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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 18, finished high school with great grades and entered law school (Australian so people can enter right out of high school) but it's a course I feel little conncetion to and with limited career opportunities at the moment. I skipped a year of high school so had a spare year and decided to try it out. Little was lost and I developed my thinking skills in law but I've decided to drop out and have no idea what to study.\n\nI enjoy learning and connecting different fields of human study and find it near impossible to limit myself to one topic and area, for that reason history is by far my best subject as that reflects the interwoven nature of the world and want to help the world with whatever I do. What direction can an intelligent young adult take in university if this is the way he sees the world? I feel like with near limitless choice I'll end up making the wrong choices and be miserable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "TIFU, actually this isn't from today but rather 2 years ago. Back then I was 16 years old. I do have to mention that I have never been the most athletic guy (except for basketball, I am surprisingly good at it), I am quite short and at the time I wore very very nerdy glasses. \n\nThere was this super super hot girl I had a crush on, I am talking a 12/10 girl and after fighting my shyness I managed to talk to her and befriend her in my PE class. We didn't really do anything in the class except play with some cards. Anyways I still hadn't managed to get her phone number but I didn't have the guts to ask for it. So this one time coaches allow one side of the court for basketball and the other for volleyball. And of course I tried to show off playing basketball in front of her. I constantly looked at her and smiled and she smiled back as she watched me, apparently it was working. I do have to say that I moved to the United States from Mexico and I played a little soccer, I am not good but I can get some respect. Anyways one of the volleyball people get their ball right where I am at and super smart me decides to show off some of my soccer skills. I prepare myself and kick the ball extremely hard because they volleyball courts were a little far. I believe that is the time I have kicked a ball the hardest in my entire life. And all of a sudden I can see the ball head towards my crush, I watched it as if it was in slo mo. I couldn't do anything about it. And baaam!! Headshot, I hit her right in the face and knocked her unconscious. I run towards her just as other people did. Her nose was bleeding and she was slowly gaining consciousness. I apologized with all my might, but it was all for nothing. She left school that day and came back the next day. She didn't talk to me ever again. I was so close to getting her number and I fucked it up by trying to impress her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both 19, and we've known each other for nearly 7 years at this point. We both did well in high school, I'm doing fine in college, but he isn't. He started as an engineer, then realized that that wasn't for him after nearly failing out of college #1 in two semesters. \n\nOver the summer, he went to summer school and got accepted into a program at a local university (college #2) where he would become a full-time student after attending as a non-matriculated student for the fall semester. I thought that everything was going to be all right with him; he seemed to do well, and from what I heard he was doing well at the beginning of the fall.\n\nHowever, I found out yesterday that he had decided to drop out and try his luck in a full-time job. His reasoning behind this is that because he's failing 2 of his 4 classes; he tried an outside tutor who was a complete waste of time, and apparently there's a law that says a non-matriculated student cannot use the university's tutoring resources. \n\nI can't find this law anywhere online, but even if it does actually exist, one of the classes he's failing is one whose equivalent here I happened to get an A in and I would be perfectly willing to tutor him. I've tried talking to him and he just won't listen to reason. He just wants to move in with his girlfriend when she moves close to him to go to school and become an apprentice sword-smith. Sadly, yes, you read that last line correctly.\n\nThe county he lives in has one of the highest unemployment rates in the state overall, never mind for someone without a college degree; I get the sense he is throwing his life away and I desperately want to help him. First, is it even possible to get the college to take him back? From what I've heard, he only dropped out at the end of last week. Second, how can I convince him to go back- and that I'm willing and able to help him with the classes he's having trouble with?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi girls. Need some advice and never been in this position that I know of before. We've hung out for almost a month now. Never been sexual besides some kissing and light touching and he just recently told me he has had herpes for a while and for him it is very manageable. I could tell it was very hard for him to tell me. He is a big strong guy and had tears in his eyes telling me. He said he isn't on meds but he'd b willing to for sure. \n\nHe seems like such a great guy, he has a good job, is very attractive and we click so well. We are both in our late 20s. What should I do? I know the worst part of this disease appears to be the stigma and like one in five people\n\nOr so have it. I am scared to let him walk but obviously I don't want herpes myself. I just know if he didn't have this condition we could really be something. We have a ton of common interests and he seems to have a lot going for him. But I don't know what to do. Any advice???", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I have been together for three years. During that time, he's had some trouble with jobs. He cannot afford to go to college at this point, and in order to go to school for what he'd like to do we would have to move about an hour away, (which, at this point in time, we cannot afford but are saving up to do so). \n\nHe's currently extremely unhappy with his job, so much so that he seems incredibly depressed all of the time. His boss doesn't listen to him, (he is in a management position), and also has been cutting his hours. I would love for him to find something else, but he feels like he any job that he would get would be exactly the same. He has issues with anxiety, and filling out job applications causing him so much stress that he seems to shut down. I try to motivate him to find something he likes, or anything that will be different from his current situation, but it's almost like he sees no hope in anything. \n\nI want to be supportive, I listen to all of the problems he has at work, and I offer suggestions to make it more bearable. I'm also doing my best to present him with other places in town that he could apply to. His unhappiness at work is affecting him so much at home that I just want him to be able to quit this job and find something else. We would like to have children one day, but ideally when he has a job that he is comfortable and stable in.\n\nHow can I motivate him to really push past his comfort zones and show him that better jobs do exist?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've got a bit of a dilemma on my hands and I'm not sure where to go with it.\n\nI graduated about a year ago with a bachelor's degree in Communication and I live in the Midwest. While that's typically not a great degree in this economy or this area, I've been employed by a very well-known and respected ad agency for a little over six months now. My internship in college was in NYC with one of the big TV news outlets. Not trying to be cocky, but I have a good resume for being a year out of school and I'm really, really trying to preserve it. \n\nI'm extremely thankful for being employed. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate where I'm at when I see so many on this subreddit suffering in unemployment. But I'm genuinely unhappy. I find advertising to be wholly unrewarding, soul-crushing and morally bankrupt. I sell unhappiness and consumerism for a living in a high-stress, low-pay environment and it's starting to affect who I am outside of work.\n\nWhen I first graduated I was trying to get back to NYC where I'd done my internship and now I'm really considering giving it a try once again. \n\nHowever, I've only been at this job for a little over 6 months and I'm worried that 1) it's going to make me look like a job jumper and 2) nobody will take me seriously. Maybe this shows my age and immaturity, but I know that if I got hit by a bus tomorrow I'd regret sitting in a cubicle for 50 hours a week and not going after a dream.\n\nHas anyone else had this experience? Any advice? Tough love?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tifu, and unlike many on here this actually happened today, about 2 hours ago. \n\nSo first a little background info: I'm a 17 year old boy with the large ambition of becoming an orthodontist. Lucky for me, I got a job as an orthodontic assistant; a job that I truly enjoy. However today, I experienced a 1st. \n\nWe were cementing in a palate expander on this young boy. We've had a bad experience with him gagging before while we were in his mouth, so we always tell his mother to avoid feeding him before appointments. So we get through the entire procedure without a hiccup, everything went extremely smooth. We start to sit him up in the chair. Now I don't know if it was the high speed that those dentist chairs incline at or what, but this boy began to vomit. He threw up on the floor, on the chair, in his lap.. All over the place. So, my first reaction is to go get a garbage bucket. I run and get it and hold it under him. Phew, at least it's all going in here.. But wait.. Projectile vomit! Before I had time to react both my forearms were covered in warm, chunky, what looked like vegetable stew. I froze. He froze. The Dr. froze. The little boy made eye contact with me, said he was sorry, and spit out a last little bit on my hand (for good measure). \n \nI got cleaned up, helped the Dr. clean up, and then went home took an hour long shower.\n\nIn the end, it was bad but I don't get too bothered by this kind of stuff so it could have been worse. And hey, I still wanna be an orthodontist. \n2/10, would not get thrown up on again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm currently long distance with my gf for about two months since she's interning elsewhere. Last Friday I went to a workshop in another city (and am still here), and I noticed she just ceased all communication over the weekend. I sent her some messages asking what's going on, and she finally responded last night with the following sequence of messages.\n\nher: Ill talk to u when u get back from dc\n\nme: huh why\n\nher: I have something i want to talk to u about but not while youre there so ill wait for u to come back first\n\nme: i can Skype you now\n\nher: No, ill talk to u when youre back\n\nme: why does it matter where I'm at\n\nher: Oh, didnt see this\nIll just talk to u when u get back, i dont want to talk about it right now\n\nme: you said that already\n\nher: I dont have anything else to say atm\n\nI'm going back home in two days (to my place, not where she's currently at), but I can't stop thinking about this today, and it's distracting me from other things. I don't really want to press her further if she's unwilling to talk, but on the other hand I need a better understanding of what's going on right now.. if someone can help me decipher the cryptic messages she sent, it would be much appreciated.\n\nWe've been apart for nearing two months now but I have a flight to visit her in a little under two weeks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "me (M 21) and my GF (F 21) have been going strong for a couple months now, but she recently went abroad which I have no problem waiting for her to come back because I really like this girl a lot! But last week I did the worst thing known to mankind and I got a little bit too drunk, to the point where I only remember bits and pieces of the night. The original plan was just to stay home and drink, but my best friend wanted to check out a nearby bar/club. Which I had no issues with because I was already starting to feel the effects of the alcohol, so it just seemed like a good time to go out and have fun with my friend especially since we haven't been able to do that in a couple weeks. \n\nSo he drove us out to the club, where I continued to drink, and drink, and drink. To the point where I was way past shitty, long story short (from what I was told) I found a chick and told her where I lived and invited her back. She came over with her wingwomens, we did the dirty, and they all left. \n\nI have 2 issues with this: my friend probably pressured me into doing the dirty, because he's done this type of thing to other people before to try and break them up with their girlfriends. AND I was only able to talk to my GF 2 times within a week because of our schedules. the first time was the day after and I didn't have the courage to tell her then, but I was going to tell her the next time we spoke, but one of the wonderful wingwomens from the club beat me to the punch and sent her a message on facebook about it 10 minutes before we talked the second time.\n\nNow this is where I thought it got complicated though. I have never before cheated on a GF and hate those who do. She knows that I was to blackout drunk, through me telling her and the message (I don't even remember having sex with the chick) and what my friend has done in the past. Is there anyway I can get her trust back for this horrible accident that I don't even remember happening?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A buddy of mine told me his story a while back so here goes. We'll call him Ethan, because that's his name, and he'd somehow managed to bring an older girl round his house. He was in Year 10 and she was in Year 11 (basically he was 15 she was 16). She asked him if he wanted to 'get off' (not sure if you guys on the other side of the pond use this phrase but she was basically asking if he wanted a handjob) and he replied 'No thanks I can do it by myself'. Much face-palming occurred when he realised what he'd done.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for close to a year now. We are both from India originally, but both of our families immigrated to Canada when we were kids. \n\nSo the topic came up while we were talking about our past relationships with a group of friends. We started talking about interracial relationships, and I mentioned how I had never been in a serious relationship with someone outside my race. Everyone got curious when I stated this, and asked me what the reason was. I responded saying I was unwilling to have a relationship with someone without a similar background to myself, primarily because I feel there would be too many differences to overcome for it to work. I understand it works with many couples, however personally I feel this would not be the case for myself. \n\nAfter my response, everyone, including my girlfriend, remarked how they felt that was really racist for me to say, and that plenty of interracial relationships work in the real world. After we got home, my girlfriend was especially angry with me, stating how she felt that was a complete bigoted view to have. I tried explaining that it wasn't because I believed my race was superior or whatever else, just that I felt everything from food to religion, to cultural values would be too different to fully overcome. She was unwilling to accept that however. \n\nSince that night, it has been tense between my friends, girlfriend, and myself. I can tell my girlfriend is still pissed at me. How should I approach this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's the deal...\n\nI met this woman in a family reunion as she's kind of a best friend to my mother. We actually got to know each other for almost two years without really hinting on any desire of one another. We just connected and felt good around each other. Then, one night we were just drinking wine while talking about mindless stuff when she suddenly confessed her feelings for me which prompted me to confess mine. We started flirting and I ended up kissing her leading to our now relationship.\n\nHowever, she asked for our relationship to be kept a secret since she has a 10 year old son and is friend to some of my relatives. She's scared of getting judged and/or criticized by people because she's \"officialy\" ina relationship with her father's son although he has never been there for her, as I'm told. They never married and, although he has denied it, she thinks he has another family because he only visits his son a couple hours on saturday. \n\nEven though, she has kept the fact that they're not a couple to her son. He used to think his parents are married and his father is just off to work and only has free time on saturdays but has recently begun to ask a lot about his father and the reason why he's almost absent.\n\nI get along with her son quite well and he seems to look at me as some kind of old bro. But just yesterday he caught us having sex, she was surprised and scared and asked me to immediately leave her place. She tells me he's acting kind of angry and/or disappointed at her, he doesn't speak to her or let her hold him. She asked me to stay away for some time since she thinks it's better if she talks to him alone. I respect her decision though I'm not really comfortable with it because I feel like running away from it. Although I don't really what to do about it or what to even expect. I guess I always kind of knew this would happen some time or another and in some way I wished for it to happen because I felt he deserved to know the truth about her mother and I but now I don't feel quite right about it.\n\nAny thoughts or similar experiences?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm sure that there are good cops out there, but for the most part I've only come in contact with bad ones. What's your worst cop story? I'll start:\n\nI was at a T intersection late at night, waiting to turn left onto the main (horizontal part of the T) road. There was one car ahead of me and when the light turned green and the first car started to turn left, a cop car came barrelling through the intersection at high speed without any lights (including headlights!) or sirens on. Luckily the person in front of me had quick reflexes and slammed on the brakes, otherwise I'm pretty sure the cop would have seriously injured him or her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time posting on Reddit and on mobile, formatting might be a problem.\nYesterday, I checked my bank account online after my card was not accepted for a payment. Turns out I have a balance of -$60 on my debit card because of a purchase done on a subscription I didn't even know I had subscribed to. I only had 0.23¢ (irresponsible, I know) on my bank account, and the subscription costed $12. So apart from the $12 fee, I got an overdraft fee of -$34, and another more for -$15 after not paying the first fee a week after I got it. So now I have a $60 fee, and I have no idea if it will affect my credit or my debit in any way. I do not have a credit card, I have never had any, and I plan to pay the debt today. Will this fee affect me and my credit in any way?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my boyfriend are in a very serious relationship (I'm 20, he's 21) We've been talking to each other every day for almost a year, and have been together for 6 months now. Just recently I was thinking about promise rings, but I'm not sure if he even knows what they are, or if couples even give these to one another anymore. Neither one of us are ready for marriage yet, but I still want to do something like give him a promise ring. We've also both mentioned that we don't want to get married until about 25 or so. \n\nMy question: Would it be a weird thing to get him? Would it scare him a little to know I'm thinking about stuff like that? Has anyone been in a relationship where a partner has given the other a promise ring?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiancée [26/M] and I are getting married on Saturday after dating for over 3 years and being engaged for one. He used to be so affectionate and demonstrative (random love notes, saying how \"lucky\" he is to be with me, hugs for no reason) and as the wedding gets closer, he seems to shut down more and more. He's taking a very active role in the wedding planning, but he doesn't seem to be excited at all about actually getting married. \n\nWe are fairly young, and I want him to be excited about this new and significant step (marriage). What if he's like this when we have our first child? I don't want to be with someone who can't express their joy at life experiences/milestones. I'm just feeling depressed. Is this what I have to look forward to?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little about both of us:\n\nTogether for 6 months. Its been a great learning experience for both of us and we come from similar backgrounds with a lot in common, however\n\nI tend to push him in areas where he lacks like school and work. He appreciates it and says he wouldn't be where he was without me, however, he nags me CONSTANTLY about going to the gym (I go twice a day), my eating habits(vegan), sleeping habits, and grades. His are admittedly much worse than mine.\n\nWhen I tell him \"I like you the way you are and I want you to want to improve yourself first. I don't feel like I have the authority to tell you those things\"' he tells me he holds me to a higher standard than himself.\n\nI've encouraged him to come on runs with me (he's lucky enough to be in great shape, but who doesn't want to look and feel better) buy him protein drinks to bulk up ( he says he wants to) , left him alone to study, make goals for the future to work harder, encouraged him to hang out with friends, etc, and he sits in the house all day and brushes it off.\n\nWhat do I do if I finish college before him (which is likely) or bypass him in any areas of life later down the road? How do I make him want to be better before I think I'm too good for him and leave? Is this even normal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "What are your experiences in long-distance relationships? Do you communicate every day? How many hours do you typically communicate each day?\n\nMy gf and I regularly argue about this. Basically, she always complains that we don't spend enough time on the phone/chat, while I always complain that it's too much. We normally talk about 5-10 hours over phone and another 5-15 hours on chat each week, which comes down to 1.5-3.5 hours each day. I have a regular work day (8-10 hours), and often my only after-work activity is communicating with my gf. I love talking to her, but honestly, often I would prefer doing other things instead (watching movies with friends, reading, doing sports,…).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I can't go into too many personal details because he is a Redditor and I don't want to chance that he'll see this. (I doubt he'd go on this subreddit, but I'd rather be safe than sorry).\n\nBasically, we're both in our mid 20's. We've been together for 4.5 years. He has been all I've ever wanted pretty much since we first met about 7 years ago. We have had our fair share of arguments, but we always work them out. However, this past April it was, honest to god, like a light switch went off, and I just don't feel that \"connection\" that I used to. I don't \"care\" enough to try to work out any of the little arguments we have. He hasn't done anything different...I can't explain it at all and it really scares me that one day it's fine, and the next day my feelings are just gone. Since then I've been trying to give it time to see if maybe I'm just going through a sort of \"depression\" phase and maybe this will go away, but it is not getting any better. I don't feel like cuddling or being close any more, and he definitely knows something is up because he's been asking \"why don't you want to cuddle anymore...why don't you love me anymore\" (he's not saying it seriously, almost jokingly, but I can tell he knows something is off). And it kills me because even just the thought of hurting him makes me cry, and part of me doesn't want to leave him because I really do still care about him just as much as I always have.\n\nI wouldn't know where to even start with bringing all of this up to him...(what to say, what my reasoning would be). Does anyone have any suggestions or advice to give? I'm just desperately lost and confused.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi. I met a girl several months ago at College on an academic fieldtrip where we went abroad with our course for a week. We got on while we were there, but when we arrived back home neither of us spoke to each other for a while.\n\nA few days later she started speaking to me and we really began to hit it off. It got to the stage where we were speaking almost all the time, whether it was by text or by Facebook or face-to-face, and one day we got onto the topic of relationships with a mutual friend. I found out that she was not looking for anything, and neither was I, so I thought nothing of it. \n\nWe began to speak less and less over time, and more recently we've been speaking once every few days; a quick text here or there. Earlier on she text me and we got onto the conversation of our plans for the evening. This is when she told me she was going to a guy's house who she was romantically interested in. I was happy to hear this because I love her as a friend and I truly want the best for her, but I can't help but feel a sickening feeling in my stomach, and I can't put my finger on it. \n\nI think I've fallen for her, as hard as I tried not to, and I'm feeling pretty shitty at the moment. I don't take it personally that she likes this guy and I'm happy things are going well for her. My emotions were all over the place about this. I just wish I told her when I had the chance about my feelings for her. I don't know whether I should be cutting contact with her or being there as one of her best friends and supporting everything she does. I love her too much as a friend just to cut everything. I'm feeling so conflicted and need help with what to do. Thanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So let me start off with I love my girlfriend very much and she loves me, she is normally super sweet and tries to do anything she can for me.\n\nSo this coming week we are both about to get swamped with work and with our schedules we aren't going to have much time together. Now where my concerns started to rose was over the weekend Sunday was going to be our last day we both had off for a while. So she wanted to spend it together.\n\nI was down for that but also wanted to have my bud over for bit to have a drink or two for a couple hours I hadn't seen him in a while and he was in town for a couple days. At first she wasn't happy but said sure. So he comes over and we start chatting and talk about highschool and this is my bad we exclude my gf a bit. This really upsets her and she gets upset with me.\n\n So now for the part that concerns me now we fight quite a bit but I think that's just who we are but this time she told me she wanted to break up. Now this hurt but what hurt me was she later told me she only said that to try and hurt me now I had never thought about it but this wasn't the first time she's said she said something hurtful or harsh then admitted to having said it only to try and hurt me, it's happened a lot.\n\nNow this feels worse then saying them because you feel that way, does that qualify as emotional abuse? Or am I just being a bit over sensitive.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's mine, it doesn't actually affect other people, just me, but still sucks.\n\nI remember sitting in health class, learning about genetic diseases and wishing that I had one, because that would be a cool thing to talk about. (Shallow? Yes. I was in 7th grade, who wasn't shallow)\nCome 8th grade, my mom tells me over the phone that I carry Tay-Sachs disease, which if I produce kids with another carrier, my child will die by age 2. Also, a rare form of the disease manifests itself in the 20's, so that could be a fun surprise.\nAlso I have congenital cataracts in my right eye.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have to provide a bit of a back story. There is a husband and wife. They own a house. The husband dies and the wife has dementia and is put into a home. Due to the wife's lack of mental capacity, 3 of their daughters were appointed as executors. The house that the father and mother lived in is up for sale. The money from this sale would not be made probate, but would go to the mother and pay for her stay at the nursing home.\n\nNOW for my question. Do all 3 of these sisters have to agree on the price of an offer in order to be able to sell it or do only 2 need to agree and they majority rule the other sister? Like if there was an offer of $150,000 and the 2 sisters agreed to that but the third sister said she doesn't want to accept any offer unless its $200,000, would it not matter because 2 over power one?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I graduated in 2013 with a BA in Political Science. When I started college I thought I wanted to go to law school, but I realized that I only wanted to attend law school for my parents. Then I thought I'd want to pursue a career in international relations or something like that, but I just didn't want to go into more debt with more school. About a year after I graduated, I started to work as a substitute teacher, so I figured I'd pursue teaching. While getting into an alt cert program, I started working at Ross (the store) in October of 2014. While at Ross, I had so much pressure on me to find a teaching job with health insurance. Fast-forward to August 2015, I finally got a teaching job! But that job was hell on earth. I suffered from anxiety and panic attacks, so after two months, I had to quit. I went to a therapist (which I'm still seeing) and I'm doing much better, so now I have a job at Sears.\n\nI'm thankful for my job, but I'm 25 going to be 26 in May and I'm still living with my parents. I've been trying to save money, but I have a $450 monthly bill that I have to pay for that alt cert program. Luckily, May will be the last month I have to pay on that. I've been trying to apply to teach English abroad, but I just got rejected by EPIK, so I don't think that's going to work out.\n\nI just don't want to work in retail anymore. I'm not saying that retail is all bad, but I just want something a little more. But now I feel like this is all I can do right now. I'm starting to feel like I'm only qualified for retail. No other area will hire me. I've been looking for jobs out of state (I live in Louisiana), but I can't afford to move out yet (despite me desperately wanting to). I just feel like a failure who doesn't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this literally just happened. My girlfriend had a long day yesterday and has been catching up on sleep. I'm up, but didn't want to get out of bed and wake her up. She's cuddling on my chest and sleeping away while I'm just silently mourning the loss of Leonard Nimoy.\n\nAnyways, I've got one arm under her head while the other is holding my phone. So my phone is right next to her ear.\n\nI'm scrolling through and I see something that says \"Japanese Cooking in 3 seconds.\" Seems interesting enough! I open it up expecting a gif. Did I mention that my phone, although on silent, had the media volume turned ALL THE WAY UP?\n\nSo this video starts playing, and right when I realize it's a video, this fucking weird ass music starts blasting out of my phone and into my girlfriend's ear.\n\nFUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK. No matter how much I tapped the screen the volume button wouldn't come up. So my girlfriend wakes up to this weird, loud Japanese music fucking pissed. \n\nNo amount of sorries could stop the glare she gave me.\n\nAnd now I'm sitting here typing this for you with no snuggles to be had.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "TIFU in a small, day ruining way. \nMy first FU was about three months ago. A beat-up, rusty van parked in my apartment parking lot hadn't moved in weeks if not months. The license plate was expired as of December 2012 so I took a picture and emailed my landlord. I thought perhaps someone had abandoned it (looking back, they probably wouldn't have left the license plate on it, but whatever). She said the van belongs to my neighbor who is undergoing chemotherapy. That's why the van hadn't moved in forever. Apparently the 2014 license renewal sticker had simply fallen off. I felt like a big jerk for tattling on someone who is ill. Within the next week the van had moved parking spots twice so I felt guilty that this poor sick woman might be moving her van just because I had complained. I've seen my neighbor since and she's always been friendly to me. However she referred to herself as \"a big pain in the butt\" so I was a little worried my landlord had told her who had reported her van.\nToday's FU began when I was coming up the stairs from the basement, having put laundry into the washer. I ran into this neighbor and we began chitchatting. I mentioned that I had just had to completely clean out one of the washers because some terribly rude person washed a bunch of Kleenexes and left the washer completely disgusting. I practically had to climb into it to pull some of the tissue out of the drum. Shortly after this the conversation ended and I went back to my apartment. 30 minutes later when I went to move my clothes to the dryer the same neighbor was taking hers out of the dryer. She must've had the Kleenex in her laundry. Now I feel horrible for having complained right at her. Even if she wasn't sick I would have felt bad calling her a rude jerk right to her face, but she is on oxygen and everything and probably wasn't able to clean the washer out herself. I'd like to apologize to her but I'm not sure whether that would make it more awkward.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this one happened a few weeks ago. Things have been complicated since and maybe not all is lost but the incident was worth writing about anyway.\n\nSo I had been with my girlfriend for just over two years. We have always had problems but there's always been a lot holding us together. I've known her since high school and was secretly talking to her for years without telling my friends or hers (would have made things complicated). So anyway here I am ready to break it off because the differences are becoming too great and \"maybe we just want different things\" you know the drill.\n\nI go to her house. Its really difficult because she's my friend and I love her still. I've rehearsed what I'm going to say and I know if I dont start right away it'll turn into an argument and I'll get lost. I want her to know how I feel and that its not her fault, so when I get to hers we walk upstairs and I sit her down and start talking.\n\nI tell her everything. It turns into finger pointing anyway. I choke up a lot and tell her I want to end it. She doesn't take it very well, and remains ice cold. \n\nAfter a moment or two in silence she says \"oh by the way your anniversary present finally came but I guess i cant give it to you now\". It had been our anniversary maybe 3 weeks prior to that. I took her to an expensive restaurant in the city and we had a good night, but she had said she didn't have a gift and i didn't mind. So I plead with her to show me. I mean we made it two years, the gift was for that, and it still meant a lot to me. She reluctantly walks me to her room and reaches under the bed.\n\nMy (ex?) girlfriend pulls out this big frame with a comic book cover in it. We're on the front cover. Its a professionally drawn artwork of us as the heroes of a story we'd always joked about writing together (where we manage competing slushie / slurpee stores, also fight crime, discover each other and join forces. Its called \"affairs in justice\" [just-ice]).\n\nMy heart sinks and my jaw drops. I'm a fucking idiot, what have I done?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obligatory this didn't happen today, but it came up in conversation and I thought I'd share. \n\nI had just bought my first car, a lovely black Subaru Forester, and I was driving around an apartment complex looking for my friend's house. I was extremely lost and had gotten out to walk around/look for their place in this complex, and I called my friend as I made my way back to my car for directions. \n\nIt was an old car and I could only use my key to unlock it, to make it worse sometimes the lock was a bit of a stickler. So I'm at my car, trying to force my key into this lock while I'm on the phone, and the door won't budge. Im getting frustrated, and start hearing some guy yelling from an apartment balcony. It was a drunk college kid town so I didn't really pay attention until he says \"IM CALLING THE FUCKING COPS\" \n\nAt this point I look up, and this guy is giving me the death glare. I look in front of me, low and behold, it's not my car... It just looks a lot like it, oops! Guy must have thought I was inebriated or something as I tried to loudly mumble \"my bad...\" and stumble to my car, two cars away. I've never driven out of a parking lot so fast.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My daughter has always been a good kid and a good student. She's in first year university, and like many of us (myself included), she found it overwhelming. She's been keeping up with the work and getting decent grades, but for a recent English essay, she googled other people's ideas and pulled a few sentences from their work. Her prof found out, and now she's facing a disciplinary hearing. She may \"just\" get an F on the essay, or she might fail the entire course. She won't know until the hearing, which won't be for a couple of weeks.\n\nShe's freaking out, of course. She's never faced anything like this before. She's ashamed and frantic with worry.\n\nI guess I'd like to ask - has anyone here gone through something like this? How can I help her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was looking for a picture and I stumbled upon some pictures of my ex. And all the feelings I thought had subsided, flared up and caught me by surprise.\n\nI stopped having contact with her when I found out she cheated on me before she broke up with me. I understand why she did it, and I'm not really mad at her. But the next best thing I could do was breaking all contact to give me space to heal. I wasn't particular best boyfriend material, so I am not blaming the breakup on her. In fact, I see my own depression resulting from a suppressed past to be the source of the breakup.\n\nIt's just that my ex is still in the back of my mind and the feeling of the breakup haunts me to this day. I feel defeated and see myself as a waste of space when these feelings get the better end of me. Whatever I do, it always ends up at me missing my ex.\n\nI just miss her and I constantly keep thinking if the No Contact rule is healthy or not.\n\nI sure could use some wise words from you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work for a smallish Web Development company (>50 employees). A while ago we built a free site for a retail company. For the sake of this throwaway, let's say they make those plastic garden flamingos. We built them a medium-sized website with built in content management system, and in exchange they gave us about 50 plastic garden flamingos as payment.\n\nFor one reason or another, they weren't happy with us (mainly the way their project was managed, rather than the quality of the output) and chose to part ways with our company after we finished building the site and put it live. They have since been working with another company, but have also found them to be unsatisfactory.\n\nHere lies the issue - I have received an email directly to me (although through my work email since that is the only contact info they have) asking if I would be willing to do some work for them independently on an ad-hoc basis. They basically want me to provide them with a tutorial and do some basic feature work on the site, presumably possibly leading to more work when they want things done.\n\nI have consulted my contract and the only stuff I can find relating to this type of thing applies to after you've been terminated. As in \"For up to 6 months after you have been terminated you must not solicit or attempt to entice away any clients...\" blah blah.\n\nWhat I want to know is - would it be wrong of me to take this company up on their offer and do work for them? Would you describe it as unethical?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original: \n\nSo to sort of update this there really isn't an update. She told me the check would be here Tuesday. Check didn't show up I told her it wasn't here with no answer from here. \n\nTherefore I'm finished. I want to tell her what a manipulative lying bitch she has been for the past several years and really let go of all my anger and she most certainly deserves it(given the original situation and all of the stuff she has put me through since high school) but there is some little part of me that's telling me to just move on. Block her from Facebook and delete her number from my phone. However we have several interconnected friends and while I've only told my boyfriend and my cousin about the situation I don't know what will happen once they start to ask questions.\n\nAny advice on the matter would be helpful. My boyfriend is urging me to tell her exactly what for and my mother is (nicely) saying \"I told you so\" but both of them are connected to the situation so is prefer some outside advice. If any expansion is needed on anything I'd be glad to explain.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We dated for 2.5 years since junior year of college. I ended things about 1 week ago because I felt that although she was someone I considered marriage material, I felt I had not dated around enough as I was beginning to have doubts. She was a great girlfriend, and we did have some real wonderful moments. I simply couldn't get past my apprehensions, and on a deeper level I did sometimes feel that we weren't compatible. (we're both very laid back/easy-going so we rarely did anything - kind of realized I needed a much more active, opinionated gf). \n\nI feel like a part of me is gone and I miss her very much. I do realize that this is part of the healing process. We dated for a while and it is weird to not be with her/in constant contact. However, I have struggled as all I can remember are the good parts of the relationship, but not how I felt sometimes that it needed to end when I was in it. \n\nI can't help but feel like I may have let something slip through my fingertips. Although I have had a few gf's in the past, I have never broken up with anyone for seemingly no reason (such as someone cheated) so I feel its been harder.\n\nHave I made the right decision?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I need some help. I own a small to medium website where the main attraction are some forums and some sub-forums. This is also a business as I sell items on it. I also make money by having sponsors and stuff like that.\n\nThe problem is a guy I have banned repeatedly keeps re-registering for the forums. I have asked him not to re-register and told him he is no longer welcome on my site. I have told him not to come back. I have blocked his IP but he gets around this easily with Onion, proxies, and just resetting his IP. I cannot block a block of IP addresses. I've tried this before and it blocked good paying customers.\n\nWhen I look at my IP logs, I can usually tell when it's him or someone else I don't want on the site. The IP is out of the normal geographic area I deal with. He is good for a few weeks (if I'm lucky) and then turns back into a shithead. As far as I know (and I have checked) he has never tried to hack or manipulate my website. He has never done anything malicious. He's just a pest.\n\nMy question is, what else can I do about this? Is there anything I can do legally? Such as a lawsuit or even have him arrested? The way I see things is if I had a brick and mortar store and a person came in harassing my customers, I could have him arrested for trespassing if he wouldn't leave. Can I do the same thing with an internet based store? He ordered stuff from me years ago and I still have what I believe is his address so contacting his local police would be easy. I really don't want to/can't do a lawsuit either because I don't have any damages except the time it wastes for me to ban him.\n\nYou guys have any ideas? Any legal retribution?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been working with a recruiter. I lost contact with him 1 month ago.\nI applied to another job through recruiter #2. Had an interview last week, went very well. Expected an offer on Friday (that's when they said they would contact me)\n\nToday I get a call from recruiter #1, asking me my situation. I tell him I might have an offer and may not need his services. He asks \"mind if i ask which position and company?\" I tell him (I don't know why I did).\n\nA couple hours later, I get a call from recruiter #2 saying I didn't get the job. WTF. He says he has no idea why, since I had such a great interview.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 20 year old guy turning 21 next week she is 24. Ive known her for 2 years now but we were always friends. We were always interested in the same things and even when she moved away we would play video games together to shoot the shit.\n\nShe moved away last year to vancouver to pursue her modeling career and we kept in touch. I talk to her 2-4 times a week on skype and we text eachother basically everyday. Recently we started talking about more serious things, previous relationships, sex, what we want in a partner etc. She is an extremely nice girl who has told me things that she says she hasnt told anybody else(most likely b/c talking over the internet is a lot easier than in person). i know with the way things are i cant see her and its stupid for it to be on my mind but for w/e reason she is constantly on my mind and idk if i should tell her anything.\n\nim not sure if she thinks we only friends or if she has a feeling that things are escalating as well but she tells me she has dreams with me in them and i remember feeling an immense amount of jealousy and sadness when she told me she had started dating a guy last fall but they have broken up since then. I get this feeling like she is my dream girl and to pass it up would be stupid of me BUT i know long distance almost never works. so now i dont know if i should bring my feelings up to her or if i should just drown them out. I appreciate everybody reading through my wall of text and thanks for any and all advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys my friend and I are in a debate about this girl and we thought we'd ask Reddit for your opinion. Basically my friend met this girl over summer in community college and he's liked her ever since. Since they go to different universities they have had close to no communication for four months. \n\nFast forward to now my friend has since graduated and has been texting her to try to hang out and she has agreed, but haven't been able to settle on a day and time that works for both of them. My friend said that she is probably not interested and is only trying to be nice while I told him she is just busy. They live about 30 mins from each other now compared to 4 hours from before so meeting up now would not be that difficult. \n\nI told him to message her again anyways as a last glimmer of hope. What say you, Reddit? Should he bother continuing to try to hang out with her or give up now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway and on mobile. Not sure how to tag on mobile. \n\nI have had multiple partners break up with me because I'm \"too passionate\". Multiple partners have told me that, when things are good, things are amazing. But when things are bad, they're the worst situations they've ever been in.\nThe last two guys I've dated broke up with me within a month because I had gotten into fights with them at least twice in that time frame. The worst part? I didn't even realize we were fighting because we weren't screaming at each other (this happened a lot in my first relationship. Hasn't really happened since then because I now realize how destructive that behavior is and am much better at communication my feelings). I really do my best to modulate my behavior but something small will happen, I'll be upset, and then I won't/can't get over it. I've had constructive talks with my exes and the best advice they could give me if that they hope I'll find someone who likes my combative side. But I don't like that side of me. \n\nI obviously have a problem if multiple partners have had issues with me and they all said very similar things. This only really happens with romantic partners. I'm not sure why my platonic relationships don't have this problem. What can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n___\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to there. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~~Rome~~ Thailand...\n\nEEEKK She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay I realize that I'm 15, and I'm just a kid and all that shit and this will probably get downvoted, but I need some help. \n\nSo me and my GF have been dating since the beginning of November and it has been great emotionally. We have both liked each other for a couple years before this, and it has been pretty good.\n\nI have had two GFs in the past that I have had physical and emotional relationships with.\nShe has not had a boyfriend before me and had not had her first kiss yet.\nI want her first kiss to be amazing\n\nI want to kiss her so badly, but I feel like even though we have talked about it and she wants too, It will somehow end up with her hating me. I know this is crazy and not going to happen. I think I have self confidence issues and have been through things like this in other situations. I realize this is most likely hormones and all that other puberty shit. \n\nMy question: How do I go about kissing her and making it amazing?\n\nThanks in advance for any replies I get (if I get any)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a Folklore and Arts Admin student, and I frequently takes classes where I have to use my Wordpress blog for assignments. Last year I put together a fairly comprehensive ['field guide' about lolcats] About two months ago, I started noticing a bunch of hits on the lolcat guide. I got bored one afternoon and decided to see how quickly I could find my guide using Google, and I came across [this guide] Some of the language and topic pages seemed similar to mine, but I figured that there's only so much to be said about lolcats, so some overlap was natural. That was about a week ago.\n\nJust now, I checked my blog stats again, and I've had another spike in activity on the lolcat page. I went back to the guide on the other site, and they've added new pages to their guide, which have even more similarities to mine. I wouldn't mind if it was just the images (obviously I found the lolcats I used through Google and whatnot), but I feel like this person is using my words as well.\n\nSome of the pages on their guide appear to have been up long before mine, but they've been making a lot of changes and additions recently. All I really want is that, if they are using my guide to supplement theirs, they at least include a link to my guide or a reference somewhere. I worked on it for months, and it was the foundation for a paper about lolcats that I presented at a folklore conference this Fall.\n\nAt the same time, I can't help thinking maybe I'm just over-analyzing this and I should just be glad people are enjoying my field guide? Some of the places where they've 'borrowed' are pretty minor, but there's a lot of them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "And I'm just feeling meh. So many mixed emotions.\n\nI've been dating a lovely girl for about 2.5 years. She is quite attractive, much smarter than I am, and oh so sweet. Unfortunately, we're long distance, and we'll remain long distance for at least another year.\n\nLast night, a girl I know basically propositioned me for sex. I came THIS close to telling her yes, come over, please. This girl is local, lives right up the street from me. She's the type of girl I've always been strongly attracted to (the manic pixie dream girl type, I suppose) but have never actually dated. Ultimately, I did NOT invite her up. But afterwards, I tossed and turned in bed all night.\n\nI feel guilty, for even considering cheating; I feel regret at missing out on what probably would've been a really fun night -- coupled with a sort of deeper melancholy I feel when I consider all the girls I'll never know; I feel relief, at not having cheated; I feel sad about what this surely must say about the state of my relationship; and honestly, I don't know which of these emotions I'm feeling most strongly. (To tell you the truth, things have been tough lately. Long distance is hard, to begin with, and my significant other is leaving the country for a few months and we'll have even LESS contact; she has been clinically depressed for a while now, and doesn't seem to be getting better, and it's getting harder to deal with; and realistically, we'll probably be long distance for another 1.5 years, best case scenario).\n\nThanks for reading. I'm not sure that I really have a question -- I mainly just wanted to get this off my chest. Your thoughts are certainly welcome, though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the original post: \n\nSo, today was the day my wife actually moved out and is moving across the country. Over the last week and a half or so, I'd been dealing with a ton of emotions but I confided a great deal into a good friend of mine who helped me.\n\nToday, I'm in a better place than I was 10 days ago. Heck, even better than I was just 4 days ago. Honestly, I was nearly at a point where I was going to try and convince my wife to actually stay instead, but my friend helped me right that train of thought and I think it was for the best.\n\nSo now, I'm about to get used to being alone for the first time ever. Not a big deal so far, just got a lot of cleaning up to do around the place and sorting of some of the things she left behind. \n\nI will say that our separation went smoother than I expected and we left on good terms, so I think. Our separation agreement was fair and left both of us content with the situation, so I'm grateful for that. \n\nToday, when she left, there were some tears. Not from me, though, but that isn't to say that I'm not sad. I cried already, but I'm starting to work my way back up from that low point. I also found a note while cleaning up that just said \"I love you\" on it, obviously written and stuck in a place that wasn't TOO obvious for me to find it. I do still love her, and I'm sure I will for a long time. Maybe, down the line, we can work out things and make the kind of changes it would take to get back together, but that isn't something I want to bother myself with right now. \n\nAll in all, I'm in a content place and I'm excited for what the future holds. I've got some big plans on things I want to do for me that I haven't had the chance to do in the last 9 years, so I'm looking forward to diving headlong into that.\n\nThanks to everyone who left a comment on the first post and for all the well wishes. Things are looking up now, and hopefully they stay that way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my boyfriend off and on for over a year. We were friends for a while before we started dating. We've had a lot of problems because of his drinking and when I felt under-appreciated after exhausting myself taking care of him when he was having medical problems, and once when some girl kept sending him naked pics and he didn't discourage it. So we've broken up a couple times. \n\n I keep getting back together with him because I do love him very much. He's the first person I've been willing to pursue a future with. He asked me if i'd be willing to follow him wherever he got a job (He's getting his doctorate and will need to go wherever he can find teaching positions). I agreed to it. He's told me he wants to marry me and have kids and the whole future bundle. I've never wanted that before, but with him, I do.\n\n Recently he's been acting strange he said he wanted to move in together, but when I brought up some places I'd found he seemed uncomfortable and weird, he hasn't talked about the future at all the past month and seems distant.\n This morning his phone was making noises and I went to go look at it (we don't have issues with phones, he plays with mine all the time.) His text menu was open and I saw that he'd recently sent a text to his ex from 5 years ago who he was pseudo engaged with but they broke up after some of her infidelity during long distance. He told her that he \"Still thought about her every second of every day\" and that he missed her so much and begged her to call him.I know they aren't interacting physically because she lives in another state, but I don't know how to handle finding this out. He was asleep when I saw it and I just got my things, left him a note about how I saw the texts and how his behavior is cruel and I left. I'm at my house now and I'm a total wreck. I still love him and believed he wanted a future with me. I don't know what to do and I feel like an idiot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: we were friends for a long time and talked a ton, every day. Things started to get romantic between us, he was very enthusiastic but often got sad about us being in different cities. Then certain circumstances come up, making it so our long distance situation is extending -- so he put our relationship \"on hold\" until we're near each other again. \n\nI asked if we could just have fun this summer instead of being so serious about everything; he said he doesn't want just fun and wants something more long term with me, but knows him and long distance are a recipe for disaster. Okay, fine! I ask if our friendship will be okay. He's all \"I'M fine with continuing to be friends... do YOU think you'll be okay with being friends? I still want you in my life but if you can't do it that's okay.\" Reddit, I'm really good about moving on from romantic situations and I assured him that I just wanted our friendship to be back to normal. But...\n\nCurrent issue: After we decided to put the romantic part on hold he said that our friendship would be just fine, but it's been the opposite. I tried to act as if the whole situation never happened but would get either one word or no responses to our usual platonic texts -- even if he was the one initiating the conversation. I gave in and asked twice if everything was okay, but he snapped both times saying he doesn't want to talk about it even if I do, and that he's fine. But things don't seem fine at all! Am I nuts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been with a girl almost 2 years now. She finally told her parents we were a real thing. I asked her if her parents knew I was divorced (she and her mom are close). She said no, they can never know. They don't speak English, so I don't know them very well. \n\nHas me having doubts again. I don't like keeping secrets, and this is something huge to me. Not to mention it is a matter of public record, so it's not like you can actually hide it anyway. Makes me really uncomfortable. \n\nThis is on a pile of other things that make me think of calling it quits.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been job hunting since recovering from spine surgery back in March. The biggest problem I'm facing is that after $200k worth of education I still have literally no idea what to do. On top of that, I'm living at home with my parents now at 23 (graduated last year) and want nothing more than to move out. But without an actual good paying job, I can't move out and pay off $10k for the surgery (surprise surprise, I got fucked by my insurance company). I'll be going to see a psychiatrist next week, but I feel like I'm now at a constant breaking point. Almost anything can make me snap right now, causing my anxiety to peak and I my thought process to stop (I basically sit there quietly hyperventilating in order to not lash out against friends and family... which I have started doing). On top of that, the only job I've found that is even worth it has 3 months of unpaid training... and even then it's not really certain it will be the right job for me (as I said, I have literally no idea what I want to do for a living... I have goals and dreams, but no confidence or esteem of myself). I need some help, hope, or outside thought. I'm desperate. Please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\n\nI live in a town that can be pretty strict when it comes to home renovation regulations. The second floor of our bungalo was finished when we moved in, but poorly. We wanted to add a bathroom, two dormers, and insulate it properly to make it a master suite with some closet space.\n\nOur contractor, however, is afraid that the township may want us to upgrade our floor joists from 12x6's to 12x10's. If we have to upgrade the flooring, it makes the job exponentially more expensive and time consuming -- possibly out of our price range. But without these renovations, our house just isn't big enough for us and we're liable to lose money on a sale. \n\nSo the contractor and I are drawing up some plans and we plan on submitting them to the town sometime after christmas. We're not asking about the floors because we don't want to raise any red flags -- we're just hoping to slip through and get approval. \n\nSo does anyone have any advice on who to talk to, beg, or bribe if we don't get approval? Has anyone ever had any luck lawyering their way out of this sort of thing? What are my options?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been seeing this girl for about a month, but we're not committed because I told her I'm not ready. She wants to be in a committed relationship. \n\nShe's had enough experience to know she won't have sex until then, which is okay with me (though not how I usually do it). \n\nWe have a lot in common: get along, have similar interests, etc. She's pretty cute and just finished grad school. I guess she fits the bill.\n\nBut I'm just not that excited about it. Lukewarm.\n\nBack in January I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months for the same reason, and a year ago I did the same with a girl of 2 months. All 3 girls wanted to keep dating me. \n\nThere have been a few girls I've been excited about after a date or two, but they weren't that into me.\n\nI'm afraid I'm victim to the old Groucho Marx quote, \"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member.\"\n\nThese girls are catches and I'm beating myself up for not being that into them.\n\nMaybe this is normal and just called dating. Should I break up with current girl right now? \n\nDo I just need to be patient and wait for feelings to build? That didn't work last time.\n\nShould I just be patient and hold out until a girl knocks my socks off? I think I've really gotta \"fall\" for them. But maybe my standards are too high.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Two weeks ago my girlfriend of the last 2 years and I seperated. Since then we've been trying to stay friends but it's been difficult. She tells me that I am one of her best friends and that the only thing that's changed about her feelings towards me is that she no longer wants a relationship. She still cares about me and we talk all the time. We hang out every few days and have a lot of fun. But she insists that any romantic feelings are gone. \n\nI'm still in love with her and didn't want to break up. I've tried mercilessly to get her to give the relationship another shot, but she's adamant that those feelings are gone. She is one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her from my life just because I'm having a hard time accepting that it's over. This is my first long term relationship and it's my first big breakup. I don't know how I'm supposed to get over her. What are some things I can do to help me get over the relationship? How can I accept that she's not coming back and dull the feelings that I have for her enough that we can stay friends?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(I'm 15M she's 14F) So I started dating this girl 3 weeks ago, and I'm unsure if we are compatible. She doesn't seem to trust me by what she says, and we're really different from each other I feel. She's said things like \"I see us lasting a long time\" and stuff like that but yeah. We don't really fight but I feel she's just kind of all over the place as a person. We had an off and on \"thing\" 2 months before we got together. \n\nShe seems pretty happy with us but I'm unsure if I am. She keeps saying things like how she really loves me, and how she think I'm \"the one\" and stuff like that. She's also a little clingy, texts me a little too much. Sometimes her actions and what she says are little too much,(talks too much) gives me this \"woah calm down\" feeling inside. We had sex. (Yes I know I'm too young don't have to tell me) But this is only because she really really wanted to. I've done it with someone else already but she was a virgin. I'm a little worried that this will complicate things, even though we talked about it and how it wouldn't stop us from breaking up if something went wrong.\n\nNow the other part...I realized I still have feelings for another girl that I liked before I dated this girl, and she likes me as well but she's also in a relationship, her relationship is going to end soon though. I think I like her more than my girlfriend...idk how bad that is but yeah. I just really don't know what to do and would love some advice.\n\nAidan", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Earlier this week\n\nSo, I have this interview for this summer job I really want. I should add it's my first job interview in my life and it's a somewhat competitive position, but I've done other kinds of interviews and Q/a things before.\n\nTry to hype myself up and what not, but all I end up doing is getting to be a nervous wreck. That's usual for me, and it's just something I have to deal with in these kinds of situations.\n\nInterview goes acceptably by my standards. I think I really did fine considering my nervousness. I get home and google what's normal to do after an interview and the consensus seems to be to send personalized thank you cards.\n\nI can't remember a single name.\n\n(I don't people always say they're bad with names, but I'm really bad. Like, in and out one ear bad.)\n\nGo online and search for company. Look up the office number, and find a phone number. Plan on talking to receptionist and asking for name.\n\nHere's the call, Gonna call the interviewer Benedict:\nring ring* ring* ring....... silence......\n\nMe: ..... uhm....,Hello?\n\nOther: Hello.\n\nMe: Is this the [company's] office?\n\nOther: Yes.\n\nMe: Hi, uh, I was wondering if, uh, you could tell me the name of t-the person who was doing interviews here today?\n\nOther: Who is this?\n\nMe: uh... AroundCorner\n\nOther: And you wanted to know the name of the interviewer?\n\nMe: Yea, I think it was something like Bens... or...Bens...?\n\nOther: Benedict?\n\nMe: Ah yes, that was it!\n\nOther: That's my name, we were talking earlier this hour\n\nSilence\n\nMe: Oh, Uh... yea we met half an hour ago.\n\nOther: Is that all.\n\n(I'm really flustered)\nMe: Yea, uhm, (something cringe* about spelling)\n\nOther: okay bye.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "MY bf of 3 years are going through a timeoff, my intentions was for me to decide if I wanted to leave or stay. We are 5 days since he moved out. Today he offers to walk the dog while I'm at work. I told him he didnt need to, he insisted. \n\nSo i've walked the dog at 9 am. He comes over at 3 in the afternoon, and instead of walking the dog right away he stays plays with the dog for a bit and plays computer games for 2 hours. \nHe only takes the dog for a walk at close to 6 pm and only for 10 mins. \n\nSo I asked im Why did'nt he take the dog to pee right away. He said lazy , it was hot, he played with the dog. He says im not appreciative at all that he made all this effort. I said I dont understand why you let the dog wait 8 hours to pee when you were there earlier. \n\nHe starts saying im domineering, says fuck a lot , tells me i have to always do things my way. Tells me he doesnt deserve this treatment . If I want to do things my way ,I should do it myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My older brother is 7 years older than me, and stayed in our hometown when our family moved as he finished high school. He never went into college, instead he decided to go with a buddy to Alaska and work on fishing vessels for months at a time. We kept in touch every 6 months or so, and he even made the trip cross country to see us for a Thanksgiving in 2005 or so, but he had plans to go back fishing for a season or two and then move to California. \n\nWe haven't heard from him since. We've moved again since then (although a google search for my dad is the first hit) so it could be possible that he couldn't find us, but I don't know. He was never contractually obliged to any fishing company and he sailed out in a few different ports, so inquiring there has been less than helpful. He's originally from My. Vernon, Washington and sailed on fishing vessels specializing in tuna and salmon. He was a cook on the ship. That's all I know for sure.\n\nAre there any resources that are out there for this sort of thing? I don't want to call the police because I don't know if he's missing or what, and there's nothing illegal going on and I don't want to waste anyone's time. I've just realized that I never really knew the guy because of our age difference and I would really, really like to talk to him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear Reddit,\n\nMy younger sister just left for college a couple weeks ago. She is attending a legit University far from home and I couldn't be more proud of her.\n\nHowever, she has never really been away from home and almost ALL of her hs friends stayed at home. She has been having a really hard time dealing with the change. She has been getting anxiety and nervous attacks (which has NEVER happened to her before) and she is making herself sick with it. I want to help her out; help get her through the next hard month or two (I totally know how she is feeling - I just went through it a few years ago). \n\nSO....I am making her a little gift package with some cookies, a good book or two, and I want to make her a little scrapbook or notepad filled with advice from myself (I finished school last year, and lived away at the dorms for a year, away from home for a year, and in DCfor a semester), my parents, and YOU!!! \n\nSo besides joining the reddit community, WHAT is something you can tell her about college, life, anything!!! \n\nI will post up pics later of the package I send to her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husbands mother is in her early 70's, severely obese and has been babied by her parents and friends her whole life. She is extremely spoiled and self centred.\n\nHer personal hygiene is so bad, she can't wipe her own ass nor bath properly because she is too overweight to reach her own bottom and other body parts that need washing.\n\nWe flew in yesterday to stay for the holidays and when she opened the door we were all overwhelmed with a mix of the odour from her body, excessive dust and other horrible smells that I was shocked and didn't know what to say, so I said nothing.\n\nI opened the window of the bedroom we are staying in so I could breath, but woke up with a headache and my nose was full of grey and black bits of dust or whatever is in the air.\n\nMy youngest daughter said she was having trouble breathing, and I assume this was due to the amount of dust in the air.\n\nIt is very clear that my MIL never cleans her apartment. The toilet had a black in it below the water line, and shit all over the seat on both sides. \n\nThe floors are so dirty I don't want to take my shoes off. There are cobwebs everywhere and dust all over her books and trinkets (she is a hoarder although not overly extreme compared to those hoarding shows on television).\n\nAbout an hour after waking I told my husband we had to find an alternate place to stay because I wasn't spending my vacation time cleaning someone else's filth, and clearly it wasn't healthy for us to stay with his mom.\n\nAlternately, I suggested he ask his mom if she is prepared to split the cost of a cleaning company to come in if they can asap (may be difficult so close to Christmas).\n\nI am pissed anyone could expect a family member to live in this filth. Had I known she was so filthy dirty I would never have bothered to travel here. After paying for flights over the holidays I'm afraid of the cost of a hotel for two weeks :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "While on vacation with a friend my GF [24F] was approached by a guy at a bar, told him she had a boyfriend and continued talking to this guy, ended up kissing him later in the evening. She texts me that night (5am) that \"we have to talk\", I wake up at 5 pm next day (bc of work my sleep schedule is odd) and she proceeds to tell me what she's done. I'm in shock and dealing with some other really bad family shit (she doesn't know at this point, I was waiting for her to return to tell her) so we barely talk.\n\nThe next day we talk and she's honest about what happened and Im starting to forgive her.\n\nToday (when she returned), I drove to her house and we talked, it was good, the only part that was off and I reacted at the time but now (hours later) its eating away at me. She said that the next day before Iwoke up she had met this guy back at the bar and they \"made out\" before he made some \"asshole\" comments and they parted. \n\nI was ready to forgive but this second act to me is worse, she wasn't drunk when she agreed to meet this guy, although she said she was \"devastated\" bc she knew I was going to break up with her. THEN she ended up getting drunk and making out with this guy, Im guessing while texting me about the whole incident.\n\nI want to forgive her, she's very self conscious and doesn't drink alcohol, she's taking this pretty hard as far as I can tell and what she has shown. The second meeting just digs at me. I love her. \n\nAm I crazy for wanting to forgive her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yes, I know, giant age gap. I dropped out of school and have been working since 17. Met my boyfriend when I was 18 and moved in together a year later. \n\nI've decided that I wanted to go back to school because I've hit a wall in my career. I've been stuck doing retail and this is not what I want to do for the rest of my life. I've been freelancing doing acting and writing, but those are few and far between. I think going back to school will be something I really need. \n\nProblem is, my SO graduated from the same school 8 years ago, and now he is teaching there. I would be quitting my job and reverting to student status while he works. That puts us at different life stages. I'm not sure how this will work. I've always been working, and I'm afraid that this may alter the dynamics of our relationship. \n\nAlso, people are going to talk about the professor who is dating and living with one of his students. We cannot keep this a secret because I've already met his friends and coworkers from school. They already know about our relationship. It's going to be weird. \n\nThere isn't any other school near us that I can afford. The school he teaches at is the best in the area and the only one that we can afford, so there really is no other option. \n\nAm I just worrying myself silly, or are these things inconsequential?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The story starts back in the summer but the conclusion happened half an hour ago so I think this counts.\n\nI live in New Delhi, paradise for street food lovers. Most neighbourhood markets have tons of stalls that sell all kinds of street food. My favourite stall was a stone's throw from my house. The vendors, a friendly couple, sold tandoori momos- chicken/vegetarian momos heated over a flame till they were lightly roasted and doused with delicious spicy cream (sort of like white sauce). I'd have them at least once a week and I couldn't be happier.\n\nAnd then the worst happened. I went to the spot one day and they weren't there. I thought they might've taken a day off and thought nothing of it. But then it happened the next time I went there too and I was forced to turn to the other stalls that sold pani puri. \n\nEvery week I'd drive by and look for that stall and come home resigned that they were nowhere to be found. I thought of asking the stalls nearby about their whereabouts but never got around to it. I assumed that they had left to a more popular market or maybe even saved up enough for a better life. I looked for similar stalls that sold tandoori momos but to no avail. \n\nToday I walked by that place for the first time in ages. I looked longingly at the place the stall used to be. Then I noticed a new stall to my left, the other side of the pavement. Beside that was another stall and another and finally THE TANDOORI MOMOS STALL!\n\nMy heart started thumping and I ran over and told them that I thought they had moved. The look at me with a half amused half pitying expression- \"We've been right here.\"\n\nTurns out that I was so fixated on that exact spot that I couldn't look 20 feet ahead to where they had relocated. All the stalls had shifted together to the other side of the pavement to an empty spot that was previously used by a restaurant. \n\nI'm an idiot but I totally had an orgasm when I tasted the first creamy hot chicken tandoori momo after 3 terrible months.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this girl Ive been hanging out with is beautiful, but shes so wierd, we were drinking one day and we ended up hooking up and I ate her out, I tried to have sex but she didn't let me (we were outside when all this happened) and then we hooked up again the day after that , but then she told me that it was over with us messing\n\nWe went back to chilling and then saturday night I was giving her a massage in my car and then in the moment I went under her shirt and started rubbing her back, I went lower and then start moving my hands towards her breasts and then grabbed them and she let me, I started gently feeling them and she started moaning lightly and then I was slowly moving my hand up her leg and she just grabs my hand and says \"just put it there already\" and I start rubbing her pussy through her sweats, she starts moaning in my ear and almost kisses me, I tried to go further but she stopped it and then I took her home\n\nWe hang out a lot, and get along REALLY well but there's always these wierd moments at times because it gets quiet and we just look at eachother and I dont know to make a move or not , we were smoking in my car last night and I tried to give her a massage, she said no, I tried to feel her leg and she said not to, whats this girls deal ? Should I just stop trying ? She lets me feel her everywhere one day and wont let me touch her at all the next, any girls out there got any advice on what to do ? I never tried to kiss her, I always just went for her legs or ass or breasts, because I dont know if she would turn down the kiss, im just completely confused with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I of 3 years are getting divorced due to numerous factors, including a realization we were never \"in love\", just scared of being alone. We're great friends and still care about each other (in a brother/sister/best friend sort of way), but we realized that our marriage was making us unhappy and it was time to move on. Overall, very mutual. \nWe've begun the painful process of telling family and friends, most of whom are taking it well, or at least as well as can be expected. We plan to tell his parents Wednesday evening and are at a loss as to what to do. They view me as a daughter and will be devastated by this. Any suggestions on how to ease this blow? I'm concerned about their reaction to me--I expect hurt and anger, but since they live in a secluded area, I'm somewhat concerned for my safety if we do it at their house.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So 3 months ago my now ex broke up with me because she cheated on me (she came clean). It was hard at the beginning, we lived together for 2 weeks before she found another place to live in and we sas each other a couple of times after that.\n\n2 months after the break up I started to have casual sex with 3 different girls. My ex and I did decided to be distant so it would be easier to get over the separation.\n\nI had an awful week last week, came home each night to an empty appartment. 2 days ago my ex and I started to talk again through sms and one thing leading to another, she came to my place and we slept together.\n\nThe following day I ran into one of our mutual friend, I talked to her for a bit and told her that I met a couple of girls with whom I had casual sex. Today I got a mail from my ex literally insulting me because I should have known that our friend would tell her everything and that it was my revenge. That she suffered those last 3 months. She regrets seeing 2 days ago. \n\nI tried to explain to her that if I wanted to hurt her I have had plenty of time to do it prior to that day, that I did not know that this so called friend would tell her what I told her. She said she does not believe me and blocked me from whatsapp.\n\nNow I do not want to get back into that relationship but she was and she is someone very important to me, in fact, she is the only women I ever loved. I want to try and fix things up but I can't help to have the feeling that she is trying to blame me for the end of our relationship.\n\nSo here is my question, is she over reacting to this, is there a way I can fix things up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first relationship so I have no experience. I hold her hand and kiss her goodbye. That's the most I've ever done in my whole life. She says she wants me to get more comfortable \"physically\". I don't know what to do. \n\nI'm comfortable with her and I trust her. She's said how she wishes I would act more confident and initiate things more. Does that just mean to hold her more, kiss her more, or... I don't know. I was a sheltered home school kid so I literally know nothing about this.\n\nI've known her for a very long time and I can tell this is something that is bothering her. I would really appreciate any advice on how to be more physical.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: im in my second year of college, i've been known to go out and sleep with a lot of girls.. not really my idea of a good night or anything, but it just kind of happens. havn't really had any real dating experience since freshman year of highschool, 4 girlfriends total, all cheated with close friends, i now have some trust issues, and generally just have sex with people (i have numerous fwb) \n\nThe Situation so few weekends ago, at the usual bar with a couple of pals, my usual buddies but with some more people from our program. get to dancing with one of the girls, start flirting, figured id try and make a move, but kept being interrupted and she ended up getting really drunk and leaving, but afterwords she added me to facebook and started chatting. girls really cool, valentines day she texts me pretty upset, the guy shes screwing around with told her shes a side chick, ( something i to myself would probably do), so i comforted her, cheered her up abit, got to shooting shit. get the stones to ask her to come watch a movie, she comes over we cuddle for abit, chat all night, and she leaves, we've watched movies and cuddled every night since. \n\nWhere im at right now ive told all of my fwb that its over, i genuinely do not wanna hurt this girl, and i have feelings for her.she just left from our \"first date\" i made her supper, we watched a movie, cuddled, she wants things to go slow because shes weary. but im falling hard.. \n\nThe Questionsoo.. what can i do to help further this, without seeming desperate and overly attached, because with her its not even for sex, i just want her around 24/7.. \n\nSorry that this got so long..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my fiance is donating her eggs and is really fertile from all the hormone shots and me being a guy get really horny still. So she said it was fine if I look at porn and take caren of my own business. Porn does not do much for me and seemed out a different method and landed on tinder to just flip through the pictures and send a few messages but never planned on meeting up with the girls just the few messages and be done with it. I guess its a self conscious kinda thing and it makes me feel good being seen as attractive to someone. She found out and got mad and wanted time alone to think about things. She goes out and doesn't return till 1:30am and stays up on her phone for a little before going to sleep. Me being the nosey idiot looks at her phone and sees she saw another guy. What do I do?!? I love her more than anything is the world and dont want to lose her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the length of our relationship is complicated... I've known him for over 4 years and we've always been very close, but we've technically only been a \"couple\" for about 1 of those years because of both of us having personal issues that kept us apart (basically he was dealing with alcoholism and I didn't want to be around him when he was drunk all the time, but he's been sober for years now and I've learned to trust him again). \n\nAfter I found out I was accepted into a great program for school was also the same time that I realized that I am actually really serious about this person and I want to have a future with him! Like, we would be married already if it wasn't for me moving away... He's really serious about me, and he's trying to be supportive about me leaving but I know he's worried that it means it's over.\n\nMaking the decision to leave and not just stay with him has been really painful, and now that I've decided to put my education first, I'm not sure where that leaves us. It might be possible that he could join me in 2 years, but not earlier than that because of his own career commitments.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been chatting with this girl (shes 20 and im 23) for 2 months, she had a close friend who is a guy that she is not in touch with now because he proposed her. Then came me, we were chatting casually and exchanged numbers, I haven't talked much to this girl. Right now she's so down with her confidence since she did bad in her academics and shes scared so much now. I talked to her in the morning but couldn't change her mood off, I am bad with handling emotions. She started saying that her friend only knows how to handle her and stuff, shes going to sleep now, me told I will be calling in the afternoon. Redditors, help this lad out what way can I get back to normal, tbh I don't know the how to!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm making this because I just got an email from a recruiter about a potential other position, which I don't plan to interview for since I only worked at my company for 3 months so far.\n\nThe problem is that for being a big company, there just doesn't seem to be any way I can think of of moving up in the company. I spoke to my bosses and asked around, but all I got from them was the standard \"Learn about the industry\" answer. I look at people in my department, all older than me by about 20-25 years, all seem to have just gotten a change in title without any real authority or sense of moving up. \n\nEvery time I speak to my dad about it, he says to me \"I want you to have a plan\" and when I try to explain all of this to him, he gets upset and repeats that he doesn't know what I do. I have some type of plan but it really doesn't involve staying at this company because I just don't see an opportunity to grow unless I go into another division of the company since it's such a large company (though I don't see many opportunities at the moment for other divisions). \n\nNow, this part isn't really pertinent to anything but, my dad and I got into the dumbest argument about salary. He claims that people talk and everyone in my department knows how much I make/how much the other people in the department make. I'm trying to argue that it's not true and only management/HR knows. My dad comes from a stock market background where everyone basically has an idea how much other people make based on clientele and it seems that he just thinks snooping around for a person's salary is appropriate conversation or something. He even claims that a person should ask about salary in the interview, which I disagree with unless it's brought up by the interviewer.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mom works at an old navy for something upwards of almost ten years. Over the span of her working their they have been lingering in and out of being abusive employers. Not that this isn't something I wouldn't expect out of a big corporation, something happened recently that I'm close to positive should be lawsuit worthy or something in my mom's favor. \n\nThe other day on the clock my mom was cleaning one of the bathrooms and while taking the garbage out there was a faced up syringe under some paper towels! She found out after jabbing her hand with the syringe and noticed that there was preexisting blood on this syringe!!! She was then brought to the hospital (obviously) to be screened for all sorts of diseases and had the option of starting intense medications to prevent the microscopic chance of that needle being contaminated with HIV though the medications would make her very ill. All old navy did about the situation was lock the bathrooms so the public can't use them.\n\nIs there anything about this situation that my mom can use in her favor? She didn't turn the syringe over to Old Navy because they were being very nonchalant and dismissive about the situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first post here, so bear with me. \n\nLast week my boyfriend and I were talking about prom, and somehow conversation got around to sex. He asked what I would do if he said he wanted to be abstinent until marriage, and I told him that I'd have to think about it, but that it probably wouldn't work out between us. I never thought of it as a serious question, but then he got concerned that sex meant more to me than a relationship with him, and I spent 30 minutes convincing him that I loved him a lot and that I would want to make it work.\n\nI already knew that he has a lower sex drive than I do, which made me feel even worse after the conversation when he tried to turn me on. It felt forced, and I told him that he shouldn't be doing anything that he didn't want to do because of me, and he stopped but he still seemed sad and disappointed. Now I'm just worried that he'll be faking it when we have sex next. I don't want him to do anything he isn't comfortable with, but when I tell him that, he doesn't really talk to me or reassure me that he won't.\n\nHas anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do to help him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (19/m) have been crazy about this girl (19) on my college campus for 6 months now, but she was in a relationship, so I waited patiently for my chance (having a feeling that this long distance relationship with her high school sweetheart wouldn't work out).\n\nNow after about a month of her being single and the both of us ready to start something, I'm worried about getting too serious too fast, because I've had similar problems in the past, and we are both very interested in each other. No sex has been had, but we've spent a lot of time getting to know each other, shared the occasional kiss, and talked about being together as a couple.\n\nWhat is the \"standard\" or an appropriate time to make things official and is a month enough time to get over her ex (of 6 months)?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actually happened on Saturday, but I'll get to the story. It's about 2 AM on Saturday and my SO and I are having a good time up in the loft bed. I'm on top and my SO asks me to spin around. Instead of spinning around as I usually do, I (like an idiot) decide it would be a better idea to stand up and get back on again obviously forgetting that the fan is on, at full speed naturally. \n\nAs I attempt to stand up, the fan clocks me right in the side of the head just above my temple. My head whips to the side from the force of the blow and I fall down clutching my head. As I'm laying there trying not to cry, I hear me SO ask if I'm okay. I try to compose myself before asking and my SO asks me to please say something or at least make a noise.\n\nMy SO is freaking out because I might be knocked out and it would be weird to try to explain to our parents why I had to go to the hospital. Through gritted teeth I manage to say \"I'm trying not to cry\" as I sniffle and the waterworks start. My SO holds me and tells me it's okay and I'll be fine. Then we both start laughing after my SO says that even though it hurt, this has to be the funniest sex injury. But boy did that kill the mood. \n\nThe next morning I wake up to a numb on my head about an inch or two long and about a half inch tall. Swallowing hurts, chewing hurts, yawning hurts, and basically anything that requires jaw muscles hurts. I think in a couple days my head wound will be completely gone, but I can manage a lot of things with a minor twinge of pain.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me 18 her 20. We were so happy together relationship ended and just a couple weeks ago we started talking again back to the way it was it was great. She randomly tells me today that we we stopped talking her ex was talking to her about getting engaged. I live this girl so much I tell her do what you will make you happiest. She tells me that I treat her better than he does and she told him that. \n\nDo I let her try and be happy with another man or do I fight to try and have her back. This woman is the first girl I feel on love with and first I made love with. She has told me for weeks she wants to be back with me. But the other guy wants to marry her.\n\nI just want her to be Happy no matter what she does but I don't want to let her go.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 19 yr old male. I really like this girl(18 yr). I met her through a friend and have a hungout with her a couple times. We get along well and have similar personalities. The main contact I have is through social media: twitter, snapchat and text. Our conversations usually don't last long except one occasion when we discussed a serious topic of depression and shared how we've had our moments. So we connected on another level (so I thought). Anyway the question is how can I pursue a friendship then more if she won't talk to me much. Is she ignoring me or just a busy person? I feel like we could have something if we tried.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Quick back ground, I was only with my daughter's father for a very short time. He was in the military and got moved away when she was about 2. I thought he was decent guy and was involved as much as he could be and always paid support, gave gifts and saw her whenever he could. \n\nHe recently moved back into our city with the military and my daughter has been so excited. I am not happy with all the changes because I don't think he feeds her well, he wants her to play sports (both my girls are very arts and computer orientated). So far she has taken to all of this stuff because he's very handsome, charismatic and was a pro football player for two years. She is over the moon in love with him, which I don't want to stop even if I have issues with it. \n\nHe just texted me that he was going to take her to a fucking gun range after school. I said absolutely not. It's not safe and I do not believe in guns in any way shape or form and they should be banned and every gun owner should be arrested and locked away for life (yes I feel that strong). He said that he does have custodial rights and that as long as its legal, he can do what he wants. I said absolutely not. He said we could talk about it in person when they got to my house. \n\nI want to stave this off and go grab my daughter out of school right now and get a restraining order against him. This is sickening. I'm a momma bear and no one fucks with my kids like this. \n\nWe have an agreement (not legal, but written and signed) that he gets to pick her up from school on the days I'm in class. But from what I understand it could be used me in court and I guess technically what he is doing is not illegal (but it is grossly immoral in my opinion) \n\nCan anyone offer advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Good morning, everyone. I'm very tired.\n\nMy boyfriend and I don't live together, but we have been dating for 4 years. 2 years of that was long distance. When we're awake, he is very affectionate and kind. He likes to hold me, and kiss me and be close. We often spend Sundays cuddled on the couch, watching movies/youtube videos. I like his affection a lot.\n\nAt night though... he often wakes me up by grabbing my tits and ass. Often times, I'll wake up to him grinding his hard dick against me, either my hip or my ass. Sometimes, it is actually painful. Sometimes he'll have this junk out of his boxers. Sometimes he'll put my hand on his junk. A lot of the time, precum gets all over my sheets, comforter, and my clothes. This doesn't happen every night, but it happens more often than not. I don't think the issue is that we're not having enough sex. He's usually at my place from Saturday afternoon to Sunday afternoon, and we'll have sex anywhere from 3-5 times, plus I'll give him 2-3 blow jobs.\n\nI've talked to him about this, about how sometimes he hurts me while he's grinding against me. How it wakes me up, and really messes with my sleep schedule. I get very little sleep usually, due to my stressful job. I average at about 5-4 hours, and use the weekends to try to catch up. Him waking me up really cuts back on my weekend sleep. He always seems to contrite and sad when I bring it up, he apologizes and then tries to make it up to me... but then it happens again. I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all. I have been working at my current employer for almost three years. My employer is very generous, and they send us IT technicians (I am a help desk guy, but we are a small IT group and get involved in many projects doing a lot more than that) to training yearly. This is a job abroad and this means most of the tech training must be done in region in another country or far off in the United States. Others with a higher pay grade get tuition benefits, I do not. I am not complaining, my first job out of school would not even pay for training down the street ...\n\nSo I want to write a proposal that I can plan out an online MS in Computer Science, that every year would be cheaper than flying me out, putting me in a hotel, and paying for an expensive training course. Does anyone have experience with this? What format should I use? Anyone know where to even find samples? Not sure what to call this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The kid is 18 years old, about to graduate high school and is going to a decent university in the fall. He's really smart but utterly socially inept. The boy has aspergers, everyone knows it, but he is not professionally diagnosed. The parents think if the son knows he's aspie, he'll feel stigmatized or it will ruin his college/goals if he knows. The kid has never had friends, has problems with girl obsessions & not taking cues that girls think he's odd/aren't interested and is starting to look like a stalker. I'm afraid he'll not understand his actions and do something not socially acceptable. \n\nI think knowing would help him tremendously. He could understand why everyone is repelled by him, learn some life skills and possibly have a shot at a more normal future. I'm afraid he'll get to college and get so wrapped up in social issues, figuring out how to dress/feed himself, etc. he'll end up depressed, overwhelmed and ultimately fail.\n\nThe parents don't want to hear suggestions at this point. Anything I can/should do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl through a friend, and we've been on two (double) dates with two of our very close mutual friends (my best guy friend & female friend are dating, this is my best female friend's friend.) Each time in person she's very quiet and distant with me, and really doesn't talk a whole lot.\n\nI understand some people are naturally shy, and that's okay, but she consistently texts me [very pessimistic things about herself] I'm wondering if I should let it play out, or take the red flags and run. She's otherwise a really nice girl, so I'm a little stuck on what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short...u/andyootoo posted a submission, telling people that he has tickets to a show in SF for sale, but he has to sell them online since he's in NY. The tickets for this show are sold out, so I decide to trust him. After a few back and forth exchanges via email, and seeing proof that he does have the tickets, I decide to send him the money via Amazon gift card. The card's been redeemed, but the tickets that he promised to transfer to me via Ticketmaster never came. I had talked to Amazon, and they can't seem to do anything. The bank's investigating in the meantime as well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This FU actually happened today! (Well, since it's past midnight where I live it was technically yesterday but I don't consider it \"tomorrow\" until 6 or 7 in the morning because it's more convenient.)\n\nThere's this girl who I've had my eye on for quite some time now. We talk quite a bit and sit together in communication class, etc. but she doesn't know I like her.\n\nSo today (or yesterday), I left my dorm and went through the frigid cold and snow to go to the dining hall. After getting my fill of shitty college food and a lethal dose of Mr. Pibb, I started the not so long journey across the frozen tundra that is outside.\n\nThe way the dining hall is set up, it's between two (crappy) dorm buildings and it's attached to them for the convenience of the unlucky students who have to live there. The girl I like just so happens to live in the dorm in question.\n\nAs I'm about to round a corner to get to the exit, I feel the Pibb gurgling in my stomach as it prepared for a burp. Me being the ancestor of the extremely intelligent cave man, I decide to let the burp out. It's only natural, right? I let out a ferocious burp that was quite loud and lasted a good 3 seconds, all while going around the corner.\n\nRight in front of me is the girl who I fancy, standing with a couple of her friends, wide eyed and somewhat shocked (not sure if it was the loudness/length of the burp that shocked her or the fact that I did it in public).\n\nAt first I didn't notice it was her because her hair was different. Then she awkwardly waved and quietly said hey to me. I too said hey in an awkward way and continued on my journey, laughing like a mad man on the inside.\n\nNeedless to say, I probably won't get a shot at dating her. Ever.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Apologies in advance for the length and I would like to note that I do have plans to talk to various people at my university but I would like to hear from fellow Redditors who have perhaps been in similar situations.\nAnyways, here's my situation:\n\nI am currently a sophomore graphic design major. When I graduated high school I thought for sure that graphic design was what I wanted to do but after getting a little farther into the program and looking ahead, I've decided that it's not something I want to continue with.\n\nFor those wondering why I don't want to continue, I'm honestly just not as passionate about graphic design and the time commitment is causing me a lot of stress. I hate to sound lazy, but I want a major/to take classes that will allow me to have a life. I've even found myself wishing I had papers to write.\n\nWith that being said, I am not 100% what I would want to switch majors to, but I do have some ideas. At the same time, I don't want to completely switch to another major only to find out that once again it's not what I like. I am definitely finishing out this semester in my graphics classes and I plan on putting forth effort, but I'm not as concerned about whether or not my projects are \"portfolio-material.\"\n\nHere is what I am thinking about doing for next semester:\nI have not taken a ton of general education courses so I am wanting to take a variety of classes that interest me and also fulfill general education requirements. Of the possible majors I am thinking of switching to, some of these general education classes do apply to them or fit in the same category. Is this a good idea? Like I mentioned before, I don't want to completely throw myself into a different major in the event that it's not what I'm interested in.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing a girl over the summer. Shes really sweet but has been giving hints she wants to make our relationship official. I've given it some thought and I decided I don't want to take it to that level with her. Like I said, she is really nice, but we're in different places in life and I just have a gut feeling that I don't want to take it any further. She has gotten really attached to me though and I know this is going to crush her. She also lost one of her parents recently which makes the whole situation worse. I've been in a shitty place too so we've been really helping each other emotionally. So some part of me really doesn't want to do this since I'll be more emotionally isolated, as well as her. I would love to keep things casual, but I don't think that would be healthy for her since I'm afraid she would say yes with the hope I would change my mind.\n\nHow can I let her down easy, or as much as possible given the situation? Is it possible for us to still be there for each other after the dust settles?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my current partner in September, in one of my college classes, and quickly started having feelings for him. At the time, I was in a nosediving 3-year-old LDR that I had been considering breaking off for about 6 months. \n\nIn October, I broke off my LDR messily; a couple of weeks later, I started seeing my current partner romantically.\n\nI know it's widely considered a bad idea to date someone so soon after ending a long relationship like this (and for lots of good reasons, I know). But even though I am still getting over my last relationship, I'm developing some serious independent feelings for my new partner. And our relationship seems to be a lot more healthy than my previous one, which I am starting to realize was more co-dependent than was good for me.\n\nWe're taking things slowly, in an attempt to prevent myself from using my new guy to fill the holes my last boyfriend left (which I realize now should be filled by myself). My new partner's been very understanding about my residual hurt and sadness from my last relationship. But I could use some advice on how to make things work, and how to make sure this new relationship doesn't take an unhealthy turn.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been friends with this girl for a while but we became really close about a month ago, and have been hanging out all the time. Twice we went back to her house after going out and I could tell she was making moves but for whatever reason I was being stupid and didn't do anything but cuddle all night pretty much. In the past I could always tell she was pushing towards being physical and was always really enthusiastic to talk to me or hang out and I was always receptive but I guess I didn't do enough to turn things into a relationship. Tonight we went to the beach and I was planning on kissing her but her body language and demeanor told me I shouldn't, whereas when i think back to previous times I know if I had kissed her she would have been down and she would have furthered things. Now I'm not sure, I really like this girl and I know she really liked me, I'm just worried her interest is gone. Maybe I'm just over thinking everything but it definitely feels like the vibes have changed and they're a lot less flirty. Do you guys have any tips on what I can do to make my intentions clear? She's a lot more experienced than i am so I think that's why I'd been so coy and non-opportunity seizing in the past. I really want a relationship with this girl and I know she felt the same, I just don't know how to make my intentions clear especially when we've never really vocalized feelings for each other romantically but it was very clear just from the way she acted, so that I think it'd be really strange to bring it up out of the blue.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm kind of at a loss on what to do about this. I love my boyfriend, a lot and I want him in life. But lately I've been feeling so disappointed.\n\nI'd say the main issue is I've asked him time and time again to do things with me. And not boring things that only I would like, but stuff like going to a baseball game. He agrees or I guess brushes me off and we never do anything. All I want is to get out and off the couch on occasion, but he seems content with always doing that. I couldn't tell you how many times I've talked to him about doing things together.\n\nI guess what really has me pissed at the moment is that he spent all day yesterday helping his new female roommate move in. I'm not threatened by her and I know nothing would ever happen. What I am mad about though is he hasn't done anything like that for me in a long time. I moved a couple months ago and he didn't lift a finger or offer to help. This situation just leads me to thing about other things like how he'll go on trips with his friends but not me even though I always talk about wanting to go certain places and suggest we plan it out. He'll go out with his friends, but never with me. \n\nIt just sucks to not feel like a priority after 2 years. I want to talk to him one last time about it and see if there's any hope at me feeling better. Any advice on how to get through to him and not cause a major fight?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Found someone online and we hit it off and we have been a \"thing\" since september 2013\n\nIm supposed to go and visit her, she lives about 6 hours away, for the first time. But i dont want to be with her anymore.. I dont like not being able to hold the person or kissing or any of that stuff..\n\nIve been with her through her mom dieing, her sister getting seizures and she always has people leaving her.\n\nI know it will hurt her either way but should i go and visit her or should i call it off before then, and how do leave things better than how i found them?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A down-on-his-luck friend was having trouble 'clicking' with women so I suggested giving tinder a try. A few matches later he comes across this girl, we'll call her Marla, and my friend hits it off with her. 3 dates later they make it official that they're dating. Yesterday, however, my friend had some suspicions about Marla really being a guy. After much speculation he just asks. Marla reveals that she was born a boy and had reassignment surgery. My friend is really bothered by this and it's sent him into a depressed state. He would like to break up with her, but he is torn apart as he really did connect with her, but the trans thing isn't his style. Now he's asking me for advice and what I would do if I were in his shoes. Please give advice, and thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically some really awful stuff went down in my childhood and while it doesn't really affect me outwardly, it is sort of important to know and some things do kind of set me off. He has a vague idea, at least I think so becasue I've mentioned it in passing but I don't think he really understands because lately he's sort of been berating me for things that I'm afraid of that kind of stem from those issues or whatever but I don't think he really understands that. \n\nHow do I explain everything to him without making it sound like I'm looking for a pity party or without completely turning him off to me for being an emotionally high-maintenence mess with slight PTSD?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi; first of all I live with my boyfriend in his mothers old house which we rent with 3 other roommates. This girl just so happens to be the girl that took his virginity 3 months before we started dating... so it's a little rough for me to be living with her in the first place.\n\nLately she's been really catty and treating me like shit. She gets really snippy, yells at my dog, and had a bitch fit because I was doing laundry yesterday??? Well, I overheard her talking shit about me to a friend, saying I'm annoying and all I do is eat the food in the house. Ok; first of all, I'm 10 weeks pregnant, yeah I'm going to fucking eat. Secondly, she doesn't buy fucking groceries anyways, I only eat what my boyfriend and I buy.\n\nAnyways; now all of our mutual friends are treating me weird whenever they come over, like they are afraid to talk to me. I pulled one of them aside and asked wtf was going on... and he said that she's having a cow over living with me and that she can't wait until I move out etc etc. Which whatever, I'm happy to get away from her too, but I don't give a shit about her.. I care that she's potentially trying to turn people against me that I care about.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a little back story. I met my boyfriend about 9 and a half months ago. We started hanging out and sleeping together pretty frequently and within a month we were exclusive. Things moved pretty fast after that. We've moved in together, bought furniture and televisions and a car together. \n\nHe has had issues with anxiety and depression. He also has a condition that causes physical pain in his legs, ankles and feet.\n\nWe've only had a few issues during our relationship. There's been no cheating, no lying that I know of, nothing to have caused things to go wrong. However it still feels like things are going wrong.\n\nUntil about a month ago we were having sex every day. We experimented and tried new things. He performed oral sex on me at least twice a week. It was great. So when the sex started getting less frequent, I talked to him about it. At first he told me I was crazy and I was imagining it so I gave it time. After a week or so though nothing changed. I talked to him about it again and this time he blamed it on his depression, poor self image and his leg pain. I now get sex once a week if I'm lucky and if we have sex, I'm always on top.\n\nSo on top of not having sex, we don't do anything except sit around, watch Netflix and maybe get high. We never go on dates or take walks or cook together and we rarely talk unless we're outside smoking a cigarette. \n\nOn top of that he is constantly getting annoyed with things I do. Even things that he used to find endearing. He makes me feel like I'm an idiot. \n\nSo basically I'm wondering if this kind of change in a relationship is normal. I've only been with 2 guys exclusively before this one and they were both cheaters and liars and had no respect for me so I'm afraid my idea of normal is not in fact normal. Should I expect better or is this the best I'll get?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a student in college, and I have my future planned out and contracted out for the next ~10 years of my life. My girlfriend of 1 year doesn't know exactly what she wants after college. She has a couple ideas of going to grad school, being a teacher, or going straight into her field, geology. In about a year, I will be told where to live and work after my graduation by my employer, but for now I don't know. \n\nShe says if she moves with me after college, that she will be sacrificing her career and will not ever get to be an independent person. It really has been bothering her and depressing her because she recently realised she doesn't know what to do after college. It seems like this idea just popped up out of nowhere, we have been happy together. So she says we shouldn't be together anymore. I don't think her logic makes sense. If she doesn't know what she wants, and she still claims to love me, then why is she so concerned about her independence? Am I somehow preventing her from being independent? Is it an excuse to breakup with me? Is there something I don't understand?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Initially met her from tinder. She's very attractive, fairly intelligent, and athletic. She communicates well and even has a healthy dose of common sense. She's ambitious, yet down to earth. She really has no undesirable qualities, however, for some reason I haven't become enamored with her. \n\nBecause of this, I'm having a hard time finding the energy and enthusiasm to date her properly and to perform romantic gestures. Normally, when I've been \"in like\" with someone, I'm energized by them and I will do anything for them, but with her, I haven't gone out of my way as much.\n\nHas anyone felt similarly, only to grow in love later? Any thoughts as to whether this is significant enough that I should break up with her? I'm not motivated to date someone I don't want to spend my life with long term, and if there's an appropriate time to end things it would be now, especially before the Holiday season.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm currently on my way down from my all-time high weight of 175.8. I'm 5'6 so I know that doesn't sound all that high, but I felt like crap and I was eating terribly and not working out. I've been running 3-4 times a week for about 30 minutes and just finished my first 5K today! \n\nI'm down ten pounds since the end of May with 10-15 more to go, and I'm motivated and confident now, eating about 1600 calories a day and tracking all of my food, but I'm really concerned about what will happen when I hit my goal weight. I've lost a little weight in the past but as soon as I got stressed, I gained it all right back. How have you managed to keep the weight off once you've reached your goal?\n\nAlso, I've been researching how many calories I'd need a day to maintain my weight and finding that that number falls around 2100 calories per day. Wouldn't eating that many calories make me regain all of the weight I'd have lost? It seems like a lot to me! How many calories do you eat a day to maintain your weight, and has eating your so-called \"maintenance number\" caused you to regain?\n\nAny wisdom would be greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So Tuesday I noticed that my 5yr old neutered cat kept trying to urinate but couldn't so I immediately took him to the vet. His bladder was full and plugged. He was put under and cathed and has been at the vet on antibiotics and fluids for the past 36 hours. In short, he was diagnosed with FLUTD and had crystals. I get to pick him up tomorrow and was told that he will be put of Royal Canin S/O. I am planning on buying the food but after looking up the ingredients I'm not sure if I want him to be eating that long term. He previously was eating Wellness (grainfree) and although the vet suspects that the food could of caused the issue I was wondering if anyone had any experience with a cat with crystals on a healthier food than the vet's prescription. I am going to get a second opinion about his diet from another vet; I'm currently researching what type of questions to ask.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my ex and I were in a long-short-distance relationship which was causing a lot of pressure on our relationship. We got very serious way too quick and that led to some arguments about trust (whether I can trust his promises about the future). This is his first relationship, which I think makes the whole thing even more stressful for him. He said that when he's with me, we feel like forever and that's why our relationship seems stressful because he's never been with anyone else before. Also, our relationship has the whole world against it--we go to different schools, and I'm at boarding school, so that exacerbates the problem. I see him once a week.\n\nSo we came up with some sort of post-break-up blob arrangement--not defined at all, right? We kiss and cuddle and have sex, he still calls me baby and tells me he still loves me, and the arrangement is all in all very confusing. Moreover, I can't reconcile the idea of him kissing another girl and then kissing me. I understand his point, I support him in his exploration (kind of) but I feel like if he wants to know what life is like without me, we shouldn't be acting like we're still in a relationship. He can't have his cake and eat it too, right? \n\nI really love him. We love each other, no doubt. I know that we're young but we've both sacrificed so much for this relationship--I applied to my second choice college instead of my first choice Early Decision (which is binding) just for him. And yes, I did settle a little bit, but the school I applied to is still incredibly rigorous and a great school in general; he's planning on going to a nearby university. Being without him will be so, so hard and I want nothing more than to be with him but I feel like I'm not actually with him in this arrangement we've come up with.\n\nI guess my final question is: which approach should I take to get him back as soon as possible? Should I go along with our weird blob of a relationship (despite my doubts), or should I cut him off (at least romantically) so he can realise what he's missing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating the same girl for 4 years We have lived together 3 of those years. I have always been a flirty guy and I know it can cause problems. From the start of our relationship I wasn't ready for anything long term, wanted to be single and play the field. Throughout our relationship I have been a dumbass and flirted with girls, even sent some pics that I shouldn't have. This has happen not just once but about three times. However, in the last year I wanted to get my shit together because she is a pretty kick ass girl.\n\nI don't know why I sent naked pics and flirted like I did while in a relationship. It just something I got a thrill from doing (and in the end, help me get off). I would feel guilty about it afterwards though. \n\nMy partner's father cheated on her mother and hurt her pretty good by it. So I understand her trusting issues and I haven't done anything to help it with what I've done. It is too the point where she monitors me closely everyday. She does go through my facebook, phone, and email to see if I'm doing it again. Once again, I understand why.\n\nMy biggest problem is because I have done these things in the past, I feel like I've doomed this relationship. How can I ever feel like the perfect guy for her when I've screwed up so many times. I can't pretend that I the knight in shinning armor. Because of all this, I feel like this relationship is at a standstill and we are just together cause its comfortable. I don't want that, I want to go back and treat her right and be the best I can, but I don't think the past will allow that. What can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Uncle passed away last week. I loved him like a father and he helped pay for my college. He called me 'Ladybug' as a nickname and always has. Since he has passed, I just don't want to be known by that. My sister [28F] [24F]and cousin have been calling me this because it reminds them of him. \n\nWe got into an argument over it. I told them I don't want to be called Ladybug, it's something special I shared with my Uncle. I want to be known as Ellie, like they have called me for [25 years]. \n\nI am not really willing to compromise on this. At this point I kind of want to take a break from them. I am mourning and they keep reminding me of him in painful ways. \n\nAny idea how to handle this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tonight I was at dinner with my dad and step mom. My dad is way older than my step mom. \nI asked my step mom if she married my dad while she was in college or before she started college.\nMy brother replied for her and said \"while she was in elementary school\". As a joke and everyone laughed.\nI got excited because I...I'm lame and something inappropriate slipped out...\nAlong the lines of....my dad having a white van....hiding candy in it.....driving around schools....doing things....it got worse as I kept talking.\nI don't know what the hell is wrong with me. It's like I don't have a filter. I THOUGHT IT WAS FUNNY.\nAnyway, everyone just exchanged awkward glances and my brother said \"wow, sometimes you shouldn't be invited to dinner.\" \nAnd my step mom said I was \"disgusting\". \nI decided to just be quiet the whole night and eat lots of cheesecake. I don't know if I could have said something to fix the situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On 3/31 I went to upgrade the outbound flight on myreservation to First Class- in the amount of $190.98 each for 2 seats (total $381.98).\n\nImmediately after checkout I went to select seats and saw that I could upgrade my return flight to first class for $50 per seat ($100 total). i checked out with my credit card for the second time and selected my seats. I verified on my credit card that there were 2 pending charges from United: $381.98 & $100. I noticed today that the $100 charge has changed to $381.98. \n\nUpon calling customer service and speaking to 2 different people for over an hour, I was told it was a glitch in the online system that showed $50 first class upgrade and they could not honor the price. \n\nI was told the system would not allow them to honor the $50 per seat upgrade. I suggested that in lieu of a refund, I would accept a travel credit in the amount owed to me ($281.98), but they said I had to send feedback through their site.\n\nI fly exclusively United and am a very loyal customer, and I am flabbergasted that such a huge company would bait and switch me like they have done. Showing me $100 then jacking it up to $381.98. \n\nI'm assuming I have no real recourse?", "role": "user" } ]

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