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"content": "My boyfriend was very shy when we met but slowly has bloomed into someone even more social than me. Watching him find his confidence has been an incredible turn on for me. \n\nLately I've felt like he's wanted to tell me he loves me. He initiates long conversations that end with awkward pauses while he looks into my eyes etc. So far he hasn't really worked up the nerve but he's been saying things like \"I love... about you\". I've been finding opportunities to reciprocate those sentiments by saying things like \"I love when you...\" and such. He made me a playlist where the majority of songs very heavily talk of loving someone.",
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"content": "Last summer I met a girl online who we'll call Jo. Jo had just moved to my city, and we met up and became friends. I introduced her to my friends and she started coming to our group get togethers.\n\nOver the months, I started realizing that Jo was extremely high maintenance and controlling. I felt like every few weeks she would be angry at me about something trivial.\n\nThe final straw was when I offered to introduce her to one of my single guy friends. She asked me to find out if he was interested. Unfortunately he was not, and when I told her this she took it out on me like it was somehow my fault. That was the final straw. I felt like our friendship was toxic and told her that she was too demanding and I couldn't be friends anymore. This was about three weeks ago.\n\nI didn't tell any of my friends in the group (except for one because I sought her advice) because I didn't know what to do. Now I feel like she's doubled how much she's hanging out with my friends and I am going to run into her this weekend.\n\nR/Relationships, please give me a reality check here. Is it completely wrong of me to tell my friends what happened? I feel bad putting them in a position to choose, but on the other hand I have been friends with all of them for years and want their support. I don't really know what to do. I've never been in this situation before.",
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"content": "Me and him started out as friends, then it became a little bit more.\n\nA bit of background information about myself. I do not want to enter into romantic relationships, ever. I want to remain friends with him, and that is my final resolve. However, at my age, of course, I want to have sex.\n\nLast night was the first time we \"slept\" together. No, we did not have sex; we simply slept in the same bed while hugging each other I suppose. Yes, why indeed did I allow this to happen if I want to remain friends with him... Well to be truthful, the whole time, my mind was on sex. I wanted him to touch me. The problem is, I feel like he wants more than a casual \"friends with benefit\" relationship. He was extremely careful not to touch me unless I implied that it was ok. I don't believe I have actual romantic feelings for him because my genitalia seems to be the only thing dictating my actions.\n\nBaseline is, I want to remain friends with my male friend but my hormones are leading him on. I want to have sex, but he thinks otherwise.\n\nWhat the fuck do I do.",
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"content": "My biological father and I have had a lot of issues he and my mother got a divorce when I was ten, it was hard on my family and me. My older brother has had bad experiences with him, and has decided not to talk to him anymore for the most part. My younger brother was about two years old when the divorce happened. My father is a retired marine served a tour during the first gulf war and is manipulative and greedy and he also has PTSD. He helped me a bit when I first started suffering from depression and at the same time he had still been trying to tell me how to live my life he tried to force me to join the airforce and he was just not an entirely good father. At one point he also was upset with me and my mother and decided he wasn't coming to my graduation which caused tension with my mother and I. He eventually came and tried being Mr. Dad all of a sudden he was whoopin and yelling and cheering me on all of a sudden. He ran out on me and my younger brother he ran away to another state to live with his parents and doesn't pay child support and it feels like he is always trying to make me choose between him and my mother and it honestly tears me apart inside.",
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"content": "-Got her number a back at the start of march \n-a few times during the first ten days i asked to see if she wanted to meetup. and she kind of dogged it\n- in the begining i would inititiate most of the texting, now she started initiating more after i backed off because i thought she wasn't interested \n- we have a lot in common and a lot of shared interests and her texts are good paragraphs and she uses emojis and sends multiple text to complete the thought if she has add ons.\n\n- i feel there hasn't really been much flirting, besides when i tried a few times and she didn't really respond/return any of it.\n\n- this might be creepy. i started walking the same way as her after class because i wanted to talk to her. and i live in the complete opposite direction\n\nthis is the first random girl whos number i've gotten.\n\ni think she might just be nice to everyone.\n\nshe's the same age",
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"content": "I've been very good friends with my friend, Chris, for 4 years. We met through my ex and we've always had a completely platonic friendship (I was also good friends with his ex-wife at the time). He's been in a relationship with his current girlfriend (Angela) for about a year and a half. For numerous reasons, I've only met her once about a year ago and she was very sweet and friendly. Since then we haven't seen each other because she travels for work and that's when Chris and I catch up; additionally, she has her own social life and on days when she wants to be alone with her friends, he and I will grab dinner. She never has a problem with that as far as I know.\n\nAnyway, I went out with Chris, Angela, and another couple on Saturday and when we were exchanging hello's she just glared at me. No response. I was shocked, but I thought she was in a bad mood and let it go. Throughout the night, however, she ignored me and didn't even look in my direction once. She was bubbly and friendly to the other couple but excluded me. When I did address her at one point (trying to be civil) she merely glared again and didn't respond. \n\nThe next day, I asked Chris what happened. He acknowledged that even the other couple noticed what was going on and texted him about it at the table. I assumed that he and Angela must have discussed it, but apparently he didn't raise the issue at all. I was shocked and hurt, and he defended his decision not to ask because he has bigger priorities now (they're having problems-- no wonder). This is out of character for him.\n\nI've never done anything to warrant this type of treatment and I'm concerned because we'll be at the same event in a couple of weeks hosted by his brother. I feel like I deserve an explanation, or at the very least, someone should raise the issue with her.\n\nHow do I discuss this again with Chris? :(",
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"content": "I will try to keep it short and simple.. My ex was great and we had a pretty good thing going. We even got a lease renting a wonderful house together(we are halfway through the lease). After too much time together we kinda got pulled apart. She said she did not have feelings for me anymore and so on. It really hurt but I tried online dating to talk to new people for a change. \n\nI happened to find her dating profile on multiple sites(one of which is a sugar daddy site, which is concerning in another way). So she used to be gone for days on end, and I just figured it was completely over. \n\nAnd suddenly, she starts being sweet again and initiating sex with me, cooking me meals, etc. Beyond that, she starts calling me old nicknames, and acting like nothing was wrong or something. I know she is actively on dating sites, so she must be meeting people. \n\nMy issue is should I continue to to play along? Is she thinking of \"dating\" me again up against new guys? Or am I just a backup lay? At this point, I never thought she would never want to be with me again, let alone starting being intimate again. I definitely do not want to get my hopes up. But at the same time I do not want to get played like a fool. I cannot bring up her dating people, as it leads to a lot of fighting. Which tells me she is seeing people. However, lately she has been on her phone less, and spending massive amounts of time with me.",
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"content": "I just got engaged to my awesome boyfriend [24/m] of 2 years. We met in my last semester of college and are so incredibly excited to be taking this step together. My mom is thrilled, his parents are awesome and super supportive, and our friends and family have been nothing but kind.\n\nThen there's my dad. He's always been the type of father who's incredibly loving and supportive as long as I am doing things he approves of or need him in someway (which, growing up, was basically all the time. I was a quiet kid.) He is great with my boyfriend to his face, but when it's just me and him alone he won't call him by his name, asks me why I hang out with him so much, and says that I'm sacrificing my career for my fiancé and that I'm going to just become another baby-making heifer (his words). I've asked him to stop several times. I don't even know where this is coming from - I graduated from college two years ago and will start grad school this fall. \n\nTonight he did something that just tore me apart. My fiancé is foreign (currently back home for the month) and I skyped him and his folks from my parents' house. My parents have never met or spoken to my fiancé's parents. When I told my mom to come say hello, she went to get my father and he just LEFT THE HOUSE. Didn't say a word. It was awkward to cover for him. Then, when he came back, I was talking to a girlfriend on the phone and overheard my mom asking him to apologize. He said she couldn't make him do anything and he LEFT AGAIN. He called my mom an hour ago to say he was staying at his mothers for the night (not unusual, he's her caretaker, but still). \n\nI don't know what to do or say or even what kind of advice I'm expecting. I'm just hurt and angry. I don't know. This really sucks. I'm fed up with his crap.",
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"content": "Together 2 years, no issues with cheating and so forth, and things are all together great. But this has been really bothering me. She has a great body now, and worked hard for it (tons of gym time, lifestyle change to a very healthy diet). Tall, long legs, and a fit body. However, she now likes to dress like her pinterest inspirational pics she insists upon keeping in huge albums. I can understand using them as motivation to lose weight, but it honestly really bothers me to see her in those short shorts, or see through layered whatever. EVERYONE checks her out, and I feel like she's doing it for attention that's not just mine. She has to know everyone looks at her, and I already know she has a great body so its not to impress me. How do I tell her to tone it down? I don't like seeing everyone check her out. She just brushes it off when I ask and says these clothes \"make her feel more confident\". How to I get her to wear outfits that attract less attention? Nothing is like cheap or out and out slutty- it just draws more attention than I'd like.",
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"content": "He doesn't want to ever take his shirt off in public which can be a bit of a problem when I want to do anything related to water. The thing is that he's over 6 feet, 200 pounds of muscle, is in the military, and works out like a body builder. He's really buff and even though he's had to lose weight recently for some cardio training he's had to do for the military he'd still have the most banging body in any room he walks into easily. I hadn't realized how bad his body image problems were until I realized that it wasn't the sea or water he was afraid of but just didn't want to be seen with his shirt off. What can I do to help?",
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"content": "we've been together for 6 months, things have been nice. ups and downs, but it's great. we spend a lot of time together, treat each other right, but i'm new to this and i need some help.\n\nwe broke up for about 8 days, and in that time she gave a guy her phone number over the internet. she swears that they've never met or hungout, but he started calling her and talking to her a lot, and even lied about emergencies to get her to answer his calls. he's been bugging her from what i understand. \n\nfast forward to now when we're back together, 2 nights ago she sent him a very long message telling him to leave her alone and he started trying to talk to her again.\n\nshould i be mad? my instinct is to get his number and call him and settle this. she is upset because she thinks im raging, but she blocked his number today and i want to call and let him know he doesnt need to talk to her anymore, she doesnt want him to.\n\nplease help, i dont want to sabotage this relationship by reacting wrong, what would you guys do? she just blocked his number and said we'll see where it goes from here.",
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"content": "A couple weeks ago my boyfriend and I got into a fight over something small resulting in him apologizing for overreacting, but things havent been the same. He's been constantly apologizing about what happened and making every choice up to me, like what movie to watch, where to go, what to do, ect. I dont know if he's just feeling bad about the fight or if he doesnt have the effort to care about our relationship anymore. Normally we are very open with each other and i could just ask him if anything is wrong between us but i dont want it leading to another fight.",
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"content": "Please read this. It's long. Reddit you are my only hope tonight. Forgive my hasty typing but I have had litter box house trained rabbits and know that setting a good precedent is important from the get-go. I got the ferrets two hours ago from a friend, getting rid of them because her boyfriend hated them. She seemed to have good intentions, however she didn't know shit about ferrets. Just like me. I know unspayed females can go into heat and it can cause a disorder that kills them. I asked if she'd spayed the female due to this and she laughed at me, said no, and told me she'd never heard of such a thing. Am I wrong? I'm flustered.\nHere are the facts: The female is a white black eyed unspayed baby (less than a year old) The male is a \"regular?\" adult one. 2 years old? She said he is unscented. They need baths. They are friendly.\nI want them to have free range of my basement and use a litterbox like my rabbits used to. I want to know how to train them. I like ferrets, I always wanted one, but everyone said \"They stink\" or thought they were creepy. I think they are cool...\nTheir cage was disgusting. I took it apart and put it in my shower and cleaned it. It's drying. The ferrets are running around in my empty guest bedroom. I gave them some toys and a blanket, and put a litterbox in two corners, (at first I put only one box in but found a ferret poo in the opposite corner?) and put out food and water. Please can you tell me what I need to know about getting along with these two critters? They also need baths but I have never bathed anything but a dog. I know I need to take them to a vet but I live in rural Wyoming and that is just not on option until next month. Rural Wyoming knows little to none about ferrets. Thanks for your help ferret lovers of reddit.",
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"content": "So I was hooking up with this girl the other night and in the morning I noticed my corn-hole felt alittle funny, but I didn't think much of it at the time. Later that day I hopped in the shower and, following a pro-tip I learned from Reddit, used my old loofah to scrub out any extra ...residue that might have gotten caught up in my butt fro. At the exact instant the loofah came in contact with my hole, I nearly passed out from the pain. It felt as if someone had sodomized me with an industrial cheese grader. My vision started to blur and I had to brace myself against the side of the shower so I wouldn't fall down. After about 5 minutes of recovering in this position, I finally regained enough courage to examine myself. I positioned a finger to where I thought my butt hole would be and discovered a shockingly large swollen abscess that was painful to touch and very tender.\n\nSo now I'm left wondering, is this a hemorrhoid or some crazy STD? How did I get it in the first place, how do I not get it in the future and how do I make it go away? Is this normal for 23 year old guys? Thanks in advance Reddit.\n\nNote: It's been three days now and my butt hole still hurts. I haven't dared to touch it again, but I don't think the abscess has gotten any smaller. Sitting down is slightly uncomfortable, but not especially painful. \n\nAdditional Note: I was pretty drunk when I hooked up with said girl, but to the best of my knowledge, she didn't touch or interfere with my poop spout.",
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"content": "I've made some significant progress when it comes to social interaction (partially due to this subreddit - thanks!), but I think a lot of my mistakes right now are due to not knowing whether she likes me or not, if so how much she likes me. If she see's me as a friendly stranger, as a casual friend, as a close friend etc.\nThis is also relevant since for the first time I have a number of female friends and don't want to put them off by being clingy.\n\nSo I'm wondering if there are any tips/literature on how to assess this better.\n\n**[",
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"content": "So this happened... around 2 minutes ago. (Oh an actual fuck-up that happened on the day itself? yup.)\n\nI was casually watching my anime. One Piece in this case, having paused it to grab a new bottle of coke(coca cola). As I resume the series I take a few huge sips from the bottle while watching, I hold in my laugh to finish what I have in my mouth and stupid me decides to take another huge sip. My mouth full of coke as I can't retain my laughter, spouting it all over my laptop, out of my nose and mouth. The result: My laptop is sticky as hell as i'm cleaning it as much as possible while typing this from my mobile.",
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"content": "November 20th I order a laptop from Lenovo. ~$1000 laptop. Two days later, it goes on sale for $100 cheaper. I contact Lenovo and to see if I can get the $100 discount on my order since it didn't ship yet. Worst case scenario I though was that I would cancel my original order and re-buy the laptop.\n\nI contact Lenovo, and they say they have no record of my order at all. I can't even cancel my order since it's not even in their system. I'm like \"WTF\". The customer service rep said she would get back to me later that day and she didn't.\n\nI wait 2 days and contact them again. I tell the new customer service rep (his name is Smee in this story) my scenario and show him my confirmation email. He doesn't have any record of my order and says he will get back to me later in the day to give me an update. He says he can't find anything relating to my order so he tells me I should order it again.\n\nI order it again...\n\nNext day I receive an email from him \"Hello Mr.teleporterdown, sorry for the inconvenience but we found your original order. I will cancel your order now.\"\n\nApparantly there was some \"error\" or something. I asked what it was but he never told me.\n\n2 days later my order status still says \"ready for shipping\". I contact the customer service rep and ask him if he canceled it (and what was the status of my original order since I received no contact from Lenovo after I talked to Smee. He told me that he put in the request to cancel the order and my package will be sent out sometime that week.\n\nI wait a day, and contact Lenovo again.... \n\nTo make a long story short: They never canceled my order and I'm getting charged for 2 laptops. They tell me it's simple to return items, but just from what I've been through with them, I don't know how long until I get my $1000 back.\n\n...Not to mention I never got the $100 discount.",
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"content": "Approximately 2 months ago I was accused of cheating on my girlfriend by an individual who I was on friendly terms with who had expressed interest in dating me several years ago. I made it very clear at that time that there would not be a relationship. The accuser actually showed up at my girlfriends house drunk and dragged her to my home and proceeded to scream and assault me.\n\nSince this initial accusation I've been trying to work actively to reaffirm my commitment to my girlfriend and regain her trust, but we've settled into a 2 steps forward 2 steps back routine which culminated over the past weekend in her returning all of my belongings and cleaning her things out of my home.\n\nI've gone out of my way to give her everything she's asked for and several things she hasn't (fb password, email password, access to mobile records - we're on the same plan). I've even committed to seeing a therapist for my supposed fidelity/honesty issues and have asked her to come with me.\n\nNothing seems to be working and she's pretty much checked out. I know this seems like a no brainer, but I love her. I'd built her a home in my life that I intended to be a long term thing and I'm terrified by the prospect of losing her.\n\nCan anyone offer advice on regaining trust and basically rebuilding a very important personal relationship from ashes?",
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"content": "Like many incoming 18 year olds, I just entered college, while also leaving my girlfriend, a senior in high school, behind. Since we didn't want to lose a relationship that's almost 2 years old, we decided that we still wanted to try to stay together, and try to see each other often (1 hr. long drive)\n\nAfter being here two weeks, one of my new friends, who happened to be a girl, got dumped and wanted to talk to someone. Being me, I offered, and we went back to her dorm to talk. After a few hours of comforting, she started getting touchy, and unfortunately, so did I. We ended up doing everything but intercourse.\n\nImmediately after, and even now, a few days later, I feel absolutely terrible and wracked with guilt, as I still love my girlfriend with all of my being. I know I made a terrible, terrible mistake, one that neither of us will ever forget. No amount of excuses explains my behavior, and I deserve anything she'll potentially tell me.\n\nWhat I'm here for, is for advice on how to salvage the relationship, if that's even possible. She's coming up to visit me this weekend, and I would rather not do it via text, as I feel that doesn't exactly convey emotion well. I plan on telling her as soon as she's up here, as I feel waiting is going to make it worse.\n\nIf you have any advice at all, please share it with me. I don't want to lose her.",
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"content": "I got into a long-distance relationship about six months ago, right before my girlfriend made a temporary move. We were just getting to know each other at first, but things kept snowballing as we got to know each other and we got more emotionally involved. She has been back once since then and things kept building to the point that we were talking about life plans when she returned.\n\nThe problem is that she's now not going to return for several years.\n\nThe plan was that she would be back here for graduate school, but it turns out that she got an offer she can't turn down somewhere else. It's going to be a multi-year commitment of lots of work, and there's no guarantee she will ever be back here, even though it's currently part of her long-term plan.\n\nSo the options now are to give up or go with her. Neither really feels like the right choice. I encouraged her to go to the school because the offer was too good to pass up, and I'm not about to ask her to take out substantially larger amounts of debt so we can be together. But with her going to school, she will be locked in for several years and maybe longer once she starts her career. I can travel to see her more often than we have so far, but ultimately, I would have to move at some point. \n\nAs for me, I'm further in my career, and it's unfortunately not one where good opportunities come up very often. I also have friends, connections and a current job where I am and wouldn't have chosen the city she's moving to for myself if I were to move. I worry that if I go, she will be all I have in this new place.\n\nWe both want to be with each other and have said that we thought this could be a lifelong relationship. We are both heartbroken at the thought of giving up, but staying together doesn't seem to be an option either.\n\nAny words of wisdom from someone who has made long-distance work? Or from someone who has moved solely for another person? I'm heartbroken and distraught all at the same time.",
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"content": "My wife and I have about $2,700 in medical bills (after insurance) for having a baby. \n\nI recently applied for a new credit card that has a 15-month zero interest period specifically to handle these expenses, so if need be I can pay this and pay down the debt prior to the 15 months expiring.\n\nHere are the other facts to my situation:\n\n1. Only I work, and I make $80k annually.\n2. We have 3 children total.\n3. Other significant debt is my wife's van that we owe about $11k on and student loans of about $26k.\n4. We live in the state of Maryland.\n5. We have about $2,500 in liquid cash.\n6. We have about $2,500 in current credit card debt (not accruing interest as it is on another 0% credit card good for another 4 months).\n\nI already called the hospital asking for a discount if I paid the balance in full but they said they don't do that. They offered their own 12-month repayment plan.",
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"content": "My BF [28M] And I [27F] have been dating a little over a year and he is very emotionally detached and very unaffectionate. I always feel like he's not really into me and his actions totally show it but then when I confront him about it we just fight and he says he wants to stay with me and just isn't an affectionate person? \n\nI really like him because we do have fun together when we do hang out but I feel like lonely and unloved majority of the time and it's shitty! And he can go days without talking to me or seeing me. Wouldn't you want to spend time with your gf!? I ask him that too and his response is he doesn't miss anyone it's not just me but in the beginning he used to tell me he missed me...\n\nShould I just end things or are there ways to maybe fix it? I mean he says he doesn't want to break up but like it's unfair to me how unavailable he always is! \n\nAnd it's not like he's doing something important he just would rather be with his friends over me. Idk maybe it's me! Maybe I'm super lame or something! I can't say he's keeping me around just to get laid bc we don't alway have sex when we do hang out? \n\nI guess he lost affection towards me bc I can be a little paranoid and I accuse him of cheating on me when he is away but only because he's unaffectionate so when you think someone's not into you your brain will take you places!",
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"content": "Hello, quick background my ex and I were together for 2 years and then I went to college. We made the long distance work, but it took its toll and by the end the year we were struggling to cope with not having the freedom to see each other. I broke up with him, hoping that doing so I was salvaging any possible friendship/relationship that might be in the future. But If i'm being completely honest I was young and scared that when he too went to college he would cheat on me or meet someone else. Its been a year or so, and I've got on with my life but I still think about him constantly, just wondering if on a day to day he's okay.\n\nWe still chat but very rarely, which I think has been good for us to get some space. Since we broke up he's become more involved in drugs and slept around. But I don't blame him for it we're not together. But all my friends thinks he has hit rock bottom since we broke up, and the majority try laughing with me about how I dodged a bullet.\n\nI don't know what to do, I still love him. I can see what he's become and he's not the same man but I can't change how I feel. The way I see it telling him how I feel is a lose-lose, he still loves me but we're different people now and it won't work or he doesn't feel the same and I'm heartbroken all over again.",
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"content": "I'm sorry if this in the wrong sub. My boyfriend and I are in a dead bedroom. We used to have great sex like six times a week. It was passionate, hot and heavy. It was wonderful and amazing. I don't think I've ever \"made love\" until I was with him. We have a great relationship. He is so caring and sweet. He always wants to cuddle, cooks for me, surprises me with gifts, and just other nice things. When I'm with him I feel like the only person in the world to him (lame I know). \n \nSex now has been dwindling. And now it's four times a month, or three times a month. This month it has only been once and the month is almost over. I feel bad for counting but I this is something that I have been deprived of for almost a year. We have talked about it a few times on why his sex drive is down. He now has a stressful job with is very understaffed. I understand that but he masturbates so much. Now, I know it is much easier just to have wank than to have sex. I'm guilty of it, you the reader probably is to. I've tried many things to try and initiate sex, sexy outfits, new sexy underwear, some role play. I'm tired of masturbating and I'm now so irritable. Lots of little things just set me off and I know I need some sexual relief. \n \nNow I've come to the point where his touch no longer excites me. I actually don't want him to touch me. He usually grabs me. He'll grab my ass, my tits, and my whole body in a sensual way but it always goes nowhere. Now I don't want him to touch me. I don't like when he does, I almost always pull away. \n \nMy question is how do we get back to normal? Is this normal that I don't want him to touch me? Is the only solution to break up? I don't want to break up, we just signed a lease together. Everything is so great, he's so much more than my lover, he's my best friend.",
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"content": "Hi Reddit! I am using a throw away because my SO is a redditor. \n\nSo, I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for 3 months. We are both very busy and career-driven people, but we eat dinner together every night and spend every night together. (We have not slept separately in over 2 months). He makes me insanely happy; he is my best friend in a lot of ways, and I already cannot imagine my life without him. \n\nFor the last couple of weeks I have wanted to tell my SO that I love him, but I am afraid for several reasons. \n1) It may be \"too soon.\"\n2) I feel vulnerable. \n3) I actually haven't told someone I love them since my last LTR (which was two years ago). \n4) I have never said it first, and part of me thinks that it might be because I was brought up to believe that men should say it first. \n\nAlso, in his last relationship, he told his gf that he loved her, and she decided shortly thereafter that she did not want to be with him anymore because she did not feel the same way. I think he's hesitant to have the same thing happen with me. \n\nNow, I really feel that he loves me too. The way he looks at me, how thoughtful he is, the little things he does for me, all leads me to believe that he loves me too. I've met all of his significant family members, I've met all of his friends, we dressed up in a couples costume for Halloween, etc. But on some level I do not really know because he has not said it. \n\nI guess I just want to know if it's strange that I am so scared, and if you all felt that it was too soon to tell him how I feel. How do you feel about women saying it first?",
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"content": "First off, this guy is my best friend. I love him, but we've always fought. Sometimes as little as once in a few months, sometimes as often as four or five times in a week. Regardless, fights have been a regular thing. They usually revolve around disparity in social needs (I want more time together; he wants more time alone) and exes (that one has been solved for the most part). \n\nLately, our fights have been full of blame/accusations, grudges, and personal attacks. It's resulted in us living separately after two years of living together and him cutting off lines of communication. \n\nBut even though we've got all this bitterness, I can't seem to end things. Everytime I think of ending this relationship, I think of the way he kisses me, the pet names, etc. and then I wimp out. I've lived in this state for four years, and I've been with him for three of them. I associate the whole metropolitan city with him. \n\nI keep thinking things will get better. And they do, for awhile. They're great. But, in between, I have to withstand the fights full of verbal abuse, accusations, blame. It gets really hurtful and really personal. \n\nPeople who have been in this type of relationship and also were very attached to that partner, how did you end up leaving? What helped you do it? How did you cope?",
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"content": "My aunt recently passed away from cancer and was an amazing mother. She (and my uncle) sacrificed everything for her three boys. My mother and her were always close and I view her as a second mom and consider my cousins brothers.\n\nAbout a week before she passed she told her youngest two boy (the oldest lives out of state working on his fellowship) something that she has kept from them their whole lives. When she was a young teenager she got pregnant and gave up her child (my grandmother was a single mom raising 6 kids in a small trailer) in hopes of it having a better life.\n\nIn retrospect it explains a lot about my aunt... She made the boys promise not to search for their sibling and I would never pressure my cousin to go against her last request but one of them told that he was completely fine if I wanted to.\nI'm torn and I really wouldn't know where to start (I know the yr of birth, hospital and her maiden name) and I would never reach out to the person if I found them (I would leave that up to my family) but it would be amazing to see a picture of them on social media and see a little piece of my aunt.",
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"content": "I'm not looking for some get-ripped-quick scheme. I genuinely want to lose weight through hard work and dicipline, I just don't know what I'm doing. I'm tired of being the lazy asshole I have been for all twenty years I've been alive. So I was hoping reddit could help turn me from a lazy asshole I to just an asshole. \n\nHere is a little bit of information about me to hopefully help out. I will be twenty year old as of October 1st, I am 6' tall and about 230 pound of silly putty and hair. But don't get me wrong, I don't look like a walking beanbag chair. I have a bit of fat that need to be cut and I don't think a butcher can help. Overall I resemble a young John Goodman (so I've been told). I've downloaded an app to help keep track of the calories I eat (it has helped me lose about 12 pounds so far) and I work 60+ hours a week which requires me to be constantly moving and lifting heavy objects. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is do any I you know any beginner work out routines or tips I could attempt to lose weight? Even any mind games I could use on myself to help me avoid bad food and such.",
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"content": "so I play a lot of sports mostly ultimate frisbee, and i recently injured my hip, more specifically, my hip flexor. apparently, this is a common injury for ultimate players, so my coach told me to take some ibuprofen, then stretch it out by using a hard ball of some kind and to put it on the floor. then i would have to put my body weight onto it right where my hip flexor was, then roll it out, however he didn't tell me how ridiculous i would look, so when i actually did it, it looked like i was humping/grinding the ground.\n\ntoday i decided to roll it out; i grabbed a baseball, went upstairs to the guest room, put some headphones in and started doing my thing. since i was getting a bit bored, i started browsing 9gag in attempts to find something entertaining (i know.. i know.. i should have gone on reddit instead). everything was cool until i was loading a gif of a girl doing something stupid, then i feel a kick to my side. I look up and to my horror, it's my dad and he literally has the weirdest look on his face. he doesn't say a word to me, and just leaves the room.",
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"content": "23 year old male here. I don't know what else to say about this other than I hate the personalities of the 21 to 28 year old female population. A majority of them are completely superficial and have no drive beyond being the pretty girl or the object of physical desire. Having a conversation with them is like pulling teeth and hardly consists of any real or meaningful topics. Drinking, social media, and 'pretty' things. Basically the only three things that matter to women in this age bracket.\n\nI know I know... This is not true for everyone/fuck stereotyping/everyone is an individual bullshit. But seriously, take a look at your Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter account. You'll find a majority of this to be true. And of course you'll find the great ones who are just awesome people, but I feel like they are rare and very much exceptions to the rule. \n\nI compare them to the women I work with, who are around 30+ years of age, and the personal experiences I have had with them. A higher percentage of these women are incredibly funny with a deeper sense of humor, enjoy a broad range of topics in conversation, and treat people with much more respect. \n\nI guess the",
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"content": "Ok so to better explain, I have this friend that is somewhat of a bestie to me, she has been really affectionate to me and only me in our group of friends. \n\nIn the past couple of weeks she and her bf have been having a lot of fights that were really intense for what she told me (and for how obvious her sadness was) to the point of breaking up for a couple of days. I didn't want to butt in (I've known her for a couple months now) so I just told her to think wisely, and she decided to give him one last chance, and I understood since they've been together for 3 years.\n\nNowadays we've been chatting and getting really close to each other day by day in and out of college and I legit don't know what to do or not to do now. I've been trying to not develop serious feelings towards her and I also noticed she is trying to do the same. I don't know her bf personally so no friend backstabbing there.\n\nI just don't want to ruin our friendship since I've done that with most of the few girl-friends I've know in my life. She has told me that I'm attractive but don't want me to find a gf since she wouldn't be able to be as loving to me as now, that tipped me off. Also she has had a lot of boyfriends (and 1 girlfriend) and I'm still sitting at 0 so I haven't got the slightest clue of what I'm to do.\n\nJust please, don't let me fuck this up with her, I really like her, she is smart, funny, an awesome person overall. I just don't want history to repeat itself.",
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"content": "Never thought I'd be posting something like this but I'm at my wits end. \n\nHave been seeing the woman of my dreams for about 5 months now. Just flew 15 hours to meet her parents in another country and we had the best time ever. Our holidays were nice nice and everything was great.\n\nYesterday morning, my GF woke up crying to me, telling me she is crazy. And that I was going to kill her. I thought she had cheated on me or something horrible but it wasn't as bad as I had imagined. But still a shocker of what she admitted to me. \n\nShe REACTIVATED my Facebook account. That means she had the password resent to my email address then logged into my Facebook after the new pswd was generated. So she could read my messages and whatnot. When she told me, I just stared at her and then kind of laughed it off, just because I didn't want to have a bad day before I had to go back to work the following. \n\nI was pissed inside. I knew she was insecure a bit but didn't think she'd do something like this. Just to clarify, I haven't given her any reasons to go snooping. I don't go out much. When I do it's once in a blue moon. I always answer my phone. I always text within a reasonable amount of time, and don't have randoms contacting me or anything sketchy to give her reason to be looking into me. \n\nI want to stick up for myself but don't want to ruin things by flying off the handle. In her defense she \"has to know everything and wants to know everything about me\".....which is fine, but I feel she is ruining something amazing between us. \n\nI don't want to distance us from each other but I feel betrayed and all that crap. I offered for us to see a counselor just to talk through things, but tha's pretty serious. But I am serious about her. \n\nWhat are your thoughts? I do love this woman and she loves me too, but I'm sad about this crap. Glad she admitted this to me prior to me finding out.",
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"content": "Hi Reddit. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and it has been great. Except for one thing.\n\nDOTA. He plays it at least 2 hours a day, and on the weekends, all day if he can. If you know that game you know it takes at least an hour on average per game and is one that you can't really pause. Sometimes it is fine that he plays, I don't mind sitting on my phone, browsing Reddit. However, lately it seems like it has interfered in our relationship as well as his studies. He is doing his PH.D. in Physics. He is obviously very swamped with schoolwork that he seems to put on the back burner for this game. The other day, on a Saturday, I was over and he was playing a game. I thought it would just be one but instead he proceeded to play for three hours as I just sat there. What can I do? I have tried talking to him... Even saying this game is making me rethink our relationship! He says he understands, but isn't proving it through his actions!\n\nReddit, what should I do? I really care about this guy and besides this gaming habit, our relationship is great!",
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"content": "Okay, so my boyfriend of 1.5 years (31, American) and I (24, female, Canadian) moved apart a week ago. I am starting grad school in Canada and he has a new job in the States. We agreed to try a 'long distance open relationship' as breaking up would be just too hard and neither of us wants to make the other feel trapped indefinitely. However, we are already really missing each other.\n\nWhile spending time at my mum's place before moving for school, I went out with friends and surprisingly met a man (33, English) who's attractive, intelligent, and very personable. My boyfriend claimed to be fine with this, so I decided to meet the English guy for drinks. \n\nWe had a good time and everything felt really natural. We openly discussed relationships and I talked quite a lot about my boyfriend. At first I was unsure what I wanted but as the night progressed I thought more and more that I would be comfortable having a fling with this guy.\n\nHe was a real gentleman to the point where he insisted on paying for everything, held doors open, showed me his place, drove me home, and didn't even try to kiss me. I'm unaccustomed to guys who don't make a move, and I'm not sure whether he's just not interested in casual sex, or is trying to be sensitive to the fact that I'm clearly hung-up on my boyfriend. \n\nDo you guys have insight into his motivations?",
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"content": "okay so yesterday I was at a local baseball game and I was sitting with a friend of mine. Since no one was sitting on the bench next to me, I put my purse and water bottle next to me. About 2 innings in, a woman comes up to me and asks me to move my stuff. \nMe, being a kind person and assuming that she was going to use that seat for sitting, I put my bag and water bottle on my lap. \nThen the woman PUTS HER OWN PURSE on the bench where my stuff used to be and sits down next to it (mind there is plenty of space further down the bench). \nI'm socially anxious so I was not about to confront the whale but she can enjoy my overly obnoxious gum chewing and foot tapping for the next 7 innings!",
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"content": "Previous post [here](\n. I forgot my password for the original account, so I hope this is ok. \n\nI ended up emailing her on the Sunday afternoon, after I had messaged him a couple times. Turns out he didn't see my messages because he was talking to me on a separate phone, and didn't have it with him when she was over. \n\n She responded to me, absolutely devastated, asking for more information, which I provided. Then she said she hates that I told her before the wedding, because either her wedding day is ruined while they try to work it out, or she has to cancel and then everyone will know. She wishes I had either waited or not told her. This was exactly my concern with telling her when I did and I feel awful. \n\nMaybe she will eventually appreciate it, but I'm no longer convinced I did the correct thing. Maybe it was morally right, but it doesn't seem to have benefited anyone in the situation. And selfishly, it means that I probably won't ever understand for myself why this all happened, and what was real and what was a lie, especially if the wedding still happens. I know her feelings are really the important ones here, but I'm struggling as well. I sent him one more text asking him to give me some answers, with the note that if she asked him to stop corresponding with me to just ignore my text. I haven't heard anything back yet and I'm doubting I ever will. \n\nI guess I'm looking for any advice on how I can move forward from this, because I don't know how. This is the first time I've ever been in any kind of relationship/FwB situation outside of my previous 7 year relationship, and I'm struggling to understand how someone could do this.",
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"content": "I've been in love with photography since I was 12, went to school for it, and was a professional for a number of years before I decided to quit to better my quality of life (stopped taking photos for myself + only took photos for money = was miserable). I've been working as a creative director, specializing in video, for a corporation the past 8 months. \n\nOur company invites several hundred employees from across the country to our corporate headquarters for a yearly meeting and holiday party, at which time every employee get's a new bio photo. There's also a massive amount of photos taken at the party, and they usually hire a photographer for this. \n\nI had heard that a photographer hadn't been hired yet and asked my boss if the higher ups were expecting me to do the photos. I also mentioned that I really did not want to be responsible for this. \n\nToday I received an email chain where my boss basically suggested that I take the photos and that I could enjoy the party AND take hundreds of portraits and event photos. I was instantly furious and had to leave for an hour. \n\nI know my boss isn't aware of the amount of work something like this involves and probably thought it would just be easier to use me instead of hiring a photographer. Normally I'm a very balanced and understanding person, but anything involving a misunderstanding of photography sends me into a blind rage and all I can do is leave and cool down for a while.",
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"content": "I've been a real pill this semester, cause my stress levels have been through the roof with schoolwork. My boyfriend has been nothing but amazing: giving me time to study when I need it, helping me figure something out when I'm in tears, and just being super supportive. He recently went to PAX East and got a book signed for me (I didn't ask him to and didn't know he was doing this) because I was really sad that I couldn't go. I really want to do something nice for him, but I'm having a hard time thinking of ideas...my head is too full of school things ;-;\n\nAbout him: physics phd student, loves biking and running, (and forces himself to swim), enjoys reading (favorite book is The Name of the Wind), watching neflix, and casual gamer.\n\nI don't have a whole heck of a lot of money, since I'm in school full time, but I do work too, so I can spend a bit on this. Maybe like ~$100? Spring break is in a week, and we live about an hour north of Boston!\n\nGive me your fun ideas!!",
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"content": "Today I realize something, I am ignored almost all the time, specially by women. It is not something new, I knew that, you talk to someone, and you never get an answer, or she only answer with monosyllable until you stop by boring. But as I told you, this is not the one thing I discover today. \n\nI guess than from their perspective is something like that: He only wants to fuck me, I am not interested in him, I have better candidates (I am not perfect as most of us, in my case I am not ugly but I need to lose 12kg) and I don't need a new friend so better to ignore him.\n\nAs I really hate being ignored, without realizing, I completely stop to talk to girls, and in the last 5 month I almost hadn't talked to anyone.\n\nAnd this happen, a girl surprisingly makes up her mind to talk to me without any apparent reason, except that automatically I have assumed (as they assume men wanna fuck to every women they talk) that she is going to ask me something. Unconsciously I began to answer using only monosyllables and after 3 minutes she was asking something to me.\n\nI reject it, she was a little surprised I didn't accepted and after she insisted one more time I have answered that she wasn't interested really in how I am, or what I am doing right now, that she hasn't talked to me in months and that I have better things to do that spend my time helping someone that has ignored me all the time.\n\nShe didn't know how to answer and I left so,",
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"content": "We have been talking for about 2 years, mainly through texting, and I felt like I knew her pretty well. This had been almost exclusively a friends relationship until last Sunday, when we went on our first date. It went well, and we ended up making out towards the end of it in my car. This was actually the first time I had made out with anyone, so it was pretty special. On Monday, we talked about it and she told me she had never been with someone who was so passionate and caring, which was great. We even made plans for this coming Sunday to see a movie together. \n\nThen, yesterday, she asked me a lot of questions, starting with stuff like \"What type of women are you in to?\" and \"What turns you on\", then it started changing into \"What do you want to do when you graduate\" and \"How many children do you want?\" I answered all her questions and we talked for a long time about each of them, and I even asked her them back. I didn't really think much of it until she asked me to go to San Francisco with her instead of seeing a movie nearby. This is the moment I realized that maybe she thought we were farther along into a relationship than I did. To be honest, she's a great person, and I know she only wants a person who cares about her (she comes from a pretty broken family), but I don't know if I am ready. This all is going so quickly! \n\nReddit, please help me decide what to do in this situation. I don't want to hurt or offend her, but I'm not sure if I am ready for this level of commitment, if that's what she is suggesting.",
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"content": "Hi reddit,\nobviously a throwaway, I don't want to have this linked to my normal account.\n\nI know this girl, she lives rather far away and will be coming to visit me in about a month. I would consider her as a fuckbuddy, since that's what we'll be doing.\n\nI'm socially retarded and this is actually the first time I will be having sex for 2 years. She on the other hand is a really beautiful girl and could have a different guy every day (she doesn't). So, of course she also has other guys flirting with her etc. So, yesterday she told me that she's planning a threesome with two other guys. I then told her quite clearly that I don't exactly want these infos, since I still have to wait 4 weeks. Just to clarify, I can't imagine a relationship with her, of course I like her, but she isn't the person for anything serious (neither am I). But isn't it normal that I don't really wanna know who she's fucking?",
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"content": "A month ago I was in a happy relationship up until my SO moved for Uni, I was scared that she would forget about me or find someone new and I had told her this. I was upset and jealous that her life was moving on while mine's stuck. I wanted her to need me but she didn't. I have been miserable but I had been doing it to myself. For some bizarre unknown reason, I thought that making her feel bad would make things better and I kept pushing her away. I didn't realise I was doing this until the night before last when I texted her saying \"Promise me you're not going anywhere?\" and she couldn't. I instantly realised what I had been doing and regret every part of it. She's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I've never met anyone like her. We talked a little yesterday and I told how I felt and that I regret what I've done and don't want to lose her. She told me that the way I had been acting was bothering her but she hasn't really been trying either, I told her she wouldn't have not wanted to if I wasn't pushing her away and doing what I was. She stayed over and left an hour ago.\n\nI think I pushed her too far and she doesn't see me the way she used to. I really don't want this to end, she's perfect for me in every way and I want to make her happy again. I think we need to talk more but I'm scared I'll find out she doesn't want things to go back to how they were or that she already felt that way.\n\nI need advice, I don't know what to do. I feel horrible, I've been such an idiot. Feel free to ask any questions, I'm new to this.",
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"content": "A bit about me: I'm a college student and am taking a couple of summer classes at a nearby college. I'm a very easy-going guy, but I also have severe anxiety. Hence, I'm extremely nervous about everything, including this situation and don't quite know how to approach it. If I knew how to (and that's why I'm asking for help), I would feel a lot better about it. \n \nA bit about her: She attends a college very close to mine (as in a 5 minute drive). I have liked her from a distance for a while. How do I know her? Well, she is a good friend of a female friend of mine (we all attended the same high school and are now in college). However, we've never really talked, but as stated in the title, we now have a class together over the summer. In fact, she is my lab partner in the lab I'm taking. To me, it's a golden opportunity to get to know and possibly try to start a relationship with someone I've been crushing on for years. She's very sweet and fairly quiet. \n \nAlso, a dilemma I'm facing: She is a member of a very Christian community, and many members of said community don't really date. For this reason, I would like to take things very slowly in order to avoid an early rejection (especially considering we're lab partners), I'd like to take this slowly. I am Christian as well, but not as conservatively as she is. The lab only lasts for a month, though, so I don't have a lot of time to work with before school begins again. How would I approach this?",
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"content": "Here's some background:\n\nI've been told multiple times that I'm unsupportive, I don't care, and that I don't put in any effort into the relationship. Mind you, I've given my SO permission to use my car to drive to X, Y, and Z places without much complaint, picked him up from work, brought him home, and always gave him money regardless of the financial situation I was in due to the burdening costs of commuting to school every day. During the semester I did not work because of my schedule, and the money I had to spend on supplies (Visual Arts major), food and gas was fairly limited. Therefore, I've always squeezed pennies and sacrificed many things that I needed to foot the bill for my partner. \n\nIn addition to the stress of not having money to spend in general, my partner would put pressure on me to get to certain places on time and rarely took my schedule into consideration before berating me for being late. I often found myself becoming very tense and uneasy when we made plans because I felt like I was walking on eggshells if I didn't arrive on time, or if I had to cancel at last minute. If plans were cancelled, all hell broke loose. I was constantly told that I was wasting his time and that I messed up and everything was my fault, even if it was out of my control. Keep in mind that the average time it takes to travel from my house to his was about 45 minutes without traffic. This meant I had to get up extremely early and commute at odd hours of the night as he was dropped off and went to bed as soon as he got home.\n\nI've addressed the topic of inconsideration several times, but of course, I am wrong and I'm selfish for only thinking about myself.\n\nIn addition, I've put up with my partner intentionally ignoring me for long periods of time as he was engrossed in his phone and seemed to be bothered if I made any attempt to engage in conversation. Of course, I was generally upset by his behavior and have put up with this longer than the duration of his past relationships.",
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"content": "I married my ex-wife because I knocked her up and yeah, that was two stupid moves. We got divorced maybe a year and a half later. The divorce was really stupid, and she was really bitter at first, but 10 years later we have a pretty good co-parent relationship. She's been married 8 years, has two kids with her current husband. I've been married 4 years, and have no kids with my wife.\n\nMy ex-wife calls me crying last week because she thinks she's getting a divorce. Friday she tells me she was served with divorce papers. I tell her about my wife going insane and getting locked up in the mental hospital, and that we're probably getting divorced too.\n\nShe jokingly said that we should rent a house and be roommates. A few hours after getting off the phone with her, I was like, that doesn't sound like a bad idea. I talked to my ex-wife some more and I told her that it sounds like a good idea, but it's really something I need to think on. I don't want to be setting ourselves up for failure.\n\nIt sounds like a good idea to me. Split bills 50/50. No romantic interest between the two of us. Get to see my son daily.\n\nMy mother brought up that this wasn't a good idea because we have bad history together and would fight. But my ex and I have agreed that we would not be romantically involved if we moved in together.\n\nAlso, a friend said this could be bad for my son if he thinks his parents are getting back together. We divorced when he was 1, so he has never known us together.",
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"content": "When I was 18 there was a group of guy friends I hung out with a lot, mostly for video games.\n\nIn this group were 4 guys who were childhood friends, one of whom I was really physically attracted to. I never had a chance cause I wasn't his type. One of the other 4 seemed to really like me over the years. Initially I didn't want to date him since I had a thing for his friend and that seemed weird. When I was 18 I finally tried to give him a chance and found I really liked him.\nWe hung out alone a few times and there was one moment I remember feeling really connected to this guy, but we didn't really formally date. I found out later I was the only one who didn't seem to think we were officially 'dating'.\nI knew I wasn't in a position where I wanted a serious relationship, I was young and had things I wanted to try before settling down and he meant something to me in the settling down way so I dated someone else.\n\nThis really hurt him and he told me not to speak to him again after that.\n\nFast forwarding to 2016, I accepted a marriage proposal from a guy who is basically perfect. Handsome, great job and future, makes me laugh and smile and I know I will have a very happy future with him.\n\nThe guy from when I was 18 hasn't spoken to me since, and vice versa, though he has for whatever reason been on my mind since. I wouldn't say I love him, I don't think I could logically speaking, but there is some feeling that I need to do something about before I can feel I can get married.\n\nHe is in a relationship as far as I know, though I don't know how serious it is.\n\nMy question for guys is how weird would it be for me to try and really contact him again?\nThis seems to be really bothering me and regardless of what I have done the feeling won't shake. I would feel uncomfortable getting married to my fiancee without having this resolved in some way.",
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"content": "I've been with my bf for 4 years now, living together for 2. He is my first serious relationship, and I though he was the one, but as I get closer to my Best friend, I realise that I'm not inlove with my boyfriend anymore, and want to test the waters with my friend.\n\nMy friend has already expressed interest in being with me, and honestly he is my form of a perfect man. The only things stopping him from pursuing me any further is my bf and that he lives 8hrs away, in Canada. I've already confided in Him that I have planned on moving close to his Providence once my visa is confirmed.\n\n I'm really confused because I have such strong feelings\nFor him, but I also love my boyfriend and his family. \n\nShould I test the waters with my friend, or stay here I'm at?",
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"content": "So I feel obligated to put some context to this. I suffered chronic homesickness as a teenager. It meant I wouldn't stay at folks houses, I wouldn't visit friends at college and a whole host of other things. It took me a long time to get over it and every now and then I still have the odd lapse.\n\nThis means I developed a reputation as being a no-show. It was only recently I tried to explain it to some of my friends but I still have the reputation as not being reliable to show up. \n\nWith that said. I legitimately can't make my friends bachelor party. I work in sports and so weekends are my Monday-Friday. That weekend is a big derby, and I also have commitments to a column I write that needs me to watch games on the Saturday/Sunday. \n\nSo I need to tell him I can't do it and I'm trying to do it in a way that doesn't make it look like I'm just bailing out of not wanting to go. Truth is I'd actually love to go and every time I try to put the words together they sound cliche. I think in the bigger picture I'm also wrestling with some conflicted feelings. We've known each other 20 years. He hasn't always been present and there's months gone by where I don't hear from him or I reach out and he's busy. Some of those months I really needed him but I feel like that could be me just reaching for an excuse to justify a decision I know will upset him.",
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"content": "Hey there everyone, thanks for reading and any advice you can give here, I'll try and make it brief. At this point, I'll mention we are long distance, and that we've spent an exceptional amount of time together this summer as we're both off college for now. We both spend time with our friends, but lately she's been spending less and less with me, and more with her friends. When I asked her about it, she said that it was draining for her to be around someone for too long, and that she needed some time to breathe.\n\nI'm not so much worried about that, I'm fine with giving her more breathing room, but I guess I'm just concerned that this is going to become a repeat thing, and was wondering if anyone could chime in and give me some advice.",
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"content": "I love my boyfriend and we have an amazing relationship. We have been dating for 7 years. I met him when I was 16, and have never really dated or been with anyone else besides him.\n\nHe is a wonderful person and also my best friend. The sex is great and I feel like a crazy person for wanting to explore and open our relationship up to other people. I have felt this way for a while, but always struggled with it and swallowed those feelings- I have been told by many people that polyamory always fails and destroys relationships.\n\nRecently I found out that some coworkers and friends are in \"closeted\" polyamorous relationships. They seem wildly happy and when they told me I was surprised at how jealous I felt.\n\nI would also like to explore because right now I feel like my sexuality is toying with me. I feel attracted to some women but I have never acted on those feelings.\n\nLastly, I am very anxious and feel guilty about how my boyfriend will take all of this. I feel like I should have realized this about myself sooner, and that telling him will really shock and upset him. He moved away from all of his family to come out here and be with me, and I really care about him and want this relationship to work. \n\nAm I being selfish for wanting to bring this up with him? It seems unfair to come at him with this after 7 years of being in a happy monogamous relationship with him. There is also a good chance that communicating this want to him could end our relationship.",
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"content": "Long story short, I've known my 'gf' for 5 months and we've never had the talk about exclusivity, but we're only seeing eachother. \n\nI study a lot, go to the gym a lot, I'm athletic and I have set career and academic goals that I'm sweating my balls off to make sure I achieve. Meanwhile, my gf goes to the gym maybe once a month (more like a social thing with her bestie than workout) and doesn't put much work into her career and future (my gpa is 3.6, hers is 2.4). She'll be starting university within an year and while she got through community college without studying much at all, she'll struggle a lot in university.\n\nWe both had rough pasts, but it seems like I've bounced back better than her. She has made a lot of progress in getting her shit together but I want to motivate her to achieve even more.",
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"content": "We've known each other for maybe a month and a half, have been dating for about a month and just became official a few days ago. Even though she's only been my girlfriend for a few days, it may as well have been for a few weeks (both too shy to make it official). She often sleeps over at my place, we've had sex, and we spend a ton of time together. Things are going very well.\n\nMy parents know about her and are 100% accepting of my sexual orientation and I'm sure they'll love her. They've been very good to other girls that I've introduced them to as well. They ask a lot of questions but I don't think they'll be too intimidating. However, her parents are *not* accepting at all and I'm afraid that that will make her hesitant to meet mine.\n\nI really want to introduce her, but I'm afraid that that's moving too fast/she'll be freaked out.",
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"content": "(Throw away because she's a redditor and a power user, might not work but oh well. Also it's kinda long)\n\nMe and her met on an online dating site and talked for a week and finally decided to go out and have dinner at this pretty nice/new italian restaurant downtown. Had a great time and was the best time I ever had in over 4 years (crippling depression and what not.) In short, me and her we're the exact same in every way in terms of interests. It's weird as if life finally gave me a break and said \"Hey I'm sorry about that, here's an amazing, loving girl with your brain, sorry about the past!\"\n\nWe did so much together in these (almost) 4 months and fell madly in love with each other. It was like some sloppily written cliche riddled romance movie. We never argued or had problems it seemed. This is where I'm lost and that rant before this is why I'm disbelief on why this is even happening. \n\nAnyway, previous to this morning we talked and saw each other all the time constantly since the first date. Sent her a text when I woke up, 4 hours go by and I text her again. This time shortly after all she said in a long message that \"I need time to think\" and that she doesn't \"know anymore and need's time\". She's never talked like this and it's so random. Normally that's an obvious red flag but it's just so strange and sudden after what was perfect. It make's no sense. Have I been punk'd? I don't understand where this is coming from. She never did anything or said anything wrong and neither did I (I think?).",
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"content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, well recently she vanished, her grandfather literally kidnapped her. He went to her house and grabbed her and all of her siblings. a month and some weeks have passed and now she is back with her parents riding home from houston. I am in SA TX. she will be here in 3 hours or so. She is saying that she wants to go back and live with her grandfather who I know and her mother and her father all know is abusive and controlling. How can I convince her that the man she has been living with for the past month or so is lying to her face? She seemed off when I talked to her on the phone a while ago. She hasn't told her parents she plans on running away so he can come pick her up and she can live with him. Just in case you guys are wondering I am 17, and she is 16. \n\n(",
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"content": "So I met my friend just last year during summer school. It was a blast and I had no feelings whatsoever while some of our friends thought he did for me. I denied it profusely, even though none of us had a clue.\n\nThen summer school was over and absence made my heart grow fonder. We hung out a few times over the course of months, but I was usually busy with school work. The thing is, after each time we hung out, the crush feeling was replaced with what I can describe as relief mix with happiness.\n\nAlso throughout the months, I tried get rid of the crush feeling, as I know it would only complicate things further far more than I want. But for some reason, the feeling stuck along with thinking I could just tell him everything, all my thoughts and feelings. I just didn't know how to execute this.\n\nIn February, I overheard (because I earvesdropped like the little bitch I am) that he has a girlfriend. Now, I don't hate this girl in the slightest. I knew her before I knew of his existence and she has done nothing wrong to me. She's really nice actually. But holy shit, my heart was crushed and I felt like crying at that moment. Again, I tried to let go of the crush feeling since it's really useless. And again, it stayed.\n\nNow, it's been about 2 months since I talked to him. I do see him because we both have summer school for different reasons and we haven't even muttered a word, let alone a hello. Yet, I really do miss him and I would gladly be just his friend. I would rather have him as a friend than nothing at all. Although, I do have his number, but I can't bring myself to text him. I think I bother him even though he said before I would never bother him.\n\nShould I close the door or try to be friends?",
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"content": "My friend seems to need a lot of sleep. For one thing, though, he stays up quite late playing games with his friends. But then, he often doesn't get up until ~3pm. That's around 12 hours of sleep! Is that normal at all for a 20-year-old?\n\nFor weeks I've been calling him in the morning to wake him up, as a backup to his alarm. The problem is, he doesn't wake up when I call. He speaks to me (albeit groggily, but still), but then *goes back to sleep*. He says he'll text me to prove he's awake, but he never ever does. I always text him first and I've suggested he go to the doctor about it, but the office has weird hours and you can only call on certain days? He's often not up in time for that.\n\nAdditionally, he has been applying for summer jobs but doesn't give himself much of a window because of his extensive sleeping. \n\nPart of me feels I should just give up calling, because he might need to just want to change badly enough. The other part feels like I can't give up on him. I don't want to let him down. However, I am tired of feeling like a human alarm clock.\n\nMaybe this isn't the right sub for this, but under this whole sleeping issue, we are very very good friends. I don't want to become so frustrated that this ruins our relationship. I want to help him, but I just do not know how. (Saying \"stop being friends, he's not doing *you* any favors\" isn't exactly an option.)",
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"content": "BF and I have been dating for a few months. at first we hung out all the time and had sex every day, sometimes twice a day.\nFor the past two months we've been hanging Out less and less. Probably 1-2x a week max now. Usually if we hang out a second time it's with other people so we don't have sex, meaning that we've been having sex literally once a week.\n\nI can't really handle it. I need it 3-4 days a week ideally. I've told him before that he can hit me up for sex whenever but he has never done that. We also used to have sexy convos by text all the time but now we basically never do. I finally told him some time back that I want to start doing that again and he agreed but we haven't. A few times I've tried to start something naughty over text and he didn't really go for it.\n\nI think the big problem is just not hanging out enough, but I don't think he wants a relationship where we're seeing each other every other day.",
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"content": "My girlfriend and I are both 22 and have been together 4 years. We go to different colleges and it has taken its toll on our relationship. We're in the process of applying to medical school and the idea that we might be very far apart come summer 2014 is scary. There is still love in our relationship and we deeply enjoy each other's company, but the sexual aspect/physical attraction is much weaker than in the past. The lack of sexual attraction (for me) is due to significant weight gain on her part. Long story short: We were both VERY fit. She gained weight (from birth control and less exercise) and I have stayed relatively fit. Despite gently discussing the lack of attraction, she has kept the weight. At this point, the relationship feels very much like a friendship with mostly unsatisfying sexual encounters (for ~3 years). We care for each other, but the passion seems absent and we are worried about the future.\n \n*Enter attractive friend*. Since the sexual aspect has been poor for awhile, I have become increasingly drawn to other women. I have never and will never cheat, but the physical attraction to my friend has become much greater than with my girlfriend. I can resist her (she is also attracted to me), but I just feel physically unsatisfied. \n\nI feel like a douchebag for being interested in another girl, but I have also been clear with my friend that I will never cheat. That is understood and she has not tried to make any further moves on me. We are considering \"taking a break\" for a month to see how unbearable it would be to be apart. I feel confused about my attraction to my friend and lack thereof (but love) for partner.\n\n**Another detail:** I basically had a girlfriend for 3 years, was single for two months, and went into this relationship (again, 4 years).",
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"content": "I have been with my partner for just under 3 years now and we have spent almost that entire time living together. We both suffer from generalized anxiety disorder but can generally find a common ground, however there have been many, many times were my partner becomes outright caustic if she's feeling bad about /whatever/.\n\nHard day at work? I cop abuse. Something doesn't go the way she wants? I cop abuse. She feels bad about herself? I cop abuse. I do something differently from exactly how she wants it? I cop abuse.\n\nWhile I say abuse I don't mean she's physically harming me, but she'll specifically go out of her way to make me feel like whatever I do is wrong, or that I personally am responsible for her bad mood which /severely/ affects my mental health. I've brought this up with her countless times and told her that she needs to work with me, rather than grind against me, but her go-to coping mechanism for anything she finds extraneous is to take it out on me.\n\nWe both acquired our anxiety disorders' from our dysfunctional parents' and while I can recognise when she's using their example to cope, she seems wholly incapable of recognizing how her mood affects how she acts to the extent that no matter what the circumstances are, I will always be the \"enemy\".\n\nMy parents dysfunction severely impacted my ability to willingly harm anyone so I am a bit of a push over in the sense that when someone is hurting me I don't hurt them back...but surely there is a way to reach my partner besides outright slapping some sense into her. I love my partner despite all the harm she's caused me and truly believe that there is a resolution to this besides saying \"kthxbai\".",
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"content": "I've taught for two years (in two different schools) as an English teacher. Both times I've had to leave because of budget cuts, but left with excellent recommendations. This last summer I foolishly only applied to private schools for a change, and now it's October and I'm essentially unemployed.\n\nI have a few part time jobs that help pay the bills, but I want a big boy job. I've never job hunted aside from teaching jobs, and I have no idea if my degree will help me get a job anywhere else. I would be eternally grateful for suggestions of what kind of positions I could look into or where to find them.",
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"content": "So I just met this girl about two months ago and everything has been going great. We see eachother everyday, common interests everywhere, amazing sex, etc. Problem is that in about a week, my work is sending me to Japan for 5 months. I really like this girl, but its obviously unfair for me to expect a long distance relationship this early in the game. We've both said that we aren't going to be looking for anyone else while I'm gone, but that we can't really apply any labels once I leave.\n\nThat being said, my work is not only paying for all of my airfare, but they are also giving me a pretty hefty bonus for going there (about $20,000 plus incidentals and living expenses). She has toyed with the idea of getting a ticket and coming to visit me, but I know the cost is a big concern (its about $1200-1400 from where we live).\n\nWould it be weird for me to offer to go in on it with her or pay for half or something? I feel like I'd really like her to come and I know she does too, but I don't want her to feel like I'm pushing too hard this early.",
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"content": "I (19/m) was asked out by my current SO (18/f) a little over a month ago and we have been together ever since. I hadn't thought of her as anything other than a friend but she was super cool so I agreed and we hit it off. I was on the fence about how I felt still but we got along so well that I was sure I liked her as more than a friend. We had sex about two weeks into the relationship which we neither of us really expected to happen but we just seemed to click. After a 2 week bedroom haitus because of going home for winter break, we got back together and did our thing. I had high hopes for the encounter since we had talked over the phone about it and were anticipating being together again but afterwards I realized I hadn't been very much into it. Then she came over this past weekend and I had literally no desire to do anything sexual with her. Granted, I was sick so I had an excuse. I was and am fine getting her off, I like to make her happy, but I think that I might not be sexually attracted to her. I'd never thought that this could be an issue in a relationship so I'm not sure what to do. I like her in virtually every other way possible...just not as much sexually. I'm not sure how to approach this since I enjoy all of the other aspects of our relationship. Being friends actually sounds nice now, but...I'm worried she'll just become depressed about it and not be able to handle just being friends. Also, we're in the exact same classes in college, so that doesn't allow for much wiggle room. Also, I just came to this conclusion today, so I'm still hoping that I'm wrong and that I'll become attracted to her again (I was for a few weeks there), any chance of that? Maybe?",
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"content": "Hello there people,\nToday a friend asked me if I got time to hang out with him. I said 'No I don't want to today' as a joke but I followed it up with 'Wait please, I'll take a shower quick' so I thought he sees that I was just joking. When I was done and ready, 1 hour later, he said that he doesn't want. So, I asked another friend but he was busy. My other friends are studying/learning for their last big tests.\n\nNow the thing is, I can remember when 2-3 years ago people here in my town liked me and would always talk or say 'Hello' to me on the streets. I got along very with other people here but mostly I just kept my best friends close to me although I don't hang out with them every day or many days a week, just sometimes right now.\n\nI was able to talk to girls without any problems or I could just laugh together with other guys in my age. In the last few years I just backed off completely. I gained weight. I was weighing 117kg last year in march. That was the point when I told myself that I have to change something. I'm weighing 96kg right now and I'm about to get my prefered weight but I just don't know how to get back to where I was when it comes to having more friends.\n\nI feel alone sometimes.",
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"content": "Before the end of school year me and my english teacher made a deal, that she will give me higher mark, if I write 3 short essays. I wrote her an e-mail that i'm working and it may take a while. Well I log in my e-mail and see this: It is really sad that you have tricked me. She sent this 2 weeks ago. I had written the essays, but due to the laziness did not send, because they needed some corrections. Now I feel like a complete ass and don't know what to do. Don't be stupid - do your fucking job.",
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"content": "I'm not gonna say I have a problem with conflict, but I'm hesitant to bring these issues up with her due to the small nature and just.. Personally being uncomfortable. What would be a nice way to talk about a compromise so she doesn't feel attacked? I have to live with this person for four months. \n\nShe stays out late and comes home early, waking me up with shuffling around and slamming doors . \n\nEvery morning I don't have space to do my personal routine. Brush teeth, shower, put in contacts, etc.. Because she pulls out this massive makeup kit that basically takes up the entire counter. Or takes 30+ minute showers that leave me with less than 20 minutes to shower and get to class. My class is at 8 and I already get up at 7 to get ready, I don't exactly want to get up at Six just because she wants a relaxing shower. \n\nI'm a small person with a disorder where I'm always cold and this isn't helped with her continuously turning the ac to below 50. My room was at 51 when I left this morning. That's ridiculous, right?\n\nFirst of all, am I being ridiculous? Are these issues too small to bring up and I should just suck it up and buy blankets and get up at 6am?",
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"content": "Hi guys, ive been lurking here for a while but i didnt really think id need any relationship advice because i considered myself strong enough to handle these problems. It seems im wrong about that.\n\nBackground: I met my ex (well call her Jocelyn) when we were both in grade 9. We fell for eachother very quickly and were inseperable throughout highschool up until our last year when she told me had feelings for someone else and we ended it.\n\nWe reconciled in the middle of first year university and were together for about 3 more years until she finally broke up with me again, stating that she just couldnt see herself marrying me (which was what we both discussed would happen eventually). I took this very hard and ended up isolating myself from friends and family and fell into a small \"hole\" as i like to call it. A lot of drinking and marijuana was involved, which only made my situation worse.\n\nI started to gain back my confidence about 5 months after the break up when she contacted me again and asked to speak about our situation. Being the spineless person i am i agreed, and we only got together twice before she said it was a mistake and we should remain friends.\n\nI was fine with this (although quite annoyed) and we continued to speak regularly, which i admit was a horrible idea. She told me about 3 weeks ago that shes seeing someone and we shouldnt speak anymore, ive agreed with this as it would be innapropriate to continue speaking. However, ive found myself in that \"hole\" once again. \n\nI continually think about her during every aspect of my day, even though i know the pain ive been through when ive been with her. I know i shouldnt and cant rely on someone else to give me happiness, but im not sure really what to do at this point. \n\nSo after my huge ramblings (i havent really talked to anyone about all this recently), does anyone have advice on how i can get her out of my head? Its gotten to the point of obsession and it needs to stop for my own mental well being.",
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"content": "So I'm not really at the point in my life where I need to be worrying about this, but it's something that I've been thinking about as I browse the different threads on /r/loseit. \n\nWhat is the best way to instill a healthy food relationship in your children? What are things that did or didn't work for you growing up? What are things you're doing with your own children?\n\nI suppose one reason I'm asking is because this was never a huge deal in my house. My parents were both overweight, and while I feel like I was taught to cook and eat well nutritionally, it was the extra calories from snacking and desserts that were a problem in my house growing up. I played sports in high school, so even though I was heavy, I wasn't terribly unhealthy. My parents encouraged my sister and I to exercise, but never modeled it themselves. When I got to college and quit playing sports, I put on a lot of weight that I didn't start losing until 6 or 7 years later.\n\nAnyway, sometimes I wonder if my parents *had* said something to me when I started gaining so much weight if it would have made a difference. I love that my parents were always more concerned that my sister and I were happy than that we were skinny. But my sister started having health problems related to her weight, and so I think maybe addressing the issue of weight before it got so bad would have been beneficial.",
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"content": "Okay Reddit, I'm trying to switch to a local credit union from the Devil (AKA Bank of America ) and in the online application process it told me I would be unable to open a checking account with them due to a recent history of insufficient funds. I've had my BofA account since July 2011 and have only had one occasion where I was declined, this was September 30th of this year. I also applied and was denied a Target credit card earlier last month. My main question to you guys is this: How long do things like this stay on my history and can affect me? Specifically the insufficient debit fund one.",
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"content": "Ok so this was actually my mom that f'd up. Some preface: I am on the swim team, and I wear a speedo (don't like jammers). If you are a person that has hit puberty and you wear a swimsuit like that, you need to make sure there isn't any, you know, visible. We were at dinner today, and we got talking about razors because my younger brother is starting to grow enough facial hair to need to shave. I have a super cheap electric razor that is pretty rough, and so I have to be really careful so as to not get any razerburn on my face, and super uber careful so as to not get any in \"other places\", for which I mainly use the flip out trimmer on the back of it because it doesn't need to be perfect, just good enough. Well, my mom was saying that since I had such a cheap razor, and there was a costco coupon for a nicer one, I could get a nicer one along with my brother. I was pretty happy about this, because it would be nicer to not feel like I am scratching my face when I shave, and that it would be nice for other places too because, as a swimmer, I need to keep things under control. As I said this, her eyes grew wide and she metaphorically sh!t her pants. I was confused, and then she uttered \"I.. uh.. used that razor\". I was startled, and asked why and where. She said she used it to shave her face on occasion (because women get some fuzz too, just much more slowly) and that it was because I left it out on the counter and it was the first one she saw. I laughed pretty hard, and she was not that enthused. After making it clear that she should use my dad's razor, she promised she would never use it again.",
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"content": "We've been dating for 2.5 years and are getting pretty serious, but I believe that this thing happened in the beginning (four months in) of our relationship, and it just keeps bothering me. Basically my boyfriend told me he was going to be somewhere else, and I think he lied and went to go see this girl he used to have a lot of feelings for who just broke it off with her now ex. I asked him one night after we both drank a lot if he went to go see her and he said no. I'm pretty sure he lied about it, and I've been going back and forth for months about whether or not to ask him while we're both sober. I just can't get over the fact that he wasn't really committed at the beginning of our relationship, and if he really did lie, then this adds to the list of lies he's told me when Ive always been honest with him. \nI want to ask him because I'll finally be at peace with what really happened.\nI don't want to ask him because it is in the past, and I already brought it up once.",
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"content": "Last night my ex (who of which broke up with me a year ago and in somewhat neutral terms) has been texting me quite a bit more since my current relationship began. My ex invited me to a party but I declined. She then mentioned how she missed being able to call me at 5am to talk about any problems and such. Most of this she texted to me at 5am. \n\nI don't really know what to say to my ex. She mentioned that she doesn't want to intrude, and I understand that. But I don't think it's necessary to cut ALL contact from her, it would hurt her if I refused to speak with her at all. \n\nI showed my girlfriend the text messages she sent. I was not going to hide this, she has every right to know. My GF was really hurt and pissed off at her, explaining how disrespectful it is because my ex was being very personal to me especially that she messaged me so late. \n\nSo now I'm in the kitchen alone 4 hours after I showed her the messages. I asked my GF if she was feeling better, she isn't. I'm giving her a little space at the moment while she sleeps so hopefully it helps. She's being very distant both physically and emotionally. It's hurting me too. Advice?",
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"content": "So basically I left for school 3 weeks ago and school is 8 hours away from home (she's still a senior in high school). Her and I are extremely close which is the reason we are still together. We figured we would break up if it ever got unbearable but it's been fine so far. Anyway apparently she's late on her period. Neither of us want to jump to conclusions but if she is pregnant I have no idea what to do since I am not there with her. Her parents would kill her if she told them and so we are trying our best to hide it from them. But we still have no idea what we would do. So basically we were wondering what our options are and how I can comfort her from down here.",
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"content": "ok. We have been together 5 years, me and his both 24. I am his first serious relationship and only sexual partner\n\nQuick and simple: I have never made a big deal out of sex, and, in general, would not mind an open relationship. However, my SO would never ever allow me to be with another man, so because of that, in this case, I don't feel comfortable being in an open realtionship with him. Because he knows my views on sex (that I don't care all that much about monogomy) he considers this to be me playing tit for tat with him, and considers it unreasonable. He is young and has only been with me, I understand him wanting to explore sexually. But again, I would not feel comfortable in a one sided open relationship. He said its not about me, this is something he wants, why am I making it about myself, tit for tat, etc. \n\nSimilar example: he got upset when I mentioned i wanted to go to a bar some years ago and said he's not comfortable with it. I respected that. About a year later, he asked to go to a strip club with his friends. Here's the thing, do I care about a boyfriend I am with going to a strip club? In general, No. I get that it's all fun. But again, I would expect that same freedom to be granted to me. Because he would not even allow me to go to a bar even though I don't drink and would just go with friends to hang out, yeah, I told him no don't go, I don't feel comfortable. Again, another fight about how I'm fucking him around playing games with him. I'm really not trying to, it's just with this particular situation I would have felt entirely disrespected. He said it's my fault for feeling disrespected.",
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"content": "Hey Reddit, would really appreciate some advice on my situation.\n \nThe facts: \n-I (M21) have known a girl (20) for just over a year and liked her the whole time.\n\n-She was in a relationship from when I met her until just recently.\n\n-We have started talking more this semester (we attend the same college and are in the same major) and she has been pretty flirty as far as I can tell.\n\n-She would casually mention she was single, that her roommate was never there and she was lonely and I should hang out with her.\n\n-Eventually worked up the courage to ask her out (I'm very shy) and we went on a lunch date over the weekend.\n\n-We talked after, and she mentioned that she had only been single a week (I thought she had been for about a month), which raised some red flags (I was the rebound guy in my only other significant relationship).\n\n-Then told her how I felt and that I didn't want to be her rebound guy, and asked how she felt etc.\n\n-She replied that she wanted to be single after being in LTRs several times and that she wanted to be just friends. Also said she wanted \"just fun\". I'm not sure what that means.\n\nSo, Reddit, what should my mindset be and what should I expect going into the next few weeks? On one hand, this girl and I have a somewhat ridiculous amount of things in common and I think we could be great together, but on the other hand I don't want to be a rebound guy for her or be led around until she finds someone else as has happened to me in the past.\n\nAny advice would be great!",
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"content": "I am in love with her.\n\nShe is emotionally abusive to me. Whenever we have arguments she uses past arguments as weapons against me, saying stuff like I remember that time when you did this or that and you're mean.\n\nShe uses the past, despite us having resolved those issues again, against me as if they were never resolved. \n\nAlso she never lets me have a chance at discussion; whenever she expresses her dislike of something its more of a rant than a discussion. She goes on and on about how she thinks I did something was mean, then as Im about to reply she goes \"...and then also ____\" and its just a rant and I can't even reply. She makes me feel like a horrible person.\n\nThe problem is the thought of her with another guy and sleeping with him for some reason hurts me incredibly. She's incredibly beautiful so that doesn't help either. How do i overcome this?",
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"content": "My girlfriend of three years recently left me, it wasn't exactly mutual but there aren't any hard feelings either. I spent about a week horribly depressed and miserable. Now (two weeks later) I feel a lot better, but I feel bad about feeling better. I'm not sure if the only reason I feel better is because I'm on antidepressants for unrelated issues. I feel like I'm over-ish my breakup, I'm not longer super depressed about it all the time at any rate, but I feel like it's been too short of a time for that to be true.\n\nNow the problem: I want to ask a girl out, but I don't want her to just be a rebound date. We've been acquaintances for a long time, although we've never hung out that much except at the parties of a mutual friend, but we get along really well and have a lot in common. My question is how do I know if I'm ready for a relationship and not just rebounding or whatever from the one I just got out of? What if I'm just kidding myself about not being upset about my breakup?",
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"content": "So today my girlfriend of 8 months and I had a talk about something minor, but our conversation kept getting deeper. As we dove deeper into how we truly felt about things, she ended up admitting that she doesn't like that I dont get mad at her. Let me explain:\n\nI do not get mad, ever. I've never yelled at her. I don't know why, and nothing she does really annoys me. I just cannot get mad at her. I prefer to talk about any relationship issues in a civil and calm manor with her. \n\nShe said that she doesn't like feeling like she is the only one who gets mad about things, and she wants us both to be equally mad. But I cannot get mad! She even suggested an exercise, where she wanted me to find something she did that annoyed me and yell and curse at her to convey my anger. I couldn't even think of anything that she did to annoy me, let alone yell and curse at her. So, r/relationships, please help me. This literally goes against everything I thought I knew about women (seriously, I thought they wanted a guy who doesnt get mad ever). Help!",
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"content": "So, long story short. We met through mutual friends who are non-juggalos and we hit it off. She is actually very intelligent, is drop dead gorgeous, and just finished school to be a CNA. I'm conflicted because she is covered with stupid juggalo, dead lotus, and Kotton Mouth King tattoos, has her ears stretched and a ton of piercings. Not a lot but enough to make me hesitant, says whoop whoop a lot, and is coming off a pill addiction, doesn't want to cover or remove her jewelry to get a job either. She is trying to better herself as a person but still wants to stick to the family. Do you think it's possible to be a juggalette and not trash or if it's possible to unbrainwash her? lol",
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"content": "A couple weeks ago, I finally mustered up the courage to talk to a girl in one of my classes and we basically immediately hit it off. We were so alike that it was too good to be true. We haven't stopped talking / texting and usually after class I walk her back to her dorm. Last Thursday I spent like 7 hours in her dorm just talking with her and going on Tumblr and stuff and that was that. Yesterday, I invited her to hang out with my friends and we went ice skating and the whole shabam. She knows I like her because I guess I'm very obvious with my feelings?? (◕‿◕✿) She told me she had fun even though it was kind of stressful (she's very timid and shy and my friends are very loud/outspoken). She's very comfortable around me so I was just talking to her the entire time. There are approximately three weeks of school left and she goes back home after finals week (she's not from here). And there is a small chance I'll be able to see her during the summer. Question is, should I ask her what she thinks we are, or should I just continue talking to her as friends throughout the summer and ask when school resumes? Thanks for any help.",
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"content": "original: \n\nAfter battling something (I don't know if it's depression or not)for the past 10+ years, I've finally decided to cave and see a therapist. My mental health is very obviously getting worse and it's getting harder and harder to fool myself. Going bald and being lonely is a large part of it but I can't continue like this. With my mental health deteriorating, it has started to affect me physically. I have small injuries that are not healing, I have chronic pain, and I'm sure a lot of it is mental\n\nI was always under the impression that finding a nice job would help at least a little bit. Well I went from being unemployed at 26 to making $80k now at 29 and things are worse than ever. I feel like finding a girlfriend and getting regular intimacy will help me a lot but who knows, it's impossible to find someone at my current state.\n\nSo my question is, how do I go about finding someone? Therapy is seen as faux pas in my culture so I have to do this on the downlow (especially since I've fooled everyone into thinking I'm this confident guy who has his shit together)\n\nSorry if this is all over the place",
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"content": "Hey guys, first time posting here so lmk if I'm doing anything wrong! I'm 23 years old and I just graduated from my bachelor's program, so I'm back at home for the year. I'm applying to dental schools in the states (but Canadian) for next September, so I'll be living at home for the next 16 months and I don't know if I can do this anymore. I've been back for 3 months and I already feel so suffocated and I'm being treated like a child. My dad is very controlling and doesn't want me to stay out of the house past 10pm (yes, I'm 23). He always wants me home on time and we have already gotten into many fights about this because he is very firm with it. I have a boyfriend and I have a life, and last night we got into a huge fight and he told me to either be home at 10pm latest every night or pack my bags and move out. I wish I could just find a job with my degree and have a salary and be independent, but that's not the case. I'm going to need him to co-sign dental loans next year and I'm scared if I move out he won't want to take me back in and help with the loans. Also, I'm currently studying for the DAT, so I don't work that many hours a week.. so I'm very low on money and I couldn't even afford rent. Should I look into a line of credit and maybe do that for the next 16 months? Or should I just suck it up and live at home because I need those dental loans and don't want to get on his bad side. I'm not sure if there are any other options to be financially independent... Please help!",
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"content": "Hello,\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I'm 22[F], I have been with my bf (23) for 4 years. We lived together for 3. He lives in the UK, we've been apart for 6 months now, and it made me realise how unhappy I was in that relationship. I'm coming back to the UK in 6 months. I loved him, he is a very sweet guy, but he's got aspergers syndrom and depression, and I just don't think I can handle this anymore. It seems like a shitty reason to break up with someone, but I just want to be happy, and I don't think I can be with him. Now, I was thinking I could wait until I come back to tell him face to face, but he's started looking at flats for us to live together when I come back, and I don't know if I want to do this to him, letting him believe that it will continue as it was before I left... He's started an accountancy course that should end in August, he's dropped out of Uni twice due to his mental problems, he's doing fine in this course and I'm scared telling him I want to move on might make him drop out of this too. Also his parents have some of my stuff that I left in the UK, and I can't just tell them \"so I broke up with your son, but if you could hold onto my crap for another 6 months it'd be great !\" ... \nAlso we have a joint bank account I can't close while I'm away.\nAdvice needed. Please ! =(",
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"content": "We're both 20, I'm a female, he's a male, we've been dating for a little over a year.\n\nMy boyfriend was talking with a couple guys about what he was going to do for his buddy's birthday. The guys asked if he was going to wingman his buddy, and my boyfriend said \"No, he has a girlfriend!\" and then he smiled and said, \"Well, we'll wingman him anyway!\"\n\nI asked him what he meant by that later, and if he just flirts with girls when I'm not around, and he said that it was just guy talk and that his buddy doesn't love his girlfriend like he loves me. I know that my boyfriend rarely even talks to other girls and I trust him, but that comment rubbed me the wrong way... Should I be worried?",
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"content": "Me and my ex have been broken up now for about 3.5 years. About 3 months ago she re-established contact and things were going great, but she started getting mad at me when I couldn't talk because I was at work or busy with other things, so I cut contact again.\n\nIn the last week she has left her fiance, and texts or calls me regularly; at present I am just ignoring them. But now she left me a message saying she is planning a trip to come visit me. We live across the country from each other.\n\nI know I still love her, and that I probably always will, but I just don't know what to do in this situation. I would love to see her, but I think that whatever happens it will end up hurting one or both of us. I can not see a future where we can be together, no matter how much I want that.\n\nDo I re-establish contact to tell her don't come? What if she still comes? Do I embrace what shes doing? I am at a complete loss.\n\nAny help or suggestions are appreciated",
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"content": "I rescued this cat off the street seven years ago and begged my parents to save her. Which is why I'm responsible for my cat and will have to decide what to do about her excessive peeing problem. The thing is, she's an outdoor-indoor cat so she has never before peed in our house until recently. She has always done her business somewhere down the street from us. \n\nYesterday she peed in my sister's purse, in her bed, and on a bunch of her clothes. She jumped on the kitchen counter and peed on my nephew's baby bottles. She peed on all the towels my parents use and in their shower. She peed in all of our showers. ***That's not the worst part!*** My sister didn't realize the cat peed on her shirts (it had dried by then) and wore one of them to work. And my mother didn't know the cat peed on the towel she had used to dry herself after taking a shower - that was until she saw the kitchen and figured out the strange smell of her towel was, in fact, pee. Everyone in the house wants that cat put down.\n\nI would be the one to have to put her down and I don't want to do it. My cat is mean, she is annoying, and has ruined every couch and dining room chair we have had. Yet I don't want to put her down because in the past two months I've had four of my dogs pass away (from old age) and another one is on the way. \n\nI set up a cat litter box for now but what else can I do? Should I have her checked by the vet? (it's about $160..and $400 if they run blood tests) I've never had to euthanize a pet before but it seems so..wrong I guess to do it because of a peeing situation.",
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"content": "I've [30 M] fallen into a relationship with a wonderful smart person for about 1.5 years. In our year together I've found her to be an amazing and supportive person with a relatively good sex life (the year has been stressful for both of us so its been a little tough). She is in the hard sciences and is extremely technical minded and thats great because we always have something new to talk about. In addition to this we are long distance at the moment, but If my job hunting goes well I'll end up in a major city about 2 hours away from her (which I call a near distance relationship).\n\nNow I know appearances are not everything but its not nothing either. She is very attractive, however she does not wear clothing that is flattering to her. She does not like to spend money on anything trendy for example eye glasses that might look a little nicer even though the serve the same purpose as her unflattering eye glasses. She has also recently lost a bunch of weight so right now seems like a good time to address new cloths, because she is going to be buying some.\n\nThe problem is I recognize that her clothes and choice in accessories is a very personal choice. But i'd also like to encourage her to refine her style and clothing, but it obviously needs to be things she likes to wear and feel good in. I'd almost like to just buy her some cloths but... sizing and this kind of logistics seams weird.\n\nHow do I address the question of style with out being insulting and further more how do I do it with out overly imposing my own taste?",
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"content": "I guess I should say that I'm not constantly sad or anything even now I know my life is actually great compared to a lot of people's I just need a better mindset, so I'm not getting sad as much.\n\nMy bf of two years has cheated on me twice now with his ex that used to constantly harass me, threaten me, and even now ruin my self esteem to the point it's kind of in a pit just by being near me. I don't know why I let her effect me so much shes not cuter than me and I'm definitely better person to her, but no matter what whenever she's near I have this feeling of dread, and panic and constantly compare myself to her. \n\nWhy haven't I broken up with him? Honestly sometimes I'm not sure he really is sweet, he helps me keep from feeling alone, and I really do love him! But he doesn't text me at all when he's with his friends, which means all the time, he never wants to do anything with me aside from staying home and sleeping (I love cuddles but when he constantly talks about his adventures with his friends and then never wants to take one with me because \"there is nothing to do\" it makes me feel like I'm only there for when he's too tired to hang out with friends) and he's constantly hiding stuff from me. I know it's crap and I've tried to before, but I just get a strong feeling of dread and I just can't do it.\n\nI know my friends love me and I hang out with someone maybe once, twice a week but it's never in a group and I'm always jealous of people that can have groups of people together like that and hanging out and stuff. \n\nI guess I just want to find stuff that will improve my self esteem, and maybe help me figure out what to do with my bf.",
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"content": "Me and this girl have been chatting for awhile, and we recently made plans to go out for dinner. \n\nThis morning when I asked her where I should pick her up she was confused. The conversation went like this\n\nme: So where should I pick you up tonight\n\nher: ?\n\nme: For dinner?\n\nher: Sorry, did we make plans?\n\nme: Yeah\n\nher: Oh, I forgot :(\n\nI wound up never replying because well, what could I have said really. It's been about 12 hours and I've thought about just texting her to ask if she's actually interested because our conversations don't seem to go on for very long, but I enjoy talking to her. \n\nAnd the times that we've been together (at our mutual friends house) we've cuddled constantly. And she seemed interested at the time. \n\nI just don't know how to proceed from here, she seems like a really cool person, and it'd be awesome to go out with her because she doesn't seem turned off by my nerdy lifestyle. But at the same time it felt pretty shitty knowing she just forgot about our plans.",
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"content": "We started out taking it slow and getting to know each other. One night we started making out and she informed that she was waiting until marriage to have sex. I said it was cool, I enjoyed her company and thought she was a wonderful person. Anyway we progressed from making out to other sexual acts and we started having sex about 9 months into the relationship. It was great, we were having a healthy sexual relationship. Then she dropped a bomb on me three weeks ago... She wanted to wait until marriage to have any type of sexual relationship...\n\nShe said that was her intentions from the start and she gave into her desires. She made it clear that I did not pressure her and that she did it willingly but is now feeling guilty. She said it was how she envisioned dating. She had a long term boyfriend of 5 years before me and they were also sexually active but did not have penetrative sex.\n\nWe had lengthy discussions about it for a week. I said that I would respect her wishes and try it out but I want to keep this discussion open for the future. Three weeks in, I hate it. I don't feel comfortable around her. She gives me alot of affection and I love her dearly and want to make this work, but I cannot stand not being able to have a sexual relation. \n\nWe began seriously discussing marriage and that is something that we both want. I was going to propose in August when we were planning a vacation but now I don't how I feel. I don't think I can go without intimacy until 2017 or so... Not sure what do.",
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"content": "Alright, rewind to 3 and a half weeks ago. It's trash day. The spring thaw has yet to come at this point, and the previous evening we had some freezing rain and then later a blanket of snow to cover everything up. Normally I am one of those people who usually waits a little bit longer than they should to do household chores. Today I decide I'm going to have the trash out to the curb well before the garbage man rolls up instead of 5 minutes beforehand like I usually do. As I'm rolling along to the curb I hit a nice smooth patch of ice right on the street and fall straight on my ass. I lay there for several moments takeing in the scene around me. On my shirt and pants are now what I can only assume is soiled cat litter. Used newspapers are now blowing into the neighbor's yard, and I can just barely begin to smell the rotting food from the day before when I cleaned out the refrigerator. I slowly get up and limp back into the house, with any thought of cleaning up the mess I have just made as far off as the glass bottles that are now rolling down the hill. I quickly realized this is not going to be just a simple bruise but that I in fact broke my wrist and arm. Now here is the kicker. As my brother pulled up to my house to drive me to the ER, who else but the salt truck decides to roll up my street and plow at that very moment. If I had just waited 30 minutes like I usually do to take out the garbage I never would have fell and broke my arm. Now I'm stuck in a cast for at least 3 more weeks.",
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"content": "I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year now and things have progressed relatively quickly. Within a year, she has told me that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, eventually get married and have kids. \n\nUnfortunately, I am not yet on that level. I have fallen in love with her but this is the first time I have been in a very committed relationship. I feel that there is no way for me to know if she is 'the one' within a year's time. \n\nThis is a hot button issue for us each time it comes up. She wants reciprocity for the emotions she is feeling but I know I can't give it to her. When I start to give wishy-washy answers (because it's still a big question mark in my head), she becomes upset. It's to a point where I placate her instead of being able to talk honestly. \n\nI find the whole issue frustrating because I am happy with the relationship but feel no need to rush those questions. For her, it's frustrating because she does not want to feel as if she is wasting time with me if marriage isn't possible. \n\nI feel like this is a classic problem many young couples encounter but I am seriously stuck on how to navigate these conversations without heated arguments.",
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"content": "Some backstory\nI met an exchange student [22F], from Finland, which I have been an exchange to in the last semester. We met at a psych class and on Monday I asked for her number and dated that evening. The first date (at least in my assumption) was smooth. We walked around the campus and have some street food afterwords. I am planning to go for second date this weekend but she declined it because she wants to tour Borneo island throughout this weekend. But she is looking forward for a second date, next weekend.\n\n-end of backstory-\n\nWhich comes to my question - ah the waiting is so painful! Waiting for another week is pretty much puzzling. So I decided to keep the connection going. I texted her at least one thread a day. But I do realise that being too much pushy will make her intimidated. I mean she should have her own moment in exploring Borneo. But on the other side, I want to keep the conversation going.\n\nShould I just wait for her to come here on next Tuesday, meet her afterwords and proceed for a second date?\n\n-or-\n\nShould I keep the ball rolling by at least say \"How was your vacation so far?\" through text while anticipating her to be back to campus on Tuesday?",
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"content": "Hey PF\n\nI'm 22 years old, and have managed to drop my credit score to below 600. This started with a Best Buy Credit card that my 19 year old self \"knew\" I would be ok obtaining. I ended up unable to keep up with payments, defaulted, it went to collections, and I was eventually able to pay it off after a generous tax return, but not after taking damage from it.\n\nAlso, I am currently in a position where I am unable to make payments on my student loans, and I think this is what has wrecked me so hard. I pay my car, phone, rent, and credit card payments on time (my card is constantly maxed out as well) but my score stays low due to my student loans, which are about $7000 all together.\n\nMy reason for posting is this; What are some suggestions to getting back on track? I'm currently trying to save up to get my real estate license to bring in more money (I was offered a partnership with one of the top realtors in my area) But I'm really struggling to even put that much extra money together, which amounts to around $1400. \n\nWhat info can I give to you guys that would give enough information to get a little advice on how I can better my score and start saving better?\n\nThanks in advance, and I'm sorry for the length of the post.",
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"content": "Hello, long time reader first time poster.. My situation is this, My fiance and I are graduate students at different schools with equal credibility. I am a masters student in geophysics while she is a PhD student in social work. she constantly tells me that her program is far more rigorous than mine is even tho I have seen the work she does and I fell like I honestly can do that work in my sleep, I however tend to hide my work from her. I am in no way trying to slam any majors here. I believe that every program in college has challenges equal to the next, but it really ticks me off when she claims that I should have more time than her, and that my program is easier than hers because Im in a masters program and she is in a PhD program. I'm currently researching and writing my thesis, and she is in her first year of the program (she went through the non-thesis option for her masters btw). Also when I finish this I highly doubt that I will do this school s**t again, and when we are married and she is addressed with Dr instead of Mrs (my last name) I am afraid she will disrespect me further. How do I get her to understand that I am working just as hard as she is (probably harder but I'll settle for equality)?",
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"content": "We've been dating for 4 months, but we knew each other for several years prior to dating. Before my boyfriend went to work in the morning we had a quickie, but that left me wanting more. All day yesterday I had been telling him he left my craving more and that I wanted him when he got home at night.\n\nSo the night came, we were cudding on the couch and I made my advance. It should not have come as a surprise because I had been telling him I wanted him all day. I started kissing him and rubbing on him, but I could tell he sort of wasn't into it. I don't know why but I got really frustrated, I stood up and told him \"Fine, I see you don't want to play, so I am just going to leave you alone.\" I walked away for a few minutes and then I came to sit back down with him. At his point he had his head down and started crying. I felt really bad!\n\nI apologized and we talked. He has told me he is trying to take it slow because in his past relationships he always had a lot of sex and they ended up breaking his heart. He is somehow associating that if he has a lot of sex then the relationship will go sour. He has assured me he wants things to work out for the long haul and is serious about our relationship, I'm just trying to figure out this part.\n\nAnytime he approaches me when he is horny I am glad to satisfy him, but when I approached him last night I felt rebuffed.\n\nDid I overract? Should I try not approching him for a little while, like giving sex a break for a few days? \n\nHe is a very sensitive guy, and I know that already. I want to be considerate of his feelings. Yet at the same time I want him to understand my needs as well.",
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"content": "My daughter is 3. Her dad (23m) is dead. Her dad and I(21f) were no longer together,(we were together two years but had been broken up for two years) however I am closer to his family than my own due to years of abuse and neglect with my family.\n\nMultiple different men (26m&28m) are saying that if I want things to work out with him then I would need to cut my daughter's dad's family out of both of our lives because he and his family is going to take over their role.\n\n (Just to be clear I am not slutting around a lot, my daughter hasn't met any of these men... I just start talking to a guy, make it clear about her dad's family's role in her life and they basically tell me how they are going to take over that role and how her dad's family will start to not be involved. Then due to them saying how they don't want her dad's family in our lives I stop talking to them because I love her dad's family.)\n\nTheir basic reasoning is that her dad's family would undermine him and compare him to her deceased dad all the time. He doesn't know her dad's family and I know for a fact they never would. Also, the other part is that he believes he would become her only dad because he will be the one there for the majority of her life.. I feel as if they are wanting me to pretend her dad never existed and I don't feel comfortable with that. \n\nAm I being unrealistic thinking that all of this is wrong and that I need to avoid talking about my daughter's biological dad around her? Should I be acting like he never existed? I thought I was in the right to keep his spirit alive with my daughter because she really does act like her dad. And because I don't want her to forget him. But now I am worried that my view on this is skewed.",
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"content": "So before I start I should mention that I am bad with break ups.\n\nSo onto the fu. So yesterday i moved into my new house and the girl i was seeing lets call her Emily came round to hang out before work. Everything was fine and we were having a laugh and then she went to work, then later on i check my phone and see i have a whats app message from Emily saying that we shouldn't see each other anymore cause she wasn't ready for anything. We messaged each other about it and decided to start again as friends and see if things progressed.\n\nI was ok with the idea although i asked if we could talk about this in person as i wanted to know why the sudden change. she said yes so we planned to meet up today, however i decide that i am ready for a drink and head to the bar round the corner from my house with my flat mate i had a few too many drinks and only remember parts of the night and realized that the bar i got drunk in was where Emily worked.\n\nNow she isn't answering my texts and i think i might have done something stupid and might have lost her forever.",
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"content": "I'm a 24M in love with a 23F. I have known her for many years and have always loved her. I was really young and told her how I felt too soon. Fast forward 6 years. In that time we rarely got to hang out because of distance but we always talked a lot. In the past year I've seen her 5 times or so and we have at least kissed each time but she generally gets upset afterwards and says I don't respect her boundaries. \n\nI honestly just go by the signs she gives me. She wanted to be with me when we first met but I was about to start college so I decided not to. I regret that. We've never been officially together but have been as close to that as can be. A year after that. She went over seas and fell for someone else and broke my heart. Since then, I feel like I have idealized her and all my energy and focus has gone to trying to get her. \n\nWe have a very special connection and I always felt that if we lived close enough we would have a much better chance. I saw her today and we kissed but she just got out of a relationship and said she isn't interested in pursuing anything. Keep in mind I've known her for years and I love her more than anything. But my life has revolved around her and the rest of my life has gone to shit. I have a hard time controlling my emotions towards her. She says I don't control my desires with her and that I don't respect her. This makes her uncomfortable around me. I don't mean to be like that. She goes to school pretty far away and because of all that she is unlikely to invite me over. I can't handle hearing she's hooking up/dating other guys. I am the happiest man when I'm with her but I also feel like I deserve more. I also think I should focus on myself and become my best but that means leaving behind the woman I love most. Thoughts?",
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"content": "Last week my boss sent over 2 people to help me on a special project that was getting behind schedule. One of them I know well and the other not so much. The one I don't know very well is a white man from South Africa that left right after apartheid was abolished. Infer from that whatever you will. I had them feeding me data while I was entering it. The weird African dude wasn't doing his part right, causing me to double-check everything he was doing, completely negating any \"help\" he was supposedly providing. Instead of correcting him professionally, I jokingly told him to go back and slow way down because he's making me look bad. What I really meant was slow down and do that shit right ya moron! I just received my corrective counseling for \"unprofessional attitude and behavior which resulted in lost time and resources.\" He went back and told them I was sandbagging the whole operation apparently and \"asked not to be assigned to work under you again.\"",
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