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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit,\n\nSo last few weeks I've been feeling like when you didn't sleep much last night, or you're slightly hungover. That kind of foggyness, muddyness, stuffy head or however you want to describe it. Kind of like when you're slightly sick or coming off a fever.\n\nA slight headache too. I have been sleeping more that usual, sometimes a lot more, but waking up feeling super tired. \n\nLike today I had a final and I slept over 9 hours. I woke up super tired, with a slight headache, and a stuffy feeling head. It was hard to concentrate and even after drinking a monster I felt the same. I later drank another coffee and I was still tired. \n\nI don't think I'm sick because it's been a couple weeks and other than that I feel fine. It's not mono because I already had it when I was a little kid. \n\nWhat could it be? Is it anything to worry about? Am I slowly losing my cognitive powers and am destined to become an omega rather than a beta or whatever I am?\n\nThanks for your time!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A large group of our friends are going to this weekend camping festival and due to the size of it and how we are all arriving on different days it is unlikely that I am sharing a tent with my girlfriend.\n\nShe recently suggested that we \"took a break\" for the festival. At first I was shocked and didn't know if it was because she didn't want to spend time with me, had stopped liking me and even wanting to go out getting with other boys.\n\nI obviously said no and asked why she wanted that and she just said she trusted me however didn't trust my friends and thinks they would egg me on to get with other girls and fool around a bit.\n\nI'm really confused about the whole situation, she says she was \"testing me\" to see if I would want to take a break however that feels like she doesn't trust me. Also I feel like maybe she doesn't like me as much as I thought seeing as she suggested we break up so I can fool around..\n\nI'm really confused about this whole situation and just want some outsiders' opinions to sort of guide me through it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I will try and keep this short and sweet but I have been talking to this girl for about a month now. We went on a very easy going ice cream first date since were both pretty busy people and don't live in the same town and she works weekends. It went really well and ended up closing the place down and even just kept talking outside!\n\nFast forward to about a week in a half later she came to visit a friend to \"study\" that goes to my college and we casually hung out until her friend left. By this time it was night time and I told her before she even came she needed to see this really cool thing on campus and made it a surprise for her. I took her to these really nice ponds and walking trails and walked around talking and holding hands while looking at the stars which she loves to do. We stopped on a little bridge and were just talking which eventually led to me holding her and then kissing her. It got pretty late and she needed to get back for a test in the morning.\n\nDuring this whole time we have been texting each other nonstop and Facetimed a few times since were about an hour away from each other.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work with her, and she is a good friend. And I actually did grow feelings for her but won't say anything until I leave the job. The thing is, maybe I've been giving too much attention, because she doesn't go look for me anymore, or text me as much. She use to initialize the texts as much as I did. Maybe she already has a hint on how I feels? Overall how do you bring back that closeness you had with a female friend? She's fun to talk to and the thing I don't want is to become distant.Maybe it's the me withdrawing because of my feelings and I'm over analyzing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background: I am not very social and she is. Never dated each other and did not want to. We were almost immediately great friends. I have always been nice to her and supported her in the things she has done. \n\nMy friend, let's call her Blake, and I used to text everyday from the beginning of freshmen year of high school until our first semester in college. When I say everyday I honestly mean everyday. We would talk about a large range of topics (class to very personal stuff). Then, on some random day, she stopped replying to me and has never contacted me again. I have wished her happy holidays, birthday, etc and nothing. Really I just want opinions on why this may be. I guess I just miss having that really close friend that I could talk to about anything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We adopted a stray kitten that my sister found in the local Taco Bell parking lot. After watching for missing signs and seeing nothing, we decided to keep him. Great, cat, whatever. But things have been happening that, taken together, are intriguing.\n\n1) He looks like no cat we've ever had. Slightly different gait, facial structure, and is very large. He's only about 4 months and is already probably north of 10 lbs by a bit.\n\n2) He can't genuinely meow. He can purr, but when he tries meowing it's almost like a series of small chirps.\n\n3) He is EXTREMELY people driven. He loves attention at all times, will go limp as a rag doll if you pick him up, plays fetch, and compulsively gnaws on your hands as you pet him, like a puppy might--no broken skin.\n\n4) He is apparently hypoallergenic. My fiancee is intensely allergic to cat dander and doesn't do well with long furred dog dander, even. Yet she seems able to play with him with impunity.\n\n5) The final, most bizarre thing, isn't even something he did. My aunt took him to the vet and the vet asked \"How much did [blindfire40's mom] pay for this cat?\" As we got him for free from under our tires, it's certainly odd that the vet would ask that.\n\nTo assist in identification, I've attached a [few pictures] of him. It may be that he's simply a bizarre tabby, and that's fine too, because we certainly love him. But Mom's got this idea that he's one of the intergrades between domestic and a wild cat, for the reasons listed above.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [20f] have been with my boyfriend [21m] for six months. He's incredible, it's the best relationship I've ever had, and I love him. But, he doesn't feel the same way, and admits to being afraid to think that way because he's graduating at the end of the year and most likely will be leaving me.\n\nI've had guys say they love me and then take it back, so I appreciate his honesty. Unfortunately, the logical part of my head doesn't control my tear ducts.\n\nAdmittedly, I really had my hopes up that he'd be saying \"I love you\" soon. I was looking for something to differentiate me from the other girls he knows. My boyfriend has a lot of female friends, and he's extremely affectionate with all of them. He practically dates them all - takes them on one-on-one outings and stays up all night with them when they're going through a rough time. He's a good friend, and I love that about him.\n\nBut on the other hand, I feel like the only thing that sets me apart from his friends is that he fucks me. And that doesn't feel so great.\n\nSo how can I look at this differently?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I (f 22) have been dating for 2 years, and overall have had a great relationship despite ups and downs. \n\nDon't get me wrong there have certainly been snags.\n\nHowever one thing we've always struggled with is personal space.\nI require less alone time than he does. We don't live together, but we spend about 4-6 nights a week together. Many times in the past I have stayed at his house longer than he wanted me to. At first he had an issue communicating these feelings to me. He didn't want me to be sad or take it personally, he just wanted to be alone etc.\n\nHe has since worked on communicating this when it becomes an issue, and I have worked on not letting it get to the point where he has to mention it. Just enjoying my own space, as well as giving him his.\n\nWe generally don't talk during the day (when we're both at work and busy I don't see the point in aimlessly texting). \n\nLast night I called him and it turned out he was very upset with me. He was mad at me because I hadn't contacted him that day. I told him I was trying to give him space, but also I was busy. When I told him I was thinking of him but didn't want to step on his toes, he said \"I guess.\" When I told him I loved him, he said \"okay. fine.\"\n\nWhen space is such an issue (an issue for a long time), how do I know when to give it and when not to? What am I doing wrong here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my bf and I have been together for about a year, I met his ex briefly when they were dating (bf and I were sort-of friends before dating) and she was really nice. Anyway I just found out that she got pregnant while they were dating, he wanted her to have an abortion but she chose to keep the baby. So he left her and hasn't had any contact with her or the child. \n\n2 questions:\n1)\tShould he have told me that he got her pregnant and what does it say that he didn't tell me himself (instead I had to find out through gossip)\n2)\tShould I try and get him to meet his child? He doesn't want to discuss it whenever I try and bring it up, he just gets annoyed and says I'm not supporting him.\n3)\tShould I reach out to the mother and see what she wants (i.e. if she wants me to try and get him to see his child or whether she's happy alone). We're not friends but I've stalked her FB page and could message her there??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As the title says I'm 21yo male in a 9 month relationship with a 35yo female.\n\nShe has been very upset recently with me recently (to the point of saying she no longer wants to be in a relationship) because I was on the phone with her and texting another person at the same time. Her rationale is not that I was talking to the person whilst texting her (even though I think that is a big issue to her) but that I should have told her that I was texting the person instead of finding out from the person the next day.\n\nShe has always said that she hates hearing things about me from other people. I.e. when someone has told her something about me that I have told them that she did not know.\n\nI've always told her that I don't hide things from her: I'm just the kind of person who isn't very talkative and doesn't always volunteer information and tends to mention something if the topic comes up in a conversation,however if I am asked something I will readily and willingly answer. I have however tried to be more open with her.\n\nI don't want to lose her. \nHow do I phrase a good apology for not informing her about something I knew she would have wanted to know but absentmindedly didn't mention?\nHow do I explain my communication style in a manner that will get her to understand?\n\np.s. I have schizoid personality disorder (SPD), I think that is a contributory factor to how I communicate.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, im having problems with my horrendously hyperactive sex drive, insecurities, and emotions. Dealing with all 3 really leaves me in a mess, and sometimes I quietly cry my eyes out into my pillow as a result.\n\nBeing sexually gifted in lots of ways and having no outlet for it creates an insane amount of sexual frustration and jealousy, to the point that im bawling like tonight. It makes me feel extremely jaded towards others and resentful towards those closest to me, and I know its not how I should feel.\n\nI can only trust my aunt because my mom has schizophrenia and my grandma is a hateful, abusive person. How should I bring this up? Should I bring this up? How can I solve my problem?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So for a few years now, I've been wanting (needing) to lose weight, be healthy, change my life, etc. The problem is, that I can't seem to find a reason good enough to keep me going and motivated, or to even begin trying again. It's stupid, I know.\n\nHere's a little info/ background:\nAge:19\nHeight:5'1\"\nWeight: 150lbs\nBackground: Fought/ still fighting a couple health issues (severe migraines, GERD, acid reflux, delayed gastric emptying, the idea of fibromyalgia came up too). Constantly stressed either with school or trying to find a summer job/ internship, and I'm constantly fatigued (no matter what I do sleep wise, nothing helps).\n\nI'm 100% sure that getting to a more healthy weight and doing something with myself will make me feel tons better in probably every aspect of my life: confidence, become outgoing, be able to worry about/ concentrate on what I need to get done, etc. But with all these issues and a wicked fantastic boyfriend, one would think I'd have some motivation/ inspiration to get me started/ keep me going. Like, I'm starting to think I need to be humiliated or forced into this somehow, but that might not be a good idea in reality.\n\nBasically I'm looking for any help/ advice/ ideas that might help me with anything. I want to change my life, so bad, but I can't get myself to do it for whatever stupid reason and I've been trying for a few years now. :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just need to get this out there:\n\nAs a 5'7\" F, I went from 190 to 155 during my relationship with my ex who was my workout partner and inspiration. He was the one to remind me to keep going to the gym and to turn my nose up to junk food. After our breakup, I quit going to our gym, stopped my marathon training and started drinking. A LOT. With the drinking came the greasy late-night binge eating and hangovers that deterred me from doing any sort of exercise. Within 6 months I gained it ALL back. Just 15lbs away from my goal, I fell all the way back down to rock-bottom. \n\nBack at square 1, today is the day I lace up and go for a run. Hopefully It won't take too long to get back into the swing of things. I don't need the ex, I can do this on my own.\n\nFor anybody out there in my position, there is no tomorrow. There is right now. Trash the potato chips and move your ass. Get ruthless.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 32/F he's 29/M, together 1 year friends for 2 before that off and on. My guy we'll call Luke and I went to our first pregnancy appointment today. I'm about 6 weeks. We've had a crazy day with his car not working right, supposed to be fixed but the hood flew up and crashed into the windshield while on the highway. Took it to his mechanic and we got another car to get home in. \n\nOn our way to my place there's this stray cat in the road and it darts back across the street in front of the car. Luke doesn't even brake or swerve to miss it. We've talked about moving in together but he doesn't want my cats to come along. He's never had indoor pets or much of pets while growing up. Cats have been my companions all my life. My first pregnancy 9 years ago I went it alone and because of where I was living I had to give up my cats then to have the baby, alone. I gave them up. It wasn't feasible then. So here we go again. He wants me to give them up because he doesn't want inside pets. My Harley has food allergies and is racking up lots of debt for me with health problems and expensive cat foods. Mallory can be obnoxious sometimes. \n\nHe lives with his parents has for 7 years now. I have my own apartment and bills and such. He's never had to be responsible or adult until now. He won't have a civilized conversation about keeping the baby or not. Is this really a good choice, what's the right answer? He says we can do it but the cats have to go. Even then he still wants to maintain two apartments. I get SSI Disability and am looking for work. He has a stable job. We need each other to do this right. But his lack of empathy tonight with the stray cat leaves me feeling scared of him. \n\nAny advice? This is my first time having a partner to have a baby with but I feel like I'm doing all the sacrificing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time posting here. Sorry if I mess up on formatting, and thanks in advance!\n\nSo, like it says in the title, I'm a nineteen year old male in his second year of university. I volunteer with an eighteen year old girl in her first year. Recently, in the past couple of months, I've developed a pretty big crush on her. Normally, I would ask her out and see how it goes. If she says yes, great! If she says no, it's no big deal.\n\nThe problem is, we're in the same program, and it's one of the smallest programs in the country. Even though we're in different years, everyone knows everyone and gossip gets around fast. It would be embarrassing if she did happen to say \"no,\" and everyone knew about it. I know that might sound like a stupid thing to worry about, but I can't help it.\n\nI also don't know if she feels the same way about me. We haven't really hung out alone, but I think we generally enjoy each other's company (as friends), although that doesn't really say much. I had drunk talks with my female housemates about her, because they're semi-good friends with her, and they both told me to go for it. We were all intoxicated, though, so it might not be the best advice. One of my friends in first year also talked to her, and he told me that he wasn't sure about what I should do. I don't know if that means that he thinks she's not interested but he's too nice to say so, or something else.\n\nI know this sounds really stupid and very high-school-y, but I was in a terrible relationship for most of first year, and this is my first crush since we broke up. I haven't really been exposed to university dating life, so I'm pretty nervous. So, sorry again if this seems silly or childish, and thanks for the advice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my ex girlfriend and myself were close friends for an extremely long time and eventually we got into a relationship (30/12/15) and she broke up with me a few months back (2/02/16). \n\nI loved her a lot and I still do. She really screwed me over and I never got closure from the relationship. We ended on good terms but we now no longer speak because she dislikes me for some reason. I still see her around college talking and flirting with other lads and it really makes me angry.\n\nI get really protective and obsessive over her and I want to get over her before I do something crazy that I will regret. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As some of you may know, Coldplay played at the Rose Bowl yesterday on their tour. I got tickets months in advance and I guess you can say I was pumped for this event.\n\nI woke up a tad bit late so I just ate cereal and left for the concert. Upon arrival, we walked around a bit to check out the stands and it was moderately hot outside. When I got in line with my friends and parents the line wasn't moving much because the gates haven't opened yet, so I was just standing in the beating sun. I was thinking about buying a bottle of water, but it was $6 for that and $8 for lemonade!!! \n\nAll of a sudden, I felt my body slip and my vision start to get foggy and I blacked out and faceplanted straight into the ground. I woke up about 15-20 seconds later with ambulance people around me. Long story short I ended up taking the ambulance to the ER, I got stitches for my chin, a minor concussion, a loose front tooth, and chipped tooth all because I was dehydrated. So the lesson here is to keep yourself hydrated out there and sit yourself down if you don't feel right.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We been together for about 3 months, I really like that girl and want things to be serious. She is a virgin and doesn't feel ready to go all the way yet. We still do favours for each other when things heat up. \n\nI know she wants me to feel just as good as I make her feel but somehow she does it so painfully I just pull away from her. She is very inexperienced and super uncomfortable with talking about such things\n\nAny guys here who dated inexperienced girls? She is wonderful but like any guy I want to have that satisfaction. Thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have a group of friends from a couple of schools who have formed around a few peoples friendships, basically hipsters and nerds, who just kind of ended up hanging around each other a bit, sharing a lot of interests , etc.\n\nAnyway my friend came into the group kind of latish and is always saying that she feels separate, coming from a completely different school from everyone else and says she recently got very socially awkward.\n\nShe had drifted away for almost a year and I hadn't seen her for months and months so I decided to message her a few times and just see how she was doing, if she wanted to keep talking or what.\n\nI helped her through some stuff as well as I could and she seemed to appreciate it. We kept talking and she annoyed me a few times, a combination of me having a couple of bad days and her being a bit stand offish. One of these times I unloaded a tonne of my issues onto her, basically telling her to fuck off and get off my back in a polite way. She messaged back very contritely and said she was always there for me.\n\nYet it doesn't seem like she is, she rarely starts conversations with me, about twice in the last 3 months and I just don't think she actually cares for me despite everything she says. Actions are worth more than words right? So currently, I've decided to stop talking to her. If she wants to talk to me, great. Otherwise as I'm the only one from the group she was talking to recently, after my 18th birthday party which I will invite her to because I've already said so, that'll be it for our friendship. Am I doi.g the right thing? I haven't really talked to her about this because I dont wanna be really needy and should I have to talk to her about it when she's ignored my problems other times?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me [21 M] with my [ 22/F] friend whom I'd like to ask out. We've gotten along together really well in class, and when we eat lunch after class together. The thing is I literally can't think of a single think to ask her to do. Like, I don't do anything ever. At least not for the past year since the army rejected me. \n\nWe're both currently college students and finals are about to end, and I don't have a car.\n\nWhat should I ask her out to do? I really don't want to ask her to a movie since we probably wont interact all that much if I do that. I also have like three number of girls I'd like to hang out with (that I met at the library at 2AM studying) but don't know how to. I would also like to avoid drinking, as I just don't like to drink all that much, but am open to it. \nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So to set up the ground work me and 19F girl have known each other on a name basis for coming up to 2 years now seeming me and her are in the same college course. Now me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 months now, everything great, she is fun and great. I'm enjoying the time together.\n\nNow this is where stuff happens, I've had feelings for 19 F for a while now. But never acted on them because she has a boyfriend and they've been dating close to a year now. Then I met my current girlfriend and started stepping away from 19 F, spending more times with my girlfriend. \nThen I noticed 19 F starting to get pokey and playful with me, starting to hug me and slap my butt, I instinctfully slap her butt back, which I feel terrible for because girlfriend. Then 19 F starts tackling me so I pin her which she smiles too. \n\nSo my question is even though I've wanted to do this sorta thing since I met her I think I should stop because relationships, or maybe I should confront her about this.. ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As title says, I've only been in contact through text (I don't know how she looks). I've known her for around 2 years, but a lot of time has passed within those 2 years without us talking. We recently began communicating more often, and related to that, I fell in love. I've been in love before, but only with girls who I've seen and talked to the \"normal way\". I mean love as in \"I'm prepared to spend my meager student savings to fly across half of the world just to meet her for a day and hold her hand for a second\" love.\n\nIf you asked me what I love/dislike about her, I would be able to list things that I don't love, but they seem irrelevant to me at this moment, and most importantly I dont want to turn this into a study of her, since I would unavoidably skew it to get the answer I want.\n\nShe knows how I feel but highly doubts that I love the \"real\" her in any relevant way. I have my reasons to believe that personal reasons she previously revealed to me before I confessed shapes her opinion in the matter (which is why I'm here for a second opinion). Reasons that are private and really not relevant as long as you accept the premise. Her feelings are ultimately equally irrelevant for this specific question.\n\nMy question is: Am I LIKELY loving someone that only exists in my head? In a way I guess we all love/hate people based on personal perceptions, but you get what I mean. I know she isn't a reflection of me, it's her differences that excite me the most (I think). \n\nI know 2 months is a drop in the ocean, and I could just wait and see if my feelings disappear as quickly as they came (previous experiences hint towards years of feeling like this before it fades).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all. I'm calling all cat nutrition experts. \n\nMy 7 year old orange shorthair developed a hot spot on her neck. Before I knew what a hot spot even was there was a running joke about how she would not know when to stop rubbing her head on stuff because she'd sometimes rub herself into a little scab. \n\nAs far as I can remember she always would over do rubbing her head like that. It wasn't until recently she started rubbing that spot on her neck like that. \n\nWe went to the vet to get her checked out. When I saw what she had done to herself I freaked the hell out. they sent us home with an ointment.\n\nI didn't know that certain foods could cause a cat to start getting really itchy spots on them like that.\n\nWe have two cats. The 7 year old and a 13 year old. The 13 year old had never had any problems like this. I suspect that it has something to do with the 7 year old being a little undersized, maybe a runt. (she was also pretty undernourished when I found her 6 or so years ago trying to cross a busy street. Perhaps not the brightest.)\n\nWe feed both of our girls friskies prime fillets. mostly turkey or beef. They don't like fish too much. We used to feed them fancy feast but seemingly out of no where both of them decided they didn't want to eat it any more. We have meow mix hairball control dry food out for them. I feel like we've always fed them meow mix. \n\nOh! Another thing. The two girls fight a bunch. It's never anything too out of control. They just both seem to love the same square of living room. When it gets too rough they usually cut it out or i'll intervene with a spray bottle of water. The older cat doesn't have her front claws but the younger one does. As a result the older one will nuzzle the younger cat to get her to cut it out. Could that be the reason? If so why the spots on the her ears. I've never seen the older cat go after those spots when they are playing. Again, the older cat hasn't had any issues like this. \n\nAnyway,", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In high school, I was a backyard wrestler. I posted a blooper video to Youtube. TruTV contacted me to use it in a segment. I signed a release, licensing the footage for the show. Then a few months ago, I wake up text messages from people who saw me on MTV's Ridiculousness. I was as surpised as they were. It's on quite a lot. I'm just wondering - why would one network ask me for permission, while the other does not? What's the legally of using footage from youtube on network TV etc? I'd assume it was under Fair Use.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In January 2007, my wife (then girlfriend), best friend and I drove 2,000 miles to attend a playoff game in San Diego. Along the California border, I had the bright idea to take a side road between Interstate 10 and Interstate 8 to save time. It was about 3 in the morning and there were no cars within miles on either side of me when all of a sudden I see a car come speeding up with its left turn light blinking. I slowed down to let it pass but instead the driver started creeping up to my bumper and refusing to pass. No big deal, waited for a passable zone and slowed down to allow him to pass. By now, I'm going about 25 in a 60 and he is still riding my bumper. Freaked out a little bit, I sped up to 85, he's still on my ass. We're hauling ass through the Imperial Sand Dunes Rec area when all of a sudden another car comes up with its emergency lights flashing. The car that had initially followed me now started trying to box me in on the left side and run me off the road. I kept swerving back and forth to make it really difficult.\nAs I neared the town of Brawley, I decided I had to make a move. I slammed the brakes with both cars right on me, they swerved and stopped about 50 feet in front of me, just sitting there. I sat in the middle of the road facing either direction while they watched us for about 10 minutes. Finally they started to pull off, unfortunately I still had to go in that direction so I floored it to about 100 to avoid an ambush. The adrenaline rush got us all the way to San Diego in the wee morning hours. I was scared shitless, there are other stories but this is the one that takes the cake. What's the scariest interaction you've had with a stranger?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Bare with me, its pretty long.\n\nAlright, so my gf has had a troubled past; she was raped when she was thirteen by a \"friend\" and as a result, her family completely fell apart. Her father actively despises her for this, her twin brother is an addict, and her parents are seeking a divorce. Her entire life since that incident has been a nightmare, and it shows in her relationships which have ended in her getting used and cheated on. Despite this she is very tough and resilient, but i think that stubbornness has run out.\n\nShe is very depressed and tells me how she has had enough and doesn't care anymore. her tumultuous relationship with her father is at the core of this. She dropped out of high school and just recently got her GED to show her dad she is willing to give schooling a second chance. The agreement was she would go to school and he would give her her car back. But he went back on his word and just yells at her and puts her down whenever she brings it up.\n\nSo now she's jobless without a car to take her to work and school and basically incapable of sustaining herself because of it. On top of that her dad kicked her out of the house for getting a tattoo, while her twin brother is an addict who comes home fucked up on god knows what. She's been living with my uncle since she is childhood friends with my cousin, but she has become completely depressed and demotivated. She feels like her situation is hopeless and has told me she doesnt care anymore. I don't know what to do or say to help, and its frustrating because i really care for her. \n\nI'm really scared guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "More and more recently, I have been noticing my fiance being more controlling and setting rules which I find to be way too restrictive.\n\nI have in the past confronted her about the rules that she sets up, and she refuses to compromise/strong-arms my desire to change these rules or even come to a happy medium. \n\nThis has become an issue starting around the time she and I started smoking weed together recreationally, and I therein began smoking more with friends and by myself as well.\n\nShe is concerned and despite my attempts to sooth her concerns, she refuses to budge and has constricted the rules she initially enforced. As well as is rather passive-aggressive when I do smoke more than two days in a row.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I went to post this question and I saw that another eBay problem is on the front page. So here's the story: my mom bought a roughly $300 item from a seller on eBay a few weeks ago. Part of it was damaged, so she asked if she could send it back and get a refund. He agreed. She sent it back, he refunded her money, and he left her positive feedback. End of story, right? Well, tonight he emails her and says (wording slightly altered): \"I knew you were a scumbag, but this is worse than I knew. Watch out for criminal charges and mail fraud.\"\n\nShe sent back everything that he sent her. He can have no possible grievance against her; as I said, he even left her positive feedback for the transaction. Is it even worthwhile to file a complaint with eBay, or should we just ignore him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a girl 10 months ago on r4r. Good times, bad times, and okay times, and everything in between have been had. I love her with everything that I am and our relationship is wonderful. However I am not a good boyfriend, a good worker, or a good anything for that matter. She is everything that any person could ever want and I want to say goodbye so she can survive without this burden that is me. \n\nShe reads these forums and since I am a slight coward when it comes to goodbyes the impersonal post may be the best. \n\nI love you Sarah. Please continue being awesome.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One year ago, I came home to see a skeleton of a hound dog stumbling all over my pastures. I didn't have anything to catch her with, but I am a sucker for animals in need and tried anyway. It took an hour of walking up and down the same fence before she just collapsed and I \"caught\" her. We took her to the vet for two broken front paws, but nothing else was wrong with her.\n\nShe was so scared of everything, the slightest sound made her take off literally shitting herself. A whisper could make her cower in the corner and pee everywhere. My neighbor also told me he'd seen her thrown out of a truck the day before. So I kept her, afraid she would be put down if I took her to anyone else.\n\nIt's been a year of taking sweetly, lots of food and treats, going on walks, befriending my other dogs, and sitting and petting her for long periods of time. A year. She still won't come to anyone but me, and she only started coming to me in the last couple of months, and being very nervous when she does. She's still terrified of noises, movement, and pee's around anyone else. She runs so much to avoid (even though they're not interested) my family and friends that feeding her three times a day still has her looking like a skeleton and sleeps standing up during the day to be ready to bolt again. We had to triple reinforce the fence to keep her in because she continuously rams it to get out in a panic, cutting herself up once in a while, when one of us walks into the yard. She doesn't even make eye contact, and flips out when she bumps into something like a chair.\n\nI still don't want her to go elsewhere and risk a bad or no future since I know she is really a sweet and loyal dog under all the mess, but I am moving to start over in a couple of months and want her to come with us and start over, too...\n\nIs there anything more I can do for her? :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've had an attraction to a co-worker for nearly a year now since she started last summer. We got to know each other pretty well since then, constantly talking, hanging out alone on breaks, going for drinks after work etc. Overall very friendly for just being work collegues.\n\nHowever she has a boyfriend so I didn't really pursue anything further than that but since almost everyone else figured out how much I like her, I'm sure she did too. I mean we guys are blatantly obvious right? \n\nUp until about several weeks or so ago, I've noticed a change in her behaviour. She would purposely walk around where I am to avoid me, would dart her eyes/head down and away from me whenever I'm around her. Practically avoid any interaction with me whatsoever and only me, not to any other co-worker.\n\nSo in your opinion, why is this going on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi,\n\nAs a person who's wasted so much time watching funny clips from youtube, I've decided to contribute to the problem by uploading funny clips from my favorite movies (Team America, Dumb and Dumber, Friday, Talledega Nights, etc.) to youtube, but I am currently having trouble accessing the videos from the DVD's I've bought to youtube.\n\nI'm currently using DVD Decrypter v. 3.5.4.0 and usually it breaks down the movie down into four videos or more of 15 minutes a piece. But most of the time DVD Decrypter either gives me unusable video clips (of one second duration or something) or automatically puts the video in French for some reason. So I can only really use a quarter of the movie that isn't missing or in French. I find older DVD's more likely to give me unusable video.\n\nAgain I'm not trying to upload entire movies to youtube, just their best bits like the robbery scene from Heat or any drill instructor scene from Full Metal Jacket. Unless this is totally illegal, then what I said previously was just a hypothetical situation and should be disregarded immediately. /jedi mind trick", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background... This girl went to the same elementary school as me and is currently attending the same high school as me. I honestly had no idea she even existed until my sister, who also went to the same elementary school, told me about her. She is two grade levels below me so it has been hard to even talk or approach her. The only \"class\" we have together in high school is lunch, and we sit with our own group of friends.\n\nA month back when I was walking home alone, she was also walking home with a group of her friends on the opposite side of the street. Halfway home, I hear someone yelling at me from across the street. I turn my head and it's her, jumping and screaming saying \"I love you!!!!\" like multiple times with hand gestures and everything. She even screamed \"bye!!\" when I made a turn onto my street. I initially was surprised since I had no clue who that was and just gave her a funny/confused look. I think my lack of expression/action on that day really threw her off, but I think she would be the type of person I would want to date. \n\nFast forward to today, she hasn't done anything crazy like that before and I've just been going through my daily routine of school and everything. I want to tell her that I like her too but I am confused on how to do so (since I know so little about her, besides her name) and she is always with her group of friends. Since I waited so long since the last time we encountered, does she still like me or was that whole thing just a joke?\n\nAny advice or input would be appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Simple story, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, we were friends in high school, and we live together. He has a friend that he plays League with. I sometimes play with them, too, because I love my boyfriend and he wanted to play with me.\n\nHis friend (not my friend, his friend) called me a bitch today. I was immediately annoyed, muted him, and my boyfriend didn't say a thing. I told him then and there not to let somebody disrespect me like that. He didn't say anything for the rest of the game. We finished the game, I ignored him. I didn't know what to say or how to say it without seeing red.\n\nAbout 30 minutes ago, I told him again not to let someone disrespect me like that, and he said he didn't think it was a big deal, because his friend was joking. \n\nI don't give a fuck if his friend was joking or not, I don't like that and my boyfriend (who claims to love me) shouldn't either. He's been defending his friend that he's known for less than a year, and not even trying to see my side or apologize. I'm still angry as hell, so I cant tell if I'm overreacting or if I'm in the right. Please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys. So, the SO and I had a long talk tonight. Lots of tears and apologies and whatnot. The thing is: if he gets upset with me he'll stay mad at me for hours even if it's just a misunderstanding and if I've already apologized for it.\n\nMoreover, he gets annoyed that I get annoyed over little things (since he's a guy and he doesn't understand why these things might upset me even though I try to explain them to him). \n\nSo overall: he is doubting whether or not we are compatible because there are some fundamental things that we do which annoys the other person. \n\nI just feel like we fight a lot about silly stuff and that ultimately these things add up which makes us hesitant to talk to each other (I tend not to stand up for myself sometimes just to avoid conflict which might possibly go on for the next 10 hours).\n\nDoes this mean that we're not 'compatible'? How do I fix this? (2 years)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "this is a throw away account because my house mate is pretty cray cray. We are both 26/f\n\nA little while ago I found a used tampon in our toilet bowl and confronted my housemate about it [(see first post)] \n\nAfter the wonderful words of redditors I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt - maybe it a was mistake - even though in my other confrontations with her she's been a total nasty b*tch - so I had a feeling this was done out of spite but I didnt say anything.\n\nToday I woke up to find yet another used, bloody, nasty tampon in our bowl. Flipping gross. I texted her \"I need you to flush your tampons if you are going to put them in the toilet bowl\" (we have been having drain issues because she is flushing her nasty tampons and she refuses to stop). \n\nShe replied, \"Oh I must have not pushed the handle down hard enough\" - the lid was up when I walked into the bathroom so I'm not buying that bogus line.\n\nI wrote back, \"Thanks in advance for making sure that does not happen again.\" to drive home the point that I'm serious.\n\nCame home today and she 1. didn't apologize for subjecting me to her nastyness and 2. refuses to talk to me and is blasting her music (ie sending the non verbal message I'm pissed). I dont really care about our friendship that much (anyone who doesnt own up to leaving their used sanitary napkins in the toilet of a shared bathroom isn't a person I need to have a long term friendship with) but I do care about my standard of living.\n\nheres my question:\n1 - Can I somehow make this gross behavior stop so I don't have to see her used tampons anymore?\n2 - if she retaliates (which I have a feeling she will...she's pretty passive aggressive) with something worse - how do I protect myself? What if she starts leaving her poo in the bowl or leaving something else gross around the house?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our landlord is impossible and has made paying rent to him a hassle. He received checks the day before they were due, but because they took a couple days to clear to his account, he decided they were considered late and threatened us with fees. \n\nBecause of this, my fiancé and I have decided to send cashiers checks to him via certified mail. (Cover our own butts and make a paper trail just in case.) However, previously, we had an automatic payment set up through online banking which would mail him a paper check. When we decided to do cashiers checks, I went to a branch personally and asked for a stop payment on all future checks to him and then went online and also stopped the automatic payment. \n\nThe bank still mailed a paper check. And he cashed it. \n\nOur joint account (that we only have for bills and a tiny extra for savings) was completely drained, put in the red AND an nsf fee was charged. \n\nThe bank states there's nothing they can do as the stop payment was done to stop him from pulling money, not from us sending him checks. \n\nWhat can we do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "While I don't condone every negative action of the Catholic religion, I think its cruel to be mean to them. \n\nWhile I am Atheist, I can understand why some people follow religion. I don't hate or make derogatory terms to people who choose to believe in a god. \n\nI don't make fun of Catholics because I can understand why they believe in a religion. They want a reason to believe in life after death because death is a scary concept. A lot of people on reddit make it seem like religion is a horrible thing. While I am firm on my atheist stance, I love the fact that religion existed because it defines our history as a human race. People need religion to explain things they cannot understand or cope with. Whats wrong with not facing reality?\n\nAs an atheist, we have to accept that we are just a tiny speck in the entire universe. I think its logical to assume that people refuse to believe that because it sounds negative. Why must we poke fun at the uneducated and delusional?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 22 (F) and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for almost 2 and a half years, but I feel like he is just with me because it's easy. I really love him, but he makes it such a point to not be romantic. The only time I feel that he is love with me is when we have sex, but besides that I feel like we are better for as friends. Of course, things get more complicated is that we are both from the US and we are moving to the UK for grad school. Our plan was get an apartment together, but I don't think I can continue our relationship as it is. I really love him and I'm not mad at him, but I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There were approximately 15 people in the suite playing water pong and drinking a few beers, doing shots, playing music. All but 1 was underage. \n\nI was in my room doing work because I am a loser and have 3 tests on Monday to study for. \n\nThe RA came in and said party's over and told them to dump the beer, wrote down everyones names, and told everyone who didn't live there to get out. \n\nShe was REALLY nice about it and kept saying that we were all being really cooperative and polite and that would go on the report. \n\nThere was a friend of ours who is an RA there who had just stopped by and got fucked by the timing. There was a girl who will probably get kicked off a sports team, and there was the guy who was 21 who could be in trouble for drinking with minors.\nThis is all of our first offense.\n\nI talked to the RA personally and she said that if my roommates vouch for me not drinking and not being involved that will help my case, but I would probably get in trouble for just plain having knowledge of the party. But technically I never came out of the room for the one and a half hour that the party was going on for.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok fellow redditors, here we go;\n\n6 months ago my ex broke up with me because \"she didn't feel the way she was supposed to feel anymore\"\n\nbut.. \n\nAs stated in the title, i want my ex back, probably sounds pretty generic but i cant help it.\nWe broke up 6 months ago, i was fucking pissed and got into a new relationship, thought it was a good idea at first i had great sex and great talk with my new girlfriend but something was missing all the time. \nFound out my \"new\" girlfriend was a just a rebound to my ex so i decided i should end the relationship between us.. Also as a matter of fact i thought about my ex every single day during our relationship, about how it would be if she didn't break up with me and hearing all the voices of friends and relatives inside my head at the breakup; \"its a shame, thought you would get married soon and get children and such\" and all that crap.\n\nAfter all, i miss her every day so god damn bad i'm thinking of asking her out just to check out her interest in me, maybe its something and we could start over again? right? \nAfter all its the only person ever in my life i felt comfortable with in a relationship, in my eyes she was perfect.\n\nSo yeah, maybe its my head messing with me or maybe she is the one.. i don't really know anymore i feel that this post doesn't even make sense to you guys.\n\nI still have about weekly (friendly) contact with her at the moment\n\nWhat do you think? I'm just so fucking confused..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I invited this girl to a theme park with me. Things got a bit strange there, as we held hands together and she grabbed me and hugged me on a couple of rides. After the theme park she goes, \"omg thanks for the best theme park trip ever <3 :).\" The next day she asked me to go to some youth thing her church is having. I said sure and she went on and on about how \"this meant a whole lot to her\" and how \"we're gonna have a great time :).\" I thought it was gonna be fun too, but at the actual thing she left me alone to my own devices, with total strangers (I wasn't sure about going for THIS EXACT REASON.) The next day was worse... She brought another guy with her and not only did she ignore me and ditch me again, she started getting all touchy-feely with this guy. Gee, I can see how much my presence means to her... I know we aren't actually dating yet or anything but man, that sucked big time to see her like that. I am contemplating not going anymore (its a week-long event) but the discussions and \"sermons\" are actually enlightening and to not go would basically ignore the teachings of said sermons - but I don't know if I really would enjoy seeing her like this and what effect it will have on my feelings in the long run (so far I feel hurt and neglected...)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "quick background:\n\nBuying a house, going conventional with 3% down to avoid lifetime PMI on an FHA loan. Pretty far into the process and the broker runs some numbers (he said they were on the high end) where the contract rate was 4%, the APR comes out to 4.8% and that seems like a pretty big jump from contract rate to APR, almost a whole percent.\n\nTalked to the broker on the phone and said it seemed like a pretty big jump and he thought i was looking for hidden fees or something, I really wasn't. Although he suggested that it may be higher because I was only putting 3% down.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend are currently doing our GCSE exams (we're British), and yesterday, I accidentally overslept causing me to miss an english language exam. \n\nShe was really annoyed at me, but later we found out that it's okay that I missed it I had done a lower level english language exam a few weeks ago. So that was a relief. She was still upset for the rest of the day, bless her.\n\n She was annoyed at me because the exam was still obviously important, and she was clearly worried about me because she thought that meant I instantly failed english (which thank god I haven't yet).\n\nAnyway, she told me that she doesn't want to see me outside of school until we finish our exams. We finish our exams at the end of next week, so it's not that long, but the thing that upset me is:\n\n-I feel awfully lonely not seeing her, as I don't any good friends. (She's my best friend as well as my girlfriend, I care about her deeply)\n\n-Seeing her is the only thing I look forward to, I don't really have a hobby or anything else to look forward to besides a good session on reddit. (I'm sad :D)\n\nBut yeah, after next week I'll be leaving school forever. I know seeing her at school every day seems like enough, but at the moment i only have to attend science and math lessons, as they're the only subject left that I have exams for. So I'm at school 1/2 hours at a time, and not even every day.\n\nShe said that not seeing her outside of school was \"my punishment\" but, I don't see the connection, or the point, or any reason at all.\n\nWhat do you guys think? And what should I do?\n\nOh, we are okay now, by the way, happy as usual.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "** upate, the money was spent on reasonable things, its just that life costs a lot. She has issues with money. What can I say, that is not hard to understand, really. But I want to change it. The suggestion of the book to read in the thread was helpful.\n\nI learned last night that my partner spent close to $1000 reserved for home renos for her disabled son on groceries, gas, and stuff for Christmas since she has not worked for close to 2 months. \n\nWhen I asked her about it last night, she made up some kind of excuse about how she didn't want to be embarrassed at Christmas time with nothing to give. I told her I wouldn't have cared. \n\nI have gone through hell and back with money issues and I want to be on the right track in my life where money is concerned. \n\nShe has told me before that she hates money, because of what it does. Me I am more philosophical about it and I believe you must have knowledge and understanding of money to have power over it. \n\nThe money can probably be replaced in time without too much of an impact on the overall renovation project. But it is a bad thing. \n\nHow do I educate her and myself about this. I dont want to be hugely in debt ever again in my life. I dont want to be with someone who cant figure these things out with me. Its a deal-breaker.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my company for almost 2 years. My boss just called me into her office to ask me if everything was okay. She said she's been worried about me for a while and is concerned that I'm depressed. She wanted to know if there was anything she could do. I apologized for appearing that way and said that it hadn't been my intention, that I'm fine (which I am) and that I'd certainly try to be more cognizant of it and it may be because I haven't been sleeping well. She said that she's advocating very hard for my promotion as our company will be expanding soon but needed to know if it was something I'd be able to handle. I assured her it was and that I'm excited for the future. \n\nAbout a year ago I noticed that people at work didn't take me seriously. I assumed it had to do with my age as well as my bubbly and pushover personality. I decided to make a conscious effort to approach work more seriously and to be more assertive. I'm afraid that has given me the appearance of being depressed. I should note that she had me take a mental health day due to a small meltdown at work 6 months ago. (I cried a little bit when she asked if I was ok - I'm a crier, I don't know how to fix that). I took the next day off to take care of some things. I was working and going to school full time and had some health scares but I've addressed both of those and things are going smoothly. \n\nI'm not sure how I should handle any of this. What is this fine line between being assertive and coming across as depressed? Have a completely ruined my chances by appearing weak?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work in an HR-based function doing a combination of recruiting, talent management (reads: helping people get promotions and career plan), and conduct training and development activities. Several months ago I met a guy who was looking for a job here, but none were available at the time. Being that he has some good qualifications I gave him my business card and told him to check in periodically and I would keep him in mind.\n\nHe emails me once or twice per month which I have no problem with, but he has spelled my name incorrectly 100% of the time! The thing that kills me is that not only is my name clearly printed on my business card, but my company sets email addresses up in the format of [email protected]. As such he had to at least initially input my name correctly into his address book.\n\nI don't want to be a jerk, but I am a little frustrated that this guy misspells my name so frequently. My name is in my signature line of every email, so each time I reply he can see the proper spelling, so what else can or should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obvious throwaway here. Well for a little background information here, I'm part of a friend group that my SO is also part of, let's call her Amber. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her, she has a great personality and cares about me a lot. However another girl, let's call her Melissa, is also part of our friend group that consists of about 14-18 people and we see each other just about every day.\n\nMy problem is that I have found myself each and every day, especially after getting back from summer vacation, more attracted to Melissa than my SO. I have no idea what to do because we're all really good friends and it's not like I'm in an abusive relationship or anything, I just find myself to be extremely attracted to Melissa. Last night I got pretty drunk when we went out to a party and when I went to sleep the only dream I had the entire night was of me spending the night with Melissa and not my SO. I'm not talking about just sex; it was like going out to dinner, the whole deal. \n\nI'm not sure how to figure out if Melissa is attracted to me or not, because I don't want to ruin the friendship of the entire group just because I say/do something stupid. I also don't want to hurt my SO because she is a really great girl and even if I broke up with her I would still care about her quite a bit, but in a different way if that makes any sense. Please help me out here, I can give more information upon request. Names changed because privacy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently discovered I have a warrant. I called my lawyer on Monday 5/18 and was told that they were going to contact the warrants division to find out what kind of warrant and what needs to be done for me to clear it. \n\nIt's now Thursday and I haven't heard a word from them. I'm all for giving people the time to do their job with little unnecessary interference on my part, so before I start pestering them, I'm wondering if not hearing back is normal? \n\nBackground:\nI was arrested for possession of 1/8 grams of marijuana last July. I was fingerprinted, booked, and released all within 30 minutes. No mention of bail was ever made at that time. I retained this lawyer immediately following my arrest ($1500 which I paid immediately) and was told they couldn't do anything until a court date or warrant was issued. I was told by the cops that I would receive a notice in the mail with a court date. It never came, and my name (still) does not show up in any state/county warrant search websites. I called the warrants division every two weeks for about three months and my name was never found. I stopped calling after that. \n\nThe ONLY reason I know that I have a warrant is because I have a friend on the police force. I have a good job and recently discovered that in order to have access to a certain software application, I have to go through a criminal history check. I asked my police friend to look up my name and sure enough, he found that I have a warrant, which led me to contact my lawyer on 5/18, haven't heard back, which led me to this question. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I just want to get this overwith already.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a post that first started here:\n\nI like my new job, it's with a respected firm led by a well-regarded local professor . . . but it's been three weeks and I still don't have a hiring contract to sign. I'm not sure what to do. He asked for all other hiring documentation (I9s, proof of insurance, voided check, etc.) but hasn't gotten a proper hiring contract for me to sign. He's been \"editing it\" since last week. I wrote to him in an informal email that the end of the week (today) is my personal deadline to complete paperwork, and it's almost 11 (Half day) and I don't have anything. I'm confused and hurt - this is not how you treat people, especially build trust with new employees. He's really well-respected, and this could be a lucrative post-graduate career should I stay, but how can I (and him) respect myself if I do without a contract for much longer? \n\nI plan to send an email saying that I've enjoyed the work thus far and am available next week as planned pending the receipt of a contract to sign, etc. Is this too demanding for a newbie? Am I a pushover? \nWTF do I do and still hold my head high, here at work and in general?\nAlso, if I send that email, will it fuck up our relationship as mentor-mentee?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I submitted this to /r/relationship_advice yesterday and received no response. So I'm posting it here in hopes that someone will respond. \n\nI'm not sure if there's a bunch of pessimists on this subreddit; I haven't visited here much. So, please, if you're going to be negative don't respond. \n\nI have been with my boyfriend for a year now. In the past, I have never pictured myself ending up with anyone, I always ran away or avoided relationship situations. When I met him, something inside of me melted. He is everything I secretly wanted but was too afraid to find. He just appeared when I least expected it and I couldn't be happier. \n\nAnyways, fast forward to now. He's going to college to become a shipping merchant, working in the engine room. When he graduates, he will have a job that requires him to work a month on/month off. He is doing this to pursue his dream of having enough money and time to travel. What we both want in our futures is to travel. I know some of you may be thinking I'm naive or fooling myself, but I know that this is the love of my life. It doesn't make sense to be with anyone else. Being with him is right. The only thing is, is that I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle being alone for a month at a time. I know that in order to be with him this is how it would have to be. Basically, either handle being apart so we can be together, or not have him at all. I can't imagine a life without him. I know it's a ways down the road, but this is the only thing that could tear us apart, and I don't want that to happen. We have reached the point in our relationship where we see each other in one another's futures; it just makes sense. I don't want to lose him because being apart is something I'm not able to handle. \n\nBasically, any advice/similar stories/anything would be helpful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm about to move to a big city so naturally a lot of my friends from high school live there as they moved for work. In particular, there is this one girl who I noticed from Facebook is also there. I'd like to reach out to get in touch to at least have some friends in a new city, but I admit I wouldn't mind taking it further if the chemistry works out. In fact, I'm more interested to see if after several years this chemistry might be there, but if it isn't then at least I have a friend :)\n\nNow my problem is that I haven't spoken to her in the 8 years since high school (in all honesty I haven't kept up much with my high school friends). And back then we weren't particularly close friends, but we hung out with the same group of people. We weren't close not due to a lack of connection, but rather because I was close friends with different people than she was.\n\nWhat would be the best way to get in touch? I was thinking of just sending a message once I move to meet up for a drink to catch up as I'd like to make some friends in the new place, but I'm concerned that might be a bit questionable as I have plenty of friends in the city already so why would I be contacting her. Admittedly she can't know this, but because the city is so big and central it is highly unlikely I wouldn't have closer friends there already. Any help would be appreciated. I'm fine with her not caring about me and not wanting to meet up, I just want to make sure I get the tone of the message right.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live in an apartment with 3 other girls, 1 of whom wants to move out in April, because she is graduating early. Our lease ends August 31 so she wants to find a sublet to take over her rent for the months that she isn't here, so that she doesn't have to pay while she isn't living here. She has put up some ads, and the only replies she has gotten back are by people that the other 2 girls and I do not really approve of. She is getting frustrated, because we said no to the 2 people she has found, and she is also pressuring us to choose the people we would rather not live with by making us feel guilty. She told us today that she tried to buy her way out of the lease. Didn't work. Can anyone tell me if there is a way she could completely screw us over (meaning she leaves and doesn't pay and we end up having to pay her rent)? All four of our names are on the lease. She cannot sublet to anyone without our knowledge because she requires our signatures to do so. She basically threatened us today by stating some random thing about small claims court which was fairly unclear to me, so I just want to have my bases covered with possible crap she could pull. Any help would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend has a friend that I've hated since I was a kid. He was a bully and really rude and obnoxious and picked on my a lot. Eventually I matured, and stopped caring what he said about me. He's one of my gf's friends (I knew this when I started dating her), and I've always made it clear that I don't like him. He's tried hooking up with her (before we were dating), he's a ass, and he has cheated with and on a couple girls before. He also tries to get her to do things that she promised me wouldn't do, like hookah.\n\nShe knows I don't like him, and she always tries to hide it when she's hanging out with him, or she lies about it. I know I'm being irrational, but whenever it comes to this guy I stress out all the time. Last night, she didn't come see me because she was hanging out with him, and I had to press her before she told me where she was and who she was with. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have a good connection and deeply love each other. This being said, I can't help but feel that I'm passing up on a lot of beautiful women. I was never a handsome, nor charismatic guy in my (relatively) younger dating years and thus, I never really got that much attention from the opposite sex. I guess I've really blossomed and have been having to decline a lot of sexual advances lately. I'm not even out there looking for it: I don't flirt with these other girls (though of course, I engage in polite conversation if prompted) and I'm very conscious about not displaying certain types of body language. I never conceal the fact that I have a GF and often introduce this fact earlier on. My GF and I don't have any problems, especially where sex is concerned, though admittedly, it has become a tad stale. This doesn't mean that I'm itching for more/new sex, it just means that I don't look forward to the sexy times as much as I used to.\nAll this being said, I just can't help feeling like I'm missing out. Polyamory for sure is not an option for discussion with her and I know it would hurt her very much if I tried to initiate that discussion. I've never cheated in my life and never will, but this has been troubling me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey there /r/Relationships, I'm hoping I can find some solid advice here as usual. Here goes.\n\nQuick info: Me:19 out of school, working full time. Her: 18, still in school.\n\nI have been with my current girlfriend for about two months, and recently I just started noticing some ever growing self esteem issues. I've known her for around 6 months and I've heard her throw the occasional \"This makes me look fat.\" or \"I look terrible today!\" out, but nothing more than that. \n\nNow that we're dating, she is constantly saying how fat she is (She is far from it) and how she is going to start starving herself. She also talks about how she desires breast implants, a butt reduction and a tummy tuck. She's constantly speaking of killing herself because she's \"So fucking hideous and disgusting.\" I constantly try to reassure her that she is beautiful and lovely, but she never wants to hear it.\n\nI am assuming these feelings are feelings she has kept to herself as we've known one another and now has allowed to them to be heard because she has gotten comfortable. I do my best to compliment her and make her feel beautiful like she is, but it doesn't seem to be working. At this point it has begun to show in her personality and every day mood, she seems like she's lost some of the energy in her and happiness, which truly concerns me.\n\nReddit, what can I do to help my girlfriend out? She's a great person and is truly beautiful inside and out, now how can I get her to start believing this? I am strongly against self hate and I will not allow it to be a part of my relationship. Does anyone have any tips on how to make her feel as beautiful as she truly is?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I rescued a dog from a local animal shelter a few months ago. She was listed as a stray German Shepherd mix, and we think she is likely a GS/lab/pit mix. They estimated that she was around 2-3 years old, but since she was a stray, they didn't know for sure. They found her just wandering around the city we live in. \n\nAnyway, she has been doing GREAT since we brought her home. She was timid for awhile, but has grown to love and trust us and our friends, and has overall become a pretty awesome dog (no accidents, is trying to get along with our cat, etc.). As I was working a lot and my boyfriend was home more often, he wound up feeding her more frequently, although we both take her out and play with her.\n\nThe thing is, she has grown incredibly attached to my boyfriend. She is normally excited to see him, which is fine, but she follows him around all of the time and cannot take her eyes off of him. Even if I am playing with her or petting her or engaging her, if he is there, she is staring at him. Earlier today, when he leaned in to kiss me, she started making noises to try to get his attention. Whenever he leaves, she whines a little. \n\nHe is starting a new job soon and will not be home as often. We want to help her become less attached to my boyfriend so that she knows he will always come back, and so that she doesn't have to feel so anxious (it's like she is constantly looking to my boyfriend for approval) when we're home. Does anyone have any suggestions, tips, or tricks to help her become more comfortable with my boyfriend's absence and less attached to him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I been friends with this cute girl for about a 2 years now. Although I am somewhat a little romantically in love with her (we hold hands, cuddle at home, give light kisses to each other but not in the lips), I still get jealous when she hangs around with guys and does stuff without me. Although I care for her deeply.\n\nSo far she's been doing stuff that I don't agree with which includes doing illegal drugs, drinking alcohol excessively, having sex with other girls, and hanging out with the wrong type of people like the druggie, gang-banger, shady type of people. I feel like telling her parents or reporting her to the police for drug possession so that she can stop endangering herself with these type of people, since she is and acts far too young to be doing all this.\n\nEven though she is one of my best friends and I tell her to stop doing these things but she goes on how I'm being a too much of a \"goody goody\" in her words, I no longer want to be associated with this type of person, but I cannot help my self to break contact with her since I see her everyday at school, we talk almost everyday, she lives near me, and she is the closest I ever had to a girlfriend. \n\nWhat can I do to ensure that I can successfully break away from her? And should I tell her parents about his?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like with all of my threads, if there is any info you would like to know, just feel free to comment, I love answering questions.\n\nBasic info:Live in South Carolina, out in the country, and make 8 dollars an hour doing clean-up work.\n\nThis might just be me overthinking things, and possibly making it sound worse than it is, but do you guys have any advice for someone who wasn't able to save any cash/work until he was 19?\n\ni'm trying to put as much away as I can, taking as many side jobs/yards as I can handle, but I feel like it might not be enough. I do plan on doing some self investing (i.e. college) but not sure if I should start looking to do some actual investing (for example, mutual funds and the like)\n\nIn any case, I don't have any small/medium purchases, and some people and friends suggested a money market account for the time being, since i don't plan on doing anything too crazy.\n\nI know a lot of people will say, Look at the sidebar! And you would be right, but I just like asking around for more personalized advice.\n\nFor anyone who'se curious, the reason I wasn't able to work/save money involves a parent who I no talk to, and their annoying tendency to raid my bank account for stuff she didn't need. Which is why I just gave up, and decided to focus all of my spare time into schoolwork.\n\nNow that this is over, I currently make 8 or so dollars an hour, have about 350-360 USD in the bank, and not sure what to do with it. I've taken on extra hours, and hopefully plan on getting the max part time hours allowed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit,\n\nI've M(21) been with my GF F(20) for about 3 months now (dating for another 2 before hand) and we're perfectly happy together. No fights, arguments, ect. The issue is this, whenever either of us bring up an event that would be in the distant future we both make the concious effort to first say, \"assuming we're still together...\" before saying the event.... \n\nFor example: My girlfriends birthday is next year, she wants to go to Vegas (totally down), but before she started to bring up the idea she said, \"So for my 21st birthday, I think it would be awesome to go to Vegas! insert momentary pause Not saying we're going to break up, but assuming we're still together it would be so much fun if we went with a bunch of people... (and so on)\" \n\nI tend to do the same thing, when bringing up a future event, ill kind of throw in the fact that \"We'll cross that bridge when we get there but it would be awesome if next year we... (blah blah blah).\" \n\nIs that normal? Or does the fact we consciously entertain the idea that we COULD eventually break up mean that there's something inherently wrong in the relationship? I feel like normally people dont even have the thought of \"possible break up in the future\" in their heads. \n\nI realize the relationship is also young in its maturity, but never the less the question still stands. Thanks in advance reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, we met in August at the start of college. We were friends, best friends, then I told her I liked her. She wasn't into it, stayed friends. Then this year she told me she liked me, but then we talked about it and she is still not entirely over her ex from home. We hooked up once, then she said it was a mistake, we stopped for a while. Then over Easter we hooked up pretty much for 3 days straight. Since then we've been up and down over it. I want to go out with her, she doesn't want to go out with me (or anyone else, because she doesn't like the commitment). I asked about the future, she said 'maybe', but she likes how it is now apparently.\n\nSo, I really like her and want to go out with her, but don't think we should do the whole long distance relationship thing over Summer. She still isn't completely over her ex from home, so she may end up having sex with him, which doesn't bother me too much, I told her she should do whatever she thinks she needs to, in order to help her decide about us. So my hopes right now are that she comes back next year and wants to go out, but for now we're friends with benefits, but it's pretty clear it's something more to me and she said that nothing would have happened if the person were anyone but myself, so you can take that however you see it. I'm not sure if we should keep going the way we're going or stop now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm the 22F and we've been 'together' for 5 months now. \n\nWe're in an LDR and we're around 3k miles apart. We've never met, but we will in one month and will be spending a month together for the first time. \n\nWe're in a trial phase right now, the plan is to wait until we meet before deciding to commit or not. My 'SO' is making a very big exception for me, when we originally met I learned that he wasn't interested in LDR's, thought they could never work and were a waste of time.\n\nHe is considering doing it for me and during or after summer its either going to work out or not. My question is.. Has anyone ever been in this type of situation before and how did it work out?\n\nOh, I think its worth noting that neither of us are looking for anyone else. We are committed to meeting each other, its that part that comes after which is a bit shaky.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently my best friend(at least i think he is) and I haven't been talking much lately, but when I do find the time to talk with him, he seems so distant and would talk to other people and avoid me. We're not in the same class BTW but we go for the same tutor and he carpools with me. Usually I do all the talking and he just listens but never really cared from what I saw.\n\nWe also have this mutual friend that I hate with all my heart because he's very annoying and immature. My 'best friend' has been friends with him longer than us. When we talk, the three of us, they'll just brush me off to the side. I feel very unappreciated.\n\nWe ever talked about this but he still treats me like trash. I feel like I am in an abusive friendship and from what my friends have told me, it's taking toll on my mood. I'm usually a cheerful guy but when this happened I became depressed and distant. \n\nWhat should I do? If I talk to him what shold I say? Should I end this friendship because I don't want to, I have so many good memories with him. I need help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "edit: i mean sisters\n\nmy whole child hood my sisters were rather mean to me and my mom always said to them, \"don't be so mean to your brother he is not going to want to be your friend when you all get older.\" that became the truth starting in about middle school. we really started separating since they were pretty and popular and i was very much so not. my youngest sister once told me that she didn't love me when i was in college. \n\nwe are all now grown and they have matured and are not mean to me anymore, but i still find it hard to be close to them. i would never go to them for advice or tell them a secret or just discuss my life. when i am around them i still get very anxious. no matter how much i know they are not that way anymore, i can't help about think how terrible they were to me and i just can't open up.\n\nmy sisters are very close and are always doing things together and they even all went out to get matching tattoos. they never invite me to anything, still, but i don;t think they don't like me. i know my older sister likes me, she too is an oddball like me so we have that going. she was the only one to stand up for me when i broke up with my gf, while the rest of them and my mother told me i made the biggest mistake of my life. \n\nif anyone has some advice or experience with this it would be very much so appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This TIFU happened literally 5 minutes ago, and there have been mixed emotions in my house...\n\nSo as I was laying on my bed, after eating my mums 3 bean extra spicy chilli, I felt a good hearty fart brewing that could easily be used to start world war 3. I was browsing TIFU at the time and was laughing so much that I had completely forgot about the fart, and it had seemed to go away... Or so I thought.\n\nI quickly hopped into the shower and then suddenly felt the nuclear bomb brewing in my arse, but didn't let rip as I didn't want to turn my shower into a gas chamber, so I held it in till it went away.\n\nOnce I got out I went and laid down on my bed, but dropped my phone, which was plugged into my speakers which were blaring out music. Just then as I perched myself on my hands and knees to reach down and grab my phone, I heard a voice from above tell me this was the right time to unleash havoc from my arse, so as I mustered up the courage to release the fart, I grasped hold of the side of my bed, and let rip.\n\nThis was a fart like none other that I have encountered. It lasted for a good 15-20 seconds and sounded really wet and sloppy but stank so horrendously bad, I had to cover my nose with one hand. As I came round to finishing, I smiled at the work of art I had just created, to then have my gleefulness shattered by a scream.\n\nMy mum had walked in with my washing, hadn't seen I was perched unleashing this shit storm and had walked right behind my arse and got full wind of it. She quickly ran out of the room as soon as I realised what had actually happened...\n\nI had followed through with a literal shot storm, and it had sprayed all over my mum. And now I can no longer look her in the eye", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry I don't know if this is the right place to post, but I'm feeling so horrid right now. \n\nI have been with my current partner for 1 year now, and I have given up alot to be with him (moved to another country, even). When we first got together we had the most beautiful relationship of my life, I had never been that content with anyone. \n\nFastforward to now - he's asleep, clueless of any problem and I'm lying here wanting to cry...same as every night for the last week. \nWe barely talk any more, he comes home from work in the evening, plays his phone for a few hours (despite my requests to spend some time together/watch a movie/anything) and then he goes to sleep. When we do talk, I feel like it is meaningless small talk (\"oh its hot today!\"), and not lighthearted conversation like we used to have/like couples should have. \n\n...he won't even be intimate with me, and pushes me off when I hug him, saying I'm being clingy and annoying (I probably am by this point, I'm desperate for answers). I have explained how I feel to him, and he tries to assure me he still loves me. I ask him why we have changed and he denies that anything has changed, or says he will try harder but then the next day its back to the same old...\n\nSorry to sound like a neurotic headcase, but everything is different, and I don't know why. I feel like he doesn't love me anymore, and I'm beyond depressed about it. And in turn, worrying that by having this depressed and unhappy attitude will push him away even further because I'm not my old happy self. Its a vicious cycle - I can't pretend to be happy because I feel wretched, and being unhappy around him is sure to make it worse. \n\nNOTE: He doesn't have time/opportunity to meet any other girls so I'm not worried he's cheating, since he comes straight home from work every day/his only mobile is our shared one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend (21M) whom I (21F) was dating for a couple months before I moved away (we're just \"casual\"/friends now) is going through a lot of acute stress in his life at the moment. He recently broke his arm and is stressing about that because it interferes with him being able to work out (which he used to do to keep him in his \"groove\") and do a lot of other things, a lot of things at his apartment are getting broken, he got his car totaled in an accident, one of his family members was suddenly sent to the hospital, etc. I wish I were there by his side, but I'm 300 miles away, and I don't know what I could do to help alleviate his stress. When we talk on the phone, I try my best to be understanding and be a good listening ear so he could at least talk about it and vent, but he's pretty emotionally reserved and doesn't delve into his problems and instead asks me about my day and what I'm going through. I guess he doesn't like talking about that stuff, so I want to see if I could help him in other ways. r/relationships, what do you recommend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together about a year. Around the 3-month mark, I was staying somewhere with friends, including a very short-term ex (who happens to be a male), and one night, I woke up to him holding me and trying to do something sexual.\n\nI know it was wrong of me to not push him off, but I was a pussy and didn't want to hurt his feelings (we were still friends), so after a long time of him wanting to get something, my biological instincts responding positively (I was hard), I muttered, \"go for it\" and he blew me.\n\nI told my girlfriend the next day and she later told me she cried twice after we hung up. But after lots of apologizing and even the guy consoling me, saying he abused(/lightly raped???) me, she forgave me and our relationship was fine again, around two weeks later.\n\nBut a month after the incident, my girlfriend broke up with me, and I asked if it had to do with the incident and she said she's not sure. But she wanted to keep in touch and a few weeks later, we're back together.\n\nBut now, I'm considering breaking up with her (oh god it'll be tough), but because she forgave me for the incident, I'd feel horrible to end it. But it'd be beneficial for her, too, I think she's just too afraid of losing me to break up with me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the situation; I broke my Fibula (outside bone), tore two ligaments & damaged cartilage as well. I had surgery a week after the injury, Plate & 5 screws were inserted, cartilage filled in with silicone & Ligament sewn back together, additional 6th screw was inserted to hold the two bones together. After 14 weeks I had another surgery to remove that 6th screw as the Ligaments healed. I am now 6 weeks after the second surgery, was supposed to see the doc tomorrow but he had an emergency & rescheduled for next week, so I hereby turn to you Redditors (where else) for advice on how to start walking, I was told that I can start walking (couldn't talk to Doc, only secretary).\nI've seen all advice from people who were NWB for 6 weeks, I'm really looking for advice from people who have been closer to 20 weeks like myself. I've started putting pressure just yesterday & it's surprisingly painless (just pressure), still wearing Aircast (Doc said not to remove when walking).\nHow much pressure can I put?\nShould I throw away 1 crutch if I can bear it with only one?\nShould I get a cane already?\nwhat exercise is good?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Actually, I was that controlling boyfriend. I noticed it, but thought that it was just a little phase I was going through because of stress at work, past relationship experience, blah blah blah; but really, it doesn't seem like that was it at all.\n\nIt was pretty bad. I'd make mountains out of molehills, volcanoes out of mountains, and could find any reason in my head to think that she was deceiving me. Part of my personality is very analytic and I have a good memory, which didn't help at all. She would tell me about her day or a story from her past, and if something didn't add up I would prod and say things like, \"yeah, but you also said...\" or \"but wait, didn't you do...\"\n\nIt was bad, all bad.\n\nThe worst part is that in my head, I was sure that I was really in love with her and wanted her to have freedom. But in the back of my head, I was worried that deception is everywhere and its never that easy. I would get so sure of myself, becoming condescending while I told her what she was really thinking or did. Then, she'd finally get the straight story through to me and I'd start bawling and apologizing. I swore up and down that it wouldn't happen again, but it always would. \n\nWell, the day after I called about enrolling in therapy, she dumped me. I deserved it 100% and I'm not here to ask how to get her back, because, frankly, it will never happen. But, I'm wondering what experience and insight I can find here to help me overcome this problem. I would like a healthy relationship in the future, but I am completely incapable of having one, as I am now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, this is what it feels like to be broken up with. God it sucks. I (20/F) had gotten dumped this weekend by my ex-bf (21/M) of about 4 months. He told me that it was the right thing to do and that because we weren't compatible, it wouldn't have worked out anyways. In short, that is basically what happened. We talked, we cried, he tried to make me feel better, and he gave me some shaky reasons why we needed too. \n\nWhat bothers me the most, is that this conversation came out of left field. I was not prepared for this and I was thrown for a loop. I thought things were going okay, but I never saw a problem with it. We had said before that it wasn't going to last and I knew that going in, but this was a complete surprise. \n\nHe had time to think about it where I didn't so here I am. Single, right before Valentine's Day. I don't think it could get anymore depressing than that. But how do get over someone who lives in the same dorm as you? And especially if we are trying the whole friend thing out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, this was actually many years ago. \n\nI was still a virgin and had it bad for my female flat mate. There were 4 of us sharing the flat and one of the guys was a real psycho.\n\nOne evening we (me and said girl) were out at one of her friends for the evening drinking and getting stoned after a night shift (we also worked together in a casino).\n\nWhen it got to time to leave she decided she would stay the night on her friends futon to avoid dealing with Mr psycho, I was invited to share it with her.\n\nThis was after a 10 hour shift in a hot casino wearing cheap imitation leather shoes. Now my feet don't smell like roses under the best of conditions so there was no way I was gonna climb into bed with this girl, who I was truly besotted with, with feet that smelled like ass. \n\nSo I made an excuse and went on my way, happy with knowledge that she was happy to share a bed with me.\n\nI stepped out of the apartment, slipped on the stairs and snapped the tendons in my right ankle.\n\nPainfully and sheepishly and climbed back up the steps and asked them to call an ambulance for me (the hospital was far away, no-one had a car of money for a taxi).\n\nAt the hospital I had a 4 hour wait and stern lecture from the staff about wasting an ambulance.\n\nThat girl ended up being the one that got away, a few months later she was pregnant by her now husband.\n\nI am now happily engaged to a wonderful woman, but we all think about the one that got away, don't we?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I can't believe it's been a year already. I've seen some moderate growth on /r/nonprofit over the past year. So please, come by, say hi, and give us your feedback! \n \n \nAlso in the last year, we got to see this TED talk make some waves: [Dan Pallotta: The way we think about charity is dead wrong](\n\nWhile some of what Pallotta said is still under scrutiny, a great idea is propagating: if we invest in the infrastructure of a nonprofit, it can grow immensely. If we give nonprofits and NGOs the means to do their own research, their work will be more effective at solving problems, and not just providing \"Band-Aid\" solutions. \n\nHowever, we must demand transparency -- there are a few scams out there, as uncovered by \"[America's 50 Worst Charities] Basically, things like the \"Kids Wish Network\" making money by pretending to be the \"Make-a-Wish Foundation.\"\n\nWhile Bill Gates made the odd choice to invest even more money into better condoms, he also signed \"[The Giving Pledge] this year -- a cohort of high net worth individuals pledging to give away half their wealth in their lifetimes. (Certain members, naturally, are also under scrutiny, but it's still a big deal). \n\nFinally, and most importantly, there's the Reddit community's involvement in the \"[third sector] By raising awareness of articles like [this] you are helping to reshape the culture. The biggest asset you have, Redditors, is your input. Your ideas. There are many energetic young people who would be very valuable at any one of thousands of charitable organizations across the globe. I don't believe you have any duty or obligation to get involved. I'm not here to preach. But I do believe your input is invaluable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so I'm 16, sophomore in high school, and in my opinion, high school dating is just as pointless as teaching a lion to be a vegetarian. People want to get into it so fast with the 3 little words, and I don't agree with that. But there's a girl, 15 years old, who likes me and I kinda liked her. Notice I said liked. She is so obsessive, and it drives me crazy! I can't even look at a girl without her throwing a fit and stressing. Anyway, a few months ago, she told me she loved me. I proceeded to explain that I don't feel the same way, and that I don't know who I am, so how do I know if I love her. She then proceeded to freak out, and now any friend of mine that is a girl is her \"enemy\" and it's really making me mad. She actually smacked a good friend of mine for talking to a girl that liked me. He was talking to her at a basketball game, and she just walked up and smacked him. He asks \"what the hell was that for?!\" And she said you know what it was for, and left. And she just sat and stared at the other girl, glaring at her. Now I told her to apologize to both my friend, and the girl, and she said she did nothing to them. And I have 8 other people telling me she did. So I guess I just want to know what I should do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this happened a while back and I didn't know what to do about it.\n\nThis girl that I have a crush on (we'll call her Z) is roommates with a friend of mine. My friend told me about a party that she was going to throw with her whole house and she invited me. I was going to go the party with another one of my friends. I was really excited to see Z because I had been crushing on her really hard for a while (maybe 3 months). The thing is, we never really talked because I was too shy and because I couldn't bring myself to say something to her. \n\nHowever, a couple days before the party I finally had mustered up enough courage to talk to her. I was chatting her up, telling her things like 'How I was excited to see her and how I was looking forward to partying with her' and she told me that she was excited to see me there too. \n\nMy buddy and I went to the party and in the beginning of the night, Z wasn't at the party so I was chilling by myself because my buddy met up with Z's roommate and they hung out, drank and smoked weed with the other people at the party (I didn't drink that night and I don't smoke weed). I was by myself for a couple of hours while everyone partied but I didn't leave because I was still excited to finally meet and hang out with Z for the first time.\n\nA couple hours after we got to the party, Z finally showed up. She apparently went to some show and got drunk there and came home…with another guy. She didn't even acknowledge me as she walked past me. She was all over him and all I could do was watch as he took her into her bedroom. I finally decided to leave when I heard her moaning from outside.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I was a kid there was this Looney Tunes movie I used to rent weekend after weekend for months. My dad would take me to our apartments little rental place and I'd immediately go to the shelf and grab it. No question. All I remember the movie being about was all the Looney Tunes characters eventually ending up and this AMAZING theme park. That was why I loved it so much, all of the rides looked like so much fun. So recently I've been on the hunt for it but can't find it anywhere. I'm dying to watch it again (and desperately hoping that rewatching won't spoil the adventure I found in it as a kid).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ex broke up with me four months ago, I'm struggling really bad to try and move on and I just can't. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety attacks since then, now I can't sleep.\n\nFound out today that she's meeting someone else and it's literally killing me, I don't know what to do.\nI ended up having an argument with her over text today, which I admit I shouldn't really have started anything but I've done it now.\n\nShe wanted us to remain civil but I don't even think j can do that knowing that she's with another man, I'm still madly in love with her but there's nothing I can do.\n\nI want to show her ive changed but she wouldn't give me the time of day to do that, I have to see her once every week because she trains basketball at the same time as me.\n\nI have an appointment to see a therapist at the start of next month but I feel like I'm spiralling down worse and worse and it'll be too late at that point to help me.\n\nIs there some way I can get her to give me a chance? What can I do to stop myself going insane?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The entire group is currently staying at 17M's house for a week long vacation. There are two couples- me and my boyfriend, and the host with his girlfriend. There is one fifth wheel.\n\nLast night at around 1 AM, my boyfriend and I were fooling around in our room. Suddenly the fifth wheel barges in, totally unexpectedly, yelling an inside joke and throwing a condom at us, and running away. We were fully clothed, but PISSED. It was incredibly fucked up and we were both shocked. It was obviously the idea of all three of the remaining group.\n\nMy boyfriend and I confronted them, after we both calmed down. We cant understand how they thought this would be funny, as it is so fucked up on so many different levels. We could have been doing anything from sleeping to being naked. What did they expect to see? Did they expect us to just laugh it off? \n\nWhat bothers me most is that the host doesnt seem to be remorseful at all, even though he clearly agreed to this and suggested the idea. He blamed the fifth wheel for everything and said that he doesnt owe us an apology. This shocks me because its completely out of character for him, hes usually very politically correct and gentlemanly. He was a perfect host up till now and we were incredibly grateful for everything hes done for us during the vacation.\n\nAnyways there are 2 days left in the vacation and I dont know what to do right now. Its the morning after so we need to see them soon. Obviously we need to talk as a group, but I really dont know what to do if the host continues his attitude.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just like it says on the tin. My SO of 2.5 years recently admitted to me that she didn't initially find me attractive, although she claims that changed after she got to know me.\n\nI certainly understand that a person's overall attractiveness is a function of their personality, and one's level of attraction to a person can change over time, I'm very upset that she never felt any physical attraction for me. \n\nIt's great that she's \"attracted\" by my personality and all, but I can't help but feel that this isn't good enough. I thought she was physically attractive right away. I feel pretty terrible about myself that she didn't feel the same way. I don't want to go on in a relationship where I feel that I'm not good enough for her.\n\nI still love her very much, and I know she loves me. I'm pretty crushed at finding this out, and I don't know what to do about it. It seems to me that she was immature to think she could have a satisfying relationship with someone she didn't click with physically. I want her to be happy, so I can't help but wonder if we need to break it off so she can find someone who actually works for her physically.\n\nIs this an overreaction? I think I'm emotionally compromised because I'm so upset about this. So I'm hoping for advice from a few smart people here.\n\nWhat should I do? Is there a way of understanding what she's told me that doesn't make it sound so bad? What am I missing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Update](\n\nI started hanging out with this girl for a while (about 2 months) and I really like her and hope to have a committed relationship with her soon. She seems to like me a lot as well. \n\nThere is a problem. She has received strange texts/calls from a stranger for a while. Those communications are really weird and sometimes scary to her too. She tries to avoid the number but after a while, the stranger changes the number and uses a new one to harass her again. She's really confused and does not know that person. Sometimes, she gives me the phone to answer the call from that stranger but when I do, there is no talk from the other side. \n\nI am a little bit worried for her and afraid that something bad might happen to her. What should I do to get her out of this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I'll keep this short because if I don't it will be a book. I ended a relationship with a girl who I loved very much. I was very confused - didn't know if I really loved her and felt that I would regret not dating around in college. \n\n-------------------------\n\nThe following year was very difficult for me for numerous reasons, but I never got over my ex. I've been dealing with depression - been seeing a therapist and taking antidepressants. So i've been working on myself a lot. \n\n-------\nThis is my last year at Uni and I'm finally starting to make some progress with other women, but every day my heart still aches for my ex. \n\n------\nThe thing is, I'm ususally pretty good at knowing if how I feel is temporary or whatever, I feel like I'm good at gauging the severity of my emotions. I've been working very hard to get over and to stop loving my ex but I have this gut feeling and deep fear that I never will. I'm afraid that I'm going to live my life and regret not trying to get back with her - but I know i'm not ready to try that. \n\n-------\nfinally, I keep expecting to see her around campus. Every girl who even slightly resembles her I see her face and my heart flutters like \"oh shit there she is\". I'm constantly feeling nervous. I also wish for nothing more than for her to contact me. I made a decision that if I'm going to talk to her again it would have to be her that contacts me - I'd just feel too weak and immasculated if I did again.\n\n------\n\nWhat can I do here? I'm just so sad and anxious. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi I am a 16 year old boy and I am from the Netherlands. And I got invited to a party from a good friend of mine. No I diddent puked all over the party or said random drunk stuff (for what I can remeber). But I got my eye fallen on a girl at the party, she was kinde good looking and verry sweet for what I noticed. But later at the party she went aloone outside for some air, so I thougt I'll join her and see if we could talk together. But wen I sat down next to her she went inside for a drink. Me sitting there trying to look for my phone what was in-side. So wen she stood up for a drink I stood up to take my phone from in-saide, after I took it I was hadding back outside to sit with her again. But wen I just turned around I got calld by the guys at the party to join a game.\n\nSo my problem is this: I think I like that girl but we never realy spoken alone, still I think there was a spark from both sides. But I can't realy be sure about this becaus I have some (just some) dark spots in my memorie. Should I tell her I thougt we had some kinde of a spark. or just starting fresh about what she found of the party and suge and take it slowly to the point of getting to know her better.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last weekend, my ex was in town for a party i was at as well. I spent the whole night helping him because he drank too much, and he ended up passing out at my house. \nWe hooked up in the morning, completely sober, and acting like we were dating again. \nWe talked yesterday, but just trivial conversation. I know he's avoiding talking to me because we didn't speak for so long and this is so sudden. I know it brought up old feelings for me, but i'm not sure about him. The way he acted, i figured it was a possibility and that's why he is so awkward.\nHe's a naturally awkward person though, i was thinking, should i wait for exams to be finished and to see him in person to bring it up and see where it goes? There will be a party next month we will both be at.\nor should i just leave it to him to bring up? i know he avoids \"feelings\" discussions, so idk what to do. I really do want to continue things with him, but honestly this is driving me insane.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For some backstory, I lived on campus for uni. My ex ended up moving in next door to me and we quickly became really close. He was on exchange for a year from a university in England, and we hit it off FAST.\n\nBecause of the fact that our units were next to each other, we ended up living together. We cooked together, stayed together every night, studied together etc. But we knew that he would be have to go back to England to complete his Masters. We discussed this early into the relationship, and decided on a mutual breakup for when he leaves. At the time I thought, \"yeah, I can handle this. I have a lot of time to prepare, we'll just enjoy this while it lasts.\"\nI was very wrong. We fell so in love with one another, and he became my best friend. He's been back in England for almost two months now, but we still talk like we are a couple, and we ended up planning a trip together. In about three weeks, I am going to England for two weeks to travel with him (his suggestion, but we had both talked about it before)\n\nI'm not really sure how to approach the time in between, before I go to England. We act like a couple, skyping/messaging (he recently sent me a letter telling me he loved me and a handmade bookmark from a tree in his garden) but we haven't explicitly talked about what this is. \n\nI mean, I don't know if we are casually seeing other people? Just the other night he said he was meeting a female friend to catch up, but he messaged me when he got home and that was almost 5 am his time and kind of left a bad taste in my mouth, because I automatically assumed things, despite how every other day he tells me he misses me and talks about all the things he is planning for when I am there. \n\nDo I wait until I'm there to have that conversation about what this is? I know communication is absolutely key, but I don't want to risk awkwardness/disappointment before going there, and sometimes things are miss-communicated when not talking face to face.\nAdvice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story. Ultimately, my girlfriend who I have been with for about 7 months now, has never liked my roommate and thinks he is the devil, full of darkness. I will grant her this, his drinking habits do bring in some darkness and have caused problems. I see this need for roommate shift, and me wanting to live alone (and eventually with her) as our lifestyle choices no longer matching up. To her, I choose my roommates wellness over hers. I gave a date I felt comfortable with since it is my grad school graduation month, which I decided going in I would want to live alone afterwards, but to her, I am a pussy and surrendered. I see it as me having a heart for a long time friend.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was seeing a girl for around 4 months, and we were essentially FWB. We had a lot of problems, we have very different personalities and we literally broke up and got back together every other week it seemed. Well last time we broke up it was a really bad argument, and she basically laid into me. \n\nEarlier today she sends me a long email message basically saying that although we had our issues we got on okay as friends, which is sort of true. She apologised for having a go at me, but still I'm not sure I've forgiven her. She is now offering the opportunity to just be friends, which is what I had suggested several times before and she shot me down. Now I could essentially get what I always wanted, but I don't want it anymore. I've moved on and I just feel like whatever situation we are in we will just keep arguing.\n\nIs it bad to just kind of reject her offer of friendship? How do I go about doing that without her being angry or being pissed off?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I of just over 7 months broke up last Friday at about 1:30 AM. It's been almost a week and I'm having a terribly hard time accepting and getting over it. She truly was the love of my life and she showed me show much love, kindness, and compassion that I never got out of any of my past relationships. I ended up leaving school for the weekend and going home. Which was good for me. I got away from everything that was bothering me, and I got to spend some time with some old high school friends that I haven't seen in a long time. Later on that night, she texts me. Just \"Hey\", but it kinda confused me. She was the one who called off the relationship. When I asked her why she did, she wasn't sure why she was feeling this way, but she said \"I don't think I want to be in a serious relationship right now\" Anyway, I don't text her back for about three hours because I was busy and didn't want to fall into a the depression I was trying to avoid. I later found out through a mutual friend that she was confused as to why I hadn't texted her back earlier. When I did text her back, we didn't talk about the break up or the relationship, just what I was doing at that time. Over that last few days I've really been struggling trying to keep it all together. All I can think about is getting her back, and I will do anything for that opportunity. I haven't been talking to her, kind of avoiding her, although it's hard at times since we are the same major and live in the same building. I truly love her and like I said, I would do anything to be back together with her. We made each other happy, and I know we can do it again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: I am a paralegal, just moved to a new city/state, and was searching for firm(s) I could work for from home, potentially on a contract basis. An attorney ~2 hours north of here found me and after phone and in-person interviews, I got the job. \n\nHis first e-mail to me mentioned that my work as his contract paralegal would begin on July 5, and that I could expect to work around 25-30 hours a week. Although I was going to be working from home, on the 5th, I again made the 2-hour trip to his office to meet with him for the first time as an employee. For several hours, I navigated their software program, had my firm e-mail address set up, and met with him to review pending cases. He also gave me a significant amount of cases/documents to begin reviewing, as well as a \"To Do\" list. I left around 5:30 and drove home with all this new information. Midday on the 6th, I got a call that he had passed away in the middle of the night. \n\nI don't mean to be callous, but from a professional standpoint, what do I do in this situation? Can I submit a bill for the time I spent traveling and working there? Do I just chalk it up to a bizarre experience and move on? Do I hang tight and see if they'll still have work for me once they get a grasp on things?\n\nHe was the only attorney at the firm, so it's not like I can just be re-assigned. I've been in (brief) contact with the rest of the staff, but they are all devastated and I don't get the sense that anyone knows what the fate of the firm will be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My co-worker62 calls me and my other co-worker (f42) \"Kid\". For example she'll say \"Kids when you get a minute can we get together and go over XYZ\" She does this a few times a month. It's really starting to get on my nerves. My co-worker and I are no where near \"kid\" age. \n\nAlso, co-worker62 has never been married or had children. So it's not like it's some kind of habit from being a mom. She's the program manager and my and co-worker42 are her alternates. I feel it's a way to \"put us in our place\". We work in a professional environment and all have higher education. (actually me and co-worker42 are more educated) \n\nHas anyone else dealt with this behavior from a co-worker?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My grandmother suffered through the depression, and her entire life never borrowing so much as a dime from anyone. She built her life from the bottom up. She eventually became a published author as the housewife of a social security employee in a time when women were not expected to break the post-war stereotypes. Her husband of 50+ years died in 1996. The last few years she suffered crushing illness and was placed in a nursing home by her daughters. Today I found out her wedding ring was stolen off her finger. She is immobile and pitiful. I can't decide whether I am more angry or depressed that someone would stoop so low as to steal the wedding ring off of a defenseless crippled old lady with no possessions of value in her life.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've reached yet another rut in my life. I'm a 20 year old junior in college, and I decided that I wanted to change my major from sociology to something in the natural sciences. I'm taking the classes required for a chem major, and I'm failing general chem II. I've done Kahn, YouTube, and tutors. Nothing has helped. Even if I did earn a chem degree, I have no idea what I would do with it. I can't narrow down anything that I want to do. I get really gung-ho about certain careers, but it only lasts a little while. Like, over the summer I wanted to be a civil affairs officer for the Army. Now I want to be a physician's assistant/radio dj/tattoo artist???? In sum, I've lost my sense of purpose. When someone asks me, \"Well what are your interests?\" I can't answer that. There literally isn't much that I actually enjoy doing. I don't even like most TV shows. I don't have a hobby, except working out occasionally. All of my friends are my boyfriend's friends, and I'm not interested in playing Magic with them for hours on end. I hate sitting still. I'm trying to make my own friends, but self-esteem issues have really been getting in the way. Without a sense of purpose, I don't feel smart anymore. I feel like I have nothing that defines me, and I have nothing to add to any type of relationship. I'm just sort of there, and I'm always afraid of being annoying or a burden. I'm just generally really insecure in relationships of any kind. I've tried the \"my next move\" website, and it really wasn't helpful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi first post here and english is not my native language so don't kill me if I have bad grammar.\n\nShe has been telling me that her ex keeps telling every one to that he regrets cheating on her which he did a lot and to take him back. \nHe does not only do this by talking to her, but also by talking to her family and friends and basically make her look bad for not accepting him back because he is a sweetheart in front of them.\nShe knows better and told me that he has always been manipulative like that. \n\nHe took it so far that he told his mom to arrange a meeting with her (basically them and their moms are going to meet and the moms are going to leave them alone). She already told him that she is seeing me.\n\nHonestly I have mixed feelings about this but I trust her and she told me that she is sick of seeing his face and wants him to stop bothering her. He is probably going to be sweet to her that day.\n\nAs I am far away from her right now, I don't know what to do. I can't be there to accompany her if anything happens and I'm honestly sick of him trying to manipulate people around her to make her forgive him for cheating and take him back. My gf and I agrees that he is a scumbag.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First of all, this is mainly due to us using Facebook messenger, when she's visiting it's normally alright, although we do have bored moments. \n\nAt the start of our relationship, everything was fun, and interesting. I stayed up until late with her, just talking. Recently, I've found it a chore to talk to her, maybe because I feel like I have to, maybe because we don't have anything to say. She's been getting upset over this, and I don't want to lose her, although I get annoyed and stressed. It feels like she talks about nonsensical horseshit, and I have to answer. First of all its rice, then chocolate, then imaginary Internet points on imgur. \n\nI'm not sure if this is the root cause of this, but I've been feeling like this towards other people, definitely with a disinterest in online chats, and I've been snapping at people a lot. My mood swings often, mainly at night, when most of our Facebook conversations happen. During the day I hardly speak to her, and I like it that way.\n\nTo summarise, I'm not sure if it's her, or me, or the constant talking online, as I hardly spoke to people online before we got together. She's madly in love with me, and I'm always annoyed and yelling at her, somehow, she thinks she's doing something wrong, even though I know deep down she isn't. \n\nWe've got a holiday booked in July, and I don't know if it'll last, I know I need to put some work in but I don't know how. I'm an impatient arse of a person.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(Moved from /r/relationships) \n\nMe 31M, her 26F. Backstory: A few years back I had a life altering break-up. Slowly picked myself and got back out there, had some fun with a few women on a strictly casual basis. I've been single (and near celibate) for roughly a year as I've been trying to find someone more girlfriend material than one night stand types, and due to my job I rarely run into anybody looking for more than an easy hook-up. \n\nRecently, I met a girl through work who stopped me dead in my tracks. She's as close to physically perfect as I could think of, with a sweet personality too (if a little spacy).\n\nAfter gauging our interactions I asked for her number which she seemed surprised but happy with. Knowing there would be at least one more work event where we would be together, I hesitated initiating anything as I would hate to make things uncomfortable professionally. \n\nOn our second meeting at work she was showing signs of interest. At a separate event, colleagues in other departments mentioned how she wouldn't stop talking about me. If I left the building she would ask where I was, apparently as if she was worried I'd bailed on her without asking her out. \n\nShe went out of her way to find me as she was leaving, and while she was in my office, I told her I would love to take her out sometime. She smiled, got a little shy again but said to text her and let her know.\n\nFor some reason, I'm not really that bothered. I don't get the buzz from messaging her, and I really can't find the motivation to actually do anything more than the run of the mill first date, despite how attractive I find her. \n\nHow can I pick myself up a bit and try to make a go of this? It seems really strange how little effort I feel like expending and I think I might be missing out of I don't.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi /r/personalfinance. Sorry for the wall of text but I think it is important you know the situation.\n\nMoney Coming In\nOver the summer I will be working as an aerospace engineer intern for an amazing company. I'll be making $18/hr at 40 hrs a week, plus overtime at $27/hr. At the beginning of the summer I will also get a $2,000 moving bonus. \n\nExpenses\nOver the summer the only expenses I will have will be gas, insurance, and money to spend on myself (. My mom happens to live in the town were I will work, so rent and all bills will be free (including groceries). I will probably spend around $35 on gas per week (for 11 weeks) and insurance will be a one time payment of $400. \n\nMy goal is to put money in some account, fund or what ever it will be to use when I graduate in (2017) as a down payment for a new car. \n\nBy my calculations (45 hrs/week + bonus) I'll make around $11,000 this summer. I think I want to put $5K to $7k towards this fund. What's the best way to invest to have the highest return?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been talking to someone for about two months now, maybe less. I'm not the best at dating and what not, such as knowing what happens. Especially online dating. We have met already and have hung out multiple times as well as gone on a date or two. Our hang outs have been dinner, movies, and other random stuff, but we've only really been on one or two dates. The other times were with other people, so it wasn't really one-on-one. I've slept over his place a couple times, but have only had sex once. We used to talk every day, but more recently it has been every other day or every couple days. Which is fine, we have busy lives. He especially has a very busy life. \n\nHowever, I'm not sure how dating really goes. I'm not really sure what he wants, nor am I sure how to bring it up in a conversation. I deactivated my dating profile a few weeks ago because I came back to over 100 messages one day and there was no one I was really into. Also, I was a bit hung up on this guy. I recently just reactivated it, due to boredom and unsure if this guy was into me, and I've noticed he's online almost every night. I'm very much into him, but not sure if he feels the same. I'm not sure when in the \"talking\" stage, I bring this up. It seems like he is into me and I sort of had a conversation with him the other night where he said he wasn't interested in a booty call. \n\nAm I overthinking it or should I just let it happen and see where it takes me? Do you think I should bring it up? Do you think it's too early to think about this stuff? Give me your advice.\n\nI'm terrible at dating.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello,\n\nI'm a 22 M and have been dating my 22 F girlfriend for about 11 months now. What started off smoldering has really faded out the past few months. She was originally going to go to California for Grad School and decided to stay where we live to be with me essentially. I didn't ask her to do this, I advocated for her to leave. Ultimately I supported her decision because that's what you're supposed to do. Fast forward a couple of months later we are living together and everything is great, but we've only been together a few months. Over the course of the past few months I've become increasingly annoyed by her for no apparent reason. She's extremely needy and clingy and wants words of affirmation/kisses/cuddles constantly, but I don't feel the want to kiss her very often. I have begun to see her as more of a great friend whom I love, but I'm not sure if I am in love with her. Are there any tips for becoming less annoyed from anyone in a similar situation? She honestly does nothing wrong and I'm extremely appreciative of everything that she does for me. I'm just not entirely happy. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I took a break from college. Got some work experience, and this year I decided to go back. I have difficulties. I was diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis when I was 17 and got it treated, but it's left me with severe stomach discomforts like IBS. I've found ways to manage my symptoms. Primarily each fresh foods, eat at certain times, and make sure I have a toilet ready at this particular time. If anyone else has dealt with this and can give me some advice on further treating or managing IBS those are definitely welcome.\n\nAnyway, as my title read. I was talking to my advisor in his office today and I told him about my situation and told him that I have extreme difficulties leaving my house to attend 8am classes. He told me that I would have to \"go cry and beg to\" <insert chairman's name>. I feel like he mocked me and after dealing with IBS for 9 years I don't appreciate it. It has actually upset me a bit. I feel like I should man up, confront him about it, and tell him that I don't appreciate what he said. My first day of classes are tomorrow and I have a giant gap I can use to talk to him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One time I called my friend to see if he wanted to grab some lunch and we talked on the phone a bit and he said sure so he told me to meet him at subway, but wait because he was going to take a shower. So I waited and waited and eventually an hour went by and I never heard from my friend. I called my friend numerous times to see if he was out, but he never picked up so I decided to go to subway alone to pick something up. As I get to subway, I walk in and see my group of friends sitting there (Including the one I called) and he just says \"Oh mannnn\" he stands up gives me a hug and says \"Sorry\". I ordered my food and left being that it was really awkward.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my wife dropped that bombshell on me on the weekend. Admittedly I have a bit of an insatiable appetite for sex but we have two toddlers, a house etc to take care of and I have a full time job. So sometimes time/exhaustion/kids/chores etc get in the way of play time.\n\nThat said, when we do have time and energy we both REALLY enjoy our sex life. As such, this came as a bit of a surprise.\n\nAfter talking to her more about it it seems this stems from her feeling inadequate at being able to juggle the house, kids and my sexual appetite all to what she would deem satisfactory levels. (For the record, I help out with the kids and home a good deal. So it's not that I'm running her ragged while sitting on the couch with a beer.) \n\nI tried to reassure her that we're both very busy with our family etc and that we just need to keep helping each other out and make time for each other. That while yes, I would like more sex, we (both) need to have realistic expectations of our time/ability to do so. \n\nI have a lot of conflicting thoughts on the entire subject... I married her, love her dearly and haven't ever considered cheating on her but I do like a LOT of sex and being given permission to get it and sleep with other women is both intriguing but at the same time disappointing/sad to me.\n\nIs there anyone else that's been in a similar situation? Been in an open relationship and can offer advice/information? Help me sort out my conflicting feelings about it?", "role": "user" } ]

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