood as a fat nerdy kid that had troubles socialising.\n\nI've been noticing recently I've been angry a lot easier, and I am feeling less and less empathetic to people's problems. My Dad has been chatting to me about his job and the people he works with (he hates it, the people there put him down) and I try and listen but the more I listen the more I get stressed out, and I try and get out of these conversations (rude I know but I can't take listening to it for too long).\n\nMy friends also complain to me about things I just find trivial, and I get really annoyed at some of them because they are really quite fortunate money wise, or are just lazy and that's basically what's causing their problems. I never really complain about anything in particular to them, or when I do they make a big deal about it and basically make a joke out of what I'm talking about.\n\nAll this is probably not much of a big deal, especially compared to problems I've seen on here, but I'm not sure what to do. Anyone been in a similar situation? I wouldn't mind going to see a psychiatrist but I am saving money at the moment, and I don't earn much (part-time worker) and I hate asking my parents for money. Does anyone know if there are any schemes where I can go see someone to talk about this stuff? I'm a university student if that helps.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start. \n\nTonight I went out with one of my roommates to eat at a new restaurant. Turns out it was awesome: TONS of beer on tap, awesome food (I devoured the Sausage and Shrimp platter), and there was a TV at every table. Needless to say, I've found my new place to go to watch away football games. \n\nMy friend and I get in the car to drive home and we're both talking about how stuffed we are. We both have eaten so much, too much, that we almost feel sick. We laugh about it and and head home. Then my phone rings. It's my mom. I go to college in the same town that I graduated high school and it turns out that I was supposed to eat supper tonight with the family and spend some time with them. \n\nI tell her that, yes I'd forgotten due to being busy with schoolwork but that I'm on my way now. I proceed to speedily drop my roommate off, wash my hands and brush my teeth of Cajun spices and then head over to my parent's house to eat with them so that they don't feel worse than they already do for having their son forget about dinner with them. \n\nI think I'm about to throw up having just eaten two full meals...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last year, I entered a pretty selective school in which only a certain number of people can enter the school each year, so in every grade there isn't many people. I'm in my second year, and the class I was put in just happened to contain absolutely nobody I knew, while everybody else knew each other. On the second day, I noticed some other people who didn't seem to belong with everyone else; in a desperate attempt to not be alone, I blurted out, \"Hey, My name is BlackLotus770, want to be friends?\" which I immediately regretted. \n\nSo being an awesome person, she didn't mind that I had asked her like a kindergartner, and so everyday in class we sat next to each other and I discovered that she was a very awesome person indeed. However, I couldn't really keep up conversations with her and we didn't have all too much in common, and we slowly drifted away. She formed a group with some other people in the class, and doesn't really talk with me very often anymore. I mean, she does, but really only the typical \"hey\"s and \"how's it going\"s. \n\nSo now I'm all alone. In classes where I used to sit next to her, I now awkwardly join another group as my seat was taken by somebody else. I have friends outside of class, but during classes I just feel so awkward, especially if we have to get into groups. \n\nShe's an awesome person, and I don't want to latch onto her as she obviously likes being in the company of her group and not me, but I also don't want to be alone. I don't really know if I can call anyone in my class a friend, but I'm on friendly terms with everyone. I can't help but feel a bit lonely, though. Is there anything I can do? I'm the quiet and awkward one in class, but I'm trying to improve socially. And yes I know I'm young, but help would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]

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